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CONTENTS
contents SPRING/SUMMER 2018
in this issue 12 get the look 16 theknot.com 20 editor’s letter 24 checklist 28 ask carley 38 top picks 44 8 wedding-worthy lofts 48 expert advice
real couples 57 haute hues 65 love stories 345 marriage licenses and wedding announcements 384 snapshot
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beauty & wellness 165 beauty for hire All your makeup choices can be overwhelming—consider hiring a pro.
171 8 couples’ workouts
you have to try
Stay on track with your fitness goals and sweat with your partner.
177 treat yourself Splurge on some self-care.
182 a prewedding talk for
modern couples
There are a few things to hash out before saying “I do.”
fashion 187 how to avoid dress drama Tips for keeping your wedding party feeling happy and confident.
199 10 things bridal consultants
want you to know
From your first shopping trip to the final fitting, here’s what to consider.
205 accessorize in style A comprehensive guide to pulling off a personalized look.
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Soft pastels, floral details and airy fabrics create a whimsical ambience.
223 the ultimate ring guide
231 tailor on call
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Custom suit specialist Nick Torres answers your fit questions.
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style 98 high impact Vibrant fuchsia and sleek black team up for a dramatic, modern affair.
105 top cake tips Ideas for a perfect confection.
111 defining details Invitation accents for a memorable suite that will get guests excited for your day.
119 your perfect palette The best color combinations to match your individual wedding style.
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128 beyond the bouquet Floral accents to make every part of your décor stand out.
143 camouflage theory Clever solutions to fix unsightly venue issues.
149 gift some green Delight guests with these nature-inspired DIY favors.
154 style your table Register for a mix-and-match tabletop that’s so “you.”
165
beauty for hire
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CONTENTS
real weddings 71 nora & alex
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october 1, house springs, mo
76 shayna & dan
your catering checklist
august 27, st. louis
80 shreya & nevin september 3, st. louis
84 trish & andy may 6, st. louis
88 jessica & jay october 1, russellville, mo
92 margot & drew june 25, st. louis
96 tiara & eliott april 1, st. louis
planning 303 get the picture
62 wedding talk 101 A dictionary for all the wedding lingo.
270 how to throw
309 party perfect
Details to keep in mind when planning for a seaside affair.
279 planner perks
Fresh ideas to bring new life to a traditional ceremony.
Why you should hire a pro, plus the right type for you.
245 randi & clint
323 include your crew
285 moving pictures
august 6, weston, mo
Everything you need to know before booking a videographer.
250 allison & michael november 5, kansas city, mo
291 your catering checklist
256 rebecca & klayton
Create a memorable wedding meal with these pointers.
october 1, rose hill, ks
260 megan & trey
297 the road to “I do”
january 14, kansas city, mo
Top transportation tips that will have you riding away in style.
264 kathy & jesse
Fun ways to entertain guests.
315 a true-to-you “I do”
Wedding roles to make loved ones feel special.
329 your top venue issues, solved Smart solutions to tackle any hiccups that come your way.
339 this one’s for the girls Make your bachelorette weekend one to remember.
october 15, wichita, ks
266 lis & maria march 25, kansas city, mo
268 cheyenne & colton september 23, leavenworth, ks
r eal wedding budget key $ = $10,000 or less
W e know your #1 question is “How much does this cost?” so we worked with the couples to tally up their final budgets (sweat and tears not included!). Keep in mind that this total doesn’t reflect the prices of their individual wedding professionals or the quality of their work. Every couple has different priorities— while one might have spent the majority of their budget on a stellar cake, another might have splurged on their photographer or showstopping florals.
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$$$$ = $50,001–$75,000
$$$$$ = $75,001+
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Nick Allen Photo. Gown by: Lazaro. Accessories: Lindsay Marie Design. Decor: Ultrapom. Model: Bayleigh Dayton of Exposure Model and Talent.
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ABOUT THE COVER
Check out more fashion-forward dresses for your wedding day and beyond at TheKnot.com/fashion.
ON HER
Dress, price upon request, Mira Zwillinger, MiraZwillinger.com; veil, $995, LivHart.com; aquamarine cocktail ring, $48,570, CoastDiamond.com
ON HER
Dress, $2,995, Marchesa Notte, Marchesa.com; engagement ring, $5,225 (not including center stone), CoastDiamond.com; hairpins, $85 each, BijouVanNess.com; earrings, $354, Oscar de la Renta, NeimanMarcus.com; shoes, $540, SophiaWebster.com
ON HER
Dress, $7,590, Romona Keveza at The Gown Gallery, GownGallery.com (Kansas City, MO); earrings, $2,221, AnabelaChan.com
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BRIDAL IN BLOOM
With its spectacular grounds full of living sculptures, Ladew Topiary Gardens was a natural fit for our lighthearted fashion feature, “Avant Garden.� After all, what better place to shoot floral-print dresses and whimsical accessories than a lush location with a distinctly magical feel?
glam squad Hairstylist Alberto Guzman preps our model before she poses with a peacock topiary.
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EDITOR IN CHIEF
Kristen Maxwell Cooper DESIGN DIRECTOR
DEPUTY EDITOR
MANAGING EDITOR
ASSISTANT MANAGING EDITOR
REAL WEDDINGS DIRECTOR
PHOTO DIRECTOR
Tracy Everding
Lauren Kay
Susan Berryman
Maria Bouselli
Rebecca Crumley
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SENIOR DIGITAL EDITOR SENIOR NEWS EDITOR FASHION & BEAUTY EDITOR STLYE & PLANNING EDITOR REAL WEDDINGS EDITORS ASSISTANT EDITOR, RESEARCH EDITORIAL ASSISTANT, FASHION & BEAUTY EDITORIAL ASSISTANT, DIGITAL SOCIAL EDITOR CONTRIBUTING ART DIRECTOR DESIGNER REAL WEDDINGS DESIGNERS ASSOCIATE PHOTO EDITOR ASSOCIATE DIGITAL PHOTO EDITOR VIDEO PRODUCER EDITORIAL & MARKETING COORDINATOR
Ivy Jacobson Esther Lee Shelley Brown Alyssa Longobucco Stephanie Cain, Rachel Sylvester Katie Kortebein Farah Prince Maggie Seaver Jessica Molinari Toby Fox Katie Ragan Kasey Schroeder, Kate Richter Sarah Love Barrie Tovar Jose Marmolejos Toni Franchini
PRODUCTION VP, PRODUCTION Frank Dolphens PRODUCTION COORDINATOR Jesse Hardy SYSTEMS MANAGER Sheryl Ziegler SENIOR GRAPHIC DESIGNERS Daryl Wills, Katie Hover GRAPHIC DESIGNER Nicole Daberkow PHOTO PRODUCTION MANAGER Carly Steier PRINT QUALITY ASSURANCE Lois Brunnert Bethune
THE STUDIO @ XO HEAD OF STUDIO Nick Fortunato EDITORIAL DIRECTOR Elizabeth Roehrig PRODUCER Joanna Dedvukaj SENIOR EDITORS Cassie Kreitner, Kate Traverson ASSOCIATE COPY EDITOR Kelsey Paine SENIOR DESIGNER Amanda Kocis Gallagher ASSISTANT MANAGING EDITOR Kelley Rowland JUNIOR DIGITAL MARKETING COORDINATOR Claire Flanagan
SALES & MARKETING PRESIDENT, LOCAL MARKETPLACE Paul Bascobert, pbascobert@xogrp.com GROUP VP, LOCAL SALES John Pike, jpike@xogrp.com (212) 515-3535 PUBLISHER Carolyn Mantone, cmantone@theknot.com (888) 873-5093 REGIONAL SALES DIRECTOR Steve Pironti, spironti@theknot.com (650) 548-1307 ACCOUNT EXECUTIVES Britt Shelby, bshelby@theknot.com (877) 430-8266
REGIONAL/NATIONAL ACCOUNT MANAGER SPECIALIST REGIONAL SALES DIRECTOR FASHION ACCOUNT EXECUTIVE BEAUTY ACCOUNT EXECUTIVE DIRECTOR OF SHOWS & EVENTS SENIOR MARKETING MANAGER STRATEGY SPECIALISTS DIRECTOR, PUBLIC RELATIONS MANAGER, PUBLIC RELATIONS
Mindi Middleton, mmiddleton@theknot.com (913) 601-4970 Rhonda Haberkamp, rhondah@xogrp.com (888) 332-7815 Diane Thaete, dthaete@xogrp.com (877) 771-3018 Leslie Karrer, lkarrer@xogrp.com (913) 499-6720 Muthithar Vinson, mvinson@xogrp.com (855) 891-7062 Susana Diharce, sdiharce@xogrp.com (866) 960-9909 Bevin Stella, bstella@xogrp.com (212) 515-3544 Erin Kouba & Sarah Waller, printspecialist@theknot.com (402) 596-8489 Melissa Bach, pr@xogrp.com Lauren Nolan, pr@xogrp.com
COFOUNDER Carley Roney
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Browse weddings from across the country, including the 2017 winners of our 50 Weddings, 50 States. Our Missouri pick, Amanda and Joe, hosted a glam fete at The Grand Hall at Union Station, where guests enjoyed local treats like candied bacon and toasted ravioli. “We wanted guests to taste a little bit of our favorite things,” Amanda says.
Organizing your wedding details and pros just got easier, thanks to the new digital planning tool from The Knot. Use it to help you and your fiancé define your style, book and communicate with vendors, and automatically create a personalized day-of timeline so everything goes off without a hitch. Try it by downloading our app or signing up at TheKnot.com.
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connect with pros and find tips Gather your dream team of wedding vendors with the help of our Ultimate Wedding Guides at TheKnot.com/mo-ks. Your state directory has everything you need to know about saying “I do,” from getting your marriage license to seasonal tips. Then, connect with planners, photographers and more by searching by region and price in our local Marketplace.
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Love gives us a fairy tale.
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EDITOR ’S LE T TER
I love everything about this dress, from the romantic ruffle to the hint of color. (p. 210)
My jaw dropped when I first saw this succulent cuff—I want to wear one every day! (p. 128)
If you obey all the rules, you miss all the fun.”
This envelope liner is a fun surprise waiting for guests. (p. 111)
Every relationship is unique. So every wedding should be too. This doesn’t mean you need an over-the-top element to make it truly special, but rather that your wedding should reflect the two of you as a couple. It means you should forget the perceived “rules” and do what feels right. Are you less type A and more type “I never really thought about it?” A simple celebration at your family home might be right up your alley. Have you been dreaming of this moment since you were little? Then here’s your chance to go all out. Whoever you are and whatever you want, we’re here to help. So here’s to all of you—the planners, the procrastinators, the over-thinkers, the bridechillas, the groomzillas, the classic couples, the eclectic couples, the can’t-be-defined couples and everyone in between. Whether you’re having a religious service, a nondenominational ceremony, or a celebration for 20 people or 200, this is the moment to throw out the rule book and plan a wedding that’s as unique as you are.
KRISTEN MAXWELL COOPER Editor in Chief
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CHECKLIST
download The Knot Wedding Planner app to get your custom wedding plan
This checklist will tell you what to do, and when, on your way to the altar. Make sure to download our must-have app for virtual access to all the tools that will help you get there.
12+ MONTHS
date: ______ /______ /______
9-11 MONTHS
date: ______ /______ /______
Take our style quiz on TheKnot.com to help narrow in on your wedding vision, including color palettes and décor.
Find a stationer and order save-the-dates.
Nail down a budget.
Create your website with The Knot, then pack it full with need-to-know info like reception details and nearby hotels for the wedding weekend.
Determine where and when you’d like to tie the knot. Not sure where to start? Use our app to get personalized suggestions based on a few key details, like guest count and general location. Hire any pros you just have to have on your wedding team, like your photographer or planner. Start searching for the dress, jumpsuit, skirt or tuxedo of your dreams. If you haven’t already, get your engagement ring appraised and insured.
Propose to your wedding party.
6-8 MONTHS
date: ______ /______ /______
Plan the ceremony with your officiant and discuss any religious requirements such as premarital counseling. Book your honeymoon. Choose the formalwear. Send out your save-the-dates.
Book your other important pros, like a band or DJ, florist or videographer.
Place an order for your invitations—and thank-you notes while you’re at it.
Order the gown and veil, and schedule fittings for six weeks and one to two weeks before the wedding. (A third fitting may be necessary.)
Hire a day-of coordinator (if you don’t have a full-service planner or a day-of planner isn’t included with your venue).
Choose and order the bridesmaid dresses.
Schedule beauty trials, and book hairstylists and makeup artists.
Create your registry and start adding things to your wish list—a super-fun to-do.
Iron out the rehearsal dinner details, like the time and location. >>
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Address your invitations or hand them off to your calligrapher. Finalize the rental list (tables, chairs, linens and so on) with the caterer or rental company. Taste test some flavors and complete your wedding cake order. Also order the groom’s cake if you’re having one. Buy wedding rings. Arrange day-of transportation for yourselves and the wedding party.
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Figure out how to get a local marriage license—you need one to make it official. Finalize your ceremony outline and readings with your officiant.
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Mail your invitations. RSVPs should be due one month before the wedding. Begin writing your vows. Go to your first formalwear fitting. Be sure to bring along whatever shoes, undergarments and accessories you’d like to wear on your wedding day. Finalize the cocktail hour and reception menu with your catering team. Solidify your Blueprint (aka your day-of timeline—see sidebar) and share with your vendors, spouse and wedding party.
Compile a must-take photo list for your shooter. Keep it under a dozen so you get the shots you really want.
1-2 WEEKS
date: ______ /______ /______
Once you’ve got your final head count, share it with the caterer, cake baker and site manager, and finish the seating chart.
DEFINE YOUR WEDDING ST YLE Download The Knot Wedding Planner app, then take our style quiz to zero in on the perfect vibe for your wedding. Once complete, you can easily share key details of your aesthetics with potential vendors at the click of a button, so pros know exactly what you mean by “rustic chic.”
COMPILE YOUR DREAM TEAM Receive personalized vendor suggestions based on your wedding style and budget, or browse hundreds of vetted pros in your area via The Knot Marketplace.
Pass on requests from your pros, like a table for the DJ, to the site manager. Go to the last dress fitting. Designate point people for day-of tasks. Make sure all your prewedding beauty appointments are scheduled.
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STAY ON SCHEDULE Track RSVPs and completed tasks, and perfect your day-of plan. Bonus: As you check off to-dos, your personal wedding planner (that’s us!) is working in the background to populate a wedding day Blueprint (the ultimate day-of timeline of who, what, where and when) so you can walk down the aisle with confidence.
DAYS
date: ______ /______ /______
Steam the dress or suit if wrinkled. Touch base with the ceremony and the reception sites one more time to go over the schedule and points-of-contact.
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MAKE YOUR WEBSITE Give guests all the info they’ll need, like accommodation details, registry links and more, in one pretty package. Choose from our free and unique design schemes and colors. You’ll also get a reminder to update your site every time you make a big decision that impacts guests, like booking your reception locale.
DAY BEFORE date: ______ /______ /______
Pass off the marriage license to your officiant. Rehearse the ceremony and enjoy the rehersal dinner with your favorite people. Breathe—and have fun!
CREATE THE ULTIMATE REGISTRY Register at your favorite stores, then share on your website for easy shopping. Already have everything you need? Our Newlywed Fund lets you ask for cash gifts you can put toward anything you like, from an epic honeymoon to a down payment on a home.
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First in Missouri Wine Country
Your dream wedding in Wine Country is just minutes away! As the region’s finest winery facility, Chandler Hill is a magical setting. We offer a spectacular tasting room, majestic reception hall, expansive deck with memorable vineyard sunsets, rolling hills and a scenic lake. Our full-service amenities are tailored to your wishes including in-house catering, private bride’s room, event planning, fireworks and much more.
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E XPERT Q&A
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Our cofounder answers your questions.
How can we create a menu that will make all of our guests happy? When choosing the entrée options for your reception, consider possible dietary restrictions. Although you can’t account for every guest’s allergy and menu preferences, you can try to ensure everyone will enjoy something. Include a vegetarian option on your response cards, or ask your caterer if they can create a few special dishes. For a buffet, include allergenfree options, like dishes with no nuts, or allow your guests to garnish their own plates. For instance, if you’re having a sundae bar, offer plenty of gluten-free toppings like M&Ms and Haribo gummies.
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One of my bridesmaids won’t order her dress and I’m afraid she won’t get it in time for my wedding. What should I do?
Find out why she’s holding off. Is she trying to lose 10 pounds before getting her measurements taken? Has she been busy with work? Is she just being a little flaky? If it’s one of the last two reasons, call and ask her for her measurements so you can order the dress for her. If you find she’s hoping to lose weight, let her know she can order now and a seamstress can alter the dress a few weeks before the wedding. It’s much easier to take in a too-large dress than vice versa. So ordering her current size will actually save her money in the long run.
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The guest list should include your closest female pals and relatives (as well as your fiancé’s mom, sister and any other close female friends and family). You don’t have to invite every woman who’s invited to your wedding. As for more distant guests, sending a shower invite is a nice gesture even if you know they won’t be able to attend—it shows them they’re important to you.
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Good news! Most wedding consultants are willing and able to work within a variety of budgets, and because of their connections and expertise, they’re often able to save you a good deal of money too. And you don’t have to sign a consultant on for the whole planning process. Many couples hire someone to oversee the final details the evening before and day of the wedding. Some pros even offer their services on an hourly basis for short-term tasks. You can try the à la carte route and choose exactly which services you’ll need. Just make sure it’s clearly defined in your contract.
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Hopefully your parents will be able to put aside their differences during your wedding. You can try diffusing the situation by seating them in different places at the ceremony and reception—the less they interact, the less likely they’ll argue. If you’re really concerned about their behavior, then sit down with them and tell them it would make you happy if they could be civil for one day. They may be more willing to call a truce (at least for 24 hours) if you’ve verbalized how important it is to you.
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My fiancé and I want our first dance to be uniquely ours. What’s the best way to pick a song that isn’t played out?
If you don’t already have a song that’s decidedly yours, think back on the highlights of your relationship. What was playing the day you first said you were in love, or on the car ride to where he proposed? If you don’t have a song with history, consider creating the story. Do you have a shared favorite band or genre? Narrow it down to some options from there, and if the beat doesn’t quite lend itself to a first dance, see if there are acoustic options.
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What specific rentals should to-be-weds use more often? More couples should look into renting lounge furniture for their reception. Guests need a place to relax after all of that dancing! How can couples easily save some cash if they’re renting on a tight budget? One way to save money is to focus on creating the head table of your dreams instead of focusing on every single guest table. That way, you still get the desired design you want while spending less money. What’s your most favorite lounge setup you’ve ever helped to create? We set up a laid-back cabana complete with retro side chairs and Moroccan lamps for a street festival. It was so fun and different that one of the party guests said she loved it so much she wanted to re-create something similar in her home.
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Do you have any tips on accessorizing? Keep your look minimal—you want to complement, not compete with, your dress. My go-to effortless look is minimal earrings paired with a beautifully shaped bouquet.
What do you love most about your job? I’m literally living the dream—I’m able to be creative while working with inspiring women and collaborating with like-mind girl bosses.
Is there one mistake you often see brides make over and over again? Don’t ask for too many opinions and settle on a design that might not be a true favorite simply because you didn’t get the positive reaction you were hoping for from your crew.
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What shopping advice do you have for brides on a budget? As a recent bride myself, I totally understand the importance of a budget. However, you will never remember spending a bit more on your dream dress, but you will remember not going with your favorite design in order to save a few pennies. Who is the best person to bring along for a second opinion while dress shopping? Bring someone who is positive, who listens and who understands your overall style. What trends are you loving right now? I’m obsessing over sheer tops, colored skirts, sleeves, bold laces and gowns that move.
What’s one tip you wish all brides would keep in mind during their dress hunt? Everyone is different, and there’s nothing wrong with not experiencing a teary-eyed try-on moment while dress shopping. Remove the pressure, keep your aesthetic in mind and go with the gown that makes you feel like the best version of yourself.
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Provide your calligrapher with your personal address so you can have your own keepsake envelope.
What’s currently trendy in calligraphy? One of my favorite looks is minimal design and writing on acrylic signs in white ink.
Plan ahead and secure a calligrapher a few months before you send out your invitations.
Going beyond paper, what unique surfaces do you enjoy writing on most? I recently wrote on sea glass and seashells for a beach wedding, and I’ve written on river rocks and agate slices that were later turned into table numbers. I even painted watercolor table numbers for a couple who now plans to use them in photographs of their newborn son for every month after he’s born!
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Blanc de Bleu is available in 750ml and 187ml bottles. www.BlancdeBleuUSA.com @blancdebleuofficial @broncowineco
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INSIDE SCOOP
“Don’t be afraid to delegate and assign planning tasks to your friends and family members. If someone wants to help, take them up on their offer.” —Sabrina & Grant
—Katie & Trip
“It’s unlikely everything will work out the way you initially plan for it to, but that doesn’t mean you won’t have a great wedding day you’ll end up loving.” —Dana & Jordan
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“IF YOU’RE ABLE TO DIY, DO IT. IT’S WORTH THE FEELING YOU GET WHEN YOU WALK INTO YOUR VENUE TO SEE ALL OF YOUR HARD WORK, ESPECIALLY KNOWING YOU PUT YOUR HEART INTO IT.” —Emily & Jovan
“If it rains, you’ll still get married and your wedding will still be pretty. You can’t do anything about the weather, but your hired vendors can.” —Jen & Tevje
“Hire pros you genuinely trust to be in control while you’re busy being the bride.” —Helena & Michael
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“TAKE CHARGE OF YOUR OWN WEDDING. WHEN YOUR PARENTS SEE THAT YOU HAVE A VISION AND RESPECT YOUR BUDGET, THEY’LL BE MORE LIKELY TO LET GO OF THE DECISION-MAKING.”
“You only have a few short hours to take it all in. Be present and pause throughout the night to take a few mental pictures.” —Holly & Sara
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Contrasting color combos create a bold statement.
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We tapped wedding pro Annie Lee of Daughter of Design to bring her Learn to Speak Wedding game to life. Here’s the lingo to know before you plan. ILLUSTR ATIONS BY ANNIK A HUET T
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The ideal choice for couples who may not want (or be able to afford) a full-service planner but still want a pro the day of the wedding to assure everything goes smoothly.
The abbreviation RSVP is so well known that its actual meaning is what needs defining. In French, “répondez s’il vous plaît” translates to “please reply.” To avoid any last-minute guest list headaches, require your guests to respond “yes” or “no” at least two to three weeks before the wedding.
The most recognizable type of “formal” dress code, black-tie attire usually means the wedding is a fancy affair. Gentlemen in attendance should plan on wearing a tuxedo with a bow tie and patent leather shoes, while ladies should go all-out in a stunning floor-length gown.
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MAKEUP ARTIST MARRIAGE LICENSE Obtained from a state registrar’s office before your wedding, a marriage license grants you permission to legally wed. After the signed license is filed, you’ll receive a marriage certificate as record of your union.
Also often abbreviated as MUA, the makeup artist gets you wedding ready. Do a trial run (or two) to ensure you like the look they create. If possible, snap a few pictures to see if it photographs well, and then rock your trial look to find out how it wears throughout the day.
FOOD AND BEVERAGE Venues that include an in-house catering team often set a food and beverage minimum for prime event days like Friday, Saturday and Sunday. This “minimum,” also known as F&B, refers to the required menu and bar price or head count total necessary to rent the space.
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Slightly less formal than black-tie attire, a cocktail dress code states that men should wear a suit and tie, while women can wear a cocktail dress or dressy suit. It’s a great choice for venues like a city loft or tent.
BM, or best man, is generally the male friend or family member of the groom designated with leading all things groomsmen related. He stands beside the groom at the altar and gives a speech at the reception.
Wedding STDs are a good thing! A precursor to the formal invite, a save-the-date notifies guests to mark their calendars for your day. Etiquette suggests sending them out six to eight months before your wedding.
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CERTIFICATE OF INSURANCE Also known as COI, it’s common practice for event venues to require any vendors working in the space—especially florists, photographers, caterers and musicians— to submit proof of general liability insurance in the amount of at least $1 million and to list the venue as additionally insured for the wedding date. That way, if anything goes wrong, neither the venue nor you is responsible.
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The PP that appears next to the pricing you see on your contracts indicates the cost per guest. You’ll want to keep an eye out for this type of pricing structure on anything that involves your catering or liquor choices.
A paper printing technique in which text, calligraphy or even a drawing is etched in reverse (think: mirror image) on a raised plate, which is then coated with ink and pressed into the paper.
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An escort card (also called a seating card) tells a guest at which table they’re seated, while a place card designates their exact seat at that table. An escort card is a necessary feature, whereas place cards are extra.
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The large decorative plate already at each place setting before guests sit down. It helps style and accessorize the table décor and is not actually used for food service—it’s just for show. The first course plate is typically placed on top of the charger plate, and then both are removed before the next course.
Unless provided by your caterer, many venues and caterers charge an opening fee per bottle of alcohol, wine or champagne that you supply. The price per bottle can range drastically, so ask ahead of time about your venue’s regulations surrounding alcohol. Then, factor the additional pricing into your budget if you plan to bring your own bottles of vino or are envisioning an elaborate champagne toast at the reception.
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MAID OF HONOR MOH is the abbreviation for maid of honor, the female friend or relative of the bride designated to lead all bridesmaid duties. If she’s married, the MOH stands for matron of honor instead.
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Sports fans probably already know this one. Like a football game, wedding receptions can go over the intended time frame and into overtime. If the wedding is extended, OT fees may apply for the venue, as well as the band, photographer or other vendors you’ve contracted on an hourly basis. Be sure any OT fees are spelled out clearly in your contracts so the rate will not be a surprise.
PROCESSIONAL AND RECESSIONAL The processional is the entry of the wedding party into the ceremony—the officiant, groom(s), attendants and/or finally the bride(s). The recessional is the exit.
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RE AL COUPLES
love stories
Five supersweet proposals from local to-be-weds. BY KELLY CORDINGLEY
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“My happiest memories from high school all involve her in some way,” Travis says of his high school friend turned college sweetheart, Tiffini. Five years into their relationship, Travis suggested a trip to the Saint Louis Art Museum on Christmas Eve. “The museum is one of our favorite places in St. Louis,” Tiffini says. After exploring the exhibits, the pair posed for an impromptu photo in the museum’s Sculpture Hall before Travis proposed. “He kissed me on the forehead, dropped down on one knee and asked me to marry him,” Tiffini says. “It was the absolute best.” The ring: Virtu >>
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Four years after meeting Kenzie as an undergraduate at Washington University in St. Louis, Peter rented out The Sophia M. Sachs Butterfly House, where he planned to propose with a custom diamond ring. “I was so incredibly nervous during the drive there,” he says. Ten minutes before the greenhouse was scheduled to close, the couple arrived and Peter led Kenzie to an indoor waterfall, where he popped the question. She said ‘yes,’ and the to-be-weds celebrated their engagement in the venue’s alfresco garden. “I feel blessed to spend the rest of my life with the woman I love who also happens to be my best friend,” Peter says. The ring: Bryan Kilfoy Designs
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On the weekend of his birthday, Brian convinced Jessica to join him for a low-key dinner at their favorite local restaurant. “I had more in store for the evening and worked with Jessica’s sister and best friend to pick out an engagement ring she’d love,” Brian says. As they finished up their meal, the couple encountered one of Brian’s work clients, who stopped to take a photo of the pair. “It was a bit more than just a picture, since I dropped down on one knee and asked her to marry me,” Brian says. “We celebrated with a bottle of champagne and our closest friends and family.” The ring: Vincent’s Jewelers >>
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Despite Neelaysh’s elaborate plan to propose to Anuradha on a secluded San Francisco beach, torrential rain threatened to ruin the surprise. “It rained the entire week leading up to the proposal, so I had to find an alternative,” Neelaysh says. After scouting out several scenic locales safeguarded from the downpour, he proposed at a waterside site at the San Francisco Botanical Garden. “When we first started dating, we would often sit and talk for hours next to a pond on our college campus,” Neelaysh says. “The proposal was the perfect way to bring that tradition full circle.” The ring: Brilliant Earth
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“I had been thinking about proposing for quite some time, but I was trying to find the perfect moment,” Drew (right) says of catching Andrew off guard only a week after they moved in together. The sentimental surprise came on Easter morning as the couple watched their dog, Enzo, sniff out treat-filled plastic eggs. “It’s Easter tradition to hide eggs for Enzo, so I set aside an extra basket filled with some of Andrew’s favorite candy and a ring,” Drew says. “Every time Andrew walked by the basket, my heart would skip a beat.” Once Andrew finally noticed his Easter basket in the corner, Drew popped the question. The ring: David Yurman R E A D M O R E P RO P O SA L S TO R I E S AT HowHeAsked.com by The Knot
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REAL WEDDINGS
ST. LOUIS
From charming, pastoral settings to modern fetes at the World’s Fair Pavilion, each of these St. Louis celebrations is undeniably unique.
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Hand-dyed ribbon and clusters of vibrant florals punched up wood ceremony chairs.
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BRIDE Nora Chambers, 27, an office manager GROOM Alex Sandoval, 29, a supply chain analyst HOW THEY MET At a mutual friend’s party WEDDING STYLE The pair threw an intimate and eclectic affair in what Nora calls a “quirky and romantic” garden. —Kelly Cordingley While their ceremony was just for close family and friends, Nora and Alex later opened up the reception to 120 guests. “It was important to us that our ceremony was reflective of the fact that our closest friends and family have been so important to us both personally and as a couple,” Nora says.
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Nora handled all of the lettering for every envelope, place card, reception sign and menu. To create the one-of-a-kind seating chart, Nora wrote each guest’s name in gold paint marker on an acrylic sheet affixed to navy paper. “I did everything short of milling the paper myself!” she jokes.
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CEREMONY & RECEPTION SITE The
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For their cake, the couple enlisted the help of a baker friend, who also happened to co-officiate their “I dos.” When Nora couldn’t find a topper, she opted for something special to her and Alex. “We’ve been calling each other “Loml” [Love of My Life] for a while as a nickname, so it just made sense,” she says.
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NORA & ALEX’S WEDDING INGREDIENTS
PLANNER OFFICIANTS
Jon & Heidi Greene (friends of couple) GOWN Alvina Valenta, Marie Gabriel
Couture, Indianapolis, IN Steffie Kruchowski
HAIR &
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MAKEUP
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ENGAGEMENT RING
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Bracelet: bluegreenjewels, Etsy.com; necklace: BeauAndStella, Etsy.com BRIDESMAID DRESSES Hayley Paige
Occasions
MENSWEAR Groom: Calvin
Klein, Men’s Wearhouse; groomsmen: GenerationTux.com
STATIONERY DIY
RENTALS An Affair to Remember; Style:
Altar’d; Weinhardt Party Rentals Artistic Affairs Catering MUSIC SuperJam
CATERING
CAKE Heidi Greene REGISTRY Zola.com
HONEYMOON France; Ireland; Italy GUESTS 120 BUDGET $$ (see key, p. 8)
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Shayna has always been a fan of simplicity, but when it came to her wedding dress, she “wanted something that really brought the drama.”
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THEIR STORY BRIDE Shayna Fogleman, 28, a marketing and communications manager GROOM Dan Grassi, 32, a mechanical engineer HOW THEY MET When Dan moved to California and joined Shayna’s co-ed soccer team WEDDING STYLE An orange and blue color scheme set the tone for their modern outdoor affair. —KC The late-summer nuptials included botanical elements, such as the tissue and crepe paper flowers centerpieces that Shayna spent more than a year creating. “They ended up being a huge inspiration throughout the wedding,” she says. “We incorporated them into the invitation suite and signage.”
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SHAYNA & DAN’S WEDDING INGREDIENTS CEREMONY & RECEPTION SITE World’s
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Pronovias, Trudys Brides, Campbell, CA HAIR &
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ABusyMother, Etsy.com Moda
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SHOES Pelle
ENGAGEMENT RING Tacori
WEDDING RINGS Bride: Tacori; groom:
Benchmark JEWELRY Nadri DRESSES J.Crew
STATIONERY DIY
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BRIDESMAID
MENSWEAR Ike Behar SIGN-IN BOOK
RENTALS BBJ Linen; Nüage
Designs; Parties & Props Event Production Group Co.
CATERING The Pasta House
CAKE Sarah’s Cake Shop
MUSIC
Millennium Productions DANCE LESSONS Arthur Murray Dance Studio Park Avenue Coffee JED Transportation
FAVORS
TRANSPORTATION ACCOMMODATIONS
The Chase Park Plaza; Hampton Inn & Suites St. Louis at Forest Park
REGISTRIES
Bed Bath & Beyond; Crate & Barrel Before Dan and Shayna first started dating, he bought her a bottle of almond sparkling wine for her 25th birthday. They eventually celebrated every major milestone with the same drink, and their wedding was no exception. “We ordered a few cases, and everyone had a glass to toast with at the reception,” Shayna says.
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Shreya and Nevin managed to successfully fuse modern details with Indian tradition during their September celebration. Instead of riding in on a white horse, Nevin opted for a vintage white Rolls-Royce, and Shreya donned a royal blue trousseau rather than red. A mehendi artist inked a bride and groom on Shreya’s palms and discreetly added Nevin’s name into the intricate design.
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SHRE YA & NE VIN S T. LOUIS
SHREYA & NEVIN’S WEDDING INGREDIENTS CEREMONY & RECEPTION SITE Peabody
Opera House, St. Louis
PHOTOGRAPHY
Cassidy Parker Smith Photography VIDEOGRAPHY Nevaeh Films
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FLOWERS Bloomin’ Buckets
OFFICIANT Shri Srinivasa Deevi
Bawree, Mumbai, India Breeze Blow Dry Bar
GOWN
HAIR &
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SHOES Zappos.com
ENGAGEMENT RING Genovese Jewelers WEDDING RINGS Bride: Genovese Jewelers;
groom: David Yurman JEWELRY Sia Art Jewellery
BRIDESMAID DRESSES Raas
MENSWEAR Groom: Manyavar, Mumbai,
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CATERING
CAKE The Cakery Bakery
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Moe’s Doughs; Toby’s Estate Coffee TRANSPORTATION Champagne Limousines ACCOMMODATIONS Marriott St. Louis
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The opera house where they wed “is regal in such a way that it perfectly balanced our theme,” Shreya says of their opulent inspiration. “Taking our vows on the theater stage is a moment we’ll never forget.” After dinner, a DJ spun Top 40 music alongside Bollywood tunes—with a live dhol drummer.
Shreya’s bridesmaids wore custom-made dresses from India, while her junior bridesmaid’s blush and royal blue dress “stole the show,” she says.
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THEIR STORY BRIDE Trish Kreikemeier, 30, a pediatric nurse GROOM Andy Ruszkowski, 30, a marketing manager HOW THEY MET At the Kentucky Derby WEDDING STYLE The couple’s first meeting inspired the equine references, fun hats and seersucker accents prevalent in their pink- and blue-tinged day. —KC “Because the wedding was on Kentucky Derby Day, we enjoyed planning all the little details that we knew would make it stand out,” Trish says. On the inside cover of the programs, an illustrated timeline depicted Trish and Andy’s love story, which included Andy’s move to St. Louis, their engagement and ultimately, their “I dos.”
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As wedding favors, each guest got a special 143rd running of the Kentucky Derby signature mint julep glass with a mini bottle of bourbon and thank-you note inside. “This was a very special treat considering we were getting married on Derby Day, and you usually can only get the glasses at Churchill Downs,” Trish says. To top it all off, the newlyweds screened the race during the cocktail hour.
TRISH & ANDY’S WEDDING INGREDIENTS CEREMONY SITE Old Cathedral, St. Louis RECEPTION SITE Hilton St. Louis at the
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THEIR STORY BRIDE Jessica Bargate, 28, a creative director GROOM Jay Pelzer, 37, owner of a video production company HOW THEY MET At work WEDDING STYLE A secluded red barn set the scene for the couple’s laid-back bohemian bash. —KC “We knew from the start that we weren’t trying to be traditional or formal in any way,” Jessica says of filling their wedding with their favorite things, including vinyl records, lawn games and a vintage Volkswagen Beetle borrowed from a friend. “We wanted the day to feel authentic and special.”
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Jessica and Jay opted for an acoustic version of Whitney Houston’s “I Wanna Dance with Somebody” during their first dance.
CEREMONY & RECEPTION SITE The Red Barn,
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An aisle dotted with potted greenery led to a birchwood chuppah, where Margot and Drew said “I do” indoors. Postceremony, guests indulged in Jewish fare in the form of open-faced Reuben sandwiches and Westwood’s famous cheese bagels. For dessert, the couple had a three-layer confection comprised of banana, citrus and chocolate cake. “The theme of our wedding was great food—and lots of it,” Margot says.
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Margot accessorized her Vera Wang gown with a veil worn by both of her sisters at their own weddings.
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Westwood Country Club, St. Louis “Nothing makes Drew happier than a frozen piña colada,” Margot says of treating guests to tropical drinks and watermelon-basil cocktails. In a move that caught her groom completely off guard, Margot invited one extra guest to their alfresco cocktail hour: a Clydesdale horse. “My favorite memory of the day was when Drew caught sight of the surprise,” Margot says.
