The Knot Missouri Kansas Fall/Winter 2017 by The Knot Missouri & Kansas

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A UNIQUE VENUE IN A HISTORIC BUILDING W I T H I N C L O S E P R O X I M I T Y T O S T. L O U I S U N I V E R S I T Y D E S I G N E D T O A C C O M M O D AT E L A R G E R G R O U P S A N D C U S T O M I Z E D E V E N T S S P E C TA C U L A R 3 6 0 D E G R E E V I E W O F S T. L O U I S S K Y L I N E A N D T H E A R C H I D E A L LY S U I T E D T O H O S T B O T H C E R E M O N I E S A N D R E C E P T I O N S

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CONTENTS

contents FALL/WINTER 2017

in this issue 12 16 20 24 28 44 50 54 60 63 69 375

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let the good times roll

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get the look theknot.com editorâ&#x20AC;&#x2122;s letter checklist ask carley top picks 8 historic celebration sites expert advice secrets from real couples haute hues love stories marriage licenses and wedding announcements snapshot

PHOTOGRAPH BY PAUL COSTELLO

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hot trends to make your own

fashion 180

let the good times roll High-low hems, feathers and fringe make for a fun, flirty bridal look.

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make it suite Your morning-of to-dos.

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maid for style Make sure your girls look fabulous.

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works of art Find the right ring for you.

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9 rules for accessorizing your dress Pick the perfect finishing touches.

beauty & wellness 217

white hot Get a megawatt smile for your day.

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hair repair Celeb stylist George Papanikolas solves your prewedding hair dilemmas.

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sweating for the wedding Kick your fitness goals into gear.

style wedding themes 101

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Our glossary has everything you need.

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colors by season

Follow this guide to choose your florals.

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Let nature’s hues guide your palette.

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how to avoid a “pin-dictable” wedding hot trends to make your own The ideas we’re loving this year.

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look good on paper All your stationery questions answered.

wedding cakes by style How to make your cake mirror your vibe and theme.

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Secrets to hosting a one-of-a-kind event.

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a stem for every style

where to register right now The nitty-gritty on our favorite retailers.

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the front-end favor A twist on the traditional parting gift.

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works of art

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Call To Set Up A Consultation With Jenny Thomasson, AIFD CFD

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CONTENTS

r eal weddings 75 kali & adam october 8, kansas city, mo

80 nicole & josh july 9, kansas city, mo

86 kyndall & jordan may 29, kansas city, ks

90 katie & trip august 20, mission hills, ks

94 laura & ricky september 10, manhattan, ks

96 hannah & bobby may 21, wichita, ks

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235 annie & michael october 15, st. louis

happy campers

p lanning you can break

Some traditions just don’t hold up. Pull off an awesome camp wedding.

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283 how to actually pay for

your wedding

linda & greg

Little things you can save on, big things you can sacrifice and how it all adds up.

274 happy campers

240 linda & greg

2 89 please be seated

october 8, st. louis

New setup options for your ceremony.

246 lauren & brian

295 on the write track

july 9, st. louis april 8, pacific, mo

301 social studies

254 savanna & marshall 258 amber & matthew

Ask your photographer these questions.

september 4, ridgedale, mo

335 face the music Mistakes not to make with your band or DJ.

341 no one can prep you for these

day-of surprises

Some things you don’t find out until your wedding day.

347 road to the altar 353 8 wedding planning

mistakes—and how to deal

357 engagement party basics Hosting etiquette you need to know.

362 hottest honeymoon

destinations

313 the big picture

262 ashley & aaron

Pack your bags for the trip of a lifetime.

321 reel talk

264 emily & jen

Find the perfect videographer to capture your day.

june 11, st. louis

r eal wedding budget key $ = $10,000 or less

307 13 essential planning tips Advice no to-be-wed should be without.

april 23, st. louis

Add some hometown flair to your day.

Don’t sweat the small stuff.

Don’t commit a social media faux pas.

october 8, sainte genevieve, mo

nationwide

Stylish transportation options.

Follow our tricks to help you pen your vows.

250 sarosh & tyler

329 foodie faves that ship

W e know your #1 question is “How much does this cost?” so we worked with the couples to tally up their final budgets (sweat and tears not included!). Keep in mind that this total doesn’t reflect the prices of their individual wedding professionals or the quality of their work. Every couple has different priorities— while one might have spent the majority of their budget on a stellar cake, another might have splurged on their photographer or showstopping florals.

$$ = $10,001–$30,000

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$$$ = $30,001–$50,000

$$$$ = $50,001–$75,000

$$$$$ = $75,001+

FROM LEFT: CLARY PFEIFFER PHOTOGR APHY; JEREMIAH AND R ACHEL PHOTOGR APHY

267 10 old-school planning rules

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Love is Stronger

Nick Allen Photo. Gown by: Lazaro. Accessories: Lindsay Marie Design. Decor: Ultrapom. Model: Bayleigh Dayton of Exposure Model and Talent.

K A N S A S C I T Y

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Setting the Scene

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get the look

ABOUT THE COVER

Check out more fashion-forward dresses for your wedding day and beyond at TheKnot.com/fashion.

ON HER

Dress, $4,200, Rivini at Fleur De Lis Bridal Boutique, FleurDeLisBridal .com (Clayton, MO); engagement ring, $1,580, MarrowFine.com

Dress, price upon request, Marchesa .com; headpiece, $197, SaraGabriel .com; engagement ring, price upon request, UneekJewelry.com; shoes, $795, JimmyChoo.com

Dress, price upon request, Sareh Nouri at Nolte’s Bridal, NoltesBridal.com (Overland Park, KS); headpiece, $285, Paris by Deborah Moreland, KleinfeldBridal.com; engagement ring, $1,800 (not including center stone), AJaffe.com; band, $825, CoastDiamond .com; shoes, $110, WHITE by Vera Wang, DavidsBridal.com

Jacket, $450, pants, $250, JCrew .com; shirt, $90, Joseph Abboud, MensWearhouse.com

ON HIM

EASY RIDER Photographer Paul Costello snaps our models cruising through the French Quarter.

ON HIM

Jacket, $450, pants, $250, JCrew .com; shirt, $90, pocket square, $30, Joseph Abboud, MensWearhouse.com; tie, $19, TheTieBar.com; shoes, $350, ColeHaan.com shot on location at Hotel Provincial, HotelProvincial.com

behind the scenes

MODEL BEHAVIOR Design director Tracy Everding and photo assistant Alex Darsey scout locations.

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JAZZ IT UP With its vibrant music scene and colorful architecture, New Orleans was the perfect backdrop for our fun and flirty fashion feature, “Let the Good Times Roll.” After all, what better place to shoot party dresses and statement accessories than a city known for its one-of-a-kind, celebratory vibe?

photography: Paul Costello fashion styling: Audrey Slater hair: Miok for Wella Professionals

at Judy Casey Inc. makeup: Brett Jackson using NARS Cosmetics at Sarah Laird & Good Company florals: Poppy & Mint Floral Company

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www.BlancdeBleuUSA.com Sparkling grape wine with organic blueberry juice concentrate and certified color. Drink responsibly. Drive responsibly.

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K MISSOURI & KANSAS

EDITOR IN CHIEF

Kellie Gould

MANAGING EDITORS

DEPUTY EDITOR

Lauren Kay

Susan Berryman Kellee Kratzer

EXECUTIVE EDITOR, DIGITAL

Kristen Maxwell Cooper

CONTRIBUTING ART DIRECTOR

DESIGN DIRECTOR

REAL WEDDINGS PHOTO DIRECTOR

PHOTO DIRECTOR

Toby Fox

Tracy Everding

Rebecca Crumley

Kathy Nguyen

SENIOR NEWS EDITOR FASHION & BEAUTY EDITOR DIGITAL EDITOR REAL WEDDINGS EDITOR ASSOCIATE EDITOR, REAL WEDDINGS ASSISTANT MANAGING EDITOR ASSISTANT EDITOR, RESEARCH ASSISTANT EDITOR, DIGITAL EDITORIAL ASSISTANT, FASHION & BEAUTY EDITORIAL ASSISTANT, DIGITAL SOCIAL EDITOR SENIOR DESIGNER DESIGNER REAL WEDDINGS DESIGNERS

Esther Lee Shelley Brown Ivy Jacobson Stephanie Cain Rachel Sylvester Maria Bouselli Katie Kortebein Andrea Fowler Farah Prince Maggie Seaver Jessica Molinari Katelyn Baker Katie Ragan Kasey Schroeder, Kate Richter ASSOCIATE PHOTO EDITOR Sarah Love ASSOCIATE DIGITAL PHOTO EDITOR Barrie Tovar EDITORIAL & MARKETING COORDINATOR Toni Franchini

PRODUCTION VP, PRODUCTION Frank Dolphens PRODUCTION COORDINATOR Jesse Hardy SYSTEMS MANAGER Sheryl Ziegler SENIOR GRAPHIC DESIGNERS Daryl Wills, Katie Hover GRAPHIC DESIGNER Nicole Daberkow PHOTO PRODUCTION MANAGER Carly Steier PRINT QUALITY ASSURANCE Lois Brunnert Bethune

THE STUDIO @ XO HEAD OF STUDIO Nick Fortunato EDITORIAL DIRECTOR Elizabeth Roehrig DIRECTOR, BRAND EXPERIENCE Alexis Jonnson PRODUCER Joanna Dedvukaj SENIOR EDITORS Cassie Kreitner, Kate Traverson ASSOCIATE COPY EDITOR Kelsey Paine VIDEO PRODUCER Jose Marmolejos SENIOR DESIGNER Amanda Kocis Gallagher PROJECT MANAGER Elizabeth Smith ASSISTANT MANAGING EDITOR Kelley Rowland JUNIOR DIGITAL MARKETING COORDINATOR Claire Flanagan

SALES & MARKETING PRESIDENT, LOCAL MARKETPLACE Paul Bascobert, pbascobert@xogrp.com GROUP VP, LOCAL SALES John Pike, jpike@xogrp.com (212) 515-3535 PUBLISHER Carolyn Mantone, cmantone@theknot.com (888) 873-5093 REGIONAL SALES DIRECTOR Steve Pironti, spironti@theknot.com (888) 873-5093 ACCOUNT EXECUTIVES Britt Shelby, bshelby@theknot.com (877) 430-8266

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COFOUNDER Carley Roney

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REAL WEDDINGS

get inspired

Browse top weddings from Missouri and Kansas for the ultimate local inspiration. You’ll find amazing venues plus creative style ideas that will show your guests what a true local celebration is all about, like Esther and Andy’s Hobbs Building nuptials. Their day included custom wood cake toppers and elegant dahlia-filled arrangements.

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ESTHER & ANDY: ALEA LOVELY; ILLUSTR ATION: YING CHANG

Gather your dream team of wedding vendors with the help of our Ultimate Wedding Guides at TheKnot.com/stateguides. Your Missouri and Kansas directories have everything you need to know about saying “I do,” from getting your marriage license to seasonal tips. Then, connect with planners, florists, photographers and more by searching by region and price in our ever-expanding local marketplace. Happy planning!

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ONCE IN A WHILE, RIGHT IN THE MIDDLE OF AN ORDINARY LIFE,

Love gives us a fairy tale.

Hawthorne House

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EDITOR’ S LET TER

Try our savvy tips for saving without sacrificing. (p. 283) A luxe Chile eco-lodge is perfect for honeymooners. (p. 362)

When I got engaged the first thing I started thinking about was my wedding vision—something that proved much harder to settle on than I expected. I had recently vacationed in Italy and thought I wanted a family-style feast with rustic tables covered in majolica platters filled with Tuscan specialties. All of that changed the minute I walked into my dream venue: a stunning, light-filled Manhattan loft space with a glassenclosed roof and wraparound terrace. From there, everything else fell into place. To help you get your planning off to a successful start, we’ve got ideas for 15 different styles to inspire your day (p. 98). Once you’ve nailed your venue and theme, it will be so much easier to pick a gorgeous cake design (p. 156) and all the other details, as well as choose a dress that suits you and your wedding. And whether it’s a fun, flirty or straight-up sexy gown you’re envisioning, turn to “Let the Good Times Roll” (p. 180) for some seriously beautiful fashion inspo. Of course, it will be hard to pull off your day without a plan for how to pay for it. Luckily, we’ve got tips and tricks for ways to save (p. 283). Plus, there’s so much more to explore in this issue, from this year’s hottest trends (p. 126) to where to register right now (p. 163), so get ready to dog-ear pages and let us help you plan a wedding that’s totally you.

I love the detailing on this Hayley Paige gown. (p. 180)

This cake is a work of art, and one of my faves. (p. 156)

KELLIE GOULD Editor in Chief

A dream catcher makes for a beautiful boho ceremony backdrop. (p. 98)

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Send me questions at kellie@theknot.com or find me on Instagram @kelliegouldny

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CHECKLIST

get your customized wedding checklist at TheKnot.com/checklist

This checklist will tell you what to do, when, on your way to the altar—but make sure to flip the page for our must-have apps and the online tools that will help you get there.

12+ MONTHS

9-11 MONTHS

6-8

date: ______ /______ /______

Don’t worry, your first task is a fun one: Envision your wedding— think about the style you want and color palettes you love. Nail down a budget. When and where would you like to get married? Not sure where to start? The Knot Venue Concierge can give you personal recommendations based on a few details (see Wedding Planning Tools, p. 26). Hire any pros you just have to have, like a band or wedding planner. Start searching for the dress. Get the ring appraised and then insured ASAP.

Find a stationer and order your savethe-dates. This is really happening! Propose to your wedding party. Create your website with The Knot. Guests can also access it on the Guest List app (see Wedding Planning Tools, p. 26). Book your photographer, florist, musicians and other important pros. Order the gown and veil and schedule fittings for six weeks and one to two weeks before the wedding. Choose and order the bridesmaid dresses. Start registering—a super-fun to-do.

MONTHS

Plan the ceremony with your officiant and discuss religious requirements such as premarital counseling. Book your honeymoon. Choose the formalwear. Send out your save-the-dates. Order the invitations and thank-you notes. Hire a day-of coordinator (if you don’t have a full-service planner or a day-of planner isn’t included with your venue). Schedule beauty trials and book hairstylists and makeup artists.

SC STOCKSHOP

let the planning begin

Iron out the rehearsal dinner details, like the time and location. >>

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Day-of Coordinating Now Available!

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CHECKLIST

4-5 MONTHS

MONTH

date: ______ /______ /______

Address your invitations or hand them off to your calligrapher. Finalize the rental list (tables, chairs, linens and so on) with the caterer or rental company. Complete your wedding cake order and order the groom’s cake, if you’re having one. Buy wedding rings. Arrange day-of transportation for yourselves and the wedding party.

MONTHS

date: ______ /______ /______

Figure out how to get a local marriage license—you need one to make it official. Finalize your ceremony with your officiant.

MONTHS date: ______ /______ /______

Compile a must-take photo list for your shooter. Keep it under a dozen so you get the shots you really want.

1-2 WEEKS

date: ______ /______ /______

Once you’ve got your final head count, share it with the caterer, cake baker and site manager, and finish the seating chart. Pass on requests from your pros, like a table for the DJ, to the site manager. Go to the last dress fitting. Designate point people for day-of tasks. Make sure all beauty appointments are scheduled.

2-3 DAYS

date: ______ /______ /______

Go to the first dress fitting— bring shoes and undergarments. Finalize the menu. Create a timeline for the weekend and share it with your attendants, planner and photographer.

K wedding planning tools Our apps and online tools for top to-dos in the first months of planning make the process easy. OUR APPS THE KNOT GUEST LIST AND WEDDING WEBSITES MANAGER Create your wedding website and guest list. Guests can access the app to get essential details and share photos. WEDDING LOOKBOOK BY THE KNOT Search for the hottest dresses and rings, and see where you can find them in your area. WEDDING PLANNER BY THE KNOT Consider this your personalized organizer: It includes the Wedding Budget Calculator and The Ultimate Wedding Checklist.

Steam the dress or suit if wrinkled. Touch base with the ceremony and the reception sites one more time to go over the schedule.

Mail your wedding invitations at the six- to eight-week mark. RSVPs should be due one month before the wedding. Work on your vows, especially if you’re writing them yourselves.

our planner app is a must-have!

DAY BEFORE date: ______ /______ /______

Give the marriage license to your officiant. Rehearse the ceremony and have dinner. Breathe—and have fun!

OUR ONLINE TOOLS THEKNOT.COM/WEDDINGWEBSITES Build your customized wedding website by choosing from unique design schemes and colors. The best part? It’s free! THEKNOT.COM/REGISTRY Register at your favorite stores and track all of your gifts. Be sure to share your registries on your wedding website. THEKNOT.COM/MARKETPLACE Research, read reviews, directly connect, then book top wedding vendors in your area, in all categories. SC STOCKSHOP

Finalize all of your flower arrangements with your florist.

THEKNOT.COM/CONCIERGE Take our quiz to help you find the perfect venue. Plus, we’ll help you schedule site tours and book for your day.

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EXPERT Q& A

ask carley Our cofounder answers your questions.

My fiancé is Hindu, and while we’ve chosen not to have a religious ceremony, I want to surprise him with a few personal touches from his heritage. Any suggestions? The best way to do this is subtly. Gold and red, both auspicious colors in Indian tradition, could appear throughout your wedding details. Choose a red stationery suite inked in gold, have your bridesmaids wear red or decorate your tables with gold-plated urns filled with red, pink and yellow blooms. Elephants (to honor the god Ganesh) could also play a role, or include a modern mandap in the ceremony.

Q A

I’m having trouble finding accessories to match my style of dress—how should I start?

SEATING STRESS

One or two accessories can complete any look (and make it your own), but try not to pile on too many pieces or you’ll be headed for a fashion faux pas. But if you want to achieve glamgirl status, feel free to add a big, bold necklace to your embellished dress, plus a crystal clutch. Is modern more your style? Then a sleek column gown with a pair of sexy metallic shoes and a haute headband will do the trick. For a more vintage look, go for lace and heirloom-like details such as gloves and a brooch.

A HAIR AHEAD

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If my bridesmaids are getting their hair and makeup done, do I go before or after them?

It usually takes a pro about two to three hours to do a bride’s hair and makeup. More time may be needed if they have to make lots of adjustments or start over (which hopefully won’t happen, but you should prepare for it anyway). To save time and stress, ask bridesmaids to do their own hair and makeup, and then have your professional touch them up. Or, preferably, hire a separate person for your attendants and mom. If the pro will be working on both you and the others, you should go last so your look is nice and fresh for pictures.

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Who else sits with my fiancé and me at the reception? Do we have to sit with the wedding party?

You can sit with whomever you like. One choice is to have the honor attendants and their spouses or dates seated with the newlyweds. Some couples sit with their whole wedding party, while others choose to sit with their parents. If you go with the latter option, both sets of parents should be at your table to prevent any appearance of favoritism. If your parents are divorced, you may want to skip this and seat each set at a table of their friends and relatives (to prevent any awkwardness). Want to use dinner as a chance to steal a moment for just the two of you? You can decide on the most romantic option: the sweetheart table. >>

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SOCIAL ANXIETY

I’m an out-of-state bridesmaid who can’t attend the bachelorette party. Should I still be helping the maid of honor pay for it or any related expenses? Unlike a shower where there’s usually one host responsible for footing the bill, the bachelorette party is slightly different. It’s quite common (and totally acceptable) for the maid of honor (or party organizer) to ask for contributions. Maybe offer to contribute the amount the other bridesmaids will be paying, or at least a portion. If you’re off the hook for those costs, call ahead to one of the spots where the party will be and order a bottle of champagne or some other treat for the group—on you.

DANCING FEET

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My fiancé and I secretly love the “Macarena,” but will our guests hate us if we make them do it?

One of the reasons people aren’t the biggest fans of organized dances is the song seems to go on forever. If you have your heart set on doing the “Macarena,” play 60 seconds of it, then smoothly transition into 60 seconds of “YMCA” and cap it off with 60 seconds of the electric slide. Switching songs keeps fewer people on the sidelines without slowing down the party. Ask your DJ ahead of time if they can make this dance mix. Plus with you two having so much fun, guests will be happy to join in.

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Could I recruit my wedding party to help me put our favors together, or is that expecting too much from them?

Consider your squad before seeking help. Tying dozens of tiny bows might not be everyone’s idea of a good time. But you might have a few friends who are game to help. Use the task as an excuse to get together and sip champagne, or test out your signature cocktails. Everyone will have a better time if you turn ribbon tying into a fun hangout rather than a chore.

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How soon do we have to have our wedding hashtag? It seems couples have them ready to post as soon as they’re engaged— are we late to the game if we don’t?

Couple hashtags are the best way to see all photos relating to your wedding festivities, but you certainly don’t have to be ready with one as soon as the ring is on your finger. While some to-be-weds may have found it fun or amusing to play around with different combinations of their names before they were even engaged (don’t worry—we won’t tell), it’s certainly not for everyone. You don’t even have to have a hashtag—but if you decide you do want one, don’t stress about creating it. Sometimes couples get lucky and have the perfect names for a fun play on words, but you can always use simple phrases like #SarahAndAshleyGetHitched2017 or #AndersonPartyOfTwo. Just check the hashtag before and make sure it doesn’t already have hundreds of photos attached. Tip: Adding the date always helps separate your hashtag from the rest.

SOMETHING OLD, AND NEW

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I don’t have any sentimental jewelry—what’s another option for a “something old”?

There are so many different ways to play with this tradition, so let your creativity run wild. Second dresses are much more common these days. You can wear your mother’s wedding dress for one half and a new gown for the other. If you would rather include a passed-down dress without actually wearing it, you could use the fabric to make a stunning clutch or chuppah, or place a nostalgic patch under your own skirt. An antique family car can be your getaway transportation, or you could use your parents’ wedding cake knife. And your bouquet can be wrapped in any heirloom fabric, from a close friend’s veil to a piece of a beloved grandmother’s favorite shawl. Or get innovative with your hair accessories. A vintage hairpin can be a nice touch or replicating your mother’s wedding hairstyle would make a lovely tribute.

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THE RHAPSODY WEDDING AND RECEPTION HALL TheRhapsody.com “The Rhapsody was AMAZING! They catered to our every need and made it so effortless to plan a wedding! Everything was so beautiful.”

THE STANLEY EVENT SPACE TheStanleyEventSpace.com “The Stanley was far and away the star of our wedding! I would recommend them to every bride in Kansas City! Thank you for the most beautiful day ever!”

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ST. LOUIS

wedding venues THE CARAMEL ROOM AT BISSINGER’S CaramelRoom.com “Other venues we researched nickel and dime you to death. For a comprehensive—dare I say EASY— experience, there is no better place than The Caramel Room.”

LUMEN PRIVATE EVENT SPACE LumenSTL.com “I can’t thank Lumen enough for hosting our absolutely perfect wedding reception. The food was phenomenal, and the entire evening went perfectly.”

NEW TOWN AT ST. CHARLES EVENT PLANNING NewTownEventPlanning.com “As a bride, I couldn’t have asked for more! Shae was totally committed to making sure our day went off without a hitch. We could never thank her enough!” BARNETT ON WASHINGTON CHAUMETTE VINEYARDS & WINERY THE CHRISTY CLAYTON PLAZA HOTEL THE CORONADO THE FRANKLIN ROOM GENESIS BANQUET CENTER & CATERING HEART OF ST. CHARLES & OLD STONE CHAPEL HERMANN HILL WEDDINGS HILTON ST. LOUIS AT THE BALLPARK HOLIDAY INN SOUTH COUNTY CENTER HYATT REGENCY ST. LOUIS AT THE ARCH THE LARIMORE HOUSE PLANTATION WEDDING & RECEPTION VENUE LITTLE PINEY MOULIN EVENTS AND MEETINGS NOBOLEIS VINEYARDS WEDDING PALLADIUM SAINT LOUIS

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photographers TROTTER PHOTO OF ST. LOUIS TrotterPhoto.com “Throughout the entire day, we never had to worry about them capturing the right moment/photo. Trotter made us feel like a priority from day one.” A SWEET FOCUS AG PHOTOGRAPHY (WILL TRAVEL) AMANDA FORBES PHOTOGRAPHER ARNDT PHOTO & CINEMA ASHLEY FISHER PHOTOGRAPHY CHAMELEON IMAGERY CHRISTOPHER-MICHELLE PHOTOGRAPHY CINDY LEE PHOTOGRAPHY DANA TATE | WEDDING PHOTOGRAPHER DREAM LIGHT ART PHOTOGRAPHY EICHAR PHOTOGRAPHY ELLE ROSE PHOTO GRYSEELS PHOTOGRAPHY IRISH EYES PHOTOGRAPHY JASON WINKELER PHOTOGRAPHY JEN & DAYTON PHOTOGRAPHY JULIA NOACK PHOTOGRAPHY K.S.H. DESIGNS PHOTOGRAPHY KARA VOLLE PHOTOGRAPHY KEITH LEE STUDIOS LAUREN MUCKLER PHOTOGRAPHY LISA MEYER PHOTOGRAPHY LOVE AND LIFE PHOTOGRAPHY MY BLISS PHOTOGRAPHY PETITE FLEUR STUDIOS PHOTOS BY LORIA

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videographers TOWER STUDIOS TowerVideoPhoto.com “The highlight of my wedding! My guests are still asking how I was able to show such a sentimental, emotional, same-day video. It was the talk of the wedding!” BIRDEYE MEDIA THE FILM PERSPECTIVE LUXE STUDIOS CINEMATOGRAPHY +PHOTOGRAPHY LWFILMS MEYEROTT PHOTOGRAPHY & CINEMA MILLENNIUM PRODUCTIONS SHADOW AND LIGHT VIMAGE WEDDINGS WHOLE STREET PRODUCTIONS

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wedding florists STEMS FLORIST Stems4Weddings.com “My flowers were absolutely breathtaking. I had so many compliments on them, and they just flowed so perfectly with my theme. Thanks, Stems, for all your hard work!” A MOMENT OF GRACE FLORIST BLOOMIN’ BUCKETS CATHERINE THOELE FLORALS

caterers CATERING ST. LOUIS EVENTS CES AND JUDY’S CATERING HOLLYBERRY CATERING

wedding cakes & desserts THE CAKERY BAKERY DE LA CRÈME CREATIVE STUDIO J. NOTO

invitations M. HALEY DESIGN PRETTY TOGETHER UNIQUE MOMENTS BY MID-WEST MARKETING

favors POPTIONS! POPCORN

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dance lessons DANCE PIZAZZ PRESTIGE BALLROOM DANCING

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tips from the pros Who better to give advice than the wedding pros who make your wedding day come to life? From your invitation suite to cake cutting snafus, these pros have seen it all.

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Find vendors you LOVE and then place your trust in your true wedding professionals. Develop a theme, select colors, establish a budget and then let them ‘do their professional thing.’ Our very finest, jaw-dropping weddings have been with couples that totally placed their trust in us!

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If you’re doing traditional vows in front of the masses (I’m not much of a public speaker, either), write your own personal vows and read them to one another before the wedding. I’ve photographed this many times, and EVERY SINGLE time it’s a beautiful and magical moment (I cry every time).

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Aubrey Callahan, Photographer Aubrey Erin Photography, Kansas City, MO aubreyerinphoto.com —

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Event design. It’s a thing. Whether you’re having an intimate celebration or something larger scale, it’s the details that matter and what make an event unforgettable. If you have a wedding Pinterest board or Etsy account, partner with an event designer to make your vision come to life.

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Elizabeth Fichter, Owner/Wedding, Event & Floral Designer Kuhs Estate and Farm, St. Louis kuhsfarm.com —

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Most venues prefer you cut your cake early so it’s plated when guests finish dinner. Want your guests to ooh and ahh over your masterpiece longer? Do a smaller cake with sheet cakes in the back. The caterer can have cake ready after dinner, while leaving your cake until you are ready. Kat Gaines, Owner, Lead Designer/Coordinator Kat Gaines Events, St. Louis katgainesevents.com

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Always remember this is your day to enjoy. Consider an all-inclusive venue when doing your research. They can help you with all the details, making it easy for you to enjoy not only the planning process but the wedding reception itself. Let the professionals be your guide. Jessica Mullen, Wedding Sales Director The Gallery Event Space, Kansas City, MO thegalleryeventspace.com —

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Shopping for your bridal gown is a very special experience! Make sure you are open minded when you start shopping and surround yourself with positive opinions. Relax and enjoy every second— you should feel absolutely amazing in your gown!

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Jessica Orf, Owner White Traditions Bridal House, St. Charles, MO whitetraditionsbridal.com

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1 FREEZE FRAME Guide guests to their seats with the help of framed charts suspended from silk ribbons.

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2 ROCK STEADY Modern gold script pops against eye-catching agate slices that double as super-chic favors. 3 LOCK ON Invite partygoers to take their place with calligraphed cards attached to vintageinspired keys.

4 BRUSH UP Paint the town red (or any showstopping color you like) with chromatic paintbrushes marked with each guest’s name.

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6 JUST PEACHY An edible arrangement of fresh fruit makes for a delish display that’s too tempting not to eat.

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1 SLAM DUNK Kick off cocktail hour with savory tomato soup served with indulgent grilled cheese bites for a snack guests won’t soon forget. 2 SIP, SIP, HOORAY Novelty treats like these spiked soda bottles are best served with tiny hors d’oeuvres and pint-size straws. Cheers!

4 DRIVE-IN DELICACY Laid-back affairs call for finger foods that are anything but fancy, like these bite-size burgers and fries. 5 SMART COOKIE End the evening on a sweet note by sending guests home with mini milk cartons and warm cookies straight from your fave local bakery.

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2 BIRDS OF A FEATHER Monochromatic plumes put a textured twist on classic accessories for a look that’s perfectly polished. 4

3 SUIT YOURSELF A bright dinner jacket in an unexpected hue instantly elevates even the most dapper tux. 4 FORMAL AFFAIR Nothing says “timeless” quite like a white dinner jacket and black bow tie. 5 DRESS TO IMPRESS Celebrate your patriotism with traditional military duds that never go out of style.

6 FLORAL FOOTWEAR Step out in style by sporting leather dress shoes with whimsical printed socks.

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7 PREPPY PARTY Casual celebrations call for punchy pants paired with vibrant pink ties.

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1820 Market St., St. Louis; (314) 421-6655; StLouisUnionStation.com Transport yourself to the bygone era of glamorous train travel at this iconic St. Louis landmark. Kick off the evening in the station’s Grand Hall, where you and up to 300 guests can celebrate underneath a picture-perfect 3-D light show and awe-inspiring stained-glass windows. Signature sips are best served from the room’s ornate wood bar, where partygoers can toast to your newlywed status under a domed roof illuminated with a custom gobo or your name in lights.

15640 MO-92, Platte City, MO; (816) 584-1890; 1890KC.com Even more historic than the name implies (the estate was originally built in 1872), this hilltop abode sets the scene for celebrations in any season. The stately grounds are home to a recently renovated red barn that’s practically made for receptions. Or the estate’s Victorianinspired opulence and impressive chandeliers make for a picturesque party space. Invite 300 guests to help you celebrate in style, but not before checking out the Pinterest-worthy prepping suite.

1330 Baltimore Ave., Kansas City, MO; (816) 384-2284; TheGrandHallKC.com Art deco aficionados and Gatsby fans will obsess over the ethereal décor at this charming, 10,000-square-foot venue that dates back to the 1930s. With celebrations ranging from 150 to 500 guests (the mezzanine fits additional tables) no detail is overlooked, from impressively designed banquet chairs to two spectacular travertine staircases. Our favorite on-site features include the towering 32-foot-tall ceilings, which allow the existing brass details to truly shine. >>

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From a chocolate factory to a train depot, these venues are perfect for your one-of-a-kind day. BY PERRI O. BLUMBERG

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The Lodge of Four Seasons is the most elegant destination wedding location at The Lake of the Ozarks, offering beautiful scenery, accommodations, fine dining cuisine, and memories that will make you smile in the years to come. With over 50 years of experience with weddings and receptions, The Lodge of Four Seasons is the perfect destination for celebrating your love!

6 different outdoor ceremony sites to choose from 315 Four Seasons Drive, Lake Ozark, MO 65049 ~ 573.365.3000 ~ www.4seasonsresort.com

Contact 1 of our 2 Wedding Coordinators to begin making your wedding dreams a reality

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the urban event 2001 Grand Ave., Kansas City, MO; (913) 208-8000; TheUrbanEvent.com Steal your better half for a private postceremony moment to take in the views through this venue’s eighth-floor skylights. The industrial-chic building offers three distinct event spaces that can fit up to 1,280 guests (it can also accommodate affairs as intimate as 50). Its space has a hip, modern vibe just begging to be adorned in funky florals. Bonus: The existing air hockey and pool tables in the on-site groom’s suite guarantee preceremony prep that’s almost as lively as your reception.

106 W. 12th St., Kansas City, MO; (816) 221-7000; HotelPhillips.com If classic, refined elegance is what you’re after, you’d be hard-pressed to find a more noteworthy setting for your nuptials. Newly renovated ballrooms and sophisticated meeting spaces can comfortably accommodate up to 250 attendees at this iconic Kansas City hotel, which stands 20 stories high and is home to an underground speakeasy perfect for a cocktail-fueled after-party.

the caramel room at bissinger’s 1600 N. Broadway, St. Louis; (314) 615-2480; CaramelRoom.com This spot had us at “encompassed within a working chocolate factory,” but if you need further convincing, the 4,500-square-foot outdoor terrace and skyline views won’t disappoint. Entertain up to 320 partygoers with dinner and dancing in the 5,300-square-foot ballroom, with the option to host a terrace ceremony that revelers won’t soon forget. With a nod to its sweet setting, the chocolateinfused cocktails certainly help make for a memorable evening too.

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4256 Magnolia Ave., St. Louis; (314) 771-4454; TowerGrovePark.org Talk about historic: This distinguished St. Louis haven is the oldest standing greenhouse west of the Mississippi River. We’re not sure what we adore more, the site’s enchanting sunsets or the open-air plaza and its breathtaking views of the property’s lily ponds. Here, up to 150 guests can mingle under towering palm trees and in the window-lined space, which boasts soaring ceilings and an impressive marble floor.

7801 Genesta St., St. Louis; (314) 352-5654; OaklandHouseMuseum.org Slink into the welcoming embrace of this museum and outdoor event space located right outside of St. Louis proper. Brimming with old-school charm, a tented reception gives you ample opportunity to personalize your special day. Whether you go modern or rustic, the unique plantation-esque aura (Oakland House has its roots in the 19th century) sets the mood for a festive evening with 250 guests.

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what’s trendy in florals right now? Loose, leafy arrangements and large bouquets with lots of texture. Natural cascade silhouettes are in, along with asymmetrical arrangements and mixing large and small blooms, like proteas, dahlias and garden roses with tiny, delicate flowers.

what about unique flower pairings you’d like to see more of? I love large, interesting leaves and monochromatic flowers in a variety of textures. I also enjoy a quality carnation if it’s grouped with similarly colored flowers, and I love orchids mixed with just about anything.

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Melinda Roeleveld Les Bouquets ABOUT

What started as a hobby 11 years ago for Roeleveld is now a full-blown floral business focused on delivering quality blooms to couples. ON THE WEB

LesBouquets.com

@lesbouquetsflorals PRO TIPS

Choose your florist based on their style, reputation and professionalism, not by their cost alone. Ask a family member to pick up your flowers the morning of your wedding and assign the task of distributing and pinning the flowers to a friend you trust.

aside from using lace, what are some other ways to wrap a bouquet? Try using a large, wide leaf (like aspidistra), raffia, rope or printed fabrics, including ties. what specific blooms would you include in your dream bouquet? English garden roses, peonies, ranunculus, pennycress, viburnum, maidenhair fern, blushing bride and lily of the valley. we’re curious: what really happens to the flowers postwedding? They’re either given away to guests, or we take the arrangements back to our cooler. Sometimes we’re able to salvage the foliage and repurpose roses if an upcoming client is in need of petals for their ceremony. what’s the one piece of advice all to-be-weds should know? Trust is key. Allow your wedding pros to guide you, and be open to their suggestions. F ind more florists in your area in our directory on p. 396

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are there any flower trends or color combinations you can’t stand? I don’t like including all of the primary colors in one bouquet or pairing eggplant-hued flowers with light blue blooms.

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Mickenzie Bush YellowBrick Graphics ABOUT

This full-service stationery boutique specializes in custom invitations and personalized paper goods. ON THE WEB

what should a potential client bring to their first meeting with you? The two best things to bring are your vision and estimated budget. Sharing this information helps us know what stationery to suggest and how to help you narrow down your long list of wedding paper needs. what are some creative ways to embellish invitations or save-the-dates? Envelope liners are a simple but gorgeous way to embellish invites. If you opt for ultra-thick paper, try edge painting for a fun and unexpected pop of color.

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are there any elements a couple can skip if they’re working with a tight budget? As much as we love pockets and pocket folds, skipping those items is a great way to trim costs and make room in your budget for a stunning invite. As a pocket alternative, consider wrapping your invitations with a paper or twine belly band instead. how can to-be-weds incorporate personalized details into their paper? We create custom logos or monograms for many of our couples that can be carried throughout their stationery. Recently, we worked with a couple who loved Game of Thrones, so we created a one-of-a-kind crest inspired by their venue that included a small crown paired with their personal monogram.

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Depending on how important paper details are to your wedding vision, expect to spend 2 to 5 percent of your total budget on stationery. Try “proposing” to your wedding party with a custom gift or stationery token in the form of cigar boxes, simple cards or jewelry boxes. Have multiple people proofread your stationery word for word, but backward. Reading in reverse allows you to focus closely on each word to ensure the information is correct before you go to print.

what are the most common etiquette mistakes couples should avoid? Avoid using printed labels on each envelope. Your invitations will look much more impressive with a handwritten address or digital calligraphy on the outside. And don’t use preprinted messages on thank-you cards. Your guests will cherish a personal, handwritten note so much more. is there anything else you’d advise couples to do? Apply postage to every reply envelope so guests can return their response cards. Also, take one invitation to the post office to have it weighed, so you can determine the correct amount of postage needed before it’s mailed. heck out more local wedding pros C at TheKnot.com/marketplace

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YellowBrickGraphics.com what inspired you and your husband, Gary, to start YellowBrick Graphics? Gary and I had moved from Kansas to Alabama when some dear friends asked us to design their wedding invitations. From that moment, we were hooked. However, we missed living in Kansas, so we named our business YellowBrick. Luckily, we were able to return to Kansas a few years later, proving there’s really no place like home.

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what’s challenging about your role as a hair and makeup artist? Opinions: Everyone’s mother, sister, best friend and bridesmaid has one. Trust that, as a professional, I know what will help you achieve your desired beauty look so you feel good in front of the camera. And trust yourself when you look in the mirror and feel fabulous. what’s the process like when you first meet with a client? When I meet a bride for the first time, I ask a lot of questions. Makeup is very personal, so I want to know everything I can about a client. Knowing where you grew up and how you met the love of your life helps me build a better understanding of how you want to look and feel on your wedding day. is there anything a bride should bring? Inspiration in the form of your own photos. Look back at the times when you felt the most beautiful. Those specific moments where your inner beauty shines are the inspiration photos I want to see.

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Ashley Backs Hello Lovely ABOUT

Backs and her team of stylists beautify brides on the fly thanks to on-location services that range from hair and makeup to blowouts and lashes. ON THE WEB

do you have any makeup tips for those few inevitable tears? It’s likely that all of your makeup will be waterproof, so you shouldn’t have too much to worry about. However, my one rule is to always blot and never wipe. If something has the potential to smudge, blotting will at least ensure the makeup stays in one spot instead of spreading across your entire cheek. what are three beauty essentials all brides need in their clutch? Bobby pins work magic for more than just a stray hair. I’ve used them to save a dress from busted buttons and to keep a groom’s tie from blowing around during the perfect shot. Powder is key to keep oil and sweat from showing up in photos, and don’t forget almonds. Having a handful available will keep you smiling until the real meal is served.

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what about beauty prep in the weeks leading up to a wedding? what should and shouldn’t a bride do? Beauty prep varies and depends largely on your skin type and texture. Drink lots of water to stay hydrated, exfoliate your lips and maintain your brows. Just give your skin five to six days of recovery after threading or waxing your brows, or else your makeup won’t stick. And don’t try any crazy skin hacks you’ve seen on Pinterest. You never know how your skin will react to something new.

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Don’t forget hair and makeup for your bridesmaids—you want to make sure the entire wedding party looks fabulous. After all, they’ll be in your pictures too. I want my brides to be able to look back on their photos and know they felt elegant, stunning and fabulous on their wedding day. iscover more tips and trends from D your area at TheKnot.com/mo-ks

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lanc de Bleu Cuvée Mousseux continues to gain popularity in the Wedding Community. Its delightful combination of taste, visual appeal and soothing color is what makes Blanc de Bleu the quintessential bubbly for the wedding toast. Its crystal-clear virgin glass bottle shows off the bubbly’s gemstone blue hue. This shade of blue symbolizes loyalty and faith, exactly how couples feel toward each other when they exchange their vows. When you combine its clear blue color with its classy label, Blanc de Bleu looks as stunning as the newly married couple ready to toast a new beginning.

A Dry, Crisp Bubbly with a Hint of Blueberry As sparkling wine continues to grow in popularity, Blanc de Bleu is also winning fans for its taste. Made with grapes grown in Northern California vineyards, known for their cool and clear breezes, Blanc de Bleu bubbly tickles the palate with a subtle hint of organic blueberry. “The base wine of cuvée for Blanc de Bleu is the same fruit I use in our high-end, methode champenoise programs,” explains

Bob Stashak, champagne master for Blanc de Bleu. “We add just enough organic blueberry juice concentrate to make a subtle impact. People are more pleasantly surprised to find the wine dry and crisp, instead of being another overly sweet, flavored wine.” Blanc de Bleu’s beautiful blue color is different from what you will see in any other sparkling wine. The vision behind creating Blanc de Bleu was to give people a reason to celebrate. Elegant packaging for this dry, crisp sparkling wine inside a striking bottle has captured the fascination of couples everywhere. You should not be surprised when you see Blanc de Bleu at the next wedding or big celebration you attend.

Weddings Every Day, Everywhere “Every day, everywhere, someone is getting married. We want Blanc de Bleu to be the sparkling beverage of choice at all weddings,” says Fred Franzia, CEO of Bronco Wine Company, the worldwide producer and supplier of Blanc de Bleu. Blanc de Bleu is available in 750ml and 187ml bottles. www.BlancdeBleuUSA.com

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“Consider a postwedding brunch. Everyone is finally relaxed, and it’s a nice way to cap off the festivities and say goodbye to guests.” —Manasi & Bill

—Chinny & Chike

—Karen & Mark

secrets from real couples

From phone-free wedding days to tricks on how to stress less, newlyweds share their can’t-miss tips.

“Purchase a dedicated wedding notebook and take it with you everywhere. You never know when an idea, question or concern will pop into your head.” —Ari & Nick

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“If you’re asking loved ones to travel a long distance to attend your wedding, do your best to make it easy for them.” —Rory & Kevin Find more local tips at TheKnot.com/mo-ks

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SIGN UP FOR DANCE LESSONS. DANCING TOGETHER (EVEN WHEN YOU FEEL DUMB!) CONNECTS YOU TO YOUR PARTNER AND SERVES AS A REMINDER OF WHY YOU’RE GETTING MARRIED.” —Amanda & Thadd

“The morning of our wedding, I handed my phone to a friend who answered phone calls and took a bunch of candid photos and videos throughout the entire day.” —Kate & Lauren

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“Supportive vendors are key. If you’re unsure during an initial consultation, listen to your instincts and move on.”

“LAUGH AS MUCH AS POSSIBLE DURING WHAT WILL BE A CRAZY PROCESS. YOUR CURRENT SANITY IS PRICELESS.”

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3 1 Morganite ring, $2,995, EffyJewelry .com 2 Dress, $109, BariJay.com 3 Clutch, price upon request, RalphandRusso.com 4 Shoes, $150, VinceCamuto.com 5 Monogrammed flask, $24, TheKnotShop.com 6 Matte Revolution lipstick in Red Carpet Red, $32, CharlotteTilbury .com 7 Dappled Glade invitation, $179 for 100, Lady Jae, WeddingPaperDivas .com 8 Earrings, $24, OliveandPiper.com >>

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1 Tote bag, $25, TheKnotShop.com 2 Dress, $198, Wtoo, Watters.com 3 Nail polish in Whip It, $18, DeborahLippmann .com 4 Cheek Pop blush in Plum Pop, $23, Clinique.com 5 Festive Flora invitation, $181 for 100, Oscar de la Renta, PaperlessPost .com 6 Robe, $55, TheKnotShop.com 7 Pocket square, $10, TheTieBar.com >>

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EYE SHADOW: ISTOCK; GROOM: THE NICHOLS

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slate+ celadon Subtle and sophisticated, this color combo works in any season.

Eye-catching details can take the place of a cake topper for a modern twist.

1 Gilded Shore invitation, $270 for 100,, Grace Kreinbrink, Minted.com 2 Shoes, $825,, Marchesa, AKHGRP.com 3 Dress, $285,, JennyYoo.com 4 Swift shadow in Enchanted Moonlight, $20, RMSBeauty .com 5 Clutch, $1,795, JudithLeiber.com 6 Earrings, $95, JulieVos.com

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It’s Christmas tradition for Charlie to present Jennifer with a playful gag gift, which is why she thought nothing of opening a bow-topped box only to find another wrapped gift inside. But as Jennifer continued to unwrap the second present, she discovered a third one—a ring box—tucked inside. The only problem: It was empty. “The ring was in Charlie’s pocket,” Jennifer says of slowly realizing a proposal was in the works. “By the time I figured out what was happening, he was down on one knee.” The ring: Shane Co. >>

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makayla & jondavid Poplar Bluff, MO PHOTOGRAPH BY THE MARIONS

Despite shopping for an engagement ring together just weeks prior, JonDavid managed to catch his college sweetheart off guard with an afternoon proposal at home. The two had just returned from church and were preparing for a family celebration when Makayla found herself in the middle of JonDavid’s kitchen surrounded by tearful family members. “I knew what was happening once I was standing in front of him,” Makayla says of the emotional moment. “He didn’t even get down on one knee— he just stood there with tears in his eyes.” The ring: James Allen

liz & jack Kansas City, MO PHOTOGRAPH BY THE GRAYS PHOTOGRAPHY

Seven years after they first met in high school study hall, Liz and Jack planned a trip to Florida for a much-needed vacation. But upon arriving in Miami Beach, Liz had no idea their relaxing escape would result in a ring. As the pair split of bottle of wine on their hotel balcony, Jack began to play King Harvest’s “Dancing in the Moonlight” before asking Liz to dance. That’s when he popped the question to the tune of their favorite song. “The best part is that Jack didn’t know my ring size,” Liz says. “To figure it out, he had to measure my finger while I was sleeping!” >>

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laura & efe St. Louis PHOTOGRAPH BY JAIMIE NICOLE KRAUSE PHOTOGRAPHY

“I wanted to do it right,” Efe says of commissioning a Finnish jeweler to design a custom engagement ring and enlisting the help of Laura’s sisters to pull off the perfect proposal. But Laura was highly suspicious of Efe’s request for a casual stroll through St. Louis’s Forest Park. “At one point I saw a guitar player and I hoped Efe knew better than to serenade me in front of strangers,” Laura says. Luckily, Efe proposed at the park’s fountain as Laura’s sisters and best friend looked on. “I spotted them with their phones out and knew it was happening,” Laura says. “All I felt was love.” The ring: Lapponia Jewelry

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Kansas City, MO PHOTOGRAPH BY MORGAN MILLER PHOTOGRAPHY

While preparing to propose to Maria (right) at their favorite restaurant, Lis secretly arranged for family and friends to arrive throughout the meal in hopes that Maria would realize a proposal was about to unfold. But Lis’s plan was nearly foiled when Maria invited others to join them. “It made it a lot less surprising when people actually started to show up,” Lis says. Maria was shocked, however, when family from Kentucky tapped her on the shoulder. “After that, I asked her to marry me surrounded by many of the people who love and support us most,” Lis says. Find more amazing photographers in your area on p. 400

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THEIR STORY BRIDE Kali Falk, 34, a media operations specialist GROOM Adam Rowings, 32, a tech analytics manager HOW THEY MET At graduate school WEDDING STYLE Inspired by their venue’s unique blend of modern and classic architecture, Kali and Adam infused traditional white blooms and seasonal pops of red into their posh wedding day design. —Samantha Meux

“The place is stunning at every turn,” Kali says of the museum’s manicured lawns. Immediately after saying “I do” under a birchwood arch, the newlyweds walked back up the aisle to “Home” by Edward Sharpe and the Magnetic Zeros.

