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June 2015 LIFE

5 10 Things for a Perfect Summer Day Connect With Your Man 13 Sharing Finances as a Cohabiting Couple 16

STYLE Men’s Fashion Trends: Love It or Leave It? 10 Making Room for Your Man’s Taste 14

HEALTH & BEAUTY Camera-Ready Traveler 6 Hiking With Your Hound 20

FOOD & DRINK

Fresh Savory Flavors for Parties, 25 Picnics & Potlucks Smokey Sweet Pickles with Strawberries Kale Bacon and Pistachio Pasta Stick-To-Your-Ribs Favorites 26 Shredded Chicken Tacos with Pico de Gallo Spiced Pork Chops With Truffle Roasted Potatoes

LOOK WHO’S TALKING The Van Dis Family Men 18

LEARN Local Garden Trends 8 Wine Is A Girl's Best FriendTM 12 First Time Home Buyers 17 Hunting for the Mysterious Morel Mushroom 22 Reader’s Lounge & Fearless Summer Films 28

COMMUNITY NEWS & HAPPENINGS Calendar 29

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Editor's Letter

As a lifelong resident of the Kalamazoo area, I have always had a passion to learn about our dynamic people, history and businesses. I am looking forward to my new role at Women’s LifeStyle of Greater Kalamazoo as Editor and to sharing my enthusiasm for where we live.

My dad loves to gather and share information and stories. My husband has said to me “you’re just like your dad”. He usually says that when I’m being tenacious. But I learned quite a few other things from watching my dad: how to be silly, to stand my ground, when to back down and to root for the underdog. He also taught me to love my family like a mother bear.

I wonder if my daughter’s husband will ever use that phrase with her. I hope so. She is competitive, messy, incredibly self-driven, a little absent minded, and takes interest in the world beyond her own. Just like her dad. My husband and my 17 year old daughter have their heated moments. Not because they are oil and water, but because they are oil and oil. When she’s upset, she goes to her dad because he “gets” her in a way I never will.

“Sometimes the poorest man leaves his children the richest inheritance.”

- Ruth E. Renkel

Regardless of who your paternal role model is, through nature or nurture, you take on qualities and quirks from him. We can recognize many of our greatest strengths inherited from our fathers, as well as some of our weaknesses (which we can try to turn into strengths). Just remember on this Father’s Day that no dad is perfect. For example, some of our dads may have been victims of the questionable men’s fashion trends highlighted on page 10. We have quite a bit to learn from our dads – like the Van Dis men in our Look Who’s Talking Feature on page 18. The best we can hope is that the dad we have is perfect for us.

Happy Father’s Day to my stubborn, silly dad!

Jennie Holmes

“I never had a speech from my father 'this is what you must do or shouldn't do' but I just learned to be led by example. My father wasn't perfect.”

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10 Perfect Summer Day things that can create a

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Enjoy a fabulous cup of coffee or tea.

Greet the day’s beautiful sunrise.

Wake up and stretch in your own comfy bed.

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Visit with one of your friends.

Just because!

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Count the stars.

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Take a brisk walk in nature.

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Smell one of your favorite flowers. I love daylily and roses!

Read a mindless book – better yet – in a hammock.

Embrace the warm sun on your face.

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Grill some veggies. My favorites are asparagus, tomatoes, and zucchini… okay, every single one!

“There shall be eternal summer in the grateful heart” - Celia Thaxter

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Say your prayers in gratitude.

About the Author

Peaches McCahill is founder and president of The McCahill Group, a leading provider of health, wellness, beauty and talent solutions, and owner of the new M Power Studio. She has a passion to inspire others with simplistic lifestyle suggestions.

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traveler Camera-Ready

by Ashley Petroskey

ith the cold months behind and sweet sunshine ahead, many of us are craving adventure. For some of us it’s a simple drive to the closest beach and for others it’s a need to explore beyond the safety of our comfort zone.

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Whether you’re hiking the west coast, exploring romantic European cities or spending a day on Lake Michigan, it’s likely your current beauty routine will need some tweaks.

Traveling presents a few unique beauty challenges. Climate changes, sleep deprivation, stress and packing limitations can create frustration if you’re not prepared.

If your travel is fun-related, then you’ll probably want lots of photos, some even featuring yourself. You’ll also be meeting new people, or possibly visiting old friends. Either way, your makeup should be effortless, portable and chic.

Here are eight makeup must-haves for a woman on the go.

Consider transferring them to a smaller container or buy sample sizes to ensure they pass through airport customs and are tidy enough to fit in an on-the-go bag.

BB Cream with SPF. BB Cream is a travel

girl’s dream because it’s both a moisturizer and a foundation. It has medium level coverage and protects the skin from the sun. Finger-friendly application is best.

Concealer. Concealer is key for the days we wake up with a surprise blemish or need to conceal lack of sleep. A liquid concealer tends to last longer and apply smoother if time is limited, but a solid, stick concealer may be more compact.

Mineral Powder. A mineral powder is an

important step as it helps to set all products. It can come loose or pressed; I prefer pressed when traveling, as it is less messy and tends to last longer.

There’s no need to apply a lot of this product; a nice light, all-over coverage is sufficient.

Bronzer. If you’re not getting a natural glow on a tropical beach, bronzer will add life to the skin and face. A little bronzer will highlight the cheekbones and make the face look fresh and complete.

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Blush. Add a pop of color to those cheeks! A soft

and light pink compliments any look and any skin tone. One quick trick when applying blush on the go is to smile in the mirror. Apply a quick hit of blush on the apples of the cheeks and you’re ready for the day.

Eyebrows. Many experts say that eyebrows are

the single most important feature on a woman’s face.

A well-groomed eyebrow frames the entire face and can take years off a woman’s life. If you have light eyebrows or need to fill in from years of overplucking, it’s a step you won’t want to slack on.

Mascara. Mascara can change an entire look. It

helps to frame and brighten the eyes. Waterproof might be a good option if you plan on being around water or warm, moist weather.

Lip Gloss. A simple gloss always adds freshness to the face. A light and more neutral color is typically best if you’re on the go and traveling. No need to shock with bright lips; a soft, nearly-there look can do the trick.

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Local Garden

Trends

River Street Flowerland offers many items from local artists. Faces can fit into your garden’s style – tiki for a tropical look, Greek heads for your classic garden and or a silly expression for your casual garden.

No matter what your garden’s size or style, there is sure to be a way to fit one of this year’s trends into your design!

by Jennie Holmes

This spring, plant more than seeds – plant a few surprises. Add unexpected details in gardens – both large and small – in plantings and accessories.

Animals are available in unexpected mediums – blown glass, metal, cement, ceramics and wood.

If you are looking to attract birds to your garden, don’t forget the importance of bird watering. Birds may visit your property because of the food, but they stay because of the water. Bird baths and shallow water containers allow birds the access they need for drinking and bathing. It is important to replace the water every few days to make sure birds have clean fresh water.

