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s always, I am so thankful that spring is finally here. It feels so wonderful to open the windows and let all the warm spring air inside my space. Happily anticipating all the incredible activities that warmer weather makes possible, I can almost smell the burgers on the grill and hear the soft splash of my paddle as I kayak down the river!

While we all get busy spring cleaning both our homes and our yards, I’m hopeful you will find a quiet moment to break away from all the work, grab our magazine (and maybe a cold beverage)…and simply enjoy

yourself. We’ve got some great warm weather ideas on the pages ahead and we know you’ll find several “somethings” of interest to read.

In the coming months, we’ll all be busy with wonderful celebrations: Mother’s Day, Memorial Day, Emancipation Day, graduations, weddings and more. My sincerest wish is that, during the busyness of this coming month, you will make the time to break away for quiet moments of gratitude. These are the moments that make life worthwhile.

Wishing you an amazing May ~ Darlene

Can you see the holiness in those things you take for granted–a paved road or a washing machine? If you concentrate on finding what is good in every situation, you will discover that your life will suddenly be filled with gratitude, a feeling that nurtures the soul.”

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You simply will not be the same person two months from now after consciously giving thanks each day for the abundance that exists in your life. And you will have set in motion an ancient spiritual law: the more you have and are grateful for, the more will be given you.”

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Slice your watermelon into ½ inch thick pieces.

Lay your watermelon in a single layer on your grill until you get nice deep grill marks.

Flip slices and grill the other side. Once both sides are grilled, emove from the grill.

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arenting, as they say, is not for the weak of heart. It has always been one of the most challenging (and most rewarding) jobs a human being can undertake. In the age of social media, it seems that the expectations are higher than ever.

New parents are thrown into the deep end, sleep-deprived and insecure, only to find glossy images on Instagram and Facebook that tell them that life with a newborn should be an unending parade of sweet snuggles in a home that is neat and tidy.

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“As a new parent, your whole world is turned upside down. Things rarely go exactly as planned. I think society expects you to be perfect, relaxed and comfortable from the time you find you’re pregnant. These things are unrealistic.”

Lisa says that she knew from a young age that she wanted to work with kids and babies. She started babysitting in the summers at the tender age of 11 and moved on to working in daycare centers during High School. When she decided that she preferred to work in more intimate, one-on-one environments, she headed to Denver to attend the Nanny School.

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It’s okay to be nervous and to ask for help. It will help you be the best, most confident, relaxed parent for your baby.

A member of the National Academies of Nannies and a graduate of the Newborn Care Solutions Advanced course, Lisa is trained in the Sleepwonders program. She uses this holistic method to help her clients with pediatric sleep conditioning and training, working closely with families to develop a sleep strategy that works well for the whole family. This brings much-needed rest and order to families during what can be a chaotic and overwhelming time in their lives.

Lisa values being able to work with her families to help raise their children and is inspired daily by the babies themselves. They grow and develop so quickly, learning to communicate with others and make sense of the world around them. She feels an incredible sense of awe at the way these little ones love deeply and completely. We would all do well to follow their example.

Lisa loves to spend her free time in creative pursuits.

When she’s not taking care of her small charges, she loves to spend time crafting and scrapbooking. She also enjoys traveling and prides herself on her ability to plan incredible vacations. Her perfect day, in fact, involves waking up on a cruise ship before heading off to explore an island she’s never visited before.

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The Power of Mother/Daughter Relationships

Practicing Appreciation

BY ASHLEY CARTER YOUNGBLOOD, LMSW, LMFT, CMHIMP

This month we get to celebrate Mother’s Day. What a wonderful opportunity to reflect on the one who gave us life! I challenge you, however, to not only reflect on your love for your mother, but to communicate it!

WHAT’S IN A NAME?

For some of us, our mothers are living and we are close to them. For others, our mothers are living but are far away, whether emotionally or geographically. For others still, we do not know our mothers or they have passed on.

Regardless of your situation, I challenge you to consider during this month what exactly it means to be a “mother.” Your mother may have given birth to you. But, you also may have had a “mother” who was a teacher who encouraged you to follow your dreams. Your partner’s mother may offer you more unconditional love than your own biological mother has ever been able to. Perhaps you are not able to have the children you desperately want to have and can strive to be the “mother” that your lonely neighborhood kid needs.

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FOR THOSE WHO ARE STRUGGLING

In my work as a psychotherapist, I have found that the mother/daughter relationship can be the strongest, most stable bond that gets a person through the hardest time of their life. But, it can also be one of the most naturally tumultuous relationships, depending on the circumstances. Sometimes the tension can be because we are so similar to our mothers –whether we care to admit it or not! Sometimes it is because we are so different. Whatever the reason for your love, or even if the thought of the relationship is burdened by hurts, for this month, practice finding one kernel of beauty in the relationship & speak it.

If you can, speak it out loud to your mother, practicing your willingness to show appreciation for all that your mother has offered in your life. (Think about all of those late nights and dirty diapers!) If your mother is no longer living, speak it to

yourself in honor of her. If there is tension, see if there is one tiny area where you have gratitude, even if it is the stunning nose you inherited from her.

It is not enough to just have people in our lives. Practice communicating your appreciation for them. Say “I love you,” “Thanks for all you have done for me,” just because. Share a special memory. Create a special monthly mother/daughter day. Use this month to not only honor the mother/ daughter relationship, but to engage in it and savor it.

Ashley Carter Youngblood is a psychotherapist and Certified Mental Health Integrated Medicine Provider at Inner Peace Counseling, PLC in Kalamazoo. Her specialties include women’s issues, anxiety, holistic healing, and mindfulness.

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A Mother’s Love

BY ERICA SHIER

“ There is no way to be a perfect mother but a million ways to be a good one.”

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hink for a moment of every mother you’ve had the privilege to know in your life. Whether it’s the one who gave birth to you, the ones walking along side you as you move through life or the ones that paved the way, chances are that each of these unique women inhabits the role in a way all her own.

For every woman who decides when and how she wants to have a family and executes that plan flawlessly, there are many women who have a very different story tell. Some women find themselves pregnant and facing motherhood in a time not of their choosing, with unexpected decisions looming before them. Other women find themselves struggling with infertility and have to make difficult choices about how to create the family they desperately desire. No path is the “right” one and the routes taken to motherhood do not make on woman more of a mother than any other.

