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Dr. Sarah Brewer The word cancer strikes fear in anybody s heart. Yet despite its prevalence, early diagnosis and modern treatments often result in a cure. Discover the symptoms you should never ignore in this month s special Focus, plus recipes to help beat bowel cancer in our nutrition pages. Elsewhere, we explore how the best mums look after themselves, how to overcome jealousy, and ask if you could be living with a narcissist. Find out how to stop exercise from hurting, learn to give up your excuses, and consider whether social networks are harming your real-life relationships. Yourwellness is unique in that we cover all aspects of wellbeing, from health and relationships, through fitness and family, to work and finances. What s more, we also explore all the options available, from Ancient to Modern and Scientific to Holistic. If you enjoy reading this issue, look for similar articles and features at www.yourwellness.com. Why not tell your friends so they can also sit down, take a well-earned break and browse our pages. It s a quality read for free! Until next month,

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contents Keeping Your Children Safe Online

emotional wellness 26 Give up your Excuses family wellness 33 When Teenage Angst Is OK

Does perspiration put you off exercise?

exercise for wellness 39 Can Celebrities really get you

12 wellness focus on Cancer 24 emotional wellness Take just two minutes of your time

28 The family wellness best mums look after themselves, too

36 exercise wellness No pain, No gain?

fit?

relationship wellness 40 Venus Cow shows you how to Overcome JEALOUSY

wellness nutrition 44 Can you Eat to Beat Bowel Cancer?

Are you living with a Narcissist?

wellness debate 50 Are Social Networks Harming Real Life Relationships?

52 wellness experts

04 wellness news 08 kitchen wellness 10 garden wellness

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54 holistic wellness 56 wellness reviews 60 modern wellness 61 ancient wellness 64 scientific wellness

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Are you grounded by babylag? Three quarters of new parents virtually sleepwalk through the day with extreme exhaustion from sleepless nights, says Dr Dev Banerjee. This babylag is similar to transatlantic jet lag, when you can t-keep-your-eyes-open and are desperate-for-a-nap. It has led to some bizarre behaviour, with parents hanging dry washing on the line, putting milk in the washing machine, and even falling asleep in the shower. Dr Dev explains, When parents are woken regularly in the night, they rarely enter the final stages of deep sleep, denying their bodies the chance to re-charge and prepare for the day ahead. If that is happening night after night, it can lead to slower reaction times, poor concentration and affect memory recall and problem solving. Find out how babylagged you are, and get advice on sleep routines at

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Are we nearly there yet? Children take just 27 minutes to get bored on long car journeys â&#x20AC;&#x2019; with those living in Australia getting bored the quickest at 23 minutes, despite all those kangaroos! Kids in the UK are a close second at 24 minutes, while children living in Germany are the most patient, taking a full 31 minutes to get antsy. The research, by sat nav firm, TomTom, shows that the average holiday car journey lasts five hours, so children will start playing up long before the first service-station stop. One in four parents admit they lie about the estimated time of arrival to make the journey seem shorter, but the best bet is to plan the shortest route in advance, and to factor in regular breaks.

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Money canâ&#x20AC;&#x2122;t buy me love (but it might buy you happiness!) We ve always been told that money can t buy happiness but now it seems psychologists have had a change of heart. In an article entitled If money doesn t make you happy, then you probably aren t spending it right, the authors suggest that wealthy people have better nutrition, better medical care, more leisure time and do more meaningful jobs â&#x20AC;&#x2019; all things that contribute to happiness. The article, which is due to be adapted into a book called Happy Money, has created eight principles that explain how spending money wisely can lead to happiness. These include paying for experiences rather than possessions, using money to help other people, and buying lots of small things that make you happy rather than one big purchase.

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Are you sitting comfortably? Then stand up! If you re stuck behind your desk clearing a backlog of work, you re as much at risk of a dangerous blood clot in your legs as those who fly long haul. Footballer David Dunn recommends that you take precautions when sitting for long periods of time, and advocates wearing properly fitted compression socks, designed to reverse the effects of sitting in a small space for a long while. The GCtech specialist socks he uses have graduated compression technology to avoid swelling, thrombosis and fatigue. They also aid muscle recovery between physical activity for heightened performance - a good secret to know from an elite footballer! ÂŁ24.99

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Popeye should have nibbled watercress Watercress contains an unusually high concentration of antioxidant vitamins, giving it a unique peppery bite . Experts at the University of Ulster have now found that eating watercress prevents the muscle damage associated with strenuous exercise. Volunteers who ran as fast as they could, until exhausted, showed significantly less muscle damage when they enjoyed a small bag of raw watercress (85g) two hours beforehand. It s thought the antioxidants mop up damaging free radicals generated by intense bursts of exercise. Not sure about exercise after eating a bag of watercress? Perhaps try a fresh watercress smoothie instead! yourwellness.com

Itâ&#x20AC;&#x2122;s Me, Anna-Marie! Anna-Marie Wayne, daughter of War of the Worlds composer Jeff Wayne, has teamed up with Maker Studios to launch a UK online portal for parents. Featuring everything to make mum s life easier , it s aimed at families, specifically savvy, socially active, working mums, and features a mix of topics ranging from fun video clips, tried and tested reviews and creative activities, to personal anecdotes and chatty informal advice. As mother to two under-fives ,with a fast-paced work and home life, AnnaMarie knows what today s busy mums need to maintain balance in all areas of life. It s Me, Anna-Marie! transmits via YouTube twice a week.

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vegan or vegetarian. It s about reshaping what s on your plate and making simple swaps, while still treating yourself to favourite meat or dairy products when you fancy them - instead of eating them from habit. Even cutting down on half your intake of meat and dairy will make a considerable impact on your health and the environment. For example, it takes over 2,400 gallons of water to produce one pound of meat, 2,000 gallons of water to produce one gallon of milk, but an average of 25 gallons of water to produce one pound of plant-based food.

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Winter is an ideal time to plan your spring plantings, and installing a selection of herbs can transform your meals, save money, and have medicinal benefits. Transform a small patch of land near your kitchen door (for ease of access when cooking) or go to town with a larger, impressive traditional herb garden in the form of a medieval knot. And if you don t have a garden, you can still grow herbs in window boxes, patio pots or tubs by your front door. They re easy to cultivate and look attractive, too.

Benefits of growing your own herbs: 01 Fresh flavours are always available to liven up salads, pasta, pizzas and meats in summer, and dried or frozen herbs can be used throughout winter.

02 Save money all year round – even small bags of herbs are expensive to buy fresh out of season.

03 Improve the curb appeal of your home – a well-tended kitchen herb patch looks attractive (especially if you’re looking to sell your home).

04 Homemade gifts are always available – lavender sachets, fresh posies or dried bouquet garni mixes.

05 Relieve the stresses and strains of daily life – tending your home-grown herbs and inhaling their wonderful scent will both relax and revitalise you at the end of a long working day.