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As a nod to the museum’s existing artwork, feathered shuttlecocks served as sporty escort cards.

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Dinner was held in the museum’s historic Italian courtyard, which boasts old-world charm and an abundance of market lights. “I wanted the reception to look elegant, clean and uncluttered,” Kali says of decorating tables with cream-colored linens and gold flatware.

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Instead of signing a traditional guest book, partygoers penned their well-wishes on whimsical postcards.

CEREMONY & RECEPTION SITE The

City, MO

PHOTOGRAPHY Jana Marie

Photography Films

Nelson-Atkins Museum of Art, Kansas

KALI & ADAM’S WEDDING INGREDIENTS

VIDEOGRAPHY Creative

PLANNER Soiree Event Designs FLOWERS Maple Lane Designs

GOWN Maggie Sottero, Panache

Bridal, Beverly Hills, CA

VEIL Angelica’s

Custom Tailors, Campbell, CA Badgley Mischka

SHOES

ENGAGEMENT &

WEDDING RINGS Tacori MAKEUP Hello Lovely

HAIR Hair Say BRIDESMAID

DRESSES Jenny Yoo, Bella Bridesmaids MENSWEAR Calvin Klein, Men’s Wearhouse STATIONERY Bella Figura

CATERING

The Nelson-Atkins Museum of Art

CAKE

Hy-Vee DESSERTS The Nelson-Atkins Museum of Art

MUSIC The Magnetics

PHOTO BOOTH Banana Who? Booth ACCOMMODATIONS Marriott Country

Club Plaza A live band was essential for music-obsessed Adam, who performed a surprise song for Kali in front of family and friends. Afterward, The Magnetics played a set list of time-honored classics and indie-rock hits. “Our band was amazing and so much fun to work with,” Kali says.

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REGISTRY Zola.com

HONEYMOON Hawaii & Japan GUESTS 132 BUDGET $$$ (see key, p. 8)

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josh engaged: 20 months

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Given her love of flora and fauna, unique flowers were a must for Nicole, who carried a textured arrangement of pincushion proteas and hydrangeas.

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THEIR STORY BRIDE Nicole Deister, 32, a landscape architect GROOM Josh Campbell, 39, a youth construction training manager HOW THEY MET On Match.com WEDDING STYLE Nicole and Josh balanced The Guild’s industrial charm with patterned linens, copper accents and dramatic Hawaiian-inspired florals. —SM

Nicole’s former home in Honolulu inspired the eclectic design, which included shibori linens, terrarium centerpieces and indigo bridesmaid dresses reminiscent of the Pacific Ocean. “Our floral designer dyed silk and linen fabric for our altar that we plan to pass down as a family heirloom,” Nicole says.

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Shortly after a Buddhist reverend pronounced them “partners for life,” the newlyweds walked back up the aisle to Queen’s “You’re My Best Friend” before attempting an exit in a vintage Cadillac. “The car overheated, but the driver was great and arranged for us to get picked up a ’57 Rolls-Royce,” Nicole says of the minor transportation snafu.

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A bohemian braid was the perfect complement to Nicole’s embellished gown, which featured a subtle geometric print. When it came to shoes, comfort was key for the former dancer. So, a mid-reception swap was in order. “I surprised Josh with two pairs of navy sneakers so we could continue dancing,” she says.

CEREMONY & RECEPTION SITE The Guild,

Kansas City, MO

PHOTOGRAPHY

Heather Brulez Photography

PLANNER

Jessica Corbett & Minh-Tu Pham/Hitched Planning + Floral

FLOWERS Jessica Corbett/

Hitched Planning + Floral Rev. Ronn Pawo McLane

OFFICIANT GOWN Hayley

Paige, The Gown Gallery, Kansas City, MO VEIL The Gown Gallery

Freed of London

SHOES

ENGAGEMENT RING

Leigh Jay Nacht WEDDING RINGS Bride: Leigh Jay Nacht; groom: Meierotto Jewelers EARRINGS Adorn

HAIR &

Skyline Downtown Salon DRESSES J.Crew

MAKEUP

BRIDESMAID

MENSWEAR TheBlackTux.com

STATIONERY Boxcar Press; Minted.com SIGN-IN BOOK Bleudetoi, Etsy.com RENTALS Ultrapom Event Rental

Moxie Catering

CATERING

CAKE Classic Cakes

MUSIC Martin Bush/All Ears DJ

FAVORS

Honey: SavetheBeesRescueCompany.com; wildflower seed bombs: Seedles.com TRANSPORTATION Pech Limo ACCOMMODATIONS Courtyard Kansas City

at Briarcliff; Hotel Sorella Country Club Plaza GUESTS 100 BUDGET $$ (see key, p. 8)

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jordan engaged: about 2 years

photography by Alea Lovely at Venue at Willow Creek

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BRIDE Kyndall Durkee, 26, a photographer GROOM Jordan Giesler, 26, a graphic designer HOW THEY MET At a restaurant WEDDING STYLE The creative couple combined their expertise to plan a formal yet fun fete that incorporated fruit-filled centerpieces and candy-colored blooms. —SM

Despite booking the space while it was still under construction, Kyndall and Jordan fell for their unfinished venue’s covered patio. “We loved that it had a great indoor space too, just in case the unpredictable Kansas weather didn’t want to cooperate,” Kyndall says.

“Our florals took a front-row seat,” Kyndall says of adding pink peonies to her asymmetrical bouquet.

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Personalized shot glass escort cards encouraged guests to get settled in their seat before getting the party started.

Elton John’s “Your Song” just happened to be playing when Jordan proposed in Las Vegas, making the tune an obvious choice for their first dance. Sweet menu treats included breakfast staples like French toast and cinnamon rolls, while a signature blueberry mojito served as the bride’s “something blue.”

KYNDALL & JORDAN’S WEDDING INGREDIENTS CEREMONY & RECEPTION SITE

Venue at Willow Creek, Kansas City, KS PHOTOGRAPHY Alea Lovely VIDEOGRAPHY Alea Lovely; George

Mullinix

PLANNER Lindsay/Venue at

Willow Creek Gardens

FLOWERS Victorian

OFFICIANT Chris Testerman

(friend)

GOWN Maggie Sottero,

The Gown Gallery, Kansas City, MO VEIL Veronica Couture

Nina

SHOES

ENGAGEMENT & WEDDING

RINGS Shane Co. JEWELRY Bracelet

& earrings: White House Black Market HAIR &

MAKEUP Heidi B. Artistry

BRIDESMAID DRESSES Mia’s Bridal,

Olathe, KS

MENSWEAR Michael’s

Clothing, Kansas City, MO DIY

STATIONERY

CATERING Olive Events

DIY

CAKE

REGISTRIES Amazon.com; Bed

Bath & Beyond; Honeyfund.com HONEYMOON Jamaica GUESTS 110 BUDGET $$ (see key, p. 8)

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Trip paired a white dinner jacket with a classic bow tie and velvet slippers that Katie gifted to him on the morning of their vows.

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THEIR STORY BRIDE Kathryn (Katie) Black, 28, works at Booz Allen Hamilton GROOM William (Trip) Mullen III, 29, works at Trident Maritime Systems HOW THEY MET At work WEDDING STYLE A custom monogram set the tone for Katie and Trip’s sophisticated soiree at a local country club. —SM

“We agreed when we got engaged that fun was the number one objective,” Katie says of their lavish nuptials, which ended with a late-night pool party, where guests indulged in Winstead’s cheeseburgers and vodka lime freezes. Another necessity: white peonies, which were imported by the hundreds. “My mom has 63 peony plants in her yard, so I grew up loving them,” Katie says.

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KATIE & TRIP’S WEDDING INGREDIENTS

CEREMONY SITE St. Andrew’s Episcopal

Church, Kansas City, MO RECEPTION SITE Kansas City Country Club, Mission Hills, KS Towering glass vessels housed dramatic arrangements of hydrangeas, roses, tulips, orchids, boxwood and, of course, peonies. “Having a flower wall was a big priority for us visually, so we budgeted in other areas to execute that high-impact detail,” Katie says of their statement-making florals.

PHOTOGRAPHY Cassandra Castaneda

Photography

VIDEOGRAPHY George Mullinix

Photography and Motion

CONSULTANTS

Kelley Ruf; Dee Dee Adams/The Nelson-Atkins Museum of Art; Kristen Lenz/Kansas City Country Club

FLOWERS Trapp & Company

OFFICIANT Rev. John Spicer

GOWN &

VEIL Peter Langner, Mark Ingram Atelier,

New York City

SHOES Oscar de la Renta

ENGAGEMENT & WEDDING RINGS Tivol HAIR Irina Pogosova O’Neil

Chanel

Bella Bridesmaids Brothers

MAKEUP

BRIDESMAID DRESSES Amsale, MENSWEAR Brooks

STATIONERY Crane & Co.; Jenn

Rogers Custom Stationery and Event Design; Sarah-Allen Preston Designs; Victoria Hoke Lane Fine Calligraphy Event Rental Club

RENTALS All Seasons

CATERING Kansas City Country

CAKE Icing on the Cake

Alex Reed; Simply Irresistible

MUSIC DJ REGISTRIES

Halls; Mintwood Home; Scully & Scully; Williams Sonoma

HONEYMOON France

GUESTS 300 BUDGET $$$$$ (see key, p. 8)

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laura &

ricky engaged: 4 months

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Merlot-hued bridesmaid dresses were a natural fit for Laura and Ricky’s vineyard vows.

THEIR STORY

CEREMONY & RECEPTION SITE Liquid

Art Winery and Estate, Manhattan, KS PHOTOGRAPHY Rick and Melanie

Messina/Rick Messina Photography VIDEOGRAPHY Scene by Scene Productions

Guests gathered around as Laura and Ricky said “I do” in front of a wine barrel that served as an altar. “We wanted to keep it classic and simple,” Laura says of their affable approach to wedding planning. “The most important thing to us was committing our lives to each other.”

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BRIDE Laura Allison, 29, a kindergarten teacher GROOM Ricky Searles, 32, a contractor HOW THEY MET Through Ricky’s mom WEDDING STYLE The couple’s love of wine led them to a local winery, where a rich palette of burgundy, gray and gold complemented the scenic setting. —SM

PLANNER Tara Grubb/All About You FLOWERS Kistner’s Flowers

OFFICIANT

Storm Davis (friend & pastor)

GOWN

Maggie Sottero, Celebrations of the Heart, Wichita, KS Heart

VEIL Celebrations of the

SHOES TOMS

ENGAGEMENT

RING Shane Co. WEDDING RINGS

Groom: Riddle’s Jewelry JEWELRY Belt & earrings: Celebrations of the Heart HAIR Platinum & Company

Ashley Lour Brooks

MAKEUP

BRIDESMAID

DRESSES David’s Bridal

MENSWEAR

Groom: Borck Brothers; groomsmen: Perry Ellis

STATIONERY Minted.com

RENTALS All About You

Friendship House MUSIC DJ Jordan

Scenic Valley Inn & Barrel; Target

CATERING

CAKE 4 Cakes ACCOMMODATIONS REGISTRIES Crate

HONEYMOON Jamaica

GUESTS 150 BUDGET $$ (see key, p. 8)

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hannah &

bobby engaged: a year and a half

photography by Neal Dieker Photography at Old Cowtown Museum

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Vibrant sunflowers popped against bunches of silver dollar eucalyptus and ranunculus.

HANNAH & BOBBY’S WEDDING INGREDIENTS CEREMONY SITE St. James Episcopal

Old Cowtown Museum, Wichita, KS PHOTOGRAPHY Neal Dieker Photography

FLOWERS Beards Floral Design OFFICIANT Fr. Nicholas Mather

Church, Wichita, KS RECEPTION SITE

GOWN Mori Lee, Dress Gallery, Wichita,

VEIL Dress Gallery

Melani

SHOES Antonio

ENGAGEMENT RING Riddle’s Jewelry

WEDDING RINGS Bride: Riddle’s Jewelry; groom:

CleanCastingJewelry, Etsy.com EARRINGS Blue Apple Jewelry

HAIR Michael Howe,

Salon at Happiness Plaza MAKEUP Skin Essentials

BRIDESMAID DRESSES Various

MENSWEAR Groom: Men’s Wearhouse;

groomsmen: TheBlackTux.com Eric Montoy; Vistaprint.com DIY

STATIONERY SIGN-IN BOOK

RENTALS Event Elements

& DESSERTS Blue Moon Caterers

CATERING MUSIC

Ceremony: Helen Griffin & Brooke Talbot;

THEIR STORY BRIDE Hannah Clayton, 25, a residential caregiver GROOM Bobby Sexton, 28, an industrial engineer HOW THEY MET In college while working at a restaurant WEDDING STYLE Punchy green details and an abundance of sunflowers made for a classic yet casual celebration that felt anything but stuffy. —SM

A traditional ceremony at the bride’s hometown church gave way to a relaxed reception complete with lawn games, cocktails and a photo booth. “We love a good backyard party and wanted to create that type of atmosphere for our families and friends,” Hannah says of their laid-back affair.

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ACCOMMODATIONS REGISTRIES Crate

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aybe one of the hardest things about wedding planning is getting on the same page with your vendors. You may be explaining your vision of the most perfect rustic soiree, but your planner may be hearing the makings of a bohemian

bash. This could happen with any of your pros—florists, bakers or caterers. Visuals help, of course, but it’s also important to know you’re speaking the same language. Enter our wedding theme dictionary. We broke down every theme, from alternative to whimsical, with descriptions and buzzwords for each—arming you with the basics, so to speak. Remember: Style is totally up for interpretation, so these aren’t rules. Think of them as jumping-off points or guidelines. Once you know what

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Make your wedding all about you—it is your day after all. You want your guests to leave saying, “That was so them!” vintage A typewriter adds instant nostalgia to a classic guest book. art deco Sparkly dresses shout celebration. romantic Hanging florals and ambient lighting ooze romance. nautical An anchor motif paired with sailing rope sets the scene for a seaside affair. alternative A colorful celebration complete with quirky sneakers and a rainbow of blooms is sure to be remembered.

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art deco Evoking the American 1920s, especially art deco architecture (such as the Chrysler building), this wedding theme is all about spunky glitz and glam—after all, they were the roaring twenties. Energetic jazz music was the life of every party, so we highly recommend a live band to get your guests on their feet. BUZZWORDS: flashy, metallic, opulent WHAT IT LOOKS LIKE: Pluming white ostrich feathers spilling from centerpieces, sequined tablecloths and geometric designs decorate any art deco soiree. Arguably, the most important detail of one of these throwback parties is a champagne tower. VENUE IDEA: historic museum (bonus points for art deco architecture)

bohemian Boho style has this way of looking incredibly chic, with minimal effort. It’s the “I woke up like this” of wedding themes. The décor is humble but eye-catching and the palette is one that can be found living harmoniously in nature. BUZZWORDS: tribal, hipster, nomadic WHAT IT LOOKS LIKE: Expect mismatched bridesmaid dresses that don’t look too put together and bouquets of wispy and wild florals. The reception would definitely feature a cozy lounge area, complete with tepees and poufs. The finishing touch? A naked cake covered in fresh blooms. VENUE IDEA: open field >>

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Alternative seems to have gotten a bad rap over the years, and we’re here to change that. Having an alternative wedding just means your style is unique and can’t be boxed in with other categories. These themes are often representative of subcultures such as Burning Man, Steampunk, Renaissance or Marvel comics. BUZZWORDS: quirky, creative, unique WHAT IT LOOKS LIKE: The bride may wear a traditional white dress, but the bouquet or accessories would be all her own. Or she might opt for something totally different, like a multicolored gown or handmade cocktail dress. There’s definitely a themed cake with a nod to shared interests (think: your favorite Marvel character). Expect lots of quirky touches, from centerpieces to favors. VENUE IDEA: renovated movie theater

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Infuse your theme with details big and small, like a motif on your invitation or the overall vibe of your reception. alternative Let your personalities shine with a nontraditional altar or a barefoot, seaside celebration. art deco Look for a beaded gown with intricate detailing or put a twist on the signature sip with a champagne tower. bohemian Embellish your outdoor ceremony with textural elements, like macramÃ© dream catchers, and opt for unique entertainment, like a bluegrass band.

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This is your dayâ&#x20AC;&#x201D;make the details really reflect who you are as a couple. classic Upgrade elegant table settings with place cards and fresh stems, or choose timeless attire ensembles, like black tuxedos. country Pick a bucolic place to host your celebration (like an old barn) and add pastoral touches. Wildflower bouquets, antique trucks and cowboy boots fit the bill. DIY Create your own bunting using printed fabric in your wedding colors, or add DIY elements to your invitation suite.

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Imagine a venue filled with monochromatic décor, from the linens to the floral arrangements. There may be metallic or pastel accents, but overall the palette is light and airy with different textures thrown in to mix things up. BUZZWORDS: traditional, timeless, elegant WHAT IT LOOKS LIKE: Classic weddings are usually more on the formal side—they’re clean-cut affairs. That means there may be a champagne cocktail hour, chargers at each place setting and understated (but beautiful) décor like tealight candles or arrangements made up of a single floral variety. VENUE IDEA: ballroom

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Personifying the American West, country weddings are full of flavor and overflowing with charm. This style is all about celebrating your hometown and maybe throwing in some Americana flair for good measure. BUZZWORDS: Western, homespun, rural WHAT IT LOOKS LIKE: Cowboy boots will definitely make an appearance, and don’t be surprised if camo comes along with them. More traditional items might be swapped for ones with a stronger hometown spin (like pies from your local bakery instead of a tiered wedding cake), and a strong send-off is a must. We love a good vintage car getaway, and an old Ford pickup would be perfect for the job. VENUE IDEA: ranch

diy You can see the personalization in every detail of a DIY wedding. Whether it’s a hand-sewn pennant flag banner, homemade cookies or handwritten escort cards, the couple’s style shines through. BUZZWORDS: handmade, charming, personalized WHAT IT LOOKS LIKE: Details have a homemade, imperfect quality about them: a customized stamp that prints the couple’s monogram on each invitation, a handcrafted paper flower bouquet or favors packaged with personalized notes of thanks. Have a make-your-own food station (whether it’s in place of or supplementing a sit-down meal) at the reception. Think: sliders with a variety of toppings, a crepe bar or fireside s’mores for dessert. VENUE IDEA: backyard >>

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The ultimate inspiration for a glamorous wedding? The red carpet or awards show after-parties. Jaw-dropping outfits, sweeping hairstyles and old-Hollywood red lips pair with fancy décor for a glittering celebration. BUZZWORDS: dazzling, chic, captivating WHAT IT LOOKS LIKE: Glamorous weddings probably have a few jaw-dropping details that end up all over Instagram, like a flower wall, elegantly draped fabric linens or exquisitely prepared food. The décor can range from neutral minimalist to over-the-top and extravagant. Metallics are a must. And something unexpected— a live performance or fireworks show—will wow the crowd. VENUE IDEA: luxury estate

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modern A modern wedding is all about exquisite simplicity. City dwellers, urbanites and design lovers gravitate to this wedding style, which skews formal but has enough playful touches to keep it from feeling too stiff or stuffy. BUZZWORDS: graphic, contemporary, cutting edge WHAT IT LOOKS LIKE: Expect a mix and match of patterns in a playful but incredibly sophisticated fashion, anchored by a streamlined color scheme. The theme is reflected in every detail from the thoughtfully chosen table linens to the specialty cocktail. A modern monogram or cool logo may be used to personalize the menus and the dance floor, while the cake will be simple but extra delicious (think: foodie ingredients and crazy flavors). VENUE IDEA: loft

nautical A celebration by the sea calls for some serious Cape Cod and Nantucket inspiration. A seafood bar, like an oyster shucking station or fresh shrimp cocktails during cocktail hour, is sure to send the right message. BUZZWORDS: preppy, navel, beachy WHAT IT LOOKS LIKE: Nautical hues play a huge role (everything from navy to sand is free game). Breezy linens, lighthouse décor, sea shell escort cards, fishing line lighting installations and relaxed (but slightly preppy) attire make this theme really come alive. VENUE IDEA: waterfront yacht club >>

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You can have more than two wedding colorsâ&#x20AC;&#x201D;really! Add an accent hue or a zesty pop to any palette. glamorous Go grand with a multi-tier cake covered in pastel sugar flowers, or opt for a more monochromatic palette of white and cream. modern Bright colors mixed with a pattern makes a bold statement, while mid-century furniture is perfect for a lounge. nautical A celebration by the ocean screams maritime, especially if you include rich blue hues and a pop of coral in your color scheme.

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retro It’s Mad Men meets Grease in this drive-in, sock hop, American Bandstand–era celebration. Even if your guests can’t jive like dancers back in the day, that’s what the vibe should feel like—and everyone should be on the dance floor. BUZZWORDS: nostalgic, old-fashioned, moxie WHAT IT LOOKS LIKE: This was a time to be bold and express your style, so a bright color scheme of teal and cherry red or neon pink and yellow sets the stage. A few throwback details like Coke served in its signature glass bottles are just right to round out the décor. Borrow an heirloom cake topper or scout one from a vintage shop. VENUE IDEA: old theater

Romantic weddings are all about celebrating romance with barely there colors, soft lighting and ethereal details like flowing dresses with airy fabrics. Elaborate cakes, candlelight (to set the mood) and tons of florals are usually present too. BUZZWORDS: delicate, feminine, luxurious WHAT IT LOOKS LIKE: We love the idea of a preceremony cocktail hour kicking things off, complete with light appetizers and flutes of sparkling rosé. The final detail: A beautifully tiered cake with an elegant cascade of sugar flowers followed by a grand exit in a classic car or a horse and carriage. VENUE IDEA: castle

rustic Rustic can mean many things, but we like to streamline it with a simple farm-to-table baseline. Textures, especially natural ones like wood and stone, are staples of this theme. BUZZWORDS: local, minimal, raw WHAT IT LOOKS LIKE: Low, sprawling centerpieces with flowers that look fresh from the field dress up bare wood tables. Mixed glassware styles give a hint of glamour, but the eclectic collection still feels hand-curated. Market lights create ambience while a naked cake with fresh berries tastes as good as it looks. VENUE IDEA: renovated barn >>

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Hosting an alfresco wedding? Work the landscape into the details. retro Make a memorable exit in an oldfashioned car. romantic An elegant gown with a full skirt is ultra-feminine. rustic Cream-colored draping adds a softness to a tented outdoor celebration.

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southern This elegant soiree is the epitome of Southern charm. Soft florals, sweet refreshments and amazing bites like tartlets or honey biscuits are the big players in this wedding theme. BUZZWORDS: charming, traditional, enchanting WHAT IT LOOKS LIKE: A formal Southern affair calls for pulling out all the stops: bow ties, gloves, craft cocktails, traditional place settings and delicious food. Old-fashioned touches, like all-white flowers, mixed with sweet personalized details, like customized monograms, bring the day to life. VENUE IDEA: plantation

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This “of-another-time” theme is often confused with retro. The biggest differences are in the eras: Retro is more about a specific period in time while vintage alludes more to antiques and Victorian details in the general sense. BUZZWORDS: antique, throwback, heirloom WHAT IT LOOKS LIKE: Instead of cloths or runners, tables might be draped with delicate layers of lace. Old furniture makes the best statement, so a lounge area with classic armchairs or love seats would create the perfect ambience. A gown with lace sleeves or a three-piece suit is a nice nod to the fashion of the time. VENUE IDEA: historic courthouse

whimsical Think of a whimsical wedding as a hybrid of rustic and boho, topped with a flower crown. It’s a little more on the storybook side, but in the most tasteful way. BUZZWORDS: fanciful, enchanting, eclectic WHAT IT LOOKS LIKE: Think: garden party mixed with Alice in Wonderland. Introduce this theme with a quirky motif on the invitations. Day-of details like mismatched bridal party dresses and thrifted china will make everything feel unique to you. VENUE IDEA: botanical garden

Personalized touches make any wedding extraordinary. southern Dress your party in elegant monochromatic gowns. vintage Choose attire that hearkens back to another era, like a beaded gown. whimsical Go for a wow factor with playful statements, like a wall of greenery.

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Use nature’s hues to guide your wedding day palette. BY LAUREN KAY Choosing wedding colors is no small task—with so many distinctive shades, deciding on the perfect duo (or trio) can be a bit overwhelming. To narrow the playing field, look to Mother Nature and let the season of your celebration influence your picks. From a spring soiree to a winter fete, we’ve rounded up a few of our favorite hues. Pair them together or mix them with neutrals or metallics for a winning color scheme. >>

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french blue WHY IT’S A GOOD FIT: This gorgeous rich hue is bold enough to stand on its own. And it also pairs well with most shades, making it work for virtually any style (rustic, romantic, modern) celebration. PAIRS WELL WITH: gold, blush, emerald, mushroom, burgundy TIPS TO TRY: Ink your invites in blue or dress your bridesmaids in this flattering shade—they’ll look stellar in photographs.

peach WHY IT’S A GOOD FIT: This pinkish-yellow hue was

a hallmark of art deco design—it can be dressed up or down depending on the formality of your celebration. PAIRS WELL WITH: gold, lilac, dove gray, pale yellow, blush TIPS TO TRY: Start the party with a celebratory sip, like a peach Bellini, or incorporate Juliet garden roses into your bouquet.

teal WHY IT’S A GOOD FIT: A blue-green hue feels equal

parts fresh and classic. Use it to add a pop of color. orange, fuchsia, silver, plum, black TIPS TO TRY: Play with details, like teal drink stirrers, ribbon and bridal accessories (which can count as your “something blue”). >>

spring sage WHY IT’S A GOOD FIT: Despite its softness, this pale green can lead or be a strong accent. PAIRS WELL WITH: blush, lilac, butterscotch, spruce, cotton TIPS TO TRY: Use sage-hued greenery in your bouquet or delight your guests with a pistachio macaron favor.

lavender WHY IT’S A GOOD FIT: This pastel hue is known for its

calming tendencies—it’s perfect for creating a relaxed vibe for your wedding day. PAIRS WELL WITH: silver, cream, eggplant, dusty blue, berry TIPS TO TRY: Have guests shower you in dried lavender after your first kiss as newlyweds or as part of your grand exit.

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scarlet WHY IT’S A GOOD FIT: An eye-catching shade, red is often associated with passion and joy. PAIRS WELL WITH: beige, copper, sky blue, lime, ash TIPS TO TRY: Add scarlet pillows to lounge furniture or cut into a rich, red-velvet cake for a surprising pop of color.

seafoam WHY IT’S A GOOD FIT: Perfect for seaside celebrations,

this greenish-blue hue is soft but gender neutral. ivory, coral, crimson, pewter, magenta TIPS TO TRY: You’ll be hard-pressed to find florals in this shade, so try incorporating it into your wedding party attire (bridesmaid dresses, pocket squares or bow ties). PAIRS WELL WITH:

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summer rose WHY IT’S A GOOD FIT: This soft pink screams romance—plus it pairs flawlessly with metallics and stronger hues, balancing its femininity. PAIRS WELL WITH: white, gold, chocolate, sky blue, peach TIPS TO TRY: So many stems come in this shade of pink, from tea roses to ranunculus. Adorn a naked cake with a few fresh blooms.

canary yellow WHY IT’S A GOOD FIT: A happy hue such as yellow gives levity and cheer to any color scheme. PAIRS WELL WITH: peacock blue, flamingo, navy, grape, teal TIPS TO TRY: For a bold hit, layer tables in yellow linens. Use the hue in your day-of paper or serve a lemon-flavored sip.

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WHY IT’S A GOOD FIT: This golden tone of orange is bright and playful, a great match for a casual or whimsical celebration. PAIRS WELL WITH: hot pink, lilac, kelly green, rose gold, snow TIPS TO TRY: Include tangerines or other citrus fruits in your centerpieces for a tropical vibe. >>

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royal blue WHY IT’S A GOOD FIT: A cool, saturated hue is the

perfect match for cooler temps. It’s also a universally flattering shade to wear and looks great in décor. PAIRS WELL WITH: cherry red, silver, melon, steel, marigold TIPS TO TRY: Add colored glassware to your table settings or opt for watercolor or patterned escort cards.

hunter green WHY IT’S A GOOD FIT: This earthy hue transcends formality, mixing with neutrals for a rustic vibe or gold and cream for a more formal palette. PAIRS WELL WITH: gold, caramel, amber, terra-cotta, azure TIPS TO TRY: Load your bouquet and centerpieces with fresh greenery, or include the hue in your welcome bags.

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WHY IT’S A GOOD FIT: If you’re looking for a sophisticated yet approachable color, this fits the bill. PAIRS WELL WITH: walnut, copper, butter, pistachio, bisque TIPS TO TRY: Incorporate grape into your day-of paper, like ceremony programs, escort cards and favor tags. >>

fall WHY IT’S A GOOD FIT: This saturated hue adds instant

warmth to a wedding palette. PAIRS WELL WITH: eggplant, cream, butter, bronze, mint TIPS TO TRY: Play up this rich hue in your menu—from butternut squash to hot toddies, there are a plethora of seasonal choices.

maroon WHY IT’S A GOOD FIT: Deep reds make a bold

statement. Soften with a barely there blush or a more formal mix of sparkly metallics. PAIRS WELL WITH: blush, gold, topaz, navy, tan, lilac TIPS TO TRY: A velvet maroon jacket is an elegant look for him. Or berries can give your florals texture and depth.

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dark eggplant WHY IT’S A GOOD FIT: This jewel tone gives off sophistication, richness and warmth. PAIRS WELL WITH: ruby, sand, navy, charcoal, emerald TIPS TO TRY: Have a cascade of eggplant sugar flowers on your cake, or choose a patterned linen runner for dining tables.

silver WHY IT’S A GOOD FIT: This shade can go glitzy

(think: sparkly metallic) or be a luminous neutral. cranberry, sapphire, juniper, frost, pineapple TIPS TO TRY: Ask your bridesmaids to don a pair of glittery heels or accent your tables with candelabras or mercury glass vases. PAIRS WELL WITH:

steel blue WHY IT’S A GOOD FIT: An almost-neutral blue, this

hue is perfect for adding a hint of color to a celebration. pearl, garnet, slate, copper, sage TIPS TO TRY: Since blue florals are hard to come by, tie a cascading ribbon to the stems of your bouquet, include the hue in a custom monogram or use pillar candles on your dining tables. PAIRS WELL WITH:

winter ivory WHY IT’S A GOOD FIT: A timeless neutral is a total win—this one has warm undertones, which makes it perfect for winter nuptials. PAIRS WELL WITH: blush, gray, lapis, ebony, moss TIPS TO TRY: Don an ivory gown (more flattering than white for most skin tones) or opt for a classic ivory-frosted cake.

cherry red WHY IT’S A GOOD FIT: This happy hue is synonymous with romance and passion. PAIRS WELL WITH: fog, chartreuse, sky blue, gold, linen TIPS TO TRY: Tuck your invites into red envelopes to get guests’ attention, or mix red roses into your floral arrangements.

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how to avoid a “pin-dictable” wedding Find the most inspiring images out there and pin until your heart’s content—but don’t throw a copycat celebration. Follow these expert tips for a one-of-a-kind event. BY ANDREA FOWLER PHOTOGRAPH BY LEVI STOLOVE PHOTOGRAPHY

Settling on a style for your wedding can be hard, especially when your thoughts are tangled up in contradictions: You want it to be trendy, but also timeless; reflective of your tastes, but impressive to your guests as well. Allison Aronne, wedding planner, producer and partner at Fête NY, says there’s a huge difference between “trendy” and “personalized.” Here’s how you can achieve both. >>

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spin the trends “Incorporating trendy ideas into your wedding is very different than personalizing it,” Aronne says. “Pinterest is oversaturated, so we begin to see the same common threads in everyone’s weddings.” While you can totally find wedding inspo on Pinterest (we do it all the time), the key ingredient that makes your wedding memorable is the way you spin those details—really make the trends your own. Love Moscow Mules? Instead of serving your signature sip in a copper mug, opt for unique glassware.

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“Pull personalization from the place where you’ll say ‘I do.’ Every city has something unique about it—incorporate a regional element into your wedding day.”

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save your inspiration The easiest way to make the celebration about you two is to begin by thinking big picture. Do you both envision something romantic, modern or whimsical? “Start by pulling images of interior spaces you love to be in, whether that’s hotels, restaurants or barns. Create an inspiration gallery that can later be shared with your designer, planner or photographer,” Aronne says. And they shouldn’t all be wedding pins—mix in images of things that inspire you, like the vibe of a place or the pattern of kitchen titles. “Your board should ultimately reflect your lifestyle,” she adds. When you’re pinning, think about why you’re drawn to a specific image. It will help you hone in on your personal style.

make it about you two Pinterest is a great place to generate ideas. As you save images, you’ll start to see themes emerge—tap into those. Then think about ways to make them represent who you are as a couple. If you both love nature and hike together on the weekends, send guests home with a special blend of trail mix. If you share a culture, add a ritual or tradition into your ceremony. Or pay homage to your heritage by incorporating family heirlooms into the reception (think: grandparents’ cake topper or your parents’ toasting flutes). Even fun nods to your favorite things (like a wall of soft pretzels with artisanal mustard) will infuse originality into your day. >>

get organized

Stay on top of your to-do list with one of these wedding helpers.

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keep every piece of paper, receipt and swatch THE BASICS This is the best way to keep your wedding ideas, notes and contracts all in one place. Use dividers to separate sections and make finding entries simple.

doesn’t want stacks of paper clutter THE BASICS Save all images and ideas virtually, and use web-based tools to track todos and guests. You can even scan all contacts and save them in a folder accessible from any device. Download our Wedding Planner by The Knot app to get started.

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BEST FOR Busy people who don’t have lots of time to organize their papers THE BASICS Keep a container for storing samples of invites or favors, or clips of images you like. That way they’ll all be in one place, and when you’re done collecting, you can easily pick out favorites.

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send clever invites Start strong with your invite—it’s the first impression guests will have of your wedding day. “Mail blank RSVP cards asking guests for a creative reply. You’ll receive some really interesting drawings, fun photos and touching notes,” Aronne says. Want to take it one step further? “Display the most creative replies on a board during the wedding reception. No one can re-create this—they were all made specifically for you,” she notes.

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When it comes to the actual “I dos,” couples are opting to make up their own traditions. Ask a friend or family member to officiate, invent an out-of-the-box unity ceremony or celebrate a cultural or family tradition. The program is anther great place to infuse your individuality. Add a heartfelt thank-you note to your guests, or include a jovial who’s who of the wedding party. You could even use the back for a little fun and games (think: a crossword puzzle) to keep guests busy until things get started. Bottom line: Make the ceremony about you.

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The true secret to an unforgettable wedding are the experiences guests have. Try engaging their five senses (sight, touch, hearing, taste and smell) throughout the night—maybe through a few stunning floral arrangements, luxe linens and dinner napkins, or surprise entertainment like professional dancers, live music during the cocktail hour or a sommelier on hand to recommend hors d’oeuvres and wine pairings at a special satellite bar. You don’t need to splurge on everything, just choose one that pairs well with your likes and interests. You want guests to recognize right away that this wedding detail is so you.

Pull inspiration from the place where you’ve chosen to tie the knot. “Every city has something unique about it, so incorporate one or some of these elements into your day,” Aronne says. “For a Hamptons wedding, we had Long Island oyster shuckers stationed at the raw bar, and paired the oysters with local craft beers.” This is a great way to make the celebration special and unique to you. Add some local flair to your welcome bag or send guests home with a parting regional favor. Get more style tips at TheKnot.com/style

wedding themes

No theme, no problem. Anything can inspire the vibe of your day.

If you long for a bygone era, infuse your wedding with elements of your favorite decade (think: fifties, roaring twenties). You don’t have to have a period wedding, just borrow elements.

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A single element, like a painting you love, a favorite flower or a piece of lace from your mother’s wedding dress that conveys a vintage meets romantic vibe can set the tone for your day.

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your passions

What interests or (healthy obsessions) really say who you are as a couple? Maybe you’re nature lovers who hike on the weekends, or hometown sports junkies who never miss a game.

the seasons

The time of year can totally influence your wedding food, music, flowers, favors, decorations and even wardrobe. Let the season lead the style choices for your celebration.

going green

Infuse your wedding with your passion for the planet by using ecofriendly elements, a locally sourced, seasonal organic menu or an outdoorsy setting. Or pair this vibe with another theme.

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We’re all about a personalized wedding, but we also really love a good trend. So we’ve rounded up our favorite ideas to steal for an of-the-moment celebration. And yes, a few of these trends could blow your whole budget, but there are infinite ways to pull inspiration from these ideas and spin them to match your style (and wallet).

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Animal lovers take note: The hottest wedding guests have four legs and supersoft coats. From bunnies to donkeys, couples are incorporating more than just their pets into their weddings. This is a trend to try if you’re hosting a rustic soiree or celebrating in a picturesque barn.

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Sparkly gownsâ&#x20AC;&#x201D;gold, silver and metallic beadingâ&#x20AC;&#x201D;flooded the bridal runways. The ball gown is making a comeback too, perfect for a formal evening wedding. Also hot? Breezy silhouettes and airy skirts. These effortless dresses (think: flowing fabrics like tulle and organza) have an ethereal vibe and are well suited for a destination affair or even a second look. Detachable skirts, floral embellishments and off-the-shoulder styles are making their way down the aisle as well. >>

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unique invitations Get your guests excited to celebrate from the very beginning with wedding correspondence that stands out. Plexiglass invites, foil stamping and glow-in-the-dark ink are a few of the stationery trends we’re loving right now. Bespoke illustrations and bold envelopes (think: shocking fuchsia with white ink) are other ways to get noticed.

grand getaways Think of this exit as a fresh take on the classic sparkler send-off. Surprise your guests with an unexpected getaway on the back of a motorcycle, in a horse-drawn carriage or by helicopter. For a twist on the trend, have a really memorable entrance instead. Anything goes—and just think of the photo ops.

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COLOR COMEBACK

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color comeback

This deconstructed welcome bag is perfect for destination weddings. Instead of stuffing and delivering a gift for your guests, let them do the work—they’ll be glad you did. Set up a room full of swag (snacks, drinks, local treats) and guests can choose their favorite things. Best of all, you (or your family or wedding party) can greet guests in person when they arrive. If your friends and family are split between a couple of hotels, set up a table of goodies at the exit of your welcome party for a truly memorable party favor.

Neutrals and pastels have paved the way for a total return to color. Expect to see pops of bold shades and bright pairings. Pantone named greenery the Color of the Year—it’s vibrant and earthy, making it perfect for all seasons. This fresh hue is symbolic of “the reconnection we seek with nature, one another and a larger purpose,” says Leatrice Eiseman, executive director of the Pantone Color Institute. We expect to see this shade of green in everything from floral arrangements to colored linens.

asking for what you really want From cash to mountain bikes and even museum memberships, we love that couples can ask for just about anything under the sun these days—including nothing at all. Charity registries are on the rise along with experiences, like a pottery class or private cocktail session with an expert mixologist. Don’t worry, you can still register for classic wedding gifts like fine china, upgraded cookware and that fancy espresso machine you’ve had your eye on for years. Or do both!

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Classic aisles will always be popular, but couples are adding twists to the traditional ceremony. A circular seating setup or ceremony in the round gives guests a more intimate connection with your vows. Cocktails before your “I dos”? Why not! Couples are mixing up the timeline and kicking things off with a celebratory sip. >>

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In an effort to entertain guests, couples are turning to the tried and true: games. From interactive Mad Lib wedding programs to croquet at outdoor cocktail hours, games are being used as a way to break the ice between guests. This playful detail will get your friends and family mingling.

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Décor trends are going au naturel. If you can’t celebrate under the stars, bring the outside in. Add some oversize potted trees to a ballroom for an instant forest effect. Or incorporate natural elements like wood and stone into your table settings. Greenery (not just the color) continues to trend—it’s easy to manipulate and can give your décor an undone but beautiful look. Bouquets are getting bigger too and some old-school styles, like cascade and pageant, are making a serious comeback.

a movable feast With food trucks and passed multicourse meals, the sit-down dinner is being replaced with more interactive options. Set up stations that feature your favorite eats, like wine and cheese pairings with an on-site sommelier. If you don’t want to forgo a plated dinner, host a cool cocktail hour and serve the main meal family style for a twist on the expected.

fun food presentations Menus are being carefully curated with favorite eats and local specialties. But the presentation is almost upstaging the food. Self-serve bars and food installations, like a hanging acrylic shelf piled high with hors d’oeuvres, are instant wows. These interactive stations will give your friends and family something to do, and talk about long after the wedding has ended. >>

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The latest in lounge seating is swings. This playground classic promises to be a big hit with wedding guests both young and old. And it’s the perfect way to stay in motion when your feet need a break from the dance floor. Seating in general is trending, with couples opting for “king” and “queen” chairs at a sweetheart table, or mix-and-match options for outdoor ceremonies. >>

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image mapping Turn your indoor reception venue into an enchanted forest without uprooting a single tree. Image mapping is a projection technology that allows you to transform a space with lighting and moving pictures. You can change scenes too, giving your ceremony and reception each its own special vibe. On a budget? Use the technology on just your wedding cake.

double-duty escorts Escort cards are like the save-the-dates of your wedding day— they don’t have to match your theme or style. They’re the perfect place to be playful and infuse your celebration with your personalities or favorite things. Create a dramatic display that can double as a photo booth backdrop or cards that are also party favors, like splits of champagne or a boxed edible treat.

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Hanging accents are an instant wow factor, and they always get noticed. Suspend flowers from ceiling beams or string market lights from barn rafters for added ambience. Hanging décor will get guests looking up too, which is handy if you’re trying to downplay the venue’s color-clashing carpet. Towering candelabras and organic centerpieces continue to be popular table décor.

translucent cakes Not quite frosted, not quite bare, the almost-naked cake is a perfect blend of two styles, and ideal for a less formal celebration. These confections are usually packed with flavor, lightly iced in buttercream and topped with fresh flowers or in-season fruits that hint at the flavors of the cake.

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party portraits We’re loving the new twist on the traditional photo booth: portrait studios. Much like a photo booth, there’s a designated space and, in some cases, props. But instead of four rapid-fire shots, there’s a live photographer asking you to “vogue” for the camera. You get beautiful images of your family and friends and they get a stellar classic portrait, perfect for their gallery wall. Vintage-loving duos might opt for an illustrator instead, who can sketch guests in their finest duds. Meanwhile, Geofilters are joining hashtags as the hottest way to be social with photos at weddings (#duh).

Give your guests an evening they won’t soon forget with unparalleled entertainment. Think outside the box with an aerialist, a live painter or a choir belting out your favorite Beyoncé song. An artist can capture the scene and commemorate the day—fun entertainment for your guests and a keepsake for you. Or go the more traditional route with music, but pair it with a performance, like a classical quartet and ballerinas in tutus. If you have a noise ordinance at your outdoor locale, host a silent disco: A DJ spins music, but instead of it blasting from speakers, your guests don a pair of headphones and dance (and sing along) in relative silence. We’re kind of obsessed. DOUBLE-DUTY ESCORTS

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look good on paper When to send invites, what to include and how to say it—we’ve got all the etiquette details covered. >>

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Your invites are one of the most important elements of your wedding because they provide guests with a lot of crucial information. And while many details of your day don’t follow a strict set of rules, your invitations do have some guidelines worth noting. See all of the answers to your most pressing wedding invite questions below.

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when should we make the deadline for RSVPs? Make your RSVP date two to three weeks before your wedding— this will allow enough time for you to get a final head count to the caterer (one week before) and to finalize your seating chart. If some guests still haven’t responded by your deadline, give them a quick call and ask for their RSVPs (still via mail) so you have all their information. where do we include information about our wedding website? Your wedding website should be included on your save-the-date. Don’t have one yet? Create your free site at TheKnot.com/website. If you’d like (or if you aren’t sending save-the-dates), you can include the web address in the formal invitations with an insert—a small card that informs guests they can go online for more details. can we include our registry info on our invitations or save-the-dates? In a word, no. Including registry info on the wedding invitations or save-the-dates is still considered impolite because it can come off as though you’re asking for gifts. Tell your wedding party, parents and close friends where you’re registered, and let them fill everyone in. Plus, most guests will know that all that extra information (that they didn’t find on the invitation) is on your wedding website. we’re having an adults-only wedding (no kids). how can we make sure this is clear to our guests? Address your invitations correctly—to each guest by name, not “and guest”—and guests should understand the invite is meant for only those mentioned. If you find that some reply with their children’s names added, give them a call and explain that you’re

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having an adults-only wedding and you hope they can still attend. If there are a lot of kids in your family, you may want to consider hiring or arranging for a babysitter. It’s definitely not required, but it’s a nice gesture. Just be sure to include this information on your wedding website.

how do we let guests know our dress code? The easiest way to get your point across is to include a dress code in the lower right-hand corner of the invite or on a reception card; “black-tie,” “cocktail attire” or “casual attire” are all acceptable. Your invitation design will also clue guests in. An ultra-formal, traditional invite with letterpress and calligraphy will give guests a hint to the formal nature of the event, whereas a square invite with a playful font and bright colors would fit a much more casual style. Another way is to direct guests to your wedding website, where you can go into more detail about the weekend events and dress code in a more informal forum. do we have to invite every guest with a “plus-one”? No, you don’t have to. If a guest isn’t married or in a serious relationship, it’s perfectly acceptable to invite them solo. Most will understand that without an “and Guest” or another name on the invitation, it means they aren’t invited with a plus-one. While it’s always nice to invite everyone with a guest, if you’re having a small wedding, your family and friends should understand your reasoning. What to do if a guest RSVPs for two? Call them and explain you’re having an intimate celebration and, unfortunately, you were not able to invite everyone with a guest. But if you realize that nearly everyone will be coupled up, extend a plus-one invitation to your few single friends and family. >>

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when should we send out our wedding invitations? Traditionally, invitations go out six to eight weeks before the wedding—that gives guests plenty of time to clear their schedules and make travel arrangements if they don’t live in town. If it’s a destination wedding, give guests more time and send them out three months before the day. Most couples also send out save-thedates. Those get mailed six to eight months in advance.

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where do you put the return address? The return address usually goes on the back flap of the envelope, and it should be that of the person(s) whom you’ve designated to receive response cards. This could be either your parents or you (traditionally, whomever is hosting the wedding handles response cards). Don’t forget that the RSVP envelope should also be printed with this address and should include postage. if our wedding reception is only for immediate family, is it okay to invite more people just to the ceremony? Not really. By inviting guests to one and not the other, you’re basically saying you want them there for the actual ceremony but you either don’t want to pay for their plate at your party or don’t care enough to have them there to actually celebrate your newly-married status. Sorry!

paper planning Here’s what you need to order for your stationery and when.

9–11 months before Research styles and stationers.

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Order and send save-the-dates; order thank-you notes.

4–6 months before

Order and finalize invitations, reply cards and any other enclosures; reserve a calligrapher (if you’re using one).

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6–8 weeks before Send invitations; order table numbers, escort cards, place cards and menus (or get started on them if you’re going the DIY route); and order ceremony programs (or start working on them).

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Send invitations for any peripheral parties you’re hosting, like a rehearsal dinner or a welcome party; drop escort cards and place cards off with your calligrapher or print yourselves.

Drop off envelopes with the calligrapher, or address and stuff invitations on your own.

