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EDITOR’S NOTE
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SUMMER LOVIN’
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WEDDING TOOLS
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ASK THE KNOT SQUAD
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TRENDING
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VENUE SCOUT
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EXPERT ADVICE
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CITY GUIDE
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MARRIAGE LICENSES AND WEDDING ANNOUNCEMENTS
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STYLE + PLANNING 125
AMONG THE FLOWERS A bespoke Amsterdam styled shoot takes a romantic turn.
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STAR SEARCH Your horoscope may hold the answer to your ideal venue.
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CANDY CRUSH The sweetest stationery suites for every style and palette.
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BUDGET BLASTING TIPS Timely advice to help keep your bottom line in check.
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How to ensure you get images you’ll treasure for a lifetime.
REAL WEDDINGS
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K AYLA + MIKE
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R ACHEL + ANDREW February 23, Highlandville, MO
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ERIN + ANDREW June 16, St. Louis
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LAUREN + JOE December 15, St. Louis
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BRENT + CHADWICK September 29, Springfield, MO
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K AYLA + JEFF November 3, St. Louis
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LAUREN + JOHN April 18, Wappapello, MO
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ALANA + CLAIR October 13, Kansas City, MO
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MELISSA + DANE October 27, Alma, KS
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SET THE MOOD Use our colorful inspiration boards to inform your celebratory style. ››
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224 PAIGE + CHRIS August 11, Kansas City, MO
229 LAUREN + BRIAN October 1, Manhattan, KS
234 LYDIA + HUNTER November 10, Topeka, KS
237 ANNA + SAMUEL April 21, Independence, MO
24 3 SARYN + EVAN January 12, Kansas City, MO
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WHAT PROS WISH YOU WOULD ASK Experts weigh in on the best way to prepare for meeting with vendors.
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SHOWER POWER Fun and festive ideas for a totally personalized bridal bash.
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FA S H I O N + B E AU T Y
EVERLASTING LOVE
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Honest, science-backed marriage advice from Lasting.
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THE KNOT BEAUTY AWARDS The highest-rated products for your bridal beauty arsenal.
THE KNOT REGISTRY AWARDS
259 BRIDESMAID DRESS BREAKDOWN
Upgrade your newlywed nest with these top picks.
Navigate the world of dress shopping with ease.
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All the insider ring shopping tips you need to know.
275 RENTAL REBOOT We suited up and got the info on four companies’ rental services.
283 ACCESSORIZE IN STYLE A comprehensive guide to pulling off a totally personalized look.
289 SKIN DEEP Expert advice on some of the most common skin care dilemmas.
295 UNDER THE DRESS ESSENTIALS The best undergarments for your wedding gown style.
298 THE SCIENCE OF MEDITATION
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How the Headspace app can help you keep calm and plan on.
300 WILD AT HEART Unexpected wedding looks that are unapologetically romantic.
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COVER Dress in all sizes, price upon request, Costarellos.com; engagement ring, $2,156 (not including center stone), SimonGJewelry .com; earrings, $220, Oscar de la Renta, Nordstrom.com
In love with our gorgeous cover dresses? Check out more fashion-forward styles for your wedding day and beyond at TheKnot.com/fashion.
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Behind the Scenes The Simple Life
PHOTOGRAPHY Cathrine Wessel FASHION STYLING Shelley Brown HAIR John Ruidant for Evo Haircare/See Management MAKEUP Deanna Melluso for Dior/See Management PROP STYLING Nassimos Studio
Get a sneak peek of what went on at The Knot cover shoot
Brookfields Farm a note about our shoot location
HORSIN’ AROUND Photographer Cathrine Wessel snaps a shot of our model posing with a friendly horse from Brookfields Farm.
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BLUE JEAN BABES Senior Fashion & Beauty Editor Shelley Brown and Photo Director Sarah Rozen #twinning in denim overalls on set.
FINISHING TOUCHES Our wardrobe styling team adds the final tweaks to a Viktor&Rolf shirt dress before the first shot of the day.
For an authentic country-themed shoot, we went for the real deal— taking over a family farm in Hudson Valley, New York. Brookfields Farm’s scenic 160 acres is home to herds of horses, cows, goats—and more.
BEHIND THE SCENES: COURTESY OF SARAH EVANS; BARN ICON: ANDREJS KIRMA/NOUN PROJECT
Dress in sizes up to 22, $7,500, Monique Lhuillier at Berrybridge Bridal Boutique, BerrybridgeBridal .com (St. Louis); earrings, $16,550, LeVian.com
Dress in sizes up to 12, $6,445, VivienneWestwood .com, engagement ring, $43,657, ChristopherDesigns .com; earrings, $2,155, AnabelaChan .com; shoes, $515, FreyaRose.com
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S E NI O R FA S HI O N & B E AUT Y E D ITO R S E NI O R S T YLE & PL ANNIN G E D ITO R PH OTO E D ITO R RE AL WE D D IN G S E D ITO R A S S O CIATE RE AL WE D D IN G S E D ITO R J U NI O R D E S I G NE R RE AL WE D D IN G S D E S I G NE RS A S S I S TANT E D ITO R , RE S E ARCH CO NTRIB UTIN G PH OTO D IREC TO R CO NTRIB UTIN G ART D IREC TO R
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Myleen and An honored Vietnamese tradition with their elegant multicultural wedding in the same church where all five of the groom’s siblings were previously married. The pair then partied at The Bride and The Bauer in Kansas City’s Crossroads district. In addition to their Western vows, the couple hosted a Vietnamese tea ceremony, where they each wore traditional garb.
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Before you jump into the planning, take some time to really enjoy and reflect on your engagement—because this is a huge moment. You’ve found your person. And on the journey to find them, there was likely a slew of circumstances and chance that helped you navigate the almost eight billion people in this world and bring you two together. In other words, this is big. Now take a deep breath because the hardest part is over! What’s up next? Celebrating your unique love story with all of your friends and family. If you’re not sure where to begin (trust me, I’ve been there!) then you’ve come to the right place. These pages are chock-full of tips, tricks and advice for everything from finding your perfect wedding venue to deciding on accessories to match your style. And make sure to check out our Real Wedding stories. They’re a great place to find amazing vendors in your area, as well as local-specific ideas for food, décor and more. After you’re finished reading, download The Knot Wedding Planner app to make sure your planning stays on track. You’ve got this!
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STAR SEARCH I’m a big believer in astrology, so if you can’t make a decision on your venue, let your sign be your guide. For all of the Sags out there (it me!), let your wanderlust take the lead and look into an exotic locale like Hawaii (p. 133).
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TOO PRETTY TO EAT How stunning is this handpainted cake? While these flowers are expertly crafted from sugar, you can get a similar look (and maximize your budget) by opting for real stems (p. 125).
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Receptions • Ceremonies • Rehearsal Dinners • Corporate Events • and more. . .
Extraordinary Space, Extraordinary Events 3207 Washington Blvd., St. Louis, MO 63103 1-844-GO-BARNETT • BarnettOnWashington.com
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Overlooking the Missouri wine valley and nestled within the wooded Missouri River bluffs, The Vineyard at Riverbend Chapel is the perfect location for your outdoor wedding. Or tie the knot inside our chapel where a cozy reception area allows guests to mingle by the fireplace. The formal ballroom in the lower level is adorned with chandeliers, stone arched bar and fireplace, generous cherry dance floor and large windows with sweeping views of the river valley and surrounding wooded area. We’d like to invite you to come take a tour of the enchanting Vineyard at Riverbend Chapel.
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SUMMER LOVIN’ PHOTOGRAPHY BY ANDREA DELONG PHOTOGRAPHY EVENTS BY ELLE turned the rooftop pool of the TWO LIGHT LUXURY APARTMENTS into a tropical oasis. Colorful palm leaves, modern floral installations and extra-large letters spelling out KNOT complemented the space’s sweeping skyline views.
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We took inspiration from the deeper shades of summer—berry, burnt orange, aquamarine—to match the poolside vibe. The cascading ombré balloon display lit up as it got darker, leaving the pool glowing through the night. -Michelle Layman & Jonnelle Belger-Gentry, Events by Elle
THE TEAM PLANNER Events by Elle VENUE Two Light Luxury Apartments FLORAL DESIGN Heart + Soul Floral Design ENTERTAINMENT & LIGHTING Fernando Productions PHOTOGRAPHY Andrea DeLong Photography DESSERT Crumbs and Confections FAVORS Bolle Bath LLC VIDEOGRAPHY Glenwood Weddings STATIONERY & SIGNAGE YellowBrick Graphics RENTALS Ultrapom Event Rental CATERING & BAR The Gallery Event Space BEAUTY Bronzed + Blushed BALLOONS Up, Up & Away!
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The Lodge of Four Seasons is the most elegant destination wedding location at The Lake of the Ozarks, offering beautiful scenery, accommodations, fine dining cuisine, and memories that will make you smile in the years to come. With over 50 years of experience with weddings and receptions, The Lodge of Four Seasons is the perfect destination for celebrating your love!
At The Lodge of Four Seasons, you’re destined to find the indoor or outdoor venue that fits your style. 315 Four Seasons Drive, Lake Ozark, MO 65049 ~ 573.365.3000 ~ www.4seasonsresort.com
Contact our Wedding Coordinator to begin making your wedding dreams a reality.
Kim Hilker Direct: 573.365.8051 khilker@4seasonsresort.com
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HIRE YOUR TEAM Research and book pros—anyone you have to have should be locked in ASAP.
GATHER YOUR CREW Ask your besties to stand by you at the altar and in the months leading up to your day.
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PLAN THE CEREMONY Meet with your officiant to discuss the details and attend prewedding counseling if required.
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COMPLETE YOUR TEAM Book any outstanding pros like hairstylists, makeup artists, day-of transportation or a photo booth for your reception.
SHOP FOR RINGS Try on and purchase your wedding rings—then insure them. (Now it’s starting to feel really real, right?)
CHOOSE A POINT PERSON If you don’t have a wedding planner or day-of coordinator, task an attendant or family member to be the go-to so you can relax and enjoy the day.
DECIDE WHAT TO WEAR Shop for your attire and schedule necessary fittings—don’t forget accessories. Choose what your wedding party will wear too.
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NAIL DOWN THE BUDGET Envision your wedding and decide how much you want to spend (and who else will be contributing).
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BUY YOUR WEDDING PAPER Select invites, thankyous and other stationery. If you place one order, you may snag a discount.
FINALIZE OTHER PARTY DETAILS Plan your rehearsal dinner, after-party and morning-after brunch.
GO FOR FITTINGS Have the final attire fittings and arrange for dress and/or suit pickup.
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The planning and hard work are behind you—time to celebrate your new status.
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BOOK A VENUE Search for the perfect place to celebrate, keeping budget and guest count in mind. Then set the date.
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Dream celebrations don’t just happen, they’re planned. Create an inspired event with Marriott West’s experienced planners and see the vision you dreamed of come to life. From budget to menu, intimate or lavish, our venue will be the perfect host for your celebration.
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F I N D Y O U R W E D D I N G S T Y L E We know—you’re probably figuring out where you should even start. We’ve got you covered. Once you download the app, the first thing you’ll do is swipe on images you love in our Style Quiz. It’s a fun way to help zero in on your vibe. Once complete, you’ll have your very own Wedding Vision (more on that on the next page). K E E P O R G A N I Z E D Not sure what to do when? No sweat—we’ve put together a checklist for you, and it’s totally customizable. So if Uncle Jeff is officiating, we’ll take “find an officiant” off your list. Plus, our budgeter will help you track your overall spending and how much you’ve put toward each detail. C O M P I L E Y O U R T E A M After sharing all your info (budget, location, guest count) we’ll help you assemble your squad. And if you want to keep scrolling, we’ve got thousands of award-winning pros (located right where you are), plus reviews, on The Knot Marketplace. M A N A G E Y O U R R E G I S T R Y Now for the fun part: your registries. Your people will want to shower you with gifts from “we’re engaged” to your wedding day, so keep your wish lists fully stocked right from your phone. Our universal registry tool lets you add items from anywhere you shop—so you don’t have to choose between bespoke pottery on Etsy and the latest smart home tech at Amazon. And if you’d rather ask for money to put toward things like your honeymoon flights or a home down payment, start a cash registry on The Knot. T H I N K O F Y O U R G U E S T S Your wedding website is going to be your new best friend. Fill it with need-to-know info, like hotels and your registries, then share it with guests. You can stay on top of RSVPs too. And don’t forget to have guests download The Guest—a photo sharing app that will sync all of their photos in one place (it’s like a free wedding album you can see in real time).
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Plan Your Wedding on Your Phone
G E T Y O U R D A Y - O F T I M E L I N E As you check off to-dos (so satisfying, right?) the app creates a detailed day-of timeline. Share it with your pros, wedding party and VIPs. This way, everyone knows when it’s all going down, and you can focus on enjoying some champagne and having a blast with your people.
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Your dream wedding in Wine Country is just minutes away! As the region’s finest winery facility, Chandler Hill is a magical setting. We offer a spectacular tasting room, majestic reception hall, expansive deck with memorable vineyard sunsets, rolling hills and a scenic lake. Our full-service amenities are tailored to your wishes including in-house catering, private bride’s room, event planning, fireworks and much more.
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CREATE YOUR VISION All that swiping will leave you with tons of inspo, which you can add to anytime. Plus there’s room for personalized, #MakeTradition musthaves (think: late-night taco truck, dog-friendly ceremony space or room for a sangeet).
SHARE YOUR IDEAS When you’re ready, send your vision board to your fam and the people bringing your day to life. A series of images will help convey your idea of what a “romantic garden party” looks like.
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DISCOVER YOUR STYLE No couple is just one set style—instead, you’ll get a series of words that describe your vibe. Bonus: You can use this lingo when talking with your pros.
PERFECT YOUR COLOR PALETTE Check out the colors that match your wedding style. And not to worry—you can always change them up as you plan.
GET PERSONAL RECOMMENDATIONS We’ll take your quiz answers and match you with vendors based on your location, style and budget—starting with your venue.
SAY “I DO” WITH EASE As you check off your to-dos, we’ll create a custom day-of timeline to help you pull off the main event.
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Not sure how to define your style and theme? That’s okay! Download The Knot Wedding Planner app and take our Style Quiz to get your personalized Wedding Vision.
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weddings at noboleis vineyards
“we arrived as strangers and we left noboleis feeling like family.” - jillian w. (bride)
“noboleis was already our favorite missouri winery, but now it will hold an even more special place in our hearts.” - zach a. (groom)
we proudly offer • tented pavilion for 200+ guests • tiered catering & bar options • breathtaking vineyard views • pre-ceremony bride & groom lofts • on-site wedding coordinator
“noboleis is the most beautiful, special place to get married. the entire staff at the winery is so nice and helpful. the lofts for the bride and groom are perfect...getting ready there was so fun and comfortable. talk about the perfect setting for a wedding. even the food was amazing! - amanda g. (bride) 100 hemsath rd. , augusta, mo , 63332
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Q+A
ASK THE KNOT SQUAD
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We tapped our experts for answers to your of-the-moment questions. ETIQUETTE
How do I tell my guests I want to have an unplugged ceremony?
CEO and editor in chief, Black Bride
BRITTANY LO
CEO and founder, Beautini
A LY S S A L O N G O B U C C O Senior style and planning editor, The Knot
M A R Y C H A T M A N : A simple note on your wedding website and a small, concise sign advising guests that you’re having an unplugged wedding should suffice. Say something like, “We want our friends and family to be present at our ceremony, so we ask that you put away all cameras and cell phones. We’ve hired an amazing photographer, so don’t worry— this memory will be captured and we can’t wait to share the photos with you.” It gets the point across without cell phone shaming.
Honor your dad’s competitive ping-pong streak with a cocktail hour tournament.
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BRITTNY DRYE Founder and editor in chief, Love Inc. Mag
B EC KY M U R RAY Real Weddings Editor, The Knot
MARK INGRAM
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I’ve heard that, as the bride, I should get my hair and makeup done last so it’s the freshest. Is this true?
My partner’s father passed away and we’re hoping to find a few thoughtful (but not too heavy) ways to remember him on our day. Any suggestions?
B R I T T A N Y L O : Not necessarily. I actually always pick my bride as the first client for a few reasons. First, if you need your hair blown out and set for your hairstyle, then you want to be able to let it sit for the longest amount of time so it holds throughout the night. Additionally, the beginning of the day tends to be the most relaxing—it can get pretty chaotic as the morning goes on. From an emotional standpoint, you might be a bit calmer if you’re taken care of first rather than stressing that there may not be enough time for you to get ready. Plus, you’ll be able to chill before getting dressed and make sure you love your look before pictures begin.
A L Y S S A L O N G O B U C C O : Your wedding day is a celebration of you and your partner’s love, so it should be a celebration of the people you love too. Even if they’re no longer with you, their memory can be honored in incredibly special and meaningful ways. Think of how your partner’s father would have liked to commemorate you two had he been able to be there, and work that into the day. Did he always hit the dance floor when Earth, Wind & Fire came on? Play something by the band as the last song of the night. Was he a big fan of family pingpong tournaments? Set up a few tables for a showdown during cocktail hour in his honor. Giving a nod to a deceased loved one’s essence—and personality—is the greatest tribute of all. ››
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ADVICE
Make a grand entrance with mom by escorting her down the aisle.
PLANNING
B R I T T N Y D R Y E : If space allows, having two aisles is a great way to showcase both parties equally with a dramatic meeting at the altar. If you go this route, make sure you have a photographer and a second shooter to capture both of your entrances and reactions. Another popular option is walking down the aisle together to symbolize unity. If you’re torn between the traditional and creating your own twist, why not combine the two? One of you can walk halfway down the aisle solo, where you can then meet in the middle and take your final steps to the altar together.
MAKE TRADITION
In the spirit of #MakeTradition, how can couples personalize their wedding day looks? B E C K Y M U R R A Y : Start with your favorite item. What’s your go-to accessory or signature addition when you dress for everyday life? If you feel your best in a bold lipstick, don’t feel the need to go nude and natural on your wedding day. If you’re known for rocking quirky socks in your nine-to-five, pick a new pair just for the occasion. Personalization is just that: personal. Wear what makes you feel the most “you” on your wedding day, not what you think you’re “supposed” to wear. #MakeTradition is all about being confident in the customs you inherited while staying true to what makes you unique.
FASHION
How much should my venue inform the style of my dress? M A R K I N G R A M : Aside from your own personal style, nothing influences your wedding fashion more than your venue. Obviously, an outdoor daytime garden wedding and a formal evening ballroom affair require very different looks. A clean and modern warehouse pairs well with a sleek sheath dress, while a detailed ball gown is perfect for a fairy-tale château. Let the venue be your guide and find a gown that will complement the setting.
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Neither of us wants to meet the other at the altar during our ceremony. Any nontraditional suggestions for walking down the aisle?
Find more advice on THE K N OT WE D D IN G PL ANNE R APP
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TRENDING Honor your partner’s culture by looking into each piece’s meaning.
H AV E
fun W I T H Y O U R
FA S H I O N Today’s dress code is “you do you.” When it comes time to celebrate, your wedding day look is one of the most striking ways to make a statement about both your personal style and your cultures. These couples ran wild with accessories, colors and prints—and there’s no reason you can’t too.
FASHION FUSION J O H N + TA N AY S A N TA R O S A , C A
“It was important to us to acknowledge our respective cultures,” John (right) says. “While researching Indian culture, I was gobsmacked by the beauty of traditional menswear. I was excited to wear the sherwani.”
TAILOR MADE “When it comes to my everyday style, I tend to lean masculine,” Jen says. “That said, I didn’t want a traditional black suit or tie for my wedding day. Purple struck me as feminine but different, and the flower necklace was the cherry on top. It totally stole the show.”
SEEING RED CLAIRE + CHRISTOPH CHAGRIN FALLS, OH
“I knew from the very beginning that I didn’t want to wear a white wedding dress,” Claire says. “I tried on dozens of gowns, but as soon as I saw this one, I freaked out. It was exactly what I wanted: free and fun.” ALL DRESSED UP DON’T BE SCARED TO ADD A FUN TOUCH TO A CLASSIC LOOK. KNOWN FOR WEARING F U N K Y P A T T E R N S ? L E T ’ E M P O P O N Y O U R T I E O R V E S T.
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Semi-custom menus allow your place settings to still feel personal.
PLACE SETTINGS Okay, yes, the whole free-food-andopen-bar thing is a huge draw, but give guests even more reason to get comfy, raise a glass and mingle at their seats with the help of a personalized place setting. When done right, your loved ones will feel like it was set just for them.
SWEET SYMBOLISM M A D D I E + J O H N L O N G M O N T, C O
“The flamingo represented John’s Florida roots, while the robin symbolized my home of Colorado,” Maddie says. “Alongside the two birds, I wrote a poem explaining how our food combined our different places of origin.”
STITCHED WITH LOVE “Alana’s mother monogrammed all 110 napkins with our married name,” Clair says. “After the reception, we kept a set or two for ourselves and gave the rest of the napkins to members of our family as a thank-you gift for all of their hard work.”
PICTURE PERFECT SO P H I E + ATA E F I O K WA S H I N GTO N , D C
“I’m known as a serial photographer, and I wanted those memories to touch our wedding day,” Sophie says. “Six weeks before the wedding, we went on the journey of finding 95 different photos of us with our guests. It was a fun, meaningful way to go down memory lane.” S I N C E R E LY YO U R S A D D I N G A H A N D W R I T T E N N O T E AT E A C H P L A C E W I L L L E T A L L O F YO U R G U E S T S K N O W J U S T H O W S P E C I A L T H E I R AT T E N D A N C E I S T O YO U .
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W I T H YO U R
FIRST DANCE Take your dance floor debut to the next level by showing off some one-of-a-kind moves, whether that means giving someone else the spotlight or choreographing a Dirty Dancing–worthy number—lift optional. Just let the rhythm of the day decide.
BREAK IT DOWN DIANE + JJ DENVER
“We wanted to give back to our community, so we asked kid dancers from the School of Breaking to take on our first dance,” Diane says. “The school inspires kids through the power of music and dance.”
PASS THE MIC “We surprised my parents by giving them our first dance, complete with a serenade,” Dre says. “My mom and dad eloped over 30 years ago due to racial tensions and never got that big, white wedding of their own, so it was our gift of gratitude to them.”
RAISE THE ROOF N O A H + PJ E A R LT O N , N Y
“We really wanted to surprise everyone,” Noah says. “The video of our dance, which included a Dirty Dancing lift, went viral, and the proceeds allowed us to donate $40,000 to the It Gets Better Project.” J OY F U L N O I S E T U R N YO U R P R E W E D D I N G DA N C E L E S S O N S I N T O F U N D AT E N I G H T S —T H AT S H O U L D H E L P F I G H T A N Y S T A G E F R I G H T.
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The unique, the traditional, the nontraditional, the quirky, whimsical or not quite sure what the wedding is going to be, love story. Whether trendy or couture, we create what you have always dreamed of. Simply put, we are here to serve you. Award-winning, professional artists and creative talents in the floral industry. From red, red roses to the perfect pink peony. Hand-tieds to draping orchids to the cutest backyard posies. We are here for all brides, on all budgets.
Cakes
Layers of delicate cakes, infused with rich flavors, filled with buttercreams, ganache, conserves or fresh fruits created just for your special day. Our widely recognized, award winning designers create fabulous looking cakes that taste delicious! We are trained bakery artists who are passionate about what we create. Our impeccable attention to detail, service, and dependability, all at a budget friendly investment. Whatever your dream cake may be, we will make it one to remember.
Catering
Intimate, grand, or magical. Are you thinking a cultured menu for a black tie, tented affair or an intimate soirée with wine and charcuterie. Maybe your style is a backyard bbq from our food truck with a local brew. We offer so many choices. This is your day, your way. Our skillfully trained master chefs and talented wedding teams will guide couples through selection, sampling and presentation with affordability in mind. Together you will create a customized menu and event to wow your guests.
