Town & Style 10.16.24

The Whitfield School of experience.

IN THE

by stephanie wallace

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Missouri resident Ann Kathryn Kehoe was awarded the prestigious title of “Best of Show” at the art festival’s 29th annual event. Kehoe received a cash prize of $1,000 as the first-place winner for her jewelry.

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The nonprofit’s annual Feast for Change raised more than $150,000. Guests enjoyed a locally-sourced, multi-course dinner, curated farmers market, wine and spirits pull, live auction and more.

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Internationally acclaimed headwear designer Jane Taylor London partnered with the nonprofit for an exclusive couture millinery event. Guests received bespoke headwear while supporting Variety’s programming, which empowers children and teens with disabilities.

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The nonprofit, which is dedicated to enhancing the lives of older adults, opened a new national headquarters in Northwest Plaza. The location provides greater access to residents in the North County area and more space for a wide variety of workshops and classes.

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ASTEMFOCUS

by stephanie wallace

THERE IS NO QUESTIONING THE IMPORTANCE OF SCIENCE, technology, engineering and math in today’s world. According to the National Science Foundation, around 40 million people are employed in STEM careers, accounting for around 24% of the U.S. workforce. And that number is only predicted to grow in coming years. It’s critical that students have access to an engaging STEM curriculum, regardless of their future career path. The Whitfield School in Creve Coeur encourages its students to cultivate an expanded perspective on STEM subjects through practical application and hands-on projects.

“Our STEM curriculum helps students understand the practical experience of living in a world where it’s necessary to know and use these concepts,” teacher Andrew Asikainen notes. “STEM is going to be a big part of what they do in the future. We want them to know what it means to take on these careers and have experience exploring these subjects in depth.” Asikainen has been at Whitfield for 25 years, teaching math, physics and computer science.

One unique aspect of Whitfield’s STEM offerings is its Accelerated Physics curriculum. The two-year course explores topics like fluidics, thermodynamics, magnetism and optics, equipping students with a deeper understanding of the concepts and developing the proficiency needed for higher education study of the subject. “Our Accelerated Physics class goes beyond an A.P. course, really letting students dive into the principles they learn in Physics I,” Asikainen explains. “For example, when covering reflection and refraction, the students make holograms. It’s a hands-on physical application that helps them to fully understand the concepts.”

In Accelerated Physics, one of the final projects is building working trebuchets. Students start with initial sketches before refining their designs and building scale models to test their concepts. Following that, they craft their trebuchets from raw materials in Whitfield’s woodshop. On launch day, students are challenged to use the final product to send a water balloon 50 meters. To further incentivize success, faculty members serve as targets. “The project is really a culmination of the physics curriculum,” Asikainen says. “Students have to demonstrate conceptual understanding and practically apply concepts like torque, circular motion, leverage, potential and kinetic energy, conservation and more.”

Projects like building trebuchets not only help students develop proficiency in math and science. Experiential learning opportunities also push them to build important skills like creative thinking, problem solving, communication, time management and teamwork. “Students start with a concept that they have to continuously adapt during the design and construction process,” Asikainen says. “It takes a lot of perseverance to take something on paper and turn it into something physical.”

Asikainen is excited to see that enrollment in the Accelerated Physics program has increased for this school year. It shows that the hands-on curriculum is making a difference in engaging students in STEM subjects. “Experiences like the trebuchets really resonate with students,” he notes. “When they are excited about learning, it energizes them to take on challenges and think creatively. It empowers them to take an active role in their education and really dive into important concepts.” &

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PARENT TRAP

by dr. tim jordan

PHRASES EVERY CHILD NEEDS TO HEAR

IF YOU’RE KIDS are whiny and too reliant on you to solve their problems, I’ve got some valuable phrases to redirect them. Too often parents nag, remind, yell and threaten before doing things for their kids because it’s easier. But in the long run, you’re not preparing them to become confident, self-reliant adults.

If your daughter comes to you frustrated because she can’t find her soccer shoes, it’s so easy to snap at her as you run around trying to find her cleats. Instead, ask her a simple question, “So, what will you do?” In other words, I’m not responsible for finding your shoes and I trust you have the wherewithal to find them yourself. If she comes to you upset about how her friend treated her at school today, listen and try to see it from her perspective. Once she feels like you have heard her, then pull out that phrase again, “So, what will you do?” Again, you allow her to think and problem solve for herself, and if she tries her idea and it helps, she’s just added a building block of self confidence to her pile.

How about when your son keeps coming to you complaining he is bored? Yep, “So what will you do about that?” You teach him that he, not you, is responsible for managing his boredom. Perhaps at a non-confrontational time you could brainstorm ideas about boredom busters he could have on hand for those moments, but let him take the lead.

When your child comes up to you whining that they can’t do something, avoid the temptation to do it for them and instead say, “I’ve seen you do that before, so I know you can do it again.” Then you close your mouth and walk away, leaving junior with the problem. When they accomplish it on their own, they’ll come to you brimming with confidence because they did it!

What about ‘No?’ It’s actually quite effective and important. If your son comes to you demanding that you buy him the latest Lego set, it’s OK to say, “No, I’m not buying that for you. But you can certainly use your allowance money if you’d like.” It’s more than OK to tell your grade school and middle school kids that you aren’t ready for them to have a smartphone or social media or to not allow any electronic devices in their bedrooms. They need good, healthy boundaries—and accountability.

If your daughter comes to you upset because she’s been left out by her friends, listen and empathize and then say these invaluable words: “I know how you feel because …”and then share a time growing up when you also felt excluded and lonely. Our kids see us as the finished product and didn’t know us in those challenging middle school years. It tells kids that we really can understand and relate to their experiences, thus encouraging them to come to us when they are hurting.

One more phrase: “Good night, and I love you.” Our kids are never too old to be tucked in. Sitting in the dark on the end of the bed with a teen is often the time when they are most likely to open up and be vulnerable. Or just share fun or challenging moments from both of your days. There is a little kid inside each of them that still longs to be seen, heard, supported and loved.

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In honor of Hispanic Heritage Month, kindergarten teacher Jaira Bennett taught students about her home country, Ecuador. “Traditions within Hispanic heritage are all so diverse, whether that’s in the form of Spanish, rituals, clothing, food and social norms,” she notes. “ It is beautiful to see how our students can learn more about a variety of Hispanic cultures and get to know where their teachers come from.”

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▶ ladue horton watkins high school ◀

Six students from the school have been named finalists for the National Scholastic Press Association (NSPA) Individual Awards. NSPA Individual Awards honor the nation’s best scholastic journalism in a wide range of categories. Only around 9% of entries make it to the finalist stage. The finalists from Ladue Horton Watkins are Emily Liu, Vincent Hsiao, Kelly Zhang, Mimi Zhou, Mac Huffman and Grace Kweon.

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The school received a $10 million gift commitment from Bob Conrads, a 1965 grad, and his wife Sherry. The gift is intended to strengthen the academic program in science, technology, engineering and mathematics (STEM).

Lower and middle school students are hitting the basketball court. More than 40 kids received the chance to learn from members of the Missouri Athletic Club (MAC) Men’s Basketball League. Students participated in clinics throughout October designed to improve their gross motor and social skills. The free clinics are part of the MAC’s Charitable Society for Children grant.

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Congrats to the elementary school! It received the highest designation from Missouri Green Schools for its dedication to sustainability. The school was honored with the rank of Flowering Dogwood in recognition of its reduction of energy, waste and water for the entire school and its commitment to mentoring other schools on their green journey.

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MY MESSY M M LIFE

WITH KATELYN & THE #CRUMBLYCREW

OVER-PARENTING

DO YOU EVER GET ON INSTAGRAM and feel like the worst mom ever? Yeah, I do every day.

The algorithm knows my weakness, and I am constantly bombarded by videos of moms making perfectly themed lunches, delivering special snacks to their kids’ rooms, helping with flawless science projects and hosting birthday parties only a celebrity could compete with. I’m not knocking them—I tried to make healthy homemade gummy bears with my oldest once. But somewhere between the third and fourth kid, we landed on lunch from the gas station when I forget to buy food. It’s life, and it happens. Everything has its place. I am just writing this to let you know it’s totally OK to take a break.