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I invited my friend and her boyfriend (by name on the invite) to the wedding, but they recently broke up. Now she wants to bring a friend I don’t like—can I tell her no? Because you worded the invitation correctly by including her boyfriend’s name on the envelope (not “and guest”), etiquette wise, you have every right to say no. As a rule, invitations are nontransferable when people are invited by name. Try explaining that you’d prefer that the wedding be limited to family and good friends—just be prepared for a discussion.

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Our ultimate flower guide—45 blooms to be exact—includes details on seasonality, color and price for the most coveted wedding botanicals. BY ANDREA FOWLER PHOTOGRAPH BY DEVON JARVIS

Choosing wedding flowers that fit your style and petals that match your color palette isn’t always easy—especially if you can’t tell a dahlia from a daisy. Here’s everything you need to know about the most popular wedding flowers. >>

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These flowers have small, bright blooms that grow in clusters and often feature freckled petals. They’re best used as a backdrop to primary flowers. And they’re super long lasting. season: year-round cost: $ colors: white, yellow, orange, pink, red, lavender, purple, flecked

amaryllis If you want wow, this impressive flower is for you. It features large, trumpet-shaped blossoms that open in succession at the top of its extralong stalk. Grown from a bulb, the amaryllis originated in the tropical rain forests of Africa and South America. A more costly stem, these flowers are long lasting and offer a lot of drama in a bouquet or centerpiece. season: November to April cost: $$$ colors: white, yellow, green, pink, red, burgundy

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anemone Greek mythology has two legends about the anemone. These jewel-toned flowers were said to have sprung up from the blood that was shed by Aphrodite’s lover, Adonis, when he died. The ancient Greeks also believed that Zephyrus, the god of the west wind, favored the bloom, hence its other name: windflower. Though unscented, this relative of the peony and ranunculus is sought after for its vibrant magenta, red and purple hues. Just a few bright blooms can add a pop of color to bouquets and arrangements. season: November to May; primarily spring cost: $$$ colors: white, pink, purple, magenta, burgundy

bouvardia This flower is perfect for filling out a classic wedding bouquet or centerpieces. It has clusters of small, star-shaped blossoms bursting from a leafy green stem. It’s delicate, cost effective and totally romantic. season: year-round cost: $ colors: white, peach, pink, red

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calla lily Also known as the arum lily, this trumpetshaped blossom originated in Africa and symbolized “magnificent beauty” to the Victorians. Two types are commonly available: one with a large head and a long, smooth stem, suitable for tall arrangements or presentation bouquets; and a miniature version ideal for nosegays and boutonnieres. season: year-round, winter to late spring is the peak cost: $$$ colors: ivory, yellow, orange, light pink, dark pink, red, dark burgundy

camellia A symbol of loveliness and beauty, this multipetaled relative of the tea plant was originally from China. The flower had a notable role in Giuseppe Verdi’s opera La Traviata. In the story, a courtesan named Violetta always wore a white camellia, except for the few days of the month when she was “not available” and donned a red camellia instead. season: late winter to early spring, fall cost: $ colors: white, cream, pink, red

carnation Don’t turn up your nose at the carnation— this long-lasting flower is full of possibilities. The ruffled heads offer an inexpensive way to bring lushness and color to bouquets and arrangements. When massed, they also make a pretty arrangement of their own. Today, more than 300 species (in large, single blooms and miniature spray varieties) are available. season: year-round cost: $ colors: white, yellow, apricot, pale pink, dark pink, red, burgundy, also bicolors and flecked

chrysanthemum About a thousand varieties of long-lasting, versatile mums can be found in single stems or sprays. What the chrysanthemum lacks in sweet perfume, it makes up for in a range of colors. season: year-round, peak in late summer and fall cost: $ colors: white, yellow, green, orange, russet, red, burgundy >>

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Named the coxcomb due to its resemblance to a rooster’s comb, this vibrant flower makes a statement. It looks brilliant when cut short and used en masse as a centerpiece. season: late summer to late fall cost: $ colors: yellow, green, orange, pink, crimson

cornflower In medieval lore, it was believed that a girl who placed a cornflower beneath her skirt could have any bachelor she desired—which is perhaps how the flower acquired its other name, bachelor button. This inexpensive stem is perfect for casual and outdoor celebrations. It comes in a wide variety of shades, great for mixing in arrangements. Its button head (and historic story) make it a shoe-in for boutonnieres. season: summer to early fall cost: $$ colors: white, pink, blue

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cosmos Hoping to capture the look of a summer garden in full bloom? Cosmos is the stem for you. This daisylike flower grows in shades of pink and magenta on long stems with feathery foliage. A striking chocolate color is also available and can be used to create rich, late-summer arrangements. season: mid-summer to fall cost: $$ colors: white, pale pink, dark pink, chocolate

daffodil (also know as narcissus, paperwhite or jonquil) Shakespeare and Wordsworth both created rhapsodies about this humble and happy bulb flower. Perhaps it’s so well liked because its cheery yellow bloom is one of the first to appear after winter’s frost subsides and spring is on its way. The daffodil is a flower of true variety: Its blooms can be single or multiple, with large or small cups, in solid colors or in combinations of white and yellow with touches of orange. season: November to April cost: $$ colors: white, yellow, apricot, orange

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dahlia These bold, bushy flowers have a history as dramatic as their appearance. Conquistadors found the dahlia in the gardens of the Aztecs and caused a sensation when they brought the flower back to Europe. As the dahlia gained popularity, the pursuit of its potato-like tubers was conducted with intrigue and deception—dahlia tubers were reportedly stolen even from the garden of the Empress Josephine. season: summer to early fall cost: $$ colors: white, yellow, orange, pink, red, purple

daisy You may find the daisy a fitting flower for your wedding if you plucked its white petals in a game of “he loves me, he loves me not” as a child. Generally available year-around, the affordable stem is a lovely and whimsical flower, well suited for a casual wedding. season: year-around, peak summer to early fall cost: $ color: white

delphinium (also known as larkspur) A beloved classic in English flower beds, the delphinium has towering spires and clustered florets. The delphinium lends a country-garden feel to wedding arrangements while adding height and drama. Delphiniums can be found year-round, but most colors are at their peak from summer to early fall. season: year-round, peak June to October cost: $$ colors: white, pink, lavender, purple, blue

dutch tulip Widely available, this flower shouldn’t be overlooked just because it’s fairly common; its versatility and vast range of colors make it a wonderful flower at weddings (especially when clustered on its own). Dutch tulips have shorter stems and smaller blossoms than the French tulip. season: November to May cost: $$ colors: white, yellow, orange, pale pink, dark pink, red, purple >>

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french tulip Large, tapered heads spring from graceful stems in this elegant variety. The extra-long stems can be 12 inches or longer, which makes the French tulip a natural for presentation bouquets or minimalist centerpieces. More expensive than the Dutch variety, the French tulip is most often seen in pastel hues. season: Summer to early fall cost: $$$ colors: white, yellow, pink, blue

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gardenia Surrounded by dark green, waxy leaves, the exquisite gardenia exudes a very sultry and heavy scent. It was this intoxicating fragrance that captivated an English sea captain traveling through South Africa in 1754, prompting him to bring home one of the native plants as a souvenir. But the delicate, creamy ivory petals of this expensive flower can bruise easily, so handle with care. Carry a few as a posy or wear one as a corsage. season: year-round cost: $$$ color: ivory

gerbera This graphic flower is so flawless in its form that it almost doesn’t look real. Grown in the hottest climates of Asia and Africa, the gerbera is a year-round gem that comes in a crayon-box range of colors—nearly 350 intense shades are available, including bright orange, pink, red, yellow and burgundy. season: year-round cost: $ colors: white, yellow, orange, pale pink, dark pink, red >>

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a cheat sheet for centerpieces Foolproof tips for your table arrangements.

the basics

• Your centerpieces should match the proportions of the reception space.

• They should make sense for the size of your tables (long tables call for multiple arrangements; round tables, smaller ones).

• They should be the right height for conversation (tall enough or short enough that they don’t block guests’ views).

low and lovely

• The highest arrangement shouldn’t go above the shortest adult’s chin.

• Low arrangements call for big blooms—you might need the wow factor.

• Use color or texture, or both, to make the arrangement pop.

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• The lowest flower in an arrangement should be about two to three feet above the table.

• Blooms don’t have to be big, but they should soar (think: branches or orchid sprays).

• Stick to simple vessels, like clear vases, so all eyes are drawn up.

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A favorite of perfumers for its fresh, fruity scent, freesia packs a lot of fragrance in just a few blossoms. A couple of stems are all you need to sweeten your bouquet, but avoid using freesia in your centerpieces (the scent may interfere with your dinner menu). The green buds clustered along the thin, arched stem open gradually into delicate flowers. season: year-round cost: $$ colors: most colors are available, except for blue

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Standing tall and proud, the gladiolus has a spiky stem with large florets that open in succession. Miniature varieties with fewer blooms are also available. Full stems can be used to add height to arrangements, while the individual florets can be made into boutonnieres. The flower’s name is derived from the Latin word for sword, gladius, after the shape of its leaves. season: year-round, peak during summer cost: $ colors: white, yellow, green, apricot, orange, pale pink, dark pink, red, lavender, purple

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While technically not of the lily family (it grows on a climbing vine, not from a bulb), this flower’s refluxed petals and stamens bear a resemblance to those of actual lilies. Generally pinkish red and tipped with yellow, the gloriosa, or Rothschild lily, adds a tropical punch to bouquets and arrangements. season: year-round cost: $$ colors: red with yellow edges

grape hyacinth (also known as muscari) Grape hyacinth gets its name from the shape of its flower and perhaps from its mild, sweet scent. Sometimes called muscari, grape hyacinth is available in greenish white but is most often seen in a pretty purplish blue. This springtime bulb flower can be expensive, so it is best used as an accent or massed in small bunches. season: November to May cost: $$ colors: white-green, blue-purple

hyacinth In ancient mythology, Hyacinthus was a figure in a tale of tragic love. Today, we know this stocky bulb flower as a fragrant signature of spring. The hyacinth’s scent is strong, so less is more in centerpieces and arrangements. season: November to May cost: $$ colors: white, yellow, peach, pale pink, fuchsia, lavender, purple, blue

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hydrangea With its big, bushy head and intense colors, a stem or two of this moderately priced, scentless shrub flower helps fill out arrangements and bouquets. And it’s one of the few blue blooms. season: July to November cost: $$ colors: white, green, pink, burgundy, purple, blue

iris This unusually shaped flower has been admired by many throughout history. Ancient Greeks associated it with their gods, and ancient Egyptians linked it to their pharaohs. To the medieval Europeans, it signified chivalry and served as a model for the French fleur-de-lis symbol. The most common varieties are the Dutch iris, the graceful Siberian iris, and the large “bearded” iris, all grown in numerous shades of white, yellow and purple. season: year-round, peak in spring and early summer cost: $$$ colors: white, yellow, purple

lily of the valley Their fresh, perfumelike scent is unmistakable, and it’s hard to believe such a delicious fragrance can come from such tiny flowers. With its bell-shaped florets dangling from a thin stem, lily of the valley is sometimes called “the ladder to heaven.” In Norse mythology, the flower is linked to Ostara, the goddess of springtime, and while most plentiful during this season, it remains available—and expensive—year-round. Most people only know of the white variety, though a very rare rosy pink exists too. season: year-round in limited quantities, peak in spring cost: $$$$ colors: white, pale pink (rare)

lisianthus This cupped flower somewhat resembles a rose or ranunculus that’s missing a few petals. Lisianthus boasts multiple blossoms and buds on a single stem and has a slight peppery scent. Its wide range of colors makes it an excellent choice as a secondary flower for bouquets and arrangements. season: year-round cost: $ colors: white, cream, pale green, peach, pink, lavender, purple >>

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ornithogalum (also know as chincherinchee and star of bethlehem) This flower is known particularly for its ability to open in the morning and close in the evening. season: year-round cost: $ colors: white, ivory, yellow, orange

parrot tulip Also known as the Rembrandt or parakeet tulip, this showy bloom is noted for its ruffled, striped petals in intense colors. Some varieties feature fringe-tipped petals for added drama. season: November to May cost: $$$ colors: white/green, yellow, orange/green, pink/green, red

peony The peony is showy in its lush and full-headed structure, sweet perfume and bright colors. A relative of the ranunculus and the anemone, the peony is available in two main types: the herbaceous and the tree. season: spring; imported, scentless variety available in fall and winter cost: $$$$ colors: white, cream, peach, pink, burgundy

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phlox Perhaps phlox’s popularity at weddings is due to its meaning: “unification of the souls.” With large clusters of small-petaled, disk-shaped blossoms atop branching stems, phlox provides a lush backdrop for featured flowers in a bouquet or arrangement. season: June to November cost: $ colors: white, orange, pink, red, purple

queen anne’s lace Known for the flower head’s similar appearance to lace, this wildflower symbolizes “protection.” It adds texture to all-white arrangements and is a great filler choice. season: spring to early fall cost: $ colors: white, green

ranunculus Looking for a cost-effective alternative to the rose and peony? Try the lush, multi-petaled ranunculus. This flower was first seen by Westerners in the Far East around the 13th century. Available in practically every color, the ranunculus features several blossoms and a whimsical stem with fernlike foliage. season: November to April cost: $$$ colors: white, yellow, apricot, orange, pale pink, dark pink

rose Is it any wonder that roses rank as the most beloved of wedding flowers? Long considered a symbol of beauty and love, legend has it that Cleopatra seduced both Julius Caesar and Marc Anthony with the flower. A wide variety of the flower exists, including unique and fragrant hybrid stems like the Juliet garden rose. They come in various sizes too. Their accessibility means roses can be surprisingly affordable. However, the price of this bloom goes up around key flower-giving holidays such as Valentine’s Day and Mother’s Day. season: year-round cost: $$$ colors: white, cream, yellow, apricot, orange, pale pink, dark pink, red, burgundy, lavender >>

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orchid Sexy and exquisitely gorgeous, thousands of species of orchids are cultivated worldwide. A full spray can be used in bouquets and arrangements, or a simple blossom can be plucked to make an exotic boutonniere. The most common wedding stems include: cymbidium (usually green; popular, yet expensive; durable yet perishable in cold temperatures), dendrobium (sweetly scented; used in classic Hawaiian leis), oncidium (often referred to as “spray orchids”; they come on slender long branches), vanda (summer-blooming; comes in a rare, yet stunning bluish purple) and phalaenopsis (popular and widely used; usually comes in white and purple). season: year-round cost: $$$$ colors: white, yellow, green, apricot, orange, pale pink, dark pink, red, burgundy

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It’s not hard to figure out how the scabiosa, with its tufted head atop a long, wiry stem, got its other name, pincushion. This enchanting flower is right at home tucked in between showier blooms. After the stem blooms, the scabiosa pod is equally as beautiful. It’s often used in rustic, wild-looking bouquets for a touch of organic whimsy. season: spring to early fall cost: $$ colors: white, burgundy, lavender

stephanotis The name stephanotis means “marital happiness,” making the flower an obvious choice for weddings. The star-shaped, waxy florets grow on a flowering vine, and each must be individually wired or placed onto a special holder before it can be used in a bouquet or boutonniere. season: year-round cost: $ color: white

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stock Rising from a tall stem, stock has dense clusters of small single- and double-blossomed flowers. Stock first became known outside of the Mediterranean region toward the end of the Middle Ages. Stock is valued for its use as a complementary flower and its fragrant, spicy, clovelike scent. It comes in a wide variety of colors, making it a popular addition to arrangements. season: year-round, peak in spring and summer cost: $ colors: white, yellow, apricot, pale pink, dark pink, purple

sunflower The head of the sunflower follows the sun as it moves across the sky, a trait that undoubtedly inspired its symbolism: “adoration” and “loyalty.” Bold and flashy, with raylike petals and disk-shaped dark centers, the sunflower is most at home at informal weddings, like outdoor or barn celebrations. It comes in warm colors, from golden yellow to deep reddish brown. season: May to November, peak in summer cost: $ colors: pale lemon, deep gold, orange, russet, brown

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sweet pea The sweet pea was first brought to England from Sicily in 1699. Its sweet scent and rugged blossoms grown on a spindly green vine make this flower an old-fashioned favorite. season: November to June cost: $$ colors: white, cream, apricot, pale pink, dark pink, red, lavender, purple

tuberose A native of Mexico, the tuberose has a very strong scent. Its white, trumpet-shaped florets grow in clusters and open gradually, while the closed buds have a pink or green tinge. It’s most commonly used as a secondary flower in arrangements. season: summer to fall cost: $$ colors: ivory, pink

tweedia Best used as an accent flower, these cheery, star-shaped blossoms grow on climbing branches. While available in white and pink, tweedia is most admired in its unusual soft blue hue. season: April to November cost: $ color: blue, white, pink

veronica Shaped like a plume, the tapered spike of veronica pokes out from the tops of arrangements and bouquets for a wild, garden-inspired look. season: year-round cost: $$ colors: white, pink, magenta, burgundy, purple

zinnia This daisylike flower symbolizes “thoughts of friends,” perfect for a bridesmaid bouquet. season: June to September cost: $ colors: yellow, green, orange, pink, red Find your florist at TheKnot.com/marketplace

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Make the pièce de résistance of your celebration— the cake, of course—mirror your wedding’s overall vibe and theme.

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SUGAR STEMS Nothing says “romance” quite like flowers, especially when they’re handcrafted in sugar and entirely edible.

Add color and panache to a simple round cake with a bevy of blooms. Choose stems found in your bouquet or centerpieces, or flowers that match your wedding palette. A single cascade makes a statement, while multiple floral sprays are a total wow. CAKE BY MADISON LEE’S CAKES

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classic A white cake is the perfect canvas for an eye-catching design. Guarantee yours steals the show by choosing a bold print, like this timeless yet whimsical blue floral motif. Pair with a topper of sugar flowers or your new monogram for an elegant look. CAKE BY BETTY BAKERY

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g lam A mix of patterns, metallics and dimensions create an extravagant confection. Bold pops of color in the base (echoed in the sugar blooms) lend a bit of sophistication. Opt for varying tier heights— it will give your cake depth and a little opulence. A MIDAS TOUCH

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Metallics make anything feel instantly luxe—including cakes. Gold edging, bold brush strokes and a confetti speckled tier create intrigue and texture.

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modern Proof that a simple design can make a big impact, this marble-inspired cake pairs perfectly with any wedding palette. A classic red rose gives the top tier dimension. Add even more drama by having nontraditional layers like hexagons, squares or ovals. CAKE BY BUTTERFLY BAKESHOP

Flecks of gold combine with gray and black in a rolled fondant technique. This motif is equal parts elegant and edgy.

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rustic Not quite naked, not quite frosted, this hybrid look is focused on flavor. Vary the ingredients based on the season, like decadent dulce de leche in the winter or vanilla lemon zest in warmer months. Decorate with fresh blooms or nods to the flavors (think: berries or shaved chocolate). CAKE BY LUCKYBIRD BAKERY

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Elegant & Modern Event Venue Our conveniently located and newly renovated 7,100-square-foot ballroom is designed to transform into the perfect space for your dream day! With our 6-foot French Empire chandelier as well as 6 others throughout the ballroom, white oak hardwood floors, HDMI-compatible video projector, a bar complete with wine glass pendant lighting, and all-inclusive pricing, we have you covered on all bases. Included with the ballroom rental are 5-foot round tables, 3-foot bistro tables, silver chiavari chairs, standard white or black spandex linens, high-top bar tables with matching silver chiavari bar stools and then some! We are ready to show you our gorgeous space and talk about your big day, so give us a call and set up a walk-through! We’ve got what you’re looking for in a space! You’ll love us, and your checkbook will too! ALLEGROBALLROOMKC@GMAIL.COM

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It seems like there are a million places to create registries (yes, plural—we recommend making a wish list at two or three stores) and the idea of having to play favorites between beloved brands can leave you feeling exhausted. So, we’ve taken the guesswork out of it, compiling the ultimate guide of places to register. And when you register with The Knot (TheKnot.com/registry) we’ll aggregate all of your wish lists in one spot, allowing guests to purchase gifts with just a few clicks—a total win for you both.

amazon WHY YOU’LL LOVE IT: Amazon has a universal registry program,

anthropologie WHY YOU’LL LOVE IT: Anthropologie believes registering is one

of the most exciting parts of wedding planning. Your wish list will stay available for up to a year after your event, and you can enter two different shipping addresses to accommodate for moves and other big changes during your engagement and after. POTENTIAL DOWNSIDES : Anthropologie has plenty of products with an eclectic spin, perfect for the trendy couple—but you may not find what you’re looking for in terms of simple, minimalist designs or the basics. BONUS PERKS: Your guests can have your gifts wrapped for $4 a box or include a gift message for free.

bed bath & beyond WHY YOU’LL LOVE IT: You can make an appointment to visit a

store and build your registry with a consultant. Or you can look to a curated online collection to help you create your wish list. For example, the “build your bar” one has the best bar essentials on one page—and you can add one product or the entire collection straight to your registry in one click. POTENTIAL DOWNSIDES: Bed Bath & Beyond is known for affordability, which means high-end luxury brands are limited.

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Family and friends can contribute to your registry by giving recommendations for particular products they love. There’s also a discount offered postwedding to scoop up any items you really wanted that no one purchased. Guests can also use those awesome 20 percent off coupons on (most of their) purchases.

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belk WHY YOU’LL LOVE IT: The Belk app lets you scan items directly

with your smartphone and add them to your registry. It also has checklists and a thank-you note feature to keep you on track. POTENTIAL DOWNSIDES: Belk only has physical stores in certain states (mostly the Southern US), but you can always register online. BONUS PERKS : Belk has engagement parties in its stores twice a year where you can create a new registry or add to an existing one. It also holds two 10-day completion events during the year where couples can get 20 percent off on select items.

best buy You can register for the technology and gadgets that make life easier (think: big-screen TV, smart fridge). All the products on your registry will be eligible for free shipping, with no minimum purchase requirement. POTENTIAL DOWNSIDES: We’re pretty sure Best Buy won’t start selling fine china or 400 thread count linens anytime soon, so you’ll need to register elsewhere too. BONUS PERK: For more expensive items on your registry, like those noise-canceling headphones you’ve been coveting, or the surround-sound speaker set, there’s a group gifting option. WHY YOU’LL LOVE IT:

bloomingdale’s WHY YOU’LL LOVE IT: Bloomingdale’s has consultants that work

strictly on wedding registries, so they’re a consistent resource while you’re going through the process. It offers completion discounts too—10 percent off for the first six months after your event and 20 percent off during special discount times. >>

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which means you can add items to your registry that aren’t on Amazon.com using a browser extension. Also, you can shop Amazon Smile and support your favorite charities. There’s even a thank-you note feature that allows you to track which guest gave you what (and if you actually sent that thank-you note). POTENTIAL DOWNSIDES: You don’t have the option for a traditional walk-through-the-store-with-a-scan-gun experience or the advantage of seeing things in person before you list them. BONUS PERKS: You can browse curated selections of items, like “dinner and serve ware” or the top 100 items people register for. Or you can also check out products from third-party boutique options, such as the MoMA Design Store.

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POTENTIAL DOWNSIDES: Bloomingdale’s offers a huge variety of items, but most are at a higher price point. BONUS PERKS: Bloomingdale’s also gives discounts to registry couples for certain clothing items too. For example, when you start a registry, you get 25 percent off a single regular-price men’s purchase of $500 or more, perfect for a new suit

boscov’s Boscov’s has registry consultants in every store (and online) to help you build your dream wish list. They can help you mix and match china patterns or tell you the pros and cons of cookware. They’ll also monitor your registry and notify you when you’re running out of gifts, or when something goes out of stock so you can replenish. POTENTIAL DOWNSIDES: Boscov’s only has stores in six states and they’re mostly on the East Coast. BONUS PERKS: You get a 15 percent shopping pass discount just for registering. You’ll also get 10 percent back on every gift your guests purchase from the registry, which you can use to buy the remaining items. And on top of that, it gives you a 10 percent completion discount on almost all the items left on your registry. WHY YOU’LL LOVE IT:

cb2 Update your registry on the go through the app and updates go “live” within 15 minutes—perfect for adding additional gifts down the line or for changing your mind. POTENTIAL DOWNSIDES: CB2 is like Crate & Barrel’s little (and more modern) sister. It only has brick-and-mortar stores in five states, so if your friends and family are the type who like to shop in store instead of online, this could be tricky. BONUS PERKS : CB2 will make it easy on your guests by including gift wrapping and a personalized gift message for free.

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the container store This organizational mecca lets you manage your registry online, making adding or deleting products easy. It also has a registry checklist of some of its most popular wedding gifts to guide you in your shopping. POTENTIAL DOWNSIDES: Registering here means you’ll need to create a wish list elsewhere too (it doesn’t have things like sheets, towels or dinnerware, for example). BONUS PERKS: After the wedding, you can save 10 percent on any items still left on your registry—like the makings for a custom closet. Your guests get free shipping and gift wrapping on purchases of $75 or more, and they can contribute to a more expensive group gift (like said closet). WHY YOU’LL LOVE IT:

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crate & barrel WHY YOU’LL LOVE IT: Crate & Barrel offers engaged couples

private registry events for one-on-one attention and advice. It also gives a 10 percent discount not only on registry items, but on other items in stores and online for six months after your wedding. Just in case you’re moving or want to store your stuff elsewhere, you can add two shipping addresses when you create your registry. POTENTIAL DOWNSIDES : You may end up registering for too many gifts—it has everything from furniture to shower curtains. BONUS PERKS: Guests receive free shipping on items more than $99, and your registry stays open for 18 months after your event.

gearys Whenever a guest buys a gift off your registry, you get an email that allows you to digitally “unwrap” the present and see the value. The value is added to your registry account as store credit. Then, whenever you’re ready, you can make final decisions and purchase what you really want with that flexible account. You can even choose items that weren’t on your original registry. The money in your registry account never expires, so if you change your mind about your china pattern three years down the road, you could use your remaining credit to buy a new set. POTENTIAL DOWNSIDES: Gearys only has store locations in California—you need to live in the Golden State to take advantage. BONUS PERKS: You’ll receive a personal registry consultant to help you select the perfect items. WHY YOU’LL LOVE IT:

gump’s Gump’s, a San Francisco department store, allows you to build your registry in stores or online. It offers two registry selections: the more traditional version in which you select your gifts and they’re shipped as they’re purchased, and a “gift notification” program where you’re notified as guests purchase your gifts and you pick a date for Gump’s to ship them all to you at one time—perfect if you’re hoping to upgrade your space after “I do.” POTENTIAL DOWNSIDES: There’s only one physical Gump’s store and it’s in California. BONUS PERKS: If you choose the notification option, you’ll get an email when someone makes a purchase from your registry, so keeping track of who gifted what for thank-you notes is a breeze. WHY YOU’LL LOVE IT:

jonathan adler Jonathan Adler hosts its registry feature on MyRegistry.com, a site that combines all your registry items from different sites onto one list. You can manage it on its app too (and take advantage of the scanning feature). >>

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BONUS PERKS: You can send your guests a 20 percent discount to

use toward gifts on your registry. You can save an extra 15 percent on anything left on your registry up to three months after the wedding.

macy’s WHY YOU’LL LOVE IT: Macy’s offers a newlywed discount so you

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lets your guests donate to a charity instead of buying you tangible gifts. You can fundraise for one charity or multiple, and you can set a fundraising goal with an optional deadline. JustGive sends the donations directly to the charities for you, so you don’t have to worry about any of the logistics, and all guests receive an email receipt for tax deduction. JustGive has every 501(c)(3) charity in the country, so regardless of how big or small, every cause is included. POTENTIAL DOWNSIDES: You may need another registry. As much as we love the idea of being charitable, you might also want to treat yourselves to something special. BONUS PERKS: You can send a custom thank-you note to accompany each guest’s tax receipt. JustGive also has a guide for charities, so if you know you want to be philanthropic, but don’t know which cause is for you, it can help you find your match.

kohl’s The Kohl’s program allows you to manage your registry in stores or online. You can get started by browsing through the catalog, which can help guide you through the process. And you can earn Kohl’s rewards (that you can use in store) on gifts purchased from your registry. POTENTIAL DOWNSIDES: You’ll be able to register for every home category (dishes, appliances, linens and so on), but you may not be able to find those unique statement pieces to complete your new abode or extras like furniture. WHY YOU’LL LOVE IT:

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pottery barn Three words: free design services. When you create a registry account you’re given access to Pottery Barn’s team of design specialists who can help you curate the exact aesthetic you’re looking for. Guests also have the option of sending you gift cards that are redeemable at Pottery Barn and its sister stores, Williams Sonoma and West Elm. POTENTIAL DOWNSIDES: Pottery Barn doesn’t have an app, so managing your registry on the go isn’t quite as easy. BONUS PERKS: You get a postwedding discount of 10 percent off remaining registry items for up to six months. It also offers a thank-you tracker service so you can accurately track gifts received and thank-you notes penned. WHY YOU’LL LOVE IT:

scully & scully At Scully & Scully, the registry program is a “hold all gifts” format. So instead of receiving gifts as guests purchase them, you actually accumulate credit from those purchases, and you can use that money however you want within the store. So if a guest buys you a $200 bedspread from your list, you can use that $200 on the comforter or something else. This makes selecting the products for your registry seem a lot less final. POTENTIAL DOWNSIDES: There’s only one Scully & Scully store in the country and it’s located in New York City. BONUS PERKS: If dinner parties are important to you, Scully & Scully has a wide selection of tabletop items (china, glassware, flatware). You can have a one-on-one consultation to see different patterns and experiment with how to mix and match. >> WHY YOU’LL LOVE IT:

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POTENTIAL DOWNSIDES: Jonathan Adler is more suited to the modern, boundary-pushing couple. If you love trendy and fashionforward décor, this designer is for you. BONUS PERKS: Your Jonathan Adler registry stays open for a year after your wedding, giving guests plenty of time to shop. You can register in stores or online, then manage your wish list through MyRegistry.com.

can get an extra 20 percent on most of the items on your registry, and that discount lasts for six months after your nuptials. Plus, its Registry Star Rewards program allows couples to earn points as people shop for them. So when you receive a gift or buy something from Macy’s (like a rehearsal dinner outfit), you earn points that translate into a gift card—total win. POTENTIAL DOWNSIDES : Macy’s has so many products that you may get overwhelmed with the sheer amount of registry potential. BONUS PERKS: Macy’s hosts Sip & Scan events during the year. Couples can visit a store, enjoy refreshments and get started with the help of a personalized registry consultant.

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For the couple who loves to spend their evenings in the kitchen, Sur La Table not only lets you manage your registry online, it also gives you a registry concierge who helps you through the entire process. There’s even a comprehensive online guide to exclusive brands. It offers a 10 percent completion discount with no exclusions as well. POTENTIAL DOWNSIDES: Sur La Table is a kitchen specialty store, so you’ll definitely need a separate wish list elsewhere to complete the other rooms in your home. BONUS PERKS: You can get extra gifts just for registering, or when certain items on your registry have been purchased.

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to return any gift from your registry. There’s also a 15 percent completion code for whatever’s left on your list. Friends and family can chip in toward the purchase of bigger gifts through its group gifting program. You can also find inspiration in the Wedding Shop, which includes gifts for your wedding party or faves from Target’s home style expert Emily Henderson. POTENTIAL DOWNSIDES: You may not be able to register for that luxe, cashmere blanket you’ve always wanted, but you’ll be able to get practically everything else. BONUS PERKS: Target has a feature called Add From Anywhere. Basically, if you see something you love that Target doesn’t carry, like a handmade item from Etsy, you can still put it on your Target registry—simple and easy.

traveler’s joy WHY YOU’LL LOVE IT: Traveler’s Joy is a registry service that lets

you collect money toward your honeymoon in lieu of traditional gifts. You create an account based on your honeymoon destination and the activities you want to do, and Traveler’s Joy lets your guests contribute lump sums toward your trip. The “gifts” you ask for can be experience based or practical. Let’s say you’re taking a cruise: You can add extra excursions like scuba diving to the registry or more tangible products like sunglasses and sunscreen. POTENTIAL DOWNSIDES: There are some service charges involved. Traveler’s Joy charges a small fee for things like credit card processing, hosting fees and so on. BONUS PERKS: Unlike other honeymoon registry sites, Traveler’s Joy lets you book your trip through whomever you’d like—you don’t have to use a specific travel agent or company. It also lets you split up the cost of an item, so if your couples massage is going to be $200, you can turn that into four gifts of $50.

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Pottery Barn and West Elm, plus it has its own home line. Any gift cards you receive from your registry can be used at any of the stores. Williams Sonoma also offers product help after your wedding, so if you can’t figure out how to use that high-tech juicer you registered for, someone can step in and show you. POTENTIAL DOWNSIDES: Although Williams Sonoma does have furniture and linens, its specialty is kitchen equipment. You may want a wish list at one of its sister brands or elsewhere too. BONUS PERKS: You can make a one-on-one appointment with a registry specialist or attend a private shopping event with experts who can help you craft the perfect registry. After you’re official, complete your registry with a 10 percent discount on everything left for a full six months.

zola Zola is an online registry with a curated selection of products for your home (from brands you’ll recognize), but you can also create fund registries too, like a honeymoon wish list. You can even register for experiences, like a cooking class, wine tasting tour or even a handyman to help you hang a gallery wall of wedding photos. POTENTIAL DOWNSIDES: Zola has so many registry options (like being able to add any item on the internet) that it’s almost a little daunting. There’s also not a brick-and-mortar retail option, so you’ll have to trust your gut and click to add. BONUS PERKS: Zola has a button you can install in your browser to let you choose items from anywhere, so if there’s a boutique in your hometown that you really love that doesn’t offer a registry service, Zola has you covered. WHY YOU’LL LOVE IT:

z gallerie Z Gallerie is a member of the MyRegistry .com family, which means when you create a registry from this trendy home goods store, it will be synced with any other registries on the platform making it easy for your guests to shop. POTENTIAL DOWNSIDES: Z Gallerie has stores across the country, but not one in every state. Also, MyRegistry.com is an online service that doesn’t offer in-person help, so it can feel a little less personal than other options. BONUS PERKS: MyRegistry.com does allow you to register for cash gifts as well as more traditional gifts—a total win if you want both or have registry indecision. WHY YOU’LL LOVE IT:

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Hosting a weekend-long celebration? Treat guests to a plush welcome bag upon arrival. “The welcome bag is the first impression of the wedding weekend for guests,” says Lynn Easton of Easton Events. In addition to making your loved ones feel, well, loved, you can quickly get them acclimated with your chosen destination. Include a welcome note, a few of your favorite things to do and see around town, and suggestions for nearby restaurants. Make the logistics fun by including a custom map or adding some wit to your recommendations (“Scoops is Tim’s favorite ice cream shop, but Meghan swears the rocky road is superior across the street at Mick’s—you be the judge!”). Don’t forget an itinerary of the activities—but only include events or celebrations open to all guests. And last, but not least: snacks. Your guests have already traveled—don’t make them raid the minibar. Include you and your fiancé’s favorite goodies as well as local flavor, Easton recommends. If you’re packing it all in a tote you hope guests will reuse, you may not want to add your monogram or wedding date (they’ll be less likely to use it post-celebration). But do add your own custom logo to other details, such as waterbottle wraps or itinerary information. >>

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give something to the kids

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Let’s face it—the people who like party favors the most are the under-12 crowd. If you’re including kids in your celebration, consider packaging up something especially for them. Instead of waiting until the end of the evening, give them a treat early on (it can double as entertainment). For wee ones, create a custom activity book with pictures to color and easy puzzles to solve. Older crowd of tweens? Wrap up a disposable camera and send kids on a picture scavenger hunt (get a snap of you and your new spouse kissing, take a picture of someone older than you, capture a relative dancing). Your littlest guests will feel extra-special, and their parents will be eager to engage in adult conversation during dinner—a total win-win.

entertain them Treat your guests to a special performance—we’re not talking your typical band or DJ, but something extra. It’s not a traditional favor, but we guarantee your guests will remember (and really enjoy) the marching band you hired to perform your alma mater’s fight song or the synchronized swimmers who take over the pool. They also contribute to the overall “awesome-time” vibe you’re channeling for your wedding. Opt for a performance that has some significance to you or the place you’ve chosen to wed—a mariachi band for a Mexico wedding or a jazz serenade for the couple who shared their first date at an underground club. Your guests will be delighted, and your choice will personalize your celebration.

hire a food truck A food truck, arriving at the end of the night and waiting at the exit of your venue, is perfect for guests craving a late-night snack after tearing up the dance floor.

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Let your personal favorites dictate the cuisine—anything is possible from waffles or tacos to snow cones. Or opt for something that’s representative of the local flavor, like lobster rolls and fries for a seaside celebration.

make a memory Photo and video booths have been around for decades because, well, they’re fun! Roll in an old-fashioned photo booth, or try for a more modern GIF or slow-motion version. Everyone will love sharing the photos on social media (and you’ll get copies too). If you really want to do something special, hire a caricature or silhouette artist to livecapture your guests. They’ll head home with an exceptional keepsake.

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If you really want your guests to leave the party with a tangible token of your gratitude, edible favors are the way to go. “Sending your guests off with a tasty treat for the ride home or the following day is the new party favor,” Worley says. If you’ve already indulged guests in a five-course meal, consider gifting them breakfast to go. This is an especially nice touch if you don’t plan to host a day-after brunch. Instead of a candy bar, set up big glass jugs filled with your favorite cereals. Include wood spoons with your wedding date or custom hashtag. If you want to bake something, package homemade muffins or chewy granola bars for guests to enjoy with their morning coffee (while they relive all the fun they had at your wedding). Presentation is key— include a clever message like, “Thanks for sharing in the most important day of our lives. Don’t let tonight’s party keep you from skipping the most important meal of the day tomorrow.”

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global gifts Get inspired by traditional favors from around the world.

italy JORDAN ALMONDS These candycoated nuts are gifted in groups of five, representing health, wealth, fertility, happiness and longevity.

china

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DOUBLE HAPPINESS Display the traditional Chinese wedding character, which signifies a couple’s joy and love, on note cards or in the icing of a sugar cookie.

holland BRIDAL SUGAR Bruidssuiker, Dutch for “bridal sugar,” can be five pieces of any type of candy (chocolates, peppermints). The name comes from what these pieces mean: love, happiness, loyalty, prosperity and bars together in a kitschy or pretty package for a sweet send-off.

PINE TREE Newlyweds plant a pine

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tree in their backyard to represent fertility. Send guests home with their own seedlings.

korea DATES OR CHESTNUTS Traditionally exchanged between the groom’s parents and the bride, and symbolic of children, these can be given whole or baked into cookies to pass on the luck.

morocco MILK BATH Moroccan custom dictates that before the wedding, the bride takes a milk bath. Pamper guests with small jars of milk bath to enjoy when they get home—just include an explanation.

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Your wedding is a party. Why not dress for the occasion? Whether you go for fringe or feather details, or a flirty silhouette, choose a one-of-a-kind dress that plays up the celebratory vibe of your day.

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Shake Your Feathers A sheer column gown goes from sexy to showstopping with cascading plumes. Dress, $9,800, Christian Siriano, KleinfeldBridal.com; sapphire engagement ring, $50,000, CoastDiamond.com SHOT ON LOCATION AT

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Swing It A cocktail-length number embroidered with tiers of silk fringe is perfect for dancing the night away. Dress, $5,995, Naeem Khan at Nolteâ&#x20AC;&#x2122;s Bridal, NoltesBridal.com (Overland Park, KS); engagement ring, $3,915, EfvaAttling .com; earrings, $54, HartHagerty.com; fan, price upon request, NewYorkVintage.com MUSICIANS

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Steal the Show Take center stage with a striking combo of intricate allover beading and a curveskimming silhouette. Dress, $3,000, Blush by Hayley Paige at Altar Bridal, AltarBridal .com (Leawood, KS), The Gown Gallery, GownGallery.com (Kansas City, MO), Maiden Voyage, MaidenVoyageBridal .com (Manchester, MO); engagement ring, $6,600 (not including center stone), band, $2,500, SayYesWithKarl .com; earrings, $250, Theia Jewelry, KleinfeldBridal .com; shoes, $395, SJP Collection, Amazon.com SHOT ON LOCATION AT

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Get Up, Get Down A high-low hemline puts a fashion-forward twist on a romantic, floral-embellished gown. Dress, price upon request, Marchesa.com; engagement ring, price upon request, UneekJewelry .com; headpiece, $197, SaraGabriel .com; shoes, $795, JimmyChoo.com ON HIM Suit jacket, $450, pants, $250, JCrew.com; shirt, $90, pocket square, $30, Joseph Abboud, MensWearhouse.com; tie, $19, TheTieBar .com; shoes, $350, ColeHaan.com

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Play It Cool Give a sweet, polka dot ensemble some cool-girl edge with hot pink slides and a studded clutch. Dress, $3,400, Christos Costarellos, KleinfeldBridal.com; engagement ring, $2,830 (not including center stone), AJaffe .com; cocktail ring, $1,995, EffyJewelry .com; clutch, $65, AldoShoes.com; shoes, $895, Manolo Blahnik, Saks.com SHOT ON LOCATION AT

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Dare to Bare A lace-up back, barely there lace panels and off-the-shoulder sleeves make a sexy statement. Dress, $4,200, Rivini at Fleur De Lis Bridal Boutique, FleurDeLisBridal.com (Clayton, MO) ON HIM Jacket, $450, pants, $250, JCrew.com; shirt, $90, Joseph Abboud, MensWearhouse.com SHOT ON LOCATION AT

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Romp Around Feeling brave? A romper with a detachable overskirt is equal parts sophisticated and unexpected. Romper with overskirt, $8,150, Mark Zunino, KleinfeldBridal .com; tourmaline engagement ring, $9,390, CoastDiamond .com; opal drop earrings, $110,000, gold huggie earrings, $1,700, EricaCourtney .com; clutch, $350, Moyna, BHLDN .com; shoes, $995, JimmyChoo.com SHOT ON LOCATION AT

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Flirt It Up

SPECIAL THANKS TO Bourbon Orleans Hotel (BourbonOrleans.com) and New Orleans Convention & Visitors Bureau (NewOrleansCVB.com) STORY Shelley Brown FASHION STYLING Audrey Slater HAIR Miok using Wella Professionals at Judy Casey Inc.

Add some retroinspired flair to your bridal look with a short A-line dress and birdcage veil. Dress, price upon request, Sareh Nouri at Nolteâ&#x20AC;&#x2122;s Bridal, NoltesBridal .com (Overland Park, KS); birdcage veil, $227, SaraGabriel .com; engagement ring, $1,800 (not including center stone), AJaffe.com; band, $825, CoastDiamond .com; earrings, $450, PearlCollective.com ON HIM Jacket, $450, pants, $250, JCrew.com; shirt, $90, pocket square, $30, Joseph Abboud, MensWearhouse .com; tie. $230, Brioni, MrPorter.com

MAKEUP Brett Jackson using Nars Cosmetics at Sarah Laird & Good Company FLORALS Poppy & Mint Floral Company

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FASHION

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make the room cozy Once you have the essentials figured out, it’s time to set the mood. Make your bridal suite as relaxing as possible—right down to scented candles or aromatherapy spray. Getting ready on a tight schedule is stressful, but a calming aroma can reduce the tension.

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Lay out all of your accessories right away so you’ll know immediately if you left anything behind or are missing any necessities. That way, if something’s forgotten, you can send someone out on an errand before it’s too late. Doubleand triple-check that you have your panties, bra, other undergarments, garter, heels, veil, hair accessories and jewelry. Put your accessories in a separate area, away from your bridesmaids—you don’t want your extras to get mixed up or lost during the day.

hang your dress with care Putting on your wedding dress is a moment you’ve been anticipating for months, so you should give it a place of honor in your bridal suite. Hang it in a spot where no one will accidentally step on it, bump it or wrinkle it—and, obviously, far away from the food table, makeup station and any hot curling irons that could potentially burn it. You know your photographer will want to get a picture of your dress while it’s hanging up, so choose a spot with soft lighting— maybe in front of a window or next to a full-length mirror. Your gown may have arrived on a simple plastic or dry-cleaning hanger, and while this is practical, it isn’t exactly aesthetically pleasing. Check out sites like Etsy where you can get a custom hanger created, or see how you can DIY it on TheKnot.com for an extrasweet photo op.

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prepare for your glam team Skip the inconvenient trip to the salon and have your makeup artist and hairstylist come to you. If you’re planning on getting ready at home, pick a room that has windows for lots of natural light and wall outlets for multiple hair dryers and curling irons. The room should also be big enough to hold your entire makeup and hair team (on average two to three people), plus your bridal party. Bring in mirrors and be sure to have at least one full-length mirror. If you plan on getting ready at a hotel, visit the bridal suite in person ahead of time so you can gauge its size, lighting and general setup.

keep track of your special accessories

Planning ahead will ease your nerves and help the day run smoothly, but that doesn’t mean you shouldn’t plan for a few hiccups. Bring umbrellas, wraps and jackets just in case of rainy or cold weather. Umbrellas are a good idea for sunny days too—they help shield you from the sun while your photographer stages your bridal photos.

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Put one bridesmaid or friend in charge of your “something old,” “something new,” “something borrowed” and “something blue” during day-of prep. These are often valuable and meaningful pieces or heirlooms, and you’ll rest easy knowing one person will be keeping an eye out all day. Tell your friend you want her to keep them somewhere safe, but not so well hidden that you forget to put them on during the hectic rush to get out the door.

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personality, which eliminates any possible room for error.

ask for recommendations Want a new pro or don’t have a favorite yet? Browse local magazines and websites for lists, like The Knot Best of Weddings, to get the scoop on the pros in your area.

study each trial run Put your potential pro to the test. Schedule trial runs, and take pictures and notes of each hair and makeup session. Then use your cheat sheet

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search for a one-stop shop Choose a salon or spa where you can get everything done at one time. This way all your beauty pros can be on the same page.

stay on top of new trends Talk to your professional crew about incorporating the latest and greatest treatments and products into your bridal primping routine.

keep an open mind Even though you may have a clear vision of what you want, a seasoned stylist

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maid for style Follow these fashion rules to keep your girls looking fresh and fabulous—without any drama. PHOTOGRAPH BY BEN AND COLLEEN: WEDDING PHOTOGRAPHERS

You’ve probably heard, “You’ll totally wear this again!” before shelling out for a bridesmaid dress, only to have it collecting dust in your closet months later. Now that you’re the bride, you might be feeling the pressure to find a dress that’s budget friendly, flattering and works for your wedding style. Think that’s impossible? It’s actually totally doable. Stick to these rules to find dresses that won’t cost a fortune and will make your girls feel gorgeous. >>

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If any of your friends have been in a bridal party before, they’ll know bridesmaids generally pay for their own dresses. But a gentle reminder is never a bad idea. When it comes to price, try to be considerate of your friends’ lifestyles. If you’re concerned your wedding might be a financial burden for one or more of your bridesmaids, focus your search on dresses in a more affordable price range, or select a color you like and let them pick a style off the rack that won’t require a lot of alterations. Another idea: Take a cue from the guys and consider renting your bridesmaid dresses. Rental sites like Vow to Be Chic and Rent the Runway let your girls choose from gowns by popular designers (like Monique Lhuillier and Jenny Yoo) in a range of styles—for a fraction of the cost.

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shop accordingly Consider what kind of shopping experience will suit your personality best. If you tend to have strong opinions, it’s probably better to shop alone (or with just one attendant). If you prefer more input, take the whole gang and give them guidelines, like color or fabric. To make the bridesmaid dress shopping experience enjoyable for your girls, start the day with a leisurely brunch (read: mimosas and Bloody Marys) to ensure everyone is relaxed and ready to shop.

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We can dress it all up... And when your girls give their opinions on the dresses they love—or don’t love as much—take them into consideration. Even if you disagree with their suggestions, it never hurts to make your besties feel heard. After all, they actually have to wear the dress.

stick to a timeline It takes two to three months for orders to arrive and four to six weeks for alterations. A six-month cushion will give you and your bridesmaids ample time to find, order and fit the dresses. If you’re buying off the rack, either get your girls’ sizes and order their dresses all at once or let them know they should purchase their gowns as soon as possible. Since off-the-rack styles aren’t made to order, there’s a chance they could sell out quickly, especially in more popular sizes. If you’re renting, it usually takes at least two weeks to receive your order, so plan accordingly.

