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ISSUE 78
ABOUT THE COVER
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MUSC HEALTH: STAY CLOSE TO HOME FOR STROKE TREATMENT AND CARE Pee Dee residents no longer have to leave the area for comprehensive stroke treatment and care. MUSC Health Florence Medical Center is the premiere comprehensive center in the region to provide a surgical procedure that removes clots from the brain of stroke patients. The therapy, along with the most advanced equipment, represents a multimillion-dollar investment by MUSC in area residents’ care. See page 10 for the full story. Page 34
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CONTENT: MAY 2022
HEALTH 10 MUSC Health: Stay Close to Home for Stroke Treatment and Care
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12 HopeHealth: Behavioral Health 14 McLeod: RAPID Care of Stroke
LIFEST YLE 30 Jessica Turner Page 32 Goosie Ganders: Three Generations 34 Hilda Conner 36 Tracy Rowell 38 MOMS: Favorite Life Lessons 40 Foster Care Clothing Closet Page 16 16 MOMS: Favorite Mom Quotes
42 Dr. Michael C. Crawford: May Flowers & Faith AROUND TOWN 46 Florence Food & Wine Festival
BUSINESS 18 Mark W. Buyck, III: Following Mr. Robinson 20 Armstrong Wealth: Celebrating 25 Years of Helping Clients 22 Growing Hobby: Succulents & Cacti Simplified
HOME 48 VIP Book Club: The Dutch House 50 Doug The Food Guy: Celebrating National Cheese Month
24 Consider the Lilies: Nature & Artistry
DRINK TIME TO TOAST 26 Local Business Achievements
52 La'Quantia Goodman: Limoncello Prosecco with Blueberries and Thyme
CALENDAR 28 May 2022: Fun Days and Events
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HOME + WELLNESS HEALTH
Stay close to home for stroke treatment and care
MUSC Health Florence Medical Center’s Brain Attack Team (BAT) is on stand by 24/7 to respond to anyone brought to the hospital suspected of having a stroke Pee Dee residents no longer have to leave the area for comprehensive stroke treatment and care. MUSC Health Florence Medical Center is the premiere comprehensive center in the region to provide a surgical procedure that removes clots from the brain of stroke patients. The therapy, along with the most advanced equipment, represents a multi-million-dollar investment by MUSC in area residents’ care. The availability of treatment close to home can make the difference between life and death and in how well a patient recovers, says Dr. Jay Dolia, medical stroke director and neuro-endovascular surgery director for MUSC Health Florence, a Primary Stroke Center designated by the Joint Commission. Dr. Jay Dolia
Until recently, patients diagnosed with a stroke and whose condition made them ineligible for the clot-busting drug tPA had to be flown to Charleston, Myrtle Beach, or Columbia for surgery.
The therapy is one of several initiatives using stateof-the-art equipment. Artificial intelligence is used to read scans of patients’ brains before treatment, shaving valuable minutes off the time between a patient’s arrival and when treatment is started. “We can diagnose, confer with the patient’s family and treat well under the time set by national stroke care standards,” Dolia says. MUSC Health in Florence and Charleston are the first in South Carolina to implement an audiovisual system that allows a surgical team to consult in real-time with their counterparts in Charleston. For complex surgeries, the hospital also has a suite equipped with the latest robotic technology and cameras that provide the highest resolution available of the brain. Dolia says his team is dedicated to care and recovery. “We work to figure out why the stroke occurred and to make sure it never happens again.”
“Rapid treatment is crucial,” Dolia says. “A person having a stroke loses 1.9 million brain cells every minute. It can mean the difference in whether you can hold a cup, a telephone, or your grandkids.” Unlike tPA, which must be given to a patient within 4 1/2 hours, the endovascular surgery can be performed up to 24 hours and involves the insertion of a catheter through the wrist or the groin to remove the clot. 10
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For more information about stroke and stroke treatment, visit MUSChealth.org/florence.
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HEALTH ++ WELLNESS WELLNESS HEALTH
WHY IT ’ S TI M E TO TAL K TO YOUR PR I M ARY CARE PR OVID E R A B OUT YOUR BEHAVIORAL HEALTH story by Ryan Gilbert, MD, HopeHealth
Most relationship experts agree that the key to any healthy relationship is a foundation built on honesty and communication. Whether it be with your partner, your children, or a good friend, problems always appear when people keep secrets, withhold the truth, or bottle up their thoughts and feelings on critical issues. Honesty and communication are also essential when it comes to building a successful partnership with your primary care provider (PCP). When you fail to disclose health issues you are experiencing, especially challenges with your mental health, it can interfere with your provider’s ability to deliver quality care, producing negative health care outcomes. Without open and honest dialogue about a patient’s mental health, PCPs don’t have all the pieces of the puzzle to address medical problems, which can lead to additional and unnecessary testing, misdiagnosis, and ineffective treatments. This may ultimately cost the patient more time, more money, and most importantly, their well-being. So why are some patients reluctant to talk to their PCP about their mental health? Some reasons might include:
• Embarrassment or a fear of judgment - While attitudes towards and care for mental health have certainly improved over the decades, many people still feel embarrassed when discussing their mental health and fear stigma associated with mental illness that could impact their standing in the community or their career. Others may have a self-stigma that accepting treatment to better their mental health is an admission of weakness or a shameful character flaw, discouraging patients from asking for help. Part of addressing mental health is to overcome and reframe these misconceptions as medical care, similar to treating hypertension or diabetes, all without judgment.
• Desire to not inconvenience the provider - Some patients minimize the importance of their mental health and refrain from telling their provider when they are struggling because they don’t want to trouble them or “waste their time.” While it is true that doctors, nurse practitioners, and other health care providers are always busy, our priority is always to take care of the patient first, and all of their health, not just physical health. Be open with your provider about how you are doing so you can get the support you need and deserve. 12
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• Worry that other medical symptoms will be dismissed as mental health issues - Another valid concern that is sometimes raised is that a mental health diagnosis will overshadow complaints of other medical issues. While there can be a lot of overlap between your mental health and other health issues, treating one can often benefit the other, and talking honestly with your provider can help ensure all bases are covered and your treatment is more effective. At HopeHealth, an integrated care model is used to best address these concerns, offering same day care for behavioral health when a patient reports problems to their primary care provider. Integrated care helps highlight that your physical and mental health are both important, and both ultimately impact each other, factoring into your overall health. Vicky Peterkin, a behavioral health consultant serving patients at the HopeHealth Medical Plaza, says, “The integrated care model is an invaluable approach to supporting patients by providing effective and efficient care that reflects and meets the whole person’s health needs. The model offers access to a medical provider and a mental health professional on the same day, leading to better health care outcomes.” While it can feel overwhelming and scary to be vulnerable with your primary care provider, doing so can improve your overall health for the better. With honesty comes more holistic and cost-effective health care leading to quicker resolutions, so you feel better sooner.
IF YOU ARE READY TO TALK TO A PRIMARY CARE PROVIDER ABOUT YOUR MENTAL HEALTH, CONTACT HOPEHEALTH TO SCHEDULE AN APPOINTMENT. WE’RE HERE TO HELP.
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Ryan Gilbert, MD
Dr. Ryan Gilbert is a family medicine physician at the HopeHealth Medical Plaza in Florence. He completed his residency at Mercer University/ MCCG Family Medicine Residency Program in Macon, GA, and is a member of the American Board of Family Medicine and the American Academy of Family Physicians. Fluent in English and Spanish, Dr. Gilbert cares for patients and families of all ages.
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Dr. Ravish Kothari, McLeod Vascular Neurologist; Dr. Joseph Kearney, McLeod Emergency Physician; and Dr. Timothy Hagen, McLeod Neurologist, are part of the McLeod team who receive the RAPID reports and expedite stroke care at all McLeod Health hospitals.
