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JANUARY 2012

ISSUE 8

January 2012

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NEW YEAR’S EVE PARTY MENU INCLUDES: A DISCO & A GLASS OF BUBBLY AT MIDNIGHT STARTERS A choice of: Coquille St Jacques Scallops in a creamy white wine sauce, topped with potato, gruyere cheese, Breadcrumbs served in a scallop shell

Duck & fig terrine With pistachio nuts, wrapped in Parma ham

Grilled antipasto (v) Grilled eggplants, peppers, artichokes served on a bed of rocket with a toasted caramelized onion bread

MAIN COURSE A choice of: Poulet a L’estragon Chicken cooked in a red wine jus with silverskin onions & bacon served with seasonal Vegetables

Fillet of hake in lemon butter with capers Served with roasted cherry tomatoes on the vine and sauté potatoes

Caramelized onion & camembert cheese soufflé (v) Feuilles de brick pastry filled with a creamy camembert cheese soufflé topped with caramelized onion & white wine compote

DESSERTS A choice of: White chocolate, almond & apricot delice White chocolate & almond mousse, layered with apricot puree & sponge finished with white chocolate

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Affinity is an aspirational, luxury lifestyle magazine for Beds and Bucks. It features the best in homes & interiors, music & events, food & travel, beauty & fashion as well as interviews with celebrities and local personalities.

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Undeniably chic, and of a quality unrivalled in the area, Affinity is the perfect medium to target the affluent people in your area.

This is the first Affinity of 2012 and I am looking forward to an exciting year.

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Is it in the

Bag?

ag making as a hobby in its own right started off, as far as we can tell, as an offshoot of patchworking.

While you can make a simple bag using one or two fabrics quite quickly and easily, making a bag presents the keen patchworker looking for a simple or quick project, with an attractive alternative to the rather ubiquitous cushion cover. Cushions, of course, are only seen by visitors to your home.

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Bags are a different story. You take them out with you, and the benefits include not only having something which is visually appealing, but they also act as a mobile display of your threadcraft skills. I say “threadcraft”, because you may not patchwork your bag; you might, instead, embroider it. Or use a tapestry as the front, perhaps even use appliqué to create pictures. The possibilities are endless, of course, limited only by your imagination – your own fashion statement.

I recently saw a woman in my supermarket queue pull three or four rather nice bags out of the large tote she had slung over her shoulder. Each of them was not much smaller than the tote bag when unfolded, and she filled

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them all with groceries. Being interested in such things I looked at what she had done, each of them was completely different to the others. They were all very well made and attractive, and I said so. She beamed at me and thanked me for the compliment.

One of our staff members has a large bag which she made specifically to hold her patchworking tools and materials for when she goes to quilting groups. It has several divisions within it and lots of pockets. Not only is it practical, it is a consummate piece of patchworking, too.

It’s amazing what you can do with bags. Function and beauty combined in one article. What more can you ask for?

Tudor Rose Patchwork has bag-making workshops from time to time which will help you to learn to create your own bags. Download our brochure on line, phone us or call in at the shop.

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Fry’s

footie corner

would like to take this opportunity to wish everybody a Happy New Year! I think it has been very tough in the last couple of years and next year will be no different. Whilst everyone is enjoying the festive holiday, the players here at Peterborough United will be preparing to try and entertain our supporters over the New Year.

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First of all, on the 30th December we will be travelling to Middlesbrough and staying overnight, for our game on New Year’s Eve at the Riverside Stadium.

After the game, we will be making the five-hour journey back to Peterborough. There will be little or no New Year’s celebrations as the players will be training at 9am on New Year’s Day in preparation for Birmingham City a day later at London Road.

This will be followed by the players’ training and preparing the following four days for our televised game with Sunderland in the FA Cup third round on Sunday 8th January (3.30pm) at London Road.

Immediately after the game has finished, the draw for the fourth round of the competition will be made, so as you can see, the management team and the playing staff will have had no break at all over the Christmas and New Year period.

The players obviously have to make sacrifices over the festive season to prepare properly for the matches in hand. In the New Year, our games against Birmingham and Sunderland, will arguably be two of our biggest gates of the season.

Obviously, not only is it a busy time for the players, but it is very busy for the staff because they won’t get a break over this period either because in between the games they will be selling tickets and ensuring the ground is ready for the fixtures.

While we at Peterborough United are hard at it, I hope you lot all enjoy your week off drinking, eating and being merry!

Happy New Year

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Chicksands Priory

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VIII and was dissolved by him in 1538 and then sold by him in 1540 to a London grocer, Richard Snowe, whose son Daniel leased it and then bequeathed it to the Osborn family in 1576. It remained in their family until 1936.

ost of us have been to Chicksands Woods and we have all heard about the Chicksands US Air Base but not many of us will know about Chicksands Priory.

Since 1936 it has been Crown property and fulfilled an important part during the Second World War as RAF Chicksands and later in 1950 â&#x20AC;&#x201C; 1995 it was used by the US Air Force. The MOD restored the Priory in 1997-1998 and it is now lived in after a break of twenty seven years.

It is a very unusual Priory. To begin with it was granted to the Gilbertines, not one of the regular orders usually found in the UK, secondly it was one of only 9 religious houses to be occupied by both Nuns and Canons (same as monks but they wore a black cloak and fur lined hat). They lived in separate buildings and were even separated in church by a screen.

Of the 25 monasteries/convents of the purely monastic order, Chicksands has the most substantial remains still standing in England.

The Priory was founded in 1147-53 by the Beauchamp family of Bedford Castle. Tradition says that the church divided the two cloisters. The church and one of the cloisters was destroyed in 1538.

It still retains 13th century vaulting, medieval roof timbers and stained glass. Family portraits, paintings and other historic items relating to almost one thousand years of history.

As with all the others, the Priory fell foul of Henry

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As you would expect with a location that has such a long history, there are stories of strange events. Legend speaks of a nun who was walled up in the cloisters, some claim to have seen her on the 17th day of the month, there are also stories of tunnels which are said to lead from the priory to various points beyond Chicksands.

There have been many other reported sightings such as monks, nuns and horsemen!!!!

To visit Chicksands Priory you need to make an appointment and arrange a tour, you can do this by contacting: tours@chicksandspriory.co.uk 01525 860497 â&#x20AC;&#x201C; Julie Benson

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What’s the big deal about

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Weight loss

Naturally he excesses of Christmas are behind us and as we come into January we will be bombarded with articles on detoxification and weight-loss, all promising to help us loose the pounds we’ve gained over the festive season.

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However, in traditional medicine systems such as Ayurveda, winter is the worst time of year to start serious detoxification of the body, as cleansing the tissues are generally depleting for the body and can lead to an increased risk of becoming rundown, and decreasing our immune system inevitably leading to more coughs, colds and even flu.

So here are some suggestions to gently and safely detoxify the body and loose those excess pounds over the winter months: As a result of eating a rich diet with an excess of sweet foods, the liver becomes congested, which can be partly responsible for weight gain. To counteract the overloaded system we need to eat more bitter and spicy foods, which both improves liver functioning and helps to increase the metabolic rate.

Rocket, artichoke, dark leafy green vegetables, broccoli, bitter gourd, wheat grass, parsley, endive, chicory, lettuce, brussel sprouts, cauliflower to name but a few. And, the good news – very dark chocolate is bitter too! But, is to be eaten in moderation.

