Woman To Woman With Joanne The Magazine's July Issue 2019

THE MAGAZINE July 2019 • Issue 25

10 WAYS TO MANAGE YOUR MENTAL HEALTH

WOMEN IN POLITICS Gorgeous Grandma Day

MICHAELA HARPER

Journey to the Miss Mississippi Pageant

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his month’s issue is so exciting.

We are sharing some of Mississippi’s women who have decided to run for political office and we are so privileged to have this opportunity.

The idea is to share a bit of their personal story to help you as the reader and voter get to know them a little better so that you can make an informed decision when you get to the polls. I encourage each one of you to exercise you right to vote. It means so much and it's just about you doing your part to protect your rights.

This month is also the month we celebrate Independence Day! Be sure to spend time with your family, not only on the holiday but every chance you are able. Do all the fun things you think you don’t have time to do. This life is but a vapor. Spend it with family as often as possible.

Love ya much!

Joanne

In This Issue Michaela Harper, Journey to Miss Mississippi Pageant..............................................06 10 Ways To Manage Your Mental Health.....................................................................10 Women In Mississippi Politics ....................................................................................12 Symptoms of a Heart Attack In Women.......................................................................50 Why Perfect People Hate Themselves.........................................................................62 Mya Bell's Sunsets and Flowers...................................................................................63 The Broach Approach..................................................................................................64

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MICHAELA HARPER

My Journey To The Miss Mississippi Pageant

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Michaela Harper has always dreamed of competing in the Miss Mississippi Pageant. As a teenager, she would watch the pageant on television and wish she could do that. At that time, she weighed 220 pounds. This was her heaviest, she struggled with self-esteem, stage fright, and she never felt smart enough because of learning disabilities. This made school very challenging for her, and she never pursued her dream because of fear.

HERE IS HER STORY:

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fter graduating with my master’s degree and working as a Behavior Specialist, my dream to compete resurfaced in 2018 as I expanded my role as a mentor.

One of the things I always have my mentees do is write a list of five things that scare them. During our time together we try to complete at least one of those items. Long story short, I felt like a hypocrite. I was telling my mentees to do something that scared them when I wouldn't do what scared me.

I told myself that the time to face one of my biggest fears was now. I felt I not only owed it to my mentees to face my fears, but I also owed it to myself.

TELL US ABOUT YOUR JOURNEY FROM WINNING MISS PEARL RIVER VALLEY TO THE MISS MISSISSIPPI PAGEANT. I competed in my first pageant on my birthday, November 18th. I won the title of Miss Pearl River Valley, which was a preliminary pageant for the Miss Mississippi competition.

This was a whole new world for me. I was competing with young women who have been competing in pageants since they could walk. I felt outside of my element, so much so, that I tried to convince myself I shouldn’t even try, but I knew I couldn’t give up. It wasn’t about me, it was about those I could help along the way.

While on this journey, I met many amazing people who encouraged, prepared, and supported me in ways I never would have imagined.

The Miss Mississippi competition has four phases: Private interview, Evening wear/social impact initiative, Talent, and Onstage question.

Preparing for these phases required

time and effort. I was blessed to have my directors (each candidate is assigned directors after winning a preliminary pageant) Martha Lee, Terry Fleming, and Carroll Pierce who tirelessly helped me in every aspect of the competition including wardrobe. In addition, I was connected with Michael Marks, the founder of stagestylestudy.com who

also helped prepare me for interview and talent.

I have been given many unique opportunities this year as Miss Pearl River Valley, such as helping raise $40,000 for Homes of Hope, Emceeing the annual Sí Robertson tournament/meeting Uncle Si from Duck Dynasty, speaking at Rotary

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clubs advocating for children and families with disabilities (My Social Impact Initiative) and much more.

When the week of Miss Mississippi finally arrived, I knew my preparation would help me do well in the competition. I placed 12th out of 45 candidates with only seven months of preparation. I am told it typically takes 2-3 years to make it into the top 15. I am not only proud of this accomplishment but grateful. In addition to placing 12th, I walked away with Scholarship money to help fund my doctoral degree, experiences that helped me grow, connections that will help benefit others, friendships that are pure, and memories I will forever hold dear.

Preparing for Miss Mississippi helped me develop a stronger and more resilient version of myself.

I believe competing in the Miss Mississippi Corporation builds character, tests your integrity, pushes you to strive for greatness, and teaches/reinforces important values and knowledge that will stay with you for a lifetime. I am now more confident, in better shape mentally and physically, closer with my family and friends, more involved in the community, taking charge over my life, and helping inspire others, all because I faced my fears.

The Miss Mississippi Corporation strives to not only prepare the world for great women but it also prepares great women for the world. After this experience, I honestly feel as though my opportunities are now surfacing, not because they provide them but because I am no longer afraid of opportunities. For that, I am forever grateful to the Miss Mississippi Corporation.

SHARE YOUR TRIALS AND TRIUMPHS AND ALL THAT YOU WOULD LIKE FOR US TO KNOW. There is a story that ends with, “When you see a turtle on top of a

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fence, there is one thing you know for sure, it did not get there on its own.”

Growing up can be tough. My military father died when I was young leaving my mother to raise two children on her own. I also had invisible undiagnosed disabilities as a child making it difficult for me to learn, but my mother retaught school every day for 6 years to help me be successful. I grew up in a neighborhood that was then filled with drugs and violence. I was heavily overweight, had low selfesteem, and questioned my worth and abilities constantly. As I grew up, life and love helped shape me into a woman I am proud of.

Managing my time while being a full-time employee, working out and eating healthy to get into shape, making appearances, and finding my competition wardrobe, were just a handful of the trials I faced throughout these past seven months, but all of those trials turned to triumphs with the help of many amazing people such as my directors, coach, family, friends, church members, strangers and the owners of Glitz and Glamour of Byram who sponsored most of my competition gowns.

One of my most memorable and inspirational triumphs was having to find an evening gown ten days before the competition started.

An unfortunate event took place leaving me with the strain to find a new gown at the last minute. I found a dress that fit perfectly from Secret Siren in D’Iberville, MS which was great because I had no time to get it altered, but it lacked the wow factor according to my brother whose opinion I value deeply. So, I took matters into my own hands, literally. I went to JoAnn’s and found fabric for a cape and gold and silver (they ran out of gold so I had to add silver) appliqués to give the dress a little personality and flare. I was

so nervous that my dress would not be up to par because I did the alterations and additions myself.

To my surprise, the judges loved it and I was awarded the evening gown and social impact initiative preliminary award. Although it was not an ideal circumstance and was nothing like I planned, this gown has become a true reflection of my life and my testimony of triumph over adversity.

WHAT WOULD YOU SAY TO ENCOURAGE YOUNG GIRLS TO REACH FOR THEIR DREAMS? I would encourage all women to do the things that scare them. I was reminded of how contagious fearlessness can be. We have to run towards those things that scare us and never back down from a

challenge, not just because it is something you need to do, but because that is the essence of living as a woman; to inspire women of all ages to face challenges head-on, to have faith, to believe in themselves despite the odds. It may be frightening and you may not always come out on top but the lessons learned, the experience gained, and the memories made are the beauty of it all. If we never take that leap into the unknown, we may never know what we are capable of, but I for one cannot wait to continue to find out. No matter what, we are all wearing crowns. We must keep our heads held high so our crowns don't slip. It is my hope that we all find who we really are and show the world what we are capable of. We are women. Our time is now. Let’s do this.

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10 Ways

TO MANAGE OUR MENTAL HEALTH

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ay is Mental Health Awareness Month and we wanted to share a few tips to help you manage your mental health. Please take a minute to read these tips to help you manage your mental health. They may be of use to you in your everyday life.

done, going to work, going to class, and so on and so forth. Then you can build up into larger goals like studying abroad. Goal setting is super important for finding the will to live for those of you who struggle with suicidal thoughts and feelings. Having something to look forward to, something to strive towards, to work towards - it makes a world of difference. It keeps

1. Routines Creating a routine for yourself can make waves in improving your mental health. Setting alarms, making a calendar, and developing routines that vary hourly, daily, weekly, monthly, and even annually can help you stay calm and focused.

2. Goal Setting If you find yourself struggling, give yourself a list of goals to achieve.

Start small with daily goals such as getting an assignment

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your “eye on the prize”, so to speak, which can mean life or death for some. When the world seems like nothing but a dark place, you are reminded that maybe there is something out there for you after all.

3. Physical Health This is one I personally need to work on. Eating healthy (you’re allowed to splurge, but generally take care of your body) and getting exercise have been proven time and again to improve mental state. Just going for daily walks, biking down the road, and choosing vegetables over red meat can seriously help with your general mood.

4. Staying Prepared You’re going to slip up. You’re going to have your moments. But that doesn’t mean you have to lose control. Keeping your loved ones and the people close to you in the know about your needs can help them be prepared for your breaks and can also help maintain your personal relationships. Develop coping skills like relaxing your stomach when you’re panicking, deep breathing exercises, meditation, yoga, distraction tolerance and mindfulness are all useful practices for coping.

5. Prioritizing Yourself I don’t mean selfishness. I mean taking care of your needs before jumping onto someone else’s mess.

Make sure you’re okay before diving into anything. Do self checks and ask yourself questions such as, “How have I been managing lately?”, “Am I breathing okay?” and little things like such. Not everyone can always be there for you, so you have to learn how to calm yourself down in a safe and effective manner where no one, not even you, gets hurt. Refer to coping mechanisms to get to a safe place.

6. Surround Yourself With Positivity Unfortunately, you can’t choose your family. You can’t always pack up and ditch them either. So how do we manage negative people in our lives that we can’t just drop? This goes back to taking care of yourself.

Surrounding yourself with people who are positive influences can help outweigh the negative influences in your life. An unsupportive family is truly a terrible affliction, but it’s not always avoidable. Learning to manage your family is essential.

Learn to communicate with them effectively and if they won’t budge, accept it. It’s likely not going to change and it’s best to move onto things that you can control rather

than lingering on what you have no power over.

7. Get A Hobby Seriously. Get a hobby. Find something you love from writing to sports, from painting to hiking.

Just finding that something in your life to motivate you and give you some distraction from your symptoms, some peace amidst the chaos - it’s absolutely essential. My hobby is writing and hiking. Getting a job has also helped with my “will to live” quest because having that obligation forces me to keep my head above water. Give your life some spice. Find something to do that will give you that extra

Take care of yourself. Love yourself. Embrace yourself. Manage your life. Stop looking to be cured and look instead to be you. push and make you happy. Your happiness is more important than you think.

8. Look Nice It may seem like such a small thing, looking nice, but it can be a game changer. Put on makeup, wear nice clothing, do your hair, put on deoderant (please), do something so that when you look in the mirror, you’re satisfied with the result. Although you may never be perfect in your eyes, you can find confidence in making yourself presentable. Do it for you. Then when you have those days, and

we all have those days, you don’t have to feel bad for dressing down knowing that every other day you keep yourself together. It may not be everyone’s cup of tea, but confidence is a shining quality that needs to be more sought out in our society. Wear those nice shoes. The only one stopping you is you.

9. Eliminate Stress (Where You Can) Taking 18 credits? Doing 12 different volunteer programs? Participating in every club and losing free time?

Stop. Just take a step back and reevaluate what it is exactly you need and what is unnecessary. Don’t take on things that could eliminate “you” time and don’t unnecessarily stress yourself out. Taking on too much at once will only make things worse. Don’t be afraid to not overachieve for once.

10. Change Is A Good Thing Do not fear change. Change can sometimes be for the better. Make changes to your life, switch things up on occasion. Although routine is essential, so is change. Having an even balance of change and routine can help keep that juggling of chaos and peace much smoother.

If something isn’t working out, don’t be afraid to change it. Don’t be afraid to change your style, some of your bad habits. Just because you’re used to it doesn’t always mean it’s good.

Take care of yourself. Love yourself.

Embrace yourself. Manage your life.

Stop looking to be cured and look instead to be you. You are not your mental illness. It doesn’t have to control you. Inevitably it will impact and be a part of your life but you can do that and be healthy at the same time. You may never be completely okay, but you can be happy.

Source: www.theodysseyonline.com

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Salute To Mississippi Women In Polit ics.

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JILL FORD

House of Representatives District 73 I ran for Supervisor 4 years ago and lost by 37 votes. Afterwards, I did not feel defeated. I felt empowered.

So, I gathered women of all ages, denominations, and races to pray around the state with me. Inherit Movement was formed and we prayed over all 82 counties within one year for the future of our children and grandchildren’s spiritual inheritance.