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sedative to relax the mind, promote sleep and ward off headaches.

German chamomile flowers and leaves are used to make a medicinal tea that can improve indigestion, wind and promote a good night s sleep. Soak cotton pads in cooled chamomile tea to bathe tired, strained eyes.

Lemon Balm was a popular remedy for stress in medieval times, when leaves were chewed by scholars facing exams. Also helps indigestion, flatulence and anxiety.

Sage is one of the most versatile medicinal herbs. As well as making sage and onion stuffing, you can rub fresh sage leaves onto insect stings and bites, or make an infusion to gargle away a sore throat or ease menopausal hot flushes. Freezing sage leaves retains their medicinal benefits better than drying. Mint is one of the most popular garden herbs,

and is often grown in pots to curtail its invasive nature. Its leaves contain essential oils with antiseptic and painkilling properties, and it makes the most wonderful herbal tisane tablespoon of mint. Perfect for improving digestion ‒ just add 1 tablespoon mint leaves to a cup of boiling water and infuse for 20 minutes before drinking.

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Cancer is the leading cause of death worldwide, with an estimated 13 million new cases diagnosed every year. Numbers are rising and, compared with figures at the start of the new millennium, are expected to double by 2020, and triple by 2030. Yet, according to the World Health Organisation, up to one in three cancers can be prevented through diet and lifestyle changes.

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Some cancers produce few, if any symptoms, until they re advanced. The best way to detect these at an early, treatable stage, is through regular health screening. Other symptoms may be non-specific, such as persistent tiredness, or more obvious such as a hard lump (although most lumps are not due to cancer, all should be checked).

Never ignore: • A lump

What is cancer? Cancer develops when a single cell starts to divide repeatedly, producing abnormal copies of itself, rather than dividing as needed to replace worn out cells. If your immune system does not recognise and destroy these abnormal cells, they continue to divide and invade surrounding tissues. Once the tumour reaches a certain size, a few abnormal cells may break away and spread through blood and lymph vessels to other parts of the body. These secondaries most commonly take root in the lung, liver, bone and brain. Your lifetime risk of receiving a cancer diagnosis is greater than 1 in 3 if you don t smoke, and at least 1 in 2 if you do.

• A change in bowel habit (constipation, looseness, change in frequency) • A nagging cough or shortness of breath • Pain, ache or discomfort that keeps coming back • Weight loss for no apparent reason • Abdominal swelling • Feelings of heaviness or dragging in the pelvis • Persistent and excessive fatigue • Recurrent indigestion or nausea • Unexpected blood loss (including after the menopause, and after sex) • Discharge from the nipples or elsewhere • Difficulty swallowing • Feeling full, despite eating very little • A hoarse voice or sore throat lasting more than 3 weeks • Urinary difficulties • A skin mole or blemish that changes eg grows, itches, darkens, scales, weeps, crusts, ulcerates, develops a raised, rolled edge • A sore or ulcer that does not heal within 10 days

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• A white or red patch on the gums, tongue, or anywhere in the mouth • Problems chewing, swallowing, speaking, or moving the jaw or tongue • A change in the way the teeth fit together • Any persistent health problem that worries you.

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The trouble with pancreatic cancer Although it s not one of the five most common cancers, pancreatic cancer is the fifth most deadly, as it is so difficult to detect in the early stages. According to Ali Stunt, Chief Executive of Pancreatic Cancer Action, The biggest problem with the diagnosis is that there s no one clear indicator of the illness. There are, however, a few key clusters of symptoms that should give rise to suspicion. Classic pancreatic cancer symptoms are significant abdominal pain and/ or back pain, painless jaundice (yellow skin/eyes, dark urine), and significant and unexplained weight loss. Other common symptoms are new onset diabetes that s not associated with weight gain, pain in the upper abdomen that typically radiates to the back, indigestion or abdominal discomfort, loss of appetite or nausea and vomiting, pain when eating, and fatty stools (often pale and smelly).

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To find out more visit www.pancreaticcanceraction.org and www.pancreaticcancer.org.uk.

What causes cancer? Cancer results from ill-understood interactions between your genes, environment, diet and lifestyle. Factors that are associated with an increased risk include family history, smoking, excess alcohol intake, obesity, lack of exercise, poor diet and exposure to workplace chemicals and air pollution, including smoke from solid fuels. Viruses have also been implicated, including those that cause liver disease (eg hepatitis B, C) and some types of wart (human papilloma) virus. Reducing your exposure to sunlight will help to lower your risk of skin cancer, but also reduces the amount of protective vitamin D you naturally produce, which seems to boost immunity against cancer in general. By all means use sunscreen, but take vitamin D supplements, too!

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- George Carlin

You show me something that doesn’t cause cancer, and I’ll show you something that isn’t on the market yet.

Choose your friends carefully Research from UCLA s School of Medicine suggests that negative relationships may increase the risk of major health problems, including cancer. In contrast, surrounding yourself with upbeat, positive people can help keep you well. One theory is that negative people increase your own stress levels, which in turn, reduces your immunity. So if you want to stay fit and healthy, spend more time with cheerful people!

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An ounce of prevention is worth a pound of cure… Most cancers are detected either by someone recognising red flag symptoms and checking them out, or by routine health screening ‒ attend for anything and everything you are offered: mammography, cervical smears, faecal bloods for bowel cancer, blood tests for Prostate Specific Antigen (PSA), blood tests for ovarian cancer (HE4, CA125), dental check-ups for mouth cancer, mole checks, endoscopy (eg for stomach, colon or bladder cancer) or imaging scans. Some screening tests are only available privately, but the costs must be weighed up against the benefits. The average person incurs 60% of their healthcare costs during the last 6 months of their life. Rather than saving for that rainy day, why not invest some of your savings earlier in the umbrella of private health screening? You may live longer as a result.

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TLC: TOUCH, LOOK, CHECK Most cases of breast cancer are found by women noticing unusual changes, taking the initiative and visiting their doctor. The earlier breast cancer is found, the better the chance of beating it ‒ so you can see how important it is to make regular checks. It s as simple as TLC...

TOUCH your breasts. Can you feel anything unusual? LOOK for changes. Is there any change in shape or texture? CHECK anything unusual with your doctor.

No one knows your body better than you and everyone will have their own way of touching and looking for changes ‒ there s no special technique and you don t need any training. It s good to get into the habit of doing this regularly ‒ maybe when you re in the bath or shower, or while getting dressed in the morning. You might prefer to do it while standing up or lying down. Either way, the important thing is to be familiar with how your breasts look and feel normally, so you notice anything unusual ‒ and remember to check the whole breast area, including your upper chest and armpits.

