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AFFINITY LUXURY LIFESTYLE MAGAZINE

JANUARY 2015 ISSUE 44

FREE www.affinitymag.co.uk

January 2015

Beauty Update All the latest beauty news

On the Piste Let’s get physical

The most luxurious ski chalets EVER Fit& fabulous fitness DVDs for 2015

BEAUTY - FOOD - DRINK - HEALTH - FITNESS - STYLE - INTERIORS - MOTORS - WHAT’S ON

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Welcome...

H Everyone It only seems 5 minutes ago that we were saying goodbye to 2013 and now here we are doing exactly the same to 2014 – with a New Year we all make resolutions. some we keep, some we break and one of the biggest ones we all make is to change our diet and lifestyle and make ourselves, fitter, healthier, more positive etc. We take a look at different ways to change your lifestyle by being happier (page 24), healthier (page 18) and fitter with our pick of the newest fitness DVD’s to hit the market (page 12).

Last month saw us in London, not only visiting the sights our capital has to offer but also seeing this bustling city from the air in a helicopter (page 58), we stayed in the luxury Lancaster London in a Royal Suite no less, and we carried on being treated like Royalty with a diamond facial at swanky beauty boutique Tresor Rare with a Diamond Facial worth £1,000 (page 23).

As we say Goodbye to 2014 and welcome in 2015 the Ski season is well and truly beginning page 60 brings you a selection of the most luxurious ski chalets you could imagine whether you love skiing or not there’s plenty to keep everyone amused.

Finally, I would like to Thank all our readers, advertisers, family and friends for their support in 2014, here’s to even bigger and better things in 2015.

Happy New Year!

Jane x

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CONTENTS 10 Helping Hands 16 Competition Time 21 Picks of the Month

27 Fashion Edit 32 BFC Awards 38 Addictions & Compulsions

46 Alexandra’s Design 46 December recipe 52 Fry’s Footie Corner

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Ricky Rayment Chats to us Built for Bond Top 10 Ski Schools Room with a View A Look Ahead

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What does your kitchen mean to you?

Ltd NEW GERMAN HANDLESS KITCHENS BEING INSTALLED IN JANUARY

Helping Hand

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Our hands are often over-looked in our skincare routine. But when you think that your hands are exposed to the elements as much as your face is, it makes sense to invest in the best hand cream you can to protect them. We take a look at our choice of the best.

Epionce Restorative Hand Cream £10 beauty-product-online.co.uk

L'Occitane Shea Butter Hand Cream £8 John Lewis

Elizabeth Arden Eight Hour Hand Cream £26 Debenhams

Pure & Light Organic Essential Hand Cream £39 pureandlightorganic.eu Wild Rose Hand Cream £5 The Body Shop

Jack Black Intense Therapy Hand Cream £14.50 Boots

Clinique Deep Comfort Hand and Cuticle Cream £18 John Lewis

Burts Bees Beeswax & Banana Hand Creme £9.99 Boots

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Our Pick of the Latest Fitness DVD’s for 2015

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A New Year a New You chances are you have made some kind of resolution to get fitter, keep fit, become more healthy for 2015.

We take a look at the latest fitness DVD’s for 2015 to help you achieve this

Barre Amped Boot Camp £11 Amazon Release date: 26th December

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FITSTEPS Dance Yourself Fit £10 Asda Release Date: 26th December

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Leslie Sansone - Belly Blasting Walk £14 Amazon Release Date: 5th January

Yoga For Weight Loss With Roxy Shahidi £12.25 Amazon Release Date: 26th December

Barre Amped £10 Tesco Release Date: 26th December

Zalza - The Ultimate Dance Workout £9.99 Tesco Release Date: 15th December

Davina: 7 Minute Fit - New for 2015 £15.50 Amazon Release Date: 26th December

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Now in its 21st year, Fitness First began a journey 18 months ago to redefine the industry, putting the customer at the heart of every thing it does.

Having researched what really matters to gym-goers, Fitness First has reengineered the entire brand experience, from the quality of its facilities, to the people running its gyms, the training programmes it uses and the products and services that it offers.

Fitness First is also working with world-class behavioural psycologists to crack what motivates people to excersice, in an effort to help more members visit more often - helping people to achieve their goals and go further in their lives.

“THE NEW PROGRAMME IS INSPIRED BY TEAM GB ATHLETES AND COACHES, HOW THEY COMPETE IN; FOCUSING ON FIVE KEY FITNESS DISCIPLINES WHICH ANY ELITE ATHLETE REQUIRES: SPEED, ENDURANCE, POWER, AGILITY AND STRENGTH�

PRO ATHLETE PROGRAMME

Following the announcement that Fitness First is the first ever official fitness partner to Team GB, Fitness First has rewritten the rules of fitness and created the Team GB Pro Athlete programme - to give members a taste of what training like a Team GB athlete could feel like!

Launched by Olympic medalists Micola Adams, Ed Clancy, Max Whitlock and Gemma Gibbons - the new programme is inspired by Team GB athletes and coaches, how they train and the Olympic sports they compete in; focusing on 5 key fitness requires: speed, endurance, power, agility and strength.

The 40 minute class consists of 3 key phases; training which centres around the 5 key disciplines; competition, competing in teams and finally, teamwork, learning the importance of working together to achieve the best possible results. A functional core workout follows each phase in order to strengthen the core, an attribute to successful athletic performance.

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01234 763 930 fitnessfirst.co.uk

Newnham Avenue, Bedford MK41 9LW

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WIN! WIN! WIN!

Your chance to win yourself a New Year treat with The Fragrance Shop We have got together with The Fragrance Shop in Milton Keynes to offer two lucky readers the chance to win a bottle of the new Loewe Quizas Seduccion fragrance.

A luxury Spanish label, based in the cultural capital of Madrid, Loewe specialise in high quality perfumes, aftershaves and luggage. The Fragrance Shop is one of the very few retailers to stock Loewe in the UK. Quizás Seducción is a floral-fruity fragrance with aphrodisiac powers. It opens with a fruity cocktail of tempting passion fruit, sweet orange and blackberry. Its full floral heart combines elegant Sambac jasmine with strong tuberose and orange blossom. The base of the perfume features sweet notes of caramel and vanilla.

To win a bottle of this gorgeous perfume, just tell us “Where is the new Loewe Quizas Seduccion scent available in Milton Keynes? And send your answer to affinitymagcomp@gmail.com - Good Luck!

The Eau de Parfum comes in an elegant black bottle in 30ml (£44.50), 50ml (£62.50) and 100ml (£85) and is available at The Fragrance Shop, 36 Midsummer Arcade The Centre, MK9 3BB. 16

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Myths Busted!

Health, Fitness and Nutrition

The health and fitness industry is constantly plagued by a mix of different opinions. One month a new diet is all the rage and the next thing you know it’s really bad for you. It’s difficult to know what advice to take on board and what to discard. For health and fitness professionals it can be very frustrating when people constantly believe things that are not true.

With the New Year here and everyone making resolutions to get fitter, healthier etc we take a look at the most common health, fitness and nutrition myths that just aren’t true.

1. Fat is bad for you You need fat in your diet, it has many benefits to the functions of the body. It helps with energy, vitamin absorption and insulation. Avoid trans fats and instead have a healthy balance of monounsaturated, polyunsaturated and saturated fats. Top foods with healthy fats include uncooked olive oil, avocado and nuts.

2. Don’t eat carbs after six This is just too much of a blanket expression. Some people may need to eat carbs later on in the day if they train in the evenings or work shifts. Not having carbs after 6pm isn’t going to magically transform your body.

rapidly put muscle mass on. Weights are a fantastic way to tone and firm up your body.