RAPID Care of Stroke story by Dr. Timothy Hagen, Medical Director of McLeod Neurology Services A stroke happens when blood flow to an area in the brain is cut off. If not caught early permanent brain damage can occur. That is why every minute counts for a stroke patient when it comes to treatment. The most effective stroke treatment can only be implemented once the stroke is diagnosed. McLeod Health has installed new software that expedites stroke care for patients. The RAPID imaging technology quickly analyzes a head CT scan of patients experiencing acute strokes. The software is fast and automated with results being viewed on any computer or handheld device by the McLeod Neurology Medical Team. Within minutes, scans with stroke test results are being sent to McLeod Neurologists, the Interventional Neuroradiologist, Emergency Physicians, Anesthesiologists, and Critical Care Specialists. RAPID quickly provides these McLeod Specialists with patient information, allowing them to rapidly assess the severity of the patient’s stroke and determine the most appropriate treatment. The faster patient information is delivered, the sooner treatment can begin and that can 14
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potentially be brain saving or even life saving for the patient. A CT scan of the head is performed to help distinguish between Ischemic stroke or a Hemorrhagic stroke. It is important to know which type of stroke it is to be able to determine the treatment plan. Ischemic strokes occur when a blood vessel to the brain is blocked by a clot. When this happens part of the brain is not getting the oxygen and blood it needs, which is a very dangerous and life-threatening situation. Ischemic strokes are the most common type of stroke accounting for 87 percent of all strokes, according to the American Stroke Association. The main treatment for patients diagnosed with an Ischemic stroke is a drug called tissue plasminogen activator (tPA), which breaks up clots. The benefits of tPA are time dependent and should be administered as quickly as possible. The window of opportunity for giving the medication is four and half hours after the onset of a stroke. The
Dr. Timothy Hagen Medical Director of Neurology Services
Dr. Timothy Hagen is a McLeod Hospital Neurologist who is board certified in Neurology and Sleep Medicine. He received his medical degree from Western University in Pomona, California. Dr. Hagen completed an Internal Medicine Residency at Good Samaritan Hospital in Cincinnati, Ohio, and a Neurology Residency at the University of Cincinnati in Ohio. Dr. Hagen cares for patients at McLeod Regional Medical Center.
speed of RAPID helps ensure more patients are not out of the window for tPA. When RAPID scans indicate a larger brain vessel blockage, the vessels can be re-opened quickly and safely with a procedure called Thrombectomy. A minimally invasive surgery, this procedure removes the blood clot from a brain artery. Time is also of the essence when restoring blood flow back to the brain. And, not all hospitals are equipped with the staff, training and equipment necessary to perform a Thrombectomy. At McLeod Regional Medical Center, there is a dedicated Neurointerventional Bi-plane X-ray Suite for such procedures as Thrombectomy. The Bi-plane imaging system produces highly detailed three-dimensional views of blood vessels heading to the brain and deep within the brain. Designed for the emergency treatment of stroke patients, this technology allows doctors to follow the blood flow path to the exact location of the issue. The Thrombectomy procedure for stroke care is also performed by an Interventional Neuroradiologist. This specialist uses the Bi-plane X-ray imaging to help guide a catheter, a long flexible tube, inserted through an artery in the groin up to the blocked artery. Once there, a stent retriever, a tiny net-like device, is inserted into the catheter and guided to the blockage to capture the clot and return blood flow back to the brain. At McLeod, we are pleased to offer the RAPID technology to reduce the time between stroke treatment and care for our patients. Patients in the region have the comfort of knowing this service is available at all McLeod Health hospitals: McLeod Regional Medical Center, McLeod Health Clarendon, McLeod Health Cheraw, McLeod Health Dillon, McLeod Health Carolina Forest, McLeod Health Loris, and McLeod Health Seacoast.
Every minute counts for stroke patients and acting F.A.S.T. can lead patients to the stroke treatments they desperately need. The most effective stroke treatments are only available if the stroke is recognized and diagnosed within the first three hours of the onset of symptoms. If you think someone may be having a stroke, act F.A.S.T. and do this simple test: F-FACE: Ask the person to smile. Does one side of the face droop? A-ARMS: Ask the person to raise both arms. Does one arm drift downward? S-SPEECH: Ask the person to repeat a simple phrase. Is their speech slurred or strange? T-TIME: If you observe any of these signs, call 9-1-1 immediately. For more information, visit McLeodHealth.org.
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What is one of your favorite ‘mom’ quotes?
“Time cures everything.” A valuable statement I have found to be true on more than one occasion! My mother used these three simple words to remind me to always have patience for the unknown and to practice forgiveness when things do not go my way." - Phillip Rodgers
"The best ‘momma’ quote I know is from Forrest Gump. ‘My mom always said life was like a box of chocolates. You never know what you’re gonna get.’" - Phillip Guyton
"‘There’s enough evil in the world. Love and look out for each other.’ That is something my mom would always say to my sisters and me." - Alexis Kelley McDonald
"My mom always said, 'I want to finish my life serving God.' And she did just that." - Pam Dauksch
"'Giving to others is always better than giving to yourself.'" - Taylor Graham
"My mom often tells me that she ‘bids me God speed’ in all endeavors that I set out to accomplish. She’s very supportive and always encourages me to stay focused and to keep moving forward." - Cynthia Ford
"During my teenage years, as I walked out of the door, probably headed for some mischief, my mom would say, ‘Remember where you came from.’ Those words meant a lot: Remember your Christian upbringing; Remember your manners; and Work hard in all you do. She sets a great example in all of these areas to this day and I still repeat her words asa I walk this path of life." - Chris Cawthon 5
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"My grandmother raised me and she would always say, ‘Do your best because you never know who is watching. Always be ready to walk into your blessing." - Contessa Bradley
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"My mom always said, ‘Don’t let the low points break you, let them fuel you.’" - Brittany Rybak
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FOLLOWING MR. ROBINSON Red Barber was the long-time major league baseball play-by-play announcer for the Brooklyn Dodgers and New York Yankees. Barber was a Southerner and the radio announcer for the 1947 Dodgers team that integrated major league baseball with the first African American player in nearly a half century, Jackie Robinson. Barber referred to 1947 as “the year all hell broke loose in baseball.” Baseball’s integration was a pivotal event in the countries attitudes toward ending racial segregation. In 1947 baseball was America’s favorite sport. Professional football and basketball had not captured the American attention to the extent that it does today. Baseball was, in fact, the American pastime. Baseball and society at large in 1947 would be unrecognizable to youth today. While there were hundreds of minor league teams throughout the country, there were only 16 major league franchises, 8 in the American League and 8 in the National League. The four Southernmost teams were the St. Louis Browns, the Washington Senators, The Cincinnati Reds, and the St. Louis Cardinals. Southern players were prominent throughout the league; however, there were no teams on the West Coast or in the Southeast. Most strikingly there were no African American or Latino players to be found on any big-league roster. Likewise, the American workplace and society at large maintained racial segregation. Most of us are familiar with the story of Jackie Robinson. He was the first African American player. Not as well-known is the second African American on a big-league roster and the first in the American League, Larry Doby, a South Carolina native. Doby was born in Camden in 1926. Doby’s father, a World War I vet, spent very little time with his family when Larry was young. His mother relocated to Patterson New Jersey but left Larry in Camden to attend school while living with various relatives. Doby described his childhood saying, “growing up in Camden, we didn’t have baseball bats. We’d use a tree here, a tin can there, for bases.” At the age of 14, Doby moved to Patterson and was reunited with his mother. He was a multi-sport athlete in 18
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high school playing on integrated teams. At the age of 17 he was playing in the Negro Leagues for the Newark Eagles using the pseudonym “Larry Walker” in order to maintain his amateur status thus allowing him to compete in college. 1943 Doby joined the United States Navy serving in various bases around the United States as well as in the Pacific. He was honorably discharged in January 1946, married his high school sweetheart, and rejoined the Eagles. This was the same year that Jackie Robinson was playing AAA baseball in Montreal for the Dodgers. In the 1946 season Doby led the Eagles to the Negro World Series Championship over the Kansas City Monarchs. The Cleveland Indians were owned by Bill Veeck, possibly the most colorful owner and promoter in baseball history. Veeck had long advocated for integration of the major leagues. When Jackie Robinson joined the Brooklyn Dodgers for the start of the 1947 season, Veeck was not far behind. Veeck had already identified Doby as his man. Rather than placing Doby in the Indian’s minor league organization, Veeck negotiated directly with the owner of the Eagles while Doby continued to play. On July 5, 1947, with
little public fanfare, the 22-year-old Doby met his new teammates for the first time in Chicago for a game against the White Sox. He received a frosty reception with most of his teammates refusing to shake his hand and two turning their backs to him. He later described his introduction as “one of the most embarrassing moments of my life.” He entered the game for the first time as a pinch hitter in the seventh inning. He struck out. After the game, Doby spent the night at a black hotel while his teammates retired to their segregated downtown hotel. Doby remained with the team for the remainder of the season however he only played sparingly recording just 32 official at-bats. While his first season was inauspicious, his remaining career was Hall of Fame worthy. Doby would play 13 years in the major leagues. He was a 7-time all-star centerfielder. In 1948 Doby and the Indians defeated the Boston Braves in the World Series. The team has not won the World Series since. Doby became the first black player to hit a home run in the World Series. He was selected to the American League All-Star team in every season between 1949 and 1955. In 1954, Doby led the American League in homeruns (32) and runs batted in (126). He committed only two errors in 153 games in centerfield. He finished second in the 1954 American League MVP voting to Yogi Berra. Doby spent his final four seasons bouncing between the Chicago White Sox, Detroit Tigers and Cleveland Indians playing his last major league game in 1959. In 1962 he became one of the first American players to play in Japan suiting up with the Chunichi Dragons. Doby dreamed of being a major league manager. He was scout and coach after retiring as a player. He was the Indian’s first base coach in 1974 when they named Frank Robinson baseball’s first black manager. In 1976 Bill Veeck purchased the White Sox and hired Doby as a batting coach. In 1978 Doby became the second black manager in major league history when Veeck chose him to succeed Bob Lemon who was fired in mid-season. Doby’s record that year was only 37-50 and Veeck relieved him of his duties at the end of the season. Doby would later recount “I was the second black manager in major league history after Frank Robinson. Funny thing, I followed another Robinson.” Doby remained active in baseball for the rest of his life. In 1998 he was elected to the Baseball Hall of Fame by the Veteran’s Committee. He was the first member of the Hall of Fame born in South Carolina (Jim Rice would become the second). He died on June 18, 2003. His life is commemorated on a U.S. postage stamp released in July 2012.