This month we have the privilege to introduce you to two incredible women who came to the title of “Mom” in their own unique ways.

Their paths, lives and approaches may different but their fierce love and dedication to their families are very much the same.

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KATE MOORE’S journey to motherhood

began with a delightful surprise. She and her husband, Adam, had been married for three years and had not even begun to discuss when to start the family they both wanted when Kate discovered she was pregnant.

Henry was such a sweet, happy baby that they soon decided to try for another baby. They expected it to be simple. After all, Henry had come to them so easily.

Unfortunately, Kate and Adam encountered something that many couples experience but few know about until it happens to them; secondary infertility. After years had passed and no sibling appeared for Henry, the couple began to discuss adoption. It was something they had always wanted to do, but planned to pursue once their biological children were teenagers. Now, though, adoption might be their only choice for growing their family.

Research into the process was disheartening for the couple, as they realized that private, domestic adoption would be prohibitively expensive. When they were informed that they could adopt for free from the foster care system, they initially balked. They feared the pain and trauma involved in bonding with a child, only to face the threat of having to return him or her to the biological family (especially if that family was unsafe). They weren’t sure if they wanted to expose themselves and Henry to the risk of such pain.

They let the idea of fostering rest for a couple of years, only to discover that they both experienced a change of heart at the same time. They deeply believe that God changed their minds and readied their hearts for fostering and moved ahead with the process in 2012. Kate took a leave from her full-time position as HR Director for a local company, so that she could be closer to home as they navigated this new family landscape. The couple fostered for three years, with kids coming and going during that period.

Every case was difficult and painful, but one in particular was so traumatic and ended so badly that Kate wondered if she could ever foster again. Before long, though, she determined that good foster care will always be heartbreaking; that the depth of the heartache reflected the depth of the love. She ultimately decided that the love she could show and the difference she could make in the lives of these children was worth the pain.

Shortly after this time, Kate and Adam decided to try fertility treatments. After three unsuccessful IUI attempts, and weathering the financial and emotional toll they brought, Kate felt desperate. In a moment of deep grief, she poured her heart out before God, holding nothing back. As she worked through her emotions, she arrived at a place of relative peace and deep trust in God. She asked, very simply and sincerely, that he send her a son.

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She later discovered that Adam had uttered that very same prayer, that exact day.

The next day the couple’s foster care agency called to see if they would take in a four day old newborn baby boy. Both instantly believed that God had answered their prayers. That sweet little baby is now their four year old son.

A year having Evan join their family, they had the opportunity to welcome his biological baby brother, Isaiah, into their home. The road to their adoptions was rocky and painful; Kate doesn’t deny or gloss over this fact. “Being a mom has been a rollercoaster of pain and joy for me. I have learned so much about love, hope, strength and trust through the process.

The valleys I’ve walked through as a mother have made me realize that no mountain-top should ever be taken for granted.”

Kate, Adam and the boys live in Southwest Michigan with their rescue dog, Marley. Kate has recently returned to work full time in Human Resources, supporting the HR and Talent Development departments of a local credit union. She loves being a mother and especially relishes the moments of discovery and connection that occur when she gets to experience the things that most bring them joy. She notes. “There’s a subtle-but-worldchanging difference between when your kids are enjoying something and when they’re enjoying something because you are part of it.

Those are moments I love most - and the hugs, snuggles and words of gratitude that come out of those moments are treasures.” •

a little one. In February of 2013, the couple welcomed a bouncing baby boy they named Kael. A brother, named Jack, followed in May of 2015 and the arrival of a little girl named Ryleigh in March of last year made them into a family of five.

When Amelia was pregnant with Ryleigh, they discovered she would be born with a Bilateral Cleft Lip and Palate. Upon her birth, she was also diagnosed with Metopic Craniosynostosis (a premature fusion of an infant’s cranium).

Both of Ryleigh’s diagnoses required surgical intervention and the follow-up care required have posed some challenges to the family.

Amelia is grateful that, as a stay-at-home Mom, she has increased flexibility for doctor’s appointments and other logistical concerns. She is also incredibly thankful to live in a state that offers both access to doctors who specialize in cranial reconstruction and Children’s Special Healthcare (a fund that helps to cover the costs associated with the medical care required).

Amelia is so inspired by her little girl. In her first year of life, little Ryleigh faced more medical challenges than most people go through in a lifetime, but she bounces back each and every time. She has an indomitable spirit and a sweet smile for everyone she meets. It’s Amelia’s greatest wish that every child, no matter where they live in the world or whether their parents can afford it, would have access to the medical care they need.

That’s why organizations like Operation Smile,

Cranio Care Bears and Cuddles for Clefts are near and dear to her heart.

Amelia relishes her life as a mother and loves that she gets to be home with her children.

She especially appreciates the time it gives her to share the things she loves with them. For example, she is passionate about science and takes every opportunity to share that interest with her children. Watching them learn and discover as they make volcanoes or play with slime is deeply satisfying for her.

While she wouldn’t trade her time at home, Amelia does admit that the monotony and repetition of life as a stay-at-home mother can begin to wear on her. She is careful to find time for herself, whether that means spending some time outdoors or taking a leisurely stroll down the aisle of a bookstore, looking for her next read. Reading is Amelia’s very favorite way to relax and she indulges whenever she can. She read 216 books last year alone and if she gets to finish an entire cup of coffee before it grows cold while she is reading one, she is truly content. • Erica Shier is a married mother of four who loves reading, scrapbooking & thrift stores. When she’s not driving her small pack of children around, she spends her time volunteering, writing & trying to keep on top of the laundry.

AMELIA LAMBRIGHT was pretty sure

she didn’t want a family of her own. Until she was 26, she was determined to dedicate herself to a career, eschewing the role of mother. In 2009, Amelia became an aunt for the first time and the love she felt for her niece, Zoey, made her think that maybe she did want to have children of her own. When she and her husband Kyle decided to start a family, they expected things to move quickly.

Instead, they (like so many other couples) ran into the roadblock that is infertility.

