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CONTENTS 21 THE CITY

The Wedding of Jessica Verlander and Kevin Drennan

33 THE CITY

AROUND THE WORLD Sophia Adamson and Gustavo Ganem

By MEAGAN KINLEY

By MAGGIE ASFAHANI-HAJJ

THE CITY

A Glisten-Filled

A Wedding of Fate

Country Club Wedding for Laura Carrillo and Octavio Corral By CANDACE VASQUEZ

THE CITY

The White Wedding

Brandy Gore and Vincent Knipp’s Romantic Union By VANESSA JUAREZ

98 THE LOOK

Ella Blu Bride By THE CITY

Cultures Unite in the Sun City The Wedding of Brandon and Shayda Power By ROBIN NILAND

By CANDACE VASQUEZ

78 THE CITY

A Love Story

Don and Bobbi Shapiro; A Love All Their Own By MEAGAN KINLEY

86 THE LOOK

Bridal Novias Bride By THE CITY

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122

THE CITY

FITNESS

THE LOOK

Getting Wedding Ready

By THE CITY

Choosing a Wedding Dress for Your Body Type By ANA HUESCA

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The Groom’s Responsibilities

What’s Your Bridal Style?

She Said “I Do”, Now What?

A Fashion Quiz

By JOSH SANCHEZ

By MEAGAN KINLEY

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146

152

THE CITY

IN AND OUT

The Ultimate Maid of Honor Checklist

THE WEDDING Table OCCASION

By NATALIE ROSALES

CLAUDIA MARTINEZ

What To Wear (OR NOT TO WEAR!)

156 THE CITY

David Tutera Our Man of the Hour

By CHIA STEWART AND

By MATTHEW WILKSON

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The Floral Matter This Year’s Wedding Floral Trends

By VANESSA JUAREZ

A Simple Question

A Diamond in the Rough

By JOLENE REZA KEIPP

By BRITTANY SAWREY

Local Proposal Stories

A New Look at Old Styles

By MEAGAN KINLEY

UNVEILING WEDDING CUSTOMS By GRACE THE

PSYCHIC LADY

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THE CITY

TRAVEL

THE CITY

Honeymoon Destinations

Forget Flowers

The City’s List of the Best

By BRITTANY SAWREY

The Road to Matrimony

What to do After He Pops the Question By MEAGAN KINLEY

Bouquet Alternatives

By MEAGAN KINLEY

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Wedding Color Trends for 2014 By JANNET BUSTILLOS

Big Day Hairstyles The Favors of all Favors Trips and Tricks By SHANNON

QUARTERMANE

By SARA RUEDA

Keep Calm and Let’s Party Pre-Wedding Celebrations

By LAURA WERTHMANN

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MEDICAL

Sweet Wedding

Something Old, Something New

Looking Your Best at the Wedding

Let Them Eat Cake! By LAURA WERTHMANN

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A New Twist on Tradition

By ANA HUESCA

By ENVY PLASTIC SURGERY 7

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Editor in Chief

“Marriage: a book of which the first chapter is written in poetry and the remaining chapters written in prose.” BEVERLY NICHOLS

or the first inaugural issue of The City Weddings we at The City Magazine made it our objective, our goal to answer the need for the realized fairy tale. You know what we mean. Growing up all little girls dream of their big day: the long, white flowing gown, the flowers arranged just right, Prince Charming waiting at the end of a long, golden aisle—we dream of the details and spend years yearning for it’s fruition. Well, brides of 2014, here is your official guide and Bible of El Paso Weddings! From showcasing our amazing local talent, to fabulous weddings of the past few years, to the inspiring and successful love story of Don and Bobbi Shapiro which reminds us how to face the trials and tribulations of love and life, see page 78. This brand new publication in particular could easily be a blockbuster film. If I were a famous Hollywood director I would invite you all to an unbelievable premier

But that’s only the beginning of what this piece has.

of their life story, wonderfully drawing together their

We scoured El Paso and handpicked the best upscale

breathtaking 58 years of marriage. We also have a little

vendors that have a reputation of providing exquisite

surprise up our sleeves in this issue. We were delighted

and elegant products. From hair, gowns, jewelry, cakes,

to be a part of a very special marriage proposal—the

dining wear, furniture—the works, everything you could

first of it’s kind for our publication. You will simply have

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to read on for the full details, see page 216.

your dreams truly become a reality.

But perhaps one of the most exciting parts of this

Please enjoy the first issue of The City Weddings from

compilation is David Tutera as the face launching

all of us at The City Magazine and look forward to a

The City Weddings. David is an astounding designer,

yearly Bridal Guide from us to you. Wherever you are on

artist and he simply has an eye for everything that is a

the road of love we hope this helps you dream, imagine

wedding. I have always been an avid fan of David’s and

and pursue the spectacular.

I am beyond thrilled to have him be a part of The City Weddings Event on February 21st. If you didn’t know, this is David’s first time in El Paso and we simply can’t believe he’s spending it with us!

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and the couple has been together ever

any believe the greatest loves bloom out of friendship. In

the case of Jessica Verlander Drennan and Kevin Drennan this was most certainly true.

Inspired by color and today’s trendy vintage style, Jessica knew she wanted her day to express the best of both.

Jessica and kevin met briefly in El Paso

since. For the next four years they dated until finally in January of 2012, Kevin got down on one knee and proposed. Soon after the couple set the date and the wedding planning began! Inspired by color and today’s trendy vintage

through a mutual friend who they had met at Northwood Uni-

style, Jessica knew she wanted her day to express the best

versity in Dallas. The following semester, as fate would have

of both. For inspiration she searched the web, using useful

it, they were surprised to find that they both were taking the

websites like Pinterest to hunt and organize ideas that ex-

same class at Northwood. They quickly became good friends

pressed exactly what she had always envisioned. She also

and for a whole year they both held their true feelings for

enlisted the help of Laura Carrillo: Wedding Florist, Event

each other secret until one day, they finally started dating.

Design, Furniture & Gifts and together the team got togeth-

But with school ending, Kevin would soon be moving to Can-

er and with a few creative licenses, used their vision and

ada; so with a small leap of faith, Jessica decided to join him

skill to make Jessica’s dreams become a reality.

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Many believe the greatest loves bloom out of friendship. In the case of Jessica Verlander Drennan and Kevin Drennan this was most certainly true. 23

“My favorite part of the planning

Jessica with almost everything—

process was getting to spend

from providing the flowers; which

so much time with my mom,”

were a blend of almost every bud

smiled Jessica. “We went eve-

you can imagine (dahlias, peo-

rywhere getting different decora-

nies, garden roses, and a myriad

tions; we went to Goodwill, Sav-

blend of wild flowers and more),

ers and different antique shops.

booking the evenings entertain-

We even made my bouquet

ment, down to the tables, decora-

together—we used a combina-

tions, tents, stages, as well as the

tion of fake flowers and antique

day-of coordinator, Angelica Razo.

brooches.” “I wanted everything to be very In fact, Jessica and her mother

colorful, kind of vintage-y,” re-

were very instrumental in help-

called Jessica. “I wanted to use

ing with the décor. They scoured

old, elegant furniture, but also

El Paso antique malls, chic bou-

have balloons and tassels and

tiques and other stores in sur-

lots of color, really fun and funky.

rounding cities to find the perfect

We wanted it to be different.”

vases, chandeliers, and furniture to embody the vintage feel she desired. Working with a deli-

With Carrillo’s help Jessica got her wish. Carrillo was able

cate pastel color palette; with light pinks, soft oranges, baby

to spice up her wedding with a number of wonderfully

blues and more, the wedding quickly began to take form.

unique pieces. To achieve the desired color effect during the ceremony, Carrillo and her team actually hand tied the

“The arrangements were reflective of her and her person-

hundreds of different colors of ribbon together to create the

ality,” said Laura Carrillo. “It was her vision.” Carrillo helped

beautiful overhead effect. Her wedding favors, which were

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custom-made Coca-Cola bottles, were actu-

At 4:30, the ceremony began. After a sweet

ally imported from Jean Paul Gaultier in Paris,

moment of watching their daughter Emma

France. Another of her favors were “mint to

pulled in a custom-made wagon by the ring

be” mints wrapped in vintage paper with an

bearer, Jessica accompanied by her father,

embellishment of glitter. Every detail was

walked down the aisle. Soon after, the cou-

carefully completed to perfection

ple took their vows and the new Mr. and Mrs. Drennan and their guests danced the

When the big day finally arrived, Jessica and

night away listening to live performances

her bridal party (her best friend and Kevin’s

from The Dirty River Boys, The Candace

two sisters) were able to sit back and enjoy

Reyes Jazz Band, and the Larry T. Byrd Gor-

the morning.

dan Band.

“We all got ready at the venue,” Jessica re-

Altogether the wedding was a huge suc-

membered. “We got our hair and make up

cess and will not soon be forgotten by

done—and it was just a nice relaxing day, all

Kevin, Jessica, or any of the guests that

the set up was done the night before so the

were in attendance.

day-of went smoothly.”

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anguish, etsy.CoM

Videographer: jorge jayMe – jC Video

Cake: sweet’art festiVe Cakes by

Stylist: jessiCa aVila

thierry oPPenheiMer

Catering: Coronado Country Club

Day‑of Coordinator: angeliCa razo

Coordinator: laura Carrillo: wedding florist,

entertainment: the dirty riVer boys, the CandaCe

eVent design, furniture & gifts

reyes jazz band and larry t. byrd gordan band

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A G U AT E M A L A N D E S T I N AT I O N W E D D I N G

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A Guatemalan Destination Wedding

ophia Adamson, owner of Ella Blu Bridal and Bou-

The location was important to Adamson, not only for its se-

tique, did not just want a destination wedding. She

rene setting but also for its world-famous Spanish Colonial

wanted her guests to enjoy days filled with unforget-

architecture.

table experiences, adventures, and love in celebration of her February 2013 marriage to Gustavo Ganem, owner of Com-

“My biggest concern was accommodating all the people in

mercial Carpet and Tile.

one hotel, and providing transportation all four days,” she said.

“My wedding was in Antigua, Guatamala and it was a four day event,” Adamson said.

“I wanted everyone to have a cultural experience as well as a wedding experience, and really get to know one another.” The event was a unique celebration of the couple’s long his-

“I decided to get married in a destination location that was

tory. Adamson and Ganem met as eight-year-olds on the lo-

accessible on a one-stop flight (from El Paso). My mom, my

cal tennis circuit, and grew to be best friends in college. It

fiancé and I had been to Antigua and we just absolutely fell

wasn’t until 2005 that they started dating, and seven years

in love with it and decided it was the perfect location.”

later, became engaged.

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"...I just picked out literally my dream ring..."

“We went to our favorite restaurant, Café Italia, with my parents,” Adamson said. “I’m very close to my parents, and I knew that something was a little suspicious. My dad was like, ‘Is there something special going on this weekend?’ And my mom kind of kicked him underneath the table to switch the conversation. The next day Gustavo flew me out to San Diego, and told me to pick my dream ring out. He didn’t give me a budget or anything, so I just picked out literally my dream ring.”

"We dated for seven years. Everything in our wedding had the number seven symbolically involved in one way or the other” Adamson wanted her wedding to reflect her long relationship, and to incorporate things that she and Ganem loved. “We dated for seven years. Everything in our wedding had the number seven symbolically involved in one way or the other,” said Adamson. Wedding planner Aurora Perez Smith, originally from El Paso but now based out of Houston, helped Adamson’s vision come together. “One of the things Sophia and Gustavo wanted was for it to be indigenous, and for it to be part of the local flavor,” she said. “They didn’t want to come and bring American culture to Guatemala, because that’s not what it’s about. We only travelled with two vendors: my team, and the videography team. Other than that, we hired all local vendors.” “Two hundred guests came to the wedding, and so what we did was plan everything from the guest’s arrival, to transportation, to every single day of the event,” Perez Smith continued. “It happened to be Valentine’s Day, so we did a welcome reception, and a tornaboda after the wedding. We wanted to create things that depending on who you were or who you were travelling with, there was something for everybody.”

Even before the event itself, guests knew they were in for a treat. “My save the date were custom-made burlap bags with my logo, and everything had an S with a 7 in the middle and a G on the right hand side that I got custom designed,” Adamson said. “We had Antiguan Guatemalan coffee beans inside each bag. My invitation was a custom-made box with my label.” The festivities began on a Thursday morning with a welcome reception. In the evening, a Valentine’s party, complete with mariachis, hors d’oeuvres, and a DJ entertained guests into the late hours. The party theme continued when guests arrived in their rooms for the night. “In each room every night, they would go to bed and each person would have a custom gift in their room,” Adamson said. “One night was a custom lotion and body scrub, another one was a Guatemalan cookie, another one was a door tag, another one was a luggage tag, another a pin. And we had midnight snacks in every room every night.” As Friday morning dawned, custom tours were made available to the guests, including golf, a volcano hike, a sewing tour, and yoga. There was also

“I had an outdoor Catholic Mass in the middle of a jungle”

a market set up at the hotel by the indigenous people of the area. Friday evening was the rehearsal dinner hosted by Ganem’s parents, giving guests a chance to unwind after a long day. “It was at the largest coffee plantation in Central America,” Adamson said. “We had a huge tent with everyone invited. We had a coffee bar, a cigar bar and a DJ as well. We also had custom vehicles kind of like a safari tour.” The wedding itself took place on Saturday. “I had an outdoor Catholic Mass in the middle of a jungle,” said Adamson. “From there we had buses transferring us

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"I wanted everyone to feel like they were in Guatemala. We had over 50 to 60 waiters all dressed in Guatemalan clothes, and it was the ﬁrst wedding they had had there that incorporated their culture." to the oldest cathedral in Central America, and (the guests)

Adamson made sure the foods served were all fresh and or-

walked in to a super elegant cocktail with Michael Bublé and

ganic, and that every possible desire was catered to, includ-

Celine Dion music. The wedding was an extravagant and el-

ing gelato, fruit, and churro stations alongside a six-course

egant affair, full of intentional surprises,” Adamson said.

meal. A Guatemalan live band played to the crowd, and artists dressed as nuns, priests, and city folk from the 1600s

“We started the evening with our first dance, and then my

served as ushers. As the dinner went on, the dance area

dad and I’s dance. Twenty minutes later, these clowns on

was transformed into a lounge, and the party continued until

stilts arrived to announce the dinner. The guests all thought

late in the evening, culminating in an early morning snack.

they were going to sit at a regular wedding table until they walked in and saw we had the tables arranged into a giant

“They put out illuminated couches, and we had a live band

‘X’. It was like a carnival.”

until two in the morning,” Adamson said. “At two in the morning, we had chicken buses (traditional, colorfully paint-

Local culture and customs were a big part of the celebra-

ed Guatemalan school buses) pick us up and then take us to

tions. “I wanted everyone to feel like they were in Guatema-

the hotel, which was all to ourselves. The party lasted until

la. We had over 50 to 60 waiters all dressed in Guatemalan

five in the morning. We had another DJ there, and we gave

clothes, and it was the first wedding they had had there that

all the guests fresh tamales and chicken soup, which is like

incorporated their culture,” Adamson said.

their menudo to us, and then everyone went to bed.”

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“We had a huge tent with everyone invited. We had a coffee bar, a cigar bar and a DJ as well. We also had custom vehicles kind of like a safari tour.” For most people, three days of nonstop activity would prove to be almost too much, but not for the intrepidly adventurous Adamson. “Sunday morning, everybody woke up and we had a huge brunch with live music as well,” she said. “We were so lucky to observe the Catholic procession of Lent there, which is the second largest in the world. After brunch we walked all twelve blocks of the town together, and we were able to see what the whole experience of Lent is in Guatemala.” Having a front row seat to the bridal business gave Adamson the insight into what makes a perfect wedding, and as she sees it, the answer is the same for everyone. “I just think weddings should be fun, and should be all about the bride and groom,” she said.

"I just think weddings should be fun, and should be all about the bride and groom."

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ove and the very thought of the possibility of binding one's soul to another has the remarkable ability of making hearts sing music never orchestrated and of inspiring minds to create dreams of grand and vivid visions of today and every tomorrow. Colors become that much more vibrant and a bird's song infinitely more melodic -- all inspired by the feelings and hopes incited by the emotional and chemical reactions to love.