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CELEBRATING 25 YEARS OF HELPING CLIENTS PURSUE THEIR FINANCIAL GOALS story by Cameron Phillips
Most people have two major financial concerns regarding retirement: one is they don’t want to run out of money as they get older; the other is they don’t want to be so careful that they don’t enjoy the journey. Balancing the confidence of reaching financial goals while enjoying retirement is a key component of financial planning and investment management. This is why the Armstrong Wealth Management Group has been dedicated to helping members of the Florence community and beyond grow and protect their wealth for more than two decades. Regi Armstrong, founder of the firm, celebrates 25 years of serving clients this May. The financial advisory practice is hosting an anniversary open house on Thursday, May 19, 2022. The community is invited to stop by, meet the team, and grab a bite to eat between 8:30 am and 5 pm. The celebration will continue from 5:30 pm to 7 pm with the Greater Florence Chamber of Commerce Business After Hours hosted at the Armstrong Wealth offices. “We’re your neighbors,” the firm’s website boasts. “We raise our families, help our clients, and volunteer for causes we believe in right here.” Over the years, when employees of McLeod Regional, MUSC Florence, Nucor, Sonoco, Farmer’s Telephone, Otis, GE, Duke Energy, and many other firms have sought a valued partner to help them prepare for and transition into retirement, Armstrong Wealth has been there. Their wealth managers develop customized retirement plans, manage investments, provide for insurance needs, and, most importantly, provide ongoing guidance to clients.
Headed by client wealth manager and partner Regi Armstrong, CPWA®, the firm’s collaborative team is comprised of financial professionals who bring a diverse mix of experience and educational backgrounds:
- Regi Armstong is a Certified Private Wealth Advisor® and is featured on Live 95.3’s Wake Up Carolina in his “Regi on the Radio” segment (Thursdays at 7:06 am) - Lee Carter is an Accredited Wealth Management AdvisorSM and has a Certification in Long-Term Care - Matt Ridenhour is a CERTIFIED FINANCIAL PLANNER®, Chartered Retirement Plans Specialist®, and has an MBA - Jason Christmas is a CERTIFIED FINANCIAL PLANNER® - Emily Ridenhour is a Financial Paraplanner Qualified Professional™ - Crystal Butler has an MBA
Armstrong Wealth partners: Lee Carter, Regi Armstrong & Matt Ridenhour
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Armstrong Wealth Management Group team: Back Row: Lee Carter, Leslie Moore, Regi Armstrong, Jason Christmas, Emily Ridenhour, Matt Ridenhour Front Row: Creighton Armstrong, Rhonda Haynes
The Armstrong Wealth Management Group is celebrating 25 years of service to the Florence community. Join them for a 25th Anniversary Open House on Thursday, May 19, 2022, between 8:30 am and 5 pm. Meet the team and grab a bite to eat.
We believe clients benefit from the team’s in-depth financial knowledge, advanced technology tools, and systemized approach while being fully supported by a skilled professional client services staff adept at delivering personalized attention with a smile.
living going up continuously, sharp increases in healthcare and higher education expenses, changes in employment stability, and fluctuations in the markets, people often wonder if they are on the right track to achieve their goals.
Armstrong Wealth’s mission is to help clients pursue their financial goals. “Our clients typically want to be good stewards of their assets, but generally lack time to do that,” Regi Armstrong shared. “I view my goal—and that of the entire firm— as partnering with our clients to help them reach their goals and enjoy their lives.”
You may find yourself wondering: Do I have enough to retire? Will I run out of money in retirement? When should I take Social Security? What happens if I face devastating medical bills? What kind of retirement accounts should I have? Where should I invest? How can I save on taxes? How do I keep track of all the tax law changes? The Armstrong Wealth team is committed to empowering clients with answers and guiding them every step of the way.
Navigating to a confident retirement is more uncertain now than ever. Anxiety about money and retirement income is on the rise. With the cost of
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SUCCULENTS & CACTI
SIMPLIFIED
Holly Beaumier, owner of Growing Hobby, explains how succulents are diverse in their preferred living environments. Some prefer shade while others prefer direct sunlight; some turns shades of red or purple when placed in the sun and others have thorns to protect themselves. Succulents and cacti are a group of plants that hold a timeless appeal for any gardener, no matter how green their thumb may be. With a nearly infinite number of varieties, succulent growing can keep even the most avid grower and collector interested.
Cobweb Sempervivum: Grows a web to shade itself from the sun
Salsa Sedum: Turns red in the sun
String of Watermelons: Is round shaped to combat wind and has epidermal windows that allow light to enter the interior of the leaf, increasing the area for photosynthesis
Lithops-Living Stones: Bury all but the top underground and have epidermal windows to increase surface area for photosynthesis
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Roller Coaster Cactus: Grows a furry covering to protect it from the sun
Donkey Ear Kalanchoe: Develops speckles in direct sunlight
Flapjack Kalanchoe: Turns red in direct sunlight
Haworthia: Has epidermal windows at the tips of the leaves to allow for more sunlight penetration, as it buries all but the tips of the
Several types of Kalanchoe: Develop a velvety texture to shade them from the sun. Pictured in front are Fang, Velvet Leaf Plant, and Chocolate Soldier
Old Man of the Andes Cactus: Grows hair to shade itself from the sun and has thorns to protect it
Perle von Nurnberg Echeveria: Turns purple in direct sunlight and creates a film called farina to protect it from the sun
Silver Coral Senecio: Develops a wooly coating to protect it from the sun
For more information on what succulents thrive well with others or if you need help identifying your succulent or cacti, visit Growing Hobby at the Pee Dee State Farmers Market, 2513 West Lucas Street in Florence or on Facebook.
