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fashion 182
playing for keeps mix up your look with edgy silhouettes and whimsical details
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match game find the perfect attire and accessories to complement your venue
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fashion countdown dress deadlines you don’t want to miss
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maid for each other find bridesmaid dresses that are both affordable and fabulous
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the well-groomed groom a guide to helping your guy look (almost) as good as you
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making the grade how to determine which diamond is right for you
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veils, unveiled discover the prettiest styles, from traditional to trendy
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beauty & wellness 231
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foolproof products to take you from your engagement to wedding day
style 114
paper trails
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let your locale inspire your invites
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petal talk the most asked about wedding flowers
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secrets to the #bestdayever give your guests something to talk about
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style your soiree with these fresh ideas
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outdoor occasion
8 healthy habits how to look and feel your best
a wedding that’s totally you set the vibe you want for your day
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the dos and don’ts of do-it-yourself a helpful guide to avoid potential DIY disasters
color done right down to the last detail
the real deal on wedding cakes answers to all your frosting, flavor and topper questions
avoid these common color mistakes
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beauty awards
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too pretty to eat (well, almost) edible favors that are sure to leave a lasting impression
how to celebrate in the open air
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r eal weddings 87 angeline & curtis january 16, st. louis
92 amy & mike june 4, pacific, mo
98 manasi & bill april 16, st. louis
102 sheniqua & eric october 3, st. louis
106 lynn & nathan may 21, clarkson valley, mo
110 lilly & sadie june 6, st. louis
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p lanning 247 savvy spending
323 t he usual suspects
how to manage your budget
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the guests you can’t cross off your list
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ask these crucial questions
259 eat, drink and be married
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a sit-down dinner isn’t your only reception option
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337 snap happy find a photographer that clicks
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hire the right videographer to capture your wedding
266 vineyard vows
273 hope & nick
tips to having your nuptials among the grapevines
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november 7, kansas city, mo
359 oh, behave!
organize and prep for this special part of your day
2 84 lauren & sean october 10, lawrence, ks
309 for better or verse
2 88 sonni & amukhoye march 18, kansas city, mo
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367 to-dos after the “I dos” 373 ladies of luxury these hotels offer amazing amenities
wedding customs to make your own
march 19, kansas city, mo
how to deal with these guest mishaps your final wedding tasks
write your vows one word at a time
292 anna & adam
353 marry melodies create your perfect song list
301 ceremony planning dos
278 decemeber & scott
memories in motion
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the caribbean decoded find the best oasis for your getaway
2 96 kristan & maverick may 28, manhattan, ks
2 98 emily & mark
molly & eric
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W e know your #1 question is “How much does this cost?” so we worked with the couples to tally up their final budgets (sweat and tears not included!). Keep in mind that this total doesn’t reflect the prices of their individual wedding professionals or the quality of their work. Every couple has different priorities— while one might have spent the majority of their budget on a stellar cake, another might have splurged on their photographer or showstopping florals.
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Check out more playful styles for your wedding day and beyond at TheKnot.com/gowns. ON HER Dress, $958, Truly Zac Posen, DavidsBridal.com; earrings, $3,500, EffyJewelry.com; shoes, Giuseppe Zanotti, courtesy of Albright Fashion Library ON HIM Suit, $595, socks, $10, Tommy Hilfiger, TommyHilfiger.com; shirt, stylist’s own; tie, $160, Olch.com; wedding band, $1,250, CrownRing.com; shoes, $750, Burberry.com
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ON HER Dress, $4,500, Christian Siriano, KleinfeldBridal.com; engagement ring, $895, EffyJewelry.com; earrings, price upon request, NewYorkVintage.com
CAROUSEL CREW Jane’s Carousel, with its vibrant colors and whimsical details, felt like the perfect backdrop for our celebratory fashion shoot in this issue. Here, our whole team (including The Knot cofounder Carley Roney) strikes a group pose in front of the landmark in Brooklyn Bridge Park, New York.
ON HER Top and pants, $4,150, Rosa Clará at Nolte’s Bridal, NoltesBridal .com (Overland Park, KS); veil, $120, TwigsandHoney.com; engagement ring, $920, MarsJewelry.com; cocktail ring, $98, KateSpade.com; earrings, $425, OscardelaRenta.com; shoes, Manolo Blahnik, courtesy of Albright Fashion Library
PHOTOGRAPHER: STEPHANIE RAUSSER FASHION STYLING: LAURA PRITCHARD HAIR: ELOISE CHEUNG USING T3MICRO AT KATE RYAN INC. MAKEUP: LEANNE HIRSH USING VAPOR ORGANIC BEAUTY AT SARAH LAIRD & GOOD COMPANY PROP STYLING: SAM COOK AT KATE RYAN INC. FLORALS: TIN CAN STUDIOS LOCATION: JANE’S CAROUSEL, BROOKLYN, NY
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We’ve tested all of The Knot Beauty Award winners. (p. 231)
All your wedding cake questions answered. (p. 159)
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This painterly invite says “city wedding” in the most elegant way. (p. 114)
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You’re getting married! Congratulations. We love filling your head with hundreds of inspiring ideas—like destinationinspired stationery (p. 114)—as well as the practical advice you need to get your planning done. From the most effective beauty products for every wedding-related event (p. 231) to a flower primer you’ll want to tear out and take with you to your first meeting with a florist (p. 121), this issue was created to help with all your to-dos and make you feel confident every step of the way. And when it comes to fashion, we’ve got brides and grooms covered. In “Playing for Keeps” (p. 182), we used a carousel, cotton candy and other playful elements to show how edgy silhouettes, unconventional hues and unique accessories can add a touch of whimsy to your wedding look. For the guys, check out our ultimate guide to looking great, from manscaping to choosing the right menswear (p. 213). In order to make all of your ideas come to life, of course, you’ll need to think about a budget that works for you—and we’ll help with that too (p. 247). Wherever planning takes you, be sure to share your favorite wedding details with us on Instagram (#TheKnot). Now, let the dreaming begin.
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A feathery two-piece frock is perfect for dancing. (p. 182)
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Pink peonies: the ultimate romantic flower, and one of my faves. (p. 121)
“Dreaming, after all, is a form of planning.”
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My wedding band and engagement ring are both platinum, but I’m thinking about wearing gold jewelry for my wedding. Will that work?
RUDE REMARKS A friend of ours keeps making comments about our wedding budget, wondering aloud how we’re paying for it—in front of other people. How can we deal with these types of comments? We know it’s easier said than done, but don’t let a guest with a negative or insensitive attitude affect your wedding. You shouldn’t have to defend yourself— plus, your budget is nobody’s business but yours, so don’t get into an argument about how much you are or aren’t spending. Instead, simply thank them for noticing the details of your wedding and let them know how you plan to pay for it is a personal matter between you and your families. Being polite yet direct (not to mention honest) is the best way to get your friend to drop the subject for good.
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MOM ON A MISSION My mom’s taken over our wedding guest list, but the chapel we’ve chosen for the ceremony is pretty tiny. How can we rein in her list without stepping on toes? Parents helping to pay for the wedding should have a say in how their money is spent, but there’s nothing anyone can do about how many people will fit in the chapel you’ve chosen. If your mother keeps expanding her list at the exclusion of those guests most important to you, speak up—but make sure you don’t sound like you’re placing blame. Start with, “I’m worried about the number of people we’re inviting and that the ceremony will be overcrowded. Is there a way we can compromise?” Hopefully she’ll understand the dilemma and rethink the large head count without too much pushback.
REQUESTING CASH How do we let our guests know we want to receive money instead of gifts? Asking for money as a wedding gift may seem taboo, but more couples are going that route instead of a traditional registry. We suggest using an online cash registry website like Tendr, which lets guests gift money gracefully and discreetly with a personal note of congratulations. Or you may decide you’d rather receive money to fund your honeymoon. Create an account on a website like Traveler’s Joy for guests to contribute to. Whatever route you take, post your registry preference and links on your wedding website. But keep in mind that some people still want to give you something personal or material, so give them the option to do so. >>
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You can absolutely mix metals on your wedding day. Your engagement ring and wedding band might be your most meaningful (and asked about) jewelry, but that doesn’t mean they have to stand alone or dictate your entire look. For a little fashion inspiration, let the color and details of your gown point you toward which baubles will work best for your wedding. Gold usually pairs beautifully with creamier ivory fabrics, while silver typically complements brighter whites.
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PLANNER PAINS I don’t think we can afford a wedding planner, but I’m drowning in details. I can’t even imagine how overwhelmed I’ll be on the actual day. What should I do? It’s no secret: Planning a wedding alone is hard, but hiring a planner can be pretty pricey. The good news? Most pros really can work with any budget. If a full-service planner—who’ll hold your hand through finding a florist to cutting the cake—is out of your price range, hire one either on a freelance basis (they’ll help lay the groundwork for you early on) or just as a day-of coordinator. The latter actually starts at least a few weeks before your wedding and costs a fraction of a full-service planner but is pretty priceless—the last thing you should be doing on your wedding day is worrying.
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of couples hire a professional wedding planner TRIAL AND ERROR Am I being too pushy if I bring photos of styles I like to my hair trial? Not at all. Most stylists actually love when you bring pictures for inspiration— plus, your idea of classic might be totally different from theirs. Same goes if you mention celebrities whose locks you admire. Stars change their looks so often, you might be visualizing a sleek redhead while your stylist sees a tousled blond. In addition to photos of styles you like, bring a picture of your dress along with the jewelry and hair accessories you plan on wearing, including your veil, to ensure everything works flawlessly altogether when it’s time to walk down the aisle.
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ALTAR UPGRADE We’re getting married in a church— what are some ways we can make the space feel special and personal? You don’t need much to dress up your ceremony spot, especially if the venue’s interiors are already beautiful to begin with. And remember: Your wedding party will be “decorating” the scene too. Start by checking with your church as it may have décor restrictions. If your congregation allows it, have your florist create two arrangements to mark the altar, and line the aisle with candles, small arrangements or topiaries. If flowers or candles are a no-go, a simple, personalized aisle runner can be enough to make it feel more you.
what would you do Is it necessary to list the groom’s parents on the invitation if they’re not contributing? Tell us what you think at TheKnot.com/talk ANSWER ANXIETY There are only two weeks left until my wedding and I still haven’t heard from a big portion of my guest list. What should I do? As the date draws nearer, there’s nothing wrong with following up with a quick phone call or email to get a definitive yes or no. If you’ve got a particularly trusted and helpful bridesmaid, relative or friend, ask them to help make the calls. Or have whoever added each guest to your list pitch in—if it’s your friend, it’s up to you to track him or her down; if it’s your mother-in-law’s coworker, she should make the call.
MOCKTAIL HOUR Is it appropriate to have a cocktail hour if we know a good portion of our guests don’t drink alcohol? Absolutely. A cocktail hour is a fun way for guests to pass the time between the ceremony and reception, especially if you’re planning on taking photos. In addition to a signature cocktail, you can also create a custom mocktail, which is always an unexpected and appreciated refreshment for nondrinkers. If you’re just serving beer and wine, make sure you have plenty of soda and bottled water on hand as well. Plus, you’ll definitely want enough tasty hors d’oeuvres for everyone to munch on while they sip and mingle.
76% of couples host a cocktail hour
HONEYMOON HITCH My fiancé and I have completely different ideas on the perfect getaway spot. How can we both get excited about choosing and planning the right trip? Your honeymoon should and will be special, but remember, this isn’t the only trip you’ll ever take together. Sit down and rank your top five honeymoon spots, then see if you have any overlap. Sure, your third choice might be his fifth, but chances are you’d both be happy with the locale. If you want to go rock climbing and he wants to lounge poolside with a good novel, find somewhere that offers both. Or, if you have enough time (and energy!), hop to multiple destinations to satisfy both tastes. Have a question for Carley? Tweet at @carleyroney
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2959 Arapaho Road, Hesston, KS; (316) 461-7045; EmmaCreekBarn.Blogspot.com Set back among a grove of trees next to a remote creek, this vibrant venue is the epitome of rustic-chic, with its classic red exterior and walls made of white pine. Invite up to 200 guests to take a seat on scattered hay bales, where they’ll witness your vows under the barn’s original hayloft door that dates back to the 1930s. Two sets of sliding doors flank the 3,000-squarefoot facility on either side, so you can open up the space during the summer months.
901 South Hwy. 79, Clarksville, MO; (573) 242-3838; OverlookFarmMO.com The most difficult part of planning a wedding at the 327-acre Overlook Farm is deciding which of its five scenic event spaces you like best, from the stately Cedarcrest Manor to the restored Rackheath House. For the ceremony portion of the day, we’re partial to The Overlook and Avalon Meadow—it’s bordered by a row of cedar trees and sits on one of the highest points along the Mississippi River, with unparalleled views of the river below. Swoon.
7100 Thornton Road, Pacific, MO; (314) 805-7721; CountryWeddingsSTL.com Seal the deal with a quaint, countryinspired celebration at Haue Valley, a working, 250-acre farm that features textured concrete floors, cedar wood beams, ample room for up to 200 guests and an expansive patio that overlooks three tranquil lakes. TIP Dozens of rustic accents are available to rent at no additional cost, ranging from calligraphed wood signs to cake stands, crates and card boxes. >>
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historic taylor barn 1827 E. 1150 Road, Lawrence, KS; (785) 550-9332; HistoricTaylorBarn.com Kansas University fans will love this restored rural barn, thanks to its convenient location just 10 minutes away from the school’s main campus. Utilize the farm’s vintage homestead for prewedding prep before escaping to the pillared front porch for an intimate first look. Afterward, exchange vows in the rustic, brick-lined barn in front of 100 guests before a night of dinner and dancing in a tented reception on the lawn.
20955 Missouri W., Clarksville, MO; (314) 961-7588; CateringStLouis.com Bask in the beauty of Pike County with this remote, New England–style farmhouse, which sits among rolling hills on 16 acres of land just one hour north of the Chesterfield Valley. After an alfresco ceremony on the lawn, invite up to 124 guests into the dairy barn for a seated dinner, or pitch a reception tent that can easily accommodate larger parties of 200. The picturesque homestead is also available for rehearsal dinners and offers custom menus highlighting seasonal, farm-fresh ingredients. Bon appétit!
kuhs estate and farm 13080 Spanish Pond Rd., St. Louis; (314) 226-0709; KuhsFarm.com A sprawling lawn, sunken rock garden and 200-year-old oak tree all add to the pastoral charm of this 150-acre estate built on the bluff overlooking the spot where the Mississippi and Missouri Rivers meet. Situated 25 minutes from downtown St. Louis, this secluded, century-old home offers to-be-weds a variety of scenic locales. Say “I do” under the covered gazebo, and later, host an open-air affair on the lawn alongside 250 guests.
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the barn at schwinn produce farm 17624 Santa Fe Trail, Leavenworth, KS; (267) 210-5041; SchwinnProduceFarm.com Nestled in the verdant countryside of the Salt Creek Valley sits The Barn at Schwinn Produce Farm, a 4,500-square-foot space that can fit up to 250 of your closest friends and family members. Prep for your day in the detached bridal cottage, where you’ll find full-length mirrors and a private bathroom, before retreating to the brand-new limestone terrace for scenic preceremony photos. Tables and chairs are available on-site, along with public restrooms, ample parking, computercontrolled LED lighting and a sound system for a celebration your guests will be raving about for years to come. TIP The barn comes equipped with a radiant heated floor, so you can shut out the cold and keep partygoers warm during chilly fall and winter months.
blue bell farm 3030 MO-240, Fayette, MO; (314) 220-7120; BlueBellFarm.org To-be-weds will flock to this familyowned farm, which marries a charming, country locale with a whitewashed barn equipped with modern amenities. Completed in the spring of 2014 using salvaged wood from an existing structure, the rustic yet inviting barn offers heated floors, a whitewashed pine interior, spacious covered patio and flexible yard for a space that can hold 175. The husband-and-wife team behind the farm even harvests their own organically grown produce, herbs and flowers on-site, making for a true farm-to-table fete. TIP Local wedding planners were consulted during the barn’s initial build, so you can rest assured knowing your wedding day needs are covered.
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“Get your photos done before the start of the ceremony. I’m so glad we could spend cocktail hour with the ones we love.” —Alexis & Rick
“Make a real effort to stay with each other throughout the night.”
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From wedding day ideas to tips on how to make planning easier, learn from newlyweds who have literally been there, done that.
Write down all of your memories the next morning. You’ll forget the little things, and it’s great to look back at that list to remember the day.” —Sara & Nick
ADD A SPLASH OF LEMON-LIME SODA TO YOUR FLORAL CENTERPIECES
to keep arrangements looking fresh.” —Erin & Jessica Find more local tips at TheKnot.com/mo-ks
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“Set up a joint email account dedicated to planning. It allows both of you to read and respond to emails in a timely fashion, and it helped us stay organized.” —Andrea & Nicole ANDREA & NICOLE
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A CONFETTI CANNON IS ALWAYS A GOOD IDEA.”
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Don’t be afraid to think outside the box for unique venues. Check out parks, gardens, galleries and zoos for a space your guests won’t forget.” —Carrie & Brian
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Day-to-day cake inspiration comes to me in the form of fashion and home interiors, including patterns and prints.
how did you get your start as a baker? By observing and assisting my grandma—she made some of the most delicious cookies and cakes. She taught me that by using the finest ingredients, even the most simple dessert recipe could be memorable. That idea has stuck with me. any recent cake trends you’re loving? It would make me so happy to see fondant go away, since I bake exclusively with buttercream. I also love all of the textured and patterned cakes I’ve been seeing, along with really unique cake pedestals in fun colors and metallic finishes. what’s one trend you wish couples would skip? Cake balls—they’re tricky and I can never make them perfectly round.
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Fondant is expensive to buy and it’s barely edible. With buttercream, there are no negatives—it tastes great and is budget friendly. I have 27 years of cake knowledge, but it’s the chemistry of baking that keeps me going. I also have a need to please—I really try to go the extra mile for my clients.
what’s the secret behind a cake that looks great and tastes even better? Anyone can make a pretty cake, but the art is knowing the secrets of scratch baking. You have to know what fat to use to flavor the cake, and the correct liquor to highlight a specific fruit without overpowering its flavor. I can make a cake 40 different times before I finally get it right. what are your thoughts on freezing the first tier? A majority of my clients last year chose not to freeze their cakes. Instead, I prefer to bake couples a fresh tier to celebrate their anniversary and invite them back to my studio to catch up a year later. share one pro tip you’d like all to-be-weds to know. Your guests will always remember the food you serve and whether it was just okay or outstanding. Whenever I see my clients years after their wedding, they always mention that their guests are still talking about the cake. What a compliment!
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Although burlap has a lovely, look, it’s itchy and can shed on other materials. You can achieve the same rustic feel using raw linen. It’s incredibly important to pick a venue that reflects your personal style. If you find a space that speaks for itself, you won’t spend a ton of money transforming it.
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any tips for to-be-weds who are working with a tight budget? Determine what your priorities are and cut back on areas that are less important to you. If hosting a dinner isn’t a priority, you can instead plan a cake and champagne party that starts later in the evening and still feels very elegant. Keeping your guest list small can exponentially help with the cost as well. we’ve all heard about the bridezilla, but have you ever encountered a groom with the same mentality? My team rarely encounters either. But I do believe that brides and grooms alike are allowed to feel intensely connected to the event and care a great deal about its success. share one tip you’d like couples to know. Stop, look around and take mental snapshots throughout the evening. The entire day flies by, but those memories will last forever. F ind more planners from your area in our directory on p. 416
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Our busiest time of year is November though March, and we only schedule two appointments at a time. While dress shopping, come open-minded and well rested. Our gown collection begins at around $2,000, and all designs are handmade in North America
what’s the craziest request you’ve ever received from a client? We always serve champagne and mimosas to our brides, but a few have requested red wine. We don’t serve that for obvious reasons. you must get a lot of frequently asked questions—what’s the top? We’re always asked how soon the dress should be ordered and if alterations are included in the price of the gown. The best time to order a gown is 8 to 12 months ahead of the wedding, or as soon as you know it’s the one. Alterations aren’t included, but they’re almost always needed for that perfect fit. who is the best person to bring along for a second opinion when shopping for your dream gown? Anytime you invite a guest to join in on your dress search, make sure he or she will respect your wishes and that it’s someone whose opinions you value the most. any tips on accessorizing? We often feel less is more with accessories. Sometimes all you need is a gorgeous pair of earrings and a bracelet to serve as the finishing touch. you must see so many trends come and go. which one do you wish would go away forever? We wouldn’t mind if the see-through dress trend disappeared. iscover more tips and trends from D your area at TheKnot.com/mo-ks
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When Morgan was hired as the official photographer for Jefferson City’s annual Fourth of July event, she recruited her boyfriend, Devin, to assist as her second shooter. The morning of the holiday, the couple scouted the capitol’s steps as the perfect location to capture the upcoming firework show. But Devin had already scouted the same steps to pop the question later that evening. “Halfway through the show, he tapped me on my shoulder,” Morgan says. “He managed to pull me away from my camera and ask me to marry him. I was so caught off guard that it felt like a dream.” The ring: The Blue Diamond >>
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While visiting Atlanta, Min Soo slyly arranged for Ah Rim’s brother to drop her off at Lullwater Park, where he quickly sped away. “I frantically looked around, spotted a guy holding a camera and knew this was it,” Ah Rim says. She was then escorted down a secluded trail, where she was met with handwritten notes and balloons along the way. When she finally reached a clearing, Ah Rim found Min Soo holding a bouquet and sporting the same suit he wore on the night they first met. “I don’t remember his exact words,” Ah Rim says. “He asked, and of course I said, ‘yes.’ ” The ring: Diamond Imports >>
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While vacationing in San Diego, Nicole (right) surprised Kayla by chartering a private sailboat for two to enjoy a sunset cruise and a bottle of wine. But shortly after Nicole refilled her wine glass, Kayla noticed her girlfriend’s drink was already gone. “I saw her heart pounding, then it hit me like a ton of bricks,” Kayla says. Not to be outdone, Kayla later planned a surprise proposal of her own. “Nicole walked in our front door and I had our song playing,” she says of kneeling amid a room full of candles. “I told Nicole that as long as I’m with her, I’m home.” The rings: Kayla: Helzberg Diamonds; Nicole: Shane Co. Find more amazing photographers in your area on p. 416
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LOCAL TREND ALERT The Knot editors are traveling the country reporting on the hottest wedding style and tech trends brought to life by local wedding pros. St. Louis’s winning trend came from Alex Waldbart Florist, who executed over-the-top, featherinfused table arrangements reminiscent of the fictional Mrs. Peacock.
THE TEAM VENUE The Coronado PLANNER Simcha’s Events PHOTOGRAPHY
L Photographie VIDEOGRAPHY 24 Frames FLOWERS Alex Waldbart Florist; Belli Fiori; Botanicals Design Studio; BUDS; Les Bouquets; RW Designs STATIONERY M. Haley Design GOWNS Fleur De Lis BEAUTY Preston Salon CATERING Butler’s Pantry WINE Blanc de Bleu DESSERT Clementine’s
Naughty and Nice Creamery; Cloud Nine STL EDIBLE DESIGNS Never Forgotten Designs RENTALS The Aries Company; Exclusive Events; PK Paper Art LINENS Connie Duglin Specialty Linen LIGHTING The Aries Company; Millennium Productions ENTERTAINMENT Contemporary Productions; Fish Eye Fun; Game World Events; Harp: Terri Langerak; Piano: Alan Ox; The Rosewood Ensemble; Talent Plus; 2 Chics and a Photobooth; Vivant Entertainment FAVORS Nothing Bundt Cakes VALET Midwest Valet
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BRIDE Angeline DeiSanti, 39, a physician GROOM Curtis Keller, 35, a software engineer HOW THEY MET Through a running group WEDDING STYLE A custom, Pac-Man invitation suite set the tone for Angeline and Curtis’s playful, arcade-themed affair. —Marissa Hermanson
“Our focus was to create a fun and relaxed atmosphere for our guests while still maintaining a sense of sophistication,” Angeline says. “Since Curtis loves video games, we thought that would be a great place to start.” The fun-loving pair looked to a local chocolate factory to house their winter wedding— fitting, given Angeline’s love for sweets. “It was an obvious choice,” she says.
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Upon entering the spacious reception, guests were greeted with a chocolate cocktail to kick start the celebration. Other indulgent treats included Key lime cake pops, chocolate peanut butter confections, edible glitter balls and a Pac-Man–inspired cake.
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Arcade games, oversize Rubik’s Cubes and a slow-motion photo booth kept guests entertained all night long. “Despite the large size of our venue, I wanted a cozy vibe,” Angeline says. Soft lighting and purple florals helped to achieve that vision, while lending a sense of wintry sophistication to the space.
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MENSWEAR Thro’s and Michelle’s STATIONERY Julie Song Ink
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“Everything at our wedding reflected what we love and who we are,” Amy says of ultra-personal accents that included handmade wood signs and a weathered ceremony arch made from pocket doors salvaged from a local mansion. “The homeowner’s ‘trash’ was our treasure,” Amy says.
Amy’s 4-year-old niece scattered pink flower petals down the outdoor aisle.
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All 10 of Amy’s bridesmaids wore a floor-length gown in a subtle shade of pink or mauve. “Some of the dresses were tulle and others were chiffon,” Amy says of the romantic sheaths. “In the end, everyone was happy, comfortable and in love with their look.”
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Metallic votives and centerpieces housed in gold vessels popped against navy table runners.
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Championship Catering is the most referred caterer in St. Louis! Why? We serve quality, phenomenal food at the best possible price. Chef Larry G will sit down with you to design a perfect menu for your wedding. From hand-passed hors d’oeuvres, station buffets to sit-down dinners, we have been recognized as one of St. Louis’ best! Championship Catering caters to wonderful venues in the St. Louis area including Casa Loma Ballroom, The Carousel at Faust Park, The Barnett on Washington, Third Degree Glass Factory, Aeries Terrace, NEO on Locust and many, many more.
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ENGAGEMENT RING The Diamond Shop WEDDING RINGS Bride: Shane Co.; groom:
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“Why have one piece of cake when you can have three or four doughnuts?” Amy says of their reasoning behind building a DIY doughnut wall to display postdinner treats. St. Louis–based baker Strange Donuts supplied the sweets, which ranged in flavors from French toast to salted caramel.
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Arrangements included a multicolored mix of hydrangeas, spray roses, tulips, lisianthus and carnations.
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BRIDE Manasi Venkatesh, 31, an attorney GROOM William (Bill) Hoag, 38, a lending consultant HOW THEY MET At a local bar WEDDING STYLE “Red is a color commonly used in Hindu weddings, so we put a modern twist on tradition by using bright pink and more muted details,” Mansai says of their chic fete. —MH
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Manasi accessorized with gold bangles, a gilded clutch and glittered flats, which she later swapped for peep-toe heels.
“We wanted our outfits to take center stage,” Mansai says of donning a fuchsia and gold silk sari before changing into a mint lehenga and gold dupatta, or shawl. “I loved the idea of blending two cultures while keeping a modern, Indian design with touches of American tradition.”
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A raspberrybuttercream-filled almond cake was served for dessert.
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Marriott St. Louis Grand Hotel, St. Louis PHOTOGRAPHY Elizabeth Carretto/
Carretto Studio The groom sported a champagne and gold kurta during the baraat and Indian ceremony, where Manasi and Bill sealed the deal under a mandap draped in blush and ivory fabric. At the end of the evening, guests took home framed photos that Bill had captured during the couple’s travels around the world.
CONSULTANT Kristin
Sanders/Marriott St. Louis Grand Hotel Belli Fiori; Fancy Florist
FLOWERS
OFFICIANT Priest Shri Janardana Chari GOWN Nazrannaa, Iselin, NJ
SHOES
Flats: J.Crew; heels: Salvatore Ferragamo ENGAGEMENT & WEDDING RINGS
BlueNile.com
HAIR Allyson Finkeldey;
Blowout Bar MAKEUP
Lauren Wilkerson
BRIDESMAID DRESSES Vyshnavi Reddy,
Hyderabad, India
MENSWEAR Ceremony:
Manyavar, Bangalore, India; reception: BLACK by Vera Wang, Jos. A. Bank STATIONERY Invitation & programs:
WeddingPaperDivas.com; escort cards & table numbers: Minted.com
RENTALS CJ’s
Disc Jockey Service; CV Linens; Marriott St. Louis Grand Hotel; St. Louis Wedding Works; Table 10 Event Design St. Louis Grand Hotel Sarah’s Cake Shop Jockey Service
CATERING Marriott CAKE & DESSERTS MUSIC
CJ’s Disc
TRANSPORTATION St. Louis
Carriage Company
HONEYMOON South
Africa GUESTS 220 BUDGET $$$$ (see key, p. 8)
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Sheniqua and Eric exchanged vows under the Music Stand—one of the park’s many historic pavilions.
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Sheniqua walked down the aisle unattended to Led Zeppelin’s “Thank You” before meeting Eric halfway to the altar.
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THEIR STORY BRIDE Sheniqua Faulkner, 31, an editor and writer GROOM Eric Flinn, 30, an advertising creative director HOW THEY MET While studying abroad in London WEDDING STYLE “We wanted a romantic yet understated vibe,” Sheniqua says of outfitting their botanical-themed bash with fruit-filled centerpieces, crisp white linens, copper accents and an abundance of candlelight. —MH
Quality invitations were a must for the pair, who splurged on a fauna-inspired suite and vintage postage. “Snail mail is so rare these days, so it was nice to make a fuss over paper, ink and stamps,” Sheniqua says.
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The newlyweds celebrated with a reception at the park’s Piper Palm House, the oldest standing greenhouse west of the Mississippi River. “We loved that the lush, tropical greenery served as built-in décor,” Sheniqua says. “The windows, all-white interior and soaring pitched ceilings were all architectural details that made the room feel almost chapel-like.”
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St. Louis RECEPTION SITE Piper Palm House, Tower Grove Park, St. Louis PHOTOGRAPHY Lindsey Pantaleo
Photography
DAY-OF COORDINATOR
Emily Gavilsky/Emily Anna Alice Blue Collective Kelley (friend) Jones
FLOWERS
OFFICIANT Michael
GOWN &
SHOES Ivy Kirzhner
VEIL Augusta ENGAGEMENT
RING K. Stonehill Creations JEWELRY Earrings:
BHLDN; bracelet: Kendra Scott Helen Petty/Chop Shop MAKEUP Miller
HAIR
Emily
BRIDESMAID DRESSES Various
MENSWEAR Suit: J.Crew; shirt: Bonabos;
shoes: Allen Edmonds
STATIONERY
Invitations: Moontree Letterpress; postage: VerdeStudio, Etsy.com; calligraphy: Calligraphy by Katherine; escort & menus: Minted.com CATERING Butler’s Pantry
Pint Size Bakery
CAKE
MUSIC Ceremony:
Laura Joy; reception:
Elite Pro DJ
ACCOMMODATIONS Airbnb.com REGISTRIES Williams-Sonoma; Zola.com HONEYMOON Southeast Asia GUESTS 90 BUDGET $$$ (see key, p. 8)
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“It’s customary for Chinese brides to wear red,” Lynn says of rocking an ivory ball gown and later, a red reception dress.
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BRIDE Lynn Li, 26, a lawyer GROOM Nathan Luo, 26, works in finance HOW THEY MET In college WEDDING STYLE Vibrant pink and red details dressed up Lynn and Nathan’s elegant affair along with dozens of double happiness symbols— a nod to the couple’s Chinese heritage. —MH
“We wanted to book a single venue for our ceremony and reception so guests could relax without having to travel from place to place,” Lynn says of exchanging vows at a local country club. The couple sealed the deal under a DIY arch while guests looked on from chairs adorned with pink pomanders. “My parents plan on displaying the arch in their backyard after the wedding,” she says.
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With the help of a template they found on Etsy, Lynn and Nathan added a traditional Chinese symbol to the table numbers, programs and RSVP cards. At the end of the evening, guests took home gift bags filled with candy and dessert wine.
Hills Country Club, Clarkson Valley, MO PHOTOGRAPHY Mike Cassimatis
Photography Gibson
VIDEOGRAPHY Jason
CONSULTANT Amber Traub/
Forest Hills Country Club Mary Tuttle’s Devonshire
FLOWERS
OFFICIANT Pastor David GOWN Marchesa, Gabriella
New York Bridal Salon, New York City VEIL Sara Gabriel
SHOES Jimmy Choo
ENGAGEMENT & WEDDING RINGS
Harry Winston MAKEUP Whitney Bridal
Beauty by
BRIDESMAID DRESSES David’s MENSWEAR Dolce & Gabbana
STATIONERY Invitations: BizCard Xpress;
Etsy.com
RENTALS Sitting Pretty
CATERING &
Country Club
CAKE Forest Hills MUSIC The Rosewood
Ensemble DANCE LESSONS Manhattan Ballroom Dance Perfect Touch Limo
TRANSPORTATION A ACCOMMODATIONS
Drury Plaza Hotel St. Louis Chesterfield HONEYMOON Maui, HI GUESTS 109 BUDGET $$$$ (see key, p. 8)
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Farm tables were set with lace table runners, mismatched dinnerware and flower-filled jars.
Sadie sported a custom suit and coral bow tie that coordinated with Lilly’s cheery bouquet and ballet flats.
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“DIY wedding projects quickly became my relaxation, and sometimes procrastination, activity,” Lilly says of burning their initials into an oak letter box and later sanding and painting windows to create custom signs. “Every project brought on new ideas and heightened my excitement for our day.”
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PHOTOGRAPHY Shana Perry and
Brittney Love/Love & Perry Photography and Films
FLOWERS
Belli Fiori
OFFICIANT Anna Shabsin (professor) ATTIRE Lilly: Catherine Deane, BHLDN;
Sadie: Bindle & Keep
ENGAGEMENT
& WEDDING RINGS Mavrik Fine Jewelry HAIR &
MAKEUP Kink Hair Salon
BRIDESMAID DRESSES Various STATIONERY Invitations & menus:
Jocelyn Runice; escort window & programs: DIY
RENTALS &
St. Louis
Sugaree Baking Co. DJs
CATERING
Catering
CAKE Zoe Leyh DESSERTS MUSIC
Rockstar
REGISTRY ThankfulRegistry.com HONEYMOON Mykonos, Greece
GUESTS 60 BUDGET $$ (see key, p. 8)
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THEIR STORY BRIDE Gagan Raju, 29, a physician GROOM Alex Lawson, 30, a journalist HOW THEY MET Through mutual friends WEDDING STYLE Despite tying the knot in an Indian ceremony just one week prior, Gagan and Alex said “I do” once more in a chic celebration marked by luxe gold details. —MH
After sealing the deal for a second time, the newlyweds walked up the aisle to “I Wanna Be Your Lover” by Prince. “Our DJ played only the best and most danceable songs,” Gagan says of getting down to ’90s hip-hop and David Bowie.
The couple cut into a lemon cake filled with raspberry buttercream.
CEREMONY & RECEPTION SITE PHOTOGRAPHY Katherine Corea/K.
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GAGAN & ALEX’S WEDDING INGREDIENTS
Flowers
VEIL Amanda
Garrett, VeKa Bridal, Brooklyn, NY SHOES Vince Camuto
ENGAGEMENT
RING Greenwich St. Jewelers WEDDING RINGS Catbird JEWELRY Bracelet:
TwentySixStreet, Etsy.com; earrings: BaubleBar Emily Miller
HAIR &
ASOS; Reformation J.Crew
MAKEUP
BRIDESMAID DRESSES MENSWEAR
INVITATIONS Dave Decepida
RENTALS Premier Rentals
La Patisserie Chouquette Boogieman Transportation
CAKE
MUSIC DJ
TRANSPORTATION BEST ACCOMMODATIONS
Drury Plaza Hotel St. Louis at the Arch REGISTRIES CB2; Crate & Barrel HONEYMOON Jupiter Hotel, Portland, OR GUESTS 147 BUDGET $$$ (see key, p. 8)
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ANYTHING CAN I NSPIRE YOUR INVITATION, SO WHY NOT YOUR WEDDING LOCALE? B Y LAUREN KAY
PHOTOGRAPHY BY KATE SEARS STYLING BY ELIZABETH MACLENNAN
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carry your invite theme into your wedding day paper! this dinner menu mimics the invite
Getting hitched in the Southwest? Choose a symbol or motif that suits, like this playful cactus illustration. A mix of graphic and elegant typography elevates the suite, making it perfect for any formality, from hacienda to casual ranch party. Cacti wedding invitations, $234 for 100, Cass Loh, Minted.com
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incorporate a recurring design in your escort cards too
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coordinating cactus postage is the pièce de rÊsistance
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include an accommodations card with travel details for any out-oftown guests
Tying the knot in a field of flowers? Incorporate some flora into your wedding paper. (Bonus points for adding the blooms to your bouquet too.) A monochromatic palette lends subtle sophistication to this illustrated design while a portrait (aka the new monogram) gives it bespoke personalization. Matching inserts coordinate the whole suite. Frankie collection invitations and envelopes, $582 for 100, ColorMeCarla.com
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Celebrating in the big city? Give guests a sneak peek of the party spot and generate excitement with a custom watercolor invitation backer— imagine pulling this out of an envelope. Add a glitzy paper liner, monogrammed reply card and handpicked vintage stamps for a unique invitation. Travis and Mario invitations, $2,850 for 100, RegasStudio.com >>
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this painterly invite will stick around long after your wedding day
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square mail means more postage, but with stamps like these, it's worth it
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Saying "I do" by the sea? Play with pattern. A tropical locale lends itself to a spirited use of color. Mix and match the details for a refined yet casual soiree on the beach—your guests will know to pack their dancing shoes.
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Tulum collection invitations, reply cards and coordinating envelopes, from $2,075 for 100, Courtney Jentzen, BellaFigura.com
opt for a fill-in reply card so guests can pen you a note of excitement
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Making it official in a mountain chalet? Play up your chosen spot in big (hello, maps!) and small ways. A neutral palette is perfect for mixing motifs and typography, while gold foil details add a hint of formality and make each piece of the suite feel extra special. Haynes collection invitations, reply cards and coordinating envelopes, from $1,990 for 100, Amy Graham Stigler, SmockPaper.com
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Award winning. Client adored. Unforgettable. SALVATORE CINCOTTA
We offer amazing landscapes, a quaint farm, world-famous sunken rock garden, incomparable scenic vista at The Confluence and secluded privacy for you to host your guests. Located in St. Louis County, just 25 minutes from Midtown. On-site wedding coordination, vintage rentals and event design.
For more information and to schedule an appointment: kuhsfarm.com | info@kuhsfarm.com | 314.226.0709
K. COREA PHOTOGRAPHY
by appointment only
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petal talk You know that big, pink, roselike bloom? What’s that called again? BY ANDREA FOWLER PHOTOGRAPH BY HARRISON STUDIO
Sometimes trying to describe your favorite blooms to a florist is like trying to tell the car repair shop what sound your engine is making. Unless you’ve been around the block a few times, it’s hard to establish an extensive floral vocabulary. So we called on floral expert Jihyen Crowley of Gotham Florist for some help, and she shared the stems she’s asked about most often when it comes to wedding flowers. From anemones to garden roses and sweet pea, we’ve created a cheat sheet of perennial favorites, so you can brush up on the flower speak before meeting with your florist to choose your perfect petals. >>
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anemone This small bloom comes in a range of jewel-toned hues, but white may be the most popular color. It’s a shoo-in for formal black-and-white weddings because it’s one of the only flowers that naturally grows in that color scheme (white petals, black center). SEASON Spring SYMBOLIC MEANING Expectation, protection PAIR IT WITH Anemones look great next to their floral cousin ranunculus. Ranunculus have very compact, layered petals that complement the open shape of anemones.
blushing bride
blushing bride
dahlia
The pointy petals sported by this bloom are thanks to its roots in the protea family. We love the shape they add to an arrangement, and you can’t beat the name when it comes to your bouquet. SEASON Summer SYMBOLIC MEANING Courtship PAIR IT WITH Crowley recommends a big flowering bloom with lots of petals, like peonies, and florals with a smaller head, like ranunculus, to fill out the whole arrangement.
Dahlias come in all shapes, sizes and colors. They can grow up to 12 inches in diameter or be as small as a button mum. The petals can expand in a straight, spiky fashion or in a round, tube-like shape, and the colors range from pastels to jewel tones and monochromatic combinations. Basically, options. SEASON Summer SYMBOLIC MEANING Dignity, elegance PAIR IT WITH If your dahlias have large heads, they’ll likely take up more space in an arrangement allowing you to complement with greenery (think: dusty miller or seeded eucalyptus) and a few filler flowers. If you want to supplement with a similar-looking bloom, consider zinnias, which share the same architecture.
lisianthus The ruffled petals are similar to a rose, but the center of lisianthus is what separates it from the pack. The petals appear pulled away from the center, really exposing the pollen. It’s also a hardier flower, which makes it a great choice for warm-weather weddings. SEASON Year-round SYMBOLIC MEANING Flashy, showiness PAIR IT WITH Roses are a great choice since the two blooms look so alike, but for something more edgy and less sweet, include some lisianthus buds in the mix. Before the flowers bloom they have tall, slender buds that give texture to an arrangement. >>
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This sought-after hybrid (also know as a David Austin English rose) adds depth and fragrance to a bouquet. The petals are reminiscent of a peony while the shape maintains its traditional rose demeanor. SEASON Year-round SYMBOLIC MEANING This variety was bred too recently to have a symbolic meaning, but classic roses stand for love, joy and beauty. PAIR IT WITH These stems are universally loved. “They pair well with almost any flower,” Crowley says. “But we use them most often with anemones, tulips, dahlias and orchids.” >>
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KELLY PARK PHOTOGRAPHY
FOREVER YOURS IMAGES
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314.288.2535 marissa@magichouse.org
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peony
sweet pea
lily of the valley Royal brides like Grace Kelly and Kate Middleton have helped make lily of the valley an iconic wedding flower. Its little bellshaped blooms are clustered close together on a vinelike stem, making it the perfect choice to offset big-headed flowers in large bouquets. But, out of season, these tiny buds can really cost you. SEASON Spring SYMBOLIC MEANING Humility, purity, sweetness PAIR IT WITH When peeking out from a cluster of lush peonies, lily of the valley is incredibly glamorous and charming. Stephanotis and tuberose are also good pairings—both sharing the vine structure and small white flowers.
peony Maybe the most requested of all wedding flowers, the peony definitely steals the show. There are hues for any season, like fall maroons or springy hot pinks. BEST SEASON Spring SYMBOLIC MEANING Bashfulness, prosperity, romance PAIR IT WITH Peonies look amazing on their own or when paired with other large-headed blooms like double tulips or roses.
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sweet pea These ruffly, feminine petals are a popular choice because of their sweet aroma and sentimental name. Different colors bloom in different seasons, so if you’re interested in a specific hue, check with your florist about what’s available when. BEST SEASON Fall, spring SYMBOLIC MEANING Blissful pleasure PAIR IT WITH Hydrangeas look incredibly lush and romantic with sweet pea. If you want something more understated, garden roses are equally as fabulous but with a bit less volume. >>
CLOCKWISE FROM LEFT: BUFFY DEKMAR PHOTOGR APHY; LOVE & LIGHT PHOTOGR APHS; T & S HUGHES PHOTOGR APHY
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French country charm with a Tuscan feel
LaChance Vineyards 12237 Peter Moore Lane DeSoto, MO 63020 636.586.2777 info@lachancevineyards.com www.lachancevineyards.com
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ranunculus Though small in size, this petal-filled flower is used in a range of different-styled bouquets. It perfectly completes a round bouquet, or adds a sense of whimsy to a rustic-looking arrangement. And because of its size, it makes the perfect boutonniere bloom. SEASON Winter, spring SYMBOLIC MEANING Charming, radiant PAIR IT WITH Gardenia petals grow in a beautiful spiral, which makes for a striking juxtaposition when placed next to the small heads of ranunculus.
thistle The distinctive shape of this stem (also known as sea holly) makes it a total standout. It has an interesting texture and is one of the few true-blue florals out there. The best part? No petals means no wilting, so it will last through any summer wedding. SEASON Summer, fall SYMBOLIC MEANING Protection, strength PAIR IT WITH Thistle is very rustic, so keep the vibe going with wax flowers, Queen Anne’s lace and seeded eucalyptus. Find your bridal blooms at TheKnot.com/flowers
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You’ve probably seen a lot of scabiosa pods in rustic weddings, but when the flower is in full bloom, it has a different appearance. The seed-dotted center gives the bloom an identifiable architectural element that stands out among other stems. SEASON Spring, fall SYMBOLIC MEANING Admiration PAIR IT WITH For a totally romantic-without-fuss bouquet, clematis and anemones go amazingly well with this easy, breezy bloom.