Love began to blossom in November 2007 for

began to like her more and more but was hes-

Laura Carrillo (daughter of the highly-esteemed

itant to ask her out knowing I would be going

local wedding florist and event designer of

back to Austin. During the Christmas break

the same name) and Octavio Corral, local

however, I began making work connections

businessman and graduate of UT Austin,

and eventually was able to secure a website

when the two first met. "I had just graduated

contract. My brother returned to Austin and

from UT Austin in May 2007 and together

I stayed in El Paso. I told him I would head

with my brother decided to start our web &

back to Austin as soon as I finished the web-

video

production

site. Long story short, I

com-

pany in Austin," recalled Corral. "In November 2007, I got a call from my cousin Maricarmen saying she and a friend were going to

"We had some laughs and after that moment I knew we were going to have a good time"

be visiting Austin for the first time that weekend."

decided to ask out Laura, the business took off in El Paso, and I never ended up going back to Austin!" For some couples there is a defining moment when

Octavio was excited about the opportunity

their significant other transforms in their

of showing them what Austin had to offer. "I

mind's eye from girlfriend or boyfriend to "The

picked them both up at the airport, and was

One". For others, a blossoming and naturally

introduced to Laura for the first time in Span-

metamorphic effect takes place. For Octavio

perfectionist in everything he does. It helps

ish. My first question to her was, 'Do you

and Laura, it was the latter. "From the mo-

me be more organized and focused since I

speak English?' She replied with, 'UH YEAH!

ment I decided to ask her out, I knew she had

am neither of those things!"

OF COURSE I SPEAk ENGLISH! I WENT TO

the potential to be the one," shared Corral. "I

ASU!' We had some laughs and after that

wouldn't say there was an exact moment, but

When time came to propose, Octavio sur-

moment I knew we were going to have a

more of a gradual process. Every conversa-

prised Laura with a princess cut diamond ring

good time. I gave them a tour of Austin -- took

tion I had with her revealed something new

inspired by one of Laura's favorite architects,

them to eat the best food, took a nature walk

that I fell in love with; her smile, her intelli-

Frank Ghery. "I proposed to Laura at the Aus-

along Barton Creek, visited the Botanical Gar-

gence, her family. This list piled up quickly."

tin City Limits Music Festival in September

dens, went to 6th Street, and did some kay-

"For me," shared Laura, "I think it was when

2011 in front of all of our friends," Corral hap-

aking just before taking them to the airport."

I realized we brought the best out of each

pily recalled. "Prior to this, I had told all of our

other. We push ourselves to excel in each of

friends how I would be doing it so everyone

"After that weekend, we stayed in contact and

our fields but we are both super supportive

was prepared for the moment. About 20 of

saw each other again during the Thanksgiving

of whatever goals the other person wants to

our friends and family "conveniently" all met

and Christmas holidays," Corral continued. "I

achieve. I love the fact that Octavio is such a

up in the middle of the park and we started 47

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taking photos. I asked a friend if he could take a photo of just Laura and I. All of our friends stepped back behind the camera as we smiled and took a photo. Just before the photo, I told Laura to hold on because I needed to get something out of my backpack. I got down on one knee, proposed, and we got a great photo of the proposal." The wedding planning process was one which manifested with some expected pressure, but was juxtaposed by just as much fanciful ease that's found in the thoughts of a little girl who wistfully dreams of lace, veils and flowers years before actually meeting her prince charming. "Growing up as the daughter of a recognized wedding designer, the pressure was mostly on my mom to create the 'dream wedding'," explained Carrillo. "Everybody was intrigued by how we would handle that type of pressure! In the end it was more than anything I could've imagined." On January 14, 2012, Laura Carrillo, wearing a stunning Vera Wang gown, stood beside Octavio "Chops" Corral in front of 375 guests at Coronado Country Club and became husband and wife. "For about ten seconds, I forgot that there were about 200 people in the room," Corral shared as he recounted seeing his bride for the very first time that day. "And

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"I wanted something where people could feel like they were in a garden"

Venue: Coronado Country Club Photographer: Cristina naVarro

I thought, 'Wow, this is really happening!’”

Laura's tip to other brides who are venturing

added Carrillo dreamily.

to plan their weddings:

Laura and Octavio's wedding and reception,

"Unless your wedding is under 100 people,

both entirely beautiful and whimsical, were

don't even bother with a seating chart. You

the manifestations of Laura and her incred-

don't know who is going to show up or not

ibly talented mother's imaginations. "I really

regardless of RSVPs. It was stressing me

Country Club

wanted a simple wedding," explained Carril-

out up to the very day of the wedding until I

lo. "I wanted something where people could

decided to quit worrying about it and threw

Tables/Décor: laura Carrillo

feel like they were in a garden. My mom

away the list. I just told the venue, 'Reserve

designed beautiful wooden tables and used

a table for our grandmas and parents and

only white, ivory and lime green for the cen-

everyone else can just find somewhere to

Wedding Cake: terry oPPenheiMer

terpieces. The bistro lights in the clear tent

sit.' It ended up working out great since eve-

made it feel like we were under the stars. It

ryone was dancing and socializing the major-

DJ and Lighting: niels CarrasCo

was amazing. And the fact that our families

ity of the night."

and closest friends were there to celebrate

Stylist: jessiCa aVila and sergio zaMarriPa Flowers: laura Carrillo designs Catering: Coronado

Wedding Coordinator: angeliCa razo @ Mint weddings

Jazz Band: billy townes Choir: destiny faMily ChurCh

with us was the icing on the cake."

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a Wedding of fate By: CandaCe Vasquez | Photography by: adrianne riley

Chemistry, by scientiﬁc standards, with a little thought and logic, is easily manufactured. Chemistry, by love’s standards, is something not so easily happened upon. A near precise alignment of physical attraction, likeminded aspirations, a complementary sense of humor, challenging intellects, all perfectly and adequately mixed in with that certain “je nais se quoi”, sometimes results in a pairing which leads to that long-awaited and heavily pined after “happily ever after.” For Lauren Francis Steinmann and John Steinmann, who

so well that we shut the bar down and talked for another

were both born and raised in El Paso, the perfect alignment

hour in the parking lot. We then went out every night for

of timing and chemistry were involved when the time

the rest of the week...and the rest is history.”

came for the two of them to meet. “In October 2011, my Grandmother went in to get her teeth cleaned at the

While every element seemed to be strategically in place

dentist,” shared Lauren. “While she was walking out of the

for the two to be together, distance, at the time, was not.

treatment room, John walked in to get the dentist (John’s

“So the first year of dating was long distance,” Lauren

dad) to sign a form. My grandmother then suggested that

recounted. “John lived in El Paso and I lived in Austin. After

John and I should meet. A few weeks later, John sent me a

lots of travel and large phone bills, something needed to

text message suggesting a meet up. When I returned home

change -- one of us needed to move so that things could

to El Paso for Thanksgiving break, John and I met up for a

progress. We made the decision that I was going to move

drink one night after John got out of work. The date went

back to El Paso.”

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Little did Lauren know, John, along with his mother

to meet with the jeweler (Flores Jewelers) several

and Lauren’s mother and grandparents, had all been

times, all without me even having a clue. They looked

quietly working on a special project that would result

at tons of samples and sketched out the ideas. John

in a perfect engagement ring, which stuns both visually

decided on a design and the production began.”

and sentimentally. “The engagement ring has three diamonds,” Lauren warmly shares. “One is from my

“As plans started to come together and as I was doing

grandparents, who have collected a special stone for

final prep work to put my condo on the market, John

each of their four grandkids. John had to go visit with

came to Austin to visit and help with some of the

them in order to get it without me even knowing. The

last few projects,” Lauren recalled. “On November 9,

second diamond was pulled from John’s late grand-

2012, John surprised me with dinner reservations at

mother’s ring that she left for him to treasure. The

one of my favorite Austin restaurants, Uchiko. After

third diamond was purchased by John to represent us.

a great date, we returned to my condo while waiting

Family is super important to us and the ring reminds

on friends who were driving in from San Antonio to

us every day just how important they are.”

see us. John then pulled out one of my bracelets that was supposed to be at the jewelers in El Paso since

“For the design of it, John took his mom and my mom

the clasp had broken; he had gone to pick it up as a

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surprise. After helping me put it on, John then asked me

“Lauren looked gorgeous,” John chimed in. “I was focused

to come look at ring designs. When I reminded him that he

on her the entire time.”

was supposed to do that all on his own, he said he thought he had his favorite picked out and turned around. Seconds

Following the ceremony, plans had been laid for a spectacular

later, he was on one knee with a small box in-hand. No

reception at Lauren’s family’s private residence set atop

one else was around, but it didn’t matter, it was so special.”

the Franklin Mountains. With a color palette that included an elegant blend of silver and white with the tasteful and

On July 4, 2013, after months of planning, John and Lauren

understated integration of the color blue, the couple’s favorite

were wed at St. Clement’s Church in a beautiful ceremony in

color, the evening unveiled itself as a fabulous event, which

the presence and with the support of a large number of both

was one to be remembered.

friends and family. “The whole day was amazing,” Lauren

beamed. “By the time the ceremony began, I couldn’t wait

“Because we had been to weddings with different themes,

to see John. When the doors opened at the back of the

we knew we wanted people to come and have fun and not

church, the pews were full but I could still see John waiting

feel like they had to rush out the door,” explained Lauren.

for me at the end. My dad kept me from running to the

“We tried to think of everything to keep folks around.” Some

front like I wanted to. It was a special moment, for sure.”

of those details included having three babysitters on site who

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kept the younger guests entertained with movies, crafts

night -- even my 81-year-old grandmother was dancing

and games in a special “kid zone”, baskets of dollar store

the night away.”

flip flops adorned with ribbon to help aid those whose feet were aching, free valet, several bars, “Nobody likes

When asked about any particular detail of the wedding

to stand in a long line for a drink,” shared Lauren and a

that went terribly wrong, yet offered a sense of character

complimentary coat and bag check so that people were

and added to the memorability of the day, Lauren and

free to move about without encumbrance.

John both had the perfect story to tell. “When it was time to throw the bouquet, I went up to a staircase,” Lauren

With all bases covered, guests were free to enjoy their

shared. “Not fully thinking about it, I turned my back and

evening, which included an appearance by an Austin

tossed the bouquet above my head and backwards. The

band whose set list was a hit amongst guests. “We had

problem was that there was a chandelier in the way. It

contracted them to play for five hours, but our guests

got stuck! It was too high for anyone to get it out. We

were having so much fun that we extended them an extra

grabbed a nearby flower arrangement and had a do-over

hour,” recalls Lauren. “The dance floor was packed all

-- this time throwing out instead of up. Because the

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reception was at my parents’ house, they watched

the fireworks all around us, we wanted to be sure

it dry while we were on our honeymoon. When they

that everyone was out in the back when they went

noticed that it was starting to fall, they decided to

off. We got to see fireworks from Santa Teresa all

wire it in…so it will forever be a part of the chandelier.

the way over to Ysleta.”

Now every time we see it, we laugh -- it’s a great conversation piece!”

In all the shining splendor of the day, the crowning jewel was undoubtedly the realization and reality of

As a beautiful serenade from the surrounding cities,

the fact that they were officially husband and wife.

4th of July fireworks popped off in the distance during

“I married the guy of my dreams,” exclaimed Lauren.

the Steinmann’s reception. “We planned the reception around the fireworks,” explained Lauren. “Since

Lauren’s advice to other brides who are venturing to

we were on the top of the mountain and could see

plan their weddings:

“Enjoy it! You spend months planning the perfect day and when it comes, it flies by. Treasure every second of it.”

Photography: ADRIANNE RILEY

Ceremony Location: ST. CLEMENT’S CHURCH

Coordinator/Decor: CHIA STEWART, TABLE OCCASIONS Makeup: TAMIKA COLE (MAC – MACY’S)

Hair: MALENA SANDOVAL (BARRAGAN’S) Flowers: FIORI EVENTS AND FLOWERS

Wedding Dress: MARTINA LILIANA Cake: ELITE EVENTS

Limousine service: PREMIER LIMOUSINE

Band: LONDON CALLING, AUSTIN, TX

The City Spaces Home & Design

| By VANESSA JUAREZ |

Whimsical and romantic, Brandy and Vincent Knipp’s special day was a demonstration of the couples’ elegant taste, fun personalities and fairy-tale love

t the end of that warm August night, set against

But before there was a wedding day filled with cake pops,

the rolling green hills of the El Paso Country

white umbrellas, an entryway made of flowing fabric

Club, Vincent and Brandy Knipp’s friends and

and a multi-flavored wedding cake, there was first a love

family could describe the couple’s whole wedding cel-

story that began in El Paso between Brandy Gore, 27, and

ebration with just a few words – warmly romantic,

Vincent Knipp, 28.

wonderfully whimsical and above all, the best party of the summer.

Brandy, a nurse who is now working toward her doctorate degree at Texas Christian University and Vincent, a

For Brandy, the night’s blushing bride, 10 months of plan-

commercial real estate broker educated at UT Austin,

ning her special day more than paid off as she witnessed

first crossed paths throughout middle and high school.

her dream wedding come true right before her eyes.

But their fairy tale wouldn’t truly begin until one winter break midway through Brandy’s college career at TCU.

“I remember walking into the reception at the Country Club and it just took my breath away,” Brandy said.

“I went with some friends to a local bar on Christmas

“Everything turned out better than I expected. Even my

night and met Vince there,” Brandy said. “Things started

mom cried happy tears because we finally saw what we

really slowly and then we began dating. Our relationship

had envisioned nearly all year long come true.”

then became long distance when we returned to college

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and we did that for two years. It was so tough to be apart but

Vincent then asked Brandy if she and Willy, her pet Chihuahua,

when he moved to Fort Worth to be with me after he graduated,

would be apart of his family. Brandy said yes and soon after a

I knew that this was serious.”

date and location was set for the wedding – August 9, 2013 in the place that Vincent and Brandy called home – El Paso, Texas.

After eight years of learning about each other, finishing school and starting careers, Brandy says she was completely caught

Upon her return to Fort Worth, Brandy began to make prepara-

off guard when Vincent proposed to her Sept. 28, 2012 on a

tions for their big day, with the help of her mother, Jane, her

sandy beach near San Diego.

sister, Amber and her wedding planners, Eventures El Paso. Whitmore was also Brandy’s florist and made her vision a reality.

“San Diego is our favorite vacation destination and we were going to celebrate my admittance to grad school,” Brandy said.

“I thought I was going to go with purple hues for the wedding

“We drove to a part of San Diego called La Jolla. We had dinner

but then I completely changed my mind and decided to do

and were roasting s’mores, listening to music and drinking

everything in whites, gold and champagne,” Brandy said. “I

wine on the beach.”

wanted a very dramatic look that was warm, romantic and clean. I did a combination of white flowers and garden roses

Brandy was so caught up in the beauty of the beach and the

in my bouquet.”

moment that she didn’t realize Vincent had placed that telltale, little, square black box on the table between them.

From the tablecloths and settings to flower arrangements and bridesmaids’ dresses, Brandy stayed true to her chosen color

“Vince says I didn’t realize the box was sitting there for about

palette and ended up with a stunning and strikingly beautiful

10 minutes,” Brandy said with a laugh. “He says he was glad I

reception. Vincent and Brandy decided that the ceremony would

took so long to notice it because that whole time he was getting

be held at Vincent’s church, Queen of Peace Catholic Church, a

himself together. He chugged a bunch of water and was acting

beautiful parish in the Coronado area with high ceilings, plenty

weird, but I didn’t catch on until he got down on one knee.”

of natural light and bright stained glass .

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“Father Trini married us and was so kind to me even though I wasn’t Catholic,” Brandy said. “They never pressured me and welcomed me with open arms.” To capture all of the excitement, elegance and special

To also chronicle the special day, Brandy and Vincent hired

moments of the day, Brandy looked to French photog-

videographer Jorge Jayme of JC Video Productions.

rapher Stephane Lemaire, a native of Paris living in El

Jayme also managed the lighting at the reception and

Paso. Lemaire’s beautiful photos look like they are ripped

other unique graphic elements like projecting Brandy and

from the pages of a fashion magazine and his ability to

Vincent’s name onto the wooden dance floor of the El

effectively shoot both posed portraits and candid shots

Paso Country Club in a beautiful, custom-made design.

in any lighting made him the best choice.

The romantic warmth of the reception was made possible through the white and champagne hues of the

“He’s the most amazing photographer. I want to give him

floral centerpieces, shimmering chandeliers and table

so much credit for this wedding,” Brandy said. “I would

settings engineered by Chia Stewart of Table Occasions

refer anyone to him. He has a very different style as a

along with Eventures.

wedding photographer and is so creative and artistic, but very kind and professional.”

Brandy’s stunning white, floor-length wedding gown, with its classic corset, strapless neckline, and flattering sheath

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shape was chosen at a wedding boutique in Dallas called Patsy’s

When guests arrived at the reception, they were given cake pops that

Bridal Boutique. The champagne, one-strap, floor-length bridesmaids’

told them which table they were assigned to and were also delighted

dresses were also purchased here. Brandy’s elegant, but natural look,

to eat their treats. A night of great food and flavors, not your typical

was created by hair stylist and makeup artist Jessica Avila of MAC

wedding dinner, was waiting for the guests. El Paso Country Club

Cosmetics. “At first I thought I was going to do my hair up but on

Food and Beverage Director Dieter Gerards prepared a meal that

the day of the wedding, I changed everything and decided to go with

included ceviche, filet mignon in a chipotle chili rub, a fried potato

a half up, half down look with curls framing my face,” Brandy said. “I

mash, green chili mac and cheese, salad served in a basket and a

just wanted to look like me, like how Vince knows me.”

sorbet of tequila lime.