. . . many nurseries have sections of plants just for fairy gardens and can assist in plant selection and design.

Fairy Gardens

Fairy Gardens are miniature landscapes limited by your imagination – filled with small homes, gnomes, size appropriate plants, or other accessories. Often fairy gardens are way to combine a love of gardening and other interests such as baking or the beach.

Items to adorn your fairy garden can be found at hobby stores. These items can include buildings, people, animals, and even tiny lights. If possible, take your container and miniatures with you to the nursery when selecting your plants. According to Penny Allen from Key Blooms in Vicksburg, many nurseries have sections of plants just for fairy gardens and can assist in plant selection and design.

Fairy Gardens are perfect on a front porch or to use as your outdoor dining table centerpiece. Depending on the type of plants and container, you can bring your garden inside once the weather turns colder.

Petting Zoo

It’s a jungle out there. Add a little unexpected color by staking an exotic bird in a pot or add some whimsy by placing a topiary alligator next to a water feature. There are many options to add some very tame wild life to your garden.

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Funny Face

Imagine a funny face little man with crazy hair peeking out through bushes or greeting your guests at the front door. Dixie May, Assistant Manager at River Street Flowerland says the newest trend are faceswhich you can add to your garden through pots, wall hangings and outdoor furniture. It’s so easy to pop a fern into the top of a ceramic head for a conversation starter.

Jennie Holmes is the editor of Women’s LifeStyle Magazine of Greater Kalamazoo, married to her high school crush, mom of two busy teenagers, two rescue dogs and a lazy cat.

She spends most of her free time driving her Jeep or sitting in bleachers.

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Osteoporosis, or the slow, progressive loss of bone mass, is a major public health threat.

According to the American Academy of Orthopaedic Surgeons, osteoporosis currently affects more than 200 million people worldwide.

In the U.S. alone, 10 million people have the disease, and 18 million more are at risk of developing it.

While men can and do suffer from osteoporosis, 80 percent of individuals affected by the bone-thinning disease are women.

Often, they don’t realize they have it until a bone breaks.

So what can you do to stop osteoporosis from shattering your life? For stronger, healthier bones, consider following these strategies: • Consume enough calcium. Depending on your age, you should consume between 1,000 and 1,300 milligrams of calcium daily. If you have trouble getting enough calcium from the foods you eat, consider taking a calcium supplement.

• Don’t skip the Vitamin D. To enhance absorption, you should also consume between 400 and 800 international units (IUs) of vitamin D each day.

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• Work out. Participate in weight-bearing exercises like walking, jogging, stair climbing, dancing or weightlifting on a regular basis. Before beginning any exercise program, talk to your health care provider.

• Eat right. In addition to calcium, eat a healthy, well-balanced diet with plenty of fruits, vegetables and fiber.

• Quit smoking. Smoking is a leading risk factor for osteoporosis, as well as heart disease, lung cancer and many other life-threatening conditions.

• Decrease alcohol consumption. Limit your alcohol intake to no more than one or two drinks per day.

• Prevent falls. If you already have osteoporosis or at an increased risk for developing it, avoid the potential for bone-breaking falls by eliminating common household hazards (e.g., removing loose rugs, cords and wires around your home).

• Get screened. Think you’re at risk? Then you should consider scheduling a dual-energy x-ray absorptiometry (DEXA) bone scan with your doctor. This specialized test detects bone loss by measuring density in the hip and spine. Similar to an x-ray procedure, DEXA scans are fast, painless and expose patients to minimal radiation.

Dr. Jennifer Frink, an OB/GYN with Borgess Women’s Health in Portage, may be reached by calling (269) 321.7000.

For questions on this column, or to suggest topics for future columns, e-mail womenshealth@borgess.com.

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or LOVE IT Platform Shoes

Leather Joggers

Find these fresh on the market at trendy European stores.

For men who want to cheat on their height.

Wood, cork and synthetic platforms hit stages and streets during the late 1960s and early 1970s.

Rumor has it they’re coming back!

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s culture shifts from decade to decade, countless fashion trends for men are introduced. Some vanish, others persevere and retain relevancy, and some make their second debut a score later in attempt to “bring sexy back.” We gathered a dozen trends that stuck our fancy, evoked perplexity, or brought back memories. Which of these men’s fashion statements do you love, and which do you hope stay in or return to the past?

Pinky Ring

Once popular in the 1800s, the pinky ring served as an influential and powerful statement in the late 20th and early 21st centuries.

The Vest

Although variant in style, men’s vests have reappeared in fashion for centuries.

Overalls

Because who doesn’t enjoy a timeless, all-American wardrobe?

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LEAVE IT?

Parachute Pants

These trousers made of synthetic nylon were the perfect compliment to the two decades of moonwalking that took place in the 1970s and 1980s.

The Bowtie

It was a thing, is a thing, and probably will be a thing.

Solid Tee Under Blazer

Miami Vice brought the look to the 1990s, most notably seen on teen heartthrob Kirk Cameron in Growing Pains.

Frosted or Bleached Hair Rainbow Reflection Shades The Man Bun

GQ called this style the “ballsiest trend to hit” in 2011. That was after Justin Timberlake popularized the frost in the late 1990s.

Deep (Deep) V-Necks

Chest hair, tattoos, and near navel-nipping wasn’t so strange for men a decade ago.

This sink or float trend recently appeared in summer 2014.

This long-hair don’t care minimalist style for men is stronger than ever with the rise of authentic, folk and hipster trends.

The Murse

Convenient and stylish, or too feminine?

History can’t decide.

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Raising money for local Animal Shelters...

All aboard a classic antique Chris Craft.. built right here in Michigan!

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new wine is being unveiled to benefit local animal shelters and raise money for our beloved furry, feathery and scaly friends. Ten percent of profits of the wines sold are earmarked to help fund local animal rescues and shelters.

The first fund raising event of the season wil benefit: 4PawsForACause.Org: Fund raiser on June 6, 2015 with a special Royal Wine CanineTM auction package that includes a wine tasting and exceptional culinary food pairing provided by – yet to be announced local restaurant - all aboard an antique, classic Chris Craft. Special guests of the event will be none other than the official Royal Wine Canines!

The fund raiser wil benefit the following shelters: Al-Van Human Society -- South Haven Harbor Humane Society -- West Olive

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Wild Dog Rescue -- Fennville Wishbone Pet Rescue Alliance -- Douglas Please check 4PawsForACause.Org website to see how you can participate.

If you are associated with an animal rescue/shelter and want to participate in a fundraiser please reach out to us as we would love to help raise awareness and funds for all furry, feathery and scaly friends!

What about the wine? The wines are indigenous grape varietals from Italy that also need saving! So not only are we helping to save animals but we are also helping to save these indigenous grape varietals that we are trying to raise awareness and save from possible extinction.

