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[ LETTER FROM THE EDITOR ] In this issue’s parenting column, Dr. Jordan talks about the deleterious effects of spanking and other forms of corporal punishment for kids. Yet boomers grew up at a time when this was totally acceptable, hard as that may be to imagine now. I remember being chased around the dining room table more than once, although I’m not sure what my mother would have done if she’d caught me. What I am sure of is that it was an exercise in futility. Just like when I slept over at a young friend’s house and her parents wouldn’t let me get up from the table until I finished my cereal. Or went to a birthday party and was forced to eat the cake (really). It never succeeded in making me like cereal or cake any better. Yet these and other bullying behaviors were commonplace when boomers were growing up. But as with advances in other areas over the past 50 years—think how much more enlightened we are today about lasers, religious and racial equality, medicines and mental illness—we also understand childhood better. Today we treat young people like individuals in their own right, not like possessions of their parents. You need take only one look at a hulking Adrian Peterson to see how wrong it is for him to touch a child in anger. If we want kids to grow up confident and happy, we have to treat them like they have the right to.

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THE INSIDER COVER STORY – Forsyth School TALK OF THE TOWNS HALLOWEEN & HARVEST EVENTS

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GUIDE TO SCHOOLS COVER STORY – Visitation Academy PARENT TRAP HEARD IN THE HALLS SPORTS STANDOUTS

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THE NINE NETWORK of Public Media has received two Emmy Awards from the Mid-America Chapter of the National Academy of Television Arts and Sciences. Nine Network president and CEO Jack Galmiche accepted the Special Achievement Community Service Emmy for the station’s on-air coverage about the nation’s high school dropout crisis. Jim Kirchherr and Anne-Marie Berger accepted an Emmy in the Special Assignment/Program/Special category for Open for Business, a report on the health insurance marketplace.

The late GEORGIA FRONTIERE, former owner of the St. Louis Rams, is still contributing to civic life in St. Louis. Horoscope: The Astrology Murders, a suspense novel she wrote before her passing in 2008, was released recently in partnership with Safe Connections, a local nonprofit that works to end domestic and sexual violence. Frontiere’s daughter, Lucia Rodriguez, was in town to promote the book, which is available online and at local bookstores and Rams games. A portion of proceeds will benefit Safe Connections.

DR. GRAHAM COLDITZ, a disease prevention expert at Siteman Cancer Center and Washington University School of Medicine, was honored for Outstanding Achievement in Cancer Prevention Research by the American Association for Cancer Research. The organization presented him with the award at its conference in New Orleans, where Colditz spoke on the challenges and opportunities in breast cancer research. As an internationally recognized leader in cancer prevention, Colditz has an interest in the preventable causes of chronic disease, especially among women. He previously has focused on the health effects of smoking, weight and weight gain, physical activity and diet.

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10/6 Perry Drake @pddrake Happy 20th birthday to my favorite @Kaldis_Coffee over on Demun. Love you guys. Here is to 20 more!! #coffee

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10/3 MorganStreet @MorganStBrewery LOVING the crisp #Fall air! Sweaters, campfires, weddings, parties. What a beautiful time to live in #StLouis. <3 this city!

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Renowned musician WYNTON MARSALIS AND THE JAZZ AT LINCOLN CENTER ORCHESTRA (of which he is artistic director) performed at the grand opening of the Harold and Dorothy Steward Center for Jazz in the Grand Center arts district. The center houses the new Centene Jazz Education Center and the newly renovated Ferring Jazz Bistro, and aims to establish St. Louis as a premier destination for jazz music and education in the Midwest.

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A glimpse at what’s going on around St. Louis and beyond.

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Imagine a time when horse racing was more popular in St. Louis than baseball. From 1767 to 1905, there were more than 20 racing venues in the area, and countless wellknown jockeys and horsemen came to the Gateway City to race. Local author NANCY CARVER delves into the glory days of St. Louis racing in her book, Making Tracks:

The Untold Story of Horse Racing in St. Louis, 1767-1905, taking readers on an historical tour.

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EDUCATING A CHILD IS A LOT LIKE GROWING A GARDEN. Both have unique needs that must be understood and met. Both require loving care, patience and attention, and both need to be nurtured and shaped. Forsyth School has been helping children bloom into their full potential since 1961. “By providing a challenging, engaging curriculum, a supportive atmosphere and opportunities for success, we help students cultivate their intelligence, talents and self-confidence,” says environmentalist and science teacher Gary Schimmelpfenig. “Teaching them to understand, appreciate and respect nature has always been part of our mission.” One of many innovative ways students learn at Forsyth is through hands-on science activities like Back to Our Roots, a native plant initiative on school grounds. The project’s latest phase, a collaboration among students, parents, faculty and the St. Louis Audubon Society, began last year on the school’s newly expanded campus. “We’ve had a native habitat garden on the far eastern side of campus since 2007, but recently found ourselves with three additional areas of open land: the front and back yards of Next House, a historic home on Wydown Boulevard purchased for more classroom space in 2012, and a field on the western edge of campus, acquired in 2011,” Schimmelpfenig recalls. “So, working with our trustees, plant and land committee, and facilities manager Michael Mitchell and his team, we decided to continue beautifying our empty spaces in ways that give students more opportunities to interact with nature.” Mitch Leachman, executive director of the St. Louis Audubon Society, gladly accepted when a past Forsyth parent and Audubon Society volunteer invited him to pitch in. “I led the plant selection and design effort for the front of Next House, and assisted with the songbird hedge along the west and north sides of campus,” he explains. The goal: to select sustainable, low-maintenance native plants, such as rose verbena, native dogwood, sumac, holly and vibernum, which attract hundreds of species of native birds and insects with food, shelter and breeding space. “Native woody plants, unlike popular ornamentals from Europe and Asia, provide food for butterfly and moth caterpillars, which in turn become critical protein sources for songbirds,” he says. “We also took care to choose some plants that flower across the entire growing season, for students to learn from and enjoy.” Many of the plants were installed with help from students, says parent Megan Clinton, who contributed to the Next House landscape design with past parent Susan Pang. Both are graduates of Missouri Botanical Garden’s master gardener program. “I have three sons at Forsyth, and this ongoing effort heightens their awareness, curiosity and connection to the natural world,” Clinton says. “They’re learning that human beings are part of a larger, interdependent web.” The project enhances their education and development, and instills a passion for lifelong learning, she adds. “And it brings joy and beauty to everyone involved.”

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Disappointing a Catholic parish—but making at least one atheist happy—Ballwin’s city council has put the kibosh on the ‘In God We Trust’ sign that had been proposed for the wall behind the dais in the council chambers. Proponents of the four words, including the Knights of Columbus at Holy Infant Catholic Church, said the words represent patriotism, not religion. Begging to differ, atheist Nikki Moungo recently made an impassioned plea before the council. Her main point was that the sign would create controversy where none has existed; in essence, why invite trouble? Aldermen voted 6-2 not to accept the K of C’s $750 donation to install the 12 letters, which have been stamped on the nation’s coinage since 1864 and have been the nation’s motto since 1956. But it isn’t the city’s motto—that’s ‘Bringing People Together.’ For residents like Moungo, that and the failed proposal would have been at cross purposes. Nationwide, that seems to be the case for most municipalities where the issue hasn’t passed muster. But it has in at least one town in the metro: The phrase has been approved for a number of government facilities in St. Peters. Meanwhile, what happens to the rejected $750 donation in Ballwin? Well, shrubbery looks nice, and it’s not too expensive. The familiar cyclist icons on pavement are expanding throughout the metro as new bicycle lanes are being created in the StL. These continue to augment routes previously established in the county, from close-in suburbs like Clayton out to Kirkwood. Great Rivers Greenway and Trailnet reps joined Hizzoner Francis Slay in announcing that 40 additional miles of bicycle lanes will be available and clearly marked in the city by next spring. In this, the third phase of the Bike St. Louis initiative that got underway in 2004, the 60 miles of route already established also will be marked afresh. Our emphasis here is on fresh, as in refreshing. The regional approach represented by the cooperation of various agencies truly is making The Lou and its environs more bike-friendly, from repurposing a once-idled train

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trestle in the city to former railroad right-of-way in Clayton and Kirkwood. It really doesn’t need a great deal of money to back pedal power. Inter-jurisdictional cooperation is critical, of course, to developing seamless transition from one community to the next. But more important is increasing understanding between citizens who travel on two and four wheels (see Sunset Hills item). In some ways, cyclists and drivers have a mutual distrust reminiscent of U.S. relations with the former Soviet Union. Détente helped that. But for the love to spread here, all you need is paint. Every town endures growing pains of one sort or another, and for Creve Coeur, it comes with a ‘drive-thru’ lane. At present, McDonald’s is the only drive-through restaurant in town, but several others are in line at city hall, either to build or to retrofit existing buildings. The city’s planning and zoning body is mulling over a global approach to the issue, rather than handling each request piecemeal, which just seems to make sense in an ounce-of-prevention framework. Creve Coeur is considering, among other things, reducing the plot size a drive-through restaurant may occupy from 3 to 2 acres. The establishment would need to be situated no fewer than 50 feet from the nearest residential property line. Does this mean that many more such restaurants will be able to move into town? Actually, maybe not. At this juncture in the ordinance-crafting process, there are restrictions aplenty, e.g.; the restaurants would be stand-alone only if another commercial building also occupies the property, or would need to be part of a strip center that includes no other restaurants. Earlier this year, Panera Bread’s request for changes to its existing restaurant was denied. Opponents, of course, fear an eventual glut of fast-food joints and the concomitant increase in traffic and noise. Begs the question: Just how many more of the same-old, same-old comfort-food eateries does the metro really need? Is your workout routine getting a little flabby? Research by Gold’s Gym says it probably is. According to Gold’s, October is the month with the lowest number of gym check-ins, which has led the fitness chain to help you (or anyone) pick up the pace, or get started. As an incentive, Gold’s is opening all gyms nationwide for free every weekend of October. (Gold’s has a number of area locations, including 2601 State Highway K in O’Fallon.) Here are a few tips from fitness expert Jamie Eason, who helped with the Gold’s research: • Seasonal change—As summer gives way to fall, the weather and workouts cool down, easing up on the regimen associated with maintaining a firm, trim physique. • Earlier nightfall—With daylight waning and clocks

falling back, motivation flags and people can become less active. Gold’s knows that for some, it’s going to be a mad rush to maintain a fit appearance closer to the holidays. Some may relax until a few weeks before Thanksgiving. Others might start hibernating now, maybe to awaken just in time to start another New Year’s resolution. A new Rooster is crowing on grand South Grand in St. Louis. For fans of the crêperie at 1104 Locust St. downtown, this is a welcome addition. For those who haven’t had the pleasure, George Takei would probably say, ‘Oh myyy.’ The space, festooned with the fowl whimsy of roosters painted by elementary school kids, is large enough to seat a regiment. A repurposed and expanded bank building that had lain a-rusting for years at 3150 S. Grand Blvd., the restaurant is right at home among the eclectic offerings that stretch from Arsenal south to Humphrey: Three Vietnamese places, two Thai, one pan-Asian, an Italian, plus various eateries that represent most anywhere else around the planet, from Moroccan and Ethiopian fare to the allST. LOUIS

