Trim Magazine Spring/Summer 2016

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MIMOSAS

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The drink you’ll be having at your next brunch date.

What you need to know about the most popular dating app.

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Learn how to take your look from day to night.

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STUDY ABROAD

MODEL CITIZEN

Read up on spring's trendiest styles.

Tips on how to make your study abroad experience amazing.

An inspiring advocate for domestic violence prevention and women’s equality.

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LETTER FROM THE EDITOR

Hello Trimsters!

I don’t know about you, but I’m tired of being bundled up like an Eskimo just to survive a five-minute walk to the dining hall. It seems like each time I trudge through campus, no matter which direction I turn, I’m face-toface with the relentless wind. (Explain that one to me, weatherman!)

While blooming buds and bustling beaches may seem far from sight for all of us here in Arctic Jersey, this issue will provide some much-needed perspective on how close we really are to putting away that winter parka and picking up our summer swimsuit.

If you haven’t heard yet, TRIM magazine has changed its publishing cycle to release its issues at the beginning of each semester, allowing our readers to stay ahead of the trends rather than directly on top of them. With that, Issue 8 is full of Spring/Summer ‘16 inspiration specially crafted for our college audience. From the easy breezy trend pages to the hardcore high fashion spreads, you’ll soon find yourself making a dash to the mall for a spring wardrobe overhaul.

But of course, it’s not just fashion that keeps you guys coming back for more.

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This issue highlights today’s hottest college lifestyle topics, ranging from avocado toast to dating app drama.

While you can expect most of our articles to be lighthearted and humorous (like ways to avoid taking the Rutgers buses), we also provided some content that resonates more deeply such as our feature on helping a friend you suspect is in an abusive relationship. Our model citizen, the founder of SCREAM, is also a wealth of information on this topic as she is a true expert when it comes to healthy relationships and self-respect.

So get ready to live, laugh, learn and love because you’ll experience it all in the pages to come. As each semester should be a fresh start for a better tomorrow, we hope Issue 8 helps to inspire you in becoming the best Scarlet Knight you can be.

Best of luck in the spring semester, and happy reading!

Sincerely, Emily Beckman Editor-in-Chief & Editorial Director TRIM Magazine

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INSIDE: BOATS, BOOZE, BEATS, AVOCADOS, GAMER FIGHTS AND SOME “CLASSY” ADVICE

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Older than the United States, proud pummeler of Princeton in the first college football game, finder of the cure for tuberculosis, home of one of the country’s first colleges for women, one of the most diverse schools in the nation and the leading university in research...Need I say more? With a legacy like no other, let’s take this time to reflect on our amazing history, and look forward to 250 more revolutionary years.

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think online classes are the new best way to get an easy a without changing out of your pjs? think again.

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Sciences junior, thinks online classes are not as efficient as going to classes in person. “I feel like students don’t benefit from the class as much when there is not a professor there to help you and elaborate more on the subject,” O’Brien said.

Although they may give you a lot of freedom and be more convenient in terms of travel, you have to be responsible! If you’re not the type of person to make your own schedule and stay on top of things, landing an A in an online class may serve to be harder than you thought.

However, if you’re determined to score a top mark without having to wait for the EE, here are a couple tips Make sure to make a schedule, and stick to it. Putting off work for an online class always ends up catching up to you. Make sure to set aside a time slot between netflix binging and the gym to get it out of the way.

Always do the readings. It may seem like that 15 page essay on rock formations isn’t crucial, but when the midterm comes and your webcam is watching you harder than any teacher can, you’re going to regret not having taken half an hour to at least skim through it. My last bit of advice?

Participate, especially in the online discussions. It may seem like that 10% won’t affect your final grade too badly, but leaving yourself in good shape just in case you tank the midterm couldn’t hurt. Plus, you might end up getting some much needed brownie points from the professor.

So, if you think you’re about to get an easy A from that online geology class, make sure you look before you leap. If you have the motivation, energy, and discipline to engage, by all means go for it. But if your can already foresee intense procrastination, perhaps you should table the idea.

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othing sounds better than lounging around on the couch all day, right? If you hate the thought of getting up to go to class, then fear not! Online classes are made just for you.

I like to think of online classes as a lazy person’s way to do college. Unless, of course, there is an underlying issue that prevents you from physically getting to class -- that’s a whole other story. But if you’re like me and don’t want to commute to a campus on what seems like the other side of the earth, then we’re on the same page.

Yet, online classes might not be all that they’re cracked up to be. I personally don’t touch an ounce of work until the day before it’s due. Not exactly the best method...

If you are a procrastinator like me, you’re not going to get the most out of your education with online classes.

Devon O’Brien, a School of Arts and

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he Rutgers Crew team consists of forty-eight rowers and six coxswains and gathers for six to nine practice sessions per week. Assistant Coach Shane Farrell explains, “We train to develop strength and efficiency with the goal of being successful in our 2000-meter races in the spring season.”

Coach Farrell cites self-discipline as fundamental to rowing: “It’s a sport that rewards athletes who endure both the rigors of training and the pressures of racing.”

Colin Goan, a senior member of the team, refers to his first time racing in Rutgers’ varsity boat during his junior year as the highlight of his crew career.

However, Goan says the winter months can be extremely draining. The moral support he receives from his team members is critical. Goan also cites his parents as important influences: “After all the hard work they put in to turn me into the man I am today, I owe it to them to work tirelessly so that I am the best student and rower that I can be.”

Charlie Bruno, another senior member of team, refers to his struggle to perfect his technique as a great challenge.

“After a frustrating sophomore year, I spent a summer training at the Pennsylvania Athletic Club. My time there really taught me how to focus on improving technique on every stroke,” he says. Fear of failure is perhaps the most debilitating factor for an athlete, Bruno adds. He explains, “If you don’t commit yourself 100 percent to the sport, you’ll lose out to someone who does.”

“It’s a sport that rewards athletes who endure both the rigors of training and the pressures of racing.”

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Mimosas

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hether you’re enjoying a hot summer evening on the veranda, going out for brunch or hosting a festive occasion, one drink is apropos for all: the mimosa. Mimosas are best served cold, so keep the ingredients in the refrigerator until served. Use dry sparkling wine, like Cava or Prosecco, to keep things affordable. To be more creative, add pineapple or pomegranate juice instead of traditional orange juice. Fill 2/3 of the champagne flute with sparkling wine, and then add the juice of your choice on top. Stir slowly. Finally, garnish with an orange curl to make it more appealing, and enjoy!

• 4 oz of sparkling wine (chilled) • 2 oz of juice (freshly squeezed preferred) • shaved orange curl (optional)

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The key to choosing a ripe avocado is to gently squeeze it. If it gives to pressure, the avocado is ripe and ready to eat! If it’s still firm, wait a few days before enjoying.

