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Lori Nittoli

Jennifer Bonazzo Peters

Richard Posluszny

Kimberly Redmond

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A Letter from the Editor

Iam no one’s “princess” anymore. I was once theirs, and now they are both gone.

My grandfather peacefully died on Sept. 20 in hospice care; he’s now reunited with my grandmother (the giver of the princess nickname), who I lost 11 years ago.

I’m choosing to remember the times I saw my PopPop most alive – at a youth baseball game; reading the sports scores in the newspaper; smoking a cigar; celebrating a milestone in my life with tears of pride in his eyes; chatting on the phone for every birthday and anniversary.

He was never more alive than when he was with or talking to my brothers and I, and that is how he’ll always be – full of spirit and love.

Anyone that has experienced grief knows it is often done quietly – so quietly that no one notices.

The weekend my grandfather died I still had to parent; I had to attend Back To School Night at my sons’ school; I had to take my one son to his soccer game, the other to his hockey clinic; I had to make the dinners and read the bedtime stories…

For the rest of my life, I will miss him quietly. I’ll miss him when I put on my favorite NJ Devils shirt that he gave me one Christmas when I was around 13. I’ll miss him when I order chicken francese – his favorite – at an Italian restaurant. I’ll miss him when the N.Y. Yankees pull off a win, even though I’m a N.Y. Mets fan (#OctoberReady!).

You see most of us are walking around missing someone without tears or noise. But, boy, is it felt.

Here’s your permission to miss them quietly while feeling it blaringly.

Rest easy, JessiCa huMphrey-Cintineo

THE MS CENTER AT HOLY NAME

The annual MS Center Fashion Show was held at the Glenpointe Marriott. For more information, visit www.holyname.org.

Lissette Madrigal, Shea and Katie McCarten

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North Valley Demarest High School Volunteers

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THE VALLEY AUXILIARY VEGAS NIGHT

The Valley Hospital Auxiliary held their annual Vegas Night at Seasons. For more information, visit www.valleyhealth.com.

Diana Frankel, Frank Hughes

Paul Schatz, Sharon McSwieney

David and Barbara Gross

The Valley Hospital Auxiliary Casino Night Committee

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BEHIND THE SEAMS

Eva’s Village held their annual Behind the Seams Fashion Show at Bottagra. For more information, visit www.evasvillage.org.

Ryan DePersio, Darren Magarro

Julia Del Castillo, Isabella Lauretta, Gabbie Garces

Ryan and Stephanie DePersio, Lauren and Nick Digenova

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John Muir, Jeremy Pridy, Joe Mazza

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The Bogota Savings Bank Charitable Foundation held their annual golf outing was held at North Jersey Country Club. For more information, visit www:bogotasavingsbankcharitablefoundation.com.

Taylor Smith, Matt Langer, Monica Rivera

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BVMI GOLF CLASSIC

Bergen Volunteer Medical Initiative held their annual golf outing at Arcola Country Club. For more information, visit www.bvmi.org.

Darryl Weiss, Bobby Vilensky

Dr. Rick Winters, Dr. Sanjeev Patel, Dr. Howard Ross

Larry Kleiner, Maria Surovetz

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Diana Nieves, Daniela Marino, Jennifer Comppen

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ENGLEWOOD HEALTH GOLF OUTING

The Englewood Health Foundation held their annual golf outing at Ridgewood Country Club. For more information, visit: www.englewoodhealthfoundation.org

Mark Shirvan, Deb Albanese, Amy Shirvan

Ray Schwab, Stephen and Brian Winiarski, Larry Martin

Caleb Anderson, Tim Collins

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Rare is Beautiful everyday people,

unCoMMon strength

By lori nittoli

Rarity makes us pause and appreciate the extraordinary. Whether it’s a unique flower that blooms for just a few days each year, the thrill of finding a limited-edition piece of art or witnessing the aurora borealis in New Jersey, rare things remind us of the incredible diversity and beauty that exists in the world. They encourage us to slow down, look closer and value what’s special.

Unique objects and phenomena hold a special place in our hearts precisely because they defy the norm. They demand our attention and stir up curiosity and often become an indelible part of our life story. Rare is beautiful.

If you have never heard of Peutz-Jeghers Syndrome, it is not surprising. PJS is a rare genetic disorder affecting as few as one in 300,000 people globally. Characterized by the development of benign polyps in the gastrointestinal tract and a predisposition to various cancers, it often goes undiagnosed. Specifically, PJS affects the STK11/LKB1 gene that suppresses tumor growth throughout the body. As a result, cancer risk is multiplied considerably.

Sal and Denise Ingui have been lifelong Bergen County residents. After they were married, they settled in Elmwood Park where they raised their three children, Aviana, Giovanni and Denise (DeeDee). Denise and Sal are no strangers to the value of “community” and “service.” Denise worked for 10 years with the Elmwood Park school system, then for the last three years she moved back to her hometown and is currently the executive confidential assistant to the city manager in Garfield. Sal, now retired, served as a New Jersey State Trooper for 27 years. “Giving back” was a daily practice for each of them and a quality they instilled in their children as well. There was no way they could have foreseen that in June of 2015 something quite uncommon was about to change the lives of the Ingui family forever – their 14-year-old daughter DeeDee was diagnosed with PJS.

Denise recalls details of the fateful day that preceded the diagnosis.

“On April 10, 2015, a serious stomachache led us to take DeeDee for a visit to the ER. What could have been several simple ailments instead led to a major surgery involving the removal of nearly 3 feet of small intestine resulting from a blockage caused by a tumor.”

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DeeDee’s parents, though concerned, were relieved when the pathology report concluded the tumor was benign. They did not know at the time that her long journey was just beginning.

“Further genetic testing revealed there was a deletion in her STK11/LKB1 gene, and the doctors determined she had Peutz-Jeghers Syndrome.”

“Since her initial diagnosis in 2015, DeeDee has endured numerous tests and procedures,” Denise continues. “Several dozen polyps have been removed from her intestinal tract. Monitoring and surveillance will continue forever,” Denise says.

The diagnosis of their beloved daughter plunged the Ingui family into a world of uncertainty and fear. However, rather than succumbing to despair, Denise and Sal chose to channel their energy into making a difference, and in November of 2015, Rare is Beautiful was born.

“In an attempt to find a cure for our daughter’s disease, we have created this non-profit organization,” Denise explains. “The mission of our foundation is to find a cure and spread awareness of PJS, in addition to helping families with financial needs whose chil-

dren are already stricken with cancer. Rare is Beautiful’s success will be made possible solely through donations and fundraising efforts.”

With the love and support of the community behind them, Sal and Denise began raising funds in 2016 by hosting a charity dinner at the Brownstone in Haledon. The following year, in 2017, they organized a Rare is Beautiful Walk/Run 5K Family Fun Day. They were not expecting the hundreds of friends, family and residents who came to participate and donate to the foundation. The following year, in 2018, the Inguis hosted their first tricky tray benefit at the Venetian in Garfield. The number of supporters nearly doubled at this event, signaling the growing momentum of Rare is Beautiful.

In the span from 2020-2021, COVID 19 brought life as we know it to a screeching halt. Because diseases continued to persist despite the global shutdown, the Inguis had to pivot to keep the foundation afloat. In addition to navigating the pandemic, doctors gave DeeDee devastating news – she had developed breast cancer.

“2020 was one of the most challenging years for everyone,” Denise explained. “In order to continue

aiding families with donations through Rare is Beautiful, we had to be creative with our fundraising strategy. We hosted a virtual tricky tray, and, thanks to the generosity of our supporters, we were able to maintain our donations and sustain the funding towards PJS awareness and research.”

Denise continued, “As the year went on, we had to prepare our daughter both physically and mentally for what would be next in her treatment – a double mastectomy, followed by reconstructive surgery.”

Thankfully, DeeDee’s surgeries were successful, her courage an inspiration to keep moving forward.

Despite the rarity of certain things, there’s an undeniable connection between people that reminds us just how small the world truly is. Anthony and Jenn Pulizzano’s son JP was diagnosed with PJS at the age of 2. The family, from Pompton Plains, turned to the internet in search of information about treatment options and support groups. That is where they found “Rare is Beautiful” and reached out to the Inguis immediately.

“Soon afterward,” Denise shared, “Anthony was at a social gathering and overheard people chatting about a young lady, Danielle, who had PJS. He involved himself into the conversation and found out she lived in Upper Saddle River, where he is currently a police officer. He reached out to the Dumont family immediately, and just like that, the Rare is Beautiful family was growing.”

“JP, who is now 10 years old and an awesome big brother to his sister Camryn, has one kidney, has undergone five surgeries, and sees a regime of doctors and specialists at CHOP annually,” his mom Jenn explained. “His tests include colonoscopies, pill cameras, endoscopies and treatment for any other medical needs that arise.”

