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LIFE 8 Stay & Play: Discover South Haven 10 The Men in Our Lives: David Barringer & Bill Garnett 20 Gift Ideas for a Fantastic Father’s Day 26 Words of Wisdom from Dad

STYLE 10 Appropriate Business Casual for Men 24 Stretching Your Summer Fashion Budget

HEALTH & FITNESS 21 Every Body is a Beach Body

HOME & GARDEN 18 Local Shopping: Wedel’s Nursery, Florist and Garden Center 22 The Butterfly Bush

FOOD & DRINK 14 Sweet Treats to Delight Dad 16 Restaurant Review: Silver Beach Pizza

LOOK WHO’S TALKING 6 Congressman Fred Upton

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appy Father’s Day to all the men in our lives! I am privileged to know so many outstanding men, both in my personal life and in this wonderful community of ours. Men who know how to be role models in a way that never makes those they lead feel belittled. To all those men, I want to say a sincere thank you. Thank you for taking the time to make those around you feel inspired by your example.

People sometimes make comments (always disguised as jests) about how I must not like men because I publish a women’s magazine. Yikes! Nothing could be farther from the truth. I had a father whose memory still makes me smile often, despite the fact that he’s been gone for over 30 years. His words of wisdom and his great sense of humor are still fresh in my mind. I have a “significant other,” sons, grandsons, brothers, nephews, and friends who are fantastic men who lead lives governed by great faith and values. Because of the great esteem I hold for these incredible men, this June magazine is (as it is every year) dedicated to the men who make Southwest Michigan the best place to live. No matter what your role in life, please know you matter! You enhance the lives of everyone around you.

Despite the crazy weather in April that made it seem summer would never arrive, my calendar tells me it’s June. Let’s get out there and enjoy every moment of our summer. Somebody start up the BBQ grill!

Till next month

- Darlene

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– Calvin Coolidge “Men make history and not the other way around. In periods where there is no leadership, society stands still. Progress occurs when courageous, skillful leaders seize the opportunity to change things for the better.”

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FRED UPTON

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ongressman Fred Upton did not grow up with plans of becoming a politician.

In fact, he earned his Bachelor of Arts in Journalism from the University of Michigan and dreamed of one day covering the Chicago Cubs. His first job out of college, however, had him working as an aide to former Congressman Dave Stockman. Congressman Stockman served as Director of the Office of Management and Budget under Ronald Reagan. Fred Upton also served during the Reagan administration as the Director of Legislative Affairs of the Office of Management and Budget before his successful congressional bid in 1986.

During his stint in the Reagan administration, some folks back in Southwest Michigan suggested that he run for Congress. He was hesitant at first but was ultimately convinced to throw his hat into the ring. His resulting victory over the incumbent Congressman was the only such victory during the 1986 election cycle. Congressman Upton has

been serving his constituents in the 6th Congressional District with pride ever since.

Mr. Upton is committed to finding commonsense solutions to the problems faced by the families and businesses of Michigan’s Sixth Congressional District and he has earned a reputation for working with colleagues on both sides of the aisle to achieve meaningful change. His top priorities remain job creation, economic growth and working to help all residents of Southwest Michigan to live longer, better lives.

Congressman Upton maintains two offices to better serve his constituents. One is located in Kalamazoo and the other can be found in his beloved hometown of St. Joseph. The part of his job that he values the most is his ability to connect with and make meaningful improvements to the lives of those he serves.

He has served as the Chairman of the House Committee on Energy and Commerce and is currently the top Republican on the House Subcommittee on Energy and Commerce. He is also the Vice Chair of the Bipartisan Problem Solvers Caucus.

While Mr. Upton is proud to serve the people of the great state of Michigan in Congress, his greatest joy comes from his role as a happy husband to Amey and devoted father to his grown children, Meg and Stephen. He met his beautiful wife while playing backgammon and

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she’s been his biggest cheerleader and greatest support. He credits her with keeping his feet on the ground and acknowledges that, were it not for her sacrifices, he could not be the kind of public servant that he endeavors to be for his constituents.

When he’s not spending his time in Washington DC, voting on bills and working with colleagues to craft legislation, he’s back home attending events and making every effort to connect with those he represents. In his rare moments of down time, he enjoys exploring Michigan’s natural wonders with his family.

Special favorites are skiing during the long, snowy winters and enjoying the Great Lakes during our lovely (and too short) summers.

On a particularly lovely Michigan day, constituents might even catch a glimpse of their Congressman cruising down the highway, top down, with Bruce Springsteen on the radio.

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If the fabulous beaches weren’t enough to entice you to visit South Haven, the outstanding culinary scene should do the trick. No matter what you are craving, South Haven satisfies. Small plates and martinis are the specialties at TASTE. Juicy burgers, flaky perch, cold beer and the best onion rings you’ve ever had await you at CLEMENTINE’S. THE BLACK RIVER TAVERN offers traditional pub food, a full bar and some of the most delicious chicken wings ever. Cruise over to CAPTAIN LOU’S, grab a table outside, sit back, watch the boats go by on the Black River and enjoy one of their famous perch baskets and a signature cocktail (like the North Point Cooler).

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In these times that we live in, how do you know what really is appropriate to wear to work? And, how is it best to develop this new type of wardrobe?

