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educational consulting firm in Saint Louis. After 15 successful years, the Smiths are transitioning the business to their daughter, Leslie B. Gubitz, and son-in-law, Ron Gubitz.
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Leslie, with a Master of Arts in Teaching and a passion for student success, will lead the business with support from Ron, a former school principal. Leslie shares, “I’m thrilled to continue my mom’s work, helping families build confidence, develop skills, and reduce school-related stress. We love seeing students become more independent.”
Shelley will remain actively involved in daily operations, excited to work alongside Leslie, who returns after 14 years in education in New Orleans. “Leslie’s content knowledge and coaching ability have amazed me. We are making each other better which is rewarding,” Shelley said.
This mother-daughter team is energized to provide innovative solutions, build student confidence and independence, and create opportunities for success through individualized support for both parents and students. Their combined expertise and passion promise to further enhance Special Solutions’ impact on Saint Louis families navigating the educational landscape.
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ASSISTANCE LEAGUE OF ST. LOUIS
by stephanie wallace
DURING ITS LAST FISCAL YEAR, the Assistance League of St. Louis and its nearly 500 members logged more than 68,500 volunteer hours, serving more than 30,000 St. Louisans. Those numbers represent a strong commitment to transforming lives. For almost 40 years, the nonprofit has used its community programs to make a tangible impact on the region. One of the largest chapters in the national Assistance League organization, the nonprofit is operated entirely by volunteers, and it’s evident the league’s members are dedicated.
To make its programs possible, the Assistance League has three major avenues to raise money: its upscale resale shop Fantastic Finds in Creve Coeur, an Authors Brunch in the spring and its largest fundraiser, the fall gala. This year, the Casino Royale Gala is Oct. 26 at the Doubletree by Hilton, Chesterfield. The event’s theme will offer guests the chance to try their hand at casino games while also enjoying a luxury auction helmed by Rene Knott. “It will be a thrilling night,” president Sandy Thal says. “We couldn’t do what we do without the gala. It not only helps raise more than a third of our annual funding, it’s a wonderful opportunity to share our mission and work with the community.”
One of the services the gala supports is the Assistance League’s scholarship program. The initiative is a partnership with St. Louis Community College. It was created as part of Project ROSE, a series of services that help women in need. “Mary Ries at St. Louis Community College works with us to find eligible students,” Thal notes. “When selected, they can apply the funds toward what they need most, whether that’s tuition assistance, help with purchasing books or essential needs.” Scholarship recipients include Kentaya Walker, who is now working at SSM Health Cardinal Glennon Children’s Hospital after completing the radiologic technology program, and Connie Harvey, who is working towards her dream of opening her own bakery.
Another key component of the Assistance League’s services is literacy. The Books From Friends program provides age-appropriate books to thousands of children each year. It also helps inspire a love of reading by hosting book festivals in local schools. The festivals begin with a character parade where volunteers dress as popular characters like Pete the Cat and Clifford the Big Red Dog. “It’s amazing to see how the kids light up when they see a character they love—it gets them excited about reading,” Thal says. “We’re also helping families build home libraries. Research shows that having access to books at home is one of the strongest predictors of educational success.”
The Assistance League has an extensive list of services that support kids and adults in the community. Operation School Bell provides school uniforms for kids as well as maintaining in-school closets that provide students with year-round access to items like coats, underwear, socks, hats, gloves and toiletries. Working with multiple social workers and other agencies, the nonprofit also operates an outreach program to provide families with much needed items, such as beds and kitchen supplies. “Our goal is to offer truly transformative help, whether that’s through literacy, education or essential needs,” Thal explains. “The needs of our community continue to grow, and the Assistance League will continue to expand its reach to meet them.” &
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If the architectural significance and sheer beauty of an office building were important factors in keeping workers from escaping downtown for the County, the historic, Louis Sullivan-designed Wainwright Building would be a huge draw. Built in 1891, the 10-story reddish building at Seventh and Chestnut is considered to be one of the first modern skyscrapers. But beauty is only a terra-cotta exterior deep, apparently. Because the State of Missouri, which had owned the building, sold it to Greater St. Louis Inc., the city’s marketing arm, and many of the approximately 600 state employees at the Wainwright will be relocated to Chesterfield. The Wainwright is one of two city buildings the state is relinquishing, the other being Mill Creek Office Building at 220 S. Jefferson Ave. State officials have claimed that taxpayers should not be on the hook for tens of millions of dollars needed for repairs and upkeep of the Wainwright, which sold for $8 million. Greater St. Louis hasn’t divulged how it intends to use its 234,600 square feet. An empty Wainwright is but
another of the large chunks of office space to be left unoccupied in recent years. It still remains unclear what will become of the vacant AT&T tower. And the Crane Insurance Agency, downtown for almost 140 years, in February started moving its 270-some workers from the home office to Chesterfield for consolidation with the company’s off-site employees. Many observers have blamed this significant exodus on the perception that the city is crime-infested. That may be one factor, but another for certain is the increase in remote work since the pandemic. And urban planners elsewhere in the metro are taking full advantage of this paradigm shift: To wit, the demise of Chesterfield Mall for the Downtown Chesterfield development is rolling right along. Developers say its infrastructure could be in place by June 2026, the first buildings two years after that, with full build-out projected for 10 to 15 years.
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One of them condemned in 2016, the other vacant since the 1960s, the two buildings that are being renovated into U. City’s new police department and municipal courts buildings had been waiting a long time for some love from city hall. Repurposing the historic Trinity and Annex buildings near the west end of the Delmar Loop, behind city hall, will cost somewhere between $22 million and $28.5 million, depending on where you dig for the details. The Annex, larger of the two at 36,000 square feet, was built in 1903 and was police headquarters for 80 years. It is, you guessed it, attached to U. City’s distinctive city hall. (A slice of that architectural gem— an eye-catching five-story, octagonal structure—is at the rendering’s far left; Trinity is the standalone building at right.) The department will continue working out of the trailers behind city hall until police move back into the renovated Annex, perhaps as early as spring 2026, when both buildings are projected for completion. Issues to be addressed with the structures include leaky roofs and mold. Trinity, an adjacent building that dates to 1934, is 8,512 square feet and will become the new Municipal Courts Building; it served as the city’s public library. It will include interior spaces for public use. Abatement and asbestos removal began soon after the Aug. 1 groundbreaking and should be completed by the end of the year, whereupon construction will begin. The city issued $28.5 million in bonds for the project.
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Al Franken is both a fulltime comedian and a one-time politician, and you can bet he’s still pretty darn funny, as he was one of the “Weekend Update” anchors from the perennial political skit during the heyday of NBC’s Saturday Night Live. His hair’s not nearly as long and bushy as it was in 1980, just wavy and shot through with plenty of gray. But you can bet he has plenty to say, considering the present state of our nation’s political landscape, which is arguably even more crazy than both the Carter and Reagan administrations put together, then turned upside-down and inside-out. For one thing, we were a long way from most of the monumental changes in mass communication, as the internet was yet to be a gleam in some tech wizards’ eyes. Few could have imagined such features of our everyday lives as smartphones, memes or social media. Which brings us to podcasts, specifically Franken’s, which will be live at 8 p.m. on Oct. 10 from The Factory in Chesterfield. He will be joined by millennial couple Jason and Diana Kander, the former of whom you may remember as the Missouri secretary of state who then gave incumbent Republican senator Roy Blunt a run for his money in 2016. But he transitioned from the campaign trail to mental health advocacy. A former army captain, he quit politics to battle PTSD. He’s written two New York Times bestsellers, including Invisible Storm: A Soldier’s Memoir of Politics and PTSD. Visit thefactorystl.com for more information on this unique podcast event.
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Joe Sonderman can tell you what happened to our Redbirds on Oct. 26, 1985. Could you? That’s the date of ‘the call,’ the infamous play when umpire Don Denkinger flubbed a call at first base in the ninth inning of game six that was key to the Kansas City Royals taking the World Series from the Cardinals. Denkinger called a Royals runner safe at first when he was clearly out by a half-step.
