The Gabber: May 4, 2023

The Cost of Cancer

By Amanda Hagood

Fourteen years into her Gulfport life – a perfectly Gulfport existence, rich with art, neighborly deeds, and a splash of the wonderfully weird – Denise Keegan O’Hara faces an enormous, life-altering challenge. This January, she was diagnosed with stage IV throat cancer.

This means seven weeks of radiation and chemotherapy, of treating her skin and gums to mitigate their ferocious side effects. It means a constant battle to stay hydrated, and longing for the day when she can eat something other than broth or Jell-O. It means she can’t get to her job as a server at the Comfort Café or keep up with her art.

Then there’s the cost. Aside from the lost income, O’Hara faces mounting medical expenses. She easily hit her deductible of $8,400 in the early stages of her treatment, and the co-payments for her medications can run up to $600. All of this is with a catastrophic health plan – if she had basic insurance, the costs would be even higher. Cancer is expensive.

And worst of all, despite everything she is doing to fight the disease, the prognosis is uncertain.

“After all this, then what?” she says, a rueful smile glittering in her eyes. “Either it’s done, or I’m dead.”

But that ghost of a smile says a lot. As her friend Monika Taylor remarked on the GoFundMe page she established to help friends and neighbors supplement Denise’s lost income, “She is a real tough cookie.”

Tossed and Found

When she moved here from Melbourne, Florida, more than a decade ago, O’Hara found a community where she could grow artistically.

“Gulfport really expanded my art,” she explains. As a self-described

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As this Gulfport artist fights cancer, she shares her struggles, her hopes, and her love for the community that’s rallied behind her.

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Hard To Say Goodbye: Lesley DeMuth

The most important person in any city government is the clerk. Sure, Council should represent the needs of the citizens and taxpayers, the city attorney should legally shield taxpayers from harm, and the city manager, without question, serves as ringmaster for the whole shebang, but when it comes to open government, the city clerk makes it happen. She ensures anyone can know how council uses taxpayer monies or what their elected officials have (or have not) done to help them.

For a total of 28 years – almost three decades – Lesley DeMuth has protected Gulfport’s official records for its residents and taxpayers. This week marks Lesley’s last with the City of Gulfport. While I’m happy for her, I’m sad for us. When Lesley returned to Gulfport as City Clerk in 2009 (she also served as clerk from 1994-1998), she offered a breath of fresh air. I can’t count the number of times I’ve talked to Lesley, but I can tell you I call with so many requests, I know her number by heart. Without fail, she always comes through in, ahem, record speed.

What I so respect about Lesley, too, is her absolute impartiality. Across almost two decades at The Gabber Newspaper, I’ve heard lots of opinions (good and bad) and lots of off-thecuff remarks (nice and nasty) from elected and appointed officials. I think the most opinion Lesley ever offered concerned her dogs. (And, if you think about how Gulfport tends to roll, that makes sense.) In the face of abuse, Lesley never remains a consummate professional, the Sergeant Joe Friday of custodial recordkeeping: She focuses on the facts.

your property taxes, the clerk will not only know when that meeting will happen, she’s the one who alerts people that the meeting will happen. Without a Lesley, we wouldn’t know when City Council met. Voters wouldn’t know why they met. Taxpayers would have no clue whether they planned to raise taxes at that meeting. In fact, no one would know much of anything.

Finally, a good city clerk keeps records; a great city clerk keeps her city honest. City clerks make sure almost everything happens “in the sunshine,” as Florida’s open government laws require. Of course, they can’t control whether or not people subvert those laws, but outside that, it falls to the clerk to make sure her city upholds the spirit and letter of the Sunshine Law.

Clerks like Lesley don’t come along every day, and I mean no disrespect to her successor when I say she has big shoes to fill. It’s a huge job, and for several decades, Lesley’s done it amazingly well. On behalf of all the ways you’ve helped our reporters do their jobs, and as a Gulfport citizen, voter, and taxpayer, Lesley, thank you for your service and your professionalism. I hate that Gulfport’s losing you, but I wish you many well-deserved decades of relaxation, time in the country, and time with your family.

And, hopefully, nothing to do ever again on a Tuesday night.

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City clerks do a lot of things, from placing legal notices in the paper to taking minutes at city meetings, but perhaps most significantly, they keep track of everything. Yes, everything. That means that if you need to know what the mayor said at a meeting in May 2018, the clerk can tell you. If you want to know when, exactly, council will vote on whether or not to raise

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Hate Crime in Gulfport

On April 24 I came across a hate crime at the bathrooms on Gulfport beach. I want to offer my appreciation for the Gulfport police who were so efficient in tracking down the perpetrator of the incident; they showed care and respect for the victim who was on the ground after getting punched in the face for looking different. The perpetrator was clearly angry and seemed psychotic, yelling hateful anti-gay slurs. I wish I had called 911 immediately ( I went to the drinking fountain but left due to his violent speech) to give a description as he was not one of the characters who mutter to themselves around the beach area.  It was good the victim screamed “help me” immediately or the situation may have been worse.

What impressed me the most, besides the kindness of the police officers, was what the victim stated after the incident: “He needs more love than I do ... I’ve worked through my anger ... I will press charges only because I don’t want him hurting someone else; I don’t hate him.” –Shara

Geiger, Gulfport

Plants, Anyone?

I like to plant the seeds of avocados and mangos. They germinate easily. Do you know if someone would like to have some of the small avocado and mango tree? I just don’t have more space for them at the moment, given that I keep eating the fruit and planting the seeds. –Ines de Azevedo, Gulfport

Editor’s Note: Ines says anyone who wants saplings can reach out to her at inesdeazevedo3@gmail.com or call her at 727-415-1046.

Bring Back Zoom

I am writing to express my concern about the recent decision to discontinue Zoom calls for City Council meetings. As a member of this community, I urge City Council to reconsider this decision and

resume virtual meetings. Zoom calls have been a lifeline for many individuals, especially seniors, working-class people, and those with disabilities who face difficulties in attending in-person meetings. Many people are unable to attend these meetings due to work schedules or lack of transportation. Additionally, individuals with disabilities may find it challenging to attend in-person meetings due to mobility issues, transportation limitations, or health concerns.

Zoom calls have made it possible for people to participate in civic meetings and voice their opinions and concerns without the need to leave their homes. This accessibility has led to increased participation in public meetings, allowing more community members to provide feedback and input on important issues.

By discontinuing virtual meetings, the City Council is creating unnecessary barriers that could potentially limit participation in civic engagement. This decision could have a significant impact on those who cannot attend in-person meetings due to personal, or social reasons.

Furthermore, the Americans with Disabilities Act (ADA) requires that local governments provide

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reasonable accommodations for individuals with disabilities. Providing virtual options for meetings ensures that individuals with disabilities can participate in the decision-making process without facing any additional barriers.

I urge the City Council to reconsider the decision to discontinue Zoom calls and to continue providing virtual options for public meetings. This decision would not only demonstrate a commitment to accessibility but also allow more community members to participate in important civic discussions.

–Samantha Aviva Ring, Gulfport

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Fear of Enforcement

Short-Term Rental Owners Speak Out at Council Meeting

By Monroe Roark

Residents and Gulfport shortterm rentals proponents spoke out in favor of short-term rentals at the Gulfport City Council’s April 18 meeting, after a few months of relative silence.

Some said it was fear of the city government that kept them quiet up to this point. With talk of dozens of illegal rental units throughout Gulfport and recent moves to beef up code enforcement to address complaints, residents have suggested that the city could use its new software and other tools to target scores of property owners.

City officials said that is not their purpose and never has been.

City Manager Jim O’Reilly reiterated previous discussions and pointed out that Council gave guidance to use the new software to follow up on complaints from citizens. He emphasized that enforcement of illegal rentals will continue to be complaint-driven, and not initiated by the City.

“It was not to be utilized to mine data or anything to that effect,” said O’Reilly. “If we receive a complaint, we need to verify it. We will use the software to assist us in making a case. There has not been this Draconian attack.”

Speakers spent about a half hour of general public comment time during the meeting express -

ing their concerns. Some of them, by the nature of their remarks, seemed to acknowledge that they or their friends they represented currently operate illegal rentals according to city ordinance.

The first speaker, Michael Lehman, said he and others are “uncertain about how the software is going to be used,” although city officials have repeatedly said it would be used solely to follow up on complaints.