The whimsical twist to Brandy’s wedding was best demonstrated in the custom entryway made of billowing, flowing white drapes

“Food was really important to us. Vince and I love food and we wanted

that led the wedding party from the outside world into the fairy tale

the dinner to be an experience in itself for our guests,” Brandy said.

fantasy of the ballroom reception. The idea to include this unique

“We didn’t want them to rush through it, but instead take longer to

structure was all her mother’s creation.

taste each course and even pair the food with different wines, which we had available.”

“I think she saw the idea on Pinterest and showed it to me,” Brandy said. “I loved it but I didn’t know how she was going to make that

The wedding cake, as unique as the bride herself, was created by

happen. My mom was completely involved in the wedding but her

Chris Carpenter. The five-layered cake was completely white and

vision of this tunnel of fabric was all her. The one that she made was

decorated with different textures on each layer – smooth with a

identical to the picture she saw online, except better!”

pearly sheen, roses and lace. The outside reflected what was inside the cake – three different flavors.

Also adorning the entryway where beautiful white umbrellas hung upside down from tree branches at the El Paso Country Club. The

“I couldn’t decide on my favorite flavor for the cake, so I decided to

sweet playfulness of this simple touch demonstrated Brandy and

put red velvet on the first layer, carrot cake on the second and Italian

Vince’s personalities, dazzled guests and made for a great backdrop

wedding cake on the third. The flavors repeated after that,” Brandy

for fun pictures.

said. “It was delicious!”

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Project Coordinator: Ladonna Apodaca Photographer: Stephane Lemaire Coordinator/Flowers: Eventures El Paso Videographer: Jorge Jayme of JC Video Productions Tables/DĂŠcor: Table Occasions Cake: Chris Carpenter Hair/Makeup: Jessica Avila, MAC Location: El Paso Country Cub

The most romantic and emotionally moving part

Top 40 hits to oldie classics. Brandy and Vince

of the night came with Brandy and Vincent’s first

again demonstrated their playful personalities by

dance, which was to Ray LeMontagne’s “You are

handing out glow stick necklaces, gold fedora-

the Best Thing,” and Brandy’s daddy-daughter

shaped hats and silly glasses to everyone on

dance with her father.

the dance floor.

“My dad made a mix of songs that we danced to

“It was important to Vince that everyone in-

together,” said Brandy, a self-proclaimed daddy’s

teracted together at the dance,” Brandy said.

girl. “It was so sweet because each song had

“Everyone danced all night, young and old, and

a memory associated with it. The last song on

had a blast.”

the mix was the classic ‘What the World Needs Now is Love.’”

The whirlwind, fairy tale night came to an end when Brandy and Vincent emerged from the

After the dinner, the night came alive with the

hall through their draped entryway, serenaded

music of Limelight from Dallas, the band that

away by a member of Limelight and his trumpet.

Brandy and Vincent chose to play their wedding.

Guests wished them well with sparklers that lit

The band, dressed completely in white to go

up the summer night and sent the couple into

with Brandy’s theme, played everything from

their promising future together as man and wife.

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CULTURES UNITE IN THE SUN CITY at the Wedding of Brandon and Shayda Power By: ROBIN NILAND | Photography By: JESSICA ALMADA

rom their new home in our nation’s capital, Brandon and Shayda Power take a few moments out of a busy workday to reminisce about their recent wedding in El Paso. “I wanted everyone to have a good time,” Shayda said of the evening. “The night was about people enjoying themselves. I wanted everyone to be able to enjoy each other’s presence and not worry about getting too dressed up--or even wearing a tie!” The vibe may have been relaxed, but everything from the sunset ceremony to the catered dinner exuded casual elegance. Shayda said, “My idea was a simple dinner in the backyard, but when I walked out I was completely blown away.”

looking for a wedding planner when

part of the job, so turning their family

he suggested I do it myself,” Lynda

home into the perfect venue for her

recalls. She already had a color

son’s wedding came very naturally.

It’s not surprising that the bride and

scheme in mind and knew that she

groom were “blown away” by how

wanted to utilize certain elements

The groom was walked down the

everything came together for their

of her backyard that overlooks a golf

isle by his parents, Steven and

big night: the groom’s mother who

course, so with help from a few local

Lynda Power, followed by the bride’s

planned and coordinated the event,

professionals, she set her plan in

mother, Jan Sadeghian, escorted

is local interior designer Lynda Power.

motion. As an interior designer, cre-

by her son, Kayvon Sadeghian. The

“I told the floral designer that I was

ating elegant and warm spaces is

bride, wearing a white floor-length

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Sue Wong gown and carrying a hand-tied bouquet of Calla

Shayda. Brandon agreed with the calm atmosphere of

lilies and bear grass, was escorted down the isle by her

the vows, but remembers one slightly tense moment: a

father, Kian Sadeghian. The wedding ceremony was very

mix-up with the rings. “I thought our legal officiant, Judge

personal and included vows from the bride’s Baha’i Faith,

Alex Gonzalez, had them and he thought I had them!” said

as well as readings from Christian, Jewish, Muslim and

Brandon. “It was uncomfortable for about 30 seconds,

Buddhist traditions since one of the major tenants of the

but we got them out of the house just a few steps away,

Baha’i Faith is the unity of religion. The groom’s mother

so it was a pretty mild hitch.” The nuptials concluded with

described the wedding as a “blending of cultures.” Shayda

their walk down the isle as man and wife to a song written

is Persian-American and Brandon is Mexican-American and

especially for them by Bill Hughes.

aspects of both cultures were incorporated into the cer-

emony and reception. The bride and groom stood under a

Following the ceremony was a buffet dinner catered by The

canopy of flowers and draped ivory fabric for the ceremony.

Magic Bistro. Mixed vegetables and two different tossed

Friends and family of both the bride and the groom took

salads complimented signature dishes such as Acapulco

part in the service by reading prayers and meditations

Chicken, green chile mashed potatoes, and beef tender-

from different world faiths. A friend of the groom who is

loin with a mushroom-wine sauce. The table decor was

a classically trained opera singer sang “Hallelujah.” “The

handled by Chia Stewart of Table Occasions and included

whole ceremony was very serene and peaceful,” said

silk tablecloths, napkins, and chair embellishments in a

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combination of cream and rusty brown.

. . with a sign that said ‘Congratulations

The floral arrangements on the tables

Mom and Dad!’”

were created by Lynn at Fiori Flower Studio and included lilies, roses, and

The newly married couple’s first dance

ornamental grasses to compliment the

was to a rendition of Bob Schneider’s

earthy tones of the table linens. Plenty

“40 Dogs (Like Romeo and Juliet),” ar-

of candles illuminated the darkening sky

ranged and sung by Bill Hughes who is

and cast a gentle glow as the guests

a close friend of Brandon’s. The dancing

enjoyed dinner. The sun slowly setting

continued into the night and included

behind the Franklin Mountains provided

Persian music and dancing as well as

the perfect backdrop for the laid-back,

Mexican and American wedding tradi-

yet very elegant, dinner reception.

tions. Guests traveled to El Paso from all over the world--as far as Dubai--so it was important to the groom’s family that they get a taste of El Paso. Lynda said the wedding was truly a three-day event with dinners and sightseeing planned for each of the three days. A tour of historic El Paso sights, golf outings, a trip to Old Mesilla, and even folklorico dancers were all part of the El Paso experience. She said she hoped to show people that El Paso is a great place to visit.

The dessert table was set under a

“Everyone said they would definitely

pergola decorated with a crystal chan-

come back!”

delier, panels of silk fabric in the same shades as the tables, and delicious

From the friends and family who read

sweets of all kinds. The wedding cake

for the ceremony, sang for the newly

was a three-tired vanilla cake with peach

married couple, or planned the event

ginger filling, covered in light brown

from start to finish (thanks, Mom!),

frosting and decorated with fondant

the wedding of Brandon and Shayda

flowers and a delicate scroll pattern.

Power was personal in every way. It

The groom’s cake was Mexican choco-

was very important to both the bride

late topped with a large brown fondant

and the groom that the evening be

bow. Both cakes were created by Thierry

very meaningful and enjoyable for their

Oppenheimer at Sweet ‘Art in El Paso.

guests. The bride’s wish for a simple

In addition to two cakes, the dessert

ceremony incorporating beliefs impor-

table included strawberries dipped in

tant to her and her husband-to-be, the

both white and dark chocolate and indi-

groom’s wish for a fun evening in which

vidual cupcakes. Lynda, knowing how

his friends could take part, and both of

important Brandon and Shayda’s three

their family’s wishes for a special start

dogs are to them, did something unique

to their new lives together were all real-

and special: “I had dog-face cupcakes

ized in one beautiful fall night under the

made for each one of their three dogs .

El Paso stars.

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Coordinator: LYNDA POWER

Photographers: JESSICA ALMADA AND MARTHA MARTINEZ

Videographer: KARIM FERNANDEZ

Lighting and DJ: CHRIS FERRIS OF CEDAR

ENTERTAINMENT PRODUCTIONS OF EL PASO

Flowers: FIORI FLOWER STUDIO

Cake:THIERRY OPPENHEIMER, SWEET ‘ART

Table Decor: CHIA STEWART, TABLE OCCASIONS

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any people look to books and blockbust-

parents (stories ranging from his great-grandfather, Her-

er movies to hear stories of true love

man Chlebowsky receiving the Iron Cross twice in the

and romance when little do they know

Franco-Prussian war, how his family came to America

the most authentic and sweetest stories

in 1870 to flee the early signs of Jewish anti-Semitism,

lay hidden in their own backyard.

how his grandfather Henry Le-

Concealed in the windswept city

boust served in the Spanish-

of El Paso, is the story of one

American War and rode with

couple that have really loved and

Teddy Roosevelt and the rough

lived a life right out of a fairytale.

riders—as well as a myriad of other adventures), I was swept

When talking to Don and Bobbi Shapiro about their 58

up in the overall feel and vivacity of Shapiro and the

years of marriage, you can see a glint of sincerity and

love and devotion he held for not only his wife, but for

fondness in their eyes. “I’ve been very delighted with

his entire family—specifically his mother and father.

my entire life. It has been a dream,” Don began. As he

In fact, Don Shapiro’s parents, met in a way that was

explained his life, the journey and struggles of his grand-

quite prophetic of how Don would later meet Bobbi.

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“My father’s name was Ira Shapiro. They

From there, Don and his siblings were born.

were brought up on a farm in New Milford,

Don grew up in New York City and went on to

Connecticut. At 17 he was offered a job in

attend NYU School of Commerce on Wash-

New York’s fur district as a packer of boxes

ington Square after serving in the Navy. “I

and became the number one salesmen in the

loved it and I was very active in sports; I was

company under his boss Leo Miller. Shortly

even on the varsity wrestling team. During

after that he started his own company and

the summers I was a good swimmer and I

became very successful. Ira was loved by

swam competitively as a lifeguard on Rocka-

everyone he met. When he was in New York

way Beach. When I finished at NYU, I gradu-

he met Sylvia, my mother, who was a secre-

ated as an accountant. I had taken accounting

tary. When they met he was 24 and she was

for the business knowledge, but my real love

21. They fell in love quickly and were married

was selling because I admired the lifestyle of

in a very short period of time. Something des-

my father and his friends. Most of them were

tined as it was with Bobbi and I,” said Shapiro.

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lived wonderfully,” recounted Shapiro. After

was a manufacture representative. I was sell-

graduating, Shapiro knew he wanted to get

ing lingerie, sportswear and children’s wear.

out of the city and see the United States. So

I was on my own doing that for two years.”

he and a friend, Harry Katz decided to see America on $100. “We managed that by mak-

And that was the path that changed his life for-

ing a deal; we would deliver an automobile to

ever. Shapiro worked as a traveling salesman

Baum Chevrolet in Fort Worth, Texas and they

for a company headquartered in New York. In

would pay for our food, lodging, and gas. It

December of 1954 Shapiro traveled back to

was a fine arrangement for two men with no

the Big Apple on a sales call and when he

money,” Shapiro remembered. So Don and

stepped into the showroom, he was greet-

Harry hit the open road and successfully deliv-

ed by none other than Bobbi herself. “The

ered the car—but their journey was not over

first time I saw her I fell in love immediately.

yet. With the intention of eventually reaching

We both fell in love at first sight.” But Bobbi

California, the dynamic duo set off again, this

wasn’t an ordinary secretary; she was a sing-

time in their own 1936 Plymouth. Together

er and rising star with a blooming career of

they made their way across the great state of

her own. “Well actually I was just getting in-

Texas. The pair had to make stops every once

volved in my show business career,” recalled

in awhile to get odd jobs for money, once

Bobbi. “I wasn’t really interested in pursuing

even taking jobs as cotton pickers in Roscoe,

a relationship, but he persisted and he asked

Texas for a man named Bernie Shelansky.

me out and I finally said ‘okay.’” Another ac-

When they finally reached El Paso, they each

countant in the company named Jessie had

found jobs as assistant managers for Franklin

already warned her about Don’s success. He

Stores and both ended up staying in Texas—

told Bobbi that Don was a salesman who was

Harry even going on to become a manager

really going places. When she heard that, she

in Brownsville and later a millionaire retailer.

joked, “Well I’ll go with him.” Little did she know at the time that she actually would.

Shapiro also stayed in the retail game. “I

Don also remembers their first encounter

love retailing because it was the type of sell-

fondly, “The first time I asked her out she said,

ing that I knew I would love,” he explained.

‘I have commitments tonight, I can’t go out.’

“So I immediately got a job with a lady who

The second day I asked her she said, ‘I still

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Their week together had been magical,

later?’ The problem was I was only in town

but Don’s career demanded that he leave

for a limited amount of time so I told her,

New York. “We knew we wanted to be

‘Next time I don’t think I’ll be able to make

with each other, Don recalled. “At the

it.’ So she asked me to give her some time

time I didn’t really have a residence, I was

and she made some calls and we went out

staying that the Del Camino Hotel in El

on the second day we met. That night we

Paso and used that as a home base. Be-

went to the Chateau Madrid and my broth-

fore I left we had already committed that

er George joined us. All three of us had a

we loved each other. We agreed to be in

great sense of humor, we just laughed and

touch by phone and mail as much as we

danced the whole night through—it was a

could. Then shortly after, I was in Las Ve-

very warm first date.” For the rest of the

gas. I called her and we were talking about

week the pair went out and enjoyed the

how much we were in love and I told her

serendipity of their love. Shapiro remem-

I wanted to send her a ticket for the next

bered, “It was a truly dynamic happening.”

flight from New York to Las Vegas.” Bobbi

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er, Don revisited many of the places he had been years before in his career—one of these places was Roscoe, Texas. When he and Bobbi pulled up, Bernie Shelansky,

the

man

who had hired him two years before to remembered this first proposal with a smile,

pick cotton could

“He asked me to meet him in Las Vegas and

not believe that

I told him my mother wouldn’t let me go.”

Don stood before

Don interjected, “She didn’t agree to it with-

him with a lovely

out being married. This all began in Decem-

wife and a brand

ber and I came back to New York in March

new white 57’

to visit. The problem was I wasn’t ready to

Cadillac. He re-

settle down in my career—so I proposed a

marked, “Oh my

long engagement. She told me she wanted

God,

to be with me, but be married, not engaged.

iro, in two years you

In a matter of days it was time for me to leave

have gone from a cot-

so we were spending an evening together

ton sack to a Cadillac.”

Don

Shap-

talking about what to do, so I asked, “Would you rather get married or go to a movie?”

After that they continued to

and she said, ‘Let’s get married.’ Our whole

travel the country together.

wedding was planned out within the week.