PHOTOGRAPHY Clary Pfeiffer Photography VIDEOGRAPHY Birdhouse Wedding Films PLANNER Jesse Tombs/Alison Events FLOWERS Wildflowers
Rabbi Elizabeth B. Hersh Wang
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Calvin Klein Design
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“It fit our style,” Tiara says of the saying “I do” at a former post office. “We were able to be as creative with the space as we wanted.”
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THEIR STORY BRIDE Tiara Caldwell, 28, a client specialist GROOM Eliott Nelson, 32, an officer with the United States Secret Service HOW THEY MET Through a mutual friend WEDDING STYLE Inspired by the 2005 movie Mr. and Mrs. Smith, Tiara and Eliott created the “E & T Experience”—an ultra-glam celebration filled with plenty of sparkle. —KC As a play on the groom’s profession, Tiara and Eliott’s ring bearer donned a black suit and carried a “ring security” box down the flower-lined aisle. Partygoers dined on caramel-filled red velvet cake at tables topped with silver chargers and black-and-white linens before hitting the dance floor. “We even had a St. Louis versus Kansas City dance battle!” Tiara says of the festivities.
TIARA & ELIOTT’S WEDDING INGREDIENTS PHOTOGRAPHY Amy
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OFFICIANT Mack McConnell
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GOWN Ramya
Wickramatilake, Soliloquy Bridal Couture, Herndon, VA
HAIR Patrabean Edwards
MAKEUP Dee Davis/Carta Works Makeup
Artistry
SHOES Macy’s
ENGAGEMENT
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Jewelry JEWELRY Bracelet & earrings: Charming Charlie; necklace: BloomsNBrides, Etsy.com BRIDESMAID DRESSES Dani Nichole Designs;
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MENSWEAR Men’s
STATIONERY Vistaprint
RENTALS BingBanners; Custom Home Mini
Bars & Woodworks; Rent My Wedding; Weinhardt The black, white and silver palette carried into the reception, where a custom monogram illuminated the dance floor.
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CATERING Andre’s Banquets CAKE Jilly’s Cupcake Bar & Cafe
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A leather folio and luggage tag for guests are nice personal touches, and add a hint of texture to a streamlined black-and-white invitation suite.
F I N D M O R E I N S P I R AT I O N AT TheKnot.com/reception
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A FUN, PERSONAL, & BEAUTIFUL WEDDING FLOWER EXPERIENCE “Kira is the type of vendor who comes into your life to make your wedding dreams come true and becomes a friend along the way. She is truly the best vendor you could work with for your special day.”
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Match the cake size to your space Your cake should fit the style and size of your space. If your reception is in a grand ballroom, consider increasing the cake’s stature with tall and narrow tiers, or opting for a faux Styrofoam layer (no one will know!) to add height. If you’re hosting a more intimate celebration (say, in a barn), a smaller confection will be a perfect match. Just make sure you size it right for your guest count too—a three-tier cake usually serves 50 to 100 people, while you’ll need around five layers to serve 200 or more guests.
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Choose the flavor you want to eat Besides being a showpiece at your wedding, your cake should taste amazing too. When you meet with prospective bakers, try out a lot of flavors, and don’t be afraid to stray from the traditional vanilla and chocolate. Also, don’t forget to sample fillings—many bakers love experimenting with complex flavor pairings, like guava and mango or hazelnut and mocha. You’ll never please everyone, so choose a flavor (or flavors) you and your partner truly love.
Make wedding style decisions before choosing the cake You’ll want a confection that reflects the look and feel of your wedding. Ideally you’ll know the season and venue, and what your florals and gown will look like before meeting with a potential baker. Arrive at your cake consultation prepared—you don’t need to have a sketch, but a few visuals and knowledge of basic terms will make it easier on everyone. If you’re looking for a custom design, bring along any inspiration you’ve already compiled, like a swatch of lace from your dress or a picture of your wedding china.
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Have a budget in mind Wedding cake is usually priced by the slice. The cost can vary but generally ranges from $3 to $30 per piece (and beyond). It’s easy to be wooed by blood orange filling and a multi-flavor cake when you’re making decisions on a sugar buzz, but having a handle on your budget ahead of time—and knowing what will affect it—will allow you to prioritize your choices. For instance, more flavors often equals more money—the more complicated the flavor, the bigger the price tag. A five-tier design is going to run you much more than something small with two understated layers. Handmade sugar flowers are stunning, but they’ll add dollars to every slice, and fondant icing is generally more expensive than buttercream. Talk to your baker about designs you like and what specifically draws you to them—they’ll likely have a cost-effective solution that will let you have your cake and eat it too.
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Get the facts on frosting Do you prefer buttercream or fondant? Buttercream is often much more delicious. But if you love the smooth, almost surreal-like look of fondant, consider having the cake frosted in buttercream first, then adding a layer of fondant over the entire confection to give it a polished finish. Whatever type of icing you choose, opt for colors your guests will want to eat. If your wedding hues are blue and green, instead of sticking to only those colors, you could have a white cake with subtle green-frosted accents.
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Consider the temperature Just like with your wedding flowers, take the weather into account when choosing your cake. If you’re having an outdoor celebration in a hot climate, stay away from whipped cream, meringue or buttercream, which can all melt easily. Ask your baker about summer icing options or opt for a fondant-covered cake, which holds up much better against heat and humidity.
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Budget for extra details When it comes to decoration, adornment costs run the gamut. The most inexpensive option is fresh fruit or flowers that, in some instances, can be applied by your florist for a minimal fee. On the high end are delicate gum-paste or sugar-paste flowers, which are constructed by hand, one petal at a time. But here’s the bottom line: All add-ons—including marzipan fruits, chocolate-molded flowers and lace points—will increase the cost. (For the record, we think a little decoration is worth the extra budget.) >>
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Don’t forget the top layer There are unique ways to top your cake. If you have an heirloom piece, like a fine porcelain antique, work with your baker to integrate it into the cake’s design. It can double as your “something old.” Other alternatives include a bouquet of sugar flowers, a cascade of icing ribbons or even a sugar block carved to reveal your new monogram. Look to your locale for inspiration as well. A cluster of coral can look stunning for a beachside celebration, or try a fondant snowflake for a winter wedding. Or skip it altogether—some designs look great without a topper.
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Have a detailed delivery plan Cake delivery takes coordination (and usually a refrigerated van), so give yourself peace of mind and opt to have your cake delivered by your baker instead of picking it up yourself. Complex cakes may not necessarily arrive in final form, so allow time and space for on-site assembly, if needed. Once the masterpiece is delivered, make sure it has a place at the venue (especially if it requires refrigeration). It’s important to discuss all the delivery details with your baker before signing the contract and connect them with your venue or planner before your wedding day.
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Give your cake the spotlight Your cake will likely be on display for the entire evening before it’s cut and consumed, so have a designated, well-lit table that allows for the best presentation possible. A round table is perfect for circular cakes, but a linear design may call for a rectangular table. Add a specialty linen and decorate with candles or flowers that complement your cake.
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Eat your cake (seriously!) Sadly, most couples often don’t get a chance to eat their own wedding cake (besides the bite you feed each other when cutting). If you suspect you’ll be too busy on the dance floor to enjoy a slice, ask your caterer to save some extra for you to share with your new spouse postwedding for a late-night snack.
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Skip the freezer burn Even if you take the most painstaking packaging measures, eating the top tier of your cake on your first anniversary sounds far better than it tastes. Instead, think about enjoying it on your two-week or one-month anniversary, and then treat yourself to a fresh cake in the same flavor when you’ve hit the big one-year mark. If you want to adhere to tradition, have your caterer tightly wrap the cake in plastic wrap, then place it in an airtight baggie. Keep it in the freezer, then thaw it in the fridge before eating.
wedding cake 101 Know your (sweet) stuff by mastering these terms.
Buttercream
A smooth, creamy icing that stays soft. It can be colored or flavored, and is often used to create decorative accents or as filling. Because it’s made from butter, it may melt in extreme heat or humidity, so it’s not great for outdoor events.
Fondant
Ideal for creating intricate accents or an especially smooth exterior, fondant is icing made of sugar, corn syrup and gelatin that’s then rolled out and draped over a cake or used for detailing. It can be tinted various hues, “painted” on or even topped with edible gold leaf for a luxe look.
Ganache
A sweet, rich chocolate, it’s denser than mousse but less dense than fudge and can be used as icing or filling. Because it’s made of chocolate and heavy cream, it will soften in hot weather, so have your venue keep it in a fridge until serving.
Drips
You’ve probably seen this Instagram-famous accent all over social media. Ganache or colored melted chocolate is poured over the cake and allowed to drip down the sides artistically.
Piping
A decorative frosting technique created using a pastry bag, various metal tips and buttercream. Piping details include leaves, borders, basket weave patterns and flowers.
Fillings
Flavoring added between the layers of cake. Fillings can be made from buttercream, ganache or even jams and fruit compotes for a sweet or savory touch.
Sugar Flowers
Often used in place of real flowers atop a wedding cake or as a “sash” on the front, sugar flowers are created using food coloring and a sugar syrup that hardens.
F I N D C A K E I N S P O AT TheKnot.com/cakes
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Your invitation suite (including, but not limited to, your invite, response card, reception card and accommodations/directions card), is often the first glimpse guests get into your wedding day style, so it’s important to pay attention to the message your paper goods are sending. Whether your vibe is streamlined and classic, natural and aged, or bright and modern, adding these trendy accents to your correspondence will make it stand out and will help set the mood for all your unique wedding day celebrations to come.
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Watercolor illustrations Turn your invitation suite into a work of art worthy of display (even if it’s just on the fridge) by hiring a painter or artist to create a stunning scene for your invites, RSVP card or save-the-date. Pastoral or landscape scenes are growing in popularity as more couples choose to make the destination of their wedding, like sprawling vineyards, the focus of their design. If the idea of nature doesn’t fit your wedding style, look to your venue—or you and your partner’s life together—for inspiration. A portrait of your beloved pups, a monochromatic rendering of your first date spot or even a new family crest dedicated to your interests are all great ways to personalize the painting. Then, make the most of your investment by reusing the imagery throughout other parts of your event, like imposing it on lounge pillows, sticking labels on goodies in your welcome bags or having a vinyl version made to attach to cornhole boards. You can even frame an oversize version and hang it in your newlywed nest as a sweet reminder of your wedding day.
Leather detailing Heads up: Leather details are the new “it” wedding texture, and they’re the perfect choice for couples or to-be-weds looking to incorporate a bit of edge into their invitation suite. Leather that’s been debossed (meaning it’s been stamped so it’s indented with wording) is great for smaller accents like an insert card, program binding or as a belly band to hold the whole suite together. Or make the material the star of the show by seeking out a stationer who specializes in leather pressing and have them craft your actual invite using leather as the “paper.” Keep in mind that a heavier style like that may double or triple your postage costs. >>
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Give guests a special surprise by lining envelopes with an eye-catching design. Logistically, envelope liners serve to make envelopes a bit heartier so they stand up to mailing, and also ensure you can’t see through to the inner contents. Practicality aside, they’re also a great place to work in color or design. Think of liners as the wallpaper of your envelope—the underside of the flap is one of the first things guests will see. You want something attention-grabbing that will give guests a taste of your party personality. Task your stationer with designing a liner that accents—not competes with—the rest of your invitation suite. A bold geometric pattern falls perfectly in line with a modern city loft wedding, while soft pastel watercolor blooms are an ideal accent if you’re hosting a romantic garden affair.
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The ancient art of calligraphy (available in a variety of styles, like traditional copperplate and modern script) has long been a go-to for wedding invitations, giving them a special, more formal feel. While it’s often reserved for addressing the inner and outer envelopes of invitation suites, you can incorporate it on other details as well, like escort cards, menu cards, ceremony programs and favor tags. Pros also use spot calligraphy in their invitation designs. An entirely handwritten invite can be difficult to read and also expensive, but using script in a few key spots (like your and your partner’s names) is a great compromise. Calligraphers are also turning to metallic inks, like iridescent golds, coppers and silvers, to give an invitation a truly celebratory feel.
Next time you’re scouring local antique shops for blue and white ginger jars for your centerpieces, keep an eye out for vintage stamps that match your invite suite as well. Hunt down styles that somehow complement your wedding palette or invitation suite, either in color or by the images they depict, then add them to the exterior envelopes for some old-school charm. Your stationer is a great resource for this, but you can also check out vendors like VintagePostageShop and LittlePostageHouse on Etsy.com. Whether you choose to accent your envelope with bold blues or all blooms, head to the post office before you buy. You’ll want to have a sample envelope (filled with your complete suite) weighed first so you know how much postage will cost. Vintage stamps are worth less, so you’ll likely need five or more per envelope to ensure it will ship. >>
Vellum paper You’ve likely seen this thin, waxy paper popping up in your inspiration feeds lately, either layered atop a printed invite or serving as the invitation itself. Known as vellum, this material is typically made from a rag or plasticized cotton blend, and has an opaque, nonreflective finish that feels a bit softer than plastic. It’s sturdy enough to be printed or written on with calligraphy (and looks especially great in a monochromatic palette, like black or white) making it a cool, modern solution for envelopes, liners or invitation paper. Work it into your suite for an edgy twist, then carry it throughout the rest of your wedding décor by using it everywhere—think: vellum menus, place cards, ceremony programs, favor tags and confetti bags. It seriously does it all.
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Deckle edging Unique texture can bring a little something extra to even the simplest invitation suite design, and there’s no better way to do that than by choosing a paper style with deckle edges. In manual papermaking, a deckle refers to the removable wood frame used to size the sheet of paper and keep the wet paper materials within the shape. Once pressed and released from the frame, the edge of the paper can be feathered and slightly irregular, resulting in its characteristic torn look. Also popular in old-school bookmaking, deckle edges have become a coveted addition to invitation suites, especially if the couple is looking to infuse their design with a vintage, bespoke charm. Paper featuring deckle edge detailing pairs most naturally with equally organic design accents, like a soft neutral color palette, flowy handwritten calligraphy, hemp or twine bundle ties, and a casual or rustic wedding day venue.
Wax seals For the perfect finishing touch, go old school with a wax seal. Traditionally used to close envelopes and letters before the handy glue strip was commonplace (the practice dates to before medieval times) wax seals are experiencing a renaissance thanks in part to their popularity in wedding invitations. Keep it simple with a traditional fleur-de-lis-style seal or explore the offerings on sites like BacktoZero.co or Stamptitude.com, where you can browse unique options or customize your own styles. With dozens of colors to suit any palette and even more ways to use them, wax stamps are becoming a must for practically any event. Supply your stationer with one featuring your new initials to seal a ribbon onto your invitations, stamp them onto welcome bag tags or invest in several numbers to use them in an unexpected table card display.
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Perfect for romantics at heart, raw silk ribbons are a great way to introduce texture, movement and a dusting of color to any invitation suite. Often seen tied around a stack of materials or used as the binding in wedding programs, silk ribbons add an effortlessly whimsical finishing touch. Sites like StellaWolfe.com, SilkandWillow.com and Tono-Co.MyShopify.com specialize in hand-dyed, raw silk ribbons, which gives the material its signature desaturated colors and fluttery feel. Ask your stationer to work some ribbon into your suite, then carry the finish throughout your wedding by tying ribbons onto your bridal bouquet or looping them around the napkins at place settings. Order an extra spool to hand off to your photographer on the day-of—it’s a great accent to add to those gorgeous flat lay shots you’ll want of your stationery suite.
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Alicia Lantzy is the owner and designer at On Three Designs, a custom stationery and calligraphy studio in St. Louis. She specializes in creating paper goods for weddings and other special events.
More couples are leaning toward items that have bespoke charm, like silk ribbons, handmade paper, calligraphy and raw edges. I lovingly craft each detail, and I’m thrilled when to-be-weds ask for them.
I pull a lot of my inspiration from fashion. My background is in accessory design, and I’ve always drawn ideas from prints, color and textures. I love to back my invitations with linen or silk fabric.
Try and get to know your pros on an individual level. I start out each client relationship with a face-to-face meeting—it’s important to have a foundation of trust and mutual understanding.
My favorite part of my process is writing out my client’s names for the main invitation in calligraphy or brush lettering. There’s nothing more satisfying than when you perfect the curve or swish of a letter!
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your perfect palette With a rainbow of shades to choose from, narrowing in on your wedding colors can be a puzzle. The hues you choose will be used in everything from your invitation suite to your florals and accessories, so it’s important they feel like you as well as the party vibe you’re going for. Searching for your shades have you stumped? We’ve taken the guesswork out of it with six foolproof combinations. >>
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overlooked reception areas to personalize Don’t forget to dress up these hot spots.
Entrances
No matter where you wed, first impressions are essential for the ceremony and reception space. A personalized entryway for both will make your site welcoming and help guests feel party ready from the start.
The vibe: playful and retro clementine, flamingo, aqua and sunshine
WHY IT WORKS Saturated, funky shades evoke a time when jukeboxes were hip and soda fountains were all the rage. Channel that same vibrant spirit by pairing flamingo pink and aqua with an equally bright clementine orange and sunny yellow. The happy combo is perfect for a retro celebration. HOW TO USE IT This vibe is all about bold colors and playful patterns. Look to inject some energy into your wedding with geometric tablecloths, cheeky favors (neon-pink personalized sunnies, anyone?) and vintage-inspired fashion, like charming Converse sneakers or blue suspenders. A personality-packed venue can also go a long way in perfecting this overall feel. But if you’re hosting your day at a blank-slate ballroom, bright pink uplighting, a checkered dance floor, colored acrylic chairs and a polka-dotted tiered confection can make it more festive. >>
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The bar is a spot that most of your guests will visit at least a few times throughout the night, which is precisely why it’s a great place to add a burst of color, special floral arrangement or personalized décor.
Cake table
The cake table is often a main focal point of the reception space where many of your guests will congregate to take pictures. It’s also going to be the center of attention for your cake-cutting photos, so you’ll want to set that stage perfectly.
A cozy spot to relax and mingle during the reception is a must. Make sure it feels like part of the overall vibe with a few throws in your colors or pillows featuring your new signature monogram.
Bathroom
No need to get too fancy in the facilities, but adding few thoughtful touches, like a petite flower arrangement and basket full of often-forgotten essentials, can make freshening up between dance numbers that much more pleasant for your guests.
Escort table
Assign seating ahead of time and create a pretty spot for guests to stop by on the way to their table with an escort card display. Use it as an opportunity to creatively speak to your theme.
Aisle
Sure, the altar is going to be the star of the ceremony (along with you and your partner, of course), but don’t forget to deck out the aisle as well. Florals or candles are a perfect touch.
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The vibe: rustic and woodsy citron, rust, cobalt and acorn
Reminiscent of an iconic Pendleton blanket, the combination of woodsy rust and acorn, paired with bold citron and cobalt, is a modern take on classic camp shades. HOW TO USE IT Whether you’re hosting a barn affair or saying your vows at a charming summer lake escape, this palette lends itself perfectly to a back-to-nature bash. Seek out an open-air venue, then offset the greens of the forest or fields with rich blue tabletop linens and a handful of rust-colored florals. Looking to deck out your wedding party? Groomsmen will look great in blue suits, while a soft neutral acorn is the perfect shade for bridesmaid dresses. For the reception, work in natural textures by having guests dine at raw wood farm tables, topped with a collection of vintage gas lanterns. Finish the night by roasting s’mores under the stars, and gift each guest with a plaid blanket to keep warm. >>
The vibe: rich and refined olive, blush pink, merlot and fawn
WHY IT WORKS Think of this as your new classic wedding palette. Perfect for any time of year (and practically any venue), a blush pink and sweet fawn get some extra edge when paired with a more moody merlot and rich olive green. Fall or summer, you can’t go wrong with this effortlessly beautiful combination. HOW TO USE IT You’re in luck—these shades lend themselves to a slew of gorgeous florals, so you’re sure to have your pick of the garden when it comes to buds. Juxtapose barely there blush-pink bridesmaid dresses with bouquets featuring saturated burgundy dahlias and red astilbe, then wrap them with velvet merlot ribbon. Unexpected hits of color, like a blush runner on the escort card table or wine-colored taper candles, help keep things looking fresh, not dated. For favors, take inspiration from your hues (literally) with custom bottles of herb-infused olive oil.
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fun places to work in color Bonus spots to use your favorite shades.
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Candles There’s nothing like a flickering flame to give your reception a warm glow and a beautiful ambience. Modernize the classic concept by opting for brightly hued candles throughout your venue. Whether you prefer tapers, votives or pillars, the flames will illuminate your tablescape and decorate your affair while subtly accentuating your palette.
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Dramatic ceilings Looking to wow guests from every angle? Suspended décor makes a statement while adding an eye-catching dose of color to your lanterns or classic drapery can all transform
The vibe: calm and coastal surf, mist, royal navy and driftwood
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Trade in the traditional nautical colors and opt instead for slightly “off” shades for a twist on coastal. Aim for a dynamic, varied palette (instead of an in-your-face nautical one) of a blue-gray surf, hazy mist, classic navy and beachy driftwood to ensure your wedding remains refined, not kitschy. HOW TO USE IT For a stunning seaside soiree (whether you’re actually getting married by the ocean or not), focus on mixing your bluesy palette with unexpectedly fresh oceanic touches (goodbye sand, hello coral!). A soft surf shade makes for flattering bridesmaid dresses, while gray mist lends itself to everything from your table linens and dishware to your cake and dining chairs. Work reclaimed pieces of driftwood down the reception tables for a fun twist on a runner, or task a pro with creating a wow-worthy altar for you and your partner to say your vows in front of. >> WHY IT WORKS
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monogram, project a unique design or opt for a striped vinyl. A bright dance floor will elevate your venue from the ground up and encourage guests to get moving.
4 Pillows Make your venue feel extra welcoming by tossing a couple colorful throw pillows into a lounge area. They’ll pack a powerful punch and bring out the details in a room while brightening up the space.
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The vibe: romantic and whimsical garden rose, meadow, butter and powder pink
Pretty pastels are an unbeatably charming combination, ideal for the most romantic day of your life. Butter yellow and meadow green marry perfectly with garden rose and powder pink for subtle shades straight out of a storybook. HOW TO USE IT With a palette made of hues this delicate, you want to be sure you don’t overdo it on all the feminine touches. Skip the lace tablecloths or frilly formal china in lieu of crisp linens and handmade ceramic dishware to strike the right balance between sweet and stuffy. If you’re hosting your wedding at a garden or country club, let your venue lead by example and accent the already lush atmosphere with powder-pink tablecloths and classic pillar candles. Or bring the wonderland vibe to wherever you are with bloom-filled floral runners, romantic rose bridesmaid dresses and even a topiary-lined dance floor.
The vibe: modern and edgy midnight, white, evergreen and gold
WHY IT WORKS Want to host the coolest wedding ever? Opt for this gutsy grouping. Built for a duo that isn’t afraid of a little drama on their day (the good kind, we promise), these hues combine forever-timeless black and white with accents of chic evergreen and metallic gold for a bold combination that is so on trend. HOW TO USE IT Anywhere and everywhere. The best part of a pared down palette like this is you really can’t take it overboard, so don’t feel the need to tread lightly. Try a bold cake covered with script lettering and black anemone sugar flowers, or play with different patterns (think: a striped runner or polka-dotted tablecloth) to keep things visually interesting. Stick to streamlined shapes in your tabletop accessories, like vases, to reinforce the modern aesthetic, and opt for structural greenery, like anthurium leaves or leatherleaf ferns, to complete the decidedly fresh look.
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Instead of a traditional vessel centerpiece, have your florist create a diverse arrangement of blooms, greenery and fruit that guests can feast their eyes on as they dine. This statement-making version includes cacti, pomegranates, roses, orchids and tropical goodies like lychee, papaya and dragon fruit. Prairie porcelain charger plate, $77, Vista Alegre, JungLeeNY.com; Melamine dinner plate, $10, Lulie Wallace, Anthropologie.com; gilded rim white wine glass, $22, Anthropologie.com; Mykonos satin stitch napkin in Orange, $24, JonathanAdler.com; copper-handled flatware, $40 for 5-piece set, PotteryBarn.com; Josie double old-fashioned glass, $4, CrateandBarrel.com >>
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Make every lucky guy feel like a VIP with bundles of blooms for them to wear throughout the night. Have a florist create enough for the groomsmen and any standout helpers, like ushers or your officiant. Ribbon, from $8, StellaWolfe.com >>
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Throwing a chic city affair? Swap bridesmaid bouquets for sleek succulent cuffs that have an of-the-moment spin. Extra wide statement cuff, $54, AatelierAndrea, Etsy.com >>
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Attach a swag of blooms and greenery to the backs of your and your partner’s chairs. Guests will know where to find you (if you ever leave the dance floor!). Bonus: If you decide to rock a backless dress, this is a great way to call even more attention to the stunning silhouette. American classic European dining chair in Gold, $123, Commercial Seating Products, Wayfair.com >>
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Unless you’ve been lucky enough to find a “unicorn” venue that checks off every box on your list, you’ve probably had to compromise on a few things when deciding where you’ll tie the knot. Maybe it has the incredible seaside view you dreamed of, but the tables it provides leave you feeling underwhelmed. Or, maybe you can hardly stand to look at the ballroom wallpaper, but the price per head can’t be beat. Whatever the issue, we have the clever fix. Trust us—flooring will be the last thing on your mind on your wedding day. >>
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THE PROBLEM An unattractive carpet or eclectically tiled
THE PROBLEM The red-and-gold damask print wallpaper
floor gives the venue a worn-out feel or clashes with your décor. THE FIX First things first: Keep in mind that depending on your setup, your dining tables will cover much of the less-thanstellar floor in question (as will dim evening lighting). Ask to walk through the venue again next time they’re setting up for a wedding about the same size as yours to get a peek into how much of the floor is actually showing. If it still bothers you, you have a few options. If you’ll be responsible for bringing in a dance floor surface, consider pricing out the cost of outfitting the whole space in the same material (like hardwood flooring or a chic black-and-white checkered tile). Another solution? Roll out several neutral carpets (a timeless style, like sisal, can often be rented) to create a blank-slate background fit for any décor.
in the ballroom is a look only your grandmother will appreciate. THE FIX Create another world within the room, and install a neutral backdrop by covering the walls in glam drapery. Select a fabric that fits well with your wedding style (for example, light and breezy blush linen for a vineyard affair), or choose simple white for a clean, neutral look. Then, have the venue hang it from the walls (or even the ceiling) for an intimate, cozy feel, which will also rid you of the wallpaper altogether. It’ll be beautiful as is—but to really make it stand out, you could also invest in image mapping. The projection technology allows you to transform any space with lighting and moving pictures, like soft flowers or a beautiful forest scene. On a budget? Stick to uplighting, which can lend a similar glowy effect, sans imagery.
Gaudy chairs
An oversize space
THE PROBLEM You didn’t luck out with beautiful dining chairs.
THE PROBLEM A too-large reception room feels cavernous
THE FIX If your venue’s available seating is really cramping your style, you may have to resort to rentals. The bad news? It’ll add to your tab. The good? With so many options to choose from, you’ll be able to get a style, like a metallic chiavari or bistro-style wood, that perfectly suits your wedding vibe. Your planner can hook you up with a company that outfits parties on the regular, so you won’t have to worry about drop-off or pickup. If you can’t justify the added expense, try making the current style work for your needs with help from a few clever solutions. Pick a stunning fabric to make into cushions, ask about the availability of slipcovers or task your florist with creating swags of greenery.
and impersonal, even though you’ll be having over 100 guests. THE FIX You can up the intimacy of a sprawling space in a few ways. First, ask your planner and venue to use rectangle tables—they’ll take up more room than circle tables, which can go a long way in making the room feel more utilized. Past that, consider setting up different designated areas to put the extra square footage to work. Cluster together several plush sofas, ottomans and even fire pits (if outdoors) to create a cozy space right off the dance floor where guests can relax, mix and mingle, or set up a special satellite bar and high-top section for the perfect spot to serve up the evening’s signature cocktail. >>
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Jarring columns THE PROBLEM Support beams or columns spread throughout the space interrupt the eye and will hinder the flow of guests. THE FIX Disguise any posts (even the poles in a tented reception) with a clever greenery addition. Ask your florist to bring a few smaller trees or branch arrangements to place in front of the poles to distract guests from seeing what’s beneath. If you’d rather not add to your floral budget, turn the visual interruption into a romantic accent by stringing café lights between the poles or wrapping them down the pole in a spiral. They’ll look so pretty glowing in the night, you may even end up happy they’re there.
Clashing colors THE PROBLEM The color scheme competes with the soft and romantic blush-hued event you have planned. THE FIX Instead of fighting the venue’s colors, embrace them. Pull one or two of the less offensive hues into your color scheme with pretty napkins or seat cushions, so it feels like they coordinate intentionally. If you really can’t work with any of the preexisting shades, transform everything you can into a neutral base (like rolling out a carpet or covering chairs). Then, layer in your preferred shades. Guests won’t even notice what’s left behind.
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From weddings to anniversaries, holiday parties to birthdays and everything in between, Whitmoor Country Club, with its elegant clubhouse, lush golf course views and wonderful menu choices, offers you a superb location for all your celebrations. This is the place for festivities that your guests will remember forever. 1100 Whitmoor Drive, St. Charles, MO 63304 636.926.9622 | sputnam@whitmoorgolf.com
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Enchant guests with beautiful handmade favors they wouldn’t dream of leaving behind. With plant-based ideas from DIY pro Lia Griffith, there’s a gift for every celebration. BY ALYSSA LONGOBUCCO PHOTOGR APHY AND CR AFTS BY LIA GRIFFITH
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• Dried herbs, like rosemary • Screw-top bottles • Quality extra-virgin olive oil • Fabric, cut into circles • Decorative ribbon • Custom “thank you” labels HOW TO
Place herbs in bottle, then fill with oil and let infuse for at least two weeks. Tie circle of fabric over bottleneck using ribbon. Finish with personalized “thank you” labels (for similar labels, go to TheKnotShop.com). >>
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Reinvent stemless wine glasses as long-lasting gifts. WHAT YOU’LL NEED
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Gold leaf the base of wine glasses according to package instructions. Let dry, then fill with small river rocks or soil and succulents. Attach “thank you” tags to rim with clips. >>
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Invite loved ones to create a soothing herbal sachet with a make-your-own setup. WHAT YOU’LL NEED
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ABOUT THE EXPERT
Lia Griffith is a DIY designer and creative expert. For more of her work, see the crafts she dreamed up in our new book, Yours Truly: Inspiration and Ideas to Personalize Your Wedding ($25, Amazon.com), and visit LiaGriffith.com.
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1 Galvanized metal tray, $15, WorldMarket.com 2 Double hammered charger plate, $115, Jan Barboglio, NeimanMarcus.com 3 Denk’Art universal glass, $59, Zalto, WineEnthusiast.com 4 Bazaar napkin, $112 for 4, KimSeybert.com 5 Reglisse dinner plate in Pepper, $132 for 4, Apilco, Williams-Sonoma.com 6 Hammered steel rivet flatware, $52 for 5-piece place setting, RestorationHardware.com 7 Coppertino highball glass, $33 for 4, Artland, Target.com
1 Josie lilac double-old fashioned glass, $5, CrateandBarrel.com 2 Michelangelo gold flatware, $60 for 5-piece place setting, Oneida, BedBathandBeyond.com 3 Festival napkin in Carnation, $58 for 4, Sferra.com 4 Jasper Conran gold baroque charger, $150, Wedgwood, Bloomingdales.com 5 Swan salt cellar, $150, L-Objet.com 6 Spring in Budapest dinner plate, $330, Anna Weatherley, MichaelCFina.com 7 Gilded rim red wine glass in Pink, $22, Anthropologie.com >>
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1 Grand Royal white wine glass, $80, Villeroy-Boch.com 2 Blue fluted plate, $150, RoyalCopenhagen.com 3 Heirloom whitewash delft blue napkin, $30, Juliska.com 4 Intaglio charger, $36, Wedgwood.com 5 Han spice jewels in Platinum, $185 for 2, L-Objet.com 6 Burgundy sterling flatware, $680 for 4-piece place setting, Reed & Barton, Lenox.com 7 Color Concepts tumbler in Midnight Blue, $40, Villeroy & Boch, Bloomingdales.com >>
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Make your wedding unforgettable! Three Elegant Ballrooms • Classic Cuisine Menu • Buffet or Sit Down Options • Space for Up to 500 Guests • Complimentary Suite for Bride and Groom • Exceptional White Glove Service • Competitive All Inclusive Packages • Located in the Heart of Clayton For more information or to schedule an appointment, please contact one of our wedding specialists at 314-727-7434 or email info@cpclayton.com
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If the idea of putting on eyeliner makes your hand shake, you may want to hire a pro to do your makeup on your wedding day. >>
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Whether it’s strobing, contouring, a smoky eye or a statement lip, when it comes to your wedding day makeup, the possibilities are endless. And unless you’re a makeup aficionado, all those choices can make your head spin. Hiring a professional makeup artist for your wedding day will take the stress out of making sure you’re photo ready. We tapped beauty guru Brittany Lo, the founder and CEO of Beautini, for her tips on finding and working with a makeup artist.
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Get inspired You’ve spent months tearing pages out of wedding magazines and pinning everything you can find for your wedding décor and dress, but your inspiration hunt shouldn’t stop there. The easiest way to ensure your makeup turns out exactly the way you envision it is by using a reference photo. “Pinterest or bridal magazines and blogs are a perfect place to start,” Lo says. “Finding photos that reflect a bride’s vision is helpful for an artist to fully understand the desired direction for the look.” Did a celebrity have a major beauty moment on the red carpet you’ve been dying to re-create? Was there a makeup look on the runway that caught your eye? Take those pictures and file them away for your makeup artist to reference. And if you don’t have a specific image in mind, that’s okay too. Just knowing the shades you’d like to incorporate or the feeling you’d like to evoke can help your makeup artist lock down a look you’ll love.
Find the right pro The easiest way to find any pro for your wedding is by asking your friends—nothing beats word of mouth, especially in the world of weddings. Your photographer or hairstylist might also have great suggestions for a makeup artist, since most have worked with some in the past. Our online marketplace is also a great way to connect
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with makeup artists right in your area. You can search by city and state, read reviews from real brides, take a look at artists’ portfolios and save their pictures to your favorites. You can even contact the vendor directly through our site to get an estimate or check if they’re available on your wedding day. Be sure to ask for references before hiring any professional. Past clients will be able to tell you everything their portfolio can’t, like how they interacted while they worked and if they are punctual and easy to work with and have a positive attitude. Your makeup artist will be with you and your wedding party for hours, so you’ll want to know from past clients if they enjoyed working with them. “Having trust in your makeup artist is key,” Lo says. “It’s okay if you don’t know exactly what look you’re going for. But if you’re not working with specific inspiration images, it is important to trust that the makeup artist you’re working with can create something you’ll love.”
Schedule your makeup trial You should book your makeup trial immediately after you send your makeup artist your inspiration photos. You’ll want to know early on if the makeup artist you chose is the right fit and if the look you’ve been envisioning will work for you. “Bring inspirational photos of hair and makeup that you like as well as photos of yourself that you like,” Lo says. But remember, your inspiration photo should be just that—inspiration. Be open to suggestions from your makeup artist, especially if you don’t have specific images to reference. They can guide you to a beauty look that complements everything from your features to your wedding color scheme. Other essentials for your makeup trial? “Makeup products you love wearing on a daily basis and a lipstick that you are looking to incorporate into the look,” Lo says. >>
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real talk “You shouldn’t feel bad about speaking up. An artist can’t read your mind, but their top priority is making sure you leave looking fabulous and feeling totally happy.”
The ideal time to schedule your trial is around the time of day your actual wedding will be. If your ceremony is in the morning, have your trial early—that way you can see how the makeup looks in different lighting throughout the day. Take photos from different angles as well, and pay close attention to how your skin reacts to the products they use. Is your mascara flaking off? Does your skin feel irritated or greasy from the foundation? Has your concealer completely disappeared? You want your makeup to be picture perfect, so don’t be afraid to voice all your concerns to your makeup artist—now is the time to do so. “Communication is extremely important,” Lo says. “You’re spending a lot of money for a trial. You shouldn’t feel bad about speaking up about what you like and dislike. An artist can’t read your mind, but their top priority is making sure you leave looking fabulous and feeling totally happy.” If you don’t like your look after the trial, contact the artist or a representative from their company. Frequently, a company will offer a complementary or discounted second trial. Also, it’s a good idea to time your makeup trial. This way, you’ll have an estimate of how long it will take on the actual wedding day so you can plan accordingly. While you’re there, discuss wedding day logistics. If you’re traveling to your makeup artist, budget extra time. If they’re coming to you, make sure they have a clean space with surfaces to lay out their products and tools, as well as access to multiple outlets and (if possible) natural lighting.
