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reetings of a lovely New Year to all our readers!

May this year be a fulfilling one, professionally and personally…And may it also spice up your life with more style and classiness! The ‘Pashmina Edition’ has been a blend of capturing the origin of the Pashmina wool (Right from Ladhaki Goats) to the pashmina weaving in the Kashmir Valley to finally the end of the supply chain till direct Pashmina connoisseurs! The stories beautifully capture the essence of pashmina and its blend and utility in the modern day world.

Your love for Pashmina would simply multiply to read the amazingness of this unique art of India. Some do choose to differ when it comes to the high cost and limited understanding of the real value of Pashmina, but this is how it is!

The concept of the Pashmina cover shoot involved careful planning by the styling team- attempting to portray it as a more wearable and fashionable fabric for the fashion world to use-more often and freely! The handling of this fabric is elusive and hence the challenges faced in its creation and production. Attention of great fashion designers of all times in India and worldwide can save Pashmina’s integrity and value, also, of the weavers’ next generations are loosing interest in weaving and preserving this art.

Hope you enjoy reading! Have a lovely year ahead…

Dr. Neha Miglani | Chief Consulting Editor, TLJ

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Scarf up your winters!

Warm up the weather a bit by experimenting in infinite ways with the peppiest, chic and fashionable scarf trends!

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P-12 PLUS SIZE WOMEN: DRESSING TECHNIQUES AND FASHION TIPS Style tips for plus size women can cover anything from wearing the right underwear to mixing it up with accessories.

P-18 Bloom with fragrance all day!

Who doesn’t love to smell good all the time?

Mostly the perfumes we wear tend to disappear within a few hours of application.

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The guilt-free Munches

Life is incomplete without food but weight comes in the way of our food-y dreams. We give you some healthy options for snacking times.

P-24 Pack Your bags and begin the year with a glamour camp

Presidential suites and private pool villas are pass, the newest trend in travel this new year is Glamping. Broken down, Glamping is the portmanteau of glamor camping.

P-38 The Fable of Pashmina Goat

An insight into the supply chain of Pashmina from Ladakh to Kashmir to the final customer.

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P-64 The Birthday Queen

Such is the charm and aura of this pretty lady that even M.F. Hussain hailed her for being “blessed with an earthiness” that makes her all the more enchanting and depicted a desire to paint her beauty through his art. Yes, it’s the free-spirited and unconventional Vidya Balan, who has just turned older (or perhaps younger!) on the 1st January-her birthday!!

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What is the most important element of BAND, BAAJA and BARAAT? Well it is the clothes! With Gotapatti raining this season, we introduce you to some of the latest Gota Patti trends.

P-78 Taz- The Pop King

Credited with being the pioneer of cross-cultural Asian fusion music, Tarsame Singh Saini aka Taz is the lead singer of the pop band, Stereo Nation which was formed in 1996 …. In a rapid fire questions round, Munish Puri talks to Taz about his passion for music and more…

P-80 Why adopting a dog is better?

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Scarf up your winters!

Warm up the weather a bit by experimenting in infinite ways with the peppiest, chic and fashionable scarf trends!

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inters are finally here!

Along with upcoming foggy nights we also have to sport thick jackets, woollens and granny caps.

While we get all decked up and packed for winters, one thing we tend to miss out on is fashion! Many a time, specifically in winters we get so busy in layering ourselves with clothes that we forget to look fashionable!

Just a bit of touch here and there can transform you. From floral sweaters to trench coats to high boots to trendy scarves, there are many ways to sail through winters with grace and elegance. One of the easiest, least expensive and less time consuming idea is to wear scarves. Here are a few scarf trends you can sport this season to give yourself a new look: 1. Bow knots Tying up your scarf in the shape of a delicate bow not only gives a pop but also an extra dimension to your entire look. Whether it is a side bow or one in the centre, two bows or just one, woolen scarf or silk ones, bow knot scarves will make you ready to face the world in just a few minutes.

2. Checkered Colored checks give a back to college- rugged yet easy fashion look. Get a checkered scarf and sport it with the good old leather jacket. You can also wear it as a poncho!

3. Infinity Wearing infinity scarves is the easiest! You don’t need to know ways to tie it up, just two rounds and boom, it is done! Infinity scarves are perfect for those spontaneous plans when you just got to get up and rush. Get your hands on huge knitted scarves or the printed ones or even fringed infinity scarves.

4. No more dark tones Say bye- bye to darker tones like blacks and browns. These winters are all about vibrant, energetic and strong colors. From tones

of Sharkskin color to shades of red to tones of purple-pinks to sensuous cedar or be it warm mustard to earthy clay to metallic to soothing blue or elegant greens, there is no end to your creative palette.

5. Furry looks We have seen a lot of furs or furry look on the runways. Whether it is hanging the scarf around your neck or wearing it as a vest with belt, these will keep you warm yet trendy for the chilly days!

6. Chunkiest knits Have you seen those large knitted blankets trending nowadays? The ones which have huge knits and are super comfortable? Well, their shorter forms have been trending as scarves. It is more like carrying a portable blanket along, one in which you can cuddle anytime.

7. Neckerchiefs The thin scarves with beautiful colors and unimaginable prints look peppy. These are generally worn as a neckerchief and look classy with edgy dresses for a night out!

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Mandawa a Rural

Paradise for

Bollywood

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Although the town attracts many foreign tourists as well as filmmakers throughout the year, it still retains its originality and has not felt the impact of commercialism as yet. The charm is alive in its nature, writes Manvi Dewan.

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ver the years, we have witnessed Rajasthan as Bollywood’s favourite shooting destination. Be it the pristine palaces of Udaipur or the stimulating sand dunes of Jaisalmer, the beauty and essence of the state has been showcased on big screen very often. But what is it about Mandawa, a small town in Jhunjhunu district of Rajasthan, which attracts numerous Bollywood stars and makes it a preferred choice for their films? Manvi Dewan sheds light...

A 260 KM ride from New Delhi is not that exciting a journey but as soon as you reach this quaint little town, you land in awe of its culture and hospitality. It is Mandawa’s rural appeal, magnificent heritage, forts embellished with colourful wall paintings and most importantly low production costs that attract filmmakers.

On strolling through the sprawling lawns of Castle Mandawa (a popular heritage hotel), one gets flashes of the peppy dance number ‘Cutie pie’ from the recent film “Ae Dil Hai Mushkil”, where actors Fawad Khan and Ranbir Kapoor danced with Anushka Sharma.

While Mandawa was portrayed as Lucknow in Ae Dil Hai Mushkil, Kabir Khan’s Bajrangi Bhaijan depicted the town as Pakistan. Mirziya, PK, Jab We Met, Paheli, Shudh Desi Romance, Dolly Ki Doli, Manorma Six Feet Under, Kachhe Dhaage are among many films that were shot in this part of the country. In the upcoming ArjunShraddha starrer “Half Girlfriend”, parts of Mandawa would once again be highlighted on the silver screen.

Where obsession for film stars persists in every nook and corner of the country, Mandawa is one of those few places where local people are not star-struck. Hence the filmmakers can concentrate better on their work.

Although the town attracts many foreign tourists as well as filmmakers throughout the year, it still retains its originality and has not felt the impact of commercialism as yet. The charm is alive in its nature.

As the sun sets, tunes of Rajasthan’s folk music and slight chill in the air make you forget the stress of the big cities. The serene environs will definitely propel you to think about extending your trip. The big and small hotel cum havelis in Mandawa serve the local delicacies ranging from Gatte Ki Sabzi, Sangri Ki Sabzi, pickle and the famous Lal Maas. It is not uncommon that while enjoying a camel cart ride, the camel man invites you to his place to experience the desi flavours of the town, thereby, making you witness the region’s hospitality which is unmatchable.

Since no trip is complete without shopping, one can explore some traditional items in the local market. The market in Mandawa is not very flashy or extravagant as it is in other cities of Rajasthan but you will find many shops that offer vibrant Lac Bangles, handmade Jutti’s and wall fabric paintings.

So if you are fascinated by village culture, old havelis, folk music and calm surroundings, Mandawa is the place for you.

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PLUS SIZE WOMEN: DRESSING TECHNIQUES AND FASHION TIPS Style tips for plus size women can cover anything from wearing the right underwear to mixing it up with accessories. Sudeeksha Dewan suggests that like dressing for any body shape, it is all about emphasizing your assets to make you feel your best.

DRESS FOR YOUR BODY SHAPE One of the most important style tips for plus size women is to know your body shape. If you are a rectangular shape, you may want to create shape with your clothes.

If you have an hourglass figure, then you want to show this off. Pear shapes might want to stick to separates and choose clothes that balance out their silhouette.

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KNOW WHAT WORKS FOR YOU This style tip is for everyone, not just plus size women, and that is to know what works for you. Just because something’s ontrend doesn’t mean that it will always be flattering.

Trust me, if you know what suits you, half of the game is over ladies.

EMPHASIZE YOUR ASSETS Have you got a favourite part of your body that you want to show off?

It may be your toned legs or killer curves.

Pinpoint exactly what it is that you’re proud of and want to emphasize.

For example if you have a great height and toned legs you can always go for shorts.

And if you have got those sexy curves, wear a nice knee length dress with a great fit and flaunt those curves.

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WORK WITH COLOUR Black is great, but make sure you add a pop of color into every outfit. Color will cheer you up and make you stand out.

Colour can not only cheer you up, but it has the ability to draw attention to certain areas. If you want to emphasize your neckline, go for a colourful statement necklace. And if you want to emphasize your waist, choose a colourful top or waist belt.

Well this style tip for plus size women is about making the most of colour by wearing it on the areas that you want to accentuate.

DON’T UNDERESTIMATE YOUR UNDERGARMENTS Make sure you are wearing the right underwear, it can make all the difference in showing off your clothes. It’s all about getting the right foundations.

Undergarments are so important for women with curves. Do not skimp on them. Invest in a highquality, supportive bra that will do your girls justice.

Also, a smoother bra will make any outfit look better. . If you choose well-fitting bras and underwear your clothes will sit better, and you’ll feel much more comfortable and confident.

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SAY YES TO LINGERIE Say yes to lingerie. You will love yourself in it. Just because you’re full size doesn’t mean you shouldn’t wear lace and satin. Sexiness is found in all sizes, so slip into bed with a nighty, not a tee shirt.

FOCUS ON GREAT FIT One of the best ways to look slimmer is to wear great fitting clothes. So avoid tented, oversized tops and pants that only make you look heavier, and stick to clothing that sits snugly on your body, but not too tight to avoid creating bulges that would attract attention to problem areas.

It should be neither loose nor tight, and it is preferred to keep the thinnest part of your waist trim with for example empire line, nipped waist cut or belt.

Other ways to finding great fitting women’s plus size clothing are: l Always know your current body measurements that you can compare to size charts. l Stick to right above or knee length hemlines

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GET CREATIVE AND SPLURGE ON ACCESSORIES Accessorize, accessorize, accessorize! Accessories make an outfit, so make sure you splurge on them.

Jewelry, scarves, purses and -- my favorite -- shoes!

Unlike clothes, accessories are much more versatile and user friendly than clothing. They can also be much more hassle-free than buying clothes.

Don’t just splurge on accessories, get creative with them.

Update an outfit with a printed scarf or layer on multiple necklaces for this season’s hottest look.

NEW HAIR –NEW YOU A woman’s hair is her glory, so make sure you take care of it. Choose a look that compliments your bone structure. Play with color, curls and ponytails. Remember ladies, a new hair style can be a great pick me up.

WEAR THE RIGHT MAKEUP Your face is the first thing people notice; at least it will be if you wear the right makeup! After a certain age makeup shouldn’t be optional.

You do not have to have a full face on daily, but do put on a mascara and a lip gloss.

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Bloom with

fragrance all day!

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Who doesn’t love to smell good all the time? Mostly the perfumes we wear tend to disappear within a few hours of application. Titiksha Jain gives you some tips to make the perfume last longer.

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ack in the college days or even at the workplace, we will find one such person who always smells good no matter what the weather is like.

Be it rainy July or freezing December or sticky June, the person would know how to bloom with fragrance all day long. We all have had that moment when we cannot help but wonder how on earth one can smell so pristine without fail. Well, here are some really easy tricks which can help you achieve your goal: 1. Applying on the magic spots – There are certain spots on the

body which are warmer and thus the aroma of a perfume applied on these specific spots is automatically enhanced. These spots are behind the ears, inside the elbows, on the collarbones, hands, on the ankles, behind your knees and on the belly button (especially if you plan to wear a tummy baring outfit). It is easier for the scent to settle in on these areas and it lasts longer than usual.