American City Diner. For those not in the know (your trusty scribe was included), Rooster is another brainchild of David Bailey, prime mover of Bailey’s Chocolate Bar, Small Batch, The Fifth Wheel and Bailey’s Range. (Although you’d think the surname would have given away two of them.) Lovers of the Locust location should be encouraged by the Grand spot’s hours of operation: 7 a.m.-10 p.m., a full seven hours later than the flagship location (it shutters at 3). And this raises the bar even higher for eating too much on Sunday morning in and around Tower Grove Park, what with the likes of bodacious brunches at Moab’s and Piper Palm House. Mark Furrer, mayor of Sunset Hills, has been charged with two felonies for the July altercation with a racing cyclist who some have termed a road-rage incident. Furrer was charged with first-degree property damage and second-degree assault. Cyclists nationwide

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When it comes to gorgeous diamond bands, Elleard Heffern has plenty to go around. Choose from an array of diamond shapes, sizes and prices. So whether your style is big and bold or delicate and dainty, your band reflects his love for you. have been up in arms since the mayor’s Mercedes allegedly ran cyclist Randy Murdick off Gravois Road, rupturing his Achilles tendon and seriously damaging his expensive racing bicycle. Sunset Hills police, who did not ticket the mayor, turned the investigation over to county police. Once the story went viral via social media, Furrer was deluged with calls and emails from an angry cycling community; locally, hundreds rode to city hall a few days afterward to raise ‘Share the Road’ awareness. Not surprisingly, Murdick’s and Furrer’s stories differ significantly. The write-in mayor claims Murdick ran a stop sign and fell after grabbing onto the car; Murdick claims Furrer shouted an obscenity and swerved, forcing him to lose his balance. About the only thing both admit to is using colorful language. Murdick’s attorney reportedly said he was expected to be out of action for a month after he fell. Since prosecutors announced the charges, at least one alderman has called for Furrer to step down. If convicted of a felony, he would be required by law to do so. Bullying, although often called other things, is still bullying. At schools, when practiced by fraternities or athletic teams, it’s called hazing. Although not condoned by organizations most anywhere nowadays—allegedly—it goes on, much to the chagrin of educators, administrators, parents, and young people who want to ‘belong.’ At The Principia, a private secondary school in Town & Country, police were called in August to investigate an assault, which cops characterized as an incident of hazing. Although authorities at the school have been mum in the media, parents say the school got word out to the school community posthaste. Police say their investigation is complete and that the matter has been presented to county prosecutors for review. Reportedly as many as five kids are in hot water over the incident, as well they should be. Hazing ranges from harmless pranks to bodily harm. Nearly anyone who has endured it wouldn’t characterize it as amusing. Such ‘rites of passage’ are antiquated. And if an assault or other crime has been committed, it should be prosecuted as such. Gate-gate, maybe they should call it. That is, to some folks in particular communities, it’s a big hairy deal. To others, it’s like, meh. Wildwood recently held a public hearing on gated communities, an issue about which residents of most of the towns we talk about have little or no concern. (Must be nice. I know, right?) For the last two decades, there has been a ban in the city. But now city officials are considering allowing gated committees, under certain conditions. The pros and cons both boil down to safety. For some residents, gates would be a hindrance to burglars, creeps and other strangers who would enter their neighborhoods. Essentially, it’s for the kids. Public-safety officials also look at safety, but from the other side of the gate. Sometimes it’s not easy to access a gated community quickly in case of a fire or other emergency.

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Grecian Kitchen Holiday Open House Luncheon & Boutique Shopping event

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HALLOWEEN & HARVEST EVENTS 10/17-10/19, 10/24-10/26 HAUNTED HAYLOFT

Purina Farms | 4:30 to 7:30 p.m. Friday and Saturday; 2:30 to 5:30 p.m. Sunday | Free | purinafarms.com

10/17-10-19; 10/24-10/26 NOT-SO-HAUNTED HOUSE The Magic House | Museum Hours | Free with admission magichouse.org

10/17-10/30 BOO AT THE ZOO NIGHTS Saint Louis Zoo | 5:30 to 8:30 p.m. $7 general admission, $6 members | stlzoo.org

10/18, 10/19, 10/25 PUMPKIN JAMBOREE

Eckert’s Millstadt, Belleville and Grafton locations 9 a.m. to 5 p.m. | Fee charged for some activities | eckerts.com

10/18 , 10/19, 10/25, 10/26 HERMANN OKTOBERFEST Hermann, Mo. | All day Free | visithermann.com/hermann-oktoberfest

10/19 HARVEST FESTIVAL

Laumeier Sculpture Park | 11 a.m. to 5 p.m. $10 adults, $8 members, free for children 10 and under laumeiersculpturepark.org SponSored by The KaTy Land TruST. ConServing The MiSSouri CounTrySide.

10/19 ANNUAL PUMPKIN CARVING BENEFITING STRAY RESCUE OF ST. LOUIS

Lemp Mansion | 12:30 to 4:30 p.m. | $10 | lempmansion.com

10/24 FRIDAY NIGHT LIVE—HALLOWEEN STYLE: A HAUNTED EVENT FOR MIDDLE SCHOOL STUDENTS

The Lodge Des Peres | 6 to 9 p.m. Free for members, $5 for residents, $7 for non-members desperesmo.org

10/25 SECOND ANNUAL TRICK-OR-TREAT SPOOKTACULAR

Taubman Prestige Outlets | 2 to 4 p.m. Free | taubmanprestigeoutlets.com

10/25 HALLOWEEN FAMILY DAY

Contemporary Art Museum | 10 a.m. to noon | Free | camstl.org

10/25 KIMMSWICK APPLE BUTTER FESTIVAL Kimmswick, Mo. | 10 a.m. to 5 p.m. Free | visitkimmswick.com

10/25 LEMP MANSION HALLOWEEN BASH Lemp Mansion | 8 p.m. to 12:30 a.m. $60 in advance, $65 at the door | lempmansion.com

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10/31 HALLOWEEN AT THE CAMPBELL

HOUSE: DEATH, DISEASE AND DESPAIR

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Catholic | Independent Coed Montessori Toddler - K All-Girls 1 - 12

ALL-SCHOOL OPEN HOUSE Toddler through Grade 12 Sunday, November 2 from Noon-4pm

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HEAD OF SCHOOL ROSALIE HENRY WITH STUDENTS LAURA NICULA AND OLIVIA MORALES

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by karyn meyer

Come visit us at

Open House Nov. 2 Noon - 4:00 p.m

THE COURAGE TO GROW The Strength to Lead It’s a promise. At St. Joseph’s Academy, we are dedicated to developing strong leaders who go on to make a profound impact in the world. Through our values and guiding principles, we speak a common language that unites us, inspires others and propels our community forward. We are St. Joe.

2307 S. Lindbergh Blvd. St. Louis, MO 63131 314.394.4321 stjosephacademy.org

CELEBRATE THE STRENGTH WITHIN. This positive message is at the heart of Visitation Academy’s newly dedicated middle school program. The all-girls Catholic school (except for toddlers through kindergarten) was founded in 1833 on the ideals of the Visitation sisters’ Salesian spirituality to ‘live Jesus.’ Until this year, it offered a lower school for toddlers through sixth grade and an upper school for seventh through 12th. But as the school worked on a strategic plan in 2010, it felt the need for a bridge between the lower and upper schools. Head of school Rosalie Henry says they realized a distinct program would allow middle school students a greater chance to shine in their own leadership roles, academic endeavors and spiritual journeys. “This is the inaugural year, and the students absolutely love having their own middle school,” Henry says. “We can now cater to this unique group of girls at a time that will affect them the rest of their lives. We wanted to focus on giving these girls the structure and support they need in a nurturing, rigorous environment.” Jane Eschmann, former assistant principal at CBC for 15 years, was named the new middle school principal, and Henry says she serves as a loving, nurturing ‘go-to person’ for both parents and students. Before the 2014-15 school year, Eschmann, who was on the board at Visitation when she was hired, spent a year collaborating with faculty and staff to establish a curriculum and extracurricular activities specifically designed for this age group. “They have their own student council, literary magazine, choir, creative writing club and campus minister, to name a few, and they’ll put on a separate play and Christmas concert,” she says. Eschmann pulled faculty from the upper and lower schools who showed a sincere interest in moving to the middle school grade levels. “These years can be challenging for girls, so we got those involved who have a passion for teaching women of this age,” she notes. She says the teachers promote an interactive, investigative approach to learning that includes field trips and hands-on activities, such as outdoor team-building exercises for sixth-graders at Trout Lodge, a seventh-grade retreat in the Great Smoky Mountains and an eighth-grade trip to Washington, D.C. “Every experience is tied to the curriculum, but students are learning about socialization and how to work as a team, too,” she explains. The girls also have a chance to interact and form friendships with those not in their class through the community system. Along with small adviser-led groups in each grade, the ‘communities’ include students from sixth through eighth grade. “Every grade level within the community plans a social or service activity each semester, which gives them a chance to get to know the other girls on a more personal level,” Eschmann explains. From uniform distinctions to clubs and programs established for their needs, middle-schoolers now have multiple opportunities to stand out in the student body. “We don’t want to segregate them totally from the upper school, but they won’t be lost in the shuffle anymore,” Eschmann says. “They have their own place to shine, grow and lead.”

VISITATION ACADEMY, LOCATED AT 3020 N. BALLAS ROAD, OFFERS A COED MONTESSORI EARLY CHILDHOOD PROGRAM FOR AGES 2 THROUGH KINDERGARTEN AND AN ALL-GIRLS LOWER, MIDDLE AND UPPER SCHOOL FOR GRADES ONE THROUGH 12. FOR MORE INFORMATION, CALL 314.625.9100 OR VISIT VISITATIONACADEMY.ORG. COVER COURTESY OF VISITATION ACADEMY

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WITH THE NFL in the hot seat, the issue of child abuse has been once again on the front pages. So is the debate about spanking children, and what is appropriate when ‘disciplining’ our kids. According to Dr. Murray Straus, who has studied the effects of spanking for 40 years, more than 100 studies have demonstrated the following effects of spanking children: increased probability the child will hit other children, their parents, and dating or marital partners; antisocial behaviors; mental health problems; and even decreased gray matter in the prefrontal cortex of the brain. But there are also additional hidden costs with corporal punishment, ones I have heard straight from kids for years. The following are direct quotes from teens wrote: I felt violated! It leaves me feeling empty and like I’ll never be whole. I felt so bad and betrayed. I lost trust in my dad for a really long time. Getting hit sucks, but when it’s by a parent, it’s like being shot. I felt scared of my dad, and I decided I could never open up and tell him what was going on in my life. I wished he would leave and never come back. I felt unwanted. The feelings kids are left with after spankings also can affect behaviors that extend into adulthood. Children who feel sadness may shut down, numb out or take on an ‘I don’t care’ attitude, which can result in addictions as adults. Some end up becoming pleasers who give up their own thoughts and needs to avoid their parent’s anger and punishments. Kids who experience fear from being hit can end up overly sensitive to chaos and anger as adults, as it brings them back to emotions they felt as children. They may become averse to trying new things or taking risks for fear of making mistakes or failing, if, in childhood, those brought severe consequences. Children who are spanked a lot often lose their self esteem, and as adults, they may have a hard time setting healthy boundaries in their relationships. If you don’t feel a sense of self worth, you won’t do what is necessary to defend yourself, which is why women go back to abusive partners over and over again. If there is a lot of chaos in a home that makes kids feel out of control, they will internalize that and consequently spend the rest of their lives trying to control everything to create a sense of calm and peace. The most injurious consequence for kids who are spanked was described well by the last teen girl above: feeling unwanted and unloved. These children may develop trust issues that make it hard for them to experience real closeness in their relationships, including with a marriage partner. Their parents, who they were supposed to be able to count on the most, betrayed their trust, and it’s hard to recover from that. Avoiding closeness may protect them from being hurt again, but it leaves them alone and empty. I have comforted thousands of kids and teens over the years who were feeling intense emotions after being spanked. There are effective alternatives to discipline kids. There is never a reason to hit a child. It’s time to break the cycle. TIM JORDAN, M.D., IS A BEHAVIORAL PEDIATRICIAN WHO SPECIALIZES IN COUNSELING GIRLS AGES 6 THROUGH COLLEGE. FOR MORE INFORMATION, GO TO DRTIMJORDAN.COM.