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For reasons yet unknown to medicine, many, if not most, addicts cannot decide when to get clean and sober. Very few can keep New Year’s resolutions to quit forever on Jan. 1. The key is not stopping so much as it is not starting again. That’s why ‘One Day at a Time’ is a mantra in 12-Step programs. Christy Ivory happened to quit on Aug. 15, 2010, her 40th birthday, and has remained clean and dry ever since. Ivory asserts that she’s done very little herself, beyond relying on spiritual help to make a daily decision, and attributes it to a higher power. “God was just waiting for me,” she says. “I never knew that God had a plan for my future. And I was raised in the church.” Tillman Roland, her father, was a seasoned, self-taught, locally renowned gospel musician. But sometime during high school at Hazelwood East, she turned her back on her faith community, started smoking pot and drinking. Despite doing well in school, her substance use eventually led to using crack cocaine, a habit that ramped up in college. By the summer of 2010, she didn’t know herself. She’d managed to keep jobs despite dropping out of college, working in hospitality for many years before taking a position as resident manager of a large apartment complex in North County. That’s when she reached the end of her rope, getting fired for embezzlement. Soon thereafter, her journey into 12-Step recovery began. “I was raised in a good family—I didn’t have to steal. It wasn’t my parents’ fault that I made the decisions I made.” Men and women
at meetings started suggesting she go back to school, and she enrolled at SLCC-Florissant Valley. Meanwhile, she met her husband, Vance, in recovery. And before she finished up at the community college, she met The Next Step, a local nonprofit that provides scholarship money to students who have at least a year of 12-Step recovery under their belts. She was able to finish up a degree in social work and complete her master’s with The Next Step’s financial assistance. Then, she started paying it back… as well as paying it forward. While working as a behavioral health professional, she paid back all the money she had taken from the property management company that released her for cause. And ever since graduating and becoming a licensed MSW, she’s dedicated her career to helping others face and recover from their addiction. Recently, after having worked eight years at Queen of Peace Treatment Center and at Places for People, she joined Mercy Health’s Virtual Substance Abuse Use Recovery Program (VSURP), working online from home with regular clients, who sometimes just don’t show up. Unfortunately, from personal experience, she doesn’t always have to wonder why. Ivory, who’s now a board member at The Next Step, laments that it isn’t always easy to reach potential scholarship applicants. But she celebrates the program’s successes. For more information or to get involved, visit thenextstepstl.org. &
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The Fellowship of Christian Athletes will host its annual Celebration Fundraiser at CITYPARK on Oct. 10. CITY SC midfielder Eduard Löwen will share his journey with Christianity, alongside student athletes and coaches. Tickets are available at stlfca.org/stlcelebration.
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MUSIC ON TAP
Chamber Project Saint Louis is bringing live music to Schlafly Tap Room. On Oct. 20, it will present Reconstructed Fairy Tales: Alchemy of Sound, a program exploring the regenerating cycle of fresh ideas drawn from ancient inspiration. FOR MORE INFORMATION AND TICKETS, VISIT CHAMBERPROJECTSTL.ORG.
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ready to lead
Congratulations to Sandy Thal! The Town and Country resident has been elected president of the Assistance League of St. Louis for the 2024-2025 fiscal year.
MY HUSBAND AND I COULD BE IN Progressive Insurance commercials. Actually, we are the Progressive Insurance commercials. Every morning, Carey tells me about the dew point in St. Louis, Islamorada, Florida,—we have a house there—and Chicago where our daughter lives. He gives me the highs and lows and when we are in St. Louis, the barometric pressure because both of us get headaches if it moves around too much. I listen attentively so I can plan my day. I also care about Chicago because my daughter gets a little scary if she sweats on the way to the train. This weekend, we were at one of our favorite restaurants in Chicago, Twin Anchors, and one person in our group noticed it had patio dining—after going there for nearly 49 years. This caused him to wander off, and I swear he was going to start up a conversation with one of the diners until his son grabbed him and prevented the embarrassment. He too is a living, breathing commercial.
test your metal
The region’s largest gathering of metalsmith artists is coming to Webster Groves on Oct. 18 and 19.
The Midwest Metalsmiths Art Show will feature more than 20 talented artists showcasing their handmade creations. The event is free and will be held at First Congregational Church of Webster Groves.
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The United Way of Greater St. Louis presented the Freeman-Kortkamp Award to longtime board member Rich McClure. This prestigious award is named in honor of two exceptional United Way volunteers, Frankie M. Freeman and Robert O. Kortkamp. The nonprofit’s president and CEO Michelle Tucker recognized McClure’s contributions during a special celebration with his son Ryan McClure and daughter Lindsey McClure-Hartman.
When Vice President Kamala Harris announced that she would be running for president, people kept referring to her as a “brat” candidate. I was perplexed. I had not seen her do anything like stick out her tongue or throw a temper tantrum. So, I had to Google it and found out that Gen Z (soooo much younger than us) uses the term as they break workplace rules. Or to quote some guy named Alan Todd, “It is about accepting imperfections and owning your authentic self.” Hmm … when I worked, I just wanted to fit in and not piss anyone off.
I am so uncool I talk to people in line, comment on their purchases and suggest other brands. This Baby Boomer is the furthest thing from brat as possible.
Reasons I know I am uncool—someone tell me if used cool and uncool appropriately.
1. I buy shoes that are comfortable and not trendy.
2. I shop at a store, Paisley in Webster
Groves, where the people who work there will not let you come home with something that does not fit or looks too young. I cannot shop without help!
3. I still put two spaces after a period out of habit. I suspect my editor cringes just a little when she gets my column each issue.
4. I care about the dewpoint even though I have no idea why.
5. I say things like ‘they had a good life’ when the person dying is only 10 years older than me. I’ve got 25 good ones left!
6. I talk to my friends about Medicare Supplemental Plans.
7. I have thought about reusing wrapping paper.
So, there you have it. I am not brat. Perhaps I am uncool, but I do try hard. (I just Googled “cool” for those in Gen Z and apparently, I should say gas, dank, slay or drip.) Let me slip on my Sketchers and head for a walk. &
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THE GATESWORTH by stephanie wallace
AS WE AGE, security and comfort become even more important than they were earlier in life. It’s much easier to enjoy your later years when you know all of your needs are anticipated and help is never more than a few steps away. For Judith Scissors, the combination of ease and confidence is one of the main reasons she decided to move to The Gatesworth. For more than 35 years, the senior living community has been offering innovative services and a variety of amenities to residents to ensure they remain active, happy and comfortable.
Born and raised in St. Louis, Scissors is a graduate of University City High School. She left the region for a while but returned to settle in Chesterfield. Since then, she’s been an active member of the community, volunteering and serving on boards for various nonprofits, including Miriam, the Jewish Book Festival and The Repertory Theatre of St. Louis. Her philanthropic endeavors are just one example of how she’s kept engaged. “I love to travel,” she adds. “I’ve traveled extensively, and I continue to do so with my daughter and grandchildren.”
Making a move to a senior living community was not something Scissors initially considered. Her daughter, who lives in Arizona, however, was concerned about her mother living on her own. “I’ve been widowed twice,” Scissors says. “My daughter wanted me to move after the death of my first husband, but I wasn’t ready. It was only after my second husband died a year and a half ago that I decided it was time.”
She began touring local communities. Having a friend who already lived at The Gatesworth, she decided to make a visit. For Scissors, it was immediately apparent that this was the place for her.
Scissors has been at The Gatesworth for six months, and she’s settled in quickly. It has been a perfect fit for her active lifestyle. She’s been able to take excursions throughout St. Louis and the surrounding area, sit in on talks given by visiting experts or her fellow residents, participate regularly in book clubs and enjoy the live entertainment the community hosts weekly. “There is so much to keep you active, both physically and mentally,” she notes. “If there’s an activity you’d like but isn’t offered, the staff will make it happen. They recently started ping pong matches and golf putting. It’s great.”
From her first visit, one of the things Scissors enjoyed the most about The Gatesworth is the people—residents and staff alike. She’s found the sense of community a refreshing change from the isolation of living on her own. “I’ve been able to meet so many different people, and there’s always someone to have a conversation with,” she says. “The first time I visited, one of the owners came and spoke with me. It’s such a welcoming place. For anyone who is hesitant about moving, don’t be. When my grandson stopped by, he thought it was great. Coming from a 20-something, that speaks volumes.” &
LOCATED AT ONE MCKNIGHT PLACE, THE GATESWORTH OFFERS RESIDENTS A WIDE VARIETY OF INNOVATIVE SERVICES AND AMENITIES SO THEY CAN LIVE LIFE TO THE FULLEST. PICTURED ON THE COVER: RESIDENT JUDITH SCISSORS. FOR MORE INFORMATION, CALL 314.993.0111 OR VISIT THEGATESWORTH.COM.
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The Gatesworth provides the perfect canvas to enjoy life your way. Living in an exquisitely appointed apartment surrounded by beautiful, lush grounds, you’ll feel inspired to pursue new interests, expand your knowledge, build friendships and embrace your independence. Discover The Gatesworth and experience exceptional senior living today. Call 314-993-0111.
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DOES THE GATESWORTH MEAN TO YOU?
The Gatesworth means a new and productive life with new friends and that I never have to be alone again. There is wonderful food and energy throughout this place. I love the staff — they make us feel so special! —
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Ask the Right Questions: SENIOR LIVING COMMUNITIES
BY STEPHANIE WALLACE
Senior living communities today are miles away from the sterile retirement homes of the past or the ones often found in pop culture. Instead, you’ll find vibrant accommodations with a variety of amenities. There are a lot of options, and while tours are certainly informative, they may not paint the full picture of what’s on offer. We’ve compiled some questions in some key categories that you may want to ask to ensure you find the right fit.
GUESTS
Will your family be visiting often? Learn what’s available to guests and if there are any important restrictions. Can you have overnight guests?
Are there specific visiting hours for guests?
How are guest meals handled in communal dining spaces?
