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DECEMBER 11, 2024 | FRONT TOWN TALK + guide to retirement

FRIDAY, JANUARY 24, 2025

OLD WARSON COUNTRY CLUB

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by stephanie wallace

shriners children’s st. louis

Gracin, a 16-year-old Shriners

Children’s St. Louis patient who had more than 10 surgeries growing up, raised more than $1,000 at her high school in Kansas. The funds were used to purchase gifts for patients at the hospital who are undergoing similar surgeries and treatments.

st. louis county library

A new bookmobile sponsored by Cardinals Care is hitting the road after being unveiled at Bierbaum Elementary School! SLCL also released a limited-edition Cardinals library card to celebrate.

jewish student union

The organization celebrated the opening of the JSU Staenberg House, a teen life and learning center for middle and high school students. The facilities will act as a central hub for programming and events with the space to accommodate hundreds of students.

HOPE FOR KIDS

WORD PEDIATRICS

by stephanie wallace

THIS YEAR HAS BEEN AN EXCITING TIME for the St. Louis chapter of World Pediatrics. The nonprofit, which helps heal children and advance pediatric health care throughout the world, has been operating in the region for 20 years. It was established as Healing the Children Missouri by Kate Corbett, who was inspired by her humanitarian work in Haiti and the life-saving medical care her son received in St. Louis. In 2011, the organization merged with a nonprofit in Richmond, Virginia, to form World Pediatrics. “It’s been incredible to witness and be a part of so many children’s healing,” Corbett says. “We look forward to continuing our current work and expanding our global network of pediatric care.”

When the local chapter of World Pediatrics began, it served around 100 children annually. In two decades, the organization’s impact has grown significantly, helping more than 25,000 children, providing nearly 69,000 medical services, performing more than 17,000 surgeries and sending more than 750 surgical and diagnostic teams to partner countries. “The growth of our impact has been incredible,” Corbett says. “We work hand-in-hand with teams in the Caribbean and Latin America to make a powerful impact. In the next 10 years, we look forward to reaching even more children.”

World Pediatrics’ success wouldn’t be possible without the support of the St. Louis community, according to Corbett. Along with fiscal donations, the nonprofit relies on local medical professionals sharing their time and expertise to provide care both in St. Louis and its partner countries. “Thanks to the work of the medical community, St. Louis has become a beacon of global health care—saving lives not only here but around the world,” she says. “For every dollar donated, we can mobilize $5 in pediatric specialty services, thanks in part to our supply partners and the talent donated by doctors, surgeons and other health care professionals.”

Along with organizing trips with St. Louis medical professionals and bringing children to the U.S. for care, World Pediatrics also is dedicated to improving health care in its partner countries. This includes training initiatives for local medical providers, coordinating care between countries to reduce the need for travel and using technology to offer remote consultations. “We continue to be committed to providing care, but our focus has expanded to empowering global health care providers, too,” Corbett says. “We imagine a world where medical care is accessible to every child. Making that a reality includes removing barriers to care in their home countries as well.”

A large portion of World Pediatrics’ programs are funded through its annual Treasures in Paradise gala, which will be held Jan. 24 at Old Warson Country Club. Guests can look forward to an entertaining evening and the chance to bid on exciting auction items, including vacation packages. “When so many St. Louisans come together to do good, it’s always an exciting atmosphere,” Corbett says. “Every attendee will be able to go home knowing that they made a life-changing impact in the life of at least one child. The more people who join us, the more children we can heal.” &

TIME’S TICKING, GIFT THEM SOME STYLE!

KATE CORBETT WITH WORLD PEDIATRICS PATIENTS IN 2008

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OF THE TOWNS talk

If you’re up for a good laugh—and who isn’t—you can find anything on TV from Andy Griffith and SNL reruns to the improv wizardry of Whose Line Is It, Anyway? But if TV isn’t your style, maybe it’s time to flip through that stack of MAD magazines gathering dust in the attic. Or wait till spring for some improv of the same unpredictably high quality as Whose Line Is It, Anyway? Two of the show’s four nationally renowned comics, Ryan Stiles and Greg Proops, will converge with two other comedians at The Factory at The District at 7:30 p.m. March 28 for a second iteration of “Whose Live Anyway?” (A twist on the official show title. That’s funny too, right?) Who’re the other two funny men? One is none other than Joel Murray, the youngest of nine brothers who include comedy legend Bill Murray. Nothing much funny about what their mother must have gone through, besides enduring nonstop pranks and other antics. The fourth improv man is Jeff B. Davis, whose impressions of Christopher Walken, Keanu Reeves and Jeff Goldblum are said to be spot on. For tickets and more information, visit thefactorystl.com.

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Circus Harmony, the internationally renowned social-circus school inside City Museum, will present its annual full-length show on weekends this February. “Unbound” will be performed by the youthful troupe at 2 p.m. on Saturdays and Sundays in the ring on the unique museum’s third floor. Aptly titled, the show will highlight the talented flying children from Circus Harmony taking an unfettered view of fairy tales via classic circus acts. “Our approach to fairy tales takes the pages out of storybooks, freeing the characters,” says Jessica Hentoff, artistic/executive director of Circus Harmony and a one-time circus performer herself. The show features acrobatics, aerial performances, juggling and other traditional acts performed by kids from primary to early-college age from throughout the metro. Hentoff’s guest director, Evan Tomlinson Weintraub, has worked with world-renowned troupes including Cirque du Soleil and Montreal-based Seven Fingers. “I have met a good number of performers hailing from Circus Harmony,” Weintraub notes. “The school consistently graduates performers of the highest level, sending them to circuses and schools around the world. I feel honored to be able to work with such young talent.” The all-ages show includes admission to City Museum. For ticket information and more, visit circusharmony.org.

Ken Burns has done it again. The acclaimed documentary filmmaker has brought to life slices of American history—from the tragic (The Civil War) to the triumphant (Baseball)—and covered many other topics along the way. He’s now pulled off a two-part biography of Leonardo da Vinci that depicts the artist, inventor and philosopher as the polymath he was, and is. The package aired on 9 PBS the week before Thanksgiving and is available on demand if you have a PBS Passport. It’s like a $5 monthly donation to public television. Beats the heck out of paying your cable company another fistful of dollars for a channel that airs meaningless reality shows. Known for the most famous painting in the world, The Mona Lisa, da Vinci also dissected cadavers and sketched intricately detailed anatomical drawings in his many notebooks, as well as images of machines both real and imagined. Compelling in its own right, the trailer is available at ninepbs.org, along with sections of the four-hour presentation itself. Adam Gopnik, whose articles and essays have appeared in The New Yorker, says da Vinci’s mind was so keen that he could imagine the similarities between star movements and a colony of ants busy at work. An Italian biographer says contemporaries knew him as a very funny man whose personality engaged them even before seeing his work. Indeed, he must have been an incredible dude to hang out with. Burns himself, too: He’s sort of a hero in our house. Cate, my wife, a Beatles fan since she saw them on The Ed Sullivan Show, had no use for country music until she watched Burns’ comprehensive series on the genre. Now—often while wearing her Beatles sweatshirt—she sings Jimmie Rodgers songs and loves Hank and Haggard almost as much as Dwight Yoakam and his yodel. Mandolin genius Marty Stuart, a frequent presence on Country Music, so impressed us that we’ve seen him three times in concert. And I’ve appreciated da Vinci since childhood. Grandma had a framed copy of The Last Supper in her dining room. It’s a little sloppy; Uncle Norman used a paint-by-numbers kit.

TT trivia

When did one PNC branch in Creve Coeur and Tom’s Bar & Grill in the CWE become marijuana dispensaries? Respectively, they reopened as their new business concerns in January 2023 and November 2021.

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It’s a chicken-egg question: Does substance abuse disorder stem from nature, nurture or both? Experts in the treatment field and long-term recovering addicts themselves can point to factors that may have influenced this destructive, potentially fatal, malady. But the immediate question for someone who’s ‘hit bottom’ should really be, “Where do we go from here?” Maggie Sullivan, executive director of Gratitude House, the first sober-living home for women in the county, says treatment can spur recovery from alcohol and drug abuse. Alarmingly, however, 60% of patients relapse within a month! So, it’s important to remove the addict from the environment where habit became obsession and to isolate them from toxic people. “They have to be acutely aware of triggers,” Dr. Sullivan points out. Family members or partners may be heavy users. It could even be the aroma and noises from the coffee maker when they walked into the kitchen every morning with a hangover. Dr. Sullivan knows firsthand: She grew up in a dysfunctional home with an alcoholic father and started drinking at about age 15. Her drinking became progressively worse in college, and when her personal recovery journey began in 1998, she was 22 and working as a server in restaurants and bars, which can be breeding grounds for alcoholics. Rigorously working a 12-Step recovery program after treatment was key to arresting her alcoholism and jumpstarting her further success, which actually began in high school at St. Joseph’s Academy in Frontenac. Sullivan credits the Sisters of St. Joseph of Carondelet with straightening her path and guiding her ever since. “When I started at St. Joe, my whole life went from black-and-white to color!” she exclaims. She hopes to add vivid color to

the lives of the women who come to Gratitude House, many with little more than nothing. They aren’t mollycoddled while there. They are held accountable. They go to a 12-Step recovery meeting every day. They get help looking for work. But the environment is warm, nurturing. The live-in house manager has more than 30 years of sobriety. “Because we have a beautiful space, they have chores—they take responsibility to keep it that way.” The house manager, Sullivan and many of the all-female board members were at one time as desperate as the women they serve. Empowerment is key. Many at Gratitude House, which has a capacity of eight, come from abusive relationships. Sullivan is grateful for how far she’s come, and hopes the residents choose a similar path. She was holding on to a fraying rope in the spring of 1998, but her fortunes brightened at almost the same time she quit drinking and using. Fast-forward: She finished a history degree at UMSL, taught throughout the metro and completed her master’s at WashU, going on to teach a women’s history course there. Call it serendipity, fate, divine intervention (plus the fierce dedication of a few nuns), but she went on to become an assistant principal at St. Joseph’s, president of a revitalized Rosati-Kain girls high school in the CWE and to complete a doctorate in education at Vanderbilt. All from doing a few simple things on a daily basis through working the 12 Steps. Meanwhile, the board would like to open two or three more sober-living homes here in the next five years. Note: There will be an open house from 1 to 4 p.m. Jan. 5 at the home, whose location is kept under wraps for security reasons. Need more? Visit gratitudehousestl.org. &