I call my mom constantly, feeling guilty about what other moms do that I don’t, and most of the time, she reassures me with a, “Don’t worry. I never did that for you!” Thanks, Mom. (I often dream about what it was like to be a mom before the internet!)

To be honest, studies are starting to show that it is actually possible to do too much for your kids. Educators and psychologists call it “helicopter parenting” or “over-parenting.” We’re probably all guilty of it, and I’m convinced it stems from social media, where every mom puts her best face forward and influencers often set unrealistic standards.

The problem with over-parenting is that it can hinder kids from developing essential life skills. The main concerns are:

Lack of problem-solving opportunities: When we step in too fast to solve our kids’ problems, they don’t learn how to deal with challenges independently, which can keep them from learning how to manage frustration and failure.

Reduced sense of responsibility: If you take on all your kids responsibilities, they may grow up expecting other people to meet their needs, which can negatively affect relationships and potential employment.

Stunted emotional resilience: Psychologists believe that if kids are never allowed to experience discomfort, they may not develop the emotional skills to manage stress, anxiety or disappointment. Dr. Wendy Mogel discusses in her book The Blessing of a Skinned Knee how trials help our kids build emotional strength.

Overemphasis on success and safety: This one shook me. Basically, our society is so focused on success and safety that it limits opportunities for our kids to take risks, make mistakes and learn from those mistakes. This is a vital part of growing up!

It’s so hard to know when to step in and when to let go. I pray over my kids every single day because I believe parenting is the greatest walk of faith. I found these points really eye-opening and also a little bit pressure-relieving. I don’t need to do everything for my kids daily. Let them do some things for themselves. Let them forget something at school and not rush to the rescue. Don’t get too upset if they fall down and get a few bumps and bruises. Studies are showing they will be better for it and will grow into thriving adults. I am working on smart ways to help my kids become more independent. I will report back. As always, we are all just doing the very best we can, and 99.9% of the time, that’s enough.

—XO Katelyn

Fall Reads for Any Age

BY STEPHANIE WALLACE

The Very Last Leaf

BY STEF WADE

Taking a leap can be a scary thing. Lance Cottonwood is the best and brightest of the leaves, but he has to conquer his fear of falling. This humorous picture book addresses some of the social and emotional struggles many kids face every day, such as anxiety and fear.

Pumpkin Jack

BY WILL HUBBELL

This is the perfect post-Halloween read. Tim loves his jack o’ lantern, Jack. After Jack begins to rot, Tim takes him out to his family’s garden. As time passes, he watches the pumpkin change, and when spring comes around, he’s in for a surprise.

Cavie’s Magic Wish

BY JULIE HUETSCH

This heartwarming story shines a light on the vital importance of dog rescue and adoption. Cavie—a brave Cavalier King Charles Spaniel rescue dog—sets off on an adventure of compassion and selflessness. When Cavie’s heroic act earns him a magical wish, he faces an important choice.

The Lost Library BY REBECCA STEAD AND WENDY

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Celebrate the power of a good book— and the librarian who gave it to you!

Guarded by a large orange cat, a mysterious little free library appears overnight in a small town. Eleven-year-old Evan takes two weathered books from its shelves, never suspecting that his life is about to change.

Absolutely Truly (A Pumpkin Falls Mystery) BY HEATHER VOGEL FREDERICK

After Truly Lovejoy’s family moves to Pumpkin Falls, New Hampshire, she finds an undelivered letter stuck in a autographed first edition of Charlotte’s Web. The discovery leads to a madcap treasure hunt around town. Don’t miss the other three entries in the series.

Keeper Chance and the Conundrum of Chaos

BY ALEX EVANOVICH

Just an average kid, Keeper Chance gets invited to try out for a spot in his local chapter of EVIL—the Evil Villains International League. As members of EVIL go missing, Keeper must race against the clock to save his new friends.

▶ Meet the author! Oct. 19 @ St. Louis County Library’s Clark Family Branch

Zodiac Rising

BY KATIE ZHAO

If you’re interested in dark academia or heist stories, this is the book for you. When a student at a secretive magical boarding school in Manhattan is found dead, a vampire, shapeshifter, werewolf and mortal must save the day.

Pumpkinheads

BY RAINBOW ROWELL AND FAITH ERIN HICKS

This graphic novel follows seasonal best friends Deja and Josiah. Every autumn, they work together at a pumpkin patch. However, things are different this Halloween as the two are now seniors. On their last shift together, Deja decides they need to go out with bang.

A Good Girl’s Guide to Murder

BY HOLLY JACKSON

You may have seen the Netflix show, but don’t miss the bestselling novel that inspired it. After high school senior Andie Bell was murdered by her boyfriend, the tragedy haunts the town of Fairview. Pip decides to reexamine the closed case, quickly discovering a trail of dark secrets. &

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Everybody who’s anybody, and millions of nobodies, worked in food service at one time or another. Although U.S. presidential candidate Vice President Kamala Harris may not have McDonald’s on her LinkedIn profile, she worked there. As a part-time anybody, this grizzled old reporter’s food service experience includes two nights as a steakhouse dishwasher and about two weeks sweating as a Jack-In-The-Box grill man. The ‘drunk rush’ at the drive-thru at about 2 a.m. was not to be believed. I’m sure that was the case every morning for the harried servers at the late, lamented Uncle Bill’s Pancake House, too—although it hadn’t been open all night for quite some time, the neon sign outside still indicated that it was serving 24 hours. It was a frequent last stop for a date and me sometime in the wee hours after a night on the town. But the iconic inn-like restaurant closed Oct. 8 after having served countless metro residents fluffy pancakes, crisp bacon, hashbrowns and good coffee since the early 1960s. You couldn’t really call yourself a

St. Louisan unless you’d been there. “Uncle Bill” was Bill Ernst, who’d opened the joint as a bar that wasn’t faring too well when a friend and customer, the story goes, suggested he convert it into a pancake house. The rest is history for metro residents. Marriage proposals have been accepted or declined in the cozy confines of Uncle Bill’s. Many teenagers got their first kiss in a booth there. It was where rowdy groups went after prom because their plans included being out all night. Church-goers gathered for breakfast or lunch, no matter how many needed to be seated or when they arrived. Waiting in line, which sometimes snaked outside, guests noticed the unique walls of smooth, lacquered stones, round and oblong, perhaps like a ski lodge; some diners were delighted or amused by the religious figurines in the display case just inside the entrance. Long live Uncle Bill’s. The location on Manchester Road in west county will remain open—until 10 p.m. Night owls, there’s always Waffle House.

BILL BEGGS JR. HAS WORN MANY HATS AT NEWSPAPERS, MAGAZINES AND IN MARKETING COMMUNICATIONS SINCE BEFORE THE ERA OF THE FLOPPY DISC. NOW HE JUST WEARS A HAT TO KEEP HIS BALD SPOT FROM GETTING SUNBURNT. YOU CAN REACH HIM AT WRTRS.BLCK@GMAIL.COM.

Not all that long ago, it seemed, a new craft brewery popped up every month in the metro. Now, they’re closing or declaring bankruptcy faster than you can say Jack Robinson. I’d only gotten to the middle syllable of ‘Robinson’ on the morning of Oct. 8, when I learned Earthbound Beer was planning to shut down its ‘nano-brewing’ experiment Nov. 22, after 10 years operating at two addresses on Cherokee Street in St. Louis. Hell of a way to celebrate your 10th anniversary. Producing only several hundred barrels annually, nano-brewing is an even more conservative approach to the art of mixing hops and barley, adding yeast and holding your breath for who knows how long than a microbrewery, of which two others have landed on the rocks in recent months. (Of course, every other StL beermaker is a microbrewer in comparison to Anheuser-Busch.) In September, O’Fallon Brewery in Maryland Heights quietly announced its closing on social media, noting that all its equipment, from fermentation tanks to canning and bottling equipment, would be up for auction through Oct. 23. The timing is especially unfortunate, because the craft brewery—one of the region’s largest—was known for its pumpkin beer. O’Fallon had filed for bankruptcy protection in June 2023, citing the pandemic as one reason for slumping sales. Earlier in September 2024, the metro’s fourth-largest brewer, Urban Chestnut, filed bankruptcy and announced plans to reorganize under a different investor. It produced 24,000 barrels in 2023.

