Journey of Aging - South Central WI March-August 2021 by Towns & Associates

MARCH–AUGUST 2021

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CONTENTS MARCH–AUGUST 2021

AGING & CAREGIVER RESOURCES

Social Connections and Activity Help Slow Seniors’ Cognitive Decline

ALZHEIMER’S & DEMENTIA

END OF LIFE

ESSENTIAL PREPARATION

GENERAL

HEALTH

RETIREMENT HOUSING & LONG-TERM CARE

SAFE & HEALTHY AT HOME

Alzheimer’s & Dementia Alliance of Wisconsin

publisher Amy S. Johnson editorial director & director of sales Amy S. Johnson lead designer Barbara Wilson senior copy editor Kyle Jacobson copy editor Krystle Naab designers Jennifer Denman, Crea Stellmacher, Linda Walker administration Debora Knutson contributing writers Gunderson Life Celebration Centers, Cricket Hesselberg, Kewana Jamison,

Grieving: How to Help

Planning for Your Pets

How to Spot Five Common Scams Targeting Seniors

Shopping for Healthy Food Safely Warning Sign: When an Aging Parent Needs Help

So Many Options—Where to Start?

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Beth Johnson, Sarah Linn, Becky Mulhern, Brendon Smith, Jessica Steinhoff, Wendy Sulzer

photographs

It Takes a Village

All Saints Neighborhood, Dane County Humane Society, Oakwood Village, The Pines Senior Living, Sharing Active Independent Lives (SAIL)

PO Box 174 Baraboo, WI 53913-0174 P (608) 356-8757 • F (608) 356-8875 JOURNEYOFAGING.COM

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ADVERTISER INDEX Abel Contemporary Gallery

The Legacy of DeForest

Agrace Age at Home

Madison Computer Works

Agrace Hospice & Palliative Care

Madison Essentials

All Saints Neighborhood

Moving Maude

Alzheimer’s & Dementia Alliance

My Choice Wisconsin

Attic Angel Community

NewBridge

AVID Risk Solutions

Noel Manor

Baraboo Chamber of Commerce

Oak Park Place

BrightStar Senior Living

67 & 91

Oakwood Village

100 2

Broihahn Management & Consulting, LLC

Paisan’s

Capitol Lakes Retirement Community

The Pines Senior Living

CapTel, Inc.

Porta Bella

62 & 88

Quivey’s Grove

REACH-A-Child

Restaino & Associates Realtors

Catholic Charities Colonial View Apartments ComForCare Home Care Services

Community Living Alliance, Inc.

Restaino & Associates Realtors: Jim Wilson

Coventry Village

Rise Up, Inc.

Dane Buy Local

RSVP of Dane County

SAIL (Sharing Active Independent Lives)

Segues, LLC

SSM Health at Home

Dane County Humane Society Goodman’s Jewelers Gunderson Funeral and Cremation

37 & 50 46 24 & 32

Haskins Short & Brindley, LLC

Stoughton Hospital

Heartland Hospice Care

Sugar River Pizza

Heritage Senior Living

Visiting Angels

Home Elements & Concepts

Ward-Brodt Music

Horizon Senior Housing

Willy Street Co-op

Keller Apartments - Whitcomb Square

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Abuse & Neglect

ADRCs (Aging & Disability Resource Centers)

Advocacy Groups & Support

Benefit Specialists

Caregiver Information

Case Managers

10 Coalitions 10 Consumer Protection 10 Crime Prevention & Safety 11 Disability Resources 11 Energy (Utilities) 11 Health Plans & Assistance 12 Membership Programs 12 Nonprofit Organizations 13 Senior Centers 14 Social Services 14 Veteran Services

AGING & CAREGIVER RESOURCES JOURNEYOFAGING.COM

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SOCIAL CONNECTIONS and ACTIVITY

HELP SLOW SENIORS’ COGNITIVE DECLINE BY KEWANA JAMISON, RN

Retirement went well at first for 70-year-old lifelong Wisconsin farmer Dave: no more cows to milk and hay to bale. But over the next five years, he slowly changed. Once a friendly storyteller, Dave now struggled to hold a conversation. His thoughts wandered and his sentences trailed off. He coped with the changes by spending more time alone. In his favorite recliner, watching sports and endless reruns of Perry Mason, Dave felt comfortable, but his world was shrinking. MARCH–AUGUST 2021 JOURNEY OF AGING

Eventually, Dave refused to go to church. He could no longer keep up with the other card players at the VFW, and it wasn’t safe for him to drive to town. His wife worried about his isolation and whether Dave would go downhill even faster. Dave’s story hits home for many Wisconsin families. About one in every four Americans aged 65+ is socially isolated, and a significant number of adults report feeling lonely, according

to a 2020 Consensus Study Report by the National Academies of Sciences, Engineering, and Medicine. The same report notes that social isolation is associated with about a 50 percent increased risk of dementia. We are social beings who like to see and be with other people, so a phone call or a video chat doesn’t always suffice. Sometimes, we need to be around other people and talk. Since a conversation might jog a happy memory for someone

AGING & CAREGIVER RESOURCES | 7 whose memory is slipping, families look for ways to restore the connections, happiness, and health their senior loved ones have lost. There are mental benefits if your senior loved one is able to be active, interact with others, and do interesting and challenging things. A 2012 scientific literature review by the Journal of Aging Research found that “physical activity, intellectual stimulation, and socialization all provide benefits to cognition and overall wellbeing in patients with age-related cognitive impairments.” Some of the usual places seniors could socialize, senior centers, churches, and social clubs, may still be off limits because of the pandemic, so other options are needed. 1. Arrange for friends and family to visit regularly, socially distancing when appropriate. Make sure your loved one has their hearing aids and glasses to help with communication. If possible, move visits outdoors to enjoy the moodenhancing sunshine and sounds of nature. 2. If you’re visiting with a senior, Dementia Care Central, a website

of the National Institute on Aging, suggests planning enough time and talking where distractions are limited. Ask about their family, siblings, and where they grew up. People love talking about their lives, and the experience is enhanced when you really listen to them and acknowledge what they’re saying. If you don’t know what to talk about with a person who has dementia, talk about their environment. The Alzheimer’s Society says, “Anything that they can see, hear, or touch might be of interest.” Use simple sentences, and don’t correct or argue if they are mistaken about details. Just go with the flow. 3. Hire in-home caregivers to spend time with your loved one a few days a week. The right caregiver can build rapport and be a fresh audience. They can also help out by preparing meals or doing light housekeeping. Conserving energy is key for family caregivers. 4. Use an adult day center. Although scarce, these are safe places for your senior loved one to be with other people, make friends, and try different mentally stimulating

activities. More importantly, you will have an opportunity to take a break and rest, shop, or go to your own medical appointments without splitting your attention. 5. At home, let your senior help you. People love to do what they’re used to—what they know. They want to feel involved, wanted, and needed. If they’re able, have them clear the table, bake, fold clothes, and help with gardening. Moving around also promotes blood flow and prevents skin breakdown. Staying stationary too long day after day can lead to blood clots, pressure sores, constipation, and even pneumonia. Fostering your loved one’s sense of well-being will help them stay sharper and has the potential to slow their cognitive decline. Use these ideas to help you along the way, and keep up the good work.

Kewana Jamison, RN, is manager of the Agrace Adult Day Center in Madison. She has worked at several skilled nursing facilities in the Madison area caring for residents with dementia. She loves telling stories and jokes; eating BBQ and soul food; playing dominoes, pool, and darts; and taking cruises.

Agrace Adult Day Center 1702 W. Beltline Hwy. Madison, WI 53713 (608) 276-4660

agrace.org/adultdaycenter JOURNEYOFAGING.COM

8 | AGING & CAREGIVER RESOURCES ABUSE & NEGLECT Under Wisconsin statutes, elder abuse and neglect includes physical, emotional, financial, and sexual abuse/assault.

ADULT PROTECTIVE SERVICES – ADULT/ELDER AT RISK (608) 261-9933 danecountyhumanservices.org

COMPLAINTS PERTAINING TO THESE WISCONSIN PROVIDERS • Assisted-living providers: Adult Day Centers, AFHs, CBRFs, and RCACs (608) 264-9888 or (800) 642-6552

• Caregiver misconduct: noncredentialed caregivers, credentialed staff, and professional staff (608) 261-8319 or (800) 642-6552 • Home health and hospice agencies (608) 267-1441 or (800) 642-6552 • Health and residential care providers: adult day care, ambulatory surgical centers, clinical laboratories, corporate guardianships, hospitals, outpatient rehabilitation, pain clinics, personal care agencies, and rural healthcare clinics (608) 266-8481 or (800) 642-6552 • Mental health and substance abuse treatment programs (608) 266-2717 or (800) 642-6552 • State-licensed nursing homes (608) 266-7474 or (800) 642-6552

ELDER ABUSE AND NEGLECT HELPLINE (608) 261-9933 or 911

FINANCIAL ABUSE SPECIALIST TEAM (FAST) HELPLINE (608) 261-7326 danecountyhumanservices.org

ADRCs

Photograph provided by The Pines Senior Living

ADRCs (Aging & Disability Resource Centers) can help make connections to resources about in-home personal care and nursing, housing options, housekeeping and chore services, home modifications, adaptive equipment, transportation, health, nutrition, homedelivered meal programs, Medicare, Medicaid, Social Security, caregiver supports, and respite information. Below are the ADRCs in your area by county.

ADRC OF COLUMBIA COUNTY (608) 742-9233 co.columbia.wi.us /columbia-county/adrc

ADRC OF DANE COUNTY (608) 240-7400 daneadrc.org

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ADRC OF DODGE COUNTY (920) 386-3580 Find us on Facebook

ADRC OF JEFFERSON COUNTY (920) 674-8734 jeffersoncountywi.gov

ADRC OF ROCK COUNTY (608) 741-3600 co.rock.wi.us/adrc

ADRC OF SAUK COUNTY Serving Crawford, Juneau, Richland & Sauk Counties (608) 355-3289 adrceagle.org

ADVOCACY GROUPS & SUPPORT Advocacy can be described as support for or on behalf of someone for a particular cause, issue, or policy.

AARP (866) 448-3611 aarp.org/wi

BBB OF WISCONSIN (BETTER BUSINESS BUREAU) (414) 847-6000 or (800) 273-1002 bbb.org/wisconsin

COALITION OF WISCONSIN AGING GROUPS (CWAG) (608) 224-0606 or (800) 488-2596 cwagwisconsin.org

DISABILITY RIGHTS WISCONSIN (608) 267-0214 disabilityrightswi.org

GREATER WISCONSIN AGENCY ON AGING RESOURCES (GWAAR) (608) 243-5670 gwaar.org

LONG-TERM CARE INSURANCE ASSISTANCE (608) 266-3585 oci.wi.gov/pages/consumers /longtermcare.aspx

AGING & CAREGIVER RESOURCES | 9 OUTREACH LGBT COMMUNITY CENTER SENIOR ADVOCATE PROGRAM SERVING DANE COUNTY (608) 255-8582 lgbtoutreach.org

WISCONSIN BOARD ON AGING & LONG-TERM CARE Ombudsman Program (800) 815-0015 longtermcare.wi.gov

BENEFIT SPECIALISTS Helpful information to note: Elderly Benefit Specialists (EBS) assist individuals 60+ to determine available private or government benefits. Disability Benefit Specialists (DBS) assist people between the ages of 18 and 59 with physical, developmental, and mental disabilities. See also ADRCs and Case Managers categories in this section to assist with individual benefits.

BENEFITS AND EMPLOYMENT COUNSELING (608) 246-3444 eri-wi.org/services/benefits

CAREGIVER INFORMATION A caregiver is an individual who provides support and assistance to individuals with disabilities or long-term conditions. This assistance can be classified as hands on, financial, emotional, formal, and informal. Below you will find training programs, education, information, and support groups. Visit the Safe & Healthy at Home section to find support assistance in your residence.

CATHOLIC CHARITIES

702 S. High Point Rd., Ste. 103 Madison 53719 (608) 826-8000 chesselberg@ccmadison.org ccmadison.org Catholic Charities’ Aging Services helps older adults maintain the independence

of living in their homes and communities while assisting caregivers with education and respite programs. Services include the Adult Day Center, All Saints Neighborhood, CompanionCare, and Respite Care Teams.

COMFOR CARE

Home Care Services 8383 Greenway Blvd., Ste. 600 Middleton 53562 (608) 836-1868 home@cfchomecare.com comforcare.com/madison ComForCare Home Care Services provides assistance with activities of daily living, such as light housekeeping, meal preparation, dressing, bathroom assistance, home maintenance, and other services. ComForCare is an effective solution for the elderly who prefer to remain at home.

DANE COUNTY UNITED WAY Caregiver Information (608) 246-4350 unitedwaydanecounty.org/who -is-a-caregiver

JEWISH SOCIAL SERVICES OF MADISON (608) 442-4081 jssmadison.org

RESPITE CARE ASSOCIATION OF WISCONSIN (608) 222-2033 respitecarewi.org

VA CAREGIVER SUPPORT (855) 260-3274 caregiver.va.gov

WISCONSIN INSTITUTE FOR HEALTHY AGING (608) 243-5690 wihealthyaging.org

WISCONSIN’S FAMILY CAREGIVER SUPPORT PROGRAMS (866) 843-9810 wisconsincaregiver.org

CASE MANAGERS Case managers assist patients and families in evaluating, arranging, and coordinating available support systems needed now or in the future. Depending on expertise, they can assist in determining next steps in legal situations, healthcare, benefits, and more. Check the Coalitions and Senior Centers categories in this section, as they often have case managers on staff. There is also a Care Managers category under the Safe & Healthy at Home section.

COMMUNITY LIVING ALLIANCE (CLA)

1414 MacArthur Rd., Madison 53714 (608) 242-8335 clanet.org Nonprofit organization dedicated to empowering older adults and people with disabilities or chronic illnesses to live independently and with dignity in their homes. CLA provides individualized services, including case JOURNEYOFAGING.COM

10 | AGING & CAREGIVER RESOURCES management, personal care, support brokering, and home chore services that help people to improve their quality of life and live with self-determination.

MADISON PARENT CARE LLC (608) 228-9797 madisonparentcare.com

NEWBRIDGE

1625 Northport Dr., Ste. 125 Madison, WI 53704 5724 Raymond Rd., Madison 53711 4142 Monona Dr., Madison 53716 (608) 512-0000 newbridgemadison.org The mission of NewBridge is to provide older adults a bridge to successful aging. Case Management provides older adults support needed to live independently by identifying resources and coordinating services. Information, referrals, and advocacy provided through case management home visit assessments of each older adult’s individual needs.

COALITIONS Coalitions are a great source of information and a good place to start researching specific areas of interest (for example, senior housing options). Case managers are oftentimes on staff to help coordinate services and assistance when needed.

NEWBRIDGE (608) 512-0000 newbridgemadison.org

SAFE COMMUNITIES MADISON-DANE COUNTY (608) 441-3060 safercommunity.net /falls_prevention.php

CONSUMER PROTECTION BBB OF WISCONSIN (BETTER BUSINESS BUREAU) Main Office - Milwaukee (414) 847-6000 or (800) 273-1002 bbb.org/wisconsin

CONSUMER PROTECTION (608) 266-1221 doj.state.wi.us

WISCONSIN DEPARTMENT OF AGRICULTURE, TRADE AND CONSUMER PROTECTION

Bureau of Consumer Protection 2811 Agriculture Dr., PO Box 8911 Madison 53708 (800) 422-7128 datcphotline@wi.gov datcp.wi.gov Are you being targeted or victimized by a scammer? The Bureau of Consumer Protection mediates consumer complaints and helps consumers learn about their rights. Visit our website or contact us to learn more about Wisconsin’s Do Not Call telemarketing law and to get copies of the Wisconsin Senior Guide and other informational brochures.

CRIME PREVENTION & SAFETY CRIME PREVENTION PROGRAM (608) 266-4238 cityofmadison.com/police/safety /crimeprevention

CRIME VICTIM COMPENSATION PROGRAM (608) 264-9497 doj.state.wi.us

CYBER SAFETY (608) 255-2345 cityofmadison.com/police/safety/cyber

FINANCIAL ABUSE SPECIALIST TEAM (FAST) HELPLINE (608) 261-7326 danecountyhumanservices.org

TRIAD—RSVP OF DANE COUNTY

6501 Watts Rd., Ste. 250, Madison 53719 (608) 441-7897 info@rsvpdane.org rsvpdane.org Presentations on crime prevention and safety topics are free and open to the public at various locations in Cottage Grove, Verona, and Madison. Free winterization car checks for seniors. Annual Dane County/State Triad Crime Prevention and Safety Conference & Expo.

WISCONSIN DEPARTMENT OF AGRICULTURE, TRADE AND CONSUMER PROTECTION

AGING & CAREGIVER RESOURCES | 11 the Wisconsin Senior Guide and other informational brochures.

DISABILITY RESOURCES See also the this section.

ADRCs

category

ACCESS TO INDEPENDENCE (608) 242-8484 accesstoind.org

BLIND AND VISUALLY IMPAIRED INFORMATION & SERVICES – BY COUNTY (888) 879-0017 (Central Office) dhs.wisconsin.gov/blind

BRAILLE LIBRARY AND TRANSCRIBING SERVICES (608) 233-0222 bltsinc.org

BUREAU OF AGING AND DISABILITY RESOURCES (608) 266-2536 dhs.wisconsin.gov/dph/badr.htm

CAPTEL, INC.

CapTel® Captioned Telephone 450 Science Dr., Madison 53711 (800) 233-9130 captel.com Ideal for people with hearing loss, the CapTel Captioned Telephone works like any other telephone with one important addition: it displays every word the caller says throughout the conversation.

DISABILITY RIGHTS WISCONSIN (DRW) (608) 267-0214 disabilityrightswi.org

INTEGRITY RESIDENTIAL SERVICES (608) 222-1113 integrityrs.net

MY CHOICE WISCONSIN

1617 Sherman Ave., Madison 53704 (800) 963-0035 mychoicewi.org/JA My Choice Wisconsin offers governmentfunded programs to frail seniors and

adults with disabilities. We match members to the health and long-term care supports and services they need.

STATE ORGANIZATION ON ARTS AND DISABILITY

KEEP WISCONSIN WARM/ COOL FUND (800) 891-WARM (9276) kwwf.org

MADISON GAS & ELECTRIC

(608) 241-2131 vsawis.org

(608) 252-7222 mge.com

WISCONSIN INSTITUTE FOR HEALTHY AGING

WISCONSIN HOME ENERGY ASSISTANCE PROGRAM (WHEAP)

(608) 243-5690 wihealthyaging.org

(608) 267-3680 homeenergyplus.wi.gov

WISCONSIN TALKING BOOK AND BRAILLE LIBRARY (WTBBL) (800) 242-8822 dpi.wi.gov/talkingbooks

ENERGY (UTILITIES) ALLIANT ENERGY (800) ALLIANT (255-4268) alliantenergy.com

HEALTH PLANS & ASSISTANCE Review the Case Managers and Benefit Specialists categories in this section.

ACCESS WISCONSIN WISCONSIN DEPARTMENT OF HEALTH SERVICES (800) 362-3002 access.wisconsin.gov JOURNEYOFAGING.COM

12 | AGING & CAREGIVER RESOURCES MEMBERSHIP PROGRAMS Specific interests, sometimes at a cost.