Is there space available to host a private gathering or party?
LIVING SPACES
The heart of your hunt for a senior living community is the accommodations. After all, this is going to be the place you call home. Consider what kind of space will meet your needs and what will make your happiest.
What floor plans are offered?
Are residences furnished or unfurnished?
What accessibility features are there?
How much personalization and decorating is allowed in apartments?
How is the move-in process organized?
Is internet access provided?
Is technological assistance available?
Does the community allow pets?
Is housekeeping included?
DINING
Make sure the community suits your tastes— literally. It may be beneficial to talk to current residents about their experience to get a better understanding of the community’s dining program.
What are the dining options?
How many meals are provided per day?
Is food prepared daily?
Is there a set time for meals, or are they offered upon request?
ENTERTAINMENT ACTIVITIES
Learn how a facility helps residents stay physically, mentally and socially active and involved within the community. You also can check if certain hobbies and interests are accommodated.
What types of activities are available to residents? Is there a schedule of events and activities posted either physically or online?
Are there opportunities outside of the community, such as scheduled outings or volunteer activities? What kind of live entertainment is offered and how often?
What outdoor spaces does the community have? Can residents organize their own clubs or activities? Can they suggest new ones they’d like to see?
NECESSITIES
Senior living communities take a lot of daily chores and errands off residents’ plates, but there are still some that may need to be addressed. Find out what basic amenities are offered onsite to ensure you can get done what you need to.
Is transportation provided for errands like grocery shopping?
Does the community have an on-site barber shop or beauty salon?
Is there an on-site bank?
Are religious services provided on site or available nearby?
Is there an on-site general store for everyday necessities?
Are team members on site 24/7?
HEALTH WELLNESS
Even when looking at independent living, it’s important to ask how a community coordinates onsite and offsite medical care. Your needs can change quickly, so also consider what you may require in the future.
Is there an in-house physician, or any nurses on staff?
Is there a staff member who can help coordinate home health care visits?
Does the community provide transportation to medical appointments?
If needed, is there access to hospice or physical therapy services?
Is there an on-site gym, pool or other ways to stay physically active?
How often are organized fitness classes available?
Are personal trainers an option?
If the level of care needed changes, does the community offer options like assisted living or skilled nursing? & &
How often does the menu change?
Outside of regular meals, are snacks available for residents?
Is it possible to make special requests?
Are residents permitted to cook in their apartments?
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For more than 40 years, Advanced Nursing Services has provided one-on-one private duty nursing. We have aides and nurses with the highest level of professionalism and offer truly full-service continuity of care.
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Life is better when shared with those we love! Our community members spend time with loved ones both off and on our campuses. See how Friendship Village creates space for connection with fun, social opportunities— plan your visit! 15201 Olive Blvd. | 636.898.8500 12563 Village Circle Drive | 314.270.7700 friendshipvillagestl.com
The Gatesworth Gift Shop offers a variety of convenient and thoughtful items, from snacks and essentials to unique gifts. It's the perfect stop for residents to find something special or pick up daily necessities.
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Superb hospitality. Exceptional amenities. Vibrant personalities. Clarendale Clayton has it all in a unique location unlike anything you’d expect from typical senior living options.
Urban excitement lives on every floor of our high-rise building, all the way up to the penthouse and private apartment balconies with views of the city, gourmet restaurant dining, modern wellness programming, social gatherings, and everything you need to live with ease and enjoyment.
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Welcome: St. Louis Book Clubs
here’s nothing like a good book—except maybe sharing your thoughts on a good book!
StL bibliophiles have no shortage of ways to connect through book clubs focusing on a variety of topics.
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Kirkwood Public Library
The library hosts several regular book discussion groups.
▶ Pandora’s Book Club: Held the second Wednesday of the month at 7 p.m., this group focuses on discussion around banned books.
▶ Mystery Readers Book Club: Any amateur Sherlock Holmes or mystery lover won’t want to miss this book group. It meets the third Wednesday of the month at 2 p.m
▶ Saturday Morning Perks: This club meets on every sixth Saturday at 10 a.m. to discuss contemporary works.
▶ Book Club at the End of the Universe: Meeting on select Tuesdays, this club is focused on science fiction and fantasy literature.
If a regular book club does not work with your schedule, look out for the library’s What Should I Read Next? events. They offer a chance to discuss what you are reading and watching with other people, without the commitment of a monthly meeting. The next is scheduled just in time for the winter holidays on Dec. 19 at 6:30 p.m.
For more information on how to join, visit kirkwoodpubliclibrary.org.
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Left Bank Books
The CWE bookstore hosts a variety of book discussion groups that are open to
▶ Great Novels of the 22nd Century: Focused on exploring science fiction, this reading group meets the first Wednesday of the month.
▶ Novel Ideas: This lunchtime reading group meets on the fourth Wednesday of each month. The focus is on contemporary literary fiction.
▶ Read the Rainbow: Held on the fourth Friday of each month, this discussion group centers on queer works.
▶ Reader Beware! Scaredy cats need not apply. This horror book club meets on the second Tuesday of the month.
▶ Shakespeare Festival Reads: The goal of this monthly group is to read all 38 plays in Shakespeare canon as well as the creative works that help illuminate them.
▶ Well-Real Black Girl Book Club: If you’re interested in the works of underrepresented authors, this group is for you. It centers on works by Black and Latinx writers, especially women.
For more information on how to join, visit left-bank.com.
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The Novel Neighbor
You’d be hard pressed to find a book club that doesn't suit your interests at The Novel Neighbor in Webster Groves. However, if for some reason you can’t, the bookstore also allows people to register their own book clubs for a 20% discount on their current reading selections.
▶ The Novel Neighbor Book Club: The group meets on the second Monday of
▶ Romance Book Clubs: Romance lovers have three options, centered on different subgenres. The group focused on contemporary romance meets on the first Thursday of each month at 7 p.m. The historical romance book club meets on the second Sunday of each month at 5 p.m. Finally, the queer romance group meets on the third Sunday of each month at 5 p.m.
▶ Mystery/Thriller Book Club: The book club is on the case the fourth Tuesday of each month at 7 p.m.
▶ YA (For Adults) Book Club: Young adult fiction isn’t just for teens. If you have an interest, check out this book club, which meets the fourth Wednesday of the month at 7 p.m.
▶ Sci-Fi/Fantasy Book Club: This discussion group meets on the third Wednesday of the month at 7 p.m.
▶ Virtual Book Club: Can’t meet in person? No problem! This book club meets virtually on the fourth Thursday of the month at 7 p.m.
▶ Nonfiction Book Club: If fiction isn’t your focus, this club meets on the fourth Monday of each month at 7 p.m.
▶ Dinner Book Club: This bi-monthly ticketed book club is hosted in partnership with Perennial on Lockwood! The brewery curates a meal based on the selected book.
▶ Wine Book Club: Hosted with Barrel Blends Wine & Spirits, this bi-monthly, ticketed book club includes a curated flight of wines as well as book discussion.
▶ Movie Book Club: This is the book club for cinephiles. This bi-monthly ticketed group includes a movie screening at Hi-Pointe Theatre along with a discussion based on the book selection.
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St. Louis County Library
If you can’t find a book club that fits your interests, Book Discussion Kits from the St. Louis County library allow you to host your own. Each kit includes multiple copies of the book and a discussion guide. They can be checked out for up to eight weeks and reserved online to be picked up at any county library branch.
The library’s branches also offer a wide variety of unique book discussion groups. As well as general contemporary or classic fiction book clubs, you can find ones organized around banned or challenged books, queer literature, African American works, mysteries and thrillers, book-to-film adaptations, sci-fi and fantasy, and more. For more information on how to join, visit slcl.org.
596.43 - SLP
St. Louis Public Library
Interested in starting your own reading discussion group? SLPL has you covered with its Book Club in a Bag program. Each bag includes 15 copies of the same title, as well as a list of discussion questions, author information and suggested titles. With more than 200 titles available, you’re sure to find something that sparks your interest. You can reserve your bag months in advance to be delivered to the SLPL branch of your choice.
The library also offers a wide variety of discussion groups of its own at each of
philosophy, mystery, historical fiction, comics and more. There also are partnerships with local businesses like Piper’s Tea & Coffee for the Meet Cute Book Club and Civil Life Brewing for the Uncanny Book Club.
For more information on how to join, visit slpl.org.
632.54
- UNI University City Public Library
The library hosts three themed monthly book groups that are free and open to all. They all meet in the evening at 7 p.m.
▶ Orcs & Aliens: Held the second Monday of the month, this group covers new voices in science fiction and fantasy.
▶ Rhythm & Books: This group focuses on nonfiction books about music. It meets on the third Tuesday of each month.
▶ U City Book Group: Led by the library’s director Patrick Wall, this group discusses newer award-nominated or buzzworthy books, both fiction and nonfiction. It meets on the fourth Wednesday of the month, except in November and December to accommodate the holidays.
If you’re interested in organizing your own book club, the library offers resources.