Royal Wine CanineTM is available in red, white and rose. The grape varietals will change from year to year depending on which heirloom grape varietal warrants our attention of preserving from year to year.

So let’s toast to our furry, feathery and scaly friends

and pour your favorite vintage while you snuggle up next to your favorite furry, feathery or scaly friends!

Wines can be purchased at local retailers and restaurants for your convenience.

More Information can be found at www.SkandisFineWine.com

Christine Skandis founded Skandis Fine Wines, LLC for the purpose is preserving heirloom grape varietals – wines the typical consumer has never heard of - grapes that could otherwise reach a level of extinction because they are grown in such limited quantities. Christine was inducted into the Dionysian Society International, the world’s oldest wine society, in 2006 - one of six women in the world - for her international contribution in wine education

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Events Calendar June 2015 125th Anniversary Fact

Even though Borgess technically didn’t open until December 8, 1889, eight days before that date, Clara Vanderwalker, a sick and starving teen, became the hospital’s first patient and first success story.

by Megan Stubbs

Borgess Events Breastfeeding

A lactation consultant will discuss the benefits of breastfeeding, practical techniques, breastfeeding after returning to work and more.

Borgess Medical Center, Lawrence Education Center Tuesday, June 2 or June 23, 6 to 8:30 p.m. $23/couple. Registration required. Please call (269) 226.8135 or (800) 828.8135 or visit wellness.borgess.com to register.

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ften thought of as simple creatures, men are not as simple as we make them out to be. They tend to have the same wants, needs and desires as women, but society has polluted our minds to believe otherwise. He wants to have love, appreciation, respect, and more just as much as women do, but sometimes that gets lost in the mix. Here are some notso-secret secrets to show your man that you care and that you understand him.

watching the game, playing with his band, or whatever else he does can put unnecessary strife in a relationship.

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Let him go! Utilize that time to go do whatever you want to do. Unless he is blatantly shirking responsibilities and commitments in your relationship, be happy when he says he is off to go do (insert event here). He will feel supported and more in love with you.

ProMed Pediatrics in Richland June 3, June 4, July 15 or July 16 Call (269) 552.2500 for an appointment.

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Make Time for Intimacy

Confidence in Yourself

Many men will agree that nothing is sexier than a woman who is confident. Whether that is in her physical appearance, intelligence or accomplishments, knowing she is secure is often a great relief. Some men find that women who are not confident or in love with themselves are difficult to be in a relationship with because the man finds himself having to constantly reaffirm her worth. (You are already worthy women! You don’t need to seek the approval of a man!) Now this is not to say that genuine compliments need to go out the window, but rather that constant insecurity can make your partner feel like a “yes man” rather than your partner. If he is constantly trying to make you feel like you’re good enough, the act can actually make him feel quite small, unseen and unloved.

Sports physicals are required for most school programs and it’s a good idea to get it done before the Fall sports season. Evening and weekend appointments available by request.

If we shift our focus from trying to understand men to trying to connect with them, I think women would be better off. Here’s to the men in our lives and the love we have for them!

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Let’s be clear, no one ever owes their partner sex, but engaging in intimate activities can create a strong bond within a relationship. Pick up a copy of The 5 Love Languages by Gary Chapman. The book details how everyone has a way of showing love and how their partner can recognize the signs and “speak” the language back to their partner. Physical touch is one of the languages, and to someone who speaks it there is no higher sign of adoration and appreciation than connecting physically with their partner.

However you decide to show him that you care, whether it is a quick, steamy butt grab in an elevator ride or a full night devoted to intimacy, do it with honest enthusiasm because anything less will feel forced and defeat the purpose.

Turn off the cell phone and put a hold on the dishes; try really reconnecting with your partner in a meaningful way that you both can enjoy.

Give Him Space

Giving a man space to do his own thing is one of the more difficult aspects of relationships for women to traverse.

The mind can create terrible thoughts of doubt and insecurity; but in an honest, communicative relationship, it is possible to sweep away negative thoughts. Becoming resentful of the time he spends with his friends, at the gym, meditating, playing golf,

Dr. Megan Stubbs is a Sexologist, the job you never saw on career day. For insightful tips or a good laugh, find her on Twitter, Facebook, Instagram and SexologistMegan.com

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Let’s make sure your child is ready for Kindergarten. Exam includes a physical, vision and hearing screening, as well as making sure all immunizations are up-to-date.

ProMed Pediatrics in Portage June 4, June 30, July 16 or July 23 Call (269) 329.0944 for an appointment.

Please call ProMed Pediatrics in Portage (269) 329.0944, Richland (269) 552.2500 or Mattawan (269) 668.4180.

For a complete list and further information about what Borgess has to offer, please visit wellness.borgess.com. Want the latest classes, events and health screenings sent directly to your inbox? You can also sign up for the Borgess Bulletin e-newsletter there as well.

Borgess Health & Fitness Center Prenatal Yoga

A certified Prenatal/Postnatal YogaFit® instructor presents the benefits of yoga in a safe, supportive format. Medical consent required.

Borgess Health & Fitness Center Mondays, June 29–August 17, 7:15 to 8 p.m. $56. Registration required. Call (269) 226.8135 or (800) 828.8135 or visit wellness.borgess.com to register.

Yoga that emphasizes flow in an unstructured way, for a balanced system of body, mind and spirit, with focus on the core muscles.

Borgess Health & Fitness Center Tuesdays, June 30–August 11, 4:50 to 5:50 p.m. $45. Registration required. Call (269) 226.8135 or (800) 828.8135 or visit wellness.borgess.com to register.

For a complete list and further information about classes at Borgess Health & Fitness Center, visit fitness.borgess.com.

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Making Room for

Your Man’s Taste

photography and article by Amanda Roelofs

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he velvet Victorian chairs I recently inherited from my grandma, the ones I have loved all my life, are bumming out my husband. To me they’re priceless, part of my childhood and pretty much non-negotiable in regard to having them in our house. To him, without that emotional attachment, they’re fussy and old-fashioned and do not square with his pared down, more masculine decor preferences in our mid-mod ranch house. As nesters, women generally care more about decorating, but whether you’re blending households or just trying to respect your partner’s opinion, it takes effort and a few tricks to create a space that feels comfortable and uplifting for everyone.

Keep in mind the following topics when negotiating with your man about décor:

EDI TING If his duck decoy collection isn’t your

idea of “sanctuary,” maybe it’s not meant for the living room, but an office or other area you spend less time in.

Collections are tricky, but they can make a unique statement if displayed as a tight unit and don’t overpower a room.

Be willing to edit. There may be a great place for half of those ducks and isn’t it better to enjoy the favorites rather than having the whole bunch packed away? Ditto for sports memorabilia. Elevating a few meaningful pieces to a place of importance and conversation is much more rewarding than having a basement lined with trophies no one ever sees.