Finding Rare is Beautiful brought the love and support the Pulizzanos desperately needed.

“We are so fortunate to be part of this family, and grateful to be able to help others who are battling rare diseases and cancers.”

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Rare is Beautiful and the Dumont family chose to make a donation to intestinal rehabilitation surgeon Dr. Kareem Abu-Elmagd at the Cleveland Clinic, who has been Danielle Dumont’s primary treatment doctor throughout her health journey. The foundation also funds education, advocacy, and therapeutic art opportunities for patients at the Intestinal Transplant & Gut Rehabilitation Center at Cleveland Clinic.

At this year’s annual Rare is Beautiful tricky tray event held in April, long-time supporters, the Amados, were presented a donation on behalf of the foundation. The way they and the Inguis came to know each other seems like fate.

Kristen Amado explains, “Denise and I worked together at the school where I taught, and her son Gio was in my class. When DeeDee was diagnosed with PJS, we talked about how hard it was for the family.”

Kristen continued, “I remember Denise telling me that something good had to come of it and she knew she wanted to give back to other families. Soon after, Sal and Denise created “Rare is Beautiful’! Each year we attended the fundraising events to support our friends and the organization.”

“Seven years ago, when I was pregnant, my husband Herm and I learned there was a chance our baby could be born with a rare genetic disease. Adriana arrived and was diagnosed at just 2 weeks old with Beta Thalassemia Major, a blood disorder that reduces the production of hemoglobin, the protein that carries oxygen throughout the body. Adriana has two missing hemoglobin genes, meaning, her body cannot make any hemoglobin on its own,” Kristen shared. “Denise was one of the few people I called to talk and cry to. It was hard for me to talk to anyone who couldn’t understand my feelings as a mom, but I knew she ‘got it’. Denise promised me she would always be there for us. She reassured me that I was strong, and we would find the courage to see our daughter through her struggles, which includes receiving blood transfusions every 2-4 weeks for the rest of her life.”

“This year, Denise called and told me that they wanted to honor our Adriana at the Rare is Beautiful tricky tray event. Adriana, who has received nearly 100 blood transfusions as of today, felt so special that night! She got to wear the prettiest dress, go to an “adult fancy dinner” and be featured on stage. Denise and Sal presented Adriana with a special Taylor Swift themed “gift,” which is her favorite, and a very generous check which will assist in her care and any future treatments she may need that insurance will not cover. It was a night that we will never forget and consider ourselves honored to be part of the Rare is Beautiful family.”

While Rare is Beautiful may not be a widely-known organization, word of their efforts and cause are spreading not only throughout Bergen County and New Jersey, but across the country and around the globe. They have connected with families all over the world who are diagnosed with PJS and other rare diseases, including the Philippines, UK, England, Austria and Egypt.

Rare is Beautiful is host to several fundraising and charitable events throughout the year. In 2024 so far, they have given $40,000 to families in need. They work closely with the pediatric wing at St. Joseph’s Hospital in Paterson, Hackensack Hospital and CHOP Philadelphia. Denise and Sal’s strong connection and commitment to community draws support from UNICO, IAPS of NJ, numerous PBA locals throughout New Jersey, school districts, small businesses and everyday heroes.

Denise explained, “Our success relies on generosity, and we have been very blessed to know so many amazing people!”

When asked about her biggest challenge as a founder of Rare is Beautiful, Denise reveals, “I would say the biggest challenge for me, personally, is the sadness that often comes with all of this. Thankfully, there are so many successes, but not every story has a happy ending. The heartbreak ultimately makes us want to work harder so we can help more people.”

Some Noteworthy Details

- As of 2024, Rare is Beautiful has officially exceeded $1 million in gross revenue.

- The annual tricky tray event at the Venetian hosts between 750-1,000 guests.

- Funds raised by or donated to Rare is Beautiful are always subsidized to satisfy their mission and never for personal medical expenses. Rare is Beautiful also sustains no salary expenses as all phases of the organization are accomplished by volunteer services.

Learn more about this truly special organization and how to donate or become involved by visiting www.RareisBeautiful.org and their Facebook page: INGUI Family, Rare is Beautiful.

MACALLAN SCOTCH AND CIGAR DINNER

The annual Macalan Scotch and Cigar benefit dinner was held at The Brick House.

Rose Mary Klie, Donnalee Corrieri

Paulie Chiorazzi, Rocco

Velardi Stewart Krell, Kevin Barsham

Ronnie Vergona, Nicky Vergona, Mario Fernandez, Ron Vergona

Rich LaBarbiera, Joe Vergona

John Nunley, Pedro Martin, John Vargas, John Serpin

Steve and Matt LaSala

James Hickey, Mike Brown, Jason Weiman, Jose Lozano

Rodney Baldera, Bob Bornemann, Kevin Pace, Brian Mccourt

Clara Knauft, Michael Rosenberg

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Brandon and Steven Goldstein

Jeffrey Khalaf, Trae Minicucci, Jerry Iannone

Matt LaSala, Zach Glattman, Justin Tannenbaum, Justin Rattner

Vinny Cannariato, Avo Goldian, Rich Tuntigian, Timmy Spalt, Daniel Kalyoussef

John Calandrielllo, Nick Cangialosi, Joe Conte, Mitch Libroc

Diane Chessin, Debbie Cangialosi, Michelle Conte, Sharon Goldstein, Donnalee Corrieri, Rose Mary Klie, Nicole Chessin

Justin

Jorge Davila, Ahmad Shahriar

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PARAMUS ROTARY GOLF OUTING

The Paramus Rotary held their annual golf outing at Edgewood Country Club. For more information, visit www.paramusrotary.org.

Aldo Repetto, Tom Flatt, Sam Wright, Jorge Barraque

Tommy Scuderi Jr., Rich Labarbiera

Paul Scarduffa, Jim Jaworski, Howard Schreiber

Diane Vasile-Falcone, Jay Leone, Kevin Behnke, Ed Lang

Bobby Costa, Mikey Cheap

Chris Kourgelis, Sean Featherstone, Brett Sutcliffe, Michael Bush

Pete and Pete Caminiti Sr.

Jack Baum, Marty Diamond, Greg Huelbig, Drew Steck

James Messina, David Mende, Niko Kourgelis, Sean Donnelly

Kevin, Tyler and Brandon Smith, Carl

Dan Kacsmar, Mike Monforte, Anthony Feorenzo

Roger Gross, Nick Laganella, Aldo Repetto, Sam Wright

Jay Leone, Dr. Peter Kantzilieris, Sherin Elashry

Jean Jadevaia, Lisa McCrea, Jaime Shanahan, Elizabeth Spaeth

Chip Philibosian, Nick Laganella, Joe Conte

Mary Klie, Donnalee Corrieri

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RED CARPET WARRIORS

Red Carpet Warriors held their annual A Night for Kids Fighting Cancer event at Bottagra Restaurant. For more information, visit www. redcarpetwarriors.com.

Ralph and Patricia Lauretta

Monica Matos, Francisco Poblete

Jess Myers, Jess Meyers

Robert and Jayme Purisima

Vanessa and Jonathan Marques

Julie Dunic, Christina Gonzalez

Maria Chomenko, Kimberly Gerena

Joe and Nicole Royce

Maria Petruska, James Lapp

Connor James, Bee James

Marni Strauss, Paula Corrieri

Marta and Matt Skibniewski

Michael Pasciuto, Norina Lapp

Michele McCollum, Joe Puglise

Joe Royce, Gary Bidrach

Joe Puglise, Michele McCollum, April DeFrancesco

25 Years Later, The Curtain Rises on Steve Bell and Bill Cantor

Steve Bell and Bill Cantor are the holdovers who had played in “A Funny Thing Happened on the Way to the Forum” 25 years ago. Steve began his Bergen County Players (BCP) career back in 1980, and Bill has been at it since 1976. If their years are added up, together these relics have been here 92 years, and guess what season we’re in.

Pseudolus

“I find it odd that I’m playing the same part I played 25 years ago,” Steve said. {Editor’s Note: Bill had to move up from one character to an older part.} “I’m the odd man out, and I consider myself fortunate to be able to play the same part.”

Steve has directed 17 shows and been in 13 others at BCP since 1999.

He said he played Pseudolus just as a comic role in the initial show.

“Back in ’99, everything I did was about getting the laugh. Now, I really see how the character fits into the show. Pseudolus has something that he really wants which is his freedom.”

This is the fifth time overall Steve has been involved with Forum.

Director Ray Yucis, a Life Member, spoke of the different challenges the veteran actors are facing revisiting this show a quarter century later.

“I wanted Steve to do a more down-and-dirty interpretation of Pseudolus this time around,” he said, “As I told him, ‘Think with your gut, not your head.’”

