FRIDAY, JULY 17, 2015
ADVERTISING SUPPLEMENT TO THE WILSON TIMES
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WHAT IS THE UNITED WAY?
In 1959, the United Fund of Wilson County was organized at a meeting in the Cherry Hotel. The goal for this initial fundraising effort was set at $79,568.30. Today the organization we now call United Way raises more than one-million dollars annually to fund human service agencies helping people in Wilson County. Far from being just a once-a-year presence, United Way is an integral part of the community it serves. Each member agency’s program is a part of a total health, welfare, and character building program designed to meet the needs of the community. Because of this fact, United Way has a responsibility to consider the community program as a whole and each agency’s relation to the total program.
United Way helps people help themselves and one another by uniting the community’s volunteer fundraising efforts in a manner that; • builds a strong spirit of community volunteerism; • responds to needs that can’t be met through public expenditures; • is accountable to the giver and the receiver for dollars and programs; • operates in a cost effective manner.
WHAT QUALIFIES AN AGENCY TO BECOME A UNITED WAY AGENCY? An organization must be not-for-profit with 501(c)(3) status, offer a human service based on documented community need, be governed by volunteers, and have sound financial management. When an agency requests admittance to the United Way, the Finance Committee makes a
recommendation to the Board of Directors after reviewing the agency. After an agency has been approved, the Budgets & Admissions Committee has the responsibility of making a funding recommendation to the United Way Board of Directors.
First, United Way requires that each year, the agencies submit a proposed budget, along with a plan for programming and an independent audit. A quarterly financial report is also turned in to the United Way office. Accountability is important to the donors, the recipients, and for the agency itself. Secondly, agencies are required to provide United Way with a monthly report on who is benefiting from their services (Names of individuals are not given to the United Way). Many times these statistics alone compel a donor to give. The facts and figures are the actual proof
that United Way works in helping agencies help people every day of the year. Human interest stories are gathered by United Way and shared with the media. The good news of agencies helping people is the foundation for all United Way promotion, publicity and education. People helping people is the whole reason for United Way in the first place. Finally, the United Way requires that agencies identify themselves as United Way agencies. It is important that the connection between contributions through United Way and services to people in need be made again and again.
WHAT DOES UNITED WAY REQUIRE OF ITS AGENCIES?
HOW DO AGENCIES BENEFIT BY BEING UNITED WAY AGENCIES? Without having to concentrate primarily on fundraising, United Way agencies can spend their energies doing what they do best -- caring for people. Volunteers and paid staff are able to focus on meeting needs rather than finding dollars. It becomes possible to plan programs for the future, knowing that monthly income is secure. Some agencies must depend on other sources of
income in addition to United Way’s allocation. Dollars come from local, state, and federal governments, memberships, grants and other fundraising projects. Currently, the agencies can hold three supplemental fundraising events annually, which must be approved by the Budgets & Admissions Committee/ Finance Committee, so that the integrity of “one community-wide campaign” can be maintained.
WHO RUNS THE UNITED WAY? Wilson County citizens run United Way. Just as agencies have a volunteer Board of Directors, so does United Way. Paid staff (3 full-time and 1 part-time) understand their functions to support the volunteer leadership of United Way of Wilson County. One important aspect of this organization is that all decisions are made by local volunteers. Participation in state and national United Way activities does not mean we are a chapter or a branch that receives directives from “on high”. Rather, the state and national groups work for us, providing support for the local operation, right here in Wilson County.
WHY DOES UNITED WAY WORK? The commitment of United Way of Wilson County volunteers is to respond to real community needs with action. The promise of United Way is that citizens will be asked to give only once a year and donors are guaranteed their dollars will make a difference.
The strength of this United Way, after more than 56 years of service to Wilson County, is that our people care about one another! http://www.unitedwayofwilson.org
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2015 CHAIRMAN’S MESSAGE As you read this letter, no matter the time of day or night, someone in our community is being helped by one of the United Way agencies. There is always a need; but there is always hope…because of the United Way. I am proud to be part of the United Way team as I have seen firsthand the hard work, dedication, passion, and love for those in our community that need a helping hand. I believe that these agencies serve a vital purpose to make our city and county the great place to live that it is. But…that can’t happen without community and corporate financial support through the annual campaign. I am excited and honored to serve this year as the chairman of the 2015 campaign, our 56th. We have assembled a great campaign team and are energized by the opportu-
nity to make this our best campaign ever. Our team is comprised of community wide volunteers and supporters who share the same vision and desire to see us grow our support for these critical services. Speaking of growing, that is our 2015 theme. “Growing Together”. Inspired by both Wilson’s strong agricultural heritage and the many ways the notion of planting, caring and harvesting is collectively symbolic for how the United Way works. United Way and Together are virtually interchangeable. And, as the need has grown, so to has the need for funding to support those vital programs. In every way, we invite you to help us grow together this year. For the many of you that have supported United Way with your donations and selfless time, we are so thankful and recognize we would
not be successful without you. We covet your continued support and involvement and encourage you to invite others to share in this important work. Help us grow. For those that may not have been a part of the United Way, I can attest that this is a great organization that focuses its resources in the right places and well worthy of your support. There are many ways to find out what our work is but the best is to visit www.unitedwayofwilson.org. Your new support will allow more seeds to be planted and ultimately more people to be lifted up by your generosity. We are excited about our 2015 campaign and look forward to “Growing Together”. Let’s go! Courtesy of Images Photography, Inc.
