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FEBRUARY 5, 2025 | FRONT

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make-a-wish missouri & kansas

The nonprofit partnered with Lou Fusz Subaru, Dean Team Subaru and Sunset Hills Subaru to bring the magic of Nintendo’s Super Mario to a local Wish Kid. Aleks participated in a special Mario-themed scavenger hunt to learn that her wish of visiting Super Nintendo World and Disneyland was coming true.

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Congratulations to coach Roberta McWoods! She was named Coach of the Year for Class 5 Boys Track and Field by the Missouri Track Coaches Cross Country Association. Additionally, McWoods was recognized for leading both the Boys and Girls Suburban Yellow Conference.

historic sappington house

Reconstruction has begun on the 209-year-old Joseph Sappington Log House. The house was built in 1816 and is one of the oldest surviving log structures in St. Louis County. It was rescued from destruction in Affton two years ago and is now being rebuilt in Historic Sappington Park.

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Clayton is now home to a unique darts club. The space is designed to charm guests with the atmosphere of a Victorian-era British pub. This is Flight Club’s eighth North American location.

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THE HAVEN OF GRACE by stephanie wallace

PARENTING IS A CHALLENGE in the best of circumstances, but housing insecurity can make it feel close to impossible. The Haven of Grace is dedicated to helping young pregnant women who are facing homelessness find security and independence. For more than three decades, the nonprofit has been firmly rooted in the St. Louis community. Founded by St. Peter’s Episcopal Church in Ladue, it offers shelter and other critical services to new families so they can enjoy promising futures.

“In Missouri, the incidence of both infant and maternal mortality rates have increased,” president and CEO Patricia Bosman notes. “We’re also seeing an increase in homelessness, and the impact on the unhoused population is even greater. Imagine being young, unemployed and undereducated while facing those odds.” The Haven of Grace’s maternity shelter provides services for one year to women with children under the age of 5, and transitional housing offers support for two additional years. Along with housing, families receive assistance with financial literacy, behavioral and therapeutic counseling, education and employment readiness, and the Aftercare Program works with the family for up to 10 years to avoid homelessness reoccurrence.

By helping unhoused pregnant people, The Haven of Grace aims to disrupt the cycle of generational poverty so that their children can look forward to a brighter future. The population the nonprofit serves is 180% below the poverty line, and the majority of the mothers were born into poverty themselves. Through Project Inspire, the organization is helping provide the children with access to educational resources and more. “For kids between the ages of 4 and 7, we have a program that introduces them to various STEAM subjects and careers, through field trips and engaging activities,” Bosman says. “When kids are that age, they’re like sponges, soaking up information. We want to help them see what they can achieve.”

The Haven of Grace also has partnered with the Green Beret Youth Initiative to bring programming to its campus. The initiative connects youth between the ages of 8 and 14 with current and retired Green Berets to build reliance and leadership skills. For babies and younger children, The Haven of Grace is dedicated to helping build early literacy. The nonprofit also is home to a chapter of Divine Daughters, an organization designed to empower women. “This is one of the most important ways we support mothers in uncovering their potential,” Bosman explains. “Divine Daughters helps them build strong families while developing an understanding of career readiness and what a middle class life looks like.”

To make its programs possible, The Haven of Grace relies on grants and donations. The nonprofit’s largest annual fundraiser is A MOMentous Luncheon. This year’s event is May 7 at the Missouri Athletic Club, and it will be a celebration of motherhood. “Without the support of the community, we could not provide any of our services,” Bosman says. “Over the years, participation in the luncheon continues to grow, and the dedication we’ve seen from individuals, corporations and foundations is so important for The Haven of Grace. It allows us to remain committed to serving women in need throughout the community.” &

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The Savannah Bananas, a barnstorming baseball team with a ‘dad-bod’ squad of male cheerleaders, storms our beloved stadium April 4 and 5. The performances—um, games—are both sold out, so unless you know someone who knows someone, your chances of getting in are slim. Although it’s too early to be certain, the games will likely be televised. But who are these Savannah Bananas, anyhow? Based in Savannah, Georgia, they’re what some would call a novelty act or maybe even circus performers; they play a wacky version of baseball similar to what the Harlem Globetrotters do for basketball. In banana ball, for instance, whenever a fan catches a foul, the batter is out! Plus, anyone attempting a bunt will be ejected, a batter can steal first base, and nobody gets awarded a walk, ever. Sometimes, it’s because the pitcher is way up on stilts. Or he pitches from a trampoline atop the mound, and may release a pitch after doing a flip or another trick. It’s all in goofy fun, and the team(s) are made up mainly of current or former college players, sprinkled with one-time MLB vets, as well. Teams, plural? Well, they have to have opponents who can go bananas, too. The Party Animals will be the opponents at Busch. And they could even win. When it comes to the cheerleading squad, the Man-Nanas, the squad holds open tryouts from time to time, the next being April 4 in Savannah, before everyone gets on a plane for the StL. So, there may yet be hope as an athlete for your intrepid correspondent—he hasn’t hit much of anything with a bat since 1971—as a Man-Nana. As an adult, I did manage once to smack a few softballs in a batting cage. Softballs, which were lobbed at me. Literally. They leisurely arrived at 30 mph, probably even slower. (For more on the wacky antics of banana ball, spend some time on thesavannahbananas.com.)

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Running through May, a PSA campaign aims to reduce the stigma of seeking mental health care among Black youth in St. Louis City and County. “Perception Isn’t Always Reality: Mental Health” is being led by 10 Black youth aged 16 to 24 and 10 adult artists/mentors of color. Working together, the youth and adults have been collaborating with health experts, community residents and marketing, media and communications professionals by conducting research, developing music and writing the PSAs. The resulting fact-based, peer-to-peer messaging targets a wide audience through billboards and public transportation print ads in North St. Louis City and County, as well as social media and radio ads throughout the greater metro. Mental-health experts say youth are viewed as trusted messengers who can help drive regional change in knowledge and attitudes on mental illness and accessing mental health care. The campaign was scheduled to be most active through the winter holidays, when many youth suffer from seasonal affective disorder and loneliness. The project has been spearheaded by St. Louis Story Stitchers, an artist collective based in Grand Center Arts District.

International Holocaust Remembrance Day was Jan. 27, commemorating the day in 1945 that the Soviet Army liberated Auschwitz. It was only then that the Allies got a glimpse of the horrors perpetrated there, in Nazi-occupied Poland, which soon made the world aware of the systematic murder of 6 million Jews. The Germans exterminated men, women, children, babies, grandparents, shopkeepers, homemakers, lawyers, doctors, artists and composers. The true nature of the Holocaust was discovered only 80 years ago, just a blink of an eye in human history. Most survivors, who were just children then, are elderly men and women today. But the reminiscences of many who have passed on are in the collection of the St. Louis Kaplan Feldman Holocaust Museum in Creve Coeur. “May Their Memory Be a Blessing” is the program to be presented at the museum on March 13 from 6 to 7:30 p.m. by the Chamber Project St. Louis. The works of two composers who were murdered by the Nazis, Hans Krása and Gideon Klein, will be featured during the first half of the program. Krása was killed Oct. 17, 1944. He was 44. Klein was only 25 when the Nazis murdered him in January 1945. Both men wrote music while imprisoned, despite the inhumane conditions. String trios by Krása and Kline will be performed during the first half of the concert. In between, the musicians will play a new work from young composer Benjamin Rouder processing recent events inextricably linked to the past. Following intermission, the musicians will explore the museum’s special exhibit, “The Artist Who Captured Eichmann” through the music of Argentina-born composer Osvaldo Golijov. The concert closes with familiar old tunes from the classical and klezmer repertoires. At this writing, it was not clear when tickets might be available. Please visit chamberprojectstl.org.

When did Kirkwood’s Nikki Glaser graduate from KHS? From what institution did she get her college degree, and in what discipline did she get it? Nikki Glaser graduated from KHS in 2002. Her B.A., from University of Kansas, is in English Literature.