Oils which are rich in Gamma Linolenic Acid (GLA), such as evening primrose, borage and blackcurrant can be very helpful in weight loss and can be taken as a supplement.

Dandelion root and chamomile tea are both very bitter and helpful in weight loss.

Ginger and cinnamon help in increasing the metabolic rate and balance blood sugar levels.

Cardamom is helpful in removing phlegm and mucous during or after colds.

Aduki and mung beans are the two detoxification and weight loss legumes.

Oily fish such as salmon, tuna, sardines and herring are great too.

The more unusual whole grains such as rye quinoa, millet and amaranth. These are both bitter (therefore good for the liver) and higher in protein, along with a little basmati or wild rice, which are easier to digest than wheat and potatoes. In fact, all root vegetables should be eaten very sparingly as they’re rich in carbohydrate and are difficult to digest when you are trying to loose weight.

Cut down on dairy and wheat products. Light and warm foods are needed to help the digestive 14

Green tea is excellent to help burn fat. As it’s rich in great antioxidants which will naturally help the liver to detoxify. Have at least three cups a day before or after meals.

However, it is a stimulant and therefore best avoided late in the evening if you want to avoid insomnia. But it is a great energiser and pick-me-up in the afternoon.

Whilst it is essential to exercise when trying to loose weight and detoxify the body, it is also essential to get a good night’s sleep (at least 6-7 hours a night) as well as relaxation practised daily which will help the liver to get to work more efficiently.

Ayurvedic Tip To warm the body internally and to aid weight loss drink fresh ginger tea – made by adding fresh sliced root ginger in boiling water with a few cardamom pods, Leave for 1015 minutes to infuse and add a little honey before drinking after a meal.

Carolyn Wood-Herbalist and Naturopath 07944886502

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New Year Body Shock/Detox

Bootcamps….

We want to help you build some fitness back into your lives for good this year!

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Beauty on a

B udget hew, Christmas and New Year is over and you’re left somewhat a little skint. All those puddings, festive drinks and between meal snacks have taken its toll on your skin. But you just don’t have the pennies this month to afford some luxury treatments.

That’s why I’m here to help you find some budget skin fixers that work. I’m talking home-made face packs and products to revive your skin ready for 2012. Start as you mean to go on I say...

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Re-Hydrate Your Skin I know I’ve mentioned it a dozen times before, but it really doesn’t get old. Drink lots of water! It not only helps your body feel reenergized, leaving the sluggish behaviour back in 2011, but it helps keep your skin re-hydrated.

Drinking over your unit allowance of alcohol (that many of us are guilty of over such periods of the year), can really take its toll on your skin, leaving you looking drained, and your skin tone uneven, dry, and not to mention creating the potential for spots. So here’s a simple face pack that can be made in your very own kitchen, (while shuffling around in your new pj’s and fluffy slippers): The Ingredients: Avocado & Runny Honey.

The Benefits: Huge amounts of moisturising properties from vitamin E, essential fatty acids omega-9 and omega-6 aids skin and tissue growth and keeps skin supple, and finally chlorophyll which helps regenerate our skin cells.

The Very Simple Method: Mash-up a ripe avocado. Add a teaspoon of runny honey (which is super-hydrating too) and mix the ingredients together to make a smooth paste. Make sure your skin is clean and then apply the mix to your face.

Leave for up to 10 minutes.

Wash off with warm water and pat dry. Voila… You skin has a new lease of life ready for 2012!

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Enjoyed a few late nights? How to improve those dark circles…

Aside from getting yourself a good night’s sleep, over time the skin under our eyes becomes thinner. That is why you may find the underlying blood vessels become more apparent, hence, dark circles start to show through. Here’s a natural way to improve those unwanted skin imperfections as advised by Charlotte Vohtz, author of Naturally Gorgeous.

The Ingredients: A potato (that’s it).

The Benefits: Helps to lighten dark circles - Potatoes contain the enzyme catecholase, which is used as a skin lightener in some cosmetics.

The Very Simple Method: Cut a round slice from a potato and then slice into two half-moons. Place each 'moon' under your eyes.

Leave for 20 minutes. Simple.

Budget Cosmetics for that January drought: Who: GOSH Cosmetics What: Velvet Touch Foundation Primer Apricot Where: Superdrug How Much: £13.99 I love this product. So much so that I even keep it in my kit for my clients. You can get carried away buying products that cost you ridiculous amounts of money, when so many of them give you the same end result.

This particular product includes Matrixyl 3000 (a face firming peptide). Not only that, but it also evens out skin tone and restores clarity, while reducing the appearance of fine lines, wrinkles and pores on the skins surface. With a silky matt finish, this product is the perfect base for any makeup.

Who: Jergens Naturals What: Ultra Hydrating Moisturiser Where: Sainsburys How Much: £2.99 (hand cream) or £4.99 (body moisturiser) These cold winter months can leave your skin feeling tight, so it’s important to keep it moisturised to avoid it becoming chapped and sore. To keep your skin feeling supple all over, massage in the body moisturiser after your daily shower, and keep the small bottle of hand cream in your handbag so you can see to your paws regularly throughout the day.

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New Years Resolutions .... ⤿ Drink water, every day. ⤿ Try a new bright lipstick that you never dared before – or makeup style altogether.

It’s important to move with the times. ⤿ Wash your brushes on a fortnightly basis (your shampoo or hand soap does the trick just fine). ⤿ Cleanse your face before bed, every night, without fail. ⤿ Be happy. Beauty shines from within.

Happy New Year!

Sabina Ventriglia Professional Makeup Artist For bookings and enquiries: sabinav@hotmail.co.uk www.sabinaventriglia.co.uk

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5th Avenue Hair and Beauty Spa in Bedford, is a salon that offers both hair and beauty treatments all under one roof.

There is a nail bar for specialised hand and foot treatments, treatment rooms that you can relax in and get the special pampering that you deserve from the luxury list of treatments that are available.

They are open 7 days a week, including 4 late nights, 5th Avenue cater for everyone’s needs, and nothing is too much trouble.

The team are always friendly and welcoming and they always put the needs of the client first.

So with all the hustle and bustle of Christmas and New Year taking it’s toll on my skin I decided to try out 5th Avenues “New Year Kick Start Package” it includes an ESPA Body Polish (1/2 hour), Full Swedish Body Massage (1 hour), and ESPA Rehydrator Facial (1 hour), WOW two and a half hours of pure pampering I couldn’t wait!!

I arrived at 5th Avenue to a warm welcome from my therapist who made me feel relaxed and at ease straight away – I was given the choice of products she was going to use and I chose soothing, herbal and replenishing.

The relaxation then began, a full body scrub that left my skin feeling tingly and refreshed, followed by a full body massage that just made all the stresses of life disappear leaving me relaxed and rejuvenated and finally my facial that also included an extra in the form of a scalp massage whilst I was relaxing with my face mask on – I came out so thoroughly pampered and revitalised I truly recommend this package or one of the similar ones on offer as you can just disappear into your own little world of tranquillity and relaxation, not to mention how my skin felt and looked afterwards.

If you want to book this treatment or any others that are on offer then contact 5th Avenue or alternatively why not pop along to their Launch Evening on 23rd January where you can enjoy a glass of bubbly whilst watching demonstrations of the new treatments that are being launched.

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Of the Web Best

elcome to Best of the Web - Affinity Magazines Monthly update on the best (and worst) the internet has to offer.