PLATO/UW-MADISON CONTINUING STUDIES (608) 262-5823 platomadison.org

SHARING ACTIVE INDEPENDENT LIVES (SAIL) Photograph provided by Oakwood Village

6209 Mineral Point Rd., Ste. 210 Madison 53705 (608) 230-4321 info@sailtoday.org sailtoday.org SAIL is a nonprofit membership organization created to enable members 55+ to live secure, engaged lives on their own terms. Members support each other and the organization in a variety of ways. An extensive network of resources is available, such as prescreened vendors, daily check-in service, house checks, home technology assistance, discounted personal emergency services, and more —all for less than $1 per day!

AVID RISK SOLUTIONS

2501 Parmenter St., Ste. 200A Middleton 53562 (608) 827-4525 sue.schmitt@avidrisk.com avidrisk.com Health insurance agent with a focus on choosing the senior health plan that best meets your needs. Will review Medicare Supplement, Medicare Advantage, and/or Prescription Drug Plan options. We represent many different insurance companies providing you more choices.

BOARD ON AGING & LONG-TERM CARE Medigap helpline & health insurance related questions (800) 242-1060 longtermcare.wi.gov

MY CHOICE WISCONSIN

1617 Sherman Ave., Madison 53704 (800) 963-0035 mychoicewi.org/JA My Choice Wisconsin offers governmentfunded programs to frail seniors and adults with disabilities. We match members to the health and long-term care supports and services they need.

SOCIAL SECURITY ADMINISTRATION (866) 770-2262 ssa.gov

WISCONSIN OFFICE OF THE SENIOR ISSUES COMMISSIONER OF INSURANCE (608) 266-3585 oci.wi.gov/consumer/seniors.htm

WISCONSIN SENIOR MEDICARE PATROL (800) 488-2596 wisconsinsmp.org

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NONPROFIT ORGANIZATIONS ACCESS TO INDEPENDENCE (608) 242-8484 accesstoind.org

BARABOO AREA CHAMBER OF COMMERCE

600 W. Chestnut St., Baraboo 53913 (608) 356-8333 events@baraboochamber.com baraboo.com A nonprofit organization dedicated to promoting tourism in the Baraboo Area and boosting the local economy.

COMMUNITY SHARES OF WISCONSIN (608) 256-1066 communityshares.com

AGING & CAREGIVER RESOURCES | 13 OUTREACH LGBT COMMUNITY CENTER SENIOR ADVOCATE PROGRAM SERVING DANE COUNTY (608) 255-8582 lgbtoutreach.org

SHARING ACTIVE INDEPENDENT LIVES (SAIL) (608) 230-4321 sailtoday.org

UNIVERSITY OF WISCONSIN FOUNDATION (608) 263-4545 supportuw.org

VSA WISCONSIN INC. (608) 241-2131 vsawis.org

WISCONSIN ASSISTED LIVING ASSOCIATION (WALA) (608) 288-0246 ewala.org

COLONIAL CLUB SENIOR ACTIVITY CENTER - SUN PRAIRIE

DEFOREST AREA COMMUNITY SENIOR CENTER

(608) 837-4611 colonialclub.org

(608) 846-9469 deforestcenter.org

COMMUNITY ACTIVITIES & SERVICES DEPARTMENT CITY OF BEAVER DAM

FITCHBURG SENIOR CENTER

209 Center St., Beaver Dam 53916 (920) 887-4639 jstephens@cityofbeaverdam.com cityofbeaverdam.com The Community Activities & Services Department provides a variety of educational and recreational activities throughout the year for active older adults. Dodge County also provides a nutritional meal for seniors 60+ (or one spouse must be 60) at The Watermark, Monday-Friday at 11:30 a.m. A donation of $3.99 per meal is suggested.

CREEKSIDE PLACE - EVANSVILLE (608) 882-0407

(608) 270-4290 fitchburgwi.gov/621/senior-center

GOODMAN COMMUNITY CENTER (608) 241-1574 goodmancenter.org/programs /older-adults

JANESVILLE CITY - SENIOR CENTER (608) 755-3040

MADISON SENIOR CENTER (608) 266-6581 cityofmadison.com/seniorcenter

MCFARLAND SENIOR CENTER & OUTREACH (608) 838-7117 mcfarland.wi.us

WISCONSIN INSTITUTE FOR HEALTHY AGING (608) 243-5690 wihealthyaging.org

SENIOR CENTERS

with SAIL!

Senior centers are a wonderful way to interact with peers and fulfill interests. Some offer unique programming and special services—each one is a little different from another. All are there to help, so feel free to give them a call and inquire.

BARABOO SENIOR CITIZEN CENTER (608) 356-8464

BELLEVILLE/SUGAR RIVER SENIOR CENTER (608) 424-6007 bellevillewi.org

CITY OF VERONA SENIOR CENTER (608) 845-7471

SAIL is a membership of older adults who wish to live independent yet connected lives. Member benefits include: • educational, social, and volunteer opportunities • automated daily check-in • access to vetted service providers • and more! sailtoday.org and (608) 230-4321 SAIL™ is a non-profit program of AgeBetter, Inc. in collaboration with Attic Angel Association and Oakwood Village. JOURNEYOFAGING.COM

14 | AGING & CAREGIVER RESOURCES OUTREACH LGBT COMMUNITY CENTER SENIOR ADVOCATE PROGRAM SERVING DANE COUNTY (608) 255-8582 lgbtoutreach.org

VETERAN SERVICES ADDICTIVE DISORDERS TREATMENT PROGRAM William S. Middleton Memorial Veterans Hospital (608) 280-7073 madison.va.gov/services/adtp.asp Photograph provided by All Saints Neighborhood

BADGER HONOR FLIGHT, INC. (608) 616-0243 badgerhonorflight.org

MIDDLETON SENIOR CENTER

SUGAR RIVER SENIOR CENTER

(608) 831-2373 ci.middleton.wi.us

(608) 424-6007

COMFORT KEEPERS

VERONA SENIOR CENTER

(608) 218-4861 madison-231.comfortkeepers.com

MONONA SENIOR CENTER (608) 222-3415 mymonona.com

MT. HOREB SENIOR CENTER (608) 437-6902 mounthorebwi.info

NEWBRIDGE (608) 512-0000 newbridgemadison.org

NORTHWEST DANE SENIOR SERVICES - CROSS PLAINS (608) 798-6937 nwdss.org

OREGON AREA SENIOR CENTER (608) 835-5801 oregonareaseniorcenterwisconsin.com

SENIOR CITIZEN’S CENTER (608) 676-4600

SOUTHWEST DANE SENIOR OUTREACH (608) 437-6902

STOUGHTON AREA SENIOR CENTER (608) 873-8585 ci.stoughton.wi.us/senior MARCH–AUGUST 2021 JOURNEY OF AGING

(608) 845-7471 ci.verona.wi.us

WATERTOWN SENIOR CITIZENS CENTER

DANE COUNTY VETERANS SERVICE OFFICE (608) 266-4158 danevets.com

(920) 262-8099

WAUNAKEE SENIOR CENTER (608) 849-8385 waunakee.com/seniorcenter

DEPARTMENT OF WORKFORCE DEVELOPMENT dwd.wisconsin.gov/veterans

GERIATRIC PRIMARY CARE CLINIC (GEM)

SOCIAL SERVICES The definition of social services is “activity aiming to promote the welfare of others.”

COMMUNITY LIVING ALLIANCE (608) 242-8335 clanet.org

JEWISH SOCIAL SERVICES OF MADISON (608) 442-4081 jssmadison.org

MIDDLETON OUTREACH MINISTRY (608) 826-3410 momhelps.org

William S. Middleton Memorial Veterans Hospital (608) 280-7011

US DEPARTMENT OF VETERANS AFFAIRS benefits.va.gov/benefits

WILLIAM S. MIDDLETON MEMORIAL VETERANS HOSPITAL (608) 256-1901 madison.va.gov

WISCONSIN DEPARTMENT OF VETERANS AFFAIRS (WDVA) (800) 947-8387 dva.state.wi.us

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with Dementia Issues

20 Support Systems & Local Resources

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Alzheimer’s & Dementia

ALLIANCE OF WISCONSIN BY BECKY MULHERN

The mission of Alzheimer’s & Dementia Alliance of Wisconsin (ADAW) is to support individuals, families, and professionals impacted by Alzheimer’s disease and dementia through information, education, consultation, and advocacy and to promote the advancement of scientific research to better diagnose, treat, and ultimately eliminate Alzheimer’s disease. ADAW is a partner to those with Alzheimer’s or dementia as well as their families and caregivers with services from local experts in memory loss, public policy issues, and cognitive well-being. MARCH–AUGUST 2021 JOURNEY OF AGING

ADAW understands that every person touched by Alzheimer’s or dementia will need support to navigate the future. Our professionally trained and personally experienced team offers compassionate understanding of the unique needs associated with dementia, and helps with direct services, information, and resources. Best practices are used to create innovative programs for every stage of need. ADAW recognizes the importance of proactive research in the areas of Alzheimer’s and dementia, creating new programs and revising existing ones based upon knowledge

gained. We strive to be an inclusive organization, welcoming all people in need of our services. A special focus is placed on people in the early stages of disease by providing tailored programming, striving to counteract the stigma surrounding the disease, and connecting people in various stages to ensure everyone knows they aren’t alone and have support. ADAW advocates for the early detection of cognitive disorders, diagnostic clinical evaluations, and research opportunities. The sooner

ALZHEIMER’S & DEMENTIA | 17 people can begin to learn about treatments and coping strategies, the better quality of life for all affected. The range of the effects of Alzheimer’s and dementia-related diseases, from the earliest to the most advanced stages, require different interventions for patients, family members, and care partners. ADAW believes in increasing, expanding, and defending the programs and rights of persons with Alzheimer’s or dementia and their families, and plays a strong statewide advocacy role. Our local partnerships with the Wisconsin Alzheimer’s Disease Research Center, Wisconsin Alzheimer’s Institute, and professional resources for local caregivers and care facilities provides us with unique knowledge about how to best help people in our community. ADAW advocates to preserve and enhance resources in south central Wisconsin and throughout the state so those facing Alzheimer’s or dementia will have knowledge and access to what they need to create the best quality of life for themselves and their families.

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Meeting of Minds

Learn ways to effectively compassionately communicate someone who has dementia.

A memory enhancement program for people with mild memory loss that includes creative exercises such as group storytelling or discussion of artwork.

and with

End of Life and Dementia Discuss the critical decisions often faced at end of life and ways to communicate and stay connected in the later stages.

Family Dynamics in the Dementia Journey Discover ways dementia impacts families and the value of recognizing and accepting each person’s strengths and weaknesses as caregivers.

ADAW programs and resources:

Is it Time for Facility Care First Steps for Families Learn about dementia-related diseases, what families can do, and resources to help.

Boost Your Brain Health

This program will review things to consider when making the decision to move to facility care.

Legal and Financial Planning Workshop

Tips to reduce your risk of Alzheimer’s and dementia. Learn how the brain works and receive tips on improving your brain health and how to lower your risk of developing dementia through nutritional and lifestyle advice.

A seminar for families providing a general overview of legal and financial issues to consider for loved ones with memory loss, Alzheimer’s disease, or other dementia.

The Caregiving Journey

Learn the difference Alzheimer’s and Dementia.

An intensive program for family members caring for someone with middle- to late-stage dementia to increase understanding of the effects of dementia, gain insights into caregiver strengths and challenges, enhance problem-solving skills, and develop an individualized care plan.

ADAW also offers Memory Cafés and numerous support groups, such as disease specific support, Lewy body dementia support, adult child support, care partner support, earlystage dementia, men’s only, and young onset support. If you or your business would like to learn more or would like to donate to ADAW, please call (608) 232-3400 or (888) 308-6251, or visit alzwisc.org.

Becky Mulhern is the community relations and event specialist at Alzheimer’s & Dementia Alliance.

Understanding Alzheimer’s and Dementia between

Crossing Bridges Learn coping skills, enhance family communication, and have guidance toward developing future plans and living a fulfilled life with cognitive change.

Alzheimer’s & Dementia Alliance 3330 University Ave., Ste. 300 Madison, WI 53705 (608) 232-3400 or (888) 308-6251

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18 | ALZHEIMER’S & DEMENTIA CAREGIVER & FAMILY PROGRAMS Caregiver, educational, and informational programs and resources are listed.

ALZHEIMER’S & DEMENTIA ALLIANCE OF WI PROGRAMS (608) 232-3400 or (888) 308-6251 alzwisc.org

Alzheimer’s & Dementia: First Steps for Families: Learn about dementia-related diseases, what families can do, and resources to help. Boost Your Brain Health: Tips to reduce your risk of Alzheimer’s & dementia: Learn how the brain works and receive tips on improving your brain health and how to lower your risk of developing dementia through nutritional and lifestyle advice. The Caregiving Journey: An intensive program for family members caring for

someone with middle- to late-stage dementia to increase understanding of the effects of dementia, gain insights into caregiver strengths and challenges, enhance problem-solving skills, and develop an individualized care plan. Communication Tips and Strategies: Learn ways to effectively and compassionately communicate with someone who has dementia. End of Life and Dementia: Discuss the critical decisions often faced at end of life and ways to communicate and stay connected in the later stages. Family Dynamics in the Dementia Journey: Discover ways dementia impacts families and the value of recognizing and accepting each person’s strengths and weaknesses as caregivers. Is it Time for Facility Care?: This program will review things to consider when making the decision to move to facility care. Legal and Financial Planning Workshop: A seminar for families providing a general

overview of legal and financial issues to consider for loved ones with memory loss, Alzheimer’s disease, or other dementia. Understanding Alzheimer’s and Dementia: Learn the difference between Alzheimer’s disease and dementia, the causes of dementia, and receive practical things you can do, whether you are concerned about yourself or a loved one. Understanding & Responding to Behavior Changes: Understand reasons why behavior changes occur and get problemsolving tips to help prevent and cope with them. We All Forget: Is it normal aging or should I be concerned?: We all forget names occasionally and misplace keys and wallets. Learn what is normal for our brains as we age, how our memories work, and what we can do if we are concerned for ourselves or others.

ALZHEIMER’S ASSOCIATION Alzheimer’s & Dementia Caregiving Center alz.org/care

DEMENTIA FRIENDLY

Photograph provided by The Pines Senior Living

To become a dementia-friendly business or organization, the business or organization must commit to certain criteria, including training for management and 50 percent of their front-line employees, being open to discussions regarding environment changes (i.e. lighting, signage, layout, etc.), and undergoing an on-site visit/follow-up training on an annual basis to recertify its dementia-friendly status. For more information, please visit alzwisc.org.

DEMENTIA FRIENDLY MIDDLETON (608) 515-8663 facebook.com/dementiafriendlymiddleton

HASKINS SHORT & BRINDLEY, LLC

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ALZHEIMER’S & DEMENTIA | 19 and compassionate legal services in the areas of estate planning and elder law. Substantial expertise includes powers of attorney, wills, trusts, guardianships, medical assistance planning (Medicaid), veterans benefits assistance, and estate administration (probate).

WILLY STREET CO-OP (608) 251-6776 East (608) 709-5445 North (608) 284-7800 West willystreet.coop

PROGRAMS FOR INDIVIDUALS WITH DEMENTIA ISSUES ALZHEIMER’S & DEMENTIA ALLIANCE OF WISCONSIN

(608) 232-3400 or (888) 308-6251 alzwisc.org Memory Cafés: A social gathering place for persons with memory loss, mild cognitive impairment, early Alzheimer’s, or other dementia and their family and friends offering an opportunity to visit, share common interests, and enjoy refreshments. Visit alzwisc.org for locations and times.

Your partner along the journey.

Crossing Bridges: Four-week educational support group for people who have mild memory loss, are in the early stages of Alzheimer’s disease or a related dementia, or are a primary care partner. Meeting Minds: A memory enhancement program for people with mild memory impairment, early Alzheimer’s, or other dementia that includes stimulating activities, intellectual exercises, and tai chibased exercise.

MY CHOICE WISCONSIN

Offering LOCAL support and education for individuals, families and caregivers facing a diagnosis of Alzheimer's or other dementia.

su pport@a lzwi sc. org

608.232.3400 or 888.308.6251

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6401 Odana Rd., Ste. 15, Madison 53719 (608) 819-0665 infomadison@visitingangels.com visitingangels.com/madisonwi Local family-owned business offering flexible hourly care, 24/7 care, and respite care for individuals with Alzheimer’s and dementia. Our services include bathing, dressing, walking assistance, grooming, medication reminders, errands, shopping, light housekeeping, meal preparation, and friendly companionship.

SUPPORT SYSTEMS & LOCAL RESOURCES Visit the Safe & Healthy at Home section to find assistance and respite in your residence.

ALZHEIMER’S & DEMENTIA ALLIANCE OF WISCONSIN

3330 University Ave., Ste. 300 Madison 53705 (608) 232-3400 or (888) 308-6251 support@alzwisc.org alzwisc.org The Alzheimer‘s & Dementia Alliance of Wisconsin provides hope for people facing Alzheimer’s or other dementias through education, support, and personalized guidance to understand the diseases, learn how to continue living a satisfying and rewarding life, and plan for the future. All donations stay local to support individuals and families in Wisconsin.

BRIGHTSTAR CARE

3240 University Ave., Ste. 3A Madison 53705 (608) 441-8620 brightstarcare.com/madison BrightStar Care is your solution for all stages of dementia care. Whether you need respite, overnights, or roundthe-clock care, our team of dementia specialists will work closely with you to create a customized plan of care for your loved one.

CROHN’S, COLITIS & IBD SUPPORT GROUP STOUGHTON HEALTH This group meets the third Wednesday at 5:30 p.m. Contact Marilyn (608) 873-7928. Currently COVID-19 restrictions.

DIABETES SUPPORT GROUP STOUGHTON HEALTH This group meets the second Monday at 6:00 p.m. Contact Jen at (608) 877-3485. Currently COVID-19 restrictions.

HEALING HOMES BY TAUNI

VISITING ANGELS

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WISCONSIN ALZHEIMER’S INSTITUTE (608) 263-2862 wai.wisc.edu

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23 Funeral &

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23 Grief & Spiritual Support 25 Hospice Care 26 Hospice Inpatient Facilities

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GRIEVING: How to Help BY GUNDERSON LIFE CELEBRATION CENTERS

Losing someone close to you is never easy. Death is inevitable, but we’re never truly prepared for it. When someone you know loses a person close to them, it can be hard to find the right words. Instead of focusing on saying just the right thing, focus on understanding what not to say; it could be the best way to help someone grieve. MARCH–AUGUST 2021 JOURNEY OF AGING

What Not to Do or Say 1. Don’t isolate them. Your tone of speech is very important in how you make someone feel. But don’t be a sensationalist; you don’t want your friend to feel like their pain is the source of gossip. It’s okay to show them you’re also sad, which will provide comfort and let them know they’re not alone.