It has more than 100 book club kits that come with multiple copies of each title, as well as supplementary information like author biographies and interviews, discussion questions and reviews. Kits can be checked out for six-week periods.
For more information on how to join, visit ucitylibrary.org.
780.06
- WEB Webster Groves Public Library
The library has two book discussion groups. Both are free and open to anyone. The Saturday Afternoon Book Club meets on the first Saturday of each month at 2 p.m. The Evening Book Club meets several times throughout the year at 6 p.m.
For more information on how to join, visit wgpl.org. &
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A GUILD FOR GOOD
BY STEPHANIE WALLACE
They say it’s better to give than receive, but nothing beats being able to do both at the same time. That’s exactly what the Glennon Card program allows St. Louisans to do every fall. By purchasing a $60 card, you unlock a 20% discount at more than 340 local shops, restaurants and other service providers. All proceeds from card sales directly support the young patients at SSM Health Cardinal Glennon Children’s Hospital
The Glennon Card initiative is co-led by the Glennon Guild, a women’s auxiliary with more than 100 members, and Cardinal Glennon Children’s Hospital, and presented by Edward Jones. The Guild was established in 1957 as a collective of doctors’ wives looking to support the hospital. For more than 65 years, it has been dedicated to volunteering in the hospital, fundraising and providing resources to the Glennon patients and their families. Co-president Karen Page joined the group when looking for an opportunity to volunteer after she retired. “It’s incredibly fulfilling and rewarding work,” she notes. “You get to meet so many amazing people.” Last year, the organization launched the Glennon Guild Junior Board, which brings together more than 100 local high school students.
Along with the Glennon Card program, the Glennon Guild gives back to SSM Health Cardinal Glennon in a variety of ways. Throughout the year, it sells Gift Tags for Glennon, which are handmade by Guild members. During the holiday season, the group hosts Deck the Halls, an annual self-guided home tour. This year, the event is Dec. 7 and will feature four homes fabulously decorated for the holidays. “Deck the Halls is a great opportunity to see some of the most beautiful homes in St. Louis and get inspiration for your own holiday decor,” Page says. “It sells out every year, allowing us to donate around $20,000 to the hospital.” Guild members and their families also support SSM Health Cardinal Glennon by donating books for the hospital’s book cart and baby care items for families in need.
This year’s Glennon Card shopping period is Oct. 18 to 27. Digital cards can be purchased online at glennoncard.org, or paper versions are available at select retailers. For Page, it’s a wonderful opportunity for the community to come together to support a great cause while also shopping at local businesses. “Essentially, you are making a $60 donation to the hospital, and the 20% off is bonus,” she notes. “We’re excited to be able to partner with local companies. We have 43 new businesses for 2024, as well as 10 who are returning after a hiatus.”
Since its founding in 2011, the Glennon Card program has raised more than $2.6 million. The funds have supported initiatives like the Orthwein Center for Infant and Child Nutrition, the 3D Printing Center of Excellence, Danis Pediatric Center, the Knights of Columbus Developmental Center, enhancements to patient areas and hospital programs like Footprints,and Reach Out and Read. “This year, we’re planning the donation to go towards the Devoted Campaign for a new hospital playroom,” Page adds. “It’s exciting to be able to support a project that can help patients at the hospital feel like normal kids and have fun.”
On Oct. 14, Glennon Guild is offering an early shopping opportunity through the Glennon Card Shoppes Boutique. From 11 a.m. to 4 p.m., people can visit Hilton St. Louis Frontenac to shop from more than 20 vendors who will honor the 20% Glennon Card discount. “We have vendors specializing in everything from clothing and jewelry to home goods and hand-poured candles,” Page says. “Some of them are online businesses, so this a rare opportunity to shop their merchandise in person.” &
THE 2023 GLENNON SHOPPES EVENT
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SAINT LOUIS ZOO zoofari
by bill barrett
As the Saint Louis Zoo’s biggest fundraiser, Zoofari’s proceeds help support conservation efforts here and around the world. Guests enjoyed specialty food from local restaurants at animal-themed booths and entertainment by Maggie Speaks Big Band.
guests: Dana Brown President and CEO Dwight Scott, event co-chairs Pamela Glaser and Kip Bilderback, honorary co-chairs Jim Berges and Elizabeth Mannen Berges
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ACCESS ACADEMIES celebration dinner
by bill barrett
Access Academies walks with its students from the first day of sixth grade through their college graduation and beyond. This year’s dinner, themed ‘Every Step of the Way,’ celebrates that enduring 11-year journey. Guests enjoyed cocktails, dinner, speakers and a performance by the Sister Thea Bowman Catholic School choir.
Executive director Shelly Williams, board chair
BILL SIEDHOFF, MARY ELLEN COTSWORTH
ELIZABETH MANNEN BERGES AND JIM BERGES
ROBERT SMITH III, DWIGHT SCOTT, LARRY THOMAS
PAMELA GLASER, KIP BILDERBACK
AMY AND DOUGLAS DOVE
MAGGIE SULLIVAN, LISA KOHLER
CHRIS AND NANCY VATTEROTT
MELISSA FOX, LAURA GENOVESE
TALIA WOLKOWITZ, NICOLE JOBE, EVAN GOLDFARB
THOMAS WHEELAND, SHELLY WILLIAMS
LARRY RICHARDSON, CARMELLA MCCRAY
MARY MCGEATHY, ANNAMARY KING, MARY MIGALLA
by diane anderson
BEN HUNT, AUSTIN MILLEY, STACIA PETERSON
RICK LEACH, KRISTI BORGLUM
PATRICK SEGER, BEN MILLER, DEAN SAWYER
JOHNSON, BILL KEMP
TRICIA VINEYARD, PAT HOLTERMAN-HOMMES, MARY FREEMAN
SEPTEMBER 18, 2024 | FLIP
COVER STORY
STUDENT LED
PRINCIPIA SCHOOL
by stephanie wallace
WHAT WAS YOUR FAVORITE SUBJECT IN SCHOOL? Whether it’s math, art or lunch, you likely have an answer, but it’s a question students at Principia School may struggle with thanks to its innovative approach to cross-curricular lessons. Located in Town and Country, the private day and boarding school serves students in preschool through grade 12, and it’s on the forefront of changes in educational methods and techniques. Lectures and rote learning have been left in the past. Instead, the school is focused on empowering students to lead their own education through project-based and integrated learning.
Head of school Merry Sorrells, Ed.D., notes that Principia is looking toward the future of education. The landscape is constantly evolving, and a large part of that involves pushing students from being passive receptacles for knowledge to active participants. “The role of educators is transitioning away from the traditional teacher to more of a mentor position,” she notes. “Through experiential learning, students develop skills like problem solving, critical thinking, collaboration, communication, creativity and empathy. Our goal is to ensure they not only have the tools for success but also the fluency and fluidity with these skills to thrive in a changing and unpredictable world.”
One of the ways Principia encourages Upper School students to take an active role in their education is Quests, once-a-week-meetings where they design courses with faculty assistance. Students pick the subject, determine the skillset necessary to learn it and identify the outcome they want to achieve. “They’ve covered everything from cooking to theater technology to aerospace engineering,” explains Samantha Dry, principal of the Middle and Upper Schools. “This model allows for a more natural approach to learning. Students are challenged to develop their critical thinking by acting as course designer as well as delving into a topic of interest.”
The way Principia applies this innovative approach for all grade levels can be seen in a recent third grade project, combining math, science and economics. Students were tasked with developing their own product, and inspired by the school’s beehive, they opted to sell honey. “To accomplish their goal, they had to learn how to collect honey and then market and sell it,” Sorrells notes. “Experts from the Missouri Beekeeping Association visited with students to teach them about bees, and the class designed and implemented a marketing campaign to sell the honey at our fall festival.” The students were able to invest their earnings into a new hive for the school and donated the remaining funds to a local animal shelter.
Principia allows staff and students to come together as a community through collaborative learning. By eschewing traditional classroom models, the school gives students a more active role—whether they are testing aerodynamics by designing and building “coaster cars” or recording a podcast about the justice system. “Our approach is out of the comfort zone of many schools, but it empowers students to feel more confident and independent in their education,” Dry says. “They’re still learning everything they need to prepare for college and the working world, but they’re reaching educational milestones in a more authentic way. Principia is breaking down the barriers between academics and real world application." &
PRINCIPIA STUDENTS ENGAGE IN INTEGRATED, HANDS-ON LEARNING ACROSS ALL LEVELS.
▲ loyola academy
Students, alumni, staff and community members gathered to break ground on the school’s new upper-elementary academic wing. The expansion will contain two new classrooms and a multipurpose room, adding more than 4,000 square feet to the campus. It also will allow the school to increase its population by 50%.
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by stephanie wallace
▶ the whitfied school ◀
Sophomores had a “snowball” fight to help relieve fears about the upcoming school year. The grade gathered and threw crumpled papers on which they had written questions and concerns. Teachers then addressed the questions, allowing for a low-stakes and fun way to help make students feel more comfortable.