Maggie Sullivan

THE INSIDER

ST. LOUIS CITY SC has appointed a new head coach! Olof Mellberg, an Aston Villa legend and previous Swedish National Team captain, brings more than five years of managerial experience from Scandinavia. “I am excited to join St. Louis as the head coach,” Mellberg says. “I can’t wait to build upon the foundation already set here and the massive fan support that gives this team the energy to be successful.”

THE VELVET HAMMER

by joan berkman

Q: I manage a diverse staff and have always been proud of their teamwork. However, lately our office has experienced a dramatic sea change, and employees have become divisive and, at times, downright uncivil. Their ability to work as a team is on shaky ground, and I am not sure how to get them back on a level playing field. Any advice?

A: Workplace civility is key to a healthy office environment. It requires treating others with dignity, showing appreciation for their contributions, and refraining from rude or aggressive behavior to create a workplace where everyone can thrive regardless of their perspectives or backgrounds.

That said, not knowing the nature of the divisiveness at your office, here are some thoughts which may help get your team back on track:

Determine the Root Cause: First, you need to get to the root of what is causing your staff’s divisiveness. Consider scheduling one-on-one meetings with your managerial and administrative teams to ensure you get input on every level. A group meeting may preclude some from speaking freely. Individual conversations might also provide an opportunity to turn down the noise and adjust the volume to discuss office etiquette expectations and consequences for inappropriate or disrespectful behavior.

Other Possible Causes: If the one-on-one meetings aren’t resulting in the answers you need to assess the cause of your team’s disruptive behavior, you may need to look to yourself and possibly the C-Suite. Have you given your team enough information and resources to do their job? Are their work contributions being acknowledged and recognized? Are there possible changes in the company’s direction prompting concerns for job security? Regardless, it may be time for a more in-depth discussion to course correct.

Reset and Rally Your Purpose: An off-site retreat might provide a way to reunite and reignite your team to get back on course. If your budget permits, work with a professional facilitator to develop an agenda to address possible employee concerns, provide strategies to work as a team, and clarify the firm’s mission, vision and goals— consider incorporating a creative team-building exercise to spark some fun, reconnect the team and help rebuild trust. When returning to the office, you need to set the example and continue to frequently interact with team members to encourage and reinforce the collaboration that once made you proud. T-E-A-M means Together Everyone Achieves More.

A Holiday Message for the New Year: Make it the most wonderful time of the year with your family, friends and associates and resolve to practice and share kindness and have one another’s backs to build a foundation for relationships that will last a lifetime. Happy holidays to all and all good wishes for a successful new year. &

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Die Hard fans will want to head to Hot Pizza Cold Beer this holiday season. The restaurant will be hosting a Pie Hard pop-up through Dec. 31. Guests will be transported to the 1988 Nakatomi Corporation’s holiday party through special food and drink menus and ’80s Christmas decor. Seating is first come, first served.

The West County Woodcarvers Club donated $705 to the Assistance League of St. Louis. The funds were raised through the club’s ornament sales. Each year, a different nonprofit is selected, and the 2024 donation represents its largest to date.

a big welcome!

The Saint Louis Zoo has a big new addition! Jet is an Asian elephant calf that was born in late November. He is the beginning of the fourth generation of the zoo’s elephant family, and the first calf born through artificial insemination.

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Counterpublic and the Osage Nation announced a historic land transfer agreement for Sugarloaf Mound, the last intact Mississippian mound and oldest human-made structure located within the City of St. Louis. The announcement marks a major milestone in the civic impact organization’s three-year effort to rematriate the entirety of the mound to the Osage Nation.

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▲ st. joseph’s academy

Fifty years after winning the 1975 Missouri Class 2A Girls Basketball State title, St. Joseph’s Academy celebrated its legacy of 65 state championship teams over five decades at a Reunion of Champions event recognizing the more than 600 student athletes, coaches and alumnae from those teams. Guests included Olympic volleyball and WNBA legend Kristin Folkl Kaburakis, Missouri Sports Hall of Fame soccer coach Maureen McVey and American Volleyball Coaches Association Hall of Fame member and former SJA Volleyball coach Karen Davis.

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▶ whitfield school ◀

The school participated in the Excellence in Mathematics competition at St. Louis Community College in Forest Park. Both teams and individuals were recognized for their outstanding performances at the event. Team awards were determined by the top four performers at each grade level. The Whitfield 10th grade team was able to take third place thanks to Evi Brandenstein, Abby Brown, Richard Heidenry and Jonah Walseth. Additionally, 11th grade representative McKenna Reiter was able to secure fourth place in team scoring single-handedly. Individually, Heidenry finished fourth overall. Congrats to all participants!

▲ kirkwood school district

Last month, the school district honored its Teachers of the Year as well as Key Contributors. Each school in the district submitted their selection. Courtney Wells, kindergarten teacher at Tillman Elementary, was announced as the Kirkwood School District Teacher of the Year. The Key Contributor initiative highlights the critical work done by support staff. This year, more than 300 nominations were submitted before the 10 honorees were selected by committee.

reed elementary school ▶

Students and staff came together to help victims of Hurricane Helene. Reed organized the Hats On for Hurricane Helene Victims fundraiser. Students were invited to wear their favorite hats to school, and families were encouraged to make donations to help provide board games for Westmont Elementary, a Georgia school that lost its playground due to heavy damage from the storm.

▶ visitation academy ◀

The school opened a new outdoor learning space. The Owl’s Nest is an innovative environment designed to inspire lower school students to explore STEM subjects. Students are given the opportunity to connect to nature through play and hands-on learning while developing critical thinking, problem-solving and creativity skills and building a better understanding of how their learning relates to the outside world.

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NO MATTER YOUR AGE, there is something magical about the holidays. The wonder of the winter season is on full display at The Gatesworth. The senior living community provides residents with services and amenities to ensure they remain active, happy and comfortable, and that includes celebrations throughout December. To make the season brighter for everyone, executive chef Brian Hardy and his culinary team are working hard to create experiences worth savoring.

Hardy has been at The Gatesworth for more than 20 years. He finds his work especially rewarding as a chef. “I value making people happy through food,” he explains. “I find joy in connecting with residents, incorporating their recipes and training young chefs. At The Gatesworth, I get to cook for some of the best people every single day. It’s amazing to get to know the residents and their families.” That passion for cooking is clear through the accolades both Hardy and The Gatesworth have received. The community’s kitchen has produced seven Junior Chef of the Year winners and even more champions from local, regional, national and international competitions.

Hardy and his staff are dedicated to creating meals that are enjoyed. This includes altering menu items to meet dietary restrictions, taking requests for special dishes and even making residents’ own family recipes. “Our focus is on resident preferences and seasonal, high-quality ingredients, using both traditional and modern techniques to enhance flavors,” Hardy notes. “Our team is passionate about food and always inspiring each other. The culinary arts are

constantly evolving, and we keep up-to-date with trends, which helps us stay innovative. We track what residents enjoy and welcome feedback. Our goal is to make residents and guests happy.”

Throughout the holiday season, The Gatesworth hosts many special events like the Holiday Affair, Christmas Eve and Christmas dinners, and a New Year’s Eve celebration. For residents visiting family during the holidays, the kitchen also offers a program called From Our House to Yours. “This unique takeout service allows residents to enjoy full meals and holiday dishes with family and friends,” Hardy explains. “They can pick up a wide variety of items, ranging from sides and fresh baked pies to full turkey dinners.”

The dining program at The Gatesworth reflects how the community puts residents’ comfort and needs first. During his tenure, Hardy has enjoyed being able to make memories and connect with residents through his food. “The residents at The Gatesworth are truly special,” he says. “They genuinely care for the staff, are patient and appreciative, and build relationships with us. They know me and my family and ask about my kids and grandkids. When you know people on that level, it makes cooking for them so much better.”