Sincerely, Michael Darr
Wilson Community Health Center In the Community ... For the Community
Visit our new facility at 303 East Green Street Call 243-9800 for an Appointment Providing primary medical and behavioral health services Pharmacy services available to qualified patients Wilson Community Health Center is a Preferred Provider for the Veterans Choice Program
Do you have your MEDICARE PART D “DUCKS IN A ROW”? Just because one plan was best for you in 2015 does not mean that it will be the best plan for you next year. Open Enrollment begins in October. Call 243-9800 extension 222 to get YOUR DUCKS IN A ROW! www.cfhcnc.org
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American Red Cross
AMERICAN RED CROSS The American Red Cross has been part of the Wilson County community since 1917. The Red Cross was one of the charter members of Wilson County United Way when that organization formed in 1959. Courtesy of The United Way of Wilson
Everyday citizens of Wilson County are Heroes in the eyes of the American Red Cross. These Everyday Heroes are our volunteers who help disaster victims get on the road to recovery. They give blood to help someone in the hospital. They brighten the day of an injured service member in a hospital far from home. They take our classes and step forward to help someone having a heart attack or to save a drowning child. To these American Red Cross volunteers and Everyday Heroes in Wilson County we say Thank You! The Red Cross responds to nearly 70,000 disasters a year in this country. It provides 24-hour support to members of the military, veterans and their families; collects and distributes about 40 percent of the nation’s blood supply and trains millions of people in first aid, water safety and other life-saving skills every year. In the last year in Wilson County, the American Red Cross responded to over 60 Families who had experience a local Home Fir e Emergency, assisted 20 military families during
a family emergency where the service member and the family were separated by military service. The American Red Cross trained hundreds of people in lifesaving skills using both instructor led training and state of the art Smart Phone Apps. Your local American Red Cross collected 4,700 of pints of lifesaving blood. In fact, the largest single day Red Cross high school drive in the nation with a goal of 800 pints hails from Fike High School in Wilson, NC. The Red Cross mission in our community would not be possible without the dedication of everyone who supports our mission. We are grateful to people for their generosity which enables us to continue our work, and encourage everyone to become an Everyday Hero by helping their neighbors through support of their local Red Cross mission.
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Sincerely, Joshua Cain Executive Director Frederick E. Turnage Chapter
The Arc is committed to securing for all people with developmental disabilities, the opportunity to choose and realize their goals of where and how they learn, live, work and play. The Arc is further committed to reducing the incidence and limiting the consequences of intellectual and developmental disabilities through education, research, and advocacy with the support of families, friends and the community.
Serving Wilson, Wayne & Greene Counties Nationally Accredited
United Way of Wilson County, Inc.
Member Agency
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Salvation Army
BOYS & GIRLS CLUB
SALVATION ARMY
The Salvation Army Boys & Girls Club of Wilson lives by our mission everyday which states: to enable all young people, especially those who need us most, to realize their full potential as productive, responsible and caring citizens. We have children here year round for various programs and activities. Our afterschool program operates from 3 p.m. – 7 p.m. and the fee is only $40.00 a month per child. The $40.00 fee includes transportation from the school, snack, help with homework, and participation in activities here at the club. The summer camp program runs all summer long and is $50 a week per child. That $50.00 fee includes breakfast, lunch and snack as well as all field trips. We offer football, basketball and cheerleading from ages 6-12 and
BOYS & GIRLS CLUB
basketball reaches out to the older ages as well. “To The MAX” fitness is the circuit training workout class that has reached out to over 4,500 people in the community and is constantly growing. It is offered every Monday, Wednesday, and Friday from 7:30 p.m. – 8:30 p.m. and the cost is $3 per class. Being fit should be made a lifestyle and that is what we instill in our members and the community. We also host a professional wrestling match once a month that is a great family show and has 150-160 people in attendance every time. The matches are on the third weekend of each month. The Salvation Army Boys & Girls Club is ready and willing to create opportunities for families to be healthy and happy.
SALVATION ARMY The Salvation Army celebrates its 150th Birthday in 2015. Then, as now, here in Wilson, The Salvation Army stands by what its founder General William Booth said-
“While women weep, as they do now, I’ll fight While little children go hungry, as they do now, I’ll fight While men go to prison, in and out, in and out, as they do now, I’ll fight While there is a drunkard left, While there is a poor lost girl upon the streets, While there remains one dark soul without the light of God, I’ll fight-I’ll fight to the very end!”
Thank you for joining us in this fight
Courtesy of The United Way of Wilson
After School
JOIN NOW 2015-16 The SPOT 21ST CCLC Program Registration begins July 7, 2015
Space is limited, register on-line today. My SPOT (annual) plans available for just $80.00 Monthly (Includes summer camp 2016) SPOT 21st CCLC Discount plans available.
Wesley Shelter, Inc. Ending Violence - Rebuilding Lives 106 E. Vance Street, Wilson, NC 27893
252-291-2344
www.wesleyshelter.org Since 1983, Wesley Shelter, a United Way Agency has been serving the Wilson community through its many programs.
910 Tarboro St. W., Wilson
DOMESTIC AND SEXUAL VIOLENCE ADVOCACY AND LEGAL SERVICES HOMELESSNESS • SAFE HOUSE • 24 HOUR CRISIS LINE WOMEN’S CENTER • SUPPORT GROUPS • THERAPY CHILDREN’S SERVICES • HISPANIC OUTREACH MISSION COORDINATED COMMUNITY RESPONSE THE CLOTHES LINE Visit We could not do this without the ongoing generous The Clothes Line support of the Wilson community. at it’s new location Your time, goods, services, financial donations and The Walston Center support through United Way enable us to make a 403 Nash St. difference in the lives of others every single day.
For Details: Call 252-991-4018 or ONLINE at www.thewilsonspot.org
THANK YOU to all that help us!
