THE WALL ST. ALPHA REPORT The official Wall Street Alphas newsletter, Kappa Xi Lambda Chapter, NYC
April / May 2008
Vol. 1, No. 5
Brother Samuel Chapman Parker, III 29 Year’s in Alpha Passed into Omega Chapter on 2/9/08 We Will Miss You Brother!
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President’s Letter On February 9, 2008, we unexpectedly lost a pillar of our chapter and our dear Fraternity. It was on that day that Bro. Samuel C. Parker III entered Omega Chapter. He was my legal client, my frat brother and my best friend. It seems like we were always best friends. He was the most giving, generous and unselfish brother you could ever meet. Sam was so many things to so many people: a big brother, a father figure, a mentor, a career advisor, a relationship counselor, a benefactor, a son, a brother, an uncle. He was all those things and more. To many of us, he was so elevated and so well respected and admired that I don’t think many of us realize that Sam was just like us. You see, the Samuel I knew was not any of the above. He was simply my friend. Samuel was the kind of brother you could easily talk to about anything and have a great time with him. He would make you feel so much better about any issue or problem you were dealing with and give you his opinion (in my case, unsolicited very often) on what he thinks is best. He would encourage us when we were down but there were times he would feel discouraged or unsure regarding his life whether it be personal or professional. I remember the last two jobs he had and during the interview process he would call me to reassure him. He would ask me if I thought he could handle the position. Of course, we know he did and very well I might add. Samuel had obligations to his family like so many of us do. He cared for aging parents and he would fly home to Savannah, Georgia at least once a month to check on them. In addition to that, he was managing the stress of a new job where he was given the title of Managing Director of a major financial institution. But he always made time to listen to each of our problems as though he had none of his own. But how many of us would ask him how he was doing and if he was ok? That’s the kind of man he was, always putting others first. Always putting the Brotherhood first. Always keeping Alpha first. One would never know he was under tremendous stress from his new job, family, and personal relationships because he never made you feel like it was a bother to call him any time and at length on the phone. For me, this is a loss that can never be replaced. Not ever. We had our ups and downs in our relationship like most close friendships do. In fact, I can recall it took him one full calendar year for him to get accustomed to being challenged by me on his actions and opinions. I would say to him that just because we disagree doesn’t mean I don’t value your opinion. But it was in those times of disagreement that we would come back together and our friendship would be stronger for it. I think of Samuel everyday and I hope I always will. He was there for me when I needed someone to be there the most and that was last year when I took leave of the chapter for two months. He called me every day and night to check on my progress. He went above and beyond what any regular “friend” would do. He got involved in my recovery and treatment. How do you repay someone for saving your life? There is so much to say that I don’t have the space to add here of our great times at the conventions, our 9:30am calls from work to each other, the countless emails, the dinners, the visits to his church (he was always conveniently busy when it came time to visit my church), the long talks we would have at the gym working out together and rushing to make “last call” at Bull Run immediately after finishing. Bro. Parker, thank you for your friendship, encouragement, support and inspiration. You are not only a role model for your brothers but to everyone. I know you are in a much better place and that gives me great comfort. As I said at the Omega Service, I am confident we’ll see you again someday. God blessed you and in turn blessed us for allowing us to share your presence. Fraternally, Bro. Tony Johnson, Esq. President, Kappa Xi Lambda Wall St. Alphas
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Editor’s Report Brothers, In this space I normally discuss the focus of this newsletter and what you won’t want to miss. But this month is a little different because on February 9, I sadly realized that I would be going to my first Omega service, because on that day KXL lost its soul following the tragic death of beloved Brother Samuel C. Parker, III. Simply put, there is no Brother in KXL who I respected more than Sam Parker. And most who knew Brother Parker felt the same way. There was no one more giving of himself than Sam. He has done so much for us and meant so much that it’s almost impossible to begin to describe. Sam has been our Brother of the Year for the past three year’s. And it wasn’t even that close for second. After last year he actually decided not to run anymore and brothers overwhelmingly decided to name the award after him. Sam was Chairman of our first Masquerade Ball and successfully led that effort to raise money for the MLK Memorial a couple years ago. He also took the lead on our reclamation project and has been a major contributor to the growth that we now enjoy. He was a regular fixture on Saturday mornings mentoring our Alpha GENTS. He was frequently the voice of reason at chapter meetings and it was common for brothers to perk up and listen to what he had to say. In fact, if I was on the fence about an issue and Sam endorsed it that was good enough for me. Other brothers certainly shared that
same sentiment. Sam also oversaw our first ever intake in Fall 2006 and guided the “Seven Sons of Sobek” to the light. But that’s just a few things that people knew about. Behind the scenes, Sam was just as active and giving and NEVER wanted any recognition. On many occasions he has reached deep into his pockets to help out Brothers individually and the Chapter collectively. He has provided Brothers with one on one counsel and given of his time without thought even while holding demanding positions at S&P and most recently Genworth Mortgage Insurance as a Managing Director. To say that Brother Parker will be missed doesn’t begin to cover it. But let me take a few lines to discuss Alpha business as I owe it to Bro. Parker to carry on and hold up the light. In this newsletter, learn why we will March for Babies on April 27, see what 227 Duffield Street in Brooklyn has to do with the Underground Railroad, discover why Bro. Reverend David Jackson was recently “called” to do missionary work in Kenya, and appreciate the achievements that young Brother David Jones is making on campus. Onward and upward, Bro. Brian Pruitt Newsletter Editor Wall St. Alphas
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227 Abolitionist Place: ‘CALL TO OUR COMMUNITY’ By Bro. Lino Solis Brooklyn, New York - On February 29, 2008, friends, politicians, community organizers, pastors, sponsors and activists all came together at Rush Corridor Gallery, owned by novelist/poet Danny Simmons, in support of Ms. Joy Chatel, owner of 227 Duffield Street (aka 227 Abolitionist Place). The purpose of the benefit/fund raiser was to raise public awareness, develop community partners and raise funds necessary to defend against the unscrupulous foreclosure proceedings that have been filed in court against Ms. Joy Chatel and the Duffield Street property. The night’s event started with the pouring of libations, by Nana Camille Yarbrough, in honor of the ancestors, which was immediately followed by the invocation opening remarks by United States Congressional candidate and author, Bro. Kevin Powell. Bro. Powell opened by giving thanks to the ancestors and then went on to thank the politicians, pastors, friends and community activists who were in support of Ms. Chatel and her fight. Some of the parties present included: Councilman Charles Barron, Councilwoman Latisha James, Assemblyman Hakeem Jeffries, Councilman David Yasski, Reverend Herbert Daughtry, April Silver (of Akila Work Songs) and Senator Eric Adams. Bro. Powell called on our young people to step up, join the elders and reach up for the baton of leadership. His message was echoed by Councilwoman Latisha James who went on to say that the survival of 227 Abolitionist Place was in the hands of our community and that we had a moral obligation to dig deep and give to this effort in whatever capacity.