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Men, grab your health by the balls Orchid is a UK charity dedicated to male specific cancers ‒ prostate, testicular and penile cancer - all of which are on the rise. Testicular cancer is the most common cancer among men aged 15-45 and worldwide, the number developing this disease has quadrupled over the last 50 years. If caught early enough, testicular cancer has a cure rate of more than 95% and usually means fertility can be preserved. Unfortunately, in more than a third of cases, the disease has spread before diagnosis which is why it is so important for men of all ages - and their partners - to know what s normal in the ball department, and what s not. Symptoms of testicular cancer can include a lump or swelling in a testicle, a dull ache or sharp pain in the testicles or lower abdomen, or a sudden collection of fluid in the scrotum. yourwellness.com

Get into the habit of checking your testicles, or your partner’s, regularly. This is best done during, or after, a bath or shower when the scrotum is warm and relaxed. Ignore the fact that one ball hangs lower than the other – that’s normal.

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Dr Garry Savin, Medical Director of Preventicum UK, says, A 39 year old man came to see me for a routine check-up, arranged through his company. He was doing well in his career, was ﬁt and well with no bothersome symptoms. During the Preventicum check-up, which included a routine testicular examination, I noticed one testicle felt diﬀerent to the other. Although there was no discrete lump , I requested some extra blood tests looking for tumour markers that can go high in the presence of a cancer. I also arranged an urgent appointment with a specialist who saw him over the weekend. The urologist arranged a testicular ultrasound as a precaution, even though the tumour marker blood tests were negative. A couple of days later, the testicular ultrasound showed a cancer in the young man s testicle. Fortunately the surrounding lymph nodes looked normal, and he had urgent surgery to remove the cancerous testicle within days. Several years later, he is doing well, living a normal life as a husband and father, and remains successful in his career. This shows that sometimes, a check-up is potentially lifesaving, and that experienced doctors need to follow their clinical judgement and not necessarily rely on negative blood tests. Without a routine medical check-up, he would not have known he was harbouring a potentially fatal cancer until many months later, and the outcome of this story may not have had such a happy ending.

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Dr Tom Powles, senior lecturer in medical oncology at the Barts Cancer Institute, explains, There shouldn t be any lumps in the testis itself. The problem is that testicular cancer tends to be painless and grows slowly, so men don t tend to worry about it too much ‒ they think it ll go away. Although less than one in 25 testicular lumps are due to cancer, it s important to see your doctor straight away to get checked. A lot of men are shocked to discover that cancer can also develop on the penis, according to Dr Peter Branney, Senior Lecturer in Social Psychology at Leeds Metropolitan University. The UK is world leading in the treatment of penile cancer, yet our research shows the symptoms are regularly mistaken for a sexually transmitted disease, which delays treatment. If we talk about penile cancer more widely, then men might be diagnosed faster and be better equipped to cope with both the physical and emotional impact of the condition. For more information about male cancers visit www.orchidcancer.org.uk and www.healthtalkonline.org.

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There are no guarantees, but the following tips are believed to significantly reduce your lifetime risk of cancer.

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Donâ&#x20AC;&#x2122;t smoke, and avoid

passive smoking, to protect against most cancers, especially of the lungs, mouth and nasal passages.

Maintain a healthy weight to protect against a

number of cancers, including those of the bowel and breast.

Exercise briskly for at least 30 minutes every day to protect against cancers of the bowel, breast and womb.

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Plan your meals around a variety of vegetables, fruits, wholegrains and beans, so you eat at least 5 servings (and preferably more) per day. These provide a variety of natural, anticancer substances. Steam or microwave vegetables rather than boiling them to preserve these beneficial components. Obtain healthy fats

Cut back on fats in general, and concentrate on obtaining good monounsaturated fats (eg olive and nut oils) and omega-3s (eg fish oils, rapeseed oil).

Limit your intake of red meat (beef, pork, lamb)

and cured or processed meats (sausages, bacon, ham). These form chemicals that are linked with bowel cancer, especially if fried, barbecued or char-grilled.

Limit your intake of alcohol to no more than

2 units per day for men and 1 unit per day for women. Alcohol appears to make cells more vulnerable to cancer-causing chemicals, especially in the mouth, breast and bowel, and especially in smokers.

Avoid salty foods as these are linked with an increased risk of stomach cancer. Avoid sunbeds and sun burn to reduce your risk of skin cancer. Cover up in the sun, use broad-spectrum sunscreens with a protection factor of at least SPF15+ (take vitamin D supplements, too). Consider going organic as the Environment

Protection Agency in the US consider that 90% of fungicides, 60% of herbicides and 30% of insecticides are potentially cancer causing.

Reduce stress levels, as excess stress reduces your immunity and has been linked with an increased susceptibility to cancer. Vaccination can protect against hepatitis B related liver cancer in those at risk, while immunisation against wart (papilloma) virus protects against cervical, vulval and vaginal cancers in women.

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Steps you can take to prevent breast cancer Genesis Breast Cancer Prevention is a charity dedicated to the prediction and prevention of breast cancer so that, step by step, 1 in 10 women affected becomes none in 10. Mr Lester Barr, breast cancer surgeon and chairman of the charity, offers advice on how to keep your risk as low as possible.

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how to check yourself, know about screening, and deal with any risk factors in your life. For breast changes to look out for visit www.

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Lose some weight

Genesis Breast Cancer Preventionâ&#x20AC;&#x2122;s research

Be as lean as possible without becoming underweight. Avoid processed foods high in sugar and fat. Eat more fruit, vegetables and wholegrains. Read the dietary advice on Genesis Breast Cancer Prevention s website and Prevention Diet leaflet.

healthy breast tissue can contain chemicals. None of these have been shown to be a direct cause, and in particular there does not seem to be a link with deodorants.

Be physically active Aim for 30 minutes of exercise at least every day. This has a beneficial effect through your hormone balance as well as helping you to maintain a healthy weight. Drink alcohol sensibly

Breast cancer risk rises the more you drink, so limit your intake to one alcoholic drink only per day.

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Aim to stop the contraceptive pill at around 30 years of age. Limit the use of HRT to a short time â&#x20AC;&#x2019; not continuously for years. Breast-feeding is protective and recommended for six months.

Consider Gene testing If several of your family members have had breast or ovarian cancer (or a mother or sister under 50) then ask your doctor if gene testing might be feasible. For those who carry a predisposing gene, you will be offered regular screening (perhaps using MR scanning). Preventive drugs like tamoxifen are also being researched, and techniques for preventive surgery are being improved. You should not have gene testing conducted without prior counselling. Make sure you discuss all these options thoroughly with your team. The future Genesis Breast Cancer Prevention is working on research to eliminate breast cancer step by step. By understanding all the risk factors, they can find ways of prevention and early diagnosis. This may not happen in an overnight miracle cure but, step by step, they can make things better for the next generation.