Must have Birth Certificate, Current School Year Report Card & First Months Payment
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GIRL SCOUT COUNCIL
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How does a girl accomplish her goal of learning about robotics? Or follow her dream to become a firefighter, leading a team of other heroes? Or set in motion her vision of becoming a leader when opportunity seems like only a buzzword to her? How? It’s simple: Girl Scouts. Moving at the speed of girls is what Girl Scouts – North Carolina Coastal Pines is all about, and we know that it takes a lot to keep up with today’s girls. It takes activities and experiences that allow girls to follow the fun, do what they love, and set off on their next big adventure. With Girl Scouts, you can rest easy while she laughs, explores, and discovers that anything is possible. “At Girl Scouts, we believe in the power of every girl,” said Lisa Jones, Chief Executive Officer at Girl Scouts – North Carolina Coastal Pines. “Our mission is building girls of courage, confidence and character, who make the world a better place. And we cannot achieve it without the support of our community partners and our volunteers.” Girl Scouts do a lot more than people know. They build homes and collect food for the homeless. They spend a week learning to surf and sail. They travel to incredible places like France, England, and India. They advocate for change in their neighborhoods and their local communities at their local and state government. Most of all, Girl Scouts enjoy nonstop fun while building critical life and leadership skills. Not only do girls have fun in Girl Scouts, but adults can share in the fun as well. Girl Scouts is a great way to spend quality time with your girl having fun, helping her find her passions, and supporting her along her path to success. There are many ways to volunteer from becoming a Troop co-leader to a parent volunteer to being a day camp director. “We hope girls and adults follow the fun with Girl Scouts this year. As Girl Scout volunteers, adults become a girl’s
Courtesy of The United Way of Wilson role model and help her make friends, array of innovative, fun, and memorable have new adventures, and do great activities that allow girls to build courthings,” added Jones. age, confidence, and character, and Today, Girl Scouts offer a wide range make the world a better place. of programming — everything 2015-2016 After School Program from STEM (Science, Technology, Engineering and Math) programming to healthy (at the site on 316 South Tarboro St.) living acMonthly Fee: $20.00 (drop off) $40.00 (pick up) tivities to For any questions please contact exploring the outCharmaine Harris at 252-243-5443 doors. Girl Mission Statement Scouts is To enable all young people, committed especially those who need us to pursuing most, to realize their full its mission potential as productive, through its responsible and caring citizens. programming, offering an astounding
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“We are committed to making the remarkable experience of Girl Scouting accessible to all girls who want it, regardless of their background or financial situation,” said Jones. Contributions from community partners, such as the United Way of Wilson County, to Girl Scouts – North Carolina Coastal Pines help the Council subsidize the cost of providing programming throughout its 41 county region. Annual membership fees for girls and adults are $15 per member. It’s a great time to be a Girl Scout with lots of ways to get involved, have fun, explore possibilities, experience adventures, travel, and learn that anything is possible. Girl Scouts is open to all girls from kindergarten through grade 12. To learn more, join or volunteer, please visit www.nccoastalpines.org or call Jennifer Smith, Membership Director for Wilson County, at 252-560-5860. Also, join us for an ice cream social at St. Timothy’s Episcopal Church, 202 N. Goldsboro Street, on July 27 at 6:30 p.m. Please RSVP to Jennifer Smith.
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DIVERSIFIED OPPORTUNITIES Diversified Opportunities has many long standing business relationships with several Wilson companies and one of those is with 3C Stores Fixtures. DOI has been serving 3C for many years now and has completed a wide range of projects with and for them. The working relationship between DOI and 3C is so active and natural feeling that it actually appears more like a friendship between the two companies than anything else. Through this close friendship a new type of partnership recently developed. 3C Store Fixtures had an urgent need to meet a customer deadline and reached out to DOI to see if they may be able to assist. This triggered a chain of events that led to DOI assembling a custom work crew that went onsite to 3C’s Hwy 301 location to man several stations within an assembly line production process. Persons with disabilities from DOI worked alongside non-disabled workers to create an integrated work environment that was mutually beneficial for DOl and 3C Store Fixtures. The new partnership was a huge success for both parties as DOI played a large role in helping 3C meet their production deadline while 3C provided DOI the opportunity to offer valuable real world training to its many consumers. These types of training opportunities are what allow DOI to meet and stay true to its core mission of training persons with disabilities to secure gainful employment and achieve independence within the community. DOI recognizes these relationships and opportunities are not to be taken for granted. That is why DOI continuously works to improve on all that they do and focuses on providing valuable services that will
Courtesy of The United Way of Wilson benefit their customers, vendors, trainees and the community as a whole. DOI makes an effort to stay current with present manufacturing trends and is not fearful to venture outside of the box when it comes to its customer’s needs. Many times the best ideas for meeting customer needs originate within the population DOI serves. This is the culture DOI promotes. Not only does the staff at DOI talk the talk but they walk the walk as well. DOI prides itself on the fact that every one of its staff members contribute a portion of their pay to the United Way to support the cause they work for. DOI realizes that when community organizations support each other more good can be accomplished. Empowering people to be their best is a passion at Diversified. This passion is fueled by the many business partners that DOI serves and Diversified would like to thank each and every one for the part they play in making Diversified Opportunities’ mission a reality. Without your trust and support DOI would never be the success it is today.
“The Ultimate Dining Experience”
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ST. JOHN COMMUNITY DEVELOPMENT CORPORATION St. John CDC, a proud agency of the United Way of Wilson, established the S.A.Y (Save A Youth) Program in 2005. For the past 10 years, SJCDC has provided an after school program and summer camp for youth in grades K-12 with more than 3000 children served. In August 2010, the CDC was awarded the 21st Century Community Learning Center (CCLC) grant by NC DPI, a 4 year grant focused on providing quality after school program and family resource center. The S.A.Y. program serves more than 300 students at 2 locations in Wilson County through the after school program. The S.A.Y. summer camp presently serves more than 275 students. In the past 10 years, more than 95% of the students attending S.A.Y. programs have met or exceeded state and local standards in core academic areas and promotional requirements. S.A.Y. incorporates the gang prevention program into all of the youth programs. The S. A. Y. Vocational Program serves Wilson County Youth ages 12-17 that
are court-involved, identified as at-risk of gang involvement or are at risk of academic failure and delinquency. The program serves more than 30 youth in the areas of vocational skills training, apprenticeship opportunities, social skill building, life skills and academic support. SJCDC provides the S.A.Y. Vocational Program with support from The Governor’s Crime Commission (GCC) and the local Juvenile Crime Prevention Council (JPCP). St. John’s community development projects include the Wilson Renaissance Center (WRC) project which stimulates economic growth in East Wilson to provide a community fresh-market minigrocery store, ice cream/deli, pharmacy, and affordable housing. A future phase of the project includes moving the current transitional housing facility to the second floor of the building on Nash Street which will house men and women and 4 families. The WRC SAY Yum Ice Cream & Deli Shop opened in August 2013 and the Wilson
Family Store We Need Your Donations Of Clothing And Household Items! All Are Tax Deductible Contributions
Call 243-2696 For Pick-Up or Drop off at 112 W. Hines St. Downtown Wilson
Courtesy of The United Way of Wilson Value Drugstore Pharmacy was open in December 2014. Proceeds from the WRC will assist with sustainability for the SAY youth programs. Currently, nine persons are employed because of the (WRC) project.
