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About 300 people helped the organization raise nearly $100,000 during the 16th Annual Wine Opener fundraiser. The Casey & Devoti law firm sponsored the event.

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operation food search

The nonprofit hunger relief organization raised more than $83,000 during its 25th annual golf tournament. The agency helps feed those in need through partner organizations in 31 Missouri and Illinois counties.

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river des peres watershed

More than 460 volunteers showed up for the annual Trash Bash, clearing more than 9.4 tons of waste from creeks and streams in the watershed—all in only three hours! Nearly two tons of plastic and 138 tires were diverted from landfills and sent for recycling.

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IN THE KNOW COVER STORY – Ranken Jordan Pediatric Bridge Hospital TALK OF THE TOWNS THE INSIDER REACHING OUT – Katie Rhoades of Healing Action

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THE FACES BEHIND THE SCENE

FROM THE associate EDITOR

As the years pass, certain unavoidable concerns creep closer. We start to think more about aging and the impact time has on our bodies and brains. While we wish those effects could be mostly positive, usually they’re not. Dementia is a daunting prospect, and it may seem like there’s nothing we can do about it.

If you’re like us, though, you enjoy learning about breakthroughs in brain science that can assuage the fears that come along with aging. I’ve written about the medical field for many years, and am especially interested to see what health-care professionals are discovering about how to care for patients with Alzheimer’s or other forms of dementia.

Researchers are gaining a deeper understanding of the many connections that exist among brain health, mental stimulation, physical exercise, mood and other factors.

If it’s a subject that has been on your mind as well, take a look at our health feature, Answers About Alzheimer’s. We also have a cover story on Parc Provence, a senior living community that is applying modern practices in memory care to help residents thrive. I’m sure you’ll learn something new and useful, especially if you have a parent or loved one transitioning to elder care.

(Plus, the more you read, the better it is for your brain.)

On a completely different note, we’re also here to help you get into the holiday spirit with a special Style Inside about an elegantly decorated Ladue home. Check out Highland Holidays, and gift yourself some decorating ideas to create a bright, shining holiday showplace of your own. (Even some of the rooms are red and green!)

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RANKEN JORDAN PROVIDES ‘CARE BEYOND THE BEDSIDE’ TO HELP YOUNG PATIENTS LIKE SERENITY RECOVER.

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HEALING HELP RANKEN JORDAN PEDIATRIC BRIDGE HOSPITAL by stephanie wallace NO PARENT WANTS TO CONSIDER that a child may have to contend with a debilitating illness

or injury. But it’s an unavoidable fact that some children’s days are filled with medical treatments and procedures rather than playing with friends or going to school. Ranken Jordan Pediatric Bridge Hospital is dedicated to making the transition between traditional hospitals and home as smooth as possible. It’s the area’s first and only pediatric bridge hospital, and its model of care allows young patients to play, grow, learn and interact with others.

The hospital refers to its treatment model as ‘Care Beyond the Bedside.’ “When you think about hospital stays, you picture a solitary experience of being confined to a bed,” says Dr. Nick Holekamp, chief medical officer at Ranken Jordan. “We get children out of their rooms and into play spaces, activity areas, therapy rooms and the hospital grounds. It allows them to heal and recover while still having normal childhood experiences.” According to Holekamp, this type of care takes a lot of planning and innovative approaches to accommodate various medical restrictions. “Medical support and monitoring are important, but we want to focus on the children first,” he notes.

“We make it a priority to ensure that no matter what patients’ needs are, they all get to experience being a kid.”

The benefits of such care, however, outweigh potential logistical difficulties. It allows for experiences that more closely mirror school or daycare. “Doing more together is better for kids than being sedentary and alone,” Holekamp says. “Playing and interacting with family, staff and other patients can aid their development and healing.” Another advantage is that families get to engage with their children in a less restrictive environment, better preparing them for in-home care.

“Many parents only see their children in intensive care while they’re at the hospital,” Holekamp explains. “Working with traditional hospitals, we optimize patients’ outcomes to get the family home together and healthy.”

One patient the hospital recently helped is Sammy, who was born with a rare heart condition.

During the first 7 months of her life, Sammy required four open heart surgeries and came to Ranken Jordan with many specialized needs, including a ventilator and feeding tube. Holekamp says Ranken Jordan gave Sammy and her family the opportunity to recover and prepare for the transition home. “She was done with her surgeries, so it was time to let her body grow and heal,” he explains. “We were able to help her continue to improve physically while also providing a sense of normalcy to aid in her developmental recovery.”

Despite having opened in 1941, Ranken Jordan may not be a household name for many St. Louisans. “We’re largely invisible to the community because we take care of about one percent of local pediatric patients,” Holekamp notes. One of the ways the hospital raises public awareness and important funds is the annual Ranken Jordan Beyond Gala. The 2019 event will be held Jan. 19 at the Four Seasons. Guests can look forward to an evening of cocktails, dinner, live and silent auctions, and a celebration of the children the hospital has served. “It’s always an uplifting and touching occasion,” Holekamp says. “It’s an opportunity to share stories about the lives we’ve changed through the care we provide to kids in the worst of circumstances.” & NOVEMBER 21, 2018 | townandstyle.com

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TALK OF THE TOWNS by bill beggs jr.

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Mavis Wanczyk, whose first language is apparently not English, must be awful busy. Wanczyk, of Chicopee, Mass., recently won $758 million, the largest jackpot in lottery history—and I found out last week on Instagram how bodaciously generous she is. You see, maviswanczyk988 has chosen me as one of 6,000 people to each receive $10,000 from her winnings. Really? Well, her profile picture is the image everybody saw on TV when she came forward.

Since her family and friends call her Mave, so will I. Mave’s chances of winning were 292 million to 1.

I wonder what my chances were to be one of the 6,000 lucky recipients of 10 grand. I mean, Mave got only a little less than $400 million after taking a single lump-sum payment. She up and quit her job at the hospital where she’d worked since she was 21.

If my calculation is correct, she’s giving $60 million away to complete strangers. For a multimillionaire, that’s chump change. But actually, 10 grand is not nearly enough for the lifestyle I so richly deserve.

I mean, she’ll still have $320 million left. That’s hella cash, which is one of the options she gave me to receive my gift. Cash? In the mail? Suspicious, so I messaged to ask where she lives, where’d she worked, things like that. She messaged back with no answers, only insisting that I needed to activate my special delivery code for the FedEx driver. Incredibly, a FedEx truck arrived the next day, but the driver didn’t hang around for my special code. He only delivered the replacement checks my bride had ordered. Rats.

Then, maviswanczyk3922 sent an Instagram message … same picture, different number after the name. My new ‘Mave’ had urgent instructions: I needed to buy a $100 Amazon gift card and apply it to her account to activate my delivery code. I asked her if she was running a scam. She replied she only wanted to help people, with attached images of ‘followers’ holding up notes to prove her generosity. Misspelled, badly punctuated notes. So, beware of beneficent messages from one, two or 300 folks claiming to be Mavis Wanczyk. Or, just divulge your personal information and wait for the FedEx truck. Then let us know how it works out for you.

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Dante has nothing on this divine comedy. Imagine the Supreme Being delivers a new and improved set of Commandments. God’s introduction of the revised laws is refreshingly positive, insisting on the separation of church and state and encouraging us to believe in ourselves, not some elderly white guy in the sky. OK, now; watch it! An Act of God is a sinfully funny play, delivering new meaning to the phrase ‘divine intervention’—God and his devoted angels answer some of the deepest questions that have plagued mankind since creation. The Big Guy finally has arrived to set the record straight, and He’s not holding back. (In God we trust? Oy, gevalt!) The play runs Nov. 29 through Dec. 16 at New Jewish Theatre at the J, 2 Millstone Campus Drive.

Talkbacks are scheduled after the Dec. 2 and 6 performances.

(Sorry; the director will not be able to tell you at this point whether you’re headed for heaven or, well, heck.) The New York Times calls it “a gut-bustingfunny riff on the never-ending folly of mankind’s attempts to fathom God’s wishes through the words of the Bible and use them to their own ends.”

Perfect for the holiday season, don’t you think?

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Just in time for the kind of weather in which most people won’t want to ride it, The Loop Trolley officially began limited service last Thursday morning (Nov. 25).

It will run four days a week, Thursday to Sunday, noon to 8 p.m., with service extended to 11 p.m. on Fridays and Saturdays. Final price tag: $51 million. Fares: $2 for two hours and $5 for all day. It will run every 20 to 25 minutes. Can you believe it? We almost can’t, although refurbished trolley cars from the Left Coast have been running back and forth intermittently for months of dry runs. (Testing … testing … is this thing on?) A ribbon-cutting ceremony was to have been held with city and county officials including the mayors of St. Louis and U. City—Lyda Krewson and Terry Crow, respectively—but since we didn’t see it with our own eyes, we can’t be sure. Video from the news media is often fake, according to President Trump. What we do know to be true is that the trolley was proposed by Joe Edwards in 1997. Babies born that year would be able to buy a drink legally in one of Joe’s drinking, dining and entertainment establishments in The Loop. After umpteen delays for this and that … lawsuits, funding, the ‘gummint’ (from local entities to Washington) and MoDOT … the trolley’s here in time for the holiday season, although the seemingly endless project caused several local merchants to vamoose. Cyclists bemoan getting a wheel trapped in the tracks, thus the bright

yellow warning signs that depict just that. Parking challenges already throw many visitors for a loop, and the trolley already has managed to clip a parked car or two. So, who’s eager to ride two miles to the Missouri History Museum, the other way or both? Hello?

Anybody?

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The Interfaith Partnership of St. Louis (IP) recently moved its offices from Eden Theological Seminary in Webster Groves to a new and larger space in a house on the grounds of Ladue Chapel known as ‘The Cottage.’ Interfaith Partnership counts 30 religions

and other communities of conscience as members, with Ladue Chapel representing the Presbyterian Church USA. The congregation contributed hundreds of hours of labor to fix up the house and ready it for IP. The new office provides more space for IP’s growing staff, plus meeting and conference rooms under one roof. The stand-alone, five-room house has served over the years as a residence for some Ladue Chapel staff and more recently as the location for Care and Counseling, an interfaith agency providing mental health services for children, adults and families, as well as congregational and clergy training and psychoeducation programs. Founded in 1985, the Interfaith Partnership works to deepen respect and appreciation across lines of religious difference and move people toward greater peace and understanding. Membership includes more than a dozen Christian denominations as well as Judaism, Islam, Zen Buddhism, Hinduism, Baha’i Faith, Ethical Humanism, Unitarian Universalism and others.

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up the paper every day and puts it inside the screen door.

“That’s just indicative of how nice people can be,” she says.

Kerwin gives much of the credit to her daughter. And she’s not naïve: “The longer you’re in your own home, the better.” She paused for a moment, then explained, “If plants don’t like where they are, they don’t do well either.”

She is humble, the personification of gratitude. And not surprisingly, she’s old school. She enjoys phone calls but doesn’t have a computer. She did want a BB gun for those darn squirrels, but she didn’t get one.

Kerwin remains engaged and involved with more sedentary brain-stretching activities like garden club and bridge once a month. But the sun room is her idyll. “Anyone who doesn’t appreciate nature doesn’t know what they’re missing,” she says. & PHOTO: BILL BARRETT

Jeanne Kerwin of U. City is grateful for every day, and she’s had about 36,505 of them so far. Born five days after the Armistice that brought World War I to a close, Kerwin turned 100 last Friday, Nov. 16. She’s the senior member of the Garden Appreciation Club of Greater St. Louis, but since she fell and broke her hip at 92, she does her gardening in her sunroom. Kerwin showed off a violet and handed an orchid to a visitor for closer inspection. “They’re an ugly plant until they bloom,” she says. So orchids languish, all stems and dirt until they bloom again, but some folks think that once they’ve bloomed, it’s time for the mulch pile.

Gardeners know otherwise. Some bloom once a year, others continuously; some flowers last four weeks, and other varieties’ blossoms last up to four months.

We might have had our chat and photo session with Kerwin outside, but she was inside because she hadn’t listened to her daughter, Karen Stiers, eight years ago just after Kerwin’s cataract surgery. Stiers insisted she stay inside. But as soon as Stiers left, Kerwin opened the back door and headed down the back steps to water

her neighbor’s plants. The light was too bright for her sensitive eyes, and she took a sideways tumble. If she’d gone forward, she would’ve hit concrete and might not be here to tell the tale. Despite her daughter’s wishes, Kerwin liked to prune, too. And mow the lawn. Lawn service? Pah! Now, Kerwin has accepted that she just can’t be as active as she once was. Nowadays, U City in Bloom helps out with lawn maintenance. A neighbor picks

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PATTY by patty hannum HAPPY THANKSGIVING! If you are hosting people

this holiday and have not begun to thaw the turkey, I feel bad for your guests. Fortunately, I am going over to my brother Mike’s house. Or I should say, my sister-in-law Pam’s house, since she is the one who does the cooking.

Many families have a tradition of going around the table and expressing things that make them feel most grateful. The Fitzgerald family never did this. I am not sure if it was because there were too many of us and the food would have gotten cold, or my parents feared what would come out of our mouths. When hosting Thanksgiving at my house, I’ve tried a few times to get people to talk about what they were thankful for, but I was greeted with glares and guffaws. Fortunately, I have this column, so I can spare my family.

I am thankful to you, the readers of this column. One of life’s pleasures is receiving an email from a reader who enjoyed my writing, related to something I said, or got a laugh from it. And sure, every once in a while, I get someone who disagrees with me. I gently point out that my name, not theirs, is at the top of the column. No, actually, I thank them for their opinions and then decide never to write about that topic again. I love writing the column, but I love hearing you like it even more! I think I do have a little bit of Sally Field in me (not the part that dated Burt Reynolds).