That dedication is evident in the satisfaction of The Gatesworth’s residents. “The food is outstanding,” resident Oscar Goldberg says. “People may not believe me, but I have never had a bad meal at The Gatesworth. Never. Every meal I have had has been delicious. Living at The Gatesworth has exceeded my expectations.” &

LOCATED AT ONE MCKNIGHT PLACE, THE GATESWORTH OFFERS RESIDENTS A WIDE VARIETY OF WAYS TO CELEBRATE YEAR-ROUND, ESPECIALLY DURING THE WINTER HOLIDAYS. FOR MORE INFORMATION, CALL 314.993.0111 OR VISIT THEGATESWORTH.COM. COVER DESIGN COURTESY OF THE GATESWORTH | COVER

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Sounds of Celebration

By Sephanie Wallace

hether you’re out caroling in the brisk winter air or catching the familiar strains of holiday classics while out and about, this time of year is filled with music. During the holidays, music helps us connect with family and friends and make cherished memories. St. Louis is home to many wonderful opportunities to celebrate the season through song. We spoke with the creative minds behind two beloved holiday concerts to learn more about what makes them so special.

A beloved St. Louis mainstay for more than seven decades, the Bach Society of Saint Louis’ Christmas Candlelight Concert was first held in 1951. Since then, it has been recognized by BBC Music Magazine as one of the top Christmas events in North America. “The concert has become a cherished tradition,” executive director Melissa Payton says. “One of the things that makes it special is the candlelight processional. The chorus goes out into the audience, singing and holding candles. It’s a very special way to hear your favorite Christmas carols.” The event’s rich history includes an exciting lineup of soloists, beginning with Dorothy Maynor and including local opera superstars like Beverly Sills and Christine Brewer. This year’s event will include soprano Josefien Stoppelenburg and mezzo-soprano Kate Tombaugh.

Creating a program for the Christmas Candlelight Concert is a challenge undertaken by music director and conductor A. Dennis Sparger. “I start planning for the next year pretty much the day after the concert,” he notes. The concert is anchored by a major piece that Sparger builds the rest of the musical lineup around. This year’s major work is Antonio Vivaldi’s “Gloria,” a piece never before performed by the Bach Society. The program also includes works such as David Mooney’s “Dublin Bells Carol,” “Carol of the Bells,” “Joy to the World” and the Welsh lullaby “Sou-gan.” “My goal is to take the audience on an interesting journey,” Sparger says. “The concert has serene moments of relaxation, as well as those that build to higher levels.”

New Year’s Eve Celebration | St. Louis Symphony Orchestra

Christmas isn’t the only winter holiday St. Louis celebrates through music. The St. Louis Symphony Orchestra (SLSO) will help the StL ring in the new year in style. This year’s New Year’s Eve Celebration will be led by guest conductor Stephanie Childress. “The concert is an opportunity for everyone to reflect on the past year while looking forward to what’s ahead,” she says. “It’s a wonderful way to create collective memories through the power of music and art. The SLSO is an amazing orchestra, and this concert in particular is a unique opportunity to connect with the audience. What better way to celebrate New Year’s Eve than together?”

The New Year’s Eve Celebration is a homecoming of sorts for Childress. From 2020 to 2023, she served as an assistant conductor for the SLSO. During her tenure with the orchestra, she led numerous concerts and Youth Orchestra events. She’s excited for the opportunity to return to both the SLSO and St. Louis. “The city has a very special place in my heart—it’s where I got my start in the U.S., and I spent very formative years here,” she notes. “While I’m most looking forward to seeing the orchestra again, I’m also glad for the chance to revisit my old haunts and soak up the atmosphere of the community. I’m really delighted to have the opportunity to be back as guest conductor.”

The Christmas Candlelight Concert is usually held at Powell Hall. However, since the concert hall is undergoing renovations, it will be held at 560 Music Center. “This is our second year in the space, and it’s a much more intimate venue,” Payton notes. “It offers a personal experience where you can get up close with the chorus during the candlelight processional—there’s not a bad seat in the place.” Sparger adds, “We always include carols we can invite the audience to sing along with. It’s wonderful to have generations of families come together to celebrate the season through the power of music.” 12/17 & 12/18

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The program for the New Year’s Eve Celebration is being kept a surprise for the audience. “It’s more fun that way,” Childress says. “It also gives me the opportunity to talk to the audience between each piece and act as emcee. They may not know the program beforehand, but I get to ensure they are still involved.” She adds that the concert is designed to trace her own personal journey since leaving St. Louis, from her roots in the U.K. and France to her current position as guest conductor at the Barcelona Symphony Orchestra. “I’ll even feature as a soloist for one piece,” she notes. “We have a lot of festive pieces planned, including familiar favorites. It’s going to be a whirlwind.” 12/31

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Christmas Candlelight Concert | Bach Society Of Saint Louis

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by bill barrett

The event benefits the Rural Parish Workers of Christ the King as they serve families, help rehab homes and restore human dignity. Guests enjoyed boutique shopping, lunch and the fashion show. guests: Event chairs Joan Lipic and Katie Mentel, The Most Reverend Mitchell T. Rozanski

MIMI PHELAN, CATHY SCOTT, MISSY LEWIS

JANET CIAPCIAK, BETSY PHELAN

CINDI AND KATIE MENTEL

JOAN LIPIC, DAVE SNIVELY

All proceeds benefit the kids and families served by The Danis Pediatric Center at SSM Health Cardinal Glennon Children’s Hospital. Home to 21,000 patient visits annually, The Danis Pediatric Center serves our region’s most vulnerable children. Along with an exciting polo match, guests enjoyed perusing retail

and live and silent auctions. guests: Foundation president Sandy Koller

CHRISTIE BRINKMAN, STEPHEN AND AGNELLA MATIC

GABRIELLE JAMES, DREW PIKEY

DR. AARON AND AJLA TANG

D.J., DOUG AND ANNIE SANSONE

TENLEY WILSON, SANDY KOLLER

BRANDY CAZENAVE, RALPH LONG IV, BRITTANY LEWIS

DR. JONATHAN AND MERRICA SCHELL

JOSHUA CHAMBERLAIN SOCIETY

by bill barrett

With the help of generous donors, the nonprofit adopts severely wounded veterans—those who have suffered traumatic brain injuries, lost a limbs or both—as well as the families of those service members who sacrificed their lives in service to our country. For the event, teams shot the clay course at Black Hawk Valley Hunt Club in Old Monroe. guests: Regional director of operations Todd Nault, executive director Holly Schmitz, president Matt Cutler

HARPER LAW, ALEXIS LAW

MATTHEW HUFFMAN, TYLER HUFFMAN

LUKAS, MARYANA, CHRIS AND JACOB SCHULENBURG

ANNA WEISKOPF, MIKE KELLY

GARY KELLMANN, CORY REMSBURG, JOHN MABRY

Sunnyhill

The Charity Giving Guide

“When Juliana was diagnosed with cancer, four more days with her was unlikely,” said her mother, Stephanie. “Four months would have been a big stretch. Four years would have been a miracle, and here we are — miracle and all.”

Juliana’s battle with stage 4 Neuroblastoma has been nothing short of extraordinary. With your support, she has defied the odds, reaching milestones that once seemed impossible. Every moment with Juliana is a precious gift, and your generosity helps SSM Health Cardinal Glennon provide the lifesaving care that makes these miracles possible. Please join us in giving hope this Christmas.

Juliana keeps a smile while enduring chemotherapy and treatment

Our beautiful Christmas tree in the Hospital atrium

Juliana, Glennon Kid

The Charity Giving Guide

JOIN THE AIM HIGH FAMILY—SUPPORT TODAY!

Aim High empowers middle school students from under-resourced schools through exposure to challenging academic (math, science and humanities) and personal enrichment. Our four-year tuition free program includes five-week summer academic intensive programming and monthly Saturday sessions during the school year. Learn more about us at aimhighstl.org and consider supporting our work today! Aim High takes place on the campuses of John Burroughs School and Washington University.

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AIM HIGH ST. LOUIS

Mission

Aim High provides a tuition free four-year academic and enrichment program for middle schoolers in underrepresented communities.

Aim High takes place on the campuses of John Burroughs School and Washington University.

Items Needed

School supplies; individually wrapped snacks; tickets to St. Louis attractions for field trips

Drop Location

755 S. Price Road

Contact Jessica Pachak, 314.432.9500, jpachak@aimhighstl.org

ASSISTANCE LEAGUE OF ST. LOUIS

Mission

Assistance League of St. Louis is a volunteer-driven organization that transforms the lives of children and adults through community programs.

Items Needed

Gently used or new non-holiday related children’s books; cleaning products; donations to the Fantastic Finds resale shop

Drop Location

Assistance League headquarters: 30 Henry Ave., please call before stopping by; Fantastic Finds: 12778 Olive Blvd., Tue.-Sat: 11 a.m.-3 p.m.

Contact Headquarters: 636.227.6200, Fantastic Finds: 314.579.9500, alstl.org, info@alstl.org

CIRCLE OF CONCERN FOOD PANTRY

Mission

Circle of Concern has been a resource in the community since 1967, offering relief for families living in west St. Louis County and parts of Jefferson County. Each month, Circle serves about 700 families, helping them move from struggle to stability.