“We have come tonight to urge you to open this conversation back up to all stakeholders in town,” said Lehman. “There is a broader group than the group that came initially with complaints. In

While Gulfport short-term rentals like this one along Beach Boulevard South are legal, many in Gulfport fly under the radar.

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our view, short-term rentals are essential to the economy of Gulfport.”

Dave Ahlgren spoke on behalf of a friend not in attendance who he acknowledged is afraid to come forward because of her illegal short-term rental operation.

“A single mom bought a duplex here in Gulfport,” as he described her. “She is not in compliance with the law. She will have to sell her home and leave.”

Ahlgren noted that if the City proceeds with its planned enforcement of illegal rentals, “people will lose their ability to stay in this city.”

Identifying himself as an economist by training, he said this trend will have a major effect on local restaurants and the Gulfport economy in general, which in his view has flourished in the past five years. He then returned to the subject of his friend.

“She could lose her home,” he said. “She can stay home and homeschool her children because she is able to rent that other place. She works and makes baked goods during the day, and sells them to people around Gulfport.”

Another person involved in the rental economy did speak in person, identifying herself by first name only: Emma.

“I am a Gulfport resident, a mom, and a small business owner,” she said. “I ask that you keep an open mind and that you do not use this information against me.”

Emma referred to herself as

“a vacation rental co-host.” She oversees the rental of her snowbird neighbors’ homes in the off-season, when they would otherwise be vacant.

“I am able to support my family,” she said of this arrangement.

“I am able to put food on the table. And by being a caring citizen in my own neighborhood, living across the street from my neighbors who want support with their vacation rentals, I am able to have a livelihood in Gulfport and afford to live here.”

She called the current city regulations “fair” regarding shortterm rental but said she is concerned about a level of fear in the community.

“You haven’t seen many of us at these conversations previously because we’ve been afraid to speak up,” she said. “I’ve been afraid to lose my job; by the way, I’m in full compliance so no worries there. But I’ve been afraid and my neighbors have been afraid.”

One of her neighbors told her he would not attend the meeting because he felt it would place a target on his back, she said.

“This is not the Gulfport that I know and love,” she said.

A couple of speakers said they are in favor of the direction the city has taken. Some of the others suggested a moratorium on enforcement while more information is shared.

Most of those in attendance specifically because of the shortterm rental discussion left the

meeting after O’Reilly addressed their public comments. About two hours later, at the end of the meeting, Mayor Sam Henderson shared his thoughts.

“For all of the folks who were sitting out there worried that we are coming to hunt them down over Airbnbs, whoever is proliferating that rumor is not doing you any favors,” he said. “I noticed that people didn’t want to share their addresses, especially on this topic. We said multiple times over the years that we don’t want to take that approach where we are coming out looking for somebody just to be Draconian about it. We have not done that in the past, and we are not looking to do that now.”

Henderson reiterated that the City’s plan focuses on dealing with specific complaints from residents. By state law, people cannot register complaints anonymously. He said the new software will allow employees to do their jobs more quickly and cleanly.

“We are not coming out looking for anyone. That’s not how you maintain a caring community,” he said. “If you’ve got a bad tenant in there and they make somebody mad, we’re going to hear about it. It puts a little bit of incentive on you to not have rowdy tenants and to get on the radar.

“Our job is to help you if we can. We’re trying to find solutions that work for the greatest number of people without leaving anybody in the dust.”

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Unlucky Trio Three Recent Accidents in Gulfport

By Mike Sunnucks

Gulfport gathers

Recent car accidents in Gulfport included an SUV rear-ending a motorcycle, resulting in the motorcyclist getting ejected from the bike. Another accident involved a Jeep rolling multiple times, landing in a residential yard.

No serious injuries occurred in either accident.

SUV and Motorcycle

On Apr. 25, the SUV and motorcycle traveled southbound on 58th

Street South. According to the Gulfport Police Department, when the latter slowed to make a westbound turn onto 17th Avenue South, “the driver of the SUV did not see the brake lights or turn signal, and struck the rear of the motorcycle, causing the rider to be ejected.”

The Gulfport Police Department reported the motorcyclist went to Bayfront Hospital and “sustained non-life threatening injuries.”

Rolling Jeep

After a rain storm on Apr. 16, a Jeep “rolled over at least twice” and landed in a yard, GPD said in a statement. The Jeep came to rest in the front yard of a Gulfport home near Gulfport Boulevard and 59th Street South.

The Jeep traveled westbound when it lost control in a curve, according to the Gulfport Police Department.

The Gulfport Police Department cited the driver for excessive speeding. The driver remained uninjured.

Gulfport Police Department reported on recent car accidents in Gulfport involving a SUV, motorcycle, and Jeep.

Demolition

Underway on Shore Boulevard No Plans Announced for Former Apartmenet Site

By Monroe Roark

Work crews demolished a building on Shore Boulevard, and the owners have not said what they might build in its place.

A Pennsylvania company purchased the site, formerly an apartment complex, between O’Maddy’s and Hurricane Eddie’s, about eight months ago, according to Pinellas county tax records. It had been vacant for a period of time before that.

A Gulfport resident asked about the state of the property just a few weeks ago, noting that there were no recent signs of development and calling it an “eyesore.” A city planner told The Gabber Newspaper at that time that the building permit application had expired and the city had received no new or revised proposals for the property.

After seeing the demolition work underway, an inquiry was made to city building official Clark Streicher. He responded via email and report-

ed that officials granted a plumbing permit Jan. 23 to disconnect and cap off the water and sewer service to 5427 Shore Boulevard. Workers finished that task Feb. 1.

Streicher also said a demolition permit was issued Feb. 24 and was still open as of April 25.

“To date no construction application or plans have been submitted or processed in the building department,” he said.

The Pinellas County Property Appraiser’s website lists the owner of the property as Miele Development LLC in Muncy, Penn. The listed use is “duplex-triplex-fourplex.” County officials recorded the company’s acquisition of the site Aug. 26, 2022.

The zoning for the lot, part of the Waterfront Redevelopment District, allows the following uses: Single-family homes and duplexes; townhomes; multi-family dwellings; transient accommodations; restaurant (but no drive-throughs); taverns (if they’re an accessory to transient accommodation only); city facilities, or a private parking lot.

Demolition of the old apartments on Shore Boulevard.

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starving artist, she has developed a unique aesthetic with her mixed-media creations and her murals, which you can find all over the city. “I would scour alleyways,” she recalls, turning found objects into repurposed, recycled, one-of-a-kind works of art. Her business moniker? Tossed and Found.

This  talent for bringing things beautifully together has also come in handy when neighbors were in need. She organized a yard sale and art raffle for Funkytown Boutique owner Jackie Kreuter when she received a lung cancer diagnosis in 2019 (Kreuter passed away in 2022). She organized another art-based fundraiser in 2022 to assist the family of Eric Cudar and Ulyana Fylypovych as they fled their war-torn home in Ukraine.

“As we all know,” writes Taylor, “[Denise] is always the first one to donate to help others.”

Denise O’Palooza

Now this consummate giver is leaning on her network of friends

and family for support. There are daily appointments to get to, doctors and pharmacists and insurance to deal with, financial pressures. Friends like Cheryl Schwartz have been incredible, she says. Schwartz and other friends take turns driving Denise to various medical appointments and treatments, as the O’Hara family does not have a car.

And a group of friends including Suzie King, Debbie Stevenson, Debbie Amis, and Marianne Batryn (of local band Marianne & the Professor) is organizing a “Denise O’Palooza Fun-Raiser” on May 6. A silent auction and some groovy tunes will make it a night to remember.

This is all part of what makes Gulfport home now, O’Hara says. “I wouldn’t have had all this where I came from.”

Tomatoes and True Love

And then there’s Ian. O’Hara’s spouse, newly minted Gulfport City Council representative Ian O’Hara, first saw Denise when she worked behind the counter at Fey and Ryan

Bernat’s produce stand (now The Annex Coffee House). “I just found her delightful,” her recounts. So naturally – because of, you know, feelings – “I couldn’t go inside.” He ended up buying a lot of outdoor display items like tomatoes and watermelon.

But eventually, they started talking. One night, she said he could walk her home. And on April Fools Day, 2019, the two married in the Gulfport Casino. “I now pronounce you Weird and Weirder,” said Jackie Kreuter, one of their two officiants. “You may now kiss your weirdness.”

More To Do

Ian says setting goals has been the thing that has kept the two of them going through these difficult weeks. Nothing too ambitious: just following doctors’ orders for feeding and hydration, getting up and going into her studio once a day.