Ms. Joy Chatel takes a moment with Bro. President Tony Johnson and Bro. Kevin Powell (ZH). was being created by the City Council to help support city-wide efforts like 227 Abolitionist Place. The task force will determine the overall budget and how funds will be allocated. We also talked with Ms. Joy Chatel who said that she’s currently planning a series of fund raisers in the next few months and asks that community leaders, friends and partners spread the word about 227 Abolitionist Place. She spoke with a sense of urgency as the time is now to act or forever loose another historical treasure. She also asked that we bring our young people to experience, study and live their history at 227 Abolitionist Place because this will one day be their burden to carry forward. Continued on page 23
Remarks were also made by Bro. Brent Cohen, a member of Kappa Xi Lambda Chapter of Alpha Phi Alpha Fraternity, Inc. He talked about our duty and obligation to save 227 Abolitionist Place for the future education of all people. He went on to say that it was great to see positive like minded people working together for a just cause and a common purpose. Councilman David Yassky noted that a task force
April Silvers of Akila Work Songs and Danny Simmons were among the many supporters of Ms. Chatel.
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Why We Walk March for Babies – April 27, 2008 By Bro. Shawn A. Curwen President, Wall Street Alphas Charitable Foundation
Family & Friends,
It’s that time of year again...Walk America, the walk that has been saving babies for more than 30 years, is now MARCH FOR BABIES! For years the March of Dimes and Alpha Phi Alpha Fraternity, Inc. have been raising money through walk-a-thons and through solicitations so that we can fight for the health of our prematurely-born babies. Here are some startling statistics… Did you know that a premature birth is the leading cause of newborn death in the first month of life? It affects 1,305 babies a day in the United States. Those who survive may have lifelong health problems. Did you know that in the United States, prematurity and low birth weight are the second leading causes of ALL infant deaths (during the first year of life) and the leading cause of infant death among black infants? That is why I am asking you to support the 2008 MARCH FOR BABIES walk on April 27th, 2008 at 9:30 AM, starting from Lincoln Center (62nd Street & Columbus Avenue, New York, NY). Kappa Xi Lambda Chapter “The Wall Street Alphas” has teamed up with the 2008 March for Babies team to support this great cause by soliciting donations and by walking. Donations can be made via our chapter website or through any of the brothers’ websites. Any donation amount will help this most important cause. If your company has a “donor matching program”, this will double the donation and get us closer to saving our babies. The March of Dimes is leading the way to find answers by supporting research, advocacy and educational programs that focus on the causes of premature birth. If you require more information, please don’t hesitate to contact me at secondson93@msn.com. On behalf of the Wall Street Alphas, we want to thank you for your support. Let’s get out there and “SAVE THE BABIES”!!