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do a test run Here’s the deal: Your bridesmaids don’t want to steal the show, but they do want to look and feel their best. After all, they’ll be standing in front of a room full of friends and family too. When choosing a style, don’t ask your friends to wear something you wouldn’t yourself. >>

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A bridesmaid dress is typically ordered using a person’s biggest measurements, so your friends will likely buy dresses at least a size larger than they normally wear. If a friend is planning to lose weight and wants to buy a size smaller, let her know it’s much easier to alter a bigger dress. If the dress ends up being too small, she’ll likely have to order a new one or deal with even more costly alterations, and you’d hate for that to happen.

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The best way to prove you respect their feelings is by trying on the bridesmaid dress. Does the fit make you feel selfconscious? Is the fabric itchy? If you answer yes, move on. When you find one you’d love to wear yourself, you’ll have no problem convincing your friends to get on board with your choice.

select the right shade There are several foolproof ways to pick the perfect color. One of the easiest methods is to play off of the color schemes of the venue and the season. For instance, if your wedding will be held at a rustic vineyard with burgundy décor, you’ll probably want to rule out bright yellow dresses. Rich colors—oxblood and teal— work well in the fall and winter months, while lighter shades—lavender and blush—are perfect for spring and summer. If you’re still at a loss, go for a classic color, like blue, and let your bridesmaids pick their favorite shades from light to dark for a trendy, mismatched effect. Want to push the envelope even further? Consider printed or heavily embellished gowns (floral-print and sequined bridesmaid dresses are hot right now). Just remember: Patterns and metallics work best in smaller wedding parties and should be paired with simple accessories. Or you could flout tradition and opt for an all-white bridal party, à la Kate Middleton or Solange Knowles, for an unexpected look that’s crisp and chic.

find complementary colors Think about choosing a hue that goes well with a variety of skin tones. Stonewashed colors, like blush and gray, are universally flattering and right on trend. Jewel tones (amethyst, emerald and sapphire) complement fairer complexions, while brighter, bolder hues, like cobalt blue and hot pink, pop against darker skin. >>

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bridesmaid reprieve Things your girls shouldn’t worry about for your wedding.

bridesmaid luncheon Despite the name, this is actually an event thrown by the bride for her bridesmaids as a way to show her appreciation to her bridal party for the many things each girl has done to make her wedding special. This sit-down lunch or brunch is typically held the afternoon of the rehearsal dinner.

hair and makeup Your bridesmaids are already paying for dresses, travel, the shower and more. If you want your attendants to have their hair and makeup professionally done for the wedding, it’s a nice gesture to offer to pay for these services. Otherwise, trust your girls to do their own.

bouquets You’re expected to pay for your attendants’ personal flowers, which thinking about how many bridesmaids you want. The bridesmaid bouquets (and groomsmen boutonnieres) are factored into the floral budget along with the

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Want an edgier feel? Try universally flattering metallics, like champagne or rose gold. If you’re opting for a standout print, make sure the dominant colors work with your entire bridal party. Or, alternatively, deck out just your maid of honor in a printed dress and keep the rest of your girls in solid colors.

consider lingerie logistics Remind your girls to get the right undergarments. Depending on the style of dress (think: strapless, one shoulder or thin straps), your bustier bridesmaids may need some extra support. Trust us—even the most amazing dress can look unflattering with the wrong bra. In addition to a new bra, each bridesmaid might also need a specific panty or body shaper.

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don’t dictate the footwear Insisting bridesmaids purchase a particular pair of shoes may feel like the perfect finishing touch to you, but it also creates another expense. And, like the dress, it’s unlikely they’ll want to wear the shoes again, especially if they’ve been dyed a specific color or the heel height is not what they’d typically wear. Most of your friends probably already have a pair of black or metallic heels they’d be thrilled to reuse. Another bonus: Sporting a pair of their own comfortable shoes means blister-free dancing.

let her bring the baubles By letting each bridesmaid select her own jewelry, you’re encouraging her to express her personality (and that’s the reason you chose her to stand beside you in the first place, right?). Plus, the right jewelry will make any bridesmaid feel more like herself. et more bridal party inspiration at G TheKnot.com/bridesmaid-dresses

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flatter their figures Styles for every shape in your bridal party.

a-line This style extends out from the waist in the shape of an “A” (as the name implies). BEST FOR Almost every figure, and bridesmaids who prefer a more classic silhouette.

empire This forgiving style has a high waistline that sits just below the bust. BEST FOR Girls with smaller chests. It’s a must for pregnant bridesmaids.

dropped waist This style sits below the natural waistline, so the skirt flares at the hips. BEST FOR Hourglass figures—this silhouette will show off every curve.

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bubble These skirts have fabric bunched together at the hemline. Knee-length

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options are usually the most flattering. BEST FOR Ladies with larger hips— the poufy skirt will draw attention to their waistline.

trumpet This style hugs the body around the waist and thighs and then flares out toward the bottom. BEST FOR Women with curves, since the flared skirt will draw attention to the hips.

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You don’t need a giant center stone to make an impact. Dainty settings feel just as special. $1,980, SimonGJewelry.com 9. STACKING RINGS

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settings glossary The frame around your diamond can determine the style of your engagement ring, so choose wisely.

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1. PRONG The most popular ring setting, including anywhere from three to six claws or tines. Price upon request, Forevermark.com 2. THREE STONE A center stone flanked by two side diamonds. Also known as a trinity or trilogy, a three-stone setting often represents the past, present and future. Price upon request, JBirnbach.com 3. BEZEL A sleek metal rim surrounds the perimeter of the center stone, holding it in place. This modern setting is ideal for protecting

softer stones (like opals), and its smooth surface won’t snag on clothing. $2,880 (not including center stone), Danhov.com 4. BAGUETTE Two smaller rectangular stones along the sides of the center diamond. They can also be set horizontally. $59,995, MarkBroumand.com 5. PAVÉ From the Old French word for “to pave,” a band lined (or paved) with tiny round diamonds, resulting in subtle, allover sparkle. $2,640, SimonGJewelry.com >>

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1. SCROLLWORK A perfect companion

to a vintage-inspired engagement ring, scrollwork and milgrain (rows of tiny beads) give extra flourish to a wedding ring. $4,210, KirkKara.com 2. COLORFUL METAL Besides being on trend, rose gold is universally flattering. $1,425, Ammara Stone, BenchmarkRings.com 3. MIXED METALS Your wedding band and engagement ring don’t have to match. Consider a mixed metal band for a fashion-forward look. $4,825, ParadeDesign.com

4. ETERNITY BAND Also called an infinity ring, this band has identical stones set in a continuous line. The circle symbolizes endless love. $5,525, MartinFlyer.com 5. ALLOVER PAVÉ Similar to a pavé engagement ring setting, a band covered in tiny diamonds adds subtle sparkle. $2,420, SimonGJewelry.com 6. TRIANGULAR BAND A statement all on its own, this edgy band also complements a pear-shaped or trillion diamond. $2,795 for set of 3, EffyJewelry.com

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t he 4 Cs A quick breakdown of this diamond grading system. CUT A diamond’s cut determines its brilliance and refers to the facets within the stone. Don’t confuse this with the shape of a diamond, which is the geometry of the stone. CLARITY The clarity of a diamond is graded on how free it is of inclusions (otherwise known as imperfections) when viewed with the naked eye and with a loupe (a 10x magnifying glass). The fewer inclusions a stone has, the more valuable it is.

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CARAT A unit of weight. One carat is exactly 0.2 grams, or about the same weight as a standard paper clip. COLOR This refers to the colorless to near-colorless variety. The Gemological Institute of America (GIA) grades color based on a range from D (colorless) to Z (light yellow and brown). A colorless diamond will cost you more than a colored stone, unless the color is extremely rare (think: green or red diamonds).

a guide to metals Know your platinum from your palladium? Study up with a rundown of some of the most popular ring metals. PLATINUM Naturally white and one of the purest metals. It won’t change color and is hypoallergenic. YELLOW GOLD Malleable, yet strong. Also available in colors like white and pink. WHITE GOLD Yellow gold plated with rhodium. Less expensive than platinum, but the white coating could wear off over time. ROSE GOLD A mix of yellow gold and copper alloys gives this rosy metal its pretty pink tint. PALLADIUM Similar to platinum but less costly, this lustrous darker gray metal can also be an alloy in white gold. TITANIUM Typically used for men’s bands, a rugged gray metal that’s corrosion resistant and hypoallergenic.

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think beyond earrings Looking for a super-simple way to add a bit of personality to your wedding dress (and help create the illusion of curves)? Try a belt or sash. A fashionable fastener is an easy way to customize your gown and change its look without having to make expensive alterations. A classic beaded or floral-embellished satin sash or trendier metallic belt will give even the simplest dress an instant upgrade. The key to choosing the right waist cincher is to find one that works with your body type. Thin belts are best suited for short torsos, while wider belts work well with longer ones. If you’re an apple shape, think about a beaded or heavily embellished belt to flatter your midsection. If you’re petite, a belt with a V-shape appliqué will elongate your body. As a general rule, stick with a style that’s no more than three inches wide—you don’t want to overpower the rest of your gown.

know your veils The veil is the iconic bridal accessory. From flirty birdcages and ornate mantillas to regal cathedral-length styles, there’s no shortage of options. But there are a few things you should keep in mind as you narrow down the type of veil you plan to wear:

YOUR VEIL SHOULD MATCH THE SHADE OF YOUR GOWN.

A veil in the wrong shade of white can look out of place. If you’re wearing a colorful gown, consider dyeing your veil to match. KEEP YOUR DRESS DETAILS IN MIND. If your dress has a lot going on, go with something simple that won’t steal the spotlight. WATCH YOUR BACK. If showing off the back of your dress is a must—say you have gorgeous embroidery or beading—choose a sheer veil rather than one with two layers of tulle. CONSIDER YOUR SIZE. Longer waltz or floor-length veils will elongate a petite frame while mid-length styles, like fingertip or elbow, can visually cut you in half, making them a better pick for taller brides. Short styles, like a birdcage, work for all shapes and sizes and lend a retro vibe to your gown. >>

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new “something blue” ideas We’ve got seven fresh ideas for this time-honored tradition.

your clutch

Stash your day-of essentials in a colorful blue clutch. Try a navy minaudière for a formal event, or a silver or pearl-encrusted one with a light blue lining.

your lingerie

Save your “something blue” for your spouse’s eyes only. Find a lingerie set in a romantic cornflower shade. Or choose one with blue accents, like bows.

your wedding ring

Why limit this stylish color to just your wedding day? You can wear it forever when you choose a wedding band lined with beautiful blue sapphires.

your nails

We’re not suggesting you get a neon-blue manicure (or pedicure, if you’re wearing open-toe shoes) for your wedding. Try a powder-blue polish for a subtle and soft nod to this tradition.

your bridesmaid dresses Have your attendants represent your “something blue” in navy dresses. A major plus of this plan: Your friends will thank you for choosing this versatile shade.

your hair accessories

A hair clip or headband in a cool cobalt color with geometric patterns can give off an art-deco vibe, while romantic periwinkle blossoms work for a garden affair.

the soles of your shoes

For just a hint of blue, try a pair of heels with a blue sole. You can also personalize the bottom of your shoes with a blue marker or even blue rhinestones. Add your new monogram or wedding date. Or have your soon-to-be-spouse write a note for you to find when you put your shoes on the morning of.

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match your metals You may not realize this, but some metals look better with certain dress colors. As a general rule, ivory is best paired with gold since it highlights the creamy tint of the fabric. For a pure white dress, choose accents in silver or platinum or with pearl detailing (gold may clash with brighter white hues). You can have your pick with a diamond-white gown: This barely off-white color looks amazing with yellow gold, rose gold, silver or pearls. If the dress you chose is already embellished with beadwork, let that dictate the colors of your accessories. For example, if your gown has silver beading, pick a necklace, bracelet or earrings with a silver base.

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remember: less is more You don’t need a veil, tiara, necklace, sash and earrings. Accessories add a unique touch to your look, but one too many can be over the top with an already embellished gown. Before you start shopping, take an inventory of your gown’s standout features and then base your choices around them. If your dress has an ornate neckline, opt for a pair of drop earrings instead of a necklace. For a simpler gown, try a bold statement necklace or fascinator. When it comes to earrings, take a cue from your hairstyle. If you’re leaving your hair down and over your ears, small studs or drops will do. But for an updo, you might want something a little more dramatic, like a pair of chandelier danglers. Lastly, it’s a good idea to avoid designs that closely mimic the embellishments on your gown—you don’t want to look too matchy-matchy.

cover it up A stylish cover-up is a must if you’re getting married during the cooler months or at a house of worship that requires you to wear something over your shoulders. From capelets to fur stoles, the options are endless. The key is to choose one that strikes the perfect balance with your gown. Simple, understated styles can be paired with more embellished cover-ups, like a beaded capelet or bold feather bolero for added personality. For already ornate gowns, try a more minimal accent. A delicate lace jacket or a chiffon wrap will keep you warm without competing with your gown.

stick to what you know Although it’s a special day, don’t stray too far from your normal style. If you rarely wear jewels, there’s no need to drown yourself in diamonds on your wedding day. The goal is to look like the best, most beautiful version of your regular self.

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top it off Veils not really your thing? From combs and clips to fascinators, there are plenty of other ways to finish your look. Choose your hairstyle before you pick your accessory, since some types will look better with updos than others. A flower crown, for example, is best with loose locks. You should also consider your hair type—dainty accessories may be perfect for fine hair, but won’t be as noticeable with thick waves. Most importantly, make sure whatever you choose feels secure while you’re moving around.

keep it comfy No outfit is complete without the perfect pair of shoes—and your wedding day look is no exception. Of course you’ll want a killer pair to go with that gorgeous dress, but that doesn’t mean you have to compromise on comfort. Don’t forget: You’ll be standing for long periods of time, and you don’t want to be cringing in pain before you’ve even hit the dance floor. While shopping, consider the height of the heel (the taller you go, the higher the pain potential), the type of straps and the material the shoe is made of. Your feet need to be well supported (think: ankle and toe straps over slipons) to avoid instability. Look for high-quality, natural materials. They’re more comfortable than synthetic ones and are also more durable, meaning you’ll be able to wear them again. For the best fit, go shopping at the end of the day, when your feet are swollen from activity, and give yourself plenty of time to break in your new kicks before the wedding. Wear them around the house a couple weeks prior to the day, noting any areas that are prone to blisters. To make your shoes more comfortable, consider buying moleskin, strap stickers or gel insoles designed specifically for heels. Shoes too strappy to conceal an insole or grip? Pick up a spray or cream that protects against friction or provides pain relief. >>

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consider your décolletage Pairing your neckline style with the proper adornment can add character to your wedding gown, or even highlight a unique feature. Follow these simple guidelines: SWEETHEART OR STRAPLESS For something a little different, skip the necklace and focus on an elegant pair of chandelier earrings instead. Wear clear crystal for a sleek look, or add punch with a hint of color. Try using a meaningful gem, like your birthstone, or pick a hue from the flowers in your bridal bouquet. For a more romantic look, include two or three small fresh or silk flowers in your hair to add a soft, organic feel. Vintage elegance more your style? Pay homage to the past with an art-deco-like bracelet or some roaring twenties–inspired feather barrettes.

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If your family jewelry isn’t “you,” head to a trusted jeweler to repurpose it. See if you can change the design or setting before you scrap vintage pieces—you might even end up with a new favorite bauble.

HALTER OR REVERSE HALTER For this shoulder-baring style, skip the necklace and focus on dressing up your tresses. Try adding some sparkle to your hair with intricate crystal hairpins or an embellished hair vine. If you’ve got a curly mane, five to seven hairpins is the perfect number, while brides with thinner locks or shorter hair need fewer—just two or three pins will do the trick.

V-NECK Whether you opt for a pendant or choker, this style begs for a little décolletage decoration. A thin chain with a delicate pendant (we love the idea of small diamonds or gemstones) or a lariat is an elegant way to accessorize, while pearls (single or double stranded) are always a classic choice. If you’re going for a more decadent look, a crystal choker or statement necklace with matching earrings could be the perfect combination.

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made to last Five tricks for keeping your shoes in tip-top shape.

Love a pair of shoes but not the height of the heels? You can ask your cobbler to decrease the height of your shoes up to a half inch by re-heeling (think: more comfortable stilettos). Keep in mind re-heeling your shoes could take up to a month, so allow yourself some extra time.

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Cleaning your shoes regularly will protect the material. For most leathers—patent included—rubbing with a soft cotton cloth almost always does the trick. For more sensitive materials, like suede, buy a suede brush or sponge and protection spray.

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Have a cobbler put rubber guards on leather-soled shoes to prevent slipping or water damage.

shape up

If you’re wearing pointy shoes, consider shoe shapers to help the toe box keep its shape.

wrap it up

Proper storage will help your favorite footwear last longer. To keep your shoes free of dust, which can damage leather, store them in bags rather than hard plastic containers. Flannel bags let air pass through, won’t damage sensitive fabrics and prevent mold from forming.

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You’ll want to make sure you’re flashing a set of perfect pearly whites at your wedding. (After all, you have a lot to smile about!) Luckily, there’s never been a better array of at-home whitening treatments offering results comparable with pricey in-office procedures—for a fraction of the cost. We put some of the most popular treatments to the test and polled the professionals to get the skinny on the best ways to achieve, and maintain, your most dazzling, camera-ready smile. >>

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teeth-whitening kits The most popular kits on the market now are strips, trays and gels. We’ve tested them all, and they’re equally effective—it’s just a difference of application, sensitivity and strength. A form of peroxide is the active ingredient in all over-the-counter teethwhitening products. The concentration of the whitening ingredient and length of time teeth are exposed determine the degree of whitening and the likelihood of sensitivity.

trays Also prefilled with a whitening gel, trays ensure you get the perfect dose every time. The downside for anyone with super-sensitive teeth is that it’s harder to minimize contact with gums. While we were pleasantly surprised by the thin, flexible trays in Dazzlepro 7-Day Smilepacks ($25, BedBathandBeyond.com), one size definitely does not fit all. However, after sampling all 14 disposable molds for a week, we were very pleased with our noticeably more lustrous chompers. gels The most “hands-on” application method, gels are smeared directly on teeth by gliding the gels in a quick back-and-forth brushing motion, requiring a steady and dexterous hand. If you’re willing to splurge, we got more bang for our buck with Philips Zoom DayWhite gel treatment (USA.Philips.com) than with other alternatives. The trays are molded to your mouth by a dentist, but you apply the gel at home. “Custom-fitted trays allow for more comfort and efficiency,” Lazare says. If you salivate a lot while whitening (which is common), Philip’s Zoom NiteWhite trays work while you sleep. “Since you salivate less while you sleep, this option could offer better results,” Lazare says. After using our Philips Zoom DayWhite trays for two weeks, we had noticeably more radiant smiles. >>

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gel versus laser whitening Pros and cons of the two most popular professional treatments.

gel whitening

laser whitening

PROS:

• Since your dentist

• It’s the fastest

creates trays in the office for you to take, you can whiten at home. • It can get your teeth up to 10 shades whiter. • Professional trays (versus overthe-counter ones) minimize the amount of bleach that can get on the gums and cause irritation.

way to see the most dramatic results. • It usually doesn’t require multiple treatments. • The results last longer than any other treatment.

CONS:

• You’ll have to use the trays every night for two weeks. • It’s not as pricey as laser treatments, but will still cost from $200 to $400. • Some treatments require that you sleep with trays in, which can be uncomfortable. • It’s best not to eat or drink for several hours after application.

CONS:

• It’s pretty pricey— it can run up to $1,000, depending on where you live. • You might feel some gum sensitivity and achiness afterward. • If you have deep stains or discoloration, it could require two treatments.

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strips By far the most foolproof option, thin, disposable strips come pre-coated with a whitening gel formula. We just had to align the strips with the gumline, press the gel side on the fronts of the teeth and fold the excess underneath and behind the teeth to secure the strips in place. “Strips are generally inexpensive and easy to use and travel with,” says Marc Lazare, DDS, MAGD. “If you’ve had professional whitening treatments previously, strips are a good option for touch-ups.” Though it was a bit of a time commitment, we had brighter smiles after trying Crest 3D White Professional Effects Whitestrips ($36, Amazon.com) for the recommended 30 minutes a day for 20 days.

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the whiter teeth diet

dazzling-smile dos and don’ts

bacteria reducers Now that your teeth are already looking whiter and brighter, you’ll want to keep them that way—at least until your wedding photographer folds up his tripod. Giving new meaning to that old adage “you are what you eat,” Mitchell Charnas, DMD, says choosing the right foods (and avoiding the wrong ones) can have a transformational effect on your teeth. For starters, he suggests getting into the habit of eating a serving of yogurt every day—perfect for breakfast or an afternoon snack. “Yogurt reduces the level of bacteria in the mouth, which will prevent plaque buildup, resulting in less staining of the teeth,” Charnas says. “When it comes to choosing one, look for a yogurt with active cultures and no added sugar, such as Greek yogurt.”

rethink your consuming habits In addition to watching your diet, it’s worth getting into some Hollywood smile-friendly habits. Start with one of the first things that comes into contact with your teeth on a daily basis—coffee. “Adding a tablespoon of milk to your coffee makes it much less likely to stain,” says dentist to the stars Arthur Glosman, DDS. And you might want to rethink your creamer: “The higher the fat content in milk, the more stain protection for your teeth,” he notes. Tea drinkers should consider switching from darker leaves like Earl Grey and English breakfast, which are more likely to stain, to lighter varieties such as white, green and herbal blends. Addicted to cola? Drink it at room temperature. “Extreme temperatures make teeth more porous and likely to absorb stains,” Glosman explains. And he also cautions to watch the sneaky little extras. “Ketchup, soy sauce, chocolate sauce, barbecue sauce and balsamic vinegar can all stain teeth,” he says and suggests going superlight on garnishes.

anti-yellowing agents Another weapon in your anti-yellowing arsenal is the strawberry. “The acidity found in strawberries has an ability to remove stains,” Charnas says. His recipe for creating your own at-home stain remover: Add baking soda or salt to crushed strawberries. “Apply the paste to teeth, leave on for five minutes, then brush with your regular toothpaste,” he suggests.

keep a toothbrush handy When in doubt, brush. “Try to clean teeth immediately after consuming anything that’s highly pigmented,” Glosman says. “If it can stain your clothes, it can stain your teeth.” Don’t have a toothbrush and paste handy? “Give your mouth a good rinse with water,” he suggests, or better yet, nosh on an apple. “Not only are apples a superfood, they’re also a wonderful way to clean teeth in a pinch.” Find more beauty tips at TheKnot.com/beauty

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stain removers Another camera-friendly choice? Surprisingly, the experts suggest acidic fruit. “Snacking on foods with a balanced amount of acidity, such as oranges and pineapples, works to oxidize stains that other sugary foods can leave on teeth and improve teeth whiteness over time,” Charnas says. Just keep in mind, too much acid can damage tooth enamel, leading to dull, sensitive teeth.

4 lipsticks for a brighter smile Try one of these shades to give the illusion of instantly whiter teeth.

Opaque red lipsticks with blue undertones can make teeth appear shades whiter. Experiment with different shades to find one that works with your skin tone. There’s a classic red for everyone.

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Not only are vivid reds hot right now, they have the added benefit of creating a stark color contrast, which makes your teeth look brighter. If a toneddown version of these hues is more your style, look for a lip stain in the cherry red family.

dark pink

A preppy alternative to red, cooler pink or berry shades also make your teeth appear whiter. Just don’t go too dark— deeper shades can accentuate stains on your teeth.

glossy pink

While matte colors can make teeth appear dull, glossy or sparkly pinks reflect light and make teeth seem more lustrous. Go bold with a bright shade or subtle with a sheer wash of glossy shimmer.

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I bleach my hair and it’s become dry and lifeless. What can I do to revive my locks before I walk down the aisle?

The best way to fix overprocessed hair is to invest in a good haircut. I also recommend weekly mask treatments (I personally like the Matrix Biolage R.A.W. Re-Hydrate Mask), especially if you’re trying to preserve your hair length. Another tip: The night before you wash your hair, spray hair oil on the ends to protect it from losing additional moisture when you shampoo.

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Skip conditioner, which can weigh down your strands and make them appear oily. Then, experiment with volumizing products. After you’re done styling, spray a little dry shampoo at your roots and brush through for extra texture and volume.

Foolproof highlighting trends to try before your “I dos.”

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ombré. Rather than an extreme color change from dark brown to light blonde, sombré hair gradually becomes lighter at the tips. WHY IT’S FOOLPROOF A sombré strikes the balance between a trendy ombré and a more elegant bridal look. It’s edgy, but not too much.

My hair barely brushes my shoulders, but I’m considering getting extensions before my wedding. Any tips?

If you’re getting permanent extensions, put them in the week of the wedding so they’re fresh. If you’re going the removable clip-in route, get them two weeks before your wedding to check out their look and feel. With all extensions, make sure the color matches your actual hair color—and don’t go too long.

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I want to change my hair color, but I know it’s risky to dye your hair close to the wedding. What are my options?

Never attempt drastic color change before your wedding. You do have options if you’re looking for a subtle change. If you have gray roots, take care of them as close to your wedding as possible to avoid any regrowth. Highlights should be done two weeks before the wedding in case the color needs to be adjusted.

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I’m having an outdoor wedding and I’m worried my curly hair will get frizzy. How do I keep the flyaways at bay?

Smoothing products help repel humidity and control frizz (like the Matrix Biolage SmoothProof line). Use a serum on damp hair before your blow-dry. Then have your stylist take small sections and blow-dry each one individually until it’s smooth. For a more permanent fix, consider a keratin treatment or relaxer. Find more hair tips for your wedding TheKnot.com/hair

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WHAT IT IS Just like it sounds, a sombré is a softer

ecaille

WHAT IT IS Also known as the “tortoise shell

technique,” ecaille is similar to dip-dye trends, but starts closer to the root, giving hair a more understated, marbleized look by blending blonde streaks and darker caramel tones. WHY IT’S FOOLPROOF Since ecaille mixes both highlights and warmer brown tones, it works in any season and with most hair textures.

babylights WHAT IT IS With babylights, the majority of your hair should be its natural color, with just a few face-framing golden pieces to mimic natural, summery highlights. The goal is to look like you just spent a day at the beach. WHY IT’S FOOLPROOF Even more understated than sombré and ecaille, babylights is probably the most subtle coloring route you can go, making it great for trendsetters and low-key brides alike.

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Is there better fitness motivation than wanting to look your best for your wedding and honeymoon? “It’s not about discipline, it’s about desire,” says Doug Rice, bridal fitness expert and founder of Bridalicious Boot Camp. “Take advantage of this rare window of opportunity to be super-driven. There may never be another time like this in your life.” Desire is greatest in the months leading up to your day, so put that motivation to good use.

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start early Wedding planning is stressful, so don’t add more anxiety and frustration to the mix by procrastinating on your fitness routine. The earlier you can put your workout plan into effect the better. Get started at least six months before the wedding, especially if you’re looking to drop a few pounds or tone specific areas. Inevitably life happens, so you’ll have wiggle room to still hit your target on time. “We all lose focus at times and might have a few bad days—or weeks,” Rice says. “Also, once you shed any weight, you’ll want enough time to tone up and sculpt your physique so you look absolutely fabulous in that dress.”

aim for balance Of course you’ll want to focus on the parts of your body that will be on display in your gown, but don’t neglect other areas. The most successful fitness plans balance nutrition with exercise. “Many brides just want to focus on their upper body because of their gowns, but you want to work on your entire body to create symmetry and balance,” says Cynthia Conde, celebrity trainer, creator of Bridal Bootcamp and founder of The Fitness Loft. “Don’t forget— eventually, the dress comes off.” Plus, too much time in the gym can backfire. Build recovery days into your plan by treating yourself to a meditation class or spa day. >>

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know what it takes If you continue to do what you’ve always done, you’ll continue to get the same results, Rice advises. Want to make more progress? Prepare to push yourself harder, try a new activity or work out more often. Rice recommends a minimum of three to four 30-minute sessions of cardio per week and the same amount of strength training. If you want to lose weight more rapidly, you’ll need to up your cardio to five or six times per week. Don’t stress over the thought of cardio though. Rice is a proponent of short bursts of high intensity activity over steady state cardio. Add intervals of sprints during a brisk walk or up the resistance for short spells on a bike.

set small goals Nothing makes you feel more motivated than actually hitting your goals. The key, Rice says, is to keep them small and specific. He gave a few examples: WEEK ONE: Work out at least twice and strength train. Do cardio two times during the week for at least 20 minutes. WEEK TWO: Repeat your fitness regimen from week one, but add 10 minutes to your two cardio workouts. Cut out all soft drinks for the entire week.

lose fat, not muscle Your body has a cap of how much fat you can blast at any given time. Greg Doyle, founder of Wedding Gym and fitness author, explains you can try to lose more weight, but it may not be from fat. “The weight you lose may be from muscle, which isn’t good because losing muscle means messing with your metabolism,” he explains. To stay in the healthy zone, he says to follow this guideline: If your weight loss goal is 20 pounds, don’t try and rush to lose that amount in a month. Instead, aim for losing one percent per week to keep your body healthy and on track. >>

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our favorite apps for tracking your progress Try these apps for quick and stress-free ways to monitor your goals—with workouts too.

nike+ training club HOW IT WORKS Created by Nike master trainers, this app has a cache of over 100 workouts. Each one comes with a video tutorial, so it’s no big deal if you’re a total beginner. Choose a program (“get toned,” “get strong,” “get lean” and “get focused”) and it’ll give you tailored exercise plans—built-in rest days included. (Free, iOS and Android)

mapmyrun HOW IT WORKS Just have this app running (pun intended!) while you pound the pavement. It will record your mileage via GPS, telling you your overall pace with splits per mile. Save your route at the end of each workout so you

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pocket yoga HOW IT WORKS This handy app is literally a yoga instructor inside your phone. Take your pick from a variety of practices, adjust your time and difficulty level, then roll out your mat and begin. The Zen vocal tone guides you through the poses, even telling you when to inhale and exhale. ($3, iOS and Android)

7 minute workout challenge HOW IT WORKS Twelve exercises that can be performed in seven minutes but are the equivalent of an hour-long workout? Seems far-fetched. But this seven-minute fitness challenge is backed by serious peer-reviewed research. ($3, iOS and Android)

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Conde recommends boosting the intensity of your cardio and strength-training programs every week. “Brides shouldn’t be afraid of increasing the weight load,” she says. “This is required to challenge your body and take it past a plateau. And no, increased strength training does not necessarily equal a masculine physique.” If you’re not sure how much weight will work, consider investing in a few personal training sessions so a professional can help you get toned without bulking up.

Snap a selfie! Doyle recommends taking pictures of yourself regularly as a means of tracking fitness progress since you’re likely losing fat but adding muscle. Since muscle, which is dense, takes up half the space of fat, it means the scale may indicate that you haven’t lost much weight. Don’t get too caught up in what the scale says, though. A picture will let you see how much better you’re looking in your clothes, the definition that’s starting to show in your stomach or how toned your arms are in your strapless gown. “You’re not walking down the aisle with a number on your forehead,” Doyle says. “Your guests aren’t going to see how much you weigh. They’ll see how great you look.”

be realistic Setting a big fitness goal can help keep you on your game, but be careful. If you aim too high you may be setting yourself up for failure. “Not every bride must be a size two on her wedding day,” Conde says. She suggests realistically evaluating what your ideal weight should be and if you’re capable of getting there in a healthy way. “I sit down and walk people through their goals,” Doyle says. “I’ll tell them, ‘That would be a five-pound loss every week in your time frame—have you ever lost five pounds per week consistently?’ Then we have a serious conversation about whether or not they’ll be willing to work that hard.”

adjust your eating habits The best way to get the most out of any exercise routine is to pair it with healthy eating habits. “You can lose weight through diet alone, but it’s exceedingly difficult to lose body fat by leaving your diet the same and trying to exercise it off,” Rice says. The simplest way to get started? Eat more vegetables. “I’ve had clients who decided to eat more vegetables and within a week, their body fat dropped 2 percent and their abs started to show,” Doyle adds. If you’re worried about feeling hungry, focus on superfoods like broccoli, eggs and walnuts, which keep you feeling full longer.

change perspectives Instead of looking at your fitness goals as chores, try to see your workout sessions as time you have control over, Conde says. It’s a place you can escape from the day-to-day drama of wedding planning and spend time with yourself. Turn off your cell and forget about your list of to-dos. Focus on pedaling that bike, enjoying the breeze as you run or challenging yourself in a new yoga pose. And have fun! Take a friend to a dance class, design playlists of your favorite songs for your next workout or shop for a new outfit to keep your excitement up. It’s also a great opportunity to rally your wedding party. Grab your bridesmaids for a get-fit session instead of bonding over drinks, and plan date night with your fiancé at a boxing gym instead of going to the movies. “With all the chaos around planning a wedding, it’s comforting to know you have control over how your body will look in your wedding gown and on the honeymoon,” Conde says. Find more fitness tips at TheKnot.com

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BRIDE Annie Purcell, 36, an actress GROOM Michael Salinas, 34, an actor HOW THEY MET While Annie was performing in a play at the Denver Center Theatre WEDDING STYLE The theatrical pair planned an entertaining fete filled with live music, jewel-tone details and verdant garlands. —Samantha Meux

The couple decided early on that they would wed in the bride’s hometown of St. Louis at a new downtown venue. But while the setting was decidedly modern, the nuptials were steeped in family tradition. Vows were exchanged at the bride’s childhood church, and Annie said “I do” in her mother’s timeless, ivory silk satin gown. “I was lucky enough to wear her dress, just as my sister did,” she says.

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“The flowers were stunning,” Annie says. “I burst into tears when I saw my bouquet.”

Modern design elements like lofted ceilings and concrete floors appealed to Annie and Michael, who celebrated under white chandeliers made of willow branches. Vibrant blooms and lush greenery stood out against the stark-white room, giving the brand-new venue a warm, inviting feel.

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Annie sketched a custom illustration of her and Michael that appeared throughout both the stationery and signage.

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THEIR STORY BRIDE Linda Jin, 28, a general surgery resident GROOM Greg Schimizzi, 29, a PhD candidate at Washington University HOW THEY MET At medical school orientation WEDDING STYLE A modern diamond motif, gray details and marble accents made for a sleek and sophisticated celebration. —SM

Clutching a bouquet of magnolia blossoms, Italian ruscus and maidenhair fern, Linda met Greg at an altar framed by floor-to-ceiling windows. “We played acoustic covers of modern songs we love,” she says, including a string quartet version of “Roses” by The Chainsmokers during their ceremony.

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Staying true to her simple everyday style, Linda opted for a low chignon, tassel earrings and an off-the-rack silk crepe sheath that required minimal alterations. “I ordered it online and had it delivered to me in two days,” she says of the fuss-free design. “It was meant to be.”

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THEIR STORY BRIDE Lauren Westbrook, 31, works in marketing GROOM Brian McIntosh, 31, works in finance HOW THEY MET At a seminar in Virginia WEDDING STYLE With a classic, black-tie wedding in mind, Lauren and Brian played up the grandeur of their hotel venue with white orchids and pops of purple. —SM

Graham Chapel at Washington University was a natural fit for their vows, since Brian attended the school and Lauren grew up in St. Louis. “We kept the ceremony décor very simple,” Lauren says of wanting to highlight the natural beauty of the church.

Fresh orchids cascaded down a buttercream cake flavored with French vanilla and tart lemon.

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LAUREN & BRIAN’S WEDDING INGREDIENTS CEREMONY SITE Graham Memorial

Chapel at Washington University, St. Louis RECEPTION SITE Four Seasons Hotel St.

Monochromatic black-and-white details were scattered throughout the ballroom reception, giving the room a timeless, elegant feel. “We wanted a sophisticated wedding that allowed our guests to truly enjoy themselves,” Lauren says. “We were excited to celebrate our love, our family and our friends.”

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BRIDE Sarosh Moheet, 24, a corporate training manager GROOM Tyler Hahn, 24, an engineer HOW THEY MET In high school study hall WEDDING STYLE Sarosh and Tyler successfully blended traditions from their respective Pakistani and American cultures to create a one-of-a-kind spring affair. —SM

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After hosting an intimate Islamic ceremony at a local mosque, Sarosh and Tyler celebrated their newlywed status at Silver Oaks Chateau, which boasts exposed wood beams and wroughtiron accents. “My jaw hit the floor when I walked through the doors,” Sarosh says of first touring the three-story gallery. “Within 10 minutes, I had put down a deposit.”

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Since red is a common color in Pakistani wedding dresses and white is traditional in Western affairs, Sarosh struck a balance between the two by donning an off-white Pakistani gown. “It was my way of showing how important both cultures are to me,” she says.

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“As soon as I saw it on the hanger, I knew it was ‘the one,’ ” Savanna says of her delicate lace sheath.

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THEIR STORY BRIDE Savanna Mattingly, 27, a pharmacist GROOM Marshall Ray, 30, founder and CEO of Faster Fitness HOW THEY MET At a New Year’s Eve party WEDDING STYLE Gauzy linens and an organic palette of ivory and green lent a chic, bohemian vibe to the couple’s winery wedding. —SM

“When I’m outdoors, I feel truly peaceful and most like myself,” Savanna says, so the couple booked a lush vineyard for their lakeside nuptials. Simplicity was key for the design, which called for nature-inspired elements like wood and metal.

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“I felt like I was wearing a piece of art,” Amber says of her dress, which featured a tiered skirt and illusion sleeves.

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BRIDE Amber Jones, 26, a nurse GROOM Matthew Hale, 25, works in hedge fund operations HOW THEY MET At a friend’s birthday party WEDDING STYLE Inspired by the spring season, Amber and Matthew infused their cheery April affair with a pastel palette, bright blooms and watercolor details. —SM

“We wanted our wedding to be fun and relaxed while remaining classy and chic,” Amber says. “That idea inspired every choice we made, from what we wore to what we served our guests.”

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Tables were topped with sequined runners and crystal-draped arrangements of garden roses and hydrangeas—the same blooms that adorned the amaretto-and-white-raspberry-flavored cake. “We surprised guests with Krispy Kreme doughnuts as a late-night snack,” Ashley says. “They were a huge hit!”

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“We got engaged in Forest Park, so we wanted to have our ceremony there as well,” Emily says of choosing the historic World’s Fair Pavilion for their laid-back nuptials. One way they achieved a relaxed vibe was by forgoing a traditional bridal party for Emily’s two sons. “We just wanted it to be us and the boys,” she says.

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10 old-school planning rules you can break

While it’s true that weddings have a lot of traditions, times have changed—and some old-school rules don’t hold up anymore. BY MEREDITH BODGAS PHOTOGRAPH BY KIM FOX PHOTOGRAPHY >>

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You must invite everyone with a guest. NEW RULE If they’ll know others, skip the plus-one. It’s still polite (and very appreciated) to invite guests’ significant others, but if you’re inviting a group of coworkers, for instance, and two or more of them are single, they should have no problem attending solo. It’s only mandatory to let guests who won’t know anyone aside from you and your fiancé bring a date—and the same goes for your wedding party (they’re shelling out big bucks for your day).

Your registry should consist entirely of housewares for your new home. NEW RULE You can register for anything from honeymoon hotel accommodations to skiing equipment—and even cash. Lots of couples live together before they get married and may have all of the towels and cookware they’ll ever want. You can request upgraded versions of home items you already own, but nothing should stop you from creating a honeymoon or otherwise “nontraditional” registry. These are your gifts and you should be happy with them. To avoid unwanted presents, register at two to three places, including a national retailer with brick-and-mortar stores, plus an e-commerce site, at TheKnot.com/registry. And feel free to include a ping-pong table for your basement or a flat-screen television on your wish list if you don’t need (or want) yet another kitchen appliance or set of sheets.

Brides must wear a long, white gown. NEW RULE Wear whatever you want. Sure, most brides go the long white or ivory dress route, but for your wedding day attire, anything goes—from a retro short dress to a silver, slinky sheath or a black pantsuit. We’ve seen tons of couples put their own twist on their dresses and suits. Make it colorful, make it casual—as long as you feel fabulous in your outfit. You can even skip the veil. >>

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should you do a first look? How to decide whether to take photos before you walk down the aisle.

pros

• You won’t miss a second of precious time with guests— including your cocktail hour (when couples traditionally take portraits). You put thought into that signature sip, and we don’t blame you for wanting to try it.

• You’ll get a few minutes alone to soak in the moment and prepare to walk down the aisle. You’ll have all eyes on you when you’re about to say your vows, so if there are things you want to say to each other beforehand, this is a great time to do it.

• You don’t have to worry about makeup touch-ups in case you shed a tear. Trust us: Even if you don’t normally cry, the waterworks might come on when you exchange vows.

cons

• You miss out on that “gasp” moment, when the ceremony venue doors open and your partner (and guests) see you for the first time. If you crave the spotlight, this can be pretty incredible.

• You’ll have to be ready even earlier for photos. Know yourself: Do you seriously hate being rushed or need tons of time to get ready for a regular night out? You might want the extra hours on the day of.

• You’re superstitious and you believe seeing each other before the ceremony is bad luck. (We don’t agree—but it’s your day.)

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The bride’s parents pay for the wedding. NEW RULE Every couple funds the festivities in different ways. Maybe your parents want to pay for every single thing, but unlike in the past where the bride’s family was expected to foot the whole bill, they’re in no way obligated to now. Grooms’ parents and couples themselves chip in nearly as often as brides’ parents do—it just depends on your family’s situation. If you’d like your partner’s parents to help, he or she will need to ask for it—not you, and certainly not your parents. Just remember: Whoever pays gets a say. If you know your mother-in-law will insist on an in-church ceremony if she contributes and you’ve got your heart set on exchanging vows on a sandy beach, you may be happier cutting your guest list than asking her to contribute funds.

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Your mom can’t throw you a shower. NEW RULE Anyone can throw your shower. People used to think it was rude for the bride’s mother to host a party where the sole purpose was for her daughter to get gifts. Other close family members were similarly forbidden from hosting too. We never really agreed with this idea—and, luckily, today’s mothers of the bride are ignoring the passé etiquette. So, encourage your mom to throw you a party if she wants to. Your bridesmaids may be itching to plan something too (multiple showers are normal), so make sure everyone coordinates before finalizing the plans—you don’t want to invite the same guests to every party.

You have to have a rehearsal dinner. NEW RULE Feel free to skip a rehearsal dinner. When couples lived apart before saying “I do” and engagements were a few weeks long, the rehearsal dinner was often the first time both sets of parents met. Since the parents of the couple would be responsible for introductions at the wedding the next day, they needed to shake hands first—not so today. Having a rehearsal dinner is still smart when your and your partner’s parents aren’t well acquainted, but if there’s no time or room in the budget, then it’s okay to skip it, especially if your ceremony rehearsal has to take place on a weekday or you don’t have a wedding party. It’s nice to treat out-of-towners to a welcome meal, or you can just gather your closest local friends and family for a prewedding dinner, a welcome party with drinks, or a dessert party, but nothing is mandatory

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The first time you see your partner on your wedding day should be at your ceremony. NEW RULE You can spend every minute with your partner before the ceremony. We promise it’s not bad luck if he or she catches a glimpse of you in your wedding attire on the wedding day (but why not make it a surprise if you can both hold out?). Many couples who decided to wait until the ceremony to see each other would’ve preferred to have the emotional experience in private rather than in front of all of their guests. More couples are having a first look before their “I dos” and taking photos too—that way, you don’t have to miss your cocktail hour. Do what feels right to you.

Ceremony seating is based on a bride’s side and groom’s side. NEW RULE Guests can choose to sit wherever they want. It used to be that guests of the bride sat on the left side at the ceremony and guests of the groom sat on the right. Even now, plenty of your guests will go by this guideline to find their seats. But if your partner’s family is huge and yours is tiny, your ceremony will look a little weird if most people are seated on one side. And at Jewish weddings, the sides are flipped anyway. If you’re having ushers, ask them to direct your VIPs, grandparents, aunts, uncles and the like to prime seats toward the front of either side and instruct your other guests to sit in any open seat. No ushers? No problem. Place a sign in the area and have it read something like, “Choose a seat, not a side—we’re all family once the knot is tied.” >>

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5 wedding traditions you’ve never heard of See how couples marry around the world.

Looking for a wedding perfume or cologne? In Sweden, grooms sew small pockets of herbs, like thyme, into their clothes for good luck. But if you try it, beware: You may smell like Thanksgiving dinner.

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You must walk down the aisle. NEW RULE You don’t have to walk anywhere. Perhaps you’re a flats-wearing gal and your trip down the aisle may turn into a real trip in your wedding heels. Or maybe you’d prefer to skip all the hoopla that’s associated with that long walk. Whatever your rationale, it’s your prerogative. Your partner is already going to be up at the altar, so why can’t you be too? Who says you have to have a processional at all? Yet, for Jewish weddings, it’s strongly suggested that brides (and grooms too) walk down the aisle. That’s because they each make their way to the chuppah with both of their parents. If you want to skip the walk, but still want to honor your mom and dad, present them with flowers during your ceremony. And if you’d rather just walk with your partner, that’s fine too.

You have to leave for your honeymoon right after your reception. NEW RULE You can go on a honeymoon whenever you want. Heading straight to your honeymoon sounds romantic, but it can be a logistical nightmare. Think it over: You’d have to pack for your wedding and honeymoon at once (no small feat if it’s a destination affair) and arrange for your luggage, passport and plane tickets to be in the trunk of the getaway car at the appropriate time). But even if you’re an organizational whiz, you’ll be so exhausted from your whirlwind day that you’ll want nothing more than to just veg out for a while with your new spouse after the wedding. When you take a honeymoon is entirely up to you two (and maybe your boss). Get more wedding advice at TheKnot.com/planning

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Before a Serbian wedding, the groom’s father fills a flask with his best brandy and sets out to personally invite all the guests to the wedding. He offers each a drink, they offer a small gift and together they toast to the new couple.

gate of honor

Before some Danish weddings, a “gate of honor,” an arch constructed from pine branches, evergreens and florals, is erected in front of the bride’s home (attached to the front door). It may reappear for the silver anniversary.

signature shoes

Before a Turkish bride walks down the aisle, her single bridesmaids and relatives sign the soles of her shoes. After a night of dancing and prancing, the signature that has faded the most will be the next person to marry.

tree toppers

In Bermuda, bakers top a cake with a small cedar sapling, which symbolizes the couple’s growing love and is usually replanted after the ceremony. Today, modern couples will sometimes incorporate a tree planting ritual into their wedding ceremony.

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happy campers

Pull off an awesome camp wedding, complete with color wars, bonfires and fabulous food. (Just don’t forget the bug spray.) BY MAGGIE SEAVER PHOTOGRAPHY BY JEREMIAH AND RACHEL PHOTOGRAPHY

There’s something about the fresh outdoors, a relaxed vibe and a nostalgic first look on the dock of your childhood summer camp that makes for an unforgettable wedding. For the ultimate celebration, bring your loved ones together for a few days of camp-inspired activities like capture the flag, canoeing, and arts and crafts. Exchange vows at sunset, then dance the night away amid fireflies and a chorus of crickets. And who doesn’t love a round of s’mores? But before you spear any marshmallows, you’ve got some planning to do. We went to two pros, Amy Shey Jacobs of Chandelier Events and Andrea Freeman of Andrea Freeman Events, who know all about pulling off a fabulous camp wedding, rain or shine. >>

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do a little research First things first: Make sure the campsite you’re dreaming of is available on your preferred wedding date. A working summer camp will most likely only be available during its off-season, so months like June, July and August could be off-limits. Also keep varying seasonal climates in mind. “Camps can often be in cooler mountainous locations, so their seasons can differ from what you’re used to at home,” Jacobs says. “Often, nights are 10 to 20 degrees cooler than average temperatures at higher elevations.” As gorgeous as your natural camp setting already is, you’ll probably want to add personal wedding touches (especially if you’re hosting a large group for a few days), whether it’s an entire tent, your floral ceremony arch or a photo booth. So when it comes to picking a date and talking with pros, factor in time to set up and break down. Freeman recommends leaving anywhere from two to seven days for setup, and one to two days for cleanup.

