How to create your success story: Happily ever after lifewrittenbyme.com /2016/09/29/how-to-create-your-success-story/
HAPPILY EVER AFTER The ending of most children’s tales, is the dream of most. The pursuit of happiness is the driver of our lives; it is said by those that have studied that human beings make decisions that drive us towards pleasure (happiness) or away from pain. The basis of every decision comes down to these, although it’s easy to place in a category, it follows that we question the interpretation of pain and happiness. The ability to identify the process as being a part of the result tat we require. In this article I walk into the process and the journey with key building block that will push you closer to your goal See some success stories that will inspire you here
HOW TO CREATE YOUR SUCCESS STORY In the quest to build success and find happiness, it is imperative to be clear about your definition and ideologies in relation to success. We all have a different mission and purpose and therefore your path will be yours personally and may not resemble everyone else’s success. Success is not primarily monetary but takes different forms depending on your purpose and expression of it at this time. While most people seek financial gain ( and this is okay), in isolation it cannot give you the happiness you seek. One must find that place of true fulfillment and meaningful growth while giving themselves to a life of contribution. Heres How to create your success story:
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Create your success story
Overcome limitation Every person seeking to create your success story knows that the journey has challenges. But this is normally head knowledge. We easily get derailed by the storm. Developing the ability to overcome every challenge, bring down every limitation and emerge successful is a major skill in this regard. Making limitations your motivation, the mark of growth as you creatively find ways around it and make overcoming your habit, engraved in your code. The markings of a warrior are those of countless battles all won and are worn proudly. Taking every challenge and breaking it apart piece by piece teaches us values and at the center of it all, one finds a stepping stone of growth to reach another level and fight a new battle.
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Once we decide the goal, we must also count the cost not only financially but clearly identify behavioral patterns that must change, ways of thinking, time and energy that will be required. Make this clear that you can understand this intellectually and emotionally so that the discipline of getting this done becomes pleasurable. Be definite in the intent of what you will need to give and put out together with a plan on how you will put the goals in action. Decide early what you are willing to pay in order to progress. What happens if one needs to go through pain in order to find the pleasure they seek?, one needs to perceive the process as a joy as well. Like the Olympic medalist that enjoys the excruciating exercise and injuries that lead they to victory or the student awarded with a prize after foregoing sleep and even happy events with their friends in order to graduate first in class. This brings our interpretation and perception of pain and happiness critical, cause our decision making process depends on it. Looking at the journey as a part of the
Learning Growth is measured by how much you can learn, do act and then teach. The amount of learning you have done in your field of expertise will dictate the growth that you will enjoy. Learning is not only enjoyed in a classroom but through experience both personal and other peoples. Learning new preferences translates into habits and habits into character. This brings a certain clarity to the journey as our actions and thought process align
Follow through Take heart and work patiently through to the end, is a major sign of growth and maturity. Much of this requires patience, and a systematic approach to accomplishment. One that doesn’t cower or get discouraged by setbacks. The warrior must look the battle in the face and keep going until he is in the clear. Precision in building and flexibility with constant inquiry, keep checking the progress you make periodically by keeping a journal of your steps. this not only motivates you to keep moving but helps to break the tendency to stagnate.
When the goal post moves While we search for that happy ending, life turns out that we are happy only as we are searching making happiness a journey. Once a goal is attained soon the traveler becomes weary looking for the next goal to conquer, the next sense of victory on the horizon. Most on the journey of self- development cannot settle, we are seekers, looking for increased knowledge and wisdom and constantly changing our goals and attributes. Having a heart of migration and knowing always that there is a greater level of development, business, and family activities. One has to enjoy the journey, the stops and intersections. As every decision, set back, plan make the destination that much more meaningful
How to create your success story Realize that you are in charge of your life and destiny is today. begin to write your story and engage in building your destiny. Once you begin the journey and take steps to ensuring its growth, you will soon discover each step that you need to take higher than the one you were at before. Take the step and begin to write, begin to make the decisions and push into your destiny. Take your ideas and make
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a step everyday. Stay in a productive mode that will keep you thinking and developing. Start that business, write that book, compose that music and do it today. Remember your future is today and all you need is the power to start.
Start that business that you will love and change your life Take the plunge and create your success story, wishing you courage and wisdom as you work on your dream xx Thokozani Phiri Life coach and entrepreneur “be too large for worry, too noble for anger, too strong for fear, and too happy to permit the presence of trouble� http://digitalbloggers.com/Thokozani/ http://lifewrittenbyme.com/ Twitter: http://thokophiri911 Instagram: http://thokozanik Thokozani Phiri
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