Be Blessed,
Shawn A. Curwen Bro. Shawn A. Curwen Chairman for 2008 March for Babies Walk
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2007-2008 Chapter Officers and Board Members Executive Board President:
Brother Tony Johnson
Vice President:
Brother Jacques Etienne
Recording Secretary:
Brother David Jones
Corresponding Secretary:
Brother Tony Thompson
Treasurer:
Brother Jioha Amatokwu
Financial Secretary:
Brother Brian Pruitt
Chaplain:
Brother Wiky Toussaint
Historian:
Brother Sean Gayle
Coordinator of Intake:
Brother Damon Culcleasure
Sergeant-at-Arms:
Brother Samuel Parker
Parliamentarian:
Brother Andrew Fisher
Dir. of Educational Activity:
Brother Plemmie Lawson
Assoc. Editor to the Sphinx:
Brother Corey A. McDougle
Wall Street Alphas Charitable Foundation Board of Directors President:
Brother Shawn A. Curwen
Treasurer:
Brother Roy A. Williams
Secretary:
Brother Tony Johnson
Assistant Treasurer:
Brother Brent Cohen
Fundraising/Sponsorship Chair: Brother Brandon V. Ray General Counsel:
Brother Gerard Brogdon
Board Member:
Brother Derrick Crawford
Board Member:
Brother Elvin Dowling
Board Member:
Brother Samuel Parker
Newsletter Committee Editor:
Brother Brian Pruitt
Assistant Editor:
Brother Chris Hunt
Contributors:
Brother Corey A. McDougle
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ΚΞΛ BROTHER ON THE MOVE! By Bro. Corey A. McDougle From Jewel Charles H. Chapman to Brothers Charles S. Johnson, Charles H. Wesley, and Cornel West, there are a number of Alpha men who have made immeasurable impacts in the world of Higher Education. On March 11, 2008 at the National Association for Student Personnel Administrators (NASPA) annual conference in Boston, MA, Bro. David E. Jones made his first steps towards achieving a comparable level of greatness as he received the highest award available for this stage of his career – the Region II 2008 New Professional of the Year Award. Region II consists of 7 states and 7 countries. Nominated by colleagues from 6 different universities and the Associate Vice President of Student Affairs at NYU, the award exemplifies Bro. Jones’ commitment to student development, mentorship, and providing holistic learning within a campus community – institutionally, regionally, and nationally. In his current role as a second-year Community Development Educator for the Department of Residential Education at NYU, Bro. Jones oversees 2 residence halls housing 800 upperclassmen and graduate students, supervises a staff of 19 Resident Assistants and 2 Peer Educators, and directs the facility management, programmatic structure and creation of an engaging community for residents. In addition, he is actively involved in a number of diversity initiatives to include Co-Chair for the recruitment committee and the Dr. Martin Luther King, Jr. celebration week committee. A graduate of Eastern Connecticut State University and the University of South Florida, his research interests pertain to the success and plight of Black male college students at predominately white institutions, with a focus on retention, persistence, leadership, mentorship and involvement. His personal heroes are his parents who he credits with inspiring him to be steadfast, remain dedicated, and gain fulfillment in all he aspires to do. When asked what his future plans entail, Bro. Jones stated that in addition to a possible terminal degree in higher education, “This award provides a foundation for future success for my career. In 5-10 years, I see myself working in student affairs administration on a director level or in the dean of students’ office.” Further, for Brothers interested in pursuing a career in student affairs administration, he offered the following, “My advice is to get involved while you are in undergrad. I was heavily involved in student organizations, student government, residence life and career services. These experiences created a foundation for me as I pursued graduate school and earned a Masters degree in College Student Affairs. In addition, I encourage Brothers to find a mentor who works in student affairs and can guide you down a path for success in this field. My mentors have been invaluable to my early success and development.” *** Brothers of our great fraternity are always moving “onward and upward” no matter what our respective professions or backgrounds. This section of our newsletter will serve as the opportunity for KXL to recognize those brothers within the chapter that are achieving great things professionally, personally, or academically. If you have a story or accomplishment that you want to share with the brotherhood, let us know!
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Bro. Jesse E. Owens II Jesse graduated cum laude with a degree in Computer Science from Norfolk State in 2006. He is an Application Developer for the Investment Management group at JP Morgan Chase.
Bro. Derrick Weatherspoon Derrick is a 2005 Univ. of Maryland graduate with a degree in Finance, He currently works at Welsh, Carson, Anderson & Stowe, a private equity firm that focuses on leveraged buyouts.
Bro. Kelso Anderson Kelso is a 2002 graduate from Rutgers Law School and currently is an attorney at Labaton Sucharow LLP. He had several Alpha mentors during his legal education and brings a desire to mentor youth to the chapter.
Bro. Dwight Tindall Dwight received his B.S. in banking and finance from Louisiana Tech in 2002. Dwight is currently a VP / Branch Manager at JP Morgan Chase bank.
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Bro. Jamel Maloney Jamel graduated from SUNY Stony Brook in 2003 with a degree in Economics and Business Management and currently works as an IT Finance Manager at Kingsbrook Jewish Medical Center.
Bro. Lino A. Solis II Lino completed his studies at NY Law School in 1996. He is currently VP and General Counsel at Thor Equities LLC, a redevelopment company that has a focus in revitalizing urban areas.
Bro. Melford Myrie III Mel is a 1997 graduate of North Carolina A&T with a major in Accounting. He currently is a Vice President at Jones Lang LaSalle Inc., an industry leader in property and corporate facility management services.
Bro. Jay Williams Jay studied the Comparative Study of Religion at Harvard College in 2003 and is working on his Master’s of Divinity at Columbia University. He is an Assistant Minister at the Metropolitan Community United Methodist Church.