Get made up On the day of your wedding, you should be as relaxed as possible— so leave plenty of time to get ready before the ceremony. It usually takes two to three hours to complete a bride’s hair and makeup. Something to keep in mind: If the makeup artist is also working with your bridal party, depending on the size of the party, you’ll need to set aside at least an additional two hours for their looks. If possible, it’s best to hire another person for your party or hire a makeup artist that has an assistant or a team that can work on all of you at the same time. If one pro is working on both you and your bridesmaids, go last so you’ll look fresh in photos. If your bridal party is doing their own hair and makeup, make sure you give general guidelines so they know what you’re envisioning.
ask away Before you book a pro for your wedding day beauty, get need-to-know answers to these questions.
Do you have a portfolio of your work I can look at?
Why you want to know: Whether it’s a traditional portfolio or their profile on Instagram, always look through a makeup artist’s past work before hiring them. This will help you get a feel for their skill level and the types of looks they specialize in.
Will you bring your own products, or will I be responsible for supplying them? Why you want to know: If you have specific brands or products you never stray from, or if you have allergies to certain products, using your own may be the best bet. For makeup brushes and other tools, a makeup artist will be using a clean brush of their own.
How do you charge?
Why you want to know: If you have a large wedding party, it’s worth looking into a makeup artist who doesn’t charge per person. Logistics like how they charge, the payment method they prefer and when they expect payment should be discussed early so there are no surprises on the day of your wedding.
Do you have a team of assistants?
Why you want to know: Depending on how big your wedding party is, you may need a makeup artist who works with one or more assistants. An artist who has a team can focus on you as the priority and have their assistants work on the rest of your party, minimizing the time it will take for everyone to get ready.
What will happen if you’re sick or have an emergency on my wedding day?
Why you want to know: Emergencies happen all the time, but does your makeup artist have a plan in place if they’re unable to make it? They might have another artist who will replace them or assistants who can take over their duties for the day. Also ask if they will give you a refund in the event they have to cancel.
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8 couples’ workouts you have to try The best way to stay on track with an exercise routine is to sweat with a partner—good thing you’re marrying yours!
Getting motivated to work out can be hard enough without the pressure of wedding planning, but having a partner can make it easier—and who better to join you in your workouts than your fiancé? Exercising together has tons of benefits. Not only will you have someone to provide resistance during moves, but it adds to your sense of teamwork. That’s a valuable necessity when it comes to attacking life together, especially as a married couple. >>
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Don’t know where to start? “Find something both of you like,” suggests Heather Lilleston, a cofounder of yoga retreat company Yoga for Bad People. “You don’t have to suffer through a workout you hate just to appease your partner. The main thing is that your relationship holds a quality of being healthy.” Plus, it can be enlightening to discover each other’s skills. “You’ll also watch your partner struggle,” adds Jill Penfold, creator of LA Bride Body Transformation System. “High-five and tell each other, ‘You rock!’ ” To motivate you, here are some top ways couples can work out and recover together. Grab your soon-to-be spouse, throw on a high-energy playlist and go for it.
Go on an active adventure with your significant other, like hiking a nearby trail, swimming at a local pool or beach, biking around town or running on a local path. You two can take it as fast or slow as you want and even turn it into a romantic date by setting up a picnic at the finish line. “Something outdoorsy that’s not necessarily working out can be a nice middle ground to start,” Lilleston says of building a fitness routine together. “You get the benefit of circulation, movement and time with your significant other that feels good without intoxicants.”
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Attend a class together If you’re both in need of motivation, sign up for a class together. Take advantage of each other’s diverse fitness likes and attend a class that you wouldn’t normally try, such as spinning, rowing or yoga. Penfold recommends trying something that’s new for both of you. You’ll work muscles that you normally don’t engage and have a fun, new experience to bond over with your other half. You can also hire a personal trainer and book a private dual sweat session. These instructors will whip you into shape with a customized routine to fit both of your goals.
Time each other for interval training Incorporate interval training into your regimen. This method involves high-intensity bursts of exercise followed by rest between each session. It can take many forms and target many areas, including nonstop squats, planks, burpees or jumping jacks. Penfold suggests 20 seconds of training followed by 10 seconds of rest. To switch it up, work for 30 seconds, followed by 30 seconds of recovery. While one partner breaks, the other is training. Alternatively, you can exercise simultaneously, then rest together. “The possibilities are endless,” she says. Running out of ideas? Download a fitness app to count the intervals for you and showcase new moves to keep your muscles guessing. >>
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start a meditation practice Don’t forget to take days off to revitalize your body and mind. It’s key to every great fitness program, even one together. Lilleston shares tips for setting up a meditation practice as a recovery technique.
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Mark your calendars with a regular time when you can both disconnect. Gauge about 20 minutes in the mornings, and be realistic. You know there are certain days when you will sleep in.
Create the atmosphere
Make a quiet environment. Power down electronics, like mobile phones, televisions and music. Then find a comfortable seat on the floor, a mat, a rug, a pillow or even a chair—anything that allows you to feel grounded for the allotted time.
Sit in separate rooms
Contrary to what you might think, it’s better not to sit side by side. Give yourself space for your individual practices by setting up in different rooms. That way you won’t be tempted to look over at your partner or be disturbed by their breathing.
Be consistent
Even if you don’t feel like meditating one day, show up. Making it part of your routine will increase your ability to meditate more deeply over time.
Allow it to become your place of refuge Planning a wedding is inevitably chaotic. Let your meditation time be your moment to reflect and reset, keeping your eye on what matters in the long run: your relationship with yourself and your bond with your soon-to-be spouse.
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Partner yoga, also called aerial yoga, involves yoga-based poses that require two people to work together. Contrary to what you may have seen online, they don’t all include one person balancing on the other in a complicated position. These sequences of poses are a great way to gain the physical and mental benefits of the yoga practice, plus one important skill for your relationship: communication. “You can connect without having to say anything,” Lilleston says. “One of the most common causes of conflict is miscommunication. When you are silent but side by side, there is an unspoken communication that can often clear the air between two people.” If you are experienced yogis, you can even practice at home with hands-on assists. Giving your partner feedback through touch allows you to better understand their body and what makes them feel good.
You can use each other’s body weight as an effective resistance tool—no equipment required. Just have your partner push back at you while you try to tone legs and arms: While you’re curling your biceps or triceps, your partner will hold your hands and push the opposite direction gently, or while you’re lying down for leg lifts, your partner can place their hands on your feet. Adding resistance forces you to work harder, so you’ll get more out of each move.
Try circuit workouts Just like interval training, circuits take advantage of every moment of an exercise, so that even when you’re resting, you’re being active and burning calories. Your heart rate stays elevated throughout the entire exercise. To work out together, have one person perform the first part of a circuit while the other starts in the middle. Then switch. “There is so much stress and tension when putting together a wedding,” Penfold says. “It’s nice to unwind, release energy by moving your body and help each other get stronger. And it can be really sexy seeing your partner get hot and fit!”
Use medicine balls and resistance bands There are several ways to use weighted balls and bands, and you don’t even need a gym. For a great ab exercise, sit back-to-back and pass a medicine ball back and forth, twisting to each side to catch the ball. Challenge yourselves by increasing the pace. For arm sculptors, throw the ball back and forth or use the band: Have one person stand against a wall and hold the middle of the band while the other holds the ends and does bicep curls.
Challenge each other Work toward personal goals by having your partner encourage you. Sometimes all you need is someone to say, “You can do it!” to finish that last push-up. Challenge each other to hit new goals for interval training, circuits and jogging or biking distances. Just remember it’s about getting fit, not outdoing each other. “Egos are left at the door and must stay there,” Penfold advises. “Training together is about unity and fun.”
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Microcurrent facial HOW IT WORKS: Is electricity the key to eternal youth? Microcurrent facialists think so. During this treatment, an aesthetician uses a microcurrent machine to apply a mild pulse of electricity to the face to stimulate circulation and collagen production, while lifting and toning the facial muscles. Think of it as a mini face-lift, without the surgery. WHAT IT ADDRESSES: If lack of sleep or stress (say, from wedding planning) has your skin sagging, this is a noninvasive solution. “A microcurrent facial can help combat a number of issues, like loss of elasticity, wrinkles and puffiness,” says Cecilia Wong, a celebrity facialist and the founder of Cecilia Wong Skincare in New York. HOW TO TIME IT: You’ll see immediate results after one treatment, but it’s a cumulative process. “It’s basically a workout for your face. The more treatments you get, the more your skin becomes toned and sculpted,” Wong says. She recommends brides get a series of six treatments leading up to their wedding. AVER AGE COST: $300 per treatment
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meaning to going under the knife. An aesthetician uses a sterile surgical blade, held at a 45-degree angle, to scrape away dead skin cells and fine vellus hair (or peach fuzz) on the face and neck. WHAT IT ADDRESSES: If your skin is dry or dull or just needs a prewedding boost, consider this alternative to regular exfoliation. “Dermaplaning immediately rejuvenates the skin by painlessly removing the outermost layer of dead skin cells,” says Oksana Shenker, the lead aesthetician at Julien Farel Restore Salon & Spa in New York. “It’s also highly effective at minimizing the appearance of fine lines and acne scars, and it leaves skin smooth and supple.” HOW TO TIME IT: While there is no downtime after dermaplaning (the treatment tickles more than anything), Shenker recommends scheduling your appointment two to three days before your wedding to make sure your skin won’t look irritated or flaky. AVER AGE COST: $300 for a 60-minute treatment
Laser teeth whitening HOW IT WORKS: A whitening gel made with hydrogen peroxide
bleach is smeared onto your pearly whites. A halogen light is then used to activate the bleach, which penetrates teeth and removes stains. “The whole process takes 45 minutes, and results last one to two years,” says Lana Rozenberg, a cosmetic dentist in New York. WHAT IT ADDRESSES: More effective than strips or gels, laser whitening removes surface stains on enamel, as well as deep stains, which occur as the dentin of the tooth naturally darkens over time.
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HOW TO TIME IT: There is no recovery period with laser teeth whitening. “You can have it done during lunch and go back to work,” Rozenberg says. But you should avoid any dark staining food and drink for 24 hours after a treatment, so if you’re going to drink coffee or red wine on your wedding day, plan accordingly. AVER AGE COST: $675 per treatment
Laser hair removal HOW IT WORKS: After numbing the area with a topical anesthetic, a specialist applies a professional-grade laser device to the skin. Concentrated beams of light target the root of hair beneath the skin’s surface. The pigment in the hair follicles absorbs the light, ultimately destroying the follicles and preventing future hair growth. WHAT IT ADDRESSES: Rid yourself of unwanted hair and ingrowns. Another unexpected plus? “Areas with shadows, like the underarms, will appear lighter once hair growth is stunted,” says Keiann Roberts, the lead specialist at Spruce & Bond in New York. HOW TO TIME IT: Immediately following a treatment, you may experience slight redness (similar to a sunburn), which typically lasts two to three days. Roberts recommends using aloe vera gel or an anti-inflammatory cream for any residual irritation. For optimal results, plan on at least four to six sessions, spaced four to six weeks apart. “For a summer wedding, I would recommend starting your treatments in the fall or winter to make sure you have smooth skin by your wedding day,” Roberts says. AVER AGE COST: $200 to $300 per session. The number of sessions required depends on your hair type and the area treated. >>
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Microblading HOW IT WORKS: This more sophisticated take on permanent
makeup is a form of tattooing, where hairlike strokes are drawn onto the brow area to resemble the look of your existing brow hairs. First, a microblading artist will draw your desired brow shape onto your brow area and apply numbing cream. Once the brows are numb, a handheld tool is used to create tiny incisions, where pigment is implemented. The result is a series of natural-looking, fine tattoo “hairs” that will last one to three years. WHAT IT ADDRESSES: Microblading can be used to correct patchy or uneven brows. “Many clients without serious brow issues even use it to create fuller brows than they have naturally,” says Kendra Bray, the founder of Better Brows in New York. HOW TO TIME IT: Timing is especially important here. “Microblading is a process, not a quick fix,” Bray says. After your initial appointment, keep your brows totally dry for a full week while scabs form. Once the scabs come off, another couple of weeks are required to let the skin regenerate. At four weeks, you’ll need a touch-up to perfect any areas that didn’t retain pigment. Bray recommends scheduling your first appointment at least 12 weeks before your wedding to allow enough time for healing. AVER AGE COST: $500 to $1,600
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Lash extensions HOW IT WORKS: Faux mink hairs are bonded to each natural lash with a surgical-grade adhesive. The entire process takes about 90 minutes and lasts from two to three weeks without touch-ups. WHAT IT ADDRESSES: Lash extensions are a longer-lasting, more natural-looking alternative to falsies. “Brides love it because they don’t have to worry about mascara or strip lashes on their day,” says Mandy Jacobellis, owner of Makeup Mandy salon in Los Angeles.
HOW TO TIME IT: Try out a set of extensions a couple of weeks before your wedding. Jacobellis also recommends scheduling a touch-up right before your day to make any tweaks to your look. AVER AGE COST: $200 to $500
Infrared body wrap HOW IT WORKS: An aesthetician applies essential oils and
moisturizing balm from the neck down. You’re then wrapped in a plastic cocoon, followed by an infrared blanket, which slowly heats up to around 56 degrees Fahrenheit. “The warming wrap opens the pores, leading to faster absorption of hydrating oils,” says Anastasia Cupcea, an aesthetician at Daphne, a New York spa. It’s a sweaty process, but the result is smooth, intensely moisturized skin. WHAT IT ADDRESSES: Combat dry, rough or flaky skin. “It’s perfect for the bride who just wants an allover glow,” Cupcea says. HOW TO TIME IT: Only one treatment is required to feel the effects, and there is no recovery time. AVER AGE COST: $195 for a 60-minute session
Underarm botox HOW IT WORKS: After numbing the area, a physician injects 100 units of Botox into each armpit. “The solution paralyzes the tiny muscles around each sweat gland, which stops perspiration for around six months,” says New York plastic surgeon Norman Rowe. WHAT IT ADDRESSES: Armpit injections may sound extreme, but brides suffering from hyperhydrosis (excessive sweating) are ideal candidates for this treatment. “You won’t have to worry about body odor, sweat stains or ruining your gown,” Rowe says. HOW TO TIME IT: Injections take one month to take effect and last for about six months. AVER AGE COST: $1,500 per treatment
beauty don’ts Just say no to these common pitfalls before your walk down the aisle.
Tanning beds
Aside from the obvious health risks, baking under UV lights in a tanning bed can actually make your skin look dull and flat. Consider swapping the tanning salon for a spray tan, a self-tanner or a body bronzer.
Popping pimples
It may be tempting to pop that whitehead on your face, but don’t even think about touching it. Instead of picking at blemishes, try drying them out with a overnight acne spot treatment or mask.
Drastically changing your hair color
Now is not the time to experiment. If you’re planning to touch up your color, play it safe and arrange for your salon appointment two to three weeks before your wedding.
Intense facials
Deep-cleansing facials often lead to breakouts as they bring impurities to the surface, while abrasive treatments like chemical peels can leave skin red and irritated. Opt for a gentler treatment instead.
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a prewedding talk for modern couples It’s easy to get caught up in wedding planning and forget that a healthy marriage is the end goal. Whether you go through Pre-Cana, sign up for counseling or just talk it out, there are a few things every couple should hash out before “I do.” Consider this your relationship boot camp. BY ALYSSA LONGOBUCCO
“One of the biggest hot-button topics I see between pairs is ineffective communication,” Wagner says. “Many fall into the trap of fighting when issues erupt, rather than discussing their different viewpoints and moving toward a solution.” Work with your partner to discuss, well, how you’ll discuss. How do you communicate best? Is it over a glass of wine or in bed on a Saturday morning? How do you plan to ensure you both feel heard and considered in the relationship? “You’ve found ‘the one,’ but it’s important to recognize that ‘the one’ also has their own concerns, needs and wants,” says Jean Fitzpatrick, a psychotherapist and marriage counselor. “It’s essential to communicate gently and respectfully about differences. Prioritize building a relationship that can accommodate and nurture two people who are inevitably different.”
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As many couples know, you’re not just choosing a life partner when you commit to marriage, you’re choosing another family along with them. For better or for worse, that can cause interesting dynamics to pop up in your relationship. Jane Greer, a marriage and sex therapist, advises couples to set boundaries as early on as possible. “Be clear about expectations when it comes to family and friends, especially when it involves holding on to your sense of self while creating a ‘we’ identity with your partner,” Greer says. “Don’t let friends or family become a divisive factor between you or allow their demands to upset the balance between you two.” It’s important to nurture the support systems that made you both into the partners you are today. Recognize the integral role your partner’s family or friends have played in their life thus far (and vice versa), but don’t be too quick to take up a “me versus them” mentality when issues come up. “It’s natural for you or your partner to want to take sides with your family of origin,” Fitzpatrick says. “Instead, focus on pulling together and taking on a leadership role as you all work toward family harmony.”
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You may know each other all of six months or you may be going on a decade together. Either way, formally working through any issues and expectations before you head to the altar is a wise idea, and there’s no shame in doing so. “The difference between a relationship and a marriage is not just a piece of paper, contrary to what a lot of people believe,” says Talia Wagner, a marriage and family therapist. “Once married, you’re no longer on individual tracks—life becomes something you must handle as a unit that generally has one vote, not two. Most are not prepared for what this integration means for day-to-day life.” Premarital counseling aims to ease this transition and help couples understand that to be successful, they need to be prepared for what’s coming. “We’re trained to ask questions about their life together they may not have thought of,” explains Rachel Sussman, a psychotherapist and relationship expert. “It’s like when your physician asks questions about your health. It’s helpful to have a professional pair of eyes and ears to help you through difficult conversations.” Start your prewedding convo at home with these topics.
Money management For almost all couples, the cold hard cash convo can be an incredibly stress-inducing topic. Talking points like how you both prefer to spend and save, what you’ll each be contributing to, how you’ll review and pay bills, and more are all of top importance when ironing out finances before marriage. “When it comes to money, both partners need to be able to talk calmly and openly about structuring their finances as a unit,” Fitzpatrick says. “Having joint accounts for shared goals and responsibilities, as well as some individual money for each partner, supports a balance of teamwork and autonomy.” If you need to, tap a financial expert to help you and your partner combine assets in a way that makes the most sense and leaves you both feeling comfortable and confident. >>
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One more thing—if you have a lot of outstanding debt or other financial surprises, now’s the time to put it all on the table. No one will be left feeling confident if they hear the news after “I do.”
Division of tasks If you and your partner already cohabitate, you’ve probably divvied up household tasks in a way that works for you. Even so, walk through those important points again, and bring up any issues you think could arise in the future. For instance, who’s in charge of cleaning and the laundry? Do you split the yard work? Who keeps the family calendar when it comes to scheduling appointments and activities? “Division of tasks at home is a huge topic for couples,” Wagner says. “Their outlook on it illuminates whether their home life will have traditional gender roles or a more egalitarian shared load between two parties.” These tasks are bound to fluctuate at some point, but it’s good to have a general idea of who is responsible for what from the get-go.
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Intimacy It’s no surprise that emotional and sexual intimacy is paramount to a successful marriage, but according to Wagner, sexual differences and inadequacies are at the forefront of many couple’s problems. “When it comes to sexual issues, there’s the added factor of embarrassment or concern for the other person’s feelings,” Wagner says. “This leaves the door wide open for assumptions and faulty interpretations.” Focus attention on all aspects of you and your partner’s intimate relationship, including how you’ll keep the connection alive during trying times and how you plan to
prioritize self-care, which can have a significant impact on your connection and levels of intimacy. Another important point for modern couples? Technology. Having a phone or laptop as the third member of your relationship can impede not only your emotional and physical intimacy, but also your growth as partners. Set guidelines for technology use and after-hours work in your household, then hold each other accountable.
Long-term goals When you have something as exciting as a wedding coming up, it’s easy to be shortsighted. But the key to a successful marriage is having enough foresight to focus on your long-term goals as a couple. Maybe you want to spend a few years living abroad, get a promotion before you buy a home or start your family with adoption. Whatever your goals, make sure you’re armed with the necessary tools (and mutual support) to achieve them. “Discussing long-term goals is essential in order to ensure you’re on the same page for your future,” Wagner says. “This is so important on a macro level, because oftentimes these goals are what cause issues to pop up at some point down the line.”
how to fight right Experts spill on the right way to handle inevitable arguments.
Avoid escalating an already heated discussion by raising your voice, tensing your body or acting defensive. If you find you’re too worked up to have a productive conversation, ask your partner to table the discussion for a half hour so you can return ready to approach it in a more relaxed manner.
Say what you mean
You’re already arguing, so there’s no need to beat around the bush. When you come into conflict with your partner, it’s important to get it all out. Keeping any hurt or issues close to the chest only means another argument will likely crop up later, sending you two into a constant bickering cycle.
Ask for clarification
In the moment, words don’t always come out right. If you’re unclear about your partner’s intention or meaning behind something they’ve said, just ask. Giving them the chance to clarify or rephrase something that may have not been communicated effectively can avoid hurt feelings.
Have a common goal The hope for any argument should be a resolution. Forgo the tug-of-war mentality for a healthier attempt at common ground. You don’t have to completely agree with your partner’s stance on a specific issue, but if you can get to a place of understanding and acceptance, you’ve fought well.
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You’ve heard this line: “The best part is—you can totally wear this dress again.” So have your bridesmaids, but they may not be easily convinced. How can you really keep your girls looking and feeling fabulous? Here, bridesmaid dress rules for a happy, confident bridal party. >> PHOTOGR APH BY EMILY DEL AMATER PHOTOGR APHY
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Let them pick the dress Just hear us out on this one. Letting each bridesmaid choose her own dress proves you want everyone to look their best and shows you trust their fashion sense. The trick to getting this mismatched look right is setting some guidelines (think: color, fabric and formality) so your whole bridal party still looks cohesive. It’s even okay to create a list of don’ts with requests like no dresses with miniskirts, sky-high slits or super-plunging necklines.
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There are obvious reasons why black dresses will keep major complaints at bay: Black is flattering on all types of figures, black dresses look great in both long and short lengths (who couldn’t use another LBD?) and classic black will never go out of style. And if your wedding has a more formal vibe, black dresses can give your besties an instantly polished look.
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Avoid alterations Like wedding gowns, bridesmaid dresses don’t run true to size and are usually ordered using the largest measurement as a guide. Chances are, your bridesmaids will end up with dresses that are a size or two larger than what they normally wear. Depending on the dress and the body types in your bridal party, alterations can cost anywhere from about $30 (for a simple hem) to about $150 (taking in, hemming, adding straps). Suddenly, a small price tag becomes a small fortune. Choosing a knee-length style will eliminate the need for at least one alteration: hemming. Also, opting for a simpler fabric, like chiffon or jersey, and skipping intricate lacy or allover beaded styles will make for less expensive alterations. The more elaborate the design or silhouette of the dress, the more expensive it will be to change. >>
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If any of your friends have been in a bridal party before, they’re bound to know bridesmaids generally pay for their own dresses. But a gentle reminder is never a bad idea. When it comes to price, try to be considerate of your friends’ lifestyles. If you’re concerned your wedding might be a financial burden for one or more of your bridesmaids, focus your search on dresses in a more affordable price range, or select a color you like and let them pick a style off the rack that won’t require a lot of alterations. If you do fall in love with a pricey gown, offer to pay for your girls’ hair and makeup or alterations (if it’s within your budget) or allow them to opt out of getting you a wedding or shower gift. Another idea: Take a cue from the guys and consider having your bridesmaids rent dresses. Rental sites like Vow to Be Chic (VowtoBeChic.com) and Rent the Runway (RenttheRunway.com) let your girls choose from gowns by popular designers (like Monique Lhuillier and Jenny Yoo) in a range of styles and colors—for a fraction of the cost.
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We’re aware the term “comfortable” can be somewhat subjective (to your bustier friends, strapless dresses are irritating, but to your smaller-chested pals, thick straps feel overwhelming), but who can argue with the idea of slipping into a frock made of soft, itch-free fabric like jersey? Or an empire-waist gown that’s easy on the tummy and waistline? Bring on the wedding cake and the dancing, please!
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gifts for your girls Show your bridesmaids you appreciate their contribution to your day with something special.
Monogrammed jewelry There’s something really thoughtful about handmade, customized jewelry.
Personalized tote bag Go the extra mile by hiding a bottle of her favorite wine inside.
Silky kimono robe They’ll definitely use this again—plus, it makes for adorable group photo ops.
Fun makeup bag Give your friends a pretty place to stash their day-of essentials.
Bottle of champagne Who doesn’t love any excuse to pop
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Scented candles You can’t deny the instantly relaxing effect of a few luxe, fragrant candles.
Friendship bracelets Opt for a chic version (we love Links of London) for a stylish bit of nostalgia.
Spa certificate After the wedding weekend, your girls could probably use some pampering.
Luxe pajamas Spoil your gals with a pretty printed or monogrammed satin pair.
Bridesmaid dresses Show them you’re grateful by covering the cost of their dresses they’ll wear in your wedding.
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Plus, the right jewelry will make any bridesmaid feel more like herself, even if she’s wearing a dress she might not necessarily love. If you’re worried about the jewelry clashing with the dresses, give them some guidelines about metal colors and general style, but don’t get too caught up in the accessories—in the grand scheme of things, they’re a pretty small detail.
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Insisting everyone purchase a particular pair of silver strappy sandals may feel like the perfect finishing touch to you, but to your bridesmaids, it simply creates yet another expense—especially if you have your heart set on a high-end designer. And like the dress, it’s unlikely they’ll want to wear the shoes again. Most of your friends probably already have a pair of black, nude or metallic dress shoes that they’d be thrilled to reuse. Another bonus: Sporting a pair of their own shoes means a night of blister-free fun on the dance floor.
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Let’s be honest: It’s going to be tough to make everyone in your group happy. If one of your friends balks at the bridesmaid dress you chose, do your best to channel your inner bridechilla—and not your inner bridezilla—when it comes to hearing her concerns and exploring other options. Maybe the dress silhouette doesn’t work for her body type, the scoop neckline makes her feel self-conscious or the color isn’t flattering to her skin tone. Try to be understanding and see if there is room for compromise. Even if you just agree to disagree, an honest conversation can usually snuff out dress drama before it gets out of hand. S H O P B R I D E S M A I D D R E S S E S AT
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Mismatched Pull off this popular look by choosing one color or a palette and letting your girls pick their dress style. Just make sure you give them guidelines (specify formality and fabrics) so your bridesmaids still look cohesive.
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Ombré Get in on this pretty trend by choosing a color (like green), and assigning each of your bridesmaids a different shade in the same family (think: hunter green, emerald green and mint) for an ombré effect.
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Allover embellishment If you’re throwing an ultra-glam affair (think: art deco or old Hollywood inspired), consider having your girls don sequin or beaded gowns. The glitzy embellishments will give their dresses dimension—and look amazing in photos.
Metallics Similar to the embellished bridesmaid dress trend, this style is perfect for a more formal affair. Go bold with gold and silver or more subtle with rose gold or champagne.
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All white Take a cue from celebs like Solange Knowles and opt for all-white dresses in a variety of styles. And don’t worry, even if your girls are also wearing white, you’ll still stand out as the bride.
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From your first shopping trip to your final fitting, here’s what the pros want you to consider before you hit the salon. >> BY SHELLEY BROWN PHOTOGR APH BY ERIC KELLEY
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Always book an appointment While you may get lucky and snag a salesperson just by walking in, scheduling an appointment is the only way to ensure you’ll get a full hour of undivided attention. Also, plan to play hooky to avoid crowds. Going in on a weekday will allow you to hit the stores while crowds are at a minimum. You’ll get much more attention from the sales staff if you shop on a slow Tuesday morning rather than a hectic Saturday afternoon.
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Do your research Before you start shopping, think about what style you want. Consider your venue and body type to narrow that down. Then look through pictures of wedding dresses online and in magazines, and save the styles you like. The Wedding Lookbook by The Knot app (free, iTunes.com) is a great place to begin—you can search thousands of gowns by style and price, and if you find a few you want to try on, you can see which local salons carry your favorites.
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Hidden costs add up Your wedding gown budget includes more than the dress. Your veil or headpiece, shoes, jewelry, undergarments and alterations (and in some cases, steaming and storing your dress) will also add to your bottom line. Factor in these costs before you give the salesperson your final shopping budget.
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Start shopping as soon as possible. Nine months out from your wedding date is ideal. It can take six to nine months to receive your gown and make alterations, so don’t waste any time.
Alterations usually occur about eight weeks before your wedding. Make sure you allot enough time to make all the necessary adjustments to your dress—especially if you want customizations.
Discount designer dresses advertised online are almost always counterfeit. If you do go this route, make sure you’re buying from an authorized stockist listed on the designer’s website.
To make the most out of your shopping experience, bring body-shaping underwear, a strapless bra, shoes similar in height to the ones you plan to wear on your wedding day and any heirloom pieces.
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Shop for your shape When trying on dresses, focus less on the number on the scale and more on the general shape and frame of your body. Your weight may be constantly fluctuating, especially if you’re stressed out, so don’t let that be the deciding factor in choosing your dress. Concentrate on finding a silhouette that accentuates the features you love and makes you feel confident. Limit your entourage You may be tempted to invite all your friends and family to help you shop for your gown, but bringing a big group to the salon is a gown shopping don’t. Enlist one or two of your closest friends or family members to help you start your search. This way you can find the gown that best suits you and your style and not feel pressured by too many conflicting opinions.
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You’re paying for an experience While shopping online for your dress may seem like the more convenient option, visiting a bridal salon is a once-in-alifetime experience with numerous benefits of its own. For starters, you’ll get face-to-face interaction with a wedding dress expert to help guide you, taking the guesswork out of finding your perfect size and silhouette. Additionally, you have the opportunity to touch and feel the dresses you’re considering, so you know exactly what you’re paying for. Trust us, while dress photos may look dreamy online, there’s a huge difference between high-quality fabrics and embellishments and low-quality ones in person. Practical aspects aside, your salon appointment is first and foremost a special moment. It’s a chance to celebrate your upcoming nuptials, sip bubbly with the people you love and enjoy accomplishing a huge moment in your wedding planning process.
ways to customize your dress Wedding dresses certainly aren’t one style fits all. On a day when all eyes are on you, opt for a dress that perfectly reflects your personal style.
Add sleeves
Fell in love with a strapless dress but looking for more coverage or support? Ask your stylist about adding sleeves or straps. Most gowns can be customized with cap sleeves or straps, and many silhouettes can even be altered with long sleeves. Bonus: They’re on trend. Or if you’re looking for a less permanent option that you can switch out between ceremony and reception, consider a jacket or capelet.
Customize your bustle
Every dress with a train needs a bustle, but not many brides know that each bustle is custom made to suit the gown. These tricky systems of hooks, buttons and ties are designed to pull your train off the floor, and they need to be carefully sewn in a pattern that works with each individual silhouette.
Modify embellishments
You might feel like your dress could use a little more, or even a little less, embellishment. See how much control you have over the existing details on your dress—can you add more to or remove from certain areas?
Lace it up
Swapping out a zipper for a corset closure adds a romantic finishing touch for brides looking for a dramatic back. But a corset-style closure isn’t only for looks. If you think you might need extra breathing room, a lace-up back gives you some leeway.
Make it personal
Find a creative way to incorporate “something old, new, borrowed or blue.” Stitch your loved one’s initials in blue inside your bodice, close to your heart, or sew a charm with a special meaning into the hem.
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accessorize in style Customize your bridal ensemble by adding accessories that work with your wedding style. Here, a comprehensive guide to pulling off the perfect personalized look.
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Rustic Complement your outdoor surroundings with nature-inspired details in a stonewashed palette. Lush flower crowns with a mix of blooms or sprigs of baby’s breath are a great place to start. For a bit of sparkle, consider antique gold, rose gold or pewter jewelry embellished with raw gemstones or crystals. To take your rustic style up a notch, skip the fancy heels and opt for distressed boots in leather or suede. For late fall or winter nuptials, a textured touch like a faux-fur wrap, bolero or even a muff is a chic way to stay warm. >>
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Vintage This style can refer to a wide range of time periods, so first narrow down the feel you’re going for. Is it the sophistication of the ’50s or the glamour of the ’20s? If the former, a birdcage veil gives off an instant retro vibe and works with a variety of necklines and dress silhouettes. If you aren’t crazy about the idea of wearing a veil, hair combs and headbands with old-fashioned touches like lace or pearls add polish to a classic updo. Keep your color palette understated with soft hues like blush, mint, ivory and pale blue. To channel the more elaborate style of the Roaring Twenties, look for feathery and beaded headbands and metallic statement accessories embellished with geometric art deco details or silk fringe.
Romantic Flowy, gauzy fabrics, floral embellishments and soft, pastel hues give romantic nuptials a dreamy feel. Whether you’re wearing a sexy, curve-skimming dress or a frothy, embellished ensemble, consider wearing a long, sheer veil for a dramatic detail that won’t distract. Or, channel your inner Kate Moss with a boho Juliet cap veil with floral accents. Accessorize with delicate, sparkly pieces (we love rose gold and garden-inspired motifs)—especially if your gown has a lot of detailing. Or, focus on one statement piece, like a pair of crystal drop earrings and keep the rest of your accessories minimal. >>
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Beachy Saying “I do” in the sand? An exotic, seaside locale calls for fun, colorful accessories, perfect for complementing breezy dresses. Freshwater pearls, tropical statement earrings, thin stackable bangles and delicate layered necklaces are right on trend. If you’re feeling bold, a straw hat decorated with local, fresh flowers makes for a cute photo op. When it comes to footwear, less is more. Forgo shoes altogether or swap out your heels for embellished sandals. If you still want the added height of a heel, white or metallic grosgrain wedges or flatforms offer more stability on the sand than traditional pinpoint stilettos or pumps.
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Classic Simplicity is key to pulling off a timeless bridal look. For sparkle that won’t clash with a classic gown, invest in sophisticated jewelry like pearl drop earrings, diamond studs or a thin tennis bracelet you’ll want to wear long after your wedding day. To make a more dramatic statement, sport a bejeweled headpiece or a long, sheer veil with lace edging that matches the fabric of your gown. Looking to infuse a pop of color into your streamlined ensemble? Give a nod to the “something blue” tradition with a pair of baby blue heels or a sapphire pendant. Another thought: Pair a black velvet sash with your gown. It’s a bold accessory that creates a sophisticated contrast and accentuates your waist.
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LADY OF THE LAKE For a look that’s both polished and fashion forward, top off a classic tulle ball gown with a gauzy, shoulder-baring shrug. Dress, $7,700, Sabrina Dahan, SabrinaDahan .com; earrings, $7,600, EricaCourtney.com
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Express your personal style in a sequined, watercolor-print gown with an oversize shoulder ruffle. Dress, $6,600, Rivini at Fleur De Lis Bridal Boutique, FleurDeLisBridal.com (Clayton, MO); engagement ring, $2,850 (not including center stone), Monique Lhuillier, BlueNile.com; earrings, $15,920, FernandoJorge.co.uk; shoes, $1,495, ChristianLouboutin.com
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INTO THE BLUE Float down the aisle in a flowy nude gown embroidered with cerulean beading.
Dress, $8,800, Rivini at Fleur De Lis Bridal Boutique, FleurDeLisBridal.com (Clayton, MO); engagement ring, $3,700 (not including center stone), SylvieCollection.com; earrings, $11,997, Le Vian, Jared.com; tennis bracelet, $3,000, BlueNile.com feature
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PROPORTION PLAY A slim, dropped-waist corset and over-the-top tulle skirt create a striking silhouette that’s as fun as it is dramatic.
Dress, $8,900, Monique Lhuillier at Berrybridge, BerrybridgeBridal.com (St. Louis); earrings, $925, JenniferBehr.com ON HIM Suit, $549, BlackLapel.com; shirt, $168, tie, $68, Bonobos.com; wedding band, $1,090, BrilliantEarth.com
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GILT-Y PLEASURE Glittery statement accessories like an embellished headpiece, chandelier earrings and even a hedgehog clutch give off instant glam vibes.
Engagement ring, price upon request, UneekJewelry .com; headpiece, $795, MintLola.com; clutch, $4,995, Judith Leiber, NeimanMarcus.com
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Butterflies aren’t just a gorgeous way to incorporate nature-inspired details into your wedding look— they also symbolize new beginnings. Dress, $7,590, Romona Keveza at The Gown Gallery, GownGallery.com (Kansas City, MO); engagement ring, $1,780, ParadeDesign .com; earrings, $2,221, AnabelaChan.com
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BLOOMING BAUBLES Layer on whimsical cocktail rings, plus a one-of-a-kind straw boater hat to dress up a simpler frock. Dress, $6,790, Ines Di Santo, MarkIngramAtelier.com; floral engagement ring, $5,700 (not including center stone), ParadeDesign.com; wedding band, $1,570, KirkKara.com; frog ring, $3,510, butterfly ring, $5,400, EffyJewelry.com; pearl ring, $2,750, VictoriaSix.com; quartz ring, $4,097, Le Vian, Jared.com; pink sapphire ring, $6,335, AnneSisteron.com; hat, $603, AwonGolding.com
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NOVEL ROMANCE You don’t have to go by the book where your day-of ensemble is concerned. Mix it up with allover 3-D appliqués and colorful accessories.
