SEPTEMBER 4, 2024 | FRONT
Our advocacy for STL Homeowners extends well beyond just fighting for you during a transaction. Our commitment to your rights extends to fighting at the local, state and federal levels.
Congrats to our Co-founder Sam Hall on being elected President-Elect
by stephanie wallace
5 on your side
Congrats to the station! Its coverage of the 2024 Olympic Games, led by Rene Knott, ranked the No. 1 NBC affiliate in the country across multiple time periods.
ranken jordan pediatric bridge hospital
Rabbi Mark Shook, and his wife, Carol, have been selected to receive the Mary Ranken Jordan Service to Children Award. The Shooks have worked with Ranken Jordan since 1995. The award will be presented at the hospital’s Beyond Gala on Sept. 21.
saint louis fashion fund
The nonprofit has announced Naomi Fitzgerald de Grave as its newest board member. A native Australian now based in St. Louis, Fitzgerald de Grave has more than 20 years of experience in the fashion space, including launching her own styling company.
caritas family solutions
The nonprofit was honored with an Employer Appreciation Award from the Urban League of Metropolitan St. Louis for their partnership with the Save Our Sons (SOS) Program. The initiative connects economically disadvantaged Black men with employment in the St. Louis region.
by stephanie wallace
THE BRIGHT LIGHTS AND GLAMOR of a fashion show offer a striking contrast to the poverty experienced by the people living around Fertile, Missouri. The citizens of the rural community, located a little more than an hour from St. Louis, are often without electricity, and some even make a home out of abandoned structures and vehicles. The Rural Parish Workers of Christ the King are dedicated to serving this population. The small religious order provides everything from food and housing to social activities and spiritual guidance. For 57 years, Friends of the Rural Parish Workers has thrown an annual fall fashion show and luncheon to support this mission.
Friends of the Rural Parish Workers was founded by a committee of 12 women who started out as a bridge group. Wanting to use their time to give back to those in need, they decided to create the first charity fashion show in St. Louis. “Both the fashion show and the committee have continued to grow,” notes Katie Mentel, one of the co-chairs of this year’s event. “This is the most dynamic group of women I’ve ever worked with. I’m 27, and my co-chair is 87. It’s a wonderful illustration of how the passion for this mission has been passed down from generation to generation.”
The mission of the Rural Parish Workers has recently expanded to include the Rural Parish Clinic. Operated by volunteer health care professionals, the initiative provides mobile medical and dental care to income-qualifying adults without insurance at no cost. “The clinic provides health care to people who otherwise would not have access to it,” Mentel notes. “While it has been one of the biggest missions of the Rural Parish Workers recently, they continue to support Washington County through programs like food drives and operating their thrift store. There are many ways they provide help for friends in need.”
This year’s Friends of the Rural Parish Workers Fashion Show is Oct. 11 at The Ritz-Carlton, St. Louis, and tickets are available now. The work of the Rural Parish Workers would not be possible without the support of groups like the committee. “Last year, we were able to donate $150,000 through the fashion show,” Mentel says. “Without those funds, the clinic would not be able to operate, and other services would be impossible. Our brothers and sisters in Washington County are so close to us, yet we so often don’t see the struggles of their daily lives. Supporting them really does make a difference.”
Mentel notes that the event would not be possible without the committee’s partnership with West County Center. Stores at the Des Peres shopping center like Banana Republic, Evereve, Gap, Macy’s, MOD on Trend and more provide all of the clothing worn in the show. West County Center senior marketing director Sean Phillips adds that the enthusiasm goes both ways: “Participating in events that raise money for important causes is part of our work as a community partner. West County Center is privileged to be able to partner with organizations that are helping the greatest number of people in the region as possible." &
by bill beggs jr.
Michael and Christine Kleckner had wedding photos taken May 10, 2014, outside the ever-popular Spencer’s Grill on Kirkwood Road. They have pictures of their son Teddy, now 8, trying to eat very large pancakes as a much younger boy. So, why not go in on buying the place for their 10th anniversary? When we talked to Michael, he didn’t say anything about an anniversary or a traditional gift. Of course, there’s plenty of aluminum and probably even some tin inside the venerable diner, which has been a roadside attraction along the old Route 66 since 1947. But he went in on purchasing Spencer’s, which had shuttered in June, with Michael and Meredith
Shadwick, experienced Kirkwood restaurateurs who already have two popular joints downtown, Honey Bee’s Biscuits + Good Eats on Kirkwood Road and Tropical Moose, a shaved-ice stand at the farmers market just north of the railroad tracks. A few blocks south of the tracks, Spencer’s is slated to reopen Nov. 1, and won’t be what some diners would have called a ‘greasy spoon.’ When we talked to Kleckner, the restaurant was undergoing a deep clean. As principal of the marketing firm Kleck—and writer of Mike’s Unforgettable St. Louis History and another volume for youngsters—he’s only flipped flapjacks at home, but it probably wouldn’t take him long to absorb the history of scrapple, a breakfast staple of the Pennsylvania Dutch. (Kleckner, although he’s standing in front of the Shadwicks in our photo, notes that he’s not the biggest deal in the business partnership.) When the restaurant opened 77 years ago, coffee reportedly was 5 cents and breakfast was $1. And the new owners hope that an expert may be able to resuscitate the clock on the familiar neon sign above the entry.