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Eternal Reflections of Djoser Jesse – Phrontrunner Derrick – Phrozen Assets Kelso – UprICEing Dwight – Cold Sweat
Jamel – Brain Phreeze Lino – Ice Age alias Bakari & Tahuti Mel – Sergeant Cool Jay – Phrozen Apostle
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76th Annual Eastern Regional Convention A Summary Report – by Bro. Tony Thompson The 76th Annual Eastern Regional Convention was held Thursday, March 27th through Sunday, March 30th at the Hilton Hotel in East Brunswick, NJ. Brothers and guests from all over the Eastern Region and visitors from Alpha South, and as far away as the Midwest, were treated to the best Alpha has to offer. On Thursday, former Regional Vice President, Brother Darren Morton spoke during the O. Wilson Winters Life Membership Luncheon. That evening, newly initiated member Brother Kevin Powell was the keynote speaker at the public program “Black Males – Talented, Powerful, and Misunderstood.” He discussed the value of spirituality in our communities and how as a people we need to be more spiritually grounded. Brother Powell made a strong plea for more men to become mentors. Following his informative and motivational speech, a panel of distinguished brothers participated in a town hall style meeting to discuss the plight of young black men and what we as a fraternity can do to improve the situation. On Friday, the district caucuses were inundated with guests championing their causes including candidates for Asst. Regional VP, and the final two candidates for General President. Brother DeShawn Hickman of Zeta chapter became the eventual winner and the newly elected AVP. The highlight of the day was the Rev. Dr. Martin Luther King Luncheon address given by Brother Randall Pinkett. The winner of the 4th season of Donald Trump’s “The Apprentice” captivated his audience as he discussed the plight of African Americans since Dr. King’s assassination. That night Miss Courtney McClellan of Hampton University representing Gamma Iota Chapter was crowned the Eastern Region Miss Black and Gold. The NYACOA step team, “The A-Team”, was the winner of the step competition. The weekend was filled with the usual business sessions and educational workshops that included training sessions on improving chapter operations, risk management certification, information on the March of Dimes, interviewing skills, starting a nonprofit organization, grant research, developing a business plan, parliamentary procedures, and implementing national programs just to name a few. On Saturday, the highlight of the college brother’s luncheon was the Belford V. Lawson Oratorical contest with this year’s theme being “The N-Word: is it really buried?” Every brother who spoke gave very stirring and moving speeches on why the N-word is still alive. Brother Joshua Clark of Sigma chapter was the most eloquent of the group. That evening was a formal Black and Gold reception followed by a banquet presided over by our Regional Vice President Brother Dennis Kemp. The winners from earlier competitions were announced including Regional Brother of the Year and Chapter of the Year - both college and alumni.
Brother Samuel C. Parker, III October 21, 1958 – February 9, 2008 BROTHER, MENTOR, FRIEND
Bro. Parker represented the Chapter at the 2007 Convention alongside KXL Bros. Elvin Downling and Pres. Tony Johnson
Dean Parker guided the 7 Sons of Sobek, our inaugural line, across the burning sands in Fall ’06
Bros. Hunt and Thompson share their thoughts about Bro. Parker in some of the pages that follow
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****Originally Published August 7, 2007****
7 QUESTIONS WITH THE BROTHER OF THE YEAR BRO. SAMUEL C. PARKER, III By Bro. Corey A. McDougle
Similar to the Seven Jewels who graciously founded our beloved Alpha Phi Alpha Fraternity, Inc., the Brothers of Kappa Xi Lambda (KXL) represent various professions, backgrounds, and interests. However, that diversity is able to effectively merge into one dynamic force to uplift the principle aims of the Fraternity—“manly deeds, scholarship, and love for all mankind”. For the past three years, no brother within KXL has arguably demonstrated these principles with a greater sense of ease through effective leadership, guidance, and action than Bro. Samuel C. “Sam” Parker, III. Described by Bro. Chris Blackwood as a “brother keeper”, Bro. Parker “represents the true essence of brotherhood…He has a vested interest in seeing you grow and mature and is willing to watch over you as you go through the trenches…While Bro. Parker lives up to all these attributes, what makes it so much of a brotherhood is that he does it unselfishly with honesty, love and compassion.” In addition to quietly mentoring the many brothers who joined KXL from other chapters, Bro. Parker, as Director of Intake, guided and mentored seven new brothers into the light of Alpha during the chapter’s firstever intake process in the Fall of 2006. When asked how Bro. Parker represents Alpha, Bro. Chris Hunt stated, he “exhibits the qualities of an Alpha Man because he truly is about service—service to the brothers of the chapter and service to the community. He's been willing to serve as a mentor to me, no matter how much he has going on in his life. The reclamation event at 40/40 Club earlier this year is a great example. He mostly put the event together himself and funded it in the spirit of reclaiming Brothers to the fraternity and strengthening our chapter.” A current resident of Brooklyn, this Life Member crossed the burning sands in 1979 via Mu Alpha Chapter at Emory University where he was a distinguished member of the Emory Senior Honor Society. Post undergrad, he received his MBA from NYU’s Stern Business School. Professionally, he is currently Director, Structured Finance, RMBS, at Standard and Poor’s. He currently serves as Sergeant-at-Arms for the 2007-08 fraternal year. In addition to Alpha, he is a member of the National Black MBA Association and National Association of Securities Professionals. When asked to describe Bro. Parker, Bro. Brandon Ray stated, “His humility is the characteristic that comes to mind. He is a very accomplished professional and yet he is so humble.” With a record like his, it is no question why he has been named a three-time Brother of the Year. Nor is it unfathomable to understand the chapter’s decision to name the award after him. Although he is often not the loudest voice in the room, Bro. Parker continually stands out and commands brothers’ attention because he is respected and his commitment to KXL and the work of Alpha is unquestioned. In an effort to further understand what motivates the inner workings of this quiet leader and 2006-2007 Brother of the Year, I asked Bro. Parker the following seven questions: What influenced your decision to seek membership into Alpha Phi Alpha Fraternity, Inc.? I grew up in Savannah, GA which was and still is a big Alpha town. Most of the black male professionals in the city are Alphas. Church and Civic leaders are Alphas. They were and are men of distinction and I wanted to be like them. Is there anyone you pattern your life after or seek inspiration from (i.e. personal hero)? If so, who and why? My Dad is my hero. He is tough, a perfectionist, and insists that you do your best. He is a man of integrity who puts his family first. He definitely set the bar high for me and expected nothing less. Even at this age, I look to him for his advice and insight. If I could be half the man that my father is, I would be content with my life.