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AT HOME IN THE WORLD

Fall Open House, Sat. Nov. 8 9 - Noon TCS TALK Panel on Mon. Oct. 27 6-7:30 PM

CHARTING THE NEXT HALF-CENTURY

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HEARD IN THE [ HALLS ] Chesterfield Day School alum Austin Smith (â&#x20AC;&#x2122;02) brought a few extra guests with him when he visited his alma mater recently. His band, Roots of a Rebellion, performed for students (including Smithâ&#x20AC;&#x2122;s nephews, Grayson and Truett Marks) during lunch periods. The Nashville musicians promote appreciation for music as a healing art and combine a variety of musical influences.

DESMET JESUIT HIGH SCHOOL

Drew Boland, student body president at DeSmet Jesuit High School, is leading a nationwide effort to address the lack of access to clean water for millions of people around the world. Starting this month and continuing through March, DeSmet students will join other Jesuit high school students across the country in a campaign to raise money for water.org, which provides resources, manpower and logistics to build sustainable wells and working restrooms in developing countries. DESMET

JOHN BURROUGHS HIGH SCHOOL

John Burroughs junior Cole Gieseking chose Aim High as the beneficiary of his Eagle Scout project when his math teacher, Aim High co-director Kevin McKone, informed him the nonprofit had no support for its athletic program. Gieseking organized an equipment drive at Sports Authority in Brentwood, asking shoppers to purchase desired items from a list he passed out at the door. He also went to neighbors and sent out hundreds of letters asking for donations. The drive collected more than 300 items, enough to fully stock the Aim High athletic programs at both the John Burroughs and Priory campuses. Aim High is a four-year, tuition-free program for fifth- through eighth-graders who have demonstrated potential, the majority of whom come from challenging economic and social circumstances.

MARIAN MIDDLE SCHOOL

Students from Marian Middle School donned pink hard hats to build a wheelchair ramp for a young man with a spinal cord injury at his South City home. The girls took turns with construction and neighborhood clean-up while also learning about power tools, physical disabilities and construction careers. The project was made possible by a grant from Emerson awarded to math/STEM teacher Heather Olsen. Olsen applied for the grant after receiving an Emerson Excellence in Teaching Award.

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ROHAN WOODS

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Xiomara Mendoza-Colon, a junior at Ritenour High School, received the 2014 Sidney Johnson Learning Award from the St. Louis County Library Foundation for exemplary service to the library. Mendoza-Colon, 17, began volunteering at the Rock Road branch when she was an eighth-grader and has since then helped with numerous projects, including story time, the Summer Reading Club and shelving library material. She is the daughter of Eloy Mendoza and Romelia Colon-Caban of Overland.

ROHAN WOODS

Fifth- and sixth-grade students at Rohan Woods School recently traveled to New Brunswick, Canada, for a hands-on science experience at the Huntsman Marine Biology Centre. The Centre, which has access to one of the world’s most biologically productive ecosystems, offered students a unique learning experience about achieving sustainable development and effective management of coastal shores. Students studied sea stars, fed stingrays and went on a whale-sighting expedition.

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Lacrosse runs in the family for MICDS sophomore Harry Wellford. His mom owned a lacrosse equipment store, his brother helped MICDS win two state championships, and his sister, a senior, also plays for the school. So it was a natural choice for the 16-year-old to pick up a stick 10 years ago and make his mark on the field. Ranked as one of the top 25 Young Gun Sophomores of 2014 by Inside Lacrosse, Wellford has accomplished a lot in the sport at a young age. Along with playing on the high school team, he also is affiliated with multiple club teams: 3d Colorado, Project Missouri and West Coast Starz. As a freshman, he had a rewarding season across the board: His 3d Colorado team won the FIL World Lacrosse Championships and the U.S. Lacrosse U15 National Championships, and MICDS won the state championship. But along with the first-place finishes comes a true appreciation for the sport. “On all my teams, it’s like a family,” Wellford says. “All the players genuinely care for each other, and we all have a good time.” Wellford has given a verbal commitment to play at the University of Virginia. “I just felt at home when I visited,” he says. “They are ranked in the top three in the country for lacrosse, and the coach is the all-time winningest lacrosse coach in the history of the game.” Wellford is the only St. Louis player to commit to an Atlantic Coast Conference school. “One of the biggest reasons I chose Virginia is because it was in the ACC, which offers the best competition in the country.” His success doesn’t come without hard work. Practices at school begin in February, and in the off season, Wellford, who also plays football, trains four times a week with Project Missouri, a club team led by MICDS head coach Andy Kay. He also travels nationally with the West Coast Starz, which is composed of the top players from the West Coast and Midwest. For now, Wellford is looking forward to the upcoming school season. “Hopefully we’ll win another state championship.”

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[ fun on the field ] ALISON PINNOCK

Alison Pinnock, a junior at Ursuline Academy, didn’t have much exposure to field hockey when she decided to join the high school team freshman year. “I played very briefly in sixth grade and just picked it because I didn’t have a fall sport to play,” she says. It turned out to be a good decision. The17-year-old was named Rookie of the Year as a sophomore and has had national success with her club team, Aim Field Hockey. In 2013, the team won second at the Regional Club Championship and placed fourth overall at the National Club Championship. This summer, the team won first place at regionals and placed seventh at nationals. “Making it all the way to nationals two years in a row was a huge accomplishment,” Pinnock says. “My club coaches have really taught me a lot about the sport, and it’s a great opportunity to play with other girls from local high schools.” Her club team practices only when the high school season is complete, but it’s a year-round committment. “We have an indoor winter league, a spring league and we play in the tournaments in the summer. When we practice, it’s three to four days a week,” she explains. The Ursuline team practices every day during the week, and some weekends. “We have a new coach this year, and we’re really working on developing as a team,” she says. “I like playing with the high school team because it’s all about having fun.” Pinnock, who also is on the soccer team, says she hopes to continue playing at the college level.

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Sean Christman, a junior at DeSmet Jesuit High School, has a simple answer for why he started playing rugby: It sounded fun. His older brother also played the sport and encouraged him to try it. He has high hopes for the upcoming season, which starts in the spring. IS RUGBY AS ROUGH AS PEOPLE THINK? You can get injured in any sport, so it’s really overexaggerated with rugby. People don’t get hurt as often as you think. There’s an optional scrum cap you can wear that protects your ears. WHAT IS THE PRACTICE SCHEDULE LIKE? During the season, we practice four days a week. In the summer, my teammates and I play in a sevens league (seven players on the field), which is a different form of rugby than through school, when we play with 15 on the field. In fall and winter, we just try to get out and throw the ball around. HOW POPULAR IS RUGBY IN ST. LOUIS? It’s a growing sport. There are only eight high schools here that have a team, so we travel all around Missouri. DO YOU HAVE ANY DESIRE TO PLAY AFTER HIGH SCHOOL?

Definitely. There are men’s leagues in St. Louis, and lots of colleges have rugby as a club sport. HOW DOES THE TEAM LOOK THIS YEAR? I think we’re going to do really well this season. Last year we lost a lot of seniors, so it was a young team, and it was a learning experience for most of the guys. I’m looking forward to this year. DO YOU PLAY ANY OTHER SPORTS? I wrestle and am a running back and linebacker on the football team, but rugby is my favorite. OCTOBER 15, 2014

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1 | ANDREWS ACADEMY

900 Lay Road 63124  314.991.0005

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Andrews Academy is a private, nonprofit, co-educational elementary school with grades junior kindergarten through sixth. It is founded on progressive educational principles that demonstrate respect for the individual child’s development, provide a thorough grounding in the basic learning tools, and nurture independent thought. 888 N. MASON ROAD | 314.878.1883 ANDREWSACADEMY.COM

2 | CENTRAL CHRISTIAN SCHOOL

Founded in 1957, Central equips students ages 3 through sixth grade with a passion for God, a love of truth and a zeal to serve. By developing problem-solving and critical thinking skills in a diverse, engaging academic environment, we enable our graduates to successfully thrive in secondary school and engage their generation for Jesus Christ. 700 S. HANLEY ROAD | 314.727.4535 | CCSSTL.COM

3 | CHESTERFIELD DAY SCHOOL

Through meaningful work, Chesterfield Day School students age 18 months through sixth grade develop fundamental skills, think creatively and critically, identify and solve complex problems of the world, express themselves to the community, and grow in character. 1100 WHITE ROAD | 314.469.6622 | CHESTERFIELDDAYSCHOOL.ORG

4 | CHESTERFIELD MONTESSORI SCHOOL

ACADEMIC EXCELLENCE IN CHRISTIAN EDUCATION Age 3 - Grade 6

Chesterfield Montessori School offers an AMI-accredited Montessori program for children ages 16 months through grade nine. Students thrive in a peaceful environment under the guidance of highly trained Montessori staff who nurture respect for self and others and stimulate independent thinking. CMS students have a solid record of academic achievement, a belief in the dignity of work, and a sense of responsibility for their own development as happy and productive human beings. 14000 LADUE ROAD | 314.469.7150 | CHESTERFIELDMONTESSORI.ORG

5 | THE COLLEGE SCHOOL

The College School engages children, ages 3 to 14, in joyful, meaningful and creative learning through a theme-based, experiential curriculum enhanced by drama, art, music, P.E., Spanish and greenhouse science. The school owns 28 acres for extended study. 7825 BIG BEND BLVD. | 314.962.9355 | THECOLLEGESCHOOL.ORG

Ranked in the Top 10% of Christian Schools in America

6 | COMMUNITY SCHOOL OPEN HOUSES NOV. 21 JAN. 23 9 AM

12928 Ladue Road - Town & Country, MO 63141 - 314-434-4349 www.kirkdayschool.org

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Celebrating its 100th birthday in 2014, Community School provides the perfect balance of intellectual challenge and nurturing support for children age 3 through sixth grade. The 7:1 student-to-teacher ratio increases opportunities for personalized attention and differentiated curriculum. Music, art, band, P.E., drama, and woodshop complement the academic program. 900 LAY ROAD | 314.991.0005 | COMMUNITYSCHOOL.COM

Become yourself at Nerinx Hall!