But it wasn’t long before Bobbi

We were married on April 10, 1955 at the

became pregnant and returned

Club Elegant in Brooklyn. I was 27, she was

to New York to be with her

21. The night of our wedding, Bobbi’s father

family while Don con-

told me, ‘You’ve given me the greatest ambi-

tinued to travel.

tion of my life.’ I asked him what he meant

After

and he said, ‘Bobbi marrying a guy like you.”

their

Steve, first

From there the newlyweds embarked on their honeymoon in New Orleans. And when their time in Louisiana was over, Bobbi just continued to travel with Don while he worked. “We had a seven and a half month honeymoon. We didn’t have a home because we were traveling on the road. My territory was Texas, Arizona, New Mexico and California,” said Shapiro. While traveling togeth-

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his career where he was finally able to

Pacific.” She was the star in every

begin settling down. He asked Bobbi

one of the plays she performed in.

where she would like to live. “Her first answer was ‘I would live with

After a few years of this, Don’s fortune

you anywhere . . . she later changed

changed and he dived into the blos-

her answer.” He said with a smile. “I

soming jean business. “I started Action

ended up giving her a choice between

West and we were in jeans when the

Dallas, L.A. and El Paso—she chose

jean explosion happened. We got into

El Paso.” From there the Shapiro’s had

it in 1957 when El Paso was the jean

two more children, Randy and Laurie.

capital of the world. We were successful immediately, we had showrooms in

The couple purchased a home in El

Dallas, New York and L.A. Steve, Randy

Paso and began putting down roots

and Laurie loved everything about it.

in the city. But at first, Don still had

It was an exciting time and an excit-

to travel, leaving Bobbi alone with the

ing industry. I never had to ask them

children. “Now, it’s really hard to meet

to join the company; they didn’t wait to

and make a group of friends when you

be invited and they were a natural fit.

are alone,” Bobbi explained. “To fill my

Laurie became a designer and Randy

time, I offered my services at the thea-

and Steve became executives at Action

tre and started doing plays there. They

West, which later became a 50 million

were very accommodating, I could tell

dollar jean company.”

them when Don was going to be out of town and they would work around

Over the years the Shapiro family

my schedule. So I started working

has had many exciting experiences

at many of the little theatres around

traveling around the world following

town—at Fort Bliss, at the University

their successful jean business. On

. . . I was in Guys and Dolls, Oklaho-

one such trip, Don and Bobbi traveled

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to Paris and were met with the most

the last. But what was most endearing

unexpected hotel happening to date.

about meeting with the couple was

“Traveling out of El Paso to Dallas on

simply seeing how much they loved

American First Class, an English gen-

each other and the city of El Paso.

tleman was sitting next to me; come

“We have been so lucky to live in El

to find out, he was actually a member

Paso—we have loved every minute of

of the House of Lords. Over the long

it, Bobbi said. “Of course, the great-

flight, we talked and by the end I asked

est part is the people. Over the years

him where we should stay when we

we have been involved in politics, in

reached Paris. He told us that the

different organizations, and in the

George V Hotel was by far the best

El Paso Pro-Musica—everyone has

accommodation in the city. He imme-

made it such a great city. I have really

diately called and made us a reserva-

loved raising our children here. It was

tion right there on the plane. When we

a very healthy environment for them.”

landed in Paris at two in the morning we were met by a chauffer and a brand

“Every part of my life was exciting,”

new Mercedes limo. When we got to

explained Shapiro. “And I have been

the George V, the lobby was beauti-

so blessed to be surrounded by the

ful. They directed us upstairs to our

amazing people in my family. Every-

suite and we looked around at the odd

one in my family is a people person.

choice of colors and without saying

My father always told me, don’t wor-

anything Bobbi and I both knew that

ry about money at all. Pick out what

we didn’t like the suite. Unhappy, we

you really love and try to be the best

went to the desk and asked if there

at it. Have a vision, have a dream.

was another suite available, they said

Whether I am prejudiced or not, I

the one we had was all they could

never met more nice or altruist peo-

offer. So I decided to call and make

ple than my mother and father. Sylvia

a reservation at the Ritz, they were

and Ira are with us at every second

happy to comply and we rode off to

of the day—they’re always with us.

what we thought was truly the most

Our lives couldn’t have been planned

desirable hotel in Paris. The next day,

better. I have been so lucky in find-

I was out at the American Council on

ing Bobbi. We’ve been in love with

business and around 11 A.M the man-

her everyday we’ve been together—

ager from the George V sent over a

all 58 years. She’s the only woman

beautiful arrangement of flowers and

I ever met that I wanted to marry.

gifts. He apologized and begged us to come back and promised us the finest

“We’ve had a good time together,”

suite in Paris at no cost. We told them

smiled Bobbi. “Don is a wonderful fa-

we were sorry but we already at the

ther and a good husband. He is a hard

Ritz and that is where we would like

worker; a handshake is a deal with

to stay.”

Don. He had a very good reputation in the business. I admire him and I will

Don and Bobbi’s tale goes on-and-on

always will.”

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SLIM DOWN FOR THE GOWN Getting Wedding Ready with The Pump Princess! My personal recommendations for a wedding fitness plan are:

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Maid of Honor If you have been selected to become your friend’s maid of honor, this means that she has chosen you as the dearest and most valued person to take place in one of the most treasured days of her life, and this is a huge compliment. The bride will forever remember this day and your role will play a large part in making those memories something to be treasured for a lifetime. With that being said, we understand the stress that can come with this honorary role, so we have compiled a checklist for you ladies that will not only help your bride, but also you!

1, 2, 3...

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Prior to the Big Day

the venue; if the wedding is during the day

and be able to discuss specifics with differ-

Location, location, location

make sure there are plenty of windows to

ent wedding exhibitors. Some bridal fairs will

One of the most important things in a wed-

give off natural sunlight. If the wedding is at

also offer sample tastings or a fashion show

ding is finding the right location. Once the

night make sure that the lighting can be ad-

that will show hot-off-the-runway looks for

location is set then everything else will fall

justed to ensure it isn’t too dim or too bright.

the bride and her party. Oh, and did I men-

into place. Finding the right location can be

For an outside wedding, the bride may want

tion juicy giveaways?

stressful for the bride so let her know that

to consider candles. If the bride has a specific

you are there for her and even offer some

color in mind then make sure that the venues

Bridal Shower

suggestions for some unique places that

walls, curtains, chairs, and carpet won’t clash

You are the one in charge of this shindig! It is

fit your bride’s personality. Some important

with the theme and color palette.

your job to make sure that you not only have fun games for the bridal party to participate

things to keep in mind when looking for a location are making sure there is enough room.

Attend bridal fair

in, but also to make sure everyone has a re-

Another important aspect is lighting and the

Offer to attend a bridal fair with your friend.

freshment. This is the bride’s time to relax

color scheme. Lighting plays a huge role in

Here you will gain insight, get new ideas,

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T H E U LT I M A T E M A I D O F H O N O R C H E C K L I S T make sure that they get to the venue accordingly and that they look just how your bride envisioned. Transportation Transportation is very important and is also something that tends to be overlooked on the big day. For the bride and groom, a car company should be booked up to six months in advance especially if they are looking for a specific type of car. As for the bridal party, a limo or trolley is not required but because they have been so involved it would be nice to make sure that they can unwind and have a good time at the wedding. Another important tip is to allocate 20-30 minutes extra for travel time; you never know with traffic what may happen.

self and not stressing out. In order to plan

they all attend their fittings in order to avoid

a good bridal shower you need to choose a

dress drama the day of the wedding.

theme, location, invite friends, get a cake and make sure that the party celebrates her tying

Seat Check

the knot. It may be helpful to communicate

Once the RSVP’s have come in, help orga-

with other members of the bridal party to

nize a seating chart. Along with the invites,

help get organized and come up with some

this is another stressful role that comes with

fun ideas. It would also be extremely helpful

planning a wedding. Communicate with your

to the bride if you keep a record of the gifts

bride about the shape and size of the tables

received.

being used and then come up with escorts and place cards for guests.

Let them eat cake Let the bride know that if her man-to-be isn’t

Rehearsal

available for cake tasting that you would like to

Your main duty at the rehearsal is to make

accompany her palette and join her for a cake

sure that everything is running smoothly and

testing session. Give your honest opinion but

that your bride feels comfortable with the

remember that her opinion is the ultimate one.

way that things are turning out. De-stress her as much as possible to make her feel

You’re invited

relaxed and at ease, it may even be helpful

Invitations are probably one of the most

to talk to the bride’s mom and make her feel

stressful aspects when planning a wedding,

at ease as well.

help your bride to create lists and send out the invites and then keep track once the RS-

On The Wedding Day

VP’s begin to come in.

Here are a few helpful tips to keep your bride calm and collected and not one of the

The dress

bridezillas we’ve seen on TV.

Go with the bride to her dress fittings; help

If at all possible I would advise you to take a

her find the dress, jewels, and shoes to make

Flowers

quick look at the venue just before your bride

her day one that she will never forget. Once

If the flowers are not being delivered then

gets there to ensure that everything is in place

the bride has found her dress, help her to find

make it your job to pick them up or as-

and looks according to plan. Fix any small prob-

the bridesmaids dresses and make sure that

sign someone to pick them up. Either way

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Cheers to you Woo! You are officially almost relieved of your maid of honor duties. We know it wasn’t easy, but just remember that you helped create a memory that your friend will never forget and a major part of that was thanks to your excellent maid of honor skills. The only thing left for you to do now is to see the bride and groom off and help to clean up with any end of the night tasks but until then, relax and have a good time!

Dress up time Getting ready for the wedding with the bridal party should be a fun and memorable time for everyone! If makeup and hair artists are involved then make sure that everyone gets to the location on time and it would be in yours and everyone’s best interest to provide a little de-stress material … think champagne, a fun playlist to set the mood, and magazines! Ring keeper

At the Reception

With the ceremony about to take place, it is

Clink clink…it’s toast time

During the reception, you are expected to give

Make sure you get the ring in advance before

a speech. Keep it lighthearted and witty and

getting ready takes place and keep it in a safe

remember to keep eye contact with the bride

and secure place. I would even suggest tell-

and groom. Don’t get too personal; we wouldn’t

ing the bride’s mother where it is just in case

want the bride to feel embarrassed on her spe-

you forget in the midst of your hectic duties

cial day. Bring notecards if you feel necessary.

helping the bride get ready. Ms. Money bags Quiet time

If your bride has a money tree or something

With champagne in hand and a fan in the oth-

of that sort, make sure to collect the money

er, sit your bride down, kick out the wedding

before the dance begins and place it some-

party and help her feel as relaxed as possible.

where safe so that it doesn’t get misplaced or,

Tell her how gorgeous she looks, how happy

God forbid, stolen.

you are for her and what a fantastic amazing day this is going to be.

Just dance Whether the music is amazing or not, you go

Vail

out their and shake your groove thing. Get

As for the final touches, make sure you have

everyone to go out and dance and have a

the bride’s bouquet ready, and have adjusted

great time!

her veil and dress accordingly before sending her down the aisle. Most importantly, smile!

Couple Time

Your smile will help the bride feel more at

The wedding day is going to fly by so make

ease before she takes a few small steps into

sure that the bride and groom have some

a whole new chapter of life.

alone time to chat, enjoy each other and soak

your responsibility to hold the grooms ring.

With champagne in hand and a fan in the other, sit your bride down, kick out the wedding party and help her feel as relaxed as possible.

in this special moment just the two of them.

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TYPE OF BRIDE

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If I could have my pick from the best, ______ would perform at my wedding?

If you are stuck between a couple of different ideas and styles, here’s a fun quiz that will help you discover just what type of bride you are.

a. Céline Dion b. Bach c. The Beatles d. Frank Sinatra

I want my dress to be:

I am most naturally drawn to:

The dessert that will most likely be present on my Big Day is:

a. Simple & Casual

a. Earthy Tones

a. A Five Tiered Masterpiece

b. Fashionable & Flattering

b. Whites & Metallics

b. Cupcakes

c. Worthy of a Ball

c. Warm, Bold Colors

c. Macaroons Imported from Paris

d. Dreamy & Romantic

d. Light Pastels

d. A Whimsical Round Cake

When people walk into the ceremony & reception I want them to think:

My favorite romantic movie is:

On a given night, I can be seen drinking:

a. Extravagant & Fabulous

a. Dirty Dancing

a. Red Wine

b. Light & Whimsical

b. Shakespeare in Love

b. A Dry Martini

c. Rustic Chic

c. The Notebook

c. Champagne

d. Classy & Refined

d. When Harry Met Sally

d. Beer

On the weekends, my man and I could be found at:

I will most likely wear________ in my hair the day of the wedding.

If I could get married anywhere I could choose it would be:

a. Art Galleries & Museums

a. Flowers

a. An Opulent Ballroom

b. At a Concert watching the

b. A Tiara

b. The Beach

c. A Veil

c. A French Château

d. Nothing, Just a Casual Up do

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typically

men to have by your side on the big day. The

been thought of as “her”

size of your wedding party is up to you, it is

big

the

typically even on the groom and bride’s side.

bride, what she wants, and how

Keep in mind when making your group that

she wants it. Well “bridezillas”

these guys are the fellas that you will spend

beware, the year is 2014 and men

the most important day of your life with, and

are taking a more active role

share in a special moment when you marry

in their contribution, input, and

your bride.

wedding day,

has all

about

decision-making when it comes is a list of what a good groom

Attire

should be the most involved in.

From engagement pictures to engagement

to planning their wedding. Here

party, picking your groomsmen’s attire, and of course your wedding day tuxedo, the

to look like the guys from Dumb and Dumber,

pressure is on you to make some fashion

it is not okay, no matter how funny you think

The groom is in charge of picking his grooms-

decisions. Your bride-to-be will probably have

it will be.

men and of course, his best man. They might

some input, and probably even the final say,

be childhood friends, college buddies, or even

but in all honesty you should listen to her. She

brothers, cousins or other family members.

wants nothing more than for you to look good

Thank You Gifts

These hard decisions come with the task of

at her side. You will have to invest in some

You will have to buy your groomsmen “Thank

taking into consideration who will make the

new clothes, buy a suit or two and possibly

You” gifts as customary. It might be a hard

best wedding party, and of course there’s

even rent or buy a tuxedo. Styles and colors

or easy task depending on how personal you

the sentiment behind picking that group of

vary but always keep it classy, you never want

wish to get. There are so many options, but

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tra special, and you will prob-

Gentlemen, this is just a

ably have to make toasts and

friendly reminder that you

speeches when presenting

need to take care of ob-

these gifts so be prepared for

taining your marriage li-

some pint clinks and maybe

cense. The requirements

even shots, lots of them.

to obtain a marriage license vary from stateto-state, so find out

Lodging

what your state requires

Lodging will inevitably be a task

first. You will have to go to

that falls on your shoulders. If you are having friends, family, and guests travel to join you on your

the county clerk’s office in person. You will have to fill out an application(s), provide docu-

big day, you will have to research and pro-

ments such as birth certificates and valid

vide them with options. You might have to

identification, and yes, pay a fee. Plan with

do some booking for people--your parents,

enough time for you to be able to pick up

groomsmen, or even yourselves. If you in-

or have the license mailed to you, so it is

tend on having a destination wedding, then

important to find out how long the process

you are going to be planning a lot of hotel

takes. Some states require you to have your

rooms, flights, car rentals, and all kinds of

marriage license prior to your wedding, so

accommodations and activities. Shoot for

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Gift for His Bride

ther way a groom should be prepared

It is traditional, but not mandatory that

a toast at a rehearsal dinner, preparing

the groom gets his bride a gift on their

his own vows (if that is what the bride

wedding day, and this can be vise-versa.

and groom choose to do), and another

So much money can be doled out for

toast at the reception. Try and jot some

a wedding that the financial toll can be

ideas down, and have a good idea of

significant,

The craftsman groom can make something with his hands and tools. The intelligent groom can use his mind to come up with a creative gift.

to speak at any given moment, giving

that

what you want to say, the message you

is why it is sug-

want to convey, the story you want to

gested that this

tell to make everyone laugh (or cry), but

gift be a gesture

always speak from the heart.

sweet Put a little

into your next social gathering

and not be influenced by monetary value. The artistic groom can

Music/Dancing Lessons Sorry to say it but, you’re going to have

create or write

to dance. Women know it’s rare to find

something

for

a man that can dance, so don’t think

his bride. The craftsman groom can make

she’s marrying you because of your

something with his hands and tools. The

“sweet dance moves.” Leave the worm,

intelligent groom can use his mind to

the robot, and that funny dance you do

come up with a creative gift. Either way

when you are with your friends behind.

make it something that will make her

You might want to plan on taking private

eyes water, and leave her breathless.

ballroom classes. Any man should be equipped with a basic waltz. You might

Vows and Toast

choose to do a swing number, or a spicy

A prepared groom needs to have sev-

and find an instructor that you and your

eral speeches ready. Some grooms

bride can take lessons from regularly

choose to write out thoughts, speeches

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lifetime. When planning a honeymoon, the

cent matrimony and enjoying the freedom

groom should try and alleviate this stress

of being a young/freshly married couple.

from his new bride who has been focus-

Some people say the purpose of a honey-

ing so much on planning the wedding.