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The Cherry Garage, at 2926-2936 Locust St., isn’t intended to restore the StL’s ‘automotive row’ to its former glory. But the new business will go a long way toward raising the neighborhood’s profile as a burgeoning new automotive destination, if co-owner Keaton Christensen has anything to say about it. Maybe someone could call it Automotive Row 2.0. “We don’t do any body work,” Christensen says. “What we do is make your car fast and cool.” (In a word, “cherry.”) His co-owner, and lifelong friend, is Jacob Case. They have to deal with calls originating from Google searches asking about transmission work and whatnot, because their particular type of business—a speed shop or custom shop—isn’t specified on the search engine. Their focus, for now, is getting the garage ready for a grand opening this spring. That means it’s busy as a beehive. “I try to take Sundays off,” he admits, with a big grin. The up-and-coming neighborhood vibe has really accelerated, thanks to our newish MLS soccer stadium just a few blocks away. The sales location of Bimmers R Us, an automotive concern dedicated to BMWs and Minis, is a stone’s throw away on Lasalle Street. After touring the work and storage areas, we sat down at one of the tables in front that will be part of the café intended to open to the public simultaneously with the garage. The floor is the original hexagonal white tile common a century ago, with groupings of blue tiles at regular intervals of a few feet. A lot of the work in this section was in exposing the brick walls. It creates a special atmosphere,

and doesn’t have that faint, but pleasant, automotive aroma when Cherry Garage brews java for one of its Cars & Coffee get-togethers. “You feel like you’re sitting outside in Europe,” says Christensen. The generous front area has been set up for university receptions, a wedding and even a baby shower. Christensen is a certifiable gearhead with an affinity for all makes and models of any vintage, but has a special love for 1980s and ’90s ‘rides.’ Because they’re “simple, nimble and lightweight.” Asian vehicles are closest to his heart. “They’re malleable… and cute!” He has three: He regularly drives a 2003 Subaru WRX; a bright-red, high-performance 1989 Mitsubishi Starion and a bright-yellow 1986 Toyota MR2 are at the garage. Case and Christensen operate like two sides of the same brain, which they sharpened in a special engineering program at WashU: One finished as an electrical engineer, the other a mechanical engineer. But first, dear reader, Christensen went to Metro High School in the city, which has been named the best public high school in the state. For him, transforming autos from just four wheels and an engine into something remarkable is a complete joy. “It’s all about being unique,” he says. “Why not show your personality through your vehicle?” And a variety of personalities is rarely more evident than during a car show at the Cherry Garage. Car buffs come from far and wide, some even from overseas, he says: “These are niche cars you don’t see on the street.” And there’s coffee. See what else is rolling at thecherrygarage.weebly.com. &

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has received a grant from the National Parks Service for $99,920 as part of its place on the National Underground Railroad Network to Freedom. Garden founder Henry Shaw owned an unknown number of enslaved people from 1828 until around 1860. New interpretation will provide information to visitors through programs, panels, exhibits and digital engagement. This program is part of the garden’s efforts to raise awareness about the stories of enslaved people and their connection to Shaw and the St. Louis community.

Antiques Roadshow

is coming to the StL! As part of its 30th anniversary tour, the beloved PBS series will stop in St. Louis on May 13. Admission to the event is free, but tickets are required. Guests with tickets are invited to bring two items to be verbally evaluated by experts. To enter a chance to win tickets visit, pbs.org/roadshowtickets. The deadline to enter is March 24.

The National Museum of Transportation needs your help! Last month, vandals graffitied two historic trolleys, causing around $20,000 in damage. To donate to the museum’s restoration efforts, visit tnmot.org/product/donation.

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Celebrate Black History Month with the St. Lois County Library. This month, it’s hosting “From Blacksmiths to Wordsmiths: How the Labor of African Americans Continues to Shape American Culture.” Events include performances by the Black Rep, a jazz concert, a gospel celebration, author events, historical lectures and more. For a full schedule of events, visit slcl.org/black-history-celebration.

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by patty hannum

SEVERAL YEARS AGO , one of my son’s college-aged friends broke up with his girlfriend. I, feeling the need to be in everyone else’s business, asked why. “I don’t know; I think she cared too much.” At first, I was somewhat perplexed as to why that should be a problem. I realized, after a brief conversation, that when one person is more committed than another, well that imbalance in the relationship was just too much for someone to take on at their age. He did not have the words to say, “You’re bugging me,” but he did have the words to say, “I am not interested anymore.” So, this little memory popping into my head caused me to pause and think about all the small things I perhaps care too much about.

Let us start with the trivial. It’s almost embarrassing to say I care too much about my hair. Because of the way my mind works, I get fixated on lots of things, including my hair. About two years ago, I started on a new medicine that caused some hair loss. I cried, “I am going bald.” I asked Google how many hairs a person should lose in a day. It said 10—or maybe 50—I don’t really remember which, but I started counting the strands coming out of my comb. I would be bald by summer at this rate! I tried to explain to my balding husband why this was an issue, but he just gave me the stare. The one that says “you better stop this nonsense before it spreads to the kids.” I started taking vitamins that promote hair

growth. They actually worked, and the next thing you know, my problem was solved. But I cared too much. It didn’t deserve the attention I gave it. I am a fast texter. If someone texts me, I text them back immediately. Most people seem to be the same way, but not everyone is as attached to their phone as I am. If it was important information I needed to pass along, I would have picked up the phone and called. Still, I stew. What could they possibly have to do that’s more important than responding to my snarky text? Oh, I don’t know, perhaps they are taking a shower, actually have work to do or didn’t find my text nearly as funny as I thought it was. I cared too much. I cannot yet control the world, but I try.

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I am also a fast RSVP person. Anything that requires a written acceptance gets one from me pronto! That’s not the case for everyone. Some people actually check with their spouse or look at their calendar before replying. Not me. I like to be invited to things—actually, that is totally untrue. I would rather lie in my bed and watch Hallmark Christmas movies. Why not think about the invitation and check in with your other half or, at the very least, your calendar?

So this year when people asked what my new year’s resolution is I was honest. I am going to start caring less. Well at least, that’s what I am typing, but I don’t really mean it. Peace my Peeps. &

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Celebrate St. louiS: T&S’ 14TH ANNIVERSARY

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TOWN&STYLE

is turning 14! It’s an accomplishment our team is immensely proud of and grateful for—we wouldn’t be able to do what we do without the support of our community. To celebrate the occasion, we want to do our absolute favorite thing: share the best of St. Louis with our readers. We’re spotlighting other local institutions that are celebrating big anniversaries in 2025.

175 NEW MOUNT SINAI CEMETERY

Established in 1850, the cemetery has been on the National Register of Historic Places since 2005. Along with its rural cemetery landscape, the property features a formal Japanese garden and a number of mausoleums representing a wide variety of architecture styles, including Art Deco, Modern, Egyptian Revival and Neo-Classical.

