Femior February 2015

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Dear NOM Coordinator Jc Sheetal My heartiest compliment to u and to all the active Lady Jaycee and Jcrt wing of JCI India for your excellent activity from last Two months. You all are the glam, energy and foundation of JCI India, without you all there is no charm in projects. Being an Women be proud of yourself and make your family proud on you, make your society proud on you last but not the least let our organization feel proud of you. All the very best for the centenary year. Create some good impact in the society. Let us Commit Connect Care

Regards JCI Sen.Rsjshree Bhaje 2015,EVP-D JCI India


FROM THE DESK OF  NOM CORDINATOR Well begun is half done, 'as the proverb goes, the Lady jc/jcrt wing activities commenced with a blast, the main focus being the celebration of Integrity Day pan India with the jcrts in the forefront and on the lighter wave the celebration of valentine's day 14 the theme being id for enhancing relationship between couples followed by celebrations .Smiles can carry us miles '

Ahead and what more could be said about women's smile. I was very happy to see the variety in the promotions too and the pictures tell me how lively the programs should have been. Keep the ball rolling my friends? As a token of encouragement and for them to relish the feel I gifted each zone director a "Neck Tie" that would help them exhibit leadership in whatever they do. All the best and get Yourself ready to take up the next challenge for the month of March...


Few things can help an individual more than to place responsibility on him, and to let him know that you trust him. - Booker T. Washington

My Dear Fellow Jaycees and Jayceerettes, A Trust which Sheetaal mam putting on me and your overflowing response to Femior really a Dream coming True!! The auras around us and the heart which Breathes "JCI" making the various grounds to touch and the horizons to reach. Commit - Connect - Care

Your's in Junior Chamber PPP Vishakha Mashankar


SMILE AND THE WORLD SMILES WITH YOU SMILE IS AN IMPRESSION OF YOU FROM YOUR HEART

Doesn't it feel great when people smile at You? Doesn't it make you want to smile? right back? (Well okay, most of the time you do.) When it would it be if you were no longer able to smile? How would the at impact you and the people you interact with at work and in life?

I know such a personality who is able to Smile in all situations. He is the man of courage and wisdom, who despite of having many adversities and tough times, kept smiling always. I was in awe of how his inner strength and human spirit have helped him survive and continue to survive a very difficult experience. He is definitely a shining example of a person living success ď‚źď‚ź. From inside out. A smile seems to be such a simple thing and yet it is not because many people can smile but they don't. A smile is an expression of you from your heart. It's a way of instantly connecting with others and expressing joy, warmth and caring. It's a gift you give without thinking. Imagine having that gift taken away from you. Imagine not being able to smile at your child, spouse, parents, client, coworker, customer or friend. How would you feel and what would that be for you? Some people's smile is taken by outside circumstances. Your smile is only taken away by you. You have the ability to smile at will.


Yet, how often do you withhold it because you are walking with a round with a frown on your face, glaring at people or just not seeing people, because you're so frazzled and busy? Your smile IS important. When you recognize that it's more than just a simple smile, when you give it away freely because you can, it will uplift both you and the people you're smiling at. Practice living success. from the inside out every day by appreciating the importance of a SMILE. With every smile you freely give, may it take the world closer to you.

JCI SENATOR AMARPREET SABHARWAL ZD LadyJC'S & JCRT 2015 Charter President JCI KOTA ELITE

NT' 2010 JCI INDIA CNT '2012 JCI USA

Dimple Shah, JCI Sec Paradise, Zone XII


RELATION TO BE TREASURED First she knocked at her mothers womb. she took her permission to come out and there she cameď‚ź.. She was so cute with tiny little legs and hands but for her arriving in the outside world was the mothers courage as she had to suffer a lot ,I mean that she was not taken proper care by her husband and also by her in-laws .even though she requested ,begged but everyone gave a deaf ears to her words of empathy and sympathy. Looking at the said scenario she decided to work not only for herself but to feed her child and to provide with her the basic necessities of life. she started working as a domestic servant listening to all the people who were not supporting her at all. When this cute little pie entered the world mother was really happy to see her cutie spreading her hands towards, the world but what she new that said happiness was an offence and crime to her family where she was harassed assaulted and thrown out of the house merely because she gave birth to a daughter. One fine day mother made her mind and she took the final decision of Leaving her matrimonial house. Mother was fully aware of all the situations, troubles, hurdles which she had to face and pass through but for her child was the only reason to liveď‚ź. Childs fife was more important than anyone's. she continued working in peoples houses, made her daughter to go to nursery, school and finally climbed the ladder of sending the daughter to college. While staying at the rental house mother and daughter started working and studying respectively. people started making allegations against them as they were not staying with their in laws but as days passed both mother and daughter became strong enough to face the situation,


