Journey of Aging - Northeast WI January-June 2019 by Towns & Associates

Exceptional Care Close to Home A cancer diagnosis is overwhelming; Aurora Health Care is here to help. With a multidisciplinary approach, here are just a few reasons to choose Aurora when looking for the best cancer care program. • Nurse Navigators Aurora provides each patient a uniquely trained and qualified nurse to walk with you on this journey. You are never alone and have the voice of an expert at your side.

• TOMO 3D Aurora Medical Center Oshkosh is home to two TOMO 3D machines that are proven to detect abnormalities of cancer sooner than ever before.

• Social Worker Embedded in the program we have resources for patients at every level, from assisting with FMLA paperwork to helping you with tough decisions and choices along your journey.

• Support and Prevention

Survivorship programs, specialized rehab, exercise and relaxation classes, prosthetics, support groups, palliative care and more. A survivorship care plan that provides an outlook of what lies ahead after treatment so you are never left guessing about the future of your care.

• Comfort

Aurora wants to make your journey as comfortable as possible. That is why we are offering massage therapy to all of our patients. We also have certified aroma therapy techs and an onsite dietician that can enhance your comfort along the way. We also offer spiritual support services for those who request it.

Aurora Cancer Care Vince Lombardi Cancer Clinic 855 N. Westhaven Drive | Oshkosh, WI 54904 | 920-456-7870

carewisc.org (800) 963-0035 Government-funded programs for frail seniors and adults with disabilities. We match our members to the health and long-term care supports and services they need.

Care Wisconsin Medicare Dual Advantage Are you eligible for Medicare & Medicaid? For more information call 1 (800) 963-0035 (WI Relay 711) carewisc.org/medicare-dual-advantage

Care Wisconsin Medicare Dual Advantage is an HMO SNP with a Medicare Advantage contract and a contract with the Wisconsin Department of Health Services for the Medicaid Program. Enrollment in Medicare Dual Advantage depends on contract renewal. This plan is available to anyone who has both Medical Assistance from the State and Medicare

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CONTENTS AGING & CAREGIVER RESOURCES

ALZHEIMER’S & DEMENTIA

END OF LIFE

ESSENTIAL PREPARATION

The Renaissance of Fox Valley Memory Project

It’s in the Planning

publisher

PO Box 174 Baraboo, WI 53913-0174 P (608) 356-8757 • F (608) 356-8875

editor-in-chief Amy S. Johnson publication director Jennifer Baird publication designer Barbara Wilson senior copy editor Kyle Jacobson copy editor Krystle Naab graphic designers Jennifer Denman, Crea Stellmacher, Linda Walker

GENERAL 20 HEALTH 24 Why Wisconsin is Focusing on Hearing Healthcare

RETIREMENT HOUSING & LONG-TERM CARE

SAFE & HEALTHY AT HOME

Give Up the Guilt

Safe and Happy at Home

administration & support Lori Czajka, Debora Knutson, Heidi Stanley contributing writers Jill H. Grambow, Mellissa Hansen, Elizabeth Lande, Theresa Pichelmeyer, Beth Propp photographs Avada, Fox Valley Memory Project

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6 | AGING & CAREGIVER RESOURCES ABUSE & NEGLECT Under Wisconsin statutes, elder abuse and neglect includes physical, emotional, financial, and sexual abuse/ assault. See Wisconsin Elder Adultsat-Risk Help Lines below or call 911. Visit dhs.wisconsin.gov/aps/index.htm.

WISCONSIN ELDER ADULTS-AT-RISK HELP LINES: BROWN COUNTY HUMAN SERVICES DEPARTMENT Daytime: (920) 448-6000 After Hours: (920) 436-8888

CALUMET COUNTY HUMAN SERVICE DEPARTMENT Daytime: (920) 849-1400 Weekend: (920) 849-9317

ELDER ABUSE TASK FORCE – FOND DU LAC ADRC (920) 929-3466

ELDER OR ADULT-ATRISK REPORTING – WINNEBAGO COUNTY (877) 886-2372

AGING & CAREGIVER RESOURCES Abuse & Neglect Advocacy Groups & Support Aging & Disability Resource Centers (ADRCs) Caregiver Information Disability Resources Health Plans & Assistance Managed Care Providers Senior Centers Veteran Services JANUARY–JUNE 2019 JOURNEY OF AGING

FOND DU LAC COUNTY DEPARTMENT OF HUMAN SERVICES Daytime: (920) 929-3466 After Hours: (920) 929-3466

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OUTAGAMIE COUNTY HEALTH AND HUMAN SERVICES DEPARTMENT Daytime: (920) 832-4646 After Hours: (920) 832-4646

WINNEBAGO COUNTY DEPARTMENT OF HUMAN SERVICES Daytime: (877) 886-2372 Oshkosh (920) 727-2882 x4683 Neenah/ Menasha After Hours: (920) 233-7707 Oshkosh (920) 722-7707 Neenah/Menasha

AGING & CAREGIVER RESOURCES | 7 ADVOCACY GROUPS & SUPPORT Support for or on behalf of someone for a particular cause, issue, or policy.

AARP (866) 448-3611 (920) 921-7433 Fond du Lac states.aarp.org/region/wisconsin

BBB OF WISCONSIN (BETTER BUSINESS BUREAU) (800) 273-1002 bbb.org/wisconsin

COALITION OF WISCONSIN AGING GROUPS (CWAG) (800) 488-2596 cwagwisconsin.org

DEPARTMENT OF SENIOR SERVICES FOND DU LAC (920) 929-3521

ELDER RIGHTS PROJECT INTAKE HOTLINE (844) 614-5468 Legal Action of Wisconsin – Oshkosh Office (920) 233-6521 Elder Rights Project

OPTIONS & SOLUTIONS PROGRAM – VALLEY VNA SENIOR CARE

1535 Lyon Dr., Neenah 54956 (920) 727-5555 valleyvna.org Do you wonder what help is available in your home? Options & Solutions is a free program. Our nurse will visit you in your home to discuss information and services available in the community to help your individual situation.

WISCONSIN BOARD ON AGING & LONG-TERM CARE Ombudsman Program (800) 815-0015 longtermcare.wi.gov

WISCONSIN OFFICE OF THE COMMISSIONER OF INSURANCE (800) 236-8517 oci.wi.gov

AGING AND DISABILITY RESOURCE CENTERS (ADRCs)

individuals with disabilities or long-term conditions. Visit the Safe & Healthy at Home section to find support assistance in your residence.

EASTER SEALS SENIOR SERVICES (920) 431-0843 easterseals.com/our-programs /senior-services

ADRCs can help make connections to resources about in-home personal care and nursing, housing options, housekeeping and chore services, home modifications, adaptive equipment, transportation, health, nutrition, homedelivered meal programs, Medicare, Medicaid, social security, caregiver supports, benefit specialists and respite information. Below are the ADRCs in your area by county.

RESPITE CARE ASSOCIATION OF WISCONSIN

ADRC OF BROWN COUNTY

(920) 465-2642 uwgb.edu/outreach/wicare

(920) 448-4300 adrcofbrowncounty.org

ADRC OF CALUMET COUNTY (920) 849-1451 youradrcresource.org

ADRC OF FOND DU LAC COUNTY (920) 929-3466 fdlco.wi.gov/adrc

ADRC OF OUTAGAMIE COUNTY (920) 832-5178 youradrcresource.org

ADRC OF WINNEBAGO COUNTY (877) 886-2372 co.winnebago.wi.us/adrc

CAREGIVER INFORMATION

(608) 222-2033 respitecarewi.org

VA CAREGIVER SUPPORT (855) 260-3274 caregiver.va.gov

WISCONSIN CAREGIVER ACADEMY AT UNIVERSITY OF WISCONSIN-GREEN BAY

WISCONSIN’S FAMILY CAREGIVER SUPPORT PROGRAMS (866) 843-9810 wisconsincaregiver.org

DISABILITY RESOURCES See also Aging & Disability Resource Centers (ADRCs) in this section.

BLIND AND VISUALLY IMPAIRED INFORMATION & SERVICES – BY COUNTY (888) 879-0017 dhs.wisconsin.gov/blind

BUREAU OF AGING AND DISABILITY RESOURCES (BADR) (608) 266-2536 (Central Office) dhs.wisconsin.gov/dph/badr.htm

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8 | AGING & CAREGIVER RESOURCES CAPTEL, INC.

CapTel® Captioned Telephone (920) 540-0704 captel.com Ideal for people with hearing loss, the CapTel Captioned Telephone works like any other telephone with one important addition: it displays every word the caller says throughout the conversation.

CARE WISCONSIN

2321 San Luis Pl., Green Bay 54304 (800) 963-0035 carewisc.org/joa Care Wisconsin offers governmentfunded programs to frail seniors and adults with disabilities. We match members to the healthcare and long-term care supports and services they need.

CURATIVE CONNECTIONS (920) 593-3535 curativeconnections.org

WISCONSIN TALKING BOOK AND BRAILLE LIBRARY (WTBBL)

DISABILITY RIGHTS WISCONSIN (800) 928-8778 disabilityrightswi.org

EASTER SEALS DISABILITY HELP LINE OF OUTAGAMIE COUNTY (920) 832-0344 eastersealswisconsin.com

LAKELAND CARE, INC.

2985 S. Ridge Rd., Green Bay 54304 (920) 425-3900 info@lakelandcareinc.com lakelandcareinc.com Lakeland Care offers care management services to help eligible elders and adults with disabilities live independently at home or in their community through the Family Care Program. Family Care eligibility is determined by the Aging and Disability Resource Center (ADRC).

Your local Family Care option for personal care and support

(800) 242-8822 dpi.wi.gov/talkingbooks

HEALTH PLANS & ASSISTANCE BOARD ON AGING & LONG-TERM CARE Medigap helpline & health insurance related questions. (800) 242-1060 longtermcare.wi.gov

CARE WISCONSIN

COMMISSIONER OF INSURANCE (800) 236-8517

HEALTHCARE MARKETPLACE healthcare.gov

LAKELAND CARE, INC. Some of the services we manage with you include: • Care Management • Personal Care • Residential Care

• Medical Supplies & Equipment • Outpatient Mental Health • In-Home Supportive Care

For more information about the Family Care Program, contact your local Aging and Disability Resource Center (ADRC).

www.lakelandcareinc.com

DHS Approval 5/2/18

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Can’t Hear on the Phone? Get a NO-COST CapTel Captioned Telephone! The CapTel® Captioned Telephone shows word-for-word captions of everything a caller says, letting you read anything you cannot hear over the phone. CapTel is a NO-COST, federally funded technology available under the Americans with Disabilities Act. Chris Moylan, works within your community to help anybody who needs this phone gain access to the program. Chris Moylan, 920-540-0704 chris.moylan@oeius.org

920-540-0704 CapTel.com REQUIREMENTS: Hearing Loss, High Speed Internet, Dial-tone No-Cost Phone with valid third-party certification is subject to change without notice. Terms and conditions may apply. FEDERAL LAW PROHIBITS ANYONE BUT REGISTERED USERS WITH HEARING LOSS FROM USING INTERNET PROTOCOL (IP) CAPTIONED TELEPHONES WITH THE CAPTIONS TURNED ON. IP Captioned Telephone Service may use a live operator. The operator generates captions of what the other party to the call says. These captions are then sent to your phone. There is a cost for each minute of captions generated, paid from a federally administered fund. No cost is passed on to the CapTel user for using the service. CapTel captioning service is intended exclusively for individuals with hearing loss. CapTel® is a registered trademark of Ultratec, Inc. (v3.5 7-18)

NETWORK HEALTH (866) 393-7668 (800) 947-3529 TTY networkhealth.com

SOCIAL SECURITY ADMINISTRATION (866) 770-2262 ssa.gov

WISCONSIN SENIOR MEDICARE PATROL (800) 488-2596 wisconsinsmp.org

MANAGED CARE PROVIDERS CARE WISCONSIN

2321 San Luis Pl., Green Bay 54304 (800) 963-0035 carewisc.org/joa Care Wisconsin offers governmentfunded programs to frail seniors and adults with disabilities. We

match members to the healthcare and long-term care supports and services they need.