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Inspirations for wedding themes arise from all sorts of muses. Table Occasions (that is, Chia and Claudia) anticipates that the muse of 2014 will be food. Why food? Food choices have defined us for most of eternity. But now our daily food choices are also starting to reflect our worldviews. So food taking a leading role in wedding trends makes a lot of sense as brides and grooms plan an event that will showcase to their friends and families a little bit of what make them special as individuals, and now as a couple. The resulting “wedding table” will be filled with fun ties to food themes and associated customs and cultures. | By: Chia Stewart and Claudia Martinez |

lthough the wedding food choices are a hot topic of discussion for cou-

Wine could be poured from porrons – glass wine decanters with a long drinking spout.

ples, actual decisions on food are of-

Napkins could be folded to resemble Spanish

ten driven by budget or what the venue can

fans or napkin holders could be made of cas-

deliver for hundreds of people and still be edible. Unfortunately, wedding guests’ palates are often left less than impressed. Thank

tanedas. Imagine serving paella in a Spanish clay cazuela at the center of the table … the

possibilities are endless.

goodness: gone are the days of the standard plate of chicken or steak, and asparagus cov-

Another fun food trend that has been around

ered with gloopy sauce! Today, people are

a while, and continues to delight, is decon-

more conscious of what they are putting into

structed food. This technique takes foods

their bodies.

People are making healthier

normally combined in a dish and changes

food decisions regarding portions, glycemic

the form in which they are combined – or

index, carb control, and so on. At the same

not combined – and plated. For example,

time, larger segments of the population are

instead of a typical slice of lemon meringue

exposed to the surprise and variety of “haute

pie, a plate might feature a dollop of lemon

cuisine” usually only available at fancy restau-

curd, pastry crumbles, and a meringue cook-

rants through increased global travel and in-

ie. This allows diners to experience each

ternational restaurants popping up in almost

component separately, but also allows the

every city.

elements to come together to make something new to both the palate and the eye.

In this vein, a great way to grab on to this

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trend is the “food flight.” Food flights are little tastes, perhaps themed such as Spanish tapas, presented on small plates. With this presentation, wedding goers get to experience a variety of highly flavorful foods, without feeling like they have to suck in their tummies or skip dessert. Satisfying – but not over-filling – while sharing a statement about the couple’s taste in food. The resulting table décor for such a food choice would be bold colors and themes, with particular emphasis on Flamenco dancers, bulls and matadors.

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Storyboard concepts and themed meals also help couples personalize their wedding with special menus. Simple changes like this add an element of

hors d’oeuvres. Just for fun, you may want

Perhaps the pair enjoyed a romantic trip to

to “deconstruct” the seating arrangements,

the Caribbean, and they want the décor and

and have guests sit next to strangers – “con-

menu or their day-time wedding to reflect a

structing” new friendships!

casual and beachy tone. Table decorations would be brightly colored, and centerpieces

Storyboard concepts and themed meals also

could have a sea shell, fruit and orchid theme

help couples personalize their wedding with

– just watch out for the cheesy factor that

special menus. Storyboard menus tell a story that is important to the pair, while describing the gastronomic tour on which event goers are about to embark.

surprise and up the “wow” factor of an otherwise standard dish. Then one would “de-

Maybe the couple’s first date was over a Mo-

construct” the table – turn it upside down!

roccan feast, and the couple wants to convey

Rather than a traditional flower centerpiece,

the excitement of these exotic and memora-

imagine rectangular glass place mats with

ble tastes to their guests. The story board

a small river rock under each corner – mak-

menu may contain Moroccan designs that

ing space between the table and place mat.

spill over to the tablecloths and even the wed-

Under the glass placemat would be a simple

ding gown. Teel greens, fuchsia pinks and

and elegant flower arrangement. The center-

lanterns would fill the tables. Lounges would

piece could be a multi-level server with a va-

feature low slug couches or poufs, creating a

riety of “deconstructed” food elements that

more relaxed vibe. Henna tattoos could even be

party-goers would combine to create their

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could creep in with this theme! The music

One of the hottest trends of the last few

makes a nod to a less complicated time is

for the evening may even include calypso jazz

years that is showing no sign of cooling off is

what ties it all together. It’s not your grand-

or a steel drum performer.

the popularity of farm-to-table/ Wine Country

mother’s wedding. It’s elegant chic. It’s still a chevron pattern, it’s still a sequin, but it’s

And what is food without wine? Wine pair-

crossed with burlap and linen. It’s mercury

ings are still popular, but wine and beer

glass and vintage vases, rustic hewn wood

flights, echoing the food flights, are also in

tables and delicate wrought iron chairs. Per-

high demand. These flights allow guests to

haps centerpieces composed of potted herbs

sample a variety of beers and wines without

and greens... Imagine the fresh sent of basil

going overboard, which is never trendy. Mix-

and mint at the table. It is the essence of the

ology is enjoying a resurgence, perhaps riding

bride and groom themselves.

on the coattails of the “Mad Men” craze and other returns to retro-elegance. Handcrafted

In the end, each couple to be wed gets to

cocktails, artisanal ingredients and attention

set the tone of their own special event, what-

to details such as creating the perfect ice

ever the current trend may be. And maybe

cube are also making their way into modern

some of you are thinking that the tail is wag-

celebrations. Believe it or not, jello shots are

ging the dog when food sets the theme for a

back! But don’t worry: these jiggly concoc-

Elegant elements throughout the wedding.

wedding. Well, it’s about time! A wedding

tions aren’t the ones you remember from col-

The concept began as a way to get back to

is about personalization, fun and most of all

lege, slurped by the dozen from tiny plastic

agricultural roots through seeking out quality

love. If your heart follows food – as it does

condiment containers. Today’s shots are ele-

produce and ingredients directly from small,

for so many – then remember that following

gant jewel-like cutouts, hand-passed on trays

local producers. Farm-to-table has expanded

your own heart never goes out of style. With

and in colorful flavors such as Jack Daniels

to encompass so much more, but the idea

a little luck, the wedding guests’ taste buds

and Coke or champagne and hibiscus.

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Many of you may not like what

to come to the wedding as any other guest

I am about to tell you, but I

invited to the momentous occasion. Let's

could absolutely care less

face it, if the bride and groom collectively

what anyone else wears to a

decided to invite these characters, they most

wedding. It makes no difference

likely knew what they were getting them-

to me if some macho cowboy is

selves into. If they invited Great Uncle Her-

too tough to fold up the Wran-

bert, who usually shows up to Thanksgiving

glers for one day and wrap

dinner wearing an old bleach stained T-shirt,

a proper necktie around the

chances are he will show up to the wedding

collar of a decent dress shirt

in something of the sort. My point is that a

when attending his preppy neph-

wedding is a wonderful melting pot of two

ews wedding at the Camino.

peoples friends and family and the diversity

of the crowd should be embraced.

his fictional John Wayne character will certainly end up being known as "The

However, the wedding isn't about "Crunk

Cowboy" to all other attendees, and if

Cowboy", "Goth Girl", or even Helpless Uncle

he decides to get loose at the open bar he

Harold, or Herbert, whatever. It's about the

may turn into "Crunk Cowboy." Oh, and that

bride! And the groom too, but mostly about

"Goth Girl" that shows up looking like she

the bride!

thought she was attending Frankenstein's funeral doesn't bother me either. As far as I am

So, with that in mind, there are a few ba-

concerned these people are just as welcome

sic rules that I would think everyone would

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know, but are often times broken. First off, don't even think of wearing white dress ladies. The only person allowed the right is the bride. Second, do not, under any circumstances, selfishly attempt to take a attention away from the bride by trying to look like the most fabulously dressed person at the party. If you have done either one of those things your rude levels are peaking. Now that we have that clear, the best advice is to dress appropriately. In other words, it isn't always appropriate or even necessary to show up in your best seven fold tie! Give careful consideration to the location of the event and dress as comfortably as you can, whilst looking like you know what’s up. Remember, if you show up to a dapper and dolled up ceremony looking like you were about to mow the lawn then you should expect people to look you up-anddown a few times throughout the night. So what is appropriate? Well let’s say you’ve got an outdoor beach/ desert wedding to go to. In this case, linen and finer cotton attire is very appropriate. It’s also acceptable to trade in the heels for sandals, and matched pair of shades or a beautiful hat may be necessary to block the UV‘s. However, it is most likely inappropriate to wear black to a daytime wedding and it will make your day feel like hell on earth. Chilly winter wedding? Two or three piece wool suits are super clutch for these kind of weddings for a few reasons: they keep you warm when braving the cold weather, you can remove your sport coat if you are about to bust a move on the dance floor and it is pretty standard wedding attire. Overall, the general rule is to never wear anything stained, shrunk or stretched and certainly nothing too revealing or sexy. Regardless of what "Crunk Cowboy" may think, denim is also seldom acceptable, save for those spaghetti western themed wedding. I’m not going to lie though, I would get a smile on my face if I saw a dude walk in looking like Clint Eastwood in a "Fist Full of Dollars". 154

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Weddings 2014

ith the release of our ﬁrst annual bridal publication, The City Magazine is proud to host the king of wedding savvy, David Tutera. Tutera has done it all—from setting the bar remarkably high as a professional event planner for brides, celebrities and even royalty, to speaking at numerous events and fairs, to launching his own shoe line (the David Tutera Shoe Collection), to renovating reality TV with his two shows, My Fair Wedding and David Tutera: Unveiled—as well as being featured on Today, Extra!, Good Morning America, CNN, The Rachael Ray Show, The Talk and Wendy Williams. As well as publications like People, USA Today, In Touch, Wall Street Journal, New York Times, In Style, Cosmopolitan, Redbook, Town & Country and now The City Weddings. On top of all this and more he has also published numerous books including: My Fair Wedding, The Big White Book of Weddings, Big Birthdays, The Party Planner, America Entertains: A Year of Imaginative Parties, and A Passion for Parties: Your Guide to Elegant Entertaining; helping and inspiring brides everywhere to “transform the ordinary into the extraordinary.” David got his marvelous start many years ago

Recently Tutera is expanding his scope. Part-

in his grandfather’s successful florist shop.

nering with the esteemed brand, Mon Cheri,

His grandfather recognized Tutera’s immense

Tutera has started designing gowns for the

talent for arrangement and design and encour-

“David Tutera for Mon Cheri” wedding dress

aged him to open his own event planning

collection. With more than 325 retailers, this

company at the young age of 19. Years (and

international brand is bringing big style to the

numerous awards later) Tutera is still at it,

masses with dresses ranging in price from

designing and planning for the best in the

$750-$1,575. He also has a jewelry line called

business. Among his impressive client list

“Embellish by David Tutera,” available online

Tutera has worked with and planned events

and in various bridal boutiques nationwide. His

for Jewel, Shannen Doherty, Star Jones, New

jewelry brings out the best in bridal style along

Orleans Hornets: Chris Paul, New York Giants:

with character variations that ensure there is a

Antonio Pierce, Jennifer Lopez, Matthew Mc-

little something in the collection for everyone.

Conaughey, the Official Post Grammy Parties

Tutera has even moved into fabrics; available

in New York City, Elton John, Barbara Walters,

at Jo-Ann Fabric and Craft the “David Tutera

the Rolling Stones, Vice President Gore at the

Special Occasion Collection” highlights eight

White House, kenneth Cole, Tommy Hilfiger,

bold colors, handpicked by David himself, that

“I personally am a huge David Tutera fan. I

Susan Lucci, The John F. Kennedy Center,

are perfect for that DIY bride or one-of–a-kind

watch his shows every Saturday morning and

and has designed numerous film premieres,

prom dress.

his remarkable talent consistently amazes

celebrity parties and other celebrations for society’s crème de la crème.

me. Our magazine has always been about David has been an inspiration to people all

highlighting the new, the edgy—we wanted

over the world. Shelley Mozelle, The City

to be the first to bring him to El Paso. Tutera

Magazine’s Editor-in-Chief commented on

is the perfect piece to complete our issue

her admiration for Tutera:

and our event.” The City Magazine is excited and honored to showcase him and his brilliant work in The City Weddings as well as at our first annual City Weddings event, coming to El Paso February 21st. This will be Tutera’s first visit to El Paso and we are thrilled that he is spending it with us. 157

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T H E F L O R A L M AT T E R

In the days of the ancient Greeks, bridesmaids would adorn the bride’s head with a wreath of flowers, plants and bulbs of garlic, which were thought to ward of evil spirits. No bride is going to find a bulb of garlic in a wedding flower arrangement today, but the practice of using nature’s blooms to adorn the nuptial ceremony is a beautiful tradition that lives on today and choosing the right flowers is a fundamental responsibility of planning a wedding.

ccording to local floral expert Lynn McPhatter, this is the year of the flower. Roses are timelessly classic, but McPhatter, owner of Fiori Events and Designs located at 5032 Doniphan,

says couples should consider the many hues, shapes and textures that flowers can bring to an arrangement or bouquet. He recommends brides start with peonies, which are trending heavily this year. Peonies are highly seasonal though and will be exiting the wedding scene soon, returning again from May to July and once more in November. To accentuate the popular peony, which McPhatter says is flower of the year, the bride-to-be can also incorporate sophisticated garden roses, which are available year round. “I would recommend using peonies and garden roses together since they have a lot of similarities,” McPhatter said. “Garden roses are strong, elegant flowers. Other flow-

ers that are trending this year include poppies, lilacs and anemones.” chosen as color of the year because it “encourages expanded creativity and originality, which is increasingly valued in today’s society.” “Blushes and pinks are definitely coming back this year,” said local florist Laura Carrillo of Laura Carrillo Designs. “I’m not sure why, maybe because of lush, extravagant movies like ‘The Great Gatsby,’ but romantic, soft pinks are very popular. Pink is everywhere.” Creativity and originality is something that every bride wants to demonstrate in her Just like certain flowers will make strong

navy blue will also be trending and the color

wedding. McPhatter says the perfect ob-

statements on the wedding scene this year,

of year is radiant orchid, which is great for

ject to encapsulate the bride’s unique style

McPhatter says there are certain flower

florists because we know all about orchids.

is her bouquet — that timeless companion

hues that will also be important to any bride

Orchids are also readily available throughout

to every blushing, soon-to-be-wed beauty.

who desires a chic, on-trend celebration.

the year.”

“Cool reds, warm yellows, tangerine tones

According to a press release from the Pan-

bride,” McPhatter said. “When I am meeting

and lime greens, for sure, will be popular

tone Color Institute, the worldwide authority

with a bride, I tailor the bouquet to her per-

colors for wedding flowers this year,” Mc-

on color, Radiant Orchid, with its “harmony

sonality and her dream. The important thing

Phatter said. “Different hues of blue, like

of fuchsia, purple and pink undertones,” was

is that the bouquet represents the bride.”

“The bouquet speaks volumes about the

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According to McPhatter, large, cascading

Couples who are aiming for a certain look

bouquets, which made their debut last year,

to their floral arrangements may think their

will be heavily trending in 2014. The popular

dream wedding can’t come true because of

upside down, teardrop-shaped bouquet could

the season. According to McPhatter, a little

easily accentuate any bride’s dress.

bit of creativity and a good selection of flowers can make anything possible. He’s also

The emergence of the trending rustic wed-

seen a rise in grooms getting involved in the

ding last year has given rise to another popu-

flower selection process.

lar bouquet trend that McPhatter says he is sure he will see a lot of this year.

“When I meet with a bride, or a couple, I tell them that I can do a winter wedding in the

“We’ll see a lot of bouquet stems wrapped

summer and a summer wedding in the win-

with lace,” McPhatter said. “Besides flowers

ter,” McPhatter said. “That’s the nice thing

in the bouquet, adding alternative items like

about weddings, it’s the beauty of custom-

branches, feathers, animal prints, and ‘bling’

izing and using creativity to make their dream

to the bouquet is a hot trend this year.”

come true.”

Adding a truly sentimental twist to her bou-

Carrillo says this year is already feeling differ-

quet, Carrillo said she had a bride place a pic-

ent from the last. “In 2013, everyone was try-

ture of her father in her arrangement to honor

ing to make their weddings different and very

his memory. Carrillo added that many of her

modern, but this year will be more traditional

clients chose rhinestone brooches for their

and very lush,” Carrillo said. “2014 is feeling

bouquets last year and some of that is carry-

very romantic.”

ing over into 2014’s trends. With the help of a knowledgeable and crea“We sometimes put little rhinestones into

tive florist, the blooms and natural beauty

flowers in the bouquet, but I think brides will

of the earth can transform your special day

go back to just flowers this year,” Carrillo said.

into a fairy tale dream. Be sure to choose the

“Succulents in the bouquet will also be very

flowers, colors, textures and patterns that

popular this year, as well as wrapping the

speak to your unique love story.