Elevating a few meaningful pieces to a place of importance and conversation is much more rewarding than having a basement lined with trophies no one ever sees.

PRI ORITIES Decide which pieces are most important to each

of you and where you’re willing to compromise.

Determine together when comfort or function should be paramount and where uniqueness and beauty can be more of a focus.

PALETTE Agree on a cohesive “house palette.” It will help focus your decisions and provide a way to unify even the most disparate pieces. A few main anchor colors, both light and dark, combined with a couple bold accents to thread throughout the house will provide a roadmap for choosing large pieces and filling in decorative accessories.

BALANCE The most comfortable homes are those that feel

pulled together over time with a mix of styles. To find a balance, stick with classic, neutral and timeless shapes for large foundational pieces. If the sofa has a masculine square silhouette, contrast it with curvy end tables or a coffee table in a bright feminine color or metallic finish. Conversely, a tufted chair is more feminine, so upholstering it in a masculine fabric, or choosing a companion leather ottoman, helps the room feel inviting but not girly.

Dark woods, industrial metals, leather and deep colors feel earthy and masculine. Mixing those elements with more feminine shaped furniture or light fixtures, curvy patterns and bright, glossy accessories will soften the edge and create harmony. It’s also very calming to have a balance of wood, metal, fabrics and glass in a room. A wood-paneled den needs the contrast of stone, metallic or lacquered finishes and curvy upholstered pieces to keep it cozy and not too dark.

VITables, NTAGE lamps and other non-upholstered decor are

easy and less expensive to fold into your overall scheme because there’s no worry about the condition of upholstery. Unique statement accessories are great for filling in those masculine and feminine deficits, and will command attention away from a ho-hum leather sofa that you’re “making do with till the kids get older.” Buying vintage allows you to get the size, shape and feel you want inexpensively enough to customize the fabric or color without too much of an investment. Plus, vintage pieces just have heart!

Speaking of vintage, after much discussion, there is a plan for grandma’s Victorian chairs. Curvy, carved and very feminine in a boxy kind of way, they’ll be reupholstered in a more masculine blue and green wool plaid that is actually a family tartan in my grandma’s line - honoring their heirloom status. I’m thrilled to be able keep them close, and this fix will transform them from stuffy parlor chairs to more of a preppy club chair, an aesthetic our midmod architecture and my husband can happily embrace!

Amanda Roelofs is Grand Rapids based interior designer with her own firm and a former televison art director. Find out more at www.amandaroelofs.com

A very masculine wood-paneled room is balanced with curved shapes, soft fabrics, marble, metal and resin materials and bright colors.

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Sharing Finances as a Cohabiting Couple

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haring finances with your partner is not just determined by marriage. More frequently, couples are cohabiting, and the rules of household finances are becoming blurry. Many couples move in together before getting married and even if they are married, merging bank accounts is not always an option. So what are the options?

A conversation before combining households will be necessary. Determining who will pay for what, and how the household finances will work once the couple lives together can help avoid the inevitable money arguments that occur in almost any relationship.

Below are three common situations involving cohabitation and suggested solutions to help ease the financial transition.

The Sharing Approach

The sharing approach involves each person keeping their bank account, and the bills are split evenly.

This is the easy way, and if it is plausible for you, try this first. Keep in mind that sometimes a monkey wrench is thrown into this plan. For example, if one partner makes more money and has a higher standard of living than the other, they need to be sensitive to their partner’s capabilities. If one partner needs to live in a house, and the other partner can only afford an apartment, some hard choices have to be made. The partner who makes more money may have to pony up more dough in order to get the living situation they want, or they are going to have to get used to apartment living. The important piece here is to be sensitive to your partner and their needs. If you are the partner who is making more money, you will need to be sure you are not demanding more than your partner can provide. Furthermore, you will want to be careful not to use the information you have received about their financial situation in a vindictive or negative manner.

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When Kids are Involved

If the couple that lives together shares a child, they will need to discuss who can afford what if an equal split is not possible. This is the same as the apartment scenario; the partner who makes more money will need to decide if they want to hold on to that money, or if they want their kid to go to summer camp. As a family therapist, I would suggest doing whatever would be best for your child’s development, and simply getting over who makes more money than whom. If the child that lives in the home is biologically only one of the adults’ child, then that adult needs to take on the financial responsibility for that child. A discussion should take place about the splitting of the bills. It is generally bad form for one adult to try to pay less rent than the other due to a non-biological child living in the home.

The child cannot pay rent themselves and should not be expected to contribute.

By making the choice to live with someone who has a child, you are also making a choice to live with his or her child. That said, while the adult who is not the biological parent may want to contribute to improve this child’s lifestyle, they should not be expected to pay for summer camp, clothing or other items for the child unless they so choose.

Unequal Incomes

Some relationships do not involve partners who make equal incomes. Sometimes, in these cases, one partner may offer to pay for all household expenses.

Understand this will affect the power dynamic within the relationship. The partner that makes more money

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may eventually feel entitled to certain freedoms and benefits than the other partner. If the partners in question work out a way to even out this dynamic, there will need to be a discussion of the details before the arrangement is put into place. Perhaps one partner will handle household chores and childcare as opposed to looking for a paying job. The employed partner will need to understand that while this is not officially paid work, the partner handling the work within the home is indeed working toward the betterment of the family. If the unemployed partner is not interested in working within the home, they may need to make some allowances for the partner who is supporting the couple. The power dynamic will be in their favor, and that is something both members of the couple will need to be comfortable with before moving forward.

Have a conversation about finances before you take the leap to combine households.

Whichever method you choose, be sure to treat your partner with respect. Not all relationships look the same, and you will need to pick a method that works best for your partnership and your family. Have a conversation about finances before you take the leap to combine households. You will want to have a good idea of what your budget is prior to entering this conversation. With some open communication, all the right information, and a willingness to compromise, you should be able to merge your households seamlessly.

Kerry Hart, LLMFT is a family therapist located within Grand Rapids Natural Health. She specializes in the treatment of children, teens, couples and families.

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PUT YOUR BEST FOOT

There also seems to be a misconception of how realtors are paid. Some people think they are going to save money by calling the agent on the sign in a yard, or going to an open house and just using the listing agent. Normally, this is not the case. The commission for real estate is typically paid by the seller. The commission is usually split between the listing agent and the buyer’s agent, say 50-50. However, should the listing agent be acting as a dual agent for both seller and buyer, that agent collects the total amount (100), not just the listing half (50). The disadvantage to the buyer is that you don’t have someone representing you that is legally bound to have your best fiduciary interests as priority at all times. A real estate agent may ask you to sign a Buyer’s Agency Agreement. This will secure the agent/agency relationship for you and that agent, ensuring that your best interests are served.

FORWARD!