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****Originally Published August 7, 2007****
7 QUESTIONS WITH THE BROTHER OF THE YEAR Continued from page 8
In a society where black men are seriously underrepresented in professional work environments and higher education due to a number of issues like the absence of the black father, racism, and poverty, how important do you feel is our role as mentors for both the youth and younger brothers within the fraternity? It is critical for us as Alphas to be role models and mentors for our young black males. Loving our own skin has been hard for people of color through the ages so it is critical that we show our young men how to be proud of who they are. The images that they are bombarded with sometimes create a fantasy world of money, women, celebrity, and fame. They buy into the fantasy and work hard at the image. One day, you realize that the real success was dependent on the progress you made to love yourself, love your God, and treat each other with respect. I think we as Alphas can impart that lesson because it has been the core of our journey as Alpha men. How does it feel to be named Brother of the Year 3 times in a row and now have the award named after you? I am very honored and humbled. I don't think that I have done any more than any other brother in the chapter. Having my name associated with this award is very special because long after I am gone there will be a reminder of how much this chapter has meant to me. How has the fraternity changed through the years in your opinion and has that been for the better? As with life, it's a mixed bag. We need to determine as a national organization how do we become relevant to young men again. Years ago, becoming an Alpha was considered an honor, an accomplishment, a life changing experience - now I think it has lost the magic. This age of young men is much more exposed to information than previous generations but they are becoming more isolated as individuals. The need for fraternity has been replaced with various types of internet connections and friendships. Politicians have convinced us Affirmative Action is evil, that the playing field is level, that the new America holds opportunities for all and guess what - We Bought It! The Jewels saw fraternity as the foundation of who and what they wanted to be as a group of isolated young men in upstate NY at the turn of the 20th Century. As a fraternity we have survived for 100 years, but we need to spend time determining what comes next. What did you find most fulfilling in your service as Director of Intake for the first-ever line of Brothers entering the chapter? Getting to know the young men. Sometimes we forget that there are still those guys out there whose hearts are really committed to the goals of our Jewels. We as a chapter debated the Intake process so much that we forgot to realize that the key was "Get To Know The Man"! I took the time to meet with them individually and as a group on multiple occasions. I asked tough questions of them and they asked questions of me to make me think about my journey as an Alpha. You don't realize how much you can learn about yourself while getting to know someone else. They have that spark that we as experienced brothers need to nurture. We have some really impressive Neophytes and I see them doing great things for the chapter. Any last words or advice for the brothers of Kappa Xi Lambda? Continue to reach for the stars, hold the lessons of the Jewels close, don't be afraid to take chances, and ALWAYS be Brotherly to each other.
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Brother Samuel C. Parker, III October 21, 1958 – February 9, 2008 BROTHER, MENTOR, FRIEND
Pillars of the chapter, Bro Parker and Bro. President Johnson were inseparable at conventions
As always, Bro. Parker welcomes all who have been judged worthy to the House of Alpha.
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Brother Samuel C. Parker, III October 21, 1958 – February 9, 2008 Reflections by Bro. Christopher Hunt I had this idea that I would rush to the chapter meeting that day. That day, I would slip out of work and outmaneuver traffic on the West Side Highway. I would be one of the first ones to the meeting that day. And I’d sit in his chair and I’d greet everyone that walked through the door with a faint smile and tight grip. I’d do that not because there were times that I wanted to be like him. I’d do that because there were times I wanted to be him. Of course, the confines of my office trapped me and I left much later than I’d hoped. I sprinted to the car and zipped through traffic with his face tattooed to my brain. I felt like he was waiting for me. I was late and it didn’t matter, part of me didn’t want to face the reality of a chapter meeting without him there – always the first one at the door, making funny faces at me from across the room. I burst through the door and eyed the chair first. There was a single sheet of paper lying in the place where he had sat, the place I hoped to sit. There was one word written in all capital letters. RESERVED. And rightfully so. I didn’t deserve that seat. Not that night. No one did. This night, at this meeting we reflected on Samuel Parker. We didn’t talk about the life he lived and all the great things that he had done. We talked about how he affected our lives. I never said a word. I didn’t need to. He always had time to talk, someone said, and someone else repeated. He was my mentor, my uncle, my friend, my brother and my Fraternity Brother. It rang like a chorus. I didn’t cry when I got the phone call at 1 a.m. I didn’t cry when I passed along the message. Sam had passed away, graduated to Omega Chapter. I cried when I heard people saying all the things that I wanted to say. Saying all the things that I thought were personal to me and realized that beyond my own self-absorption, Sam meant the same to so many others as he meant to me. He discovered a way to make everyone feel special, like he had allotted a slot of time in his life reserved for me. Or for you. I met Sam for the first time in a restaurant that he picked. I was an aspirant. He already being the backbone of Kappa Xi Lambda and willing to carry Alpha Phi Alpha Fraternity Incorporated on his wide shoulders, was willing to invite me into the Upper House, in which this time he served as doorman. We met for maybe 30 minutes. When I left, I hadn’t spent a dollar and I was saying to myself, “If this is what it means to be an Alpha, just sign me up.” Years later, I can say that it’s been the same, every time I spent time with Sam Parker. He wouldn’t let me spend a dollar and he would somehow, unintentionally or not, reaffirm my love for Alpha – and my love for him. He always had time. Always. He always had a few nice words. Or a few firm ones when you needed it. He knew which direction to point you in and when to tell you to stop. Sam seemingly found a way to never burden anyone with his own troubles or even many details of his life yet he made you feel like you were his closest friend – until you found out that everyone thought they were his closest friend. It wasn’t that my relationship wasn’t special. It’s that every single relationship he had was special. He was the type of Alpha that you looked up to. He was type of Man that that you looked up to. Sam, we miss you. 3