Playing Pseudolus is a challenge because there’s so much to do, Steve explains. Being on stage so much of the time, pushing people around and keeping the plot going.

Steve describes Forum as an intricately and perfectly constructed musical. The story moves along by the constant flow of sight gags and word play. He calls it one of the funniest musicals ever written.

“You don’t do this for the awards,” Steve says of the joy in theater. “You do this for the love of doing it. It’s a challenge; it’s fun. Gets you out of your regular life; you can be somebody else. But I’m hoping my character is more grounded, and well rounded than the last time I did it. I know that I’ll still be getting the laughs.”

Senex and Erronius

“The theater and my profession work very well together, for me,” Bill a Player since 1976, said. “Yes, I am a physician (otolaryngologist) and have been doing it for many years.”

Bill speaks about how his acting and job often become akin to each other. “I’m basically a character actor. I try when I’m up on that stage hoping you believe that I am a babbling old man. Making the character that I’m portraying on the stage believable as that character. That’s what being an actor is all about. And when you see me dance, you will believe.”

Bill is switching roles this time around from Senex to Erronius.

“I’ve gotten older,” Bill said. “Memorizing lines at my age is not as easy as it used to be, I have far fewer lines for starters. I used to be able to do every other line for 2-and-a-half hours. Did it in ‘Sunshine Boys’ and ‘Same Time Next Year.’

“Now I’m looking for little cameo roles,” he continued. “A smaller part that’s a featured role, as opposed to a leading role. I get asked to do parts. I know what is appropriate for me at my age. What I can sing and can’t. What I can do physically and what I cannot. I think I do well for my age. I still know how to project my voice. I do character voices and accents.”

Over the years Bill did a Scottish accent for a grandfather in” Guys and Dolls” and played Giuseppe in Italian accent for “The Most Happy Fellow.” These roles carried many lines. In addition, Bill said he’s played many other roles with an English accent.

“Bill’s role is brief, but pivotal,” Ray explained. “I told him he needed to get his laughs without making too much of things and risk slowing down the action. Happily, both actors rose to the challenge and are giving the performance I wanted and that the show demands.”

Anytime a patient goes to a physician, they’re a bit anxious, Bill explains. What’s he going to find?

“I give them the sense of reassurance, but part of that is the actor in me doing what I should be doing in connecting with people. Acting after all is reacting. Sometimes you have to initiate the action, but most of the time you must react to a situation. And that is a big part of acting. You have to do that in medicine too.

“PS. I do that in the office,” he continued. “When I have a patient with a hearing problem (as I do), say they cannot hear consonants, I can imitate the voice without the consonants, so the patient knows what it sounds like. {Editor’s Note: It was amazing how Bill expertly demonstrated speaking without consonants, along with lisps and nasal congestion disorders.} As an actor I can do it for them and say I know what is going on. It also entertains them and relaxes my patients. You thought I was going to be boring, didn’t you?”

Bill said the biggest change here at BCP has been the personnel. He explains the old timers are gone, and how he’s now one of them. Bill cites Steve as a splendid example, a wonderful talent.

“He’s been my director, been my big brother, my son and been my musical director. You see what a fun life I have.”

“It’s very satisfying here,” Bill says of BCP.

“I’ve had a very good acting career. I worked elsewhere too, but here it’s the same building where we attract incredible talent as we always have over the years. We take vacations, you’re allowed to get sick, nothing you can do about it.”

In “Ragtime,” at the heart of COVID season, actors would miss shows almost each week, he explained. Other actors would fill in, dancing, singing, bouncing from one role to another.

“It may be inconvenient for us, but we will go out of our way to make sure there’s a good show and a good season.”

Dr. Bill still has the knack of relaxing his patients, and as actor entertaining the audience.

“A Funny Thing Happened On The Way To The Forum” will run until Oct. 19 at Bergen County Players, 298 Kinderkamack Road, Oradell. Those interested in tickets can visit www.bcplayers.org or call (201) 261-4200.

Bergen County Players, Inc. is a non-equity, non-profit community theater company, dedicated to presenting quality productions representative of the many facets of theater arts for the enrichment of the community. Members are encouraged to develop skills in all areas of theater production in an environment of mutual respect and support, for their own artistic fulfillment, as well as for the benefit of the organization. In this ongoing endeavor, the company seeks to play an integral role in the cultural life of greater Bergen County.

Thanks to Oradell, the Bergen County Players are celebrating their 75th year at The Little Firehouse Theater in the quaint, family-friendly borough.

Thousands of patrons and performers have walked through the doors of the converted historic firehouse, at 298 Kinderkamack Road, to see quality musicals and plays at the popular community theater. All told, BCP has been bringing quality community theater to New Jersey for 92 years, but it’s the Oradell location that has become BCP’s most recognized home.

Back in the day, the Players drifted from high school auditorium stages to various barns, and then to a theater in River Edge. Unfortunately, one winter night in 1944, the structure burned to the ground. Nobody knows how the fire started. The next Players’ show opened on schedule at Bergen Junior College, which later became the Teaneck campus of Fairleigh Dickinson University. However, BCP wanted a more permanent home. History says BCP member and Oradell native Gladys Middlebrook asked her hometown mayor if there might be a place for a theater in town. The borough had built a new firehouse and the older location was empty, but not for long. A deal was made and the rest is history.

“We hope to bring quality theater to Oradell for another 75 years,” BCP President Alyson Cohn said. “We are so thankful to the borough and all the people of Oradell for their continued support.”

After BCP took over the space, they built a stage on the back, put seats where the old fire trucks used to be and called their new space The Little Firehouse Theatre. The theater built an extension in 1969 for extra rehearsal space and storage, then

later upgraded to an electronic light board, installed central air conditioning and computerized the box office, among other improvements. BCP continues to upgrade its space every year, all the while keeping antique fire helmets on the wall, historic photos and other memorabilia as a tribute to what the space used to be. Patrons and residents can keep an eye out for a new marquee to be installed soon.

Some of the famous faces that have graced the BCP stage include Tony Award nominated actor Rob McClure (“Mrs. Doubtfire”), Tony Award nominated actress Beth Fowler (who originated the role of Mrs. Potts in Broadway’s “Beauty and the Beast”), Tony Award nominated actor Robert Sean Leonard (“The Invention of Love,” the movie “Dead Poets Society” and the hit television series “House”) and actor Adam Rodriguez (of the television series “CSI: Miami” and the film “Magic Mike.”) Other faces include neighborhood doctors, lawyers, writers, teachers, telephone company workers, graphic artists, police officers, contractors and others you may run into at the bank, supermarket, school, coffee house or mall.

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Together They Are Stronger

Female Coterie Empowers Women One Event At A Time

By staCie rose

The world we live in is complex and consumer driven. You can dream up a product and miraculously find it on Amazon or seek a solution to a problem already being tapped into using AI. But what about human interaction? What about the socialization gaps that leave us feeling isolated and alone in our personal journeys? Sometimes, it takes a deficiency in our day-today lives or an aha moment to spark a beautiful idea and bring it into focus. It also takes a person with a fiercely “can do” attitude to set something bigger than oneself in motion.

Noelle Alfonso is a lifelong educator, a mother, a daycare owner, an entrepreneur with a certification in interior design, the owner of an e-commerce luxury décor business she runs with her children and the founder of The Female Coterie. Too busy to be bored, she still finds time to attend educational events, sip and shop and attend career-driven panels with experts and motivational speakers in various fields.

While attending an event a few years back, something clicked – that aha moment! Women over 35 seemed underrepresented. Whether corporate-focused or wellness-related, the speakers and curriculums targeted very young women, speaking to them in a seemingly different language using lingo like Boss Babe. This sentiment did not resonate with more mature women. It felt as if women who had already had children, careers, marriages or both were not the focus. Many of these functions felt like missed opportunities to connect with a demographic with much to offer.

CONNECTION AND COMMON GROUND

Noelle found that these women in their late thirties and beyond began gravitating to her, talking and relating to her. They would approach her at events and say, “Thank goodness, someone I can converse with.” She noticed a pattern. Some of these people

THE SPARK

in need of community or were looking for their next bit of inspiration. She began to think about this beautiful niche. Some women had already had a dream career and were looking to pivot but didn’t know how. Not all the women she met wanted to climb a corporate ladder. Some women felt unseen, unheard and even ashamed of their desire to make a change. She met stay-at-home moms looking to relaunch careers and seeking other spirited women to bond with over shared interests and aspirations. Why were there so few opportunities locally?

Noelle began thinking about how women of all ages and stages could be helpful to one another. There is so much learning and empowering to do. The Female Coterie was born out of the express desire to help women feel heard, seen and uplifted, to support others in their life goals and journeys and to create a beautiful, inclusive and joyful community. The Female Coterie was designed to give women safe spaces to discuss their experiences and to fill the void.