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The SAY program is located at 639 Walnut Street in East Wilson in the Whitfield Homes housing area. You can call us at phone 252-265-9764 or visit us at www. stjohncdcwilson.org. Rev. Dr. Michael S. Bell, serves as the Executive Director.
MENTAL HEALTH ASSOCIATION IN WILSON COUNTY 1956 - 2015
The Mental Health Association in Wilson County thanks the Wilson community for its continued support since 1956.
Since 1945
MILLWORK CO., INC.
Woodwork of Distinction www.smcinc.com
509 W. Nash St. • Wilson, NC 27893 (252) 243-2773 • mhawilsonnc@gmail.com A United Way Agency
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Mental Health Association In Wilson County
MENTAL HEALTH ASSOCIATION
Many adults in our community suffer from mental illnesses or emotional instability, but did you know their problems often stem from trauma that occurred long ago in their childhood? Because of shame and secrecy, many traumatized youth never seek help from the pain that has been inflicted on them or those they love. Abuse and neglect can cause deep-seeded grief and trauma which effects their adult lives and can even be passed down from generation to generation. In an attempt to curb our community’s rising mental illness rates whenever possible, the Mental Health Association’s Barshay Programs for Youth fund has started working with the Wilson County Department of Social Services to help provide “movement therapies” for local youth dealing with trauma. Children in the program have been screened and identified as possibly benefiting from these therapies. Movement therapies include martial arts, boxing, horseback riding and dance and use the right side of the brain which often has difficulty with planning, organization, attention and inhibition when exposed to trauma. Combined with left brain talk therapies, evidence shows that traumatized youth are able to begin healing with movement therapies chosen specifically for them. MHA-Wilson also advocates yearround for proper and complete services for those in our community with depression, Schizophrenia, Bipolar disorder, Alzheimer’s disease, anxiety disorders and many other illnesses. We assist those who are newly-diagnosed or those who seek help with the oftenconfusing healthcare system by providing service referrals and seeking out providers and programs. Through our Emergency Consumer Support Fund, we provide food, billpaying assistance, housing assistance and other needs on a one-time basis for those mentally ill going through a rough time financially and need a little help making it to the next month. Our Alzheimer’s Disease Family Support Group meets monthly and pro-
vides information, education and, most importantly, friendship and support for those providing caregiver help to those with Alzheimer’s disease. Meetings are open to the public and are held the third Tuesday of the month from 11 a.m. to noon at Spring Arbor Assisted Living, 2405 Ward Boulevard in Wilson. Educating the community about mental illness and mental wellness is a large part of what the Mental Health Association provides to our citizens. We host or take part in seminars, workshops, health fairs and community events that reach over 3,500 citizens and distribute approximately 30,000 pieces of educational material each year. We assist with providing resources and services for mentally ill residents of group homes, apartment complexes and day treatment centers located within the county. A recent expansion of our education outreach is the program titled “Women’s Connections.” Women’s Connections is a quarterly lunch program covers a range of health/mental health topics of interest and importance to Wilson women. One of MHA-Wilson’s largest projects each year is Operation Santa Claus, when over 2,000 gifts are distributed in December to over 900 persons living in area mental health facilities. For many of these patients, the gifts received through Operation Santa Claus will be the only ones they receive during the holiday season. And, as always, we are helping to fight of stigma of mental illness. Help is out there. Let’s not discourage those who are in need by making them feel unworthy. Become educated about mental illness. Become an advocate. The Mental Health Association is located in the United Way of Wilson building at 509 W. Nash Street, Wilson. A full library of books and literature regarding mental illness and mental health wellness, obtaining a diagnosis and treatment options is available at the office location. MHAWilson can be reached by phone at (252) 243-2773 and via e-mail at mhawilsonnc@gmail.com.
Courtesy of The United Way of Wilson Local boxing instructor Leroy Gray works with a young boxing student. The Mental Health Association is working with local vendors to provide “movement therapies” for youth suffering from traumatic experiences.