Denise agrees, adding that her family has been a huge source of support – and not just her immediate family.

“There’s a beautiful, wonderful community here that I’m not done with yet,” she says, her cool blue eyes blazing warm. “I have more to do.”

The Denise O’Palooza Fun-Raiser event will take place May 6, 1-5 p.m. at The Tiki Bar & Grill (5519 Shore Ave. S.).

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Until doctors get her cancer under control, Denise is out of the mural business. Once her treatment ends, she hopes to get back to work.

Pearls Outside Gulfport Council Approves Outdoor Dining at The Pearl

By Monroe Roark

Gulfport City Council approved an outdoor dining request for a local restaurant, voting at its April 18 meeting.

Council approved a site plan amendment request to add seating within the patio area directly in front of The Pearl, at the corner of 58th Street South and 28th Avenue South. Photos of social media indicated that the restaurant’s management put the tables and chairs in place for use the next day.

Outdoor dining has always been popular in Gulfport due to the favorable weather nearly all year long, but the concept expanded dramatically in 2020 because of the COVID-19 pandemic. City officials approved outdoor dining at that time because of severe restrictions on indoor capacity.

The restaurant proposed adding 46 seats outside on the patio area

to complement the 92 seats currently available indoors, according to a city staff report. The expansion would result in 14 employees, the report indicated.

The Site Plan Review Committee expressed some concerns in January when reviewing the project. That body suggested that a barrier be erected to enclose the area where alcohol is served, and also that a gate be installed for ADA (Americans with Disabilities Act) compliance. The applicants revised their submission and the SPRC recommended approval in February.

A condition of Council approval was the completion of the business tax receipt renewal process to include the outdoor seating use.

The Pearl opened in Gulfport in mid-October of last year after operating in Treasure Island for more than two decades.

Gulfport Council approved outdoor dining for The Pearl, so now you can snack on camel al fresco.

CAMERON HEALY

Gulfport Council Approves Contracts

Storm Debris Contracts and Other Council Tidbits

By Monroe Roark

Council members approved most of the agreements without comment as part of the consent agenda.

Council authorized an interlocal agreement with Pinellas County and agreements with two companies for debris collection and removal. Officials said the City uses these companies when natural disasters such as severe storms, hurricanes, floods, or tornadoes, or man-made disasters such as hazardous or toxic waste spills, make cleanup and recovery activities beyond the capabilities of existing city staff and mutual aid assistance.

“Hurricanes and tornadoes can generate thousands of tons of debris and impact the City’s ability to provide normal public services,” a city staff report in the agenda packet read. “To ensure that the residents have their quality of life restored as quickly as possible, staff recommends the City of Gulfport award a debris management agreement for the collection, sorting, temporary storage, trucking, and ultimate disposal of disaster generated debris.”

The contract expires in February of 2028, or whenever the council terminates it.

Council approved a two-year renewal contract for janitorial services at a cost of $83,192.88 per year. The City first signed the agreement in 2019 and renewed it in 2021, with no cost increase. This is the final

two-year extension and is with a requested increase of 9.1% more than the original contract amount.

Council also approved a $274,660 contract to buy and install generators at the City Hall complex along with a budget amendment to account for grant proceeds from the State of Florida Division of Emergency Management for the Hazard Mitigation Grant Program.

Officials said the grant will reimburse $205,995 of the project cost. Previously appropriated Penny for Pinellas dollars will fund the other $68,665.

Jim Thaler will continue as Gulf-

port’s special master.  A licensed attorney acts as a special master for the code enforcement process.

Thaler lives in Gulfport and serves on the faculty of Stetson College of Law. His contract calls for $170 per hour on an as-needed basis. The City pays around $3,500 per year, according to estimates. Hearings before the special master get scheduled for the fourth Thursday of the month, as necessary, for hearings about code violations.

Council approved contracts for disaster debris monitoring and management services. According to officials, debris removal generally accounts for the largest portion of disaster recovery costs. It also leads to the most federal funding lost due to mismanagement.

FEMA guidelines require contracted disaster debris removal operations to get independently monitored. This is to certify that only “FEMA-eligible” debris gets collected; that debris truckloads are documented and quantified; that debris removal contractors operate within the scope of their contracts; and that their invoices match the actual amount of debris removed.

The agreement has no fiscal impact to the City right now. Should the City have a debris-generating event, such as a hurricane or tropical storm,  FEMA may reimburse most expenses, depending on the event’s severity.

Gulfport Council contracts approved at the April 18 meeting. Council addressed handling and disposal of debris in two separate measures.

MONROE ROARK

Fear of

Gardening

in Florida,

Spring

Edition

Whether You Fail or Succeed, Florida Gardening’s All About Growth

By Toffer Ross

“All things seem possible in May.” –Phrase attributed to Edwin Way Teale

So possible, in fact, that garden paralysis could sink in. Here are the two most common thoughts that go with the syndrome known as “Fear of Gardening in Florida, Spring Edition.”

You Might Fail

Something you plant might wilt, or turn a funny color. It may or may not bloom (or grow). Critters might invade, make residence upon, or eat your new plant/tree. All this can occur despite your best plans, care and intentions.

Kind of sounds like life in general, right? Precisely. Do the best you can and enjoy what you have while you have it. You did not fail. You learned something new. Go try it again. And again.

You Might Succeed

Something you plant might start to branch out and grow taller than the weeds that will inevitably surround it. It might make more flowers than it has leaves. It could grow more fruit than you ever wanted, much less bargained for. What, you

ask, are you supposed to do with ALL OF THESE TOMATOES? You don’t even like tomatoes.

Again, this sounds a bit like the diem carpe-ed you. You did not really succeed. You got lucky. And you learned something new. Now share it. The lessons, as well as the fruit and tomatoes.

So, in a depleted yet hopeful nutshell, just try something. Buy it, put it in a pot, water it lightly, and see what happens. Or go get a little tree, plant it somewhere away from overhead lines and your roofline, and take a picture of it on the same day every month.

Of course, larger, more expensive endeavors within your landscape should start with careful research and planning. I’ve noticed, however, that the people who are the happiest with their carefully researched and planned landscapes are the ones who’ve accepted small garden failures and subsequent successes as part of the deal.

Anything is possible, right?

Have a question about gardening and landscaping, or wondering about new landscaping in Gulfport? Send ‘em to Toffer at news@thegabber.com.

Mike Whitman, Agent “We work with over 50 companies to get you the best rates!”

Fear of Gardening in Florida, Spring Edition: But you don’t even like tomatoes.

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Pirates Lacrosse Program Makes Strides Third Season, First Postseason Win

By Monroe Roark

The boys lacrosse team at Boca Ciega High School, in its third season this spring, reached a milestone.

The Pirates won their first-ever postseason game, defeating St. Pete Catholic 6-5 in the Class 1A/ District 11 quarterfinals. It was especially satisfying for them as they had lost twice to that opponent during the regular season.

“It was a nice win to cap off the end of the year,” said BCHS head coach Brett Evans. “Getting our first postseason was quite the milestone.”

Evans took the reins of the program at the beginning of the 2022 season. Neither he nor assistant coach Rick Gilbert is on the faculty or staff at the school; both volunteer as coaches. Bob Medici, a teacher at BCHS, started the program and coached the first season.

Evans and Gilbert both hail from upstate New York and played lacrosse at the college level. Evans has coached for years and began working with youth teams in St. Petersburg a few years ago after moving to Florida.

Lacrosse is gaining popularity in the southeastern United States, although a number of high schools still do not have their own teams. Seven public schools in Pinellas County took the field this year, according to Evans, as well as quite a few private schools. The Pirates traveled to Hillsborough County for one game and to Manatee County for another.

After their historic win in the district playoffs, the team lost to Cardinal Mooney to end their season.

“They are a perennial powerhouse, ranked tenth in the state,” said Evans. “They beat us up pretty good but it was a good experience for our team to play a quality opponent like them.”

The Pirates finished their season with a 4-8 record. That may not sound impressive, but it is an improvement from last year’s threewin total. They did not win a single game in their inaugural 2021 season.

Only two players on this year’s

squad had lacrosse experience before coming out for the high school team. The rest of the group started from scratch, including the goalie and a host of other positions.