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BUSINESS story by Patricia Altman
Nature and Artistry
A Truly Wonderful Combination At an early age, Angela Pecca fell in love with flowers. It was inevitable that she would one day share this love in growing a business. On June 3, 2019, Angela became the proud owner of Consider the Lilies in Downtown Florence. Now, she along with her wonderful and talented staff get to be creative while bringing joy and light to others through floral arrangements. It all began with a family drive through Holland, on the Western Coast of the Netherlands, when Angela’s attraction to the beautiful shapes, sizes, and colors of flowers began. “At some point during that drive, I fell asleep and when I awoke and looked out of the window there were tulips as far as the eye could see,” Angela describes. “It was absolutely beautiful!”
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However, the real, and funny, story of how she got involved in the flower business is due to her being a “bad child” as she says. “I lived with my stepfather and stepmother (long story) and when we moved to California they would not let me go to school until they had the proper paperwork. I had been babysitting for a neighbor until school started, but after that I was free to roam wherever I wanted.” At some point, Angela’s stepfather noticed her misbehaving and decided it was time to find her a job to keep her busy. The lady she babysat for just so happened to be the manager of a flower shop. “My stepfather took me there and asked her to make me work without pay and to keep me in the store until he could pick me up in the afternoons. I ended up loving it and had a flair for it!” Angela’s career in the flower business began at the age of 16 and it has been a passion ever since. Even when not working in a shop, she would decorate for parties, weddings, baby showers, and more. “I always loved making everything beautiful!”
When becoming the owner of Consider the Lilies, Angela jumped in headfirst making floral arrangements for customers to love and cherish. Her focus is everyday arrangements, funerals, the celebration of life events, weddings, baby showers, luncheons, dinners, and pretty much anything. “I enjoy listening to what customers want and attempting to bring their vision to life,” Angela says. “One customer asked if I could make a Ferris wheel for a gentleman who passed away and owned a carnival. We did it and it was awesome! The recipient loved it!” On top of florals, the shop offers a wide variety of antiques and gifts, items that Angela is diligently working to provide more of. Angela continuously expresses how she couldn’t do this business without the help of “the best staff ever!” “The entire staff greets you when you walk in the door and someone is always available to assist you. We let people walk around at their leisure while letting them know we are here to help. Consider the Lilies has the type of atmosphere where people feel comfortable enough to sit down and stay awhile. I have some customers that are now considered friends that come in to watch us design or just stop by to have lunch with us. We try to make it a very relaxed and fun environment.” When asked what is most popular in the floral world, Angela mentions peonies, anemones, hydrangeas, and muted whites, pinks, and blues. She also says that people are interested in including wooden flowers, pampas grass, and dried flowers in arrangements right now. This Mother’s Day as you’re planning to treat the mothers in your life, call Consider the Lilies to create a floral arrangement, combining nature and artistry, with the finest and freshest flowers in Florence, to make an unforgettable impression on your loved ones.
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Lake City Chamber's 2022 Professional Women's Luncheon
Shelby Kirby, Steel Magnolia Award & Mary Kelley, Chamber of Commerce
The newly renovated Fire Tower Event Center at Moore Farms Botanical Garden was the location of the 2022 Professional Women’s Luncheon. The event, hosted by the Greater Lake City Chamber of Commerce and sponsored by Moore Farms Botanical Garden, Hicks Guerry Group, PA, and LowCountry Urgent Care-Lake City, was an opportunity to honor and celebrate women in the community with a luncheon and complimentary guided tour of the Botanical Garden. The following awards were presented: Woman of the Year – Laura Hickson, Superintendent of Florence School District Three Patricia McElveen Award – Merry Floyd, Owner, a’bloom flowers & events Steel Magnolia Award – Shelby Kirby, Kirby Realty & Construction/Beloved Community Member
Mary Kelley, Chamber of Commerce, with Dr. Laura Hickson, Woman of the Year
MUSC Florence first in the state to use tool to detect lung cancer
McLeod Health Names Hurt Vice President of HR McLeod Health is pleased to announce that Kelly M. Hurt, DHA, MHA, MBA, BS, has been named Vice President of Human Resources for McLeod Health. Hurt comes to McLeod from Southeast Health in Dothan, Alabama, where she served as Vice President of Human Resources and Support Operations. In her new role, she will be responsible for the day-to-day leadership on all Human Resources Operations including recruiting and staffing, compensation and benefits administration, employee partner relations and retention, organizational learning and Human Resources Information Systems and records management. Hurt received a Doctorate in Healthcare Administration in 2020 from Franklin University in Columbus, Ohio. She also has a Master in Healthcare Administration and a Master in Business Administration from the University of Saint Francis in Fort Wayne, Indiana. Hurt is member of the American College of Healthcare Executives. “It is an honor to join the McLeod Health family. The mission and values of McLeod and the organization’s dedication to serve others align with my personal goals to improve the lives of our employees,” said Hurt. “I look forward to working with our Human Resources staff to ensure recruit and retain the right talent meet the changing and growing needs McLeod Health.” McLeod Health welcomes Hurt its team of professionals caring for patients and staff in the counties the organization serves in northeastern South Carolina southeastern North Carolina.
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MUSC Health Florence Medical Center is the first in the Pee Dee region to use robotic-assisted bronchoscopy to detect early lung cancer and the first in the state to offer a novel type of technology. Using the new shape-sensing technology, an ultra-thin catheter and integrated vision probe, the robotic-assisted platform allows the robot to adjust the catheter’s movements precisely to match the CT scan of the patient’s lung airways and reach all 18 segments of the airways, says Dr. Ramzy Hourany, a MUSC Health Florence pulmonologist. “The robot can match the CT scan precisely,” Dr. Hourany says. “That precision allows for a faster, accurate procedure to reach a lung nodule and biopsy it. That’s important because early lung cancer detection means we can treat and cure the patient,” he said.
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About 70% of lung nodules are at the edge of the lung and difficult, if not impossible, to reach with traditional bronchoscopy. “We could not reach the outer limits of the lung, only the main airways,” Hourany says. “Now, we can go deeper and get to the edge of the lung. The lung and the airways are like the main highway road with secondary roads. The robot can travel those roads, reach your driveway, and knock on your door.”
Early lung cancer detection saves lives, Dr. Hourany says. Lung cancer is the leading cause of death worldwide. Approximately 230,000 people in the United States were diagnosed with welung cancer in 2021, and 130,000 will die. to “That is an enormous number,” Dr. Hourany said. “That’s why early detection is so of important. We can reach a lung nodule as small as 0.7 centimeters and biopsy it with this technology. A pathologist can examine the tissue and determine if it is cancerous in minutes. to The outpatient procedure is performed under general anesthesia, and patients can go home within hours.” 18 Dr. Ramzy Hourany is board-certified in pulmonology, critical care, and internal medicine at MUSC Health – Pulmonology in Florence. To make an appointment, or get more information about the lung screening program, please call 843-673-7529, or visit MUSChealth.org/florence.
