Family Times - Christchurch - Summer 2012 by Twenty Seven Publishers

CHRISTCHURCH / ISSUE 68 / SUMMER 2012

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inside this issue Comment 18 Kids’ view

We ask kids how they celebrate Christmas, and what it means to them.

30 Destination South Canterbury

31 Let’s go tramping

10 Kids in the kitchen

Check out this delicious recipe for Tuscan chips and guacamole. Enjoy Christmas without blowing your budget.

12 The gift of giving

Features

6 Celebrating Christmas

13 Pet corner

We take a look at how different cultures in New Zealand celebrate Christmas.

7 Christmas traditions for families

Parents Inc. co founder Mary Grant talks about what really matters at Christmas.

8 Getting kids school ready

How you can give a lifetime of value and enrich your loved one’s lives.

14 Playtime with preschoolers

Fifteen minutes of your attention makes all the difference.

15 Safety

Set them up for success with a considered approach.

Tips for staying water safe in and around the home.

9 Over-praise vs. over- criticism

Make your own Christmas decorations.

Keys to developing a positive but realistic attitude in your child.

16 Craft corner

17 Which gaming console?

Wayne Webb looks at the pros and cons.

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From the editor

ne thing I love about New Zealand is our multi-cultural society. There is so much richness in our diversity. Sure, we have a lot of pride in our Kiwi identity, but there’s plenty of room to embrace new Kiwis of various ethnicities that join us from all over the world. Multiculturalism is so much a part of us now that it’s almost easy to forget it wasn’t always that way. It was a big deal when a Japanese boy joined my class at school when I was a kid. We made a special effort to learn about his culture and traditions, and even practiced singing Sakura – Cherry Trees – in Japanese. Now kids a full spectrum of colour, race, and ethnicity fill the seats of our classrooms and their families are part of our communities. I’m not trying to paint a glossy picture of a perfect country. I realise that there are pockets of discontent and tension that erupt every now and then. But we are, according to the Global Peace Index, the second most peaceful country on Earth after Iceland. Whether it’s our remote location, our laidback, pragmatic identity, or the calming effect of living in a visual paradise, we actually get along pretty well together. Most of us take our peaceful, multicultural society for granted, but it’s worth reflecting on as we wrap up our year and celebrate Christmas with our friends and families. As I write this column, I’m in Jerusalem, Israel, literally a 10-minute drive from where Jesus was born and the first Christmas was celebrated more than 2000

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years ago in Bethlehem, which is now situated in the West Bank. I’ve been lucky enough to spend some time amongst the incredible people of this region – both Jew and Arab – and to see with my own eyes the toll that ongoing conflict takes on human beings. I’ve fallen in love with the intoxicating city of Jerusalem, but every time I fly back into Aotearoa I let out a sigh of relief: the peace is literally palpable. Nobody cares if I speak Hebrew or Arabic, if I wear a hijab or skinny jeans, if I’m black, white or brown. We’re all Kiwis. So this edition of Family Times we’ve decided to celebrate our diversity along with Christmas: our main feature on page six investigates how different cultures within New Zealand celebrate the silly season. Of course we’ve also got all of our regular features, entertainment ideas, parenting tips and loads of giveaways too, so take a break in the middle of the Christmas rush and enjoy a moment perusing the pages. A very Merry Christmas and Happy New Year from all of the Family Times team.

Hope for a new generation

ith the demolitions throughout the city still in full throttle, a group of volunteers is moving just as quickly to bring vibrancy to Christchurch in the wake of last year’s February earthquake. One major demolition that leaves a huge gap in central Christchurch is the former Crowne Plaza Hotel in Victoria Square. Pre-quake, this giant landmark overlooked the heart of the city from the corner of Kilmore and Durham Streets. After an intensive demolition project, the space is now taking shape as a temporary pavilion made out of more than 3000 painted pallets. The project is the brainchild of Gap Filler - a creative urban regeneration initiative that temporarily activates vacant sites within Christchurch with creative projects for community benefit, to make for a more interesting and dynamic city. Gap Filler volunteers - in collaboration with professionals including architecture and landscape architecture graduates and structural engineers - are creating the Summer Pallet Pavilion. This will be a new community space available as a venue for live music, cinema, performance and community events until April 2013. The thought behind it is to create a performance venue for live music, after the quakes that resulted in the loss of many traditional live venues. It’s not just for the music lovers: Gap Filler

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Our country – many cultures celebrating Christmas Christmas is a special time: from the eager anticipation of Father Christmas’ arrival, to the hustle and bustle of the big day itself - it’s full of fun, family and festivities.

hether it’s a traditional Christmas full of gift-giving and fancy formal fare, or a casual beach barbecue, us Kiwis know how to celebrate in our own unique way. But those not born and raised here bring with them their own unique customs, traditions, and ways of celebrating. This edition, Family Times assistant editor Rachel Taniwha spoke with some non-kiwis living in New Zealand to discover what Christmas means to them.

Japan – a couple’s Christmas Sachiyo Joyce, originally from Japan, has now lived in New Zealand for seven months, following a previous stay of two-and-a-half-years in Christchurch. Joyce is married to a New Zealander, and said Christmas is an important time to spend with family. In Japan, Joyce says, Christmas is for couples, so if someone doesn’t have a partner, it’s not a fun time. But those lucky ladies with a man in their lives are set to be pampered. “Usually men provide expensive presents and a good restaurant for their girlfriend.” New Year’s is generally more important in Japan, however Christmas is celebrated: people decorate a Christmas tree (usually artificial), Father Christmas makes an appearance, and

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there is Christmas cake for dinner, although very different to what New Zealander’s have.

A cheesy Christmas in snowy Switzerland Susanne Ziswiler of Switzerland has lived in New Zealand for 15 years, and says that back home, Swiss people celebrate Christmas on Christmas Eve. “We had the following family tradition - Dad would take us children away swimming for the afternoon, while my mum would prepare the Christmas tree and decorate it. We never had the Christmas tree before the 24th of December. “She also got our dinner ready, so when my dad and we children got home, the whole house smelt wonderful. We would then have our dinner, which normally was cheese fondue, and once we finished my mum would go out of the room, light all the real candles on the Christmas tree and ring a bell that would indicate that the Christ child had arrived.” “It was a wonderful time of the year and we were all very excited to hear this little bell ring. As soon as the bell would ring, we would get up and go to the lounge and admire the Christmas tree with its candles. We would sing a few Christmas songs, eat oranges, mandarins, Christmas cookies and nuts and later on open

our Christmas presents.” Ziswiler remembers Christmas in Switzerland as a very special time. She loved having Christmas in winter, when lights on the streets would be decorated and lots of stars would hang from the lamp posts. “There was snow and we would light lots of candles during December and have lots of baking sessions for the special Christmas cookies. Because it was winter, we had more time to celebrate this special time of the year. I have lots of great memories, spending lots of time with my family and doing special things together.” She says her family back in Switzerland still celebrates Christmas in a similar way.

French festivities Frenchman Stephane Montel, 30, has lived in New Zealand for six years. He’s currently based in Christchurch but will spend Christmas with his partner’s family in Auckland this year. A Kiwi Christmas has a real “holiday” feel to it, he says - complete with barbecue and beer - which he’s adopted. Summer is “super busy” for him, so Christmas is the perfect opportunity to spend time with family, catch up with friends and have a “big feed”, give and receive presents, relax and have fun. But he still remembers the festive fare of a perfect French winter Christmas in his childhood – complete with snowfall on Christmas Eve.

feature story “There were big meals on Christmas Eve and Christmas Day - turkey, oyster, salmon, liver etc -three to four courses, plus cheeses, dessert and three or four different types of wine.”

A German Christmas – a day of togetherness and harmony German born and bred Christine Maierl, who has only been in New Zealand since late March this year, said Christmas back home was always celebrated the same way. Three weeks before Christmas they would buy a tree and decorate it with balls, straw stars and candles. When Christmas Day itself arrived, the first stop was church, and then a celebratory traditional German dinner of pork schnitzel and potato salad. Further celebrations included reading the bible, playing music together and sharing gifts. “We are not really dressed up but we wear nice clothes,” said Maierl. “Late in the evening we always eat vanilla ice cream with hot raspberry. On the first and second days of Christmas, usually we invite our family and we share food and time together.” Maierl says that Christmas has not really changed over the years for her – she learned to celebrate Christmas this way from her family and enjoys it. “When my children were young we celebrated Christmas only on one day together, with the entire family, but now we like to have our Christmas evening as a nuclear family, and we like to have lunch and afternoon tea with all family members one day later.” Christmas means a lot to Maierl as a person of Christian conviction: it celebrates the birth of Jesus Christ. For her and her family it is a quiet evening filled with harmony and calm. “My family and I, we tried to keep this

tradition because all of my family members like this way and it works.”