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THE ARC OF WILSON The Arc of Wilson County has had another great year of providing awesome social programs for the population of Wilson County residents with intellectual and developmental disabilities thanks to The United Way of Wilson County and all of the wonderful companies and individuals that support The United Way and its member agencies. The Arc of Wilson County provides many different programs for individuals with intellectual and developmental disabilities (I/DD) in Wilson. Several of these programs operate under the name of Noah’s Friends. These programs are for adults with I/DD in Wilson County ages 16 and up and anyone with I/DD is more than welcome to join at any time. Under Noah’s Friends, we have The Hope Singers, which is a group of about 25 adults with I/ DD that loves performing in Wilson at various events. The Hope Singers start practicing in September for the
performed at several of the assisted living centers in Wilson County which is always a treat. Many of the residents love having us come through and spread a little holiday cheer Courtesy of The United Way of Wilson during the weeks leadChristmas Holiday season. We usually ing up to Christmas. We also usually practice twice a month at The SPOT on end up performing at a few churches a Tuesday or Thursday evening. Once as well. The Hope Singers are always we start practicing, the Hope Singers’ more than happy to come and sing at director, Mrs. Pat Taylor, starts schedul- any event throughout the year. If anying events for us to sing. Last year we one is interested in having The Hope Singers perform during the year, please contact The Arc of Wilson County so we can find a date that works! Another popular program provided of Wilson, NC by The Arc of Wilson County is Noah’s Friends Bowling League. The Arc partnered with Wilson’s bowling alley years ago and has continued a working relationship with all of the owners since in Est. 1963 order to provide this bowling league. Noah’s Friends Bowling League meets on most Sunday evenings during the year after the bowling alley has closed where about 45 adults with I/DD come together and compete in two games each week. The cost is only two dollars per bowler and The Arc and Noah’s Friends pay two dollars per bowler as well. This helps keep our program affordable for each person who wishes to bowl. This past year we’ve had several new bowlers join and have even gained some amazing volunteers who come and assist our bowlers every week! The league is broken up in to two seasons: a fall/winter and a spring/summer league. After the two seasons finish, we have an awards and trophy night where all of our bowlers are recognized for their hard work and improvement. We
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also take a few bowlers to The North Carolina Special Olympics State competition where we usually earn several gold and silver medals while competing again A few other programs for adults with I/DD include a monthly BINGO night where we meet at The SPOT and have a great night laughing and carrying on while winning prizes with friends. During the summer months, we purchase tickets to 10 Wilson Tobs games and have outings to watch our hometown Tobs play baseball. The Arc also sponsors five or six dances throughout the year in partnership with The Women of The Moose where they prepare snacks and we have a DJ come and provide a night of socializing and dancing. Each spring, The Arc of Wilson County provides an Easter Egg Hunt that is available for all of the Exceptional Children classes in Wilson County. The Arc partners with The City of Wilson Parks and Recreation Department at The Gillette Athletic Complex where we have several thousand Easter Eggs stuffed with candy by The SPOT spread out thanks to volunteers, many of whom are police officers with the Wilson Police Department. We have the egg hunt, kickball, a big parachute and other games for the children with I/DD. This event is always a great time and give our children a fun day before Spring Break. Also in the spring, The Arc holds the Annual Taste of Wilson Fundraiser. This is our biggest fundraiser and is used to fund Camp Sunshine. Each year, we bring together as many of Wilson’s restaurants as we can to showcase their cuisine to the community. This gives many of Wilson’s residents a chance to sample food from restaurants they may not know of or have been hesitant to try as well as some of their favorite dishes from more familiar restaurants. This year we held a vote for “Wilson’s Top Taste.” First place went to Parker’s, which has been in every Taste of Wilson for the past 22 years! Then we had two restaurants who were new to Wilson this past year: Heroes Sports Oyster Bar and Grill in second and Zaxby’s in third. I’m hoping this will start a new tradi-
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tion of friendly competition between the restaurants each year to show off some of the fantastic food available in Wilson County! We also have a silent auction during The Taste of Wilson that helps bring us closer to our fundraising goal each year. There is always fantastic items available from local Wilson stores and homemade items from some very talented residents of Wilson. To cap our year off before we start the United Way Campaign season, The Arc always finishes the summer off with Camp Sunshine. This is our biggest program stretching across five weeks. This is a summer day camp that caters exclusively to children in and around Wilson County with I/DD. The age range is four to twenty one years old with long time campers being grandfathered in. Camp Sunshine runs Monday through Friday from 9:00 am to 3:00 pm each day. Once again, we partner with The SPOT where they provide us with space to hold our
camp, a bus to shuttle around town and they prepare lunch for our campers. Our daily activities include going to the BB&T Noah’s Arc Park that The Arc of Wilson County raised the money to build several years ago where all of our children are able to play. Other activities are swimming, singing classic camp songs, arts and crafts with BB&T— thanks to their Lighthouse Projects, and tons of fun. As you can see, The Arc of Wilson County offers many programs for individuals with intellectual and developmental disabilities in Wilson County and we would not be able to do so without The United Way of Wilson and all of the amazing people who support the campaign. Thank you to everyone that takes the time to read and learn about all of the member agencies. If you would like more information about The Arc, please contact our office or like us on Facebook!
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WESLEY SHELTER For 32 years, Wesley Shelter has been serving the Wilson community. Wesley Shelter started in 1983 as a shelter for battered women and children through First Methodist Church outreach and has grown into comprehensive services for domestic violence, sexual assault victims and their families, and homeless women and children. Hundreds of women and children are served through the various programs including the 24 hour crisis line and response, victim advocacy, safety planning, safe shelter, life skill and GED/ESL classes, counseling, support groups, job search, transportation and more. Male victims are also assisted. Last year, legal services began with an attorney on site. All services offered in English are also offered in Spanish through bilingual staff in the Hispanic Outreach Program. Domestic violence and sexual assault affects all races, ages, cultures, religions and socioeconomic levels One in four women is affected by domestic violence; one in five for sexual assault and 15% of victims served are male. The newest statistic shows that one in five high school females has experienced an incidence of violence. The Shelter has seen many success
stories thanks to dedicated staff, committed board and tremendous community support. Vital community partnerships are in place to help victims and their families while maximizing resources. Hundreds of women and children are helped by Wesley Shelter each year. Every single day someone’s life is positively impacted. Wesley Shelter is extremely grateful to all who support this huge mission by giving their time, talent, goods and money to make it happen. Some of the comments we hear from victims include “Thank you Wesley Shelter, you helped me gain safety for my family”, “Wesley Shelter is my guardian angel!” , “You understood what I was going through and gave me the help I needed.” Wesley Shelter receives Federal and State grants, City and County funding but it is the Wilson County individuals, businesses, churches, civic groups and the United Way that provide most of the ongoing financial support. The Clothes Line, Wesley Shelter’s resale store, is generously supported by the community through contributions of clothing, household goods and more. The Clothes Line provides revenue to
1300: Those served through the many programs. 174: Women and children sheltered. Some need short term shelter while others stay up to 10 weeks. 612: Victims served with court advocacy, temporary restraining orders, safety planning and support through the civil and legal system.