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Coping with cancer Receiving a diagnosis of cancer brings with it overwhelming feelings of fear, stress and uncertainty about your future. The most important step is to seek help to understand and deal with the many physical, psychological and physiological effects of your illness. Try to maintain a positive approach, as this undoubtedly increases your resilience. There s a lot to take in, and learn, so ask your doctor or nurse to repeat any information, terms or instructions you don t fully understand. Make use of support services offered locally, such as counselling, hospices, support groups as well as national charities and self-help groups. Accept those things you can t control, without bottling them up. Being assertive will help, so you express your feelings and opinions firmly, without becoming angry, or remaining too passive. Meditation and relaxation exercises will help.

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Perception of time is as important as time itself - when you perceive time as being in short supply, tension builds and your body begins to suffer. Stress, indigestion, high blood pressure, high blood sugar and sleepless nights wondering how you can possibly fit everything in, start to occur. You probably know all this, but finding time to change... where can you fit it in? I m not talking about the momentous moments when time stepped back and allowed your experience to be timeless - the first kiss, holding the new life you ve just birthed, the fleeting sense of wholeness that is felt when life appears complete. Can you find two minutes? A few minutes that can make a big difference to your digestion, reaching weight loss goals and balancing insulin levels. When you have breakfast on the go, and rush to fit in dinner between things on your to-do list, your body will begin to protest. Two minutes can be the difference that saves your health. So what everyday, easy things can you do in 120 seconds that are so smart? yourwellness.com

1. Give yourself extra time in the morning. Sip a little slower, chew a

little longer and really taste what you eat and drink. Take a big relaxing breath, feel your heart slow down and relax, too. Since you only need two minutes, you don t even have to get up earlier or feel you ve sacrificed important sleep time.

2. Remember the dentist telling you to brush for two minutes?

Here s your chance to look after your teeth and slow down at the same time. As you brush, be aware of the action and be conscious of the movement and the feeling. Not thinking ahead or lingering on a past moment, just brush in the present. Your perception will alter, your immune system will gain a boost and your teeth will looker whiter than white.

3. Saying Grace before a meal invites

stillness, silence and inward focus. Feeling gratitude for both food and company is so beneficial - not least for your digestive system. A stressed body is ready for fight or flight, not nourishment. You can do this even if your family doesn t sit down together for a

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5. Before you go to sleep, take time to leave the stresses of the day behind, and smile at the good things that happened, particularly the little things. Notice the lightness when you let go. Enter the memory of a timeless event and drift into a more blissful sleep. Being in the moment takes so little time it doesn t even disrupt your schedule - and the benefits will surprise and delight you. You ll probably forget to slow down now and then, but the more you remember, the better you ll feel. Two short minutes can add years to the quality of your life.

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You ve done all the right things. You set your goal, took action, but somehow, somewhere along the line things didn t work out and you didn t get the results you wanted. It snowed. The supplier was late, delivered the wrong thing, or in the wrong colour. The schools were shut so you had the kids at home. You got a cold. The dog died. You got tangled in the duvet and couldn t get out of bed... You ve heard them. You ve given them. What are they? They are excuses. When you set a goal it s pretty simple. Either you achieve it or you don t. You either get the result you want or you don t. If you find yourself not getting the results you want, it s very tempting to look for reasons. But what if those reasons

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Older children will almost certainly have sensed that things aren t right in the family home, so the sooner they re told the better. Most children of school age know what divorce means. They probably have friends whose parents are separated or divorced. Unfortunately, at every age, it means sadness and confusion. Obviously, it s a stressful time for the parents too but, whatever the reasons for the break-up, this is one issue where it s important to stand united and support the kids as much as possible.

Be truthful. There is no point hiding the fact that you re splitting up or delaying the inevitable. There may be many reasons behind the split, but keep your reasons as simple as possible for your children. As for when you should tell them, sadly, there never is a good time. Be loving. Children will often blame themselves when looking for a reason behind the split. So, remind them that you both still love them and give reassurance that the break-up has nothing to do with them. Keep them informed. Let them know, well in advance, about any changes that will affect them, such as a change of address or parental visits. Listen to any concerns that they have. Present a united front. Be respectful towards each other and do your best not to argue in front of the children. Plan conversations with the children in advance and, most important of all, never criticise your ex-partner in front of the children. For relationship and family counselling advice, visit www.relate.org.uk. Citizens Advice have a useful booklet, called Breaking up is never easy, which you can download from www.citizensadvice.org.uk/ breaking_up_is_never_easy. For guidance on the legal process of splitting up, including mediation and arbitration, visit www.resolution.org.uk.

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Teenage Angst is OK A study from the University of Virginia has found that the occasional argument with teenagers at home can be good for their self-esteem later on, as long as it s less of a screaming match and more of a debate. Teenagers who were able to respond to parents with reasoned arguments about house rules, and going out times, were also able to deal with issues outside of the home. Researchers believe that home-based debates act as a training ground for similar confrontation in the real world . Those who felt more peer pressure when they were 12 or 13, also fared well, ten years later, having better relationships with their parents, friends and romantic partners. In contrast, those who had not experienced peer pressure were more detached, fared worse academically and cared less about what society thought of them. This suggests that vulnerability to peer pressure can have a positive effect by encouraging teenagers to feel cool if they do well academically, or at sports, and look after their appearance. Interestingly, negative influences such as pressure to smoke or drink were less of a problem than previously thought. So if your children are able to stand up to you with reasonable argument, then you can probably assume that they can also do that with their peers. And isn t that a good foundation for life in general?

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Muscular soreness associated with exercise usually comes in two waves. First is the acute pain or burn you feel while you re actually working out, and for a short time afterwards. Then, within twenty-four hours of your exercise session, you may experience delayedonset muscle soreness and stiffness - that s the pain you feel when getting out of bed the morning after a tough workout. Interestingly, no single physical mechanism is universally accepted as the cause of muscle soreness. A number of theories have been suggested over the last hundred years, but the most popular idea, that it s due to a build-up of lactic acid, now seems less likely in

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There s plenty of evidence that your exercise habits, and certain lifestyle factors, can significantly affect how sore you feel after exercise. Unsurprisingly, overall fitness plays a big part - if you only exercise infrequently, you re more likely to experience muscular soreness than if you are fit and work out regularly. Good dietary habits also help. Try to maintain a healthy nutritional balance, paying particular attention to protein intake and minerals like potassium, which the body uses to build and maintain healthy muscles. Antioxidants found in fruit and veg are also important to reduce inflammation and damage. If you re not eating a healthy diet, you ll find that muscle soreness takes longer to heal.

the light of recent studies. The most likely causes of acute muscle soreness are now thought to include muscle fatigue and tissue swelling from blood fluids passing into muscle tissues. However, most of the pain you experience after exercise â&#x20AC;&#x2019; especially the delayedonset muscle soreness - is thought to result from microtrauma , or tiny tears in muscle fibres. Don t let the thought of muscle tears put you off exercise, however. Your body adapts to this damage by not only repairing the tears, but by building additional tissue in an attempt to prevent it happening again. Many weightlifters view microtrauma as a positive part of their exercise plans, as it plays a part in actively promoting muscle growth.

