The Gatesworth means a new and productive life with new friends and that I never have to be alone again. There is wonderful food and energy throughout this place. I love the staff — they make us feel so special! —
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by stephanie wallace
saint louis university Congrats to Sarah Adam!
The assistant professor of occupational science and occupational therapy helped win the silver medal for Team USA in wheelchair rugby at the 2024 Paralympic Games in Paris.
jewish family services
The nonprofit’s event NOURISH: A Party for the Pantry brought together 200 guests to support the Harvey Kornblum Jewish Food Pantry. The evening also honored Earl Kessler and Al Siwak, the founders of Pallet Partners.
5 on your side News director Art Holliday has been honored with the Lifetime Achievement Award by the Paragon Awards. Organized by the Ivy Foundation and its community partners, the awards celebrate the achievements of Black men in the St. Louis community.
shaw nature reserve
After 40 years as a volunteer, Susie Russell celebrated her 96th birthday with the unveiling of the Linnemeyer Russell Restoration Center. A gift from Russell to the nature reserve, the center will support ecological restoration efforts for native Missouri habitats.
COVER STORY
WALK FOR HOPE
ALZHEIMER’S ASSOCIATION OF GREATER MISSOURI by stephanie wallace
ALZHEIMER’S DISEASE IS AN ISSUE THAT DEEPLY AFFECTS those touched by it. The condition causes progressive mental and physical decline in people of all backgrounds, and it’s difficult for patients’ families and caregivers to live with as well. It’s also an issue the Alzheimer’s Association of Greater Missouri is dedicated to solving through education, advocacy, research and support for families. The local association is part of a national organization that is the world’s largest private funder of Alzheimer’s research.
Yvette Burke understands the devastating impact of Alzheimer’s. Around 15 years ago, her mother was diagnosed in the early stages of the disease. Burke noticed atypical behavior when her mother visited to watch her children. “She was repeating questions, forgetting where she had put things and had anxiety about being left alone with the kids,” she recalls. “It was completely out of character. She was a strong woman who raised five children and handled everything on her own. We scheduled an appointment with a neurologist for a cognitive test.”
Following her mother’s dementia diagnosis, Burke turned to the Alzheimer’s Association for help. “The organization offers so much in terms of support for caregivers, family and friends,” Burke notes. “The help is unparalleled. Nobody should face Alzheimer’s alone.” The nonprofit’s array of important services includes a 24-hour helpline (800.272.3900) to answer questions and provide assistance whenever needed. It offers in-person and virtual support groups for both Alzheimer’s patients and caregivers, provides educational programs to local businesses and community partners, and works with families in care consultations, including guidance on how to approach a loved one they suspect may have the disease.
Along with support and resources, Burke’s family also benefited from the nonprofit’s dedication to advancing Alzheimer’s treatment and research. “Initially, my mother was on only one medication for her early diagnosis,” she notes. “Thanks to the Alzheimer’s Association, I learned that we could combine treatments, including a medication that was new to the market. In early conversations with medical professionals, I was told she had three to five years to live. She lived for 15. The Alzheimer’s Association gave us 10 more years with my mom.”
Burke has channeled her gratitude toward the nonprofit into fundraising efforts. A long-time employee of Enterprise Mobility, she’s found support from both her employer and coworkers. “This organization has supported me in every endeavor, professional or personal, and all of my teammates have been fantastic,” she notes. “When I was promoted to the St. Louis office in 2015, I was invited to get involved in local fundraising for the Alzheimer’s Association by my colleague Mary Mahoney. We’ve been able to engage not only our coworkers in St. Louis, but Enterprise employees around the world.”
On Oct. 26, St. Louisans will have the opportunity to lace up their tennis shoes and join the fight against dementia. The Walk to End Alzheimer’s will be held at Chesterfield Amphitheater, and the Alzheimer’s Association will be raising money through Dec. 31. Burke will be participating as a member of Enterprise’s Angels for Alzheimer’s team. “The walk and the funds raised contribute to so many amazing things, including research and caregiver support,” she says. “It’s an exciting way for the community to come together and move toward finding a cure.” &
YVETTE BURKE WITH HER MOTHER
st. charles
The Gateway Outdoor Summit returns in November with nationally recognized speakers and a new grant program designed to jumpstart community-focused outdoor recreation projects. Last held in 2019, the free one-day summit—Friday, Nov. 22 at the St. Charles Convention Center—will explore how the greater St. Louis/bi-state region can be more proactive in creating access to outdoor recreation and benefit the local economy. Keynote speaker Lesford Duncan, executive director of the Outdoor Foundation, will explore the evolving landscape of outdoor recreation and discuss how strategic initiatives, such as Thrive Outside St. Louis, are promoting new ways of engaging with the outdoors and fostering a love for nature across diverse communities. The summit “is our region’s opportunity to celebrate what’s been achieved in outdoor recreation, imagine what’s possible and talk about how we get there,” says event organizer Brad Kovach. The summit kicks off an expanded Gateway Outdoor Expo weekend. The expo will run Nov. 23 and 24 at the convention center and is an annual consumer show featuring more than 200 exhibit booths for outdoor retailers and service providers, kids activities, product demos, food and drink. As part of the revamped summit, event organizer River City Foundation will award one-time micro-grants of up to $5,000 for community-focused outdoor recreation projects designed to benefit our region. The foundation’s advisory board will review grant applications and score for need, feasibility, sustainability and relationship to the foundation’s mission—to promote outdoor-oriented activities, accelerate equitable outdoor initiatives and expand outdoor recreation opportunities in our region. Deadline for applications is Nov. 1. The first round of micro-grants will be awarded at the summit. The application process is open now and instructions are at rivercityfdn.org/micro-grants.
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OF THE TOWNS
by bill beggs jr.
the metro
In the early 1960s, when I was growing up in the suburbs of various eastern cities—Philadelphia and Baltimore were my two hometowns when I was in kindergarten and elementary school—it was no big deal to trick-or-treat at nearby houses with your siblings and maybe a few other witches and devils. We were never accompanied by adults in those halcyon Halloween days. But when my kids were growing up in the 1990s, their mom and I always came along. The world had gotten much creepier—and I don’t mean those ghoulish set-ups where idiots in hockey masks chase you around with noisy but toothless chainsaws. Nowadays, ‘trunk-or-treat’ rules. It’s a good bet your kids will be safer getting their goodies at a designated spot in the neighborhood, perhaps the school or church parking lot. And at least two popular area attractions have taken that idea and run with it. The St. Louis Aquarium at Union Station started its event Sept. 13, and it winds up, natch, on Oct. 31. (Early it ain’t, when you consider that big-box stores were selling inflatable pumpkins, ghosts and other seasonal characters over the summer.) Pirates & Pumpkins is designed for landlubbers, me hearties. The aquarium will be decorated with pirate-themed scenes, including a ghost ship with smoking, booming cannons. Guests will enjoy all of the aquarium’s hands-on, hands-wet animal encounters plus take a self-guided tour through a highly themed wonderland of pirate treasure caves and grottos. Intricately carved pumpkins will be everywhere. Aquarium admission required. And there will be one special day, Trick Or Track, for costumed kids to trick-or-treat at the National Museum of Transportation in South County. No, not Halloween. About two weeks earlier: Oct 19 at 11 a.m. to 3 p.m. Then, in the evening, there’ll be activities including a miniature train ride in the dark beginning at 7 p.m. Doors open at 5:30 p.m. Both events require ticket purchases to enjoy.