I am passionate about people and missions. I have served my church for over 20 years and during that time have been on numerous mission trips from right here in the Mississippi Delta to around the world.

I have not encountered any opposition at all as a woman running for political office. However, I am not a sensitive person. I grew up in a house full of brothers, and have raised two sons.

I don’t allow my feelings to get hurt easily and I really don’t look for others to oppose me. I can go toe to toe with just about anybody. And it will never phase me.

I am passionate about protecting our property values. Law Enforcement, Public Education and Infrastructure will be my main focus along with trying to get a handle on the drug epidemic we face in Mississippi.

I would advise any woman desiring to run for political office to meet as many people as you can every single day –

enlarge your territory. And if you lose, lose gracefully. You will win the hearts of the people. And God can use you for something bigger.

Born and raised in Corinth, Mississippi, Jill Ford has a paralegal degree from North East Mississippi Community College. On a daily basis she is a licensed Real Estate Broker and she owns her own company, Ford & Company, LLC. She is also the Creator of Gatherings.design but Since the beginning of the year, she has put her small businesses on hold while she pursues the office at the State Senate.

She and her husband Mike Ford have been married for almost 33 years and they have two sons, Patton and Crockett. They have both returned to Madison, MS after college to pursue their careers and raise their families.

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Cassandra Welchlin

MS Legislature House of Representatives District 68

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assandra Welchlin has been serving her community and carrying the people’s torch for equity and justice to the policy table on behalf of women and children, working families, and disenfranchised communities because laws and policy matter to people’s kitchen table. She is an advocate, organizer and agent of change whose work spans over fifteen years reforming public policy and organizing for power.

Her leadership has led to legislative & administrative policy wins at the local, state, and federal level on child care, women’s wages, juvenile justice reform, public education and school discipline, protecting the safety net programs that keep food on the table and working people working. She personally understands the struggle for equity and justice because she was raised by a single mom who worked across the street from the state Capitol making $2.13. She wants to see Mississippi families thrive because when they thrive Mississippi thrives.

“I’ve been doing the people’s business as an advocate with courage, leadership, expertise and truth. I am prepared to do the people’s business as a lawmaker by passing laws that are equitable, just and prioritizes the people.”

Welchlin was born and raised in Jackson, MS. She attended Jackson State University with a BA in Social Work and Brandies University at the Heller School for Social with a MA of Arts.

“I had a loving family that was intentional about caring and serving

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each other and living by faith. I learned service from my grandmother and justice from my mother. Community is weaved into the DNA of Mississippi.

Mississippi is complex yet rich in culture, history and a commitment from the people to make long lasting change. I’ve learned as a change agent that the arch of justice bends slowly but it bends when we are willing to build unusual and strategic partnerships and sit on people’s front porches to drink sweet tea and eat grits at the kitchen table.”

On a day to day basis Welchlin works in the field of Racial and Gender Equity, and Economic Justice. She is the coconvener of the MS Black Women’s Roundtable, an intergenerational statewide network dedicated to increasing civic engagement and voter participation among the Black community with special emphasis on championing equitable public policy on behalf of Black women and girls in Mississippi and across the South.

MS BWR works to secure racial and gender equity and justice for Black women and girls and build a leadership infrastructure to facilitate the shifting of power by tackling longstanding inequities in Mississippi through civic engagement.

When asked if she has encountered any opposition as a woman running for political office, her response was, “I have not. My experience has been very positive from the support of the community.”

Her main focus should she win the election will be investing in working families to increase wages, and provide better jobs, investing in MS

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Public Education especially for special needs children and teachers across the board.

Welchlin loves nature and believes we must preserve it for future generations.

She would advise any woman running for political office to assemble a team of wise counsel, push through fear, attend a training program, and commit.

Welchlin is married with three children, two girls, ages 14 and 11 and one boy age 8. She and her family reside in Jackson, MS.

RAMONA Q. BLACKLEDGE MS State Representative District 88 Born in Newton, MS and raised in Laurel, MS, Ramona Q. Blackledge loves Mississippi.

“Mississippi has been a great place to grow up and raise my children. I love small towns, the rural countryside and our way of living. I love that Mississippi has a wonderful musical heritage. But I did find that prejudice existed in race and in gender.”

“When I graduated high school in 1970, my guidance counselor and my mother told me to be a secretary (I wanted to go to Mississippi University for Women (MUW) to major in commercial art). The guidance counselor said I’d have to move away to get a job; my mother simply said I was not going. I was an obedient kid. Thankfully, attitudes have improved over the years, and are continuing to change for the better.”

“When I began working for county government in 1973, it was the good ‘ol boy system.

Evelyn Gandy, the first female elected to a statewide office, was a role model and inspiration.

She also served in the House as Representative from Forrest County. So, I hung in the system for better or worse and the Lord brought me to a position of leadership in 1988.”

On a day to day basis, Blackledge is an elected official, serving as Jones County’s Tax Assessor-Collector for 30 years. In that position she administers all aspects of assessing the properties,mapping, vehicle and mobile home registrations, and collecting taxes. Prior to her election in1988, she worked for 14 ½ years for the Jones County Boardof Supervisors and ChanceryClerks.

“I love public service. It has been my calling for over 40 years. I knew it was time for me to leave this position as a county official, but I felt led to continue serving people on the state level. I believe I can be a positive leader and perhaps provide a different prospective to proposed legislation.”

“My primary focus is the protection of vulnerable adults, handicapped individuals, at risk children, victims of abuse, and the unborn. I will be an advocate for our veterans, public education and economic development that ensures jobs for Mississippians.”

When asked if she has met any opposition as a woman running for public office, her response was, “I haven’t met anyone who objects to my current campaign or who expressed opposition during my eight terms as Tax Assessor-Collector.

During my first campaign for public office in 1987, I met an elderly Pentecostal preacher who believed that a woman should govern over men. I respected his position. I won over two men in the race.”

“It may interest people to know that I am a God-fearing, saved-by-grace woman. I am a survivor of sexual and emotional abuse, so I am a strong proponent of laws for abuse crimes. I believe the Word of God and try to follow it in my daily life.

It will definitely be my guide as I represent my district. Additionally, I am a singer/songwriter. I was with a gospel group for over 15 years (3 CDs) and have done 2 solo project CDs with original lyrics and music.”

My advice to other women desiring to run for public office is to pray first, then go for it! Believe in yourself.

Always be truthful. Have a sense of humor!

Blackledge is single and currently lives in Laurel, MS. She is the mother of two children (a son and a daughter) and five grandchildren (2 boys and 3 girls). She also has two dogs.

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ANNITA BONNER Justice Court Judge for Hinds County District 4 - Clinton, Byram, and Raymond

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he moment that defined Annita Bonner’s decision to run for Justice Court Judge was a year ago when she found herself advocating on behalf of a young man in the foster care system. “He was facing removal from Mississippi’s foster care system, which meant he would be sent back to California due to his behavioral problems. I fought for this young man because I believe that all people deserve a second chance and that one unfavorable situation does not determine a person's worth.

Despite fighting for him, he was transferred back to California without a stable home and with only the bags in his hands. The situation as a whole made me aware of how many cases, similar to this one, were concluded but never thoroughly resolved. This realization led me to run for Justice Court Judge so that I can play a role in ensuring that all people who enter my court are given a fair and empathetic hearing, regardless of the size of their case.”

I am a Mississippi girl at heart and life here is all I have ever experienced.

While I have had a fair share of both positive and negative experiences in Mississippi, I feel the most pervasive thing I have experienced is the

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recurring understatement of my education and experience due solely on the fact that I am a woman.

As a woman running for political office, I would not explain the problems that I have faced as being “opposed” but as not being heard. I initially anticipated that people would be as excited about this race as I am. However, I have often had to advocate on behalf of myself as well as encourage the constituents of District 4 to get involved.

As Justice Court Judge for Hinds County District 4, my focus will be to serve every individual who enters my courtroom with respect and fairness that clearly and consistently applies equal repercussions to all individuals while also empowering victims to seek the protections they are entitled to.

At one time in my life, I lived in a shelter with my three-year-old son because of an abusive relationship with my ex-husband. The experience caused me to doubt myself. I spent a year learning to love myself and be a better mother. To extend my love to others, I am now joining the ranks of fostering children. Fostering children will allow me to not to sit by and see children that need a loving home. I

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am glad I am able to be a resource for these children.

I am a single mother of two boys, Austin and De’Arras. I added to our little family when Tyshawn became a member of our family. Also, I cannot leave out Blue our fur baby. I currently work as a benefit analyst for a state agency and on a daily basis my job is to provide high quality and timely services to thousands of members across Mississippi. I am held to a standard to protect members’ personal information and to stay abreast on policies, procedures, and board regulations.

I was born in Waynesboro, Mississippi.

I attended Jones County Junior College for my Associates degree and Jackson State University where I received a Bachelor of Science. Several years later, I completed a Master's degree in Public Administration at Belhaven University.

I am a resident of Clinton, Mississippi.

As a woman running for a public office, I would advise other woman to stop hesitating! You have what it takes to lead. You are bold and brave and when you speak up- you empower other women to do the same!

CHERAMIE KAY MITCHELL Mississippi State Senate, District 35

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was born in Hattiesburg, MS at Forrest General Hospital on January 25, 1980. My family moved to Houston, Texas when I was 18 months old due to a recession, and my father went where there was work. We moved to Florence, MS when I was 13 years old where I graduated from Florence High School in 1998.

I’ve resided in Rankin County ever since. I graduated from Hinds Nursing Allied in 2001 with an Associate's Degree in Nursing. I currently live in Clear Branch area which is outside the city limits of Florence, MS in the county of Rankin.

I love Mississippi and it is my home! I am blessed to raise my children here and there isn’t another state I’d rather be in. The Nation tends to paint our state as backwards and less than, but I’ve seen the best of Mississippi and I often do. I love the people here and we know the importance of hard work and helping each other. I still believe Mississippi is one of the most conservative states in our nation, but like every state we still have our own issues. Every community has its own set of obstacles but there are still plenty of good people left in Mississippi to help push and pull us over the obstacles, as long as they know that we’re working hard for them.

I am a Homeschool mom and Political Activist/Community Organizer. I am also on the Campaign trail full time on a daily

basis. I’m blessed to have married my best friend, Robert Mitchell, who is also a fellow Political Activist as of January 5th, 2019. Between us we have 7 wonderful children which makes for a very active lifestyle. One of God’s true gifts to me is a very close relationship with my parents who help us tremendously. I have an amazing support system and my family is very involved in my campaign.

I decided to run for this particular office mostly because I feel the people of my district deserve true transparent representation and a dedicated conservative voice that will fight for what they believe in. Although it’s somewhat embarrassing to speak of myself in this way, if I could make my constituents understand one thing about me, it would be how passionate and determined I am to return the power of government back to the people, which is where it belongs.

There is always opposition to new faces in the Political arena however, I do believe it is worse for women.

Although most politically active people that I have met were kind and encouraging, even if we didn’t agree on everything, there have been some who have expressed their desire to see all women “Get back in the kitchen....” Although I see this to be an intimidation tactic rather than a sincere belief from them.

My main focus, should I get elected will be getting the constituents in my District involved and more engaged in the political process. I will always stand up for the second amendment, parental rights, pro-life, lower taxes, fiscal responsibility, limited government and other conservative issues. Even though I have firm convictions and beliefs, I do not claim to know everything and I realize that only with constituent input can anyone offer true representation.

I would advise any woman running for political office to be prepared to fight. Make sure that you have a solid support system in place prior to running for any political position and never ever let anyone tell you that you can’t do this!

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DEBRA HENDRICKS GIBBS

Re-Election for House of Representatives District 72 courage and will power. I stood on my ancestor’s shoulders with persistence and determination to make them proud. My experience living in Mississippi has shaped me to have a ‘servant’s heart’ and to be thankful.”

Debra Hendricks Gibbs

was born and raised on the Gulf Coast in Gulfport, Mississippi.

She attended the University of Southern Mississippi where she earned a B.S. in Accounting.

Following her undergraduate studies, she attended Mississippi College where she earned a Master’s in Business Administration. She also holds a Doctor of Jurisprudence from the Mississippi College School of Law. Additionally, she has also earned a certification in Supervisory Management from the State Personnel Board and the Certified Public Manager Advisory Board.

I currently reside in Jackson, Mississippi.