6. Sit ups are the best thing for a toned stomach Many people will do sit ups incorrectly and they only focus on the upper part of their core which is an area most people use a lot anyway. The areas you need to focus on include your obliques, lower abdomen and lower back. Sit ups do not engage these other important areas.

3. Crash diets work Although FAD/crash diets will get you quick results they won’t be sustained. Some crash diets are not very good for you and should be approached with caution. Cutting essential nutrients out of your diet isn’t the way to go.

7. Going in the sauna is best for a hangover This is a very common misconception. If you go in the sauna you won’t sweat out the alcohol, all you are losing is water from your body, which is something you need to recover. Alcohol is a diuretic which means it will get rid of the water in your body. People that think going in the sauna will help a hangover could in fact be making it worse.

4. Cardio is best for losing weight Most people when they start off at the gym will just stick to cardio machines because they think it makes the biggest difference. When you exercise, the first thing your body uses as energy is sugar, for the average person this takes around 30 minutes to burn off. Within that time your body isn't even focusing on fat as an energy source.

A much more efficient way if you are looking to lose weight is to start with weights and finish with cardio.

5. Weights will make women big Women generally don’t produce enough testosterone (muscle building hormone which is prominent in men) to

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8. Sweating means you burn more calories How much you sweat depends on what type of exercise you are doing and how your body reacts to heat. When you sweat you are losing water not fat, it’s your body’s way of cooling you down. Sweating has nothing to do with

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14. Exercise alone will help you lose weight There is no point embarking on a gruelling exercise routine if you don’t change your diet. You need to do exercise to stay fit and healthy but what you eat will have a bigger impact on your weight.

fat loss or the amount of calories you burn. Some people just naturally sweat more than others.

9. You need to train every day to notice a difference When people get into a new exercise regime they often think they need to workout every day. Your body needs rest and if you train too hard your body won’t be able to recover. You don’t need to train every day of the week to notice a difference.

10. Doing cardio before weights is best If you start with weights you should be able to lift heavier weights as you won’t be tired from doing cardio.

Moreover, if you have used all your energy up during cardio your technique may suffer when you come to do weights. You are also likely to burn more calories by doing weights first as you have the energy to put everything into each lift. Weight workouts will help you to burn off excess sugar and you will be using carbohydrates, when you do cardio you will burn more calories and can focus on fat burning.

11. All protein products are basically the same thing Protein brands can vary significantly. There are different types of protein that companies use such as whey, casein and soy. They can also vary the amount of protein/carbohydrates depending on the purpose of the protein. Choose a protein that will help you to achieve your health and fitness goals.

12. To lose weight you need to completely cut carbs Carbohydrates are an important part of your diet. Don’t completely cut out carbs from your diet, they are your main source of energy and you wouldn’t function very well without them. If you don’t eat carbs your body will begin to use fat and protein for energy.

13. The bigger you are the stronger you are When you see a huge guy or girl in the gym, don’t assume that they are stronger than you. For example, bodybuilders will look much bigger than weightlifters but who do you think has the strength to lift more weight?

15. You can target fat burn If you think that doing exercises in certain areas will help you target fat burn you are in denial. The body doesn't discriminate where it takes fat from and fat storage varies for different people. When you embark on a mission to lose weight you will be losing fat from all over your body.

People think they can target specific areas because you appear to lose weight more in areas where there is naturally less fat. Targeting fat loss is physiologically impossible.

16. The heavier you are the fatter you are So many people judge improvement based only on weight. Weight isn’t always an accurate reflection of how well you are doing. If you are doing weights you may build some muscle which is heavier than fat. However, your body might be smaller and more toned. Choose an integrated approach to measuring your progress. Make a note of your body fat percentage and body measurements as well as your weight will give you a better indication of your progress.

17. You have to eat lots of fruit to be healthy When people want to eat healthy, one of the first things they do is stock up on lots of fruit. Fruit is good for you and you should have a few portions a day but don’t go overboard. Fruit is actually very high in sugar and some fruits can be high in calories. Vegetables have more beneficial vitamins and minerals and fewer calories than fruit.

18. Running is the best way to lose weight Many people start running as a way of losing weight and get frustrated when they don’t see any results. You need to run for at least 30 minutes before you start burning fat.

Running is also a high impact sport that’s not great for your joints. Weight and interval training is a far more effective way of targeting fat. Running can definitely be beneficial if combined with other types of training.

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Midlife Madness

Pain but No Gain

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have lived more years than I am prepared to state in this article, largely in the company of other girls and then women. Yes I have been fortunate enough to have had many good relationships with males too, father, brother, partner’s sons, friends and colleagues but in terms of closeness on the topic of this article it is with the women that I have bared my soul.

needs good undies and that turns our attention to what is under the dress and what may be on show should the dress come off!

So let’s start with the whole issue of body hair and state for the record that this is natural and every woman has it.

There it is! I’ve said it just in case any man reading this thinks that women are actually hairless, apart from on their heads where of course they are supposed to have long thick glossy silky locks.

I am talking simply of ‘beauty’, and though you may deny I think the vast majority of women want to look, and feel beautiful. In pursuit of this we spend a lot of time, effort, money and as we all know endure a not insubstantial amount of pain.

But most women somehow or other have got it in their heads that to be attractive is to be hairless. So we pluck and tweeze and shave and wax. The weird thing is that we seem to accept the pain so no one even moans abut it unless of course it is a man having some part of his anatomy waxed for charity then we can admit that the process is not uncomfortable but downright painful. I know men do shave too but usually it is confined to their faces and they don’t generally in my experience go for waxing and plucking with tweezers. The crazy thing about eyebrows is that we go and draw them on afterwards – how have we let ourselves be conned so much.

Some stuff is simple, we go shopping and its generally fun, we may spend more money than we intend searching for the outfit that will make our figure rival that of the latest female icon (and clearly that has changed in the course of my life from voluptuous to painfully thin, now yo yoing between a catwalk versus Dove campaign) but we absorb it all, do some complex mind maths and decide that given our natural limitations what we need is that particular dress to make us look awesome!! Providing of course that we breathe in for the entire day/evening. Or perhaps subject ourselves to some quick result diet and quite literally starve ourselves for a few days/weeks just to look good, which to my mind remains infinitely preferable to some detox colonic irrigation or worse!

Hair styles can be very costly but at least the level of pain seems to have decreased. Highlighting is relatively painless now but those of us old enough to remember when rubber style skull caps with holes and an item resembling a crochet hook were the fashionable requirements will know that it used to be a very painful process.

Then we get the shoes – more money and clearly they could have been designed as instruments of torture – ‘here take these pointed plat-formed high heeled shoes and walk for miles in them’ – I can almost hear a medieval torturer giving a gleeful cackle! You also have to bear in mind that if it is something ‘posh’ you know an ‘occasion’ then as a female you will probably freeze - unless it is in the height of summer - because you simply can’t ruin the look with a coat!!

But don’t get me wrong whilst I might not agree with the sentiments in the old song that said about women ‘Keep young and beautiful, it’s your duty to be beautiful!’ I do try to look at least presentable and though I will continue to enjoy a good pamper, my days of squeezing into a body con dress and tottering in six inch heels are definitely over. Frankly, whether it is because of my advancing years or growing feminist tendency if it’s going to involve pain I don’t really care about the gain!!