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dress accordingly (and tell your guests to do the same) This probably isn’t the venue for a long gown with lots of volume and multiple undergarments, but if you just can’t part with the idea of a dramatic dress, you have a few options. “A great bustle will usually do the trick—just discuss it with your seamstress beforehand,” Jacobs says. “Otherwise, I say stick to shorter trains and get the drama with a removable tulle overskirt paired with a more low-maintenance silhouette. Or just go with the camp theme and opt for a short gown and fun pair of wedges.” Speaking of footwear, you won’t want to deal with stilettos sinking into the grass, so Freeman recommends flats (or at least flat-soled shoes). Just make sure your dress is altered to avoid letting extra fabric drag. >>

camp couture

“Stick to shorter trains with a removable tulle overskirt for a more low-maintenance silhouette. Or just go with the camp theme and opt for a short gown and a fun pair of wedges.”

game on Four ways to make your party more playful.

lawn games

Croquet and horseshoes are favorites perfect for a rustic fete. Cornhole is a lawn and beach party staple. Custom sets are available online—even with your wedding date or faces printed on it. Buy (or DIY) these games in your wedding colors.

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cocktail table tic–tac–toe

This is a simple DIY project: Use masking tape to make your cocktail tables into giant tic-tactoe boards. Provide wooden or colored cardboard Xs and Os, and then people can get to know each other over drinks.

word games

Whether it’s a personalized crossword puzzle, a word search on a giant chalkboard or a set of trivia questions about the couple displayed on your cocktail napkins, games that make your guests think could have them thinking your cocktail hour is pretty great.

checkers or chess

You can either set up your cocktail tables as built-in game boards or purchase a life-size set (think: extra-large Jenga), which is fun for board game aficionados of all ages and great for large families attending your wedding.

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have a plan b As with any outdoor wedding, the last thing you want is a rainstorm with no backup plan. Freeman suggests using a tent for outdoor affairs, no matter the weather—even if you land a glorious day, you’re going to want some shade. Freeman’s best recommendation is a clear tent with removable sides. That way, you can adjust the tent setting according to the weather and temperature at a moment’s notice. Otherwise, if you’re set on an open-air wedding, check to see if the camp has an indoor space you’d be able to use in case of bad weather. Other smart extras to have around (depending on the season) are heaters, fans, umbrellas, rain ponchos or blankets. Beyond the ceremony and reception, if you’re having a multiday celebration, Jacobs says to prep rainyday activities just in case. “Basketball games in the gym, pottery and lanyard making in an arts and crafts class, movie nights with a s’mores bar and flannel blankets—it’s all possible, but think these things through before you get to camp.”

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budget for camp extras Since your campsite is most likely not a full-service wedding venue, factor in additional expenses, like party rentals, proper lighting, suitable restrooms and additional lodging (in case the camp can’t sleep everyone or you don’t want your grandparents cramped in bunk beds). If you do block extra rooms nearby, don’t forget transportation to shuttle guests back and forth. “Accessibility is also critical,” Freeman says. “If the location you love for the reception is in the middle of the woods, but trucks can’t get there to load and unload, you could be looking at increased labor costs for rentals and catering.” And something you probably haven’t thought of? Hiring a lifeguard—you’ll definitely want a certified pro on duty during any activities involving water (especially if drinks are being served).

prepare electrical backup A rural or far-removed site means certain amenities, like electricity, aren’t necessarily a given. First, discuss the electrical situation with the campsite director and whether you’ll need extra power from a generator. Then talk to all your pros about their electrical needs. “When you plan things out, make sure you get a generator that has at least two more outlets than you think you’ll need,” Freeman says. “Also, the band may need two power sources, one for the ceremony and another separate spot for reception.” If your camp venue often hosts weddings, it may have a list of preferred vendors it’s worked with before. Finally, make sure there are enough phone chargers, batteries and flashlights on-site, whether it’s something the venue provides or you bring yourselves. >>

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types of tents Celebrate your wedding inside one of these sturdy shelters.

frame tent

Small versions of these tents are typically used on residential patios in the summer. They have no interior support poles that obstruct the view or limit the options for furniture layouts, but the frame tends to be visible from inside the space.

pole tent

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Good for all types of affairs, the roofline on this tent peaks in the middle and supports sloped panels extending from either side. Translucent fabric is a popular option, and side panels are available to help protect guests from inclement weather.

These tents have mountainlike peaks in the center, plus one or two rows of interior poles, creating that lofted shape (something to consider when mapping out tables and the dance floor). They’re often used for formal affairs, and also work well with vibrant ceiling lighting.

pergola

gable end

tepee

A fancier version of a frame tent, this kind of structure has fabric panels with a scalloped edge that caps each end, creating a formal entryway into the tent.

These structures offer a nice option for outdoor receptions. Although they’re open to the elements, a perimeter of pillars supports overhead crossbeams, and an open lattice creates a feeling of shelter while offering views of the sky and surrounding landscape.

Add a playful décor element to your wedding with these triangular tents, perfect for housing different activity stations (and a fun touch for kids).

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offer fun activities

take care of your guests

Now for the really fun part: games and activities. These will obviously depend on the size and age range of your party, but you have so many options to choose from. Jacobs loves organized camp activities like color wars, a field day or tug-of-war to get everyone involved and spark some fun competition. It’s also a good idea to have sports gear and arts and crafts materials, and give your guests some time to take a break. You could set the younger ones up with a movie night while the adults enjoy something a little more festive, like a wine and cheese tasting. “You want to strike a balance between organized activities, free play and rest time for your guests,” Jacobs says. Utilize the camp’s facilities to the fullest and don’t let your guests get bored, but don’t micromanage—you don’t want everyone exhausted and crabby for the wedding.

Your friends and family are rock stars for making the trip to the camp, so give them the goodies they deserve (and need). Greet guests with a welcome bag in their rooms filled with local treats, campsite maps, daily itineraries and nearby areas to visit. And seeing as the closest pharmacy might be miles away, this definitely isn’t the time to skimp on necessities. Make sure every room and restroom is stocked with nice soaps, shampoo, toothpaste, toothbrushes, deodorant, bug spray, sunscreen, and allergy and pain reliever medication—better safe than sorry. And don’t forget creams and ointment for any rashes or poison ivy. If you’re in a climate that gets chilly at night, always have cozy blankets and throws at the ready.

keep food simple, relaxed and local Celebrating over a few days? Jacobs likes to cater daily meals through the camp, if possible. Think: buffet breakfasts, deli spreads and barbecues. She suggests recruiting a local caterer to craft a locally sourced and seasonally fresh menu for the main event. “Farm to table is the way to go, and don’t expect to overcomplicate with fussy menu items or things that are hard to temperature control,” Jacobs says. As for serving, Freeman loves food stations. “Guests can play lawn games, dance, or sit and chat on a blanket and grab a bite whenever they’re hungry,” Freeman says.

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check local sound and alcohol ordinances You may be secluded in the woods, on a lake or in the mountains, but that doesn’t mean there aren’t any rules. You might have to work with a 10 p.m. noise curfew or need to obtain a permit that allows your band to play later into the night. Same goes for alcohol—do a little research and find out what the deal is with serving cocktails, beer or wine on camp premises. Your campsite staff can generally point you in the right direction, especially if they’re accustomed to holding events. Get more planning tips at TheKnot.com/planning

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how to actually pay for your wedding The little things you can save, the big things you can sacrifice and how to make it all add up for your wedding. BY RACHEL TORGERSON ILLUSTRATIONS BY LIBBY VANDERPLOEG

Your wedding is probably the priciest party you’ll ever throw in your life. It’s easy to say you’ll stick to a budget, or have tons of fabulous DIY details, but at the end of the day, your venue and catering bill could amount to way more than you imagined. It’s important to understand how your budget will be broken down. Saving up for the wedding isn’t an insurmountable task—we promise. Here’s how to save up and pay for your wedding by spending smartly and cutting back a little along the way. >>

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use this simple math equation If you have a big budget goal that seems daunting, divide it into smaller chunks that are easier to digest. The simple math trick that makes it all work? Take the sum of your desired budget and divide it by the number of months you have to save up. Getting married in a year with a budget of $20,000? Divide $20,000 by 12 (which equals about $1,700 per month). If that amount seems like too much per month, add more time or try cutting back on a few of your big-ticket monthly expenses to help you save. “That’s literally how simple planning [financially] for a wedding can be,” says David Bach, founder and chairman of FinishRich Media and author of Smart Couples Finish Rich, about this relatively simple math. Where should this money go? Into a newly created “wedding account,” of course. Throughout your life, having a savings account dedicated to something more exciting than a retirement plan, like travel, a wedding or another big event, is a good idea and will help make saving more fun. Obviously, the amount of time you’ll need to save up for a wedding depends on your current income and expenses. For example, if you can only save $800 a month, but your dream wedding looks like it will cost somewhere in the $50,000 range, you’ll be saving for more than five years. When you’re thinking of your budget, work within realistic parameters and don’t set unattainable goals. For some couples, more drastic sacrifices will be required, while other to-be-weds will be splitting the cost with relatives to help lighten the load. Think about what’s best for you and your partner and what makes the sense. Be practical about your limits. The amount of time it takes you to save will depend entirely on your own circumstances.

cut back on monthly expenses Do you belong to a gym, club or subscription service that takes a monthly sum out of your account? Cutting back on these types of expenses can have some of the quickest effects on your account balance. Turning off your cable could save you $100 a month, and ending a gym membership could put an extra $75 in your account each month. You’re not going to give up your cell phone, but you might be able to change the data plans or forgo on-demand movies for a year. You should make a habit of reaching out to your cell phone and cable companies annually and negotiating a better deal. Sometimes, just by asking, you can get a price cut on your bills. Even $20 off a monthly bill can save you $240 over the course of a year. Nowadays, it’s so expensive for a company to acquire a new customer that most will lower their fees just to keep you around. And if your attempts at negotiation fail, consider cutting out nonessential monthly costs. We’re not talking about your health plan or your life insurance—those things are non-negotiable.

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family finances

Discuss with your families about who’ll be paying for what. Some couple’s families will still pick up the entire tab, but now, 10 percent of couples are covering the cost themselves.

But for things like cable, Netflix, Amazon Prime, Birchbox and Spotify—anything that debits you on a monthly basis—the time has come to really consider if these are must-haves you truly need, or if you can sacrifice them for a bit in favor of a larger wedding budget—and that fancy cake you have your eye on.

stop little spending habits that add up Scale down your shopping during the months you’re saving or only buy lunch out one day a week. You’ll begin to see a little wiggle room for your wedding account in no time. “I call this ‘the latte factor’—the way we spend money on a lot of little things without thinking about it,” Bach says. “It could be your coffee, bottled water, eating out for lunch and dinner, or having drinks. It could even be taking a cab instead of taking the subway, or parking your car closer to your office and therefore paying a higher parking fee.” A dollar here, three dollars there—it adds up over days and weeks. Cutting back on a few (or a lot) of these expenditures can result in saving up to $10, maybe $20, per day—that’s $300 to $600 per month. But don’t worry—cutting out these expenses isn’t going to change your whole life for the next year. Trust us, time flies when you’re wedding planning. >>

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make bigger sacrifices, if you’re willing Looking for any possible way to cut costs or find extra money to help pay for your wedding? There are some more drastic measures you can take as well. You could move in with your parents to save on rent for the year (or move in together if you haven’t already). If you both own a car, consider selling one of them—that itself could save you more than $5,000 in expenses like gas, tune-ups and insurance. “The expenses from that car could pay for a third of the wedding,” Bach says.

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use your credit cards—realistically If you’re in the process of saving up for the wedding while you’re making deposits to reserve your venue and other vendors, you’re likely going to have to use credit cards. That shouldn’t worry you as long as you’re using them correctly (read: paying them off in full in a timely manner). Credit cards can actually protect you from fraud and make transactions easier, so we don’t suggest avoiding them entirely as long as you’ve saved up enough, or will have saved up enough to pay them off before interest sets in. But one big thing to keep in mind: Don’t start your marriage off in debt—it’s never a good idea—and don’t consider paying for things with money you don’t have and won’t have for a long time. You also shouldn’t take out a loan to cover costs. “Going into marriage with debt for a one-day party is a huge mistake,” Bach says. “People start their lives in these huge financial holes and it’s just a shame. It’s smart to create a specific wedding account to put money into and then simply reverse the math to come up with your savings plan.” Bottom line: Don’t spend more than you can afford.

think of creative ways to make more cash Have you considered selling items you don’t need anymore online? What about starting an Etsy shop or doing freelance work? This can be a great way to supplement your wedding fund. Once you have a plan in place, start a budget with The Knot Budget Calculator. There are lots of additional ways to save too, like looking into expensive wedding dates to avoid and checking out planning advice to get a handle on the whole process.

what about investing to pay for the wedding? Investing in stocks is more of a long-term process, and probably not the best idea as a way to pay for the wedding. But if your parents are planning to pay, it’s something they might have already considered years before you even met your partner. Set your budget at TheKnot.com/budget

where not to skimp All the places that are worth splurging for your wedding day.

the photographer

Trust us—you don’t want a wedding album full of blurry photos to realize a pro is worth it. Your friend who took up photography last year might take great photos of his dog running on the beach, but that doesn’t mean he’s a cheap alternative for your wedding day. A professional photographer knows what to capture—the rings, the cake, the details and candid moments. They’ll also be able to work the crowd and direct you and your new spouse in order to get the best shots.

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the dress

You don’t need to spend a ton on a dress to look beautiful on your day, but you do need to have it fitted by a good tailor.

the music

Hiring a DJ simply because he charges only $40 an hour or recruiting your friend’s garage band might not be the best bets for your wedding. Splurging on a great band or DJ who will have you and your guests dancing all night is truly money well spent.

the bouquet

Your bouquet is the one floral purchase you shouldn’t hold back on. Consider that as a part of your overall look—it’ll be photographed like crazy. Opt for more expensive blooms for your bunch and scale back on centerpieces.

the food

Serving unappetizing food will make your guests remember your reception for all the wrong reasons. Eliminate a course or offer less expensive options, but maintain the quality.

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please be seated Put a clever spin on tradition—or break the mold entirely— with new viewing options for your vows. >>

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in the round Chairs in a circle (a symbol of everlasting love) allow all guests to feel closer to the ceremony—even a large group. Arrange a few aisles so guests can get in and out, and for a dramatic entrance, parents, attendants and the couple can all walk down the different openings. During the ceremony, the couple stands in the center, and the wedding party can position themselves in the aisles.

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amphitheater As in ancient Greek theater, guests are seated in semicircles around the altar. The rows are staggered like stadium seats, and typically there’s a center aisle and smaller aisles on each side breaking up the rows. This affords guests, even those in the back, a better view and lends a momentous feeling. But it’s hard to create if your site doesn’t have built-in seating for it, and you’ll need to figure out a place for attendants to stand, either in the aisles or on the stage.

picnic At a casual garden or lawn ceremony, place pretty blankets, colorful rugs and oversize floor cushions on the ground, picnic style. Just be sure to communicate to friends and family that they’ll be getting down and possibly a little dirty. Use a picnic basket and blanket as your motif on the invite, or cute wording like “life’s a picnic,” so they’ll know to dress appropriately. To accommodate older guests or others who aren’t comfortable on the ground, place a few chairs or benches on the outskirts of the setup, curving around the space so they don’t block anyone’s view.

lounge Vignettes of comfy, coordinated furniture are a great option for relaxing during the reception, but the look also works for ceremonies (bonus: repurpose the seating as an after-dinner lounge space). Soft, white leather sectionals, banquettes, ottomans and poufs grouped in cool configurations let friends and family get cozy during your nuptials, almost like you’ve invited them into your ultra-chic living room. >>

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get with the program Invite your guests to read along with a well-planned ceremony program.

basics

Include your names, wedding date and the location of the ceremony. Most programs then provide a chronological list of musical selections, names of the wedding party and their relation to the to-be-weds, and titles of any readings.

special mention

Many programs feature a thank-you note to the couple’s parents, plus one to guests for sharing the day. The program is an appropriate place to explain the symbolism of any tributes too.

added understandings

For guests from different cultures, it’s helpful to offer details about rituals that’ll take place. Explain the origin of a custom and print the words of a blessing or prayer so guests can join in.

specific instructions

Avoid postceremony confusion by writing detailed directions for your guests on the program. After the recessional listing, add something like, “Please find bubbles under your pew and help us create a memorable exit!”

fun details

Recount how you met or the story of your proposal, or describe the members of your wedding party in a witty way that highlights their most interesting qualities. (“Our groomsman Jake Jones nearly missed today’s service with a broken foot from rock climbing. Ladies, tread carefully if you dance with him!”) It gives guests something to read during downtime, and it provides an easy way to break the ice later at the reception.

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Form rows into a semicircle or V-shape instead of a straight line. When your venue only has one entrance to access seats, shake up the seating. Each row is slightly angled, anchored by a center aisle. As with in-the-round seating, you still have the feeling that everyone’s curving around you. Plus, you’ll be able to have fewer rows, as the setup allows for longer ones (and more chairs) toward the back of the layout. Curved seating feels romantic, while the sharper angles of the chevron give it a modern vibe.

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Pews typically found in a house of worship are especially charming when placed outside. These custom rentals (available through many antique furniture companies) can get expensive, so to cut the budget, consider having pews in just the first few rows and using wood chairs behind them. For a similar feel, wood benches blend well with the natural colors of the outdoors. Benches are extra sturdy in sand or grass, and they don’t detract from the view because they’re lower to the ground. For a modern look, pad them with cushions, which also makes them more comfortable and allows for guests to truly be in the moment while witnessing your vows (your older guests will definitely appreciate it).

For a brief, intimate service, ask guests to join hands and surround you in a circle as you say your vows. The cozy ring makes attendees and your wedding party feel like they’re actually participating in the exchange, not just watching it. Just try to limit the ceremony to less than 20 minutes, and make sure everyone in your group is aware they’ll be on their feet for that amount of time.

bales of hay For a barn wedding, carry out the theme with bucolic bundles of hay (just beware of allergies). Affordable, rustic and all-natural, hay ties perfectly into an idyllic country celebration. Arrange the bales in rows and dress them up with quilts or simple white canvas cloth (use a heavy fabric so guests don’t get pricked). Then reuse them later as lounge seating by the dance floor.

mix and match An eclectic assortment of chairs and couches mixed nonchalantly adds quirky character. Use a little imagination to style bistro seats, benches and ottomans in rows or groupings to take on the feel of an enchanted tea party. Shop vintage markets and yard sales for inexpensive finds to mix with rented wood folding chairs.

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themed options Use your ceremony locale to set the tone for unexpected seating that will wow guests and make for great photos. Getting married with your feet in the sand? Arrange rows of simple, chic, creamcolored beach chairs that blend in nicely with the shore. For a garden or mountain wedding, seat guests on tree stumps. Tying the knot in a modern, industrial-style space or rooftop? Sleek, metallic-hued chairs will look great in photos.

switch sides Traditionally, the bride’s family and friends sit on the left side and the groom’s on the right side (although in Jewish tradition, it’s swapped). For a new twist, let the first few rows switch sides for a better view—when the bride is standing on the left and her parents are on the right, the angle helps them to see her face. More couples are also asking guests to simply pick a seat, not a side, as stated on pretty signs at the ceremony location. Get more ceremony tips at TheKnot.com/planning

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on the write track

Penning your own vows may seem daunting, but it’ll be worth it when you’re up at the altar. Here are some tips and tricks to help you through it. >>

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read lots of vow examples for inspiration Start by looking at traditional, by-the-book vows from your own religion, if you practice a certain faith, and others as well to see what strikes a chord with you. Incorporate these samples into the original words you write or simply use them as a jumping-off point. Once you’ve found a few you love, consider what it is about the style that draws you to those vows in particular.

agree on format and tone with your partner Decide how you want your vows to come across. Do you envision them as humorous? Poetic and romantic? Go over the logistics too. Will you write them separately or together? Will they be completely different or will you make the same promises to each other as you would with traditional vows? Some couples do a little of each. Finally, will you share them with each other or keep them a secret until the wedding day?

jot down notes about your relationship

• W hy did you decide to get married? • What hard times have you gone through together? hat have you supported each other through? • W

• What challenges do you envision in your future? • What do you want to accomplish together? • What makes your relationship tick? • What did you think when you first saw your fiancé? • When did you realize you were in love?

write it all out Now that you have notes, you’re ready to establish a structure and write your first draft. It helps to start with a four-part outline: Declare your love, praise your partner, make promises and finish with a final vow. Another way to organize them is to start with a short story and then circle back to it at the end. This type of structure is especially good for couples who want to keep things light and funny.

• What do you most respect about your partner?

avoid clich´es

• How has your life gotten better since meeting your mate?

Now that you have your first draft, it’s time to make edits. Borrow from poetry, books, religious texts and even from romantic movies, but don’t let someone else’s words overpower your own. You want your vows to sound like you and relate to your relationship, and that won’t happen if every word is borrowed from other sources. And if you find yourself relying on cliché phrases (you know, those sayings that have been used over and over so many times they no longer sound genuine) to get your point across, try coming up with a specific example from your relationship that has a similar message. For example, instead of, “Everything happens for a reason,” you might say, “I’d like to think there was a reason why we both went to the dog park that day.” >>

• What about them inspires you? • W hat do you miss most about them when you’re apart? • What qualities do you most admire in one another?

come up with one or two, or many, promises They’re called vows for a reason—the promises are the most important part. We suggest including promises that are broad, as well as more specific ones. “I promise to always love you” is classic, but add a way you’ll show it. For instance, “I promise to pick up your favorite ice cream every time you’re sick.”

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Take some time to reflect on your partner. Think about how you felt when you first met, what made you fall in love and when you knew you wanted to spend the rest of your lives together. Write it all out to get your creative gears turning. Here’s a handy list of questions to help get you started:

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take out anything too cryptic or embarrassing You’ve invited your family and friends to witness your vows in order to make your bond public, so be sure everyone feels included in the moment. That means putting a limit on inside jokes, deeply personal anecdotes and obscure nicknames or code words. Think ahead while you’re writing them. Will your vows still make sense 10 years from now, or will even you be confused? Have a friend or family member read it over ahead of time for feedback, if you’re okay with sharing your vows beforehand.

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practice out loud (seriously) It might sound a little awkward, but this really is the best way to prep. The more you practice, the more confidently you’ll be able to speak. Your vows should be easy to say and sound conversational. As you recite them, listen for any tongue twisters and superlong sentences, then cut them. This is also the time to work on the delivery. Stand tall and straight, look at your partner and use your hands expressively, but only in small gestures. This is where mostly memorizing your vows will come in handy. You can focus on the presentation and being real instead of trying to remember which word comes next.

make a clean copy for yourself The paper you read from should be legible, so even if you’re working on it right up until a few moments before your ceremony, use a fresh copy free of any cross outs, arrows and notes. And give some thought to the presentation because it will likely be photographed. You can write your vows in a pretty notebook, print a copy and paste that inside, or have them written in calligraphy on stationery in your wedding colors. It can make a nice keepsake to hang in your home later on. Have a backup plan too. Some couples find themselves too emotional to speak, so have your officiant either prompt you by quietly saying the vows first or read the vows on your behalf. (It also helps if some of the verses are the same for both of you to jog your memories and make it easier to memorize.) Find more vow advice at TheKnot.com/planning

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beyond the wedding party Here are four other honorary roles to give to loved ones.

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Ask special friends or relatives (male or female) to serve as ushers, walking your guests to their seats, passing out ceremony programs, and acting as general guest guides. Groomsmen can double as ushers, but if it’s a large wedding or there are lots of people, you’ll want to appoint extra.

In some Christian ceremonies, preteens (between the ages of 9 and 12) light candles at the altar just before the mother of the bride is seated. But at any wedding, you can honor someone special by asking him or her to light a candle during the ceremony or even at the reception.

Musically inclined friends or siblings can be a featured part of your ceremony or reception. Ask them to sing a special song or play an instrument during the ceremony. Just make sure they’re comfortable in front of crowds and you’re both okay with what song they’re planning to perform.

Have a well-spoken friend or relative do a reading during your ceremony. You can choose the text yourself or ask them to select something they love. Alternatively, you could ask a literary type to write something original to be read aloud or to be printed in the ceremony program.

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Your vows are important, but that doesn’t mean they should drag on. Speak from the heart and you won’t need to repeat the same sentiments because they’ll come through the first time. Pick the most important points and make them. If yours are running longer than two minutes, make some edits. Put some of the more personal thoughts in a letter or gift to your fiancé on the morning of your wedding and save any guest-related topics for your toasts.

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In the world of hashtags, up-tothe-minute snaps and tweets, we bring you the most common socialmedia-related wedding faux pasâ&#x20AC;&#x201D; and tell you what to do instead. >> PHOTOGRAPH BY HELLO LOVE PHOTOGRAPHY

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if you’re planning your wedding Call your parents before pressing “post” to announce your engagement. Your family and close friends will want to hear it straight from you first. A Facebook status or Instagram post might be the most efficient way to get the news out, but it’s not the most personal. You know which friends and family members would appreciate to hear the news directly from you. Plus, it’s likely that older family members (like your grandparents) don’t have social media accounts and could miss the message altogether.

Post pics of your engagement ring. We know you’re so excited to share your ring selfie—just keep the nitty-gritty details like cost and carat to yourself. After you post your “engaged” status, your friends and family will be dying to find out what the ring looks like, so you may feel comfortable indulging them with a photo (pro tip: prep with a manicure first), or just texting them privately. It’s not bragging to share a pic with the exciting news. Leave out the other details, because how much it cost isn’t anyone else’s business—the point is it symbolizes the commitment you’re making. Designate a “poster of honor.” Enjoy your wedding day and stay off your phone while still keeping everyone updated. It’ll fly by, and if you’re on your phone the whole time, you’ll miss out on what’s important. Focus on the guests who have come to celebrate with you. You can always hire a social media wedding manager (yes, they exist!) to keep your social networks updated throughout the day so you won’t have to. Spread the word about your hashtag. Tie it into your invitations and wedding website in a creative way. The majority of your guests are familiar with hashtags and know how to use them, so you shouldn’t feel weird about putting one out there. Think of ways you can include it in your paper elements in a pretty or witty way, like asking guests to share photos of themselves wearing custom temporary tattoos you send along with the savethe-dates. Letting your guests know ahead of time is crucial to having a successful, full feed of photos.

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Send out traditional paper invites for the main event. Email invites are totally okay for pre- and postwedding parties, but paper invites are the way to go for the actual wedding (a Facebook event is not a wedding invitation). In today’s technology-based world, in which your guests receive hundreds of emails a day, a physical invite has become so much more special. That doesn’t mean you have to go over-the-top with one that sings and shoots confetti. Simple card stock and laser printing will do the trick. A paperless invite for the rehearsal dinner or morning-after brunch is a great option (especially if you want to cut down on stationery costs). Just because the invites are electronic doesn’t mean they won’t have style. There are plenty of sites, such as Paperless Post, that let you customize e-invites so they look beautiful and unique. Keep your public posts positive. Confront issues directly and privately via phone or in person. We know wedding planning can be stressful at times, but before you post that status venting about all the guests who RSVP’d for too many people or complain about your future mother-in-law, pause for a second and think. Posting something negative about your wedding (even if you don’t call out a person specifically) will only lead to hurt feelings. Instead, politely address each situation directly as it comes your way. That means picking up the phone and explaining to your guest that you don’t have enough room or budget for extra people, and asking your partner to have a conversation with his mom about her all-white wedding ensemble. Trust us—“good vibes only” is the mantra for the day. >>

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Change your relationship status in minutes or months— it’s up to you. There’s no wrong or right time—some couples even do it at the altar! Once you tie the knot, you and your new spouse can decide when to change your relationship status or last name on your social media platforms. For some couples, this can be a very important moment; for others, it’s no big deal. So if and when you’re ready to make the change, go for it.

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if you’re going to a wedding Wait to publicly post your congratulations. If the couple hasn’t made the announcement, then you shouldn’t spill the beans first. It’s exciting when you’re the first to find out your best friend or sister is getting married, but hold off on the public congrats until they’re ready to share the news themselves. They might be waiting for an important reason (like they haven’t even told their parents yet), and there could be hard feelings involved if others find out they weren’t in the know first.

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Private message any wedding planning questions. Otherwise, it can be awkward for the couple’s other Facebook friends who weren’t invited. If you want to discuss wedding plans with the couple, it’s polite to do so in a private way. The couple may have hundreds of Facebook friends who aren’t on the guest list, and it’s not fair if every detail comes up on their news feed. Some couples love to share wedding planning details, and they’ll appreciate a friendly ear to listen if you call to find out how it’s going. This is a busy time for them too, so don’t be offended if they don’t keep you up to date on everything. Share pics of the couple. But respect their request if they ask you not to post photos before they do. It’s great that you want to show what an amazing wedding the couple had. But they may want to wait to share photographic details of the day until they have photos from their professional photographer, or might opt for an unplugged wedding. If you’re worried about whether you’re in the clear with posting photos, wait until a close family member or friend of the couple does so first. Then you’ll know it’s okay to post.

Leave the phone in your purse or pocket. Posting occasionally is okay, but the couple invited you to celebrate their day, not sit there on your phone. They spent a lot of time planning an event you would enjoy, so don’t spend the entire time on your phone documenting the wedding on Instagram Stories—go have some fun. It’s okay to share the love a few times, but you shouldn’t opt out of hitting the dance floor in favor of tweeting a play-by-play. Plus, having a phone out all the time can get in the way of professional photos, and no one wants to look back on their wedding to see a guest more engaged with a device than their reception. Follow directions for the RSVP. The couple’s inboxes are already full of wedding-related details, so a Facebook message, text, email or private message is likely to get lost in the mix. Most paper invitations will include an RSVP card with an addressed envelope to mail it back, and couples will look for and expect responses that way (and before the deadline). If you lose the card, then it’s okay to call and find out how the couple would prefer you to RSVP. Stay clear of the professional wedding photographer. Take as many photos as you please, but don’t let snapping pics on your smartphone get in the photographer’s way. Be mindful of the photographer and videographer the couple has hired to take photos of their wedding, especially during the ceremony. A good rule of thumb is to stay seated during the ceremony (and no leaning into the aisle or raising your phone way over your head either). Standing up or moving around can be distracting to the officiant, get in the way of the pros and ruin the view for other guests. Find more etiquette tips at TheKnot.com/planning

wedding hashtag 101 Follow these five steps to craft your own personalized hashtag.

start with your name

Use your first, last and nicknames as your starting point. Remember that cutesy mash-up name that your friends gave you guys in college? This is the time to embrace it, plus it’ll be easy to remember.

use numbers to set yours apart

If your names are common or you can’t come up with anything witty, using the year or date of your wedding is an easy way to make it yours. Take #JackandJill and turn it into #JackandJill121617.

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get punny

This is one part of your wedding you can really have fun with, especially when it comes to wordplay. Look for alliterations, rhymes, synonyms and puns for a hashtag that’s clever and memorable.

avoid easy misspellings

Read over your hashtag for any obvious ways it could be misspelled by your guests. With repetitive letters, for example, it could be as simple as flipping #saraanddave to #daveandsara.

capitalize the first letter of each word

This will help guests see where each word starts and ends, and it’ll make them more likely to get your joke or pun. With or without the capitalization, your hashtag will work the same either way.

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13 essential planning tips

Cover all your bases with expert advice no soon-to-be-wed should be without. PHOTOGRAPH BY BIRDS OF A FEATHER

When planning your wedding, there are things that are nice to know, and then there are things you really need to know. If youâ&#x20AC;&#x2122;re worried you missed something (or even if youâ&#x20AC;&#x2122;ve got everything under control), check out our planning advice and put your mind at ease. >>

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put guests first Settle on the approximate number of guests you’ll invite before selecting a venue. This will ensure there’s ample space for your crew. As a rule of thumb, allow for 25 to 30 square feet per guest. That may seem like a lot, but it’s not if you count the space you’ll need for the tables, bustling waiters, the band and a dance floor. Nobody wants to feel cramped or overheated.

listen to mother nature Heed the weather and other potential annoyances. Guests have been known to skip out early from hotter-than-hot summer weddings and improperly heated winter receptions. Be prepared. Bugs (gnats, flies and mosquitos) also swarm during certain seasons. Consider renting pest control tanks to alleviate the problem or including bug repellent in restroom amenities.

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manage the mail Of course you want the perfect stamps for your wedding invitations, but not all stamps are widely available at every post office, especially in large quantities. Save yourself some scouting time by ordering them online at USPS.com. Weigh your invitation with all the additional paper products before you send them so you can attach the right amount of postage. Ask your stationer about the need for additional postage for oddly shaped envelopes— and don’t forget to stamp the RSVP envelopes too.

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pay it forward Listen to your prosand one vendor can lead you to another— plus, they know what they’re talking about. Your wedding photographer can tell you which florist’s blooms really pop, and your planner should know which band will pack the dance floor.

make a meal plan Another unforeseen expense? Feeding your wedding pros. Before you sign contracts, make sure you’re not required to serve the same meal to your vendors that guests will receive. Otherwise, you could be paying for 20 additional lobster tails. Choose a less expensive (but equally hearty) meal for them instead.

get organized Compile all your correspondence with vendors, notes from meetings and photos you want them to see. Set up a special email address dedicated to your wedding. For on-the-go planning, download the Wedding Planner by The Knot app.

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prepare for rejection Generally about 20 percent of the people you invite won’t attend your wedding. It all depends on the location (destination weddings are harder to attend), how many out-of-towners are on your list and the timing of the event (some guests may have annual holiday or summer plans).

tend to your bar Typically, you need one bartender per 50 guests to keep the lines short. But if you’re serving a signature sip that can’t be mixed ahead of time (or in large quantities), consider adding an extra server. Your guests will thank you.

release rooms As soon as you’ve picked a date, start to look for hotels in a wide variety of price points. Many allow you to reserve rooms for guests under a special wedding block and a reduced rate. You can then release any unbooked rooms a month prior to your wedding. If the hotels you contact insist upon drawing up contracts with cancellation penalties, just say no—you don’t want to be responsible for rooms you can’t fill. >>

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express engagement timeline Have just five months? Here are your essential to-dos.

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keep a paper trail Get any nonstandard changes to your agreements in writing, or send the vendor a confirmation email saying, “Hello, just confirming that you’ll keep the venue open until 2 a.m. versus midnight.” Don’t just assume everything’s all set. Sometimes, by the time the actual day rolls around, your contact for a certain vendor may no longer be working there to vouch for you.

help guests pay attention Make sure your guests can both see and hear from their seats. If people are seated farther than 15 rows back from your ceremony altar, consider renting a mic or riser. This could range anywhere from $50 to $150, depending on the equipment used. You’ll need to coordinate the delivery and setup with your ceremony space too, so put your wedding planner or a wedding party member in charge of this task.

be realistic with your time When it comes down to the last month of your planning (and when you’re particularly stressed), look at your mile long to-do list and cut three things. Yes, three things. Not crucial things that you just don’t feel like doing, such as picking a processional song or confirming final details with all of your vendors. Eliminate the over-the-top tasks like hand-painting “Just Married” signs, or baking cookies for all of the welcome bags. Get more planning advice at TheKnot.com/planning

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4–5 months before ail down your date, N time and budget, and compile the guest list. Book your venue(s) and vendors (planner, florist, photographer, band). Find flower alternatives (in your price range) if a specific bloom is unavailable on your wedding day; include unacceptable substitutions, if any. Choose your dress (off the rack). Order invites, and give travelers the date.

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egister and shop for R wedding rings. Book your rehearsal dinner space. Plan the ceremony with your officiant.

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S end out invitations. Book the honeymoon. Hire hair and makeup artists.

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ut the seating P chart together. Prepare your wedding toasts. Place cash tips for vendors in envelopes. Apply for your marriage license together. Have your dress pressed or steamed. Confirm vendor orders/delivery details. Get a mani-pedi. Give your officiant your marriage license. Rehearse the ceremony. LENS CAP PRODUCTIONS

learn about marriage licenses You can check your state’s license requirements online, but confirm with a call to the county clerk’s office to see when they’re open. Even if it’s from 9 a.m. to 5 p.m., it may issue marriage licenses only during slower times like, say, Thursdays from 2 p.m. to 3 p.m. Give a copy of your marriage license to your officiant or honor attendant (just in case you lose yours during the final days before your wedding).

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Once you’ve narrowed down your list to two or three potential photographers, meet with each in person to see if you feel comfortable with them. We can’t stress enough how important this is—almost as crucial as their camera skills. Aside from your gut instinct, ask these questions before signing a contract.

style and background What photography style(s) do you specialize in? Are there any styles you don’t do? Most shooters use a blend of several, but make sure they shoot portraits, for example, if they’re important to you. WHY YOU WANT TO KNOW You wouldn’t ask Monet to paint a Picasso, right? Going with the style a photographer likes to shoot (and has the most experience shooting) will give you the best results.

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Will the photos be retouched and color balanced? Is that done before I see the proofs? These are the techniques that professionals use to digitally enhance your photographs and make them look perfect. WHY YOU WANT TO KNOW Some photographers will polish up all your photos before you see them for the first time, while others will show you unretouched proofs of the images and work their magic only on the ones you order. How many weddings have you shot in your career, and about how many do you do in a year? Your photographer should do this for a living and edit photos in a timely manner. Don’t pick a friend who takes pictures as a hobby. WHY YOU WANT TO KNOW You have one chance to get amazing photos, so you’ll want a pro who can take them under pressure.

Do you shoot both digital and film? Which do you prefer? While digital is more common today, film has had a resurgence. If you want the latter, be sure your photographer has the relevant experience and technical skills required to execute this format. WHY YOU WANT TO KNOW If you’re obsessed with the quality of film, go with a pro in this medium. And let him know how many photos you want taken with film—all of them or just the ceremony. Do you usually shoot film in both color and black and white? What percentage of each do you recommend? Digital photos can be changed from color to black and white with just a click, but film needs to be specified before shooting. WHY YOU WANT TO KNOW These days, most shooters will do a mix of both color and black-and-white photography. You’ll get a sense of their style and how your album might look by asking what balance they prefer. >>

find your wedding photography style Brush up on your photography terms.

artistic

The photographer’s original take allows for a different perspective (like the couple not looking at the camera, for example). If you want something unique, go with a pro who’s eager to use a little artistic freedom.

dramatic

Lighting, especially using an off-camera flash, is a key component of dramatic photography. If the sun isn’t cooperating, the photographer will use specialized lighting equipment to capture the same gorgeous effect.

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lifestyle

This take on wedding photography is mostly candid with some direction and style—the end result is beautiful but relaxed. A good photographer will look for moments but also help direct the scene.

classic

Like the ones in your parents’ wedding album, these are the images that stand the test of time— striking, gorgeous and a bit formal. Classic photos portray reality, but they’re infused with the shooter’s artistic license too.

documentary

Rather than posed shots, documentary photography captures candid or spontaneous pictures of people, décor and action in the moment. These shots feel intimate and “real,” the opposite of classic style.

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shooters Will you be my actual photographer, or will one of your associates shoot my wedding? Don’t assume Taylor of Taylor Photography will be taking your photos. Make sure the actual photographer is specified. WHY YOU WANT TO KNOW Taylor’s partner Stacey may be just as good (or even better!), but you’ll want to meet with her and see her photos so you know exactly what you’ll be getting. Do you have backup photographers who will shoot the wedding if you’re sick? You have a contingency plan in case of rain, right? Well, you’ll need one in case your photographer comes down with the flu as well. WHY YOU WANT TO KNOW If you’re going with a larger company that employs a team of photographers, you’ll have a built-in backup shooter. But if you’re going with a solo photographer, ask if she has colleagues on call in case of an emergency.

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fees What exactly is included in your packages? When comparing fees, check whether prints, albums, proofs and extra coverage (such as engagement shoots) are covered. WHY YOU WANT TO KNOW These differences can alter the costs significantly. It’s not necessarily a bad thing if, say, your album isn’t included—you can always buy it à la carte—but you want to be sure you’re comparing apples to apples to get the best value. If you’re having your shooter use film, ask about cost and processing fees. How many hours of coverage do we get? What’s the charge for overtime in case we need you longer? While photographers almost always charge by the day, the number of hours that gets you will vary. WHY YOU WANT TO KNOW If you have six hours of coverage but your photographer charges a huge hourly rate for overtime, you might have them leave after you cut the cake instead of after the last dance. Or you may opt for a longer package to pay a little more up front (and avoid the larger hourly overtime rate later). What’s the deposit and total fee? You’ll owe a percentage up front and the balance at a later date. WHY YOU WANT TO KNOW In addition to these numbers, you should also ask when all the payments are due.

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Will there be a second shooter or any assistants? If the answer is yes, you’ll want to ask about any additional fees. WHY YOU WANT TO KNOW Second shooters can give you two perspectives on big moments (for instance, one can photograph you two exchanging vows while the other can simultaneously capture your parents’ teary reactions). But this may cost you extra.

logistics How long after the wedding day does it take for us to see all of the photos? Most photographers will offer a sneak peek a couple of days or weeks after the wedding, but the rest will take a few months. WHY YOU WANT TO KNOW You’ll want to see photos ASAP and the wait can be agonizing, so it’s good to manage expectations. How do you coordinate with my videographer? If you haven’t hired a videographer yet, ask the photographer you’re interviewing for suggestions. There’s a good chance they’ve worked with certain videographers at events in the past. WHY YOU WANT TO KNOW This pair will need to coordinate and stay out of each other’s way—easier to do if they have a good rapport. How many weddings do you shoot a weekend? It isn’t uncommon for photographers to work multiple events on the same day, especially during high wedding season. WHY YOU WANT TO KNOW For instance, if your photographer is shooting an afternoon wedding before your evening affair, you’ll need to work out a plan if the first event runs over. >>

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Have you ever shot at my venue(s) before? If they haven’t photographed a wedding or other event in your venue, they should be willing to check it out beforehand. WHY YOU WANT TO KNOW Your shooter should be aware of any lighting needs or issues specific to the space ahead of time. Will you be following a shot list? Or do you prefer to have free rein to capture the festivities how you see fit? If they have a standard shot list, take a look at it ahead of time and add any must-haves that aren’t included. WHY YOU WANT TO KNOW You want to make sure you get the special pics you need. But keep in mind that you’re hiring the photographer for their eye as well as their experience creating amazing albums. Try not to overwhelm them with requests.

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“Make sure you love your photographer’s aesthetic and personality. The better the connection, the better the images.” —Ashley Fisher of Ashley Fisher Photography in St. Louis

What type of paper will you use for the prints and album? You want these photos to last for generations to come, without worrying about fading and any other problems. WHY YOU WANT TO KNOW The answer should be acid-free, archival-quality paper, which will stand the test of time. Will we own the copyright to our photos? In other words, are there restrictions for sharing photos online, having photos printed or an album put together by another source? WHY YOU WANT TO KNOW Most contracts stipulate that the photographer owns the rights to all of the photos, which restricts you from posting them without permission—even on social media. Do you bring your own lighting? Your venue’s lighting may not be the best, even if it’s hosted weddings. WHY YOU WANT TO KNOW You may need to supply additional lighting or special features (to give a dimly lit room an extra boost)—and check that the equipment won’t be too obtrusive. Get more photo tips at TheKnot.com/planning

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look amazing in your wedding photos Be ready for your close-up—instantly.

practice smiling

Taking selfies for Snapchat isn’t the only way to practice your best smile. Got a favorite photo of yourself? Tape it to your mirror and perfect the expression.

get your look down pat

Book hair and makeup trials, and take practice photos to see how different looks translate into pictures.

close your eyes

Quickly closing your eyes, and then opening them slowly when you hear “Say ‘cheese’” will help you look relaxed and natural—and prevent you from blinking.

keep your chin down

strike a red-carpet pose

Here’s a secret straight from Hollywood: Looking thin on camera isn’t only due to diet and exercise. Angle your body three-quarters of the way toward the camera, with one foot in front of the other and your weight on your back foot.

stand up straight

We know—we sound like your mother. But standing up straight with your belly button tucked in and your shoulders back will help you look tall and relaxed.

loosen your arms Leaving a little space between your torso and your arms make both look smaller.

Want instantly larger eyes? Tip your chin down slightly and look up at the lens for immediate enlargement.

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Wedding videography packages range from $1,000 to more than $15,000, and the styles are just as varied. These tips will help you find the perfect pro to create a video so good youâ&#x20AC;&#x2122;ll watch it on repeat well past your first anniversary. >> BY RACHEL TORGERSON PHOTOGRAPHY BY WENDY LAUREL

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hire the person whose style most closely matches your own Just like photographers, videographers take different approaches to their craft. Documentary-style videos present the events chronologically, without special effects, while a cinematic film is more dramatic, using interesting angles for a Hollywood-movie feel (these are just two options of many). Do your research and watch several different wedding videos (most videographers will have samples on their websites) to get a feel for the different styles and which one you like best. Remember: You want to hire a videographer that already shoots in that particular style. THE KNOT TIP: You can find thousands of amazing wedding pros on TheKnot.com/marketplace, complete with customer reviews.

take finding a videographer as seriously as you do your photographer Unfortunately, hiring a videographer seems to get pushed back somewhere between welcome bags and favors—and it’s just too important for that C-list slot on your long list of wedding to-dos. If you know you want to hire a videographer to capture your day, this pro should be on the top of your priority list, along with finding your photographer. Wait too long and you likely won’t be able to hire your first pick. THE KNOT TIP: Planning ahead always pays off, so set aside money in your budget for your videographer from the beginning. If you make videography a priority, you’ll see it in the end result—a film of your wedding day that comes out even better than you imagined.

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go pro

Like your photographer, choose a professional wedding videographer—not a friend with a steady hand who loves videography.

subscribe to vimeo There are plenty of places to find wedding videographers (like TheKnot.com/marketplace), but Vimeo is the preferred spot for most A-list picks to post their recent work. Aside from the large videography community, you can easily search by location and even wedding venue to find clips from your reception spot and get ideas. THE KNOT TIP: Not all wedding videos are created equal. When you’re watching sample videos, there are a few things to look for. A good film will be well lit, have easy-to-understand audio and appropriate music, and it will be edited so that transitions are smooth and special effects complement the story.

embrace the professional referral factor People like your photographer and wedding planner have worked with videographers in the past with previous clients and will be able to suggest filmmakers they’ve liked. THE KNOT TIP: Many photography studios also offer videography, and it usually makes sense to book a package for both. A pair of pros from the same company will have an easy working rapport. >>

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seek out reviews Even if you feel like you’ve found the perfect fit after leaving the studio, you should still do your due diligence and read reviews online as well as call references. Ask questions like: Did he capture the most important parts of your wedding? Was she a positive presence throughout the day? Did anything go wrong? Overall, were you happy with the final film? THE KNOT TIP: Keep in mind that if the reference was married a year or more ago, things that seemed like a big deal then could matter less now. It’s a red flag if the couple starts out a sentence like, “The video came out great, but…” They may not care now that the videographer showed up late, but you should be wary.

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You need to feel at ease with your videographer. (They’ll be following you around on your wedding day, after all.) It’s best to meet them in person, but FaceTime or Skype also works well in a pinch. Once you’ve met with a few potential pros, ask to see a full video or two (clips only tell part of the story, and you want to know what your entire film might look like). THE KNOT TIP: Finding the right person also means asking the important questions. Be sure to make a list of what you want. >>

10 questions to ask before booking a videographer These key points are musts.

• What’s your style: cinematic, documentary, classic or a mix?

• Have you done many weddings before? Can I see samples of other weddings you’ve done?

great sound quality? What kind of mics do you use during the ceremony? (A wireless mic is sometimes hidden just under the groom’s boutonniere.)

• What types of videos • Have you ever shot a wedding at my specific ceremony or reception site? Can I see clips?

• How do you coordinate with a wedding photographer? (It’s a plus if you can find shooters who’ve worked together before, and some studios have teams who work in tandem.)