I am thankful for my family; they provide me with an endless number of stories. My brothers and sister deserve some privacy, but I have chosen to give them none. I suspect it is because I am the youngest, and in my own way, it is payback for all the hand-me-downs, lack of parental attention and teasing about my desire to share everything that is remotely interesting. A single lunch with this group provides me with several columns worth of material. I hope they will always remember my famous admonition, “Love you. Don’t die.”

I am thankful for my son, daughter and daughter-inlaw. I try not to write about them too much because, well, my daughter can get really mean when provoked (like her mom), and I swore I would be a good mother-in-law.

That means I can’t really write much about my son or daughter-in-law. Just know that I’m well aware—in the lottery of children, I won!

I am thankful for my husband. We have been married 35 years. Most people find that hard to believe. Me too!

I feel like I am only 45 years old. Ours is not a perfect marriage, but we both admit it, which may be why we’ve been together this long. Neither of us is looking for perfection ... just lots of love, laughs and happiness.

I am thankful for my friends. It’s hard to believe I’ve known some of them since age 14! Friends are the family you get to choose, and I am very happy with my selections.

There are a few nuts in the group, but each brings something special to my box of assorted chocolates.

Wasn’t that nice? Feel free to make changes and use my thoughts at your table. (If I try, I will be met with, “Give it up, Patty, we aren’t the Waltons.”) True, but I love them all anyway.

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Delmar Gardens West resident LEONA “LEE” ▶ MCKEE recently BLEW OUT THE CANDLES ON BIRTHDAY CAKE NUMBER 104. The Breese, Illinois, native attended Rosati-Kain High School and worked for the Stix, Baer & Fuller department store chain. She celebrated the milestone birthday with family and friends. Congratulations!

▲ University City-based designer KAREN DANIELS of Tess Jewelry recently picked up some one-of-a-kind inspiration from the City of Lights.

She attended Paris Fashion Week and immersed herself in runway shows, museum tours and meetings with other designers. One special tour experience allowed her to walk in the footsteps of the late Coco Chanel, whose creations have inspired the jewelry designer’s work. Daniels will hold a TRUNK SHOW NOV. 30 AT GIDDY UP JANE; pictured are some of her latest pieces. Visit tessjewelry.net.

◀ Speaking of what’s in vogue, the ST. LOUIS FASHION FUND is set to graduate its INAUGURAL CLASS OF FEATURED DESIGNERS next month.

A few changes are being woven into the four-year-old nonprofit’s 2019 plans. Among them are a new collaborative rental workspace program called the Design Co-Op, an expanded speaker series, new education programs and a Fashion Consortium to create a stronger voice for the local industry.

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〈〈〈 THE MAIN EVENTS 〉〉〉 Head to the Missouri Botanical Garden Dec. 2 for Chanukah: Festival of Lights, a traditional Jewish celebration with Israeli music and dance, a menorahlighting ceremony and Chanukah merchandise from area vendors.

Step into the holiday season with the Moscow Ballet’s Great Russian Nutcracker at the Fabulous Fox Theatre.

Performances are scheduled for Dec. 2 and 3, part of the ballet’s 100-city North American ‘Dove of Peace’ tour.

Tidings of good humor are on stage through Jan. 6 at

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REACHING OUT

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MEET FOUNDER/EXECUTIVE DIRECTOR KATIE RHOADES OF ST. LOUIS 〉〉 How long have you been working for this cause?

Since 2005, but Healing Action got its start in 2012.

What got interested you in it?

I’m a survivor of sex trafficking. I got out in 2001 and wanted to support other individuals who have been through the commercial sex trade. The first step was spending quite a bit of time working on my own healing.

I also wanted to get an education to be able to address the issues that impact the people we serve. I got my bachelor’s degree from Metropolitan State University in 2010, and then I moved to St. Louis to go to the Brown School of Social Work at Washington University, where I earned my master’s. Initially, I started with a grassroots campaign to raise support and funds for the cause, and that started with creating awareness and letting people know about the issue. I got in front of people and told my story to get

the word about human trafficking. After fundraising and building relationships with people who share this mission, Healing Action was ready to open its doors. We received a three-year infrastructure grant in 2015, and it allowed us to begin serving clients.

partner with lawmakers to push legislation that would limit sex trafficking across the country and help survivors get out of the life easier, including the Missouri Safe at Home Bill, which provides free post office boxes to victims so their abusers can’t find them.

Explain what the organization does.

Healing Action believes in a community free of exploitation. We serve adult survivors of commercial sexual exploitation, including prostitution, pornography, survival sex and sex trafficking—anyone who had to use their body to get their needs meet. All our staff are survivors and can relate to women who are on their way out of the life. We also offer group therapy, individual counseling and transportation. It’s really about providing basic needs so individuals don’t need to be out on the streets engaging in commercial sex any longer. We also

If you could do anything for the organization, what would it be?

Our biggest need is for resources to allow Healing Action to provide safe housing for victims of trafficking.

I would love to be able to obtain plots of land for individual, nonidentifiable homes or a larger property where we could open a more comprehensive residential facility that would allow women to focus on their initial healing. We currently have about 60 active clients, and our ability to properly provide services is dependent on our ability to grow.

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“Katie has dedicated her life to helping others live on their own terms. Through her hard work and determination, she has created a space for victims of commercial sexual exploitation to heal from their trauma so they can start their journey to a life free of exploitation. Katie also has been a key figure in the local, state and national anti-trafficking movement, providing education to increase awareness of the issue and advocating for the rights of those exploited.”

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by julia m. johnson | photography by lisa hessel KAITLIN GATES JOKES THAT IT’S A WONDER she and her husband, John Engler, ever got together. Both went to MICDS and had known each other for years, but she only thought of him as a friend during school. “I never gave him a chance because he was one of the ‘older guys,’” she laughs.

After they graduated from college, however, things took a romantic turn. “John and I started going out for drinks with friends and realized we had the same weird sense of humor,” Kaitlin recalls. “Our friends said affectionately that we were two of the goofiest people they had ever met, so it made sense for us to get together!” The pair had a fun first date at The Kitchen Sink in the Central West End and went out for about three years before becoming engaged.

Kaitlin says John’s proposal made for an unforgettable evening. “I was going to a happy hour for a coworker and said I wouldn’t be able to see him until later that night,” she explains. “He got really upset, so I knew something was up.” John persuaded her to skip the happy hour, took her to a holiday party and proposed to her at the top of Art Hill in Forest Park. Kaitlin says she suddenly heard cheering when John gave her the ring. Both sets of parents had been watching from a secret spot and came out of hiding when they heard her say yes. Afterward, they all went out for a celebratory dinner.

The couple married at the Shrine of St. Joseph and threw a lovely reception at the Missouri Athletic Club. Kaitlin says she chose traditional flowers and decor, but that didn’t keep the party from being lively. A photo booth, late-night Imo’s pizza and campaign-style hats saying “Engler+Gates ‘18” made the celebration light and fun, she says. The newlyweds honeymooned in Cabo San Lucas and currently live in University City. &

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With an original location in Chicago, Leslie Hindman Auctioneers has been serving clients as a fine art and antique auction house for more than 30 years. It holds sales for prominent estates and collections, including those of adventurers Steve and Peggy Fossett, St. Louis philanthropists and collectors Eric and Evelyn Newman, and the Saint Louis Zoo Association. The St. Louis office opened in 2014, and Hindman has seven other regional offices and offers 60 auctions annually across 20 categories. It also provides appraisal services throughout the year. “There is a rich history of art in St. Louis,” says Kara Kelpe, director of business development for St. Louis. “Since opening this office, we have been committed to recognizing and promoting locally significant collections in our community, and exposing them to a broader international audience.”

HOT GIFTING TIP OR TREND: Kelpe suggests Hermès scarves and ties and Steuben, Lalique or Baccarat cocktail glasses and decanters.

After years managing a fur salon, Ann Hurth had built a reputation for customer service, style and quality. When she left her position, her clients followed. They asked for advice on caring for their pieces and finding the latest styles. Hurth recognized a need and opened The Fur Boutique with former colleague Georgene Frazier.

“We carry only top-quality merchandise,” Hurth says.

“Our customers know us for that.” The boutique offers the latest trends and classic looks, but also provides its customers more than just luxury furs. It operates as a fullservice furrier, offering storage, cleaning and repair as well. Hurth is grateful for the loyalty St. Louis has shown her and The Fur Boutique. “Our customers really put us in business,” she says. “It’s been four years, and we’re going strong because of them.”

HOT GIFTING TIP OR TREND: Hurth recommends keeping loved ones warm with a new hat, gloves, scarf, KARA KELPE wrap, cape or coat.

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OWNERS SHAWN LIPE AND SUZANNE WOODARD

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The Refind Room has become a destination for unique, high-quality furniture, home decor and art in St. Louis. Owners Suzanne Woodard and Shawn Lipe have developed the store into a complete shopping experience with original art, designer furniture, eclectic pieces and collector-grade items at affordable prices.

The Refind Room also hosts art exhibits, cocktail parties and classes. Woodard says the store pays homage to the past and embraces the present while encouraging beautiful, individual style. “We love owning our business in St. Louis,” she says. “Its history means that customers appreciate heirloom quality, and its size means that everyone who walks in the door becomes a friend.” The Refind Room now offers estate liquidation, estate sale services, consignment and 24/7 online shopping.

HOT GIFTING TIP OR TREND: Woodard suggests vintage decanters, handmade pottery and small vessels for succulents or flowers.

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Founded in 1981, Genovese Jewelers originally occupied a space that was just 900 square feet. The family-owned jewelry store has grown into one of the largest in the Midwest, offering fine and fashion jewelry. President Joe Genovese says one of the store’s best features is its large inventory. He notes that there are beautiful items for any budget, with pieces starting around $50. Genovese Jewelers also has in-house jewelry artisans who can create one-of-a-kind pieces for customers. “We are unique because we offer a combination of manufacturing and retail to a degree I have not seen anywhere else,” Genovese says. “We are proud to be making jewelry not just in the U.S., but here in St. Louis.” He is grateful for the store’s many loyal friends and customers throughout the years. “St. Louis takes care of its own,” he says.

HOT GIFTING TIP OR TREND: The biggest holiday trend at Genovese is stacked ring sets with a mixture of metals and designs.

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K. Hall Studio started with two lines of candles and seven employees in 1998. As the company celebrates its 20th anniversary, it has expanded to five lines of home fragrance and personal care products: Barr-Co., K. Hall Designs, Lorna Lu, Simpatico and U.S. Apothecary. They are sold by more than 2,500 retailers throughout the United States, including Pottery Barn, Anthropologie and Nordstrom. K. Hall Studio has three company-owned stores in St. Louis and two others in Chicago and Newport Beach, Calif. The company also has a St. Louis factory where 90 percent of its products are made.

K. Hall Studio is happy to call St. Louis and the Midwest home, embracing the quality of employees the city attracts and the logistical ease of being centrally located.

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ELLEARD HEFFERN

Opened in 1913, Elleard Heffern is St. Louis’ oldest independent fine jeweler. Its mission to provide highquality, distinctive jewelry continues into its fourth generation, says Kit Heffern, president and grandson of the company’s founder. “Visitors often remark on how different our jewelry is from what they see everywhere else,” he says. “We always seek emerging international designers who offer limited, specialized production.” An example is the Gismondi 1754 line. The Italian collection has been worn by celebrities such as Jane Fonda, and Elleard Heffern is the only independent jewelry store in the U.S. to feature it. The company also is known for restoring and remodeling outdated jewelry. “It’s our pleasure to serve a community that appreciates beauty and craftsmanship,” Heffern says.

HOT GIFTING TIP OR TREND: Heffern says rose gold is popular because the alloy is a warm, unusual color. It’s also comparable in price to other types of gold.

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The original Laurie’s Shoes store on Manchester Road was built as a bomb shelter during the Korean War. Besides housing shoes, it was a safe place for area residents to gather if the need arose. Thankfully, its secondary use was not necessary, but the family-owned business has continued to grow over four generations. Laurie’s carries more than 50,000 pairs of footwear, according to owner Mark Waldman. It offers brands from around the world.

The store also has pedorthists on staff to make sure its footwear is stylish and comfortable. “Our goal is complete customer satisfaction,” Waldman says. He notes that St. Louis is a wonderful location for the business. “We have a client base that espouses the Midwestern philosophy of honesty, hard work and appreciation,” he says. “We are committed to this town!”

HOT GIFTING TIP OR TREND: Waldman says women’s low booties are popular in colors like brown, black, olive, gray and burgundy.

“It’s so important to wear things that make you feel good,” she says. “Accessories are an easy way to accomplish that.” At Shine, which opened in May 2016, Netsch sells clothing, handbags, scarves, jewelry, candles and more.

“I try to include unusual, interesting products you might not find anywhere else,” she says. Netsch emphasizes socially responsible shopping and supporting small, local companies. She also has give-back programs that donate a percentage of sales of certain items to charity. Netsch describes Shine’s clothing as fun, versatile and fashionforward. “These are pieces you can dress up or down,” she says. She also provides monogramming services.

HOT GIFTING TIP OR TREND: Netsch’s main recommendation is to shop local and support your community.

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In 2011, Barb Davis opened B. Davis Design as an extension of her years of design experience. The shop offers a mix of curated home furnishings that reflect Davis’ personal vision. “I don’t shop trends; I just sell what I love,” she explains. She regularly goes on buying trips and brings home one-of-kind items including antiques.

B. Davis is a Mackenzie Childs dealer and has a custom wreath and floral department. Davis says the store’s greatest appeal is in its customer service. “We make you feel like you’re in our home,” she says. “We are personally invested in helping everyone pick the perfect gift or item.” The personal attention keeps customers coming back and referring their friends. “St. Louis is a very loyal community, and everyone loves to shop local,” Davis says.