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Make your wedding unforgettable! Three Elegant Ballrooms • Classic Cuisine Menu • Buffet or Sit Down Options • Space for Up to 500 Guests • Complimentary Suite for Bride and Groom • Exceptional White Glove Service • Competitive All Inclusive Packages • Located in the Heart of Clayton For more information or to schedule an appointment, please contact one of our wedding specialists at 314-727-7434 or email info@cpclayton.com
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secrets to the #bestdayever
Okay, they’re not really secrets—just solid ideas that will give your guests something to talk about for weeks to come. >> BY LAUREN KAY PHOTOGRAPH BY IRIS PHOTOGRAPHY
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incorporate a theme
plan an interactive food station
play a game
Your friends and family are expecting passed hors d’oeuvres, so give them trays of nibbles. But then put them to work with an interactive food station. Set up a make-your-own taco bar or a gourmet grilled cheese outpost where guests can pile ingredients, like apples, caramelized onions and sun-dried tomatoes on artisan breads. You could also do this with beverages—hello, bubble bar. Offer up champagne with a variety of purées and fresh fruit, so guests can concoct their favorite sip. Or hire a wine enthusiast and offer tastes of a few varietals.
What’s a fun party without a little friendly competition? We’re not talking about pin the tail on the donkey—but close. Challenge guests to a game of horseshoes while they sip their drinks, or engage them in old-fashioned ring toss (how apropos). Table games, like trivia or Mad Libs, will encourage conversation among friends and strangers alike. Paint the game pieces in your wedding colors or use the same motif from your stationery for your trivia. Best of all, games are a great way to keep guests who don’t dance entertained throughout the evening.
put the cocktail hour before the ceremony
hire a flair bartender
Kick off the party preceremony with or without you two (if you’re superstitious or taking first-look photos, you may want to skip). A light libation will give guests an opportunity to mingle, well before finding their dinner seats. Best of all, no one will be late to the ceremony—if they get delayed, they’ll only miss a signature sip.
The skills of a flair bartender go way beyond mixing drinks. This is not your usual corner-bar Joe—they’re part mixologist, part showman, juggling bottles and manipulating flaming liquors with ease. In addition to getting a perfectly combined cocktail, guests will be treated to a series of cool tricks and maybe a joke or two. >>
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As you start to choose wedding colors and make decisions on formality, there’s a good chance a theme will emerge—maybe it’s “art deco glam” or “rustic barn elegance.” You want your guests to celebrate who you are as a couple, so pick something that shows off your style. Maybe you want to incorporate your shared love of movies or your individual cultural backgrounds. Whatever you choose, be strategic with your décor and special touches, so guests enjoy a well-designed and super-personalized day.
the don’t-do list
Some wedding blunders to avoid.
skip the insects
avoid over-personalizing
beware of recyclables
Despite how funny you are, there might be a few people who just don’t get it—your grandfather or the groom’s boss, to name a few. Save the witty details for a more intimate crowd at the rehearsal dinner.
Yes, this can be done. And yes, it can get very ugly. Be strategic with your monograms and motifs, and avoid adding the date to everything. Bottom line: Don’t brand every single detail.
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We love bees. We heart fireflies. We’re even into butterflies. But skip using ants, spiders and other multi-legged creatures as a motif. You’ll lose the elegant aspect with anything that comes across as slimy or gross.
Wearing your grandma’s brooch or mixing and matching glass vessels are lovely details, but don’t overdo it. There comes a point when a flea-market find doesn’t mesh with your style and it just looks out of place.
steer clear of sci-fi
We appreciate every last Star Trek fan, but remember: Your wedding has a lot of elements—including flowers and a cake. Before you commit to too many ideas, consider working your interest into one detail, like the save-the-date or favors.
sidestep a princess party
You should feel like royalty on your wedding day, but a fairy tale theme can appear a bit childish. If you must incorporate it, give it a grown-up, sophisticated spin.
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choose good music Did you and your fiancé have your first date at a jazz club? Maybe you’re both hooked on a specific style, be it ’90s or old-school Motown. There’s no reason to book a regular old band—have fun with it and we assure you, your guests will too. Find a unique band or DJ or hire a few different musical acts, from a soloist or bluegrass trio to a rock-and-roll band, to perform throughout your ceremony and reception. If you’re going with a DJ, solicit song requests via your reply cards (“We’ll dance to _________”), ensuring your guests’ favorite tunes play throughout the evening.
pick seats purposefully The main goal is to make sure guests have the best time, so if you’re assigning seats for dinner, be thoughtful about the table arrangements. A carefully planned seating chart leads to great conversation during your reception, which leads to a great dance party, which leads to—well, you get the idea. Seat guests with people they know, or people you think they’ll have something in common with, and be sure to seat all of the kiddos together for everyone’s benefit.
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have a kickin’ kid table If you’re including kids, invite a plus one—a babysitter. This will give parents an opportunity to hit the dance floor and really enjoy the party. To keep the little ones entertained throughout the night, set up an area specifically for them. Designate a couple of tables complete with finger food favorites and activities to keep them busy. Or arrange for the fun to go down in an adjacent room, where a sitter can keep them entertained until the last dance.
add a live performance Sometimes the best parts of a reception are the things guests don’t see coming. Surprise your friends and family with something totally unexpected, like a belly dancer, fire-eater or aerialist. Keep in mind: If you plan to hire one of these more daring acts, you’ll want to check with your venue and make sure there won’t be any safety issues or a need for a certificate of insurance.
overlooked spaces You’ve got your reception décor covered, but don’t forget these important areas.
the bathrooms
Pay a little extra attention to the restrooms. Go for subtle sophistication: A flower arrangement, personalized soaps and a great amenities basket will go a long way.
the bar
The bar itself is often a focal point so make it a showstopper. Top it with blooms, unique lighting and fun cocktail accents, like colorful napkins and striped straws. Or let the bar do the work: Set out rows of glasses on lacquered trays along with pretty pitchers filled with your signature cocktail.
the entranceways Wow your guests with a grand entrance. Floral wreaths on doors, colorful votive candles atop entrance tables, hurricane lanterns hanging from trees, luminaries lining the walkways and other embellishments will give guests a warm welcome.
the hallways
Use potted plants, trees, floral garlands and trellises to make an impact when guests enter and exit your space. Line the hallway to the bathroom with tightly packed blooms.
All eyes will be on you during your first dance, which means it’s the perfect opportunity to really wow your guests. Have you been taking lessons or practicing at home? Now’s the time to show off. Consider starting with something slow like “At Last,” and then suddenly switching to a fast, sexy Latin dance or a jazzy swing step. It will set the tone for a lively dance party and encourage guests to join you on the dance floor right away. >>
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have a lounge at your reception
have an exit strategy
Maybe your seat picks were misguided or your friends are eager to mingle with a new crowd postdessert. A lounge space provides a change of environment and promotes conversation. And it gives your danced-out friends a place to kick back and enjoy a few cocktails while still feeling part of the party. Rent or borrow couches, chairs and ottomans, then stage with pillows and votive candles in your wedding colors. Consider serving a party snack in this space too. Your guests will thank you—trust us.
What’s a party without a festive send-off? Have your band or DJ play a lively, upbeat number to end the party on a high note. Then give guests toss cones filled with lavender, colorful pom-poms or traditional rice to shower you as you make your getaway. Confetti poppers are loads of colorful fun (with a bang) and nothing says “wild party” like pyrotechnics— think: sparklers or fireworks. If your venue is strict on clean up, opt for no-mess flags or even bubbles.
create a guest book they’ll want to sign
rock the favor
A traditional guest book is a nice keepsake for the couple, but it can get lost in the reception shuffle (especially at a super-fun one). Come up with an alternative, like a photo booth stocked with goofy props. Or create a puzzle from a silly photo of you two and ask guests to sign the pieces. If you’re oenophiles, consider having guests sign bottles of wine you’ll open on your first, fifth and tenth wedding anniversaries (choose wines that will age well).
Even if you’ve given them a night to remember, send guests home with something great. Your favor should be one of two things: practical or edible. Are you both into bubbly? Give guests a split of champagne. Or maybe you’re hosting a destination wedding: Remind them of their trip with leather luggage tags or a regional specialty, like jalapeño jelly. Or share a piece of your heritage by giving out tins of Asian cookies or authentic olive oil from the region of Italy where your ancestors were born. Wrap the favor in packaging that suits your wedding style (a burlap bag for a rustic celebration, tulle for a classic affair) and attach a tag thanking guests. Expert tip: Resist the urge to put your wedding date and monogram on everything, except for your packaging.
keep your dancers fueled If you want to ensure an all-night crowd, arrange for your catering staff to bring out trays of late-night munchies, like mini cheeseburgers or French fries as the evening wears on. Stick with things you’d love to eat at that time of night (read: comfort foods). Or offer a coffee bar complete with special syrups and toppings to keep them well caffeinated for the after-party.
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using every color in the rainbow keep it simple With a few exceptions (see our next fix), you should pick two to four colors that go well together and really stick to them. Using the same colors throughout your wedding décor will help create a cohesive look, so every detail blends nicely. Narrowing your palette to a few colors will also keep elements like your invitations or your centerpieces from looking chaotic. If you prefer a more relaxed look, opt for a few slightly varied shades of the same hue. This will add depth without looking messy. Or, for an especially striking style moment, go monochromatic with a bold shade, like a royal blue or a creamy neutral. The idea is to keep the look tailored for maximum impact. MISTAKE THE FIX
limiting yourself to only two distinct colors THE FIX choose your colors wisely We’re so over the strict color combo rule. Many gorgeous weddings have a variety of colors—sometimes up to four— that work well together. The way to pull it off is to add more than one neutral, like ivory and a metallic, to your color palette, or go for multiple shades of the same color to create a tonal scheme. We love the idea of a summery color palette inspired by hydrangeas, for example. Combining sapphire, sky blue, white and gray with a few pops of sunny yellow make for a bright but sophisticated scheme. A color palette with three or four colors can also help you solidify a specific theme or style—like an English garden with green, yellow, pink and red, or fall in New England with orange, rust, yellow and gold.
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choosing predictable colors mix up the shades Certain color combos have obvious connotations. Think about what comes to mind when you combine red, white and blue— or red and green. Keep your colors from reminding guests of their favorite holiday by subtly tweaking your hues. The trick is to switch up at least one shade to downplay the resemblance. Instead of your standard patriotic mix, try chambray and eggshell with poppy-colored blooms. Or opt for forest green and pale pink if you’re worried about your wedding looking like Christmas in July. Adding another color like a neutral or metallic will also downplay the combo. Yellow dresses with red bouquets might conjure images of a popular fast-food restaurant, but breaking up the hues with white details, like lace or pearls, is a simple way to add elegance. If you’re set on a recognizable pairing, introduce a pattern like stripes or a brocade design into the mix. This will add dimension and help refine your overall palette. MISTAKE THE FIX
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choosing trendy colors THE FIX skip fads It’s easy to get carried away with ideas you see in other weddings, magazines and inspiration boards, but just because you love a fresh and unexpected idea on paper doesn’t mean it’s the right choice for your wedding. Your palette should be one that you won’t mind living with for a long time. Remember: You’ll be filling albums with photos of this day. If you’re drawn to a color that’s hot right now, consider using the trendy hue sparingly, like in details, instead of making it a main color. Think about the colors and patterns you really love and surround yourself with daily. The simplest meaningful objects, like a favorite sweater or even a throw pillow, have inspired some of the prettiest weddings we’ve seen. MISTAKE
using the wrong ratios balance your brights One of the biggest pitfalls in color selection is not considering the eye’s need for a little white space. Just because you have two dominant colors in your palette doesn’t mean you should use them equally. Decide which hue will take center stage and which will follow. This distinction will affect your decisions from linens to lighting, so choose early. If you love bright orange, pick a more muted shade for your secondary color, like pale blue or navy instead of a vibrant aqua. You want your colors to be complementary to your décor, not distracting. Thoughtfully balancing them is the key to making even the craziest combinations look chic. Another option: Pick a few shades that are in between colors, like coral instead of bright orange and plum instead of amethyst. >> MISTAKE THE FIX
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ignoring texture coordinate with purpose Two colors that go together may not look right when put side by side in different textures. A burlap table runner with red satin linens doesn’t work as well as wood planters on maroon cotton tablecloths, even though the colors are the same. Mixing textures in the same hue can add more drama and depth to your wedding style than combining a slew of colors. Patterns like stripes or florals will help break up bold colors, so a shade like bright yellow or black doesn’t overwhelm your tables. Bottom line: Think of texture as another “color” or element in your palette— mix it wisely in everything from stationery to linens. MISTAKE
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ignoring your venue colors pick a priority (colors or venue) Think about your favorite colors and decide whether you want to prioritize finding the perfect venue or having your perfect palette—sometimes you can have both. When hunting for the right spot, look at details like wall coverings, carpeting and art. A color scheme of lime green and hot pink will clash in a country club ballroom with navy and maroon carpets—there’s really no way around it. (Try to pull it off anyway and you’ll end up spending twice what you would normally in décor to cover it up with drapery and flooring.) That’s not to say you have to choose a venue where your colors perfectly match the décor, but keep it in mind when settling on a scheme and a place to say “I do.” MISTAKE
not coordinating your paper elements include some color in your invites Your invitations set the stage for your event, so let them introduce your wedding colors and evoke the right tone from the start. Coordinating the invitation colors with those of the wedding can be as easy as choosing a colored font, ribbon or monogram, or as elaborate as lining envelopes with a bold pop of your hues. Don’t sacrifice readability for style—that means the type should contrast with the paper, so balance brighter shades with neutrals and avoid light-colored fonts. And ask your designer about typeface techniques like letterpress or foiling to make sure your text stands out. Also consider that invites are a dress code cue for your guests. Don’t send out formal ecru cards with copperplate calligraphy unless you’re expecting guests to dress up for your wedding. MISTAKE THE FIX
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trying to match the flowers don’t force matchy-matchy Your flowers don’t have to be in your wedding colors, but if they work, great! If not, it’s okay. For example, if blue is in your palette, you’re going to have a hard time sourcing stems (very few flowers are naturally blue). Instead of insisting your bouquets and centerpieces match perfectly, ask your florist to choose complementary neutral flowers that will add visual variety to the color scheme (not to mention great texture). Then let your nonfloral elements, like the centerpiece vases and bouquet ribbon wraps, show off your palette. >> MISTAKE THE FIX
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choosing the wrong dress color pick the most flattering hue or a neutral When it comes to dressing your bridal party, choose the most flattering color in your palette and use it (look to neutral colors if you’re at all unsure). Shades like burnt orange and olive green might look great on details like your stationery, table linen overlays and glassware, but they aren’t exactly wearable. The days of the perfectly matched bridesmaid dresses are over too. Aim to have your besties’ dresses complement your palette. A neutral caramel may only be a supporting color in your palette but the perfect choice for your ladies. If you really want your bridesmaids to wear a bolder hue, choose accessories in that color instead, like a belt, pretty necklace or shoes. Stick to universally flattering colors like jewel tones, navy, blush, ivory or black. Bonus: These hues look best in photos too, and happy bridesmaids mean great pictures. MISTAKE THE FIX
choosing colors that don’t fit the mood lighten or ramp up your color palette Though yellow may be your favorite color, it might not be the ideal shade for an evening wedding on New Year’s Eve. Likewise, shimmering metallic silver might not set the right tone for an afternoon garden reception in a small New England town. If you’re set on a color you don’t think will work with the atmosphere you’re trying to create, think about your accent colors. Adding lots of navy can make yellow seem more refined and formal, while pairing it with another pastel takes it in more of a whimsical direction. Your color scheme plays a role in the vibe of your wedding, so determine which emotions you want your celebration to evoke (a relaxed backyard bash or a formal, bow-tie encouraged affair, for example) before you pick your palette. MISTAKE
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Narrow your colors down to exact shades. Instead of green and pink, choose lime green, Kelly green, sage green or forest green. Add rose, fuchsia or bubblegum pink. This distinction will simplify all your other décor choices.
not giving visual examples to your wedding pros get specific with your colors Narrow your colors down to exact shades. Instead of green and pink, choose lime green, Kelly green, sage green or forest green. Add rose, fuchsia or bubblegum pink. Create an inspiration board to make it easier to communicate your vision with all of your wedding pros and help you stay focused when choosing décor. Anything can inspire your palette, but paint company websites are a good place to start—so many choices. Use an interactive color wheel or get inspiration from other weddings you like (a bouquet could inspire the whole scheme, for example). If you have access to a Pantone color book, use it to select your shade the same way graphic designers do. Many invitation designers mix ink to match the colors in this book, and a lot of cake bakers use Pantone numbers as a reference when creating dye for frosting. MISTAKE THE FIX
limiting yourself to seasonal color rules think seasonless It’s time to forget about outdated seasonal color rules—there are no rules. Pastels aren’t just for spring weddings, and you can totally have an orange and yellow soiree in seasons other than fall. Pick a color palette you love and then tailor it to the particular season with accent colors, texture, florals and décor. The way to pull off a pastel winter wedding is to swap out rosy pink for a more muted blush and use dusty sage instead of seafoam or mint green. Love brights for autumn? Add in some jewel tones and texture to warm up the combo. Pairing your color palette with flowers and seasonal-inspired décor elements, like evergreens and faux-fur chairbacks for a winter wedding, or peonies and boxwood in spring, will actually make your wedding style effortlessly complement the season without seeming overly themed. MISTAKE THE FIX
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Whether your historic venue won’t let you bring in a big installation, or you want to be selective about your décor choices, these 15 doable ideas will turn any reception space into a personalized celebration that gets noticed for all the right reasons.
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drape the ceilings It’s amazing what you can do with a little fabric. Keep it formal and elegant with drapery in a neutral hue, or if you’re after a more carefree vibe, opt for a bright color like yellow or a pattern. If you take this approach, you can go light on the table décor (your guests’ eyes will be looking up) and you’ll still get the same decked-out reception look.
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pick up patterned pillows If you have a lounge area in your reception space (or are making one with some rental furniture), get yourselves to a housewares department for some pillows. Cover with your favorite fabric for a few pops of festive color and pattern. Bonus: You can reuse the pillows in your newlywed digs.
create an escort card display Instead of the old escort card table idea, create an oversize board of seating assignments and display it near the entrance of the reception space. Best of all, you won’t have guests squinting at tiny tented cards trying to decipher their table numbers.
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hang your flowers Think flowers are just for your bouquet or centerpieces? Think again. Suspending lush arrangements a few feet above your guests’ dinner plates is a fun way to create a more intimate environment in a big open space like a loft or barn.
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make chalkboard signage Chalkboards in a photo booth are pure fun, but they’re also a great way to decorate an entrance or jazz up the cocktail bar. Personalize it by thrifting an old frame and spray-painting it to match the rest of your décor. Drape with greenery or a flower garland and chalk away.
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use table lamps Create height on tables using lamps. This trick will help guests feel at home and create the effect that they’re at a chic dinner party. You can even install dimmers so guests can see their food during dinner, but come time to dance, the mood is set. If you go this route, you can skip florals altogether or surround lamp bases with greenery to disguise cords.
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add a sprig of herbs Just because you’re having a formal wedding doesn’t mean you can’t have a little fun with your décor. Herbs like rosemary or lavender add a fragrant touch to place settings. Or if you’re going for a more casual vibe, include potted herbs on the table (which can double as centerpieces or favors).
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infuse the celebration with calligraphy Choose a stylish script and customize your escort cards, menus or wedding day signage. If your budget doesn’t allow for 200 professionally calligraphed place cards, post the task in your local college’s art department and test out a few students for the job. >>
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rethink your tables Who says you have to use numbers to identify tables? Get creative with names (think: your favorite vacation spots or beloved novels), or use unique vessels like wine bottles, lanterns, moss topiaries or festive pennant flags to display numerals.
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design en masse mood lighting When paired with dramatic uplighting and luxe fabrics, the addition of tall taper candles or floating tealights can turn your space into a magnificent scene of illumination—not to mention set an über-romantic vibe. Consider having sequined table linens to reflect the light to make the space seem even brighter.
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use a table runner that pops Look for modern table décor inspiration, like a patterned table runner. Instead of big floral centerpieces, space stems out in smaller bud vases that span the length of the runner (and show off the design). This colorful detail will make your white rental china really stand out too.
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construct a photo backdrop Create a stunning focal point that doubles as a photo backdrop. Layers of colors and shapes will give guests different elements to gush over. Consider materials that are easily customizable like tissue paper tassels, ribbons, balloons, garlands of greenery or paper flowers.
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make a family photo wall A wall of family photos is the perfect, easy conversation starter. Devote a row to your fiancé’s family and one to yours, or you can just mix them all up altogether. You can use only wedding photos or have a variety of portraits and candids. Alternative idea: Showcase your (new!) family tree.
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hang (a ton of) paper lanterns We know—paper lanterns are nothing new. But multiply the number of lanterns you usually see hanging in a reception space by 100 and it’s a different story. Find more ideas to steal at TheKnot.com/style
the wow factor Turn up the volume on your celebration.
expert tasting station
Whether it’s a beer, wine or whiskey tasting, bring in an expert to guide guests through an interactive drink experience during cocktail hour.
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professional performers From ballroom to belly dancing, book professional dancers for a portion of your reception. The visual treat will inspire guests to get on the floor—and hey, they might learn a thing or two.
live art
Hire an artist to capture the reception scene in oil or acrylic on canvas. Guests will love checking in on the progress and you’ll have an incredible keepsake.
fireworks
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There’s something special about getting married surrounded by the familiarity of your childhood backyard, the beauty of a romantic botanical garden or the crispness of an ocean breeze. As gorgeous as these sites are, don’t forget the legwork that goes into an alfresco celebration. Follow these tips to pulling off a flawless outdoor affair.
choose the right spot Think about your perfect wedding: Is it a on a sandy shore? A lush mountainside? A picturesque desert ranch? A rustic vineyard? As you visit top contenders and consider your options, it’s important to consider the potential negatives as much as the positives. It may be stunning at sunset, but can your guests get there easily? Will it be noisy or windy? (Visit at the exact time your wedding will take place to get the full effect.) Will it cost you a fortune and a lot of coordination to bring in everything you need, like a catering kitchen and portable bathrooms? Will passersby be able to walk near your event? Some of these concerns have solutions, and some may not—in the end, choose a place that has the ambience and natural setting you’re looking for, along with the convenience your guests will appreciate.
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We’ve got our fingers crossed for blue skies too, but it could rain, or there could be a hail storm, or a bug infestation. Although all of these things may be unlikely, it’s important to prepare for the worst-case scenario while hoping for the best. The ideal outdoor wedding location needs to come with a plan B you love just as much. Many venues offer indoor and outdoor options or a mix of the two, just in case a rain storm blows in before the ceremony. Have a room on reserve for any unexpected events that threaten your picture-perfect day. Or arrange for a tent with sides that roll up or down, which allows you to be outside while staying dry.
get permission (or a permit) If you’ve decided to wed on public property, you may need written permission to do so. Some venues will require a site fee to hold an event on their property, while others will only need appropriate documentation from the city. You may also require an additional certificate of insurance (say, for a museum or historic building) in case of damages. Ask your venue for assistance in applying for permits, or contact your city parks department or other local government agencies to ensure you’re well prepared to say “I do.” >>
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l et nature lead the way You’ve no doubt chosen to get married outside to soak up the surrounding beauty, so let Mother Nature guide your wedding style. Consider the hues occurring naturally in the setting—be it sea blue or garden green—and build your palette around them. Keep the season in mind too, as it will largely dictate the color and types of flowers available. Then highlight the best part of the surroundings (a clear-top tent to show off a super-starry sky or a ceremony arch overlooking a rolling vineyard) and supplement with corresponding décor or florals, like driftwood for a seaside celebration or moss terrariums for a woodland affair.
transport your guests If you’ve picked a spot that’s off the beaten path, give guests a ride. Arrange for buses, trollies or vans to shuttle them from area hotels to your wedding location (this will also ensure they’ll have a safe way home). At the very least, provide excellent directions—even GPS coordinates if you’re in really rural territory. You don’t want guests arriving late, and frustrated, because of unmarked roads.
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b e the ultimate host It’s your day, but your friends and family have made great efforts to celebrate alongside you, so make sure they’re comfortable. Sunny and hot? Have ice-cold water at the ready, print your programs on fans or offer up parasols for those seeking shade. A bit chilly? Prepare guests ahead of time so they come dressed in layers and serve up something warm, like hot cocoa or a hot toddy. If temperatures call for it, bring in fans or heaters. And if bathrooms aren’t available on-site, you’ll need to arrange for high-end porta-potties. (Figure one stall for every 35 people, so your guests spend their evening on the dance floor and not in line for the bathroom.)
i nform the attire If you’re planning to hold your nuptials in the grass or sand, clue your guests in—no one wants a ruined pair of shoes. Make attire recommendations based on the location and the temperature. Let the locale dictate the formality too. If you’re hosting an afternoon wedding in a garden, request suits but not formal black tie. Same goes for your bridal party—select seasonally appropriate fabrics that will keep your attendants comfortable. >>
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your venue
Getting married on a beach or in a historic barn? Let the location help define the style details of the day, like your stationery, menu and parting favors.
a favorite item
A single element, like something you collect, a painting you love, a favorite flower or a piece of lace from your mother’s wedding dress, could set the tone for your day.
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the seasons
The time of year can influence your wedding location, (especially an outdoor celebration) food, music, flowers, favors, decorations and even wardrobe.
your passions
Nature? Movies? Sports? Travel? Think about what hobbies and interests reflect your true self, and then share those passions with your guests.
pretty hues
Color is a unifying factor among all your wedding elements. Let a couple of your favorite shades shape the day, like natural elements for an outdoor celebration.
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You’ll want to arrange your ceremony according to the sun, so your photographer will be able to capture your “I dos” without camera flare and your guests can witness your vows without squinting. And be sure to take advantage of the “golden hour,” when the lighting is said to be at its best for portraits.
Choose a caterer who has experience cooking and serving guests in an outdoor setting. Confirm the proper electricity is present to keep your caterer cooking in real time and up to code. Keep your menu choices in mind too—will guests want to wolf down a heavy dish, or will they be craving light bites? And don’t forget the cake. Talk to your baker about the elements, so you choose something that works outside—you don’t want a beautiful buttercream masterpiece melting in the sun.
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create ambience When tying the knot outside, there’s a good chance you’ll need uplighting—even indoor weddings do. Consider stringing market lights above the dance floor or hanging lanterns in the trees to frame the two of you as you say your vows. Candlelight is a great and totally romantic solution to a lack of electrical outlets, as long as it’s bright enough for your guests to see their dinner.
in good favor If you’re providing extras for guests to use while they celebrate, like flip-flops or pashminas, those can also double as favors. Or, send guests home with a location-specific token (think: a coral bottle stopper or small potted plant).
keep guests safe Clear leaves or any obstructions prior to your nuptials. Steps to well-traveled areas, like to the restroom or parking lot, should have handrails and walkways and be well lit for elderly guests.
turn it up Crashing waves are peaceful, but no one should have to strain to hear you deliver those beautiful vows. Use mics so guests can feel a part of the ceremony. And double-check that your band or DJ has enough power for their equipment.
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do I have to have a wedding cake? Technically no, but we think the tradition is definitely worth keeping. If you decide to forgo a cake, offer your guests some other kind of sweet treat, be it a plated dessert or passed chocolates. If you’re skipping the cake solely to save money, consider scaling back instead. Keep your add-ons and decoration requests simple— the less ornate the design, the less time-consuming (and costly) to make. Avoid exotic fillings, such as fresh guava, and instead order classic flavors that can easily be sourced. If you still need to come down on price, ask your baker about having two cakes. Order a small one- or a two-tier confection you can cut, then supplement with a sheet cake in the kitchen.
Sort of—the cost of a bowl of buttercream is less expensive than rolled fondant. But generally speaking, labor is a big indicator of the price of your cake, no matter what kind of frosting you choose. If you’re asking for a super-detailed design, like a smooth finish with several sugar flower clusters and a patterned motif, plan to pay for the baker’s time. Same goes for shapes—a twisty, stacked style could take up to three days to create and frost. For a less costly option, try a simple design and add a dramatic cake topper or fresh blooms. Besides being a showpiece, your cake should also be delicious. Choose the frosting that tastes best or allows your baker to design your dream cake. >>
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do I have to have a vanilla-flavored wedding cake? Remember: In addition to being unique and stunning, your cake has to taste good too. When you meet with prospective bakers, try a lot of flavors. Don’t be afraid to shy away from classics like chocolate or vanilla in favor of something less traditional such as carrot or lemon. And sample the available fillings—sometimes this layer is the most flavorful part of the slice. Many bakers are working with complex pairings like rose, hazelnut or lychee. Some will even whip up something custom for you. Choose the flavor you and your fiancé like best—after all, it’s your wedding cake.
I love the look of fondant, but I heard it tastes terrible—is that true?
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Terrible is a stretch, but it’s not quite as tasty as a buttercream or meringue. The upshot of using fondant is the virtually limitless design possibilities. Want a ribbon that matches your bouquet wrap? No problem. Want a smooth surface that can easily incorporate geometric designs or a ton of gum-paste roses? You got it. If you’re worried about the taste, ask your baker to add a layer of buttercream between the cake and the fondant (most do this anyway) to offset the flavor. Or speak to your cake designer about your vision and see if it can be accomplished or modified to work with a different type of icing.
is a naked cake right for my wedding? It all depends on the kind of celebration you’re planning. Naked cakes are essentially unfrosted confections. These designs tend to have a more natural and organic feel, since they don’t really lend themselves to gum-paste flowers or metallic dust. That doesn’t necessarily mean they should be reserved for casual weddings though. A naked cake garnished with some lavender sprigs would be well suited for a vineyard affair, for example. If you like the naked look, talk with your baker about ways to tailor the design to the formality of your celebration.
are fresh flowers safe to put on a cake, and do they cost less than the sugar variety? Generally speaking, fresh flowers will cost you less than anything made from sugar, mostly because of the time and effort required to create each delicate petal. If you want to use fresh flowers on your cake, speak to your florist in advance. They’ll need to source the requested blooms and make sure they haven’t been sprayed with pesticides. If you have your heart set on a particular bud, check to see if it’s in season. In some cases, it might be less costly to fashion a peony in the kitchen than to source one in February.
my fianc´e and I prefer savory or lightly sweetened desserts—is buttercream teeth-achingly sweet?
will a buttercream cake be fancy enough for my black-tie wedding?
Most buttercreams are made of the ingredients you’d expect: creamed butter and sugar. But they aren’t all created equal. Some are meringue based while others use custard or oils (making them better for fillings or decoration). Talk with your baker about sweetness preference and taste samples. Bottom line: You can achieve a spreadable cream without risking a cavity. You may even want to opt for a cream cheese frosting, which is a mix of savory and sweet that you and your guests will enjoy.
Absolutely—just ask cake icon Sylvia Weinstock, who only frosts with buttercream. This fluffy icing can be applied in a smooth appliqué, giving it a flawless finish similar to that of fondant. An assortment of sugar flowers dresses things up even more. Buttercream’s consistency also allows it to be easily shaped or piped into swags, borders and flowers (perfect decoration for less formal celebrations). The only real downside to buttercream is it’s not ideal for transfers, stencils or embossing. >>
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do we have to have two cakes, including a groom’s cake? One cake is all you need, but if you like the idea of serving a second dessert or getting your groom involved, go for it. The tradition of the groom’s cake has evolved over time—a slice of this second cake used to be given to guests as a favor when they headed home for the evening. The groom’s cake is usually much smaller than the couple’s wedding cake and is decorated to reflect the interests of the groom (think: hobbies, favorite sports team or even a childhood superhero). There are no rules to the flavors and fillings, but, like the design, they typically reflect his favorites.
if I don’t want a traditional cake topper, do I have to have one? You have free rein to top your cake with whatever you’d like— or nothing at all. If you have an heirloom piece, like your grandparents’ vintage topper, work with your baker to add it to your top tier (it can even double as your “something old”). Many wedding cakes are so decorative or colorful that a topper could actually detract from the design.
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I’m planning an outdoor wedding—will a buttercream cake melt? The biggest downside to buttercream is its sensitivity to heat. Most buttercreams will stand at room temperature for hours, developing a pretty iredescent shine, but it’s good to have a designated refrigerator at your venue for storing the cake before the reception begins. If you’re hosting an outdoor party, you can still have a buttercream cake—just take a few extra precautions. Chill the cake leading up to the reception and opt for an early cake cutting, before you sit down to eat. If it’s too hot or humid, the cake can be removed and chilled until it’s time to serve your guests.
cake décor glossary Learn some lingo before meeting with your cake baker.
basket weave
A piping technique that has interwoven vertical and horizontal lines.
beading
A border along the edge of tiers that resembles tiny pearls.
cornelli
An elaborate piping technique that yields a lacelike pattern.
Adds sparkle or sheen to a cake.
piping
Decorative technique created using a pastry bag and various metal tips. Piping details include leaves, borders, basket-weave patterns and flowers.
pulled sugar
Edible colored sugar balls used for decorative purposes.
A technique in which boiled sugar is manipulated and pulled to produce flowers and bows.
ganache
royal icing
dragees
A sweet, rich chocolate, denser than mousse but less dense than fudge, which can be used as icing or filling.
gum paste
This paste of sugar, cornstarch and gelatin is used to mold realisticlooking fruits and flowers to garnish a cake.
latticework meet the expert: maggie austin Former ballet dancer turned cake designer Maggie Austin creates detailed works of (delicious) art. The process of designing a wedding cake can begin a year or more in advance with Austin and the couple discussing elements of the reception in great detail, resulting in a unique design. The cake is typically made and decorated the day before delivery, but she works on sugar flowers and other delicate details well in advance. MaggieAustinCake.com
petal dust
A crisscross piping with an open pattern.
marzipan
A paste made of ground almonds, sugar and egg whites used to mold edible flowers to decorate the cake. Marzipan can also be rolled in sheets, and used as icing.
Made of egg whites and confectioners sugar, this icing is a soft paste piped from a pastry bag to create flowers, beading, bows and latticework.
swiss dot
A piping technique that forms tiny dots in random patterns that resemble a fine dot Swiss fabric.
torte
A dense cake that does not use leavening agents like baking powder or baking soda.
whipped cream Heavy cream beaten to achieve a thick consistency.
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a wedding that’s totally you Settling on an overarching concept and sticking to it is crucial for a wedding that feels unified and looks like you—and trust us, it will make your life a lot easier as you weed through all the options in the months to come. So before you try on a single gown, book your band or taste a bite of cake, determine the style and vibe you want to set on your wedding day. >>
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think big The beginning of the process is the dreaming phase—don’t worry about how something will work or how much it will cost. Don’t even consider what your mother will think. Picture your dream wedding. What do you see? Here are a couple of questions to consider while everything is coming together in your head. • Big (everyone you know) or small (close friends and relatives)? • Outdoors or indoors? • Home (one of your hometowns or your current city) or away (hello, destination wedding!)? • Modern, classic, romantic, vintage, rustic or all-out glam? • Fancy, casual or somewhere in between? • Spring, summer, winter or fall?
To get a better idea of what you want (and definitely don’t want), spend some time checking out bridal magazines, books, blogs and real wedding photos. But don’t limit yourself to browsing just the obvious sources—something as unlikely as a wallpaper pattern or a pretty perfume package design can spark an idea. Fabrics, color chips, stationery and trinkets are all great starting points too. Collect your ideas on an inspiration board—it’s one of the best ways to keep everything organized. It will also help you identify common threads and visualize how various elements will look together. bonus: Build yours on TheKnot.com/boards and easily share them with your wedding pros as you plan.
figure out the formality How fancy or casual do you want to go? Do you want to see your guests all dressed up at a sit-down dinner? Or will it be more casual with informal seating and stations? The setting of your wedding can also dictate the vision—a beach wedding calls for a more laidback vibe, while a ballroom may require a more classic and elegant ambience. And don’t forget about your own personal styles and the kind of atmosphere that best speaks to you two as a couple. Do you like hosting intimate dinner parties, or prefer a low-key poolside picnic? You’ll want to carry the formality through every aspect of your wedding, from the stationery to the parting favor. >>
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ways to bring your style to life Add a personal touch to your day with these details.
colors
Once you’ve settled on a style and theme, choose colors that complement it. If you’re having a seaside celebration, consider blue with a pop of coral, or a clean white and tan look. For a vintage wedding, take inspiration from antiques, like a pale blue or dusty lavender with patterns and mismatched details.
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Your invitation will set the tone for your celebration and be your guests’ first hint at the theme of your wedding. Incorporate your motif into the design, like an acorn for a fall affair or a custom illustration of you two. If you’ve already selected your colors, incorporate them as well in your text or even your envelopes or stamps.
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food and drink
From a signature sip to a locally inspired menu, play up your style in your food and drink options. If you’re having a nauticalthemed wedding, serve seafood favorites like baked clams and shrimp cocktail. Celebrating down South? Offer guests spiked sweet tea to give them a taste of the local flavor.
flowers
Your blooms can help convey style too. If you’re having a more casual celebration, opt for a bouquet of undone wildflowers in varying colors. If you’re celebrating in a location known for a particular flower, try and incorporate it into your arrangements—you’ll save on the stems too.
favors
Your parting gift to guests should represent you and your wedding theme. If you’ve opted for a retro celebration, give friends and family a “record” of tunes from the wedding. Or send them off with a food favor that’s reflective of the location or of your family’s heritage, like a bottle of olive oil or a bag of fortune cookies.
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The more specific you get with your vision, the easier it will be for you to choose your details and convey your ideas to your pros—the tighter your theme, the better. Instead of stopping at “glam,” decide whether you want art-deco glam or old-Hollywood glam. Your theme can be anything from a favorite era, hobby or place to your heritage or culture. To help shape the style, think of interesting hobbies you and your fiancé have in common. Maybe you both love golf or share an appreciation of art. Or perhaps there’s a place you two hold dear, like the mountaintop where you got engaged or the vacation locale where you fell in love. a word of caution: Don’t load up on too many ideas. It’s great if you love Broadway musicals and your spouse-to-be is into drag racing, but trying to combine both on your wedding day could lead to a weird, disjointed affair. Do your best to compromise on one concept and stick to it. Or if you have two competing themes, save one for a prewedding bash or the after-party.
Color is a unifying factor among all your wedding elements, from the invitations to your bridesmaid dresses. Take a look at a color wheel to determine which shades you’re drawn to. The easiest way to make all of your wedding elements come together is to stick with one main color and an accent color, or two equally prominent complementary colors (colors that are directly opposite each other on the color wheel, like green and pink or yellow and purple) for a bright contrast. But don’t feel limited to just two colors—adding neutral or metallic accents will make your palette robust. You could also choose an analogous scheme, putting together three colors that fall side by side on the color wheel, like blue, periwinkle and violet, to bring out the subtle nuances of one color family.
don’t forget the vibe As you’re planning, remember that the theme obviously affects the look of your wedding, but it can also set the tone. An evening wedding in a gilded ballroom meant to conjure the Roaring ’20s will ramp the chic quotient up a notch, while a clambake on the beach will have guests kicking off their shoes and enjoying a beer right out of the bottle. Either is great, as long as it feels right to you. You want your personalities and passions to shine through, which is what ultimately makes your wedding stand out and feel special.
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master the motif A motif is the last flourish that can tie together the overall look of your wedding—it can show up anywhere from the invitation to the cake. It’s typically a pattern, shape or insignia that conveys your style (think: family crest, toile pattern or leaf icon). Whatever you choose should reinforce the mood you’re trying to create. A cute crab is a fun way to celebrate by the beach, while a monogram may be a better fit for a formal ballroom affair. keep in mind: Use your motif purposefully—three or four places is usually the right amount. Any more than that will feel forced or look too matchy-matchy. Find even more inspiration at TheKnot.com/style
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Before you decide to tackle any wedding projects, read our helpful guide to avoid potential DIY disasters. >> PHOTOGRAPH BY DEVON JARVIS
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Making things yourself is a great way to add personal touches to your wedding. But fair warning: Some projects are tougher than others, and what you thought would be a super-simple activity could turn into an undertaking worthy of a world-class crafter.
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table numbers
With the tally of wedding guests averaging about 140, table numbers are a manageable DIY project—you’ll only need to make 14 to 20, depending on your seating configuration. If you’re setting round tables, consider dual-sided numbers, so they can
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photography
Yes, Instagram filters make photos look amazing, but your pictures are among the few tangible things you’ll have to remember your wedding day. All of your loved ones may promise to capture every moment, but what happens if they get distracted or arrive with a low battery and no backup? Photography is a real skill—a professional photographer will ensure all the details are well documented.
be read from all angles as guests make their way to their seats. Opting for long feasting tables? Divide the rectangle into smaller “tables,” grouping numbers by six or eight guests. Clue your florist in on your craft plans—she can help coordinate the rest of the table décor and offer design suggestions. DIY DON’T
catering
Catering a large-scale party is a huge undertaking. You’d be
favors
A small takeaway or memento is always charming and worth the extra effort. You can go all the way and actually make cute coasters or delicious homemade brownies, or you can simply assemble premade treats, like chocolates from a local sweet shop. Buy colorful boxes, ribbon and tags to package them up nicely. DIY DON’T
day-of coordination
You’ve organized every little detail up to now, so why shouldn’t you be in charge on the wedding day? Because you won’t be able to relax and enjoy the party you’ve spent months planning! Hiring a coordinator for the day can be a lifesaver. While you’re getting pampered, they’ll be setting up and averting (or handling) any crises. They’ll help with the flow of the day and the coordination of your pros. When everything isn’t going perfectly, you’ll have no idea. Trust us—peace of mind is worth a little extra expense.
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hard-pressed to make enough delicious food for a hundred-plus people (and keep it hot). Once the meal is ready, you need a reliable group of waitstaff to serve it. Caterers are trained to make it all happen. They have the support staff to serve you and your guests in a timely manner, and their station setup or the way they circulate the hors d’oeuvres is like a well-choreographed ballet. DIY DON’T
cake
Unless you’re a pastry chef—and even if you are—you don’t want to take on this project. Whether it’s a missed teaspoon of baking powder or a tilted tier, a wedding cake disaster is hard to fix. Plus, transporting a wedding cake is a serious task best left to someone who knows what they’re doing, has a refrigerated van and, most importantly, doesn’t have their own wedding to be enjoying. Be wary about accepting a friend’s or family member’s offer to bake as well—a wedding cake is best left to the experts. >>
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save-the-dates
Save-the-dates are fun—seize this opportunity to be creative. Computer programs and a good printer can get the job done with little fuss. Consider using an engagement photo to create a custom postcard. Want to get really crafty? Send a calendar page with a heart on your wedding date, or a map marking where your nuptials will take place. And stick to the pros for your invites. DIY DON’T
floral centerpieces
Centerpieces are among the first things guests notice when they walk into your reception. Granted, flowers can be expensive depending on your choices and the season, but they’re a big part of the budget for a reason. Like your bouquet, these living beauties need to be assembled the morning of your wedding or the evening before, when you’ll be enjoying yourself. Call in a pro or opt for some nonfloral centerpieces such as vintage books, fresh fruit, pillar candles or a location-specific option, like coral.
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These can be big or small, depending on the amount of information you want to share (cultural traditions, members of the bridal party, deceased relatives). If you can fit everything onto one to three pages, programs can be created on your computer, printed yourself or at the local print shop, and assembled at home with thin ribbon. DIY handwritten signs or chalkboards set at the venue entrance are other options in lieu of a program. If you’re hosting an outdoor celebration, consider letting your program double as a fan or a sign for guests to wave as you recess down the aisle (hello photo op!).
music
An iPod—even one loaded with the greatest songs of all time— is no substitute for a band or DJ. Music pros are pros for a reason, and they’re trained to read the dance floor and engage the crowd. They can slow it down while dinner is served and speed it up when it’s time to get everyone grooving. Having someone else responsible for the entertainment ensures guests are enjoying every minute of the party. ant the supply list and how-tos for these DIYs? Check out W TheKnot.com/diy for these projects—and more!
diy favor kit packaging and ribbon
Whether you’re gifting delicious cookies, picture frames or a beautiful plant, you need a container that fits everything and matches your wedding style. Uline.com offers padded mailers and burlap pouches at bulk prices, while SpecialtyBottle.com is the go-to source for any bottle, jar or glass container—limoncello anyone? PaperMart .com is the best resource for gift boxes, bags and gorgeous ribbon—you can get luxe satin and grosgrain in bulk for a steal.