Items Needed

Personal care items; dinner helpers; breakfast cereals

Drop Location

112 St. Louis Ave; Mon., Tues. and Fri: 9 a.m.-3 p.m; Wed: 9 a.m.-6:30 p.m; Thur: 9 a.m.-noon; Sat: 9 a.m.-1 p.m.

Contact

636.861.2623, circleofconcern.org, circle@circleofconcern.org

HUMANE SOCIETY OF MISSOURI

Mission

Since 1870, the Humane Society of Missouri has been dedicated to second chances, providing a safe and caring haven for all animals in need.

Items Needed

Blankets; towels; sturdy dog toys

Drop Location

1201 Macklind Ave.

Contact 314.647.8800, hsmo.org, info@hsmo.org

JEWISH FEDERATION OF ST. LOUIS

Mission

The Jewish Federation’s Women’s Philanthropy and Jewish Family Services are collecting new, unwrapped gifts for children who are in need as part of its Hanukkah Hugs program.

Items Needed

Wrapping supplies; new toys and books; gift cards

Drop Location

12 Millstone Campus Drive, place your gift in the collection bin; online registries can be found at amazon.com and target.com

Contact

Sabrina Gornish, sgornish@jfedstl.org

NEEDY PAWS RESCUE

Mission

Needy Paws Rescue is a nonprofit foster-based organization saving dogs from high kill shelters as well as strays and those that have been abandoned and surrendered, regardless of breed or size.

Items Needed

Potty pads; small breed Purina One dog food; dog treats for all sizes

Drop Location

Sunset Hills PetSmart, Sat: 10 a.m.-12:30 p.m; donations can be ordered for direct shipping from Needy Paws Rescue’s wish lists on amazon.com and chewy.com

Contact

314.452.8307, needypaws.org, facebook.com/needypawsrescue, needypawsstl@gmail.com

SSM

HEALTH CARDINAL GLENNON CHILDREN’S HOSPITAL

Mission

SSM Health Cardinal Glennon Children’s Hospital reveals the healing presence of God through exceptional health care services.

Items Needed

Toys, such as Lego, Play-Doh, teen craft kits, Barbie dolls, fidget toys and Hot Wheels

Drop Location

3800 Park Ave., Mon.-Fri: 8 a.m.-4 p.m.

Contact Becca Polizzi, 314.577.5605, glennon.org

SUNNYHILL INC.

Mission

Sunnyhill is a nonprofit that lights the way to empowered living for individuals diagnosed with developmental disabilities.

Items Needed

Cleaning supplies; toiletries; bath towels and washcloths

Drop Location

14 Soccer Park Road

Contact 314.845.3900, sunnyhillinc.org, giving@sunnyhillinc.org

WHY DANA EXERCISES

At age 16, I tried lifting my foot one day and could not walk.

That is when I had my first spinal surgery.

In my 30s, I had more surgeries and began exercising to regain my strength.

In my 40s, I was still weak and in pain, and my physical therapist recommended giving 20 Minutes to Fitness a try.

At age 46, I have never felt stronger. 20 Minutes to Fitness has given me back my life.

Like Dana, each person who trains at 20 Minutest to Fitness has a story about their own fitness journey. Some once thought they were too old, too out of shape or had too many medical problems to build strength safely. Others just plain hated exercising.

Dana likes training at 20 Minutes to Fitness, she says, because “I never worry about injuring myself.” She feels safe because she completes our medically based workout with an experienced coach at her side, making sure she uses proper technique. “I need this workout,” the mother of two says, “so I can get out of the bed in the morning.” She no longer takes pain medication for her back, she adds.

People of all ages and fitness levels feel welcome at 20 Minutes to Fitness, now in its 21st year in business. Because workouts are tailored to each person’s needs and limitations, all can achieve their strengthbuilding goals with a once-a-week workout that takes just 20 minutes.

Your initial consultation and first session are free. Why not give it a try?

For more information on 20 Minutes to Fitness, call its local studios in Clayton (314-863-7836), Chesterfield (636-536-1504), Sarasota or Tampa, or visit 20MinutesToFitness.com.

Just 20 minutes. Just once a week.

DANA HALL | VILLA RIDGE, MO.

Dana Hall, 46, had the first of her five spinal surgeries at age 16. Since 2019, the mother-of-two has stayed strong by training at 20 Minutes to Fitness in Chesterfield.

COVER STORY

LIVE WELL

PALM

HEALTH

by stephanie wallace

THE NEW YEAR IS ON THE HORIZON, and as we prepare to leave 2024 behind, it’s the ideal time to reflect on wellness and the role it plays in your daily life. Whether you’re wanting to make some beneficial lifestyle changes or dealing with an existing health condition, PALM Health is here to help improve your quality of life. Founded by cardiologist Dr. Lauren Dal Farra, the leading concierge functional medicine and longevity company is dedicated to helping people experience optimal health for as long as possible and feel their best in mind and body.

At PALM Health, care is centered around addressing the root cause of illness and improving quality of life for an individual as they age. Dal Farra notes that, for many people, the concept of longevity is only related to living longer, but the focus should also be on living better. “Typically, people live to be around 80 in the U.S., but only the first two-thirds of their life is spent healthy, while the last third is defined by disease and disability,” she explains. “We don’t just want our patients to live longer. Our goal is to improve people’s health span, so they have more years of good health. We want to help people age gracefully and maintain physical, mental and emotional well-being.”

When it comes to aging, genetics are responsible for around 20% to 30% of our health outcomes, according to Dal Farra. The rest is determined by lifestyle factors, such as physical activity, nutrition, stress and sleep quality. “When we look at aging, we consider both chronological age, which is how old you are, and biological age, which is how well your body is functioning,” she says. “Even if you have a family history of a health issue, your habits are dramatically shaping your aging process. At PALM Health, we have the resources to uncover biological issues and risk factors, but also the services and tools necessary to support people in making the right lifestyle choices.”

Welcoming Luxury Consignments

We are now accepting Jewelry, Handbag, Couture, and Luxury Accessories consignments for our 2025 auction season.

Celebrating 10 years in St. Louis Anna Shaver | 314.833.0833  stlouis@hindmanauctions.com HINDMANAUCTIONS.COM

Along with concierge medicine, PALM Health provides a curated selection of wellness and recovery services. It offers fitness, nutrition, chiropractic care, counseling and spa services, and members have access to a wide range of programs and amenities, including its healthy cafe. “Our physicians work at addressing each patient’s health care through a comprehensive and personalized plan,” Dal Farra notes. “We focus on measuring and reversing biological age. We offer a comprehensive, cutting-edge longevity assessment to gain deeper understanding into people’s health. This allows us to offer advanced strategies and actionable insights to help people live a more vibrant life.”

At its core, PALM Health is as dedicated to making wellness just as individualized as it makes it accessible. When someone begins a membership, they meet with a navigator who helps guide them toward achieving their unique goals. “Our navigators match patients with the right providers and programs,” Dal Farra says. “This approach ensures that our care is not just professional and convenient, but also deeply personal and responsive. At PALM Health, we have the care, services and resources you need to make healthy living part of your daily routine.” &

DR. JEFF KREHER WORKS WITH A PATIENT.

Health & Wellness

1. 20 Minutes to Fitness

Nonprofit News

Need to build stronger bones? At 20 Minutes to Fitness, you can safely increase strength and bone density with just one 20-minute session a week.

130 S. BEMISTON AVE. | 17107 CHESTERFIELD AIRPORT ROAD 314.863.7836 | 20MINUTESTOFITNESS.COM

2. Arya Namin, M.D., FACS

Dr. Namin is a board-certified facial plastic and reconstructive surgeon who specializes in rhinoplasty, facial rejuvenation and cancer reconstruction.

607 S. NEW BALLAS ROAD, STE. 2300 | 414.702.8170 | DRNAMIN.COM

3. Evora Medical Group

We’re thrilled to welcome Dr. Tritto, our newest physician, specializing in weight management for children and teens by offering compassionate care to support healthier lives.

845 N. NEW BALLAS COURT, STE. 310 | 314.934.0551 | EVORAMED.COM

4. Jewish Community Center

The J’s fitness centers in Creve Coeur and Chesterfield provide the same workouts as dozens of boutique gyms with just one membership.

2 MILLSTONE CAMPUS DRIVE | 314.432.5700 | JCCSTL.ORG

5. The Memory Training Center

The Memory Training Center offers services for clients who suffer changes in their memory and attention. One-on-one weekly sessions are designed to match each client’s needs, using tools established by experts in cognitive training.

456 N. NEW BALLAS ROAD, STE. 26 314.604.0758 | MEMORYTRAININGCENTER.ORG

6. St. Louis Children’s Hospital

Help us create bright futures for more kids like Ollie, who underwent his first open-heart surgery at just a few days old. Make a difference with your gift today.