I had a clear out, so rather than making a few quid on Ebay I've decided to give it all away month by month. All you need to do to get your hands on the spills of a man who just buys rubbish for the sake of it is;

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1) Send a link to the most outlandish or entertaining thing you can find on the web.

2) Send a question about anything you like (web related!!).

3) Stories of anything you have experienced on the web that has affected you or changed your life

All change please. There are only so many helpful resources on the internet that we can jostle you towards and with such a resource as the World Wide Web it would be a true shame to waste the opportunity to bring you the best bits here each month.

Each month the person who is lucky enough to be selected will receive such wonders as an old USB memory stick, wireless mouse, keyboards, laptop stands and many more junk items - it's all tat but it has to go somewhere!

As well as introducing you to the funny, scary and just downright stupid that the web constantly serves up, I decided that the Banilla gadget room is getting too messy to handle and it's about time

Big Hitters : This Month's most viewed Youtube videos 1) My Tram Experience : 11,802,335 hits http://youtu.be/i47HoiM0Au8 2) One Direction - Gotta be you video : 9,981,246 hits http://youtu.be/nvfejaHz-o0 3) Damien Walters 2011 Official Showreel : 4,894,737 hits http://youtu.be/zQgFxDSqft4 4) The Hunger Games Official Trailer : 4,512,620 hits http://youtu.be/4S9a5V9ODuY 5) Mieders Alpine Coaster (with no brakes!!) : 3,300,597 hits http://youtu.be/iqCkICXWdWI

From The Stock Cupboard The very first winner is James Collinson of Kempston for posting this great example of one man and his dog in the British countryside - FENTON!!! http://youtu.be/3GRSbr0EYYU A 21" 3 year old LCD monitor will be making its way to you shortly To win randomly selected IT kit from the Banilla stock cupboard just send your questions, links or recommendations to bestoftheweb@banilla.co.uk

Follow the crowd: This month's Twitter favourites Jimmy Carr : #jimmycarr Graham Linehan : #glinner Tim Siedell : #badbanana Seth Rogan : #seth_rogan Darth Vader : #darthvader

Leigh Millard, Banilla Web Applications www.banilla.co.uk

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man of the month

Mike Hart-King Age: 33 Occupation: Operations Manager at Dunster House Resides: Hemel Hempstead

Describe yourself in three words?

Hairy, loud and loving!

What do you do to relax?

Play football for a physical release or play on the Xbox. If you saw our football team, 5 slims and a ginger you wouldn’t think it was very relaxing. I think the fact that we are so useless is so funny it seems to make all my problems disappear.

What do you love most about your job?

The people I work with. I work with a wide variety of people all with different outlooks. I love the gratification of sharing and passing knowledge to people, seeing them develop and move forwards.

Your most extravagant purchase and why?

My house – I don’t buy labels and extravagant items so it would have to be my house. It’s essential for my family, as my missus wasn’t up for living in a tent!

What makes you stand out in a crowd?

I’m big, hairy, loud and ginger. I’m just a natural stand out in the crowderer!!

Best holiday destination and why?

Karaincir – Turkey. This was a very relaxing, peaceful holiday. The weather was hot, beautiful surroundings and the locals were friendly. We spent all day on the loungers, in and out of the pool and eating kebabs!

Describe your 9 – 5?

It’s busy, we’re a continually growing business and everyday throws up new challenges. There’s 3 depots dotted around the country that I have to make sure are running properly. We are also planning for the next depot to open up. I can’t complain we’re still growing and that’s all that can be asked for in the current economic climate.

If you could be anyone or anything what would it be?

Superman – he can fly; see through walls, why wouldn’t you want to be him!

What person has inspired you?

My Dad – He served in the army for 24 years and put his life at risk, after the army he trained and is now a paramedic helping to save people’s lives.

Describe your ideal woman?

My missus – Suzy, I couldn’t ask for any more in a woman. She’s also taller than me, so if I say anyone else she will knock me out!!

Your top 3 movies?

Shawshank Redemption, Highlander & Bugsy Malone.

Saturday night you can be found where?

Upstairs playing the Xbox to avoid The X Factor. I can’t stand them murdering classics! When The X Factor isn’t on I’m there spending quality time with Suzy Cam (the missus).

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Effective positive thinking that brings results is much more than just repeating a few positive words, or telling yourself that everything is going to be all right. It has to be your predominant mental attitude. It is not enough to think positively for a few moments, and then letting fears and lack of belief enter your mind. Some effort and inner work are necessary.

Learning something new every day. A positive attitude can be encouraged by providing something new in your life. As a child your curiosity led you to explore and learn. Recapture that feeling today by taking a night class, studying a new language, learning to garden or anything else that interests you!

Before starting with any plan or action, visualize clearly in your mind its successful outcome. If you visualize with concentration and faith, you will be amazed at the results.

Are you willing to make a real inner change?

Are you willing to change the way you think?

Are you willing to develop a mental power that can positively affect you, your environment and the people around you?

Watch movies that make you feel happy.

Try a few of the techniques listed below and notice how differently you think and feel when you put them into action:

Minimise the time you listen to the news and read the papers.

Associate yourself with people who think positively.

Allow into your awareness only feelings of happiness, strength and success.

Walk, swim or Understand that engage in some rst wo the or es “Whether it’s the best of tim even if you can’t other physical we’ve got” control outside activity. This helps of times, it’s the only time circumstances, to develop a more Art Buchwald you can control positive attitude. your reaction to them. For example, if you are currently working in Make a list of the positive aspects of your life. a job with a person who is demeaning, make a Include your achievements. If you are a humorous conscious effort to tell yourself that the behaviour person, put that on the list. If you can play an displayed can upset you only if you allow it to. instrument, if you are knowledgeable about any particular subject. Whatever you consider a Try to disregard and ignore negative thoughts. positive attribute in your life add to your list.

Refuse to think such thoughts, and substitute Read this list when you need a mental boost. them with constructive happy thoughts.

Help others. Extending a helping hand to those in Slow down. When constantly under pressure to need makes you feel needed and worthwhile. finish tasks, it is easy to develop a negative Make it a habit to volunteer for charitable attitude towards life. Just by getting up 15 organisations. Helping others allows us to be minutes earlier each day, you give yourself an thankful for our own lives, extending kindness extra pocket of ME time to maybe read the paper energetically lifts our spirits and can attract more or a short meditation to centre yourself before the positivity back into your life. day begins.

These are just a few ideas to focus on to maintain When your day is over at work or at home, try a positive mental attitude. It is normal to go and switch gears mentally. Tell yourself that you through periods of feeling down but if it persists have all day tomorrow to deal with issues and depression may be the cause. Help is at hand, by problems. Try to re-direct your thoughts towards either visiting your Doctor or talking to family something positive, maybe thinking about a and friends. However sometimes professional person or place you would like to visit or an support maybe be required, activity that you could look forward to.

I urge you to live in the here and now and Read at least one page of an inspiring book every endeavor to make the most of it! day.

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Neutrogena Norwegian Formula Classic Hand Cream £3.59 boots.com

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Wedding Special Welcome to Affinity’s wedding special. If you are a bride to be and are planning your big day then look no further, as this month we aim to give you some great ideas to help you achieve your dream wedding…………………..

Weddington Boots We love these Weddington Boots they are the perfect addition to your special day!

Made from pretty pearlescent ivory rubber, with a unique ribbon detail these boots are sure to add a unique touch to your day.

Stylish and elegant they come in two styles, the Classic and the Catherine.