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a good pen
custom stickers
custom stamp
Skip a flimsy favor tag and invest in a nice medium-weight paper. PaperPresentation.com and PaperSource .com are great resources for colored mini-envelopes and various papers.
Add a personal touch to your favors or welcome bags with a monogrammed sticker. TheKnotShop.com has various colors and sizes with customization options.
If you’re freehanding tags or favor signage, pick up a new pen that will have enough ink to do the whole job. Visit Blick.com for pens, tips, ink, nibs—everything you need to make your handwriting look its best.
Personalize favor tags with a stamp (think: your monogram, wedding date or a motif). RubberStamps.net offers custom stamps with a quick turnaround time.
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Assembly required for your favors? Find these basics and then get crafty.
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Missouri Athletic Club elegance, service and hospitality since 1903
F Timelessly elegant ornate ballroom for ceremonies or receptions. F Onsite award-winning culinary service ranging from fine dining to wedding cakes and late night snacks.
F Hotel rooms to accommodate the newlyweds and their guests. F Shuttle service for the wedding party.
To tour the space and reserve your date, call 314-539-4470 | 405 Washington Avenue, St. Louis, MO 63102 | www.mac-stl.org
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Bold. Creative. Fun.
• Photog�aphy • Wedding music videos • Same-day edits • Local & destination weddings • All-family team
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Send guests home with a sweet treat that will leave a lasting impression. Here are some of our favorite edible favors for your wedding day. >> BY ANDREA FOWLER PHOTOGRAPHY BY KATE SEARS
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Couples take note: Edible favors never (okay, rarely) get left behind. And while favors aren’t required, they’re a nice way to show your guests you appreciate their support and attendance. And if they traveled to celebrate, an edible token means instant gratification— no packing something extra in the suitcase for the trek home. Just like your invitation sets the stage for your wedding, your favors leave a lasting impression, so pick something fun that speaks to your wedding theme, the locale or your personality as a couple. Are you two always on the hunt for the best macarons? Or maybe you’re popcorn gurus or cookie connoisseurs? Treat your guests to an indulgence you both love. Whether you’re after something sweet, foodie-approved or ridiculously Instagrammable, we’ve got you covered with nine edible favors that ship nationwide.
6. cake pops
1. chocolate-covered pretzels
$5 FOR 4 OZ. CONTAINER, COOKIEDONYC.COM
You can’t go wrong with a sweet and salty postreception snack, especially when there are rainbow sprinkles involved. Customize the colors and the packaging of these yummy pretzels for foolproof favors. FROM $7 PER BOX, FATTYSUNDAYS.COM
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2. whoopie pies These aren’t just any old whoopie pies. With their creative flavors (fig honey goat cheese, anyone?), these treats are fit for a foodie. And if your guests aren’t that adventurous, stick to classics like double chocolate and vanilla Funfetti. $16 FOR 10, BATTERANDCREAM.COM
3. b’day cake truffles Allow us to introduce you to the ultimate truffle: vanilla rainbow cake mixed with vanilla-infused milk, coated with white chocolate and rolled in rainbow cake crumbs. Mind blown.
A bite of cake on a stick is the perfect grab-and-go fix. And with sparkly frosting, these cake pops can double as décor—they can even be styled to look like a mini wedding cake or a bride and groom (perfect for a prewedding celebration too!). Have a bowtie-clad waiter stand by the exit to send guests off with something sweet in a grand way. FROM $39 FOR 12, SHOPNYCAKEPOPS.COM
7. mini tubs of cookie dough Perfectly safe to eat or bake—if you can wait that long—this cookie dough is available in 21 varieties, including confetti, fluffernutter, chocolate dream and signature chocolate chip. Bonus: Most of them can be made vegan or gluten-free. We guarantee there won’t be a single one left behind (maybe to the newlyweds’ dismay).
8. personalized macarons These tasty little treats come in fun flavors, like mint chocolate, chocolate lavender, passion fruit and white chocolate cherry. And you can personalize the cookie with a custom illustration of the two of you or even your wedding date—total win. $5 FOR 2-PIECE FAVOR BOX, BYWOOPS.COM
local flavor
“Couples love to gift local brews or offer late-night snacks like Imo’s Pizza or toasted raviolis—all regional crowd-pleasers.” —Maureen FitzGibbon of Kate & Company in St. Louis
$17 FOR 12, MILKBARSTORE.COM
4. cake in a jar Surprise your guests with a take-home dessert that’s as pretty as it is delicious. The exposed cake and frosting layers mimic a naked cake, but in a travel-friendly container. Choose from classic flavors like cookie dough and fudge brownie as well as seasonal specialties. $30 FOR 3, JARSBYDANI.COM
5. popcorn tins You’ll be hard-pressed to find a guest who wouldn’t want to take home this iconic popcorn. A delectable combo of caramel and cheese—Garrett’s signature mix—is both a savory treat and a dessert snack in one. $189 FOR EVENT PACK WITH 24 POPCORN BAGS, GARRETTPOPCORN.COM
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9. marshmallow sandwich cookies Not only are these marshmallow cookies totally unique, they’re also made with fair-trade ingredients and zero artificial preservatives. Pick from flavors like raspberry hibiscus, spiked espresso, vanilla and caramel, and peppermint chocolate. Thinking of keeping guests toasty at your winter nuptials with a hot chocolate bar? Station these next to the cocoa for a perfect pairing. Customize the packaging for an ultra-personalized wedding favor. FROM $5 FOR 4, MALVIMALLOW.COM
Want more favor inspo? Visit TheKnot.com/favors
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Overlooking the Missouri wine valley and nestled within the wooded Missouri River bluffs, The Vineyard at Riverbend Chapel is the perfect location for your outdoor wedding. Or tie the knot inside our chapel where a cozy reception area allows guests to mingle by the fireplace. The formal ballroom in the lower level is adorned with chandeliers, stone arched bar and fireplace, generous cherry dance floor and large windows with sweeping views of the river valley and surrounding wooded area. We’d like to invite you to come take a tour of the enchanting Vineyard at Riverbend Chapel. PHOTOS: PHOTO VIDEO IMAGE PRODUCTIONS
(636) 390-8600 | 827 Ming Drive, Washington, MO 63090
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Who says you have to stick to conventional hues for your wedding? A dreamy mauve gown and crisp khaki suit are fresh and totally on trend. Dress, $6,000, Hayley Paige at Maiden Voyage Bridal, MaidenVoyageBridal .com (Manchester, MO), The Gown Gallery, GownGallery.com (Kansas City, MO); engagement ring, $995, EffyJewelry .com; earrings, $345, NaeemKhan .com ON HIM Suit, $600, Bar III, Macys .com; shirt, stylist’s own; bow tie, $110, Olch .com; pocket square, $16, SprezzaBox.com; socks, $28, HappySocks .com; shoes, $1,195, ChristianLouboutin.com >>
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A sleek pantsuit with a flouncy top is the best of both worlds: It’s fashion forward but still feels bridal. Add a veil for a look that’s all your own. Pantsuit, $4,150, Rosa Clará at Nolte’s Bridal, NoltesBridal .com (Overland Park, KS); veil, $120, TwigsandHoney.com; engagement ring, $920, MarsJewelry.com; earrings, $425, OscardelaRenta .com; shoes, Manolo Blahnik, courtesy of Albright Fashion Library
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Turn heads in a dress with a trendy high-low hemline. It’s the perfect opportunity to show off amazing shoes, without sacrificing the drama of a train. Dress, $8,490, Ines Di Santo at The Gown Gallery, GownGallery.com (Kansas City, MO); earrings, $325, Simone Rocha, NewYork. DoverStreetMarket.com; pink tennis bracelet, $65, gold tennis bracelet, $125, CZbyKennethJayLane.com; stacking rings, $3,740, Laurence Bruyninckx, LX-Antwerp.com; shoes, $1,090, OscardelaRenta.com >>
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flirty skirt Lace sleeves and a tutu-inspired skirt make this short frock anything but simple. Dress, $958, Truly Zac Posen, DavidsBridal.com; stacking ring, $6,935, EffyJewelry.com; shoes, Giuseppe Zanotti, courtesy of Albright Fashion Library ON HIM Suit, $595, TommyHilfiger.com; shirt, stylist’s own; tie, $160, Olch.com; shoes, $750, Burberry.com
party plumes Planning to change it up for your reception? A feathery cocktail dress is made for dancing the night away. Top, $4,280, skirt, $3,180, LihiHod.com; engagement ring, $2,360 (not including center stone), AJaffe.com; wedding band, $1,590, ring, $4,450, HeartsOnFire.com; earrings, $198, LeleSadoughi.com >>
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While pastel florals are classic, a bold, vibrant bouquet instantly adds a celebratory vibe to your wedding. Top, $550, pants, $605, Ivy & Aster at Altar Bridal, AltarBridal.com (Leawood, KS); necklace, $245, CZbyKennethJayLane.com
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daring details All minidresses aren’t created equal. Abstract embellishments give this little white dress a dose of avant-garde appeal. Dress, $4,500, Christian Siriano, KleinfeldBridal.com; clutch, $4,995, Judith Leiber, NeimanMarcus.com; earrings, price upon request, NewYorkVintage.com; bracelet, $6,750, HeartsOnFire.com; shoes, price upon request, ChristianSiriano.com ON HIM Suit, $595, shoes, $230, TommyHilfiger.com; shirt, stylist’s own; pocket square, $16, SprezzaBox.com; wedding band, $1,250, CrownRing.com
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STORY: SHELLEY BROWN FASHION STYLING: LAURA PRITCHARD HAIR: ELOISE CHEUNG USING T3MICRO AT KATE RYAN INC. MAKEUP: LEANNE HIRSH USING VAPOUR ORGANIC BEAUTY AT SARAH LAIRD & GOOD COMPANY PROP STYLING: SAM COOK AT KATE RYAN INC. FLORALS: TIN CAN STUDIOS LOCATION: JANE’S CAROUSEL, BROOKLYN, NY
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So you’ve already hired the 24-piece band, splurged on over-the-top centerpieces and asked your bridesmaids to wear floor-length gowns—all that’s left to do is make sure the two of you show up dressed to the nines. For your five-star event, only a gorgeous gown and traditional black tux will do. FOR THE BRIDE This is the ultimate Cinderella moment. Make it count with a dramatic dress that really sparkles. We love a ball gown that gets the full-glam treatment with a crystalencrusted bodice or just a hint of subtle blush in the skirt. As far as accessories are concerned, don’t be afraid to indulge in more glitter. Pair elegant drop earrings with a loose updo to play up the embellishments in your gown. Store your lipstick, a compact and a tissue (or two) in an equally glitzy beaded clutch, and step into some strappy metallic sandals for an ultra-luxe look. FOR THE GROOM Though he’d certainly be dapper in any suit, a classic tuxedo will guarantee he looks at home at your formal affair. To keep it modern, forgo contrasting studs (those little doodads that cover the shirt’s buttons), dated cummerbunds and shiny vests, and instead opt for a trendy notch collar and a pristine bow tie. Also, stick with a slim-fit style. A sleek satin lapel couldn’t hurt either. If your groom is more daring, try a tux with a black velvet jacket—they’re everywhere on the red carpet and look just as luxurious as they feel. To up the sophistication quotient, choose equally streamlined accessories, like understated silver cuff links and black patent leather dress shoes. If he wears a watch, go for one that will blend in with the rest of his outfit. >>
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Stash your day-of essentials in a colorful blue clutch. Try a navy minaudière for a formal event or a silver or pearl-encrusted clutch with a light blue lining.
Save your “something blue” for your spouse’s eyes only. Find a lingerie set in a romantic cornflower shade. Or choose one with blue accents, like bows.
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Why limit this color to just your wedding? You can wear it long after the day when you choose a wedding band lined with blue sapphires.
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We’re not suggesting you get a crazy, neon-blue manicure for your wedding, but you could try a powder-blue polish for a subtle and soft nod to this wedding tradition.
Have your attendants represent your “something blue” in navy. A major plus of this plan: Your friends will look amazing in this flattering shade.
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For just a hint of blue, wear a pair of heels with a blue sole. You can also personalize the bottom of your shoes with a blue marker. Add your new monogram, the words “I do” or your wedding date.
ALL SUITS AND DRESSES: DEVON JARVIS ST YLING: JOHN OLSON WITH HALLEY RESOURCES
We’ve got six fresh ideas for this wedding tradition.
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First in Missouri Wine Country
Your dream wedding in Wine Country is just minutes away! As the region’s finest winery facility, Chandler Hill is a magical setting. We offer a spectacular tasting room, majestic reception hall, expansive deck with memorable vineyard sunsets, rolling hills and a scenic lake. Our full-service amenities are tailored to your wishes including in-house catering, private bride’s room, event planning, fireworks and much more.
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If you’ve been dreaming of a destination wedding or stylish backyard ceremony (something that feels intimate and homespun) since the second he popped the question, then casual wedding day attire will work best for you. FOR THE BRIDE Keep it simple with a chic, short wedding dress, but don’t skimp on the details. For instance, textured lace shows off your high style with little fuss. Great heels and statement accessories are the perfect finishing touch for this low-key look. FOR THE GROOM A less formal gown calls for a casual suit. Picking a preppy style gives him a more laid-back attitude that still feels polished. Try a khaki suit with a patterned pocket square, and fun, novelty cuff links that match the vibe of your wedding. If he’s going for an edgier, more personalized feel, consider a printed tie or a handmade lapel flower—they’re all the rage right now.
Your wedding is all about a killer setting with a luxe feel. Whether it’s in a modern museum or an art gallery off the beaten path, your ideal soiree is sophisticated and cultured without the strict formality of a more traditional setting. Opt for a wardrobe that’s every bit as chic and cutting edge as your wedding. FOR THE BRIDE A structured, classic silhouette is best for your one-of-a-kind affair. A strapless, satin, fit-and-flare dress is fancier than your average cocktail look but still more understated than a ball gown. Want to create an unexpected contrast? Consider a waist-slimming black sash and matching pumps (ones with some embellishment will create a cohesive style). Skip extra baubles and finish it off with a statement clutch (we love lucite). FOR THE GROOM Why not look as fresh and trendy as the venue? Pair a gray suit with quirky accessories, like a patterned shirt, pocket square and bow tie. This is a great opportunity to show a little personality, so don’t shy away from a good novelty pattern. >>
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Landmark Views. Modern Amenities. Hilton St. Louis at the Ballpark offers an excellent contemporary venue for your toast to happily ever after. Celebrate your day with breathtaking views of the St. Louis skyline, and head to the top of the Hilton for panoramic vistas at 360 Rooftop Bar. Wedding consultants offer guidance through every step of planning and will be there to provide full support on the day of your dream wedding.
One South Broadway 314.421.1776 • hiltonstlouis.com
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how to tie a bow tie It’s just like tying your shoelaces— well, kind of. Master the bow tie: 1. Put the dress shirt or tuxedo shirt on. Button it to the top and stand in front of the mirror with the bow tie in hand. Place the bow tie around the neck, making sure that the right end falls 1.5 inches lower than the left. 2. Holding both ends, cross the longer end over the shorter one.
3. Loop the longer end up through the neck hole. Adjust the tightness of the tie for a comfortable fit. 4. Putting the longer end aside by flipping it up over the shoulder, double the shorter end at the widest part so it resembles a bow and lays sideways across the collar.
If it wasn’t already obvious from the swanky invitations, rooftop locale, gourmet hors d’oeuvres and signature martinis, your wedding wardrobe will surely solidify the fact that you’re hosting an elegant event. You can’t go wrong if you stick with fitted silhouettes and clean, modern accessories for both of you. FOR THE BRIDE Find a gown that feels dressy but not over the top for your cocktail soiree. Skip the dramatic full skirt and romantic embellishments and consider one of this season’s hottest silhouettes: the column gown. A sleek style still feels classy but also gives just a hint of va-va-voom. Want to make more of a glam statement? Play up your gown with sparkly metallic accessories. FOR THE GROOM A classic black tuxedo may feel too traditional. Instead, try a slim-cut dark suit in black, charcoal gray or navy with a lighter shirt in a neutral color. A skinny tie will go best with this style because it mimics the narrow shape of his suit (regularwidth ties can appear too bulky or wide). For a consistent modern style, opt for a pair of dress loafers. They may have a reputation for being old-fashioned, but new designs are actually the perfect in-between shoe: not as fancy as a lace-up oxford, but more put together than, say, your average pair of slip-on sneakers. Find your wedding look at TheKnot.com/fashion
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5. Holding the bow shape with one hand, retrieve the other end and pull it down over the center of the bow with the other hand. At this point, the tie resembles a bow tie from the front. 6. Bring the sides of the bow together in front with one hand. Pinch and pull. This creates a hole behind the bow.
7. Use the other hand to make another bow with the longer end of the tie by doubling it like the first bow.
8. Push this bow through the hole.
9. Pull on the folded ends of each bow to tighten the knot of the bow tie.
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When it comes to finding “the one,” timing is essential. These are the wedding dress deadlines you definitely don’t want to miss. >> PHOTOGRAPH BY AMBER GRESS PHOTOGRAPHY
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set your gown budget Maybe you have $4,000 set aside for your look. That doesn’t mean you can buy a $4,000 wedding dress. You’ll need to add on taxes, alterations and possibly shipping. And don’t forget to set aside part of that budget (10 to 20 percent) for extras like your shoes and veil.
hanger appeal Even if a dress doesn’t wow you on the hanger, trust that your consultant knows what styles will look amazing on you.
choose your shopping mates Bring either your mom or a trusted friend when you dress shop, but limit your entourage to two or three people. go wedding dress shopping There’s a reason you need to get a jump-start on your gown search: You’re not buying off the rack, so your wedding dress is essentially custom made for you. This means it will take months of work to create and a series of alterations to fit your body perfectly. Schedule your appointments early, since salons can get booked up fast. When you go for your bridal salon appointment, bring photos of dresses you like so the consultant will be better equipped to help you. If you know you want to wear a specific designer, see if they’re having a trunk show at a salon near you.
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8 months buy your dress Now it’s time to make a final decision and place the order. You’ll know it’s “the one” when you don’t want to take it off. When you buy your gown, you’ll have to sign a contract and put down a deposit, which is usually 60 percent of the price of the gown, says Mercedes Cueva, bridal stylist at The White Gown. This is because your one-of-a-kind dress takes manpower to create, so designers need a down payment to start production. Before you sign the contract, make sure all the information is correct. Ask the salon when they expect your gown to arrive—on average it’s 16 to 20 weeks from the day you place your order, Ingram says—and confirm they’ll call you when it comes in.
5 months shop for your undergarments Get your under-the-dress essentials before your first fitting. Whether you’re planning on wearing a strapless bra, slipping into a body-slimming shaper or going braless, the slightest switch in your undergarments can change the fit of your dress, so you should select a couple options. choose your hair accessories It’s also time to find your veil or headpiece (if you’re wearing one), so you can get an idea of your entire look, from head to toe, when you have your gown fitting. For a casual dress, go with a complementary birdcage veil or flower crown. If you’re wearing a ball gown, you might want to choose something more dramatic and grand, like a chapel- or cathedral-length veil. select your shoes Take the height of your heel into consideration, and don’t opt for shoes that pinch, rub or feel too tight (no matter how fabulously stylish those stilettos are). You’ll be on your feet for most of the day, so make sure your toes can handle it. >>
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do your research Before you start shopping, figure out what style you’re looking for. Your venue can help you narrow that down, suggests Mark Ingram of Mark Ingram Atelier. If you’re having a beachside wedding, you’ll probably want a flowy, unfussy gown. Getting married at an upscale hotel? A formal ball gown could be your dress. Also find out what silhouettes best suit your body shape. Then look through pictures of wedding dresses online and in magazines, and tear out or save your favorite styles. The Wedding LookBook by The Knot app is a great place to begin—you can search thousands of gowns by style and price and find local salons that carry them. Or browse our wedding dress marketplace for a list of salons in your area. Just remember: While lots of research can help narrow down your options, keep an open mind. An experienced consultant can help you find the right dress for your budget and body type—and the style of dress you end up loving might even surprise you.
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have your second fitting Your first fitting is where the heavy lifting happens: adding sleeves, switching up the neckline and so on. The second fitting is your chance to make smaller tweaks to your wedding dress, like taking in the bodice a bit or perfecting the hem length. You’ll also want to move around the salon in your gown and practice some dance moves. This will help you test that the fit is right so you can easily move around. You’ll be wearing your dress for 8 to 10 hours on your wedding day so it has to feel good.
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have your first fitting You’ll most likely have three fittings to get your dress altered to fit you just right. It’s important to time each of the alterations correctly. Bring your gown in too early and you might not end up with a proper fit. (You may lose or gain weight after your gown is altered.) Bring your gown in too late and you might not have enough time to make all the changes. Most gowns will need at least some sort of alteration. Some salons charge a flat fee, while others charge per item. The costs range from $200 for a simple hem to more than $1,000 for major adjustments. And remember: Don’t bring just your gown—also take your undergarments, shoes and accessories to your fittings. Your undergarments and shoes will help determine the fit and length of your gown, and trying on your hair accessories or veil with your dress will give you an idea of how you’ll look on the actual day. If you don’t have the exact shoe you’ll be wearing, bring something similar in height. While your seamstress is fitting your gown, take a close look at the way the material falls and notice how the waist feels and how the chest area fits (is there any funny bunching, puckering or bulging?). Speak up if you see anything you don’t like. This is the time to ask questions, so give into any perfectionist impulses.
6 weeks decide on your “something old, new, borrowed and blue” If you want to include these customs in your ensemble, you may want to have them before your final fitting. For instance, if you’re planning to sew a blue ribbon or keepsake pocket to the inside of your dress, you can ask your seamstress to do it while she’s making your other alterations. Or, if you’re wearing special blue shoes or a headpiece with blue embellishments, bring them with you, so you can see how they work with the rest of your ensemble.
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have your final fitting You may want to have a box of tissues on hand for this final trip to the seamstress. This is where you’ll get to see your gown the way it will look when you walk down the aisle. Bring at least one family member or friend to share this moment with, and so you have someone there to learn how to do the bustle (if you have one). pick up your wedding dress Once your gown is ready, you’ll need to find a place to store it where your fiancé can’t sneak a peek. Inspect the dress when you get it to make sure everything looks right. Keep it in a breathable opaque—not clear—garment bag (just in case your partner stumbles across it in the closet). If your veil is in the same bag, make sure it’s wrapped in its own piece of plastic so it doesn’t snag.
1 day stash your stuff Buy a handheld steamer and put together an emergency kit (safety pins, fashion tape). Make sure you have all of the parts of your ensemble (dress, accessories and shoes) in one place—especially if you’re switching venues after your makeup and hair are done.
wedding day have fun Happy wedding day! Just a couple of to-dos left: Give your dress a final steaming and schedule about 30 minutes to get dressed (a bridesmaid should help you). Then relax and enjoy the moment. Looking for your dress? Download The Wedding Lookbook by The Knot app to find “the one.”
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Follow these rules for bridesmaid dresses that won’t break the bank—but will make your friends look fabulous. >> PHOTOGRAPH BY KATE HOLSTEIN PHOTOGRAPHS
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Chances are, you have a couple of old bridesmaid dresses collecting dust in your own closet. And now that it’s your turn to pick the dress, you might be feeling the pressure to find a style that’s both budget friendly and figure flattering for all of your attendants. Think that’s impossible? We promise—it’s actually totally doable. Read up on how to find dresses that won’t cost a fortune but will look gorgeous on all your girls.
let them choose the dress Just hear us out on this one: Letting each bridesmaid choose her own dress proves you want everyone to look their best and shows you trust in their fashion sense. The trick to pulling off the mismatched trend is setting color and fabric guidelines so your whole party still looks cohesive. It’s even okay to create a don’ts list, with requests like no miniskirts or super-plunging necklines. >>
styling your smallest attendants Everything you need to know to outfit the little ones in your wedding party
for flower girls THE SKINNY The parents traditionally pay for the flower girl’s attire, so unless you plan on making a gift of it, be up front about this cost when you ask to include her in your wedding day. THE FORMALITY There are two schools of thought when it comes to dressing the flower girl: She should match the bride, or she should match the bridesmaids. Another option is to put her in a white dress with an accent or sash that matches the bridesmaid dress color. THE STYLE No matter what your wedding style, flower girl dresses nearly always have a fuller skirt and are tea or floor length.
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THE ACCESSORIES Keep it simple. A basket of petals
or pomander is probably plenty for her to handle. Consider her age and maturity level: What’s she really able to wear or carry? If you know that floral crown is going to be pulled off her head within minutes, you may want to reconsider it.
for ring bearers THE SKINNY Same deal as the flower girl—when you ask his parents if he can be in the party, you’re also assuming they’ll pay, so bring it up right from the beginning. THE FORMALITY Look for a tiny tux if you’re
having a black tie affair. If your style is more casual, there are tons of cute options for these little men: A lightweight cotton or linen suit, shortalls in a matching hue or a sailor suit all work well.
THE ACCESSORIES The most important extra
touch for this pint-size party member is the ring pillow, so choose one that complements your theme without clashing with the ring bearer’s outfit.
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THE STYLE Unless he’s wearing a full-on suit or tux, the ring bearer doesn’t need to match the groom or groomsmen perfectly. Give him a bit more color and flair than you would the rest of the groomsmen.
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bridesmaid reprieve Here are a few things your girls shouldn’t have to worry about on your wedding day.
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avoid gowns that need alterations Bridesmaid dresses, like wedding gowns, don’t run true to size and are ordered using the largest measurement as a guide. Chances are, your bridesmaids will end up with dresses that are a size or two larger than what they normally wear. Depending on the dress and on the body types of your bridal party, alterations can cost anywhere from about $30 (for a simple hem) to about $150 (taking in, hemming, adding straps). Suddenly, a small price tag becomes a small fortune. Stick to flowy silhouettes, which will require fewer alterations (think: A-line over clinging sheaths), or styles your bridesmaids can buy in their regular sizes from department stores to decrease the chance that alterations will be necessary.
go for basic black Of course there are the obvious reasons a black dress is an excellent choice—it’s slimming, works on any skin tone, looks great long or short, and is easy to accessorize. The best argument for black? Whether it’s to a formal event or cocktail party, your girls can definitely use another LBD.
pick up the tab One of the most common gripes you’ll hear about bridesmaid dresses is the price. Even if you’ve been considerate by finding budget-friendly options, the dress still contributes to a long list of expenses (think: travel costs, shower gift, bachelorette party, wedding gift—you get the idea). If you have room in your budget, consider gifting your girls their dresses—it’s a super-thoughtful way to thank them for being part of your day. >>
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You’re expected to pay for your attendants’ personal flowers, which is something to consider when you’re thinking about how many bridesmaids you want. The bridesmaid bouquets (and the groomsmen boutonnieres) are factored into the floral budget along with the bride’s bouquet, centerpieces and other various décor.
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While you don’t have to order a car service to pick up each and every one of your bridesmaids, you should make sure they have a ride to the wedding and from the ceremony to the reception, especially if your two venues are far apart or in an unfamiliar area (say, you’re having a destination wedding). You can hire a bus or limo to pick them up from a set location, or you can ask a few local guests to give the out-of-towners a lift.
bridesmaid luncheon
Despite the name, this is actually an event thrown by the bride for her bridesmaids as a way to show her appreciation to her bridal party for the many things each girl has done to make her wedding special. This sit-down lunch or brunch is typically held the afternoon of the rehearsal dinner. Think of it as a “thank you” to your girls for supporting you on your day.
hair and makeup Your bridesmaids are already paying for dresses, travel, the shower and more. If you want your attendants to have their hair and makeup professionally done for the wedding, it’s a nice gesture to offer to pay for these services. Otherwise, trust your girls to do their own hair and makeup if they’d prefer not to pay for a professional stylist.
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Choosing a knee-length dress will eliminate the need for at least one alteration: hemming. Sure, your bridesmaids may still need to hit up the tailor for other minor tweaks, but they won’t have to worry about tripping over their dress. A shorter hemline is also a great opportunity to show off killer heels.
Here’s the deal: Your bridesmaids don’t want to steal the show, but they do want to look their best. They’ll be standing in front of a room full of friends and family too. The best way to prove you respect their feelings is by trying on the bridesmaid dress. Does it flatter your figure? Is the fabric itchy? If you answer yes, move on. When you find one that you’d love to wear yourself, you’ll have no problem convincing your friends to get on board.
don’t dictate the footwear Speaking of heels, insisting bridesmaids purchase a particular pair may feel like the perfect finishing touch to you, but it also creates another expense. And, like the dress, it’s unlikely they’ll want to wear the shoes again, especially if they’ve been dyed a specific hue. Most of your friends probably already have a pair of black or metallic shoes they’d be thrilled to reuse. Another bonus: Sporting a pair of their own comfortable shoes means blister-free dancing.
let her bring the baubles By letting each bridesmaid select her own jewelry, you’re encouraging her to express her unique personality (that’s the reason you chose her in the first place, right?). Plus, the right jewelry will make any bridesmaid look and feel more like herself.
schedule a shopping trip
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Our best formula for a seamless shopping spree? Make it a whole day of fun. Your first stop: the beauty salon. Get all of your bridesmaids together for manicures and pedicures (bonus points if you’re treating) and some relaxation and bonding time. Next up: ladies’ lunch. Choose a restaurant with lots of light dishes that won’t leave your friends feeling too full or bloated. But don’t skip the mimosas—relaxed bridesmaids are more likely to fall in love with your dress choice. And finally: the bridal shop. Pick your preferred styles ahead of time to make the selection process less overwhelming. Then let your ladies put on a fashion show— it will be a fun, memorable way to narrow in on their favorites.
We’re aware the term “comfortable” can be somewhat subjective (to your bustier friends, strapless dresses can lack support; to your smaller-chested pals, thick straps seem overwhelming) but who can argue with the idea of slipping into a frock made of itch-free fabric? Or a flowing gown that won’t cling to the midsection? Small details like fabric choice and silhouette can make a world of difference where dress wearability is concerned. Bring on the dancing and the wedding cake!
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the well-groomed groom A guide to helping your guy look (almost) as good as you. >> BY SHELLEY BROWN PHOTOGRAPH BY Z MEDIA
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It’s no secret brides follow strict wedding prep before the wedding day—but what about the guys? These days, groom style is about so much more than just a tux. From manicuring his facial hair to choosing the right accessories to complement his perfectly tailored new threads, here are four easy ways to pamper your groom and give his wedding day style a little extra polish.
Odds are, your groom is going to wear either a suit or tux, but that doesn’t mean all menswear is created equal. Consider a slim-cut tux or suit to up the style factor. And, this may be surprising, but slimmer-cut suits actually work for every body type. “Sometimes guys think going for a boxier shape will make their body appear slimmer, but it actually has the opposite effect,” says Andrew Blackmon, cofounder of The Black Tux. You’ll know a slim-cut (not to be confused with skinny) suit has the right fit if it meets the following criteria: shoulders that are close to his body but not constricting, sleeves that are long enough to show a quarter- to a half-inch of his shirt while his arms are at his sides, and a jacket length ending at the base of his thumbs. Even if your groom is happy with the general fit of his suit, don’t skimp on the tailoring—it’s even more important if it’s a rental. After all, you wouldn’t skip your wedding dress alterations. He’ll typically have three fittings: one for chalking, one to try everything on and one to make final adjustments. He should give himself a month or so for alterations to avoid any last-minute fixes.
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If you want your groom to totally change his facial hair, flip through magazines and collaborate on a new style together. But don’t go too crazy. You still want him to look like the man you fell in love with—maybe just a little bit more put together.
upgrade his accessories Standout accessories are the simplest way to give your groom’s look a personal touch. If his groomsmen want in on the action, make sure they don’t match each other perfectly—complementary accessories will create a cohesive look without being too cookie cutter. Consider adding one or two of the following options for a more unique twist on the standard suit and tie combination.
pocket square A pocket square gives just enough personality to a formal look without going over the top. Choose patterns that go together without being matchy-matchy, like a floral-print tie and a gingham pocket square. boutonniere While we love florals, they aren’t your guy’s only option. A customized boutonniere, like a brooch or lapel pin, are perfect for the edgier groom. “It’s a fun way to add to your look without the formal association a classic boutonniere can bring,” says Allyson Wicha Lewis, vice president of merchandising at The Tie Bar.
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novelty belt Belts in unexpected fabrics, colors and textures are the hottest new accessory for men. A stretchy braided herringbone belt in blue or gray is perfect for a nautical wedding, while a wool belt with subtle plaid accents feels just right for a casual winter affair. The best part? A belt with elastic, as opposed to all leather, has more give and will still be comfortable after hours of wear. socks A pair of statement socks (think: novelty patterns or bold prints) is an understated way for your groom to inject some personality into his look. “Because only a portion of the sock shows when you’re sitting down, it’s perfect for guys who are generally averse to bright color to wear it subtly,” Wicha Lewis says. To pull off this trend, your guy should stick with socks that are grounded in his pant color, with just a hint of something bold. >>
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pamper him in private Your guy may not be into spa days, but that doesn’t mean he can’t indulge in a relaxing professional massage. “As great as weddings are, they’re a high-stress event,” says Tamim Ghilzai, a Zeel massage therapist based in San Francisco. “A massage will help your groom relax and take his mind off any worries.” On-demand massage companies like Zeel deliver professional massages to your door, without the frills of scented candles and cucumber water your groom may not care about. “Men are just more comfortable in their home—they’re in their own environment,” Ghilzai says. “Some feel awkward sitting in the waiting room wearing a fluffy robe and slippers.” Another idea: Because of close-up ring shots on your wedding day, you’ll want your groom to consider what’s recently been coined “handshake maintenance,” or a manicure for men. If your guy doesn’t know his way around an emery board, opt for a professional job to clean up his cuticles and buff his nails to a healthy-looking shine. To maintain his newly manicured nails at home, he should invest in an all-in-one nail file and buffer to smooth out any ragged edges that appear over time. And have him apply a fragrance-free hand cream at night before bed to stave off callouses and keep his hands nice and soft. Get more menswear tips at TheKnot.com/groomsmen
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mix-and-match groomsmen ideas Pick one or two of these styling tips for a totally dapper (but not cookie cutter) entourage.
go gradient
Instead of opting for multiples of the exact same necktie color, start with a bold hue and select slightly lighter colors for each groomsman. (This works for bow ties too.)
mix up the boutonnieres
Give each guy in your party a different bloom in your signature hue for unique-looking lapels.
get fancy with your folding
Pocket squares are always a dapper add-on. We love the idea of snagging identical ones but folding each of them differently.
skip the matchymatchy shirts
Patterned shirts will make the most basic suit feel funky. Match the color but choose a different design for each guy. Think: flowers, stripes, plaids or polka dots for a fun twist on tradition.
select fun footwear
Be particularly playful by opting for sneakers. Choose a specific style and let your gents pick the color. Or go for mismatched socks in novelty prints for a fun look that’s a little more understated. ONELOVE PHOTOGR APHY
If he’s considering changing his facial hair before your wedding, make sure he has at least a three-month head start. “It’s better to live with the style for a bit prior to the wedding to make sure this is the look you want to have in your photos,” says Troy Harris, a master barber at The Art of Shaving. Once he’s decided whether he’ll be clean-shaven, bearded or mustachioed, consider treating your groom to some must-have products to kick-start his prewedding skin-care regimen. Start by swapping his bar of soap for an actual facial wash plus a scrub for a smoother shave. If he’s bearded, have him mix facial wash and scrub together. “This helps remove dry skin under the beard hair to keep his skin from feeling dry and itchy,” Harris says. Applying a shave oil (yes, it exists) before shaving is another way to step up his routine—it prevents razor burn and scratchy first kisses. Your groom should also have at least one professional shave before your wedding day, according to Harris. If he’s clean-shaven he’ll want to make sure he reacts well to a close shave to prevent irritated skin in your wedding photos. If he’s bearded or in the process of growing a beard, a barber can help shape the lines of his facial hair, taking the guesswork out of shaving.
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making the grade A diamond engagement ring may be the most expensive—and lasting—purchase you’ll ever make, so it’s important to know what you’re buying. Here, a simple breakdown of the four Cs and how to determine which diamond is right for you. >> BY FARAH PRINCE PHOTOGRAPH BY NANCY RAY PHOTOGRAPHY
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When you begin searching the perfect engagement ring (and for that secret Pinterest board, of course) the word “overwhelming” may come to mind. Before you even make the purchase, a number of factors, from budget to style, have to be considered. And while a lot of the old rules no longer apply when choosing an engagement ring—like having to buy one with a more traditional setting— there are some guidelines you should always keep in mind when shopping for a diamond. If you’re thinking of a buying a white diamond, the four Cs—cut, color, clarity and carat—are important to consider before settling on a ring. Editor’s note: No standardized quality grading system exists for colored gemstones, so if you’re on the hunt for a colorful center stone, these rules don’t apply.
cut The cut of a diamond isn’t actually the shape (think: round, oval, pear), but how well the angles and proportions of the stone interact with light. Since diamonds start as rough stones and not faceted gems, the cut grade of a diamond is the only one of the four Cs that’s not determined by nature, making it the most important aspect to consider. In other words, a bad cut can ruin an otherwise perfectly good stone. If the diamond is cut too deep or too shallow, it will leak light on the sides, giving it a duller appearance, which will reduce its value and brilliance. A well-cut diamond will have three factors: brightness, fire and scintillation. If that jargon is confusing, here’s a quick breakdown: Brightness is a “white light” reflected both internally and externally; fire is the presence of colorful (or rainbow) sparkle; and scintillation is the amount of sparkle a diamond produces in general.
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color A structurally perfect white diamond has no hue. The degree of a diamond’s colorlessness is measured under controlled lighting and graded on a scale from D (colorless) to Z (light yellow), with colorless stones being the most valuable. As a general rule, a colorless diamond will cost you more than a colored stone, unless the color is extremely rare (like green or red diamonds).
clarity The fewer impurities or inclusions a diamond has, the clearer and more expensive it is. Inclusions occur when the diamond crystallizes in the earth’s mantle. While there are treatments that can create a clearer stone, a “flawless” diamond is extremely rare. Similar to color, the clarity of a diamond is also measured on a scale. Diamonds that are graded in the SI1 and SI2 range are included but their imperfections are invisible to the naked eye.
carat Carats refer to the weight of the diamond. As the carat size increases, so does its rarity and price tag. But a diamond that has a bigger carat weight doesn’t necessarily mean it will look bigger. A diamond with a smaller carat size but a shallow cut may look larger than a diamond with a bigger carat size and a deeper cut. Size depends on not only the shape of the diamond, but the different mountings you choose—a halo will make a smaller stone appear larger, and so will a shape with more surface area, like a pear or emerald. Find out more about your diamond at TheKnot.com/rings
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Veils and other headpieces are an easy way to express your style. But with so many options to choose from, how do you know which one’s right for you? We broke down all the different styles, including the latest trends, with tips on how to wear them so you can uncover (sorry, we had to!) the perfect veil for your wedding look. >>
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birdcage Also known as a cage, this shorter style covers and frames just your face for a chic and minimalist statement. Most often it’s made out of wide net or sheer tulle—something you’ll easily be able to see through—and is finished with flirty accents like feathers, flowers or pearls. The trick to pulling off this less-traditional look is to let the edge of the veil fall just below the nose. PAIR IT WITH Cage veils were the height of fashion in the ’40s and ’50s, so that makes them the perfect match for retro-inspired dresses like swingy, tea-length gowns, structured sheaths and slinky, old-Hollywood-inspired slip gowns. They’re also a fun way to add a touch of vintage glam to a more modern look.
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blusher A blusher actually refers to the short, single layer of tulle, lace or netting that’s worn over the face and then flipped over the head or removed after you walk down the aisle. It comes in chin, shoulder or fingertip length and can be added to a variety of veil styles. But a blusher can also stand on its own. Choose one layer, or if that’s too simple, try a double-tiered style where you have two layers of tulle: one layer pulled over the face and the other draped behind your head. Whichever length or however many layers you choose, the veil should be fastened on the crown of your head. PAIR IT WITH A universal style, the blusher works with almost any type of gown. Wearing just the short layer gives off a chic, sophisticated air that lends itself to more fashion-forward dresses.
mantilla This Spanish-style veil almost always comes in either all lace or in tulle that features an intricate lace edge. Its circular shape is designed to gracefully drape down and frame the face on either side. To wear it the traditional way, attach it with an ornamental comb, or edge it up with a flower crown or tiara. PAIR IT WITH Allow the dramatic lace to take center stage and wear this romantic veil with sleeker silhouettes, gowns that have a minimal amount of adornment or embellishments, or dresses that have small touches of matching lace.
waltz Also sometimes called a ballet veil, this style falls between the knee and the ankle and is usually double layered and worn with a blusher. These veils exude elegance and formality and, because they don’t touch the floor, they’re short enough for a bride to comfortably dance and walk in—hence the name. PAIR IT WITH This style pairs well with formal yet fitted floorlength gowns and dresses without trains. >>
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One of the most popular lengths (even Kate Middleton sidestepped royal tradition and chose this shorter option), this veil falls below the hips and extends to—you guessed it—the fingertips. Secure this style, which is usually made up of several layers of tulle or netting, at the crown of your head, slightly behind it or, if your hair is up, just above your updo. PAIR IT WITH This versatile veil is beautiful with a wide range of dresses, but it looks particularly pretty with ball gowns and, since it puts the focus on the torso, dresses with more elaborate bodices. You may also want to consider pairing it with a cathedralor chapel-length veil—that way you can remove the longer one for the reception and leave the shorter, top layer in place.
Like its name implies, the fountain (also called a waterfall) is made up of several layers and gathered at the crown of the head to create a billowy, cascading effect around the face. Though you can find it in a variety of lengths, it works best when it grazes the shoulders or elbows. Since this style can add a few inches of height to your frame, petite brides might want to give it a try. PAIR IT WITH A bit more casual and fun, this statement-making option will go great with flirty dresses and shorter hemlines. Because it creates a lot of volume on top, you may also want to consider balancing that out with a fuller, more voluminous skirt.
elbow Slightly shorter than the fingertip, this veil extends 25 inches in length to the bride’s elbows. The more manageable length tends to be more versatile. It’s a nice complement to a simple silhouette, but it also won’t overpower a more showstopping gown. PAIR IT WITH An elbow-length style is perfect for brides who want the look of a longer veil but are wearing a gown with beautiful details on the lower half (like intricate buttons or tiered ruffles) they don’t want to cover up from view.
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halo One of the latest trends to hit the bridal runway is the halo, which drapes over your entire head and torso. Keep in mind you won’t be able to clip or pin the veil into your hair, so to keep it from sliding off you’ll need to weigh it down. Try a wreath or headband of florals or greenery for a romantic, boho effect, or top it with a jeweled cap for a super-glam, art deco vibe. PAIR IT WITH Since this style completely envelops you front and back, it tends to work best with a simple, elegant gown without a lot of bling or back detailing. Subtle woodland-inspired accents, like tiny florals or vines, also make for nice romantic touches. >>
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Whether you wear your hair down and flowing or in a formal updo, you want a final detail to tie your whole look together. If a veil isn’t for you, there are plenty of other pretty options, from jeweled headbands and tiaras to a bohemian floral wreath or flirty fascinator.
bandeau This hot newcomer is a sexy take on the birdcage veil. Instead of covering the whole face, this narrower version of the cage masks only the eyes. Generally made from wide net, this unique style attaches to both sides of your head with decorative clips. Since it’s such a dramatic statement across your face, it looks best with a pulled back hairstyle like a low bun or chignon. PAIR IT WITH A gown that’s just as seductive as this look will do the trick—try one with sheer details, a plunging neckline or slinky silhouette. Or if you’re going for a retro look with an edgier vibe, a bandeau is just the right blend.
juliet cap There are two ways to wear this über-romantic style. You can either take a lace-trimmed veil and wear it as a cap, with the sides pinned back behind each ear, or attach a veil to a separate cap. PAIR IT WITH It’s perfect for a lacy gown with a vintage-inspired feel. Add some blooms behind one ear for an extra-sweet effect. S earch for more veils, headpieces and other wedding day extras at TheKnot.com/fashion
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7 flattering accessories Finally, a little retail therapy that can help elongate—and slim—your frame.
linear earrings
Shoulder-skimming danglers can lengthen and thin out round or heart-shaped faces.
high heels
Every inch in heel height is equal to losing about two pounds. We did the math: Three-inch stilettos will shed six pounds off your frame— just make sure you can walk in them.