“Everyone up and down the line, it was their first time out,” said Evans. “We had a good mix of kids who play other sports at school, from football players to basketball players to wrestlers. Every kid except for one plays another sport. It’s definitely helpful in terms of teaching them lacrosse because it’s a blend of several other sports put together.”

It also works in reverse to an extent, as lacrosse helps athletes stay in shape for their other sports due to the large amount of running in a game.

This year’s roster of 22 players included six seniors. Evans is encouraged by the group that will return next year.

“We have a very good nucleus,” he said. “There are now a few kids with varsity lacrosse experience under their belts. We are looking forward to building on what we have built the past two years.”

The 2023 lacrosse team at Boca Ciega High School.

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Hate Crime on Gulfport Beach A Transgender Woman Attacked

By Mike Sunnucks

A man allegedly punched a transgender woman in the mouth at the public restrooms at Gulfport Beach. The man now faces a hate crime battery charge.

Officers arrested David Ferrell, 38, of Gulfport April 24. Ferrell’s aliases include “David Farrell.”

“Several witnesses reported that a trans female had been assaulted near the beach restrooms and ... bleeding from the mouth,” Gulfport Police Department wrote in a statement.

The statement said the victim told police “an unknown male ... approached her and made anti-gay/ trans remark to her before punching her in the mouth for no reason.”

Police said descriptions of the alleged assailant led them to Ferrell. They found him in a field behind the Wells Fargo on 49th Street South.

GPD said Ferrell “admitted to being involved in the altercation.” Police arrested him for battery. Additionally, they added the hate crime designation “due to remarks he made to the victim concerning her identity.”

Ferrell’s attorneys did not respond to The Gabber Newspaper’s inquiries about the hate crime on Gulfport Beach.

Police have not released the name of the woman struck in the alleged battery.

Reader Shara Geiger emailed The Gabber Newspaper April 28. Geiger witnessed some of the alleged inci-

dent and heard the assailant “yelling hateful anti-gay slurs.”

Because the victim cried out, Geiger said, help arrived.

“It was good the victim screamed ‘help me’ immediately or the situation may have been worse,” Geiger said.

She also liked the way Gulfport police handled the emergency call. She said “they showed care and respect for the victim,” who she said

the man “punched in the face for looking different.”

According to the Human Rights Campaign, at least “nine transgender and gender non-conforming people” have died as a result of hate crimes in the U.S. so far this year.

Gulfport police arrested a man for a hate crime on Gulfport Beach. The man allegedly punched a transgender woman.

MONROE ROARK

gabberlife Engineering Innovative Thinkers

Douglas L. Jamerson Elementary Celebrates 20 Years

By Cameron Healy

• Ten of the last 11 recessions started during Republican administrations

• Six of the seven administrations with the highest job growth since WWII were Democratic

• The first two presidents who doubled the national debt were Republican

On April 27, Douglas L. Jamerson Elementary School, a St. Petersburg STEM school, held a 20th anniversary celebration. Students, staff, parents, and alumni came together to celebrate 20 years.

The St. Petersburg elementary school held a ceremony with performances from students, a metal sculpture created by Gulfportian Eric Folsom, and a mural painted by Laura Spencer.

Along with the anniversary, the school hosted its Spring Engineering Day & Expo. At the expo, the school raised money with raffle tickets and basket auctions including crafts, cooking, gardening, and sport themes.

Students ran around with their school friends as their families covered the entire courtyard mingling before the ceremony. Some even posed in front of the school’s photo-op stand, where kids held a

sign that read “Engineering Expo 2023.”

Jamerson Elementary School created a photo collage wall starting with its first year, 2003. The wall displayed photos of staff and students from 2003, 2008, 2013, 2018, and 2023.

The excellence wall congratulated faculty and staff for 20 years, including Kiwanis Baines, Andrea Cate, Valerie Copeland, Todd Hickman, Deborah O’Hare, Kim Parsons, Amber Robinson, Nichelle Simmons, and Charolette Walton.

The ceremony began with a performance from a group of students singing the school’s song. Assistant Principal Lukas Hefty invited everyone to thank Jamerson Elementary School teachers for providing 20 years of education. Hefty honored roughly 20 teachers for educating since 2003 when the school originally opened.

Parents, students, and staff clap for Jamerson Elementary School teachers.

CAMERON HEALY

Gulfport

Senior Center 5501 27th Ave. S.

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727-893-5657 •

Annual registration required. Free, residents; $50, non-residents. All programs subject to change without notice. Mon.-Thurs., 8 a.m.-7 p.m. and Fri, 8 a.m.-4 p.m. Stop by, join our weekly newsletter, or like us on Facebook for a full calendar of events.

Fitness Center now open! To provide physical distancing, the hourly capacity is limited. You must call to pre-register.

Supplemental food assistance for qualifying Gulfport Seniors in need is available at the Senior Center. Pantry is open on Mondays and Thursdays from 1 p.m. - 3 p.m. Proper verification required prior to use of the pantry.

GEMS (Gulfport Extended Mobility Service) provides affordable Door-to-Door transportation service, rides to medical appointments, shopping, and much more for Gulfport residents, 55 years of age or older or disabled. 727-893-2242.

Medical Equipment Lending Program provides gently used wheelchairs, walkers, canes, crutches and other medical equipment to seniors who need it. Supplies limited.

SPECIAL EVENTS

Medicare & Health Insurance Assistance

Frustrated trying to navigate the insurance world? We have you covered! Make your appointment today.

Memory Screenings Worried about your memory? St. Anthony’s Memory Disorder Clinic offers free & confidential memory screenings.

Gulfcoast Legal Assistance Do you need assistance, with lifetime planning docs, Medicaid/Medicare issues, Social Security issues, food stamp issues, family law issues, consumer/debt collection Issues, or housing/contract Issues? Call to make an appointment with a legal representative. By appointment only.

Meet a Podiatrist Top 3 Foot Problems Learn about the causes for heel pain, fungal toenails, and corns and how to fix them.

Must pre-register. Rm. 107. May 4, 12:30 p.m. Veterans Coffee Connection Veterans of all service eras are invited to gather for coffee, support, friendship & to learn about available community resources. Rm. 106. May 5, 10 a.m.

Gulfport ROCKS! Join the party and create some fun rock art. All supplies provided. MUST Pre-register. Sponsored by Moore Medicare Options. Rm. 106. May 5, 1:30 p.m. Craft Fun with Princess Martha Create your very own craft to take home & enjoy. MUST pre-register. Rm 107. May 9, 12:30 p.m.

Meet & Greet Alzheimer’s Association Come and join the Alzheimer's Association for a Meet and Greet. Learn more about the Association and the Pinellas County Walk to End Alzheimer's. Meet your local development manager, Andrea Helme, and team! There are so many ways to become more involved and make a difference in our community as a leader, volunteer, sponsor, walk team and more!! We look forward to meeting you! D Hall. May 9, 2 p.m.

Health Talk with Labrador Primary: Battling the Aging Brain Part 2 Your brain has everything to do with who you are and what you do. Rm 107. May 11, 12 p.m.

Welcome to the Club Come meet the Senior Center Staff at this informative based orientation to welcome new members to the Senior Center. Rm 107. May 11, 2 p.m. Rhythm & Groove Jam Session Bring your instrument & join others for a casual jamming group. Open to anyone & everyone, all instruments, all levels of experience, & listeners. D Hall. May 11, 3 p.m.

Mother’s Day Tea Mothers, daughters, sisters, and aunts join us for a special afternoon tea in your honor. LIMITED SPACE, MUST RSVP to (727) 893-5657 by May 8. D

Hall. May 15, 3 p.m.

OTC with Cliff Are you using all of your Medicare benefits? Your OTC (Over-TheCounter) benefits allow you to order drugs & supplies at no cost. Lobby. May 16, 9:30 a.m.

iPhone / iPad Instruction Class Learn the basic functions of your Apple iPhone or iPad. Presented by the Gulfport Library. MUST Pre-register. Rm 107. May 16, 1 p.m. Trivia Mania! Have fun, test your knowledge, & win PRIZES! MUST pre-register. D Hall. May 16, 2 p.m.

Wellness Wednesday: Monthly Wellness Checks Make your health a priority & track your progress with these free monthly wellness screenings. TH Lobby. May 17, 9 a.m.

Farmer’s Market Bring your tote bags & help yourself to some healthy, fresh fruits & vegetables. N Parking Lot. May 17, 10:30 a.m. In the Kitchen with Chef Jack: Seafood Ceviche Soup Improve your culinary skills with step-by-step instruction from Chef Jack. MUST Pre-register. D Hall, May 18 4 p.m.