Courtesy of The United Way of Wilson help fund programs and is a resource for Wesley Shelter clients. It has just moved to a new location in The Walston Center with exciting new options, including a warehouse and pick up service. Wesley Shelter’s signature fund-
105: Children who received child care while mothers were in classes. 131: Women who participated in the Displaced Homemaker Program, including GED/ESL classes. 329: Hispanic women served in Outreach; 140 children and 20 men.
38: Rape and sexual assault victims served with crisis support.
75: Those who received a generous Christmas through community support.
78: Those who received counseling through the Licensed Clinical Social Worker.
96: Educational presentations and training to community.
513: Those who have received food, clothing, baby supplies, start-up kits, holiday gifts.
155: Individuals and groups provided 5900 hours of volunteer service through projects, programs and afterhours crisis sexual assault response.
667: Transportation trips to appointments, job search, court, and to work.
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raising event is its Strong Soles Run/ Walk and Men Pump it Up Dash. Men don high heels to dash 30 yards to show their support of the cause. A celebration/silent auction also occurs. This fun event is supported by great community participation.
SENIOR CITIZEN AFFAIRS
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Wilson Co. Office of
Senior Citizen Affairs
The Wilson County Office of Senior Citizens Affairs began in March 1981 out of the First Presbyterian Church serving 25 meals in the city of Wilson. It has certainly grown since that time. Last year we served 50,825 homedelivered meals, 17,037 congregate meals and 2,237 trips on the vans to the congregate sites. In addition to the nutritional value of the meal, each recipient receives a daily visit from our volunteers. The socialization is an important aspect of the program, as many of our clients live alone and desperately need someone to care about them. The home-delivered meals program has 15 routes all over Wilson and Wilson County. There are 10 routes out of First Presbyterian Church, one in Elm City, one in Stantonsburg, one in Lucama, the rural truck that goes door to door in the county and our box meal program. Volunteers pick up the meals from each location and deliver
exercise them to the cliprograms, ents. The only games, way we can crafts, movie have the rural day, educaroute is with tional prothe assistance grams and of the United speakers Way. also come in We have to help the four congreclients make gate sites that informed recipients go choices to eat lunch about life deand to have cisions. We fellowship also try to with others. Courtesy of The United Way of Wilson have interOur sites generational are located activities; in Stantonsburg, Lucama, Golden the recipients love to have the younger Leaf Apartments in Wilson and Elm kids come in and talk to them. City. The sites are wonderful places to Here are some comments from a few of our congregate site clients Mr. interact with others your own age and Billy & Ms. Betty. These recipients also with younger people who volunhave been coming to our site for teer at the sites. There are all kinds of many years. activities going on at the sites: Bingo,
Ms. Betty said she has lots of fun at the site. She exercises, plays dominoes, works on puzzles and enjoys the chance to talk to everyone. She said the food is really good and nutritional and that there is plenty to eat. She also volunteers when the site manager is gone. She is very helpful to everyone and they love the fact that she greets each and every person that comes into the site. Mr. Billy rides the van to get to the congregate site each day from his apartment. He really enjoys the fellowship and the chance to be able to talk to others. He loves to sing religious songs and listen to the music. All the clients love to hear him sing. The congregate sites are open Monday through Friday, from 10 a.m. to 1 p.m., if anyone is interested in going. The home-delivered meals program and the congregate program are good examples of how people can help other people, by volunteering and giving donations for the good of their community.
WILSON YOUTH UNITED – S.P.O.T. The SPOT is Growing Together with United Way in 2016! Every year many kids in Wilson go hungry, especially in the summer months. Many suffer from summer learning loss and in many cases for our teens, make life changing decisions. The SPOT is open year round serving healthy meals all summer, utilizing project based learning curriculums in the summer to prevent learning loss and host teens all year long. Over 200 kids will attend the SPOT summer programs and will be in a safe structured environment
because of the United Way of Wilson County and our local citizens and businesses. The BB&T Youth Center is home of the SPOT and through partnerships with our public school teachers, local churches and civic groups, the SPOT kids enjoy a safe, educational and structured environment. After school, summer camps, sports and life skills are four ingredients that let the SPOT members grow together for brighter future in Wilson County.