• Will you be the one shooting my wedding? If not, can I speak to whomever will be the shooter on the day and see their clips?

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• How will you ensure

(trailer, highlight roll, and so on) do you offer, and which do you recommend?

• Will you bring in your own lighting, or will I need to arrange a lighting specialist and have them coordinate with you?

• What kind of special effects do you like to use for weddings, and what are the benefits of using them?

• Can you provide me with a price list and talk me through exactly how you charge for your services?

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get the most out of your contract

don’t micromanage

Your contract should include the coverage time (as in, how long your videographer will be at your venue), how many shooters you’ll have, an itemized list of the finished product (highlight reels, trailers, digital media files), nitty-gritty logistic details (time and location), cancellation policies and, of course, the fee. If it’s not outlined in the contract, don’t assume you’re going to get it. Any extras, like an engagement video session or same-day edit, need to be in there too. If they’re not and you want them, ask about them. THE KNOT TIP: Double-check that your package includes the important things: a second shooter (so your video can be edited to include at least two perspectives, like your walk down the aisle and your partner’s face), an edited video between 5 and 25 minutes long and coverage of both the ceremony and reception.

You’re hiring someone for their experience and talent (not just their equipment). Trust your decision. On the day of, you shouldn’t feel like you need to direct them or keep your eye on them. If you’ve truly done your research and fully vetted your videographer, you should have complete confidence in them. THE KNOT TIP: If you love your video, share your experience with other couples by posting a review and offering to sign on as a reference. It’s important to be timely (when the day is fresh in your mind—your videographer will appreciate it) and be specific (other couples will love knowing that your videographer caught your grandma having a sweet dance with her grandchildren). Find videographers in your area at TheKnot.com/marketplace

quality assurance The latest tech improvements to make your video look better.

high-definition

High-definition, or HD, resolution makes videos clearer. By now, all videographers have updated their equipment to shoot in a wider aspect ratio, 16:9, because when the older 4:3 video is played on HDTVs, everyone filmed looks short, stubby and probably 10 pounds heavier.

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combining video and photography

Some videographers are now offering both because of the quality of still images taken using high-resolution, high-definition digital video cameras. In this case, hire an all-encompassing “digital imager” to cover photography and videography.

light-sensitive cameras

Using these cameras means there’s no need for harsh, bright light in people’s faces that can be distracting, especially in a dimly lit space. Unexpected bonus: It makes everyone much less camera shy, so you get to record more candid videos with more natural reactions.

smaller cameras

Many videographers say the best moments are usually captured when the couple isn’t aware of the camera, which is why the more discreet the videographer is and the smaller the camera, the better. Don’t you love the fact that even the tiniest cameras can deliver top-notch HD videos?

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foodie faves that ship nationwide

Add a little regional, hometown flair to your wedding, no matter where you say “I do.” >>

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ben's chili bowl Open since 1958, this DC landmark on U Street is home to some seriously legendary secret-recipe chili, half-smoke hot dogs, burgers and other diner-style fare for a fun, throwback vibe. HOW TO GET IT: Meat, chili and sauces are shipped via FedEx 2Day and FedEx Home Delivery from $10 to $75, and products range from $40 to $160 per pack and pint. WHERE TO GET IT: BensChiliBowl.com

texas the salt lick Texans don't mess around when it comes to barbecue—and most will agree that The Salt Lick, based in Driftwood, Texas, is the can’t-miss spot for pit-smoked brisket, ribs and other meats (the recipes date back to the mid-1800s). HOW TO GET IT: Different barbecue packages start at $35 and are shipped via UPS Next Day and 2nd Day Air. Shipping cost is calculated according to the weight of the product and the shipping zip code. WHERE TO GET IT: SaltLickBBQ.com

illinois giordano's If thin-crust pizza isn't going to cut it with your after-party crowd, let Giordano's deep-dish, stuffed pies take the lead. Its famous Chicago-style pizzas offer cheese, pepperoni, sausage and spinach topping choices. You can even order a heart-shaped pie! HOW TO GET IT: Pizzas are priced from $65 for a 2-pack to $119 for a 6-pack, including shipping charges for FedEx Ground (additional charges will apply for FedEx Express). WHERE TO GET IT: Giordanos.com >>

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raising the food bar Live preparation stations are as entertaining (and on trend) as they are delicious.

raw bar

Oysters are shucked and kept on ice. This is an equally appropriate option for a seaside soiree or formal fete.

pasta station

Guests choose their sauce (marinara, vodka, Bolognese) and watch as their pasta is tossed just for them with tasty mix-ins like caramelized onions, roasted veggies and fresh basil.

waffle stand

This breakfast dish is made to order, with tasty add-ins. Blueberries, chocolate chips, walnuts, raspberry syrup and whipped cream, anyone?

sushi station

Chefs slice and assemble fresh sushi rolls from maki to tuna, paired with ginger and fresh wasabi.

crepe table

Your guests will love sweet (from sugar to dark chocolate) and savory (like smoked ham and swiss or tomato and mozzarella) crepes.

s’mores bar

Along with the traditional graham crackers, marshmallows and chocolate, consider a spread of unexpected additions like farm-fresh strawberries or Nutella.

cheese table

Swiss, cheddar and mozzarella are key gotos, but take your cheese plate up a notch with artisanal flavors too. ANTONIS ACHILLEOS

milk bar Famed New York City bakery Milk Bar, founded by renowned pastry chef Christina Tosi, upped the ante for wedding cakes everywhere with its signature naked cakes in a variety of delicious flavors—chocolate chip, birthday, dulce de leche and salted pretzel are just some of the options. Can’t decide? Have a cake tasting package mailed to you and try them all. HOW TO GET IT: Cakes are shipped via UPS Next Day Air with a $250 handling fee and an overnight shipping fee (typically $100 to $200), and range in price from $400 to $1,200, depending on the size and number of tiers. WHERE TO GET IT: MilkBarStore.com

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maine hancock gourmet lobster co. It doesn't have to be summer to enjoy a lobster roll—Hancock Gourmet Lobster Co. ships the iconic Maine treat fresh year-round. Lobster pot pies and lobster mac and cheese can be sent too. HOW TO GET IT: Lobster products, from $40, are usually shipped via UPS 2nd Day Air with various charges. Large orders (20+ cases) are shipped by frozen truck. WHERE TO GET IT: HancockGourmetLobster.com

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questions for the caterer Ask these questions before you book your food pro.

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• Do you have a license?

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Showing your hometown or college state pride is a unique way to personalize your wedding, and what better way to do it than with food?

louisiana louisiana crawfish company Order live crawfish (or the pre-boiled and seasoned variety) from the Louisiana Crawfish Company for a true Cajun-style feast. HOW TO GET IT: Shipping is via FedEx and UPS or through cargo with Southwest Airlines for an airport pickup. Pricing is based on volume and season. WHERE TO GET IT: LACrawfish.com

oregon sterling coffee roasters Add some signature Portland java to your brunch from Sterling Coffee Roasters coffeehouse. The beans represent a true Pacific Northwest style of coffee that’s light to medium with a sweet finish. HOW TO GET IT: Shipping is free via USPS Priority Mail, with coffee ranging from $13 to $17 per 10-ounce bag. WHERE TO GET IT: Sterling.Coffee Find your caterer at TheKnot.com/marketplace

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(This means the caterer has met local health-department standards and carries liability insurance.) • Are there any limits my reception site imposes on the menu? • How many events will you handle during my wedding weekend?

food & service

• Do you supply tables,

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logistics

• W hen is the tasting? • What are the setup and breakdown costs?

• What do you and your staff wear?

• How much time do you need to set up? • Do you set out place cards and menus? • On the day, who oversees it all? • Do you arrange the food prettily on plates and at the buffet?

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chairs, plates, napkins, silverware, and salt and pepper shakers? Is there an extra charge? Do you provide waitstaff? How many waiters are included? If you provide a bar, what sorts of packages are offered? How many bartenders are included? What’s the fee for extras? (Aim for four cocktail waiters for every 100 guests and two bartenders for around 80 guests.) Do you provide alcohol or do we need to handle the bar separately? Can I supply my own alcohol? Is there a fee (like corkage) for it? Do you provide a wedding cake, and if so, do you have a portfolio of designs? How many appetizer and entrée choices are included in the package?

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The music is definitely one aspect of your day you don’t want to overlook—and we’re here to help. BY SIMONE HILL PHOTOGRAPH BY JILLIAN MITCHELL

Whether you consider yourselves music people or not, the tunes at your wedding are super-important—and a great band or DJ can be the difference between a fun wedding and an unforgettable one. Avoid these mistakes and you’re guaranteed to have a packed dance floor all night long. >>

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dismissing the idea of a band or DJ This is your first music decision to make, and it’ll narrow down your options by half. Love live music and have a bigger budget? A band might be your preferred pick. Have less to spend or dozens of songs you’d like played perfectly (in other words, exactly how they sound on Spotify)? A DJ could be your best bet. But don’t dismiss either because you think a band will automatically be out of your budget or a DJ will be cheesy. MUSIC MUST Do your research (check out amazing DJs and bands at TheKnot.com or Gigmasters.com to get started) and get recommendations from friends. You’ll see there’s a lot of variety— from mash-up artists to barbershop quartets—among both types of entertainers. You may want even want to hire a band and a DJ.

starting the ceremony in silence Most guests will arrive 20 to 30 minutes before the ceremony starts, but the wait will seem a lot longer if they have to sit there in silence. Book your ceremony musicians to start no later than 20 minutes before you begin. MUSIC MUST Having music before and during the ceremony will also help signal to guests when it’s time to be seated or be quiet by upping the volume or tempo.

Getting married in a house of worship? When it comes to ceremony music, many churches, synagogues and other religious institutions have rules that could affect your choice of ceremony tunes, like prohibiting certain secular songs. It may be your wedding day, but unfortunately it’s not technically your church, so you’ll have to respect the regulations. MUSIC MUST It’s a good idea to speak to your officiant before you book musicians to play a classical version of The Beatles’s “All You Need Is Love” composed for your ceremony and can’t get your deposit back.

skipping a sound check Depending on your venue, there may be limitations (like power supply, sound amplification or certain time-of-day restrictions) to the type of music you can have. Even without regulations, it’s still a good idea to ask your venue manager what type of music typically works best for that space (for example, a soloist may feel tiny for your grand ballroom reception, or a six-piece band may crowd the dance floor). MUSIC MUST Plan for your band or DJ to do a walk-through if they haven’t worked in the space before. While you might not realize that crashing waves could easily drown out a string quartet or trio of flutes, a pro can solve any situation with a sound check.

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Want to know exactly what your music might sound like in real life, rather than a recorded sample? Take in a live performance. Checking this task off your list can actually be a lot of fun. Go to a showcase if that’s an option. Make dinner reservations, grab your fiancé and make a date night of it. While you’re there, notice not just the tunes, but also how the band or DJ emcees, whether they take requests and how well they get the audience going. If possible, talk to the DJ or bandleader at some point, or set up another time to meet face-to-face. This person will be your emcee, so you want to have an easy rapport. MUSIC MUST Make a note of the names of the particular musicians or DJs you like, so you’ll be sure to book the same exact people for your party.

forgetting to talk through your selected songs Don’t assume your band knows how to play the most important songs of the night—we’re talking your first dance number and any songs for the dances you’ll both have with your parents—or the DJ has them in their set list. If it’s a band, talk to them before you book, since they may have to learn a song or two. MUSIC MUST If they’re missing some of your favorites from their repertoire, ask whether there are any fees associated with adding them. >>

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Sit down with your soon-to-be spouse and go through your favorite songs together to create must-play and do-not-play lists. If you decide to use a band instead of a DJ, give them plenty of time to review your picks, in case they have to add a track to their mix. Once you’ve handed over the lists, leave the rest up to the pros. And be careful not to micromanage (that’s why you hired them). MUSIC MUST If your must-play list gets too long (say, more than 10 songs), create a third list. This can be more of a wish list of songs you’d like to be played only if your guests respond positively to them.

playing explicit songs before the after-party You won’t be able to please everyone, but ask that your DJ or band keep it at least PG-13 during the reception. When it’s just you, your college besties and adult cousins at the after-party, feel free to play the songs that weren’t appropriate while your grandparents, toddler nieces and boss were around earlier in the night. MUSIC MUST Beyond blatant profanity, really consider the song’s lyrics and meaning. There may be a very innocent inside joke behind your choice of a raunchy song, but most guests will be on the outside—including your cute little flower girl.

sticking to one genre You both may love ’90s grunge, but five full hours of Nirvana might drive some guests to leave early. You’re sharing this day with family and friends, so save your more obscure favorites for the honeymoon playlist and let your band or DJ play a mix of songs that everyone can enjoy. MUSIC MUST Give your parents a shout-out with their favorites. Seeing them enjoy the night will be well worth a few classics. Get more music tips at TheKnot.com/music

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DJ vs. band Not sure which will set your reception off on the right note?

go with a DJ if… YOU WANT A TON OF VARIETY

DJs have the whole world of music at their fingertips. A great band will know a ton of songs, but a DJ has fewer limitations. YOU’RE ON A LIMITED BUDGET

DJs generally cost less—especially when compared with a larger band. YOU HAVE A SMALL SPACE

A large band will take up a more sizeable area than a DJ. If you have a small section for musicians, a DJ may be a safer selection. YOU WANT THE SONGS TO SOUND EXACTLY LIKE YOU KNOW THEM

Not only will DJs have access to any song you could want, they’ll also be able to play them perfectly every single time.

go with a band if… YOU WANT AN ELEVATED VIBE

Live music creates an atmosphere that most DJs aren’t able to replicate with prerecorded tunes. YOU WANT A SPECIFIC MUSIC STYLE

A 1950s band, for example, will provide a perfect soundtrack for a retro-chic affair. YOU WANT TO ALTER SONGS

Have a favorite pop song you want to slow down for your father-daughter dance? A band can probably help you do this, while a DJ has to work with what artists have already created. YOU REALLY, REALLY LOVE MUSIC

If you’re always going to concerts or are musicians yourselves, live music can’t be beat by even the most talented DJ.

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Your reception isn’t the place for nightclub-level volume. It’ll only frustrate your older family members and make it tough for them to talk to one another and enjoy the party. And you don’t want your guests to wake up with sore throats from having to yell to each other all night. MUSIC MUST When going over your timeline with your DJ, you can make volume requests. Ask for low volume during cocktail hour and dinner (like instrumentals and soft ballads) and louder for dancing and the final song (yes, you can go all out for “Sweet Caroline”). On the wedding day, ask a bridesmaid or your day-of consultant to keep volume on their radar and alert the band or DJ if there are any issues.

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Talk to anyone who’s gone through it before and they’ll tell you that your wedding day absolutely flies by. You’ll be so busy going from one thing to the next that before you know it, you’ll be cutting the cake. Besides the logistics—review every vendor contract point and make sure to pack a stain remover—there are so many intangible, special moments that make up the wedding day itself. These are just some of the surprises and truths that may happen on the day of that no one can prepare you for.

you’ll definitely cry Okay, this one might not be such a secret. What is it about weddings that makes everyone so teary? All we can say is crying is basically inevitable. And since you already know the waterworks are coming, the best thing to do is be prepared. Wear waterproof makeup (or even get eyelash extensions), keep some mascara and lipstick readily available for quick touch-ups, and store some tissues nearby—you’ll need them.

ten minutes before the ceremony is the most nerve-racking part of the day The time leading up to the walk down the aisle will involve the most jittery moments you’ll ever experience. And it makes sense: You’re about to make a life-changing decision in front of all the people you love and care about the most. Just remember that your other half is waiting for you at the end of the journey, and you’re going to have a huge party to celebrate (not to mention the reason why you said “yes” in the first place).

your face will hurt from smiling so much Thousands of pictures aside, you’ll be smiling all day because it’s going to be the best day ever. You’re marrying your best friend, after all. Between finally “making it official” with your partner and dancing all night with your friends and family members, there’s literally no reason to frown (even if it rains).

the ceremony will be the best part There’s something truly amazing about the wedding ceremony. The traditions, the vows and all your friends and family members combined will make this one of the most emotional moments of your life. Our advice? Take it all in and savor it. You’ll want these memories to last a lifetime.

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you’ll be amazed by the love and support of your family and friends They all showed up for one reason—you. You and your soonto-be spouse will get all—and we really mean all—of the attention. You may not even be able to eat dinner, since you’ll have so many people to talk to and so many pictures to take. Between the pinches on the cheek from your grandma and the bear hugs from your college pals, you’ll be overcome by the love, support and happiness of those around you. >>

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you’ll want a little alone time In fact, you might be so overwhelmed that you may want to take a few moments just for you, or the two of you. Some of the most special minutes of the day are the few you get to spend alone—getting excited for what’s to come—or together with your new spouse, taking it all in. Try a time-out, post vows. you’ll be exhausted... But you won’t care. You may not get too much sleep the night before your wedding, between any last-minute stress over the seating chart or just overall excitement for the day to come. Exhaustion is inevitable, but you’ll find a way to soldier on and sleep when you can. (Under-eye concealer will be your best friend.)

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the most magical moment will be when you least expect it We promise that the most special moment of the day or weekend is going to be something you never expected. A stolen minute or two with your soon-to-be spouse, a gift from your dad or an impromptu speech could end up meaning the world to you. it won’t all go as planned Something might end up going wrong. It could be little or it could be big, but our best advice is to think of the big picture. Can you solve this problem easily? Does it make a huge difference in the long run? Are your guests still having fun? Are you having fun? If these questions are easily answered, then don’t sweat it—just keep enjoying your celebration, and delegate tasks to planners and relatives so you don’t have to deal with drama. you’ll feel different Even if you and your other half have been living together for years, once you’re legally wed, things will feel official. It could just be a slight shift or a more noticeable change, but it will definitely seem like the real deal—because it is. Find more planning advice at TheKnot.com/planning

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family feels Expect these people to be emotional on your day.

your parents

Your wedding means a lot to your parents. Whether they played a large or small role in your life, no parent is ever fully prepared for the day their child gets married. While you’ll always be a part of their family, you’ll be starting your own family too.

grandparents

Grandparents have a special place in their heart for their grandkids, so don’t forget to give them a little extra love and attention throughout planning and on your wedding day.

children

Bringing kids into a marriage creates an entirely new vibe—your child might not feel like they’re the most important person in your life anymore. This marriage means a new person is permanently in their lives, so they might need some time to adjust to this change.

siblings

Like your parents, siblings have a unique attachment to you, and a wedding can feel like they’re losing a member of the pack. So don’t be surprised if they’re more emotional than you expected.

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Something might end up going wrong. It could be little or it could be big, but our best advice is to soldier on and think of the big picture. Can you solve this problem easily? Does it make a huge difference in the long run?

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keep an open mind Let’s say you’re the types who just can’t bear the thought of speeding off in anything that doesn’t come with a minibar—and your local limousine service has tons of souped-up options. Take the time to test-drive other options, like a classic white Rolls-Royce, a stretch SUV and a super-luxe convertible limo-bus. And don’t think your getaway vehicle has to be white—a shiny black limo offers some snazzy appeal too.

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Not into a limo? There are lots of other options that’ll zip you off in style. You can go for something with personality—a vintage VW Microbus, a Harley-Davidson or an old-school trolley. Or slip into something a little more racy—a cherry-red Lamborghini, a jet-black Camaro SS or a silver BMW Z3 roadster.

save in sneaky ways You don’t have to blow your budget to ride in style. For example, think about renting a car for only a one-way trip. If you’re making a grand entrance, rent a vehicle for the arrival and drive your own wheels home. On a similar note, if you’re going to take off with the whole party watching, it’s fun to get a fancy set of wheels for the farewell. Save by signing up for an hourly rate, rather than an entire evening. That way, you’ll pay for the car and driver combo only when it’s actually being used—and not when it’s just sitting idly in the parking lot at the reception.

know the owner Trust us: It’s a good idea to know who actually owns the vehicle you’re renting. If the transportation company you’re dealing with doesn’t have the car you’re looking for, they might “borrow” a car from another vendor (and basically pay them a rental fee). Since you’re one more vendor away from the wedding car of your dreams, there’s a possibility for lateness or, even worse, a no-show—and that’s the last thing you need to be worrying about before saying “I do.” If you have your heart set on a particular car, you’ll be better off finding a vendor that owns the one you’ve got in mind. >>

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what’s your ride? Find the wheels that suit your style.

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Modern and understated chic characterize you and your partner’s style best. Both of you are always ahead of the trend. Rent a car that’s a little out of the ordinary but streamlined enough to fit your style, such as an Audi convertible, a VW bug or even a Vespa for some cute exit photos.

vintage truck

As a couple who loves a good time, what’s the last thing you want? Fuss. A turquoise vintage truck for a casual wedding will speak volumes about your style. You could even do a tandem bicycle. Want to add a personal touch? Incorporate some fun DIY décor, like a paper garland or a few classic tin cans and streamers.

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You’re a romantic at heart, but that doesn’t mean you have to resort to a princess carriage. Instead, go for an antique car. You can find one at specialty rental car companies in your area. If that’s too much for you, then stretch out in a rented limo or a sleek black town car to take you to and from the reception.

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You’re a couple that’s certainly not afraid of flash. While we’d like to recommend a helicopter, if your budget doesn’t allow for that, choose a ride (on wheels) that will still make an impact, like a bright red sports car or a sporty SUV limo with cool lighting and a fully stocked bar. DIAMOND EYES

Many transportation companies offer more than just the wheels and will pull out all the stops for you and your partner with their wedding packages. Often, you can choose a “red-carpet treatment” in which the driver will literally roll out a red carpet to your door. You can also request that your favorite playlist be cued up in the car’s entertainment center. Many companies will also stock the vehicle with chilled champagne and snacks of your choosing.

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You shouldn’t feel limited to automobiles. For example, if you’re looking for an all-out storybook experience, go for a horse-drawn carriage. If riding the waves is more your thing, sail away on a boat or canoe. Love biking on the weekends together? Use a bicycle built for two to make your grand exit.

We never tire of saying it: Don’t even think about hiring your transportation vendor without getting everything in writing. And we mean everything: arrival time (pad an extra 20 minutes just in case); reception departure time; all relevant addresses to minimize any wrong turns; the size, color and model of the car (with the license plate number if you’ve chosen something specific); the name of the driver you want; gratuity; plus any special requests that you have (like avoiding a certain highway that’s packed at 5 p.m.). You’ll have peace of mind—and a piece of paper—to ensure it all goes smoothly.

add variety Why be a one-car couple? If you can’t decide between the stretch Hummer and a sleek Corvette, choose one to take you to the wedding and one for the ride home. Don’t think that you have to get the same type of car for everyone in the wedding party either— maybe indulge your wedding party in some 4-wheel-drive action, but have your parents roll up in a sweet midnight-blue Porsche.

take care of your guests While you’re relaxing in all-out style, let your guests in on some of the transportation fun. A luxury charter bus (which can seat up to 75) has become a popular—not to mention a super-safe—way to transport family and friends between the ceremony and reception. There’s no drinking-and-driving worries, and no guests will get lost between the two locations, which could hold things up for your reception dinner.

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stock the car If you’re traveling with your wedding party to your after-party, make sure the vehicle is stocked with waters, spirits and light bites to keep the festivities going. And if your exit is just the two of you, enlist a bridesmaid to assemble a small package to fortify you as you make your getaway. Have her include leftovers from dinner to eat because—trust us—you’ll be hungry (some couples barely have time to eat at their reception) and something to drink (water, soda or champagne to have a private toast). Get more transportation advice at TheKnot.com/planning

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8 wedding planning mistakes—and how to deal

Mishaps and miscommunications are inevitable while planning a wedding, so try not to sweat it. Here’s a heads-up on the most common ones so you can avoid them from the start.

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freaking out because someone else has your gown Since wedding day personalization is so important to couples, it’s easy to lose it if another pair chooses the same fashion, favors or food. But before you have a meltdown, consider a healthier way to deal. Instead of worrying about someone else’s wedding looking the same as yours, think about how to make the similar detail different. If a friend chooses the same gown as you, find accents to personalize yours. Accessorize with a brooch, add a sash, embellish the train with some embroidery or pick a unique veil to set yours apart.

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When you started planning, you thought you knew what you wanted, but after scouring Pinterest, you’ve completely changed your mind. It’s not the best realization, but don’t worry—your wedding style can still be salvageable (but it may cost you extra, contractually). Unsure about the color scheme? Work with your florist to change your bouquets and centerpieces—adding new blooms in all of your arrangements will introduce a new color throughout the room. Don’t love your linens? Spice them up with bright table runners or overlays. If you start freaking out, remember—you’re committing to your partner, not your wedding colors. >>

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We know you’re so excited to be engaged and plan an amazing wedding. You can’t wait to choose your save-the-dates, book your venue, select your flowers and taste cake flavors. But hold on—one of the most important factors that goes into wedding planning is your guest list, which essentially determines your budget. It’s what also shapes most of the other elements of your wedding, from the venue to the catering. It’s not the easiest part of planning, but you shouldn’t make any decisions before you have your list pretty firmly in place. Why? You don’t want to put down a nonrefundable deposit on a cozy restaurant room that fits 75 when your mother-in-law’s additions bump your list to over 200. Once you’ve discussed numbers with your partner and families, then you can move forward. That said, this means you and your fiancé can almost immediately start thinking about what you want the atmosphere of your wedding to be: an intimate affair with close friends and family, or a bash with 300-plus people (or maybe somewhere in the middle).

We know you’re excited to plan, but there’s only so much anyone can take when confronted with an infinite array of invitation choices and unfamiliar floral terms. In order to keep wedding talk (and potentially irritated moods) at bay, designate one night a week to sit down with your significant other and discuss every aspect of the wedding. Use this time to try to get a concrete idea of their interest in the various details. If invitation suites just aren’t their thing, resolve to leave them out of that decision. No need to drag anyone into something they don’t care about. But also listen for things they are interested in. Chances are you’ll find yourself a willing helper, at least in one area. Moving forward, try to make all other nights wedding-free. Catch up with each other, go out with friends, watch TV—anything. You’ll both be so happy to know the person you fell in love with is still there, and definitely appreciate the breather from planning.

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You’ve found the wedding dress of your dreams, but it’s not quite a perfect fit on the real-life you. If your plan is to order the dress two sizes too small and do whatever it takes to make it fit, pause for a moment. Making a commitment to exercise often and eat a nutritious diet is great at any stage in your life, not just your wedding. On the other hand, crash-dieting and chaining yourself to the treadmill for a few months is a course likely to end in disaster—and an ill-fitting gown. Instead of losing more sleep than weight, find a dress you love and order it in your current size. If you want to work on your body during your engagement, that’s great—just be sure to make your goals manageable (toning up but not dropping 20 pounds, for instance). You’re more likely to stick with a routine that doesn’t require superhuman willpower. And if you still find that you’re worried about your figure, just remember that you’re about to get married to someone who can’t get enough of the way you look right now. If you plan to lose a few extra pounds, the slow-andsteady approach will help you big time (and help you keep it off long term)—and you should do it before your second fitting. If your body goes through any big changes after that, you may be lighter, but your alterations bill could be pricey—we’re talking hundreds of dollars. Your final fitting should be for last-minute tweaks, not a total overhaul.

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doing it all yourself We love nothing more than seeing the genius projects that couples come up with to make their weddings unique—but even we have to draw the line somewhere. There’s doing it yourself, and then there’s overdoing yourself. There are plenty of benefits to DIY, but rather than taking on too many projects, pick the one or two you’re really in love with and put your resources (both mental and monetary) into making those amazing. For the others, try to find a ready-made version.

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The place cards just came back from the printer and the color of the ink is a little off from the print hue on your invites. Let’s face it—even the most perfectly planned wedding will hit a few bumps along the way. When you’ve worked so hard for months on details, it can be tough to manage when you find a flaw. The key is when you spot one, you’ll need to take a breath and think: How important is this really going to be to me in a year? Most mishaps that are causing you agitation won’t matter to you at all once you’re at your wedding. If it’s a serious snarl, deal with it. But if it’s a minor mess-up, try to move on.

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Once you’ve realized you can’t do it all yourself, you enlist someone you trust to double-check with the caterer and the florist, steam your veil and make sure the limo company has directions. Most brides turn to their moms (or sister or maid of honor) to make sure things go as planned on the actual day. These people are usually happy to help in any way they can, but don’t forget they came to celebrate with you too (and they’re working on a volunteer basis). No matter how worried you are, most wedding day (and day-before) chores can be trusted to any competent adult, and aren’t there a slew of them coming into town just for your wedding? So before you hand your mom or maid of honor a mega-task list, consider splitting jobs among a larger group of people—friends, cousins, aunts. They’ll be glad to lend a hand (and likely flattered you asked), and it’s a great way to include more people in your celebration. If you’re worried about losing track, simply take the to-do list you already have and note who’s doing what next to each task. Check in with each person at some point, then check off the chore from the list. You also have the option, if budget permits, to hire a wedding coordinator for the final weeks before the wedding (or even just the day-of). They’re experts at making sure those last-minute tasks get done, and having the extra hands will help you relax before your wedding and on the day of.

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engagement party basics Whether youâ&#x20AC;&#x2122;re the hosts or guests of honor, our engagement party primer has everything you need to know about the first celebratory bash of many. >> PHOTOGRAPH BY MATHEW IRVING PHOTOGRAPHY

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what it’s for People will want to congratulate you on your engagement, and a party’s a lot more fun than a phone call. It’s also a great time to introduce key people from your lives who are going to be seeing a lot of each other (and possibly helping plan your wedding together) over the next year or so. “It’s really the first time before the wedding when you have different groups of friends and generations getting to know each other in a much more intimate way,” says celebrity wedding planner Jung Lee of Fête.

who hosts Traditionally, the bride’s parents host the first official celebration. Then, the groom’s parents can throw their own party, or maybe both sets of parents will come together to cohost an event. But these days, more couples are throwing their engagement party themselves (but keep in mind that if you’re doing the inviting, it’s your responsibility to foot the bill too). Friends can also host (and may even volunteer to), but before you ask, be conscious of the financial responsibility they may be taking on.

The engagement party should fall within a few months of the proposal, right in the sweet spot between carefree, just-engaged life and the start of serious wedding planning. So about 9 to 11 months before the wedding is the ideal time frame, and you’ll want to give guests about a month’s notice (or more if they’ll be traveling).

whose turf it’s on Say you live in New York but most of your family and friends are in Chicago: You may decide to have your party in your hometown (and enlist someone local to help you plan), host it in your current locale or even throw two parties. Also, when picking the party location, consider where you plan to have your wedding—you may not want to ask guests to travel twice. Just be mindful of how many invitations you’re sending out to your guests and bridal party before the wedding day arrives; they won’t feel left out if they’re not invited to one a plane ride away.

where to have it Depending on how many people you’re inviting, you can make an engagement party work almost anywhere—it’s really up to the hosts. To choose the venue, think about the atmosphere you want. If you like the idea of having everyone in the same room, you might opt to rent a private space at a restaurant, bar or country club. Want something a bit more low-key? A house, backyard or beach club might be a better choice for you.

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who to invite It used to be that you weren’t supposed to invite anyone to the engagement party whom you weren’t inviting to your wedding, case closed. But now that so many couples live and host their nuptials far away from their families and friends, and the formality level of engagement parties is evolving, expectations have changed. Engagement parties now often include people who aren’t invited to the wedding. If your friends want to plan an informal bar party and just email the invites a few weeks before, it’s totally fine to include people you aren’t sure will end up making the wedding guest list (coworkers, newer friends, college roommates). And if your parents’ good friends want to host a cocktail party at their home in your honor, let your parents invite mutual friends and business associates you might not have room for at your wedding. If, on the other hand, either you two or your parents are hosting, the old etiquette rule sticks. When the wedding hosts send the engagement party invitation, it’s considered one of the official wedding events and guests assume they’re invited to the wedding too. To avoid a sticky situation later, start working on your wedding guest list now with your families. Then trim the engagement party list down to your wedding party, immediate family and closest friends. >>

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how to invite Feel free to keep the invitations simple and budget friendly. You can even make them yourselves or send out an email invite from sites like Paperless Post. If you’ve chosen your invitation designer already and want to go more formal, see if they’ll offer a special rate. Don’t worry if you haven’t settled on a color palette or don’t have a wedding date in mind yet—your engagement party invitations don’t have to match the rest of your stationery. Also, have your wedding registry started before the engagement party invites are sent in case guests want to bring a gift.

what to serve Anything from passed appetizers or tasting menu stations to a buffet or casual cookout will work. Or get creative and serve dishes that share something about you. “I had a bride and groom known for having Sunday Mexican dinners, so of course they brought it back with margaritas, mini fish tacos and great guacamole,” Lee says. As for dessert, serve it if you’d like, but it doesn’t have to be cake. Consider gourmet ice cream sandwiches, assorted baked goods or seasonal treats like candy apples or lemon tarts.

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While it’s fine for the décor and details to reflect your wedding colors and theme, don’t feel like you have to rush to choose them just so your engagement party can match. The real trick here is you don’t want to upstage the wedding. If you’re envisioning a casual beach soiree with simple décor, a fancy cocktail party at a swanky hotel with over-the-top centerpieces might make that beach bash feel like a bit of a letdown. Consider choosing a style and theme that are completely different from your wedding day to mix things up. So if you’re planning a formal ballroom affair, go for a laid-back clambake for your engagement party, with vibrant, fun colors and an outdoor setting.

what to wear Your wardrobe will depend on the setting of the party. For bridesto-be, aside from the obvious (don’t wear an evening gown to a backyard barbecue), keep it simple enough that you don’t outdo your wedding look, but special enough that you still stand out. As for the grooms, while you don’t have to wear a suit and tie or a tux, you should match your partner in formality. And if you have a specific dress code for guests, make a note of it on the invitation. Download the Wedding Planner by The Knot app to check off your to-dos.

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6 engagement party theme ideas The key to throwing the perfect engagement soiree: Find a theme that fits the two of you.

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Maybe it’s French inspired with mini bottles of champagne, macarons and quiche— or more rustic with homemade granola and blueberry pancakes. Coffee, juice, mimosas and Bellinis are musts.

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Impress foodies with a cooking class hosted at a local culinary school or restaurant—or hire a chef to teach the class at home. Pick a starter, entrée and dessert that fits you as a couple, and share the recipe cards.

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Use a tropical color scheme and accent with chic pineapple and palm tree décor. Mix up fun mai tais and blood orange mojitos. Serve tangy barbecue-style food like pulled pork and fried plantains.

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Oenophiles? Have plenty of wine glasses on hand and hire a sommelier to guide the tasting. Make a spread of great cheeses, baguettes, fruit, hummus and olives for pairing.

mexican fiesta

Mark your engagement with bold, bright table settings, and serve pitchers of margaritas and tacos. Deck out your space in festive multicolored paper lanterns and pom-poms.

beach clambake

Host a clambake or fish fry, or go upscale with a seafood spread of grilled shrimp, lobster and scallops. When it comes to the sides, stick to the classics, like corn on the cob and coleslaw.

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Barrier Reef gets all the hype, but the Ningaloo Reef on the northwest coast is equally spectacular. WHEN TO GO April to September is prime time. Whale shark swim experiences are available April to July and humpback whale swims from August to October. WHERE TO STAY The Outback-meets-reef setting of Sal Salis in Cape Range National Park puts you steps from UNESCO World Heritage–listed coral. Stay in the honeymoon tent (from $710 per person, including meals; SalSalis.com.au), which features ocean views and a double hammock for stargazing. BEST FOR Adventurous couples looking to disconnect, and reconnect with nature WORTH THE SPLURGE If you love being on the water, book the sail and snorkel package (from $3,600 per person). It includes three nights at the camp and three nights aboard the 51-foot catamaran.

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the world’s most dynamic cities, Sydney will fill your culture quota with museums, restaurants, opera and architecture while also checking your chill box with its beachside cafés and surfer style. WHEN TO GO September through November and March to May offer comfortable temps and fewer tourists. WHERE TO STAY The hip, new QT Bondi (from $215; QTHotelsandResorts .com/bondi-beach) has a vibrant SoCal vibe, retro furnishings and a location just off legendary Bondi Beach. There isn’t a restaurant, but each room has a kitchenette, and every Saturday, the Bondi Farmers Market sets up across the street. BEST FOR Cool seekers who want culture mixed with seaside R & R WORTH THE SPLURGE Get an aerial view of the Opera House during a seaplane ride to Pretty Beach House. This four-pavilion retreat is all about indulgence (from $1,500 per night, two-night minimum; round-trip seaplane flight from $495; PrettyBeachHouse.com).

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MAKGADIKGADI PANS & THE KALAHARI DESERT, botswana

WHY GO Deemed the Serengeti of the South, the lunarlike Makgadikgadi Pans is one of the largest salt flats in the world. During wet season, the area boasts southern Africa’s last surviving zebra and wildebeest migration—a must-see. WHEN TO GO Wet season, November through March, brings high rainfall but also zebras, wildebeests and flamingos. April to May is dry and warm, while June to August is dry but chillier. WHERE TO STAY Jack’s Camp feels like a mirage set in the desert. Ten en suite canvas tents are decked out in lavish, 1940s exploration style complete with Persian rugs and rich mahogany furnishings (from $1,225; UnchartedAfrica.com). The guides at Jack’s are a rare mix of wise scholars and old-school bushman adventurers. BEST FOR Couples nostalgic for Hemingway-esque safari luxury; couples who want culture and wildlife ROMANTIC MOMENT Enjoy a drink on the salt pans as the sun goes down—just two chairs, a few beverages and you and your new spouse. Once the sun has set, the most amazing star-filled night sky appears, as there’s absolutely zero air pollution.

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Bali in favor of Raja Ampat. Nestled deep in an archipelago of uninhabited islands, you’ll find some of the best diving in the world. WHEN TO GO October through April is the dry season, and it also brings an abundance of manta rays. WHERE TO STAY Misool Eco Resort is surrounded by the protected 300,000-acre Misool Marine Park, teeming with ocean life. Spend days snorkeling, at the spa or touring local villages (from $2,400 per person for a seven-night stay, all-inclusive; MisoolEcoResort.com). BEST FOR Diving enthusiasts INSTAGRAM-WORTHY SHOT Don your snorkels and swim with baby black tip reef sharks in the waters just off the resort.

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WHY GO One of the world’s most dramatic stretches of coast is home to ancient valleys, dune fields and shipwrecks. Despite the extreme landscape, it’s also startlingly full of life and offers a really unique safari experience. WHEN TO GO Namibia is a true year-round destination. December through March is hot, but also green with lots of wildlife. WHERE TO STAY Conservation-minded outfitter Wilderness Safaris boasts some of the top guides in Africa and operates the eight-tent, fly-in, fly-out Hoanib Skeleton Coast Camp (from $595, allinclusive; Wilderness-Safaris.com). Each tent features an en suite bedroom with an outdoor deck. You may be blissfully isolated from civilization, but the camp still provides top-shelf gin and tonics around the campfire, cashmere slips under the duvets and a delicious springbok fillet for dinner. BEST FOR Couples who have already been to Africa or who are looking for a fresh take on the classic safari INSTAGRAM-WORTHY SHOT The Big Five are overrated. Instead, take home game drive shots of Namibia’s desertadapted wildlife, like brown hyena, giraffe and desert elephants. WORTH THE SPLURGE On a three-night stay or more with Wilderness Safaris, guests have the opportunity to experience a flying excursion over the coast, which provides a magnificent perspective of the other-worldly landscape (think: moonlike), plus great photo ops of seal colonies.

WHY GO Bypass

WHY GO The gateway to the ancient temples of Angkor Wat, Siem Reap offers authentic Khmer restaurants, and access to the floating village on Tonle Sap Lake. WHEN TO GO December and January are assuredly sunny, but can also be crowded. While June is in the rainy season, the days are cooler and the temples don’t overflow with tourists quite like “summer” months. WHERE TO STAY Located only a 20-minute drive from Angkor Wat, Phum Baitang is the hotel of choice for celebrities. The resort has the feel of a traditional Khmer village, with 45 stilted villas and a bar and restaurant housed in a century-old Cambodian farmhouse (from $375; PhumBaitang.com). The Spa Temple offers seven treatment rooms, or choose to unwind at the cigar and cocktail lounge. BEST FOR Culture lovers INSTAGRAM-WORTHY SHOT Skip the typical sunrise temple posts. Get your guide to snap a photo of you riding a buffalo cart through Khmer villages. ROMANTIC MOMENT At Cuisine Wat Damnak, chef Joannès Rivière updates Cambodia’s golden age dishes like Mekong langoustine with pumpkin and lemon basil. The six-course menu is a steal, and the garden patio is the perfect spot for a special meal (CuisineWatDamnak.com). >>

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resort city of Nha Trang is known for its beaches, dive sites and vibrant nightlife. Off the coast, you have your choice of quiet island paradise. WHEN TO GO Sunny days abound from February through August. WHERE TO STAY The new 105-villa Anam raises the bar for over-the-top service. In addition to a private beach, you have your choice of three swimming pools (from $200; TheAnam.com). BEST FOR Beach lovers; architecture nerds; service snobs; couples seeking nightlife ROMANTIC MOMENT Spend an afternoon being totally pampered with body scrubs and massages at the Balinese-inspired Sri Mara Spa at The Anam, then have a private lunch with your own waitstaff right on the beach.

MALAYSIA WHY GO Malaysia offers a unique blend of Malay, Chinese and Indian cultures, plus wild rain forests, untouched beaches and some of Southeast Asia’s most delicious cuisine. WHEN TO GO Avoid monsoon season and visit between March and September. WHERE TO STAY Indulge your private island fantasies at Pangkor Laut Resort (from $193; PangkorLautResort.com). Just off the west coast of Malaysia, the resort is surrounded by jungles and turquoise sea and has its own spa village. Of the seven restaurants, Uncle Lim’s Kitchen stands out for its Chinese-style home cooking. BEST FOR Spa junkies; romantics; foodies INSTAGRAM-WORTHY SHOT Let a resident naturalist lead you on a rain forest trek in search of monkeys, reptiles and more.

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NORTH AMERICA Wai’anapanapa State Park, Maui

MAUI, hawaii WHY GO Maui is the best of all worlds:

You’ll find a carefree surfer vibe on the North Shore, amazing resorts and a place that makes you feel like you’re in another era in Hana. WHEN TO GO During shoulder seasons— April through May and September through November—you’ll find more affordable rates, fewer crowds and idyllic weather. WHERE TO STAY Skip the tourist-filled big resorts of Maui’s South Coast and experience the island like a local on the North Shore. The Inn at Mama’s is set on a secluded beach shaded by coconut palms and puts you steps from the island’s celebrated restaurant Mama’s Fish House and a five-minute drive from the hippie-chic town of Paia (from $275; InnatMamas.com). BEST FOR Free-spirited beach lovers INSTAGRAM-WORTHY SHOT A photo tour with Daniel Sullivan, owner of Paia’s Indigo Gallery, will take you off the beaten path along the wildly popular Hana Highway (three-hour tours from $560; DanielSullivan.PhotoShelter.com). Just don’t give up the location of the remote spots when you post.

KAUAI WHY GO People

get hooked on Kauai because of its Jurassic Park–esque waterways and the postcard-perfect sunsets of Hanalei Bay. WHEN TO GO Mid-April to mid-June and September to December are best. WHERE TO STAY The St. Regis Princeville Resort has a heavenly setting overlooking Hanalei Bay and a “your wish is our command” philosophy (from $1,575; StRegisPrinceville.com). Don’t fall victim to the resort’s 5,000-square-foot infinity pool. You can easily laze away a week under a pool lounger, but the natural attractions should not be missed. BEST FOR Couples seeking wild natural beauty but super-luxe digs WORTH THE SPLURGE Dine by candlelight while a private waitstaff attends to your every whim during a secluded, four-course, alfresco dinner at the St. Regis (from $1,290 per couple). >>

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KACHEMAK BAY, alaska

WHY GO Rugged coastlines, wild beaches and animals like whales, eagles and bears make you feel like you’re truly in the wild, but the quirky town of Homer— with its hippie cafés, fun bars and funky shops—is just a 25-minute boat ride away. WHEN TO GO June to August is the warmest, but shoulder months May and September can be cheaper. WHERE TO STAY Tutka Bay Lodge’s remote setting on a seven-mile fjord at the southern end of Kachemak Bay feels worlds away (from $4,860 per person for a three-night, all-inclusive stay; WithintheWild.com). The six-cabin wilderness retreat perfectly combines adventures with indulgences including a sauna, wine tastings, massages and multicourse meals. BEST FOR Wannabe chefs; outdoorsy types INSTAGRAM-WORTHY SHOT Bring your zoom lens to snap a photo of a brown bear at Katmai National Park and Preserve. ROMANTIC MOMENT The staff can arrange everything from a picnic for two on top of Grewingk Glacier to a sunset cruise through Kachemak Bay followed by a private dinner on your cabin’s deck. They’ll even prepare oysters you’ve scouted at a nearby farm.

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is the gateway to the ever-shifting icy landscape of Los Glaciares National Park. WHEN TO GO Visit from November to mid-December or March through April. WHERE TO STAY Set within a nearly 10,000-acre estate, Eolo was inspired by ancient Patagonian ranches and exudes old-world gaucho elegance. Rooms offer views of the Lago Argentino and La Anita Valley (from $770; EOLO.com.ar). The in-house guides are all locals and have exceptional knowledge. But don’t expect gaucho cuisine—the fine dining restaurant has earned Eolo Relais & Chateaux status. BEST FOR Food and wine connoisseurs; nature lovers; hikers; wannabe gauchos ROMANTIC MOMENT The staff can arrange a horseback ride to a private picnic with a bottle of malbec. EcoCamp, Chile

TORRES DEL PAINE, chile WHY GO Unparalleled trekking through a changing landscape of glacial lakes and jagged mountains is just outside your door. WHEN TO GO November through March is best, but shoulder months April, September and October have lower rates. WHERE TO STAY EcoCamp offers sustainable digs in the heart of Torres del Paine National Park (from $1,395 for a five-day wildlife safari; EcoCamp.travel). Guests sleep in geodesic dome-shaped structures modeled after ancient Kaweskar tribe dwellings. Ceiling windows let you fall asleep while stargazing, and private terraces offer a romantic spot to watch the sunset. Guests gather for meals in an enormous dining dome. Request one with heat unless you prefer to snuggle. BEST FOR Eco-conscious travelers; glampers; hikers; yogis; outdoor lovers WORTH THE SPLURGE Visit one of Patagonia’s largest ranches and spend a day horseback riding with local baqueanos (cowboys). You’ll ride past small villages, spot condor nests and hear about the region’s legendary stories over a picnic lunch (from $461; Cascada.travel). >>

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CARIBBEAN ST. BARTS WHY GO The

Caribbean’s most elite island has 22 white-sand beaches, extraordinary restaurants and hot nightclubs. WHEN TO GO May through June has great weather and a chill vibe. December is peak season and prime for celebrity sightings. WHERE TO STAY Nestled on Baie de St. Jean, arguably St. Bart’s sexiest beach, Le Tom Beach Hotel (from $342; TomBeach.com) is in walking distance to island hot spots like Nikki Beach and Eden Rock. Rooms are secluded by gardens. BEST FOR Sun seekers; couples who want nightlife; celeb junkies ROMANTIC MOMENT Stop at a local grocery for a picnic lunch and hike to quiet Anse du Grande Colombier, one of the world’s prettiest beaches.