HOLDING SPACE

Noelle orchestrates lovely, inclusive women’s empowerment events about women living the lives they truly want to live. These events can be transformational, with a diverse group of panelists to inform and encourage women about their endless potential. Topics covered include career changes, challenges of motherhood and working on the mind, body and money. The events have sold out and have had an array of fantastic sponsors. The organization is always open to new sponsors.

The idea here is that there is room for more than one woman at the table; we should all be able to enter a room with confidence. For Noelle, the stars aligned when she began cultivating this community and creating these memorable events. Sometimes women bring their mothers, their friends and colleagues. She loves seeing women in their thirties talking with women in their sixties and sharing life stories. Women are warriors. There is usually a theme, a tricky tray or a swag bag. Everyone has fun and leaves with some positivity for the road.

A PERSONAL TWIST

Noelle says she feels she is finally healing a part of her own life that needed healing by creating these beautiful events and giving back. She has so many incredible people around her and so deeply understands that need for community.

MOTIVATION

People often say that their parents or children motivate them. That is a lovely thing. But in Noelle’s case, the motivation comes from within. For far too long, she felt she was accepting things for how they are and not how they should be. At a certain point, she became the architect of her own life and began helping others find the courage and community to do the same.

TRUE INSPIRATION

One of the things that makes The Female Coterie events so special is their authenticity. The desire to educate, inspire, uplift and build a loving community is authentic and genuine. There is no pretense and no loftiness. This is a truly inclusive and honest endeavor. The panelists at the events are amazing women who are gracious, kind, and relatable. There is honesty about these functions and no silver bullet. No one is overpromising an overnight transformation. The hope is that people will meet others, listen to shared stories, feel a greater sense of connection and self-worth, and maybe even say, “Hey, I can do that!”

The Next Female Coterie Event will take place on Oct. 26. You may follow the organization and find event updates on their Instagram, @the.female.coterie.

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Ditch The Number Chic Is Ageless

By soneCa guadara

Forget the stereotypical rules, ladies! There is no right age to bring out the diva hidden in you. By the time you reach your forties, you’ve hit your stride and figured out what works for you. Best of all, it’s finally time to put yourself first – whether that means focusing on your career, your hobbies or evolving your look.

Dozens of times a week, I am asked about age-appropriate dressing. “Hi, I’m 60, 32, 54, can I wear…?” Or “Now that I’m 50, I don’t know what I can wear.” So today, I want to dive into this big, nuanced topic, starting with the fact that you can wear whatever you want.

But that’s very different than thinking because you are a certain age you now must dress a certain way. When I was in my forties, I wouldn’t be caught dead in what I was wearing in my twenties because my body and style have changed, and, thankfully, I can spend a little more than I could back then. Just because I’m over fifty, doesn’t mean I want to be invisible or look ordinary. Having said that I don’t want to look ridiculous either, like I’m trying too hard to keep up with my 20-something-year-old daughter either.

Ageless style is dressing to look good and feel comfortable. As we age, we know what looks and feels good on our bodies and even though we want to appeal to the trends, it’s about trusting what makes you feel confident. Even though I work in fashion, for me, it’s not about looking so “fashionable” that I’m “unfashionable.” I

am very selective about what I buy. I prefer to have a minimal wardrobe of classic pieces which have a contemporary twist (peek at my Instagram handle StyledbySoneca to see what I mean).

But I would never say I couldn’t wear something simply because I’m over 40. Happily, we live in a time when the conversation has shifted from “anti-aging” to health and vitality. We want to feel youthful rather than look young. So, what if, instead of viewing our age as a limitation, we consider it an opportunity? Because if you keep thinking you need to follow “rules” when it comes to getting dressed, you’re just making it harder on yourself. So, before I get into the nitty-gritty, let me say this: the one thing I know for sure is that we’ve got this whole age-appropriate conversation wrong. Aging should be a celebration, so instead of thinking of all the things you “shouldn’t” or “can’t” wear, it’s time to embrace the world of opportunity that awaits us with each passing year. And the good news is that classic style is inherently ageless.

All things considered, there’s no question at the end of the day: The new Range Rover is a top-tier competitor with wonderful tech, solid powertrains, and an excellent cabin — in terms of quality and space.

I offer style tips and theories that will work within your budget or with your body type, but, most importantly, they are all timeless. I’ve never liked

That said, you do have to be mindful of the engine you select and the trim levels as pricing reaches into

telling women what they should and should not wear. Instead, I hope you see this article as a guide to achieving a modern, classic style with a bit of a twist, regardless of the year you were born. My job as a personal stylist is to provide options, which means that, based on your style and needs, not all of them will speak to you. Still, all the recommendations are under the umbrella of classic, modern style. Over the years, I’ve created a hierarchy or checklist for clients and readers to go through when they wonder about mental appropriateness. As you’ll see, age is the last piece to consider, even then it’s not what you might think.

How to Dress for Your Age

Do you want to know how to dress “for your age”? Stop thinking about it. Instead, filter your choices through a few checkpoints and you’ll always look and feel great.

Body Type

The truth for most of us is that our bodies change with age, so focus on wearing clothes that work best for the body you have right now and makes you feel confident. Take some time to learn about the most flattering shapes and silhouettes for you. It makes all the difference in the world.

the stratosphere, fast. It’s easy to go north of $165,000 if you’re not paying attention. Frankly, if it were my hard-earned dollars, I’d invest in a six-cylinder long wheelbase SE. That’s because the six’s engine feels like a more natural fit in the big daddy Range and the added space gets two thumbs up from me. Continued

Lifestyle

Understanding your current lifestyle is surprisingly critical in making good purchasing decisions.

I work with many women who love the idea of an outfit or specific piece but have no place to wear it. So, ask yourself, where am I going in this? And can you wear it a few different ways or to a few events, so you can get your money’s worth. Otherwise, it’s not an appropriate purchase.

Quality and Fit

As we age, many of us begin to appreciate quality and look for a more sophisticated style. Buy the best you can afford, spend a little more or find a higher quality garment at a discount. Consider fit and custom tailoring, like a hem, or having your waist taken in – spend on the small details; things we never thought of when we were younger. At 22, you grabbed something disposable off the rack at a discount store; today, you’ll pay a little more at a better department or specialty store, so you get a better product with a longer lifespan. Finally, by the time we turn 40-plus, we have a clear idea of who we are. Maybe your personal style isn’t fully formed yet, but you know what you like and dislike. Is there a look you aspire to create? A way you want to live? These are the decades to do it in.

There is No Such Thing as Age-Appropriate

Our lifestyles, bodies and personal style profiles are wildly different from when we were younger. And that’s OK! In my twenties, I ran around in low rise jeans. If I still had rock hard abs, maybe I would still show them wear. Our tastes evolve with time for most of us, and we don’t like the same things we did in our younger years.

We’re Also a Whole Lot Smarter

Remember the days of going out for the night in the cold, wearing sky high heels and no coat? Can you imagine doing that now? We didn’t always make great choices… at least I didn’t. With age comes wisdom, and now I know it’s not worth traumatizing my feet and getting frostbite. And guess what? Young women now have more sense than we did because they have no problem wearing their sneakers with their party dresses.

My Best Tips to Timeless, Ageless Style

Try High-low Dressing

This is probably my personal favorite style tip of all time. You’ll always hear me talking about “high-low” dressing, but what does the term mean? It’s when relaxed, low-key pieces and wardrobe basics, such as a simple cashmere sweater or a T-shirt, are mixed with formal, high-octane dressier pieces like silver leather trousers. When the party’s over, try pairing your sequin skirt with a casual sweater, a shiny satin shirt with denim or smart tailoring with sportswear — think opposites attract.

Grab a Great Coat

Nothing is worth the investment quite like a brilliant coat. If you have a wardrobe full of classic neutral cover-ups (don’t we all), be brave, try something a little livelier. Sometimes you want a coat that is the outfit. It’s a show-stopping look in a single piece that will give everything you team it with some added va-va-voom. It’s the last layer you put on, so make it count. Think red; it’s timeless and classic.

Wear a Belt

Yes, this humble accessory is your secret weapon to instant sophistication, especially if you like to dress head-to-toe in neutrals. A gorgeous leather belt will instantly add a little something interesting. Personally, I love a gold buckle, a flash of gold hardware always makes accessories look extra-luxe. The belt is a wardrobe game-changer and can extend the life of any item of clothing, whether cinching a waist or adding a standout detail to paired-back looks. For extra polish, be sure to color match your bag to your belt, women who do this always look so chic.

