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iversity has never been a hotter or more polarising subject. Some recent political events and the vote of no confidence against President Zuma – seem only to have thrust our differences further into the spotlight. Whether it’s different religions, politics, race or wealth levels, we live in a rich and diverse society, and never has there been a more apt time to talk about it with our children. At the very lowest end of the scale, can’t most of us recall a playground incident we’re not proud of? A friend once shared a shameful moment she reflects back on where a group of friends teased and excluded another girl who was obsessed with the solar system. Looking back she realised that the girl was probably on the autistic spectrum, but back then as young adults we had no understanding and little empathy. Children can be cruel and selfabsorbed, but empathy can be learnt. The diversity landscape is confusing enough for adults never mind children, so the key question is how do we ensure our children can think about the Publisher: Simon Garrity
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world beyond themselves? Values are taught not caught. Many of our values will be absorbed by our children by observation, but we also need to teach our kids the values important to us. Teach them to care for others in the local community and beyond. Require respect in your family. Make family mealtimes a place to talk “The family that eats together stays together.” In order to nurture socially inclusive and tolerant children, we need to walk the talk, reinforcing our values over and over again. Children see, children do. Mom’s also need time for themselves to relax and take a moment to reflect and be pampered, so treat yourself with a discounted treatment from Nails by Lorraine. All you have to do is present this issue of Mom’s Matter Magazine to get your 20% discount.
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3 little behavior problems one shouldn't ignore Interrupting When You're Talking Why you shouldn't ignore it: Your child may be incredibly excited to tell you something or ask a question, but allowing her to butt in to your conversations doesn't teach her how to be considerate of others or occupy herself when you're busy. As a result, she'll think that she's entitled to other people's attention and won't be able to tolerate frustration. How to stop it: If she tugs on your arm while you're talking, point to a chair or stair and tell her quietly to sit there until you're finished. Afterward, let her know that she won't get what she's asking for when she interrupts you. Playing Too Rough Why you shouldn't ignore it: You know that you have to step in when your child punches a playmate, but you shouldn't disregard more subtle aggressive acts, like shoving his brother or pinching a friend. "If you don't intervene, rough behavior can become an entrenched habit. Plus, it sends a message that hurting people is acceptable.
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