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FLOWER POWER Earrings, $168, LeleSadoughi.com
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MUSTARD USTARD +SAGE This unexpected duo is equal parts sweet and vibrant—perfect for spring.
STRINGS OF GOLD
ALTAR BOUND Velvet vow book, $91, Elmo-PaperStories.com
Classic ribbon in Oro, from $6, TonoandCo.com
TEXTURED TOPPER Headband, $225, JenniferBehr.com
ELEGANT EATS
GREEN GODDESS
Floral greenery menu, $6 for printable download, PlumSugarPaperie, Etsy.com
POSH PERCH Green velvet chair, $60 per day to rent, RentPatina.com
GOOD VIBES Mini smudge sticks, $15 for 3, WorldMarket.com
FINE DINING Saapaivakirja plate, $36, Marimekko, Amara.com
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FRESH PICK AERIN Éclat de Vert, $225 for 1.7 oz., EsteeLauder.com
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KEEP IT
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LAVENDER +TEAL
Beauty Highliner Gel Eye Crayon in Violet Femme 82, $25, Marc Jacobs, Sephora.com
DISCO FEVER Disco ball balloons, $25 for 3, FabfunctionsByKelly, Etsy.com
The ’80s are back and better than ever with an electric duo that keeps the good times rolling.
SWANKY SIP Milly acrylic tumbler, $28, Amara.com
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Modern wedding invitation, from $85, finedaypress, Etsy.com
TABLE TOPPER Melamine terrazzo dinner plate, $10, WestElm.com
COLD SHOULDER Dress in sizes up to 28, $270, Amsale.com
Logan rainbow mirror flatware, $60 for 20-piece set, Cambridge, HomeDepot.com
SOFT SCENT Lil’ Dipper eau de parfum, $77 for 1.7 oz., Pinrose.com
BOLD BLING Earrings, $68, KendraScott.com
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Emily Hart Bridal was an unforgettable experience! They made my entire group feel right at home. We had our own space with a big couch and beautiful, big mirrors.The building is gorgeous and makes you feel so special.There are so many amazing dresses to choose from that I had a hard time deciding my favorite!!We worked with Molly and she was outstanding! So professional, knowledgeable, sweet, and patient! I would highly recommend Emily Hart and working with Molly. I guarantee you won’t have to go anywhere else!! -Madison S.
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Just amazing! The beauty and quality of the dresses is truly impressive but more so, the customer service and attention I received was by far the best I’ve experienced! Sara was so incredibly helpful! She went above and beyond to listen attentively to my vision of the perfect dress, gave great guidance and made me feel at ease during this stressful time. I’m so very grateful! Even Emily herself came over to help. Thank you so much for your hard work in providing a beautiful boutique with exceptional ladies making brides dreams come true. -Stacy K.
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GEO DETAILS Eclipse Blocks napkins, $24 for 4, WestElm.com
PRETTY TIPS Gel Couture nail polish in First View, $12, Essie.com
KEEP IT
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SKY BLUE +SIENNA DREAM WEAVER Bag, $395, LoefflerRandall.com
This warm-meets-cool pair is a unique combo suited for any style.
VELVET TOUCH Dress in sizes up to 24, $290, JennyYoo.com
STATEMENT STUDS
PAINTERLY PAPER Collage wedding invitation, $234 for 100, Ann Gardner, Minted.com
BACK TO BASICS Raina dinner plate, $25, Dansk, Bloomingdales.com
LET IT GLOW Amber candlesticks, $50 for 3, Hubsch, JungLeeNY.com
PERKY POUT BUCKLED UP Shoes, $48, JustFab.com
Matte Revolution lipstick in Sexy Sienna, $34, CharlotteTilbury.com
SOMETHING BLUE Custom heart patch, $18, TheDailyDisco, Etsy.com
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Outdoor and Indoor Ceremony and Receptions HILLTOP TERRACE, VERANDA, LAKESIDE, GAZEBO, PAVILION
Vineyard to Table Cuisine
We offer chef-driven, seasonal artisan cuisine
Experienced Event Staff
Meet and discuss your vision and wedding details
Private Bridal Suite
Historic farmhouse room, full bath, amenity baskets
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from $3,000 GUEST COUNT 330 ABOUT The rustic ranchstead listed on the National Register of Historic Places rents its three-story barn for weddings and stone house for lodging.
from $149 per person GUEST COUNT 350 ABOUT With around 40,000 works of art on display, the museum would be an incredible setting for your celebration, especially for first-time visitors to KC.
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from $5,500 200 ABOUT Personalization just got next-level: This property (shown above) lets couples select décor from their ‘Something Borrowed’ inventory of more than 3,000 unique pieces.
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from $750 350 ABOUT You might think that grapes are this vineyard’s pride and joy, but it’s actually the willow tree, which is the oldest in Kansas and makes for a stunning natural altar. COST
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from $6,600 250 ABOUT Overlooking bustling River Market, the downtown venue (pictured) can accommodate both indoor and outdoor celebrations seamlessly. COST
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UNION HORSE DISTILLING CO. LENEXA, KS
Price upon request 270 ABOUT With wingback chairs and copper drum tables, this working distillery has the vibe of a craft cocktail bar. COST
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from $3,700 550 ABOUT A recently debuted glamping campground makes this resort’s list of guest amenities truly comprehensive. COST
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from $15,000 200 ABOUT Formerly an automobile showroom, the interior is a showpiece, with hardwood floors, a marble staircase and floor-to-ceiling windows. COST
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from $3,950 125 ABOUT Though the 19th-century limestone barn is a working farm, calling it “rustic” would be selling it short. It looks like it’s straight from an English countryside. COST
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C L A I M TO FA M E McLain’s is known for its cup cookies, which are pecan sandie cookies with chocolate fudge frosting.
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WHAT CAKE ALTERNATIVES ARE THE MOST POPULAR AT MCLAIN’S? At the Lawrence store, we sell French macarons like crazy—and I may be biased, but I must say they’re my favorites. I flew to New York City to perfect our recipe. They’re easy to customize by flavor and color to fit your day. Our lemon curd fruit tarts take the second spot as our most popular item. We make the lemon curd from scratch, and the fruit complements the tart just right. As a whole, couples are ordering mini-dessert displays more and more. They’re a great way to offer plenty of options for guests.
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BACK TO CAKE: WHAT’S YOUR HIGHESTSELLING FLAVOR? Our almond cake is our biggest seller. I don’t think anything beats our almond cake with pistachio filling.
Skipping cake in favor of a dessert alternative won’t necessarily save you money. Mini-desserts could actually end up costing you more.
WHAT’S THE EASIEST WAY A COUPLE CAN SAVE MONEY ON THEIR WEDDING CAKE? Sheet cakes are a great way to go if you want to maximize your budget. They provide plenty of servings but at a lower cost than a tiered cake. It’s much more common for us to see a small tiered cake paired with sheet cakes than single, large tiered cakes.
HOW CAN COUPLES PICK THE RIGHT FLAVOR OF CAKE OR DESSERT FOR THEIR DAY? First and foremost, pick your wedding cake and desserts based on what you like. Think beyond the guests and remember: They’re getting free desserts, so they won’t be complaining. So many couples say they never even got to eat the dessert at their wedding, so choose your fave cake and make sure you take the time to eat it on your day.
HOW FAR IN ADVANCE SHOULD COUPLES BOOK THE BAKER OF THEIR CHOICE? Generally, a year in advance is plenty of time, but keep in mind that the season may have an effect on the timing. We’ve noticed that fall has grown in popularity when it comes to weddings, which means our bakery books up even more quickly around that time of year.
WHAT ARE THE PERKS OF CHOOSING A LOCAL BAKERY FOR YOUR WEDDING CAKE? Local bakeries make everything from scratch. We have the time and ability to make sure your day is special for you. Exhibit A: McLain’s offers free cake tastings and a free sixinch cake on your one-year anniversary.
FROM LEFT: HATZFELD CREATIVE; COURTESY OF MCLAIN’S BAKERY
OUR PRO Gabriela Otero, cake manager at McLain’s Market in Lawrence, Kansas
We offer plenty of alternatives, including gluten-free options and lots of mini desserts. People are always excited to hear our French macarons are gluten free. Our vegan chocolate cake is also especially popular, and I’ve heard many people say they actually prefer it over regular chocolate cake.
Find a baker in your area at THE K N OT.CO M/M O - KS
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SIDE HUSTLE Alicia’s second company, The Emerald Hound, creates napkins, stirrers and coasters—all in honor of your pet.
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WHAT’S THE BIGGEST MISTAKE COUPLES MAKE DURING THE MAILING PROCESS? The most common mishap we see is overquoting, which means couples request way too many invitations. Pro tip: You only need one invitation per household, so don’t quote your stationer per person.
WHAT ADDRESSING TECHNIQUES ARE YOU MOST EXCITED ABOUT RIGHT NOW? Recently, couples are opting for digital printing over classic calligraphy. Digital printing not only allows clients to incorporate unique details into their suite’s design, including custom watercolor and creative die cuts, but it also saves them money. That said, On Three Designs started as a calligraphy studio, and, for that reason, calligraphy will always be near and dear to my heart.
MONOGRAMS: IN OR OUT? Monograms are always in at On Three Designs. They’re constantly evolving. We’ve seen a dramatic shift in the styles of monograms couples look for over the past five years, and we’ve found ways to keep them fresh.
WHAT ETIQUETTE WOULD YOU LIKE TO SEE RETIRE WHEN IT COMES TO WEDDING INVITATIONS? There are some antiquated rules in regard to addressing the wedding party or your guests, and, luckily, many of them are starting to phase out naturally—using “master” as a title for a little boy or “miss” for an unmarried adult woman. Moving forward, I’d love to see more inclusive options.
WHERE DO YOU FIND INSPIRATION WHEN DESIGNING FOR A SPECIFIC COUPLE? The first and best place to start is with the couple themselves, of course. I require at least one in-person meeting or a conference call for out-of-town clients. I get to know couples personally before designing their paper goods, and I love finding ways to sneak small personal touches (like those detailed below!) into stationery. These symbols of their story make for the very best inspiration, even if they’re so small that guests might not pick up on them immediately.
MAKE IT YOURS These sources of inspo will help your designer set your suite apart. DR ES S D ETA I LS
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The embroidery on a bridesmaid’s dress or a tie might lend itself to a hand-painted flower motif.
According to Alicia, man’s best friend can make an appearance as a small icon on your invites.
Something as small as the wallpaper of your first-date spot can inspire the envelope liner.
“More and more, clients are requesting custom illustrations of their venues,” Alicia says.
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OUR PRO Alicia Lantzy, a designer and calligrapher at St. Louis’s On Three Designs
At On Three Designs, we generally book up to a year in advance. I suggest checking in anywhere from a year to nine months before your wedding. If you’re hosting a destination wedding, you’re going to need to book up to 18 months in advance. We’ll need plenty of time to get your save-the-dates mailed.
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GO HIGH Splurge for a Happy Half Hour ticket on the High Roller Ferris wheel for open-bar access, so you can sip as you take in views of the Strip.
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The dining options are truly endless. But take note: You’ll be able to score a res at the Las Vegas outpost of many of the country’s hottest restaurants. Have an Italian feast at Rao’s, or load up on sushi at Nobu. If fun cocktails are more your thing, Velveteen Rabbit, Commonwealth and Frankie’s Tiki Room are all great options.
Catch Cirque du Soleil’s LOVE, a trippy tribute to The Beatles that combines music and acrobatics.
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INSTA OP Don’t miss Sin City’s iconic sign. It’s the perfect spot for a group pic with your crew. THINK FAST (FOOD) Mix your own (boozy) soft drinks and grab some tacos at the luxe—yes, luxe—Taco Bell Cantina.
SIP WITH STYLE Order rainbow lattes at Sambalatte— they’re a work of art and delicious.
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Travel about a half hour from downtown Vegas to see the Seven Magic Mountains.
These beauties are more than 30 feet high.
SOAK UP SOME SUN Chill out and recover in the lazy river—with a drink in hand, of course—at the Mandalay Bay.
Get your adrenaline pumping as you take the plunge off the Stratosphere hotel with SkyJump. You’ll jump 855 feet above the Strip hooked to a cable that’s attached to a descender machine (think of it like a vertical zip line— yikes!). Or for a more permanent rush, get inked at Downtown Tattoo.
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Take advantage of perks like a pool float and bucket of rosé at the Saguaro Palm Springs.
UNABRIDGED INSIDER’S TRAVEL GUIDE S TAY Ace Hotel & Swim Club’s spa is first rate, and not one, but two pools offer respite from the heat. V Palm Springs and Kimpton Rowan Palm Springs Hotel (with its rooftop pool) are also cool picks for your visit.
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Unwind with watermelon margs and fish tacos at El Jefe.
GRAB BRUNCH Begin your day with a Bloody Mary and bacon flight at Cheeky’s.
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Head to Moxie Palm Springs—a spacious rooftop bar that’s equipped for large groups—or settle in at Shanghai Reds Bar & Grill, a no-fuss local favorite.
TAKE CENTER STAGE STOP FOR SWEETS Cool off with a cone (extra sprinkles, please!) at Kreem.
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Belt out all the hits at RetroRoom Lounge.
Ashley Torres of @EverydayPursuits celebrated in the California hot spot.
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Palm Springs is filled with photoworthy spots, like this sign at the Ace Hotel.
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Get ready for a big night out with a burger at Workshop Kitchen + Bar.
RESTORE IN STYLE Wash away last night’s revelry with Moroccan pancakes and Turkish coffee at The Pink Cabana.
P L AY Climb Chino Canyon, and board the aerial tramway for killer views. Or party on a bike with Social Cycle, and make pit stops at a variety of bars. To get out of the sun, check out Palm Springs Art Museum or hunt for vintage finds at The Frippery.
Snap a pic with the dinos in Cabazon.
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In keeping with their Mexican dinner spread, Kayla and Mike offered guests churro cupcakes as well as s’mores.
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THEIR STORY Mizzou pride was the name of the game for Kayla Meyers (28 and a marketing content strategist) and Mike Henderson (28 and a digital marketing director). The couple began planning while living in Chicago, but chose the Columbia area because it was where they met as journalism students in Hudson Hall. “We actually moved back to Columbia during our engagement,” Kayla says. The pair filled their barn wedding with antique, rustic touches like a raw wood arch, but brightened it up with colorful ranunculus, snappy signage and Instax cameras for snapping selfies. — LO U I S BAR AGO NA
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MENU “We wanted the meal to be a reflection of us, so we chose our favorite thing: a taco bar,” Kayla says. Guests filled their plates with homemade tortillas, guacamole and elote (grilled Mexican corn). “We still hear about the corn to this day,” Kayla says. BOUQUET Kayla carried colorful anemones, peonies and roses. “We included some subtle yellow touches as a tribute to Mizzou,” she says. LAUGHS Together, the couple planned a day full of equal parts humor and sentimentality, from the reception speeches and toasts to the vows. “The idea of sentimental but hilarious is totally us,” Kayla says. “For Mike, I vowed not to adopt any more cats, which I now regret. He talked about how stressed I get at Target.”
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CEREMONY & RECEPTION SITE Blue Bell Farm, Fayette, MO PHOTOGRAPHY Audrey Rowden/Love Tree Studios PLANNER Kristen Thackery/Blue Bell Farm FLOWERS Sugarberry Blooms GOWN Christos Bridal, Lovely Bride, Chicago SUIT TheBlackTux.com; tie: The Tie Bar; pocket square & tie clip: Etsy.com WEDDING PARTY ATTIRE Bridesmaids: Weddington Way; groomsmen: TheBlackTux.com HAIR Bespoke Hair Co. MAKEUP Laura With Blush ENGAGEMENT RING Wedding Bands & Co. WEDDING RINGS Buchroeders STATIONERY DIY; printing: PSPrint RENTALS A-1 Party & Event Rental; Pretty Little Things CATERING & CUPCAKES Blue Bell Farm OFFICIANT Terri Williams MUSIC Show Me Sound TRANSPORTATION USA Tours HONEYMOON Dominican Republic GUESTS 175 HASHTAG #FromHudsontoHenderson
TABLE NUMBERS While Kayla took on designing the bar signs, Mike created the table numbers, combining bold, modern fonts with watercolor lavender. “Purple is our favorite color, so it had to be the main hue in our palette,” Kayla says. CHAMPAGNE SHOWER “Popping champagne with our wedding party was one of the best moments of the day,” Mike says. “That moment symbolizes our lives together: spontaneous and full of friends and laughter.”
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The newlyweds led guests in singing “How Deep the Father’s Love for Us.”
THEIR STORY Two things have long defined Rachel Smith (29 and a teacher) and Andrew Darby’s (26 and a worship leader) relationship: music and caffeine. They met when Rachel was in the church choir, got to know each other over mugs of coffee and became engaged as Rachel sat at the piano. So at their wedding, the bar served lattes instead of booze (which went nicely with the seven cakes on display), and the couple had a first song rather than a dance. — R E B ECCA DALZE LL
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GREENHOUSE Faux silk greenery hung from the 25-foot ceiling in the modern greenhouse where the ceremony and reception took place. “We wanted a simple, naturally beautiful wedding, and this venue was absolutely gorgeous,” Rachel says. SHOES Rachel wore sparkly Kate Spade Keds. BARBECUE DINNER White roses and seeded eucalyptus topped tables, where guests chowed down on brisket, pulled pork, creamed corn, cheesy potatoes and baked beans.
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CEREMONY & RECEPTION SITE Greenhouse Two Rivers, Highlandville, MO PHOTOGRAPHY Kyndal Hawkins/Inner Images Photography FLOWERS Bloomingful, Etsy.com; bridesmaid bouquets: Sam’s Club GOWN Venus Bridal, Gracie’s Bridal, Springfield, MO SUIT Express WEDDING PARTY ATTIRE Bridesmaids: Von Vonni, Amazon.com HAIR Shawna Stanley/Hair.Knowledge ENGAGEMENT RING Tacori WEDDING RINGS Rachel: Tacori; Andrew: Manly Bands STATIONERY Invitations: Nova.Ink Designs, Etsy.com; menus: LittlePlumPrintables, Etsy.com RENTALS Bliss Bridal and Event Rentals CATERING Curly Que Catering CAKES Cakes by Crystal CAKE TOPPER ModernSilo, Etsy.com DESSERTS Doughnut holes: Krispy Kreme; coffee bar: The Press Coffee & Juice Bar OFFICIANT Darrell Darby (Andrew’s father) MUSIC DIY BRIDESMAID GIFTS Personalized makeup bags: TheWhiteInviteGifts, Etsy.com; personalized water cups: MySisterandMeShop, Etsy.com; robes: FigandVine, Etsy.com HONEYMOON Florida GUESTS 175
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THEIR STORY Erin Cammarata (29 and a speech-language pathologist) and Andrew Wieck (35 and a manager of business analytics) planned their wedding with the same care they’d use to make a playlist. The couple, who loves going to concerts, filled their ceremony with their favorite songs, with Erin walking down the aisle to “Foxglove” by Murder of Death. “That was a fun one to write in the program,” Erin says. Once they stepped offstage, the pair toasted with a special brew from Perennial Artisan Ales, aptly named Foxglove. — LB
SETTING Erin and Andrew sealed the deal onstage at the Old Rock House. “We’ve always been drawn to lesser-known bands and venues,” Andrew says. “It really fit us.”
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SHADES OF COOL The wedding party topped their black looks with a burst of color in the form of bright, heart-shaped sunglasses. “I wanted a fun fiesta of a color palette,” Erin says. BOTTLED BLOOMS Erin and Andrew tracked down the different bottles and vases used on the dining tables. The couple’s florist filled their finds with various wildflowers, daisies and carnations. DESSERT Not only did partygoers refuel with slices of cake, but they also grabbed almond macaroons, raspberry bars and shortbread cookies.
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TABLE NUMBERS To play up their musical theme, Erin and Andrew designed their table numbers to look like vintage cassette tapes and named each one after their favorite bands and musicians they’ve seen together. VIP TICKETS As they would at any show, guests found their seats with concert tickets, all printed by the Old Rock House itself. RECEPTION “Old Rock House already has posters and records on the wall, so we kept the décor minimal,” Erin says.
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WEDDING INGREDIENTS CEREMONY & RECEPTION SITE Old Rock House, St. Louis PHOTOGRAPHY Jacoby Andrick/Jacoby Photo and Design, LLC. PLANNER Saving Grace Occasions FLOWERS Always in Bloom GOWN Daughters of Simone, Juno Bridal, St. Louis SUIT TheBlackTux.com; tie: Macy’s WEDDING PARTY ATTIRE Bridesmaids: various; groomsmen: TheBlackTux.com HAIR Ashley Sweet MAKEUP Rose Turner VEIL David’s Bridal ENGAGEMENT & WEDDING RINGS Crestwood Coin & Jewelers STATIONERY Invitations: Minted.com; programs: Vistaprint.com; escort card tickets: Old Rock House RENTALS & CATERING Old Rock House CAKE & DESSERTS Sugaree Baking Co. CAKE TOPPER Amazon.com OFFICIANT Susan Hayden (Erin’s aunt) MUSIC Jamie Lambert/Old Rock House OTHER ENTERTAINMENT Photo booth & ice sculpture: Pauly Parente/Old Rock House FAVORS Cookies; Spotify.com TRANSPORTATION BEST Transportation HONEYMOON Italy GUESTS 190 HASHTAG #WieckWedding
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YOUR BIG DAY REQUIRES PERFECT ARRANGEMENTS
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WEDDING STYLE Lauren wore a silk taffeta ball gown, and Joe sported a vintage tux belonging to his new father-in-law.
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THEIR STORY Lauren Lamb (24 and a law student) and Joseph (Joe) Kiefner (24 and a petroleum engineer) got married in December, but they steered clear of red and gold décor. “We didn’t want it to be overtly Christmasy,” Lauren says. “We chose a classic, elegant design.” They filled the Marriott St. Louis Grand’s marble ballroom with black linens, silver candleholders and evergreen garlands. There was just one nod to the holiday: Carolers and a tree hung with glass ornaments that doubled as favors and escort cards. — R D
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Lauren carried peonies, roses, ruscus, camellia, boxwood and juniper.
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FIRST DANCE Lauren and Joe danced to “Perfect” by Ed Sheeran. CAKE Sugar ruscus leaves framed a silver monogram on the buttercream-frosted chocolate-and-vanilla cake. TABLESCAPE Place settings had beaded chargers, mercury glass candles and place cards with different colored wax seals to indicate meal choices: mushroomand-ricotta stuffed chicken or filet of beef.
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WEDDING INGREDIENTS CEREMONY SITE Graham Memorial Chapel at Washington University, St. Louis RECEPTION SITE Statler Ballroom at the Marriott St. Louis Grand, St. Louis PHOTOGRAPHY Clary and Travis Pfeiffer/Clary Pfeiffer Photography FLOWERS Jody Cox/ An Affair to Remember GOWN Legends Romona Keveza, Town & Country Bridal and Formalwear, St. Louis TUXEDO Family heirloom HAIR & MAKEUP Savanah Moore/ Savanah Summer VEIL Lea-Ann Belter Bridal, Town & Country Bridal and Formalwear ENGAGEMENT RING James Allen WEDDING RINGS Lauren: Mejuri; Joe: James Allen STATIONERY Invitations: Mollie Paperie RENTALS An Affair to Remember; Table Ten Event Design CATERING Marriott St. Louis Grand CAKE De la Crème Creative Studio OFFICIANT Pastor Jeffrey Waters/La Croix Church MUSIC Ceremony: William Partridge (organist), St. Louis Christmas Carols Association (carolers); reception: Midnight Piano Band FAVORS Christmas ornaments: Luna Bazaar TRANSPORTATION St. Louis Carriage Co. HONEYMOON Mexico GUESTS 110
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FA S H I O N
While Brent opted for a classic tux and a dapper bow tie, Chadwick switched things up with a gray jacket and a necktie.