The first photo was taken on a school bus, in 2010, when the three boys were in seventh grade at Chaminade College Prep. Two of them were in a seat mostly blocking the head of the third behind them. The photo went viral because the two boys in front are now world-renowned athletes, both of whom made very big sports news this year: Matthew Tkachuk, on the left, is a forward who was instrumental in the Florida Panthers NHL team winning the Stanley Cup. Jayson Tatum, the boy with the big grin next to the window, is a 6’8” forward with this year’s NBA champs, the Boston Celtics, as well as the U.S. team that won the gold medal at the Paris Olympics. Both men, 26, have been friends since they wound up in the same gym class in sixth grade. But what about the kid partially obscured behind them? Jacob Bai, also 26, now lives in San Francisco and works in the finance industry, says Soby Bai, his dad, a retired mass communications professor at SLCC Florissant Valley. That goes a long way in explaining the second photo, taken before a recent Cardinals game at Busch Stadium for which Tkachuk and Tatum threw out simultaneous ceremonial first pitches. The Cards reunited the three high-school pals to reproduce the photo of them as successful men, flying Bai and his fiancée in for the photo op and the game—and, thankfully, not hiding as much of Bai’s head this time. His big grin isn’t as evident in press photos that ran in the StL’s esteemed metro daily and elsewhere as it is in pics that hit the cutting-room floor, one of them of Bai with Tatum’s maternal grandmother. “She was at every Chaminade game,” says Soby Bai. “Now she’s at every Celtics game!” For his part, the younger Bai was deeply grateful to hang with his hometown heroes/bona fide homeboys.
The building that used to be at 8213 Delmar Blvd. in U. City looked like it had been plucked out of Tuscany and dropped in U. City. As the original Pasta House, it had a certain Old-World charm. The tan stucco exterior had welcomed diners since the Carter administration. Alas, it was demolished for one of the metro’s newest Total Access Urgent Care locations, which was erected in a minute—since then it sat vacant, sign-less and has been awaiting its grand opening for who knows how many months. Then, one day in mid-August, we saw the TAUC signage had been installed on the Delmar-facing side of the building, with the group’s complete name along the Old Bonhomme side, and the formerly blank ground-level signs in the grass awaiting their interior fluorescent tubes and exterior TAUC logo panels. It’s now all installed, and the black plastic sheets inside all the building’s windows have been removed. As I shot photos from across the street, a nearby walker remarked, “It’s not open; it’s opening. COVID had a long tail.” When I called the administrative offices, a woman told me it would open in September—however, both the website and the map therein say it won’t be until 2025. (Remember, our great Civil War president Abraham Lincoln has been quoted as saying: “Don’t believe everything you read on the internet.”) Meanwhile, if you really need urgent care in U. City and environs, nearby TAUC locations include Overland, Richmond Heights and Creve Coeur. They’re open 365 days a year, but only from 8 a.m. until 8 p.m. So, don’t pet friendly looking dogs at any other time of day.
BILL
JOE SONDERMAN CAN TELL YOU WHAT HAPPENED to our Redbirds on Oct. 26, 1985. Can you?
What Grammy-winning musician is among recipients of the IPHF’s Lifetime Achievement Award? In 2017, country-music superstar Kenny Rogers received the International Photography Hall of Fame’s first Lifetime Achievement award. Rogers said, “I am an impulsive obsessive. I impulsively get involved with something, and then I get obsessed with it. So that’s what happened with photography.”