But that is only the beginning! For most of us a good outfit 20

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Ted Baker Scented Candle (New York) £28 Amara

Bang & Olufsen BeoPlay A2 Portable Bluetooth Speaker £298.99 amazon.co.uk

Grey Popcorn Split Jumper £35 River Island

Filofax Exotic Personal Organiser £125 Filofax.co.uk

Cobalt Blue Leather Skirt £95 Wallis

Ben Di Lisi Bowl £45 Debenhams

AFFINITY

HOT PICKS Armand de Brignac Brut Gold Champagne £219.69 amazon.co.uk

Hourglass Ambient Blush Palette £56 John Lewis

Jimmy Choo White Pure Parfum £50.55 for 40ml amazon.co.uk

This month’s must have gifts and accessories

Vivienne Westwood Stripe Dome Bag £219 House of Fraser

Thumbelina Framed Five Drawer Cabinet £499 Outthereinteriors.com

Daily Yoga Journal £34.95 Dailygreatness.co.uk

Ungar & Ungar Blue Jazz Collection Earrings £5,600 Ungarandungar.com

Mira Large Purse £39 Nica.co.uk

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Back to Basics

Quote Bag

For a range of beautifully funky toiletry bags and cosmetics cases. with an emphasis on design to make the ordinary, extraordinary these make-up bags from homecandy.com will have your girlfriends swooning with envy.

Priced at £9 the bags have different "Quotes" on them perfect for a gift or a treat for yourself

The three simple skincare steps Cleanse, Tone, Moisturise will have your skin loving these products from Janjira Skincare. Pomegranate & Acai Facial cleanser £24, contains a blend of natural anti ageing ingredients.

Therapy Toner £20, removes dead cells and dirt helping to reduce appearance of pores, as well as keeping skin supple and radiuant.

Argan Oil Facial Moisturisre £40 acts as an emollient and helps retain hydration in the skin. Will also protect skin from early signs of ageing. All available from www.janjira.co.uk

BEAUTY UPDATES New Year chic

Instant Face Lift skinChemists' new INSTANT collection is a blend of 3 cutting-edge active ingredients providing instant effect on mature, dry and sensitive skins: Magnesium Aluminium Silicate, Benzyl Nicotinate and Sodium Hyaluronate.

The skin appears more than 10 years younger without surgery or needles & the depth of wrinkles and lines is dramatically reduced. The lift effect last all day long helping you to look your best at any opportunities! Products range from £100 - £167 www.skinchemists.com

Indulge in this wonderful winter collection of nail polishes in delicate, bold and shimmering colours from NAILBERRY. This beautiful collection of polishes are free of Formaldehyde, Toluene, DBP and Camphor, whilst these polishes are wonderfully ethical their formulations and pigment remain uncompromised, long lasting, high gloss and chip free. A set of four gorgeous shades are £49.00, with individual polishes £13.50 each from nailberry.co.uk

Detox your skin

Murad’s Clarifying Mask is perfect for a skin dettox after all the festivities. A purifying mask with kaolin clay that draws out impurities and absorbs excess oil to control shine and prevent breakouts. Zinc and Licorice root extract soothe, comfort and calm the skin while natural earth clays purify and deep-clean to prevent new blemishes forming.

Priced at £38 and available from Murad counters within John Lewis at Milton Keynes and Cambridge as well as Y Spa.

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A Successful Launch for Luxury Beauty Boutique Trésor Rare!

Diamonds are a girl’s best friend - Earrings, necklaces, bracelets, rings and now Skincare… yes you heard that right…Skincare! The crème de la crème of the beauty world has launched in the UK – Trésor Rare. Following their luxurious launch in Mayfair towards the end of 2014, the luxury store has made a fantastic first impression in London.

From premium skin relaxor thermal masks to exfoliating cream cleansers and more, the brand has already welcomed a host of key press and customers to showcase products and facial treatments. Products were issued to a number of A list celebrities including Eva Longoria, Victoria and David Beckham, Gordon Ramsey and Nicole Scherzinger at The Global Gifts Gala 2014.

As the direct result of seven years of extensive research worldwide, Trésor Rare uses the most prestigious and indulgent ingredients across its skincare range including exfoliating diamond dust and deep water pearls, producing a new standard of age defying effects for clientele. Part of the Premier Group, the brand produces signature fragrances as well as a range of luxury skincare products.

Due to tremendous success surrounding their 5 stores in the United States, with their flagship being on 5th Avenue in New York, the launch of Trésor Rare in South Molton Street, Mayfair marked the brand’s European debut.

With complimentary consultations and high end treatments available, there is something to satisfy everyone with a taste for sophisticated beauty.

Trésor Rare 37 South Molton Street Mayfair London W1K 5RG

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Have a Happy

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Work makes you happier. It provides routine, structure and self-worth. Make sure you are in a job you enjoy. If you are not, make finding one that you do a priority for this year.

appiness, something we all strive for, has been shown to have many protective benefits for physical and mental health; studies show that happy people get sick less, recover faster from illness and even live longer.

Independence: Personal control in work makes you happier; there is better life satisfaction for those earning less but in control of their working practice than those who are richer but have less control.

There is a wealth of research that has been conducted into what causes happiness and how to achieve it. Indeed, studies show that happiness varies according to many correlating factors, including: genetics, health, age, money, relationships and even political persuasion. Broadly speaking there are a number of trends that can predict how happy people are likely to be: people tend to get happier as they get older, with a dip at the midlife crisis, and working makes people happy as do close relationships.

Relationships: Those with close relationships are happiest – try to see friends and family more in the New Year.

Friendships: Research shows the closer people live to their friends, the happier they are – make new friends close to where you live. Get to know your neighbours better, try joining sports groups or taking up a hobby close to your home.

Dr Mo Zoha of Nightingale Hospital the leading independent mental health hospital in central London told us “Happier people tend to experience the same number of positive and negative events during their lives as those who are less happy, but they are more likely to interpret those events in a positive light. There are many things that we can all do to increase our happiness, regardless of life’s circumstances.”

Play to your strengths: Identifying your strengths and focus on developing these, either in work or a hobby. This will encourage you to become immersed in what you do and find life more gratifying.

Altruism: It is proven to help focus beyond ourselves and enable us to be more connected with the world around us. In 2015, finding local charities, sports clubs or community organisations where you can donate your time, you might even start new friendships with local people.

Dr Zoha’s Top 15 Tips for achieving happiness in 2015

Money - does money buy you happiness? Those that spend their time and efforts seeking love rather than more money tend to be happier, particularly once they earn enough to pay for necessities. Focus on nurturing relationships rather than earning money in 2015.

Enjoy the moment: Older people tend to be happier. It is thought that they are better at living in the present and better at controlling emotions, which we can all strive to achieve.

Be kind: Set yourself a weekly target for acts of kindness for friends, family, colleagues and strangers on the street.

This will further increase your connection to the outside world.

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Focus on the positives: Improving happiness levels can depend on how we focus our attention – being attentive

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Meditate: Regular meditation can help with positive mental health.

and focusing on one positive task helps us to enjoy the moment.

Positive memory: Those who are happier remember bad events in a more positive light – it is possible to focus on particular aspects of a memory to notice the positives more than negatives.

Gratitude diary: You can retrain your mind to focus on the good things that happen rather than the bad, as well as stopping taking your blessings for granted by keeping a gratitude diary. Every day for 6 weeks jot down 5 things that happened that day for which you are grateful.

Say ‘thank you’: Expressing your gratitude for someone’s actions is the single most effective exercise in positive psychology. Saying thank you to even small acts and gestures will help improve gratitude levels.

Use technology less: The less time you spend on using technology, the more you can carry out activities that help you engage with the world around you.”