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SHAW NATURE RESERVE

The history of the Shaw Nature Reserve began in 1925 when coal smoke pollution threatened the Missouri Botanical Garden’s plant collection. The garden purchased land in Gray Summit to move the endangered plants. Today, the reserve has grown to 2,400 acres, featuring hiking trails, the Whitmire Wildflower Garden, a Missouri native garden and a variety of habitats. MISSOURIBOTANICALGARDEN.ORG

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POWELL HALL

The home of the St. Louis Symphony Orchestra, Powell Hall opened in 1925 as the St. Louis Theatre, showing movies and live Vaudeville performances. It was renamed in 1966 when it was acquired by the symphony. In 2023, the hall began a major revitalization project, which will be revealed this year in celebration of its centennial. SLSO.ORG

JAZZ ST. LOUIS

In August of 1995, the late Barbara Rose and Peter Bunce began bringing renowned jazz musicians to Grand Center to perform in a small, intimate atmosphere. The initiative was known as Jazz at the Bistro, and it would grow to include not only performances but also education and community engagement. It was renamed Jazz St. Louis in 2006 and continues to be a champion for the art of jazz in the region. JAZZSTL.ORG

ST. LOUIS SHAKESPEARE FESTIVAL

While the idea of a free Shakespeare festival began in 1997, the festival had its first season in 2001 with a production of Romeo and Juliet in Forest Park. Since that two-week event, the St. Louis Shakespeare Festival has grown to a year-round institution, offering more than 250 public performances annually for thousands of audience members. STLSHAKES.ORG

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OPERA THEATRE OF SAINT LOUIS

This year marks the Opera Theatre’s landmark 50th season. The company’s first season was held in the spring of 1976, with the goal of bringing high-quality opera to St. Louis. Since its inception, the Opera Theatre of Saint Louis has presented 43 world premieres, and the 44th, This House, will be brought to life this spring.

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ST. LOUIS KAPLAN HOLOCAUST MUSEUM

Originally known as the St. Louis Holocaust Museum & Learning Center, the museum opened in 1995 under the Jewish Federation of St. Louis. In 2022, it became an independent nonprofit entity and reopened to the public following a $20 million renovation and expansion. The museum is dedicated to preserving the history and lessons of the Holocaust to promote understanding and inspire change. STLHOLOCAUSTMUSEUM.ORG

SUBTERRANEAN BOOKS

Located on the Delmar Loop, this women-owned independent bookstore opened its doors to bookworms in 2000. You can find a wide array of book selections, ranging from best sellers and timeless literature to cult classics and works from small presses. The staff of avid readers are always ready to make a recommendation if you need some guidance.

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GREAT RIVERS GREENWAY

Created by a vote of the people in St. Louis City, St. Louis County and St. Charles County in 2000, the Great Rivers Greenway is a public agency. Its mission is to create a more vibrant community through building and maintaining greenways that connect the region. Around 135 miles of greenways have been created since it was established. GREATRIVERSGREENWAY.ORG

The Pageant first welcomed musical artists to hit the stage in October of 2000. The music venue got its name from the Pageant movie theater, which had been located a few blocks away. Specifically designed for live music, the Delmar Loop staple has gained a national reputation as an exceptional concert venue.

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STRICTLY BUSINESS

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SAINT LOUIS FASHION FUND

CROWN CENTER FOR SENIOR LIVING

The senior living company welcomed Emily Isaacs Polinsky as a program coordinator. Polinsky joins Crown Center from the corporate sector, where she specialized in human resources with a focus on recruitment, training and employee engagement. In her new role, she will oversee the development of a variety of programming, such as arts, fitness, educational opportunities and cultural experiences.

Becky Domyan has been named the new executive director of the fashion nonprofit. Domyan currently serves as a senior vice president and market manager for Audacy Inc., and she will continue to hold that position as she takes the lead at the Saint Louis Fashion Fund. Previously, she worked with the radio group Emmis Communications in a variety of roles, including sales and recruitment.

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Ray Vandiver, Ph.D. , will take the helm as president and CEO of the organization later this month. Vandiver brings more than 30 years of experience leading science centers and museums, including the Discovery Lab in Oklahoma, the Oregon Museum of Science and Industry, and the Bootheel Youth Museum in Malden, Missouri. A St. Louis native, he earned a bachelor’s degree in physics from Saint Louis University as well as a master’s degree and doctorate from Missouri University of Science and Technology. Vandiver succeeds Todd Bastean in the role of president and CEO.

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UCP HEARTLAND

The nonprofit has named Cindy Owens as its new president and CEO. Owens has more than 25 years of experience in nonprofit leadership, including having served as CEO of the American Red Cross of Missouri and Arkansas, the American Lung Association of New York City and The Rooted Sisters. “UCP Heartland’s legacy of compassionate service is truly inspiring, and I am honored to lead this dedicated team as we continue to make a meaningful impact in the lives of our clients and their families with differing abilities,” she says.

Dr. John Mohart has been appointed executive vice president and chief operating officer of the health care system. Mohart is the first physician to hold the role of COO at Mercy. A cardiologist with Mercy since 2012, he most recently served as president of community operations. He attended medical school at the University of Missouri-Columbia and completed his residency and cardiovascular medicine fellowship at Washington University School of Medicine and Barnes-Jewish Hospital.

PARENT TRAP

by dr. tim jordan

FEAR OF GROWING UP

during a session of my high school support group, all of the seniors expressed fears about not wanting to grow up. A week later, I recorded them for an episode of my podcast, Raising Daughters, and it was a fascinating conversation I’d like every parent to hear. One of the main conclusions the girls came to is that their fear of growing up stemmed from their parents doing too much for them throughout their childhoods. They felt it had left them with little confidence that they could manage the normal ups and downs of life or solve problems they were sure to encounter as adults because they hadn’t been allowed to. Mom and dad had consistently rushed in to fix, solve and rescue. It was an amazing insight for these young adults. I heard an interesting story once that serves as a great metaphor for this process.

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A man bought a catalpa tree because he loved their big fragrant flowers. It began as a three-foot flimsy stick with a bamboo stake holding it up. For an entire year, he watered it regularly and occasionally checked to see if it was strong enough to have the stake removed, but each time it bent over, so he quickly re-staked it. By the second year, it had hardly grown and looked as weak as ever. Growing impatient, the man removed the stake figuring it would either live or die, but he was tired of babying it. Within a month, the tree stiffened up and began to grow. By the end of the year, it hardly looked like the same tree. It was strong and put out new branches. It was thriving.

How often do parents make the mistake of staking their kids too long? They see them struggling and assume there is something wrong with them. Parents then jump in and micromanage and do for kids what they should be doing for themselves. Like the catalpa tree, it hinders children’s growth and development, leaving them with low confidence and self-efficacy. That’s what my teens were expressing. It can be scary to pull back and let kids figure things out on their own, but it’s the only way for them to develop strong roots and grit.

It’s never too early for you to step back and allow your children to problem-solve for themselves, handle their mistakes and learn to cope with failures and the normal uncertainties that accompany transitions in their lives. Like the catalpa tree, that is how they will grow the strength and confidence they will need to successfully launch out into the world. Let me leave you with another great metaphor illustrating the need for us to let go.

The Great Barrier Reef stretches some 1,800 miles from New Guinea to Australia. Tour guides regularly take visitors to view the reef. “I notice that the lagoon side of the reef looks pale and lifeless, while the ocean side is vibrant and colorful,” a traveler observed. “Why is this?” The guide gave an interesting answer: “The coral around the lagoon side is in stillwater, with no challenge for its survival. It dies early. The coral on the ocean side is constantly being tested by wind, waves, storms—surges of power. It has to fight for survival every day of its life. As it is challenged and tested, it changes and adapts. It grows healthy. It grows strong. And it reproduces.” Then he added this telling note: “That’s the way it is with every living organism.” Including, I would add, with every one of your children.

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The Family Center

WILSON SUMMER CAMPS

Two camps, one great summer! Give your little tinkerers (grades three to six) the chance to experiment, create and build at Think Camp. Wilson Day Camp (preschool to grade six) includes thematic units for each age group, plus trips to Shaw Park Aquatic Center for outdoor fun. 400 DE MUN AVE. | 314.725.4999

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Program Opportunities

• Early Childhood Education: Classes for children fifteen months to kindergarten.

• Stay, Play & Learn: A program for parents or caregivers and children, birth to kindergarten.

• Parents as Teachers: A state-sponsored program for expectant parents and parents of young children who have not yet begun kindergarten.

A Reggio-inspired school recognized for its early childhood and parenting education programs, the Family Center offers a wide range of learning opportunities, including parenting consultations, short-term counseling and early childhood special education. Children experience inquiry and play-based learning held in environments that welcome, encourage and nurture friendships and communication and emphasize respect for each child and the child’s ability to influence their own learning.