Dress, $2,995, Marchesa Notte, Marchesa .com; engagement ring, $5,225 (not including center stone), CoastDiamond.com; earrings, $345, OscardelaRenta.com; flower hairpins, $85 each, BijouVanNess.com; shoes, $540, SophiaWebster.com ON HIM Suit, $549, BlackLapel.com; shirt, $168, tie, $85, Bonobos.com
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A dress covered in vibrant blooms is bold and totally of the moment. Just add a sparkly rabbit clutch for good luck. Dress, $11,995, Naeem Khan, Bergdorf Goodman.com; engagement ring, $1,070 (not including center stone), wedding band, $575, BlueNile.com; birdcage veil, $150, BijouVanNess.com; earrings, $1,827, AnabelaChan.com; clutch, $5,495, Judith Leiber, NeimanMarcus .com; shoes, $995, Marchesa, AKHStudioNY.com
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HIDE AND CHIC
Channel the celebratory vibe of your nuptials with a feathery gown and bedazzled bandeau veil. After all, it doesn’t get more festive than wispy plumes and head-to-toe shimmer. Dress, price upon request, Mira Zwillinger, MiraZwillinger.com; veil, $995, LivHart.com; ON HIM Suit, $549, BlackLapel.com; shirt, $168, tie, $68, Bonobos.com; bunny ears, stylist’s own
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There are several basic shapes to choose from. The eight most popular are: round, oval, pear, marquise, princess, emerald and cushion. It’s easy to confuse the two, but it should be noted that the term “diamond cut” does not refer to its shape. While you must cut a diamond to make a shape, the shape is essentially the overall geometry or form of the diamond (round, square and so on), and the cut of a diamond refers to how its facets and proportions affect how it interacts with light—the things that give diamonds their brilliance, fire and scintillation (read: sparkle).
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Round Often referred to as brilliant or as RBC (round brilliant cut) round diamonds are far and away the most popular shape for engagement rings, accounting for 52 percent of all diamonds sold, according to The Knot 2017 Jewelry and Engagement Study. Perfected by Polish diamond cutter Marcel Tolkowsky in 1919, round diamonds are cone shaped and have 58 facets (as opposed to the 17 facets of the original brilliant cut stones), which causes light to bounce from the bottom of the diamond back through the top. This maximizes the reflection of light, giving you the most sparkle for your buck. Oval Similar to round, oval diamonds have a remarkable brilliance. Even and symmetrical, this shape is popular as a solitaire among those with smaller hands or shorter fingers, because the oval’s elongated shape gives the illusion of length to the hand, resulting in slender-looking fingers. But the oval is also often surrounded by a halo of diamonds or flanked by side stones, whether smaller diamonds, sapphires, emeralds or other gems, appealing to a wide range of tastes. Originally developed in the 1950s, this edgier take on the traditional round diamond has since garnered cool-girl appeal and is steadily rising in popularity, appearing on the fingers of celebrities like Blake Lively, Salma Hayek and Behati Prinsloo. Pear Mixing the best qualities of the marquise and the round diamond, this haute hybrid resembles a twinkling teardrop with a tapered point on one end. Popular for pendants and earrings, the pear shape is also an excellent choice for engagement rings and can be fatter or more elongated, depending on your preference. When selecting a pear, look for one with properly curved sides that aren’t too boxy. Because of its unbalanced shape, pears are usually set in a tapered solitaire setting or with an elaborate diamond halo. Though it can be worn either way, the most common way to wear a pear is to have the tip of the diamond pointing toward your fingernail.
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Marquise Legend has it that this cut was invented during the 18th-century reign of Louis XIV of France, purportedly named for his mistress, the Marquise de Pompadour, and inspired by the perfect shape of her smile. The tapered cut, essentially an oval with rounded sides and points at each end, is distinctive and dramatic. Modern versions often have a hexagon-shaped surface with facets on the top and bottom to reflect light. Since it has one of the largest surface areas of any diamond shape, this clever cut can also look larger than it actually is. It’s not uncommon to see marquise set east to west (where the stone rests horizontally across your fingers instead of vertically), putting an unexpected twist on this time-honored shape. Princess The year was 1961: London was swinging, and jewelry designer Arpad Nagy was inventing the princess, a square-shaped diamond with an array of intricate facets (anywhere from 49 to 144, depending on the diamond’s size). More facets mean more sparkle on this square or rectangular stone with pointed corners. Because the additional facets add brilliance and increase the diamond’s inherent sparkle, flaws may be less noticeable. Princess diamonds are also one of the least expensive diamond shapes to create, and work with a variety of settings. For a less traditional take on this cut, consider a setting that places the princess diamond at a 45-degree angle. Emerald If you’re all about glamour (think: the preferred diamond shape of Beyoncé, Angelina Jolie and Amal Clooney), this is your diamond. A rectangular shape with long, lean facets extending down the sides, it’s the large table (the flat part on top) that shows off the rock’s clarity better than any other shape, creating a hall of mirrors effect. What it lacks in brilliance, it more than makes up for in undeniable quiet elegance and subtle sparkle. Created in the art deco period, the emerald boasts long, glamorous lines and a rectangular shape with cut corners that resemble stair steps (it’s often called a step cut), and its name is a nod to the most popular shape for emeralds in the 1920s. Cushion Once referred to as the old mine cut or the pillow cut, cushions look like a rectangle with rounded corners and have larger facets to increase their brilliance (note that cushions aren’t as easily executed on smaller stones). One of the most popular diamond shapes a century ago, cushion cuts hark back to an era of romance and elegance, and are perfect for those who care about fire. This cut also really retains and enhances a stone’s color, making it a popular choice for engagement rings with colorful diamonds and gemstones. >>
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Ring metals Whether you decide to go romantic with rose gold or classic with platinum, get to know your options with this ring metals rundown. PLATINUM A rare, natural white metal known for its strength and purity— platinum is usually 95 percent pure. Platinum’s density makes it extremely durable, meaning it will keep your center stone protected and secure. It’s also naturally hypoallergenic, so it won’t irritate sensitive skin. When platinum scratches (all metals do), there is very little metal lost, so your ring will withstand years of wear. Also, since it’s a pure-white metal, it won’t cast any tint onto your center stone. Emerald cut
Find the jewel for your birthday month.
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In its purest form (24k), this naturally soft, vibrant yellow metal is usually combined with different base metal alloys for added strength and durability. The yellow gold available to consumers is usually 70 to 75 percent pure. The result is jewelry available in a rainbow of colors, including white, green and pink (see below). Though 61 percent of brides have white gold engagement rings, yellow gold has become steadily more popular in recent years. RoyalT engagement ring, $3,990 (not
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gold when the surface is plated with rhodium. It’s also more widely available, and therefore less expensive, than some other metal options like platinum, and the various added alloys mean you can personalize your hue. If you opt for this metal, keep in mind you may need to have your ring replated in the future. The white rhodium coating may eventually wear away and return to its original color. Oval engagement ring, $2,530 (not including center stone),
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blush-tinted metal is gold with an added copper alloy. The more copper alloy in the metal, the deeper the rosy tones will be. One of rose gold’s especially attractive aspects is its underlying meaning. While white gold represents friendship and yellow gold means fidelity, rose gold represents love. Plus, it’s durable and universally flattering against all skin tones. Rose gold engagement ring, $4,550, (not including center stone), KirkKara.com >>
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Ring settings Once you’ve chosen a stone for your engagement ring, then the fun really starts: choosing the setting. Although the stone can account for up to 90 percent of the cost of the ring, the setting is what defines its look as well as showcases and protects the center stone.
Prong This most common type of engagement ring setting involves three to six “claws” that hold a stone firmly in a metal “head” or “basket.” Prongs can be pointed, rounded, flat or V-shaped and act as pockets for a square stone’s corners. When deciding on the number of prongs, know that four prongs show more of the diamond, while six prongs are more secure but can overwhelm a small stone. If you have a heart-, marquise- or pear-shaped stone, be sure its points are cradled in a V-shaped prong for protection. Solitaire engagement ring, $1,770 (not including center stone), Ritani.com
Pavé The French word for “paved,” a pavé setting (pronounced “pah-vay”) involves three or more rows of several small stones fitted into holes that set them level with the surface of the ring. Surrounding metal—white gold or platinum for white stones, so it’s unnoticeable—is then raised to form beads that secure the gems. The setting can be flat or domed. One of the trendiest uses of pavé diamonds is the halo setting, where a ring of diamonds (or two!) surrounds the center stone. Old Mine Cut engagement ring, $17,495, MarkBroumand.com
Bezel A metal rim with edges fully or partially surrounding the perimeter of the stone. A bezel setting will protect a stone’s girdle from being nicked or chipped, as well as conceal any preexisting nicks or chips. A yellow gold version of this modern setting will cast yellow light onto the center stone, enhancing the hues of colorful stones like emeralds. Luna engagement
Tension A design in which the compression-spring pressure of the shank holds the stone firmly in place. The minimal interference of metal on this übermodern setting can give the impression that the stone is floating. Only extremely hard stones such as diamonds, sapphires and rubies can withstand the required pressure. Voltaggio tension
Channel Popular for wedding bands, this timeless setting sandwiches a row of accent stones—with no prongs separating them—between two grooved, horizontal channels that hold them in place. Vintage channel set engagement ring,
engagement ring, $2,480 (not including center stone), Danhov.com
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the 4 c’s A quick guide to determining a diamond’s value.
The cut of a diamond is the angles and proportions of the stone. It is the most important of the four c’s to consider. If the diamond is cut too deep or shallow, it will leak light on the sides, giving it a lackluster appearance. A well-cut diamond will have two factors: mirrorlike facets and a “white light” reflected both internally and externally, also known as the brilliance (think: sparkle).
Color
This actually refers to a lack of color, since a structurally perfect white diamond has no hue. The degree of a diamond’s colorlessness is graded on a scale from D (colorless) to Z (light yellow), with colorless stones being the most valuable. As a rule of thumb, a colorless diamond will cost you more than a colored stone, unless the color is extremely rare, like red, blue or green.
Clarity
A flawless diamond is extremely rare. The fewer impurities or inclusions a diamond has, the clearer and more expensive it is. Inclusions occur when the diamond crystallizes under pressure in the Earth’s mantle. Similar to color, the clarity of a diamond is measured on a scale. Diamonds graded in the SI1 and SI2 range are slightly included but their imperfections are invisible to the naked eye.
Carat
Carats refer to the weight of the diamond. As the carat size increases, so does its price tag. But a diamond that has a bigger carat weight doesn’t necessarily mean it will look bigger. A diamond with a smaller carat size but a shallow cut may look larger than a diamond with a bigger carat size and a deeper cut. Different designs and mountings can also make your center stone appear larger.
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Whether you bought or rented your tux, alterations are essential to getting the perfect fit. Nick Torres, third generation tailor and owner of custom suit store Beyond Bespoke in New York City, is here to answer all of your tailoring questions. >> BY FAR AH PRINCE PHOTOGR APH BY PETRONELL A PHOTOGR APHY
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How far in advance of our wedding date should I schedule my initial alteration appointment? It’s important to time the tailoring of your tuxedo just right. When wedding season is in full swing (usually around March to November), you’re looking at a two- to three-week turnaround for most tux alterations—and as a rule, the more complicated the alterations, the longer it takes. During the off-months, your tailor may need only a week to make all the necessary adjustments. What should I bring to my first appointment? Bring the tux you want to have altered, as well as the exact shirt and shoes you plan to wear. It’s necessary to alter your shirt and jacket at the same time, so your tailor can make sure they’re both the correct length and work together perfectly. It’s easy to forget, but the height of your shoes determines the length of your pants. Will I need more than one fitting? Any good tailor will tell you that tailoring is an art. You should prepare for at least two fittings, and in some cases you may need more—it all depends on the alterations you are having done.
In most cases, if you’re having minor changes made to a rental (taking in or letting out the waist, adjusting the hem of the pants or tapering the sides of the jacket to help contour the body) you’ll only need one fitting. If you’re having any complex reconstruction work done (reducing the width of the jacket shoulders or making major customizations to the jacket and pants) plan on two or three fittings. Since the typical tux isn’t made for all postures and body types, your tailor may also make tweaks to flaws in the overall pattern of the suit (for example, resculpting the jacket shoulders so they fit flush to the body or recutting the collar to eliminate bunching in the back) to get the best fit for your specific build. This process will take multiple fittings to perfect.
What’s the biggest mistake grooms make when it comes to the alterations process? In my experience, a lot of grooms forget to make sure the shoulders of their jacket fit properly. The fit of the shoulders is extremely important—if it’s done correctly, most of the other adjustments to the tux will fall into place. Coincidentally, tweaking the shoulders is also one of the most expensive alterations, so not getting it right the first time may lead to a more costly jacket reconstruction. To determine if your jacket shoulder is fitting properly, make sure the shoulder seam is flush with your actual shoulder with no bunching.
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What are the basic alterations a tailor will make to my tuxedo during my first appointment? Generally, a tailor will need to shorten and slim the sleeves on your jacket, as well as taper the sides—this will make it look contoured to your body and more fitted. If you have a smaller frame, they may reduce the shoulders and take up the collar roll (read: the arch formed by the collar when it’s buttoned to the shirt). Depending on your height, your tailor could also taper your pant legs and adjust the hem, making them shorter or longer as needed. They might also modify the waist of your pants for a more comfortable fit.
make it personal Distinguish yourself from a sea of black tuxedos with fun accessories.
Pocket squares
If you have a favorite hue you’d like to work into your look, a pocket square adds a nice pop of color. If you end up choosing a patterned option, go for a small, subtle design.
Patterned socks
Make a statement with fun designs on your socks. Have all your groomsmen don matching pairs in the same color for an unexpected surprise and a playful photo op.
Engraved cuff links
Add sentimental value to your accessories by engraving your wedding date or partner’s initials onto your cuff links— they’ll be a beautiful keepsake you’ll wear beyond your day.
Fancy footwear
Not a fan of traditional black oxfords? Depending on the formality of your wedding, opt for your favorite lace-ups, loafers or even sneakers in black, gray or navy.
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Something old. Something new. Something borrowed. Something Zoo. Make your special day even more memorable. Book your wedding festivities, ceremony and reception at the Saint Louis Zoo. You can choose from five exclusive venues that offer not only romance, but excitement as well—The Living World, Lakeside Cafe, River Camp, Peabody Hall and the Event Tent. Then let our staff of professionals help plan every detail, from catering to exquisite floral arrangements to animal greeters— and even private tours of many of the Zoo’s 90 acres of habitats. For more information, call 314-646-4855 or visit stlzoo.org to complete an online rental inquiry form.
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The award-winning Public Media Commons, located in the Grand Center Arts District, is perfect for unique, one-of-a-kind wedding ceremonies, receptions and rehearsal dinners. PHOTOS BY JASON WINKELER PHOTOGRAPHY
Two-story screens provide a digital canvas for videos and images that can enhance the urban feel of the venue or transform it into an exotic “destination.”
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A historic landmark in the Old Post Office District downtown, built in 1884 and now renovated, the Old Post Office offers a sweeping neoclassical venue for wedding events. 815 OLIVE STREET, ST. LOUIS, MO | (314) 436-0101
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Hyatt Regency St. Louis at The Arch provides the perfect setting for any wedding occasion: from dynamic grand ballrooms and the inviting Park View room to the memorable rooftop Gateway Ballroom and terrace overlooking the Gateway Arch. For more information, call 314 342 4655 or visit stlouisarch.hyatt.com. HYATT REGENCY ST. LOUIS AT THE ARCH 315 Chestnut Street St. Louis, Missouri, USA, 63102 The trademarks HYATT®, Hyatt Regency® and related marks are trademarks of Hyatt Corporation. ©2017 Hyatt Corporation. All rights reserved. Image by Kelly Park Photography.
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THEIR STORY BRIDE Randi Tobin, 25, a pharmacy student GROOM Clint Richardson, 26, an accountant HOW THEY MET Through mutual friends WEDDING STYLE The couple chose their farm venue for its country feel and rustic barn, which they decorated with a palette of cream, white, pale pink and green. —Kelly Cordingley “I knew we were going to be surrounded by gorgeous views, and the barn itself is so neat that we didn’t need anything really extravagant,” Randi says. Copper cutlery and metallic invitations added sheen to the wood-lined space.
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Randi fell in love with the first dress she tried on—an A-line gown with sheer sleeves and a breezy tulle skirt. “My mom, sister and best friend all started crying, so we knew it was the one,” she says. “I tried on many more, but this dress was my style—girly, boho and a little different.”
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GOWN Hayley Paige,
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HAIR
Amber Hanna MAKEUP MakeuppCase HEADPIECE Wild Hill Flowers and Events SHOES ALDO
ENGAGEMENT & WEDDING
RINGS Helzberg Diamonds EARRINGS
Kendra Scott
BRIDESMAID DRESSES
Show Me Your Mumu
MENSWEAR Joseph
Abboud, Men’s Wearhouse
STATIONERY
Invitations: Yellow Brick Graphics; signs: Maddie Forney
RENTALS Ultrapom
CATERING
Girratono Meat Co. DESSERTS Joyce Scott; Sweet Caroline’s Ice Box
MUSIC Debby
Z & Company PHOTO BOOTH RGB Photo Booth Rentals
FAVORS Koozies:
DiscountMugs; wine glasses: Beau-coup TRANSPORTATION Nick and Nino’s
Transportation The newlyweds gifted guests with stemless wine glass favors etched with a copper inscription of their wedding date. A steer skull draped in blush garden roses, hydrangeas and greenery first appeared as an illustration on the couple’s invitations before it was used to enliven the rustic barn walls.
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City Airport Marriott
HONEYMOON Cancun,
Mexico GUESTS 276 BUDGET $$$ (see key, p. 8)
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• KANSAS CITY, MO
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Towering white orchid and calla lily centerpieces perfectly blended the bride’s modern yet traditional style.
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Allison’s mom helped to add a few personal touches to the day’s design, including personalized cocktail napkins that displayed facts about the couple and a custom popcorn bar that served as a salty late-night snack. “We named all of our popcorn flavors after memories that Michael and I share,” Allison says.
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Confetti rained throughout the reception when the duo was announced as Dr. and Mrs. Carroll, and later as Katy Perry’s “Firework” played on the dance floor. “Our entrance was one of my favorite parts of the night,” Allison says. “Our friends and family shot confetti from small tubes—it was awesome!”
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Photography
WEEK-OF COORDINATOR
Holly Davidson & Kristin Viall/Simple Elegance
FLOWERS Studio Dan Meiners
OFFICIANTS Fr. Ronald Olszewski; Fr. Bill
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GOWN Tara Keely by Lazaro, The Gown
Gallery, Kansas City, MO
HAIR Shane Franks;
Shaun Franks MAKEUP Staci Broski/7th Row Productions Nixa, MO
VEIL Madison Avenue Designs,
SHOES Valentino
ENGAGEMENT
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BRIDESMAID DRESSES
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MENSWEAR Jos.
STATIONERY Nine Creations
RENTALS Flutter FETTI; The Gallery; Platinum
KC; Studio Dan Meiners
CATERING The Gallery
CAKE Chef Shop POPCORN BAR Popped
Presentations
MUSIC Ceremony: Armando
Contreras; Brad Cox; Kendra Wilson; reception: The Karen David Project
REGISTRIES Crate
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OCTOBER 1
• ROSE HILL, KS
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During the ceremony, Klayton’s grandparents, who’ve been married 59 years, draped a lasso over the couple in place of a unity ceremony.
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Rebecca honored her Mexican heritage throughout the alfresco affair, from her custom mantilla lace veil to the homemade horchata served during dinner. Bright paper blooms were essential to the design along with laser-cut table numbers inspired by traditional papel picado banners.
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GOWN
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HAIR Hanna Bourn
MAKEUP Camie Pivonka
Gallery, Wichita, KS
VEIL Dress
SHOES ModCloth.com
ENGAGEMENT & WEDDING RINGS
Brilliant Earth
BRIDESMAID DRESSES
Vow To Be Chic
MENSWEAR JCPenney
STATIONERY DIY
RENTALS The
Chocolate Fountain Event Rentals CATERING DIY
DIY
CAKE & DESSERTS
MUSIC Pitt Party Productions
HONEYMOON Cozumel, Mexico GUESTS 130 BUDGET $ (see key, p. 8)
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• KANSAS CITY, MO
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“I wanted gold accents throughout the wedding to match my engagement ring,” Megan says of coordinating the sequin bridesmaid dresses with her grandmother’s ring.
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Megan and Trey paid homage to their town with a festive fete filled with quintessential Kansas City barbecue and Boulevard beer. “We wanted our guests to enjoy the city as much as we do,” she says. Nodding to their engagement at the local Alamo Drafthouse movie theatre, the couple served popcorn and movie candy as a late-night treat.
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Trey’s mom, a ceramics teacher, handmade vases to house each bridesmaid’s bouquet.
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Trey designed the pop-up invites featuring their favorite sites in the city. During the party, they surprised guests with a balloon artist who fashioned bunny ears for Megan and a crown for Trey. “Seeing adults getting excited over balloons was one of the most amusing things I have ever seen,” Megan says.
VIDEOGRAPHY Harvest Films; editing:
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DAY-OF COORDINATOR &
FLOWERS Hitched Planning + Floral OFFICIANT Deacon Steve Livingston GOWN Rue De Seine, Altar Bridal, Leawood,
KS
HAIR &
Vintage
MAKEUP Posh KC
VEIL
SHOES Ceremony: Michael Kors;
reception: Steve Madden
ENGAGEMENT
RING Vintage WEDDING RINGS Meierotto
Jewelers
BRIDESMAID DRESSES Badgley
Mischka/Rent the Runway Calvin Klein; Jos. A. Bank
MENSWEAR STATIONERY
Design: WM3 Studio; laser cutting: Hammerspace Community Workshop Event Rental
RENTALS Ultrapom
CATERING Q39
DESSERTS Chef Shop
CAKE &
MUSIC Ceremony:
Dr. Mario Pearson; reception: DJ Sheppa BALLOONS Molly Balloons
Popcorn Heaven KC
FAVORS
TRANSPORTATION
Kansas City Transportation Group ACCOMMODATIONS Sheraton Kansas
City Hotel at Crown Center Macy’s; REI
REGISTRIES
HONEYMOON New Orleans
GUESTS 200 BUDGET $$$ (see key, p. 8)
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• WICHITA, KS
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Kathy and Jesse’s first dance was to “I Won’t Give Up” by Jason Mraz. “We chose it because it is symbolic of our commitment to each other,” Kathy said.
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PHOTOGRAPHY Nguyen Do/2Focus
Photography Design Nguyen
FLOWERS Beards Floral OFFICIANT Father Hien
GOWN Essense of Australia,
Dress Gallery, Wichita, KS Salon Q MAKEUP Sephora Etsy.com
HAIR VEIL
SHOES Christian Louboutin
ENGAGEMENT & WEDDING RINGS
James Allen David’s Bridal
BRIDESMAID DRESSES MENSWEAR Tomorrow’s
Memories Bridal and Tuxedo Shop STATIONERY DIY
Shutterfly.com
SIGN-IN BOOK
RENTALS Event Elements
CATERING Kirin Court
CAKE Bagatelle
Bakery DESSERTS Cocoa Dolce; Nifty Nut House; Sweetly Scrumptious
MUSIC
Family member PHOTO BOOTH Kansas Photo Booths
FAVORS DIY
TRANSPORTATION Big Ticket Limo GUESTS 300 BUDGET $$$ (see key, p. 8)
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• KANSAS CITY, MO
Lis (left) and Maria danced to “I Will Follow You” by Toulouse.
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FLOWERS River Market Event Place OFFICIANT Aditya Voleti (friend) GOWN David’s Bridal
Houndstooth
FORMALWEAR
HAIR Amber Wilson
HEADPIECE Icing WEDDING RINGS
Shane Co.
BRIDESMAID ATTIRE Various
STATIONERY Vistaprint
River Market Event Place
RENTALS CATERING
Moxie Catering DESSERTS LaMar’s Donuts MUSIC Elite Sounds Entertainment
Group
FAVORS Donation to their
school’s summer internship program REGISTRIES Amazon.com; Bed Bath
& Beyond; Target
HONEYMOON Costa
Rica GUESTS 100 BUDGET $$ (see key, p. 8)
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“I love fields of wildflowers and the look of a handpicked bouquet,” Cheyenne says of her wild arrangement.
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Schwinn Produce Farm, Leavenworth, KS PHOTOGRAPHY Bek and Addison
Sauvan/Bek and Addison Photography
THEIR STORY BRIDE Cheyenne Stucky, 20, a teacher and photographer GROOM Colton Lowe, 23, a biomedical engineering graduate student HOW THEY MET Through a mutual friend WEDDING STYLE With help from talented friends and family, the couple married at Cheyenne’s long-time dream venue: a local produce farm that would show off their love for all things “artsy, vintage and bohemian,” she says. —KC Combined with natural tones and accents, the day focused on the couple’s love of the outdoors and their dedication to family. Cheyenne’s father constructed dozens of wood benches for seating, and her grandpa, who also married them, handmade a wood box to hold Cheyenne and Colton’s handwritten vows.
VIDEOGRAPHY Paperboy Films COORDINATOR Anne Fay
Floral by Julia
DAY-OF
FLOWERS
OFFICIANT Bill Wilting
(bride’s grandfather)
GOWN Rue De
Seine, Altar Bridal, Leawood, KS Hair by Ashley Lyn
HAIR
VEIL Altar Bridal
FLOWER CROWN Floral by Julia ENGAGEMENT & WEDDING RINGS
Marks Jewelers JEWELRY Necklace: heirloom; arm band & foot bracelet: Lulus.com BRIDESMAID DRESSES Various MENSWEAR H&M; JCPenney; Kohl’s;
Weavers
STATIONERY Ruff House Art
RENTALS Schwinn Produce Farm CATERING 1900 Barker; Salt Catering CAKE The Merc Co+op DESSERTS
Alchemy Coffee & Bake House
MUSIC
Lost and Found OTHER ENTERTAINMENT MC: Marc Wayne Productions
REGISTRIES
Crate & Barrel; Target; World Market HONEYMOON West Coast road trip GUESTS 300 BUDGET $$ (see key, p. 8)
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Exchanging vows on a sandy beach is a dream scenario for many couples, and with good reason—you just can’t beat the romantic charm of waves crashing, the sun setting and a soft summer breeze blowing. But, like with any venue, there’s plenty to consider when planning your celebration (possibly even more for beach “I dos”). Keep these points top of mind to ensure a memorable event. >>
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Ask for permission in advance
Think about vendor access
If you’re hoping to pull off a pop-up wedding on a public beach, think again. Unless you’re getting married on a private spot of sand or beach club property, there are several boxes you’ll need to check off before setting down your altar. You’re most likely going to have to file a permit with the city in order to celebrate on the beach. Register your event at least 30 days ahead of time. When filing, take note of a few things: How large of a space does your permit allow your event to take up? Does the fee cover an all-day affair or is it an hourly charge? Are things like furniture, alcohol, glass and open flames allowed? Lastly, inquire how many guests the contract permits, as that will dictate both the size of your guest list and how many pros you can have on hand the day of.
A vows-only ceremony on the beach should be fairly headache free, but if your plan is to host an all-night affair, complete with a full reception, you’ll want to give a lot of thought to your vendors and how easily they can access your chosen spot. Most beaches don’t permit vehicles on the sand, meaning all of your reception needs (including tables, chairs and food) will have to be carried to your site. Ease your pros’ stress by keeping your setup close to an approved parking lot or loading zone, which can also make necessities like electricity, a food prep space and a spot for portable rental restrooms much easier to come by. If you really can’t make it work, look into renting several dune buggies day of to help transport goods and keep the setup process streamlined. >>
time it right Here’s how to pick the perfect day to walk down the aisle.
Symbolism
How romantic would it be to marry on the date you met or your grandparents’ anniversary? If you have a special day for you and your partner, search for venues with that in mind.
Season
Weather can affect your wedding’s style, location and mood. Think of what personality you want your day to have (like a boho summer bash), then choose accordingly.
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May, July and December are typically the most popular months to marry, so prices are higher. Save money by choosing off-peak months like January or March.
VIP preferences
Take a second to consider your most important guests and try to plan your date around their availability. Keep it to your close inner circle, and don’t budge once the date is set.
Holidays
Choose a date around a specific holiday to bottle the spirit already in the air, like a moody Halloween celebration or white winter wonderland event in December.
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Dress the part
Choose durable décor
You’ll want to keep the vibe of your location in mind when shopping for your and your partner’s attire. What may be well suited for a ballroom affair will likely feel out of place on the beach, so opt for lightweight fabrics, casual silhouettes and, most importantly, practical footwear. No one wants to watch you wobble down the aisle trying to un-stick your stilettos from the sand. Likewise, alert guests to the location on your wedding website and in your invites so they can plan accordingly. Have extras like sunscreen, flip-flops and lightweight wraps available the day of to make sure guests remain comfortable all day long.
A coastal location comes with at-the-ready décor courtesy of Mother Nature, so you won’t have to add much to the scene for a wow-worthy environment. If you’re looking to bring in a few accents of your own, like flowers, lanterns or textiles, make sure to choose sturdier options that can stand up to wind, hot sun and the occasional spray of saltwater. Avoid bouquets or table arrangements that feature delicate blooms, and anchor anything that could take flight with a sudden gust of wind, like the fabric on a chuppah, an aisle runner or flowing tabletop linens.
Mind Mother Nature
Between potential sun-bathing crowds, crashing waves and blustery winds, it can get a bit loud while celebrating your wedding beachside. Make sure guests can hear your vows (and afterward, the DJ) with plenty of amplifying speakers. Your ceremony should be spoken into a microphone, and you can even seat guests in a semicircle around your altar to ensure that no one is out of earshot. If you’re hiring a videographer to capture the day, make sure they know ahead of time that they’ll be filming on the beach so they can bring the necessary sound equipment. Lastly, be sure to abide by any local sound ordinances or curfews. >>
It goes without saying that any outdoor bash should always come with a plan B in case the weather takes a turn for the worst. But besides accounting for the possibility of showers, you’ll also need to plan for a few sea-specific snafus. Unless you want a soggy ceremony, make sure you know when high (and low) tide hits your area, as well as when the sun is strongest throughout the day. By timing your ceremony and reception right, you can avoid the possibility of overheated guests or bright reflections off the waves that make it hard for loved ones to see the main event.
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Visions KC operates the beautiful venue The View at Briarcliff Accommodates up to 450 seated guests | Located in Courtyard by Marriott Hotel Indoor and outdoor ceremonies with a breathtaking view of the downtown skyline. Flexible, friendly and fun! For information call: 816-841-2361
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Level the playing field Anyone who has been on the beach can tell you, walking on soft sand is tiring. To avoid burning calves and tired legs, work with a vendor to install wooden planks to help guests get from one spot to another (thick seagrass runners are a great inexpensive option too). If you’re planning to host your reception on the sand, look into having a large wood platform on risers as your “flooring”—it will ensure tables and chairs are sturdy and don’t topple over.
Choose an experienced crew Vendor research is super important when planning a celebration in a complicated location. Vet pros based on whether or not they’ve worked in a beach environment before. Your photographer will need to know how to contend with the bright lighting and any reflections off the water, while your catering crew may need to know how to prepare food off-site without a traditional kitchen.
bottle the beach
Prepare to share your space
Add warmth and texture to a tablescape or altar with twisty, weathered driftwood branches. They’ll instantly evoke a coastal feel and are hearty enough to stand up to the blustery winds common on the beach. Intersperse them with white blooms for a romantic touch.
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If seclusion is your expectation, you’re better off choosing a private garden or quiet lake. A public beach may be teeming with patrons, and there’s not much you can do to stop them from placing their towels nearby or snapping photos of you in your wedding finery. You can try to keep a handle on the crowd by hanging signs that read “private event,” but you may have to accept onlookers.
Whether you’re actually tying the knot on the sand or just want it to feel like you are, try working in some of these stunning seaside accents.
Driftwood
Sea fan coral
Linen
Pampas grass
The quintessential summer fabric is the perfect casual touch for your attire and décor. Have members of your wedding party rock relaxed linen shirts or dresses, or drape tables with flowing tablecloths.
Shells
Often found in sun-washed pastel hues or bleached white, sea fan coral is a great way to add dimension to your tabletop. Or find an especially clean piece and top your cake with it. You could also have your cake baker re-create the shape and design with sugar.
Thanks to its fluffy, flowy shape and sandy hue, pampas grass is the perfect “living” accent to a seaside soiree. Have bridesmaids carry it in place of traditional bouquets, or surround your altar with it for an eye-catching display.
Keep things modern and chic by trading craft store white shells for more dynamic mussel or oyster shells. Add them to a greenery table runner or have them calligraphed and use them as escort cards. I N S P I R E YO U R D É CO R AT TheKnot.com/weddingstyle
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planner perks Still debating whether or not to hire an expert to help execute your wedding? Here’s why you should say “I do” to a party pro. BY AMY ROBERTSON PHOTOGR APHY BY KOBY BROWN, ARCHET YPE
You may have helped a friend plan her day or spent hours on Pinterest creating your dream wedding board, but that doesn’t mean you should tackle your affair solo. Between booking vendors, working a full-time job and maintaining your relationship, pulling together a wedding can be a lot of work for even the most organized to-be-weds. Hiring a pro can take a huge weight off you and your partner, leaving you time to enjoy the process without the stress. >>
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Wedding planner 101 Trust us—planning a wedding, whether you’re expecting 50 or 150 guests, requires a lot more than just picking out pretty flowers or tabletop décor. A wedding planner essentially juggles the roles of designer, legal counsel, budget manager, coordinator and therapist—all while helping you pull together your wedding. They can be tapped to take care of everything on your to-do list, from choosing aesthetic details to going over vendor contracts and dealing with day-of emergencies—a huge asset for busy couples hoping to plan their day with minimal stress. They’re clued into everything there is to know about throwing a wedding, and all that comes along with such an emotionally charged event, so you’ll be in good hands whether your issue is bouquets or overbearing in-laws. Plus, they’re connected with top venues and pros in your area, ensuring you have the best team of experts to pull off your celebration. Simply put, an experienced planner is one of the key investments you can make when bringing your day to life.
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Determine your needs There are essentially three types of wedding planners: full-service, à la carte and day-of coordinators. A full-service planner will handle it all, start to finish—from crafting the vision for your event to hiring and meeting with your vendors, and coordinating a weekend of activities for guests. This option is best for a pair looking to host a multiday affair or destination wedding, or for couples who simply want a professional to guide them through every step of the wedding planning process. Prefer a part-time pro you can contact on an as-needed basis? An à la carte planner can help you iron out specific details, like your tabletop rentals, or give suggestions for the perfect caterer to execute your French bistro menu. Ideal for couples who just need someone to help refine their wedding day blueprint, an à la carte or part-time planner is also a more price-conscious choice, giving you the help you need for a price that doesn’t put you over budget. For assistance during your wedding day (but not throughout the entire process), opt for a day-of coordinator. Different from an on-site venue coordinator, they’ll be solely focused on your priorities and responsible for making sure your wedding day runs smoothly. Typically, a day-of coordinator will begin working with you anywhere from two weeks to a month ahead of your wedding to make sure everything is in order. They’ll coordinate both your ceremony and reception setup, keep you and your wedding party on schedule, and handle any necessary, immediate postwedding duties, like tipping. If you’re unable to include a full-service or à la carte planner in your budget, adding a day-of coordinator to your team will help you and your partner relax and enjoy your wedding day festivities to the fullest.
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score the inside scoop Planners have connections with top venues and experts in your area, helping you to assemble the best team for the type of celebration you’re looking to throw.
Stick to your budget Packages can range depending on the pro you hire, but a wedding planner typically charges their clients a flat fee, an hourly rate or a percentage of their overall wedding budget. These days, most planners list a flat fee for their contracted services. If they don’t, expect to set aside around 10 to 20 percent of your overall budget for a full-service planner. An à la carte planner will charge an hourly rate or flat fee for each service they provide, while day-of coordination is generally a flat fee. While hiring a planner may seem like a big chunk of your budget, it’s an investment that will give you peace of mind and ensure you enjoy the moments you’ve spent months planning. Plus, with an expert behind all your decisions, purchases and negotiations, you’ll save money in the long run. Their pull may be able to score you insider deals, and they’ll always look out for your budget so you don’t have to. >>
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Find the (other) “one” Hiring the right pro can be tough, so start your search early on, preferably after you have a date and locale (about a year out is a good time to seek out a full-service team). Ask your venue for a list of vendors that typically work in the space (always an added benefit), tap recently wed friends for their suggestions or scour The Knot Marketplace (TheKnot.com/marketplace) for a list of top-rated pros in your area. Once you’ve narrowed down your selection to a few favorites, spend time looking through their online portfolios, reading reviews from past clients and stalking their social media feeds. A planner’s Instagram or Facebook page is a great place to catch a glimpse of their most recent work or collaborations. Contact your final choice and set up a time to chat.