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DOMINICAN REPUBLIC WHY GO A quick

flight from major East Coast hubs, the Dominican Republic is a mix of party beach towns and elite and exclusive compounds. WHEN TO GO Skip crowds and hurricane season and visit March through May. WHERE TO STAY With just nine colorful bungalows, Playa Grande Beach Club is an intimate departure from the DR’s all-inclusive mega-resorts (from $800; PlayaGrandeBeachClub.com). The North Coast retreat is set on a mile-long beach, but guests can also sunbathe in a cabana by the property’s lap pool. BEST FOR Beach bums ROMANTIC MOMENT Playa Grande can arrange sunset horseback rides for all levels ($66 per person for two hours).

restaurants and gorgeous beaches make this one of the Caribbean’s hot spots. WHEN TO GO May through August are the best months to visit. WHERE TO STAY An 18-month remodel by Auberge Resorts brought the famed Malliouhana hotel back to its 1950s glamour: The rooms, suites and a cliffside restaurant were redone and a 15,000-square-foot spa was added (from $525; Malliouhana.AubergeResorts.com). Perched atop a bluff above three of the island’s top beaches—Meads Bay, Bobbing Cove and Turtle Cove—the hotel is ideally situated for snorkeling and sunsets. BEST FOR Food lovers; sun seekers INSTAGRAM-WORTHY SHOT Every honeymoon requires the quintessential sunset photo, and the Sunset Bar at Malliouhana is the precise place to snap it—with mojitos in hand, of course. ROMANTIC MOMENT Book a candlelit, private dinner with a dedicated waiter and guitarist under one of the recently refreshed pool cabanas overlooking the ocean. Then, indulge in gourmet s’mores around the fire pit for dessert accompanied by an aged rum tasting. Cap your night off with a late-night dip in the two-tier pool. >>

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DUBROVNIK, croatia WHY GO One of the world’s most magnificent walled cities, Dubrovnik charms visitors with its pedestrian-only Old Town, Baroque churches and fortified beauty. Add its stunning beaches and laidback eateries serving top-notch seafood and excellent Croatian wine to the mix, and you have a recipe for paradise. WHEN TO GO Avoid the cruise passengers and visit September through November. WHERE TO STAY Built into a cliff above the Adriatic, the newly renovated Villa Dubrovnik makes you feel like royalty perched above the Adriatic and Old City (from $490; Villa-Dubrovnik.hr). The exclusive setting means guests must arrive from the Old Town via a 10-minute Vaporetto speedboat ride. Some of its 56 rooms and suites offer sea-view balconies, and the roof is home to a wine bar. BEST FOR Couples who have already explored classic Europe; history buffs; über romantics; urbanites INSTAGRAM-WORTHY SHOT Re-create a scene from a vintage Adriatic postcard and pose in your swimsuits on the hotel’s private rocky beach. At the shoreline, concrete platforms extend out from the sandstone, creating a natural backdrop from another era.

SALINA, the aeolian islands WHY GO Salina is the greenest of seven of the inhabited islands in the UNESCO World Heritage–status Aeolian archipelago. Hikers can climb Monte Fossa delle Felci, the highest peak. WHEN TO GO The busy season is from mid-July through August when sun seekers descend. Late May and September are the sweet spots—great weather, fewer crowds. WHERE TO STAY The family behind Tasca d’Almerita, one of Sicily’s most important wine producers, owns the 20-room Capofaro hotel, which overlooks some of the vineyards (from $296; Capofaro .it). Food and wine are taken seriously here, but don’t expect fussy eats—the philosophy is simple and delicious. BEST FOR Wine lovers looking for a fresh experience; foodies; island junkies WORTH THE SPLURGE Have the hotel arrange a day cruise aboard the yacht Don Felipe and explore coves, bays and caves that are otherwise unreachable by land.

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SERIFOS, greece WHY GO Don’t follow the masses to Santorini, Mykonos or Paros. Instead, explore Serifos. Active travelers can keep busy hiking, biking and diving. Plus, you’re just a three-hour ferry ride from Athens. WHEN TO GO April to June and September to mid-October are the best bets. WHERE TO STAY In a previous life, CocoMat Eco Residences housed local miners. Today, the beachfront hotel has a seaside lounge bar and a friendly staff who can arrange a romantic breakfast in bed (from $231; Serifos.Coco-Mat-Hotels.com). BEST FOR Eco-minded, active couples ROMANTIC MOMENT Coco-Mat’s staff can help you rent scooters for a perfect island beach crawl.

PUGLIA WHY GO Puglia has

always had amazing beaches, beautiful architecture and ancient ruins. But the recently booming food scene on this remote heel of Italy’s boot has the region primed to be the next Tuscany. WHEN TO GO A temperate climate makes Puglia a year-round destination. WHERE TO STAY Masseria Le Carrube, a working farmhouse in the town of Ostuni, has been transformed into a sister property of Puglia’s top hotel Borgo Egnazia (from $155; MasseriaLeCarrubeOstuni.it). Don’t miss a meal at its vegetarian restaurant. BEST FOR Food and wine nerds; beach lovers INSTAGRAM-WORTHY SHOT Explore Valle D’Itria and the village’s cylindrical houses with beehive-shaped roofs. lan your perfect adventure at P TheKnot.com/honeymoons

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make it legal Missouri & Kansas Marriage License Requirements GUIDELINES FOR OBTAINING A MARRIAGE LICENSE In the Greater Kansas City area, the legal age for marriage is 18 years old. Couples ages 15–17 must have parental consent. (Note: In Illinois, no one under 16 can be married.) In general, there are no blood tests or health requirements to obtain a legal license. In Missouri and Illinois, both parties must be present to apply for a license, and in Missouri you must provide a SSN and photo ID. In Kansas, either the bride or groom can apply; however, both the bride and groom must sign the form they take home. There is a three-day waiting period to obtain the license in Kansas. The license is then valid for just 30 days in Missouri and for six months in Kansas. There is a one-day waiting period in Illinois, and the license is valid for 60 days. The fee is around $50 in Missouri, $85 in Kansas and roughly $30 in Illinois. Check with your county for types of acceptable payment. All offices are open Monday through Friday. Please call ahead to get all the details.

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Recorder of Deeds 940 Boonville Ave. Springfield, MO 65802 (417) 868-4068 8 a.m.–4:30 p.m.

Recorder of Deeds 41 S. Central Ave., 4th Fl. Clayton, MO 63105 (314) 615-7180 8 a.m.–5 p.m., M, W, F; 8 a.m.–6 p.m., T, Th.

Clerk of the District Court 601 S. 3rd St., Ste. 3051 Leavenworth, KS 66048 (913) 684-0707 8 a.m.–5 p.m.

District Court 710 N. 7th St. Kansas City, KS 66101 (913) 573-2834 8 a.m.–4:30 p.m.

County Clerk 157 N. Main St., Ste. 109 Edwardsville, IL 62025 (618) 692-6290 8:30 a.m.–4:30 p.m.

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District Court 120 S. Pearl St. Paola, KS 66071 (913) 294-3326 8 a.m.–4 p.m.

Boone County Recorder of Deeds 801 E. Walnut, Rm. 132 Columbia, MO 65201 (573) 886-4350 8 a.m.–5 p.m.

Cass County Recorder of Deeds 102 E. Wall St. Harrisonville, MO 64701 (816) 380-8123 8 a.m.–4 p.m.

Clay County Recorder of Deeds 1 Courthouse Sq. Liberty, MO 64068 (816) 407-3560 8 a.m.–4:30 p.m.

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Recorder of Deeds 415 E. 12th St., Rm. 104 Kansas City, MO 64106 (816) 881-1577 8 a.m.–5 p.m.

Lafayette County County Recorder 1001 Main St., Rm. 207 Lexington, MO 64067 (660) 259-6178 8:30 a.m.–4:30 p.m.

Platte County Recorder’s Office 415 3rd St., Ste. 70 Platte City, MO 64079 (816) 858-3326 8 a.m.–4 p.m.

Douglas County Clerk of District Court 111 E. 11th St. Lawrence, KS 66044 (785) 832-5227 1 p.m.–4 p.m.

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Sedgwick County District Court 525 N. Main St., Fl. 9 Wichita, KS 67203 (316) 660-5900 8 a.m.–4 p.m.

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County Clerk 101 N. 4th St. Effingham, IL 62401 (217) 342-6535 8 a.m.–4 p.m.

County Clerk’s Office 200 S. 9th St., Rm. 101 Springfield, IL 62701 (217) 753-6700 8:30 a.m.–5 p.m.

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Jackson County Clerk Office 1001 Walnut St., Fl. 1 Murphysboro, IL 62966 (618) 687-7360 8 a.m.–4 p.m.

Jefferson County County Clerk & Recorder 100 S. 10th St., Rm. 105 Mt. Vernon, IL 62864 (618) 244-8020 8 a.m.–5 p.m.

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Jackson County

GUIDELINES FOR ANNOUNCING YOUR WEDDING IN THE LOCAL PAPERS Photographs may be submitted to accompany the announcement; however, instant photos or color copies are not acceptable. In some instances, photographs may be returned if a self-addressed stamped envelope is included with the announcement. Call to get all of the details before submitting.

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Lawrence Journal-World

(785) 832-7151 PO Box 888 Lawrence, KS 66044

Submit info at noon on the Wednesday prior to the desired Saturday publication.

Form: Yes; available online.

Announcements are free for Lawrence residents.

Topeka Capital-Journal

(785) 295-1297 Attn: Celebrations 616 SE Jefferson Topeka, KS 66607

Deadline for submission is 10 days prior to the desired Sunday publication.

Form: Yes

A 1-column announcement costs $2.65 per line, plus $45.08 for a photo; a 2-column announcement is $5.30 per line, plus $90.16 for a photo. $10 online charge.

Wichita Eagle

(316) 268-6667 Attn: Celebrations 825 E. Douglas Wichita, KS 67202

Submit info at least one week prior to the desired publication date.

Form: Optional

Announcements cost 55 cents per word ($45 minimum); photo is $15.75 to $141.75, depending on size of photo.

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Missouri GUIDELINES/ RESTRICTIONS

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Must submit info two weeks prior to the desired publication date.

Form: No

There is no charge for this service.

(816) 254-8600 410 S. Liberty Independence, MO 64050

Announcements published on Saturdays on a firstcome, first-served basis.

Form: Yes; prefer online submission at Examiner.net

$24.95 for an online announcement.

The Independent

(816) 471-2800 4233 Roanoke Rd., Ste. 100 Kansas City, MO 64111

Submissions should be made within three months of the wedding.

Form: Yes Photos should present the bride and groom in formal attire.

Fees range from $100 to $300.

Kansas City Star

(816) 234-4390 Attn: Celebrations 1729 Grand Blvd. Kansas City, MO 64108

Deadline for submissions is three weeks prior to the desired Sunday publication.

Form: Yes

Basic announcements (no photo) are free; package fees range from $79 to $899.

Springfield News-Leader

(417) 837-1990 Attn: Celebrations Dept. 651 N. Boonville Ave. Springfield, MO 65806

Must be received within 30 days of the event and are not guaranteed a publication date. Deadline for paid submissions is noon on the Monday prior to the desired Sunday publication date.

Form: Yes

Prices start at $99 for 50 words and one photo.

St. Louis Post-Dispatch

(314) 340-8549 Attn: Classified Dept. 900 N. Tucker Blvd. St. Louis, MO 63101

Submit info two weeks prior to the desired Saturday publication date. Preferred publication date is subject to space availability and is not guaranteed.

Form: Yes

Announcements 1 column wide with a photo: $140; announcements 2 columns wide with a photo: $330 to $440, depending on photo size.

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Belleville News-Democrat

(618) 239-2611 Attn: Darla Reynolds 120 S. Illinois St. Belleville, IL 62220

Announcements published within two Sundays of submission.

Form: Optional

Fees range from $55 (2 columns x 2 1/2 inches) to $135 (2 columns x 10 inches).

Effingham Daily News

(217) 347-7151 x134 PO Box 370 Effingham, IL 62401

Announcements published on a spaceavailable basis.

Form: Optional; available online at EffinghamDailyNews.com

There is no charge for this service.

Mount Vernon Register-News

(618) 242-0113 Attn: Tessa Collie 911 Broadway Mt. Vernon, IL 62864

Announcements published on a spaceavailable basis.

Form: Yes

The photo fee is $10 for blackand-white and $30 for color.

The Southern Illinoisan

(618) 529-5454 x5172 Attn: Lifestyles PO Box 2108 Carbondale, IL 62902

Announcements published Sundays on a spaceavailable basis. Info must be received within six months of the wedding, two weeks prior to publication.

Form: Yes; available online. Photos returned with SASE.

The fee is $20 or $30, depending on length.

State JournalRegister

(217) 788-1330 Attn: Weddings 1 Coppley Plz. Springfield, IL 62701

Submit info on Wednesday, one week prior to desired Sunday publication. Announcements published on a space-available basis.

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Dos Mundos

(816) 221-4747 902-A Southwest Blvd. Kansas City, MO 64108

The Examiner (runs in the eastern Jackson County area)

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white oak floors and all-inclusive pricing—a modern twist on classic elegance. capacity 250 | price $$$

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28 event space

1300 W. 28th Street, Kansas City, MO (816) 283-8368 | sales@28event.com 28Event.com In 11,000 square feet, 28 Event Space is an all-inclusive urban setting with top-notch amenities, modern style and impeccable service, complete with catering kitchen, sound system, stage, two-bedroom suite and high-end bar, near downtown KC. Make your vision a reality at 28 Event Space. capacity 350 | price $$

612north event space

612 North 2nd Street, St. Louis, MO (314) 899-0612 | events@612north.com 612North.com Let us help you celebrate the happiest and most important day of your life at 612North Event Space. Majestically located adjacent to the iconic St. Louis Arch, the historic yet modern elegance of this space will surpass your wildest expectations. capacity 225+ | price $$

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2016 main

2016 Main, Kansas City, MO (816) 283-8303 info@2016mainkc.com 2016MainKC.com 2016 MAIN sits at the threshold of downtown Kansas City’s historic Crossroads District. Recently renovated, it offers modern amenities in a beautiful art gallery setting full of character and original architectural details. Our open layout and warm features ensure each event is both unique and inviting. capacity 200+ | price $$$

adams pointe golf club

1601 R.D. Mize Rd., Blue Springs, MO (816) 220-3673 | AdamsPointeGolfClub.com Elegant golf course rehearsal dinners and receptions— affordably done! Accommodating up to 150 guests, Adams Pointe Golf Club is ready to provide your special event with a picturesque glass-enclosed private setting. Our delicious cuisine, superior service and affordability are sure to make your day pleasantly memorable! capacity 150 | price $

allegro ballroom event space

7105 West 105th Street, Overland Park, KS (913) 385-0707 | Fax (913) 385-2808 allegroballroomkc@gmail.com AllegroBallroomKC.com Allegro Ballroom Event Space is a newly renovated facility featuring six-foot French Empire chandeliers,

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519 N. Grand, St. Louis, MO (314) 615-1047 | meetanew@meetanew.com MeetANEW.com Here, under the sky, prepare to be inspired. By the view. By new opportunities and experiences. By our resident chefs. The rooftop is what you make it: a wideopen space for simple gatherings, once-in-a-lifetime celebrations and more. We’re now booking rehearsal dinners, ceremonies and small receptions. capacity 150 | price $$$

ball conference center

21350 West 153rd St., Olathe, KS (913) 322-4980 BallConference.com Escape from the city and relax—it’s your day! Ball Conference Center is a luxurious yet affordable venue for both wedding ceremonies and receptions, with banquet seating for up to 350 guests. capacity 350 | price $$

barnett on washington

3207 Washington Blvd., St. Louis, MO (844) GO-BARNETT events@barnettonwashington.com BarnettonWashington.com Barnett on Washington is a beautiful event venue that provides a rich, vibrant experience for all visitors. Our inviting atmosphere is perfect for weddings, corporate events and other special celebrations. We believe that everyone will enjoy the engaging environment at Barnett on Washington. capacity 200 | price $$$

the bauer

115 West 18th Street, Kansas City, MO (816) 984-8533 TheBrideandTheBauer.com Host your special day in our updated, historic art space, and experience our vintage-style patina, spectacular downtown view and unique details—Italian-bulb string lights, picture window seating, exposed brick, salvaged architecture, custom bride’s and groom’s rooms and handmade, artisan furniture. capacity 250 | price $$

the berg event space

1525 Grand Blvd., Kansas City, MO (816) 842-4488 | info@bergeventspace.com BergEventSpace.com The Berg Event Space is an urban contemporary loft with city views overlooking downtown, hardwood floors, skylights, exposed brick and more! Plan your rehearsal dinner, ceremony or wedding reception with our experienced staff. Located one block from P&L and the Sprint Center. capacity 250 | price $$$

big cedar

612 Devil’s Pool Road, Ridgedale, MO (417) 339-5159 | BigCedar.com Whether you’re imagining an intimate gathering or a grand celebration, your wedding day will be an unforgettable experience. Choose from rustic, luxury venues including intimate patios, charming chapels, a perfectly manicured lawn or a grand ballroom—all with breathtaking views of Table Rock Lake. capacity 400+ | price $$

blue bell farm

3030 Highway 240, Fayette, MO (660) 888-6011 | mobluebellfarm@gmail.com BlueBellFarm.org The breathtaking grounds, gorgeous gardens and elegant décor at Blue Bell Farm provide the perfect backdrop for romance and celebrations. Blue Bell Farm’s in-house catering team creates beautiful farm-to-table dinners using organic and grass-fed ingredients from the farm. capacity 175 | price $$

bogey hills country club

1120 Country Club Rd., St. Charles, MO (636) 946-6250 | gbroders@bogeyhillscc.com BogeyHillsCC.com From the gorgeous golf course and waterfall backdrop to the beautiful dining rooms, exceptional food and service, there is no better location for your celebration. There are many picturesque spots—from the stunning lobby staircase to the landscape. Our professional staff will exceed your expectations. capacity 300+ | price $$

boo cat club

812 Union Blvd., St. Louis, MO (314) 224-5521 | hello@boocatclub.com BooCatClub.com You’ve been looking for something with a little more personality, intrigue and surprise. We’re glad you found us. Boo Cat Club is devoted to bringing people together in unexpected, extraordinary ways in a space that’s unlike anything you’ve seen before. We’ll give your event a little extra spark. Promise. capacity 250 | price $$

botanica

701 N. Amidon Street, Wichita, KS (316) 264-0448 | kkelley@botanica.org Botanica.org Botanica the Wichita Gardens has a variety of outdoor and indoor options, making us the most versatile wedding venue in Wichita. Our goal is to ensure you have a pleasant experience throughout the planning process, culminating in a seamless, memorable event. capacity 300 | price $$$

the bowery

20559 S. Lone Elm Road, Spring Hill, KS (620) 778-1520 | lhaynes@thebowerykc.com TheBoweryKC.com The Bowery is a beautiful, rustic-industrial event space to host your big day! Our amazing outdoor space

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the brass on baltimore

1228 Baltimore Avenue, Kansas City, MO (816) 221-8986 deb@thebrassonbaltimore.com TheBrassonBaltimore.com Deciding to host your ceremony and wedding reception at The Brass on Baltimore will allow you to choose from our uniquely historic and modern accommodations for several hundred guests or a smaller, more intimate group. Let our talented, expert staff work to provide you with the day of your dreams. capacity 300+ | price $$$

brooklyn hall at enright gardens

2351 North 400 Road, Edgerton, KC (913) 927-2217 (913) 927-2218 BrooklynHall.com This perfect, romantic wedding and reception location is located in a beautiful rural setting with picturesque, lush gardens abundant with flowers and babbling streams. The pristine Brooklyn Hall is complete with ambient lighting, a bride’s dressing room and serving kitchen. We can make your event just that much more special!

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O’FALLON’S PREMIER WEDDING VENUE 2017 DATES AVAILABLE 15 MINUTES FROM ST. CHARLES

THE LOFT BANQUET CENTER 18 NORTH CENTRAL DRIVE, O’FALLON, MO 63366 WWW.18NORTHCENTRAL.COM/THE-LOFT 636-240-1800

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the brownstone

4020 NW 25th Street, Topeka, KS TheBrownstoneTopeka.com Fusing touches of rustic elegance with the conveniences of modern accommodations, The Brownstone is a one-of-a-kind venue with premier amenities, personal coordination, ceremony packages, bridal lounges and historic architecture. If you are looking for a charming site, then The Brownstone is for you! capacity 200 | price $$$

buca di beppo

(877) 955-2822 groupreservations@bucainc.com BucaWeddings.com We’re perfect for rehearsal dinners and wedding events, featuring authentic Italian cuisine served family style. Catering and delivery is available, plus banquet and bar packages to suit any budget. Our festive dining rooms and attentive staff will keep the celebration energetic and fun. Now that’s amoré! capacity 350 | price $$

busch stadium

700 Clark Street, St. Louis, MO (314) 345-9630 | specialevents@cardinals.com Cardinals.com/events Busch Stadium’s iconic field and distinct venues offer guests a variety of elegant settings, gourmet dining and panoramic views that can’t be found anywhere else. Let our experienced and professional staff make your

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californos

4124 Pennsylvania, Kansas City, MO (816) 531-1097 | staff@californos.com Californos.com Californos hosts receptions in a stunning 1903 Trolley Barn venue and courtyard in Kansas City’s historic Westport neighborhood. We have ceremonies in or outside, professional planning, open bars, custom bakery, bistro and bar, saloon, full-service catering, inclusive packages and hotels on our block. capacity 488 | price $$$

camp miola

21250 West 299th Street, Paola, KS (816) 225-5066 CampMiola.com Camp Miola is an ideal locale for your wedding weekend. Get in touch today with the Camp Miola team or one of our certified wedding partners to start dreaming up all of the beautiful and charming ways our venue will make your wedding one to remember. capacity 200 | price $$

the caramel room at bissinger’s

1600 N. Broadway, St. Louis, MO (314) 615-2480 | caramelroom@23cityblocks.com CaramelRoom.com Beaming natural light, hardwood floors and an outdoor terrace with river and skyline views in a chocolate factory is just the beginning of a sweet addiction with The Caramel Room. capacity 300 | price $$$

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casa loma ballroom

St. Louis, MO (314) 650-2462 CasaLomaBallroom.com Built in 1927, the Casa Loma Ballroom is St. Louis’ last “grand ballroom,” featuring a 5,000-square-foot floating dance floor and 30-foot stage. With seating for 150 to 850 guests, the Casa Loma offers a variety of packages for your special day and unique individual service provided by the owners. capacity 850 | price $$

catering st. louis events

2141 59th St., St. Louis, MO (314) 961-7588 | CateringStLouis.com At Catering St. Louis Events, we focus on your entire event, creating the wedding day magic you’ll remember long after the plates are cleared. We offer many spectacular venues for wedding receptions, ceremonies and rehearsal dinners. Visit our website to see where you’d like to celebrate.

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cedar creek

1401 Olive Rd., New Haven, MO (855) 778-7222 | weddings@cedarcreekcenter.com

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cedar lake cellars

11008 Schreckengast Road, Wright City, MO (636) 745-9500 | bdunston@cedarlakecellars.com CedarLakeCellars.com Cedar Lake Cellars Winery and Event Venue is surrounded by gorgeous cosmopolitan countryside and pristine lakes. This hidden gem features two beautiful event spaces, award-winning wine and a full-service restaurant. Just 45 minutes west of St. Louis, it’s the perfect setting for a wedding with rustic charm.

charm, we provide an intimate setting at a historic venue that marries old and new. Upstairs events are defined by exceptional service and a culinary experience that celebrates seasonal flavors and fresh ingredients from the finest local purveyors. capacity 150+ | price $$$

circle s ranch & country inn

3325 Circle S Lane, Lawrence, KS (785) 843-4124 vents@circlesranch.com CircleSRanch.com Located in the rolling hills of Lawrence, the Circle S Ranch boasts both indoor and outdoor ceremony venues and a 3,000-square-foot Party Barn that can accommodate all sizes of weddings. Whether your perfect day is rustic, elegant, vintage or anything in between, we have everything you need. capacity 250 | price $$$

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chandler hill vineyards

596 Defiance Road, Defiance, MO (636) 798-2675 events@chandlerhillvineyards.com ChandlerHillVineyards.com With over 80 weddings a year, it’s clear why Chandler Hill Vineyards is “First in Missouri Wine Country.” Our delicious food, award-winning wine and spectacular vistas create an unforgettable experience. We are open year-round and just minutes from St. Louis, Chesterfield and St. Charles.

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the charles f. knight center

Washington University, St. Louis, MO (314) 935-4668 | jurgensen@wustl.edu Olin.Wustl.edu/knightcenter Located on the campus of Washington University Center, your special day will be a celebration to remember. From the formal grand dining room to the outdoor courtyard, the Knight Center will make your day perfect. All-inclusive wedding packages and special guestroom rates are available. capacity 165 | price $$$

the chase park plaza

212 N. Kingshighway, St. Louis, MO (314) 633-3052 ChaseParkPlaza.com Our legendary ballrooms offer a graceful, romantic atmosphere worthy of your special day. Say your vows under the soft glow of vintage chandeliers in the Empire Room, or celebrate the grandiosity of love under the famed Khorassan Ballroom’s arched ceilings, blending classical elegance with art deco style. capacity 300 | price $$$

the cheshire

6300 Clayton Rd., St. Louis, MO (314) 932-7853 sheckemeyer@cheshirerestaurant-stl.com CheshireSTL.com With rich wood accents, vintage stained glass and rustic

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clayton plaza st. louis

7750 Carondelet Ave., Clayton, MO (314) 727-7434 CPClayton.com What’s your wedding fantasy? At the Clayton Plaza Hotel, we make it happen! Many of our bridal packages include a champagne toast, ice sculpture, a complimentary honeymoon suite for the bride and groom, and many more fabulous options for your own happily ever after. capacity 500+ | price $$

the coronado

3701 Lindell Blvd., St. Louis, MO (314) 881-4346 TheCoronado.com For an event you’ll always remember, and one your guests will never forget, The Coronado is the perfect wedding venue! We look forward to providing you with unparalleled service and creative cuisine in a landmark setting. Recently renovated, The Coronado is the epitome of opulence and an absolute must-see! capacity 350 | price $$$

crown valley winery

23589 State Rt. WW, Ste. Genevieve, MO (866) 207-9463 CrownValleyWinery.com Please consider Crown Country when planning your wedding day. We offer several locations, from our winery overlooking the lush vineyards to Crown Pointe with a beautiful view of the golf course. Local lodging is also available. It’s a destination wedding yet close to home!

courtyard is now open for ceremonies. Tables, chairs and linens are included. capacity 200 | price $$

dodson orchards

1778 Madison 507, Fredericktown, MO (573) 561-3093 | steved314@gmail.com DodsonOrchards.com Travel back to one of Missouri’s most uniquely historic venues nestled in the hidden glades. Be immersed in the tranquil setting overlooking the mountain range, and get lost in the charm of the 100-year-old barn. It’s real, it’s exclusive and it’s yours to be had if you contact us to snag your date! capacity 250 | price $$

eighteen ninety

Platte City, MO (816) 584-1890 1890KC.com Plan the wedding of your dreams, where you’ll find acres of gorgeous landscape that blends the best of nature and architecture in a sophisticated style. From intimate to large gatherings, wedding receptions, rehearsal dinners and parties for any occasion, we can make any event a memorable one. capacity 300 | price $$

events by panorama, saint louis art museum

One Fine Arts Drive, St. Louis, MO (314) 655-5387 erica.stone@cafebonappetit.com SLAM.org/dining Make a St. Louis memory. Showcasing stunning works of art, the Saint Louis Art Museum is an elegant setting for your wedding reception. Events By Panorama executes all details, including catering, bar services, rentals and parking, and Executive Chef Ivy Magruder leads the culinary team to brilliance.

executive hills polo club

10018 NW Skyview Ave., Kansas City, MO (816) 215-1118 events@ehpoloclub.com EHPoloClub.com This privately owned 7,000-square-foot mansion sits on a 15-acre estate in the heart of KC. Our location has views of a two-acre pond, waterfront gazebo, registered helipad and so much more. We offer the perfect blend of rustic elegance, state-of-the-art amenities and natural perfection you deserve. capacity 300 | price $$$

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the deleon

(816) 377-3932 | (816) 812-3333 yourweddinginkc@yahoo.com TheDeLeon.net The DeLeon is Kansas City’s newest event space and chapel, with the charm of a Southern mansion but moderately renovated with a bridal suite, a bridesmaids’ room, a groom’s room and a family room. The outdoor

feasts of fancy

1427 West 9th Street, Kansas City, MO (816) 841-0166 jperkins@feastsoffancy.com FeastsOfFancy.com Looking for urban elegance? The Hobbs Building is for people who want a cool, more urban and less traditional location for their wedding, with an outdoor, secluded courtyard large enough for your ceremony.

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forest hills country club

36 Forest Club Drive, Chesterfield, MO (636) 227-5030 | ambert@foresthillscc.net ForestHillsCC.net With its beautiful Clubhouse, spectacular views and professional staff, Forest Hills is the perfect setting for your wedding day. As one of West County’s premier locations for over 50 years, we offer a unique and picturesque venue that will have you and your guests talking for years to come. capacity 250 | price $$$

foundry art centre

520 N. Main Center, St. Charles, MO (636) 255-0270 EXT. 111 events@foundryartcentre.org For your special event, surround yourself with great art and architecture at the Foundry Art Centre. Located in beautiful, historic Saint Charles, the Grand Hall is a stunning setting for weddings and receptions of up to 400 seated guests. capacity 400 | price $$$

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the gallery event space

816 Allen Ave., St. Louis, MO (314) 664-7706 | franklinroom@sbcglobal.net TheFranklinRoom.net New owners. New menus. Same beautiful room. We are dedicated professionals with extensive experience in catering and banquets. Our eclectic events and menus will reflect your personal style. We love our brides, our grooms, their families and their friends!

61 E. 14th Street, Kansas City, MO (816) 877-8312 jessica@thegalleryeventspace.com TheGalleryEventSpace.com Located in the heart of the Kansas City Power & Light District, The Gallery Event Space is an elegant downtown venue—ideal for your wedding ceremony and reception. capacity 400+ | price $$$

genesis banquet center & catering

2651 Telegraph Rd., St. Louis, MO (314) 894-7073 | info@cateringbygenesis.com CateringByGenesis.com We are proud to announce that Genesis Banquet Center & Catering has been rated by local brides and voted The Knot Best of Weddings Hall of Fame. We cater receptions of all sizes and budgets at various venues. Please inquire for recommendations and menu tastings. capacity 400 | price $$

grbic private event space 4071 Keokuk, St. Louis, MO

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SUNSET BLUFFS OFFERS A 3-DAY, 3-NIGHT EXPERIENCE. NO NEED TO BE RUSHED WITH A STRICT TIME LIMIT! SPEND TIME WITH FAMILY AND RELAX AT OUR PRIVATE ESTATE. UP TO 20 CAN STAY ON-SITE, AND WE OFFER ONE VENUE FOR YOUR REHEARSAL DINNER, CEREMONY, AND RECEPTION. WE ARE OPEN TO YOU BRINGING YOUR OWN CATERERS AS WELL.

(314) 772-3100 | (314) 623-5617 grbicevents@gmail.com GrbicRestaurant.com Let the specialists at Grbic turn your dream into a reality. Our highly trained staff ensures your event is perfect from the smallest to the largest of details. We will work with you and within your budget every step of the way to guarantee your satisfaction. Your next event will be one in a million. capacity 300+ | price $$

the guild

1621 Locust St., Kansas City, MO (816) 471-8550 | candice@theguildkc.com TheGuildKC.com The Guild is a unique venue filled with elegance and vintage charm. Featuring timeless architecture, a dazzling chandelier and a secluded garden, it’s perfect for ceremonies or cocktail receptions. The Guild is undeniably the place to create your one-of-akind celebration. capacity 300 | price $$$

hawthorne house 314.660.2210 1775 BIEKER ROAD, WASHINGTON, MO SUNSETBLUFFSVENUE@GMAIL.COM • SUNSETBLUFFSVENUE.COM

6008 Northwest Bell Road, Parkville, MO (816) 505-1224 | TheHawthorneHouse.com Hawthorne House is Kansas City’s premier wedding and special event facility. Located on 11 beautiful acres in Parkville, Missouri, Hawthorne House has been specifically designed with your wedding needs in mind. We offer both chapel and outdoor ceremonies, as well as receptions for up to 300 guests. capacity 300 | price $$$

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165 Hwy. 100 East, Hermann, MO (314) 800-3295 weddings@hermannhill.com HermannMOWeddings.com At Hermann Hill, your guests will enjoy a stunning river bluff setting, fantastic food and spectacular service. We’ll help you create the unique wedding you’re envisioning with stress-free planning and classic designs—and our amazing sunsets are an added bonus! capacity 250 | price $$

hilton ballpark

1 South Broadway, St. Louis, MO (314) 641-8837 | nwenzel@hiltonstlouis.com HiltonStLouis.com There’s a style for every bride at Hilton at the Ballpark. The Arch View Ballroom (320 capacity) boasts 16-foot floor-to-ceiling windows overlooking the St. Louis Arch, Old Courthouse and Kiener Plaza, while the Grand (650 capacity) and Ballpark (175 capacity) ballrooms offer sophisticated, elegant spaces. capacity 175+ | price $$$

hilton kansas city airport

8801 NW 112 St., Kansas City, MO (816) 801-4013 KansasCityAirport.Hilton.com Book your dream wedding in one of our renovated

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ballrooms! All of our wedding packages include waived room rental, linens, table settings, centerpieces, dance floor, stage, servers, special room rates and more! We can tailor a menu to fit your needs, or select from one of our current packages! capacity 400+ | price $$

hilton president

1329 Baltimore, Kansas City, MO (816) 303-1628 PresidentKansasCity.Hilton.com We make forever feel timeless. The Hilton President is one of Kansas City’s most beautiful venues. Call, email or stop by for a tour. capacity 300 | price $$$

hilton st. louis frontenac

1335 South Lindbergh Boulevard, St. Louis, MO (314) 993-1100 StLouisFrontenac.Hilton.com Your wedding will be nothing less than spectacular! Situated in the heart of St. Louis, the Hilton St. Louis Frontenac offers classic charm and perfection for your special day. Our team of wedding professionals is devoted to exceeding your expectations and making your wedding dream come true! capacity 400+ | price $$$

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the historic scarritt buildings

(816) 506-5669 TheScarrittKC.com With abundant natural light and hand-carved ornaments throughout, this unique venue has several spaces that can accommodate grand parties to more intimate ceremonies, each with its own character. Our wedding packages are tailored with you in mind—we offer many no-hassle perks so you can enjoy your day! capacity 350+ | price $$

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hotelumie`re at the arch

901 N. First Street, St. Louis, MO (314) 881-7800 | tlore@lumiereplace.com LumierePlace.com/meetings/weddings When you want the wedding of your dreams, think HoteLumière at The Arch. Our professional planners and catering staff are more than service professionals— they are wish granters. With breathtaking amenities in an elegant setting, your wedding will be one your guests will talk about for years. capacity 500 | price $$

hyatt place kansas city/ lenexa city center ballroom

8741 Ryckert Street, Lenexa, KS (913) 742-7777 | brooks.sosna@hyatt.com KansasCityLenexaCityCenter.Place.Hyatt.com Whether we’re hosting your wedding reception or just family and friends, guests will appreciate comfortable, functional amenities. Hyatt Place Kansas City/Lenexa City Center will provide a perfect mix of style and service that will exceed guest expectations and create a sensational wedding weekend! capacity 400 | price $$$

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660 Maryville Centre Drive St. Louis, Missouri (314) 514-6116 aroach@stlmarriottwest.com CEREMONIES, WEDDINGS, REHEARSAL DINNERS & ENGAGEMENT PARTIES

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hyatt regency st. louis at the arch

315 Chestnut St., St. Louis, MO (314) 342-4655 StLouisArch.Regency.Hyatt.com Memories to last a lifetime. Starting here. We offer personalized service and complete coordination for every wedding detail. Located next to the Gateway Arch, our 910 guestrooms, three restaurants, Starbucks® and 83,000 square feet of indoor/event space are the perfect setting for your special day. capacity 400+ | price $$$

innsbrook resort

1 Aspen Circle, Innsbrook, MO (636) 928-3366 EXT. 9884 weddings@innsbrook-resort.com Innsbrook-Resort.com Create a wedding that is yours and yours alone, starting with our customizable packages that are tailored to you! Innsbrook is the best combination of convenience (as it’s located close to St. Louis) while giving your guests the feeling of being a world away. capacity 300 | price $$

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intercontinental kansas city at the plaza

401 Ward Parkway, Kansas City, MO (816) 756-1500 ehayes@kansascityic.com KansasCityIC.com There is no other wedding like yours and no other venue like the InterContinental Kansas City. Nestled on the edge of the Country Club Plaza, the hotel provides the ideal setting for the wedding couple to begin their new life together in style. capacity 300+ | price $$$

the jacobson

2050 Central St., Kansas City, MO (816) 423-2888 info@thejacobsonkc.com TheJacobsonKC.com Conveniently located in the heart of Kansas City, Missouri, The Jacobson invites couples to savor each moment and savor each flavor as they eat, drink and dance their way through a spectacular wedding or reception. The gorgeous views of Kansas City from The Jacobson restaurant make the ideal backdrop. capacity 100 | price $$$

joule

1419 Carroll, St. Louis, MO (314) 881-4300 joule@palladium-stl.com Palladium-STL.com/joule Joule (pronounced Jewel) is a venue that stands alone or adds additional ambience to Palladium Saint Louis. Once the machine hall for the city hospital’s power plant, an original crane, exposed brick, aged iron and 19-foot windows create a raw, modern, industrial space ideal for any type of event. capacity 100 | price $$

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the journey home

18993 SE 65th Road, Dearborn, MO (816) 501-6350 | info@journeyhomeretreats.com JourneyHomeWeddings.com You will love The Journey Home’s estate, with a large colonial home, rustic barn, beautifully landscaped property, overnight accommodations and flexible outdoor and indoor space for a variety of guest sizes and styles. Just north of the KCI airport, The Journey Home is ideal for your wedding day! capacity 285 | price $

kansas city airport marriott

775 Brasilia Avenue, Kansas City, MO (816) 243-1270 joy.winningham@marriott.com Our newly renovated lakeside ceremony site is the perfect backdrop for your “I dos.” The outdoor Patio and Pavilion provide a unique setting, and for a larger affair, our Grand Ballroom will entertain up to 350. Marriott is pro marriage equality. We offer discounted rates for overnight guests and smaller spaces for rehearsal dinners and more. capacity 350 | price $$$

kuhs estate & farm

13080 Spanish Pond Rd., Spanish Lake, MO (314) 226-0709 | info@kuhsfarm.com KuhsFarm.com Our award-winning, secluded and private, client-adored historic estate and farm on the bluffs overlooking The Confluence is 25 minutes from Midtown St. Louis. On-site wedding and event design is available. By appointment only, please. capacity 400+ | price $$

la perla

312 N. 8th Street, St. Louis, MO (314) 488-0607 | champagnewishesstl@gmail.com LaPerlaStLouis.com Our many years of experience can help streamline your wedding planning. La Perla is a renovated early 1900s bank that has both charm and character. From the original hand-carved wood pocket doors as you enter to the original bank vault turned lounge on the lower level, your event is guaranteed to be unique! capacity 165 | price $

lachance vineyards

12237 Peter Moore Lane, DeSoto, MO (636) 586-2777 | events@lachancevineyards.com LaChanceVineyards.com Whether you choose to relax in the casual elegance of our indoor tasting room or outside on our courtyard patio, partially covered deck or large event tent, we offer guests the best of both worlds: a charming, intimate winery experience with first-class amenities. capacity 300 | price $$

laumeier sculpture park

12580 Rott Road, St. Louis, MO (314) 615-5278 | (314) 941-0522 thepartybroker@aol.com | Laumeier.org

With 60 works of large-scale outdoor sculpture set amidst 105 acres of rolling lawns and natural vistas, Laumeier Sculpture Park offers several indoor and outdoor rental spaces perfect for wedding ceremonies, receptions, showers, rehearsal dinners and similar affairs! Contact Sherry Muehlfarth today. capacity 400+ | price $$$

the legacy at green hills

(816) 204-1629 events@thelegacyatgreenhills.com TheLegacyatGreenHills.com We offer various options to have your wedding, right in the heart of Kansas City. We are located on 38 beautiful acres, lined with trees and a lake, plus an amazing house from 1912 that allows you to spend the day getting ready in a convenient setting. capacity 200 | price $$

lemp mansion restaurant and inn

3322 Demenil Place, St. Louis, MO (314) 664-8024 | patty@lempmansion.com LempMansion.com/banquets.html The Lemp Mansion offers the largest privately owned gazebo and tented patio in the city that can accommodate ceremonies for up to 300 guests and receptions of 225. Lemp’s Grand Hall has a beautiful 40x40 rooftop deck for up to 300 guests. The new Lemp’s Loft is an industrial space for events of 50-130. capacity 300 | price $$$

the little theatre and grand ballroom at the kansas city convention center

301 W. 13th Street, Kansas City, MO (816) 513-5099 | (816) 513-5015 KCConvention.com We have the perfect downtown space for your special day. The Little Theatre is classically beautiful with Italian marble floors and columns and an ornate ceiling from the art deco era. The Grand Ballroom features beautiful views of the city skyline and the Kauffman Center for the Performing Arts. capacity 400+ | price $$$

the lodge of four seasons

Lake of the Ozarks, MO (573) 365-8579 4SeasonsResort.com/weddings The Lodge has a setting of natural beauty, perfect for celebrating your love. Offering 358 guestrooms, an impressive array of wedding venues and unparalleled amenities, The Lodge of Four Seasons will orchestrate an exceptional experience and lasting memory from “yes” to “I do” and beyond! capacity 400+ | price $$$

the loft banquet center at 18 north central

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longview mansion

1200 SW Longview Park Drive, Lee’s Summit, MO (816) 761-6669 | LongviewMansion.com Let our caring event planners assist you and our executive chef pamper up to 300 of your guests in the most romantic setting you can imagine! Call us for a personal tour and consultation, or visit our website. capacity 300 | price $$$

lost hill lake events

783 Lost Hill Lake Road, St. Clair, MO (314) 599-3690 | losthilllakeevents@gmail.com LostHillLakeEvents.com We welcome you to experience our gorgeous Meramec River view and memorable walnut grove. Take photos near our lake or in our fields that shine with the sunset. Dine with guests under our pavilion and dance under the stars. Family owned and operated, we provide customized services for each client. capacity 275 | price $$

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lumen private event space

2201 Locust Street, St. Louis, MO (314) 615-2480 | lumen@23cityblocks.com LumenSTL.com Lumen’s modern style, premium service and contemporary flair just stepped up the game! New silver chiavari chairs, stainless steel bar with chandeliers, updated hardwood floors are just the beginning. No worries—guests still awe over floor-to-ceiling windows and a state-of-the-art LED lighting system. capacity 250 | price $$

the magic house

516 S. Kirkwood, St. Louis, MO (314) 822-8900 MagicHouse.org From its striking Victorian-style architecture and the whimsical, interactive exhibits to the enchanting gardens that surround it, The Magic House is the perfect place for a truly unique wedding, reception or rehearsal dinner!

marriott kansas city country club plaza

4445 Main St., Kansas City, MO (816) 303-4581 anna.singleton@marriottccplaza.com Marriott.com/mcipl Picture your first dance under the dreamy glow of the Grand Ballroom’s magnificent crystal chandeliers, elegant atmosphere of the Seville Ballroom or the new Plaza Terrace with spectacular views of the Country Club Plaza. Let us create the perfect wedding destination for you. capacity 350 | price $$

marriott st. louis grand

800 Washington Avenue, St. Louis, MO (314) 621-9600 st.louisgrandleads.rhi@marriott.com MarriottStLouisGrand.com Say “I do” to a St. Louis wedding venue that is historic, elegant and breathtakingly beautiful. Because it’s not only about getting married: It’s about celebrating this momentous day, brilliantly. capacity 300+ | price $$$

marriott st. louis west

660 Maryville Centre Drive, St. Louis, MO (314) 514-6116 | aroach@stlmarriottwest.com Marriott.com/hotels/travel/stlwe-marriott-stlouis-west Discover the peaceful urban retreat that is Marriott St. Louis West. Our venue adjacent to a scenic lake is perfectly complemented by 14,000 square feet of fully renovated, versatile event space, along with topflight catering and certified planning services for your Chesterfield-area wedding. capacity 300+ | price $$

the martin

13440 Holmes Road, Kansas City, MO (816) 739-0804 themartineventspace@gmail.com TheMartinEventSpace.com The Martin is Kansas City’s newest event space. The original Martin City Church has been completely renovated and restored with an outdoor patio. The Martin is more than a venue; it is where memories are made. It is the perfect place for a corporate event, family celebration, wedding or reception. capacity 200 | price $$

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majorette

7150 Manchester Ave., St. Louis, MO (314) 224-5775 | hello@majoretteevents.com MajoretteEvents.com If you’re looking to put on a show, then you’ve come to the right place. Majorette is a brand new event space in St. Louis where all of your ideas are possible. Put on your party pants—this is going to be one for the books. The really good books. capacity 400+ | price $$

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me´élange

5636 Johnson Dr., Mission, KS (913) 831-9848 | melangekc@gmail.com MelangeKC.com With a beautiful hardwood floor, sparkling chandeliers and the space’s attention to detail, Mélange offers an inviting, intimate atmosphere for your special night. It’s located just 10 minutes from downtown Kansas City, with ample parking for guests. Wedding dance packages are offered. Call today! capacity 200+ | price $$

missouri athletic club

405 Washington Avenue, St. Louis, MO (314) 539-4470 | MAC-STL.org Wedding receptions in the MAC’s Missouri Ballroom ideally blend timeless elegance and unforgettable celebration. Since 1916, it has retained a rich ambience and ornate architecture, including a decorative tray ceiling, crystal chandeliers and two-story windows. capacity 400 | price $$$

missouri history museum

Lindell & Debaliviere in Forest Park, St. Louis, MO (314) 454-3151 MOHistory.org Make history on your big day! This unique, stately, all-season venue is located centrally in treasured Forest Park. The museum offers such an elegant backdrop for wedding receptions of all styles. For more intimate gatherings, don’t forget to check out Bixby’s—the ideal location for rehearsal dinners! capacity 400 | price $$$

moulin events and meetings

2017 Chouteau Avenue, St. Louis, MO (314) 241-4949 | ann@moulinevents.com MoulinEvents.com We are honored that you are considering Moulin to host your wedding reception, ceremony or rehearsal dinner. You have chosen experienced wedding planners that will deliver unparalleled personal service and menu selections prepared by our professionally trained culinary staff. capacity 300 | price $$$

museum at prairiefire

5801 West 135th Street, Overland Park, KS (913) 333-3513 | kelsey@museumatpf.org Let the Museum at Prairiefire serve as the backdrop for your special day! Beautiful dichroic glass and stunning architecture will make your wedding the most talked about event of the season. Our unique space gives you options to customize the layout to make your day just how you envision it. capacity 300 | price $$

neo on locust, llc

Metropolitan St. Louis, MO (314) 570-9218 | info@neostl.com NEOSTL.com Located in Midtown St. Louis, NEO on Locust offers spectacular views of Downtown St. Louis and Grand Center with two private event spaces designed to accommodate custom-designed events for larger groups. capacity 500 | price $$$

new town at st. charles

3420 Civic Circle, Saint Charles, MO (636) 288-7332 weddings@newtownatstcharles.com NewTownEventPlanning.com With simple elegance and graceful appeal, the venues at New Town provide a unique option for that special

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noboleis vineyards wedding

100 Hemsath Road, Augusta, MO (636) 482-4500 weddings@noboleisvineyards.com NoboleisVineyards.com Looking for your dream wedding in a vineyard? Noboleis Vineyards offers panoramic views of rolling hillsides, while the surrounding vineyards offer the backdrop to an outdoor ceremony and/or a reception for up to 200 people in our tented pavilion. Catering and bar options are available upon request. capacity 200 | price $$

old kinderhook

678 Old Kinderhook Drive, Camdenton, MO (573) 317-4442 | events@oldkinderhook.com OldKinderhook.com Our staff specializes in planning and delivering flawless events. We offer a complimentary guest room for the bride and groom for one night, on-site golf, a spa, dining and lodging. Rehearsals and rehearsal dinners are our specialty! Let us assist you with a perfect evening to enjoy family and friends. capacity 250 | price $$$