The Scoop on Avocados PHOTOGRAPHY BY MARIA ALBA

They’re delicious and amazingly good for you. They can be used as garnish or be served as the main event. If you haven’t gotten on board with avocados yet, find out what you’ve been missing with these tasty and simple recipes.

By Katie Park

A P P L E AV O C A D O S A L A D : In a large bowl, mix arugula, chopped Honeycrisp apples, mandarin oranges, red onions, pecans and purple grapes. In a blender, pulverize mandarin oranges, a slice or two of ginger root and a dash of balsamic dressing. Pour the dressing over the salad and toss to coat all ingredients. Before serving, choose an avocado or two, slice into bite-sized cubes and top the salad. Add sliced almonds for an added crunch.

AV O C A D O T O A S T : Toast a piece of bread (whole wheat and bran are best for avoiding empty carbohydrates.) Select an avocado—it’s best if it’s a little overripe—and lay slices on the toast or smash it with a fork for a creamier texture. Season with salt, pepper, some chili flakes for a little flare. Top with a sunny side up egg.

PULLED PORK & AV O C A D O R O L L S : Take a pound or two of boneless pork shoulder roast, trim the fat, and place it in a slow cooker. Keep the slow cooker on low heat for the next four to six hours. Cook until the meat pulls away from the bone, and then shred the meat with a fork and knife, separating it from remaining fat.

To make the eggrolls, take an eggroll wrapper—it’s your decision to make them from scratch or buy from the store—and place two spoonfuls of pork on the inside. Roll it, then fry until the wrapper is crispy. Cut the egg roll in half, dab a little barbecue sauce on the halved egg roll, then top with sliced avocado.

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can google beat amazon? well you know what they say, can’t teach an old gamer new tricks

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ast fall, Google launched YouTube Gaming. Intended as a direct competitor to Amazon’s Twitch.tv,YouTube’s gaming-centric service expansion sports a brand new user interface, livestreaming capabilities, improved search engine features and a smartphone app for gamers. So how does YouTube Gaming stack up in comparison to its established rival?

Well, not well.YouTube Gaming simply hasn’t been able to pull in the same number of viewers that Twitch regularly holds. During the November 7th Game Day Charity Stream for Extra Life, Twitch’s most popular streams easily broke 2,000 and 3,000 viewers at a time. Meanwhile,YouTube Gaming’s top streamers hovered around 850 viewers, with some livestreams dropping as low as 220 and 110 in chat. While fans are tuning in 13

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to YouTube Gaming’s content creators, the site can’t break the monopoly that Twitch holds on the market – most gamers refuse to make the switch.

Why? Well, every launch comes with some bugs, and the users of Youtube gaming seem to very unhappy with the ones that have surfaced so far. When you google “Why Youtube Gaming Sucks” you can find entire Youtube channels devoted to the subject (ironic enough for you?)

Granted, that’s not to say that YouTube Gaming is a complete failure.

The livestream dashboard that YouTube implemented is actually quite versatile.

Streamers can check out analytics for their shows in the middle of streams, watching for live data on messages in chat and viewer engagement during play. The new gaming option also provides a “Stream Health” toolbar,

which measures the quality of a streamer’s audio and video data. Unlike Twitch, this lets users troubleshoot network problems on the fly and provide an acceptable and consistent rate for their streams.

Yet all the same, Amazon holds the audience, the brand value, and the loyal fanbase.YouTube Gaming is entering a competition against Twitch that they aren’t prepared to fight. If Google wants to be a serious competitor to Amazon, then they need to rethink their platform’s structure and get on fixing those bugs ASAP. Otherwise, they’re bound to be left behind by Twitch’s growing popularity. Of course, we’ve all seen our share of comebacks, and while Youtube may be struggling in the shadow of a shakey launch, there’s still hope for this largely funded underdog.

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our-piece “suburban folk” band Little Rose, comprised of members Evangelia Psarakis, George Maher, Shimmy Schwartz and Adam Bradford, came together almost accidentally after collaborating over a Battle of the Bands competition.

“I had met Shimmy at a coffee house and I loved his writing and asked him to hop on,” Psarakis described. “Later on, George started joining in on the trumpet.”

After their formation, the band emerged in the New Brunswick basement scene with their blues and soulinfused folk sound, eventually moving on to performances at the Silent Barn in Brooklyn, the Hamilton Stage in Rahway, Rutgers Night Live, the Hub City Music Festival and Rutgers Day. The band’s earlier songs “Radish Queen” and “Are We Friends” mark the beginning of their evolution into sophistication.

“We’ve gone into a more decidedly rift-driven direction in terms of musical style,” Schwartz explains, pointing to the particularly poignant bridge of a later piece “Shut the Door.”

Little Rose has accumulated over 760 likes on Facebook as of November 2015. They have continued to expand since then. The band will break their tradition of performance-based exposure with a yet-untitled EP to be released soon.

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Go check out their EP at littlerosemusic. bandcamp.com

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Date Night Hot Spots

By Mackenzie Deerin

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With “cuffing season” rapidly approaching, you may be wondering where you can possibly go on a date with your fresh beau or significant other. If you and your new love interest are looking for the perfect place for dinner, New Brunswick offers quite the variety of restaurants.

Hansel 'n Griddle

Old Man Rafferty’s

For a casual date that doesn’t break the bank, Hansel ‘n Griddle is the spot for you. This enchanted eatery has a splendid variety of food. Instructions for a successful date: First, order to your heart’s content or “create your own” at the counter.

Next, choose your own table that’s just the right vibe for you and your partner. And finally... relax, indulge and let the magic begin.

A step up informality from Hansel ‘n Griddle, Old Man Rafferty’s provides a sit down dinner atmosphere without being too fancy. This Albany Street treasure emits a warm and intimate ambiance, the American-based cuisine is great and it all can be enjoyed within a reasonable budget.

Clydz

Due Mari

For the more adventurous eater, consider Clydz. This underground restaurant has an eclectic and perhaps eccentric variety of amazing food. From wild boar to Hudson Valley duck breast, Clydz has it all.

They still have options for a blander pallet, but definitely have unique dishes for a more exciting night out. Clydz offers a lunch, dinner and bar/latenight menu and is known for their delightful martinis.

If you and your date want to get a little fancy, make your way over to Due Mari for their phenomenal Italian cuisine. Their homemade pasta dishes are mouth watering and their fresh meat and fish entrees absolutely hit the spot. Due Mari gives off a more elegant atmosphere, so this restaurant would be great for a special occasion with that special someone.

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HEATING UP TODAY’S DATING SCENE

wondering if it’s time to put down their quill pen and pick up their cell phone.