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A SIMPLE QUESTION

The church, the flowers, the venue, the dress. The dress! Weddings are the most adoring of occasions where people gather to witness love in its purest form. Before going to the chapel however a marriage proposal comes first on the Matrimonial To Do List.

recalls. But the Rusty BoothMachine was in

Renee Neesen and her husband Matthew had

marry me?” Rusty on bended knee had pulled

been dating for eight years so when the idea

off the surprise of her lifetime not to mention

to go to Telluride for New Years Eve came up

an enviable amount of will power. While many

Renee didn’t think anything of it. Having had

proposals are completely unexpected others

their first kiss on New

are somewhat foreseeable even when the

Years Eve eight years

moment appears to be something else entirely.

motion and the first area of business was to hold and event that would kick off his campaign. “I’d cooked all night for the party the next day and wanted everything to go smoothly,” Alissa explains. With their friends, families and colleagues all assembled and ready to support Rusty, he began his pitch. He explained why he was the best candidate for the job and assured everyone that he would do the job well. When his friend pulled the cover off of what Alissa thought was Rusty’s campaign poster she was stunned when she read, “Alissa, will you

earlier she thought it was romantic when

Gabriella Gabbard met her husband Phillip when

they found themselves

she was working at a local salon. Two years and

taking a stroll through the

countless haircuts later, Phillip mustered up the

Town Square at midnight.

courage to ask her out. Once the two began

“When he began to kneel

thews knee.” Renee

dating they quickly fell in love and combined their-

I thought he was going

adds, “We actually

children from previous relationships beautifully

to make snow angels for

made headlines

together. On Christmas Day 2010, as presents

some reason!” Renee

in the local paper

were being opened, Phillip handed Gabriella a

quickly grasped what was

which we used as

ring box, Gabriella recalls, “Oh my gosh! This

about to happen and was

our Save The Date.

is it!” When she opened the box he had given

so overcome with emotion

While some pro-

her a blue Swarovski Crystal ring. “I thought, ‘oh

that she tackled Matthew

posals are low key

okay. He just had the biggest opportunity and

down into the fresh snow.

others pull out all

he blew it!’” Gabriella needed to get over her

After she accepted he

the stops.

disappointment quickly. Much of her family was arriving from Mexico the following day and her and

handed her the box and much to her surprise it was

Rusty Booths pro-

Phillip were hosting a dinner for everyone. Before

empty. “Ha-ha, very funny

posal to his wife

dinner was to be served everyone gathered to

the box is empty,” Renee

Alissa required a

give thanks when Phillip began to speak, “Thank

said, thinking it was a joke,

lot of careful plan-

you so much everyone for being here today we

“But when Matthew started

ning and attention

appreciate the time when we can all be together.”

freaking out I knew it had fallen out in the

to detail. Rusty had spent the better part of their

Then he turned to Gabby with tears in his eyes

snow!” Her engagement ring had fallen into the

year long relationship being apart of a frenzied

and in front of her family asked for her hand in

snow where tons of people had converged for

mayoral campaign. Hard stressful days and

marriage. “I said yes! I couldn’t have been more

the New Years celebration and a frantic search

long nights had taken its toll on the couple,

excited because we had everyone there, it was

started for the ring. On lookers began to dig

so when Rusty decided that he was going to

so special,” she said. Having family present during

through the snow to help the newly engaged

run for city council, Alissa reluctantly agreed.

this life-changing event makes the occasion that

couple find it, “We spent about twenty minutes

“I was exhausted by the first campaign and

much sweeter no matter how it happens or how

looking for it and finally we found it under Mat-

couldn’t imagine starting all over again,” she

far your family may be.

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“It was a completely clear crisp day and while we stood a warm hometownof Freeport, Ilbreeze swept past us and linois where he’d meet her through the trees. I like family for the first time. For to think her mom was giving us her blessing.” Erin, going home was bit-

Matthew knew this was the

had made plans to visit her

right time. “I turned to Erin

tersweet, as she had lost

her mom’s presence.” They

and pulled out the ring as asked her to marry me. I explained that I thought it would be fitting to do in

her mom to cancer a few years back. “Erin and

cried and held each other and Matthew recalls,

her mom were very close and they had made

“It was a completely clear crisp day and while

plans for Erin’s future knowing that her mom

we stood a warm breeze swept past us and

wouldn’t be there for them,” Matthew explains.

through the trees. I like to think her mom was

He knew that he wanted to propose to Erin

giving us her blessing.”

while they were in Freeport but he wasn’t sure how or when it was going to happen. After

Proposal styles vary from person to person

speaking with Erin’s father and receiving his

because every couple has their own story,

blessing Matthew knew it was time. On their

their own journey. And whether it’s a spur

last day in Freeport on a whim they decided to

of the moment declaration of love or well

stop by Erin’s moms gravesite before making

planned atop the Coronado golf course at

the two hour long drive to Chicago to catch

sunset all proposals lead to the beginning of

their flight home. As they were standing there

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Armando Medrano, the owner of Jewel Gallery, offered some insight into specific collections that have been on the rise lately. “Verragio is a signature collection for bridals,” he explains. “They are all specially designed, which makes the ring look totally different than the other ones.” This individuality paired with the fact that Verragio’s rings are hypoallergenic has made them extremely popular in recent years. They can offer high quality but very unique rings for brides that want to make sure their ring is one-of-a-kind. Parade Jewels and Designs is another trend Medrano has seen; they are particularly known for their Lyria collection. This collection was featured in The Vow, in the floral band that Rachel McAdams wears, and has brought the collection into the limelight. Their bridals all come in 18-carat white or yellow gold, which Medrano says sets them apart from the more mainstream jewelers. Not only have Verragio and Parade been featured in films, but they have also paired with David Tutera – the WE TV wedding expert who is coming to El Paso in February - in various shows around the world. His endorsement and partnership with them have only added to their prestige and popularity.

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“ I think people are trying to go back to the classic style and the classic designs of the 20’s and 30’s; it’s just a very timeless look. ” According to Briana Gartin, General

something a little more classic. For the

Manager for Ben Bridges, the five most

past three years he has seen the vin-

popular diamond shapes are: round

tage, antique style steadily rise in popu-

brilliant, cushion, princess, oval, and

larity. This usually involves a cushion

emerald. While each style has its own

halo around a round diamond cut; sim-

unique attributes, she believes that

ple, elegant, but with plenty of sparkle.

the cushion cut is currently the most

Olague explains about the trend. When

requested shape with today’s women.

asked about general diamond cuts, his

“Round brilliant is going to be prob-

answer was immediate, but differed

ably one of your most popular, [most]

from Gartin’s opinion: “Round has al-

requested is going to be your cushion,”

ways been by far the most popular.

Gartin states. When asked why she

It gives you the most sparkle and the

thought the cushion cut was rising in

most bang for your buck. It always looks

popularity, her answer was simple:

good on everybody’s hand.” That would

“Because it’s different. It’s out of the

be enough for most brides, who want

standard of what people kind of saw

their ring to look as good today as in

their parents wearing, but you still get

thirty years. Part of the drive toward

the life and brilliance of a round, but a

these classic rings is their agelessness;

different proportion of it.”

brides don’t want their ring to go out of style, so they opt for a more traditional,

Different styles come and go, but ac-

timeless look.

cording to Armando Olague, General Manager for Deutsch and Deutsch,

Engagement rings and wedding bands

many brides are choosing to go for

have always been an opportunity for individuality and personal style. Although today’s trends are moving toward simpler, more classic looks, with options like Verragio and Parade every bride can choose her own ring, while knowing it will be high-quality and, most importantly, last for decades to come.

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Who doesn’t enjoy a

good wedding? 170

e can’t wait to see the bride’s

meanings you may or may not know about.

dress, the wedding party, venue,

Back in the day weddings were not out of

and more.

But have you ever

love but actually out of economic reasons, as

thought of the meaning behind the customs

a way for the groom’s family to take care of

we do at weddings? We have all heard the

the bride’s family once married. It wasn’t un-

saying “Something old, something new,

til much later that we now marry out of love,

something borrowed and something blue” is

rather than for money.

to bring luck for the union. But here are some

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Weddings 2014 older times many women would even stand around the cake in hopes of catching crumbs, as they were believed to bring luck. In other superstitions surrounding cake, it was once even believed that saving the top of the wedding cake ensured the groom’s fidelity. Traditionally, a celebratory reception and meal follow most ceremonies. When receptions first began, it was customary for loved ones to go to the newlywed’s home and make noise until they came outside in their wedding attire. Once outside, family and friends would proceed to feed the newly The wedding dress was a way for the bride-

is also believed that if an old sweetheart of

married couple. The bouquet and garter toss

to-be to show off her best in her closet in

the bride tried to break up the ceremony and

have evolved from the old custom of the

order to show the groom she came from

take the bride that he would be confused by

guests taking pieces of the brides clothing

wealth. The bride would wear her very best

so many similar dresses and not know which

since it was believed she was lucky for get-

clothing including furs, silk and velvet.

one was the bride.

ting married. It is believed today whoever catches the bouquet and garter is the next

The practice of the

The

father

ize the binding of the

giving

away

the bride dates back

YOU CAN CREATE YOUR OWN IDEAS AND CUSTOMS, AFTER ALL IT IS

rings

symbol-

to marry and that is why they are thrown to the single people.

bride and groom - the ring having no begin-

Tying tin cans and decorating the car is also

ning or ending as a re-

symbolic to the men that they have lost their

minder of everlasting

chances with the bride as she is whisked away.

love. The ring is placed

Traditionally throwing rice is symbolically bless-

on the left hand ring

ing the couple with prosperity, fortune and

finger, as it is believed

fertility.

to be the vein con-

of the misbelief that the rice expands in birds

nected to the heart.

and kills them. Rice may be more hazardous

down the aisle today is a sign of his approval

After the vows and rings are exchanged, the

to the guests as it may cause some nasty falls-

to the groom. The wedding veil was a way to

wedding kiss is customary to “seal the deal.”

whether you chose to believe, or not to believe

prevent the groom from seeing his bride be-

Finally, as a symbol of what the future may

in wedding superstitions or traditions, remem-

fore as a superstition of it being bad luck, but

hold, the wedding cake originally represent-

ber one thing: you can create your own ideas

it actually goes back to the time of arranged

ed fertility for the bride and groom. In fact, in

and customs - after all it is YOUR day!

to when fathers used their daughters as a form of currency to pay off a land debt or to even buy their way into a higher social status. A father

YOUR DAY!

walking his daughter

It has become unpopular because

marriages when you did not know who your intended spouse was. When we look into the wedding party the Best Man was chosen to help the groom if the bride decided to run at the last moment and it was customary for him to even stand at the honeymoon bedroom door if she decided to not consummate the marriage. The Maid of Honor and bridesmaid dresses were originally designed to be very similar to the brides as a way to ward off evil spirits. It www.thecitymagazineelp.com

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IT FINALLY HAPPENED You’re engaged! But what now? You have your date, but with a hoard of lists and interfering relatives circling you like vultures, it’s hard to even know where to begin. Never fear, The City Weddings has you covered with a bullet proof six month plan that is sure to get you and your prince to the alter on-time and in style.

06 Months Ahead

Hire Entertainment — Similar to the reception location, whether you want live entertainment or just a hip

Set a budget.

Hire a Wedding Coordinator

— Nothing can be done until you know how

— If you choose to hire a wedding coordina-

much dough you have to work with. Schedule

tor, you want to make sure you do this right

a meeting with your fiancée and (if they are

after the engagement so that the two of you

willing) his family and decide who will pay for

can begin the wedding planning process to-

what (for example, tradition has the groom’s

gether. She will also help you make some of

family pay for the bridal bouquet, etc.). It is

the big decisions about location, entertain-

also good to start thinking about the total

ment, photographer, etc.

number of guests that you want present—

don’t look back.

you can since these artists will likely be performing at multiple events during the time of your wedding.

Book a Photographer/Videographer — You are about to spend a lot of money for a special day that will fly by in an instant. Reward yourself and spend the money to hire

this will dramatically affect the price of catering, rentals, etc. Once a number is reached,

DJ, it is important to book them as fast as

someone you trust to take the pictures/film Book a Reception Hall/Catering

that will properly document your day. You will

— If you plan on entertaining your guests

definitely want to be able to show your fam-

after the ceremony, make sure you have a

ily, friends and (potential) future children how

place to do so. Popular wedding reception

amazing your wedding day truly was.

Meet with the Officiant

halls book up fast so make sure you allot

— Obviously it is important that somebody

time to go and tour each of your top choices

be present the day-of who has the legal

to make the best decision as quickly as pos-

Say Yes to a Dress

power to pronounce you man and wife.

sible. It is important to also remember that

—Your gown should be the focal point of the

More than that it is important that you and

where you decide to get married may include

décor, so make sure you start shopping so you

your man discuss what type of ceremony

a contract that determines who your caterer

can make other important decisions. Also, your

(location, religious implications, etc.) you

is, so don’t forget to ask them about it when

dress may need alterations, allow as much

both want.

you are touring each location.

time as you can for these... just in case.

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Weddings 2014

Months Ahead

Theme Your Day

Choose Invitations

Shop for Favors

— While you can mix different ideas and

— Now is the time to select your invitations

— This is one of the details you don’t want to

styles, your decorations should center on a

and other announcements. Try to plan ahead,

worry about at the last minute. Shop for the

core idea (or two at the most). Utilize social

if you want save the dates, bridal luncheon in-

favors that reflect something unique about

media websites like Pinterest and choose

vitations, custom napkins, or any other paper

you and your Beau, this is a fun accent people

something that reflects both you and your

products. Ordering them together will save

will remember, so get creative!

groom’s personalities and story.

you time and stress later on. Start Planning your

Rent/Buy Decorations — Whether you decide to rent your decorations from a party planning company or to find them yourself to save money, this is your time to start. This includes everything from

Select Wedding Party Attire

Bridesmaid’s Luncheon

— You need to give your wedding party

— Some of your maids may have traveled a

plenty of time to order their dresses/get

long way to be present, make sure to honor

sized for rentals. Also it is important to al-

them with a luncheon either the day-of, or

low time for alterations.

the day before. Choose a location and keep it simple, you don’t want to have any unneeded

the table linens, to the tents, silver wear, dinner wear, to candles, mason jars, chandeliers

Hire a Florist

and the rest.

— Compare different artisans around town and decide on the florist that best encapsulates the arrangements you want to see as

Finalize the Guest List

you walk towards your groom on the big day.

— Hopefully you decided on a cap number

Don’t forget to think about the reception too!

last month, now it’s time to decide who gets to come. Consult your family and make a list of the people you would most miss if they weren’t present on your wedding day. Ask your groom’s family to do the same.

Order a Cake — If your catering company is not in charge of the cake, begin looking for a company in town that will be a good asset to your cakes (don’t forget to consider the groom’s cake, cupcakes and other sweets).

stress so close to the wedding. Register for Gifts — This is where the fun begins. Choose either one or two (four tops) of your favorite stores that carry the items you and your hubby will actually use.

Plan the Honeymoon — If time and circumstance permit, start planning your honeymoon. Choose a place that will give you and your honey a relaxing stay. This will also include your accommodations for your wedding night. Also, if you plan on going out of the country, it is important to obtain the proper visas and passports.

Legal Matters — It is never too early to start thinking about the legal tasks that will invariably follow your union. This includes changing your name, social security, banking accounts, custodial issues, premarital agreements, finances, etc. Have a plan so everything comes together perfectly when you return from your honeymoon.

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Weddings 2014 The Rings — If you don’t have them already, shop for your wedding rings. It isn’t a bad idea to also shop for/choose the jewelry you want to wear with your dress. While you're at it, go ahead and make sure you have simple ceremony props like the ring bearers pillow, unity candle, unity sand and the flower girl basket if you are including such traditions in your ceremony.

Mail the Invitations — The moment you set these babies free at the post office you will feel both a rush of excitement and a little anxiety—don’t worry, everything will come together perfectly! Dance Lessons — If you and dad/your groom want to look groovy on the dance floor, enroll in dance lessons.

02 Months Ahead

Months Ahead Finalize the Ceremony Accommodations — If you have a lot of guests coming in from out of town, set a block of rooms aside at a hotel in town. This will ensure that everyone is together and able to socialize when they

— Now is the time to crunch out the details of the actual ceremony. If you want readings, poems, scripture, songs, etc.; basically the structure of how you want the whole ceremony to unveil.

are not attending the wedding events. Finalize the Rehearsal Dinner Transportation — First, make sure you have your transportation to and from the wedding arranged, then

— Normally the Groom’s parents are in charge of doing this, but just in case, make sure everything is being put into motion.

begin thinking about your guests. Don’t be afraid to delegate responsibility to eager family

Get a Marriage License

members to ensure that everyone has a ride.

— Putting this off till the last minute can be scary and stressful, knock it out at the twomonth mark to ensure that everything is legal

Look For a Place to Live

when the timing is right.

— If you do not already have a place of your own together, now is the time to find one.

Take Bridal Pictures

Enlist the help of a realtor and begin touring

— A newer tradition, a lot of brides have be-

homes, apartments, or condos.

gun scheduling pictures before the event.

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T H E R O A D T O M AT R I M O N Y

Month Ahead

Finalize the Guest List — By now, hopefully everyone has RSVP’d. Give your caterer and other vendors the final

Pick up Gown/Make Final Alterations

count to make sure that there is enough food

— Put all your worries aside and try on your

and frivolity for everyone.