TEDTalks TED Talks are thought provoking “ideas worth sharing.” Come out for this monthly viewing & discussion of an inspirational TED Talk. This month’s talk: “You aren’t at the mercy of your emotions.” Rm 107. May 18, 2 p.m.

GEMS GETAWAYS

Tampa Bay Auto Museum. May 17; $6 GEMS Members / $8 Non-GEMS Members. $12 Entry fee paid to museum.

Gizella Kopsick Arboretum & Lunch at Po Folks. May 31; $6 GEMS Members / $8 NonGEMS Members.

Catherine Hickman Theater 727-893-1070 • 5501 27th Ave. S.

Art Reception featuring artwork by Town Shores Art Guild. Free and open to the public. May 12, 6 p.m.

Gulfport Casino Ballroom 727-893-1070 • 5500 Shore Blvd. S.

Swing Time’s Disco Party! May 12, 7 p.m., Hustle Lesson; 8 p.m.

Dancing to those funky disco grooves & beats! $10 Admission.

Sock Hop with The Impacs May 19, 7 p.m. Last show of the season!

Advance tickets available at Casino & Beach Bazaar. $15 / $25 for two. Tickets purchased day-of: $20.

Casino Weekly Dances

Ballroom Lessons: Tues., 12 p.m. $15 ($25 couple)

Argentine Tango: Tues., 6:30 p.m., $10

Swing: Weds., 7 p.m. $10

Latin Night: Thurs., 7 p.m. $10

Teen Space Spend time with friends and make new ones. Play games, make art, watch movies, or just hang out. Activities vary – and what we do is up to you! Ages 12-18 only. Tuesdays, 4 p.m.

Storytime Join us for stories, rhymes, music. Thursdays, 10:15 & 11 a.m.

Come & Go Craft Drop in for creative, self-directed crafting. For all ages, but some pieces might be on the small side. Supplies are limited and are on a first come, first served basis. Crafting located on children’s area tables. May. 6, 10 a.m.

Grown-Up Movie Series The Fate of all possible worlds rests on an exhausted mother. Starring Michelle Yeoh, Stephanie Hsu, and Jamie Lee Curtis. Winner of 7 Academy Awards, including Best Picture. Rated R. Call 727-893-1074 for title. May 6, 1 p.m.

Get Growing City horticulturist, Toffer Ross, answers all your questions about

gardening, trees, and landscaping in Florida. May 10, 11 a.m.

STEAM Club STEAM is short for Science, Technology, Engineering, Art, and Math. Jopin us as we explore these concepts through stories and hands-on activites Recommended for Grades K-5. Children must be accompanied by an adult. For additional information call 727-893-1074. May 10, 4 p.m.

SHINE Presentation: Medicare Basics Presentation on Medicare Parts A, B, C, & D and what they mean to you. FMI, visit www. floridashine.org. Call 727-893-1073 to make Individual appointments. May 17, 1 p.m. Book Club This month’s selection is “Beloved” by Toni Morrison. Available as print and audio. May 18, 2 p.m.

Lego Club It's time to build! Join us for some Lego creativity and see what construction challenges we have for you this week. Recommended for Grades K-5. Chil-

dren must be accompanied by an adult. May 20, 2 p.m.

COF Presents: Shorebirds & Seabirds of Tampa Bay Visit the beaches along the Gulf Coast of Florida and you’ll see them everywhere. During the spring and summer months, it’s time for many species to lay eggs and raise chicks. Holley Short, Audubon Florida’s Shorebird Program Manager, will discuss those that breed on the Gulf beaches. Sponsored by the Circle of Friends of the Gulfport Library. May 25, 1 p.m.

ArtOut 2023 Emergence: Artwork created by LGBTQ+ artists and Allies. Hosted by the LGBTQ Resource Center, this international juried exhibit will be held both in the Library, and virtually. Winning entries will be displayed at the James Museum of Western & Wildlife Art. Visit artout.lgbtqgulfport.org.

Exhibition dates at Library: June 1-29.

Annual registration: $3; $9, nonresidents

Pickleball

Intermediate and advanced Mon., 9 a.m.-1 p.m.

Beginners Tues., 9 a.m.-1 p.m.

All levels Tues., 6-8:30 p.m. and Thurs., 9 a.m.-1 p.m.

Adult Basketball Wed. & Fri., 9 a.m.-1 p.m.; Thurs., 6-8:30 p.m.

Table Tennis Tues. & Thurs., 9 a.m.-1 p.m.

Game Room Mon., Wed., & Fri., 9 a.m.-1 p.m.

PROGRAMS

Summer Program Registrations for the 2023 Summer Program continue for children who will complete Kindergarten thru age 14. The 10-week program is May 30th – August 4th. Hours of registration are Monday–Friday from 9 a.m.–5 p.m. Summer camp hours are from 7:30 a.m.–5:30 p.m. with extended hours available until 6 p.m. for an additional fee. There will be 25 available spots for the discount rate for Gulfport residents in need of assistance. Eligibility requirements for the discount is either a letter from the child’s school verifying the child’s acceptance

of free/reduced lunch or a letter verifying the child’s acceptance of assistance from financial aid or a related program. Detailed pricing is currently available at the Recreation Center, 5730 Shore Blvd. S. Call 893-1068 for any questions.

Teen Night! Registrations continue for the 2022-2023 Teen Night Program for teens in middle and high school, students 17 and younger. Recreation, social activities, field trips, cooking projects, guest speakers and service projects. Teens can use the gymnasium, game room and outdoor area. Mon., Wed., & Fri.: 6-9 p.m. Rec Center membership required: $3; $9, nonresidents.

CLASSES

Call instructor for more information. Want to teach a class? Call Jami: 727893-1079.

Ballet Tues., 5:45 p.m., ages 5-7; 6:45 p.m. intermediate ballet, ages 8-16. $40/month. Lisa: 727-742-2594.

Tap Tues., 7:45 p.m., intermediate. $20/

month. Lisa: 727-742-2594

Cardio Tennis Tues. & Thurs, 6 p.m.; Adult lessons are at Chase Park, 28th Ave. & 53rd St. S. $15/class. Mo: 727-515-1454.

Essentrics Toning Thurs., 9 a.m. $40/ month. Lauren: 248-875-7030

Danskinetics Tues., 10 a.m. $6/class or $20/month. Carol: 845-654-0609

F.I.T Tennis Fri., 6p.m.; Free for true beginners age 21 and up. Lessons are at Chase Park, 28th Ave & 53rd St. S. Mo: 727-5151454.

Hatha Yoga Wed., 6:15 p.m. $12/class or $40/month. Denise: 727-251-8868.

Nia Mon., 10 a.m. $15/class, $40/month.

Christine: 727-692-1896

Youth Hip Hop Fri., 6:30 p.m., ages 7-9; 7:30 p.m., ages 9-16. $40/month. Lisa: 727742-2594.

Hula Hoop Fitness Second & fourth Thursday, 6:30 p.m. $10/class. Maria: mestrada1987@gmail.com

Tai Chi Gung Mon. 6:30p.m. and Fri. 10 a.m. $15/class or $50/month. Call Kare 727-2620880

Zumba Thurs., 6 p.m., $6/class, $20/ month. Magda: 727-214-7868.

As It Was Vintage Explore Gulfport Boulevard’s Newest Shop

By Cameron Healy

Add this store to the list of Gulfport Boulevard’s shops: As It Was Vintage.

The Gulfport cottage used as storage space for Tisdale Construction has flipped into a midcentury modern vintage store. As It Was Vintage opened March 24, selling unique furniture and decor in the main space, side shed, and backyard.

“This is a more curated experience,” Owner Cynthia Bruce said. “There are lots of people who don’t like going to the dusty old antique stores, but I love it. Plenty of people don’t want to dig through all so we bring the good stuff here.”

This store offers interior design services along with eclectic items. Bruce assists customers with redesigning rooms in their homes. She received an interior design background at Ringling College in Sarasota, and spent the past 35 years with a contemporary interior design firm.

She provides a free, 30-minute consultation with customers who want to spruce up rooms in their homes.

“My big love for interior design is using what people have,” Bruce said. “In general, the idea is to recycle, reuse, and not throw away.”

Bruce tends to incorporate what

people already have, customers may find items at the shop to reinvent their spaces.