But somewhere both of them could feel each ones pain, suffering The day came where daughter passed out from the College and completed her CA course and secured the silver medal .It was a proud moment for the duo. Both of them enjoyed the said moment with laughter and a small tea party. As time started running, mother became very weak and tired and her health started detreating and because of this she had to be hospitalized and there came another hurdle in her life that is the blood cancer. said fact was not disclosed to her daughter until one day daughter happened to enter the house when doctor was present and he was giving her some treatment. Daughter did not show any expression on her face but she controlled them at that spur of moment only for the sake of her mother knowing the fact that her mother would be there for few days. At night. on the same day when the mother was fast asleep due to medications, her daughter couldn't control her tears and feelings and she burst into tears alone in the room. But she made her mind firm that she would not show her reaction towards the situation and give her mother the maximum happiness for the remaining days. Mother could feel the emotions and feelings of her daughter and same with the daughter but here was the tough time for both , both were pretending to make each one happy Here was real test of patience, control, love and relation, the true relation of mother and the child. Friends, and the life of her mother continued, don't know for how long Thanks, JC Hgf Harsha Naik Zone Coordinator Zone XI PR and LadyJaycees


How loveable are you? So to begin with- As far as I remember my childhood both my parents were very fond of me. My mother especially adored me, spent a lot on my clothes and was very ambitious about my performance academically. And thence, I was a star amongst my relatives as well. Never do I remember was I treated inferior or unfair for being a girl. But when I grew up, post teenage, suddenly my surroundings turned unfit. Away from home, doing higher studies, I met many people for whom my having a female body was the only good thing about me. It was then when I started believing what I was told, 'All boys are like that. Sexual, desperate, only dream about most attractive female body.' Then the best phase of my life began and I started practicing as a Counselor. I met many people whose stories are nothing short of success stories. I met many heroes and heroines. I also met many mothers, who wanted the best for their daughters. And struggled a lot for it. Every mother wishes her daughter live like a Queen. But then in their minds may be, a Queen should be very attractive as well. One mother said she doesn't let her 10 yr old daughter rest in the afternoon since getting fat is in their family genes. And if once she puts on weight she will face problem in future. I only kept imagining that for another 15 years atleast this girl is expected to struggle every day to keep herself attractive for her ideal husband. Another story is only the immediate future of the previous one. A 16 yr old girl's mother has only two expectations from her daughter. She should reduce weight and study very hard. But this girl who is very fat is also a very big flirt. I assume she is desperate to find a guy who says even she is beautiful in spite of all the tyres hanging from her body. This young girl is hopeful that may be not all of us relate


only with a female's looks. But she finds it very hard to study hard since one thing is clear in her mind that growing up and finding a man who finds her beautiful enough to get married to her is the biggest responsibility being a girl. So she spends hours before the mirror but hardly few minutes with the books. But even when all this was happening I was sure my mother is an exception. She doesn't objectify female body. And then one day when she was counselling the counsellor in me about the importance of getting married she said, 'Don't be so stubborn, you won't stay beautiful always! So stop throwing tantrums and prepare yourself to get married.' And I felt that all these years I was developing my personality now stands only secondary importance compared to my 'happily married' status. So I have a question- Why accuse men for being sexual or more sexual when even we women are obsessed with our looks all the time? Even in our own mind a man's certificate that we are attractive is an achievement bigger than any other accolade. Not just men try to prove their superiority but even women believe they are inferior without a man by their side. When we say that crime in society over women has increased, is it supposedly only men who need to change? But why can't we find ways to help our own situation? Since we are the ones who are suffering. I, for instance, don't share so-called NV jokes. They objectify woman body the most. Thankfully, I also know many women who talk about eating healthy and exercising but they don't comment on my/your/ her body weight. I know some inspiring women who talk very enthusiastically about their career without worrying about their old age, someone to marry, etc. etc. So hereby, reflecting on what a wonderful woman Michelle Obama once appealed to Us (Women)- Let us all join hands and free ourselves from the chains of self-imposed