These Boots are perfect for your wedding day when travelling between venues, lawn games, outdoor photographs, fireworks - or simply just to add a unique touch to your day these great little boots are guaranteed to please www.weddingtonboots.com

Wedding Fayres Calling all couples, make a date in your diary for these forthcoming wedding shows.

These spectacular events will have everything you need to ensure your day goes off without a hitch.

Sunday 8th January - Ramada Cromwell, Stevenage Sunday 22nd January - The Mansion House, Old Warden Park Sunday 4th March - The Millhouse, Sharnbrook

Flower Power Choosing your wedding flowers is amongst one of the most exciting things you will do when planning your special day.

Flowers provide you with the opportunity to show your personality, through choice of style, colour, and selection of blooms and to set the theme for the whole day.

They are the easiest way to transform even the plainest reception space into the venue of your dreams – and it doesn’t need to cost a fortune if you choose carefully where to concentrate your efforts.

There are so many beautiful flowers and designs so choose a good florist will help you decide on the best flowers for you. www.greycourtflorists.com

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Wedded Bliss How did you meet?

A group of us stayed in touch following a charity car rally across Europe in 2007 and Stuart was one of them; it wasn’t until a year or so later that we became a couple though.

be so it was an easy choice once we had seen it. Kate, Laura and the rest of the team were amazing both in the months before and on the day; I can’t thank them enough!

What did the bridal party wear?

My dress was a strapless ivory satin and chiffon gown from Pure Bridal by Romantica. It was the 2nd dress I tried on (after the obligatory princess meringue style dress that you have to try of course) and even though I tried on countless others just to be sure afterwards, I knew it was ‘the one’ – it sounds so cliché I know!

I choose a shoulder length ivory veil with pearl detail and a side tiara with pearls and diamantes.

My bridesmaid wore a gorgeous Alfred Angelo gown in mocha and she had a hair slide to match my tiara.

The groom and best men wore chocolate brown Prince Edward jackets, ivory waistcoats with burnt orange cravats.

All the bouquets, buttonholes and corsages were ivories, creams and peaches with accents of burnt orange to tie it all together.

How did the proposal happen?

Stuart came to collect me from the airport after a girly holiday and I had requested a ‘chauffeur style’ sign with my name on it. When I came through into arrivals, there he was with his handwritten ‘Amy Maddix sign...it wasn’t until I got a bit closer he turned it over to reveal “Will you marry me?” on the reverse! It went quite unnoticed apart from the people immediately around us that was until my best friend came through and promptly screamed the terminal down with excitement!

Where did the wedding take place?

We had both our ceremony and reception at Caswell House in Brize Norton, near Witney. A beautiful family run, barn-style wedding venue in the Cotswold countryside. The venue was relaxed, informal and so welcoming – everything we knew we wanted our day to

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What was your wedding day style?

I’d say English country garden meets a ‘Stirling Moss’ style vintage rally – we didn’t go overboard with either theme but instead tried to incorporate small details from both into the day. For example, the table plan was a traditional picnic hamper complete with driving gloves and old fashioned helmet with the tables named after places we had visited on our rallies. We had a mixture of shabby chic jugs, jars and bottles filled with cottage garden flowers for our centre pieces and homemade rounds of wood for table name holders. Rather than a traditional wedding breakfast and evening buffet, we opted for Afternoon Tea, complete with sandwiches and scones, vintage china and tea stands, followed by a hog roast in the evening. We also had a traditional sweetie buffet which was a hit with guests of all ages What were the highlights?

So many to choose from! I’ll list a few below: Being able to have an outdoor ceremony was fantastic; An October wedding was always going to be risky weather wise - I just hoped it wouldn’t rain so to be lucky enough to have a heat wave was something we never expected!

Unusual guest book – some friends of ours had an old replica road sign hidden away at the venue which they got everyone to sign during the course of the day without us realising and then presented it to us during our first dance – a brilliant gift which we’ll treasure for years - slightly harder to store than your average guest book though!

As cheesy as it sounds, I think just having all of our friends and family around us to celebrate the day was my personal highlight.

Oh - And to feel like a princess for the day was pretty good too!

How did it end?

We also had a fantastic band called R.D.G play for us who are a reggae, soul and funk group from Aylesbury. I loved that from the moment they started, right through until last orders, the dance floor was never empty!

There are cottages at the venue for the bridal party so it was lovely to be able to have breakfast altogether the morning after and reminisce on the amazing day before.

After all the effort our friends and family had put into the planning, crafting and organising of the wedding with us, being the soppy girl that I am, I felt quite teary when we eventually left the venue the morning after and whole heartedly agreed with my brother’s idea of “shall we do it all again next week?”

Where did you go on honeymoon?

We honeymooned in the Canadian Rockies for 10 days, flying out to Calgary on the Monday after the wedding.

We had a hire car and drove ourselves around the Rockies, finishing with a few lovely, albeit rainy days in Vancouver. Highlights for me were: visiting a husky sanctuary and meeting all the puppies, seeing bears in the wild on a river Safari, driving through a glacier national park and spending some time with my lovely new hubby!

Caswell House in Brize Norton on 1st October 2011 was the beautiful setting for the wedding of Amy Maddix to Stuart Emery. Here the happy couple share memories of their special day.

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Weddings Moggerhanger Park Create a unique country house wedding Moggerhanger Park is a country house estate set on the top of the Greensand Ridge in Bedfordshire. Itâ&#x20AC;&#x2122;s in the middle of nowhere, yet close to everywhere.

This elegant Grade I historic house was designed by Sir John Soane in 1792, to be the country home for the Governor of the Bank of England, Godfrey Thornton. The house sits in natural parkland originally landscaped by Humphry Repton.

The house and grounds have now been restored to their original state and combine grandness and intimacy. It is the perfect setting for a wedding within a venue that you can truly feel is yours for the day. enquiries@moggerhangerpark.com www.moggerhangerpark.com 01767641007

Flitwick Manor Nestling in acres of tranquil gardens and wooded parkland, the Menzies Flitwick Manor hotel near Woburn is a classic Georgian country house hotel, elegantly furnished with fine antiques and period pieces, Flitwick Manor hotel offers an enticing escape into fine country living.

We go to extreme lengths to ensure everything goes smoothly from beginning to end. Whether you plan an intimate family gathering or would like exclusive use of the hotel, we can create your perfect wedding package.

If you are considering a civil wedding, our civil wedding license will enable you to hold both your ceremony and reception with us. Blessings can also be arranged in the ancient 12th century church that is reached from the front of the house via a private path.

For your reception drinks and canapĂŠs choose between the delightful drawing room and the picturesque terrace, whilst our beautiful gardens and wooded parkland provide the perfect setting for your wedding photographs. www.menzieshotels.co.uk 01525 712242

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The Millhouse Hotel and Riverside Restaurant The Millhouse Hotel in Sharnbrook, Beds is the perfect backdrop for your special day, set on the banks of the Great River Ouse it provides you with the perfect setting for you and your guests to feel relaxed and at home with endless photo opportunities in the tranquil surroundings that will be treasured for years to come.

Your event will be personally co-ordinated by one person who will ensure your day runs smoothly and who will be on hand throughout the planning stages to answer any questions you may have.

The conservatories and dining room are licensed for civil ceremonies for up to 60 people and with a choice of private function rooms including the marquee our Chef can tailor make your perfect wedding menu for up to 120 people.