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he process of buying your first home is one of the most exciting times in your life. It is also one of the easiest times for you to fall victim between new terminology, contracts and misconceptions. Realtors answer calls every day from clients wanting to schedule an appointment to view a home. Of course, realtors are happy to schedule the showing, but in reality it is not the best use of either an agent’s time or yours, if you have not previously obtained a prequalification for your mortgage. The days of going to open houses on Sundays and leisurely browsing for homes seems to have passed now. Last summer, in Kalamazoo the average home listed stayed on the market for approximately nine days. This means that if a client put an offer in on a home, the chances were great there were going to be competing offers. In order to put your best foot forward, act swiftly and also attach the pre-qualification letter to all offers. Basically, when you began their home search, you need to have your pre-qualification done.

and know what your needs are. They will direct you to lenders who have products that match your needs and lenders who they know are reputable. An agent will usually give you a list of lenders and you should do your due diligence in choosing your lender. Lenders are not all created equal either. Don’t just decide based on rates. There are many other charges involved that can vary from lender to lender.

Don’t be afraid to ask for a breakdown of all the charges that will be involved up front. What may appear to be the better package based on rate could cost you more in the long run.

So to get yourself off to a great start this spring, contact a real estate professional to begin the conversation. Tell them when you want to be in a home, where, and exactly what you’re looking for in a home. Ask them for a list of lenders they recommend. After you have your pre-qualification, call the agent back with your availability to schedule home tours. The next thing you know you will be sitting at the closing table as a new home owner. Congratulations!

There are differences in lenders and loan products as well. Ask your agent for recommendations to lenders. Real Estate professionals work with lenders daily

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Look Who's Talking

V & A Bootery the Van Dis Men V & A Bootery has been part of the shopping landscape and a family tradition in Southwest Michigan for over 90 years. V & A Bootery has serviced generations of customers because they offer generations of quality customer service.

HIStory

Since William Van Dis opened the doors in 1923 at the current location on the Kalamazoo Mall, V & A Bootery has seen four generations of Van Dis men at the helm.

Brothers Howard and Bob and their cousin Melvin worked together to help grow and expand this longtime staple of the downtown Kalamazoo store. In 1960, the original building was demolished and a new store was rebuilt in its place with double the square footage. Since then, further expansion included stores at the Southland Mall in 1980, downtown St. Joseph in 2005 and 28th Street in Grand Rapids in 2010. Today, V & A Bootery business is under the direction of (3rd and 4th generation) Van Dis men Bill and his son Dan.

Next in comMANd

Both men are proud to continue the family business, although neither had an inkling they would end up in their current positions. Bill Van Dis decided to join his dad and uncle after he graduated from Albion College and returned from his time spent in Germany with the Armed Forces. He realized that none of the other family members were interested and chose to get involved. Bill worked under the tutelage of his dad and uncles.

Dan became next in line to work at V & A Bootery under similar circumstances. After receiving his Bachelor’s Degree at Hope College and his Master’s Degree from Western Michigan University, Dan decided to get his feet wet at V & A Bootery. His brother Andy graduated from Western Michigan University and (not having an interest in the shoe business) became on engineer at Parker Hannifin. Their parents never pushed their sons into the family business and encouraged their sons to seek out other career options.

Dan wasn’t quite sure where he wanted to work so he attended trade shows, worked in the store with his dad and eventually realized his future was with the family business.

MANaging Expectations

Dan said that, growing up, he had some idea of what his dad did. Working side by side with his father he now enjoys seeing how his dad is viewed by other people and how much he is respected in the community and the industry. He is proud of his father’s accomplishments, including his election to the National Shoe Retailers Association by his peers. When attending trade shows with his father, Dan said retailers and representatives confirm what Dan knows “Your dad is a great guy”.

Bill relies on Dan for his understanding of changes in the market, customer behavior and attitudes. Bill embraces Dan’s ability to look at new ways of doing business, making sure they are staying relevant and necessary. One challenge of working with family is ensuring that there are degrees of respect for one another and formality in business situations.

Bill’s favorite quote from his grandfather still rings true today “The best word in advertising is always NEW”. With appealing brands such as Teva®, Ugg®, Sperry®, Birkenstock®, Ecco®, Clark’s®, Keen® and Vera Bradley® – V&A offers the newest

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styles and a wide selection to draw in all age demographics. Bill is excited about new technology from ABEO® that focuses on improving biomechanics by providing a customized insert into shoes that are comfortable and stylish. Services such as foot scans and fittings can’t be replicated through internet shopping.

According to Bill, any family business in which family feels forced to carry on will not survive long. Without other alternatives, the business becomes a burden for the family and it will not prosper for long. Bill and Dan spend time together outside of the stores – playing golf or at their Sunday family dinners. Family dinners are either hosted at home or out in local restaurants and include Bill’s wife of 37 years, Susan, their sons and wives, their 5 grandchildren and Susan’s father, Rolla Anderson. They do have one steadfast family rule – no shoe business at the table.

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Hiking Hound with your

by Kim Salerno

Bring Water and Food.

Just like you need to fuel up and hydrate for a workout, the same holds true for your canine companion. Bring plenty of water and a dish that he can drink from (they make collapsible bowls for traveling ease) and offer it often along the way. A good rule of thumb is to bring 8 ounces of water for every hour you plan to hike (and don’t forget to bring water for yourself!). It’s best to keep him from drinking the water in streams or other natural sources, as these could contain nasty bacteria that will make him sick. Bottles of water that are frozen are also great to pack in case the weather is hot and can offer immediate relief to your pooch.

Food should be given on rest breaks or during bouts of less intense activity to ensure that you don’t upset his tummy or cause bloating.

Be Aware of Your Surroundings.

Plan your hikes on trails that are used often and provide a clear path; now is not the time to forge a new one through the wilderness. In most cases, you’ll likely encounter the usual suspects of the wildlife world, such as squirrels and maybe a deer or two. Keep your eyes open for common canine offenders, including porcupines and skunks. These animals are not as easily scared off by your dog and may become agitated.

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ummer is finally here, so why not turn that daily walk into an interesting and fun hike? It’s no secret that exercise is a necessity for both you and your dog. We often forget that our dogs are pack animals and their origins are rooted in hunting, playing and roaming all day. If you are already in the habit of walking your four-legged friend, you know that it’s a special time for the two of you to bond as well as establish yourself as the leader of your domestic pack. Shake up your routine and kick your workout into high gear by taking your best friend for a hike. Follow these five tips for added safety and enjoyment when taking your pooch to the trails.

Know Your Limits.

Does your current exercise endeavor consist of walking around the block a couple times? Then you may want to rethink that 10-mile hike you’re mapping out. Not only do you need to be able to hike without difficulty, so does your furry companion. Start intensifying your walks by making them longer and include hills if possible so the two of you can build up your stamina. It’s also advisable to take your dog to the vet just to ensure that he will be able to accompany you comfortably when you’re ready to hike. Dogs are people pleasers and they never want to let on that they

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are injured or in pain, so they will endure it for as long as they can.