▲ kirkwood school district
The school district celebrated the accomplishments of athletes, coaches and community members on and off the playing field, pool, mats and court. This month, it held the induction ceremony for the KHS Athletic Hall of Fame Class of 2024. Inductees were honored with a recognition ceremony at a Kirkwood High School varsity football game and received Hall of Fame plaques, which were unveiled at another event. Twelve athletes, five teams, three coaches and two community members were honored.
parkway west high school ▶
Congrats to Elizabeth Franklin! The recent grad was selected as the Missouri Student Journalist of the Year—the first student in the school’s history to receive the honor. The competition requires student journalists to build a portfolio highlighting their skills in a variety of areas, including leadership, ethics, reporting, marketing and more. Franklin held the editor-in-chief position of the school’s student news site, the Pathfinder, and her future plans are to become a civil rights attorney.
▶micds ◀
Senior Hattie Sloane’s lacrosse skills have gone international. She represented Team Australia in the World Lacrosse U20 Women’s Championships in Hong Kong. After spending the summer training in Australia, Sloane joined a Melbourne club team and attended training in Japan before heading to the championship, which brought together 20 countries. The Australian team finished in fourth place.
PARENT TRAP
by dr. tim jordan
ANXIETY & CHILDHOOD
TOO MANY ADOLESCENTS today are being misdiagnosed with anxiety disorders. Mounting pressures have increased their levels of stress, making it harder and harder for parents to discern normal anxiety from a disorder that needs professional help. Let me offer you some things to consider.
In my experience, more common than anxiety disorders are the feelings that arise from everyday challenges, stresses and traumas, such as parental discord, relationship problems, pressure from schoolwork and worry about the future. These emotions build up to the point of overload and overwhelm, eventually needing a place to go. So they leak out as symptoms like trouble sleeping, somatic complaints, crying, snapping at people, being distracted, feeling depressed and lacking motivation.
Some girls sent to me due to anxious feelings have temperament styles that can be misconstrued as anxiety. Kids who are slow to warm up to new people or experiences get labeled as being socially awkward or having social anxiety. Sensitive kids who get overloaded with stimulation from large or loud groups can also get mislabeled with anxiety disorders.
The environments kids find themselves in also contribute to stressful feelings. Kids growing up in homes that feel tense, angry, chaotic or unpredictable might feel anxious as they walk into the front door after school. Girls I counsel who are being bullied or excluded by their friend group feel anxious going to school. And don’t get me started on the fear invoked in children who have to endure school shooting intruder drills.
My old mentor Dr. T. Berry Brazelton described predictable times in our development as touch points; think 3-year-olds pushing for more autonomy or middle schoolers dealing with changing bodies, friendships and the relationship with their parents. Fast forward to the transitions facing high school and college seniors, and then later on to marriage or having a child. Just prior to these transitions, kids and adults tend to feel out of sorts emotionally, experiencing a myriad of feelings such as anxiety, uncertainty, grief, anger, insecurity and sadness. These feelings are normal, and it should be normalized to have a healthy outlet. Otherwise, what is unexpressed becomes unmanageable.
When our kids experience an emotion like anxiety, they need to learn to check in with themselves and figure out what that feeling is telling them. It makes that emotion less overwhelming and easier to manage. I help girls learn ways to channel their feelings so that their emotions don’t build up to the point of overwhelm. It’s also reassuring to understand and accept how your temperament might affect your outlook and behaviors so that it can be turned into a strength versus a deficit. If the aforementioned practices aren’t enough to help your child effectively deal with their anxiety or it worsens to the point of interfering with their life, then it’s time to have them evaluated by a therapist for further treatment. There are many reasons why kids experience anxiety, and I only mentioned a few in this article. I encourage you to not quickly jump to labels, diagnoses and medications when your child shows signs of anxiety.
OPEN HOUSE
SCHOOL
Bob Cooke COMMUNITY SCHOOL
Bob Cooke, now in his 10th year at Community School, is committed to fostering the intellectual, emotional and creative growth of students. Bob has more than 40 years of combined experience as a teacher and administrator, and he believes the elementary years set the foundation for a lifelong love of learning.
Rev. Ronald R. O’Dwyer, S.J., Ed.D. DE SMET JESUIT
Fr. Ronny O’Dwyer, S.J., Ed.D., has served as president of De Smet Jesuit since July 2022. With a rich background in Jesuit education, he upholds the school’s four strategic pillars: Catholic and Jesuit identity, a commitment to academic excellence, care for the whole person and forming men for others.
233 N. NEW BALLAS ROAD 314.567.3500 DESMET.ORG
Rob Butler FORSYTH SCHOOL
Rob Butler joined Forsyth as head of school in 2021 after serving as assistant head at University Liggett School in Michigan. He holds a master’s degree from Oklahoma State University and a bachelor’s degree from Northeastern State University. Rob joined the Independent Schools of St. Louis (ISSL) Board of Trustees in 2023.
6235 WYDOWN BLVD.
314.726.4542
FORSYTHSCHOOL.ORG
Kara Fulton Douglass THE FULTON SCHOOL
Kara Douglass, head of The Fulton School for 18 years, has continued the school’s 62-year legacy of “no ceilings and no hiding places” for students. Under her leadership, the school provides a fresh, thoughtful, college-preparatory education through the Montessori method.
1100 WHITE ROAD
314.469.6622
FULTON-SCHOOL.ORG
Andy Abbott JOHN BURROUGHS SCHOOL
Andy Abbott, now in his 24th year at JBS and his 16th as head of school, is committed to Burroughs’ founding principle: a strong liberal arts and STEM education that encourages a life of service and concern for the environment. Recognized for his leadership surrounding issues of diversity, equity, inclusivity and engagement, he promotes an atmosphere of understanding, trust, respect and accomplishment.
755 S. PRICE ROAD
314.993.4045
JBURROUGHS.ORG
Alexis Wright
NEW CITY SCHOOL
Alexis Wright has been the Head of New City School since 2016. Alexis is a nationally recognized leader in elementary education with 29 years of experience in independent schools. He is a recent recipient of the prestigious Klingenstein Heads of School Fellowship at Teachers College at Columbia University.
5209 WATERMAN BLVD.
314.361.6411
NEWCITYSCHOOL.ORG
Celebrating
Merry Sorrells, Ed.D. PRINCIPIA SCHOOL
Merry Sorrells, Ed.D., brings more than two decades of educational leadership experience to Principia as head of school and is committed to maintaining the highest standards of teaching and learning. Under her leadership, Principia cultivates future leaders, offering a rich curriculum, program and community defined by opportunity and rigor.
13201 CLAYTON ROAD
314.514.3134
PRINCIPIASCHOOL.ORG
RSVP TODAY: newcityschool.org/openhouse
NEW CITY SCHOOL
age 3 through 6th Grade 5209 Waterman Blvd.
St. Louis, MO 63108
Elizabeth Zurlinden ROSSMAN SCHOOL
Known to students as “Mrs. Z,” Elizabeth Zurlinden feels blessed to have a career devoted to encouraging and supporting children while guiding them to discover a world waiting for their imprint. Elizabeth holds an M.A.T in elementary education from Webster University and an M.Ed. in independent school leadership from Vanderbilt University.
12660 CONWAY ROAD
314.434.5877
ROSSMANSCHOOL.ORG
Chris Cunningham, Ph.D. THE WHITFIELD SCHOOL
With more than 25 years of experience in independent schools, Chris Cunningham joined Whitfield in 2022. As head of school, he affirms the school’s commitment to progressive, experiential education—to teaching for depth rather than breadth, to aligning academic rigor and strength of character, and to caring for students’ social and emotional well-being.
175 S. MASON ROAD
314.434.5141
WHITFIELDSCHOOL.ORG
Thad Falkner
WILSON SCHOOL
Appointed to lead Wilson School in 2016, Thad Falkner is one of the most experienced heads of school in St. Louis. Thad believes Wilson’s motto, Make Your Mark A Good One, influences the school’s culture and motivates students to do their best, for themselves as well as for others.
400 DEMUN AVE.
314.725.4999
WILSONSCHOOL.COM
A BETTER YOU SPECIAL SECTION
Healthy skin is in season
COVER STORY
FACE UP TO FALL
PURONE MEDISPA
by julia m. johnson
THE SEASONS ALWAYS SEEM to slip by quickly, so don’t let too much time pass without creating a plan for fall facial skin care, advises Jackie Carr, R.N., ANP-BC, LE, owner of Pur-One Medispa in Des Peres. The weeks are likely to get even busier as the holiday season approaches, so make time now to take care of your skin, says Carr, who has more than two decades of experience in the field.