Easing the pain When you exercise vigorously - and particularly if it s a new exercise that works different muscles - a degree of muscle soreness is inevitable. However, there are steps you can take to keep pain to a minimum, and to speed your recovery afterwards.

Get enough rest. While you sleep,

your body repairs those minuscule tears that are causing pain. Aim for a good seven to eight hours sleep in the days following a strenuous workout session.

Remain well hydrated. Drinking plenty of water helps to flush out toxins so your muscles heal more easily. Poor hydration, on the other hand, may exacerbate the soreness, and also contributes to painful muscle cramps. Perform light exercise. Walking, yourwellness.com

a light jog or swimming may seem counter-intuitive, but it promotes the circulation of oxygen-rich blood to your muscle fibres, helping to relieve pain and to shorten the recovery time for sore muscles. This is sometimes known as active recovery and is highly recommended as a natural and positive way to reduce pain. Finally, if the pain is severe, you may want to use non-steroidal antiinflammatory drugs (such as aspirin) or a topical pain gel or cream designed for muscle pain. However, it s important to remember that these only relieve pain, and are not designed to speed recovery. Use of such products should be the exception: don t rely on them to ease exercise pain on a frequent or recurring basis.

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Celebrities really get you fit? The popularity of celebrity workout DVDs shows no sign of abating. Celebs come and go, often from international stardom to total obscurity in the blink of an eye - so why are we so drawn to their exercise programs? And more importantly, do they really help you achieve a fitter and healthier lifestyle? Often, the appeal is aspirational in nature. You want to look like - or at least have a figure like your favourite celebrity. It s not unreasonable to assume that if they can achieve that look using those techniques, then so can you. Some psychologists go further and argue that, whether consciously or subconsciously, we believe that emulating the celebrities we admire might bring us the same level of success, fame or wealth. An emotional desire to get closer to our idols may also play a part. By inviting them into our homes and having them show us how they exercise, we achieve a connection that goes beyond watching them in a TV show, film or listening to them sing. Regardless of the motivation of buyers, celebrity fitness DVDs have become staggeringly successful... at least on a commercial basis. Whether they are successful as exercise aids is a whole different argument that, at least partly, depends on your expectations. There are some important points to bear in mind. Most celebrities don t look the way they do simply as the result of a set of exercises. Many will have personal trainers, dietary advisers, chefs and are often on extremely low-calorie diets. And unlike most of their audience, they have money to burn on exclusive beauty and skincare products â&#x20AC;&#x2019; and cosmetic surgery. More significantly, everyone has a different body shape. Even if you followed exactly the same diet and exercise schedule as your favourite celebrity, you still won t have exactly their figure. Although that may seem obvious, setting yourself a goal such as I want to look like Kim Kardashian is just setting yourself up for disappointment. That aside, celebrity exercise DVDs vary widely in their effectiveness. Celebs generally aren t qualified fitness trainers, and some DVDs have been criticised by reviewers as not only ineffective, but potentially dangerous. However, most releases these days put more thought into the advice they give and how it is presented. Fitness workouts that feature a certified personal trainer alongside the celebrity are often the most rewarding, combining useful, professional fitness and health advice with the fun factor of a popular celebrity, giving you the best of both worlds.

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Overcoming jealousy is just like changing any other negative behaviour - it always has to begin with awareness. Being aware of your jealousy allows you to see that the stories you ve created in your mind about your partner, are not always true. And even when there is some justification for a reaction, jealousy and anger are not healthy ways to get what you desire when it comes to love. It s important to reclaim your personal power and take back control of your emotions by developing your self worth and self belief. Learn to take a step away from the made-up jealous stories in your mind, and recognise your negative reactions need to become more about your truth on reflection. Jealousy is created because of insecurity, or as a way to control or keep someone. In reality, this doesn t make any sense as you cannot own, or make anyone love you if they don t want to. Shift your focus from the negative feelings and learn to think rationally, so you can take a look at the bigger picture with clarity. Next time you feel that greeneyed monster emerging in your thought process, change your emotional state by shifting your

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41 attention. Do something different, like going for a long country walk alone. Once you ve calmed down, you will come back to the situation with a much clearer, rational, open mind and find it easier to bin your jealousy, to get a life you deserve. A healthy relationship should never feel scary, so if you feel like you are constantly walking on egg shells or are afraid your partner is going to leave you, chances are they will because your negative thoughts and actions will force them to in the end. Be confident and sure of yourself, this way you remain in control and fearless when it comes to love and happiness. Shirley Yanez offers a free, interactive life coaching program at www.venuscow.com. Venus Cow centres on common sense and showing people that what they believe to be true is actually untrue.

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Do you hate your friendâ&#x20AC;&#x2122;s partner? It happens to everyone eventually. Your best mate is over the moon about their new boyfriend or girlfriend. Then, when you finally meet them it s hate at first sight! Perhaps it s just a clash of personalities, or perhaps you witness them do or say something that alerts you to the fact they re bad news. Either way, it makes for an awkward situation. Should you say something to your friend? Or should you keep your opinions to yourself for fear of causing offence? Tact is crucial, and whether to speak up or not largely depends on the nature of the problem. If it s just an inexplicable I don t like you feeling, it s probably best to hold your tongue. Your friend obviously sees something in them that you don t, but that s fine; it s a simple fact of life that we can t get along with everyone. If the partner really grates on your nerves, it should still be possible to have time with your friend alone, or alternatively arrange to go out with a larger group so it s easier to avoid having to deal with the problem partner. If it comes down to actual bad behaviour on the part of the boyfriend or girlfriend, then it may be a good idea to bring it up with your friend. Try not to be judgemental, but if your pal s new partner made a pass at you, for example, or you found their drunken behaviour a bit too much, then something has to be said. It can help to open such awkward discussions with a question, for example, asking your friend if they were happy with how their other half was acting last night. Ultimately, it s your friend s choice over who they want to be with, and sometimes you ll have to accept that your friendship is more important than anything else, and just grin and bear it. Your pal s new relationship might not last, or they might end up married and in it for the long term in which case, it pays to let go of any reservations or resentment and be as happy for them as you can! yourwellness.com

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• Have you found yourself in a relationship with someone you no longer understand? Someone who no longer understands you? • Was the relationship too good to be true in the beginning? A prince in shining armour, or the princess you’ve always dreamed of, who later turned into a critical, demeaning and cruel individual? • Does everything seem to be about him or her? • Do you feel like your love life is an emotional rollercoaster, filled with ups and downs, and never with the feeling of stability and tranquillity? • Do you find yourself in a repetitive cycle of loving someone who doesn’t love you the same, or they come across like Dr Jekyll and Mr/Mrs Hyde? • Have you found that the relationship has impacted you so greatly that you no longer recognise the person you once were? If you answered YES to most of these questions, it’s more than likely that you are in a relationship with a narcissist who is impacting you greatly.