1001 HIGHLANDS PLAZA DRIVE W., STE. 160 | 314.286.0988 STLOUISCHILDRENS.ORG/GIVE

7. World Pediatrics

Join us for Treasures in Paradise 2025 on Jan. 24. The event is a Winter Festival inspired by our Kids First commitment and mission to heal more children, in less time. 314.322.8359 | WORLDPEDIATRICS.ORG

Arts & Culture

8. COCA (Center of Creative Arts)

COCA offers classes for all ages in art and design, dance, voice and theatre. Now enrolling for programs starting Jan. 21. Register at cocastl.org 6880 WASHINGTON AVE. | 314.725.6555 | COCASTL.ORG

9. STAGES St. Louis

Experience STAGES St. Louis’ thrilling 2025 season featuring Murder for Two, Austen’s Pride and Beautiful: The Carole King Musical. Subscriptions on sale Jan. 8! 618.210.6979 | STAGESSTLOUIS.ORG

10. St. Louis Shakespeare Festival

Experience a musical adventure and Dickens classic reimagined. Christmas Carol: The Remix is on stage now through Dec. 22 at the .ZACK Theatre. 314.775.7412 | STLSHAKES.ORg

11. St. Louis Symphony Orchestra

Discover where the music can take you. From beloved classics to world premieres and exciting new collaborations, the SLSO promises to thrill, move and captivate.

718 N. GRAND BLVD. | 314.534.1700 | SLSO.ORG

12. Town and Country Symphony Orchestra

Don’t miss free family-friendly holiday classical music concerts:

• Dec. 20, St. Louis Art Museum

• Dec. 22, 2:30 p.m., Ridgway Auditorium at Principia School 13201 CLAYTON ROAD | 314.330.3457 | TCSOMO.ORG

Take Note

13. Air Comfort Service Heating, Cooling & Insulation

Give the gift of comfort and peace of mind with routine HVAC maintenance included in our Preferred Partner Plan starting at $19/month! Call for details.

314.814.8454 | 636.345.9044 | AIRCOMFORTSERVICE.COM

14. Freeman’s | Hindman

Freeman’s | Hindman is a national auction house, providing collectors, fiduciaries and institutions with a comprehensive suite of services, including auctions, appraisals and private sales.

32 N. BRENTWOOD BLVD. | 314.833.0833 | HINDMANAUCTIONS.COM

THE HOLIDAY GUIDE

SPECIAL SECTION

EXPERIENCE A NEW WAY TO SHOP FOR JEWELRY

COVER STORY

SHINE BRIGHT

THE DIAMOND BAR by stephanie wallace

FROM THE BRILLIANCE OF FRESHLY FALLEN SNOW to the twinkle of thousands of colorful lights, the holidays are a time when the world truly shines—and it’s a wonderful opportunity to give some sparkle to the special people in your life. Whether it’s the perfect gift or a custom engagement or wedding ring, The Diamond Bar in Town and Country has jewelry for every occasion. Owned by designer Christopher Phillips, the store offers a shopping experience unlike any other.

The Diamond Bar lives up to its name as it includes a fully stocked bar that is complimentary for guests. It is part of Phillips’ unique approach to customer service. One of his major goals is to create a less stressful jewelry buying experience. It’s an effort that has paid off. This year, The Diamond Bar was named one of America’s Coolest Stores by Instore Magazine. “We’re bridging the gap between comfort and a bespoke experience, and our attention to detail has paid off with national recognition,” Phillips says. “Our goal is to redefine what custom jewelry can be for our clients.”

For more than two decades, Phillips has been perfecting the craft of jewelry design, so he can create pieces that are unlike those found in most display cases. He enjoys bringing people’s visions to life, so they walk away happy with something completely original and unique to them. “What sets The Diamond Bar apart is how our designer Jess Troeckler and myself approach everything,” he notes. “Buying jewelry or designing a custom-piece can be a daunting prospect, but we work with clients during every step of the process to ensure their vision comes to life. We make it a fun and enjoyable experience.”

When designing jewelry at The Diamond Bar, Phillips says the process starts with choosing a stone. “I’m always inspired by the gemstone first,” he explains. “I start with five to 10 different drawings, and then mix and match ideas to create a unique piece.” For custom pieces, people can bring in their own stones or choose from the store’s selection of natural diamonds and other gemstones. After creating drawings, clients are then shown a

3D model of the piece to ensure they love how it looks from every angle. “It really helps people feel more comfortable and confident in the design,” Phillips says. “We want to create something truly personal that exceeds expectations.”

For holiday shoppers who don’t have time to design their own items, The Diamond Bar has a selection of more than 600 unique pieces in store. Phillips works to ensure that the showroom is stocked with items shoppers won’t find anywhere else. “Jewelry is very sentimental and personal—it is often passed down from generation to generation in families,” he notes. “We don’t deal with mass produced pieces. You wouldn’t want to buy something and then see five other people wearing it when you walk down the street. We want our customers to not only love what they buy, but also feel like it is something they can keep forever.” &

LOCATED IN TOWN AND COUNTRY AT 13360 CLAYTON ROAD, THE DIAMOND BAR OFFERS A ONE-OF-A KIND SHOPPING EXPERIENCE, INCLUDING CUSTOM JEWELRY DESIGN. PICTURED ON THE COVER: OWNER CHRISTOPHER PHILLIPS AND DESIGNER JESS TROECKLER. FOR MORE INFORMATION, CALL 314.548.5100 OR VISIT THEDIAMONDBARSTL.COM.

COVER DESIGN BY JULIE STREILER | COVER PHOTO BY BILL BARRETT

THE DIAMOND BAR OFFERS A ONE-OF-A-KIND SHOPPING EXPERIENCE.

5 | EYEWEARHAUS

An Eyewearhaus gift certificate is a perfect gift, which can be used towards professional exam fees or unique eyewear. Eyewearhaus … where heartfelt eye care meets unique eyewear.

745 N. NEW BALLAS ROAD

314.567.7423EYEWEARHAUS.COM

6 | MARELYSE MEDISPA

Treat yourself or a loved one to the gift of beautiful skin. Purchase treatment specials as a gift, buy as a gift card or try our customized medical-grade skin care gift sets!

1034 S. BRENTWOOD BLVD., STE. 1010 314.571.6062 | MARELYSE.COM

7 | HOLMAN MOTORCARS ST. LOUIS

Holman Motorcars St. Louis is proud to be the only ultra luxury dealership in the St. Louis market. Located in the Chesterfield Valley, our exclusive list of automobiles includes Aston Martin, Bentley, Bugatti, Lamborghini, Lotus and Rolls-Royce—any of which would make a perfect holiday gift!

ONE ARNAGE BLVD. | 636.449.0000

HOLMANMOTORCARS.COM

8 | JAXEN GREY

Gift some style that will make a statement. 263 PLAZA FRONTENAC | 314.936.5899

JAXENGREY.COM

9 | SALLIE HOME

Smithey skillets make an exceptional gift, blending heirloom-quality craftsmanship with timeless style. Perfect for the culinary enthusiast, they offer a beautiful, versatile piece that will be cherished for years to come. Pictured are our two most popular options.

9821 CLAYTON ROAD | 314.567.7883

SALLIEHOME.COM

10 | FINE PORTRAITURE IN CHARCOAL BY ELIZABETH MAYER

Keepsakes are beautifully rendered in classic black and white, conveniently drawn from photographs taken in the studio or provided by clients. Gift certificates available; email portraitsbyelizabethmayer@gmail.com. 314.962.4953

PORTRAITSBYELIZABETHMAYER.COM

11 | CAT’S MEOW PERSONALIZED GIFTS

Personalized charcuterie and serving boards are a gift-giving must! Our in-house laser engraving takes just five days, making these boards a unique gift this holiday season.

11773 MANCHESTER ROAD | 314.909.1415

CATSMEOWPERSONALIZED.COM

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| PWR X HEALTH

Give the gift of rejuvenation this holiday season with a PWRx Health gift card. Access cutting-edge treatments like cryotherapy, red light therapy, contrast therapy and lymphatic drainage for ultimate wellness and recovery.

1334 STRASSNER DRIVE | 314.940.7576 PWRXHEALTH.COM

13 | K. HALL STUDIO

Our Barr-Co. Holiday Room Spray makes the perfect gift or stocking stuffer for everyone on your list! Handcrafted in St. Louis and festively scented with cinnamon, apple cider and clove.

8416 MANCHESTER ROAD

9831 CLAYTON ROAD | 314.961.1990

KHALLSTUDIO.COM

14 | PALM HEALTH

For every $100 you spend on PALM Health gift cards, you’ll receive a $10 bonus to use towards wellness services and products. Purchase a gift card for more than $250 and you’ll also get a free One Day Membership.

9160 CLAYTON ROAD | 314.801.8898

PALMHEALTH.COM

SHIRALEAH TAMARA SCARF $38 from Hearth & Soul

MEDY JEWELRY DUO

COLOR SILK SATINS TOP KNOTTED HEADBAND $19.50 from Leopard Boutique

ECCO MEN’S ST. 1 HYBRID SHOE IN COGNAC

$270 from Laurie’s Shoes

THINK WOMEN’S AGRAT ANKLE BOOT IN OLIVE $395 from Laurie’s Shoes

SWANSDOWN CREW NECK LAMBSWOOL

$245 from Civil Alchemy

Season’s Eatings

by stephanie wallace

Food brings people together, especially during the holidays. Whether we’ve eaten them since childhood or adopted them as more recent traditions, many of the dishes we serve up this season have special meaning. T&S reached out to St. Louisans for their favorite recipes to share some holiday joy. Bon appétit!