HOT GIFTING TIP OR TREND: Davis suggests combining a pair of mink mittens, a piece of silver and a nice coffee table book for an eclectic gift.

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Located near the intersection of Clayton Road and Brentwood Boulevard, Wilson Lighting is more than just a lighting store. It also features home décor items from around the world, according to vice president Brian Wilson. “We carefully source our products for a truly unique collection of goods,” he says. A majority of products in its showroom are in stock, which Wilson says is unusual.

The family-owned chain also has stores in Kansas and Florida, but Wilson says being in St. Louis offers a unique benefit. While the company’s primary business is working with new construction, it has seen increased demand for lighting and décor updates in existing homes. “There are many majestic older houses here,” he says. “The rich history of St. Louis neighborhoods is very impressive.”

HOT GIFTING TIP OR TREND: Wilson recommends unusual, high-quality home design gifts for the party hostess or avid decorator on your list.

When Laura Wilson opened Marketplace at The Abbey in 2014, her goal was to surprise and delight her customers with special ‘Abbey finds.’ Today, she continues to offer one-of-a-kind gifts from her curated network of international vendors. The sprawling store showcases everything from custom furniture to made-to-order florals, sliding barn doors, decorative lanterns, gift items and barware. Recently, the company began selling the CR Laine furniture line and is one of few carriers in the region.

Wilson says she is proud to be part of the St. Louis retail scene and enjoys the close-knit community, which has allowed her to build strong relationships with clients. The store hosts events year-round.

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Pictured left to right: Puffin Warmies, $24 from Sign of the Arrow • Converse Shoes in green, $34.99 from Laurie's Shoes • Customizable Water Bottle, $30 from Marketplace at the Abbey • Ice Lolly Sponge for Bath, $8 from Christopher’s • 12 Days of Christmas Book and PJs, $46 from Lu Lu Belle • Alpaca Rocker, $89.99 from Happy Up • Amahi Ukulele, $49.99 from Happy Up • Travel Size Amika Blow Dryer, $60 from Blown Away Blow Dry Bar • Mouse Vacation, $50 from City Sprouts • Thank-You Notes, $16-$20 from Cherry Berry • The Paris Bracelet, $36-$60 from The Spotted Pig

For Him

Pictured left to right: Nick Belt in martini, $62 from J. McLaughlin • The Top Side Backpack by The Normal Brand, $199 from Fun In The Sun • Juniper and Geranium Beard Balm & Hair Groom by U.S. Apothecary, $20 from K. Hall Studio • The Gentleman's Guide to Grooming: The Quintessential Handbook for the Modern Man, $19.95 from K. Hall Studio • Barr-Co Hand Cream in Reserve, $26 from K. Hall Studio • Barr-Co Bar Soap in Reserve, $10 from K. Hall Studio • Gentleman's Beard Kit, $12.50 from K. Hall Studio • Pollock Pheasant Bow Tie, $205 from Service Bureau Stationery & Gifts • Button Ice Square Cufflinks in blue by Tateossian, $195 from Savile Row • Stonington Quilted Vest in navy, $198 from J. McLaughlin • Carnegie Classic Fit Shirt in blue, black and white tattersall check, $135 from J. McLaughlin • Matsuda M2031 matte dark tortoise/solid gold Mirror Sunglasses, $945 from The Eye Bar • Peter Millar Dress Check Shirt, $125 from Mister Guy Men's • Peter Millar Mountainside Indigo Cable Crewneck Sweater, $195 from Mister Guy Men's • Martin Dingman Countrywear Beauregaurd Bow-Tie Loafer in cigar, $195 from Woody's Men's Shop • Yeti Tundra 45 Cooler in charcoal, $299.99 from The Alpine Shop • Donald Leather Dopp Kit

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Pictured left to right: Embroidered Scarf in multicolor, $126 from Shine Boutique • Steel Grey Wool Cape with Fox Collar, $1,500 from The Fur Boutique • Porcelain Earrings by Zoe Comings, $60 from Craft Alliance • Claire Flowers Booties, $325 from Mister Guy Women’s • 314 Camo Baseball Cap, $35 from Paperdolls • Ornament PJs Top and Bottom, $68 each from Mister Guy Women’s • Julie Vos Paradise Link Necklace, $295 from Sasha Nicholas • Plaid Fringe Poncho, $40 from Paperdolls • Necklaces with Agate Pendants, $76 each from Shine Boutique • Mink Mittens, $198 from B. Davis Interiors • Marella Sandwich Bag Purse, $62 from Paperdolls

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Pictured left to right: Gray Stingray Frame, $38 from Christopher’s • Aromatique Grapefruit Fandango Decorative Fragrance, $22 from Ken Miesner's Flowers • Webster Wax Soap and Candle, $8.50 and $16, from Shine Boutique • Norleen Nosri Porcelain Cup with Gold, $70, and Porcelain Cup, $80, from Craft Alliance • Black, White and Gold Checked Tray, $37 from Marketplace at the Abbey • Hand Blown Bubble Pitcher, $129 from B. Davis Interiors • Mini Loaf Pans from Mud Pie, $18 each from Christopher’s • Small Silver Pitchers and Vase, $29 each from Ken Miesner's Flowers • Versace Salad & Bread Plate, $115, and Butter Plate, $120, from Sasha Nicholas • Lindenwood Vase by Michael Bauermeister, $650 from Craft Alliance • Celebrity Cocktails Recipe Book, $50 from Sasha Nicholas

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Celebrate the season in style with a MacKenzieChilds tabletop nutcracker topiary; $225.

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5 | K. HALL STUDIO K. Hall Designs’ 20th anniversary, limited edition bath bomb gift set includes four 4.3-oz, mineral-rich Epsom salt bath bombs in Milk, Fig, Egyptian Jasmine and Peony.

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This 14kt, two-tone Gabriel and Company open design band features three yellow gold rope and 2 white gold pavé bands with 44 round diamonds at .41cttw.

This stunning tabletop sculpture is perfect for homeowners who have an appreciation for art.

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Layer your look this season with the Celena Shawl Vest. This two-tone, reversible vest comes in ivory, navy and olive and is one of our Black Friday doorbuster specials. Limited quantities are available, $49.50.

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This LED lantern will shine all winter long! It’s a The boutique carries a variety of luxury great gift for any host this holiday season; $45. outerwear and accessories. This American flag Christopher’s is St. Louis’ gifting destination. hat by Linda Richards is a new best seller.

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There’s something for everyone.

This blown glass ornament recreates the theater’s signature blade sign. The boxed ornament is available at the box office and at Guest Services in the lobby before performances; $20.

The Cashmere Sale in Kirkwood runs through Dec. 15, 10 a.m. to 4 p.m. Monday though Saturday and noon to 4 p.m. Sundays. Cashmere coats, cardigans, wraps, sweaters, bathrobes, scarves, hats and gloves are half retail price.

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THE HOLIDAYS ARE TRULY THE MOST WONDERFUL TIME OF THE YEAR to add a little sparkle and shine to your ensemble. From glittering gold to dazzling diamonds, drape yourself in the season’s most decadent jewels so you feel festive and ready to celebrate! Here’s just a sampling of what you’ll find at various local boutiques.

G E N OV ES E J E W E L E RS 14kt white gold oval hoops with round pavé diamonds at .52cttw

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SUMMA Ombre South Sea pearl necklace with white, golden and Tahitian pearls $6,000

ALBARRÉ Italian 18kt white gold and diamond bracelet, perfect for stacking $1,960

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Compartes’ Century City flagship store is the L.A. equivalent of Willy Wonka’s chocolate factory. The chocolatier is known just as much for its exquisite packaging as for its decadent and creative chocolate bar creations. From the Gourmet Matcha Green Tea White Chocolate Bar to the Donuts and Coffee Milk Chocolate Bar, eating Compartes is more than a sweet indulgence; it’s an experience. Starting at $9.95, Compartes confections are perfect for gifting or the occasional ‘treat yo’ self’ moment.

When it comes to thrift stores, L.A. is next level.

Maybe it’s the number of millionaires per capita or the fact that so many fashion trends are started here, but either way, second-hand shops in the City of Angels have some incredible finds. If you’re planning a shopping trip to Rodeo Drive, an afternoon (or two) at The Closet Trading Company or Council Thrift Shops may hold some fabulous finds for a fraction of the cost.

celeb-worthy jewels » Jennifer Meyer is the epitome of an L.A. designer. A native Angeleno who began her career working for Armani and Ralph Lauren, Meyer launched her eponymous jewelry line in 2005. Her high-quality designs use only the most beautiful stones and metals, and they can be seen in movies like Spider-Man 3 and The Break-Up. Her most iconic pieces include a turquoise inlay heart necklace and rings, as well as charm stud earrings. Aside from her impressive celebrity clientele (her best friend is Jennifer Aniston), you may have seen Meyer on the red carpet with former husband Tobey Maguire.

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Jill: I asked a hairdresser about his perspective on this scenario. He said it does sting when longtime clients move on. But he appreciates it when people let him know instead of just ‘ghosting,’ or disappearing without a word. He said he is a professional and is able to get over it. (He adds that sometimes, it’s a relief when clients are ready for a change because he is too.)

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Beth: The bravest person would have this conversation face-to-face. But since most of us don’t have

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▶ My neighbors are from New York City, and I can tell they find me overly chummy and chatty. At the same time, I find them cold and abrupt. How can I get them to loosen up and be warmer?

Jill: It’s not your job to get them to loosen up. It is your job to be fully you and as chummy and chatty as you

like. (As a fellow chummy chatter, I get you.) Your neighbors are expressing themselves in the way that feels most comfortable to them; accept their communication style. You can always look for other neighbors who are up for a friendlier connection.

Beth: My husband is from Boston, and I’ve learned that what we might experience as cold and abrupt is often their idea of warm and friendly. It’s a matter of perspective. As Don Miguel Ruiz says in The Four Agreements, don’t take it personally.

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post pictures of my party, I’m afraid other friends who aren’t invited will feel left out. Should I expand the invite list, or ask my guests not to post about it?

Jill: I wouldn’t expand the party list unless you truly want a bigger soiree. Obviously, you can’t control the

behavior of your party guests. But I think it’s OK to say, “I wanted to keep this party intimate. I’m sensitive about hurting the feelings of other friends who weren’t invited. It would be great if pictures of the party didn’t end up on social media.”

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weren’t invited to on social media. They often have less FOMO (fear of missing out) than adults. They’ve had to develop this muscle because of the proliferation of social media in their lives, and that’s probably a good thing. With that said, I am of the belief that less posting of private dinners and parties is the way to go.

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cystic fibrosis foundation, gateway chapter

About 300 people helped the organization raise nearly $100,000 during the 16th Annual Wine Opener fundraiser. The Casey & Devoti law firm sponsored the event.

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operation food search

The nonprofit hunger relief organization raised more than $83,000 during its 25th annual golf tournament. The agency helps feed those in need through partner organizations in 31 Missouri and Illinois counties.

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As the years pass, certain unavoidable concerns creep closer. We start to think more about aging and the impact time has on our bodies and brains. While we wish those effects could be mostly positive, usually they’re not. Dementia is a daunting prospect, and it may seem like there’s nothing we can do about it.

If you’re like us, though, you enjoy learning about breakthroughs in brain science that can assuage the fears that come along with aging. I’ve written about the medical field for many years, and am especially interested to see what health-care professionals are discovering about how to care for patients with Alzheimer’s or other forms of dementia.

Researchers are gaining a deeper understanding of the many connections that exist among brain health, mental stimulation, physical exercise, mood and other factors.

If it’s a subject that has been on your mind as well, take a look at our health feature, Answers About Alzheimer’s. We also have a cover story on Parc Provence, a senior living community that is applying modern practices in memory care to help residents thrive. I’m sure you’ll learn something new and useful, especially if you have a parent or loved one transitioning to elder care.

(Plus, the more you read, the better it is for your brain.)

On a completely different note, we’re also here to help you get into the holiday spirit with a special Style Inside about an elegantly decorated Ladue home. Check out Highland Holidays, and gift yourself some decorating ideas to create a bright, shining holiday showplace of your own. (Even some of the rooms are red and green!)

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HEALING HELP RANKEN JORDAN PEDIATRIC BRIDGE HOSPITAL by stephanie wallace NO PARENT WANTS TO CONSIDER that a child may have to contend with a debilitating illness

or injury. But it’s an unavoidable fact that some children’s days are filled with medical treatments and procedures rather than playing with friends or going to school. Ranken Jordan Pediatric Bridge Hospital is dedicated to making the transition between traditional hospitals and home as smooth as possible. It’s the area’s first and only pediatric bridge hospital, and its model of care allows young patients to play, grow, learn and interact with others.

The hospital refers to its treatment model as ‘Care Beyond the Bedside.’ “When you think about hospital stays, you picture a solitary experience of being confined to a bed,” says Dr. Nick Holekamp, chief medical officer at Ranken Jordan. “We get children out of their rooms and into play spaces, activity areas, therapy rooms and the hospital grounds. It allows them to heal and recover while still having normal childhood experiences.” According to Holekamp, this type of care takes a lot of planning and innovative approaches to accommodate various medical restrictions. “Medical support and monitoring are important, but we want to focus on the children first,” he notes.

“We make it a priority to ensure that no matter what patients’ needs are, they all get to experience being a kid.”

The benefits of such care, however, outweigh potential logistical difficulties. It allows for experiences that more closely mirror school or daycare. “Doing more together is better for kids than being sedentary and alone,” Holekamp says. “Playing and interacting with family, staff and other patients can aid their development and healing.” Another advantage is that families get to engage with their children in a less restrictive environment, better preparing them for in-home care.

“Many parents only see their children in intensive care while they’re at the hospital,” Holekamp explains. “Working with traditional hospitals, we optimize patients’ outcomes to get the family home together and healthy.”