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St. Louis County Library (SLCL) will host the 45th annual St. Louis Storytelling Festival from Nov. 13, to Nov. 23, featuring performances by eight nationally renowned storytellers, along with a variety of other programs and presenters. This year’s line-up will include bilingual performances, indigenous storytelling, folklore, writing workshops and more. There are 24 total events planned, all are free and open to the public. Festival events will take place at a variety of venues throughout the metro, including the Clark Family Branch on Lindbergh in Ladue and select other SLCL branch locations, the Missouri History Museum, St. Louis Art Museum, Work & Leisure and the Mirowitz Center. You may also capture your personal history throughout the festival in the Emerson History & Genealogy Center’s Personal History Studio at the Clark branch. Alternatively, invite a family member or friend to engage in a meaningful conversation, capturing the stories in the studio. Prompts will be available and staff will be on hand to help get you started. Appointments are required, as well as a USB flash drive or external hard drive for storage. And if anyone gets hungry at lunchtime Nov. 16, three food trucks will be parked outside the Clark branch from 11 a.m. to 1 p.m: Zacchi, The MOObile and The Sweet Side. A complete schedule of events is available at slcl.org/storytelling.

WHAT BREWER BASED IN THE METRO PRODUCED 30,000 BARRELS OF BEER IN 2023?

Did pirates have peg legs?

A pirate with a peg leg, black eye patch and parrot on his shoulder is a fanciful portrayal. For one thing, primitive medicine meant few could have survived an amputation. Safe surgery or anesthesia were a few centuries in the future. The job fell to someone who could cut stuff, like the carpenter or cook. Rum served as anesthetic. And infection was rampant. Still, at least one seafaring criminal was known to have had a jambe du bois— François Le Clerc, a 16th-century French privateer.

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The Campbell House, a museum at 1508 Locust downtown, was built in 1851 and owned by wealthy merchant Robert Campbell and his descendants from 1854 until 1938, most of the historical period that Mark Twain satirized in his 1873 novel The Gilded Age, characterizing the rampant graft, materialism and political corruption of the time. The area was in a new-moneyed neighborhood then known as Lucas Place, and most of the visible excess was inside. Immediately to the left of the entry hallway, the living room is decorated and furnished with most of the original colors, patterns and pieces from the late 19th century. If not over the top, it’s very busy—crowded, at least. Andy Hahn, the museum’s executive director, smiles and nods: “That was the aesthetic.” Hahn came by his position honestly. Raised in Webster Groves, after graduating from DeSmet, he went on to earn a history degree at SLU. To underline, then highlight his affinity for history, he’s just had a book published that tells the history of St. Louis via 40 rare maps: Mapping St. Louis. The book will make its debut at The Campbell House on Oct. 20 in a launch event from 3 to 6 p.m. Many of the maps in Hahn’s beautiful volume are manuscripts—hand-drawn surveyor’s maps. Others display the evolution of water and sewer systems in the city center. Another illustrates how our city wards shrank from 28 to 14. One shows how the Mississippi’s channel was redirected closer to the levee to aid in steamboat traffic as a result of dikes engineered by none

other than Lt. Robert E. Lee, the future Confederate military leader. “Silt had accumulated at the levee, and the dikes jiggered the river toward the city, washing away the silt, and an island,” says Hahn. That was just what Lee had intended—a brilliant engineer, he’d predicted that the channel would eventually be obstructed, forcing the river, and commerce, toward the Illinois shore. Maps show Bellefontaine Cemetery, the interior of the art museum and the Zoo. An elaborate map toward the end of the book reflects dreams, not reality. It projects a possible future expansion of Metro’s light-rail system. “To the west, [one terminus] would have been at Wentzville,” he says. “To the east, it would have ended at Carlyle Lake.” All that was missing was many billions of dollars and the fervent will of the people. Neither was present, or may ever be. Maps need cartographers, of course, and one whom Hahn refers to as “legendary” was Joseph Cromwell Brown, who charted many of the growing city’s “common fields,” agricultural plots for families with surnames like Laclede and Chouteau. Brown was also the man who sketched many of the state lines throughout the Louisiana Purchase that weren’t determined by geographical features like the Mississippi and Missouri rivers. The Iowa-Missouri state line is an example of a border drawn by Brown. Presentations and book signings will continue through February. For detailed information about Hahn’s fascinating and unique workplace, visit campbellhousemuseum.org. &

MANY OF THE MAPS IN HAHN’S BEAUTIFUL VOLUME ARE MANUSCRIPTS—HAND-DRAWN SURVEYOR’S MAPS. ...

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raise the roof

The Frank Lloyd Wright House in Ebsworth Park will replace the historic home’s 30-year-old shingle roof next year as part of its Conservation Management Plan. The initiative was kicked off with a

a day at the park

Laclede’s Landing is home to a new park thanks to Pocketparks, a local nonprofit known for transforming underused spaces. The Laclede’s Landing Active Art Park and Disc Golf Putting Course is located at 617 N. Leonor K. Sullivan Blvd. The disc golf course incorporates art sculptures commissioned from local nonprofit STL Artwork and crafted from recycled bicycle parts.

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Omake music

Get a peek behind the scenes on Nov. 11 with Chamber Project St. Louis, when you can be a part of a working rehearsal at Thornhill Library. The interactive experience will include a moderator to facilitate the conversation between the audience and the musicians. The event is free, but registration is recommended.

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The St. Louis County Library’s telescope lending program is turning 10! To date, telescopes have been checked out more than 3,850 times. To celebrate the anniversary, SLCL and the St. Louis Astronomical Society are hosting a series of Star Parties, including free telescope training and the opportunity to view the night sky. On Nov. 7, a Star Party will be held at both the Oak Bend and Prairie Commons branches at 6:30 p.m.

TO SIGN UP, VISIT SLCL.ORG/EVENTS.

The Regional Arts Commission of St. Louis is partnering with Continuity to support local filmmakers. The St. Louis Film Projects aims to foster a vibrant local film and media arts scene by investing a total of $500,000 in local creators and bringing together industry professionals and the public for screenings, panel discussions and networking opportunities. Learn more at continuitystl.org/stlfp.

Fashionistas won’t want to miss a new podcast from fashion industry veteran Dwight Carter. Launched earlier this year, The Fashion Is Cool Podcast is dedicated to highlighting career options in fashion and providing valuable insights for students and young professionals eager to break into the industry. You can check it out on YouTube, Spotify and Apple Podcasts.

Webster Groves is honoring local civil rights advocate Benny Gordon, who helped dismantle segregation practices, in part by ensuring that Memorial Pool was opened to people of all races in 1953. To honor his legacy, the city’s recreation complex has been renamed the Benny Gordon Recreation Complex.

THE VELVET HAMMER

by joan berkman

Q: As a female executive in a highly competitive arena, I regularly experience jabs by aggressive co-workers, particularly female associates who have no compunction throwing me under the bus to get ahead. As a former corporate executive, what did you do to maintain your balance? Any inspirational advice?

A: I was fortunate to have a remarkable mentor—my mother— who helped maintain my balance. Although she passed away in 2008, her wise counsel continues to inspire and motivate me. She, too, worked with challenging personalities as a former opera singer, drama coach, media consultant, community volunteer and the mother of three children. I had a front row seat as she coached, directed and performed. I marveled at how she interacted with friends, family and associates and somehow kept it all in balance. Her magic wand was her inner compass that helped guide my career as a communications executive and lobbyist for more than 30 years and into my new chapter as a business owner and columnist.

MY MENTOR’S PLAYBOOK:

My mother played by the book with authenticity, candor, open-mindedness, compassion, fairness and accountability. When challenged or jabbed unfairly, she never raised her voice. In fact, she would lower her voice to communicate clearly in a firm tone. When someone hit below the belt or delivered a knockout punch, her initial response was to: “Underplay, walk away and save her face for another day.” This tactic provided an opportunity to regroup and regain her composure before addressing the situation to avoid overreacting or making the situation worse, and when she did respond, it was done in private. But there were times when she intentionally remained silent, which can be deafening.