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Two notable author events are coming up at the Clark Family Branch of our county library. Even if you can’t attend the Oct. 3 presentation in person, it sounds like the book is one to consider adding to the stack on your bedside table: Why We Remember: Unlocking Memory’s Power to Hold on to What Matters by Dr. Charan Ranganath. He’ll be in conversation with Dr. Zach Reagh, an assistant professor of psychological and brain sciences at Washington U. A pioneering neuroscientist and psychologist, Ranganath radically reframes the way we think about the everyday act of remembering. Weaving pop-culture examples with formal research—while drawing on his life as a scientist, father and child of immigrants— Ranganath unveils the hidden role memory plays throughout our lives. He teaches at the Center for Neuroscience and Department of Psychology and is director of the Dynamic Memory Lab at the University of California at Davis. For more than 25 years, he has studied the mechanisms in our grey matter that allow us to recall events, using brain imaging techniques, computational modeling and studies of patients with memory disorders. Then, if thriller fiction is more (or also) your taste, mark the calendar for Oct. 8 at 7 p.m. for Just Another Missing Person, the latest from New York Times bestselling novelist Gillian McAllister. In her latest, a missing person case unravels deeper, darker secrets that lead a detective to an impossible moral choice. McAllister is also the creator and co-host of the “Honest Authors” podcast.
LAST ISSUE’S Q & A
DID PIRATES HAVE PEG LEGS?
The Delmar Loop isn’t all in U. City. Some attractions are in the StL. In which municipality are these Loopy landmarks located?
Magic Mini Golf 2. Blueberry Hill 3. Pinup Bowl 4. Ranoush 5.
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Mini Golf, The Pageant, and Pinup Bowl are located in the StL.
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chesterfield
Retired shoe exec Clay Jenkins calls St. Louis a “little big town,” and his wife Lynn smiles in agreement. That is, while Chicago may be the City of Big Shoulders and New York is the Big Apple, the Gateway City is All Heart. Jenkins, who retired from the Private Label Group of Brown Shoe/Caleres in 2020, is still wearing out a lot of shoe leather (well, soles of rubber, generally) on behalf of Nashville nonprofit Soles4Souls, which helps people, and communities, lift themselves out of poverty by putting new or refurbished shoes on their feet and clothes on their backs. “Shoes need hands,” says Clay, and the Chesterfield couple has dedicated themselves to providing that hands-on attention here as well as in Atlanta, Toronto, Nashville, Haiti, Honduras and beyond. They’ve witnessed the gratitude and boosts in self-esteem when they can replace beat-up, even mismatched footwear on kids. Statistics show that better shoes boost school attendance, as well as graduation rates. Soles4Souls started in 2006 as a disaster-relief response following catastrophes such as the tsunami in southeast Asia and Hurricane Katrina in the Gulf. “We’ve all lived a million lives since then,” says Clay. Lynn, pictured with Clay at an Atlanta shoe distribution event in January, has also been on the ground in Latin America, specifically Central American countries including Guatemala, places where poverty is beyond our comprehension. Of course, there is dire need in the metro, too. A modest donation, say $20, will put a pair of brand-new shoes on someone’s feet. This mission could not be accomplished without corporate supporters and partners, says Clay. “Caleres is a huge part of this,” he emphasizes. Anybody else can play a part: Look in your closet—any gently used shoes, or some you’ve never worn, in there? Growing youngsters still have shoes that no longer fit? And what to do with all those Crocs? Famous Footwear or DSW retailers will accept footwear that’s still in pretty good shape. And Zappo’s will cover the shipping costs. Then, you could mark your calendar for Nov. 7 to enjoy light snacks and hors d’oeuvres while rubbing shoulders with Clay and Lynn and the Soles4Souls CEO from 5 to 7 p.m. at Meadowbrook Country Club. There’s no cost. You’ll also hear from Dr. Deidra C. Thomas-Murray, director of students-in-transition, homeless and foster care liaison for St. Louis Public Schools. Nearly 14,000 kids in the metro are unhoused. For more info or to get involved locally, visit soles4souls.org/stlouiskids.
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Throughout October, Le Meridien St. Louis Clayton will be screening Halloween classics on its rooftop terrace on Thursdays, excluding Oct. 31. Guests are encouraged to bring their own blankets for a comfortable viewing experience, and a variety of food and beverage concessions will be available during the screenings, including themed cocktails and mocktails. TICKETS CAN BE PURCHASED FROM EVENTBRITE UNDER REELS ON THE ROOFTOP.
THE INSIDER
Saint Louis Fashion Fund (SLFF) is partnering with Hearth & Soul to spotlight Black creatives working in fashion in St. Louis. The store will host a panel discussion Oct. 18 featuring Yosh Dafney, Brandin Vaughn and Theresa Wangia. The event is inspired by the recent release of Black in Fashion: 100 Years of Style, Influence & Culture by Tonya Blazio-Licorish and Tara Donaldson and copies will be available for purchase. The event is free, but reservations at Eventbrite are requested.
VICIA WINE GARDEN
is hosting a Filipino street party! On Oct. 12, guests can enjoy a buffet of street festival foods, with a pig roast led by chef Jane Sacro Chatham at the center. FOR TICKETS AND MORE INFORMATION, VISIT VICIARESTAURANT.COM.
BAND TOGETHER is celebrating its 100th concert! The volunteer music organization provides performance opportunities to members of the LGBTQIA community and is open to performers of all abilities. The concert, appropriately titled “100,” is Oct. 12 at 7:30 p.m. at the 560 Music Center in University City. Free and open to the public, it kicks off the band’s 28th season. FOR MORE INFORMATION, VISIT BANDTOGETHERSTL.COM.
PATTY
by patty hannum
HARD TO BELIEVE that someone with OCD missed Mental Health Awareness Month in September, but I have been focused on my own mental health! The subject is starting to be something people are willing to talk about. Finally, the public understands that a person does not cause their illness. Most of us are just born that way with symptoms often appearing at the most inopportune times. Mental illness is just like any other illness, but people are embarrassed to admit they have it or share their own personal struggles because it is often seen as a sign of weakness. I wish I had someone to blame, but I was born this way—to steal a line from Lady Gaga.
I suffer from both obsessive-compulsive disorder and anxiety. On the outside, I look cool as a cucumber, but on the inside, my brain is racing and it is hard to stop. Mental illness comes in all flavors, but OCD is mine. Each day, I hope it will disappear, but it does not. It
FRISELLA NURSERY
is hosting its fifth annual Fall Festival on Oct. 5 from 10 a.m. to 4 p.m. As well as a wide selection of fall plants for purchase, the free event includes more than 25 local artisans, food trucks, live music, photo ops and kids activities.
likes to hang around. I am not a germ freak. I do not count tiles like Rain Man. Instead, I have intrusive thoughts that are hard to control. If you suffer, know you are not alone. There are great doctors and therapists who can help. You just need to ask for it.