Joe Sonderman started collecting historical details in and around the Gateway City back when the St. Louis Globe-Democrat was still in print, running a daily ‘This Day in St. Louis History’ feature. “Next thing you know, I’ve got this big database,” Sonderman recalls, sitting for an interview in the vast food court of City Foundry before he was to start his 11 a.m.-3 p.m. shift at I Heart Radio upstairs. Now, about that ‘real’ job: Sonderman delivers traffic reports for the metro that run on the many StL stations under the I Heart Radio umbrella, such as KLOU (oldies), “The Bull” (country) and Z-107.7 (top pop hits). He also does traffic reports for Springfield, Missouri, and Des Moines, Iowa, from his swivel chair in the control room. “As I sit there, I can see traffic in any city,” Sonderman says. Plus, it’s safer than reporting from a helicopter. The data is valuable to radio and TV stations in those markets, as well as to drivers with in-vehicle navigation units, he says. In radio for four decades, “all up and down the dial,” he feels fortunate to have weathered the monumental changes in the industry. “I can’t believe I’ve held on in the middle of this sea of change,” he admits. Meanwhile Sonderman, a highway lover, has written several books about Route 66, ‘The Mother Road’ that snaked 2,500 miles from Chicago to L.A., focusing on its route through the city and state and the landmarks still standing, from bridges to restaurants to roadside attractions. (His beloved 1957 Chevy Bel-Air is still plenty roadworthy, but most of the time he keeps it safe in his garage in Hazelwood.) The last day of August marked the release of This Day in St. Louis History, his second volume focusing on the Lou, from the Lewis and Clark expedition and the 1904 St. Louis World’s Fair to the notorious Coral Court Motel and sports ‘trivia’—although to most everyone in Cardinals Nation, there’s nothing trivial about a major-league baseball team that’s won 19 National League pennants and 11 World Series titles. And he says it’s almost as though more has happened in the last two decades—his first Day in History book was published some 20 years ago—than all the notable occurrences before that over the 250-odd years in our fine settlement on the west bank of the Big Muddy. Sonderman focuses more on pop culture this time around, although the racial strife in Ferguson 10 years ago and other serious topics are not overlooked. He had his first book signing Aug. 31 at the Eugene Field House Museum, and several more are scheduled throughout the fall for his Reedy Press volume. “Authors have nightmares about sitting at a table for hour upon hour, but nobody shows up,” he laments. Visit ‘Vintage St Louis & Route 66’ on Facebook. And he’s nothing if not a completist when it comes to The Mother Road: With other aficionados, he keeps an online archive of historic Route 66 postcards and images at 66postcards.com. &
I CAN’T BELIEVE I’VE HELD ON IN THE MIDDLE OF THIS SEA OF CHANGE ...
Congrats to LoveLaunch!
Founded by Lia Glynias, the women-owned boutique was selected as the winner of the Pop Local program. The initiative was created by Edwards Realty Company to offer a local small business a storefront at The Boulevard and three months of free rent.
South Grand Fall and Music Fest is returning Sept. 21! The event will include live entertainment in Ritz Park, a D.IY. craft zone and 70 retail vendors, featuring handmade, boutique and vintage items. For more information, visit southgrand.org.
by patty hannum
St. Louis County Library Foundation’s Reading Garden Series for Young Audiences and The Novel Neighbor are partnering for a night of fun stories for middle grade readers. On Sept. 10, the Clark Family Branch will host three popular authors: James Ponti, author of the Framed! series and The Sherlock Society; Natalie Lloyd, whose works include A Snicker of Magic and The Witching Wind; and Soman Chainani, who penned the wildly popular The School for Good & Evil series.
SHOP FOR GOOD
It’s time once again to support local businesses and help local kids! Purchase a Glennon Card at select participating retailers or at glennoncard.org to receive a 20% discount at select retailers and restaurants from Oct. 18 through 27. The best part? All card sales go toward supporting the patients and families at SSM Health Cardinal Glennon Children’s Hospital. Look for exclusive coverage of the Glennon Card in upcoming T&S issues: Sept. 18 and Oct. 2 and 16.
THE ST. LOUIS KAPLAN FELDMAN HOLOCAUST MUSEUM has issued a call for the names of Holocaust survivors who settled in St. Louis after the war. Currently, it has identified more than 900 St. Louis area survivors. Newly collected names will be added to the St. Louis Survivors Gallery. If you have an individual you’d like to submit for consideration, fill out a survey at stlholocaustmuseum.org.
SO, WHICH ONE OF YOU THOUGHT it would be funny to have assisted living and retirement homes start to mail me marketing materials? In the last issue, I discussed my need to make some decisions about Medicare. It is like a tsunami has been let loose. I am not there yet—but I have to tell you, some of these places look pretty darn nice. With meals from a menu each night and happy hours with a two-drink minimum where you can invite friends, I might have found my next home—but not yet. So, whoever is doing this, give me another 10 years before we talk. OK?
I finally crossed off my bucket list something it seems every St. Louisan does in the summer. We went to Michigan. Admittedly, we were right over the Indiana border in New Buffalo, but we did it! We picked up Tess from Chicago, and one and half hours later, we were there to enjoy Pure Michigan. It was a beautiful little town, but it seemed familiar like I had been there before. Main Street with all of the shops featuring tee shirts, snow
globes and other stuff I did not need. But a former merchandiser from Ralph Lauren had three shops that were a little different so those were fun. Then Tess wanted to search for antiques. I would rather watch paint dry, but since I convinced her to join us, I had no choice as we hunted through piles of stuff that someone else did not want—I wanted protective gloves. We did find a few attention grabbers like the video game that Carey played in college, some glassware that was just waiting to be knocked over by my purse and other tchotchkes.
The highlight was some strange ice cream cone that was layered with about five flavors all teetering on top of each other. Both Tess and Carey were happy to indulge. I stuck to a hot fudge sundae. Wearing a white shirt was a mistake.
If any of this sounds familiar and you get the magazine Coastal Living, I stole every single idea out of it, including where to stay. I felt if it made it into print, it must be right. (Hmm, I wonder if everything I write must be right.) Tess dropped
us off at the airport just as everyone was headed into Chicago for the DNC. Security was tight, but we were heading to St. Louis so no big deal. Just a mess for Tess!