CONSIDERATIONS IN “APPROPRIATE” Not only can the events of your day help you decide on how to dress, also consider the locale, the individuals you will be with, or others you might encounter, and what you personally want/need to achieve professionally. Within the structure of your company’s dress policy, and your personal considerations on positioning yourself, you can determine what type of attire is best suited to your day. In business casual dress you have two tiers of professional dress to consider: Professional Business Casual attire covers a wide range of looks, which is

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TRENDS AND WARDROBE DEVELOPMENT

Professional Business Casual Wardrobe Recommendations

Three trends in menswear, creating a pleasingly appropriate Professional Business Casual to Smart Casual look include – a jacket. They include:

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Smart Business Casual is more dressed-down than Professional Business Casual, but dressier than weekend wear.

This level of dress is great for days when you aren’t front and cente

Traditional suiting completed with nontraditional prints or polo knit fabrics in button front shirt styling.

Mixed suiting. The traditional suit worn three ways, including the suit trouser paired with a patterned sport coat, or lose the suit jacket for an on-trend outerwear piece. Or, pair a patterned suit jacket with a contrast trouser or pant.

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THE MEN IN OUR LIVES

DAVID BARRINGER Husband, father, pastor, author, blogger, friend…these are a few of the many hats David Barringer wears and he wears them very well. Dave, his wife Anne and their children Cami and Ethan moved to the Kalamazoo area 10 years ago when Dave accepted the position of lead pastor at Kalamazoo First Assembly. During that time, Dave has made a few personal transitions including that of being the father of young children to the father of a teenager and a young adult. We recently sat down over a cup of coffee to learn more about his life and his take on fatherhood & the ever-tricky work-life balance.

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WHAT IS YOUR FAVORITE THING TO DO WITH YOUR KIDS? I don’t necessarily have a favorite thing to do with both of them. Because they are extremely different, I tailor-make my “favorite thing” based upon them. For Ethan, hiking and movies are our thing. For Cammi, coffee shops and Chinese food are our thing.

WHAT ADVICE WOULD YOU GIVE NEW DADS?

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WHAT IS YOUR PROUDEST ACCOMPLISHMENT AS A FATHER?

I think my proudest moment as a father is seeing my kids learn from their mistakes instead of blaming somebody for them.

Watching them learn & grow makes me a proud dad.

WHAT WAS THE MOST IMPORTANT LESSON YOU LEARNED FROM YOUR FATHER? Humility. There is a day where I got a spanking for bullying kids at the bus stop. Then he found out that it wasn’t me involved whatsoever and he sat down on the porch with me and ask for my forgiveness.

That day I learned that dads are human and make mistakes and the more human and humbler I can be, the better I could be an example for my kids.

My best piece of advice for any dad would be this: don’t love your children the same, love them different. I love both of my children immensely. I don’t love one more than the other, but both must be loved in a specific way that speaks to them.

HOW DO YOU BALANCE WORK AND FAMILY? I have come to realize that there is no such thing as work-life balance. There are always going to be parts of your life that are out of balance. At times your home life is going to require much more attention than your work life. At other times, your professional life will be the focus and your personal life will take a back seat. I have found that a happy, productive life is about learning to mesh the different areas together.

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THE MEN IN OUR LIVES

BILL GARNETT Bill Garnett is a busy man who seems to make excellence look so easy. A husband, father of three adult children and the fixed operations manager for DeNooyer Chevrolet and DeNooyer Ford, Bill knows that finding balance between the professional and personal can be daunting at times. I sat down with Bill asked him about balancing the roles of father, husband and professional.

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WHAT ADVICE WOULD YOU GIVE NEW DADS? Don’t worry about being perfect! Be open to mentors, share and accept help, be present, stay the course and don’t stop praying for your family.

HOW DO YOU BALANCE WORK AND FAMILY?

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WHAT IS YOUR FAVORITE THING TO DO WITH YOUR KIDS? My favorite thing to do with my oldest (son) is to play video games, just like when he was a pre-teen. This allows us to connect and catch up on life. Otherwise, we like to see action movies together. The next oldest (son) and I love to play sports together, mainly basketball. These games are still pretty competitive. Our next favorite thing is to just grill and relax. My youngest (daughter) and I really enjoy cooking together and our other favorite activities are to eat or take long walks.

Most would agree, at times, it is easier said than done. I admit, it has not been that easy for me at different times of my life. This is what I say to others: This is our workplace, not our lives. When we are here we work and when we leave for the day, we live our lives.

This is what I’ve learned over the years. You have to carve out little moments throughout the day to think about your loved ones. We too often bring too much of our work thoughts home but fail to carry thoughts of our loved ones to work with us. Let your family know you are thinking about them during your daily breaks.

WHAT IS YOUR PROUDEST ACCOMPLISHMENT AS A FATHER? Watching our children grow up and find their way in life, the adult relationships they have developed with each other and the relationship my wife and I have with them are my proudest accomplishments.

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Sweet Treats to

Delight Dad

1 ½ cups sugar

1 cup white sugar

2 Tbsp all-purpose flour

3 Tbsp cornstarch

½ teaspoon salt

1 cup water Preheat oven to 350°.

CARROT CAKE 1 ½ cups sugar

1 cup vegetable oil 3 large eggs

2 cups all-purpose flour 2 tsp cinnamon

1 tsp baking soda

½ tsp salt

8 oz crushed pineapple (drained)

3 cups shredded carrots

½ cup shredded coconut

Preheat oven to 350°.

Grease bottom and sides of 9x13 pan.

Stir until dry ingredients are well combined.

Slowly incorporate flour mixture (1/2 cup at a time) into the bowl containing the wet ingredients while mixing at medium-low speed.

Beat batter on low speed for one minute.

Add crushed pineapple and shredded coconut.