The traditional act of courting a mate has succumbed to a virtual playing field made up of a few strategically chosen photos and a witty bio that’ll allegedly lead to your soulmate in just a swipe [right] of a finger. Since Tinder’s establishment in May 2011, the number of “Tinderellas” has drastically increased, leaving old school Cinderellas questioning if they should forego the expensive ball gown and start swiping instead.

The popularity of Tinder is overwhelmingly fueled by Millennials. With slightly over half the user base ranging from ages 18 to 24, the young techie generation is clearly manipulating the dating scene to cater to its insecurities with social interactions.

“This is a problem for our generation because we’re scared of going up to random people and starting conversation for fear of rejection,” says medical school student Eddy, 23. “It’s much easier to match someone on Tinder, try a pick up line and hope for the best.”

Pointing out the downfalls of being so dependent on this new dating technology, Eddy still admitted to using Tinder for occasional matches himself.

“We’ll be better technologically enabled, but perhaps we’ll have much worse social skills,” says Eddy. “I’ve seen positives and negatives come out of it—a positive being making interactions happen that may never have been possible.” Tinder is like an Internet coffee shop where singles can quickly scan the scene and make a connection within minutes. It’s a much quicker and more casual process than creating a profile with online dating sites such as eHarmony and OKcupid. Just download the app, select your distance preference and start swiping.

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real human contact. Research repeatedly shows the ability to read body language as essential to the dating game, but this is becoming increasingly more foreign to the Millennial generation. Nowadays, the dating scene often begins with a virtual discussion, leaving in-person attraction second to clever strings of emojis.

The biggest dilemma in today’s dating world is identifying your matches true intentions. Tinder users’ intentions are widespread, anywhere from a one-nightstand to a long-term relationship to even just a simple friendship.

The bio section of a Tinder profile allows the user to type a short caption that other users can read alongside chosen photos to get an idea of what the person is like before making a decision to swipe right or left. Typically, the Tinder bio is humorous while conveying the user’s intentions. The language of the bios can range anywhere from cute and innocent to raunchy and unfiltered. While some users have had success with the app, they may jump through hoops to come up with a story so they don’t have to admit they met their significant other on Tinder.

“I still think it has a negative connotation,” says Brandon, 23, an IT associate analyst. “I think Tinder plays into making dating a nonchalant activity. I try to not use the app to meet people because I am an old-fashioned guy that likes to drive, open doors and pay. I generally appreciate all forms of politeness, and I think today’s dating culture has lost many of these traditions because of apps like Tinder.” Fordham student Maggie, 21, agrees with Brandon.

“First you talk, then you hook up, then you date and continue hooking up,” said Maggie. “Right now, it’s all sexuallybased. We see if we have sexual chemistry, and then you start to date.”

In fact, the majority of young adults interviewed for this article claimed their first Tinder encounter was sexually-based.

Subjects also typically claimed their first

date comprised watching a movie at the match’s house—a correlation with the birth of “netflix and chill”?

“Let’s kick it old school and actually go out to dinner or go bowling,” demanded Maggie. “Go out in public, damn it! Keep your pants on for at least three dates outside of the house. Try to learn their middle name. Make room for conversation.”

Maggie’s frustrations resonate with many others, especially with older generations.

They frown upon the sexual foundation of today’s dating culture.

“My grandmother once told me a story about her college years,” says TCNJ student Brittany, 21. “You went on dates with guys every weekend, and if a guy called you after Tuesday for that weekend’s date that meant you weren’t his first choice and someone else had turned him down.”

Brittany argued though that while her grandmother wasn’t necessarily hooking up with these guys, it was still a similar situation to today’s dating culture. It wasn’t like people in older generations weren’t shopping around on the weekend for dates. According to Brittany, the same amount of dating was happening, but early sexual contact has just become more frequent and accepted.

“It’s just that our culture has relaxed to the point where it is acceptable to hook up with someone every weekend,” says Brittany. “Personally, I don’t mind it.”

Whether it’s the self-esteem boost from being matched or simply the break from in-person rejection, the online dating scene is growing, with easy apps like Tinder making a major impact. In the next few decades, we will find out whether matches prove to be romantically sustainable or whether we will find a heartbroken Millennial society with the remorseful realization that locking eyes with someone across the room can be more powerful than locking eyes with a screen.

By Emily Beckman

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With over 8 billion Tinder matches contributing to the dating scene today, hopeless romantics are

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REALLY ATTRACT?

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he answer depends on who you ask. While many swear by an “opposites attract” phenomenon, others feel that couples need to have similarities in order to share common ground and truly form a successful union.

“My boyfriend and I are both really goofy,” junior Alissa Halloran said. “I couldn’t be with anyone really serious. It would change the whole dynamic of our relationship if we didn’t have fun and act weird, and I don’t think it would work if only one of us was like that.”

It’s natural that we attract and befriend people that are similar to us, especially people that share the same core values and interests. These people become more easily relatable and maybe even more enjoyable because there is a sense of understanding between two similar people. So why does the notion that opposites attract still exist?

“I feel like having an opposite seems to balance you out,” said junior Samantha Ferris. “My boyfriend and I are polar opposites, down to chocolate versus vanilla.

He teaches me not to be so stressed about school, and I teach him to care more about his grades. It’s a healthy balance. Being in a relationship like that opens the door to you viewing the world differently.”

Sophomore Danielle Naer concurs that opposites can be more attractive, but more so for the chase rather than the lasting relationship.

“If you don’t usually go for a certain type, you’re going to have to strive to get that person. It’s like a challenge, and it makes it more exciting,” said Naer.

However, Rutgers Psychology professors Dr. Lyra Stein refutes the claims coming from the opposites attract camp.

“There is a conception that opposites attract in the population. This is actually called conventional wisdom and does not have any scientific evidence backing the claim,” said Dr. Stein. “People actually prefer those who are similar in personality, values, background and beliefs.”

In some of Dr. Stein’s smaller psychology classes, she has performed an experiment where students are paired up to discuss multiple issues. In some pairs, she tells one partner to secretly agree with everything his or her partner says, and in other pairs she instructs them to disagree. In nearly every case, students report liking their partner better when they agree, supporting her hypothesis that people prefer like-minded and similar people.

In some cases, people may think that they tend to go for significant others that are completely different from them, but

eventually learn that they are actually quite similar.

“My boyfriend and I thought we were opposites when we first met but as we got to know each other we realized we are essentially the same person,” said senior Alyssa Mazanec.

According to Dr. Stein, “there is one study which shows that people think they prefer someone who is opposite, but find that they tend to gravitate toward those who are similar.”

So why do people still believe that opposites attract, even when there is mounting evidence against this concept and there is no proof to support it? For many, the idea of stepping out of their comfort zone and getting romantic with someone completely unlike them is the ultimate thrill. However, this does not mean that the relationship will last.

“The most important aspect to longlasting relationships tends to be the illusion of similarity. Positive illusions play a large part in being satisfied with one's partner,” said Dr. Stein. “Studies find that those who are similar tend to report more satisfaction.