“I grew up in a loving family who supported me in all of my endeavors. I was encouraged to pursue academic excellence and to treat people the way I wanted to be treated, with honesty and truth. These principles have guided me from a small city on the Gulf Coast to now being one of 174 state lawmakers in Mississippi. Yes, there have been barriers living here in Mississippi, but I come from a people who knew who they were, who were not afraid of hard work, and who had

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Gibbs is married to Attorney Robert L. Gibbs, Founder and Managing Partner of Gibbs Travis, PLLC. They have two adult children: Ariana, an honor graduate from Spelman College who holds a Bachelor of Arts degree in English and a Juris Doctor from the University of Mississippi School of Law. She currently works for a public interest law firm in Washington, D.C. as a communications development strategist. Justis, is an honor graduate of Howard University who is in his second year of law school at the University of Mississippi School of Law. “Justis encouraged me to run for office. He knew my passion for the community and my yearning to make a difference. I have been an advocate all my life, advocating on behalf of public-school children and through general volunteer efforts to uplift my community. I have also served in various volunteer roles in schools and the schools’ district office to ensure all children receive a quality education and to encourage parent’s engagement.”

Gibbs considers it a privilege to currently serve her community as a member of the House of Representatives for District 72. She also practices Law of Counsel at Gibbs Travis, PLLC. When asked about any opposition as a woman in Mississippi politics, Gibbs responded, “I have not encountered any opposition as a woman running for political office. But it is a reality that more men serve in the Mississippi Legislature than women. Thus, I can

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identify with women who feel they are not taken as seriously as their male colleagues. In 2019, there is still a lot of work to be done and it is my desire to be a part of empowering women.

It should be shameful that women are not a represented number when it comes to being in rooms of power. It is my hope to change that.”

Gibbs’ major focus will be to continue working for the voters of her district by fighting for quality education, accessible healthcare, and economic justice.

“I am a wife and mother who is passionate about the belief, “We are Better Together.” We need to be deliberate in making sure our voices are heard regarding the issues that matter to us. Though it may seem burdensome to run for an elected office, I believe it is extremely important that community members engage in the political process to the best of their abilities to ensure we and our community are afforded every opportunity and advantage deserving of us.”

“I would encourage any woman who is considering running for political office to have passion for the position you seek and make sure you want to be a public servant. One has to be unselfish because you will need to share your time with others. But with passion, drive and being unselfish, one will be able to work with others for positive change regardless of who gets the credit. One of the most humbling comments I received from a supporter was, ‘You have a servant’s heart.’ I appreciated this comment but it is what is required of anyone elected to office. Women have a unique perspective as such, I would encourage a woman to run for elected office because it would balance the conversation.”

Theresa Gillespie Isom

State Representative District 7 Desoto County

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moved to Mississippi 14 years ago and have enjoyed the relaxing environment of Olive Branch. I have been the President of my neighborhood Homeowners Association (HOA) for the past 12 years and have watched the subdivision develop into a wonderful place to live.

During the development of the community, I worked with the Developers and Contractors to ensure the infrastructure of the neighborhood remained as stated in the Covenant of the subdivision and adhered to the desires of the majority of homeowners.

I am divorced, the mother of one son Antonio Harvey and the grandmother of two, Nia and Noah. I was born and raised in Memphis, TN and lived there until I was 14 years old. I went to college at Memphis School of Practical Nursing, Diploma, Shelby State Community College, AD Nursing, College of St Francis, BS Health Administration. Union University BS Nursing, and UT Knoxville, MS Adult Education. And I now reside in Olive Branch MS. I am a retired Nurse Administrator and on a daily basis I serve on many Community Boards.

I decided to run for this particular position because I have been working for many years as a community advocate in Memphis and in Olive Branch. I have a strong desire to continue my passion to help others in Desoto County to include residents outside of the area that I live. As a nurse administrator and director of a nursing school and Chief nursing officer of a hospital and other clinical facilities, I had to make a lot of difficult decisions and have continued to do so since living here in Olive Branch.

As the HOA president, I have had to address many issues with the Planning and Development Board for the neighborhood that affect not only my area but for the surrounding communities. I have been successful when working with the Board and have been encouraged also to run for a Political Office by others because of my passion to help the community. At this time, I want to serve the people in District 7 which will help more than just the community where I live.

My focus will be working on Healthcare issues and equitable funding for education. Healthcare should be affordable, and people should not have to make a decision whether to fill their prescription or buy food.

The thing I want voters to know about me is that I believe everyone should have adequate healthcare, because it is crucial for an individual to enjoy a meaningful quality of life. I also feel that teachers should have an opportunity to teach, and that every child should have an environment that is conducive for learning at every grade level.

Preschool education should be available for all children and funding for public schools should be available. The standards for Public, Charter and other Private schools should be the same and the testing measures should be the same for all school systems.

I also stand firm in believing that higher education should be affordable to any individual desiring to further their education, and that those individuals should be able to strive for this achievement without experiencing tremendous financial hardships that adversely impact the student and/or their family both during their educational path and after graduation.

I also want them to know that I am a Christian.

As a woman I have held positions that require me to be assertive and I have learned how to assert myself and not feel intimated because I am a woman. My former positions as Chief Nursing Officer and Director of Nursing have prepared me to be able to present myself when encountered with opposition.

My advice would be to make certain that they have the passion, the time and a strong support base if they are going to run for a political position.

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SHANDA YATES House of Representatives District 64

Mississippi. It was admittedly, a bit of a “culture shock” coming to Pearl, MS from an Atlanta suburb, but there is something about Mississippi – with all of its flaws – that sucks you in. I believe the State has a lot of room for improvement, but that it is populated by good people who try to do the right thing.

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grew up in a suburb just south of Atlanta, GA. My father moved us to Pearl, MS when I was 15 years old and I graduated from Pearl High School in 1999. I thereafter attended Hinds Community College where I obtained an Associate's degree; University of Southern Mississippi where I obtained a Bachelor’s degree in English; and Mississippi College School of Law where I obtained my law degree.

I currently live in the Fondren/ Woodland Hills area of Jackson, MS with my husband and 4-year old son.

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I am married to Yancy Burns and we have one son, Evan, who is 4 years old. Yancy and I practice law together at Burns & Associates, PLLC in Jackson, MS. I am the managing partner and on a daily basis, I am an attorney, an office manager, a book keeper, an HR director, a wife, a mother and anything else that needs to get done.

This past legislative session was eyeopening for me. I realized there were very few legislators who were willing to fight to fund our public schools, to pay our teachers competitively or to represent the best interests of the people in their respective districts as opposed to large, out-of-state corporations. When I was asked to run, I initially said no. However, after thinking about it and discussing it with my husband at length, I decided

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that I needed to run. I had to “be the change” that I had been asking to see in our State.

I was raised in a lower-middle class/ poor family. Although I am now a successful attorney living in an affluent area of Jackson, I will never forget where I came from or how hard I had to work to get to where I am.

I am the first in my family to graduate from high school. The first to graduate college and certainly the first to obtain a law degree. I am grateful to my public-school teachers and college professors for always being there to give me an extra push when needed.

My main focuse if elected will be funding our public schools and providing a quality education to all children in this state. Tackling our crumbling infrastructure problems.

Have I encountered any opposition as a woman running for a political office? Yes I have. Shortly after I announced that I was running, I actually had someone tell me that the legislature would not be a “fun place for a woman.” I have also had people ask me who will keep my child while I am campaigning or in session at the legislature. My response of, “his other parent” has seemed to surprise some people.

My advice for a woman considering running is to stand up for yourself.

Be firm. Have a plan. Be organized.

Run with a purpose.

Come Go With Me

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FLORA L. PARKS BOGAN Candidate for Sheriff of Quitman County I was born May 24, 1970 in St. Louis, Missouri. I moved to Mississippi in the mid/late 70’s where I grew up in a very small town called Darling, MS. I completed my Jr high and high school education in Quitman County.

I gained an AA in Criminal Justice in 2009 at Coahoma Community College (CCC) and upon completion at CCC, I attended Mississippi Valley State University. I completed my BS in 2010 in Criminal Justice and in 2012 I received my Master’s Degree in Criminal Justice. I went on to finish 2 1/2 years at Walden University with

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studies in Public Policy.

Growing up in Mississippi, it becomes a part of you. In 1990, I moved away to Oceanside, CA for 4 years. As the old saying goes, “you can take a girl out of the country but you can’t take the country out of the girl.” That statement holds truth. I love the hospitality state, the generosity and closeness of the

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people from the small town I’m from.

As with every state, town or county side, it has its downfalls but I can truly say that the good outweighs the bad when compared to larger cities.

I married my husband Frederick, in July of 2017, we have four children, Larry 25, Dylan 19, Dyson 15, Bayli 11 and 3 grandchildren: Hailey 7, Lauryn 1 and Dehaven 5 months. We reside

in Darling, MS. I currently teach Law and Public Safety at Quitman County Career and Technical Center; I’ve taught for 5 years. Before I started my career in the class room I worked for the Mississippi Department of Corrections for almost 20 years, Mississippi State Penitentiary at Parchman for 16 years and until 2014 Central MS Correctional Facility where I served as the Emergency Respond Team Commander (ERT).

Having a passion for corrections, working on the Prison level and now in the classroom teaching about law, I feel I’m ready to serve the community as their Sheriff. This job is about serving the public because not only are they the ones who help put you in office, but they are the ones3 we work for. People need to know that you have their best interest at heart.

They want to know that as Sheriff, you are willing to listen to them, but more importantly be available for them.

There are many issues that affect this community and I feel that I can have a real impact on CHANGE.

A great leader should always have a plan. If elected as Sheriff my plan would be to focus on what would be best for this community. What would be ideal to help deter crime, what is being done to rehabilitate those who have committed crimes and those who have drug problems? As we know, crime is inevitable. I would focus closely on the pre-teens and teens. Eliminations starts before deterrence.

As a high school teacher in this small community, I’ve learned from the students that there’s nothing for them to do here. One student stated, “Mrs. Bogan, all we can do is walk the streets, smoke, hang with the crowd, and get into things.”

That was heartbreaking. He went on to tell me that this town needs a basketball court, Recreational Center, swimming pool, or something for us to do.

Another issue is the war on drugs. As Sheriff, I would definitely seek federal funding to help those who are dealing

with addiction. Constantly arresting an individual that has a drug problem is not solving the problem. Finding ways to rehabilitate that person and sending them to seek help will help deter the crimes that they commit.

Making sure our elderly citizens are safe.

This is when community policing plays a role at its best. Checking on the elderly during the summer to ensure that they have water and air, making sure they are warm during the winters. Implementing programs that aid them in being able to get out and have social involvements.

The community as a whole would be of major concern, ensuring that the citizens are safe, maintaining a reasonable budget, hiring quantity as well as quality staff.

To any females seeking a career in the political arena, never let anyone tell you what you can't do. Try, and if it fails, TRY again.

I want the citizens of Quitman County to know: first, I am a people’s person.

I am compassionate, I am stern yet understanding. My goal is to gain a partnership between the community and law enforcement to protect this community. For we know that crime is not an individual problem it’s the problem of the community.

Have I encountered opposition as a woman running for a political office?

Yes, I’ve had an individual tell me that this position is not for a female and that females should stick to desk positions; however, it didn’t offend me because I feel that everyone is entitled to his/her opinion. Society will have us believe that we are equal until you want to serve in a certain capacity. My parents taught me to get an education, work hard, follow your dreams and never settle for what man may feel is your limit.

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JUDGE TABITHA BRITTON-PORTER Hinds County Justice Court Judge District 2 I am a lifelong resident of Jackson, MS. I am the daughter of the retired Judge Ivory E. Britton and Mrs. Eliza Britton. I am married to Montez Porter, and I have one son Montez Britton Porter.

I am a graduate of Callaway High School and Jackson State University. My Legal Education is through the Mississippi Judicial College School of Law. I am a member of the Mississippi Justice Court Judges Association and the National Justice Court Judges Association, where I am a State Representative.

I love Mississippi because it’s home. This is where my family is, and I cherish every moment with my mother and my father. I enjoy going to different schools so that I can give back and show them that they can be anything they want to be, because I once sat where they are sitting. Also, to assure them that all of their dreams and career goals can come true.

I love giving back to my church, Cade Chapel Missionary Baptist Church (Pastor Reginald Buckley) where I am a youth leader. I look forward to working with the elders

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and the youth of the church as well on various projects.

On a daily basis I visit retirement homes, work on community projects or am preparing for court.

I am fair, compassionate, and dedicated. I am a Public Servant, and that’s what I am to do, serve the public.

I have a passion for this position

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because it allows me to give second chances, when they can be given, and help some individuals get on the right path.

My focal point on this campaign trail is to stay positive, focus, and encourage others to do the same.

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JENNIFER RILEY COLLINS Mississippi Attorney General I was born and raised in Meridian, MS and I attended and completed my undergraduate studies at Alcorn State University. I earned my Master of Criminal Justice Administration at the University of Central Texas, Killeen, TX.