BRIAN ROY

variety st. louis

This is a recipe from my maternal grandmother, Rita Murtha, who immigrated from Ireland. It’s not named for me, but for my Uncle Brian. The dish is a staple for Thanksgiving and Christmas for both my mom’s side of the family, as well as for my three brothers. We all reliably post photos of our completed dishes in a family group text each holiday season, so it keeps us connected.

BRIAN’S POTATOES

Serves 6 to 8

1. Skin potatoes and cut into halves or thirds, making sure chunks are a similar size. Add potatoes to a large pot of cold water and then bring to a boil. Boil potatoes until easily forked-through. Drain potatoes in a strainer.

2. Add butter, half of the cream cheese and half of the sour cream to a hot pot— all should be room temperature. Layer Lawry’s salt over mix. Add potatoes and another layer of Lawry’s salt.

3. Mash potatoes with mixture until you get to your desired texture. Add another layer of Lawry’s salt with remaining sour cream and cream cheese. You can also add milk to make them smoother, but use at least 2% milk.

salt

4. Transfer to a 13” x 9” x 2” glass dish, and add another layer of Lawry's salt if you’d like. Shred cheddar cheese and evenly layer onto potatoes

5. Put the dish in the oven at around 300˚F and keep covered with foil. It’s good to put in right when you pull the turkey as that usually means around 20 minutes. Pull the foil after about 15 minutes.

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Whether they want to relax with a massage, get pampered with one of our facials, or experience something new like Reiki or Reflexology, our spa gift cards are the perfect way to give your loved ones the Gift of Wellness!

BRIAN ROY (CENTER) AND FAMILY

PAT WHITESIDE

saint louis ballet

board member

A favorite family tradition is a red and green Christmas Eve dinner. For more than 50 years and three generations, we’ve enjoyed lasagna and grasshopper pie on Christmas Eve. My southern mamma began this tradition, and we honor it every year.

GRASSHOPPER PIE

CRUST

2 tbsp. melted butter

14 crushed Hydrox wafers

FILLING

24 marshmallows

½ c. milk

4 tbsp. green crème de menthe

2 tbsp. white crème de cocoa

1 c. cream, whipped

1. Combine butter and wafers and press into a pie plate.

2. Melt marshmallows in milk. Add crème de menthe and crème de cocoa. Chill.

3. Fold in whipped cream. Pour into the crust.

4. Freeze; serve frozen.

PAT GIOIA AND PARKER GEISENDORFER

stl barkeep

This holiday spin on a cosmo was created for STL Barkeep’s Frosted pop-up at the Piper Palm House. Inspired by the flavors of the season, it’s the perfect way to celebrate with festive cheer.

PARKER GEISENDORFER

CULTURED METROPOLITAN

1.5 oz. Haku Vodka

0.75 oz. Pamplemousse Liqueur

0.25 oz. Royal Combier

0.5 oz. Pomegranate Juice

0.5 oz. Lemon Juice

1. Build in a shaker tin. Add ingredients into the shaker tin over ice. Shake for 20 to 30 seconds.

2. Strain into a coupe glass, and garnish with cocktail glitter.

Thurs - Sat | 10 am - 8 pm Sunday | 10 am - 6 pm

NEW ITEMS IN DAILY! Through December 6th - 29th HOURS

HOLIDAY HOURS Monday, Dec 23 | 10 am - 8 pm Tuesday, Dec 24 | 10 am - 4 pm

DR. LEO AND PAT WHITESIDE

PAT GIOIA

BY STEPHANIE WALLACE

The beauty world can be a little daunting to dip a toe into. From Instagram to high fashion runways and everywhere in between, there is a lot to take in, and trends are constantly changing. One day neon eyeshadow is all the rage, and the next more natural looks are everywhere. And it all comes with its own evolving lingo. Here’s a look at some of the terms you need to know.

GLASS SKIN

Think ultimate skin care goals. Derived from the translation of the Korean term ‘yuri pibu,’ it refers to a luminous and flawless complexion that is as smooth as the surface of glass.

fromBEAUTY A-to -Z squareletto

An extra-long nail style that is squared off at the tip—it’s a variation of the stiletto but not as sharp.

FRENCH ROLL

The ‘90s are back! This throwback updo involves wrapping your hair in a twisted cone shape vertically along the back of the head and then gathering the remaining hair at the crown of the head in a rose-shaped bun and cascading curls.

bubble ponytail

This hairstyle involves taking a traditional ponytail and using hair elastics to create smaller round sections that look like, well, bubbles.

high contrast/low contrast

This beauty trend took off thanks to a viral filter on TikToK. Facial contrast is based on the contrast between your hair color, skin tone and other facial features. Your contrast level can be flattered by different styles of makeup. For example, high contrast pairs well with bolder and brighter looks.

DOUBLE CLEANSE

This trend isn’t just about washing your face multiple times. It has to do with switching up products to achieve a deeper clean. Start with an oil-based cleaner to take off makeup and sunscreen, and follow that up with a gentle cleanser to remove any pollutants that may have been left behind.

SKIN FAST

Take a break with this trend. It involves pausing your regular skin care routine to give your skin a chance to breath and detoxify. It can involve stopping cold turkey or reducing your routine to the basics like cleansing and moisturizing.

brat

Inspired by Charlie XCX’s hit album, 2024 was ‘Brat Summer.’ For beauty, that meant embracing vibrant, bold and unconventional aesthetics— and a lot of the album cover’s signature neon lime hue.

SLUGGING

TO SLUG IS ALL ABOUT THE SLATHER. THIS SKIN CARE TREND INVOLVES ENDING YOUR NIGHTTIME ROUTINE WITH A THICK LAYER OF AN OCCLUSIVE, WHICH IS A PRODUCT THAT FORMS A PROTECTIVE BARRIER ON YOUR SKIN TO PREVENT MOISTURE LOSS. COMMON ONES INCLUDE PETROLEUM, WAXES, JELLIES AND OILS. SLUGGING NOT ONLY LOCKS IN MOISTURE, BUT ALSO THE OTHER PRODUCTS IN YOUR SKIN CARE ROUTINE, IN THEORY MAKING THEM MORE EFFECTIVE.

sillage

In French, this term refers to the wake left by a boat, but in the beauty world, it’s used to describe a fragrance’s ability to diffuse in the air around it. Perfumes with strong sillage linger longer.

morning shed

The removal of skin, hair and self-care products that were put on before going to sleep— creators showing off their morning shed routines grew in popularity thanks to TikTok.

lollipop lips

This lip look is all about recreating the appearance of having recently eaten a lollipop or popsicle. It uses bright pink and berry shades applied to the center of the pout that is feathered to the edge to create a diffused, undone look.

DR. NAMIN is board certified in both Otolaryngology – Head & Neck Surgery and Facial Plastic and Reconstructive Surgery. He specializes in rhinoplasty, facelift, and reconstructive surgery. He enjoys helping patients with cosmetic concerns as well as patients in need of reconstructive surgery after cancer treatment. He practices at Mercy Hospital St. Louis with offices at the Pratt Cancer Center in Creve Coeur and at Clayton-Clarkson in Ballwin. He is part of large practice with partners who specialize in sleep apnea surgery, thyroid and parathyroid surgery, and ear surgery.

$50 from K. Hall Studio

GLOW RECIPE DEWY SKIN

DAZZLERS MINIS KIT

$32 from Sephora

SOL DE JANEIRO BRAZILIAN

BUM BUM JET SET

$32 from Sephora

STEPHANIE JOHNSON MARTHA LARGE BRIEFCASE IN BELIZE STELLAR BLUE

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A YEAR IN REVIEW

SPECIAL SECTION

A LOOK BACK AT 2024

by stephanie wallace

WITH 2024 DRAWING TO A CLOSE, T&S IS TAKING THE OPPORTUNITY TO LOOK BACK ON HOW THE REAL ESTATE MARKET FARED THIS YEAR. We compared 2023 and 2024 sales statistics of single-family homes and condos in 17 ZIP codes. After crunching the numbers, we found that St. Louis real estate is a nearly $2.7 billion business, and on average, sellers received almost 101% of their asking price. Below, take a closer look at how our communities grew over the last year. compiled from maris

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Overall, area sellers received, on average, of their list price.

Buyers in these areas spent almost $2.7 billion on real estate in 2024!

Which community costs the most per SqFt? 63124 >>

Where did sellers get the most for their listings compared to the asking price? 63119 >>

Overall Average Price per SqFt >>

63122

had the highest number of single-family homes sold.