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Meet, greet and get down to business Think of your initial meeting with a planner like a first date— you want to make sure the two of you get along and have the same vision, as you’ll be spending a lot of time together over the next year or so. Arrive armed with a few basic questions: Which of their packages best suits your budget and needs? How does the contract and deposit process work? Do they have insurance? What other vendors (like florists, caterers, photographers or bands) do they typically like to work with? Get a feel for how familiar they are with your venue as well—the more they’ve worked on-site, the more in-the-know they are with the team there, and the more likely it is they can tackle any snags that may come up. It’s important to do your part as the client too. Prep for the meeting by compiling any details or facts your coordinator will likely want to know ASAP, like what you’ve budgeted for different vendors, a rough guest count and your overall vision. Together, you can start pulling inspiration and making important decisions as soon as possible.
Enjoy the day It’s time to relax and get married! Think of your planner as a safety net on your wedding day. If anything goes wrong (and something always does) they’re there to troubleshoot so you won’t have to fret. They’ll be the one able to make the rain call to move your affair indoors when you can’t bear to, or hunt down your set of heirloom champange flutes before the first toast of the evening. On your wedding day, your only order of buisness is to soak up every memorable second, so trust the pro you’ve hired to do their job, and let go of control day-of. Hiring a pro also means you’ll get to spend precious extra time with loved ones instead of worrying about the cake not showing up or a missing flower arrangement. Trust us on this one—you want (and deserve) a helping hand and some room to breathe. After all, this is going to be the happiest day of your life.
5 must-hire vendors Add these other experts to your wedding team for a flawlessly beautiful celebration.
Photographer
Snapshots of your day are the longest-lasting legacy when it comes to your wedding, so it’s not the place to skimp or trust just any friend with a digital camera.
Videographer
Once looked at as a “bonus” hire when the budget allowed, videography is becoming a priority for pairs and shouldn’t be overlooked (in fact, 34% of couples make sure to hire one!). You will love watching your ceremony or first dance years from now.
Band or DJ
Music makes the party, so your band or DJ pick is a very important one. These entertainers understand the flow of music and how to keep guests dancing all night long, in a way that your Spotify playlist can’t.
Florist
Blooms may seem easy to execute on your own, but when you factor in the time and energy spent sourcing and arranging, they practically pay for themselves. If you really want to DIY some florals, opt to do an event leading up to your day, like a bridesmaid brunch.
Catering team
Feeding a crowd takes skill, and it’s likely that you don’t have the time, equipment or space to prep a complete meal that will feed your 100-plus guests. Hire a team, then give the day your personal flavor with an edible favor.
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A videographer is an often-overlooked—and incredibly important— part of your wedding day. Here’s what to know before you book. BY ALYSSA LONGOBUCCO PHOTOGR APHY BY ONELOVE PHOTOGR APHY
You’ve probably budgeted for a photographer, but if you’re not also setting aside funds for a videographer, you could be doing yourself a disservice. The chance to look back on a professional video of your day and easily recall the emotion in your partner’s voice as they read their vows or the laughter of friends during speeches is irreplaceable. Make hiring a quality videographer just as big of a priority as a photography team and you’ll reap the benefits from your first anniversary to your 50th. Here’s what to keep in mind. >>
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Decide your vibe Just like with photography, there are many different styles, techniques and mediums of videography to consider when selecting the pro or company to hire. You’ll likely want the style of your wedding video to be in harmony with the style of photography you choose, so keep in mind that a grainy, retro Super 8 film might not be the right match alongside super-modern, artsy photography. Past that, consider what type of films you and your partner typically enjoy watching. Are you drawn to a more cinematic, movie-esque telling of your day, or would you rather it be shot more documentary style? Settling first on a film “tone” will ensure you seek out the right pro to get your desired end result.
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Do your research You want to make sure you’re choosing from the most seasoned, talented vendors that fall within your budget. Browse online for pros in your area (visit TheKnot.com/marketplace for a selection of our favorites), then narrow it down to your top five contenders. Spend an afternoon researching their past work, watching videos they’ve completed for other couples on sites like Vimeo or Love Stories TV, and reading reviews past clients have left. Once you have one or two clear favorites, reach out to them and ask a few basic get-to-know-you questions, like how long they’ve been in the business and how they would describe the style of their work. If you find yourself tearing up at a random couple’s wedding video or losing hours binge-watching flicks on a company’s site, you’re probably on the right track to finding your pro.
Make sure the mix works Your videographer will be working very closely with your photographer day of (oftentimes capturing the same intimate moments), so it’s important to feel out if the two of them are a good fit. Inquire as to whether they’ve worked together before, and if they haven’t, offer to make the introduction so they can get acquainted before your wedding. The photographer and videographer can talk through their typical work flow and how they like to shoot, so you’ll be less likely to get a lot of photographs with a videographer in the background (or vice versa). Another thing to consider? Where you’ll be tying the knot. It’s always beneficial to partner with a pro who has done weddings or events at your location before. That way, they’ll be in the know on the prettiest backdrops, as well as any lighting quirks and potential issues that may arise throughout the day. If they’re new to the space, introduce them to your on-site coordinator or planner so they can walk through the venue before your wedding day. The more in sync everyone is, the smoother the day will go.
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Choose the right package for your needs Chances are your videographer offers a variety of packages, ranging from different hourly rates to multiple shooters on the day of. Narrow in on your needs by first deciding how much of your day you want filmed. Do you want someone there catching you and your wedding party getting ready and toasting with mimosas, or do you only feel strongly about capturing footage from the ceremony and reception? Once you have a general timeline nailed down (your pro can help you finesse it a bit more), think about how many eyes you want on your event. One videographer will get the job done, but a team of two can capture the perspective of the main event and the reactions of loved ones, like your partner’s face as you walk down the aisle or your mom’s smile during the father-daughter dance. Lastly, you should factor in how long of an end product you want. Something short and sweet, like a wedding day highlights reel, uses a lot less footage (and therefore requires a lot less time spent filming and editing in post-production) than a one- to two-hour detailed recap of the day would. Ask your videographer what video length and editing each package includes, and base your decision on what suits your needs best. >>
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Make a list of can’t-miss moments
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Leading up to your wedding day, sit down with your partner and write out a list of 5 to 10 moments that you feel your videographer just has to capture, as well as any surprises you’re planning for guests (they’ll want to have their camera ready when you drop confetti onto the dance floor). If you have large families with a lot of VIPs, you can also provide your videographer (as well as your photographer) with a rundown of who’s who at the party. They’ll know to shoot the wedding party getting down on the dance floor, but make sure they take footage of your cousins too.
A lot of the magic of wedding videos happens in post-production, where they piece together all the best moments from your day and pair them with music, voice-overs or special effects. Pros will often shoot with a video layout or specific shots already in mind, so to ensure you get the product you want, speak up before your event. Not into special effects? Totally fine. Want the video set to your first dance song? See if they can license it ahead of time. Lastly, ask what format you’ll get your video in. If receiving a DVD, USB drive or password protecting the video online is important to you, say so.
4 wedding tasks you should hire out You may want to be involved, but don’t try to take on these stressful tasks.
Centerpieces
A stunning centerpiece can set the mood for your day, so it’s not a place to skimp or DIY. With the help of a florist or planner, you can find a budget-friendly solution (whether that’s fewer flowers and more greens or just a bunch of succulents) that will still wow your guests. Bonus: You won’t have to worry about setting up or keeping it fresh the day of.
Catering
Catering a large-scale party is a huge undertaking, even for a culinary whiz. You’ll be hard-pressed to get enough food together for a hundred people and keep it hot, not to mention the fact that you have to also get married. Caterers are trained to make it happen, plus they have the support staff and equipment to serve you and your guests in a timely manner.
Music
It’s tempting to rock out to your favorite tunes on an iPod, but it’s not quite that simple. You’ll be limited to only your music taste (not what everyone else will like) and you likely won’t have the gear to make it loud enough for a party. Music pros are trained to read the dance floor. They can speed it up or slow it down so your guests are dancing throughout the night.
Photography
Photographs are one of the few tangible things you’ll have to remember your wedding by. Loved ones may promise to snap every moment, but what happens if they get distracted or have a camera malfunction? If it’s important for you to have high-quality images and hundreds of great shots, hire a pro. You’ll be glad you did when you get a picture-perfect album.
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your catering checklist
Whether you’re planning a delicious buffet or a seven-course sit-down dinner, you’ll want to abide by these important tips. >> BY ALYSSA LONGOBUCCO PHOTOGR APH BY PATRICIA HE AL
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Dreaming up your wedding reception menu can be one of the most fun (and important) parts of the planning process, especially if you and your partner are big foodies. A large portion of your budget will be put toward feeding your guests—you’ll want make sure everyone ends the night happy and well-fed. From booking your food pro to creating a menu to remember, here are six questions you should ask yourself to ensure you get it right.
Is your caterer legit?
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Have they worked at your venue before? Hiring a caterer who has prepped food at your venue for previous events can make the day run more smoothly and efficiently. A repeat team will already be in the know about the available cook space on-site and what your venue supplies, so they’ll have a clear idea of what additional gear may be needed (this is especially important if you’re celebrating at a nontraditional venue, like a barn or a vineyard, where an entire kitchen may have to be brought in). If you’re really pulling for a catering team that hasn’t worked in the space before, see if they can arrange a walk-through of the venue and get a sense of the available equipment at least a month beforehand so they’re fully prepared the day of your event.
What does your package include? There are a lot of different things to consider before signing on the dotted line. Catering packages can vary, so make sure you leave your initial meeting with a concrete idea of what your caterer includes in theirs. For instance, is your quoted price based on the specific foods or dishes you choose, or is it an all-inclusive rate (which typically includes an appetizer, a salad, an entree and a dessert, plus coffee service and, in some cases, wine for each guest)? Also, unless you’re going with an outside mixology team, work alcohol service into your contract and your catering plans. Talk through the tiers of alcohol coverage, what brands will be served and whether there’s a corkage fee if you provide your own wine or champagne. When it comes to must-have items like plates, napkins, silverware and more, ask if they’ll be bringing those and whether they or the venue are in charge of setup and breakdown. Lastly, inquire as to whether waitstaff is provided. Most caterers work with their own staff, but it’s good practice to check. >>
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Whether you’re working with the team provided by your reception venue or are planning on bringing in an outside crew from your favorite barbecue joint, you’ll want to make sure your caterer is licensed for both food and liquor. This means they’ve met important local health department standards for food prep and service and carry liability insurance for both the food and the alcohol they’ll be serving, ensuring no responsibility falls on your shoulders (or your venue’s) if something goes wrong the day of.
local spotlight: olive events catering The Kansas catering crew gives its tips for a fulfilling (and delicious) wedding menu. ABOUT THE EXPERT
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Marisa Roberts is the founding chef and owner of Olive Events Catering in Kansas City, Kansas. The company is named after her grandmother, Olive Grace, who fostered her love with cooking.
Lately, we’re loving the idea of “micro meals.” It gives you the opportunity to combine different flavors and cultures with things like food stations, and gives guests a bit of your personality.
Cocktail hour is the time to be adventurous, and more couples should take advantage of that. Push the boundaries! We love our bacon blue cheese deviled eggs with roasted garlic and asparagus.
The perfect wedding menu should stay as seasonally appropriate as possible. We always work with our clients to create a delicious, regional meal that’s attentive to their guests’ preferences.
Hands down, our signature dish is our Parmesan and truffle macaroni and cheese. Our clients and their guests can’t get enough of it. At this point, they won’t even let us take it off the menu!
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Can you sample their menu in advance? Researching caterers through reviews and sample menus is a great start, but taste-testing the food yourself is a must-do (and delicious!) part of the process. Sitting down for a tasting session before your wedding day will help you and your caterer plan out a cohesive menu and eliminate any dishes that don’t suit your tastes. Be sure to ask what date your caterer needs to know your final menu choices and guest head count by. Then, base your RSVP date on that, to ensure that all responses from guests are in at least two weeks before your catering head count is due to their team.
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What kind of meal appeals to you? Depending on the vibe and formality of your event, there are plenty of tasty choices to consider when it comes to serving your guests. If you want a constantly bustling party, a dinner of passed apps and interactive stations may work for you. Looking for something more formal? A sit-down dinner is always on trend. Want guests to interact with their surroundings? You may want to hire foodie entertainment like a flair bartender, ballerinas to serve champagne or even a few bow-tie-clad oyster shuckers. Whatever feels right for your day, make sure your catering team is on board to execute. Staffing and equipment needs can vary greatly between a buffet meal and multicourse plated dinner, so plan your style from the get-go in case it affects the overall cost of the services.
Can they handle food allergies? Depending on your guests’ needs, there may be special dietary restrictions your caterer should plan in advance for. Ask your team if they’re able to prepare vegetarian, gluten-free, kosher or halal meals if guests should request or need them, and what the additional cost per plate may be. While you’re at it, if you’re planning on having children at your reception, ask about including a kid-friendly menu or smaller portions. You’ll also want to learn about meal options for serving wedding pros the day of (a must).
5 alternatives to a traditional sit-down meal Plated service isn’t the only option. Personalize your meal with one of these fun (and tasty) swaps.
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Skip the seats and instead delight your guests with a bevy of passed plates piled high with hearty appetizers and filling finger foods for a constant cocktail party atmosphere.
Top your tables with platters of mains (like fish, steak and chicken) and yummy sides, then let guests pass around the plates and serve themselves. It’s a great way to keep the conversation flowing.
European family style
Similar to traditional family style, except each guest selects their main meal course and only the side dishes are shared among the guests.
For a meal that feeds and entertains at the same time, create a culinary circuit of action stations serving interactive foods like make-your-own burgers, tacos, pasta, sushi and more.
Round up a few of your favorite food mobiles and serve guests truck-side for a charming picnic-style event. Be sure your venue has an accessible gravel patch for the vehicles, as well as electrical access. ANGEL A NEW TON ROY PHOTOGR APHY
You want your wedding day to be a reflection of you and your partner, so your reception menu should be too. If you have a particular cuisine in mind, seek out a caterer who specializes in it. They’ll not only boast all the right resources (like the perfect shop to secure that French cheese you love for cocktail hour), but also know how to properly prepare and serve specialty dishes on a large scale, promising a better and tastier event. Expecting a Southern barbecue crew to execute a traditional Italian menu probably isn’t going to end well for anyone, so inquire ahead of time about your top pick’s cuisine specialties and ask to see sample menus.
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the road to “I do” Go from aisle to reception with ease on your wedding day. Our top transportation tips will have you and your wedding party riding in style. Plus: fun ways to rethink your grand exit. >> BY ALYSSA LONGOBUCCO PHOTOGR APH BY SYLVIE GIL PHOTOGR APHY
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When it comes to wedding day transportation, getting to the church on time is only half the battle. There are also contracts, guests needs and, yes, even aesthetics, for you to consider before booking. Ensure your day-of ride is safe, streamlined and super stylish with these important to-dos.
Book ahead of time Really ahead of time—we mean it. Transportation may not be your top priority going into wedding planning, but move it up the list. Depending on the season, a lot of the best rides can book up early, so if you have your heart set on a gorgeous old-school trolley or vintage Rolls-Royce, you should inquire ASAP (between six to nine months before your wedding day is the sweet spot, no matter what you want to rent). First figure out your ceremony and reception sites, as well as any special photo locations, so you can give the transportation company an idea of the exact routes and timing you’ll need for the most accurate price quote.
Make a list of who you’re transporting The size and number of vehicles you choose will largely depend on how many people need transportation. As a rule of thumb, you should plan on providing a ride for the entire wedding party (groomsmen, bridesmaids, and flower girls and ring bearers and their parents, if necessary), as well as your and your partner’s parents, your photographer and possibly your officiant. It’s also important to consider your specific needs. If you and your partner decide to forgo a first look and plan on traveling separately to the ceremony with your respective wedding parties, you’ll need two vehicles instead of the usual party bus for everyone. Likewise, if you two are planning to shoot couples portraits around town postceremony, you’ll need a car for you three and a way to get your wedding party to the reception in the meantime. To guarantee everything goes smoothly day of, make a call sheet to pass out to your drivers, with addresses and directions, timing, a role call of everyone expected in the vehicle and emergency numbers.
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Think beyond the limo While transportation is a practical matter, it can also be an added layer of personalization for your wedding day. Think of it as a fun opportunity to nod to your wedding theme, location or love story. Did your first date include a pedicab ride around New York City’s Central Park? Find a charming rickshaw to take you from your ceremony to your reception. Throwing a boho backyard bash? Rent out a Volkswagen van for a wow-worthy entrance, then keep it on premises to double as a fun photo booth backdrop. With so many out-of-the-box options available to rent, there’s no need to settle for a traditional choice if that’s not a match for your personalities.
Time it right Keep the day running seamlessly by padding your schedule with an extra 20 to 30 minutes of transportation time when going to and from your ceremony or reception venues. Events beyond your control (traffic, road work or even an accident) can happen, so having that extra bit of wiggle room already built into your day will make it less likely that you’ll end up with a delayed ceremony or an officiant who is running late. Another thing to consider? Working around the arrival of your guests. If you’re the type who wants to remain hidden away until your walk down the aisle, you’ll want to be extra careful about coordinating your arrival to your ceremony spot around when your partner and your guests get there. Ask ahead of time if there’s an alternative entrance you can use to sneak in, or arrange transportation schedules so you’re at least 20 minutes ahead of all your guests and your partner. >>
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Aim to book your wedding day transportation between six and nine months beforehand—more if you’re getting married during busy season.
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Envision Your Wedding Here! Visualize your beautiful and elegant wedding before it even happens with the Overland Park Convention Center’s new, fully immersive virtual reality goggles. Then, picture the way you feel when you realize everything from the dance floor and centerpieces to linens and napkins is complimentary when you book with us. Give our wedding coordinator a call at 913.339.3104 to schedule an appointment.
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insta worthy Now is the perfect time to consider your getaway style, so book something fun and photo-ready, like a retro convertible, sailboat or carriage.
Don’t forget about your guests
The moments you spend traveling to your “I dos” or the reception will be one of the few spots of calm in an otherwise jam-packed wedding day. Savor the time alongside your friends or make the most of a one-on-one moment with your new spouse by preparing ahead of time with a few essentials. Champagne flutes and some bubbly are musts for toasting on your way to and from the altar, while a care package of tissues, aspirin, Band-Aids, a quick snack, stain remover stick and bobby pins is also good to have on hand. Task a savvy bridesmaid with compiling a playlist of upbeat, fun tunes that’ll be perfect to set the mood and alleviate any lastminute nerves. You can also bring along decorations—just check with your rental company before decking out the interior or exterior of your vehicle so you don’t accrue any damage fees.
Say farewell in style Now is the perfect time to consider your grand getaway as a married duo. Leave a lasting impression for your guests by exiting your wedding reception in Insta-worthy fashion on a cute bicycle built for two, speeding away in a retro red convertible or sailing into the sunset (literally!) aboard a vintage boat. It’ll make for a great photo-op and seal the deal on a wedding to remember.
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Make it a ride to remember
Unless you’re hosting your ceremony and reception in the same place all of your guests will be staying, chances are you’ll have to factor guest transportation into the day-of game plan. If you’ve reserved a block of rooms at a specific hotel, arrange to have transportation (like a charter bus, which can hold over 50 passengers) leave from there preceremony, that way guests who are staying elsewhere or live local can meet in the parking lot to catch a ride. It’s important to offer transportation post-reception, too (especially if guests have been drinking), as well as offer up the numbers to local cab companies. Allow guests to board the shuttle at least a half hour before your night officially ends—early birds can get a prime seat on the way back, while guests who aren’t quite ready to leave the dance floor yet can catch the next bus out.
how to hang post-reception After the party comes the after-party. Keep the fun going with these quick tips.
Keep it casual
Leave the wedding day formality behind with a chill after-hours shindig. Choose a low-key bar or lounge area to relax and catch up with loved ones over a few cocktails.
Spread the word
It’s important for guests to know that they’re welcome at the afterparty. Include the info on your wedding website or have your DJ announce the continued festivities.
Serve some eats
Ensure no one goes hungry by serving up a few quintessential bar foods like wings, fries and grilled cheese. Or order a slew of pizzas for your friends and family to enjoy.
Set the mood
This is the perfect time to play DJ. Break out your best playlists and ask your after-party venue to hook up your phone to speakers. Keep the tunes fun and dance-y.
Pay the tab
You’ve already treated your guests to a night of revelry but now’s not the time to cut corners. Let the manager know you’ll be covering the bill, or arrange for an open bar.
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There’s no more prized keepsake from your wedding day than the photos that remain. It’s important to know what to do—and ask—to ensure you hire the right pro for your day. We’ve tapped three industry experts to give you the lowdown on everything to keep in mind for a wow-worthy wedding album. >>
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Play to your photographer’s strengths First and foremost, hire a photographer who has the same vision as you and your partner. Whether you love the soft, timeless look of film, desire fly-on-the-wall candid shots or must have formal posed portraits, hiring a pro who specializes in exactly what you’re looking for will ensure you’re off to a good start. “It’s important that the photographer and the couple are on the same page about what they value in wedding photographs,” says Kate Ignatowski, a fine art wedding and portrait photographer in Richmond, Virginia, and New York City. “If candid moments are especially important to the couple, they should intentionally seek out a photographer whose portfolio is filled with the types of moments they want to see reflected in their own wedding photographs.”
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Don’t skip the engagement session Think of an engagement session as a second date with your photographer (the first date should be an informational phone call). This is your chance to get comfortable in front of the lens and get to know your pro and how they prefer to work. “My biggest advice to couples is not to skip the engagement session,” says Elizabeth Fogarty, a fine art wedding photographer based in Washington, DC. “Awkward always shows, so this is your time to get comfortable in front of the camera and figure out your best angles—we all have them.” Keep it casual with one or two meaningful shoot locations, and ask your photographer to seek out somewhere quiet if you’re especially camera shy. Otherwise, trust that they’ll be able to warm you up and get you feeling like a natural. “Posing is very much a photographer’s job,” says Jen Huang, a fine art wedding photographer in New York City. “There’s no need to practice before the engagement session because you’ll want to be as authentic as possible. I try to direct couples cinematically so their natural moments can emerge.”
Dress like you’re out on a date
Put your pro’s knowledge to use
Choosing that oh-so-important outfit for your engagement session can be tough, so focus on a coordinating palette of solids for you and your partner that you both feel natural in. “I always tell my couples to wear something they would naturally find themselves in on a date night,” Huang says. “Everyone has a different look and style, but typically this means women are in neutral fabrics that are comfortable and flowy, while grooms are in tailored suits. Their outfits should match in the sense that if one of them is wearing something casual, the other shouldn’t be in formalwear.” Be conscious of keeping your look in line with your shoot location—if you’re planning an engagement session on a sailboat, you’re probably not going to want to don a sequin skirt.
Your photographer has likely been in the wedding industry for a while, so use them when researching and deciding on other vendors to bring on board. They’ll be able to recommend who can help you achieve a certain look or identify the creator of a gorgeous centerpiece you spotted in their portfolio. “To make sure my clients receive the best images they can, I try to advise on all aspects of the wedding,” Huang says. “This includes helping select their team of vendors—if I know how the other vendors will operate on a wedding day, I can work seamlessly with them.” They’ll be encountering everyone involved, from your florist to the DJ, so see what they think of your hired team. Their opinion doesn’t have to be the be-all and end-all, but it’s a good place to start. >>
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Create a solid day-of timeline
Be upfront about your expectations
“The wedding timeline is key for a smooth day,” Fogarty says. “Allowing enough time for each part of the wedding day is crucial to getting those amazing images.” Ensure your photographer doesn’t miss a moment of the action by setting specific parameters for what, and when, you want them shooting on your wedding day. If you want pictures of everything from morning bagels to the night’s last call, you may need to work overtime hours into your contract. Past that, setting aside at least an hour and a half for couples’ portraits, shots of the wedding party and family formal portraits will eliminate any need to rush. Another thing to consider? A first look. “I always encourage couples to do one,” Fogarty says. “It allows them to have alone time together while taking it all in—the wedding day flies by so quickly, and this is a great way to slow it down. Besides getting more portraits in, it also means you can actually enjoy your cocktail hour with your guests.”
From the moment you engage your photographer, encourage an open dialogue with them regarding everything from your contract to portrait locations and a preferred shot list. The more upfront you are about your needs and wants for your wedding day, the more you and your photographer can course-correct and make sure you’re working in a way that will surpass your expectations for the day. “I try to encourage my clients to tell me everything they need me to capture as soon as it pops into their head,” Huang says. “Figure out your priority shots—the things you really want captured as opposed to the things that are maybe a little less important to you. This way, if there’s a time crunch, I’ll know which types of images I should focus on.” Beyond the wedding day, make sure your written contract encompasses all the necessary details, like how many images you’ll get, the expected turnaround time and whether or not your package includes physical prints or an album.
Plan for the light
Don’t try to control everything
When sketching out your day-of timeline, it’s important to factor in “golden hour,” that coveted time of day that photographers love to shoot during because of the amazing results it produces. “Shooting in the best light possible makes all the difference, for both engagement shots and wedding day portraits,” Ignatowski says. “A foolproof tip is to schedule about an hour and half before sunset for an engagement session and to start portraits about an hour before sunset on your wedding day, depending on how much time you need to allot.” Send your photographer images from the walk-through of your wedding site and they can advise on the best time and locations based on when the sun will set that day.
You can prep all you want, but when your wedding day comes, you’ll need to relinquish control to your photographer and trust that you’re in good hands. You hired this person, so allow them to do their job. Trying to get too prescriptive with your shot list or your photographer’s work can mean that they may have to neglect more genuine, special shots, so let go and let them do their thing. “Trying to re-create that Pinterest-perfect image you love means we may be missing out on authentic moments, like your mom holding your veil or your bridesmaids tearing up,” Fogarty says. “Trust your photographer and their eye—if you let your story unfold naturally, your photographer will capture it beautifully.”
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party perfect Your wedding is bound to be a blast with smart ways to keep guests mixing, mingling and having fun. BY ALYSSA LONGOBUCCO PHOTOGR APH BY K ATE EDWARDS WEDDINGS
“I do” is about more than uniting you and your spouse in marital bliss—it’s the melding of your family and friends into one large, boisterous group. Whether your loved ones are complete strangers to each other or old friends, they’ll appreciate the attention to detail you pay to their wedding day experience. Ensure your bash goes down as the most fun ever with these tips to keep them entertained the entire weekend. >>
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four fun wedding weekend plans for out-of-town guests Keep traveling loved ones entertained all weekend with out-of-the-box activities.
1 Treat them to a cooking class Enroll early arrivers in a cooking class with a favorite local eatery for some midday culinary fun.
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Kick off your wedding weekend with a bang by hosting all your favorite people at a casual prewedding mixer a night or two before the main event. If you’re having a destination wedding, reserve a spot that represents all that’s special about your locale, and serve a laid-back menu of local eats and beverages. Or choose a favorite restaurant on your home turf to share with your guests. This is also a great opportunity to introduce any family members or friends who don’t already know each other—this way, they’ll feel like old pals by the time your wedding reception rolls around.
Create a swag suite Take the idea of a welcome bag up a notch by transforming the thoughtful concept into a full-blown welcome lounge. Instead of stuffing gift bags and delivering them to your guests’ hotel rooms, let them do the (fun!) work by setting up tables of amazing goodies, like late-night snacks, drinks and artisanal treats, and let them fill a personalized tote bag with all of their favorite things. You, your partner and your wedding party can set up the station in a hotel suite or outside at a tent to greet friends and family the evening before the wedding and get a bit more face time in with guests.
Offer icebreakers Help guests get to know one another by incorporating engaging icebreakers into your wedding day. Get as creative as you’d like— from party crackers at each place setting with questions hidden inside to “bride” and “groom” buttons guests can wear to designate whose family they’re representing. Or task a few of your most lively, outgoing friends to act as table ambassadors (this is a great job for groomsmen). They can move from table to table ensuring everyone has met one another and is having a ball. The goal: Make conversation and camaraderie easy to come by for a reception that will have everyone feeling appreciated and included. >>
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Friends and family members of all ages will enjoy getting a taste of the local food scene, and a good meal always brings about good conversation.
2 Host a cookie and coffee reception Looking for a way to make everyone feel included on the night of your rehearsal dinner without breaking the bank? Host a cookie and coffee reception for a sweet end to the night. The intimate setting will be perfect for mingling and catching up with those who didn’t attend the rehearsal dinner earlier.
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Arrange a group tour If guests are traveling for your wedding, odds are they’ll want to see the sights while they’re there. Encourage everyone to play tourist with a guided tour to some of the area’s best landmarks. Whether it’s a coastal boat trip, a bike ride or a walking tour, the experience will leave them loving your destination city as much as you do.
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Host a postwedding brunch Keep the celebration going and bid visitors adieu with a farewell brunch. Guests will appreciate a hearty meal before they hit the road, and it gives you and your partner a last chance to connect with anyone you didn’t get to spend time with the night before.
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Hire interactive vendors Encourage guests to engage with their surroundings at your wedding reception by hiring a few standout vendors to delight the group while they’re serving, feeding or pouring. A flair bartender is always a great option (your guests will love the flaming cocktails and high-flying glass tricks), while more off-beat ideas, like a roaming ice cream cart or an oyster-shucking station, can feel playful and personalized to your event theme. Food trucks are another great way to get guests moving around, so consider hiring a few for a four-wheel dessert display or cocktail hour.
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Party old-school Everyone loves a good party game, so be sure to plan on including a few in your cocktail hour and reception. Lawn games like horseshoes, cornhole and oversize Jenga are great for outdoor events, while classics like a photo booth, a piñata or even a caricature artist will be a hit indoors. Encourage a little friendly competition by posting a chalkboard scoreboard near a game like ladder ball and letting playful rivalries form between guests.
Get social When in doubt, let social media do the mingling work for you. There are a slew of new apps dedicated to helping wedding guests get to know one another and enjoy their evening. Guesterly helps you create a completely customized photo guide of all your guests, which you can then supply printed or digitally for the ultimate who’s who party roster. Each mention includes a photo, a bio and some details on each person, so everyone feels welcome and instantly involved. Have a lot of single friends coming? Try out SinglesTable, which aims to play Cupid ahead of your “I dos” by giving unhitched friends a place to mix and mingle virtually before they meet IRL on the dance floor. Create a profile at SinglesTable.co, and share the private code with guests on your wedding website. They can download the app and chat up fellow attendees before your wedding. Who knows—they could be next.
seat guests drama-free Take the guesswork out of your seating arrangements with these foolproof tips.
Start early
Don’t be one of those couples left panicking the morning of their wedding because they haven’t finished their seating charts. You’ll have more important tasks to take care of by then. It’s fine to make last-minute adjustments, but try to have your chart done at least one week before the wedding.
Break it down
Before choosing seating, categorize your guest list by relationship: your friends, your family, your partner’s friends, your partner’s family, family friends and so on. This way, it will be easier for you to sort your guests into the most logical table arrangements.
Work out placing parents
Traditionally, both sets of parents sit at the same table, along with the grandparents and siblings who weren’t in the wedding party. But with divorces, stepparents and family drama, some people might be uncomfortable sitting next to each other. If there’s any awkwardness, consider letting each set of parents host their own table of close family and friends. Remember, the parent positioning is flexible. Place everyone in a spot where it feels best to you.
Enlist your wedding party
At most weddings, the bridesmaids and groomsmen sit at the head table alongside the newlyweds. To make all your guests feel special and included, feel free to sit your wedding party strategically throughout the room, focusing especially on the outlying tables. Sitting with an honored member will make other attendees feel like they’re in the center of the action no matter where they’re seated.
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Create a conversation corner Give everyone a place to take a load off between dance breaks by creating a lounge area at your reception. Ask your planner to style it with comfy couches, plush pillows and a coffee table or two for guests to place their drinks on. It’s the perfect way to keep everyone engaged in the party even when they’re resting or uninterested in dancing, plus it helps to fill any unused space in an especially large venue. Really want to wow everyone? Close off the lounge areas with sheer curtains to create a clublike VIP vibe.
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a true-to-you “I do” Bring new life to traditional ceremony elements with these fresh ideas. BY ALYSSA LONGOBUCCO PHOTOGR APH BY ABBY JIU PHOTOGR APHY
You’re probably teeming with ways to personalize every inch of your wedding reception, but if you haven’t given much thought to doing the same for your ceremony, you should. There’s a slew of inspiration that ups the fun and will make it a ceremony to remember. >>
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Commission a jaw-dropping backdrop
Start your marriage with a bang
You’ll already be the center of attention at the altar, but make the moment even more powerful by saying your vows in front of a wow-worthy backdrop. Forgo the traditional arch or urns in place of a floral wall display or modern painting behind you and your partner. Ask your planner to choose an idea that speaks to the personality of your wedding (like a macramé hanging for a boho bash). Or, have a visual artist create something unique for you to hang in your home afterward as a sweet reminder of the day.
Or a boom, or a spray of confetti. Couples are going the extra mile when it comes to recognizing the moment they’re pronounced officially wed. Ring in newlywed life just like you’d ring in the New Year by arranging for confetti cannons, colorful smoke “bombs” or fireworks to go off when you seal your union with a kiss. Or, involve guests by putting poppers at each seat for them to erupt when you smooch. A bit over the top? Sure! But if there’s ever a time to be beaming beneath rainbow-hued confetti, this is it. >>
5 old-school traditions you can skip Reinvent the wheel by saying “no” to some of these old stand-bys.
Rock whatever you want. For your wedding day attire, anything goes for you and your partner— from a traditional ivory gown to a retro short dress, slinky sheath or a black pantsuit. Make it colorful or make it casual—as long as you feel fabulous in your outfit.
A two-color palette
Your wedding can have as many (or as few) colors as you want. The trick is to make sure they work together by using multiple neutrals or colors in the same family of shades (think: a trio of warm hues like pink, orange and yellow, or a quiet palette of white, cream and blush).
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You don’t have to confine your list of VIPs to your female friends (and vice versa for grooms), so feel free to have a bridesman or a groomswoman. Coordinate their looks with the rest of the party with accessories like a colorful bow tie or sash.
Staying apart A long white veil until you say “I do” You don’t have to wear a This superstition has long been proven false, so there’s nothing stopping you if you want to do a first-look photo shoot to free up more time after the ceremony so you can enjoy your cocktail hour. (Bonus: It can also help prewedding jitters.)
long white veil—or any veil at all. Break away from the standard tulle headpiece by swapping it with a chic jeweled headband, romantic flower crown or sparkly hair clips. Or you could just leave your hair down with nothing in it at all (you rebel, you).
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Have a nighttime ceremony Up the romance factor of your wedding day by structuring your timeline so you say “I do” after the sun goes down. It may take a bit of logistical rearranging (for instance, you may want to do your cocktail hour first, followed by your ceremony and your reception), but we can’t think of anything sweeter than reciting your vows in a candlelit room or under a starry sky, surrounded by loved ones. A nighttime ceremony is especially apt if you’re hoping to lend a moodier overall vibe to your wedding day. Luxe accents like rich velvet, inky black bridesmaid dresses and gorgeous burgundy florals will be right at home at dusk. Swoon!
sweet surprise Task a few honored attendees with choosing readings that remind them of you as a couple, and allow yourself to be surprised by them when they share them aloud on your wedding day.
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For couples not abiding by a religious ceremony structure and text, the possibilities for personalization through your reading selection are endless. In the months leading up to your wedding, be on the lookout for passages, verses or poems that speak to you as a couple. If you have a poem or set of song lyrics you love, consider asking a friend to recite them at the ceremony for you. Or, task a few honored attendees with choosing readings that remind them of you as a couple and allow yourself to be surprised by them (and caught up in the moment) on your wedding day.
Serve preceremony cocktails Kick your wedding day off right by passing out preceremony sips for your guests to enjoy while they await your big reveal. This is a great place to introduce your signature cocktail for the evening, or speak to your reception’s overall vibe with a pick that’s indicative of what’s to come (like mini wine flights at a vineyard or a selection of boozy lemonades to hint at the casual southern BBQ you have planned for the reception meal). You could also keep it classic and greet guests with mini bottles of champagne or prosecco. Tie cute paper straws and a tag onto each bottle, instructing guests to pop the cork when you kiss. Then have waitstaff pass out the bubbly in preparation for the big moment. >>
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Do a guest processional
Savvy couples are moving beyond the traditional two-sided aisle setup to layouts that feel more intimate. Just because you come from two families doesn’t mean you need your guests to sit on separate sides. Encourage mixing and mingling by arranging seating in an arch or semicircle, with the altar centered in the middle. It creates more “front row” seating and fosters a warm environment that will leave you and your partner feeling the love.
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love language Coming up with words meaningful enough for your vows can be intimidating. Here are a few tricks to help you speak from your heart in the moment.
Read samples
Start by reading by-the-book vows from your own religion if you practice a certain faith, and others as well, to see what strikes a chord with you. Incorporate these samples into the original words you write, or simply use them as a jumping-off point. Once you’ve found a few you and your partner love, consider what it is about them that draws you to those vows in particular.