2. Forget Rubbing! – One place where we go wrong is when we rub the

than fruity citrusy notes. Make sure that you choose one scent for your whole range of toiletries. This way contrasting scents would not make a mess. You can mix and match as well but make sure that the scents actually go together. A variety of flower fragrance won’t smell good together but a mild mixture of citrus will smell good.

4. Bye-bye to smelly hair – Many people forget that the smell of dirty hair is as noticeable as that of a freshly washed hair. But it is not easy to take a head bath all the time nor is it advised. Since, scents stick to fibres, it is best to dampen your hair and then spray your beloved scent on your comb and just gently brush your hair. Do not overdo it!

5. Hydrated skin – A well hydrated and moisturized skin helps to keep fragrances with them for a longer duration. Apart from drinking lot of water, do not forget to moisturize daily.

6. Layering is the secret – Just like we apply makeup on our face, similar is the case with the body. Whether it is body wash or body lotion or body sprays or deodorants or perfumes, each one helps to form a layer. When you use different products of similar scents it actually helps to lock the fragrance.

perfume. There is no rule behind rubbing but it surely lessens the lingering life of perfume.

7. Re-apply- No matter how many tricks you use, you need to carry a small bottle or testers for re-applying when the perfume wears off.

3. Opt for complimentary fragrance family – There are certain scents which stay longer than others.

Sensual notes like woody, ambers and musks linger on for a longer time

8. Never over do – While everyone wants to smell good, would nobody want to be a sneezing zone. It is important to choose your fragrance wisely and not go over the top with it.

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Health

The guiltfree Munches Life is incomplete without food but weight comes in the way of our foody dreams. We give you some healthy options for snacking times.

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ne common wish, all the food fanatics have is to have the freedom to eat all those lip smacking delicacies without the stress of illness or weight gain.

Our generation is obsessed having the perfect everything, be it career, house, family or physical appearance. Instead of having a people pleasing body it is more important to have a fit and healthy body. Satisfy those uncontrollable irregular hunger pangs with these perfectly nutritious snacking alternatives.

Sweet Potato

Well sweet potatoes are fairly popular in India, specially during winters when we can see numerous street vendors selling roasted ‘shakarkandi’. Little do realise that sweet potato is a power food rich in potassium, vitamin C, vitamin B1, B6 and B2, phosphorus, copper and dietary fiber. You can roast them, boil them, put them in a cake or pies and even (air) fry them to make crispy sweet chips.

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Sprouts

Well sweet potatoes are fairly popular in India, specially during winters when we can see numerous street vendors selling roasted ‘shakarkandi’. Little do realise that sweet potato is a power food rich in potassium, vitamin C, vitamin B1, B6 and B2, phosphorus, copper and dietary fiber. You can roast them, boil them, put them in a cake or pies and even (air) fry them to make crispy sweet chips.

The good old homemade yogurt is full of calcium, potassium, magnesium, vitamins, minerals and a friendly bacteria called probiotics. You can have yogurt in countless ways - topped with fresh fruits, making a parfait or blend it with some fruits to make a smoothie.

Yogurt

Hummus You can get packets of mixed berries and nuts but you can also make these at home.

Mixed Just toss in some of the dried berries berries such as & cranberries, nuts blueberries, strawberry or any other berry along with some almonds, cashews and walnuts. Nibble on the tangy berries and crunchy nuts.

This Lebanese sip made up of chickpeas, tahini, oil olive, garlic and lemon. Chickpeas are a form of legume protein rich in fiber, vitamins and minerals.

They also help in blood digestion and keeping the sugar levels at bay.

Dip in your favourite vegetables and enjoy a healthy snack!

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Fox nuts

Many people do not know about this power not-sonut nut! These are basically lotus flower’s seeds.

Fox nuts are rich in anti oxidants, fiber, calcium, sodium and potassium.

‘Makhane’ as they are commonly called are good for kidney, diabetes, infertility, heart and blood pressure. They are the best alternative to popcorn with equal addictive properties.

Representing America, peanut butter and jelly sandwiches are a weakness of every America.

Peanut butter is has potassium, proteins, Peanut fiber, healthy fats and also reduces the risk butter & of heart diseases and blood pressure. Just jelly try to substitute jelly with cooked fruit pulp sandwiches and white bread with multi grain bread or wheat chapati.

Kale chips While kale is not easily available in India, kale chips packs are available in the market and online. Kale is good for the eyes, heart and weight loss.

Of course it is best to buy the fresh leaves but chips also provide a good amount of nutrition.

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What are the activities one can indulge in during the holiday season to rejuvenate the relationship?

Holiday season is a great time to catch up on quality time in any relationship. It’s time to explore new destinations, going out to eat together or simply going out for a walk together. The point is to spend time to talk, to understand and to catch up on each other’s growth. It’s very essential for every relationship to keep working and keep evolving with time.

How to deal with an abusive relationship?

One should not deal with an abusive relationship. Try counselling if both parties are willing or else simply move out of an abusive relationship. Life is too short to waste time in staying in an abusive relationship.

relationship. It’s important to have direct and meaningful communication with your partner. If one gets suspicious, then it’s time for both the partners to sit with each other to have an honest conversation.

There should be sometime set for both of them to say things honestly without judging the other person. Suspicion is a direct result of breakdown of positive communication. Fix the communication and it will disappear.

Suspicion can often weigh down heavily upon a healthy relationship.

How to deal with that?

Suspicion is like a termite for any healthy

How important is a good conversation in a relationship?

Conversation is probably the most important pillar in any relationship.

But unfortunately conversation if used with negative connotations can also break a relationship.

Be careful not to use conversations for giving negative remarks or for nagging your mate. Conversations should be light, meaningful and fun. Make each other laugh, share funny jokes and videos together. If you want to have a serious discussion then fix a proper time for that discussion. Keep away from giving negative comments and nagging.

Disinterestedness is often the cause of a lot of trouble in relationships.

What are the ways to avoid it?

It’s easy to take your loved ones for granted and that’s why one gets disinterested. Autopilot modes may be good for the cars but can wreck havoc in a relationship. Make time for each other. Keep discovering each other. Go out together, join a hobby class together, buy small gifts for each other. Keep the surprise element alive and you will see your relationship never getting old.

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Pack Your

Bags and Begin the year with

a Glamour Camp

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Glamping is the portmanteau of glamor camping.

It is about experiencing the bounties of nature without compromising on luxury

Presidential suites and private pool villas are passe, the newest trend in travel this new year is Glamping. Broken down, Glamping is the portmanteau of glamor camping. It is about experiencing the bounties of nature without compromising on luxury. Normal camping always entailed pitching tents, sleeping bags, bonfires to cook your own meals. While that holds its own charm, there are travelers today who wish to enjoy the wilderness without roughing it out. Glamping properties are blissfully indulgent. The sole objective of this concept is the complete comfort of the guests while they experience the nature or culture of the destination. India is not behind on this trend. There are some great glamping properties scattered at travel worthy locales around the country. Here are the best glamps for you to consider in west, south, east and north India.

The Serai – Jaisalmer, Rajasthan Feel royal among the sand dunes of Thar desert at The Serai. Sitting on a 100-acre private estate of indigenous desert scrub, this luxurious camp draws its inspiration from the royal caravan sites of Rajputana. With 21 large canvas tents built on a base of Jaisalmer stone, this property spells luxury in capital letters. Each tent is over a thousand square feet in size and has an exterior relaxing area, covered sitting room, a spacious bedroom, and en suite bathroom. Private gardens, sunken heated pools, lounges and a world class spa are some other amenities this joint offers. The Serai offers a myriad of desert experiences including safaris, night drives in the sand dunes and day trip to explore Jaisalmer. But nothing can match the exotic experience of being lulled into a dreamlike trance by legendary Manganiyars musicians under the blanket of stars.

The Serai lies 60 km ahead of Jaisalmer and is a 3-hour drive from Jodhpur. Tented Suites are for INR 40,000 per night, double occupancy with breakfast.

on a plantation of coffee, areca nut, and pepper, Grassroot has elevated, luxury Swiss tents with balconies for you to enjoy the majestic view of the tea gardens surrounding the property.

Thanks to a kaleidoscope of events, like treks to the nearby ranges, jungle safaris and day trip to ethnic villages organized by the in-house service team, this glamp will appeal to the naturalist in you. The highlight at Grassroots is the food.

Meals cooked with fresh vegetables and locally sourced ingredients are a real treat…with the chef taking extra care to include guest preferences.

Grassroots is a 3-hour drive from Kozhikode, Kerela. Luxury tents are for INR 5,000 per night, double occupancy with breakfast.

About the Author Neharika Bhutani specializes in creating tailor-made trips that fit every budget and preference.

Get in touch with her on www.pyb.co.in.

Grassroots – Wayanad, Kerela Down south, amidst the Western Ghats lies the district of Wayanad in the state of Kerela. Here, among the foothills of the Vythiri ranges, lies the luxury getaway, Grassroots. Built January 2017 | www.thelifestylejournalist.com | TheLifestyleJournalist |

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The Ultimate Travelling Camp – Kohima, Nagaland When it comes to glamping in the east, nothing beats what The Ultimate Travelling Camp (TUTC) has to offer in Nagaland. Their Kohima camp is available for the month of November–December to coincide with the Hornbill Festival. For the uninitiated, the Hornbill Festival is 10-day long mélange of the cultural display by the 16 proud tribes of Nagaland. Each day consists of sports meet, food fairs, and performances in elaborate costumes and headdresses of tiger tusks, bear skins, and hornbill feathers. TUTC provides a stay away from the madding crowd on an untouched forested area of 6 acres. The tents

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are designed with colonial inspired furniture and modern amenities like WI-FI and Bose speakers for music. Oh, did we mention, each tent has its own private butler? The glamp also has in-house libraries and complimentary culinary classes to keep you occupied when away from the festival.

If your friends are not jealous of your luxurious stay already, you can push them over the edge with the souvenirs of regional handicrafts from the property’s private boutique.

The TUTC camp is a 40-minute drive from Kohima, the capital of Nagaland. A 2-night stay for a couple in their luxury suite tent will cost INR 2, 00, 000 with all meals and activities included.

Tsermang Eco Camp – Leh, Jammu & Kashmir Camping is synonymous with mountains and mountains of India, are synonymous with the Himalayas. Where better to experience a glamor camp than Leh. The Tsermang Eco Camps in the dry desert of Ladakh offers 8 luxurious tents, each named after a Buddhist monastery in the Indus Valley. The glamp excels in ecologically sustainable tourism with the entire set-up being run on solar electricity. If you have an adventurous streak, this is definitely the spot

to consider. From Kayaking on the Zanskar River, riding Royal Enfields down Khardung La, the highest motorable road in the world to treks in and around the Nubra Valley, the inhouse team arranges it all. Laid back vacationers can try Tibetan massages on consultation with Amchi (traditional doctors), indulge in photography or learn to make yummy momos or thukpas.

Tsermang Eco Camps is an easy 10-minute drive from Leh. Tents on double occupancy are for INR 10,000 with breakfast and dinner.

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Parul Gulati Cheerful and gorgeous, Rohtak born ‘Zoravar’ actress Parul Gulati is a beauty with brains sure to leave you in awe with her indelible charm. In an exclusive conversation with Urvi Sharma, the charming actress, who has recently played a Kashmiri girl in popular Prisoners of War (POW) on Indian television recounts her journey in the entertainment industry so far.

Was acting your childhood dream?

Well, surprisingly No! I was still in high school when I got spotted on a social media platform. It was pure luck then. I believe that God decided to place me here, and show me that this is what my life is going to be. I decided to go to a drama school and study acting. I did lots of workshops to understand this profession to its bits. I realised it back then and it made me love acting, and become so passionate about it that I want to do this all my life. Now I can say it has become my prime dream to do timeless characters in cinema. I want to be remembered for acting and no narrowed down to just looking beautiful, as that’s what usually happens to the actresses in the film industry.

You have attended formal learning in an acting school.

Tell us about your experience

and how has it helped you in your journey?

It is very important in any profession to have training. If you are an engineer, you study engineering. Likewise, if you are a cinematographer; you should study cinematography. The same way I studied my profession and took formal training, which opened my mind to many possibilities that I could look forward to as an actor.

Being in an industry that largely relies on nepotism; the only way one can outshine or land oneself opportunities is by excelling in your craft. Your luck may vary but if you make your craft strong then nothing can stop you from doing the kind of work you want to do.