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MAY 2022 CALENDAR sunday
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Teacher Appreciation Day
Receptionists Day
National Smile Day
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How To Start A Cut Flower Garden Class Moore Farms, Lake City
Cinco De Mayo
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School of Dance Arts Recital (May 10-13) FMU PAC, Florence
Open Mic Night (every Tues.) F.E. Pops, Florence
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Clemson Prowl and Growl Florence Center
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Dead On Tools 200 NASCAR Camping World Truck Series Darlington Raceway
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CAPES for Kids Briggs Elementary, Florence
Rainwater Harvesting Class Moore Farms Botanical Gardens, Lake City Southern Soul Fest Florence Center Horses, Hats, and Humanity Victors Patio, Florence
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Hairspray the Musical (May 12-14) Center Theater, Hartsville Hartsville Community Golf Classic Hartsville Country Club
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Touch A Truck Darlington Raceway Market in May Moore Farms, Lake City Kickball For A Cause SiMT, Florence
Hartsville Downtown Block Party Downtown Hartsville
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LIFESTYLE story by Kimberly Brauss / photography by Fred Salley
Jessica “Turner” Page "MY DAUGHTER LED ME BACK TO MY PASSION." Jessica “Turner” Page was drawn to art at a young age. Naturally loving the creativity that comes with sketching, painting, and coloring – it all made her happy. And she had a mother who would sit and color and paint with her. Turner enjoyed taking summer art classes as a child, and from there, her love of art grew. She sought out art electives throughout middle and high school and decided to pursue art as her major in college. Once Turner graduated, she said she came to a standstill with her artwork. “What had I done? I was $40,000 in debt and only had a piece of paper saying Bachelor of Fine Arts to show for the past four years,” Turner wrote in a post on her website, jtpageart.com. Turner decided to go to school again – this time choosing a different field that would afford to pay her bills. “I came to realize sometimes your passion and the ability to make a living weren’t always on the same page.” Her new career and life took hold. And her love of art took the back seat. Years later, complete with a house, husband, and supportive family, Turner knew she was suppressing her love of painting. It was through having her baby, Delainey, that Turner birthed the intense love and connection mothers feel. Delainey inspired Turner to return to her love of painting: “It felt right.” And Turner wanted to paint more. She prayed and sought counsel from
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God. “He gave me a husband, a daughter, and a family that inspires me to do what I love. He wouldn’t have given me these blessings if I wasn’t supposed to at least try a new path, right? So, the time is now.” Turner gave notice at work to start working on her paintings. “I started my art journey with some old brushes and a few tubes of paint in a spare room in our house.” And it’s working. Turner is progressing as an artist. She’s selling her artwork – well over 80 paintings sold so far and new commission requests coming in weekly. “I can’t begin to express my gratitude and pray that this path continues. …My heart is so full!” While Turner’s favorite genre is landscapes, her favorite and most meaningful piece was the painting of a black Labrador Retriever puppy. The puppy died unexpectedly, and the owner commissioned the painting for her husband. “Previously this family had also endured a loss of a child. As I created this piece I decided to add sentimental meaning within the painting that only her mother would understand to represent the loss of their beloved family pet and sweet daughter. “When I gave the painting to her, the amount of love and appreciation she had for the piece made me realize I was in the right profession. Her tears affected me in a way that I never felt through art…” Helping another through the mourning process helped Turner see that her passion could be moving for others. “I was overwhelmed with a feeling of gratitude that day. I cried all the way home myself, but happy tears.”
Turner’s future goals include spending as much time with family while fulfilling her vision of being a full-time painter and having artwork in galleries throughout the state. What’s more, she’d love to create a local art group and have monthly art classes to paint, discuss, and critique art. Turner continues to work parttime in computed tomography at a local hospital. Since investing in her true passion, Turner is able to spend more time with her family. And with God’s timing, she’s been able to be with her dad during his cancer diagnosis. “The God-sent path I followed was right.”
"I can't begin to express my gratitude and pray that this path continues... My heart is so full!"
And Delainey? It’s a little early to tell but she seems to be following in her mother’s footsteps. “She likes to hold the (closed) tubes of paint, and she will watch me until she wants to grab paint brushes and try to help. … Her interest in colors, coloring, chalk, and my paintings make me believe she will have the artist gene. “I actually inherited the ability to paint from my mom, as well. … She is very crafty and artistic and still critiques all my paintings for me to this day. She’s tough but honest. Mom helps me see things I may not see. So, I would love to help Delainey express herself through art and have a passion for painting like my mom and I do.”
To learn more about Turner and her work, visit her website, jtpageart.com. Follow her on Instagram @JTPage_Art.
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story by Jill Rouse
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Goosie Ganders Three Generations of Fashion and Design
For 35 years, Shannon McGillivray has provided the Pee Dee with top-notch decor and given homes a designer's touch through her business, Goosie Ganders. She has managed to charm customers with beautiful products, thanks in part to her talented mother, Betty Hallman. Together the pair have a knack for design and a unique ability to please customers over and over again. If you’ve had the opportunity to visit Goosie Ganders over the years, you’ve undoubtedly had the pleasure of meeting Shannon, Betty, or possibly both! “My mama has always helped me in business,” says Shannon. “Even though she was not an employee in the early days, she always helped on the weekends and her days off from her regular job. She has a great way with customers and an excellent eye for color and design.” While Betty’s first love is being creative in floral design, other areas of her design abilities continue to blossom. Shannon and Betty share similar tastes when it comes to design. “As we get older, there are times that our taste differs more than it did in the past. However, even though we disagree at times, we always come together for the best interest of our clients. Thirty-plus years later and we still enjoy doing design work and accessory placement together!” Shannon also contributes her work ethic to her mother. “It has been an awesome blessing having the opportunity to work with my mom. Most days we act more like sisters than mother and daughter,” says Shannon. “We both work hard to make sure our customers are satisfied.”
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The youngest generation to work at Goosie Ganders is Alla, Shannon’s 16-year-old daughter. Seems she is business savvy like her mother and grandmother and shares an eye for design. Shannon says, “Alla loves to pick out clothing and jewelry for the boutique portion of Goosie Ganders, which is also named after her. Plus, she loves reaping the rewards, being the first to snatch some fun items to add to her personal wardrobe.” Alla sees firsthand how hard Shannon works and takes it upon herself to help, if not at the store then with things at home. Especially during the Christmas season which keeps Shannon overly busy and often away from home. Along with additional staff, this trio is always prepared and eager to help customers feel their most beautiful at home and in their clothing. When looking for unique Mother’s Day gifts that will WOW the moms in your life, stop by Goosie Ganders. They have something for every mom!
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BUSINESS story by Angela Smith
Hilda Conner Mother, Teacher, Life Coach
We’ve heard it all of our lives, “Babies don’t come with an instruction manual.” We spend a lifetime figuring out how to raise our children and learning from personal mistakes and triumphs. Hilda Conner has been privileged to learn not only from her two adult children but also from the many children that have entered her life through All Saints' Episcopal Day School over the past 30 years.
Hilda began her career at All Saints’ as a volunteer with a means to be closer to her children. She later became a substitute teacher and then an assistant and eventually taught fourth through sixth graders history and social studies. Today Hilda teaches keyboarding, writing, and reading to kindergarten, first, and second graders. She also prides herself in always being available as Room Mom while her boys, Charles "Chuck" and Charlton, attended All Saints'. “It was important to me to stay involved in where my boys were academically,” she says. “I was a hands-on mother and very interested in knowing what my children were and were not learning. That way I could help them be more comfortable and confident in the subjects they weren’t doing as well in.” Mrs. Conner, as Hilda is known by her All Saints’ family, believes that education is the foundation for a child’s development and encourages a child to secure a more successful life. “As a teacher, I learned where my students were. That allowed me to help them focus on certain areas to learn and continue growing. Giving students the extra help they need is what has been important to me. That’s how I am as a teacher and as a parent,” explained Hilda. She has learned to listen to her students and also learned the importance of building them up academically. “I believe it’s important for a child to see success.”
Hilda has certainly been able to reap the rewards of raising successful children. Her eldest son, Chuck, lives in Baltimore, Maryland, and works as an attorney while her youngest, Charlton, is a pediatric dentist and owns his own practice in Florence, South Carolina, Prime Pediatric Dentistry. While they had their share of challenges, HIlda was a constant encouragement to them seeing success. Both boys agree that the role their mother played in helping them decide their careers was crucial. She may have not guided them to specific professions but she did help teach them how to become successful. “Our mother instilled timeless principles and life lessons,” explains Charlton. “The biggest principle was perseverance. Giving up or quitting were never options. Being persistent with our goals through a strong work ethic and planning were also key principles she instilled in us. She also taught us to know our selfworth and to not ever let anyone sell us short on what we knew our worth to be.” Staying in contact, not only during adolescent years but also into adulthood, has been of utmost importance to Hilda as a mother. As children get older and go off to college, it’s easy to assume we should step back and give them space to spread their wings. While Hilda understands this sentiment, she also believes in being a coach through even the later years of your child’s life. “After my children left for college, I still spoke with them nearly every day,” she says. “There has never been an event in their lives that my husband and I haven’t been a part of, no matter how big or small. We didn’t force our opinions on them. After they finished receiving an education, we believed it was time they made their own decisions. However, we would continue to be there and cheer them on every step of the way.” “When I step back and think about the impact my mother had on my life, it gives so much clarity and perspective to everything I have accomplished and been able to achieve,” says Charlton. “My mother loved us so hard – regardless of how well we did, whether we failed or succeeded. It was the decoupling of love from success that set her children free to be who we could.