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▲ north glendale elementary school

The school’s Changemaker Club organized a school-wide “penny war.” The fundraiser brought in more than $3,000, which was donated to three organizations: Kirkwood Area Every Child Promise, Horizons St. Louis Kirkwood and Kirkcare. The club is focused on spreading kindness within the school and community through advocacy and other projects.

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▶ st. joseph’s academy◀

Students in A.P. biology got valuable insight from an alumna. Kourtney Kostecki, Ph.D., (’13) shared her journey from high school to working in molecular biology. This included sharing her thesis on head and neck cancer and her current work on cell and gene therapy with OpenCell Technologies.

◀ st. louis language immersion school

The school hosted a special countdown to Chinese New Year. Students wore customary costumes, participated in a parade and engaged with traditional aspects of Chinese culture like dumpling making, calligraphy and music. The school will also celebrate the holiday with a Lantern Festival later this month.

▶ ladue middle school◀

More than 50 students took part in a project to preserve the stories of African American senior citizens as part of the Meachum Scholars Program. They visited two senior living homes in North St. Louis to interview residents about their lives. The stories will be compiled into presentations, posters and videos to be shared with the Ladue Middle School during Black History Month.

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The school hosted Grammy-winning musician and St. Louisan Emanuel Harrold for its Middle School Jazz Honors Festival. The event included a jazz clinic where students from around St. Louis got to learn more about the history of jazz and musicianship as well as participate in a jam session. Student musicians also got the chance to perform with Harrold and his band.

BLACK HISTORY IN THE STL

BY STEPHANIE WALLACE

Every February, we celebrate and honor the achievements and contributions of African Americans. St. Louis is home to many museums and historic sites that preserve and uplift the history and culture of the Black community. We’re spotlighting a few where families can engage and explore these important pieces of local and American culture.

field house museum

The childhood home of author Eugene Field, this historic house has a strong connection to the Dred Scott Decision. After Dred and Harriet Scott filed suits to secure their freedom from slavery, Eugene’s father, Roswell Field, agreed to represent them in the U.S. District Court, prepared their appeal to the U.S. Supreme Court and convinced high-profile lawyer Montgomery Blair to argue the case. The Field House Museum is a National Historic Landmark and is listed on the National Register of Historic Places

the griot museum of black history

Located in the Old North St. Louis neighborhood, the Griot Museum of Black History is the first local cultural institution solely dedicated to uplifting the broad scope of Black history and culture. It originally opened in 1997 as The Black World History Wax Museum. Its mission is to collect, preserve, interpret and share the stories of Black people, especially as they connect to regional history. The Griot’s galleries include artifacts, memorabilia and wax figures of important people, like Josphine Baker, Dred and Harriet Scott, James Milton Turner and Miles Davis.

mary meachum freedom crossing

On the night of May 21, 1855, abolitionist Mary Meachum led a small group of enslaved people from her downtown home to the Mississippi River. The goal was to cross into Illinois, but the party was caught and Meachum was arrested. Today, the site of the attempted crossing is part of the Mississippi Greenway: Riverfront Trail and has been included in the Underground Railroad Network to Freedom. Every year, Great Rivers Greenway commemorates the historic event with a reenactment and a celebration of Black history and culture.

national blues museum

The National Blues Museum celebrates the early days of the music genre— introducing visitors to the legends, unsung heroes and trailblazers who brought the blues to life. During the Great Migration of the 20th century, millions of Black Americans moved from the South to other parts of the country. Musicians traveling from the Mississippi Delta brought their craft up the river to St. Louis and developed a unique sound. The museum offers live music performances, and its exhibits include historic artifacts, technology-driven experiences and even creative activities like writing your own blues song.

scott joplin house

One of the world’s most famous ragtime composers, Scott Joplin is known for compositions like “The Entertainer’ and “Maple Leaf Rag.” The home he shared with his first wife, Belle Jones, is now a state historic site. Located on Delmar Boulevard, the flat is still lit by gas lamps and furnished as it would have been in 1902 when Joplin rented it—it even includes a player piano, which fills the air with his famous melodies. The site also includes exhibits that offer insight into Joplin’s life.

GIVING BACK Take Part Foundation

by stephanie wallace

What is the Take Part Foundation’s mission?

We help kids with rare diseases thrive by funding research. These are overlooked issues. There are not many studies into these diseases, and those that exist are often underfunded. The Take Part Foundation also helps families pay for genetic testing because so many are denied these tests by insurance.

Where did the idea for the nonprofit come from?

My daughter, Natalie, suffers from a genetic disorder called PYROXD1. After she was born, we were new parents trying to figure out if there was a problem, and initially, doctors told us not to worry. It became clear that something was wrong, however, around the time she turned 1. We visited countless medical professionals and finally got an answer thanks to genetic testing. PYROXD1 is an incredibly rare disease—Natalie is the 17th person in the world to receive the diagnosis. We started doing what any parent would do and researched it online. We found a doctor in Australia that was studying PYROXD1, but they didn’t have money to really continue. We wanted to help fund that research.

Why are rare diseases an important issue?

Rare diseases are more common than you think. Around 30 million Americans have been diagnosed with a rare disease because there are so many—around 7,000 are

CHILDHOOD NATURALLY COMES with some growing pains for both parents and kiddos—but adding a rare disease to the mix can make these challenges seem insurmountable. Millions of people suffer from rare diseases, and little about these conditions is known, making treatment virtually nonexistent. That’s what Maria Granados and her husband, Matt, discovered when their daughter received one such diagnosis. Determined to help kids and families thrive, they created the Take Part Foundation.

known. Around 95% of these diseases don’t have an approved treatment. For children, 30% of those diagnosed won’t live to see their fifth birthday. Research into rare diseases is needed to develop ways to treat these conditions, but those studies are often in a kind of limbo because there just isn’t the money to support it.

What types of research has the foundation been able to fund?

The Take Part Foundation has raised more than $500,000 to fund crucial research and provide genetic testing. We’ve been able to donate more than $100,000 toward PYROXD1 research initiatives in both Australia and Texas. We have a new project to support a study on Gould Syndrome at the University of San Francisco. Locally, we’ve been able to donate more than $120,000 to help families receive genetic testing. There is currently a waitlist to access those funds, so it’s still a critical need. We do other work in the community, including with families of veterans and donating to other rare disease organizations.

Do you offer support for families in other ways?

Along with helping pay for genetic testing, we provide families with Warrior profiles. This is an online resource for them to create a page about their child. It not only allows

them to share their story and raise awareness, but it can be an invaluable resource. It lets teachers, friends and even medical professionals know what is going on. One time, we were on the East Coast, and Natalie ended up in the I.C.U. We were flustered, but because we had a Warrior profile, we could share it with the doctor. This was before she received a diagnosis, and having the page helped the doctors care for her in an emergency situation.

How can people support the Take Part Foundation?

There are some fun ways to get involved. In March, we are having a Skate Under the Stars event. It’s open to all families, and accommodations will be made for individuals with walking devices or wheelchairs. It’s an exciting way to come together to raise awareness and celebrate. Along with ice skating, there will be hot chocolate and face painting. Our Wine, Women and Shoes Gala is in May. It includes a fashion show and auction. It’s a fun and lively event. In the fall, we host a Donut Run. What better way to run or walk a 5K than with donuts? There’s a coffee bar for the grownups, and face painting for kids. It’s a great way for the Take Part Foundation to share our work. We can always use donations, and we hope people will share our website, especially with families dealing with rare diseases so they can create a Warrior profile. &

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ASSISTANCE LEAGUE OF ST. LOUIS

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This is the largest single fundraiser for the Assistance League of St. Louis, an all-volunteer organization whose mission is to provide programs and services to the underserved in the St. Louis community. Guests enjoyed cocktails, casino games, dinner, and live and silent auctions.