So, at what age do you stop vacationing with your children? I think Tess had a good time. We managed to find a store with great clothing that all ended up on my charge, but her birthday is in two weeks so I figured I was really helping myself out. Back to the question though. Do you ever stop vacationing with your kids, and when do they start paying their own way? Wait, is this one of those things I should have stopped doing years ago? Is my 27-year-old spoiled? Have I ruined her for life, or do I just wait until I cannot or do not want to pay? We have a spa trip coming up, lots of yoga and chanting … oh and something called a sound bath. I want to go and suspect Tess would beg off if I told her to pay half. So that is the answer. You pay when you want them there. Problem solved! Writing can be so therapeutic! &
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I struggled with anxiety going to school. A few times, I even ran out crying, overwhelmed by unfounded fears. Thankfully, my parents were incredibly patient and helped me through it. Fast forward 30 years, I’ve noticed my kids experiencing some uncharacteristic back-to-school anxiety— stomachaches for no reason, the nerves, the unsettling feelings.
Nearly 20% of elementary school kids and 25% of middle and high school students suffer from anxiety—figures that have risen significantly over the years. I’m sure it has something to do with the added pressures technology has placed on them.
Technology is causing kids to grow up too fast. Beyond the usual pressures of friends, schoolwork and activities, they now face the omnipresence of social media. This includes fear of missing out, the need to present a certain image, the risk of ridicule and exposure to inappropriate things. According to the National Library of Medicine, social media sites trigger psychological stress responses in kids. So how can we help our kids, little and big, navigate social pressures and life stresses? Here are a few things I’ve been thinking:
➽ Help your kids develop meaningful connections. There’s nothing worse than having a lot of “friends” but feeling alone. As my grandma often said, if you can count your true friends on one hand, you’re lucky. Creating environments without cell phones where kids can genuinely bond is crucial.
➽ Limit screen time. The average teenager spends six to 10 hours a day on their phones—it’s insanity. You might want to consider getting your kids a light phone, one that can be used for calls, texts and directions but not for scrolling the internet or social media. If you want to try one, head to thelightphone.com.
➽ Family dinners are a powerful tool. They can address many issues, and research shows they help with anxiety. Just a reminder for myself of their importance.
➽ Nightly walks with kids and parents are invaluable. There’s something about walking individually with each child that makes conversations flow more easily. It’s beneficial for your body and brain and strengthens your relationship.
➽ Healthy sleep and eating habits are huge in helping kids manage anxiety. Take cellphones away at least an hour before bed. Your kids will sleep more soundly. We ordered old fashioned alarm clocks and C.D. players for our kids’ bedrooms. (My kids think I’m nuts, but I don’t care!)
➽ Preparing ahead is key. This year, I’m making it a priority to help my kids get everything ready the night before school. It makes me a more patient parent in the morning and reduces anxiety for all of us. It’s challenging with busy evenings, but it’s become essential in our house. Everyone heads to school happier when we’re not scrambling for things at the last minute.
Many of us are navigating the same issues, and I hope these thoughts help. Parenting is not easy but so worth it.
Katelyn
by stephanie wallace
, giving back to the community has always been a priority—whether it’s baking brownies for the local fire department or raising funds for kids in need. The Cor Jesu senior is a member of the Glennon Guild Junior Board—an organization dedicated to supporting the families of SSM Health Cardinal Glennon Children’s Hospital. The organization named Fritz the first recipient of its Young Philanthropist Award.
Why did you get involved with the Glennon Guild Junior Board?
I learned about the board through school when I was looking for volunteer opportunities. When I was in eighth grade, one of my friends was diagnosed with cancer. Since that happened, I’ve wanted to go into the medical field and help advance research to find cures. My friend received treatment at SSM Health Cardinal Glennon, and I know it’s a very sweet environment for its young patients. Those things made me want to get involved.
What work have you done with the board?
My goal was to find ways to advance the fundraising process, so we could raise as much money for the hospital as possible. Working with schools, the board organized a fall coat drive as well as a spring drive. I decided to also do a cross pocket fundraiser—it’s an invention of my grandmother’s that includes a cross between two pieces of fabric. I packaged them with prayer sheets and chocolate kisses to sell at school. I was able to raise more than $2,100. Right now, I’m working on arranging something with the St. Louis Blues for this year. I’ve been in contact with their head of fundraising, and we’ve discussed doing a ticket fundraiser for the hospital.
How does it feel to receive the first Young Philanthropist Award?
It’s been an amazing experience to feel like I’m making a difference in the community. Ever since I was little, I wanted to be able to help others. It feels great to be recognized for the work I’ve done, even though accolades are not the reason I’ve chosen to do this. I want to provide the children in the hospital with the resources they need—the award is just an added bonus.
With the school year starting, is there anything you are looking forward to?