Many of these items date back to the early ‘30s through the late ‘70s, but overall the shop has 20th-century vintage.

Clothes and jewelry are currently in the works. Bruce said Aimee Kosta, events coordinator of Gulfport Merchants Chamber, plans to sell vintage clothes and jewelry at the new store.

“She’s got a lot of fun, shabby chic stuff,” Bruce said. “A lot of purses, jewelry, and vintage clothes, so that’ll

be a fun addition.”

Bruce credited singer Harry Styles for inspiring the store’s name.

“I was looking for a phrase rather than a word. I swear to God I can remember laying in bed running all the phrases through my head and I was like ‘well, duh, as it was’ -- my favorite song at the moment,” Bruce said. “In all fairness, I have to give that credit.”

As It Was Vintage, 5314 Gulfport Blvd. S., Gulfport. Tues. & Thurs.-Sun., 11 a.m.-6 p.m. 727-321-3820, asitwasvintage.com

Owner Cynthia Bruce stands outside of her new Gulfport vintage store.

CAMERON HEALY

city whys

Question: Do you have the results from this meeting [Gulfport on the Edge] available to read? The article discussed the meeting but not the final results. –Beth Roberts

Answer: We asked Gulfport’s Ward One council member, April Thanos, when people could expect to see a report.

“It is going to take us a while to compile all the information from all three sessions,” said. “We have a group of people working on how to best present the information.”

Look for a report on the results of all three sessions in a future issue of The Gabber Newspaper

Photos by Cameron Healy

Libah Castrillo, Gulfport: “Pia’s.”

Joe Castrillo, Gulfport: “The Tiki.”

Tessie Martin, Tampa: “Caddy’s.”

Bill Martin, Tampa: “Pia’s.”

Solution on page 26

Solution

Bonnie Lanners and Karon Devoid decided to take The Gabber Newspaper on a cruise to Honolulu, Hawaii for St. Patrick’s Day.

Have you taken The Gabber Newspaper somewhere? We want to see your pictures! Please send a high-resolution photo and a brief description to news@thegabber.com.

things to do

Cinco de Mayo, Bloody Marys, and a Junk Drop

Friday, May 5-Thursday, May 25

Swing Into Spring For the month of May, explore visual art from the Town Shores Art Guild in its new exhibit, Swing into Spring. Artists include Lyubov Alyeynik, Patricia M. Bowers, Beverly Boyarsky, MaryAnn Clynick, Madelyn Corradino, Dianne Marlene Hargitai, Peter Hargitai, Cheri LaBelle, Audrey E. Lynch, Jay A. Lynch, Bridget W. Marshall, Cora Marshall, Janice Stephenson, Linda Weesies, and Barbara Zegarek.  Catherine A. Hickman Theater, 5501 27th Ave. S., Gulfport. 6-9 p.m. 631-786-5370

Friday, May 5-Sunday, May 7

Markets, Moms & Mimosas Visit Vintage Marché this weekend for moms and mimosas! In celebration of Mother’s Day, bring your mom, grandma, step-mom, or even a dog mom and receive a free gift with your purchases. Enjoy wine and mimosas as you shop with the moms in your life. Want to beat the crowd? Get tickets for their first Friday dibs night online or pay at the door. Vintage Marché, 2906 34th St. S., St. Petersburg. Fri., 4-8 p.m. $5-10., Sat., 9 a.m.-6 p.m., Sun., 9 a.m.-5 p.m. 727-289-1828, vintagemarche727. com

Friday, May 5

GriefShare It’s not easy losing someone important. Richard and Beverly Hayes hold grief sharing groups every Friday. All are welcome; they open the sessions to anyone who needs a shoulder to lean on. Cornerstone Community Church, 6745 38th Ave. N., St Petersburg. 10 a.m. 727343-7747. griefshare.org

Cinco de Mayo Celebration  Don’t miss out on Mexican food and drinks this Cinco de Mayo. Try some margarita specials including blackberry, lime, jalapeño mango, and strawberry margs. If that’s not your cup of tea, there’s plenty of other drink and

mocktail options available. Enjoy live music from Tyler Costanzo and face painting by artist Nicole Hays. Nueva Cantina, 1625 4th St. S., St. Petersburg. 11 a.m.-9 p.m. 727-8519579, nuevacantina.com

Gulfport Rock Painting Every first Friday, check out this afternoon rock party. It’s your time to get creative with rock painting. Choose your rocks and get right to painting. Keep your new creations, gift them to your friends and family, or hide some around the city. Don’t forget to call ahead to register. Gulfport Senior Center, 5501 27th Ave. S., Gulfport. 1:30 p.m. 727-893-5657, mygulfport.us

Brenda McMahon Gallery Celebrate four years of Gulfport’s Brenda McMahon Art Gallery. Take a look at contemporary craft and fine art of local artists in the gallery and live music from Gale Trippsmith and Joey Interrante. Enjoy First Friday ArtWalk festivities while you’re down-

town. Brenda McMahon Art Gallery, 2901 Beach Blvd. S., Gulfport. 6-9 p.m. 727-454-0453, brendamcmahongallery.com

Yesterday Rising Meet Gulfport author Stephen Burdick at a book signing for his newest book. Get yourself a copy of Yesterday Rising, the third in his detective thriller series. After a brief reading, Burdick will talk about writing, his characters, and where he finds his inspiration. Gulfport Arts Center, 2726 54th St. S., Gulfport. 6:30 p.m. 727-201-8687.

Saturday, May 6

Cinco Dog Mayo 5K Grab your running shoes and your furry friends’ leashes for the Cinco Dog Mayo 5K. Run or walk the 5K or bring your dogs to participate in the half-mile doggy fun run. Check out vendors and food trucks after your runs. The proceeds go toward the nonprofit organization Compassion Kind & ALS Association. Archibald Memori-

Here’s something for Sunday: Create your own bloody mary by the beach on May 7.

SHADRACKS

al Beach Park, 15100 Gulf Blvd., Madeira Beach. 7 a.m.-1 p.m. $10-100. 727-914-6902, eventbrite.com

Got Junk? Dispose of your electronic and hazardous items at Gulfport’s Junk Drop. Do your part to help protect the environment by getting rid of your unwanted materials appropriately. Gulfport residents only, so please bring proof of residency. Gulfport Neighborhood Center, 1617 49th St. S., Gulfport. 8 a.m.-1 p.m. 727-893-1089, pinellas.gov

Sunday, May 7

Bloody Mary Garnish Bar Every first Sunday of the month, create your own bloody mary. This bloody mary garnish bar has more than 50 garnish options. Purchase a shot of vodka, pay a $2 tip, and you’re on your way to making your new favorite drink. Toppings include bacon, cheese, fruit, olives, and others. Shadracks, 114 8th Ave., St. Pete Beach. 11 a.m.-1 p.m. 727-360-8279.

Interactive Art Show Take a look at

this Tampa Bay artist’s first solo art show. Merritt Horan Capurro presents Exquisite Curves. This show celebrates the goddesses in life, such as wife, spouse, mom, friends, and herself. Check out an interactive exhibit, live music, and photo-op spot. Mastry’s Brewing Co., 7701 Blind Pass Road, St. Pete Beach. 12-4 p.m. 727-202-8045.

Monday, May 8

Get to Drawing!  Sign up for Jay’s beginner’s pencil drawing course. For three weeks, you’ll learn the ins-and-outs on how to draw with pencil. All you’ll need is a sketch pad, pencils, a sharpener, and your creative juices to create some amazing art. Call to register before the first session. Gulfport Senior Center, 5501 27th Ave. S., Gulfport. 10-11 a.m. 727-893-1231, mygulfport.us

Death Cafe Conversations Join the final session of the first annual Death Cafe, presented by Eck-

erd College students. Professor Shovali and students in a “death and dying” class invite you to talk about death, with no agenda. Eat cake, drink coffee, and have an open-ended conversation about death with others. Email Professor Shovali to sign up (shovalte@ eckerd.edu) Eckerd College, President’s Dining Room, 4200 54th Ave. S., St. Petersburg. 3:30 p.m. 727-864-7515

Tuesday, May 9

Alzheimer’s Discussion  Learn about Alzheimer’s disease from the Alzheimer’s Association and the Pinellas County Walk to End Alzheimer’s. This meet-and-greet event opens the floor to any questions and concerns about this disease. Make a difference in your community with involvement as a volunteer, sponsor, and a walk team. Gulfport Senior Center, 5501 27th Ave. S., Gulfport. 2 p.m. 727893-1231, mygulfport.us

pets

Affectionate

Asha

This happy 1-year-old, 7-pound domestic shorthair, named Asha, loves people, and would prefer to be the only cat in her home.