Non-Christmas celebrations While the countdown to Christmas here in New Zealand begins months in advance, with retail outlets rubbing their hands together in eager anticipation, for some cultures, different dates on the calendar have more importance and meaning. Judaism There are many Jewish feasts throughout the year, but it’s the celebration of Hanukah, the Festival of Lights, which falls in late November to early December. It’s observed for eight days and nights, with a candle lit on a special ninefingered menorah each consecutive evening. Many Jewish families exchange small gifts each night – such as books or games – and fried foods are eaten to commemorate the importance of oil during the celebration of Hanukkah. Islam Rini Pancaningsih, an Indonesian Muslim who has lived in New Zealand for 11 years, does not celebrate Christmas – instead he marks the two big festivals of Eid al-Fitr and Eid al-Adha. Eid al-Fitr is celebrated after Ramadan, a month of fasting determined by the lunar calendar. “The last day before we finish fasting or before we go to pray, we have to give charity. After that we can visit friends and share foods, or do an open home,” he says. During Eid al-Adha, it’s traditional for wealthy families to have an animal slaughtered and to share the meat with anyone in need, to ensure that everyone participates in the celebration. By Rachel Taniwha, with assistance from English Language Partners Dunedin

The value of traditions I

love the Christmas season because of the sheer joy and celebration of the whole thing. But there is also often, along with the anticipation, a sense of anxiety and stress around it. So I always value the fact that some of our Christmas traditions create moments of calm, predictability and even joy amidst the many end-of-year functions and preparations. The lovely thing about traditions is that they communicate belonging. The knowledge that “We always do this,” is what makes traditions matter. Rituals that are repeated and familiar tell children they are significant as part of a family which stands for something. And when these traditions are based around faith and values, they give everyone a sense of transcendence; that there is something more than just materialism and ourselves as the centre of the universe. These sorts of traditions tend to involve thankfulness, generosity, kindness or other values that reflect the celebration of the announcement by the angels to the shepherds when Christ was born, that they brought “great tidings of joy” for everyone. Small regular traditions that are outward-looking tend to bring this joy. They might be as simple as having friends over for a Christmas drink and carols, wrapping a present for a child who is less fortunate and together taking it to put under an “angel tree”, or wrapping little bags of shortbread to take to neighbours

and friends to wish them a happy Christmas. These small rituals generate family love and togetherness and offer children the knowledge that it is “more blessed to give than to receive” as they participate in giving to others. According to the University of Sydney’s professor Patrick Parkinson, there are many alarming signs about the mental health of our young people today. Our children are privileged in many ways but in others they are deprived. Numerous surveys tell us that modern children want more than anything to spend more time with mum and dad. Christmas and the holidays are an opportunity to recalibrate a gentler pace for your family and to set the agenda positively for more connection and communication. You could read to your pyjama-clad children around the candlelit Christmas tree before bedtime, from favourite Christmas books (Papa Papanov was one of ours) or share around a campfire. Before your excited children go to bed on Christmas Eve, settle them around the Christmas tree with sparkling grape juice and Christmas mince pies and share your year’s favourite things, before saying a thank-you prayer. These are the simple rituals that our technology-overloaded children need and will remember. By Mary Grant Mary Grant is a co-founder of Parents Inc. and current director of Faith4families, where she offers parents a simple ways of passing on faith to their children. www.faithbox.co.nz.

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How to prepare your child for school T

he majority of parents find that getting their child ready for school is a relatively easy process that seems to occur quite naturally. After all, most children really enjoy school and learning, and will be looking forward to meeting their new teacher(s) and the new challenges ahead. On top of that they will anticipate the pleasure of seeing their friends again, and making new friends as well. Yet, underneath this seemingly effortless endeavour there are a number of parenting skills that are worth a closer look. The most important gift a parent can give their child in order to prepare them for a successful transition to school is forming a secure one-to-one parent-child relationship. This relationship should contain the elements of warmth and affection, attention and consideration, expectations and boundaries, and should create a secure emotional “basecamp” for the child, from which they feel confident to explore the world and take on adventures, setbacks and challenges. Research shows that those children who have this secure attachment relationship with their parents are more exploratory, resilient and do better at school than those who have a less secure relationship. It is never too late to improve your relationship with your child and to provide this security. This might mean creating more oneto-one time with your child, e.g. going out for lunch together; creating a bed-time reading ritual; sitting down for a careful listening

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session or taking up a sport together. It is important for parents to realise that a secure parent-child relationship enables the child, when faced with a particularly anxiety provoking situation, to feel safe to return to the parental “base-camp” and get a top-up of reassurance and support. In summary, emotional security is the foundation of learning, and is the prerequisite for a confident child who is happy to go to school.

“The most important gift a parent can give their child in order to prepare them for a successful transition to school is forming a secure one-to-one parent-child relationship.” The second important parental skill to prepare a child for school is to run a structured and well-organised household that supports the demands of the new school year. The most important element of such a household is that it is happy and secure, and very predictable. This includes basics like having plenty of fun family times together, clear rules, routines and chores, and providing essentials like a great breakfast, plenty of sleep, and enough time devoted to getting ready for school. It is vital that parents provide a wellorganised personal space for each child. Part of

this organisation is a well-organised schoolbag with pencil cases and writing materials, any school notebooks and textbooks and all the sporting equipment that is needed. Equally important is that each child has a desk or at least a shelf where they keep their school gear at the end of each day. Having a structured and organised environment helps children to become mentally organised and prepared. Equally critical is that parents provide a homework or independent study routine from day one, and insist that all the children spend time unpacking their schoolbags, doing their homework and generally processing the school day. This requires parental organisation and supervision, and involves creating a household that takes learning seriously. The best parents actively supervise and encourage their children with their homework and make this a fun but focused family time. Finally, parents need well-developed skills that provide specific emotional and social support for the transition to a new school social environment. This might include starting to talk about the new school well in advance; walking past the new school and talking about the many new and exciting opportunities; visiting the school during the weekend when it is peaceful and quiet; making an appointment at the end of the year with the new teacher after school and introducing your child and yourself together; availing yourself of the many excellent induction programmes offered for new pupils; volunteering for the PTA or to be parent help so that your child feels you

are also part of the school community. Generally speaking more support is needed for younger children and for transitions between school levels. For example, a child going to primary school for the first time needs more support than a child who has been at school a number of years. However, all children will benefit greatly from parents who demonstrate in word and deed that they understand that the start of a new school year can be exciting as well as intimidating, and give their child the support, consideration and organisation which will ensure a secure and confident start to the New Year. By Joseph Driessen, education consultant Driessen speaks to parent and teacher groups about education. Email j.o.d@xtra.co.nz.

Do you over-praise or over-criticise your child? T

here is a growing voice in New Zealand and overseas that the emphasis over the past few decades on affirming the individual and on individual rights has not necessarily led to a better society. We have a society where “me” has become more important than “we” and where there is a concerning sense of entitlement. There is no doubt that affirming the individual and the building of a feeling of self-worth is an important part of growing up to become a healthy, competent and worthwhile member of society. A child who is constantly criticised, who is forever striving to please parents or teachers but meets only negativity, who cannot see his or her place in the world as valuable, is a child who is unlikely to lead a fulfilled life. But at the other extreme is the child who has lived in the golden glow of praise and affirmation, who has no doubt in his or her abilities, skills and entitlement. Somewhere along the road this child is in for a rude shock. Will they have the ability to deal with rejection, with relationship issues, with failure or uncertainty? There is fortunately the middle road of the majority. This is the territory of sensible support, of encouragement, of letting our young people know they are loved despite mistakes or goals not met, of encouraging an awareness that that they are part of a society where individual rights have to be finely balanced with community needs. There are subtle ways in which we allow our children to get an unrealistic view of themselves. Children know false or misdirected praise when they see or hear it. They know when

their maths or writing is not up to standard. Some reports I have read do nothing but praise, but when the surface is scratched there is a child who is struggling. A sense of self-worth is better served by clear indications about what he or she can do to improve, by what help will be useful and by some honesty so that they and their parents are living in a realistic world.

“A child who is constantly criticised, who is forever striving to please parents or teachers but meets only negativity, who cannot see his or her place in the world as valuable, is a child who is unlikely to lead a fulfilled life.” We all want to surround our children with a protective shield that deflects disappointment, that offers excuses when things don’t fall exactly in the right way, that tries to make things right. But surely it is better for our children to grow up learning to deal with life’s bumps and unfairness, to learn to accept these things with grace and a determination to move forward, to learn to work with others and to know when to concede. Australian motivational speaker Robyn Moore echoes this when she says “life’s not fair

- accept it.” Her dead cat example resonated with me: some things are a dead cat, and we can’t as parents or educators change that to make it right. If we constantly try to make things right in our children’s worlds - whether it is team selection, friendships, class placement or misdemeanours - we do not teach them to take responsibility and to work through the tough things. We do not teach them that, despite the fact that they might see themselves as centre stage, they are part of a cast of thousands. As adults, we do young people a disservice by telling them the world is their oyster if we do not continue the conversation with the fact that a lot of hard work, time and sacrifice will be required to achieve their dreams and that a sense of community and a generosity of spirit is the pearl. Increasingly in these less-than-ideal times school and university leavers are finding life can be tough and opportunities do not abound. We need to equip them with the grit to deal with this, and grit is developed through facing life’s realities. Employers want, among other things, team players; people with a work ethic and who build positive relationships; who are realistic and self-reflective and who accept and grow from disappointment, defeat and obstacles. This is in no way to detract from the importance of the individual. It is, as always, about balance. As Martin Luther King put it, “An individual has not started living until he can rise above the narrow confines of his individualistic concerns.” By Julie Moor Julie Moor is the principal of Rangi Ruru Girls’ School.