LAKELAND CARE, INC.

help, so feel free to give them a call and inquire.

BERLIN SENIOR CENTER (920) 361-5422

GOOD SHEPHERD SENIOR CENTER – SEYMOUR (920) 833-6434

GREEN LAKE SENIOR CENTER (920) 294-3082

FOND DU LAC CITY SENIOR CENTER (920) 322-3630

MENASHA SENIOR CENTER

SENIOR CENTERS Senior centers are a wonderful way to interact with peers and fulfill interests. Some offer unique programming and special services; each one is a little different from another. All are there to

116 Main St., Menasha 54952 (920) 967-3530 crichard@ymcafoxcities.org cityofmenasha-wi.gov/departments /senior_center/index.php The YMCA of the Fox Cities collaborates with the City of Menasha offering programming at the JOURNEYOFAGING.COM

10 | AGING & CAREGIVER RESOURCES FOX VALLEY VETERANS COUNCIL (920) 358-0662 foxvalleyveteranscouncil.org

GREEN BAY VET CENTER (920) 435-5650 vetcenter.va.gov

OUTAGAMIE COUNTY VETERANS SERVICES OFFICE (920) 832-5697 facebook.com/Outagamie CountyVeteranService

US DEPARTMENT OF VETERANS AFFAIRS Veterans Benefits Administration benefits.va.gov/benefits

Senior Center: social activities, health screenings, exercise classes, etc. Some classes require a small fee. If you have a Y membership, exercise classes are included in your membership.

NORTH FOND DU LAC VILLAGE SENIOR CENTER (920) 929-6811

OMRO-WINNEBAGO COMMUNITY CENTER (920) 685-0380

OSHKOSH CITY SENIOR CENTER (920) 232-5300

PULASKI SENIOR CENTER (920) 822-8100

RIPON SENIOR CENTER (920) 748-6225

SENIOR CENTER – DENMARK/BROWN COUNTY (920) 863-8097

VILLAGE OF KIMBERLY SENIOR CITIZEN CENTER (920) 687-9021

WAUPUN SENIOR CENTER (920) 324-7930

VETERAN SERVICES AMERICAN LEGION – DEPARTMENT OF WISCONSIN wilegion.org

BROWN COUNTY VETERANS SERVICE OFFICE (920) 448-4450

CALUMET COUNTY VETERANS SERVICE OFFICE (920) 849-1452

DEPARTMENT OF WORKFORCE DEVELOPMENT dwd.wisconsin.gov/veterans

FOND DU LAC COUNTY VETERANS SERVICES (920) 929-3117 dva.state.wi.us/cvso.asp

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VETERAN SERVICES – FOND DU LAC (920) 929-3117

VETERANS AFFAIRS REGIONAL OFFICE (800) 827-1000

VETERANS MENTOR GROUP – APPLETON veteransmentorgroup.org

VETERANS OUTREACH & RECOVERY PROGRAM – GREEN BAY (800) WIS-VETS (947-8387) WisVets.com

WINNEBAGO COUNTY VETERANS SERVICES (920) 236-4898 co.winnebago.wi.us/veterans

WISCONSIN DEPARTMENT OF VETERANS AFFAIRS (WDVA) (800) 947-8387 dva.state.wi.us

| 11 CAREGIVER & FAMILY PROGRAMS AGE-U-CATE TRAINING INSTITUTE

2980 Ruby Ridge Ct., Suamico 54313 (920) 737-1015 Beth@AGEucate.com AGEucate.com Beth Propp is a compassionate healthcare professional with decades of experience as a registered nurse, family caregiver, patient advocate, and educator. She has become a Certified Master Trainer for AGE-u-cate Training Institute, where she enjoys helping others find empathy and compassion for those suffering from dementia. Compassionate Touch® Dementia Live® and AGE-u-cate’s other programs have helped Beth become a more sensitive care partner, boosting her ability to create connections and moments of clarity for the community she serves. Beth is available for staff training or speaking for your event.

ALZHEIMER FAMILY AND CAREGIVER SUPPORT PROGRAM (AFCSP) (920) 906-4792

ALZHEIMER’S ASSOCIATION - GREATER WISCONSIN CHAPTER

ALZHEIMER’S & DEMENTIA Caregiver & Family Programs Dementia Friendly Programs for Individuals with Dementia Issues Support Systems & Local Resources

(920) 469-2110 alz.org/gwwi

MEMORY CAFÉ AT OSHKOSH COMMUNITY YMCA (920) 230-8439 Find us on Facebook!

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The Renaissance of

Fox Valley MEMORY PROJECT BY JILL H. GRAMBOW Fox Valley Memory Project (FVMP) is celebrating its rebirth! Originally operated as a program with Lutheran Social Services, FVMP provides activities and resources for those with forms of dementia and memory loss. FVMP applied to be an independent nonprofit agency and received approval as such in August. The new designation also brings with it a new full-time executive director, Jill H. Grambow; new office space at Goodwill Community Campus on Appleton Road in Menasha; and a new FVMP logo. However, many things about FVMP remain the same. The vision of FVMP is to ease the burden of dementia and memory loss by providing support and resources throughout the Fox Valley JANUARY–JUNE 2019 JOURNEY OF AGING

region. The bread and butter of programming continues to focus on opportunities for social connections and community engagement. • The most notable social activity is the Memory Café. There are nine FVMP cafés per month located throughout Appleton, Kaukauna, Kimberly, Menasha, Neenah, and New London. Cafés take place in community locations and are facilitated by a team of volunteers with experience in recreation/adult programs. The cafés each have a theme for the month and include a variety of activities, from games and projects to guest speakers, learning experiences, conversation, laughter, and refreshments. It’s a casual atmosphere where those

with memory loss can enjoy camaraderie and feel comfortable among friends. • Other social activities include a monthly dinner at a local restaurant as well as meet ups in the community. Many friendships are built among participants, and they enjoy getting together in casual settings throughout the Fox Valley. FVMP schedules and advertises meet ups in their newsletter. FVMP friends get together at outings, such as music programs in parks, local plays and performances, museum and art programs, and other area events. • On a Positive Note chorus is another delightful opportunity. The chorus was originally directed

ALZHEIMER’S & DEMENTIA | 13 by the talented Frank G. Rippl. Members practice together once per week and perform at local events and community celebrations. No formal experience is required—only a love for singing. • There are four unique day-long bus trips offered each year. The 2018 bus trips featured travels to Sheboygan’s Kohler Art Center, a boating excursion in Waupaca, Door County adventures, and exploring the Neville Public Museum in Green Bay. Each bus trip includes additional stops along the way as well as lunch and snacks. All activities are shared experiences; care partners and those with memory loss participate together. A regular FVMP participant recently shared her enthusiasm for the rebirth. “I am really happy for the program and for all of us who count on it. These are my friends now, and coming here with mom is good for both of us. Coming to a café where people know what you are dealing with…well, it is a relief to walk in the door.”

Call us at (920) 225-1711 or visit foxvalleymemoryproject.org for the monthly activity information. You can also find Fox Valley Memory Project on Facebook. Photographs provided by Fox Valley Memory Project.

Jill H. Grambow is the executive director for Fox Valley Memory Project. She has an associate degree in natural resources, bachelor’s degree in clinical psychology, and graduate studies in organizational change leadership. She has nonprofit experience and spent the last 12 years with Menasha Schools leading a department that operates youth and family programs.

DEMENTIA FRIENDLY DEMENTIA FRIENDLY FOND DU LAC

151 E. First St., Fond du Lac 54935 (920) 322-3632 dementiafriendlyfdl.com As a goal to make the Fond du Lac County a dementia-friendly community, we plan to work with area businesses to provide employees with specialized training to help them work with customers that may have dementia. Once a local business has gone through the training with their employees, they receive a Purple Angel decal—an international sign that a business is dementia friendly.

FOX VALLEY MEMORY PROJECT (920) 225-1711 foxvalleymemoryproject.org

PROGRAMS FOR INDIVIDUALS WITH DEMENTIA ISSUES FOX VALLEY MEMORY PROJECT

3003 N. Richmond St. Appleton 54911 (920) 225-1711 lynnann.clausing@lsswis.org foxvalleymemoryproject.org The Fox Valley Memory Project offers programs to improve quality of life for persons with dementia. Our vision for living well with dementia includes memory cafés, our memory loss resource center, community education, a memory assessment center, and in-home coaching.

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14 | ALZHEIMER’S & DEMENTIA SUPPORT SYSTEMS & LOCAL RESOURCES Did she forget to take her pills? Should she be living alone? Is she safe? If you are worried about a loved one due to memory loss, call Azura today. Join us soon for a cup of coﬀee, a caring conversation, or a tour of our home.

Call 920-284-6742 today for a tour!

2220 Brookview Ct • Oshkosh • azuramemory.com

INTERIM HEALTHCARE OF THE FOX CITIES

1244 Appleton Rd., Ste. D Menasha 54952 (920) 944-8945 mmccarter@interimhealthcare.com interimhealthcare.com/foxcities Every person’s dementia journey is different. Interim HealthCare’s approach is tailored to each stage of brain change using GEMS® dementia classification model, so we can meet your loved one where they are and adjust activities based on their specific challenges.

ST. PAUL ELDER SERVICES, INC.

316 E. 14th St., Kaukauna 54130 (920) 766-6020 stpaulelders.org St. Paul Elder Services offers a variety of community outreach memory care services as part of JANUARY–JUNE 2019 JOURNEY OF AGING

our Passages Program. We offer adult day, in-home care, education sessions, brain health education, memory cafés, and support groups. Contact us for a complete list.

VALLEY VNA SENIOR CARE

1535 Lyon Dr., Neenah 54956 (920) 727-5555 valleyvna.org We are dedicated to providing individualized, compassionate memory care. Our assisted living and In Home Care staff is specially trained in dementia care. Offering specific programs such as Lyrics & Laughter™, Namaste, and other dementia-specific programs.

WISCONSIN HISTORICAL MUSEUM – SPARK! PROGRAM (608) 264-6555 wisconsinhistoricalmuseum.org

ALZHEIMER’S ASSOCIATION – GREATER WISCONSIN CHAPTER (920) 469-2110 alz.org/gwwi

AZURA MEMORY CARE

2220 Brookview Ct., Oshkosh 54904 (920) 284-6742 info@azuramemory.com azuramemory.com Azura Memory Care is a trusted provider of specialized memory care homes located throughout Wisconsin. Known as the Dementia Care Experts, Azura’s advanced training and engagement program, MOSAIC, equips their Team to understand what is dementia and how to properly approach and communicate with those in their care and engage them to continue living a high quality of life. Their belief is that everyone deserves personalized care and to experience a MOSAIC of joy every day!