ADDITIONAL ADVICE TO DEAL WITH RUTHLESS COWORKERS: Whoever the overly-ambitious co-worker trying to undermine your efforts is, it is essential to handle them professionally.

1. Stay Calm: Don’t get defensive or emotional. Do take a few deep breaths, excuse yourself or take a short walk if needed, and assess the situation with a clear head.

2. Get Support Outside of Work: Talking with a friend or family member can help gain perspective on the issue. Do not gossip with colleagues about the situation as it can erode trust.

3. Meet Privately: Speak privately with your backstabbing co-worker. Don’t use personal accusations to explain your perspective. Stay above the fray but stand your ground, and hopefully, your colleague will get the message that you are someone to be respected not mocked or undermined.

4. Prevent Future Incidents: Meet with your supervisor to clarify roles and responsibilities and to ensure you are meeting your assigned goals and objectives. And, again, avoid at all costs getting involved or weighing in on office gossip.

Protect your reputation, and maintain your professionalism. &

READ MY LIPS

by stephanie wallace

FROM OILS AND SCRUBS TO GLOSSES AND STAINS, THERE IS NO SHORTAGE OF BEAUTY PRODUCTS DESIGNED WITH THE LIPS IN MIND. WHETHER YOU’RE A LIPSTICK LOVER OR BALM BELIEVER, WE’VE GOT SOME PRODUCTS THAT CAN HELP PERFECT YOUR POUT.

1. LIP SUGAR SCRUB

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This is a product that multitasks. It’s a leave-on exfoliator that uses sugar crystals to gently remove dead skin without damaging your lips. It then melts into a balm that moisturizes and leaves a subtle rosy finish. Wear it by itself or use it to prime your lips for makeup.

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2. DREAM LIP OIL

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Looking for high shine and a touch of color, but lip gloss is too sticky for you? Lip oil is your answer. This buzzy option features a vegan oil complex to moisturize and vitamin E to protect and soften dryness-prone lips. It’s available in four shades, including the pictured Pink Cloud.

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3. WILLOW & SWEET AGAVE PLUMPING LIP MASK

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This daily mask treatment is designed to leave your lips fuller, softer and more supple. The formula includes hyaluronic acid and sweet agave to hydrate, white willow bark to gently soften, and wild chokeberry and vitamin E to provide a layer of antioxidant protection. It can be worn overnight or as primer for other lip products.

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4. ALMOST LIPSTICK clinique

Clinique’s Black Honey shade needs no introduction—it’s been a fave since the brand first introduced it way back in 1971. While the color looks dark in the tube, it glides on sheer and offers a natural enhancement. Thanks to a unique blend of blue, red and yellow pigments, it flatters any skin tone. You get buildable shine and color, making it an extremely versatile product.

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5. ORIGINAL LIPLUX LIP BALM SUNSCREEN coola

When it comes to sun protection, it can be easy to forget about our lips. This balm offers SPF 30 protection. The formula includes cupuaçu butter, raspberry seed oil and jojoba seed oil, so it also nourishes and hydrates your lips. If you’re spending a lot of time outside, make sure to regularly reapply.

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6. WONDER BLADING LIP STAIN MASQUE wonderskin

Don’t be fooled by the blue hue that comes out of the tube. This lip stain delivers long-lasting color in more conventional shades. Apply and let set for 10 to 30 seconds before wiping away with a damp towel. The longer you keep the mask on, the bolder the color will be. You can also use an activator to seal in the pigment for up to 10 hours of waterproof wear. The stain is available in 16 shades.

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HealthFlash

by stephanie wallace

PTSD & DIABETES

A study from Saint Louis University has found that post-traumatic stress disorder (PTSD) can lead to worse outcomes for patients with type 2 diabetes. “To our knowledge, this is the first evidence that PTSD is a modifiable risk factor, albeit a modest one, for some adverse diabetes outcomes such as microvascular complications,” says Jeffrey Scherrer, Ph.D., professor of family and community medicine and professor of psychiatry and behavioral neuroscience. Patients with PTSD were found to have worse glycemic control and an increased risk of hospitalization. Researchers observed that treating PTSD so that patients no longer met the criteria for a diagnosis was associated with 8% reduction in microvascular complications.

STROKE CARE INSIGHTS

Stroke patients are prone to developing new blockages to the brain’s blood vessels during their recovery. Doctors at 57 sites around the U.S. have been testing if adding anticoagulant drugs to medicine that dissolves blood clots is a viable solution. However, results from Washington University School of Medicine indicate that two such drugs are ineffective. The team looked at argatroban, a blood thinner, and eptifibatide, which inhibits blood platelets from sticking together. “We’re a little disappointed in the results,” says Dr. Opeolu Adeoye, head of the Department of Emergency Medicine and the BJC HealthCare Distinguished Professor of Emergency Medicine. “But it’s meaningful to optimal patient care that we’ve answered the question definitively. Neither of the drugs helps prevent further clots.”

PROTON THERAPY

Mercy has joined the Proton Collaborative Group (PCG), a group of more than 30 treatment centers across the country committed to improving outcomes for cancer patients and advancing the role of proton beam therapy. The treatment targets cancer tumors, reducing and eliminating unwanted radiation exposure to surrounding healthy tissue. “PCG provides our patients greater opportunity and access to clinical trials using proton beam therapy, which for many of them makes this treatment possible, while at the same time helping improve future cancer treatment,” says Dr. Amit Roy, principal investigator for the proton beam registry and PCG trials at Mercy St. Louis. “In addition, the care teams will have access to important data to help shape future treatment.”

LONG-LASTING IMMUNITY

Researchers at Washington University School of Medicine have received a $12 million grant from the National Institute of Allergy and Infectious Diseases of the National Institutes of Health. The funds will be used to identify the causes of long-lasting immune responses from vaccines. “Lifelong protection is the gold standard in vaccine development,” says Ali Ellebedy, Ph.D., the Leo Loeb Professor of Pathology & Immunology. “We have an opportunity to learn from successful vaccine events, which have stopped the spread of pathogens or even eliminated them. We need to understand what such vaccines are doing to the immune system that the flu and COVID-19 vaccines are not able to do.”

BREAST CANCER AWARENESS MONTH focus on:

by stephanie wallace

It’s Breast Cancer Awareness Month. With one in eight women diagnosed with breast cancer in their lifetime, everyone knows someone who has been touched by the disease, either personally or through a friend or relative. Today, women are aware and more vigilant about breast self-exams and screenings, and modern medical technology continues to advance early detection. The sooner the diagnosis, the better the outcome.

CANCER MAY NOT CAUSE ANY SYMPTOMS IN ITS EARLY STAGES, BUT SOME WOMEN DO EXPERIENCE CHANGES THAT SHOULD BE DISCUSSED WITH A DOCTOR: ▪

TYPES OF BREAST CANCER

DUCTAL CARCINOMA IN SITU:

This is a noninvasive or pre-invasive form of breast cancer. Carcinoma refers to tumors that form in the epithelial cells of organs and tissue. Tumors that form in the breast are more specifically referred to as adenocarcinoma, meaning they start in the milk ducts or the lobules, glands that make milk. In situ refers to cancer that has not spread from the duct to surrounding breast tissue.

INVASIVE DUCTAL CARCINOMA:

This term refers to cancer that has spread to surrounding breast tissue. According to the American Cancer Society, around 70% to 80% of breast cancers are invasive ductal carcinoma. Some invasive forms of cancer have different characteristics or develop differently. These are often more rare but can be more serious as well.

TRIPLE NEGATIVE BREAST CANCER: Accounting for around 15% of all breast cancers, this aggressive form gets its name because the cancer cells don’t have estrogen or progesterone receptors and don’t make the protein HER2, so they test negative for all three of these proteins. Triple negative breast cancer tends to spread faster and has fewer treatment options.