Chiquita Banana

This 1-yearold, 66-pound Shar-pei/ terrier mix is a bit shy at first, but always warms up. Chiquita has the most adorable wrinkles. She would be most comfortable in a home with no small children. Adopt her for $75. You must own your home to adopt Chiquita.

Baby Brother

Meet Brother! This 2-yearold, 8-pound domestic shorthair would love to be your new little bro. He can’t wait to cuddle with his new family members.

Marco Polo!

Marco is a 1-year-old, 76-pound Great Dane mix. This goofball is a giant teddy bear who doesn’t realize he’s not a lap dog. He loves following you around and being with his people.

Big Boy

Bruno

This 30-pound Boston terrier wants to be your good boy. Bruno is 7 years old, knows all his basic commands, and loves walking and exploring the neighborhood. He is super outgoing and curious.

Sweet Boy

Kent is an 8-week-old, 8-pound mutt. He loves to run, flop, and roll in the grass outside.

All pets spayed, vaccinated, micro-chipped and dewormed. Pet Pal Animal Shelter, 405 22nd Ave. S., St. Pete. 727-328-7738; petpalanimalshelter.com.

worship

17th St. & 29th Ave N

St. Petersburg 345-7777

Friday 7PM

Beth-El Shalom

Messianic Congregation

ShalomAdventure.com

JewishHeritage.net

Rabbi@JewishHeritage.net

St. Vincent’s Thrift Shop

5124 Gulfport Ave S. 33707

Hours 10 AM to 2PM

Wednesday to Saturday

Affiliated with St Vincent’s Episcopal Church 5441 9 th Ave N. • St. Petersburg, FL 33710

Sunday Services 10AM

Misa en Español: Domingos 12PM

Paradise Lutheran Church on Treasure Island

10255 Paradise Blvd, Treasure Island

Sunday Service

10am with Holy Communion

727-360-5739

paradiseluth102@gmail.com paradiselutheran.com

Unitarian Universalist United Fellowship

During the pandemic join us Sundays on Zoom. Discussion -10:30

Program - 11:00

For Zoom directions email us at uuunited@earthlink.net

“You need not think alike to love alike.”

- Francis David,

1534 uuunited.org

obituaries

AN EPISCOPAL CONGREGATION

330 85th Avenue • St. Pete Beach

Reverend Omar Reyes

Sundays 10:00am Holy Eucharist

Wednesdays 11:00am Holy Eucharist with Prayers for Healing

“St. Alban's is an inviting faith community striving to live out the Gospel of Jesus Christ. So, no matter who you are or where you are on life's journey, you are welcome here.”

727-360-8406 • www.StAlbanStPeteBeach.org

Maryjo Vetters, a beloved resident of Gulfport, passed away on Thursday, April 20, 2023, at the age of 85. Maryjo was born on November 19, 1937, in Michigan, to Thomas and Mary Regan. She was one of 10 children in her family. After moving to Florida, Maryjo married Robert and together they raised their children in Gulfport. Maryjo was a friendly face at The Same Place Tavern where she worked as a

bartender and enjoyed meeting new people. Later, she worked as a cook at Bear Creek Elementary School until her retirement. Maryjo was surrounded by her loving family at the time of her passing in Citrus County. She is survived by her four children: Vikki Crowley, Rick Crowley (Theresa), Mary Yorton, and Barbara Gotts, as well as her grandchildren, Tiffany Pierce, Thomas Crowley, Adam Crowley, Joshua Strause, and Brandie Gasaway. Maryjo also leaves behind many beloved great-grandchildren, her sisters Rita, Caroline, and Marcella, and her brother Dennis. Arrangements for Maryjo’s private cremation are being handled by Roberts of Ocala Funeral Home. In lieu of flowers, memorial donations can be made in Maryjo’s memory to the SPCA Tampa Bay. Maryjo will be remembered for her warm smile, friendly personality, and dedication to her family and community.

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"SHE SAVE MY LIFE."

Tampa Bay area resident Jean P. had been experiencing the painful side effects of peripheral neuropathy, “My feet and legs were extremely painful and my doctor told me there was nothing they could do and that I would have to take gabapentin for the rest of my life.” Then she met St. Petersburg's Dr. Rebecca Gibbons.

Peripheral neuropathy is the pain, discomfort and numbness caused by nerve damage of the peripheral nervous system Jean explained that daily tasks like opening doors and using the bathroom were overwhelmingly painful. “How can you live for the next 30 years when you don’t even want to get out of bed to do simple things?"

She was experiencing the burning, numbness, tingling and sharp pains that those suffering with neuropathy often describe. “The way that I would describe it, is that it's equivalent to walking on glass.” Jean hadn’t worn socks in five years and was wearing shoes two sizes too big so that nothing would ‘touch’ her feet

Unfortunately Jean's story is all too familiar. Over 20 million people in the U.S. suffer from peripheral neuropathy.

If you’re unfortunate enough to be facing the same disheartening prognosis, you’re not sleeping at night because of the burning in your feet. You have difficulty walking, shopping or doing any activity for more than 30 minutes because of the pain. You’re struggling with balance and living in fear that you might fall.

Your doctor told you to ‘just live with the pain’ and you’re taking medications that aren’t working or have uncomfortable side effects.

Dr. Gibbons, founder of Achieve Acupuncture & Integrative Medicine in St Petersburg, is using the science of acupuncture and other integrative techniques that assist in increasing blood flow and expediting recovery and healing to treat this debilitating disease.

“Now when I go to bed at night I don’t have those shooting pains. I don’t have that burning sensation. I don’t have pain coming up my legs,”Jean enthusiastically describes life after receiving Dr. Gibbons treatments. 'I can wear socks and shoes!”

Jean and her sister now operate a successful dog walking business, sometimes covering up to 5 miles a day

"It's life altering. As far as I am concerned, Dr. Gibbons saved my life!"

Dr. Gibbons who has also been an RN for over 16 years, integrates both her western medicine background with effective eastern medicine strategies to be able to offer a different non-drug, non surgical option to those who have chronic pain, neuropathy, and autoimmune conditions.

If you’ve missed too many tee times or pickleball games because of pain or because you are afraid of falling, it’s time to call Dr Gibbons and her team at Achieve Acupuncture & Integrative Medicine

Dr. Gibbons is now accepting new patients. To learn more visit WWW.ACHIEVEACUIM.COM or to schedule your consultation call 727-272-3587.

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If you have questions about advertising, please email us at advertising@thegabber.com or call 727-321-6965! Deadline: Friday 3 p.m.

COMPUTER

Accounting

727-343-2838

In-Home services: Internet security, training, virus & spyware removal, maintenance and repair, data recovery. (PC & Mac)

HANDYMAN SERVICES Electrical: ceiling fans, lighting, switches and outlets and other devices. Plumbing: faucets, valves, and other fixtures. Door locks and cabinet hardware. Flips to problem solving and rental punch lists. References upon request. David: 727-851-7548.

Virtual bookkeeping for small businesses and nonpro ts. Monthly packages customized to your needs or one time cleanups. Payroll available. QuickBooks Online Certi ed ProAdvisor. 10+ years experience. Call/text to 727-248-0714 or email to nspence@clearnumbers.biz

JS COMPUTER REPAIR Mobile computer repair – $40 per visit/hour – 727-643-0697; jscomputerrepair.com

Gulfport Computer Repair

HANDYMAN SEMI-RETIRED All types of repairs. Small jobs welcome. Quality work at reasonable prices. Honest. Reliable. Free estimates. John: 727-410-2201.

AFFORDABLE CONCRETE PATIOS, WALKWAYS, DRIVEWAY EXTENSIONS, & REPAIRS

Custom concrete patios, driveway extensions,custom steps, & all types of concrete repairs. Storage Building slabs. Over 35 years experience. Call Mark for a free estimate: 813-859-2023.

DAVE’S TILE & BATHROOM REMODELS & FLOORING INSTALLATIONS Specializing in bathroom remodels, marble tile, flooring, etc. 36 years mechanical experience, competitive rates. Call anytime, day or night: 727-798-2075.

Electrical

AMERICAN BUILDERS GROUP LLC

Over 30 years experience. Residential & commercial, new or remodel work, service upgrades, lightning arrestors, fans and lighting installed. State license #ER0007653.