I’m really looking forward to senior-year privileges and spending time with my classmates. I’ve made a lot of great connections and friendships throughout my time at Cor Jesu. I’m just excited to graduate and go on to bigger and better things.
What do you enjoy doing in your free time?
I’ve been dancing since I was 2 years old. It’s a huge part of my life. Dance is magical. You can express your emotions through movement. I dance competitively for Studio C and the Cor Jesu dance team, which started last year. This year, I’m serving as co-captain for the school team. &
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museum has actively engaged children of all ages in their education through hands-on exhibits and activities that pique curiosity, enhance creativity and develop problem-solving skills.
“So much of what The Magic House offers is about engaging children through their creativity,” Stephanie Lee notes. “Whether it’s allowing kids to experience their favorite PBS Kids shows in person or using hands-on activities to spark interest in STEM subjects, the museum recognizes the important role play has in learning.” Lee and her husband have been long-time supporters of the museum. As a former school teacher, she recognizes the critical need for The Magic House’s programming, and as a mother, she loves how much her children enjoy learning through its permanent and special exhibits.
Lee notes that one of her family’s favorite attractions is the recently added Story Time Magic. Designed to enrich literacy, the 5,000-square foot exhibit invites guests to step into the world of their favorite stories and engage with reading and language. Children can explore the homes of Winnie the Pooh and Peter Rabbit or bring books to life at the Story Time Theater. “My daughter loves the stage and dress up area where she can recreate stories she’s read,” Lee says. “The Magic House created a space where kids can use their imaginations to connect with stories in meaningful and memorable ways.”
The Magic House maintains its operations through fundraising and donations, and the nonprofit’s largest annual fundraiser is its gala, The Magic Ball. This year, Once Upon a Time at The Magic Ball is Oct. 4 at Stifel Theatre. Guests can look forward to a storybook evening, featuring a cocktail hour, seated dinner, live auction and the happily ever after-party. “We want to share the magic stories have in childhood in a fun adult way—you’ll feel like you’re in a fairy tale,” Lee explains. “Without the gala and the support of the community, The Magic House wouldn’t be able to do the work it does or reach so many children and families.”
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The gala directly benefits the museum’s Access for All initiative, which provides free or reduced admission, field trips, outreach programs and family nights for children in need, including Title I schools and military and foster families. Recently, the program partnered with the St. Louis Public Library to begin offering free passes to visit MADE for Kids, a 7,000-square-foot makerspace operated by the museum in the Academy-Sherman Park neighborhood. “Access for All reaches more than 88,000 children each year, allowing them to benefit from hands-on learning and play,” Lee says. “The Magic House is so much more than just a museum, it’s a place for children of all shapes, sizes and abilities to grow and thrive.”
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Save the date! Under the auspices of the Great Forest Park Balloon Race on Sept. 20, HSMO’s Glow in the Park offers private entry, valet parking, dinner, cocktails and VIP views. 1201 Macklind Ave. 314.951.1501 hsmo.org/glow-in-the-park
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Run for a future deserved. The Sun Run, a not-to-be-missed event, will take Forest Park by storm Oct. 13. It promises more miles and more fun for runners and non-runners of all ages! The Sun Run supports the world-class pediatric health care provided to more than 200,000 children each year at SSM Health Cardinal Glennon. Forest Park Festival and Parking Plaza 314.577.5605 glennon.org/sunrun
Mosaics Fine Art Festival’s 29th annual event will feature quality artwork by more than 100 juried artists. Highlights include live music plus hands-on art experiences for children.
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The Haven of Grace fills a need in the community to help women who are pregnant and homeless. They provide a place to live, educational programs, and long-term support to break the chain of generational poverty. Guests enjoyed “Momosas” and wine, lunch, a silent auction and musical entertainment. The Outstanding Philanthropists Award was presented to Stacy and Robert Cockerham.
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The fun-filled evening invited guests to don their best Kentucky Derby-inspired attire, including contests for best dressed and best hat. Guests also enjoyed appetizers, beer, wine, mint julep mocktails, games and the opportunity to watch the race on the big screen. guests: President and CEO Michelle Tucker, board chair Roman Wuller
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FALL IS JUST AROUND THE CORNER. It’s a season of excitement and beauty—from the colorful foliage and crisp weather to pumpkin spice everything and seasonal fashions like cozy sweaters and stylish coats. Things at West County Center are promising to be just as dynamic this autumn. Thanks to unique stores and dining options, there’s a lot to fall for at the Des Peres shopping center.
One of the best things about fall is getting outside and enjoying the beauty of the natural world. West County Center has you covered for all of your autumn adventures thanks to Gearhead Outfitters. Originally founded in Jonesboro, Arkansas, as a bikeshop, the store has grown to be a nationwide destination known for offering a wide variety of outdoor and active brands. “Our selection is unique to us,” store manager Matthew Miller notes. “Everyone adventures differently, but you can find travel supplies, outdoor equipment, accessories, clothing and shoes. It really is a one-stop shop, and our staff is here to help you navigate all of the options.” Gearhead Outfitters’ selection includes Hoka, Patagonia, Yeti, Free People Movement, Vuori, On Running, Cotopaxi and more.