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the old post office

815 Olive Street, St. Louis, MO (314) 436-0101 OldPostOfficeSTL.com A historic landmark in the Old Post Office District downtown, built in 1884 and now renovated, the Old Post Office offers a sweeping neoclassical venue for wedding events. capacity 300 | price $$

overland park convention center

6000 College Boulevard, Overland Park, KS (913) 339-3000 mywedding@opconventioncenter.com OPConventionCenter.com We do weddings! But not just any weddings—your day, your way. You control the vision, and we create a breathtaking experience. Our capabilities are limitless, with more complimentary offerings than anyone else— plus an on-site coordinator and catering manager to work with you from start to finish. capacity 4,500 | price $$

palladium saint louis

1400 Park Place, St. Louis, MO (314) 881-4301 Palladium-STL.com A piece of history brought back to life, Palladium Saint Louis is a fusion between old world and contemporary design. An uncommon private event space with room for up to 700, Palladium Saint Louis is the distinctive choice for weddings and events of all shapes and sizes. capacity 700 | price $$$

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pavilion 75 event space

7435 Nieman Rd., Shawnee, KS (913) 738-9639 info@pavilion75eventspace.com Pavilion75EventSpace.com Beautiful, personal and unique, the Pavilion 75 Event Space has been serving couples for more than 16 years. Offering 6,000 square feet of customizable room space, we provide tables, chairs and linens, staffing, full-service bar and dance floor. Come in and see Johnson County’s best-kept secret. capacity 300 | price $$

the pavilion at iwerx

1520 Clay, North Kansas City, MO (816) 873-1520 NKCEventSpace.com Our premier event space has a modern industrial feel that can be lit with your custom lighting design. We offer an additional bar, entertainment space and bridal dressing room. Maximize your budget by bringing in your own catering and beverage selections. Call today to schedule your personal tour. capacity 250 | price $$

peabody opera house

(314) 499-7620 | PeabodyOperaHouse.com Celebrate the happiest day of your life at Peabody Opera House in the heart of downtown St. Louis. The classical elegance of Peabody Opera House has played host to some of the city’s greatest moments, making it the perfect place to host your unforgettable event. capacity 340 | price $$$

pennway place at studio dan meiners

2500 West Pennway, Kansas City, MO (816) 842-7244 | DanMeiners.com We are unique in the fact that our entire space can be changed to be the perfect venue. With 8,000 square feet to work with, everything can be arranged to create the exact feel the couple wants for their big day. Round tables with linens, glass top tables and even lounge furniture are all included. capacity 400 | price $$

the piper palm house

4256 Magnolia Avenue, St. Louis, MO (314) 771-4454 PalmHouseSTL.org The Piper Palm House, with its distinctive architecture, soaring ceilings and stately windows, is the perfect venue for a wedding, rehearsal dinner or engagement party. Constructed in 1878, the Palm House is the oldest standing greenhouse west of the Mississippi River. capacity 250 | price $$

piropos event space

4141 N. Mulberry Drive, Kansas City, MO (816) 741-9800 PiroposKC.com Piropos in Briarcliff Village offers a unique combination of elegance and location that makes it the perfect place

for your wedding reception, ceremony, rehearsal dinner, bridal shower, post-wedding brunch or other special event. You can have all your wedding celebrations in one location, saving time and money. Your guests will love the convenience and of course, the great food. capacity 150 | price $$$

prairiewood retreat & preserve

5020 Anderson, Manhattan, KS (785) 537-9999 | info@prairiewood.com Prairiewood.com Prairiewood Retreat & Preserve is an idyllic location nestled in the native tallgrass prairie of the Flint Hills. The incomparable beauty of the quiet countryside, combined with an abundance of amenities and features, makes Prairiewood the region’s premier destination for exceptional wedding events. capacity 250 | price $$$

public media commons

(314) 512-9021 acarr@ketc.org PublicMediaCommons.org This is an award-winning venue perfect for one-of-akind weddings and receptions. The 9,000-square-foot outdoor space is flanked on two sides by two-story digital screens for creating extraordinary settings, with a performance stage and outstanding sound system. Catering and rental services are available. capacity 500 | price $$$

restoration 1894 event space

1 East Kansas Street, Liberty, MO (816) 429-6488 events@restoration1894.com Restoration1894.com Located in the heart of the Historic Liberty Square, Restoration 1894 is the premier Northland venue for your event needs. Features include an open floor plan for up to 275 guests, vintage pressed tin ceilings, exposed brick, chandeliers as well as the beautiful private bridal suite and groom’s room. capacity 275 | price $$

the rhapsody

2322 East R.D. Mize Road, Independence, MO (816) 795-0777 | TheRhapsody.com Affordable elegance. Beautiful floors and archways enhance the Tuscan decor. Indoor/outdoor weddings with beautifully landscaped gardens, waterfall and pergola provide a memorable setting for photographs. Keep costs down by bringing in your own alcohol and using the caterer of your choice. capacity 275 | price $$

rose of the hill by favazza’s

2300 Edwards, St. Louis, MO (314) 772-6003 info@roseofthehill.com RoseoftheHill.com Rose of the Hill, located in St. Louis’ classic Hill neighborhood, maintains many historical features such as the original 35-foot dark wood bar in the bar room, chandeliers adorning the dining areas and the original

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A historic landmark in the Old Post Office District downtown, built in 1884 and now renovated, the Old Post Office offers a sweeping neoclassical venue for wedding events. 815 OLIVE STREET, ST. LOUIS, MO | (314) 436-0101

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shoal creek golf course

(816) 407-7242 EXT. 24 tmusso@kempersports.com ShoalCreekGolf.com The ballroom at Shoal Creek Golf Course is a favorite spot for weddings, bridal or baby showers, private parties, corporate events and seminars. The ballroom can accommodate up to 250, with a picturesque window overlooking our beautiful driving range, as well as a private entrance for your group. capacity 250 | price $$

silver oaks chateau

1168 MO-100, Pacific, MO (314) 280-8890 | info@silveroakschateau.com SilverOaksChateau.com Silver Oaks Chateau is one of St. Louis’ most sought after wedding venues. Located on 28 acres, the estate is ideal for outdoor ceremonies, stunning receptions and more!

the stanley historic space and aspen room

Serving the Greater KC area (816) 600-2065 TheStanleyEventSpace.com Both venues combine modern touches with vintage design. At The Stanley, we strive to give every guest the ultimate experience for memories that will last a lifetime. With the addition of The Aspen Room & Rooftop, The Stanley Event Complex is the place to hold your complete function. capacity 300 | price $$

stone house of st. charles

4401 McClay Road, St. Charles, MO (636) 317-1222 | ruth@shofsc.com SHofSC.com Have a beautiful outdoor wedding. The Stone House is for the bride and bridesmaids for hair, makeup and photos. The guesthouse is for the groomsmen, with a kitchen area designed for men and a rustic knotty-pine billiards room that overlooks the courtyard. The Grand Hall is a spectacular timber-framed structure. capacity 350 | price $$$

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sophia m. sachs butterfly house in chesterfield

Faust Park, 15193 Olive Blvd., Chesterfield, MO (636) 530-0076 EXT. 827 | bhevents@mobot.org ButterflyHouse.org The Sophia M. Sachs Butterfly House in Chesterfield is the ideal location for the wedding of your dreams. Choose from a number of settings for up to 120 guests including the stone-pillar gazebo in the garden, a deck positioned over a babbling brook or the tented pavilion near the picturesque lake. capacity 120 | price $$

st. louis community foundation at #2 oak knoll

#2 Oak Knoll Park, Clayton, MO (314) 664-7680 | info@butlerspantry.com ButlersPantry.com/venues/the-st-louiscommunity-foundation-2-oak-knoll-park An elegant manor nestled in a park, the St. Louis Community Foundation at #2 Oak Knoll is one of two stone mansions built in the early 20th century that resides conveniently in Clayton. Entertaining here really conjures the charm of entertaining in one’s home. This is truly a mansion for your memories! capacity 200 | price $$

the st. louis carousel at faust park 15189 Olive Blvd., Chesterfield, MO (314) 615-8344 StLouisCo.com/parks St. Louis Carousel can accommodate a wedding ceremony inside and/or outside the building on our patio. We provide a staff person to run the carousel and allow outside caterers. Call to make an appointment to view. capacity 200+ | price $

125 Boone Country Lane, Defiance, MO (636) 987-2400 sugarcreekwineryweddings@gmail.com SugarCreekWines.com Sugar Creek Winery is ready to create your ideal wedding celebration. Our winery offers the perfect venue, and our expert staff will help you add your personal signatures to our spectacular winery overlooking the Missouri River Valley. capacity 200+ | price $$

sunset bluffs venue

1775 Bieker Rd., Washington, MO (314) 660-2210 | sunsetbluffsvenue@gmail.com SunsetBluffsVenue.com This private, natural setting is nestled in the scenic countryside of some of Missouri’s favorite wineries. Our weekend wedding package includes housing for up to 20 people, breathtaking views and more. Your fully customizable special day awaits. capacity 250 | price $$$

the terrace on grand

1520 Grand Blvd., Kansas City, MO (816) 527-0026 TerraceonGrand.com Kansas City’s most exciting event space, The Terrace on Grand is conveniently located in the heart of downtown. The Terrace offers 5,000 feet of classy, urban, indoor event space, with an exciting roof deck. Our contemporary, elegant, versatile space will provide the ideal backdrop for your wedding. capacity 220 | price $$

thompson barn

11184 Lackman Road, Lenexa, KS (913) 477-7100

mdanler@lenexa.com Lenexa.com/thompsonbarn The Thompson Barn is an exquisite, intimate space, perfect for those looking for a unique blend of modern and rustic for a wedding or reception. A regal historic farmhouse with a gorgeous garden shares the grounds with the renovated barn and spacious, multi-colored brick patio. capacity 200 | price $$

tiffany greens golf club

6100 NW Tiffany Springs Pkwy., Kansas City, MO (816) 880-9600 EXT. 224 kpower@tiffanygreensgolf.com TiffanyGreensGolf.com/clubhouse-info /banquet-info Tiffany Greens is perfect for your Kansas City wedding ceremony, reception and rehearsal dinner! Come see our beautiful, newly renovated banquet room, featuring incredible views of one of Kansas City’s top golf courses in a desirable location minutes from Kansas City International Airport and hotels. capacity 200 | price $$

top of the met and kemoll’s italian restaurant

One Metropolitan Square, St. Louis, MO (314) 421-0555 Kemolls.com Dazzling views of St. Louis’ skyline and riverfront from the 42nd floor, fine food and gracious, friendly service make your wedding memorable and beautiful. Garage parking, all-inclusive packages and reduced-rate dates are available. Kemoll’s, founded in 1927, is family owned and operated. capacity 300 | price $$$

town pavilion

1111 Main Street, Kansas City, MO (816) 701-5038 TownPavilionKC.com Allow the dramatic architectural details of the Rotunda at Town Pavilion to provide the backdrop for your reception. Classic marble floors, a grand double staircase and modern details comprise a truly unique venue. Easy access and convenient amenities will make your event exceptional. capacity 300 | price $$

trail smokehouse

2886 South Highway 94, Defiance, MO (636) 798-2400 | htharp@trailsmokehouse.com TrailSmokehouse.com Overlooking the beautiful Missouri River bluffs and surrounded by wineries for miles, Trail Smokehouse creates an unforgettable experience for your special day. We offer custom menus centered around our slowsmoked BBQ; homemade, classic Southern side dishes; in-house desserts; and specialty cocktails. capacity 250 | price $$$

union horse distilling co.

11740 West 86th Terrace, Lenexa, KS (913) 492-3275 | events@unionhorse.com

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uptown theater

3700 Broadway, Ste. 300, Kansas City, MO (816) 753-8665 | uptowneventskc@gmail.com UptownTheater.com Your name in lights • Receptions, rehearsal dinners and weddings • Four unique rooms • 25 to 1,200 people • Custom designed banquets, buffets and beverages • Abundant parking • Central location near Westport between the Country Club Plaza and Crown Center capacity 400+ | price $$

the venue at willow creek

Kansas City, KS (913) 568-9535 | venue@willowcreekkc.com WillowCreekKC.com This sweet setting is the perfect spot you’ve been wishing for! Our creekside garden ceremony flows seamlessly to our moonlight patio. Guests are invited into our venue for dinner, dancing and so much more. capacity 250 | price $$$

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4800 W. 135th Street (913) 681-8368 TheVenueinLeawood.com Elegant and Intimate....The Venue In Leawood. capacity 300 | price $$$

venues at 061: heritage center at mahaffie & olathe community center

Olathe, KS (913) 971-5501 | (913) 971-8753 The Heritage Center is situated on the Mahaffie Stagecoach Stop & Farm historic site, offering an intimate setting in its rustic, timber-frame interior. The Olathe Community Center is a contemporary option with a stunning view of the ponds, fountains and grand oak trees of Stage Coach Park. capacity 200 | price $$

villa antonio winery

Hillsboro, MO (636) 475-5008 veronica@villaantoniowinery.com VillaAntonioWinery.com Our elegant vineyard venue provides a stunning and romantic setting for your wedding! Your family and guests will have an enchanting experience to remember for years. Enjoy our award-winning wines and exquisite cuisine at your rehearsal or day-after brunch with special and out-of-town guests! capacity 500 | price $$$

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the vineyard at riverbend chapel

827 Ming Drive, Washington, MO (636) 390-8600 | riverbendchapel@hotmail.com RiverbendChapelInc.com Imagine exchanging your vows overlooking the picturesque Missouri River bluffs with one of the best views of the river itself! Or, tie the knot inside Riverbend’s beautiful windowed chapel. Indoors or outdoors, the beauty of your wedding will be a lasting, treasured memory for many years to come! capacity 300 | price $$

visions kc

Kansas City, MO (816) 841-2362 | VisionsKC.com Visions KC operates the beautiful venue The View at Briarcliff. We can accommodate up to 450 seated and are located in Courtyard by Marriott Hotel. We offer in- or outdoor ceremonies with a skyline backdrop, plus we’re flexible, friendly and fun! capacity 450 | price $$$

visions reception hall

6320 Manchester Avenue, Kansas City, MO (816) 358-2606 | psolomon@iaff42.org VisionsReceptionHall.com For sophisticated celebrations our banquet room is available for wedding receptions, rehearsal dinners and other celebrations, accommodating up to 500 guests. Convenient central location! capacity 400+ | price $$

vista 154 at ironhorse golf club

15400 Mission Rd., Leawood, KS (913) 696-7752 | troyn@ironhorsegolf.com Ironhorsegolf.com Leawood’s newest venue is taking reservations for events beginning September 1, 2017. This will be the ideal space for weddings and wedding receptions! From all-inclusive packages to small but elegant receptions, we will make sure your special day goes off without a hitch! capacity 250 | price $$$

voce

212 S. Tucker Blvd., St. Louis, MO (314) 570-8715 | VoceSTL.com Voce can accommodate 150 guests with banquet rounds and in-house linens. Decorate however you like to make your day memorable. Voce has a state-of-the-art, in-house sound system for your reception band, with a stage that can transform into a dance floor. Don’t want the party to end? Celebrate until 3 a.m.! capacity 150 | price $$

vox wedding venue at vox dei community

622 2nd St., Belton, MO (816) 348-7737 jonathan@voxdeicommunity.com VoxDeiCommunity.com Vox Dei Community is a church in southeast Kansas City, and we would love to host your wedding or event!

Weddings include the sanctuary and two additional rooms. We invite you to set up an appointment so you can stop by to see our different gathering spaces and receive a custom quote for your event. capacity 350 | price $$

whitmoor country club

1100 Whitmoor Drive, St. Charles, MO (636) 926-9622 WhitmoorGolf.com Our three main dining spaces can be combined to accommodate up to 400 people. The Trophy Room will seat up to 300 and features a fireplace. You can combine the Trophy Room with The Eagle and Whitmoor Rooms to accommodate an additional 100 guests. capacity 400 | price $$

wichita art museum

1400 W. Museum Blvd., Wichita, KS (316) 268-4912 | events@wichitaartmuseum.org WichitaArtMuseum.org Artistic. Exquisite. Dynamic. The Wichita Art Museum is a unique venue for weddings, receptions and parties. Dance the night away under the monumental Confetti Chandelier by international glass artist Dale Chihuly. Surround yourself and your guests with outstanding works of American art. capacity 250+ | price $$$$

willow

321 North 10th St., St. Louis, MO (314) 899-0430 | events@baileysrestaurants.com WeddingsinWillow.com Willow is a gorgeous new event space from Baileys’ Restaurants featuring floor-to-ceiling windows, stunning branch chandeliers and two floors of seating. Providing your entire event catering ourselves, you can expect the same high-quality food and amazing service you find in all Baileys’ restaurants. capacity 300 | price $$$

windows on washington®

1601 Washington Ave., St. Louis, MO (314) 241-5555 | jcornwall@wowbanquets.com WOWBanquets.com From the champagne greeting to the chocolate mint departure, Windows On Washington creates events that are more than memorable. Featuring uniquely styled loft spaces, open-air verandas and city views, our experienced coordinators help you design the event of your dreams with the style and panache you deserve! capacity 400+ | price $$

.zack

(314) 304-3602 becky@kranzbergartsfoundation.org The fourth floor Urban Ballroom features brick walls and downtown views. Ideal for cocktail parties, the Theatre offers an elevated stage and A/V packages, and the Restaurant is perfect for rehearsals. Powered by the Kranzberg Arts Foundation, all event proceeds directly benefit the arts in St. Louis. capacity 400 | price $$$

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cakes & caterers

CakesandCakesbyShelly.com I work closely with each client to design what complements the couple’s personalities. My cakes are all baked fresh to order, never frozen. I source local companies whenever possible, and I believe in exceptional service from tasting to delivery and the couple’s first bite of cake.

ces & judy’s catering 23 city blocks catering

(314) 615-2480 23CityBlocks.com 23 City Blocks Catering’s Executive Chef Nicholas Miller crafts from the freshest local ingredients, presenting plates with artistic flair. The Caramel Room and Lumen Private Event Space’s team assures that you and your guests are impressed at every bite. Catering has never tasted so pretty.

championship catering

1 Ponder Executive Plaza, House Springs, MO (884) 448-4340 | info@theblueowlbakery.com TheBlueOwlBakery.com The Blue Owl Bakery provides the perfect options to fit your wedding day! From artistic custom wedding cakes to grand dessert buffets, we can provide something delicious that perfectly fits your wedding style.

3354 Iowa Ave., St. Louis, MO (314) 606-9520 ChampionshipCatering.com Championship Catering is the most referred caterer in St. Louis! We serve quality, phenomenal food at a great price. We cater fantastic venues including 3rd Degree Glass Factory, Casa Loma Ballroom, AERIE’S Terrace, NEO on Locust and many more. Call Chef Larry G to discuss your big day!

brancato’s catering

classic cakes & more

the blue owl bakery

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10405 Clayton Road, St. Louis, MO (314) 991-6700 | info@cesandjudys.com CesandJudys.com With unlimited options for menus and venues, including St. Louis’ newest premier event space, The Venue at Maison du Lac, opening 2018, we will achieve an event unique to you. Our talented team of chefs and creatives will design a lasting memory your guests—and your taste buds— won’t soon forget.

5050 Kansas Ave., Kansas City, KS (816) 765-4707 | sales@brancatoscatering.com BrancatosCatering.com Brancato’s Catering provides not only fine food, but service customized to the special event needs of our customers. From corporate functions to weddings; from backyard picnics to elegant soirees; from hors d’oeuvres to full service meals, Brancato’s Catering offers the finest in event coordination and execution.

butler’s pantry

1414 Park Avenue, St. Louis, MO (314) 664-7680 | info@butlerspantry.com ButlersPantry.com From the moment we begin listening to your vision, to the “thank you” of the last guest, Butler’s Pantry is committed to planning and executing your unforgettable wedding. Our sales managers, culinary team and event staff sincerely enjoy collaborating to ensure you can be a guest on your big day!

the cakery

1420 Tamm Avenue in Dogtown, St. Louis, MO (314) 647-6000 | info@thecakerybakery.net TheCakeryBakery.net We specialize in cakes, cupcakes and cookies skillfully decorated to your specifications. Our luscious madefrom-scratch buttercream tops all of our creations, making your wedding dessert as delicious as it is beautiful.

cakes and cakes by shelly Prairie Village, KS (913) 488-7261 cakesandcakesbyshelly@gmail.com

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Olathe & surrounding area (913) 757-4519 ClassicCakesandMore.com “Awesome!” That’s what you will hear from your guests when they see and taste our beautiful buttercream cake creations. Our homemade products are always baked fresh, never frozen or mass-produced in a warehouse. Please contact us to schedule a complimentary cake tasting. You’ll be glad you did!

quality using the freshest ingredients. Our experienced staff will offer you the quality service that you expect and our reputation demands.

sarah’s cake shop

10 Clarkson Wilson Centre, Chesterfield, MO (314) 750-8334 heather.csc@sbcglobal.net SarahsCakeShopSTL.com Sarah’s Cake Shop strives to create the perfect wedding cake that captures each bride’s individual personality. From whimsical to simple and elegant, each cake portrays quality that’s as unique as the bride who chooses it. Wedding cake consultations and tastings are by appointment only. Come taste the difference.

sugaree baking co.

1242 Tamm Avenue, St. Louis, MO (314) 645-5496 | pat@sugareebaking.com SugareeBaking.com We use the highest quality, freshest and finest products to create your desserts from scratch with real butter. Contact us today for your tasting for a wedding cake or pie that your guests will be raving about long after your wedding day!

susie g’s specialty cakes

2679 Highway K, O’Fallon, MO (636) 240-7610 | susiegscakes@aol.com SusieGsCakes.com We take pride in every cake we make. We make our buttercream icing from scratch—it is so scrumptious and delicious. Our cakes are made to order. Come visit us!

flowers & décor

it’s a sweet treat day bakery

528 East 4th Street, Tonganoxie, KS (913) 284-9074 ItsASweetTreatDayBakery.com We work intimately with our couples to provide the very best in wedding desserts, including cakes, cupcakes and much more, plus delivery and setup! We understand the desire for great flavor and amazing design all within a budget, so we strive for elegance and perfection with everything we do.

mcarthur’s bakery artisan cakes

3055 Lemay Ferry Road, St. Louis, MO (314) 894-0900 | weddings@mcarthurs.com McArthurs.com/weddings.asp Since 1956 McArthur’s Bakery has used only the finest ingredients to craft mouthwatering wedding cakes. We will bake and decorate your wedding cake to your specifications. We want to help make your wedding day the most memorable day ever.

russo’s catering

(314) 427-6771 | RussosGourmet.com Russo’s Catering is family owned and operated. We have dedicated ourselves to preparing foods of the highest

alex waldbart florist

7000 Clayton Rd., St. Louis, MO (314) 644-3566 | waldbartflorist@sbcglobal.net AlexWaldbartFlorist.com At Alex Waldbart Florist, you will experience friendly designers, creative ideas, magazine-quality bouquets and service beyond compare. Thank you for choosing us!

les bouquets

7905 Big Bend Blvd., Ste. 102, Webster Groves, MO (314) 395-8335 | melinda@lesbouquets.com LesBouquets.com Known for our creativity and unique style, we are passionate about providing you beautiful flowers as well as the attention you deserve.

poppies design studio

10405 Baur Blvd., Suite F, Olivette, MO (314) 952-1591

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Alexander Liberman, The Way, 1972–80. Photo by Chris Bauer Photography.

Renovated Estate House. Photo by Wendi Fitzgerald.

Adam Aronson Fine Arts Center. Photo by Katherine Bish Photography.

CEREMONIES / RECEPTIONS / SHOWERS / REHEARSAL DINNERS / CORPORATE MEETINGS + EVENTS Conveniently located near I-270 and I-44 in Sunset Hills 12580 Rott Road / Saint Louis, Missouri 63127 / 314.615.5278 www.laumeier.org

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• Enjoy our spectacular view from our new hilltop pavilion • Seating 250+ guests • Each guest will have special memories of your day • Take unique engagement photos in our vineyard or on barrels in our wine cellar For a personalized tour or more information please contact Lisa today at sugarcreekwineryweddings@gmail.com

SUGARCREEKWINES.COM • 636-987-2400 • 125 BOONE COUNTRY LANE • DEFIANCE, MO

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schnucks florist & gifts

St. Louis, MO (314) 997-2444 SchnucksFloral.com At our floral design center, our professional designers are dedicated to bringing your dream wedding to life! Our special event coordinators will help you with everything including colors and trends. From elegant to extravagant, you are our top priority when planning your special day!

stems florist

210 Saint Francois Street, St. Louis, MO (314) 972-7836 Stems4Weddings.com Stems Florist, an award-winning professional florist, creating wedding bouquets that are works of art, centerpieces that will keep your guests talking and wedding florals to celebrate your day—for wedding flowers as “unique” as you!

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the dress of your dreams! Visit our exquisite showroom today!

the Michael Kors tuxedo and Black Label suits! Prices start at $69.95.

fabulous frocks of kansas city

swyden cleaners

1207 W. 47th St., Kansas City, MO (816) 820-7619 kansascity@fabulousfrocksbridal.com FabulousFrocksBridal.com Hello, brides! Congratulations on your upcoming wedding! We carry a handpicked selection of gowns available for off-the-rack purchase. From Amsale to Vera Wang, we offer brides the couture gown (without the hefty price tag) in a fun environment. We also carry new-to-order veils, jewelry and sashes.

the gown gallery

1901 Main Street, Loft, Kansas City, MO (816) 361-8111 | info@gowngallery.com GownGallery.com Celebrating 25 years of style. The Gown Gallery flaunts a wide and ever-changing array of bridal, bridesmaid, mothers’ and special occasion gowns from leading designers. Follow us on Facebook @thegowngallery and Instagram #gowngallery for what’s fabulous in bridal!

all my heart bridal

amore´ bridal and tuxedo llc

18900 Valley View Pkwy., Independence, MO (816) 373-7400 | mail@amorebride.com AmoreBride.com Exclusive designers, intimate appointments, unique accessories, exceptional service. Awakening the beauty within you…Experience Amoré.

emily hart bridal

12450 Blue Valley Parkway, Overland Park, KS (913) 681-1500 EmilyHartBridal.com Picking a dress for your special day should be fun and enjoyable. Between our large selection of beautiful designer gowns and the option of having a customdesigned bridal gown by Emily, you are sure to find

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white traditions bridal house

827 N. 2nd Street, St. Charles, MO (636) 939-6005 | hello@whitetraditionsbridal.com WhiteTraditionsBridal.com We have personally selected our designer bridal gowns and have a friendly staff that is excited to help you look great on your wedding day! You will always remember how beautiful you felt and how your groom’s jaw dropped the moment he saw you! We want to help you ﬁnd that oh-so-perfect gown.

jewelry

katie lee custom bridal

Lenexa, KS (913) 961-5044 | contact@katieleebridal.com KatieLeeBridal.com Katie Lee crafts luxurious custom bridal gowns and special occasion dresses known for their modern elegance and made from fine fabrics with couture construction techniques and impeccable finishes. The process includes a sketch, fabric selection, a sample dress and fittings to create a sophisticated dress.

mia’s bridal & tailoring

1551 NE Douglas St., Lee’s Summit, MO (816) 600-0651 | hello@allmyheartbridal.com AllMyHeartBridal.com All My Heart Bridal is Kansas City’s first and only bridal boutique with curves. Specifically serving brides sizes 14+, our salon features designs from Allure Women, Callista Bridal, Studio Levana and the Julietta Collection from Morilee. We look forward to meeting you soon!

329 E. Gregory Blvd., Kansas City, MO (816) 444-7774 Before the wedding, bring your dress to us. We’ll freshen it and attend to every detail of lace, sequins, and beads as it’s expertly pressed. After your wedding, we’ll clean, press, and preserve your gown, and package your wedding dress for posterity. Your gown will remain as beautiful as your memories.

2235 E. Kansas City Rd., Olathe, KS (913) 764-9114 | sales@miasbridal.com MiasBridal.com Mia’s Bridal is a full-service bridal boutique offering designer dresses and accessories for all members of your wedding party. We also offer tuxedo and suit rentals, all types of alterations and an all-inclusive bridal package. Call or email us today to make your appointment!

nolte’s bridal

Overland Park, KS (913) 345-1122 | NoltesBridal.com As Kansas City’s most experienced wedding coordinator, Michael Nolte will personally coordinate the details of your rehearsal, wedding and reception. Your questions of “Where do I begin?” and most importantly, “What are my options?” and “Who will see that all this happens correctly?” and more are answered.

savvi formalwear

10 convenient locations (800) TUXEDO-4 stlservice@savviformalwear.com SavviWedding.com We were voted Best Formalwear Specialist in St. Louis three years in a row. With our local warehouse, you can feel confident your attire will fit perfectly. Schedule a free groom’s try-on in all styles, fits and colors including

jayson jewelers, ltd.

Two Locations in Cape Girardeau, MO Historic Downtown (573) 334-8711 Crossroads (573) 651-6447 info@jaysonjewelers.com | JaysonJewelers.com We offer designer and classic diamond engagement rings and wedding and anniversary bands in modern and vintage designs. We use a large selection of loose diamonds, gemstones and pearls for custom designs. Our GIA graduate gemologist provides appraisals. Our master jeweler provides on-site repairs.

mazzarese

4850 W. 135th St. Leawood, KS (913) 491-4111 | info@mazzarese.com Mazzarese.com Our family has been in the jewelry business for four generations. Today, we proudly serve Kansas City with one-of-a-kind pieces not available anywhere else in the Midwest. Whether it’s imported or designed in-house, craftsmanship and quality will always be at the core of the Mazzarese tradition.

meierotto jewelers

4311 NE Vivion Rd., Kansas City, MO (816) 453-1111 | MJewelry.com Founded in 1979, Meierotto Jewelers is a family jewelry store with Kansas City’s largest selection of loose diamonds, custom and designer engagement rings, and superior customer service.

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42nd floor views. World-class food. Why settle for less?

211 North Broadway, Saint Louis, Missouri, 63102 • 314.421.0555 • kemolls.com

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tivol

Kansas City, MO, and Overland Park, KS (816) 531-5800 | (913) 345-0200 TIVOL.com With locations on the Country Club Plaza and in Hawthorne Plaza, TIVOL has provided an unmatched selection of jewelry and fine timepieces since 1910. Family-owned for four generations, TIVOL is known for its friendly, approachable, white-glove customer service as Kansas City’s premier jeweler. Financing and layaway options available every day.

vanbrock

10527 Mission Road, Leawood, KS (913) 341-7273 VanBrockJewels.com Whether your style is classic or contemporary, VanBrock has a wide variety of engagement and bridal rings. Our wedding bands are as unique as the love that inspires them, a reflection of fine craftsmanship. By appointment, experience for yourself why VanBrock is the ultimate in fine jewelry.

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a bride’s ally

Serving St. Louis and surrounding areas (314) 560-4138 victoria@abridesally.com ABridesAlly.com We specialize in day-of coordination and supporting your planning process on your own terms. We’re here when you need us and step back when you don’t. We’re your partner in design and details, your confidant when things get sticky. We are your ally.

absolutely in! events

8820 Ladue Road, Suite 203, St. Louis, MO (314) 315-1775 info@absolutelyin.com AbsolutelyIn.com Absolutely IN! Events is a team of thoughtful, designsavvy, detail-obsessed event specialists. Our approach combines your ideas with our expertise to design a distinct experience—prioritizing superior customer service, assembling a team tailored to your needs and breathing life into your vision.

chappelow events

(816) 728-3066 beth@chappelowevents.com ChappelowEvents.com CE couples love the encouraging, collaborative approach we use for managing their wedding planning process! Our method will inspire you to plan with confidence, while designing a wedding experience that genuinely reflects your incredible, personal style.

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events by elle

11651 East 350 Highway, Raytown, MO (816) 215-0566 theellegirls@eventsbyellekc.com EventsbyElleKC.com You’re dreaming of your big day that’s full of joy and creativity, a day full of memories for your family and friends to talk about for years to come. We are here to help you plan your wedding with confidence and, of course, personality.

kat gaines events

beau vaughn photography, videography, photobooth and dj

(866) 918-BEAU (2328) weddings@beauvaughn.com BeauVaughn.com Beau Vaughn is your one-stop shopping experience for quality photography, videography, photo booth, slow motion video booth and DJ services. We will create the perfect package for your wedding, so please email us to schedule a free consultation. Check out our unbeatable pricing and services on our website!

St. Louis, MO (314) 602-6951 kat@katgainesevents.com KatGainesEvents.com Launched in 2010, Kat Gaines Events is recognized as an industry leader, known for constantly creating perfectly designed and styled wedding that are exceptional. We work very closely with you to ensure that your event reflects who you are. This is what makes the Kat Gaines experience unique!

beth stratbucker photography & fine art

kate & co.

breezy photography

(314) 909-9996 KateandCoLLC.com Working with only the most discerning creative partners from concept to execution, Kate & Company is award winning, industry referred and client adored. Offering an extensive design and full-planning experience, Kate & Company promises unparalleled service and an incomparable attention to detail.

(402) 618-5506 BStratbuckerPhotographyFA.com I am so grateful to do what I love. As a photographer, it is my goal to capture all of the memories on the wedding day for the bride and groom to cherish forever. Contact me for more information, and check out my website for some more photo love. Ah, I love weddings! Congrats, and happy wedding planning!

Overland Park, KS (785) 443-5910 | breezyphotography@outlook.com AshleyHeier.Zenfolio.com Every wedding is a magical love story between two people. Let us be there to tell your love story that you’ll be able to look back on for a lifetime. Your photos will allow you two to relive this important day in your lives. Every moment of your wedding matters. Let us help you preserve them.

mckenzie phillips events, llc

(913) 207-9288 mckenziephillipsevents@outlook.com McKenziePhillipsEvents.com Our team specializes in professional wedding planning, coordination, design services and event rentals to make your dream day a reality. Our focus allows you to be fully present during this special time in your life. Our mission is to make your celebration both memorable and affordable.

photography & video

aubrey erin photography

(816) 510-8832 | aubrey@aubreyerinphoto.com AubreyErinPhoto.com Aubrey Erin is a Kansas City wedding photographer who loves telling each unique wedding story through images. Once the wedding is over, your memories are preserved through her photojournalistic approach. Aubrey’s unique style has a vintage modern flair, and she takes great care in every detail.

move weddings

(417) 399-7027 | movelaced@gmail.com MoveWeddings.com We’re dedicated to capturing your day the way you deserve. We are with you from hair and makeup through your reception events, documenting all the special moments. We offer multiple packages, always deliver raw footage and have options for love story reception films as well as other features and upgrades.

my michelle’s photography

213 N. Park Ave., Herrin, IL mymichelles@mymichellesphotography.com MyMichellesPhotography.com Our photo booth is the ultimate in selfies! The design is small and sleek as to not interrupt your style or decorating, and the booth takes still photos and videos with complete social media integration. Your wedding day is going to be fun—let your guests take some of it home.

noire studios photography

(816) 875-0114 NoireStudios.com My focus for your wedding day is to capture all the moments of love, laughter and fun! I build a special bond with all my clients, which I feel is very important! Don’t be surprised if I tear up during the ceremony, hug you before you go down the aisle or laugh along with you. I can’t wait to meet you!

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Specialty Cakes

A Special Cake For Your Special Day susiegscakes@aol.com 636-240-7610

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Hyatt Regency St. Louis at The Arch provides the perfect setting for any wedding occasion: from dynamic grand ballrooms and the inviting Park View room to the memorable rooftop Gateway Ballroom and terrace overlooking the Gateway Arch. For more information, call 314 342 4655 or visit stlouisarch.regency.hyatt.com. HYATT REGENCY ST. LOUIS AT THE ARCH 315 Chestnut Street St. Louis, Missouri, USA, 63102 The trademarks HYATT®, Hyatt Regency®, and related marks are trademarks of Hyatt Corporation. ©2017 Hyatt Corporation. All rights reserved.

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sara rieth: romantic storytelling wedding photographer

(316) 648-2621 SaraRiethPhotography.com Sara tells America’s best love stories in happily ever after form.

tower studios

(636) 448-9131 info@towervideophoto.com You’ve picked a dress, a caterer, a reception hall, a DJ—picking a wedding videographer should be easy! That’s why, at Tower Studios, we’ve designed full-day, no-time-limit packages that will cover your entire day, and paired them with our best editors for a polished, cinema-worthy movie!

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contemporary productions

Serving Kansas City, St. Louis and surrounding areas (314) 721-9090 ContemporaryProductions.com Having a high-energy wedding band that meets your demands is a must. At Contemporary, we always cater to your specific needs. Let us help you discover the entertainer that will keep your family and friends together on the dance floor for the most memorable night of your life.

invitations & details

us make it a great one! Our high-quality cardstock comes in over 130 colors to coordinate with your special occasion. Choose from our gallery, or let us work with you to make something custom!

the faire market

St. Louis, MO (314) 604-1625 | katie@thefairemarket.com TheFaireMarket.com The Faire Market offers beautiful, handcrafted wedding invitations on premium cotton and linen paper. Each collection is handmade and features an array of painted, fabric and foiled detailing. Contact us for more info, pricing details and to set up a complimentary consultation!!

skr paper creations, llc

(913) 620-3408 sarah@skrpapercreations.com SKRPaperCreations.com At SKR Paper Creations, we take your wedding stationery needs off your shoulders but never out of your hands. This starts with a personal consultation where we get to know your style and your tastes. Then we create a custom invitation that is sure to make you smile.

yellowbrick graphics

(913) 309-7889 yellowbrick.graphic@gmail.com YellowBrickGraphics.com YellowBrick Graphics specializes in luxury, handmade wedding invitations and event stationery. From design to full-service assembly, invitations are customized to set the tone for any special event. Contact us today for a consultation to start your event on the right road!

specialty services

or a planner realize her client’s vision for the event of the season. In business for over 23 years, Alobar’s makes an ordinary event extraordinary.

arthur murray dance studio

9217 Pflumm Road, Lenexa, KS (913) 599-4444 kcarthurmurray@gmail.com KCArthurMurray.com Surprise your friends and family with a spectacular first dance! Let the pros at Arthur Murray help you make this the most treasured day of your life!

blanc de bleu cuv´ee mousseux

(855) 874-2394 Blanc de Bleu is the world’s first blue sparkling wine—a dry, crisp, sparkling grape wine with a hint of organic blueberry. It’s perfect for wedding receptions. Visit BlancdeBleuUSA.com for your nearest retailer. Drink responsibly.

fish eye fun

St. Louis, MO (314) 621-8638 | info@fisheyefun.com FishEyeFun.com Fish Eye Fun is a fun and funky alternative to a traditional photo booth. With our open-air booth design, fisheye lens, professional studio lighting and unique image processing, you’ll see that Fish Eye Fun really is way more than a photo booth!

grand rental station

570 Rudder Road, Fenton, MO (636) 343-PARTY (7278) info@grandrental-stl.com This is your best stop for all your wedding and party rental needs. We rent tents, tables, linen, specialty linen, spandex linen, chairs, chair covers, centerpieces, dance floor, staging, china, glassware, grills, chafing dishes, lighting and concession machines (popcorn, frozen drink, cotton candy), and more.

innovative lighting & design

bp creative group

6976 West 105th Street, Overland Park, KS (816) 716-9175 mreinert@bpcreativegroup.com BPCreativeGroup.com BP Creative Group creates exquisite wedding invitations and social stationery. There are endless possibilities to fit your unique style, including laser cutting, letterpress, foil stamping, envelope addressing and so much more!

czinvitations

info@czinvitations.com CZInvitations.com Facebook.com/czinvitations Invitations are the first impression of your wedding—let

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all seasons event rental

5050 Kansas Ave., Kansas City, KS (816) 765-1444 sales@allseasonseventrental.com AllSeasonsEventRental.com All Seasons Event Rental is Kansas City’s premier event rental company. We know what it takes to execute a successful event; our experience allows us to meet your needs through comprehensive planning and trendsetting products.

alobar’s lighting and sound

716 Hanley Industrial Court, St. Louis, MO (314) 781-7600 | diane@alobars.net Alobars.com Alobar’s is there to help a DJ configure the right party sound, a bride choose the right lights for her big night

1632 Broadway Boulevard, Kansas City, MO (816) 421-6999 in_light@mac.com InnovativeLightingDesign.com Lighting can make a room pop, and for your special day we pay attention to detail, offering custom fabric backdrops and unique lighting solutions to create spectacular results—making your event unforgettable. Innovative Lighting & Design, in the Crossroads Arts District, is just that: innovative.

weinhardt party rentals

5901 Elizabeth Ave., St. Louis, MO 11601 Manchester Road, Des Peres, MO (314) 822-9000 inquiries@weinhardtpartyrentals.com WeinhardtPartyRentals.com Weinhardt Party Rentals is a full-service event rental company dedicated to providing quality equipment at an affordable price. Weinhardt Rentals has been a family owned and operated business since 1946. An experienced, established St. Louis tradition—why trust your event with anyone else?

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RESOURCE INDEX SITES & LOCATIONS

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The Chase Park Plaza

249

18 North Central The Loft Banquet Center

380

The Cheshire

266

28 Event Space

107

Circle S Ranch

119

612North Event Space|Catering

337

Clayton Plaza Hotel

315

2016 MAIN

135

Crown Valley Winery

299

Adams Pointe Golf Club

219

The DeLeon

167

Allegro Ballroom

162

Dodson Orchards

381

Anew Rooftop Venue

387

Eighteen Ninety

219

Ball Conference Center

201

Events by Panorama, Saint Louis Art Museum

234

Barnett on Washington

282

Executive Hills Polo Club

153

Berg Event Space

142

Feasts of Fancy

Cover

Big Cedar Lodge

Insert

Forest Hills Country Club

349

Blue Bell Farm

Foundry Art Centre

399

Bogey Hills Country Club

355

The Franklin Room

288

Boo Cat Club

320

The Gallery

Botanica

179

Genesis Banquet Center & Catering

340

The Bowery

147

Grbic Private Event Space

356

The Brass on Baltimore

139

The Guild

113

The Bride & The Bauer

136

Hawthorne House

Brooklyn Hall at Enright Gardens

230

Hermann Hill

297

The Brownstone Wedding & Event Venue

194

Hilton Kansas City Airport

196

Buca di Beppo

Hilton President Kansas City

225

Californos

129

Hilton St. Louis at the Ballpark

359

Camp Miola

151

Hilton St. Louis Frontenac

367

The Caramel Room at Bissingerâ&#x20AC;&#x2122;s

Insert

The Historic Jefferson Ballroom

277

Cardinals Special Events

291

The Historic Scarritt Buildings

125

Casa Loma Ballroom

312

Hyatt Place Kansas City/Lenexa City Center Ballroom

131

Catering St. Louis

Cover

Hyatt Regency St. Louis at the Arch

401

Cedar Creek

Innsbrook Resort

325

Cedar Lake Cellars

257

The InterContinental Hotel

149

Chandler Hill Vineyards

The Jacobson

192

The Charles F. Knight Center

395

Joule St. Louis

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Palladium St. Louis

Kansas City Convention Center

222

Pavilion 75 Event Space

216

Kemoll’s/Top of the Met

399

The Pavilion at iWerx

174

Kuhs Estate and Farm

243

Peabody Opera House

La Perla

339

Pennway Place at Studio Dan Meiners

145

LaChance Vineyards

346

Piropos

133

Laumeier Sculpture Park

397

Prairiewood Retreat & Preserve

The Legacy at Green Hills

165

Public Media Commons

391

Lemp Mansion Restaurant & Inn

361

Restoration 1894

199

The Lodge of Four Seasons

The Rhapsody

Longview Mansion

169

Rose of the Hill by Favazza’s

300

Lost Hill Lake Events

293

Shoal Creek Golf Course

226

Lumen Private Event Center

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Silver Oaks Chateau

305

Lumière Place Casino & Hotels

371

Sophia M. Sachs Butterfly House

393

The Magic House

333

St. Louis Carousel

395

Majorette

281

The Stanley

The Malthouse Cellar

277

Stone House of St. Charles

311

Marriott Kansas City Airport

211

Sugar Creek Winery

397

Marriott Kansas City Country Club Plaza

213

Sunset Bluffs Venue

384

Marriott St. Louis Grand

The Terrace On Grand

Marriott St. Louis West

385

Thompson Barn

193

The Martin

233

Tiffany Greens Golf Club

197

Mélange

231

Town Pavilion

155

Missouri Athletic Club

317

Trail Smokehouse

334

Moulin Events and Meetings

277

Union Horse Distilling Co.

Museum at Prairiefire

176

Uptown Theater

NEO on Locust

The Venue at Maison du Lac

New Town at Saint Charles

303

The Venue at Willow Creek

120

Noboleis Vineyards

269

The Venue in Leawood

123

Old Kinderhook

200

Venues at 061

221

The Old Post Office

391

Villa Antonio Winery

328

The Overland Park Convention Center

117

The Vineyard at Riverbend Chapel

306

405

215

The Journey Home

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RESOURCE INDEX CONT. Visions KC

141

BUDS

294

Visions Reception Hall

175

Les Bouquets

327

Vista 154 at Ironhorse Golf Club

208

Poppies Design Studio by Ashley MacDonald

343

Voce

387

Schnucks Florist & Gifts

373

Vox Dei Community

198

Stems

Whitmoor Country Club

287

Wichita Art Museum

109

BRIDAL FASHION & BEAUTY

PAGE #

Willow

271

All My Heart Bridal

Windows On Washington®

Amoré Bridal and Tuxedo

.ZACK

273

Emily Hart Bridal

Fabulous Frocks Bridal

CAKES & CATERERS

PAGE #

The Gown Gallery

23 City Blocks Catering

Insert

Katie Lee Custom Bridal

The Blue Owl Bakery

393

Mia’s Bridal

Brancato’s Catering

207

Nolte’s Bridal

Butler’s Pantry

Savvi Formalwear/The Ultimate Bride

253

The Cakery & The Cup

389

Swyden Cleaners

205

Cakes and Cakes by Shelly

213

White Traditions Bridal House

245

Ces and Judy’s Catering

Championship Catering

323

JEWELRY

PAGE #

Classic Cakes & More

233

Jayson Jewelers, LTD.

It’s a Sweet Treat Day Bakery

228

Mazzarese

McArthur’s Bakery

110

Meierotto Jewelers

Russo’s Catering

Tivol

Cover

Sarah’s Cake Shop

331

VanBrock

Sugaree Baking Co.

319

Susie G’s Specialty Cakes

401

WEDDING CONSULTANTS

PAGE #

A Bride’s Ally

383

FLOWERS & DÉCOR

PAGE #

Absolutely IN! Events

261

Alex Waldbart Florist

285

Chappelow Events

177

Branches & Twigs

Events by Elle

222

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Kat Gaines Events

279

INVITATIONS & DETAILS

PAGE #

Kate & Company

389

BP Creative Group

231

McKenzie Phillips Event Planning

208

CZ Invitations, LLC

221

The Faire Market

PHOTOGRAPHY & VIDEO

PAGE #

SKR Paper Creations, LLC.

228

Aubrey Erin Photography

225

Things Remembered

Beau Vaughn Photography

171

YellowBrick Graphics

229

Beth Stratbucker Photography & Fine Art

229

Breezy Photography

115

SPECIALTY SERVICES

PAGE #

Move Weddings

172

All Seasons Event Rental

207

My Michelle’s Photography

369

Alobar’s Lighting and Sound

351

Noire Studios Photography

211

Arthur Murray Dance Centers

216

Sara Rieth

215

Blanc de Bleu Cuvée Mousseux

13, 59

Tower Studios

Fish Eye Fun

345

Grand Rental Station

309

ENTERTAINMENT

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Innovative Lighting & Design

226

Contemporary Productions

352

Weinhardt Party Rentals

379

NOTES

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PHOTOGRAPH BY CATHERINE RHODES PHOTOGRAPHY

alicia & dan FRANKENSTEIN, MO “We take him nearly everywhere we go,” Alicia says of inviting their goldendoodle, Emmett, along for her and Dan’s emotional first look. “Emmett spent the morning getting ready with me, so it was his first peek at Dan too. We joked that he was probably wondering why there were so many strangers at the farm that day.”

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