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THEIR STORY It took moving to Chicago for Brent Waters (31 and works in marketing) and Chadwick Calkins (32 and a hairstylist) to discover their shared Springfield roots. “A mutual friend introduced us,” Brent says. “We’d both lived in Springfield for the majority of our lives.” After a Windy City proposal, the couple headed home for a backyard ceremony at Brent’s parents’ house. The rustic-chic affair included homegrown touches, like a framed backdrop made by Brent’s father, which now houses wedding photos. — LB
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Though they originally wrote their vows, the pair ended up saying a common vow to calm their nerves.
WEDDING INGREDIENTS CEREMONY & RECEPTION SITE A private residence, Springfield, MO PHOTOGRAPHY Christine Bonnivier Photography FLOWERS The Nest TUXEDO Vicegerent, Chicago WEDDING RINGS C.A. Jewelers STATIONERY DIY; printing: Kinko’s RENTALS Eventful Rental CATERING Nearly Famous CAKE Beth’s Bake Shoppe & Tea Room CAKE TOPPER Wedding Pros, Etsy.com CREAM CHEESE MINTS DIY OFFICIANT Pastor Jenn Simmons MUSIC Ceremony: Saint Mark²; Elizabeth Hurst; reception: DJ McMillionz FAVORS Garrett Popcorn TRANSPORTATION Uber HONEYMOON Canada GUESTS 150 HASHTAG #WatersCalkinDowntheAisle
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F LO W E R C R O W N
Kayla, whose mother grew up in Hawaii, wore a haku lei of ruscus, baby’s breath and dendrobium.
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THEIR STORY During their ceremony at the Contemporary Art Museum St. Louis, Kayla Williams (29 and a lawyer) and Jeffrey (Jeff) Gamble (29 and CTO of a startup) turned toward their guests to welcome them. “It was wonderful to see the faces of our loved ones,” Kayla said. “It made the ceremony feel communal.” The moment set the tone for their minimalist celebration, a cocktailstyle reception designed to give them as much time as possible to mingle with family and friends. — R D
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Kayla and Jeff exchanged personal vows in front of a eucalyptus arch.
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JEWELRY Kayla wore her rose gold engagement ring and a borrowed diamond-and-sapphire tennis bracelet. CAKE Succulents decorated the lemon cake with vanilla bean frosting. COCKTAIL RECEPTION Guests sipped Manhattans and grazed at food stations, including a mac-and-cheese bar. They also explored the museum galleries. “When we found out that our wedding date would coincide with a Jean-Michel Basquiat exhibit, we were sold,” Jeff says.
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I N S TA L L AT I O N An ink wash drawing by William Downs covered a wall in the reception area.
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CEREMONY & RECEPTION SITE Contemporary Art Museum St. Louis PHOTOGRAPHY Jenna Elizabeth/J Elizabeth Photography PLANNER Leata Price/Land of Platinum Group FLOWERS Personal Touches by Jeanetta GOWN Eddy K, Simply Elegant Bridal, Creve Coeur, MO; tailor: Sadie’s Alterations TUXEDO Suitsupply WEDDING PARTY ATTIRE Bridesmaids: Bella Bridesmaids HAIR Bride: Paula Mason; bridesmaids: Heather Grant/The GlamFam MAKEUP Camille Scott VEIL Simply Elegant Bridal ENGAGEMENT RING Elleard Heffern Fine Jewelers WEDDING RINGS Vincent’s Jewelers STATIONERY Invitations: Minted.com; programs: Zazzle.com RENTALS Contemporary Art Museum St. Louis; Personal Touches by Jeanetta CATERING & DESSERTS The Social Affair CAKE SweetArt OFFICIANT David Allston (friend) MUSIC Tossin Ted/ProJocks Entertainment TRANSPORTATION All About You Limos HONEYMOON Maui, HI GUESTS 170 HASHTAG #SheTookAGamble
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THEIR STORY Lauren Croy (26 and a pharmacist) kept the décor minimal for her wedding to John Goodwin (31 and a youth specialist), but there was one thing with which she went wild: flowers. “I tend to be subdued, so I wanted a subdued wedding as well,” Lauren says. “In the end, it was a floral daydream. Everything had to have flowers on it, so I went crazy.” Lauren carried peonies, anemones, snapdragons and roses, and the cake got the same treatment. The pair even said their vows under an arbor draped in hydrangeas and eucalyptus. — LB
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RECEPTION Lauren and John filled The Forest Event Center with ample amounts of greenery, including evergreen runners, as well as tall arrangements of pastel-colored anemones and roses. GREEN THUMB In light of the botanical theme, guests took home pots of miniature succulents. “I couldn’t go without those,” Lauren says. CENTERPIECES Beyond blooms, different antiques topped tables, including sets of sparkling gold scales, regal busts and candles.
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WEDDING INGREDIENTS CEREMONY & RECEPTION SITE The Forest Event Center, Wappapello, MO PHOTOGRAPHY Dilan and Emma Marion/The Marions EVENT DESIGNER Kate Mullins Design FLOWERS Doniphan Flowers & Gifts GOWN Jewel by David’s Bridal SUIT Calvin Klein, Macy’s; tie & pocket square: The Tie Bar; tie clip: TheWoodApparelCo, Etsy.com WEDDING PARTY ATTIRE David’s Bridal HAIR Chelsea Nelson/The Salon MAKEUP Emma Hayes (cousin) HEADPIECE Etsy.com ENGAGEMENT & WEDDING RINGS Lauren: Whitworth’s Gift Chest Jewelry; John: Rustic and Main STATIONERY Invitations: PipkinPaperCompany, Etsy.com; printing: Minit Print; escort cards & menus: Kate Mullins Design RENTALS The Forest Event Center; Kate Mullins Design CATERING Tasteful Creations Catering CAKE AbbieCakes CAKE TOPPER Doniphan Flowers & Gifts OFFICIANT Parker Williams FAVORS Etsy.com HONEYMOON Estes Park, CO GUESTS 200
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AMONG the F L O W E R S A bespoke Amsterdam styled shoot takes a romantic turn when the real-life couple modeling decides to say “I do.”
B Y A LY S S A LO N G O B U C C O PHOTOGRAPHY BY DANIELLE COONS PHOTOGRAPHY PLANNING & DESIGN BY MANGO MUSE EVENTS, CLASSY AFFAIRS S T A T I O N E R Y, ART DIRECTION + STYLING BY MOMENTAL DESIGNS VENUE ORANGERIE ELSWOUT
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STROKE OF GENIUS Unite your overall vibe with artistic touches at every turn. Here, brush strokes and painted illustrations appear on everything from the place cards and table numbers to the invites and ceremony programs.
PAPER TEAR: SHUTTERSTOCK
Painting and stationery, MomentalDesigns.com; calligraphy, FlourishGraceCalligraphy.com
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FIELD OF DREAMS
A HAPPY H E L LO
Let your ceremony setting do the talking by keeping other details to a minimum.
Greet guests with gift baskets filled with sweet treats and souvenirs.
ALL IN WHITE Brides Robin (left) and Chantal (right) rocked totally unique wedding looks.
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BOLD BUNDLE Accent blooms with small fruits, like the kumquats seen here, for added interest. Flower field, Noordwijkerhout; ceremony chairs, TheBridalBlush.nl; welcome stationery, MomentalDesigns.com; outfits, IDoIDo.nl; bouquet, NicoletteCamille.com
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DESSERT DELIGHT
MARBLED MEMO
Pair an unexpected painterly cake exterior with equally wow-worthy sugar flowers for a bold look.
Escort cards are a great place to nod to your overall design aesthetic. Here, marbled paper and white calligraphy add a colorful touch.
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Splurge on a personalized ketubah or marriage certificate as a displayworthy keepsake of your day.
DINE ALFRESCO Pull colors from your venue into your tabletop dĂŠcor for a dining scene that is in harmony with its surroundings. Cake, SugarLipsCakes.com; calligraphy, FlourishGraceCalligraphy.com; painting, MomentalDesigns.com; centerpiece and table styling, NicoletteCamille.com and TheHouseofArtz.com; tabletop and furniture rentals, MyGreatestRentals.com
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Chantal + Robin When Netherlands-based nutrition influencers and real-life couple Chantal and Robin Settels teamed up with an A+ vendor team (including Mango Muse Events, Classy Affairs, Momental Designs and Equally Wed’s Kirsten Ott Palladino) to model for this styled shoot, making it their actual wedding quickly became a no-brainer. The duo, engaged for three years, rounded up friends and family to pull off a unique— and perfectly styled— celebration in Amsterdam.
We are so here for the chic bridal jumpsuit.
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L AY E R S O F LOV E LY Vine-like hellebores add whispy dimension to a centerpiece.
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Sometimes more is more. Here, a sunny floral centerpiece is complemented by a dynamic blue and gold place setting, bevy of glassware and unique standing vellum menu. Centerpiece and table styling, NicoletteCamille.com and TheHouseofArtz.com; rentals, MyGreatestRentals.com; menu, MomentalDesigns.com
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TAT S F O R T W O Incorporate a cocktail hour activity for guests that nods to a shared passion (temporary tattoos, anyone?).
EDIBLE ART Ensure your main meal is a feast for the eyes—and stomach— by incorporating artistic plating and edible floral accents.
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S I G N AT U R E “ S I P ” Who says your namesake drink has to be a cocktail? Mix things up with bright smoothies or açai bowls instead.
F L OAT I N G FA R E W E L L Exit your ceremony or reception aboard a boat for an extraInsta-worthy moment.
Temporary tattoos, Tattly.com; catering and food styling, TiffanyFoodStylist.com; boat, AmsterdamBoatCenter.com; florals, TheHouseofArtz.com
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From the marble dance floor, to the crystal chandeliers, to the dazzling smiles,
MISSOURI ATHLETIC CLUB WEDDINGS
Amenities for members and guests include: F Event space to accommodate up to 400 guests F Onsite catering for fine dining, wedding cakes, and more F More than 75 hotel rooms F Shuttle service F Complimentary garage parking
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V E N U E TENTED WEDDING
You want classic elegance with a twist, Aries—plus something you can make your own. A ballroom that has hosted many-a-wedding? Not for you, thought leader. Instead, pop up a tent somewhere unexpected and use the blank canvas below to craft a unique wedding with loads of details that are so totally you.
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WILD RULE-BREAKERS Embrace your quirky, adventurous nature with a weekend-long bash at a summer camp. The unique venue is the perfect way to celebrate your silly side, so pack your wedding events full of fun of details, like custom mugs and camp color wars.
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Built in 1927, the Casa Loma Ballroom is St. Louis’ last “grand ballroom” featuring a 5,000-square-foot “floating” dance floor and 30’ stage. With seating from 150 to 850 guests, the Casa Loma offers a variety of packages for your special day. Unique individual service provided by the owners.
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S C O R P I O OCT 23-NOV 21 V E N U E RESTAURANT DARING DUO Dark, mysterious, reserved. Sound like you, Scorpio? We thought so—and we have a hunch that you’ll love the exclusive privacy a moody restaurant (or even speakeasy!) will lend to your day.
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C a rou s e l Up to 350 guests Carousel staff Tables & chairs included Variety of catering options
Call (314) 615-8344 15189 Olive Blvd. Chesterfield, MO 63017
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Pisces gravitate toward spaces with a dreamy quality, so an airy, light-filled greenhouse is the perfect spot to swap vows with your forever person. Keep décor to a minimum (too much “stuff ” can overwhelm you) and the guest list intimate to cater to your introverted nature.
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KINDRED SPIRITS
Find your dream venue at THE K N OT.CO M/MARK ETPL ACE
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COOL TONES
AN OMBRÉ OF NAVYS, TEALS AND EMERALD GREENS COMBINES FOR A FRESH NEW TAKE ON THE WEDDING CLASSIC “SOMETHING BLUE” FRO M TO P TO B OT TO M: Dreaming invitation in Sea,
from $234 for 100, iamtanya, Minted.com; Emerald Gold Foliage invitation, $6 for digital download, plpapers, Etsy .com; Monstera Impression invitation, from $204 for 100, PaperCulture.com; Galeria invitation in navy, from $234 for 100, Kelly Schmidt, Minted.com; Cotton Air invitation in Seaside, from $234 for 100, Lea Velasquez, MInted.com
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JUICY CITRUS HUES PAIR WITH PEACHES AND PINKS F O R A P O P -Y A N D M O D E R N LOOK THAT ’S FIT FOR A BASH FRO M TO P TO B OT TO M: Modern Rose invitation, $20 for digital download, SamBlankenshipDesign, Etsy .com; Light Pop Art Botanical invitation, $50 for digital download, blacklabstudio, Etsy.com; Angel invitation set, from $27, PeachWolfePaperCo, Etsy.com; Modern Minimalist invitation, $7 for digital download, BrownFoxCreative, Etsy.com; Abstract invitation, $26 for digital download, AmyTarahDesigns, Etsy.com
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RICH ONYX, STARK WHITE AND SHADES O F G R AY M A K E FO R A N ELEGANT YET DARING STATIONERY SUITE FRO M TO P TO B OT TO M: Terrazzo Frame invitation in Tuxedo, from $234 for 100, Amy Payne, Minted.com; Sheer Elegance invitation, from $25 for digital download, ZebraPress, Etsy.com; Vintage Florals invitation, from $148 for 100, PaperCulture.com; Black and White Modern invitation, from $255 for 100, finedaypress, Etsy.com; Black invitation, from $270 for 100, TheFabledPapery, Etsy.com
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G O L D, S I LV E R A N D C O P P E R F O I L M I X WITH MODERN TYPOGRAPHY AND DESIGN D E TA I L S F O R A V E R Y- N O W TA K E O N G L A M FRO M TO P TO B OT TO M: River Rock invitation in Pebble, from $270 for 100, AK Graphics, Minted.com; Foil Blocks in Silver/Blue, from $204 for 100, PaperCulture.com; Wedding Corners invitation in silver, from $204 for 100, PaperCulture.com; All Foil Paintbrush invitation, from $290 for 100, PaperSource .com; Wild Blooms invitation in Poppy and Rose Gold, from $270 for 100, Christie Kelly, Minted.com; Aerial invitation in Sandstone and Rose Gold, from $270 for 100, Grace Kreinbrink, Minted.com
145 Dylan’s Candy Bar (DylansCandyBar.com) hooked us up with the goodies seen in this feature. If you’re a duo with a major sweet tooth, why not consider a candy bar at your celebration?!
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When it comes to the details… Relax, we’ve got you covered. Let our coordinator design your perfect event in our brand new Clubhouse. REDUCED MINIMUMS FOR FRIDAYS AND SUNDAYS
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If pricey peonies are on your musthave list, be prepared to save elsewhere.
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and small, to help you spend wisely on your way to “I do.”
vendor and venue recommendations specific to your budget, which means no more falling in love with a pricey pro you can’t afford (don’t worry, we’ve all been there). The result? An easy-to-follow spending road map that will ensure you stay in the black from your first deposit to your last tip.
FIRST, LAND ON THE RIGHT NUMBER FOR YOU
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Before you write a single check, figure out how much you can afford to spend. That’s where we come in—with The Knot Wedding Planner app, we’ll help you settle on the right number for your celebration and offer suggestions for how much of that budget you should put toward each part of your wedding, from catering to cake. Plus, we’ll help you turn money to action with
When it comes to wedding planning, there’s no shame in playing favorites. Before you do too much research, sit down with your partner and make a list of each of your celebration priorities. The goal? Decipher where your money is best spent and what will really set the day apart for you. Remember, there are no wrong answers here—and it’s okay not to agree on everything! ››
make the most of your money when planning your celebration. To help, we’ve rounded up our best tips, big
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Make your wedding unforgettable! Three Elegant Ballrooms • Classic Cuisine Menu • Buffet or Sit Down Options • Space for Up to 500 Guests • Complimentary Suite for Bride and Groom • Exceptional White Glove Service • Competitive All Inclusive Packages • Located in the Heart of Clayton For more information or to schedule an appointment, please contact one of our wedding specialists at 314-727-7434 or email info@cpclayton.com
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This is all about compromising and figuring out what’s going to make you and your partner the happiest. Once you have your list, move forward with booking those vendors first and spending your money accordingly.
selection, opt for a high-impact item, like a wow-worthy charger plate or patterned tablecloth. Anything else will likely go unnoticed by your guests and isn’t worth the up-charge.
GO FOR GREENERY It may sound harsh, but the best way to save money is to slim down your guest list. Each person you invite adds to your budget—you’re likely shelling out at least $100 per person between catering and entertainment—so compile your invites thoughtfully. Consider giving a plus-one only to couples that are engaged, married or living together. Then, if you still need to size down, put a few hard-and-fast rules in place, like “no coworkers.” The tighter you keep your count, the more money you’ll have to put toward other details, like a string quartet for the ceremony.
HIRE A WEDDING PLANNER This may seem counterintuitive, but hear us out. Spending up front on a knowledgeable wedding planner can pay off big time for your budget and your sanity. A skilled pro will help you navigate everything from vendor selections to contract negotiations, ensuring you’re spending smart throughout the process. Another bonus? They’ll have a handle on venues and services in your area, so they can help you score insider-only deals and achieve coveted looks for way less.
Good news—this piece of advice is totally on trend. Big blooms often up the price per arrangement, so stretch your floral budget by opting for a greenery-heavy look instead. Utilize a textural mix of greenery for larger moments at your wedding, like a hanging installation. Then, concentrate your flower usage to areas that will be center stage in photos, like your bridal bouquet.
OPT FOR A ROAMING DINNER If you’re hoping to save on catering, and a bare-bones buffet isn’t really your style, look no further than the roaming dinner. Basically an all-night cocktail hour, an up-and-at-’em dinner consisting of passed bites and serve-yourself stations is a fresh (and frugal) take on the traditional reception meal. You’ll save some money since there’s less waitstaff needed, and guests will get to mingle all night instead sitting down for a formal meal. Just make sure the variety (and amount) of food guests would expect of a traditional dinner is still there, with lots of options.
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PLAY UP YOUR VENUE DÉCOR Choosing a party spot with good bones is a priority when looking to make the most of your money. Getting a great deal on a ballroom won’t matter if you have to then spend big to cover up ’80s wallpaper and flooring you hate. You want to make sure your chosen venue feels 85 percent of the way “there” without having to add anything extra. When touring potential locations, pay attention to things you can’t tweak easily (or without spending a fortune), like good lighting, an open space, inoffensive wall coverings and decent flooring. From that “blank” slate, you can then work with your vendors to come up with décor accents that fit the space’s characteristics (and your budget), instead of working hard to disguise them.
SKIP THE RENTALS Trust us, no one is going to remember whether you chose silver or gold flatware on your wedding day. When it comes to rentals, it’s best to work with what your venue has to offer. While it may be necessary to rent some items, when it comes to purely stylistic choices, avoid upgrading unnecessarily if your budget doesn’t have the wiggle room. If you must elevate your venue’s basic dinnerware
Stick with the tabletop items your venue has on hand to save big on rentals.
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At our floral design center, our professional designers are dedicated to bringing your dream wedding to life. Your floral coordinator will help you with varieties, colors and trends. From elegant to extravagant, your special day is our top priority! To make an appointment, call (314) 997-2444.
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WEDDINGS AND RECEPTIONS—LET THE CELEBRATION BEGIN
From weddings to anniversaries, holiday parties to birthdays and everything in between, Whitmoor Country Club, with its elegant clubhouse, lush golf course views and wonderful menu choices, offers you a superb location for all your celebrations. This is the place for festivities that your guests will remember forever. 1100 Whitmoor Drive, St. Charles, MO 63304 636.926.9622 | sputnam@whitmoorgolf.com
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It’s important that the photographer and the couple are on the same page about what they value in wedding pictures.
The photography industry can be complicated to navigate as a newly engaged couple, and hiring your wedding day photographer is arguably one of the biggest decisions you make throughout your entire planning journey. After all, this will be the person or team responsible for capturing all those emotional, tangible moments (not to mention all the beautiful details you’ve spent months planning) that will allow you to relive your day 10 or 20 years from now. Don’t stress—we’re here to help you out. We’ve rounded up our best advice to guide you in narrowing down your style and finding a true-to-you photography pro perfect for capturing every second of your unique celebration.
and contrast-y editorials of a favorite fashion blogger, then maybe you’ll want to seek out a photographer with a flair for the exaggerated and dramatic. By pairing your aesthetic choices (hint: you figured these out in step one) with the “vibe” you desire, you’ll end up with a photography blueprint that you can then easily articulate to potential pros to help explain your goals when it comes to your wedding pictures.
The first step to finding your dream photographer is a fun one (seriously!)—just go get inspired. Spend some time poring over any and every kind of imagery you love, such as sunny home décor shots, a fashion blogger’s Instagram feed or moody avantgarde French movie posters. Save each image that draws your eye as you go—then, once you have a good collection of inspiring photographs, take a step back and try to narrow in on what draws you to them specifically. Is it the soft pastel color palette? The offthe-cuff happy grins of the people in the picture? The interesting angles and perspectives? The more you familiarize yourself with what details you like, the easier it will be for you to eventually identify that same quality in a potential photographer’s portfolio.
DECIDE ON A “FEELING” Once you and your partner have figured out what inspires you image-wise, dig deeper and dissect what feels most authentic to your relationship and celebration, and how you envision your eventual wedding album looking. If you’re a timeless couple that has your heart set on formal, Vanity Fair-like family portraits, you may gravitate toward a more classic photography style. If a lot of your inspiration ended up being fly-on-the-wall images that bottle an authentic moment in time, then lifestyle photography may be the right choice for you. If you fell in love with the sharp
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DO YOUR RESEARCH Now’s the time to hit the web and find the pro who will bring your day to life. Browse The Knot Marketplace for photographers (and other vendors) in your area and price range, then peruse their portfolios and social media channels to identify if they’d be a good fit for your day. As you browse, ask yourself questions that are good indicators for a successful “match.” How do they capture the moments that are important to you? Have they shot in a venue similar to yours (bonus points if they’ve worked at your venue before)? Do they seem friendly and personable with their online audience? If available, check out reviews from past couples as well. Then, go ahead and send an introductory email with a bit of info about you and your soon-to-be spouse, your event (don’t forget to include your date!) and the vision for your day—you can even attach a few inspiration images you love from their portfolio, if you’d like. Once you’ve chatted about specifics (like whether their cal is even free to shoot your wedding), schedule some time to talk with them either on the phone or via video chat before signing on the dotted line so you can get to know each other on a personal and professional level. Why? You’ll be spending the most time with them on your wedding day, and you want to feel comfortable as they capture some of your and your family’s most emotional moments. ››
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Tip: Skip the detailed shot list (they don’t need it!) and, instead, perfect your day-of timeline to pass off to your photographer. envisioning, like retouching services or an engagement session. Ask about any additional fees that could add up too, like having to pay for your photographer’s travel and lodging. Finally, settle on an image delivery date and make sure it’s reflected in your contract so you know exactly when you can expect your shots.
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FINESSE THE CONTRACT To get the most out of your photography investment, you’re going to want to make note of several important points when choosing your package and reviewing your contract. Most photographers offer a variety of services to suit their couples’ individual needs. This can include everything from day-of edits and digital proofs to adding a second shooter, scoring tangible prints and ordering a gorgeously assembled album. With all those options for customization, it’s easy to get overwhelmed and feel unsure about what you actually want or need. When you’re ready to make things official, present your chosen photographer with your budget and rough day-of timeline and get their opinion on the best package for you. The amount of time they spend at an event or the number of shots they provide you with may be flexible, so see if you can find a middle ground that works for both of you. Now is also the time to inquire about the cost of any add-ons you’re
Instead of putting together a detailed shot list for your photographer, pass along your final day-of timeline a few weeks ahead of your wedding and give them an idea of what images you’d like captured (like a picture with each bridesmaid or detail shots of the heirloom jewelry you’ll be wearing). Then, let them do their thing! As long as you’ve provided a schedule that you’ll (mostly) stick to, they’ll be able to budget for time spent on your details, dance floor and everything in between on their own accord. Ahead of the wedding is also the time to give them a heads-up on any familial or friendship intricacies they should be aware of, like divorced parents who may want separate family portraits, a grandmother that needs to remain seated for shots, or a groomsman and bridesmaid that don’t get along (hey, it happens). If you’re hoping to get your wedding published online or in a magazine, relay that to your photographer as well. This way, they’ll know to put a little extra emphasis on snapping shots of all your amazing details and will likely come armed with gorgeous styling accessories, like ribbons, linens and more—all with the goal of helping your wedding day aesthetic truly stand out.