Be Prepared.

Once you’ve determined to go on that hike, whether it’s a long or a short trip, make sure you have the following items: • Proper ID tags. The tags must be legible and specify your dog’s name and your current contact information. It’s also a good idea to have a current photo with you just in case you get separated.

• Collar and leash. Bring these just as you would when you’re going for your regular walks.

• First Aid Kit. Human first aid kits can come in handy in the event of a cut or scrape (for either of you). Throw some tweezers in it for tick removal.

• Vet’s phone number. In the event that something unexpected happens, keep your vet’s phone number with you so you can quickly find out how to best take care of your dog. You can never be too careful.

• Sunscreen. You both need sunscreen and they make sunscreen specifically for dogs. Light-colored noses are very susceptible to sunburns and dogs can get skin cancer just like you.

• Appropriate dress. For summer hikes, keep a cool, moist scarf or bandana that he can wear to take a bite out of the heat.

Familiarize yourself with what poison ivy and other unpleasant plants look like. Although your dog can’t get poison ivy, they can pass it on to you, so it’s best to keep them away from anything suspicious.

Mind Your Manners.

The same rules you follow on your routine walks apply to your hikes. Have a carry in, carry out mentality, which includes cleaning up after your dog on the trail. Using a leash will ensure that other hikers, other dogs, as well as the flora and fauna around you remain undisturbed. If you’re both on a more leisurely hike, let others moving at a faster pace pass you easily.

Hiking with your dog is a wonderful way to spend quality time together and enjoy the outdoors all while getting a great workout. You’re guaranteed to have a fun and safe hike just by taking a bit of extra time to plan and prepare. Happy hiking!

Kim Salerno is the president and founder of TripsWithPets.com. She founded the pet travel site in 2003 and is an expert in the field of pet travel. Her mission is to ensure that pets are welcome, happy, and safe in their travels.

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Hunting for the Mysterious

Morel Mushroom

by Angela Kuncaitis

Hunting Hints: • • • • • • • •

Look for black, white and yellow morels Morels thrive in and on the edge of forested areas Trees that may be near are ash, fruit, aspen, maple, elm and oak At the beginning of mushroom season, head toward southern-facing slopes in more open areas Near the end of season, head into the woods and onto north-facing slopes Search for well-drained, sandy soils near creeks Morels may grow around dead and dying trees, making orchards good hunting areas Morels are typically abundant in areas where there has been a burn or wildfire the year prior

Mushrooms to Avoid: • • •

True morel mushrooms have a long cap, conical shape with identifiable pits Bad mushrooms have a longer stem and shorter cap or may not have a stem at all (wrinkled top) If there’s any doubt about a mushroom you’ve found, leave it

Cooking the Morels: • • •

Soak the morels you find in water for a few hours to wash out dirt and any bugs living inside of them Use morels as a compliment to your main dish They’re very flavorful when cooked in butter

this year in one spot, there is no guarantee the morels will be in the same spot next year.

I once was told the story of a mushroom hunter who after a long hunt without any finds, went to a fast food drive-through to grab a coffee and saw a large morel directly under the order speaker. These mysterious mushrooms stump their hunters frequently, which makes the mushroom fever come on even stronger the next season and the hunting excitement like panning for gold.

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he elusive morel mushroom becomes somewhat plentiful during springtime in Michigan. The hunting season flows into mid-June, giving you plenty of time this month to search during a hike in the woods.

Some families make it an annual tradition to morel hunt, while others keep it a secret hobby. Others may not know about this adventure-filled activity. Grab a partner, and with some preparation and luck, you may find this mysterious delicacy. Here are a few tips to hopefully have a successful mushroom windfall.

The mushroom hike is foremost about being out in nature and experiencing the elements during this beautiful time of year. No need to be stressed. Grab a

water bottle, GPS or compass, bug spray and weatherproper clothing to keep away insects and ticks.

There are many places to hike, including public state parks and forests. Refrain from illegally trespassing on private property. Most true mushroom hunters will not tell you their secret spots and guard them with their lives. However, here are a few theories and documented areas where morels can be found.

Mushroom terrain is included but not limited to your own back yard, pine forests, near dead elms, grave yards, the side of the road and sometimes near Lilac bushes. There is not a “perfect” mushroom find area. If you are fortunate to find quite a few mushrooms

DISCLAIMER: It is very important to know the health risks of consuming a false morel mushroom. With this being said, possibly take an experienced mushroom guide with you on your first few hunts. A mushroom reference book is important to carry along with you as well.

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When you do find one morel, many times you missed some in the same area. When you find a mushroom, be sure not to uproot it, but rather break it off. This keeps the morel population steady for next hunting season. Carry your mushrooms in a mesh type bag so hopefully you can spread the spores into the air for next year’s fruiting.

These tips are all theories. The most serious mushroom man may disagree with this synopsis. However, I can tell you without sharing my secret spots that I have found many mushrooms under many of these circumstances. Happy hunting!

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Smoky Sweet Pickles with Strawberries Makes 32 servings Smoked spices take pickles to a whole new flavor level, lending a smoky note to the pickling liquid. In this recipe, curry powder and spices smoked on the stovetop make for unforgettable cucumber and strawberry pickles.

2 pounds pickling cucumbers

1 pound strawberries 1/4 cup thinly sliced sweet onion

2 cups cider vinegar

1 cup sugar

2 tablespoons curry powder, smoked

1 tablespoon non-iodized salt, smoked

2 teaspoons McCormick Mixed Pickling Spice, smoked

2 teaspoons mustard seed, smoked Rinse cucumbers and strawberries well with cold water.

Trim ends then cut cucumbers into 1/4-inch thick slices.

Hull strawberries then half lengthwise. Place cucumbers, strawberries and onion in large glass bowl. Set aside.

Mix remaining ingredients in medium saucepan. Bring to boil on medium-high heat, stirring to dissolve sugar and salt. Reduce heat to low; simmer 5 minutes. Let stand 5 minutes to cool slightly. Pour over cucumber mixture.

Refrigerate at least 2 hours or until ready to serve. *Cooking tip To smoke spices: Spread 1 cup fine mesquite wood chips in cast-iron skillet. Heat on high heat about 10 minutes or until wood chips start to smoke. Reduce heat to low. Place small baking rack on top of wood chips. Spread seasonings in small shallow disposable aluminum pan or foil muffin baking cup. Place pan on rack. Cover skillet with lid. (In order to keep the smoke in, lid should cover skillet tightly.