Beat batter on low speed for another minute.

Add shredded carrots and stir until well combined.

Pour batter into pan.

In a large mixing bowl, combine sugar, oil, vanilla and Bake at 350° for 45 minutes or eggs. Mix until well combined. until toothpick inserted comes out clean.

In a separate bowl, combine Allow cake to fully cool in pan. flour, cinnamon, baking soda Frost with cream cheese frosting. and salt.

Cream Cheese Frosting

8 oz cream cheese, softened

Add cream cheese, butter, milk and vanilla to large mixing bowl.

Add confectioner’s sugar ½ cup at a time until well incorporated.

¼ cup butter, softened

3 tsp whole milk, half & half, or heavy cream

1 tsp vanilla

3 cups confectioner’s sugar

*Note – this cake can be made as a layer cake, but it is extremely moist and dense and works best in a 9x13 pan as it tends to split if layered.

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Lemon Filling In a medium saucepan, whisk together 1 cup sugar, flour, cornstarch, and salt.

Stir in water, lemon juice and lemon zest.

Cook over medium-high heat, stirring frequently, until mixture comes to a boil.

Stir in butter.

Place egg yolks in a small bowl and gradually whisk in 1/2 cup of hot sugar mixture.

Whisk egg yolk mixture back into remaining sugar mixture.

3 lemons, juiced and zested 4 egg yolks, beaten (reserve whites for meringue) 1 (9 inch) pie crust, baked 4 egg whites 6 Tbsp white sugar

Bring to a boil and continue to cook while stirring constantly, until thick.

Remove from heat.

Pour filling into baked pastry shell.

Meringue In a large glass or metal bowl, whip egg whites until foamy.

Add sugar gradually and continue to whip until stiff peaks form.

Spread meringue over pie, sealing the edges at the crust.

Bake in preheated oven for 10 minutes, or until meringue is golden brown.

LEMON MERINGUE PIE

Beat ingredients on medium speed until creamed.

Starting at 2 cups of confectioner’s sugar, I taste the frosting after each ½ cup sugar addition and stop once the desired sweetness is reached.

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Managing Symptoms of Dementia to Optimize Daily Life Join us for a delicious Chef prepared dinner while we discuss tips and strategies to manage the symptoms of Dementia. Learn a variety of tools and simple techniques to improve everyday life when living with or caring for a person with Dementia. Connect with others to share personal experiences and strategies they find helpful every day.

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ST. JOSEPH

Restaurant Review SILVER BEACH PIZZA

410 Vine Street | St. Joseph, MI | (269) 983-4743 Thru Labor Day: SUN – TH 11a – 10p | F – SAT 11a – 11p I drove to the Lakeshore on a sunny and warm Sunday because I have been on the hunt for the area’s best pizza. I have heard over and over again throughout the years that SILVER BEACH PIZZA is where it’s at.

garage doors in this area to give it a nice indoor/outdoor feel. The day I visited was only about 70 degrees, so they remained shut. There was also a cute little bar in this area. The décor was cute and eclectic.

After studying their website, I was told they don’t take reservations, but you can use an app to get in line before you get there. Since it was early in the season, I figured it wouldn’t be bad, so I decided to chance it.

There was a large green plastic dot on our table, and we were instructed to flip it over to the other side, which was red, if we needed our server to stop by. I immediately flipped it! We were starved and I wanted to get an appetizer in sooner than later.

When we arrived in St. Joe, I was surprised as to how busy the beach town was! I found my way to hostess station to get checked in and was relieved to find out it was only about a 30-minute wait.

There was an Antique show going up right next to the restaurant, so we walked over there and looked around for a little bit. After about 20 minutes, we headed back to the restaurant, found a nice bench outside the doors and enjoyed the sunshine. What was cool was that when we checked in, they got my phone number and said we would get a text message when our table was ready. Sure enough, about five minutes after we got to our nice spot outside, I received a text message saying that our table was ready!

We were brought back to a high-top table in the “patio” area of the restaurant. It’s actually indoors, but on warmer days they open the

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Our server greeted us shortly. I ordered one of their famous SCHOONERS, which is simply a large beer with a frozen glass. We also ordered their FRICKLES (fried pickles) to start.

What seemed like just a few minutes later our server returned with my very large cold beer, and our delicious looking pickles. I loved that they were spears rather than chips. I also loved that they were not greasy at all, yet kind of crispy and flavorful. Delicious!

We then ordered our pizza! I wanted to stick with a STANDARD PEPPERONI, while my lunch companion went with the UNDERTOW, which had sausage, pepperoni, fresh garlic and bacon! Both came out shortly after and looked amazing!

Mine was particularly cheesy (just how I like it) and I absolutely loved the pepperoni! The

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sauce was a little on the sweeter side, so with all the cheesiness, it was a good balance. The crust was golden and crispy. I wouldn’t call it a thin crust, but not super thick either.

The Undertow was packed with toppings. It was cut into squares rather than your typical slices, probably to make it easier to eat. The garlic wasn’t too much, a perfect addition to all the meats.

The restaurant was very busy by the time we left, so I can only imagine that later in the summer it gets absolutely packed, especially on the weekends. Parking could get tricky, but their website offers a few alternatives to their small parking lot.

The area in general is perfect for a fun day, with the Children’s Museum just a up a few stairs, the carousel right outside its doors, and of course, beautiful Lake Michigan just steps away.

Silver Beach Pizza lived up to the hype! I’ll definitely be back. As far as being a contender for the area’s best pizza? You’ll just have to wait and see!