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Coping With

Mother’s Day When You Don’t

Fit the Mold

BY EMILY BETROS

Whether you are a mom, have a mom, or fall somewhere in between, Mother’s Day can bring up many different emotions. Some of us dream of becoming a mom one day and won’t be able to. Some of us have lost our mom too soon. And, let's face it, some of us just don’t have a great relationship with the person who brought us into this world.

Regardless of the category you fall into, if you find yourself struggling this Mother’s Day, consider these tips to help get you through the day:

DISCONNECT FROM SOCIAL MEDIA Your feed is bound to be filled with all things “mom” and there’s no reason to fill your brain with these images, quotes, and tributes. If you are already feeling sad or lonely, seeing other people's joy and celebrations won’t help.

Show yourself some compassion and log off for the day.

DO SOMETHING FOR YOURSELF

If you already know that this day is going to be emotionally draining and challenging for you, schedule something to fill your cup.

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Hang out with a friend, work on a project, get a massage or anything else that will put a smile on your face. You deserve a little love everyday, and this day is no different.

HAVE SELF-COMPASSION

If you’ve struggled with infertility, miscarriage(s), or have an estranged relationship with your mom know that you are not alone and your feelings are completely normal on this day. Acknowledge that this day is tough for you. Feel your feelings.

Write them down or talk to a friend. You don’t have to hide your feelings. Tell yourself that it’s OK to be sad. Be kind to yourself just like you would a young child. Once you have notices and acknowledged how you are feeling, see if there is anything you can let go.

CELEBRATE YOURSELF

Wherever you are in this journey, know that there are a million others amazing things that make you who you are. Yes, being a mom or having a mom is a special role and relationship that some of us get to experience.

But, this is only one day of the year. You are

an incredible person! Honor where you are at in your life right now. Love yourself.

CREATE A NEW TRADITION

Mother’s Day isn’t likely to fall of our calendars anytime soon. Consider starting your own tradition on this day to make it your own. Maybe you recount memories, do something to honor someone else, find a way to give back to the community, head to Lake Michigan, or buy a new book. Whatever you decide, make sure it’s something you’ll look forward to year after year.

It’s important on this day to treat ourselves with unconditional love, acceptance, and compassion. Be patient with yourself and know that you are not alone.

Emily Betros is a licensed clinical social worker, certified health coach, and owner or Reclaiming Health, LLC. She helps clients put together an individualized plan to meet their health goals. Emily enjoys hiking, traveling, vegan-izing recipes, and spending time with her husband and daughter.

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ummer is almost here and it’s time to get outside and enjoy living in one of the most beautiful states in the country. Take a short drive west and spend a day with our newest readers in beautiful St. Joseph. Whether you are looking for a relaxing day on the water, family fun, great shopping, fine dining or an exceptional round of golf…

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Downtown St. Joe is also home to a vibrant art scene; the gem being the Krasl Art Center. Offering high quality are exhibitions, classes, instillations and a beautiful permanent sculpture collection, Krasl is always on our to-do list.

EVENTS – Summer in St. Joe is event season and there is something to do every weekend. Just 15 miles south in Bridgman, MI, the Makers Trail Festival showcases Southwest Michigan’s best beer, wine and spirits. Held June 8th at Weko Beach.

St.Joseph’s gorgeous bluff is the home of the Krasl Art Fair on July 13th-14th. Featuring 200 artist vendors, food, music and a beer and wine garden, this is a must attend event. The Shadowland Pavillion hosts Summer Jam on August 3rd and features great live music.

Visit the Southwest Michigan Tourist Council’s website at www.swmichigan.org for more information on these great summer events.

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Silver Beach Pizza offers amazing, thin crust pizza and the coldest beer in town. Just tell you server, “Schooner me!” With 74 draft tap handles, The Buck Burgers & Brew offers diners the largest selection of draft beer in Southwest Michigan. Head out to their deck and enjoy an amazing burger while taking in the scenery.

Ryebelle’s offers handcrafted cuisine with breathtaking views of Lake Michigan on their full service rooftop. Plank’s Tavern located in The Inn at Harbor Shores offers everything from pub fare to fine dining in a beautiful setting. Bistro on The Boulevard offers French inspired dishes with local ingredients (the mushroom soup is phenomenal).

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FRIED CAULIFLOWER

L o c at e d i n s i d e S a w a l l H e a l t h F o o d s

Café ‘36 | 2965 Oakland Dr • Oakwood Plaza • Kalamazoo CAFÉ HOURS | Monday-Saturday 11am-9pm | Sunday 12pm-6pm I met several friends for dinner on a Friday night at Café 36. Cafe 36 is a hidden gem located inside Sawall Health Food store.

A couple years ago the store expanded and added a second story to hold the restaurant.

The first time I visited, I was hesitant. A fine dining restaurant inside a grocery store?! But I’m telling you, it’s super cute up there and once you sit and get things going, you kind of forget that. Also, Sawall is great. It’s not loud or chaotic so even if you do recognize that you are in a grocery store, it’s not bothersome.

After being seated, I quickly realized that the staff was amazing. They were incredibly attentive and super professional. It’s clear that they are very well trained and accustomed to meeting a high standard of customer service.

We decided to order several starters and share.

We went with the SHRIMP STICKS and the FRIED CAULIFLOWER. I LOVED the shrimp sticks! They were crunchy and delicious and had a caramelized black honey dipping sauce that was divine. The Fried Cauliflower was great as well. It was incredibly flavorful and cooked perfectly. It wasn’t deep fried, so it didn’t have a heavy batter to it. It was just perfect. We all also loved the bread that was brought to the table, cut in little triangles and had rosemary in it.

I had a hard time deciding what to order for my entree. Everything sounded delicious! I ended up going with the CHICKEN POT PIE .

And OH.MY.GOODNESS.

The server set down my plate and I thought that it looked good but kind of bleak. It appeared to be just vegetables and some chicken, BUT THEN he poured the veloute over the mixture.

AND THEN he laid a beautiful flaky puff pastry on top of it. AND THEN he poured more of the veloute on top of that. I was SO excited.

Not only did it look delicious, but I LOVED the presentation of it all. It really helps the meal

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be more enjoyable too, as the puff pastry gets soggy quickly, so it makes more sense to add the liquid just before it is served.