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Tasty holiday recipes

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Incessantly hungry kids and a seemingly endless stream of meals to be cooked can take the shine off school holidays. But I have a plan! As a parent there is nothing better than your children being capable and confident enough to take over the kitchen and rustle up a snack or meal. And a child who is able to cook the odd meal has a huge advantage over those with no food skills. Study after study shows that a child who has basic food and cooking skills is far more likely to make better food choices. And, in a land where over a third of our children are overweight or obese, our kids need all the help they can get to make good food choices. By sharing the load with your kids, you are giving them valuable life skills and you are getting a bit of time off! So how about a kids-cook-onemeal-a-week deal over the school holidays? To help, we have a fun, free one-day online cooking programme to get your kids cooking and a bit more food savvy. We’ll have them whipping up a salad, firing up the barbecue and wowing you with a Christmas treat. Too good to be true? Not at all! This highly interactive programme, hosted by my daughter and teen Claire Gourley, has great competitions and great prizes as she shares foodie skills and tips to get your child food savvy. Check out www.foodsavvykids.com. The following recipe is from Claire’s book Who’s Cooking Tonight? and is just perfect for your kids to make over the summer months.

Tuscan Chips with Guacamole

I often serve this with raw carrot sticks too – carrot dipped in guacamole is delicious. This is the minimum amount you will want to make – I often double this. What you need For the Tuscan chips 2 large baking or roasting potatoes, sliced as thinly as you can Spray oil tsp of Tuscan seasoning For the guacamole 1 avocado, peeled and diced 2 medium sized tomatoes, diced 1 tsp garlic paste or 1 clove garlic, crushed 1 Tbsp sweet chilli sauce or a few drops of Tabasco sauce 1 Tbsp lemon or lime juice 1-2 Tbsp finely chopped fresh parsley or chives Here goes... Roast the potatoes Don’t peel them – it’s far too much work and you throw

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FUNdamentals – a preschool phenomenon

Learning at Marian College Marian College students excel at NCEA: they consistently perform significantly above the national levels for all schools in New Zealand. During the past three years, level one NCEA average results range from 94 to 97 per cent pass rate; level two consistent at 91% and level three at 74 to 87%. The college’s

away the best bit. Place the potato slices in a single layer in a roasting pan. Spray with the oil and sprinkle with Tuscan seasoning. Bake at 200°C for 20-25 minutes or until golden brown and crunchy. The trick is to slice the potatoes very thinly so they go crunchy.

academic goal is to help students achieve to their best potential. Helpful learning support is a feature of the college. Good success in a range of vocational courses complements the high success in subjects like chemistry, accounting and classical studies. Marian is a great place to learn.

True to previous FUNdamentals preschools ravaged by earthquakes, parents will still be astounded at what is beyond the FUNdamentals’ entrance: the environment is great and the programme is fantastic. The best has been taken from many sources of learning to develop the inspiring FUNdamentals’ programme. It includes classroom (numeracy/ literacy) teacher-guided activities along with free choice times, music, a great outdoors and the FUNdamentals’ perceptual motor/sensory motor gym room activities.

The new FUNdamentals at Innes Road, Merivale, is a preschool well worth discovering – take a look for yourself. FUNdamentals is proud of the quality of its programme, teaching ratios and extras like the full gym and extension classrooms – something very rare onsite. FUNdamentals has full day and full week care as well as two separate sessions per day. You are welcome to just come in and have a look. Visit www.fundamentals.co.nz or phone 03355-1522.

Tips for Christmas savings Your Christmas event may not look very traditional, but traditions are simply things that become more significant and meaningful the more times you do them. Feasting is surely the best tradition in any culture. It’s also one of the most expensive, especially at Christmas when budgets stretch to the maximum. Kiwis are inclined to shop for Christmas as though preparing for a siege, so if you want keep it under control this year, identify the things that are the most important to your particular celebration. Do you include things in the family feast simply because they are “traditional” and not because any of you actually like them anymore? Are you over-catering out of habit or doing it all yourself when others would be happy to contribute? Some thoughtful analysis can leave you with more cash for the traditions that are really important to you and help avoid unnecessary excess. Don’t get me wrong, I love excess! One of the joys of Christmas for me is the anticipation of eating so much that I’ll need a little lie down, but it’s even more enjoyable when you aren’t still paying it off in June. Sharing the workload and expense is a fair and reasonable expectation, especially when everyone is stretched. Tell people

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well in advance what you need them to bring, and be specific. Rationalise the gift giving. Consider starting a tradition whereby gifts are only for the under 16’s, or names are drawn from hat so you buy only for the person or household whose name you drew. Consider putting a price cap on the cost of gifts, suggesting adults only exchange

homemade offerings, or only exchange gifts among immediate family. In years to come they simply won’t remember who gave what but they’ll always, always remember how we made them feel. So have a very Happy Christmas. By Sophie Gray, www.destitutegourmet.com.

Sophie Gray’s Destitute Gourmet mantra of “living well by spending less” remains as relevant as ever in these tough economic times. We all need recipes for affordable meals we can manage to make on a week night, that the household will love and that use ingredients we already have. Feed the Family for $15 or less is full of more simple, cheap and scrumptious recipes for every household. We have three copies to give away, enter online at www.familytimes.co.nz or write your name and address on the back of an envelope or postcard and send to: Feed the Family, PO Box 36 004, Christchurch, to reach us by 28 January 2013.

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Gifts of goodwill Christmas is a time of goodwill. It’s a time to exchange gifts that carry the meaning of goodwill; gifts that have an intangible value that enrich a person’s life.

ather than buying something your child will outgrow or a piece of technology that will become outdated, consider how you can add a lifetime of value to what you give. What gifts will enrich your family’s ability to grow and develop the will to share their unique abilities in ways that benefit everyone? The purpose of life and the key role of a parent is to help their children grow and develop a sense of their own identity so

Hagley – no more “same old - same old” Enrolments are now open for a wide range of senior level programmes and courses at Hagley Community College. In 2013 there are two new programmes on offer with the introduction of the Year 13 college and vocational pathways. Through the Year 13 college students will be exposed to 41 level three subjects that can all contribute to gaining university entrance under the new criteria that will come into place in 2014. It also allows students to broaden their

horizons as far as subject choice is concerned as it has a number of subjects that are open to any Year 13 student regardless of prior achievement. The vocational pathways programme enables students to achieve NCEA level two by combining high school study with tertiary training. To find out more about any of the numerous learning opportunities at Hagley, phone 0508HAGLEY, or visit www.hagley.school.nz.

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that they understand and appreciate how to use their unique value in ways that make a difference to their world. The most important gift you can give is time, energy and enthusiasm for stuff that matters to them. You don’t have to agree with their point of view - just value it. Help your loved ones build a strong sense of self and an appreciation of their point of difference. Leave an indelible mark on their heart – show them you love them for who they are. Encourage them to stand up and strive for what they believe in. You are not responsible for making your family happy, but you are responsible for helping them to find their own happiness – so make a start with yourself. A happy parent is a strong parent; a parent able to support and nurture the people around them so they grow into confident individuals who recognise their value and use it to add value to society. What kind of goodwill do you want to encourage in your family? What local, national or international issues matter to each member of your family? Do you share views on the same issues? Make a scroll gifting your time to a charity or cause that’s important to your child. Do things together or as a whole family. It could be tree planting, beach cleaning, or collecting on the streets to raise money for a charity. You could pledge a certain amount of food for an animal shelter so that your child can personally gift it. You could then encourage your child to contribute a portion of their pocket money, or do some household chores

to increase the amount. You could offer your home as a foster home for the SPCA and involve the whole family in sharing the responsibility of caring for the animals. The possibilities are endless – it’s fun and rewarding to create unusual gifts that have a value beyond the dollar. Last, but by no means least, show daily gratitude and appreciation. Encourage your family to show the world how valuable they are by using their skills to help others: simple acts like opening a door for someone, picking up rubbish, or best of all, passing on a smile. By Philippa Ross Philippa Ross works as an “enthusiologist” in her personal growth business – Cherish Wellbeing.

Canterbury Home Educators Inc Home education is a world where your children learn with confidence and flourish. You can tailor your children’s learning to their individual needs, abilities and preferences and you won’t be alone. Canterbury Home Educators Inc provides access to a wide network of resources and a full calendar of activities and learning opportunities such as camps, sports, life skills, arts, languages, tutorials etc. Parents enjoy contact with parents and children make firm friendships for life. For information email CHEInc@free.net. nz and ring your Ministry of Education office for a free homeschooling information pack.

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www.che.org.nz Information packs about home education are available from Ministry of Education.

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Looking after pets like “One of the Family” Former All Black front rower Norm Hewitt may have hung up his rugby boots, but now he’s tackling animal cruelty as an ambassador for the RSPCA.

ewitt and RSPCA national education coordinator Shelley Ryan have been presenting an empathy education programme “One of the Family,” to Year 7 and 8 students throughout New Zealand. The programme identifies and shares key messages about the benefits of caring for animals, the link between family violence and animal cruelty, and the choice each person makes to live free of violence. Hewitt says that by the age of 11, children develop a social conscience and can make the choice to treat animals with care and respect. He talks about his own violent childhood experiences within his family and how his animals became his best friends; the “safe place” he needed most. “We’re teaching them to be kind to animals, so they’ll grow up to respect others.” For more information, visit www. rnzspca.org.nz and www.oneofthefamily. co.nz.

Not just for Christmas – pets are for life! “Taking care of a pet is a big responsibility and a lifelong commitment,” says Barry Helem, CEO at SPCA Canterbury. “Unfortunately many new pet owners are unprepared

for the responsibility of owning a companion animal and as a result our animal centre cares for thousands of unwanted, sick, injured and abused pets every year.”