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Draw attention to your natural waist with a darker sash. This trick works with any color of gown but is especially waist-defining on a white one.
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A bold necklace draws the eye to your center in a long, slimming line so you appear taller. Pendants are particularly flattering when they’re paired with gowns that have wide straps.
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Fingertip- and elbow-length veils are a beautiful choice for any bride, but keep in mind they can cut your body in half. If you’re looking to lengthen your figure, go for chapel- or cathedral-length styles that hit the floor instead.
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If you’re pear shaped and want to minimize the lower half of your body, a well-placed pin at your neckline will keep all eyes upward and focused on your best asset. Plus, vintageinspired brooches are hot right now.
strap-free sandals As we already mentioned, high heels will elongate your legs. The one caveat? Make sure to skip heels with ankle straps—they’ll make the lines of your legs appear shorter. In other words, those Mary Janes are definitely out.
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The mother of all veils, the cathedral is also the most formal. Sometimes referred to as the “royal veil”—it’s the veil of choice for countless princesses including Diana—this style falls about three and a half yards from the headpiece and is often worn in combination with a blusher and long train. Looking for something not quite so dramatic? Go for a chapel veil instead, which falls only two and a half yards from the top. PAIR IT WITH The sweeping cathedral can hold its own next to a billowing ball gown. As a rule of thumb, the veil should extend past the train, so if you’re wearing a cathedral veil, opt for a cathedral- or semi-cathedral-length train. For a chapel veil, go with a chapel-length or sweep train.
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Voluminous waterproof mascara, $11, LorealParisUSA.com Don’t worry about tearing up during your ceremony: This mascara delivers tons of drama without the fear of raccoon eyes.
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Powder blush, $22, MACCosmetics.com The compact is generously sized and the shade selection doesn’t disappoint, with more than 50 options ranging from romantic to bold.
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$ BUDGET PICK
Intensify Me liquid liner, $9, CoverGirl.com The paddle-shaped
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Eye shadow, $25, BobbiBrown Cosmetics.com These silky powders glide on lids, then stay put without creasing or fading.
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Pop lip colour and primer, $18, Clinique.com Brights for the bachelorette, pinks for the wedding, corals for the honeymoon—this line is packed with shades that last.
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Sculpting eyebrow pencil, $29, Chanel.com Many pencils can look harsh, but not this one. The blendable color appears almost like a powder once it’s on.
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Amazing concealer, $42, Amazing Cosmetics.com It’s thick enough to obliterate dark circles and has enough staying power to keep stubborn zits hidden.
EYELASH CURLER
Relevée lash curler, $30, SurrattBeauty.com Squeeze, hold for a few seconds, then release to get a longlasting curl with zero tugging or pinching.
BRUSHES
Sonia Kashuk brushes, from $11, Target.com These sleek tools may be budget friendly, but trust us: The ultra-soft bristles hold their own against any brand out there.
PALETTE
Illume Sheer Color trio, $62, Hourglass Cosmetics.com We instantly fell for these three creams: a natural-looking bronzer, a peachy blush and a flattering highlighter. It’s an all-in-one, honeymoon-friendly compact.
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Diaphane loose powder, $40, SurrattBeauty.com Dust this translucent powder over skin to set makeup and stave off shine.
tip of this marker-like liner makes it easy to draw an expertlooking swoop.
LIP GLOSS
Color Elixir lip color, $9, Maybelline.com The color payoff, nonsticky feel and pretty shine is on par with highend formulas. >>
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BRONZER
Hoola matte bronzer, $29, BenefitCosmetics.com Sweep this sparkle-free powder across your chin, cheeks and forehead for a subtle, natural glow.
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TALK ABOUT BEAUTY AND BRAINS: A PROFESSOR AT MIT HELPED DEVELOP THIS HAIR CARE LINE
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Sleek & Shine antifrizz serum, $6, GarnierUSA.com Even the most humid honeymoon destination is no match for this frizz fighter. Work a few drops through hair to keep the fuzzies at bay for hours.
2 HAIR SPRAY Superfine hair spray, $33, Oribe.com Mighty enough to hold an updo
in place, but still flexible enough for a down ’do, this ultrafine mist is our go-to spray for any hairstyle.
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Perfect Hair Day shampoo and conditioner, $25 each, LivingProof.com Whatever your hair type, this sulfate-free duo leaves it soft, smooth and full. One of our testers even called it “life changing.” We’re sold.
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Luxurious Volume fine to full blowout spray, $10, JohnFrieda.com Want your hair to have Victoria’sSecret-model-level volume? Then this bodifying mist is for you. The fine-haired among us swear by it.
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Brilliant Glossing crème, $20, Fekkai.com We’re obsessed with this cult favorite’s ability to hydrate,
tame and even add shine to the most unruly hair. Plus, the formula is super effective but won’t weigh down your locks or feel greasy.
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Bb. Curl defining crème, $31, Bumble andBumble.com Curly girls, meet your new BFF. This rich, curl-defining cream will have you falling in love with your natural texture all over again. Just rake through your wet hair and go.
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DRY SHAMPOO
Fresh Start dry shampoo, $5, TRESemme.com One spritz at the roots and this light mist will perk up limp locks without any residue.
HAND CREAM
Shea Butter hand cream, $12, LOccitane.com Prep your hands for all those #ringselfies with this intensely nourishing cream.
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Almond Coconut Milk scrub, $50, LauraMercier.com This thick scrub sloughs away rough patches and smells like dessert.
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Dry Oil Moisture nourishing body wash, $6, Dove.us The tiny bursts of argan oil in this rich formula leave skin super hydrated, so you won’t need to use lotion afterward.
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Outlast Xtend antiperspirant gel, $5, Secret.com Wedding planning stress is no match for this deodorant. Swipe it on for major odor control.
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Flash bronzer, $42, Lancome-USA.com The bronze-colored lotion lets you see exactly where to apply it, so there’s no danger of streaks.
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Ultra Sheer DryTouch sunscreen SPF 55, $10, Neutrogena.com This fast-absorbing protector won’t leave a ghostly white residue behind. >>
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Instant nail polish remover, $10, Sephora.com Simply dip your fingertip inside and twist it back and forth. The built-in
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Formula X Shine nail topcoat, $11, Sephora.com Keep your nails photo ready with this clear polish. It delivers a shiny finish that lasts for days.
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All About That Base CC base coat, $20, Deborah Lippmann.com This nifty formula strengthens and primes nails.
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$ BUDGET PICK
Complete Salon Manicure Dry & Go Drops, $8, SallyHansen.com These drops cut drying time dramatically—ideal for a busy bride.
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Crème Abricot Fortifying Cream for Nails, $27, Dior.com Oils can be messy but this cream keeps cuticles soft without a greasy residue. >>
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NAIL POLISH
Nail Polish in Ballet Slippers, $9, Essie.com There’s a reason why this polish is a bridal staple: Its pale pink shade is universally flattering and works in any season.
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Anthelios face sunscreen SPF 45, $30, LaRoche-Posay.us Stay safe by wearing SPF every day. This one feels invisible on skin.
Get ready for your close-up. A gorgeous wedding day glow starts with these finds.
2 MOISTURIZER Hydro Boost gel, $19, Neutrogena.com This airy gel quenches dry skin with a hefty dose of hyaluronic acid.
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Phloretin CF Gel, $163, SkinCeuticals.com With this powerhouse blend of antioxidants, skinharming free radicals don’t have a chance.
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Truth Sugar Glow polishing mask, $42, OleHenriksen.com Loaded with sugar, pomegranate and pumpkin, this scrub sloughs off dead skin like nothing else.
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Acne spot treatment, $18, Murad.com Here, two acne fighters (sulfur and salicylic acid) team up to destroy zits.
THIS SUGARY SCRUB DOESN’T JUST SMELL AMAZING, IT INSTANTLY BRIGHTENS SKIN
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Yes to Cucumbers towelettes, $6, YestoCarrots.com These handy wipes whisk away dirt and makeup faster and more thoroughly than any fancy brand out there. >>
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Decadence, $95 for 1.7 oz., MarcJacobs.com An exotic combo of plum, saffron and amber, this perfume screams bachelorette party.
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Mediterranean Honeysuckle, $110 for 1.7 oz., AERIN.com This lush, sexy blend of honeysuckle,
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La Vie Est Belle Intense, $110 for 1.7 oz., Lancome-USA.com Floral notes are wrapped with spicy patchouli and a decadent twist of hazelnut for a warm scent that’s just a little bit mysterious.
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Knot Eau Florale, $125 for 1.7 oz., BottegaVeneta.com This might be the perfect bridal scent. Notes of rose and peony are soft and feminine, mandarin adds freshness, and musk rounds it out with a sultry feel.
5 ROMANTIC $ BUDGET PICK
Embrace, $30 each, VeraWang.com
The fragrances in this trio (two shown) may cost only $30 each, but the combos are sophisticated and totally elegant.
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Lime Basil & Mandarin, $65 for 1 oz., JoMalone.com Lime, basil and thyme make for the crispest scent ever.
READERS’ PICK
CLASSIC
Coco Mademoiselle, $94 for 1.7 oz., Chanel.com This distinct combination of citrus, floral and woodsy notes is luxe and totally unforgettable.
Read about our runner-ups, our editors’ fave products and more at TheKnot.com/beautyawards
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Ready to start planning your dream day? Of course you are! But first, take a deep breath and start your journey to looking and feeling your best. >> AUGUST
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talk it out Planning a wedding is the time where you and your partner need to bring your A+ communication skills to the table. “There are many things en route to getting married that, if left unresolved, can create resentment and anger that will spoil the celebration,” says Jane Greer, PhD, New York–based marriage therapist. By developing good communication habits early on, you can learn how to address problems directly and openly with each other.
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boost your body image Real talk: A positive body image outweighs any wedding diet that could be potentially harmful in the long run. That said, if you want to create a healthy fitness plan that matches your personal goals, make sure to do it smartly. “Your wedding day should never be a day you look back on and think how you extremedieted or overexercised,” says Tracy Anderson, fitness expert. “Make your health and connection to your body the priority.”
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pack in enough zzz’s Whether you go to bed early or stay up late, the most important thing is the time you wake up. “I recommend that everyone gets up at the same time every day,” says Michael Breus, PhD, a boardcertified sleep specialist. “This sets your biological rhythm and helps you fall asleep quickly.” Not to mention, it creates a clear and healthy mind, which will better help you manage all your wedding- or work-related responsibilities with ease.
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“The last thing you want is a cut that doesn’t look the way you envisioned it, highlights that don’t work with your skin tone or a conditioning treatment that leaves your hair greasy,” says Samantha Lawrence, owner of Chromatique Salon in Bellevue, Washington. Be sure to use a high-quality shampoo, conditioner and hair mask to give your locks the luxe treatment, and get regular trims to prevent split ends.
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maintain your focus with meditation “Practice meditation to stay present and enjoy each moment,” says Jane Ehrman, mind/body medicine specialist and owner of Images of Wellness LLC. There are no real rules for where and when to do it—just taking 10 minutes per day to focus on your breathing (called mindfulness meditation) can make positive changes and really improve your concentration when it comes to wedding-related stress. “Meditation is called a practice because it’s not going to be perfect every time,” Ehrman says. “It teaches you to focus on one thing, be patient with yourself and get out of your own head.” When you’re focused and calm, you don’t run the risk of missing those special wedding day moments you want to remember.
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get that glow Make an appointment with your dermatologist early in your engagement (six months is reasonable) to achieve that bridal glow. “You don’t want to wait until the last minute if you’re dealing with acne, enlarged pores or sensitive skin,” says Michele S. Green, MD, boardcertified dermatologist. “Make sure you have enough time for several treatments if need be.
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remove these three d’s from your vocabulary Looking and feeling your best while planning shouldn’t involve crash dieting, detoxing or depriving yourself. “Wedding planning is stressful enough, and you don’t want your eating habits to add to it,” says Amy Gannon, M.Ed., RD, LD. “Taking a healthy, balanced approach to eating doesn’t have to mean changing up your diet all at once—that’s hard to keep up. Stick to specific goals, like incorporating more whole grains or adding in a vegetable to every meal.” Lean protein, fruits, whole grains and starchy vegetables are your best bets for feeling satisfied and keeping your energy up. F ind more tips for feeling your best at TheKnot.com
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All done establishing your wedding budget? Good for you! Now you’ll spend the next few months allocating and tracking your funds. Here, four tips to make sure your spending is where it should be. >>
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get a wedding budget system Put your accounting skills to the test by deciding on a budgeting system to track all the money going in and out for your wedding day. The easiest way? The Knot Budget Calculator, which estimates how much you should spend on everything from music to mother-in-law gifts, and allows you to track all your payments and their due dates. Otherwise, you can put all your info in an old-fashioned spreadsheet.
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Knowing all of the costs for your wedding up front will guarantee that your budget can actually cover all the details. But remember: There are extras that you may not think about. Here’s what you should consider: avoid overtime If the party’s hopping, the extra 45 minutes after your reception was supposed to end may whiz by, but you’ll probably pay dearly in overtime fees for everyone from the photographer to the venue manager. If you think the celebration may go long, add overtime costs into the budget. factor in tips From the sexton who cleans the church to the hotel steward who delivers your welcome bags, even conservative tipping can add hundreds to your wedding cost. Make sure to account for these costs in your initial budget. remember: trials aren’t always free A florist’s demo may be gratis the first time, but if you make repeated changes, you risk being billed. Also, take your trial hairstyle into consideration. It’s going to cost you, so make sure to include it in your budget. don’t forget the little stuff Things like stamps for the RSVP cards, ribbons for the favors and marriage license fees seem so small that you can shrug them off, but like any costs, they add up. Going just over budget in a couple categories with a vague plan of making it up somewhere else can push you past your limit.
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plan to go over budget If you account for budget overages, then you never actually blow your budget. Try to earmark 5 percent of your budget for unforeseen costs. These are some areas where you might go over: flowers You may realize that something you hadn’t considered needs to be decorated, or you might need an additional boutonniere or corsage. weather-related expenses It’s best to be prepared for any unforseeable weather on your day. Have umbrellas for a rainy day, space heaters if it’s unseasonably cool and additional shade if it’s particularly hot. small accidents Life happens! Your gown may need a last-minute spot removal or something could break. Bottom line: Have room in your budget for emergencies.
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be smart with your budget Take advantage of budgeting and money management tricks along the way. Put all your wedding money in one separate account, so you can easily track it without getting it confused with the rest of your day-to-day funds. Pay for as many of your expenses as possible on a credit card that gives you benefits. Make sure everyone making purchases (your fiancé, your mom and so on) are all on the same card system, so you can easily track your purchases. Use The Knot Budgeter tool at TheKnot.com/budgeter PHOTOS BY TESSA SCHRADER
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7 hidden wedding costs Protect your budget from these unexpected extras.
band equipment An extra-large venue may call for additional (and pricey) speakers.
postage stamps Oversize and oddly shaped invites can cost a lot more to mail.
coat check Union rules may dictate the number of people needed to work it as well as their fees.
rental deliveries Drop-off and pickup fees usually aren’t included in the price for table and chair rentals.
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This may seem incredibly obvious, but who hasn’t been to a wedding where guests could have used just a little bit more elbow room? It’s worth noting that just because the space officially holds 150 people, that doesn’t mean it will have enough room for 150 people to comfortably eat, drink and dance, especially once the buffet, bars and other equipment is set up. The best venues have separate areas for you to have your ceremony (if you’re having it at the same place as your reception), cocktail hour, dinner, dancing and possibly a low-key area to lounge. The best way to accurately assess the size of a site? Ask to take a peek at the space when another wedding (with an equivalent guest list size and style of party— sit-down, buffet and so on) is all set up. Two general rules of thumb to follow: Leave three to five square feet for every person expected on the dance floor at one time, and have one bar set up for every 50 people (although you can get away with fewer if the bars are long and you have more than one person serving at each). Of course, if you’re dreaming of having your wedding at your favorite cozy little Italian restaurant—with one bathroom, three booths and approximately two feet of extra floor space—you can always work backward and tailor your guest list to match.
If you’re marrying during the day, make sure your hall has plenty of windows—because who wants to spend six hours in a dark room when the sun is shining? If it’s an evening event, confirm the room isn’t too dim, or that the lighting can be controlled for the big entrance, dinner and dancing. If you’re marrying outdoors at dusk, ask if you can set up candles to provide a soft glow. It’s also helpful to visit the site at the time of day you’ve planned your wedding. A candlelit ballroom may look romantic at night, but you may be surprised by the sight of that 30-year-old brocade carpet during the light of day.
is there enough parking? Make sure the site is near a spacious enough parking lot or garage, or a big, empty (safe) street where it’s legal for your guests to park. If parking is a problem, look for other ways to get everyone to the party.
are you allowed to BYOB? If you want microbrews or wines from the vineyard in California you visited on that amazing vacation, ask about the BYOB policy now. That way, you won’t be disappointed when they say you’re not allowed to choose your brands or bring in your own bottles. >>
4 unexpected places you can actually get married For a memorable event, consider a ceremony or reception venue that’s entirely out of the norm.
converted buildings
Wedding venues are popping up all across the country in buildings that at one time had an entirely different use, like former warehouses, monasteries and factories—even airplane hangars and Civil War hospitals. Some converted buildings are now run by event companies that have all the amenities built right into your contract. TIP If you’re working in a space where events aren’t typically held, consider hiring an event designer or coordinator to help pull off your vision and all of the elements, like deciding where the dance floor will go, which would usually be taken care of by venue staff.
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tree houses
Yes, you read that right. You can actually get married in a tree house. Typically, these are cottages on stilts in the middle of a forest with lodging for a few people and stunning views of the woods from up high. Talk about taking the woodland wedding theme to new heights! The perks of getting married in a tree house (aside from the fact you get to tell people you got married in a tree house) are the intimacy and seclusion of saying your vows way out in the woods— and all the photo ops, of course. TIP Plan a rustic camping-inspired wedding weekend full of activities, like hiking and campfires.
historic libraries
It’s time to change any associations of libraries with long, boring study hours and the constant clicking of fingers on keyboards. Iconic libraries make the perfect backdrop for a timeless wedding. Getting married in a library offers historic charm with the added bonus of being surrounded by thousands of classic romance stories. TIP Take inspiration from your favorite novels to plan your library wedding. It doesn’t get more glamorous than a ’20s art-deco affair inspired by The Great Gatsby, or channel the Harlem Renaissance and the Jazz Age from Toni Morrison’s Jazz.
antique store venues
If you spend your weekends antiquing and your house or apartment is filled with fleamarket finds, then an antique store might be the perfect spot for your wedding. Think about it: All that kitschy-cool décor you’d buy or rent anyway is built right in. Be prepared to find the unexpected, like mannequins and disco balls, but that’s what makes getting married at an antique store all the more fun. TIP Mix and match everything on your reception tablescapes— from the centerpiece vessels and chargers to the flatware, napkins and glassware—to fit the day’s laid-back, vintage vibe.
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Sure, you can cover a myriad of monstrosities by bringing in temporary flooring, rugs and drapery, but all of this can get crazy expensive—fast. Why not start with a space that goes well with your wedding colors and style, or at least doesn’t totally clash?
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are sparklers or open flames allowed? Okay, so a lot of places won’t want you setting off a fireworks display for a serious send-off after the last dance. But some spaces will have specific policies outlawing sparklers and candles too. Better to ask now, so you can come up with some awesome alternatives (think: have your guests wave colorful ribbons instead of sparklers). Or, if the rules are just too restrictive for the type of event you want to have, you can look for another location that’s more flexible.
will there be enough privacy? If you’re having a daytime event in an outdoor public space, such as a park or beach, be prepared for strangers trekking past. If this would upset you, opt for a lawn on a private estate or golf course. Or hold the reception at a restaurant or gallery that will allow you to buy it out (as in, guests only). But realize even indoor spaces, like hotels, often hold more than one affair at a time. If there are other events going on in rooms close to yours, you may hear karaokeloving guests giving their best Katy Perry impressions through the walls or meet them over the hot-air dryers in the powder room. A good way to get the lay of the land is to visit the site on a dualparty night to see how the sound carries—and how often (if at all) guests attending the different events bump into each other. Search for scores of lovely venues in your local area on p. 400
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reception sites: points for your contract Your biggest expense will likely be your venue, so you’ll want to get it right. Make sure your contract covers these key points. N ame and contact information for you and the venue D ate and time frame of your reception (the average dinnerand-dance reception is about four hours— longer if it includes the ceremony) E xact names of specific room(s) to be used A detailed description of your reception space, including the décor (color of walls, type of flooring, chandeliers), plus any amenities, like a stage or bridal suite
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Will the band need to bring any extension cords? How are the acoustics, and will they work well with the kind of music you’re planning on having? If you’re concerned about any of these, have your band or DJ stop by your venue (preferably while an event is under way) and give you their professional opinion before you sign a contract. One thing you’ll notice right away is the effect of flooring on sound: In general, a tile or wood floor will help amplify it, while a thick carpet will do the opposite and muffle it.
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A sit-down dinner isn’t your only reception option. From cocktail fare to midnight snacks, these chic ideas will satisfy any palate. >> BY KRISTIN KOCH PHOTOGRAPH BY WENDY LAUREL
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raising the (food) bar Live preparation stations are as entertaining as they are delicious.
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Oysters are shucked and kept on ice. This is an equally appropriate option for a seaside soiree or a formal fête.
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No matter how you’re celebrating, an amazing meal is central to your wedding. But before you choose the menu, you need to know which meal you’re serving. Your options are nearly endless—from a formal, seated dinner or a festive brunch buffet to nothing but a five-tier fondant couture cake.
brunch Brunch can be served buffet style or as a seated meal (or as a combo). The other alternative is a cocktail brunch, where guests enjoy passed hors d’oeuvres, like scrambled-egg tartlets and mini French toast sticks, and cocktails, such as mimosas and Bellinis, as they mingle among a mix of lounge furniture and tables. THE PROS
• Y our liquor costs will be lower than they’d be for an evening affair, and site-rental fees are often less expensive during the day. • Sunrise ceremonies up the romance factor. • It’s a great choice if you’ve invited lots of children. • It’s more conducive if you’ve chosen not to have any alcohol at all at your wedding. • You can leave after the event and start your honeymoon.
crepe table
Cooks flip and fill sweet (from sugar and lemon to dark chocolate) and savory (like smoked ham and swiss or tomato and mozzarella) crepes.
Guests choose their sauce (marinara, vodka, Bolognese) and watch as their pasta is tossed just for them with tasty mix-ins like caramelized onions, roasted vegetables, fresh basil and grated parmesean.
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cheese table
Dishes are made to order, with chooseyour-own add-ins and toppings from applewood-smoked bacon to fresh berries and whipped cream.
Along with the traditional graham crackers, marshmallows and chocolate, consider a spread of unexpected additions like farmers market strawberries or creamy Nutella.
Swiss, cheddar and mozzarella are key go-tos, but take your cheese plate up a notch with artisanal flavors too.
sushi station
Chefs slice and assemble fresh maki rolls.
• Fewer people are in the mood to party at 11 a.m. or 1 p.m. • Without all the dancing, your wedding may feel like less of a big celebration (but that may be exactly what you’re after). • If you’re not immediately jetting off on a fabulous honeymoon, you might wonder what to do with yourselves for the rest of the day, after your ceremony and brunch are over. >>
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afternoon tea
cocktail fare
Display pretty pastries, finger sandwiches and scones on tiered stands that double as centerpieces. Offer three or four types of tea, plus coffee and sparkling sodas. Background music—anything from a string quartet to a bluegrass band—is a nice touch. You can also use the tea theme to create a whimsical wedding cake. Think: Alice in Wonderland or a royal tea party. Personalize the tea offerings by including a blend of your and your fiancé’s favorites and giving it a unique name that’s personal to you as a couple.
Offer hors d’oeuvres while guests stand and chat. Similar to a cocktail hour, food is either set up in stations or passed by waiters, but a mix of the two will keep everyone mingling and well fed.
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• G uests will be impressed by your mellow sophistication—so much so that no one will realize that tea is far less than a full meal. • You two get the entire evening alone together. • Finger food is always fun, and you can include as many sweet or savory options as you like. THE CONS
• I f you want hours of dancing, a tea reception is probably not the right type of party for you. • The idea of a tea party may be too “precious” for some crowds. • Guests may leave hungry (note “tea reception” on your invites).
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• I t’s a classy but typically lower-stress, more party-friendly option than a sit-down dinner. • It can save you money, depending on what you serve, how long it lasts and the décor. • It’s easier: You don’t have to worry about setting up dozens of tables, complete with centerpieces, chairs, favors and place cards. • You can still have a band and dancing. THE CONS
• The standing-and-chatting approach may be less comfortable for older guests than a seated meal. If you go this route, make sure to provide plenty of seating. • Cocktail receptions aren’t always a money saver. Guests may drink more than they would at a full meal, so liquor costs could be higher, and to ensure you have enough food, you may order more than you would for a plated dinner when portions are preset. >>
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cake and champagne Cake-and-champagne receptions can take place anywhere from a gorgeous backyard to a chic restaurant or sophisticated loft. In addition to bubbly and cake, consider a dessert spread. THE PROS
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I t’s the most economical and easiest way to go. It’s appropriate at any hour of the day. You’ll have less to prepare and coordinate. It’s great for second marriages or to keep the celebration low-key.
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• T here’s less pomp and circumstance, so you’ll be disappointed if you want everyone to make a fuss over you for hours. • Guests may leave hungry (list “dessert reception” on the invites).
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dinner The most popular wedding meal is, of course, dinner, fitting in perfectly after a sunset ceremony, photos and a festive cocktail hour. It could be set up as a buffet, stations, or a formal or familystyle seated dinner.
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• I t gives you an opportunity to truly treat your nearest and dearest, and you won’t have to worry about anyone leaving hungry. • A full meal lasts the longest (it typically includes a cocktail hour too), so you’ll have plenty of time to mingle. THE CONS
• I f your style is less formal, it may feel stuffy unless you host a family-style feast or buffet. • It tends to be the most expensive option—there’s more to plan and pay for (linens and centerpieces for every table).
If you’re only inviting locals and want something elegant and edgy, have a 9 p.m. ceremony followed by delicious late-night treats. THE PROS
• It’s a unique and festive way to celebrate. • It’s an affordable option on par with a cake-and-champagne reception, but guests are more likely to dance at midnight than they are in the late afternoon or early evening. • You won’t need formal place settings or a full waitstaff. THE CONS
• I f you’re inviting kids or older guests, it’s not the best choice— they won’t make it to the reception. • If you and your guests aren’t night owls, it may be hard to get the party going, and it could fizzle after just an hour or two. Search for caterers near you at TheKnot.com/caterers
serve it up Once you know which meal you’re having, decide on a serving style.
A buffet offers your guests a full meal and the chance to choose exactly which foods and how much of them they want. You might have catering staff creating crepes or pasta dishes while guests watch, or just have food set up in large serving dishes. Be sure to have a variety of offerings, including vegetarian and even gluten-free dishes.
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food stations
It’s like a wedding food festival. Guests are invited to sample foods from various stations in a buffet-like manner. Make each station have a theme and offer a moderate assortment of cuisine. This style works best for cocktail receptions or dessert receptions, but couples often have stations at their cocktail hour, followed by a seated meal.
seated meal
The traditional reception meal is a sit-down, four-course dinner consisting of an appetizer, soup, entrée and dessert, though a threecourse dinner is perfectly acceptable too. Additional courses may include salad, pasta, and fruit and cheese. If you’re a foodie couple and want to make dinner a more luxurious part of your reception, this is the way to go.
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vineyard vows There’s a lot more than just a great vino selection to consider when your wedding venue is a winery. Here’s what you need to know if you’re saying “I do” among the grapevines.
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Delicious wine, lush green leaves and a rustic setting— wineries make for unforgettable wedding venues, so what’s not to love when planning a vineyard wedding? There’s more to the process that you have to plan for: Grapes aren’t always on the vines for pretty photos, and pastoral vineyards don’t always show up on even the most high-tech GPS devices. That’s why we consulted Madeleine McQuarrie, event planner at Chateau St. Jean winery in Sonoma, California, who gave us the lowdown on all of the logistical ins and outs you might not have considered. Cheers!
check the local sound-ordinance rules Usually, rural counties (in which most wineries reside) are strict with their sound ordinances—in some cases, music must be turned off by 10 or 11 p.m. Just be sure to doublecheck any rules in the area and confirm what time your entertainment will wrap up. “This shouldn’t deter you from booking your wedding at a winery,” McQuarrie says. “In most cases, you’re able to add more time to the beginning of your event to maximize your time at the venue.”
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Since some vineyards are used to doubling as wedding venues, they may have access to equipment that a large event requires, like microphones, extension cables, speakers, linens, tents and tables. But if it’s a vineyard that’s not full service, you may have to rent everything you need from a vendor—even electricity. “If your site doesn’t provide electricity, you must rent generators,” McQuarrie says. “The generators will provide power for all of the basic wedding essentials, including lighting.” If that’s the case for you, ask the venue if it has a vendor list to see what you have to work with, and consult a local wedding planner—they’ll know all the local vendors specializing in vineyard events.
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make sure your eats can be prepared Vineyard weddings are all about delicious wines, cheeses, fruit and more—but just make sure your caterers will have everything they need in terms of available food-prep areas. If your venue doesn’t already have a commercial kitchen, your caterer may need to bring in a remote kitchen. “This is a very common occurrence—caterers are pros when it comes to vineyard weddings,” McQuarrie says. “With careful communication and planning among you, your wedding planner, the venue and the caterer, this will not negatively affect your event.” >>
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While vineyards are typically in gorgeous, bucolic settings, some of them may be a little hard for modern technology to find. Picture winding, unpaved roads that are somewhat off the beaten path. “The easiest way to ensure the safe and timely arrival of wedding guests is to provide them with transportation from their hotel to your venue,” McQuarrie says. “There are so many fun options available now to fit your budget and theme, and not just stretch limos. You can charter luxury SUVs and school buses.” And if you don’t have any room for transportation in your wedding budget, it’s a great idea to give guests extremely detailed driving instructions on how to get to your event venue, along with approximate travel times, since GPS devices often won’t work way out in the vineyards. Your wedding website is a great place to share this information with friends and family who might not be familiar with the area.
harvest may affect your wedding plans For most venues, the summer season just means warm weather. But for a vineyard, summer means vibrant green vines, which is why it’s so important to know how seasons may impact your planning and aesthetics for your day. “Deciding on the season and date of your wedding is major, so you must do research for the region that you are looking into,” McQuarrie says. “Do you want the vines to be green and full of grapes? Then early summer may be your target date. Do you prefer burnt oranges and reds as your vineyard canvas? Late September and October may be the best months for you. During the winter, vines will become dormant, so you won’t have any foliage on the vines, and in some regions there may even be snow. All seasons make for beautiful wedding photos—it’s up to you and your vision for your wedding.” Most vineyard venues also have fully functional wineries, so during the harvesting season of your region (usually August), there may be some commotion (think: large trucks, grape picking and unexpected smells). This is because the grapes are very delicate, and when the vineyard manager decides it’s time to harvest, nothing can stand in the way. Talk with your planner or your venue contact to make sure the vineyard will have the look you want on your wedding date. Otherwise, if you’re set on a photo with grapes growing in the background but your wedding is in the fall, you’ll likely run into some issues.
make a plan if your vineyard is public Lots of wineries that host weddings are also open to the public and give tours and tastings and have restaurants, bars and shopping options. “If you’d like a private wedding, communicate that to your site and ask if it’s able to close one part of the property to public guests,” McQuarrie says. “Or plan for an evening or morning wedding—something that’s outside of normal operating hours. Most vineyard venues will be accommodating as they’re excited to be a part of your day.” Of course, you’ll need to make sure that private wedding pricing fits into your budget. You can also ask if there are any off-season or less busy weekend options that may make reserving the entire winery more affordable. >>
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ask about the liquor license Having an open bar? Remember that just because a vineyard produces alcoholic beverages doesn’t mean it’s licensed to serve liquor too. A wine license and liquor license are two very different permits, so before you start planning your signature cocktails, see what the vineyard’s licenses allow. “Many wineries function under a permit that regulates them to producing and serving wine only,” McQuarrie says. “Often, this means that just beer, wine and sparkling wine may be served. Check in with your venue to determine its alcohol policy as this will vary.”
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Sometimes a rustic setting means the floors are rustic too, so aside from posing in the soil near the grapes and vines, you may be walking on wood, pebble or dirt floors. “Many of our clients use the term ‘vineyard formal,’ ” McQuarrie says. “This helps rule out stilettos that may sink into the ground or long dresses that may get dirty.” Of course, you’ll have a dress code that fits your personal wedding aesthetic, but just communicate to your guests on your wedding website what they should anticipate from your venue so they can dress accordingly.” You may also want to provide flip-flops for your female guests, so they can slip them on at your reception and not ruin their heels.
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“If your venue is not full-service, you may need to bring in additional restrooms,” McQuarrie says. “For a five-hour event, with a guest count of around 150, you’ll need at least four to five restrooms. There are portable rental restrooms that have granite countertops, running water and multiple stalls that are perfect for weddings.” A tent-rental company can also cover the restroom area to have it blend in with the wedding space. Fresh flowers, air fresheners and amenities baskets with mints, antibacterial hand lotion, hair spray and aspirin are also game changers.
raise your glass How to choose wine for your reception
variety is the spice of life Don’t feel like you have to stick with the most familiar types of wine. “You can have a large variety of wines to choose from, so you can wow your guests with something just a little different. Viognier, anyone?” says Margo Van Staaveren, head winemaker at Chateau St. Jean.
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red, white or both?
It’s nice to offer both white and red wine, no matter the season. A good rule of thumb is a lighter white wine for the reception. “Think pinot gris, pinot blanc or fume blanc,” Van Staaveren says. It’s also nice to add a pinot noir because it can pair with lighter fare (chicken, fish and salads) but can also stand up to heavier foods.” Cabernet sauvignon or malbec is good for guests who enjoy a more robust red wine.
do the math
When planning for the quantity of wine, keep in mind that each 750 ml bottle will pour approximately five glasses. It’s safe to assume each guest will have one glass of white and one glass of red. “It’s easy to do the math with your guest count from there,” Van Staaveren says.
bartender basics
Instruct bartenders not to open every bottle of wine at the beginning of the reception. They should open the bottles as they go so wine isn’t wasted. “Most bottles should be consumed the day they’re opened,” Van Staaveren says. If you have unopened bottles at the end of the evening, stock your personal bar with them.
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A historic landmark in the Old Post Office District downtown, built in 1884 and now renovated, the Old Post Office offers a sweeping neoclassical venue for wedding events. 815 OLIVE STREET, ST. LOUIS, MO | (314) 436-0101
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A Unique and Dynamic Wedding Venue
The award-winning Public Media Commons, located in the Grand Center Arts District, is perfect for unique, one-of-a-kind wedding ceremonies, receptions and rehearsal dinners. PHOTOS BY JASON WINKELER PHOTOGRAPHY
Two-story screens provide a digital canvas for videos and images that can enhance the urban feel of the venue or transform it into an exotic “destination.”
Contact Angie Carr acarr@ketc.org
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REAL WEDDINGS
KANSAS CITY From a surprise serenade to a fun-filled double wedding, these chic scenes from local weddings will leave you feeling oh-so-inspired.
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Sleek glass centerpieces and navy linens helped to transform the estate’s table.
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BRIDE Hope Ryan, 24, a first grade teacher GROOM Nick Johnson, 24, an international logistics account manager HOW THEY MET In a high school English class WEDDING STYLE The couple drew inspiration for their chic affair from their rustic, brick-lined venue— pairing long farm tables and wood signage with a timeless color scheme of navy and neutrals. —Marissa Hermanson
While searching for their perfect venue, Hope and Nick immediately knew Mildale Farm was the ideal location to celebrate their union. “As soon as we pulled onto the farm’s long, winding drive, we were sold,” Hope says. During the high school sweethearts’ “I dos,” they planted an olive tree on the grounds as a way to symbolize their growth as a couple.
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A botanical-inspired invitation suite set the tone for the day’s design, and blue agate stones acted as escort cards. All six bridesmaids wore floor-length gowns in a neutral hue. They accessorized their looks with hand-tied bouquets wrapped in ribbon.
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Hope and Nick chose “Ho Hey” by The Lumineers for their first dance as husband and wife.
Mildale
CEREMONY & RECEPTION SITE
Farm, Edgerton, KS Michael Photo Films
PHOTOGRAPHY Steven
VIDEOGRAPHY Gold Hairpin
CONSULTANT Jonnelle Belger-Gentry/
Events by Elle Floral Design
FLOWERS Poppy & Clover GOWN Theia,
Something
White Bridal Boutique, Kansas City, MO Something White Bridal Boutique Gap
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“Nick and I didn’t get to eat any cake because everyone took more than one piece,” Hope says of their almond-vanilla confection, which was topped with cascading roses and greenery. Acrylic seating charts hung from weathered wood beams in the stable, adding a modern twist to the rustic affair.
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VEIL SHOES
ENGAGEMENT RING Samuels Jewelers
WEDDING RINGS Lilliane’s Jewelry
HAIR Hair
by Julie Stohm MAKEUP 7th Row Productions BRIDESMAID DRESSES Various
Tip Top Tux, Overland Park, KS
MENSWEAR STATIONERY
Fox and Sparrow Design, Etsy.com; Brick Graphics Rental CAKE
RENTALS
Yellow
Ultrapom Event
CATERING Pig Tails and Olives; Q39
3 Women and an Oven
MUSIC &
LIGHTING Platinum KC GIANT LAWN GAMES
Ultrapom
REGISTRIES Anthropologie; Macy’s;
Target; Williams-Sonoma
HONEYMOON
Almond Beach Resort & Spa, Hopkins, Belize GUESTS 175 BUDGET $$$$ (see key, p. 8)
best of weddings 2016 WINNER
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November 7 • Kansas City, MO
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THEIR STORY BRIDE Decemeber Ruth-Smith, 31, owner of Soirée Event Designs GROOM Scott Brammer, 32, an estimator HOW THEY MET At Kelly’s Westport Inn in Kansas City WEDDING STYLE “Neither of us are from Kansas City, but we wanted to showcase the place we’ve come to love and now call home,” Decemeber says of her and Scott’s industrial-chic celebration. —MH
Fall-inspired florals, sequined linens and gold dinnerware lent a hint of glamour to the couple’s urban venue. Instead of sealing the deal with a unity candle, the pair opted for a love lock ceremony to symbolize their union.
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The cake’s preppy striped detailing juxtaposed its rustic wood stand.
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Signature his and hers cocktails were served during the reception along with a tiered confection that featured four distinct flavors: devil’s food Grand Marnier, apple spice, lemon poppy seed and classic white cake filled with almond cream.
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The Historic Scarritt Event Spaces
Now booking through 2018 Choose from 3 remarkable and historic event spaces perfect for your wedding ceremony and reception
The Grand Ballroom
The 11th Fl Gallery
TheScarrittKC.com 818 Grand Blvd. kcmo Marilyn Simpson 816-914-2071
Nicole Weston 816-726-5752
Office 816-833-0000
The Scarritt Arcade
Ask about our new all-inclusive packages Beau Vaughn Photography
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DECEMEBER & SCOTT’S WEDDING INGREDIENTS CEREMONY & RECEPTION SITE
The Hobbs Building, Kansas City, MO PHOTOGRAPHY Cassandra Castaneda
Escort cards were tied to skeleton keys and personalized thank-you notes that expressed how each guest played a “key” part in the couple’s lives. Postceremony, Decemeber traded in her traditional veil for a chic, boho headpiece. “Pulling all of my hair up made it easier to dance the night away,” she says.
Photography
VIDEOGRAPHY Wirken Films
CONSULTANT Lynsey Page/Soirée Event
Designs
FLOWERS Branches & Twigs
OFFICIANT Steve Simpson (bride’s uncle) GOWN Justin Alexander, The Gown Gallery,
Kansas City, MO
VEIL The Gown Gallery
HEADPIECE KM2.com
SHOES Betsey Johnson
ENGAGEMENT & WEDDING RINGS The
Diamond World. EARRINGS Lily Dawson Designs
HAIR White Carpet Bride
MAKEUP Sarah Armel DRESSES Various
Top Tux, Overland Park, KS Little Yellow Leaf Supplies;
BRIDESMAID
MENSWEAR Allure, Tip STATIONERY
RENTALS S.E.C.T. Theatre
Ultrapom Event Rental
Feasts of Fancy
CAKE
CATERING
Classic Cakes
DESSERTS Dolce Bakery; Patty Smith
MUSIC
Ceremony: Clay Hughes; reception: DJ B Savvy TRANSPORTATION Custom Limousine Inc. REGISTRIES Crate & Barrel; Lowe’s; Nebraska
Furniture Mart
HONEYMOON Grenada
GUESTS 200 BUDGET $$$ (see key, p. 8)
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emilyhart
a bridal boutique
...where your custom gown awaits.
913.681.1500 12450 Blue Valley Parkway Overland Park, KS 66213 emilyhartbridal.com
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Allover beading and delicate buttons gave Lauren’s strapless dress a vintage feel.
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BRIDE Lauren Parsons, 32, an administrative assistant and singer GROOM Sean Ostrow, 32, an attorney HOW THEY MET Through Lauren’s brother WEDDING STYLE Inspired by their gallery venue’s rustic charm, Lauren and Sean threw a fall fete filled with mixed metal details and dark wood accents. —MH
After saying “I do” in a ceremony set against a brick backdrop, the newlyweds cut into a buttercream cake topped with fresh flowers. The dessert table included a framed Julia Child quote written in calligraphy that read: “A party without cake is just a meeting.” “That quote always makes me giggle, so a friend of mine custom designed the sign using Swarovski crystals,” Lauren says.
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During the middle of the reception, Lauren—a professional singer—performed a surprise serenade for Sean. “I sang Alison Krauss’s version of ‘When You Say Nothing At All,’ ” she says. “One of my favorite wedding photos is of Sean tearing up during that song.”
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PHOTOGRAPHY Melissa Sigler
Photography
VIDEOGRAPHY
Weddings + Events Kelli Szrot
Complete
WEEKEND COORDINATOR
FLOWERS Owens Flower Shop
OFFICIANT Pastor Thad Holcombe
Wtoo by Watters,
GOWN
J.Lynn Bridal, Lawrence, KS
ENGAGEMENT RING, WEDDING RINGS & JEWELRY Marks Jewelers
HAIR Studio11
Salon MAKEUP Chauntastic Beauty BRIDESMAID DRESSES Alfred Sung,
J.Lynn Bridal
MENSWEAR Jos A. Bank
STATIONERY Invitations: Minted.com; escort
cards, programs & menus: Etsy.com BOOK TREE Peachwik
Party Rentals; Sunflower Rental; Event Rental Catering MUSIC
Ultrapom
CATERING Evan Williams
CAKE & DESSERTS Cami’s Cake Co.
Diamond Empire Band DANCE
LESSONS Dance Because
Weddings
GUEST
RENTALS Celebration
FAVORS Exclusively
TRANSPORTATION Lawrence First
Class Transportation
ACCOMMODATIONS
The Eldridge Hotel; TownePlace Suites Lawrence Downtown
REGISTRIES
Bed Bath & Beyond; Honeyfund.com GUESTS 185 BUDGET $$$ (see key, p. 8)
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The DeLeon Event Space & Chapel
ELIZABETH LADEAN PHOTOGRAPHY
All events are directed and coordinated by the venue owners, Jodie and Eric DeLeon Kansas City, MO 816.377.3932 • 816.812.3333 TheDeLeon.net
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“The space was beautiful on its own, with its wood interior and stained glass,” Sonni says of keeping ceremony décor to a minimum.
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Guests enjoyed lemon bars, brownies, French macarons and a pink champagne cake for dessert.