So, even though October is Breast Cancer Awareness Month—certainly you have noticed the pink ribbons—I just want to ask you to not only think about your breasts but give your friend who might be struggling with a mental illness a little extra love.
Right turn…..
On to something newsier: Soap operas are coming back! My husband and I are General Hospital faithfuls. Nearly every day, you can find us glued in front of the TV set watching the townspeople of Port Charles, New York. This fictional city seems to have a big mob problem for so few people. No, it is not the Sopranos, but Sonny, Jason and Carly who keep us entertained
for the hour we eat our lunch. General Hospital, unlike older (and canceled) soap operas, moves at a quick pace so we even watch the ones we miss on Hulu.
For you former All My Children fans, Lifetime (where else!) has committed to three movies to test the waters. I will share the dates once I hear about them. ABC is creating a new soap opera called The Gates, which sounds like Dynasty if you’re old enough to remember that show. Though, no one will ever be as crazy as the Carringtons.
Why the change? Apparently, all the talk shows the networks replaced them with are rating bombs. Hmmm, I should be in TV programming because I could have told them that when they kicked Erica Kane to the curb. Because I am all powerful, I will review these new soaps so you do not have to. I will consider it my civic duty. Peace my Peeps. &
Around Town
1. Saint Louis Ballet
“Western Symphony & Serenade with After the Rain” Balanchine’s Serenade and Western Symphony combine Tchaikovsky’s elegance with cowboy charm. After the Rain Pas de Deux honors Balanchine in this season opener, showcasing Saint Louis Ballet’s versatility. ONE TOUHILL CIRCLE | 314.534.1111 | STLOUISBALLET.ORG
2. Alzheimer’s Association
Greater Missouri Chapter
The St. Louis Walk to End Alzheimer’s is returning to the Chesterfield Amphitheater where 2,500 individuals will walk in honor of a loved one.
3. Air Comfort Service Heating, Cooling & Insulation
Schedule your heating system check before cold weather arrives! Ask about our Preferred Partner Plan and stay in your comfort zone all year for $19/month. 314.814.8454 | 636.345.9044 | AIRCOMFORTSERVICE.COM
4. Slyman Bros. Appliances
Select Sub-Zero, Wolf and Cove luxury appliances now at Slyman Bros. Appliances! We offer appliances from everyday to luxury and for commercial spaces and multi-family buildings.
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5. Aberdeen Heights
Discover vibrant retirement at Aberdeen Heights, where we handle the details, giving you the freedom to enjoy lifelong learning and events like wine tastings and more. Experience more freedom and fun—schedule your tour today!
Our outdoor spaces have been carefully spruced up to reflect the beauty of autumn, offering the perfect setting for residents to enjoy the cool breezes and changing leaves.
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7. Boys & Girls Clubs of Greater St. Louis
Boys & Girls Clubs of Greater St. Louis after-school programs deliver positive outcomes, including academic success, good character and citizenship, and healthy living skills. They position youth on a path to a successful future. With a diverse range of programs, there is something for everyone, ages 6 to 18. We inspire and enable Club members to build great futures.
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8. Evora Women’s Health
Get a stronger pelvic floor by just sitting! Emsella is a non-invasive procedure to prevent or improve urinary leakage/incontinence by strengthening your pelvic floor.
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9. Jaxen Grey
Join Jaxen Grey’s, a men’s fashion store, to celebrate its first anniversary Oct. 18 through 20 at our store in Plaza Frontenac. Food and drinks provided.
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SHOP & GIVE
BY STEPHANIE WALLACE
Kathy Goslee has always had a passion for giving back. “I’ve loved to volunteer since I was 14 years old,” she notes. “Once I opened my own business, however, it became more difficult to find the time.” As the owner of Chesterfield Jewelers, she started looking for opportunities that would work with her six-day schedule. She found a solution that not only supported an important cause and allowed her to be in her store as needed, but also shone a spotlight on the business: the Glennon Card. Every October, the Glennon Card gives St. Louisans the chance to give back while patronizing some of their favorite stores, restaurants and more. By purchasing a $60 card, you unlock a 20% discount at more than 340 local businesses, and 100% of card sales benefit the young patients at SSM Health Cardinal Glennon Children’s Hospital. This year’s shopping period is Oct. 18 to 27. Chesterfield Jewelers has participated since the initiative launched in 2011. “I love that all proceeds from card sales go to support the children at the hospital,” Goslee says. “There are so many needs in our community. As a business owner, I have a responsibility to help however I can.”
The Glennon Card shopping period falls at the perfect time to start holiday shopping. Chesterfield Jewelers offers a curated selection of mid- to upper-end pieces that are sure to add some seasonal sparkle for your loved ones—or yourself. “We carry jewelry that has a timeless look,” Goslee says. “You won’t find trendy items that go out of style quickly.” The store also is a destination for luxury giftware. You can find a wide selection from the world’s top designers, including porcelain from Herend and Limoges, crystal from Lalique and silver from Buccellati. Chesterfield Jewelers’ services include watch and jewelry repair, appraisals, pearl and bead restringing, and more.
Goslee works hard to engage her customer base in the Glennon Card program. Chesterfield Jewelers sends out letters to ensure they are aware of the initiative, and during the shopping period, it holds a giveaway for a piece of Herend porcelain for in-store visitors. “It’s a fun start to the holiday season—we get to see all of our clients come back in, and they get to check out what we’ve brought in for the fourth quarter,” she notes. “Sometimes, we have people who choose to send in a $60 donation for SSM Health Cardinal Glennon even if they can’t use the Glennon Card. I love having the opportunity to raise money for a good cause.”
Since its founding, the Glennon Card program has raised more than $2.6 million. The funds have supported initiatives like the Orthwein Center for Infant and Child Nutrition, the 3D Printing Center of Excellence, Danis Pediatric Center and a number of enhancements to patient areas. Glennon Card funds also have gone toward different programs at the hospital, such as the Knights of Columbus Developmental Center, Footprints, and Reach Out and Read. &
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ALPINE SHOP
The Patagonia Fjord Flannel Shirt is perfect for daily wear or layering. With dual chest pockets and a versatile shirttail hem, it’s available in men’s and women’s sizes.
K. HALL STUDIO
Enjoy the coziness of the Fall season with our Hobnail glass candles available in a wide variety of seasonal scents! Proudly handcrafted in the USA.
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PHARMACY
These local gems are full of gifts, toys, and cosmetics. They’re your go-to stops for all your holiday gifting needs. Known for having the best stocking stuffers in town, they are here to make your season merry and bright!