“Having a pet is about more than just owning an animal. They become a vital and important member of your family, offering a lifetime of unconditional love and loyalty.” Barry Helem, CEO at SPCA Canterbury. SPCA Canterbury strongly urge all potential adopters to carefully consider their circumstances and capabilities before committing to pet ownership, to help decrease these numbers. The SPCA website has a list of questions that help potential adopters to decide whether they are ready for the commitment. These include contemplating the ongoing costs, the time needed to care for an animal, and whether their home environment is suitable for a pet. “Matching the right animal with the right family is really important,” a RSPCA spokesperson said. “People will often come

into the centre with clear expectations about the pet they want, but after discussing their lifestyle and circumstances, we can help them make sure that the animal they have in mind will suit their long term needs.” The SPCA adopt-a-pet service gives thousands of animals a second chance at a loving home. SPCA Canterbury offer a “no time limit” policy on all healthy animals available for adoption and are committed to caring for them until they find new forever homes. “Having a pet is about more than just owning an animal,” said Helem. “They become a vital and important member of your family, offering a lifetime of unconditional love and loyalty.” If you would like to know more about adopting a pet from SPCA, or to view their available “adoptees”, visit www. spcacanterbury.org.nz or drop into the animal centre at 14 Wilmers Road, Hornby – open Monday to Saturday, 10am - 4pm.

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baby & toddler

Improve behaviour through play I

t’s Sunday night and the more organised parents among you have probably checked your diaries to see what the week ahead holds for yourself and the family. The question is, did you diary in any appointments to play with your children? This may seem an odd question but it’s not as silly as it sounds. We all know that in today’s fast-paced society where both parents work in the majority of households, there is less free time to spend with the children. Often, your children’s free time is also taken up with weekly activities that range from gymbaroo to music groups, swimming lessons, play dates and other activities. For some pre-schoolers, extended hours in day-care or preschools decrease the opportunities for time with mum and dad even further. So it might make sense to actually write in your diary, two or three times a week, an “appointment” for free-play with your preschooler, thereby increasing the chances that it actually occurs. If you prioritise those appointments and stick to them, it won’t take long before they start paying dividends. Even 15 minutes every second day can have an impact on your child’s behaviour and overall development.

Attention seeking or craving attention? Problem behaviour can occur for a variety of reasons. Have you noticed the following behaviours escalating in your young child: being prone to tantrums at the drop of a hat? Refusing to comply with the simplest requests? Interrupting repeatedly when you are on the

phone or entertaining visitors? If so, check when you last spent some time with your preschooler and gave him or her your full attention. Setting up the computer or iPad for him? Sorry that doesn’t count. Buying her a fluffy at the local café while you caught up with friends? No, that doesn’t count either.

Providing total focus That far away look in your eye that means you are distracted and not completely present – your child picks that up in a nanosecond. Then they up the ante – crying, sulking, demanding,

and refusing requests. What your child is telling you is that he or she wants your full attention – the kind that tells him he’s special and that you love being with him. A little bit of positive, focused, full-on attention can go a long way, as long as it’s on a regular basis. This is the kind of attention that fills up a child’s “emotional tank” and helps them to amuse themselves without constantly needing parental input.

Child-led play Positive discipline needs to be balanced by one-on-one attention. This is best done by

PAUA Early Childhood - more unique than most When Christchurch born-and-raised Raewyn Overton-Stuart started PAUA Early Childhood Home-based Care Service in 2003, supported by her husband Tony Stuart, she had no idea how successful her dream would become. PAUA now employs more than 40 staff, and supports the care and early childhood education of more than 700 children from Auckland to Christchurch. The first Christchurch children were enrolled with PAUA in 2009, and although the earthquakes had an impact on services, especially last year, things are humming at the moment. Home-based care is proving to be a great ECE alternative in a changing environment such as Canterbury is at the moment. PAUA has acknowledged a demand for childcare in

North Canterbury by appointing new visiting teachers in the area. And PAUA educators in the area have spaces available right now, said Overton-Stuart. “Home-based ECE is the next best thing to children staying at home with mum. The children adapt to routines, and everyday experiences become great learning opportunities for young minds.” Raewyn, Tony and their team believe that children are our treasures for tomorrow. To find out more about PAUA Early Childhood, visit www.paua.ac.nz, email info@paua.ac.nz or phone 0800-728-277 (0800-PAUAPRE). PAUA Early Childhood Home-based Care Service: providing in-home education and childcare that’s more unique than most.

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joining together in fun activities and floor play time. Part of the joy of having preschoolers is being able to get down on the floor and play with them, re-enacting your childhood as you play alongside your child. The “alongside” is the important word here. That means letting your child choose what and how they want to play and adjusting yourself to their pace. Child-led play is where the child learns that what they are doing is valuable and has meaning. They learn this because they see their parent being an attentive, involved play partner affirming what they are doing. Child-led play involves the parent following the child’s lead not setting the agenda yourself. It means commenting on or describing what your child is doing in a reflective, warm manner, not asking questions designed to teach or install concepts. “You built a really big garage for your car Max. That looks great,” rather than “What shape is that block you put on the top Max?” Most of all – have fun. By Michelle van Dyk, psychologist

La Leche League Conference Breastfeeding mothers and those interested in supporting mothers and babies to breastfeed are encouraged to attend the La Leche League Conference in Ashburton in April. The conference presents a marvellous opportunity for learning and networking around breastfeeding. For more information, check out the La Leche League website, www.lalecheleague.org.nz or email Marnie at conference2013@lalecheleague. org.nz. Meanwhile, if you need help with breastfeeding, La Leche League leaders are breastfeeding mothers who are trained to give accurate, up-to-date information and support. Canterbury Breastfeeding Helpline 03-338-8447.

safety

Keep your kids safe near water Tragically young children have the highest drowning rate of all New Zealanders. The truth is as clear cut as it is brutal; water kills young children at an alarming rate.

hroughout the year – regardless of season – water hazards exist around the home, with the most common found in the form of the bath and home swimming pools. The underlying reason behind almost all drownings of small children is a lack of adequate or appropriate supervision from parents and caregivers. The window for tragedy is frighteningly small, and the time it takes for young children to get into trouble is remarkably short; a matter of seconds. Proper supervision in and around water means a responsible adult keeping young children in their care both within sight and within reach. Water hazards within the home and beyond need to be constantly managed by parents. Small children have neither the ability nor the knowledge required to make a decision about their own safety. The most effective way to protect your child is to have a fully fenced area where they can play without the threat of water hazards. If this is not feasible, then all potential water hazards must be identified and eliminated from the home environment. Potential hazards that cannot be removed must be isolated to a degree that makes it impossible for a young child to gain unsupervised access. Parents and caregivers can introduce their children to water in a positive, caring manner. Bath time can be fun for you and your baby, but never – even for a moment – leave your child alone or under sibling supervision in the bathtub. Being supported in warm water can be a wonderful experience for a baby, and a

gentle way to introduce them to water. You can help your baby to investigate how water tastes and feels. Trickling water over baby’s face and floating (with the head well supported) is a great start to water play. Sharing bath time and visiting your local pool are all positive steps to developing water confidence and safety skills in your child. Important water safety rules need to be cued, promoted, reinforced and discussed where applicable to ensure additional preventive measures are taken on top of supervision. These may include: • Only play with water when parent or caregiver is present. • Only enter the water with a parent or caregiver.

One of the most positive experiences for a child is a simple visit to the local swimming pool with family. The comfort and reassurance that the family bond provides, along with trust placed in parent-child relationships, mean that a regular trip to the pool can be a valuable bonding tool as well as enhancing confidence and understanding in the water. By providing a positive aquatic experience from a young age, children are more likely to develop water safety skills that will lead on to learning to swim and survive – the fundamental skill for enjoying any water environment safely. By Water Safety NZ Visit www.watersafety.org.nz

St Margaret’s College junior school - certainty in uncertain times St Margaret’s College head of junior school Paula Sheldon says small class sizes allow teachers to provide quality feedback and information to children. “We take a holistic approach to our girls’ education based on our Anglican traditional values and nurture them with a high level of pastoral care. We have a big sister – little sister mentoring programme that runs through the entire school.” The junior school (years 1 – 6) enables girls to develop into confident, happy children equipped with skills for a smooth transition to year seven. The girls benefit from access to

specialist teachers and the full facilities of the college. “We offer academic and emotional certainty in these uncertain times and focus on the emotional and pastoral care of each girl. We offer her an individual academic programme, whether it is part of learning support or our future scholars programme,” says principal Gillian Simpson. For more information on the junior school at St Margaret’s College, please contact Tina Cartwright, 03-353-2563 or tina.c@stmargarets.school.nz.

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craft corner

Needle-felted Christmas decorations Needle felting is an easy, affordable and fun craft for boys, girls, teens and adults.

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Everyone who tries it loves the colours and textures that can be achieved, and the technique can be used to embellish clothing and make flat or 3D items. The main tool for this craft is a special needle that is barbed: it is these barbs that lock the fibres together and although it sounds dangerous, most children are quite controlled when they use such a needle. You will have just as much fun as your children if you try this together. You will need: • Needle-felting needle (available from Hands for $2 each) • Small amount of carded wool or sliver • Small foam block • Cookie cutter • Optional: thread or cord to hang your decoration

Place cookie cutter on block of foam and then fill this with carded wool. Do not cut the wool; just pull the fibres apart to make smaller pieces.

Once the wool has felted down a bit, lift the cutter and gently pull the felting off the foam. Flip it over and put back into the cutter and needle felt more.