Why not come along to our Wedding Fayre on Sunday 4th March to see for yourself and talk to our team about your special day www.millhouse-riverside.co.uk 01234 781678

The Mansion House Bedfordshire's Best Kept Wedding Secret Whether your dream is to have a stunning venue for your civil ceremony or a gorgeous place to hold your wedding breakfast and reception, the Mansion House, Old Warden Park will exceed your expectations. If you are looking for a magnificent, romantic venue that is truly unique and that will ensure your wedding is a day to remember then look no further than The Mansion House, Old Warden Park.

The Mansion House, Old Warden Park will exceed your expectations.

It is the perfect backdrop for your wedding photographs, with over 500 acres of Parkland and with the historic Mansion House and scenic views, your photos will look amazing. www.themansionhouse.org 01767 626200

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Tess Daly Beauty Tint £12 Tess Daly Beauty Repair £12 www.marksandspencer.com

Beauty boost Be a beautiful bride with these gorgeous make up must haves

Lancome Hypnose Waterproof Mascarra £20.50. www.johnlewis.com

Brush on Radiance Power Beads£13 www.thebodyshop.co.uk

Marc Jacobs Daisy Eau So Fresh £47.50 www.theperfumeshop.com

Metal, Biscuit, Shimmer & Blush Nail Polishes £2.50 www.next.co.uk

Clarins Blush Prodige Illuminating Cheek Colour £24 www.debenhams.com

Lancome Colour Fever Gloss £18 www.johnlewis.com

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Greycourt Florists "From a simple ceremony to the most lavish celebration, our award winning florists can create beautiful designs for your special day.”

*special offer* When you book your wedding flowers with us, we will provide you with 6 buttonholes of your choice free of charge.

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Gowns gorgeous

Wedding Dress by Blue Aspen £1900 www.graceofwestcott.co.uk

Sassi Holford Jessica £1710 www.graceofwestcott.com

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Marks & Spencer Dress Shoes £59.50

Marks & Spencer Sartorial Tuxedo £229 Sartorial Dress Shirt £45 Bow Tie £9.50 Pocket Square £10

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Weddings may be full of tradition but there’s no reason why the groom can’t sport a modern look – check out our selection of sleek attire

Marks & Spencer Belt £29.50 J & T Windmills Gents Threadneedle Watch, £395 www.jandwindmills.com

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Marks & Spencer Tie £12

For cool and contempary weddings why not go for the latest collection of suits from Red Herring they feature flattering and fashionable options for grooms who fancy themselves as James Bond!

LEFT: Red Line Suit £120, Shirt £15, Tie £7 RIGHT: Red Line Suit £120, Shirt £15, Tie £7 Debenhams

Next Two Tone Lace Ups £45

Marks & Spencer Sartorial Suit £499 Sartorial Shirt £39.50 Pocket Square £10

Marks & Spencer Tie £12

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The Ride of your

Your wedding day is one of the most important days of your life so you want the style in which you arrive to be nothing less than spectacular.

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rriving in your dad’s old banger is not quite the look, but how about pulling up outside the church in a Rolls-Royce Phantom? This is the grandest of cars and is what Kate Middleton chose to transport her to Westminster Abbey on her wedding day. A Bentley, Vintage Rolls Royce Silver Cloud or a Jaguar MK2 are popular options if you like your cars classic, while a Pink Cadillac, Stretch Limo ‘Herbie’ VW Beetle, London Taxi or Double Decker bus are just a few of the more unusual options. And of course you don’t have to be restricted to cars. A horse drawn carriage is perfect for that fairytale princess feel; while a helicopter that whisks you both away at the end of the night will give your wedding that ‘rock star’ feel.

Remember your transport will form the backdrop to lots of your photographs, so it should suit the style of your wedding and match the colour scheme of your day – a bright yellow car might not be the best choice if you’re carrying a bouquet of pink flowers or your bridesmaids are wearing pink dresses! It should also be in keeping with the location of your venue – a horse and carriage might be fine on quiet country roads but not so great on busy city streets.

If your venue is close to your home one car will be enough to take your mum and bridesmaids to the church and then come back for you and your dad, but for venues that are further away, you will need two or more cars.

classic cars, to check the interior is in good condition. Make sure the car you are shown is the actual car you will have on your wedding day. If you’re wearing a dress with a long train or a full skirt, check there is enough space for you to sit comfortably without the fabric getting creased.

Ask if the car will be decorated with ribbon and make sure it will match your colour scheme.

After your ceremony, the wedding car will take you and your new husband to the reception.

However, if you’re one of the many couples who are now holding their ceremony and reception all under one roof, and particularly if you’re also getting ready there, you won’t need wedding transport in the traditional sense. Many couples though are reluctant to miss out on the photo opportunity that comes with having a beautiful wedding car, and the opportunity to spend time alone before the main reception gets underway.

For a private moment, have a bottle of Champagne chilling on ice in the back seat and spend a few quiet moments together as you raise a glass to your new life together.

Finally, don’t forget about the end of your wedding day. If you’ve stayed at your venue the night before and had your ceremony there you may decide you want to spend your wedding night at a different hotel so you’ll want to leave in style - Why not consider a classic sports car such as an Austin Healey or MG! Whatever transport you decide on, remember it’s YOUR special day!

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Life Remember: Make sure you see the vehicle before booking Check if there is a wedding package, and if thereâ&#x20AC;&#x2122;s a discount when booking extra vehicles.

Check if decorations and champagne are included. If decorations are included, ask if you can choose a colour to match your wedding scheme.

Ask what the driver will wear Make a note of how much the deposit is to secure the vehicle, when itâ&#x20AC;&#x2122;s due and when the full balance is required.

Confirm dates, times and locations in writing

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A quarter of a million Brits get married each year with massive impact on the environment. Just think of all of those leftovers and transport for guests - not to mention the piles of confetti. Well no-one wants to spoil the fun, but how about some green wedding ideas?

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Dyslexia Success Who Are We? Dyslexia Success has been supporting children and adults with learning difficulties for almost 20 years by assessing for dyslexia and other learning difficulties as well as successfully tutoring those who have dyslexia on a one-to-one basis.

This is achieved by the assessment process, which not only provides evidence of a person’s difficulty but, as is most important, determines their underlying skills and intelligence capacity. In addition they can be supported successfully by specialist tutoring on a one-to-one basis.

We have been assessing students at the University of Bedford for a considerable number of years and have an excellent record of assessing students in higher education for DSA, as well as adults in the work place.

If diagnosed, concessions can be requested for examinations and course work which, if in higher education, can lead to an award of the DSA.

Dyslexia Success is one of the leading suppliers of training for identifying dyslexia and support to the African Continent, including Ghana and Uganda and we are planning to offer services to Kenya in 2012.

We now offer these services within the Bedfordshire area from our premises based in Bedford Town Centre.

Why Contact Us? - Dyslexia Success is part of the International Dyslexia Education Assessment Services - Free help and advice on In addition, we provide free dyslexia and other learning classes in Milton Keynes difficulties for adults who have - Assessments for children difficulty with reading and adults which could and writing as well as result in extra time in supporting children exams who cannot read and Assessments and write. can affect support with Access to Work What Is Dyslexia?

- Disabled Students Dyslexia is a specific Allowance for those in learning difficulty, which Higher Education affects 10% of the population.