One patient the hospital recently helped is Sammy, who was born with a rare heart condition.

During the first 7 months of her life, Sammy required four open heart surgeries and came to Ranken Jordan with many specialized needs, including a ventilator and feeding tube. Holekamp says Ranken Jordan gave Sammy and her family the opportunity to recover and prepare for the transition home. “She was done with her surgeries, so it was time to let her body grow and heal,” he explains. “We were able to help her continue to improve physically while also providing a sense of normalcy to aid in her developmental recovery.”

Despite having opened in 1941, Ranken Jordan may not be a household name for many St. Louisans. “We’re largely invisible to the community because we take care of about one percent of local pediatric patients,” Holekamp notes. One of the ways the hospital raises public awareness and important funds is the annual Ranken Jordan Beyond Gala. The 2019 event will be held Jan. 19 at the Four Seasons. Guests can look forward to an evening of cocktails, dinner, live and silent auctions, and a celebration of the children the hospital has served. “It’s always an uplifting and touching occasion,” Holekamp says. “It’s an opportunity to share stories about the lives we’ve changed through the care we provide to kids in the worst of circumstances.” & NOVEMBER 21, 2018 | townandstyle.com

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TALK OF THE TOWNS by bill beggs jr.

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Mavis Wanczyk, whose first language is apparently not English, must be awful busy. Wanczyk, of Chicopee, Mass., recently won $758 million, the largest jackpot in lottery history—and I found out last week on Instagram how bodaciously generous she is. You see, maviswanczyk988 has chosen me as one of 6,000 people to each receive $10,000 from her winnings. Really? Well, her profile picture is the image everybody saw on TV when she came forward.

Since her family and friends call her Mave, so will I. Mave’s chances of winning were 292 million to 1.

I wonder what my chances were to be one of the 6,000 lucky recipients of 10 grand. I mean, Mave got only a little less than $400 million after taking a single lump-sum payment. She up and quit her job at the hospital where she’d worked since she was 21.

If my calculation is correct, she’s giving $60 million away to complete strangers. For a multimillionaire, that’s chump change. But actually, 10 grand is not nearly enough for the lifestyle I so richly deserve.

I mean, she’ll still have $320 million left. That’s hella cash, which is one of the options she gave me to receive my gift. Cash? In the mail? Suspicious, so I messaged to ask where she lives, where’d she worked, things like that. She messaged back with no answers, only insisting that I needed to activate my special delivery code for the FedEx driver. Incredibly, a FedEx truck arrived the next day, but the driver didn’t hang around for my special code. He only delivered the replacement checks my bride had ordered. Rats.

Then, maviswanczyk3922 sent an Instagram message … same picture, different number after the name. My new ‘Mave’ had urgent instructions: I needed to buy a $100 Amazon gift card and apply it to her account to activate my delivery code. I asked her if she was running a scam. She replied she only wanted to help people, with attached images of ‘followers’ holding up notes to prove her generosity. Misspelled, badly punctuated notes. So, beware of beneficent messages from one, two or 300 folks claiming to be Mavis Wanczyk. Or, just divulge your personal information and wait for the FedEx truck. Then let us know how it works out for you.

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Dante has nothing on this divine comedy. Imagine the Supreme Being delivers a new and improved set of Commandments. God’s introduction of the revised laws is refreshingly positive, insisting on the separation of church and state and encouraging us to believe in ourselves, not some elderly white guy in the sky. OK, now; watch it! An Act of God is a sinfully funny play, delivering new meaning to the phrase ‘divine intervention’—God and his devoted angels answer some of the deepest questions that have plagued mankind since creation. The Big Guy finally has arrived to set the record straight, and He’s not holding back. (In God we trust? Oy, gevalt!) The play runs Nov. 29 through Dec. 16 at New Jewish Theatre at the J, 2 Millstone Campus Drive.

Talkbacks are scheduled after the Dec. 2 and 6 performances.

(Sorry; the director will not be able to tell you at this point whether you’re headed for heaven or, well, heck.) The New York Times calls it “a gut-bustingfunny riff on the never-ending folly of mankind’s attempts to fathom God’s wishes through the words of the Bible and use them to their own ends.”

Perfect for the holiday season, don’t you think?

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Just in time for the kind of weather in which most people won’t want to ride it, The Loop Trolley officially began limited service last Thursday morning (Nov. 25).

It will run four days a week, Thursday to Sunday, noon to 8 p.m., with service extended to 11 p.m. on Fridays and Saturdays. Final price tag: $51 million. Fares: $2 for two hours and $5 for all day. It will run every 20 to 25 minutes. Can you believe it? We almost can’t, although refurbished trolley cars from the Left Coast have been running back and forth intermittently for months of dry runs. (Testing … testing … is this thing on?) A ribbon-cutting ceremony was to have been held with city and county officials including the mayors of St. Louis and U. City—Lyda Krewson and Terry Crow, respectively—but since we didn’t see it with our own eyes, we can’t be sure. Video from the news media is often fake, according to President Trump. What we do know to be true is that the trolley was proposed by Joe Edwards in 1997. Babies born that year would be able to buy a drink legally in one of Joe’s drinking, dining and entertainment establishments in The Loop. After umpteen delays for this and that … lawsuits, funding, the ‘gummint’ (from local entities to Washington) and MoDOT … the trolley’s here in time for the holiday season, although the seemingly endless project caused several local merchants to vamoose. Cyclists bemoan getting a wheel trapped in the tracks, thus the bright

yellow warning signs that depict just that. Parking challenges already throw many visitors for a loop, and the trolley already has managed to clip a parked car or two. So, who’s eager to ride two miles to the Missouri History Museum, the other way or both? Hello?

Anybody?

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The Interfaith Partnership of St. Louis (IP) recently moved its offices from Eden Theological Seminary in Webster Groves to a new and larger space in a house on the grounds of Ladue Chapel known as ‘The Cottage.’ Interfaith Partnership counts 30 religions

and other communities of conscience as members, with Ladue Chapel representing the Presbyterian Church USA. The congregation contributed hundreds of hours of labor to fix up the house and ready it for IP. The new office provides more space for IP’s growing staff, plus meeting and conference rooms under one roof. The stand-alone, five-room house has served over the years as a residence for some Ladue Chapel staff and more recently as the location for Care and Counseling, an interfaith agency providing mental health services for children, adults and families, as well as congregational and clergy training and psychoeducation programs. Founded in 1985, the Interfaith Partnership works to deepen respect and appreciation across lines of religious difference and move people toward greater peace and understanding. Membership includes more than a dozen Christian denominations as well as Judaism, Islam, Zen Buddhism, Hinduism, Baha’i Faith, Ethical Humanism, Unitarian Universalism and others.

TT TRIVIA | WHAT WAS THE FIRST BUSINESS JOE EDWARDS OPENED IN THE DELMAR LOOP, AND WHEN? LAST ISSUE’S ANSWER | ‘VIVE UT VIVAS’ IS LATIN FOR (LITERALLY) ‘LIVE THAT YOU MAY LIVE’—TRANSLATED, LIBERALLY, AS ‘LIVE LIFE TO THE FULLEST.’

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up the paper every day and puts it inside the screen door.

“That’s just indicative of how nice people can be,” she says.

Kerwin gives much of the credit to her daughter. And she’s not naïve: “The longer you’re in your own home, the better.” She paused for a moment, then explained, “If plants don’t like where they are, they don’t do well either.”

She is humble, the personification of gratitude. And not surprisingly, she’s old school. She enjoys phone calls but doesn’t have a computer. She did want a BB gun for those darn squirrels, but she didn’t get one.

Kerwin remains engaged and involved with more sedentary brain-stretching activities like garden club and bridge once a month. But the sun room is her idyll. “Anyone who doesn’t appreciate nature doesn’t know what they’re missing,” she says. & PHOTO: BILL BARRETT

Jeanne Kerwin of U. City is grateful for every day, and she’s had about 36,505 of them so far. Born five days after the Armistice that brought World War I to a close, Kerwin turned 100 last Friday, Nov. 16. She’s the senior member of the Garden Appreciation Club of Greater St. Louis, but since she fell and broke her hip at 92, she does her gardening in her sunroom. Kerwin showed off a violet and handed an orchid to a visitor for closer inspection. “They’re an ugly plant until they bloom,” she says. So orchids languish, all stems and dirt until they bloom again, but some folks think that once they’ve bloomed, it’s time for the mulch pile.

Gardeners know otherwise. Some bloom once a year, others continuously; some flowers last four weeks, and other varieties’ blossoms last up to four months.

We might have had our chat and photo session with Kerwin outside, but she was inside because she hadn’t listened to her daughter, Karen Stiers, eight years ago just after Kerwin’s cataract surgery. Stiers insisted she stay inside. But as soon as Stiers left, Kerwin opened the back door and headed down the back steps to water

her neighbor’s plants. The light was too bright for her sensitive eyes, and she took a sideways tumble. If she’d gone forward, she would’ve hit concrete and might not be here to tell the tale. Despite her daughter’s wishes, Kerwin liked to prune, too. And mow the lawn. Lawn service? Pah! Now, Kerwin has accepted that she just can’t be as active as she once was. Nowadays, U City in Bloom helps out with lawn maintenance. A neighbor picks

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PATTY by patty hannum HAPPY THANKSGIVING! If you are hosting people

this holiday and have not begun to thaw the turkey, I feel bad for your guests. Fortunately, I am going over to my brother Mike’s house. Or I should say, my sister-in-law Pam’s house, since she is the one who does the cooking.

Many families have a tradition of going around the table and expressing things that make them feel most grateful. The Fitzgerald family never did this. I am not sure if it was because there were too many of us and the food would have gotten cold, or my parents feared what would come out of our mouths. When hosting Thanksgiving at my house, I’ve tried a few times to get people to talk about what they were thankful for, but I was greeted with glares and guffaws. Fortunately, I have this column, so I can spare my family.

I am thankful to you, the readers of this column. One of life’s pleasures is receiving an email from a reader who enjoyed my writing, related to something I said, or got a laugh from it. And sure, every once in a while, I get someone who disagrees with me. I gently point out that my name, not theirs, is at the top of the column. No, actually, I thank them for their opinions and then decide never to write about that topic again. I love writing the column, but I love hearing you like it even more! I think I do have a little bit of Sally Field in me (not the part that dated Burt Reynolds).

I am thankful for my family; they provide me with an endless number of stories. My brothers and sister deserve some privacy, but I have chosen to give them none. I suspect it is because I am the youngest, and in my own way, it is payback for all the hand-me-downs, lack of parental attention and teasing about my desire to share everything that is remotely interesting. A single lunch with this group provides me with several columns worth of material. I hope they will always remember my famous admonition, “Love you. Don’t die.”

I am thankful for my son, daughter and daughter-inlaw. I try not to write about them too much because, well, my daughter can get really mean when provoked (like her mom), and I swore I would be a good mother-in-law.

That means I can’t really write much about my son or daughter-in-law. Just know that I’m well aware—in the lottery of children, I won!

I am thankful for my husband. We have been married 35 years. Most people find that hard to believe. Me too!

I feel like I am only 45 years old. Ours is not a perfect marriage, but we both admit it, which may be why we’ve been together this long. Neither of us is looking for perfection ... just lots of love, laughs and happiness.

I am thankful for my friends. It’s hard to believe I’ve known some of them since age 14! Friends are the family you get to choose, and I am very happy with my selections.

There are a few nuts in the group, but each brings something special to my box of assorted chocolates.

Wasn’t that nice? Feel free to make changes and use my thoughts at your table. (If I try, I will be met with, “Give it up, Patty, we aren’t the Waltons.”) True, but I love them all anyway.

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Delmar Gardens West resident LEONA “LEE” ▶ MCKEE recently BLEW OUT THE CANDLES ON BIRTHDAY CAKE NUMBER 104. The Breese, Illinois, native attended Rosati-Kain High School and worked for the Stix, Baer & Fuller department store chain. She celebrated the milestone birthday with family and friends. Congratulations!

▲ University City-based designer KAREN DANIELS of Tess Jewelry recently picked up some one-of-a-kind inspiration from the City of Lights.

She attended Paris Fashion Week and immersed herself in runway shows, museum tours and meetings with other designers. One special tour experience allowed her to walk in the footsteps of the late Coco Chanel, whose creations have inspired the jewelry designer’s work. Daniels will hold a TRUNK SHOW NOV. 30 AT GIDDY UP JANE; pictured are some of her latest pieces. Visit tessjewelry.net.

◀ Speaking of what’s in vogue, the ST. LOUIS FASHION FUND is set to graduate its INAUGURAL CLASS OF FEATURED DESIGNERS next month.

A few changes are being woven into the four-year-old nonprofit’s 2019 plans. Among them are a new collaborative rental workspace program called the Design Co-Op, an expanded speaker series, new education programs and a Fashion Consortium to create a stronger voice for the local industry.

k c e h c it ▲ Automotive history buffs, get revved up! Local author William Knoedelseder has released Fins: Harley Earl, the Rise of General Motors and the Glory Days of Detroit. The book, published

by HarperCollins, chronicles the fascinating life of Earl, who left an indelible mark on the profession of automotive styling—and on the Motor City itself.

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〈〈〈 THE MAIN EVENTS 〉〉〉 Head to the Missouri Botanical Garden Dec. 2 for Chanukah: Festival of Lights, a traditional Jewish celebration with Israeli music and dance, a menorahlighting ceremony and Chanukah merchandise from area vendors.

Step into the holiday season with the Moscow Ballet’s Great Russian Nutcracker at the Fabulous Fox Theatre.

Performances are scheduled for Dec. 2 and 3, part of the ballet’s 100-city North American ‘Dove of Peace’ tour.

