FINDING YOUR WHY!

ON THE COVER:

Meet JaCarlos, Britton, & Baby Zak Davis-Washington. The Davis-Washington is a same-gendered couple who are sharing their adoption journey. This family is an example of what parenting can and should like for those that desire to start a family either through birthing or adoption. Sit back and enjoy the other stories included on what a beautiful, blended family looks like because we definitely didn’t stop with this family!

Gwendolyn D. Clemons

MBA, MSM, PRC, Editor-In-Chief

was scrolling on Facebook and one of my Facebook friends who had just turned 40 posed a question to women over 40 to chime in on. This young woman asked us to share things we've learned to help her prepare for the years ahead. As I began to post my 2 cents, it really became apparent to me that I had gained a lot of lived experience and it made me feel honored to share a thing or two about what I’ve learned.

My biggest take away that day was sharing with her is “Finding Your Why” in life. Because if you can find your “why” it will direct you toward your higher purpose. In between these margins lies the balance of maturing peacefully and gracefully or living with bitterness and regrets. I truly believe that finding your “why” and understanding your purpose are tied to the reason(s) behind your actions and decisions. It involves discovering what truly motivates and fulfills you in life.

The irony about that conversation on that day was I had just written my article for this issue, The Purpose Driven Issue and a random question just popped up on my profile. I know that the universe always gives us signs that render confirmation about things, and nothing just happens. I thought I had my article finished but the bigger story was to include the random Facebook exchange between Sisters! The comments on Facebook that day varied but from my estimation she was filled with nuggets and jewels from over 50 different women and random topics about navigating your 40’s. What I appreciated the most about the posts was that she found value in asking women older than her to share viewpoints and didn’t discount the fact that in this virtual community were treasures and golden nuggets at her disposal.

HERE ARE A FEW STEPS TO HELP YOU FIND YOUR "WHY.”

1. Self-reflection: Take the time to reflect on your values, passions, and interests. Consider what activities or causes energize you and bring you a sense of meaning and fulfillment. Reflecting on your past experiences, both positive and negative, can also provide insights into what matters most to you.

2. Identify your strengths: Recognize your unique strengths, skills, and talents. Understanding what you excel at can help you uncover areas where you can make a meaningful impact and find fulfillment.

3. Clarify your values: Determine your core values, which are the guiding principles that shape your behavior and decision-making. Reflect on what you believe is important in life, such as integrity, creativity, compassion, or personal growth. Aligning your actions with your values can bring a sense of purpose and authenticity.

4. Explore different areas: Don't be afraid to explore various interests and pursuits. Engage in new experiences, volunteer for different causes, or try out different hobbies or career paths.

5. Seek inspiration: Look for role models or people who inspire you. Learn about their journeys and how they found their purpose.

6. Experiment and act: Finding your "why" often involves acting and trying different things. Don't be afraid to experiment, take risks, and learn from both successes and failures.

Remember that finding your "why" is a journey, and it may evolve and change over time. Be patient with yourself and enjoy the process of self-discovery.