Elizabeth Buckley is a hairstylist by day and 24/7 food enthusiast.

She visits restaurants in the Kalamazoo area and blogs about her experience at feedmekzoo.com

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LOCAL SHOPPING

Wedel's

NURSERY, FLORIST, AND GARDEN CENTER

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pring has finally arrived in Southwest Michigan and after months of being cooped up, it is time to get outside and enjoy the beauty of our yards and gardens. When winter blues turn to spring excitement, the staff of Wedel’s Nursery, Florist and Garden Center is waiting to welcome you with bright smiles, knowledgeable answers and everything you need to make your yard the envy of the neighborhood.

Founded by Harley Wedel in 1946, this family-owned small business is one of the premier garden centers in the country. At the core of the Wedel’s staff are 12 family members, representing 3 generations of Wedels carrying on Harley’s vision almost 74 years later. With expert employees available to offer advice on topics from grass seed to bird food, you will find exactly what you are looking at Wedel’s.

soil sample, portion of your diseased plant or tree, or insects and the Plant Doctor will analyze the sample and give you answers, as well as product recommendations. The best part, this is a free service! Please make sure to support this valuable service by purchasing the recommendations at Wedel’s. Shop local and support small business in our community, because you won’t find this type of service at any big box store.

LAWN SOLUTIONS – Located across

from the Plant Doctor desk you will find Wedel’s extensive selection of lawn solutions.

Bulk grass seed (the lawn specialists can point you in the best direction), fertilizer and lawn pest control are all available in this section of the store, along with the answers you need to help establish and maintain the thick, lush, green lawn of your dreams.

WILD BIRD NEST – Anything and

everything you could possibly need to turn your yard into a birder’s paradise is available at Wedel’s in the Wild Bird Nest. I am an avid bird watcher and I can attest that Wedel’s has the largest selection of bird feeders and the best seed selection (and service) in the area.

Are you trying to attract hummingbirds or orioles? Maybe you are trying to eliminate feeder pests like squirrels or chipmunks. No matter the wish or concern, the helpful staff will be happy to answer any questions you have. Also make sure to check out Roger Taylor’s (host of Birdwatch on WKZO) special blend of birdseed.

NURSERY & GARDEN CENTER – The master staff of Wedel’s Nursery and Garden Center grow over 700 types of perrinals perennials each season and several

FLORIST – Just inside the entrance you will find one of the area’s best floral design teams. Nine extremely talented floral designers, including an international designer, share 167 years of experience between them. A favorite of local brides, Wedel’s Florist offers gorgeous cut flowers expertly arranged into unique and breathtaking designs. In addition to the stunning selection of cut flowers, Wedel’s Florist also offers a large selection of orchids and succulents as well as soil, food and expert advice specific to their care.

PLANT DOCTOR – One of the most

valuable services Wedel’s offers to novice and master gardeners alike is the Plant Doctor.

Whether you are having issues with plants and grass or the color of your hydrangeas, the Plant Doctor can help. Just bring in a small

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of their staff are Proven Winner certified.

From selecting trees, bushes, annuals and prennials perennials with their knowledgeable staff to installation by their experienced landscapers, Wedel’s has you covered from project planning to completion. In addition to gorgeous flowers, plants, shrubs and trees, Wedel’s Garden Center also offers a large selection of bulk stone and mulch.

Stop by Wedel’s this spring and check out the amazing selection of products and services.

Remember Wedel’s Nursery, Florist and Garden Center has been helping you make your neighbors jealous since 1946.

GIFTS – If you are looking for great gift ideas, look no farther than Wedel’s. Offering the largest selection of Melissa & Doug toys and puzzles in the area, your little one will be delighted. Wedel’s is also the only local retailer of Corinthian Bells Wind Chimes.

Made in the USA, these hand tuned chimes are visually and acoustically exceptional.

If you are looking for something a little more light hearted and fun, check out the great selection of umbrellas and maybe slip into a pair of grass flip flops. Yes, you read that correctly, they actually sell flip flops that allow you to walk on soft, cushy grass wherever you go.

DÉCOR – Wedel’s offers UNIQUE décor for your home, yard and garden. From fountains to fairies and garden statues to tea towels, you can find something for every design aesthetic in the large selection of décor items available throughout Wedel’s store.

Ask Wedel’s experts what you can do to help pollinators and beautify your yard at the same time!

Over 700 varieties of perennial flowers to choose from!

3 P’s of Pollinator Gardening: Plant Flowers • Plant a diversity of bloom times, colors & sizes • Provide Water

Pollinator Party & Butterfly Tent at Wedel’s Sat., June 22. Watch Wedels.com for more info.

Over a dozen beautiful butterfly bush varieties to choose from!

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GIFT IDEAS FOR A FANTASTIC

Father’s Day FAMILY FEATURES

Dads can be notorious as the hardest family members to shop for, but come Father’s Day, there’s little doubt you’ll need a gift that shows dad just how much he means.

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Truth be told, your company is probably all dad really needs, but you can help deliver a little something he wants with

these diverse ideas for all different kinds of dads. Remember, the secret to great gifting is giving something that shows you know and care about his personal interests.

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Keep dad in style with all the latest looks with a clothing subscription. You can choose from services that coordinate complete outfits, options for accessories only or providers that select a handful of garments for each shipment. It’s a simple solution for a dad who takes pride in his appearance but never has time to shop or dislikes the shopping experience itself. Pricing varies quite a bit; in some cases dad will need to pay a styling fee while with other services he’ll pay only for the items he keeps.