2. Don’t be afraid to talk about both the positive and negative. While you want to be positive and focus on the good, focusing solely on the positive, especially in the beginning stages of grieving, can make a friend feel like their grief isn’t validated and the process is being softened. Don’t be afraid to state how hard it is; it’s okay to point out the light at the end of the

END OF LIFE | 23 situation, but be careful not to unintentionally diminish the person’s grief by saying things like “everything is going to be okay” or “you’ll be fine.” The greatest way you to honor someone’s grief is to ask how they feel and simply listen. Trying to downplay the pain by minimizing it will likely only make them feel more disconnected. 5. Don’t wait to reach out. While it’s never easy for those going through the grieving process, knowing friends are there and ready to listen can make coping with a loss a little bit easier. A message as simple as “I’m thinking of you” can go a long way in helping them heal. Losing someone can be difficult to reconcile. Whether someone loses their spouse, sibling, friend, or even a pet, it’s terrible, and they’ll need a healthy grieving process to get through. Providing emotional support by listening to treasured memories, allowing them to cry, and letting them know you’re there for them during one of the most difficult times of their life can be the best thing you can do for them.

Submitted by Gunderson Celebration Centers. tunnel and acknowledge the gravity of the current situation at the same time. 3. Don’t compare your experiences to theirs unless appropriate. While everyone goes through this at some point, it doesn’t make the process easier by comparing it to someone else’s experience. A death is hard, and comparing experiences, even if they are similar, may belittle the other person’s situation. 4. Don’t diminish someone’s grief. Acknowledgement is one of the best ways to show your support. It’s okay to talk about the deceased and to openly speak about the

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DO-NOT-RESUSCITATE BRACELETS Direct emergency medical technicians, first responders, and emergency healthcare facilities’ personnel. See also the Advance Healthcare Directives in the Essential Preparation section or Legal in the General section to set up advance healthcare directives which can detail your wishes when you are unable.

DO-NOT-RESUSCITATE BRACELETS (DNR) INFO (608) 266-1568 dhs.wisconsin.gov/ems/dnr.htm

FUNERAL & CREMATION SERVICES FOSTER FUNERAL & CREMATION SERVICE (608) 661-3678 or (844) 363-7193 fosterfuneralhomes.com

GUNDERSON LIFE CELEBRATION CENTERS

5203 Monona Dr., Madison 53716 (608) 221-5420 gundersonFH.com Dedicated to meeting the wishes of the families we serve. Our priority is to provide personalized and meaningful celebrations of life at a fair value. We offer the comfort and attention our clients deserve, and support them in one of the most difficult times in their lives.

GRIEF & SPIRITUAL SUPPORT AGRACE (608) 276-4660 agrace.org/griefgroups

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2906 Marketplace Dr., Fitchburg 53719 (608) 327-7110 agrace.org/griefcenter Anyone is welcome to come to the Agrace Grief Support Center for guidance and support after loss, regardless if the person who died had hospice. We serve both adults and children, so many of our spaces are designed to help kids feel comfortable.

THE GREAT CIRCLE COLLABORATIVE (608) 444-8327 Find us on Facebook

GRIEF MINISTRY (608) 257-3577 bethel-madison.org/grief-ministry

GUNDERSON LIFE CELEBRATION CENTERS

Give the Gi of ‘No Worries!’

Pre-Arranging Service Funeral Burial Plans

Funeral Cremation Plans

608-221-5420

gundersonfh.com

∙ East / Madison · Middleton ∙ Oregon 608-221-5420 608-831-6761 608-835-3515 · Cross Plains 608-798-3141

· Fitchburg ∙ Stoughton 608-442-5002 608-873-4590

∙ Black Earth 608-767-3684

∙ Mount Horeb ∙ Lodi 608-437-5077 608-592-3201

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5203 Monona Dr., Madison 53716 (608) 221-5420 gundersonFH.com The death of someone we love leads us on a journey most of us would not choose: a journey through grief. We hope as you walk and work through this time of loss, you have the care and support you need for this to be a healing journey.

HEALING HOMES BY TAUNI healinghomesbytauni@gmail.com

HEARTLAND HOSPICE

2801 Crossroads Dr., Ste. 2000 Madison 53718 (608) 819-0033 heartlandhospice.com/madison Heartland Hospice offers unique bereavement services with professional bereavement counselors and supervised volunteers who offer support to individuals and families who have experienced loss. We assist families and loved ones with emotional support and help them cope with their feelings.

SSM HEALTH AT HOME (800) 924-2273 ssmhealthathomewi.com

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Caring— Every Step of the Way

Age at Home • Adult Day Center • Supportive Care Hospice Care • Grief Support

(800) 553-4289

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HOSPICE CARE Provides pain relief, comfort, symptom management, and supportive services to individuals who usually have six months or less to live. Typically, care is provided by a team consisting of a doctor, nurse, social worker, counselor, chaplain, home health aide, and trained

volunteers. The team works together to focus on the dying person’s and their family’s physical, psychological, social, and spiritual needs. This level of care can be provided in one’s residence (collaborating with the home health agencies/medical care), at most hospitals (collaborating with your hospital team), at most nursing homes, and at an inpatient hospice facility.

AGRACE HOSPICE CARE

5395 E. Cheryl Pkwy., Madison 53711 (608) 276-4660 info@agrace.org agrace.org Agrace is a nonprofit hospice dedicated to providing expert physical, emotional, and spiritual support to patients and families dealing with serious illness. We provide comprehensive services

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HEARTLAND HOSPICE

2801 Crossroads Dr., Ste. 2000 Madison 53718 (608) 819-0033 heartlandhospice.com/madison Heartland Hospice provides care wherever you call home. Our caregivers help create individualized care plans, set personal goals, and manage pain and symptoms. Every patient has unique needs, so the care we give each patient and family is different.

SSM HEALTH AT HOME

(800) 924-2273 hahwi.info@ssmhealth.com ssmhealth.com/athome Our team understands the special skills needed to care for people with a limited life expectancy and to provide comfort and support to patients and families. SSM Health at Home Hospice emphasizes preserving dignity and improving quality of life through symptom management including relief from emotional, spiritual, and physical pain.

HOSPICE INPATIENT FACILITIES AGRACE HOSPICE CARE AND MEMORY CARE SUITES

5395 E. Cheryl Pkwy., Madison 53711 (608) 276-4660 info@agrace.org agrace.org The Don & Marilyn Anderson HospiceCare Center and the Ellen & Peter Johnson HospiceCare Residence in Madison combine state-of-the-art technology with a beautiful, homelike setting. General inpatient care, respite care, residential care and memory care are all offered at Agrace.

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30 Emergency Preparedness 31 Estate Planning 31 Financial Services 32 Funeral Preplanning

ESSENTIAL PREPARATION

32 Organ Donation

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PLANNING FOR YOUR PETS BY SARAH LINN

2020 made it very clear that those “someday” situations we plan for could happen sooner than anticipated. Taking the time to think through your wishes for your pets in the event of a human emergency could make all the difference when unexpected situations come up. At Dane County Humane Society (DCHS), we often work with people after an emergency or loved one’s death. Use the following steps to ensure your pet will be well cared for no matter the situation. MARCH–AUGUST 2021 JOURNEY OF AGING

Short-Term and Emergency Situations If you become very ill, end up being hospitalized, or are otherwise unable to care for your pets, you’ll need people who can help right away. 1. Find two responsible people who agree to serve as temporary caregivers to your pets. You can ask household members, family, friends, co-workers, and neighbors; also consider local pet sitters, groomers, doggie day

care, and boarding facilities who know your pet. 2. Once you have found people who agree to be your pets’ temporary caregivers, take the next steps to help your pets get the care they need right away. a. Make sure that these caregivers have access to your home, including keys or codes for door locks and security systems.

ESSENTIAL PREPARATION | 29 b. Inform your caregivers of the best ways to contact each other. That communication will allow them to make sure the pets are being cared for no matter what comes up. c. Place your pet caregivers’ names and contact information in your wallet and post them in your home for emergency personnel to find if you are incapacitated. 3. Create a go bag for your pets. This bag should include everything that your pet caregivers will need for up to two weeks. a. Name and contact information for all pet caregivers and vet clinics. b. Food, treats, a leash, toys, and any other supplies needed. c. A crate or carrier to transport your pet. d. Vaccination records. e. Medications and prescriptions. f. Daily care instructions.

Long-term or Permanent Changes In the event of serious illness or death, naming a long-term or permanent caregiver will help your pet transition smoothly to a new loving home. 1. Consider people in your circle who will be able to provide a

good home to your pets. Have at least two trusted people who agree to care for your pets long-term. 2. Talk about your wishes with friends and family to be sure that everyone knows what you believe will be best for your pets. This helps them feel confident in carrying out your wishes. 3. When creating your will or trust, be sure to incorporate your wishes for emergency and long-term pet care. This is one of the easiest ways to make sure that the arrangements you’ve made for your pets are known and carried out. It’s also an opportunity for you to designate funds to help pay for your pets’ future care needs.

Common Questions for Long-term Pet Care 1. Can I leave my pet to an organization? It’s best to have a friend or family member in place, but humane societies and similar organizations can help find a new home for your pets. 2. Can I have my pet put to sleep when I die? The instinct to do whatever you can to protect your pet from bad situations is understandable. However, even if this request is included in a legal document, it’s usually overturned after the pet owner’s death. The only situations where this type of request is carried out would be

when euthanasia is considered the most humane option for the animal. 3. How can I be sure that my wishes will be carried out after I’m gone? Make sure to include your wishes for your pet in your will and other end-of-life documents. DCHS has partnered with FreeWill to give all of our supporters an easy way to write your legally valid will in 20 minutes or less. As you consider your loved ones, FreeWill takes into account your pets, making sure they are taken care of no matter what. This tool is completely free to use, so get started on your plans today at freewill.com/dchs. Early planning will help you rest easy no matter what is coming next. With these plans in place, your pets will be taken care of in your absence. For more information on wills and trusts, visit resources.bestfriends.org/article /estate-planning-dogs-and-cats and aspca.org/pet-care/pet-planning.

Sarah Linn is the development and marketing supervisor at Dane County Humane Society. Photographs provided by Dane County Humane Society.

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30 | ESSENTIAL PREPARATION ADVANCE HEALTHCARE DIRECTIVES An advance healthcare directive is also known as a living will. It’s important to put your legal and medical preferences in writing. Visit the Legal category in the General section for assistance to learn about the important options you have to protect your wishes if and when you are unable.

WISCONSIN MEDICAL SOCIETY (866) 442-3800 wisconsinmedicalsociety.org

EMERGENCY PREPAREDNESS Have a plan in place before an emergency. Communicate your plans with family, friends, and neighbors.

PACK AN EMERGENCY KIT with first aid supplies, blankets or sleeping bag, battery-powered radio, flashlights, extra batteries, weather radio. If you have a pet, plan ahead for pet needs, including supplies of food and water and a pet carrier. Have prescription medications and any special medical supplies ready. Place the following items in a plastic, lidded container: • Three-day supply of water (about five gallons for each person) • Three-day supply of nonperishable food • Three-day supply of high-energy foods, such as granola bars, trail mix, peanut butter, jelly, and crackers You can find more information on emergency plans and supply kits at ready.gov.

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ESSENTIAL PREPARATION | 31 ESTATE PLANNING See also Legal General section.

category

FINANCIAL SERVICES the

HASKINS SHORT & BRINDLEY, LLC

5113 Monona Dr., Monona 53716 (608) 237-6673 receptionist@hsbelderlaw.com hsbelderlaw.com Haskins Short & Brindley, LLC specializes in providing professional and compassionate legal services in the areas of estate planning and elder law. Substantial expertise includes powers of attorney, wills, trusts, guardianships, medical assistance planning (Medicaid), veterans benefits assistance, and estate administration (probate).

NENNIG LAW OFFICES, LLC (608) 661-4333 protectingfamilies.net

WISPACT SPECIAL NEEDS TRUSTS (608) 268-6006 wispact.org

FINANCIAL ABUSE SPECIALIST TEAM (FAST) HELPLINE (608) 261-7326 danecountyhumanservices.org

MARY’S DAUGHTER LLC (608) 515-4083 marysdaughterllc.com

WISCONSIN DEPARTMENT OF AGRICULTURE, TRADE AND CONSUMER PROTECTION

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You’ve Always Been a Planner Pre-Arranging Service Funeral Burial Plans Funeral Cremation Plans

more about Wisconsin’s Do Not Call telemarketing law and to get copies of the Wisconsin Senior Guide and other informational brochures.

FUNERAL PREPLANNING Important piece of the aging process but often overlooked or neglected. Visit with professionals to know your options so you can make decisions rather than having decisions made for you by others.

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608-221-5420

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∙ East / Madison · Middleton ∙ Oregon 608-221-5420 608-831-6761 608-835-3515 · Cross Plains 608-798-3141

· Fitchburg ∙ Stoughton 608-442-5002 608-873-4590

∙ Black Earth 608-767-3684

∙ Mount Horeb ∙ Lodi 608-437-5077 608-592-3201

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5203 Monona Dr., Madison 53716 (608) 221-5420 gundersonFH.com Prearranging is simple, and the benefit to loved ones is well recognized. The benefits are numerous: they allow you to express your own wishes, your funeral plan is transferable in case you move away, and prearranging relieves your family of the financial burden. By relieving your family of decisions at a difficult time, you are showing your love and respect for their needs.

ORGAN DONATION AMERICAN TISSUE SERVICES FOUNDATION - MADISON (608) 276-9100 atsfoundation.org

RTI DONOR SERVICES (608) 231-9050 rtidonorservices.org

UW HEALTH ORGAN AND TISSUE DONATION (608) 265-0356 uwotd.org

WISCONSIN ORGAN AND TISSUE DONATION PROGRAM (608) 261-6854 dhs.wisconsin.gov/health/donatelife

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HOW TO SPOT

five COMMON SCAMS

TARGETING SENIORS BY JESSICA STEINHOFF

Scammers have been very busy during the COVID-19 pandemic, and unfortunately, seniors are a favorite target. According to the Senate Special Committee on Aging, seniors lose nearly $3 billion to fraud each year.

Imposter Fraud Imposters assume fake identities to steal your money, identity, or both. They contact by phone, text message, or email. • A person claiming to work for the IRS, Medicare, the MARCH–AUGUST 2021 JOURNEY OF AGING

sheriff’s department, or another trustworthy agency contacts you, stating you owe a fine or are under investigation. • A scammer steals your bank account’s online login credentials and uses them to trigger a security code needed to reset your password. They then call you, posing as a bank employee, and ask you to read the code to them. Once they have the code, they change your password, enter your account, and transfer your money elsewhere.

• Someone says they represent a well-known charity and asks for a donation. • You’re contacted by a person claiming to be a relative, saying they need money right away. “Thinking carefully and moving slowly are two of your best lines of defense against imposter fraud and many other types of scams,” says Julie Walser, UW Credit Union’s loss prevention manager. “Scrutinize any unexpected messages you receive, and avoid taking immediate action.”

GENERAL | 35 In most cases, government agencies won’t call you out of the blue asking for personal details, legitimate charities won’t ask you to wire money, and it’s unlikely a relative would ask for your Social Security number. To make sure a person is legitimate, do some research. If the person claims to represent an organization, call the organization to verify the person is who they say they are. If a person claims to be a relative, ask to call them back, and do so using the phone number you have, not the one they just provided.

Phishing Phishing is similar to imposter fraud, but can look a little different. You receive an email or text that looks like it’s from a bank, store, or person you’re familiar with, and you’re asked to share sensitive personal information, such as your username and password or Social Security number. If you’re not expecting a call, be very cautious if you don’t recognize the person. Also, be wary of clicking on email links or attachments. If you’re unsure of the sender, verify their identity by calling the company or organization they say they represent.

Overpayment Scams

cover taxes and fees. You might also be asked to share sensitive personal information, such as Social Security, bank account, or credit card numbers.

for their name, company name, street address, and debt collector license number, then follow up with the company.

Sweetheart Scams • Someone who purchased an item from you online claims they mistakenly overpaid and asks you to reimburse them in gift cards. To steer clear of fraudulent attempts, don’t send money to someone who sends you a check. If you sell an item online or at a garage sale, don’t accept checks for more than your selling price. When possible, use a secure online payment service when you sell something to a stranger.

Debt Collection Scams A person demands that you send payment for a debt you don’t owe or that you’ve already paid. The person may try to scare or shame you into complying. If someone claims to be a debt collector and pressures you to pay them, don’t give them any money unless you’re certain the person and debt in question are legitimate.

These scams involve someone telling you to send money they’ve supposedly given you by accident.

• Make sure the debt you’re asked to pay is a debt you owe. Check your records and ask the person to provide written proof.

• You receive a fake check, and the person asks you to return it to them as cash.

• Confirm the collection agency is real. Typically, you’ll be able to locate a legitimate agency online.

• You’re told that you’ve won a prize but need to send money to

• Make sure you’re speaking with a real debt collector by asking

These are particularly cruel. A scammer pretends to fall in love with the victim to gain their trust and steal their money. They frequently target people who’ve recently lost spouses, and often begin on dating apps or social media. The victim may lose money by sharing bank account numbers or passwords, or the scammer might ask for airline tickets, tuition payments, or money for medical bills. Protect your money and heart by refusing to wire money to anyone you don’t know well, even if you’ve formed a connection online. Also, be wary of emails from people who claim to know you. Stay informed about the latest scams making the rounds, which can hook not only seniors but their loved ones and caregivers. The Federal Trade Commission’s Scam Alerts web page ( c o n s u m e r.f t c .g o v / f e a t u r e s / s c a m -alerts) is a great place to start.

Jessica Steinhoff writes about financial wellness for UW Credit Union, a notfor-profit financial institution that offers checking and savings accounts, loans, and secure online banking tools. See uwcu.org for details.

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ANIMAL SERVICES DANE COUNTY HUMANE SOCIETY (DCHS)

Whether you’re sticking with it,

(608) 838-0413 giveshelter.org

ARTS & CULTURE ABEL CONTEMPORARY GALLERY

Arts & Enrichment Classes (608) 204-3021 mscr.org

MADISON SENIOR CENTER (608) 267-8651 cityofmadison.com/senior-center /programs/arts-crafts

WISCONSIN CHAMBER ORCHESTRA

(608) 845-6600 abelcontemporary.com

(608) 257-0638 wcoconcerts.org

MADISON NEW HORIZONS BAND SPONSORED BY WARD-BRODT MUSIC

WISCONSIN HISTORICAL SOCIETY

(608) 838-8274 hookedonbands@gmail.com We are eagerly awaiting the time our New Horizons Band can safely come together and make music again. Until then, visit wardbrodt.com for everything you need to keep your musical “chops” in shape! MARCH–AUGUST 2021 JOURNEY OF AGING

MADISON SCHOOL & COMMUNITY RECREATION (MSCR)

(608) 264-6535 wisconsinhistory.org

WISCONSIN VETERANS MUSEUM (608) 267-1799 wisvetsmuseum.com

GENERAL | 37 MADISON PUBLIC LIBRARIES

COMPUTER SERVICES/ ASSISTANCE MADISON COMPUTER WORKS

353 Island Dr., Madison 53705 (608) 231-8000 info@madisoncomputerworks.com madisoncomputerworks.com A local, family-owned computer store providing helpful, in-home support since 1982. Our inexpensive Computer Care Plans are designed to quickly meet your critical computer needs. Our computer services and remote help are invaluable and only a phone call away.