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Push the barbed needle through the wool into the foam block and continue this Once it is finished, you can add decoration “jabbing” motion. The needle needs to go straight by needle-felting on small dots, or even yarn up and down otherwise you may break the can be needled on to make thin lines. You can also needle. You will see the fibre start to felt down sew or glue on beads. If you wish to hang your into the mould onto the foam. This is important decoration, thread cord or ribbon through the top. so the felt does not fuse with the foam. Make sure By Sarah Chisnall, Hands Craft Store manager, you work into any corners. You can add more bits Christchurch. For further details, enquiries and of fibre at any stage to fill in gaps. craft blog visit www.handscraftstore.com.

The teachers at the International School of Music are all looking forward to another happy year of music making in 2013! The busy music school teaches more than 300 students each week in its popular preschool music and group piano classes in Barrington. Students can start from age two years, right up to beginners of 14-years-old. Term one classes always fill quickly, so early enquiries will receive priority placement. The new students’ timetable is available online at www.ismchristchurch.co.nz or phone 03-377-3778.

Go Potty Ceramic Studio Go Potty Ceramic Studio offers a paintyour-own-pottery experience that’s fun for all ages. There’s something for everyone, with a wide selection of dinnerware and ornamental pieces to choose from and prices starting from just $15. No prior artistic ability necessary. Come to Go Potty Ceramic Studio for your child’s birthday party, something to do in the school holidays or to paint your own personalised Christmas gifts. Visit www.gopotty.co.nz, phone 03-3322361, email gopottynz@gmail.com or check out www.facebook.com/gopotty.

games

Which games platform should I buy? A

question I get asked a lot as a gamer - and a parent - is “which console is the best?” This can be a divisive and entrenched conversation among serious gamers who already know what each and every device is capable of. But for non-gamer parents, this is often a serious question. After all, if you are going to buy one you want to make sure you buy the right one. However, like all seemingly simple questions, there is not one simple answer. Game consoles all do one thing very well: they play games. That is the main purpose of the device, so often the question is not one of capability but of value for money, and of what else it is capable of. The three big consoles you can chose from are The Playstation 3, The XBox 360 and the Nintendo Wii. Each of these has pluses and minuses and come with added extras or features that can complicate your decision (or make it easier). Your choice is relevant to what you want the device to do. If you are looking for top-of-the-

line games that really push the ability of gaming then the Playstation 3 and the Xbox 360 are the best. If you want a games console that is mostly fun with loads of interactivity and aimed at a younger audience, then the Wii is probably more your speed (though the other two also cater to younger gamers). If you want the device to be more than a gaming machine, then your choice is in what else the machine does, and again this is the choice between the Playstation 3 and the Xbox 360. Both of these devices have wireless connectivity and play movies from the hard disc or from the drive, but the PS3 plays Blu Rays and DVDs while the Xbox 360 plays DVDs only. All three of the devices support motion detection, but with the Wii this is a core concept and how the device works in all models. On the PS3 and the X Box you can get either the Kinect system or the PS Move systems that are optional extras to get this function. It really depends on what you want to do and

Winnie Bagoes Ferrymead - your local family-friendly pizza restaurant Do you want to take the family out for dinner but struggle to know where to take them? Winnie Bagoes Ferrymead is your local family-friendly restaurant. There’s a great kids’ menu, the popular Kids’ Pizza School (which is great for birthdays at only $10 per child), and the famous Winnie’s kids’ party

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how much you want to pay. They all play games and they all do their jobs very well in different ways. You may also want to see what you children’s friends or relatives have, because if they are going to swap games they have to have the same kind of console for the games to work. If you’re still not sure, ask your kids - I’m sure they’ll have an opinion and may already know which one they think is best. What console do I have? I have all of them and the handheld versions as well, but then again I work in the games industry.

By Wayne Webb Wayne Webb is a community services manager for SmallWorlds - an online gaming site that caters to a 13 plus age range - an avid technology fiend and the father of two children who also love “screen things”.

at the end of every school holidays. You need look no further when thinking of a great friendly restaurant that you can take the whole family too. Visit Winnie Bagoes Ferrymead at 2 Waterman Place, Ferrymead, phone 03-376-4900, www.winniebagoes.co.nz.

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Karen Theobald from Family Times visited Queenspark School to talk with kids about how they celebrate Christmas and what it means to them.

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I don’t celebrate Christmas as a special time. I spend more time with my grandparents though, who I live with. Because they are a bit older, there are not as many celebrations. We have a Christmas tree, give gifts and share a nice meal. My parents live in Korea and I only see them every three years. At Christmas we talk on the phone and I get sent packages in the mail.

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Christmas is a family time, a fun time to get together. It’s nice to share food. I make my own wrapping paper and like giving and receiving gifts. Christmas is a kind and happy moment. Our family gives gifts to those who don’t get as many gifts. We go to the Santa Parade before Christmas.

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We do celebrate Christmas; my Dad comes home from the North Island to be with all our family. It’s a time to remember and thank Jesus too. We decorate a tree, make a Christmas cake together and share lots of yummy food. We give gifts to others and have fun wearing our Christmas hats.

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Now Momma is a Chicago girl, born and raised. She’s seen a few things in her time in the old windy city, and she knows stuff, a lot of stuff. But Momma also knows how to make the best pizza youse guys will ever taste. The family pizza recipe was entrusted to Momma by her Momma, who got it from her Momma and so on, back to when Leonardo was in nappies. You can’t beat tradition and you can’t beat Momma’s pizza, so don’t even try, or Momma will come callin’ with her rolling pin.

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Dart of Castle Hill

Spring has arrived at last and the lambing season is well under way. Down the line at iconic Castle Hill Station, the fields and hills are scattered with lambs – too many to count – but where are they all hiding? Dart of Castle is a classic New Zealand picture book, it educates and entertains, and the ending has an amusing an unexpected twist. We have five copies of Dart of Castle Hill to give away.

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Big Al’s got cultivated tastes, so only the finest ingredients will do. Full loaded with Ham, Bacon, Cabanossi, Italian Meatballs, Olives, Onions and Peppers. So whether it’s a sit-down with the family, or something to feed a hungry mob, check out the pizza that reigns Supreme, just like Big Al.

Paulie ‘Da Piano Man’ does all the family books, plays da tabulator loik a keyboard – and he’s done the numbers on the Chicago Pepperoni & Mozzarella. Having spent some time off shore (for tax purposes only, you understand…), he’s developed a classic taste for tasty pepperoni, our secret herbed tomato base, topped with herbs, cheddar and mozzarella cheese.

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My Little Pony Royal Wedding Castle

Princess Cadance and Shining Armor are getting married at the castle! Ponies from all over Equestria can’t wait to go to the royal wedding. This castle play set comes with bride and groom pony figures, butterfly, comb, two teacups, teapot, wedding cake, table, bouquet, piano, purse, tuxedo, groom crown, bride crown, dress, two rings, necklace, chandelier and sticker labels. We have five to give away!

Beywheelz Crash Course Battle Set

Battle three ways with the spinning Beywheelz battlers in this awesome crash course battle set. This set has everything you need to launch into spectacular crash, stunt or race battles. Practice your skills or take on your friends. Either way, this gear puts you in charge of a big-time Beywheelz smack down! We have five Beywheelz Crash Course Battle Sets to give away!

What is your favourite summer food? We’d love to see a drawing of your favourite summer food! Draw us a picture of what tickles your tastebuds most in the summer months and be in to win an amazing $50 prize pack from Crayola! Three entry age groups: preschool (age 1-4), 5-8, 9-12. Create your design on an A5 sheet or download the template and entry form from www.familytimes.co.nz. Post in to PO Box 36 004, Christchurch 8146. Entries close on 28 January 2013.

Congratulations to our Whanau Design Competition winners from our last issue:

Ruby Keomany, age 4

Rui Yi Ong, age 6

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Shekinah Harendra Pratap, age 10

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The Word Witch is the ultimate collection of Margaret Mahy’s much-loved poems and stories in rhyme. Each of the 66 pieces is accompanied by a poignant illustration by one of New Zealand’s best, David Elliott. This new paperback edition includes a CD with Margaret reciting 12 poems. Margaret Mahy, A Writer’s Life was first published in 2005 to critical acclaim. Now, seven years on, it has been fully updated and republished. Enter now for the chance to win one of fifteen packs of these books that we have to give away.

Wreck-It Ralph

For decades, Ralph has been overshadowed by Fix-It Felix, Jr., the good-guy star of their game who always gets to save the day. Tired of playing the role of a bad guy, Ralph takes matters into his own massive hands and sets off on a journey across the arcade through multiple generations of video games to prove he’s got what it takes to be a hero. WreckIt Ralph” crashes onto the big screen on December 26, 2012. We have five packs containing a double in season pass, t’shirt, sticker sheet and notebook. Entries close 13 December 2012.

Just tick the things you want to win SUMMER 2012

 My Little Pony Royal Wedding Castle  Dart of Castle Hill  Beywheelz Crash Course Battle Set  The Word Witch by Margaret Mahy and Margaret Mahy, A Writer’s Life Wreck-It Ralph

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11am & 1pm weekdays 1pm Saturdays All tickets $9 Book now: (03) 963 0870 or www.courttheatre.org.nz

To be in the draw to win, enter online at www.familytimes.co.nz or write your name and address on the back of an envelope or postcard and send to: Christchurch Competition, PO Box 36 004, Christchurch to reach us by 28th January 2013, unless stated otherwise. Only one entry per household.

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Calendar of Events Christchurch boasts one of the best summer events calendars in the country, so be part of the action or ambience at the many events on offer. Check out www.bethere.co.nz and www.familytimes.co.nz for regular updates.