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“I rarely wear sparkle, but I thought I’d go all out for our wedding day,” Sonni says of her glam, beaded gown. “I just wanted a dress that wouldn’t get in the way of dancing!” Despite booking a vintage vehicle for their grand exit, the newlyweds made the last-minute decision to cancel their getaway car. “We were having so much fun dancing that I scrapped it,” Sonni says. “We made a point to get people out of their seats even if they didn’t want to dance.”
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CONSULTANT
Weddings by Hannah
FLOWERS
Good Earth Floral Design Studio OFFICIANT Reuben Dunlap (groom’s
uncle)
Savvy Bridal Boutique,
GOWN
Kansas City, MO Mischka
SHOES Badgley
ENGAGEMENT & WEDDING
RINGS Meierotto Jewelers JEWELRY
Earrings: Kendra Scott; bracelet: Meierotto Jewelers; purses & wraps: BHLDN MAKEUP The Virtuoso Studio
HAIR &
BRIDESMAID DRESSES The Dessy
Group
MENSWEAR Men’s Wearhouse
STATIONERY Announce This
Ultrapom Event Rental Olive Events
CAKE
3 Women and an
Oven DESSERTS Beignet Grant
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TRANSPORTATION Pech
Limousine Ghost chairs, neutral linens and gold candelabras lent a chic look to the reception’s modern, all-white interior. “We love old architecture, so the style of the space fit us perfectly,” Sonni says of their recently renovated venue, which now boasts a brand-new rooftop. “It felt like we had two venues all in one.”
RENTALS
CATERING
REGISTRIES Bed Bath
& Beyond; Crate & Barrel; Macy’s HONEYMOON California GUESTS 200
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“My dress was lined with the softest, silk-jersey fabric,” Anna says of the comfortable design.
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Flower girls toted a single protea flower to complement the bride’s bouquet.
THEIR STORY BRIDE Anna, 26, a nurse GROOM Adam, 35, a counselor HOW THEY MET At a city development meeting at their church WEDDING STYLE Drawing inspiration from the sleek feel of their contemporary venue, Anna and Adam kept décor to a minimum, allowing the surrounding artwork to shine. —MH
Aside from its central location in the heart of Kansas City, Anna and Adam were drawn to the gallery’s airy interior. “It’s a stunning space,” she says of exchanging vows against a backdrop of white fabric. “The courtyard lent an outdoor vibe without actually having to head outdoors on a cold March day.”
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ANNA & ADAM’S WEDDING INGREDIENTS CEREMONY & RECEPTION SITE Kemper
Museum of Contemporary Art, Kansas City, MO
PHOTOGRAPHY Jessica
Roark/epagaFOTO Luxe Studios
VIDEOGRAPHY
CONSULTANT Betty
Kindler/Kemper Museum of Contemporary Art
FLOWERS Studio Dan Meiners
OFFICIANT Kevin Haley (groom’s friend) GOWN Justin Alexander, Bridal
Extraordinare, Shawnee, KS
SHOES TOMS
ENGAGEMENT RING Tivol WEDDING RINGS Helzberg Diamonds EARRINGS
BHLDN
HAIR Katie Welch
Gina Holmberg
Adrianna Papell
MENSWEAR
Calvin Klein, Macy’s First Impression
INVITATIONS
RENTALS Kemper
Museum of Contemporary Art Cake flavors included red velvet, champagne, mango, chocolate and apple spice filled with salted caramel.
Café Sebastienne Expressions
CAKE
CATERING
Baked
MUSIC Harpist: Wesley
Kelly; singer: Samatha
ACCOMMODATIONS
Kansas City Marriott Country Club Plaza REGISTRIES Pottery Barn; Williams-
Sonoma
HONEYMOON Costa Rica
GUESTS 165 BUDGET $$$ (see key, p. 8)
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“I don’t like uniformed looks or run-of-the-mill styles,” Anna says of selecting floral dresses for each of her five bridesmaids. “I knew the dresses were a little out there, but it was fun to do something different!” To complete her classic bridal style, Anna donned a white veil borrowed from a close friend.
MAKEUP
BRIDESMAID DRESSES
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www.miasbridal.com
FEATURING STYLES AND PRICES FROM SIMPLE TO COUTURE Bridal | Bridesmaids | Mothers | Tuxedos | Accessories | Alterations CALL TO SCHEDULE YOUR APPOINTMENT: 913.764.9114 Mia’s Bridal & Tailoring | 2235 E. Kansas City Rd. | Olathe, Kansas
MORILEE BY MADELINE GARDNER
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Kristan accessorized her tulle gown with embroidered lace TOMS and a verdant flower crown.
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THEIR STORY BRIDE Kristan Crawford, 18, a student at Kansas State University GROOM Maverick Mills, 20, a student at Kansas State University HOW THEY MET At church camp WEDDING STYLE “I’m a simple girl, so I needed a simple wedding,” Kristan says of their minimalist approach while planning. —MH
Rustic wood accents, faux grass and ivory candles transformed the couple’s brick-lined venue into a lush oasis. “I believe there was some white drapery on the outdoor altar, but I’m a little hazy on what anything looked like except for Maverick,” Kristan says.
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CEREMONY & RECEPTION SITE
Eleven Fifteen Venue & Urban Garden, Manhattan, KS
PHOTOGRAPHY Jason
&
CONSULTANT
FLOWERS Dell Ann Upp/
Event Rentals & Planning
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Supply
OFFICIANT
Joel Bowder (bride’s uncle)
GOWN
Casablanca Bridal, Brooklyn & Co. Bridal Shop, McPherson, KS
FLOWER CROWN
Supply Event Rentals & Planning TOMS
SHOES
ENGAGEMENT RING Helzberg
Diamonds WEDDING RINGS Bride: Helzberg Diamonds; groom: Etsy.com MAKEUP Platinum & Company Various
BRIDESMAID DRESSES
MENSWEAR Bachrach; Express
STATIONERY Invitations: Etsy.com;
programs: Supply Event Rentals & Planning RENTALS Supply Event Rentals & Planning CATERING Coco Bolos DONUTS Varsity Donuts
CAKE DIY
ACCOMMODATIONS
Best Western Manhattan Inn; Holiday Inn Manhattan at The Campus Crate & Barrel; Target
REGISTRIES
HONEYMOON Jamaica
GUESTS 125 BUDGET $$ (see key, p. 8)
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Bridesmaids wore mint and coral chiffon dresses, while Emily and Molly’s little sister wore a peach sheath for her role as the shared maid of honor.
EMILY & MARK & MOLLY & ERIC’S WEDDING INGREDIENTS THEIR STORY
Lenexa, KS
PHOTOGRAPHY
Cribbs Photography Tower Studios
FLOWERS
Earth Floral Design Studio
GOWNS
Belle Vogue Bridal, Lenexa Belle Vogue Bridal
VEILS
Nina
Good
OFFICIANT
Father Barry Clayton (brides’ cousin) Stella York,
Marissa
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Prior to the start of their shared ceremony, the twins flipped a coin to determine who their father would walk down the aisle first. “It was less about who would be first and more about which twin would get to see the other walk down the aisle,” Emily says of following Molly to the altar. Afterward, the sisters changed into matching high-top sneakers before joining their bridesmaids in a surprise choreographed dance. “The performance really set the tone for a fun night filled with lots of dancing,” Emily says.
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CEREMONY SITE Saint Michael the
Archangel Catholic Church, Leawood, KS
SHOES
ENGAGEMENT & WEDDING RINGS
Shane Co. JEWELRY Earrings: Helzberg Diamonds; Amazon.com; necklace: Tiffany & Co.
HAIR Paradise;
White Carpet
Bride MAKEUP Paradise DRESSES Azazie.com
Wearhouse Dawn
BRIDESMAID
MENSWEAR Men’s
STATIONERY Invitations by
CATERING Delish Catering & Events
3 Women and an Oven
CAKE
MUSIC
Ceremony: Joyful Noise; reception: Lost Wax/
Jukeboxx Media
WrapWithUs.com Kool Rides Party Bus
FAVORS
TRANSPORTATION REGISTRIES Bed
Bath & Beyond; Crate & Barrel; Target HONEYMOONS Emily & Mark: Caribbean;
Molly & Eric: Cancun, Mexico GUESTS 350 BUDGET $$$$ (see key, p. 8)
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do get to know your officiant ahead of time
do add extra time for getting ready
This is the person who is going to lead you through the emotional commitment you’re making, so it’s crucial they’re someone you’re completely comfortable with. And if you get to know them ahead of time, your ceremony will feel personalized and authentic. Your meet up doesn’t have to be formal—you could grab coffee together or take them up on their offer for premarital counseling (it’s not just for couples with issues). TIP FOR THE TAKING If you’re not required by your religious institution to use a particular officiant, you could choose someone you’re already close with, like the pastor of your childhood church or a friend who has known you both forever. Just check what the requirements are for getting them certified in your state.
From hair and makeup to photos and travel to the venue, there are a lot of prewedding to-dos that can potentially put you behind schedule and make your ceremony start late. In many cases, you only have the ceremony space for a limited amount of time, and you don’t want your guests waiting on you. Typically hair and makeup take about 45 minutes each, so plan two and a half (or even three) hours just for beauty. TIP FOR THE TAKING Ask each pro for a realistic estimate on how long it will take and then add on 15 to 30 minutes just to be safe. That way, if everything runs smoothly, you’ll still have some time left over if something unexpected sets you back. Plus, any extra time can be used for photos or just fun chatter before everything begins.
don’t pick a spot that’s extremely far away from your reception
don’t stress about the perfect program
Keeping your ceremony space close to or at your reception venue is the easiest way to cut costs (on venue rental, transportation, and even photography and videography), simplify your planning and cut down on logistics, like figuring out how your entire bridal party is going to get from the ceremony to the cocktail hour (not to mention all the guests). Book a ceremony venue that’s nearby or at the same place as your reception and you’ll have more time for things like photos and mingling with your guests at cocktail hour. TIP FOR THE TAKING If you’re dead set on your ceremony venue or have already booked a space that’s far from the reception, consider providing transportation for your wedding guests.
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Your programs can include anything from song lyrics to your love story. But before you start penning a novel, you should know there’s nothing wrong with sticking to the basics, like the names of your bridal party members, the order of events and info on any readings or cultural traditions you’re planning to include. So don’t stress about putting down every thought, or worry about giving acknowledgements to every guest (save all that for toasts or thank-you notes). That way, you have more time to focus on things like picking the perfect processional music instead. TIP FOR THE TAKING These days, a lot of couples don’t even have programs at all. We love the idea of one large chalkboard sign at the entrance to display all the ceremony info. >>
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do offer comfortable seating If guests are relaxed, they’ll be able to focus on enjoying your ceremony, which can really set the vibe for the rest of the day. That might mean adding colorful cushions to your church pews or exchanging wobbly plastic folding chairs for something sturdier. Think about the setup too—there should be enough space between chairs and rows so guests have some legroom. TIP FOR THE TAKING Planning your ceremony space yourself? Keep in mind: There should be at least 10 square feet per person, and an extra 20 to 30 square feet for the altar and bridal party to stand.
don’t insist your shy friend do a reading
1 1 questions for potential officiants Ask these before you hire them.
• Will you perform an interfaith ceremony (if applicable)?
• How long are your
master speaker
Your readings will go much more smoothly if your readers are confident and excited to do them.
ceremonies typically?
• Do you have any special rules or restrictions?
• Are you open to personalized vows, readings, poems or music?
do have a backup plan if you’re planning an outdoor ceremony Prepping a plan B in case of inclement weather is a must, and that might mean reserving an indoor alternative or a tent. And you should also think of ways to make everyone as cozy as possible for your outdoor ceremony. That could mean reserving heat lamps to ward off chills in late fall or providing parasols for a summer day. TIP FOR THE TAKING Get a feel for what you’ll need by doing a walk-through at around the same time as your ceremony. If you did all your venue visits at night, you may not have realized there’s no shade over your ceremony space at your early afternoon start time. Keep an eye on the weather for any sudden changes. >>
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• Will you give a sermon or speech?
• What do you typically wear during a ceremony?
• Do you require that we attend any prewedding counseling sessions?
• What is the ceremony fee or required donation?
• Will you help us work on our vows?
• Will we have input on your sermon and/or be able to read it beforehand?
• Can you help me deal with family conflicts connected to the ceremony?
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Before you choose your readers, think about whether they’re the right person for the role. And don’t take it personally if someone declines because they’re not up to it. If a reader isn’t comfortable speaking in front of a lot of people, they may get nervous, which could mean a lot of awkward pauses, an unsteady voice or a total freeze-up. Your readings will go much more smoothly if your readers are confident and excited to do it. TIP FOR THE TAKING Finalize your selections for the ceremony at least a few weeks ahead of time, so your readers have enough time to practice. That way, they won’t have to be glued to the paper they’re reading from or stumble through the words. If they feel prepared, the audience will feel at ease too.
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don’t spend your entire d´ecor budget on flowers for the entrance Start with decorating high-impact areas like your aisle and altar, since these are going to draw the most attention from both guests and the camera. Then, use the rest of your ceremony décor budget on the entrance, chairs and ceiling. A flower-entwined trellis and petal-covered aisle are classic ceremony décor ideas, but you can go as simple as hanging paper lanterns from the aisle chairs or as elaborate as draping the space from floor to ceiling. TIP FOR THE TAKING If you’re just planning for a few arrangements, work with a florist to figure out what you’ll need. For a more complex design, enlist a floral or event designer to help you create and execute your vision.
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do outline traditions in your program Including cultural customs that are meaningful to you as a couple is a great way to personalize your ceremony, but it will be hard for your guests to feel included if they have no clue what’s going on, like if you’re putting your own spin on the unity candle or reciting a reading in another language. A note in the program or a few words from your officiant explaining the traditions you’ve chosen is all you need to help guests follow along. TIP FOR THE TAKING Ask your officiant to give your guests subtle cues when a custom is beginning or transitioning to another. Don’t hesitate to use your program to share why these particular traditions are meaningful to you both (maybe your unity ceremony is a Celtic handfasting because he proposed while you were traveling in Ireland, or maybe you’re including a traditional tea ceremony as a nod to your Chinese heritage).
go with a pro
If you’re planning for a few arrangements, work with a florist to figure out what you’ll need. But for a more complex design, enlist a floral or event designer to help execute your vision.
Find more ceremony tips at TheKnot.com/planning
3 reasons to write your vows Here’s a few things you might love about penning your own.
At least a month before the wedding, start talking to each other about what you’ll each say (even if you don’t reveal the exact words you plan to use on your wedding day). This will have the nice side effect of causing you to reflect on your relationship, where it’s been, and where you see it going. In the midst of wedding planning, this can be a wonderful thing.
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you can say what you want
There are some truly lovely traditional vows out there, but none of them were specifically written about you and your unique relationship with this person. This is your chance, in front of the people closest to you, to reveal why you’re standing up there together, what it means to you and how you’re going to honor this person for the rest of your life.
it’ll be more fun for guests
Chances are, your guests have been to a few weddings before—quite possibly several this season. Watching traditional vows over and over again is a little like watching reruns on TV: enjoyable, but still not as great as watching a new episode. Think of your ceremony as the “Wedding Show”— writing your vows will make it a memorable episode no one has ever seen before.
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for better or verse Writing your own vows won’t be easy, but it will be totally worth it when you’re up at the altar. Ready to get to work? Let’s just take it one word at a time. >> PHOTOGRAPH BY WITH LOVE & EMBERS
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So you thought it would be great to write your own wedding vows, but now a healthy dose of writer’s block (not to mention stage fright) is looming ahead. Don’t know how to transform your meaningful, life-altering feelings into a string of coherent words? You’re not alone—but don’t worry, your goal is well within reach. Here’s the homework you need to do to create perfectly personalized wedding vows.
read dozens of vow examples for inspiration
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Decide how you want your vows to come across. Will they be humorous? Poetic and romantic? Go over the logistics too. Will you write them separately or together? Will they be completely different or will you make the same promises to each other, as you would with traditional vows? Some couples do a little of each. Finally, will you share them with each other or keep them a secret until the wedding day?
come up with as many promises as you want
how do I love thee? Answer these questions to help shape your vows. Before you dive into writing, jot down notes about your relationship and take some time to reflect on your partner. Think about how you felt when you first met, what made you fall in love and when you knew you wanted to get married. Here are some questions to get you started:
• W hy did you decide to get married? • W hat hard or difficult times have you gone through together?
• When have you supported each other?
They’re called vows for a reason, so the promises are the most important part. A tip: “Include promises that are broad in scope, such as ‘I promise to always support you,’ as well as very specific to the two of you, like ‘I promise to say ‘I love you’ every night before bed,’ ” says Christopher Shelley, wedding celebrant.
• What challenges do you envision?
write it all out
• When did you realize you were in love?
Now that you have notes, it’s time to establish a structure and write your first draft. Speechwriting expert Robert Lehrman suggests a four-part outline: Affirm your love, praise your partner, offer promises and close with a final vow. Another way to organize it is to start with a short story and then come back to it at the end.
• What do you most respect about
banish clich´es
• What specific qualities do you most
Now that you have your first draft, it’s time to make edits. Borrow from movies, books and spiritual texts, but don’t let someone else’s words overpower your own. You want your vows to sound like you, and that won’t happen if every word is borrowed from other sources. And if you find yourself relying on cliché phrases, try to think of a more genuine or specific way to express your sentiment. >>
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• What do you want to accomplish together? • What makes your relationship work? • W hat did you think when you saw your partner for the first time?
your partner?
• What about them inspires you? • W hat do you miss most about them when you’re apart? admire in each other?
• How does your partner make you feel?
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Start by reading traditional, by-the-book vows from your own religion, if you practice a certain faith, and others as well to see what strikes a chord with you. You can incorporate these into the original words you write, or just use them as a jumping-off point for your custom vows. Once you’ve found a few you love, consider what it is about the style that draws you to those vows in particular.
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take out anything too cryptic or embarrassing You’ve invited your family and friends to witness your vows in order to make your bond public, so be sure everyone feels included in the moment. That means putting a limit on inside jokes, deeply personal anecdotes and obscure nicknames or code words. “Think about how your vows will sound to you 10 years from now,” suggests wedding celebrant and author Maureen Pollinger. Have a friend or family member read it over ahead of time for feedback, if you’re okay with sharing your vows before the wedding day.
keep vows short—one to two minutes, max
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Your vows are important, but that doesn’t mean they should drag on for what feels like an eternity. “When you say something in a very meaningful way, you don’t have to say it over and over,” Pollinger says. Pick the most important points and make them. If yours are running longer than two minutes, do a thoughtful edit. Even though you may love your “how-we-met” story or have known each other since you were in the first grade, your vows aren’t the time to take a long stroll down memory lane. Put some of the more personal thoughts in a letter or gift to your partner for the morning of your wedding and save any crowd-pleasing topics for your toasts at either the reception, rehearsal dinner or engagement party.
practice out loud (seriously) It might sound weird, but this really is the best way to prep. “When you practice, don’t just do the same thing over and over. Listen each time—then do it better,” Lehrman says. Your vows should be easy to say and sound conversational. As you recite them, listen for any tongue twisters and super-long sentences, and cut them to avoid any stumbles. This is also the time to practice the delivery. “Stand straight and look at your spouse,” Lehrman adds.
make a clean copy for yourself The paper you read from should be legible, so even if you’re working on it right up until a few moments before your ceremony, use a fresh piece of paper free of cross-outs, arrows and notes. And give some thought to the presentation too, because “it will end up in the photos,” says Annie Lee, wedding planner and founder of Daughter of Design. “I suggest a nice note card that matches the wedding colors or a little notebook or pad. You can handwrite it or cut and paste the computer print to fit within that.” (And it also makes a nice keepsake for later on.) Have a backup plan too. Pollinger points out that some couples find themselves too emotional to speak (it happens), so have your officiant either prompt you by quietly saying the vows first or read the vows on your behalf. Get more vow inspiration at TheKnot.com/planning
nondenominational wedding vows No matter your faith, these heartfelt vows are fail-proof.
“I choose you, ________, to be my wife/husband, as my friend and love. On this day I affirm the relationship we have enjoyed, looking to the future to keep and strengthen it. I will be yours in plenty and in want, in sickness and in health, in failure and in triumph. Together, we will dream, and live as one while respecting one another. We will stumble but restore each other and we will share all things. I will cherish, comfort and encourage you, be open with you, and stay with you as long as I shall live.”
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“________, I promise to be faithful, supportive and loyal and to give you my companionship and love throughout all the changes of our life. I vow to bring you happiness, and I will treasure you as my companion. I will celebrate the joys of life with you. I promise to support your dreams, and walk beside you offering courage and strength through all endeavors. From this day forward, I will be proud to be your wife/husband and your best friend.”
“________, will you take ________ to be your wife/husband? Do you commit yourself to her/his happiness and self-fulfillment as a person? Do you promise to love, honor and trust her/him in sickness and in health, in adversity and prosperity, and to be true and loyal to her/him so long as you both shall live?”
“I, ________, take you ________, for my wedded wife/husband from this day forward, to have and to hold as equal partner in my life, to whom I give my deepest love and devotion. I humbly open my heart to you as a sanctuary of warmth and peace, where you may come and find a refuge of love and strength. I will love you enough to risk being hurt, trust you when I don’t understand, weep with you in heartache, and celebrate life with you in joy. I will receive you as my equal throughout all of our days.”
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twist on tradition Even if you’re a classic couple, we're betting there's at least one wedding custom you’ll want to make truly your own. >> BY SIMONE HILL PHOTOGRAPH BY KRISTA ESTERLING PHOTOGRAPHY
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your wedding dress has to be white THE NEW TWIST You don’t have to go all out—you could still wear a white or ivory dress—but don’t be afraid to add a pop of color with a sash, cardigan, pair of shoes or piece of jewelry. You could also do a light-colored skirt with a white or ivory overlay for a barely there hint of color. Feeling bold? Champagne, black, blush and pastel-hued dresses in mint, lavender or cornflower blue are on trend right now, adding an understated uniqueness to your ensemble. Or try a dress with a colorful print or pattern.
you have to wear a long white veil THE NEW TWIST Don’t want to wear a veil? Break away from the
standard headpiece with a chic headband, a flower crown or a few sparkly hair clips. Or you could just leave your hair down with nothing in it at all (you rebel, you).
THE NEW TWIST These days, it’s all about updating traditional ceremony customs. For unity rituals, add a fresh spin by incorporating some new materials instead of the classic candle lighting. We know of two chefs who mixed together spices and another couple who combined their favorite cocktails at the altar. Or try a lesser-known tradition, like the wine box: Lock a bottle of wine and love letters in a box during the ceremony to be opened on a predetermined anniversary date.
all in the details
Just because you’re planning a classic wedding doesn’t mean you can’t add your own personal twist. Special details that represent you as a couple are what guests will remember.
you should walk down the aisle to wagner’s “bridal chorus” THE NEW TWIST Sure, it’s a great standard, but it’s definitely not the only option. You could have a bluegrass band play an acoustic banjo version of your favorite pop song, or look to your cultural heritage to inspire your music: Caribbean steel drums, Scottish bagpipes, a Polish accordion or a Mexican mariachi band are all great ideas. Your musicians don’t have to stick to playing the classics either—anything from The Beatles to Beyoncé will do.
the ceremony program has to be formal THE NEW TWIST Programs should include important info, like who’s in the bridal party and the meaning behind your cultural traditions, but you should have a bit of fun with the design too. You could even turn your programs into a playful Mad Lib, crossword puzzle with clues about your relationship or make fortune-tellers with fun facts about your childhood. You could even have them serve double-duty as fans for your outdoor nuptials. Guests will love the idea—and they’ll appreciate having something to do while they wait for the ceremony to start.
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you can’t see each other before the ceremony THE NEW TWIST This superstition has long been proven false, so there’s really nothing stopping you if you don’t want to wait until your walk down the aisle to see one another. Schedule a first-look photo shoot (you and your partner meet with just the photographer before the ceremony). This frees up more time after the ceremony so you can actually enjoy your cocktail hour—and it can also help soothe those prewedding jitters.
you should make your exit in a shower of rice THE NEW TWIST There are so many more exciting options than rice, from guests throwing eco-friendly confetti or paper airplanes to waving ribbon wands or ringing bells. You can even create a “toss bar.” Set out bowls of confetti, flower petals, popcorn (hold the butter) or herbs (like lavender) for guests to shower you with. Don’t forget a few paper cones or bags for them to fill. >>
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bridesmaids should wear matching dresses THE NEW TWIST While we love a pretty, matching bridal party, having a variety of dresses is a hot trend and fun way to mix things up. Plus it creates beautiful photos. Let your girls’ individual personalities shine by having each bridesmaid choose a dress that suits her own taste and figure. The trick to pulling off the mismatched look is to have one cohesive element, like the same fabric, color or length. Or let them personalize their look with accessories, like funky jewelry, boleros or patterned tights.
bridesmaids are female and groomsmen are male THE NEW TWIST Don’t confine your list of VIPs to your female friends and vice versa for grooms. If your best friend in the world happens to be a guy, make him your bridesman, or your groom can ask his sister that he’s super close with to be a groomswoman. Coordinate their looks with the rest of the party with accessories like a colorful bow tie or sash.
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THE NEW TWIST Having your dad escort you can be a great moment for the two of you, but it’s by no means the only option. If you have a closer relative or friend (like a brother or even your mom), it’s perfectly acceptable to have that person walk with you. Or you can have both of your parents walk you down the aisle (as is custom in the Jewish religion). Don’t have anyone in mind? You can even make the trip solo or with your soon-to-be spouse—it’s a great symbol of starting your life together. >>
worldy affair Want to go global with your ceremony? See how couples marry around the world.
Looking for a perfume or cologne for your wedding day? In Sweden, grooms sew small pockets of herbs, like thyme or rosemary, into their clothes for good luck. But if you try it, you’ll have to be cool with smelling like chicken marinade!
in-person invites
Before a Serbian wedding, the groom’s father fills a flask with his best brandy and goes house to house to personally invite the wedding guests. He offers each a drink, they offer a small gift and together they toast to the new couple.
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tree toppers
In Bermuda, bakers top a cake with a cedar sapling. The small tree symbolizes the couple’s growing love and is usually replanted after the ceremony. Today, modern couples will sometimes incorporate a tree planting into their wedding ceremony.
signature shoes
Before a Turkish bride walks down the aisle, her single bridesmaids and relatives sign the soles of her wedding shoes. After a full night of dancing and prancing, the signature that has faded the most is said to be the next person to say “I do.”
gate of honor
Before some Danish weddings, a “gate of honor”—an arch constructed from pine branches, evergreens and florals—is erected in front of the bride’s home and attached to the front door. It may even reappear for the couple’s silver anniversary.
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your guests must be seated on two sides THE NEW TWIST There’s more than one way to design a ceremony setup. If you have the option, consider banishing the idea of a “side” for each to-be-wed with a nontraditional seating arrangement, like a circle or even a spiral around the altar. Everyone’s there to celebrate the two of you together, so there’s no reason it should matter where your guests sit.
you should exchange traditional vows
ceremonies take place in religious institutions If you grew up attending worship services and have always dreamed of walking down that aisle, skip this and read on to the next tradition. Otherwise, pick a ceremony venue that’s meaningful to the both of you. It can be anywhere, from a park or a backyard to an old theater or a hip city loft downtown. Just check with your officiant ahead of time to make sure they’re comfortable with marrying you outside of a religious space.
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your engagement ring should be a diamond THE NEW TWIST The
diamond engagement ring isn’t going anywhere anytime soon. That said, if a classic ring, like a round solitaire or cushion cut, isn’t your style, then you should feel free to branch out to other types of stones and settings. Antique jewelry is one way to go, or ask your jeweler about alternative stones to diamonds, like sapphires, emeralds and morganite.
you have to do a bouquet and garter toss THE NEW TWIST If you’re not into the idea of singling out the singles, try one of these alternatives. Take your bouquet apart and present individual flowers to your friends and loved ones, or have a bouquet and boutonniere station where guests can make their own. Another alternative is to have a special anniversary dance to celebrate all the married couples at your wedding. Here’s how it’s done: The DJ plays a song and eliminates each couple depending on the amount of time they’ve been married. The last couple remaining is presented with the bouquet as a gift.
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wedding customs 101 Where popular wedding traditions originated.
decorating the getaway car
In Tudor England, the couple’s guests threw shoes at them for good luck. These were later tied to the back of the exit car instead. The tin cans come from attaching noisemakers to the vehicle to scare off evil spirits.
the white dress
Queen Victoria started the trend in 1840. Prior to that, brides simply wore their best dress.
veils
Ancient Greeks and Romans thought that the veil protected the bride from evil spirits.
the wedding cake The tradition of cake comes from ancient Rome, where partygoers would break a loaf of bread over a bride’s head for fertility.
tiered wedding cakes
In medieval England, the bride and groom tried to playfully kiss over a cake—that kept getting more layers added to it— without toppling it.
tying the knot
In Celtic, Hindu and Egyptian cultures, the hands of a bride and groom were tied together during the ceremony to symbolize their commitment.
bachelor parties
Ancient Spartan soldiers kissed their single days good-bye with a party.
“old, new, borrowed, blue”
Something old (for continuity), new (for the future), borrowed (for happiness) and blue (for fidelity) stem from an old English rhyme.
the ring finger
Egyptians believed the vein in the fourth finger of the left hand ran directly to the heart.
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THE NEW TWIST There’s nothing wrong with sticking with the same vows many couples have said before you, and a lot of brides and grooms like the “bigger-than-us” feeling of reciting traditional vows. But adding your own language can make the ceremony more meaningful to you. If you’re nervous about writing your own vows, work with your officiant to come up with something custom or just add a few tweaks to the traditional wording.
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the usual suspects Trust us, every couple goes through it. But you can’t cross off these guests—no matter how tempting. PHOTOGRAPH BY LACIE HANSEN PHOTOGRAPHY
Some guests make the list just for being family, but other guests, like your boss, are simply harder to reject than include. And as if making your guest list isn’t complicated enough, your parents also get a say if they’re chipping in on the bill. But obligatory guests don’t have to ruin your day—as long as you know where to put them. >>
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bridesmaid’s new boyfriend WHY HE’S INVITED Okay, so it’s a little off-putting that he never wears shoes and hasn’t offered congratulations, but even if he wouldn’t be your top pick to hang out with, one of your closest friends adores him. Plus, your bridesmaid has gone through a lot with you (read: three dress fittings, two cake tastings and one crazy breakdown over flowers). Not inviting her boyfriend (who’s clearly more than just a fling) would be pretty uncool. WHERE TO PUT HIM Instead of having a large table with your entire wedding party plus their dates, mix things up. Sit with your maid of honor, best man and their dates, then spread the rest of the wedding party throughout other tables. Not only will you be a safe distance from your bridesmaid’s date, but it’ll also keep some of your guests from feeling like they’re stuck at a D-list table while you and your wedding party get the full VIP treatment.
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´ flirtatious frat brother fiance’s
Aside from the fact that they’re planning and executing your entire wedding, they’re number one in command on the day of. So it’s worth having them on hand for all the details (and possible disasters). Besides, treating them like an actual guest (with a real seat, meal and invitation) will help make them feel more welcome. WHERE TO PUT THEM Your planner will be so busy during your wedding you’ll barely even notice they’re there. Sit them at a table with your relatives or family friends with similar personalities or interests, or take a chance and throw them into the mix with your friends. Remember: Nothing anyone says or does is that shocking after a few glasses of champagne anyway, so don’t worry too much.
WHY HE’S INVITED It may be difficult to forget the last time
baby niece WHY SHE’S INVITED You explicitly told your sister you weren’t inviting any kids, but she decided that rule didn’t apply to her new baby girl. Not wanting little ones at your wedding is certainly understandable, but making your sister spend half the night upstairs in her hotel room (and miss the first dance, cake cutting and sparkler send-off) isn’t exactly fair to either of you. WHERE TO PUT HER If having a baby at your wedding bothers you that much, offer to hire a babysitter. Suggest that your niece stay with the sitter during the ceremony (so there’s no crying during the vows) and then leave it up to your sister to decide whether or not she wants to bring the baby to the reception. By that point, guests will be drinking and dancing—they won’t even notice a sleeping newborn (if she’s able to sleep through your party, that is). You can also assign your sister a table close to the door in case she needs to scoot out for any mommy emergencies.
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you met up with your partner’s best college buddy—since he spent half the night hitting on you and your friends. But you have to try to move on. He’s one of your fiancé’s closest friends, so not having him at your wedding would do more damage than good. WHERE TO PUT HIM First of all, it’s not like you’re on the market, so you have nothing to worry about (although you might want to give your single friends a heads up). Sit him at a table with other single people, or suggest to your fiancé that he bring a date of his own. Really, as long as he’s not inappropriate or making a scene, there’s not much destruction he can cause. And even if you find him irritating in general, you’ll be too busy visiting with all of your other guests and reveling in your special day to really notice him.
cousin (who’s practically a stranger) You may have played in the sandbox together 20 years ago, but now, you can’t even remember if she was the cousin with the glasses or the one who borrowed your favorite doll and never gave it back. But still, your mom insists she makes the guest list. Here’s the deal: She’s family (sorry, that’s the way it goes!). Not inviting her would be extremely awkward not just for you, but for your parents too, especially since they’d probably be the ones who are stuck explaining to her parents why she wasn’t invited. In this case, it’s easier on everyone to be inclusive. WHERE TO PUT HER Sit her at a table with other family members she knows or, if you think she’d enjoy it, mix her in with some of your friends. Hey, it’s been a while since you’ve seen her and she’s done some growing up—she might end up being the life of the party (besides you, of course). >> WHY SHE’S INVITED
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wedding downer WHY SHE’S INVITED She’s one of your best friends and has been
by your side for everything—from first grade recess to college graduation. The only problem is, she’s currently in a love rut and is completely sick of weddings (read: she has a cynical attitude). The fact is, if she’s truly your friend, she’ll still be happy for you. Even if you’re assuming she’ll pout at everything from your dress to your bouquet, give her the benefit of the doubt—chances are she won’t. WHERE TO PUT HER Introduce her to some other singles at your wedding beforehand (say, at the engagement party) to make it clear she’ll never be third wheel. If there aren’t many singles in your circle of friends, invite her to bring a date—even if it’s just a friend. Having someone to dance with will save her from sitting out the slow songs, and she might feel more confident with a partner in crime. Definitely seat her with a younger crowd so she doesn’t feel like a reject at a table with your coworkers.
your boss Listen, we totally get it—it’s almost impossible not to shout your engagement from the mountaintops, or to keep from talking about your wedding planning while at work. By this point, your boss probably feels as close to your wedding as your bridesmaids, so you need to extend the invite. WHERE TO PUT HER Invite your boss along with their significant other (at least they’ll have one person to talk to). After all, they do decide your salary. If you’re close with a few coworkers, add them to your guest list as well and consider seating them at a table with your partner’s work friends too. Even if you do cringe at the thought of your boss witnessing some of your sloppy friends in action, they might not be able to attend anyway—but making the ask is always the right decision. WHY SHE’S INVITED
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tipsy uncle WHY HE’S INVITED Don’t you just love that family rule? Your uncle is one of your parents’ brothers, or one of their siblings’ spouses, and the fact that he’ll down a few too many craft brews doesn’t change that. Even if he has a history of getting out of hand, your uncle will always make the cut. WHERE TO PUT HIM Seat your dad near your uncle so he can keep an eye on him, especially if it’s an open bar. You might also politely ask the bartenders to cut off any guests who seem to have had their fill. If there’s a particular drink he’s a fan of, don’t stock it. Also, keep plenty of water on the tables and serve dinner early so nobody’s drinking on an empty stomach. If you’re close with your uncle, consider talking about your concerns with him—he might be more understanding than you think.
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trim that list We’ll help you decide who makes the final cut.
Consider who’s footing the bill. Since the bride’s parents traditionally pay for the wedding, they usually have more say. If the groom’s side is paying, flip that. If you’re throwing your own bash, allocate a specific number to each side.
get rid of guilt
Don’t be tempted to round up every person you’ve ever known. Focus on those friends and family who matter now. If you run into someone you haven’t seen in years and aren’t planning to invite them to the wedding, don’t feel guilty.
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start big
If you like, start by making a dream list with absolutely everyone on it. Then prepare to start ruthlessly trimming your list until you’re within budget. Reducing the number of guests is the only way to truly cut wedding costs.
prioritize
If you have your heart set on a small country inn but plan to invite 200 people, that’s not going to work. Decide what’s more important: the number of guests or a specific venue. Then either limit your list or start your search for a new locale.
consider the kids
If you don’t want to invite kids, then the outer and inner envelopes of your invitations need to be clearly addressed to only those invited (Mr. and Mrs. Arthur Anderson, as opposed to The Anderson Family). Then subtly spread the word.
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take stock If you’re a seasoned cook or have been living on your own for a few years, you likely have a couple of pots to your name. Take inventory of your cookware and see if anything needs replacing— a scratched-up frying pan could be swapped out or maybe a bigger stockpot will help you win the chili cook-off. If you like everything to match, it may be time to upgrade your whole collection. Most cookware is sold as “open stock,” meaning you can purchase the pieces you want individually and over time if you choose. If you’re new to cooking, a prepackaged set is a safe bet—you’ll get all the basics. Just remember: The number of pieces in a set includes pots, pans and lids, so that 10-piece box may only have six pots.
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examine your cooking style Pots and pans come in a variety of sizes—what size is right for you depends on the crowd you’re cooking for. Weeknight dinners might be prepared for two, but if you plan to do some entertaining now or down the road, it’s wise to invest in larger pieces or multiples of frequently used pans (like an 8-inch and 12-inch frying pan). Think about what you like to cook too—if your specialty is your grandmother’s tomato sauce, you’ll want to look for a nonreactive pan; if brunch is your go-to, invest in a griddle.
consider your stove Your stove top shouldn’t change your cookware choices dramatically, but there are a couple of things to consider before adding your favorite stockpot to the registry. If you have an induction cooktop, cookware made from aluminum or copper won’t work on its own. You need something with a magnetic-based material like cast iron or magnetic stainless steel. If you have a smooth-surface range, you must use a flat-bottomed pan (a rounded-bottom wok is trouble). If you’re in a rental with outdated appliances (read: uneven heat output), you may want to invest in some durable cookware, like cast iron, which is less prone to scorching and staining. Since it’s likely you’re looking at cookware as an investment that will outlast your current home—we hear you—choose pieces that check a couple of boxes to be safe. >>
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1. sides
The sides of the pan make it suited for specific types of cooking. High sides are good for simmering, short sides allow you to toss pasta, and flared sides aid in evaporation of liquids— perfect for reducing.
2. rim
The rim or edge of the pan factors into its use—a rolled rim allows you to pour liquids with ease, while a straight edge will keep vegetables in the pan while cooking.
3. core
Lots of stainless steel pans feature a core (inside the pan, used to generate heat), which is the bonding of heat conductive metals like aluminum and copper.
4. body
The main cooking surface of the pan. Choose a cookware material that’s compatible with the type of food you’re preparing.
5. rivets
These small welds or screws connect the handle to the pot. Look for flush rivets, which will keep food out and make for easier cleanup.
6. handle
Most pot handles are metal or silicone coated— some are plastic. If you want your pan to transition from the stovetop to the oven, look for a compatible handle that can withstand the heat.
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Having the right kitchen equipment is essential—it saves prep time and ensures your hard work and efforts to follow recipes pay off. Pots and pans are no exception, which is why they end up on most wedding registries. But will that $200 pot make you a better cook? What’s the difference between a coated pan and a clad pan? Cookware can be confusing, not to mention an investment, which is why you should learn a few basics before you scan a single frying pan. Read on for all the details.
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Choosing the right type of pan or the best size pot is only half of the equation. The cookware material is a big determiner of recipe success. Eggs are best scrambled in a nonstick pan, for example, while sautéed foods should be prepared in a pan that transmits heat quickly. If you cook sauce every Sunday, you’ll want to avoid an aluminum pan as those acidic ingredients can react with the metal. Bottom line: Pick a cookware material based on your most frequently used cooking techniques. Here are the most common materials and the pros and cons of each:
1. aluminum This material is extremely durable and second to copper in heat conductivity, making it a favorite in restaurant kitchens. Anodized aluminum has been electrochemically treated so the surface is hard, scratch resistant and will not react with food acids—a valuable upgrade. PROS Great heat conductivity, affordable, resists corrosion and rust, lightweight, usually oven and dishwasher safe CONS Can react with acidic foods unless treated 2. cast iron One of the oldest and most durable materials on the market, cast iron heats slowly and evenly, retains heat extremely well and can be used to cook a variety of foods. If you care for it well, it can last for generations—and it gets better with each use. Enamel cast iron has a colorful exterior that protects pans from nicks and rust, and looks nice on your dining table. PROS Affordable, excellent heat conductivity, works on any cooktop (including a camp fire), extremely durable, oven safe CONS Requires seasoning (especially if you want to cook with acidic ingredients), super heavy, must be handwashed and often requires some serious scrubbing to get the job done
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3. copper Hands down the best material for conducting heat, these pans get hot quickly and cool down in a flash. This makes copper an excellent choice for everything from searing to simmering. Look for heavy gauge copper (at least 1/16-inch thick) for long-term use. PROS Looks amazing on display (can go from oven to table with ease), leading in heat conductivity CONS Expensive and requires a bit of upkeep—new pots need to be polished, old ones need re-tinning, and don’t even think about placing it in the dishwasher 4. nonstick A specialized material coats pans making them nonstick, perfect for preparing eggs or cooking with little or no oil. This is great for healthy cooking and clean up. PROS Cook with little to no butter or oil, a breeze to clean (most nonstick pans are dishwasher safe too) CONS Not ideal for cooking sauces, coating can scratch easily with heavy use or metal utensils, avoid health concerns by choosing a PFOA-free or PTFE-free coating 5. stainless steel One of the most preferred materials in cookware, durable stainless steel is a kitchen workhorse. Look for a pan that’s made with bonded aluminum or copper, which ensures optimal heat conductivity. (Stainless steel on its own isn’t great.) PROS Great conductivity, durable, scratch and rust resistant, doesn’t react with acidic foods, usually magnetic (compatible with induction cooktops), transitions from stove to table nicely, often dishwasher and oven safe CONS Can be pricier than other materials; you may need a little extra elbow grease to clean the pan >>
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coated vs. clad The difference between coating and cladding can be confusing, especially if you’re looking at a “coated” nonstick pan. Coating means the surface of raw aluminum has been treated, making it more durable and less reactive to acidic or alkaline foods. Cladding is the fusion of metal, most often the case with stainless steel cookware. Stainless steel is a durable material, but isn’t a good conductor of heat on its own—when fused with aluminum or copper, it’s excellent.
don’t forget the lids If you’re registering for a cookware set, most will contain lids that work with both sauce pots and pans. You don’t need a lid for every piece in your collection, but it’s good to have a few on hand. Look for “universal lids” that will work for multiple pots and pans and save space in your kitchen cabinets. And glass lids (especially break resistant) are good for keeping an eye on what you’re cooking without breaking the heat seal.
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Choosing the right type of pan or the best size pot is only half the equation. The cookware material is a big determiner of recipe success—and there are pros and cons to each.
visit the store Shopping online is a huge convenience, but nothing beats an in-store visit. Handle cookware at least once before putting it on your registry—some pans are heavier than others (we’re looking at you, cast iron) and every handle feels a little different. Cookware can be a hassle to return too, so vet your selections before adding them to your wish list.
keep it clean With proper cleaning, most cookware will last for years. It may sound silly, but read the owner’s manual before firing up the stove—cast iron, for example, needs to be seasoned with oil before its first use, while stainless steel shouldn’t be soaked for long periods of time. Stock up on a few cleaning essentials too, like Scotch-Brite scour pads, which are great for caked-on food but gentle enough to use with most cookware, and Bar Keepers Friend, a great cleanser and polish.
essentials and extras Load your registry with the cookware you’ll use most (plus a specialized pot or pan).
the basics
You don’t need to register for a 10-piece set, but you do want to have the basics covered for daily cooking.
specialty picks
If you’re a seasoned cook or want to really load up on cookware, consider a few of these specially designed pans.
rying pan: Also F known as a skillet, this is the MVP of the stove, great for frying, searing and browning.
raiser: Like a Dutch B oven, this pan is great for cooking meats over time in a small amount of liquid.
auté pan: Essential S for deep-frying vegetables and searing meats. (It’s deeper than a fry pan.)