INFLAMMATORY BREAST CANCER:

In this aggressive form of invasive breast cancer, cancer cells block lymph vessels in the skin. This causes the breast to look inflamed. It is a rarer type of cancer, accounting for between 1% and 5% of cases.

▪ PAIN AROUND THE NIPPLE OR IN OTHER AREAS OF THE BREAST

▪ DISCHARGE OTHER THAN BREAST MILK, INCLUDING BLOOD

▪ CHANGES IN THE SIZE OR THE SHAPE OF THE BREAST

BREAKING DOWN SCREENINGS

The most reliable way to find breast cancer early is regular screening. The age you should begin annual mammograms depends on your risk for developing the disease—risk factors include family history, race and lifestyle factors, such as drinking, weight and not having children. Women who are high-risk should begin annual mammograms at 30, so a breast cancer risk assessment should be completed before then.

The American Cancer Society’s recommendations for mammograms for women of average risk are:

➤ BETWEEN 40 AND 54 SCREEN WITH A MAMMOGRAM EVERY YEAR.

➤ WOMEN 55 AND OLDER CAN SWITCH TO EVERY OTHER YEAR OR CONTINUE WITH ANNUAL MAMMOGRAMS.

➤ WOMEN SHOULD CONTINUE SCREENING AS LONG AS THEY ARE IN GOOD HEALTH AND EXPECTED TO LIVE AT LEAST 10 MORE YEARS.

BREAST CANCER BY THE NUMBERS

▶ In 2024, an estimated 310,720 new cases of invasive breast cancer will be diagnosed in women.

▶ An estimated 42,250 women will die from breast cancer in 2024.

▶ In Missouri, breast cancer has the 4th highest incidence and mortality rate among cancers.

THERE ARE COMMON TYPES OF IMAGING DONE TO DETECT BREAST CANCER.

MAMMOGRAM:

This is a low dose x-ray of the breast that can detect changes years before physical symptoms develop.

BREAST MRI:

The process uses radio waves and strong magnets to make detailed images of the inside of the breast. For certain high-risk patients, an annual MRI is recommended alongside a mammogram. While it can detect more cancers than a mammogram, it also is more likely to result in a false positive.

BREAST ULTRASOUND:

These images are formed using sound waves and their echoes. It is not typically used for routine screening, but it can be used to look at lumps that can be felt but not seen on a mammogram. Unlike a mammogram, it can differentiate between solid masses and cysts or other fluid-filled masses, which are unlikely to be cancerous. It also is useful for screening women with dense breast tissue.

▶ Between 2016 and 2020, 1.85% of Missourians were diagnosed with female breast cancer.

▶ The average risk of a woman in the U.S. developing breast cancer is about 1 in 8 or 13%.

▶ The median age of breast cancer diagnosis is 62.

▶ There are more than 4 million breast cancer survivors living in the U.S.

DR. NAMIN is board certified in both Otolaryngology – Head & Neck Surgery and Facial Plastic and Reconstructive Surgery. He specializes in rhinoplasty, sinus surgery, facial rejuvenation, and cancer reconstruction. He enjoys helping patients with cosmetic concerns as well as patients in need of reconstructive surgery after cancer treatment. He practices at Mercy Hospital St. Louis with offices at the Pratt Cancer Center in Creve Coeur and at Clayton-Clarkson in Ballwin. He is part of large practice with partners who specialize in sleep apnea surgery, thyroid and parathyroid surgery, and ear surgery.

Join us all day October 16, to get a head start on holiday shopping. Enjoy discounts, champagne, cookies and giveaways, in addition to the 20% Glennon Card Offer from 12 participating retailers. Enjoy the Glennon discount all day on October 17 as well.

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F6 COVER STORY – Glennon Card

F10 GET TO KNOW – Ryan Greis of Drawn Studio

F12 SNAPPED! Chamber Music Society of St. Louis

F13 Paraquad

F14 United 4 Children

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F16 MARK YOUR CALENDAR

F17 SPECIAL FEATURE – The Perfect Fit: Mavi Jeans

F18 OFF THE WITH CUFF WITH CLAYTON – Love for the STL HOME SHOWCASE

F20 FROM THE BLOG OF … SCOUT & NIMBLE

F22 DESIGN SPOTLIGHT – English Cottage

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ONE PATIENT’S STORY

CRITICAL CARE

BY STEPHANIE WALLACE

Anberlin Gripp loves to read. The 12-year-old taught herself at a young age. “When she was around 3, she pointed to a book and read the word ‘dig,’” her mother, Jenna Gripp, recalls. “From there, her love of books and reading has only continued to grow.” The world of books offers a welcome escape for Anberlin, who has been a patient at SSM Health Cardinal Glennon Children’s Hospital since she was a toddler.

Anberlin originally visited SSM Health Cardinal Glennon for its neurofibromatosis clinic. The genetic disorder causes non-cancerous growths to develop on any nerve ending throughout the body. It can cause vision or hearing impairments, bone defects, learning disabilities, seizures and benign skin tumors. “My son and I also have neurofibromatosis,” Gripp notes. “The hospital has a multidisciplinary team to help coordinate care. We work with specialists in otolaryngology, ophthalmology, genetics, audiology, otolaryngology, neurology and more.” It was the hospital’s orthopedics team that discovered Anberlin had scoliosis when she was 4 years old.

Gripp discussed treatment options with orthopedic surgeon Dr. Howard Place. Somewhere down the line, Anberlin would need a spinal fusion, but the decision was made to wait until she was older. Her team tried full torso casts, which were minimally effective, before switching to braces when she was around 7. Anberlin continued regular appointments with her specialists. When she was 9, one of her primary care providers noted she was very underweight and referred the family

an avoidant/restrictive food intake disorder,” Gripp says.

Anberlin spent 27 days in the hospital. She went through six nasogastric tubes before an eventual gastrostomy button placement for overnight supplemental feeding. It was critical that she put on weight, especially since in 2023, she was deemed ready for corrective spinal surgery. When looking for a cause for Anberlin’s inability to gain weight, her team discovered a type of tumor known as a plexiform neurofibroma encasing her celiac artery. “The tumor was deemed inoperable because of its location,” Gripp notes. “Anberlin was placed on medications to slow its growth, which have been successful.”

In June of 2023, Anberlin had a halo traction placement followed by a spinal fusion in July. The procedure helped her recover some mobility. Unfortunately, it was discovered that her body was rejecting one of the screws. This summer, she had the hardware removed and is scheduled for another spinal fusion in November. “We’ve had a long journey with SSM Health Cardinal Glennon, but the team has been phenomenal” Gripp says. “The doctors and staff take the time to get to know Anberlin as a person, learning about her schoolwork and hobbies. She recently had a Make-A-Wish trip, and everyone has been asking to see photos and if she had a good time.”

Care for families like the Gripps is made possible thanks in part to community support and innovative fundraisers. One of the hospital’s major initiatives is the Glennon Card, a discount shopping program that allows St. Louisans to directly support its young patients. Each

fall, the purchase of a $60 card unlocks a 20% discount at hundreds of retailers, eateries and attractions, and 100% of card sales benefit SSM Health Cardinal Glennon. The program is organized by the hospital’s foundation and the Glennon Guild, a women’s auxiliary that supports the hospital.

This year’s shopping period is Oct. 18 to 27, and more than 340 businesses are participating. Among them is Betty’s Books, a Webster Groves bookstore specializing in trade comics, graphic novels, manga and children’s literature. This is the store’s first year in the program. Owner Betty Bayer was especially excited to get involved after learning about Anberlin’s love of reading. “It’s great to see a young person so excited about books—you don’t want to disappoint someone like that,” she says. “We’re proud to support such a great program that helps sick kids.”

Like with many local shops and restaurants, the discount offered through Glennon Card is a rare opportunity for customers of Betty’s Books. Bayer is excited to give back to the community that supports her business. “Being an independent bookstore is a struggle in the world of Amazon and other online shopping,” she notes. “We exist because of the people who come in and shop with us. The Glennon Card is a great incentive to visit some of the special small businesses that call St. Louis home.”