And by the way, it tasted AMAZING! The veloute was rich & flavorful, and the chicken was moist & cut in smaller pieces, so it was very easy to eat. The puff pastry was amazing. I don’t like a traditional pot pie crust because usually they are so dry, so the puff pastry is where it’s at!

One of my friends got the FRIED TOFU. She said it was really good but would have liked a starch like a rice served with it. It came over a bed of sautéed vegetables. The lack of a rice was the only complaint! She said otherwise it was really good!

Another friend got the BACON ON A BONE . We all kind of laughed when they set it down in front of her because it was HUGE! We knew there was no way she would make a dent in that, let alone finish it! It looked very pretty, and she said it was really good.

To finish, we ordered several desserts. We tried the CRÈME BRULE , the CHOCOLATE SOUFFLÉ, and my favorite, the POTS DE CRÈME .

It was great sharing because we got to try a little bit of each!

Cafe 36 was amazing. The atmosphere is cute and modern. Despite it being inside a grocery store, it’s not loud at all.

They do a great job in both content and quality of their food. Everyone was able to find something they loved. I would say this is definitely some of the best food I’ve had in Kalamazoo.

I’m hoping to get back soon, maybe for their Sunday Brunch! It would be a fantastic place to take my Mom for Mother’s Day.

Elizabeth Buckley is a hairstylist by day and 24/7 food enthusiast.

She visits restaurants in the Kalamazoo area and blogs about her experience at feedmekzoo.com

RESTAURANT REVIEW

SHRIMP STICKS

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We are past the April showers and it is time for the May flowers! One of the most popular trends for the 2019 spring and summer season is incorporating florals. Explore different ways to wear the floral trend!

VINTAGE FLORAL

Go vintage shopping to find classic floral pieces. Vintage pieces have unique silhouettes & features, and can be more affordable.

BOTANICAL FLORAL

The botanical floral pattern includes plants and flowers that are dramatic, vibrant, bold, big, and realistic. It is best to save this print for vacation trips and tropical getaways. Swimwear usually includes this pattern, which makes it great for the beach and days in the water.

Janae Thomas is a recent graduate of Western Michigan University with a degree in Fashion Merchandising.

She is passionate about writing, fashion, & the empowerment of women. Headshot by Robin Maxim.

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FLORAL SCENTS

Update your perfume collection with a floral fragrance. Take time to try different sweet, warm, bold, and light scents that floral fragrances offer. If you don’t want to spend money on a more expensive product, you can get floral scented essential oils that serve as a more affordable option.

WATERCOLOR FLORAL

The watercolor floral print is the easiest to pair with other pieces due to its soft and natural pattern verses other bold, abstract, and geometric floral patterns that can be harder to add to looks. The watercolor floral pattern can be worn formally for church and work, and casually for going out.

EMBROIDERED FLORAL

If you find repeating floral patterns too overwhelming, just add a touch of floral print to your look by shopping for an embroidered floral accessory. If you like DIY projects, you can buy floral ironon patches that you can apply to your own clothing and accessories, which are available at etsy.com for super low prices.

An embroidered floral item can add more color and flair to any outfit!

LIBERTY FLORAL

The liberty floral pattern has flowing, curved lines & small flowers. It is energetic and lively.

This pattern is good to wear to upcoming events, especially where photos will be taken.

It looks good on camera! Wear it to upcoming graduation ceremonies, open houses, parties, baby showers, and bridal showers.

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Here's a Thought...

Three Women, Four Random Questions

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o you have a favorite park or trail that you like to visit to get away from it all, or did you just miss the entire weekend catching up with the gang from Schitt’s Creek on Netflix? And if partying with Mick Jagger is on YOUR bucket list, we have just the friend for you. We’re catching up with a few women, and asked them four random questions…

SANDY SHAW

Teacher & Musician 2018 Michigan Orchestra Teacher of the Year

DAWN WORTHINGTON

JULIE JACKSON CHENERY

Owner of Worthington Photography & Video

Co-owner of Autobody USA Type A personality and social butterfly: My passion and purpose is to help others get what they want but don’t waste my time if you aren’t ready to help yourself first.

Where is your favorite place to go for walking and reflection?

Jackson Chenery: Walking in nature with my dog is my happy spot, but it has to be warm and comfortable—68 to 82° with a light breeze.

Shaw: I’ve enjoyed the winter colors at Chipman Preserve in Comstock. Besides discovering unique barks like the spiked Honey Locust Tree, other displays of multi-colored berries and textured fungi are delightful to spot.

Dead logs give way to deep green moss, while some feisty ferns pop out through the snow. It’s nature at its best.

Worthington: The beach is my refuge and ultimate happy place. I love the Florida Golf Coast—St. Pete and Fort Myers Beach. Closer to home, my most creative ideas are developed in the shower.

What are you binge watching right now?

Jackson Chenery: I love to learn, but hate school. Ted Talks and YouTube videos have replaced television. I have a short attention span, but I am very curious.

Favorite Quote: I’ve learned that people will forget what you said, people will forget what you did, but people will never forget how you made them feel. ~ Maya Angelou

along with an adopted baby who happened to be dropped off at the fire station on the same day as the other births. If you want to question your own parenting, watch as these parents always seem to be able to choose the best way to react to their Big Three issues!

Worthington: Heart of Dixie / Netflix

Favorite concert you’ve attended, and what made it special?

Jackson Chenery: Lynyrd Skynyrd with the Grass Roots at Soaring Eagle Casino last year with my lifetime girlfriend Julie. We reconnected, shared a hotel room, and stayed up giggling all night. In the morning when we were checking out, we got to meet the band!

Shaw: I enjoyed sitting near the front row of Miller Auditorium to watch and hear jazz tenor saxophonist, Branford Marcellus, years back.

His brother played the drums while his father, Ellis, played the piano.

Worthington: Billy Joel at Madison Square Gardens. Best part being there with my husband who LOVES Billy Joel.

Shaw: This is Us, on NBC, has caught my fancy. One random item on your bucket list?

Each episode manages to tug at my heartstrings as Jackson Chenery: I would love to spend a day a young couple raises their two surviving triplets with Mick Jagger or Richard Branson.