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Fresh Savory Flavors Kal e Bacon and Pistachio Pasta Makes 8 servings

1 avocado, peeled and seeded 1/4 cup shelled pistachios 1/4 cup shaved Parmesan cheese, divided

In this fresh pasta sauce, kale, avocado and pistachios are purĂŠed with chicken stock, garlic and Italian seasoning for an easy dish that is high in nutrients and packed with flavor.

Cook pasta as directed on package. Drain well.

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Meanwhile, cook bacon in large skillet on mediumhigh heat until crisp. Remove bacon. Drain on paper towels; crumble bacon. Set aside. Add 2 cups of the kale to drippings in skillet; cook and stir 1 to 2 minutes or just until kale is tender-crisp. Remove kale. Set aside. Add onion to skillet; cook and stir 2 minutes. (Add oil if needed.) Add chicken stock and seasonings; bring to boil. Reduce heat to low; simmer 5 minutes.

removed. Cover lid with towel. Blend on low speed 15 seconds. Blend on high speed until mixture is smooth.

Place remaining 4 cups of kale in blender container.

Add avocado, pistachios, 2 tablespoons of the Parmesan cheese and 1/2 of the crumbled bacon. Add hot stock mixture. Cover blender with lid with center part

Place pasta in serving bowl. Top with the kale sauce, cooked kale, remaining crumbled bacon and remaining 2 tablespoons of Parmesan cheese. Sprinkle with additional chopped pistachios, if desired.

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by Jen Foley • photography by Two Eagles Marcus

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e’ve all heard the saying “The way to a man’s heart is through his stomach.” In my personal experience, truer words were never spoken. Classic favorites for the men in our lives tend to center around meals that are hearty, comforting, and reminiscent of home-style cooking.

Try these recipes for a fun twist on some old favorites.

Shredded Chicken Tacos with Pico de Gallo and Avocado Cream Makes 4 servings

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pound bone-in, skin-on chicken breasts cup tomato sauce cup low-sodium chicken broth package Mexican seasoning of choice Roma tomatoes, diced medium red onion, diced jalapeños, minced bunch cilantro, chopped avocado, chopped cup sour cream tablespoon olive oil small soft corn or flour tortillas Salt and pepper to taste Optional; choice of shredded cheese

Season chicken with seasoning package. Heat oil in a skillet over medium high heat. Add chicken, skin side down, and brown both sides. Add broth and tomato sauce to the skillet and reduce heat to medium.

Allow the mixture to cook until the chicken is cooked through, about 20 minutes. Remove the chicken from the sauce and allow it to cool for 10 minutes. Remove the skin and bones and shred the meat using two forks. Add shredded chicken back to the sauce to stay warm.

For the pico de gallo: Mix the tomatoes, red onion, jalapeño, cilantro, and a pinch of salt and pepper to a bowl. Mix to combine. Allow the mixture to sit for at least an hour so the flavors can blend. In a blender, purée the avocado with the sour cream. Add a pinch of salt and pepper. Assemble the tacos and serve.

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Spiced Pork Chops with Truffle Roasted Red Potatoes Makes 4 servings

4 pork chops, bone-in or out

1 teaspoon salt, plus more for potatoes 1/2 teaspoon pepper, plus more for potatoes

2 teaspoon cumin 1/2 teaspoon cayenne pepper

1 teaspoon cinnamon

1 pound red potatoes, cut into wedges

2 teaspoon olive oil

1 teaspoon truffle oil 1/2 cup grated Parmesan cheese

1 bunch fresh parsley, chopped

Reduce the heat to medium low and allow the pork to continue to cook until the internal temperature reads 140 F, about 6 minutes.

Remove the pork from the heat and allow it to rest under a tent of foil for about 5 minutes.

For the potatoes, preheat the oven to 400 F. On a baking sheet lined with parchment or foil, toss the potatoes with the remaining olive oil, salt and pepper to taste.

Roast the potatoes until golden and tender, about 20-25 minutes. While still warm, toss the potatoes with the truffle oil, Parmesan cheese and parsley.

Serve the potatoes along side the pork.

Season the pork chops with salt, pepper, cumin, cayenne and cinnamon. Heat a skillet over medium-high heat and add 1 tablespoon olive oil. Add the chops and allow them to cook until browned on both sides, about 2 minutes.

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Music Instruction for All Ages & Abilities • Study and learn in a positive and supportive atmosphere with professional, enthusiastic, experienced, university-trained teaching artists including Kalamazoo Symphony Orchestra Artists-in-Residence • Private instruction on strings, woodwinds, brass, piano, guitar, mandolin, percussion, voice, theory and composition • Crescendo Fiddlers ensemble • Chamber groups for winds and strings • Crescendo Community Voices for teens and adults with mental and physical challenges • Music Together® classes for infants, toddlers, and preschoolers • Music Together Big Kids® classes for 5-7 year olds • Epic Broadway! musical theater camp starts in July Our mission is your musical growth and enjoyment!

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June 2 & 16 Grow Your Business Book Club Portage Library. 9 – 10 am. Join other small business owners for discussion on current topics related to entrepreneurship, leadership, innovation, and the challenges and rewards of growing your small business. Free. angelm@ gvsu.edu June 4 – 6 Kalamazoo Greek Fest Arcadia Creek Festival Place. 11 am – 12 am.

This is a three day event where musicians, singers, and dancers would come via Greece and share the authentic Greek experience.

269-345-1830. www.kalamazoogreekfest.com June 4 – 6 Beer Garden Opener!

Bell’s Eccentric Café. 8 pm. Join us for a three night event to open our Beer Garden for the season! 269-382-2332. http://bellsbeer.com/ eccentric-cafe/events-calendar June 5 Art Hop Various Locations throughout Downtown Kalamazoo. 5 – 9 pm. Art Hop is a free event that features new art exhibits in a fun, casual atmosphere. Numerous galleries and businesses in the downtown area host a variety of artwork. Free. 269-342-5059. www.kalamazooarts.com June 6 "40th Annual Ice Cream Social" Ladies' Library Association, 333 South Park, Kalamazoo. 10 am - 2 pm. Ice cream treats, pie alamode, and a new sundae bar will be featured. Building tours will also be available.

Stop by before, during or following the June Jubilee Parade for delicious refreshments.

269.344.3710.

June 6 Do-Dah Parade Lovell to Park, Park to Michigan, Michigan to Portage, Portage to Lovell. 11 am – 12 pm. It’s filled with local people who dress the part of parodies, spoofs, and characters – and they create lots of laughs while doing it. The parade is fun for all ages and celebrates the one time of year when “silly and satire” rule the streets of downtown Kalamazoo. Free. 269-388-3083. www.facebook.com/dodahkzoo June 7 Square Dance Kalamazoo!

Bell’s Eccentric Café. 7:30 pm. Join us for a night of square dancing with music by Bob Carlin, Adam Hurt, Paul Brown, Terri McMurray, and Marilyn Branch. $5. 269-382-2332.