In fact, even if the partners are objectively not similar, as long as they believe that they are, they tend to be more satisfied with the relationship.”

There is a conception that opposites attract in the population. This is actually called conventional wisdom and does not have any scientific evidence backing the claim.”

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The most important aspect to long-lasting relationships tends to be the illusion of similarity. Studies find that those who are similar tend to report more satisfaction.�

Sexting Gone Wrong Sexting. We’ve all heard of it. Most of us have done it. But what happens when sexting goes wrong?

by Andrea Mazzola “My boyfriend thought it’d be a good idea to send me a picture during my Christmas dinner. My mom saw everything.” –Mary, 18 “I was in the bathroom, taking some pictures in my underwear to send to a guy back home. Suddenly, some guy, also in his underwear, walked into the girls bathroom. To make things worse, he decided to hop in one of my pictures. It was so awkward.” –Ashley, 18 “My professor asked to see a photo of my class project. While I was trying to show her, I accidentally scrolled past a nude. She definitely noticed.” - Hanna, 21 “One time, I thought it’d be funny to send a picture to my girlfriend and draw a smiley face down there as a joke. I ended up not being able to wash it off.” –Seth, 19 “I accidentally sent a sext to my boss instead of my girlfriend. Surprisingly, I didn’t get fired.” –Devin, 18

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“One time, I asked a girl for nudes, and she replied with a picture of the color nude and a bunch of laughing emojis. I didn’t laugh.” –Joe, 19 “My mom walked in on me taking nudes.” –Molly, 18 “Late one night, I was SnapChatting nudes to my boyfriend. It was all fun and games until I realized I accidentally posted a nude to my story!” -Emily, 21 Here’s to safe sexting!

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Bedroom Chic Quiz

Is he the leather or lace type? Answer these five questions to unlock what your man’s style preferences are when it comes to the bedroom.

By Filio Giannakari 1. Describe a typical evening together. a. Cuddling on the couch and watching sports b. Going out to a fancy club or event c. Playing charades with friends d. Playfully flirting e. Sex, sex and more sex!

2. It’s date night. Where are you going? a. Sports event b. 5-star restaurant c. The theater d. A cute dessert shop e. An adult novelty store 3. What gets you the most compliments from him? a. Mesh b. Lace c. Wigs d. Bows e. Leather 4. What’s the go-to movie you watch together? a. Rocky b. The Great Gatsby c. Mrs. Doubtfire d. The Notebook e. Fifty Shades of Grey 5. Pick your favorite couples Halloween costume. a. Crazy Sports Fans b Jessica Rabbit and Roger Rabbit c. Cop and Robber d. Barbie and Ken e. Dominatrix and Submissive

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Mostly B’s: The Sophisticated One – Your man is a sucker for pearls and curls. He loves to see you all dolled-up for a night out on the town. Take that sophistication from the streets to the sheets with a long silk gown and a matching robe. Pair that with some sexy stilettos, and he’ll be seduced in seconds.

Mostly D’s: The Girly-Girl – He complains about how long you take to get ready and mocks your high-pitched giggle, but he actually adores it all. He loves your stereotypical feminine personality.

Use that to your advantage by choosing lingerie that looks like something Barbie would wear.

Babydolls are a very romantic and feminine style. Choose looks with frilly ruffles and flirty bows that will act like a magnet for him.

Mostly E’s: The Fifty Shades Enthusiast – You are beyond role-playing.

When you two get behind closed doors, it’s an adventure. In fact, the crazier the sex, the better the relationship. So suit up in your best leather corset or garter belt. Try a tight ponytail for a chic and sexy look. Accessorize with all your best toys – may we suggest a flogger?

Keep it strappy and sexy, and you’ll be sure to drive him up the wall – maybe literally in your case!

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Mostly C’s: The Role-Player – Your relationship is anything but ordinary. You love keeping things interesting, which is why roleplaying is ideal for your bedroom routine. Did you go to the theater tonight? Dress up as a cop like the one in the action movie and show him what happens to people who are naughty. Don’t forget a wig for added drama!

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Mostly A’s: The Sporty Gal – Your man agrees with Drake. It’s all about sweatpants, hair tie and chillin’ with no makeup on. It’s simple - throw on an oversized jersey or one of your man’s buttondowns, and pair it with some flirty boyshort panties with a kitschy saying on the booty. Then, just add some athletic knee-highs, and you’ll be guaranteed a home run!

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Do you know someone who is in an abusive relationship? Do you know how to support a victim of dating violence? Maybe you have a friend who is in a relationship and something seems a little off to you. They’ve never said anything about their relationship being abusive, but you have some doubts about how their partner treats them. Usually when you think something is wrong, it probably is. How do you recognize signs of violence? How do you bring it up to your friend?

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The Facts

How to be a Friend

• This is an issue that we need to talk about more. 1 in 3 adolescents will experience some type of abuse in their relationship by their partner.

• Every 9 seconds in the U.S., a woman is beaten or assaulted.

• 20 people every minute in the U.S. are a victim of physical violence by their partner • Around 85 percent of domestic/dating violence victims are women.

• Women ages 18-24 in dating relationships experience the highest rate of domestic violence and sexual assault .

• Abuse can be physical, emotional, sexual, verbal, financial or digital.

• Leaving an abusive relationship is extremely difficult. On average a woman will leave an abusive relationship seven times before leaving for good

1. Help them understand that the abuse is not “normal” and it is NOT their fault.

Recognizing Signs of Violence Often when we think of dating and domestic violence, we think of physical abuse. It’s important to remember that abuse can also be verbal, emotional, sexual, financial, and digital. Non-physical abuse can be just as damaging as physical abuse and should be taken just as seriously. An abuser wants to control aspects of their partner’s life: who the victim’s friends are and how often they see them, the victim’s finances, or even less obvious things, like passwords to the victim’s social media accounts. If you have a friend who seems controlled or isolated from her social life or family life because of her partner, they may be in an abusive relationship.

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Sometimes a victim will cease to recognize their partner’s behavior as abusive because it is what they are used to or their partner has convinced them that it is normal or their fault.

Remind your friend that the abuse is NOT their fault and that they deserve a healthy, non-violent relationship.

2. Let your friend know you’re there for them.

Remind them that they are not alone.

Knowing that they have someone to call, to talk to and to confide in will not only make them feel stronger, but also increase the odds of them seeking and receiving help. To increase the chances of victims speaking up, we need to believe them, listen to them and support them first.

3. Ask them what you can do to help them feel safe.

Your friend’s safety should come first.

There is a wide range of responses a victim may have to this question. Some victims may want to call the police.