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www.nightingalehospital.co.uk

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FASHION

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Affinity

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Limited Edition Gilet £69 Marks & Spencer

A Little Faux

Black Gilet £109 Mint Velvet

Faux Fur Gilet £39.99 Blue Inc

Evelyn Gilet £49 Monsoon

Pink Gilet £42 Next

Fluffy Gilet £32 Apricot Red Herring £42 Debenhams Marks & Spencer

Louella Gilet £79 Monsoon

Racoon Gilet £99 Mint Velvet

Aotograph Gilet £499 Marks & Spencer Cream Faux Fur Gilet £39.99 New Look

Grey Faux Fur £75 Simply Be

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Winter Wrapping

Bellona Waterfall Coat £99 Phase Eight

Cashmere Blend Coat £120 Marks & Spencer

Blue Collarless Coat £49.99 New Look

Checked Coat £49.99 Bonprix

Boucle Coat £70 Next

Phoebe Boucle Coat £99 Monsoon

marksandspencer

Okham Wrap Coat £750 Daks at Campaign for Wool

Belted Coat £95 Next

Coat £55 AX Paris

Victoria Sponge Velvet Coat £95 White Stuff

Twiggy Swing Coat £120 Marks & Spencer

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Chunky Sweats

Cowl Neck Sweater £180 Jaeger

Fur Front Jumper £39 Miss Selfridge

Red Herring Jumper £35 Debenhams

Fairisle Jumper £30 Next

Cable Jumper £8 Primark

Blue Jumper Topshop

Camilla Cable Knit Jumper £49 Monsoon

Autograph Jumper £49.50 Marks & Spencer

Henry Holland £38 Debenhams

Snowflake Jumper £35 Marks & Spencer

Henry Holland £38 Debenhams

Grey Jumper £35 Next

Hats Off

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Faux Fur Bando Hat £19 Accessorize

Bobble Hat £9.99 New Look

Bobble Hat £10 Next

Super Chunky Hat £17 Accessorize

Debenhams

H by Henry Holland £16 Debenhams

White Bobble Hat £14 Miss Selfridge

Hat F&F

Debenhams H by Henry Holland £16 Debenhams

Diamond Pull on Hat £15 Accessorize

Truffle Faux Fur Hat £45 Cuckooland

Polar Bear Hat Marks & Spencer

Hat Marks & Spencer

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BFC Awards 2014 Last month the London Coliseum played host to the 2014 British Fashion Awards welcoming a guest list packed with the capital's most prominent designers, models and A listers including Rhianna, Anna Wintour OBE, Valentino Garavani, Naomi Campbell, Kate Moss, Harry Styles, David & Victoria Beckham, Lewis Hamilton, Lana del Rey and Courtney Love.

Voted for by over 400 members of the global fashion industry and with over 2000 people gathered to celebrate the successes of the fashion industry over the past year Winners on included: Emerging Womenswear Designer: Marques’Almeida Emerging Menswear Designer: Craig Green Emerging Accessory Designer: Prism Red Carpet Designer: Alexander McQueen Model of the Year: Cara Delevingne Special Recognition: Chris Moore Isabella Blow Award for Fashion Creator: Edward Enninful International Designer: Nicolas Ghesquière Outstanding Achievement: Anna Wintour OBE Creative Campaign: Louis Vuitton New Establishment: Simone Rocha Establishment: Preen Brand: Victoria Beckham British Style: Emma Watson Accessory: Anya Hindmarch Menswear: J.W. Anderson Womenswear: Erdem

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The late Professor Louise Wilson was also honoured at the ceremony in a tribute that saw models wearing looks by designers she had taught at Central Saint Martins, including Christopher Kane and Mary Katrantzou. The soundtrack featured Remember Me by Diana Ross with a Samuel L. Jackson recital.

Sponsors for the event included:

Principal Partner Swarovski; Official Presenting Sponsors Canon, M•A•C, Toni & Guy, Vodafone; Official Sponsors American Express, Marks & Spencer, Mercedes Benz, Penhaligon’s, Rightster.

As well as Fashion Monitor and Harrogate Spa.

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Last month saw The NEC open its doors for the 26th year to the world's largest fashion and beauty festival - The Clothes Show Live which included 5 days of fashion, catwalk shows, celebrity designer guests, makeovers, champagne bars and lots more!

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Learning about Addictions and Compulsions A lot has been written about addictions and compulsions but much of what I have read has concentrated on either the process of becoming addicted, the impact that addictions have on the individual or family or specific detail about the substances that people commonly become addicted to – alcohol, nicotine or drugs of other kinds. In no way do I wish to minimise the devastating impact that addiction can have, which can truly ruin lives, cause premature death and much suffering not only for the individual but also for the family and may lead to criminal charges. But the causes that underlie addiction and compulsion are incredibly similar yet it appears little attention has been given to them.

A recent quote that I read got me thinking about this and the emotions which cause some people to seek relief in a substance, whether cigarettes, alcohol, food, prescription or illegal drugs cause others to seek increasing doses of that emotion.

In order to feel healthy and be functional in emotional terms we need to have a sense of self. Children develop this as they grow up and hopefully experience love attachment and acceptance form parents and carers so that they can

develop a sense of self-worth and self-respect. We are all aware that some children are not as lucky as others and many have to cope with parents who cannot or do not give children what they need.

Some, as they grow will seek out relationships with others which may bring some healing but sadly others will seek out situations, usually subconsciously that reinforce the negative beliefs they have about themselves.

Think for a moment about a young women who has perhaps experienced abuse, statistically such a women is more likely to end up in relationships with other men who abuse her. It is easy to think that is illogical and at a simple level it is but her inner psyche tells her she is no good, not worthy of love or respect and subconsciously will seek relationship which confirm that. This I recognise giving a simple explanation for that is a very complex process.

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mellowness of a few drinks or the high of a stimulant it is a good feeling that leaves the individual wanting more and gradually a pattern begins until in the case of addiction the ‘need’ for that feeling or perhaps the way it stops or lessens certain other feelings will drive the individual to seek it more frequently and purposefully.

But before we rush to be critical we all indulge in similar patterns of behaviour. There are probably not many people reading this who have not at some point had a few drinks at the end of a bad day.

Or think about the person who is obsessive about cleanliness. There is obviously a level at which compulsion, like addiction, drives almost all other behaviours. So while there may be many people living fairly functional lives but who feel compelled to do certain things, mop the kitchen floor before work, clean assiduously before they go to bed,

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even though rationally a part of them knows this is not strictly necessary.

There are of course others whose lives are truly blighted by the compulsion they have to repeat certain tasks, and gradually this can literally take over their lives.

So why are people driven to such behaviours? I acknowledge the complexities that may exist but also the simplicity of the fact that as humans our behaviour usually gives us something we need. I am not talking here about a clean house but about the emotion that drives the behaviour (the cleaning in this case) and then the emotion that comes from having done it. People who I see for tapping therapy talk about satisfying a drive, but like an addiction when they wake the next day the cycle begins again.

This pattern of behaviour can be the same with a whole range of emotions. It may cause some people to continually reject potential

partners, or conversely constantly seek new attractions to prove to themselves that either they are unlovable (and doing the rejecting is usually easier emotionally than being rejected) or that they could have love if they wanted it. Both almost opposite behaviours stem form a similar fear and demonstrate the different ways that people cope with uncomfortable beliefs about themselves.

Many people tell me they feel compelled to eat, even when they decide they won’t they find themselves reaching for food as a comfort. In many ways this can be seen as another type of addiction.

The perplexing thing is that often the belief that drives the behaviour is simply not true.

Some-one may avoid social situations because they have a low self esteem, but actually while this is understandable they may actually be living out of fear because of a trauma 39

that happened years ago, or even something as small as a comment that ‘took root’ in their own emotional subconscious.

But there is a way out. Whatever the underlying cause or driver if the emotion is identified and the cause dealt with there can be a way out.

Tapping is one way of doing this in a simple, no- invasive, empowering way it deals with the emotional imbalance that traumas can cause and with the underlying beliefs.

Dealing with the cause is surely a better way than simply managing the addiction or compulsion, although in fact tapping can actually help with the compulsive or addictive behaviour too and that is certainly a good starting point for anyone struggling with such behaviours.