The average number of days on market for homes and condos was 26

The three ZIP codes with the highest average sale prices were: >> 63124 >> 63105 >> 63131

MOST EXPENSIVE >>

SOLD FOR: $5,795,000

3 Squires Lane, Huntleigh, 63131

AGENT: Mary Beth Benes of Coldwell Banker Realty - Gundaker

SQFT ABOVE: 7,166

PR/SQFT: $808.68

ACRE: 3.05

BEDS: 5 • BTHS: 9 (6 3)

AGE: 3 years

LARGEST >>

SQFT ABOVE: 12,847 ACRE: 0.423

SOLD FOR: $1,900,000 10 Westmoreland Place, Central West End, 63108

AGENT: Erica Willert s of Dielmann Sotheby's International Realty

BEDS: 8 • BTHS: 9 (7 2)

PR/SQFT: $147.89

AGE: 128 years

OLDEST >> AGE: 161 years

1 Clermont Lane, Ladue, 63124

SOLD FOR: $1,335,000

AGENT: Berkley Land of Berkshire Hathaway HomeServices Alliance Real Estate

SQFT ABOVE: 3,516

PR/SQFT: $379.69

ACRE: 0.86

BEDS: 4 • BTHS: 4 (3 1)

3 WARSON HILLS LANE, LADUE

Sold By: Wayne Norwood and Ben Patton Represented Buyer: Alex Thornhill and Heather Johnson

17 GLENVIEW ROAD, LADUE Sold By: Marcy Byrne

9719 CONWAY ROAD, LADUE

Sold By: Madeline Pettey and Susan Maher Represented Buyer: Caroline DeCola

23 COUNTRYSIDE LANE, FRONTENAC Sold By: Gina Bundy

549 SOUTH MASON, TOWN AND COUNTRY Sold By: Gina Bundy

9801 LOG CABIN COURT, LADUE Sold By: Alex Thornhill and Heather Johnson

155 CARONDELET PLAZA, UNIT 802, CLAYTON Sold By: Terri Wolfner

4 COUNTRYSIDE LANE, FRONTENAC Sold By: John Zarky and Kevin Hurley

Sold By: Alex Thornhill and Heather Johnson Represented Seller and Buyer

14 BELLERIVE CC, TOWN AND COUNTRY

36 PORTLAND PLACE, CENTRAL WEST END Sold By: John Zarky and Kevin Hurley Represented Seller and Buyer

33 WOODCLIFFE ROAD, LADUE Sold By: Julie Lane

year in REVIEW

PICTURE THIS…

KITCHEN TRENDS HEADING INTO 2025

by lauren rechan

SINCE KITCHEN REMODELS continue to be the most sought after renovation, it’s time to review the most recent trends. If you are redoing a kitchen in 2025, I highly recommend you adopt some of these elements so that your project will remain on trend for years to come. As fads come and go, it is important to be up to date from the start. This will maximize your investment.

Some are heading back to a closed kitchen concept or this “scullery” (aka butler’s pantry) to hide the mess of the kitchen while entertaining. Look for this term to pop up!

future, incorporate it now if you are remodeling.

Using eye-catching stone slabs as a backsplash continues to trend, and this example includes the range hood.

Let the light shine into your kitchen as much as possible. Floor to ceiling windows or nano doors make an indoor kitchen feel outdoors.

Tone on tone neutrals have started to take the place of the all-white kitchens that have dominated the scene for so many years.

This example of an all-wood kitchen combined with oversized windows exemplifies these prevailing trends.

This stunning kitchen proves you don’t have to be afraid to make bold choices on color or pattern.

in kitchen design. Go for an overstated look when possible.

Concrete and open shelving help create a minimalist and earthy workspace that feels warm.

plan, others are making the kitchen feel like a true living space

This masterful design incorporates multiple trends in one: natural woods, stunning stone slabs, modern lighting and oversized windows.

I love this use of stainless steel cabinetry for a stunning island.

Designers are embracing a mix of materials and finishes in the kitchen.

home tour: JULIA LONGCHAMPS’ IVEY TRACE

Julia Longchamps is a Maryland-based interior designer known for creating timeless, welcoming interiors with a blend of modern and classic elements. The Ivey Trace home exemplifies her signature style, combining sophisticated, layered design with functionality and warmth. Each space reflects her intentional approach, ensuring every detail contributes to a lived-in, yet elevated aesthetic that stands the test of time.

ARCHITECTURAL FLOW: OPEN YET DEFINED SPACES

Every entry to this home is encapsulated by the soft glow of natural light. Structured with open-concept rooms, these well-defined spaces allow light to flow through the home while maintaining distinct functional areas. This layout creates an easy flow from one space to another, making the home feel expansive yet connected.

COLORS AND PATTERNS: A SOPHISTICATED SCHEME

This multifaceted home greets you with an array of playful patterns and tones. From neutral varying shades of beige, cream and gray, to pops of blue, green, pink and yellow, each room showcases its personality through accent wallpaper, color and unique design accents. Despite the clean lines and sleek nature of the common areas, the bedrooms, bathrooms and dens come alive with the character of its residents. No two spaces are the same, as each room features different textures of tiles and patterns. From pinks and creams, to marble and wood tones, every space has its own sense of style that, while shining on its own, completes the home.

MATERIALS AND TEXTURES: A STORY OF DEPTH

Depth finds its origin in the convergence of the home’s materials and elements. The thoughtful layering of wood, stone, metals and fabrics add a visual interest that captivates the natural eye. The varied textures in the upholstery, countertops, flooring and cabinets bring warmth and richness to the color scheme, creating dimension throughout the home. Each area of this home feels like a new experience.

THE ART OF LIGHTING

Luxury craft is evident in the decorative lighting around this home. Bold chandeliers, sculptural pendant lights, and soft ambient lighting find their homes in each space, illuminating while doubling as functional art. These pieces add personality and a touch of glamor to the overall design. &

JULIA LONGCHAMPS | PHOTOS: KEYANNA

DESIGN:

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AGENT PROFILES

Keith Manzer | Keith R. Manzer & Associates

With more than 42 years of experience marketing and selling luxury properties in the greater St. Louis area, Keith was named the “Face of Luxury Real Estate” by St. Louis Magazine six times.

8227 MARYLAND AVE. | 314.609.3155 | KEITHRMANZER.COM

Bridget Forbes, owner of The Denny Team, has 21 years in real estate. Our award-winning team excels in resale, new construction, off-market investments and rehabs. Backed by more than 50 years of experience, we prioritize seamless client-focused service from start to finish. 12851 MANCHESTER ROAD, STE. 100 | 314.775.2050 | 314.497.2127

Heidi Long | Heidi Long Real Estate

JANET MCAFEE REAL ESTATE

Real estate sales allows Heidi to connect with the community, leverage her financial expertise and solve challenges daily. She is honored to help clients achieve their real estate dreams, making every day exciting and deeply rewarding.

9889 CLAYTON ROAD | 314.997.4800 HEIDILONGREALESTATE.COM

Alyssa Suntrup

GLADYS MANION REAL ESTATE

Compass is the No. 1 real estate brokerage nationwide with more than 30,000 of the top referral partners. Larry has more than 25 years experience in Clayton and Ladue and was a founding partner of Compass Realty Group St. Louis in 2021. Ask him about the Make Me Sell Pricing during this low

Since 2022, Alyssa Suntrup has been Gladys Manion’s highest-grossing agent and University City’s highest-producing agent. She set a new record for her brokerage with more than $30 million in sales and has exceeded more than $100 million in sales in six years as a realtor. 8227 MARYLAND

| 314.721.4755 ALYSSASUNTRUP.GLADYSMANION.COM

Kathy Karasick and Joelle Hibbard

Your Real Estate Concierge BERKSHIRE HATHAWAY HOMESERVICES ALLIANCE REAL ESTATE

Each client and real estate transaction is unique. With 25 years of combined experience and a solid professional network of associates, Kathy and Joelle provide expert guidance through every step of buying and selling, ensuring a seamless and efficient process. The details matter— Kathy and Joelle have you covered and would love to work with you.

Mark and Neil Gellman

The Gellman Team EXP REALTY

Mark and Neil and their extraordinary team have helped more than 529 families achieve their real estate goals in 2024 and celebrated surpassing $2 billion in career sales earlier this year. With their team culture, built upon a foundation of 11 core values, The Gellman Team is forging lifelong client relationships and making a positive impact on the community.

Wayne Norwood and Ben Patton Finest Homes of Saint Louis

JANET MCAFEE REAL ESTATE

Wayne Norwood and Ben Patton of Finest Homes of Saint Louis have achieved more than $500 million in career sales and more than a decade of expertise in the St. Louis central corridor market. Bringing a white-glove approach to every client, Wayne and Ben are known for their outstanding track record and are consistently recognized as leading luxury real estate agents.

A Home In Naples, The Perfect Gift...

Dan M. Diekneite

WILLIAM RAVEIS REAL ESTATE

Dan Diekneite was recently ranked one of the top 500 agents in Florida, as well as in the top 1.5% of agents in the country. A proud native of St. Louis, Dan now resides in Florida full time. For the last eight years, he has been working in real estate to help people achieve their dream of home ownership in Southwest Florida!

DEAR HOMEWORK,

I enjoyed your recent Homework: Lessons column about foundation plants, and I think it’s definitely applicable to our home! Also, the previous owners built the top addition with cream siding, and we’d like to either paint it all one color or leave the brick and repaint the siding and shutters. We would love some color suggestions (we’re leaning toward gray and white) and landscaping ideas. Thank you.