Carr’s recommendations for a fresh, attractive autumn look include SkinCeuticals’ P-TIOX Serum to reduce expression lines, and the company’s Cell Cycle Catalyst Face Serum, which offers exfoliating and anti-aging properties. P-TIOX contains advanced peptides and other active ingredients that exfoliate, brighten, reduce inflammation and hydrate to smooth skin and make lines less visible, and studies have demonstrated texture improvement in as little as a week, Carr explains. “It can be used to complement anti-wrinkle neurotoxin injections including Botox, Xeomin and Dysport, and it’s suitable for people with sensitive skin,” she adds. For adults who need an exfoliating boost, Cell Cycle Catalyst gently encourages cell turnover and spurs the skin to shed dead tissue. It also helps to reduce fine lines and discoloration and make pores less noticeable. Carr recommends using the product in the morning on freshly cleansed skin, then following with SkinCeuticals Vitamin C serum. Research has shown that Cell Cycle Catalyst can improve the appearance of acne scarring as well, she says.
“Generally, these products should be used year round,” Carr explains. They are not intended to take the place of injectables, but can enhance their results and help clients feel more confident about their appearance, she says.
“These treatments are considered safe and effective for men and women,” Carr adds. “Be sure to wear sunscreen to prevent burns or further sun damage, as the products may increase sun sensitivity.”
Other key ways to prioritize your skin this fall include dermaplaning, hydrafacials and microneedling performed by licensed esthetician Courtney Carr. She also offers microblading, a semipermanent eyebrow enhancement technique that helps shape the brows and better frame the face. It’s a type of cosmetic tattooing process that can improve the appearance and fullness of thin, sparse or broken eyebrow lines. The effect is natural and realistic, and it lasts a year or more.
This season, Jackie Carr also recommends SkinMedica TCA chemical peels to improve pigmentation and keep pores fresh, noting that procedures of this kind can be alternated with other in-office treatments to maximize results. At-home products that brighten, refresh and rejuvenate include those made by EltaMD, DefenAge, SkinCeuticals and other medical grade skincare brands.
“PurOne offers many ways to help clients feel more confident about their skin’s appearance on a daily basis,” Carr says. “The fall season is an especially busy time of year, so make sure to fit regular, proactive skin care into your schedule.” &
Brian Sylve, DC
Becky Lynn, MD
Erum Qazi, MD
Sarina Phatak, MD
Evora Medical Group
JACKIE CARR AND COURTNEY CARR
FALL BEAUTY TRENDS
by stephanie wallace
FALL IS A SEASON DEFINED BY A KALEIDOSCOPE OF COLOR AND BEAUTY—YOU CAN SEE THAT IN THE WIDE VARIETY OF MAKEUP STYLES TRENDING FOR THE SEASON. THERE’S NO ONE WAY TO EMBRACE BEAUTY, SO WE’RE SHARING SOME INSPIRATION SO YOU CAN FIND WHAT WORKS BEST FOR YOU THIS SEASON.
1. GREEN CLAY jin soon
“Olive” this color so much. Neutral nails are always popular, but if you’re looking for a fun spin, go green. Olive greens are neutral enough to pair with any outfit, while still offering something playful. Green Clay by Jin Soon is a subtle but unique color, and the polish is vegan-friendly and formulated without harsh chemicals.
$18 FROM JINSOON.COM
2. SMUDGE POT stila
Grunge and goth are both having beauty moments this autumn. For both trends, eyeliner is key. This versatile gel formula can work as both liner or shadow, delivering a high intensity black. Use it to create razor sharp lines, or smudge it for a more sultry look.
$20 FROM STILACOSMETICS.COM
3. HUEPHORIC RUSH 3-IN-1 SILK BLUSH morphe
The boyfriend blush trend offers a natural flush by adding color lower down on the cheek—the idea is to emulate the appearance of a flustered man. You can achieve this look with this buildable blush that offers a long-lasting matte finish. The formula features vitamin E and vegetable collagen to plump and hydrate while bamboo extract soothes the skin.
$14 FROM ULTA.COM
4. POP LONGWEAR LIPSTICK clinique
Red lips for fall is a no-brainer. Twist the timeless trend by going vampy with a darker maroon or cranberry hue. This shade, Iconic Pop, is a great full coverage option. This lip color includes a built-in primer for a smooth application, and it is designed to offer eight-hour, color-true wear.
Do you do dew? Dewy skin continues to be on trend, and this hydrating serum will help you glow. The formula includes niacinamide to reduce the appearance of pores and reduce dullness, watermelon to brighten skin and hyaluronic acid to help skin retain moisture.
$35 FROM GLOWRECIPE.COM
6. CHROME LIQUID SHADOW colourpop
Y2K is back in a big way, and when it comes to beauty, that means frosted and metallic makeup looks. This liquid eye shadow is a perfect throwback. Its multi-chrome effect means the color shifts depending on the angle light hits it. Glaze is an opalescent gold to pink to copper that offers a fun twist on a metallic eye look.
$12 FROM COLOURPOP.COM
AGE BETTER with DIET
by stephanie wallace
September is National Healthy Aging Month. It’s a great reminder of how even as our minds and bodies change, making healthy lifestyle choices can still have a major impact on our overall well being. We’re taking a look at some small changes older adults can make to keep living a vibrant, active life.
SKIN CARE
Our skin naturally changes as we age. The moisture barrier’s function decreases, leaving skin drier. Bruising can become common due to the skin becoming thinner. Wrinkles and age spots appear. Much of the sun damage received when younger, starts to become apparent when people reach their 50s. This can manifest as brown spots, precancerous lesions and skin cancer.
TIPS FOR MATURE SKIN
Protect yourself from the sun. While damage most typically occurs when younger, protecting your skin later in life can help prevent it from aging faster. Stay in the shade when possible, wear sun protective clothing and use a broad spectrum sunscreen that is SPF 30 or higher daily.
Change your skin care routine if you’re seeing new issues. Dryness and itchiness may be caused by harsh soaps, fragrances or other irritants.
Consult your dermatologist about hormonal acne. As women age, they can break out along their chin and jawline. This acne cannot be treated with the topical treatments associated with teenage acne. Instead, it requires hormone-targeted therapy. Consider a prescription topical retinoid. If you are concerned about age spots or fine lines, it can have many benefits, including stimulating collagen and elastin production, which helps keep the skin looking supple and youthful. Wear compression socks or stockings. As we age, the veins in our legs become less competent. Along with swelling and spider veins, this can cause rashes.
A healthy diet can support healthy aging. Eating a variety of foods from each food group can help reduce the risk of chronic diseases like high blood pressure, diabetes, hypertension and heart disease.
TIPS FOR HEALTHY EATING
Take helpful shortcuts. To get more fruits and veggies in your meals and snacks, you can opt for frozen, canned or ready-to-eat varieties if slicing and chopping fresh ones is a challenge. Make sure you are avoiding foods that are high in added sugar, saturated fats and sodium. Maintain muscle mass. Make sure you get enough protein throughout the day. Adding seafood, dairy or fortified soy alternatives along with beans, peas and lentils to your meals can help you maintain muscle mass. Focus on nutrients. Choose foods that include the nutrients you need, such as potassium, calcium, vitamins D and B12 and dietary fiber. B12 can be especially important because our ability to absorb it decreases with age, and the use of certain medications can decrease it further. If you are considering taking dietary supplements, it’s important to discuss them with your health care provider. Drink plenty of liquids. As we age, we can lose some of our sense of thirst. It’s important that we continue to regularly drink water throughout the day. To avoid dehydration, low or fat-free milk, fortified soy beverages and 100% juice also are options. Beverages with lots of added sugars or salt should be avoided. Think about your teeth. Our teeth and gums change with age, and we may not be able to chew everything we could when we were younger. People with dental problems sometimes find foods like fruits, vegetables or meats difficult to manage, but it’s important not to miss out on the nutrients they provide. Look for softer alternatives like steamed veggies, canned unsweetened fruit, l ow-sodium soups or canned tuna. Eat socially. Meals are more enjoyable when shared with others. Invite a friend to join you for a meal at least twice a week, or check with community centers or places of worship for opportunities to eat with others. If you’re in a senior living community, enjoy lunch and dinner with your neighbors in communal dining spaces.
EXERCISE
Exercise can provide big benefits no matter your age, but for older adults, building new, healthier habits can be tricky. From physical limitations to busy schedules, there can be a lot of roadblocks to adding more activity to your daily routine. The key to success is to find what works for you and stay motivated.
TIPS TO KEEP ACTIVE
Make exercise a social activity. Social support is a great way to help make lifestyle changes stick. If you have an exercise buddy, you can help keep each other accountable and motivated. You can sign up for a gym or exercise class with a friend or family member. If a more structured workout experience isn’t for you, consider starting a walking group with friends or playing with your kids or grandchildren.
Track your progress. Stay focused by finding a physical activity plan that works for you and measuring your successes. Try to incorporate the four major types of exercise: strength, endurance, balance and flexibility. As you build stamina, find new ways to increase your physical activity. Look for how you’ve made progress, and use those successes to update your plan.
Reward yourself for staying active. It will help keep you motivated by allowing you to work towards something tangible. When making your plan, pick a goal and something you will do for yourself once it’s achieved. For example, you might want to complete a 20-mile bike ride. Once you’ve done it, treat yourself to something such as a massage or a visit to a spa.