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A delicious, filling kind of soup that will warm you right up on a chilly day

Ingredients 4 slices thick smoked bacon 1 can chopped tomatoes 2 tbsp Dijon mustard Salt & pepper 1 1/2 cup(s) green split peas 1 clove garlic (finely chopped) 2 medium carrots, cut into quarters 2 stalk celery, cut into quarters 1 large onion, finely chopped 6 sprigs fresh thyme Croutons, for serving Crisp bacon, for serving Chopped parsley, for serving

Method Partially cook the bacon slices on a low heat under the grill.

In a 5- to 6-quart slow cooker, add the tomatoes, mustard, 5 cups water, and 1/2 teaspoon each salt and pepper.

Add the partially cooked bacon along with the split peas, garlic, carrots, celery, onion, and thyme and stir to combine. Cook, covered, until the vegetables are tender and the peas have broken down, 7 to 8 hours on low or 4 to 5 hours on high.

Remove and discard the bacon slices and thyme. Divide among bowls and top with croutons, bacon, and parsley.

Serve with warm crusty bread

Super Sparklers Waitrose Brut Champagne NV This Brut Champagne comes from a quality conscious Champagne House using only the top cuvee from the first pressing of grapes. A stylish dry wine with ripe fruit and biscuity flavours make it ideal as an aperitif or as a match for light dishes £19.99, Waitrose

La Masottina Prosecco NV A lively, crisp Italian sparkling wine which is aromatic and fresh with light lemon, pear and apple flavours and a floral hint. It has a dry, wonderfully refreshing finish. £10, Marks & Spencer

Veuve Clicquot’s ‘La Grande Dame’ 2004 Named after the 'Grand Lady' as a tribute to Madame Clicquot, 'La Grand Dame' is the flagship and pinnacle of Veuve Clicquot's style.

Elegant, refined and delicate, Grand Dame is the utmost homage to the role she played in the formative years of the Champagne house £125, Majestic

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Trio of chocolate mousses Ingredients

175g dark chocolate (70%) 115g butter 3 large eggs, separated For the Flavours 1 shot cointreau 50g strawberry jam 50g raspberry jam

Method

Melt the chocolate and butter in the microwave, for 1 minute 30 seconds, stirring every 30 seconds. The butter should stop the chocolate burning, but you still need to be careful. For the more cautious, melt these over a pan of simmering water, ensuring the water is not touching the bottom of the bowl.

Whisk your egg whites with the sugar to form stiff peaks.

Add the egg yolks to the chocolate, mixing constantly.

Gently fold the whites into the chocolate mixture.

Divide the mix into 3 and a flavour to each of them, carefully folding these in. The cointreau mousse will come out slightly looser, but will still set firm Transfer the mousse to espresso mugs or shot glasses and chill overnight.

Garnish each with a piece of fruit according to each flavour.

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Our 3rd Anniversary!

Friday 23rd January Karl is celebrating his 3rd year of owning The Millhouse. Join us for a fantastic dinner, 3 courses for £25

Next Pudding Night

Friday 9th January £16 for a main course and as many delicious puddings as you can squeeze in

Pancake Night

Tuesday 17th February £16 per person to include a main course and unlimited pancake desserts

Valentines at The Millhouse Friday 13th and Saturday 14th February Treat someone special £25 per person for 3 courses Booking is essential

01234 781678 info@millhouse-riverside.co.uk www.millhouse-riverside.co.uk millhouse_hotel Millhouse Hotel and Riverside Restaurant Mill Road, Sharnbrook, Bedford MK44 1NP

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Happy New Year to all Affinity magazine readers and may it be the best year you have ever had, either personally or business wise. I am sure you all enjoyed the Christmas period with your loved ones, friends and family and are ready for whatever 2015 has to throw at you!

The football world is looking forward to another mad January as the transfer window opens on the 3rd January and closes on 2nd February. As usual, I would expect most of the business to be done in the last week and even the last day when there will be plenty of panic buys. All clubs will want to improve their squads for the second half of the campaign or look to balance the books.

It is an exciting part of the game and this time of the year is notoriously exciting for nonleague clubs in the third round of the FA Cup and also the lower league clubs like AFC Wimbledon who face Liverpool in a repeat of that famous cup final of the 80s.

Yeovil Town face Manchester United at Huish Park and Dover Athletic of the Conference face Crystal Palace of the Premier League which is also a local derby, so there will be a full house. We have had plenty of upsets in all competitions and I am sure the FA Cup will provide even more magic, something that I believe is good for the game.

It excites the supporters and it keeps the dream of FA Cup glory at the forefront of people’s minds. I am sure everyone will be watching these games with interest.

Enjoy the start of 2015!

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All About...

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TOWIE Star Ricky Rayment Launches his 2015 Calendar

Ricky Rayment stars in the popular ITV series ‘The Only Way Is Essex.’ His good looks and cheeky personality have quickly led him to be a fan favourite. For 2015 Ricky has brought out his own calendar, we decided to catch up with him over the Christmas period to get his thoughts on all things festive.

What inspired you to do a calendar?

How could I turn down the opportunity to have my own calendar? 3 years ago I worked for my dad. Now I'm going to be on people's walls! It's crazy!

How did you prepare for the shoot?

I've been doing a lot of property developing and working on site so that helped me to stay in shape.

Which is your favourite photograph and month?

I like December. Because it's Christmassy and I love that time of year!

Who would be your ideal mistletoe match?

Hmm… I would like Adriana Lima to pop by but if she's not available Liv Tyler or Kate Beckinsale would be just as good. I'm not fussy!

What’s the worst Christmas cracker joke you’ve ever heard?

I'm going to be really honest. I'm useless with jokes as I don't remember any!

What kind of traditions do you have to celebrate Christmas?

I always put the decorations up 12 days before Christmas and take them down no later than 12 days after. It’s bad luck apparently- my mum drilled it into me as a kid!

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If you could have anyone at your table this Christmas, who would they be?

It would be nice to have my Grandad back for Christmas. I'm pretty sure it would make my Nan really happy too. Bless her heart.

Which year was your favourite Christmas and why?

I can't really put a year on it, but all the Christmas' when I was a young kid when I couldn't sleep the night before because I was so excited ha. I still love Christmas, but now I'm older you don't get the same buzz as when you was a kid.

Which is your favourite Christmas song or carol?

I like the 'It's chrriiissssttttmmaaaaaaasss' tune whatever it's called ha!

What does 2015 look like for you?

It's actually looking to be probably my most successful year yet! I have so many plans and loads of business ventures coming together so it's a really, really exciting time for me!

Ricky’s calendar is out now and available from Celebrity Merchandise: www.celebritymerchandise.co.uk/Docume nt/Edit/ricky-rayment-2015-calendar

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Built for Bond Aston Martin Debuts Unique Car for ‘Spectre’ Last month Aston Martin together with EON Productions, the producers of the James Bond film franchise, unveiled Bond’s stunning new car, the Aston Martin DB10, on the 007 stage at Pinewood Studios.

director, Sam Mendes, to create the ultimate car for the world’s most famous spy.

Celebrating the great British brand’s half century with Bond, which started with the iconic DB5, the DB10 gives a glimpse to the future design direction for the next generation of Aston Martins.

The luxury British sports car brand confirmed that James Bond will once again drive an Aston Martin in his new film Spectre. On this occasion, it will be a model developed specifically for the film and built in-house by the brand’s design and engineering teams.

Dr Andy Palmer, CEO of Aston Martin, said: “In the same year that we celebrate our 50-year relationship with 007, it seems doubly fitting that today we unveiled this wonderful new sports car created especially for James Bond.