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WILSON CRISIS CENTER
reminder to take medicaOur mission at the Crisis Center is to extend a tions. The total outgoing helping hand to those in calls made in 2014 was need, 24 hours a day, 365 316,455. These services days a year. Since 1971 have enabled many to the Wilson Crisis Center live in their homes lonhas been talking with ger, and has relieved people to assess their some stress on busy needs and if necessary working families. Caring refer to the appropriate relationships have develresources. All calls are oped between the center confidential. and its clients. When Each caller is treated calls are not answered with respect and dignity, at designated times the realizing that sometimes executive director checks it is difficult to ask for on them. She goes to help. Volunteers are their homes and if necestrained to talk with callsary calls 911 for assisers. Anyone calling tance. We are their family (252)237-5156 can immeand the Crisis Center is a safety net for many that diately talk with someone live alone. The execuwho will listen and care. There is a wealth of tive director visits each Courtesy of The United Way of Wilson person that is called so information available at the Crisis Center and the Hello and Med Calls Our mission at the Wilson Crisis Center is to extend a helping hand to those all calls are not crisis recipients know who we calls. Some of the more are and she is aware of in need, 24 hours a day, every day. Since 1971 the Wilson Crisis Center common problems their surroundings, living has been talking with people to assess their needs and, if necessary, addressed include ficonditions, and health needs. The Crisis Cennancial difficulties, subrefer to the appropriate resources. All calls are confidential. stance abuse, domestic ter has rescued several violence, mental health individuals when their and 100+ teens took part in the festiviemergencies, relationship difficulties, homes were being invaded by robThere is a separate Teen Help Line, loneliness, depression, and thoughts ties. The prom brought the younger bers or someone wanting to do harm. (252)243-6444, available Monday of suicide. With the N. C. Mental and older generations together for an Recently several have been unable to through Friday between 4-8 p.m. OldHealth Reform, the agency is seeevening of fun, good food, and dancing. get out of the bed or bathroom due to er teens and young adult volunteers Since 2001, a separate hotline has strokes, vertigo, and injuries caused talk with teens about their questions ing more mental health related calls, been available to help the growing by falling. All were grateful to the and concerns. Many calls about sex, which include suicide calls. Incoming Spanish speaking community. Centro Crisis Center. We want to be certain pregnancy, sexually transmitted discalls for 2014 totaled 11,640. We have De Crisis/Linea De Ayuda Hispana, their quality of life is enhanced by our received 5,973 calls through the end of eases, bullying, and relationship diffi(252)237-7626, is a 24-hour information Center. June, 2015. With all the calls we are culties have been addressed. The Teen and referral hotline that has assisted Volunteers are essential to the Crireceiving, we will definitely exceed help Line provided assistance to 3,587 hundreds of callers since it began. 2014 totals. callers during 2014. To date through sis Center. Training is provided and Callers hear a Spanish message giving Help resources may be many of June, 2015 the number is 1806. The scheduling of volunteer hours is flexa host of information about community the agencies in Wilson, and may also teens collected and delivered 900+ ible. Volunteers work 2 hour shifts resources, addresses, hours of service include toll free numbers, support “Wish Bags” filled with soap, deodorfrom 8 a.m. – 8 p.m. at the office. At 8 and if an interpreter is needed. The togroups, or just information. The Crisis p.m. the line is forwarded to a volunant, shampoo, towels, washcloths, Center is also the telephone number socks, paper products, and other tal number of calls for 2014 was 2,211. teer’s number for the overnight coverfor Alcoholics Anonymous, Al-Anon, necessities to seniors, disabled, and In addition to the incoming calls, age. Even during inclement weather, Narcotics Anonymous, and maintains mentally challenged individuals. What volunteers also make outgoing calls the phone lines are operational and the current meeting information in the a worthwhile service to the Wilson to senior citizens and disabled adults the service is available to callers and area. In addition, the Center is an after- community! Teens repeated history through the Daily Hello & Med Calls the seniors. You may call the Center hours contact to the domestic violence this year by celebrating the third year Programs. Currently 860+ people are at (252)237-5156 leave your name and shelter, rape crisis, mental health cenof the Senior-Senior Prom in Wilson called daily between 5 a.m. and 12 p.m. address and an application will be County. Approximately 400 seniors for a telephone visit, safety check, or a mailed to you. ter, and homeless shelters.
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Some things our volunteers hear are: “The Wilson Crisis Center is my 24/7 security blanket. They call me twice a day to remind me to eat and take my medicine. I have had two strokes and walk with a cane/walker. I have fallen several times and the Executive Director has rescued me on many occasions and assisted in getting me the medical attention I need. They are my “Lifesavers” and my family. The Wilson Crisis Center has assisted me with my medicine, food, and personal items. My health is better now because of their calls and visits. All of them let me know someone cares and loves me.” “Please help my children….we have no food and their father has taken all of the money and food. He has hit my two oldest sons and me. We need your help!” “I have no place to stay and no money to buy food. I am at the bus station
with my two grandchildren. My daughter made us leave her home and the children are so frightened. Where can we go?” “A young teen called……has to do Community Service for possession of illegal drugs. I need your help because no one cares what happens to me. I have no idea where my parents are or where they live. I live with my uncle and he can’t take care of me. He has five children of his own and I have to move to another place. Please help me…” “I want to Volunteer and give back to others but I know I am not able to do this because of my challenges. Will you please help me to overcome these barriers so I can help others and myself feel good ?” “Wow!!! The teens from the Teen Help Line came to our nursing home this afternoon and played bingo with all of us. The prizes were dishwashing
liquid, soap, paper products, etc. We needed all of these items but most of all we needed to be with these young people. We gathered around the piano and held hands as we sang some songs together. Lots of laughter and hugs shared by all. Our young people are AWESOME!!!” “I need help!!! I need to get my blood pressure medicine filled but I have no money to pay for it or insurance. I have no transportation and I have to use a walker. Please help me. I have to have this medicine to live. I don’t want to die!!!” “Please help us…we need food but have no transportation to pick it up. I have your Daily Schedule of Food Pantries/Meals in Wilson County but can’t get there. I have four children and they are hungry.” “I am so lonely and I am going to end it all. I am unemployed and my family and friends do not want me around. I am
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a loser! I have no desire to live and no one is going to change my mind.” The crisis center was able to listen to this person and reach out a helping hand. She was able to find employment and after therapy, the person starting volunteering with different projects at the crisis center. She states “I am able to make a positive difference in the world and the Wilson Crisis Center has changed my whole attitude and outlook on making this a better world for all of us.” Without the United Way and so many caring volunteers, the Wilson Crisis Center could not be there 24 hours a day, every day.
If you or someone you know need services or would like to volunteer please call Nancy Sallenger, Executive Director at (252)237-5156 or e-mail us at wcrisiscenter@yahoo.com.