President Sandy Thal, president-elect Sandy Brody,

applause gala

The annual Applause Gala! Benefits STAGES’ life-changing artistic and education programs. Guests enjoyed cocktails, dinner, silent and live auctions, a performance by STAGES Performing Arts Academy, the inaugural STAGES Hall of Fame induction and entertainment headlined by Tony Awardwinner Stephanie J. Block and Sebastian Arcelus.

guests: Executive producer Andrew Kuhlman, artistic director Gayle Seay, event co-chairs Judy Kent and Lori Putnam

GRACE AND CARLOS YU

GWENDOLYN AND DARRYL DIGGS SR.

BARB HALPERN, JULIE KOHN

RICHARD AND SANDY JOHNSON

DAVE AND DIANE MYERS

SANDY BRODY, JAMIE KAY COOK, SANDY THAL

KATHY SIGMAN, JANE REBHOLZ, SUE KENNEDY

LORI PUTNAM, LYNNE TURLEY, ANDREW KUHLMAN, JUDY KENT

JILL AND STEVE MILES

GAYLE SEAY, ELIZABETH DUNN

LISA AND LARRY CARSON

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GOLDEN YEARS

DELMAR GARDENS

by stephanie wallace

IN 1965, the late Barbara Grossberg opened Delmar Gardens. Her road to success was a remarkable one. Growing up in Hungary, she was taught to respect the older people who visited her father’s sanitarium. A Holocaust survivor, she spent her teenage years in the concentration camps Auschwitz, Bergen-Belsen and Dachau. Following the end of World War II, she fled Hungary along with her husband, Henry, and their two children to escape the invading U.S.S.R. They settled in University City where Grossberg began caring for local seniors, and her passion and dedication led to Delmar Gardens.

Today, Delmar Gardens remains family-owned and continues to serve St. Louis seniors with the same mission of love, care and understanding that Barbara Grossberg founded the company on. With 60 years of experience in senior living, it provides quality care, services and amenities to allow people to spend their golden years with the dignity and respect they deserve. Along with in-home services, Delmar Gardens senior living communities offer a full continuum of care, ranging from independent and assisted living to skilled nursing.

With so many senior living options, Delmar Gardens sets itself apart with the dedication of its staff. Across the country, the average annual turnover rate in the industry is 60%, but that is not the case for Delmar Gardens communities. More than 50% of staff have five or more years with the company, and around 30% have 10 years or more. “You won’t find employee longevity like this anywhere else, especially with the COVID-19 pandemic causing so many people to leave senior care,” notes Richard Taylor, an administrator at Delmar Gardens West. “Delmar Gardens truly is a family. Every employee, resident and their families are a part of it.”

Delmar Gardens West is the second largest Medicaid facility in the state of Missouri. All of the community’s accommodations are the same regardless of whether a patient is private pay or receiving assistance—a shining example of the company’s continued work to ensure all seniors have quality living options. Delmar Gardens’ continuity of care model also offers its residents and their families greater peace of mind. The community can meet their changing needs, whether it’s a temporary transition or a permanent change. Spouses that require different care levels also can continue to live on the same campus and visit one another. “Even if you move to assisted living or skilled nursing, you can stay connected with staff and other residents,” says Kim Liefer, director administrator of Chesterfield Villas. Every resident at Delmar Gardens communities has access to a wide variety of amenities, activities and services. There is daily entertainment, physical activity, outings in the community and stimulating clubs and classes. Many programs are tailored to residents’ unique interests and experiences, including clubs like crochet and drawing, which are led by them. “Our programming makes sure to include our residents in nursing care as well,” explains Vicky Busso, director administrator of Garden Villas. “Along with clubs and entertainment at home, they also get to enjoy outings, like to local restaurants or Cardinals games. We take every opportunity for them to have fun and stay engaged.”

To learn more, don’t miss Delmar Gardens’ Progressive Open House. It will be held April 6 from 1 p.m. to 4 p.m. at its West County and Chesterfield locations. &

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STAYING SECURE

◀ Be aware of what you are sharing. A snapshot may seem innocuous, but before sharing online, you need to double check that it doesn’t include any private information. Avoid making posts that show an address or even something as simple as the name of a school.

◀ Check with others. Your family may not want their kids’ faces to be shared online. Before posting anything, make sure to clear it with parents first.

◀ Don’t overshare. For a lot of social media accounts, you don’t have to have your full name public facing. Consider using your first and middle name when setting up an account. That means more privacy for you, and it can even help protect you agains cybercriminals.

INSTAGRAM: This app can be a great way to connect with older kids and grandkids—and as a bonus, if you have Facebook, you’ve already got an account. Posts can be filtered so kids can share the photos they’d like to with family, while keeping others just for friends. The private messaging function also can be useful to communicate without broadcasting everything to their followers.

WHATSAPP: If texting fees are a concern, WhatsApp is a great solution. The messaging app lets you share texts, photos, videos and voice notes for free. If you have family overseas or travel often, this also is an awesome option. Regardless of where in the world you are, you can send and receive messages as long as you have an internet connection. Facebook Messenger and Signal offer similar features.

by stephanie wallace

FAMILY & SOCIAL MEDIA

Odds are, your family is attached to their smartphones. Social media is a great way to check in and get their attention. However, mom and dad (or grandma and grandpa) popping in is not always welcome. We’re sharing some apps that you can use to connect while still maintaining boundaries.

YOUTUBE: On the surface, YouTube may not seem like a traditional social media platform—after all, it’s a video sharing app. A private channel, however, is a free way to share videos with family. This can be especially meaningful if your grandkids are young and you live far away. Videos of milestones can be uploaded and saved. You also can create and share your own videos. The only people who can view them are those with whom you have shared the link.

BEREAL: This app is a unique way to remember to stay in touch. Its main feature is a daily notification that encourages users to share photos and short videos within a two-minute window. It promotes authentic posts—there’s no time to stage or edit photos. It’s a fun way to share your day-to-day life and get a glimpse into your family’s. You can create private groups, so you don’t have to worry about the posts being public.

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THE GATESWORTH

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PARC PROVENCE

Parc Provence offers its residents and their families exceptional care for dementia and Alzheimer’s disease through dedicated, person-centered support. As a community of well-being, Parc Provence empowers senior adults by promoting individual physical and cognitive abilities.

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For more than 40 years, Advanced Nursing Services has provided one-on-one private duty nursing. We have aides and nurses with the highest level of professionalism and offer truly full-service continuity of care.

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SENIOR LIVING, YOUR WAY

Unique. Extraordinary. Exceptional. These words are often used to describe experiences and places that are good—and may even be great. But such praise is most meaningful when it is earned, when the experience in question is truly unlike anything else, far exceeding the norm—when it is, in fact, the exception to the rule.

“We are confident that we offer our residents a lifestyle that really is exceptional,” says Carrie Montrey, executive director at The Gatesworth, St. Louis’ premiere community for active seniors. And U.S. News & World Report agrees, having placed The Gatesworth on its 2024 list of Best Independent Senior Living communities. “We are equally confident that we’re exceptional because our residents are,” she adds.

cars. Fitness and wellness classes are available, as well as customized programs and personal trainers.

What other evidence is there to indicate that a life lived at The Gatesworth is an extraordinary one? Some of The Gatesworth residents have weighed in on this very question.

“It’s amazing how quickly the staff get to know you. They call you by name and truly attend to things that keep you happy.”

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“The Gatesworth has everything I wanted: beautiful grounds, lovely people, great food and entertainment—and so much more.”

Communities like The Gatesworth are rare, in part because of the long list of amenities to match the varied interests of its residents.

Some sing in the choir, others work in the garden, and still others enjoy onsite fine dining or movies in the theater. There’s yoga, a spa, heated saltwater pool, educational and cultural lectures and classes, worship services, evening cocktails and art classes. And that’s just the beginning!