FOX VALLEY MEMORY PROJECT (920) 225-1711 foxvalleymemoryproject.org

MEDICALERT® + ALZHEIMER’S ASSOCIATION SAFE RETURN®

(800) 432-5378 medicalert.org/safereturn This is a 24-hour nationwide emergency response service, ideal for individuals with Alzheimer’s or a related dementia who wander or have a medical emergency.

END OF LIFE | 15 FUNERAL & CREMATION SERVICES FOX CITIES FUNERAL & CREMATION (920) 966-9000

HOSPICE CARE Provides pain relief, comfort, symptom management, and supportive services to individuals who usually have six months or less to live. Typically, care is provided by a team consisting of a doctor, nurse, social worker, counselor, chaplain, home health aide, and trained volunteers. The team works together to focus on the dying person’s and their family’s physical, psychological, social, and spiritual needs. This level of care can be provided in one’s residence (collaborating with the home health agencies/medical care), at most hospitals (collaborating with your hospital team), at most nursing homes, and at an in-patient hospice facility.

COMPASSUS – GREEN BAY (920) 321-2004 compassus.com

COPPERLEAF VILLAGE OF RIPON (920) 896-0440 copperleafcare.com

HEARTLAND HOME HEALTHCARE AND HOSPICE (866) 216-5708 heartlandhospice.com

END OF LIFE Funeral & Cremation Services Hospice Care Hospice Inpatient Facilities

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1700 Midway Rd., Menasha 54952 (920) 739-0111 higginsc@oakridgegardens.com oakridgegardens.com Oakridge Gardens offers short-term rehabilitation, skilled nursing, and JOURNEYOFAGING.COM

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It’s in the PLANNING BY MELLISSA HANSEN, CSW, EOLD We’re all born into this world, and will all leave it one day. And while we plan for many of life’s events—baby showers, birthdays, graduations, weddings, etc.—we frequently don’t plan for the final one. Why do we find it so hard to talk about death? Why not take control of the decisions so we can make known what’s important to us? What if your family can’t agree or remember your wishes for medical treatments? Are you willing to have a feeding tube or be placed on a respirator to keep you alive? How do you want to leave this world and have your loved ones remember you? Planning can help your end-of-life journey be peaceful, filled with joyful memories, and beautiful for you and your JANUARY–JUNE 2019 JOURNEY OF AGING

family rather than filled with anxiety, confusion, and stress. One of the most common comments I hear from seniors is “I don’t want to be a burden to my family.” Even if you haven’t begun, there’s time to plan for your death. There are many decisions to make and several important documents you need to have in place while you’re still healthy. Planning sooner means it’s easier to make good decisions because you’re more capable of understanding them. You don’t want to wait until you’re ill because it will affect how good your decisions will be. Planning ahead also takes the burden off you and your family during a crisis situation, which relieves stress and anxiety. When we’re not feeling well,

we should be visiting with loved ones, making lasting memories, and enjoying the time we have left. The final journey should be a time of comfort. I represent Final Journey Companions, LLC, in the Fox Valley area, and am honored to be an end-oflife doula. End-of-life doula services are nonmedical, holistic approaches to end-of-life care. The goal is to act as a companion so people aren’t afraid, alone, or unprepared for death. We provide a thoughtful, nonjudgmental, and proactive approach to supporting, guiding, and empowering a client to the best quality end-of-life care. Each doula’s background may be different, but all work with clients and

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their families through the process in a mindful and attentive manner. End-of-life doulas do not replace homecare staff and hospice staff; we collaborate in providing care. Ask your doula if they are multicredentialed and how they can assist you. Being a state-certified social worker, I have hospice experience that enables me to help with clients’ planning stages, putting important decisions into place while they’re still healthy. Should you need an end-of-life doula’s services when death is near, that’s okay too. We can help you put into place what you need based upon what you want. As part of my program, I also extend services to significant others and family members as needed to help them adjust to life without their loved one. I’ve been helping seniors for over 15 years in the healthcare industry in a variety of venues. It’s my honor and pleasure to be included in someone’s journey. Everybody’s idea of what our end journey should look like is unique. Planning gives you the power to have your decisions in place and not someone else’s.

Mellissa Hansen, CSW, EOLD is a doula and owner of Final Journey Companions, LLC. Follow Mellissa on Facebook, contact her at (920) 4041855 or finaljourneycompanionsllc @gmail.com.

memory care in a newly modernized building. Oakridge Gardens is committed to being responsive to the needs of residents and to being the best option for a continuum of care in the Fox Valley.

ST. PAUL HOSPICE SERVICES

316 E. 14th St., Kaukauna 54130 (920) 766-6180 stpaulelders.org This program provides individuals facing life-limiting illnesses and their loved ones with expert care, compassion, and support through the end of one’s earthly journey. Serving Calumet, Brown, Winnebago, Manitowoc, and Outagamie Counties.

HOSPICE INPATIENT FACILITIES THEDACARE HOSPICE (920) 969-0919 thedacare.org

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ADVANCE HEALTHCARE DIRECTIVES Putting your preferences in writing. Visit the Legal category in the General section for assistance to learn about the important options you have to protect your wishes if and when you are unable.

EMERGENCY PREPAREDNESS Have a plan in place BEFORE an emergency. Communicate your plans with family, friends, and neighbors. Pack an emergency kit—first aid supplies, blankets or sleeping bag, battery-powered radio, flashlights, extra batteries, weather radio. If you have a pet, plan ahead for pet needs, including a pet carrier and supplies of food and water. Have prescription medications and any special medical supplies ready. Place the following items in a plastic lidded container: • Three-day supply of water • Three-day supply of nonperishable food • Three-day supply of high energy foods, such as granola bars, trail mix, peanut butter, jelly, and crackers

ESSENTIAL PREPARATION Advance Healthcare Directives Emergency Preparedness Estate Planning Financial Services Funeral Preplanning JANUARY–JUNE 2019 JOURNEY OF AGING

You can find more information on emergency plans and supply kits at ready.gov.

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ESTATE PLANNING See also the Legal category in the General section for additional information.

ESSENTIAL PREPARATION | 19 THE ESTATE PLANNING GROUP

120 E. 4th St., Kaukauna 54130 (920) 558-9300 contact@epgwi.com theestateplanninggroup.com Comprehensive protection for your family, your wealth, and your legacy—no matter what happens. At The Estate Planning Group, our clients become a part of our family and enjoy truly personalized service, counsel, and planning to fit your unique circumstances.

HOOPER LAW OFFICE, LLC

2 N. Systems Dr., Appleton 54914 (920) 221-0916 Offices in Oshkosh, Appleton, and Green Bay hooperlawoffice.com Practicing solely in estate planning and elder law, Hooper Law Office helps clients secure the best quality of life for today, the highest standard of care for tomorrow, and the greatest benefits for loved ones in the future. To learn more or attend a complimentary seminar on estate planning and nursing home planning, call (920) 221-0916.

NORTHWESTERN MUTUAL FINANCIAL NETWORK – KATIE NAJARIAN/ SHIRLEY MCFARLANE

1659 N. Spring St., Ste. 108 Beaver Dam 53916 (920) 285-2460 katie.najarian@mn.com W189N11100 Kleinmann Dr., Ste. 101 Germantown 53022 (414) 460-7569 shirley.mcfarlane@mn.com For more than 160 years, we’ve been there for people when they need us most. You have worked hard all your life to accumulate assets. We will ensure that you pass on your legacy in the manner that you desire.

ONELEGACY ADVISORS, LLC

(920) 624-4220 jbenton@onelegacyadvisors.com onelegacyadvisors.com Create Your Estate Liquidity Plan Today! At OneLegacy Advisors, LLC, our mission starts with you and your wishes, guides you through funding, and continues with helping your loved ones. Through our patented delivery system and whole life insurance products, you can have peace of mind while creating a lasting legacy.

FINANCIAL SERVICES NORTHWESTERN MUTUAL FINANCIAL NETWORK – KATIE NAJARIAN/ SHIRLEY MCFARLANE 1659 N. Spring St., Ste. 108 Beaver Dam 53916 (920) 285-2460

katie.najarian@mn.com W189 N11100 Kleinmann Dr., Ste. 101 Germantown 53022 (414) 460-7569 shirley.mcfarlane@mn.com Together we’ll identify your most important goals/dreams, then build and implement a financial plan to help you achieve them. Life is unpredictable, we’ll monitor your progress on a regular basis to ensure your plan evolves as your needs/ situation change.

FUNERAL PREPLANNING An important piece of the aging process but often overlooked or neglected. Visit with professionals to know your options so you can make decisions rather than having decisions made for you by others.

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ANIMAL SERVICES BAY AREA HUMANE SOCIETY (920) 469-3110 bayareahumanesociety.com

EASTSHORE HUMANE ASSOCIATION (920) 849-2390 eastshoreha.org

FOND DU LAC HUMANE SOCIETY (920) 922-8873 fdlhumane.org

FOX VALLEY HUMANE SOCIETY (920) 733-1717 foxvalleypets.org

NEENAH ANIMAL SHELTER (920) 722-9544 neenahanimalshelter.org

OSHKOSH AREA HUMANE SOCIETY (920) 424-2128 oahs.org

GENERAL Animal Services Arts & Culture Education Employment Household Item Donations Insurance Legal Moving Services/Specialists Recreation Shopping & Specialty Retail Transportation Travel & Tours Volunteer Opportunities

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CHILDREN’S MUSEUM OF FOND DU LAC (920) 929-0707 cmfdl.org

FOND DU LAC PUBLIC LIBRARY (920) 929-7080 fdlpl.org

HISTORIC WADE HOUSE (920) 526-3271 wadehouse.org

WAUPUN FINE ARTS (920) 346-5891 waupunfinearts.org

GENERAL | 21 WISCONSIN HISTORICAL SOCIETY (608) 264-6535 wisconsinhistory.org

EDUCATION These organizations offer formal and informal learning programs for aging adults.

FOX VALLEY TECHNICAL COLLEGE (920) 735-5600 classes.fvtc.edu

MILITARY VETERANS MUSEUM AND EDUCATION CENTER

4300 Poberezny Rd., Oshkosh 54902 (920) 426-8615 tribbey70@gmail.com mvmwisconsin.com Our mission: to honor our nation’s military history through education and preservation. Open Friday, Saturday, Sunday 10 a.m.–5 p.m. Group tours upon request. World War II military vehicles in running order. A Russian T-34 tank. Unique artifacts. Gift shop. Free admission.

UW-FOND DU LAC (920) 929-1100 fdl.uwc.edu

UW-FOX VALLEY (920) 832-2600 uwfox.uwc.edu

WISCONSIN CAREGIVER ACADEMY AT UNIVERSITY OF WISCONSIN-GREEN BAY (920) 465-2642 uwgb.edu/outreach/wicare

WISCONSIN VETERANS HOME – KING

N2665 County Rd. QQ, King 54946 (715) 256-3276 erin.mckay@dva.wisconsin.gov wisc.jobs

The WVH-King is a long-term and rehabilitative care facility caring for veterans and their eligible dependents. We offer paid training to become a nursing assistant and offer a Practical Nursing Program to our current CNAs. Be a part of our mission to serve and honor veterans!

EMPLOYMENT Listings include employment assistance, career counseling, and training.

EASTER SEALS WISCONSIN SELF-EMPLOYMENT SERVICES – GREEN BAY (920) 431-0843 eastersealswisconsin.com

WISCONSIN SENIOR EMPLOYMENT PROGRAM (WISE) (608) 242-4897 dhs.wisconsin.gov/wise /employment.htm

WISCONSIN VETERANS HOME – KING

N2665 County Rd. QQ, King 54946 (715) 256-3276 erin.mckay@dva.wisconsin.gov wisc.jobs The WVH-King is a long-term and rehabilitative care facility caring for veterans and their eligible dependents. We are recruiting for nursing and many other career opportunities. Come be a part of our mission to serve and honor veterans!