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In my experience, narcissists are individuals who need perfect mirroring, perfect stroking of their ego, perfect responses. They need constant control and this can manifest itself in controlling you, too. Whenever they are injured emotionally, or insulted, they will typically withdraw or isolate themselves, seldom allowing for a proper discussion to resolve the situation. They often do not realise that their withdrawal evokes anxieties (often subconscious) in others, especially within significant relationships. Narcissists are driven by the need to be liked, desired, and appreciated, and will do anything to preserve a sense of specialness. This prompts them to prove themselves by isolation from others and concentration on perfection, power and omnipotence. This withdrawal is accompanied by a desperate need to be desired and appreciated. They are easily injured, insulted and outraged when their partner does not properly mirror or understand and appease them. Narcissists tend to seek love with someone who shows the qualities they lack in themselves, or which they once had and no longer possess (beauty, power, organisation, sense of self, ability to be alone). The narcissist then tries to own/ possess these qualities through envy. Although painful, being with a narcissist can also be highly charged on an erotic level. The highs can be very high and the lows can be very low, leaving you constantly in a state of questioning yourself. If you wish to stay with your narcissistic partner, be warned that this is often a difficult and tiresome journey which will render you feeling more helpless and burnt-out.

This is by no means an issue that cannot be resolved, but it will take time, patience, and more effort than the normal person is willing to provide. From my extensive experience with narcissistic personality disorders, it takes a truly skilled therapist to uncover the depths of the narcissist and assist them in the healing process̶but this is only if they want to. A partner with high narcissistic traits will not usually want to see a therapist to help them understand how they relate with you. Instead, find a therapist for yourself, to help strengthen yourself to leave as this may be the key ingredient to assist the narcissist in changing.

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Ingredients Olive oil/butter or rapeseed oil for frying 2 medium onions, chopped ﬁnely 400g/14oz Sharpham Park Pearled Spelt, rinsed splash white wine (optional) 1 litre/1¾ pint hot vegetable stock salt and freshly ground black pepper 200g/7oz fresh peas, blanched or frozen peas 200g/7oz broccoli, blanched Chia seeds are the latest superfood, with the highest vegetarian source of Omega-3 oils on the planet, in addition to antioxidants, minerals, protein and fibre. Try the new Chia bia Organic Nutrient bars in a choice of Chocolate Nut & Seed (our favourite), Chocolate Apricot & Pumpkin, or Chocolate Cranberry & Coconut. £1.55 from Selfridges, health food stores and www.chiabia.com.

400g/14oz baby spinach 1 tbsp chopped fresh mint 1 tbsp chopped parsley 75ml/2½ﬂ oz double cream (optional)

Method 1. For the risotto, heat the oil in a pan and fry the onion until soft.

2. Add the pearled spelt and stir well, then add the wine and simmer until reduced completely.

3. Add a good ladleful of the hot stock

and stir continuously. When all this has been absorbed, add more stock. Continue adding more stock, stirring continuously, until the rice is cooked.

4. Season with salt and freshly ground

black pepper and stir in the peas, broccoli, spinach, basil and cream if used.

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Ingredients For the rice pudding: 130g pearled spelt 570ml full fat milk 45ml light soft brown sugar ½ vanilla pod, scraped

To serve: Fresh fruit of your choice for example berries, apple, bananas or dried fruit.

Method 1. Rinse the spelt in cold water,

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The 3 Minute Bread Recipe Who said baking bread was laborious? This quick-andeasy, wholesome recipe uses a delicious blend of wholegrain spelt flour, studded with sunflower and pumpkin seeds, poppy seeds and golden linseeds, to add extra flavour and texture to your home baking.

Ingredients 500g/1lb 2oz Sharpham Park Seeded Flour 10g/1/4oz fast-action dried yeast ½ teaspoon sea salt 100gms of mixed nuts or fruit of your choice 400ml/18ﬂ oz warm water Sunﬂower seeds (optional)

Vegetable Pasty This simple, wholesome pastry makes delicious pies that you can pack with any ﬁlling of your choice.

Method 1. Preheat the oven to 200°C/400°F/Gas Mark 6. 2. Combine all the ingredients in a bowl, adding the water last. Mix well, and then turn the dough into a greased 900g/2lb loaf tin.

3. Put in the oven immediately and bake for 1 hour, until the loaf has risen, lifts out of the tin easily, and sounds hollow when tapped underneath.

4. Take the loaf out of the tin, and then put it back in the oven for 5‒10 minutes to

crisp up the sides and base. Remove from the oven and leave to cool on a wire rack.

Ingredients 350 g/12oz Sharpham Park Artisan Flour

Method 1. Sift the ﬂour into a bowl with

Pinch salt

the salt. Add the butter and rub into the ﬂour until the mixture resembles ﬁne breadcrumbs.

175 g/6 oz butter

2. Mix to a ﬁrm dough using a

Cold water to mix

For the filling:

little water. Divide into four.

3. Heat the oil in a pan, add the

3 tablespoons sunﬂower seeds

sunﬂower seeds and cook for a few minutes. Add the garlic, herbs and remaining ingredients. Cook for a few minutes then cool.

1 clove garlic, crushed

4. Roll out each piece of pastry to

1 tablespoon oil

225 g/8 oz leeks, washed and sliced

a circle approximately 20 cm/8 inches in diameter. Divide the ﬁlling among the circles, dampen the edges, seal to enclose the ﬁlling and crimp the edges.

1 large carrot, chopped

5. Brush with beaten egg or milk

1 teaspoon mixed herbs, thyme, rosemary 1 tablespoon chopped parsley

100 g/4 oz mushrooms, sliced

To glaze: Beaten egg or milk

and bake in a moderately hot oven (200° C, 400° F, Gas Mark 6) for 35-40 minutes.

6. Cool for a few minutes on a wire rack and serve while hot.

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With over 500 million Facebook users, and the same number on twitter, worldwide, there’s no questioning the popularity of social networking sites. But is spending increasing amounts of time chatting, browsing and playing games on social networks, harming real life relationships? For: Dawn

Against: Duncan

It feels like my two teenage children are permanently connected to either their phones or their laptops. Even when they re at the dinner table, or in bed, they re accessing websites to chat with friends. Social networking sites have made it really diﬃcult for me and my husband to have a proper conversation with our teens. Their attention spans are now so short that we can only talk to them for a couple of minutes before they get distracted and start reaching for their phones to check for updates. My daughter also loves playing games on social networks ‒ this means she often spends hours on her own, in her room, and doesn t make time for other healthier hobbies. I often ask my kids why they don t simply meet up with their friends in real life, but they just shrug or say Facebook s easier! The other thing that s unhealthy about social networking sites is the way that they make people view friendships as a commodity. Teenagers often brag about how many Facebook friends they have. I m trying to teach my children that it s better to have a handful of close friends that you can really trust, rather than 100 who you don t know that well. I think social networks are harmful. They are making our children lazy, turning them into couch potatoes and ruining the art of proper conversation.