Gift dad everything he needs to throw an impressive cookout any time he wants with the Father’s Day Gift Package from Omaha Steaks.

He’ll be set for summer barbecues with steaks and more on-hand, including two tender filet mignons; two rich and indulgent ribeyes; four robust, juicy burgers and more. The package also includes German Chocolate Cake for a sweet way to end a backyard meal. Find more information and gift packages for dad at omahasteaks.com.

For the dad who’s always tuned in, there’s a way to provide him with entertainment and connectivity while protecting his hearing all at once. Whether he’s using a power saw or mowing the day away, dad can stream his favorite music with the 3M WorkTunes Connect Hearing Protector with Bluetooth wireless technology to make his day both enjoyable and comfortable.

With built-in features like high-fidelity audio, comfortable ear cushions and a low-pressure headband, he can even make and take phone calls without missing a beat. Find more information at 3M.com/WorkTunes.

GAME FOR GOLF

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An avid golfer never tires of golfing gear, so it’s usually a safe bet for gifting. If you’re knowledgeable enough about his preferences, you can always add a new club to his collection. However, there are plenty of other useful gifts a golfer can appreciate, from a sleeve of quality balls to a book about a legendary player. A new set of gloves can improve his grip (and his game) while a new hat or shirt can give him something he can sport on the course.

A CUT ABOVE Practical tools can be the perfect gift, and a pocket knife is such a useful choice that it’s hard to go wrong. For a more sentimental approach, consider a knife with a laser-cut personal message, or go ultra-functional with a multi-tool design. Keep in mind that lesser quality blades may require more frequent sharpening, but they’ll generally do the job just as well as pricier models.

Also be conscious of the weight and features like safety catches that may affect comfort and usability.

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Every Body IS A Summer Body

BY EMILY BETROS

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iving in Michigan, it’s almost a right of passage to spend some of your summer days by a lake with your toes in the sand. Sadly, messages from magazines, T.V., and social media convince many of us that only certain body types are on the “swimsuit approved” list. These advertisements and pictures can lead to feelings of insecurity and body shame.

loving your body just as it is! Check out @effyourbeautystandards, @benourishedpdx, or @danafalsetti to get started.

TREAD LIGHTLY ON SOCIAL MEDIA

The diet industry is a $60 billion dollar industry with a 95% failure rate. They depend on us feeling shameful and buying right back into their ways. It is actually quite radical to fight against this! Make a pact with your friends to not give in to their ways. Write down what you love about your body and keep it visible. Find a body positive mantra and stick

Every body deserves the right to feel comfortable at the beach this summer. Do you have a body? Do you have a swimsuit? Then you’re ready! Here are some tips on how to feel confident all summer - and all year - long.

Social media is powerful. Use it responsibly and to your advantage! Make a conscious effort to not follow people or pages that don’t promote positive body images. Try not to compare yourself to images that have likely been edited and filtered. Conversely, start following people who inspire and promote SOUTHWEST MICHIGAN

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If you want to rock a bikini, do it! Otherwise, there are tons of other swimsuits and clothing options to feel comfortable in at the beach or just outside in the warm weather. Find what you love most and what you feel the most comfortable in. Cover-ups, board shorts, and one-piece suits are just as fashionable (and way more practical if you ask me!)

BE RADICAL AND LOVE YOURSELF

it to your bathroom mirror. Listen to music that makes you feel good and gets your body moving. It’s a process and can take time, but it’s so worth it!

If you’re a person who’s totally confident at the beach, keep doing you! It’s also important to recognize that this body positivity revolution isn’t just for the people who are struggling. We can all be more body positive.

Complement other women. Don’t gawk or stare. Encourage women in your life to love their body just the way it is. Every body is perfect the way it is and worthy of sunshine and beach time this summer!

Emily Betros is a licensed clinical social worker, certified health coach, and owner of Reclaiming Health, LLC. She helps clients put together an individualized plan to meet their health goals. Emily enjoys hiking, traveling, vegan-izing recipes, and spending time with her husband and daughter.

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Butterfly Bush AN EXPLOSION OF BLOOMS & POLLINATOR FAVORITE!

BY TERRI SCHWARTZ OF WEDEL’S NURSERY, FLORIST & GARDEN CENTER

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hat could be more enjoyable than relaxing in your favorite lawn chair or hammock, your sunglasses on and a cool beverage in hand, staring at an enchanting array of colorful butterflies milling around their favorite plant? What could possibly be an easier way to accomplish this vision than by planting a simple butterfly bush?

When you plant a butterfly bush, you’ll get a bonus – it’s a favorite plant of many pollinators.

Each one is beautiful, easy to grow, and the pollinators they bring in will add another layer of excitement to your floral display. You may want to try more than one variety to invite nature’s visitors to your home for the summer and early fall months each year.

ABOUT BUTTERFLY BUSH

Buddleia davidii, the butterfly bush, is a flowering maniac. It pushes a proliferation of perfumed blooms straight through summer and well into fall, providing nourishment to butterflies all season long.

Available in a multitude of sizes & colors ranging from white to pink to red to purple, there are colorful butterfly bushes to match any garden or landscape color scheme. The fragrant, long, spiked panicles are borne in profusion on long, gracefully arching branches that add drama and elegance to the yard. And it really is a butterfly magnet!