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Shaw: I’d like to try skiing someday. I’ve always been mildly athletic, but grew up in the flat plains of Saginaw valley. I stayed in Kalamazoo mainly because of the hills that add so much character to this region.

Worthington: Cross country trip in an RV! My retirement plan.

Here’s a thought…

Once you’ve devoured Season 2 of The Marvelous Mrs. Maisel, practice your own standup while walking the Kal Haven Trail or one of the other marvelous parks in the area.

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Fire It Up With winter in the rearview mirror, it’s time to dust off the grill and enjoy cooking in the great outdoors.

Heather Dombos comes from a long, southern tradition of hospitality and hearty cooking. You can usually find her in the kitchen whipping up something special for family and friends.

GRILLED CUBAN CHICKEN THIGHS 4 pounds chicken thighs

Marinade:

1 orange (juiced and zested)

3 limes (juiced and zested)

¼ cup fresh oregano, loosely packed 1 cup fresh cilantro, loosely packed 6 cloves garlic, crushed and chopped

¼ cup olive oil

1 tsp red pepper flakes

1 tsp salt

1 Tbsp dried cumin

Combine all the marinade ingredients in a blender and process until smooth.

Place chicken thighs in a large bowl and pour on the marinade. Ensure that you cover the chicken completely.

Marinate for at least 1 hour, but you can marinate up to 24 hours. The longer, the better.

Heat grill to medium.

Place chicken thighs on grill, cover and cook for 30 – 45 minutes, until thermometer inserted into the thickest part of the thigh reads 165 degrees.

Remove from grill, wrap in foil and let rest for 10 – 20 minutes.

GRILLED PINEAPPLE WITH BROWN SUGAR GLAZE

GARLIC PARMESAN VEGETABLE SKEWERS

1/2 cup brown sugar

1 stick butter, melted

1/4 tsp cinnamon

1/4 tsp vanilla

Place slices on grill for about 2 minutes, until grill marks form.

Rotate each slice 90 degrees and allow to cook 2 more minutes.

Brush each slice with more 1 fresh pineapple, cored mixture and turn over. and sliced Allow slices to cook for about 2 Combine butter, brown sugar, minutes, until grill marks form. cinnamon and vanilla.

Rotate each slice 90 degrees and Stir until blended. allow to cook 2 more minutes.

Place pineapple slices in Remove from grill. mixture and set aside.

Serve with vanilla or dulce de Heat grill to high. leche ice cream.

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5 cobs of sweet corn (shucked) 3 zucchini 1 large red bell pepper 1 large red onion 8 ounces mini red potatoes (washed) 8 ounces mushrooms

1/2 cup olive oil 1/8 cup Weber’s garlic parmesan seasoning 12 thick wooden skewers or metal skewers

Preheat grill to medium-low heat (around 325 degrees).

Cut corn into 1 ½ inch rounds. Cut zucchini into 1 inch rounds. Cut the bell pepper and onion into 1 ½ inch square pieces. If you don’t have mini red potatoes, cube red potatoes into 1 ½ inch pieces.

Work the vegetables onto the skewers.

Mix olive oil and garlic parmesan seasoning in a small bowl and set aside.

Grill for 15 minutes, dry (rotating skewers every 3 minutes). Brush with the olive mixture and grill for an additional 5 minutes.

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Out the Door

with Ease

and Looking GREAT

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ife seems to move faster and faster, right?! And every day we all wear clothes. As my friend, colleague, and style maven mentor Brenda Kinsel says, Life seems to move faster and faster, right?! And every day we all wear clothes. As my friend, colleague, and style maven mentor Brenda Kinsel says, “We all have adventures in our clothes. We all take our clothes off at the end of the day. In the morning we start the process all over again. Getting dressed is an ordinary thing and it is an extraordinary thing.�

Follow these five tips to complete this necessary daily process with ease:

Schedule time to do just that. Plan ahead by giving yourself the luxury of 10, 30, or 60 minutes, on the front end of your week, to plan your wardrobe.

Necessary changes. Make any changes now, while you have time, or re-think a change in garments to create your looks for the week.

Consider your activities and dress goals for the upcoming week. Know the level and type of garments you need for the week. Do you need professional looks for five days this week, or a combination of three professional and two smart casual ensembles?

Next, what is taking place in your evening and weekend activities? Will you need separate outfits for these activities and outings?

Make sure the garments are ready for wear. Once your garments/outfits are selected, check them for stains and any minor repairs that, if let go, would spoil your look and stress you out as you attempt to make it out the door on the day of wear.

Complete your look. Select accessories, shoes, tote/handbag, and any special need in foundation wear, and as you did with your garments, confirm that these items are in good repair and ready to finish your look.

A simple plan, allowing time for yourself, and knowing your dress needs for the week will allow you to not only feel confident with ease, but look great.

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Teach Good Money Values

BY SANDY K DERBY, ChFC, CASL, LUTCF | VP Old National Investments

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re you making money decisions based on personal values? If not, you are probably not teaching your children to do so, either.

In The Financially Intelligent Parent, 8 Steps to Raising Successful, Generous, Responsible Children, authors Eileen and Jon Gallo examine how parents can create an internal structure of values for both themselves and their children that allow them to use money in healthy ways.

According to the Gallos, giving your kids a money value vocabulary is important. This means having the words to make financial decisions based on values. For example, if children are trying to decide whether to spend their entire allowance on video games like their friends do, a money values vocabulary can help them resist peer-group pressure. They can say to themselves, "I believe in saving at least some of my money for more important things in the future, so it doesn't make sense to spend all of it each week on these games."

Teaching kids this vocabulary isn't as difficult as it seems. The problem is that parents keep their values in their hearts rather than articulating them consistently. The book lists

eight money behaviors of financially intelligent parents. Here are a few that will get you started.

Become a charitable family. Teach your children that they can do more with their money than spend it on themselves, and encourage them to be more compassionate and caring. By participating as a family, you help your children learn empathy and responsibility toward others.

Your children will realize they have the power to make life better for others. In a recent copy of “Grandparent” magazine I saw an ad for a child’s bank that has three compartments labeled “Save” “Spend” “Give”. I thought it was wonderful.