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“To be partnering once again with EON Productions is great news for this company and for everyone around the world that loves to see Bond at the wheel of an Aston Martin.

“I’m incredibly proud of everyone in the team at Gaydon who have brought this special project from concept to reality.”

Production will be strictly limited to 10 of the bespoke sports cars, developed and built by the designers, engineers and highly skilled craftspeople at Aston Martin’s Gaydon headquarters.

Fans will be able to see this exclusive car when Spectre is released on 6th November 2015.

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Flying Through The Air

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hose of you that know me will be aware that I am not a thrill seeking adrenaline junkie, I like to keep my feet firmly on the ground so when I had the chance to be taken 1000’s of feet in the air in a helicopter and fly over London taking in all of the Capitals major Landmarks I knew it was too good a chance to miss and I could tick it off my bucket list (although I didn’t know it had been on it!) but I am a baby and I experienced a range of emotions from being petrified (I don’t like heights) to as excited as a child on Christmas day!

almost!), we had a short safety briefing where we were taught what to do in the unlikely event of an emergency, and then it was life vests on and we were heading out to the awaiting helicopter!

When we got to the tube station and our tube wasn’t running I saw this as a sign that I shouldn’t do it, but after being lectured by my ever-patient husband we hopped in a taxi and headed to The London Helicopter helipad in Battersea.

Once in the air I completely forgot about my fears – it was simply amazing, viewing London from 1500 feet in the air an unbelievable experience that leaves you breathless, you get to see some of London’s most popular landmarks/places including Hyde Park, Marble Arch, The London Eye, Oval Cricket Ground, Trafalgar Square, and of course Buckingham Palace from a unique vantage point –

As soon as we arrived at our destination we were greeted warmly and my questions were all answered putting my mind at rest (well

How lucky was I, I got front row seats right next to the pilot who I have to say was lovely and put my mind even at more ease, headphones were worn by everyone on the flight making it easy to communicate with each other – then with the helicopters blades whirring we started to climb into the sky.

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if you thought the view from the Shard was fabulous – well you will be blown away with the views from a helicopter ride.

Seeing London from the sky was a fantastic experience, thrilling and exciting our pilot was knowledgeable and made flying a helicopter look as easy as riding a bike!!

There’s no denying that London is one of the most stunning cities when viewed from the ground so words fail me to describe what it’s like viewing it from the air – an experience I believe everyone needs to experience at least once.

Flights start from £150 (Twelve minutes in the air), £200 (Twenty minutes in the air and £1,500 (You have exclusive use of the helicopter and can invite along 5 friends to share the experience with you!)

The London Helicopter 020 7887 2626 www.thelondonhelicopter.com

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Luxury on the Piste Here at Affinity our middle name is LUXURY so we thought it would be rude not to share with you some of the most luxurious chalets we have EVER seen………

Chalet Uberhaus, Lech, Austria

This amazing chalet is in the most exclusive Austrian resort of Lech.

With a prestigious location, literally on the piste in Oberlech, the property is the height of alpine luxury offering everything from exquisite service to effortless skiing access (ski in and ski out at its very best) there’s a fabulous interior which includes a private gym, cinema, games room, snooker room, library, bar and stunning outdoor hot tub with views over Lech’s snow`capped mountains.

Prices drop in mid March (8th – 15th) to £3,848 per person based on 10 sharing, catered including flights and transfers The Luxury Chalet Collection 01993 899 429 www.luxurychaletcollectio.com

Le Petit Palais, Courchevel 1850

Sometimes, it is hard to distinguish properties that, on the surface are full of luxurious features but lack an air of 'je ne sais quoi' with those that exude it from every single corner.

Le Petit Palais is the latter - built and designed with a flair and decadence that is, as yet, unfound elsewhere.

The property is built and designed with unbeatable flair and decadence. The six floor marvel sleeps 14 and boasts a master bedroom occupying its very own floor, complete with private lounge, bar and his and hers dressing room. Providing everything you can think of from an elegant log burning fire to your own private night club and spa that is comparable to an exclusive five star hotel.

This is THE dream escape quite simply, with incredible surroundings, the perfect location and exquisite service that will exceed all expectations.

A stay from 1st – 8th February are priced at £7,050 per person based on 14 people sleeping, serviced with food and drink payable in the resort and includes flight and transfers.

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Mont Tremblant, Meribel

Situated in its own grounds, with exceptional views of the mountains, Mont Tremblant is in the heart of Meribel, just a few minutes’ walk from the town centre.

Greeting you with a vast amount of open space and natural light these big spaces are heightened by stunning views in the day and large open fireplace at night. With state of the art technology, the property retains its alpine charm with old wood and cream walls throughout. The master bedroom occupies the whole of the first floor. With double height windows to enhance the spectacular views, this has to be the ultimate haven.

Great for families the chalet includes plasma televisions, cinema rooms, a playroom for younger children complete with books, games and toy sledges and wii console. After a hard day’s skiing, take advantage of the hot tub or the only private outdoor heated infinity swimming pool in the Meribel.

Take the children out of school (we didn’t say that!) and book the best chalet in Meribel for the family. 1st – 8th February Priced at £2,750 based on 12 people catered including flights and transfers.

The Oxford Ski Company 01993 899 420 www.oxfordski.com

Maison Blanche et Vert, Chatel

In the stunning resort of Chatel is this gem, with access to the whole Portes du Soleil ski is this gem a very clever find when it comes to weighing up the quality of the service with the price.

No detail has been overlooked at Maison Blanche & Verte. This beautiful home offers the perfect balance of cutting edge design, outstanding facilities and exceptional service. The bedrooms and living areas have thoughtfully been spaced out to ensure early birds and night owls can co-exist without disturbing each other – perfect when travelling with children. All of the six ensuite bedrooms are wired for sound and vision.

The main open plan living room offers a great entertaining space around the open fireplace and even a separate mezzanine area for the children staying at this family friendly chalet to play in or enjoy the cinema with popcorn holders in the seats. If skiing isn’t enough exercise, enjoy the use of the private gym, indoor swimming pool and sauna.

Half Term, 15th– 21st February £25,000 or 15th – 22nd March £15,000 based on 12 catered. This is great value for a chalet with its own indoor pool The Oxford Ski Company 01993 899 420 www.oxfordski.com

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The Oxford Ski Company’s Top Ten Ski Schools With the help of Rupert Longsdon the Founding Director of The Oxford Ski Company we bring you suggestions for the Top Ten Ski Schools on offer this ski season.

Oxygene (Val d’Isere) Why? – Great for children’s group lessons, maximum of six per class, instructors are friendly, of various nationalities, and ultimately kids come back having had fun (not in floods of tears!). www.oxygene-ski.com

brave enough perfect your freestyle technique and take advantage of free jumps on the Magic airbag. www.magic-meribel.com/uk

Alpine Faszination (St Anton) Why?- A family run ski school, especially good if you are a beginner because of their kind patient instructors. They are such a friendly ski school offering good value and availability for lessons even in peak weeks. www.alpine-faszination.at

New Generation (In 14 resorts across France and Switzerland) Why? – Highly experienced instructors catering to all levels of adults and children. We particularly like them for their ski clinics and developer sessions, perfect for those looking to tune their technique and progress. www.skinewgen.com

Prestige Outdoor (Chamonix and Megeve) Why?- Offering a high quality service with fully qualified instructors for private lessons, high mountain guiding and children’s group lessons in the Prestige Kids Academy with a maximum of five per class. Based in Chamonix and Megeve you can also indulge in additional activities such as snowshoe trekking, husky sledding and the biathlon experience. www.prestigeoutdoor.com