Some may want to try to work it out with their partner. Some may want to stay in the relationship, and some may want to leave. There is no perfect or right response to this question. Simply knowing that they can call you at 4 a.m. or crash at your place when they need to might make them feel safer.

4. Empower them: give your friend options and resources.

It’s OK if you’re not an expert. It’s OK if you’re not a professional counselor or therapist. But there are people out there who are. Connect your friend with resources in the community that can help them and guide them.Visit the website www.loveisrespect.org, or call the local hotline. At Rutgers we have The Office for Violence Prevention and Victim Assistance, which has a 24/7 free and confidential hotline: 848-932-1181.

else to turn to. It could also be though that your friend is simply too scared to leave the relationship. If your friend has already been threatened by their partner, they may not feel safe leaving. Ultimately, if you prioritize your friend’s safety and remind them that you’re there for support, they will feel respected and comfortable confidingin you.

guidance in how to be a good friend, don’t hesitate to reach out. There are resources to help you too.

Stay safe. Stay educated.

6. Get the help you need.

Supporting someone who is in an abusive relationship is not easy. If you feel like you need help doing so, or more

5. Respect their decisions.

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There are many reasons why a victim may choose to stay in an abusive relationship. Although it might be hard for you to understand, knowing the reasons why your friend might stay can help you help them. The number one reason why many victims stay in an abusive relationship is that they really do love their partner and believe that they can change.Your friend may only want the violence to stop, not for the relationship to end entirely. Another reason why victims may stay is they believe that if they leave their partner, they will have nowhere else/no one

If you, or someone you know, is a victim of sexual assault or is in an abusive relationship, there are resources available.

The National Domestic Violence Hotline #: 1.800.799.

SAFE (7233). The Office for Violence Prevention and Victim Assistance on campus at Rutgers’ 24/7 free, confidential hotline: 848.932.1181. www.loveisrespect.org/resources/dating-violence-statistics/ www.ncadv.org/learn/statistics www.domesticabuseshelter.org/infodomesticviolence.htm www.cdc.gov/violenceprevention/nisvs/infographic.html www.ncadv.org/learn/statistics www.domesticabuseshelter.org/infodomesticviolence.htm

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STYLE FIND THESE HATS AT ASOS

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BUCKET LIST It looks like the latest accessory to crawl out of the '90s and straight into 2015 "It" status is the long-lost bucket hat! Yes, the floppy headgear made famous by hip-hop luminary LL Cool J and adopted for rockstar badness by Oasis bad boy Liam Gallagher is now hot property once again. Bucket hats have graduated from '90s throwback to become a staple for our current spring and summer wardrobes. These hats are the perfect option for warmer weather as they’re light, breezy and keep the sun out of our eyes. But no need to dish out hundreds of your hard-earned dollars (or your parents’ money) on these magical head adornments—there is a huge variety of affordable options in stores as well! From a traditional polka dot print to an abstract camo, finding the right fit for your personal style is now easier and more bomb-diggity than ever.

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STYLE

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ake sure to pencil in a Sephora trip this month because you won’t want to miss out on the golden trends coming into bloom this spring. The most intriguing aspect of a gold hue is its versatility, making the transition from day to night a breeze.

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tary peach tone across your cheekbones.

As the sun begins to set, it’s naturally time to work in some shadows. Use a golden-brown tone to gently develop a warm smokey eye. Add drama by creating a winged effect with your favorite black liquid eyeliner. Be sure to also fill in your waterline for amplified intensity. To ensure a night to remember, be unpredictable with your lip color. Try a sexy pop of midnight blue for a cool yet sensual vibe that’ll turn heads instantly.

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BY NICOLETTE ACCARDI

'Tis The (Formal) Season W

ith Greek formals quickly approaching, the extensive planning that comes with each invitation can be a daunting task. From browsing through racks of dresses in search of the perfect outfit to shortlisting matching accessories and shoes, we get it—it’s exhausting. But in the end, nothing could go wrong with choosing a classic black bodycon dress and a pair of stilettos, right? Well...not necessarily.

girls break their addiction to spandex and start branching out to looks that are comfortable, chic and equally sexy!

Be happy—it’s spring! Adding a little color should naturally be the first step for your next warm-weather formal.

Bright summer hues with simple prints and patterns not only improve your confidence by tenfold but can also be a great way to stand out in the crowd.

Complement the look with simple metallic accessories along with strappy sandals or platform heels.

have a versatile garment that screams classy but still remains edgy. Given the romper’s ability to be paired with just about anything, it’s easy to add a belt or a blazer along with a some glamorous pumps to spice things up a bit. We guarantee you’ll have a chic, comfortable look with an effortless appeal in no time.

So next time you are choosing a formal outfit, just remember the generic LBD is not your only option.

Don’t live your life like a plastic from the movie Mean Girls. Be different, and show the world you know what creativity is.

Greek Life Formals Feeling even more daring? Dive into the growing trend of rompers and jumpsuits. Like our featured suit-inspired black romper, you can

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Skin-tight clothes and skyscraper heels may be the go-to look for the typical (dare I say “basic”?) female, but why show your date you are just T&A when you definitely have so much more to offer. This season, TRIM wants to see

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BY OLIVIA LI A ROBE DOESN’T HAVE TO BE restricted to your graduation ceremony or to your bathroom. The robe is a historical global fashion phenomenon which makes it incredibly versatile when it comes to how you mix and match it. Its comfort and ease, not to mention the variety of colors, designs and materials they come in, make for a functional trend that’ll fit anyone’s style.

Give it a try yourself! Going to a music festival? We recommend a long lace robe with distressed denim shorts, ankle boots and a floppy sunhat. Going on a date? Throw on a printed robe for a fun pop of color to go with your LBD. So don’t miss out! Head to the mall now and make robe-inspired garments a must-have in your spring wardrobe.

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The oversized robe has particularly been spotted throughout the Spring 2016 runway shows. It seems the trend picked up momentum even earlier though at the easterninspired 2015 Met Gala. It now seems undeniable that Rihanna’s yellow embroidered robe caught everyone’s eye that night.

The well-known wrap dress from DVF also tipped its hat to the season’s growing trend, encompassing the natural comfort of a robe with added feminine touches to the elegant design.

BY FRANCESCA FALZON AS THE SUN STARTS SHINING warmer and brighter, so does the color palette of our clothing. This year is no exception, and of the bright hues that abound, TRIM has singled out orange as the current “It” color.

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Many people—even veterans of the sartorial world—may shy away from such a bold shade, opting for more traditional and subdued colors such as white or pastel. Fashion, however, is founded upon people taking a creative license and interpreting trends in more personally applicable ways. Not feeling very experimental? Try a subtle redorange lipstick. Feeling bold? Rock that orange monochromic look from head to toe.

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Orange is also exceedingly versatile and transitional. An orangey-brown parka is perfect for those drizzly spring days and a light cotton sweater is ideal for when a cold front beckons an end to steamy summer days.