Encourage a work ethic. A good work ethic is a learned behavior, and parents are the best models for their kids. Jon Gallo cites a Harvard University study that shows developing the capacity to work, or a work ethic, between 6 and 12 years old is the single biggest predictor of adult mental health.

So how do you develop a work ethic for your children? Jon Gallo cites three major ways.

First is through family chores. However, chores and allowances should not be tied together, he

advises. Kids should not develop an expectation to be paid to do things that they ought to do as a member of the family.

Second, encourage them to "do their best" as opposed to "be the best" when it comes to school work and extracurricular activities. If involved in athletic activities, they have to go to practice, show up on time, and be disciplined – all of which are part of developing a work ethic.

Third, as kids get older, they can get parttime jobs. Parents need to be conscious of the values they model. “One of the most important things for a financially intelligent parent to be aware of is the messages that their own behavior sends to kids. That ranges from always needing the newest thing, to how you treat the clerk at the department store or the person who is parking your car," says Jon Gallo. Give your kids money and good values, and they will treat money as a tool and be good, responsible people.

Give them money without values, and who knows what they will be like,” he adds.

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PODCASTS

2 Dope Queens - Alicia P.

The Lazy Genius Podcast - Heather D.

Phoebe Robinson and Jessica Williams are funny. They're black. They're BFFs. And they host a live comedy show in Brooklyn. Join the 2 Dope Queens, along with their favorite comedians, for stories about sex, romance, race, hair journeys, living in New York, and Billy Joel. Plus a whole bunch of other stuff.

Being a person is hard, and The Lazy Genius Podcast helps you be a genius about the things that matter and lazy about the things that don't.

From laundry and cooking to making new friends and getting fit, host Kendra is there to welcome you into an easier way.

Reply All - Alicia P.

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The Guardian describes Reply All as “a podcast about the internet that is an unfailingly original exploration of modern life and how to survive it.” Hosts PJ Vogt and Alex Goldman explore informative and educational topics like 'is Facebook really listening' and 'why does it seem like Amazon has suddenly gotten a lot sketchier?'

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Spotless is a podcast about cleaning, hosted

by Hanna Brooks Olsen and Andrew Walsh. They help listeners with cleaningrelated questions, test drive new scrubbing techniques, and complain about the way people vacuum in the movies.

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Oprah’s Master Class - Heather D. Hear the greatest life lessons of some of the most respected and renowned actors, musicians, public figures and athletes.

Handpicked by Oprah, these luminaries reveal their lives with candor and insight — in their own words.

LeVar Burton Reads - Heather D. The best short fiction, handpicked by the world’s greatest storyteller. In every episode, host LeVar Burton invites you to take a break from your daily life, and dive into a great story. LeVar’s amazing narration blends with gorgeous soundscapes to bring stories to life.

So, if you loved Reading Rainbow as a child, you will love this podcast.

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May 1 – 26 High School Area Show

Kalamazoo Institute of Arts. This annual juried exhibition celebrates the work of high school artists residing in Allegan, Barry, Berrien, Branch, Calhoun, Cass, Kalamazoo, St. Joseph, and Van Buren counties. Students who qualify may concurrently enter the 6th District Congressional Art Competition, and the winner will receive a trip to Washington DC. 269-349-7775. www.kiarts.org

May 3 Kalamazoo, Rock, Gem, Fossil, Jewelry & Mineral Show

Kalamazoo County Expo Center. Fri 4 – 8 pm, Sat 10 am – 6 pm, Sun 10 am – 5 pm. 60th Show! Explore and discover the world of rocks, minerals, meteorites and fossils; pan for gold, learn about silver smithing, lapidary, faceting, play a game, polish a Petoskey stone, crack open a geode; all this and more can be done at the Show. 269-979-3348. kalamazoorockclub.org

DIY art stations. This event is free and open to the public. 269.382.4676.

May 3 Kalamazoo Film Society Screenings Jolliffe Theatre, 359 S. Kalamazoo Mall. 5 – 8 pm. Kalamazoo Film Society – Will screen a selection of award-winning short films from the 2019 Thomas Edison Black Maria Film Festival. Local filmmaker and Jury's Choice Award winner, Kelly Wittenberg will discuss her film “Representative."

Free. kalfilmsociety.net

May 3 Home Free – Timeless World Tour

Kalamazoo State Theatre. 8 – 10 pm.

The all vocal (a cappella) country music sensation Home Free is bringing Nashville country standards and country-dipped pop hits to Kalamazoo. The band comes to town bringing with them new music and new humor every night. $40 - $60. 269-345-6500. www.kazoostate.com

May 3 – 4 Big Dogg’s House of Hot Rods Spring Tune Up Car Show & Music Various Locations throughout Downtown Celebration Kalamazoo. 5 – 9 pm. Art Hop is May 3 Art Hop

a free event that features new art exhibits in a fun, casual atmosphere.

Numerous galleries and businesses in the downtown area host a variety of artwork. Free. 269-342-5059. www.kalamazooarts.com

May 3 Art Hop – Down Dog Yoga

Down Dog Yoga Center. 5 – 8 pm.

Looking for something fun to do on a Friday night? Stop by our May Art Hop exhibit, Idyllic featuring Hali William's drawings that emphasize the connection between all livings beings and explore themes of loss and friendship. Plan to attend our Friday Heated Vinyasa at 5:30pm before enjoying a fun night out in downtown Kalamazoo! Showers are available. 269-993-2486.

Calhoun County Fairgrounds. In addition to the Car Show, there will be a Woman's World Today Vendor/Merchant Market, Big Dogg's Music Celebration, a Fair Museum, historical School House, a Tram to take you around the fairgrounds, Food Vendors, Dress in your favorite Era contests, Dance competitions and more! $5. 517-8671090. www.bdpnetwork.com

May 3 – 5 Kalamazoo Rock, Gem, Fossil & Mineral Show

Kalamazoo County Expo Center. Fri. 4 – 8 pm, Sat. 10 am – 6 pm, Sun 10 am – 5 pm. Our biggest show ever and fun for the whole family. More demonstrators, kids games, displays and an All-Star lineup of presentations! Come join us for our 60th Anniversary Show!