Tell us about your favourite movie project so far..

It might sound clichéd, but I have enjoyed working on all my movies.

They all are my favourites and are very close to me. However, Burrah

being my first film will always hold a special place in my heart. I was new, fearless and surprisingly enough, I was not nervous.

However, I was definitely nervous for my next projects because they were huge and there was constant pressure and expectations mounted on my shoulders to do well. Zorawar will be my prime favourite because of the team and my character, Jasleen which was very well fleshed out and I believe that was the only film that made me feel the connection to the character.

Has there ever been a low moment in glamour world which made you want to quit it?

I won’t lie, I face my fears every day. Low moments will always be there in every field but quitting is never an option for me. The only way to overcome those low moments is to keep working with the blinders on and keep the faith

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in you. I have realized that in the glamour world, you cannot impress everyone or make everyone happy. You should make yourself happy, be content with what you achieve and aim to get better with every project.

How has your family supported you in your journey?

In one line, their support has been tremendous. I do not know how far I could have gotten without my mother. She is my true inspiration, the one who realized my passion and supported me. It is not an easy field to be in. There are non-stop working hours where we do not have weekends off, and all the hard work one has to put into it completely leave you drained. She has understood that this struggle is important to get on to bigger heights and her support has been amazing.

However little I have been able to make into this journey, it is because of my family’s love and support.

Pashmina is a must-have in every woman’s wardrobe. What kind of pashmina do you own?

I was introduced to it by my Grandmother for the first time when I was quite young. I still remember the teal coloured pashmina scarf that she got for me. I would wear it with almost everything in the winters. I am glad to know you are breaking the monotony and showing the grace of pashmina. I am already in love with these drapes. Who could have thought we could transform pashmina into a lovely gown or a tunic.

(Chuckles) Take a bow, team lifestyle journalist!

Who is Parul Gulati behind the cameras, the one that people do not know of ?

Do not forget I am just a girl, standing in front of you, asking you to just love her (quoting Julia Roberts from Notting Hill). I am filmy and I love good cinema. I can talk about it for hours. I live a simple life in this city of dreams, Mumbai, with my mother who is my biggest strength and she snaps me out when I dream way too much and not work.

I aspire to do more of theatre plays as that is where there are no cuts and no room for mistakes. Apart from that, I love travelling, enjoy driving, I love going out for long drives sometimes just by myself, good music and good reads. That is me behind the cameras.

What are the recent projects you are working upon?

I am working on a TV series at the moment and it happens quite rarely that you are in sync with your whole team but it is very fulfilling as an artist when that happens. It took me about a month’s time to prepare to learn the language and nuances of the character, and it’s been about month that I’m shooting for it. I am eagerly waiting for it to be announced so that I can discuss it in detail. I am very kicked about having been on board for this project.

What advice will you like to give the people who aspire to join the entertainment industry?

I do not want to sound preachy but a formal training does make a lot of difference. If we ape Hollywood we should also match the way they work. You cannot land yourself an audition if you are not a trained actor. Sorry to say but our industry is already full of non actors. But none the less that should not let anyone from stop trying if you feel you have it in you, follow your dreams and keep faith in your abilities.

Any beauty tips for our readers?

Since it is winters, moisturize your skin regularly and keep it hydrated all the time. Have a lot of water. Do not forget to put on sunscreen. In winters, we cannot really see the sun coming out but that does not mean we do not require sunscreen as winter skin is more sensitive to sun than tanned summer skin.

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ashmina, or as Emperor Akbar used to call it, param naram, meaning very soft, is the finest variety of hand spun wool available in the world.

Derived from the Farsi word Pashm, it means wool and has been a wardrobe essential for men and women of the upper strata since the sixteenth century.

Harvested at the onset of summer in the hills of Kashmir, from the Tibetan goat called Changthangi or Pashmina goat; the wool when woven is super soft and feather light.

The Pashmina was made popular

by Emperor Akbar who wore the shawl as a shoulder mantle or a girdle. He was greatly impressed by its superlative fineness and warmth. His courtiers were frequently gifted Pashmina as a token of honour and also holy men for their spiritual accomplishments. Since then the demand for Kashmiri shawls spread to the west with the royal courts of England and France, where they became a symbol of power and wealth.

The French were bewitched by the way they could drape the Pashmina and loved the glorious colours and designs that it adorned.

Early references to the shawl represent it as being a ‘doshala’ or a long fabric that was preferred by men to be draped on their shoulders for longer periods of time, while the square shape was favoured by women. The invisible sewing on the square shaped ’Rumal’, made it a much coveted item on every fashionista’s wish list.

In its raw form, Pashmina wool is a mix of goat hair, dirt and dandruff and involves a long and tedious process of cleaning and combing the hair. Goat fleece is also collected from shrubs and rocks as it gets rubbed off the royal animals as summers approach.

The raw fibre is manually picked and cleaned using damp rice flour to rid it of oil and impurities. It is then set on spinning platforms. It is noteworthy that weaving and spinning require extraordinary skill and females are the ones responsible for this stage of the process. The skill of fine spinning was passed down from mother to daughter, making it an inherited art. The spun, undyed fabric, called Alwan, is then ready to be woven into plain Pashmina.

Kashmiris are expert craftsmen and

In Kashmir, weaving of Pashmina is done in the town of Gandharbal and around the Srinagar belt. Exquisite embroideries are undertaken by natives of towns namely Tailbal ,Buttpura, Narbal and Badgaon.

pashmina trade has hugely profited due to local expertise to become the most famous textile of India. It is hand dyed and embroidered with exquisite designs. Besides being made into shawls, Pashmina is also popularly used for making cravats, caps and cloaks. In the sixteenth and seventeenth centuries, patterns were woven into the fabric though the craze for embroidered shawls started in the eighteenth century and was undertaken only by male artisans.

In Kashmir, weaving of Pashmina is done in the town of Gandharbal and around the Srinagar belt. Exquisite embroideries are undertaken by natives of towns namely Tailbal ,Buttpura, Narbal and Badgaon. They specialise in threadworks known as Suzani, Zilkar, Gulabdaar, Papier-mâché and Aabdar.

In northern India, where winters are bitingly cold, Pashmina has acquired the notoriety of being a status symbol. Shawls which are enhanced with fine Kashmiri embroidery are prohibitively priced and yet very desirable among the higher strata of our society. They are preserved and passed on as heirlooms. Nowadays, Pashminas which are embellished with buti designs, floral patterns and fringed with gold, silver or silk threads are

highly in demand. The prices are determined by the quality of fabric and finesse of embroidery, as dense patterning requires longer hours and extra caution in handling. India has a thriving market for Pashmina with many designers now stepping in to cut out beautiful outfits from this finest of all fabrics.

The current trends show that the arrival of mechanisation in the Pashmina industry has led to the women being sidelined. Machines are now doing the difficult job of ‘dehairing’, which was earlier done only by women. Even ‘bobbin’ filling done by children, is now a mechanical activity. The aftermath of this great change has been loss of employment for both men and women. But since some political stability got restored, job opportunities were generated and daily wages have gone up, so have tourism and sale of Pashmina.

Mr.Kulbhushan Ahuja, M.D. of Ahujasons Shawls Private Limited in New Delhi shared with us the initiatives his company has taken for the empowerment of Kashmiri women. They have employed 6000 women in weaving and embroidering jobs. He says, “There is a growing respect among families for women working from home, since they are able to look after their home and hearth and also make contributions to the family income. As the women are provided with contract based jobs from a young age, they are increasingly gaining confidence and embracing new lifestyle.” These efforts are praiseworthy as women hardly get any recognition and respect in the male dominated society.

It is intriguing to know that a good quality Pashmina can set you back anything from Rupees 15000 to Rupees 5 lakh. A newly introduced Kalamkari shawl is woven in Kashmir, hand painted in Delhi and embroidered in Kolkata. A collector’s item, it is an eye popping product and costs Rupees 90 lakh.

Pashminas are timeless! They have surpassed the test of time and the fickleness of fashion. The allure remains undiminished and the reverence - undying. That is the magic of this ever priceless Pashmina!

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The Story Of World’s Finest Fabric:

Pashmina It is sometimes hard to imagine that a goat foraging on the desert-like terrain of Changthang can lead to the creation of one of the most exquisite and finest of the world’s textiles – the Kashmir Shawl. In the words of a nineteenth century British administrator, this shawl “is the product of a felicitous conjunction between pashm, one of the finest animal fibres ever put to the loom and the amazing and unique skills of Kashmir’s spinners, weavers, designers, dyers, rafugars and a host of other workers”, writes Surbhi Sehgal

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he story of the Kashmir Shawl continues in much the same manner today, but most accounts start the story in Srinagar, making no more than a passing reference to the fact that the some of the finest raw material in the world comes from the high mountains of Ladakh. Though both regions are located in the North Indian state of Jammu & Kashmir, and linked through the trade and manufacturing of pashmina, making the journey of the story from start to finish important. It takes one through some of the highest motorable passes in the world and some of the toughest living conditions.

The Source, The Site ladakh In the summer months Changra goats are herded to lower altitudes where they can graze on pastures growing along the glacial rivers and streams. One Changra goat will harvest roughly 120 grams of raw fibre. Of that, only 70 grams will be fine enough to be spun into pashmina yarn. Male goats yield approx. 300 to 400 grams of pashmina, females 200 to 250 grams. Of that about 100 grams (200 for the males) can be used for weaving. Goat hair is also used for weaving other products so there is no wastage. This wool forms part of the thick winter fleece the goats need to survive the harsh winters. For centuries the Ladakhis have harvested the fibres in the spring and traded with the Kashmiris, who then use the superior wool to create the finest shawls in the world.

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A master spinner separates and cleans the raw pashmina fibres before spinning.

In this process the natural oils and other impurities are removed by rubbing a fine rice powder through the wool.

Spinning is the process of manipulating puffs of pashmina fibre into yarn. The delicate skills required to simultaneously feed the fibres through the fingers and operate the spindle take a lifetime to master.

This is the most important and time-consuming part of the creation process.

A pile of dyed silk yarn hanks used for the embroidering of pashmina shawls. Traditional Kashmiri shawls owe their rich organic colour palette to the use of natural dyes. The use of natural dyes is also becoming rare in Kashmir.

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A master weaver uses the ancient technique of twill tapestry, traditionally known as Kani weave. The double interlocked twill tapestry combined with the fine pashmina wool and rich natural dyes is what makes the Kashmiri shawl the finest in the world.

Written on the paper above is a ‘Talim’ code the artisans follow in the Kani weaving process. The weavers run thin bobbins and attached to threads of yarn through the loom according to this complex code to create the intricate designs.

Individual pieces may take up to five years to weave.

In the technique of Kani weave, an intricate design can be woven within the shawl, taking between one to five years to create.

Srinagar, Kashmir. Two artisans clipping loose threads from a pashmina shawl.

This difficult and monotonous process requires the artisan to clip perfectly, or face the possibility of ruining a shawl that’s taken years to create.

Two brothers prepare the warp – in this process pashmina yarn is unwound and prepared for the loom.

Between them, the pair will walk over 12 km for each roll of yarn.

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The Fable of Pashmina Goat

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hangpa, the Ladakhi nomads raised a mix of livestock such as sheep, goats, yaks and horses. In Ladakh the goats are mostly reared under mixed livestock farming concept but goat keeping is one of the most economically viable and feasible proposition for the local people because they harvest one of the most expensive, softest, warmest and most versatile animal fibre known to the textile world. The pashmina from famous Changra goat in Changthang is the main source of income for the nomads. What more?!

This goat gives much milk during the summer, mainly in July. Pashmina production per goat annually is 500600 grams and in 2013 one kilogram of pashmina was priced at Rs 30003500. The prices for the pashmina fluctuate with demand from the market. In 1994-95, the price was Rs 1500 per kilo while it dropped to 700 rupees in 1997-98.

Combing of Pashmina Wool is shorn once a year (in late July). The yield is about half a kilogram per animal. The Changpas use sheep wool, goat hair and yak hair for weaving. They start with combing of pashmina from the goats in June during the onset of summer (heat) when the animal starts shedding soft hair which keeps them insulated in the cold winters. This is followed by removal of hair and wool from Yaks and ends with shearing of sheep.