Gripp is excited to visit Betty’s Books for holiday shopping. “We’re looking to fill up a new bookcase for Anberlin, and Betty’s Books is right up her alley,” she says. “SSM Health Cardinal Glennon saves lives—that’s what they do. It has meant so much to my family and others in the community. By purchasing a Glennon Card, you’re giving back to St. Louis while helping provide critical care for children.” &

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Christopher’s & MaGift’s known as the “Premier Destination” for your lifestyle of shopping! Visit our “NEW” 2 brands in one location Christopher’s & MaGift’s today for an experience like no other in St. Louis! Your Everyday & Holiday Destination for fragrances from Frasier Fir classic holiday to a more unique fall fragrance from Voluspa “Foraged Wildberry” collection. Best selection of women’s & men’s accessories to choose from. We look forward to giving you the ULTIMATE EXPERIENCE…

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PHARMACY

These local gems are full of gifts, toys, and cosmetics. They’re your go-to stops for all your holiday gifting needs. Known for having the best stocking stuffers in town, they are here to make your season merry and bright!

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The Memory Training Center offers services for clients who suffer changes in their memory and attention. We offer one-on-one weekly sessions designed to improve memory performance, attention, processing speed and memory retention. The sessions are designed to match each client’s needs, using tools established by experts in cognitive training.

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15. Town & Country Symphony Orchestra

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GET KNOW

by stephanie wallace

RYAN GREIS OF DRAWN STUDIO

FROM TEACHING HIMSELF TO DRAW by copying the works of master artists to professionally illustrating for publications like the Riverfront Times, art has always been a major part of Ryan Greis’ life. After developing his own drawing skills, he decided to pivot to teaching others, leaving behind a corporate marketing job to open Drawn Studio. Now celebrating its first anniversary, the Maplewood art studio invites the St. Louis community to explore creative expression.

where i’m from …

I grew up in northern Kentucky in the greater Cincinnati area, and that’s where much of my art inspiration comes from. I’ve been in St. Louis for more than 20 years, but I still have a bit of that visitor point of view as well. It’s a great city.

my love of art …

I’ve always found myself drawing. It’s one of those things that most of us do as kids. Some of us just never stop. In my sophomore year of college, I wanted to transfer to the Art Academy of Cincinnati. My portfolio was accepted, but there was no scholarship available, so I couldn’t transfer. I’ve always been a bit of a hustler, so I didn’t take that ‘no’ lightly. I started going to the Cincinnati Art Museum every Saturday. Instead of learning from instructors, I was taught by Van Gogh, Rembrandt and the other masters.

why i took a break …

I worked as a professional illustrator in Cincinnati and St. Louis for more than 10 years. At first, it was exciting to see my work in print, but that thrill eventually went away. I was getting burnt out working in my basement studio on the weekends. I cut down on projects and eventually stopped illustrating professionally. I worked in the corporate sphere, but it never really fulfilled me. For about six years, I didn’t draw at all, but I remembered that it was something I enjoyed doing. I got back into it and started teaching lessons out of my house.

recovering lost art …

I’ve found around $1 million in lost artwork. It started with a painting that was displayed at the 1904 World’s Fair. There was a photo of it from the fair, but nobody seemed to know what happened to it afterwards. I spent around a year investigating. Every dead end I came to just made me want to see the painting more. Little by little, I was able to build a timeline and bridge the gaps between 1904 and today. The last owner of the work was the St. Louis Public School District, and I eventually found the painting in an abandoned school building. The district’s art collection was just sitting there unprotected.

THE NOOK

WELCOME TO THE NOOK, an all-volunteer, nonprofit boutique benefitting St. Louis Children’s Hospital’s Child Life Services. We sell unique gifts, women’s apparel, children’s items and Missouri-made merchandise. We are located in the Ladue business district next to Schnarrs’ Hardware store on Clayton Road. Our St. Louis flag welcomes our customers.

The Nook believes that every child deserves both excellent medical care and to be treated as a human being, not as just a medical case. Child Life Services, our sole beneficiary, helps children and families develop ways to cope by using play, music, art, recreation and educational techniques. In the past five years, we have been able to donate over $115,000 plus carloads of toys and books. One hundred percent of our profits go to Child Life Services 100% of the time!

Inside The Nook you can find some of our bestsellers. Popular items include beaded ponchos, unique St. Louis-themed

what teaching taught me …

I thought I had gotten as good as I could get. When I decided I wanted to teach drawing, I had to unlearn everything I knew. It’s like riding a bike. If you know how, it just comes naturally, but when you’re teaching someone else, you have to focus on all of the little things you take for granted. I was wobbly at first, but it made everything I did more intentional and improved my drawing skills. You can learn to draw at any age, and even if you’ve been doing it for decades, there’s always more to learn.

don’t be intimidated …

I like to tell my students that we aren’t here to draw the Mona Lisa. Don’t be afraid to make marks because we’re not trying to create a masterpiece. I use very few tools in class—charcoal, graphite, erasers and newsprint. I work with the latter because it’s cheap and not meant to last. That makes things more relaxed. They feel like they can try new techniques and just explore.

memorable studio sessions …

Drawn Studio has had some great instructors come in. Earlier this year, Shane Wolf taught a workshop. He received a first place award in drawing from the Portrait Society of America. People came from across the country to see and learn from him.

drawn studio’s students …

We have a very diverse range of students. Our goal is to respond to the needs of our community. When Fontbonne first announced it would be closing its fine art department and then the university as a whole, we acted quickly and offered students discounted classes. We wanted to make sure they had an avenue to get the instruction they needed to continue.

the st. louis art scene …

A closer look...

In a lot of ways, the St. Louis art community is still trying to find its place. There are many great organizations that support the arts, but they are somewhat segmented. I think there’s an opportunity for everyone to come together and elevate the level of local talent. &

quarter zips, wonderful curated dresses, holiday-themed PJ’s for the whole family, local honey, lucite frames, well-priced jewelry and embroidered St. Louis baseball hats. Any purchase you make at The Nook helps the kids at the hospital.

One of the most unique aspects of The Nook is our WISHLIST section of the store. It allows customers to purchase requested gifts for children who will spend the holidays in the hospital. We have wonderful stuffed animals, board books and toys for sale. This is a win-win as the kids receive the gifts and the hospital receives the profits!

Please stop by, meet a friendly volunteer, and do your holiday shopping at The Nook. It’s an extraordinary feeling knowing that your everyday purchases are anything but ordinary!

TO LEARN MORE ABOUT DRAWN STUDIO AND REGISTER FOR CLASSES, VISIT DRAWN.STUDIO.

Photos courtesy of Drawn Studio

Gala

Join us at the Croatian-American Medical Alliance Gala—

“Global Horizons: International Collaboration for Medical Education”

This is an evening of elegance, culture, and purpose, where philanthropists gather to drive innovation in medical education and save lives across Croatia.

Enjoy fine dining and lively entertainment by world-renowned Croatian pianist Javor Bračić and the Tamburitzans of St. Louis, performing beautiful Croatian folk music. The night will also feature a silent auction, “Tables of the World” dinner packages, and an exciting raffle, including vacation homes in Croatia! The winner will be announced by the Honorable Sanja Laković, Consul General of Croatia to the United States.

Join us in building bridges to knowledge and supporting meaningful change!

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VINTAGE GALA chamber music society of st. louis

by suzy gorman

Guests gathered to celebrate the 80th birthday of legendary conductor Leonard Slatkin and the 15th anniversary of the Chamber Music Society. The star-studded concert featured internationally acclaimed pianist Olga Kern and violinist Cho-Liang Lin with a special appearance by former St. Louis Cardinal Ozzie Smith who presented Slatkin with an official Cardinals bat.

guests: Executive and artistic director Marc Gordon, chair Miran Halen, co-chairs Becky Domyan and Amalia Pfannenstiel

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ARLENE MAMINTA BROWNE, JOAN BERKMAN OZZIE SMITH, YOLANDA LANKFORD

MARC AND SUSAN GORDON LEONARD SLATKIN, CINDY MCTEE

BECKY DOMYAN, MIRAN HALEN, JASMINE HUDA, PETER LEBLANC, AMALIA PFANNENSTIEL

SNAPPED!