May 3 Adults $4, Children under 12 free with a Block Party paid adult. 269-665-4300. www.Kalama300 Block of North Burdick Street. 5 – 7 zooRockClub.org pm. The 5th Annual North Burdick Street May 4 Block Party is a family-friendly event Healthy Heart Project hosted by the Community Services Ascension Borgess Heart Institute. 7 Charity. The Block Party features free family-friendly activities, music, dancing, – 10 am. Ascension Borgess is offering food truck, community resource fair and the Healthy Heart Project FREE heart KALAMAZOO • PORTAGE • BATTLE CREEK ST. JOSEPH • SOUTH HAVEN

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SOCIAL MEDIA STRATEGIES THAT GET RESULTS How do I promote my business and engage my audience on social media? Join us in welcoming MASTERMIND member and owner of Stoney Creek Social Media, Dawn Swick-Renshaw as she presents strategies to create social media accounts that deliver results.

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pm. Bike Camp consists of five sessions, starting with an orientation and information session followed by four consecutive Saturday morning information and riding. Specific topics May 4 covered in Bike Camp include bike fit Jessie James Decker for better comfort and efficiency, bicycle Kalamazoo State Theatre. 8 – 10 pm. laws, navigating safely on the road with Jessie James Decker is a country music traffic, and more. $60 individual and $75 singer/songwriter, style entrepreneur, family. www.kalamazoobicycleclub.org. television personality and New York May 9 – 11 Times bestselling author. A star of the Scholastic Book Fairs hit reality show Eric and Jessie, she is the creator and designer of Kittenish, Warehouse Sale a playful fashion line inspired by her Kalamazoo County Expo Center. Thurs. personal style. $40 - $50. 269-34511 a – 7 p, Fri. 9 a – 7 p, and Sat. 6500. www.kazoostate.com 9 a – 4 p. Large book sale offering deep discounts. Admission is free. For May 5 more information call 800-843-0112 Vintage in the Zoo Market or visit www.scholastic.com/bookfairs/ Kalamazoo Farmers Market. 10 am – 5 warehouse pm. Celebrate the Kalamazoo community and its amazing vintage style May 10 at Vintage in the Zoo market. Shop true Farm History Day vintage & antique clothing, furniture, Michigan Flywheelers Museum will be housewares, & more from the best hosting its 20th annual “Farm History vintage vendors in the region. As always, Day." The event teaches students free balloons for the kiddos! 773-319about rural farm life in the early 1900s 4866. www.vintageinthezoo.com with close to 40 hands-on activities like candle dipping and grinding corn.

May 5 Open to all schools and homeschoolers Spring Treasures and Vendor Sale as well as the public. No admission Fulton Christian Church. 10 am – 2 pm. charge to attend. 269-639-2010. www.

The Women's Fellowship will be hosting michiganflywheelers.org their Spring Treasures and Vendor Sale. Enjoy shopping with Direct Sales May 10 vendors, plus handmade creations, Yoga Uncorked at the Skydeck "treasures", and a bake sale. This is SkyDeck. 4:30 – 5:45 pm. Yoga + our Spring fundraiser. Soup and salad Wine? Wine not! Enjoy a delightful lunch are available. Call 269-746-4730 Friday evening yoga class with a view of the Kalamazoo skyline, then stay to May 6 celebrate the start of your weekend with Annual Remembering Mom friends. This is one-of-a-kind yoga event Tea & Celebration you won't want to miss, and space is Stuart Avenue Inn 229 Stuart Avenue, limited - sign up now to save your spot!

Kalamazoo. 1 – 3:30 pm. Remembering Bring your own mat. $20 – includes Mom is a celebration of mothers (and yoga and glass of wine. 269-993-2486. mother figures) no longer with us. Join us as we remember and commemorate May 10 Chamber Music Concert these important women, sharing and Ladies Library Association. 7:30 pm. breathing in their love and lessons, The Ladies Library Association (LLA) while leaning fully into the lives they hosts the talented Arcadia Woodwind gave us. Attendees are encouraged Quintet and the Ensemble des Amis to bring a photo or memento of their mom. Cost is $25/person; $40 for two. for a lovely evening of classic chamber Seating is limited. Call 269-330-5350 to music. Refreshments will be served. We suggest a voluntary donation of $10. reserve your seat.

269-344-3710. www.fb.com/LLAKzoo

May 8 Thriver – Health Talks

Ascension Borgess Health Club– 3025 Gull Rd, 5:30 - 7:00 pm. “Improving Your Quality of Life” is a group of people who have had or having health issues and focusing on health for everyone through education. Ascension Borgess Health Club Sponsored. Free. 269-3811986. ThriverTalks@gmail.com

May 9 Bike Camp Orientation

Greater Kalamazoo Association of Realtors Auditorium. 6:30 – 8:30

May 11 The Mom to Mom Sale

Kalamazoo County Expo Center. 8 am – 1 pm. The area's largest Mom to Mom sale with over 100 booths to shop. Find everything you need in one place including gently used kids' clothing, toys, baby gear, maternity wear, furniture, books, and more! Early admission from 8 am-9 am is $5 for adults. General admission from 9 am-1 pm is $2 for adults. 269-903-5820 lorie.money123@gmail.com

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May 11 Touch-A-Truck

Kalamazoo County Expo Center, east lawn. 10 am – 12 pm siren-free and 12 – 2 pm general admission. This is a family friendly event where kids of all ages can touch and learn. With over 50 unique vehicles there will be something here for everyone! $10 per Family or Adults $4, Children $2 (2 and under free). 269815-0034. fundraising@jlkalamazoo.org jlkalamazoo.org/touch-a-truck

May 11 Chief Noonday Circle Pines Hike

Wetherbee Farm. This reclaimed Michigan Centennial Farm built in 1870 features an Italianate home with serene landscape and horses at play.

The day will feature historic demonstrations, music, games, and much more. “PortageHDC” on Facebook. $5 (Children 12 and under FREE) – early tickets sold online or at the Portage Senior Center. www.portagemi.gov/434/ Historic-District-Commission

May 18 Kzoo Bike Week: Yoga for Cyclists

Circle Pines Center. 11 am – 3 pm. CND Circle Pines Hike, Saturday, May 11, 2019, 11 am. Let's hike Circle Pines this spring! Enjoy your choice of a free, guided out and back hike of 10 miles or 4 miles on a natural surface. 269-8087334. jane_a_norton@yahoo.com. northcountrytrail.org/cnd/index.htm

Down Dog Yoga Center. 12 – 1 pm.