HOUSEHOLD ITEM DONATIONS THE SALVATION ARMY THRIFT STORE 79 W. Pioneer Rd. Fond du Lac 54935 (920) 923-8230

brenda_bertram@usc.salvationarmy.org salvationarmywi.org/wum /fdl_thrift_store The Salvation Army Thrift Store is a secondhand store featuring new and gently used items donated from the Fond du Lac community. Every dollar generated by the Thrift Store funds local programs and supports the local community. Shop and donate with purpose.

ST. VINCENT DE PAUL – APPLETON (920) 739-1679 svdpappleton.org

ST. VINCENT DE PAUL – FOND DU LAC (920) 322-9505 svdpfdlc.org

ST. VINCENT DE PAUL – GREEN BAY (920) 435-4040 svdpgb.org

ST. VINCENT DE PAUL – OSHKOSH (920) 235-9368 svdposhkosh.org

INSURANCE NORTHWESTERN MUTUAL FINANCIAL NETWORK – KATIE NAJARIAN/ SHIRLEY MCFARLANE

1659 N. Spring St., Ste. 108 Beaver Dam 53916 (920) 285-2460 katie.najarian@mn.com W189 N11100 Kleinmann Dr., Ste. 101 Germantown 53022 (414) 460-7569 shirley.mcfarlane@mn.com A well-constructed life insurance policy can be a valuable part of your financial plan. We’ll help you look at this in the context of your overall financial plan and help you deterJOURNEYOFAGING.COM

22 | GENERAL mine what makes the most sense for your situation.

LEGAL DEPARTMENT OF SENIOR SERVICES – FOND DU LAC (920) 929-3521

THE ESTATE PLANNING GROUP

Stop Worrying. Start Living.

LEGAL ACTION OF WISCONSIN – OSHKOSH OFFICE Elder Rights Project (920) 233-6521

ONELEGACY ADVISORS, LLC (920) 624-4220 onelegacyadvisors.com

MOVING SERVICES/ SPECIALISTS CARING TRANSITIONS (920) 569-0084 caringtransitionsgreenbay.com

RECREATION FOX WEST YMCA (920) 757-9820 ymcafoxcities.org

THE GOLF CLUB AT CAMELOT – LOMIRA (920) 269-4949 golfcamelot.com

HEART OF THE VALLEY YMCA (920) 830-5700 ymcafoxcities.org

HORICON MARSH EDUCATION AND VISITOR CENTER (920) 387-7893 horiconmarsh.org

MENASHA YMCA (920) 729-9622 ymcafoxcities.org

MID VALLEE GOLF COURSE (920) 532-6644 midvallee.com

OSHKOSH COMMUNITY YMCA (920) 236-3380 oshkoshymca.org

Legacy

(lĕg ‘ ə-sē.) n. Not just some legal papers and a check.

Most “estate plans” leave loved ones to deal with probate court, months and years of worry, frustration, feuds, heartache and uncertainty. A Life & Legacy Plan protects your family and your wealth - no matter what happens.

Appleton | Kaukauna | Green Bay phone (920) 558-9300 toll-free (855) 558-9300

TITLETOWN (920) 569-7505 titletown.com

SHOPPING & SPECIALTY RETAIL BARGAINS GALORE THRIFT STORE – WAUPUN (920) 324-8677 bargainsgalorethriftstore.com

FISHY’S BAKERY / CANDYMAN ON PIONEER (920) 923-4321 fishysbakery.com

LILLIANS OF APPLETON Experienced Life & Legacy Planning Attorneys

www.theEstatePlanningGroup.com

Your Trusted Legal Professionals For Planning, Preserving and Protecting Your Legacy® JANUARY–JUNE 2019 JOURNEY OF AGING

(920) 738-3004 facebook.com/lilliansofappleton

PACKERS PRO SHOP (920) 569-7510 packersproshop.com

GENERAL | 23 VOECKS’ FOX VALLEY COIN & DIAMONDS ETC.

VETERANS SERVICE TRANSPORTATION

(920) 731-5451 foxvcoin.com

Winnebago County (920) 236-4898 co.winnebago.wi.us/veterans

THE WOOLGATHERERS LTD (920) 907-0510 woolgatherers.com

TRANSPORTATION Listings below include nonemergency transportation. Check with carrier. Check the Senior Centers category in the Aging & Caregiver Resources section for transportation options as well.

CABULANCE – OSHKOSH (920) 426-3900 Nonemergency

CITY CAB – OSHKOSH

TRAVEL & TOURS AMERICINN HOTEL & SUITES – WAUPUN (920) 345-1140 americinn.com/hotels/wi/waupun

COUNTRY INN & SUITES BY RADISSON

OUTAGAMIE COUNTY NUTRITION PROGRAM

HISTORIC WADE HOUSE

FOND DU LAC DEPARTMENT OF SENIOR SERVICES Handi-Van (920) 929-3110 Medical Appointments (920) 929-3936

FOX VALLEY CAB (920) 734-4546 foxvalleycab.com

GO TRANSIT – OSHKOSH (920) 232-5340 ridegotransit.com

NAHBRS – FOX VALLEY TRANSPORTATION PROGRAM (920) 850-3797 nahbrs.org

ADVOCAP

GREEN BAY PACKERS HALL OF FAME

DIAL-A-RIDE – NEENAH

(920) 322-3650

These organizations are seeking aging adult volunteers. Check also the Senior Centers category in the Aging & Caregiver Resources section.

(920) 924-8800 countryinn.com/fonddulacwi

(920) 235-7000

FOND DU LAC AREA TRANSIT

VOLUNTEER OPPORTUNITIES

(920) 922-7760 Fond du Lac (920) 725-2791 Neenah (920) 426-0150 Oshkosh advocap.org

(920) 569-7512 packers.com

(920) 886-6128 ci.neenah.wi.us

War II military vehicles in running order. A Russian T-34 tank. Unique artifacts. Gift shop. Free admission.

(920) 526-3271 wadehouse.org

HOLIDAY INN – FOND DU LAC (920) 923-1440 wiscohotels.com

LAMBEAU FIELD STADIUM TOURS (920) 569-7513 packers.com

MILITARY VETERANS MUSEUM AND EDUCATION CENTER

320 S. Walnut St., Appleton 54911 (920) 968-2414 monica.pomasl@outagamie.org outagamie.org Outagamie County Nutrition: meal site volunteers are needed to pack meals, set tables, serve meals, assist with cleanup, etc., at the Nutrition Program meal sites in Hortonville, Kaukauna, Oneida Heights (Appleton), Seymour, and the Thompson Center on Lourdes. Choose a location and sign up! Volunteers are needed during various shifts.

WISCONSIN VETERANS HOME – KING

N2665 County Rd. QQ, King 54946 (715) 258-4247 dvakvolunteerservices @dva.wisconsin.gov wisvets.com The WVH-King is looking for volunteers to meet, respond to, and care for the unique needs of aging veterans. We are a skilled nursing facility nestled on a beautiful campus along the Waupaca Chain o’ Lakes.

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24 | HEALTH CHIROPRACTIC CARE BOOTS CHIROPRACTIC & WELLNESS CENTER, S.C. (920) 997-9700 bootschiropractic.com

CHRONIC CONDITIONS & SUPPORT Listings include various national, state, and local resources. See also the Palliative Care category in this section.

ADVANCED PAIN MANAGEMENT

HEALTH Chiropractic Care Chronic Conditions & Support Clinics & Medical Centers - Specialty Foot Care Hearing/Audiology Insurance Mental Health Services Nutrition/Food Programs Palliative Care Physical Therapy & Rehabilitation Prescription Drug Assistance Spas/Massage Therapy Speech Therapy Spiritual Health & Well-Being Substance Abuse & Addictions JANUARYâ&#x20AC;&#x201C;JUNE 2019 JOURNEY OF AGING

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APM Appleton Clinic 1616 N. Casaloma Dr., Ste. 100 Appleton 54913 APM Fond du Lac Clinic 210 Wisconsin American Dr. Fond du Lac 54935 APM Green Bay Clinic 2595 Development Dr., Ste. 150 Green Bay 54311 APM Manitowoc Clinic 1 E. Waldo Blvd., Ste. 2 Manitowoc 54220 APM Oconto Falls Clinic 853 S. Main St., Oconto Falls 54154 APM Sheboygan Clinic 2124 Kohler Memorial Dr. Sheboygan 53081 (888) 901-7246 apmhealth.com Advanced Pain Management is a chronic pain center with convenient locations throughout Wisconsin. Committed to providing patients the most advanced, minimally invasive diagnostic and therapeutic services to enable you to restore function, relieve pain, and renew hope. No referral needed.

ALS ASSOCIATION WISCONSIN CHAPTER (414) 763-2220 alsawi.org

BACK PAIN? When youâ&#x20AC;&#x2122;re in pain, it can be difficult to figure out who to turn to for help. The physicians at Advanced Pain Management are specially trained to treat your pain and are knowledgeable on the most innovative treatments to help find relief. No referrals required and nextday appointments are available.

For a consultation call

(888) 901-PAIN (7246)

Learn more at

www.apmhealth.com

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Why Wisconsin IS FOCUSING ON

HEARING HEALTHCARE BY ELIZABETH LANDE

“Hearing loss can cause breakdowns in communication, leading to stress, isolation, and frustration, which impact various aspects of our lives,” says Dr. Sarah Andersen, audiologist with Avada Hearing Care Centers. There are many misconceptions, so we asked Dr. Andersen to share her insights.

Does hearing loss impact a lot of people? According to the Hearing Loss Association of America, just under 50 million Americans have some hearing loss. Hearing loss touches JANUARY–JUNE 2019 JOURNEY OF AGING

not only the individual who suffers from it, but also their family, friends, and anyone they interact with.

extended periods of time. • Hearing the words someone says but not understanding them.

What are the signs of hearing loss? • Asking people to repeat themselves. • Feeling as if people are mumbling. • Increased difficulties following conversation. • Challenges when speaking on the telephone. • Ringing in the ears (tinnitus). • Increased fatigue after concentrating on listening for

In addition, family and friends may notice these signs. • Television is too loud. • Individual is speaking louder than they used to. • Individual is isolating themselves from previously enjoyed activities. • Individual becomes increasingly frustrated when communicating.

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Chronic Conditions & Support (continued)

• Individual isn’t engaging in conversations where more than one person is speaking.

How does hearing loss impact someone’s life? Not being able to hear means certain social cues may be missed and, as a result, an individual may retreat from their social life. People with hearing loss may not realize they aren’t hearing little things, such as birds singing or the wind in the trees. Often, people with age-related hearing loss lose the ability to hear higher-pitched voices, so they miss getting full conversations.

How can you help a family member who struggles with hearing? Encourage a hearing test by an audiologist or hearing care provider. Also, use communication strategies: • Look at the individual when speaking. • Slow your rate of speech but don’t elongate or overexaggerate words; instead add pauses between each word so that what’s being said can be processed. • Rephrase a sentence rather than simply repeating it multiple times. • Speak in a well-lit environment so the individual can clearly see your face.