Reconfirm Travel Plans — If you are leaving right after the wedding, make sure you reconfirm your plane tickets, car rentals, accommodations... just to be sure.

dress with all of your jewelry and accessories. Pack for Your Honeymoon

Make Place Cards & Seating Arrangements Confirm Details with Service Personal

— With your finalized guest list go over each

— Whether you make a master schedule and

seating arrangement and prepare the neces-

distribute it out to all of your vendors or sim-

sary cards and organization tools.

ply call and confirm, you want to make sure they know where they need to be at exactly the right time.

ready to go mid-week just in case your schedule gets crazy. Pick up Tuxedos — Do this as early as the rental company will

— Don’t be afraid to delegate tasks to fam-

permit in order to fix any mishaps that may

ily members and your wedding party. Having

have occurred.

this master schedule will help everyone know

— If you would like an announcement to ap-

where you are, where they are supposed to

pear in the newspaper, send in all of your in-

be, and what they need to do.

Assemble an Emergency Kit — You never know what might occur... make

formation and bridal pictures.

— Honor your special ladies and gents with

and make sure your bags are packed and

Create a Wedding Day Itinerary

Contact Newspaper

Shop for Wedding Party Gifts

— Shop for small things like sunscreen, film,

week out

an emergency kit with thread and needle, safety pins, pantyhose, toothpaste, deodorant, tissues, etc.

heartfelt gifts to show them your appreciation.

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Write Checks and Pay Vendors

Sit Back Relax & Enjoy!

— Do this early so when the Big Day finally

— You’ve worked hard planning and it’s now

arrives, you can sit back and know that every-

time to experience all the fruits of your labor.

thing has been taken care of.

Best wishes!

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Post Ranch Inn, MONTEREY CALIFORNIA

If you are planning on tying the knot in the coming year or so and can’t decide where you want to sweep your significant other off to, The City has you covered with six of the best honeymoon destinations that are sure to make the first days of your marriage unforgettable. Post Ranch Inn, Monterey, California If you are staying inside the U.S., California is an excellent choice. With activities ranging from wine tasting, to exploring the enchanted Red Wood Forests and more, California is sure to leave you and your hubby coming back year after year. For a sublime stay, rent a stylish convertible coupe and drive up the coast—making sure to spend time at the magnificent Post Ranch Inn in Monterey. This wonderful resort features rustic, cozy, tree house-like cabins that offer the best of luxury and seclusion. Right on the coast, you are sure to enjoy not only the beauty of wild California but also the marvelous sunsets that adorn this state’s golden shores. Four Seasons Resort Maui at Wailea Maui, Hawaii Maui, Hawaii is one of the most popular honeymoon destinations, and trust us there’s a reason for it. Maui has some of the most pristine beaches found anywhere in the world—that combined with the scenic Polynesian terrain and gorgeous landscape, this is one must-see whether it’s your honeymoon or ten-year anniversary. Staying in the extravagant Four Season Resort at Wailea will make your stay truly remarkable. This hotel brings out the best in comfort by offering ocean view suites and full service spas, golf courses, shopping, paddle boarding, surfing, and more. Maui is also great because it offers honeymooners activities like hiking the dormant volcano, Mt. Haleakala, venturing into IAO Valley State Park, exploring the Seven Sacred Pools at the Ohe’O Gulch Pools—the list goes on-and-on.

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Cabañas La Conchita, Tulum, Mexico For a taste of south of the border, bypass crowded Cancun and drive south to trendy Tulum. Once one of Mexico’s ancient ports, Tulum is a historically beautiful city, situated on one of the world’s most stunning beaches. For the perfect honeymoon getaway, stay at Cabañas La Conchita. These cozy little cabañas boast quality service and comfy hut-style rooms just inches from the serene Caribbean Sea. La Conchita is also located right in the heart of the lovely beachfront district, surrounded by delicious restaurants and local shopping; it is also a short bike ride from both the ruined city and the small metropolitan area of Tulum, perfect for day trips out. Another great aspect of Yucatán Mexico is it is also one of the best places in the world for snorkeling and scuba diving. With hun-

exquisite European cafes and bistros and

your life. With plant life integrated into the

dreds of exotic fish and a plethora of sink-

spending romantic evenings in an old cas-

everyday living space, spacious gardens

holes, Tulum is the perfect location for the

tle. With blue skies, crystal clear waters

and a nearby ocean, this resort will give you

couple seeking adventure.

and emerald forests that extend as far as

the best of mystic beauty and love that is

the eye can see, spending your honeymoon

sure to take your breath away.

Chateau D’Ouchy,

in Switzerland is right out of a fairytale. Homeric Poems,

Lausanne, Switzerland There are few places as purely beautiful

Alila Villas Uluwatu, Bali

Santorini, Greece

as Switzerland—and what better way to

For serenity look no further than Bali. Lo-

Embrace the Mediterranean inside you and

spend your honeymoon than in the hal-

cated on an island off the coast of Indone-

fly away to the azure blue coast of Santorini,

lowed halls of a medieval castle? Chateau

sia, this remote location offers couples the

Greece. Located on the southernmost island

d’Ouchy located in Lausanne, Switzerland

chance to get away and relax after the busy-

in the Cyclades, this sanctuary is sure to be a

overlooks magical Lake Geneva while also

ness of wedding planning and the stress

magical escape for you and your loved one.

facing the Jura Mountains (a range of west-

of your recent nuptials. Bali is the ideal

On the eastern coast, sits the seaside retreat,

ern Swiss Alps). The tower portion of Cha-

getaway over other nearby destinations be-

the Homeric Poems. Secluded from the capi-

teau d’Ouchy was built in 1117 by Bishop

cause it encompasses beauty, luxury, and a

tal city of Fira, it is still close enough to enjoy

Landry de Durnes and was later expanded

myriad of activities to ensure you and your

on an evening out or for a daytime excursion.

by Bishop Guillaume de Champvent who

honey have the best of everything. On the

Santorini is famous for it’s illustrious views

also created the town of Lausanne. Imag-

southernmost tip of the island rests Alila

and glorious panoramic sunsets. Spending

ine you and your hubby exploring the magi-

Villas Uluwatu. This breathtaking resort is

your honeymoon here is sure to give you the

cal countryside of the Swiss Alps, dining in

sure to offer you the most romantic stay of

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| By: brittany sawrey | Are you looking for some unique alternatives to the typical bouquet? Your wedding should express your individual spirit and love, and one of the ways you can tweak your style is to choose a bouquet that shows off your distinctive taste. Check out some of these ideas to add some brightness to your bouquet!

1. Feathers

3. Fans

These whimsical pieces can be used alone or in combina-

These can be thematic or just

tion with flowers. They can add a lighthearted, fanciful feel

a fun garnish, and if youâ&#x20AC;&#x2122;re

to your special day, although you may have to worry about

planning a summer wedding

them blowing away instead of drooping!

they can be very practical! Keep your bridal party cool

2. Flags

with these beautiful additions.

For more casual, informal weddings, these personalized flags can really add an individual spice to your bridal

4. Wheat or Cotton

party. Each bridesmaid can choose their own or you can

This is perfect for a more simple, nature-focused wed-

go with a theme, making it one of the most versatile

ding. Either bundle can add an earthy feel to your special

options.

day and draw in the more subtle shades in nature.

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For the lovers of

5. Pinwheels

8. Brooch

These have risen in

vintage and a more

One of the more elegant

popularity in the last

rustic feel, book pa-

options, the brooch bou-

few years as a decora-

ges or old maps can

quet can be stunning.

tion, but you can take

be a perfect option

Although it’s a more expensive option, you can

them to the next step by

slowly choose and create

creating an entire bouquet of them! They can vary in size from tiny to all encompassing, and can even be used as tiny boutonnières to tie

your bouquet throughout the wedding planning process, making it of more sentimental value.

in the groomsmen. 9. Seashells 6. Fresh Herbs or Fruit

This bouquet alternative doesn’t have to be

Although there’s a bit of a time-stamp on them,

saved for beach weddings only; a seashore

this option can really freshen up your style;

theme can be pulled off at any venue, and a

they keep the growing, natural feeling of tra-

cluster of hand-held seashells can really tie

ditional flowers, but put a fun spin on the idea.

the theme together.

7. Book Pages or Maps

10. Buttons

For the lovers of vintage and a more rustic

The beauty of this option is that you can dress it

feel, book pages or old maps can be a perfect

up or down. Pair the buttons with felt flowers,

option. It may take some extra work, but you

and you have a more casual look, or pair it with

can be assured these flowers will never fade!

pearls and find yourself with an elegant style.

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WEDDING COLOR TRENDS

Weddings 2014

This years color trends are definitely fun, flirty, and bright. If these colors are an indication of what the New Year will bring, then we are in for a great year! The following Pantone colors are the hottest colors for any coming season.

CELOSIA ORANGE

HEMLOCK

SAND

RADIANT ORCHID

PANTONE: 17-1360

PANTONE: 15-6114

Cayenne: This color closely resembles coral, but is darker and has hints of blue in its base. Cayenne pairs well with neutral colors or turquoise. If you are looking to add a pop of color to your wedding, this is definitely a color to consider. Celosia Orange: This beautiful color is bright and fun. It is a

PANTONE: 15-1225

PANTONE: 18-3224

medium light shade of red-orange. This color reminds me of a beach wedding or an outdoor wedding, with a beautiful sunset in the background. Dazzling Blue: The name alone speaks for itself. Just think the engagement dress of Duchess of Cambridge Kate Middleton. Freesia: Freesia is a bright sparkling yellow tone that will inevitably bring a smile to anyoneâ&#x20AC;&#x2122;s face. You can pair Freesia with grey, white, or any other bright color.

Having Freesia as your

wedding color is definitely a statement that you are an adventurous and fun person. Hemlock: Hemlock is a beautiful color that can be used during any season. It is a leafy shade of green that almost looks like a mint color. Combine Hemlock with gold, and your wedding will look nothing but flawless. www.thecitymagazineelp.com

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Paloma: Paloma is a versatile grey that can be combined with most colors or used alone. Described by Pantone as a “quintessential neutral, interesting enough to be worn alone or combined with any color for sophisticated poise.” Placid Blue: Just think of a light blue sky. Placid blue is so comforting and peaceful, it screams serenity.

PALOMA

Radiant Orchid: Radiant orchid is the counterpart to violet tu-

CAYENNE

PANTONE: 16-0000

PANTONE: 18-0651

lip. This hue mixes well with both bold and pastel colors. Sand: Sand is a charming neutral that is clean, refreshing, and elegant. Add some burlap to your decorations and your decor is instantly shabby chic. Violet Tulip: Violet Tulip is a sentimental and whimsical hue. If you're a hope-less romantic, then violet tulip is the perfect color for your wedding.

FREESIA

DAZZLING BLUE

PANTONE: 14-0852

PANTONE: 18-3949

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new year is upon us usher-

THE BRIDE’S HAIR WILL

ideal for bohemian brides they can

ing in a new and very excit-

BE HER CROWNING GLORY

easily be worn by any style of bride

ing bridal season. For any

THAT COMPLETES HER

including beach, traditional, elegant

bride-to-be, one of the very most im-

WEDDING DAY LOOK AND

or glamorous. Braids should be a

portant details of the wedding is just

ACCENTS HER BEAUTY ON

bit tousled and undone, not su-

how beautiful she will look on her

HER MOST MEMORABLE DAY

per stiff or slick. A very loose fish braid on long hair looks bohemian

big day. With major decisions that go into choosing that perfect dress, choosing the perfect

chic and exceptionally romantic at the same time. Braids

hairstyle is of equal importance. The bride’s hair will be

are a great way to keep hair out and off of the face. A

her crowning glory that completes her wedding day look

hair accessory can be added for extra glamour and un-

and accents her beauty on her most memorable day. For

refined style. Bohemian brides can also wear their hair

brides whose weddings are to take place this year, 2014

down with a very natural loose wave and opt for very little

has many exciting trends and options to choose from.

volume or the trendier “messy fullness” for more daring

While in 2013 we saw edgier looks on brides, including

brides. This look can be completed with a very simple yet

twisted knots, low ponytails, modern twists and bee-

chic middle part.

hives, 2014 is the year that romance takes precedence in bridal hair.

There are so many creative hair accessories for brides of this era that one can easily find a unique piece that best

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Bohemian brides will appreciate the overflow of braids

fits her personality. Accessories should be simple yet el-

this year. Braids are no longer just an option for casual

egant. 2014 is the year that nature seems to be the trend

days. More brides are realizing they can look sophisti-

of choice for many designers. Everything from studded

cated and classy while wearing a braid. While braids are

starfish and seahorses to neutral colored flower’s, twigs

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B ig D ay Hairsty l es T ips and T rends

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and branches. With more couples choosing to have 1970s inspired vintage weddings, halos will be big in 2014. For longer-haired brides the options in choosing a hair accessory are endless depending ultimately on their wedding day hairstyle. Larger hairpieces are always fun and look gorgeous on very shorthaired brides. 1950s vintage style will be another big trend this year for longhaired brides. Brides will be seen wearing styles with unrefined curls and polished yet loose waves. This look can be paired with a very heavy side part. More and more brides with longer hair are opting to wear their hair down on their big day. Wearing ones hair down creates a sophisticated and timeless look that, when paired with the proper dress, can create one stunning bride. Jeweled necklines will be also be popular so long hairstyles can be pulled back to show off such gorgeous collar lines. 1950s vintage style will be another big trend this year for longhaired brides. Brides will be seen wearing styles with unrefined curls and polished yet loose waves. This look can be paired with a very heavy side part. For many brides, choosing their wedding day hair can be just as chaotic and nerve-racking as choosing the perfect dress. The opinion and help of a trustworthy, professional hair artist is of utmost importance in guaranteeing your look is created according to plan. Remember to schedule at least two months in advance with your stylist for your wedding day hair trial. Have your wedding day make-

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up trial done the same day

BRING IN IMAGES OF YOUR WEDDING

to the fullest so that there

you choose for your hair trial.

DRESS SO THAT THE STYLIST CAN

are no misunderstandings.

Make sure to bring all hair ac-

BETTER ENVISION WHAT WOULD

The most important thing to

cessories you will be wearing

LOOK BEST WHEN HAIR AND DRESS

remember when selecting

the day of wedding. Bring

ARE PAIRED TOGETHER.

your wedding day hairstyle is to not dramatically change

in images of your wedding

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dress so that the stylist can better envision what would

your hair just for your wedding. Your hair should be an

look best when hair and dress are paired together. Plan

expression of who you are and what your personal style

a night out on the day of your trial run to “test” your hair

is. The goal should be to look like the most beautiful

and make-ups ability to hold. Remember to be explicit

“you.” It would be a tragedy to look unrecognizable on

about what you want. Express your wants and concerns

such a monumental day.

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Planning a wedding can be tough. No matter what your role, whether it be a DIY bride, a renowned wedding planner, or a maybe a Maid of Honor striving for perfection, every detail is important in making the 'big day' special in every way. Once the big decisions have been made, it's time to fine tune. With a million wedding websites floating around the Internet, all offering countless ideas and advice, choosing something as simple as a wedding favor can be dispiriting. An easy way to stay on track is to keep in mind the theme of the wedding.

ment this visionary display, you'll want striking

Some fun ideas include bamboo drink coasters, mini buckets full of gardening seeds, and reusable water bottles and tumblers.

favors for your guests. All eyes are on you and

something to munch on and marvel at with M

it only makes sense that the perfect wedding

& M chocolates that have the couple's names

favor, whatever it may be, would follow suit

and wedding date printed on each side. Or

and keep the focus on the couple of the centu-

have 'welcome bags' full of goodies like picture

ry. Personalized favors are the answer, and liter-

frames, candies, shot glasses, bottle openers,

ally anything can be personalized. Give guests

and a thank you letter, all personalized.

A Flair For The Dramatic

The wow factor-how about a theatrical wedding complete with anything from a grand venue, big colors, to extravagant dĂŠcor? To comple-

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your choice, rock & roll - the list goes on and on. Novelty means fun for everyone in and attending the wedding, it's a chance for everyone to get involved. Single-use cameras are a classic, yet perfect favor to leave for guests. Take advantage of

One With Nature

the endless array of themed items: mustache shot glasses, classic sunglasses, mini

Rustic, outdoor, and garden weddings have

gumball machines, luggage tags for a des-

been popular the last few years and con-

tination wedding, or even chocolate music

tinue to be this year. Some

note candies! The list goes

couples are taking it a step

on and on.

further by having an "ecofriendly" theme, and many websites offer favor options

The Hopeless Romantic

It's safe to say that a wed-

of this sort. Some fun ideas

ding day is pure gold for

include bamboo drink coast-

romantics, it's the ultimate

ers, mini buckets full of gar-

fairy tale come to life!

dening seeds, and reusable

you fall under this category

water bottles and tumblers.

then 2014 is the year for you.