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GROWING BUTTERFLY BUSH

This quick growing, deciduous, woody shrub is winter hardy in zones 5-10. The Kalamazoo area is in zone 6a. In our hardiness range, Buddleia behaves like a herbaceous perennial, dying back to the ground in very cold winters. Cover with cedar mulch 8-12” deep after Thanksgiving to provide extra insulation for the plant. Because butterfly bush blooms on new wood, large varieties (those that get over 4 feet tall) can be cut back in the spring to 12” height. Smaller varieties should be pruned in the spring, removing any dead branches and giving the plant a nice shape. This judicious pruning will stimulate lavish new growth and an abundance of flowers. It will also keep some of the larger varieties at a manageable size, particularly in smaller yards, corners or other confined spaces.

Plant your butterfly bush in full sun in just about any type of soil and it will thrive. Don’t worry about fertilizing as over-fertilization can encourage too much leaf growth over flower formation.

Deadheading will encourage additional growth and new flower buds to extend the blooming season. Buddleia has a good tolerance for drought once established, but should be carefully watered when young. A good, thick layer of mulch will help maintain soil moisture and keep weeds down to keep the shrub healthy.

Just be sure not to use insecticides or pesticides on your butterfly bush or you may be harming the very fluttering fliers you hope to attract.

RECOMMENDED BUDDLEIA VARIETIES BY COLOR PINK BUTTERFLY BUSHES

•• Lo & Behold, Pink Microchip, 1.5 – 2 ft.

•• Pugster, Pink, 2 ft.

RED BUTTERFLY BUSHES

•• Cranrazz, 5-6 ft.

•• Miss Molly, 4-5 ft.

PURPLE / BLUE BUTTERFLY BUSHES

•• Pugster Amethyst, 2 ft.

•• Lo & Behold Lilac Chip, 1.5 – 2 ft.

•• Black Knight, Dark purple, 6-10 ft.

•• Lo & Behold, Blue Chip Jr., 1.5 – 2.5 ft.

•• Pugster, Blue, 2 ft.

•• Lo & Behold Purple Haze, 2 – 2.5 ft.

WHITE BUTTERFLY BUSH

•• Pugster, White, 2 ft.

•• Multi-Colored Butterfly Bush •• Fourth of July, Pink, purple & white blooms, 5 ft.

Not sure which butterfly bush to try? Consider these varieties and choose the perfect color and size to suit your yard. Then enjoy the fragrance and an explosion of color summer through frost!

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Summer $avings Make the most of your fashion budget this summer. There are ways to get more, spend less, and save your money!

Janae Thomas is a recent graduate of Western Michigan University with a degree in Fashion Merchandising. She is passionate about writing, fashion, & the empowerment of women. Headshot by Robin Maxim.

SUMMER STAPLES Dollar stores like Five Below, Family Dollar, Dollar General, and Dollar Tree all sell products by quality brands for lower prices, than other stores who sell the same products for much higher prices. Get your summer staples for $1-5 (sandals, flip flops, sunglasses, sun hats, baseball caps, etc.) at these cheaper retailers, and you’ll be able to afford every item in every color.

APPS Several retailers offer discounts and coupons for shoppers that use their apps for purchases. Check out the apps for the stores you shop at this summer to see what savings they offer. Also check out the app called PoshMark. PoshMark users can sell their clothing and accessories that they no longer want, whether new with tags or gently used. You can make extra cash on the app by listing items you no longer love, and even shop for designer pieces for super low prices.

SEMI-ANNUAL SALE STEALS If you’ve always wanted to get your swimsuit at the lingerie leader Victoria’s Secret, but couldn’t afford the high prices you need to shop during the Semi- Annual Sale. It occurs every year in June (and December). Call your local VS store on June 1st to keep track of when the Semi-Annual Sale takes place for 2019, so that you can take a more expensive swimsuit home for a low price. By shopping during this sale, you’ll be able to afford more than one swimsuit and even a cover up!

BOOTH BUYS Great summer weather allows you to step out of the stores and shop the booths at flea markets, festivals, carnivals, and art shows that will come to town this summer. You’ll be able to explore clothing and accessories from different cultures with rare fabrics, beading, stitching, and designs for a few dollars.

SUMMER SALES Focus on taking advantage of the summer clearance and sale racks.

Clearance and sale racks can be messy and require a lot of untangling.

Pick a day and take the time to really go through them! You’ll find cheap prices on things you need! Never buy clearance or sale items without trying them on first. Items on sale and clearance are usually not returnable so, always try before you buy. You won’t want to get stuck with items that don’t fit and can’t be returned. Don’t risk wasting money by not trying anything on first!

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Words of Wisdom F RO M DA D March to the beat of your own drum.

Don’t spend your life dancing to someone else’s music.

Be kind to people.

Everyone has a cross to bear and we may have no clue what someone else is going through.

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Be true to yourself, you have to live with that person every day.

My dad loved to joke, so before we would head out he would always tell us, “Drive carelessly.

Take lots of chances.”

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Play your own game.

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Sometimes it is better to go to bed angry than stay up arguing. Things often seem better in the light of morning.

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Say what you mean and mean what you say.

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Lead by example, always let your actions speak louder than your words.

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The only one to argue with a fool, is a fool!

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Life is not about being the best at everything, it is about being best at being you.

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The Island of Sea Women

Machines Like Me

First: Sandra Day O’Connor

by Lisa See

by Ian McEwan

by Evan Thomas

This creative novel takes place in Korea on an island, where for centuries, the women have been in charge. They are divers and support their families with their work. The story begins in the 1930’s and continues to present time. We learn about 2 girls from different backgrounds who grow up with many changes in their lives. A classic story from the author of The Tea Girl of Hummingbird Lane.