PARAQUAD

shine the light gala

by bill barrett

Paraquad is a hub for disability support, providing resources, expert knowledge and connection to services to more than 5,500 people annually. Guests enjoyed a cocktail reception, dinner, live auction and after party entertainment by Griffin and the Gargoyles.

guests: CEO Jerry Ehrlich, president Aimee Wehmeier, board chair Eric Willis

LUCY REYNA-CLEMENS AND JOHN CLEMENS, EMILY SCHUMACHER

SARBANI AND DR. PRADIP GHOSH

ALEXANDRA PUCKETT, CARLA EZELL

LUIS HERRERA PLASENCIA, GINNY ORTHWEIN

ANN SCOTT, RALPH AND CORINNE DACEY

PETER VON GONTARD, MOLLY HOHL, SARAH AND ADOLPHUS BUSCH

AIMEE WEHMEIER, JERRY EHRLICH

Slatkin’s Legacy

Oct 25 & 27 Fri 10:30am & Sun 3:00pm

Touhill Performing Arts Center at UMSL

Leonard Slatkin, conductor

The family gathers for a milestone. Leonard Slatkin conducts Tchaikovsky’s deeply personal Fifth Symphony, pairing it with music by Cindy McTee, Daniel Slatkin, and Domenico Scarlatti.

by bill barrett

The nonprofit is celebrating 55 years of providing programming that addresses the many needs of the whole-child. Guests enjoyed cocktails, hors

a buffet and live auction.

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d’oeuvres,

guests:

director Deanna Finch, board chair Beth Csengody

GLENN AND JESSICA GANT

ALLI AND BRYAN BUESKING

NYA GRIMES, TAMMY WASHINGTON, JASMINE MCWHERTER

ANDREW AND BETH CSENGODY, JESSICA FOX

DEANNA FINCH, LAKESHA ROBINSON

11.9

FALL IN LOVE WITH CAM TRIVIA NIGHT

Contemporary Art Museum St. Louis

EPWORTH WINE GALA Epworth SAINT LOUIS ARCH MUSEUM 7 P.M. 314.961.5718 | EPWORTH.ORG

11.21

NEXUS GALA

Arch Grants ST. LOUIS UNION STATION | 5 P.M. 314.272.4857 | ARCHGRANTS.ORG

NURSERY NIGHT

Crisis Nursery Saint Louis A.CASA | 5:30 P.M. 314.292.5770 CRISISNURSERYKIDS.ORG

11.23

WINTERFEST 5K

Gateway Arch Park Foundation KIENER PLAZA | 7:30 A.M. 314.881.2015 | ARCHPARK.ORG/5K

11.30

GIRL SCOUT COOKIE RUN

Girl Scouts of Eastern Missouri GIRL SCOUT SERVICE CENTER 8 A.M. 314.400.4600 GIRLSCOUTSEM.ORG

november MARK YOUR CALENDAR:

through 11/17

the roommate

In the quietest corner of the Midwest, middle-aged Sharon, recently divorced and seeking a sensible roommate, opens her home to Robyn, a mysterious woman with a murky past. This dark comedy takes audiences on an journey of self-discovery, secrets and revelations.

Emerson Studio Theatre | $55 Various showtimes | 314.968.4925 repstl.org

11/2

cherokee street jazz crawl

Dance and music will be on every corner of Cherokee Street. Check out swing dancers and blues musicians tucked in between vintage clothing racks or brass bands marching down the street in the parade. Cherokee Street | Free 10 a.m.-10 p.m. cherokeestreet.com/jazz

by stephanie wallace

11/2

laumeier after dark

Take a unique opportunity to explore Laumeier Sculpture Park with temporary art, light installations and illuminations of the park’s most iconic sculptures. The event also includes a night market with local makers, food and beverage vendors, and live music. Laumeier Sculpture Park | $15 4 p.m.-10 p.m. | 314.615.5278 | laumeier.org

11/7-11/17

st. louis film festival

This year marks the 33rd annual Whitaker St. Louis International Film Festival. The event showcases cutting-edge features and shorts from around the world.

Hi-Pointe Theatre | Various ticket prices Various showtimes | 314.833.5307 cinemastlouis.org

11/8 & 11/9

entry points

RESILIENCE Dance Company presents a dynamic dance repertory concert featuring four world premieres by Annie Rigney, Kia Smith, VIM VIGOR and Victoria Lynn Awkward, as well as a returning work by Rosanna Tavarez. Berges Theatre at COCA | $15-$40 | 7:30 p.m. resiliencedancecompany.com

11/9

pilobolus: re:creation

Dance St. Louis kicks off its 59th season with a dynamic collection of works, daring experiments and groundbreaking new collaborations. Touhill Performing Arts Center | $50-$89 7:30 p.m. | 314.534.6622 | dancestlouis.org

11/10

classic pop

The Chamber Chorus brings its distinctive sound to some popular ballads of recent years, from The Beatles to Coldplay and Gretchen Peters to Taylor Swift. The Sun Theater | $10-$30 | 3 p.m. 636.458.4343 | chamberchorus.org

11/13-11/24

peter pan

The high-flying musical has been thrilling audiences of all ages for close to 70 years. It’s back in the StL with a new adaptation by celebrated playwright Larissa FastHorse. Fabulous Fox Theatre | $37-$125 Various showtimes | 314.534.1111 fabulousfox.com

11/15 & 11/16

SLSO invites you to follow Mozart on the move. In London and Paris, he dashes off fizzing symphonies before heading to Italy and Vienna. Touhill Performing Arts Center | $20-$100

11/14-11/16

flyover comedy festival

The festival features more than 100 comedians at 40 events across three days. It includes stand-up comedy showcases, improvisation workshops and performances, and sketch and storytelling shows. This year’s headliners are Patton Oswalt and Tig Notaro. Various locations | Various ticket prices Various showtimes | flyovercomedyfest.com

11/27

hot glass cold beer

Enjoy a few beers and watch some amazing glass blowing in Third Degree Glass Factory’s hot shop. Each guest will get to choose a handblown glass to fill up all night with craft beer from Alpha Brewing Co. Third Degree Glass Factory | $30-$35 | 6-9 p.m. 314.367.4527 | thirddegreeglassfactory.com

BY STEPHANIE WALLACE

THE PERFECT FIT: MAVI JEANS

Legendary fashion designer Yves Saint Laurent once said, “I wish I had invented blue jeans: the most spectacular, the most practical, the most relaxed and nonchalant. They have expression, modesty, sex appeal, simplicity—all I hope for in my clothes.” There’s no question that denim is a fashion staple. Few among us could live without our favorite pair of jeans or denim jacket. For more than 30 years, Mavi has been mastering the art of denim. The brand is dedicated to crafting spectacular clothing, so every person can enjoy timeless style and a perfect fit

Mavi began in 1991 in Istanbul, Turkey. Appropriately, the denim brand takes its name from the Turkish word for blue. It was founded with the mission of creating an accessible luxury product that didn’t come with the standard luxury price tag. “We positioned ourselves uniquely in the market,” vice president of sales Volkan Ureten says. “We noticed people value quality but often don’t want to pay high prices or spend time hunting for the right piece. Our goal is to offer the perfect fit and effortless styling. A lot of fashion comes and goes, but not quality and comfort.” The brand launched in the U.S. and Canada in 1994 and is now a global operation.

One of the brand's core tenants is sustainability. Mavi works to produce jeans and other clothing items, using less water and energy. It also treats its products with fewer chemicals, opting for sustainable laser and wash processes. “Denim will never be entirely sustainable, and greenwashing is a problem within the industry,” senior marketing and PR manager Alissa Friedman notes. “We work to be transparent in our efforts. As well as improving our production processes, we support initiatives like the Indigo Turtle Project, which protects endangered species in the Mediterranean. Everything we do is aimed toward a better and greener earth.” By 2030, Mavi plans to have its entire denim collection made from 100% sustainably sourced cotton. The brand is able to opt for sustainable practices because it has more control over its manufacturing processes. It sources its own materials, including cotton, and all production is done in house. “Vertical integration is not something you see with manufacturing for many clothing brands,” Ureten says. “We produce around 50 million pairs of jeans and control every step of the process. This puts us in a unique position to improve not only the way we produce clothing, but also to raise the standards for the industry. We aren’t just jumping on a bandwagon; it’s something we’ve been working on for years.”