What can be done to help someone with hearing loss? In many cases, hearing aids and communication strategies help. Hearing aids can take time to get used to, so be patient with the individual. Communication can be challenging with even mild hearing loss, especially in noisy environments or places where a lot is going on. For important conversations,

find a quiet place where you can both focus on listening.

How is Avada helping address hearing loss in the community? Avada is pleased to be part of the Campaign for Better Hearing, which aims to raise awareness of hearing healthcare nationwide. We’re providing complimentary hearing assessments for people age 60+. Early detection is key for positive outcomes, so we encourage you to “Test Your Ears at 60 Years.” Avada has participating locations across Wisconsin. For more information, call (888) 208-5148 or visit campaignforbetterhearing.us. Photograph provided by Avada.

Elizabeth Lande writes about audiology, hearing loss, and healthcare for hearing-related organizations. She has also worked in digital marketing and content strategy in various areas, including commercial real estate, higher education, and legal fields. She has a Bachelor of Arts from Smith College and a Master of Arts from the University of Washington in Seattle. Sarah Andersen, AuD, received her bachelor’s degree in music education from the University of Wisconsin– Whitewater and her doctorate in audiology from the University of Wisconsin–Madison/Stevens Point consortium. She is originally from Racine and currently lives in central Wisconsin.

AMERICAN DIABETES ASSOCIATION diabetes.org

AMERICAN HEART ASSOCIATION (800) 242-8721 heart.org

AMERICAN PARKINSON DISEASE ASSOCIATION (APDA) apdaparkinson.org/community

ARTHRITIS FOUNDATION Wisconsin Office (414) 321-3933 arthritis.org/wisconsin

CARE WISCONSIN

DIABETIC SUPPORT GROUP Aurora Health Care (920) 907-7000

FOND DU LAC COUNTY SENIOR SERVICES Living Well with Chronic Conditions (920) 929-3114

PARKINSON’S SUPPORT GROUP Aurora Health Center – Fond du Lac (920) 906-4792

CLINICS & MEDICAL CENTERS - SPECIALTY ADVANCED PAIN MANAGEMENT

APM Appleton Clinic 1616 N. Casaloma Dr., Ste. 100 Appleton 54913 JOURNEYOFAGING.COM

28 | HEALTH APM Fond du Lac Clinic 210 Wisconsin American Dr. Fond du Lac 54935 APM Green Bay Clinic 2595 Development Dr., Ste. 150 Green Bay 54311 APM Manitowoc Clinic 1 E. Waldo Blvd., Ste. 2 Manitowoc 54220 APM Oconto Falls Clinic 853 S. Main St., Oconto Falls 54154 APM Sheboygan Clinic 2124 Kohler Memorial Dr. Sheboygan 53081 (888) 901-7246 apmhealth.com Advanced Pain Management is a chronic pain center with convenient locations throughout Wisconsin. Committed to providing patients the most advanced, minimally invasive diagnostic and therapeutic services to enable you to restore function, relieve pain, and renew hope. No referral needed.

AURORA CANCER CARE, VINCE LOMBARDI CANCER CLINIC

855 N. Westhaven Dr. Oshkosh 54904 (920) 456-7870 aurora.org A cancer diagnosis can be overwhelming. Aurora can help. Our award-winning care treats more patients than any other provider in Wisconsin. We have a patient-centered, multidisciplinary treatment plan with support every step of the way.

FOOT CARE VALLEY VNA SENIOR CARE

1535 Lyon Dr., Neenah 54956 (920) 727-5555 valleyvna.org We provide Foot Care clinics at various locations throughout each month. The Foot Care clinic services JANUARY–JUNE 2019 JOURNEY OF AGING

include: Foot Exam by an RN, foot soak, massage, callus reduction, and toenail file and trim.

HEARING/AUDIOLOGY AFFORDABLE AUDIOLOGY & HEARING SERVICE (920) 232-4752 affordableaudiology.com

AVADA HEARING CARE CENTERS

(888) 314-8802 avada.com Avada’s mission is to serve the hearing impaired with integrity, professionalism, and superior technology to help people address hearing loss. After building a foundation of trust, our hearing care professionals recommend solutions aimed at improving communications with friends and family.

THE CAMPAIGN FOR BETTER HEARING

(888) 314-8802 campaignforbetterhearing.us

The Campaign for Better Hearing aims to help everyone 60+ address their hearing care needs through a free hearing assessment. We have participating providers across the United States, including in Wisconsin. Remember to “Test Your Ears at 60 Years.”

HAVILAND HEARING AIDS INC (920) 733-7525 havilandhearing.com

NATIONAL ASSOCIATION FOR HEARING & SPEECH (800) 638-8255

NATIONAL HEARING AID HOTLINE (800) 521-5247

INSURANCE CARE WISCONSIN

2321 San Luis Pl., Green Bay 54304 (800) 963-0035 carewisc.org/joa Care Wisconsin offers governmentfunded programs to frail seniors

HEALTH | 29 and adults with disabilities. We match members to the healthcare and long-term care supports and services they need.

MENTAL HEALTH SERVICES In an emergency, please call 911.

CENTER FOR SUICIDE AWARENESS

316 E. 14th St., Kaukauna 54130 (920) 841-0088 lynn@centerforsuicideawareness.org centerforsuicideawareness.org The Center offers support groups for all ages of those who have lost a loved one to suicide, those who have attempted suicide, and for family members. Our vision is compassionate, readily accessible, barrier-free, and sustained support, free of any mental-health stigma for any individual or entity in need.

NUTRITION/FOOD PROGRAMS Check also Aging & Caregiver Resources and Safe & Healthy at Home sections.

ADVOCAP (920) 922-7760 Fond du Lac (920) 725-2791 Neenah (920) 426-0150 Oshkosh advocap.org

BRANDON COMMUNITY FOOD PANTRY Brandon Village Hall (920) 273-9196

BROKEN BREAD PLUS FOOD PANTRY St. Paul’s Cathedral – Fond du Lac— (920) 921-3363

HOLYLAND FOOD PANTRY, INC. – MALONE (920) 418-1580

LOAVES AND FISHES Church of Peace – Fond du Lac (920) 904-5556

OUTAGAMIE COUNTY NUTRITION PROGRAM

PALLIATIVE CARE Palliative care is a specialized area of healthcare that focuses on relieving and preventing the suffering of patients. Unlike hospice care, palliative medicine is appropriate for patients in all disease stages, including those undergoing treatment for curable illnesses and those living with chronic diseases, as well as patients who are nearing the end of life.

OAKRIDGE GARDENS REHABILITATION & MEMORY CENTER

1700 Midway Rd., Menasha 54952 (920) 739-0111 higginsc@oakridgegardens.com oakridgegardens.com Oakridge Gardens offers short-term rehabilitation, skilled nursing, and memory care in a newly modernized building. Oakridge Gardens is committed to being responsive to the needs of residents and to being the best option for a continuum of care in the Fox Valley.

PHYSICAL THERAPY & REHABILITATION COPPERLEAF VILLAGE OF RIPON (920) 896-0440 copperleafcare.com

OAKRIDGE GARDENS REHABILITATION & MEMORY CENTER

ST. PAUL CENTER OF REHABILITATION

316 E. 14th St., Kaukauna 54130 (920) 766-6020 stpaulelders.org The Center of Rehabilitation offers inpatient and outpatient physical, occupational, and speech therapies on our campus or in your home.

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Hearing is a vital component of communicating. At Avada Hearing Care Centers, our mission is to improve the hearing life of every patient with integrity, caring and professionalism.

CELEBRATION ASSEMBLY CHURCH (ASSEMBLIES OF GOD) (920) 922-3990 celebrationassembly.org

ST. PETER’S LUTHERAN CHURCH AND SCHOOL (920) 517-9000 stpetersfdl.net

Early detection of hearing loss is the key to a successful outcome!

SUBSTANCE ABUSE & ADDICTIONS

Call today to schedule a FREE hearing assessment.*

Listed below are treatment programs and support resources.

TEST YOUR EARS AT 60 YEARS!

avada.com

30 convenient locations throughout Wisconsin. Call (888) 314-8802 to locate your nearest office. Mention code AGXQ-9 when calling

*See office for details. Information within this offer may vary or be subject to change. CFR#4F+C

ALCOHOLICS ANONYMOUS (920) (920) (920) (920) (920)

997-0221 Appleton 922-7512 Fond du Lac 432-2600 Green Bay 731-4331 Menasha 410-4620 Oshkosh

GAMBLING HOTLINE

PRESCRIPTION DRUG ASSISTANCE SENIORCARE PRESCRIPTION DRUG ASSISTANCE Fond du Lac Benefit Specialist (920) 929-3521

SENIORCARE RX WISCONSIN PRESCRIPTION DRUG ASSISTANCE PROGRAM (800) 657-2038 dhs.wisconsin.gov/seniorcare

SPAS/MASSAGE THERAPY BEESWAX SPA – KAUKAUNA (920) 462-7120 beeswaxdayspa.com

SPEECH THERAPY OAKRIDGE GARDENS REHABILITATION & MEMORY CENTER

SPIRITUAL HEALTH & WELL-BEING ASCENSION LUTHERAN CHURCH (920) 922-3353 alcfdl.org

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(800) 522-4700

JACKIE NITSCHKE CENTER (920) 435-2093 jackienitschkecenter.com

NOVA COUNSELING SERVICES (920) 231-0143 novaoshkosh.com

SAMHSA (SUBSTANCE ABUSE AND MENTAL HEALTH SERVICES ADMINISTRATION) NATIONAL HELPLINE 800-662-HELP (4357) samhsa.gov Free, 24hr/365day, information service in English and Spanish.

WISCONSIN COUNCIL ON PROBLEM GAMBLING (800) 426-2535 24hr/365day wi-problemgamblers.org

| 31 ALZHEIMER’S/ DEMENTIA/ MEMORY CARE This category is designed to provide information on housing options tailored to the special needs of individuals with memory/dementia concerns. These communities foster secured environments with specially designed programs and regulated care. Please also see the Alzheimer’s & Dementia section for additional resources and refer to the Wisconsin Department of Health Services website at dhs.wisconsin.gov/dementia.

ALLOUEZ PARKSIDE VILLAGE #1

RETIREMENT HOUSING & LONG-TERM CARE Alzheimer’s/Dementia/Memory Care Assisted Living - CBRF Assisted Living - RCAC Independent Living Apartments & Communities Insurance Skilled Nursing Care/Rehabilitation Subsidized Housing

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1901 Libal St., Green Bay 54301 (920) 430-8500 info@assistedlivingbyhillcrest.com assistedlivingbyhillcrest.com Allouez Parkside Village #1, part of Assisted Living By Hillcrest, strives to help residents maintain and improve their independence and quality of life all within a comfortable, homelike setting. We support our residents emotionally, socially, and physically by providing 24-hour care, beautiful individual apartments with private bathrooms, health monitoring and assistance with daily living, chef-prepared meals, and life-enriching activities with live entertainment. Each staff member, no matter their role or title, completes 10 hours of Alzheimer’s and dementia training annually per company standards. We set the bar by providing knowledgeable, compassionate care to assist our residents in continuing to live life with purpose in a secure setting.