15 December Leighs Construction CSO Christmas. Tom Woods conducts the CSO’s annual concert full of seasonal favourites including sing-along carols. Starts at 6pm, CBS Canterbury Arena. Tickets from www.ticketek.co.nz.

15 & 16 December Patricia Paul School of Dance end of year performance “Lights Sound Dance”. Phone 03-372-9191 for bookings to this show held at Villa Maria Auditorium.

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From 30 October SPCA Opshop. Support Canterbury animals by purchasing quality second hand goods at great prices. Shop now open at 656 Ferry Road, Woolston. Open 10am-4pm, MondaySaturday.

1 December St Martins School Summer Fiesta. From 10am-3pm, a fun-filled family day with activities, stalls, food and entertainment. Based in the school’s grounds on Albert Terrace.

2 December Kiddiewinks Children’s Market. Become a stall holder for the day, sell your goodies for free, and keep all the profits. Held the first Sunday of the month. From 9.30am-3pm, phone 03-352-2435 for details.

8 December Otamahua /Quail Island Kiwi Ranger launch. Special guides will be on the island to launch the Kiwi Ranger programme. Pick up your booklet on Black Cat Cruises or at the Lyttelton I-SITE, and do the activities to earn your badge. Visit www.doc.govt.nz/kiwiranger and www.blackcat.co.nz.

9 December House of Travel Triathlon. Enter the SBS Kids Tri for 9 to 13-year-olds, held on the spectator-friendly, flat and fast Pegasus Town course. Visit www.triathlonfestival.co.nz.

9 December Port FM Summer Pool Party. Join us at Timaru’s brand new aquatic centre for a family fun day. From 11am to 5pm at CBay, Te Weka Street, Timaru. Check out www.cbaytimaru.co.nz.

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Timaru Caroline Bay Carnival. A great holiday destination this Christmas. Contests, games and rides with daily free entertainment for all. Full programme listed at www. carolinebay.org.nz.

29 December - 6 January 2013 Arthurs Pass National Park summer programme. Escape the city and join the Department of Conservation for guided walks and talks, telemetry and lots of family fun. Most events are free or gold coin donation. Contact Arthur’s Pass Visitor Centre on 03318-9211 or visit www.doc.govt.nz.

31 December New Years Eve Party. This alcohol-free celebration from 6.30pm to 8pm caters to families with younger children. At North Hagley Park, visit www.summertimes.co.nz for further information.

6 January - 24 February Lazy Sundays. Fill your Sundays listening to free, live music on the Archery Lawn, Botanic Gardens. From 4-5.30pm, check out www. summertimes.co.nz for band details.

12 January Duvauchelle A&P Show. All day entertainment with gumboot tossing, cute farm animals and much more. Duvauchelle Show Grounds, State Highway 75, on the way to Akaroa. Entry fee applies, phone 03-304-8593.

12 January Beach Blast. A free event for 7 to 12-yearolds showcasing the fun activities you can enjoy at the beach. From 9.30am-1pm at North Beach, Marine Parade. For more information visit bethere.co.nz.

Come swimming with dolphins in Akaroa for the experience of a lifetime.

17-27 January SCIRT Worlds Buskers Festival. Prepare to laugh lots! Head to the Tip Top Busker Kid Pitch located on the weather station lawn, Botanic Gardens for acts tailor-made to entertain young children. Visit www. worldbuskersfestival.com for the full timetable.

18 January - 23 March Skate Jams. Cheapskates Skate Skool encourages children to learn to skate with free gear hire and coaching. Visit www.skateskool. co.nz to check venues and dates.

27 January Tip Top Kite Day. Bring your kite and let it soar amongst the hundreds of other kites colouring the New Brighton sky. New Brighton Beach, south of the Pier from 12 noon-3pm. Check out www.summertimes. co.nz for more details.

Windmill Kids Furniture – perfect for Christmas Windmill Kids Furniture welcomes summer with a burst of colours and innovatively designed kids’ outdoor furniture. There’s a vast range of exciting designs for both boys and girls. The furniture is UV protected, water resistant, portable, and comes with a steel frame and can support weight of up to 100kgs. If you still haven’t got a Christmas gift for the kids, your kids will love our table and chair set - RRP $189, introductory offer $119 until 20 December. Come and visit 145 Blenheim Road, Christchurch, open seven days a week, 9am-5pm. Phone 03-3488358, free phone 0800-288-888, visit www. windmillkidsfurniture.co.nz.

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2 February New Zealand Sandcastle Competition. Head to New Brighton Beach to watch amazing sand creations take shape. Childrens and family team competitions also. Details at www. newzealandsandcastlecompetition.co.nz.

3 February - 24 March Sunday Bandstand. Whether it’s pipe or brass bands that tickle your fancy, pack up your picnic and family and march down to the Botanic Gardens or Scarborough Reserve. For times visit www.summertimes.co.nz.

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crafts and food from around the globe. Linwood Community Arts Centre, from 11am-3pm. Phone 03-981-2881 for more information.

3 March Children’s Day. A day of celebration for children and families. Loads of activities and entertainment in South Hagley Park from 11am. Bring your teddy. Phone 03-941-5409 for details.

9 March Culture Galore. Experience the world and celebrate cultural diversity. More than 50 performances and demonstrations, ethnic foods, and stalls. From 12noon to 4pm at

Ray Blank Park, Maidstone Road. Visit www.bethere.co.nz for more details.

17 March Weetbix Tryathlon. Based at Centennial Park, Lyttelton Street. Swim, bike and run as an individual or part of a team. Open to ages 7 to 15-years, visit www.tryathlon.weetbix.co.nz.

17 March Heathcote River Day-Raft Race. Watch or take part in this free event as it follows the Heathcote River from Riverlaw Terrace to Hansen Park. Enter by 11 March at www.smartscouts.co.nz.

ASB Classical Sparks. Watch the amazing fireworks display to the sounds of live music. From 7.30pm at North Hagley Park. Visit www.summertimes.co.nz for full details.

6 February Waitangi Day Celebrations. This is a great family experience in Okains Bay, and includes a traditional Maori welcome and two magnificent carved waka being paddled up the river.

10 February Avice Hill Arts and Craft Fair. A free art and craft extravaganza promoting activities in the local community. From 11am-3pm at 395 Memorial Avenue. Visit bethere.co.nz for the full programme.

From 15 February Anthony Harper Summer Theatre Wind in the Willows. Enjoy one of the world’s most beloved children’s story come to life in the Botanic Gardens. Check free performance dates at www.summertimes.co.nz.

Leighs Construction CSO Presents Christmas, a night of well-loved festive music on 15 December.

18-27 March Klondyke Fresh Under-5 Fest by Science Alive. Science exhibits, animals, hands-on activities and more. Phone 03-365-5199 or visit www.sciencealive.co.nz for information.

23 March Woolston Gala. Take part in this fun-filled day for families, with free children’s rides and entertainment. At Woolston Park from 11am to 3pm. For queries phone 03-3893-720. Compiled by Karen Theobald

Marching Canterbury Give marching a go at Marching Canterbury! Marching is a competitive sport for ages five-years and up. It develops confidence, co-ordination and is a lot of fun. Marching has kept up with the changing times. Competitions generally take up just one weekend morning and fees are very competitive. Teams complete traditional drills but also perform freestyle displays set to modern music. Marching Canterbury is one of the strongest associations in New Zealand and has regular competitions. Marching is an ideal way to keep fit, form lasting friendships and develop personal discipline. For more information phone Jo on 03-9805001 or 027-282-9280. Visit www.marchingcanterbury.co.nz.

16 February Inner City East Multicultural Festival. A feast of activities, song, dance, arts and

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Holiday programmes Whether it is full time care you require or an opportunity for your child to try something new, holiday programmes can be lots of fun. Here are some top picks for these Christchurch holidays. ■ YMCA

YMCA holiday programmes are fun, safe and creative, with a range of programmes and exciting activities planned for the summer holidays. The week long, two day and single day programmes offer choice for everyone. YMCA programmes are OSCAR approved and subsidies are available. Visit www.ymcachch. org.nz/youngpeople for more information.

Devine Equine Riding and Training Centre Devine Equine Riding and Training Centre is a beautifully established facility in Templeton that offers riding lessons for beginner children on a one-to-one basis. It also offers children’s pony parties, which include pony rides, cart rides, fun with miniature horses, a treasure hunt and a room for party celebrations. Farm visits by arrangement are a very interesting experience in which the famous racing history of the property is told. Also enjoy a cart ride, and meet some of the farm’s miniature horses. Phone 03-349-5893 or 021-924-499, www.devineridingcentre. co.nz, www.claremontstud.co.nz.

■ YMCA Wainui Park

YMCA Wainui Park offers week-long residential holiday programmes for nine to 16-year-olds. Camp outs, high wires, kayaking, coasteering and much more. Y-camps are OSCAR approved and YMCA subsidies are available. Visit www. ymcachch.org.nz/youngpeople for more information or email wainui@ymcachch.org.nz.

■ Kendal OSCAR

Enrolments in Kendal OSCAR school holiday programmes are open to all Christchurch families with children aged 5-13 years. Email oscar@kendal.school.nz or phone 03-3584140 for information.