BE RELAXED AND READY Guys, take a big deep breath with us now. You’ve put a lot of work into finding and working with the right photographer up until this point, so—like with all your pros—it’s time to put your total faith in them. In the week leading up to your wedding, reach out to re-confirm all the important details (like your venue location, day-of timeline and any surprises you’ve planned for your guests or partner) and answer any lingering questions they may have, then chill out. The only thing that’s left for you and your partner to do now is enjoy yourselves and go get hitched— your pros will happily take care of the rest.
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Adam Pane is the owner and photographer behind Savile Row Visuals in Kansas City. He loves meeting new people and capturing moments that stand the test of time.
Hire someone who demonstrates kindness, direction and service. Your photographer should understand the timeline for the day and be able to provide direction when needed.
I always tell clients to do an engagement shoot because it allows a photog to understand the “why” behind their love story a little bit better prior to photographing their day.
Make note of any “in-between” moments you want shot, like a parent’s happy tears or your heirloom jewelry. It’s important to capture what makes your wedding day unique.
Photo trends come and go, so unless you really love something of the moment, let it go. I want my couples to look back at their wedding photos and enjoy them years down the road.
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A nature-inspired aesthetic benefits from a bit of edge with matte-black accents, botanical illustrations and sleek, modern details.
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Flower seed packets (with vintage sketches) double as unique escort cards.
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Clockwise from top: Crisp matte black dinner plate, $8, CB2.com; Matte black flatware, $20 for 5-piece set, Hearth & Hand with Magnolia, Target .com; Fern Frame invitation suite in onyx and rose gold, from $270 for 100, Alethea and Ruth, Minted.com; Black and gold bowl, $5, JamaliGarden.com
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Farm-to-Table Fresh Food is the focus of this delicious décor vibe. Play up farmer’s market accents (like cheese plate centerpieces) with rich hues of wine and emerald for a scene that’s a feast for the eyes—and stomach.
Pickled veggies in weck jars are an easy and unexpected twist on table numbers.
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Instead of traditional floral centerpieces, display heirloom veggies on vintage trays.
Clockwise from top: Weck jars, $36 for 12, Amazon.com; Brass candle, $86, BellocqTea.com; Fire kit, $78, FSObjects.com; Taper candles in Forest Green, $8, RavenwoodNY.com; Cotton napkin in Dusty Green, $8 for 4, WorldMarket.com; Silo dinnerware side plate, $75, FarmhousePottery.com; Linen trim in Modern Neutral I, StephanieSealBrown.com; Large raw edge wood paddle cutting board, $30, WorldMarket.com; Streamlined cheese knives, $24 for set of 3, Anthropologie.com; Cheeses, CypressGroveCheese .com; Charcuterie, DArtagnan.com; 1930’s bandana in Adobe, $85, OZMAofCalifornia.com
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Bottle those good vibrations with a happy palette reminiscent of the West Coast. Pink, peach and coral team with zesty citrus details for a look that’s equal parts playful and energizing. Use your invitation suite to give guests an early peek into your event style.
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Dried citrus and resin are the key ingredients for this DIY keepsake place card idea.
Clockwise from top: Citrus fruits FrogHollow.com; Mara marble serving board, $150, HawkinsNY.com; Modern melamine dinnerplate in pink grapefruit, $8, WestElm.com; Color Block invitation suite in Blush, from $234 for 100, Morgan Kendall, Minted.com; Drift matte yellow dinner plate, $12, CB2.com; L’Ecole des Beaux Arts Studio watercolor pigments, from $8, LDBAStudio.com; Envelope, BrownFoxCreative, Etsy.com; Kaleido tray in peach, $40, Hay, Amara.com; Lemon salt and pepper set, $22, Amazon.com; Linen trim in Fresh Yellow, StephanieSealBrown.com; Nomikai fizzy rose, $48 for 12, DrinkNomikai .com; Dona spice soda, from $12 each, DrinkDona.com; Tost beverage, $30 for 12, TostBeverages.com
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McKelvey Vineyards Celebrate your special day in sophisticated charm! McKelvey Vineyards is Missouri’s newest event venue, where lush landscapes and sophisticated charm serve as the perfect setting. Whether you are planning an anniversary, wedding, reception, birthday party, graduation or holiday party, the staff at McKelvey Vineyards will work closely with you to ensure your event is a success. You and your guests will be in awe, from the 1871 stone farmhouse to open-air pavilion, and the photo opportunities are endless. McKelvey Vineyards is the ideal location. JEN@MCKELVEYVINEYARDS.COM • JENNIFER DEVERS • 636.669.9111
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STYLE + PLANNING Die-cut savethe-dates made with iridescent paper are sure to catch guests’ attention.
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Manic Pixie
There’s throwing a party—and then there’s throwing a party. Pack in the color, sparkle and shine with a more-is-more wedding scene that ignites disco fever. All that’s missing? You two newlyweds, setting the dance floor on fire.
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Clockwise from top left: Lets Party headbands, $8, Ginger Ray, Target.com; Iridescent rainbow paper plates, $6, Ginger Ray, Amazon.com; Silversmiths Logan rainbow mirror flatware, $100 for 20-piece set, Cambridge, BedBathandBeyond .com; Mirror disco ball ornaments, $5 for 6, ShopWildThings.com; Marta dusty blue luster double-old fashioned glass, $5, CB2.com
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Water’s Edge Banquet Center
OPENING FALL 2019 IN ST. PETERS! Water’s Edge Banquet Center at St. Peters Golf Club is located on a scenic 18-hole golf course with a beautiful lake view! Enjoy our contemporary features including a relaxing cocktail hour space with a welcoming multi-sided fireplace, outdoor veranda ceremony location, banquet rooms for up to 350 guests, spacious deck overlooking the lake, complimentary dressing room suite with banquet package, your choice of outside catering, and located just off of Interstate 70 close to all your favorite accommodations. Now booking for 2019 and beyond!
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What Pros Wish You Would Ask We went right to the source—some of our favorite wedding experts, of course— to get the lowdown on what they wish engaged couples would ask them. B Y A LY S S A LO N G O B U C C O
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There’s no denying it—your pros are the A-team that’s going to make your wedding day vision come to life. That crazy-cool floral display you saved on Pinterest? They can pull it off. The remote beachfront vows you’ve been envisioning since you said “yes?” They’ll make it happen. With weddings big and small under their belt, they’re also an endless wealth of knowledge. Since you can’t pick the brain of every vendor out there, we’ve done the work for you, tapping some of our favorite pros for the advice they wish couples would ask them for. THE PRO
Annie Brooks, owner and stationery designer THE WELLS MAKERY (DURANGO, CO)
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Gretchen Culver, owner and creative director ROCKET SCIENCE EVENTS (MINNEAPOLIS)
WHAT ’S THE DIFFERENCE BETWEEN WEDDING PLANNING AND WEDDING DESIGN? By knowing the difference between planning and design, a couple can more easily identify and prioritize what they need help with. I hear this statement a lot: “I need a wedding planner to help turn my ideas into reality,” which often really means they need design help, not help with planning tasks like creating a timeline or managing their budget. Couples just don’t know the difference because there’s no consistent terminology used throughout the industry to clearly define various vendors’ roles. I think a lot of people use the overarching term “wedding planner” to talk about both. However, design is an entirely different service and skill set. Hire a professional that gets your needs and can take your vision to the next level. Then, trust your team 100 percent—if you don’t, there’s no way they’ll be able to do their best for you. Lastly, if you’re not drawn to the work in someone’s portfolio from the start, then you probably won’t like the results they produce for your wedding.
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Kelsey Carpenter, owner, calligrapher and stationery designer KELSEY MALIE CALLIGRAPHY (CHICAGO)
WHAT SPLURGES DO YOU RECOMMEND? If you’re feeling overwhelmed by the upgrades and add-on options available to you for your wedding paper (think: varying print methods, paper types and more), don’t be afraid to ask your stationer what they suggest. Their experience and expertise can help you navigate the long list of choices and define a cohesive vision that fits your wedding aesthetic. They can also recommend areas where you might be able to save, as well as splurges that will have a big impact. Weddings that stand out as unique and memorable are always the ones where a sense of the couple’s personality comes through in each detail, so find a stationer or designer you can work with from your save-the-dates to cocktail napkins. It’s a wonderful way to keep your paper cohesive and personal from start to finish. THE PRO
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WHAT DO YOU NEED FROM US TO DO THE BEST JOB POSSIBLE? We love when clients ask us what we need to create the best wedding video for them. Giving us our own dedicated time during the day to do artistic shots is huge—the more time we have with you, the more footage we can get, and the better your final product will be. This can also include simpler things that many clients don’t think of, like making sure to get ready or do your first look in an area that provides great natural light. ››
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We like to know whether or not our style is going to bring out the best in a couple’s vision. Asking an artist to create a stationery suite that isn’t congruent with their style is like walking into a soup café and asking for homemade ice cream. They might be able to pull something together for you, but it won’t be their best creation, and it won’t be as good as what you can get from the ice cream shop down the street. We love working with couples when we know that we can really make their concept shine. When we’re all really excited about what we’re creating together, and when we trust each other, it feels like it comes together naturally rather than by force.
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Alysse Sweeney, owner, principal event designer and coordinator DESIGN STUDIO SOUTH (SAVANNAH, GA)
CAN YOU WORK WITHIN OUR BUDGET? While not necessarily a fun topic, it’s extremely important for the couple and their planner to have a thorough discussion of the wedding budget as early on in the process as possible. A planner’s goal is always to meet fully, if not exceed, the couple’s expectations. But those expectations must also be rooted within a realistic financial budget that the couple is prepared to address and afford. Come to an initial planning meeting with an idea of who will be contributing and how much. Then, throughout the process, if you’re unsure of what an item or vendor may cost, don’t hesitate to ask your planner. THE PRO
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WHAT IDEAS D O YOU HAVE? I love when my couples or clients come in with pictures of other cakes—it acts as a great jumping-off point and helps me to establish their design aesthetic. But from there, allow me to adapt and add my own ideas. I can use techniques that I’m good at executing and combine elements to ensure you get something beautiful and unique, rather than copying another baker’s work or trying out an unfamiliar method that won’t end up looking as nice.
DESIGN STUDIO SOUTH A pro will help your day run smoothly from beginning to end.
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A stunning centerpiece or wow-worthy altar can set the scene for your whole day, so it’s not a place to try and cut corners. You may not realize, but flower arranging takes a lot of prep work—from sourcing the blooms and prepping the stems and leaves, to keeping the arrangements at the optimal temperature leading up to your event so they don’t brown and wilt. You don’t need that stress! Plus, with help from a pro, you can create a cost-effective design plan that stuns, whatever your budget.
You may be a fanatical foodie or Ina Garten wannabe, but catering a large party is a huge undertaking, even for a culinary wiz. You’d be hard-pressed to prepare enough food for 100 people and keep it hot, not to mention the fact that you have to, you know, get married. Catering teams are trained to make it happen (and make it delicious), plus they have the staff to serve you and your guests in a timely manner. So just sit back, relax and enjoy your eats.
It’s tempting to rock out to your favorite tunes with an iPod during your reception, but it’s not quite that simple. Making your own playlist means you’ll be limited to just the music you love as a couple, not necessarily what everyone else will enjoy, and you likely won’t have the gear you need to make it loud enough for a party. Music pros (be it a DJ or band) set the mood and are trained to read the dance floor. Translation: They’ll ensure your guests are partying all night long.
Years from now, your photos are one of the few tangible things you’ll have to remember your wedding by. A loved one or friend may promise to capture every moment, but what happens if they get distracted or use faulty camera equipment? You don’t want the heartbreak of finding out your first kiss came out blurry or your grand exit was completely missed. Hire a seasoned photographer, and you’ll be sure to score high-quality images and unforgettable moments.
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hether you’re a boholoving artist or an amateur sommelier, your bridal shower should be a day-of celebration that reflects you. We’ve rounded up a ton of fresh themes to help spark some serious shower inspiration. Pass them onto your crew, your MIL or your planner and get ready to enjoy the best day ever.
A MIDSUMMER’S DAY DREAM Floral-loving brides will swoon over a garden party-themed shower, complete with whimsical, feminine details. Decorate tables with a variety of pastel-hued flowers and tiered trays of sandwiches and sweets. Then, set up a DIY tea bar where guests can create their own mix to steep. (Tea not your jam? Give it a boozy brunch twist with a bellini bar instead!) Wrap up the day with a botanical-inspired activity, like flower crown making or plant-yourown herb pots, to echo the dreamy, pastoral setting.
Can’t wait for your romantic retreat after swapping vows? Your honeymoon doesn’t have to feel so far away if you let your getaway inspire your bridal shower. Theme the day’s décor and events based off of your chosen trip location, like a tiki party to echo your upcoming Hawaiian escape. Set up tropical touches like palm leaves, tiki torches and pineapples at home (or on a local beach) to create a mini oasis. Greet friends and family with fresh leis, and encourage an island-like atmosphere by serving up tropical drinks from a tiki bar and beachy bites like fresh mango salsa and grilled fish kebabs. When it comes to your registry, add wish list goodies that will seriously upgrade your honeymoon, like matching suitcases for your travels or cash for unique activities like surf lessons with The Knot Cash Fund. Thank your crew for “making the trip” with a honeymoon-inspired favor, like custom beach bags.
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DESTINATION AFFAIR If you’re planning a destination wedding, ask the important women in your life to join you a day or two early and host your bridal shower nearby to bottle the essence of your chosen spot and give guests a more in-depth cultural experience. Allow your location to inspire your group activity, like a boat tour along the Amalfi Coast, a scenic hike in the Rocky Mountains or a
museum tour and a canal cruise in Amsterdam. Whatever your far-flung locale, this is the perfect opportunity for you and your guests to enjoy each other’s company and learn a little more about your city of love. Finish off your dreamy day with a unique favor inspired by your experience, like a sleeve of macarons from your Parisian soiree or handmade leather sandals from the island of Capri. ››
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Pick your fave binge-worthy TV show or movie and spin it into an event even better than a chick flick night in. Obsessed with Game of Thrones and can’t imagine your shower without Jon Snow? Then bring him along! Well, not literally. Turn your party venue into a GoT-inspired fortress, decking out the space with House banners, a throne for your spot at the table, a menu inspired by the show and, of course, personal goblet cups. If that isn’t your thing, you could theme a party around whatever is—like I Love Lucy, Stranger Things and even The Office. Finish the day by gifting everyone Netflix gift cards so they can binge on their own.
Think of a pool party shower as the perfect way to tackle the heat and unite all of your favorite ladies for some fun in the sun. Consider renting out a private pool at a chic local hotel and personalize the space with fun décor, like kitchy pool floats, Instaworthy tropical florals and a retro, summer-ready playlist. You and your guests can enjoy icy refreshments (piña coladas, anyone?) and snacks like fresh fruit kebabs and lobster rolls. Once you’ve all soaked up enough vitamin D, bid your guests farewell with monogrammed floppy straw hats and a fun pair of sunnies to remember your celebration.
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Make a backyard pool feel festive by decking it out with a slew of white balloon “bubbles”—and a well-stocked bar!
What sounds better than time with your favorite gals over a few glasses of vino? (Answer: Nothing!) Celebrate your upcoming nuptials by hosting the ladies you love at a vineyard, restaurant or even your home for an intimate wine tasting. Hire a pro sommelier to run you through a blind tasting, or compile a selection of your favorite whites and reds on your own for friends and family to try out. Pair the varietals with complementary snacks and a charcuterie board, then send guests on their way with a personalized wine glass and a custom-labeled bottle of wine to commemorate the vino-filled day.
APRÈS SKI LOUNGE Calling all snow bunnies! Whether you’re saying vows in the flurries or your shower just happens to take place in the winter season, embrace the big chill with a chic winter wonderland bash. Rent out a cozy lodge or restaurant with a fireplace, then enhance the frosty vibes with rustic décor, plush faux-fur throws, a hot chocolate bar and twinkly lights everywhere. Have guests rock a “uniform” of their favorite flannel button-downs or knit sweaters and treat them to unique activities like sugar cookie decorating or a cute photo booth with ski equipment, furry hats, gloves and witty signs. End the day with a sweet (and cozy!) favor, like custom mugs and hot chocolate packets. ››
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If you’re a dedicated Pilates-goer, health food nut or a bride-to-be that just needs a little extra pampering time with her girls, then this is the shower theme for you. Inquire about renting a private room at a local spa or hire a company that will bring the R&R to your home, where you can offer up indulgences like manicures and pedicures, facials and even massages. Encourage the gals in attendance to rock their comfiest clothes (you can even give out slippers as a gift), then Zen out together while enjoying pampering, spa music and healthy bites like açai bowls or superfood smoothies. Finish the day with custom bath bomb and sheet mask favors.
We’re looking at you, DIY queen! Channel your creative passions into a bridal shower fit for a Pinterest obsessive and her crew. Book a class at a private art studio, pour some cocktails and get creating. Feel like spicing things up? Look for a joint that offers up a cute model as artistic inspiration (sorry, Gram!). If brush strokes aren’t exactly your specialty, opt for a ceramics or woodworking class instead—after all, what better time to try out something new than with your friends and family? Once you’ve created your masterpieces, head to a nice restaurant to share a few bites and sneak a peek at the group’s creations. Who knows—there may be a Picasso among you!
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CULTURAL EXCURSION Enlighten loved ones to the important cultural elements that make you you with a shower celebration that incorporates you or your partner’s heritage. Pinpoint a few traditions, ceremonies or religious practices you can work into your day—think: flamenco dancing class in traditional dress, or a Japanese tea ceremony with matcha and sweets. You can also let your culture inspire the day’s favors by gifting guests something unique to your history, like custom bottles of sake or traditional bindi.
Fit for a foodie that wants to celebrate the big day by sharing her all-time fave eats with her squad, a cooking class shower is our idea of a good time. Enjoy being a chef for a day with a personalized class held at a nearby restaurant or culinary store (both Sur La Table and Williams Sonoma offer a slew of courses). Pull together a custom menu made up of all your and your partner’s favorite dishes, and outfit guests with personalized aprons they can cook in and bring home after (so cute, right?). Before they head home, encourage friends and family to sign a recipe card “guest book,” complete with instructions for their favorite date night dishes.
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Contemplating how to serve up the main meal and drinks at your celebration? These FIVE totally out there (and obviously very cool) wedding catering trends are what’s for dinner. B Y A LY S S A LO N G O B U C C O
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ngaged foodies are transforming their wedding reception into a must-eat event with countless creative takes on traditional catering. From fire and flames to custom curated menus and photoworthy installations—a meal is no longer just a meal. Want in on all the delicious fun? Check out five of our favorite food trends happening now.
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If you’re looking for a standout moment that will leave guests ’gramming, hire a catering team with creative display techniques. Delicious food is a must-have, of course—but setups that have guests interacting with their meal are an even better upgrade. Look to bring in a local catering team that injects their food service with a bit of theatrics (like having guests press their own grilled cheese, pluck the cocktail of their choice from a conveyor belt or spin a prize wheel for a surprise pizza slice). The goal? A wayabove-average food experience that entertains your guests while they eat and will leave everyone talking long after your wedding is over. If you’ve already nailed down your menu and catering team, infuse your day with a little bit of magic by dreaming up creative ways to package or pass some bites already on your menu, like a pegboard wall of cotton candy or a late-night burger bar with a cheeky sign that reads “friends don’t let friends go home hangry.”
PERFECTLY PERSONALIZED PICKS You and your partner want every inch of your wedding to reflect the two of you, so your food selection shouldn’t be any different. Couples are personalizing all aspects of their day, down to the menu they’re serving at their reception. For a fun twist on signature cocktails, why not try signature
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menus? Maybe bae is a bit more spicy, while you prefer rich, savory classics—you can each work to curate your own courses for the day and allow your guests to choose which side they’ll take. Or include a bit of your history and heritage into the eats by asking your pros to adapt a few favorite family recipes for the evening. Guests will love cocktail hour bites of Grandma Ruth’s mac and cheese or Mom’s famous chicken tikka masala. A menu reflecting both where you’ve come from and what you like as a duo is the perfect way to start your marriage off on the right fork. ››
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ON-THE-MOVE MEAL We’ve got news: The one-size-fitsall dinner reception structure is no longer the only option. If the idea of sitting down to a three-hour formal meal isn’t your thing, try a roaming dinner instead. Feed your friends and fam from an assortment of delicious passed appetizers and food stations, like waiters with barker trays for on-the-go oyster shucking, a guac bar or even a mozzarella-pulling station. The goal is to keep guests moving, mixing and mingling so they don’t get bored or feel like they’re missing out on party time. Another perk? Without the need for traditional tables, chairs and place settings, you’ll save on rentals and possibly even staff count (as they won’t need to serve each table like at a sit-down reception). Just remember—guests will still need somewhere to perch, so be sure to set up several different high-top cocktail tables and cool lounge areas for added comfort.
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THE NEW FARM-TO-TABLE Local is in when it comes to weddings, and that fresh mentality extends from florals to—you guessed it—food. For a dining experience that encapsulates everything about your locale, opt for a farm-to-table menu from start to finish. More and more catering companies are meeting the demand and focusing their menus on seasonal goodness, like sustainable and local meats, fish and produce, for a wedding meal that represents both the couple and their region of choice. If you’re lucky enough to be getting married in a foodrich area or time of year, encourage your team to utilize veggies, proteins or spices unique to your spot, like fresh lobster in Maine or a well-known barbecue rub in Texas. Not only will you be scoring food in its best form (think: peak freshness and added color), but you’ll also be giving back to the local community. It’s a very mindful, sustainable, 2020 way to wedding.
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IN-YOUR-FACE PRESENTATIONS If you’ve ever been wowed by a fishmonger filleting a catch right in front of you, or excited by the flames of a hibachi grill, then this idea may be for you. When planning out your wedding day catering, look for a crew that can essentially pop up a live restaurant on your event ground. You’ll instantly upgrade what was once a basic meal into a fullblown event at your reception. That can mean transforming your outdoor venue into a legit working barbecue joint that’s cooking up spit-roasted pig and heirloom chickens over an open flame in front of your guests, or a tableside assembly of artistically-inspired dessert spread (read: decorative chocolate smears and edible florals). The end result? A unique dining experience that will keep guests entertained long into your reception and create a one-of-a-kind event they won’t soon forget.
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To set yourselves up for the greatest chance of success, begin convos in a gentle manner, especially if they’re around an emotionally charged topic like money or each other’s family. Focus on how you’re feeling and what you need from your partner. Use a kind tone and sit down to chat so you can both focus your attention on the issue at hand. Try kicking it off with this: I feel ___________ when ___________ happens. I need ___________ from you.
NEWS FLASH: YOUR PARTNER CANNOT READ YOUR MIND. SORRY. The human desire to be “known” can often lead to the assumption that your partner can read your mind. Um, nope. Research shows that direct communication around both your needs (also known as emotional calls) is the key to a successful relationship. Literally, ask for what you need so your partner can acknowledge and meet that need. It’s that easy.
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THERE ARE ALWAYS TWO VALID REALITIES AT PLAY DURING A DISAGREEMENT. It’s easy to get caught up in a win-lose battle when it comes to arguments—naturally, you want to convince your partner of your viewpoint and win them over. But don’t overlook the fact that you’re on the same team and both of your opinions are valid. Focus on understanding their take on reality—you don’t have to agree, but try to find at least one part of it to validate.
