May 10, 2013

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THE JEWISH

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VOL 12, NO 18 Q MAY 10, 2013 / 1 SIVAN 5773

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YOM YERUSHALAYIM:

YIW: Caring for aging parents The heart & soul of the Jewish people By Malka Eisenberg

The care of aging parents, though difficult, is a necessary fact of life and should be approached with a proper attitude and with an understanding of ethics and Jewish law. In a talk that combined Talmudic and other Jewish legal sources with medical expertise, Rabbi Dr. Aaron Glatt and Rabbi Dr. Richard Weiss discussed “The Circle of Life: Considering the Ethical and Halakhic Parameters of Caring for Aging Parents” this past Sunday at the Young Israel of Woodmere. The program was presented by Yeshiva University’s Student Medical Ethics Society. “I certainly don’t have all the answers,” began Dr. Glatt, Executive Vice President and Chief Admin-

A message from the National Council of Young Israel Yom Yerushalayim is a monumental day in Jewish history. It is a celebration of the first time in 2,000 years that Jews regained sovereignty over the Kotel, the Western Wall, and the Temple Mount, which is Judaism’s holiest site. And it is a time to thank G-d for giving us the extraordinary gift that is Jerusalem. We were overwhelmed and outnumbered by our enemies in 1967, yet the State of Israel and the Israel Defense Forces achieved a miraculous victory when they reclaimed and reunited Jerusalem in a defensive war after Jordan launched an attack against them. We salute and remember the brave Israeli soldiers who battled our antagonists and prevailed in just six days, retaking Jerusalem and the Kotel along the way. Many of us, young and old, sometimes take it for granted that we have control over Jerusalem and unfettered access to our holy sites. However, it is important to always recall that there was a time, not that long ago, when Jerusalem was off limits to Jews. Understandably, it is difficult for the younger generation, who did not experience a divided Jerusalem, to fathom that there was an era when Jerusalem was not under our purview. For those who lived through it, it was extremely painful and especially frustrating that we were precluded from visiting Israel’s capital. Jews throughout the world prayed that Jerusalem would once again be ours and we yearned for the time when we could once again bask in the holy

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Former Israeli Prime Minister Menachem Begin, a”h glow of this righteous and radiant city. Now, years after Israeli forces achieved this remarkable feat, even the older generation can easily forget about the centuries that Jews were denied access to our most holy sites. We must thank G-d on Yom Yerushalayim for restoring our connection to Jerusalem and for keeping His promise. It is a day to reflect and appreciate the great gift that He has given us. And it is the perfect occasion to focus on the vital role that a unified Jerusalem plays in the lives of the Jewish people. Israel’s prime ministers have always maintained that Jerusalem is a ‘red line’ that cannot and will not be crossed. Prime Minister Menachem Begin said it best at Camp David in 1978 when he Continued on page 7

istrative Officer at Mercy Medical Center and Assistant Rabbi at the Young Israel of Woodmere. He said that this is a “difficult talk” and a problem that everyone there “has, is, or will face…maintaining a loved ones dignity going through the aging process. We’ll all be in those shoes one day, im yirtzeh Hashem (if G-d wills it) because the alternative is no good.” He warned about being careful, that we “get exactly what we reap” that how we treat our parents will be how we will be treated by our children. “Forget the ideal of lishma (for the sake of the deed)” but for selfish reasons—setting the stage for “our own aging process.” Glatt cited Nadav and Avihu’s deaths in this week’s Parsha as caused by their lack of respect for their father Aharon, uncle Moshe

Israeli Naval officer visits New York By Malka Eisenberg Israeli naval captain Ori Dadon has seen combat in two news making skirmishes in the defense of Israel and spoke with the Jewish Star about his life and experiences as first company commander aboard the Israeli Navy ship the NItzachon. Dadon visited the United States to appear at the Friends of the Israel Defense Forces (FIDF) gala in New York in March. Other soldiers will be in attendance at the upcoming Five Towns and Greater South Shore 2nd Annual Community Event to benefit the soldiers of the IDF on May 22nd at the Sephardic

Temple in Cedarhurst. Captain Dadon, age 24, was born in Ramle and moved with his family at age 13 to Modi’in. He served the standard three years of service in the Navy and earned a BS in political science and economics at Haifa through the Naval Academy. He is currently first command and defense officer, a company commander on the missile boat, in command of 15 fighters. His responsibility includes the ship’s systems and the ship, and protecting Israel from missile and enemy attack, he said. He said that they “eat, fight Continued on page 8

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and for G-d, and by not having married. He stressed that children are “doing G-d’s work” when taking care of their parents’ and that it “makes it easier to bear” knowing that. “We have to subordinate our own psychology to Hashem’s way.” Rabbi Glatt recounted the Talmudic story of Dama ben Nesina, a non-Jew who lived during the time of the Temple and who was cited as exemplary in his respect for his parents. He did not wake his father and did not object when his mother assaulted him in public. Rabbi Glatt also told of Rabbi Tarfon’s respect and care of his mother. Glatt delineated six requirements in the care and honoring of parents: feeding and giving them to drink, bringing them to and from places, clothing them and ensuring

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Ori Dadon, Israeli Naval Captain, visited New York recently.


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