“The Gatesworth means a happy productive life with new friends”

Ample parking is available for residents and their guests, as it should be—but so is scheduled transportation with a driver in one of the community’s luxury

“The Gatesworth means a happy productive life with new friends and that I never have to be alone again. I love the staff—they make us feel so special!”

“When we’re talking about our community and the lifestyle we offer to residents, we like to say, ‘The answer is yes. What is the question?’” Montrey explains. And that really gets to the heart of the matter. The Gatesworth staff are there to ensure residents get the most out of life, whatever they imagine that life might be.

But what matters most to residents of The Gatesworth is that the community feels like home. Because everyone has a slightly different idea of what home should be, The Gatesworth apartments—which come in one and two bedrooms—can be customized to suit personal tastes and needs. The moving process is customized, too, thanks to their move-in coordinator and her team, who are ready to help with the heavy lifting. They make any move a significantly less troublesome endeavor.

The Gatesworth co-owners, Charlie Deutsch, David Smith and Bob Leonard built the community because they wanted to create a place where, after years of sacrifices made for career and family, seniors could celebrate life as they aged. This “the best is yet to come” attitude is the foundation on which The Gatesworth stands.

The Gatesworth is a community of active seniors, living life the way they define it; filling it with friends, family, new experiences, continuing education, new challenges, favorite hobbies, moments of contemplation and daily beauty—what could be more exceptional?

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In the heart of the St. Louis region, nestled amidst serene gardens and charming village aesthetics, there exists a place where compassion and expertise converge to create a haven for those living with dementia and Alzheimer’s disease.

“For two decades, Parc Provence has stood as a beacon of hope,” says administrator Kathy Kelley. “As one of the nation’s pioneers in memory care, Parc Provence is not just another senior living community. It is a village of wellbeing—meticulously designed to nurture the physical and cognitive needs of each resident.”

Locally owned and managed, Parc Provence has a dedicated team of memory care specialists, working in partnership with esteemed physicians from Washington University School of Medicine, to ensure residents receive the highest standard of care tailored to their unique needs.

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“Each of our residents’ lives in one of five households within the community,” Kelley explains.

• Parc Provence’s registered nurses are available 24 hours each day, offering compassionate, patient-centered care.

• Staff members participate in on-going training and continuing education focused on the treatment of dementia and Alzheimer’s disease.

• Parc Provence’s staff-to-resident ratio is the highest in the industry for both daytime and evening shifts.

“Parc Provence understands that it takes a village to provide the best care possible, and that’s precisely what we offer.”

“Households are defined by similar abilities and care requirements, meaning each resident is part of a community with similar needs. Events and activities that occur within the household are tailored to individuals and include no more than ten people at a time, helping to ensure individualized care.”

Parc Provence’s specialized care allows residents to live with dignity and helps families find solace in knowing their loved ones are receiving the care they deserve.

“We provide a safe, structured and supportive setting,” Kelley adds.

• Parc Provence provides a full continuum of memory care as well as on-site physical, occupational and speech therapy.

However, what truly sets Parc Provence apart is the immersive “village” lifestyle it provides for both residents and their families. “Within the community, residents enjoy a variety of daily activities, encompassing more than 60 diverse options,” says Kelley. “Stroll through our gardens, savor a treat at the ice cream parlor, discover a book in the library, explore the beauty of art in the gallery, or seek solace in the chapel—here, life is not just lived; it is celebrated.”

For the families of a person with dementia, Parc Provence’s village mentality offers much more than just peace of mind. Caring for loved ones facing the uncertainties of advanced stages of dementia can be an overwhelming journey. “Parc Provence understands that it takes a village to provide the best care possible, and that’s precisely what we offer,” says Kelley.

Parc Provence’s holistic approach to memory care extends far beyond the physical needs of its residents. It focuses on preserving their dignity, enhancing their quality of life and creating an environment where they can thrive despite their challenges. It empowers individuals to lead fulfilling lives while celebrating the unique qualities that make them who they are.

The journey of dementia and Alzheimer’s disease is challenging, but at Parc Provence, it is a journey embraced with compassion, grace and community. Together, residents, family members and staff navigate the uncertain terrain and create moments of joy, connection and love.

Parc Provence’s commitment to excellence, dedication to providing personalized care and unwavering belief in the power of community make it the leader in Alzheimer’s and dementia care. In fact, U.S. News & World Report has placed Parc Provence, on its list of Best Memory Care communities.

Discover the difference Parc Provence can make in your loved one’s life. Caring for someone with dementia takes a village, and Parc Provence is here to be a part of yours. Call 314.542.2500 to learn more.

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M C KNIGHT PLACE

McKnight Place Assisted Living & Memory Care has redefined standards of senior assisted living with its personalized care, upscale amenities and vibrant community. It provides seniors the right opportunity to rediscover their “old selves” while discovering their “new selves.”

“Our residents are at the center of everything we do,” shares McKnight Place executive director Elizabeth Stotser. “Every decision, every enhancement, is made with their well-being in mind. We believe in providing not just a place to live but a home where residents can thrive and create meaningful memories.”

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Locally owned and operated, McKnight Place supports residents with licensed nursing staff available 24 hours a day, seven days a week. On-site are speech, physical and occupational therapists and various exercise opportunities also keep residents physically and mentally sharp.

“Our residents are at the center of everything we do. Every decision, every enhancement, is made with their well-being in mind.”

And the community’s dedication to personalized care extends to its well-appointed one- and two-bedroom apartments, where attention to detail transforms living spaces into havens of comfort. Crown molding and wood-style flooring add warmth and sophistication. Kitchens are equipped with granite countertops and full-size refrigerators, offering residents the convenience of preparing meals in a stylish and functional space.

Residents enjoy meals prepared by award-winning executive chef John Morales. Special requests are not only welcome but encouraged, fostering a dining atmosphere that residents truly appreciate. “Our team members truly appreciate when residents offer feedback and always encourage residents to share their favorite recipes,” adds Stotser.

Another distinction of McKnight Place is its commitment to ensuring new residents feel not just welcomed but truly at home. “Moving to a new place can be a significant transition,” Stotser explains. “That’s why we provide each new resident with a dedicated move-in coordinator. This professional works closely with the resident to understand their preferences and customize their living space, making the transition as seamless and comfortable as possible.”

Beyond the physical aspects of the living spaces, McKnight Place fosters a sense of community and social connection. Common areas are thoughtfully designed to encourage interaction, and residents can participate in a variety of engaging activities. Whether it’s a group exercise class, a cultural event or simply sharing a cup of coffee in the cozy common areas, the community aims to provide a vibrant social life for its residents.

McKnight Place offers a plethora of on-site amenities, including a theater, art room, greenhouse, beauty salon, lush gardens and easy-to-navigate walking paths. Spacious gathering spaces facilitate everyday conversations, while private areas cater to family gatherings or special events.

The commitment to resident-centered care extends to the memory care services of McKnight Place. Specially trained staff members work closely with residents and their families to create personalized care plans that address the unique needs of those dealing with memory-related challenges. The goal is to provide a secure and supportive environment that enhances the quality of life for both residents and their families.

It’s this dedication to person-centered care that has earned McKnight a place, once again, on U.S. News & World Report’s list of Best Assisted Living and Best Memory Care communities. With its primary focus on the well-being and comfort of its residents, McKnight Place is the right place for seniors who wish to remain independent but need a bit of extra care. Learn how their all-inclusive pricing simplifies the decision-making process.

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Heart Health MYTHS

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MYTH: Vitamins and supplements will help your heart health.

Your diet can help reduce your risk of heart disease. For example, the unsaturated fatty acids in seafood reduce inflammation and lower triglyceride levels. It’s commonly thought that taking certain vitamins or supplements, like omega-3 or fish oil, can have the same effect. However, according to the Mayo Clinic, a major review of studies found no link between the supplements and heart disease after looking at almost 80,000 patients. While it’s unlikely they hurt, you’re better off improving your diet than focusing on supplements.