Pictured Left: Pinning ceremony for Diplomat of the American Board of Pediatric Dentistry, Charlton and Chuck
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Hilda and her husband, Charles, reside in Florence. Hilda celebrated 30 years at All Saints' Episcopal Day School in April of this year and looks forward to retirement this summer.
Whether we soared or had to lick our wounds, she has always had our backs and been the safe harbor through so many storms and wins. It is this kind of love that helps propel anyone to be their best and gain personal satisfaction. She may never know or fully comprehend the amazing gift she gave us by this simple act.” Hilda looks forward to this Mother’s Day. “My children have always shown me extra attention on days that are special to me,” she says. If they can’t be in Florence to celebrate the day with her, they find a way to show their love through gifts and phone calls. “When my children were younger, they would bring me breakfast in bed on Mother’s Day morning before we all went to church together.” One of the few meals a year that Hilda didn’t prepare herself, Charlton mentions. Overall, Hilda encouraged Charles and Charlton to express gratitude for good deeds and acts of kindness brought to them by others. This year, the brothers are especially grateful for the love, support, and encouragement their mother has shown to them over the years. Charlton concludes, “As I grow older, the assurance of her love, regardless of the outcome, has allowed me to soar. This is something I don’t take for granted.”
Hilda pictured with her youngest son, Dr. Charlton Conner
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story by Kimberly Brauss
Tracy Rowell
Present for things that are important - Family Growing up in an entrepreneur’s household, Tracy Rowell knew once she graduated high school she would find a career she could build on her own. Marrying shortly after graduation, she and her husband, Van, decided to put roots down in Florence. Theirs started as a long-distance relationship -- Van being from Pamplico and Tracy growing up in Fayetteville, N.C., and Chattanooga, Tennessee – and they are celebrating 24 years together. Tracy started out after high school being successful in jobs she pursued. Once Tracy and Van started having kids, Tracy became successful at making a profit on eBay. Her entrepreneurial spirit shined through. “I felt so blessed because this was something I could do from home while our babies were little. But I can say, it’s not always easy working from home when you have crying babies, laundry, car lines, keeping up with everyday activities and someone is ALWAYS hungry. But nonetheless, still it was a blessing to be home with my babies.” And then an investment for her own interests sparked her next venture – when her middle son, Ace, was a baby. For 12 years now, Tracy is the owner of Reflection Images Photography Studio in downtown Florence. “I invested in a nice camera only because I wanted better pictures of our kids living everyday life. I quickly learned that I had a ‘good eye’ and started learning more about how to take pictures. I had this tug going on inside saying, ‘You already know you are good at business, why not see where this can go?’” Within about a year, Tracy had a solid photography business. She and her husband have been full time running the business for 11 years: “I have been in awe of where God and our hard work have taken us!” Owning a business while raising three boys – now aged 19, 14, and 12 – provides its benefits. “I love the freedom that owning my own business allows me,” Rowell said. “I am able to decide when and how much I work so that I am present for things that are
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important to my family. You know with three boys there are lots and lots of sporting events!” At the same time, with the launch of the business there was some struggle with the worklife balance. To be at the family events, Tracy found herself staying up editing and working after the children went to bed. She said it affected her personal health and well-being that she had to learn to rearrange the workload to take care of herself, as well as the family and business. She said she also overcame some intense life situations by asking God what she was to learn from them. “I have had to learn to be present in each situation,” Tracy said. “When I’m working, I focus on my clients. When I’m spending time with my family, I have to focus on them!”
Tracy Rowell and her husband, Van, are pictured above with sons, Rocky, 19, Ace, 14 and Levi, 12. Her business, Reflection Images is located on Coit Street in Florence. Visit www.reflectionimages.com for more info. One favorite moment in her photography career focuses on a bride and her grandmother. During the bridal session for a wedding, Tracy found out the grandmother would not be able to attend the granddaughter’s wedding. “After the bridal session,” Tracy said, “We were able to go to the facility where her grandmother was staying, and with help we were able to get her outside in the little courtyard area so that my bride could get some pictures with her grandmother. It was a precious and priceless moment.” When working with newborns, Tracy always has an assistant, which happens to be her husband. He provides the safety so she can take pictures. “Many times, my studio is the first place outside of home and doctor visits that my clients have been since having the baby. It can be a little overwhelming but exciting at the same time. I have so many favorite parts of this whole experience, but my very favorite is watching these moms see their pictures for the first time. … That tiny little hand wrapped around Dad’s finger and Mom snuggled up with her nose against the baby’s soft cheek – you can almost smell it!”
But perhaps the most satisfying aspect of owning her own business comes from the family involvement. Their boys have been involved in the work from the start. “My favorite was when they were younger, they would tag along with me to family sessions and help make the kids laugh. Rocky, our oldest, started when he was about 6. When he got ‘too old,’ Ace stepped in and took over. Levi was only able to do it for a little while because the pandemic took away his opportunity.” And what mother wouldn’t love that? “I have LOVED having them watch our business grow and having them be such a big part of things!” Tracy said. “Over the years they have helped build sets, renovate studios, carry props, and so much more. … This past Christmas we did over 300 Santa sessions, and they were there to help make things run perfectly – like a well-oiled machine! … Our family has put in a tremendous amount of effort to make all this successful. “To say I am proud of my boys is simply an understatement. I am guilty of telling each of them they are my favorite because, well, they are! I am overjoyed at watching them grow into young men.”
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What is a life lesson that your mother taught you? Bobby's mother, Evelyn
"One thing my mom taught me is how to be a mother. She showed me unconditional love and sacrificed so much to be the best mom to myself and my sister. I hope that I am half of the mother to my children, Mills (4) and Merritt (9 months), that she has been and continues to be for me." -Miranda Peavy
"My mom taught me to be positive and to try to bring joy to others. No matter what my mom does, she brings this positive energy and enthusiasm that is contagious. I try my hardest to emulate that everyday." -John Sweeney 38 38
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"My mom always asks if there is anything she can do to help. She has taught me to have a constant willingness to put others before myself and to offer help to others regardless of the situation. This lesson has had a big influence on me." -Bobby Moore
"Growing up, my mom's well-known piece of advice was to 'only be nice.' She has reminded me of this while growing up and well into adulthood, helping me to navigate life with grace. I'm so thankful for her and often imagine how much sweeter the world would be if more people moved with this mantra!" -Stephanie Gamoneda
"What has stuck with me that my mom always said is to try to listen and understand other people’s points of view before jumping in with my own conclusion." -Shane Gebhards
"My mom raised me to be independent, to think for myself and to work hard. No matter how busy my mom was, she always made time for me…Our mother/ daughter time consist of picnics on Saturdays at Timrod Park, endless dancing to music in the living room, and watching countless episodes of ‘I love Lucy.' I will always cherish these memories." -Shereca Anderson
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MYTH: If you feel like you’d “get too attached” you wouldn’t be a good candidate to do foster care. FACT: All children deserve someone who loves them wholeheartedly and without reserve, a fan who thinks they are the most amazing human being on the planet. The love we give them is a gift with no strings. And the Lord heals that place in our heart and prepares it for a new life who needs to be loved in a traumatic situation. In other words: it’s not about saving ourselves… it’s about ministering to them. Get too attached!
FACT VS. MYTH Local foster parents share the inside scoop on what’s real and what’s simply a myth!
MYTH: Foster parents are always aware of children they are getting. FACT: Emergency placement of a child can happen anytime - midnight, 5am, 2pm, whenever. There is not always a warning or plan to receiving a child. Foster parents fill a void in a crucial time and have a lot on them to give a safe, loving environment to a child who has been removed from a difficult situation. MYTH: If you ask all of the right questions, you’ll know everything about the child you are getting.