The store’s West County Center location is its only one in the St. Louis region. Miller notes that it has been a natural fit for the brand. Gearhead Outfitters is dedicated to building strong relationships within the communities it calls home, and the shopping center has provided ample opportunities to connect with St. Louis. “Working at West County Center has been an amazing experience,” he says. “Our mission is to be a retailer the community loves and can count on. This location brings together so many people from across the region, and we’ve gotten to connect with local nonprofits and organizations. It’s a wonderful environment.”
Gearhead Outfitters is just one of the unique shopping experiences offered at West County Center. The shopping center is home to a variety of St. Louis-exclusive retailers. These include offerings for fashionistas like Brighton Collectibles, Camille la Vie, Offline by Aerie, Soma and Tradehome Shoes. You also can find unique experiences for kids—and kids at heart—like LEGO and Sweet & Sassy. For those looking for something delicious, there is J. Gilbert’s, California Pizza Kitchen, Jamba Juice and Lolli & Pops. This fall, the shopping center will welcome Garage. The Montreal-based retailer is best known for its fashion-forward everyday basics.
More exciting changes are on the horizon this autumn at West County Center. Popeyes will be serving up its famous fried chicken in the food court. If you’re looking for something different, don’t miss the now open Miniso. Inspired by Japanese specialty stores, the company offers a wide variety of affordable, well designed products, ranging from tech to home goods to fashion. “When you visit West County Center, you’re not getting the typical mall experience,” senior marketing director Sean Phillips notes. “It’s a unique place to shop, and you can find stores and brands that aren’t available elsewhere in St. Louis. We hope people will come out and see what we have to offer.” &
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Injectable fillers are the second most common form of noninvasive cosmetic treatment. They are used to treat fine lines and add volume, including plumping the lips.
According to a 2023 National Center for Biotechnology Information survey, 20.1% of respondents age 18 to 29, 38.4% of respondents age 30 to 39 and 45.2% of respondents age 40 to 49 used fillers. Last year, there were 5,967,513 filler procedures, according to the American Society of Plastic Surgeons. The vast majority of those were hyaluronic acid.
The continued use of filler can have side effects, especially when overdone or poorly placed. Facial muscles can be hindered and lymphatic channels can become swollen. Lymph vessels carry waste products, germs and damaged cells away from the body’s tissues, and muscle contractions keep them flowing. When they’re blocked, it can lead to a puffy appearance. Filler also integrates with body tissue overtime, which is not a concern in small quantities. However, repeated injections can stretch soft tissues and
lead to a bulky or distended appearance in areas like the mouth.
When improperly injected, fillers also can migrate, meaning they end up moving from the intended injection site. It is commonly seen around the lips where volume moves from the red body to the surrounding area, creating an uneven lip line or a bumpy appearance. Filler can migrate elsewhere in the face as well, but it is typically less visually obvious. Migration is most commonly caused by overfilling or injection at the wrong depth. If filler is injected in an area of high muscle activity, repeated movement causes it to migrate to the surface of the skin.
Another major concern to emerge with fillers is whether they actually dissolve on their own. In the case of hyaluronic acid fillers, they do eventually do so. Hyaluronic acid occurs naturally in the body, and a class of enzymes known as hyaluronidase breaks it down. However, the process can take
years, and even then, there will be residual filler left behind. There also has not been much formal research into how filler breaks down or changes over time. A medical professional can use an injection of synthetic hyaluronidase to dissolve hyaluronic acid fillers. Other types of fillers can not be dissolved by hyaluronidase, although they do break down on their own to an extent.
When it comes to dermal fillers, most concerns can be addressed by working with the right provider. Do your homework and pick a qualified professional. It’s also important not to feel pressured to get overfilled, either with several injections in one appointment or with getting touch-ups done too often. Most experts will tell you that less is more when creating results that enhance your appearance and work with your features.
BY STEPHANIE WALLACE
Beauty follows trends, and that includes what is popular in invasive and noninvasive cosmetic treatments. In recent years, there has been a surge in popularity of injectables, such as soft tissue fillers and neuromodulators, across all age demographics. However, 2024 has seen a reevaluation of these treatments—from celebrities openly dissolving dermal filler to online horror stories about injections gone wrong. We’re looking at why more people are opting to put down the needle.
Botox is the most popular noninvasive cosmetic procedure in the U.S. According to the American Society of Plastic Surgeons, there were more than 8,911,511 neuromodulator injections performed in 2023—a 73% increase from 2019. It is a very common injectable option to treat dynamic wrinkles, those formed by repeated facial movements. It uses various forms of botulinum toxin to temporarily paralyze or relax muscle activity. It also can smooth out existing wrinkles. While it remains most popular among 30- to 50-year-olds, there has been some change in demographics for the procedure in recent years.