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Please join us for Open House on Sunday November 2, 2014 from 11:30 am - 4 pm. Founded in 1924 by the Sisters of Loretto, Nerinx Hall High School challenges each young woman to academic excellence as she grows in knowledge of herself and her world. 530 East Lockwood Avenue, Webster Groves, MO 63119

314-968-1505

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7 | COR JESU ACADEMY

Cor Jesu Academy, a Catholic college-preparatory school founded by the Apostles of the Sacred Heart of Jesus, offers a challenging program committed to the total education of young women. Inspired by the charism, “Sharing the Love of the Heart of Christ,” students embrace personal dignity, faith, integrity and compassion. 10230 GRAVOIS ROAD | 314.842.1546 | CORJESU.ORG

8 | CROSSROADS COLLEGE PREPARATORY SCHOOL

Crossroads College Prep is small and mighty. Its academic, athletic, and chess programs are recognized at local, state and national levels, and it fosters close-knit student and teacher relationships. The only independent secondary school in St. Louis City, its urban location provides a city-wide classroom. 500 D E BALIVIERE AVE. | 314.367.8085 CROSSROADSCOLLEGEPREP.ORG

9 | FORSYTH SCHOOL

On a one-of-a-kind campus, Forsyth School offers a challenging, engaging education with support from exceptional teachers. Its strong academic foundation includes the visual and performing arts, sports, and challenging education, so Forsyth graduates are well-prepared for selective secondary schools. 6235 WYDOWN BLVD. | 314.726.4542 | FORSYTHONLINE.COM

10 | INDEPENDENT SCHOOLS OF ST. LOUIS

CENTRAL CHRISTIAN SCHOOL Founded 1957

Independent Schools of St. Louis represents 45 of the area’s most acclaimed private schools offering college-prep coursework in a range of diverse curricula, extraordinary teachers and low student-to-teacher ratios. Our schools foster a lifelong love of learning and help prepare your child for what lies ahead—one of the best investments you’ll ever make. 425 S. LINDBERGH BLVD. | 314.567.9229 | INDEPENDENTSCHOOLS.ORG

OPEN HOUSE

Friday, October 24, 2014 9:00–11:00 AM For information, call 314.727.4535 or visit www.ccsstl.com

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We awarded over $121,000 in college scholarships to 51 individuals for the 2014/15 school year. All funds stay local and go towards tuition and books. 314-719-2880

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11 | JOHN BURROUGHS SCHOOL

Burroughs—an independent, college preparatory day school—provides a liberal arts education that balances academics, athletics, arts and activities. A world-class faculty teaches a challenging curriculum in small classes. A mix of informality, community service and traditions, including morning assembly and family-style lunch, distinguishes the Burroughs experience. 755 S. PRICE ROAD | 314.993.4040 | JBURROUGHS.ORG

12 | KIRK DAY SCHOOL

Kirk Day School, an independent Christian elementary school, is ranked in the top 10 percent of Christian schools in America. Nestled in the heart of West St. Louis County and equipped with state-of-the-art technology, KDS provides academic excellence with a Biblical worldview to children ages 3 through grade six. 12928 LADUE ROAD | 314.434.4349 | KIRKDAYSCHOOL.ORG

13 | MARY INSTITUTE SAINT LOUIS COUNTRY DAY SCHOOL

At MICDS, students are inspired to pursue academic challenges, explore their intellectual passion and make a difference in the world. Today’s students learn best when they are engaged in work that has a practical application to their lives. At all grade levels, MICDS offers an innovative, hands-on curriculum that is discussion-based and focused on solving real-world problems. 101 N. WARSON ROAD | 314.995.7367 | MICDS.ORG

14 | NERINX HALL

As a Catholic high school founded by the Sisters of Loretto, Nerinx Hall educates young women to think critically, act deliberately and make a difference in the world. Inspired by the Gospel’s call to action and service, Nerinx women build community, work for justice and respect the dignity of each person. 530 E. LOCKWOOD AVE. | 314.968.1505 | NERINXHS.ORG

15 | NEW CITY SCHOOL

New City embraces all of a child’s strengths and fosters a love for learning, a deep understanding of subject matter, acceptance and empathy for diversity of all types, and awareness and celebration of self. New City students are uniquely prepared to succeed in secondary school and in life. 5209 WATERMAN BLVD. | 314.361.6411 | NEWCITYSCHOOL.ORG

In 2014, CDS 3-6 grade students outperformed their independent school peers in 28 out of 28 categories of the ERB Comprehensive Test. Give your children the education they deserve.

16 | ROHAN WOODS SCHOOL

At Rohan Woods School, every child is cherished, encouraged, and prepared for continued success as a life-long learner. We help each child discover and nurture the natural leader that lies within. Students learn in an environment that is part of a strongly meshed community, reflective of the family feeling that is at the heart of Rohan Woods. 1515 BENNETT AVE. | 314.821.6270 | ROHANWOODS.ORG

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17 | ROSATI-KAIN HIGH SCHOOL

At Rosati-Kain High School, a Catholic, all-girls college-preparatory school, students learn to make effective choices based on faith, morality, Gospel values and personal spirituality. They understand the aspects of healthy living and how to be strong, independent, responsible, caring and self-disciplined women. 4389 LINDELL BLVD. | 314.533.8513 | ROSATI-KAIN.ORG

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18 | ROSSMAN SCHOOL

Nestled on a 20-acre campus in St. Louis County, Rossman provides a solid foundation in academics, athletics and the arts while emphasizing strong character development. A low student-teacher ratio, nurturing environment and thoughtfully designed program develop well-prepared graduates with the critical thinking, organization, collaboration and communication skills of future leaders. 12660 CONWAY ROAD | 314.434.5877 | ROSSMANSCHOOL.ORG

19 | ST. JOSEPH’S ACADEMY

St. Joseph’s Academy is a college preparatory high school sponsored by the Sisters of St. Joseph of Carondelet. Our mission is to provide a superior Catholic education for young women in an environment that challenges them to grow in faith, knowledge, and respect for self and others. We expect our young women to make a profound impact in the world. 2307 S. LINDBERGH BLVD. | 314.394.4300 | STJOSEPHACADEMY.ORG

20 | VILLA DUCHESNE AND OAK HILL SCHOOL

Villa Duchesne and Oak Hill School is an independent Catholic school educating boys and girls age 3 through grade six and young women grades seven through 12. As a member of an international network of Sacred Heart schools, we prepare students to serve as global citizens through cultural exchange opportunities with 45 countries around the world. 801 S. SPOEDE ROAD | 314.432.2021 | VDOH.ORG

Our students’ national test scores are consistent with acceptance requirements of prominent St. Louis secondary schools. • Average class size is 10-15 students • Personalized instruction • Advanced traditional curriculum • Music, Art, Spanish, Computer instruction • Public Speaking, K-6

For a tour and interview call 314-878-1883

• STEM (Science, Technol ogy, Engineering, Math)

• Physical Education and Interscholastic Sports • Extended daycare hours at no charge • Financial assistance available

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21 | VISITATION ACADEMY

Visitation Academy is an independent Catholic school committed to academic excellence complemented by a welcoming environment. The Lower School offers a coed, toddler-kindergarten Montessori environment and the area’s only all-girls program in grades one through six. The Upper School presents a rigorous, six-year college-preparatory curriculum for young women in grades seven through 12. 3020 N. BALLAS ROAD | 314.625.9100 | VISITATIONACADEMY.ORG

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22 | WESTMINSTER CHRISTIAN ACADEMY

Westminster Christian Academy is an independent, coeducational Christian school that provides a comprehensive college preparatory program. With a faculty committed to helping students grow academically, socially, and spiritually, we continue to enhance opportunities for students to discover and develop their creative gifts through expanded course options and initiatives. 800 MARYVILLE CENTRE DRIVE | 314.997.2900 | WCASTL.ORG

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FRIENDS OF KIDS WITH CANCER

Knights of Columbus Council 11139 – Ascension Parish raised $22,800 to benefit Friends of Kids With Cancer at its 13th Annual Charity Golf Tournament in Chesterfield.

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MERS GOODWILL

MERS Goodwill took a step to go green by partnering with St. Louis-based Microgrid Solar, which installed a solar panel at its St. Peter’s location. Over the course of its lifetime, this single solar panel will save MERS Goodwill $100,000.

THE GATEWAY CHAPTER OF THE NATIONAL CHARITY LEAGUE

More than 235 mothers and daughters participated in a field day led by Dr. Tim and Anne Jordan to kick off another year of volunteering for NCL. Members are well on their way to meeting this year’s goal of 10,000 hours volunteered on behalf of the community.

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SUPPORT DOGS

Support Dogs received a $5,000 gift from PetSmart through its PetSmart Gives Back initiative, which supports organizations across the country that enrich lives through the power of pets.

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ST LOUIS BRIDGE CENTER

A local club from St. Louis Bridge Center raised $13,000 for the Alzheimer’s Association by participating in a marathon bridge game event called ‘The Longest Day.’

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[SNAPPED!] THE MAGIC HOUSE by carla falasco

WHAT | Big Birthday Bash WHERE | The Magic House WHY | To celebrate 35 years of providing hands-on learning experiences

that encourage experimentation, creativity and problem-solving skills in a place of wonder and magic. Proceeds will provide 35,000 underserved children with free educational programs in the 2014-2015 school year. WHO | Randy Costas and Melissa Swank served as co-chairs; Museum Friends committee chair Laura Busch and Magic House president Beth Fitzgerald welcomed guests. HIGHLIGHTS | Cocktails and hors d’oeuvres on the patio and a savory dinner capped off the magical evening.

Trunk Show Thursday & FrIday

October 16&17 10am-5pm Giddyup Jane

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ARTS AND EDUCATION COUNCIL by margaret rambo WHAT | Arts and Education Council Kickoff Reception WHERE | Residence of Jim and Lynne Turley WHY | To present the 2015 honorees for the St. Louis Arts Awards WHO | Honorees Jill McGuire, Warner Baxter and Tom Voss,

Nancy and Ken Kranzberg, Shakespeare Festival St. Louis, Denise Thimes, Jim McKelvey and Doug Auer, Winifred Crock; A&E president Cynthia Prost; Christine Blonn; presenting sponsors World Wide Technology and the Steward Family Foundation. HIGHLIGHTS | Acknowledgment of the Council’s annual giving campaign, which funds nearly 70 arts education organizations throughout the 16-county, bi-state region.