DRIVER SAFETY DISABLED PARKING LICENSE PLATES (608) 266-3041 dot.wisconsin.gov/drivers/vehicles /disabled/displate.htm

madisonpubliclibrary.org Central Library 201 W. Mifflin St., Madison 53703 (608) 266-6300 Alicia Ashman Branch 733 N. High Point Rd. Madison 53717 (608) 824-1780 Goodman South Madison Branch 2222 S. Park St., Madison 53713 (608) 266-6395 Hawthorne Branch 2707 E. Washington Ave. Madison 53704 (608) 246-4548 Lakeview Branch 2845 N. Sherman Ave. Madison 53704 (608) 246-4547 Meadowridge Branch 5726 Raymond Rd., Madison 53711 (608) 288-6160 Monroe Street Branch 1705 Monroe St., Madison 53711 (608) 266-6390

Madison Computer Works ...computers that work for you! Computer protection, monitoring, and remote support help are invaluable services. Our Computer Care Plans are designed to provide local, reliable computer security and support to meet your critical computer care needs quickly and affordably. Secure, trustworthy remote support Fast on-site and in-store service Helpful and friendly assistance Virus and internet protection Backup of photos and documents

info@madisoncomputerworks.com

608.231.8000 353 Island Drive

Madison, WI 53705

www.madisoncomputerworks.com

DMV SENIOR DRIVER INFO (608) 266-2327 dot.wisconsin.gov/drivers /drivers/mature

EDUCATION These organizations offer formal and informal learning programs for aging adults. See also the Aging & Caregiver Resources section.

Face of Grey,

Heart of Gold

EMPLOYMENT RESOURCES, INC. (608) 246-3444 eri-wi.org

LIBRARY HOME SERVICE PROGRAM (608) 266-6314 madisonpubliclibrary.org/services /home-service-program

MADISON COLLEGE (608) 258-2301 madisoncollege.edu /continuing-education

You can give a senior pet the loving home they deserve. Dane County Humane Society (608) 838-0413 giveshelter.org

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Pinney Branch 204 Cottage Grove Rd. Madison 53716 (608) 224-7100 Sequoya Branch 4340 Tokay Blvd., Madison 53711 (608) 266-6385

MADISON SCHOOL & COMMUNITY RECREATION (MSCR) Arts & Enrichment Classes (608) 204-3021 mscr.org

PLATO (PARTICIPATORY LEARNING & TEACHING ORGANIZATION) (608) 262-5823 platomadison.org

UW-MADISON ALUMNI ASSOCIATION (608) 262-2551 uwalumni.com

UW-MADISON CONTINUING STUDIES (608) 263-6960 continuingstudies.wisc.edu/advising MARCH–AUGUST 2021 JOURNEY OF AGING

GENERAL | 39 UW-MADISON SENIOR LEARNING PROGRAMS (608) 262-5823 continuingstudies.wisc.edu /seniorlearning

WHEELHOUSE STUDIOS (608) 262-3156 union.wisc.edu/wheelhouse-courses.htm

WISCONSIN HISTORICAL SOCIETY (608) 264-6535 wisconsinhistory.org

WISCONSIN VETERANS MUSEUM (608) 267-1799 wisvetsmuseum.com

EMPLOYMENT

Curbside pick-up available at all three locations! www.willystreet.coop/curbside 1

Listings include employment assistance, career counseling, and training.

CREATIVE COMMUNITY LIVING SERVICES (608) 222-2071 cclswi.com

DANE COUNTY TIMEBANK (608) 663-0400 danecountytimebank.org

MADISON AREA REHABILITATION CENTERS, INC. (608) 223-9110 marc-inc.org

Hours before 10am are for those who are seniors or immunocompromised.

SUPPORTED EMPLOYMENT PROGRAM - GOODWILL INDUSTRIES (608) 246-3140 goodwillscwi.org

URBAN LEAGUE OF GREATER MADISON (608) 729-1200 ulgm.org

WORK PLUS, INC. (608) 238-6018 workplus.org

WORKSMART NETWORK

WISCONSIN SENIOR EMPLOYMENT (WISE) PROGRAM

(608) 288-2459 worksmartnetwork.org

(608) 242-4897 dhs.wisconsin.gov/wise/employment.htm

YWCA EMPOWERMENT CENTER (608) 257-1436 ywcamadison.org

ENTERTAINMENT THEATER BUS, INC.

437 S. Yellowstone Dr., Ste. 214 Madison 53719 (608) 257-0003 info@theaterbus.org theaterbus.org Theater Bus is a volunteer-driven, notfor-profit organization serving seniors JOURNEYOFAGING.COM

40 | GENERAL 55+. Offering year-round day trips to plays, musicals, comedies, boat cruises, and great restaurants. Convenient Madison pick-up points, safe comfortable transportation, and fun for all.

GRANDPARENTS FOSTER GRANDPARENTS RSVP OF DANE COUNTY

6501 Watts Rd., Ste. 250, Madison 53719 (608) 441-7894 info@rsvpdane.org rsvpdane.org/programs /foster-grandparents Income eligible volunteers age 55+ work with children in Dane County schools and Head Start sites. The grandparents function as consistent, caring role models providing oneon-one adult attention. Volunteers earn a tax-free, hourly stipend and travel reimbursement.

Let us help you with your move.

Vivian Schmelzer 608.513.7989

Matt Silvern 608.332.7565

Sheila Power 608.469.5800

Deborah Lawson 608.212.0306

Jim Wilson 608.474.0306

Jean Adler 608.225.5964

Andy Stebnitz 608.692.8866

Ginny Hazen Damman 608.334.8544

Carolyn Bryant 608.239.5928

Sue Gilbertson 608.576.4488

Mary Tracy 608.279.2279

Alison Goldschmidt 608.225.9041

Janice Gordon-Farris 608.285.2676

Jim Olmsted 608.575.7562

Barb Stephani 608.235.5124

Gayle Galston 608.239.0842

Stella Castellino 703.593.5196

Jim Page 608.576.0488

Musa Jallow 608.446.2210

Steve Schwartz 608.695.4068

Jan Ciotti 608.669.5262

Ashley Malinowski 608.316.0713

Michelle Schrieier 608.513.3605

Erika Hotchkiss 608.535.0502

Joan Foster 608.576.7217

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GENERAL | 41 GROCERY & DELIVERY Listings below may offer online ordering and home delivery service.

MILLER AND SONS SUPERMARKET (608) 845-6478 Verona (608) 437-3081 Mt. Horeb millerandsonssupermarket.com

WILLY STREET CO-OP

North: 2817 N. Sherman Ave. Madison 53704 (608) 471-4422 West: 6825 University Ave. Middleton 53562 (608) 284-7800 East: 1221 Williamson St. Madison 53703 (608) 251-6776 info@willysteet.coop willystreet.coop shop.willystreet.coop (online store) A full-service grocery cooperative specializing in local, organic, and natural foods with three locations. You don’t need to be a member to shop. Everyone is welcome! Delivery available in the Greater Madison area.

HOBBIES BURNIE’S ROCK SHOP (608) 630-9419 or (608) 251-2601 burniesrockshop.com

JIM’S COINS & PRECIOUS METALS (608) 233-2118 jimscoins.com

THE VINERY STAINED GLASS STUDIO (608) 244-9900 vineryglass.com

WARD-BRODT MUSIC (608) 661-8600 wardbrodt.com

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42 | GENERAL HOME & GARDEN PROJECT HOME (608) 246-3737 projecthomewi.org

WESTSIDE COMMUNITY MARKET (608) 628-8879 westsidecommunitymarket.org

ZDA, INC. (608) 831-5098 zdainc.com

HOUSEHOLD ITEM DONATIONS AGRACE THRIFT STORE (608) 327-7200 Madison East (608) 833-4556 Madison West (608) 314-2990 Janesville agracethriftstore.org

A bimonthly magazine serving as your guide to local restaurants, shops, and sights, introducing you to the impressive array of innovators who serve as the foundation of the Greater Madison area.

madisonessentials.com

A quarterly magazine with great ideas to transform your living space. Each article connects you with the designers, contractors, and tradespeople who help us envision the environments we call home.

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ATTIC ANGEL ASSOCIATION ATTIC SALE (608) 662-8900 atticangel.org

DANE COUNTY HUMANE SOCIETY THRIFT STORE (608) 827-8997 giveshelter.org

GOODWILL INDUSTRIES (608) 246-3140 goodwillscwi.org

HABITAT FOR HUMANITY RESTORE (608) 661-2813 East Location (608) 442-9919 West Location (608) 663-1191 Donations restoredane.org

ST. VINCENT DE PAUL Multiple Dane Co. drop-off locations (608) 257-0919 request assistance (608) 278-2920 x1 home pickup svdpmadison.org

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LEGAL Review also the Aging & Caregiver Resources and Essential Preparation sections.

ADULT PROTECTIVE SERVICES – ADULT/ELDER AT RISK (608) 261-9933 danecountyhumanservices.org

ELDER LAW CENTER (CWAG) Elder Financial Empowerment Project (608) 224-0606 or (800) 488-2596 cwagwisconsin.org

GREATER WISCONSIN AGENCY ON AGING RESOURCES (GWAAR) (608) 243-5670 gwaar.org

LEGAL ACTION OF WISCONSIN (608) 256-3258 legalaction.org/services

MEDIA & PARTNERS HOME ELEMENTS & CONCEPTS

PO Box 174, Baraboo 53913 (608) 356-8757 ajohnson@ homeelementsandconcepts.com homeelementsandconcepts.com A publication devoted to sharing the voices of people who create the spaces we live in. Experience stories and photos of the practical, the sentimental, the extravagant, and the austere.

MADISON ESSENTIALS

PO Box 174, Baraboo 53913 (608) 356-8757 ajohnson@madisonessentials.com madisonessentials.com Celebrating the originality and diversity of independent businesses, organizations, and community leaders throughout Greater Madison.

MOVING SERVICES/ SPECIALISTS JDOG JUNK REMOVAL & HAULING (920) 214-3204 (JDOG) jdog.com

MADISON GREEN BOX LLC (608) 209-0174 madisongreenbox.com

MOVING MAUDE SENIOR MOVE MANAGEMENT

3905 Monona Dr., Monona 53716 (608) 333-8653 sue@movingmaude.com movingmaude.com Offering downsizing and organizing with meticulous planning and management of your move. Additionally, space planning and décor, selling and dispersing items, cleaning up and out, and home staging. Task pricing avoids surprises. Call for a free consultation.

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Photograph provided by The Pines Senior Living

3979 Villa Oak Dr., Sun Prairie 53590 (608) 345-1942 segues@charter.net segues.net For over 20 years, Segues (sĕg-wāys) has joyfully helped Seniors make “smooth moves & easy transitions” with customizable services designed to reduce the emotional, physical, and economic aspects of downsizing, moving-in, and clearing-out of their residences. Free in-home consultation.

NAIL SERVICE TRAVELING FOR TOOTSIES, LLC (608) 576-8986 travelingfortootsies@gmail.com

REALTORS & REAL ESTATE SERVICES RESTAINO & ASSOCIATES ERA POWERED

Assisting Seniors Transition 26 Schroeder Ct., Ste. 200 Madison 53711 (608) 833-7777 (800) 637-1178 info@restainohomes.com restainohomes.com Restaino & Associates ERA Powered is here to assist you with the transition to a new home.

RESTAINO & ASSOCIATES ERA POWERED

Jim Wilson, Realtor (608) 474-0306 jwilson@restainohomes.com jimandnancyteam.com I specialize in working with folks who are moving from that larger home where they raised their family to the smaller more manageable home. Whether that be a condo or a smaller single-family home. I am here to guide you through each step of this exciting new chapter in your life.

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GENERAL | 45 RECREATION ALDO LEOPOLD NATURE CENTER (608) 221-0404 aldoleopoldnaturecenter.org

MADISON SCHOOL & COMMUNITY RECREATION (MSCR) Adapted Recreation/Inclusive Programs (608) 204-4581 mscr.org

WESTSIDE COMMUNITY MARKET (608) 628-8879 westsidecommunitymarket.org

RESTAURANTS PAISAN’S

131 W. Wilson St., Madison 53703 (608) 257-3832 paisans@paisansrest.com paisansrest.com A Madison’s favorite for thin crust pizza, homemade pasta, and trademark sandwiches. Paisan’s also features one of Madison’s finest lakeside dining areas. During our warm months, our patio overlooks Lake Monona delivering spectacular sunsets and a soothing view.

PORTA BELLA RESTAURANT

425 N. Frances St., Madison 53703 (608) 256-3186 portabella@portabellarest.com portabellarest.com Porta Bella is known for its pasta, homemade Italian dinners, pizzas, steaks, and seafood. Recipes that came from Madison’s historic Italian Greenbush district are still offered today in addition to new dishes found during our travels to Italy.

QUIVEY’S GROVE

6261 Nesbitt Rd., Fitchburg 53719 (608) 273-4900 info@quiveysgrove.com quiveysgrove.com Whether dining in the Stable Grill or the Stone House, the service and food JOURNEYOFAGING.COM

46 | GENERAL is gracious and welcoming because the experience is about you. With your patronage, Quivey’s Grove will continue to stand for authentic quality dining for years to come.

SUGAR RIVER PIZZA

957 Liberty Dr., Verona 53593 (608) 497-1800 sarah@sugarriverpizza.com sugarriverpizza.com Family-run, friends and family gather here for simple, made-from-scratch comfort food; unique brews; and handcrafted cocktails to warm the heart.

SHOPPING & SPECIALTY RETAIL ABEL CONTEMPORARY GALLERY

524 E. Main St., Stoughton 53589 (608) 845-6600 info@abelcontemporary.com abelcontemporary.com For the last 33+ years the Abel Contemporary Gallery has been building a reputation as one of the largest and most impressive collections of fine art and fine craft in the region, featuring notable works in many media and hosting new exhibits every six to seven weeks by artists from across the nation.

GOODMAN’S JEWELERS

220 State St., Madison 53703 (608) 257-3644 goodmansjewelers.com Madison’s oldest full-service jewelry store. Located in the heart of Madison on State Street, where we’ve been since 1933. Our high standards, classic traditions, and warm boutique shopping experience are part of the reason we’ve been open for more than 85 years.

GOODWILL INDUSTRIES (608) 246-3140 goodwillscwi.org

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MIDDLETON OUTREACH MINISTRY TRANSPORTATION AND SHOPPING ASSISTANCE (608) 826-3410 momhelps.org

THE UNIVERSITY BOOK STORE (608) 257-3784 uwbookstore.com

WESTSIDE COMMUNITY MARKET (608) 628-8879 westsidecommunitymarket.org

TRANSPORTATION Listings below include nonemergency transportation. Companies may use specialty-designed vehicles as well as offer reduced rates for disabled individuals or Medicaid candidates. Check with carrier. Check the Senior Centers cate-

gory in the Aging & Caregiver Resources section for transportation options as well.

BUS BUDDY & BUS BUDDY TOURS RSVP OF DANE COUNTY

6501 Watts Rd., Ste. 250, Madison 53719 (608) 441-7891 info@rsvpdane.org rsvpdane.org/programs/bus-buddy Volunteers teach other older adults, individually or in groups, how to achieve more independence and mobility by using the Madison Metro Bus System.

CAPITOL EXPRESS TRANSPORTATION (608) 661-7433

DOOR-TO-APPOINTMENT ESCORTED TRANSPORTATION (608) 274-7900 independentlivinginc.org JOURNEYOFAGING.COM

48 | GENERAL Devil’s Lake

Mid-Continent Railway Museum

Scan this to plan your trip! Tumbled Rock Brewery

Circus World

BARABOO.COM • (608) 356-8333

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DRIVER ESCORT/VETS HELPING VETS RSVP OF DANE COUNTY

6501 Watts Rd., Ste. 250, Madison 53719 (608) 441-7896 or (608) 441-7892 info@rsvpdane.org rsvpdane.org/drivers.html RSVP volunteers provide rides to medical appointments for Dane County residents 60+ and rides to other important appointments for veterans of all ages. We welcome drivers of any age with a valid driving license/driving record and receive mileage reimbursement, extra insurance coverage, and the satisfaction of helping seniors and veterans remain independent.

METRO TRANSIT PARATRANSIT INFORMATION (608) 266-4466 mymetrobus.com/paratransit

MIDDLETON OUTREACH MINISTRY TRANSPORTATION AND SHOPPING ASSISTANCE (608) 826-3410 momhelps.org

GENERAL | 49 PARATECH AMBULANCE SERVICE (608) 270-1111 paratechambulance.com

SHARING ACTIVE INDEPENDENT LIVES (SAIL)

6209 Mineral Point Rd., Ste. 210 Madison 53705 (608) 230-4321 info@sailtoday.org sailtoday.org SAIL is a nonprofit membership organization of people 55+ living in the Madison area. Membership includes access to medical and nonmedical rides provided by volunteer drivers.

TRANSPORTATION RESOURCE CENTER (608) 242-6489 danecountyhumanservices.org /transportation

55+. Offering year-round day trips to plays, musicals, comedies, boat cruises, and great restaurants. Convenient Madison pick-up points, safe comfortable transportation, and fun for all.

UW–MADISON/ EDUCATIONAL TRAVEL (608) 263-7787 or (608) 263-7055 uwtravel.org

VAN GALDER TOUR SERVICES (800) 747-0994 or (608) 752-5407 coachusa.com/vangalder

VOLUNTEER OPPORTUNITIES

VAN GO TAXI

These organizations are seeking aging adult volunteers. Check also the Senior Centers category in the Aging & Caregiver Resources section.

(608) 849-7070 vangotaxi.com

ATTIC ANGEL ASSOCIATION

YWCA TRANSIT PROGRAM

(608) 662-8900 atticangel.org/volunteering

THE BEACON

615 E. Washington Ave. Madison 53703 (608) 826-8040 lcurrie@ccmadison.org thebeaconhelps.org The Beacon is a homeless day resource center that is open 7 days a week/ 365 days a year. There are a variety of volunteer opportunities to be involved in, such as laundry service, meals, computer lab, check-in, and more.

DANE COUNTY HUMANE SOCIETY (DCHS) (608) 838-0413 giveshelter.org

FOOD BRIDGE RSVP OF DANE COUNTY

6501 Watts Rd., Ste. 250, Madison 53719 (608) 441-7896 or (608) 441-7892 info@rsvpdane.org rsvpdane.org/drivers.html RSVP recruits volunteers for Food Bridge, a program of NewBridge Madison, to be paired with a low-income, homebound

(608) 257-1436 ywcamadison.org

TRAVEL & TOURS BADGER BUS TOURS (800) 416-2049 or (608) 255-1511 badgerbus.com/tours

BARABOO AREA CHAMBER OF COMMERCE

600 W. Chestnut St., Baraboo 53913 (608) 356-8333 events@baraboochamber.com baraboo.com A nonprofit organization dedicated to promoting tourism in the Baraboo Area and boosting the local economy.

THEATER BUS, INC.

437 S. Yellowstone Dr., Ste. 214 Madison 53719 (608) 257-0003 info@theaterbus.org theaterbus.org Theater Bus is a volunteer-driven, notfor-profit organization serving seniors JOURNEYOFAGING.COM

50 | GENERAL senior to shop for and deliver monthly groceries from a local food pantry. We welcome drivers of any age with a valid driving license and a driving record in good standing. Volunteers receive mileage reimbursement, extra insurance coverage, and the satisfaction of helping people who are at risk of food insecurity.