Define the details
Decide how you want your vows to come across, both in tone and structure. Do you envision them being funny and lighthearted or poetic and romantic? Talk through the logistics too. Will you write them separately or together? Will they be different or will you include the same promises to each other, like in traditional vows? Finally, will you share them with each other beforehand or keep them secret until the wedding?
Avoid clichés
Borrow from books, spiritual texts and even movies, but don’t let someone else’s words overpower your own. You want your vows to sound like you, and that won’t happen if every word is borrowed from other sources. If you find yourself relying on cliché phrases to get your point across (like “Love is blind”), come up with a specific example from your relationship that has a similar message.
Keep it short
Your vows are important, but that doesn’t mean they should drag on. Pick the most important points and make them. If yours are running longer than two minutes, make some edits. Put some of the more personal or intimate thoughts in a letter to gift to your partner on the morning of your wedding, and save any guest-related topics, like thank-yous or shout-outs, for your toasts later on.
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It’s tradition for the groom, wedding party and then bride and a parent (often her father or a father figure) to walk down the aisle, and if you don’t want to miss out on that classic moment, that’s fine. However, if you’re up for something a bit different, why not turn things on their head and have your guests walk toward you? Mix up the classic entrance by awaiting your guests at the altar, while the guests themselves walk to you and your partner and take their seats. It’s a powerful way to make loved ones feel extraimportant, and you’ll get an up-close look at the happiness on their faces as they see you for the first time and prepare to witness your vows. This is also a great option for same-sex couples that may not identify as much with a traditional processional. If you choose to do a guest processional, make sure to clearly state your intentions in your wedding program and post several in-the-know ushers around the ceremony space to help guests figure out what to do.
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If there aren’t enough formal roles in your bridal party for all your buds, make sure every loved one feels included with these VIP tasks. BY ALYSSA LONGOBUCCO PHOTOGR APH BY CHRISTINA LILLY PHOTOGR APHY
Choosing whom to include in your wedding party can be a pretty daunting task. There are long-term friendships, familial relationships and sensitive feelings to consider— it’s enough to make any to-be-wed couple go a little crazy. If your wedding party roster is full and you still have a cousin or an old college roomie you want to include in your day, task them with one of these bonus wedding roles so they’ll feel important. >>
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Perhaps one of the most forward-facing roles in the wedding (besides the couple of honor, of course) is the officiant. If you’re not particularly religious or are planning on a nondenominational ceremony, consider asking someone close to you to do the honor of officially pronouncing you wed. This role is best suited for a friend or family member who feels at home in front of crowds. They will be charged with uttering some of the most important words of the day, and they’ll also have to be warm enough to make the rest of the guests feel emotionally involved and invested in the ceremony. Choose that someone special, ensure they get properly (and officially) ordained, then talk them through the type of ceremony you and your partner are envisioning. The good news: A close pal or relative already knows you both well, so you won’t have to worry about your ceremony feeling scripted or impersonal.
Musician Have a friend who is a virtuoso on the violin or particularly savvy on a set of ivories? Ask if they’ll bring their talents to your wedding day. You don’t want them as the entertainment during cocktail hour or dinner—that’s no fun for them!—but a song or two during the ceremony is the perfect special add-on. Give them a favorite tune to learn for your walk down the aisle, or re-create that classic Love, Actually moment with a trio of friends on trumpets, bellowing out the cords to “All You Need Is Love” as you exit your ceremony.
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Ushers Think of ushers as the adult-sitters at the ceremony. They’ll help guests to their seats, answer any pre-event questions (like where the bathroom is or which side of the aisle they should sit on) and hand out ceremony programs or other goodies you have at the ready. While the role is typically reserved for groomsmen, there’s no rule that says you can’t ask whomever you want to take it on—an uncle, a stepsister or even a close coworker. They’ll be interacting with a number of your family members, so make sure they’re a charming conversationalist and comfortable with being on their feet for at least the beginning of the ceremony. In addition, you’ll want guests to know the ushers are their point of contact before and during the ceremony, so post them at the ends of the aisle to ensure they’re accessible, or help them stand out with a special boutonniere or corsage. You could also use this as an opportunity to rethink other traditional wedding roles. Have your beloved pup as a ring bearer, or enlist your and your partner’s grandmothers to walk down the aisle as flower grannies. Every tradition is another opportunity to personalize your day, so don’t feel wedded to one typical way of doing things. >>
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No matter what type of ceremony you and your partner are envisioning for your wedding day, it’s likely to include several readings, whether they’re religious or simply meaningful to the two of you. This moment is a great place to work in a few honored guests (like your teenage cousin or a beloved neighbor) whom you want to call attention to by giving them a moment to shine during your ceremony. If you really trust your selected speakers, make it feel even more personal by asking them to choose the passage or item they’ll read at the ceremony. Provide them with a general theme (like partnership, love or family values) and a loose structure (like poems, song lyrics or scripture), then set them free to find whatever passage reminds them most of you and your partner. Make sure everyone has their readings at least a week in advance so they can practice their delivery, and be sure to describe who they are and their relationship to you and your partner (as well as what they’ll be reading aloud) in your ceremony programs.
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The Reserve Event Space, located in the Kansas City Crossroads Arts District, features open-air sliding garage doors with stunning views of the downtown skyline. With two floors of private event space, the venue is ideal for rehearsal dinners, wedding ceremonies and receptions. The Reserve Event Space is located at the corner of 20th and Grand, just above The Rockhill Grille.
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Unity helper If you’re planning on including a unity ritual in your ceremony, use it as an opportunity to incorporate a few extra loved ones into the program as well. Popular practices, like joint-lighting a candle, the mixing of sand, handfasting or even planting a tree, all require some sort of additional propping, so task a friend or family member with bringing those necessary items up to the altar and presenting them to you both. Sure, it’s a small to-do, but it will likely make someone feel very special to be entrusted with the job (plus, it’s even simple enough to pass off to a young child). Likewise, if you are planning to have a religiously focused ceremony and will be completing something like Holy Communion or the presentation of gifts, you can also give that honor to a loved one.
Chuppah holder In Jewish culture, the chuppah a couple marry beneath represents the home that they will build together. Often topped with fabric or a tallit (prayer shawl) and adorned with flowers, it’s a privilege to be asked to hold or carry a couple’s chuppah. Consider having loved ones do the honors. If you’re not into the idea of them standing there throughout the ceremony, have them carry it down the aisle and then place it in the front. If it’s stationary and already in place at the head of your ceremony space, they can man the corners until you and your families arrive, then take their seats.
Marriage license witness There comes a point on your wedding day where you need to sign on the dotted line and make it legal, so think about whom you want standing with you while you give your best autograph. The witness lines on your marriage license are typically signed by the best man and maid of honor, but you could also ask another friend to step in as your witness instead. Want to get really fancy? Ask them ahead of time with a cute, personalized pen they can use the day of.
who gives a toast (and when) Smiles, laughs and happy tears, toasts are guaranteed to bring out the aw moments at your reception. Here’s who to hand the mic to.
The honored attendant(s)
Whether you have a best man, a maid of honor or a man or woman of honor, they’re usually the ones who kick off the speeches at the reception once everyone has snagged a glass of champagne. One or more of them can take turns speaking about the couple, their love story and their friendship with the pair. Just cap this portion at three or so pals—there are others to get to!
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If the bride’s parents are hosting, they will usually speak first. If the bill is being split, both sets of parents should speak together. They welcome the guests, thank them for coming, raise their glasses to the newlyweds and give some words of wisdom to the couple.
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While you can’t toast to yourselves, it’s always a good idea to take a moment to acknowledge the hard work of your wedding party and parents and to thank your guests for sharing in this special day with you. You can each say your own words or give a joint speech together.
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As much as everybody loves you two, constantly having toasts interrupt the party will get old. Limit the speeches by keeping the mic reserved for the honored members of your wedding party and family (others can speak at the rehearsal dinner) so guests can hit the dance floor. Definitely don’t pass it off to anyone who has indulged in too many signature cocktails.
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Working a ring warming into your ceremony is a great way to incorporate all your guests into your vows and make them feel involved in your union. You’ll need to select two “ring chaperones” to shepherd your rings throughout the group and explain the process—a great job for honored attendees you may not have been able to include in your formal bridal party. Put your rings in a box or tie to a pillow then, starting in the back of the group, have guests pass your wedding bands among themselves, each taking a moment to imbue them with well-wishes and love before continuing them along to the next guest. By the time they reach the two of you at the altar, they’ll have enough good vibes to last you a lifetime.
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From renovations to rain, even the most well-planned wedding weekends can be thrown a curve ball. Whether you’re trying to contend with an unexpected amount of RSVPs or are clueless when it comes to having a plan B for your outdoor reception, we’re here to help you iron out all those details before your wedding day, keeping the main event as stress-free as possible.
Our venue underwent renovations after we booked, and all the charm we loved is gone! Falling head over heels with a space only to have it transformed before your wedding can be a huge disappointment. Assuming that pulling out and finding an entirely different venue isn’t an option, there are a few ways to approach this. First, review your contract, looking for anything that may protect your investment in the space or any language that essentially frees the venue of any responsibility in the scenario. Then contact the venue with a concise email explaining your frustration. Detail why you initially chose the space and how the renovations have affected your wedding. Mention any additional fees you envision having to pay, and see what they can do to alleviate the situation, either monetarily or by throwing in extra perks (like upgraded chairs, top-shelf liquor or an extra hour to your reception). Lastly, talk with your planner and your team of vendors to see what they recommend you change or add to regain some of the charm you lost. Maybe your florist suggests bringing in a few topiaries to make up for the rows of vineyard that got wiped out, or your planner thinks adding a high-gloss lacquer dance floor over the ugly new carpet will add some personality back into the space. Review and adjust your game plan, and price out what additional costs you might accrue. >>
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Our whole wedding aesthetic is based on our outdoor venue location, and we don’t have a plan B in case of bad weather. What should we do? Outdoor receptions can be so romantic and special, but they do come with an unpredictable guest: Mother Nature. No matter what the forecast is looking like for your day, you should absolutely plan for a backup location in case things take a turn for the worse. If you’re not already renting a tent, consider booking a weatherproof option (which often has roll-down sides in case it rains), or look into securing a few seasonal extras like portable air conditioners or propane heaters for added comfort. If your venue has indoor space as well (like a barn or a ballroom), inquire as to whether those spots are booked on the day of your wedding—a lot of places keep them open on the off chance they’ll need to move your setup, and they may already have that backup plan in place. If you do wind up having to move indoors, don’t feel like your whole wedding vibe will suffer. Instead, focus on carrying the elements you loved about the outdoors into your interior space, like stringing café lights from the ceiling or adding tall greenery around the perimeter to re-create the sweet outdoor garden environment.
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Our venue has a super-early noise curfew. How can we keep the party going without getting into trouble? If your heart is set on having an evening wedding and you want your guests to enjoy your venue for as long as possible, a silent disco is a great way to preserve the party without breaking a noise ordinance. Once “quiet hours” commence (typically around 9 or 10 p.m.), hand guests wireless headphones that are plugged into the DJ’s beats and continue tearing up the dance floor. It’s a quirky, out-of-the-box solution that will be fun for your loved ones. >>
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You could also prolong the nighttime fun at a different venue entirely by hosting an after-party. Lead your guests to a nearby bar or tavern, where the night owls can enjoy the rest of the evening as noisily as they’d like. The casual, more intimate setting will give you face time with guests you didn’t get to speak to at the formal festivities. An after-party can actually be cheaper than extending a reception—just be sure to factor in the need for additional transportation to and from the after party.
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We’re hosting our ceremony and reception in the same space at our venue. What do we do with guests while it’s being turned over? Host your cocktail hour somewhere else. You’ll need to get all your guests out of the ceremony space shortly after your “I dos” so your vendor team can make fast work of transforming the room. To ensure everyone gets the memo, dictate the cocktail hour plans on a note card tucked into the ceremony program, then place it on all the seats at the ceremony. You can also task your ushers with directing guests out of the room afterward. Aim to host your cocktail hour in an entirely different space so guests can’t see the makeover— you want them to be wowed by the quick transformation without witnessing the catering team toting towers of chairs. Our wedding is at a resort where the other guests can wander into the celebration space. Is there any way we can politely keep them out? There are perks to having your ceremony or reception at a resort, but a group of curious onlookers isn’t one of them. Start by setting up a distinct perimeter around your zone, either by ribboning it off around the edges or posting “private event” signs. You’ll be amazed at how many wedding watchers that will dissuade. >>
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If you’re concerned about strangers sneaking into your space (or snapping photos of you and your guests), designate a few friends to casually keep watch. Only truly gutsy strangers will try to infiltrate your party, and they’ll stick out because they’ll be dressed wrong or won’t be mingling with other guests. If you notice an interloper, task your planner with discreetly removing them.
After receiving all our RSVPs, we’ve somehow ended up over our venue’s allowable capacity. What now? The good news: You have a lot of friends and family who want to celebrate with you two. The bad news: Where are you going to put them all? As a rule of thumb, you should always plan on having an A-list and a B-list for your invites. The A-list should comprise guests who are must-haves for you and your partner or your families, while nonessentials (like work colleagues or high school buddies you might be able to skip) should be added to the B-list. You should invite 10 percent more guests than your target number, since 10 to 20 percent of those invited will decline—unless they don’t. So what now? Well, the first phone call you make should be to your venue. If you’re only 15 to 20 people over your quoted head count, see if they can accommodate your additional guests for an added fee. Most wedding venues can’t just add 10 more tables—fire laws limit the maximum number of people allowed in any room at one time—so consider seating some of your guests elsewhere by either renting out an additional small ballroom on-site or having some guests dine on a terrace, for example. Not ideal, sure, but neither is uninviting guests who have already RSVP’d yes. B O O K YO U R D R E A M V E N U E AT TheKnot.com/marketplace
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Your bachelorette party can be one of the most anticipated events of the whole wedding process. There’s nothing more fun than setting aside an entire weekend (or even just a day) to celebrate the incredible friendships in your life. If you’re a bride (or the bridesmaid of a gal) who is more sweet and serene than saucy and scandalous, trade in G-strings and scantily clad entertainers for a bash that will be a blast and Facebook appropriate.
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A little confused by the lingo? Allow us to explain—think of a glamette as the over-the-top, indulgent big sister of the traditional bachelorette. The Bridal Bar founder Harmony Walton coined the phrase after planning a honeymoon-esque getaway for a bride and her gals in Deer Valley at the luxe St. Regis hotel. Walton made sure the weekend included lots of good food, high-end moments and even a picnic hike (see previous page). “Do what you love to do together as friends, but bigger and better,” Walton says. “Make it a trip you will all remember.” A glamettethemed weekend should be packed full of activities that spoil you and your girls, like spa appointments, private yoga sessions and luxe accommodations. You’ll want to get pampered, dress up in your party finest and eat like queens, so seek out a resort with a top-notch spa and grounds, or a city where you can go all out on the little luxuries.
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You can pack your schedule with a variety of classes and events around your home city (think: meditation sessions followed by green juices), or head to a destination retreat organized through companies like Pravassa (Pravassa.com), Fit & Fly Girl (FitandFlyGirl.com) and The Runaway Experience (TheRunawayExperience.com).
Fla-mingle with your favorite ladies and work on your prewedding glow at a grown-up pool party. If you don’t already know a friend willing to lend out her pool for the afternoon, look into nearby hotels or rooftops—many rent spaces on an hourly or daily basis for events. Then, fill the water with tons of cute floats, mix some margs and pile baskets high with pool party essentials like fun sunnies, magazines, sunscreen, towels and more. Hire a bartender through a local joint or app like GigMasters to act as your personal cabana boy. Piña coladas at the snap of a finger? We’re in!
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Get in touch with nature while camping There’s nothing like roughing it in the wilderness to bring you and your friends closer together. Go back to basics with a bare-bones camping weekend at a nearby state park or campground. Skip the RV in lieu of a tent you have to pitch yourselves, then work together to build a fire and cook dinner, ending the night swapping old memories under the stars. If full-on survivalist mode isn’t your thing, you can still capture all the charm of a wilderness retreat with none of the extra schlepping by booking a spot at a “glamping” resort. You’ll get the grandeur of the great outdoors, but with luxury amenities (like running water, real beds and even, in some cases, air conditioning) to keep you all comfy.
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Sip your way through a vineyard tour Just like you and your partner, wine and girlfriends are the perfect match. Why not spend the weekend wandering your way through the vine-covered rows of a local vineyard or two, toasting to your upcoming day and snacking on yummy bar bites? Most vineyards host tastings either for free or for a reasonable $10 to $20 per person, so you’ll get a lot of bang for your buck if you’re on a budget. Encourage your gals to each buy their favorite bottle, then revisit everyone’s picks later in the evening over a potluck dinner. Just be sure to look into booking a limo or party bus, or designating a sober friend to drive everyone safely.
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Give thanks to the best mates in your life with an adventure on the open water. A day-long sailboat or yacht rental isn’t a low-budget option, but it often comes with additional perks like sailing lessons, a coastal tour of the area or even a staff to serve your group food and cocktails while on board. Use the sail as the kickoff to a coastal-themed weekend, and spend the rest of your time on land hanging at the beach, sampling oysters and snacking on lobster rolls. Have motion-sickness medicine on hand and a backup plan in case gray skies prevent your excursion. >>
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Foodie fans will love a weekend agenda filled with culinary curiosities. If you or your to-be-wed friend is obsessed with a certain dish or cuisine (say, burgers or Thai food), plan an epic “crawl” around a nearby area packed with eats or a city known for its killer culinary scene (like Nashville or Portland). Then, dream up fun additional activities to go with the weekend’s food theme, like beer and wine pairings or a cooking class.
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Search for your future among the stars Everyone has that one friend who won’t make a decision without consulting Susan Miller first. If she tells everyone she meets that she’s an Aries and what fire signs mean, then she’d probably love a celestialthemed party. Besides having perhaps the prettiest potential when it comes to décor (think: constellation-etched wine glasses, star paper lanterns and gilded temporary astrological sign tattoos), there are several activities perfect for a star-crossed shindig. Hire a tarot card reader to answer questions about the future, a psychic to predict which solo pals might be headed to the altar next or even an astronomer to lead a stargazing experience.
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If jetting off to France isn’t in the budget, settle for the next-best thing with a weekend filled with all things Parisian. Francophile friends will swoon over a très chic schedule filled with French-inspired activities like a wine and cheese pairing, perfume mixology, macarons and more. Another idea? Seek out a figure drawing class through a company like The Artful Bachelorette (TheArtfulBachelorette.com), who will provide a professional nude male model to sketch. You’ll end up with a few giggles and a keepsake portrait that even Jack Dawson would envy. 8 1 6 . 8 7 6 . 1 7 4 2 • I N F O @ M A G N O L I AV E N U E K C . C O M • K A N S A S C I T Y , M O
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make it legal Missouri & Kansas Marriage License Requirements GUIDELINES FOR OBTAINING A MARRIAGE LICENSE In the Greater Kansas City area, the legal age for marriage is 18 years old. Couples ages 15–17 must have parental consent. (Note: In Illinois, no one under 16 can be married.) In general, there are no blood tests or health requirements to obtain a legal license. In Missouri and Illinois, both parties must be present to apply for a license, and in Missouri you must provide a SSN and photo ID. In Kansas, either the bride or groom can apply; however, both the bride and groom must sign the form they take home. There is a three-day waiting period to obtain the license in Kansas. The license is then valid for just 30 days in Missouri and for six months in Kansas. There is a one-day waiting period in Illinois, and the license is valid for 60 days. The fee is around $50 in Missouri, $85 in Kansas and roughly $30 in Illinois. Check with your county for types of acceptable payment. All offices are open Monday through Friday. Please call ahead to get all the details. WHERE TO APPLY MISSOURI
Greene County
St. Louis County
Leavenworth County
Wyandotte County
Madison County
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Recorder of Deeds 940 Boonville Ave. Springfield, MO 65802 (417) 868-4068 8 a.m.–4:30 p.m.
Recorder of Deeds 41 S. Central Ave., 4th Fl. Clayton, MO 63105 (314) 615-7180 8 a.m.–5 p.m., M, W, F; 8 a.m.–6 p.m., T, Th.
Clerk of the District Court 601 S. 3rd St., Ste. 3051 Leavenworth, KS 66048 (913) 684-0707 8 a.m.–5 p.m.
District Court 710 N. 7th St. Kansas City, KS 66101 (913) 573-2834 8 a.m.–4:30 p.m.
County Clerk 157 N. Main St., Ste. 109 Edwardsville, IL 62025 (618) 692-6290 8:30 a.m.–4:30 p.m.
KANSAS
Miami County
ILLINOIS
Sangamon County
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District Court 120 S. Pearl St. Paola, KS 66071 (913) 294-3326 8 a.m.–4 p.m.
Boone County Recorder of Deeds 801 E. Walnut, Rm. 132 Columbia, MO 65201 (573) 886-4350 8 a.m.–5 p.m.
Cass County Recorder of Deeds 102 E. Wall St. Harrisonville, MO 64701 (816) 380-8123 8 a.m.–4 p.m.
Clay County Recorder of Deeds 1 Courthouse Sq. Liberty, MO 64068 (816) 407-3560 8 a.m.–4:30 p.m.
Clinton County
Recorder of Deeds 415 E. 12th St., Rm. 104 Kansas City, MO 64106 (816) 881-1577 8 a.m.–5 p.m.
Lafayette County County Recorder 1001 Main St., Rm. 207 Lexington, MO 64067 (660) 259-6178 8:30 a.m.–4:30 p.m.
Platte County Recorder’s Office 415 3rd St., Ste. 70 Platte City, MO 64079 (816) 858-3326 8 a.m.–4 p.m.
Douglas County Clerk of District Court 111 E. 11th St. Lawrence, KS 66044 (785) 832-5227 1 p.m.–4 p.m.
Jefferson County District Court 310 Jefferson St. Oskaloosa, KS 66066 (785) 863-2461 8 a.m.–4 p.m.
Johnson County
Effingham County
Sedgwick County District Court 525 N. Main St., Fl. 9 Wichita, KS 67203 (316) 660-5900 8 a.m.–4 p.m.
Shawnee County Clerk of District Court 200 SE 7th St., Rm. 209 Topeka, KS 66603 (785) 233-8200 8 a.m.–4 p.m.
County Clerk 101 N. 4th St. Effingham, IL 62401 (217) 342-6535 8 a.m.–4 p.m.
County Clerk’s Office 200 S. 9th St., Rm. 101 Springfield, IL 62701 (217) 753-6700 8:30 a.m.–5 p.m.
St. Clair County
Jackson County Clerk Office 1001 Walnut St., Fl. 1 Murphysboro, IL 62966 (618) 687-7360 8 a.m.–4 p.m.
Jefferson County County Clerk & Recorder 100 S. 10th St., Rm. 105 Mt. Vernon, IL 62864 (618) 244-8020 8 a.m.–5 p.m.
County Clerk #10 Public Sq., Fl. 2 Belleville, IL 62220 (618) 277-6600 8:30 a.m.–4:30 p.m., M–F; 8:30–11:30 a.m., Sat. Although The Knot strives to provide accurate information, we assume no responsibility for changes since publication. Please confirm all details with your local licensing bureau and inform us of updates or errors at licenseinfo@ theknot.com.
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District Court 100 N. Kansas Ave., Fl. 2 Olathe, KS 66061 (913) 715-3428 8 a.m.–5 p.m.
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Recorder of Deeds 207 N. Main St. Plattsburg, MO 64477 (816) 539-3719 8 a.m.–4:30 p.m.
Jackson County
GUIDELINES FOR ANNOUNCING YOUR WEDDING IN THE LOCAL PAPERS Photographs may be submitted to accompany the announcement; however, instant photos or color copies are not acceptable. In some instances, photographs may be returned if a self-addressed stamped envelope is included with the announcement. Call to get all of the details before submitting.
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Lawrence Journal-World
(785) 832-7151 PO Box 888 Lawrence, KS 66044
Submit info at noon on the Wednesday prior to the desired Saturday publication.
Form: Yes; available online.
Announcements are free for Lawrence residents.
Topeka Capital-Journal
(785) 295-1297 Attn: Celebrations 616 SE Jefferson Topeka, KS 66607
Deadline for submission is 10 days prior to the desired Sunday publication.
Form: Yes
A 1-column announcement costs $2.65 per line, plus $45.08 for a photo; a 2-column announcement is $5.30 per line, plus $90.16 for a photo. $10 online charge.
Wichita Eagle
(316) 268-6667 Attn: Celebrations 825 E. Douglas Wichita, KS 67202
Submit info at least one week prior to the desired publication date.
Form: Optional
Announcements cost 55 cents per word ($45 minimum); photo is $15.75 to $141.75, depending on size of photo.
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Missouri GUIDELINES/ RESTRICTIONS
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Must submit info two weeks prior to the desired publication date.
Form: No
There is no charge for this service.
(816) 254-8600 410 S. Liberty Independence, MO 64050
Announcements published on Saturdays on a firstcome, first-served basis.
Form: Yes; prefer online submission at Examiner.net
$24.95 for an online announcement.
The Independent
(816) 471-2800 4233 Roanoke Rd., Ste. 100 Kansas City, MO 64111
Submissions should be made within three months of the wedding.
Form: Yes Photos should present the bride and groom in formal attire.
Fees range from $100 to $300.
Kansas City Star
(816) 234-4390 Attn: Celebrations 1729 Grand Blvd. Kansas City, MO 64108
Deadline for submissions is three weeks prior to the desired Sunday publication.
Form: Yes
Basic announcements (no photo) are free; package fees range from $79 to $899.
Springfield News-Leader
(417) 837-1990 Attn: Celebrations Dept. 651 N. Boonville Ave. Springfield, MO 65806
Must be received within 30 days of the event and are not guaranteed a publication date. Deadline for paid submissions is noon on the Monday prior to the desired Sunday publication date.
Form: Yes
Prices start at $99 for 50 words and one photo.
St. Louis Post-Dispatch
(314) 340-8549 Attn: Classified Dept. 900 N. Tucker Blvd. St. Louis, MO 63101
Submit info two weeks prior to the desired Saturday publication date. Preferred publication date is subject to space availability and is not guaranteed.
Form: Yes
Announcements 1 column wide with a photo: $140; announcements 2 columns wide with a photo: $330 to $440, depending on photo size.
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Belleville News-Democrat
(618) 239-2611 Attn: Darla Reynolds 120 S. Illinois St. Belleville, IL 62220
Announcements published within two Sundays of submission.
Form: Optional
Fees range from $55 (2 columns x 2 1/2 inches) to $135 (2 columns x 10 inches).
Effingham Daily News
(217) 347-7151 x134 PO Box 370 Effingham, IL 62401
Announcements published on a spaceavailable basis.
Form: Optional; available online at EffinghamDailyNews.com
There is no charge for this service.
Mount Vernon Register-News
(618) 242-0113 Attn: Tessa Collie 911 Broadway Mt. Vernon, IL 62864
Announcements published on a spaceavailable basis.
Form: Yes
The photo fee is $10 for black-andwhite and $30 for color.
The Southern Illinoisan
(618) 529-5454 x5172 Attn: Lifestyles PO Box 2108 Carbondale, IL 62902
Announcements published Sundays on a spaceavailable basis. Info must be received within six months of the wedding, two weeks prior to publication.
Form: Yes; available online. Photos returned with SASE.
The fee is $20 or $30, depending on length.
State JournalRegister
(217) 788-1330 Attn: Weddings 1 Coppley Plz. Springfield, IL 62701
Submit info on Wednesday, one week prior to desired Sunday publication. Announcements published on a space-available basis.
Form: No
Fees vary by word count and photo.
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Dos Mundos
(816) 221-4747 902-A Southwest Blvd. Kansas City, MO 64108
The Examiner (runs in the eastern Jackson County area)
Illinois
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28 event space
1300 W. 28th Street, Kansas City, MO (816) 283-8368 sales@28event.com 28Event.com In 11,000 square feet, 28 Event Space is an all-inclusive urban setting with top-notch amenities, modern style and impeccable service, complete with catering kitchen, sound system, stage, two-bedroom suite and high-end bar, near downtown KC. Make your vision a reality at 28 Event Space. capacity 350 | price $$
612north event space + catering
612 North 2nd Street, St. Louis, MO (314) 899-0612 events@612north.com 612North.com 612North is the perfect backdrop for your celebration. Located next to the iconic St. Louis Arch and encompassing three gorgeous spaces—each unique in their own styles—modern meets history here. Come celebrate with us and start making your memories.
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adams pointe golf club
1601 R.D. Mize Rd., Blue Springs, MO (816) 220-3673 AdamsPointeGolfClub.com Elegant golf course rehearsal dinners and receptions— affordably done! Accommodating up to 150 guests, Adams Pointe Golf Club is ready to provide your special event with a picturesque glass-enclosed private setting. Our delicious cuisine, superior service and affordability are sure to make your day pleasantly memorable! capacity 150 | price $
allegro ballroom event space
7105 West 105th Street, Overland Park, KS (913) 385-0707 | Fax (913) 385-2808 allegroballroomkc@gmail.com AllegroBallroomKC.com Allegro Ballroom Event Space is a newly renovated facility featuring six-foot French Empire chandeliers, white oak floors and all-inclusive pricing—a modern twist on classic elegance. capacity 250 | price $$$
anew—rooftop venue
519 N. Grand, St. Louis, MO (314) 615-1047 | meetanew@meetanew.com MeetANEW.com Here, under the sky, prepare to be inspired. By the view. By new opportunities and experiences. By our resident chefs. The rooftop is what you make it: a wide-
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open space for simple gatherings, once-in-a-lifetime celebrations and more. We’re now booking rehearsal dinners, ceremonies and small receptions. capacity 150 | price $$$
ball conference center
21350 West 153rd St., Olathe, KS (913) 322-4980 BallConference.com Escape from the city and relax—it’s your day! Ball Conference Center is a luxurious yet affordable venue for both wedding ceremonies and receptions, with banquet seating for up to 350 guests. capacity 350 | price $$
barnett on washington
3207 Washington Blvd., St. Louis, MO (844) GO-BARNETT events@barnettonwashington.com BarnettonWashington.com Barnett on Washington is a beautiful event venue that provides a rich, vibrant experience for all visitors. Our inviting atmosphere is perfect for weddings, corporate events and other special celebrations. We believe that everyone will enjoy the engaging environment at Barnett on Washington. capacity 200 | price $$$
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115 West 18th Street, Kansas City, MO (816) 984-8533 TheBrideandTheBauer.com Host your special day in our updated, historic art space, and experience our vintage-style patina, spectacular downtown view and unique details—Italian-bulb string lights, picture window seating, exposed brick, salvaged architecture, custom bride’s and groom’s rooms and handmade, artisan furniture.
the berg event space
1525 Grand Blvd., Kansas City, MO (816) 842-4488 | info@bergeventspace.com BergEventSpace.com The Berg Event Space is an urban contemporary loft with city views overlooking downtown, hardwood floors, skylights, exposed brick and more! Plan your rehearsal dinner, ceremony or wedding reception with our experienced staff. Located one block from P&L and the Sprint Center. capacity 250 | price $$$
big cedar
190 Top of the Rock Road, Ridgedale, MO (417) 339-5159 | BigCedarWeddings.com Whether you’re imagining an intimate gathering or a grand celebration, your wedding day will be an unforgettable experience. Choose from rustic, luxury venues including intimate patios, charming chapels, a perfectly manicured lawn or a grand ballroom—all with breathtaking views of Table Rock Lake. capacity 400+ | price $$
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bogey hills country club
1120 Country Club Rd., St. Charles, MO (636) 946-6250 | gbroders@bogeyhillscc.com BogeyHillsCC.com From the golf course and waterfall backdrop to the brand-new clubhouse and exceptional food, there is no better location for your celebration. Recently rebuilt, Bogey Hills features hardwood flooring, floor-to-ceiling windows overlooking the landscape and more. Our service will exceed your expectations. capacity 300+ | price $$
boo cat club
812 Union Blvd., St. Louis, MO (314) 224-5521 hello@boocatclub.com BooCatClub.com You’ve been looking for something with a little more personality, intrigue and surprise. We’re glad you found us. Boo Cat Club is devoted to bringing people together in unexpected, extraordinary ways in a space that’s unlike anything you’ve seen before. We’ll give your event a little extra spark. Promise. capacity 250 | price $$
botanica
701 N. Amidon Street, Wichita, KS (316) 264-0448 | kkelley@botanica.org Botanica.org Botanica the Wichita Gardens has a variety of outdoor and indoor options, making us the most versatile wedding venue in Wichita. Our goal is to ensure you have a pleasant experience throughout the planning process, culminating in a seamless, memorable event.
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the bowery
Ceremonies . Receptions . Special Events Historic event space in Liberty featuring hardwood floors, vintage pressed-tin ceilings, and bride and groom suites.
20559 S. Lone Elm Road, Spring Hill, KS (620) 778-1520 lhaynes@thebowerykc.com TheBoweryKC.com The Bowery is a beautiful, rustic-industrial event space to host your big day! Our amazing outdoor space provides a breath of fresh air that is waiting to be transformed with your creative vision. We take pride in the versatility our venue offers, and we can’t wait to be a part of your gathering! capacity 300 | price $$$
the brass on baltimore
1228 Baltimore Avenue, Kansas City, MO (816) 221-8986 deb@thebrassonbaltimore.com TheBrassonBaltimore.com Deciding to host your ceremony and wedding reception at The Brass on Baltimore will allow you to choose from our uniquely historic and modern accommodations for several hundred guests or a smaller, more intimate group. Let our talented, expert staff work to provide you with the day of your dreams.
1 East Kansas Street Liberty, MO
Restoration1894.com 816.429.6488 events@restoration1894.com
capacity 300+ | price $$$
brooklyn hall at enright gardens
2351 North 400 Road, Edgerton, KC
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(913) 927-2217 | (913) 927-2218 BrooklynHall.com This perfect, romantic wedding and reception location is located in a beautiful rural setting with picturesque, lush gardens abundant with flowers and babbling streams. The pristine Brooklyn Hall is complete with ambient lighting, a bride’s dressing room and serving kitchen. We can make your event just that much more special! capacity 250 | price $$
the brownstone
4020 NW 25th Street, Topeka, KS TheBrownstoneTopeka.com Fusing touches of rustic elegance with the conveniences of modern accommodations, The Brownstone is a one-of-a-kind venue with premier amenities, personal coordination, ceremony packages, bridal lounges and historic architecture. If you are looking for a charming site, then The Brownstone is for you! capacity 200 | price $$$
brunswick ballroom
427 East 4th Street, Tonganoxie, KS (785) 462-0110 | brunswickballroom@gmail.com BrunswickBallroom.com The Brunswick Ballroom is a beautiful wedding and event venue located in historic downtown Tonganoxie, just minutes away from Kansas City and Lawrence. The historic building has been newly renovated and showcases an over-100-year-old antique Brunswick Princess Bar. Our elegant venue hosts up to 215 guests. capacity 215 | price $$
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busch stadium
700 Clark Street, St. Louis, MO (314) 345-9630 | specialevents@cardinals.com Cardinals.com/events Busch Stadium’s iconic field and distinct venues offer guests a variety of elegant settings, gourmet dining and panoramic views that can’t be found anywhere else. Let our experienced and professional staff make your wedding event a once-in-a-lifetime celebration for everyone!
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(877) 955-2822 groupreservations@bucainc.com BucaWeddings.com We’re perfect for rehearsal dinners and wedding events, serving authentic, family-style Italian cuisine. Catering and delivery is available, plus banquet and bar packages. Capacities vary by location. Our festive dining rooms and attentive staff keep the celebration energetic and fun. Now that’s amoré!