Tidings of good humor are on stage through Jan. 6 at

Away in the Basement: A Church Basement Ladies Christmas. The show, performed

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REACHING OUT

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MEET FOUNDER/EXECUTIVE DIRECTOR KATIE RHOADES OF ST. LOUIS 〉〉 How long have you been working for this cause?

Since 2005, but Healing Action got its start in 2012.

What got interested you in it?

I’m a survivor of sex trafficking. I got out in 2001 and wanted to support other individuals who have been through the commercial sex trade. The first step was spending quite a bit of time working on my own healing.

I also wanted to get an education to be able to address the issues that impact the people we serve. I got my bachelor’s degree from Metropolitan State University in 2010, and then I moved to St. Louis to go to the Brown School of Social Work at Washington University, where I earned my master’s. Initially, I started with a grassroots campaign to raise support and funds for the cause, and that started with creating awareness and letting people know about the issue. I got in front of people and told my story to get

the word about human trafficking. After fundraising and building relationships with people who share this mission, Healing Action was ready to open its doors. We received a three-year infrastructure grant in 2015, and it allowed us to begin serving clients.

partner with lawmakers to push legislation that would limit sex trafficking across the country and help survivors get out of the life easier, including the Missouri Safe at Home Bill, which provides free post office boxes to victims so their abusers can’t find them.

Explain what the organization does.

Healing Action believes in a community free of exploitation. We serve adult survivors of commercial sexual exploitation, including prostitution, pornography, survival sex and sex trafficking—anyone who had to use their body to get their needs meet. All our staff are survivors and can relate to women who are on their way out of the life. We also offer group therapy, individual counseling and transportation. It’s really about providing basic needs so individuals don’t need to be out on the streets engaging in commercial sex any longer. We also

If you could do anything for the organization, what would it be?

Our biggest need is for resources to allow Healing Action to provide safe housing for victims of trafficking.

I would love to be able to obtain plots of land for individual, nonidentifiable homes or a larger property where we could open a more comprehensive residential facility that would allow women to focus on their initial healing. We currently have about 60 active clients, and our ability to properly provide services is dependent on our ability to grow.

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“Katie has dedicated her life to helping others live on their own terms. Through her hard work and determination, she has created a space for victims of commercial sexual exploitation to heal from their trauma so they can start their journey to a life free of exploitation. Katie also has been a key figure in the local, state and national anti-trafficking movement, providing education to increase awareness of the issue and advocating for the rights of those exploited.”

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After they graduated from college, however, things took a romantic turn. “John and I started going out for drinks with friends and realized we had the same weird sense of humor,” Kaitlin recalls. “Our friends said affectionately that we were two of the goofiest people they had ever met, so it made sense for us to get together!” The pair had a fun first date at The Kitchen Sink in the Central West End and went out for about three years before becoming engaged.

Kaitlin says John’s proposal made for an unforgettable evening. “I was going to a happy hour for a coworker and said I wouldn’t be able to see him until later that night,” she explains. “He got really upset, so I knew something was up.” John persuaded her to skip the happy hour, took her to a holiday party and proposed to her at the top of Art Hill in Forest Park. Kaitlin says she suddenly heard cheering when John gave her the ring. Both sets of parents had been watching from a secret spot and came out of hiding when they heard her say yes. Afterward, they all went out for a celebratory dinner.

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With an original location in Chicago, Leslie Hindman Auctioneers has been serving clients as a fine art and antique auction house for more than 30 years. It holds sales for prominent estates and collections, including those of adventurers Steve and Peggy Fossett, St. Louis philanthropists and collectors Eric and Evelyn Newman, and the Saint Louis Zoo Association. The St. Louis office opened in 2014, and Hindman has seven other regional offices and offers 60 auctions annually across 20 categories. It also provides appraisal services throughout the year. “There is a rich history of art in St. Louis,” says Kara Kelpe, director of business development for St. Louis. “Since opening this office, we have been committed to recognizing and promoting locally significant collections in our community, and exposing them to a broader international audience.”

HOT GIFTING TIP OR TREND: Kelpe suggests Hermès scarves and ties and Steuben, Lalique or Baccarat cocktail glasses and decanters.

After years managing a fur salon, Ann Hurth had built a reputation for customer service, style and quality. When she left her position, her clients followed. They asked for advice on caring for their pieces and finding the latest styles. Hurth recognized a need and opened The Fur Boutique with former colleague Georgene Frazier.

“We carry only top-quality merchandise,” Hurth says.

“Our customers know us for that.” The boutique offers the latest trends and classic looks, but also provides its customers more than just luxury furs. It operates as a fullservice furrier, offering storage, cleaning and repair as well. Hurth is grateful for the loyalty St. Louis has shown her and The Fur Boutique. “Our customers really put us in business,” she says. “It’s been four years, and we’re going strong because of them.”

HOT GIFTING TIP OR TREND: Hurth recommends keeping loved ones warm with a new hat, gloves, scarf, KARA KELPE wrap, cape or coat.

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OWNERS SHAWN LIPE AND SUZANNE WOODARD

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The Refind Room has become a destination for unique, high-quality furniture, home decor and art in St. Louis. Owners Suzanne Woodard and Shawn Lipe have developed the store into a complete shopping experience with original art, designer furniture, eclectic pieces and collector-grade items at affordable prices.

The Refind Room also hosts art exhibits, cocktail parties and classes. Woodard says the store pays homage to the past and embraces the present while encouraging beautiful, individual style. “We love owning our business in St. Louis,” she says. “Its history means that customers appreciate heirloom quality, and its size means that everyone who walks in the door becomes a friend.” The Refind Room now offers estate liquidation, estate sale services, consignment and 24/7 online shopping.

HOT GIFTING TIP OR TREND: Woodard suggests vintage decanters, handmade pottery and small vessels for succulents or flowers.

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Founded in 1981, Genovese Jewelers originally occupied a space that was just 900 square feet. The family-owned jewelry store has grown into one of the largest in the Midwest, offering fine and fashion jewelry. President Joe Genovese says one of the store’s best features is its large inventory. He notes that there are beautiful items for any budget, with pieces starting around $50. Genovese Jewelers also has in-house jewelry artisans who can create one-of-a-kind pieces for customers. “We are unique because we offer a combination of manufacturing and retail to a degree I have not seen anywhere else,” Genovese says. “We are proud to be making jewelry not just in the U.S., but here in St. Louis.” He is grateful for the store’s many loyal friends and customers throughout the years. “St. Louis takes care of its own,” he says.

HOT GIFTING TIP OR TREND: The biggest holiday trend at Genovese is stacked ring sets with a mixture of metals and designs.

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K. Hall Studio started with two lines of candles and seven employees in 1998. As the company celebrates its 20th anniversary, it has expanded to five lines of home fragrance and personal care products: Barr-Co., K. Hall Designs, Lorna Lu, Simpatico and U.S. Apothecary. They are sold by more than 2,500 retailers throughout the United States, including Pottery Barn, Anthropologie and Nordstrom. K. Hall Studio has three company-owned stores in St. Louis and two others in Chicago and Newport Beach, Calif. The company also has a St. Louis factory where 90 percent of its products are made.

K. Hall Studio is happy to call St. Louis and the Midwest home, embracing the quality of employees the city attracts and the logistical ease of being centrally located.

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ELLEARD HEFFERN

Opened in 1913, Elleard Heffern is St. Louis’ oldest independent fine jeweler. Its mission to provide highquality, distinctive jewelry continues into its fourth generation, says Kit Heffern, president and grandson of the company’s founder. “Visitors often remark on how different our jewelry is from what they see everywhere else,” he says. “We always seek emerging international designers who offer limited, specialized production.” An example is the Gismondi 1754 line. The Italian collection has been worn by celebrities such as Jane Fonda, and Elleard Heffern is the only independent jewelry store in the U.S. to feature it. The company also is known for restoring and remodeling outdated jewelry. “It’s our pleasure to serve a community that appreciates beauty and craftsmanship,” Heffern says.

HOT GIFTING TIP OR TREND: Heffern says rose gold is popular because the alloy is a warm, unusual color. It’s also comparable in price to other types of gold.

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The original Laurie’s Shoes store on Manchester Road was built as a bomb shelter during the Korean War. Besides housing shoes, it was a safe place for area residents to gather if the need arose. Thankfully, its secondary use was not necessary, but the family-owned business has continued to grow over four generations. Laurie’s carries more than 50,000 pairs of footwear, according to owner Mark Waldman. It offers brands from around the world.

The store also has pedorthists on staff to make sure its footwear is stylish and comfortable. “Our goal is complete customer satisfaction,” Waldman says. He notes that St. Louis is a wonderful location for the business. “We have a client base that espouses the Midwestern philosophy of honesty, hard work and appreciation,” he says. “We are committed to this town!”

HOT GIFTING TIP OR TREND: Waldman says women’s low booties are popular in colors like brown, black, olive, gray and burgundy.

“It’s so important to wear things that make you feel good,” she says. “Accessories are an easy way to accomplish that.” At Shine, which opened in May 2016, Netsch sells clothing, handbags, scarves, jewelry, candles and more.

“I try to include unusual, interesting products you might not find anywhere else,” she says. Netsch emphasizes socially responsible shopping and supporting small, local companies. She also has give-back programs that donate a percentage of sales of certain items to charity. Netsch describes Shine’s clothing as fun, versatile and fashionforward. “These are pieces you can dress up or down,” she says. She also provides monogramming services.

HOT GIFTING TIP OR TREND: Netsch’s main recommendation is to shop local and support your community.

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In 2011, Barb Davis opened B. Davis Design as an extension of her years of design experience. The shop offers a mix of curated home furnishings that reflect Davis’ personal vision. “I don’t shop trends; I just sell what I love,” she explains. She regularly goes on buying trips and brings home one-of-kind items including antiques.

B. Davis is a Mackenzie Childs dealer and has a custom wreath and floral department. Davis says the store’s greatest appeal is in its customer service. “We make you feel like you’re in our home,” she says. “We are personally invested in helping everyone pick the perfect gift or item.” The personal attention keeps customers coming back and referring their friends. “St. Louis is a very loyal community, and everyone loves to shop local,” Davis says.

HOT GIFTING TIP OR TREND: Davis suggests combining a pair of mink mittens, a piece of silver and a nice coffee table book for an eclectic gift.

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Located near the intersection of Clayton Road and Brentwood Boulevard, Wilson Lighting is more than just a lighting store. It also features home décor items from around the world, according to vice president Brian Wilson. “We carefully source our products for a truly unique collection of goods,” he says. A majority of products in its showroom are in stock, which Wilson says is unusual.

The family-owned chain also has stores in Kansas and Florida, but Wilson says being in St. Louis offers a unique benefit. While the company’s primary business is working with new construction, it has seen increased demand for lighting and décor updates in existing homes. “There are many majestic older houses here,” he says. “The rich history of St. Louis neighborhoods is very impressive.”

HOT GIFTING TIP OR TREND: Wilson recommends unusual, high-quality home design gifts for the party hostess or avid decorator on your list.

When Laura Wilson opened Marketplace at The Abbey in 2014, her goal was to surprise and delight her customers with special ‘Abbey finds.’ Today, she continues to offer one-of-a-kind gifts from her curated network of international vendors. The sprawling store showcases everything from custom furniture to made-to-order florals, sliding barn doors, decorative lanterns, gift items and barware. Recently, the company began selling the CR Laine furniture line and is one of few carriers in the region.

Wilson says she is proud to be part of the St. Louis retail scene and enjoys the close-knit community, which has allowed her to build strong relationships with clients. The store hosts events year-round.

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Pictured left to right: Nick Belt in martini, $62 from J. McLaughlin • The Top Side Backpack by The Normal Brand, $199 from Fun In The Sun • Juniper and Geranium Beard Balm & Hair Groom by U.S. Apothecary, $20 from K. Hall Studio • The Gentleman's Guide to Grooming: The Quintessential Handbook for the Modern Man, $19.95 from K. Hall Studio • Barr-Co Hand Cream in Reserve, $26 from K. Hall Studio • Barr-Co Bar Soap in Reserve, $10 from K. Hall Studio • Gentleman's Beard Kit, $12.50 from K. Hall Studio • Pollock Pheasant Bow Tie, $205 from Service Bureau Stationery & Gifts • Button Ice Square Cufflinks in blue by Tateossian, $195 from Savile Row • Stonington Quilted Vest in navy, $198 from J. McLaughlin • Carnegie Classic Fit Shirt in blue, black and white tattersall check, $135 from J. McLaughlin • Matsuda M2031 matte dark tortoise/solid gold Mirror Sunglasses, $945 from The Eye Bar • Peter Millar Dress Check Shirt, $125 from Mister Guy Men's • Peter Millar Mountainside Indigo Cable Crewneck Sweater, $195 from Mister Guy Men's • Martin Dingman Countrywear Beauregaurd Bow-Tie Loafer in cigar, $195 from Woody's Men's Shop • Yeti Tundra 45 Cooler in charcoal, $299.99 from The Alpine Shop • Donald Leather Dopp Kit

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For Her

Pictured left to right: Embroidered Scarf in multicolor, $126 from Shine Boutique • Steel Grey Wool Cape with Fox Collar, $1,500 from The Fur Boutique • Porcelain Earrings by Zoe Comings, $60 from Craft Alliance • Claire Flowers Booties, $325 from Mister Guy Women’s • 314 Camo Baseball Cap, $35 from Paperdolls • Ornament PJs Top and Bottom, $68 each from Mister Guy Women’s • Julie Vos Paradise Link Necklace, $295 from Sasha Nicholas • Plaid Fringe Poncho, $40 from Paperdolls • Necklaces with Agate Pendants, $76 each from Shine Boutique • Mink Mittens, $198 from B. Davis Interiors • Marella Sandwich Bag Purse, $62 from Paperdolls

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Pictured left to right: Gray Stingray Frame, $38 from Christopher’s • Aromatique Grapefruit Fandango Decorative Fragrance, $22 from Ken Miesner's Flowers • Webster Wax Soap and Candle, $8.50 and $16, from Shine Boutique • Norleen Nosri Porcelain Cup with Gold, $70, and Porcelain Cup, $80, from Craft Alliance • Black, White and Gold Checked Tray, $37 from Marketplace at the Abbey • Hand Blown Bubble Pitcher, $129 from B. Davis Interiors • Mini Loaf Pans from Mud Pie, $18 each from Christopher’s • Small Silver Pitchers and Vase, $29 each from Ken Miesner's Flowers • Versace Salad & Bread Plate, $115, and Butter Plate, $120, from Sasha Nicholas • Lindenwood Vase by Michael Bauermeister, $650 from Craft Alliance • Celebrity Cocktails Recipe Book, $50 from Sasha Nicholas

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THE HOLIDAYS ARE TRULY THE MOST WONDERFUL TIME OF THE YEAR to add a little sparkle and shine to your ensemble. From glittering gold to dazzling diamonds, drape yourself in the season’s most decadent jewels so you feel festive and ready to celebrate! Here’s just a sampling of what you’ll find at various local boutiques.