June 10 3rd Annual GLCC Girls’ Night Out Gull Lake Country Club. 6 pm. “Motherhood Out Loud” – a joyous, hilarious theatrical event with Sharon Williams, Gwen Raseman, Pricilla Swiat and Mary Godfrey. Join us for the performance and buffet dinner. $35. For reservations, call Michelle at 269-629-9714

June 12 – 14 Ultimate Air Dogs & Dog Show Kalamazoo County Expo Center. 8 am – 4 pm.

United Kennel Club PREMIER Dog Show featuring Conformation, Agility, Obedience, Rally Obedience, Terrier Racing, Lure Coursing, Dock Diving and Weight Pull events. $5 per vehicle per day or $10 for a weekend pass.

269-343-9020. www.ukcdogs.com June 13 Kalamazoo Mud Run Kalamazoo Community Church. 8 am. Join us and our title sponsor KFR 103.3 as we take on the 5k course that runs through 44 wooded acres. The Kids Mud Run will be on an abbreviated version of the Adult course. $15 - $59.

269-217-9187. www.kalamazoomudrun.com June 16 Starting a Business & Writing a Business Plan Haworth College of Business. 5:30 – 8:30 pm. This introductory session helps aspiring entrepreneurs assess their abilities to lead and manage a company, as well as evaluate market and sales potential for their products/ services. Start-up costs, financing options, and business planning are introduced, along with necessary steps to getting started. $35. https://clients.sbdcmichigan.org/workshop. aspx?ekey=110350010 June 19 – 21 Steam Dream Expo The Olde World Village. Fri. 6-10 pm; Sat. 10 am - 10 pm; Sun. 10 am - 6 pm. Enjoy fantastic live entertainment, visit a wide variety of amazing vendors for your shopping needs, attend informational panels, and make sure to pick up some of the best food you may ever eat. $10, kids free. 269-580-1290. www.facebook.com/steamdreamexpo June 20 Super Summer Flea & Antique Market Kalamazoo County Expo Center, Main Expo. 8 am – 3 pm. Come check out the market for some great deals and great merchandise! Choose from new and used items, handcrafted items, antiques & collectibles, and much more! Free. 269-3838761. www.kalamazooexpocenter.com June 20 Kid FUNfari Binder Park Zoo. 9 am – 6 pm. All children entering the Zoo will receive a reusable “goodie bag” and can participate in several fun activities and demonstrations throughout the Zoo aimed at getting kids healthy, active, and outdoors.

269-979-1351. www.binderparkzoo.org June 20 – 21 Hidden Kalamazoo Downtown Kalamazoo. 10 am – 4 pm. The Hidden Kalamazoo planning team has lined up seven sites to show - five have never before been open to the general public on a tour behind the scenes. 269-337-8804.

June 25 & 26 Irish Fest of Kalamazoo Arcadia Creek Festival place. Celtic music, merchandise, cultural area, Irish Step Dancers, Kilt contest, Children's Activities on Saturday.

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June 27 Cheetah Chase 5K Binder Park Zoo. 8 – 11 am. Help save the endangered cheetah by walking, running or jogging in Binder Park Zoo’s Cheetah Chase. $30 pre-registration, $40 same day. 269-9791351. www.binderparkzoo.org

atmosphere. Numerous galleries and businesses in the downtown area host a variety of artwork. Free. 269-342-5059. www.kalamazooarts.com July 3 South Haven’s ‘Light up the Lake’ Fireworks Downtown South Haven. 10 – 11 pm. Watch spectacular fireworks display & listen to the Light Up The Lake soundtrack LIVE on SuperHits 103.7 COSY-FM! The fireworks shoot off synchronized to the music! 269-6375252. Southhaven.org

June 27 Kalamazoo’s Backyard BBQ Kalamazoo County Expo Center, west lawn. 9 am – 6 pm. Community oriented event with fun for the whole family. Games, raffles, bands and food to benefit the Great Lakes Burn Camp.

Free. 269-270-8487 rwbryant44@gmail.com

July 4 – 5 57th Annual Summer Art Fair Weekend Stanley Johnson Park. 9 am – 5 pm. Known for its many attractions, including its picturesque downtown, pleasure boat harbor, sandy beaches, farm market & historic lighthouse.

269-637-1041. Southhaven.org

July 3 Art Hop Various Locations throughout Downtown Kalamazoo. 5 – 9 pm. Art Hop is a free event that features new art exhibits in a fun, casual

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In the spirit of summer and Father’s Day, here are a few reads that are by dads, about dads-to-be, or simply feature the manly perspective.

by Jocelyn Yost

Dad is Fat

by Jim Gaffigan He has five kids, lives in a two-bedroom New York City apartment and he’s a stand-up comic, so you can guess that a large part of his comedy act revolves around his life as an outnumbered dad.

With chapter titles like The Narcissist’s Guide to Babies and Toddlers and How to Put Five Kids to Bed in a TwoBedroom Apartment (complete with diagram!), this man who lived alone for thirteen years hilariously tells all about his chaotic family life. Parents of young children will find him funny and relatable, and his book will be even funnier for parenting survivors.

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Summer Films

Funny Girl

by Nick Hornby Nick Hornby is the quintessential “lad lit” author and a number of his books have been made into movies: About a Boy, Fever Pitch, and High Fidelity, for example. Pop culture is practically a character of its own in his books, and this one is no exception. It’s England in the sixties, the world of the Beatles, the Rolling Stones, Hair the musical; and there’s never been a woman star of a BBC sitcom. Barbara Parker wants to do what Lucille Ball does – make people laugh. She makes the leap from Blackpool beauty queen to sitcom star and her life is never the same.

About the Author Jocelyn Yost is a librarian who remembers the library before the Internet and appreciates that she has constant access to a good read.

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ummer film is full of opportunity, discovery, and true adventures.

Embark from your personal hunting shade, seize adventure by the horns and head to a summer matinée, as this month’s movies are upon you!

Love and Mercy (2014)

For a night-in rental, catch this recent release that is beyond the typical Blockbusters. Bill Pohlad directs Love and Mercy, an unconventional biography studying the life, challenges and achievements of the Beach Boys’ Brian Wilson.

The movie stars an abundance of talent including Paul Giamatti, John Cusack, Paul Dano and Elizabeth Banks. Based off of Wilson’s opening track on his 1988 debut solo album, this unique biography takes you deep into the mind of this American musician, singer and songwriter.

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Inside Out (2015) One of the most ambitious and interesting Pixar movies to come out in years, Inside Out deals with the main five emotions: joy, fear, anger, disgust and sadness. After moving to a new home, teenage Riley finds these emotions guiding her mind and discovers their impact as she copes with her new surroundings.

Starring Amy Poehler and Bill Hader, this movie is a must-see for all-ages!

About the Author David Postma runs the website www.filmtakeout.com. He works in financing and producing and writes for various feature films and television projects.

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