I use social networking websites every day and I would say they enhance, rather than harm, my friendships and relationships. The thing I love is that they ve made communication and socialising really simple. I can easily keep in touch with people I rarely see in real life ‒ even those living on the other side of the world, who I might otherwise lose touch with. Social networks are also great for planning social events as you can send invitations and make plans online, rather than having to phone or text everyone individually. Since Facebook came along, I d say my real-world social life is busier than ever because it s so easy to organise get-togethers. There s also a great sense of community on social networking sites. For example, a friend of mine recently put a comment online about what a bad day she d had at work. Within minutes several of her friends had replied with supportive comments to cheer her up. Before social networks she might have sat at home feeling fed up but now, with an instant online network of friends, she didn t feel so alone. In today s modern world, people simply don t have the time to meet up, or telephone a dozen diﬀerent people each week. Luckily, social networking sites allow you to keep in contact with people on a daily basis, helping to maintain friendships that might otherwise be lost.

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Julia Johnson, says: First of all, I wanted to say thanks. It s a brave and good step to write in and ask for help for the difficult, and often under-rated, emotional aspects of having acne. For young people it s normal to feel upset and angry if you have spots. However, it s important to seek help if your selfesteem and confidence is undermined and you feel low. Unfortunately people can sometimes make insensitive or unkind comments making you feel shamed or disrespected. If you feel low already, this can bring you down further. Sufferers can withdraw and this can lead to feeling very isolated. School, college work, your job and relationships can all be affected. It s important to stop this potential spiral

downwards, and seek help before it becomes entrenched and continues into adulthood. You could seek a counsellor privately, or you could go back to your GP and ask for help for the way you are feeling. Your GP can make an assessment and perhaps refer you on to their practice counsellor or local counsellor for emotional help. There are many good books on self-esteem available via your local bookshop or the internet. The most important thing is that you do take care of yourself both emotionally and physically, inside and out, so that you can enjoy life to the fullest!

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Nurse Shirley Scott, says: Acne is a build-up of sebum around the root of the hair follicles causing a painful swelling. It ranges in severity from a mild phase, lasting a few months, to a serious problem over the face, neck, back and chest which can last several years. It goes without saying that you must adopt scrupulous hygiene and not be tempted to pick or squeeze the spots, especially with dirty ﬁngernails, as this can cause deep scarring. Topical face washes and creams, which mostly contain benzoyl peroxide, help to keep the skin clean but are not generally eﬀective for severe cases. Some heat/ light/laser treatments are available at specialist salons but make sure you visit a fully trained and registered therapist. The same goes for micro-dermabrasion and chemical peels. Severe cases must be treated by a dermatologist. Get plenty of fresh air and exercise to help you feel better about yourself and focus on all the reasons why you are fabulous!

Shirley is a registered nurse who has raised three children. She is the former Chair of a pre-school music association and spent seven years as a primary school governor. Dr Tim Robinson, says: In treatment of acne, our objective is to prevent skin gland blockage and hence scarring. Applying a skin cleanser containing Benzyl Peroxide, daily, helps to reduce inflammation, kills bacteria and unplugs the blocked glands. This allows the oil to get to the surface to make the skin supple and smooth. Be patient, this doesn t happen overnight ‒ it can take two to four months to have its effect. Dietary measures are important for dealing with acne. Studies have shown the diets containing high GI sugary foods and excess intake of dairy products contributes to acne. Other studies have shown omega 3 fish oils, zinc and vitamin A to be of benefit in acne. A mixed balanced diet containing vegetables - broad leafed greens, orange and yellow - along with oily fish, nuts and seeds should help. Herbal

medicine also has a place in acne treatment. A herbalist may prescribe extracts of poke root to reduce ﬂow of the sebaceous oil and bacterial growth. Application of tincture of thyme or tea tree oil have both been found to help. The homeopathic medicines Silica and Sulphur can also help but it is best to be guided by a homeopath for this. If you can t control the acne using these methods you should see your GP who may consider prescribing antibiotic treatment (don t forget probiotics) or even referral to a dermatologist. Never-the-less it is still worth using the above advice to complement your conventional treatment.

Dr Tim Robinson MB BS MRCGP DRCOG MFHom is an NHS and private GP who practices homeopathy, nutritional medicine and acupuncture in Dorset. www.doctorTWRobinson.com Dr Tabi Leslie, says: This is a common and distressing problem. In severe cases it can even cause scarring so I would always be very keen to treat it. If referred to myself I would always take a complete history, asking what preparations had already been used. I usually prescribe an antibacterial wash as a preventative measure. We would have a discussion about possible triggers of the acne. This might involve investigations into polycystic ovarian disease and, in conjunction with your GP, various investigations could take place such as pelvic ultrasound. After discussion with the GP, hormonal manipulation with Dianette or Yasmin (special brands of the Pill) may be considered. Depending upon what was prescribed in the past, we may try an antibiotic such as a tetracycline or erythromycin, with a topical antibacterial agent or a retinoid cream such as Adapalene. A further option is to refer you for N lite laser therapy. If all else failed, we may go on to use Roaccutane therapy. This needs the full consent of the patient, and signing a form undertaking not to get pregnant, plus baseline blood tests which are repeated during the

course of Roaccutane treatment. You should be aware that side of eﬀects of Roaccutane include dry lips and skin and possible mood swings. The course would last for six months with frequent review throughout this time by myself and repeated blood tests. At the end of this time, you should be clear of the spots and we would then discuss a maintenance regime for your skin..

Dr Tabi Leslie BSc(Hons) FRCP(London) is a Consultant Dermatologist at www. HarleyStreet.com and a Member of the British Association of Dermatologists. Emily Whitehead, says: Numerous nutritional approaches will help to combat acne. Oily fish, such as salmon, mackerel and sardines contain omega 3 s which are anti-inflammatory and may help to reduce the inflammation and redness on your skin. Aim to eat two to three servings of oily fish a week. As an alternative to fish, include flaxseeds, walnuts and chia seeds into your diet. Cut out, or reduce, refined foods such as cakes, biscuits, sweets, pastries etc as these cause a sharp rise in blood sugar levels. Your body releases extra insulin and hormones to lower a raised blood sugar level, which can lead to inflammation and blocked pores. Eat more low GI foods to help stabilise blood sugar levels. For example, wholegrains, quinoa, millet, brown rice and wholemeal pasta. Eat foods rich in betacarotene/vitamin A which will help to clear your pores e.g. carrots, sweet potato, spinach and kale. Reduce your use of vegetable oil, sunflower oil and safflower oils as these contain high amounts of omega 6. An excess of these can cause inflammation by the skin cells clumping, which results in the pores being blocked. Finally, include a wide variety of fruit and vegetables into your diet. These foods are loaded with antioxidants, vitamins and minerals. These are needed for skin repair and to fight against inflammation.