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Maybe it’s the number of millionaires per capita or the fact that so many fashion trends are started here, but either way, second-hand shops in the City of Angels have some incredible finds. If you’re planning a shopping trip to Rodeo Drive, an afternoon (or two) at The Closet Trading Company or Council Thrift Shops may hold some fabulous finds for a fraction of the cost.

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Jill: I asked a hairdresser about his perspective on this scenario. He said it does sting when longtime clients move on. But he appreciates it when people let him know instead of just ‘ghosting,’ or disappearing without a word. He said he is a professional and is able to get over it. (He adds that sometimes, it’s a relief when clients are ready for a change because he is too.)

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▶ My neighbors are from New York City, and I can tell they find me overly chummy and chatty. At the same time, I find them cold and abrupt. How can I get them to loosen up and be warmer?

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like. (As a fellow chummy chatter, I get you.) Your neighbors are expressing themselves in the way that feels most comfortable to them; accept their communication style. You can always look for other neighbors who are up for a friendlier connection.

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behavior of your party guests. But I think it’s OK to say, “I wanted to keep this party intimate. I’m sensitive about hurting the feelings of other friends who weren’t invited. It would be great if pictures of the party didn’t end up on social media.”

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IF EVER THERE WAS A GOOD TIME TO CELEBRATE

Tree Week in St. Louis, it was Oct. 29 to Nov. 4, when our Missouri Botanical Garden set aside special days for tours and talks about its 4,600 trees. I think it’s safe to say that we mostly take trees for granted. But spending a couple of hours devoted just to them—not showy bushes or flowers— was a great way to increase appreciation for them. Tree walk groups departed from the visitor’s center to all corners of the grounds, with teachable moments at every turn. The colors were spectacular, but the walks went beyond a vivid show of fall to teach us that trees have fascinating histories too.

For example, the delicate ginkgo tree (Ginkgo biloba), the only remaining species of its kind, is quite ancient and once proliferated across North America and Europe. It is now native only to China and was at one point thought to be extinct like its cousins. Lucky for us, in the 17th century, a German botanist spotted it in China and brought it back to the west. One specimen at the garden was planted during founder Henry Shaw’s lifetime, in 1884.

Then there’s the sweet gum tree, native to Missouri.

The leaves turn a magnificent rainbow of colors, from yellow to red and purple, earning the tree its nickname, ‘liquid amber.’ And did you know that Missouri is home to 24 native oak species? Or that the difference between white and red oak varieties is rounded versus pointed leaf lobes? How about that each sassafras tree has three types of leaves—some with three lobes, some with two and some that are simply pointed like elm leaves? Or that the tulip poplar is not really a poplar?

Interestingly, grand old trees can earn honorifics, too, like the garden’s National Champion white basswood.

Sitting near the Shaw townhome (moved to this site after his death, as dictated in his will), this tree earned its designation by being the largest known individual of its species, in branch spread and height. There’s a State Champion tree, too—a possumhaw deciduous holly.

Even if the history of trees doesn’t excite you, there are a couple of obscure garden spots that probably will. Like The Stumpery, a kind of sculpture garden behind Shaw’s home that was created from tree trunks uprooted at Shaw Nature Reserve. They were artistically placed around a backwoods part of the garden, roots pointing up and out like botanical antlers. Then there are the bald cypress trees’ ‘knees,’ which can be seen sticking up in the Japanese Garden.

There’s also a maple tree planted by Emperor Akihito in 1994, when he visited the garden.

(He reportedly was very impressed by it.)

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MARVIN MITCHELL DECIDED TO BECOME A FINANCIAL ADVISER after watching his grandmother suffer the effects of inappropriate retirement planning services. “She had cancer, got the wrong kind of advice for her needs, and ended up having to spend down her assets on medical care,” says Mitchell, president and CEO of Compass Retirement Solutions. “That shouldn’t have happened, and it motivated me to get into the field myself. I wanted to provide clients with customized services that would focus on their unique requirements.”

After working in the industry for about eight years, the St. Louis native launched his Creve Coeur-based company, assembling a team of certified financial advisers and staff who are guided by clients’ needs and goals. Compass provides retirement services in the areas of income, investment, taxes, legacy planning and health care.

Mitchell says he originally worked for large advisory firms but felt compelled to improve on existing retirement planning models when he opened his own business. “Wall Street advisers usually handle clients’ money in two ‘buckets,’” he explains. “They are liquidity, which includes things like cash in savings or checking accounts, and growth, which is subject to the risks of the stock market. Our model adds a third bucket we call ‘safety,’ which involves placing a part of the portfolio in another vehicle that will protect it. If the market goes down, the money will be safe, and if it goes up, there’s opportunity for the money to grow.”

According to Mitchell, a truly diversified portfolio is one that protects clients by balancing all three buckets. “This puts them in a more comfortable retirement position,” he explains. “True diversification is an area more advisers need to focus on right now. The average bull market lasts about 54 months, but we have been in the current one for about 120, so a change definitely is coming.”

In addition to making clients’ portfolios more secure, Mitchell’s firm also helps them keep pace with inflation and get a reasonable rate of return on investments. And because retirement planning can be complex, Compass advisers strive to make the process easy to understand. They offer a free, no-obligation initial consultation and prepare a ‘one-page blueprint’ of each potential client’s financial life, Mitchell says. “The blueprint includes a portfolio stress test to determine if they are taking on too much risk,” he notes. “It also provides an income plan and shows where they are from a tax standpoint. We view this first meeting as a chance to get to know each individual personally.”

Compass advisers are fiduciaries, which means they have a responsibility to put clients’ interests first. Many of the firm’s clients are nearing or already in retirement, so their needs often are pressing, according to Mitchell. He says it’s satisfying to help them save money and feel more confident through a better understanding of their finances. He also enjoys sharing knowledge by hosting regular radio programs and putting on educational events for clients. “Our firm sees retirement planning as a team effort,” he says. “We encourage people to reach out and learn how we can help.” &

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This great new steakhouse, intimate and sophisticated, is the newest venture from the Hamiltons of Vin de Set, Eleven Eleven and other Lafayette Square eateries. It is laser-focused on the steakhouse experience: great meats and top-notch service. With steak, preparation is everything, and ours were cooked perfectly and came with Paul Hamilton’s secret dry rub (and a smoky housemade sauce upon request). Best of all, the server waited for us to cut into them before leaving, just in case the meat wasn’t done to our liking. Plus, the ambience is cozy, with dim lighting and exposed brick walls.

Wash it Down:

Bourbon is a staple here, as you’d expect. But there are plenty of other choices as well, from wine pours and ryes to Scotch, Irish and Canadian whiskeys. We ordered the Bourbon N Bubbles from a short specialty cocktail menu. It was a blend of Four Roses Yellow Label, champagne, bitters and tangy-sweet orange notes imparted by Curacao.

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Kansas City strip steak with loaded baked potato

SEA SCALLOPS APPETIZER ▶ $14.99

Don’t pass this up—it's amazing and big enough to share. The three scallops were buttery with a crisped sear, and the pea puree underneath was to die for. Pancetta crumbles and the occasional bit of preserved lemon sent it into the stratosphere of flavor: buttery, tart, crisp and hearty all at once.

KANSAS CITY STRIP STEAK ▶ $34.99

This is pretty much the king of beef. It's listed as Black Angus from small Iowa family farms. The finished product was perfectly sealed and crunchy on the outside, thanks to a rub of salt, sugar, pepper and herbs. The meat was flavorful, the house sauce vinegary and savory. At this price, it’s an investment, but entrees also come with a choice of sides that takes the sting away. My asparagus was delicious, cooked to retain a slight firmness and doused with a good béarnaise with a hint of lemon that wasn’t overpowering.

ROASTED DRYRUBBED SALMON ▶

$24.99 This is one of a few nonmeat items on the menu.

It had a good coating of brown sugar, garlic, pepper and more, and came nicely cooked. The accompanying flash-fried Brussels sprouts pretty much stole the show, along with slivers of pickled red onion that topped the fish—a good choice for nonsteak eaters.

CAESAR SALAD ▶

$8.59 This was a winner as well.

The anchovies in the dressing were pleasantly detectable, and it had tasty rye bread croutons that made a strong culinary statement.

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This place is a winner. Just like Eleven Eleven, it strikes very appealing balances between casual and dressy, fine food and bourbon bar. It was carved from one end of the Hamiltons’ Charleville Brewery, and they have managed do it just right: not too big, not too formal and solidly top-notch.

2101 CHOUTEAU AVE. 314.241.2333

LEISURE

QUICK BITES by lindsay jones

Quincy Street Bistro has closed in South City after operating for more than seven years. Owners Mike and Sue Enright say they never expected to operate the business for life, and it had run its course. A number of well-known area chefs have worked there, including Rick Lewis of Grace Meat + Three and Chris Ladle of Nudo.

DIDN’T TAKE LONG

The Clayton spot formerly occupied by Parigi already has a taker. Kingside Diner, a chess-themed establishment, is expected to open there sometime in January after renovations are completed.

Owner Aaron Teitelbaum also owns the flagship Kingside location across from the Chess Hall of Fame, as well as Herbie’s in Clayton. The 100-seat Parigi, owned

by Ben Poremba, closed abruptly in late October. The space is on the ground level of 8025 Bonhomme Ave.

— Checkmate!

NEW BEGINNING

THE BIG CHEESE Real estate firm TAG Development has bought

Although Bernadette Faasen is closing Woodsmoke BBQ in Ellisville after a sixyear run, she’ll be opening Cobalt Smoke & Sea in Creve Coeur by February. The new restaurant is slated for 12643 Olive Blvd. and also will feature smoked meats, but with a more international flair, plus plenty of fresh seafood. It will move into the former Gas House Grill space.

award-winning goat cheese creamery Baetje Farms in Bloomsdale. Steve and Veronica Baetje bought the historic farm in 1998 and will remain as head cheesemakers while the new ownership group pursues more opportunities for the business.

So far, guided tours have begun showing visitors how cheese is made, and a tasting room is slated to open in the spring.

WHEELIN’ AND DEALIN’

The ever-growing fleet of St. Louis food trucks just gained another eatery on wheels. The UKraft food truck offers a variety of items including breakfast bowls, sandwiches, panini and salads that customers can build themselves. The truck is owned by brothers Matt and Mike Ratz, who also plan to open a restaurant downtown.

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December 2 & 3 March 1-3

March 12-17

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March 26 - April 7

December 18 April 23 - May 5

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1 | WASHINGTON UNIVERSITY FACIAL PLASTIC SURGERY CENTER Washington University welcomes surgeon Dr. Emily Spataro to the Facial Plastic Surgery Center. She joins Drs. Gregory Branham and John Chi, rounding out a team of experts with one goal: to make you look and feel your best.

1020 N. Mason Road, Ste. 205 | 314.996.3880 | facialplasticsurgery.wustl.edu

2 | THE ULTIMATE BRIDE Schedule an appointment during our EveryBody EveryBride trunk show Dec. 7 and 8. Dresses available in sizes 2 to 30.

1115 S. Big Bend Blvd. | 314.961.9997 | theultimatebride.com

3 | IMMERSE The new Canteen kitchen faucet by Waterworks is inspired by vintage water pumps with an elegant, industrial spout and durable, handcrafted oak lever. Soon to be on display at Immerse!

836 Hanley Industrial Court | 314.375.1500 | immersestl.com

4 | TMS THERAPY CENTERS OF SAINT LOUIS We specialize in TMS therapy, an effective, long-term, nonpharmacological and noninvasive alternative treatment for those suffering from mood disorders, in particular clinical depression and anxiety.

PICTURED: KIM MERCILLE

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The Compton Heights Concert Band’s

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Holiday Pops Spectacular!

Edward Dolbashian, Music Director/Conductor Harry F. Swanger, President/Founder

5 | COMPTON HEIGHTS CONCERT BAND The band’s 20th Annual Holiday Pops Spectacular features Hugh K. Smith, Gina Galati, Robert Ellison and David Morris.

Shows at 2 and 7:30 p.m. Dec. 22 at the Skip Viragh Performing Arts Center. Visit chband.org. PICTURED: HUGH K. SMITH

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Hugh Smith, Tenor Robert Ellison, Baritone Gina Galati, Soprano and David Morris, World’s Top Whistler!

3120 Lafayette Ave. 314.776.2227 | chband.org

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6 | SAINT LOUIS BALLET There’s nothing like a live production of The Nutcracker with spectacular sets, costumes and dancing—on stage at The Touhill Dec. 14 through 23. The Nutcracker and Sugarplum Fairy Luncheon are holiday traditions!