slavery. Let us celebrate being a woman. Who can love easily, cry easily and yet stand stronger than men even in most dire conditions. Let us stop asking for equal rights from men and start cherishing our own womanhood unconditionally. Let us stand by one another not just as women but as humans. For we are humans first and then anything else. I love being a woman! Do you??? BY JC SONAM KAPOOR JCI CHANDRAPUR GARIMA


WOMEN EMPOWERMENT The creation of an environment where women can make independent decisions on personal development as well as shine as equal in society but the sadly the truth is .. That in India the women has been second graded citizen , no matter what its esteemed leaders have said or done. When we talk about crime against women the list is endless. But such behaviour continues despite the apparent movement towards civilization. The most relevant solution to empower women is women's education. It is rightly said "Educating one women is equal to educate one family, society and entire country". So let us take an Initiative to promote women education for eradicating crime and differences of gender. Jcrt PINKY CHAUHAN JCRT CHAIRPERSON JCI BANGALORE GARDEN CITY ZONE XIV


" NEW ERA" There comes a time in life ,where we need to walk away from all the drama and the people who create it. We need to surround ourselves with people who make us laugh ,and forget the bad and focus on the good. Love the people who treat us right and pray for the ones who donor. Life is too short .Short to be anything but happy. Falling down is the part of life and getting up is living....was spending my life with these beautiful thoughts ,when few days back came across a beautiful quote to which everyone agreed...lets read it "A woman is a reflection of her man....the twinkle in her eyes reflects her many dreams fulfilled with him.... The glow on her face shows he keeps her self-assured. The smile on her lips reflects the compliments he pays to her.... So whenever you see a beautiful lady ....DO SALUTE HER MAN.....coz she's just a mirror the real beautiful person is her MAN..." The thought was really beautiful but couldn't make me sleep. I was bound to rephrase it and I finally did, for myself and for womanhood... "A woman is a reflection of herself......the twinkle in her eyes reflects her many dreams she fulfilled... The glow on her face shows she keeps herself assured.... The smile on her lips reflects the compliments she is worth.... DO I REALLY NEED A MAN TO FEEL BEAUTIFUL????? Should it not reflect the beauty that i hold in my soul??? CELEBRATING WOMANHOOD

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JC RASHMI KHATUWALA, PROV ZONE XXV


Jc Shailaja Perka president 2015 JCI Singareni Queens 8 incline


HANDOVERING FIRST GIRL TOILET @ SAMAADHAAN



Jc. Dr. Hema Rajesh, Zone Director- Jaycerette and Lady Jaycees, Zone XXII

Joined JCI as a jaycerettee in JCI Pathanamthitta in the year 1998. She was the chapter jaycerette chairperson in the year 2005. She is a charter member of JCI Pathanamthitta Queens and presently serving as the Zone Director - Jaycerette Wing and Lady Jaycees of Zone XXII. She is also active in other organizations like Y's Men International and Indian Dental Association. She was the president of Y's Menette Club of Mallassery and currently serving as a Regional Service Director of South West India Region of Y's Men International. She is the Charter Joint Secretary of Indian Dental Association of Pathanamthitta branch and was the vice president and state executive committee member of Women's Dental Council of IDA Kerala State. She is a dental surgeon by profession and is practising in her own dental clinic at Pandalam. She is married to JFM. Dr. Rajesh.V, Past Zone Vice President and blessed with two children Jclt. Sourav and Jclt. Samyuktha.


Name: JC Smitha Suraj Designation : Zone Director Lady Jcs/Jcrt Wing, Zone - XIV Mother Chapter : JCI Gonikoppal Coorg DOB : 4/1/1988 Anniversary: 23/11/2008 E-mail : smithasuraj14@gmail.com Address : A-one hotel, A P Complex, Opp masjid, Gonikoppal571312 South Coorg, Mob : 8884040321 Date of joining JCI : January 2012 Family : Husband - JC Suraj Kanth P S, Zone XIV Special Extension Officer for Coorg 2015 and Vice President of JCI Gonikoppal Coorg 2015 Daughter - JJC Sihi Suraj P S Achievements Founder director of leading NGO "SAMANVAYA" in Shimoga .