Interestingly, the Changpas do not use pashmina themselves but they sell it! Raw pashmina is sold in July or August depending on the rate of pashmina in the international market. Earlier there used to be random customers (middleman) from Kashmir and Manali who used to exploit the nomads. After the Changthang Cooperative Society came into existence in 2004 these nomads have had a safe and

After the completion of winter months, as the goats eat new grass that pashmina rises above the surface of the animal’s body and can be combed out easily.

steady outlet. However there is no restriction put on their selling the pashmina locally called as lenna outside the society. If they get a better price from some outside customer they are free to sell it.

A shepherd mentions that it is very painful for the goat if it is sheared before its shedding time and researchers have personally observed the way the animals cry in pain when they are combed (before the right time!). In 2012 one kg of raw pashmina was sold at Rs 3000 to Rs 3500 and 100 goats produced 22kgs of raw pashmina.

Interestingly, the Changpas do not use pashmina themselves but they sell it! Raw pashmina is sold in July or August depending on the rate of pashmina in the international market.

Shearing Comb Each family owns implements for shearing and combing pashmina (metal shears for cutting wool, as well as goat and yak hair and comb for removing pashmina). The traditional combs were locally made from yak horn or wood. Today, however, these traditional combs are not in fashion.

Instead, combs made of steel are used. The comb consists of heavy wires bound together by finer wires and each line is curled at the tip into a hook. The pashmina combed out contains an admixture of coarse hair as well as dirt and the animal’s bodily secretions. After combing, the animal’s shaggy outer coat, made up of coarse hair, is cut with metal shears. The Changpas remove pashmina by combing. During winter, it lies close against the goat’s body, providing insulation against the bitter cold. After the completion of winter months, as the goats eat new grass that pashmina rises above the surface of the animal’s body and can be combed out easily.

The sheering is mainly done in the mornings and some times in the evening as well, if there is sufficient light .It is a major seasonal task for shepherds. When the goat flock size is huge, they sometimes need extra labour to do this. Mainly men are engaged in sheering. It takes half an hour for an individual goat to be sheered completely however it depends on other factors like quality of the comb they are using (they mentioned old combs they imported from China are better and long lasting) and manual labour (the faster you do, the sooner you sheer) and they also manually separate white wool from the black wool. It is said that the pashmina grows faster on stronger goats.

(Story Courtesy: Atul Ahlawat, Founder- KaramBhoomi)

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and its handicrafts Ayushi Sood familiarizes you with the art and culture of Kashmir and how it can be made a part of our daily lives:

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Carpets Carpets are something that are needed everywhere be it your work place or home. Why not make a simple decor more regal and eye catching! Though carpet weaving is the most expensive and renowned handicrafts in Kashmir but it’s really worth your money. The carpet sizes in Kashmir start from three by foot and extends to four by six foot and so on. One can find a carpet starting from a few thousand rupees to lakhs. There is an endless variety for you to choose as you like it!

Pashmina Shawls ‘SHAWLS’ a women’s best friend in winters! Keep yourself warm this winter with Kashmir’s beautiful shawls. Pashmina is one of the best cashmere wool. Though, now there is a large collection of pashmina shawls for men too. These shawls are available from plane pashmina shawls to heavily embroidered ones.

The shawls range from hundreds rupees to thousands depending on the quality of the wool you choose. So add these beauties in your wardrobe this winter to glam up your look.

Pashmina Shawls ‘SHAWLS’ a women’s best friend in winters! Keep yourself warm this winter with Kashmir’s beautiful shawls.

Pashmina is one of the best cashmere wool. Though, now there is a large collection of pashmina shawls for men too. These shawls are available from plane pashmina shawls to heavily embroidered ones. The shawls range from hundreds rupees to thousands depending on the quality of the wool you choose. So add these beauties in your wardrobe this winter January 2017 | www.thelifestylejournalist.com to glam up your look.| TheLifestyleJournalist | 41

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A tale of Kashmiri handicrafts...

Suffering Moses Taking forward the handicrafts legacy in Srinagar...

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any centuries ago, the valley of Kashmir witnessed an incursion of Persian artists who brought with them the diverse Iranian art and culture. Suffering Moses, the handicraft shop in central Srinagar, is a result of that incursion. Started in 1840 by Mohamed Sadiq Wani’s great-grandfather; this is one of the last surviving businesses run by the practitioners of the old craft, which, according to him, is gradually being replaced by commercial work of lower quality. In an exclusive talk with TLJ team, Wani sheds a light on the history of his ancestral shop and its antique crafts.

Tell us about the history of your family and how this place was founded?

Ours was a family of Persian artists that arrived 650 years back and settled here in Kashmir. It was in 1850 that the shop was setup. My fore-fathers not only built and sold the artifacts, but at the same time learned, taught

and propagated the art of handicrafts like wood-carving, shawl embroidery and Papier-machie to others. We had and still have the finest collection of handicrafts one could find anywhere around the world. Lady Mountbatten used to come for getting Christmas gifts. Even Nehru family were our regular customers.

You also had stores in Lahore, Mumbai ad Delhi in preindependence era. What happened to them?

It is interesting to note that first shop was setup in Connaught Place in 1932 with the name of “Kashmere Handicrafts” near general post office. The shop is still there but it is closed. My father could not go back there because of the turmoil that followed in the light of partition.

Communication during that phase was very difficult. So, the other shops had to be closed. Anyways, it had never been about quantity but quality of our art.

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How did your store get its name?

It was given by one of the British lords in recognition of the hard work which was required to make the excellent handicrafts. Our forefathers were very hardworking and efficient in their art. Moses has a biblical connotation. Moses suffered and that is how he became a famous prophet.

This is how and that is why the shop was named “Suffering Moses”. To excel in quality, one has to suffer a bit.

You simply cannot achieve anything by merely relaxing. There is always the need for extra hard work to achieve

recognition and produce the refined art products.

How has your designs evolved in all these years?

My forefathers were artists themselves. To create something new in a new place is never easy. It took them quite a lot of hard work to make the fine handicrafts. Eventually, their art began to develop slowly and steadily. Things before were merely for decorative purposes but now-adays they have become functional such as lamp, cigar box, coffee box, flower bowl fruit bowl, biscuit box, tissue box and so much more.

You have a backroom in your shop where you have savoured few treasures of your art and are not ready to give them even for any amount of money. Tell us more about it.

As the new generation comes in, we are losing some of our finest arts and finest artists. That is why we have saved few of the marvellous pieces created by our forefathers. It requires a lifetime of hard work to excel and become an artist. By preserving these art-pieces, we are just trying to exhibit the immaculate art of the past.

Do you think the violence in last few months has affected the tourism industry in the valley in last few months?

There has been no violence. Kashmiri people are not aggressive. On the contrary, they are very welcoming.

There has never been any incident of any tourist being hassled in the valley. It is all media created political sensation and agenda that everything is upside down. Only today I had few visitors over at my shop who spent wonderful week in the place and were quite happy and content about their stay.

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KASHMIR A PAEAN FOR CONNOSSIEURS OF BEAUTY

Salman Rushdie, the great author of our times once wrote, “I’ve never seen anywhere in the world as beautiful as Kashmir. It has something to do with the fact that the valley is very small and the mountains are very big, so you have this miniature countryside surrounded by the Himalayas, and it’s just spectacular. And it’s true, the people are very beautiful too, writes Bindiya Dhingra

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ne word that describes Kashmir is, overwhelming.

The sights and sounds overwhelm the senses, the heart and the soul. One retreats a step to question oneself, is this heaven? Am I dreaming? The pristine beauty, the white washed mountains, and the gurgling sound of the Jhelum, they all lull your senses. The rugged topography, glaciers, waterfalls, rivers, meadows, gardens, all pay homage to this paradise on Earth.

It may be interesting to know that Emperor Ashoka discovered Kashmir as opposed to the commonly accepted theory of it being discovered by Emperor Jahangir. The Mughals had significant interest in Kashmir and hugely contributed to its development.

When King Akbar first visited Kashmir with his huge convoy of servants, noblemen and their families, he was taken aback by its natural beauty. His son, the next king, Jehangir visited Kashmir thirteen times in his life. He paid tribute to the city by ordering the laying of Shalimar and Nishat gardens in 1616 along the Dal Lake in Srinagar. Even in Shahjahan’s reign, construction of gardens like Chashm-e-Shahi was carried out. The royal family retreated to Srinagar every summer and music and poetry flourished in the Mughal era.

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ashmir has a unique blend of culture, people, language, and traditions.

Population comprises of Hindus, Muslims and Buddhists.

Ethnic Kashmiris contribute to the cultural heritage while communities like Dogris, Pandits and Gujjars inhabit the valley. Uniquely, Kashmir is the centre of Urdu learning as media, education, political and religious discourses are carried out in this language.

Mere words cannot do justice to the breathtaking beauty of Kashmir!

It has been often described as the Switzerland of India and is the home of the mighty Himalayas. Hordes of tourists from all over the world throng Srinagar city throughout the year. The 1400 luxurious houseboats on the enormous Dal Lake are beautifully carved and upholstered. People visit Srinagar to enjoy the views of Alpine peaks and the Chinar lined roads.

The sight of the sun setting on the Dal is an unforgettable one. The Shankaracharya Temple provides a 360 degree view of the city with its poplar trees and wooden houses. Hazratbal is the biggest holy shrine in Srinagar. It is home to a box containing a strand of Prophet Mohammad’s hair. Standing on the bank of the lake, it is built in beautiful Islamic architecture. The Pari Mahal or the palace of fairies is a monument of eternal beauty. Built

by Shahjahan’s son Dara Shikoh, for astrological studies, it is a seven storied Mughal garden.

Much of Kashmir’s beauty lies unexplored due to bitter winter and harsh terrain. The Lolab valley which lies in the Kupwara district is astonishingly charming. The paddy fields, lush green meadows, warm hospitable people and the towering Himalayas add to the delight. The Kolaroos caves deep in the Lolab valley are yet archaeologically unexplored. Interestingly the village folks claim that the caves go up to Russia.

The secret of enjoying the astonishing sights in Kashmir is to explore the quieter, offbeat places, where the best guides are the locals.

The typical rural setting of Chatpal, or popularly called mini Pahalgam attracts

Kashmir’s Pashmina industry is famous all over the world.

The skilful craftsmen produce the most beautifully woven and embroidered shawls and scarves.

few tourists. The lack of electricity in this village is amply made up by the clean fresh air and its untouched natural beauty. The rivers gush and murmur here and the waterfalls thrill the senses.

Reshwari is yet another place to go if you want to go off the beaten track. It is a border town in northern Kashmir set on a hilly forest. The apple orchards and deodar trees with air smelling of pine compel you to spend more time there.

While we are all familiar with glorious Gulmarg, a favourite ski destination, very few have heard of Yusmarg, a virginal town and a flower filled meadow. It is about 50 kilometre away from Srinagar, teeming with pine trees and located on the banks of Doodhganga river. It is believed that Jesus Christ lived here for a few days.

It is in Yusmarg that one can easily get lost in nature and solitude. The area is least crowded and easily reachable.

The Sintan Top is connected to Kashmir via the NH1-B, being another entry point into the state. It is covered in snow throughout the year and offers utterly delightful views of the Pir Panjal range.

Anantnag may be called a suburb of Srinagar. It is the commercial and trading hub of Kashmir. Although Anantnag suffered heavy losses due to insurgency in the 1990s, it is visited by travellers from all over

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the world. Handicrafts, wood carved items, woollens and shawls are widely available. There are abundant apple orchards and walnut trees. Since hookah is an important part of Kashmiri life, tobacco business thrives here.

Kashmir’s Pashmina industry is famous all over the world. The skilful craftsmen produce the most beautifully woven and embroidered shawls and scarves. A huge chunk of the Kashmiri economy thrives on Pashmina trade. A collector’s item, Pashmina is the most treasured and admired fabric that India produces.

The Northern most state of India is also renowned for its silk and wool carpets. They are hand crafted and hand knotted, made primarily out of wool and silk. Carpets are available in bright colours like red, green and blue, etc. Kashmiri folklore has it that a carpet is a soul of the home as it brings the whole family together.

Kashmir is a popular destination not just because of its beauty but also for the adventure sports on offer like river rafting on the Lidder river in Pahalgam and for the trekking opportunities and skiing in Gulmarg.

Another distinguishing element of Kashmir is the Wazwan, a part of a Kashmiri’s identity. Being accomplished cooks, they are proud of their ethnic cuisine. Wazwan is a multi course meal in the Muslim tradition with the main ingredient being mutton. It is the core element of Kashmiri culture.

Since the late twentieth century, Kashmir has fallen prey to insurgency and infiltration. The people are disillusioned by reckless violence and fighting. Since militancy increased in 1990s, army presence has increased in the state to contain infiltration. The Indian government is making efforts to bring the Kashmiri youth into the mainstream.