Fit physical activity into your daily routine. It will help you build exercise into a habit. Focus on tasks you already have to do that have a physical component, such as walking the dog or even cleaning the house. If your schedule won’t allow you to dedicate a large block of time to exercise a day, find smaller periods that will work.
Don’t let fatigue stop you. Regular moderate exercise will actually help you feel less fatigued in the long run. Physical activity sends oxygen and nutrients to your tissues, helping your cardiovascular system work more efficiently. Along with having big benefits for your heart and lung health, this will give you a boost of energy.
Make it fun! Picking an activity that is more enjoyable to you personally means you’re more likely to stick with it. Don’t be afraid to try new things and get creative. Sign up for a dance class or find a friend to play pickleball with. Stick with what you find fun, and move on from what doesn’t work for you.
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Wellness
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5. The Bach Society of Saint Louis
Embark on a profound journey of light and hope with Rachmaninoff’s Vespers. This timeless a cappella masterpiece is presented in collaboration with St. Louis Cathedral Concerts at the Cathedral Basilica of St. Louis. 9450 CLAYTON ROAD | 314.652.BACH (2224) BACHSOCIETY.ORG
6. Humane Society of Missouri
Don’t miss Barktoberfest at Urban Chestnut Brewery on Oct. 24! This pup friendly event, with a costume contest and prizes, is sure to kick off a fun Halloween weekend.
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Love to shop with a discount? Join 25-plus retailers at Glennon Card Shoppes Boutique to benefit Cardinal Glennon Children’s Hospital. Participating retailers will be honoring a 20% discount with the use of the Glennon Card on Oct.14 from 11 a.m. to 4 p.m. at Hilton St. Louis Frontenac. Free admission.
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Discover where the music can take you. From beloved classics to world premieres and exciting new collaborations, the SLSO promises to thrill, move and captivate.
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SLYMAN BROS. APPLIANCES by stephanie wallace
FOR ST. LOUIS, 1965 was a big year. The Rat Pack came to town, the Cardinals played their last full season at the original Busch Stadium, and the final piece of the Gateway Arch was put in place Oct. 28. That same year, brothers Bob and Harry Slyman decided to open an appliance store. Fast forward to today, and Slyman Bros. Appliances has expanded to include five locations across the St. Louis region. Even as the venture grew, its commitment to serving the community has remained the same. The family-owned and -operated business uses its almost six decades of experience to provide quality service and products.
Along with its warehouse, Slyman Bros. has showrooms in St. Louis City, South County, West County and O’Fallon, Missouri. Operations manager Chris Slyman notes the retailer offers a wide selection of products to meet the needs of every client. “We carry more than 50 major retailers, ranging from popular options like Maytag and Whirlpool to luxury selections, such as Wolf and SubZero,” he says. “Whatever your project or budget, we’ve got you covered.” Every Slyman Bros. location offers installation services and free delivery within a 50-mile radius. The store also provides in-house technical support for warranty-covered products.
Slyman Bros. stands out because of its dedication to providing top quality customer service. Chris says that can be attributed to the family-centered nature of the company. Multiple generations of the Slyman family are involved with the operations at every location. “We’re a family business, and that extends to treating our customers like family,” he says. “A lot of appliance shopping is done at national retailers that primarily function as home improvement stores. We’re proud to be local, and our sales team have been with us an average of 10 years. When you come into our showroom, they can figure out what’s going to work best for you.”
Slyman Bros. recently opened a new showroom in South County, replacing its previous facility in the area. The new location is one of the largest appliance showrooms in the St. Louis region, and it offers the community much more than just an increased footprint. “We’ve expanded from around 2,000 to 10,000 square feet for our South County store, and it includes a 2,000-square-foot display area dedicated to Sub-Zero and Wolf appliances,” Chris explains. “It offers a much better in-store experience for our customers.”
To celebrate the new showroom, Slyman Bros. is holding a grand opening Oct. 11 through 13. The weekend will include special sales on almost every brand the store carries, and guests can also look forward to in-store specials and rebates. On Oct. 12, Lynx Grills will hold outdoor cooking demonstrations, and the festivities also will include a free food truck and live music. “We have some great giveaways planned for the grand opening,” Chris adds. “You can win a KitchenAid stand mixer, G.E. smoker or Electrolux vacuum. We hope that the community will come check it out and celebrate with us.”
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HOMEWORK
DEAR HOMEWORK,
We have lived in our home for almost 10 years and would love your guidance on how to improve our landscaping and exterior. We enjoy reading your column and the recommendations you have provided other homeowners.
Sincerely,
—CAN’T SEE THE FOREST FOR THE TREES
DEAR CAN’T SEE THE FOREST FOR THE TREES,
Your house has a great ‘cottage in the woods’ feel, so I suggest we take that a bit further with a few architectural and landscape changes.
First, I would like to walk up to the house in a more romantic way. Let’s abandon the walkway along the facade and create a new curving stone path through the lawn that leads you under a rose-covered trellis to the front door. The trellis is then framed with a low evergreen hedge with corner brick light piers. Shade-loving ferns and hostas add detail to the scheme.
New dormers and a cupola add interest and charm to the roof, helping to underscore the cottage feel of the property. The existing color scheme already works fine, so it has been retained. Now the home is part of the forest rather than overwhelmed by it.
Hope that helps, —HOMEWORK
HOMEWORK WAS PENNED BY THE LATE PAUL DOERNER, FOUNDING PARTNER OF THE LAWRENCE GROUP. TO CELEBRATE HIS LEGACY, T&S IS PULLING SOME OF HIS OLDER COLUMNS FROM THE ARCHIVES TO SHARE.
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THE CHARM OF CHINOISERIE
We love the feel of timeless, elegant interiors that evoke a sense of history and grace. Blue and white vases are a beautiful blend of Eastern artistry and Western design that offer any design a classic and sophisticated look. Whether you're a seasoned interior designer or just beginning your design journey, the iconic blue and white vases with intricate patterns offer a timeless and traditional feel that can transform any space. Let's explore the various types of blue and white vases and how they can enhance your home.
THE TIMELESS APPEAL OF CHINOISERIE
Blue and white vases, often referred to as "chinoiserie vases," embody the European interpretation and imitation of Chinese and East Asian artistic traditions. Chinoiserie has captivated designers and homeowners for centuries with its rich detailing, lush landscapes and exotic motifs. These jars and vases are more than just decorative pieces; they are artworks that bring history and culture into your home.
HOW TO STYLE BLUE AND WHITE VASES
1. Statement Pieces
Place a large blue and white vase in a prominent position, such as on a console table in the entryway or as a centerpiece on the dining table to make a striking statement, drawing the eye and adding a touch of grandeur to any space.
2. Groupings and Clusters
For a more dynamic display, group several vases of varying heights and shapes together. This approach works beautifully on mantels, sideboards and open shelves. Mixing different patterns within the same color palette creates visual interest and a cohesive look.
3. Functional Decor
Blue and white vases aren’t just for display—they can also serve functional purposes. Use them as elegant vessels for fresh flowers, branches or even as stylish containers for kitchen utensils.
FINDING THE PERFECT BLUE AND WHITE VASE FOR YOUR SPACE
By embracing the beauty of blue and white vases and the traditional elegance of chinoiserie, you can create a home that feels both timeless and on-trend. Whether you’re redecorating an entire room or adding to existing decor our curated collections provide everything you need to bring this sophisticated style into your home.
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Florals for Fall
By Stephanie Wallace
Well, it’s happened. We’ve reached the end of summer—but don’t pack away your planters just yet. Colder weather may be coming, but there are a wide variety of late-blooming flowers and plants that can bring a little brightness to autumn.
Chrysanthemums are perhaps the most ubiquitous of fall blossoms. These hearty flowers bloom late, are long-lasting and come in every fall hue imaginable, so you can add a pop of color to any autumnal floral arrangement.
Cabbage
Cabbage doesn’t just belong in your kitchen. The ornamental varieties of the vegetable offer attractive rosettes in purple, green and white. The best part? This hearty plant has no problem standing up to a frost.
This hardy perennial can withstand the colder weather of fall, and its bright orange, yellow and red blossoms make it a perfect fit for the season. A favorite of pollinators, it may help attract butterflies in early autumn.
Aster
foliage to fill in among the flowers, heuchera. It’s available in a wide variety of colors and it’s low maintenance. The plant is an easy way to add more texture to any plant container.
Most commonly seen with purple blossoms, this flower also comes in pink, white and blue varieties. Aster won’t only add some color to your fall containers, but they are some of the latest blooming plants that act as a nectar source for pollinators.
Looking for something different? With its fleshy leaves and clusters of flowers, stonecrop may be your answer. It makes a great foundation for any container planting, comes in a variety of colors and is even drought tolerant if you’re looking for something more hands-off.
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OFF the cuff claiborne w/
With each Off the Cuff, we try to share some insight into notable people who have made their mark on St. Louis, but unfortunately, it’s impossible for us to include it all. So this issue we’ve decided to share some of the awesome answers that we couldn’t the first time around.
cedric the entertainer
DID YOU EVER THINK YOU WOULD HAVE SO MANY OTHER ENTERTAINMENT OPPORTUNITIES OTHER THAN STANDUP COMEDY?