I returned home to MS to start law school in August 1997. I completed law school and graduated from Mississippi College School of Law in December 1999. Mississippi is home for me, and I love it. I was born in the shadows of the civil rights movement. As a child, I experienced and observed a few incidents which made this a reality. Despite this fact, my life’s reality was protected by very loving and hardworking parents

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who provided for my six siblings.

I was in one of the first classes after integration. Because my parents somewhat sheltered us from the storms of the Civil Rights Movement, I was often unaware of the dangers in my community.

My summers were spent on the porch shucking corn and shelling peas. I did, however, have an innate sense of the reality that when I saw disparity, to recognize “something is wrong, and someone has to do something about it.” I somehow knew I would have a responsibility to be that someone who would step forward and do something about it.

After college, I served several years on active military duty outside of Mississippi. However, when I returned home to attend law school, one thing was very clear, “there was work yet to be done!”

My career experiences and educational opportunities have helped me to navigate many barriers to opportunity that many marginalized and vulnerable Mississippians face. That same experience and education helps to inform how I can see the beauty and the barriers experienced in this, my home state. When we unsubscribe to the theory of economic scarcity which supports the myth, “if I win, you lose,” then Mississippians can experience unfettered opportunity and access to economic mobility. This is why I always say, “together we can, together we win."

My family is broad. I have three amazing sons, Joseph, Jonathan and Joshua, who are all handsome, independent, full of life and destined for greatness! They make me proud by their unapologetic acts of service to others. They, too, know “to whom much has been given, much is required” and they act on it begrudgingly.

I am the baby of seven and I am blessed to have 5 of my siblings still with me. My other sister received her healing in her rest. I know that she is with our parents looking over us with great pride knowing we try daily to give a return on their investments. My other biological family includes aunts, uncles and cousins – many who left Mississippi seeking the “warmth of other suns" during the period of the great migration of African Americans from the South.

I don’t want any more families to be separated by great distance because state leadership insists on remaining closed. Family is one motivator for my run, I want my children, grandchildren and others to have opportunities at home. My other family are my friends who “hold a sista down." They are my military family spread across this world who I know have my “six."

They are everyday Mississippians who see the same potential I see.

I am an Attorney and on a daily basis, I fight for the rights of others. I advocate for and give voice to those who are unheard or ignored. I draft and propose policies and laws that make sense for all Mississippians. My entire life has been about protection of and service to others, whether via military service or as an equalizer via the law. I am running to be Mississippi’s next Attorney General as a continuation of that service.

I want voters to know that while my race is historic in that this is the first time a woman or an African American has ever run for this position, and that this could be the first time in history that an African American has ever been elected to a statewide position in Mississippi (Hiram Revels, was appointed 149 years ago), I am not running to necessarily make history. History has already been

made by my decision to run. I am running to make a difference in the lives of all Mississippians. It is far too long that the law has been used as a weapon instead of a shield. As Attorney General, I will continue to do what I swore to do as an Army Officer “uphold and defend" the Constitution.

Of course, I have encountered opposition. My very presence in the race for this office represents change and change for many is scary. I say though, it is okay to be scared, however, it is not okay to operate in and allow a spirit of fear to stifle Mississippi's progress.

Some would say, “crazy is doing the same thing expecting a different result.” I say, we have seen what crazy gets us. We know our rankings, so let’s buckle in and try something new.

My main focus will be the people.

I will ensure the Office of the Attorney General is the legal representative of the people, all people, of Mississippi. I will take on any situation that causes the people of Mississippi to be harmedincluding, but not limited to, access to mental health services including substance misuse treatment, protect our elderly, children and veterans, and ensure hardworking folk are secure in their homes, communities and employment.

The same advice I would give any woman who pursues any other goal is to: Live in your purpose on purpose. Use the gifts with which you have been blessed - do the thing which only you have been given the talent, tenacity, and tailoring to do. The world is waiting.

Why are you?

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ZAKIYA SUMMERS Mississippi House of Representatives District 68

I was born in Houston, Texas and raised in Jackson, MS. I am a graduate of Jim Hill High School and the University of Missouri-Columbia, where I obtained a bachelor’s in broadcast journalism. I live in the same neighborhood I grew up in, located in West Jackson. I am married to Andra, and I have three sons – Marvin (11), Mason (8), and Mathis (3).

My experience living in Mississippi has been a blessed journey. I say journey because the story continues. I have been blessed to have amazing parents and an equally amazing village that instilled in me values that are still near and dear to my heart, values that I work to instill in my children, like the importance of family; the meaning of excellence, respect and love; keeping your word; taking care of your home and the environment; giving back to your community; and having a strong work ethic. These values sustained me through my childhood and are the same values that ground me today.

Currently, I serve as the Director of Communications and Advocacy for the American Civil Liberties Union (ACLU) of Mississippi. I lead the advocacy and communications campaigns that support our legislative priorities and litigation strategies. I work to push our ambitious equity agenda, which elevates reforms that impact the criminal legal system, expand voter access, promote policies and practices that ensure equal treatment and protection, and champion educational opportunities.

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I love Mississippi, and I realize that we have much work to do. I believe that I am here and charged to help move Mississippi in the right direction.

My life’s work has been centered on around uplifting and empowering the community to improve the quality of life of children and families. I decided to run for Mississippi House District 68 because I believe that I can do more in my leadership to help advocate on behalf of children, families, and communities. I believe that I can be a change agent that transforms this community into a place where families can live happy and healthy lives.

District 68 is my home. As a lifelong resident who chose to raise my family in District 68, I have served as a strong advocate in this community as well as represented the people as a Hinds County Election Commissioner. My vision for District 68 is to be the model for progress and sustained improvement. I know that in order to shift the culture, we must change the law and fight for policies that move District 68 and Mississippi forward. As the next state representative, I will work toward policy solutions that invest in our youth and that impact education, economic growth, infrastructure, and voter access. In addition, I will lead with transparency, accountability, and accessibility. My constituency will know who their Representative is because I will remain visible in community, be responsive at all times, and ensure that your voice is heard at the State Capitol.

A vote for Zakiya Summers for House District 68 is a vote for a leader who is authentically connected to the community, has the public policy experience, and possesses the courage and tenacity to challenge the

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status quo in order to create policies that improve the lives of all people. I have the passion and fervor to fight for those who have been silenced and forgotten. It’s that mission that shapes my work.

It’s that mission that keeps me going everyday.

Constituents throughout District 68 have helped to inform my policy agenda, which includes: • Increasing access to quality education • Economic growth and infrastructure improvement • Expanding healthcare and voter access • Restoring justice in the criminal legal system Education is the civil rights issue of our time. I believe by increasing access to free, quality education, Mississippi will be positioned to improve all other facets of life.

I will fight for equitable funding, early education, teacher pay and retention strategies, an advanced curriculum, and student safety.

However, I realize that I can’t do this alone. Therefore, I need every voter’s support and the support of all leaders and all levels of government to make a vision of excellence for District 68 a reality.

When we fight, we win!

I would advise any woman wishing to run for a public office to do it!

Mississippi needs you in these positions. Mississippi needs you engaged and at the table.

Mississippi needs your voice and your perspective. Is it a sacrifice?

Yes! Will it take a lot of work? Yes! Is it worth it? Yes! We must get serious about the future of this state, and women deserve to be a part of the process every step of the way.

Please visit my website at www.zakiyasummers.com to support our campaign.

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Angel Myers McIlrath For Office of the District Attorney –

Jackson, George and Green Counties, MS

ANGEL MYERS MCILRATH HAS LIVED IN MISSISSIPPI HER ENTIRE LIFE. MISSISSIPPI IS OFTEN THE RECIPIENT OF NEGATIVE COMMENTARY, BUT SHE KNOWS THE PEOPLE AND THE BEAUTY OF THIS STATE. “OUR PEOPLE ARE GENEROUS, KIND, AND CARING. I’VE SEEN FIRSTHAND THE WAY OUR COMMUNITY COMES TOGETHER TO HELP ONE ANOTHER AND LIFT EACH OTHER UP. OUR STATE IS A BEAUTIFUL PLACE TO LIVE. I WAS BORN IN PASCAGOULA, BUT I SPENT ALMOST MY ENTIRE LIFE, ABSENT A FEW YEARS FOR SCHOOL, IN JACKSON COUNTY. I ATTENDED OLE MISS, SOUTHERN, AND MISSISSIPPI COLLEGE SCHOOL OF LAW. I NOW LIVE IN OCEAN SPRINGS.” 30

“I am a prosecutor. I’ve been a prosecutor since 2006. Governor Bryant appointed me to serve as District Attorney to complete Tony Lawrence’s term. I am responsible for the prosecution of all felony cases in our 3-county district. The day is full of case review and management, meeting with victims and witnesses, court appearances, trial preparation, and all of the administrative responsibilities of running our office. I speak to the community on a regular basis about our office, and child protection. We also host seminars for law enforcement to help ensure they have the most up to date training and access to resources.”

This is the work I am called to do. I am committed to doing the right thing on every single case. I recognize how important every decision my office makes is. I understand that what we do impacts the lives of people here in our community and impacts

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the safety of our community. It’s a privilege to do this work and to be in a position to be the one fighting for justice for our victims, especially the children who have been victimized.

I will continue to do the work I’ve done for 13 years as a prosecutor, do the right thing on cases, and ensure that our victims are given a voice in the courtroom.

My advice to a woman considering politics is to pursue the work you love and are called to do. If you are truly passionate about what you are doing and genuine the people will see that and respond. Be yourself, shoot straight, and work harder than you have ever worked before.

McIlrath is married to Scott McIlrath.

“My only child, Sophia Ann Myers, passed away from DIPG, a rare brain cancer when she was 7, in 2017.

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DEBORAH DELGADO MS Senate District 34 Mississippi is home first. My experiences have been along the normal cycle of life. There have been ups as well as downs. We have a long way to go as a state and I believe with the right kind of leadership Mississippi can be an ideal place to live, raise a family, work, thrive and ultimately retire.

My greatest challenges have been in trying to deliver the message that our condition is largely shaped by politics. Education and consciously voting in our best interest will deliver Mississippi.

I was born and reared in Hattiesburg, MS and attended Jackson State University and Texas Southern University. I am married to John Delgado, a retired university professor and we now reside in Hattiesburg, MS. I have two sons, two wonderful daughters in law and three phenomenal grandchildren, Dean, Elle and Eme.

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Currently, I provide support to organizations to help build capacity. On a daily basis I am a volunteer for Twin Forks Rising Community Development Corporation, a nonprofit I founded to foster the comprehensive redevelopment of Ward 2 in the City of Hattiesburg. I am also in my 18th year as a Councilwoman for Ward 2 in the City of Hattiesburg.

Why am I running for this particular position? I was actually recruited by voters in the district because of their desire to have a champion for public education represent them in the State Senate. Their need for representation dedicated to their best interest particularly in the areas of economic development, Medicaid expansion, workers' rights as well as State employee salary increases is important. When I listened to them and reviewed their research, I decided to take the challenge.

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The main thing I want voters to know is that I will work for them as I have for the people of Hattiesburg, MS. I want them to know that their concerns are my concerns. Having been in public office for 18 years I have a commitment to serving my community and improving the quality of life. Of all the things I have done in life, successes as well as failures, public service is my niche.

It has my full commitment.

I have absolutely encountered opposition as a woman running for a political office. When you run an issue focused campaign and many people in the district have been misled about their official’s voting record on issues that go against their best interest, you will have negative campaign messaging. I knew what I was facing when I started this journey 18 years ago. And my resolve is to continue to stand after all is said and done.

Public education particularly for K through 12 will be a major focus.

It is time we fully fund public education in this State. Along with education I will focus on healthcare, economic development and criminal justice reform.

I would advise any woman desiring to run for public office to run! There is no glamour; only hard work to change your community for the better. If you focus on giving the people who voted for you a positive return on the investment of their vote, you will do well.

REMONA H. SUTTLAR Yazoo County Supervisor District 2

I was born in Benton, MS to the parents of Ernest Harris and Eliza Stiff Harris. I attended Yazoo City High School and Alcorn State University where I received a Bachelor of Science Degree in Biology with a minor in Chemistry. I currently reside in Yazoo County, MS. My experience growing up in Mississippi during and after segregation is an experience shared by the majority of African Americans in the South and in particular, Mississippi. The small nuisances of my childhood may not exactly mirror those of my counterparts, however, for many of us, our story had a central theme: single-parent homes led by strong, resourceful women adamant in the belief that education was the only way out of poverty.