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32 | RETIREMENT HOUSING & LONG-TERM CARE ALLOUEZ PARKSIDE VILLAGE #2

1901 Libal St., Green Bay 54301 (920) 432-3322 info@assistedlivingbyhillcrest.com assistedlivingbyhillcrest.com Allouez Parkside Village #2, part of Assisted Living By Hillcrest, is an entirely secured facility for those who suffer from Alzheimer’s and other memory related conditions. We are a trusted provider in Alzheimer’s and dementia care, as our staff is specially trained by completing 10 hours of dementia specific training annually per company policy. We set the bar by providing knowledgeable, compassionate care to assist our residents in continuing to live life with purpose. We support our residents emotionally, socially, and physically by providing 24-hour care, beautiful individual apartments with private bathrooms, health monitoring and assistance with daily living, chefprepared meals, and life-enriching activities with live entertainment.

AZURA MEMORY CARE

2220 Brookview Ct., Oshkosh 54904 (920) 284-6742 info@azuramemory.com azuramemory.com

Azura Memory Care is a trusted provider of specialized memory care homes located throughout Wisconsin. Known as the Dementia Care Experts, Azura’s advanced training and engagement program, MOSAIC, equips their Team to understand what is dementia and how to properly approach and communicate with those in their care and engage them to continue living a high quality of life. Their belief is that everyone deserves personalized care and to experience a MOSAIC of joy every day!

BRILLION WEST HAVEN

220 Achievement Dr., Brillion 54110 (920) 756-9100 info@assistedlivingbyhillcrest.com assistedlivingbyhillcrest.com Brillion West Haven, part of Assisted Living By Hillcrest, strives to help residents maintain and improve their independence and quality of life all within a comfortable, homelike setting. We support our residents emotionally, socially, and physically by providing 24-hour care, beautiful individual apartments with private bathrooms, health monitoring and assistance

with daily living, chef-prepared meals, and life-enriching activities with live entertainment. Each staff member, no matter their role or title, completes 10 hours of Alzheimer’s and dementia training annually per company standards. We set the bar by providing knowledgeable, compassionate care to assist our residents in continuing to live life with purpose in a secure setting.

CARE PARTNERS ASSISTED LIVING – APPLETON (920) 939-2020 carepartners-countryterrace.com

CARE PARTNERS ASSISTED LIVING – HORTONVILLE (920) 779-3221 carepartners-countryterrace.com

CARE PARTNERS ASSISTED LIVING – LITTLE CHUTE (920) 788-7033 carepartners-countryterrace.com

CARE PARTNERS ASSISTED LIVING – WINNECONNE (920) 582-4662 carepartners-countryterrace.com

CARE PARTNERS MEMORY CARE – APPLETON (920) 903-8325 carepartners-countryterrace.com

CARE PARTNERS MEMORY CARE – HORTONVILLE (920) 779-3221 carepartners-countryterrace.com

THE GARDENS OF FOUNTAIN WAY

RETIREMENT HOUSING & LONG-TERM CARE | 33 a full private bath, refrigerator, and microwave. Residents and families can enjoy a scenic and tranquil experience outside with the gazebo, walking paths, water fountains, and ponds.

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St. Paul Home | Long-term care nursing services

GARDENVIEW ASSISTED LIVING

and specialized Alzheimer’s/dementia services

St. Paul Center of Rehabilitation | Post-acute skilled nursing and therapy

1712 Midway Rd., Menasha 54952 (920) 733-4305 higginsc@oakridgegardens.com oakridgegardens.com GardenView Assisted Living offers a homelike atmosphere with private bedrooms that are within easy access of the dining room, den, and living room. All bedrooms have half or full baths. Residents and families can enjoy a lush, formal garden and patio outside.

St. Paul Villa | Assisted living St. Paul Manor | Memory care assisted living Life Enrichment Center | Club Gabriel adult

day services program, foot and nail clinic, massage therapy, and warm water therapy pool

St. Paul at Home | In-home non-medical care, Meals on Wheels, transportation services, and emergency response systems

Memory Care Community Resource Center St. Paul Hospice Services The Memory Care Center within the Neuroscience Group

LAKESHORE MANOR

316 E. Fourteenth St., Kaukauna, WI | (920) 766-6020 www.stpaulelders.org

(920) 486-4518 seniorlifestyle.com

OAK PARK PLACE GREEN BAY

421 Erie Rd., Green Bay 54311 (920) 301-4200 greenbaysales@oakparkplace.com oakparkplace.com The success-oriented memory care program at Oak Park Place provides 24-hour care in a safe, homelike environment. Meals, housekeeping, and activities designed specifically for residents with memory conditions make a comforting structured routine.

OAK PARK PLACE MENASHA

2205 Midway Rd., Menasha 54952 (920) 702-0000 menashasales@oakparkplace.com oakparkplace.com The success-oriented memory care program at Oak Park Place provides 24-hour care in a safe, homelike environment. Meals, housekeeping, and activities designed specifically

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Passages is a unique memory care program designed to support the individual and their loved ones through the transitions related to dementia. The person is assisted with maintaining and retaining individual life skills for as long as possible.

VALLEY VNA SENIOR CARE – NEENAH (920) 727-5544 valleyvna.org

WYNDEMERE ASSISTED LIVING & MEMORY CARE – GREEN BAY (920) 337-9434 wyndemereal.com

ST. PAUL ELDER SERVICES PASSAGES PROGRAM 316 E. 14th St., Kaukauna 54130 (920) 766-6020 stpaulelders.org

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Give Up THE GUILT

MOVING A PARENT INTO ASSISTED LIVING BY THERESA PICHELMEYER, EdD, RN, MPA We often feel guilty over the process of planning and moving aging parents into an assisted-living facility. Family and societal pressures have wrongly characterized these moves as abandonment, disloyalty, and laziness. How can we shape a healthier, more peaceful and realistic perspective?

The Reality of Your New Role As grown children, we continue to rely on our parents as caregivers, problem-solvers, and a safe shelter in a storm. Gradually, things begin to change, and we realize roles are shifting. A home workshop project that dad used to run with JANUARY–JUNE 2019 JOURNEY OF AGING

you as his assistant now has you taking the lead. Or you’re now going to medical appointments with mom to take notes and be her advocate, rather than her doing it for you. Many adult children find this reversal unnerving. They feel vulnerable because they’ve lost some feelings of stability and normalcy. It’s a natural evolution for children to begin caretaking for their aging parents, and it would be wrong to assume otherwise. Frailty, illness, and dementia will continue regardless of your attempts to stop their progression. And as your

relationship changes, don’t try to fix it. You’ll be overwhelmed by feelings of failure and aggravation if you to try make things the way they used to be. With help, you can keep your parents’ options open. It’s difficult to predict the progression of natural aging or a chronic disease, and a fall or health emergency immediately narrows the options for getting care in a setting of their choice. A decision to move a parent into a safe, comfortable apartment is a decision to accept reality. Don’t wait for a broken hip to direct decisions for you.

RETIREMENT HOUSING & LONG-TERM CARE | 35 When it Feels Like You’re Giving Up Moving a parent may feel like an admission that you can no longer care for them. This can be especially true if others view the move as you simply lightening your caregiving load. But why shouldn’t you? Few parents want their children to give up their lives. If they do, reject that premise as unfair and unrealistic. Just as your parents cared for you when you were young, you’re doing your best with the information and resources available. The life skills your parents taught you will help you navigate this change, and your commitment to them is a result of their commitment to you. Even after the decision has been made, doubt can linger. Did you ask enough questions? Was it clean? Did you check the facility’s state record for infractions? Did you seek people’s opinions? Anyone who has been through this arduous process knows it’s not for the faintof-heart. It’s hardly giving up; it’s stepping up.

exhausted and exasperated from the demands of caretaking and can once again visit simply for pleasure.

What Do I Do Now? After your parent moves into their new home, your responsibilities change but do not evaporate. Continue to advocate for your parent and be visible to other residents and staff. Visit and bring the kids and grandkids. Help decorate their new apartment with meaningful furniture and pictures from their prior home. Introduce them to residents and staff, especially if they’ve become isolated in their previous home due to illness or immobility. They may complain but try not to engage; instead, redirect the conversation. Your visits will no longer be focused on a to-do list. When you share the care, it frees you up to enjoy your parent without being physically and emotionally worn out. Joy can once again blossom in your relationship, and with this newfound joy, any guilt will slip away.

But I Promised “I promised them I’d never put them in a home.” Ask yourself what you were really saying when you made that promise. Were you saying you would always care for them, never abandon them, and keep them at the heart of the family? Your parent may have been working off a set of outdated impressions—perhaps a 1970s-style nursing home without the activities, décor, and dining options of today’s senior living communities. The decision to help your parent find a new place to live is in keeping with the spirit of the promise you made. In fact, it will go a long way to preserve a loving parentchild relationship. You won’t be

Theresa Pichelmeyer, EdD, RN, MPA, joined the staff at Valley VNA Senior Care in 2007 and serves as the nonprofit organization’s president and CEO. She has a special interest in meeting families and accompanying them as they help their loved ones age with grace and dignity.

ASSISTED LIVING - CBRF Community Based Residential Facility (CBRF). Licensing renewals and dates vary—please reference dhs.wisconsin .gov for information that is updated quarterly. Designed specifically for aging adults needing more advanced care, CBRFs are appropriate for individuals with general/frail requirements. They provide up to 28 hours per week of personalized supportive services, such as meals, health monitoring, medication management, housekeeping, and laundry similar to RCACs but also includes no more than three hours per week of licensed nursing care. CBRFs can work for those with Alzheimer’srelated dementias or other ailments requiring more in-depth monitoring.

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36 | RETIREMENT HOUSING & LONG-TERM CARE improve their independence and quality of life all within an all-secured, comfortable, homelike setting. We support our residents emotionally, socially, and physically by providing personalized 24-hour care and beautiful individual apartments for those with Alzheimer’s and dementia. We offer beautiful, individual apartments with private bathrooms, health monitoring and assistance with daily living, chef- prepared meals, and life-enriching activities with live entertainment.

ALPHA SENIOR CONCEPTS (920) 393-4531 alphaseniorconcepts.com

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their independence and quality of life all within a comfortable, homelike setting. We support our residents emotionally, socially, and physically by providing personalized 24-hour care, beautiful individual apartments with private bathrooms, health monitoring and assistance with daily living, chef- prepared meals, and life-enriching activities with live entertainment.

CARE PARTNERS MEMORY CARE – APPLETON

CARE PARTNERS ASSISTED LIVING – APPLETON

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CARE PARTNERS ASSISTED LIVING – HORTONVILLE (920) 779-3221 carepartners-countryterrace.com

CARE PARTNERS ASSISTED LIVING – LITTLE CHUTE (920) 788-7033 carepartners-countryterrace.com

CARE PARTNERS ASSISTED LIVING – WINNECONNE (920) 582-4662 carepartners-countryterrace.com

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CARE PARTNERS MEMORY CARE – HORTONVILLE (920) 779-3221 carepartners-countryterrace.com

CAROLINA ASSISTED LIVING – APPLETON

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THE GARDENS OF FOUNTAIN WAY

1050 Fountain Way, Menasha 54952 (920) 993-9980 higginsc@oakridgegardens.com oakridgegardens.com Gardens of Fountain Way is located in the beautiful Lake Park Villas development and offers stylishly decorated private rooms, all with a full private bath, refrigerator, and microwave. Residents and families can enjoy a scenic and tranquil experience outside with the gazebo, walking paths, water fountains, and ponds.

GARDENVIEW ASSISTED LIVING

RETIREMENT HOUSING & LONG-TERM CARE | 37 living room. All bedrooms have half or full baths. Residents and families can enjoy a lush, formal garden and patio outside.

OAK PARK PLACE MENASHA

2205 Midway Rd., Menasha 54952 (920) 702-0000 menashasales@oakparkplace.com oakparkplace.com Enhanced assisted living at Oak Park Place provides a higher level of care and support along with meals, activities, housekeeping services, and a full complement of activities. A variety of spacious floor plans are available.