Upheaval, Turning Points for Nations in Crisis

by Jared Diamond This is the third book in a trilogy that began with the titles, Guns, Germs, and Steel and Collapse. Diamond now tackles the trials and changes in six countries around the world. When catastrophic events hit an entire country it affects the population, economics and business of everything. He explores the deep psychological dimension to the history and redevelopment of each country.

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Imagine an alternate 1982 in London where a synthetic human must learn to cope in a relationship between a man and his girlfriend. Adam is an independent ‘person’ who develops feelings, turns off his kill switch and writes his love haiku poems.

This is becoming a popular best seller.

Tallulah: Mermaid of the Great Lakes

by Denise Brennan-Nelson

Sandra was not only the first woman U.S Supreme Court Justice, she also was the first woman majority leader of a state senate at a time when women were meant to be homemakers. She broke the glass ceiling at every level.

This is the story of her tenacity and ability to stand up for herself and other women in a world where men had the voice.

Suggestions brought to you by Gloria Tiller, owner of Kazoo Books.

Kazoo Books features used and new titles.

The staff is experienced & can help you with suggestions. Come visit them at 2413 Parkview.

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Illustrated by Susan Kathleen Hartung Tallulah the mermaid is on a quest in the great seas to find her gemstone that will determine the true color of her tail. A wise sea turtle suggests she visit the vast area of the inland Great Lakes to find her illusive treasure.

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Calendar of Events

June 1 Kalamazoo Congenital Heart Walk

Fletchers Field. 8 am – 1 pm. The 2019 Kalamazoo Congenital Heart Walk is a fundraiser benefiting The Children’s Heart Foundation and includes a 1-mile family-friendly walk as well as music, activities, games, food, special guests, entertainment and community. Free. walkforchdresearch.org/kalamazoo

June 5 Angelus

Prince of Peace Lutheran Church. 7:30 – 8:30 pm. Comprised of seven young women from the Mt. Vernon Senior High School Fine Arts Academy (Mt. Vernon, Indiana), Angelus is dedicated to the performance of sacred music from varied religious traditions & historical periods. Free.

Donations will be accepted. 269-382-2910.

June 7 Art Hop, Exhibit, Ice Cream Social

Kick off summer reading with a book exchange, bring a book or take a book!

Adults - $5, Children (ages 2-17) - $3, Ladies Library. 5 – 8 pm. Join us for an old-fashioned Ice Cream Social featuring Under 2 – Free. 269-671-2510. birdsanctuary.kbs.msu.edu/events/childrens-day/ ice cream, sundaes and toppings, home-baked pie slices with ice cream and June 11 brownies á la mode. Pie choices include MASTERMIND Meeting strawberry/rhubarb, Dutch apple, cherry, The Fetzer Center. 11:30 am – 1 pm. blueberry, and peach. Tasty treats for sale.

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June 11 Various Locations throughout Downtown 3 Principles of the Path Kalamazoo. 5 – 9 pm. Art Hop features People’s Church. 7 – 8:30 pm. Based on a new art exhibits in a fun, casual text by 15th century master and founder atmosphere. Numerous galleries and of the Geluk school of Tibetan Buddhism, businesses in the downtown area host a Je Tsong Khapa, this course explores the variety of artwork. Free. 269-342-5059. spiritual determination to be free, unlimited kalamazooarts.com. compassion, and the nature of reality.

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Ice Cream Social June 12 Ladies Library. 9 am – 3 pm. Join us for an “Thriver – Health Talks” old-fashioned Ice Cream Social featuring Ascension Borgess Health Club– 3025 ice cream, sundaes and toppings, Gull Rd, 5:30 - 7:00 pm, Monthly – 2nd home-baked pie slices with ice cream and Wednesday. “Improving Your Quality of brownies á la mode. Pie choices include Life” is a group of people who have had strawberry/rhubarb, Dutch apple, cherry, or having health issues and focusing on blueberry, and peach. Tasty treats are for health for everyone through education. sale. Free tours. ladieslibrarykzoo.org Ascension Borgess Health Club Sponsored. Free and all are welcome.

June 8 269-381-1986. ThriverTalks@gmail.com Do-Dah Parade Traditional Parade Route. 11 am – 12 pm.

June 14, 21, 28 The parade has been part of the Kzoo Parks Summer Cinema Kalamazoo landscape for 35 years. It's Hays Park. 6 – 10:30 pm. Our Summer a tradition and it is the funniest parade.

Cinema series returns this year with Free. 269-388-2830. dodahkzoo.com eight chances to enjoy a movie outside, under the stars in one of our great city June 9 parks! Family-friendly activities begin at 6 Dirty Donut Race US 131 Motorsports Park, Martin MI. 18, p.m. and continue until the movie starts.

Popcorn and food will be available for 40, & 64-mile distances on gravel. The purchase. Free. www.kzooparks.org ‘Dirty Donut’, it is a gravel road bicycle ‘race’, which has donut stops interspersed June 14 – 16 along the 3 available distances. For each UKC Premier Dog Show donut eaten, a rider gets to deduct 5 Kalamazoo County Expo Center. 8 am minutes from their finish time. 269-720– 4 pm. Dog Show featuring 1760. www.dirtydonutrace.com Conformation, Agility, Obedience, Rally Obedience, Terrier Racing, Lure June 9 Coursing, Dock Diving, and Weight Pull Vintage in the Zoo Kalamazoo Farmers Market. 10 am – 5 events. Admission: $5 per vehicle per day pm. Shop true vintage clothing, furniture, or $10 per vehicle for a weekend pass.