OUR BRAINS ARE GOOD AT FORMING EXPECTATIONS FOR THE FUTURE BUT BAD AT KNOWING WHAT WILL REALLY MAKE US HAPPY You probably have expectations about what marriage will be like—trust us, we’ve been there. But putting that kind of pressure on your future can be a fast track to unhappiness. Instead, create healthy (and realistic) expectations for your marriage by talking through your dreams, visions and goals for the future with your partner from the start.
Ah, the C word. When handled correctly, it can actually strengthen your marriage. When two people partner up, they often neglect their own beliefs to “keep the peace.” But instead of going away, these beliefs surface as conflict. During a fight, try to understand your partner’s story beneath their argument.
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YOU MARRY A PERSON— AND THEIR SET OF PROBLEMS. You and your partner will likely fight over the same issues repeatedly. Typically, they’ll focus on differences relating to your personalities or lifestyle choices. Our tip? Learn how to manage those conflicts, not resolve them. This means reaching an understanding about your differences, not a resolution. You’ll grow in empathy and emotional connection while respecting your differences.
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Let’s be honest: Disagreements are inevitable. And although it can be tempting to pull out the “You never...” or “You always...” in a heated argument, those phrases are not actually factual or helpful. Furthermore, they’ll likely put your partner immediately on the defensive, because the argument is no longer about the current incident but instead about their character. You’re essentially saying to them that they can’t get it right and will never change. Yikes. Decide together to make “never” and “always” off-limits in arguments. You’ll both be better off for it.
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This 21st-century convection oven can sear, dehydrate, broil and more—all while being controlled by your smart phone. June Oven, $599, JuneOven.com
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A fiery red shade celebrates KitchenAid’s 100year anniversary. Queen of Hearts tilthead stand mixer in Passion Red, $399, KitchenAid.com
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PA N C A K E PA L Cook up perfectly browned flapjacks—or juicy burgers—on this dual-sided cast iron grill pan. Cast iron reversible grill/griddle, $70, Lodge, CrateandBarrel.com
PERFECT MIX Our couples love this powerful do-it-all blender, perfect for smoothies, soups and beyond. Ninja Professional 1000W Kitchen System, $90, Target.com
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C O O K I N G C L A S S FO R T WO Looking for a way to, ahem, spice up date night? Williams Sonoma has the culinary solution for you. They offer chef-led courses on everything, from how to man the grill and sear up the perfect steak to global-inspired culinary classes on mastering Spanish paella or Italian pasta. Start a cooking class cash fund at TheKnot.com/registry. OTHER IDEAS WE LOVE A knife skills class, a weekly food-subscription service, a 10-course tasting meal on your honeymoon, a Starbucks fund, a doughnut crawl, a kitchen renovation, an appliance refresh and more.
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YO U R S , M I N E , O U R S
GET YOUR ZEN ON
Stitch these towels with funny phrases or modern monograms in pretty hues. Bath linens, from $30, WeezieTowels.com
B E D+ B AT H Home should be your sanctuary— dress your bed and bath accordingly.
SUDS AND SOAK Prop up your Kindle or a glass of wine—or both— while you relax in the bath with this caddy. Aquala bath caddy, $50, Umbra, BedBathandBeyond.com
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Get rid of those prewedding jitters by diffusing relaxing lavender before bed. Stone diffuser in Black, $119, Vitruvi.com
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PLUSH PILE These towels are made from 100 percent organic cotton and dry quickly so you don’t have to worry about musty smells. Air Weight towels in French Blue, $128 for 6-piece set, Coyuchi.com
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OTHER IDEAS WE LOVE A weekend wellness retreat, yoga studio
memberships, a private meditation class, acupuncture, a bathroom makeover, new bedroom furniture, spa appointments and more.
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HEAD REST Score serious back and neck support with this memory foam pillow. TruCool memory foam side sleeper pillow, from $70, Therapedic, BedBathandBeyond.com
COOL AND CALM Infused with graphite and foam layers, this mattress will keep you chill and comfortable. Mint mattress, from $695, TuftandNeedle.com
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Your honeymoon should be an absolute dream—and in this dream, we bet you guys are going to want to hit up the spa. Make that vision a reality with a cash fund dedicated to couples massages for your guests to contribute toward. Who knows—the Zen habit may turn into your new self-care Sunday tradition! Start your cash fund at TheKnot.com/registry.
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WORK OF ART Turned on, this TV delivers a crystalclear picture. Turned off, it looks like a work of art. Samsung The Frame 4K TV, from $1,300, Samsung.com
H E L LO F I D O Peep your pup from your phone while they’re alone (and feed them treats!) with this dog nanny cam. Dog camera with Nanny, $200, ShopUs.Furbo.com
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JUST GOOGLE IT This home hub has tons of easy-to-use features, like to-do list management and smart device control. Google Home, $129, Williams-Sonoma.com
H A N DY H U B Snag speedy Wi-Fi and control all your smart home devices through this hub. Samsung SmartThings wifi pack, $120, Samsung.com
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E N E RGY- E F F I C I E N T H O M E U P GR A DE We all want to do our part to be good to the planet, but sometimes making big changes, like transforming your home to be energy efficient, can be costly. Why not start a cash fund at TheKnot.com/registry geared toward a go-green home makeover. We guarantee your guests—and the planet—will love it.
TRASHY TECH Stick this gadget next to or inside of your trash can to scan the barcode of each item you run out of and add it to your shopping list. GeniCan, $150, GeniCan.com
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S A F E S PA C E Fit this device atop your existing lock to control it safely with your phone. August Smart Lock Pro, $279, BedBathandBeyond.com
OTHER IDEAS WE LOVE Home entertainment system, smart home mood lighting, annual Netflix, Hulu or Audible subscription, new laptops, Sonos speakers, home security system, smart car fund and more.
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Nest’s tech-savvy thermostat will learn your habits and preferences to maintain a temperaturecontrolled home adapted to your schedule and needs. Nest Learning Thermostat, $249, Williams-Sonoma.com
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CLEAR WINNER These multi-size canisters are perfect for organizing dried goods in your pantry. Pop containers, $100 for 10-piece set, OXO, Williams-Sonoma.com
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A YE A R O F H O M E C L E A N I NG S E RV I C E S Free up some time to enjoy being newlyweds with help from a cash fund geared toward a year of house cleaning. Ask guests to contribute to services for your whole home, or select one or two of the most highly trafficked rooms to focus on instead. Sound good? Start yours at TheKnot.com/registry.
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HANG TEN (SHIRTS) Make the most of whatever closet space you share (ugh!) with this hanging organizer. Hanging Closet Organizer, $40, StorageWorks, Amazon.com
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SHAPE SHIFTER Save space with this laundry basket, which collapses flat for slim storage. Collapsible laundry basket, $20, SALT, BedBathandBeyond.com
S I L I C O N E S TA S H E R Cut down on your plastic usage with these silicone “bags” perfect for storing, freezing and even cooking food. Reusable silicone bag multi-pack, $54, StasherBag.com
CLEAN + O R GA N I Z E These streamlined, savvy picks will give your home a Marie Kondo–worthy makeover in no time.
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Register early and you can pack this steamer to tackle your wedding day attire too. Turbo ExtremeSteam, $60, Conair, BedBathandBeyond.com
The most powerful vacuum on the market tackles everything from sprinkles to pet hair with absolute ease. v10 Cyclone, $600, Dyson.com
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LIFESTYLE Go for a little old-school competition next date night with a personalized domino set. Jumbo domino set, $99, MarkandGraham.com
Wish list products that help you two make the most of your new adventures. SMART SCALE Sync this scale with your FitBit profile to keep track of all your couple fit goals. FitBit Aria WiFi smart scale, $149, Amazon.com
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I N S TA- C L A S S I C Capture footage of your first scuba dive as a married duo with this durable, do-it-all adventure camera. GoPro HERO7 Black, $360, Amazon.com
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This hard-shell suitcase boasts a USB charger to keep your tech juiced throughout your travels. Medium suitcase in Coast, $275, AwayTravel.com
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Keep your brews (or anything, really) cold in this workhorse cooler for over 24 hours. Tundra 45, $300, Yeti, Williams-Sonoma.com
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PET A D O P T I O N Grow your fam by one furry baby with help from your loved ones. More and more couples are using their wedding registries to fund the addition of a four-legged friend. Looking to have a sweet kitten or pup join your crew? Start your own pet adoption cash fund at TheKnot.com/registry. OTHER IDEAS WE LOVE Couple’s rock climbing lessons, Airbnb gift certificates, round-trip tickets for a first anniversary vacay, Spotify subscription, backyard landscaping, a hot tub fund and more.
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H OT H E AT Flip some burgers and dogs on this bad boy, which has enough burners to feed a crowd. Performance gas grill, $219, Char-Broil, Target.com
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The Magic House is the perfect place for a truly unique event! With the flexibility to rent the entire Museum or just a portion, The Magic House is an ideal location for your celebration!
516 S. Kirkwood Rd. St. Louis, MO 63122 www.magichouse.org
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P R E T T Y P L AT E S Soft moss green is a seasonless choice for your tabletop décor. 18-piece dinnerware set, $25, IKEA.com
EAT, DRINK AND BE MARRIED
DINING Host everything from Thanksgiving to Super Bowl Sunday like a pro with these picks.
S AY C H E E S E Customize this server with your initials for a sweet reminder every time you whip up apps. Wood and marble cheese board, $59, MarkandGraham.com
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Reds and whites look equally stylish in these streamlined glasses. Tour wine glasses, from $10, CrateandBarrel.com
SHAKE IT UP Remix your signature cocktail recipe on the reg with this tool set. 11-piece cocktail shaker bar set, $39, ALOONO, Amazon.com
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BACK IN BLACK Your tabletop will be the most stylish on the block with this modern black flatware. Moon cutlery set, $89, Cutipol, ShopHorne.com
DINNER IS SERVED Even takeout salad looks amazing presented in this chic bowl. Stonewood stripe round serving bowl, $215, Juliska, Bloomingdales.com
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GET MARRIED, G I V E B AC K With The Knot Gifts Back, you can do good while planning your “I dos.” The first step? Choose a charity close to your heart from hundreds of organizations. When a guest buys you a gift off your Knot registry, we’ll donate up to 3 percent of the cost to your chosen chairty—so easy.
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ST. J UD E C H ILD REN’S RESEA RC H H O SP ITA L In 2018, our couples’ registries raised enough money for St. Jude to provide 2,032 new toys for hospital play areas at St. Jude housing facilities.
FEED ING A MERICA In 2018, our couples’ registries raised enough money for Feeding America to provide 9,680 meals to families in need through the Feeding America network of food banks around the country.
A MERICA N S O C IETY FO R TH E P REVENTIO N O F C RUELTY TO A NIMA LS This past year, registries on TheKnot.com raised enough money for ASPCA to help feed 86 rescued dogs and cats for a month.
VOW + G IR LS FIR ST FU N D Every year, 12 million girls are married against their will before they reach the age of 18. The Knot Gifts Back has an exclusive partnership with VOW to rally the wedding industry and end child marriage by 2030.
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“The Bauer is rugged but can be polished too,” Clair says. “It’s a mix of both of our personalities.”
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S TAT I O N E R Y Alana’s sister handdrew the floral art, inspired by the pair’s favorite flowers, on the paper goods.
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THEIR STORY Alana Henderson (29 and a dance/movement therapist) and Clair Rock (28 and an information architect) wanted a wedding that combined refined tradition with progressive modernity. “For the most part, our wedding was traditional, but we also wanted our queerness to shine through,” Clair says. The mixed-gender wedding party wore formal attire, and afterward, all parties involved cut a rug to the sounds of Taylor Swift, Björk and Janelle Monáe. One musical twist: The couple eliminated gendered dances, instead choosing to dance with both sets of parents, duet style. — LO U I S BAR AGO NA
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BOUQUET Alana filled her bouquet with large, fluffy flowers, including ranunculus, roses and dahlias, all in shades of soft pink and cream.
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CEREMONY Alana and Clair affirmed their union with a hand-tying ceremony as well as a series of vows. “Our officiant wrote a queer blessing that allowed for our queer guests, our chosen family, to raise their hands and show their support for our marriage,” Clair says. PLACE SETTINGS At their seats, guests found napkins hand-stitched by Alana’s mom. In total, she stitched 110, which the newlyweds kept as mementos and gave to their family as gifts.
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EXIT Guests waved Alana and Clair off with bright, rainbow-colored streamers. “Instead of favors, we chose to donate to PFLAG instead,” Alana says. “So many guests kept their streamers, and some of them used them as cat toys, props for performances and even in classrooms for students with special needs.” RECEPTION The couple filled the industrial space with calligraphed place cards and apple-filled centerpieces in honor of their new home, the Big Apple.
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WEDDING INGREDIENTS CEREMONY & RECEPTION SITE The Bride and The Bauer, Kansas CIty, MO PHOTOGRAPHY Stephanie Zakas/Zakas Photography VIDEOGRAPHY Lydia Cordero-Campis PLANNER Minh-Tu Pham/Hitched Planning + Floral FLOWERS The Flower Man GOWN Dress: Kleinfeld Bridal, New York City; jumpsuit: custom, Chrissie Dowler, Pied Beauty, Brooklyn, NY TUXEDO Bindle & Keep, Brooklyn, NY; bow tie, pocket square & suspenders: durian & the Lyon WEDDING PARTY ATTIRE Dresses: Weddington Way; tuxedos: ASOS.com; TheBlackTux.com HAIR Molly Boyer MAKEUP Beauty by Shayla VEIL & TIARA Mary Alice Jenkins (Alana’s mother) ENGAGEMENT RING Love & Promise Jewelers WEDDING RINGS Alana: Love & Promise Jewelers; Clair: Kay Jewelers STATIONERY Design: Robin Wolin, Paper Source; floral illustration: Amy Henderson (Alana’s sister) RENTALS Hitched Planning + Floral; Moxie Catering; Ultrapom Event Rental CATERING Moxie Catering CAKE Dolce Bakery CAKE TOPPER NgoCreations, Etsy.com DESSERTS Apple cider doughnuts: Louisburg Cider Mill; apple hand pies: Dolce Bakery OFFICIANT Sam Icklan (friend) MUSIC Ceremony: Violetta Strings; reception: Stevie Cruz/All Ears FAVOR Donation to PFLAG HONEYMOON Minimoon: Aspen, CO; honeymoon: Iceland, Paris & Amsterdam GUESTS 110 HASHTAG #NewRocksontheBlock
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THEIR STORY Past was present at the wedding of Melissa Rhodes (29 and a book editor) and Dane Zahorsky (36 and a nonprofit director), held at a historic general store. During the ceremony, they lit a candle at an altar of ancestral photos and exchanged vows on the foundation of an old house. But the most powerful moment came when a friend, a Lakota Sioux elder, blessed the couple and wrapped them in a Morning Star quilt. The year before, she had offered Dane the same blessing after his mother died. “To come full circle and bring Mom into that moment of our ceremony felt really right,” Dane says. — R E B ECCA DALZE LL
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WEDDING PARTY Melissa and her bridesmaids held matching bouquets, but Melissa wrapped hers in a swatch of her mother’s wedding dress and pinned it with her grandmother’s brooch. QUILT The Lakota tribe traditionally draped quilts with the Morning Star pattern, a symbol of protection, over the shoulders of people embarking on a journey. GUEST BOOK Friends and family wrote well wishes on the back of the handmade quilt. It now hangs in the couple’s home.
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CAKE Felted figures of the couple’s dogs topped the grain-free cake, which had layers of vanilla with hazelnut cream and chocolate with blackberry filling. DINNER Guests dined on a locally sourced menu of kale-and-chickpea-stuffed acorn squash, smoked pork loin with apple-persimmon chutney and Brussels sprouts. BOUQUET Melissa carried carthamus, seeded eucalyptus, red feather celosia, ranunculus, rose hips, amaranthus and grasses.
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The newlyweds danced to “Midnight on the Water,” an old-time waltz by Texas fiddler Luke Thomasson.
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WEDDING INGREDIENTS CEREMONY & RECEPTION SITE The Volland Store, Alma, KS PHOTOGRAPHY Jacob Loafman Photography PLANNER Hitched Planning + Floral; day-of coordinator: Minh-Tu Pham FLOWERS Jessica Corbett/Hitched Planning + Floral GOWN Alexandra Grecco, Bride., Kansas City, MO SUIT Sene; tie: Alexander Olch WEDDING PARTY ATTIRE various; bridesmaid perfume lockets: For Strange Women HAIR Shanna Austin & Jordan Zimlich/Helm MAKEUP Shanna Austin/Helm HAIRPIECE Hitched Planning + Floral ENGAGEMENT RING Family heirloom WEDDING RINGS Nish Ekanayake STATIONERY dePLUME Stationers RENTALS Supply Event Rentals & Design; Ultrapom CATERING Room 39 CAKE Morello Fine Cakes CAKE TOPPER byMagic, Etsy.com OFFICIANT Darcy Ottey (friend) MUSIC Hot Club KC FAVORS Honey: Brethour Bee Company WELCOME BAG Goat’s milk soap: Baumwerk Farm; poppy seed bread & herb bundle: DIY HONEYMOON Private ranch home in Alma, KS GUESTS 75
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DAPPER DUDS Chris added a fun flair to his classic look with a pair of penguin cuff links in honor of his favorite animal.
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THEIR STORY When it came to wedding design, Paige Kauffman (26 and works in marketing) and Chris Fellows (26 and a teacher) let the Kauffman Center for the Performing Arts lead the way. “We wanted our style to complement the glass windows and stainless steel,” Paige says. “But we expressed our vibe with some contrasting colorful details.” Roses, dahlias and freesia all in white decorated the ceremony, while pink and coral hues punched up the reception. Another twist: Everyone grabbed slices of pizza for dinner. — LB
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CENTERPIECES “There’s no such thing as too many flowers, so we went big,” Paige says. Bright pink and orange ranunculus, roses, dahlias and protea as well as tropical greenery towered over the reception tables topped with marble-printed tablecloths. CAKE Guests ate slices of almond, blueberry limoncello and chocolate cake served with scoops of gelato. EXIT After dancing to the music of Lost Wax, guests waved the newlyweds off with sparklers as they hopped into a Bentley.
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WEDDING INGREDIENTS CEREMONY & RECEPTION SITE Kauffman Center for the Performing Arts, Kansas City, MO PHOTOGRAPHY Mark & Katherine Nagel/Nagel Portraits VIDEOGRAPHY Mullinix Weddings PLANNER Kindra Browne/Simple Elegance EVENT DESIGNER & FLOWERS Studio Dan Meiners GOWN Carolina Herrera, New York City TUXEDO Custom, Ermenegildo Zegna; bow tie: R. Hanauer; cuff links: dapperchaps, Etsy.com WEDDING PARTY ATTIRE Bridesmaids: Bella Bridesmaids; groomsmen: TheBlackTux.com; The Tie Bar HAIR Lumine Salon MAKEUP 7th Row Productions VEIL Carolina Herrera ENGAGEMENT & WEDDING RINGS TIVOL STATIONERY Invitations: BP Creative Group; programs, escort cards & menus: Jerad Nun RENTALS Studio Dan Meiners CATERING & DESSERTS Kauffman Center for the Performing Arts CAKE Classic Cakes OFFICIANT Pat O’Brien (Chris’s step-grandfather) MUSIC Ceremony: Brookside Strings; reception: Lost Wax OTHER ENTERTAINMENT Live painter: Too Rooster; photo booth: The Photo Bus KC DANCE LESSONS Overland Park Ballroom FAVORS Pint glasses: Custom Ink WELCOME BAGS DIY TRANSPORTATION Kansas City Fun Tours; Overland Limousine; Pech Limousine HONEYMOON Bali GUESTS 210 HASHTAG #WhereYouLeadIWillFellows
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THEIR STORY “Sunsets on the prairie are magical,” Lauren Harms (27 and an art director) says. For her wedding to Brian Gilbreath (29 and a technical manager), Lauren timed it so they exchanged vows right as the grass lit up. Such thoughtful planning defined the DIY celebration at her childhood home. Lauren worked with a seamstress to design her silk crepe gown, and her dad built pretty much everything, including six 20-foot dinner tables and a dance floor made from old bowling alley lanes. — R D
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“Kansas was uncharted territory for many of our guests,” Lauren says. “We really wanted to show them this incredibly beautiful part of the country.”
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On the vanilla buttercream cake, souvenir statues referenced the couple’s New York City home.
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CONFETTI At the end of the celebration, one of Lauren’s bridesmaids surprised everyone with confetti poppers. “It was a wonderful way to cap the night,” Lauren says. “We were picking confetti out of the grass for months afterward.” DRINKS During cocktail hour, the couple served Moscow mules in copper mugs. DINNER To make the tables, Lauren’s dad salvaged long planks of old-growth heart pine from a mid-century Kansas gas station.
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WEDDING INGREDIENTS CEREMONY & RECEPTION SITE The Ridge Manhattan, Manhattan, KS PHOTOGRAPHY Rusty Wright/The Waldron Photograph Co FLOWERS Acme Gift GOWN Kim Bonny, Manhattan, KS SUIT J.Crew; tie clip: NiciLaskin, Etsy.com WEDDING PARTY ATTIRE Bridesmaids: BHLDN; groomsmen: TheBlackTux.com HAIR Chelee Bath/ J Salon MAKEUP Octavia Farquharson VEIL Custom, Loulette Bride, Brooklyn, NY ENGAGEMENT RING Erie Basin WEDDING RINGS Catbird STATIONERY Design: Next Chapter Studio; printing: Boxcar Press RENTALS Straight Upp Creative Studio CATERING Coco Bolos OFFICIANT Rev. Gary Harms MUSIC Bluemont Quartet; Muzizi Reggae Band TRANSPORTATION B & B Busing HONEYMOON Switzerland & Greece GUESTS 105 HASHTAG #TakeMyGilbreathAway
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Copper string lights hung from an open steel structure that Lauren’s dad built.
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THEIR STORY Topeka natives Lydia Carroll (23 and works in ministry) and Hunter Spees’s (26 and works in oil distribution) love story began as far away from Kansas as one can get—Sydney, Australia, to be exact. After meeting at a ministry conference, the pair brought their romance back to their home state and eventually planned a winter celebration rife with KC pride. “We thought of all the things we love, cold weather included,” Lydia says. She and her ladies wrapped up in fur coats to beat the Kansas chill. — LB 235
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CEREMONY & RECEPTION SITE The Foundry Event Center, Topeka, KS PHOTOGRAPHY Adam Stowe/Savile Row Visuals DAY-OF COORDINATOR Jennifer Haverkamp EVENT DESIGNER Cyndi Fiedler FLOWERS Absolute Design by Brenda GOWN Eddy K, The Gown Gallery, Kansas City, MO SUIT Houndstooth WEDDING PARTY ATTIRE Bridesmaids: David’s Bridal; groomsmen: Men’s Wearhouse MAKEUP Alexis Piseno ENGAGEMENT & WEDDING RINGS Meierotto Jewelers STATIONERY RSVP in the Village RENTALS Cyndi Fiedler; The Foundry Event Center CATERING Jeff Ferrell CAKE Bella Napoli DESSERTS Jeff Ferrell OFFICIANT Pastor Kyle Turner MUSIC Fetter HONEYMOON Lake Dillon, CO GUESTS 300 HASHTAG #BeautyandtheSpees
Extra-large proteas took center stage in the day’s floral design. “The protea inspired the rest of the flower choices,” Lydia says.
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BOUQUET Anna’s mom made her bouquet of anemones, veronica, ranunculus, blue thistle, bear grass and eucalyptus.
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THEIR STORY Anna Carter (22 and a teacher) and Samuel Akers (24 and a staff member at a campus ministry) were planning a June wedding when they found out that Samuel had cancer. Luckily, their venue, The Delaware, had a date available in April. So they moved the celebration up two months, kept things simple and asked friends and family for help. Instead of serving a meal, the couple put out a variety of desserts, each baked by someone important in their lives. The icing on the cake? Samuel is now cancer free. — R D
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Anna’s bridesmaids wore long dresses of their choice and carried silk blooms.