Since 2010, Botox injections have increased 28% for patients between the ages of 20 to 29, according to the American Society of Plastic Surgeons. Experts speculate that this increase may have been for a variety of reasons, including the rise of social media and the transition to remote work that came with the pandemic—both of which have created a tendency for young adults to hyperfocus
on their appearance. For younger patients, the idea is to use neuromodulators as a preventative treatment—if you paralyze facial muscles before wrinkles are evident, then they will not have the chance to form. This is often known as ‘preventive Botox’ or ‘baby Botox.’
While preventive Botox has risen in popularity, its actual effectiveness is unknown. While the procedure does make sense in theory, there is no concrete evidence to support it. Botox also is temporary. It will only paralyze your facial muscles for a period of around three to six months. Afterwards, your face will go back to normal. Preventative botox often uses lower doses so patients don’t have to worry about their facial expressions appearing frozen, so the efficacy may be for a shorter period. While some experts believe that repeated injections can train your facial muscles to react less, that also is currently a theory that requires further research.
Preventive Botox’s possible ineffectiveness is not the only potential downside. It also may prematurely age patients who receive the treatment too often. As we age, our facial muscles naturally weaken over time, and repeated injections in the same area of the face can have a similar impact. Experts also note that regular use of neuromodulator injections can change how facial expressions are made. If certain muscles are regularly paralyzed, your face may recruit different muscle groups to make expressions, developing wrinkles in other parts of the face and creating new problem areas.
To avoid premature aging, consult with a trusted provider who can ensure the treatment can be tailored to your individual needs. Remember to approach Botox and other procedures conservatively. Most negative side effects occur from overuse. When used correctly, it is an effective way to reduce the apperance of fine lines.
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The chance to build a custom home is a dream for many. That’s what makes 4 Apple Tree Lane such a rare opportunity. Located in the heart of Ladue, it offers potential homeowners the chance to put their personal stamp on the property and turn the house into a home—while enjoying all of the benefits of new construction like less maintenance and reduced heating and cooling costs. Listing agent Aimee Simpson is offering insight into what makes this Slavin Homes project a can’t miss.
What are the benefits of the home’s location?
Follow a scenic pea gravel path lined with apple trees to reach this gently rolling 1.8-acre property in a premier Ladue location. Just minutes from Clayton and conveniently close to schools, country clubs and shopping, this setting is truly unparalleled.
What do we know about the features of the home?
Plans are available for a luxurious chic custom home with approximately 6,900-plus square feet of living space, featuring four-plus bedrooms and four full and two half baths with painted brick and Valder stone surround and sills. Highlights include a grand front courtyard with a masonry fireplace, a stunning main floor primary suite, a 29-foot-by-18-foot outdoor room, a four-car garage and a gorgeous setting with optional plans that could include a pool, pool house and even a pickleball court.
Why should buyers consider new construction?
New construction offers buyers the opportunity to customize their home to fit their family’s needs and wants. It’s a blank canvas. This project allows buyers to be involved from the very beginning. They can choose flooring, appliances, countertops, paint colors—whatever they wish and truly make it their own.
What makes a Slavin Homes property stand out?
The attention to detail in every Slavin Home is unmatched, with no equal in the luxury market. Bobby Slavin is the best in the business, personally overseeing every step to ensure that even the smallest detail is never overlooked. &
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With deep knowledge of St. Louis and its diverse neighborhoods, Aimee expertly navigates the local market to find the perfect community that aligns with your lifestyle and needs. Whether you seek the charm of historic districts, or the tranquility of suburban enclaves, Aimee’s insight ensures you’ll discover the ideal St. Louis location to call home.
While it may still be warm in the StL, autumn is fast approaching, and with it will come brisker temperatures, falling leaves and, eventually, the transition to more severe winter weather. Taking on a few home maintenance projects now can help protect from issues later, so you can enjoy a worry-free fall and winter.
Keep your pipes from bursting. Drain and disconnect all garden hoses to prevent any water freezing. Close off shut-off valves for outdoor faucets and drain the line. If you don’t have a shut-off valve or freeze-proof faucets, you can purchase styrofoam covers to protect them when temps drop below freezing. Also make sure you drain and prep any in-ground irrigation systems.
Your fireplace should be inspected annually. Check the flue for creosote, a flammable by-product of burning wood. If you have a wood stove, you should also check it for buildup. You can look for it by shining a flashlight up the flue. If there are deposits, have them removed by a professional. Also check if the chimney has any blockages, and test that the damper opens and closes properly.
Winter means dry air that can irritate your skin and airways. Now is the time to check that your humidifier is ready to keep your home more comfortable. When your furnace is inspected, your HVAC specialist will likely look at your humidifier if you have a whole house unit, but there are still steps you can take to ensure it works all winter. Inspect the plates and pads. If necessary, you can clean them using laundry detergent and scraping off mineral deposits with a wire brush or steel wool.