Crepe pan: A shallow pan with flared sides, designed for making the traditional French pancake treat.
Sauce pan: This versatile pan is a must-have for making sauces, rice and boiling eggs. tockpot: A large S workhorse, perfect for boiling pasta, cooking lobster or making your famous chili. Griddle: This nonstick pan is the go-to for brunch staples like pancakes and bacon. oasting pan: A R large baking pan made specifically for roasting turkeys and other meats.
Fondue pot: An insert keeps melted cheese and chocolate warm and ready for dipping—great for gatherings. aella pan: This P shallow pan is used to cook the rice dish by the same name. Pressure cooker: This large pot has a locking lid that seals tightly, allowing pressure to build up and raise the boiling point of liquids inside. The pressure quickens the cooking time. ok: This roundW bottomed pan is great for stir-fry lovers— add a lid and you have a great vessel for steaming veggies.
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Unlike the work that your other wedding vendors produce (music, flower arrangements, the cake), photos aren’t things you can hear, smell, taste or even see at first—you don’t really know what you’re getting until after the fact. That makes it extra-important to train a critical eye on any pro you’re considering, taking into account their experience, artistic style, even their personality. Knowing what to look out for, and which questions to ask, will ensure the memories of your wedding are just as beautiful as the day itself. >>
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settle on a style First on your to-do list: deciding what style of photography you want. All photographers specialize in a format and style, and knowing up front whether you prefer film to digital, or candid shots to posed ones will go a long way in determining the right person for the job. Before you send that initial introductory email, familiarize yourself with the most common methods.
documentary: Expect spontaneous, in-the-moment pictures of people and décor. Typical shots might include a close-up of your bouquet, your fiancé’s motley crew of cousins tearing up the dance floor or your bridesmaids laughing, champagne in hand. When you hire someone schooled in photojournalism, you’ll rarely see people looking straight at the camera—the photos capture the moments exactly as they happened, and together they tell a story.
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“My most popular package is eight hours. I generally don’t stay until the end, because who really wants blackmail photos?” —Morgan Miller of Morgan Miller Photography in Kansas City, MO
portraiture: If you prefer the kind of posed shots that populate your parents’ 1980s wedding album, go with someone who specializes in portraiture. You’ll get pictures of the two of you and your wedding party, friends and family in front of various backdrops. But that’s not to say there isn’t room for creativity. It’s true that many photographers shoot in expected places (think: the church altar or the lawn of a country club). But just as many push the artistic limits of portraiture, embracing dramatic compositions, like situating the couple on a lounge chair in a hip hotel lobby.
edgy and bold: This style, an offshoot of fine art, is marked by outside-the-box, tilted angles, called Dutch angles, and unconventional framing. So instead of a straight-on shot of the couple saying their vows at the altar, the photo might look a little slanted, with an object like a flower arrangement or candle in the foreground. Or, the photo of the bride having her makeup done might be shot from above, with more of an emphasis on the eye shadow brush rather than on her face. Even a single portrait of a bridesmaid might be framed so her face appears in only the bottom right portion of the photo, with the rest of the space taken up by the wall or whatever else is behind her. Although they might prefer a particular technique over another, many photographers offer a mix of styles, blending portraiture with documentary-type shots, and black and white with color images. But if there’s a specific look you absolutely love, seek out only those pros who practice it.
do your homework fine art: Similar to documentary style, this format allows the shooter greater artistic license to impart their particular point of view—the shots reflect reality, but it’s the photographer’s reality. The results, usually shot on black-and-white film, are dramatic and gorgeous, with a grainier, softer appearance that keeps the subject in focus and the background slightly blurred. That said, with the right gear and lens, a pro can use a digital camera and still capture this style. One note: Not all fine-art photographers take formal portraits, so if that’s important to you, make sure yours does both.
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Once you know what kind of photos you want, start your search: Comb through the local marketplace on TheKnot.com, and read reviews from recent brides and grooms. Go to photographers’ websites and blogs and check out their portfolios of the weddings they’ve shot to get an idea of their style. The design of the website may also clue you in to their personality and sensibility. If available, scope out their Facebook, Instagram and Twitter pages too. Also consider the feedback from other couples and clients: Is it generally positive? And how does the photographer herself respond to it? >>
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set up interviews This is not a decision that can be made on looks alone—you must meet your potential photographer in person. If you like what you see on their sites—and their fees are in your ballpark range— call to see if they’re available on your wedding date. If they’re already booked, ask if they have an associate or can recommend someone else with a similar style. Schedule in-person meetings with three to five photographers to look at more of their work and to see if your personalities mesh. Then, talk shop: Tell them about your venue, your overall wedding style and what you and your partner have in mind for your photos.
Don’t base your decision solely on what you see on a photographer’s site—that work is essentially a highlights reel, with the photographer promoting only the best shots from a variety of weddings. To get a more complete feel for their style, look through two or three full galleries from weddings they’ve captured start to finish. If you see that the full-gallery shots are just about as good as the ones chosen for their online portfolio—that is, they’re all so good it was impossible for them to choose—then you’ve got a consummate pro on your hands. Finally, ask to see at least one or two complete albums of weddings that are in similar settings to yours. For example, if you’re getting married indoors with dark lighting, don’t just look at weddings that were shot outdoors in natural sunlight. Likewise, if you’re planning to say “I do” on a beach at sunset, you’ll want to see examples of similar setups.
know what to look for Think about the kinds of shots you want for your own wedding, and then scour the photographer’s work to see how, or if, they captured them. For example, did they get photos of the bride and groom when they locked eyes for the first time? Also, look at how they composed the shots and whether the framing works or if there is too much clutter in a picture. Consider how crisp an image appears and what the lighting is like. Beware of washed-out photos where small details are blurred—unless that’s the style you’re after. One last thing to be on the lookout for: how the photographer captures emotions. You want to see people looking relaxed, not like deer caught in headlights. >>
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dig deep into portfolios
the portrait list
These are the don’t-miss moments that you’ll want to display forever.
the happy couple
Stunning snaps of the two of you should be the priority. Consider doing a “first look,” where you and your fiancé come together before the ceremony to see each other for the first time in your wedding attire. You’ll be less nervous walking down the aisle and won’t miss cocktail hour.
the wedding party
Your loyal friends and family who have stood by you in life— and in wedding planning— should also take center stage in your wedding album. You’ll want shots of you two with the entire bridal party as well as ones with each individual attendant. Some couples get creative with a mix of fun group shots (jumping, goofing around) and more traditional posed compositions.
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immediate family
You may be eager to get to the reception, but your mom will never let you hear the end of it if you don’t take the time to have at least a few portraits of you with your parents and siblings. You’ll probably also want to get a photo of both families together, which makes for an extra-special framed photo later—after all, it symbolizes the merging of two lives, and isn’t that what this whole thing is about?
guests
If your photographer’s setup allows for it, one huge group photo of you two with all of your guests can really capture the joy and spirit of the day. The default for most couples is to take pics with smaller groups—college and high school friends, cousins, and so on. But a big group shot is a novel reminder of all the special people who took the time to celebrate with you.
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Don’t underestimate the importance of liking and bonding with your photographer—that part is crucial. Are they excited about your vision for your wedding when you describe it? When they make suggestions, do they present them in a clear and respectful way, or do they come across as timid? Are their mannerisms off-putting to you? The best photographers will ask lots of questions and be good listeners. To get outstanding photos, go with a pro who not only has a firm grasp of social graces but is also bold enough to go on the hunt for great images. Above all, you’re looking for someone who puts you and your fiancé at ease and doesn’t irritate you in any way. Remember: Your photographer will be shadowing your every move on your wedding day, and the more comfortable both of you are, the better all of your photos will turn out. And, obviously, you don’t want the photographer to offend or annoy your guests but to shoot them in their best light in an unobtrusive, subtle way. In a nutshell: Your photographer should be assertive enough to seek out the really great moments, cajoling enough to coax relaxed smiles and natural stances from guests, and calm enough to be a positive force throughout the day.
Many larger photo studios have more than one photographer on staff, and unless you specify it in your contract, the lead photographer may not be the one shooting your day. Since every professional has a different style, technique and personality, double-check that the one you interview and click with will be the same one who works your wedding. Also, include specific stipulations in the contract about who will cover for the photographer should something happen on the actual day. Check whether they will bring any assistants to your wedding, and if so, how many? If you have room in your budget, consider hiring a second shooter. Many top-notch photographers already include this in the contract, but if yours doesn’t, you may want to ask about the possibility. The main benefit to having two photographers, of course, is that you get twice as much coverage. For example, during your formal photo session, one photographer can capture the formal photos, while the second one can get behind-the-scenes, shots, like of guests mingling. If you’re having a large wedding (250 guests or more), you might even ask about using three shooters so the event can be captured from all angles. >>
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compare packages You won’t be able to nail down an exact dollar amount until you’re sure of how many hours of coverage you want and how many albums you need. Packages typically range from $2,500 all the way up to $15,000-plus for a high-profile photographer. Ask about what’s included in the standard package and the price of any extras you may want, like an engagement shoot, for example. In particular, find out exactly how many hours of coverage are included. Ideally, you want your shooter there for the entire day, from when you’re getting ready to after you’ve made your grand exit from the reception. While packages vary, most include about 6 to 12 hours to cover everything from preceremony primping through your final farewell. If you’re on the fence about booking them for a longer period, err on the side of caution and go for it if your budget allows—overtime is usually charged at a higher hourly rate.
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ask about your rights Most contracts stipulate that the photographer owns the rights to all photos taken at the wedding, even the ones of you. In other words, they can use them for promotional purposes. That also means that you can’t just post the digital proofs they send you—most photographers have a policy that you can only share watermarked images or images that include their credit. Also, unless you negotiate otherwise, if you want to print the photos yourselves or order an album from another source, you’ll have to buy the image rights.
get the postproduction details It usually takes at least a month, if not two, to get photo proofs back. Why? Your photographer is working with enormous files far bigger than your typical JPEG. Shooting raw files gives your photographer greater ability to correct photos, but it also takes a longer time to upload, process and edit them. It varies, but many photographers estimate an additional 40 hours spent editing images from a single wedding. Here’s what to ask: How many photos should I expect? Will they be high or low resolution? Will I be able to print them myself, or does the photographer retain the rights? Will the proofs I see be the retouched versions, or does that happen after I select the photos I want? Also ask about retouching options and special effects, which can range from light beauty retouching to stylized art effects like super-saturated colors, and the additional cost for both. —Special thanks to Duke Photography, Todd France, Jen Kroll Photography, Salvatore Cincotta Photography and Mel Barlow & Co.
need to know: photo contract checklist Mark these off to make sure your contract is airtight. All addresses, dates and starting times are listed Estimated number of hours to be worked Name of the photographer(s) Name of acceptable substitute(s) N umber of cameras that will be used and which formats (digital or film) N umber of photos to be shot (including color and black and white) N umber of proofs you’ll receive and in what format you’ll receive them Number of prints included O ther package details: number of completed albums, special-request shots Dates for proof/final package delivery Copyright details Detailed shot list you’ve agreed to Timing for breaks (schedule during dinner to avoid missing dance floor shots) Dress code stipulations (optional) Total cost D eposit amount and date paid Remaining balance and due date Any overtime, refund and cancellation policies
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A wedding video will capture every moment of your day. It’s something you’ll cherish for years to come (and something you’ll want to watch over and over). So how do you go about hiring the right person for this important task? Read on to find out. >> PHOTOGRAPHY BY OUR LABOR OF LOVE
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Guess what: A funny thing happened on the way to the wedding— and that’s exactly why you’re hiring a videographer. Your photos and video are the record of the laughs, tears, hugs and toasts that are bound to take place throughout your wedding day. Here’s everything you need to know to book the right pro for the job.
do we need to hire a videographer? Photographers should always be on a must-hire list (and rightfully so), while videographers are sometimes considered less of a priority. But consider this: Yes, your photographer will immortalize much of your wedding day, but think of the songs, speeches and other memorable moments that can’t be captured in a photo. If your budget allows for both vendors, it’s worth the investment.
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Start your search by asking friends and family for any recommendations they may have—a thumbs-up from someone you trust is the most reliable way for you to begin looking for your videographer. After you’ve compiled a list of vendors that have potential, go online and browse their portfolios and websites. The sample clips will obviously be the best of their best—it might be tough to judge the breadth of their skill from these highlights, but you can get a good sense of their style. Also check the videographers’ blogs: These are a great way to gauge their talents and how they approach their art.
do our videographer and photographer have to get along? While they don’t have to be besties, it’s a plus if you can find camera pros who have worked together before. A bigger concern would be if they have worked together with disastrous results— you don’t want to have vendors at odds with each other when they need to cooperate to get the same shots. One way to guarantee a good tandem is to hire a local studio that does both photo and video, or simply ask your photographer if they can recommend a top-notch videographer.
what about their personality—does it matter? Just as important as their skill is how well you get along with the videographer. You should feel comfortable with the person you choose to shoot your wedding—in fact, these vendors often like to get to know their clients on a personal level. Considering they will spend numerous hours with you on your wedding day, you don’t want someone following you around who makes you uncomfortable. And remember: If you don’t like your videographer, chances are your friends and family won’t either, so find someone who will mesh well with your whole crew. >>
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why hire a videographerphotographer team? Choose a duo to tag team your celebration.
you may get a better deal
Working with a photographer and a videographer from the same company may be more cost-efficient than hiring two pros from different vendors. Plus, you’ll save time by meeting with both of them at once (or at least one right after the other in the same office).
you’ll get a cohesive look
Various artists will always have their own “look,” but professionals that have worked together on previous weddings, or always choose to work together, will likely have perfected a complementary, seamless style that will come through in the finished products.
they won’t fight for position
If you have two pros with two entirely different agendas, they might jockey for position during your ceremony or reception and get in each other’s way. This can make for a tense atmosphere—and subpar pictures and video.
they’ll edit together too
Your photographer can easily pass still images to the videographer for use in your wedding film. Not only will this probably produce a better product (two sets of eyes are better than one), you may get your film faster, since they’re working together toward a common goal.
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we’re worried our shooters will bring too much equipment. is this a common problem? Good news—you can ignore every cliché you’ve heard about videographers hauling around tons of clunky equipment— new advances in technology over the last few years have made wedding videography less obtrusive than ever. Small cameras that shoot great in low light and tiny wireless microphones mean videographers can take a fly-on-the-wall approach. In fact, more couples are hiring videographers to accompany them to their destination wedding because of the smaller size of their equipment. Like your photographer, you can expect your videographer to use some extra lighting, especially if your ceremony space is dim or your reception takes place at night.
what should I ask when I interview a potential videographer? After you’ve narrowed down the list to three or four candidates, set up interviews. When you interview videographers, ask to see 20 or 30 minutes of a video rather than a five-minute highlight reel (clips only tell a portion of the story). When you’re watching, pay close attention to the quality of the video and the audio, as well as how smoothly the transitions are edited.
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should we make a must-shoot list? Don’t worry about reminding your video pros to document the classic scenes—they’ve likely shot countless weddings before and will definitely capture the vow exchange, cake cutting and your first dance. What you should give a heads up about, however, are the key people to shoot (like your grandparents or the ring bearer) and any special traditions or unique details you’re including in the celebration.
are there any new video trends? One notable advance is the increasing number of videographers who have upgraded their equipment to be able to shoot in highdefinition. Some couples add special effects in postproduction, like a Super 8 effect, which has a warm, grainy appearance and a vintage, romantic feel. For the social media savvy, request an additional, shorter cut of your wedding video—a sort of highlights reel—to make it more sharable on social platforms. A super-techy trend is 360-degree video live streaming (perfect if any friends or family can’t make it). Many video pros now include 360-degree wedding services, making this high-tech amenity more accessible. Find local videographers at TheKnot.com/marketplace
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You want your wedding music to hit just the right note, from the processional to the last dance, so it’s important to know all the facts before planning the perfect song list. >> BY LAUREN KAY
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you’ll need music before your walk down the aisle This is easy to forget. Your bridal party has compiled a playlist of getting-ready music no doubt, so do your part and remember the guests who will be awaiting your grand entrance. Same goes for cocktail hour, when you may be having pictures taken. At a celebration, silence is never golden.
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Choosing your first dance song is a big deal. You want something that will perfectly reflect you as a couple. Sounds tough, right? Try out a few different options and settle on one that resonates with both of you. Or if you really can’t seem to compromise, have your DJ or band create a custom mash-up of your two favorite tunes.
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you’ll feel like your first dance should be over one minute in You may have fallen in love to “Free Bird” but a nine-minute ballad is going to be painful to dance to, just the two of you. One minute is like an eternity when it comes to the first dance, so choose a song that clocks in at under four minutes. If you have your heart set on something longer, look into having it cut. You’ll thank us later. >>
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just because your friend plays the violin doesn’t mean she wants to play it during your wedding ceremony If you want your friend (who must be an invited guest) to participate in your nuptials, ask her nicely and give her an easy out so she doesn’t feel obligated. Put yourself in her shoes—it’s hard to say no to a friend. If she does agree, allow plenty of practice time leading up to your wedding and the morning of so she feels comfortable during your ceremony.
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you’ll rush to dance lessons every monday night for weeks There’s a chance you’ll get talked into dance lessons (by a recently married friend, your future mother-in-law or your soon-to-be-spouse). If you have the time and budget, go for it! Even if you loathe dancing, you’ll spend time locking eyes with your other half—not bad at all. It may become your favorite part of planning.
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You may both be ’80s fanatics, but five full hours of Duran Duran can be too much for even the most adoring fans. Be kind to your guests (and their ears) when developing your playlist. And keep your song choices PG-13 (profanity won’t go over well with the flower girl’s mom). PHOTOS BY DAN GELDART @ FIFTYONE4 PHOTOGRAPHY
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you’ll want to be the DJ You’ve hired a professional, so let them do their job. Create a must-play list of about 10 songs and a do-not-play list for your DJ or bandleader. Then, trust them to guide the music while you tear up the dance floor. F ind your band or DJ at TheKnot.com/music
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the best new classic first-dance songs These hits are the perfect starting points for your song search.
“a thousand years,” christina perri LYRICS YOU’LL LOVE Darling, don’t be afraid/I have loved you/For a thousand years/I’ll love you for a thousand more
“amazed,” lonestar LYRICS YOU’LL LOVE I don’t know how you do what you do/I’m so in love with you/It just keeps getting better
“steady as we go,” dave matthews band LYRICS YOU’LL LOVE In the darkest times/You shine on me/You set me free/And keep me steady as we go
“you are the best thing,” ray lamontagne
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LYRICS YOU’LL LOVE The way you move me, it’s crazy/It’s like you see right
“the way i am,” ingrid michaelson LYRICS YOU’LL LOVE If you were falling, then I would catch you/You need a light/I’d find a match/’Cause I love the way you say good morning/And you take me the way I am
“come away with me,” norah jones LYRICS YOU’LL LOVE Come away with me and we’ll kiss/On a mountaintop/Come away with me/And I’ll never stop loving you
“i won’t give up,” jason mraz LYRICS YOU’LL LOVE I won’t give up on us/Even if the skies get rough/I’m giving you all my love/I’m still looking up
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musician options for your ceremony These pros can bring your ceremony to life.
blues guitarist The sound of a slide guitar creates an allAmerican, down-to-earth atmosphere. Hire one to play a mix of blues, jazz and American classics.
jazz combo Have a trio, duet or singer-andstanding-bass duet add some soul to your ceremony.
string quartet Strings are perfect for classical compositions. They can also add romantic elegance to more
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flutist Usually paired with a piano or string instrument, the flute is both romantic and peaceful.
harpist The ideal choice for a small, romantic ceremony or springtime vows in a garden. For larger affairs, hire two.
vocalist/choir Hymn, gospel and opera singers offer a wide array of feelings for the various ceremony stages.
keyboardist A classical pianist or organist can do it all, from soothing preceremony tunes to upbeat recessional music.
trumpeter A soloist or a horn combo can add either regal solemnity or upbeat rhythms to your ceremony.
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The biggest mistakes wedding guests make— and how to deal when they happen to you. In the course of wedding planning, you’ll probably come across a guest or two whose inappropriate actions, odd requests or rude behavior seems appalling. Don’t be shocked. While you may know the ins and outs of wedding etiquette, some of your friends and family members may not. What can you do? Be proactive—here’s how. >>
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From plotting your seating chart to giving the caterer a final head count, it’s hard to proceed without a firm grasp of who’s coming. Unfortunately, some of your guests may treat the RSVP as a novelty rather than a necessity. HOW TO DEAL Give it a week. After that, call them. Recruit your maid of honor to help you with phone duties if you’re struggling with missing RSVPs. Or, better yet, send out a group email (use a blind CC) saying you need to know by a specific day if they can attend. Keep the tone nice, but firm. Then, call those who don’t reply to the email (hard to believe, but it does happen). WAY TO AVOID Make the reply-by date as early as possible, say, two weeks from the date you intend to mail the invitations. That way, when guests see the deadline is quickly approaching, they’ll (hopefully) stick the reply card in the mail right then and there. WHAT THEY DID
sending rsvps with extra guests The good news is the guest has returned the RSVP. The bad news is she’d love to attend—with a person you never invited, maybe never even heard of. Whether she believes every invite bestows the right to bring a date, or a child, adding an extra name to the RSVP puts everyone in an awkward position. HOW TO DEAL To avoid potential hurt feelings, establish a no-exceptions guest list policy (significant others only if engaged; no children under 18). Then, call the misguided guest to explain, apologize for the misunderstanding and tell her that unfortunately the limitations (a small reception space or a tight budget) require a strict guest list. WHAT THEY DID
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Tell your parents, wedding party and other close relatives and friends so they can spread the word when asked. And, of course, address your invitations in a direct manner (don’t write “Smith Family” unless they really are all invited).
WAY TO AVOID
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s howing up late You know how some people show up late to movies because they know there’ll be 20 minutes of trailers? Some guests may have a similar notion for your ceremony. (We’ve all seen at least one late guest stroll in directly behind the bride!) HOW TO DEAL For those who are really late, ask an usher or your day-of coordinator to hang out near the rear of the ceremony site so they can make sure your processional goes undisturbed, and to have them help any late guest quickly and quietly find a seat. WAY TO AVOID Give yourself a slight buffer for your friends and family who are never quite on time. If your invites say the ceremony begins at 5:30 p.m., plan on walking down the aisle about 15 minutes after that. WHAT THEY DID
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You can’t be anything but gracious for any gift. While they’re typically expected, wedding gifts are technically not required. If someone has eschewed the registry and bought you a present you definitely know you won’t use, check whether they sent it with the receipt. If so, they may have realized their gift might not exactly be your style, and it’s fine to return the present. Otherwise, write a thank-you note for their thoughtful gesture, and keep the gift for as long as you can stand having it around. WAY TO AVOID Register for items at an off-the-beaten path store, like a local museum shop or a boutique home store, that offers unique gift options. That way, the guest has a chance to get you something a bit more personal.
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calling the couple As soon as they received the invite to your wedding, the phone calls began. Some guests are treating you like their concierge, with questions about transportation and fun things to do and see while they’re in town for the celebration. HOW TO DEAL Make sure every guest has all the info they need by creating your own wedding website at TheKnot.com/pwp. Include a link to the hotel where you’ve reserved a block of rooms, local attractions and restaurants, and driving directions. For an extra-personal touch, put together a fun welcome basket for out-of-towners with the full weekend itinerary. WAY TO AVOID There’s a good chance some technophobes will still pester you with questions. Go over the guest list with both sets of parents, and decide which key invitees, if any, are not likely to check your website. Help them—and yourself—by printing out a copy of the info listed on the site and mailing it to them.
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bringing a big, heavy gift It doesn’t sound so bad: Someone brought a huge gift to the venue. While you can’t complain about receiving presents, they can be a pain to lug home. HOW TO DEAL Ask an attendant to store gifts in one place—preferably a locked, separate room in your reception space—so nothing gets left behind. At the end of the evening, that person can account for all gifts and take them to the most convenient location (probably someone’s home). WAY TO AVOID Online registries have made it easier than ever to send gifts anywhere. Promote this gifting tool by including links on your wedding website. WHAT THEY DID
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Ceremonies . Receptions . Special Events Historic event space in Liberty featuring hardwood floors, vintage pressed-tin ceilings, and bride and groom suites.
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requesting songs You’ve worked with your band or DJ to put together the perfect soundtrack for your evening. All of a sudden, “Y.M.C.A.” starts playing and it seems that your Aunt Margie is behind it. HOW TO DEAL Requests from your guests may be inevitable, and if your band or DJ thinks it’s appropriate for the atmosphere, they might play them. And it might be okay—you can’t control everything about your wedding or reception. But if you’re still fuming from the faux pas, talk to the bandleader or DJ immediately afterward and tell them that you would prefer to avoid any requests. WAY TO AVOID Give your band or DJ a list of songs that you don’t want to hear at the reception. If you’re worried your strictly Motown playlist will be disrupted by someone’s insistence on hearing his favorite Bon Jovi tune, it’s okay to let your band or DJ know that guests’ song requests should be politely declined. WHAT THEY DID
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Beautiful rustic charm for your dream wedding The historic Thompson Estate and Barn was built in 1885
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A few too many signature cocktails turned one of your guests from the life of the party into a bit of a mess. HOW TO DEAL Don’t turn a blind eye to someone who’s had too much to drink. If there’s any risk that the guest will try to drive, ask your planner, a responsible attendant, friend or family member to both call a cab, and to make sure the guest takes the ride. WAY TO AVOID While you can’t necessarily limit the number of drinks each guest consumes, you can grant the bartender permission to cut off anyone who has had one too many. It’s also helpful to keep guests hydrated. WHAT THEY DID
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the new rules of wedding etiquette Here’s how to avoid these common faux pas. WAIT TO PUBLICLY POST YOUR CONGRATULATIONS If the couple hasn’t made the announcement, then you shouldn’t spill the big news for them. It’s exciting when you’re the first to find out your best friend or sister is getting married, but hold off on the public congrats until they’re ready to share the news themselves. PRIVATE MESSAGE ANY WEDDING QUESTIONS If you want to discuss wedding plans with the bride or groom, it’s polite to do it in a private way. The couple may have hundreds of Facebook friends who
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SHARE PICS OF THE NEWLYWEDS It’s great that you want to show what an amazing wedding the couple threw and Instagram their over-the-top cake and beautiful flowers, but respect their request if they ask you not to post photos before they do. Some couples may want to wait to share details of the wedding until they have photos from their professional photographer, or might opt for an unplugged wedding, so you should respect their choice. If you’re worried about whether you’re in the clear with posting photos, then wait until a close friend or family member of the couple does so first. Then you’ll know it’s okay to post away.
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an invitation means you can bring a date Unless your wedding invitation includes a phrase like “and guest,” don’t assume you get a plus-one. Couples are often working within certain restrictions, and expanding their guest list might not be an option.
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the bride is your point person for all questions Not sure where they’re registered for gifts? Wondering about transportation? Find out if the couple has a wedding website, which could have all the info you need.
the couple is responsible for your accommodations No matter how far you’ve traveled, the couple isn’t required to pay for your hotel—or let you crash on their couch. Many couples will reserve hotel room blocks to get a good rate for out-oftowners, but don’t expect them to foot the bill. If you’re not sure where to stay, ask a member of the bridal party for recommendations.
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Ready to enjoy your new married life together and try out all those fun gifts from your registry? Not so fast! There are still some things to check off first. >> BY JAMIE MILES PHOTOGRAPH BY JOSE VILLA
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Welcome back from your honeymoon! Hopefully you’ve fully recovered from the excitement and stress of planning your wedding with a romantic trip for two. Although you may be feeling relaxed and rejuvenated—hooray—you have a few more wedding todos. More likely than not, you still have a lineup of important postwedding tasks to tackle. Take a look at our list of the top to-dos for after the honeymoon so you can finally enjoy just being married—and being checklist free.
write a review While it’s still fresh in your mind, take the time to review all of the wedding pros who worked hard to make your vision come together. We’re talking everyone from your planner, florist, venue and photographer down to your hairstylist, DJ or band, and even the crafty designer who made your ring pillow. You know by now how important reviews are to the overall planning process— your experience can help other to-be-weds along their planning journey. So take the time to offer these newly engaged couples insight and reward all your fabulous vendors by leaving reviews.
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clean and store your gown Have your dress dry-cleaned within six months of your wedding. And we say the sooner, the better. (It’s a cinch with a bridal gown preservation kit like the one from Prestige Preservation, who sends you a kit with everything you need to securely ship your wedding dress.) It’s super important to hire a service that specializes in wedding dresses so they use the right solvents. Make sure they stuff it with acid-free tissue, avoid any metal pins or buckles, and store it in a box. Once it’s back home with you, place it in a cool, dry place, like an outof-the-way closet, and avoid the damp, musty basement.
send thank-you notes You should plan to mail your thank-you notes within two months of your wedding. Give yourself a head start by writing notes as soon as gifts arrive (you’ll thank us later). Try setting a goal, like 10 a night, and crank them out during commercial breaks while watching The Bachelor or while dinner’s in the oven. Divvy up the project with your spouse and the job will be half as daunting. But no matter who writes the actual notes, you should both sign each one. Save yourself a hand cramp by printing out addresses and return address labels if you can—plus, it’ll look neater.
tackle registry returns Stop trying to convince yourself that two blenders may actually come in handy someday—just bite the bullet and return any registry items within two months of your wedding date. While stores are likely to be lenient with the couples who’ve registered with them, each store will have a different return policy, so research which one will accept what, and for how long. >>
how to write a truly helpful review Follow these tips to create a review other couples can really use.
Describing someone as “totally amazing” or “just terrible” doesn’t really say much. You also want to include specific examples that show why. Did your photographer get your one-year-old niece to stop crying? Did your baker use the wrong filling with no explanation? Did your florist surprise your grandma with a special corsage? Incorporate these anecdotes.
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To give other brides the full picture of the pro you’re reviewing, try to include one or two points about something that bothered you—even if it’s something minor (they’re human too!). And same goes for a pro who left you less than impressed—but try to recall at least one good thing if you can. It’s important to give to-be-weds a good idea of the pro’s personality either way.
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Your wedding professional isn’t alone in this—you (and your partner) are part of the equation too. Things you did or said, both good and bad, could have affected the way your pro handled your event. Include honest details relevant to your particular situation that you think would be helpful for other couples to know before choosing to go with the same pro.
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change your name (if you’ve decided to) If you do choose to change your name, it’s a good idea to change all of your IDs within 90 days of getting married. This includes your driver’s license, passport, Social Security card and credit cards. Don’t know where to begin? Save some time and effort by fast-tracking everything with HitchSwitch.com.
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order your wedding photos On your first anniversary, wouldn’t you love to watch your wedding video and flip through your album? Don’t put off your photo selection and video requests too long. Most photographers and videographers issue a standard contract that gives you six months to a year to select album photos and edit footage for your video. If you don’t, you may have to pay extra.
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sort out finances You likely had the “money talk” long before you said “I do,” but now’s the time to merge accounts if you choose to. If so, head to the bank to fill out the necessary paperwork and get new debit cards and checks made.
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name change 101 Six steps to changing your name, plus one idea for making it all super easy. Just because you two are hitched doesn’t mean you’ve officially changed your name—that’s just the first step. See what other to-dos you need to check off below: et your marriage G license (you’ll need an original, certified one to complete the next steps in the process). pdate your Social U Security card. You can fill out an application on the Social Security Administration website, SSA.gov.
Time to check off a new (married) box on your tax forms. Now that you and your spouse are a legal unit, you need to decide whether you’re going to file together or continue to file separately (joint filing isn’t something mandated by law, though it’s generally recommended). Before deciding, consult your accountant to see what he or she advises for the two of you. Do this ASAP.
hange your license C at the DMV. Be sure to have other forms of ID, such as your marriage license and your new Social Security card.
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hange your bank C account. You can do this at a local branch. Bring your new license and marriage certificate.
Most newlyweds switch their spouse to their beneficiary on work and life insurance docs. Call your insurance company and talk with your HR department to get these forms. Think about whose health insurance plan you’ll use by comparing the cost and treatment options. If you’re the one making the switch, make sure the doctors you like are on the new plan. Get all of your postwedding questions answered at TheKnot.com
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the little nell, aspen, colorado No matter what season it is, there are a ton of activities happening at The Little Nell. In winter, you and your ladies can take a Snowcat Powder Tour ($410 per person) to explore Aspen Mountain, with lunch and a massage included. And for any skiers, the hotel’s Ski Concierge is at the ready to warm your boots, give lessons and fuel you up with fresh coffee and pastries. In warmer months, take in the gorgeous scenery with one of its popular Ride & Dine Dinner Series ($250 per person), where guests bike to a unique outdoor destination and enjoy an alfresco dinner with fresh, locally sourced ingredients. THE DIGS A luxury suite ranges from $1,075 per night in the low season to $6,300 per night in the high season.
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Two things are important to remember for your bachelorette party. One: You should do what you want to do! If a spa weekend sans alcohol sounds better than partying in Vegas, relay this to your bridesmaids. Two: Do consider your girls’ pocketbooks. They’ll be the ones paying for most costs, after all.
grand oasis tulum, quintana roo, mexico If you wish you had a glam room of your own, the Grand Oasis Tulum will give you that and more for an A-list celeb feel for your bachelorette party. To fully enjoy the getting-ready process, the resort’s new 1,300-square-foot bridal suite provides a six-inch platform, mirror and spotlight so you can see every inch of yourselves before the big girls’ night out. There are two large bathrooms so the bridal party can spread out—one of them located in the makeup room is complete with mirrors, dressers, special lighting and plenty of outlets and counter space. Views of the Caribbean Sea and plush robes and slippers don’t hurt either. And don’t forget about the oceanfront infinity pool. THE DIGS Bridal suite rates start at $244 per person, based on a double occupancy. >> THE AMENITIES
coral sands hotel, harbour island, bahamas Coral Sands’s two-story gym facility with ocean views for days is perfect for a little bridal boot camp fun as well as relaxation. Private yoga classes ($125 per person, per hour) and the latest in fitness machines and gear can be followed by relaxing in-room massages, or a beach picnic ($28 per person) and boat ride ($100 per hour) to snorkel and tan at nearby islands like North Eleuthera or Man Island, all arranged by the hotel staff. But as for our favorite free (and social-media-worthy) amenity? Pale-pink sand as far as the eye can see. THE DIGS A one-bedroom oceanfront cottage ranges from $800 per night in the low season to $1,375 per night in the high season. THE AMENITIES
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place than the Marriott Napa Valley Hotel & Spa for its Toast the Bride package. Get pampered with a signature mani-pedi, hair and makeup treatments, and then have an outdoor garden-to-table lunch with a reserve bottle of wine. For an additional $20 daily destination amenity fee, your group can also enjoy culinary garden tours with wine, yoga classes, Preserve Spa access, bicycles and more. The resort-style pool is a can’t-miss too. THE DIGS Guest room rates are subject to availability and range from $199 to $399; package prices start at $299 per person.
kimpton seafire resort & spa, grand cayman, cayman islands It’s easy to get used to island life at the Kimpton Seafire Resort + Spa, which has stunning views of Grand Cayman’s famous Seven Mile Beach. Its concierge team will greet you with chilled champagne and help set up your complimentary car service to Camana Bay, a private sunset cocktail service, and dinner at Ave, the hotel’s main restaurant, which only has 12 seats at a chef’s bar. You and your ladies can also explore with complimentary bikes, relax in your daily reserved cabana, and get certified to spearfish— and make fish tacos with your catch of the day. THE DIGS Oceanfront bungalow suites start at $2,500 per night. THE AMENITIES
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hotel indigo lower east side, manhattan, new york Residents of New York City may complain about space—but you and your bridal party won’t have any complaints while you’re in the Hotel Indigo Lower East Side Duplex Penthouse. Spacious enough to accommodate 30 people, it’s the perfect place in a hot spot area for bridal parties to relax and enjoy the city sights with three outdoor terraces and skyline views. The Penthouse has two full bedrooms, three spa bathrooms, a kitchenette and living room with floor-to-ceiling windows. Planning Big Apple nuptials? The hotel’s Wedding Premium Package includes champagne, snacks, a full-length mirror, rolling rack and two makeup chairs, making getting ready on the day of stress free. THE DIGS Penthouse rates start at $3,000 per night. >> THE AMENITIES
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unico hotel riviera maya, riviera maya, mexico This hotel is perfect for the bachelorette party that doesn’t want to stick to an itinerary. With an all-inclusive experience (food, alcoholic and nonalcoholic beverages, golf, spa and salon treatments, on- and off-property excursions and more) that includes a dedicated host for the group to tailor everyone’s experience based on their interests, UNICO Hotel Riviera Maya is all about spontaneous fun and has something for everyone. There’s even a Chefs on Rotation restaurant for foodies seeking different local flavors for a unique culinary experience, and cuisine, shopping and party pop-up events to take guests by surprise so they can further explore everything the region has to offer. THE DIGS Guest room rates are $350 per person, per night based on double occupancy. This includes the full all-inclusive offering. THE AMENITIES
monarch beach resort, dana point, california Rest and relaxation is the name of the game at the Monarch Beach Resort. Indulge at Miraval Life in Balance Spa with a Sea Salt Serenity treatment ($375), Drybar blowout, and manicure and pedicure at the Deborah Lippmann Nail Suite. Afterward, enjoy an ocean-view afternoon tea ($50 per person, $60 with prosecco and $70 with champagne) in one of the hotel’s five new dining concepts. But if it’s the California saltwater you’re after, tap one of the hotel’s Surf Hosts to take private one-on-one surf lessons ($150) and have them set up your crew’s lounge chairs, umbrellas and towels. And if your girls are golfers, go check out the Monarch Beach Golf Links ($129-$259), an award-winning, championship 18-hole golf course. THE DIGS Guest room rates start at $395.
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hilton west palm beach, west palm beach, florida Florida is synonymous with fun in the sun, and the new Hilton West Palm Beach delivers just that. Bachelorette parties can enjoy pool parties (with pool floats—rainbow unicorn, anyone?) followed by glow-in-the-dark lawn games like cornhole and bocce ball, or go on a personalized scavenger hunt ($75 per person) throughout West Palm Beach with a pregame at Galley, the hotel’s nautical-inspired bar. If you’d rather just check out local bars, head there in a party bus ($25 per person). And if you have a little too much fun, the hotel’s PHD team, aka Professional Hydrating Doctors, can cure hangovers with a special food and beverage menu for the morning after. THE DIGS King-size bedroom rates start at $124 per night. THE AMENITIES
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With more than two million listings worldwide in over 191 countries, it’s not hard to find the home of your dreams for a girls’ retreat. Let’s put it this way: Over 1,400 listings alone are castles. You can also stay in lighthouses, tree houses, horse ranches, windmills, private islands, retro trailers and much, much more. Airbnb.com
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GRAND CAYMAN WHY GO Besides its famed
Seven Mile Beach, Grand Cayman has a following for its underwater thrills. Snorkelers and scuba divers are stoked by the water’s good visibility, warm temps, coral reefs and choice of about 240 dive sites. WHERE TO STAY Hang your flippers at The Westin Grand Cayman Seven Mile Beach Resort & Spa. It has top dive-operator Red Sail Sports
on-site, and snorkelers can see some colorful fish right off the beach. Set up the hotel’s honeymoon registry to score your excursions as wedding gifts (from $239 per night, WestinGrandCayman.com). HOW TO SPEND YOUR ISLAND TIME Raise your adrenaline with a dive around the USS Kittiwake, a rescueship-turned-dive-attraction sunk just off Seven Mile Beach.
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JAMAICA WHY GO Even with tourist
crowds and big resorts, this laid-back country’s colorful soul always shines through. The friendly locals, traditional street food, reggae music and abundance of natural assets keep Jamaica’s authentic rhythm on repeat. WHERE TO STAY Built on Negril’s cliffs, the boho-chic, 34-room Rockhouse is both architecturally stunning and big on embracing local culture and the community (the property’s foundation supports area educational projects that guests can visit). Plus, it can
brag that Bob Marley was once a guest. Don’t leave without a couple’s aromatherapy soak in its Holistic Bath House (stand-alone villas from $195 per night, Rockhouse.com). HOW TO SPEND YOUR ISLAND TIME You’ll do as Jamaicans do when you feast on amazing jerk chicken and jam to live reggae at the hotel’s seaside Pushcart Restaurant & Rum Bar. Climbing waterfalls is another island custom. Take a refreshing guided walk up Mayfield Falls, which tends to be less touristy than Jamaica’s other popular falls.
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let the planning begin! Here’s what to do, when, on your way to the altar.
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Think about when and where you’d like to have your wedding (the question everyone will ask about 20 minutes after you get engaged).
Plan the ceremony with your officiant; it’s the reason you’re having this party, so don’t wait too long. Discuss religious requirements, like premarital counseling.
Nail down a budget and go to TheKnot .com/budget. We’ll help you figure out how much you should spend on flowers, stationery and your day-of looks.
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Find a stationer and order your savethe-dates. This is really happening!
Reserve hotel room blocks. Book them on HiSkipper.com/weddings/TheKnot. Decide whom you want to officiate your ceremony and book him or her. Create a “look fab” plan, including facials, teeth whitening and haircuts. Start your wedding website to keep guests in the know. Include important info—such as hotel room blocks and transportation options—and some fun details too. Create a free customizable one at TheKnot.com/pwp.
Choose the formalwear and give groomsmen instructions about what to wear.
Propose to your bridesmaids and groomsmen to see if they’re up for being in your wedding party. Book your photographer, florist, musicians, cake baker and other pros. If there’s no in-house caterer, interview candidates and select one. Send out your save-the-dates.
Start searching for the dress. Get the ring appraised and then insured ASAP. (Trust us—this is one to-do you don’t want to delay.)
Book your honeymoon. Thinking about Hawaii? Europe? Check out our fave trips at TheKnot.com/honeymoons.
Register at TheKnot.com/registry, and then put the links on your wedding website. Order the gown and veil and schedule fittings for six weeks and one to two weeks before the wedding. Choose the bridesmaid dresses and have bridesmaids order them.
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Iron out the rehearsal dinner details, like the time and location. Order invitations and thank-you notes. Reserve venues for the welcome party, after-party and next-day brunch. Book a day-of coordinator (if you don’t have a full-service planner and a day-of planner isn’t included with your venue). Schedule beauty trials and book hairstylists and makeup artists. Buy any special lingerie. Purchase wedding insurance (if you’re planning on getting it). >>
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DATE: ______ /______ /______
DATE: ______ /______ /______
Finalize your flower proposal with your florist. Will you go with roses or ranunculus, gerbera daisies or gardenias? Address your invitations or hand them off to your calligrapher. Finalize the rental list (tables, chairs) with the caterer or rental company.
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Mail your wedding invitations at the six- to eight-week mark. RSVPs should be due one month before the wedding. Work on your ceremony vows, especially if you’re writing them yourselves.
Buy wedding day accessories. Think: shoes, purse and jewelry.
Purchase presents for your parents, attendants and each other (you deserve it after all this planning).
Schedule dance lessons (worth it if your first dance is already stressing you out).
Order or start making your ceremony programs.
Complete your cake order—and order the groom’s cake, if you’re having one.
Buy your guest book, a nice pen and any supplies you’ll need for your escort card display.
Purchase or rent ceremony decorations, like an aisle runner or program basket.
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Compile a must-take photo list for your shooter. Keep it under a dozen so you get the shots you really want. Check off your “something old, new, borrowed and blue.” Put together a day-of emergency kit (bandages, deodorant, fashion tape, concealer).
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Confirm your hotel room blocks.
Buy wedding rings—yes, it’s totally normal to freak out (in a good way) in the store.
Finish assembling ceremony programs or pick them up from your stationer or printer.
Order wedding favors—go to TheKnotShop.com.
Put together welcome baskets for out-of-town guests.
Arrange day-of transportation for yourselves and the wedding party.
Send out your invites for the rehearsal dinner. Buy some fun books and new clothes for your honeymoon. >>
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Have a blast at your shower and bachelor or bachelorette party. Finalize your playlist with your band or DJ. Figure out how to get a local marriage license—you need one to make it legit.
Go to the first dress fitting— bring shoes and undergarments.
Write thank-you notes for gifts as they arrive (you’ll thank us later).
Finalize the menu with your caterer.
Finalize your ceremony with your officiant.
Create a timeline for the weekend and share it with your attendants, planner and photographer.