The successful Netflix TV series Orange is the New Black boasts a number of dedicated fans and awards, but its popularity in the past two years may be partially credited for bringing orange to the forefront of the fashion world. Of course, orange is not to be solely associated with the penitentiary outfits worn by the star-studded cast. In fact, no other color can claim to evoke such strong and varied connotations, whether it be a retro '70s vibe or a confident contemporary look.

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each spring, as the mating season rolls around, the peacock exhibits his feathery splendor in the hope of enticing a peahen suitor. follow the peacock’s lead on this one! There is no better time to preen your new facial fur than under the splendid spotlight of spring. we’ve compiled a comprehensive guide to cultivating this season’s finest facial hair.

BY ORLA LAVERY

The 5 O’Clock Shadow EASY

This style is best culminated over a four to five day period. Allow your facial hair to flurry for the first four days and on the fifth use a beard trimmer or small pair of scissors to trim and maintain any unruly strands. Maintain with a five minute daily trim to keep stubble tidy. This style yields great reward with minimal maintenance.

(Results may vary)

The Goatee A D VA N CE D

Some may say the goatee is a thing of the past, but an updated and slightly messier version of the look is perfect for 2016.

Picture Captain Jack Sparrow without the beads. For the perfect amount of scruffiness, allow the mustache to grow out just enough. Keep the chin hair slightly trimmed, as well as the patch below the lower lip.

The Professional

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Not for the lazy or faint of heart, this beard is exactly what it’s called: professional. It falls between the 5 o’clock shadow and full on beard, and is acceptable in professional settings. For this look, allow hair to grow everywhere and just keep the lines and edges tight and the length trimmed. The goal is to acquire a supple beard without looking like you don’t own a razor.

The Jaw-Liner AD VANCED

Widely known as the chinstrap, this jaw-lining beard originates at the sideburn and follows the full length of the chin all the way to the other sideburn. To achieve the look, you will need to perform maintenance frequently. Expect to touch up the tight lines of the facial hair every other day or so, and to trim the actual length of the hair as frequently as needed to keep it relatively short.

The “Yes, I have Viking Ancestry” Beard EASY

See: Leonardo DiCaprio circa filming The Revenant, or Zach Galifianakis pretty much always. This beard is ideal for anyone who is too lazy to pick up a razor more than twice a year, or for someone who has the incredible genes to develop such a thick, impressive beard. However, it is not ideal for the impatient. To achieve the look, let that hair grow for at least six months. The occasional trim for split beard ends may be necessary.

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LIFE WAYS NOT TO TAKE THE BUS

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BY TAYLOR CARVIN

As Rutgers students, we all know the struggle. Our university is known for its efficient bus system, but it is not always a pleasant ride. Between not having a seat, that one guy who’s B.O. might suffocate you and God forbid you forget your headphones, the bus ride can be the worst part of your day. But have no fear, Rutgers students!

You don’t have to keep practicing your “oh, I didn’t even see you there!” act.

There are many ways to avoid taking the bus. With this beautiful spring weather, put on your sneaks and go for a walk.You will feel much more invigorated and ready for class.Your class is too far of a walk? Try biking! It’s the quickest way to get to class and an easy way to squeeze in some exercise between classes. The newest and trendiest way though? The hoverboard.Yes, you did not hear me wrong. The hoverboard is not just for Instagram celebrities, you can have one too! They are speedy, compact and a lot of fun to ride. (One drawback: some hoverboards spontaneously burst into flames.)

So whether you stick with the classic bike or take a step toward the future with a hoverboard, you don’t have to be stuck taking the bus.

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Study Abroad Tips THE PAPERWORK IS DONE. THE FLIGHT IS BOOKED. THE DAYS ARE COUNTING DOWN, BUT BEFORE YOU JET OFF TO YOUR NEW HOME FOR THE NEXT FEW MONTHS, CONSIDER THESE TIPS.

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Travel, but don’t spend every weekend away.

Your friends’ Instagrams might be making you a little homesick, or even jealous, but you need to let it go. Enjoy the incredible opportunities that await you instead of dwelling on what’s going on at your college bar next weekend.

Be flexible.

You’re going to be bombarded with countless options of new experiences.

Always say yes.You never know when you might find something you love.

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Keep a journal or blog.

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Explore alone.

Solo travel is highly underrated.

You’ll learn so much more about yourself by taking the time to wander around the places that strike your curiosity.

Just be sure to stay safe.

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Do your research beforehand.

Study up on the tipping customs in Austria or the forms of greetings in Japan before you arrive there. An easy Google search can save you from an awkward situation.

This is essential. While it may be tiring to write about each day, it’s something your future self will thank you for. As you get older, it will become harder to remember all those little details.

Keeping a journal will essentially bottle all those special memories for everlasting enjoyment.

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You came to this new city for a reason. Explore it.

While visiting new places is encouraged, make sure you create a healthy balance between weekends traveling and weekends in your host city so that you can get well-acquainted with the culture you originally came to experience.

While it may be tempting to set foot in the oh-so familiar Starbucks down the street, opt for something unique to your new city.Your time there is limited, and that caramel frappuccino will still be waiting for you in America upon your return.

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BY SAMANTHA GILBERT Freelancing is not Carrie Bradshaw wandering into the New York City office of an editor at Vogue with an automatic “yes” to whatever content she produced, be it about handbags or men. Freelancing is also not lounging around in your pajamas after waking up at 11 a.m., eating four day old pizza that you almost forgot was hiding in the back of the fridge behind your two-day-old Chinese takeout and jotting down some words for an hour of your day. At least not if you want to be successful.

Whether your idea of being a successful freelancer is producing masses of content, making the most money possible or travelling to interesting places to get the scoop, the same guidelines apply for achieving success. Amy LaVange, the Content Manager in charge of managing a network of 200 freelance writers at Foxtail Marketing reveals the necessary characteristics of a successful freelancer.

“You need to be able to take criticism,” said LaVange, who admitted to having taken some time to learn this skill.

“Your writing style isn't going to match everyone's desires, but

I have found that most people don't expect it to. The best quality is to be able to take the criticism, listen to the feedback, and learn to implement the changes.”

LaVange also emphasized the freelance writer’s ability to see things from the reader’s perspective, rather than his or her own.

“Too often, we think like writers.

Especially right out of college, we want to write as if we are proving our knowledge. But freelance writing doesn't work if you sound like you're drafting an essay! Learning to be highly engaging requires getting in the mind of your reader.”

But, according to LaVange, there is one key characteristic of a successful freelance writer that is absolutely essential.

“You have to be internally motivated. No one is looking over your shoulder.You meet deadlines, or you lose the job.”