269-343-9020. www.ukcdogs.com housewares, & handcrafted modern goods from the region's best vendors & food June 16 trucks. And free balloons for the kids! Free.

Hops with Pops – Tap Takeover 773-319-4866. www.vintageinthezoo.com Binder Park Zoo. 12 – 6 pm. A tap takeover style event featuring six June 9 breweries from the I.H.S. Distributing Children’s Day line up. Passport contains a map and Kellogg Bird Sanctuary. 11 am – 4 pm.

Come and be a kid at the W.K. Kellogg punch boxes for each station along with Bird Sanctuary! Special activities will be six tasting tokens. Guests at the zoo can purchase a best of I.H.S. passport for planned to celebrate the children in our $25.

Family friendly refreshments and lives including a storybook hike along the activities. www.binderparkzoo.org paved path, games and other activities!

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June 20 Oshtemo Historical Society Lecture Oshtemo Township Hall at 7275 West Main, Kalamazoo. 7 pm. The Oshtemo Historical Society presents: The 50-year history of the CHEFF CENTER THERAPEUTIC RIDING CENTER. This equine therapy program provides services for all ages. Come hear about this program & its contributions to the community. 269271-2842. oshtemohistoricalsociety.org

June 22 - 23 Great Amerian Campout

Ramonda Park. 3 pm. The National Wildlife Federation “Great American Campout” has returned to Ramona Park!

Bring your own tent or let us know if you need one. Enjoy a pig roast dinner, S’mores, popcorn and a light breakfast which is all included. Swim at the beach, go on a ranger led hike, make leaf etchings, and enjoy other family friendly activities. $50 per campsite. 269-3294271. mypark.portagemi.gov

June 21 Calling ALL Dentists – “PowerUp” June 23 Dental MasterClass Yoga on Tap! Consumers Credit Union, Drake Rd. 6/21, Latitude 42. 11 am – 12 pm. Join Down 9:30a – 12p. Are you ready to PowerUp your team & patient care? If you want to Dog Yoga Center for a fun outdoor class at Latitude 42 in Portage! Bring your maximize your patient care, build a team that’s passionate about growth & increase friends, beer aficionados and yogis alike, and enjoy the poses, pints, and good your patient conversion – you’ll want to learn from a master. 40+ years combined times that follow. Pre-registration strongly encouraged due to popularity of this experience as a hygienist & an executive event. 269-993-2486 presence & personal brand consultant. $40, Pre-Registration is required (dentists, June 23 practice owners & office managers). 269SHOUT! a Beatles Tribute 873-1598. support@kellyduggan.com The Stage at Kindleberger, Parchment.

6:30 – 8 pm. A fantastic trip through June 21 an iconic time in the history of music, Six Starz Skate Jam Upjohn Park. 4 – 6 pm. Whether you’re including all the “fab” music from the early years to the later Beatles, performed an ace with the skateboard or want to with an authenticity that will stir your get into skating, you won’t want to miss memories and will have everyone singing this event! It’s National Go Skateboarding Day, so bring your skateboard down and dancing along! Bring lawn chairs or and catch some air with us! Free. 269- blanket. No rain site. 269-303-2793. www. kindlebergerarts.org 337-8191. kzooparks.org June 26 June 21 Solutions Every Professional Should Know Summer Solstice Gong Celebration Consumers Credit Union, Drake Rd. 6/26, Down Dog Yoga Center. 7 – 8:30 pm.

6 – 8p. An evening of empowerment Join us for a Summer Solstice Seasonal with executive presence-personal brand Gong Celebration to renew your inner strategist Kelly Duggan, business coach light through the deep relaxing sound Lisa Fisher, and leadership commuof Sacred Gongs. Dress in comfortable nications consultant Chelsie Fall. Join clothing to sit or lie down and feel free us for networking, light snacks and to bring anything that might help you get refreshments, and empowered learning. comfortable - the studio has blankets, $10, To register and reserve your seat bolsters, and yoga mats for your use. email coachlisafisher@gmail.com or call Lisa Fisher at 517-648-7523 or Kelly June 22 Duggan at 269-873-1598 Ultimate Indoor Garage Sale Kalamazoo County Expo Center. 8 a – 3 p.

June 28 & 29 100 garage sales all under one roof! Find Integrative Breathwork Workshops everything from home decor, furniture, Lord of Life Church, 9420 Portage Rd., antiques, baby gear, clothing, sports Portage 6/28: 7 pm - 9 pm, 6/29: 10 am equipment, collectibles, and more! Booths - 5 pm. A musical meditation for insight, are $35. Early bird admission from emotional healing, creativity & renewal.

8am-9am is $5. General admission from $30/Friday or $75/Saturday. Pre-registra9am-3pm is $2. . 269-903-5820. tion is required. AdamczAssociates.com.

June 22 June 29 & 30 Eastwood Neighborhood AssociaKalamazoo 4-H Open Horse Show tion Garage/Yards sale Kalamazoo County Expo Center, Horse Eastwood Neighborhood between East Arenas. 8:30 am Saturday. 9 am Sunday.

Michigan and Gull Road. 9 am – 4 A fun-filled weekend horse show that is pm. Join us for the Annual Eastwood open to the public with over 65 classes Neighborhood Community Association for nearly every riding discipline. Rain or Garage Sales. Shop, barter and bring shine. Admission & parking are free for a wagon to carry your items in. (269) spectators. For more info visit msue.msu. edu/kalamazoo 345-3589. rknox@gmail.com SOUTHWEST MICHIGAN

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