- Short Assessments with There are different types of screening tests for dyslexia and dyslexia including Phonological (an other learning barriers inability to grasp the links between the - One-to-one support for children and adults sounds and the shape of the letter) or Dyseidetic - Free support for children and adults in the Dyslexia (surface or visual dyslexia-difficulty with Milton Keynes area processing the symbols, letters and whole words) which are characterised by the difficulties they So, for further information or to book an appointment to discuss yours or your child’s display which usually includes reading, spelling and decoding problems. needs, please do not hesitate to contact us on:

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‘Take Stock’ ver the last few months I have been writing each month about some aspect of learning or education and all of these have focused mainly on children and young people. But we all know that learning doesn’t stop when we leave school. Nowadays most people don’t finish training or education then work for the rest of their lives in one job, instead lots of adults continue training throughout their adult life often changing career several times. And that is just formal training, we learn in all sorts of informal ways too. A client told me recently that they had finally managed to achieve a better work-life balance after a close friend had been diagnosed with cancer. Somehow that sad event had made them question their own priorities AND make some changes. But it’s a shame when it has to be a shock or trauma that makes us change. Learning and education can change us, remember the film Educating Rita where a university course quite literally changed Rita’s life, because it gives us the chance to look at things from different perspectives.

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One of the things that nearly always happens around New Year, as well as parties and for some a few hangovers, are conversations about

and for many the determining of New Years resolutions. Personally I’m not a great fan. It is all too easy to come up with all sorts of ideas of things we’ll give up or things we’ll start and then by mid January we are ‘beating ourselves up’ because we just haven’t managed to do it.

However for all of us it is a really good time of year to take stock. Often a good way of doing this is simply by asking ourselves a few questions as they are such a good way to ‘structure’ our thinking around issues in our lives.

So when you think of the year ahead what sort of things would you feel excited by? Maybe a holiday, or children reaching certain milestones, maybe you are planning to move home or job or maybe you realise that a key relationship is simply not a happy one. It is also good to think about the sorts of things that frustrate you. Are you always wanting to be a bit thinner (who isn’t!!) or fitter, or even more organised. Often it is helpful to think of your life in different spheres, work, family, friends and yourself for example and ask a few questions of yourself with regard to each of those areas:

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Family If you are in a relationship then that’s the first thing to consider – are you happy? What kind of things do you look forward to with your partner?

Friends Spend a few moments just to identify who you see as key friends.

Do you see them often enough?

Think about your children and what are the best bits and what frustrates you?

What about wider family, are you worried about ageing parents or your grown up children?

Work It’s worth thinking how much of your job do you actually enjoy. It might not be much more than the pay at the end, but for many that’s worth it.

Try thinking what your ideal job would be. Would it be possible to make a shift? Or think about what you need to do, to get the type of job you would like.

When you do see them, do you spend time together the way you want to?

Yourself Is there anything about myself I want to change?

Is there anything I want to make time to do – a hobby, a holiday, time to learn a new skill etc?

When you think about yourself in the future how do you see yourself – if the future you see is very different from the now then what can you do this coming year to bring these images closer?

What do you see yourself doing in 5 or 10 years time and is there anything you could do now to bring it nearer?

You can hopefully now see that it is worth doing a bit of thinking – in fact I could go further and say it is worth jotting down a few thoughts. Then a day or so later look at it and see if they are still the things that are written or have other things started to seem more important. I am sure we have all seen hamsters scurrying in their wheels and often modern life is so hectic we can all have ‘hamster syndrome’ and have no time for reflection. That isn’t in itself necessarily a bad thing but it can mean we never have time to reflect. And of course as we are not in a wheel we can keep plodding on without thinking where we want to get to. The result of course is that we may not get where we want to and may be surprised to find that years are slipping by without any real change.

Christmas is one of THE busiest times of year for almost everyone but after the presents are opened and the turkey eaten sometime over the following few days/weeks most people can find a few moments to think about what the coming year may hold. BUT don’t stop there. In every year there will be things we have little control over, especially at the moment when many jobs are vulnerable and money is tight for lots of people, but there are also lots of things we do have control over.

When I work coaching or guiding people I encourage them to think of goals. So looking at

the year ahead is there anything you really want to achieve, if it’s winning the lottery then apart from buying tickets there isn’t SO much you can do to make it happen but for lots of other goals there are. This is where asking yourself some questions is vital. ‘Do you like your job?’ is one example. You may not, and you may decide to stick with it for very good reasons (children start school next year and at the moment this job fits in for example) but if you have at least gone through the thought processes then on a bad day you know clearly why you are there.

Many people find that much more satisfying than simply drifting through another year. For everyone however there are some things that can be changed, in work this may be anything from applying for another job to undertaking training or at least seeing what courses are available and planning ahead, to maybe even starting your own business or going part time.

So at the start of another year give yourself a little gift by spending some time concentrating on yourself and your life and thinking about where you are, where you want to be and how you might get there. Be careful not to create mountains for yourself, instead just remember that every journey begins with a small step and that can simply be ‘taking stock’. However mature we may be we all still have things to learn even about ourselves!

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Dear Readers, The BBW team have been busy developing a new website. Thank you to Leigh Frost of True Silver, a BBW member, who helped enormously. Have a look, www.beds-businesswomen.org and give us your feedback. Reserving your place on our networking lunches is now easier with the option to book big events in advance.

BBW Award Winners 2011

We’re continuing to embrace social media and get BBW in the limelight. Our Facebook page is flourishing and members have linked with each other on Linkedin and joined the BBW group discussion page. We also sponsored the Adult Achiever Award at this years Pride in Bedford Awards.

Last date for your diary is Monday 23rd January. I am excited about the launch of Creative Beauty & Fresh Face at my salon for all Botox, Chemical Peel, and Semi Permanent Make Up services. Claire & Susie are both BBW members and I can’t wait to work with them. Please join us on the evening at 7pm for free demonstrations and glass of fizz. Book your free place with 5th Avenue on 01234 341377.

Recently we held our Christmas networking lunch at the Horse & Jockey, Ravensden; many thanks to our guest speaker Heather Dallas, an inspiring public speaker who has travelled the world; her clients include Coca Cola, BP, Deloitte and Cancer Research. Our Secret Santa proved popular and an auction raised money for St Johns Hospice.

International Women’s Day is our next major event sponsored by Bedford College. Save the date – it’s Thursday 16th February at Shuttleworth College, Old Warden. February is the time to increase the profile of your business - to book your stand, please call me on 07850 617578. We aim to attract around 200 female guests on the day – starting at 10am for coffee & networking with business showcases we will then sit down for lunch and listen to our guest speaker Ruth Badger from The Apprentice. Book your place on our website now - £25 member, £30 guest or £250 for a table of ten guests.

Finally a personal appeal, I would really appreciate it if you could help my charity of the year, Sue Ryder, St Johns Hospice.

They’re looking for Guest speaker at BBW your support; in just 3 Awards Lara Morgan clicks you can vote for them to become Luton Airports Charity of The Year.

Visit: http://www.londonluton.co.uk/en/?u=information (vote where you see Sue Ryder)

Earlier this month I attended a network lunch in Cambridge. They gave me the opportunity to talk about IWD so hopefully increasing the chance of women joining us from across the border!

On behalf of BBW we would like to wish all Affinity readers a very prosperous New Year. Enjoy yourselves whatever else you might do.