Progression Ski (Val d’Isere) Why? – Because they offer great flexibility for our guests and are great fun. Whether you are looking for one-on-one tuition or just want a guide to show you around the resort and offer the odd hint and tip to make you look great on the slopes, then speaking to Ken is the way forward. www.progressionski.com

Whistler Blackcomb Why?- Highly flexible, with lots of different options available, book into a group lesson and join for a day or the whole week with a maximum of four per group. For the more advanced skiers and to really perfect your technique ski with an Olympian. www.whistlerblackcomb.com

Stoked (Zermatt) Why?- They have a wide range of lessons available for adults, children and teenagers in group or private lessons, to make the most of your ski holiday use their VIP unlimited package, choose your meeting point and ski with your instructor for as long as you like. Stoked also offer the only ski-in and ski-out kinder garden supervised by a qualified nanny in Zermatt. www.stoked.ch/en

Deer Valley (Utah) Why?- Based in the exclusive Deer Valley resort this ski school is highly flexible and offer a great range of group and private lessons. www.deervalley.com

Altitude (Verbier) Why?- An excellent ski school in Verbier who will match an instructor to their clients requirements and character. All of the instructors are very professional and fully qualified. www.altitude-verbier.com

The Oxford Ski company offers the finest in ski holidays. Their unrivalled knowledge provides, impartial honest advice and personalised concierge style service.

Magic In Motion (Courchevel and Meribel) Why?- Great for kids lessons in the “fun factory” at the end of the week chase the giant orange mouse to collect your medal, it is always the highlight of the week for the children and if you’re

Their handpicked portfolio of over 400 luxury chalets, lodge or hotels across the Alps and North America can be found at www.oxfordski.com or call 01993 899 420 to speak to a team of dedicated travel consultants.

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A Room with a View

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Lancaster London

trip to London for the weekend found us staying at The luxurious 4 star Lancaster London Hotel, an ideal location in central London, close to the bustling shopping districts of Oxford and Bond Street, internationally famed West End theatres, museums and tourist attractions and with Hyde Park just on its doorstep it holds an envious position.

Like all the staff within the hotel, the staff at Nipa were no exception and were friendly and helpful. After much thought and studying of the menu we decided on the Ruam Mitr (a selection of Thai starters to share), these included spring rolls, Thai fishcakes, chicken and beef satay, deep fried prawn dumplings and steamed dumplings with rice wrappers, accompanied with a variety of dipping sauces, it was simply delicious.

The mains were just as flavorsome and authentic and included chicken and mushrooms with cashew nuts in a light soy and oyster sauce, Golden fried chicken wrapped in Pandan leaves and served with a dark soy sauce, Flat noodles stir-fried with light soy and oyster sauce, chicken, mushrooms, cherry tomatoes, basil and chilies.

Rooms on the higher levels offer guests’ unfettered views across London’s open space and skyline, it is simply stunning. We were lucky enough to stay in a Luxury Royal Suite on the 14th floor with breath-taking views of Hyde Park’s exquisite Italian Gardens; this suite really was fit for a King! With a striking dining area adjacent to a sumptuous lounge, a separate bedroom and bathroom were the icing on the cake.

With intense flavours using only the freshest ingredients, Head Chef, Mrs Nongyao Thoopchoi’s cooking reflects a rich mix of the traditional dishes of Thailand’s central region whilst blending in a variety of regional specialties making dining here a truly divine experience.

First impressions are absolutely everything and The Lancaster gets this just right. The reception area is vast, but still manages to feel welcoming and cozy with a fire burning away to welcome guests on a cold winter’s day.

The other big plus for The Lancaster is it’s own car park, how convenient is that right in the centre of London!

Retiring to our suite after dinner allowed us to look out of our window at London all lit up, a sight to certainly behold, it’s worth staying here just for the view!

After spending the afternoon shopping (when in London it has to be done!), we headed back to the hotel to relax in the lounge bar for a couple of cocktails before having dinner in the hotel’s award winning Thai restaurant ‘Nipa Thai’ an oriental gem in the heart of the capital, combining outstanding traditional cuisine and subtle authentic décor with a warm, welcoming ambience – bringing the soul of Thailand to London. The restaurant showcases original Thai artifacts within a beautifully paneled teak interior.

A restful nights sleep saw us wake up ready to start the day – The Lancaster, London certainly puts you at the very centre of this vibrant city making it an ideal place to stay for any visit to London and really one night is not enough – I’ll just have to visit again and stay for longer next time!

Prices start from £159 per person per night

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A Look Ahead….

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ilton Keynes Theatre will be turning up the heat in January, Gary Lucy and the cast of The Full Monty bare all in Simon Beaufoy’s play of the Oscar-winning film, whilst West End hits Jersey Boys a story of heart, humour and hits, and The Producers starring Jason Manford and Louie Spence are guaranteed to chase away the winter blues.

Welsh National Opera make their annual return with Dominic Cooke’s warm and witty production of The Magic Flute, Chorus! An extravaganza of some of opera’s greatest moments, featuring the talents of soprano Lesley Garrett and Richard Jones classic production of Hansel & Gretel which delves into the dark and comic side of opera and fairy tale.

Christopher Sergel’s adaptation of To Kill A Mockingbird warms the heart this March, while Jeeves and Wooster starring Robert Webb will bring you laugh out loud ‘perfect nonsense’ from PG Wodehouse’s iconic double act, but if it’s jumping out of your seat at a gripping thriller that will thaw you out, don’t miss the most terrifying live theatre experience in the world, The Woman in Black.

Music fans can look forward to Barry Steele’s critically acclaimed Roy Orbison and Friends, a night of platforms and flares with Abba Mania, the legendary That’ll Be The Day, non stop blues, Motown and soul from the Chicago Blues Brothers, big band fun with the Glenn Miller Orchestra, cult icons Chas and Dave, the spectacular Bootleg Beatles, Sing-Along-A Sound of Music, rock and pop icons The Hollies, the Solid Silver 60’s 30th Anniversary Show and the marvellous Paul Carrack!

Alongside this exciting mix of musicals and drama you’ll find exceptional dance productions including Matthew Bourne’s award winning modern fairytale Edward Scissorhands, plus two enchanting tales by Northern Ballet , the romantic classic Wuthering Heights and the Brothers Grimm tale, Elves & The Shoemaker, a magical ballet especially for children. Saturday Night Fever packed with legendary Bee Gees hits will having you dancing in the aisles. And don’t miss the return of Strictly’s favourite dancers Vincent Simone and Flavia Cacace in their dance spectacular Dance Til Dawn or Michael Flatley’s Lord of the Dance – Dangerous Games featuring 40 of the worlds most outstanding Irish dancers.

While kids can ‘let it go’ with Sing-A-Long-A Frozen!!!

Tickets for all shows are now on sale, so make sure you book yours now!

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January 2015

Mon 29th December – Fri 2nd January SleepingBeauty Bedford Corn Exchange Fun-filled, affordable, traditional panto for all the family.

Following last year’s sell-out smash hit, this year Sleeping Beauty is going to get The Bedford Pantomime Company treatment with a live band, fantastic lighting, fabulous costumes and great comedy – and don’t forget every child is invited on stage to sing along with the cast. It’s a treat for the whole family that won’t break the bank.

There’ll be slapstick and mayhem on stage and plenty of opportunity for the audience to join in the fun. ‘Oh no there won’t! Oh yes there will!’ www.bedfordcornexchange.co.uk

If it floats you'll find it at The London Boat Show, a tenday tribute to all forms of waterborne transport. Every size of vessel is represented among the hundreds of show boats; everything from kayaks to superyachts will be brought by specialist independent builders, multinational companies and everything in between.