JCI SENATOR AMARPREET SABHARWAL ZD LadyJC'S & JCRT 2015 Charter President JCI KOTA ELITE National Trainer JCI INDIA CNT JCI USA 5 C'S of JC - CONTROL, COURAGE, CONFIDENCE ,COMMITMENT & CRISIS MANAGEMENT Its been am immense feeling of pride as well as privilege to be a JC.I believe in the 5C's of JC that became an integral part of my life.I want to share an incident of my life which happened last year in Feburary 2012 and made my belief more stronger & deep rooted. My father was suffering from severe knee joints arthritis and had to go for a Knee transplant operation. Since we consulted many doctors across the country but my father was not ready for any surgery. Then we met a doctor at Kota in February who convinced as well as assured my father about the recovery and made him ready for the surgery. Sunday 12, Feb '2012 was the date given by the doctor for his first surgery of


the right knee.At that point of time I got a call from my then ZP Jc Gaurav Maheshwari to take up the responsibility of LOTS Copilotship that was scheduled on 25th Feb'2012. I immediately said yes since feeling of responsibility & commitment towards my JC organization always motivated me. I planned my time & work since that was the same time when my father was to be admitted in the hospital. Everything was going as planned and y father's both surgeries in a week's gap were done but something somewhere went against the will.After the second operation on 19th was not feeling well and then after 3 days he developed a severe Kidney infection. As my father had only 1 kidney by birth so now it was a matter of worry for everyone as his condition was deteriorating day by day and was not responding to any medicines given to him. It was the time when LOTS was just approaching and I was in a stuck. Doctors were also worried as the damage to the kidney could worsen his condition and could also claim his life. Only measure left was dialyses and after that kidney transplant for which I offered myself. We shifted him to another hospital on 24th facilities were the best and that was the day when Pilot Sir JC Kamal Kumar was reaching Kota for the scheduled program. Now it was high time to say no for LOTS so I asked my father what to do. He was in the ICU, smilingly asked me that this is the testing period and I have to come out with flying colours. Inside I was very scared about his falling health but I prepared my mind for the worst and set off to fulfill my duty as Feb. where these Asst Trainer. LOTS started well and I tried to give my best. Due to the stress in back of mind I dropped my Laptop during the evening session and now was in big trouble as it was not working at all. Since another "C- CRISIS MANAGEMENT" is again an integral part of JC's so I called my


computer operator and he retrieved all the data from the hard disk, loaded in my PC and I worked till late at night and prepared & loaded the sessions in the pen drive. The sessions went off well and by the evening with God's grace I also got relaxed as a good news came in that a new medicine is been given to my father and he is responding to that.LOTS was a memorable experience for me.The 5 C's; CONTROL over emotions & thoughts, COURAGE to take up the responsibility & doing best in CRISIS, CONFIDENCE in yourself & your people and a sense of COMMITMENT towards your people & organization made me succeed and it became the life time achievement for me as my father got back home safe & healthy and I was also satisfied with my work done for my organization. JC"s is an organization that helps an individual to develop one's personality, learn from one's own weaknesses & turn those into strengths and become a change agent to help the community, society as well as country to make it a better place to live in. So always be CONNECTED, COMMITTED & CARING to BE BETTER!





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Mentor - NOM Cordinator JCI Sen Sheetaal Gandhi

Jc Sanjana Jain

Jc Nikita jain

Jc Hema Nagar

Jc Ravinder Kour

Jc Parul Varshney Jc Poonam Gera Jc Ritu Kaur Chawala Jc Sanjana Jain

Jc Amarpreet Sabarwal Jc Yogita Natani

Jc Shailaja Vijay

Jc Preeti Rathi

Jc Anupama G

Jcrt Deepti Shah

Jc Kavita Bhanuri

Jc Kiran Lalwani

Jc Sarita jain

Jc Kavita Sanghi

PPP Vishakha Mashankar Jc Monica Gupta


Jc. Saranya Narayanan JC Tresa Ouseph

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