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DATE: ______ /______ /______
DATE: ______ /______ /______
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Missing RSVPs? Follow up now. Once you’ve got your final head count, share it with the caterer, cake baker and site manager. Give your caterer the final seating chart (and have a glass of bubbly to celebrate finishing this puzzle). Pass on requests from your pros, like a table for the DJ, to the site manager.
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Pack an overnight bag for the wedding night (include outfits for any day-after events, like a good-bye brunch). Leave a copy of your honeymoon itinerary with your family and other important people, like your pet sitter. Steam the dress or suit if wrinkled. Touch base with the ceremony and reception sites one more time to go over the schedule and any important details.
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Eat breakfast. You may forget to eat later— even if that never happens to you.
Plan the processional/recessional. Give gifts to your parents and each other. Confirm last-minute details, like flower and cake deliveries and when you’re meeting your photographer. Deliver welcome bags to out-of-town guests’ hotels (the staff will usually hand them out at check-in).
Go to the last dress fitting (and get butterflies thinking about the next time the gown will be worn).
postwedding to-dos DATE: ______ /______ /______
Confirm all final payment amounts, details and deliveries with your pros. Double-check the day-of schedule and contact list; distribute to wedding party, parents and pros. Write your toasts. Pick up your marriage license (the most fun you can have at a government office). Give a “must-play” or “don’t-play” song list to the DJ or bandleader. Include your first, father-daughter and mother-son dances. Get a final hair trim and color touch-up. Arrange transportation for out-of-town guests who aren’t renting cars. Give tips for your pros to an attendant or planner to distribute.
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Freeze the top layer of your cake (you’ll be shocked that it’s still pretty tasty on your one-year anniversary). Have your dress and formalwear cleaned and/or preserved and return any rentals.
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Get a mani and pedi. Bring all ceremony accessories, like the unity candle, to the site. Give the marriage license to your officiant (this is one to-do you definitely don’t want to forget). Rehearse the ceremony and have dinner. Give your attendants their presents. And for goodness’ sake, get some rest. You’re the stars of the show tomorrow, remember?
Send your pros thank-you notes and submit online reviews at TheKnot.com/marketplace.
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Print or write your escort cards or send them to your calligrapher.
Hand off your wedding rings to the best man. Have him hold the officiant’s fee to deliver after the ceremony.
Thank your attendants for standing by you on the day—and during planning. Finish up thank-you notes for gifts. Changing your name? Streamline the entire process by going to HitchSwitch.com/TheKnot. Get more planning tips and to-dos at TheKnot.com/checklist
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Five new and noteworthy venues and services for your wedding day.
big cedar lodge
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With its rustic collection of log cabins, cottages and lodges, this recently renovated mountain resort is a remote, Instagram-worthy haven, thanks to its prime location overlooking 43,000-acre Table Rock Lake in Missouri’s Ozark Mountains. Recent enhancements to the lodge include the addition of the on-site Carriage House Cottage—an elegant space that boasts a private courtyard and quaint porch swing. Big Cedar’s intimate Spring View Lodge is also fully updated, along with the resort’s Ancient Ozarks Natural History Museum. Big Cedar Lodge also features four idyllic wedding chapels situated across the property, including the pastoral Hope Wilderness Chapel located at nearby Dogwood Canyon Nature Park. So convenient!
Stumped on what specific sips to serve during dinner? The pros at Kansas City, Missouri’s Brookside Wine & Spirits make the task of tackling your cocktail menu less daunting, thanks to delivery service and stress-free assistance, no matter the size of your celebration.
Serving as the Union Station Hotel lobby and lounge, this majestic, reimagined space features gold leaf detailing and towering, 65-foot-high ceilings. Wow up to 600 wedding guests with a reception in the exquisite space for a celebration they won’t soon forget.
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Vaulted ceilings, exposed brick walls and a 5,700-square-foot ballroom are just three reasons to book a tour at the brand-new Beck Event Space, a charming historic building that dates back to 1915. Located just 30 minutes south of downtown Kansas City, Missouri, the venue has a grand staircase, private bridal suite and enough room to host up to 400 guests.
Say “I do” at this brick-lined venue, located in the historic Kansas City, Missouri, West Bottoms. Hardwood floors, worn beams and rustic wood paneling lend a livedin look to the brand-new space, which features an open floor plan and string lights scattered throughout the room. Plus, all five-hour rentals include bar service and ample time to clean up post-party.
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make it legal Missouri & Kansas Marriage License Requirements GUIDELINES FOR OBTAINING A MARRIAGE LICENSE In the Greater Kansas City area, the legal age for marriage is 18 years old. Couples ages 15–17 must have parental consent. (Note: In Illinois, no one under 16 can be married.) In general, there are no blood tests or health requirements to obtain a legal license. In Missouri and Illinois, both parties must be present to apply for a license, and in Missouri you must provide a SSN and photo ID. In Kansas, either the bride or groom can apply; however, both the bride and groom must sign the form they take home. There is a three-day waiting period to obtain the license in Kansas. The license is then valid for just 30 days in Missouri and for six months in Kansas. There is a one-day waiting period in Illinois, and the license is valid for 60 days. The fee is around $50 in Missouri, $85 in Kansas and roughly $30 in Illinois. Check with your county for types of acceptable payment. All offices are open Monday through Friday. Please call ahead to get all the details. .
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Greene County
St. Louis County
Leavenworth County
Wyandotte County
Madison County
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Recorder of Deeds 940 Boonville Ave. Springfield, MO 65802 (417) 868-4068 8 a.m.–4:30 p.m.
Recorder of Deeds 41 S. Central Ave., 4th Fl. Clayton, MO 63105 (314) 615-7180 8 a.m.–5 p.m., M, W, F; 8 a.m.–6 p.m., T, Th.
Clerk of the District Court 601 S. 3rd St., Ste. 3051 Leavenworth, KS 66048 (913) 684-0707 8 a.m.–5 p.m.
District Court 710 N. 7th St. Kansas City, KS 66101 (913) 573-2834 8 a.m.–4:30 p.m.
County Clerk 157 N. Main St., Ste. 109 Edwardsville, IL 62025 (618) 692-6290 8:30 a.m.–4:30 p.m.
KANSAS
Miami County
ILLINOIS
Sangamon County
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District Court 120 S. Pearl St. Paola, KS 66071 (913) 294-3326 8 a.m.–4 p.m.
Boone County Recorder of Deeds 801 E. Walnut, Rm. 132 Columbia, MO 65201 (573) 886-4350 8 a.m.–5 p.m.
Cass County Recorder of Deeds 102 E. Wall St. Harrisonville, MO 64701 (816) 380-8123 8 a.m.–4 p.m.
Clay County Recorder of Deeds 1 Courthouse Sq. Liberty, MO 64068 (816) 407-3560 8 a.m.–4:30 p.m.
Clinton County
Recorder of Deeds 415 E. 12th St., Rm. 104 Kansas City, MO 64106 (816) 881-1577 8 a.m.–5 p.m.
Lafayette County County Recorder 1001 Main St., Rm. 207 Lexington, MO 64067 (660) 259-6178 8:30 a.m.–4:30 p.m.
Platte County Recorder’s Office 415 3rd St., Ste. 70 Platte City, MO 64079 (816) 858-3326 8 a.m.–4 p.m.
Douglas County Clerk of District Court 111 E. 11th St. Lawrence, KS 66044 (785) 832-5227 1 p.m.–4 p.m.
Jefferson County District Court 310 Jefferson St. Oskaloosa, KS 66066 (785) 863-2461 8 a.m.–4 p.m.
Johnson County
Effingham County
Sedgwick County District Court 525 N. Main St., Fl. 9 Wichita, KS 67203 (316) 660-5900 8 a.m.–4 p.m.
Shawnee County Clerk of District Court 200 SE 7th St., Rm. 209 Topeka, KS 66603 (785) 233-8200 8 a.m.–4 p.m.
County Clerk 101 N. 4th St. Effingham, IL 62401 (217) 342-6535 8 a.m.–4 p.m.
County Clerk’s Office 200 S. 9th St., Rm. 101 Springfield, IL 62701 (217) 753-6700 8:30 a.m.–5 p.m.
St. Clair County
Jackson County Clerk Office 1001 Walnut St., Fl. 1 Murphysboro, IL 62966 (618) 687-7360 8 a.m.–4 p.m.
Jefferson County County Clerk & Recorder 100 S. 10th St., Rm. 105 Mt. Vernon, IL 62864 (618) 244-8020 8 a.m.–5 p.m.
County Clerk #10 Public Sq., Fl. 2 Belleville, IL 62220 (618) 277-6600 8:30 a.m.–4:30 p.m., M–F; 8:30–11:30 a.m., Sat. Although The Knot strives to provide accurate information, we assume no responsibility for changes since publication. Please confirm all details with your local licensing bureau and inform us of updates or errors at licenseinfo@ theknot.com.
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District Court 100 N. Kansas Ave., Fl. 2 Olathe, KS 66061 (913) 715-3428 8 a.m.–5 p.m.
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GUIDELINES FOR ANNOUNCING YOUR WEDDING IN THE LOCAL PAPERS Photographs may be submitted to accompany the announcement; however, instant photos or color copies are not acceptable. In some instances, photographs may be returned if a self-addressed stamped envelope is included with the announcement. Call to get all of the details before submitting.
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Lawrence Journal-World
(785) 832-7151 PO Box 888 Lawrence, KS 66044
Submit info at noon on the Wednesday prior to the desired Saturday publication.
Form: Yes; available online.
Announcements are free for Lawrence residents.
Topeka Capital-Journal
(785) 295-1297 Attn: Celebrations 616 SE Jefferson Topeka, KS 66607
Deadline for submission is 10 days prior to the desired Sunday publication.
Form: Yes
A 1-column announcement costs $2.65 per line, plus $45.08 for a photo; a 2-column announcement is $5.30 per line, plus $90.16 for a photo. $10 online charge.
Wichita Eagle
(316) 268-6667 Attn: Celebrations 825 E. Douglas Wichita, KS 67202
Submit info at least one week prior to the desired publication date.
Form: Optional
Announcements cost 55 cents per word ($45 minimum); photo is $15.75 to $141.75, depending on size of photo.
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Must submit info two weeks prior to the desired publication date.
Form: No
There is no charge for this service.
(816) 254-8600 410 S. Liberty Independence, MO 64050
Announcements published on Saturdays on a firstcome, first-served basis.
Form: Yes; prefer online submission at Examiner.net
$24.95 for an online announcement.
The Independent
(816) 471-2800 4233 Roanoke Rd., Ste. 100 Kansas City, MO 64111
Submissions should be made within three months of the wedding.
Form: Yes Photos should present the bride and groom in formal attire.
Fees range from $100 to $300.
Kansas City Star
(816) 234-4390 Attn: Celebrations 1729 Grand Blvd. Kansas City, MO 64108
Deadline for submissions is three weeks prior to the desired Sunday publication.
Form: Yes
Basic announcements (no photo) are free; package fees range from $79 to $899.
Springfield News-Leader
(417) 837-1990 Attn: Celebrations Dept. 651 N. Boonville Ave. Springfield, MO 65806
Must be received within 30 days of the event and are not guaranteed a publication date. Deadline for paid submissions is noon on the Monday prior to the desired Sunday publication date.
Form: Yes
Prices start at $99 for 50 words and one photo.
St. Louis Post-Dispatch
(314) 340-8549 Attn: Classified Dept. 900 N. Tucker Blvd. St. Louis, MO 63101
Submit info two weeks prior to the desired Saturday publication date. Preferred publication date is subject to space availability and is not guaranteed.
Form: Yes
Announcements 1 column wide with a photo: $140; announcements 2 columns wide with a photo: $330 to $440, depending on photo size.
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Belleville News-Democrat
(618) 239-2611 Attn: Darla Reynolds 120 S. Illinois St. Belleville, IL 62220
Announcements published within two Sundays of submission.
Form: Optional
Fees range from $55 (2 columns x 2 1/2 inches) to $135 (2 columns x 10 inches).
Effingham Daily News
(217) 347-7151 x134 PO Box 370 Effingham, IL 62401
Announcements published on a spaceavailable basis.
Form: Optional; available online at EffinghamDailyNews.com
There is no charge for this service.
Mount Vernon Register-News
(618) 242-0113 Attn: Tessa Collie 911 Broadway Mt. Vernon, IL 62864
Announcements published on a spaceavailable basis.
Form: Yes
The photo fee is $10 for blackand-white and $30 for color.
The Southern Illinoisan
(618) 529-5454 x5172 Attn: Lifestyles PO Box 2108 Carbondale, IL 62902
Announcements published Sundays on a spaceavailable basis. Info must be received within six months of the wedding, two weeks prior to publication.
Form: Yes; available online. Photos returned with SASE.
The fee is $20 or $30, depending on length.
State JournalRegister
(217) 788-1330 Attn: Weddings 1 Coppley Plz. Springfield, IL 62701
Submit info on Wednesday, one week prior to desired Sunday publication. Announcements published on a space-available basis.
Form: No
Fees vary by word count and photo.
PUBLICATION
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Dos Mundos
(816) 221-4747 902-A Southwest Blvd. Kansas City, MO 64108
The Examiner (runs in the eastern Jackson County area)
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Empire chandeliers and white oak floors—a modern twist on classic elegance. Located in Overland Park, KS, our venue also offers live performances, ballroom dancing and fitness. capacity 250 | price $$$
ball conference center 28 event space
1300 W. 28th Street, Kansas City, MO (816) 283-8368 | sales@28event.com 28Event.com In 11,000 square feet, 28 Event Space is an all-inclusive urban setting with top-notch amenities, modern style and impeccable service, complete with catering kitchen, sound system, stage, two-bedroom suite and high-end bar, near downtown KC. Make your vision a reality at 28 Event Space. capacity 350 | price $$
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612north event space
612 North 2nd Street, St. Louis, MO (314) 899-0612 | events@612north.com 612North.com Let us help you celebrate the happiest and most important day of your life at 612North Event Space. Majestically located adjacent to the iconic St. Louis Arch, the historic yet modern elegance of this space will surpass your wildest expectations. capacity 225+ | price $$
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2016 Main, Kansas City, MO (816) 283-8303 | info@2016mainkc.com 2016MainKC.com 2016 MAIN sits at the threshold of downtown Kansas City’s historic Crossroads District. Recently renovated, it offers modern amenities in a beautiful art gallery setting full of character and original architectural details. Our open layout and warm features ensure each event is both unique and inviting. capacity 200+ | price $$$
adams pointe golf club
1601 R.D. Mize Rd., Blue Springs, MO (816) 220-3673 AdamsPointeGolfClub.com Elegant golf course rehearsal dinners and receptions— affordably done! Accommodating up to 150 guests, Adams Pointe Golf Club is ready to provide your special event with a picturesque glass-enclosed private setting. Our delicious cuisine, superior service and affordability are sure to make your day pleasantly memorable! capacity 150 | price $
allegro ballroom dance and events venue
7105 West 105th Street, Overland Park, KS (913) 385-0707 | Fax (913) 385-2808 allegroballroomkc@gmail.com AllegroBallroomKC.com Allegro Ballroom is a new facility featuring 6 ft. French
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21350 West 153rd St., Olathe, KS (913) 322-4980 | BallConference.com Escape from the city and relax—it’s your day! Ball Conference Center is a luxurious yet affordable venue for both wedding ceremonies and receptions, with banquet seating for up to 350 guests. capacity 350 | price $$
the barn at schwinn produce farm
17624 Santa Fe Trail, Leavenworth, KS schwinnproducefarm@gmail.com SchwinnProduceFarm.com A traditional country barn creates the perfect venue for a beautiful wedding any month of the year. There are indoor and outdoor sites for ceremonies and a climate-controlled, private Bridal House just for the bride and her closest friends to dress. Spring, summer, fall, winter—always beautiful. capacity 300 | price $$
barnett on washington
3207 Washington Blvd., St. Louis, MO (844) GO-BARNETT events@barnettonwashington.com BarnettonWashington.com Barnett on Washington is a beautiful event venue that provides a rich, vibrant experience for all visitors. Our inviting atmosphere is perfect for weddings, corporate events and other special celebrations. We believe that everyone will enjoy the engaging environment at Barnett on Washington. capacity 200 | price $$$
the bauer
115 West 18th Street, Kansas City, MO (816) 984-8533 | TheBrideandTheBauer.com Host your special day in our updated, historic art space, and experience our vintage-style patina, spectacular downtown view and unique details—Italian-bulb string lights, picture window seating, exposed brick, salvaged architecture, custom bride’s and groom’s rooms and handmade, artisan furniture. capacity 250 | price $$
the berg event space
1525 Grand Blvd., Kansas City, MO (816) 842-4488 info@bergeventspace.com BergEventSpace.com The Berg Event Space is an urban contemporary loft with city views overlooking downtown, hardwood floors, skylights, exposed brick and more! Plan your rehearsal dinner, ceremony or wedding reception with our experienced staff. Located one block from P&L and the Sprint Center. capacity 250 | price $$$
berry acres
(816) 797-7963 | Berry-Acres.com Berry Acres, only 25 minutes east of downtown Kansas City on I-70, is KC’s newest premier, full-service wedding venue. This quiet, relaxing 20-acre country setting offers a unique opportunity to choose from multiple settings while accommodating 50 to 450 guests, year-round. capacity 400+ | price $$
big cedar
612 Devil’s Pool Road, Ridgedale, MO (417) 339-5159 | BigCedar.com Whether you’re imagining an intimate gathering or a grand celebration, your wedding day will be an unforgettable experience. Choose from rustic, luxury venues including intimate patios, charming chapels, a perfectly manicured lawn or a grand ballroom—all with breathtaking views of Table Rock Lake. capacity 400+ | price $$
blue bell farm
3030 Highway 240, Fayette, MO (660) 888-6011 mobluebellfarm@gmail.com BlueBellFarm.org The breathtaking grounds, gorgeous gardens and elegant décor at Blue Bell Farm provide the perfect backdrop for romance and celebrations. Blue Bell Farm’s in-house catering team creates beautiful farm-to-table dinners using organic and grass-fed ingredients from the farm. capacity 175 | price $$
bogey hills country club
1120 Country Club Rd., St. Charles, MO (636) 946-6250 | gbroders@bogeyhillscc.com BogeyHillsCC.com From the gorgeous golf course and waterfall backdrop to the beautiful dining rooms, exceptional food and service, there is no better location for your celebration. There are many picturesque spots—from the stunning lobby staircase to the landscape. Our professional staff will exceed your expectations. capacity 300+ | price $$
boo cat club
812 Union Blvd., St. Louis, MO (314) 224-5521 | hello@boocatclub.com BooCatClub.com You’ve been looking for something with a little more personality, intrigue and surprise. We’re glad you found us. Boo Cat Club is devoted to bringing people together in unexpected, extraordinary ways in a space that’s unlike anything you’ve seen before. We’ll give your event a little extra spark. Promise. capacity 250 | price $$
the brass on baltimore
1228 Baltimore Avenue, Kansas City, MO (816) 221-8986 | deb@thebrassonbaltimore.com TheBrassonBaltimore.com Deciding to host your ceremony and wedding reception at The Brass on Baltimore will allow you to choose from
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brooklyn hall at enright gardens
2351 North 400 Road, Edgerton, KC (913) 927-2217 | (913) 927-2218 BrooklynHall.com This perfect, romantic wedding and reception location is located in a beautiful rural setting with picturesque, lush gardens abundant with flowers and babbling streams. The pristine Brooklyn Hall is complete with ambient lighting, a bride’s dressing room and serving kitchen. We can make your event just that much more special! capacity 250 | price $$
busch stadium
700 Clark Street, St. Louis, MO (314) 345-9630 | specialevents@cardinals.com Cardinals.com/events Busch Stadium’s iconic field and distinct venues offer guests a variety of elegant settings, gourmet dining and panoramic views that can’t be found anywhere else. Let our experienced and professional staff make your wedding event a once-in-a-lifetime celebration for everyone! capacity 400+ | price $$$
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4124 Pennsylvania, Kansas City, MO (816) 531-1097 | staff@californos.com Californos.com Californos hosts receptions in a stunning 1903 Trolley Barn venue and courtyard in Kansas City’s historic Westport neighborhood. We have ceremonies in or outside, professional planning, open bars, custom bakery, bistro and bar, saloon, full-service catering, inclusive packages and hotels on our block. capacity 488 | price $$$
the caramel room at bissinger’s
1600 N. Broadway, St. Louis, MO (314) 615-2480 | alittle@bissingers.com CaramelRoom.com Beaming natural light, hardwood floors and an outdoor terrace with river and skyline views in a chocolate factory is just the beginning of a sweet addiction with The Caramel Room. capacity 300 | price $$$
casa loma ballroom
St. Louis, MO (314) 650-2462 | CasaLomaBallroom.com Built in 1927, the Casa Loma Ballroom is St. Louis’ last “grand ballroom,” featuring a 5,000-square-foot floating dance floor and 30-foot stage. With seating for 150 to 850 guests, the Casa Loma offers a variety of packages for your special day and unique individual service provided by the owners. capacity 850 | price $$
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catering st. louis events
2141 59th St., St. Louis, MO (314) 961-7588 | CateringStLouis.com At Catering St. Louis Events, we focus on your entire event, creating the wedding day magic you’ll remember long after the plates are cleared. We offer many spectacular venues for wedding receptions, ceremonies and rehearsal dinners. Visit our website to see where you’d like to celebrate.
cedar creek
1401 Olive Rd., New Haven, MO (855) 778-7222 | weddings@cedarcreekcenter.com VisitCedarCreek.com Located in the rolling hills of Missouri’s Wine Country, Cedar Creek’s stunning natural beauty provides a romantic setting for a truly unforgettable wedding. We offer picturesque options for everything from rehearsal dinners to receptions, along with overnight accommodations for 125 people. capacity 400+ | price $$
cedar lake cellars
11008 Schreckengast Road, Wright City, MO (636) 745-9500 | aroach@cedarlakecellars.com CedarLakeCellars.com Cedar Lake Cellars serves the best wines from Missouri, California and world-renowned wine regions. A fullservice restaurant and gorgeous scenery are some of the noteworthy attributes of this hidden gem. Located just 45 minutes west of St. Louis, it is perfect for a rustic wine country wedding. capacity 400+ | price $$$
chandler hill vineyards
596 Defiance Road, Defiance, MO (636) 798-2675 | events@chandlerhillvineyards.com ChandlerHillVineyards.com With over 80 weddings a year, it’s clear why Chandler Hill Vineyards is “First in Missouri Wine Country.” Our delicious food, award-winning wine and spectacular vistas create an unforgettable experience. We are open year-round and just minutes from St. Louis, Chesterfield and St. Charles. capacity 250 | price $
the charles f. knight center
Washington University, St. Louis, MO (314) 935-4668 | jurgensen@olin.wustl.edu Olin.Wustl.Edu/knightcenter Located on the campus of Washington University Center, your special day will be a celebration to remember. From the formal grand dining room to the outdoor courtyard, the Knight Center will make your day perfect. All-inclusive wedding packages and special guestroom rates are available. capacity 165 | price $$$
the chase park plaza
212 N. Kingshighway, St. Louis, MO (314) 633-3052 | ChaseParkPlaza.com Our legendary ballrooms offer a graceful, romantic
atmosphere worthy of your special day. Say your vows under the soft glow of vintage chandeliers in the Empire Room, or celebrate the grandiosity of love under the famed Khorassan Ballroom’s arched ceilings, blending classical elegance with art deco style. capacity 300 | price $$$
the cheshire
6300 Clayton Rd., St. Louis, MO (314) 932-7853 sheckemeyer@cheshirerestaurant-stl.com CheshireSTL.com With rich wood accents, vintage stained glass and rustic charm, we provide an intimate setting at a historic venue that marries old and new. Upstairs events are defined by exceptional service and a culinary experience that celebrates seasonal flavors and fresh ingredients from the finest local purveyors. capacity 150+ | price $$$
circle s ranch
3325 Circle S Lane, Lawrence, KS (785) 843-4124 | events@circlesranch.com CircleSRanch.com Have the most romantic wedding of your dreams at our enchanting 1,200-acre ranch. With its quaint charm and picturesque settings, you will find that we offer a personalized service to create a stunning wedding that is uniquely yours. capacity 250 | price $$$
clayton plaza st. louis
7750 Carondelet Ave., Clayton, MO (314) 727-7434 | CPClayton.com What’s your wedding fantasy? At the Clayton Plaza Hotel, we make it happen! Many of our bridal packages include a champagne toast, ice sculpture, a complimentary honeymoon suite for the bride and groom, and many more fabulous options for your own happily ever after. capacity 500+ | price $$
the coronado
3701 Lindell Blvd., St. Louis, MO (314) 881-4346 | TheCoronado.com For an event you’ll always remember, and one your guests will never forget, The Coronado is the perfect wedding venue! We look forward to providing you with unparalleled service and creative cuisine in a landmark setting. Recently renovated, The Coronado is the epitome of opulence and an absolute must-see! capacity 350 | price $$$
the deleon
(816) 377-3932 | (816) 812-3333 yourweddinginkc@yahoo.com | TheDeLeon.net The DeLeon is Kansas City’s newest event space and chapel, with the charm of a Southern mansion but moderately renovated with a bridal suite, a bridesmaids’ room, a groom’s room and a family room. The outdoor courtyard is now open for ceremonies. Tables, chairs and linens are included. capacity 200 | price $$
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dodson orchards
1778 Madison 507, Fredericktown, MO (573) 561-3093 | steved314@gmail.com DodsonOrchards.com Travel back to one of Missouri’s most uniquely historic venues nestled in the hidden glades. Be immersed in the tranquil setting overlooking the mountain range, and get lost in the charm of the 100-year-old barn. It’s real, it’s exclusive and it’s yours to be had if you contact us to snag your date! capacity 250 | price $$
eighteen ninety
Platte City, MO (816) 584-1890 | 1890KC.com Plan the wedding of your dreams, where you’ll find acres of gorgeous landscape that blends the best of nature and architecture in a sophisticated style. From intimate to large gatherings, wedding receptions, rehearsal dinners and parties for any occasion, we can make any event a memorable one. capacity 300 | price $$
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One Fine Arts Drive, St. Louis, MO (314) 655-5387 | erica.stone@cafebonappetit.com SLAM.org/dining Make a St. Louis memory. Showcasing stunning works of art, the Saint Louis Art Museum is an elegant setting for your wedding reception. Events By Panorama executes all details, including catering, bar services, rentals and parking, and Executive Chef Ivy Magruder leads the culinary team to brilliance.
executive hills polo club
10018 NW Skyview Ave., Kansas City, MO (816) 215-1118 | events@ehpoloclub.com EHPoloClub.com This privately owned 7,000-square-foot mansion sits on a 15-acre estate in the heart of KC. Our location has views of a two-acre pond, waterfront gazebo, registered helipad and so much more. We offer the perfect blend of rustic elegance, state-of-the-art amenities and natural perfection you deserve. capacity 300 | price $$$
feasts of fancy
1427 West 9th Street, Kansas City, MO (816) 841-0166 | jperkins@feastsoffancy.com FeastsOfFancy.com Looking for urban elegance? The Hobbs Building is for people who want a cool, more urban and less traditional location for their wedding, with an outdoor, secluded courtyard large enough for your ceremony. Visit us in historic West Bottoms – the new Kansas City destination. capacity 300 | price $$$
forest hills country club
36 Forest Club Drive, Chesterfield, MO (636) 227-5030 | ambert@foresthillscc.net
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ForestHillsCC.net With its beautiful Clubhouse, spectacular views and professional staff, Forest Hills is the perfect setting for your wedding day. As one of West County’s premier locations for over 50 years, we offer a unique and picturesque venue that will have you and your guests talking for years to come. capacity 250 | price $$$
foundry art centre
520 N. Main Center, St. Charles, MO (636) 255-0270 EXT. 120 events@foundryartcentre.org For your special event, surround yourself with great art and architecture at the Foundry Art Centre. Located in beautiful, historic Saint Charles, the Grand Hall is a stunning setting for weddings and receptions of up to 400 seated guests. capacity 400 | price $$$
the franklin room
816 Allen Ave., St. Louis, MO (314) 664-7706 franklinroom@sbcglobal.net TheFranklinRoom.net New owners. New menus. Same beautiful room. We are dedicated professionals with extensive experience in catering and banquets. Our eclectic events and menus will reflect your personal style. We love our brides, our grooms, their families and their friends! capacity 300 | price $$
the gallery event space
61 E. 14th Street, Kansas City, MO (816) 877-8312 jessica@thegalleryeventspace.com TheGalleryEventSpace.com Located in the heart of the Kansas City Power & Light District, The Gallery Event Space is an elegant downtown venue—ideal for your wedding ceremony and reception. capacity 400+ | price $$$
genesis banquet center & catering
2651 Telegraph Rd., St. Louis, MO (314) 894-7073 info@cateringbygenesis.com CateringByGenesis. com We are proud to announce that Genesis Banquet Center & Catering has been rated by local brides and voted The Knot Best of Weddings Hall of Fame. We cater receptions of all sizes and budgets at various venues. Please inquire for recommendations and menu tastings. capacity 400 | price $$
grbic private event space
4071 Keokuk, St. Louis, MO (314) 772-3100 | (314) 623-5617 grbicevents@gmail.com | GrbicRestaurant.com Let the specialists at Grbic turn your dream into a reality. Our highly trained staff ensures your event is perfect from the smallest to the largest of details. We will work with you and within your budget every step of
the way to guarantee your satisfaction. Your next event will be one in a million. capacity 300+ | price $$
the guild
1621 Locust St., Kansas City, MO (816) 471-8550 | candice@theguildkc.com TheGuildKC.com The Guild is a unique venue filled with elegance and vintage charm. Featuring timeless architecture, a dazzling chandelier and a secluded garden, it’s perfect for ceremonies or cocktail receptions. The Guild is undeniably the place to create your one-of-akind celebration. capacity 300 | price $$$
hawthorne house
6008 Northwest Bell Road, Parkville, MO (816) 505-1224 | TheHawthorneHouse.com Hawthorne House is Kansas City’s premier wedding and special event facility. Located on 11 beautiful acres in Parkville, Missouri, Hawthorne House has been specifically designed with your wedding needs in mind. We offer both chapel and outdoor ceremonies, as well as receptions for up to 300 guests. capacity 300 | price $$$
heritage center at mahaffie
1200 E. Kansas City Road, Olathe, KS (913) 971-5501 | mahaffie@olatheks.org Mahaffie.org The Heritage Center at Mahaffie, overlooking the historic grounds of Mahaffie Stagecoach Stop & Farm, offers our brides an intimate setting in a dramatic timber-frame interior for a wedding or reception. Adding to the intimacy and romance of your special occasion, our horse-drawn carriage will set your wedding apart from all others. capacity 200 | price $$
hermann hill weddings
165 Hwy. 100 East, Hermann, MO (314) 800-3295 | weddings@hermannhill.com HermannMOWeddings.com At Hermann Hill, your guests will enjoy a stunning river bluff setting, fantastic food and spectacular service. We’ll help you create the unique wedding you’re envisioning with stress-free planning and classic designs—and our amazing sunsets are an added bonus! capacity 250 | price $$
hilton ballpark
1 South Broadway, St. Louis, MO (314) 641-8837 | nwenzel@hiltonstlouis.com HiltonStLouis.com There’s a style for every bride at Hilton at the Ballpark. The Arch View Ballroom (320 capacity) boasts 16-foot floor-to-ceiling windows overlooking the St. Louis Arch, Old Courthouse and Kiener Plaza, while the Grand (650 capacity) and Ballpark (175 capacity) ballrooms offer sophisticated, elegant spaces. capacity 175+ | price $$$
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hilton kansas city airport
8801 NW 112 St., Kansas City, MO (816) 801-4012 KansasCityAirport.Hilton.com Book your dream wedding in one of our renovated ballrooms! All of our wedding packages include waived room rental, linens, table settings, centerpieces, dance floor, stage, servers, special room rates and more! We can tailor a menu to fit your needs, or select from one of our current packages! capacity 400+ | price $$
hilton president
1329 Baltimore, Kansas City, MO (816) 303-1628 | PresidentKansasCity.Hilton.com We make forever feel timeless. The Hilton President is one of Kansas City’s most beautiful venues. Call, email or stop by for a tour. capacity 300 | price $$$
hilton st. louis frontenac
1335 South Lindbergh Boulevard, St. Louis, MO (314) 993-1100 StLouisFrontenac.Hilton.com Your wedding will be nothing less than spectacular! Situated in the heart of St. Louis, the Hilton St. Louis Frontenac offers classic charm and perfection for your special day. Our team of wedding professionals is devoted to exceeding your expectations and making your wedding dream come true! capacity 400+ | price $$$
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the historic scarritt buildings
(816) 914-2071 | TheScarrittKC.com With abundant natural light and hand-carved ornaments throughout, this unique venue has several spaces that can accommodate grand parties to more intimate ceremonies, each with its own character. Our wedding packages are tailored with you in mind—we offer many no-hassle perks so you can enjoy your day! capacity 350+ | price $$
holiday inn airport west
3400 Rider Trail South, Earth City, MO (314) 475-3810 | srichards@midashospitality.com HolidayInn.com/stlairportwest Experience the Elements at the Holiday Inn Airport West—an outdoor ceremony on a breathtaking brick patio, a sumptuous meal in one of two of our elegant ballrooms and much more! Our wedding director will take care of all the details and share in each moment of happiness along the way. Call for details! capacity 220 | price $$
hyatt place kansas city/ lenexa city center ballroom
8741 Ryckert Street, Lenexa, KS (913) 742-7777 | brooks.sosna@hyatt.com KansasCityLenexaCityCenter.Place.Hyatt.com Whether we’re hosting your wedding reception or just family and friends, guests will appreciate comfortable, functional amenities. Hyatt Place Kansas City/Lenexa City Center will provide a perfect mix of style and
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hyatt regency st. louis at the arch
315 Chestnut St., St. Louis, MO (314) 342-4655 | StLouisArch.Hyatt.com Memories to last a lifetime. Starting here. We offer personalized service and complete coordination for every wedding detail. Located next to the Gateway Arch, our 910 guestrooms, three restaurants, Starbucks® and 83,000 square feet of indoor/event space are the perfect setting for your special day. capacity 400+ | price $$$
innsbrook resort
1 Aspen Circle, Innsbrook, MO (636) 928-3366 EXT. 9884 weddings@innsbrook-resort.com Innsbrook-Resort.com Create a wedding that is yours and yours alone, starting with our customizable packages that are tailored to you! Innsbrook is the best combination of convenience (as it’s located close to St. Louis) while giving your guests the feeling of being a world away. capacity 300 | price $$
intercontinental kansas city at the plaza
401 Ward Parkway, Kansas City, MO (816) 756-1500 | ehayes@kansascityic.com KansasCityIC.com There is no other wedding like yours and no other venue like the InterContinental Kansas City. Nestled on the edge of the Country Club Plaza, the hotel provides the ideal setting for the wedding couple to begin their new life together in style. capacity 300+ | price $$$
the journey home
18993 SE 65th Road, Dearborn, MO (816) 501-6350 | info@journeyhomeretreats.com JourneyHomeWeddings.com You will love The Journey Home’s estate, with a large colonial home, rustic barn, beautifully landscaped property, overnight accommodations and flexible outdoor and indoor space for a variety of guest sizes and styles. Just north of the KCI airport, The Journey Home is ideal for your wedding day! capacity 285 | price $
kansas city airport marriott
775 Brasilia Avenue, Kansas City, MO (816) 243-1270 | joy.winningham@marriott.com Our picturesque lakeside site is the perfect backdrop for your “I dos.” The outdoor Patio and Pavilion provide a unique setting, and for a larger affair, our Grand Ballroom will entertain up to 350. Marriott is pro marriage equality. We offer discounted rates for overnight guests and smaller spaces for rehearsal dinners and more. capacity 350 | price $$$
kuhs estate & farm
13080 Spanish Pond Rd., Spanish Lake, MO (314) 226-0709 | info@kuhsfarm.com KuhsFarm.com Our award-winning, secluded and private, client-adored historic estate and farm on the bluffs overlooking The Confluence is 25 minutes from Midtown St. Louis. On-site wedding and event design is available. By appointment only, please. capacity 400+ | price $$
la bodega tapas & lounge
703 Southwest Boulevard, Kansas City, MO 4311 West 119th Street, Leawood, KS (816) 885-0141 | info@labodegakc.com LaBodegaKC.com Our cuisine can now be featured in venues across the KC metro. Whether you are choosing an elegant plated dinner or the ultimate cocktail reception, distinct flavors will make your event come alive. Menus are inspired by our culinary teams, with flexibility and room for adventure to suit your event’s needs. capacity 120 | price $$
la perla
312 N. 8th Street, St. Louis, MO (314) 488-0607 | champagnewishesstl@gmail.com LaPerlaStLouis.com Our many years of experience can help streamline your wedding planning. La Perla is a renovated early 1900s bank that has both charm and character. From the original hand-carved wood pocket doors as you enter to the original bank vault turned lounge on the lower level, your event is guaranteed to be unique! capacity 150 | price $
lachance vineyards
12237 Peter Moore Lane, DeSoto, MO (636) 586-2777 | info@lachancevineyards.com LaChanceVineyards.com Whether you choose to relax in the casual elegance of our indoor tasting room or outside on our courtyard patio, partially covered deck or large event tent, we offer guests the best of both worlds: a charming, intimate winery experience with first-class amenities. capacity 300 | price $$
the larimore house plantation
11475 Lilac Avenue, St. Louis, MO (314) 868-8009 | info@larimoreweddings.com LarimoreWeddings.com The historic Larimore House Plantation is St. Louis’ premier location for a romantic wedding day—perfect for those not wanting the traditional hotel or banquet center setting. Brides enjoy having a beautiful picture setting, romantic garden or chapel ceremony and elegant reception all in one place. capacity 250 | price $$
laumeier sculpture park
12580 Rott Road, St. Louis, MO (314) 615-5278 | (314) 941-0522 thepartybroker@aol.com | Laumeier.org
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the legacy at green hills
(816) 204-1629 events@thelegacyatgreenhills.com TheLegacyatGreenHills.com We offer various options to have your wedding, right in the heart of Kansas City. We are located on 38 beautiful acres, lined with trees and a lake, plus an amazing house from 1912 that allows you to spend the day getting ready in a convenient setting. capacity 200 | price $$
lemp mansion restaurant and inn
3322 Demenil Place, St. Louis, MO (314) 664-8024 patty@lempmansion.com LempMansion.com/banquets.html The Lemp Mansion offers the largest privately owned gazebo and tented patio in the city that can accommodate ceremonies for up to 300 guests and receptions of 225. Lemp’s Grand Hall has a beautiful 40x40 rooftop deck for up to 300 guests. The new Lemp’s Loft is an industrial space for events of 50-130.