MYTH: I can’t be a foster parent because I don’t want to deal with the separation after the child is moved. FACT: Many foster parents maintain a relationship with their foster child/children well into their adulthood. MYTH: DSS covers all the needs for children that are placed into foster care. FACT: DSS provides assistance but normally it isn’t until weeks after the child is placed. Foster parents have to immediately clothe, provide childcare, and anything else for that child until the government assistance kicks in. MYTH: You need to make a certain amount of money, be a certain age, and be married in order to be a foster parent. FACT: You just need to have a willingness in your heart and love for the children. Contributors: Deborah, Sarah, Shenedra, Shannon, Taylor, Cheri, Kace, Ryan, and other anonymous parents
FACT: The child will be the opposite of everything on the list you wrote down. Be flexible. MYTH: When you get a child from foster care, the state pays for everything. FACT: A child often comes with nothing, as a newborn, or with items that can’t be used. The state gives you $100. For a teen, that will buy shoes. For a newborn, bottles and one can of formula. You will need to be able and willing to help with your own resources. Starting out, I sold almost all of my valuables so I would have extra. On top of that, I used the Foster Care Clothing Closet (FCCC). Without the help of the FCCC for the three newborns, two year old, and four month old I got in the first two years, I don’t know what I would have done. Getting started is the hardest part. After that, it’s easier. But having the benefit of the FCCC for items only used for short periods of time is invaluable. MYTH: I commonly hear, “I could never do it; I would get too attached.” That is by far the biggest myth when it comes to foster care. FACT: I always say, if you do not get attached, you’re doing it wrong. When the time comes, the pain will be there. However, you find joy in knowing you created stability and love, and helped heal trauma in a rough patch of a child’s life. MYTH: I’ll never be able to be a shared parent; I’m too angry with the biological parents. FACT: I love the mother of my foster children and we have a very healthy relationship.
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A mother that was forced to have her child fostered shares her experience: My baby’s foster parents were great and I pray there are others like them. Not all additional caregivers make you feel unfit. Some fight with you while others assure you that your child is loved, protected, and cared for. Losing my baby to foster care was an experience I didn’t want; I cried and fell into depression. I worried myself sick but when I knew my baby was fine and met her foster parents, I knew she was in good hands. Her foster parents encouraged me to fight even harder to prove myself and get my baby back.
Foster parents share how Foster Care Clothing Closet provided for them during their time of need: “Having the Foster Care Clothing Closet was a major benefit. When a child comes with nothing and the size of that child is unknown, it's helpful to have this resource and be able to grab a few outfits, pajamas, and undergarments until you are able to get that child properly clothed. It also gives you a chance to communicate with older experienced foster parents on what some of the challenges may be. For example, if the child is a bed wetter or not potty trained. I was able to get safety rails for one of my beds for a smaller child that liked to roll out the bed. My FCCC rocked and we had an amazing team that loved to help. One call/text and you were able to get supplies for what you needed.”
“As far as the FCCC goes, it’s AN ABSOLUTE BLESSING. I never could have made it through without them. The children came to me with nothing. I had an extremely malnourished child that has grown like a weed since coming to me and then a baby, now two, that seems to be in a new size every week. In addition, I have received help with car seats, baby necessities, and simple toys that the kids can call their own.”
Foster Care Clothing Closet 1811 South Irby Street, Suite 107, Florence 843.858.9915 | www.fosterclosetsc.org
“We were told about FCCC in training. I thought that was the best concept ever. Not only did I have to opportunity to utilize the services but also to give back. “
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May Flowers & Faith written by Dr. Michael C. Crawford, First Baptist Church of Florence
"Go into all the world and proclaim the gospel to the whole of creation." - Matthew 11:28 Perhaps you have heard the saying, "April showers bring May flowers." In warmer and southern climates such as ours, this saying is normally true. However, it is believed that this phrase is rooted more in meteorology than it is in botany. In other words, this phrase is used to help us to get through, what is often referred to as the dreariness of the rainy season, by focusing upon the sun-filled days and growth that comes in the merry month of May. Metaphorically, it means to push through the difficult times of life, looking forward to better times ahead. I suggest that we examine this phrase from a theological perspective, along with a key truth that may be derived from botany.
Senior Pastor, Dr. Michael C. Crawford
Sunday Mornings 10:30 AM Sunday Evenings 6:00 PM Wednesday Evenings Adults/Youth/Children 6:00 PM 300 S Irby St, Florence www.fbcflorence.org
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Most years, we celebrate our resurrected Lord during the month of April, although Easter has been known to come in March. Like the April showers, there are some events that occur during the Holy Week observance that can seem dreary. For example, the weeping of Jesus as He overlooked Jerusalem; Peter denying Jesus on three occasions, prior to the rooster crowing; and of course, the suffering and Crucifixion of Christ on Golgotha’s Hill. However, when we focus upon the outcome, then our outlook changes. The outcome is the empty tomb and our resurrected Lord, so the outlook is not one of dreariness, but of faith. Christ’s victory over sin and death assures us of our victory when we place our faith in Him. Perhaps you are wondering where this key truth of botany comes in. Here it is. Life begins in the seed of the plant. The warmth of the soil and those April
showers hasten the seed to germinate, take root, and grow. It is in the process of maturing that we find the flowering of our plants. The flowers of May are a showcase of color and pleasing fragrances that stem from the life that began as a seed and received proper care. April showers bring May flowers. So, why a lesson on Easter in this publication for May, and why am I bringing up this old English proverb, "April showers bring May flowers?" As I think about the resurrection of Christ as a central tenet of our Christian faith, I am reminded of the planting of seeds. Believing in Jesus and in His bodily resurrection is just the beginning of our faith. The beginning of our life in Christ is like a seed that has been planted. Care is required and so it must be watered, perhaps some nutrients added to the soil, and plenty of sunlight. This seed must germinate and grow, so that the showcase of God’s grace may be known. This is accomplished by the Holy Spirit as He works in us and through us, to grow us in the likeness of Jesus. A Chrisitan in full bloom shares the grace of God through worship, prayer, various ministries, missions, Bible study, fellowship, spiritual disciplines, and the list goes on. However, this bloom is never more beautiful or fragrant than when the Gospel message is shared with others. In April, we celebrated Easter. Now, let us continue to share the grace of God and the Gospel message to those in need. April showers bring May flowers.
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LIFESTYLE
Setting Personal
Fitness GOALS story by Cynthia Ford
H2O May I introduce five impactful steps to help you get fit and stay fit? In May, there is a massive focus on fitness. Often fitness is a trending thought at the beginning of a new year and during the spring. Some fitness journeys focus on preparing to have the bestlooking body for the summer. However, many other fitness goals are long-term with hopes of creating consistency and a healthier life.
MIND OVER MATTER The number one reason individuals quit their fitness goal is their mindset. To achieve any goal, there must be a renewed mindset with a desire to start and a drive to continue. Before beginning any fitness goals, you must encourage yourself and be honest about your strengths and weaknesses. Use those strengths and weaknesses to create the best plan for you. If you think you will fail, you will. If you believe you will succeed, you will succeed. Create a realistic plan by outlining specific goals you desire to accomplish and noting certain steps to reach that goal. For instance, it is not practical to set a goal to lose one hundred pounds in seven days. Rapid weight reduction would not be a healthy route, and it is impossible to reduce that amount within seven days. As you create the realistic plan, affirm your plan with statements of what you will do, not what you desire or plan to do.
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Even though the human body is made up of sixty percent water, the continuous consumption of water is essential to our lives. Water plays a significant role in how our vital organs function, affecting our overall health. Consuming water is also a key component of good health and fitness. Water reduces the number of calories consumed, suppresses the appetite, and is critical in removing waste. It is often stated that we should drink at least eight glasses of water per day. However, the suggested amount of water will vary depending on your gender, size, and health. It is best to consult with a professional to determine what is appropriate for you.