MADISON SENIOR CENTER – VOLUNTEER OPPORTUNITIES (608) 267-2344 cityofmadison.com/senior-center /volunteer

NEWBRIDGE (608) 512-0000 newbridgemadison.org

RIVER RUNNERS RSVP OF DANE COUNTY

6501 Watts Rd., Ste. 250, Madison 53719 (608) 441-7896 or (608) 441-7892 info@rsvpdane.org rsvpdane.org/drivers.html RSVP recruits volunteers for the River Delivers, a program of The River Food

Pantry, to deliver healthy groceries and meals once a week to Dane County seniors and people with disabilities who do not qualify for other delivery services and who lack transportation to the pantry for curbside distribution. We welcome drivers of any age with a valid driving license and a driving record in good standing. Volunteers receive mileage reimbursement, extra insurance coverage and the satisfaction

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of helping people who are at risk of food insecurity.

RSVP OF DANE COUNTY

6501 Watts Rd., Ste. 250, Madison 53719 (608) 441-7891 info@rsvpdane.org rsvpdane.org/programs Agency personally places volunteers age 55+. Volunteers provide rides and deliver meals for seniors and veterans, tutor children, make handmade items for people in need, educate seniors about safety and scams, and help nonprofit and public agencies extend their services.

SSM HEALTH AT HOME (800) 924-2273 ssmhealth.com/athome

STATE OF WISCONSIN BOARD ON AGING AND LONG-TERM CARE Volunteer Ombudsman Program (608) 246-7001 longtermcare.wi.gov

UNITED WAY OF DANE COUNTY VOLUNTEER CENTER (608) 246-4380 unitedwaydanecounty.org /volunteer-center

Thrift Store 6904 Watts Road, Madison, WI (608) 709-1275 giveshelter.org/thrift MARCH–AUGUST 2021 JOURNEY OF AGING

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Shopping for HEALTHY FOOD SAFELY BY BRENDON SMITH

Having access to healthy food can be challenging for many of us at the best of times, but it can be even more challenging during a pandemic. People with compromised immune systems face greater risk in being around others, especially in enclosed spaces, and those with reduced mobility may experience additional challenges. MARCH–AUGUST 2021 JOURNEY OF AGING

Fortunately, there are still some options available to provide you with healthy food. Many grocery stores offered online shopping before the pandemic, and more scrambled to add this service as the pandemic continued through 2020. Because the person selecting

products ordered online has to be paid, it’s common to see this expense recouped either by charging a flat fee for this service or charging higher prices for products than you would find on the shelves if you were shopping in the store. Be sure to pay attention to any fees and product prices if you shop for groceries online.

HEALTH | 53 Having access to healthy food can be challenging for many of us at the best of times, but it can be even more challenging during a pandemic.

Delivery is a convenient option when available—you don’t have to go farther than your front door to get your groceries. It also reduces your risk of exposure dramatically compared to shopping in the store. If you’re able to visit a grocery store, picking up groceries curbside (in the grocery store parking lot without having to leave your car) may cost less than delivery while also keeping your exposure minimal. Stores often have more curbside pickup times available than delivery times, so this may allow you to get your food sooner than it might be delivered. If you consistently order from a store with a small delivery crew, they may also learn your preferences, such as where to leave your groceries, what substitutions

you prefer, and other ways to provide you with superior customer service. Third-party companies may be able to deliver some products as well. Restaurants and some grocery stores offer prepared foods—like sandwiches and meals—through delivery companies, such as EatStreet, GrubHub, and ChowNow. Some enterprising smaller product vendors have also banded together so that you can order from them through one website. You can search for these companies online or use smartphone apps to order. During the pandemic, most of these services will require payment online rather than at the door to prevent the risk of exposure.

If you do go into a grocery store, they may have established times of the day (or days of the week) specially dedicated to seniors so that their risk of exposure is reduced. Check your grocer’s website, Yelp! listing, or Facebook account or call them to find out. If you look online, check how recently information has been added; if the most recent news they share was added months ago, you may want to call them to ensure you aren’t seeing outdated information. The City of Madison offers links to multiple resources for those with limited incomes who want to eat healthy. For more information, go to c i t y o f m a d i s o n .c o m / h e a l t h - s a f e t y /coronavir us /communit y-resources /food. To identify nearby emergency food options, enter 211 into your phone or text your ZIP Code to 898-211. This will connect you to a Dane County specialist who can help you navigate a variety of social services.

Brendon Smith is communications director at Willy Street Co-op.

Willy Street Co-op North: 2817 N. Sherman Ave. Madison, WI 53704 (608) 471-4422 West: 6825 University Ave. Middleton, WI 53562 (608) 284-7800 East: 1221 Williamson St. Madison, WI 53703 (608) 251-6776 willystreet.coop JOURNEYOFAGING.COM

54 | HEALTH ARTHRITIS FOUNDATION

CHRONIC CONDITIONS & SUPPORT

Wisconsin Office (414) 321-3933 arthritis.org/wisconsin

Listings include various national organizations, local resources, and support systems. Please also see Palliative Care category in this section.

EPILEPSY FOUNDATION HEART OF WISCONSIN

ALS ASSOCIATION WISCONSIN CHAPTER

HEARTLAND HOSPICE

(414) 763-2220 alsawi.org

AMERICAN DIABETES ASSOCIATION (608) 222-7785 diabetes.org

AMERICAN HEART ASSOCIATION (608) 709-4930 heart.org

AMERICAN PARKINSON DISEASE ASSOCIATION (APDA) (608) 345-7938 apdaparkinson.org/community /wisconsin

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(608) 442-5555 epilepsywisconsin.org

2801 Crossroads Dr., Ste. 2000 Madison 53718 (608) 819-0033 heartlandhospice.com/madison Managing a serious disease and relief from its symptoms can make all the difference in the quality of your life and the lives of your loved ones. Our certified Nurse Practitioners can help.

MADISON SPINAL CORD INJURY SUPPORT GROUP (608) 620-5666 madisonsci.org

MY CHOICE WISCONSIN

WISCONSIN INSTITUTE FOR HEALTHY AGING (608) 243-5690 wihealthyaging.org

CLINICS & MEDICAL CENTERS NONEMERGENCY The following listing can assist you with finding medical care. It’s best to check with your insurance carrier before scheduling any medical appointments to verify that you are covered. Always, in an emergency, call 911.

HEALTH | 55 ACCESS COMMUNITY HEALTH (608) 443-5480 or (608) 443-5500 accesscommunityhealthcenters.org

CLINICS & MEDICAL CENTERS - SPECIALTY STOUGHTON HEALTH

Breast Care Program 900 Ridge St., Stoughton 53589 (608) 873-2266 stoughtonhealth.com Providing services from early detection to post-surgical care.

STOUGHTON HEALTH

Wound Care Clinic 900 Ridge St., Stoughton 53589 (608) 873-2266 stoughtonhealth.com

STOUGHTON HEALTH GENERAL SURGERY CLINIC 900 Ridge St., Stoughton 53589 (608) 873-2266 stoughtonhealth.com

STOUGHTON HEALTH ORTHOTEAM CLINIC

2 Science Ct., Ste. 102, Madison 53711 900 Ridge St., Stoughton 53589 (608) 877-3419 orthoteam.com Provides orthopedic services with specialization in sports medicine, hip, shoulder, and knee.

CLINICS & MEDICAL CENTERS URGENT CARE STOUGHTON HEALTH

Oregon Urgent Care Clinic 990 Janesville St., Oregon 53575 (608) 835-5373 stoughtonhealth.com

STOUGHTON HEALTH

Urgent Care 900 Ridge St., Stoughton 53589 (608) 873-6611 stoughtonhealth.com

DENTAL CARE ACCESS COMMUNITY HEALTH CENTERS (608) 443-5482 or (608) 443-5500 accesscommunityhealthcenters.org

of wellness services and amenities for adults who are age 50+ and who have chronic or acute medical conditions. Also enjoy personal training, massage, specialty classes, and physical therapy.

GO4LIFE – NATIONAL INSTITUTE ON AGING go4life.nia.nih.gov

FITNESS & SPORTS ADAPTIVE SPORTSMEN IN WISCONSIN adaptivesportsmen.org

BODYFIT SOLUTIONS FOR WOMEN BY WOMEN bodyfitsolutions.com

CAPITOL LAKES AQUATIC AND WELLNESS CENTER

333 W. Main St., Madison 53703 (608) 283-2006 or (888) 211-8801 aquaticandwellness.com This public, full-service fitness center in downtown Madison provides a variety

GOODMAN-ROTARY 50+ FITNESS PROGRAMS

Madison School & Community Recreation (MSCR) 3802 Regent St., Madison 53705 (608) 204-3023 mscr@madison.k12.wi.us mscr.org/50-plus-fitness-programs.cfm Offers classes for adults in aqua exercise, strength training, low-impact fitness, yoga, tai chi, golf, walking clubs, and more at affordable prices at various sites in Madison.

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MADISON SCHOOL & COMMUNITY RECREATION (MSCR)

services, access to falls prevention programs, and more!

Adapted Recreation/Inclusive Programs (608) 204-4581 mscr.org

TAI CHI CENTER OF MADISON, LLC

MADISON SCHOOL & COMMUNITY RECREATION (MSCR) Pontoon Boat Program (608) 204-4581 mscr.org

SHARING ACTIVE INDEPENDENT LIVES (SAIL)

6209 Mineral Point Rd., Ste. 210 Madison 53705 (608) 230-4321 info@sailtoday.org sailtoday.org SAIL is a nonprofit membership organization of people 55+ living in the Madison area. Membership includes a 10 percent discount to Madison School & Community Recreation Programs (MSCR), low-cost personal training

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(608) 663-8299 taichicenterofmadison.com

YMCA (608) 221-1571 East YMCA (608) 837-8221 Northeast YMCA (608) 276-6606 West YMCA ymcadanecounty.org

HEALTH PLANS AVID RISK SOLUTIONS

2501 Parmenter St., Ste. 200A Middleton 53562 (608) 827-4525 sue.schmitt@avidrisk.com avidrisk.com Health insurance agent with a focus on choosing the senior health plan that

best meets your needs. Will review Medicare Supplement, Medicare Advantage, and/or Prescription Drug Plan options. We represent many different insurance companies providing you more choices.

HOSPITALS EDGERTON HOSPITAL AND HEALTH SERVICES (608) 884-3441 edgertonhospital.com

SELECT SPECIALTY HOSPITAL (608) 260-2700 madison.selectspecialtyhospitals.com

STOUGHTON HOSPITAL 900 Ridge St., Stoughton 53589 (608) 873-6611 stoughtonhealth.com

HEALTH | 57 UNITYPOINT HEALTH – MERITER (608) 417-6000 unitypoint.org

UW HEALTH HOSPITALS AND CLINICS (608) 263-6400 uwhealth.org

WILLIAM S. MIDDLETON MEMORIAL VETERANS HOSPITAL (608) 256-1901 madison.va.gov

INSURANCE MY CHOICE WISCONSIN

MENTAL HEALTH & PSYCHIATRIC SERVICES Below please find counseling, support groups, and inpatient facilities providing comprehensive mental health support. In an emergency, please call 911.

HOARDING CLEANUP IN WISCONSIN

INTELLECTUAL HEALTH & DISABILITIES

JOURNEY MENTAL HEALTH CENTER (608) 280-2720 Central Intake (608) 280-2600 24-Hour Suicide Hotline (608) 280-2700 General Info Line journeymhc.org

MENDOTA MENTAL HEALTH INSTITUTE (608) 301-1000 dhs.wisconsin.gov/mh_mendota

(608) 351-2337 wihoarding.com

RISE UP, INC.

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101 Nob Hill Rd., Ste. 200 Madison 53713 (608) 237-7710 amelton@iriseup.org Facebook: RISE UP, Inc. @ iriseup.org RISE UP is a nonprofit residential agency that supports adults/older adults who have disabilities in their own homes and apartments in the community. It‘s our mission to provide the people served with opportunities for maximum choice, independence, and personal growth. Job opportunities are always available for dependable, motivated caregivers. EEO/AA employer with full benefit package.

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NATIONAL SUICIDE PREVENTION LINE (800) 273-8255 24hr/365day

RECOVERY DANE ADULT RESOURCE CENTER (608) 237-1661 danecountyhumanservices.org /mentalhealth/adult

STOUGHTON HEALTH

Geriatric Psychiatry Inpatient Program 900 Ridge St., Stoughton 53589 (608) 873-2242 stoughtonhealth.com Designed to treat acute mental health disorders in adults aged 55+. Provides personalized treatment for depression, anxiety, Alzheimer’s disease and other forms of dementia, bipolar disorder, schizophrenia, and psychosis.

FAIRSHARE CSA COALITION

suffering of patients. Unlike hospice care, palliative medicine is appropriate for patients in all stages, including those undergoing treatment for curable illnesses and those living with chronic diseases, as well as patients who are nearing the end of life. Palliative medicine utilizes a multidisciplinary approach to patient care, relying on input from allied health professionals in formulating a plan of care to relieve suffering in all areas of a patient’s life. Palliative programs may vary according to the provider. Check the Retirement Housing & Long-Term Care section for the Skilled Nursing Care/ Rehabilitation category, as they typically provide palliative care too.

(608) 226-0300 csacoalition.org

AGRACE SUPPORTIVE CARE

NUTRITION/FOOD & MEAL PROGRAMS Check also the Aging & Caregiver Resources along with Safe & Healthy at Home sections.

CHEFS FOR SENIORS INC. (608) 220-9814 chefsforseniors.com

ELDERLY NUTRITION PROGRAM dhs.wisconsin.gov/aging/nutrition.htm

NEWBRIDGE

1625 Northport Dr., Ste. 125 Madison, WI 53704 5724 Raymond Rd., Madison 53711 4142 Monona Dr., Madison 53716 (608) 512-0000 newbridgemadison.org The mission of NewBridge is to provide older adults a bridge to successful aging. Our older adult meal program provides nutritious daytime meals throughout Madison and Monona.

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5395 E. Cheryl Pkwy., Madison 53711 (608) 276-4660 info@agrace.org agrace.org Agrace Supportive Care provides inhome palliative care consultations to identify the medical and emotional issues that need to be addressed to improve the patient’s quality of life. People of any age who are struggling with physical symptoms and emotional challenges related to any serious illness may benefit from a palliative-care consultation.

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their ability for independence with daily activities.

(608) 836-1868 comforcare.com/madison

HEARTLAND HOSPICE

PHARMACIES COMMUNITY PHARMACY Downtown (608) 251-3242 Middleton (608) 310-5390 communitypharmacy.coop

PRESCRIPTION DRUG ASSISTANCE Listings include different prescription programs; information regarding adverse reactions to medicines; and locations to drop off leftover, unused, and expired prescriptions.

ACCESS COMMUNITY HEALTH CENTERS (608) 443-5500 accesscommunityhealthcenters.org

SENIORCARE RX WISCONSIN Prescription Drug Assistance Program (800) 657-2038 dhs.wisconsin.gov/seniorcare

SUBSTANCE ABUSE & ADDICTIONS Listed below are inpatient and outpatient programs, treatment centers, and support.

5 DOOR RECOVERY

810 W. Olin Ave., Madison 53715 (608) 827-9170 help@5DoorRecovery.org 5DoorRecovery.org 5 Door Recovery represents each individual’s unique path to recovery, guiding through Change; Compassion; Courage; Health; and, finally, Hope for a better life. Expanded services include experimental therapies, a stronger focus on health and family, and increased support services. This modern 20 bed facility is centrally located in Madison.

PHYSICAL THERAPY & REHABILITATION STOUGHTON HEALTH

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Oregon Rehabilitation and Sports Medicine Clinic 990 Janesville St., Oregon 53575 (608) 835-5373 stoughtonhealth.com Provides physical therapy, occupational therapy, and speech/language pathology services in a patient-focused care environment. Our therapists provide comprehensive evaluation, treatment, and education for patients to increase their ability for independence with daily activities.

STOUGHTON HEALTH

Rehabilitation and Sports Medicine Clinic 2300 US Hwy. 51-138 Stoughton 53589 (608) 873-2292 stoughtonhealth.com Provides physical therapy, occupational therapy, and speech/language pathology services in a patient-focused care environment. Our therapists provide comprehensive evaluation, treatment, and education for patients to increase JOURNEYOFAGING.COM

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Warning Sign:

WHEN AN AGING PARENT NEEDS HELP BY CRICKET HESSELBERG

We’ve all had times in our lives when we’ve needed help from someone, whether that be a cooked meal, support during a difficult time, car repairs, financial support, or simply needing an ear for a sense of direction. Recognizing and accepting help from others is not easy, especially as we age. The help can be viewed as a loss of control or loss of independence. To an older adult, this loss can be seen MARCH–AUGUST 2021 JOURNEY OF AGING

in various circumstances, such as no longer being able to drive, thus relying on others to run an errand, or needing to be on someone else’s schedule for meals, laundry, and housework. Perhaps the feeling of someone telling you what’s best for your own health and safety could feel like a loss. Often, the individual themselves have a strong desire to remain independent and may not recognize they need help until a

traumatic event happens. Family and friends are usually the ones who see concerns or warning signs first. The most common indicators that someone may need help include: • Difficulty performing routine tasks or activities independently, such as bathing, dressing, grooming, using the restroom, transferring

HEALTH | 61 If you see any of these warning signs, the next step would be talking with your loved one and asking exploratory questions to gain more insight about the situation.

from a bed to a chair, and walking. Additional examples of routine tasks not met could include increased clutter within their home, unpaid bills, spoiled food in the refrigerator, and unfilled prescriptions. • Noticeable changes in physical appearance, such as possible weight loss due to poor diet perhaps as a result from difficulty cooking, eating, or shopping for food. Other signs include an overall appearance of being unkempt, having unpleasant body odor, and lack of oral care. • Bruises, marks, or wounds on the body that could indicate falls within the home or burns that could indicate troubles with cooking. • Changes in sleep patterns, such as sleeping all day or not able to sleep at all. • Changes in behavior or mood, such as lack of motivation, loss of interest, withdrawing from others, increased agitation, or failure to return phone calls. • Forgetfulness and memory concerns, such as missing important appointments, forgetting to take medications, increased confusion, difficulty performing familiar tasks, frequently misplacing items, getting lost when walking

or driving to familiar places, or wearing the same clothes for multiple days. • Alcohol and drug use. Sometimes an individual may become dependent on alcohol or a drug as they confront challenges of aging and pain. If you see any of these warning signs, the next step would be talking with your loved one and asking exploratory questions to gain more insight about the situation. Talk to them in a way that they can participate in the conversation, recognize the concern, and be involved with coming up with possible solutions. Keep in mind the following: • Pick a good time of day and a private place where your loved one is comfortable. • Actively listen. Give your complete attention, ask open-ended questions to gain more details about the concern, and summarize what you’ve been told to ensure you understand their point of view.

• Focus on the positives and highlight how the additional help or change would benefit them. For example: a housekeeper could clean the apartment so you have more time for visiting with friends. • Start small and be patient. Rarely is any discussion about change easy, especially when suggestions come from others and may imply a person needs help or appears less capable. The important first step is identifying the concern and having a sensitive conversation with your loved one. Be prepared to revisit conversations and give your loved one opportunity to think about options or a direction. Emphasize that your conversation is out of love, concern, support, and your desire to help them remain independent, live safely within their own homes for as long as possible, and to have the best quality of life.

Cricket Hesselberg is the director of aging services at Catholic Charities.

• Engage in dual perspective. Acknowledge their fears and show empathy. • Ask what you can do. If they answer, “Nothing, I’m fine,” offer suggestions that you’d be willing to help with and then follow through.

