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SQUIRTING ALL YOU NEED TO KNOW Squirting refers to the expulsion of fluid from

8 steps how to make yourself squirt

folks with vulvas during sex,”

during sex!

When someone squirts, “it’s usually from G-spot

Apparently, for some women, it does come (ha!)

stimulation, or clitoral and G-spot dual stimulation.”

naturally. But for others, it may be possible to learn. Meaning, yes, you could make yourself squirt during

Squirting is NOT the same as "female ejaculation." Most

people

think

the

two

terms

sex.

are

interchangeable, but the researchers think they’re

1. Get your bed ready ...just in case.

actually two different responses. While squirting is

If you do succeed in squirting, things may get a

the bigger gush of liquid that shoots out from the

tad...messy. So, Dr. Castellanos recommends taking

urethra, female ejaculation is a much smaller

precautions if you're worried about over-saturating

concentration of liquid that occurs in the vagina.

your sheets.Taylor Sparks, erotic educator and

Female ejaculate is more viscous and stringier than

founder of OrganicLoven.com suggests the Liberator

urine

Fascinator Throw (shown here), which is made to

(or

regular

lubrication)

almost

the

consistency of saliva

soak up liquids and softer than most towels.

Female ejaculation, which comes from the female prostate (yep, that's a thing), can happen with

2. Try to relax, and give yourself plenty of time

orgasm or just tons of stimulation, but since it’s such

to get turned on.

a tiny amount and some gets pushed back into the vagina, you may not notice it. Although some women experience both at the same time. Important: Squirting doesn't necessarily always happen at the same time as orgasm, and not everyone

finds

researchers

it

can

pleasurable. tell,

there's

And

as

far

as

no

anatomical

predisposition that determines if you can or can't squirt,

you’re

take some time to get a feel for it,” says Antonia Hall, psychologist and author of The Ultimate Guide to a Multi-Orgasmic Life.You'll also want to reduce as many

other

stressful

thoughts

as

possible.

"Remember that for most women sex starts in the brain," says Sparks. "Start the mental seduction earlier in the day." That means everything from dirty talk to cleaning the bedroom so there's nothing there that stresses you out.

Are some positions better than others? If

Have patience with yourself and your body. “It can

looking

to

explore

squirting

during

partnered sex, any sex act or position that stimulates your G-spot and clit at the same time can work. EG: Doggystyle and Missionary.

3. Start by focusing on the clit. “Focus first on stimulating your clitoris, as it'll help bring blood into the area and get your G-spot area ready for play,” says Hall.

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