The
Acharei Mot
May 3, 2019
28 Nisan, 5779 Vol 18, No 16
JEWISH
STAR
Serving LI’s Orthodox communities
From left: Rabbi Yisroel Goldstein, Lori Gilbert-Kaye, Hy”d, and 8-year-old Noya Dahan.
Speaking in face of evil From a seemingly endless stream of reactions to the tragedy at Chabad of Poway, we’ve chosen to quote from two — by Rabbi Hershel Billet of the Young Israel of Woodmere and Rabbi Chaim Steinmetz of Kehilath Jeshurun on the Upper East Side. From Rabbi Billet: After the Shoah, we struggled with the question whether “it” can happen here. Unfortunately, [Pittsburgh and Poway] tell us that it can happen here. But there is still a difference. During the Holocaust, it was a case of state-sponsored racial anti-Semitism. Here it seems to be a case of individuals who have been inspired by some demons who tell them to murder Jews. … We just never thought that it could happen in the USA. There has been condemnation across the political spectrum. Law enforcement officers in Pittsburgh risked their lives on behalf of the parishioners and the police in California responded judiciously to the attack.
But, we cannot relax knowing this. We should also not forget that the US Congress failed to condemn the anti-Semitism spewed by one of its members. And there is a trio of newly-elected representatives who stand together against Israel on a consistent basis. And they are not the only ones! Make no mistake. It is okay to be critical of Israel. But certain expressions of anti-Israel dissent are not political but antiSemitic. Anti-Israel too often becomes the cover for anti-Semitism. That is why it is important to support the work of AIPAC and NORPAC. And by support, I mean being present, if at all possible. It is also important to be supportive of our synagogue security force. … The men and women who volunteer are actually putting themselves in harms way to protect all of us. We should be grateful to them. That is why we are honoring them at this year’s See Speaking on page 18 YIW dinner.
‘Never again’— again By Gabrielle Birkner POWAY, Calif. — With hundreds gathered to show support for the victims of a shooting inside his shul, Rabbi Yisroel Goldstein recounted the moment when he came face to face with the gunman and what happened next: He described watching a congregant’s husband, a doctor, faint as he attempted to give CPR to his bloodied wife, and hearing their daughter call out in terror. “This is not supposed to happen,” Rabbi Goldstein told the crowd, which had gathered for a candlelight vigil at a park Sunday in this affluent community of 50,000, 20 miles north of San Diego. “This is not a pogrom. This is Poway.” Poway’s landscape is textbook Southern California with its tract houses, red-tiled roofs, manicured lawns and palm trees off in the distance. But a day after a gunman entered Chabad of Poway, killing congregant Lori Gilbert-Kaye, 60, and injuring three others, including Rabbi Goldstein, the Jewish community here teetered between disbelief (“Poway of all places?”) and the conviction that in a post-Pittsburgh world, all Jewish communities are possible targets. (“Yes, even Poway.”) Rabbi Mendy Rubenfeld, Chabad of Poway’s Hebrew school director, said the city is a warm, welcoming place for religious Jews. In the 16 years that he’s lived here, “I never received an unkind statement. No one has so much as shown me the finger.” After a gunman motivated by his antipathy for Jewish support for immigrants killed worshippers inside Pittsburgh’s Tree of Life synagogue, Rubenfeld knew such an attack was likely to happen again somewhere. He just never thought it would be here. “We always say ‘never again,’ but here we are,” said Douglas Stone, 70, a friend of Rabbi Goldstein, a member of Adat Shalom and an active participant in Chabad’s programming. Given the threat, Stone said, “I’ve thought about getting a gun” for protection. Saturday’s shooting took place on the last
Mourners leave mementos across the street from the Chabad Community Center in Poway.
day of Passover and six months to the day after the Pittsburgh massacre. It closely followed two other deadly attacks on houses of worship, one targeting Muslims in New Zealand and another targeting Christians in Sri Lanka. Rene Carmichael, who works for the city of Poway, said it’s common to see Orthodox Jews walking to services along Rancho Bernardo Road, one of the city’s main thoroughfares, on Saturday mornings and Jewish holidays. Leah Golembesky, a longtime member of Chabad of Poway, said newfound fear will now accompany the walk. “Now we are too scared to walk with a kippah,” said Golembesky, 37, whose husband was
Gabrielle Birkner
worshipping at another area Chabad on Saturday. “We saw these type of incidents coming.” Golembesky said her young children have faced anti-Semitic harassment at area public schools and that a Poway house with Chanukah decorations was vandalized with swastikas in the past year. At around 11:30 am Saturday, as more than 60 congregants worshipped inside, a 19-year-old gunman identified as John Earnest entered the building and began firing shots. Rabbi Goldstein heard a loud noise, went to investigate and found a bloodied Gilbert-Kaye lying on the floor in the lobby. She had come to take part in the Yizkor service for her late mother, who died last year.
Rabbi Goldstein, who was shot in the hands, lost a finger in the attack. Almog Peretz, who was visiting and originally from Sderot — an Israeli city that is a frequent target of Hamas rockets — was hit in the leg. Peretz’s niece, Noya Dahan, 8, also suffered shrapnel wounds during the shooting. Gilbert-Kaye, the sole fatality, was remembered as thoughtful and generous. Her friends said she would drop off gifts for no other reason than that she was thinking of them. “If you were sick, she’d be there giving you chicken soup,” said Michelle Silverstein of nearby La Jolla, adding that her friend “would give and give and give, and she believed that giving anonymously was the highest degree of tzedakah.” Last year, Gilbert-Kaye and Silverstein celebrated their 60th birthdays together, and they had already begun discussing what they would do when they turned 70. Gilbert-Kaye is survived by her husband, Howard Kaye, a physician, and their daughter, Hannah Kaye, 22. The gunman was chased off with the help of two Chabad congregants: Oscar Stewart, a U.S. Army veteran, and Jonathan Morales, an off-duty border patrol agent. Earnest was apprehended and has since been charged with one count of first-degree murder and three counts of attempted murder. Local law enforcement is treating the shooting as a hate crime. As unlikely a target as many considered Poway to be, the Chabad convened an event about synagogue security last fall in the wake of the Pittsburgh shooting. “We memorialized the victims of the Tree of Life massacre, and then we gave them tips about what to do if hate comes knocking at the door,” said Poway Mayor Steve Vaus, who attended the meeting with representatives of the San Diego County Sheriff’s Department. “Tips like, if you can run away, run away; if you can hide, hide; if you can’t hide, challenge the shooter.’” See Never on page 18