I attended a segregated school for most of my childhood only to be thrust into a predominantly white school system.

Desegregation forced me to open my eyes to the injustices that were being perpetrated in my hometown. Once the schools integrated and I sat in a classroom with other students who didn’t look like me, I realized that except for the color of our skin, we weren’t that much different and that we all loved our hometown. We interacted and competed academically and created friendships that are still intact to this day. Although I knew that I was not allowed to be a part of the “white” community, I never felt inferior because I was always taught that I was no better than anyone else and I was no less than anyone else. I always knew that I would fight to end the stereotypical portrayal of blacks in Mississippi as many of my classmates did by breaking the chain of poverty and

becoming professional and productive citizens.

I married my high school sweetheart, Michael Suttlar Sr., and we’ve been together for 41 years. We are the parents of one son, Michael Suttlar II, a daughter-in-law, Dr. Charlene Cole-Suttlar and the grandparents of three beautiful granddaughters, Seraphina and twins Hope and Faith.

Those girls are the joy of our life. I have one sister and three brothers (one brother is deceased).

I officially retired in June of 2017 after 29 ½ years of service with the Federal Government. I am slowly integrating myself back into community service; I’m active in the Local and National Organization of Blacks in Government and an active member in Tulane M.B. Church where I participate in numerous church-affiliated programs.

After retiring, I wanted to spend my life where I was born and raised; it’s a place I have always loved. After reading an article in a national news report stating that Yazoo was among the worst places to live, I became deeply troubled.

Hearing that assessment bothered me so deeply that I decided I could not remain on the sidelines and be oblivious to what was so obvious: my hometown had deteriorated to the point of making national headlines.

Like my mother, I’ve always been a hard worker- I found my first job at fourteen to help support my family. Since then, I have worked in various city, county and federal government positions; Yazoo County Tax Assessor and Collector’s office, a congressional staffer in the office of Congressman Mike Espy, and 24 years with the United States Department of Agriculture (USDA), serving in the

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capacities of Administrative Program Director, overseeing a multi-million dollar budget, personnel, contracting, etc., I served as the Program Support Division Director where I supervised the technical staff of appraisers, engineers, construction analysts, program analysts, environmental specialists and many other duties.

I served on the Board of Trustees for the Yazoo City Municipal Schools for a decade, (5 as chairman) and on the Board of Directors for the Mississippi School Boards Association for 5 years, (one as chairman). I was appointed by the Governor of Mississippi to serve a 5-year term on the Board of Directors for the Mississippi Business Finance Corporation. The MBFC’s mission is to coordinate a variety of state resources to assist businesses and industry in obtaining financing and positioning the state as an aggressive competitor in the global market.

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You will NOT see on my Push card that I AM A QUITTER. Any task I’m given or any goal I seek, I work hard to bring to fruition. My mantra is: “A quitter never wins and a winner never quits.”

I ran for the Circuit Clerk’s position in Yazoo County many years ago. I don’t know if I faced opposition simply because I was a woman; I believe the opposition came because I was an African American woman.

It’s so easy to give a simple answer and say, if elected, I will focus

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on improving our schools, our infrastructure, bringing in jobs, etc. We know most of these promises are hard to keep, especially when any elected official says he/she can accomplish this on his/her own. My focus will be to build a coalition of elected officials, community leaders and community stakeholders who share a common goal-improving the quality of life in Yazoo County for everyone, not just a select few. And while I am seeking the position of supervisor in District 2, I will represent all Yazooans because if one district fails, all will fail. “A chain is only as strong as it’s weakest link.”

For any woman seeking political office, my advice is simple: don’t wait; get started changing the world now.

As stated by former President Barack Obama: “Change will not come if we wait for some other person or some other time. We are the ones we've been waiting for. We are the change that we seek.”

MARCIA MASON ARP Supervisor District 4

Yazoo City has become home for me because of the memories I’ve created with my fa ily. I’ve been fortunate to rear my children here. I have been active in the community, schools, my church and more.

I have seen the need to offer assistance and help to others and these opportunities have allowed me to grow mentally, emotionally and spiritually. The resources that Mississippi affords have been beneficial and have given me a lifetime of memories.

My decision to seek the Office of County Supervisor was made after much thought. I’ve watched for several years the operations of the county and city entities and I firmly believe that more attention is needed to improve the economic and social growth of Yazoo County.

As a Supervisor, I will be afforded the opportunity to work with other Supervisors and Officials to promote a more aggressive approach to obtaining resources that will allow the County to expand its economic resources and improve the quality of life for all residents of Yazoo County.

Yazoo County and the residents are well respected for their contributions and success. With enhanced resources and economic growth, the County will offer even more to the

State and Nation. I envision Yazoo County being a place that others will come to for the hometown feel and a great quality of life.

My main focus once I am elected is to work with the other Supervisors to improve the quality of life and opportunity for the residents of Yazoo County. I will utilize my personal, professional and career experiences to build a solid foundation as a Supervisor that is ethical and not selfserving.

I would like the voters to know that it is an honor to represent the residents of the District and County and their voices matters. They can be assured that I will actively pursue those programs and initiatives that will improve Yazoo County. Lastly, it is not my intent to make promises that will be unkept. I do promise to be the best Supervisor that I can be. I will make decisions based on the information available.

While I believe there is a need for change, I know it will not happen overnight, but will require effective communication and patience from all parties involved.

My past experiences as a Correctional professional and lifetime achievements have given me a variety of experiences that will allow me to serve as an

effective Supervisor.

I served 32 years as a Bureau of Prisons employee. I began as a Correctional Officer and I have more than 25 years of experience as a Financial Management professional and Supervisor and 5 years as a Correctional Executive. Having retired in January 2109, I am adjusting to retirement.

I would encourage any woman that desires to run for any political office to formulate a plan, obtain supporters and move forward with their candidacy.

I was born and reared in Oakdale, Louisiana; I attended and graduated from Southern University A&M College, Baton Rouge Louisiana with a Bachelor of Science, Business Management in 1985. I have been married to Neal J. Arp for the last 32+years and we have three adult children Neal, Allison and Barbara. We currently reside in Yazoo City, MS. I’ve lived in Yazoo City since 1996.

Along with my husband and three children, we relocated here for my job.

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MONA LISA CARR Justice Court Judge – Copiah County Post 1 I was born in Hazlehurst, MS and I attended CopiahLincoln Community College in 1983. I transferred to Alcorn State University in 1985 where I received a Bachelor of Arts Degree in Sociology and Social Services.

I still reside in Hazlehurst, MS. My experience in Mississippi has taught me to be patient, content, committed, self-motivated and it has taught me how to overcome any obstacles that may stand in my way.

God has given us all a gift and it's up to you to find within yourself that gift and try to perfect it.

After being married for over 20 years, I am divorced. My maiden name is Mona Lisa Corley. I am a mother of one child, Akeem Olajuwon Carr, and I

have three grandchildren: Braycen Carr, Adrean and Alura Alford.

I am currently the Justice Court Clerk for Copiah County. I was appointed in 2012 by the Board of Supervisors of Copiah County. On a daily basis my job is making sure the citizens of Copiah County are being served in a timely manner, and listening to residents and non-residents concerns from all walks of life. If our office cannot serve them, my job is to refer them to the correct office where their needs can be met.

I decided to run for this office because at 18 years of age, I started as a summer worker at the Copiah County Justice Court under the supervision of former Justice Court Clerk Carolyn Morgan who served from 1984 to 2011. She was my teacher and I was her student. I also worked for the Department of Human Services in Copiah County for over 10 years. I returned to Justice Court in 2005 so, I have been a public servant all of my adolescent and adult life.

I love the court system. I love finding a solution to problems. I will allow the voices of the people to be heard inside the courtroom on both sides.

The courtroom is the people's court and I will follow the law. I am always reading and researching the law. My main focus is making sure I follow the law and listen to both sides before judgement is rendered.

I am working hard to get the people to know who Mona Lisa Corley-Carr is. I am the current president and former treasurer of the MS Justice Court Clerks Association and President of Zeta Phi Beta Sorority, Inc., Alpha Alpha Psi Zeta Chapter in Hazlehurst, MS. My advice to any woman running for political office is to have a passion for the office you are seeking. Don’t run for personal gain. Run because you feel you can make a difference in someone’s life. Put God first in everything you do and remember, knowledge is power.

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Nicole Akins Boyd

Mississippi State Senate District 9 I was raised in Oxford, MS and graduated from Oxford High School. I received my Bachelors from Mississippi State University and I graduated from the University of Mississippi Law School. My family and I live in Oxford.

As a child, my days after school were spent on the Oxford Square or traveling to homes with my mother, the Lafayette County Extension Home Economist, to help families. My mother taught me the value of serving our district families and how service creates thriving communities.

My father, Noal Akins, was a longtime educator, coach, and later businessman and legislator from our district. He instilled the value of hard work, a winning attitude, and service to the district, through his service and dedication to our community.

I am realistic and experienced enough to know that there is no magical solution to solve our state’s problems overnight.

However, my experiences in working with communities and families across this state has taught me that when Mississippians get creative with our resources and work together with common objectives, we can create opportunities that will lead to a better future for our Mississippi families.

I am an attorney and serve on several state and community boards. I spend a great deal of my time volunteering to help families who have special needs children.

After Senator Gray Tollison decided not to seek re-election, many people approached me to run, and my husband and I contemplated and prayed about

this decision. We knew that it was the right thing for us, the right thing for our children, and the right thing for our district. Early in my legal career, I had the opportunity to work for the Mississippi Attorney General’s Office. It was during my tenure there that I first advocated and worked with the legislature. Over the years, I have advocated at nearly every level of government on education, insurance, and disability reform. The Mississippi Senate will have a minimum of 13 new members and my experience will allow me to immediately get to work for the people of Lafayette and Panola Counties.

future and the present.

I believe that my experience as a mother uniquely prepares me for office. From having to stand my ground to mediating conflict, my children reinforce many of the valuable skills I utilize in my professional life. Moreover, being the parent of a special needs child has taught me to think and approach challenges with an attitude of possibility instead of limitation.

Furthermore, the prospect of bettering District 9 for my family and other families motivates me to act with regard for the

For any woman considering running for office, I would advise her to undertake a complete and truthful self-assessment about why you want to run. Then ask yourself what do you plan to do if elected. If you can effectively answer those questions then I would encourage anyone to RUN!

My district needs someone who will fight for education, increase teacher salaries, expand workforce training, increase health care options, and improve our district’s overstressed infrastructure, all without hitting our district’s hard-working families with too many taxes.

Professionally, women are still breaking barriers in this state. However, I see a growing and strong acceptance of women in political offices and my gender has not been a barrier to date.

Boyd has been married for almost 25 years to Daniel Boyd, a physician and small business owner and they have two children ages 18 and 15.

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EDELIA J. CARTHAN Mississippi House of Representatives, District 71

Edelia J. Carthan decided to run for the Mississippi House of Representatives because this branch of government makes laws, laws that have historically been discriminatory towards black, brown and poor people.

She recently graduated from the Education Policy Fellowship Program where she learned about bills, laws, and policies.

“I want to use my experience and knowledge to improve laws, the education system as well as the lives of all Mississippians. I also believe that if we don't have a seat at the table when laws are being made, we're going to continue to be on the menu.”

"I have a proven track record of speaking out on important issues. I will continue to fight for change as well as be the voice of the people.

I am the most qualified candidate running in the District 71 House race. I have spent the last five years studying the U.S. Constitution as well as the State Constitution. As a matter of fact, I created a course at Tougaloo College that I teach where we study laws, discuss court cases and evaluate the Constitution. My background in Education, leadership as well as my work in Civil Rights sets me apart from all the other candidates. I am the best choice for change in Mississippi.”

Carthan was born and raised in Tchula, MS where her father was elected the first black mayor in 1977. “I am a three-time graduate of Jackson State University. My experience in Mississippi hasn't been without trials. I live in a state that refuses to replace the Confederate

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Battle emblem on the official state flag. The current state flag is a symbol of oppression, division and hate. We deserve a flag that represents all Mississippians.

I have been an Educator for more than 15 years. Currently, I serve as Assistant Professor of Education and Child Development in the Division of Education, Supervision and Instruction at the historic Tougaloo College where the moss hangs low and the eagles fly high. I am also an activist, author, mentor, and motivational speaker.

I work daily to improve the lives of all Mississippians through my mentorship program, Camp Fabulous. Camp Fabulous (2011) is a Leadership camp and club for girls ages 7 to 17. The Fabulous Life Class is a 7-week lecture series for adults both based on my book, From Fear to Freedom: The 7 Key Elements for a Fabulous Life. I want people to know that they are here on purpose for a purpose.