Despite the ongoing strife and discord in Kashmir, it remains the crown of India and gets the respect it deserves. In safer times it is the most coveted destination on a traveller’s wish list. In a lyrical rapture, emperor Jahangir had rightly said, “If there is paradise on earth, it is here, it is here, it is here!”

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Celebs

The Band crew

Sanam The Band Rocks on...

India’s prized musical band focusing on promoting Indian Music Artists both on the National & International platform, Sanam recognizes the fact that the success in the music industry is intrinsically based on the value of music. Sanam made a cover of Ishq Bulaava which was a hit and the video went viral. In a tete-a-tete with TLJ, the band members open up about their journey so far...

You are the first Indian Music Artists to cross 1 million you tube subscribers. It is big news for Indian Music Industry. Had you thought of coming so far?

Samar Puri - We are really lucky and honoured to have so many wonderful people following us on

YouTube and other social media.

When we were growing up, the accepted truth was that, to make it in the Music industry, you need to either work under the Bollywood film industry or you need to be signed to a big music label. Those were the only options. However, in

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this digital age, things are different.

Many of the biggest artists in the world today were discovered on YouTube by uploading simple videos made in the comfort their own homes. Money, contacts and influence are not important factors on YouTube. If your product is

Lifestyle Trends good and if people like it, you will find your video spreading on its own. This is what inspires us the most! Out of billions of videos being uploaded on YouTube, it is really overwhelming to know that more than a million people have subscribed to our channel and enjoy listening to the music we put out.

Being the first Independent Music Artists in India to have a Million Subscribers on YouTube is just the start. We are hoping to see many more talented independent artists come up in India real soon!

We started our YouTube channel when our manager (fifth member of our band) Ben Thomas suggested we upload a few videos online so he could showcase our work to the industry. In that process we learnt a lot by doing everything on our own. This gave us the confidence to continue to put out more music that we wanted to share with the rest of the world!

How are you bringing back the band culture and independent music into India after a notable gap?

Sanam Puri - The biggest challenge we face is to let people know that we are a “Band” and this is not just about me as a singer! We have Venky, who plays Bass Guitars and Sings, My brother Samar, who plays Lead Guitars and Sings, Keshav, who plays Drums, Percussions and Sings. India is mostly used to understanding and accepting singers because this is the culture that has been around for a while. However, things are now changing slowly for us. We are being accepted as a band.

We have a lot of fun together and we feel most comfortable making music together. I think this reflects in the work we upload on YouTube.

With the help of social media, we can now share our music with the entire world from the comfort of our own homes. Like us, many aspiring artists (music or otherwise) in India are confidently uploading more and more content online that is being shared and viewed by millions! We are lucky to have such wonderful viewers

who are so supportive and accepting of everything we do! The change is happening, it is only a matter of time before you see many more independent artists come into the limelight.

What is your personal favourite moment in this melodious journey so far?

Keshav Dhanraj - It is hard to pick just one favourite moment. We have gone through and continue to go through so much together! Making music, hanging out as friends, rehearsing together, experiencing the thrills of a live concert with thousands of fans screaming, travelling the world, the list goes on!!! I guess my favourite part is the fact that we are there for each other, through all the ups and downs of life! This gives us the confidence to try and do what we love doing, because we know we have each other to support us.

You are recognized for blending 4 different musical influences.

Tell us more about it.

Venky S - Venky S - We lean towards a pop rock sound.. it’s common ground for the four of us. Bands were part of the popular culture when we were growing up.

We love those power ballads and a big hook or riff that can make a song last a lifetime. However we have different musical leanings individually. For me blues music is the foundation for anything I play.

Sanam Puri loves western classical arrangements and some guys that I know he enjoys listening to are Darren Hayes, Bryan Adams, Tiziano Ferro, Keith Urban. It’s always been Radiohead, U2 and Muse for Samar .. he also digs some of the newer hip-hop artists.

Keshu loves Michael Jackson and drummers like Travis Barker, Carter Beauford. None of us are classically trained in any music form so we try and absorb the best from each style of music.

Tell us about your upcoming global projects?

Keshav Dhanraj - Our YouTube channel has been viewed in almost every country in the world! We didn’t expect our music to reach out to so many countries. We have had some really memorable experiences in our concerts abroad. Music has taken us to some of the most beautiful places on Earth. I am not just talking about beauty in a scenic sense, but also in terms of the people’s personalities!

The love, support and hospitality we get from our fans across the globe is proof enough of the kind and beautiful hearts that exist around the world! We always look forward to performing live! You can stay in touch with our Facebook page for details on shows and concerts as the dates come close.

Tell us about your personal favorite tracks and singers you seek inspiration from..

Samar Puri – I listen to everything.

Every genre has something that inspires or influences me.

Venky S – Too many to name.

From the top of my head the ever soulful and hip tunes like Donny Hathaway -Je Vous Aime, James Brown - Out of Sight, Prince - The Beautiful Ones.

Sanam Puri – I can’t pick a specific singer or song because I have heard a lot of music that I love.

Also, these days I don’t really listen to other artists much, because it affects the way I compose music and it then reflects in the final output. I want to give our songs a new sound, so I avoid listening to other artists as much as possible.

When I do listen to music, I listen to a lot of background scores from video games.

Keshav Dhanraj – Melodies, interesting rhythm patterns and music production catch my attention the most. So my musical taste and inspiration doesn’t come from specific artists or bands, it completely depends on the song itself. My playlist is filled with a whole bunch of different artists of different genres ranging from Pop to Country, Metal, Rock, and Western classical… the list goes on.

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new year

Starting the year with a bang!

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nce the festivities are finally over and celebrations dĂŠcor taken off, all we will be left with is a new year gaping at us to take a further leap and grasp it with all the more renewed enthusiasm and few same old lurking weaknesses. After the tried and tested factchecking, here we bring you few great ideas to kick off your year with a thrilling start.

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Reflect Have you thought of all that you achieved the last year?

Well, it is a high time you should! It is like having a personal performance review to make yourself feel productive and valuable. At the same time, it will also help you reflect upon all that went wrong and why and how you can avert it this time or maybe find ways to fail better. Reflecting upon previous year has numerous benefits to push you forward with a better perspective of your individuality.

Plan Do not let this year pass as another full-of-surprises time.

Surprises are good but not so much when you have no clue of what’s coming up next. Make plans! Think of ways to achieve your goals. Things are not just going to happen. You need to work to make them happen. Go a step further by penning down all the personal as well as professional goals that you intend to furnish by the end of this year.

Loosen up a bit Do not be too hard on yourself. Spontaneity is good, at times. It is good to let go of things that hold you back. To be a winner, you should be more understanding and caring towards your people but at the same time, you should be compassionate to your own self. Make sure you are not too much strict in your path to attain goals. Consistency truly is the bread and butter to this dream-life sandwich. Sometimes it is a bitter rye, but it most certainly is necessary in maintaining your healthy badass lifestyle goals.

Give yourself Credit It is so easy to forget the small victories you have achieved along the way – the little challenges you have finally mastered, the annoying little problems you tackled. When you are so focused on what lies ahead – and all the challenges that still need to be solved – it is easy to lose sight of everything that’s brought you to the point where you are today. When you do this, you not only isolate the tactics and tools that helped you succeed – but you open yourself to new ideas for even greater good.

Rock on Finally, try and be the best version of yourself. Make sure to plan an adventurous travel this year. Celebrate as much as you can. Relax more! Whether it’s having a family or owning your own business, whatever you see for your life, once you’ve tossed the fear aside, you must position yourself in the cross hairs of your dream. This is one of the most important tips I could give along with consistency, but for heaven’s sake, be grateful for the things you have! Count up the blessings you already have, and make this a constant practice. You will HATE your life if you don’t stay grateful. HATE! Do this all the time, literally.

Don’t just take my word for it – try it for yourself and see what happens. As you celebrate your accomplishments and give yourself the credit you deserve, you will be able to march forward confidently to succeed!

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ARCHITECTURE

THE COLOSSAL CREATORS The Creators is an architectural firm consistently engaged in delivering high impact commercial structure. The man behind the show is Chander Prakash Kaushal, a master of the art of organising space. He is known tto build for the masses. His architecture is of the people, by the people, for the people. The veteran talks to Divjot Kamboj about his venture, profession, life and much more...

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Has architecture always been your passion?

As a child, I always dreamt of being a politician. By the time I reached the last year of my school, I happened to crack the exam for the Architecture College. So you can say that it was because of academics that I paved my way into this field. During an internship in the third year of my graduation, I got to witness the actual work like site analysis and measurements and coming up with municipal drawings. This wonderful opportunity of learning as to how do these professionals manage spaces enlightened the architect in me.

Is there any change you have witnessed in the world of architecture from the time when you began until today?

I have a research and site experience of over 32 years now. I have witnessed the transformation of architecture myself. Initially, anything and everything was manual; we had to sketch our projects by hand. In those days an architect had to spend most of his time with his drawing board.

Early 2000 was the era of transition.

Within 4-5 years all sort of works were computerised, academically everything was upgraded, the market soon adapted to the change.

People say that architecture is a very demanding profession. What is your take on that?

Designing is a process and a process always needs time. The more you get into it, the better will come out. It is with the inputs from the clients and staff that the smallest details are worked out and a plan of action is built. Regular visits for site supervision, attending over 200 phone calls every day, replying to emails, maintaining the public relations and ensuring repute with the government, all this is a part of the regular routine. This profession demands the best of you in all the ways.

You are known for designing commercial and mega projects.

What made you chose commercial

Chander Prakash Kaushal

projects over the residential ones?

At the time of my first ever training, I got an opportunity to work for the renowned architect Charles Correa. It was a low rising apartment in Delhi. I liked the idea of building for masses.

In the year 1987, I came across a tender for group housing. I applied for the same and prepared for the technical appraisal. There was a bit of beginners luck and I had nailed it this side. Another jackpot that I cracked was in the year 1990. It was another group housing project for HouseFED Punjab in Mohali and Ludhiana. Since then I have been majorly associated with the designing of various Institutional and group housing projects coming up either with joint or private sector.

Is there any star architect who has inspired you in your journey?

I have been greatly inspired by the works of Charles Correa. He was

a legendary architect worldwide.

Another is my mentor Jasbir Sawhney.

I have been associated with him for the designing and supervision of Terrace Tower Apartments in AbuDhabi.

What are the greatest challenges that you face in the kind of projects that you handle?

We at The Creators majorly design for the developers. Our work focuses on building for the masses. We need to take care of the needs of the total community. So as such our work is different than that of other architects. They only matter that was once a challenge for me was that I had to compromise with the designed as the builders wanted to cut down maximum costs so as to generate maximum profits. Given the constraints, I learnt how to give my best so nothing really seems like a real challenge now.

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What is your take on the environmental and sustainable architecture?

A major feature of all the projects that I undertake is the sub soil treatment. Prior to the construction, we collect the upper layer of the soil and utilise it in the green patches later. We build boundary walls around the site and cover it with sheets so that the environment does not get polluted. And as far as the design is concerned, cavity walls guard the building from extreme weather conditions and treatment of the roof ensures long life. Taking care of light, ventilation, rain water harvesting and waste water treatment makes a project sustainable.

“ Travelling is an integral part of my learning. Twice in every year, I plan a holiday to different places. From different places I learn how to fill the spaces.�

What has always kept you going?

Ours is a profession that is offering always something new. So the work itself has always kept me going.

Travelling is an integral part of my learning. Twice in every year, I plan a holiday to different places. From different places I learn how to fill the spaces.

A piece of advice for the young and creative people aspiring to become architects?

Hard work is the key. With the technology you can only do better drafting where as designing would need your sincere and creative efforts.

Architecture is a visual art and the buildings speak for themselves. Keep working hard till the day your work speaks for itself. Be original and at the same time realistic. Know that you are aspiring to be a creator.

Chander Prakash Kaushal: One of his works

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BOOK REVIEW

The Legend of Laxmi Prasad A

fter the remarkable success of her first book, Twinkle Khanna is back with yet another offering in the reading space. Her new book titled “The Legend of Lakshmi Prasad” is a work of fiction comprising of four short inspiring stories. Unlike her first book which had the muscle to move you into fits of laughter right away, this one has women centric fictional stories with occasional humor positioned at the right time.