Brother Samuel C. Parker, III October 21, 1958 – February 9, 2008 Reflections by Bro. Tony Thompson I miss my dad, his silent power and relentless work ethnic. I miss my grandmother's grace and wisdom. That young lady who will always have my heart -- I miss her too -- her courageous and strong will coupled with a sweetness and smile that illuminated even the darkest room. I've always admired one of my best friend's for his strength and determination to fight 'til the end. One of my oldest friends was brutally taken from us. I've always respected her intellect and confidence. I think about how much I loved, respected and admired them for their courage, wisdom, knowledge and confidence and how their deeds, advice and encouragement expressed their love. I resigned myself to the fact that I'd never experience others like them. But I know someone who possesses all those qualifies and then some. He is my fraternity brother, my friend, Samuel C. Parker III. This past weekend my chapter initiated 8 new members into our illustrious organization. As I got to know these young men and offer whatever assistance I could to help them become brothers in our chapter I was flooded with memories. The memories of my own process; the hard work and dedication it took to “cross the burning sands” and the lifelong friends I have as a result. But I didn’t always have happy moments after I crossed. Angry and disillusioned I became inactive after I graduated. Life would continue and I would get along just fine but I always felt like something was missing. It would be years later that I would find out what it was. From our first conversation, about 8 years ago, I admired Sam. Not because of his accomplishments because we never spoke about that. He left a lasting impression on me and I felt a special bond with him. Not because he was an Alpha and was trying to reclaim me because we never spoke about that. We shared so many of the same sentiments and I enjoyed our fellowship. It was then that I realized that I missed the brotherhood…I missed Alpha Phi Alpha and Sam was the one who made me realize that. Over the past several years our relationship developed into more than a fraternal bond as he became my friend. Sam became someone I could depend on, confide in, seek advice on a myriad of subjects, cheer me up, chastise me when I needed it, and convey his love for me and the rest of our friends and every single member of our fraternity who ever met him. He was large in stature but do not be intimidated by his size; it was certainly not indicative of his caring and compassionate character. Because of his generous nature and humble spirit you would never know how successful he was in the financial arena. I would often call him feeling down or confused and he always had an answer for me and found a way to put a smile on my face with his sometimes sick sense of humor. Because of his amazing personality, his work ethic, his selflessness, his dedication, loving kindness, and beautiful spirit, I would often tell him “I want to be just like you when I grow up!” – a sentiment I found out recently was shared by several of my fraternity brothers as well. He would simply say “no you don’t – you want to be better than me!” In the wee hours of the morning I received a phone call that I will never forget. I again had lost someone who I had considered one of my best friends. Someone I could talk to about anything…someone I could call day or night…someone who I could depend on to give advice….someone I admired and respected…someone who always stopped what he was doing to lend a listening ear. Sam was my frat brother but he had become much more than that. He had become my friend, my confidante, my rock. If I had problem or a question I would call Sam and say “hey wassup 3
Brother Samuel C. Parker, III October 21, 1958 – February 9, 2008 Reflections by Bro. Tony Thompson (cont’d) bruh…are you busy?” and his response was always “well I’m always busy but I got time to talk to you…what’s up?” When I had good news he shared in my joy and was genuinely happy for me. When I had bad news he helped me to focus, figure out my options and make the best decision. And I knew he cared. Sam epitomized everything that a fraternity brother is supposed to be. He was a Prince among men but was never to busy or proud to serve his community or help his fellow man. Words cannot express how much I loved him….how much I will miss him…nor how my life has forever been changed just by knowing him. ‘06
Bro. Parker is flanked by his KXL brothers at the Centennial Convention
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7 Questions…. with Bro. Reverend David Jackson By Bro. Christopher Hunt
Bro. David Jackson has done missionary work in Ghana, Kenya and Uganda. He has recently returned from a twoand-a-half-week trip to Kenya where he had an opportunity to spread God’s message to the people. Bro. Jackson graduated from Cornell University with a degree in African Studies and received his Master’s of Divinity from Columbia’s Union Theological Seminary. Bro. Jackson anchored Kappa Xi Lambda’s historic Fall ’06 “Seven Sons of Sobek” line. The Wall Street Alpha Report caught up with him to talk about his experience in Kenya and his calling to the ministry. WSA: What was the purpose of your trip to Africa? DJ: My trip to Africa was two-fold. First it was to preach and teach at four youth conferences and three pastor’s conferences. The main foci of my teaching were spiritual gifts, prayer, and worship. The second purpose was to do some groundwork for the non for profit that I founded last year which is The High Place Alliance. The High Place Alliance is a youth development organization in the United States, Ghana, and Kenya. Its aim is to form alliances or partnerships between religious organizations in these countries with organizations and agencies that want to implement/start educational, health, or business programs for youth. The purpose of the Alliance is to equip youth ages 12-25 with the skills and opportunities to aid them in achieving their career/vocational goals. Can you talk about your experience there? I think the biggest thing is being able to see the kingdom of God being strengthened in that part of the world. As I stated before, my primary focus is teenagers, young adults, and ministers. There were hundreds of young people who were saved, filled with the Holy Spirit, and healed during the meetings. Moreover, it was great to see young people I ministered to last year now preaching, teaching, and doing ministry. Outside of my ministry experience, it was fascinating to be in Kenya for two reasons. One, when I was in Kenya I was blessed to live with the people! I stayed in the home of one of the pastors; I ate with them, learned some Ki-Shawhili, and saw first-hand what it meant to be Kenyan. In fact, my friends there call me “Daudi Mukweyi” and most of the people thought I was Kenyan until they started speaking to me and I did not respond. I was told that the main reason for this assumption was that Black Americans do not come to Kenya. That is definitely food for thought. Two, I arrived a couple weeks before their presidential election. Being there during this time was exciting, intriguing, but edgy at the same time. There were several police road blocks, increase prices for everything, and some violence. But in the midst of all of this, my safety was not in jeopardy, thank God! Overall, I had a rewarding and life-changing experience.