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VENUE The Delaware is a 1920s auto shop in historic Independence Square. “It is such a beautiful, simple space full of natural light,” Samuel says. DESSERTS The newlyweds cut into a carrot cake baked by Anna’s mom. Other sweets on offer included raspberry pie, Irish cream cheesecake, blueberry-lemon bundt cake, flourless chocolate cake and gingerbread. PARTY TRICK Anna’s little brother got down in a T-Rex costume.
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WEDDING INGREDIENTS CEREMONY & RECEPTION SITE The Delaware, Independence, MO PHOTOGRAPHY Alex + Michael Allison/ Alex Marie Photo Co. VIDEOGRAPHY Kellen Burgess FLOWERS DIY; Hy-Vee GOWN Allure Romance SUIT JCPenney ENGAGEMENT RING James Allen WEDDING RINGS Toner Jewelers STATIONERY Place cards: EtchLife DESSERTS DIY OFFICIANT Matt Crawford (friend) MUSIC DIY HONEYMOON Lyons, CO GUESTS 175
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F I R S T LO O K An unexpected blizzard left Saryn and Evan’s first look a bit chilly. “Evan read his vows on a soaking wet piece of paper,” Saryn says. Despite the cold, the time alone was the couple’s favorite moment of the day.
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THEIR STORY Saryn Hernandez (22 and a social worker) and Evan Graham (21 and a pastor) wanted their wedding to feel authentically their own. “I was very particular about the details,” Saryn says. “It had to be truly ours.” Evan’s two requests: Mexican food and dancing. After a Christian service with a foot-washing ceremony, the pair served chicken tortilla soup and cinnamon cake, which they ate at their own dining room table from home. Evan’s second wish came true thanks to an R&B-filled playlist. — LB
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WEDDING INGREDIENTS CEREMONY & RECEPTION SITE The Everly Event Space, Kansas City, MO PHOTOGRAPHY Jill Stuefer/Jill Caren Photo DAY-OF-COORDINATOR Morgan Graham (Evan’s sister-in-law) FLOWERS The Cottage Rose GOWN Casablanca Bridal, Something White Bridal Boutique, Kansas City, MO SUIT JF. J Ferrar, JCPenney WEDDING PARTY ATTIRE Bridesmaids: Lulus.com; groomsmen: shirts: H&M; pants: JCPenney HAIR Karly Gibbs (maid of honor) MAKEUP Jordan Tannehill ENGAGEMENT & WEDDING RINGS Kay Jewelers STATIONERY Invitations: Zazzle.com; escort cards: AliceBluefox, Etsy.com RENTALS The Everly Event Space CATERING ACA Catering CAKE & CAKE TOPPER Cheryl Vandegrift OFFICIANT Pastor Zach Anderson MUSIC Nate Ward DANCE LESSONS La Roca Club HONEYMOON Florida, Cozumel & the Cayman Islands GUESTS 200 HASHTAG #Instagraham
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The name says it all. Not only does this powder give your complexion an appearance worthy of the most flattering Instagram filter, it also staves off dreaded T-zone shine. Genius Magic powder, $45, CharlotteTilbury.com
One swipe of this Rihannaapproved gloss makes your pout look instantly fuller. And while it leaves behind a super-lustrous sheen, it doesn’t feel sticky. Gloss Bomb universal lip luminizer, $18, Fenty Beauty by Rihanna, Sephora.com
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A high-drama mascara coats lashes in an innovative shrinkwrapping formula that curls, separates and lengthens. And, it will survive even the most emotional vows. The Curling mascara, $28, KevynAucoinBeauty.com
An intense, long-lasting formula means even the most elaborate cat eye won’t crease, smear or fade away. Plus, this liner’s organic, plant-derived ingredients won’t irritate your eyes. Phyto-Pigments liquid line & define, $24, JuiceBeauty.com
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Cleansing micellar water cuts through stubborn waterproof mascara, eyeliner and lipstick, but won’t leave your face feeling stripped of its natural oils. We call that a major skin win. Sensibio H2O, $15, Bioderma, Dermstore.com
Experiencing wedding-planninginduced dark circles or stress breakouts? This triple threat concealer covers up blemishes, contours and highlights. Born This Way super coverage multi-use sculpting concealer, $29, TooFaced.com
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This highly saturated lip color goes on easily in one coat without drying lips or dreaded clumping. Best of all, it stays put through first kisses and after-party eats. Infinity longwear matte lip cream, $22, IlMakiage.com
Cult favorites earn their status for good reason—this triedand-true formula offers major coverage, has a matte, cameraready finish and major lasting power (like 24 hours of wear). Double Wear stay-in-place makeup, $42, EsteeLauder.com
Super-soft synthetic bristles guarantee perfectly blended makeup every time. Another plus? They’re infused with bacteriakilling charcoal powder to keep them fresher longer. Deluxe charcoal antibacterial brush set, $62, Sephora.com
A little of this gel-cream goes a long way, allowing you to build a rosy glow. Bonus: It’s totally compact and doesn’t require a brush—so it’s easy to apply wherever you are. Cloud Paint cream blush, $18, Glossier.com
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Whether you’re going for a dramatic smoky eye or a more natural wash of color, you’ll use this versatile mix of 12 neutral, matte and shimmery shades well beyond your wedding. Naked3 eyeshadow palette, $54, UrbanDecay.com
Use this silky microfiber sheet mask infused with rich botanical extracts and anti-aging superfoods like green tea and rice the night before your wedding for an instantly dewy complexion. Luminous dewy skin mask, $12, Tatcha.com
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Don’t be afraid to amp up your natural bridal glow. This creamy luminizer goes on smooth and won’t make you look shiny. And, its sleek design makes it a must-have for your emergency kit. Highlighter, $24, MilkMakeup.com
It’s definitely a splurge, but hear us out: Not only does one spritz of this fancy mist keep your makeup from melting, creasing or cracking, it also smells amazing and dries pretty much immediately. Airflash Radiance Mist setting spray, $50, Dior.com
Throwing an outdoor affair or jetting off to a sunny locale for your honeymoon? Shield yourself from aging sun damage with this fast-absorbing formula that won’t leave behind a chalky residue. Ultra sheer dry touch sunscreen SPF 45, $11, Neutrogena.com
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Sweep this powder of superfine pigments where the sun naturally hits your face (forehead, cheekbones and jawline) to sculpt your features and give your complexion a sun-kissed effect. Warmth all-over face color bronzer, $22, BareMinerals.com
Conquer your brow goals once and for all with this handy retractable pencil. It offers a triangular precision tip, buildable, soft color that won’t smudge and a spoolie brush for blending—all in one. Brow definer, $23, AnastasiaBeverlyHills.com
These falsies come in sections versus a strip, so you can choose the level of lash drama that works for you. Apply a few to the outer corners of the eyes for a subtle look or go all in for a glam vibe. The Lashify control kit, $145, Lashify.com
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PR I M E R This multitasker smooths skin for flawless makeup application, is packed with antioxidants and creates a barrier between your skin and your makeup, preventing clogged pores. The Silk Canvas filter finish protective primer, $52, Tatcha.com
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Unlike a lot of other primers, this one works for all skin types and won’t cause breakouts.
A wallet-friendly gem, this is every bit as effective as its pricier counterparts. Apply a few drops in the a.m. or p.m. before your moisturizer or night cream to give your skin an ultra-hydrating boost. Hyaluronic Acid 2% + B5 serum, $7, TheOrdinary.com
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AC NE T RE ATME NT Dab on this powerful spot treatment up to three times a day to zap any zits that pop up at inopportune moments (say, right before you take engagement photos or walk down the aisle). Rapid Relief acne spot treatment, $22, Murad.com
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FAC E MI ST A favorite of both celebs and makeup artists, this invigorating spray made of mint and rosemary tightens pores, soothes dry patches and calms stressed-out skin. Break it out whenever your makeup needs a quick pick-me-up. Beauty Elixir, $49, Caudalie.com
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TONE R If you keep up with beauty influencers, you’ve probably heard of this potion. Essentially a facial in a bottle, it hydrates while balancing your skin’s pH for a noticeably more radiant complexion. Lotion P50V, $67, Biologique-Recherche.us
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Believe the hype. This can dramatically change your complexion for the better.
Think of this mud mask as a vacuum for your face. A blend of activated charcoal plus six acids shrinks pores and can even clear up acne. Supermud activated charcoal treatment mask, $59, GlamGlow, Sephora.com
Good skin is just as important as flawless makeup. Give your skin care routine a serious upgrade with our must-haves.
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Pumpkin spice latte fans, this one’s for you. A gentle exfoliating mask uses fragrant pumpkin enzymes and exfoliating apricot seed powder to polish away dead cells without damaging delicate skin. Overtime Mask, $44, Summer Fridays, Sephora.com
Look like you got your prewedding beauty rest (even if you didn’t) with this miracle cream that combats dark circles, fine lines and overall puffiness—trust us on this one, it’s worth the investment. The Eye Balm Intense $215, CremedelaMer.com
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M O I STURI Z E R The protein-enriched cream is the best of both worlds; its unique mix of active ingredients replenishes skin while also reducing the appearance of fine lines, wrinkles and sun damage. Protini Polypeptide Cream $68, DrunkElephant.com
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Whether you’re rocking your natural texture or going for the elaborate updo you’ve been eyeing on Pinterest, these are the products and tools you can trust to lock in your best hair day ever.
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Going au naturel for your nuptials? Whether your hair type is kinky, curly, coily or wavy, this cream will stave off frizz and give your ’do voluminous oomph. Coconut & Hibiscus curl enhancing smoothie, $11, SheaMoisture, Target.com
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This drugstore gem is under $5 a bottle, works for almost every hair type and leaves your mane feeling soft and looking gorgeous and glossy— what’s not to love? Intensive Repair shampoo and conditioner, $4 each, Dove, Walmart.com
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CURLY HAIR SHA M P O O + CON D ITION ER Attention: We found the curly hair holy grail. This duo fights frizz, detangles and adds shine. Almond & Avocado shampoo and conditioner, $13 each, DesignEssentials.com
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VO LU M IZ ER Forget everything you think you know about mousse. Work a dollop of this lightweight formula from roots to ends for bouncy, long-lasting volume that’s never stiff or crunchy. Southern Belle volume-boosting mousse, $26, TheDryBar.com
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Just a dab tames unruly locks, smooths flyaways and gives subtle texture whether you blow dry or air dry your hair. The best part? It’s versatile enough to work for the guys too. Grooming creme, $31, BumbleandBumble.com
Work one to two drops of this liquid gold through towel-dried tresses to add intense moisture and condition split ends—without weighing down hair or leaving it greasy. Moroccanoil Treatment Original hair oil, $44, Moroccanoil.com
Your wedding photos are no time for lifeless locks. Spray on roots to absorb oil and product buildup, and keep hair looking fresh from your first look to your morningafter brunch. Gold Lust dry shampoo, $44, Oribe.com
This hair spray has strong hold that will last for hours, but is flexible enough to allow you to adjust—or totally change up— your ’do throughout the day. Spray & Stay intense hold hairspray, $19, Big Sexy Hair, Ulta.com
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C U R L I NG I RO N Say goodbye to overworked arms— an innovative iron does the heavy-lifting for you. With the push of a button, it rotates either clockwise or counterclockwise for perfectly even curls. Beachwaver Pro Swarovski Crystal Collection, $239, Beachwaver.com
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This treatment was developed for none other than Audrey Hepburn in 1974—and it remains a best-seller for good reason. Use before shampooing for lustrous locks that feel stronger. Elasticizer, $30, PhilipKingsley.com
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F L AT I RO N One of the smartest tools we’ve ever met, this ingenious flat iron uses sensors to gauge your hair’s thickness and the speed at which you’re styling, and adjusts its heat settings accordingly. Our minds are blown. Platinum+ styler, $249, GHDHair.com
It’s especially restorative if you’re struggling with breakage from coloring or heat styling.
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C U R L I N G WA ND If defined waves are your go-to, allow us to introduce you to your new besties. This trio comes with interchangeable wands for tight, medium and loose waves, and works with just a single pass. Whirl Trio styling wand set, $300, T3Micro.com
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BLOW-DRYE R Thick-haired brides, rejoice. This powerful hair dryer is worth every darn penny. It’s light as a feather, never singes your scalp and will dramatically cut down your drying time. Supersonic hair dryer, $500, Dyson.com
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H E AT E D RO U N D B RU S H Even if your at-home blowout game isn’t on point—don’t stress. This easy-to-use dryer and round brush combo will give you “just left the salon” hair in minutes. One-Step volumizer hair dryer, $60, Revlon, Ulta.com
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G E L E FFEC T P OLISH Pair with the accompanying top coat for a long-lasting, high-gloss finish that mimics a professional-quality gel mani—no UV lamp required. Gel Couture in Moments to Mrs., $12, Essie.com
Bathe and bronze your way to head-to-toe confidence with these essentials.
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Slather on this überluxurious cream fortified with healing vitamin E before bed and wake up with picture-perfect hands that stay smooth and silky all day. Special Hand Cream with Vitamin E, $8, MarioBadescu.com
The luxe-looking pastel packaging makes it almost too pretty to use. But you’ll be glad you did once you feel how the gently exfoliating formula leaves your skin feeling revived and supersoft. Coco Rose body polish, $36, Herbivore.com
It’s like your natural nail color, only better. This shade hits the sweet spot between nude and ballet pink. (And if it isn’t your hue, no worries. This line offers over 200 other options.) Nail Lacquer in Be There in a Prosecco, $11, OPI.com
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One use (seriously, one!) and your hands will feel totally rejuvenated.
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B O DY LOTI O N Basically a spa day in a jar, this whipped moisturizer enriched with almond milk melts into skin and leaves you feeling hydrated for up to 48 hours. Almond Milk Concentrate, $54, USA.LOccitane.com
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BA S E C OAT A good base coat should do more than just make your mani last. This one helps polish glide on smoothly and creates a protective barrier to keep nail staining at bay. Here to Stay base coat, $10, Essie.com
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P OL IS H R EM OVER It may be on the pricey side, but this must-have removes even the darkest and most stubborn polish in seconds while also moisturizing with lavender and aloe. The Stripper, $19, DeborahLippmann.com
Lathering up with this aloe-infused rinse makes you feel squeaky clean, while the eucalyptus scent satisfies your senses. Eucalyptus & Aloe body wash, $18, H2OPlus.com
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DEO D O RA NT There’s bound to be some stressful moments during the wedding planning process. Swipe on this clean-scented stick to make sure you stay dry. Fresh Invisible Solid, $5, Secret, Target.com
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A sweet-smelling blend of keratin and oils softens and conditions cuticles while also strengthening weak, brittle or peeling nails. We saw results in just one week. Intense Recovery treatment, $7, Cutex, Target.com
The last thing you want to worry about on any important day is messing up your nails. Swipe this on for a durable sheen that dries almost immediately after application. Dry Fast top coat, $10, Seche Vite, Ulta.com
NAILS
All eyes are about to be on your hands. Are you ready for your ring close-up? Get pristine digits with these necessities.
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S E L F TA NNE R This clear liquid magically turns into a mousse. The fastabsorbing formula gives you a beachy glow in eight hours and lasts for a week. Invisi foaming tan water, $39, Vita Liberata, Ulta.com
It creates a naturallooking tan that’s never orange.
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B O DY WA S H
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The Home Place Wedding & Event Barn Venue 816.550.5798 • www.TheHomePlaceatValleyView.com
• Temperature-controlled barn • Outdoor ceremony area • Beautiful bridal suite and cool groom’s room • Honeymoon suite • Entire venue is ADA accessible • Outdoor pavilion with 60-foot saltwater pool • Ample parking with shuttle for guests
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WINNERS
Scent has the ability to evoke a memory even years later. Choose a special one to remind you of your day every time you wear it. BEST
FRESH Not into heavy floral perfumes? You aren’t out of options. Scents inspired by modern greenery are right on trend. This mix of citrus, lush greens and magnolia is as crisp and vibrant as it gets. Éclat de Vert, $225 for 1.7 oz., Aerin.com
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SPICY If you’re feeling bold, dab on this musky choice that is as every bit as sultry as its flame-red bottle. A bouquet of Bulgarian rose plus woody notes packs a seriously seductive punch. Narciso eau de parfum Rouge, $98 for 1.6 oz., Narciso Rodriguez, Bloomingdales.com
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This powdery, ultra-feminine scent lives up to its name. Just a spritz or two and you’ll be transported to a thriving garden full of blooming tuberose and jasmine. Bloom, $97 for 1.6 oz., Gucci, Macys.com
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Once you catch a whiff of this intense combo of smoke and leather, you won’t forget it. No matter your gender, this unexpected scent is sure to turn a few heads. Santal 33, $189 for 1.7 oz., Le Labo, Barneys.com
BEACHY Created with summer days in mind, a smooth blend of dry coconut wood, cashmere and sandalwood creates a relaxing scent perfect for equally laid-back nuptials. Sun Saint, $65 for 1.7 oz., Pinrose, Sephora.com
This is a compliment magnet. Both women and men stop to ask me what scent I’m wearing. BEST
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Whether perfume isn’t really your thing or you’re new to wearing fragrance in general, this hybrid of floral and citrus notes is a great place to start. It’s pleasant but never overpowering. Reserve Acqua Neroli, $98 for 3.4 oz., Clean, Sephora.com
Calling all bridechillas. This is the boho bride’s answer to a signature scent. A unique blend of oakmoss, plum and freesia is all about the wild contrast of soft, fruity notes and sharp florals. Nomade, $105 for 1.7 oz., Chloé, Macys.com
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C LA S S I C Inspired by the young Coco Chanel, this elegant perfume is equal parts sexy and serious. A balanced blend of light florals and heavy musks means it can work for any wedding theme, location or time of year. Coco Mademoiselle Intense, $115 for 1.7 oz., Chanel.com
LOCAL LOVE
SAVANAH SUMMER LUXURY HAIR & MAKEUP We tapped bridal beauty guru Savanah Summer to get the scoop on pulling off a gorgeous wedding look.
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Savanah Summer leads an intimate team of artists, specializing in bridal hair and makeup. They devote themselves to one bride a day for the ultimate beauty experience.
Good skin is the key to flawless makeup. Start a skin care regimen 6 to 12 months before your day. Your skin won’t change overnight, so this will give you time to adjust to new products.
A professional artist will know how to use the best techniques and products to create longlasting hair and makeup that not only looks flawless in person, but also in photos.
The more detail you can give your artist about what you’re envisioning, the better. Don’t be afraid to communicate exactly what you want and bring lots of photo inspiration.
Make sure your inspo photos look like you. They should have the same skin tone, hair color, texture and length. This will help set realistic expectations from the beginning.
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@savanahsummerbeauty
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BREAKDOWN
SHOPPING FOR YOUR CREW? WE’VE GOT EVERYTHING YOU NEED TO K N OW TO N AV I G AT E THE WORLD OF DRESS SHOPPING. BY SHELLEY BROWN
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THE BASICS Start off by doing some research. In our (ahem) unbiased opinion, TheKnot.com is a great place to start— you can search thousands of dresses by color, fabric and style and find stores in your area that carry your faves. If you’re flipping through magazines or browsing Pinterest or Instagram, tear out pages and save or pin images to help zero in on what you like.
BEGIN BY BROWSING
ORDER THE DRES SES AT THE SAME TIME SO THEY COME FROM THE SAME DYE L O T. T H E N , S E N D AN EMAIL TO YOUR GIRLS DETAILING THE TIMELINE AND THEIR RESPONSIBILITIES. FOLLOW UP WITH THEM ABOUT A WEEK BEFORE THE DRESSES ARE DUE TO ARRIVE.
KEEP COSTS IN MIND If any of your friends have been in a wedding party before, they’ll know that bridesmaids pay for their own dresses. But a gentle reminder is never a bad idea. When it comes to price, try to be considerate of your friends’ lifestyles. If you’re concerned your wedding and the events surrounding it might be a financial burden for one or more of your bridesmaids, focus your search on more affordable dresses or select a color you like and let them pick their own style and price point.
To ensure your bridesmaid dresses match your style, order your gown before making any decisions about them. Keep in mind: It takes two to three months for custom orders to arrive and an additional four to six weeks for alterations. A six-month cushion will give you and your friends ample time to find, order and tailor the dresses.
STICK TO A SCHEDULE
FIND THE RIGHT FIT A bridesmaid dress is typically ordered using a person’s biggest measurements, so your friends will likely buy dresses at least a size or two larger than they normally wear. If a friend wants to buy a size smaller, let her know it’s easier to alter a bigger dress. In the same vein, don’t choose dresses from brands that don’t carry plus if your bridesmaids are not all straight size (0 to 14). ››
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Your bridal party vision doesn’t have to be super rigid. For example, your bridesmaids don’t need to all wear the exact same dress for your wedding photos to turn out awesome. Your day is about celebrating and spending time with the people you love, so don’t get hung up on little details like forcing your friends to look matchy-matchy if it’s just not working for everyone.
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SHOP ACCORDINGLY Consider what kind of shopping experience will suit your personality best. If you tend to have strong opinions, it’s probably better to shop alone (or with just one friend or family member). If you prefer more input, take the whole gang and give them guidelines, like color or fabric. Then have them try on options and make a group decision.
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If your wedding party includes a male bestie, these tips will infuse some personality into his look. B O L D B O U TO N N I E R E Have your guy wear a floral boutonniere in your signature color, or go for a themed lapel pin. PRINTED SHIRT Patterned shirts will make even the most basic suit feel funky. You can’t go wrong with floral print, gingham or stripes. S TAT E M E N T S O C K S Colorful socks with whimsical designs are a simple way to inject a little bit of humor into your bridesman’s look. F U N F O OT W E A R Ditch the dress shoes and opt for playful sneakers instead. We love brands with customizable options like Converse or Vans. Choose a specific style and let your guy pick the color.
A GUIDE TO COLOR
PICKING THE RIGHT PALETTE
There are several foolproof ways to pick the perfect color. One of the easiest methods is to play off of the color schemes of the venue and the season. For instance, if your wedding will be held at a rustic vineyard with burgundy décor in the middle of winter, you’ll probably want to rule out sunshineyellow dresses. Rich colors like emerald, eggplant and crimson work well in the fall and winter months, while lighter shades like sage green, lavender and blush are perfect for spring and summer. If you’re still at a loss for exactly which hue to choose, go for a general color (like blue) or color family (think: jewel tones) and let your bridesmaids pick their favorite shades from light to dark for a mismatched effect. Another thought: Toss tradition altogether and opt for chic, all-white dresses and jumpsuits in a variety of fabrics and styles.
Once you’ve chosen a dress shade you love, it’s time to figure out which accent colors work with it. Here’s what to pair with the hues of the moment:
SELECTING A SHADE
If your attendants have a diverse range of skin tones, think about choosing a universally flattering color. More muted colors like blush, gunmetal gray and dusty blue work on pretty much everyone and are also right on trend. Want an edgier feel? It’s hard to go wrong with pretty metallics like rose gold and champagne.
FINDING COMPLEMENTARY COLORS
To push the envelope even further, consider prints—floral-print bridesmaid dresses are hot right now. Just remember patterns work best in smaller parties and should be paired with simple accessories like monochromatic shoes and minimal jewelry. If you have a larger party of six or more, consider having your maid of honor wear a printed dress while your other attendants wear solid colors—it’s a fun way to give your MOH a shout-out while still maintaining a cohesive-looking group.
CHOOSING A PRINT
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There’s a reason this light pink shade has staying power: It goes with a wide range of accent colors and is romantic without being frilly. Metallics like copper, rose gold and yellow gold pop against this stonewashed shade. For a softer palette, mix it with pastels like mint or natural tones like taupe.
BLUSH
A combination of mauve and pink, lilac has rustic associations. To play up its floral roots, pair lilac with lush shades of green (try sage, olive or hunter). Or go full-on Manic Pixie and opt for analogous colors like purple and pink.