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Plaid is one of the biggest Fall trends and BB Dakota nailed it with this Rosanna lightweight moto jacket! $96

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Recently, more than 200 people gathered in a team-building effort to benefit Circle of Concern Food Pantry and bring awareness to FISH Feeds, Fish Window Cleaning’s nationwide charitable efforts.

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St. Louis Arc welcomed card sharks to its annual Showdown for the St. Louis Arc, a Texas Hold ’Em Poker Tournament at the Hilton St. Louis Frontenac Hotel. One hundred and sixty players betted and bluffed their way through the evening, enjoying appetizers, a silent auction and friendly competition at the poker tables. Close to $28,000 was raised for St. Louis Arc programs.

OPERATION FOOD SEARCH

Operation Food Search, the largest distributor of free food in the bi-state region, is collaborating with several local businesses and organizations to provide free food and household essentials to families in Ferguson and surrounding areas.

EXPRESS SCRIPTS & ST. LOUIS CARDINALS

PICTURED: DON WOJTKOWSKI, JEFF ABOUSSIE, JIM LAMANTIA, WILLIAM DEWITT III, MARTY HOFFMAN

Glenn Betz & Associates Jewelers 18kt. gold, ruby and diamond ring is also available with sapphires, emeralds or in all diamonds.

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At its seventh annual awards luncheon, Pride Labor-Management honored Express Scripts and the St. Louis Cardinals, two organizations with expansive building projects that have energized the local economy and employed thousands of local construction workers.

Friendship Village Chesterfield celebrated Grandparents Day with a fun event featuring a Circus Flora stilt walker and balloon artist, carnival games and more. PICTURED: SKYLAR BAREFORD AND FRANCIE STULAC, GRANDDAUGHTER AND GREAT-GRANDDAUGHTER OF RESIDENTS BOB AND MARJORIE BAREFORD

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A C O AT TA L E by kate pollmann | photos by suzy gorman

The dog days of summer have come and gone, and chilly temps mean it’s high time to welcome in the season’s hottest accessory: the coat. This year, coats are more than toppers for warmth; they’re the sizzle, the style and the must-have finishing touch. So start building your coat wardrobe now.

{street smart} Clean lines and sleek leather accents add a sophisticated edge to Helmut Lang’s versatile city coat. Helmut Lang wool and leather coat $1,195 from Neiman Marcus Katherine Barclay dress $199 from Distinctions

{caped crusader} Sometimes you feel like a coat, sometimes you donâ&#x20AC;&#x2122;t. When weather permits, reach for a smart cape, a good complement to your warmer toppers. Kate Spade wool capelette, $678 Kate Spade earrings, $78 both from Nordstrom Badgley Mischka dress, $355 Stuart Weitzman boots, $785 both from Neiman Marcus Kate Spade clutch $298 from Kate Spade New York

{luxe be a lady} Donâ&#x20AC;&#x2122;t underestimate the versatility of the moto jacketâ&#x20AC;&#x201D;especially one made of sheared mink. It really revs up a fit-and-flare dress. Mahogany sheared mink moto jacket $3,800 from The Fur Boutique Alexander McQueen dress $1,985 from Neiman Marcus Topshop necklace, $35 Louise et Cie pumps, $158.95 both from Nordstrom

{break out a little} Who says coats have to be practical? Leave it to Italian master Etro to give us a wild and crazy three-quarter length coat perfect for skinny jeans and basic blacks. Etro collarless cotton coat $2,560 from Neiman Marcus Kate Spade Netta bootie $398 from Kate Spade New York Joeâ&#x20AC;&#x2122;s Jeans $179 from Crescent Coast Topshop earrings $28 from Nordstrom.

{boho babe} Vests count as outerwear, especially when theyâ&#x20AC;&#x2122;re cute and furry, like this one in jewel-toned knitted rabbit fur by Joie. Joie vest, $798; Haute Hippie blouse, $295; Diane von Furstenberg skirt, $798; Jimmy Choo pumps, $895 all from Neiman Marcus House of Harlow locket $58 from Nordstrom

Style coordination by Emily McGehee; makeup by Randi Davis ; model Haley Zink, courtesy of West Model Management and Harrison Parker Davis; special thanks to Bar Les Frères, Martin and Malcolm Penton, and Eddie the dog

{style authority} Take charge of the season in a belted, military-inspired jacket by Burberry. This one’s a classic you’ll have forever. Burberry wool coat, $1,295 Jimmy Choo handbag, $3,050 both from Nordstrom Kut from the Kloth jeans, $69 from Crescent Coast Sunglasses, $99 See Eyewear, St. Louis Galleria

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INDEPENDENT SCHOOLS OF ST. LOUIS INCLUDES 45 INDEPENDENTLY GOVERNED ELEMENTARY AND SECONDARY SCHOOLS THROUGHOUT THE METROPOLITAN REGION. REPRESENTATIVES FROM MEMBER SCHOOLS WILL SHARE INFORMATION AND ANSWER QUESTIONS OCT. 21 DURING SECONDARY SCHOOL NIGHT AT VILLA DUCHESNE AND OAK HILL SCHOOL, 801 S. SPOEDE ROAD. FOR MORE INFORMATION, CALL 314.567.9229 OR VISIT INDEPENDENTSCHOOLS.ORG. PICTURED IN THE STORY ON FACING PAGE, FRONT ROW FROM LEFT: MIKE VACHOW, FORSYTH SCHOOL; ROSALIE HENRY, VISITATION ACADEMY; THAD FAULKNER, THE WILSON SCHOOL; DEBBY WATSON, BARAT ACADEMY. BACK ROW, FROM LEFT: THE REV. RALPH SIEFERT, CHAMINADE COLLEGE PREPARATORY SCHOOL; ELIZABETH HOLEKAMP, THOMAS JEFFERSON SCHOOL; KATHY BOYD-FENGER, LOGOS SCHOOL; JOHN D E LAUTRE, WHITFIELD SCHOOL; ANITA CHASTAIN, CHESTERFIELD MONTESSORI SCHOOL; KARA DOUGLASS, THE FULTON SCHOOL AT ST ALBANS; JAMIE DRIVER, ISSL. NOT PICTURED: LISA LYLE, MICDS. COVER DESIGN BY JULIE STREILER

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CONCERNED PARENTS SEEK EVERY ADVANTAGE for their children, hoping to give them an edge in an increasingly competitive, complex world. Independent Schools of St. Louis helps hone that edge. “ISSL is passionate about the merits of independent education,” says executive director Jamie Driver. “Member schools provide unparalleled educational opportunities to St. Louis families, including outstanding teachers with advanced degrees; innovative, value-driven curriculum; low student-to-teacher ratios; a high degree of parental partnership; a safe, disciplined environment; and a unique ability to tailor each student’s education to his or her specific needs.” The nonprofit professional association, established in 1972, includes 45 independently governed elementary and secondary schools throughout the metropolitan region. “These acclaimed schools for students in pre-kindergarten through grade 12 focus on excellence over a complete range of educational experiences,” Driver explains. “We have something to suit every family, from traditional day schools to boarding schools and special-needs education. Some are religiously affiliated, others are nondenominational.” Diversity is welcomed and encouraged. “All our schools admit students of any race, color, national and ethnic origin, and all offer needs-based financial aid,” she says. Member schools offer different approaches, curricula and cultures, but have one important thing in common. “Our financial support doesn’t come from taxes or government allocations, but from tuition-paying families and charitable contributions,” Driver says. “This enables us to respond to, and incorporate, new ideas and programs, and to measure their effectiveness without jumping through government hoops.” ISSL schools are governed by a board of trustees, she adds. “Each school defines its own mission and designs a curriculum and sets academic standards consistent with that mission.”

ISSL BOARD OF TRUSTEES

ISSL schools participate in collaborative outreach efforts, including parental awareness events such as Secondary School Night Oct. 21 at Villa Duchesne and Oak Hill School. ISSL also offers development opportunities for faculty, administrators and trustees, such as workshops on topics like social development in children and innovative instruction strategies. “One of the most valuable things we do is to create forums for sharing ideas and effectively solving problems in an atmosphere of mutual respect,” Driver says. “And, as a convenience for parents, 12 of our schools use a common admission application and test, which saves time and money.” Parents invest in an independent education because of the advantages it gives their children, Driver says. “A recent study by the U.S. Department of Education shows that independent school students do more homework, read more and watch less TV than their public school counterparts, and a greater percentage participate in the arts, athletics and extracurricular activities,” she notes. And a good education is pivotal to success later in life. “Our alums enjoy a high acceptance rate to top-tier universities, and many go on to serve their communities and make an outstanding living in high-level jobs,” she says. “Our schools spark a lifelong enthusiasm for learning and help prepare your child for the future. And that’s the most important investment a parent can make.”

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I D❤! BRIDGET WALSH & MATT KOENIG] by karyn meyer | photos by steve stanton photography

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A SHARED LOVE OF JAYHAWKS BASKETBALL was the perfect starting point for University of Kansas graduates Bridget Walsh and Matt Koenig. Both moved to Denver after graduating and were rooting on their college team at a local bar when conversation led to making plans for a date. After four and a half years, Matt made it official. “It was just a normal Friday night,” Bridget recalls. “We left a restaurant, and Matt started walking toward a violinist on a street corner. I was so confused as to what he was doing, and then he got down on one knee and proposed right there.” Deciding where to get married was the first order of business, since Matt was born in Denver and Bridget is a native St. Louisan. “My whole family wanted me to get married in St. Louis, but I just couldn’t pass up Colorado because it’s such a gorgeous setting,” Bridget says. After many hours of online research, Bridget discovered the breathtaking Castle Cliff Estate in Sedalia, Colo., and knew it would be the ideal locale. The ceremony and cocktail hour were held out front, and dinner and dancing took place in the backyard’s three garden levels. Bridget wanted a neutral palette with metallic accents to create a romantic vibe for their big day. She fondly recalls one of her favorite memories, when a bagpiper played at the end of the ceremony—a surprise Matt planned in honor of her dad, who passed away when she was a teenager. “We are an Irish family, and my dad was very proud of that,” Bridget notes. “That moment was so special. It was the one detail I didn’t know about.” The couple resides in Denver, where Matt is a sales rep for Haynes Mechanical Systems and Bridget is a communications director for The Midland Group and a stylist/outfitter for Trumaker.

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MAID OF HONOR | Molly Baird BRIDESMAIDS | Abby Hodge, Kristin Brewer, Alison Ward, Katie Hoff, Carly Thorpe, Rachel Harmon, Bubba Brown, Liz Mellem BEST MAN | Rob Koenig GROOMSMEN | Greg Koenig, James Howard, Matt Hoffer, Sam Clough, Grant Morgan, Ryan Fagan, Connor Walsh, Dylan Walsh BRIDE’S PARENTS | Peggy Walsh Chopin & Dan Chopin, Glendale; the late Dylan Walsh GROOM’S PARENTS | Terry & Rene Koenig, Denver; Dedre Mills & Gerry Katz, Jackson, Wyo.