Catholic Charities 702 S. High Point Rd., Ste. 201 Madison, WI 53719 (608) 826-8095 ccmadison.org

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TELLURIAN, INC.

(608) 222-8989 aamadisonwi.org

CATHOLIC CHARITIES

(608) 223-7311 main office & patient services (608) 223-3311 detoxification center tellurian.org

(608) 826-8000 ccmadison.org

TERESA MCGOVERN CENTER

CELEBRATE RECOVERY Damascus Road Church facebook.com/drcrecoveryroad

CELEBRATE RECOVERY Door Creek Church facebook.com/celebraterecoveryat doorcreekchurch

JOURNEY MENTAL HEALTH CENTER (608) 280-2720 Central Intake journeymhc.org

LSS ALCOHOL AND OTHER DRUG ASSESSMENT CENTER (608) 277-0610 lsswis.org

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Addiction Services Center (608) 222-7311 x104 teresamcgoverncenter.org

WISCONSIN COUNCIL ON PROBLEM GAMBLING (800) 426-2535 - 24hr/365day wi-problemgamblers.org

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So Many Options–

WHERE TO START? BY WENDY SULZER

I’ll never forget the argument between my father and grandmother when it was becoming obvious that she couldn’t safely live alone any longer. He was advocating for a move to assisted living, but Grandma was flat out refusing to go to a home. Assisted living was still a relatively new concept at the time, and the only one in her town happened to be a wing of the old nursing home that had been converted to assisted-living suites. “I’m doing just fine living right here,” she said. MARCH–AUGUST 2021 JOURNEY OF AGING

“What will you do when you can’t take care of yourself anymore?” Dad asked, cleverly taking the immediate need out of the conversation.

more proactive you are at planning for future care needs, the higher the chance you’ll avoid long-term placement in a nursing home.

“I’ll go to the hospital and I’ll die!”

Home Care

Although there are many more options available for seniors today than ever before, many still tend to think being put in a home is the only option once someone can no longer live independently. The good news is, the

The first option that should be considered is home care, and I’m not just saying that because I work for a home-care provider. Home care is the most flexible and least disruptive option because, in most cases, the individual can continue living where

RETIREMENT HOUSING & LONG-TERM CARE | 65 they currently call home. If family and friends are helping provide care, home care can be used to fill in the gaps. In most cases, you can start small and gradually work up to having more care as needed, even up to 24 hours per day, though this option will exceed many people’s budgets.

life-enrichment programs and eating meals together. Ask anyone who has worked in a top-notch assisted-living community, and they’ll tell you it’s very common to see residents thrive in this environment. Again, there are a range of options, from small family home settings to large communities with hundreds of residents.

Senior Apartments Also known as independent living, senior apartments and senior communities can be a great first step for those who want to give up the burdens of home maintenance; enjoy amenities, like classes and transportation services; and, in many cases, gain access to other in-home services, like meals and personal care, if needed. Senior apartments can vary greatly in size, from small buildings with a dozen or fewer apartments up to large communities with hundreds of residents, allowing you to find the right size and feel.

Nursing Home

Assisted Living

If you or someone you love is starting to plan for more care, you are on the right path with this magazine in hand. Visit the websites or call the communities and providers listed here. Make inperson visits whenever possible and ask around for recommendations. Plan ahead. Many of the best communities have waiting lists, so it’s never too early to start looking. If all of this is

Assisted living is often the right step when an individual or couple needs more care and support, often due to some memory loss or challenges with mobility and hygiene. Assisted-living communities can also greatly contribute to the quality of life for seniors who have been experiencing loneliness since they are often organized around

The vast majority of skilled nursing facilities would be almost unrecognizable to seniors with bad memories of visiting someone decades ago. They are often full of life and run by passionate and dedicated staff. That being said, because of all the options above, most seniors will never need to live in a nursing home on a long-term basis. Skilled nursing is a great option for seniors recovering from an illness or surgery where intensive physical and occupational therapy is needed to make an optimal recovery.

too overwhelming, you can even hire a professional to help you find the right fit. In case you were wondering, my grandmother did move to assisted living. She made some new friends and enjoyed the programs more than she ever imagined she would. Best wishes to you that you find the same happy ending as you begin your journey.

Wendy Sulzer is director of home care at Bright Star® of Madison, Janesville, Baraboo, La Crosse, Racine, and Milwaukee.

Brightstar 3240 University Ave., Ste. 3A Madison, WI 53705 (608) 441-8620

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BRIDGE TO REDISCOVERY MEMORY CARE

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at Coventry Village by Five Star Continuing Care Retirement Community 7710 S. Brookline Dr., Madison 53719 (608) 662-7622 coventryvillagewi.com Our specialized “Bridge to Rediscovery” program and the attentive support of caring professionals make for a warm, engaging environment—one that promotes social participation, mobility, and activity while maintaining the utmost in personal dignity for every memory care resident.

BRIGHTSTAR SENIOR LIVING OF MADISON

ALZHEIMER’S/ DEMENTIA/ MEMORY CARE It’s important to be educated on the various supportive programming and living environments to find the best place that fits the progressive needs of an individual. See the Alzheimer’s & Dementia section for additional resources and refer to Wisconsin Department of Health Services at dhs.wisconsin.gov/dementia. This category is designed to provide information on housing options tailored to the special needs of individuals with memory/dementia concerns. These communities foster secured environments with specially designed programs and regulated care.

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ALL SAINTS NEIGHBORHOOD MEMORY CARE

8210 Highview Dr., Madison 53719 (608) 827-3029 dmalaise@elderspan.com allsaintsneighborhood.org Lovely studio apartments with specialized, person-centered care for those with Alzheimer’s or other memory challenges. Licensed nurses, care staff, and activity staff provide individualized services and dignified assistance to support seniors and their families.

ATTIC ANGEL COMMUNITY

8301 Old Sauk Rd., Middleton 53562 (608) 662-8842 Katie.Gruber@atticangel.org atticangel.org The Haven, Attic Angel Community’s memory care residence, provides peaceful and supportive living for adults with Alzheimer’s or related forms of dementia. Licensed as a CBRF, the Haven employs dedicated nursing and

6550 Schroeder Rd., Madison 53711 (608) 620-7900 ryan.walsh@brightstarseniorliving.com brightstarseniorliving.com/madison Our beautiful, secure memory care neighborhood promotes the dignity and individuality of each resident. A specially trained memory care team provides helpful assistance and innovative programming along with therapeutic diets. Studio, onebedroom, and deluxe suites.

BRIGHTSTAR SENIOR LIVING OF WAUNAKEE

1001 Quinn Dr., Waunakee 53597 (608) 849-2322 ryan.walsh@brightstarseniorliving.com brightstarseniorliving.com/waunakee Our thoughtfully designed memory care community offers the security and comfort BrightStar has become known for. Dementia-trained caregivers embrace the life story of each resident to promote dignified connections each day. Come join us for a tour of our welcoming studio and one-bedroom suites.

CAPITOL LAKES TERRACES

345 W. Main St., Madison 53703 (608) 283-2083 madison@retirement.org retirement.org/madison Capitol Lakes provides gentle, compassionate memory care for people

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HERITAGE MIDDLETON MEMORY CARE (844) 658-4475 heritagesenior.com/middleton

HERITAGE MONONA MEMORY CARE (844) 658-4475 heritagesenior.com/monona

THE LEGACY AT NOEL MANOR

435 Prairie Oaks Dr., Verona 53593 (608) 729-9001 noelmanorliving.com The Legacy at Noel Manor features 32 apartments, common living areas, dining room, and an outdoor patio for our residents with dementia. We believe loving care, comfort, respect, security,

Their needs can change over time. We can help. Trusted partners in residential senior and dementia care. • Expert clinical team

• Daily social enrichment

• Memory Care support

• Small, homelike setting

• Chef-prepared meals Learn more at brightstarseniorliving.com.

Call us today to learn more! BrightStar Senior Living Madison 6550 Schroeder Rd. Madison, WI 53711

608-620-7900 BrightStar Senior Living Waunakee 1001 Quinn Dr. Waunakee, WI 53597

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and spirituality are just as important as medical and physical needs.

THE LEGACY OF DEFOREST

6639 Pederson Crossing DeForest 53532 (608) 807-2888 communitydirector@legacyofdeforest.com legacyofdeforest.com The Legacy of DeForest closer care features 22 apartments, common living areas, dining room, and an outdoor patio for our residents with dementia. We believe loving care, comfort, respect, security, and spirituality are just as important as medical and physical needs.

OAK PARK® PLACE MADISON MEMORY CARE

702 and 719 Jupiter Dr. Madison 53718 (608) 663-8600 madisonsales@oakparkplace.com oakparkplace.com Oak Park® Place Memory Care Communities on Madison’s east side MARCH–AUGUST 2021 JOURNEY OF AGING

provide 24-hour care in a comforting environment along with meals, housekeeping, and a full complement of activities for residents with Alzheimer’s and dementia. Transportation is available for group activities and scheduled outings.

OAK PARK® PLACE SKILLED NURSING

718 Jupiter Dr., Madison 53718 (608) 663-8600 madisonsales@oakparkplace.com oakparkplace.com Oak Park® Place provides a comforting environment with skilled nursing services, including specialized programming for seniors with Alzheimer’s and dementia. We work with family and physicians to ensure the best possible care for your loved one.

OAKWOOD VILLAGE PRAIRIE RIDGE

5565 Tancho Dr., Madison 53718 (608) 230-4547 oakwoodvillage.net Conveniently located between downtown Madison and Sun Prairie. Quality care, robust life enrichment programming, and campus amenities make Oakwood the best value in Madison. Nonprofit, sponsored by 37 Lutheran congregations. Locally owned and operated since 1948.

OAKWOOD VILLAGE UNIVERSITY WOODS

6165 Mineral Point Rd., Madison 53705 (608) 230-4266 oakwoodvillage.net Quality care, robust life enrichment programming, and campus amenities make Oakwood the best value in Madison. Nonprofit, sponsored by 37 Lutheran congregations. Locally owned and operated since 1948.

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890 Prairie St., Prairie du Sac 53578 (608) 643-7343 dpete@elderspan.com pinesprairiedusac.com Part of The Pines Senior Living in Prairie du Sac, Pine Villa Memory Care provides specialized, person-centered care for those with Alzheimer’s or other memory challenges. Spacious studio apartments with private baths surround beautiful common spaces, encouraging socialization. Licensed nurses, care staff, and activity staff provide dignified assistance to support seniors and their families.

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ASSISTED LIVING - AFH Adult Family Home. These private homes contain four or fewer unrelated individuals. Residents receive care above the level of room and board, which can include up to seven hours per week of licensed nursing care. See dhs.wisconsin.gov for quarterly updated listings.

BRIDGE ADULT FAMILY HOME (608) 444-7710

345 W. Main St., Madison 53703 (608) 283-2083 madison@retirement.org retirement.org/madison Capitol Lakes provides gentle, compassionate memory care for people with Alzheimer’s and other memory conditions. Specially trained staff members build self-confidence and promote a sense of purpose in a positive, quiet, and secure home environment. Healthcare also on campus.

COUNTRY LIVING Adult Family Home (608) 838-6131

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HOPE & A FUTURE Adult Family Home (608) 831-0243 hopeandafutureinc.org

PLEASANT MEADOWS Adult Family Home (608) 512-7764 Find us on Facebook

ROSEWOOD Adult Family Home (608) 438-1585 Find us on Facebook

UNIFIED Adult Family Home (608) 838-8612 facebook.com/unifiedafh

ASSISTED LIVING - CBRF Community Based Residential Facility. Designed specifically for aging adults needing more advanced care, CBRFs are appropriate for individuals with general/ frail requirements. They provide up to 28 hours per week of personalized supportive services, such as meals, health monitoring, medication management, housekeeping, and laundry similar to RCACs but also includes no more than three hours per week of licensed nursing care. CBRFs can work for those with Alzheimer’s-related dementias or other ailments requiring more in-depth monitoring. See dhs.wisconsin.gov for quarterly updated listings.

ALL SAINTS NEIGHBORHOOD ASSISTED LIVING

519 Commerce Dr., Madison 53719 (608) 827-2990 dmalaise@elderspan.com allsaintsneighborhood.org Beautiful studio, one- and twobedroom apartments with private baths and kitchenettes. Licensed nurses available 24/7 and a life rich with social opportunities help deliver optimal aging. MARCH–AUGUST 2021 JOURNEY OF AGING

RETIREMENT HOUSING & LONG-TERM CARE | 71 ATTIC ANGEL COMMUNITY, THE HAVEN (MEMORY CARE) (608) 662-8842 atticangel.org

ATTIC ANGEL COMMUNITY, THE HEALTH CENTER (608) 662-8842 atticangel.org

BRIGHTSTAR SENIOR LIVING OF MADISON

6550 Schroeder Rd., Madison 53711 (608) 620-7900 ryan.walsh@brightstarseniorliving.com brightstarseniorliving.com/madison BrightStar Senior Living is a community where friendships are fostered and each moment is celebrated. We have the clinical expertise to support individuals with complex needs. Studio, onebedroom, and deluxe suites. Chefprepared meals.

BRIGHTSTAR SENIOR LIVING OF WAUNAKEE

1001 Quinn Dr., Waunakee 53597 (608) 849-2322 ryan.walsh@brightstarseniorliving.com brightstarseniorliving.com/waunakee Open November 2018, the newest BrightStar Senior Living community offers all the comforts of home along with personalized care and clinical expertise. The community features studio, one- and two-bedroom, and deluxe suites; chef-prepared meals; and engaging social programming to meet every need.

CAPITOL LAKES TERRACES

345 W. Main St., Madison 53703 (608) 283-2083 madison@retirement.org retirement.org/madison This accredited, not-for-profit continuing care retirement community offers spacious assisted-living apartments with compassionate, personalized assistance; supportive services; fine dining and amenities; and activities on

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EXTRAORDINARY CARE IN EXTRAORDINARY TIMES Five Star has a longstanding tradition of enriching lives. Now, more than ever, we are here for you, to help you take care of the people you love most.

Welcoming new residents – call us today. THANK YOU TO OUR OUTSTANDING TEAM COVENTRY VILLAGE 7707 North Brookline Dr. • Madison, WI 53719 • 608-829-0603 • www.CoventryVillageWI.com MEADOWMERE MADISON ASSISTED LIVING COMMUNITY 5601 Burke Road • Madison, WI 53718 • 608-268-9100 • www.MeadowmereMadison.com WILLOW POINTE ASSISTED LIVING & MEMORY CARE 1125 North Edge Trail • Verona, WI 53593 • 608-848-5701 • www.WillowPointeShines.com

campus and in downtown Madison. All levels of care on campus.

MAPLEWOOD VILLAGE ASSISTED LIVING APARTMENTS

HERITAGE MIDDLETON

(608) 643-8494 maplewoodsaukprairie.com

(844) 658-4475 heritagesenior.com/middleton

HERITAGE MONONA (844) 658-4475 heritagesenior.com/monona

THE LEGACY OF DEFOREST

6639 Pederson Crossing DeForest 53532 (608) 807-2888 communitydirector@legacyofdeforest.com legacyofdeforest.com The Legacy of DeForest closer care features 22 apartments, common living areas, dining room, lounge areas, and an outdoor patio for our residents with high level assisted-living needs.

NOEL MANOR RETIREMENT LIVING

OAKWOOD VILLAGE PRAIRIE RIDGE

5565 Tancho Dr., Madison 53718 (608) 230-4547 oakwoodvillage.net Quality care, robust life enrichment programming, and campus amenities make Oakwood the best value in Madison. Nonprofit, sponsored by 37

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OAKWOOD VILLAGE UNIVERSITY WOODS

6175 Mineral Point Rd., Madison 53705 (608) 230-4266 oakwoodvillage.net Quality care, robust life enrichment programming, and campus amenities make Oakwood the best value in Madison. Nonprofit, sponsored by 37 Lutheran congregations. Locally owned and operated since 1948.

THE PINES ASSISTED LIVING

1050 Prairie St., Prairie du Sac 53578 (608) 643-5433 dpete@elderspan.com pinesprairiedusac.com Part of The Pines Senior Living in Prairie du Sac, The Pines Assisted Living provides lovely studio and onebedroom apartments with private baths and kitchenettes. Licensed nurses available 24/7, experienced Notes: Colors C

RETIREMENT HOUSING & LONG-TERM CARE | 73 staff members, and a life rich with social opportunities help deliver optimal aging.

SEBRING ASSISTED CARE RESIDENCE

at Coventry Village by Five Star Continuing Care Retirement Community 7710 S. Brookline Dr., Madison 53719 (608) 662-7622 coventryvillagewi.com Productive. Meaningful. Engaging. That’s how we view life at the Sebring Assisted Care Residence, where supportive programs and expert care ensure a life-enriching experience for every resident, every day—because quality of life should be a priority at every age.

CAPITOL LAKES TERRACES

THE GARDENS RETIREMENT COMMUNITY (608) 204-0900

HERITAGE MIDDLETON (844) 658-4475 heritagesenior.com/middleton

HERITAGE MONONA (844) 658-4475 heritagesenior.com/monona

OAK PARK® PLACE MADISON ASSISTED LIVING

702 and 719 Jupiter Dr. Madison 53718 (608) 663-8600 madisonsales@oakparkplace.com marketing@oakparkplace.com oakparkplace.com Oak Park® Place offers assisted living for seniors on Madison’s east side. Twenty-

ASSISTED LIVING - RCAC Residential Care Apartment Complex. Licensing renewals and dates vary— please reference dhs.wisconsin.gov for information that is updated quarterly. Designed specifically for independent adults 55+, and provide up to 28 hours per week of personalized supportive services, such as meals, health monitoring, medication management, housekeeping, and laundry. Each apartment has a lockable entrance, kitchen, and bathroom. RCACs are not recommended for those with Alzheimer’srelated dementias or other ailments requiring more in-depth monitoring.

ATTIC ANGEL COMMUNITY

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8301 Old Sauk Rd. Middleton 53562 (608) 662-8842 Katie.Gruber@atticangel.org atticangel.org Attic Angel offers two options for RCAC assisted living: one- and two-bedroom apartments for more independent living with scheduled services as needed, and one-bedroom suites and studios for assisted living where nursing staff is available 24/7. Gorgeous grounds and exceptional living are our trademarks.

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CONTINUING CARE RETIREMENT COMMUNITY - CCRC Larger retirement community with accommodations for independent living, assisted living, and nursing home care offering residents a continuum of care. A person can spend the rest of their life in a CCRC, moving between levels of care as needed.

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CAPITOL LAKES RETIREMENT COMMUNITY

333 W. Main St., Madison 53703 (608) 283-2046 or (888) 211-8801 madison@retirement.org retirement.org/madison The accredited, not-for-profit Capitol Lakes is the only CCRC that offers cultural

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HERE Capitol Lakes puts downtown Madison right outside your door. Art walks, jazz festivals, farmers markets— enjoy the best the city has to offer every day. Call today to learn more about our extraordinary retirement living: 608-283-2046

333 W Main St, Madison, WI 53703 retirement.org/Madison Capitol Lakes is a Pacific Retirement Services community and an equal housing opportunity.

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living in the heart of downtown Madison with all levels of care for your future: independent living, assisted living, memory care, and Medicare-certified skilled nursing and rehabilitation.