The book opens up with the story of a young girl Laxmi Prasad, who with her rather simple but revolutionary idea brings about a radical change in the mindset of the people concerning the birth of a girl child. It happens to be a beautiful story of courage and hope that leaves a long-lasting impression on the readers. It is followed by “Salaam, Noni Appa”, a story of two sisters in their late sixties, living in an attempt to put the jigsaw of life back together.

The story revolves around Noni Appa who holds back her desires to ensure that all the salaams she gets everyday doesn’t get jeopardized but towards the end she realizes that, “doing what your heart says” is the real truth of life.

The third story falls short of expectations in comparison to the previous two. The story titled “If the weather permits” is about a young girl and her quest of finding peace with or without a man. Though the story ends on

a tragic note, Twinkle as always manages to comfort the readers with the story’s concluding line.

It is often said that ‘save the best for the last’. Taking the thought forward, Mrs. Funny Bones narrates the final story and the most rousing one. The story is drawn from the real life of Padmashri Awardee Arunachalam Muruganathan, a social entrepreneur who created low cost sanitary napkins. The author has fictionalized his story and has succeeded in providing an inspirational tale.

This book can be a bit of disappointment for the fans of the first book Mrs Funnybones, as the witty comments and laugh aloud moments from her everyday life are evidently missing. But as per the demand of the four short stories, Twinkle leaves no stone unturned to instill life in the characters. The stories in the book effectively justify the quote; “The greatest ideas are the simplest”.

The writing is very simple with perfectly drawn analogies and a bit of flamboyant adjectives. The book is a light read and can be completed in one go.

If you like reading Twinkle Khanna’s columns just because of the humour it provides this book may not be the best option for you but if you are in for inspiring brave stories with a tinge of wit, you can easily keep your hands on this one.

Reviewed by Gunjan Dewan Khullar

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health

Keep

Stomach & Intestines Healthy!

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T

he human body is undoubtedly one of nature’s best gifts to us. In our day to day lives, the amount of care that we provide to our body probably tops the list of our daily activities. Be it in the form of everyday brushing and bathing, to a comforting spa treatment, it is never enough to care for the body. Somewhere in between the bed tea and bedtime brushing, we always nourish ourselves with varieties of palatable delicacies ranging from fruits to faludas, parathas to pizzas, and food from all over the globe. Yes,

In terms of Ayurveda, the toxins formed this way, as a product of incomplete digestion, eating foods unsuitable for the body, eating foods at irregular times, eating improper quantity of food, eating cold, leftover, processed of fermented food, etc., is called ama. the time of the meals, quantity of the meals, etc may vary depending on the tight schedules, but we do squeeze out time to grab that bite.

It is actually quite interesting to give a thought on how all the transformation of food to flesh takes place. But is all food equally nourishing? What happens to the food which is not so nourishing?

Also, the human body is a very rhythmically planned unit with so many interconnections. The human body basically runs on a biologic clock, which is synchronized with the sunrise. This body clock, governs the waking pattern, hunger pattern, pattern secretion of digestive juices,

the movement of food into the intestines, the detox schedule of the body, etc. The human digestive system is a complex 6 meter (roughly) long tube that hosts the party for the food with assistance of the various digestive juices from different glands starting from the saliva in the mouth, to the stomach, the gall bladder, the pancreas, and all of them trying to work on the uniform body rhythm. But wait, if this system is striving to follow the aviation standards of punctuality, are we supposed to have food at the same time all days? Are we not supposed to grab that crunchy cookie somewhere between the meals? What happens to the food that we eat out of schedule?

Let us try to understand what happens inside our digestive tract. The food that we eat is mixed with saliva and as we swallow enters the stomach.

Here, the food reacts with the acids in the stomach and the digestion starts. The foods stay in the stomach for about 2 hours and then it is further passed on where they are acted upon by the digestive juices from the pancreas and the gall bladder, and is further pushed down.

The longest twisting and curving small intestines then handle the food and absorb the nutrients, and is further passed on to the large intestine. The large intestines absorb maximum water and condense the mass for defecation.

Now, different foods have different patterns to reaction with the digestive battalion. Also, the time required for digestion of different foods vary. Just for example, an apple (fruits) may take only half-an hour to get digested in the stomach, whereas an aloo paratha (full meals) may take two hours for the same. Now let us consider having both together at lunch. Sensing the usual time of lunch comprising of full meal, the digestive armamentarium is prepared for a full course meal, which usually takes a couple of hours of time in the stomach. It is fair enough for the aloo paratha, but the apple will get digested way earlier and stays in the stomach till the accompanying food is ready to move ahead. So it starts fermenting, producing gases, etc.

But does all this really harm the body? In terms of Ayurveda, the toxins formed this way, as a product of incomplete digestion, eating foods unsuitable for the body, eating foods at irregular times, eating improper quantity of food, eating cold, leftover, processed of fermented food, etc., is called ama. It is sticky, white, foul smelling byproduct of improperly digested food. Imagine all the food that we have consumed without a proper understanding, all these years, and that too passing through the very same intestinal pathway for all these

The foods stay in the stomach for about 2 hours and then it is further passed on where they are acted upon by the digestive juices from the pancreas and the gall bladder, and is further pushed down years. When ama settles in for a long time in a part of the body, it assumes a more toxic form called amavisha. This form is more dangerous.

After reading this, if all the fast food that you have consumed till date is taking you through a quick flash back, I’m sure you are not the only one. Well if you have questions like how to go through the detox to remove all that accumulated toxins, you are pretty smart. And you know what? Our ancestors were even smarter to have devised easy, quick, natural remedies to have a quick detox through various Panchkarma processes! There are a host of Ayurvedic retreats in India and overseas that offer such cleansing programs. So what are you waiting for??

Keep Detoxing & Live Healthy!

(About the writer- Dr Veeral Sanghadia is an Art of Living Yoga Level-2 teacher certified by the Quality Council of India and the Ministry of AYUSH. He conducts courses at Bangalore International Centre of the Art of Living)

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THE BACHELOR PADS OF TODAY

Gone are the days when you could keep your place messed up and untidy like a dorm room or frat house. The modern day bachelor needs to take care of his/her pad as much as he/she takes care of themselves or atleast this is what another bachelor Bhagat Singh Mattewal goes on to tell us...

THE COUCH This is where half the magic happens .This is the very place where your gang would sit down and have great time together. This is where all the plans are made (even the ones that never happen), this is where you will put your drunk bestfriend to sleep and this is just the place where things might heat during the so-called Netflix and chill XD (If you know what I mean). Also, you need a good arrangement if you do not want to have a party at your place that ends in your friends’ pledging not to attend your parties. Therefore, it is advisable you to invest in an exquisite, comfortable couch and an adjacent seating space.

Make sure you do not go with the official faux-pas of all Faux

pas, the couch your dad wished to have in his times, ‘The Leather Couch’. As hard as it is to maintain one, It is makes you feel hot and squeaks every time you move even the millionth part of an inch. To avoid being uncomfortable and making your guests uncomfortable, skip the idea of a leather couch

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. No matter what type of couch you decide upon, make sure it is comfortable, easy to manage, quirky and fits the overall mood of your pad. And even though the rust coloured velvet couch from central perk would seem like a tempting option, but it is not always a viable option.

WALLS Walls have ears but do you know they speak as well? Yes, they do speak and speak out loud. I say they speak of you and how you decorate them is what words they choose to describe you with. So go ahead and adorn them with

the choicest of paintings, clocks and artpieces.

But beware you quirky ones, do not overdo the quirky bit but just add a dash of fun and quirky stuff alongside an elegant or antique piece for the perfect look.

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THE BAR A bar is something that a bachelor pad must have regardless of your views on alcohol. A bar is not necessarily for those who drink. Because it is not about what you drink at

the bar but what you have at your bar that is important. A good Bar must look elegant as it is a major eye catcher to everyone who visits your pad. The glassware on the Bar is also something

ENTERTAINMENT SYSTEM(S) The first and foremost rule: Take the TV out of your room and place it near the couch. It is not meant to be there. Secondly, invest in a bigger screen as it is will last for many years and will always be useful when you have you gang coming over for that important cricket/soccer game. The TV is not enough though nowa-days, you need a good sazound system to go along just so that you can really enhance the TV viewing experience. And what is a bachelor pad without a gaming console?

Answer that question with your PS4 or XBOX while you are enjoying a nice game of COD with your friends on a lazy weekend. Also, if you can spare just a little more, invest in a music streaming device which will stream music right off your phone. Cool, huh?

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to be taken care of along with whisky tumblers, beer mugs, shot, champagne and wine glasses are bare minimum for any Bar. Come on, we have evolved from being cavemen long ago.

Hi-Tech

Gadgets that are ‘Bound to Astound’

As we await CES 2017 (Consumer Electronics Show), let us take a look back at CES 2016 and cherish some of the stuff we thought was too good to be real! So put on your time traveller glasses because Bhagat Singh Mattewal is about to take you on a hi-tech journey.

Segway Advanced Personal Robot “See the world differently on a robot that gives you a ride”.

As advertised , it is the both that gives you a ride , but this weirdly faced robot is a first of its kind personal assistance device with transportation benefits . And to all the people who thought all robots could be were talking and moving vacuum cleaners , segway politely said ‘ Whaaat upp?’

The bot which is made by a collaboration between Xiaomi , Intel and Segway is powered by Intel’s artificial intelligence chip called ‘ Intel Atom’ and running speeds of 18 km/hr and workable distances of upto 30km.

Segway Advanced Personal Robot “See the world differently on a robot that gives you a ride”.

As advertised , it is the both that gives you a ride , but this weirdly faced robot is a first of its kind personal assistance device with transportation benefits . And to all the people who thought all robots could be were talking and moving vacuum cleaners , segway politely said ‘ Whaaat upp?’

The bot which is made by a collaboration between Xiaomi , Intel and Segway is powered by Intel’s artificial intelligence chip called ‘ Intel Atom’ and running speeds of 18 km/hr and workable distances of upto 30km.

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DietSensor SCiO Food Scanner Priced at $249 and yet awaiting launch, the diet sensor SCiO is a food sensing hardware that reads molecular structure off the cells of your food to tell you about qualities such as the protein, fat, calorie count etc. It can only do one piece of the food at a time and has to use a multi-step app to do the job, but it’s kind of astounding that it even works in the first place.

Livestream Movi Live streaming was one of the biggest trends of 2015 and live-stream (the company) took a shot at capitalising on this factor and launched a 2.5*2 inch camera , which offers 4K live video recording and streaming . This $399 camera offers a reliable and professional streaming utility which isnt possible with the camera and connection on a phone. With a 150 degree field of view, an hour long battery life and a nice white and black soft touch exterior, it still isnt about the hardware .

Livestream has built a 4K camera that isn’t necessarily going to floor you with beautiful imagery. Instead, the company focused on creating software lets you crop in on that 4K image while you’re live streaming to set up a number of completely different shots, essentially mimicking a multi-camera setup with just one pocket-sized camera and an iPhone.

Samsung Notebook 9 Taking a clean sweep with the ‘thin and light’ category of laptops , Samsung presented the notebook 9 with an Intel Core i7 processor , 8GB of RAM, and 256 GB of SSD storage .though the 1080p display was a sheer disappointment and also made it fall out on the leader-board with laptops like the MacBook Pro or Dell XPS.

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Chevy Bolt Chevy Bolt is bound to be the most significant electric car since the original Tesla Roadster and Tesla Model S. The Chevy would be available for an astounding $30,000 . It comes with a 10.2 inch touchscreen on the dash and a few other bells and whistles. At this consumer friendly price, it is not hard to see it as the future of fully electric cars even though it is not as fast and flashy as the the tesla.

Parrot Disco Drones made a huge splash at CES this year, but the biggest standout was the Parrot Disco. Parrot has already been made famous for its entry level drones, but the Disco looks and feels like something else entirely. The Parrot Disco has two wings that let take off more like a kite than a traditional drone. With just a toss in the air, the Disco can pick up enough momentum to stay afloat. This thing can also fly at speeds up to 50mph, stay up for as long as 45 minutes, comes with a 1080p camera at the nose, and has a number of assisted flying modes.

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The Birthday

Queen

Such is the charm and aura of this pretty lady that even M.F. Hussain hailed her for being “blessed with an earthiness” that makes her all the more enchanting and depicted a desire to paint her beauty through his art. Yes, it’s the free-spirited and unconventional Vidya Balan, who has just turned older (or perhaps younger!) on the 1st January-her birthday!!

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Lesser known facts about Vidya Balan: •

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After a debut Malayalam film got shut, Vidya was thrown out of 12 other films and people started calling her ‘Jinx’.