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Funds raised through Illumination directly benefit the physicians, researchers and patients at the Alvin J. Siteman Cancer Center at Barnes-Jewish Hospital and Washington University School of Medicine, helping to play a crucial role in the fight against cancer. Guests enjoyed cocktails, dinner and a program led by celebrity guest host Jay Leno. guests: BJC president and CEO Richard Liekweg, lead ambassadors Julie and Rusty Keeley, Siteman Cancer Center director Dr. Timothy Eberlein
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The nonprofit held an Opening Day ribbon cutting for the new YMCA Adaptive Sports Complex. A first for the region, the complex includes resources and features to increase access to sports for children and adults with disabilities, including a Miracle League baseball field named in honor of St. Louis Cardinal Paul Goldschmidt. Gateway Region YMCA president and CEO Tim Helm, St. Louis Cardinals president Bill DeWitt III
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Pink Ribbon Good
by stephanie wallace
What is the mission of Pink Ribbon Good?
Pink Ribbon Good exists to serve every person and family affected by breast and gynecological cancers. We provide rides to and from treatment through Uber Health. We also supply healthy meals three times a week. That’s breakfast, lunch and dinner for not only the patient, but also every member of their household. To help with chores, we provide all-natural cleaning products and a lightweight vacuum that is easier to use. The final component of our programming is peer support. We organize both virtual and in-person events.
Pink Ribbon Good switched to Pink Ribbon Girls. What inspired the rebrand?
We made the decision to change to Pink Ribbon Good around two years ago. Pink Ribbon Girls was a name that was loved by a lot of people, but the average age of our clients is 57. We didn’t want anyone to think they didn’t qualify due to age. Having the right name makes all the difference. We wanted to make it clear that our services were accessible to anyone dealing with breast and gynecological cancers.
How has the organization grown?
We’ve been able to reach a lot more people in the community. From 2022 to 2023, we expanded our services by 34%. During that time, we served 2,638 total households. This year, we’re on track to grow our reach by another 30%. The need is great in St. Louis, but we’re here to fulfill it.
WHILE OCTOBER BRINGS WITH IT THE REDS, yellows and oranges of autumn, it’s also a time to think pink for Breast Cancer Awareness Month. You likely know someone touched by the disease —whether it’s yourself, a friend or a relative. Pink Ribbon Good is dedicated to making a difference for people and families impacted by breast and gynecological cancers. To learn more about the nonprofit’s work in St. Louis, we spoke with regional director Ivana Moorhem. “No one has to travel this road alone,” Moorhem notes. “Pink Ribbon Good is right there alongside cancer patients
Why does Pink Ribbon Good offer the services it does?
Our founder, Heather Salazar, sat down with physicians to figure out what would be most impactful. Right now, there are serious gaps in the health care system. There may be cancer treatment options, but for some patients, traveling to a hospital or medical center is difficult. You may be able to offer medication, chemo or other therapies, but some people don’t have access to healthy food. Outside of a cancer diagnosis, we don’t have requirements for people to request services, but 22% of our clients are ride insecure, 23% are food insecure and 56% fall below the poverty line. Our goal is to find ways to remove those barriers.
What makes this model unique?
We focus on the human behind the cancer diagnosis. Our services deal with concerns that you don’t think twice about when you’re healthy. For a lot of people, it’s not an issue to travel across town, cook dinner or clean the house. However, once you introduce cancer into the equation, these simple tasks can become a Goliath for you and your family. We’re lending a hand so patients and their families can dedicate themselves to the fight against cancer. As long as there is cancer, there is always a need for Pink Ribbon Good.
How can people support Pink Ribbon Good?
We have a few events throughout the year people can get involved with. The Sarah Bender Memorial Golf Tournament is in the spring, and the Survivor Celebration is in June. Our largest event is our Ignite the Fight gala in the fall. This year’s
event is Oct. 12 at the Four Seasons. The gala not only helps us raise essential funds, but also brings the community together to celebrate those who are battling cancer. Finally, we have the Party with a Purpose in December. For those looking to make a sustaining impact, we have our Fight Club. It’s a group of donors that are committed to giving every month. &
IN 2023, PINK RIBBON GOOD PROVIDED THE ST. LOUIS REGION WITH… … 55,990 meals. … 4,436 rides. … 670 cleaning kits. … 64 virtual and in-person peer support events.
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THE RIGHT CARE
EVORA WOMEN’S HEALTH
by stephanie wallace
THERE ARE MANY DETAILS that come together to create a complete picture of a person’s health and wellness—whether it’s family history, daily stressors or other lifestyle factors. Due to your personal concerns, a cookie cutter approach to health care may not be the best solution. Evora Women’s Health offers concierge services for women of all ages. Its collaborative and patient-centered approach prioritizes treating the whole person instead of focusing on a condition. The practice uses preventive care and wellness education to empower patients to become their happiest and healthiest selves.
Evora’s unique model of concierge health care brings together a variety of specialists to offer a holistic approach that can be tailored to an individual’s needs. Along with primary care, patients have access to services for gynecology, mental health, nutrition, fitness, aesthetics, acupuncture and more. Appointments are more accessible and are not subject to the same time restraints that are found in many other health systems. “More traditional practices tend to focus on a few metrics, but I want more for my patients,” primary care physician Dr. Sarina Phatak explains. “We provide more in depth integrated care. Everything is personalized to the individual.”
Phatak has a background in elder care, giving her insight into what it takes to lead a long and healthy life. She notes that many health issues faced by people in their 70s and 80s actually begin decades earlier as they enter middle age. Taking a preventative approach to wellness can make a difference. “If your goal is to live long and strong, then making changes early is the way to go,” she says. “If you’re running around with cholesterol or blood sugar that is even only slightly too high, that is going to accumulate into damage over time. Managing your lifestyle, addressing stress and other mental health concerns, and knowing about genetic factors can have a huge impact.”
When it comes to midlife health care, Phatak stresses the importance of regular screening. Routine labs can help identify the underlying cause for concerns like fatigue or weight gain, and cancer screenings can catch the disease earlier so intervention can be more effective. “Make sure you have a thorough evaluation for heart disease—it’s the No. 1 cause of death in the U.S.,” she adds. “Be ahead of the curve and jump on preventive measures. Our body’s systems have a lot of interplay, so pay attention to all of them. This includes not only the heart and lungs, but also the gut microbiome, the immune system and neurocognitive health.”
Phatak notes that Evora’s approach to health care has benefits for her as a physician as well, especially the ability to offer longer appointments. “I enjoy taking the time to listen to people’s health concerns and goals, helping them identify red flags and working through a variety of solutions,” she says. “In a traditional health care system, there is not always time for patients to feel heard. At Evora, we help you make your health a priority. When you feel your best, you can give your best.”
THE EVORA WOMEN’S HEALTH TEAM
BY STEPHANIE WALLACE
Asked & Answered: MEN PAUSE
Often referred to as “the change,” menopause can seem daunting and mysterious. And while it is private and personal for every woman, it’s also a subject we need to demystify.
SYMPTOMS
What is menopause?
The term refers to the natural process when a woman’s ovaries stop producing estrogen and progesterone, ending the menstrual cycle. It is officially diagnosed when a woman has gone a year without a period. However, since hormone production gradually declines over time, symptoms can start several years before the final period and continue for several years after.
When do most women go through menopause?
In the United States, the average age is 51.
Why do some women experience it sooner?
Early menopause refers to when women go through the process before age 45. If a woman’s menstrual cycle ends before she turns 40, it is important to consult a physician because it could be related to other health issues. Along with medical conditions, the age at which you enter menopause can be impacted by genetics, race and lifestyle choices, such as smoking.