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It can be cost-effective. Many all-inclusive properties have a free wedding package if you book a certain number of rooms. It can help eliminate family drama. Invite lists to destination weddings are generally smaller, so no need to fret about offending a co-worker or your mom’s second cousin. It can provide a more intimate setting. “The people who go are the people who matter the most, and couples can spend more time with guests than they would be able to at a conventional wedding,” says Boyle. Couples can go straight from their reception to their honeymoon.

BY THE NUMBERS Recent years have seen a rise in destination weddings, says Boyle, who has noticed an uptick of about 20 to 25 percent in the past five years. This is supported by data from The Knot’s 2013 Real Weddings and 2012 Destination Wedding studies. Almost a quarter of all weddings are destination weddings, with more than 350,000 destination weddings each year. Destination weddings have an average of 86 guests in attendance. The Caribbean, Mexico and Hawaii are the most popular locales outside the continental U.S. This holds true for St. Louis couples,” Boyle says. “We book for Riveria Maya, Cancun and Jamaica, and we’re also currently working on weddings in St. Lucia and Turks & Caicos.” Nearly 70 percent of destination weddings are held outdoors. OCTOBER 15, 2014

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Theia, one of our favorite designers, is known for exquisite gowns and cocktail dresses that flow beautifully. Come experience true luxury in the rich fabrics, brocades, silks and prints that will let you look dazzling at your children’s wedding. 12354 Olive Blvd. | 314.434.5445 | distinctionsinfashion.com

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Stackable wedding bands can be made in any size or shape. Available in diamond, sapphire, emerald or ruby—or you can mix them up! 14kt. or 18kt. white, yellow or pink gold or platinum. 9711 Clayton Road | 314.997.1707 | albarre.com

5 | NOVAK JEWELERS

Novak’s is excited to debut its new bridal line, Parade Design, which includes a beautiful diamond engagement ring from the award-winning Hera Collection. 14442 Clayton Road | 636.227.7225 | novakjewelers.com

6 | WEINHARDT PARTY RENTALS

The Diamond Collection offers the perfect amount of sparkle. Cylinder vases, candelabras, hurricanes and votives are available in this stunning collection. 5901 Elizabeth Ave. | 314.822.9000 | weinhardtpartyrentals.com

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Balaban’s food and wine for your wedding or party does just what you want them to do—create a special memory. Remember the day, remember Balaban’s. 1772 Clarkson Road | 636.449.6700 | balabanswine.com

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[ ART ]

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GONE GIRL >> This highly anticipated adaptation of Gillian

Bruno David Gallery | Free | brunodavidgallery.com >> These remarkable artists and longtime partners bring together two unique exhibitions titled Embrology and Ritual Acts. Through 11/15.

10/24-11/22 other ways; other times: influences of

african-american tradition from st. louis collections 10 a.m.-5 p.m. Tuesday through Saturday | The Philip Slein Gallery Free | philipsleingallery.com

10/17 the pathology of glamour

5–8 p.m. | William Shearburn Gallery | Free | saintlouisfashionweek.com

10/24 32nd annual weavers guild:

handwoven, hand-spun, hand-dyed textiles

10 a.m.–8 p.m. | First Congregational Church of Webster Groves Free | weaversguildstl.org

Flynn’s best-selling 2012 page-turner does not disappoint. Directed by David Fincher, of The Social Network and Fight Club fame, and adapted by Flynn herself, the film opens with the disappearance of Amy Dunne (Rosamund Pike) from her Missouri home on the morning of her fifth wedding anniversary. As the investigation unfolds, her husband Nick (Ben Affleck) looks increasingly guilty. Accompanied by a chilling soundtrack, the movie is atmospherically fun to watch, and it’s amusing to spot the Missouri references, which include Cardinals, Boulevard Brewing and Mizzou.

It does, however, have a few flaws. A little too slick and stylish for its own good, the story never dives beneath the surface of things, whether in major character development or in its skewering of tabloid news à la Nancy Grace. It does have something to say on gender politics and the utter unknowability of others, even someone as intimate as a spouse, but it merely skates the surface. Regardless, Affleck and Pike are both well-suited to their roles, as is the supporting cast, which includes Tyler Perry, Neil Patrick Harris and Carrie Coon. SHOULD YOU SEE IT? Yes. —S.Z. VIEWED AT WEHRENBERG RONNIE’S 20 CINEMA

[ ETC. ] 10/17 moonshine at the mansion

5:30–8:30 p.m. | Magic Chef Mansion | $75 | landmarks-stl.org

10/18 second annual ‘brew in the lou’ festival

1-5 p.m. | to benefit Lutheran Elementary School Association Koburg Hall at Concordia Seminary | $35 | lesastl.org

10/18 ‘taste of trucktober’ food truck event

3–8 p.m. | Chesterfield Amphitheater | trucktoberstl.com

fabulous fox ghost tours

6:30 p.m. & 8:30 p.m. | The Fabulous Fox Theatre $30 | fabulousfox.com >> On a never-before-seen ghost tour, hear all the rumors of mysterious occurrences and spooky sightings at The Fabulous Fox during its 85-year history!

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10/24–10/26

DISNEY’S THE LITTLE MERMAID Variety Children’s Theater Touhill Performing Arts Center $15–$35 | touhill.org

>>>10/17–10/19 THE GREATEST SHOW ON EARTH Ringling Bros. | Scottrade Center $17-$90 | ringling.com Experience family fun as performers from around the globe attempt daring feats, spectacles of strength and thrills of wonder to summon the mythical and the mysterious!

seen on the screen ALSO IN THEATERS Alexander and the Terrible, Horrible, No Good, Very Bad Day | The Judge | Kill the Messenger

NOW ON DVD Persecuted | X-Men: Days of Future Past Mr. Peabody & Sherman

OPENING FRIDAY Fury | The Best of Me | The Book of Life Men, Women & Children

CLASSIC OF THE WEEK The Rocky Horror Picture Show (1975) Tivoli Theatre | Oct. 24

[ THEATER ] dirty dancing– the classic story on stage

The Fabulous Fox Theatre | $25-$95 | fabulousfox.com >> The long-anticipated classic film-turned-musical performance heads to The Fabulous Fox Theatre. Through 11/2

10/17–10/18 dracula

Missouri Ballet Theatre | 7:30 p.m. | Edison Theatre $25 | edison.wustl.edu

now–11/2 diary of anne frank

New Jewish Theatre | Wool Studio Theatre Jewish Community Center | $38–$42 newjewishtheatre.org

10/23, 10/26 the big, fat, everything you need to know show of shows

That Uppity Theatre Company Missouri History Museum | uppityco.com

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[ MUSIC ] 10/17 frankie ballard

8 p.m. | The Pageant | $20–$22.50 | thepageant.com

10/18 jacob whitesides with zach matari 3:30 p.m. | Duck Room at Blueberry Hill $25–$165 | pagan-stl.com

10/18 an evening of opera: a benefit for the

epilepsy foundation of missouri and kansas 7 p.m. | The Sheldon Concert Hall $35-$100 | thesheldon.org

jason derulo

8 p.m. | The Pageant | $38-$43 thepageant.com >> In his short five-year career, Jason Derulo has proven to be a contender among pop music’s biggest hitters.

PHOTO LEISURE ALBUM

[ ON THE TABLE ] by jonathan carli | photos by bill barrett

[ MI RANCHITO ] 887 kingsland ave. | 314.863.1880

[ amuse bouche ] THE SCENE |

Bustling neighborhood cantina

THE CHEF |

Andres Jimenez

THE PRICES |

$3 to $7.25 starters, $8 to $14 entrees

THE FAVORITES |

Chicken Soup, El Plato Grande, Pollo Mexicano, Shrimp Soup

IF YOU HAVE NEVER BEEN to this Mexican restaurant north of the U. City Loop, you owe it to yourself to go. The food is homestyle and authentic— nothing fancy, but solidly good—and plentiful. The place is family-run, approaching its ninth anniversary. Many servers speak Spanish-laced English, and although the menu has the usual Tex-Mex items— fajitas, tacos, nachos, chimichangas, burritos, chalupas, quesadillas and enchiladas—the flavors are just right. The salsa, for example, is on the smooth side and loaded with great taste and just the right amount of bite. The chips come hot and a little on the oily side—the best way to have them. Do not miss the Chicken Soup ($6.50), a massive bowl of delicious broth that is both salty and spicy, thanks to very finely diced jalapeno and pico de gallo (tomato, onion and cilantro). But the real

treat was its large chunks of chicken, generous amount of rice and the chopped half avocado. It was so good, I wonder why avocado isn’t served warm more often. Similarly scrumptious is the Shrimp Soup, brimming with crisp-cooked veggies—including squash, broccoli and cauliflower—and enough tender shrimp to make a meal. There’s also some avocado in there, but not as much as in the chicken version. The broth is flavorful, a little spicy and salty, and heavily laced with cilantro. El Plato Grande ($14.25) lives up to its name as a huge serving—nearly two dinners’ worth—of meat stacked next to refried beans, Spanish rice, sour cream, avocado salad and pico de gallo. The sides, all good, were the usual lineup of tasty Mexican accompaniments. But the meats included a very thin rib eye steak and a thinly pounded chicken breast—each pan-sauteed and delicious.

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>> andres jimenez PEDIGREE

It’s a family restaurant, and I learned mainly from my mother.

FAVORITE INGREDIENTS

Camarones a la Diabla ($11) had an enormous number of shrimp in a thickish red sauce with some bite, but not too much, served with rice, beans and tortillas. The shrimp were nicely cooked to just barely done—the way to get maximum flavor out of them. Somewhat confusing is the assortment of guacamole sides, like the Guacamole Salad, served on shredded lettuce—not to be mistaken for Avocado Salad, which is a very flavorful blend of marinated onions, peppers, avocado and cilantro. Dessert of Flan ($2.75) was tasty and rich, an excellent close to a very satisfying meal. As you can tell, you get a lot of bang for your buck here. It’s the kind of place where you can order a side of refried beans or Spanish rice for $1.99—and have enough to serve two or three.

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CILANTRO | These are the leaves of the coriander plant, also known as Chinese parsley. FLAN | Mexican custard, a simple dish of eggs, sugar and milk ACHIOTE | This flavoring, also called annatto, comes from the seeds of the achiote tree,

native to the Yucatan. The flavor is slightly peppery with hints of nutmeg.

Achiote, cilantro

I like steak houses.

FAVORITE RESTAURANT

[ aftertaste ]

FAVORITE COOKBOOK

>>Mi Ranchito is a great little hidden neighborhood restaurant. The food is excellent, much

GUILTY PLEASURE FOOD

Don’t have one.