MOVING MATTERS Active movement activates your metabolism and aids in burning calories. The ultimate goal is to create a balance of burning more calories than consumed. How you decide to burn the calories must work for your schedule and physical abilities. Your active movement may be as little as daily walks or as extreme as CrossFit. Decide if you will thrive better alone, in a group, or amongst others seeking to reach a goal. A little movement is better than no movement. As you make your moves understand that you are reintroducing your bodies to something that was dormant, and your goals may not be reached overnight. Be aware of potential injuries due to improper workout pace and forms. Some injuries that occur with physical exercise are due to individuals trying to overwork themselves without properly stretching or gradually working themselves up to a consistent pace. If you have delayed moving certain muscles over a period of time, you may notice soreness in those areas when you begin your fitness journey. Over time, your body will become stronger, and the soreness may subside. It is the hope that your temporary pain will yield a permanent benefit.
MEALTIME What is the purpose of consuming food? We have glorified food by adding flavors, textures, and other creative artistic attributes to food. Food is designed to provide our bodies with the energy and nutrients necessary to survive. Many people have programmed themselves to eat at a particular time regardless of whether they are hungry. Imagine the flow of food at its most basic level. After we take a bite, food travels through the esophagus and eventually to our stomach. The organs in our bodies work together like a wellequipped machine to break down food and turn the consumed food into nutrients and energy. Go beyond the initial taste of food. If we understand eating at its lowest level, how we consume foods and what we consume is destined to change.
POSITIVE VIBES ONLY Fitness goals require sacrifice, dedication, and consistency. You may start over, slow down, but do not quit. Understand that “one size does not fit all.” Establishing a fitness goal is not a universal code. Take into consideration the plan you have in mind and create opportunities for big and small wins for that fitness goal. In all transparency, we all know our triggers and what halts our success. Surround yourself with positive, like-minded individuals seeking to achieve a similar purpose. Secure an accountability partner that understands your fitness journey. Every second counts. Everyone has time to create a fitness goal. It is how we prioritize our time that makes the difference. Start with small increments of time and increase that time as needed. Fitness is not only about losing weight or having muscles but it encompasses the whole concept of being healthy. At the core of fitness is a determined mindset. Begin your journey with an attitude of determination. Maintain your journey by having a foundation of how our bodies work and understanding what your body needs. Progress in your journey with transparency, positive connections, and a commitment to never quit.
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AROUND TOWN: FOOD AND WINE FESTIVAL photos by Phillip Guyton
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Over three days, Downtown Florence was the host for a local gastronomic tasting event, wine stroll, market brunch, and elegant wine dinner. A haven for foodies, the Florence Food & Wine Festival has become THE sought-after event to explore unique dining experiences with over a 5 restaurants. dozen of independently-owned
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VIP'S BOOK CLUB
BOOK REVIEW BY BRI JACKSON
THE DUTCH HOUSE BY ANN PATCHETT
The Dutch House, a grand 1920s mansion outside of Philadelphia built by a Dutch couple, is the title character of Ann Patchett’s 2019 novel. Despite wrecking not one but two marriages, the house enchants and possesses its inhabitants over three generations and five decades. Siblings Maeve and Danny moved into the Dutch House in the late 1940s with their aloof father, guilt-ridden mother, and cook and housekeeper sisters. Shortly after Danny’s birth, their mother disappeared for what they thought was good. Their real estate investor father remarried a younger woman named Andrea who loved the Dutch House more than her husband, her step-children, and perhaps even her own two daughters. Seven years older than Danny, Maeve was already living on her own when Andrea moved in and their father died suddenly. An adolescent Danny was turned out of the Dutch House and thus began decades of Maeve and Danny doing everything in their power to drain the inheritance their father left to their stepmother by sending Danny to the most expensive boarding school, Columbia University, and then medical school. Throughout the years, Maeve and Danny would visit—maybe haunt?—the Dutch House as Danny returned from New York City for visits. Although they couldn’t see it through the screen of trees that blocked its view from the road, their roadside visits continued for well over a decade. The story continues as Maeve and Danny experience marriage, births, illness, surprise reunions, death, divorce and a final lavish party at the Dutch House. Throughout it all, the Dutch House remains an obsession for all who encounter it. The story is interesting and sad and very familiar. The Dutch House though fictional could be any house that has once captivated any of our imaginations or interest through its architecture or history. Maeve and Danny could be any pair of siblings that we have once known at some point in our lives. There are sad times and rough patches throughout the story, but that’s life, isn’t it? The Dutch House is a great read during this rainy season as we await Spring and her budding glory. Ann Patchett lives in nashville with her husband and their dog, Sparky. She is the author of seven novels, The Patron Saint of Liars, Taft, The Magician’s Assistant, Bel Canto, Run, State of Wonder, and Commonwealth. She was the editor of Best American Short Stories, 2006, and has written three books of nonfiction. In 2019, she published her first children’s book, Lambslide, illustrated by Robin Preiss Glasser.
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DOUG'S CHEESEBOARD TRICKS :
Celebrating National cheese month Get more from Doug Smith by following him on Facebook and Instagram at "Doug the Food Guy". Cheese is such an ancient food. The origins aren’t exactly known. Cheesemaking began by the pressing and salting of milk in an effort to preserve it. The earliest cheeses were likely quite sour and salty, similar in texture to cottage or feta cheese. Innovative farmers experimented by adding different ingredients to their milk from cows, goats, buffalo, or sheep, truly whatever was available to them at the time. This is why today there are over a thousand types of cheese produced all around the world. The different styles, textures, and flavors depend on the origin of the milk, how long they have been aged, and any addition of herbs, spices, fruits and mold growth. All of these play a part in the cheese that we love today. Cheese over time has been a major food source due to its high content of fat, protein, and longer shelf life than the fresh milk that it was created from. Although how long a cheese will stay wholesome depends on the type of cheese. Hard cheese such as cheddar or parmesan last longer and would be easy to store and transport on long journeys. Soft cheeses such as brie or goat cheese are very flavorful and have a shorter shelf life than the hard cheese, but still much longer than the fresh milk. Basically cheese was created to extend the short life of fresh milk from just a few days to weeks or months . This allowed families to have a rich food source full of nutrients that could be easily stored without any type of refrigeration. 50
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Cheese produced in areas of Europe where climates are cooler, required less salt. Using less salt created an unintended side effect in the cheese. It would now grow mold. I know that sounds bad but the mold, or in some cases multiple types of mold, gave the aged cheese lots of great flavor. Just think, without the mold, we would not have sharp cheddar or blue cheese. That would be a travesty for us foodies. With all these cheese types and flavors it didn’t take long for someone to invent the cheeseboard. A cheeseboard typically has two or three contrasting cheeses with complimenting sides like crackers, grapes, nuts, or chutney. The British tradition is to have cheese after dessert accompanied by sweet wines like port. In France cheese is enjoyed before dessert with a glass of red wine. In March of 2018, Wisconsin Cheesemakers created the world's longest cheeseboard at 70 feet long with over 2,000 pounds of cheese. According to the press release, it consisted of “caved-aged cheddars to fresh, squeaky curds, handrubbed wheels, blue-veined cheddars, and stinky Limburger. Like any good cheese board, the world's longest cheeseboard also featured a variety of crackers, fruits, meats, and nuts.” Cheese goes well with celebrations like National Cheese Month (May), Cinco de Mayo (May 5th), National Nurses Day (May 6th), Mother's Day (May 8th), and National Wine Day (May 25th). Oh, and it’s good on burgers!
• A cheeseboard (also sometimes called a charcuterie board) is typically comprised of a few kinds of cheeses, a few kinds of meats, and some crackers along with a few other sides. Think: olives, crackers, fruits, meats, nuts, pickles, jams, and spreads. • When it comes to cheese boards, there is only one rule I follow - variety and randomness are paramount. I like to cut all of the cheeses in different shapes and arrange my meats in different shapes as well. I pile everything onto a large cutting board or serving platter. I never plan where I'm going to put anything. I just let it happen. • Don't worry about making your cheeseboard look like a Food & Wine magazine photoshoot! Just make sure you use delicious, highquality ingredients and it will turn out beautifully every time!
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