Be Confident with Color

“Color can raise the dead,” wrote the late Iris Apfel whose unforgettable kaleidoscopic outfits made her a style icon. As we get older, dark colors can become draining as we lose color from our hair and skin while brighter tones or vivid hues can create a highlight, lifting our skin tone and hair. The key to being older and bolder is to wear brights in a cut you feel most comfortable with and wear on a regular basis. Blending brighter shades in with navy, khaki

or denim (not black or white) makes the transition easier and less alarming to a color shy minimalist. One of my favorite combos is navy and orange. Blue and orange are direct opposites on the color wheel, which means they complement each other and look sensational together.

Delight in Denim

Timeless blue denim is an absolute year-round staple in every woman’s wardrobe, so much so that we consider it a neutral, a piece that goes with pretty much everything. Let’s face it, day or night, you simply can’t go wrong with a great pair of jeans, but have you thought about introducing a new modern style of jeans? Cuffed (turn-up), frayed hem, cropped, barrel or wide-leg, or try something completely different such as a standout denim dress, ruffle blouse or a jumpsuit (which always looks effortlessly cool). Ladies, it’s time to diversify your denim portfolio!

Just Add Trainers

Trainers have skyrocketed from a sports staple to a fashion statement. They have styling superpowers which bring new wardrobe energy to beloved basics and let’s face it, they never fail to make you feel cool. Looking to update your kicks? New Balance, Veja and Adidas are the labels on fashion-forward feet. Not sure which style to go for? Skip box-fresh white trainers (always a safe bet) and slip on a retro-chic sneaker in high-impact hues. You’ll find vibrant sneakers are a quick and easy way to add outfit-boosting color; they give a casual, playful appeal to tailoring, midi dresses, jumpsuits or separates and allow you to play around with shades that you might not choose to wear as clothing.

Crazy for Khaki

Over the last few years, I’ve been getting into khaki. I know earlier I was singing denim’s praises, but if you’re looking for a contemporary alternative to denim blue, army surplus green (not to be mistaken for camouflage print) is just as a versatile neutral, providing a great backdrop for pattern and color. Top of your wish list? A pair of military green trousers or a multi-pocketed utility jacket are the combination of sturdy and snazzy, which is always a style winner in my opinion. Adding a smart blazer, white shirt and glossy black loafers or color-pop trainers creates an outfit ready for everyday action.

Favored by style icons of every era for its ability to add a wild touch to any outfit, there’s no doubt that timeless leopard print will always be spot-on, whatever the occasion. Party, dinner or work, you can always rely on this modern-meets-classic print. Whether you want to wear a little or a lot, leopard looks great with everything, including more leopard. This print is timeless and just never goes away. Plus, it’s so very Jersey.

Look out for Unexpected Details

Whether you’re 18 or 80, a small, unexpected twist is sometimes all you need to give boring outfits a fashion boost. Interesting extras, bring personality to your outfits, they’re an easy way to be bold without being outrageous. I call them “sparkle” buys, those little details that suddenly make your outfit sing. In my wardrobe I have a gold belt, ruffle trim layering top, bright red leather tote, leopard pumps, green trainers, oversized sunglasses, leather motto jacket and spectacular sparkly earrings that I whip out if I feel my outfit is looking meh.

Match your Glasses

Don’t let your glasses be an afterthought. When buying a pair, make them playful and make your glasses the star of the show. Don’t be afraid of color. People tend to have a bit more fun with their sunglasses and you should do the same with your reading glasses. Bright colors naturally lift the complexion, and it looks modern, too. Not sure which color to choose? You should match the frame to your eye color. Also, not sure what shape, look at the shape of your chin and this will also help play a part when choosing the right style. Despite popular belief it’s all about framing the top of your glasses so they’re inline and the same shape as your eyebrows.

Soneca Guadara is a personal fashion stylist who helps her clients feel confident and stylish.

Score a Touchdown, Not An Injury

Tips On Avoiding Football Injuries from an Orthopedic Surgeon

By Dr. Michael Gross

With the fall sports season in full swing, football enthusiasts eagerly anticipate the thrill of the game. Players and coaches at all levels form pee wee to college are getting ready for an exciting season. However, with the excitement of football comes the risk of injuries. As an orthopedic surgeon, I have seen a wide range of football-related injuries, from minor sprains to severe fractures. Here are some essential tips to help you stay safe and enjoy the game this fall.

1. Proper Warm-Up and Stretching

Before hitting the field, it is crucial to warm up your muscles and joints. A proper warm-up increases blood flow to the muscles, making them more flexible and less prone to injury. Start with light aerobic exercises such as jogging or jumping jacks, followed by dynamic stretches that mimic football movements. Focus on stretching the hamstrings, quadriceps, calves and hip flexors.

2. Wear Appropriate Gear

Wearing the right gear is essential for injury prevention. Ensure that your helmet fits properly and is in good condition. Shoulder pads, mouth guards and proper footwear are also critical. All equipment should be in good repair and well fitting. Especially at the younger ages, last year’s equipment is likely too small. Cleats should provide good traction and support to prevent slips and falls. Do not overlook the importance of wearing a cup and padded gloves for additional protection.

3. Strength and Conditioning

Building strength and conditioning your body in the off season can significantly reduce the risk of injuries. Focus on exercises that strengthen the core, legs and upper body. Incorporate weight training, plyometrics and agility drills into your routine. A strong core helps stabilize the body during movements, while strong legs and upper body muscles provide the power needed for tackles and sprints.

Hydration and Nutrition

Staying hydrated and maintaining a balanced diet are crucial for optimal performance and injury prevention. Dehydration can lead to muscle cramps and fatigue, increasing the risk of injury. Drink plenty of water before, during, and after practices and games. A diet rich in lean proteins, complex carbohydrates and healthy fats provides the necessary nutrients for muscle repair and energy.

5. Proper Technique

Using proper technique during practices and games can prevent many injuries. Coaches should emphasize the importance of tackling, blocking, and running techniques. Players should avoid leading with their heads, spearing, during tackles to prevent concussions and neck injuries. Practicing good form reduces the risk of overuse injuries and ensures that players can perform at their best.

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6. Rest and Recovery

SAY GOODBYE TO NEGATIVE THOUGHTS AND LIMITING BELIEFS

Probably my favorite element of my test E450 All-Terrain was how well it handled NVH. Equipped with an inline six-cylinder, turbocharged engine that produces about 360 horsepower and nearly 370 lb.-ft. of torque, you wouldn’t know it. That’s because the engine is silky smooth. While you will hear the motor spin up if you push it, the sound is not overly intrusive into the cabin.

REJUVENATE YOUR HEALTH

Rest and recovery are just as important as training. Overtraining can lead to fatigue and increase the risk of injuries. Ensure that you get enough sleep and take rest days to allow your body to recover. Listen to your body and address any signs of pain or discomfort promptly. Ignoring minor injuries can lead to more severe problems down the line. Playing through an injury went out with Disco. “No pain, no gain” is another phrase that should no longer be applied to sports at any level.

The hip joint and groin muscles are susceptible to injury due to the mechanics of the skating stride. Some of the most common soft tissue injuries in hockey players include a groin strain and a hip flexor strain. Off-season strengthening and dedicated stretching before and after practice are important to prevent these injuries. In addition, a direct blow to the outside of the hip can cause a hip pointer or trochanteric bursitis. Hockey pants with reinforced padding over these vulnerable areas may help protect them.

We all have that voice in our heads. The little voice that tells us we are not good enough, smart enough or deserving enough. When you get a negative thought, take note of it, dismiss it, forgive it and let it go. Next reach for a new positive thought. One that makes you feel good. Focus on what is good and what is working well in your life. Surrounding yourself with positive people who lift you up and support you is also key.

miles on dirt roads. In most vehicles this isn’t exactly a brilliant situation since you can damage the underside of your car. But with the All-Terrain, the button to raise the vehicle’s ride height came in handy. Phew!

"It is so hard to keep them reading. Reading has become a challenge in the modern age. There are so many places you can go to not read. It has fallen out of favor and because they [students] have access to so much technology, reading pales by comparison. So film is a great platform.”

most common soft tissue injuries in hockey players include a groin pull and a hip flexor pull. A severe strain can be a nagging injury that limits performance throughout the season. A direct blow to the outside of the hip can cause a bruise (contusion) of the iliac crest (hip pointer) or trochanter (trochanteric bursitis).

Add in the extra utility provided by having a long roof and I quickly found myself examining this E450 even closer. Frankly, I am considering adding one to my fleet.

INCORPORATE A DAILY MEDITATION PRACTICE

7. Play the Field

KNEE INJURIES

Helping this was the fact my test vehicle had the Acoustic Comfort Package, meaning, it boasted additional sound deadening insulation as well as thicker glass to reduce noise. It really pays off as at speed it sounds as though you’re traveling at 20-30 mph when in reality you’re doing three times that. You won’t stress your vocal cords in this E, that’s for sure. Once again, this is a trait found in the flagship model.