MYTH: A heart attack is always recognizable because of chest pain. While chest pain is common, there are other more subtle heart attack symptoms. These include shortness of breath, nausea, lightheadedness, and pain or discomfort in the arms, jaw, neck or back.

MYTH: Everyone has high blood pressure when they’re older—you don’t need to worry about it.

It is true that blood pressure rises with age. Artery walls naturally begin to stiffen, which in turn means your heart has to work harder. An increased risk for heart attack and stroke happens because of damage to the arteries and the heart muscle becoming less effective. But just because your arteries change with age doesn’t mean you shouldn’t take steps to regulate your blood pressure and reduce the risk of cardiovascular disease.

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that heart health is a major concern.

Cardiovascular disease remains the most common cause of death around the world. While that may seem intimidating, there are steps we can take to lower our risk of heart attack and stroke. However, there is a lot of misinformation out there. For American Heart Month, we’re breaking down some of the most common myths that circulate about the subject.

MYTH: If your heart is beating really fast, it must be a heart attack.

Your heart will beat at various speeds under normal circumstances. For example, your heart rate will increase during exercise and slow when you’re sleeping. It also can increase if you’re feeling excited. Most of the time these changes are nothing to worry about. However, they can be a sign of arrhythmia, or an irregular heartbeat. Sometimes, this condition is harmless, but in severe cases, it can impact the heart’s function and needs to be addressed.

MYTH: If you have heart disease, eat as little fat as possible.

Not all fats are created equal. It is true that saturated and trans fats are bad for your heart health. Other fats, however, are beneficial. These include the unsaturated fats found in vegetables, nuts and fish— in fact, they can reduce the risk of heart disease.

MYTH: Heart disease impacts men more than women.

For more than 40 years, heart disease has killed more women than men annually. It’s the leading cause of death in both women and men over age 65.

MYTH: Due to genetics heart disease is inevitable.

Family history does play a role in your risk of developing heart disease, but there are lifestyle factors and other changes that can reduce that risk significantly. Make sure you are keeping active, checking your cholesterol, improving your diet, managing blood pressure, sleeping well, monitoring stress and maintaining a healthy weight.

MYTH: If you have heart disease, don’t exert yourself and avoid exercise. The reality is being sedentary is more harmful to your heart health. It’s important to get moving again as soon as your doctor allows it. In most cases, moderate-intensity activity is both safe and beneficial, and heart attack survivors who are regularly physically active live longer than those who aren’t, according to the American Heart Association. It’s recommended that adults get at least 150 minutes of physical activity a week. Consult with your health care professional to develop a plan that works with your needs and limitations.

MYTH: Quitting smoking won’t reduce your risk of heart disease—the damage has been done.

No matter how long you’ve smoked, it is beneficial to quit. According to Harvard Health, regardless of how many cigarettes you’ve smoked in your life, the chance of having a heart attack will drop by 50% within a year of quitting. In 10 years, your risk will be the same as if you never smoked.

MYTH: You don’t have to worry about heart disease until you’re older. Your current lifestyle will impact your health later, and that includes heart health. Plaque can start building up in eateries as early as childhood. With almost half of U.S. adults over the age of 20 living with cardiovascular disease, not all of them are senior citizens. Problems also are found in young and middle-aged people. &

HealthFlash

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FERTILITY BREAKTHROUGH

Dr. Sherman Silber, an infertility specialist at The Infertility Center of St. Louis, has performed the world’s first ovary transplant between non-related patients. Silber is known for his pioneering work in fertility preservation, including previous achievements like the first ovary transplant between twins and advances in ovarian tissue freezing. He and his team were able to overcome the challenge of organ rejection by using immunosuppressive protocols. “This breakthrough opens up new possibilities for women who previously had limited options for preserving or restoring their fertility,” Silber says. “We’re excited about the potential impact this could have on the field of reproductive medicine and the lives of countless patients.”

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CARE FOR OLDER ADULTS

Saint Louis University has received a $5 million grant from the Health Resources and Services Administration for the Geriatric Workforce Enhancement Program (GWEP). The program aims to educate and train health and supportive care professionals to care for a range of issues that impact the health and wellness of older adults, including dementia, social isolation and caregiver well-being. “Over the last decade, we have educated not only professionals who specialize in geriatrics, but all professionals who work with older adults,” says Marla Berg-Weger, Ph.D., professor emerita in social work and GWEP director. “Whether it is taking more time during an exam or ensuring patients have reliable transportation once they no longer drive, there are many ways we can support older adults.”

CANCER STATS

The American Cancer Society has released its annual report on cancer facts and trends. Highlights include an overall decline in cancer mortality of 34% between 1991 and 2022 in the U.S., averting an estimated 4.5 million deaths. However, it was also found that there was an increased incidence of many cancer types, especially among women and younger adults. This includes rates in women aged 50 to 64 years surpassing those in men, and rates in women under 50 now being 82% higher than their male counterparts. Women under 65 years of age also have surpassed men in incidence of lung cancer. It’s estimated there will be more than 2 million new cancer diagnoses in 2025, and and 618,120 cancer deaths.

THE HUMAN VIROME

Researchers at Washington University School of Medicine will be taking a closer look at the viruses that call the human body home thanks to two grants from the National Institutes of Health. Known as the human virome, the body is home to a variety of viruses that are not associated with disease. The funding, which totals more than $10 million, will go toward two different studies. The first is on bacteriophages, or viruses that infect bacteria, and their impact on the gut microbiome, especially during intestinal disturbances. The second research project is centered on studying viral communities and immune responses during pregnancy and postpartum.

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the vibrant art scene in st. louis: FEBRUARY HIGHLIGHTS AND BEYOND

St. t. Louis is a city where creativity thrives, offering an extraordinary art scene that captivates locals and visitors alike. From bustling art fairs to world-class museums to a dynamic network of galleries, there’s always something inspiring to discover.

One of the region’s annual highlights is the renowned St. Louis Art Fair, held every September. Widely regarded as one of the top art fairs in the country, it draws artists from around the world, eager to showcase their creations to art enthusiasts and collectors.

Whether you’re seeking original paintings, intricate ceramics, striking sculptures, blown art glass or contemporary prints, the fair offers a treasure trove of creativity that transforms our city into a vibrant hub of artistic energy.

But you don’t have to wait for September to enjoy the arts. February is an especially exciting time for art lovers in St. Louis, with several must-see exhibits and events:

1 “Shinichi Sawada: Agents of Clay” (Contemporary Art Museum, until Feb. 9): Stunning ceramic figures blending natural textures with fantastical designs

2 “Narrative Wisdom and African Arts” (Saint Louis Art Museum, until Feb. 16): Explore centuries-old and contemporary African storytelling traditions.

3 “Gasp” (Art Saint Louis, until Feb. 12): A juried group show featuring works by 60 regional artists

4 “Still Life of Men” by Brenda Gilliam (St. Louis Artists’ Guild, until Feb. 15): A poignant exploration of humanity through the male figure

5 “Art in Bloom 2025” (Saint Louis Art Museum, Feb. 28-March 2): A beloved event where floral designers create interpretations of SLAM masterpieces

St. Louis is home to some of the nation’s most celebrated museums, which enrich our cultural landscape. The Saint Louis Art Museum, nestled in Forest Park, is a crown jewel of the city, offering more than 36,000 objects spanning 5,000 years of history. Admission is free, making world-class art accessible to everyone.

Nearby, the Pulitzer Arts Foundation, designed by renowned architect Tadao Ando, is an artistic and architectural marvel. Alongside it, the Contemporary Art Museum and The Sheldon Art Galleries add to the vibrant Grand Center Arts District.

While many galleries are located in the Central West End and Grand Center, St. Louis’ art scene extends far beyond these hubs.The Mildred Lane Kemper Art Museum, located on the Washington University campus, showcases an impressive collection of modern and contemporary works alongside rotating exhibitions. Cherokee Street is a vibrant enclave of galleries, studios and antique shops, while art spaces and pop-ups can be found in neighborhoods across the metro area.