Another route could be vis-

Classic color schemes of

iting your local farmer's market and buying

red, black, and white, red roses, diamonds,

some delicious granola, or handmade soaps,

and lace are sure to be seen. Some are even

candles, or lip balm.

incorporating a sprinkle of Gatsby for that

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1920s feel. Why not grace those candlelit,

A Party For Everyone

rose petal adorned tables with the ideal fa-

Novelty themes are a hit this year because

vors. Adorable mini snow globes, intricate

of the endless variety of themes to choose

sterling silver wine stoppers, maybe a dove

from. To name a few, mustaches and lash-

shaped bottle opener, or even some refrig-

es, the groovy sixties or any decade of

erator magnets are sure to please guests.

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| By LAURA WERTHMANN |

veryone dreams of their wedding day, the one day that’s solely meant for you and your hubby, where you can flaunt

your love and happiness for all the world to see. But what about the days leading up to that magical moment? There’s planning and calling and booking and photos and stress, but pre-wedding parties help relieve that stress, and give you a little time to contemplate the rest of your life. Historically, the Bachelor party was a dinner the groom threw for his friends before his wedding day on his last night as a single man, followed by an eventful evening of revelry. In recent years the girls have joined in this tradition, as Bachelorette parties are now just as popular. Presently, there are a wide variety of pre-wedding celebrations you can enjoy with your best friends. There are so many ways to get creative and have a wonderful send off into the next chapter of your life. If you have been chosen as the honorable Maid of Honor or Best Man, you have the duty of putting this magical night together. You need invitations, party favors, decorations, drinks, treats, and the meeting place for this celebration. First decide on a theme, there are so many options but try to get creative, it’s an event you never want your best friends to forget. Try the Olympics, make every game revolve around the bride or groom, and have each friend be a different country and offer different types of medals or prizes. There’s also a vintage party, choose the Bride or Groom’s favorite era or genre and base all your party essentials around that. Some good options are disco, 70’s, 80’s, greaser, film noir, cowboy, prohibition, or even futuristic. Step outside the box and try a 007 theme, make all your drinks “shaken not stirred” and dress to impress. Try a mustache party and give everyone their own fuzzy ‘stache. Maybe a “His and Her” party labeling drinks and candies and cakes, or a black and white party with snazzy decora-

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tions and gold accents. Try a superhero or

might be to rent a cabin up in Ruidoso, or a

movie buff party and dress up as your favorite

room at the Inn of the Mountain Gods and

superhero or movie character. If you’re a little

take a trip up to Ski Apache for a day or week-

risky, try a lingerie gift party and theme where

end full of fun. Maybe try finding a room out

you hang up different articles for all to see.

in Marfa, Texas at the always hip Thunderbird hotel, or the more traditional Paisano Inn.

Once you’ve settled on a theme, find a place.

If you prefer staying in the city, try creating

Some like to stay in the comfort of their own

a nice picnic in the park with homemade

home, where others might be more adven-

drinks, hors d’oeuvres, and games. Or may-

turous and take trips to Las Vegas, New

be opt for a casual cookout creating specialty

York, California, or big cities where memora-

meals and flavorful drinks such as michela-

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If you’re the “friend in charge”

Want to think outside the box?

you will also need to consider

Why not make your best bud

a wedding shower for your

learn a thing or two before

bride and groom. Traditionally

entering a life of matrimony and take them to a cooking

done as a “bridal shower” for the girls, you can also consider a “couples”

class, or a wine, beer, or spirit tasting that

shower to include the guys. It will be your job

will definitely spark up a festive mood. Go

to make sure the invitations are set and per-

one step further and visit a vineyard nearby in

fect. Illustrate with your theme, be specific

New Mexico. You can even try a few infused

about clothing (formal vs. casual), and keep

liquors right here in El Paso at Eloise, or take

to the wedding colors. Make a “To- Do” list

a trip across the border to Guadalajara or Tlax-

of the different tasks you will need to com-

cala to a tequileria and try authentic tequilas.

plete throughout the day. Stick to your chosen theme, or get clever and reflect on the

Whatever happens make sure it’s an event to

past romantic or risky feats of the bride or

remember and a time to check everything off

groom, all in good taste. Have a photo scav-

of their party bucket list. The day is all about

enger hunt, make a Jenga wedding game,

the bride or groom so don’t forget to close

add some bride/groom-trivia questions, open

your amazing party with a heart warming

gifts, play truth or dare, create a drink based

toast they will

on the couple to be, and give out prizes. A

remember

popular game is to take mug shots of your

forever.

guests at the end of the night, write their offense, and send them off with different treats.

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T YOUR WEDDING RECEPTION THERE’S ONLY ONE THING YOU CAN THINk ABOUT, IT’S THAT TIME AFTER DINNER WHEN THE TOASTS HAVE BEEN SAID AND THE MAGIC IS STILL IN THE AIR, YOU LOOk TO THE CAkE. THE SWEET SENSATION OF A PASTRY AFTER A GOOD BOOGIE

ON THE DANCE FLOOR IS THE MAIN THING YOUR GUESTS LOOk FORWARD TO. 2014 HAS AN ARRAY OF

NEW, OLD, AND CREATIVE BEGINNINGS FOR CAkES AROUND THE CITY. ALL YOU HAVE TO DO IS FIND THE RIGHT CAkE TO FIT YOUR SPECIAL DAY.

Out With the New, In with the Old

display multiple types of sparkle

Requests have been filled with

ter or fairy dust-type particles to

retrograde advancements dealing

create a subtler eye twinkle. Even

with wedding aesthetics, but what

bigger, disco ball-type glitter can

better way to celebrate than with

create a distinctive effect for any

newly intricate floral patterns, soft

glam bride out there. If you’re

cream colors, pastels, and lace.

more into earth tones, nature in-

After all, weddings are a traditional

spired themes are also top of the

pastime considered as the begin-

list. Texturized and rustic colors

ning of a loving relationship. Why

covering the outside of a choco-

not go back to your roots and cel-

late cake can be inspiring. Cherry

ebrate outside with the lilies and

blossoms, orchids, and dogwood

a vintage cake to match. Walter

also create a delicate ambiance.

from Elite Events commented on

You can even add fresh fruit or

how “vintage” style colors and flo-

seasonal berries for a refreshingly

rals were big in 2013, and are an-

natural and delicious taste.

to top off your cake. Try fine glit-

ticipated for 2014. “Traditional French-style cakes are popular this year, with big flowers and lace,” Walter

Textured cakes are also a big hit at wedding ceremo-

stated. Aside from the beloved vintage presence that

nies, Brenda Enriquez of More Than Icing, comment-

seems to be sweeping the refreshment table, there

ed on the different types of flowers and designs

is also the classic effect. These cakes involve intricate

requested by brides and how she tried to make eve-

embroidered designs, ruffles, lace, pearls, and dam-

rything as economical as possible. Enriquez states,

ask (a pattern on reversible fabric such as lace or silk).

“I try to do everything edible like fondant or even

These patterns usually convey a clean and beautiful

fruit roll up flowers, I like experimenting with differ-

look for the simple yet tasteful ceremonial appear-

ent materials.” Lace and ruffles also fall under the

ance.

outer texture of a wedding cake, and are displayed as beautiful illusions. The shape of your cake is also

#TRENDING

trending, no one wants a square cake, they want

Searching social media forums like Pinterest and

curves. Round cakes are most requested for the full

Tumblr for wedding cake inspirations can take up a

“360 degrees” appearance.

lot of your time. The most anticipated cake requests in 2014 for bakeries around the city have had a lot to do with popular culture and personal taste. Ombre

One of a Kind

Today, cooking and travel food shows are all the

isn’t just for your hair anymore, the faded frosting or

rage. They introduce us to new and exciting gas-

fondant colors on a cake have been trending wed-

tronomic creations, specifically wedding cakes. Al-

ding parties to match the bride’s hair. It’s an inter-

though these novelties are all beautiful, they might

esting color compliment on the cake’s visual effects

push your budget. Pop culture media influences for

that involves the wedding hues for that perfect day.

wedding cakes on websites and cooking shows, are

If you want to add a little pizazz, glitter is making a

gorgeous and expensive. Julie Adauto from Orange

comeback. Not only can you use the shimmery sub-

Peel suggests to “maintain your cake value within

stance for you arts and craft project but you can also

the wedding budget.” She usually asks the wedding 207

SWEET WEDDING

Weddings 2014

party to describe their ideas, and she tries to fit their aspirations into their budget. Each wedding is so different and personal that sometimes

themes

are

introduced. Bakers have seen requests including Dia de los Muertos, Topsy

SOME OF THE DIFFERENT CAKE BATTER FLAVORS THE CITY HAS TO OFFER ARE CHI GREEN TEA, CHOCOLATE GANACHE, MANGO, AND PEAR CHAMPAGNE FROM ELITE EVENTS, ROOT BEER AND ORANGE CREAMSICLE FROM MORE THAN ICING

states how the â&#x20AC;&#x153;use of cupcakes cuts into serving time,â&#x20AC;? and can be economical without having to pass out extra plates or utensils. Much like craft and micro-brewed beers, some cakes are being made with decadent flavors to

Turvy, Under the Sea, painted quotes or words,

satisfy the most interesting taste buds. You

or even minimal white. Whatever cake you

can use seasonal flavors like citrus, lemon,

choose, it should showcase the meaning of

chocolate, mocha, or praline as accents or

each relationship.

full flavors. Some of the different cake batter flavors the city has to offer are chi green tea,

Fitted

chocolate ganache, mango, and pear cham-

Some couples can be particular with their of-

pagne from Elite Events, root beer and or-

ferings and have ideas from outside the box.

ange creamsicle from More Than Icing, and

Some weddings offer pancakes or cheese

chocolate orange peel from the Orange Peel.

wheels to compliment specific beverages

The cake is the first slice of sweet harmony

such as craft beer or wines. Other weddings

you and your loved ones will be enjoying on

can be specific with their batter and provide

your wedding night; why not make it an ex-

gluten-free cakes. Cupcakes are also gain-

citing and tasty one.

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A New Twist on Tradition | By Ana Huesca |

etting married should be a fun and

on. Nowadays modern

wonderful experience; some of us

couples are inventing

wait for that moment for as long as

their own special mo-

we can remember especially if you’re a girl.

ments and foregoing

That moment filled with traditions and small

some of the most tra-

symbolic touches to show the love that you

ditional wedding cus-

and your significant other have for each other.

toms. Here are a few

We all know the traditions that I am talking

examples of “new” traditions that are taking

about -- something old, new, borrowed, and

the wedding scene by storm.

blue; wearing a veil, not seeing each other

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before the wedding and carrying the bride

Man-gagement Rings

over the threshold. Don’t forget throwing

Yes ladies, now you too can buy an en-

the garter, throwing the bouquet, jumping the

gagement ring for your man. I know this

broom, tying tin cans to the bumper of the car,

sounds so wrong and forward, but I am

the breaking of the glass…the list goes on and

not saying to propose (although, if that is

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what you want that can work too). Some

ing non-traditional photos in which you don’t

young brides-to-be are giving their future

care about getting your beautiful white,

husbands a ring as a thank you; also you

perfect wedding dress dirty or “trashed.”

can see it as a keep away sign, he-is-MINE

This might sound crazy but with the help of

ring. Another take on this new tradition is

a good photographer you can get amazing

wearing “His & Her” bands. This is one way

results. Most of the time the photos have

some like to bring sexual equality to the

themes that relate to what you and your

start of their marriage process, and makes

partner like; swimming, painting, cooking,

both the bride and the groom feel special

rainy days, anything is possible. The newest

during this important step.

trend in trashing the dress is burning it. This can be dangerous but also very beautiful to

Trash the Dress

photograph when done by a professional. I

For you who don’t know what I am talking

guess when you are committed to a great

about, TRASH THE DRESS is a new post-

photo the sky is the limit, literally.

wedding photo shoot that consists of tak-

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when you are committed to a great photo the sky is the limit, literally Tying the Knot

Sky Lanterns

Some couples, especially army and navy

Sending good wishes

couples, are literally tying the knot at their

for the new couple

ceremony. By â&#x20AC;&#x153;tying the knotâ&#x20AC;? I am talking

on sky lanterns is an

about taking two ropes together and creating

Asian

an untieable knot like the ones that you see

the entire world is

on ships or that boy scouts learn. Some cou-

adopting. Your friends

ples even pick the color of the cords depend-

and relatives can send

tradition

that

ing on their vows, for example: Red is love,

their lanterns with you

orange for encouragement, yellow for charm

at your reception or as you are departing to

and confidence, green for luck, dark blue for

your new house or honeymoon. It is a good

longevity, light blue for patience, silver for

way to include everyone in the wedding, not

protection and gold for unity.

to mention it looks beautiful and romantic!

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Dear The City Magazine,

This is a story about a girl who came along and flipped my world upside down. It’s hard to find a starting point in our relationship as the definitive moment that we saw each other as more than friends. I met Kandolite at my first fight in El Paso (Battle of the Badges) and had just won in the first round. I was making my way through the crowd of fellow firefighters when it happened. The sight of her was a hit stronger than anything I had ever faced in the ring. There she was, standing there with a gorgeous Hollywood smile and this long brown hair that couldn’t be real life... I was done for. I could barely get my name out, but it turned out we already knew who each other were through some mutual friends. She congratulated me on my fight and a quick goodbye was said, but thank God there’s more to this story. The next year saw us randomly running into each other at local restaurants or bars. I saw her when hundreds of other firefighters and I climbed the Wells Fargo building six times on the 10-year anniversary of 9/11, and at the memorial that was held afterward. She wasn’t there on behalf of her job at KFOX; she was there because that’s the kind of person she is. Fast forward to July 2012, and I’m getting off a plane after a weeklong vacation in Austin. My brother picked me up and asked if I wanted to get a drink before going home. I said no, but he convinced me otherwise. After that, I was ready to go home, but he wanted to go to Whiskey Dicks. After some back and forth he somehow convinced me to go. I remember walking in and dreading the crowd and then all of a sudden...there she was. Again. She was wearing boots, shorts, and a long-sleeve loose shirt with that beautiful long brown hair falling over her shoulders. I made my way over and said hello, bought her a drink, and went about finding my crowd. I met up with some fellow firefighters but my eyes never left her. She was there with a friend getting bombarded by admirers, as usual. On my way to the bar I passed a particularly aggressive group of guys, all of whom were staring at Kandolite and working up whatever courage they could. I knew that this moment was my line in the sand, my Rubicon. I could either turn away and hope fate would intertwine us again, or finally see what the universe had

been trying to show me for the past year. I pushed through everyone surrounding her and asked, “I’m sorry to have kept you waiting, would you care to dance?” She followed me to the floor and I didn’t let her go the rest of the night. But even the greatest nights have to end, and last call was approaching. I asked her for one last dance, and she agreed. Now, call it what you want—fate, destiny, or a higher power—what happened next was the biggest sign I’ve ever received and I refused to let it pass me by. The DJ played Thompson Square’s “Are You Gonna Kiss Me or Not,” and we shared our first kiss on the upper stage for the whole crowd to see. I saw Kandolite every day until I was sent to Ft. Benning, GA for four months. She was my one ten-minute phone call per week and was there to pick me up at the airport and bring me back home. I wrote her everyday I was away, and will continue to write her letters as long as she’ll read them. I hope you choose me to propose in your magazine. But it’s not about choosing me. In fact, none of this is for me. Getting married isn’t something you do for yourself; it’s a conscious decision you make for your partner. It’s saying that you have seen all the good, bad, and the ugly and want to live in that perfect storm of emotions forever. It’s saying you want to show that person you truly are the only one in the world who was put here just for them. This is about a girl who had a chance to take her skills, personality, and beauty out of town but chose to stay in El Paso because she loves her city. Hers is the face we all wake up looking forward to seeing over our coffee and newspaper. She’s the girl who chose to give up a glamorous lifestyle working in TV news to work for the Humane Society and give a voice to those who cannot tell us what’s wrong or what hurts. So, in closing, this isn’t for me, it’s for her. Everything I do is for her; please help me give her something she deserves. Sincerely, Chris

Kandolite Nichole Flores,

Will you marry me?

My love, As you read this, I hope that Iâ&#x20AC;&#x2122;ve made one of your dreams come true. Iâ&#x20AC;&#x2122;ve tried to find a way to eloquently state this but I cannot put this in any simpler terms. I love you and I want you to be mine forever. You are the center of my world and the shoreline that guides me home, the foundation for the rest of my life, and the future mother of my children. My only wish is that I had more than one lifetime to give you, because one is simply not enough. But I will do everything I can with the time we have to love you completely. Yours, Chris

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