While Mavi is focused on denim, the brand has expanded its offerings. Using its more than three decades of experience, it strives to meet changing market needs. “We’ve established ourselves as a go-to denim brand, but we’re expanding with secondary fabrics,” sales director Lisa Fink says. “People can come to Mavi as a one-stop shop.” For fall 2024, the brand has received positive feedback about its luxury twill fabric, and in a departure from recent years, wide-leg pants are more popular than slimmer styles. Mavi also has found success by expanding its sportswear offerings.

The denim brand is available in St. Louis thanks to Jaxen Grey. Located in Plaza Frontenac, the store offers a curated selection of menswear. Mavi has been working directly with Jaxen Grey since 2020. The store helps provide insight and feedback regarding what its North American clientele is looking for, especially when it comes to the Midwest. “We meet early to discuss fits, fabrics and other details to determine what Jaxen Grey is looking for each season,” Fink says. “It’s been a very mutually beneficial process. We get greater insight into what consumers are looking for, and Jaxen Grey gets a more curated inventory.”

Mavi’s strong working relationship with Jaxen Grey has benefits for the St. Louis location and its clients. It is able to target the brand’s offerings to the local market, ensuring people can easily find clothing that meets their unique needs. “We have been able to partner with Mavi to increase the number of tall sizes like the 36-inch inseam for our St. Louis store," explains Michael Druskin, CEO and co-founder of Jaxen Grey. “Our partnership with Mavi allows us to really dial into the needs of our customers in the market to ensure we can find them the perfect fit.” &

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WHERE DID YOU HANGOUT IN ST. LOUIS GROWING UP?

I was a dishwasher at Rich & Charlie’s. My maternal grandparents would also take me to Schneithorst’s. I lived out in West County, so I would go to the Chesterfield Mall and hit up the Orange Julius. St. Louis is just a great place to grow up. There’s the sports culture, you get to experience all of the seasons, and the midwestern sensibility has a genuineness to it that you don’t find everywhere.

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WHY IS ST. LOUIS STILL HOME TO YOU?

It’s truly the place where I discovered who I was as a young person. I went through high school, got my first job, bought my first house and launched my career here. It’s important to have a place where you can have that Norm from Cheers feeling. Everyone knows your name, and they know the real you, not just the celebrity. I love the vibration I get when I’m in St. Louis.

rene knott

YOU’VE BEEN IN ST. LOUIS LONGER THAN ANYWHERE ELSE AND WATCHED YOUR FAMILY GROW HERE.

It’s been incredible. My son was born in Mobile, then we moved to D.C. and my daughter was born there. When we came here, we didn’t know what to expect. It has been a great experience family-wise because the neighborhood where we live is very strong. My son went to Wash. U. and my daughter went to Mizzou. It’s been outstanding to see them go from learning how to walk to being full grown adults leading their own lives.

danny meyer

FAVORITE ACTIVITY IN ST. LOUIS

OTHER THAN SEEING FAMILY AND FRIENDS?

It’s going to restaurants. I just love eating. I think the spirit in St. Louis is unbelievable. It’s a city that is underappreciated, certainly by people on the East Coast. The food scene has become so exciting.

jon jay

WHAT’S ONE THING YOU’VE COME TO APPRECIATE ABOUT ST. LOUIS?

As a father, I try to raise my kids to be the best people they can, and I really value how genuine St. Louisians are. It’s something other players see as well, and they appreciate how they are treated here. Sometimes, other cities and fans can be hostile, but St. Louis is a place where people genuinely care.

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MAKE YOUR BED LIKE A DESIGNER

At the heart of every bedroom lies the bed, the undeniable focal point that entices us to indulge in its warm welcoming embrace. Kelsey McGregor, owner and lead designer of Kelsey Leigh Design Co., walks us through her foolproof tips for creating a professional-looking bedscape. There's nothing like cuddling into a beautifully made bed at the end of a long day.

Duvet Details

The number one thing you want to get right when styling your bed is your duvet cover. Duvets are a great way to add an extra layer of comfort, coziness and warmth to your bed, making them the perfect bedding accessory for those chilly nights or lazy mornings. A properly fitting duvet cover is essential for achieving a polished and stylish look.

Kelsey stresses that the duvet cover should fit snugly over the duvet insert without any excess fabric or bunching for a smooth and streamlined appearance. She also suggests a duvet cover that provides ties in the inside corners so the duvet stays flat. For a full and fluffy appearance, roll the duvet back on itself to create an added layer of height while creating a luxurious look that's sure to impress.

Pillow Placement

No bed is complete without a variety of pillows and shams, and proper pillow placement is key to achieving a comfortable and stylish bed. Start with your sleeping pillows—these should be placed against the headboard or wall, with the pillowcases facing out. Add your decorative pillows in front, starting with the largest and working your way down to the smallest. Start with a back layer of large square pillows, then add medium-sized pillows, followed by a single small pillow in the front.

Final Finishes

Once the bed is made, it's time to add the finishing touches. Kelsey suggests a bed scarf or throw blanket to be draped across the foot of the bed for added warmth and coziness. Furthermore, this

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introduces visual interest and depth, allowing you to play with colors, patterns and textures to further enhance the overall design of your bed.

It’s All in the Details.

Having a beautifully made bed sets the tone for the entire bedroom. Incorporating these designer tips and tricks ensures a luxurious and inviting environment that promotes relaxation and indulgence for a restful night's sleep. You’ll also want to ensure you have the perfect sheets, blankets and inserts for perfectly coordinated comfort and style.

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DESIGN SPOTLIGHT

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Nothing says cozy like a cottage. For decades, people have been inspired by the charm of the English countryside and the traditional, yet lived-in, style of the homes found there.

Embracing the design is the perfect way to live out your Jane Austen fantasy, no matter where you call home.

THE HALLMARKS OF ENGLISH COTTAGE

Since the Industrial Revolution, people have been inspired by the rural beauty of cottage living in the English countryside. This style idealizes the simplicity and comfort, while disconnecting from the hustle and bustle of urban living. The style is defined by warm colors, plush furniture and antiques everywhere.

◀ Antiqued or patinated pieces

◀Toile and floral prints

◀Functional spaces like mud and hobby rooms

◀Slip covered and tufted furniture

◀Formal but lived-in spaces

◀A muted color palette with warm splashes of color

◀Layers of texture

◀Exposed structural elements

◀Window shutters

HOW TO INTRODUCE IT IN YOUR HOME

English cottage style is all about adding charm to space through unassuming but dignified design. By picking the right elements, you can create your ideal cozy countryside interior—even if you live in the middle of a city.

◀ Add old world charm through antique pieces. These do not have to be grand statement elements. Much of cottagecore design is simple and homey.

◀ Repurpose older items. A trunk can become a side table or footboard for a bed, and old shutters can add some country whimsy as wall decor or a headboard.

◀ A farmhouse table is a must for any cottage-style home. Mismatched chairs also are a hallmark of the style. Rustic wooden seats, benches and high-back upholstered chairs can all be mixed to create a welcoming dining table.

◀ Thanks to its bucolic scenes, toile patterned wallpaper and upholstery is a staple of English Cottage interiors. You can add it anywhere: walls, furniture, even the ceiling is fair game.

◀ Display your collections, whether for everyday use or just for show. This can include elements like aprons, pots and glass canisters in a kitchen, or antique books, walking sticks and more in living spaces.

◀ Avoid the harsh lines of contemporary and modern design. Opt for plush and traditional furniture, and embrace adding layers of textile through elements like throws, pillows and curtains. Add clutter through art, collections and plants.

◀ English cottages were often working farms, so don’t be afraid to bring the style into functional spaces. Mudrooms, laundry rooms and crafting areas all can benefit from elements like woven baskets, painted cabinetry, patterned wallpaper or vintage jars.

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