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What made you want to go there? I have always wanted to go to Africa since I was a child. My mother was a teacher and exposed me to African and African American history at a young age. From that time forward, I have strove to be Pan-African. I wanted to connect to black people all over the world. That desire and aspiration is present in my ministerial work. I have always envisioned uniting Black Christians together around the world to further the Gospel of Jesus Christ and to bring about positive changes in our respective communities. Don’t get me wrong: I acknowledge that God has called me to minister to all people (I aspire to pastor a multi-racial and multi-cultural congregation) but the heart of my ministry is for the Cushite nation. Can you talk about your calling to the ministry? I was called when I was six. I got called while I was visiting my grandmother in Georgia. Ever since that point I knew I was called. But I never made the ministry my primary focus because I wanted to be a physician. I spent my whole life preparing to be a physician, but after a series of events including various visions/dreams and discussions with professors and administrators, I submitted to my calling. On a simpler note, someone once told me that whatever you think about first thing in the morning is the thing that you are called to. When I was in college, I wasn’t thinking about medicine in the morning! I was thinking about preaching, teaching, and counseling. How do you think your faith has influenced or affected your walk in Alpha? One of the things that drew me to Alpha is that it’s based on biblical principles. It’s been my faith that’s allowed me to understand the role of spirituality in being a good Alpha Man. Some of the frats say that they want to be a better Alpha Man than they were yesterday, but for me it’s the word of God and the spirit of God that allows me to become a better Alpha Man. For me, it’s my faith that provides the impetus for being a better Alpha Man. One of the things I would like to hear more of from members and leaders of the organization is the role that spirituality plays in our lives as Alpha men, personally, professionally, and otherwise. Speaking of those principles did you ever think that your spirituality would be at odds with any process that you might have gone through in becoming an Alpha? Definitely! One hears a lot of things about what a fraternal process is like. But you really don’t know until you go through your process, what it’s going to be like. There were some things during the Continued on page 23
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process that did raise issues with me but I was able to reconcile with that. Even now there are issues that I have to reconcile with, like us having parties in bars. Even my line brothers may laugh at that because we used to party together but I’m in a different place in my life now. I don’t mean that in a judgmental fashion because we have things we have concerns with and have to reconcile with. How have your different trips to Africa influenced you? First I would say that it made me realize how fortunate I am, how blessed I am. We have so much in the U.S. compared to other countries. When you go to the developing world it makes you realize how much we have to appreciate. It also gives you a more international mindset. You would think that the sun rises and sets on the U.S. But you realize that there is much more that is out there. Going abroad showed me that the church is bigger than the U.S. too. You see different styles of preaching and worship and those different styles have, of course, influenced my style of preaching and worship. My trips have also fortified my panAfrican sentiments and missionary drive. Is there anything else that you would like to share with us? I’m just grateful to God to be a part of His work. I’m honored to be chosen by God to do this kind of work. I am confident that God chose me to do this type of work before the foundations of the world I know that it is a noble work even though it will not bring a lot of fortune or fame. Nonetheless, I thank God that he has chosen me to participate. ******* Visit Bro. Jackson at The Elim International Fellowship; The Protestant Cathedral in Brooklyn for Sunday service
227 Abolitionist Place Continued from page 5 As the evening progressed, we were able to catch up with Bro. Kevin Powell one to one who noted that “the 227 Duffield Street fundraiser was an incredible success, due in no small part to the Wall Street Alphas and other organizations. Next steps include more fundraisers and multimedia awareness campaigns about this historic underground railroad site and helping Joy Chatel achieve her dream of a national landmark and world-class museum in downtown Brooklyn.” Attendees were treated to a trailer of an upcoming film that will feature Ms. Joy Chatel and the 227 Abolitionist Place plight. Throughout the night, the energy within the entire gallery seemed to reflect that of a campaign victory gala than that of a local community fund raiser. All attendants were upbeat and ready for whatever challenge…the spirit of the ancestors was certainly in the room and the common theme throughout the evening was the tag line on the evening’s program: We want to create an independent museum, not reliant on the whims of politicians or developers. We will mark a vital spot recognizing the first non-violent act of civil disobedience ever to take place, The Underground Railroad. In the end, supporters were asked to send financial support to the following address: Ms. Joy Chatel, 227 Duffield Street, Brooklyn, New York 11201. All funds will be used to challenge the foreclosure proceedings in court and cover applicable costs in support of the museum efforts. Although Ms. Chatel was successful in her challenge to the City’s condemnation action, her struggle to keep and maintain this national treasure continues in the King County court system. If financial support is not possible, please write or visit Ms. Joy Chatel and ask how you can help her with this fight.