Y.O.U.T.H. OF WILSON Our mission for 33 years at Y.O.U.T.H. OF WILSON includes positively developing our youth to be successful youth today and as adults, rehabilitating youth offenders and compensating victims of juvenile crimes. The key to successfully carrying out this mission each year are the volunteers that give many hours to the youth referred to these programs. Each program has volunteers that are unique in what they do for the youth. Y.O.U.T.H. of Wilson County is a REFERRAL ONLY agency that provides prevention and intervention services to youth ages 6 – 17, depending on the program. These services include one-on-one mentoring, couple mentoring, group mentoring, tutoring, community service/restitution, graffiti removal and our new service parent/guardian consultation. Referral sources include parents/ guardians, Division of Juvenile Justice, Department of Social Services, Wilson County Schools, law enforcement agencies, teen court and other youth serving agencies. The volunteers for the mentoring program spend a minimum of 8 hours each month with a youth that they have been matched with in this program. Imagine as a young person having someone that you can talk to when you are having a bad day or share a celebration that happen at school, such as being named “Student of the Month”, or even just going to a movie and sharing some popcorn for some fun. These volunteers assist these young people with academics, character development, career development, health and nutrition and other areas of their lives. Many of these volunteers spend on average 1215 hours per month with the young person with whom they are matched. We are thankful to our volunteers: 2014 Volunteer of the Year, Ms. Shirley Powell, along with Mr. Grady Daniels, Mr. Ronald Coley, Mr. Richard Beck, Ms. Alicia Winstead, Pam Evans, Marvin Watson, Lambert Guinn and Jamario Holmes. The volunteers for the community service/restitution program are the many community service worksites that are valuable to our program. These are the worksites that agree to supervise our youth when we place a young person
at this site to perform their community service or the worksites that our organization partners with to complete valuable projects. The worksites include: The 2014 Worksite of the Year, Wilson Agricultural Center, as well as Wilson County Schools, the Wesley Shelter, Wilson Habitat for Humanity and the Restore, Wilson Parks and Recreation, Wilson Police Department, and City of Wilson, just to name a few. Our partnership with the community business owners for the graffiti removal program has saved thousands to the businesses, as we provide the labor and supplies so as there is no cost to the business owner. These community partners offer valuable life skills to our young people that have been referred to Y.O.U.T.H. of Wilson to complete court ordered community service/restitution. These young people are held accountable for their poor judgements, must attend school, not get suspended, attend life skill classes and show progress of improvement while in the program. These volunteers are key to their success. The consultation program is by appointment only for parents/guardians of young people that demonstrating behavioral issues at home, school and/ or in the community. We will assist parents/guardians with a plan, options and resources so they do not feel as though they are alone in this matter. Young people today need someone to trust, talk to regularly and give them hope that they can succeed. For 33 years, volunteers have been the heart and foundation of the success of the Y.O.U.T.H. of Wilson. From the Board of Directors, to the BB&T Lighthouse volunteers, to Bridgestone, to the ones that spend valuable time with our young people that are referred to our organization for one reason or another. Eight hours monthly can change a young person’s life by keeping them in school and graduating and becoming a doctor or firefighter or banker. Can you spare 8 hours a month to build a dream? Volunteers are needed every day to make an impact in a child’s life, so if YOU want to be that “HOPE” in a child’s life, please email us at youthofwilson@myglnc.com or call us at 252-243-3675.
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Flynn Christian Fellowship Home
FLYNN CHRISTIAN HOME
Addiction is a complex disease that victimizes the individual, the family and the community. For many who are often dually diagnosed, brief hospitalization is not enough. There is often a long history of behavior patterns and habits that impair personal relationships, employment and the ability to stay clean when confronted with the stresses of everyday life. For individuals in this situation, there is the Flynn Christian Fellowship Home. Removing the alcohol or drugs from a man’s system is simply the first step. Success requires a new approach to life, a new way of living. As the book Alcoholics Anonymous puts it: “Alcohol Courtesy of The United Way of Wilson was but a symptom of our problems.” For many men, going back into Since 1969, the Flynn Christian Feltheir home environment too soon is a lowship Home of Wilson has helped great hindrance to recovery. A person thousands of men break free from the disease of addiction and continue their in early recovery “…needs to change his playmates and his playground.” recovery to lead fulfilling, productive The Flynn Christian Fellowship Home lives. of Wilson provides that opportunity. For the better part of 45 years, the The Flynn Christian Fellowship Flynn Home has been successful in Home is open to any male 18 years of helping men overcome active drug age or older with a history of drug and and alcohol addiction. Our supportive alcohol abuse and a desire to maintain residential program creates sustaina drug and alcohol free lifestyle. All able positive change and growth in clients must have completed a detoxiprogram participants’ lives. The Flynn Christian Fellowship fication process prior to entering the Home provides a structured therapeuprogram. The Flynn Home provides a structured environment in which the tic and residential environment that resident can practice the skills neceshelps men who are recovering from the disease of addiction gain control sary for independent living. Responof their lives, generate hope for their sibility and freedom increase as they future and accomplish new goals. We accomplish established goals. offer opportunities for growth and The Flynn Christian Fellowship change in a supportive atmosphere. Home, a proud United Way partner
agency, provides a structured residential setting to individuals recovering from the disease of addiction and addresses the issue of relapse, i.e. the return to active drug or alcohol abuse after an extended period of abstinence. Many of these individuals have been clinically diagnosed with co-existing conditions. Some have mental health issues, while some are challenged with physical disabilities. Ninety-eight percent are financially needy when entering the program. Our residents are referred from public and private agencies in Wilson County and its surrounding areas. Our programs are available to any man who meets the criteria, regardless of ethnicity, religion, or the initial ability to pay. An improved admissions process has resulted in the most appropriate applicants be-
ing accepted into our programs. All participants must abstain from drug abuse and alcohol use. They must also obtain permanent employment (unless on disability), pay rent and participate in the prescribed counseling. In addition to paying rent, each resident is required to perform chores at the Home and become active participants in the recovery programs of Alcoholics Anonymous or Narcotics Anonymous. Residents are required to attend an in-house meeting each week and to attend a total of four AA or NA meetings per week. A church service can also count as one of the four. The Flynn Christian Fellowship Home is governed by an active Board of Directors and run by a paid fulltime, non-resident Director who works from an office in the Home.
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