What is perimenopause?
It’s the transition period that begins when women’s ovaries gradually start to produce less hormones, usually four to ten years before menopause. It is most commonly seen in women in their 40s. Since it is related to estrogen decline, the symptoms can be very similar to menopause. The most common side effect is irregular periods, such as more frequent flow or skipped months.
As a natural process, menopause is not a condition that can be cured, but the physical symptoms can be treated individually.
Hot flashes and night sweats:
These are the most common side effects associated with menopause. On their own, they are not dangerous, and if they aren’t bothering you, treatment isn’t required. If you do want to address hot flashes and night sweats, they are commonly treated with hormones. However, each type of hormone therapy comes with its own risks, so make sure to have an in-depth conversation with your doctor. Antidepressants also can be used, and last year, the FDA approved Veozah, a first-of-its-kind oral medication for moderate to severe hot flashes. It works by binding to and blocking the activities of the NK3 receptor, which plays a role in the brain’s regulation of body temperature.
Low libido:
Low libido is often linked to the fact that menopausal women have lower testosterone levels, but that is not the only possible cause. Due to the manifold nature of the issue, treatment can take a variety of forms. These include investigating factors like mental health and the state of personal relationships. There are medications on the market for women’s libidos. However, they are only approved for pre-menopausal women.
Vaginal dryness:
This is a symptom that can impact womens’ libidos as it leads to painful intercourse. It can occur for up to five years after the last period, so many women may not realize it is a side effect of menopause. The most effective treatment is a low dose of vaginal hormones. Unlike with other hormone treatments, they are minimally absorbed into the bloodstream. This means they do not increase risk for breast cancer, blood clots or cardiovascular disease. Since the dosage is so low, treatments for vaginal dryness will not address hot flashes. The therapy can be useful to maintain both vaginal and urinary health.
Weight gain:
Like a lower libido, menopausal weight gain can be caused by a variety of factors, including a slower metabolism and increased insulin resistance. Your body has to pump out more insulin to get glucose into cells, signaling it to deposit fat. This new fat doesn’t go to the breasts or buttocks, but instead is located more in the belly. While hormone therapy can help with the problem, it should be part of a weight loss management plan that includes a healthy diet and exercise.
Mood swings, depression and anxiety:
According to Harvard Health, the incidence of depression during menopause doubles, and women who have previously dealt with mental health concerns are at risk for a resurgence of symptoms. The mood shift associated with hormone changes are often mild, and severe depression has not been linked to menopause. However, it occurs at a time in life when there are often many other stressful factors for women, including financial concerns for retirement, the issue of caring for elderly parents and adult children leaving home. Make sure to take time to maintain your mental health, and don’t be afraid to talk to a mental health professional.
Short-term memory loss:
Brain fog can be a concern for women experiencing menopause. The best way to combat it is to exercise your mind. Try activities like crossword puzzles, learning a foreign language or taking a class to keep you mentally active and engaged. &
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F5 COVER STORY – Community School
GUIDE TO SCHOOLS
F6 HEARD IN THE HALLS
F7 PARENT TRAP – Stay Connected
F8 STUDENT STANDOUTS
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LET’S CREATE COMMUNITY
SCHOOL
by stephanie wallace
EDUCATIONAL APPROACHES ARE CONSTANTLY EVOLVING. Lectures and rote learning are becoming ways of the past—and Community School is at the forefront of the latest techniques. Located in Ladue, the independent preschool and elementary school serves ages 3 through grade six. For more than 100 years, it has been teaching students through hands-on experiences.
A shining example of the school’s approach is the woodshop and art programs. “Our mission is to nurture the gifts of students’ minds, bodies and spirits,” woodshop teacher Joe Mohr says. “We are one of the few schools that still offer woodshop as a subject. Through the class, our kids are able to work slowly and deliberately with their hands while engaging their minds.” Art teacher Ashley Carr adds, “Art goes hand in hand with Community School’s mission. We challenge students to create unique projects using a variety of techniques and mediums.”
The projects in both art and woodshop encourage students to develop important skills like creativity and problem solving. The subjects also allow them to set long-term goals and focus on the process of creation. “We’re not trying to turn kids into master woodworkers, but we do encourage them to think independently to figure out their projects,” woodshop teacher Dave Lang notes. “After giving directions, we instruct them not to ask questions for a few minutes. This way they can sit with the problem and use their critical thinking skills. In many cases, they’re able to work it out on their own and don’t need a teacher to intervene.”
Art and woodshop also engage students with hands-on lessons. “My curriculum is art history focused,” Carr says. “Students learn about different artists and their styles and then use that as inspiration. There is an excitement that comes with each creation.”
For woodshop, the lessons students learn with each project build to assist with the next one. “Our fifth graders build Viking ships, which take more than 20 different tools to complete,” Mohr explains. “It’s a project that Community School has done for years. We often hear from alumni who have kept their ships and reflect positively on what the project taught them.”
The visual arts program at Community School demonstrates how each facet of STEAM (science, technology, engineering, arts and math) lessons can come together to benefit students and their creativity. “It’s great to be in a school where the ‘arts’ in STEAM is foregrounded,” Lang says. “Woodshop incorporates all aspects of STEAM in each project, whether it’s using math to measure or weigh wood, engineering a design or learning about conservation.” To ensure students can make the most of these subjects, Community School has dedicated, state-of-the-art spaces for both, including the new woodshop facilities in its Broughton STEAM Center.
“Woodshop and art provide Community students with opportunities for long-term thinking and problem solving,” head of school Bob Cooke says. “In this day of instant gratification, where you can Google an answer in seconds, it is valuable for students to learn great lifelong skills like persistence, grit, determination and seeing projects through to completion. These are skills that will serve them well for years to come.” &
INSPIRED BY HENRI MATISSE, FIRST GRADERS “PAINT WITH SCISSORS” ALONGSIDE ART TEACHER ASHLEY CARR.
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The school’s coffee shop, Cup of Joe, recently presented its profits from the 2023-24 school year to four local nonprofits. St. Martha’s Hall, Dream Factory of St. Louis, SJA’s Heart of an Angel Fund, and International Institute all received checks for $1,500.
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▶ hixson middle school ◀
Charlotte Heitgerd and Everett Bonzelet won the grand prize for the State of Missouri at the 2024 Youth Entrepreneurship Pitch Challenge and became national winners at the YEI National Pitch Competition. They submitted a video pitch of their business Royal Canvas Stickers and were evaluated on creativity, feasibility and the potential impact of their ideas.
▶ st. louis university high school ◀
The private Jesuit high school is celebrating a major milestone. This marks the 100th anniversary of its campus on Oakland Avenue. To commemorate the occasion, the school hosted a family-friendly centennial celebration. The festivities included an outdoor mass, yard games, crafts, live music, fireworks, a petting zoo, campus tours and “Taste of SLUH,” which offered food from restaurants owned by alumni and families of the school.
ladue horton watkins high school ▶
Congratulations to Brandon Barrett! The junior earned the Congressional Award Gold Medal, the highest achievement for youth given by the United States Congress. In two years, he completed more than 400 hours of voluntary public service, 200 hours of personal development, 200 hours of fitness and a five-day trip exploring a new environment and different culture to earn the award.