Join Jeremy on Saturday at Noon to finish off Kalamazoo Bike Week with a special Yoga class for Cyclists.

Stretch out your legs, hips, back, and shoulders and unwind from the week!

You can pre-register below or drop in on Saturday (space permitting). 269993-2486.

May 14 MASTERMIND Meeting

May 18 Integrative Breathwork Workshop

The Fetzer Center. 5:30 – 8 pm. The focus this month is social media strategies that get results! Thank you to our May sponsors ASEA Cellular Health and Senior Care Partners. P.A.C.E. www.wlskmastermind.com

May 16 The History of Fort Custer

Oshtemo Township Hall, 7275 West Main, Kalamazoo. 7 pm. The History of Fort Custer will be presented by retired Army Colonel Jim Spackman.

He will explore the Fort's history, the Ft. Custer Historical Society, the Museum and the current uses of the original Fort property. 269-271-2842.

May 11 New York Philharmonic String Quartet

Dalton Center Recital Hall, WMU. 7:30 – 9:30 pm. The Arts Desk described The Spring Quartet as “An expansive, freewheeling rampage, ideas flying out like sparks from a roaring fire....”

Fontana is thrilled to bring this all-star lineup to Kalamazoo. $15 - $40. 269382-7774. thegilmore.org

May 17 & 18 Master Gardener Plant Sale

Kalamazoo County Expo Center, Expo South. Fri. 9 am – 6 pm and Sat. 9 am – 3 pm. Sponsored by MSUE Master Gardeners, this public sale is a fundraiser offering plants of all types and handcrafted garden gifts. Admission is free. For more information contact Linda Whitlock at 269-383-8815 whitlo13@ msu.edu canr.msu.edu/kalamazoo

May 18 18th Annual Portage Preservation Month Celebration 10209 Portage Road. 12 – 4 pm. Enjoy a spring afternoon at the picturesque

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Unwindings, 5466 Holiday Terrace, Kalamazoo 5/18: 3 pm - 6 pm.

A musical meditation for insight, emotional healing, creativity & renewal. $40. Pre-registration is required. 269388-2988, www.AdamczAssociates. com.

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May 19 Mindfulness Meditation

Down Dog Yoga Center. 1 – 3 pm.

Practice sitting, walking and guided meditation in the tradition of Thich Nhat Hahn, as well as discussing the joys and challenges of practicing mindfulness in our daily lives. This is a FREE/On Donation event led by Sara Houseman and the Mindfulness Meditation Community of Kalamazoo.

No meditation experience or pre-registration necessary; come give it a try!

269-993-2486.

Feb. 16, 2020 Radisson Plaza Hotel

May 26 Summer Concert

Family fun!

Klines resort 22260 Klines resort rd. 5 miles south of Vicksburg. 6:30 p.m.

Our first concert of the season with the Dunnemans. Concerts outdoors weather permitting Bring lawn chairs. Bring finger foods to share for afterwards fellowship in club house. A love offering will be taken. 269-330-9446.

June 1 Hippie Fest

Kalamazoo County Expo Center. 12 – 7 pm. Hippie Fest is the grooviest festival of the year! Featuring live entertainment, bohemian shopping, and family friendly activities. Advance tickets required. Visit the website to purchase tickets. Held on the South Lawn.

Advance tickets are required: $10 each (kids 3 and under are free) www. hippiefest.com

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A FREE day of family fun and connection! Exhibits, music, activities, learning, community and more!

Become an exhibitor

Your business or organization can be part of the upcoming Kzoo Baby & Family Expo!

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What's Your Favorite Memory of Mom? My favorite memory of my mom is how she PLAYED HIDE & SEEK with me when I was very little. I would hide, and she would be very silly, telling the dog she didn't know where I was, asking if I might be in impossible places, like inside the

teakettle. I couldn't help but giggle continuously, and that would add to the fun, because she would act completely stumped to the dog, saying she could hear me, but couldn't find me. Great memory!

– DOROTHY KOVACS

PLAYING BASKETBALL WITH HER IN THE DRIVEWAY. – Dana Nelson-Eisinger

SINGING AND PERFORMING TOGETHER. I come from a very musically talented family. My father was an amazing classical violinist and country music “fiddler”. An interesting combination. My mom was an accomplished country singer, played guitar and wrote and recorded many songs. She was also on many TV shows locally and regionally and quite known in the area. She was also a DJ. And named Miss DJ USA. She had two local weekly radio shows and she used to sing professionally with her band on weekends; she took me with her most of the time for the radio shows and singing when it was appropriate and I would sing with her.

I grew to love music because of my mom, primarily, but my dad as well.

I was a music minor at WMU with a focus in both vocal and instrumental (playing saxophone). I auditioned and was accepted to perform with the Varsity Vagabonds (now known as Gold Company); we toured Europe in a USO show. I love all kinds of music and love to sing. It is one of my “happy” places.

My mother, thankfully, is still with us and going strong in her 80’s. My favorite thing about her is WATCHING

HER WITH THE GRANDKIDS. This woman was born for

this. She attends every event, takes kids to activities when we need the help, bakes

My favorite memory of my mom is doing wild animal rehabilitation with her. It was amazing to be able to save baby animals, and to do it with your mom is just a wonderful, healing, and special thing.

– JESS SILBER

cookies, has sleep overs, and is always available for our Sunday dinners. She comes over to watch movies& is the ear that’s always ready to listen. I’m still making memories with my mom, and every one is a treasure.

– LYNN MCFARLEN

One of my favorite memories of my mother is an "everyday" memory of her drinking a cup of coffee and eating a leftover piece of cake or pie for breakfast. She had a big smile on her face, with nothing but 100 percent pure genuine excitement to greet the world for another precious day on this planet. Without fail she turns lemons into lemonade and knows that health is the most important thing to be grateful for in our lives.

– Bridgett Blough

– Jacque Jennings-Carter

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