CASPA after school and holiday programmes CASPA understands that it’s difficult to find childcare in a safe, creative environment that your child enjoys and that also meets your needs. CASPA’s after-school and holiday programme is enjoyed by 5 to 13-year-olds. Whether attendance is every day, a couple of days a week or casually, your child will be happy and well looked after. Child Youth & Family approved so OSCAR subsidies apply. Phone Caroline or Jan on 03-349-9260 or 027274-0000 or email info@caspa.org.nz for an enrolment form.

■ CASPA

Let CASPA make your school holiday care easier. Programmes operate from 8am-6pm. Phone 03-349-9260 or visit www.caspa.org.nz for locations.

■ Horse riding camps at Kowhai

Enrol on a multiple-day camp these holidays with accommodation and meals included. Suitable for 8 to 18-year-olds with all riding levels catered for. Phone 03-312-4309 or email info@kowhai.co.nz.

Above: Girls learning how to make sushi at a Kendal School holiday programme. pottery: a fun experience for all ages. Phone 03332-2361 or visit www.gopotty.co.nz for ideas.

■ Arion Farm Education ■ Go Potty Ceramic Studio Park Be creative these holidays and a paint your own

Living Springs surf camp What could be better than a whole week learning how to carve it up at the Living Springs surf camp? This is the perfect opportunity for your teenager to participate in a summer camp and learn to surf at the same time. Packed with value - including daily surfing lessons with qualified instructors at Sumner, Brighton and Taylor’s Mistake beaches, paddle-boarding and carve board lessons, plus all the fun activities available at Living Springs. Visit www.livingsprings.co.nz for more information.

Feed, care and play with farm animals these holidays. Only $5 per person. Open 10am-3pm daily at McLeans Island Road. Phone 021-881279 or email admin@nta.co.nz.

Busy Bumbles Busy Bumbles is a top quality before-andafter-school-care and holiday programme provider. It is not only winner of best new programme in New Zealand 2011, but also the most outstanding programme 2012. It currently has four venues in Selwyn and 10 programmes. Busy Bumbles’ educators are all highly qualified and very passionate about what they do. Visit www.busybumbles.co.nz for more information or phone 03-347-3031.

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■ ASB holiday fun football Immerse your child in football fun these holidays. Programmes run at various venues and cater for 5 to 14-year-olds. Girls only sessions also. Single days or multiple days available. Visit www.mainlandfootball.co.nz for details.

■ Patricia Paul School of Dance

Registrations are now open for the January 2013 summer workshop. Phone 03-372-9191 for information and enrolments.

■ Technotutorz

Technotutorz provide tuition in robotics, electronics and programming. Full day, after school and school holiday workshops. Check out www.technotutorz.co.nz for details.

■ The Antarctic Centre

From frozen tents to penguins, children love the Junior Antarctican summer holiday programmes. The programmes are designed for 6 to 12-yearolds, and run over one or three days. Phone 03-357-0519 or email edu@iceberg.co.nz.

■ Living Springs Surf Camp A great live-in camp from 16-21 December with professional instruction for ages 13 to 16-years. Phone 03-329-9788 or visit www.livingsprings.co.nz.

■ Not in Mum’s Kitchen cooking school for children Enrolments for holiday and after school cooking programmes are now open. Email info@notinmumskitchen.co.nz or phone 021525-072 for more information. Complied by Karen Theobald

Entertainment

Summer holidays are always the best, with lots of time to enjoy the excellent activities on offer in Christchurch. Here are a few to get you started! › Pleasant Point Museum and Railway

Take a step back in time, explore the museum and ride the trains. Phone 03-614-8323 or visit www.pleasantpointrail.org.nz for our special Christmas event days.

› Canterbury Museum

Housed in an exquisite historic building, Canterbury Museum is world-renowned for its natural and human history collections. Visit www. canterburymuseum.com or phone 03-366-5000.

› Black Cat CruisesAkaroa and Lyttelton

Swim with dolphins or jump on a two-hour harbour and nature cruise in Akaroa. Pack a picnic for a day of adventure on Quail Island. Phone 0800-436-574 or visit www.blackcat. co.nz for more information.

› Orana Wildlife Park

Experience unique animal encounters only 15 minutes from Christchurch Airport. Hand feed giraffe, view rhino and see the mighty lions. Open 10am-5pm. Visit www.oranawildlifepark.co.nz.

› The Plains Railway

Steam trains, tractors and much more on-site at Maronan Road, Tinwald, Ashburton. Open October to May. Visit www.plainsrailway.co.nz or phone 03- 308- 9600 for more information.

Aimee Planner and Hannah Norton try out their new costumes for Santa’s Grotto at Ashgrove School.

Clip ‘N Climb Clip ‘N Climb offers healthy, challenging fun for everyone aged two to 92. It has some awesome new climbs: come and try the new “twister” or test your nerve on the “vertical drop slide!” For exciting holiday fun in Christchurch, Clip ‘N Climb is the place to go. It also caters for birthday parties, and is open seven days during the school holidays. Bookings are essential. Visit www. clipnclimb.co.nz for more information or phone 03-377-3000.

Snow White and the Seven Dwarves A child envied by her stepmother, neglected by her father, sheltered by the little people, betrayed by a talking mirror and awoken by love... Snow White in the wild forest and the magical mysterious adventure that led her to the dwarves and into the path of a prince who would wake her and make her a queen! IMAGINE Youth Theatre playing at NASDA Theatre, CPIT, 17-26 January. Bookings 03365-5227.

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› Dudley Park Aquatic Centre

“It was an awesome day. A cheap way to entertain the kids for the day while I relaxed and hung out in the sun with family and friends”

Dudley Park Aquatic Centre offers indoor heated pools for recreational swimming, a spa pool, WaiSwim swimming lessons and aquarobics. Phone 03-311-8905 for more information.

› Castle Park

Family fun just outside Christchurch. Try the confidence course, paintball, laser tag, climbing wall, carousel and family restaurant. Open seven days. For more information visit www. castlepark.net.

› Timezone Games

Rediscover Family Games time, the joy of competition and playing together. Awesome prizes to be won and serious fun at Timezone Westfield Riccarton. Search www.timezonegames.co.nz.

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› Rock climbing for kids at The Roxx

You’ve tried Clip’N Climb, now climb on the Roxx side! Further challenge you kids at the Roxx with a variety of climbs on indoor walls. Kids must be 13-years-old to belay or an adult can be taught to assist younger children. Phone 03-377-3000 or visit www.theroxx.co.nz for more information.

› Christchurch City Libraries

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Christchurch City Libraries are the place to escape, to discover, to explore and connect. Your local library offers more than books there is also access to DVDs, newspapers, computers, CDs, magazines and even gaming consoles. For more information visit www. christchurchcitylibraries.com or phone 03941-7923.

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› HOYTS Riccarton

Friday 4 January - richmond Park racecourse saturday 5 January - Omoto racecourse sunday 6 January - richmond Park racecourse

sunday 27 January - motukarara racecourse saturday 2 February - Orari racecourse Wednesday 6 February - rangiora racecourse

40 events nationwide from 26 Dec - 9 Feb For more information visit:

Direct from London, Canterbury Museum is New Zealand’s only venue for the internationally-acclaimed touring exhibition Scott’s Last Expedition. Photo: H. Ponting, Pennell Collection, Canterbury Museum.

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rewards. Free ticket on sign up: join for only $7.50 with student ID.

› Kiwi Ranger

Kiwi Ranger is a fun way for families to explore New Zealand’s special places. Pick up a booklet and do the activities to earn your Kiwi Ranger badge, all summer long at a variety of locations and national parks. Visit www.doc.govt.nz/ kiwiranger or kiwiranger.org.nz for details.

› PHATSK8 Roller Discos Hit the roller disco at Prebbleton, Rolleston and Kaiapoi these holidays. Great value at $8 each including skates. Phone 03-349-9924 or www.phatsk8.co.nz to book.

› Holiday fun at the Air Force Museum

Have Christmas fun at the Museum this December or join us for ‘Space Rescue’ in January. Phone 03-343-9504, email programmes@airforcemuseum.co.nz or visit www.airforcemuseum.co.nz.

 Holiday specials The Three Little Pigs

Three pigs. One wolf. Big trouble! Enjoy The Three Little Pigs at The Court Theatre in Addington from 16-26 January, tickets $9. Bookings 03-963-0870 or online at www.courttheatre.org.nz.

Interislander Summer Festival Races

Free entry and family on-course activities at the Summer Festival Races, venues around Canterbury. Visit www.the races.co.nz/ summer-festival for details.

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Scott’s Last Expedition Direct from London, Canterbury Museum is excited to be New Zealand’s only venue for the internationally-acclaimed touring exhibition Scott’s Last Expedition, 23 November 2012 – 30 June 2013. One hundred years after its tragic end, Scott’s last expedition to the Antarctic still resonates as a fantastic tale of endeavour and courage. When Scott embarked on the former whaling ship Terra Nova during his second journey to explore the Antarctic in 1910, he could not have predicted it would be his last. Tragically, he and four of his comrades died on their return from the South Pole two years later. Developed in association with the Natural History Museum, London, and the Antarctic

Heritage Trust, the exhibition Scott’s Last Expedition uncovers Scott the man, the team he brought with him to Antarctica and the details of the fascinating Terra Nova expedition. Visitors will be able to explore this historic and emotional journey from every angle through engaging experiences. Scott’s Last Expedition reunites real artefacts used by Scott and his team with the rare scientific specimens they collected during the 1910-1913 expedition, for the first time since their epic journey in Antarctica. The exhibition opens to the public at Canterbury Museum on Friday 23 November 2012. For more information visit www.canterburymuseum.com.