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****COMMENTARY**** America may not be ready for a President Barack Obama By Bro. Brian Pruitt Like many, I have been inspired this presidential season to follow with great interest the Democratic primary. Senator Barack Obama has so piqued the interest of so many African Americans and young people that the pundits don’t know what to make of it. “Rock star” is the term frequently used to describe his campaign and his following. History making is another description as the Senator is the only candidate to reach one million donors and has put in place a grassroots operation never before seen in politics. Indeed, Senator Edward Kennedy and many of his family members have likened what they have seen in him to a young President Kennedy so many years ago. So with all of these positives in his favor one would think that Senator Obama was well on his way to wrapping up the Democratic nomination and having a great chance to knock off a Republican candidate in Senator John McCain who isn’t even that popular among his party’s base. But that’s where the smear campaign and those who favor the status quo comes in. Here’s a list of just a few of the smear tactics: •Obama is secretly a Muslim •He refuses to put his hand on his heart when saying the pledge of allegiance •He refuses to wear an American flag pin on his lapel •He swore his oath as Senator on a Koran •His wife is not proud of America •He shares anti-American views as expressed by his pastor of 20 years •He has ties to an old U.S. terrorist group, Chicago shady characters, and corrupt lobbyists •A Republican used his middle name of “Hussein” over and over at a McCain rally to try to play on the fears of those who are not comfortable with his different name •Pundits insisted that Obama completely repudiate and denounce Minister Louis Farrakhan and all that he stands for, lest Obama be charged with the label of anti-semite •Various Republican talking heads “accidentally” refer to him as “Osama” Wow, that’s an awful lot to overcome. And strangely enough, I don’t hear anything remotely similar being said about Senator Clinton or McCain so I guess Obama must be a bad guy after all. Either that or there’s a few folk out there that really don’t want to see this articulate, new age, Black man become President. After 8 years of cronyism, ill conceived foreign policy, neglect of bread and butter issues, and partisanship, why should anyone be fed up and demand something different? I think that what’s most distressing is that there will be that segment of the population who will buy into all of this nonsense and may prevent a good man from becoming President. It’s not as if we constantly have thoughtful and seemingly honest candidates who care to run for President. And that includes Senator Clinton who lost my vote for sure with her insincerity about the whole “Muslim” issue. When asked on 60 Minutes if she believed Obama was a Muslim she responded “of course not. I mean, that, you know, there is no basis for that. I take him on the basis of what he says. And, you know, there isn’t any reason to doubt that.” Well, that’s certainly clear cut enough. Politically it’s clearly to her benefit to let the rumors linger instead of repudiating something that I’m quite sure she doesn’t believe. While I’m not saying that I think Obama has no skeletons in his closet like the rest of us, I am saying that the level of piling on that I’ve seen is unprecedented and Senator Clinton is as guilty as anyone else. If somehow she is able to resurrect her campaign and steal the nomination, there’s NO WAY I would vote for her as President because I can’t believe anything that she says anymore. And I’m a registered Democrat. But if it’s to be politics as usual in ‘08, I’ll just stay home, because I don’t want any part of it.
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FOOTPRINTS by Mary Stevenson One night I had a dream-I dreamed I was walking along the beach with the Lord and across the sky flashed scenes from my life. For each scene I noticed two sets of footprints, one belonged to me and the other to the Lord. When the last scene of my life flashed before me, I looked back at the footprints in the sand. I noticed that many times along the path of my life, there was only one set of footprints. I also noticed that it happened at the very lowest and saddest times in my life. This really bothered me and I questioned the Lord about it. "Lord, you said that once I decided to follow you, you would walk with me all the way, but I have noticed that during the most troublesome times in my life there is only one set of footprints. "I don't understand why in times when I needed you most, you should leave me." The Lord replied, "My precious, precious child, I love you and I would never, never leave you during your times of trial and suffering. "When you saw only one set of footprints, it was then that I carried you."
Brothers, I hope that you enjoyed and were uplifted by this very special newsletter newsletter and had a chance to reflect on the good times that we had with our dear Brother Brother Parker. If you knew him at all, I GUARANTEE you learned something positive from him. Unfortunately for us he was called home and has left us for Omega chapter. In his memory, keep holding up the light. Bro. Brian Pruitt Newsletter Editor 25
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Sigma Chapter 1952 - Epitomizing class and distinction, Dr. King (bottom right) and his line brothers show how it used to be done. April 4 marks 40 years since King’s death. There’s so much work still to be done to achieve his dream. Alpha Phi Alpha Fraternity, Inc. Kappa Xi Lambda Chapter P.O. Box 5382 New York, NY 10185-5382
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