Apparently, Vidya has Obsessive Compulsive Disorder and likes to keep everything organized.

Since her parents wanted her to complete education, she has a Master’s degree in Sociology.

Vidya Balan is trained in carnatic music.

Vidya gave about 40 screen tests to convince director Vidhu Vinod Chopra for her role in Parineeta.

To get the title of ‘entertainment’ in The Dirty Picture she had put on 12 kilograms.

Vidya Balan acted in 90 advertisements at a stretch during her struggling days.

Lal in No One killed Jessica, a pregnant woman finding her lost husband in Kahani, Lolita in Parineeta and a single mother in Paa. She zipped all her critics with her seductive performance in Ishqiya stealing the show even with a great actor like Naseeruddin Shah on-screen.

With awards like Filmfare, National film, Screen and the iconic Padma Shri in her lap, her journey was not a cake walk nor did success come easy to Vidya. After her initial success in the TV show Hum Paanch she had to go through a trail of rejections and replacements in various Tamil and Malayalam films. In 2003, Vidya Balan made her debut as the protagonist Anandi in a Bengali drama named Bhalo Theko, a role that won her the best actress award. In spite of the criticism she had to face in the initial period of her career for her not-soactress like figure, Vidya Balan has always been proud of her originality and naturalness. By her actions, she proved that beauty and sexuality is not defined by the stereotypical standards

but one’s own individuality.

Coming into an industry where no film could survive without a male actor, Vidya toppled the whole concept bravely. In a latest interview while promoting Kahaani 2, she talked about self-love, that in spite of loving her husband Siddharth, how she herself is the most important person in her life. Vidya has been vocal about the paying scale inequality in the industry.

Apart from this she has been boldly criticising the constant stereotypes and invented identity crisis of ‘a married women’, where no man is ever asked when he will become a father unlike a woman.

Vidya’s honest, audacious, unapologetic and fierce yet at the same time elegant, charismatic and sensuous personality puts her on a different pedestal from her peers. In her upcoming movie Begum Jan, Vidya speaks against body-shaming by playing the role of a brothel madam while biopic Kamala Das is about a woman who valiantly speaks about the struggles of a woman.

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n the competitive Bollywood industry, holding one’s identity and values is a challenge. One actress who has marked her stamp with admirable strength, talent, courage and oomph factor is no one else but Vidya Balan. From Lage Raho Munna Bhai to Paa to Kahaani to Dirty Picture, she has delivered outstanding masterpieces always choosing the roles she believed in. Vidya Balan is one of the few actresses who had the audacity to choose the unconventional path or the road less travelled by becoming a part of womencentric films. In a patriarchal society like ours, where the word feminist is thought to be a ‘fashion’, Vidya went a step ahead and stunned the world with mouth dropping and flabbergasting performances. Few of them being the role of sex icon Silk Smitha, the daring character of Jessica Lal’s sister Sabrina January 2017 | www.thelifestylejournalist.com | TheLifestyleJournalist |

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Celebrating life

Enjoy

Festive January

You Live Only Once- YOLO, make this your resolution and pack yourself to celebrate New Year with the small Earth we live in.

UP Helly AA This is a fire festival which celebrates the Nordic culture and heritage. Go to the ancient times with costumed Vikings where torches are thrown in Viking galley, after which there are plays, skits, singing and dancing.

When- 31 January 2017 Where- Lerwick, Scotland

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ew Year is all about new resolutions, broken resolutions, revived resolutions, new hopes, promises and smiles! A new beginning with a promise to celebrate each day like it is going to be the last one, that’s what we call YOLO right? Well, of course there are going to be a few of us who not ready for the dawn of the New Year or the ones welcoming the year with half-hearted smiles. We can give you some reasons or occasions to brighten that smile up and shoot up your energies.

Timkat World Buskers Festival Imagine the entire world’s circus gathering at one place! Here you will get to see the best street performers of music, theatre, juggling, burlesque, dance and also various comedy shows.

When- 19-29 January 2017 Where- Christchurch, New Zealand

This festival is to celebrate the Baptism of Jesus Christ by the Ethiopian Tewahedo Church.

The huge parade consisting of people in white robes holding vibrant parasols, children all dressed up in colourful clothes and crowns. The procession goes through the streets dancing and singing which is followed by feasting.

When: 19 January 2017 Where: Gondar, Ethiopia

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Tapati Rapa Nui Sundance Film Festival All the film crazy bugs must be aware of the mighty Sundance Film Festival held every year in the United States.

Enjoy some of the masterpieces in various sections such as documentary, feature films, short films and movie premieres.

When: 19-29, Januray 2017 Where: Park City, Utah, USA

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A festival to test the masculinity and femininity of people, this festival is full of traditional competitions, fireworks, sports and dances. There is also a competition for females who compete to become Queen for the year.

When: January 2017 Where: Rapa Nui National Park, Easter Island, Chile

Quebec Winter Carnival It is one of the largest winter festivals in the world with parades, ice sculptures, masquerade ball, competitions, feasting and dances. Sports activities include ice canoeing, dog-sledding and snowshoe amongst others.

When: 27 January – 12 February 2017 Where: Quebec city, Canada

National Cowboy Poetry Gathering

The romantic charm of this poetry event will warm your heart.

It consists of musical groups, poets, workshops, interactions, and exhibits and plays on cowboy poetry all around the town. You will get to listen to narratives passed down through generations.

When: 30 January – 4 February 2017 Where: Elko, Nevada, USA

Harbin Ice and Snow Sculpture Festival The entire city is filled with sculpted ice structures in the largest ice and snow festival of the world. The huge sculptures are lit with LEDs and consist of various activities.

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Concept Interiors

Interiors

Hyatt Regency Chandigarh

Inspired by the vibrant colours of Punjabi traditional, symbolising it’s richness while simultaneously drawing a clue from Le Corbusier’s architectural concepts, Hyatt Regency (Chandigarh) has a mesmerising design theme that echoes its mission of flawless hospitality.

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he Hyatt design team has aesthetically designed every corner of the hotel quiet tastefully, matching it with real Punjabi essence,” quips the

General Manager, Puneet Baijal.

Perfectly suited for leisure and the business travellers, Hyatt Regency Chandigarh is located near the serene foothills of Shivalik range of the Himalayas. Strategically

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placed in the city’s premium business hub, the hotel offers a comfortable, premier, luxury service for the growing number of domestic and international travellers.

What makes it stand out,

however, is its architecture and style!

There is charismatic incorporation of glass and stone into the structure for maintaining ambient temperatures in all weathers. The hotel also has a sun-shading exterior meant to deflect sunlight.

Equipped with 211 generously sized guest rooms including 25 suites and 7 Cabana rooms, the interiors are decorated with

contemporary furniture, Punjabi artwork, legendary Phulkari work and colourful carpets.

The lobby features a unique spiral staircase designed and inspired from a similar structure at Panjab University (Chandigarh). A special provision of sound insulated meeting rooms as well as the ballroom to cater the cultural needs of a traditional Indian wedding- is

a stand out feature! There are five restaurants and a bar that span the culinary globe. In addition to it, there is also an on-site spa, Amaira with six treatment rooms for facial treatments and massages.

The whole aroma succeeds in providing what travellers crave for the most, the inherent touch of tradition and culture of the city.

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Wedding Trends

When the

weddings rain of

GotaPatti

What is the most important element of BAND, BAAJA and BARAAT? Well it is the clothes!

With Gotapatti raining this season, we introduce you to some of the latest Gota Patti trends.

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eddings in our country ought to shout one thing, ‘extravagant’.

Right from the décor to cuisines to the clothes to jewelry, everyone wants perfection. Weddings are a collection of everything fashionable and trendy. If we talk about trends, this time it is all about gotapatti and trust me there is no limit to experimentations! Jhamkas, maangtikas, footwears, bangles, rings

and clothes of course! Gotapatti is the magical star. Here are a few ways you can flaunt off Gotapatti: Jewelry People are going crazy over the eye catching jewelry made up of gotapatti. Imagine beautiful maangtikaas, large rings, earrings and bangles all made up of Gotapatti.

These would look glamorous, creative and vibrant for various ceremonies before the big wedding day such as

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Sangeet, Haldi, Mehendi and Bangle Ceremony. Gotapatti Jhumkas and Chandbalis will give you an extra edge.

Lehengas and Suits Go gota all over your bridal lehenga!

Gotapatti looks good with all the colors whether it is bright reds or pastel pinks or subtle orange or even dark greens! You can wear gota work sarees or even light suits for a simpler wedding. Not in a mood to

wear Indian? Gota work on gowns is something completely out of the plate! If you want something with just a touch of gotapatti, you can wear scarves or dupattas with kurtis for a friend’s ceremony. These IndoWestern styles have a long way to go.

Clutch and Potlis No look is complete without a handbag or clutch. A gotapatti work clutch looks trendy with sarees, lehngas, suits and other dresses.

Footwear Punjabi juttis are mandatory with suits especially Patiala salwars. Wear a gotapatti work jutti along with your favourite suit for a classy look.

Gota Patti Pearl Raw Silk Gown

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Movie Masala

What’s

poppin?

Sonam on the moon!

Sonam Kapoor won an award for exemplary style at the Brand Vision Summit to which she responded delightedly exclaiming, “It is a huge honour to be a part of this summit. I am over the moon.” There is certain finesse in her sense of style. She is experimental and has an individualistic personality which gives her an edge over her contemporaries. The founder said, “Sonam has a brilliant understanding on what flatters her physique and every dress she picks out, accentuates her look.”

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‘Dangal’ transformation Aamir had the option to use a body suit to look fat in the film but the actor decided against it as he wanted to get a perfect body language, “All the mannerisms change depending on your body weight and we wanted to show a natural process. I’d have issues tying my shoe lace,” the actor says. Friends of his even warned him, suggesting this could be the end of his career: “Many felt that it was impossible for me to shed weight and ‘Dangal’ would be my last film.

Ranbir Kapoor, Ranveer Singh spill the beans on “Koffee With Karan” That the two actors shared the couch is a feat in itself since Ranbir’s ex-flame, Deepika Padukone, is Ranveer’s current ladylove. The Ran’s dropped enough hints about their love lives that have been grist for gossip mills over the past few months. The fun continued as they together danced on Kat’s item number “Chikni Chameli”.

Later, the Kapoor scion raised

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celebs

just married

The Dazzling-

Dimple Jhangiani

When you think of a dimple, a smile is what you imagine with it and this smile is exactly what you will find on Dimple’s face. The bubbly Indian television actress, who just got married, shares her life in the real and reel world in an exclusive interview with the TLJ writer Divjot Kamboj at Rachit Khanna’s exclusive outlet in Chandigarh

Designer Rachit Khanna

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Dimple at Rachit Khanna’s outlet

When did you first know that you wanted to be an actor?

I love dressing up and looking gorgeous. I have always been known to be late for the classes right from the school days. I think it won’t be wrong to claim that I have treasured to be a part of the glamour world since always.

‘Kuchh Iss Tarah’,’ Nimrat’ in ‘Amrit Manthan’ or ‘Rajkumari Sandhya’ in ‘Raja ki Aayegi Baraat’. It was easy for me to relate to such roles. However, I got a chance to play a negative role as ‘Barkat’ in ‘Beintehaan’. It was a little challenging as I had to act like a sweet devil. This is what makes it my favorite, I guess.

How did your debut ‘Kuchh Iss Tarah’ shape the actor in you?

When I got a call for my acting premier in the Tellywood, I thought it was some prank. But the casting crew assured me that they had auditioned 700 girls and still it was my face that they wanted for the role. I told Ekta (Kapoor) that I have no training in

How do you prepare for a role?

I prepare through references. The creators refer some movies and episodes which I have to watch in order to understand what a role demands. With the script in hand, dialogues in mind, I rehearse facing the mirror till I am satisfied.

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I find comedy difficult.

Applying the glycerin and crying is an easier job for me.”

“Sometimes, all I crave for is little space with a day without so much make-up and a night full of sound sleep.”

acting and she said, “Making you ready for the role is my job”. The set of ‘Kuchh Iss Tarah’ was my workplace as well as my classroom.

Which one has been your favorite role so far?

Because of my innocent looks and ever-smiling face, I have usually got to play positive parts, be it ‘Kanya’ in

What is that one dream role you look forward to play onscreen?

I always wanted to know as to how it is to play a negative role.

That dream got fulfilled in ‘Beintehaan’. Now, I would love to hit the big screen with some positive role for a movie.

If not an actor, what profession would you have chosen?