LILAC
RUBY This is what we call a power color. A rich shade of red, ruby can feel either earthy or regal, depending on how you work with it. For an instantly royal effect, consider an opulent accent color like gold. If you’re going for a more understated look, blush and beige create a pretty contrast.
One of the most versatile colors, this deep shade of blue jives with almost every wedding style and venue. Add red or hot-pink accents for a preppy feel, coral or lemon yellow for a more tropical vibe or lighter blues for a dreamy tone-on-tone palette.
NAVY
This color is pure sophistication. For formal nuptials, mix in glittery metallics like silver or pewter. For a more casual affair, try cooler blues or navy. The subtlety of gray also makes it ideal for experimenting with different textures like pleated chiffon, velvet or beaded embellishments. ››
GRAY
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ACCESSORY ADVICE Before you get into the fun stuff (hello, sparkly jewelry and shoes!), remind your girls to get the right undergarments. Depending on the type of dress (strapless, low back or one shoulder), your bridesmaids may need some special support. Trust us: The wrong bra can make even the fanciest dress look unflattering. Where more specific shapewear is concerned, let your friends call the shots. If they opt to wear a body shaper, that’s great. If they feel more comfortable without one, that’s also great.
It’s up to you whether you want head-to-toe wardrobe control, but we should warn you: By demanding that your friends wear certain footwear, you’re officially entering bridezilla territory. That said, there are occasions where the right shoes can make the outfit. A black cocktail dress paired with pink stilettos feels more flirty than classic. The same dress paired with jeweled sandals serves up black-tie glamour. If you want to win points with your bridesmaids, have them sport a style they already own. The next best thing? Pick a color and heel height and let them choose the style they feel most comfortable wearing. Lastly, before you send them shopping, specify if the wedding will be indoors. Stilettos make an outdoor photo session nearly impossible.
SIZING UP HER SHOES
If you’re buying your friends jewelry as a gift, give them a hint so they won’t splurge on any new pieces. Have a look in mind but want them to use their own jewels? Set guidelines by size and color. Small and subtle is a foolproof combo for jewelry, like studs and a pendant necklace. And let their dress color determine the metal: gold jewelry for warm tones, silver for cool shades, and diamonds and pearls for everything in between.
JEWEL RULES
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Give your matching bridesmaids a unique look with accessories that complement their outfits and personalities. Try funky statement earrings or personalized clutches. Embellished denim jackets are perfect for summer, while faux-fur stoles or muffs are just made for a winter wedding.
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IF YOU’RE BUYING YOUR FRIENDS JEWELRY AS A G I F T, G I V E THEM A HINT SO THEY WON’T SPLURGE ON ANY NEW PIECES. HAVE A LOOK IN MIND BUT WANT THEM TO USE THEIR OWN JEWELS? SET GUIDELNES BY SIZE AND COLOR.
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IT’S POSSIBLE TO GET THE SPARKLER YOU WANT WITHOUT BREAKING THE BANK. HERE, THE INSIDER RING SHOPPING TIPS THAT WILL SAVE YOU SERIOUS CASH. BY SHELLEY BROWN
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GO FOR GOLD To get the same stylish look as platinum, consider a ring with a white gold setting. While there are plenty of pros when it comes to platinum—it’s an extremely durable, natural white metal, it won’t change color, plus it gives off a gorgeous polish—all of those good qualities come at a price. “Platinum is rarer and purer than white gold, which makes it more expensive,” says Katie Zimmerman, chief merchandising officer at Blue Nile. White gold is an alloy (read: a mixture of gold and a white metal like nickel, silver or palladium), meaning it may lose its silvery-white color over time. However, if you don’t mind replating your ring, it’s a still a super-chic option.
The more elaborate (think: blinged out) the setting, the more a ring will cost. “If you’re on a tight budget, look for daintier settings,” says Angela Karaguezian, vice president of Kirk Kara. Less metal also means a lower price tag, so opt for a prong setting (which secures the diamond like a tripod above the band) over a bezel one (a metal ring that encircles the sides of the center stone to hold it in place). “If you still want to achieve a glamorous look, consider design work like hand engravings or milgrain over adding extra diamonds,” Karaguezian says.
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ADD A HALO Don’t stress if your budget won’t allow for the giant rock you’ve been eyeing on Instagram. You can actually fake the look of additional carats by choosing a halo setting (a circle of small pavé or micro pavé stones around the center stone). “Halo settings continue to be a popular way to add more sparkle to an engagement ring because they create the illusion of a larger center stone,” says Beth Gerstein, cofounder of Brilliant Earth. While adding a halo to your setting will increase the cost of your ring, it’s less expensive than opting for a larger diamond. And, depending on the kind of halo you choose (round, square, hexagonal) it’s also a cool way to personalize your setting.
BUY SHY Shopping for a diamond centers around the “4 Cs”—cut, carat, clarity and color. When it comes to the carat weight, you can save a considerable amount of money without dramatically changing the look of a stone by buying a loose diamond just short of a half-carat or a whole-carat weight. “Diamond prices increase disproportionately at the half-carat and whole-carat marks, so try to buy just a little bit shy of these levels,” Zimmerman says. For example, instead of a two-carat diamond, look for a 1.8-carat one. Just a slight difference in carat weight can equal savings up to 20 percent, but the difference in the diamond will hardly be noticeable. We call that a serious win.
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THE NAKED EYE CAN’T TELL THE DIFFERENCE BETWEEN FLAWLESS AND NEAR-FLAWLESS STONES, SO EVEN THOUGH YOU PAY E X T R A FO R A PERFECT CLARITY GRADE, Y O U P R O B A B LY W O N ’ T S E E I T.
FIND THE SWEET SPOT
Similar to carat size, as clarity (how “clean” or free of internal inclusions and external blemishes a stone is) grades improve, diamonds go up in price. But the naked eye can’t tell the difference between flawless and near-flawless stones, so even though you pay extra for perfection, you won’t see it. The takeaway here? Loosen up a little where clarity is concerned. “We often advise valueconscious customers to focus on cut grade and color, with clarity as the last consideration,” Gerstein says. To cut costs, choose a near colorless, “eye clean” diamond—it will look perfect to the unaided eye while offering substantial savings.
GET FANCY Round brilliant-cut diamonds are the most popular shape for engagement rings, but that doesn’t mean they’re your only choice. There are actually lots of other pretty options called “fancy shapes” or “fancy cuts,” terms used to describe every diamond shape that is not classified as round. Most fancy cuts are divided into four categories: modified brilliants (oval, pear, marquise and heart), step cuts (emerald and asscher), mixed cuts (princess and radiant cut) and rose cuts. Choosing one of these less traditional—but still gorg—rocks will set you apart from the crowd and could save you some coin. “Fancy shapes cost less per carat because there isn’t the same demand for them in the marketplace,” says Sylvie Levine, CEO of Sylvie Collection. If you have your heart set on the look of a round diamond, Levine suggests opting for a similarly shaped stone with rounded corners like an oval or cushion. ››
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TREASU RE TROV E
JANUARY GA RNET
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FEBRUARY A METHYST
AUGUST PERIDOT
MARCH AQUA M A RINE
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T H I S M AY N OT WORK IF YOU WANT TO BE SURPRISED, BUT IF YOU AND YOUR PARTNER ARE SHOPPING FOR RINGS TOGETHER, SOMETIMES YOU CAN SCORE A DEAL IF YOU BUY THE ENGAGEMENT RING AND WEDDING RING AT THE SAME TIME.
OPT FOR A SHALLOW CUT
If having a center stone that looks large is more important to you than one with lots of sparkle or a perfect cut grade, choosing specific shallow-cut fancy shapes, like marquise and emerald diamonds, will create the illusion of a larger rock—without the hefty price tag. “These fancy shapes often appear bigger than other diamond shapes, like round or cushion, of equal carat weight,” Gerstein says. “This is because the elongated shape of these stones maximizes surface area, resulting in a larger appearance.” While opting for a shallower cut diamond does mean some light will “leak out” of the sides of the stone, reducing its overall brilliance, you’ll still get a beautiful-looking stone for a much lower price tag.
SHOP WITH YOUR BAND IN MIND
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Adding even a thin diamond half band or eternity band to your stack will create megawatt shine—for a fraction of the cost of a blinged-out engagement ring. “We love the idea of mixing a simple solitaire engagement ring with a diamond-accented wedding band,” Gerstein says. “This allows you to save on the engagement ring while adding all the sparkle you need.” Another thought: This may not work if you want your proposal to be a surprise, but if you and your partner are going to shop for rings together, sometimes you can score a deal if you buy the engagement ring and wedding ring at the same time. You might even be able to get your SO’s wedding ring as well for— you guessed it—an even bigger discount. ››
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Choose a center stone with special meaning by opting for your—or your partner’s—birthstone.
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RING INSU RA NCE 101
In the name of love, insure that precious ring. Here are the essential questions to ask before you choose a policy.
Colorful gems have been the traditional engagement gift for royal families for centuries—we’re all familiar with Kate Middleton’s gorgeous 18-carat oval sapphire ring. Today, hued stones are even more on trend, catching on with celebs, like Katy Perry, Scarlett Johansson and Jessica Simpson, as well as everyday brides. Another bonus of going with a sapphire or other vibrant gem? They tend to be less expensive than white diamonds, so you can afford a larger stone. “You can use an alternative center stone and still have diamonds in your setting as a halo or a pavé band,” Levine says. “Pick a gem that complements your skin tone, opt for one with sentimental meaning like your partner’s birthstone or repurpose an heirloom stone.” Even if colorful gems aren’t your fave, that doesn’t mean you’re out of options where this tip is concerned. Gray sapphires, white topaz and moissanite all look similar to white diamonds but cost considerably less.
GO LAB GROWN If you’re interested getting a sweet deal on a sparkler and reducing your carbon footprint, consider a lab-grown diamond. Unlike alternative options that imitate the look of a diamond, these stones are the real deal. Created from a tiny diamond “seed” in an extremely hot, vacuum-sealed chamber (basically a pressure cooker on steroids), they have the same chemical properties as natural diamonds but cost much less. “Buying a lab-grown diamond will typically save you around 25 to 35 percent compared to buying a mined one,” says Jeff Brenner, cofounder of Couple, a luxury lab-grown diamond ring brand. “We’re seeing a lot of our clients use these savings to upgrade to a larger diamond of higher quality.” Another plus? Lab grown also makes it easier to source super-specific diamonds. Since lab-grown stones are created on command (you know, without the waiting period of 1 billion to 3.3 billion years Mother Nature requires), you may be able to have your rock cut to the exact shape and carat weight you’re looking for.
How will the company replace the ring? With a check? Will they require you to purchase a replacement through a specified jeweler, or can you choose your own? How will you need to prove the ring vanished if you make a claim? Are there any circumstances of loss or damage that aren’t covered? (What if your ring flies off at the circus and gets trampled by elephants, for example?) Is it covered if lost, stolen or damaged while in someone else’s possession? What if it’s a vintage ring or other unique piece? How will the quality and size of your diamond— and that of a replacement, if needed—be documented? Is the ring insured to the full cost you paid for it or a fraction of the cost? Are there any geographical limitations to your coverage?
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NOT SOLD ON SPLURGING ON A TUX FOR YO U R WEDDING D AY ? T he s e f o u r companies w i ll c ha n ge t he way yo u t hi n k a b o u t re n t a l s — a nd wi ll h e l p yo u s t ay o n b u d ge t . BY FARAH PRINCE
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t’s no secret tuxedo rentals have a bad rap for being ill fitting and outdated. Factor in the
multiple trips to a rental shop to buy and later tailor your look (not an easy feat when you have an entire party to outfit), and the whole process can seem even more daunting. So what’s the good news? Brands like The Black Tux, Generation Tux, Men’s Wearhouse and Stitch & Tie are reinventing the rental game. With little more than a measuring tape, internet connection and spare half hour, you can pick out a tux or suit (plus shoes and accessories, if you’re so inclined) and have it all shipped directly to your doorstep. Below, our rundown of the new way to rent formalwear.
THE BLACK TUX With the largest collection of the bunch, The Black Tux boasts 48 suit and tuxedo rentals guaranteed to fit any and every wedding style with options in tried-and-true neutral shades, plus more fashionforward colors and prints. THE FIT Most styles come in a range of sizes, for a made-to-order look. If you don’t know your size, use their Fit Formula to help find what’s best for you based on answers to a few questions like your height and weight. You can also visit any one of their 29 showrooms across the country to be measured in person. Your outfit will ship two weeks prior to your wedding to give you enough time to make alterations (should they be necessary). But plan ahead and secure your rentals at least three months in advance. The Black Tux will cover minor alterations to the length of jacket sleeves or pants—without cutting the fabric—up to $15 with a receipt. If the thought of renting a tux or suit without first seeing it in person makes you nervous, take advantage of The Black Tux’s free, at-home try-on. You’ll get to test drive one of its rentals for up to 48 hours before you commit.
The multistep rental process takes about 25 minutes to complete. First, choose your tux or suit and a name for it (like groom). If you’re looking to differentiate your best man’s outfit from the rest of your groomsmen, this will help keep you organized. Next, build your look with a shirt and accessories. Then add all your event details and your measurements. If you don’t know your size, use their guide. Shipping is free, unless you’re placing an order within two weeks of your event date, in which case it can cost up to $40. Once the party is over, you have three days to return the rental with prepaid postage.
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If you feel like making a fashion statement at your wedding, The Black Tux offers plenty of unexpected suiting options like mixed tartan prints, gingham, oversize pinstripes and bold jackets in fun colors like plum, rose and emerald. PRICE From $110, TheBlackTux.com STANDOUT SERVICE
GENERATION TUX While Generation Tux has a smaller lineup of formalwear styles, with a selection of 21 suits and tuxedos in classic shades like blue, gray and black, its extensive collection of accessories more than makes up the difference. ››
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You can choose from an assortment of neckwear, socks, cuff links, pocket squares, suspenders, belts, tie bars and even satin flower lapel pins in a range of colors and prints—you know, the trendy add-ons that will guarantee you and your guys look extra dapper. THE FIT Without a brick-and-mortar store, Generation Tux relies on its eTailor to determine your perfect fit with a few questions about your body profile, including height, weight and jean size. Order your rental three months prior to your wedding date and you’ll have plenty of time to flag any fit issues. Generation Tux will cover minor alterations up to $20, and if your suit requires more extensive fixes, they will send you a free replacement. THE PROCESS First order of business is creating an event on the website. Once that’s done, enter your measurements using the instructional videos. During this step, you can also set up a free at-home try-on if you want to touch and
feel the suit you’re planning to order in person. Then you’ll pick out your tux or suit, add accessories and check out. The whole process takes under 30 minutes. Once you secure your own rental, you can then invite your groomsmen to get started on their orders. Generation Tux’s management system allows you, your partner or even your wedding planner to view the status of each groomsman. (So, if one of your friends is seriously slacking and hasn’t been measured yet, you can follow up before it becomes a full-blown crisis.) And with friendly automated reminders of rental deadlines, all of the stress of managing (read: nagging) your wedding party is out of your hands. Another plus: When five or more of your groomsmen rent tuxedos through Generation Tux, your outfit is free. Your rental will arrive 14 days prior to your wedding. Once you receive your rental, you have 48 hours to flag any issues. After your event, return your rentals within three days with prepaid postage.
In addition to killer accessories, Generation Tux offers a selection of suits and tuxes in boy sizes— so even the most pint-size members of your party will look polished in photos. PRICE From $69, GenerationTux.com STANDOUT SERVICE
MEN’S WEARHOUSE Men’s Wearhouse is the go-to for off-the-rack designer suits for every style, but it also slays at rentals. There are 25 options to choose from, including looks for junior groomsmen and ring bearers. The selection is more traditional, with two- and three-piece suit and tux rentals in black, gray, blue and tan, plus a variety of accessories. THE FIT Men’s Wearhouse offers a range of sizes, lengths and styles in classic, modern and slim fits, depending on the suit or tux you choose. If you’re unsure of your size, you can use the site’s builtin Fit Evaluator or visit one of their nationwide locations to be measured by an in-store consultant. ›› THE SELECTION
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Your rental will arrive two to three days before your event, but you should place your order at least 15 days in advance (if you’re cutting it super close). Start by selecting a prestyled outfit, or build your own look by choosing a suit or tux and adding accessories. Then, specify the type of event you’re renting for and the date before entering your measurements and checking out. Similar to Generation Tux and The Black Tux, Men’s Wearhouse offers an online group management tool to help you keep tabs on your wedding party. And, if six or more of your groomsmen rent suit or tuxedo packages, you can earn a free JOE Custom suit, a free rental or a $400 shopping spree. After your event, you only have one day to return your rental, but you can return it to any Men’s Wearhouse location. STANDOUT SERVICE Men’s Wearhouse hits the mark with their size-inclusive range of rentals, with jackets available in up to sizes 70 long and pants that go up to a 70-inch waist. PRICE From $100, MensWearhouse.com THE PROCESS
STITCH & TIE Stitch & Tie has a collection of 27 suits and tuxedos in traditional shades, as well as a couple of bolder options like red and teal. Unlike other sites, they also have a classic black tuxedo rental specifically tailored for women too. THE FIT Stitch & Tie offers a range of sizes in slim and modern cuts. To ensure an accurate fit, you’ll have to enter your specific measurements. If you’re not sure how to take your measurements, watch the instructional videos that make measuring yourself virtually foolproof. If your rental arrives and the fit is off, they’ll send you a replacement if you contact them within 48 hours or reimburse you up to $15 for minor alterations. For added peace of mind,
try the at-home trial service and borrow a suit or tux for 48 hours for $40, which is later applied to your final costs if you decide to take the plunge. THE PROCESS To avoid rush-shipping charges, start shopping for your rental at least 21 days before your event. After creating your account, build your custom look or choose from a selection of curated outfits, then enter your event date and your sizes before checking out. Their group management tool can save different looks for each groomsman and even send out friendly reminders to place their orders. Your rental will arrive a week or more before your event date,
and you’ll have 48 hours afterward to return it. If you need to keep it longer, there’s an extra fee. STANDOUT SERVICE No formalwear is complete without the right accents, and while Stitch & Tie offers the usual accessories to complete your outfit, its bespoke service is pretty innovative. It works like this: Mail in your fabric of choice, and their tailors will create a custom bow tie, tie or pocket square within four weeks. Let your groomsmen choose their favorite print, or send in a swatch complementary to your bridal party’s dresses to match. PRICE From $125, StitchandTie.com
C L E A N C O N S C I E N C E S P I L L E D S O M E B U B B LY O N YO U R J A C K E T ? L O S T A B U T T O N O R T W O W H I L E T E A R I N G U P T H E D A N C E F L O O R ? D O N ’ T F R E T. M O S T R E N T A L S I T E S C O V E R D R Y C L E A N I N G A N D M I N O R D A M A G E S A T N O A D D I T I O N A L C O S T, S O T H E R E ’ S N O N E E D TO ST R E S S O U T O R RU S H TO T H E C L E A N E R S B E FO R E R E T U R N I N G YO U R S U I T O R T UX .
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Accessorize in Style Found your dress? Now it’s time for the fun part: adding accessories you love. Here, the comprehensive guide to pulling off a totally personalized look. BY SHELLEY BROWN
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CLASSIC Simplicity is key to nailing timeless bridal style. For sparkle that won’t clash with a classic gown, invest in understated jewelry like pearl drop earrings, diamond studs or a thin tennis bracelet you’ll want to wear long after your wedding day. To make a more dramatic statement, consider crystal-encrusted or pearl hair clips, or a long, sheer veil with lace edging that matches the fabric of your gown. Looking to infuse a pop of color into your streamlined ensemble? Give a nod to the “something blue” tradition with a pair of baby-blue heels or a sapphire pendant. Another thought: Pair a black-velvet sash with your dress. It’s a bold accessory that creates a sophisticated contrast and accentuates your waist.
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RUSTIC Give a nod to your outdoor surroundings with nature-inspired details in a stonewashed palette. Lush flower crowns with a mix of blooms or sprigs of baby’s breath are a great place to start. To add some sparkle to your ensemble, go for antique gold, rose gold or pewter jewelry embellished with raw gemstones or crystals. If you’re going all in, skip the fancy heels and opt for distressed boots in leather or suede. For fall or winter nuptials, keep warm with a faux-fur coat, denim jacket or textured knit wrap.
Saying “I do” with your toes in the sand? A seaside locale calls for effortless wedding attire and fun, colorful accessories. Freshwater pearls, tropical statement earrings, cowrie shell bracelets and delicate layered necklaces are right on trend. If you’re feeling bold, a straw hat decorated with local, fresh flowers makes for a cute photo. Where footwear is concerned, less is more. Forgo shoes altogether or swap out your heels for embellished sandals. If you want the added height of a heel without any of the fuss, white or metallic grosgrain wedges or platforms offer more stability on the sand than traditional stilettos or pumps.
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ROMANTIC A touch more luxe than a rustic wedding, gauzy fabrics, floral embellishments and soft, pastel hues emphasize the dreamy feel of romantic nuptials. Whether you’re wearing a sexy, curve-skimming dress or a frothy, embellished ensemble, consider wearing a long, sheer veil for a dramatic detail that won’t distract. Or, channel your inner Renaissance heroine with a boho Juliet cap veil plus floral accents. Polish off your look with lots of whimsical jewelry (we love pieces that incorporate oversize flowers, butterflies and even bees), or focus on one statement piece, like a pair of ornate chandelier earrings.
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VINTAGE This style can refer to a wide range of time periods, so first narrow down the feel you’re going for. Is it the sophistication of the ’50s or the glamour of the ’20s? If the former, a birdcage veil is a totally retro option and works with a variety of dresses. If you aren’t crazy about the idea of wearing a veil, hair combs and headbands with classic touches like lace or pearls also add polish to any hairstyle. To channel the glitz of the Roaring Twenties, opt for feathery and beaded headbands, art deco statement accessories and swinging fringe details. Vintage style also lends itself to old-fashioned jewelry. Repurpose your own family heirlooms or browse local estate sales and vintage stores to find special pieces with an antique vibe.
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SKIN D E E P Get ready for the glow up. We tapped the experts to get the deets on high-tech and DIY solutions to some of the most common skin care dilemmas, so you can face your wedding day feeling confident and camera ready.
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Dull Skin
PROBLEM: “I want the opposite of a glow on my wedding day,” said no bride ever. But seasonal changes and dehydration (say, from hitting the wine to counteract wedding planning stress) can cause your complexion to have a dry, lackluster appearance. To boost your glow at home, incorporate a vitamin C serum into your morning skin care routine. “This can help prevent fine lines, wrinkles and skin cancer. It also notably brightens the complexion as it’s a potent antioxidant,” says Marnie Nussbaum, a dermatologist in New York. You can also try an at-home glycolic peel—just make sure you give yourself a couple of weeks before your wedding to avoid walking down the aisle with blotchy, irritated skin. For more immediate results, consider making an appointment with a dermatologist for a Clear + Brilliant or Fraxel laser facial to resurface the skin and stimulate collagen production. “Both are fractional laser treatments that jump-start the regeneration of new skin, increasing collagen and elastin,” Nussbaum says. “They also improve skin tone and texture and exfoliate away dead skin cells.” Pro tip: Schedule these treatments at least a few weeks before your day. The effects of Fraxel can take up to seven days to heal, and Clear + Brilliant can take up to three.
Start amping up your skin care routine a year to six months before your day.
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Using acne products may cause skin to get worse before it gets better— they can cause a temporary purging effect.