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The school’s volleyball team came out on top at the RK Invitational tournament, defeating Rosati Kain, Hazelwood West and Herculaneum in two sets each. Senior Hanna Hulett and junior Ava Perez were selected to the All-Tournament team.
PARENT TRAP
by dr. tim jordan
STAY CONNECTED
I’VE COUNSELED SO MANY TEEN GIRLS whose parents constantly dangle the threat of taking away their phones. They’re reasoning: “It’s my only leverage!” I beg to differ; the absolute best leverage is the state of a parent’s relationship with their adolescent. The following are ways parents can stay close with teens and remain an influence in their lives.
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. Make regular deposits into your “goodwill account with them.” Deposits look like listening without interrupting, being respectful by not yelling and valuing their opinions. These could also include spending special one-on-one time together and being curious about their interests, experiences and how they view issues.
2. Be a good listener. Put yourself in their shoes and see their experiences from their point of view. Mirror what you hear them share to be sure you are hearing them correctly. Once they feel fully heard, empathize with them. Underneath their often surly attitudes is a kid who still wants and needs to bounce things off of us.
3. Be fully present. When you are with them, put away phones and devices to give them your full attention. Have them do the same.
4. Ask permission before you give advice. When working with teens, I’ve learned to always ask permission before I offer feedback or suggestions. If they respond half-heartedly, I’ll ask a second time. If they say yes, then and only then do I offer my advice. It shows respect and ensures that they will actually listen to it.
5. Watch your judgments. Teenagers are sensitive to the judgments of others. I had a 16-year-old patient once who shared that a girl in her grade was pregnant. Her dad’s quick response was, “Well, that doesn’t surprise me. She’s always been boy crazy and kind of slutty.” Hearing that, his daughter will never feel safe enough to share anything about boys, dating or sexuality. Teens have also told me over and over that when their parents judge their friends, it feels like they are also judging them.
6. Trust that they know what’s best for them. As teens progress through high school, it becomes increasingly important that they have the autonomy and encouragement to make choices for themselves, like whether or not to attend college, where to go to college, and what studies they want to pursue. Teens need to take responsibility for their lives because it’s only with autonomy that they will become fully engaged and fulfilled in their endeavors.
7. Share your stories. Teens see their parents as the finished product of adulthood. They didn’t see mom and dad in their awkward middle and high school years, resplendent with acne, braces and insecurities. Sharing stories about times when you faced similar challenges or felt similar emotions lets them know that you really do understand what they are going through.
8. See them in their highest light. When teenagers are struggling with the normal ups and downs of adolescence, it’s hard for them to remain confident and self-assured. One of the greatest gifts we can give them is to see through their present day uncertainties and maintain full faith that they are more than their present struggles. It lets them know that we have full faith that they will get through the turbulent teen years and become healthy, confident, successful and fulfilled adults.
by stephanie wallace
AMELIA BARTIN OF KIRKWOOD HIGH SCHOOL STUDENT STANDOUTS
SINCE SHE STARTED SCOUTING, AMELIA BARTIN has logged more than 100 service hours, earned 24 merit badges and spent more than 70 nights camping. This summer, the Kirkwood High sophomore received her Eagle Scout award. For her project, she led Troop 313 of Des Peres in modifying electronic toys to make them adaptive for students with special needs at the Rockwood Early Childhood Center.
How did you get involved in scouting?
My older brother is a scout, so that influenced me. I joined during the pandemic because I was looking for something to do.
What is your favorite part of scouting?
I really enjoy all of the different activities we do. They are experiences that I wouldn’t get to have otherwise.
Do you have a favorite badge you earned?
At summer camp, there is a kayaking merit badge. I have that one. It was really fun because it’s such a unique experience.
Where did the idea for your Eagle Scout project come from?
One of my relatives works at the Rockwood Early Childhood Center. I really like working with kids, so I reached out to see if they had any projects they needed help with. Modifying toys to make them more accessible for students with special needs
sounded interesting. It’s cool to work on a project that is going to directly impact someone and help them learn. I started just by getting donations of the toys that were needed. It was a challenge to figure out what would work best for adapting each one.
How did it feel to achieve the Eagle Scout rank?
I feel really accomplished. I hope that it inspires the younger scouts in my troop to also achieve Eagle.
What is your favorite part of school?
I really enjoy band. I play clarinet in the marching band, Wind Ensemble and Woodwind Chamber Ensemble. I also like math and science.
What do you enjoy doing in your free time?
I play on the ultimate frisbee team. I also work for the Adventure Club, an after-school program at Keysor Elementary. &
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Cor Jesu Academy is an all-girls, Catholic college preparatory school that prepares young women to build a bright future. Inspired by the Charism of the Apostles of the Sacred Heart, every student is encouraged to realize her whole potential with a balanced approach to education that leads to lifelong learning.
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DE SMET JESUIT
De Smet Jesuit forms young men for lives of purpose through academic excellence, Catholic and Jesuit values and care for the whole person. Our open house showcases how we prepare students to become men for others. Our middle school will open in 2025.
OPEN HOUSE: Oct. 20, noon-3 p.m.
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FORSYTH SCHOOL
Forsyth School fosters a spirit of curiosity and joy, empowering children age 2 through grade six to pursue challenges with confidence. Forsyth’s one-of-a-kind campus and engaging curriculum promote age-appropriate independence and prepare students to thrive in secondary school and beyond.
ALL-SCHOOL OPEN HOUSE: Oct. 20, 3-5 p.m.
EARLY CHILDHOOD OPEN HOUSE: Jan. 25, 9:30–11:30 a.m.
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THE FULTON SCHOOL
A small, independent Montessori school for students 18 months through 18 years old, The Fulton School provides strong academics hand-in-hand with community service, travel, entrepreneurship, athletic and farm opportunities to create excited, responsible and confident kids.
GRADE SEVEN TO GRADE 12 OPEN HOUSE: Oct. 15, 9 a.m.
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JOHN BURROUGHS SCHOOL
Burroughs is a coeducational school (grades seven to 12) recognized as one of the nation’s premier college preparatory institutions, offering a rigorous curriculum in humanities, STEM, athletics and the arts.
A CLOSER LOOK FOR PARENTS: Dec. 3, 6 p.m. Jan. 9, 6 p.m.
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New City School inspires curiosity and a love for learning in students age 3 to grade six through a dynamic program rooted in brain research and an inquiry approach. New City students develop into adept problem-solvers who know themselves, express their beliefs respectfully and lead with purpose, passion and empathy.
Principia School is an independent, co-educational college preparatory school providing future-focused programs for preschool through grade 12 students. Our rigorous academic program, strong community and hands-on learning opportunities prepare our future leaders to thrive in college and beyond.
An education from Rossman is designed to prepare children for their next steps in life and let them explore the limitless possibilities ahead. Rossman is a small community that embraces childhood and brings out the unique strengths of each child.