SAPPHIRE, EMERALD, CORAL AND AMBER COURTS

1535 Lyon Dr., Neenah 54956 (920) 727-5555 valleyvna.org We are dedicated to providing individualized, compassionate care. Our 24-hour assisted-living care team gets to know each resident, providing the best in senior care. Our community is comfortable and safe, allowing each resident to live life to the fullest.

ST. PAUL MANOR MEMORY CARE ASSISTED LIVING

224 E. 14th St., Kaukauna 54130 (920) 766-6020 stpaulelders.org St. Paul Manor is a 24-bed CBRF that serves individuals living with dementia as part of our Passages portfolio of memory care services. With a focus on person-centered care and engagement, St. Paul Manor’s staff are expert dementia caregivers.

VALLEY VNA SENIOR CARE – NEENAH (920) 727-5544 valleyvna.org

WOODSIDE SENIOR COMMUNITIES

1040 Pilgrim Way, Green Bay 54304 (920) 499-1481 jpeters@woodsidelh.org woodsideseniorcommunities.org As a full continuum of care community, Woodside provides a wide spectrum of housing and service options including: independent senior house, assisted living, memory care, skilled nursing care, state-ofthe-art rehab center, and outpatient therapy services.

WYNDEMERE ASSISTED LIVING & MEMORY CARE – GREEN BAY (920) 337-9434 wyndemereal.com

ASSISTED LIVING - RCAC Residential Care Apartment Complex (RCAC). Licensing renewals and dates vary—please reference dhs.wisconsin .gov for information that is updated quarterly. Designed specifically for independent adults 55+, and provide up to 28 hours per week of personalized supportive services, such as meals, health monitoring, medication management, housekeeping, and laundry. Each apartment has a lockable entrance, kitchen, and bathroom. RCACs are not recommended for those with Alzheimer’s-related dementias

or other ailments requiring more in-depth monitoring.

ALEXANDRITE MANOR

1535 Lyon Dr., Neenah 54956 (920) 727-5555 valleyvna.org Independent Plus Apartment Living includes up to 28 hours of personal assistance per week. Because each person has individual needs, we’ll meet with you to create a service plan just for you.

APPLETON RETIREMENT COMMUNITY (920) 954-9990 appletonretirement.com

BELLEVUE RETIREMENT (920) 280-0446 seniorlifestyle.com

OAK PARK PLACE GREEN BAY

421 Erie Rd., Green Bay 54311 (920) 301-4200 greenbaysales@oakparkplace.com oakparkplace.com Assisted living at Oak Park Place is the perfect combination of independence, excellent care, and thoughtful services. A variety of floor plans are available and 24hour care is provided, along with meals, housekeeping services, and a full complement of activities.

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2205 Midway Rd., Menasha 54952 (920) 702-0000 menashasales@oakparkplace.com oakparkplace.com Assisted living at Oak Park Place is the perfect combination of independence, excellent care, and thoughtful services. A variety of floor plans are available and 24hour care is provided, along with meals, housekeeping services, and a full complement of activities.

ST. PAUL VILLA

316 E. 14th St., Kaukauna 54130 (920) 766-6020 stpaulelders.org St. Paul Villa offers assisted living services designed for individuals with minimal to moderate needs who are no longer able to maintain or reside in their own homes. Services include a full meal plan, wellness programs, and medication management.

ment, and conveniences of community living with amenities, such as meals, housekeeping, and organized social programs. Some Independent Living apartments/communities accept financial assistance through the federally funded Housing Choice Voucher program. For more information, please see Subsidized Housing category in this section.

ALEXANDRITE MANOR

1535 Lyon Dr., Neenah 54956 (920) 727-5555 valleyvna.org Apartment living gives you the freedom to live comfortably without the burden of maintaining a household. Opportunities for daily exercise, coffee hours, and educational programs abound. Know you have a continuum of care available when you need assistance.

APPLETON RETIREMENT COMMUNITY

VALLEY VNA SENIOR CARE APARTMENTS – NEENAH

(920) 954-9990 appletonretirement.com

(920) 727-5544 valleyvna.org

BELLA VISTA

INDEPENDENT LIVING APARTMENTS & COMMUNITIES Designed specifically for independent adults 55+ able to live on their own who desire the security, enjoy-

ing. Featuring cottage-style apartments with attached garage, washer, and dryer. Lawn mowing and snow plowing included! Income restrictions apply. Equal housing opportunity. Wheelchair accessible. CAP Services is an equal opportunity employer/provider.

COURTYARD SENIOR APARTMENTS – GRAND CHUTE (920) 731-8853 oakbrookcommunities.com/grand -chute/courtyard-grand-chute

GREENFIELD MANOR – LITTLE CHUTE (920) 687-0600 greenfieldmanorwi.com

HALLMARK PLACE – KIMBERLY (920) 687-9441 hallmarkplace.net

ISLAND SHORES (920) 280-0160 seniorlifestyle.com

LINWOOD PLACE – A MINISTRY OF FOX VALLEY LUTHERAN HOMES

(920) 267-6642 seniorlifestyle.com

(920) 734-7225 fvlhomes.org

BRILLION TOWNHOMES

OSHKOSH/WINNEBAGO COUNTY HOUSING AUTHORITY

230 Achievement Dr., Brillion 54110 (877) 377-1434 rentals@capmail.org capservices.org/rentals Where seniors 55+ enjoy comfortable, affordable independent liv-

(920) 424-1450 ohawcha.org

PARKSIDE APARTMENTS – PULASKI (920) 822-4653

SEYMOUR SENIOR VILLAGE

730 Bronson Rd., Seymour 54165 (877) 377-1434 rentals@capmail.org capservices.org/rentals Where seniors 55+ enjoy comfortable, affordable independent living. JANUARY–JUNE 2019 JOURNEY OF AGING

RETIREMENT HOUSING & LONG-TERM CARE | 39 Featuring cottage-style apartments with attached garage, washer, and dryer. Lawn mowing and snow plowing included! Income restrictions apply. Equal housing opportunity. Wheelchair accessible. CAP Services is an equal opportunity employer/provider.

VALLEY VNA SENIOR CARE NEENAH/ALEXANDRITE INDEPENDENT SENIOR APARTMENTS (920) 727-5544 valleyvna.org

WOODSIDE SENIOR COMMUNITIES

INSURANCE NORTHWESTERN MUTUAL FINANCIAL NETWORK – KATIE NAJARIAN/ SHIRLEY MCFARLANE

1659 N. Spring St., Ste. 108 Beaver Dam 53916 (920) 285-2460 katie.najarian@mn.com W189 N11100 Kleinmann Dr., Ste. 101 Germantown 53022 (414) 460-7569 shirley.mcfarlane@mn.com Most people would agree that their most important asset is their health. That is why it’s important to ensure that if you are ever faced with an extended illness, you will receive the kind of care you need.

When life offers the gift of time...

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SKILLED NURSING CARE/REHABILITATION Provides 24-hour licensed nursing services for those who need rehabilitative care or medical services too complex to be handled by an RCAC, CBRF, or AFH. Generally, Medicare doesn’t pay for long-term care. Medicare pays only for medically necessary skilled nursing/rehab facilities or home healthcare.

BREWSTER VILLAGE (920) 832-5400 brewstervillage.org

OAKRIDGE GARDENS REHABILITATION & MEMORY CENTER

needs of residents and to being the best option for a continuum of care in the Fox Valley.

PARK VIEW HEALTH CENTER

725 Butler Ave., Oshkosh 54901 (920) 237-6300 Oshkosh (920) 727-2883 Fox Cities kschrader@co.winnebago.wi.us co.winnebago.wi.us/parkview Park View Health Center is dedicated in providing long-term care, short-term rehabilitation care, and specialized behavioral services. PVHC’s consistently been named one of the top Wisconsin nursing home facilities and is a Citation of Merit recipient of Design/ Environments for Aging.

ST. PAUL HOME AND THE CENTER OF REHABILITATION

316 E. 14th St., Kaukauna 54130 (920) 766-6188 stpaulelders.org When the need for skilled nursing care arises for either short or long term, St. Paul Home provides services JOURNEYOFAGING.COM

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that will meet your needs and surpass your expectations for rehabilitation, general skilled long-term care, and memory care services.

WISCONSIN VETERANS HOME – KING

N2665 County Rd. QQ, King 54946 (715) 258-5586 veterans.home@dva.wisconsin.gov wisvets.com The WVH-King is a long-term and rehabilitative care facility caring for veterans and their eligible dependents. We offer quality medical, nursing, and memory care which enhances quality of life. WVH-King is set along the beautiful Waupaca Chain o’ Lakes.

WOODSIDE SENIOR COMMUNITIES

1040 Pilgrim Way, Green Bay 54304 (920) 499-1481 jpeters@woodsidelh.org woodsideseniorcommunities.org JANUARY–JUNE 2019 JOURNEY OF AGING

As a full continuum of care community, Woodside provides a wide spectrum of housing and service options including: independent senior house, assisted living, memory care, skilled nursing care, state-ofthe-art rehab center, and outpatient therapy services.

FOX VIEW MANOR – OMRO (920) 424-1450 ohawcha.org

MARIAN MANOR – OSHKOSH (920) 424-1450 ohawcha.org

RAULF PLACE – OSHKOSH

SUBSIDIZED HOUSING

(920) 424-1450 ohawcha.org

SUBSIDIZED – Apar tments/housing based on the resident’s adjusted gross income and use of subsidies provided by the government.

RIVERSIDE APARTMENTS – WINNECONNE

ALLEGIANT PROPERTY MANAGEMENT, LLC

ROUND HOUSE MANOR

(888) 393-3282 allegiantpropertymgmtllc.com

COURT TOWER – OSHKOSH (920) 424-1450 ohawcha.org

(920) 424-1450 ohawcha.org

(920) 766-2233 rhf.org

| 41 ADULT DAY CENTERS These are nonresidential facilities providing activities for the elderly and special-needs individuals. Most centers operate 10 to 12 hours a day and provide meals, social/recreational activities, and general supervision. These centers enable caregivers to go to work or to obtain a break from their responsibilities.

AGNESIAN HEALTHCARE – FOND DU LAC (920) 921-5812

NATIONAL ADULT DAY SERVICES ASSOCIATION (877) 745-1440 nadsa.org

ST. PAUL ELDER SERVICES – CLUB GABRIEL

316 E. 14th St., Kaukauna 54130 (920) 766-6188 stpaulelders.org Club Gabriel Adult Day Program offers therapeutic activities for those individuals who are still living in their own homes. Operating Monday through Friday, this program includes meals, activities, and socialization opportunities to keep the person engaged and active.

SAFE & HEALTHY AT HOME Adult Day Centers Assistive Technology Care Managers Emergency Response Systems Home Modification In-Home Medical Assistance/Licensed Medical Practitioners In-Home Nonmedical Assistance Meal Delivery Medical Equipment & Supplies Respite Care

ASSISTIVE TECHNOLOGY 41 41 42 42 42 42 42 43 45 46

This is equipment or technology that helps a person function better or more comfortably, perform Activities of Daily Living (ADLs), or live more independently.

CAPTEL, INC.

42 | SAFE & HEALTHY AT HOME every word the caller says throughout the conversation.