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Education is and remains my main focus. Nelson Mandela once said, "Education is the most powerful weapon which you can use to change the world." I believe that. I am a witness. Education changed my life. I was a teen mom. I went from young mom to youngest Ph.D. Education is the key to changing Mississippi.

Of course, I have encountered opposition. I am a woman and Activist running for office. But I will not quit! That only motivates me to work smarter and harder.

The advice I would give to any woman desiring to run for office is Run Women Run! Win Women Win! Support Women Support! We are the generation we have been waiting for.

Now is the time! We are the Ones!

Carthan resides in Byram, MS where she has lived for more than 15 years. She has one son, Edetric “EJ” Carthan who is 24 years old.

and more to tackle big issues like the opioid epidemic and human trafficking.

LYNN FITCH Office of Attorney General

I was raised in Holly Springs, Mississippi and got both my bachelor’s degree and Juris Doctorate at Ole Miss.

Mississippi has been a wonderful place to live and to raise a family. We have such a strong family-centered culture and such warm, loving people.

I could not imagine living anywhere else. In fact, my love for Mississippi is one of the reasons I entered public service. I want to be a part of the effort to keep making Mississippi even better.

I reside in Madison County now and I have three children and two grandchildren. My older daughter is a fourth-grade teacher and she has two precious little boys. She and her family also live in Madison County, so I am blessed to see my grandsons for ball games and church and family dinners. My younger daughter is a nurse and was just married in May. And, my son is a student athlete at Sewanee. He is about to begin his senior year and his final year playing college football.

Throughout my 34-year legal career, I have had a wide and varied experience in both private practice and public service. I started my career as a Special Assistant Attorney General and was counsel at the Mississippi House of Representatives. I was in private practice for many years before returning to public service, where I have had the privilege of running several complex State agencies, including the Mississippi State Personnel Board. In 2011, I was elected as your State Treasurer and the people renewed their trust in me

to run their Treasury with re-election in 2015.

I have been honored to serve as Mississippi’s Treasurer for the last eight years, and we have accomplished so much in this office.

We’ve distributed nearly $98 million in unclaimed property, saved taxpayers $150 million by proactively managing State debt, expanded college savings options to 120,000 families with payroll deposit at 200 Mississippi employers, and even created a public-private partnership providing free financial education resources to 95,000 students as well as training to 1,400 teachers.

As I mentioned above, I started my career at the Attorney General’s Office. I have experience prosecuting, litigating, and writing Attorney General Opinions, and I am ready to lead as Mississippi’s Attorney General on Day One. By bringing the same solution-driven, bridgebuilding approach to the Mississippi’s Attorney General’s Office, I can serve Mississippi best starting in 2020.

Throughout my career, I have harnessed the power of partnerships to maximize results for the people.

Working together, we accomplish so much more than working in silos.

I want to take that mentality to the State’s law firm – the Attorney General’s Office – and partner with law enforcement, community groups, prosecutors, health care specialists,

I have been blessed to find strong support all along my journey in public life, from friends, family, and co-workers. That’s one reason it has been so important to me to mentor young women in the legal profession and in public service and help them find pathways to success in their careers and lives.

It is so vital that women develop a network of support, such as the Evelyn Gandy Lecture Series, which I helped to found within The Mississippi Bar. I have several priorities as Attorney General, including to: • protect all Mississippians, especially our most vulnerable, like our elderly, children, and mentally ill, from unfair and deceptive practices, and support victims of crime and their families, • prosecute those who commit fraud and abuse against hard-working Mississippians, • Fight the opioid crisis by bringing all interested parties together to fight every angle of this epidemic, • Work to end human trafficking, and protect and support its victims, helping them find a pathway back into society without shame or blame, • be tough and smart on crime, and • be a partner to our law enforcement and first responders, Women, who tend to have a more collaborative approach to leadership, are uniquely situated to reverse the growing lack of civility in the public arena. I encourage you to seek the common ground and find ways to support other women around you, even those with whom you do not necessarily always agree. Women have a unique perspective as mothers, caregivers, and more that adds to the richness of debate. We all benefit when women get more involved and run for public office.

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Velesha P. Williams - Democratic Candidate for Governor I was born July 15, 1961 in Saint Louis, MO to Thomas C. and Tinnie B. Perkins.

My parents moved the family to Jackson, MS in 1974. Mississippi has been my home of residence since that time. I attended Jackson State University (JSU); earning my Bachelor of Science (BS) degree in 1983 and a Masters of Art (MA) degree in Criminology

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and Justice Services in 1996. My husband (Bennett J. Williams) and I live in Madison County, Mississippi where we have resided for the last 17 years.

I was 13 years of age when my parents moved us to Mississippi. At that age, what stood out to me was how much slower life seemed to move in comparison to that in St. Louis and the Southern dialect. As I grew older, I realized there was a significant difference in how people interacted with one another. Fear seemed to

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drive every interaction. I could feel the uneasiness when white and black folks interacted with one another.

Each clinging to the memories of the past. We were fortunate, my parents did a great job ensuring we had the necessities of life, so we were equipped to deal with the complexities of life. I'm guessing my experience living in Mississippi was typical for a black girl unafraid of the world around her.

My parents are deceased. However, they left my 7 siblings and I a legacy of love and a strong work ethic, which has served me well. My husband and I have been married for 35 years. We

have two adult children who reside in Mississippi with their spouses. Felicia R. Ellis (Louis) and Bennett J. Williams II (Kaileigh) and one grandson (Kobe).

I am a retiree from Jackson State University (JSU). Prior to my tenure at JSU, I served as an active duty officer in the United States Army. Following my military career, I taught 2nd and 4th grade in the Jackson Public School District (limited service). I joined the staff at JSU in 1996 where I served as director and principal investigator for several Federal and State funded programs. I retired in 2016.

These days I spend my time campaigning; traveling throughout Mississippi, meeting the fabulous people in this state.

I decided to run for Governor

in obedience to God's will and purpose for my life and for fellow Mississippians. As Governor of Mississippi I will serve all Mississippians from a position of love, compassion, and a commitment to moving my words to action. I humbly ask Mississippians to give me a fighting chance to fight for you!

As far as opposition, the fact that I'm an African American woman running for Governor in Mississippi has generated mixed emotions, from enthusiasm to shock. But when I share my vision and plans to create A Better Mississippi for ALL. HERE. NOW., Mississippians for the most part are embracing my message.

Those who are entrenched in old ideology tend to put party over people.

Mississippi is at the bottom or near the bottom of every social indicator.

My focus is broad because the problems are multiple. My focus areas include: Affordable Healthcare for All Mississippians (expand Medicaid and protect Medicare), Quality Education (fully fund the Mississippi Adequate Education Programs and address student debt), Economic Stability (ensure Mississippians receive a livable wage), Criminal Justice Reform (correct the disparities within the system), Restore our Failing Infrastructure, and Protect our Environment.

I would advise any woman to run!

Because your professional experience and desire to serve is equal to if not greater than your male counterpart.

Women have a legacy of caring for the wellbeing of others and selfless service. We need those qualities in our elected officials. We are the answer we have been looking for.

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E. SIRENA WILSON Justice Court Judge Hinds County District 1

Born and raised in Jackson, MS, Sirena Wilson attended Tougaloo College where she majored in Political Science and Pre-Law. She still resides in Jackson, MS. I am single, 2 sons and 3 grands, as mentioned in number 3. I am a member of Greater Fairview M. B, Church, 2545 Newport Street, under the leadership of Pastor Vincent Russell.

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Living in Mississippi has its ups and downs. I raised my two sons Joshua and Julian here and I am also raising my grandsquad, Jaliyah, 11, Ja'siah 2(soon to be 3 years old) and Jamena 2 years old here. I, as well as my children were educated in the Jackson Public School district. I am a graduate of Murrah High school, as well as one son being a Murrah grad and one son being a Lanier Bulldog grad. My granddaughter is a student at Bailey APAC. I love living here and at this time I have no intentions of moving.

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Mississippi, especially Jackson, is not so different from other states or cities. There are problems wherever you go, you just have to know how to deal with issues and move on.

Mississippi has a lot to offer. I have participated in various events benefiting the public as well as spending time with my grandsquad at the parks, museums and movies.

Mississippi has the best places to fish and raise children.

I'm currently an Event Manager for a local company and for the past 4 years I have been the Public Relations,

Event and Safety Coordinator for Southern MS Motorcycle Training.

I promote safety awareness, "LOOK TWICE SAVE A LIFE," in order to decrease the number of accidents and fatalities with motorcycle riders.

Every 2nd Sunday in March, we host the Motorcycle Bike Blessing, where hundreds of bikers come together for the beginning of riding season and get blessed by the ministers and pastors that attend the event. We pray for a safe riding season. I have been working with the city to put up "Watch for Motorcycles" signs around Jackson, so far we have 10.

I'm a notary, I prepare Wills, General Power of Attorneys and Expungements. I'm also a photographer and ordained to marry couples. I also work with a local business, Executive Men Suits by Robert Ford, with the Dressing for Success for young men. We mentor young men and have given away hundreds of business suits to local Jackson Public School students and students as far away as Lagrange, Georgia.

I want the voters of Hinds county, not only District 1, to know that I am honest, fair, hard-working, and a public servant, who is determine to help make our city to be the best it can be.

I will bring integrity to the court room and uphold the law. I believe my work ethics speaks for itself.

I choose to run for this position to make a difference. Not only would I be the 1st African American female in District 1 to hold this position but will be a judge that will be fair in every ruling for every person that will come before me in the court room.

I want to make sure every person that comes before me has a fair and unbiased outcome. I want to work with the judge over the Hinds county justice drug court, where persons with misdemeanor offenses will get early intervention in hoping that help those offenders become productive citizens, all while offering words of advice and

encouragement to those who are looking to become law abiding citizens again.

My advice to any woman running for office is to JUST DO IT! Get with a mentor, learn all you can about the position you are seeking. Most importantly, don't just wait until it's time for you to run for office to be a public servant. Find a mentee and encourage her to follow her dreams.

My mentee is my granddaughter Jaliyah. For the past 4 years she has learned to make her own money by operating her lemonade stand.

Each time she is a vendor, a portion of her money is donated to charity.

She selects the charity of her choice.

She has donated books to Blair Batson Children's Hospital, toys to Toys for Tots, monetary donations to Butterflies by Grace (where she was the youngest person to receive the SHERO award for her community service) and supplies to the Methodist Children's Home.

I've served on the Jackson Zoo Board and I am a graduate of the Jackson Police Department’s Citizens Academy and a graduate of the F.B.I. Citizen Academy Class.

I worked at The Pace law firm as a legal assistant for 8 years. We specialized in personal injury cases. I was also a process server, where I personally served subpoenas and summons. I worked for the Jackson Police Department for 3 years as a Records Clerk and I volunteer with the police department summer youth camp.

I am an avid fisherwoman and a member of the Ross Barnett Spillway fishing group and the Ross Barnett Crappie association fishing group. Each year, we catch, clean and cook freshwater fish to feed over 200 people at Stewpot.

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Beth Brown

MS State Senate District 39 I was born and raised in Selma, Alabama. I attended college at USM – Hattiesburg for my BSN, South University for my MSN, and Samford University in Birmingham, Alabama for my Doctorate. I went back to South University for my pediatric rotation to allow me to sit for the Family Nurse Practitioner exam.

My first MSN was in an Adult Nurse Practitioner role. I am dually certified as ANP and FNP. I have lived in Brookhaven, Mississippi since 2005.

primary and acute care. I make rounds in three local nursing homes Monday – Thursday prior to going to clinic.

I began thinking about running for office approximately six years ago when I did not get a positive response after lobbying on nurse lobby day at the capital. In the previous sessions, nothing came out of the Senate improving the health care in Mississippi. So, I decided to run for this office to make a difference in my State and communities.

The main thing you will not see on my push card is my

I found my relocation to Brookhaven to be a smooth transition. My husband was born and raised here and the people of Mississippi are most hospitable.

I have been married to Lad Brown for 16 years. My first husband is deceased after 29 years of marriage. I have been blessed to have two wonderful marriages. My two sons are from my first marriage and are grown – 43 and 39. I have eight grandchildren. I have two step-sons and two grandchildren from them for a total of 10.

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commitment to improve the lives of others by teaching them how to help themselves. I want to make a difference. My main focus will be healthcare – I would like to see Medicaid reform and more accountability with taxpayer dollars.

My advice to any woman wishing to run for office is to go for it!!! Pray about it, set your goals, and pursue your dream.