I think that’s always the desire. For us back in the day, we saw the Richard Pryors and Eddie Murphies of the world take their standup and make great careers. I definitely desired those things. You don’t really know what’s going to happen until you do it. You don’t know where the next opportunity is. I was working for State Farm and on the corporate path. You believe that’s going to be your life. The first time I decided to do standup, I won $500. That was a different type of adrenaline.
paul chickey
WHAT WAS YOUR BEST NIGHT ON STAGE?
We were playing The Blue Note in Columbia, Missouri, one time. We have these cages with go-go dancers, and DeeDee James decided to join one of the dancers in the cage. I will never forget that night because it was Halloween, and our bass player was dressed up as the Pope. You can imagine the Pope next to the go-go cages. There’s a rock ’n’ roll story for you.
randi naughton
WHO INSPIRED YOU TO GO INTO THE SPORTS INDUSTRY?
Mr. Roy Naughton, my father. Picture Archie Bunker—he and my dad were the spitting image of each other. He was a huge sports fan, and I remember sitting and watching college basketball with him on Saturday mornings. He instilled that love in me. Not only as a fan, but I really got into the X’s and O’s of the Buffalo Bills back in the day. When I was around 11, the Buffalo News would print full page photos of the players. I put the entire offense and defense up on my bedroom wall.
josh schertz
WHAT ARE SOME OF THE BIGGEST CHANGES YOU’VE SEEN IN COLLEGE SPORTS?
The emphasis on efficiency. In some ways, it’s almost become a different sport. The way you space the floor, the analytics and turning things into a mathematical equation, those weren’t things that you thought of as a coach previously. How you hunt, how you run offense and defense, it’s dramatically different from how it was when I got started in ’08.
miles mikolas
SHOULD THERE BE MORE OF A DRESS CODE IN PROFESSIONAL SPORTS?
If you watch anything made before the 1970s, people are walking around in suits and ties everywhere they go. I’m not saying that it’s the downfall of society, but looking unkempt is more acceptable. In a lot of ways, high fashion has changed, and younger players may be following that. You could be wearing $5,000 sweatpants, but they’re still just sweatpants. Some kind of reasonable dress code would be OK.
&more! HOOKED BOOKS
It was a hard month to find a book I loved. I started and stopped at least five. So let’s talk films and TV.
Twisters
This is not quite a remake, featuring Glen Powell and Daisy Edgar-Jones as tornado chasers. Powell’s character does it for fun and showmanship. Edgar-Jones does it for science, after losing two of her friends to a fierce tornado. Both actors are fun to watch, and it has the perfect balance of seriousness and fun.
Matt Rife is not your typical comedian. His stand-up routine is based completely on feedback from his audience. He sits on a stool and asks questions. The next thing you know, he has you laughing at the absurdity of life. Being in his audience would be amazing—unless he asked you a question and then spent 10 minutes riffing on your two-word answer.
by patty hannum
The Closer Peacock
Why am I telling you to watch a series from 20 years ago?
Because there is nothing like Kyra Sedgwick as Deputy Chief Brenda Leigh Johnson. She joins an unhappy group of Los Angeles police officers who can’t imagine what little old Brenda from Atlanta can teach them about solving the unsolvable.
Bad Monkey Apple TV
Vince Vaughn is a police officer recently demoted to health inspector in the Florida Keys. This series shows him getting more and more involved in how an arm ended up on someone’s fishing line. The season isn’t over yet, but even if you don’t like police shows, you will be entertained by Vaughn as the guy that does everything wrong.
Find Me Falling Netflix
A perfect rom-com where you see the ending within the first 10 minutes, but it doesn’t mean you shouldn’t give it another hour or so to put all the pieces together. Harry Connick Jr. and Agni Scott work a little magic with this predictable but enjoyable movie.
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ON THE TABLE
photo by bill barrett TELVA AT THE RIDGE
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From chef Loryn Nalic and her family—the team behind Balkan Treat Box—Telva at the Ridge is a coffee shop concept focused on Balkan breakfast and brunch offerings. Tucked away upstairs at Rolling Ridge Nursery, the restaurant get’s its name from the grounds left at the bottom of the cup, which can be used for fortune telling—an inspiration can be felt in the cozy atmosphere and bohemian decor.
Telva may be a counter service coffee shop, but the cozy atmosphere and excellent food and beverage offerings make it a can’t miss. It’s the perfect place to grab brunch with friends—at the risk of exposing myself as a millennial, I must say the vibes are immaculate. If your green thumb brings you into Rolling Ridge Nursery, don’t miss the chance to pop upstairs—at the very least grab a pastry and coffee!
KAZANDIBI LATTE,
$4.50: The coffee offerings at Telva are excellent. Many of the lattes are inspired by Balkan sweets, including this one. Kazandibi is a milky pudding with a coating of caramelized sugar. The concept is perhaps intimidatingly sweet, but the actual latte is not overwhelming. The vanilla and caramel flavors complement the espresso well.
POPPYSEED
PASTRY,
$6: This was a standout among the pastries. If you’re looking for something that is not too sweet, this is the perfect option. The poppy seeds offer a nuttier, more savory counterpart to the sweeter pastry. It’s the perfect balancing act.
KUNEFE, $6 : The traditional dessert features kataifi (shredded phyllo dough) soaked in syrup and layered with cheese and topped with pistachios and rose petals. When we ordered this, our server suggested we have it warm. That is the right call. The combination of stringy cheese and crispy pastry is delightful. It was unexpected, but certainly a treat.
BREAKFAST SENDVIC, $9: This breakfast sandwich features a runny egg and cheese on fresh bread. You can choose to add a protein—beef bacon, turkey bacon or sudzuka (Turkish beef sausage). It may be simple, but it’s the definition of comfort food.
AVOCADO TOST, $13: Everyone is familiar with avocado toast, but Telva takes it to the next level. Avocado is hardly even the focus with toasted tomatoes, cucumbers, olives, feta cheese and tzatziki all playing a part. The result is bright and refreshing —each bite is a new dynamic flavor. An egg can also be added to the dish for protein and some additional richness.
october MARK YOUR CALENDAR:
9/20-10/20
compassion and a belief in not only the American dream but the promise of tomorrow. Kirkwood Performing Arts Center | $45-$82 2 and 7 p.m. | 314.821.2407 | stagesstlouis.org
9/24-10/6 back to the future the musical Great Scott! Join Mary McFly and Doc Brown in their time-traveling race against the clock in the musical adaptation of the beloved film.
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9/28, 9/29, 10/5 & 10/6 zootoberfest
Enjoy fall fun at the zoo with animals, exhibits and attractions alongside German food and drink. The event also includes special activities for kids like arts and crafts.
Saint Louis Zoo | Free | 10 a.m.-4 p.m. 314.781.0900 | stlzoo.org
10/4-10/6
best of missouri market
Shop more than 120 of the region’s finest artisans, crafters, and food and beverage producers. Enjoy live music, family fun and a two-acre Kid’s Corner.
Located on a beautiful tree-lined parkway in the tree-lined Shaw neighborhood, the art far features 120 artists, food, music and a school art gallery.
Flora Place & Tower Grove Avenue | $8-$10 Sat: 9 a.m.-5 p.m; Sun: 10 a.m.-5 p.m. shawstlouis.org
10/6
rachmaninoff vespers
Held in the awe-inspiring Cathedral Basilica of St. Louis, this concert reflects Rachmaninoff’s deep spiritual devotion while showcasing intricate harmonies, rich textures and emotional depth through the sublime harmonies and soaring voices of The Bach Society Chorus. The Cathedral Basilica of St. Louis | $10-$55 7:30 p.m. | 314.652.2224 | bachsociety.org
10/18
delish on delmar
The festival will celebrate the Delmar Maker District through food and drinks from district restaurants, live music and a makers market.
Delmar Marker District | Free 5 p.m.-10 p.m. | delishondelmar.com
10/19
wolf fest
Visit wild canids such as red wolves, Mexican wolves, painted dogs and fennec foxes before enjoying festivities like food trucks, live music and kids’ activities.
Endangered Wolf Center | $50 per vehicle 636.938.5900 | endangeredwolfcenter.org
10/22
an evening with david sedaris
The preeminent humor writer shares a selection of all-new readings and recollections as well as a Q&A session and book signing.
The music icon brings his Past Present Future tour to the StL. Enterprise Center | $45.50-$245.50 8 p.m. | enterprisecenter.com
10/25 & 10/27
slatkin’s legacy
Conductor Laureate Leonard Slatkin brings a lifetime of experience to a program featuring Tchaikovsky’s Symphony No. 5, Domenico Scarlatti’s sonatas, Cindy McTee’s Timepiece and the U.S. premiere of Daniel Slatkin’s Voyager 130.
Touhill Performing Arts Center | $20-$68 10:30 a.m. and 3 p.m. | 314.534.1700 | slso.org