COVENTRY VILLAGE BY FIVE STAR (608) 829-0603 coventryvillagewi.com

OAK PARK® PLACE

618-719 Jupiter Dr., Madison 53718 (608) 663-8600 marketing@oakparkplace.com oakparkplace.com Oak Park® Place is committed to promoting independence through its full continuum of care. Serving seniors with skilled nursing/orthopedic rehabilitation, assisted living, memory care, and independent living on Madison’s east

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OAKWOOD VILLAGE PRAIRIE RIDGE

5565 Tancho Dr., Madison 53718 (608) 230-4000 oakwoodvillage.net Located on 18 acres on Madison’s east side, an impressive community center and multiple levels of care are all connected to create a beautiful, servicerich campus serving older adults. Locally operated by Oakwood Lutheran Senior Ministries, a Lutheran-sponsored nonprofit organization.

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care are all connected to create a beautiful, service-rich campus serving older adults. Locally operated by Oakwood Lutheran Senior Ministries, a Lutheran-sponsored nonprofit organization.

6205 Mineral Point Rd., Madison 53705 (608) 230-4266 oakwoodvillage.net Located on 30 wooded acres on Madison’s west side, an impressive community center and multiple levels of

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Pheasant Branch Middleton - 55+ 608-836-5905

Angell Park

Greentree Glen

Willard Haus

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Sun Prairie - 55+

Madison - 62+

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INDEPENDENT LIVING APARTMENTS & COMMUNITIES Designed specifically for independent adults 55+ able to live on their own who desire the security, enjoyment, and

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4659 Whitebud Terrace, DeForest Open, sun filled main floor with tons of windows. Spacious kitchen with granite counters & Island. Stainless Appliances, Southern facing patio leads to your deck. Main floor master suite w/tiled walkin shower, double vanity. Office/den off living room for work space. Finished exposed LL offers 3rd bedroom 3rd full bath and family room. Ample storage under the steps and extra space in your 2 car garage. High end Tankless water heater, Zone heating between floors, furnace has HEPA filter and UV Light system to kill bacteria & allergens. Hawthorne Hills Condos are a close walk to new sports fields and Conservancy. Future units coming! Call Jim Wilson (608) 474-0306.

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511 Commerce Dr., Madison 53719 (608) 827-3535 cyndi@elderspan.com allsaintsneighborhood.org Beautiful independent apartments include in the monthly rent a variety of services to make your life easier, such as biweekly housekeeping and a noon meal Monday through Friday. An array of dining, education, and entertainment opportunities are also just steps away at the All Saints Neighborhood Main Street.

ALL SAINTS NEIGHBORHOOD SENIOR APARTMENTS

8202 Highview Dr., Madison 53719 (608) 827-2222 mnaegle@elderspan.com allsaintsneighborhood.org Gracious independent one- and twobedroom apartments offering new friends, engaging activities, and carefree living. An array of dining, education, and entertainment opportunities are also available at the All Saints Neighborhood Main Street, just a short stroll across the skywalk.

ANGELL PARK

426 Park St., Sun Prairie 53590 (608) 837-9400 angellpark@horizondbm.com horizonseniorhousing.com Angell Park is located within walking distance of the downtown Sun Prairie shopping district. The community features heated underground parking, large community room for social gatherings, hair salon, fitness center, and much more.

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THE ARBORS AT OAK PARK® PLACE

718 Jupiter Dr., Madison 53718 (608) 663-8600 madisonsales@oakparkplace.com oakparkplace.com The Arbors at Oak Park® Place offers independent living for seniors on Madison’s east side. Housekeeping, meals, indoor parking, activities, and transportation for group activities are all included. Pets are welcome to reside with you at Oak Park® Place.

ATTIC ANGEL COMMUNITY

8301 Old Sauk Rd. Middleton 53562 (608) 662-8842 Kelly.DuBois@atticangel.org atticangel.org Our Prairie Point neighborhood features 123 homes for independent living, while Attic Angel Place offers 74 one- and two-bedroom apartments with services. Our senior community comes with builtin access to additional levels of care as needed, from rehabilitation and assisted living to memory care.

at Coventry Village by Five Star Continuing Care Retirement Community 7707 N. Brookline Dr., Madison 53719 (608) 829-0603 coventryvillagewi.com Life-enriching services and amenities, thoughtfully designed floor plans, and convenient west side location ensure carefree, maintenance-free living at the Brookline Apartment Homes. Select the apartment that fits your needs and start enjoying the retirement lifestyle you deserve.

BURR OAKS

2417 Cypress Way, Madison 53713 (608) 250-2585 burroaks@horizondbm.com horizonseniorhousing.com Burr Oaks is the gateway to Madison’s attractions. Amenities include heated underground parking, a large community room for social gatherings, a deck or patio on each apartment, JOURNEYOFAGING.COM

78 | RETIREMENT HOUSING & LONG-TERM CARE store, meal plan, on-site management, passageway to senior center, exercise room, beauty salon, laundry and trash room on each floor, two elevators, fulltime services coordinator, and local taxi service.

COURTYARD HOMES CONDOMINIUMS

NEW INDEPENDENT, ASSISTED LIVING & CLOSER CARE • Spacious Apartments • Free Transportation • Full-Time Nursing • 24 Hour Staff • Housekeeping • Daily Activities • Movie Theater • On-Site Salon

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EDGERTON RETIREMENT APARTMENTS

505 Stoughton Rd., Edgerton 53534 (608) 884-9009 era@bmcmadison.com bmcmadison.com A lovely apartment community designed for older adults 62+ and disabled persons. Our community consists of 24 one-bedroom apartment homes. This institution is an equal opportunity provider.

FIRST SENIOR I & II

Call For Information (608) 807-2888

Our mission is to take care of our loved ones with compassion and grace.

6639 Pederson Crossing Blvd. • DeForest, WI 53532

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CAPITOL LAKES RETIREMENT COMMUNITY

333 W. Main St., Madison 53703 (608) 283-2046 or (888) 211-8801 madison@retirement.org retirement.org/madison This not-for-profit, continuing care retirement community welcomes seniors age 62+ to enjoy life in the heart

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of downtown Madison. Choose from spacious independent living apartments with cultural activities, fine amenities, and a lifetime of continuing care.

COLONIAL VIEW APARTMENTS

601 Thomas Dr., Sun Prairie 53590 (608) 837-3174 colonialview@colonialview.org colonialview.org Amenities include spa room with walk-in tub, coffee shop/convenience

1720 E. Memorial Dr. and 1801 E. Milwaukee St., Janesville 53545 (608) 289-2200 firstsenior@horizondbm.com horizonseniorhousing.com First Senior I & II offer one- and twobedroom apartment homes. Built in an established neighborhood, both communities are smoke free and offer an independent, maintenance-free lifestyle. The community prides itself on creating a friendly, comfortable living environment with activities to keep you busy and social.

FROST WOODS I & II

101 and 201 Frost Woods Rd. Monona 53716 (608) 516-4280 frostwoods@horizondbm.com horizonseniorhousing.com Frost Woods features both market-rate and affordable apartment homes in a quiet neighborhood setting. Amenities include heated underground parking, a community room for socializing, an active social event calendar, elevator access, and much more.

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602 N. Segoe Rd., Madison 53705 (608) 204-0900 housing@independentlivinginc.org Wonderful retirement community with tower and garden apartments in the Hilldale neighborhood. Amenities include housekeeping, dining service, art gallery, on-site salon, satellite TV, computer/business center, concerts/ programs, underground parking and access to 24-hour staff. Extra services include personal care.

GENESIS APARTMENTS

230 S. Oak St., Oregon 53575 (608) 835-8600 customerservice@genesishousinginc.org bmcmadison.com Convenient, affordable apartment community designed for age 62+ or handicapped/disabled persons. Income limits apply, rental assistance may be available. Located in the heart of downtown Oregon and Brooklyn. This institution is an equal opportunity provider.

Enjoy the Nature of Great Retirement

OAKWOOD’S TWO CAMPUSES are thriving communities set in beautiful natural surroundings. Walking paths, resident gardens, and integrated landscaping invite you to explore. Paired with best-in-class life enrichment programming, you will find ample opportunities to learn, grow and be a part of a close-knit community. Prairie Ridge 5565 Tancho Drive Madison

University Woods 6205 Mineral Point Road Madison

Learn more at www.oakwoodvillage.net

GREENSPIRE APARTMENTS

924 Jackson St., Stoughton 53589 (608) 873-7855 greenspire@sbcglobal.net Designed for older adults 62+ and disabled persons. Greenspire consists of one- and two-bedroom apartments nestled in a park-like area and is just a few blocks from downtown Stoughton. This institution is an equal opportunity provider.

GREENTREE GLEN

732 Struck St., Madison 53711 (608) 274-5161 greentreeglen@horizondbm.com horizonseniorhousing.com Greentree Glen provides a comfortable, country-like setting featuring oneand two-bedroom homes, heated underground parking, fully applianced kitchens, decks or patios on each apartment, a monthly events calendar, and much more.

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HERITAGE MIDDLETON

6206 Maywood Ave., Middleton 53562 (844) 658-4475 jkrause@heritageal.com heritagesenior.com/middleton Heritage Middleton offers truly affordable luxury in a vibrant independent living option. Featuring washers and dryers in every beautiful apartment home, highlighted with granite counters, stainless appliances, and heat included for your comfort.

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HERITAGE MONONA

211 Owen Rd., Monona 53716 (844) 658-4475 tpowless@heritageal.com heritagesenior.com/monona Heritage Monona offers truly affordable luxury in a vibrant independent living option. Featuring washers and dryers in every beautiful home, highlighted with granite counters, stainless appliances, and heat included for your comfort.

THE LEGACY OF DEFOREST

6639 Pederson Crossing DeForest 53532 (608) 807-2888 communitydirector@legacyofdeforest.com legacyofdeforest.com The Legacy of DeForest is a premier retirement living community located in beautiful DeForest. The staff provide extraordinary independent, assistedliving, or closer care for your loved one with compassion and grace.

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471 Prairie Way Blvd., Verona 53593 (608) 620-6010 noelmanorliving.com Noel Manor Retirement Living is a premier retirement living community located in beautiful Verona, Wisconsin. The staff provide extraordinary independent, assisted-living, or closer care for your loved one with compassion and grace.

Colonial View APARTMENTS

Located Next to Colonial Club Senior Activity Center

INDEPENDENT SENIOR HOUSING

608-837-3174 601 Thomas Drive, Sun Prairie

“Living Independently with Neighbors Who Care” • Rent Based on Income

• Coffee/ice-cream shoppe

• On Site Management

• Beauty/barber shop

• Over 62 or Mobility Impaired

• Spa with walk-in Jacuzzi tub

• 24 Hour On Site Resident Managers

• Local taxi service

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OAKWOOD VILLAGE PRAIRIE RIDGE

5565 Tancho Dr., Madison 53718 (608) 230-4000 oakwoodvillage.net Thoughtfully designed apartment homes conveniently located between downtown Madison and Sun Prairie. Robust life enrichment programming makes life at Oakwood the best value in Madison. Nonprofit, sponsored by 37 Lutheran congregations. Locally owned and operated since 1948.

OAKWOOD VILLAGE UNIVERSITY WOODS

6205 Mineral Point Rd., Madison 53705 (608) 230-4266 oakwoodvillage.net Spacious apartment homes set in a wooded campus filled with amenities. Robust life enrichment program features cultural opportunities and lifelong learning, making Oakwood the best value in Madison. Nonprofit, sponsored by 37 Lutheran congregations. Locally owned and operated since 1948.

PHEASANT BRANCH

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6430 Pheasant Ln., Middleton 53562 (608) 836-5905 pheasantbranch@horizondbm.com horizonseniorhousing.com Pheasant Branch features one- and twobedroom apartment homes with a deck or patio. Located near a beautiful nature preserve and walking path, a community room for social gatherings, weekly events, a library, a sunroom, and much more are there for your enjoyment.

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• Warm-Water Pools at our premier properties* • On-Site Restaurant Style Dining • Fitness Centers with on-site Therapy Services • Outdoor Grills and Firepits • Housekeeping Services • Entertainment Theaters at our premier properties* • Transportation provided for scheduled events & activities • Spacious Floor Plans We can help you with the Next Step! • Independent • Assisted Living • Memory Care • Pendant Program: Safety, Security & Peace of Mind

Heritage Elm Grove 800 Wall Street Elm Grove, WI 53122

Heritage Monona 111 Owen Road Monona, WI 53716

Lincoln Village 1330 West Lincoln Ave. Port Washington, WI 53074

Heritage Muskego* S64 W13780 Janesville Rd. Muskego, WI 53150

Lexington Heritage 5020 South 107th Street Greenfield, WI 53228

Heritage Court N48W14250 W. Hampton Ave. Menomonee Falls, WI 53051

Heritage Waukesha 1831 Meadow Lane Pewaukee, WI 53072

Heritage West Allis 7901 West National Ave. West Allis, WI 53214

Heritage Middleton 6234 Maywood Ave. Middleton, WI 53562

Aspire* 825 Cobblestone Lane Kimberly, WI 54136

Heritage Deer Creek 3585 147th Street New Berlin, WI 53151

Heritage Lake Country* 2975 Village Square Drive Hartland, WI 53029

Heritage Court 3515 East Hamilton Ave. Eau Claire, WI 54701

Heritage Oakwood Hills 3606 Damon St. Eau Claire, WI 54701

*Oshkosh Coming Summer 2021! • 150 Aspire Lane, Oshkosh, WI 54904

PINE GLEN SENIOR APARTMENTS

930 Prairie St., Prairie du Sac 53578 (608) 643-3331 kelly@elderspan.com pinesprairiedusac.com Part of The Pines Senior Living in Prairie du Sac, Pine Glen Senior Apartments provides gracious independent apartments just a short drive from Madison’s west side. A variety of services are included in the monthly rent to make life a little easier, such as biweekly housekeeping and a noon meal served Monday through Friday.

WESTSHIRE VILLAGE AT THE LAKE

5477 Westshire Cir., Waunakee 53597 (608) 515-3028 kristin@westshirerealty.com westshirevillage.com Westshire Village is an independent living community offering affordable homes through life lease. Our three-

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story condo building and ranch homes provide a variety of options for active seniors in a beautiful, tranquil setting off the shores of Lake Mendota.

WHITCOMB COTTAGES SENIOR APARTMENTS

4903, 4905 and 4907 Whitcomb Dr. Madison 53711 (608) 577-2451 info@kellerrealestategroup.com KellerApartments.com BRAND NEW, single family home and duplex opening April 1. Located beside Whitcomb Square Apartments. Gorgeous two-bedroom, two-bath homes display stainless steel appliances, quartz countertops, luxury vinyl tile/ ceramic tile floors, in-unit washer/dryer, and private patio. Near shopping and restaurants. No pets, no smoking.

4909-4911, 4914, 4929 Whitcomb Dr. and 6 Whitcomb Cir., Madison 53711 (608) 577-2451 info@kellerrealestategroup.com KellerApartments.com Sixty-six luxury apartment residences in four buildings located in wooded Orchard Ridge. Close to shopping and the bus line. Spacious apartments with underground garages. Well-maintained, nicely landscaped buildings and 24hour maintenance service. No pets, no smoking. Sizes from 920 to 2,100 sq. ft., all two bedroom, most with two baths.

WILLARD HAUS

2707 N. Lexington Dr., Janesville 53545 (608) 752-3060 willardhaus@horizondbm.com horizonseniorhousing.com Willard Haus features one- and twobedroom apartment homes conveniently located adjacent to Woodman’s Food Market in a quiet, tree-lined neighborhood. The lively community offers an array of activities for its residents. Willard Haus is a smoke-free building that ensures an independent, maintenance-free lifestyle.

LIFE-LEASE COMMUNITIES Designed to accommodate the life of the resident. One purchases the right to occupy a unit, usually a town house, condo, or suite, along with use of facilities, such as a gym or spa. Residents pay an upfront fee in addition to a monthly fee, which covers maintenance and other expenses. When the resident leaves, the lease may be sold to another individual. The development may or may not offer a buyback option.

ATTIC ANGEL COMMUNITY, APARTMENTS WITH SERVICES (608) 662-8842 atticangel.org

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WESTSHIRE VILLAGE AT THE LAKE (608) 515-3028 westshirevillage.com

SKILLED NURSING CARE/ REHABILITATION Provides 24-hour licensed nursing services for those who need rehabilitative care or medical services too complex to be handled by an RCAC, CBRF, or AFH. Generally, Medicare doesn’t pay for long-term care. Medicare pays only for medically necessary skilled nursing/ rehab facilities or home healthcare.

ATTIC ANGEL COMMUNITY

8301 Old Sauk Rd. Middleton 53562 (608) 662-8842 Katie.Gruber@atticangel.org atticangel.org Attic Angel’s CBRF Health Center features private suites for long-term care and suites for short-term rehabilitation. Residents enjoy all the amenities and activities of our beautiful facility and exceptional grounds.

CAPITOL LAKES SKILLED NURSING AND REHABILITATION CENTER

334 W. Doty St., Madison 53703 (608) 283-2145 madison@retirement.org skillednursingrehab.org The professional interdisciplinary team at Capitol Lakes offers the public Medicare-certified subacute care,

short- and long-term skilled nursing care, and rehabilitation services. Speed your recovery with innovative inpatient and outpatient care and virtual rehabilitation therapy provided in a comforting environment.

DYCORA TRANSITIONAL HEALTH BEAVER DAM (920) 887-7191 dycora.com

HEBRON OAKS

at Oakwood Village University Woods 6201 Mineral Point Rd., Madison 53705 (608) 230-4253 oakwoodvillage.net Hebron Oaks provides short-term rehabilitation services and comprehensive physical, occupational, and speech therapy services on Madison’s west side. Nonprofit, sponsored by 37 Lutheran congregations. Locally owned and operated since 1948.

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INDEPENDENT, ASSISTED LIVING & CLOSER CARE CAMPUS Amenities Available May Vary By Location • Spacious Apartments • Free Transportation • Full-Time Nursing • 24 Hour Staff • Housekeeping

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Daily Activities Underground Parking Restaurant Style Dining Movie Theatre On-Site Salon

OAK PARK® PLACE NURSING AND REHABILITATION CENTER

718 Jupiter Dr., Madison 53718 (608) 663-8600 madisonsales@oakparkplace.com oakparkplace.com Oak Park® Place provides a comforting environment with skilled nursing services, including specialized programming for seniors with Alzheimer’s and dementia. Our Rehab Team works with family and physicians to ensure the best possible care for your loved one.

PRAIRIE RIDGE HEALTH AND REHABILITATION CENTER at Oakwood Village Prairie Ridge 5833 American Pkwy., Madison 53718 (608) 230-4620

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The Health and Rehabilitation Center provides short-term rehabilitation services and comprehensive physical, occupational, and speech therapy services on Madison’s east side. Nonprofit, sponsored by 37 Lutheran congregations. Locally owned and operated since 1948.

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Apartments/housing based on the resident’s adjusted gross income and use of subsidies provided by the government.