Always be sure that the fields in good condition. It is possible that the field is the most ignored piece of equipment. Make sure that it is free of debris, potholes and that the graft or turf is in good condition.

All in all, I was extremely impressed during my time with the All-Terrain. Not only did it deliver with space, comfort and excellent control of NVH, it also did the unexpected.

Part of creating better mental health can be found in what’s on our plate and how we move our bodies. Small steps like taking a walk around your neighborhood, signing up for a yoga class or dancing around the house can increase serotonin, the feel good hormone. Eliminating sugar, incorporating more seasonal fruits and vegetables and drinking more water are simple steps to enhancing your health and relieving anxiety.

Football is a physically demanding sport, but with the right precautions, you can minimize the risk of injuries and enjoy the game safely. By following these tips, you can stay in top shape and perform at your best this fall. Remember, prevention is always better than cure. Stay safe, stay strong, and have a fantastic football season.

Why, you ask? Well, it’s this simple: It can do anything and it flies under the radar. For me, that’s as close to perfect as it gets.

Make mine black on black, fully loaded and optioned with the 19-inch AMG wheels, please.

Avoiding injuries in hockey has to do with properly fitted equipment, making smart plays, following the rules and a lot of luck because hockey is inherently risky. Understanding how the injuries occur, recognizing them when they occur and seeking the best treatment will help you enjoy the game at whatever level you are playing.

Like any practice, you must want to do it in order to achieve results. It’s really very simple and easier than you think. Beginning a meditation practice requires only your slight willingness. Your desire for more peace in your life, less stress and better focus and so many other benefits is all you need to get on the path. Start by taking 5-10 minutes each morning to close your eyes, focus on your breath and be still. The thoughts will come and that’s natural, just let them go and return to your breath. Try counting four breaths in and four breaths out through the nose. You can also try repeating a mantra like “om” or “peace begins with me.” Start a daily meditation practice and stroll into this season with a spring in your step.

8. Regular Check-Ups

The medial collateral ligament is most susceptible to a sprain because of the leg position – pushing off the inside edge of the skate blade – and contact to the outside of the knee. Anterior cruciate ligament (ACL) disruption and meniscus tears (torn cartilage) can also occur but are less common in hockey than in other sports such as football, soccer and basketball.

Dr. Michael Gross was the founder and director of Active Orthopedics and Sports Medicine, treating athletes of all levels in Bergen County. Currently, he is the Orthopedic Director for the New York Hotel Employee Benefits Fund and is an Assistant Professor at the Hackensack Meridian School of Medicine. Dr. Gross published many research articles covering a wide variety of orthopedic injuries and topics. He is the author of “Get Well Soon: A Doctor’s Guide to Health and Wellness.”

Loccke said one of inspirations for using film in the classroom is to provide her underclassmen with a reward. Her students are always asking her if there is a film that corresponds with the book so she uses the film as a payoff once the students have finished reading the novel. She shows as many as three movies a year to her underclassmen. Time constraints – her classes are 40 minutes long – usually prevent her from showing more.

“A lot of what they read they read on their own [and not in class],” Loccke said. “The movie is a great way to provide a communal feeling and it provides something they can share together. You can have a discussion and share it and the movie is something we all experience at the same time so it is very unifying.”

Power was more than adequate, which says something coming from someone who regularly drives autos with more than 600 horsepower, and when in Sport mode you can have a giggle or two. During an Everglades excursion we had to slow down to travel for about five

Tracy Flaherty is a certified integrative health and lifestyle coach; meditation teacher; and the author and founder of Be Well Nourished. She integrates meditation into her health coaching practice as well teaching meditation one-on-one and in-group settings. You can find her meditations on the Insight timer app and on her Instagram page @wellwith_tracy.

The mechanics of the skating stride makes the hip and groin muscles susceptible to injury. Some of the

Regular check-ups with a healthcare professional can help identify potential issues before they become serious. An orthopedic surgeon or sports medicine specialist can provide personalized advice and treatment plans. Early intervention can prevent minor injuries from becoming chronic problems.

Such was the case when Loccke addressed the largest classroom of her career on TCM.

Dr. Michael Gross is the founder and director of Active Orthopedic and Sports Medicine. He is the chief of sports medicine at Hackensack/Meridian University Medical Center. Dr. Gross has written numerous articles and book chapters on sports injuries. He has taken care of some of Bergen County’s finest athletes, from weekend warriors to professional athletes. Dr. Gross can be reached by email at drgross@activeorthopedic.com.

The Range Rover Sport

Good Things Can Come In Smaller Packages

By riChard posluszny

When it comes to automotive icons, two specific vehicles come to most peoples’ minds when they want to celebrate that they, “Made it.” The first? The Mercedes-Benz S-Class. The second? A Range Rover.

Years ago, when the brand’s portfolio was more straightforward, this simply meant the big daddy truck. Essentially, you had the entry-level Land Rover Discovery and then there was the Land Rover Range Rover. But, over the years, the company experienced immense success and Range Rover evolved from a singular model into a sub-brand with multiple products.

Vehicles like the Evoque, Velar and Range Rover Sport debuted. Of course this means more for everyone.

This brings us to our subject, the Range Rover Sport. Slated just under the flagship Range Rover, and above the likes of the Velar and Evoque nameplates, it is positioned to be the more attainable Range Rover in a tidier package. Meaning, it’s a touch smaller than the full-size model and as its creative name suggests, more sporting.

On the outside though, a normal person may find themselves struggling to see the difference. It’s not like everyone’s an enthusiast or carrying a measuring tape. What you will notice: The typical, boxy Range Rover shape. In this all-new generation, the Sport receives a more streamlined makeover that mimics the minimalist cues of the flagship Range Rover. Body panels’ edges are rounded off and the door handles retract into the body for a flush look.

Although these all-new Range Rovers exude a strong presence with their muscular appearance, overall, there’s a subtle hint of sophistication that you rarely see in automotive design. It’s amazing how tiny changes, like how Land Rover has hidden the window seals to make the exterior glass look like a solid piece, makes such an outsized impact. To me, it’s a gorgeous evolution of a traditional design that, frankly, doesn’t need a revolution to continue the marque’s runaway success. There’s a reason why they’re on every corner if you pop into Bergen County city centers like Englewood, Ho-Ho-Kus, Ridgewood and Tenafly.

After getting more comfortable behind the steering wheel, you’ll take note of the luxurious cabin. Stitched leather covers the dash, black wood veneers adorn the door panels and the carpets feel more plush than your run-of-the-mill Land Rover vehicle.

But there is a modern twist. The instrument panel features a 13.7-inch driver display that can be customized, and in the center of the dashboard is another 13-inch screen. The latter controls just about everything in the vehicle. Now, there’s no more switchgear in the center console or center stack. All that’s left is your shifter and the Start/Stop button to power on/ off the car. The look is extremely clean from a design perspective but, honestly, certain functions are better suited having knobs, switches and dials.

Take, for example, the Range Rover’s drive modes, which used to be adjusted through a rotary dial located in the center console. And, the HVAC controls, which used to be at the bottom of the center stack. What used to take one or two clicks now requires the passengers to navigate through the central display. Sometimes it’s fine, other times it can be cumbersome and finicky as the infotainment’s software can take an extra beat to access menus. During my time with the Sport, this was my biggest gripe.

On a more positive note, Land Rover nailed the seating position of the Range Rover Sport. Some things never change. The driving position is high up in the cockpit and visibility is ample in all directions. This makes placing each corner of the vehicle extremely easy – exactly what you want if you decide to go off-roading. Adding to this, my tester featured heated and ventilated seating in each of the four main spots. And, both front chairs get a fold-down, adjustable armrest, which has been a flagship Range Rover staple. These little touches make an already comfortable environment even more enjoyable.

That said, where the Sport shines most is the way it drives. This is where it truly sets itself apart from the competition.

Although quite small, bees are intensely connected to the environment and play an important role in the pollination cycle. And, if they aren’t doing well, it isn’t a good sign for the rest of the ecosystem.

Between increased development, climate change and the continued use of harmful pesticides, the worldwide bee population is on the decline.

Equipped with a turbocharged and supercharged six-cylinder engine, my test Range Rover Sport produced a respectable 395 horsepower and 406 lb.-ft. of torque. While that may not sound like much these days, it’s plenty of oomph to get you where you’re going. Paired with an eight-speed automatic transmission, zero to 60 happens in about five and a half seconds. Not bad for a sport-utility vehicle weighing over 5,000 pounds.

In an effort to try and restore the bee population, the practice of beekeeping has been on the rise and rooftop apiaries have sprung up in many cities, like New York, San Francisco and Seattle.