Emily Whitehead MSc, BSc, Dip NT is a nutritional therapist in Plymouth. www. plymouthnutritionaltherapist.com.

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Do you have arthritis? If so, complementary therapies can improve your quality of life. Nearly a quarter of people with either rheumatoid arthritis or osteoarthritis use complementary treatments in addition to prescribed drugs and, according to the Journal of Clinical Nursing, two-thirds found them helpful for improving pain, sleeping patterns or activity levels. The most commonly used complementary therapies were herbal medicine, exercise, massage, acupuncture, yoga, meditation and dietary supplements. The percentage who said they experienced no arthritic pain rose from 12% to 43% after using a complementary therapy, and the number who slept all night rose from 9% to 66%. Unfortunately, most did not tell their doctor - it s important to do so, to ensure there are no known interactions with your medical treatment (and to ensure your GP knows which complementary approaches may prove most helpful for other patients).

Have you tried Chinese Medicine? Youth Business International, a sister charity of the Prince s Trust, recently short-listed Cheuk Wing Au in their Entrepreneur of the Year competition. As well as setting up a successful Chinese medicine business, Cheuk also works with charities giving advice to drug users. He says, Chinese Medicine takes a holistic view that the human body is a cosmos and in harmony with nature. As different organs and body parts have different functions, we do not identify diseases as in Western medicine, but rather an imbalance of different functions. Therefore, all conditions can be treated . Acupuncture is one of the most popular treatments in Hong Kong as it is effective in curing stress related illnesses. It is also well received in some western countries. Chinese herbal formulas are tailor-made prescriptions based on each individual s health condition. To find a practitioner in the UK,

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The future is ‘pinhole’ rather than ‘keyhole’ surgery Interventional radiology is starting to replace open surgery in the treatment of many cancers. Advances in imaging technology (such as CT, MRI and PET scans) can detect cancers at an earlier stage, while tumours are small enough to treat with minimally-invasive techniques. These include heating with radiofrequency and microwaves, or freezing to directly destroy cancerous cells without damaging nearby tissues. These approaches reduce risks, improve recovery times and mean shorter stays in hospital. Patients often recover in days, rather than the months it can take with surgery. Consultant radiologist, Dr David Breen, says, In the 90 s, laparoscopic or keyhole surgery was the major development. In the next 20 years, I predict a significant move towards image-guided or pinhole surgery , where definitive treatments for smaller cancers, drugs and other agents are delivered to the cancer, through the skin, under imaging-guidance.

You can now quit on-line! The internet is transforming healthcare and a unique, online, professional support service can even help you stop smoking. SmokeFreeLife is available via www. quit.org.uk, offering advice, support, tips, background information and the world s first online stop-smoking service to feature video chat and instant text messaging. The service can also issue medications and carbon monoxide monitoring for quitters. This new service is ideal if you work long hours, are housebound, unable to travel, find it difficult to visit a traditional clinic, or do not have English as your first language. You can engage with an advisor on multiple devices, including PCs, smart phones and tablet computers. Leena Sankla, the Project Director, says, We know that smokers are four times more likely to quit successfully when they have professional support.

Eating meat made us human Anthropologists have found evidence that meat was essential for the survival of our ancestors, over one and a half million years ago. Says Charles Musiba, associate professor of anthropology at the University of Colorado, Meat eating has always been considered one of the things that made us human, with the protein contributing to the growth of our brains. Our work shows that 1.5 million years ago we were not opportunistic meat eaters, we were actively hunting and eating meat. A skull fragment from a 2-year-old child, found at the Olduvai Gorge in Tanzania, shows characteristic bone changes associated with iron-deficiency anaemia caused by a diet suddenly lacking in meat. This indicates that by the early Pleistocene, meat was already essential for human evolution. Chimpanzees, our closest relatives, eat little meat and therefore have less brain capacity, according to this theory.

Figs are blooming goodâ&#x20AC;Ś Figs appear in the earliest recorded history with mentions in the Bible and other ancient writings. They were a staple food of both the rich and poor, providing energy and the highest mineral content of all common fruits. Cleopatra even ended her life with an asp brought to her in a basket of figs. Figgy puddings and tarts were also popular in Medieval times. Try Mammy Jamia s Fig Preserve, ÂŁ2.39 from supermarkets and www.tesco.com. Created by husband and wife team Andrew and Sajmira Cairns, from a family recipe, they say, We re hoping to transform the jam market by introducing new and unusual flavours. We think people are ready to move away from traditional strawberry and raspberry jam flavours and try something different. Delicious as a relish on toast, with cheese, or stirred into porridge or yoghurt.

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â&#x20AC;Śbut ancient cherry trees are dying out The English wild cherry is at risk of extinction, as Britain has lost most of its orchards over the last half century. As a result, 95% of cherries consumed here are imported from abroad. Three years ago, the Woodland Trust started compiling a map of the ancient pink-and-white blossomed trees, recording those whose trunk is larger than one human hug when you put your arms round the tree at chest height. This helps you recognise the cherry trees that are around 150 years old. Another way to identify the wild cherry is that they have five petals rather than the double flowers of cultivated species. If you

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New test to improve the early diagnosis of disease Scientists from Imperial College London have developed an ultra-sensitive, visual test to help doctors detect the early stages of disease with the naked eye. Using special nanoparticles, it is ten times more sensitive than currently available tests, and is also ten times cheaper. The test can detect any virus or disease where a specific protein marker occurs in the blood, such as Prostate Specific Antigen (PSA) for prostate cancer, or p24 for HIV infection. When the test is positive, the nanoparticles form irregular clumps with a distinctive blue colour. When the test is negative, the nanoparticles separate into balllike shapes, creating a red colour. Both reactions are easily seen by the naked eye. The scientists are now approaching not-for-profit global health organisations for funding to manufacture and distribute the sensor in low income countries.

Natural anaesthetic found in the bite of the honeybee You may not know that honeybees can bite as well as sting, but their saliva was recently found to contain a natural anaesthetic. Originally, the chemical was thought to act as an alarm signal, or as a marker to help the bee recognise flowers already visited by other bees. It has now been recognised to have anaesthetic properties that paralyse small insects and mites for up to nine minutes. The bees use this to fend off pests such as wax moth and parasitic mites which are too small to sting. The chemical, 2-heptanone, is now being investigated for potential use as a natural, low-toxicity local anaesthetic for humans and animals.

Your iPhone could soon check your thyroid gland! An app has been designed to diagnose and manage the treatment of thyroid problems. The treatment of either an under- and over-active thyroid centres around your blood level of Thyroid Stimulating Hormone (TSH). A group from the University of Utah has developed a way to use an iPhone s digital camera to collect an image of a completed TSH blood test and convert the image into the corresponding TSH level. This could be used in the future to tell someone with a thyroid problem what dose of medication they need.

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