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O’FALLON’S PREMIER WEDDING VENUE
THE LOFT BANQUET CENTER 18 NORTH CENTRAL DRIVE, O’FALLON, MO 63366 WWW.18NORTHCENTRAL.COM/THE-LOFT 636-240-1800
capacity 400+ | price $$$
californos westport
4124 Pennsylvania, Kansas City, MO (816) 531-1097 | californos1988@gmail.com Californos.com Californos hosts receptions and ballroom or courtyard wedding ceremonies in a stunning 1903 Trolley Barn
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THE ULTIMATE WEDDING DIRECTORY cont. venue in the historic Westport neighborhood, with professional planning, open bars, full-service catering, custom bakery, bistro and bar, saloon and inclusive packages. Hotels are across the street. capacity 488 | price $$
camp miola
21250 West 299th Street, Paola, KS (816) 225-5066 | info@campmiola.com CampMiola.com Camp Miola is an ideal locale for your wedding weekend. Get in touch today with the Camp Miola team or one of our certified wedding partners to start dreaming up all of the beautiful and charming ways our venue will make your wedding one to remember. capacity 200 | price $$
the caramel room at bissinger’s
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Museum at Prairiefire To schedule a tour or get info about wedding reservations, please contact Kelsey Brewer, Event Coordinator at kelsey@museumatpf.org or 913.333.3513
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Spark A Fire With Your Special Evening
1600 N. Broadway, St. Louis, MO (314) 615-2480 | caramelroom@23cityblocks.com CaramelRoom.com Beaming natural light, hardwood floors and an outdoor terrace with river and skyline views in a chocolate factory is just the beginning of a sweet addiction with The Caramel Room. capacity 300 | price $$$
casa loma ballroom
St. Louis, MO (314) 650-2462 CasaLomaBallroom.com Built in 1927, the Casa Loma Ballroom is St. Louis’ last “grand ballroom,” featuring a 5,000-square-foot floating dance floor and 30-foot stage. With seating for 150 to 850 guests, the Casa Loma offers a variety of packages for your special day and unique individual service provided by the owners. capacity 850 | price $$
catering st. louis events
2141 59th St., St. Louis, MO (314) 961-7588 CateringStLouis.com At Catering St. Louis Events, we focus on your entire event, creating the wedding day magic you’ll remember long after the plates are cleared. We offer many spectacular venues for wedding receptions, ceremonies and rehearsal dinners. Visit our website to see where you’d like to celebrate.
cedar creek
1401 Olive Rd., New Haven, MO (855) 778-7222 weddings@cedarcreekcenter.com VisitCedarCreek.com Located in the rolling hills of Missouri’s Wine Country, Cedar Creek’s stunning natural beauty provides a romantic setting for a truly unforgettable wedding. We offer picturesque options for everything from rehearsal dinners to receptions, along with overnight accommodations for 125 people. capacity 400+ | price $$
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cedar lake cellars
11008 Schreckengast Road, Wright City, MO (636) 745-9500 | bdunston@cedarlakecellars.com CedarLakeCellars.com Cedar Lake Cellars Winery and Event Venue is surrounded by gorgeous cosmopolitan countryside and pristine lakes. This hidden gem features two beautiful event spaces, award-winning wine and a full-service restaurant. Just 45 minutes west of St. Louis, it’s the perfect setting for a wedding with rustic charm. capacity 400+ | price $$$
chandler hill vineyards
596 Defiance Road, Defiance, MO (636) 798-2675 events@chandlerhillvineyards.com ChandlerHillVineyards.com With over 80 weddings a year, it’s clear why Chandler Hill Vineyards is “First in Missouri Wine Country.” Our delicious food, award-winning wine and spectacular vistas create an unforgettable experience. We are open year-round and just minutes from St. Louis, Chesterfield and St. Charles. capacity 250 | price $
the charles f. knight center
Washington University, St. Louis, MO (314) 935-4668 | jurgensen@wustl.edu Olin.Wustl.edu/knightcenter Located on the campus of Washington University Center, your special day will be a celebration to remember. From the formal grand dining room to the outdoor courtyard, the Knight Center will make your day perfect. All-inclusive wedding packages and special guestroom rates are available.
Have your day, your way! Book your dream wedding in one of our renovated ballrooms. All of our wedding packages include the following:
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212 N. Kingshighway, St. Louis, MO (314) 633-3052 | Sonesta.com/chaseparkplaza Our legendary ballrooms offer a graceful, romantic atmosphere worthy of your special day. Say your vows under the soft glow of vintage chandeliers in the Empire Room, or celebrate the grandiosity of love under the famed Khorassan Ballroom’s arched ceilings, blending classical elegance with art deco style. capacity 500 | price $$$
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We can tailor a menu to fit your needs, or select from one of our current packages. Please contact our wedding coordinator, Theresa Stancic, at 816-801-4013 or email tstancic@hiltonkci.com for more information.
6300 Clayton Rd., St. Louis, MO (314) 932-7853 sheckemeyer@cheshirerestaurant-stl.com CheshireSTL.com With rich wood accents, vintage stained glass and rustic charm, we provide an intimate setting at a historic venue that marries old and new. Upstairs events are defined by exceptional service and a culinary experience that celebrates seasonal flavors and fresh ingredients from the finest local purveyors. capacity 150+ | price $$$
circle s ranch & country inn 3325 Circle S Lane, Lawrence, KS
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THE ULTIMATE WEDDING DIRECTORY cont. (785) 843-4124 vents@circlesranch.com CircleSRanch.com Located in the rolling hills of Lawrence, the Circle S Ranch boasts both indoor and outdoor ceremony venues and a 3,000-square-foot Party Barn that can accommodate all sizes of weddings. Whether your perfect day is rustic, elegant, vintage or anything in between, we have everything you need. capacity 250 | price $$$
clayton plaza st. louis
7750 Carondelet Ave., Clayton, MO (314) 727-7434 CPClayton.com What’s your wedding fantasy? At the Clayton Plaza Hotel, we make it happen! Many of our bridal packages include a champagne toast, ice sculpture, a complimentary honeymoon suite for the bride and groom, and many more fabulous options for your own happily ever after. capacity 500+ | price $$
the coronado
3701 Lindell Blvd., St. Louis, MO (314) 881-4346 TheCoronado.com For an event you’ll always remember, and one your guests will never forget, The Coronado is the perfect wedding venue! We look forward to providing you with unparalleled service and creative cuisine in a landmark setting. Recently renovated, The Coronado is the epitome of opulence and an absolute must-see!
Travel back to one of Missouri’s most uniquely historic venues nestled in the hidden glades. Be immersed in the tranquil setting overlooking the mountain range, and get lost in the charm of the 100-year-old barn. It’s real, it’s exclusive and it’s yours to be had if you contact us to snag your date! capacity 250 | price $$
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eighteen ninety
Platte City, MO (816) 584-1890 1890KC.com Plan the wedding of your dreams, where you’ll find acres of gorgeous landscape that blends the best of nature and architecture in a sophisticated style. From intimate to large gatherings, wedding receptions, rehearsal dinners and parties for any occasion, we can make any event a memorable one. capacity 300 | price $$
events by panorama, saint louis art museum
One Fine Arts Drive, St. Louis, MO (314) 655-5387 erica.stone@cafebonappetit.com SLAM.org/dining Make a St. Louis memory. Showcasing stunning works of art, the Saint Louis Art Museum is an elegant setting for your wedding reception. Events By Panorama executes all details, including catering, bar services, rentals and parking, and Executive Chef Ivy Magruder leads the culinary team to brilliance.
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23589 State Rt. WW, Ste. Genevieve, MO (866) 207-9463 CrownValleyWinery.com Please consider Crown Country when planning your wedding day. We offer several locations, from our winery overlooking the lush vineyards to Crown Pointe with a beautiful view of the golf course. Local lodging is also available. It’s a destination wedding yet close to home! capacity 200 | price $$
the deleon
(816) 377-3932 | (816) 812-3333 yourweddinginkc@yahoo.com TheDeLeon.net The DeLeon is Kansas City’s most unique event space and chapel, with the charm of a Southern mansion but moderately renovated with all of the suites you need for your special day. The outdoor courtyard is now open for ceremonies. Tables, chairs, linens, centerpieces and two planners are included. capacity 200 | price $$
executive hills polo club
10018 NW Skyview Ave., Kansas City, MO (816) 215-1118 events@ehpoloclub.com EHPoloClub.com This privately owned 7,000-square-foot mansion sits on a 15-acre estate in the heart of KC. Our location has views of a two-acre pond, waterfront gazebo, registered helipad and so much more. We offer the perfect blend of rustic elegance, state-of-the-art amenities and natural perfection you deserve. capacity 250 | price $$$
feasts of fancy
1427 West 9th Street, Kansas City, MO (816) 841-0166 jperkins@feastsoffancy.com FeastsOfFancy.com Looking for urban elegance? The Hobbs Building is for people who want a cool, more urban and less traditional location for their wedding, with an outdoor, secluded courtyard large enough for your ceremony. Visit us in historic West Bottoms – the new Kansas City destination. capacity 300 | price $$$
dodson orchards
1778 Madison 507, Fredericktown, MO (573) 561-3093 steved314@gmail.com DodsonOrchards.com
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foundry art centre
520 N. Main Center, St. Charles, MO (636) 255-0270 EXT. 111 events@foundryartcentre.org For your special event, surround yourself with great art and architecture at the Foundry Art Centre. Located in beautiful, historic Saint Charles, the Grand Hall is a stunning setting for weddings and receptions of up to 400 seated guests. capacity 400 | price $$$
the franklin room
816 Allen Ave., St. Louis, MO (314) 664-7706 franklinroom@sbcglobal.net TheFranklinRoom.net New owners. New menus. Same beautiful room. We are dedicated professionals with extensive experience in catering and banquets. Our eclectic events and menus will reflect your personal style. We love our brides, our grooms, their families and their friends! capacity 300 | price $$
the gallery event space
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crown valley winery
ForestHillsCC.net With its beautiful Clubhouse, spectacular views and professional staff, Forest Hills is the perfect setting for your wedding day. As one of West County’s premier locations for over 50 years, we offer a unique and picturesque venue that will have you and your guests talking for years to come.
forest hills country club
36 Forest Club Drive, Chesterfield, MO (636) 227-5030 ambert@foresthillscc.net
61 E. 14th Street, Kansas City, MO (816) 877-8312 jessica@thegalleryeventspace.com TheGalleryEventSpace.com Located in the heart of the Kansas City Power & Light District, The Gallery Event Space is an elegant downtown venue—ideal for your wedding ceremony and reception. capacity 400+ | price $$$
genesis banquet center & catering
2651 Telegraph Rd., St. Louis, MO (314) 894-7073 info@cateringbygenesis.com CateringByGenesis.com We are proud to announce that Genesis Banquet Center & Catering has been rated by local brides and voted The Knot Best of Weddings Hall of Fame. We cater receptions of all sizes and budgets at various venues. Please inquire for recommendations and menu tastings. capacity 400 | price $$
the grand hall at power & light
1330 Baltimore Ave., Kansas City, MO info@thegrandhallkc.com TheGrandHallKC.com From custom banquet chairs to original art deco lanterns, every detail has been artfully chosen and carefully restored to exude classic glamour. With space to seat up to 500 guests, you’ll also have access to our
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beautifully furnished bridal and groom’s suites and plush seating areas on the mezzanine. capacity 400+ | price $$$
the guild
1621 Locust St., Kansas City, MO (816) 471-8550 | info@theguildkc.com TheGuildKC.com The Guild is a unique venue filled with elegance and vintage charm. Featuring timeless architecture, a dazzling chandelier and a secluded garden, it’s perfect for ceremonies or cocktail receptions. The Guild is undeniably the place to create your one-of-akind celebration.
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hawthorne house
6008 Northwest Bell Road, Parkville, MO (816) 505-1224 | TheHawthorneHouse.com Hawthorne House is Kansas City’s premier wedding and special event facility. Located on 11 beautiful acres in Parkville, Missouri, Hawthorne House has been specifically designed with your wedding needs in mind. We offer both chapel and outdoor ceremonies, as well as receptions for up to 300 guests. capacity 300 | price $$$
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165 Hwy. 100 East, Hermann, MO (314) 800-3295 weddings@hermannhill.com HermannMOWeddings.com At Hermann Hill, your guests will enjoy a stunning river bluff setting, fantastic food and spectacular service. We’ll help you create the unique wedding you’re envisioning with stress-free planning and classic designs—and our amazing sunsets are an added bonus! capacity 250 | price $$
hilton ballpark
1 South Broadway, St. Louis, MO (314) 641-8837 | nwenzel@hiltonstlouis.com HiltonStLouis.com There’s a style for every bride at Hilton at the Ballpark. The Arch View Ballroom (320 capacity) boasts 16-foot floor-to-ceiling windows overlooking the St. Louis Arch, Old Courthouse and Kiener Plaza, while the Grand (650 capacity) and Ballpark (175 capacity) ballrooms offer sophisticated, elegant spaces. capacity 175+ | price $$$
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hilton kansas city airport
8801 NW 112 St., Kansas City, MO (816) 801-4013 KansasCityAirport.Hilton.com Book your dream wedding in one of our renovated ballrooms! All of our wedding packages include waived room rental, linens, table settings, centerpieces, dance floor, stage, servers, special room rates and more! We can tailor a menu to fit your needs, or select from one of our current packages! capacity 400+ | price $$
hilton president
1329 Baltimore, Kansas City, MO (816) 303-1628 marissa.pope@hilton.com PresidentKansasCity.Hilton.com We make your big day unforgettable. The Hilton President is one of Kansas City’s most beautiful venues. Call, email or stop by for a tour. capacity 300 | price $$$
hilton st. louis frontenac
1335 South Lindbergh Boulevard, St. Louis, MO (314) 993-1100 StLouisFrontenac.Hilton.com Your wedding will be nothing less than spectacular! Situated in the heart of St. Louis, the Hilton St. Louis Frontenac offers classic charm and perfection for your special day. Our team of wedding professionals is devoted to exceeding your expectations and making your wedding dream come true!
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the historic post office
122 East Second Street, Ottawa, KS (913) 305-7172 | info@narthex.com A memorable event begins with an unforgettable venue. We offer modern amenities in a classic building in the heart of a charming town. Soaring ceilings, natural light, beautiful chandeliers and hardwood floors fill the space. Our personal staff makes it uniquely yours. See it today. Remember it always. capacity 300 | price $$$
the historic rumely event space
1222 West 12th Street, Kansas City, MO (816) 842-4280 | events@fullmoonprod.com HistoricWestBottomsEventSpace.com The priceless history of the Rumely Tractor Historic Event Space, with its original tin ceiling, wood floor, exposed columns and antique fixtures, is joined seamlessly with all the amenities one would want in a modern venue. These unique qualities enhance your event’s character and create lifelong memories. capacity 400 | price $$
the historic scarritt buildings
(816) 506-5669 TheScarrittKC.com With abundant natural light and hand-carved ornaments throughout, this unique venue has several spaces that can accommodate grand parties to more intimate ceremonies, each with its own character. Our wedding
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packages are tailored with you in mind—we offer many no-hassle perks so you can enjoy your day! capacity 350+ | price $$
hotelumie`re at the arch
901 N. First Street, St. Louis, MO (314) 881-7800 | tlore@lumiereplace.com LumierePlace.com/meetings/weddings When you want the wedding of your dreams, think HoteLumière at The Arch. Our professional planners and catering staff are more than service professionals— they are wish granters. With breathtaking amenities in an elegant setting, your wedding will be one your guests will talk about for years. capacity 500 | price $$
picturesque setting, your day will be nothing short of perfect! capacity 300+ | price $$$
joule
1419 Carroll, St. Louis, MO (314) 881-4300 joule@palladium-stl.com Palladium-STL.com/joule Joule (pronounced Jewel) is a venue that stands alone or adds additional ambience to Palladium Saint Louis. Once the machine hall for the city hospital’s power plant, an original crane, exposed brick, aged iron and 19-foot windows create a raw, modern, industrial space ideal for any type of event. capacity 100 | price $$
hyatt place kansas city/ lenexa city center ballroom
8741 Ryckert Street, Lenexa, KS (913) 742-7777 brooks.sosna@hyatt.com KansasCityLenexaCityCenter.Place.Hyatt.com Whether we’re hosting your wedding reception or just family and friends, guests will appreciate comfortable, functional amenities. Hyatt Place Kansas City/Lenexa City Center will provide a perfect mix of style and service that will exceed guest expectations and create a sensational wedding weekend!
the journey home
18993 SE 65th Road, Dearborn, MO (816) 501-6350 | info@journeyhomeretreats.com JourneyHomeWeddings.com You will love The Journey Home’s estate, with a large colonial home, rustic barn, beautifully landscaped property, overnight accommodations and flexible outdoor and indoor space for a variety of guest sizes and styles. Just north of the KCI airport, The Journey Home is ideal for your wedding day! capacity 300 | price $
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hyatt regency st. louis at the arch
315 Chestnut St., St. Louis, MO (314) 342-4655 StLouisArch.Regency.Hyatt.com Memories to last a lifetime. Starting here. We offer personalized service and complete coordination for every wedding detail. Located next to the Gateway Arch, our 910 guestrooms, three restaurants, Starbucks® and 83,000 square feet of indoor/event space are the perfect setting for your special day.
kansas city airport marriott
775 Brasilia Avenue, Kansas City, MO (816) 243-1270 | joy.winningham@marriott.com Our newly renovated lakeside ceremony site is the perfect backdrop for your “I dos.” The outdoor Patio and Pavilion provide a unique setting, and for a larger affair, our Grand Ballroom will entertain up to 350. Marriott is pro marriage equality. We offer discounted rates for overnight guests and smaller spaces for rehearsal dinners and more. capacity 350 | price $$$
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intercontinental kansas city at the plaza
401 Ward Parkway, Kansas City, MO (816) 756-1500 ehayes@kansascityic.com KansasCityIC.com There is no other wedding like yours and no other venue like the InterContinental Kansas City. Nestled on the edge of the Country Club Plaza, the hotel provides the ideal setting for the wedding couple to begin their new life together in style. capacity 300+ | price $$$
the jayhawk club
Lawrence, KS (785) 842-2929 TheJayhawkClub.com The Jayhawk Club has multiple event spaces and amenities. The Sunflower Room offers golf course views, and The Jayhawk Club has venues for both indoor and outdoor ceremonies and receptions. With exceptional on-site catering menu choices and a
kuhs estate & farm
13080 Spanish Pond Rd., Spanish Lake, MO (314) 226-0709 | info@kuhsfarm.com KuhsFarm.com Our award-winning, secluded and private, client-adored historic estate and farm on the bluffs overlooking The Confluence is 25 minutes from Midtown St. Louis. On-site wedding and event design is available. By appointment only, please. capacity 400+ | price $$
la perla
312 N. 8th Street, St. Louis, MO (314) 488-0607 | champagnewishesstl@gmail.com LaPerlaStLouis.com Our many years of experience can help streamline your wedding planning. La Perla is a renovated early 1900s bank that has both charm and character. From the original hand-carved wood pocket doors as you enter to the original bank vault turned lounge on the lower level, your event is guaranteed to be unique! capacity 165 | price $
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lachance vineyards
12237 Peter Moore Lane, DeSoto, MO (636) 586-2777 | events@lachancevineyards.com LaChanceVineyards.com Whether you choose to relax in the casual elegance of our indoor tasting room or outside on our courtyard patio, partially covered deck or large event tent, we offer guests the best of both worlds: a charming, intimate winery experience with first-class amenities. capacity 300 | price $$
laumeier sculpture park
12580 Rott Road, St. Louis, MO (314) 615-5278 | (314) 941-0522 thepartybroker@aol.com | Laumeier.org With 60 works of large-scale outdoor sculpture set amidst 105 acres of rolling lawns and natural vistas, Laumeier Sculpture Park offers several indoor and outdoor rental spaces perfect for wedding ceremonies, receptions, showers, rehearsal dinners and similar affairs! Contact Sherry Muehlfarth today. capacity 400+ | price $$$
the legacy at green hills
(816) 204-1629 events@thelegacyatgreenhills.com TheLegacyatGreenHills.com We offer various options to have your wedding, right in the heart of Kansas City. We are located on 38 beautiful acres, lined with trees and a lake, plus an amazing house from 1912 that allows you to spend the day getting ready in a convenient setting.
Share your dreams with us, and we’ll start making them come true. Our room accommodates up to 350 guests. Whether your dream is for an intimate dinner or a lavish gala for everyone in town, our sterling service sets the tone. Our professional planners will help assist with every detail. capacity 350 | price $$
the loft banquet center at 18 north central
18 North Central Drive, O’Fallon, MO (636) 240-1800 18NorthCentral.com/the-loft Guests will savor executive chef Mike DeRienzo’s high-end menus. Our rental fee includes tables, chairs, linens, LED lighting and a bartender. We also host bridal showers, bachelor/bachelorette parties and rehearsal dinners. Set up a tour and secure your date in the new elegant space that is The LOFT. capacity 225 | price $$
lone summit ranch
28701 East Old US 50 Highway, Lake Lotawana, MO (816) 582-8013 Established in the early 1900s, LSR sits on 128 acres of gorgeous farmland featuring historic buildings and barns. We provide a beautiful country setting while entertaining with unique wedding sites, delicious catering and a one-of-a-kind honeymoon cottage. We’d love to show you our property! capacity 300+ | price $$$
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lemp mansion restaurant and inn
3322 Demenil Place, St. Louis, MO (314) 664-8024 | patty@lempmansion.com LempMansion.com/banquets.html The Lemp Mansion offers the largest privately owned gazebo and tented patio in the city that can accommodate ceremonies for up to 300 guests and receptions of 225. Lemp’s Grand Hall has a beautiful 40x40 rooftop deck for up to 300 guests. The new Lemp’s Loft is an industrial space for events of 50-130. capacity 300 | price $$$
the little theatre and grand ballroom at the kansas city convention center
301 W. 13th Street, Kansas City, MO (816) 513-5099 | (816) 513-5015 KCConvention.com We have the perfect downtown space for your special day. The Little Theatre is classically beautiful with Italian marble floors and columns and an ornate ceiling from the art deco era. The Grand Ballroom features beautiful views of the city skyline and the Kauffman Center for the Performing Arts. capacity 400+ | price $$$
liuna event center
4532 South Lindbergh Blvd., St. Louis, MO (314) 226-1010 LiUNAEventCenter.com
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longview mansion
1200 SW Longview Park Drive, Lee’s Summit, MO (816) 761-6669 | LongviewMansion.com Let our caring event planners assist you and our executive chef pamper up to 300 of your guests in the most romantic setting you can imagine! Call us for a personal tour and consultation, or visit our website.
updated hardwood floors are just the beginning. No worries—guests still awe over floor-to-ceiling windows and a state-of-the-art LED lighting system. capacity 250 | price $$
the magic house
516 S. Kirkwood, St. Louis, MO (314) 822-8900 MagicHouse.org From its striking Victorian-style architecture and the whimsical, interactive exhibits to the enchanting gardens that surround it, The Magic House is the perfect place for a truly unique wedding, reception or rehearsal dinner! capacity 200+ | price $$
magnolia venue & urban garden
601 Walnut, Kansas City, MO (816) 876-1742 info@magnoliavenuekc.com MagnoliaVenueKC.com The Magnolia Venue & Urban Garden offers the best of both indoors and out for your wedding with details including two custom-made wood bars, sliding barn doors and stunning crystal chandeliers. The garden provides a beautiful backdrop for your ceremony or a place for guests to gather under the café lights. capacity 300 | price $$
mahler ballroom
4915 Washington Blvd., St. Louis, MO (314) 361-4411 themahlerballroom@gmail.com MahlerBallroom.com Central West End’s magnificent Mahler Ballroom features 21-foot-high ceilings, crystal chandeliers, a stage, grand piano, gold-leaf cake table and balcony. The Outdoor Conservatory is inviting with flowers, plantings, fountains and lights. Our gated parking is adjacent. All licensed caterers are welcome. capacity 200 | price $$
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lost hill lake events
783 Lost Hill Lake Road, St. Clair, MO (314) 599-3690 losthilllakeevents@gmail.com LostHillLakeEvents.com We welcome you to experience our gorgeous Meramec River view and memorable walnut grove. Take photos near our lake or in our fields that shine with the sunset. Dine with guests under our pavilion and dance under the stars. Family owned and operated, we provide customized services for each client. capacity 275 | price $$
lumen private event space
2201 Locust Street, St. Louis, MO (314) 615-2480 lumen@23cityblocks.com LumenSTL.com Lumen’s modern style, premium service and contemporary flair just stepped up the game! New silver chiavari chairs, stainless steel bar with chandeliers,
majorette
7150 Manchester Ave., St. Louis, MO (314) 224-5775 hello@majoretteevents.com MajoretteEvents.com If you’re looking to put on a show, then you’ve come to the right place. Majorette is a brand new event space in St. Louis where all of your ideas are possible. Put on your party pants—this is going to be one for the books. The really good books. capacity 400+ | price $$
marriott kansas city country club plaza
4445 Main St., Kansas City, MO (816) 303-4581 anna.singleton@marriottccplaza.com Marriott.com/mcipl Picture your first dance under the dreamy glow of the Grand Ballroom’s magnificent crystal chandeliers, elegant atmosphere of the Seville Ballroom or the new Plaza Terrace with spectacular views of the
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marriott st. louis west
660 Maryville Centre Drive, St. Louis, MO (314) 514-6116 dgibson@stlmarriottwest.com Marriott.com/hotels/travel/stlwe-marriott-stlouis-west Discover the peaceful urban retreat that is Marriott St. Louis West. Our venue adjacent to a scenic lake is perfectly complemented by 14,000 square feet of fully renovated, versatile event space, along with topflight catering and certified planning services for your Chesterfield-area wedding. capacity 300+ | price $$
the martin
13440 Holmes Road, Kansas City, MO (816) 739-0804 themartineventspace@gmail.com TheMartinEventSpace.com The Martin is Kansas City’s newest event space. The original Martin City Church has been completely renovated and restored with an outdoor patio. The Martin is more than a venue; it is where memories are made. It is the perfect place for a corporate event, family celebration, wedding or reception. capacity 200 | price $$
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meadowview gardens
Serving Greater KC (816) 697-2743 | MeadowviewGardens.com Meadowview Gardens offers everything you ever dreamed of nestled in a beautiful rural setting, just 30 minutes east of Kansas City. A wedding and reception venue with on-site flowers, cakes, catering, linens, centerpieces, chocolate fountain, tuxedo rental, fireworks and DJ. capacity 300 | price $$$
missouri athletic club
405 Washington Avenue, St. Louis, MO (314) 539-4470 | MAC-STL.org Wedding celebrations at the historic Missouri Athletic Club combine two families: elegance and fun, and intimacy with festivity. The MAC boasts an ornate ballroom capable of comfortably seating up to 400 guests, an award-winning on-site culinary staff, more than 75 hotel rooms and shuttle service. capacity 400 | price $$$
missouri history museum
Lindell & Debaliviere in Forest Park, St. Louis, MO (314) 454-3151 | MOHistory.org Make history on your big day! This unique, stately, all-season venue is located centrally in treasured Forest Park. The museum offers such an elegant backdrop for wedding receptions of all styles. For more intimate gatherings, don’t forget to check out Bixby’s—the ideal location for rehearsal dinners! capacity 400 | price $$$
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moulin events and meetings
2017 Chouteau Avenue, St. Louis, MO (314) 241-4949 | ann@moulinevents.com MoulinEvents.com We are honored that you are considering Moulin to host your wedding reception, ceremony or rehearsal dinner. You have chosen experienced wedding planners that will deliver unparalleled personal service and menu selections prepared by our professionally trained culinary staff. capacity 300 | price $$$
museum at prairiefire
5801 West 135th Street, Overland Park, KS (913) 333-3513 | kelsey@museumatpf.org Let the Museum at Prairiefire serve as the backdrop for your special day! Beautiful dichroic glass and stunning architecture will make your wedding the most talked about event of the season. Our unique space gives you options to customize the layout to make your day just how you envision it. capacity 300 | price $$
neo on locust, llc
Metropolitan St. Louis, MO (314) 570-9218 | info@neostl.com NEOSTL.com Located in Midtown St. Louis, NEO on Locust offers spectacular views of Downtown St. Louis and Grand Center with two private event spaces designed to accommodate custom-designed events for larger groups. capacity 500 | price $$$
new town at st. charles
3420 Civic Circle, Saint Charles, MO (636) 288-7332 weddings@newtownatstcharles.com NewTownEventPlanning.com With simple elegance and graceful appeal, the venues at New Town provide a unique option for that special day. The true town setting will take guests back in time, allowing for a charming atmosphere. Call today to book an appointment to see what our venues have to offer! capacity 350 | price $$
noboleis vineyards wedding
100 Hemsath Road, Augusta, MO (636) 482-4500 weddings@noboleisvineyards.com NoboleisVineyards.com Looking for your dream wedding in a vineyard? Noboleis Vineyards offers panoramic views of rolling hillsides, while the surrounding vineyards offer the backdrop to an outdoor ceremony and/or a reception for up to 200 people in our tented pavilion. Catering and bar options are available upon request. capacity 200 | price $$
old kinderhook
678 Old Kinderhook Drive, Camdenton, MO (573) 317-4442 | events@oldkinderhook.com OldKinderhook.com Our staff specializes in planning and delivering flawless
events. We offer a complimentary guest room for the bride and groom for one night, on-site golf, a spa, dining and lodging. Rehearsals and rehearsal dinners are our specialty! Let us assist you with a perfect evening to enjoy family and friends. capacity 250 | price $$$
the old post office
815 Olive Street, St. Louis, MO (314) 436-0101 OldPostOfficeSTL.com A historic landmark in the Old Post Office District downtown, built in 1884 and now renovated, the Old Post Office offers a sweeping neoclassical venue for wedding events. capacity 300 | price $$
overland park convention center
6000 College Boulevard, Overland Park, KS (913) 339-3000 mywedding@opconventioncenter.com OPConventionCenter.com We do weddings! But not just any weddings—your day, your way. You control the vision, and we create a breathtaking experience. Our capabilities are limitless, with more complimentary offerings than anyone else— plus an on-site coordinator and catering manager to work with you from start to finish. capacity 4,500 | price $$
palladium saint louis
1400 Park Place, St. Louis, MO (314) 881-4301 | Palladium-STL.com A piece of history brought back to life, Palladium Saint Louis is a fusion between old world and contemporary design. An uncommon private event space with room for up to 700, Palladium Saint Louis is the distinctive choice for weddings and events of all shapes and sizes. capacity 700 | price $$$
pavilion 75 event space
7435 Nieman Rd., Shawnee, KS (913) 738-9639 info@pavilion75eventspace.com Pavilion75EventSpace.com Beautiful, personal and unique, the Pavilion 75 Event Space has been serving couples for more than 16 years. Offering 6,000 square feet of customizable room space, we provide tables, chairs and linens, staffing, full-service bar and dance floor. Come in and see Johnson County’s best-kept secret. capacity 300 | price $$
the pavilion at iwerx
1520 Clay, North Kansas City, MO (816) 873-1520 | NKCEventSpace.com Our premier event space has a modern industrial feel that can be lit with your custom lighting design. We offer an additional bar, entertainment space and bridal dressing room. Maximize your budget by bringing in your own catering and beverage selections. Call today to schedule your personal tour. capacity 250 | price $$
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peabody opera house
(314) 499-7620 | PeabodyOperaHouse.com Celebrate the happiest day of your life at Peabody Opera House in the heart of downtown St. Louis. The classical elegance of Peabody Opera House has played host to some of the city’s greatest moments, making it the perfect place to host your unforgettable event. capacity 340 | price $$$
pinstripes
13500 Nall Ave., Overland Park, KS (913) 681-2165 Pinstripes.com Celebrate sophisticated fun in our warm and inviting 33,000-square-foot indoor/outdoor facility, complete with 16 bowling lanes, 10 bocce courts, exceptional Italian-American bistro and wine cellar, outdoor patio and fireplace that can accommodate groups from 20-300. capacity 300 | price $$
the piper palm house
4256 Magnolia Avenue, St. Louis, MO (314) 771-4454 PalmHouseSTL.org The Piper Palm House, with its distinctive architecture, soaring ceilings and stately windows, is the perfect venue for a wedding, rehearsal dinner or engagement party. Constructed in 1878, the Palm House is the oldest standing greenhouse west of the Mississippi River. capacity 250 | price $$
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piropos event space
4141 N. Mulberry Drive, Kansas City, MO (816) 741-9800 PiroposKC.com Piropos in Briarcliff Village offers a unique combination of elegance and location that makes it the perfect place for your wedding reception, ceremony, rehearsal dinner, bridal shower, post-wedding brunch or other special event. You can have all your wedding celebrations in one location, saving time and money. Your guests will love the convenience and of course, the great food. capacity 150 | price $$$
prairie hill vineyard
21421 W. 37th St. N., Colwich, KS (316) 461-5445 | prairiehillvineyard@gmail.com PrairieHillVineyard.com We invite you to experience for yourself the Prairie Hill Vineyard at Stockemer Farm, one of the most beautiful venues in Kansas. Our vineyard, a working garden, two small lakes and the largest willow tree in Kansas provide the perfect backdrop for your special event! capacity 300 | price $$
prairiewood retreat & preserve
5020 Anderson, Manhattan, KS (785) 537-9999 | info@prairiewood.com Prairiewood.com Prairiewood Retreat & Preserve is an idyllic location nestled in the native tallgrass prairie of the Flint Hills. The incomparable beauty of the quiet countryside, combined with an abundance of amenities and features,
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public media commons
(314) 512-9021 acarr@ketc.org PublicMediaCommons.org This is an award-winning venue perfect for one-of-akind weddings and receptions. The 9,000-square-foot outdoor space is flanked on two sides by two-story digital screens for creating extraordinary settings, with a performance stage and outstanding sound system. Catering and rental services are available. capacity 500 | price $$$
the reserve event space
2000 Grand Boulevard, Kansas City, MO (816) 585-7757 | info@thereserveevents.com TheReserveEvents.com The Reserve is a beautiful, urban event space in the heart of the Crossroads Arts District that features wall-to-wall sliding garage doors with stunning views of the downtown skyline. This ideal venue is located just above The Rockhill Grille with two floors of private event space. capacity 200 | price $$
restoration 1894 event space
1 East Kansas Street, Liberty, MO (816) 429-6488 events@restoration1894.com Restoration1894.com Located in the heart of the Historic Liberty Square, Restoration 1894 is the premier Northland venue for your event needs. Features include an open floor plan for up to 275 guests, vintage pressed tin ceilings, exposed brick, chandeliers as well as the beautiful private bridal suite and groom’s room. capacity 275 | price $$
the rhapsody
2322 East R.D. Mize Road, Independence, MO (816) 795-0777 | TheRhapsody.com Affordable elegance. Beautiful floors and archways enhance the Tuscan décor. Indoor/outdoor weddings with beautifully landscaped gardens, waterfall and pergola provide a memorable setting for photographs. Keep costs down by bringing in your own alcohol and using the caterer of your choice. capacity 275 | price $$
ritz charles overland park
9000 West 137th Street, Overland Park, KS (913) 685-2600 | ritzadmin@ritzcharlesop.com RitzCharlesKC.com With more than 16,000 square feet of banquet space, Ritz Charles has the ability to accommodate anything from a small rehearsal dinner to an extravagant reception. Our facility provides an in-house executive chef to meet all your needs for your day. We ensure that your event will be a memorable one. capacity 800 | price $$
rose of the hill by favazza’s
2300 Edwards, St. Louis, MO (314) 772-6003 info@roseofthehill.com RoseoftheHill.com Rose of the Hill, located in St. Louis’ classic Hill neighborhood, maintains many historical features such as the original 35-foot dark wood bar in the bar room, chandeliers adorning the dining areas and the original coat check room. Explore the tradition and history that makes Favazza’s so special. capacity 400 | price $$
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One Government Drive, St. Louis, MO (314) 646-4855 STLZoo.org/events Make your special day even more memorable. Book your wedding festivities at the Saint Louis Zoo. Choose from five romantic venues, then let our staff plan every detail, from catering and exquisite floral arrangements to animal greeters—and even private tours of many of the Zoo’s 90 acres of habitats. capacity 400+ | price $$
scape american bistro
48 Maryland Plaza, St. Louis, MO (314) 361-6944 | michelle@scapestl.com ScapeSTL.com Our atmosphere is sophisticated, and the menu is creative yet approachable. We have four private event spaces to choose from. You and your guests will enjoy European flair with warm hospitality, impeccable service and sophisticated cuisine to make your special event truly memorable. capacity 200 | price $$$
silver oaks chateau
1168 MO-100, Pacific, MO (314) 280-8890 info@silveroakschateau.com SilverOaksChateau.com Silver Oaks Chateau is one of St. Louis’ most sought after wedding venues. Located on 28 acres, the estate is ideal for outdoor ceremonies, stunning receptions and more! capacity 280 | price $$$
sophia m. sachs butterfly house in chesterfield
Faust Park, 15193 Olive Blvd., Chesterfield, MO (636) 530-0076 EXT. 827 bhevents@mobot.org ButterflyHouse.org The Sophia M. Sachs Butterfly House in Chesterfield is the ideal location for the wedding of your dreams. Choose from a number of settings for up to 120 guests including the stone-pillar gazebo in the garden, a deck positioned over a babbling brook or the tented pavilion near the picturesque lake. capacity 120 | price $$
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st. louis community foundation at #2 oak knoll
#2 Oak Knoll Park, Clayton, MO (314) 664-7680 | info@butlerspantry.com ButlersPantry.com/venues/the-st-louiscommunity-foundation-2-oak-knoll-park An elegant manor nestled in a park, the St. Louis Community Foundation at #2 Oak Knoll is one of two stone mansions built in the early 20th century that resides conveniently in Clayton. Entertaining here really conjures the charm of entertaining in one’s home. This is truly a mansion for your memories! capacity 200 | price $$
the stanley historic space and aspen room
Serving the Greater KC area (816) 600-2065 TheStanleyEventSpace.com All our venues combine modern touches with vintage design. At The Stanley, we strive to give every guest the ultimate experience for memories that will last a lifetime. With the addition of The Kingston Room, The Stanley Event Complex is the place to hold your complete function.