SALLY DOTY Mississippi Senate District 39 – Reelection - Lincoln, Lawrence, Copiah & Walthall Counties.

“I ran for office because I wanted to have a positive impact and make life better for my community and my State.”

Sally Doty grew up in Kosciusko, Mississippi and graduated from Mississippi University for Women.

She received her Juris Doctorate degree from Mississippi College School of Law. “Mississippi has such a rich culture but also great challenges. I am a 6th generation Mississippian and my family instilled in me the value of education and hard work. I want to make sure there are opportunities for all Mississippians to have a happy and successful life.”

Having served 2 terms, should she win re-election her main focus will be education - testing, teacher shortage, and policies that punish local school districts unnecessarily. “I will also continue my work on Domestic violence and broadband access.”

Doty is an attorney and has a small private practice that allows her to balance her work in the Senate.

She has earned the respect of other legislators by handling complicated and difficult bills and as a result, usually has good results getting legislation passed.

“Also, serving in the Senate is much more than just making votes. I spend a tremendous amount of

time handling constituent matters and serving on committees and boards.”

Doty states she has not had much opposition as a woman, but will say it is often difficult to be included in the guy-talk or activities where issues are often hashed out.

Doty’s advice to other women considering public office is to not doubt yourself. Step out and run for office, but do not be hesitant to ask for advice from other elected women.

Doty recently re-married and has 3 grown children girls ages 24 and 22 and a son age 20. One is at MSU, another at Ole Miss, and my oldest recently married and is at the University of Mississippi School of Dentistry.

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Tammy P. Cotton

Candidate for MS w of Representatives, District 70 Tammy P. Cotton is the owner of Eme’s Catering, a catering company focused on awesome customer service and the healing of our bodies through fresh affordable food. She is also a partner of Eli & Lee LLC, an electronic medical records company. She is also working on community projects to provide food to low-income families in food deserts.

The increase in the quality of life for my people in district 70.”

“I am a native Mississippian, 4 generations with the love and understanding of my community, my heritage and my purpose to serve. I grew up in a two-parent household. My mom is a therapist and my stepfather was an industrial mechanic for a sewing factory that made jeans in Raleigh, MS. My grandparents were farmers and my grandfather was also a barber.

Cotton says, “Compassion is in my DNA. My mom taught me that God created me to serve. I truly believe that Mississippi’s children are our future and I am here to make sure their future is bright. I don’t concern myself with titles, fame or prestige. As a matter of fact, a lot of my contributions to this state are done with no credit to me publicly, but the satisfaction in my heart and “job well done” from God is all I need.”

Cotton decided to run for this position because it requires passion and knowledge for the people that live in district 70. The need for a candidate that is passionate with a driving conviction to serve as a champion for their particular issues is a must. “My life has unfolded beautifully in many ways, but most importantly my efforts have created an impact that has lasted for many years. I want to use that same passion, skills and network together to serve the residents of district 70 to create a better quality of life for every single individual.”

Cotton’s main focus, should she win the election will be overall better representation in her district. “I will stay in touch with my constituents by keeping them informed on what’s going on in the

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Capitol. My subject matters of concern are education, homelessness, economic development, healthcare and most importantly housing.”

When asked if she has encountered any opposition as a woman during this process, she responded, “Yes. I have encountered opposition as a woman in the form of discouragement in believing I could win this election. But I know who I am and the strong women in my life have encouraged me by believing in me and helping me believe in myself. I believe this is a challenge but an easy feat if you keep your eye on the prize. What's the prize you ask?

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I came from a family of service and entrepreneurs. My love for cooking was sparked at an early age by my grandmother. I loved to make people’s lives better through food. This also sparked my desire to serve others and make their lives better through community service. I served in the MS Army National Guard and MS Air National Guard in the area of logistics. The desire to serve has always been a major part of my life and I am honored to represent the people of District 70.”

Cotton was born and raised in Mt. Olive, MS and attended the University of Southern Mississippi. She now lives in Jackson, MS with her devoted husband and she is a proud mother to 2 children, a daughter-in-law and a grandmother to two of the best grandchildren in the world.

The advice she would give to any woman desiring to run for public office is to just do it.

FELICIA TRIPP Candidate for MS State Representative District 72

Felicia Tripp was born and raised in Jackson, MS in Virden Addition. She attended Hinds Community College and Jackson State University. She and her family continue to reside in Jackson, MS near Pocahontas.

Tripp is married with four children and one Stepson.

“My first born (Talisha Tripp, 24) is currently attending University of Southern Mississippi pursuing a degree in Architectural Engineering, my first-born son (Demond Tripp II) is an active duty Marine stationed at Camp Lejeune, NC, my daughter Vivian (19) is currently attending Hinds Community and my youngest Donte Tripp (17) is a rising senior at Clinton High School.”

“Living in Mississippi is an education in itself for anyone who is willing to be open to true life lessons. My experience here has been appreciated more each time I travel into areas with congested traffic. I like country living.

I've come to believe that to move Mississippi forward will be to move the entire country forward.”

Tripp is in the field of Emergency management/consulting and on a daily basis you can find her doing Community Organizing, and Nonprofit Capacity Development. She is also a volunteer fire fighter and an active member of the NAACP.

She decided to run for this particular position because she wants to be a part of a collective positive change for Mississippi. "I do not see the mindset and understanding that if the Capital city is neglected by the state, that means we have a real problem.

Especially when that capital city has the largest singular population in comparison to any other city in the

disseminate information in a timely manner and sometimes not at all, which keeps the people out of the loop before bills are passed. I want a greater level of transparency between the state and citizens.”

If elected for this position Tripp will focus on economic opportunity for all through a heavier focus of mentorship and training programs for budding

state. The neglect of Jackson is a true reflection of the entire state, whether you live in Sardis, MS, Natchez, MS or Gautier, MS. The failure to include all working families in conversations is why I am running. The skyrocketing cost of a college education and the lack of opportunity to be employed in a field that you receive your education in within your state is why I am running.”

Tripp wants voters to know that she is a fighter who will stand for what is right and for the greater good of the state as a whole. “I want them to know that I recognize the change in demographics of the state and I also recognize the states failure to

entrepreneurs.

While campaigning for this position, Tripp has encountered more positivity than negativity. Most people have been open and receptive to listening.

Tripp would advise any woman considering running for public office to pray before and during the process, establish a great circle of volunteers, have someone who can guide you through the process, have money to fund the process, do not compromise your integrity because of lack of money and don’t shift your message based on popular sound bites.

Integrity and consistency will allow you to sleep every night no matter the outcome.

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SYMPTOMS

OF A HEART ATTACK AND STROKE IN WOMEN SIGNS AND SYMPTOMS OF HEART ATTACK

If you have any of these signs, call 9-1-1 and get to a hospital right away.

1. Uncomfortable pressure, squeezing, fullness or pain in the center of your chest. It lasts more than a few minutes or goes away and comes back.

2. Pain or discomfort in one or both arms, the back, neck, jaw or stomach.

3. Shortness of breath with or without chest discomfort.

4. Other signs such as breaking out in a cold sweat, nausea or lightheadedness.

5. As with men, women’s most common heart attack symptom is chest pain or discomfort. But women are somewhat more likely than men to experience some of the other common symptoms, particularly shortness of breath, nausea/vomiting and back or jaw pain.

SIGNS AND SYMPTOMS OF STROKE

If you have any of these signs, call 9-1-1 and get to a hospital right away.

6. Sudden numbness or weakness of the face, arm or leg, especially on one side of the body

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7. Sudden confusion, trouble speaking or understanding 8. Sudden trouble seeing or blurred vision in one or both eyes 9. Sudden trouble walking, dizziness, loss of balance or coordination 10. Sudden severe headache with no known cause If you had heart disease, would you recognize the symptoms? You might be thinking, “Of course!” Many people are familiar with the scene of a man clutching his chest and falling to the ground, but there’s plenty more you need to know.

While there are many similarities in the symptoms of heart disease in men and women, there are even more differences – differences that could save, or end your life if you don’t know them. So before you pass that jaw pain off as the result of sleeping funny or lightheadedness as something a snack or rest can fix, learn the symptoms. And don’t ignore them.

Source: www.goredforwomen.org

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FRANCINE JEFFERSON Justice Court Judge District -2, Holmes County MS.

Francine Jefferson is a community organizer and advocate for children with disabilities.

She is a minister and until about ten months ago, she served as an elected member of the Holmes County Board of Education.

She was actually the president of the board at the time of her departure.

On a daily basis she ministers at nursing homes, churches, and on the street. She organizes to fight issues that impact her community, and she educates & registers voters.

She advocates for the rights of all children, but especially children with disabilities.

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Jefferson decided to run for Justice Court Judge because, usually when people hear of or think of court it's with uneasiness or a sense of negativity, and that's unfortunate because the justice court is the people's court. In fact, this court used to be called the justice of the peace. “I like that, and I like the idea of bringing peace to my community.

This court is the place where ordinary people can have disputes settled in a fair way.”

Holmes is a poor county and folks don't bring an attorney into the justice court. “As the judge, I'll have the opportunity and responsibility to treat them with respect and dignity and to educate them, not belittle them. I'm committed to making sure every litigant's rights are protected.

It is very possible to have a firm, fair and impartial legal process inside the court room, and I'm committed to making that happen.”

Jefferson wants voters to know that she has a servant's heart and lives by the principle of "JOY": Jesus, others, then yourself. “I believe that we will be judged by the way we treat the least among us: the poor, the hungry, the children, the widows, the sick, the unlearned, and the elders. I believe to whom much is given, much is required. This isn't just about financial resources, but about respect, dignity, a fair chance, and justice. I want people to know that I'll be a judge who is cognizant, that I'm being judged by my maker, and that I have to give an account to Him.” “I want people to know that I will do what I say I'll do, and I advocate for my community, and Mississippi

every chance I get no matter who's listening. Isaiah 58:1 says; Cry aloud and don't hold back...and I speak for my people whenever opportunity presents itself. I will always stand up for what's right, and I'll call out what is wrong. Integrity, compassion, temperament, experience, and sound judgment are key factors to success on the bench.”

Jefferson received more opposition her first time out. “Our political environment consistently reminds us that this is a man's world, and they are not fully receptive of women's leadership; not in the military, not in politics, not as superintendents, not as pastors, nor high school principals.”

Jefferson would advise a woman running for public office by saying, “I would say you go girl! I’d say to make sure she is able to rise above the petty stuff and not allow herself to give into dirty politics. Don't try to be as hard as a man, whatever that is, just be yourself. Run a race with integrity and serve people before self. Listen to the people and take on what matters to them because that's who you'll be representing.”

Don't run for any office for the money, if that's the purpose - go get a job. Political offices are not 9 to 5 gigs. When you're elected you belong to the people 24/7. Be willing to make yourself available to them, be respectful, and remember that you asked for the position and you work for them, not the other way around. Finally, when you get tired, when your fire is gone, take a break.

If that doesn't help to restore your fire then don't be afraid or ashamed to step down. You will never be

effective for your people when your fire to serve is gone.

Jefferson is a retired US Navy veteran so she has attended several colleges such as: University of Alaska, Cuyamaca College in Rancho San Diego, University of California, San Diego, Jackson State University and she finally graduated, cum laude, from Belhaven University with a degree in Social Services.

She is a widow now and has been for almost two years. She has no biological children of her own, so she is especially close to her brothers’ kids. “I also have been blessed with god-children and thank the lord that they're adults and I didn't have to take on that responsibility full time.

I love my babies, but kids are life altering and I've never been ready for that. I love being a weekend mom, a summer vacation mom, or the spring break mom. We have fun! I get to spoil them and send them back!”

Born in Lexington, MS in Holmes County, Francine Jefferson was raised with her two younger brothers, Rayford Jr. and Chris Jefferson by her parents are Mr. Rayford Sr. & Mrs. Thelma Jefferson. Her dad passed away nine years go.

Jefferson now resides in Holmes County close to her family. “Family is very crucial to me. We're all very close.”

Jefferson will be a very firm, yet extremely fair judge. Jefferson is committed to rule impartially, bringing resolution, justice, and peace to every dispute. She will apply swift justice as permitted under the law. Judge Jefferson - "The People's Choice for Justice"

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LISA WYNN Candidate for State Representative (District 38), Starkville, Clay, Crawford and Artesia Wynn was born and raised in Starkville, Mississippi and attended Mississippi State University. She lived in Atlanta for a while but relocated to Mississippi after having her son. “Mississippi is home for me and I don't foresee any change. I grew up in a rural area of Oktibbeha County in a community called Rockhill. I am a single mother to my son 2nd Lt. Tyler I. Wynn who is a Mississippi State University alumnus and is now serving our State as an Army reservist.”