Sincerely, —TIME FOR A COLOR CHANGE

DEAR TIME FOR A COLOR CHANGE,

Often with Colonial style homes, I try to increase symmetry and formality, but with the easygoing asymmetry of your property, I think it’s best to keep it that way.

When I initially drew your house as an uncolored line drawing, I felt it was missing something as an all white facade. Therefore, I am taking you up on your suggestion of using gray by painting the second-floor siding that color. I think it gives the presentation some needed detail. I also widened some of the shutters on the wider windows. Also note that I have added a few vertical mullions to the windows to give them a more traditional feel.

For the landscape, I show a new curved boxwood hedge on the street side of the entry walk, flanked with low growing junipers. New round boxwoods frame the front door and compliment larger coach lamps. A simple hedge serves as the foundation planting for the main body of the house, and more junipers underplant the service wing. I left the existing redbud in place to reinforce the overall casual feel. Hopefully that gives you some new ideas.

Thanks for asking, —HOMEWORK &

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josh schertz

WHY SAINT LOUIS UNIVERSITY?

OFF the cuff claiborne w/

miles mikolas

WHO WERE SOME OF THE PLAYERS THAT GAVE YOUR FASHION INSPO?

I had four or five really good opportunities, but with SLU, everything aligned. I wanted to be somewhere where I could create an environment where our players could become the best versions of themselves. Everyone wants to win championships, but is there alignment in how you want to go about it? I felt that here. Plus, there is St. Louis itself. I have a number of friends who either grew up or lived here at some point, and not one of them isn’t enamored with the city.

randi naughton

WHEN IT COMES TO YOUR CAREER, WHAT IS THE BEST ADVICE YOU CAN GIVE?

Say yes to everything until someone gives you a reason to say no. I’ve mentored a lot of young journalists who get offers for radio, but they think they should turn it down because they want to do TV. Do the radio gig. It’s experience, it pads your resume, and it will get you in more doors.

Luke Gregeron made a lasting impression on me. They told us we dress casually for a flight, which really just meant no tie. I wasn’t great at tying ties, so I was excited. I was getting ready to leave the locker room with no tie on, and Gregeron stops me and asks where my tie is. I say we don’t have to wear one, and he looks me right in the eyes and says, “But don’t you want to look like a big leaguer?” I turned right around and put my tie on. I still wear one on most flights.

jami dolby

WHY ST. LOUIS?

Why not? Juxtapose 1764 is named after the year St. Louis was founded. It’s a wonderful city. It’s a place with so many great ideas and great people. I think that being able to get the word out here is magical. That doesn’t mean it stops in St. Louis, but here it starts and elevates in a way that only the Midwest can do.

heidi glaus

HOW DOES TV DIFFER FROM RADIO?

A lot of people think they’re the same thing. No, they are not. With T.V., you’ve got a time crunch, you’re reading things as they’re written, and you have to be out by a certain time. In radio, you can talk about one subject for 15 minutes if you want or take your time in interviews. Plus, you get to be you. One of the hardest things in T.V. for me was balancing the professional with showing just enough personality. With radio, the bandage is off. If you tune in, you’re getting the real deal.

january MARK YOUR CALENDAR:

1/8-1/26

chicken and biscuits

Get ready to gasp and clutch your pearls! This laugh-out-loud comedy follows rival sisters Beverly and Baneatta as they bring the drama to their father’s funeral. In the middle of it all, a shocking family secret is revealed. Theatre at Washington University | $15-$50 314.534.3810 | theblackrep.org

1/16

teas & tours

Enjoy an afternoon tea service featuring sweet and savory and bites with a docent-led tour of Narrative Wisdom and African Arts. Saint Louis Art Museum | $40-$45 11 a.m.-2 p.m. | 314.721.0072 | slam.org

by stephanie wallace

1/17 & 1/19

anna bolena

Performed by Winter Opera St. Louis, Gaetano Donizetti’s operatic masterpiece takes the audience into the cutthroat Tudor court, a world of passion, betrayal and intrigue.

Kirkwood Performing Arts Center | $45-$65 2 and 7:30 p.m. | winteroperastl.org

1/15-2/9

athena

Presented by The Rep, the play follows teenage fencers training for the Junior Olympics. Mary Wallace and Athena practice together, compete against each other and spend their lives together.

Emerson Studio Theatre | $55 Various showtimes | 314.968.4925 repstl.org

1/18

winter jam 25 Skillet, Anne Wilson, KB, Colton Dixon, NewSong, Micah Tyler, speaker Zane Black and more hit the stage at the Enterprise Center. Enterprise Center | $15 | 6 p.m. enterprisecenter.com

1/18

the taylor party: taylor swift night Come shake it off at an enchanting evening of Swifties, singing and dancing through all T. Swift’s iconic Eras. The Pageant | $18 | 8 p.m. | 314.726.6161 thepageant.com

1/18

celestial counterpoint: songs among the stars

This dreamy program blends new music by American composers with classic French favorites to explore the wide range of celestial drama.

Pillsbury Theatre | TBA | 7:30 p.m. chamberprojectstl.org

1/21-2/2

six the musical

The hit musical comes to the StL. From Tudor queens to pop icons, the wives of Henry VIII remix 500 years of historical heartbreak into a celebration of girl power.

Fabulous Fox Theatre | $37-$119 Various showtimes | 314.534.1111 fabulousfox.com

1/25

18th annual loop ice carnival

The streets of the Delmar Loop will come alive with enchanting ice sculptures, dazzling ice carving demonstrations, an electrifying drone show and the Blues Street Team Slap Shot Game. Delmar Loop | Free | 11 a.m.-9 p.m. visittheloop.com

1/28

live at the pulitzer: inside out

The St. Louis Symphony Orchestra performs a special program of music inspired by the Scott Burton: Shape Shift exhibition at the Pulitzer Arts Foundation. Pulitzer Arts Foundation | $25 | 7:30 p.m. 314.534.1700 | slso.org

1/30

korean new year

Seollal marks the beginning of the lunar calendar in South Korea. Join St. Louisans of Korean heritage for an evening focused on food, traditions and celebration. Missouri History Museum | Free | 5-8 p.m. 314.746.4599 | mohistory.org

ON THE TABLE

photo by bill barrett EXPAT BBQ

first impression »

Making a mark on the St. Louis barbecue scene takes something special—the Lou is home to no shortage of places to get amazing ribs, pulled pork and more. But if anyone is up to the task, it’s Gerard Craft and Niche Food Group. Located at City Foundry, Expat BBQ puts a global spin on traditional American dishes. Think ribs with Chinese five spice and chili crisp or brisket with avocado salsa verde and yucatan spice rub. must

wash it down:

Expat BBQ offers a full bar service with wine, beer and creative house cocktails. For a unique libration, try the Kimchini ($15). Made with your choice of gin or vodka, it’s a spicy, briny spin on a classic martini thanks to the addition of kimchi paste.

DIA’S CHEESE BREAD, $12: You may already be familiar with this appetizer—it was on the menu of Niche Food Group’s Cinder House. It’s not hard to see why these biscuits were brought to Expat BBQ. You just can’t go wrong with cheesy bread. They’re soft and a little salty, and honey butter adds the perfect touch of sweetness.

PULLED CHICKEN SANDWICH, $14: This dish brings the flavors of northern Africa to a classic sandwich. It’s prepared with berbere, a blend of chilis and spices, and an awaze barbecue sauce, which is inspired by a versatile Ethiopian sauce. If you find poultry boring when it comes to barbecued meats, this sandwich will change your mind. The flavors are phenomenal.

LAMB SHOULDER PLATE, $24: This dish is perfectly seasoned courtesy of a blend of fresh bay leaf, black and green cardamom, cumin, coriander and clove—plus pomegranate molasses. Thanks to the yogurt-based white barbecue sauce, the lamb almost takes on the vibe of a deconstructed gyro, but the flavor palette has a unique BBQ spin.

JERK CHICKEN WINGS tossed in a jerk rub then smoked and served with sweet and spicy sauce

final thoughts »

Expat BBQ is definitely worth a visit, whether you’re eating in the main dining room or grabbing a late night snack on the terrace. The menu isn’t something that you’re going to find at any other barbecue spot. The interior has a cool vibe, leaning into the industrial history of City Foundry and adding fun touches, like vibrant patterned wallpapers and vintage travel posters. St. Louisans are lucky that we don’t have to travel that far to get a global take on barbecue.

MAC N CHEESE, $11: When it comes to sides, this is a can’t-miss. It’s creamy and rich with a distinct crunch thanks to both bread crumbs and crispy chicken skin. There’s also a pleasant heat thanks to jalapeños. It’s the perfect complement to any barbecue dish.

ICE CREAM SUNDAE SHAVED ICE, $9: Fluffy shaved ice is covered in chocolate and cherry sauces and condensed milk. It’s more akin to the Korean dessert bingsu than a traditional snow cone. While the toppings are still sweet, it’s not the pure sugar bomb of flavored syrup. The chocolate especially adds some richness. It’s a unique dessert that’s definitely worth trying.