Around town and in tight parking lots, maneuvering at low speeds is not a problem – it feels car-like. This can’t be said for all SUVs of this size. On the highway, this Range Rover gives the driver complete confidence as its body and movements are composed. The floaty nature of the Sport’s more expensive sibling has been completely removed, which is a welcome change, especially when traveling great distances at higher speeds. The icing on the cake? Wind noise is kept to a minimum thanks to dual-pane glass.

Hospitals have also been doing their part to improve honeybee health, and, in turn, the environment.

A growing number of hospitals across the country have joined the rooftop hive movement in recent years, including several across North Jersey: The Valley Hospital, Chilton Medical Center and Morristown Medical Center.

If you’re feeling a little adventurous and want to push the Range Rover Sport’s limits on country roads, it is doable. But, at the end of the day, it is not a sports

“Establishing the rooftop beehives is in line with

our dedication to sustainability, such as recycling, green construction initiatives and reducing our carbon footprint,” Mosser explained.

The bees forage far and wide, pollinating flowers and plants up to two miles from their hives. Then, they return to the colony to begin honey production.

car. While it is impressive for a vehicle weighing north of two and a half tons, you still feel the body roll, higher center of gravity and overall heft. Although the Porsche Cayenne mystifies drivers and passengers alike with its shocking agility, the Range Rover Sport can only work so much magic in the performance department.

To me though, the most important aspect of a vehicle of this caliber is its ride quality. At the end of the day, you’re not setting lap times in any Range Rover.

Holy Name Chief of General Surgery Dr. Ron White said, “As a healthcare leader, we are always looking for new opportunities to enhance the health and wellbeing of our community.”

“With honeybee numbers decreasing worldwide, we’re proud to not only help the honeybees but harvest a sweet, healthy treat for our employees and community,” he said. “Beehives can also serve as a welcome distraction for our hospitalized patients, many of whom have a view of the hives. The distraction and connection with nature also assist in healing.”

White went on, “Also, bees are one of the most important pollinator species for our ecosystem and honey containers beneficial probiotics to aid in health.

Upon delivery, I was disappointed. That’s because this press Range Rover Sport was shod with a set of 23-inch wheels. While they were gorgeous, I was expecting the worst. Typically, a large-diameter wheel and tire package translates into a jarring and bumpy ride – this was a problem I experienced with the previous generation Range Rover Sport. This time, however, the engineers at Jaguar Land Rover more than earned their keep. That’s because through some wizardry, the Sport rode magnificently over imperfections we have all grown to hate

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in the New York Tri-State area. It is a nice, isolated experience. What is even more baffling is that this variant feels more comfortable than its bigger brother. Regardless, the Sport rides wonderfully and it’s safe to say its class leading in this regard.

After spending a week with the Range Rover Sport, I was smitten. It did everything I wanted it to and the vehicle genuinely surprised me. To be honest, having reviewed autos for nearly 17 years, I am a bit jaded. It’s not normal for me to wince at the thought of handing back the keys, but this one was different.

There’s just one concern that would linger in my mind: Are the latest and greatest Land Rover products more reliable than they’ve been in the past? Unfortunately, I don’t hold a crystal ball nor can I make these predictions. Otherwise, I’d probably be living on a remote island near St. Barts.

What I can say is, previously, my wife owned one and it was less than ideal. Conversely, during this one-week test, there were zero issues whatsoever. That said, I’d be willing to take a shot on the latest generation, provided it was the third or fourth car at our disposal.

At The Heart Of The Kitchen

Jami Gangi Offers Private Catering Through Black Box Gourmet

By Kevin CzerwinsKi

Jami Gangi likes to cook. It’s that simple.

She’ll cook for her family. She’ll cook for her friends. She even cooked for the contractors who recently did work on the Woodcliff Lake home she shares with her husband, Andrew, and the couple’s two children.

So, it wasn’t much of a surprise when Gangi, 37, decided to take her love of cooking and turn it into a business. Black Box Gourmet, which was launched in January, is a private-event catering company that offers specialized home cooking along with creating delicious one-of-a-kind custom cakes, all of which target smaller, backyard-type events.

“I grew up in a family that loves cooking,” Gangi said. “My mom is a good cook; my grandfather enjoyed cooking. I also started baking when I was younger. I love the artistic part of that, decorating cakes and cupcakes and that morphed into a love for cooking. I always want to try new things and experiment.”

What began as a dining service that provided freshly prepared and packaged food delivered directly to a home or office morphed over the early part of 2024. The original concept, which came about after several months of talking, planning, creating menus, a website and social media accounts, shifted full-time to event planning, private events and creating custom cakes after Gangi and her husband, Andrew, realized the idea wasn’t as sustainable as conceived.

“We put a lot of effort into coming up with really creative one-off menus and we got a handful of orders, which was great,” said Andrew Gangi, who is the head of a real-estate firm The Gangi Group while also working for Keller Williams Valley Realty. “But it was a lot of work for not a lot of return. We spent a lot of time with our kids over the summer and as time progressed, we realized that ideally we wanted to do more private catering, more of a scheduled thing for groups of 30 to 60 people.

“My wife is the cook, is creative and is constantly creating new menus. She also has incorporated cus-

tom cakes into the mix so not only can she provide the catering but also the dessert. We certainly want to turn it into a business and grow it out. But I have a business and we have kids, so we want to do this on our own terms. She is very talented at what she does but she’s not looking to slave over it all day long and be in the restaurant business. That’s not what we’re looking to do.”

Starting when Joyce was a little girl, she would observe — and eventually participate in — the food preparation. Joyce says she was lucky that her mother was a wonderful cook that taught her about the love of food and family. During those gatherings, her mother, aunts and grandmother would be humming with activity in the kitchen. This served as her training grounds. For example, this is where Joyce first learned about sofrito and how to cook, as she describes, using “layering” techniques. By doing so, it adds more dimensionality to her respective dishes.

and nutritional benefits. These natural ingredients also make it taste refreshing, slightly sweet and delicious. I invite you to try the following: lemon, a natural detoxifier and aids with bloating and fluid retention; lime, helps with digestion and a natural detoxifier; cucumber, helps cool the inflammatory response in the body and reduces puffiness and bloating and flushes toxins; mint, soothes the stomach and reduces inflammation; basil, anti-inflammatory and anti-bacteria; ginger, aids in digestion; and berries, high in antioxidants and boosts immunity.

Jami Gangi has been a stay-at-home mom for the last eight years and was a makeup artist and manicurist prior to having children. The couple had done a great deal of work on their home and it was during the last round of upgrades she had an epiphany.

You may also drink iced herbal tea and get the benefits with a little more flavor. Add lemon or mint to iced tea and you will not only feel refreshed, but like you’re hydrating without the boredom of “another glass of water.”

Eating To Hydrate

Her homemade desserts are part of what she believes sets her operation apart from similar catering services.

But, that’s not all. Joyce’s father was an aspiring baker, which shouldn’t come as much of a surprise given that some of the world’s best pastry chefs call France home, and the country’s well known for its delicious desserts. Although he was not able to successfully bootstrap his own bakery once he made it stateside, that didn’t stop him from pursuing his burning passion. For family gatherings he would meticulously prepare the most wonderful treats, says Fragoso.

“I really enjoy making flatbread pizzas,” she said.

many more. Eating a salad made from water rich veggies and fruit will not only help with hydration but provide your body with nutrients and fiber as well.

Unlike other ways we try to increase our health, drinking water daily is an inexpensive way to help fuel and repair your body. You don’t have to join a gym, subscribe to a service or have a kit. Start with good water. Get your hands on a container that will allow you to track the number of ounces. Add a little natural flavor.

“That’s my new favorite thing. I find a lot of things on Pinterest and when I find a recipe, I go through it and change it accordingly to what I think it needs or doesn’t need. I have family recipes and I also like Lidia’s Italian Cookbook for traditional Italian stuff. I’d like to master the homemade pasta by myself. I’ve done it with my family and my mom is very good at it, but I haven’t quite gotten there yet.”

With this type of upbringing and emphasis on bringing joy to people via delightful dishes, it makes sense why Joyce was driven to open Girl From Empanada. Simply put, it’s in her DNA.

Then, you’re on your way. This summer, while you’re experiencing the season and all of the activities and pleasures it brings, remember to keep your body running at its best and hydrate.

“During the construction we had done in the house I always made lunch for the guys,” she said. “I really enjoyed doing it every day, cooking for people that enjoyed food and appreciated it. The idea morphed from there.

This was merely the start though. That’s because Joyce also spent time with her relatives in France. She fondly remembers summers outside of Avignon and preparing food with her grandmother. Together, they’d go through the fields picking wild rosemary and wild thyme, placing the herbs in her grandmother’s folded apron. Something tells me this likely inspired Joyce’s use of the freshest possible ingredients for her empanadas — more on that later.