Wynn is a project manager for Gladney Construction where she manages all construction projects to ensure that they are completed within the set timeframes. Additionally, she also serves as the resource manager to ensure that all equipment is available throughout the project.

When asked why she chose to run for this particular office her response was, “District 38 is a minority district that has never received any visible or tangible resources for the community.

My primary focus will be to create legislation that is district specific.

Other legislation I want to support is expanding our state's Medicare roll and reducing our state's prison roll.”

“I want a voter to form the opinion that I am committed to public service. I am a former teacher and a former elected

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Born and raised in Starkville, MS, Lisa Wynn was fascinated with politics in high school and she was active in her community. “I told my childhood friend, Nicole, that I would like to serve as a state representative. I actually sought this position in 2017 during a special election.

Shortly after qualifying I had an accident and fractured bones in my right ankle.” official (City of Starkville, Alderwoman 2013-2017).”

advice from Shirley Chislom on page 49.”

As it pertains to opposition as a woman running for politics, she has received some opposition. “People are sometimes very hostile toward women seeking office. It is expected that a woman should be meek at all times. Politics is not checkers it is chess. I recently read Donna Brazil's book titled "For Colored Girls Who Have considered Politics." I would encourage women that want to seek office to read this wise resource and particularly the

“I would advise any woman seeking to run for political office to do your homework and do it thoroughly because you will be challenged at some point. It is imperative to develop "alligator skin" because at some point you are going to need it. Always extend your hand to help people and causes.

As a public servant it’s what you signed up for and always ask God to keep you humble.”

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KASSIE COLEMAN

District Attorney - Tenth Circuit Court District – Clarke, Kemper, Lauderdale and Wayne Counties Kassie Coleman was born and raised in Lauderdale County, MS and attended Southeast Lauderdale High School where she graduated in 1996. She then attended University of Southern Mississippi and graduated with a Bachelor of Arts in 1999 and Mississippi College School of Law where she graduated with her Juris Doctorate in 2003.

“Mississippi always has been and always will be home. I enjoy traveling and have seen many parts of the world. But, I’m thankful for the community that raised me and the communities I’ve made home over the years.” Coleman now resides in Lauderdale, MS. She is married to Jay Mercer and has two teenage bonus daughters.

Coleman is currently the District Attorney for the Tenth Circuit Court District where on a daily basis she prosecutes felony cases in Clarke, Kemper, Lauderdale and Wayne counties. She is a strong advocate for crime victims and law enforcement officers. She also has the experience to bring pre-trial intervention and alternative sentencing options to our district.

“I am running for election to remain District Attorney because protecting the community in which I live is important to me, and I know I’m the most qualified person for the job.”

“Serving as a prosecutor is a calling.

I am the best, most experienced candidate for this office because I am fire-tested as a full-time prosecutor. I have tried countless felony cases of the most serious nature in circuit court; I have been a strong advocate for victims of crime and law enforcement officers; I have the respect of other prosecutors (past president of the Mississippi Prosecutors Association); and I know the people of the 10th Circuit Court District, their needs, and their ways because I was born and raised here.”

“If elected, my main focus will be carrying on the tradition of excellence established by my predecessor, Bilbo Mitchell, during his 30-plus years of service by making sure that my office protects victims of crime and enforces their rights, supports police officers and sheriff’s deputies as they make sacrifices to enforce our laws, and brings justice to those who would threaten our safety, steal or damage our property, abuse our children and/ or vulnerable adults and otherwise violate the laws that are in place. After all, a society that does not adequately enforce its laws is merely an anarchy.”

“For a district attorney, the most important issue is applying the available resources in the manner that most effectively and efficiently protects the law-abiding citizens of the county and district. That is why

my office has already hit the ground running since my appointment to this position by participating in the drug court program, establishing a pre-trial intervention program that pays for itself, thus saving countless dollars for the county while simultaneously rehabilitating some non-violent offenders without stigmatizing them for life, and phasing in a more vertically-oriented approach to prosecution by involving our assistant district attorneys in new felony cases before they even reach the grand jury. At the same time, because of the threat they pose, it is crucial that we maintain a tough stance against those who commit violent crimes against persons, which would obviously be the most important issue to those who have been, or might be, their victims and which concern is a top priority in my office.”

The advice I would give to any woman running for political office would be to Pray. Seek God’s wisdom and guidance. Understand that it will not be easy, but you are never alone. Surround yourself with a strong group of friends, including a strong, praying, faithful group of female friends.

How can voters reach you?

Facebook - Kassie Coleman for District Attorney Phone - (601) 953-4574 Email - coleman4da@gmail.com

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I am Sarita M. Simmons, an AfricanAmerican woman seeking to be elected as MS State Senator for District 13, which spans three counties in Northwest Mississippi (Bolivar, Sunflower and Tallahatchie).

Currently, I reside in my hometown, Cleveland, MS, which lies in the heart of the MS Delta.

Having lived out of state for several years after graduating from Alcorn State University in 1999, I am grateful for the experiences and the people I encountered on my journey; yet, there was a longing to return to Mississippi. My initial motivation for moving away was to seek better career opportunities; yet, sixteen years ago, an opportunity to return home and manage the family business presented itself. Upon my return to Bolivar County, I realized that many of my peers had also been pushed to leave the Mississippi Delta in pursuit of better options.

At this time, I am still General Manager of The Senator’s Place restaurant in Cleveland, MS, and I oversee the daily operations of the establishment.

I decided to run for the District 13 Senate seat to advocate for our public-school system and ensure that

our schools are adequately funded.

I also want to fight to increase access to affordable healthcare throughout Mississippi. Recruiting industries to bring more jobs and opportunities to the MS Delta is also a priority. Although I have no children, I understand how difficult it is to support a family without the ability to earn a decent living wage.

I would like for the citizens to know that I am dedicated to continuing the work necessary to uplift the MS Delta and the state at large. I believe public servants have a responsibility to the constituency they serve to be open, honest, and transparent regarding the decisions they make. If given the opportunity to serve, I will bring fairness, empathy, and accountability to the citizens of Mississippi.

I have not encountered any opposition as a woman running for this position;

however, since taking this leap of faith, there have been numerous people expressing that they are intrigued as well as inspired by my faith, focus and fortitude.

If elected to the State Senate, my main focus will be making strides in curbing the “brain drain” and creating opportunities for our young adults to pursue their dreams right here in the Mississippi Delta. Harnessing homegrown talent and skills is a crucial step toward revitalizing and uplifting the community, the district, and the great state of Mississippi.

The advice I would give to another woman wanting to run for political office is to seek God first through prayer. Don’t engage the “naysayers” because there will always be opposition. Even when negativity creeps in, your goal should be to always maintain integrity.

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KATHRYN YORK Mississippi Senate District 8

Born in Georgia and raised by two public school teachers, Kathryn York attended the University of Georgia (B.A.) and the University of Mississippi (M.A.).

When asked to describe her Mississippi experience she stated, “Beautiful.

Mississippi is ground zero for so many of the cultural, historical, artistic pieces of American culture. And the people are what makes it so unique. From teaching to community organizing to building partnerships statewide - every person I have had the opportunity to meet and know has taught me something important about myself and the world around us. Mississippians are magic - pure and simple.”

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York works for a national nonprofit that brings new teachers to Mississippi, trains and supports them through their first two years in the classroom.

York decided to run for this particular office because she has always been invested in education since both her parents were public school teachers. She wanted to positively impact education here in Mississippi from the classroom

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floor. “I started teaching in Marks, Mississippi - where my students were outstanding, my fellow teachers and my community was welcoming and encouraging - and I got to experience first-hand what our kids and teachers are up against.”

“This past August, my own daughter started school in Water Valley, MS. And while Davidson Elementary School is not facing the kind of challenges schools in the Delta are

facing - it isn’t enjoying the same advantages as schools just twentyfive miles away in Oxford are. The inequity was personal - and it made me angry. I knew the next time I had the opportunity to directly impact decisions that were being made for children and families around me, I would take it.

And so - here we are.

York wants voters to know that she is an honest to goodness hard worker.

“When I put my mind to something, I will work until it is achieved. And, I believe that is how we will get some of the things I propose done.

Standing up, making a solid plan, and then doing the work it takes to get the job done.”

York’s main focus should she get elected will be first and foremost, education. “We have some work to do to get our education system in order, and I intend to do just that.”

“People often ask me what I will do with my children while I am in office.

I don’t think a lot of men get that same question. I have a wonderful husband who is a strong father for our kids. He is so supportive that the “what about the kids” question was a no-brainer. Of course, I’ll be with them as much as possible - and he will be there to hold down the fort when I have to be away.”

The advice she would give to a woman thinking about running for a political office is to do it. “We need more voices of women in the mix as our state-level leaders (and leaders at all levels) make decisions for families and communities. Women bring so much to the table. My advice is to go for it.”

York and her family now live in Water Valley, Mississippi. “I have two beautiful children and an amazing husband. We love to explore the world around us! We cook together, take family walks, and visit museums when we can. My daughter and I love to bake together.”

MOTHER

TEACHER

LEADER

Kathryn is a working mom who believes in the power and possibility of all Mississippians. Her experiences as a parent, teacher, and business leader taught her that when we put the right people and the right resources in the right places, we can transform our state and foster thriving communities. Kathryn has the tenacity, courage, and commitment to make this vision a reality.

EDUCATION

Fully-funded,high-quality education for every child in Mississippi.

ECONOMIC DEVELOPMENT

A thriving economy built on smart choices creating freedom and opportunity for every citizen.

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Safe roads and bridges for commercial delivery and pick up, school buses, and our family vehicles.

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WHY

PERFECT PEOPLE

HATE THEMSELVES

By Maximus Wright

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read once that being a perfectionist is the worse form of self-abuse. I don’t think I agreed with that statement when I first read it because I was and am a recovering perfectionist. But now…I do. The need to be perfect is a very torturing one. No matter how good your appearance or performance may be, there is this little voice in the back of your head pointing out everything that was wrong or could be better. No matter how many compliments you get, it’s that one criticism or that one wrong look that screams the loudest.

At the very core of someone suffering from “needing” to be perfect or even wanting to be something other than themselves, is the belief that “as is” they are not good enough.

The reason perfection is the goal is it’s a futile attempt to prevent criticism.

Perfectionism is a “covering of all the bases”, so there is no room for criticism. Criticism of a perfectionist is not the same as to others. Criticism of a perfectionist is a white heat of pain and embarrassment rushing their soul.

It’s painful and embarrassing for two reasons, one, that someone could see

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an imperfection, which enforces the belief that “you” are not good enough, and two; someone could see an imperfection that the perfectionist did not catch themselves. This is a double dose of pain. It is not just a problem with a perfectionist’s appearance or performance it’s anything associated and connected with them, like family, friends, job, or a favorite sports team.

It is anything that can be connected to the sufferer on an emotional level.

Within my personal and professional life, perfection has prevented me from pursuing my dreams wholeheartedly.

Les Brown said, “The lack of confidence to act results in a lost opportunity.” I always felt the need to “perfect” my craft before I gave the world an opportunity to see it. How many times have I written stories and quotes and blogs, even before blogs existed?

I can’t tell you how many revelations of personal development that imploded my mind as I scrambled to write them down on napkins, tissue, receipts and sometimes my arm. It was literally earth SHATTERING- simply

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the best life changing thoughts to be encompassed in the written symbolism of words. After I critiqued it for hours, I found all the weaknesses and those thoughts were bundled into a notebook, never to see florissant light again. I am horrified to think what inspiration may have been destroyed written on the back of a Wendy’s napkin.

Perfection demands that you become more than what you currently are. And we should all aim for improvement, but this is abuse. That voice in your mind is not there to better you but to destroy your self-esteem and self-perception.

I couldn’t accept the genius of my gifting because, in essence, my gifting was an extension of myself. If I wasn’t perfect- I was nothing.

Most of this may originate from your childhood, maybe a domineering parent, but the majority of the abuse is yours and mine. We need to understand what every parent already knows, a child is perfect simply because they exist, and we are ALL God’s children.

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“The Brooch Approach”

by Denise Donald

Brooches are timeless and elegant.

There are so many different ways to wear a brooch. Pullout those brooches that are in the bottom of your jewelry box!

If you don’t have any brooches, start your collection now by going to www. mypinkleopard.com!

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3. Pull out your denim jacket or denim vest. Pin a brooch or two on the BACK, upper left side of your jacket! (This will definitely have people checking you out from behind! Lol!) Let me know how you wear your brooches!

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