It’s one thing to garner the skills of an accomplished freelancer, but actually getting your work out to an audience—and getting paid for it—is a whole other ball game. As for establishing yourself and getting your name out there, it’s essential to determine your niche market. Once you have done that, you can produce content that exemplifies your expertise.

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companies with blogs that fit your market. Doing so gives you multiple benefits: networking, more clips to add to your portfolio and vital experience.

“The more experience and expertise you have, the more likely you are to beat out competition in one market,” she said. “After you've done that, you can expand into other ones.”

So when does the money start rolling in, and can it sustain a comfortable lifestyle?

“It sure can. I wouldn't count on it for the first six months,” said LaVange. “But once you have established a name for yourself, you can be very successful!”

Finally, and perhaps most importantly, be your own advocate.

The digital landscape is booming, along with social sites such as Twitter, Facebook and more professional platforms such as LinkedIn. Whenever you have a work published, post the link to your various social media accounts, as well as a personal blog that functions as an online portfolio.

However, be cautious with the other content that you share. When you are mixing your career and your personal social accounts, you need to hold yourself to a high level of integrity and professionalism.

Freelancing is not easy, and it comes along with the stress of not having dependable employment.

However, when it’s done correctly, it can be both lucrative and rewarding.

The possibilities for a freelance writer are endless when he or she applies the tools for success.

Start Flexin’ REACH YOUR GOALS WITH THE RU FLEX PASS

BY LESLIE ACUNA

F

itness is an important part of an everyday regimen

ADVANCED YOGA A challenging practice designed for intermediate/advanced yoga students with experience in various yoga asanas. We strongly recommend that you are able to perform urdva danurasana as well as handstands at the wall.

ZUMBA An interval-style calorieburning dance fitness party combining all elements of fitness cardio, muscle conditioning, balance and flexibility, boosted energy and a serious dose of awesome each time you leave class.

Perfect for everybody and every body! Super effective?

Check. Super fun? Check and check.

Check out more classes available at recreation. rutgers.edu!

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in order to lead a healthy lifestyle. Luckily for students, Rutgers University offers a flexible fitness program. The RU Flex Pass provides unlimited access to a variety of classes offered at the University that are taught by fitness professionals as well as students seeking a career in the fitness industry. Throughout the semester there are over 130 classes available at any fitness center on any campus. Classes range from Body Pump to Spinning to Hatha Yoga. Whether you are looking for a class to add to your intense workout or a class to relax your mind from stressful exams, we guarantee you’ll find one tailored to your needs. Each semester Rutgers offers the RU Flex Pass at a low price of only $45, but if you decide halfway through the semester to sign up for the pass it only costs $25. There are also other options offered such as a one class pass valued at $5 and the purchase of five classes at a time that is $20. The pass can be purchased at any fitness center on each campus and are available for fall, spring and summer semesters. In order to give students a chance to try the flex pass before making the purchase, the first week of each semester is catered to those who want to try the classes for free. For one week the RU Flex Pass allows anyone to walk into any class and try it out. The convenience of the RU Flex Pass is amazing and encourages students to incorporate fun fitness classes into their hectic lifestyle.

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HUMANS OF RUTGERS

RUTGERS STUDENT ORGS

KNIGHT WAGON

Humans of Rutgers (@humans_ of_ru) is a multi-account page formatted similarly to the popular Humans of New York website.

Students of all backgrounds are featured on the website, with brief clips to convey their individual stories. The site succeeds in highlighting the diversity that is so prevalent at Rutgers University, teaching readers about other cultures and interests of their fellow students.

The Twitter account @RUStudentOrgs is a great resource for already existing Rutgers organizations as well as students that are looking to get more involved on campus. The account is updated nearly daily with events from a wide range of organizations, and they also send out reminders and opportunities for organizations.

The Knight Wagon provides an alternative to the same old grill designated in each campus’ dining halls. The travelling food truck boasts creative and delicious grill options, ranging from a classic burger topped with barbecue pork to Thanksgivinginspired meals. The best part? It takes meal swipes. Follow @knightwagon on Twitter to see where the Medieval-themed food truck is headed next..

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Need a place to start looking for new ways to get involved on campus? @RUgetinvolved tweets events and information relevant to the Rutgers community, like registration for the Big Chill or upcoming RUPA events.

The Facebook group RU Screw’d doesn’t just cover the unfortunate occurrences that seem to plague nearly all Rutgers students. They also post relevant articles about the Rutgers community, satirical posts and funny memes.

The “Where the Free Food At? Rutgers” Facebook group is closed and only available to students at Rutgers-New Brunswick.

In a collaborative effort, students frequently post tips on upcoming and current venues on campus to get your meals without spending a dime. You can also follow the twitter account, @RutgersFreeFood for even more free food options.

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RUTH ANNE stantly argue over their name, there is nothing like a good

hoagie for a late night study session. Luckily for us, Rutgers has many options around campus

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needs. This past spring, I valiantly went across New Brunswick and sacrificed my waist line to find the best choices close by.

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ince the 1970s, Professor Ruth Anne Koenick has worked as an active advocate for domestic violence prevention and women’s equality. A recipient of the New Jersey Coalition Against Sexual Assault 30th Anniversary Award as well as the founder of SCREAM (Students Challenging Realities and Educating Against Myths) Theater at Rutgers, Koenick works closely with several rape and domestic violence survivors. At Rutgers, she expanded the Office of Violence Prevention and Victim Assistance, where Koenick is now the director. Throughout her 40-year-long journey, Koenick has been such an admirable social worker that TRIM was compelled to highlight her as our very own model citizen as she enters her last months at Rutgers prior to retirement.

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TRIM: WHAT SPARKED YOUR MOTIVATION TO GO INTO THIS LINE OF WORK? RUTH ANNE KOENICK: There were a couple of things. I was really taught as a child that I had an obligation to help repair the world. I went to the University of Maryland, where I got actively involved in the antiwar movement in the 60s. And I saw that women in the movement were, as I like to say, “making coffee and not policy,” so I changed direction and decided that I would do abortion counseling. I also worked as a resident assistant on campus, and I started thinking about things a little differently. When a student on my floor was abducted and raped, it probably was the first time that word was ever mentioned. I was asked to go and get some clothing and meet her at the hospital.

But when I got there, they would not let me talk to her. At that moment, I knew that I needed to do something to change that. I got together with two other women who worked for residence life, and we opened what is often credited as the first rape crisis center on a college campus. I quickly became an expert because I knew more than other people even though I really didn’t know very much, and I fell in love with helping people recover from something that had changed their life. For me, that was a way to repair the world, to change something and work with survivors. My feminism was budding at the time, and it just became something that I loved doing.

women in those days. My father was an immigrant to this country and a survivor of the pogroms, World War I and the Russian Revolution. He taught me about hate, discrimination and the concept that when one of us is discriminated against, all of us are. All of us have a responsibility to change the culture so that we don’t have this kind of violence.