In addition to drinking the appropriate amount of water for your weight and activities, eating water rich foods is another way to increase hydration. These include cucumber, watermelon, zucchini, strawberries, tomatoes, peaches, cantaloupe, broccoli, cauliflower, apples, pears, citrus fruits, pineapples, spinach, iceberg lettuce and many,

“When I’m around other parents, people were talking about how they were kind of bored with food options in our area. They were looking for more than going to Wegmans for prepared food items,” she said.

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“Getting there” seems like an inevitability, though, for Gangi, who does all the cooking at her home. And, because of the way the model is now structured, she does not cook every day, so she is still able to enjoy herself without the venture turning into a job. Ultimately, she said she might like to rent a ghost kitchen and take the company to bigger heights, including a location where people can come and sit down for a light snack.

Although Joyce took a detour as a teacher for many years, it became apparent that she needed to fulfill her lifelong desire. After all, she had been incubating the idea of her own food-related business for nearly three decades. The catalyst: The COVID-19 pandemic. Although it was a devastating situation across the globe, for Fragoso, it was a watershed moment that gave her the push to pursue her dream.

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Andrew Gangi, meanwhile, has not left everything on his wife’s plate. He does all the marketing and website work. Plus, because of his work in North Jersey real estate and the relationships he has gained through that aspect of his life, he is able to work on finding clients for the catering events, backyard affairs and the custom cakes, about which he says his wife “can get creative.”

“Our dreams are big,” said Jami Gangi, who grew up in Paramus. “Andrew has put together a long-term business plan.

“Ideally, we’d like to have a brick-andmortar Black Box Café where we can utilize our kitchen space for deliveries, pickups and catering and have our own actual space where you can pop in for a coffee or have dessert. It’s not going to be a restaurant, though. And a little wild idea, this concept could be franchised.”

The focus for the time being, however, remains on catering though Andrew Gangi said down the road the addition of on-site food trucks is a possibility. An actual storefront, should it come to fruition, is a few years down the line.

If that happens, Jami Gangi may have to cut back on some of the actual cooking. Until then, however, Gangi will continue to cook meals and bring her delicious style of main courses and desserts to events and customers throughout North Jersey.

Look out for their updated website, including Jami’s catering menu, at www.orderblackbox.com.

for two

A Night To Remember At Osteria Crescendo

By JenniFer Bonazzo peters

Welcome to Table For Two, a new column that will feature great date night spots throughout Bergen County. Pull up a chair, and join us for our first installment at Westwood’s Osteria Crescendo.

Every so often, you visit that one restaurant – the place that delivers such an enduring impression you end up talking about it the whole way home, and even with local friends and co-workers on Monday morning. The next handful of eateries you dine in become heavily scrutinized solely because each element is now being compared, almost ruthlessly to that one unforgettable experience in your recent memory. Osteria Crescendo was the one that achieved what truthfully not many others can. After having experienced culinary at its finest first hand, it was for me up until now, not spoken widely enough about and it’s nestled right within the heart of Westwood. When I signed up to do a full personalized review from an actual experience, I knew I wanted to try one that may be considered a “hidden gem” to some. On a recent Saturday night, we made our date night choice of Osteria Crescendo, and I am delighted to have found one of the rare restaurants that perfected the five components which encompass, in my opinion – a five-star ristorante.

What makes a restaurant spectacular? The food. The energy of the employees which trickles down to patrons one way or another. The atmosphere. The willingness given to accommodate special yet reasonable requests, such as allergen friendly options or

preferences. And, the varietal offerings of both fare and specialty cocktails/wine.

Food can be, of course, measured by multiple ingredients, but to begin – savor, variation freshness, presentation. All our selected courses – with the eager assistance of staff – were exceptional and all boxes were checked. My date and I began with the charred octopus – typically not a favorite of mine but came highly recommended by two team members. To my surprise it is now added to my list of choices to order again on my already-in-the-works second visit. It was braised in red wine for 24 hours prior and topped with the ever-so delicate half sweet-half spicy drizzle. I still don’t remember what that sauce was, but I remember how it tasted – mouthwatering and memorable.

Again, by staff recommendation, this was paired with a thick, warm bread decorated with what appeared to be a pound of precisely trimmed prosciutto and the ideal blend of a creamy ricotta mixture. I found out later, along with all of their breads this is sourced directly from a bakery in New York City next to Hell’s Kitchen. All their items are obtained directly from carefully selected, multiple farms – some local and some even out of state in Pennsylvania.

The entrees we tested and devoured included the scallops and pork chops. All of these descriptive words (although true in this reference) sound great on paper – tender, succulent, fresh. But none can do them ample justice. A melting spoonful with hints of citrus changed a previously devoted pork hater to maybe the biggest Osteria Crescendo pork chop fan. I would say there is one word that comes closest, with regards to the food: Unmatched. What you need to know before you go: the “sharing” suggestions for one person who doesn’t prefer sharing was a superb choice as the portions were plentiful and on point –as promised.

Osteria Crescendo was truly unparalleled dining that I missed out on all these years of residing in Bergen County. One remarkable element of this experience is that you most certainly don’t have to be “in the mood for Italian” to eat out at this gem. It was apparent as I asked questions about their infamous dry-aged steaks – done right there in-house – and customizable vegan options that there are several incredible items completely outside the box here, and in a good way. People need to know that this is not just unbelievable Italian fare. They are now, a go-to for steak and seafood for me. Additionally, their fabulous event space is not only for their own unique wine and bourbon tasting events, but exclusive gatherings are now becoming increasingly popular.

As for the team: Superior. Let’s be frank here. Employees can sometimes make or break your encounter that you’ve been looking forward to all day. Their energy is ultimately infectious one way or the other. As soon as I opened the door, there they were. United, facing forward as I came through the entrance, wearing smiles and collard blue shirts, displaying sophistication –an inviting appearance. I immediately sensed these professionals shared one common goal: to give us as patrons a five-star experience. Anything less was just not in the cards; their momentum shouted this.

I had the absolute pleasure of speaking often with one team member, Rodrigo. He did not just have an enthusiastic response to every question, at times was even evoking a personal, faithful pride of the establishment. The entire team did everything in their power to ensure this shared intention was precisely achieved with class. Waiting for your assigned waiter/waitress was simply nonexistent. My point is that I always knew someone was available for us. I saw them, I felt them, and yet simultaneously I felt like they were never there. I felt alone with my date to simply enjoy. There was one other particular team member whom I did not get to meet, but saw doing frequent soft laps around the room with a smile. I observed that when he needed to help another guest on the other side of the room, a second team member immediately took his place like clockwork,

a well-oiled machine, really, silently helping by just circulating in a respectful manner. Every employee present seemed to state with their energy alone – “I am here, and I am ready to get you whatever it is that you want, any time.”

This leads me to the next – willingness to accommodate patrons’ personalized wishes. Even reasonable requests at times can be a bit of an awkward challenge or a disappointing conversation to start the meal off quite frankly, just wrong. But not only did Rodrigo cater to my food sensitivities, the chef quite literally designed a delectable scallop dish over couscous instead of swaying me in another direction. Furthermore, the chef provided a tempting pasta dish, dairy-free with hints of bold spices, fragrant flavors and adorned with colorful vegetables. Rodrigo knew I wanted seafood, and I wanted scallops. Even with the annoyance of a dairy allergy, I savored the freshest and flavorful shellfish I have had since I can remember.

The ambiance? Simply put: Lively, positive moods all around. The tables are spaced perfectly. I experienced being a part of the high energy there, yet I could always hear what my date was saying. Bellissima for creating the ultimate, unified mood: spirited energy for fine dining with friends and cocktails –and romantic vibes paired with an eclectic menu for a date night. My only regret? Not coming early and starting with a specialty cocktail at the extra-large, extra beautiful and ever-so sleek bar area.

It is quite literally as though the creators took authentic Italian threads and wove them seamlessly throughout the establishment and the menu. Just two of many examples include the food options offered at the modern-elegant bar area are the exact same snack foods sold on the streets of Italy. The cocktails contain at least one Italian ingredient –Every. Single. One. Truly the core, the heart of the restaurant was not only endearing in many ways but how they maintained the old-world vibe – and to my surprise, brilliantly added the seamless touch of chic was unequivocally “cool.” Not once did I experience my #1 pet peeve within all these years of reviewing eateries – feeling rushed. I was relaxed there, flowed right into their welcoming aura, which was evidently contagious and alluring, and one can sense which direction that is going to go the moment they walk through the doors.

To re-cap, words that will always come to mind when I recall the experience: Superior Service. Class. Unmatched menu options. Outstanding fare. Ottimo lavoro.

Not only did Osteria Crescendo attain excellence within all components in my book – they did so with an exquisite class that so far for me is now unsurpassed. I don’t have to persuade you of that. I just need to convince you to book your next exclusive event or date night there, as you will most certainly see it for yourself.