314.516.4949 | touhill.org

7 | SSM HEALTH CARDINAL GLENNON CHILDREN’S HOSPITAL

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Thank you to our 2018 Glennon Card participating sponsors, donors, restaurants and merchants! The Glennon Card is a fundraising program organized by the SSM Health Cardinal Glennon Children’s Foundation and the Glennon Guild to support SSM Health Cardinal Glennon Children’s Hospital.

1465 S. Grand Blvd. | 314.577.5605 | glennoncard.org

8 | BACH SOCIETY OF SAINT LOUIS The society recently launched its new Bach & Jazz in-school education program at Soldan International Studies High School, featuring jazz musicians Steve Schenkel and Kim Portnoy.

3547 Olive St., Ste. 120 | 314.652.2224 | bachsociety.org

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Pets can be hard on wood floors, but a refinish can help repair damage and restore beauty. Call today and we will help get your floors in order for the holidays.

2438 Northline Industrial Drive | 314.432.2260 missourifloor.com

10 | OKAWVILLE TOURISM The Country Christmas Stroll and House Tour is presented by the Okawville, Illinois, Chamber of Commerce and Heritage House Museum Association. Activities include home tours, breakfast with Santa, craft and vendor shows, and a Festival of Trees display.

Skip Viragh Center for the Arts

Chaminade College Preparatory School, 425 S. Lindbergh, St. Louis, MO 63131

Saturday, December 22, 2018 Two Exciting Performances

2:00 PM and 7:30 PM For All Tickets

www.chband.org or (314) 776-2227 Indelible Memories and a Joyous Start to the Holiday!

Celebrate the Holiday with Taste & Style!

Purchase VIP Tickets Best Seats Post-Concert Reception!

Bonus Drink LoRusso’s Catered hors d'oeuvres

618.243.5694 | okawvillecc.com

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Through 12/30 wild lights

Stroll through the annual light display and participate in plenty of other holiday-themed activities!

Saint Louis Zoo | $8/members, $9/nonmembers, Mon.-Thurs.; $10/members, $11/nonmembers, Fri.-Sun. | 5:30 p.m. | 314.646.4781 stlzoo.org/wildlights

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A new series of holiday river cruises features PJs and Pancakes, a breakfast cruise with Santa Claus and more. Boarding begins at 7 p.m.

Enjoy this collaboration of the award-winning quartet Vocal Spectrum, Vaughan Williams and Steve Amundson.

holiday cruise

Riverboats at the Gateway Arch Ticket prices vary 7:30-10 p.m. | 877.982.1410 gatewayarch.com/buytickets

annual civic holiday concert

Purser Center, Chesterfield $18/adults, $12/students and seniors, children 5 and younger free | 3 p.m.

314.910.7895 | stlco.org

12/2

a christmas story

A fun retelling of Ralphie Parker’s quest to get a Red Ryder BB gun for Christmas.

The Repertory Theatre of St. Louis | 2 p.m. $24-$97 | 314.968.4925 | repstl.org

PHOTO: MICAH USHER/SAINT LOUIS ZOO

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12/8

River City Casino & Hotel | $59.50 and up 7:30 p.m. | ticketmaster.com

12/6

Beatrice Red Star Fletcher and Wendy Red Star give a kid-friendly tour of current exhibitions. Space is limited.

The iconic group brings its “The Ghosts of Christmas Eve: The Best of TSO and More” tour to the STL.

12/9

The band makes a stop on its Cage to Rattle Tour.

trans-siberian orchestra

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12/4

Grab your skates and take a spin around the outdoor rink.

Skate rentals are $12 for adults and $7 for children.

The Saint Louis Symphony treats the audience to the last symphony by the famed Austrian composer.

Performance includes magic acts, circus performances, singing and more.

winterfest ice rink

Kiener Plaza | Free | Open until 8 p.m.

314.289.5300 | stlouis-mo.gov

bruckner’s ninth

Powell Hall | $25-$68 | 8 p.m.

314.534.1700 | slso.org

a magical cirque christmas

Fabulous Fox Theatre | $39.50-$125 7:30 p.m. | 314.534.1111 | metrotix.com

Through 1/1

Enterprise Center | $37-$76.50 | 7:30 p.m.

314.622.5400 | enterprisecenter.com

12/6-12/9

a christmas carol

Charles Dickens’ most famous story returns as the Nebraska Theatre Caravan makes a stop on its 40th anniversary tour.

Fabulous Fox Theatre | Showtimes vary $20 | 314.534.1111 | metrotix.com

holiday in the park

Six Flags will be transformed into a winter wonderland with thousands of colorful lights, yuletide carolers and more.

12/8

jerome mouffe

The Belgian guitarist performs as part of the Saint Louis Classical Guitar Society’s Great Artist series.

Six Flags St. Louis | $60 636.938.5300 | sixflags.com

Ethical Society | $24-$28 | 8 p.m.

314.567.5566 | stlclassicalguitar.org

Through 1/1

intergenerational art collaborative

Pulitzer Arts Foundation | Free | 1-3 p.m.

314.754.1850 | pulitzerarts.org

jason mraz & toca rivera

Get your pop music fix during the busy holiday season.

Stifel Theatre | $32-$127 | 8 p.m.

800.745.3000 | stifeltheatre.com

12/14-16 & 12/19-22 the nutcracker

The holiday classic as performed by the Saint Louis Ballet.

The Touhill | $34-$72 | Times vary 314.516.4949 | touhill.org

12/16

the nutcracker

The Alexandra Ballet performs this holiday classic for area schools and other groups.

garden glow

Purser Center, Chesterfield $21.50 reserved seating, $16.50 general admission, kids 2 and younger free | 314.469.2222 logan.edu/the-nutcracker

Missouri Botanical Garden $18/adults, $10/children (nonmembers) 5-10 p.m. | 314.577.5100 glow.missouribotanicalgarden.org

12/18

Celebrate the season with more than a million glowing lights.

Through 12/30

polar express train ride

All aboard for the Polar Express!

Take a magical journey to the North Pole and receive a special gift at the end.

Union Station | $39-$59 4:30, 6, 7:15 and 8:30 p.m. | 314.621.5262 stlthepolarexpressride.com

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the great russian nutcracker

The Moscow Ballet performs the holiday classic during its Dove of Peace Tour.

Fabulous Fox Theatre | $31.50-$133.50 7 p.m. | 314.534.1111 | metrotix.com

12/5

snowfall

Tony winner Christine Ebersole and Grammy winner Billy Stritch team up to perform beloved seasonal classics.

Ferring Jazz Bistro | $45 | 7:30 p.m.

314.571.6000 | jazzstl.org

The Atlantic recording group performs holiday music to celebrate its 10th anniversary with the record label.

Fabulous Fox Theatre | $34.50-$62.50 7:30 p.m. | 314.534.1111 | metrotix.com

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Leading the Way in Memory Care

A NEW HOME

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IF IT FEELS LIKE HOME WHEN YOU STEP INSIDE PARC PROVENCE, that’s because it is. For the community’s memory care residents and their loved ones, innovative, personalized care brings joy and peace to their journeys with Alzheimer’s and dementia. It offers a full continuum of care from assisted living to skilled nursing.

For 14 years, Parc Provence has offered comprehensive therapy programs and groundbreaking household design that allow residents to live in small home settings with peers of similar abilities. Residents enjoy robust schedules that fit their skills and interests. They choose their own activities, which gives them control over their days.

Doing activities they love like gardening, singing and painting allows them to feel a sense of accomplishment, purpose and pride, says administrator Kathy Aragon.

“The goal is to empower each resident to function at his or her highest potential,” she explains. “It’s important for adults with memory issues to stay physically active and keep their minds busy. Research shows that socialization and engagement improve brain health. Parc Provence offers therapies, meaningful activities and on-site medical care that make a positive difference in the lives of people with dementia.”

The community has incorporated best practices in memory care for over a decade, and it’s a showplace of innovation for doctors and researchers who travel here to tour and learn about its services. Parc Provence is renowned for its household design and professional staff who work as a team to provide for the physical and cognitive well-being of each resident. The entire staff receives ongoing training on high-quality care for those living with memory loss.

PARC PROVENCE RESIDENTS ENJOY LIFE.

Residents live in small groups among people with similar cognitive abilities. Each house is connected to a main promenade but features its own living space, kitchen and dining area. The decor evokes a beautiful Victorian home, with bright, spacious rooms perfect for socializing. Each house also has its own backyard with room for gardening or sitting on the patio. Advanced security systems allow residents to safely explore the lush gardens, courtyards and spacious walking paths. “Everything is purposefully designed as a warm, intimate setting,” Aragon says. “Our residential environment maintains the look, feel and familiarity of residents’ own homes.”

Parc Provence offers about 80 different activities each day, and everything is tailored to residents’ interests and cognitive needs, Aragon says. Programs include creative therapies like music and art; health and fitness programs like chair yoga and ballet; entertainment such as intergenerational music and happy hours; spiritual guidance for various denominations; local outings; and leisure activities like card games, yoga and gardening.

“It’s such a comfort for families to know that we are their partner on this journey,” Aragon says. “There’s no need to move a loved one to another care facility because we can do it all. At Parc Provence, residents really are living their best lives. We help them keep old memories while they create new ones.” &

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Leading the Way in Memory Care

As a licensed assisted living and skilled memory care community, Parc Provence is led by an experienced team of medically trained professionals. From our Administrator, Kathy Aragon, with nearly 30 years of nursing experience, to our Medical Directors who serve as leading authorities on gerontology and dementia at Washington University, our staff provides unrivaled care 24 hours a day, seven days a week. Expertise and second-to-none service – just a few of the many reasons why Parc Provence is leading the way in memory care.

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ALZHEIMER’S AGE-BASED COGNITIVE DECLINE, ESPECIALLY ALZHEIMER’S DISEASE, can have a devastating impact. No one wants to go through it themselves or watch a loved one turn into a stranger. Luckily, new research offers insight into the disease and hope for those at risk, and new technology is making long-term memory care facilities more secure and comfortable than ever before. Local experts weigh in on the latest in prevention and care.

BY STEPHANIE WALLACE

E A R LY O N S E T ALZHEIMER’S SYMPTOMS TEND TO MANIFEST WHEN people are in their 70s or older, but in some cases, the disease strikes decades earlier. According to SLUCare geriatric psychiatrist Dr. George Grossberg, cases that develop before age 65 are classified as early onset, typically found in patients in their 40s or 50s. “We don’t yet fully understand what goes into the causality of Alzheimer’s, and the same is true for early onset cases,” he says. “We do know that genetics and heritability are huge factors. If a first-degree relative like a parent or sibling develops the disease early, then there is a concern.”

Since the probability of developing early onset Alzheimer’s is genetically loaded, it can seem like a hopeless situation. One cannot, after all, change family health history, but Grossberg wants the families of individuals with early forms of the disease to know there are things they can do to reduce risk. He notes that there are a variety of factors contributing to the disease, and while some cannot be modified, many can be controlled. Saint Louis University created the Center for Healthy Brain Aging to help people reduce their chances of developing it and other types of dementia. “Nothing is guaranteed, but growing evidence indicates that lifestyle modification may lower risk or delay development of the disease,” Grossberg notes. There are three areas to focus on, he says.

SIGNS TO LOOK FOR Grossberg says family members and friends are typically the first to notice if a loved one has developed early onset Alzheimer’s.

HOW TO LOWER RISK OR D E L AY D E V E L O P M E N T

1. ACTIVITY

2. DIET

It’s important to stay active in a multitude of ways, according to Grossberg. Physical activity is good for the brain.

Exercising your brain through mental activity and staying social also is beneficial. “Don’t become a couch potato or hermit,” he says. “Go for daily walks, do puzzles, play cards and engage with others.” He adds that remaining spiritually active if you already are can be helpful, too.

“We know there are certain healthy diets that decrease the risk for Alzheimer’s disease,” Grossberg explains. Research shows a Mediterranean diet—fish, vegetables, fruits, olive oil, red wine, and not much red meat or processed food—is effective.

Personality changes such as becoming more irritable, withdrawn or depressed

Difficulties with well developed skills such as struggling to balance a checkbook or suddenly messing up familiar recipes

3. CARDIAC HEALTH “What’s good for the heart is good for the brain,” Grossberg says. He notes that a recent study revealed that controlling blood pressure can reduce the risk of Alzheimer’s in older adults by 20 percent. Getting other cardiovascular risk factors like cholesterol and diabetes under control also can have big benefits, and the same goes for avoiding risk factors like smoking.

Changes in executive brain functions such as planning and decision making

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WHILE GENETICS AND AGE ARE CONFIRMED FACTORS IN THE development of Alzheimer’s disease, less is known about other elements that may put you at risk. Evidence suggests a key process that triggers the disease is the alteration of a brain protein called amyloid-beta.

Pieces of the protein clump together to form plaques, and it’s believed that the plaques may block cell-to-cell signaling at synapses and have other negative impacts. Grossberg says researchers have been working on a number of treatment strategies that focus on these plaques. “Until recently, nothing had been successful, and confidence in the amyloid theory lessened,” he explains. “But at the Alzheimer’s Association International Conference this summer, our pessimism was tempered by the announcement that a new drug, BAN2401, may significantly reduce plaques in the brain.”

BAN2401 is a monoclonal antibody that targets amyloid-beta. In a study of 800 patients with mild cognitive decline, those who received the highest dose of BAN2401 had a 30 percent slower progression of their symptoms than participants who received the placebo. Grossberg notes that the slower progression was paired with about 80 percent of plaque buildup being destroyed over 18 months of treatment. “There is still a lot that is unknown,” he says. “Removing the plaque did not reverse decline; it slowed and reduced it. It’s unclear if BAN2401 or something similar could be used to stop the progression of Alzheimer’s or other dementia in people who are at risk, or if continued improvement will come with continued treatment. More study is needed, but the findings showed targeting plaque may be worthwhile and reignited hope in the research community.”