OPEN HOUSES:
Oct. 16, 8:30-10:30 a.m. Nov. 20, 8:30-10:30 a.m.
Jan. 15, 8:30-10:30 a.m.
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SAINT LOUIS PRIORY SCHOOL
We are thrilled to announce we will be admitting sixth-grade students for the 2025-26 school year. Ranked Best All-Boys High School in Missouri, Saint Louis Priory School is preparation for an exceptional life.
Vianney offers a college-style schedule that allows students to complete 32 credits, one of the highest graduation requirements in the Midwest. Students can begin earning college credit as freshmen with more than 100 hours of college credit offered over their four years.
OPEN HOUSE: Nov. 3, 11:30 a.m.-4 p.m.
1311 S. KIRKWOOD ROAD | 314.965.4853, EXT. 134 | VIANNEY.COM
St. Joseph’s Academy provides quality Catholic education for young women in an environment that challenges them to grow in faith, knowledge and respect for self and others. Faculty and staff are dedicated to developing values-driven leaders through a balanced approach to learning.
OPEN HOUSE: Nov. 3, noon-3 p.m.
2307 S. LINDBERGH BLVD. | 314.394.4349 | SJA1840.ORG
At Villa, a transformational Catholic, Sacred Heart education is made even stronger when a student truly knows and embraces her God-given gifts. Villa students learn in a community where academics and spiritual development are inextricably linked and relationships are at the center of everything we do.
OPEN HOUSE: Oct. 27, Noon-3 p.m.
10801 CONWAY ROAD | 314.810.3435 | VILLA1929.ORG
ST. JOHN VIANNEY HIGH SCHOOL
ST. JOSEPH’S ACADEMY
VILLA DUCHESNE
WESTMINSTER CHRISTIAN ACADEMY
Westminster Christian Academy is an independent, coeducational school focused on community, college preparedness and Christ for grades seven to 12. Students pursue excellence through honors, A.P. and college-credit courses, as well as our award-winning fine arts and athletics programs, including esports.
OPEN HOUSE: Oct. 24, 6:30 p.m.
800 MARYVILLE CENTRE DRIVE | 314.997.2900 | WCASTL.ORG
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THE WHITFIELD SCHOOL
The Whitfield School is an experiential, independent, coeducational college preparatory day school for grades six to 12, located on a 26-acre campus in Creve Coeur. We believe that real academic excellence fosters the agility, adaptability, resilience and risk tolerance that today’s students—and tomorrow’s world—require.
WARRIOR GAMES: Oct. 6, 1-3:30 p.m.
OPEN HOUSE: Nov. 3, 1-4 p.m.
THE UPPER SCHOOL EXPERIENCE: Nov. 21, 5:30-7 p.m. WHITFIELD NIGHT: Jan. 16, 6:30-8 p.m.
175 S. MASON ROAD | 314.434.5141 | WHITFIELDSCHOOL.ORG
WILSON SCHOOL
Since 1913, The Wilson School has excelled in reaching every student. Our deliberately small class sizes, two-teacher model, accelerated curriculum and nurturing, inclusive community allow our students to build the academic and social-emotional skills they need to succeed in secondary school and beyond.
OPEN HOUSES
Nov. 2, 9 a.m.
Jan. 16, 8:30 a.m.
400 DE MUN AVE. | 314.725.4999 | WILSONSCHOOL.COM
HOME of your own
by stephanie wallace
Whether it’s the spacious yard with plenty of room to play, the great room that is perfect for entertaining or the finished lower level with access to the saltwater pool, 12583 Durrow Court has something for every member of the family. The Town and Country home also offers easy access to schools, shopping, restaurants and more—all while nestled on a private cul-de-sac.
What have you enjoyed about the home’s location?
The home is on a private cul-de-sac, and the neighbors are very friendly. The kids were able to play outside all of the time. The neighborhood is great for walking. There are paths, and it is easy to get to Clayton Road. We would walk to Straub’s and Starbucks all the time. There also is easy access to the highways, which is very convenient.
Tell me about the outdoor spaces.
Upstairs off the breakfast nook, there is a large deck that overlooks the saltwater pool. The lower level walks out to an area with an outdoor fireplace. There’s a huge side yard, which the kids loved. We put up a zipline, and they had room to play all softs of sports. The property backs up to woods, so it’s very private and peaceful.
What are some standout features?
The great room has a stone fireplace as the focal point, and it flows nicely into the kitchen and dining room. There is a first floor primary suite that overlooks the backyard and the
woods. It also features a large whirlpool tub in the bathroom. The home has a lot of great practical spaces. There is so much storage, and the laundry room is large. If you need a home office, there’s a space for that, and we created a reading room.
How is the home for entertaining?
It has been just amazing. There is so much space outside and inside. That’s really the reason we bought it. We have a huge family and the house is lovely for large gatherings. The finished basement has a kitchenette, and it’s got great access to the outdoor spaces. There’s also room for guests to stay overnight. We never ran out of space.
Do you have a favorite room?
I would say the great room. When you walk in the door, it is so large but still feels cozy with the stone fireplace. It has been such a great gathering space for our family to sit, chat and play games. I can always picture my kids with their many cousins snuggled on the sectional together. &
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FROM THE BLOG OF...
MODERN MEMPHIS
Trends come and go. Some stick around, others fizzle out quickly, and a few even come back for a second chance at catching on. One such trend is Memphis Style. This ’80s revival has been steadily making its way into fashion, design and interiors for a few years, and we are so intrigued by this out-of-the-box style making its unexpected—but welcome—comeback.
As a response to the clean lines and minimalism of the ’60s and ’70s, a design team in Italy, called the Memphis Group, developed Memphis Style. A blend of bright colors and unique shapes defined a decade and laid the groundwork for a creative and playful way of thinking about design.
meet the modern memphis style
At the time, Memphis Style was considered too bright, too strange and too out of the box. Forty years later, we are excited to see Memphis Style making its way back in a more subtle way. This poppy, colorful style is now more muted and mature. While some shapes and patterns have remained the same, you can definitely see that Memphis has grown up.
Signature traits of the original Memphis Style included bright colors, unusual shapes, curves and bold patterns. One of our favorites? Terrazzo! This beautifully speckled material is playful on countertops, unexpected on end tables and exciting on accessories.
While the modern Memphis revival is more relaxed than its first iteration, it is still surprising and playful. Terrazzo has been popping up in contemporary design for a few years now and it is so easy to incorporate into any space, especially with subtle patterns. The unexpected shapes of the classic Memphis Style have been reigned in but still remain visually interesting.
While true Memphis Style might be too much for the more relaxed color palette of the 21st century, we love seeing the elevated revival of this fun and unexpected design movement.
DESIGN: ELIZABETH ROBERTS ARCHITECTS | PHOTO: DUSTIN AKSLAND
DESIGN: GIA BATHROOMS & KITCHENS
DESIGN: GRZYWINSKI+PONS | PHOTO: NICHOLAS WORLEY
DESIGN: BREE LEECH | PHOTO: DEREK SWALWELL
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Mary Noel Donovan WILLIAM RAVEIS REAL ESTATE
Is it a good time to buy in Southwest Florida?