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support services

Keeping kids’ safe in the sun

Help is @ hand Sometimes you need some information or an answer to a curly question. Why not pick up the phone and call the relative support agency? You’ll find professional caring people ready to assist you.

Pregnancy Counselling Services Pregnancy Counselling Services can give reassurance, information, advice, advocacy, referral and practical help at this crucial time in a woman’s life. Counsellors help clients to find their own acceptable long-term solutions to problems such as accommodation, lack of material resources, continuing education, and the stress arising from pressure from family, friends, colleagues and workplace. In coming to their decisions, clients consider the advantages and disadvantages of parenting a child, adoption and abortion. Pregnancy Counselling Services provides: • Non-judgmental, client-focused listening. • Provision of baby clothes and equipment. • Counselling for women disturbed by past abortions or miscarriages.

Christchurch Resettlement Services Free social services for people from refugee and migrant backgrounds. Interpreters are provided. Phone: 03-335 0311

Now summer is here it is important to take special care with young children to keep them safe in the sun.

unburn can be painful for anyone, but children are just a bit more vulnerable and can burn quickly in the sun. Sunburn and overexposure to damaging UV light can also lead to long term skin damage and a higher risk of skin cancer later in life. A few minutes of gentle sunlight is good for growing children - it helps them produce vitamin D, which plays an important role in maintaining healthy bones and organs. Gentle sunlight is the light during the early morning and later afternoon through the summer months.

How to protect your child from sunburn: Make sure they always wear a hat when they’re outside. Choose a hat that keeps the sun off their face, neck and ears. Keep them protected with clothes that cover their arms, legs and body. Dress them in loose fitting, long-sleeved clothing or clothing/swimwear made from a fabric that has a special sun-protection factor (SPF). Restrict the amount of time they spend in direct sunlight. The hours between 10am and 4pm are the most dangerous. Encouraging children to play in the shade and keep the pram or stroller in the shade as much as possible. Use a UV protected sun shade or umbrella to cover prams and buggies - make sure it doesn’t get too hot inside.

Sunscreen: An SPF30+, broad spectrum sunscreen will give you and your child maximum protection. Your pharmacist can give advice about the best sunscreen. Apply sunscreen thinly to all parts of the body not covered by clothing – and bits that might become exposed as your child plays and moves around, for example the small of the back. Apply sunscreen 15 minutes before going outside and re-apply every two hours, especially after swimming. Follow the instructions on the container to reapply it. Test a small amount on the skin to avoid reactions and talk to your pharmacist if your child does show any signs of allergy. Sunscreens do have an expiry date, so check before using. Be cautious about using sunscreen on babies under one-year-old. Children learn by watching: seeing you wearing a hat outside, covering up with suitable clothing and wearing sunscreen is setting them up with good habits for a sun-safe, fun safe life! For more information about being sun smart talk to your Plunket nurse. Call PlunketLine on 0800-933-922 or visit the Cancer Society website, cancernz.org.nz.

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ost children steal at some point, whether it is sweets, a pen or money that you have left lying around. What is important is how we as parents deal with the situation and nip-it-inthe bud before it gets out of hand and leads to serious trouble later in life. My husband and I are raising my granddaughter, aged seven. She once took a pen from a stationery store, and I didn’t notice it until we got back to the car. I questioned her about where she had gotten it from. We had only been to two stores so I knew which one it was but I wanted her to own up to what she had done. She didn’t. Not saying a word, I marched her back to the store. We approached the counter, and I asked the woman if the pen was one of theirs. She informed me that it was. I told her that my grandchild had taken it and that I had brought her back to return it and to apologise. My granddaughter tried to hide behind my back because she knew what she had done was wrong. I told her that we wouldn’t be leaving until she had apologised. The tears flowed, but after awhile she apologised, and the young woman shop-assistant thanked us for our honesty. I explained to my granddaughter that what she had done was to take something that didn’t belong to her and it was not acceptable. Later on, our granddaughter started bringing items home from school, so I asked her where they came from and why she had them. She told me that she was given them by another child or that she had won them for being good in a particular subject. One day she brought a soft toy home and told me she had won it. The next morning while I was making her bed, I decided to check the newly acquired soft toy. It was obviously well-loved as it was rather dirty, so I spoke to

her about it and told her to take back to school everything that didn’t belong to her. I then turned it around by asking how she would feel if one of her soft toys was taken. She was very upset about the prospect and returned all the acquired items to their rightful owners. I have a friend who owns a book store where they have sweets on a low shelf in front of the counter, which of course is very tempting for children. She was telling me of the number of children that come in with their parents, pick up a sweet, and take a bite out of it. Rather than taking the sweet away and throwing it in the bin, some parents just pay for it and then allow the child to continue eating! Lesson learned - it’s okay to steal. Teenagers are a different issue. Many teenagers - especially girls - are under a lot of peer pressure. They want to look the same, dress the same and have the desirable gadgets, but many parents simply can’t afford to purchase designer label clothing and up-tothe-minute electronic items. Hence, teenagers

may resort to stealing money so they can get the things they see as important. If you notice that your teenager has new clothes or new gadgets, and you haven’t purchased them, ask questions. By Sally Kabak Sally Kabak is the author of Raising Grandchildren. Visit www.raisinggrandchildren.net.nz for more information and to view her blog.

How to handle stealing ● Firstly, it’s important to explain (in age appropriate language) that stealing is wrong. Then explain to little ones that stealing hurts other people. ● Deal with it immediately, and don’t be afraid to ask tough questions. ● Make an appointment with a youth officer at your nearest community police station. Take your child along and let the youth officer explain the consequences of stealing. ● With young children, take something away from them that they love for a period of time. Ignore the tears

that may flow: you are teaching them a lesson that hopefully they will remember. ● Ground older children. Remove their cell phones and other electronic equipment for a period of time. ● If you notice that money is missing from your purse, explain that it is yours - not theirs for the taking. Tell them that you will take a dollar a week from their allowance until the amount is paid off. ● Teach your child that honesty is the best policy.

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Kiwi kids are sporty kids Having listened to 17,000 school children aged five to 18, the Sport NZ Young People’s Survey confirms what many of us already knew: Kiwi kids are sporty kids.

ine out of 10 young people say they like playing sport, and on average, they participate in three to five sport and recreation activities in any given week. The Young People’s Survey is the most significant piece of research into young New Zealanders’ participation in sport and recreation in more than 10 years. The scale of the survey allows us to explore, for the first time, how sport and recreation fit into the lives of young people of different ages and backgrounds. It provides a voice for young New Zealanders, and gives them an opportunity to talk about their sporting lives. Sport NZ chief executive Peter Miskimmin says the results are encouraging. “Sport has always been part of the social fabric of this country and so it’s encouraging that our kids are still really into it, given all the other options they have these days. It’s something we want to ensure continues.” The results tell us many positive things. The majority of young people like playing sport a lot. Almost all young people engage in some sport or active recreation and most young people spend three or more hours a week on sport and recreation when we combine the time spent participating in formal and informal settings. It is important to note however, that young people’s sport and recreation activities and

preferences are many and varied. The Young People’s Survey shows that participation rates, the number of activities and the time spent playing sport increases from five years old onwards, peaking for the 11 to 14-year-old age group. Participation rates of 15 to 18-year-olds drop across almost all aspects measured, particularly among girls. Girls in this age group are less likely to report they “like playing a sport a lot”, participate in fewer sports events than the younger age groups and are less likely to play sport as part of a club or school team. Many of our well-established and team sports – athletics, rugby, netball, athletics and football – feature in young New Zealanders’ lives and on their “want to do” lists. Boys are more likely to retain their involvement in team sports as they get older, while girls tend to move into more individual activities such as dance, swimming, running and jogging. In terms of the settings within which our young people are participating, it is clear that schools are central to sport and recreation provision for many young people. Clubs also play an important role. In addition, active recreation and sport played in informal settings are also are a key part of young New Zealanders sporting lives, as is good old fashioned “mucking around.” Mucking around within the context of this survey was defined as doing sport and active things with friends, family and on their own. For almost all sports/activities, participation rates are highest in this context. Ensuring our young people continue to love and engage in sport and recreation is therefore the responsibility of us all. Schools, clubs and

community groups will continue to be important providers of more formal sporting opportunities and facilities; however the report also identifies the need to ensure we continue to provide sport outside the traditional structures as informal sport and playful activities. There is no doubt that parents and families are key influencers on the provision of both formal and informal sporting environments. We know that team sports for kids would not happen without the active and committed involvement of parents as organisers, coaches, officials and transporters. Equally, parents will continue to play a vital role in ensuring our kids have the confidence and competence to enjoy and engage in sport and recreation on their own terms, and in their own time and space. A full copy of the survey can be found on the Sport NZ website www.sportnz.org.nz. By Roger Wood, Sport New Zealand

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Four seasons in one day Arthur’s Pass National Park is rugged and mountainous, with weather that can change rapidly with little warning. Be prepared for all conditions – extreme heat and wet and cold. Take hats and sunscreen, raincoats and warm layers. Check at the Arthur’s Pass National Park Visitor Centre for up-to-date information on weather and track conditions.

Small biting things Wasps –beech forests with honeydew can be particularly popular for wasps in summer, so take antihistamine creams and tablets and be aware of any allergies in your group. Sand flies/ namu namu – an annoying presence in Arthur’s Pass - are easily managed with insect repellent or by covering up with light long-sleeved shirts and pants in the evenings. St John’s Wort cooling gel is very soothing on bites.

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