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the little theatre and grand ballroom at the kansas city convention center
301 W. 13th Street, Kansas City, MO (816) 513-5099 | (816) 513-5015 KCConvention.com We have the perfect downtown space for your special day. The Little Theatre is classically beautiful with Italian marble floors and columns and an ornate ceiling from the art deco era. The Grand Ballroom features beautiful views of the city skyline and the Kauffman Center for the Performing Arts. capacity 400+ | price $$$
the lodge of four seasons
Lake of the Ozarks, MO (573) 365-8579 4SeasonsResort.com/weddings The Lodge has a setting of natural beauty, perfect for celebrating your love. Offering 358 guestrooms, an impressive array of wedding venues and unparalleled amenities, The Lodge of Four Seasons will orchestrate an exceptional experience and lasting memory from “yes” to “I do” and beyond! capacity 400+ | price $$$
longview mansion
1200 SW Longview Park Drive, Lee’s Summit, MO (816) 761-6669 | LongviewMansion.com Let our caring event planners assist you and our
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lost hill lake events
783 Lost Hill Lake Road, St. Clair, MO (314) 599-3690 | losthilllakeevents@gmail.com LostHillLakeEvents.com We welcome you to experience our gorgeous Meramec River view and memorable walnut grove. Take photos near our lake or in our fields that shine with the sunset. Dine with guests under our pavilion and dance under the stars. Family owned and operated, we provide customized services for each client. capacity 275 | price $$
lumen private event space
2201 Locust Street, St. Louis, MO (314) 615-2480 | lumen@23cityblocks.com LumenSTL.com Lumen’s modern style, premium service and contemporary flair just stepped up the game! New silver chiavari chairs, stainless steel bar with chandeliers, updated hardwood floors are just the beginning. No worries—guests still awe over floor-to-ceiling windows and a state-of-the-art LED lighting system. capacity 250 | price $$
the magic house
516 S. Kirkwood, St. Louis, MO (314) 822-8900 | MagicHouse.org From its striking Victorian-style architecture and the whimsical, interactive exhibits to the enchanting gardens that surround it, The Magic House is the perfect place for a truly unique wedding, reception or rehearsal dinner! capacity 200+ | price $$
majorette
7150 Manchester Ave., St. Louis, MO (314) 224-5775 | hello@majoretteevents.com MajoretteEvents.com If you’re looking to put on a show, then you’ve come to the right place. Majorette is a brand new event space in St. Louis where all of your ideas are possible. Put on your party pants—this is going to be one for the books. The really good books. capacity 400+ | price $$
marriott kansas city country club plaza
4445 Main St., Kansas City, MO (816) 303-4581 anna.singleton@marriottccplaza.com Marriott.com/mcipl Picture your first dance under the dreamy glow of the Grand Ballroom’s magnificent crystal chandeliers, elegant atmosphere of the Seville Ballroom or the new Plaza Terrace with spectacular views of the Country Club Plaza. Let us create the perfect wedding destination for you. capacity 350 | price $$
marriott st. louis grand
800 Washington Avenue, St. Louis, MO (314) 621-9600 st.louisgrandleads.rhi@marriott.com MarriottStLouisGrand.com Say “I do” to a St. Louis wedding venue that is historic, elegant and breathtakingly beautiful. Because it’s not only about getting married: It’s about celebrating this momentous day, brilliantly. capacity 300+ | price $$$
the martin
13440 Holmes Road, Kansas City, MO (816) 739-0804 | themartineventspace@gmail.com TheMartinEventSpace.com The Martin is Kansas City’s newest event space. The original Martin City Church has been completely renovated and restored with an outdoor patio. The Martin is more than a venue; it is where memories are made. It is the perfect place for a corporate event, family celebration, wedding or reception. capacity 200 | price $$
me´élange
5636 Johnson Dr., Mission, KS (913) 831-9848 | melangekc@gmail.com MelangeKC.com With a beautiful hardwood floor, sparkling chandeliers and the space’s attention to detail, Mélange offers an inviting, intimate atmosphere for your special night. It’s located just 10 minutes from downtown Kansas City, with ample parking for guests. Wedding dance packages are offered. Call today! capacity 200+ | price $$
the missouri athletic club
405 Washington Avenue, St. Louis, MO (314) 539-4470 | MAC-STL.org The Missouri Athletic Club is the premier destination in St. Louis for fairy-tale wedding receptions. The enchanting ballroom filled with crystal chandeliers, high ceilings and pure elegance makes the Missouri Room the ultimate wedding venue. capacity 400 | price $$$
missouri history museum
Lindell & Debaliviere in Forest Park, St. Louis, MO (314) 454-3151 | MOHistory.org Make history on your big day! This unique, stately, all-season venue is located centrally in treasured Forest Park. The museum offers such an elegant backdrop for wedding receptions of all styles. For more intimate gatherings, don’t forget to check out Bixby’s—the ideal location for rehearsal dinners! capacity 400 | price $$$
mosaic life care journey
8870 NE 82nd Terrace, Kansas City, MO (816) 437-8239 | june.leblanc@mymlc.com MyMosaicJourney.com Your special day can be everything you’ve dreamed when you enjoy your wedding at Mosaic Life Care Journey’s Life Center. We offer flexibility in a unique
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moulin events and meetings
2017 Chouteau Avenue, St. Louis, MO (314) 241-4949 | ann@moulinevents.com MoulinEvents.com We are honored that you are considering Moulin to host your wedding reception, ceremony or rehearsal dinner. You have chosen experienced wedding planners that will deliver unparalleled personal service and menu selections prepared by our professionally trained culinary staff. capacity 300 | price $$$
neo on locust, llc
Metropolitan St. Louis, MO (314) 570-9218 | info@neostl.com NEOSTL.com Located in Midtown St. Louis, NEO on Locust offers spectacular views of Downtown St. Louis and Grand Center with two private event spaces designed to accommodate custom-designed events for larger groups. capacity 500 | price $$$
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new town at st. charles
3420 Civic Circle, Saint Charles, MO (636) 288-7332 weddings@newtownatstcharles.com NewTownEventPlanning.com With simple elegance and graceful appeal, the venues at New Town provide a unique option for that special day. The true town setting will take guests back in time, allowing for a charming atmosphere. Call today to book an appointment to see what our venues have to offer! capacity 350 | price $$
noboleis vineyards wedding
100 Hemsath Road, Augusta, MO (636) 482-4500 | weddings@noboleisvineyards.com NoboleisVineyards.com Looking for your dream wedding in a vineyard? Noboleis Vineyards offers panoramic views of rolling hillsides, while the surrounding vineyards offer the backdrop to an outdoor ceremony and/or a reception for up to 200 people in our tented pavilion. Catering and bar options are available upon request. capacity 200 | price $$
the old post office
815 Olive Street, St. Louis, MO (314) 436-0101 | OldPostOfficeSTL.com A historic landmark in the Old Post Office District downtown, built in 1884 and now renovated, the Old Post Office offers a sweeping neoclassical venue for wedding events. capacity 300 | price $$
on broadway: a rooftop event space 2101 Broadway Blvd., Kansas City, MO
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(816) 885-0141 | events@onbroadwaykc.com The fourth floor rooftop features contemporary lounge furniture and a serene ambience emphasized by vivid green landscaping and the KC skyline. Boasting a full bar, kitchen, mood lighting and state-of-the-art sound, the space is available for ceremonies, receptions and rehearsals. Discover a new side of KC. capacity 275 | price $$$
the overland park ballroom
12170 Blue Valley Parkway, Overland Park, KS (913) 815-6790 The space is conveniently flexible and can be reconfigured to your liking. For weddings the beautiful 4,000-square-foot floor is yours to walk down the aisle, exchange vows and dance the night away. From décor to bartending services, we’ll help create the unique atmosphere you’ve always envisioned. capacity 225 | price $$$
overlook farm
(573) 242-3838 | events@overlookfarmmo.com OverlookFarmMO.com Plan the wedding of your dreams in the perfect scenic location, with gorgeous indoor and outdoor spaces, stunning details, farm-fresh cuisine, romantic inns and wedding planning services. Choose one of our five beautiful venues on 327 acres and let the magic happen here! capacity 400+ | price $$$
palladium saint louis
1400 Park Place, St. Louis, MO (314) 881-4301 | Palladium-STL.com A piece of history brought back to life, Palladium Saint Louis is a fusion between old world and contemporary design. An uncommon private event space with room for up to 700, Palladium Saint Louis is the distinctive choice for weddings and events of all shapes and sizes. capacity 700 | price $$$
the pavilion
7436 Nieman Rd., Shawnee, KS (913) 738-9639 vanessa@thepavilioneventspace.com ThePavilionEventSpace.com Beautiful, personal and unique, The Pavilion is an allinclusive venue, serving happy couples for over 16 years. We provide a completely decorated yet customizable room, tables and chairs, linens, centerpieces, staffing, dinner and beverages, event setup and breakdown, and wedding coordinators. capacity 400+ | price $$
peabody opera house
(314) 499-7620 | PeabodyOperaHouse.com Celebrate the happiest day of your life at Peabody Opera House in the heart of downtown St. Louis. The classical elegance of Peabody Opera House has played host to some of the city’s greatest moments, making it the perfect place to host your unforgettable event. capacity 340 | price $$$
pennway place at studio dan meiners
2500 West Pennway, Kansas City, MO (816) 842-7244 | DanMeiners.com We are unique in the fact that our entire space can be changed to be the perfect venue. With 8,000 square feet to work with, everything can be arranged to create the exact feel the couple wants for their big day. Round tables with linens, glass top tables and even lounge furniture are all included. capacity 400 | price $$
pinstripes
13500 Nall Ave., Overland Park, KS (913) 681-2165 | Pinstripes.com Celebrate sophisticated fun in our warm and inviting 33,000-square-foot indoor/outdoor facility, complete with 16 bowling lanes, 10 bocce courts, exceptional Italian-American bistro and wine cellar, outdoor patio and fireplace that can accommodate groups from 20-300. capacity 300 | price $$
the piper palm house
4256 Magnolia Avenue, St. Louis, MO (314) 771-4410 | PalmHouseSTL.org The Piper Palm House, with its distinctive architecture, soaring ceilings and stately windows, is the perfect venue for a wedding, rehearsal dinner or engagement party. Constructed in 1878, the Palm House is the oldest standing greenhouse west of the Mississippi River. capacity 250 | price $$
piropos event space
4141 N. Mulberry Drive, Kansas City, MO (816) 741-9800 | PiroposKC.com Piropos in Briarcliff Village offers a unique combination of elegance and location that makes it the perfect place for your wedding reception, ceremony, rehearsal dinner, bridal shower, post-wedding brunch or other special event. You can have all your wedding celebrations in one location, saving time and money. Your guests will love the convenience and of course, the great food. capacity 150 | price $$$
plexpod
10000 Marshall Dr., Lenexa, KS (913) 948-5644 | info@plexpod.com Plexpod.com Plexpod’s event space can seat 300-plus people in a variety of settings, including conference, theater, banquet, concert, reception or whatever custom setup you desire! The Event Space is equipped with the latest technology, including club-level sound systems and intelligent lighting for special effects. capacity 300+ | price $$
public media commons
(314) 512-9021 | acarr@ketc.org PublicMediaCommons.org This is an award-winning venue perfect for one-of-akind weddings and receptions. The 9,000-square-foot outdoor space is flanked on two sides by two-story
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digital screens for creating extraordinary settings, with a performance stage and outstanding sound system. Catering and rental services are available. capacity 500 | price $$$
restoration 1894 event space
1 East Kansas Street, Liberty, MO (816) 429-6488 | events@restoration1894.com Restoration1894.com Located in the heart of the Historic Liberty Square, Restoration 1894 is the premier Northland venue for your event needs. Features include an open floor plan for up to 275 guests, vintage pressed tin ceilings, exposed brick, chandeliers as well as the beautiful private bridal suite and groom’s room. capacity 275 | price $$
the rhapsody
2322 East R.D. Mize Road, Independence, MO (816) 795-0777 | TheRhapsody.com Affordable elegance. Beautiful floors and archways enhance the Tuscan decor. Indoor/outdoor weddings with beautifully landscaped gardens, waterfall and pergola provide a memorable setting for photographs. Keep costs down by bringing in your own alcohol and using the caterer of your choice. capacity 300 | price $$
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saint louis zoo
One Government Drive, St. Louis, MO (314) 646-4855 | STLZoo.org/events Make your special day even more memorable. Book your wedding festivities at the Saint Louis Zoo. Choose from five romantic venues, then let our staff plan every detail, from catering and exquisite floral arrangements to animal greeters—and even private tours of many of the Zoo’s 90 acres of habitats. capacity 400+ | price $$
shoal creek golf course
(816) 407-7242 EXT. 24 tmusso@kempersports.com ShoalCreekGolf.com The ballroom at Shoal Creek Golf Course is a favorite spot for weddings, bridal or baby showers, private parties, corporate events and seminars. The ballroom can accommodate up to 250, with a picturesque window overlooking our beautiful driving range, as well as a private entrance for your group. capacity 250 | price $$
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the st. louis carousel at faust park 15189 Olive Blvd., Chesterfield, MO (314) 615-8344 | StLouisCo.com/parks St. Louis Carousel can accommodate a wedding ceremony inside and/or outside the building on our patio. We provide a staff person to run the carousel and allow outside caterers. Call to make an appointment to view. capacity 200+ | price $
the stanley historic space and aspen room
Serving the Greater KC area (816) 600-2065 | TheStanleyEventSpace.com Both venues combine modern touches with vintage design. At The Stanley, we strive to give every guest the ultimate experience for memories that will last a lifetime. With the addition of The Aspen Room & Rooftop, The Stanley Event Complex is the place to hold your complete function. capacity 300 | price $$
starlite events at the saint louis science center
(314) 533-8179 | starliteevents@slsc.org SLSC.org/book-an-event Dine under the glimmering stars in the James S. McDonnell Planetarium. Whether you are looking for star-crossed romance or something other worldly, we’ll help you create the wedding of your dreams!
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Faust Park, 15193 Olive Blvd., Chesterfield, MO (636) 530-0076 EXT. 827 | bhevents@mobot.org ButterflyHouse.org The Sophia M. Sachs Butterfly House in Chesterfield is the ideal location for the wedding of your dreams. Choose from a number of settings for up to 120 guests including the stone-pillar gazebo in the garden, a deck positioned over a babbling brook or the tented pavilion near the picturesque lake.
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the studio @ ilusion productions, inc.
1939 E. Diedrich, Haysville, KS Call or Text: (316) 554-1244 info@ilusionprod.com | IlusionProd.com The Studio @ ILUSION Productions, Inc., is a contemporary wedding ceremony and reception venue with both indoor and outdoor options. The Studio has an open catering and alcohol policy, plus is a full-service wedding event location. capacity 250 | price $$
sugar creek vineyards & winery 125 Boone Country Lane, Defiance, MO (636) 987-2400 sugarcreekwineryweddings@gmail.com SugarCreekWines.com Sugar Creek Winery is ready to create your ideal
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sunset bluffs venue
1775 Bieker Rd., Washington, MO (314) 660-2210 | sunsetbluffsvenue@gmail.com SunsetBluffsVenue.com This private, natural setting is nestled in the scenic countryside of some of Missouri’s favorite wineries. Our weekend wedding package includes housing for up to 20 people, breathtaking views and more. Your fully customizable special day awaits.
in a desirable location minutes from Kansas City International Airport and hotels. capacity 200 | price $$
town pavilion
1111 Main Street, Kansas City, MO (816) 701-5038 TownPavilionKC.com Allow the dramatic architectural details of the Rotunda at Town Pavilion to provide the backdrop for your reception. Classic marble floors, a grand double staircase and modern details comprise a truly unique venue. Easy access and convenient amenities will make your event exceptional. capacity 300 | price $$
while enjoying award-winning Missouri wines and authentic Italian cuisine. capacity 300 | price $$$
the vineyard at riverbend chapel
827 Ming Drive, Washington, MO (636) 390-8600 | riverbendchapel@hotmail.com RiverbendChapelInc.com Imagine exchanging your vows overlooking the picturesque Missouri River bluffs with one of the best views of the river itself! Or, tie the knot inside Riverbend’s beautiful windowed chapel. Indoors or outdoors, the beauty of your wedding will be a lasting, treasured memory for many years to come! capacity 300 | price $$
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the terrace on grand
1520 Grand Blvd., Kansas City, MO (816) 527-0026 TerraceonGrand.com Kansas City’s most exciting event space, The Terrace on Grand is conveniently located in the heart of downtown. The Terrace offers 5,000 feet of classy, urban, indoor event space, with an exciting roof deck. Our contemporary, elegant, versatile space will provide the ideal backdrop for your wedding.
union horse distilling co.
11740 West 86th Terrace, Lenexa, KS (913) 492-3275 | events@unionhorse.com UnionHorse.com The Event Space at Union Horse Distilling Company is a unique destination that will serve as an elegant backdrop for your event. At 6,500 square feet, our venue can accommodate anything from rehearsal dinners to wedding receptions. Our three event rooms can be transformed to suit any style or need. capacity 350 | price $$$
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top of the met and kemoll’s italian restaurant
One Metropolitan Square, St. Louis, MO (314) 421-0555 | Kemolls.com Dazzling views of St. Louis’ skyline and riverfront from the 42nd floor, fine food and gracious, friendly service make your wedding memorable and beautiful. Garage parking, all-inclusive packages and reduced-rate dates are available. Kemoll’s, founded in 1927, is family owned and operated. capacity 300 | price $$$
thompson barn
11184 Lackman Road, Lenexa, KS (913) 477-7100 mdanler@lenexa.com Lenexa.com/thompsonbarn The Thompson Barn is an exquisite, intimate space, perfect for those looking for a unique blend of modern and rustic for a wedding or reception. A regal historic farmhouse with a gorgeous garden shares the grounds with the renovated barn and spacious, multi-colored brick patio. capacity 200 | price $$
tiffany greens golf club
6100 NW Tiffany Springs Pkwy., Kansas City, MO (816) 880-9600 EXT. 224 kpower@tiffanygreensgolf.com TiffanyGreensGolf.com/clubhouse-info /banquet-info Tiffany Greens is perfect for your Kansas City wedding ceremony, reception and rehearsal dinner! Come see our beautiful, newly renovated banquet room, featuring incredible views of one of Kansas City’s top golf courses
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uptown theater
3700 Broadway, Ste. 300, Kansas City, MO (816) 753-8665 | uptowneventskc@gmail.com UptownTheater.com Your name in lights • Receptions, rehearsal dinners and weddings • Four unique rooms • 25 to 1,200 people • Custom designed banquets, buffets and beverages • Abundant parking • Central location near Westport between the Country Club Plaza and Crown Center capacity 400+ | price $$
the venue at willow creek
Kansas City, KS (913) 568-9535 | venue@willowcreekkc.com WillowCreekKC.com This sweet setting is the perfect spot you’ve been wishing for! Our creekside garden ceremony flows seamlessly to our moonlight patio. Guests are invited into our venue for dinner, dancing and so much more. capacity 250 | price $$$
the venue in leawood
4800 W. 135th Street (913) 681-8368 | TheVenueinLeawood.com Elegant and Intimate....The Venue In Leawood. capacity 300 | price $$$
villa antonio winery
Hillsboro, MO (636) 475-5008 | colleen@villaantoniowinery.com VillaAntonioWinery.com It’s the perfect outdoor facility for your wedding or reception. Our lakeside gazebo and vineyard provide the picture-perfect backdrop for your special day. Host up to 300 guests in a very private setting
visions kc
Kansas City, MO (816) 841-2362 | VisionsKC.com Visions KC operates the beautiful venue The View at Briarcliff. We can accommodate up to 450 seated and are located in Courtyard by Marriott Hotel. We offer in- or outdoor ceremonies with a skyline backdrop, plus we’re flexible, friendly and fun! capacity 450 | price $$$
visions reception hall
6320 Manchester Avenue, Kansas City, MO (816) 358-2606 | psolomon@iaff42.org VisionsReceptionHall.com For sophisticated celebrations our banquet room is available for wedding receptions, rehearsal dinners and other celebrations, accommodating up to 500 guests. Convenient central location! capacity 400+ | price $$
voce
212 S. Tucker Blvd., St. Louis, MO (314) 570-8715 | VoceSTL.com Voce can accommodate 150 guests with banquet rounds and in-house linens. Decorate however you like to make your day memorable. Voce has a state-of-the-art, in-house sound system for your reception band, with a stage that can transform into a dance floor. Don’t want the party to end? Celebrate until 3 a.m.! capacity 150 | price $$
vox wedding venue at vox dei community
622 2nd St., Belton, MO (816) 348-7737 | jonathan@voxdeicommunity.com VoxDeiCommunity.com Vox Dei Community is a church in southeast Kansas City, and we would love to host your wedding or event! Weddings include the sanctuary and two additional rooms. We invite you to set up an appointment so you can stop by to see our different gathering spaces and receive a custom quote for your event. capacity 350 | price $$
wichita art museum
1400 W. Museum Blvd., Wichita, KS (316) 268-4912 | events@wichitaartmuseum.org
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WichitaArtMuseum.org Artistic. Exquisite. Dynamic. The Wichita Art Museum is a unique venue for weddings, receptions and parties. Dance the night away under the monumental Confetti Chandelier by international glass artist Dale Chihuly. Surround yourself and your guests with outstanding works of American art. capacity 250+ | price $$$$
the wildwood hotel
2801 Fountain Place, Wildwood, MO (636) 733-9100 | weddings@thewildwoodhotel.com TheWildwoodHotel.com The Wildwood Hotel is a beautiful boutique property that features approximately 8,000 square feet of space and 109 guest rooms, making us the perfect choice for your wedding ceremony, reception, showers, rehearsal dinners and farewell breakfast.
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windows on washington®
1601 Washington Ave., St. Louis, MO (314) 241-5555 | amorton@wowbanquets.com WOWBanquets.com From the champagne greeting to the chocolate mint departure, WOW creates events that are more than memorable. Featuring uniquely styled loft spaces, open-air verandas and city views, our experienced coordinators help you design the event of your dreams with the style and panache you deserve!
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23 city blocks catering
(314) 615-2480 | 23CityBlocks.com 23 City Blocks Catering’s Executive Chef Nicholas Miller crafts from the freshest local ingredients, presenting plates with artistic flair. The Caramel Room and Lumen Private Event Space’s team assures that you and your guests are impressed at every bite. Catering has never tasted so pretty.
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brancato’s catering
5050 Kansas Ave., Kansas City, KS (816) 765-4707 | sales@brancatoscatering.com BrancatosCatering.com Brancato’s Catering provides not only fine food, but service customized to the special event needs of our customers. From corporate functions to weddings; from backyard picnics to elegant soirees; from hors d’oeuvres to full service meals, Brancato’s Catering offers the finest in event coordination and execution.
butler’s pantry
1414 Park Avenue, St. Louis, MO (314) 664-7680 | info@butlerspantry.com ButlersPantry.com From the moment we begin listening to your vision, to the “thank you” of the last guest, Butler’s Pantry is committed to planning and executing your unforgettable wedding. Our sales managers, culinary team and event staff sincerely enjoy collaborating to ensure you can be a guest on your big day!
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the cakery
1420 Tamm Avenue in Dogtown, St. Louis, MO (314) 647-6000 | info@thecakerybakery.net TheCakeryBakery.net We specialize in cakes, cupcakes and cookies skillfully decorated to your specifications. Our luscious madefrom-scratch buttercream tops all of our creations, making your wedding dessert as delicious as it is beautiful.
cakes and cakes by shelly
Prairie Village, KS (913) 488-7261 | cakesandcakesbyshelly@gmail.com CakesandCakesbyShelly.com I work closely with each client to design what complements the couple’s personalities. My cakes are all baked fresh to order, never frozen. I source local companies whenever possible, and I believe in exceptional service from tasting to delivery and the couple’s first bite of cake.
ces and judy’s catering
10405 Clayton Road, St. Louis, MO (314) 991-6700 | info@cesandjudys.com CesandJudys.com With unlimited options for menus and venues, including our newly renovated Le Chateau, we will achieve an event unique to you. At our place or yours, our talented team of chefs and creatives will design a lasting memory your guests—and your tastebuds—won’t soon forget.
championship catering
3354 Iowa Ave., St. Louis, MO (314) 606-9520 | ChampionshipCatering.com Championship Catering is the most referred caterer in
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classic cakes & more
Olathe & surrounding area (913) 757-4519 | ClassicCakesandMore.com “Awesome!” That’s what you will hear from your guests when they see and taste our beautiful buttercream cake creations. Our homemade products are always baked fresh, never frozen or mass-produced in a warehouse. Please contact us to schedule a complimentary cake tasting. You’ll be glad you did!
it’s a sweet treat day bakery
528 East 4th Street, Tonganoxie, KS (913) 284-9074 | ItsASweetTreatDayBakery.com We work intimately with our couples to provide the very best in wedding desserts, including cakes, cupcakes and much more, plus delivery and setup! We understand the desire for great flavor and amazing design all within a budget, so we strive for elegance and perfection with everything we do.
sugaree baking co.
1242 Tamm Avenue, St. Louis, MO (314) 645-5496 | pat@sugareebaking.com SugareeBaking.com We use the highest quality, freshest and finest products to create your desserts from scratch with real butter. Contact us today for your tasting for a wedding cake or pie that your guests will be raving about long after your wedding day!
susie g’s specialty cakes
2679 Highway K, O’Fallon, MO (636) 240-7610 | susiegscakes@aol.com SusieGsCakes.com We take pride in every cake we make. We make our buttercream icing from scratch—it is so scrumptious and delicious. Our cakes are made to order. Come visit us!
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mcarthur’s bakery artisan cakes
3055 Lemay Ferry Road, St. Louis, MO (314) 894-0900 | weddings@mcarthurs.com McArthurs.com/weddings.asp Since 1956 McArthur’s Bakery has used only the finest ingredients to craft mouthwatering wedding cakes. We will bake and decorate your wedding cake to your specifications. We want to help make your wedding day the most memorable day ever.
patty long catering
1804 S. 9th Street, St. Louis, MO (314) 621-9598 | info@pattylongcatering.com PattyLongCatering.com Our passionate chefs hold decades of experience in regional and international cuisine. Our dedicated, innovative event team will partner with you to accomplish your vision. Contact us and you will see how enticing cuisine, impeccable service and breathtaking venues create an unforgettable event.
russo’s catering
(314) 427-6771 | RussosGourmet.com Russo’s Catering is family owned and operated. We have dedicated ourselves to preparing foods of the highest quality using the freshest ingredients. Our experienced staff will offer you the quality service that you expect and our reputation demands.
sarah’s cake shop
10 Clarkson Wilson Centre, Chesterfield, MO (314) 750-8334 | heather.csc@sbcglobal.net SarahsCakeShopSTL.com Sarah’s Cake Shop strives to create the perfect wedding cake that captures each bride’s individual personality. From whimsical to simple and elegant, each cake portrays quality that’s as unique as the bride who chooses it. Wedding cake consultations and tastings are by appointment only. Come taste the difference.
alex waldbart florist
7000 Clayton Rd., St. Louis, MO (314) 644-3566 | waldbartflorist@sbcglobal.net AlexWaldbartFlorist.com At Alex Waldbart Florist, you will experience friendly designers, creative ideas, magazine-quality bouquets and service beyond compare. Thank you for choosing us!
les bouquets
7905 Big Bend Blvd., Ste. 102, Webster Groves, MO (314) 395-8335 | melinda@lesbouquets.com LesBouquets.com Known for our creativity and unique style, we are passionate about providing you beautiful flowers as well as the attention you deserve.
schnucks florist & gifts
St. Louis, MO (314) 997-2444 | SchnucksFloral.com At our floral design center, our professional designers are dedicated to bringing your dream wedding to life! Our special event coordinators will help you with everything including colors and trends. From elegant to extravagant, you are our top priority when planning your special day!
sisters floral design studio
431 E. Clinton Pl., Kirkwood, MO (314) 821-0076 | designteam@sistersflowers.net SistersFlowers.net Founded November 2001, Sisters Floral Design Studio is a full-service wedding and event florist. Working directly with our clients, we strive to create a consistent customized design and enjoy helping brides put together a fabulous overall look for their event!
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stems florist
210 Saint Francois Street, St. Louis, MO (314) 972-7836 | Stems4Weddings.com Stems Florist, an award-winning professional florist, creating wedding bouquets that are works of art, centerpieces that will keep your guests talking and wedding florals to celebrate your day—for wedding flowers as “unique” as you!
wildflowers
1013 Ohio Avenue, St. Louis, MO (314) 772-9900 | info@wildflowers.com WildflowersSTL.com Bold, sophisticated and always suitable, our knowledgeable staff, extensive inventory and familiarity with all of the city’s venues helps us take your ideas further than you imagined. Wildflowers offers event consultations by appointment and daily gift delivery to the greater St. Louis metro area.
bridal fashion & beauty
GownGallery.com Celebrating 25 years of style. The Gown Gallery flaunts a wide and ever-changing array of bridal, bridesmaid, mothers’ and special occasion gowns from leading designers. Follow us on Facebook @thegowngallery and Instagram #gowngallery for what’s fabulous in bridal!
mia’s bridal & tailoring
2235 E. Kansas City Rd., Olathe, KS (913) 764-9114 | sales@miasbridal.com MiasBridal.com Mia’s Bridal is a full-service bridal boutique offering designer dresses and accessories for all members of your wedding party. We also offer tuxedo and suit rentals, all types of alterations and an all-inclusive bridal package. Call or email us today to make your appointment!
nolte’s bridal
Overland Park, KS (913) 345-1122 | NoltesBridal.com As Kansas City’s most experienced wedding coordinator, Michael Nolte will personally coordinate the details of your rehearsal, wedding and reception. Your questions of “Where do I begin?” and most importantly, “What are my options?” and “Who will see that all this happens correctly?” and more are answered.
savvi formalwear
stephanie’s bridal boutique
12450 Blue Valley Parkway, Overland Park, KS (913) 681-1500 | EmilyHartBridal.com Picking a dress for your special day should be fun and enjoyable. Between our large selection of beautiful designer gowns and the option of having a customdesigned bridal gown by Emily, you are sure to find the dress of your dreams! Visit our exquisite showroom today!
fabulous frocks of kansas city
1207 W. 47th St., Kansas City, MO (816) 820-7619 kansascity@fabulousfrocksbridal.com FabulousFrocksBridal.com Hello, brides! Congratulations on your upcoming wedding! We carry a handpicked selection of gowns available for off-the-rack purchase. From Amsale to Vera Wang, we offer brides the couture gown (without the hefty price tag) in a fun environment. We also carry new-to-order veils, jewelry and sashes.
the gown gallery
1901 Main Street, Loft, Kansas City, MO (816) 361-8111 | info@gowngallery.com
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18900 Valley View Pkwy., Independence, MO (816) 373-7400 | mail@amorebride.com AmoreBride.com Exclusive designers, intimate appointments, unique accessories, exceptional service. Awakening the beauty within you…Experience Amoré.
10 convenient locations (800) TUXEDO-4 stlservice@savviformalwear.com SavviWedding.com We were voted Best Formalwear Specialist in St. Louis three years in a row. With our local warehouse, you can feel confident your attire will fit perfectly. Schedule a free groom’s try-on in all styles, fits and colors including the Michael Kors tuxedo and Black Label suits! Prices start at $59.95.
18675 E. 39th Street, Independence, MO (816) 795-6866 stephaniesbridalboutique@yahoo.com StephaniesBridalBoutique.com The girls at Stephanie’s are trained to provide you with the personal service you deserve to find your perfect dress and everything for your big day! Our bridal consultants’ experience is unmatched, and we are committed to making your time with us a happy, no-stress experience!
swyden cleaners
329 E. Gregory Blvd., Kansas City, MO (816) 444-7774 Before the wedding, bring your dress to us. We’ll freshen it and attend to every detail of lace, sequins, and beads as it’s expertly pressed. After your wedding, we’ll clean, press, and preserve your gown, and package your wedding dress for posterity. Your gown will remain as beautiful as your memories.
white traditions bridal house
827 N. 2nd Street, St. Charles, MO (636) 939-6005 | whitetraditions@gmail.com
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wedding consultants
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mckenzie phillips events
(913) 207-9288 mckenziephillipsevents@outlook.com McKenziePhillipsEvents.com McKenzie Phillips Events has been part of the wedding and events industry since 2013, specializing in weddings, corporate events, showers, parties, event design and coordination, and rentals. No matter what stage of planning you’re in, we can help! Visit our website or contact us for more information!
simcha’s events a bride’s ally
Serving St. Louis and surrounding areas (314) 560-4138 | victoria@abridesally.com ABridesAlly.com We specialize in day-of coordination and supporting your planning process on your own terms. We’re here when you need us and step back when you don’t. We’re your partner in design and details, your confidant when things get sticky. We are your ally.
St. Louis, MO (314) 458-5463 simcha@simchasevents.com SimchasEvents.com Simcha’s Events identifies creative ways to enhance your vision, while delivering an unforgettable experience for your guests. The result is an engaging celebration that truly reflects your unique personalities. You’ll be able to take in each moment of your day, knowing you left the details to us.
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(816) 728-3066 beth@chappelowevents.com ChappelowEvents.com CE couples love the encouraging, collaborative approach we use for managing their wedding planning process! Our method will inspire you to plan with confidence, while designing a wedding experience that genuinely reflects your incredible, personal style.
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mazzarese
11651 East 350 Highway, Raytown, MO (816) 215-0566 | theellegirls@eventsbyellekc.com EventsbyElleKC.com You’re dreaming of your big day that’s full of joy and creativity, a day full of memories for your family and friends to talk about for years to come. We are here to help you plan your wedding with confidence and, of course, personality.
kate & co.
(314) 909-9996 | KateandCoLLC.com Working with only the most discerning vendors from concept to a flawless execution, Kate & Company is award winning, industry referred and client adored. Offering both day-of and full-planning packages, Kate
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Kansas City, MO, and Overland Park, KS (816) 531-5800 | (913) 345-0200 | TIVOL.com With locations on the Country Club Plaza and in Hawthorne Plaza, TIVOL has provided an unmatched selection of jewelry and fine timepieces since 1910. Family-owned for four generations, TIVOL is known for its friendly, approachable, white-glove customer service as Kansas City’s premier jeweler. Financing and layaway options available every day.
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angi’s art
arndt photo & cinema Two Locations in Cape Girardeau, MO Historic Downtown (573) 334-8711 Crossroads (573) 651-6447 info@jaysonjewelers.com JaysonJewelers.com We offer designer and classic diamond engagement rings and wedding and anniversary bands in modern and vintage designs. We use a large selection of loose diamonds, gemstones and pearls for custom designs. Our GIA graduate gemologist provides appraisals. Our master jeweler provides on-site repairs.
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tivol
(816) 853-4491 | AngisArt.com Angi’s Art cherishes documenting love stories. She has a knack for capturing timeless images of your wedding day in a low-stress, professional atmosphere. Let Angi tell your story on your special day.
absolutely in! events
449 N. Euclid Avenue, St. Louis, MO (314) 315-1775 | info@absolutelyin.com AbsolutelyIn.com Absolutely IN! Events is a team of thoughtful, designsavvy, detail-obsessed event specialists. Our approach combines your ideas with our expertise to design a distinct experience—prioritizing superior customer service, assembling a team tailored to your needs and breathing life into your vision.
store with Kansas City’s largest selection of loose diamonds, custom and designer engagement rings, and superior customer service.
4850 W. 135th St. Leawood, KS (913) 491-4111 info@mazzarese.com MazzareseJewelry.com Our family has been in the jewelry business for four generations. Today, we proudly serve Kansas City with one-of-a-kind pieces not available anywhere else in the Midwest. Whether it’s imported or designed in-house, craftsmanship and quality will always be at the core of the Mazzarese tradition.
meierotto jewelers
4311 NE Vivion Rd., Kansas City, MO (816) 453-1111 | MJewelry.com Founded in 1979, Meierotto Jewelers is a family jewelry
Call/text (618) 310-2533 paul@arndtphotography.com ArndtPhotography.com We are family-owned—all brothers and one sister! You may know the Arndts from a TLC show or other TV projects. We also direct/produce two television series and use the same creativity in our wedding cinema and photo collections. Let us know your wedding date and venues to check our rates and availability!
aubrey erin photography
(816) 510-8832 aubrey@aubreyerinphoto.com AubreyErinPhoto.com Aubrey Erin is a Kansas City wedding photographer who loves telling each unique wedding story through images. Once the wedding is over, your memories are preserved through her photojournalistic approach. Aubrey’s unique style has a vintage modern flair, and she takes great care in every detail.
beau vaughn photography, videography, photobooth and dj
(866) 918-BEAU (2328) weddings@beauvaughn.com BeauVaughn.com Beau Vaughn is your one-stop shopping experience for quality photography, videography, photo booth, slow motion video booth and DJ services. We will create the perfect package for your wedding, so please email us to
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beth stratbucker photography & fine art
We would be honored to be a part of your special day!
(402) 618-5506 | BStratbuckerPhotographyFA.com I am so grateful to do what I love. As a photographer, it is my goal to capture all of the memories on the wedding day for the bride and groom to cherish forever. Contact me for more information, and check out my website for some more photo love. Ah, I love weddings! Congrats, and happy wedding planning!
breezy photography
Overland Park, KS (785) 443-5910 | breezyphotography@outlook.com AshleyHeier.Zenfolio.com Congratulations on your engagement! I am here to serve you and your needs. I want to hear what you envision for your photos. I will throw my ideas around too, or if you want me to take my talent to the furthest level, I will take control! These are your photos that you will look back at for a lifetime.
corey cassaw photography
(816) 332-1900 | corey@cassawimages.com CassawImages.com Corey Cassaw has always had a passion for capturing life’s moments behind a lens. His unique photojournalistic style, engaging personality and creative background culminate in a story of timeless images you will treasure forever.
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kenny felt photography
info@kennyfelt.com | KennyFelt.com Kenny Felt Photography delivers fun, fresh and unforgettable wedding photographs for couples across the country. Based in the Kansas City area, he is available for local and international travel. Contact him today!
melissa and beth wedding photography
(913) 306-5058 | info@melissaandbeth.com MelissaandBeth.com We are Kansas City–based wedding and engagement photographers, available for local and destination weddings and engagements.
nagel portraits
(805) 836-2435 | mail@nagelportraits.com NagelPortraits.com Mark and Katherine Nagel have a unique ability to capture raw emotions from those split-second moments
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ItsASweetTreatDayBakery.com 528 East 4th Street Tonganoxie, Kansas 913-284-9074 We work with you to provide the very best in wedding desserts within your budget Cakes, cupcakes, and much more! Delivery and setup included Make your special day a sweet treat day!
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noire studios photography
(816) 875-0114 | NoireStudios.com My focus for your wedding day is to capture all the moments of love, laughter and fun! I build a special bond with all my clients, which I feel is very important! Don’t be surprised if I tear up during the ceremony, hug you before you go down the aisle or laugh along with you. I can’t wait to meet you!
srieth photography
Serving all of Kansas and Missouri (316) 648-2621 sriethphotography@gmail.com SRiethPhotography.com You want photos that are romantic, fun, artistic and timeless. You are going to feel gorgeous and see happiness in your eyes. Your photos will tell your love story in the perfect, happily ever after that fairy tales end with—except it will be the beginning to yours.
tower studios
entertainment
Studio located in Overland Park, KS (816) 716-9175 | me@blissfulprints.com BlissfulPrints.com Blissful Prints creates exquisite wedding invitations and social stationery. There are endless possibilities to fit your unique style, including laser cutting, letterpress, foil stamping, envelope addressing and so much more!
czinvitations
info@czinvitations.com CZInvitations.com | Facebook.com/czinvitations Invitations are the first impression of your wedding—let us make it a great one! Our high-quality cardstock comes in over 130 colors to coordinate with your special occasion. Choose from our gallery, or let us work with you to make something custom!
first impression
(913) 345-8231 | susie.azorsky@gmail.com FirstImpression.Invitations.com First Impression carries a wide range of invitations in all price ranges. I have been working with brides for 26 years. I love working with the bride and groom to create the perfect invitation for their very special day. Please call for an appointment. I look forward to working with you.
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contemporary productions
Serving Kansas City, St. Louis and surrounding areas (314) 721-9090 | ContemporaryProductions.com Having a high-energy wedding band that meets your demands is a must. At Contemporary, we always cater to your specific needs. Let us help you discover the entertainer that will keep your family and friends together on the dance floor for the most memorable night of your life.
downtime productions
St. Louis, MO (314) 452-2848 | info@downtime-productions.com Downtime-Productions.com DTP is an award-winning management company dedicated to providing only the highest quality of music at your wedding. We manage the best bands in the Midwest that consist of the best musicians in the area, and only book bands within our company in order to guarantee the best customer service possible.
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(913) 707-6254 | maggie@magpiedesigned.com MagpieDesigned.com From the moment you say “yes” to the moment you say “I do,” let Magpie Designed help you with all of your stationery needs—save-the-date cards, your full invitation suite and day-of details.
mint favors and more
MintFavorsandMore.com Our favors are ideal for a wedding, shower, anniversary or engagement celebration. We’ll help you choose the perfect colors to match your wedding details. Most favors are fully assembled; however, we offer boxes, bags, paper roses and custom tags for DIY brides. Use code: TK15 for 15% off your purchase.
never forgotten designs
5159 Lemay Ferry Rd., St. Louis, MO (314) 399-9932 | info@neverforgottendesigns.com NeverForgottenDesigns.com Never Forgotten Designs creates custom confectionery items for bakers, event planners and more at our certified commercial kitchen in St. Louis. Unique offerings include photo and monogram image lollipops for wedding favors, edible images for desserts and custom sugar art bottles for groom’s cakes!
skr paper creations, llc
(913) 620-3408 | sarah@skrpapercreations.com SKRPaperCreations.com At SKR Paper Creations, we take your wedding stationery needs off your shoulders but never out of your hands. This starts with a personal consultation where we get to know your style and your tastes. Then we create a custom invitation that is sure to make you smile.
yellowbrick graphics
(913) 400-3439 | yellowbrick.graphic@gmail.com YellowBrickGraphics.com YellowBrick Graphics specializes in luxury, handmade wedding invitations and event stationery. From design to full-service assembly, invitations are customized to set the tone for any special event. Contact us today for a consultation to start your event on the right road!
specialty services
all seasons event rental
5050 Kansas Ave., Kansas City, KS (816) 765-1444 | sales@allseasonseventrental.com AllSeasonsEventRental.com All Seasons Event Rental is Kansas City’s premier event rental company. We know what it takes to execute a successful event; our experience allows us to meet your needs through comprehensive planning and trendsetting products.
alobar’s lighting and sound
716 Hanley Industrial Court, St. Louis, MO (314) 781-7600 | diane@alobars.net Alobars.com Alobar’s is there to help a DJ configure the right party sound, a bride choose the right lights for her big night or a planner realize her client’s vision for the event of the season. In business for over 23 years, Alobar’s makes an ordinary event extraordinary.
arthur murray dance studio
9217 Pflumm Road, Lenexa, KS (913) 599-4444 | kcarthurmurray@gmail.com KCArthurMurray.com Surprise your friends and family with a spectacular first dance! Let the pros at Arthur Murray help you make this the most treasured day of your life!
blanc de bleu cuv´ee mousseux
(855) 874-2394 Blanc de Bleu is the world’s first blue sparkling wine—a dry, crisp, sparkling grape wine made with organic blueberry juice concentrate and certified color. It’s perfect for wedding receptions. Visit Facebook.com/blancdebleu for your nearest retailer. Drink responsibly.
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fish eye fun
St. Louis, MO (314) 621-8638 | info@fisheyefun.com FishEyeFun.com Fish Eye Fun is a fun and funky alternative to a traditional photo booth. With our open-air booth design, fisheye lens, professional studio lighting and unique image processing, you’ll see that Fish Eye Fun really is way more than a photo booth!
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GARDENS holiday planners
14788 Business 13, Branson West, MO (877) 338-8747 | reservations@holidayplanners.com HolidayPlanners.com Holiday Planners LLC is a host agency and works with every supplier possible. The agency’s combined experience totals over 90 years of specialized service in our field. We take pride in being on the cutting edge and use many tools that were not around as little as 5 years ago.
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570 Rudder Road, Fenton, MO (636) 343-PARTY (7278) | info@grandrental-stl.com This is your best stop for all your wedding and party rental needs. We rent tents, tables, linen, specialty linen, spandex linen, chairs, chair covers, centerpieces, dance floor, staging, china, glassware, grills, chafing dishes, lighting and concession machines (popcorn, frozen drink, cotton candy), and more.
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innovative lighting & design
Serving Greater St. Louis (314) 399-8672 | info@topnotchphotobooth.com TopNotchPhotoBooth.com The best way to reflect on your day is through photographs. You’ll smile as you look through photos of you and your guests letting your fun side come out. We pride ourselves in having all-inclusive pricing, which includes an attendant, props, curtain choice, unlimited photos, scrapbook option and more.
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1632 Broadway Boulevard, Kansas City, MO (816) 421-6999 | in_light@mac.com InnovativeLightingDesign.com Lighting can make a room pop, and for your special day we pay attention to detail, offering custom fabric backdrops and unique lighting solutions to create spectacular results—making your event unforgettable. Innovative Lighting & Design, in the Crossroads Arts District, is just that: innovative.
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weinhardt party rentals
5901 Elizabeth Ave., St. Louis, MO 11601 Manchester Road, Des Peres, MO (314) 822-9000 inquiries@weinhardtpartyrentals.com WeinhardtPartyRentals.com Weinhardt Party Rentals is a full-service event rental company dedicated to providing quality equipment at an affordable price. Weinhardt Rentals has been a family owned and operated business since 1946. An experienced, established St. Louis tradition—why trust your event with anyone else?
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Union Horse Distilling Co.
5
Noboleis Vineyards
221
Uptown Theater
10
Olathe Community Center
407
The Venue at Willow Creek
308
The Old Post Office
271
The Venue in Leawood
317
On Broadway
366
Villa Antonio Winery
204
The Overland Park Ballroom
314
The Vineyard at Riverbend Chapel
181
Overlook Farm
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RESOURCE INDEX CONT. Visions Reception Hall
343
Branches & Twigs
36
Voce
252
BUDS
257
Vox Dei Community
360
Les Bouquets
225
Wichita Art Museum
303
RW Designs
80
The Wildwood Hotel
143
Schnucks Florist & Gifts
165
Windows On Washington®
50
Sisters Floral Design Studio
175
.ZACK
218
Stems
9
Wildflowers
169
BRIDAL FASHION & BEAUTY
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All My Heart Bridal
395
Amoré Bridal and Tuxedo
291
EmilyHart
283
Fabulous Frocks Bridal
69
The Gown Gallery
17
Mia’s Bridal
295
Nolte’s Bridal
29
Savvi Formalwear/The Ultimate Bride
53
Stephanie’s Bridal Boutique
39
Swyden Cleaners
375
White Carpet Bride
395
White Traditions Bridal House
77
CAKES & CATERERS
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23 City Blocks Catering
109
Affordable Catering
417
Brancato’s Catering
396
Butler’s Pantry
34
The Cakery & The Cup
252
Cakes and Cakes by Shelly
405
Ces and Judy’s Catering
30
Championship Catering
95
Classic Cakes & More
383
Gregory’s Creative Cuisine
395
It’s a Sweet Treat Day Bakery
417
McArthur’s Bakery
161
Patty Long Catering
7
Russo’s Catering
25
Sarah’s Cake Shop
215
Sugaree Baking Co.
135
JEWELRY
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Susie G’s Specialty Cakes
380
Jayson Jewelers, LTD.
101
Mazzarese
27
Meierotto Jewelers
63
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FLOWERS & DÉCOR
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adorn. floral design
395
Alex Waldbart Florist
60
Belli Fiori
158
WEDDING CONSULTANTS
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Botanicals Design Studio
72
A Bride’s Ally
245
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133
Live Events Missouri DJs
395
Chappelow Events
362
The Rosewood Ensemble
246
Events by Elle
389
TalentPlus
172
Kat Gaines Events
242
Kate & Company
18
INVITATIONS & DETAILS
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McKenzie Phillips Event Planning
369
Saving Grace Occasions
395
Blissful Prints
387
Simcha’s Events
14
CZ Invitations, LLC
379
Simple Elegance
41
First Impression
393
Magpie Designed
413
Mint Favors and More
411
Angi’s Art
372
Never Forgotten Designs
251
Arndt Photo & Cinema
178
SKR Paper Creations, LLC.
413
Aubrey Erin Photography
403
YellowBrick Graphics
345
Beau Vaughn Photography
71
Beth Stratbucker Photography & Fine Art
389 SPECIALTY SERVICES
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Breezy Photography
321
Brooke Ahart Photography
395
2 Chics & a Photobooth, LLC
248
Channa Brouk Photography
395
All Seasons Event Rental
396
Corey Cassaw Photography
401
Alobar’s Lighting and Sound
190
Emily Brown Film Production
395
Arthur Murray Dance Centers
377
JSchneider Photography
371
Blanc de Bleu Cuvée Mousseux
13, 67
Kenny Felt Photography
405
Cloud Nine
269
Melissa & Beth Wedding Photography
335
Fish Eye Fun
222
Nagel Portraits
415 Grand Rental Station
171
Noire Studios Photography
391
SRieth Photography
383
Holiday Planners, LLC
375
Innovative Lighting & Design
385
Top Notch Photobooth
261
Tower Studios 42
ENTERTAINMENT
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Ultrapom Event Rental
361
Contemporary Productions
197
Weinhardt Party Rentals
146
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jessica & dwayne FAYETTE, MO “Everyone was lighting their sparklers when Dwayne looked over at me and said ‘I can’t believe you’re my wife,’ ” Jessica recalls of their glittering grand exit. “I was sad the night was over, but I was really looking forward to waking up next to my husband. It was a great stepping-stone to what we’re going to achieve in our life together.”
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