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stone house of st. charles
4401 McClay Road, St. Charles, MO (636) 317-1222 ruth@shofsc.com SHofSC.com Have a beautiful outdoor wedding. The Stone House is for the bride and bridesmaids for hair, makeup and photos. The guesthouse is for the groomsmen, with a kitchen area designed for men and a rustic knotty-pine billiards room that overlooks the courtyard. The Grand Hall is a spectacular timber-framed structure. capacity 350 | price $$$
sugar creek vineyards & winery
125 Boone Country Lane, Defiance, MO (636) 987-2400 sugarcreekwineryweddings@gmail.com SugarCreekWines.com Sugar Creek Winery is ready to create your ideal wedding celebration. Our winery offers the perfect venue, and our expert staff will help you add your personal signatures to our spectacular winery overlooking the Missouri River Valley.
fredrick@sunsetbluffs.com SunsetBluffs.com This private, natural setting is nestled in the scenic countryside of some of Missouri’s favorite wineries. Our weekend wedding package includes housing for up to 20 people, breathtaking views and more. Your fully customizable special day awaits. capacity 300 | price $$$
the terrace on grand
1520 Grand Blvd., Kansas City, MO (816) 527-0026 TerraceonGrand.com Kansas City’s most exciting event space, The Terrace on Grand is conveniently located in the heart of downtown. The Terrace offers 5,000 feet of classy, urban, indoor event space, with an exciting roof deck. Our contemporary, elegant, versatile space will provide the ideal backdrop for your wedding. capacity 220 | price $$
thompson barn
11184 Lackman Road, Lenexa, KS (913) 477-7100 mdanler@lenexa.com Lenexa.com/thompsonbarn The Thompson Barn is an exquisite, intimate space, perfect for those looking for a unique blend of modern and rustic for a wedding or reception. A regal historic farmhouse with a gorgeous garden shares the grounds with the renovated barn and spacious, multi-colored brick patio.
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town pavilion
1111 Main Street, Kansas City, MO (816) 701-5038 TownPavilionKC.com Allow the dramatic architectural details of the Rotunda at Town Pavilion to provide the backdrop for your reception. Classic marble floors, a grand double staircase and modern details comprise a truly unique venue. Easy access and convenient amenities will make your event exceptional. capacity 300 | price $$
trail smokehouse
2886 South Highway 94, Defiance, MO (636) 798-2400 | htharp@trailsmokehouse.com TrailSmokehouse.com Overlooking the beautiful Missouri River bluffs and surrounded by wineries for miles, Trail Smokehouse creates an unforgettable experience for your special day. We offer custom menus centered around our slowsmoked BBQ; homemade, classic Southern side dishes; in-house desserts; and specialty cocktails. capacity 250 | price $$$
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three barn farm
20955 Missouri W, Clarksville, MO (314) 961-7588 CateringStLouis.com Crystal-blue country skies or a million twinkling stars provide the perfect backdrop for your wedding celebration at this rustic-chic venue! A 1914 dairy barn, a horse barn and a New England–style farmhouse grace the 16 acres nestled among the rolling hills just one hour north of Chesterfield Valley.
union horse distilling co.
11740 West 86th Terrace, Lenexa, KS (913) 492-3275 | events@unionhorse.com UnionHorse.com The Event Space at Union Horse Distilling Company is a unique destination that will serve as an elegant backdrop for your event. At 6,500 square feet, our venue can accommodate anything from rehearsal dinners to wedding receptions. Our three event rooms can be transformed to suit any style or need. capacity 350 | price $$$
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tiffany greens golf club
6100 NW Tiffany Springs Pkwy., Kansas City, MO (816) 880-9600 EXT. 224 kpower@tiffanygreensgolf.com TiffanyGreensGolf.com/clubhouse-info /banquet-info Tiffany Greens is perfect for your Kansas City wedding ceremony, reception and rehearsal dinner! Come see our beautiful, newly renovated banquet room, featuring incredible views of one of Kansas City’s top golf courses in a desirable location minutes from Kansas City International Airport and hotels. capacity 200 | price $$
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sunset bluffs venue
Kemolls.com Dazzling views of St. Louis’ skyline and riverfront from the 42nd floor, fine food and gracious, friendly service make your wedding memorable and beautiful. Garage parking, all-inclusive packages and reduced-rate dates are available. Kemoll’s, founded in 1927, is family owned and operated.
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3700 Broadway, Ste. 300, Kansas City, MO (816) 753-8665 uptowneventskc@gmail.com UptownTheater.com Your name in lights • Receptions, rehearsal dinners and weddings • Four unique rooms • 25 to 1,200 people • Custom designed banquets, buffets and beverages • Abundant parking • Central location near Westport between the Country Club Plaza and Crown Center capacity 400+ | price $$
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LET US MAKE YOUR DREAM WEDDING A REALITY... Picture your first dance under the dreamy glow of the Grand Ballroom’s magnificent crystal chandeliers or within the elegant atmosphere of the Seville Ballroom. Additionally, the new Plaza Terrace features a spectacular view of the Country Club Plaza. Imagine your gorgeous suite with breathtaking plaza views, a bottle of bubbly and chocolate-covered strawberries. Attractively located on the Country Club Plaza, let us create the perfect destination for the most important day of your life. MARRIOTT KANSAS CITY COUNTRY CLUB PLAZA 4445 Main St., Kansas City, MO 64111 816.303.4581, www.marriott.com/mcipl, anna.singleton@marriottccplaza.com
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the venue in leawood
4800 W. 135th Street (913) 681-8368 TheVenueinLeawood.com Elegant and Intimate....The Venue In Leawood. capacity 300 | price $$$
venues at 061: heritage center at mahaffie & olathe community center
Olathe, KS (913) 971-5501 | (913) 971-8753 Two exclusive venues are situated along a brick-lined road. The Heritage Center at Mahaffie has a timberframe design, charming farm grounds and tree-lined paths. Tucked in a park setting, The Olathe Community Center features floor-to-ceiling windows framing the stunning fountains and oak trees. capacity 200 | price $$
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villa antonio winery
Hillsboro, MO (636) 475-5008 veronica@villaantoniowinery.com VillaAntonioWinery.com Our elegant vineyard venue provides a stunning and romantic setting for your wedding! Your family and guests will have an enchanting experience to remember for years. Enjoy our award-winning wines and exquisite cuisine at your rehearsal or day-after brunch with special and out-of-town guests! capacity 500 | price $$$
the vineyard at riverbend chapel
827 Ming Drive, Washington, MO (636) 390-8600 | riverbendchapel@hotmail.com RiverbendChapelInc.com Imagine exchanging your vows overlooking the picturesque Missouri River bluffs with one of the best views of the river itself! Or, tie the knot inside Riverbend’s beautiful windowed chapel. Indoors or outdoors, the beauty of your wedding will be a lasting, treasured memory for many years to come! capacity 300 | price $$
visions kc
Kansas City, MO (816) 841-2361 | VisionsKC.com Visions KC operates the beautiful venue The View at Briarcliff. We can accommodate up to 450 seated and are located in Courtyard by Marriott Hotel. We offer in- or outdoor ceremonies with a skyline backdrop, plus we’re flexible, friendly and fun! capacity 450 | price $$$
visions reception hall
6320 Manchester Avenue, Kansas City, MO (816) 358-2606 | psolomon@iaff42.org VisionsReceptionHall.com
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For sophisticated celebrations our banquet room is available for wedding receptions, rehearsal dinners and other celebrations, accommodating up to 500 guests. Convenient central location! capacity 400+ | price $$
vista 154 at ironhorse golf club
15400 Mission Rd., Leawood, KS (913) 696-7752 | troyn@ironhorsegolf.com Ironhorsegolf.com Leawood’s newest venue is taking reservations for events beginning September 1, 2017. This will be the ideal space for weddings and wedding receptions! From all-inclusive packages to small but elegant receptions, we will make sure your special day goes off without a hitch! capacity 250 | price $$$
voce
212 S. Tucker Blvd., St. Louis, MO (314) 570-8715 | VoceSTL.com Voce can accommodate 150 guests with banquet rounds and in-house linens. Decorate however you like to make your day memorable. Voce has a state-of-the-art, in-house sound system for your reception band, with a stage that can transform into a dance floor. Don’t want the party to end? Celebrate until 3 a.m.! capacity 150 | price $$
whitmoor country club
1100 Whitmoor Drive, St. Charles, MO (636) 926-9622 WhitmoorGolf.com Our three main dining spaces can be combined to accommodate up to 400 people. The Trophy Room will seat up to 300 and features a fireplace. You can combine the Trophy Room with The Eagle and Whitmoor Rooms to accommodate an additional 100 guests. capacity 400 | price $$
windows on washington®
1601 Washington Ave., St. Louis, MO (314) 241-5555 | jcornwall@wowbanquets.com WOWBanquets.com From the champagne greeting to the chocolate mint departure, Windows On Washington creates events that are more than memorable. Featuring uniquely styled loft spaces, open-air verandas and city views, our experienced coordinators help you design the event of your dreams with the style and panache you deserve! capacity 400+ | price $$
woods fort restaurant & banquet center
1 Country Club Drive, Troy, MO (636) 462-1628 hcooper@woodsfortgolf.com WoodsFortGolf.com On your wedding date at Woods Fort, you will be surrounded by rolling hills of lush green grass and sparkling lakes. Our newly renovated, modern Fireside Banquet Room is complete with a dance floor, and our excellent in-house culinary staff and seasoned bartenders will accommodate all your catering needs! capacity 150 | price $$
.zack
(314) 304-3602 becky@kranzbergartsfoundation.org The fourth floor Urban Ballroom features brick walls and downtown views. Ideal for cocktail parties, the Theatre offers an elevated stage and A/V packages, and the Restaurant is perfect for rehearsals. Powered by the Kranzberg Arts Foundation, all event proceeds directly benefit the arts in St. Louis. capacity 400 | price $$$
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wichita art museum
1400 W. Museum Blvd., Wichita, KS (316) 268-4912 | events@wichitaartmuseum.org WichitaArtMuseum.org Artistic. Exquisite. Dynamic. The Wichita Art Museum is a unique venue for weddings, receptions and parties. Dance the night away under the monumental Confetti Chandelier by international glass artist Dale Chihuly. Surround yourself and your guests with outstanding works of American art. capacity 250+ | price $$$$
willow
321 North 10th St., St. Louis, MO (314) 899-0430 | events@baileysrestaurants.com WeddingsinWillow.com Willow is a gorgeous new event space from Baileys’ Restaurants featuring floor-to-ceiling windows, stunning branch chandeliers and two floors of seating. With a commitment to unparalleled catering and service, our team is passionate about tailoring each wedding to the couple’s unique taste and style. capacity 300 | price $$$
23 city blocks catering
(314) 615-2480 23CityBlocks.com 23 City Blocks Catering’s Executive Chef Nicholas Miller crafts from the freshest local ingredients, presenting plates with artistic flair. The Caramel Room and Lumen Private Event Space’s team assures that you and your guests are impressed at every bite. Catering has never tasted so pretty.
the blue owl bakery
1 Ponder Executive Plaza, House Springs, MO (884) 448-4340 | info@theblueowlbakery.com TheBlueOwlBakery.com The Blue Owl Bakery provides the perfect options to fit your wedding day! From artistic custom wedding cakes to grand dessert buffets, we can provide something delicious that perfectly fits your wedding style.
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Where Memories Are Made Whether it is for your wedding, reception, bridal shower or a rehearsal dinner, The Martin Event Space can transform your special occasion into a memorable event. 13440 Holmes Road, Kansas City, MO 64145 themartineventspace.com 816.371.2789
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brancato’s catering
5050 Kansas Ave., Kansas City, KS (816) 765-4707 sales@brancatoscatering.com BrancatosCatering.com Brancato’s Catering provides not only fine food, but service customized to the special event needs of our customers. From corporate functions to weddings; from backyard picnics to elegant soirees; from hors d’oeuvres to full service meals, Brancato’s Catering offers the finest in event coordination and execution.
butler’s pantry
1414 Park Avenue, St. Louis, MO (314) 664-7680 | info@butlerspantry.com ButlersPantry.com From the moment we begin listening to your vision, to the “thank you” of the last guest, Butler’s Pantry is committed to planning and executing your unforgettable wedding. Our sales managers, culinary team and event staff sincerely enjoy collaborating to ensure you can be a guest on your big day!
the cakery
1420 Tamm Avenue in Dogtown, St. Louis, MO (314) 647-6000 info@thecakerybakery.net TheCakeryBakery.net We specialize in cakes, cupcakes and cookies skillfully decorated to your specifications. Our luscious madefrom-scratch buttercream tops all of our creations, making your wedding dessert as delicious as it is beautiful.
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ces & judy’s catering
10405 Clayton Road, St. Louis, MO (314) 991-6700 | info@cesandjudys.com CesandJudys.com With unlimited options for menus and venues, including St. Louis’ newest premier event space, The Venue at Maison du Lac, opening 2018, we will achieve an event unique to you. Our talented team of chefs and creatives will design a lasting memory your guests—and your taste buds— won’t soon forget.
championship catering
3354 Iowa Ave., St. Louis, MO (314) 606-9520 ChampionshipCatering.com Championship Catering is the most referred caterer in St. Louis! We serve quality, phenomenal food at a great price. We cater fantastic venues including 3rd Degree Glass Factory, Casa Loma Ballroom, AERIE’S Terrace, NEO on Locust and many more. Call Chef Larry G to discuss your big day!
it’s a sweet treat day bakery
528 East 4th Street, Tonganoxie, KS (913) 284-9074 itsasweettreatdaybakery@gmail.com ItsASweetTreatDayBakery.com We work intimately with our couples to provide the very best in wedding desserts, including cakes, cupcakes and much more, plus delivery and setup! We understand the desire for great flavor and amazing design all within a budget, so we strive for elegance and perfection with everything we do.
mcarthur’s bakery artisan cakes
3055 Lemay Ferry Road, St. Louis, MO (314) 894-0900 | weddings@mcarthurs.com McArthurs.com/weddings.asp Since 1956 McArthur’s Bakery has used only the finest ingredients to craft mouthwatering wedding cakes. We will bake and decorate your wedding cake to your specifications. We want to help make your wedding day the most memorable day ever.
russo’s catering
(314) 427-6771 | RussosGourmet.com Russo’s Catering is family owned and operated. We have dedicated ourselves to preparing foods of the highest quality using the freshest ingredients. Our experienced staff will offer you the quality service that you expect and our reputation demands.
sarah’s cake shop
10 Clarkson Wilson Centre, Chesterfield, MO (314) 750-8334 heather.csc@sbcglobal.net SarahsCakeShopSTL.com Sarah’s Cake Shop strives to create the perfect wedding cake that captures each bride’s individual personality. From whimsical to simple and elegant, each cake portrays quality that’s as unique as the bride who chooses it. Wedding cake consultations and tastings are by appointment only. Come taste the difference.
sugaree baking co.
1242 Tamm Avenue, St. Louis, MO (314) 645-5496 | pat@sugareebaking.com SugareeBaking.com We use the highest quality, freshest and finest products to create your desserts from scratch with real butter. Contact us today for your tasting for a wedding cake or pie that your guests will be raving about long after your wedding day!
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gregory’s creative cuisine
4700 Adkins Avenue, St. Louis, MO (314) 481-4481 gmchef@yahoo.com GregorysCreativeCuisine.com When selecting a caterer for your wedding, you want to be sure that the food will be creative and delicious, the décor will be amazing and your guests will be impressed. At Gregory’s Creative Cuisine, we don’t just create an event, we create an experience.
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buds floral design
St. Louis, MO (314) 371-4646 hello@budsstl.com BUDSSTL.com It might be an intimate occasion with just close family and friends or a grand wedding with guests arriving from near and far. However large or small the wedding will be, make it beautiful and unforgettable with stylish bouquets, romantic ceremony flowers and fabulous centerpieces from BUDS.
les bouquets
7905 Big Bend Blvd., Ste. 102, Webster Groves, MO (314) 395-8335 melinda@lesbouquets.com LesBouquets.com Known for our creativity and unique style, we are passionate about providing you beautiful flowers as well as the attention you deserve.
poppies design studio
10405 Baur Blvd., Suite F, Olivette, MO (314) 952-1591 ashley@poppiesdesignstudio.com PoppiesDesignStudio.com Poppies Design Studio specializes in wedding and special event florals. We work closely with every client to ensure that every floral detail is brought to life for his or her big day.
roses & mint
3321-1 Domain St., St. Charles, MO (314) 502-9950 | info@rosesandmint.com RosesandMint.com As a wedding florist, we give each couple a fun, personal and beautiful flower experience. We’re based in St. Charles, and we love working with clients all over the St. Louis area. Learn more about Roses & Mint on our website!
schnucks florist & gifts
St. Louis, MO (314) 997-2444 SchnucksFloral.com At our floral design center, our professional designers are dedicated to bringing your dream wedding to life! Our special event coordinators will help you with everything including colors and trends. From elegant to extravagant, you are our top priority when planning your special day!
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alex waldbart florist
7000 Clayton Rd., St. Louis, MO (314) 644-3566 | waldbartflorist@sbcglobal.net AlexWaldbartFlorist.com
210 Saint Francois Street, St. Louis, MO (314) 972-7836 Stems4Weddings.com Stems Florist, an award-winning professional florist, creating wedding bouquets that are works of art, centerpieces that will keep your guests talking and wedding florals to celebrate your day—for wedding flowers as “unique” as you!
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kathryn lee bridal atelier all my heart bridal
1551 NE Douglas St., Lee’s Summit, MO (816) 600-0651 | hello@allmyheartbridal.com AllMyHeartBridal.com All My Heart Bridal is Kansas City’s first and only bridal boutique with curves. Specifically serving brides sizes 14+, our salon features designs from Allure Women, Callista Bridal, Studio Levana and the Julietta Collection from Morilee. We look forward to meeting you soon!
amoré bridal and tuxedo llc
18900 Valley View Pkwy., Independence, MO (816) 373-7400 | amorebridekc@gmail.com AmoreBride.com Exclusive designers, intimate appointments, unique accessories, exceptional service. Awakening the beauty within you…Experience Amoré.
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bridal parlour
3630 Green Mount Crossing Dr., Shiloh, IL (618) 622-0880 | info@bridalparlour.net BridalParlour.net Enjoy a personalized experience with an expert stylist. Share your look with your loved ones in a luxurious, laid-back viewing area. This space is filled with gorgeous, one-of-a-kind gowns—made by the most creative designers we could find—exclusively found at our boutique to match your personality.
dottie’s southern chic boutique
4046 W. 83rd St., Prairie Village, KS (913) 381-5000 DottiesBoots.com Each aspect of your big day is important, from your head to your toes—especially your toes! We are committed to making sure each step you take shines as radiantly as your love. Perfect for the rustic wedding or the bohemian bride who wants something more, we cannot wait to help you realize your brightest dreams.
emily hart bridal
12450 Blue Valley Parkway, Overland Park, KS (913) 681-1500 EmilyHartBridal.com Picking a dress for your special day should be fun and enjoyable. Between our large selection of beautiful designer gowns and the option of having a customdesigned bridal gown by Emily, you are sure to find the dress of your dreams! Visit our exquisite showroom today!
the gown gallery
1901 Main Street, Loft, Kansas City, MO (816) 361-8111 | info@gowngallery.com
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Lenexa, KS (913) 961-5044 | hello@kathrynleebridal.com KathrynLeeBridal.com KLB is all about giving you the luxury of customizing your bridal gown. Inspired by exceptionally fine fabrics, silks and embellished laces, each gown is crafted by hand. Influenced by classic silhouettes and exquisite detailing, KLB creates breathtaking custom gowns that let you express your personality.
mia’s bridal & tailoring
2235 E. Kansas City Rd., Olathe, KS (913) 764-9114 | sales@miasbridal.com MiasBridal.com Mia’s Bridal is a full-service bridal boutique offering designer dresses and accessories for all members of your wedding party. We also offer tuxedo and suit rentals, all types of alterations and an all-inclusive bridal package. Call or email us today to make your appointment!
PureBeauty.com/stonewater Stonewater is a part of the pure beauty salons and spas and located in beautiful Plaza Frontenac. Our 9,000-square-foot facility holds 16 stylist stations, 4 aesthetic rooms, 4 massage rooms, 7 manicure stations, 4 pedicure units and a sanctuary for our spa guests to relax.
white carpet bride
1625 Oak Street, Suite 203, Kansas City, MO WhiteCarpetBride.com We are on-location hair and makeup artists that specialize in weddings. We love weddings! Have a stress-free day and let us come to you to help make you look amazing on the day you’ve been dreaming of since you were born.
white traditions bridal house
827 N. 2nd Street, St. Charles, MO (636) 939-6005 | hello@whitetraditionsbridal.com WhiteTraditionsBridal.com We have personally selected our designer bridal gowns and have a friendly staff that is excited to help you look great on your wedding day! You will always remember how beautiful you felt and how your groom’s jaw dropped the moment he saw you! We want to help you find that oh-so-perfect gown.
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nolte’s bridal
Overland Park, KS (913) 345-1122 | NoltesBridal.com As Kansas City’s most experienced wedding coordinator, Michael Nolte will personally coordinate the details of your rehearsal, wedding and reception. Your questions of “Where do I begin?” and most importantly, “What are my options?” and “Who will see that all this happens correctly?” and more are answered.
savvi formalwear
10 convenient locations (800) TUXEDO-4 stlservice@savviformalwear.com SavviWedding.com We were voted Best Formalwear Specialist in St. Louis three years in a row. With our local warehouse, you can feel confident your attire will fit perfectly. Schedule a free groom’s try-on in all styles, fits and colors including the Michael Kors tuxedo and Black Label suits! Prices start at $69.95.
mazzarese
4850 W. 135th St. Leawood, KS (913) 491-4111 | info@mazzarese.com Mazzarese.com Our family has been in the jewelry business for four generations. Today, we proudly serve Kansas City with one-of-a-kind pieces not available anywhere else in the Midwest. Whether it’s imported or designed in-house, craftsmanship and quality will always be at the core of the Mazzarese tradition.
tivol
1804 Central Street, Kansas City, MO (816) 859-5699 SavvyBridalBoutique.com Savvy Bridal Boutique is Kansas City’s premier offthe-rack bridal boutique, carrying designer gowns at 30 to 60 percent off retail prices. We sell off the rack as well as ordering brand new from our curated lines. Savvy Bridal works by appointment. Visit our website to schedule a time!
Kansas City, MO, and Overland Park, KS (816) 531-5800 | (913) 345-0200 TIVOL.com With locations on the Country Club Plaza and in Hawthorne Plaza, TIVOL has provided an unmatched selection of jewelry and fine timepieces since 1910. Family-owned for four generations, TIVOL is known for its friendly, approachable, white-glove customer service as Kansas City’s premier jeweler. Financing and layaway options available every day. Apply for the TIVOL credit card on our website.
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1701 S. Lindbergh Blvd. #3, Plaza Frontenac, Frontenac, MO (314) 569-2111 | admin70097@purebeauty.com
10527 Mission Road, Leawood, KS (913) 341-7273 VanBrockJewels.com
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Wedding Receptions, Ceremonies, and Rehearsal Dinners with panoramic views of the golf course! A short drive from Kansas City, located just off Interstate 70 in Blue Springs, MO. Give us a call at 816-220-3673 ext. 7 or view affordable packages including catering, golf and more at www.adamspointegolfclub.com
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your vision, while delivering an unforgettable experience for your guests. The result is an engaging celebration that truly reflects your unique personalities. You’ll be able to take in each moment of your day, knowing you left the details to us.
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tower studios
(636) 448-9131 | info@towervideophoto.com You’ve picked a dress, a caterer, a reception hall, a DJ—picking a wedding videographer should be easy! That’s why, at Tower Studios, we’ve designed full-day, no-time-limit packages that will cover your entire day, and paired them with our best editors for a polished, cinema-worthy movie!
entertainment a bride’s ally
Serving St. Louis and surrounding areas (314) 560-4138 victoria@abridesally.com ABridesAlly.com We specialize in day-of coordination and supporting your planning process on your own terms. We’re here when you need us and step back when you don’t. We’re your partner in design and details, your confidant when things get sticky. We are your ally.
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11651 East 350 Highway, Raytown, MO (816) 215-0566 theellegirls@eventsbyellekc.com EventsbyElleKC.com You’re dreaming of your big day that’s full of joy and creativity, a day full of memories for your family and friends to talk about for years to come. We are here to help you plan your wedding with confidence and, of course, personality.
kat gaines events
St. Louis, MO (314) 602-6951 kat@katgainesevents.com KatGainesEvents.com Launched in 2010, Kat Gaines Events is recognized as an industry leader, known for constantly creating perfectly designed and styled wedding that are exceptional. We work very closely with you to ensure that your event reflects who you are. This is what makes the Kat Gaines experience unique!
kate & co.
(314) 909-9996 KateandCoLLC.com Working with only the most discerning creative partners from concept to execution, Kate & Company is award winning, industry referred and client adored. Offering an extensive design and full-planning experience, Kate & Company promises unparalleled service and an incomparable attention to detail.
simcha’s events
St. Louis, MO (314) 458-5463 | simcha@simchasevents.com SimchasEvents.com Simcha’s Events identifies creative ways to enhance
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aubrey erin photography
(816) 510-8832 | aubrey@aubreyerinphoto.com AubreyErinPhoto.com Aubrey Erin is a Kansas City wedding photographer who loves telling each unique wedding story through images. Once the wedding is over, your memories are preserved through her photojournalistic approach. Aubrey’s unique style has a vintage modern flair, and she takes great care in every detail.
beau vaughn photography, videography, photobooth and dj
(866) 918-BEAU (2328) weddings@beauvaughn.com BeauVaughn.com Beau Vaughn is your one-stop shopping experience for quality photography, videography, photo booth, slow motion video booth and DJ services. We will create the perfect package for your wedding, so please email us to schedule a free consultation. Check out our unbeatable pricing and services on our website!
move weddings
(417) 399-7027 | movelaced@gmail.com MoveWeddings.com We’re dedicated to capturing your day the way you deserve. We are with you from hair and makeup through your reception events, documenting all the special moments. We offer multiple packages, always deliver raw footage and have options for love story reception films as well as other features and upgrades.
american bands entertainment
St. Louis, MO (636) 265-0500 | info@ambandsentertainment.com AmBandsEntertainment.com At American Bands Entertainment, we don’t just love music—we live it! We live to play it and listen to it— especially live! Our exclusive, premier party bands, artist tributes and decade tributes perform the hit music you want to hear in a dynamic live stage show customtailored to delight your guests.
contemporary productions
Serving Kansas City, St. Louis and surrounding areas (314) 721-9090 ContemporaryProductions.com Having a high-energy wedding band that meets your demands is a must. At Contemporary, we always cater to your specific needs. Let us help you discover the entertainer that will keep your family and friends together on the dance floor for the most memorable night of your life.
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sara rieth: romantic storytelling wedding photographer
(316) 648-2621 SaraRiethPhotography.com Hey, gorgeous! I’m a natural light lover, a hopeless romantic and a coffee advocate. Located in Kansas, I travel nationwide telling America’s best love stories in happily ever after form. Yours truly, Sara.
still standing photography
(816) 699-4471 jenna@stillstandingphotography.com StillStandingPhoto.com You are my inspiration! I love people and love taking photos. I put my heart and soul into each wedding. My photography style can be summed up in two words: timeless and quality. I only accept a limited number of
lola louie paperie
St. Louis, MO laura.iffrig@hotmail.com LolaLouiePaperie.com Etsy.com/shop/lolalouiepaperie Lola Louie Paperie is a St. Louis–based paper goods company. Our design aesthetic is clean and modern with romantic touches. All designs are customizable to perfectly represent your unique wedding. We look forward to working with you!
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yellowbrick graphics
ItsASweetTreatDayBakery.com 528 East 4th Street Tonganoxie, Kansas 913-284-9074
(913) 309-7889 yellowbrick.graphic@gmail.com YellowBrickGraphics.com YellowBrick Graphics specializes in luxury, handmade wedding invitations and event stationery. From design to full-service assembly, invitations are customized to set the tone for any special event. Contact us today for a consultation to start your event on the right road!
specialty services
We work with you to provide the very best in wedding desserts within your budget Delivery and setup included Cakes, cupcakes, and much more! Make your special day a sweet treat day!
all seasons event rental
5050 Kansas Ave., Kansas City, KS (816) 765-1444 sales@allseasonseventrental.com AllSeasonsEventRental.com All Seasons Event Rental is Kansas City’s premier event rental company. We know what it takes to execute a successful event; our experience allows us to meet your needs through comprehensive planning and trendsetting products.
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alobar’s lighting and sound
716 Hanley Industrial Court, St. Louis, MO (314) 781-7600 diane@alobars.net Alobars.com Alobar’s is there to help a bride choose the right lights for her big night, a planner realize her client’s vision for the event of the season or a DJ configure the right party sound. In business for over 26 years, Alobar’s makes an ordinary event extraordinary.
arthur murray dance studio
9217 Pflumm Road, Lenexa, KS (913) 599-4444 kcarthurmurray@gmail.com KCArthurMurray.com Surprise your friends and family with a spectacular first dance! Let the pros at Arthur Murray help you make this the most treasured day of your life!
blanc de bleu cuv´ee mousseux
(855) 874-2394 Blanc de Bleu is the world’s first blue sparkling wine—a dry, crisp, sparkling grape wine with a hint of blueberry. It’s perfect for wedding receptions. Visit BlancdeBleuUSA.com for your nearest retailer. Drink responsibly.
fish eye fun
St. Louis, MO (314) 621-8638 | info@fisheyefun.com FishEyeFun.com Fish Eye Fun is a fun and funky alternative to a
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Located in the heart of downtown Kansas City, we have the perfect space for your special day. The Little Theatre is classically beautiful with Italian marble floors and columns and an ornate ceiling from the Art Deco era. Octagon shaped in a gleaming marble facade, the Little Theatre features an exterior charming promenade, balcony and a permanent stage area. The balcony overlooks the main floor on five sides. Lighted alcoves provide a sheltered setting for beverage service. The Little Theatre at the Kansas City Con vent io n C ent er Photography by Claire Ryser
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grand rental station
570 Rudder Road, Fenton, MO (636) 343-PARTY (7278) info@grandrental-stl.com This is your best stop for all your wedding and party rental needs. We rent tents, tables, linen, specialty linen, spandex linen, chairs, chair covers, centerpieces, dance floor, staging, china, glassware, grills, chafing dishes, lighting and concession machines (popcorn, frozen drink, cotton candy), and more.
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innovative lighting & design
1632 Broadway Boulevard, Kansas City, MO (816) 421-6999 in_light@mac.com InnovativeLightingDesign.com Lighting can make a room pop, and for your special day we pay attention to detail, offering custom fabric backdrops and unique lighting solutions to create spectacular results—making your event unforgettable. Innovative Lighting & Design, in the Crossroads Arts District, is just that: innovative.
swyden cleaners
329 E. Gregory Blvd., Kansas City, MO (816) 444-7774 Before the wedding, bring your dress to us. We’ll freshen it and attend to every detail of lace, sequins, and beads as it’s expertly pressed. After your wedding, we’ll clean, press, and preserve your gown, and package your wedding dress for posterity. Your gown will remain as beautiful as your memories.
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Cedar Lake Cellars
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18 North Central The Loft Banquet Center
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Chandler Hill Vineyards
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28 Event Space
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The Charles F. Knight Center
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612North Event Space|Catering
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The Chase Park Plaza
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Adams Pointe Golf Club
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Circle S Ranch
337
Allegro Ballroom
289
Clayton Plaza Hotel
163
Anew Rooftop Venue
234
The Coronado
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Ball Conference Center
334
Crown Valley Winery
233
Barnett on Washington
175
The DeLeon
308
Berg Event Space
290
Dodson Orchards
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Big Cedar Lodge
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Eighteen Ninety
357
Bixby’s 11
Events by Panorama, Saint Louis Art Museum
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Bogey Hills Country Club
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Executive Hills Polo Club
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Boo Cat Club
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Foundry Art Centre
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The Brass on Baltimore
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The Franklin Room
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The Bride & The Bauer
287
The Gallery
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Brooklyn Hall at Enright Gardens
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Genesis Catering & Banquet Center
189
The Brownstone Wedding & Event Venue
330
The Grand Hall at Power & Light
333
Brunswick Ballroom
332
The Guild
255
Buca di Beppo
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Hawthorne House
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Californos 319
Heritage Event Spaces
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Camp Miola
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Hermann Hill
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Cardinals Special Events
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Hilton President Kansas City
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Casa Loma Ballroom
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Hilton St. Louis at the Ballpark
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Hilton St. Louis Frontenac
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Cedar Creek
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The Historic Post Office
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The Historic Rumely Event Space
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Marriott St. Louis West
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The Historic Scarritt Buildings
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The Martin
369
Hotelumière at The Arch
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Meadowview Gardens
281
Hyatt Place Kansas City/Lenexa City Center Ballroom
331
Missouri Athletic Club
185
Hyatt Regency St. Louis at the Arch
243
Missouri History Museum
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The InterContinental Hotel
283
Moulin Events and Meetings
201
The Jayhawk Club
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Museum at Prairiefire
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Joule St. Louis
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NEO on Locust
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The Journey Home
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New Town at St. Charles
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Kemoll’s/Top of the Met
243
Noboleis Vineyards
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Kuhs Estate and Farm
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Old Kinderhook
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La Perla
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The Overland Park Convention Center
299
LaChance Vineyards
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Palladium St. Louis
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Laumeier Sculpture Park
241
Pavilion 75 Event Space
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The Legacy at Green Hills
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The Pavilion at iWerx
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Lemp Mansion Restaurant & Inn
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Peabody Opera House
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Lone Summit Ranch
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Longview Mansion
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Prairie Hill Vineyard
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Lost Hill Lake Events
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Prairiewood Retreat & Preserve
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The Magic House
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The Reserve Event Space
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Magnolia Venue & Urban Garden
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Restoration 1894
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Mahler Ballroom
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The Rhapsody
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Majorette 153
Ritz Charles Overland Park
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The Malthouse Cellar
201
Rose of the Hill by Favazza’s
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Marriott Kansas City Airport
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Saint Louis Zoo
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Marriott Kansas City Country Club Plaza
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Scape American Bistro
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Piropos 296
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Wichita Art Museum
Silver Oaks Chateau
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Willow 235
Sophia M. Sachs Butterfly House
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Windows On Washington®
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St. Louis Carousel
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Woods Fort Restaurant & Event Center
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St. Louis Community Foundation at #2 Oak Knoll
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St. Louis Old Post Office
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The Stanley
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Stone House of St. Charles
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Sugar Creek Winery
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The Blue Owl Bakery
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Sunset Bluffs Venue
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Brancato’s Catering
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The Terrace On Grand
293
Butler’s Pantry
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Thompson Barn
343
The Cakery & The Cup
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Three Barn Farm
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Ces and Judy’s Catering
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Tiffany Greens Golf Club
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Championship Catering
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Town Pavilion
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Gregory’s Creative Cuisine
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Trail Smokehouse
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It’s a Sweet Treat Day Bakery
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Union Horse Distilling Co.
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McArthur’s Bakery
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Uptown Theater
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Russo’s Catering
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The Venue at Maison du Lac
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Sarah’s Cake Shop
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The Venue at Willow Creek
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Sugaree Baking Co.
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The Venue in Leawood
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Venues at 061
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FLOWERS & DÉCOR
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Villa Antonio Winery
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Alex Waldbart Florist
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The Vineyard at Riverbend Chapel
186
BUDS 191
Visions KC
275
Les Bouquets
169
Visions Reception Hall
321
Poppies Design Studio by Ashley MacDonald
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Vista 154 at Ironhorse Golf Club
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Roses & Mint
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Voce 240
Schnucks Florist & Gifts
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Whitmoor Country Club
Stems 7
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All My Heart Bridal
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Aubrey Erin Photography
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Amoré Bridal and Tuxedo
263
Beau Vaughn Photography
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Bridal Parlour
61
Move Weddings
253
Dottie’s Southern Chic Boot-ique
301
Sara Rieth Photography
359
Emily Hart Bridal
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Still Standing Photography
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The Gown Gallery
9 Tower Studios
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Kathryn Lee Bridal Atelier
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Mia’s Bridal
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Nolte’s Bridal
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Savvi Formalwear/The Ultimate Bride
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American Bands Entertainment
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Savvy Bridal
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Contemporary Productions
139
Stonewater Spa, Salon & Boutique
239
White Carpet Bride
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INVITATIONS & DETAILS
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White Traditions Bridal House
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Lola Louie Paperie
196
Things Remembered
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YellowBrick Graphics
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SPECIALTY SERVICES
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All Seasons Event Rental
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Alobar’s Lighting and Sound
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Arthur Murray Dance Centers
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Blanc de Bleu Cuvée Mousseux
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Fish Eye Fun
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Grand Rental Station
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JEWELRY
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WEDDING
CONSULTANTS
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Mazzarese 29
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A Bride’s Ally
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Events by Elle
367
Kat Gaines Events
107
Kate & Co.
238
Lacy Branch Events
115
Innovative Lighting & Design
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Madison Sanders Events
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Swyden Cleaners
357
Simcha’s Events
95
Weinhardt Party Rentals
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