Protect your lawn so it’s ready for spring with a few simple projects. Aerate your lawn and rake leaves. This will help ensure your grass and garden beds do not suffocate. Fertilize grass, trees and shrubs to ensure they are properly nourished during the winter. Taking these steps not only ensures your lawn will survive the colder weather, but they also help it turn green faster once spring rolls around.
Schedule an appointment to have your heating system inspected in early fall. Note any unusual occurrences you may need to discuss with a HVAC professional, including screeches or whines and erratic performance. Also make sure to change or clean your furnace’s filter; this should be done around once a month.
Your gutters do a lot to protect your home diverting thousands of gallons of water each year. If your roof’s drainage system is clogged, it can lead to damage to the exterior or even flooding in the basement. Plus when gutters are clogged, they are more likely to rust and corrode. Clean out your gutters and apply guards to ensure they don’t fill up with leaves this fall.
According to the U.S. Department of Energy, heat loss through windows accounts for around 30% of all heating energy use. Cut down on heating costs this winter by weatherstipping your windows—even if they are in good condition, this will improve energy efficiency. If a larger fix is needed, consider replacing windows. Check for missing or damaged caulk around windows, doors and entry points for utilities, and seal any gaps.
Test your smoke and carbon monoxide detectors, and replace the batteries in each. You also can clean these devices by vacuuming them with a soft brush attachment. If you don’t have a smoke detector on every floor of your home, including the basement, take the time to install one.
In the ever-evolving world of interior design, one style has emerged to captivate the hearts of homeowners and designers alike: Modern Glam. With its luxurious undertones and sleek lines, it brings an air of elegance and refinement to any space it graces.
1. LUXE MATERIALS
At the heart of Modern Glam design lies the use of sumptuous materials that exude opulence. Think plush velvet upholstery, rich marble surfaces, gleaming mirrored accents and polished metals like brass and gold. These elements not only elevate the visual appeal of the space but also create a tactile experience of luxury and indulgence.
2. NEUTRAL PALETTE WITH BOLD POPS
Modern Glam's neutral color palette serves as a canvas for bold, statement-making accents. Soft whites, grays and beige shades set the foundation, allowing pieces like vibrant jewel-toned throw pillows, artwork or a striking piece of furniture to take center stage.
3. CLEAN LINES AND STREAMLINED SILHOUETTES
Modern Glam design celebrates clean, sleek lines and streamlined silhouettes. Furniture pieces boast simplicity in their forms, free of excessive ornamentation. The focus here is on functional beauty—a statement through elegant structure and impeccable craftsmanship.
4. LAVISH LIGHTING
Lighting plays a pivotal role in Modern Glam interiors. Crystal chandeliers, cascading pendant lights and sculptural floor lamps not only illuminate the space but also serve as captivating art pieces.
5. MIRRORS FOR ILLUSION AND DEPTH
Large, ornate mirrors not only reflect light but also serve as exquisite decorative elements. They enhance the glamor of the space while making it feel more expansive and inviting.
6. TEXTURAL DIVERSITY
A successful Modern Glam interior design hinges on the interplay of textures. The combination of smooth and soft materials with more tactile surfaces creates a harmonious sensory experience. Layering textures, such as a plush rug against a sleek marble floor, or a velvet sofa paired with metallic side tables, adds depth and visual intrigue.
7. THOUGHTFUL ACCENTS & ACCESSORIES
Less is more when it comes to accessories. Hand-picked and carefully curated decorative elements, such as sculptures, art pieces, and carefully placed vases, enhance the overall ambiance without overwhelming the space.
8. POPS OF BLACK
Black, when used thoughtfully, adds a touch of drama and contrast, intensifying the luxurious atmosphere of the space. Black accents can be introduced through furniture, or alternatively, they can manifest through bold decorative elements.
Are buyers paying commission? We have found that sellers are continuing to pay their listing agent as well as offering compensation for the buyer’s agent. They fear the negative impact on their property would be far more significant than the 2-3% offered to the buyer’s agent. Sellers understand the big picture and they will be buyers themselves once they sell their home.
Does a buyer pay a little more for a home when 100% of the commission is recorded as a seller expense? Possibly and that is how it has been done for over 70 years. Structuring a home purchase this way allows the commission to be built into the buyer’s financing. Buyers typically don’t have the “Cash” to pay their agent as all their funds are allocated to the down payment, moving, closing costs and planned improvements. Adding another 2-3% to their budget is not feasible, especially since lenders won’t include this cost in the mortgage.
What if a seller does not offer compensation for the buyer’s agent? Will the buyer pay an additional 2-3% on top of the current market value of a home? Not likely. The current market value is based on comparable sales within 1 mile and all of those include commission being paid by the seller so no, it is not reasonable to think a buyer will start paying 2-3% more. It is more likely that the buyer will offer less for the property in order to cover the cost for their agent.
With all of these calculations at 2-3%, such a small percentage price makes it hard to quantify whether the buyer is paying more or the seller is getting less. It’s just not the number that moves the needle significantly in either direction.
If you are ready to buy or sell and want professional guidance on how to navigate the current market, contact us today!
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