What are the Effects of Men and Women Socializing on Relationships!
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Relationships in the modern world Relationships in the modern world are evolving as the outlook towards life is changing with the progressing time. New kinds of relationships are being built outside the circle of conventional relationships like marriages and likewise.
Let’s talk about the ‘modern’ outlook towards friendship and relationship We no longer believe that friendship should be between same genders only. With modernization of everything around us, we are of the belief that close friendships can exist between two people of opposite genders without much issues and easy acceptance. But, have we thought about the multitude of complications which arise from this ‘modern’ outlook?
What do we commonly observe when it comes to friendship between the opposite genders? There are many of us who are friends or close friends with people of the opposite gender because, we share a comfort with that person when it comes to sharing things about each other’s lives. Even when married or in a relationship with some other person, we believe that the friendship with our close ‘friend’ will be limited to friendship only always. Why? Because we are already married! The belief of not getting physically or emotionally attracted towards our friend ever, even when married, is so strong in our minds that we put ourselves in the so called ‘SAFE’ zone of ‘being married’.
How can our ‘friendship’ with an opposite gender friend create issues in our own relationship? There are many of us who are friends or close friends with people of the opposite gender because, we share a comfort with that person when it comes to sharing things about each other’s lives. Even when married or in a relationship with some other person, we believe that the friendship with our close ‘friend’ will be limited to friendship only always. Why? Because we are already married! The belief of not getting physically or emotionally attracted towards our friend ever, even when married, is so strong in our minds that we put ourselves in the so called ‘SAFE’ zone of ‘being married’.
Modernization has nothing to do with the male-female chemistry, and we need to understand that! When two people of opposite or same genders come together, it’s natural that there will be attraction of some kind after any long association between them, because nature has created these two genders for specific reasons. Modern times, modern ways, modern thinking,,,, has no role to play in it much.
Key to a long-term relationship! The common observation in the society is, whenever we feel good with someone or share a close bonding with that person over time, we start considering that person special. Such a person becomes a simple option in our life, and when an alternative is present, giving up on our own relationship/marriage becomes easier whenever possible.Â
But, if we want to have a long-term happy relationship, we need to invest our time personally in our own relationship in a qualitative and intimate manner, rather than focusing on building social circles.
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