Acne Scars
PROBLEM: The only thing worse than a major zit is a deep, lingering reminder. Acne scars can be the result of moderate to severe acne, and typically show up as uneven or “pitted” areas. “Microneedling treatments, specifically those with a device called Vivace, can help soften or reverse this scarring,” Mack says. A microneedling tool that is coupled with radiofrequency, Vivace stimulates collagen production to plump up pitted areas over time and rejuvenate the skin. After a treatment, you may experience mild redness and pinpoint bleeding that lasts from one to two hours. The big plus to looking like raw meat for a couple of hours? You can expect to see smaller pores, tighter skin and an overall more even complexion within a few weeks. If microneedling isn’t in your budget (the cost can run upward of $650 a session), almighty retinol can also resurface pitted areas—but won’t do away with them completely. ››
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Acne-Prone Skin
PROBLEM: Pimples are a rite of passage, but not everyone stops dealing with breakouts after their teenage years. If you’re eager to clear up your skin before your day, we hear you. To tackle this problem at home, look into adding retinoid products like Differin gel into your regimen. “Apply a peasize amount at night with an overlying oil-free moisturizer like Cerave PM to combat dryness,” says Lian Mack, a dermatologist at GlamDerm in New York. Keep in mind it can take an average of six to eight weeks for breakouts to ease up after starting an acne regimen. And, using acne products may cause skin to get worse before it gets better. “They can cause a temporary purging effect, where congestion comes to the surface,” Mack says. If you’re looking for a more aggressive treatment, consider a series of salicylic acid peels. This potent ingredient combats acne by clearing up clogged pores. It also speeds up cellular turnover, which can help with scarring and discoloration. Mack recommends three peels spaced out a month apart. Start this process four months before your “I dos” to give yourself ample time to heal.
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SKIN CARE ESSENTIALS Try these beauty musts for at-home fixes for a variety of skin woes.
EYE CREAM Dab on this caffeine and peptide complex to counter under-eye puffiness and bags. Depuff and Define eye cream, $149, MZSkin.com
V I TA M I N C S E R U M Add this powerful serum to your morning regimen to fade dark spots. Clinical Grade IPL Dark Spot Correcting Serum, $92, DrDennisGross.com
H YA L U R O N I C S E R U M Use this hydrator to plump skin, filling fine lines— no needles necessary. HA5® Rejuvenating Hydrator serum, from $120, SkinMedica.com
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Under-Eye Bags
PROBLEM: Real talk: No matter how much sleep you get, under-eye bags can make you look chronically exhausted. With age, the tissues and muscles surrounding the eyelids weaken, causing the fat that helps support the eyes to move into the lower eyelids. The result? Puffy eye bags. If yours are minor, fixing them can be as easy as some topical TLC and a change of diet. “In addition to an eye cream, apply cool compresses to your eyes and limit fluid and sodium intake before bedtime,” says Konstantin Vasyukevich, MD, a facial plastic surgeon in New York. If these solutions don’t work, a surgical procedure called a lower blepharoplasty is an option. “This removes fat through a small incision on either the outside or inside of the eyelid, rejuvenating the eyes,” Vasyukevich says. Obviously, going under the knife requires more planning than just splurging on a fancy eye cream, so plan wisely. The side effects of blepharoplasty are minor (irritated eyes and bruising), but recovery time depends on the extent of the procedure and can range from three to seven days.
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AHA PEEL Exfoliate away dead skin in minutes with a blend of alpha hydroxy acids. AHA 30% + BHA 2% Peeling Solution, $8, TheOrdinary.com
A C N E T R E AT M E N T Apply a pea-size amount daily to clear up breakouts and prevent future ones. Differin Adapalene gel 0.1%, $29, Walmart.com
RETINOL CREAM Slather this onto your face, neck and décolletage for a brighter, firmer complexion. Wonder Cream, $120, AmarteSkinCare.com
PROBLEM:
Hollow Under Eyes
Basically the opposite problem as eye bags, hollow under eyes can also make you look sleep deprived, and are caused by loss of facial volume (read: superficial fat and muscle) that happen with age. The big con where this issue is concerned? There’s no DIY solution. Instead, Vasyukevich recommends using injectable fillers under the eyes. While the word “filler” may conjure images of pouty-lipped Instagram celebs, these injectables are actually super effective at making up for lost facial volume and can last anywhere from six to nine months. Here’s how they work: Once injected, filler (hyaluronic acid is the most popular kind) sits under the skin, immediately plumping up hollow areas and smoothing out deep creases and wrinkles. Although there isn’t significant downtime associated with this treatment, timing it right is important. Plan to get filler around four months before your wedding so you won’t look less (ahem) refreshed at your prewedding events.
Fine Lines + Wrinkles
PROBLEM: Facial wrinkles across the forehead, between the brows, at the outer corners of the eyes and around the mouth typically appear in your mid-30s and become deeper with time. If your fine lines aren’t severe, applying a hyaluronic acid serum that draws in water from your skin can reduce their appearance. “Skin Medica has a long-releasing hyaluronic acid, which erases wrinkles, even under your eyes where your makeup can collect and draw attention to fine lines,” says Sabrina Fabi, a dermatologist in San Diego. (We recommend stashing a tube in your emergency kit to reapply throughout the day.) If your lines are more significant, consider botulinum toxin. Commonly referred to as Botox (fun fact: Botox is actually a brand name of one of the most popular versions of botulinum toxin), this injectable also goes by the name Dysport, Xeomin and Jeuveau. When used for antiaging purposes, it smooths out wrinkles caused by the repetitive activity of the facial muscles. “Neurotoxins take two weeks to take effect, but if you have deeper lines, there’s an added benefit of repeating treatment,” Fabi says. Bottom line: You’ll probably want to have two treatments before your day, so don’t wait more than five months before your wedding date to try it.
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1 YOUR DRESS HAS A DEEP V-NECKLINE . This va-va-voom neckline is here to stay for two reasons: It elongates the body and works for almost any chest size. The major drawback? Classic bras weren’t made with the super-plunging look in mind. Instead, look for one that has a special cutout in the front to accommodate low necklines. Most likely it will have extra support on the sides (or, in this case, is designed as a bodysuit) to make sure that, despite the deep dip, everything stays put.
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2 YOUR DRESS IS CUT CLOSE TO THE BODY AND HUGS YOUR STOMACH. THE ESSENTIAL If you’re looking for a more defined hourglass shape, consider sculpting bottoms with reinforced front panels to pull in your lower abdomen and emphasize your natural waist. Go for a style with boyshorts or a thong for a polished effect. Suit Your Fancy High-Waisted Thong, from $64, Spanx.com
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5 YOUR DRESS SHOWS OFF YOUR CURVES FROM BEHIND. If you’re rocking a slinky silhouette that calls for Kardashian-esque curves, find a pair of special shorts or panties that can give your booty a slight boost (yes, this is a thing). Your guests don’t need to know you’re getting some subtle help accentuating your curves, so look for shorts with a cotton or silicone padding that looks and feels natural.
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A backless gown makes one heck of an exit, but it can make finding a supportive bra tricky. Your best bet when it comes to this style is a bra with adhesive cups. Silicone cups will give you the most natural feel, and a nude color will make it nearly invisible under your gown. Pro tip: If the back of your dress isn’t too low (it hits around the middle of your back) and you’re worried adhesive cups won’t stay put or give you enough support, consider a strapless corset with a plunging back.
Strapless necklines flatter the neck, shoulders and décolletage but can also fall down and create a dreaded wardrobe malfunction when paired with the wrong undergarments. A bra with added grips on the inside is one possible solution to the elusive slipping strapless bra; another answer is the longline bra. This more foolproof option is attached to a corset-like bodice, which offers more support against slippage since it wraps around your waist. Bonus: This style works especially well for larger cup sizes.
Seamless Bra, $42, NuBra.com
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QUALITY SLEEP It’s one thing to get enough sleep— but do you wake up actually feeling rested? In stressful times, even if you hit the sheets for eight hours, the mind can stay active, so you could still wake up tired. Meditation skills can help you get to sleep faster—even in the middle of the night—letting you start the next day feeling totally refreshed.
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You’re wedding planning, aka doing all the things. Training your mind to be less distracted and more present, you can focus on one task at a time and do it better and efficiently—win-win.
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Our moods change daily. We can either let ourselves get dialed in to the highs and lows or create space for them to come and go, knowing they’ll pass. Having that perspective will give you freedom and a sense of contentment with how the mind is now—even when the wrong-colored linens arrive.
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Carve out 5 to 10 minutes (put it in your calendar if need be). View it as a break or treat—this is a time in your day when you can focus on you.
Scope out a spot where you won’t be interrupted. You can even meditate in your car before work, or during your commute on a train or bus.
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Feeling fearless? Consider a gauzy, pale green ball gown with bold botanical details. Dress in sizes up to 22, $7,500, Monique Lhuillier at Berrybridge Bridal Boutique, Berrybridge Bridal.com (St. Louis); earrings, $16,550, LeVian.com; engagement ring, $6,880, FireandIceDiamonds.com
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RUSTIC ROMANCE Slip on a lingerie-inspired frock with delicate lace embellishments for a look that’s equal parts sweet and sultry. Dress in sizes up to 12, $4,990, earrings, $1,600, DanielleFrankel Studio.com, engagement ring, $1,490 (not including center stone), KirkKara.com; wedding band, $2,400, SingleStone.com
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FARM FRESH A slinky silhouette edges up the über-feminine feel of a rose-print gown. Dress in sizes up to 12, $6,445, VivienneWestwood .com; engagement ring, $43,657, Christopher Designs.com; earrings, $2,155, AnabelaChan.com; shoes, $515, FreyaRose.com
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If your personal style is more carefree, opt for an unstructured silhouette. This tiered dress has great movement and is effortlessly gorgeous. Dress in sizes up to 12, $8,779, LihiHod.com; hat, stylist’s own; earrings, $225, JenniferBehr.com
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Go 3-D to put a new twist on classic bridal florals. An oversize organza flower paired with smaller silk blooms is pure whimsy. Dress in sizes up to 20, $5,800, Vera Wang at Berrybridge Bridal Boutique, Berrybridge Bridal.com (St. Louis); engagement ring, $4,400 (not including center stone), SimonGJewelry .com; earrings, $325, JenniferBehr.com
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Guipure lace with a pretty paisley motif is the best of both worlds: It’s casual enough for a laid-back affair but still feels polished. Dress in any size, price upon request, Costarellos.com; engagement ring, $2,156 (not including center stone), SimonGJewelry.com; earrings, $220, Oscar de la Renta, Nordstrom.com
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If dresses aren’t your thing, or you’re looking for a sharp ensemble for the events surrounding your day, a pantsuit with a more relaxed fit is right on trend. Custom suit, shop similar styles at SavannahMiller .com; engagement ring, $35,098, ChristopherDesigns.com; earrings, $4,250, SelinKent.com
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make it legal Missouri & Kansas Marriage License Requirements GUIDELINES FOR OBTAINING A MARRIAGE LICENSE In the Greater Kansas City area, the legal age for marriage is 18 years old. Couples ages 15–17 must have parental consent. (Note: In Illinois, no one under 16 can be married.) In general, there are no blood tests or health requirements to obtain a legal license. In Missouri and Illinois, both parties must be present to apply for a license, and in Missouri you must provide a SSN and photo ID. In Kansas, either the bride or groom can apply; however, both the bride and groom must sign the form they take home. There is a three-day waiting period to obtain the license in Kansas. The license is then valid for just 30 days in Missouri and for six months in Kansas. There is a one-day waiting period in Illinois, and the license is valid for 60 days. The fee is around $50 in Missouri, $85 in Kansas and roughly $30 in Illinois. Check with your county for types of acceptable payment. All offices are open Monday through Friday. Please call ahead to get all the details. WHERE TO APPLY MISSOURI
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Recorder of Deeds 41 S. Central Ave., 4th Fl. Clayton, MO 63105 (314) 615-7180 8 a.m.–5 p.m., M, W, F; 8 a.m.–6 p.m., T, Th.
Clerk of the District Court 601 S. 3rd St., Ste. 3051 Leavenworth, KS 66048 (913) 684-0707 8 a.m.–5 p.m.
District Court 710 N. 7th St. Kansas City, KS 66101 (913) 573-2834 8 a.m.–4:30 p.m.
County Clerk 157 N. Main St., Ste. 109 Edwardsville, IL 62025 (618) 692-6290 8:30 a.m.–4:30 p.m.
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County Clerk’s Office 200 S. 9th St., Rm. 101 Springfield, IL 62701 (217) 753-6700 8:30 a.m.–5 p.m.
Boone County Recorder of Deeds 801 E. Walnut, Rm. 132 Columbia, MO 65201 (573) 886-4350 8 a.m.–5 p.m.
Cass County Recorder of Deeds 102 E. Wall St. Harrisonville, MO 64701 (816) 380-8123 8 a.m.–4 p.m.
Clay County Recorder of Deeds 1 Courthouse Sq. Liberty, MO 64068 (816) 407-3560 8 a.m.–4:30 p.m.
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Recorder of Deeds 415 E. 12th St., Rm. 104 Kansas City, MO 64106 (816) 881-1577 8 a.m.–5 p.m.
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Douglas County Clerk of District Court 111 E. 11th St. Lawrence, KS 66044 (785) 832-5227 1 p.m.–4 p.m.
Jefferson County District Court 310 Jefferson St. Oskaloosa, KS 66066 (785) 863-2461 8 a.m.–4 p.m.
Johnson County District Court 100 N. Kansas Ave., Fl. 2 Olathe, KS 66061 (913) 715-3428 8 a.m.–5 p.m.
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Sedgwick County District Court 525 N. Main St., Fl. 9 Wichita, KS 67203 (316) 660-5900 8 a.m.–4 p.m.
Shawnee County Clerk of District Court 200 SE 7th St., Rm. 209 Topeka, KS 66603 (785) 233-8200 8 a.m.–4 p.m.
County Clerk 101 N. 4th St. Effingham, IL 62401 (217) 342-6535 8 a.m.–4 p.m.
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Jackson County Clerk Office 1001 Walnut St., Fl. 1 Murphysboro, IL 62966 (618) 687-7360 8 a.m.–4 p.m.
Jefferson County County Clerk & Recorder 100 S. 10th St., Rm. 105 Mt. Vernon, IL 62864 (618) 244-8020 8 a.m.–5 p.m.
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make it known Publications GUIDELINES FOR ANNOUNCING YOUR WEDDING IN THE LOCAL PAPERS Photographs may be submitted to accompany the announcement; however, instant photos or color copies are not acceptable. In some instances, photographs may be returned if a self-addressed stamped envelope is included with the announcement. Call to get all of the details before submitting.
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Lawrence Journal-World
(785) 832-7151 PO Box 888 Lawrence, KS 66044
Submit info at noon on the Wednesday prior to the desired Saturday publication.
Form: Yes; available online.
Announcements are free for Lawrence residents.
Topeka Capital-Journal
(785) 295-1297 Attn: Celebrations 616 SE Jefferson Topeka, KS 66607
Deadline for submission is 10 days prior to the desired Sunday publication.
Form: Yes
A 1-column announcement costs $2.65 per line, plus $45.08 for a photo; a 2-column announcement is $5.30 per line, plus $90.16 for a photo. $10 online charge.
Wichita Eagle
(316) 268-6667 Attn: Celebrations 825 E. Douglas Wichita, KS 67202
Submit info at least one week prior to the desired publication date.
Form: Optional
Announcements cost 55 cents per word ($45 minimum); photo is $15.75 to $141.75, depending on size of photo.
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Must submit info two weeks prior to the desired publication date.
Form: No
There is no charge for this service.
(816) 254-8600 410 S. Liberty Independence, MO 64050
Announcements published on Saturdays on a firstcome, first-served basis.
Form: Yes; prefer online submission at Examiner.net
$24.95 for an online announcement.
The Independent
(816) 471-2800 4233 Roanoke Rd., Ste. 100 Kansas City, MO 64111
Submissions should be made within three months of the wedding.
Form: Yes Photos should present the bride and groom in formal attire.
Fees range from $100 to $300.
Kansas City Star
(816) 234-4390 Attn: Celebrations 1729 Grand Blvd. Kansas City, MO 64108
Deadline for submissions is three weeks prior to the desired Sunday publication.
Form: Yes
Basic announcements (no photo) are free; package fees range from $79 to $899.
Springfield News-Leader
(417) 837-1990 Attn: Celebrations Dept. 651 N. Boonville Ave. Springfield, MO 65806
Must be received within 30 days of the event and are not guaranteed a publication date. Deadline for paid submissions is noon on the Monday prior to the desired Sunday publication date.
Form: Yes
Prices start at $99 for 50 words and one photo.
St. Louis Post-Dispatch
(314) 340-8549 Attn: Classified Dept. 900 N. Tucker Blvd. St. Louis, MO 63101
Submit info two weeks prior to the desired Saturday publication date. Preferred publication date is subject to space availability and is not guaranteed.
Form: Yes
Announcements 1 column wide with a photo: $140; announcements 2 columns wide with a photo: $330 to $440, depending on photo size.
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Belleville News-Democrat
(618) 239-2611 Attn: Darla Reynolds 120 S. Illinois St. Belleville, IL 62220
Announcements published within two Sundays of submission.
Form: Optional
Fees range from $55 (2 columns x 2 1/2 inches) to $135 (2 columns x 10 inches).
Effingham Daily News
(217) 347-7151 x134 PO Box 370 Effingham, IL 62401
Announcements published on a spaceavailable basis.
Form: Optional; available online at EffinghamDailyNews.com
There is no charge for this service.
Mount Vernon Register-News
(618) 242-0113 Attn: Tessa Collie 911 Broadway Mt. Vernon, IL 62864
Announcements published on a spaceavailable basis.
Form: Yes
The photo fee is $10 for blackand-white and $30 for color.
The Southern Illinoisan
(618) 529-5454 x5172 Attn: Lifestyles PO Box 2108 Carbondale, IL 62902
Announcements published Sundays on a spaceavailable basis. Info must be received within six months of the wedding, two weeks prior to publication.
Form: Yes; available online. Photos returned with SASE.
The fee is $20 or $30, depending on length.
State JournalRegister
(217) 788-1330 Attn: Weddings 1 Coppley Plz. Springfield, IL 62701
Submit info on Wednesday, one week prior to desired Sunday publication. Announcements published on a space-available basis.
Form: No
Fees vary by word count and photo.
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LET US MAKE YOUR DREAM WEDDING A REALITY... Picture your first dance under the dreamy glow of the Grand Ballroom’s magnificent crystal chandeliers or within the elegant atmosphere of the Seville Ballroom. Additionally, the new Plaza Terrace features a spectacular view of the Country Club Plaza. Imagine your gorgeous suite with breathtaking plaza views, a bottle of bubbly and chocolate-covered strawberries. Attractively located on the Country Club Plaza, let us create the perfect destination for the most important day of your life. MARRIOTT KANSAS CITY COUNTRY CLUB PLAZA 4445 Main St., Kansas City, MO 64111 816.303.4581, www.marriott.com/mcipl, anna.singleton@marriottccplaza.com
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For 50 years, we have celebrated with thousands of couples, providing customized menus and services to make their day truly memorable. We offer everything from hand passed hors d’oeuvres, signature cocktails, traditional full-service seated dinners, elegantly appointed buffet displays, specialty designed food stations or late night snacks to fuel your guests on the dance floor. Our expert coordinators and dedicated team will work with you to create the perfect menu and service plan to ensure all details are executed above expectation. From everyone at Brancato’s Catering, congratulations on your engagement and we look forward to working with you to make your dreams a reality.
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Catering St. Louis
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21c Kansas City
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Cedar Creek
80
23 City Blocks Catering
57
Celebrating Life Cake Boutique
201
28 Event Space
48
Ces & Judy’s Catering
23
612North Event Space + Catering
111
Championship Catering
166
The Abbott
227
Chandler Hill Vineyards
35
Above & Beyond Catering
210
Chateau on the Lake Resort & Spa
42
Arthur Murray Dance Studio
313
The Cheshire
158
The Barn at Lone Eagle Landing
124
Clayton Plaza Hotel
149
Barnett on Washington
25
Columbia Country Club
109
Bear Creek Golf Club
99
Contemporary Productions
169
Beau Vaughn Photography
28
The Coronado
39
The Biergarten
185
Crestview Dairy Events
291
Big Cedar Lodge
Insert
Defiance Ridge Vineyards
70
Blanc de Bleu Cuvée Mousseux
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Eighteen Ninety
311
The Blue Owl Bakery
199
Emily Hart Bridal
65
Bogey Hills Country Club
146
Events by Elle
239
Brancato’s Catering
316
Executive Hills Polo Club
261
The Bride & The Bauer
266
Feasts of Fancy
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Bronzed & Blushed
315
Fête Booth
45
The Brownstone Wedding & Event Venue
245
Fish Eye Fun
79
BUDS
209
Forest Park Golf Course
93
Butler’s Pantry
4, 38
Four Seasons Hotel St. Louis
97
The Caramel Room
55
The Franklin Room
74
Cardinals Special Events
103
The Gallery
242
Casa Loma Ballroom
135
Genesis Catering & Banquet Center
171
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Lone Summit Ranch
281
Grand Events
180
Lost Hill Lake Events
209
The Guild
279
Lumen Private Event Space
63
Hillary J. Events
201
Mad Art Gallery
137
Hilton President Kansas City
311
The Magic House
199
Hilton St. Louis at the Ballpark
157
Magnolia Venue & Urban Garden
215
Hilton St. Louis Frontenac
106
Main Street Abbey
105
The Historic Longview Mansion
273
The Malthouse Cellar
161
The Historic Post Office
50
Manhattan Country Club
269
The Home Place at Valley View
255
Marriott Kansas City Airport
299
Hotel Saint Louis
86
Marriott Kansas City Country Club Plaza
315
House of Blues Las Vegas
83
Marriott Kansas City Downtown
73
Hy-Vee
60
Marriott St. Louis West
33
Hyatt Regency St. Louis At The Arch
207
McArthur’s Bakery
141
Innsbrook
177
McKelvey Vineyards
163
InterContinental Kansas City
274
Missouri Athletic Club
132
The Jayhawk Club
265
Moulin Events and Meetings
161
The Journey Home
282
NEO on Locust
1
KAF Kranzberg Events
195
New Town at St. Charles
119
Kansas City Convention Center
16
Noboleis Vineyards
40
Kuhs Estate and Farm
12
Noire Studios Photography
249
La Perla
67
The Old Post Office
203
Laumeier Sculpture Park
205
The Overland Park Convention Center
287
The Legacy at Green Hills
236
Palladium St. Louis
5, 39
Lemp Mansion Restaurant & Inn
117
Pennway Place at Studio Dan Meiners
47
The Lodge of Four Seasons
31
Pinstripes
299
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Ultrapom Event Rental
314
Public Media Commons
205
Union Horse Distilling Co.
7
Restoration 1894
231
Uptown Theater
14
The Rhapsody
263
The Venue at Maison du Lac
53
Russo’s Catering
11
The Venue at Willow Creek
271
Sara Reed Studios
293 The Venue in Leawood
241
Schnucks Florist & Gifts
151 Venues at 061
316
Serendipity Farm & Vine
228 The View at Briarcliff
285
Shaw Nature Reserve
155
Silver Oaks Chateau
9
Villa Antonio Winery
123
Sophia M. Sachs Butterfly House
155
The Vineyard at Riverbend Chapel
26
St. Louis Carousel
139
Visions Reception Hall
258
St. Louis Community Foundation at #2 Oak Knoll
38
The Vow Exchange
217
St. Louis Union Station Hotel
175
Water’s Edge Banquet Center
165
The Stanley
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The Weingarten
203
Stems
207
Weinhardt Party Rentals
193
Stifel Theatre
68
The Westin St. Louis
94
Stone House of St. Charles
58 Whippoorwill Acres
223
Sugaree Baking Co.
172 Whitmoor Country Club
152
Wichita Art Museum
297
Wild Carrot
91
Willow
114
Windows On Washington®
21
319
Piropos
Sunflower Hill Farm
197
Sunset Bluffs Venue
179
Sunset Country Club
183
The Terrace On Grand
277
Thompson Barn
37
Tiffany Greens Golf Club
233
World’s Fair Pavilion
38
Tower Studios
2
YellowBrick Graphics
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We were in the middle of our vows and the wind wanted to be a part of them too,” Mark says. “Kelli’s veil was flying all over, so I held it down. Despite the distraction, our focus was on each other, and that says a lot about our relationship. We can make the best of any situation and turn it into something humorous.”
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