I really don’t have one!

better than what you find at a chain restaurant, and the atmosphere is fun and friendly. — CHRIS Z. OF UNIVERSITY CITY

>> They have the best chicken soup ever, better than any mother could make! And really tasty Mexican dishes that you do not have to cross the border to get. Really efficient and pleasant servers as well. ‑—MICHELLE K. OF CLAYTON

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[SHOW & TELL 1 | JOSEPHINE HAVLAK, PHOTOGRAPHER

With meticulous attention to detail and a fine sense of design, Josephine will work with you to create a timeless family portrait that you will be proud to hang on your wall. 314.962.8240 | josephinehavlak.com

2 | ABSOLUTE COLLEGE CONSULTING

Discover the ‘absolute’ best college fit through college preparation student workshops. Independent Educational College Consultant Cindy Zelinsky leads peer groups of high schoolers through sessions to identify colleges that fit their personal goals, needs and criteria. Fall workshops enrolling now. 636.346.5313 | absolutecollegeconsulting.com

trunk shows 10/24 | 12-7pm Bevel 10/25 | 12-7pm Robert Marc & Lunor 10/28 | 12-6 pm Myktia 10/29 | 12-7pm Sama

PICTURED: CINDY ZELINSKY AND STUDENT

3 | DIELMANN SOTHEBY’S INTERNATIONAL REALTY

10/30 | 12-7pm Theo 10/31 | 12-7pm Face à Face & Woow 11/1 | 12-7pm Salt

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We’re moving! Beginning Oct. 17, we look forward to seeing you at our new location on the Barnes-Jewish West County Hospital campus at Olive Boulevard and Mason Road. 1020 N. Mason Road, Ste. 205 | 314.996.3880 facialplasticsurgery.wustl.edu PICTIRED: DRS. JOHN CHI AND GREGORY BRANHAM

6 | ST. NICHOLAS PHILOPTOCHOS

The women’s auxiliary for St. Nicholas Greek Orthodox Church will host the annual Grecian Kitchen Holiday Open House, luncheon & boutique shopping event Nov. 8 at the St. Nicholas Family Life Center, 12550 South Forty Drive. From 10:30 a.m. to 3 p.m., enjoy Greek delicacies or take them home to serve for the holidays! 4967 Forest Park Ave. | 314.803.2451 | sngoc.org

We are home to nearly 100 of St. Louis’ most experienced real estate professionals who are passionate about providing clients with unparalleled service. 8301 Maryland Ave., Ste. 100 | 314.725.0009 dielmannsothebysrealty.com

7 | THE FUR BOUTIQUE

PICTURED: ANDREA MORGAN, KRISTIN CONNELL, ANDY DIELMANN, KATHY CARTER AND KERRY BROOKS

Ann Hurth and Georgene Frazier invite you to view the latest fur fashions hot off the runways at The Fur Boutique, St. Louis’ newest full-service furrier. Trunk show 10 a.m. to 5 p.m., Oct. 16 and 17 at Giddyup Jane. 9670 Clayton Road | 314.401.0317

4 | LINDENWOOD UNIVERSITY

8 | MOSBY BUILDING ARTS

Lindenwood University, established in 1827 in St. Charles, offers more than 120 degree programs in daytime, accelerated evening, and online formats. 209 S. Kingshighway St. 636.949.4949 | lindenwood.edu

Experiment with colors and unique fixtures when updating small spaces, such as powder rooms. 645 Leffingwell Ave. | 314.909.1800 | callmosby.com

401 North Euclid • 314.367.1848

5 | WASHINGTON UNIVERSITY FACIAL PLASTIC SURGERY CENTER

LEISURE

Blessed Be the Balaban’s Bride! Good Food, Great Wine, Memories for All Time

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Showers, Rehearsal Dinners, Weddings, Parties

1772 Clarkson rd.

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Phone: 636.449.6700

www.balabanswine.com

9 | WEST COUNTY PLASTIC SURGEONS OF WASHINGTON UNIVERSITY

West County Plastic Surgeons of Washington University now offers the VECTRA 3D imaging system, which captures an image of a patient’s face or body and simulates what cosmetic surgery results might look like. 1040 N. Mason Road, Ste. 124 | 314.996.8800 westcountyplasticsurgeons.wustl.edu PICTIRED: KRISTI REASONS-LOOK, DR. MARISSA TENENBAUM, EMILY WEINHAUS, DR. TERRY MYCKATYN, KRISTIN GREEN

10 | THE EXERCISE COACH

The Exercise Coach offers personal training in a high-tech fitness studio on bio-adaptive computerized equipment perfect for busy professionals and baby boomers. 235 W. Lockwood Ave. | 13456 Clayton Road 314.764.2451 | 314.548.2178

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11 | GINGER & MARY ANN BOUTIQUE

Lysee is fashion you feel great in … perfect fit, perfect comfort and the patent pending BackBeautiful lining for a smooth silhouette. 151 W. Jefferson Ave. | 314.821.4646 gingerandmaryannboutique.com

12 | RIDENOUR PLASTIC SURGERY

Dr. Brock Ridenour is one of the most skilled and experienced plastic surgeons in St. Louis for face-lifts, rhinoplasty and other facial procedures. 12460 Olive Blvd., 2nd floor | 314.878.8600 ridenourplasticsurgery.com

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Blust’s Jewelers

2014 Annual Ladies Party

Thu. Oct. 16th & Fri. Oct. 17th | 11 am - 7:30 pm 5% of proceeds to be donated to help find a cure for Breast Cancer

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Voluma XC helps battle the aging process by providing a subtle and natural lift to the cheek area. This volume can produce a lift and more natural contour to the midface, resulting in a more youthful appearance. 12990 Manchester Road, Ste. 101/102 | 314.567.3567 eyelidmd.com | medispastlouis.com

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13 | AESTHETIC MEDISPA OF WEST COUNTY/ OPHTHALMIC PLASTIC AND COSMETIC SURGERY

Come into Amini’s and let us show you why you should tell your friends that Amini’s is where to find the best selection of hand-knotted, one-of-a-kind rugs with unbelievable pricing! 17377 Chesterfield Airport Road | 636.537.9200 aminis.com

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15 | SPECIAL SOLUTIONS

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16 | HORSTMANN BROTHERS

Horstmann Brothers Irrigation will winterize your system. Don’t let the cold freeze your pipes. Call now to winterize before Nov. 22. 1601 Dielman Road | 314.432.0880 horstmannbrothers.com

17 | SALLIE HOME

Sassie loves her Halcyon Days bangles and purse; bangles, from $150 to $390; Leopard bangle purse, $22; Sassie, priceless (actually … $30) 9821 Clayton Road | 314.567.7883 | salliehome.com

V isi t ED G -C LIF th is Fall in PO TO SI, MO T. 573 438 4741 WWW.EDG-CLIF.COM

Kodner Gallery presents the fifth annual Trash or Treasure to benefit the Nine Network of Public Media. The appraisal event features more than 20 experts in a variety of fields. Join us 9 a.m. to 5 p.m., Nov. 1 at the Gateway Center in Collinsville, Ill. Contact the Nine Network at 314.512.9000 for more info and to purchase tickets. 9650 Clayton Road | 314.993.4477 | kodnergallery.com Please join us at The Next Step Fall Dinner Auction, Oct. 24 at the MAC historic downtown location. Help others take the next step! 314.719.2880 | thenextstepstl.org

20 | BLUST’S JEWELERS

Our 2014 Annual Ladies Party, Oct.16 and 17, is our biggest sale of the year with 5 percent of proceeds donated to help find a cure for breast cancer. 12716 Olive Blvd. | 314.878.6003

21 | TONY L A MARTINA PLUMBING COMPANY

Get your home ‘holiday ready’ with an American Standard Champion Pro toilet—affordable, high-efficiency, and great-looking. Water conservation without compromise. 314.965.9377 | tonylamartinaplumbing.com

22 | KINGDOM HOUSE

Kingdom House is proud to be a founding member of the United Way of Greater St. Louis. With their support, we help people achieve a better life. 1321 S. 11th St. | 314.421.0400 | stl.unitedway.org

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LEISURE

9821 Clayton Road St. Louis 63124 314-567-7883 Open Monday - Saturday: 10am-5pm www.SallieHome.com

25 23 | KATY LAND TRUST

Missouri State Parks naturalists will lead the Honeysuckle Hike on the Katy Trail Oct. 26. Afterward, the event continues with live music and food. katytrail.eventbrite.com | katylandtrust.org

24| MIDAMERICA SKIN HEALTH & VITALITY CENTER

MidAmerica Skin Health & Vitality Center is one of the first St. Louis providers of state-of-the-art Precision Tx laser treatments, which give you a more defined look without a surgical face-lift. 222 S. Woods Mill Road, Ste. 475N. 314.878.0600 ext. 5 | midamericaskin.com

25 | GENOVESE JEWELERS

A fabulous Simon G 18kt. two-tone fancy diamond band with 1.32 carats in round and marquise diamonds. 12460 Olive Blvd. | 314.878.6203

26 | J. BUCK’S RESTAURANT

J. Buck’s in Clayton is now serving breakfast weekdays from 7 to 10 a.m., featuring classic offerings, organic eggs, omelets and savory breakfast sandwiches. Meeting space is available. 101 S. Hanley Road | 314.725.4700 | jbucks.com

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T&S TRIED IT [HYPNOSIS by patty hannum I HAVE A DIRTY LITTLE SECRET: I’m a nail biter. I also pick at my nails

and munch on my cuticles. It is gross and embarrassing. I may be 54 years old chronologically, but I have the nail biting habits of a 5-year-old. I have tried everything to stop. You know that gross-tasting stuff you paint on your nails to prevent you from biting? I developed a liking to the taste. Tips or gel manicures? Just more for me to pick off. Regular manicures? Waste of money. I’ve managed to stop smoking, drinking (assuming we count the times I was pregnant) and a variety of other habits, but I could never control this one. My last hope was hypnosis. I wanted to change the way my brain worked. My idea of hypnosis was totally based on what I saw on television. It included someone swinging an object in front of my eyes and saying, You are getting sleepy, very sleepy. At that point, I would fall into a trance and the hypnotist would be able to manipulate me into doing anything, right? Bark like dog? Sure. Commit a crime? Absolutely. Enjoy nature? Without a doubt! As you might suspect, what I learned about hypnosis from my television wasn’t exactly accurate. I made an appointment to see Joan Krueger, a certified hypnotherapist with an office in Kirkwood. She explained that hypnosis does not place people in a trance but in a relaxed state where their subconscious mind is susceptible to suggestions. Since you are awake during the process, you won’t do anything that challenges your moral compass or values. Joan and I spent some time discussing my nail biting, why and when I do it, and how I felt about it. It was a little bit like a therapy session but without the need to revisit my childhood or teenage angst. Joan then turned on some music and in a very soothing voice started talking to me. I cannot stress the soothing part. I really can’t remember what she said but it sounded so nice and calm. Now, I must admit that during this process, Bad Patty popped into my head. You know, the part of you that doesn’t really want to believe that something

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is going to work. So even while Joan was talking to me, Bad Patty was thinking, This is bogus, I can hardly wait to get into the car and bite that hang nail right off. Do people really believe in this stuff? Once my session was over, I was totally relaxed but Bad Patty was still in my brain just waiting to get in the car for a little fingernail biting. As I pulled out of the parking lot and moved my hand toward my mouth, a thought popped into my head: That’s gross and disgusting. And down my hand went. I couldn’t do it. I stopped and got a manicure and assumed that once the polish started peeling, I would have at it. Not so. I just kept hearing the words ‘gross and disgusting,’ which was how I had described my habit to Joan. So does hypnosis work? It did for me, even with Bad Patty making an appearance. I am however, someone as my teachers use to say, who is “easily influenced by others,” which in this case is great because I have not bitten my nails in over a month.