Enter the show through a wall of rain before trying out various epic environments in the London Boat Show 4D Experience. Talks and seminars will teach all levels of adventurer something new. www.londonboatshow.com

Sat 10th January Motown’s Greatest Hits The Royal & Derngate, Northampton The UK's Number 1 Motown production, featuring The Formations, is back! This is the ultimate celebration of the sweet sound of Motown.

Now in its 13th successive year, this show will have you 'Dancing On The Ceiling', with songs from legendary artistes such as Lionel Richie, The Temptations, Stevie Wonder, The Four Tops, Smokey Robinson, Marvin Gaye, The Jackson Five, The Isley Brothers, Edwin Starr and many, many more www.royalandderngate.co.uk

Weds 31st December New Year’s Eve at Bedford Swan Hotel See in the New Year in style at Bedford Swan Hotel with fabulous food and entertainment. Arrive from 2pm for traditional afternoon tea. Champagne will be served from 7.30pm before a specially prepared menu and dancing until late.

01234 346565 www.bedfordswanhotel.co.uk

Fri 9th January Kipper’s Toy Box Wycombe Museum A special time at Wycombe Museum for the under fives.

Enjoy stories, trails and craft activities, inspired by the Museum collection and gardens. Not run during the school holidays. Children to be accompanied by an adult. Time: 10.30am to 11.30am and 1.15pm to 2.15pm £2 per child to be paid in advance with the booking 01494 421 895 www.wycombe.gov.uk

Mon 12th – Sat 17th January Moscow City Ballet The Royal & Derngate, Northampton The outstanding Moscow City Ballet perform two of the most enchanting and well-loved ballets, Swan Lake and Giselle, both of which were composed, choreographed and premiered in Russia.

Swan Lake is a signature piece of the company’s repertoire. The orchestra, choreography, interpretation, beauty and outstanding virtuoso performances win repeatedly rave reviews. Giselle beautifully tells the tale of the eponymous village girl who dies of a broken heart when her peasant lover Albrecht is unmasked as a nobleman who is betrothed to another. www.royalandderngate.co.uk

Fri 9th – Sun 18th January London Boat Show Excel, London

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Tues 13th January Circus of Horrors Milton Keynes Theatre The show that stormed into the finals of Britain's Got Talent & now a West End smash is back to mark its 20th Anniversary in spectacular style.

The latest incarnation The Night of the Zombie is set in 2020, a decrepit & corpse ridden London, plagued by a swamp of Zombies. In a city ruled by the undead & climaxing in an awesome flaming apocalypse.

The story twists and turns with grisly murders and sensational shocks – all interwoven with some of the greatest and most bizarre circus acts on earth, sword swallowers, knife throwers, daredevil balancing acts, astounding aerialists, a demon dwarf, a Guinness World Record holding ‘hairculian’ hair hanging beauty, Sinister Sisters, gyrating & fire limboing acrobats & much more. www.atgtickets.com/miltonkeynes

direct from London’s West End starring Gary Lucy, Andrew Dunn, Louis Emerick, Rupert Hill, Martin Miller and Bobby Schofield. www.atgtickets.com/miltonkeynes

Fri 23rd January – Tues 1st March Churchill’s Scientists The Science Museum, London We'd never have won the war without science on our side, and a great number of breakthroughs took place under the direction of Winston Churchill. Marking the fiftieth anniversary of his death, this exhibition celebrates the inventions and scientific endeavour which came to Britain's aid during World War Two. Artefacts, film footage, letters and photographs tell the stories of pioneering nutritionist Elsie Widdowson, Dorothy Hodgkin's advancement of X-ray crystallography, Robert Watson-Watt's invention of the radar and many more remarkable projects from the era.

A few of Churchill's personal items will pepper the collection, too; keep an eye out for the cigar he was smoking when he heard he had been re-elected as Prime Minister in 1951.

An additional section will allow visitors to learn about scientific advances in post-war Britain, including everything from molecular genetics to robotics, and looks at present scientific ambitions. www.sciencemuseum.org.uk

Fri 16th January Battle of the Bands Competition Grosvenor Casino, Luton Think your band have the skills to perform at Grosvenor Casino Luton to 850+ people? Why not take part in our ‘Battle of the Bands’ competition to win £500 CASH plus TWO guaranteed gigs with Grosvenor Casinos. We are looking for bands with two or more people to perform within the Bedfordshire, Buckinghamshire & Hertfordshire area. All types of bands accepted from Rock, Pop, Folk and many more. CLUB HEATS – Friday 16th / Friday 23rd January 2015 9pm LIVE FINAL – Friday 30th January 2015 9pm For full terms & conditions or to apply to the show please contact Massimo on 01582 813780 or e-mail sm_gclutong@rank.com Over 18’s only. www.grosvenorcasinos.com/local-casinos/luton

Sun 18th January Wyboston Lakes Wedding Fayre 11am – 3.30pm This event is set in the lovely Willows Centre which is a beautiful, venue for a stunning wedding with lots of space, on site accommodation for all as well as a beautiful courtyard garden! There will be a whole host of exhibitors from photographers to florists, cakemakers to jewellers Free admission & free parking www.wybostonlakes.co.uk

Mon 19th – Sat 24th January The Full Monty Milton Keynes Theatre In 1997, a British film about six out of work Sheffield steelworkers with nothing to lose, took the world by storm!

Now, they’re back and this time they really have to go The Full Monty…live on stage.

Simon Beaufoy, the Oscar winning writer of the film, has gone all the way with this hilarious and heartfelt adaptation that’s getting standing ovations every night.

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A quiet night in...

An Officer and A Spy by Robert Harris January 1895. On a freezing morning in the heart of Paris, an army officer, Georges Picquart, witnesses a convicted spy, Captain Alfred Dreyfus, being publicly humiliated in front of twenty thousand spectators baying 'Death to the Jew!' The officer is rewarded with promotion: Picquart is made the French army's youngest colonel and put in command of 'the Statistical Section' - the shadowy intelligence unit that tracked down Dreyfus. The spy, meanwhile, is given a punishment of medieval cruelty: Dreyfus is shipped off to a lifetime of solitary confinement on Devil's Island - unable to speak to anyone, not even his guards, his case seems closed forever. But gradually Picquart comes to believe there is something rotten at the heart of the Statistical Section. When he discovers another German spy operating on French soil, his superiors are oddly reluctant to pursue it. Despite official warnings, Picquart persists, and soon the officer and the spy are in the same predicament!

We Still Kill the Old Way When retired East End villain CHARLIE ARCHER is murdered by a feral street gang, his brother RITCHIE returns to London from Spain to investigate. With the police investigation drawing blank after blank, Ritchie decides to take the law into his own hands and bring his old school justice back to the streets of East London. Rounding up his old firm, he leads a vigilante crusade against the vicious young criminals, using every grizzly method at his disposal to find and punish his brother’s killers.

They're outgunned and outnumbered, but this firm has never been outclassed yet!

Release Date: 29th December

Unbroken Angelina Jolie directs the incredible true-life WWII survival story of Olympic athlete Louis Zamperini. As a rebellious youth, Louis Zamperini (Jack O'Connell) is encouraged by his brother Pete (Alex Russell) to channel his energies into running. But war puts a stop to his Olympic track career as he volunteers for the Air Force.

Following a crash landing in the Pacific, Louis and his two fellow survivors spend 47 gruelling days adrift in a life raft, at the mercy of sharks and the elements. But his ordeal is only just beginning. Captured by the Japanese, he's taken to a series of brutal prisoner of war camps.

Jack O'Connell, fast-rising star of '71' and 'Starred Up' is cast as Louis Zamperini in Oscar-winner Angelina Jolie's second film as director. This extraordinary wartime epic has been adapted from Laura Hillenbrand's lauded nonfiction book by a quartet of distinguished scriptwriters whose ranks include the Coen brothers.

Release Date: 29th December

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