TELECOMMUNICATIONS EQUIPMENT PURCHASE PROGRAM (TEPP) (844) 411-3861 voice (844) 411-3862 TTY psc.wi.gov/pages/programs /tepp.aspx

LIFE ASSIST USA/ADVANCE SECURITY SOLUTIONS (888) 860-8098

LIFELINE THROUGH AGNESIAN HEALTHCARE (800) 732-1313 or (920) 926-5794

NIGHT OWL SUPPORT SYSTEMS, LLC (877) 559-1642 or (608) 960-4001

CARE MANAGERS Generally fee-based providers who assist patients and families in evaluating and coordinating available support systems needed now or in the future to assist with healthcare needs for aging adults.

CARE WISCONSIN

EMERGENCY RESPONSE SYSTEMS Below are listings for emergency response systems; remote monitoring/sensing; and off-site, directcare response systems for use at one’s residence.

SAFE LIVING TECHNOLOGIES/VRI CONNECT (262) 780-0848 or (800) 860-4230

SAFETYCHOICE BY COMFORT KEEPERS (920) 922-1779 or (800) 788-1078

HOME MODIFICATION AGNESIAN HEALTH SHOPPE

Home Modifications 307 Camelot Dr., Fond du Lac 54935 (920) 926-5277 agnesianhealthshoppe.com The Agnesian Health Shoppe provides the resources you need to stay home safely. Bathroom, bedroom, kitchen, and living areas modified to fit current and future mobility needs. Products include stair lifts, vehicle lifts, ramp access, lift chairs, and oxygen and mobility equipment. Billing and insurance assistance is available.

WISCONSIN WEATHERIZATION ASSISTANCE PROGRAM (WISWAP) (866) HEATWIS (432-8947) homeenergyplus.wi.gov

IN-HOME MEDICAL ASSISTANCE/ LICENSED MEDICAL PRACTITIONERS Only licensed agencies are allowed to provide medical services, including but not limited to medication management; medical social services; licensed medical staff; and occupational, physical, and speech therapies. Agencies may be certified to invoice Medicare, Medicaid, or long-term care insurance. Contact the agency for services and billing information. Some may offer respite care in your home. Check the Palliative Care category in the Health section too.

HEARTLAND HOME HEALTHCARE AND HOSPICE (866) 216-5708 heartlandhomehealth.com

HOMECARE ADVANTAGE, INC. (920) 437-0496 thehomecareadvantage.com

ST. PAUL ELDER SERVICES, INC.

316 E. 14th St., Kaukauna 54130 (920) 766-6187 stpaulelders.org With our partner RecoverHealth, we offer in-home skilled nursing care and therapy services.

VALLEY VNA SENIOR CARE – NEENAH (920) 727-5555 valleyvna.org

IN-HOME NONMEDICAL ASSISTANCE Listings offer a variety of nonmedical care and assistance in one’s residence. Examples include: • Chore Care—typically light housekeeping, laundry, gardening, home re-

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SAFE & HEALTHY AT HOME | 43 pair, meal preparation, and shopping. • Companion Care—typically companionship for a patient, allowing the caregiver to run errands, perform chores, sleep, or enjoy a break. • Personal Care—typically aid for individuals experiencing difficulties with activities of daily living. Services include bathing, grooming, meals, walking, dressing, and using the restroom.

HOME CARE ASSISTANCE (920) 966-6276 homecareassistancefoxcities.com

INTERIM HEALTHCARE OF THE FOX CITIES

1244 Appleton Rd., Ste. D Menasha 54952 (920) 944-8945 mmccarter@interimhealthcare.com interimhealthcare.com/foxcities Care you can trust! For over 50 years, Interim HealthCare has been a leader in home care, providing patients with trusted, experienced caregivers. From medication reminders to personal care and assistance with doctor appointments, our services are available 24/7.

ST. PAUL AT HOME

316 E. 14th St., Kaukauna 54130 (920) 766-6188 stpaulelders.org This programs offers a wide range of supportive services so that individuals can stay independent and living in their own home for as long as possible. Services include Meals on Wheels, transportation assistance, emergency response systems, and personal care assistance.

TIMESAVERS, INC. (920) 437-0496 thehomecareadvantage.com

Don’t Move.

MoDify.

• Stair lifts as little as $3,700! • Ramp access to your vehicle or home • Lift chairs • Bathroom safety aids and more! Ask about a private in-home consultation.

Call (920) 926-5277 or visit our showroom at 307 Camelot Drive Fond du Lac.

agnesianhealthshoppe.com VALLEY VNA SENIOR CARE

1535 Lyon Dr., Neenah 54956 (920) 727-5555 valleyvna.org Our in-home caregivers are compassionate professionals who come to your house to help you with day-to-day activities. Services can vary from dressing, bathing, and bathroom help to homemaking and fun and engaging lifeenrichment activities.

MEAL DELIVERY HOME DELIVERED MEALS – CALUMET COUNTY Calumet County ADRC (920) 849-1451 or (920) 989-2700 x4301

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Safe and Happy AT HOME BY BETH PROPP “Look, I put a pull cord on my ceiling fan before you got here,” she said. Confused, I looked, and sure enough an uncurled, yet still wavy piece of twine hung in the breeze as the fan churned.

that conflict as families? Here are some tips to help strike a balance between safety and happiness.

Prepare the Home

Have Essential Needs Delivered

• Installing rails to aid mobility. • Removing floor hazards. • Putting frequently used items within reach.

“Well, I stood on the chair. It was safer than the stool.”

Driving to the grocery store and loading heavy groceries into the car and house can be challenging for seniors. Employing an internetbased delivery service like Shipt to get essentials from local stores delivered to your loved one’s door may help. Many communities also have access to Meals on Wheels, and qualifying is not difficult.

What do we do when we think our aging loved ones need help or may not be safe but they insist on staying in their own homes? When the goals of safety and independence clash, there’s often conflict between older adults and their children, according to geriatrician Dr. Leslie Kernisan, MD. So how do we avoid

Medication refills can also be simplified. Set prescriptions up to be delivered by mail—check with your local pharmacy for options. Knowing your loved one has fresh food and their prescriptions, but not having to personally spend the time to get them, may be a big relief for a caregiver.

“How’d you do that?” I asked, waiting for an answer I wasn’t sure I really wanted to hear from the 88-year-old woman standing in front of me.

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Common and simple changes to increase home safety include:

Try to remember your loved one is very familiar with their home, so make changes slowly. Walking to the bathroom, moving around the kitchen, and similar activities are almost instinctual because they’ve done it for years. The familiarity of reaching for a countertop, dresser, or favorite chair is preprogramed safety. While it’s important to put safety above aesthetics, try to provide as much choice as possible. Remind your loved one that the goal is to keep them in their home. Arranging

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help with cleaning or yard work may be nonnegotiable, but which cupboards get rearranged and what furniture is moved requires artful discussion. Look for the wins, and listen to objections. The chair you think should go may be the one remaining reminder of their spouse.

Seek Peace as a Caregiver As caregivers, we often spend a lot of time anticipating and worrying our loved one will fall or do something nonsensical. Arguments about potentially dangerous tasks, like driving, using step stools, and cooking, can be common. The worrying can be exhausting, as can the controlling. As caring families, we must remember that our loved ones are adults with the freedom to make these decisions. Acceptance of that can allow your peace, their happiness, and reduce conflict.

Beth Propp is a compassionate healthcare professional with decades of experience as a registered nurse, family caregiver, patient advocate, and educator. She has become a Certified Master Trainer for AGE-u-cate Training Institute, where she enjoys helping others find empathy and compassion for those suffering from dementia. Beth resides in Green Bay.

KAUKAUNA MEALS ON WHEELS Kaukauna, Little Chute, Kimberly, Combined Locks St. Paul Elder Services (920) 766-6020 x212

MOBILE MEALS – FOND DU LAC Fond du Lac ADRC (920) 929-3113

OSHKOSH FAMILY INC., MEALS ON WHEELS Homebound Oshkosh only (920) 651-3316

OUTAGAMIE COUNTY NUTRITION PROGRAM OUTAGAMIE COUNTY ADRC (920) 832-5178

VALLEY VNA MEALS ON WHEELS Homebound in Neenah and Menasha only (920) 727-5555

WINNEBAGO COUNTY NUTRITION PROGRAM (920) 725-2791 or (800) 922-7760

MEDICAL EQUIPMENT & SUPPLIES Suppliers listed typically sell, rent, or loan a range of home medical equipment and supplies. Check also the Aging & Caregiver Resources section.

AGNESIAN HEALTH SHOPPE

CPAP Supplies & Equipment 307 Camelot Dr., Fond du Lac 54935 (920) 926-5277 agnesianhealthshoppe.com The Agnesian Health Shoppe features home medical and respiratory equipment, including CPAP, BiPAP, and supplies. On-site respiratory therapists are available to assist with

all respiratory and sleeping needs. CPAP specialists can help replace worn masks, tubing, and filters for a better and healthier night’s sleep. A reorder supply program is available where CPAP/BiPAP supplies can be mailed directly to homes.

AGNESIAN HEALTH SHOPPE

Home Oxygen Services 307 Camelot Dr., Fond du Lac 54935 (920) 926-5277 agnesianhealthshoppe.com An extensive home oxygen product selection gives patients a choice for their lifestyle and comfort, with equipment designed for each individual’s home oxygen needs. Certified oxygen technicians provide individualized care plans and teach individuals how to use their equipment, offering services such as: ongoing consultation, personal follow-up on patient compliance and needs, and assistance with respiratory equipment when traveling. Products include: oxygen concentrators, portable lightweight cylinders, and portable oxygen concentrators and home-fill systems.

CAPTEL® CAPTIONED TELEPHONE

CapTel, Inc. (920) 540-0704 captel.com Ideal for people with hearing loss, the CapTel Captioned Telephone works like any other telephone with one important addition: it displays every word the caller says throughout the conversation.

HME HOME MEDICAL (800) 236-2619 hmehomemedical.com

LOAN CLOSET MEDICAL EQUIPMENT Fond du Lac County Health Department (920) 929-3085 JOURNEYOFAGING.COM

46 | SAFE & HEALTHY AT HOME RESPITE CARE Respite care provides temporary relief to the primary caregiver. This care is to relieve unpaid, primary caregivers whose patients require constant supervision and cannot be left alone due to mental or physical problems. This care can be provided at an Adult Day Center, in your own residence, or at a facility.

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INTERIM HEALTHCARE OF THE FOX CITIES 1244 Appleton Rd., Ste. D Menasha 54952 (920) 944-8945 mmccarter@interimhealthcare.com interimhealthcare.com/foxcities

At Interim HealthCare, we understand the physical, mental, and emotional demands of being a family caregiver. Giving so much of yourself can be overwhelming at times. That’s why we provide short-term care that gives respite to family caregivers.

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J O U R N E YO FAG I N G .C O M

They probably weren’t thinking about home health care fifty years ago. At Interim, we were already providing it. Since 1966, Interim HealthCare has helped families care for their loved ones with a wide range of in-home services, all provided with the highest levels of professionalism and compassion. And, as an industry leader for over 50 years, we offer a level of stability, security, and experience unavailable anywhere else.

PROVIDING HOME CARE NATIONWIDE FOR OVER 50 YEARS

www.interimhealthcare.com/andlocalcitynamehere (920) 944-8945 | www.interimhealthcare.com/foxcities 954-000-0000 ©2018 Interim HealthCare Inc. Each office is independently owned and operated. Photo: wikipedia.org/wiki/File:Henry_Brandon_Family.jpg, creativecommons.org/licenses/by/3.0/

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