CENTRAL PARK APARTMENTS – LAVALLE (608) 985-8383 or (608) 985-7513

MAPLE RIDGE APARTMENTS – REEDSBURG (608) 524-1948

MONONA MEADOWS (608) 221-4422 rhf.org

SOUTH MEADOW APARTMENTS – EVANSVILLE (608) 882-4518

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It Takes a VILLAGE BY BETH JOHNSON

Seniors who live successfully at home often use a network of support. There’s Bob, who is paid to mow the lawn and shovel the snow; a neighbor who is the designated night-time driver; and kids who help tend the garden or fix the leaky faucet. This network of paid professionals, friends, and family along with other support is what allows many people to remain at home as they age. And, perhaps in the way the term Silver Tsunami has been added to our vocabulary, there will be another new phrase added soon: Support Stacking, used to describe the way in which a person pieces together, or stacks, the support they need to age in place at home. The way each person stacks their support will depend on their individual needs. In other words, no two support stacks look alike. MARCH–AUGUST 2021 JOURNEY OF AGING

The national village model is part of this support stack for many people. Essentially, villages are member-based organizations formed by people in a community. These are not physical villages, rather they are a foundation or platform that connects its members to a wide range of services, new friends, and programs. The village model essentially allows people to organize in a group, which may include paid staff. In a way, villages formalize the timeless concept of neighbors helping neighbors. Because each member’s needs are different, the support they receive is different. Some members may need a volunteer driver; others may use the Rise and Shine daily automated checkin service; and yet others may want to dish about the book club book, meet up for a scheduled hike, or use one

of the vetted service providers for an overdue home repair. The organizations (villages) promote mental and physical health by coordinating recreational, social, educational, and cultural programs that foster community and friendships among members. Sharing Active Independent Lives (SAIL) is the name of the nonprofit village in Madison. However, SAIL supports people throughout all of Dane County. SAIL was founded in 2005 and today has more than 500 members who each pay a monthly fee or a sliding-based fee to take advantage of its offerings. It’s the second-oldest village in the United States. The first was created in Boston in 2002. Today, there are more than 250 active villages and more than 100 in development in 43 states and the District of Columbia.

SAFE & HEALTHY AT HOME | 87 vetted service providers that help them maintain their homes and assist them personally. One of SAIL’s newest offerings is its “Friendly Caller” program, says Nicole. SAIL Friendly Callers take time to connect with other members on a regular basis. Another newer offering is with Madison College Occupational Therapy Assistant program students who help SAIL members start or continue an exercise routine by working with them individually on general exercises, movement, and fitness.

SAIL members promote the wellbeing of one another by helping each other through volunteerism in a pay-it-forward fashion. And the lean professional staff at SAIL creates, manages, and communicates the organization’s offerings based on member feedback. This professional staff acts as a conduit for SAIL members and is a primary reason SAIL is sustainable.

According to Nicole Schaefer, program director of SAIL, a village model can be a solution for older adults to live safe, connected lives. It’s a membership of older adults who help one another create friendships and connect with the community offerings, such as exercise classes, tours, lectures, and social services. Members draw from services that are either provided by the SAIL volunteers or by connecting with SAIL-

Villages, like SAIL, belong to the Village to Village Network, the national association of the Village Movement, allowing each village to share its best practices, expert guidance, resources, and support to help communities establish and maintain their villages. For more information on joining SAIL, call (608) 230-4321 or go to sailtoday.org.

Beth Johnson lives in Verona and writes about topics related to seniors. Photographs provided by Sharing Active Independent Lives (SAIL).

Sharing Active Independent Lives (SAIL) 6209 Mineral Point Rd., Ste. 210 Madison, WI 53705 (608) 230-4321

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88 | SAFE & HEALTHY AT HOME ADULT DAY CENTERS These are nonresidential facilities providing activities for the elderly and special-needs individuals. Most centers operate 10 to 12 hours a day and provide meals, social/recreational activities, and general supervision. These centers enable caregivers to go to work or to obtain a break from their responsibilities.

ADULT DAY CENTER

5401 Fen Oak Dr., Madison 53718 (608) 826-8106 touradc@ccmadison.org adultdaycentermadison.org We provide an affordable alternative to in-home healthcare with support and respite for you while your loved one is in a safe, social, fun environment and receiving care from professional staff. Services for those with Alzheimer’s and dementia.

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1702 W. Beltline Hwy., Madison 53713 (608) 276-4660 agrace.org/adultdaycenter Hours: 7:30 a.m. to 5:30 p.m. MondayFriday. The Agrace Adult Day Center is for older adults who cannot, or choose not to, stay alone all day. They may live alone with family members or in assisted living but need the reassurance and support of having others with them throughout the day.

BARABOO AREA SENIOR CITIZENS CENTER (608) 356-8464 Find us on Facebook

COLONIAL CLUB SENIOR ACTIVITY CENTER (608) 837-4611 colonialclub.org

ELITE DAY SERVICES LLC – JEFFERSON (920) 988-2524

Can’t Hear on the Phone? Get a NO-COST CapTel Captioned Telephone! The CapTel® Captioned Telephone shows word-for-word captions of everything a caller says, letting you read anything you cannot hear over the phone. CapTel is a NO-COST, federally funded technology available under the Americans with Disabilities Act. To qualify, users need: • Hearing loss • Internet connection • Landline telephone service CapTel 2400i includes Bluetooth® wireless technology & Speakerphone

800-233-9130 CapTel.com

REQUIREMENTS: Hearing Loss, High Speed Internet, Dial-tone No-Cost Phone with valid third-party certification is subject to change without notice. Terms and conditions may apply. FEDERAL LAW PROHIBITS ANYONE BUT REGISTERED USERS WITH HEARING LOSS FROM USING INTERNET PROTOCOL (IP) CAPTIONED TELEPHONES WITH THE CAPTIONS TURNED ON. IP Captioned Telephone Service may use a live operator. The operator generates captions of what the other party to the call says. These captions are then sent to your phone. There is a cost for each minute of captions generated, paid from a federally administered fund. No cost is passed on to the CapTel user for using the service. CapTel captioning service is intended exclusively for individuals with hearing loss. CapTel® is a registered trademark of Ultratec, Inc. The Bluetooth® word mark and logos are registered trademarks owned by Bluetooth SIG, Inc. and any use of such marks by Ultratec, Inc. is under license. (v1.6 10-19))

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90 | SAFE & HEALTHY AT HOME HOMEWARD BOUND – BARABOO (608) 356-4666 hwbcare.com

NORTHWEST DANE SENIOR SERVICES – CROSS PLAINS

REMINISCE ADULT DAY SERVICES – REEDSBURG

(608) 798-6937 nwdss.org

(608) 495-1344 ramchealth.com/services /adult-day-services

MADISON AREA REHABILITATION CENTER

OREGON AREA SENIOR CENTER

(608) 223-9110 marc-inc.org

(608) 835-5801 oregonareaseniorcenterwisconsin.com

NATIONAL ADULT DAY SERVICES ASSOCIATION (877) 745-1440 nadsa.org

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ASSISTIVE TECHNOLOGY This is equipment or technology that helps a person function better or more

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A nurse on your side makes all the difference. When your loved one needs extra care at home, choosing the right caregiver agency can be tough. Let BrightStar Care® make it easier. • Your loved one’s care is led by a Registered Nurse who conducts regular supervisory visits.

Call for your free in-home assessment. BrightStar Care of Madison

608-441-8620

• We’ve earned The Joint Commission Gold Seal of Approval® which validates that we follow the highest standards of safety and care. Learn more at brightstarcare.com/Madison. ©BrightStar Care Independently Owned and Operated

comfortably, perform Activities of Daily Living (ADLs), or live more independently.

ACCESS TO INDEPENDENCE, INC.

3810 Milwaukee St., Madison 53714 (608) 242-8484 or (800) 362-9877 info@accesstoind.org accesstoind.org Over 1,000 devices for a variety of needs are available to try out for free, and many can be borrowed at no cost. Technology services also include assistance locating, financing, setting up, and learning to use a variety of devices. Services may be adjusted or impacted due to COVID-19.

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any other telephone with one important addition: it displays every word the caller says throughout the conversation.

coordinating available support systems needed now or in the future to assist with healthcare needs for aging adults.

SSM HEALTH AT HOME

ATEMPO LLC

(800) 924-2273 ssmhealthathomewi.com

(608) 335-8218 Nancy Nie RN, CCM, CLNC, CNLCP

TELECOMMUNICATIONS EQUIPMENT PURCHASE PROGRAM (TEPP)

BRIGHTSTAR CARE®

(608) 231-3305 psc.wi.gov/pages/programs/tepp.aspx

WISCONSIN RELAY SYSTEM - 711 (608) 234-4781 wisconsinrelay.com

CAPTEL, INC.

CapTel® Captioned Telephone 450 Science Dr., Madison 53711 (800) 233-9130 captel.com Ideal for people with hearing loss, the CapTel Captioned Telephone works like

CARE MANAGERS

(608) 441-8620 brightstarcare.com/madison

MY CHOICE WISCONSIN

Generally fee-based providers who assist patients and families in evaluating and

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Caring starts here. My Choice Wisconsin Medicare Dual Advantage is a Medicare Advantage insurance plan for people with both Medicare and Medicaid. This plan includes benefits for total wellness like a $100 monthly allowance towards OTC products and a dental benefit that expands your access to care providers. To learn more, call a Medicare Advisor at…

800-963-0035 TTY: 711 www.mychoicewi.org/JA

my choice Medicare Dual Advantage

$0 premium | $0 deductible We Cover:

Extra benefits that save you money:

Part A: Hospital Visits & Expenses Part B: Doctor Visits & Tests Part D: Prescription Drugs

Over-the-Counter Vision Dental Personal Emergency Coverage (OTC) Catalog Response Button Coverage (PERS)

My Choice Wisconsin Health Plan, Inc. complies with applicable Federal Civil rights laws and does not discriminate on the basis of race, color, national origin, age, disability, or sex. ATENCIÓN: Si habla español, tiene a su disposición servicios gratuitos de asistencia lingüística. Llame al 1-800-963-0035 (TTY: 711). LUS CEEV: Yog tias koj hais lus Hmoob, cov kev pab txog lus, muaj kev pab dawb rau koj. Hu rau 1-800-963-0035 (TTY: 711). My Choice Wisconsin Medicare Dual Advantage is an HMO SNP (Special Needs Plan) with a Medicare contract and a contract with the Wisconsin Department of Health Services for the Medicaid Program. Enrollment in My Choice Wisconsin Medicare Dual Advantage depends on contract renewal. This is not a complete description of benefits and services. Visit us online or call 800-963-0035 and ask to speak with a Medicare Advisor for information on our 2021 Summary of Benefits. H5209_4FullPgAd_M DHS Approved 12/21/2020

SAFE & HEALTHY AT HOME | 93 EMERGENCY RESPONSE SYSTEMS Below are listings for emergency response systems; remote monitoring/ sensing; and off-site, direct-care response systems for use at one’s residence.

ADT SECURITY SERVICES (608) 216-2292 adt.com/senior-safety

LIFE ASSIST USA (608) 831-1688 Middleton office lifeassistusa.com

PROJECT LIFESAVER - BEAVER DAM POLICE DEPARTMENT Lieutenant Brandon Stommel (920) 887-4613 x504

STOUGHTON HEALTH LIFE ASSIST MEDICAL ALERT SYSTEM

900 Ridge St., Stoughton 53589 (608) 873-2372 stoughtonhealth.com

HOME MODIFICATION ADAPTIVE REMODELING SOLUTIONS (608) 234-7440 adaptiveremodelingsolutions.com

DESIGN COALITION (608) 246-8846 designcoalition.org

HOME SAFETY MODIFICATION (608) 268-9643 intake@independentlivinginc.org

PROJECT HOME (608) 246-3737 projecthomewi.org

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HOME ORGANIZATION MOVING MAUDE SENIOR MOVE MANAGEMENT

HOME SAFETY ASSESSMENTS ACCESSIBILITY PLUS

IN-HOME MEDICAL ASSISTANCE/LICENSED MEDICAL PRACTITIONERS Only licensed agencies are allowed to provide medical services including medication management; medical social services; skilled nursing; medical staff; bathing; home health aide services; and occupational, physical, and speech therapies. Agencies may be certified to invoice Medicare, Medicaid, or longterm care insurance. Contact the agency for services and billing information. Some may offer respite care in your home. Check the Palliative Care category in the Health section too.

(608) 441-8620 brightstarcare.com/madison

SSM HEALTH AT HOME

(800) 924-2273 hahwi.info@ssmhealth.com ssmhealth.com/athome Home health can aid in recovery and healing for those living with chronic conditions and those recovering from an illness, surgery, or recent hospitalization in the comfort and convenience of home. Services include skilled nursing, physical/occupational/speech therapy, medical social services, infusion/enteral therapies, and home telemonitoring.

VISITING PHYSICIANS ASSOCIATION (608) 807-1600 visitingphysicians.com/vpa-locations /wisconsin

Dane, Columbia, Jefferson, and Dodge Counties (608) 230-5836 accessibilityplusonline.com

Compassionate Personal Care Age at Home is non-medical in-home care from a trusted, local nonprofit. We can help with housekeeping, transportation, medication reminders and more— so you can stay independent at home.

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SAFE & HEALTHY AT HOME | 95 IN-HOME NONMEDICAL ASSISTANCE Listings offer a variety of nonmedical care and assistance in one’s residence. Examples include: • Chore Care—typically light housekeeping, laundry, gardening, home repair, meal preparation, and shopping. • Companion Care—typically companionship for a patient, allowing the caregiver to run errands, perform chores, sleep, or enjoy a break. • Personal Care—typically aid for individuals experiencing difficulties with activities of daily living. Services include bathing, grooming, meals, walking, dressing, and toileting.

AGRACE AGE AT HOME

(608) 327-7456 info@ageathome.org ageathome.org Agrace Age at Home is nonmedical in-home care from a trusted, local nonprofit. Our kind, capable staff can help with personal care, housekeeping, transportation, medication reminders, and more— so you can stay independent at home.

BRIGHTSTAR CARE®

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3240 University Ave., Ste. 3A Madison 53705 (608) 441-8620 brightstarcare.com/madison Your loved one deserves care that’s extraordinary. At BrightStar Care, our Registered Nurse Director of Nursing leads experienced, trustworthy, compassionate caregivers who provide a full range of medical and nonmedical services in the comfort and safety of home.

COMFORCARE

96 | SAFE & HEALTHY AT HOME daily living, such as light housekeeping, meal preparation, dressing, bathroom assistance, home maintenance, and other services. ComForCare is an effective solution for the elderly who prefer to remain at home.

COMFORT KEEPERS (608) 218-4861 madison-231.comfortkeepers.com

HOME AND PERSONAL CARE SERVICES (608) 268-9643 intake@independentlivinginc.org

HOME CHORE ASSISTANCE MIDDLETON OUTREACH MINISTRY (608) 826-3410 momhelps.org

JEWISH SOCIAL SERVICES OF MADISON (608) 442-4081 jssmadison.org

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SAFE & HEALTHY AT HOME | 97 NORTHWEST DANE SENIOR SERVICES – CROSS PLAINS (608) 798-6937 nwdss.org

SHARING ACTIVE INDEPENDENT LIVES (SAIL)

6209 Mineral Point Rd., Ste. 210 Madison 53705 (608) 230-4321 info@sailtoday.org sailtoday.org SAIL is a nonprofit membership organization of people 55+ living in the Madison area. As a member, one can obtain referrals to high-quality vendors who offer home healthcare. Members can receive automated daily check-in services at no additional charge.

VISITING ANGELS

6401 Odana Rd., Ste. 15, Madison 53719 (608) 819-0665 infomadison@visitingangels.com visitingangels.com/madisonwi Local, family-owned business offering flexible hourly care, 24/7 care, and respite care for families. Our services include bathing, dressing, walking assistance, grooming, medication reminders, errands, shopping, light housekeeping, meal preparation, and friendly companionship. Call today for a free consultation.

VISITING ANGELS LAS

Serving Jefferson, Dodge, Rock and Walworth Counties (877) 276-7039 office.fortatkinson@visitingangels.com visitingangels.com/fortatkinson Nationally known, locally owned business offers flexible hourly care and respite care. Services include bathing, dressing, grooming assistance, medication reminders, errands, light housekeeping, meal preparation, and companionship. Call today for a free consultation.

MEAL PLANS/DELIVERY EVENING MEALS ON WHEELS

606 N. Segoe Rd., Madison 53705 (608) 204-0923 meals@independentlivinginc.org Great meals delivered to your door! Fresh, healthy, chef-prepared meals are made daily and delivered by trained volunteers between 4:00 p.m. and 6:00 p.m. Customized diets include diabetic, low sodium, and gluten sensitive. Accredited program with menus reviewed by a dietitian.

SSM HEALTH AT HOME– MEALS ON WHEELS (Madison, Middleton, Monona, Sun Prairie only) (800) 924-2273 ssmhealth.com/athome

MEDICAL EQUIPMENT & SUPPLIES Suppliers listed typically sell, rent, or loan a range of home medical equipment and supplies. Check also the Health and Aging & Caregiver Resources sections.

CAPTEL® CAPTIONED TELEPHONE

CapTel, Inc. 450 Science Dr., Madison 53711 (800) 233-9130 captel.com Ideal for people with hearing loss, the CapTel Captioned Telephone works like any other telephone with one important addition: it displays every word the caller says throughout the conversation.

MADISON GAS & ELECTRIC Life-Sustaining Equipment (608) 252-7000 mge.com/lifesupport

LIVE-IN SUPPORT BRIGHTSTAR CARE® (608) 441-8620 brightstarcare.com/madison JOURNEYOFAGING.COM

98 | SAFE & HEALTHY AT HOME ALL SAINTS NEIGHBORHOOD ASSISTED LIVING AND MEMORY CARE

519 Commerce Dr., Madison 53719 (608) 827-2990 dmalaise@elderspan.com allsaintsneighborhood.org All Saints Assisted Living and Memory Care offer short-term care designed for seniors who need supportive services for a brief time. Respite services can provide a caregiver a deserved break, plus licensed nurses available 24/7 can help you or a loved one recover from an illness or injury.

THE PINES ASSISTED LIVING

Peace of Mind For over 25 years, families have felt the comfort of knowing their loved one is in good hands. Still independent, with support when needed. Exceptional staff and nurses make all the difference.

Depend on The Pines. Call today to learn more!

Senior Living Apartments • Assisted Living Memory Care

608-643-5433

pinesprairiedusac.com 1050 Prairie St., Prairie du Sac

SSM HEALTH AT HOME

(800) 924-2273 hahwi.info@ssmhealth.com ssmhealth.com/athome We provide a variety of equipment, supplies, and services to help patients live as safely and independently as possible at home. Medical equipment specialists are available to assist in navigating insurance requirements on prescribed equipment.

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1050 Prairie St., Prairie du Sac 53578 (608) 643-5433 dpete@elderspan.com pinesprairiedusac.com The Pines Assisted Living in Prairie du Sac offers short-term care designed for seniors who need supportive services for a brief time. Licensed nurses available 24/7, experienced staff members, and a life rich with social opportunities can help a senior regain their zest for life.

VISITING ANGELS

RESPITE CARE Respite care provides temporary relief to the primary caregiver. This care is to relieve unpaid primary caregivers whose patients require constant supervision and cannot be left alone due to mental or physical problems. This care can be provided at an Adult Day Center, in your own residence, or at a facility.

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FAMILIES

Taking on the care so you have more time for love.

Assisted living & memory care services of the highest quality. Call today!

allsaintsneighborhood.org

(608) 827-2772

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