Buying a second home in Florida depends on many factors. There is always a demand for the desirable climate, beach and vacation lifestyle. While the market prices increased dramatically over the past four years, there is a slight softening with more inventory available than in the recent past.
Stephanie Oliver DIELMANN SOTHEBY’S INTERNATIONAL REALTY
With interest rates reducing, is now a good time to sell?
Interest rates moving in the right direction are definitely creating more confidence and movement this fall, but we’ve seen a slow down and correction this year. It depends on the location, condition and price— some homes fly with multiple offers, while others are sitting.
Sarah Bernard Sarah Bernard Realty Team REDKEY REALTY LEADERS
Should I replace my stained carpet?
Unless your home is being sold “as is” with a complete renovation needed, buyers will expect your flooring to be in move-in condition. If it can’t be cleaned, replace it.
19 Clayton Terrace Frontenac, MO 63131 SOLD
“Larry is a seasoned veteran in the business, which is evident in how he approached the sale of our home on the FIRST DAY. He was knowledgeable and thoughtful about pricing, house updates, and necessary improvements to achieve the highest sale price possible. Larry is easy to work with and well-respected by other agents, which makes working on a sale much more enjoyable. We highly recommend him to anyone looking to sell their home in Frontenac and surrounding areas.”
-Sara and Kurt Hentz, Sellers
22 Crestwood Drive Clayton, MO 63105 SOLD
“Larry was great to work with. We met several times to discuss selling our house and what improvements to make beforehand. Larry suggested a “Private Exclusive” listing with Compass agents, which could have a high success rate of selling before we listed it in MLS. We did that, and sure enough, the first couple who looked at the house made an offer at the full price. We accepted it immediately. The process couldn’t have been better thanks to Larry and the Compass Private Exclusive Program.”
-Roddy Roediger and Kathleen McDermott, Sellers
Is fall a good time to list my home?
Fall is a great time to list your home, but if you miss it, I recommend waiting for the spring market, which
COLDWELL BANKER REALTY
How do I get my contract to stand out in this current ultra competitive market with low inventory and
Ideas for crafting a winning contract include getting loan pre-approval or proof of funds, eliminating contingencies, making a cash offer, increasing earnest money, narrowing the inspection timeline and putting a cap on the amount
Are interest rates impacting the
Higher rates have slowed the inventory and the number of serious buyers.
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Luxury Condo at The Chase Park Plaza
HOMEWORK
DEAR HOMEWORK,
Our 1976 home has many great features, but it lacks something very important to us: a welcoming front porch for sitting and chatting that also provides cover from rain. Could you please suggest a way to add a front porch that is compatible with the style of our home?
Looking forward to your sound advice!
DEAR PORCHLESS IN WEBSTER GROVES,
Your home features the unconvincing Tudor styling typical of ’70s-era homes. Your desire for a suitable front porch could be the jumping off point for a total refresh.
I would first observe that the house is too symmetrical to be a ‘good Tudor.’ The request for a porch allows for a new projectioning element to disguise the symmetry of the existing central element. The new stained wood porch has two parts: an arched area at the front door and a larger area off to the side to allow for a comfortable grouping of furniture. Turning the dining room windows into French doors further helps break down the symmetry.
The similar, though different sized wings also are differentiated from each other with minor architectural changes. The larger section gets a box bay window and an attic window, while the smaller one gets a window flower box.
Also note that the colors of the house have been rethought. A beige wash has been put over the orange brick, and the half-timbering has been painted khaki brown. The shutters are now a soft green. The new front door is a dark stained wood tone, and the diamond paired window grills have been replaced for a less dated look. A more contiguous landscape scheme and new, curving exposed aggregate concrete walk further underscore the more authentic, Tudor façade.
Hope this is helpful, HOMEWORK
HOMEWORK WAS PENNED BY THE LATE PAUL DOERNER, FOUNDING PARTNER OF THE LAWRENCE GROUP. TO CELEBRATE HIS LEGACY, T&S IS PULLING SOME OF HIS OLDER COLUMNS FROM THE ARCHIVES TO SHARE.
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In 1989, Tony and Kathy Pietoso opened Cafe Napoli in Clayton. Thirty-five years later, the restaurant is a St. Louis institution, and their sons Ande and Kye Pietoso are growing the Napoli brand into a culinary empire. They recently launched Napoli Bros. Pizza and Pasta in The District in Chesterfield, and Napoli Kirkwood is expected to open in November. And the brothers aren’t done yet.
WHAT ARE SOME OF YOUR FAVORITE MEMORIES GROWING UP IN A RESTAURANT?
Ande Pietoso (AP): I remember my dad would tell me that Joe Torre was out in the dining room or Jerry Clinton or Mike Keenan. I’d go on the line in the kitchen, put on an apron and pour tomato sauce on it to make it look like I was cooking. Then I’d go out there at 10 years old to meet those guys. I loved that part of it. The relationships and the people you get to meet are still the best part.
WHY DID YOU DECIDE TO EXPAND THE NAPOLI BRAND?
AP: It started with Bar Napoli. Our dad put Cafe Napoli on the map as a lunch spot. Kye and I were young and wanted to do something more fun and hip. At the time, a bar scene was emerging in Clayton. We wanted to take advantage of the urban vibe and walkability.
Kye Pietoso (KP): We love what we do, and that’s why the expansion into Town and Country with Napoli II happened. We knew we wanted to grow and move out west. We had a lot of customers coming from that area.
WHAT WAS IT LIKE BRINGING NAPOLI TO ST. CHARLES WITH NAPOLI III AND NAPOLI SEA?
KP: We grew up in St. Charles, so we have a lot of ties out here. It’s where we went to grade school, so it almost felt like coming back home. A lot of people don’t cross the bridge, so we knew going into it that we would get a whole new clientele.
WHERE DID THE IDEA FOR NAPOLI BROS. COME FROM?
AP: We’ve always wanted to do a pizza place. Our dad is from Napoli, Italy, the home of the best pizza in the world. A more casual and family friendly restaurant appealed to me because I have three small children. We knew we had to do something different because the pizza market is saturated pretty much everywhere. The niche we found was coal-fired pizza—nobody else in the state of Missouri has it.
HOW DO YOU PUT YOUR STAMP ON THE MENUS AT NEW RESTAURANTS?
KP: We keep it consistent with some things. We don’t mess with the chicken parmesan or the bolognese. With that being said, we let our chefs add what they think will complement those staples. As far as Napoli Bros. goes, the executive chef Anthony Gitto, has opened my eyes to stuff I would have never imagined. With the Kirkwood location, it’s going to be very similar.
WHAT’S THE DISH YOU’RE MOST PROUD TO MAKE AT HOME?
KP: Just the Napoli tomato sauce with a rigatoni noodle. I’m super basic, and it’s what I grew up on. I would wake up on Sunday mornings and could smell my dad making it downstairs.
WHERE DO YOU WANT TO TRAVEL TO LEARN MORE ABOUT FOOD?
AP: Japan is on my bucket list. They are very serious about how they handle cuisine. It’s called the culinary arts for a reason, and those are some of the best artists in the world.