Before that, our January network will be held on the 19th at Champneys Henlow. A fantastic venue very close to my heart, it’s where I started my beauty therapy training at the age of 16. I’m looking forward to our network and using all the superb facilities. I keep my fingers crossed and it will make my day if my previous boss Mrs Purdew is available to speak on the day. Places are limited to 40 guests; first come first served. Visit our website www.beds-businesswomen.org

Warm Wishes, Kerry Cash President BBW www.beds-businesswomen.org For enquiries - kerry@5thavenuespa.co.uk

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anctuary in Harpur Street, Bedford has been established since 2007 yet still 4 years on many people don’t even know of its existence

Sanctuary is an unusual shop that offers an extraordinary shopping experience as well as being a centre for spiritual growth and improvement.

Here at Sanctuary is a shop which houses different things; the unusual things which make your life just that bit sweeter for the fact that they are different.

Along with some wonderful Buddha’s, old and new, are candles, incense, stones, crystals, crystal balls and dreamcatchers. Oil burners and tarot cards, hand made boxes, Wiccan artifacts, Cherubs and Angels, fountains and so much more.

The aim of Sanctuary is to sell everything spiritual from Angels down and Earth up.

As soon as you walk through the door the alluring smell of incense hits you and you find yourself in a haven of calm and tranquility, there is so much to look at whether you’re buying something for yourself or a gift for a friend you will be spoilt for choice.

But it doesn’t stop there - Sanctuary also offers courses and workshops on Psychic Awareness, Tarot, Palmistry and Crystal Balls as well as doing a lot of corporate work for large companies.

You can visit Sanctuary for various readings including Tarot, Psychic, Crystal Ball, Telephone and email, just look on the website for more details or to book a reading.

The shop is open on Wednesday mornings and all day Saturday, so if you’re passing why not pop in and see what you can find.

Every three months there is an open day at Sanctuary where you can go along for Palm and Tarot readings at £5 for three questions, or if you prefer not to ask questions, your past, present, and future, with the Gateway of Fate spread, a Year Ahead spread, and a spread which tells you anything else that the cards think that you should know.

So why not pop along on one of these open days for a glass of wine and some nibbles and see what it’s all about.

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“This year a wasted space for your Christmas decorations, next year a fabulous room for your family” efore you take down your Christmas decorations and put them back in the loft – STOP!!

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Now might well be the time to convert that forgotten space, which is currently being held hostage by bags and boxes of family keepsakes as well as all those Christmas decorations that will be going back up there shortly.

Whether you want a fabulous master bedroom with en-suite, office space to work, a playroom or extra bedroom for a new baby you can release the space under your roof to create the extra rooms you need within your home.

Converting your loft is a cost effective and less stressful alternative to moving house. With the

recent falls in property prices, increasing numbers of people are now deciding that it's better to move up rather than out. Making use of the otherwise wasted space in your loft is a great solution to your space problems.

Use a loft conversion specialist When looking at converting your loft you should use a loft conversion specialist so that you can benefit from their experience and expertise. They will be able to advise on what portion of your space is usable, whether you can add a bathroom and whether you can add windows to your roof.

G. Butler Loft Conversion is one such company which has over 23 years experience, they are Bedford based and have an excellent reputation in the area for the high quality workmanship and service they offer, they are also a member of the Bedfordshire Trading Standards. Gary Butler, director of the company is only too happy to discuss your requirements and show you previous work as well as provide you with excellent customer references.

They cover the whole of Bedfordshire and are well known in the area for the high quality of services they offer. They are fully insured and health and safety recommended. All of their tradesmen are fully qualified, and work as part of a team to produce a quality product from start to finish.

Every member of the team understands that each customer’s requirements are different, which is why they will treat every loft conversion individually, tailoring the service to meet the customer’s needs to ensure they get the fully functional and beautiful loft conversion they've always wanted.

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G. Butler takes the hassle out of your conversion by providing the total package, starting with the initial FREE consultation, design and planning right through to the completion of the room of your dreams.

So instead of putting those Christmas decorations back in the loft why not give Gary a call so that this time next year “That space above your head will be the room you’ve always dreamed of!”

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Spinach & Ricotta

Canelloni Ciao everyone!

This dish is high in iron and makes a great midweek meal for all the family.

Although spinach won’t give you superhuman strength, Popeye properly demonstrates spinach as an ideal super food. Loaded with all sorts of vitamins and minerals, spinach can supply a huge helping of nutrients for the body.

Spinach is believed to originate in ancient Persia, the land of modern day Iran. Persian traders introduced spinach to India and Nepal, working its way over to China in the mid 7th century, where it gained considerable popularity. It only later made its move west, becoming a choice green in Italy. In 1533, Italy’s Catherine de Medici would become the queen of France, bringing her beloved spinach with her.

Almost every meal she ate incorporated spinach, which became known as “Florentine”, still used to this day to describe meals presented on a bed of spinach.

As well as a lovely vegetarian dish this is one sure way of getting kids to eat their greens...try it they will love it.

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Ingredients 1 cup (250ml) tomato passatta 600g ricotta (low-fat, if desired) 250g frozen chopped spinach, thawed 1 egg 2 tablespoons chopped flat-leaf parsley 2 tablespoons chopped basil 1/4 cup (20g) grated parmesan Salt and cracked black pepper 6 fresh lasagne sheets 3/4 cup tomato passatta, extra 1 cup grated mozzarella 1/3 cup (25g) grated parmesan, extra Green salad, to serve

Recipe Preheat oven to 190°C. Lightly grease a 20cm x 28cm x 4cm-high ovenproof dish. Pour in tomato passatta, spreading evenly over base.

Place ricotta, spinach, parsley, basil, parmesan, egg, salt and pepper in a large bowl, and mix to combine.

Cut each lasagne sheet into 14cm x 16cm pieces. Place 1/3 cup of ricotta mixture along length of each lasagne sheet and roll up to form a tube. The mixture should make 8 tubes.

Lay tubes side by side in the dish.

Sprinkle some parmesan over the tubes Spoon over extra tomato passatta to coat. Sprinkle with the remaining cheese and bake for 25 minutes or until golden.

Serve with salad.

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Trio of Desserts Add a touch of sophistication to any dinner party with these mouth watering desserts

White Chocolate and Raspberry Cheesecake Ingredients

Method

6 shortbread biscuits 1oz butter 10oz cream cheese 2oz caster sugar 1 ½ tbls plain flour 2 eggs ½ pot soured cream 5 oz white chocolate (melted) Raspberries

Crush the shortbread biscuits and mix with the melted butter, then press into individual sponge or muffin tins.

Mix the rest of the ingredients together and cover each biscuit base.

Bake for approx 15 minutes 160C or gas mark 3 until firm, remove and place in fridge for at least an hour.

Decorate with soured cream and raspberries.

Lemon Tart Ingredients Ready made sweet shortcrust pastry 2 eggs 3oz caster sugar Zest & juice of 2 lemons 4 ½ floz double cream

Method Line a 6” sandwich tin with half the pack of ready made pastry.

Bake blind for 10 minutes & cool.

Mix together the eggs, caster sugar, lemons and cream, then pour into the case and put in oven for approx 20 mins on 160C or Gas mark 3 or until firm. Dust with icing sugar.

Chocolate Mousse Ingredients 4oz cooking chocolate 2 eggs Quarter pint cream Shot glasses

Method Melt the chocolate Separate the eggs and whisk the whites until firm, whisk cream until firm.

Whisk yolks until frothy, then gently stir in the melted chocolate, followed by the cream and then the egg whites.

Fill the shot glasses, and put in the fridge, decorate to your taste.

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Dessert Wines s it that we drink too much, too fast, with dinner? So when we get to dessert, coffee seems like the only reasonable beverage option? If so, we need to learn to pace ourselves, because we're missing out on dessert wines.