CARING FOR INDIVIDUALS WITH ALZHEIMER’S COMES WITH A UNIQUE SET OF challenges and requirements. Linda DeSmet, family care coordinator at Provision Living at West County, says it can be difficult for long-term care facilities to find activities that engage the different stages of memory loss. She also notes that it can be a challenge to help individuals feel secure. “People with dementia are living in a different time,” she explains. “For example, residents may be worried that their parents are looking for them and may become agitated or try to leave. You need to find creative solutions to make them safe and secure.”

Along with concerns about activity, the risk of falling increases with Alzheimer’s. “Pacing is common with the disease,” says Allison Dolan-Boschert, AGPCNP, BSN, RN, nurse consultant with Dolan Memory Care Homes. “People want to walk around, but they lack the safety awareness necessary to prevent falls and injury.” Keeping pathways uncluttered and removing obstacles like stairs are important. Janis McGillick, director of community engagement with Dolan, also recommends doing a safety evaluation to understand individuals’ patterns and potential threats. “For example, if the patient regularly gets up in the night, make adjustments accordingly,” she says. “Freedom of movement is instinctively a challenge. Engagement and diligence make the difference between a safe environment and an unsafe one.” DeSmet adds that it’s crucial for memory care facilities to monitor falls as closely as possible because residents may not remember what happened.

There are resources in place to help you find the right care environment for your loved one. McGillick recommends checking with the Alzheimer’s Association for recommendations and helpful checklists. She also says it’s important to tour facilities with someone else to get a second opinion. If you have a loved one with memory loss who isn’t ready for a long-term care facility, Dolan-Boschert suggests consulting with Memory Care Home Solutions. The nonprofit sends occupational therapists to people’s homes, offering recommendations for making them safer places to live.

Help your loved one navigate their aging journey.

IN ONE SHORT HOUR, YOU’LL LEARN:

» Strategies to start difficult conversations. » How to gain confidence and tact when talking with loved ones about changes as they age. » Practical next steps and additional resources.

JOIN US FOR ANY OR ALL THREE OF THESE POWER-PACKED, HOUR-LONG LUNCHEONS! December 5, 2018

HAVING THE DIFFICULT CONVERSATION Prepare to talk with family members and loved ones about care needs, possible options, and solutions.

January 9, 2019

GETTING ESTATE AND LEGAL AFFAIRS IN ORDER From Power of Attorney to Wills & Trusts, documents you need so your loved one is prepared.

February 6, 2019 OPTIONS IN SENIOR LIVING

Space is limited. Reserve your spot online by November 28 at LSSLife.com/EducationSeries or by calling 314.262.8272.

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SAFETY MOTION-ACTIVATED LIGHTS

ALARMS AND BUZZERS

Dolan places motion-activated lights under residents’ beds and along the hall to the bathroom to reduce nighttime falls, according to Dolan-Boschert.

Many long-term care facilities are going high-tech with memory care.

Here are just some of the

PERSONAL TRACKING Some long-term care facilities use individual trackers to eliminate wandering, but that’s not the only way technology can be used to keep residents safe. Dolan is currently testing the use of Fitbits to monitor heart rates, activity levels and sleeping patterns, according to Dolan-Boschert.

These can help keep doors and exits secure, but that’s just the beginning of their usefulness. Dolan puts individual buzzers on residents who recently had a hip fracture or other injury that impedes movement. “They may not remember that they can’t bear weight,” McGillick explains. “The alarms let staff know they’ve gotten up.” She adds that it’s a temporary precaution because too many alarms or buzzers going off could agitate or trigger residents.

MUSIC “Listening to music has a wonderful impact and is tied to memory,” McGillick says. “Providing residents with iPods programmed with songs they or their families have selected gives them comfort and stimulation.”

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ways they’re using technology to keep residents safe.

Provision Living offers the option of having infrared cameras installed in residents’ rooms. The camera system is HIPAA-compliant and maintains privacy while monitoring gait and balance. The system informs staff if there are any changes or the resident falls. “Staff are alerted immediately, and the camera allows them to see exactly what happened,” DeSmet says, adding that the monitoring system also can let them see changes in heart rate or respiration.

MEDICATION DISTRIBUTION McGillick says Dolan uses a system that provides staff with residents’ pictures and a list of their medications at distribution time, greatly reducing medication errors.

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“The best decision my husband, and I made three years ago was to move to Brookdale. The whole experience has given us new friends and a great staff who treat us like family. This move allows us to maintain our busy lifestyle, including travel and entertaining. I recommend Brookdale to all my friends, who I hope to have as future neighbors.”

— Elaine N., Resident

Brookdale Creve Coeur offers you • Experienced, consistent management team • Progressive levels of care, ancillary services and customizable wellness programs • Transportation options for doctor appointments, as well as volunteering, religious services and more • Spacious apartments with 12 floor plans to choose from

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SENIOR SERVICES 1 | ADVANCED NURSING SERVICES We are proud to have served the St. Louis area with quality nursing care since 1984. Our company provides private duty nurse aides, licensed practical nurses and registered nurses for patients. PICTURED: OWNER MAGGIE HOLTMAN 141 N. Meramec Ave. 314.863.3030 advancednursing.org

2 | MCKNIGHT PLACE ASSISTED LIVING & MEMORY CARE McKnight Place offers a pet therapy program that helps residents maintain their strength, endurance and balance. Registered therapy dogs encourage them to socialize and exercise.

3 McKnight Place 314.993.3333 mcknightplace.com

3 | CARDINAL RITTER SENIOR SERVICES With our programs and retirement living options, we honor seniors by “doing the right thing, in the right way, for the right reason, every time.”

This is how we live our mission.

7601 Watson Road 314.961.8000 cardinalritterseniorservices.org

4 | RENT-A-RELATIVE We are celebrating our sixth year of serving the St. Louis area. Our service and transportation company is there when you need to go somewhere, offering an extra touch of service that traditional transportation doesn’t provide. PICTURED: JOHN GUSTAFSON rent-a-relative-stl.com

5 | PARC PROVENCE A member of the locally owned Gatesworth family of communities, Parc Provence offers all the amenities you want while providing the proven, innovative approach to memory care that your loved one needs.

605 Coeur de Ville Drive 314.542.2500 parcprovence.com

6 | DELMAR GARDENS PRIVATE SERVICES Our caregivers come to the home to assist with daily living activities such as laundry, cooking, cleaning, medication management, bathing and dressing. Twenty-four-hour care and hourly care are available.

14805 N. Outer 40 Road, Ste. 120 636.733.7100 delmargardens.com

7 | LUTHERAN SENIOR SERVICES Help your loved ones navigate their aging journey. Join LSS experts for the free Luncheon Education Series Dec. 5 at noon and learn how to talk about care needs. Call to RSVP. 13190 S. Outer Forty Road 314.262.8272 lsslife.com/educationseries

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Health professionals can offer recommendations for overall diets and eating plans that are beneficial for your particular needs. According to registered dietitian Jennifer McDaniel of McDaniel Nutrition Therapy, one good option is the Mediterranean diet. It includes olive oil, which has been shown to eliminate plaque buildup in blood vessels; this is helpful for brain function. The diet also includes other items experts recommend, such as fish, fruits, vegetables, nuts and whole grains. Registered dietitian Amy Knoblock-Hahn of Whole Food Is Medicine suggests a whole food diet, which limits or eliminates highly processed foods. Quinoa is an important whole grain that she often recommends. Dr. Sita Kedia, medical director at PALM Health, also supports a whole food diet and suggests limiting processed sugars as well.

AN ACTIVE HOBBY CAN HELP THE BRAIN STAY HEALTHY. As important as diet is, it's only a part of the equation in fighting Alzheimer's and dementia. Health professionals also recommend exercise, which can improve blood flow, support healthy brain activity and benefit the heart.

However, the proper amount and intensity of exercise varies by individual; for some people, a simple regular walk can be helpful. Kedia suggests that an active hobby also can help the brain stay healthy. She recommends finding a new activity you haven't engaged in before. For example, if you enjoy indoor activities like knitting, take a look at outdoor ones like gardening. Kedia adds that the process of learning new skills helps with cognition. For example, watercolor painting stimulates the brain because the painter must make a variety of color, design, image and paper choices. Staying active with 'brain gymnastics' such as this can help keep your mind healthy for years to come.

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Many health professionals are in agreement on the benefits of nuts.

Knoblock-Hahn says walnuts are a good source of Omega-3 fatty acids, and while they and almonds receive the most attention, other nut varieties have health value, too. McDaniel recommends almonds and hazelnuts, and says about an ounce a day is helpful. Knoblock-Hahn adds that sunflower and pumpkin seeds are good choices as well. McDaniel says nuts and seeds can be consumed on their own, combined with other foods such as cereals or yogurt, or eaten in trail mix.

OMEGA-3 FATTY ACIDS AND FISH Omega-3 fatty acids can be found in fish such as salmon, trout and tuna, and they can help with cognition and communication between brain cells. McDaniel recommends eating fatty fish two to four times a week.

FRUITS AND DARK GREEN, LEAFY VEGETABLES In cartoons, Popeye the Sailor ate spinach for strength, but professionals say dark green, leafy veggies like spinach, broccoli, Swiss chard and kale also can be good for the brain because they contain antioxidants. These vitamins, minerals and enzymes protect the body from the damaging effects of free radicals, which come from sources such as pollution and tobacco smoke.

Antioxidants also are found in fruits like blackberries, blueberries and cherries.

Kedia suggests a diet that incorporates these foods on a daily basis.

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hen the owner and her family purchased this Ladue home

three years ago, they got to work putting their personal stamp on the interior, infusing it with bold colors and cozy touches inspired by Scottish charm. The space is gorgeous all year, but it really shines during the winter months, when it provides the perfect backdrop for memorable holiday magic.

T&S | How would you describe your decorating style?

It’s more masculine than a lot of homes you see now and not necessarily what’s on trend. We’ve both traveled extensively, and a lot of our decorating was inspired by that—much of the furniture consists of antiques we found traveling. I spent a fair amount of time in Scotland with my family, and my husband is a big hunter. We combined those loves and designed the house for our family and our lifestyle.

T&S | It looks like you go all out for the holidays.

I’ve loved Christmas since I was a little girl. When I was young, my mom collected ornaments and gave them to me as gifts. It’s very sentimental—I’ve gotten an ornament representing every major life event. My husband and I now do the same for our little girls. For us, the holidays are special because we get to spend time with family, and seeing everyone enjoy the time together makes it that much more meaningful.

T&S | Do you have a favorite holiday tradition?

Every year on the day after Thanksgiving, we go to Pea Ridge Forest to get our Christmas tree, and if you ask my kids and husband, it’s our favorite day of the year.

Another tradition is having our nieces and nephews over to decorate cookies. The togetherness is magical, and the house is set up perfectly for it.

We love that the house has a mixture of relaxed and formal rooms, but it all flows and blends together easily.

T&S | Do you do much entertaining during the holidays?

We prefer to entertain in small groups. We usually have a small dinner party with our closest friends, rent a carriage and ride through the neighborhood. We also host Christmas dinner with my whole family at our house. There are a lot of kids, so we open up the dining room doors into the breakfast area so everyone can be together. We love that the house has a mixture of relaxed and formal rooms, but it all flows and blends together easily. When you have small kids, you have to be able to live in the house and not just look at it.

T&S | What renovations have you done?

We drastically changed the house from what it looked like originally, and I did most of the work myself. We wanted something warm and comfortable. We installed new floors, replaced the columns in the family room with beams, added French doors in the living room that open to the patio, and partially redid the kitchen and bar area. But most of the changes came through decorating.

T&S | You’re not afraid of bold colors.

Tell me about the green ceiling.

I can’t say enough about how paint can transform a room.

The green is a lacquer from Fine Paints of Europe. The idea came from a wedding I attended in California, in a home that had a red leather ceiling. We have used green a lot throughout the house—my husband and I love the color, and we’re always looking for ways to make rooms pop. The green wallpaper in the dining room is a heavy, tapestry-like fabric done by Scalamandré. I saw something similar in a

castle in Scotland that I stayed in with my parents when I was in my early 20s. It stuck in my head.

T&S | What about the red room?

That’s my husband’s office. The paint came from Cook Brothers. I wanted something that would pop and provide a nice transition from the adjacent room. My husband was pretty nervous when I said I wanted to go with red, but now it’s his favorite room in the house.

T&S | What room do you spend the most time in?

The family room. We have a fire in there every night during the cooler months. I chose the grasscloth wallpaper in that room because my husband loves it. It was important that he be happy and comfortable in the house—I didn’t want him to feel like he was living in a house designed with just my preferences in mind. The rug in the family room is custom-made by Hakimian Brothers Oriental Rugs.

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HOMEWORK

DEAR HOMEWORK,

We want to replace our front door and remove the pediment above it. We also would like to add a covered entry. Having removed some overgrown bushes, we now like the view from our front porch much better, but we still would like some help with the overall look.

Sincerely, —ENHANCE MY ENTRY

DEAR ENHANCE MY ENTRY,

The Georgian style of your home suggests that a portico with a gable roof and simple, white Doric columns would be a good solution to your covered entry needs. This will reinstate some architectural detail that will be lost when we remove the splitpediment door case. A red, six-panel door draws the eye to the entry.

A low evergreen hedge finishes off the area below the ground floor windows, and taller upright evergreens frame the corners. The empty planting bed opposite the front door has been filled with ground cover and brightly colored flowers that reflect the front door color, They won’t grow so tall that they block the view you now enjoy.

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Adding patterns is another way to create a distinctive look for holiday decorating. Mixing stripes, polka dots and plaids that follow a similar color scheme is a sure bet to grab attention. Add some solid color, and your design will be a showstopper. This look can be achieved with ribbon, throw pillows and other accessories.

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