Initially I was in the media industry, employed in the client services department having a 9-5 job which I found boring. If I was not an actor, I would have been in that kind of set-up.

What show could you go on doing for years?

I played a comedy role as Minty in Mrs. Pammi Pyaare-Lal. I find comedy difficult. Applying the glycerin and crying is an easier job for me. If given a chance to do any show for years, I would definitely go for a reality show. I love dancing and so anything like Nach Baliye or Jhalak Dikh laja would be great.

What is the strangest thing you have done for your onscreen roles?

For some shots, I was asked to light a cigarette and puff it. I am completely against all this and doing it on the National television was the strangest thing to do, in my journey

so far.

Have you ever been injured on the set?

Oh yes! Once on the set of Kuchh Iss Tarah, there was some bike scene.

I fell from the bike and my foot was fractured. However, you will be amazed to know how Ekta went on to weave the story around my accident and the shooting took place in the hospital where I was bedridden.

What is the worst part about being an actor?

The days when you are shooting, there is absolutely no personal life.

Day and night, your mind is full of ways to implement and improve your work. You are earning money but do not have time and energy to spend it anywhere. You are busy shooting even on your birthday. The only time you get to rest is while you are travelling. Sometimes, all I crave for is little space with a day without so much make-up and a night full of sound sleep.

Tell us about your visit to Chandigarh?

I am getting married this December.

At the time of my pre-wedding shoot, I came across the designs of Rachit Khanna through my stylist Sugandha Sood. Rachit’s work has a unique tang! I have come all the way from Bombay to Chandigarh with my fiancé Sunny to select some dresses for my wedding.

A piece of advice for the aspiring actors?

I would say do not push yourself beyond a breaking point. In this entire race laden with struggle, give yourself specific time. Save your mind from getting burnt out. There is no stability in this field, not every time your hard work bears fruits.

There is a lot of competition as well.

We see many aspiring actors fly from small towns and come to the metro to try their luck. If your dream is to be a star both in the real and the reel world, keep holding onto it and it would soon be a reality.

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M

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In conversation with singer

i ish Pur

3 6 00

TazThe Pop King

C

redited with being the pioneer of cross-cultural Asian fusion music, Tarsame Singh Saini aka Taz is the lead singer of the pop band, Stereo Nation which was formed in 1996 ‌. In a rapid fire questions round, Muntish Puri talks to Taz about his passion for music and more‌

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Who is Taz according to you?

(Giggles) He is a very humble who is passionate about creating music ever since his childhood.

How did you get your name?

It is a nickname my family gave me.

Who all are in your family?

I am the eldest siblings on a family of three sons and three daughters.

Your family has a business background. How you enter into music industry?

Even when I was a child, I was into theatre, music, drama. I gave up my degree in Industrial design just to pursue my career in music. At that time, my father did not talk to me for 5 years straight.

Did you have to struggle?

I did not really struggle. I got discovered by a megastar at a very early stage who saw my talent, believed in me and gave me platform to perform.

create & all the hype and sensation. People are the same everywhere.

Worst experience throughout your journey?

I really don’t have one.

Any music star you wish to work with?

Sukhwinder Singh, definitely! I also like Sunidhi Chauhan, Sonu Nigam Music director or actor you want to work with?

I would love to work with Karan Johar.

What are your hobbies?

I am a social party animal. I love to catch up with family and friends.

If not a singer, what would have you been?

I would have been a barrister.

Do you cook?

I am not a good cook but an amazing one.

Tell us about your memorable moment?

You know, a special fan came to visit me in her wheelchair after a journey of 9 hours by road in Kenya.

What do you cook the most?

It is chicken curry, keema matar, mutton masala. But there is a disclaimer, I can cook only for 20 people and not for 2.

You were super popular in 1990s and started a new revolution in pop industry. How was that era?

I was still young in a way and it was exciting, thrilling shocking at the same time.

One thing you hate about yourself ?

I think I am too generous.

After that period, you vanished from industry.

Was it deliberate?

I think I was involved in lots of business at that time. I intend on giving quality not quantity. I had to get something special. At that time, I had nothing special. Now I am ready to make a comeback.

Favorite language?

Punjabi

Do you think Indian film industry make its own stars and destroys them too?

I believe in one’s own destiny. But at the same time, this is true!

Any reference you want to quote?

I can but I won’t.

Which is your best location that makes you happy about performing?

Delhi, Chandigarh and Lahore.

You have much more fan following in Lahore than in Delhi. How does that make you feel?

It is the same feeling to be in Lahore as it is in to be in Delhi or Chandigarh. It is media and politics that

How many languages have you sung in?

Six

Favorite song out of all the songs you have sung?

Nachaange Saari Raat Rate your vocals on a scale of 10 10 Rate your style 20 out of 10 Overall as a human being, rate yourself ?

10 out of 10 Upcoming projects?

There is a new album, few movies coming up. I am working on lot of stuff.

Anything you would like to say for our adorable readers?

I sincerely love you all! You are the reason why I am alive and here. I express my gratitude to you for always supporting and loving me.

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Loving Animals

Why adopting a dog is better?

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The look a stray dog has in its eyes when you feed him biscuits is no different from the eyes of your pet back home. Titiksha Jain gives you a few reasons to adopt dogs rather than shop for one.

henever we think of getting a pet, one of the most common options is a dog.

The idea of having a dog excites many but also scares some. People generally go for expensive or cute looking breeds of

dogs for various reasons. But we forget to search our nearest shelters which are overflowing with abandoned healthy, friendly and care-seeking dogs. Even if it is indie breeds, the ones we normally call as a stray, they are intelligent, active

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and loyal dogs but we tend to prefer ‘elite’ breeds. However, there has been an increased awareness about adopting instead of buying dogs from the breeders. Here are some reasons to go pro-adopting:

1. It is a more humane way There are a huge number of dogs who are abandoned by their owners due to old age, expenses, changing city, etc. Apart from this, endless dogs are killed on the streets because of hunger, illness or accidents. Just by giving someone a shelter and lots of love you can save a life!

2. No cost The dogs who are put up for adoption are mostly rejected or homeless and hence have nowhere to go. Generally these dogs can be adopted without paying any amount unlike in case of pet shops. You save thousands of bucks by just adopting and guess what? They will give you the same amount of love, warmth and protection.

3. You speak against cruelty By adopting you not only save a life but you also speak silently against the cruelty faced by animals. Right from dog meat trading to mass killings (like the one in Kerala) to abandonment to beating up of strays for no reason, you speak up against all of them.

4. You save one life All of us have seen numerous videos of PETA which we cannot un-see because of the horrifying yet real pictures of what goes on behind the curtains. Yes, it is next to impossible to save all the dogs you see around but even if you contribute towards saving one of them, it will spill some magic in your heart for sure.

5. Already vaccinated and trained Most of the dogs, especially the ones who have been shoved out by their families are fully vaccinated. Moreover, some of them even have proper training. Cool, right? Saves a lot of efforts, time and money.

6. You get to choose Often people want a trained and adult dog for their homes as they cannot take care of small puppies or for some other reason. If you go for adoption, you get to choose according to your needs. There is no shortage of abandoned dogs or strays. If you know the right people or right groups on Facebook, you can easily find dogs of all ages and different breeds.

7. Love knows no language Abandoned or not, small or large, old or young, living in a shelter or on streets or your home, the amount of love they can offer you is going to be the same or even more!

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astrology

Saturn transit 2017

Saturn is not as malefic as it usually is thought to be! It is in fact the planet of resurrection. It is a friend of those who want perfection in life. Saturn enables the person to see a new light after passing through odds and struggles.

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aturn is one of the greatest friends of humanity. If Saturn were not involved in the scheme of things, life would not have acquired the sophisticated touch, which is now evident. It glorifies, transmutes what is gross. It does the work of culturing and perfecting those traits in a person, which show weakness, represent rejuvenation and struggle against the evil. Saturn is going to transit in Sagittarius sign from 26th January 2017 to 23rd January 2020, sign of a benevolent Planet Jupiter. Saturn’s placement in Jupiter sign will reduce its malefic effects and make him shower benefits to all.

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How Saturn will benefit you in 2017-2020

By Rishabh

Aries (March 21- April 20) Saturn will enter your 9th house, religious belief will change, long term foreign travel is on the cards, luck which was withheld will fizz out, your desire will get fulfilled, you will get help from friends, change of job is also expected, you will get relief from past disease, you will be able to find good servants.

Remedy – Feed and help poor people. Donate Black Urad Dal on Saturday at any religious place.

Taurus (April 21- May 21) Saturn will enter your 8th house, your fear will go away slowly, any physical ailment will also subside, Ayurveda will help for any ailment. Work load will increase, you will be given new assignment or new position in work, your past investments will yield good returns, you can expect unexpected gains, worries about your children will also go, you will get the fruits of past deeds.

Remedy – Feed animals (Cow, dog)

Gemini (May 22 – June 21) Saturn will enter your 7th house. Looking for a life partner? Then this is the suitable time. Saturn is a karaka for bandhan so it will bind you in the bandhan of marriage, you will become regular in your schedule, good time for purchase of house, car. Those pursuing education will see a good time. Travel plans may get delayed.

Remedy – Feed general public, donate for Langar.

Cancer (June 22 – July 21) Saturn will enter your 6th house. Enemies will go away, litigation will yield favourable results, unnecessary expenditure will be controlled, debt will be cleared, travelling will increase, new desire to start something, all fears will fade out, physical ailments will subside.

Remedy – Feed fish

Leo – July 22 – August 21) Saturn will transit your 5th house. Past deeds’ good results can be enjoyed, problem related to children will be solved, desires will be getting fulfilled, expected gain will increase, financial burden will reduce, social interaction will increase, partnerships will be fruitful, you will get good result but slowly.

Remedy – Donate Iron utensils to poor.

Virgo – (August 22 – September 23) Saturn will transit your 4th house. Not a good period for buying a new house instead renovation can be done. Remove clutter from house, sell old car, start new ventures, stress will be removed, disease will go, relation with father will improve.

Remedy – Feed food to poor women.

Libra – (September 24 – October 24) Saturn will transit your 3rd house. Short travel will increase and will be rewarding, new ventures will start moving, sibling problem will solve, long travel is also on the cards, you will be benefitted through pilgrimage, you will be able to control expenditure. Past deeds will give good results, children will perform well in studies.

Remedy – Donate oil to needy person.

Scorpio – (October 24 – November 22) Saturn will transit your 2nd house. You will be able to pay off debts, social commitments will be completed, dispute related to inheritance of property will be resolved soon. You will be able to overcome your fears, you will get expected gains, Best time to sell property or old stuff.

Remedy – Feed Vada or bread pakora to poor people.

Sagittarius – (November 23 – December 22) Saturn will transit your 1st house. You will become regular and disciplined, partnership dispute if any will be resolved, new position will be attained, change of career or business for some natives, you will get little courage for starting new venture.

Remedy – Donate Chana Dal at a religious place

Capricorn – (December 23 – January 20) Saturn will transit your 12th house. You need to become regular in day to day affairs, expenditure will decrease, you will be able to clear your debt, you will get relief from disease, spirituality will increase, you may get an opportunity for long travel, something to be sacrificed between relationship or money.

Remedy – Donate Sesame Oil in any religious place.

Aquarius – (January 21 – February 19) Saturn will transit your 11th house, you will surely get expected gain, income will increase, friends will respond in a positive and helpful manner.

Remedy – Do Charity

Pisces – (February 20 – March 20) Saturn will transit your 10th house. Start new work and get name as well as fame, you will be regular in your work, new work assignments will be undertaken and old work will be completed, less pleasure and more work will grant you success, unexpected expenditure will stop, you will meet new people and there will be new partnerships for work.

Remedy – Donate Milk and Banana to poor people.

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New Year

The

Ten

Commandments Best things to do in January 2017!

As the Saturn transits another house and the entire globe reels under new challenges faced (be it the United States of America for the new political set-up, India for demonetization, the Middle East for unrest…we compile a list of good principles to follow in the year 2017 to help you stay on the right track!

1) Self-Discipline 2) Start with a ‘new phase’ (in all aspects!)

3) Be stable in the face of challenges 4) Help others- Do Charity, either money or food (Find a way to donate!)

5) Work hard, focus less on leisure..!

6) Identify pain or problem in and around you…

7) Trust yourself !

8) Slow down to savour the small things in life 9) Put your resources to use 10) Positively transform your habits (About the writer: Rishabh is a renowned astrologer, numerologist and vastu expert)

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