St. Louis’ art scene is a testament to its rich cultural heritage and innovative spirit. With world-class institutions, dynamic galleries and a supportive community of artists, there’s no shortage of inspiration. This February, immerse yourself in the creativity of St. Louis— there’s no better time to explore.

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DESIGN FoRECAST 20/25 24 26

by stephanie wallace

Home design trends are always changing, so there’s no reason your domestic spaces should ever feel stale or mundane. T&S reached out to Liston Design Build to learn about interior design trends that will make a splash in 2025. “Even if you love your home, a lot of times there are things about it that we don’t like as much,” owner Jeanne Liston notes. “Making a change—whether it’s a remodeling project or something as simple as a fresh coat of paint—can help transform a space, so you can love your home longer.”

Personal Touches

Sterile, all-white environments are on the way out, according to Liston. “Very clean and almost cold kitchens and other rooms have dominated for the past few years, but we are seeing a move away from that,” she explains. “People are still looking to keep their spaces neat and organized, but there’s a focus on a more personalized style.” This move toward personalization includes pops of colors and a focus on unique details, through elements like cabinet hardware and light fixtures.

Warm Neutrals

Warmer, more inviting color tones are popular right now.

This includes Pantone’s Color of the Year, which is Mocha Mousse. “It’s a beautiful, warm neutral,” Liston says.

“It’s very inviting and cozy.

It’s a great reflection of the overall move toward creating warm, welcoming interiors.

We’re leaving white behind and looking for softer hues. These neutrals also pair well with bolder colors.”

Spa-Like Retreats

Self care is being brought to the forefront of bathroom design, according to Liston. There has been a rise in spa-like features, such as steam showers, free standing tubs and elevated shower heads, whether its multiple nozzles or rain shower heads. “We’ve been doing a lot of wet rooms with the tub and shower separated from the vanity and toilet,” Liston adds. “It makes it very easy to add a steam unit and really turn the bathroom into a retreat. It’s almost like being on vacation in your own home.”

Rounded Shapes

“We’re seeing a move toward softer interiors, and that includes the shapes in your home,” Liston notes. “Archways, rounded doors and even arched glass panels in cabinetry are on trend. It’s a different aesthetic from the sterile, sharp lines that have been popular.” She adds that you can also play with the silhouettes of furniture and decorative pieces, such as opting for a curved back chair or artwork in a circular frame.

Drama in Small Spaces

Powder rooms, reading nooks, home offices and other smaller spaces are seeing dramatic transformations. Liston notes that it’s a great way to experiment with a bolder style, especially when it comes to playing with color. “Bold hues like navies, greens and plums are very popular in half baths and even larger spaces like dining rooms right now,” she says. “It adds some depth and drama to your home, and the impact and wow factor is really impressive in small spaces.”

Pattern and Texture

“Wallpaper is back and thriving,” Liston says. “It’s another way to personalize a space, and it’s an option for adding some bold patterns and rich hues.” She adds that wallpaper is often being used in smaller doses, such as in half baths, as an accent wall or even added to the back of built-in bookcases for a pop of drama. Texture and pattern is also being introduced into homes through furniture and plush fabrics.

In 2025, expect to see people paying attention to an often overlooked part of the home: the

ceiling is the fifth wall of the room, and there’s been a move toward highlighting it,” Liston says. “This includes painting and adding details like wood beans or ornate molding. It’s a pop that draws the eyes upward and makes the room feel a little bit larger.”

The Fifth Wall

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ATELIER ROAN'S CAPE COD CHARMER

Drawing inspiration from a cozy English bed and breakfast, Atelier Roan’s Cape Cod Charmer welcomes feminine, whimsical and playful touches while maintaining a sophisticated air. With lovely layered neutrals and modern silhouettes, the home becomes a welcoming haven for family and friends to make and share memories.

PERSONAL PIECES

Grace Rosenstein, Atelier Roan’s lead designer and Cape Cod Charmer homeowner, highlights her personal connection through pieces such as a cricket table gifted by her mother-law, vintage Paris townhome prints given to her by a close friend and an antique French stool Grace bought with her husband on their babymoon. These little details add to the home’s warm and approachable feel.

CLASSIC COZY CONTEMPORARY DESIGN

Rosenstein updated nearly every inch of this 1950s home. She incorporated a mix of antiques with stylish modern-day touches for a cozy, lived-in feel. The exterior of the home was updated with a classic combination of materials, including cedar shingles and copper gutters. Bluestone hardscaping and new landscape detail were added to round out the charming facade. As for the interior,

every space in this home was transformed into a design that beautifully blends elements of transitional and contemporary style. Through layered details, from vertical shiplap to modern lighting to antiqued beams, everything comes together to tell a story.

CREATING COMFORT

Featuring a mix of modern and antique decor, layered neutrals with contemporary silhouettes and whimsical yet sophisticated touches, Grace creates a comforting lived-in feel. Visit her portfolio and Instagram to get a sneak peek into her upcoming projects. &

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ON THE TABLE

photo by bill barrett JINZEN

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From ramen to bibimbap to Kung Pao chicken, Jinzen offers a fusion of Asian dishes. Located in Clayton, the restaurant’s menu is a collage of favorites from Japan, South Korea and China. It’s an interesting mix of dishes that comes together to offer a truly unique dining experience.

wash it down:

The standout on Jinzen’s beverage selection is the wide selection of saki available. The drink menu breaks down the different types and individual flavor notes, so it’s very approachable for saki newbies. The Joto Yuzu Flavored Sake ($12.95/ cup) is very refreshing, and the addition of citrus makes it a great starting point.

SEA CUCUMBER MINI DUMPLINGS, $9.95: Along with sea cucumber, these dumplings are filled with beef. The highlight of the dish is the crispy-edge—also known as a dumpling skirt or lace. It’s a thin, tuile-like layer that’s attached to the dumplings, and it’s amazing. That along with the uniqueness of the filling (how often do you see sea cucumber as an option?), make this definitely worth a try.

CRISPY WASABI MAYO PRAWN, $11.95: Another appetizer you probably aren’t going to find on many other menus. The fried prawns are tossed in a creamy wasabi-based sauce and served on a rice chip. The bite is perfectly balanced with great texture, and the wasabi is not overwhelming at all. It delivers the perfect heat to balance the more delicate flavor of the shrimp.

SPICY MISO RAMEN, $17.95: It’s hard to go wrong with a good bowl of ramen, and this is no exception. The chashu is tender, and the broth is flavorful. The heat level is manageable for most people—spice lovers might find it underwhelming. Still, it’s a great dish.

MENTAIKO CREAM

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Jinzen is a gem in Clayton. The ambience is wonderful—the decor is all blonde wood, warm lighting and cherry blossom decorations. It’s a very calming atmosphere, and I would be remiss not to mention how cute the different salt and pepper shakers located on each table are—we got the maneki-neko, the beckoning cat. Jinzen’s menu is unique and interesting. You’re not going to find this line-up of dishes anywhere else in St. Louis.

UDON: Noodles tossed with prawns and a creamy sauce flavored with spicy salted pollock roe, topped with kizami nori

VOLCANO FRIED RICE, $14.95: This dish takes a simple concept like Kung Pao chicken fried rice and turns it into a showstopper. It actually comes with a tableside pour. Your rice is served on a hot skillet, and the egg is added and scrambled right in front of you. It’s a really fun experience. The fried rice is flavorful and there’s not much heat, especially for Kung Pao chicken—it’s just a really comforting meal.

STRAWBERRY MONT BLANC, $7.95: This cake is fluffy and light, making a great end to a meal. The presentation also is striking. In the traditional Mont Blanc style, the whipped strawberry puree that tops the dessert is served in the form of vermicelli. Jinzen also offers a traditional chestnut version.

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