TRIM: WHEN YOU FIRST STARTED IN THE 1970S, HOW WAS YOUR WORK INITIALLY RECEIVED BY OTHER PEOPLE? RAK: Some of them, particularly the vice president of student affairs at the time, were wonderful, and we also had a really good relationship with the police. However, it was still a time where polite women didn’t talk about this out loud. Since most of what we learned came from the women that we worked with - what their needs were, what they didn’t have, what they would want - I think that it was not received in a way that we could do a lot of talking out loud. There still were no classes regarding this issue and people still didn’t talk about this. But some of the people in power were interested in having us respond. The director of health service

gave us a space in the health center and got us phones to help out. Overall, it was hit or miss. Some people didn’t want us around and some people did.

TRIM: WHERE DID YOU RECEIVE THE INSPIRATION OR THE IDEA OF SCREAM THEATER? RAK: I came here in January 1991, and one of the things I needed to do was develop a program for orientation.

It seemed to me that peer education was the way to go and what we needed to do was some interactive programming. So I heard of a script, and I got some students together that I was working with. We put it on in Levin Theater during the Cook Douglass Orientation. The script was the worst thing I had ever heard, and the students wanted it to be real so they had real wine they were drinking. I was so sure I was going to get fired, but everybody loved it. It was so well received. I began to cultivate the idea that this was what I wanted to do, and within a year or so we had students who were interested in it and we started doing it for Rutgers College and Douglass College.

But within a few years, this is what we were doing for orientation, and it’s been around ever since.

TRIM: DOES YOUR FAMILY AND BACKGROUND PLAY A SIGNIFICANT ROLE IN YOUR VIEWS ON FEMINISM AND DOMESTIC VIOLENCE? RAK: They play a major role. I was taught that your life is defined by family, community and religion, and the three of them are intertwined. While the religious part is personal to me, the community part and family part are not. This is my community and in many ways, this is also my family. My mother taught me about volunteerism.

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TRIM: LOOKING BACK AT EVERYTHING YOU HAVE CONTRIBUTED TO THE STRUGGLE FOR EQUALITY AND THE PREVENTION OF DOMESTIC VIOLENCE, IS THERE ANY PARTICULAR EXPERIENCE THAT REALLY STANDS OUT TO YOU? RAK: Oh, there are so many! I have worked with thousands of survivors, and there are maybe three or four that I think of everyday. My experiences with those individuals are just something that is so much part of my heart.

I remember almost all of the folks I have worked with, but there are a few of them that really stand out to me. I also think that being able to create a place here just has been an experience.

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thing that stands out to me. It’s mostly my work with survivors.You know, we do a lot of things that are pretty meaningless. I send an email that nobody answers. I go to a meeting that I wonder why I had to. But to help a survivor recover, and there are a few that stand out in my heart, probably that is the most important to me. Those are the defining moments for me that I will carry with me forever.

TRIM: WHEN YOU FIRST GOT INTO THIS LINE OF WORK,YOU WERE A COLLEGE STUDENT. WHAT WERE SOME OF THE THINGS YOU LEARNED AS YOU DEVELOPED? RAK: Well there are a couple of people that I hold as mentors although they never knew me. Margaret Sanger,

who is the mother of birth control, said that sometimes in order to change laws you have to break them, and I think that sometimes in order to change things you have to really challenge them to the edge.You have to know how to do it, and you have to figure out a way to do it in a politically astute way. I look to Wynona Lipman, the first African American state senator here.

Senator Lipman was a good supporter of the work that we do, and she really taught me about doing things in an eloquent way yet really digging in on it. She spoke for those who didn’t have a voice, and I feel like I need to remember why I do this work and some of that is speaking for those who don’t have a voice. I have learned a lot from my supervisors. I had one who taught me to calm down and wait and see how things happen before you react.

...I think that sometimes in order to change things you have to really challenge them to the edge.

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And I had one that told me two things: to go visit my grandchildren three or four times a year and to learn when to keep my mouth shut. I am really good at visiting my grandchildren, but I am not good at keeping my mouth shut, although I have gotten better over the years.

TRIM: WHAT ARE SOME OF THE DIFFERENCES THAT YOU SEE AS AN ADVOCATE FOR VIOLENCE PREVENTION BETWEEN NOW AND THE 1970S WHEN YOU FIRST STARTED? RAK: Sometimes I think the more they change, the more they stay the same. We still have a legal system that mistreats survivors and that does not pursue things that should be pursued because they don’t think it is a winnable case. I think that is disgraceful.

We still have legislators introducing legislation that is horrific and horrible stuff. We still have people who don’t believe that this is actually an issue. On the other hand, we have the President of the United States saying that this is an important issue and that just blows me away. I would say, “Welcome to the table, President Obama! You are just a little late, but we will take you.” The difference now is that we have advocates challenging them and some of that stuff is just dead on arrival.

TRIM: WHAT ELSE DO YOU THINK SHOULD BE DONE IN THIS FIELD? RAK: The way things are here at Rutgers is very unique. Most schools don’t have an office that is as well developed as this with as many staff as this. Other schools don’t have the kind of support that this school has shown for this issue. I would like to see all schools have activists involved in this.

We should allow people to at least go through grand jury to see if it is going to be indicted or not rather than say we don’t have enough information, or we don’t have enough evidence. I would really like to see us challenge what is really healthy masculinity and unhealthy masculinity. We are beginning to do some of that here and we 59

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are going to hire someone to work with the men on campus. I think that we need to change the culture and really do a dramatic cultural shift so that we are treated as equals and that we treat each other with respect.

TRIM: ARE YOU SATISFIED WITH HOW FAR WE HAVE COME? RAK: I am never satisfied with how far it has come. I always want more, but I think we have made great progress.

In fact, we would not be having this conversation today if there had not been progress. I feel like I have made a difference this year, and maybe it was starting with The Hunting Ground or maybe it was what we have been trying to do around here, but I feel like there is a different level of interest. We are going in the right direction. It is just a little too slow for me; I only have six months. But I think we have made great progress here, and I am pleased with it.

TRIM: DO YOU HAVE ANY ADVICE FOR ADOLESCENTS WHO MIGHT BE ASPIRING TO JOIN THESE MOVEMENTS BUT ARE STRUGGLING TO FIND A WAY TO DO SO? RAK: I would say keep trying until you find what is right for you. Don’t be afraid of what other people think of you. There is a lot of conversation of how young women fear the “f word”. Feminism to me is something much bigger than me, and it is a political struggle. I think that people have to define it for themselves and not be afraid of what messages it gives.

Everybody does this a little bit differently, but we go for the same thing. Be prepared to put yourself out there, and again, do not be afraid of what someone might say to you. If they don’t like what you are doing, then maybe they are not really of value to you.

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