HEALTH&BEAUTY

CONNUBIAL COUNTDOWN

Can’t get rid of it?

by tony di martino You’ve chosen the perfect guy and the perfect dress, and vowed to avoid carbs until the moment you cut the cake. What else can you do in the months and weeks leading up to your wedding to make sure you look and feel your best on the big day?

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Don’t believe people who say beauty comes from within. Radiant brides are the result of a consistent skin care regimen. Along with your usual cleansing and moisturizing routine, start using a retinoid at least three to six months before your wedding. If your skin is too sensitive for the prescription stuff, try an over-the-counter retinol lotion (Neutrogena Rapid Wrinkle Repair and Olay ProX Age Repair Lotion are good drugstore brands, and SkinCeuticals is an effective high-end choice), and use it one to three times a week. Give yourself plenty of time if you want to lose a little weight, at least six months before the big day. Whatever you do, don’t try to crash diet at the last minute. It saps your vitality, makes you crabby, and gives you ugly black circles under your eyes. Sign up for a yoga class at least three months before the big day. Not only will it make you more lithe and limber and improve your posture, but also the focus on rhythmic breathing will help keep you calm during this stressful time. Also, nothing coaxes tension from your muscles and joints like a good massage. No time for yoga class or massage? Practice mindful breathing: inhale for four counts, exhale for eight. Repeat until the urge to scream at your clueless wedding planner, maid of honor or future mother-in-law has passed. It’s all in the details. Brows shaggy? Have them professionally shaped—it’s worth it. Teeth looking dingy? Start using whitestrips, or visit your dentist for a professional hydrogen peroxide treatment. A flick of mascara and a quick coat of lip gloss probably won’t register in your wedding photos. On the other hand, you don’t want to look like a pole dancer. Start searching for a professional makeup artist a few months before the wedding. Local fashion or wedding photographers usually can recommend a pro, but don’t take anyone’s word for it. Make consultation appointments with several. Take pictures after each session, so you can compare and contrast their efforts. Go with the one who makes you look like your prettiest self. Planning on an elaborate updo for your wedding, or on a style, color or length that differs from what you usually wear? Book a trial run with your stylist several months before the wedding: this is not the time to leave anything to chance. Bring pictures of what you have in mind, and bring your veil and headpiece, if possible.

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Unless you want to look like a pumpkin-spice latte as you walk down the aisle, the week before your wedding is not the time to anoint yourself with self-tanner or visit a new spraytanning salon. Conduct your research well in advance, and book at least one trial run before the big day. To avoid looking bloated and puffy in your wedding photos, cut way back on carbs and skip salty foods a day or two before the wedding. Drink at least eight, 8-ounce glasses of water a day, and add a little lemon. Water retention from carb and salt overload shows up in photos, even if you don’t notice it in person. Treat yourself to a professional manicure and pedicure. Resist the temptation to go with nail art, garish shades, matte or textured polishes, a French manicure, or anything else that will embarrass you when you flip through your wedding album in years to come. Stick with sheer, rosy pink or beige polish. Trust us on this. Smile, make sure to wear waterproof mascara, and stash a pair of pretty but comfortable shoes at the reception venue, so you can dance the night away pain-free.

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BRIDAL BEAUTY Guide by sara savat

EVERY BRIDE wants to feel beautiful on her wedding day. But rather than scheduling a flurry of spa appointments the week before your wedding, experts advise planning ahead—way ahead—to slim down, perfect your skin and otherwise make this the most memorable and beautiful day of your life.

pre-wedding skin care Brides spend countless hours picking out their dream dress and other externals, forgetting that nothing is more important to their bridal look than their skin. But great skin is not something you can achieve overnight. You need to plan ahead and work with professionals.

Have a Plan It’s never too early to meet with an esthetician or dermatologist to discuss your concerns: large pores, uneven skin tone, acne or fine lines and wrinkles. Develop an individualized skin care regimen and allow time for facials, peels and other protocals that can replace that flawed outer layer of skin with the glowing complexion you want. According to Dr. Amy Miller, an aesthetic medicine specialist at St. Louis Skin Solutions, most regimens follow three basic steps: cleanse, correct and protect. For example, in the morning, use a gentle cleanser, an antioxidant to correct, and a sunscreen to protect. A similar night

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routine might include a gentle cleanser, an anti-aging product like retinol and a moisturizer. Rather than spending a fortune at the drugstore or make-up counter, consult with a professional to identify the best products for you. “An at-home medical-grade skin routine can provide more vibrant and healthy-looking skin,” says Jackie Carr, R.N., an aesthetic nurse at Ophthalmic Plastic and Cosmetic Surgery Inc. Acing Acne Carr says acne is not cured, but treated. “In many cases, there are simple tricks that can help reduce the severity and frequency of acne breakouts. If the patient

is suffering from mild to moderate acne, there are many topical products, cleaning techniques and in-office procedures that can be helpful over time,” she says. Depending on the severity of the acne, it could take from two months to a year to get under control, says Dr. Joe Muccini of Midamerica Skin, Health & Vitality Center. If you wake up with a pimple on the day of the wedding, Muccini says your best bet is make-up. “Don’t do anything aggressive like warm compresses, needles, etc.,” he warns. “Try to cover it up with make-up and tell your photographer so they can work around it.”

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WRINKLES AND FINE LINES “Botox is a no-brainer for brides who want to smooth frown lines and have an overall brighter look,” Muccini says. He recommends Botox two weeks before the wedding to give it time to settle and to allow for touch ups if needed. Fillers are another option to plump thin lips, soften facial creases and treat wrinkles. “I really encourage patients to do fillers four to six weeks before their wedding because the procedure can cause bruising and swelling,” Muccini says. He also recommends Pellevé, a non-invasive radiofrequency device, to treat mild to moderate wrinkles.

FACIALS

Facials are a nice way to pamper yourself before the wedding and can improve your skin’s texture and overall tone, but Muccini says a single facial probably will not alter skin appearance. “I recommend making facials a part of your skin care regimen and starting four to six months before your wedding,” he says. “This will also give you the opportunity to establish a relationship with an esthetician.” Spa facials provide a deeper exfoliation and cleanse than is possible at home. They usually include a double cleanse with steam, exfoliation, extraction and mask. They may also include microdermabrasion and chemical peels, depending on your needs.

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by karyn meyer listing price | $2,000,000 listing agent | ben patton and wayne norwood of gladys manion real estate TO HELEN RUPPERT, THE CENTRAL WEST END HOME she will leave soon has been more than a place to live; it has been a personal expression of her style and hard work. An independent interior designer for 31 years, she started in the basement and worked her way up to the third floor, decorating and ‘fixing up’ along the way during the 17 years she has resided there. Her daughter lives on the same street, and Ruppert describes the area as a family neighborhood. Construction began on the house in 1926, and everything is original except the kitchen. Ruppert is a proponent of reusing and repurposing in her projects. “About nine years ago, I totally gutted the kitchen and took out a couple of rooms to make it bigger,” she says. “I installed windows, two new french doors and nine large pieces of molding. I personally did all the work myself.” Another massive undertaking Ruppert did on her own was the backyard. She planted 750 boxwood shrubs and even dug the fountain, placing the motor under the garage so the noise wouldn’t disturb her. Her two favorite areas of the home are the kitchen and an expansive patio in the back, where she goes every morning to relax. “The huge, 80-foot patio used to be accessible only from the living and dining rooms, but I added an adjoining patio so I could get to it from my kitchen,” she explains. “It’s a very peaceful place. The slate tiles are original to the home, so I lifted them all for cleaning and relaid them.” In keeping with her ‘restore rather than renovate’ logic, she redid all the original hinges and knobs and removed every door to strip them of their 80-year-old paint. While nothing was a quick process (stripping and repainting the exterior took a year), Ruppert says every decision was worth it. “It’s been an experience,” she says. “I just love beautiful things, and that’s PHOTOS: STEVEN B. SMITH how I made the house.” While she admits she will definitely miss her kitchen, Ruppert is ready for a less demanding space. “I want to go South in the winter!” COVER PHOTO BY MATT PONSTING

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My husband and I bought this home four years ago. I wouldn’t even have walked in, based on what the front looked like; however, the interior and backyard have everything we need. We love the English Tudor look and are also fans of French Country. I have painted the top to make it more classic Tudor (the old colors were awful). Now what? The back has some nice gables. The home has been added onto on both sides and in back. The front porch and pillars belong to a much smaller home. Please help! ——— DESPERATELY SEEKING TUDOR

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To begin with, I think your house looks pretty good. You have chosen a classic Tudor color scheme, and your foundation plants are properly scaled and grow together to create a continuous, flowing presentation. The improvements need to happen in the details. As with most ‘period’ houses built after the ’40s, the historic details that would give your home character need strengthening. First, all of the wooden, half-timbered trim on the second floor needs to be much wider to feel authentic. Also, as you point out, the porch columns are not visually up to the task and need to be wider as well. Next, I would install a new roof with more color, variegation and texture, as well as a new stained-wood front door with hammered metal hinges and Tudor details. The final changes are seen in the fences to either side of the house. By introducing brick piers and wood fencing stained to match the half-timbers, the fences become part of the architecture and add supporting details that enhance the Tudor feel. The landscaping is basically fine, but I show trimming the lower branches of the shade trees to open up the view and adding some window boxes. The house now has the charm you sensed was missing. Good luck with your improvements. ———HOMEWORK

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OPEN Sunday October 26th ~ 1 to 3 pm This premium-quality residence has the spacious open feel of a single-family home with all the conveniences and amenities of the modern condo lifestyle. With 3,446sf of living space, the well-designed flow is highlighted by fantastic urban views from three exposures: sunny terrace, roomy balcony and grassy, fenced sideyard — making this one-of-a-kind at Clayton’s most desirable address. Architectural details include ten-foot ceilings,crown moulding and custom built-ins with design elements like Swarovski lighting, Walker Zanger tile and hand scraped wide plank bamboo floors. Rooms thruout are enhanced with natural materials, exotic finishes and numerous premium upgrades. • 3br/3.5ba in a popular split • Large master suite with garden bedroom layout access and custom walk-in closet • Great building location, just steps • Spa-like master bath with heated from the rear elevator floor, jetted tub, double sinks, • Organic, natural stone fireplace Robern medicine cabinets, separate shower, water closet and wall in the main living area dressing table • Chef’s delight kitchen: Wolf & Sub-Zero, custom Brazilian Oak • Sound system, washer/dryer, three flat screen TVs, Weber gas cabinets, granite countertops, grill, window coverings and light stone front breakfast bar, double fixtures included ovens, 5-burner gas cooktop, lots of storage and walk-in pantry • Zoned HVAC new price

155 Carondelet Plaza, #308

$1,395,000

Call for a private tour

Debi Mehlman

314 277 4465

dMehlman@MehlmanRealty.com

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