Residential/Commercial. All phases of remodeling or renovations. Roofs, kitchens, baths, room additions, new construction, doors, windows, stone or concrete work, flooring, and much, much more. Free estimates. CCC 1333727 CGC 059964. 727-410-7323.

DARCY ROOFING LLC

Caregivers

LOCAL AND INDEPENDENT COMPASSIONATE COMPANION CAREGIVER A South Pasadena local providing concierge services for seniors in their home. Services include companionship, running errands, transportation to appointments, light laundry, cleaning, cooking, and medication reminders. Call Gail at 260-242-0246, email gail@ compassionatecompanioncareforseniors. com, or visit www.compassionatecompanioncareforseniors.com

HOMEWATCH CAREGIVERS OF ST. PETE BEACH

Serving the greater St. Petersburg area. Family owned and local business. Providing in-home personal aid companion care, after surgery care, 24-hour care, dementia care, postpartum support, childcare, to name a few. 727-914-7472. hwcg.com/StPete-Beach AHCA #299995153

CLEAN UP CLEAN UP CLEAN UP XERISCAPING/ PLANTS/MULCH

Skilled labor, anything around the house from A-Z. Weeding, rock gardens cleaned, lawn maintanence, leaves removed, mulch, sod, and plants installed. Small trees planted and removed. Pressure washing. Electrical consults available. Free estimates. 30 years experience. Locally St. Pete /Gulfport: 407244-6045. James: 407-244-6045.

Residential/Commercial. All roofing typesT.P.O., tapered systems, shingle, metal, tile, & flat roofs. Great prices, best warranties. Our general contracting division also does kitchens, baths, additions, new construction, and much, much more. Free estimates. CCC 1333727 CGC 059964. 727-410-7323.

THE TRASH QUEEN 10% SPRING CLEANING DISCOUNT

My team will clean-up/clean-out, inside and out. Organizing, dumping, recycling, odd jobs, yard and maintenance work. Free estimate! We are licensed and insured, with truck and trailer. Call/text 845-866-3867.

Expert Leak Repair

Serving Florida Since 1979 For

ARNEY’S PAINTING INC.

30 years experience. Painting expert plus wallpaper hanging and removing. Lic. #C9579. Call Arney: 727-900-3459.

SEASONS BEST PAINTING & CONTRACTING, LLC Interior/exterior painting and power washing services. Over 25 years of experience. 727-506-3677. Licensed/insured. Lic. #C-11623”

PINNIX PAINTING, INC. In business locally since 1980. Interior, exterior, commercial, residential. Free Estimates. Lic. #C4334. Call 727-504-1508.

Wade Parrish parrishandsonsroofing.com 727-742-8074

IRRIGATION STAIN REMOVAL

Remove ugly rust-colored irrigation stains from vinyl fencing and most surfaces around your house or business, including signage. Free estimate and demonstration. Call/text 727-360-7070. ruststainremoval@icloud.com

Professional

RENEW YOUR MARRIAGE VOWS!

Anywhere in Gulfport, Pasadena, Madeira, and St. Pete area. At your home, park, garden, or on the beach. Schedule now with Florida’s respected Chaplain, Rich L. Kemp. Half hour ceremony only $77.77. Book at 702-577-6777.

KITCHEN HELP NEEDED ALL POSITIONS

Miscellaneous Service

NOTARY SERVICES - $10

The Gabber now provides Notary Services (in office only) at 2908-B Beach Blvd S., Gulfport. Our Notary Public is not an attorney licensed to practice law in the State of Florida, and may not give legal advice or accept fees for legal advice.

American Legion Post 125, St. Pete, is seeking waitress staff and cook assistant. Seniors encouraged to apply. Call or text 727326-7756 for details.

HELP AROUND MY HOME

Need help re-organizing my home, yard, storage unit, & more. Dog walking and other services, too. Near 38th Ave N. between 66th & 58th St. N. Call Helen: 727-235-3257.

High quality, professional painting. Free estimates. Lic.#9894. Insured. 727-365-1088.

HIRING BARTENDERS & DISHWASHER

The Hurricane Seafood Restaurant on Pass-a-Grill Beach. No phone calls - apply in person. 809 Gulf Way St., St. Pete Beach, FL 33706.

For Sale

1984 VW GT-I FOR SALE

A daily driver, mechanically sound. Good A/C. Good tires. Call 727-804-1594.

General

GULFPORT LIONS CLUB Available for parties, weddings, meetings. Great waterfront location with full facilities. Call Jean for info and dates. 727-366-6341.

Legal Notices

COPYRIGHT NOTICE

Pseudonym: Crown of Mauri Nation LLC# RP4463800094003087413608 Country: United States of America Received: 202304-16 Title: Copyright Notice: Living Man on the Land Walking on Water. Copyright Number 00079507-1. WILEY HUBBARD III and all derivatives are :copy-right-now-space/copy-claim. All property including twin placenta are in the care of Live Life Calamint :Wiley : Hubbard El. Suv’eran Crown Post Master, honor all terms and condition, schedule fees, publications, Claim of Right, Acknowledgement, AGE OF MAJORITY, etc.

COPYRIGHT NOTICE Copyright Notice Living Man on Land Walking on Water EDDY RANDOLPH MARCELLIN and All derivative are copy-right-now-space/copy-claim. All properties including twin placenta are in the care of Live Life Claimant : Eddy-Randolph : Marcellin El Suv’eran Crown POSTMASTER, honor all terms and conditions scheduled fees, publication, Claim of Right, Acknowledgement,AGE OF MAJORITY, etc.

NOTICE OF FICTITIOUS NAME REGISTRATION NOTICE IS HEREBY GIVEN. The undersigned, will engage in business under the name Let’s Talk and will register with the Florida Department of State. [JAZYMIKD Holdings, LLC, PO Box 66164 St Pete Beach 33736]

Yard / Garage Sale

GARGANTUAN, MASSIVE, COLOSSAL MOVING SALE

Saturday, May 6, 9 a.m. -2 p.m. 4926 23rd Ave. S., Gulfport. The house is sold! Exceptional collection of home and garden, women’s clothing, including Eileen Fisher, Chico’s, and Tommy Bahama. Hundreds of books/CD’s, furniture, collectibles, rowing machine, outdoor furniture, tools/hardware, women’s bike.

Pass-a-Grille Beach Community Church

THRIFT SHOP

17th Ave & Pass-a-Grille Way

Regular Hours: Tues., Thurs., Sat. 9 a.m. - 12 Donations Welcome September thru May 15, 2023

Real Estate For Rent

WHAT A VIEW!

Waterfront 1BD/1BA. Fully furnished condo Nottingham Blg, 5th Floor of Town Shores, 55+ complex. All utilities included except electric. Use of 4 pools & clubhouse. No smoking, No pets. 1 year lease available immediately. $2,000/month. Call 727-4350537. PHONE CALLS ONLY.

NICE, QUIET, GULFPORT EFFICIENCY Furnished, 5 minutes to Marina. Private entrance, parking. Includes utilities, heat, A/C, & wi-fi (internet). No smoking, no pets. References required. 55+. $1,100/month. Call 727-455-7296.

Real Estate Sales

Find More Home Sales at thegabber.com. Here’s what homes sold in South Pinellas Apr. 21-27.

Gulfport Real Estate

5950 Pelican Bay Plaza S., #PH-1C (Pasadena Yacht & Country Club)

This two-bedroom, two-bath condo, built in 1982, has 1,476 square feet. It listed for $500,000 and sold for $525,000.

1107 59th St. S. (Stetson)

This three-bedroom, three-bath home, built in 1952, has 1,872 square feet. It listed for $474,000 and sold for $465,000.

1808 60th St. S. (Stetson)

This two-bedroom, one-bath home, built in 1954, has 1,188 square feet. It listed for $465,000 and sold for $395,000.

2208 Premier Dr. S. (Pasadena Yacht & Country Club)

This three-bedroom, two-bath home – built in 1966 – has 1,875 square feet. It listed and sold for for $560,000.

5068 Jersey Ave. S. (Tangerine)

This three-bedroom, two-bath home, built in 1957, has 1,260 square feet. It listed and sold for $385,000.

1220 58th St. S. (Tangerine)

This two-bedroom, one-bath home, built in 1954, has 756 square feet. It listed for $299,900 and sold for $295,500.

BARRY LOPER