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Always serve chilled and in a small liqueur style glass, a good dessert wine should be sweet but not cloying, with the balance of acidity matched by a grapey flavour with a tangy finish. It's important to make sure that the wine is sweeter that the pudding itself otherwise the wine will get lost and appear dry, it's all about complimenting the degrees of sweetness.

Botrytis cinerea or more commonly known as 'Noble Rot' is a fungus that affects wine grapes, usually when they are ripe and in wet weather but if drier conditions follow then the grapes become partially raisined which leads to a concentration of sweetness and flavours. This natural process is encouraged by producers of sweet wine and they can produce some quite stunning results.

French Sauternes from Bordeaux is one of the most famous but Australia has some amazing wines with sweetness levels at near biblical proportions. South America too is getting its act together and is now showing some great examples at very reasonable prices.

Most come in half bottles which helps keep the price down and also makes a good opportunity to try different types with different puddings to find the one you like.

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Surprise Fridge Cake “The surprise of this cake is that, hidden inside, are your children’s favourite sweets. Of course, you could always make it healthier by using chopped dried fruits and nuts instead, but you might not be so popular!"

Ingredients 110g unsalted butter, cubed, plus more for greasing.

150g plain biscuits 90g golden caster sugar.

2 tbsp golden syrup.

1 tbsp cocoa.

50g chocolate, 50% cocoa solids, broken into pieces.

150g chocolates and sweets (mini marshmallows, crushed honeycomb, chocolate bars, malted chocolate balls and caramel chocolates).

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Crush the biscuits into small pieces by placing them in a plastic bag and bashing with a rolling pin.

In a small pan, very gently melt together the butter, sugar, syrup, cocoa and chocolate. Remove from the heat and cool until tepid. Add the biscuits and stir in the chocolates and sweets. Mix well and spoon into the tin.

Cover the top with the excess cling film and set in the fridge for a few hours. Once set, remove the cake from the tin by pulling on the cling film and easing it out with a knife.

For the topping, place a small heatproof bowl over a saucepan of gently simmering water, making sure the base of the bowl does not touch the water. Add the chocolate to the bowl and heat until it melts, stirring occasionally, then pour over the cake.

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Discover your.....

Destiny Sue has over 30 years experience in the psychic field, is an authority on crystals and psychic energy, and is a world renowned Tarot reader and teacher. Each month readers are welcome to send their questions in for Sue to answer at info@affinitymag.co.uk Sue also offers private readings on a one to one basis, workshops, courses and much more, please visit her website: www.sanctuarybedford.co.uk Tel: 01234 327090

Questions from readers Why does my boyfriend cheat on me? I have always shown him nothing but love.

The cards are telling me that your boyfriend is shown as someone who wants a passionate relationship, but needs someone who is more than just a doormat who allows him to walk all over them. Showing nothing but love is showing only some of who you are. If you show him the real you, rather than the trying too hard to please you, you stand more chance of him being able to be himself in return, instead of looking elsewhere for his kicks.

Relationships are all about love, pain, passion, and at times boredom they are not about perfection.

Will I have children? I am heading for my mid thirties, and have been trying for so long.

My cards are showing me the Empress card and the Queen of Swords, which show that you should expect children when you think that you are too old to have them. They also suggest that the stress which you are

going through makes conceiving and keeping a pregnancy harder, and that when you have ‘given up’ the lack of stress allows conception. (There are certainly many cases of newly adoptive parents conceiving for similar reasons.)

I seem to be getting nowhere in my work, yet others who have been in the company I work for less time, and work less hard have bypassed me for promotion.

Am I doing something wrong?

My cards are showing me a man who is a perfectionist by nature, and is as such not always happy with the work that he has done. This also means that the work that you do takes longer to get through, so although your workload is heavier, there is less to show at the end of the day. No one would tell you not to do a good job, but it may be wise to do a good enough job, rather than to constantly try for absolute perfection. That way you would at least be in the running for promotion.

A spell to disperse Bullies Some small sticks from a dead branch, (one thicker than the rest) A leather Cord Make a bundle of small sticks with a thicker stick in the centre, and prepare to tie it loosely with a leather cord, or string.

As you lay out the sticks, before tying them, give each one the name of one of the people who are bullying you or who are using bullying tactics, the thickest stick, should be named for the person who causes most difficulty. This should remain in the centre of the bundle, when the string around it is tied.

Once it is tied: Gently begin to ease the centre stick away from the others, not rushing it, but taking it gently and manoeuvring it out of its position. Say:

‘This stick which holds the rest together, will no more rule my ways, and as the rest desert the leather I will see better days.

But all I send to all I name, is three times back, from whence it came’ Gradually wiggle out the remaining sticks one side and put them safely to one side. When the spell is finished, put them outdoors, back where you found them.

This spell relies on not wishing harm, but reflecting problems back to those who cause them.

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Jasper Most Jaspers are useful for the removal of hurt and negativity. The red Jasper is known specifically for the removal of old hurts, including old family issues.

It is a deep rusty red, like polished brick, but rarely seen in its raw state in crystal shops, where it is usually sold as a tumbled stone or polished slice or sphere.

Red Jasper is gently stimulating and also an extremely protective stone. It can bring a halt to unfair situations, bring problems to light and provide insights into difficult situations.

Red Jasper is thought to calm the emotions and help with dream recall.

A stone of good health, Red Jasper is also believed to strengthen and detoxify the circulatory system, blood and liver, if worn constantly.

Moon stone Is said to aid fertility and help with pregnancy and child birth, It is also thought to calm difficult hormonal tendencies, like hot flushes, and bloating.

It is the stone associated with The Goddess Diana, the Huntress, and as such is thought to bring strength and insight to women, and a motherly tendency to all who wear it. In many cultures, for example in India, it is regarded as a holy, magical gemstone, a 'dream stone' which brings the wearer beautiful visions at night. Many beautiful rings are made for this reason, usually in silver, rather than gold, as a connection with the moon.

It is a beautiful stone which comes from the feldspar family of stones, with some varieties showing a blue surface schiller, which is either an electric blue or plays rainbows of light, depending on the clarity of the stone, and the way that it is moved about.

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What’s On January 2012 with some of the best early music groups in the world such as the Orchestra of the Age of Enlightenment, The Gabrieli Consort and Players, The Academy of Ancient Music, English Baroque Soloists, The English Concert, London Handel Orchestra, Orchestre Révolutionnaire et Romantique and the Halle - and have performed in concert venues all over the world - 7.30pm Tickets £10 (children under 16 £2) at the door or from 01767 318537

Wed 28th December - Mon 2nd January Jack and the Beanstalk Bedford Corn Exchange Bedford MK40 1SL Traditional, affordable, fun-filled pantomine for all the family at the Bedford Corn Exchange. Following last year’s sell-out smash hit, this year we bring an exciting tale of Magic Beans, Beanstalks, Giants ... and Daisy the Cow! 2pm & 6pm Tickets: £14 (adult), £10 (concessions) & £39 (family) Cental Box Office: (01234) 269519

Sun 8th January Woburn Antiques & Collectors’ Fair - Antiques2Go Village Hall, Crawley Road, Woburn, Bedfordshire, MK17 9QD Held on the 2nd Sunday of every Month - 10am - 4pm.

Browse through a variety of antique and collectable items from jewellery to militaria, from clocks to crested ware - and pick up a bargain! With prices from £1 to £1,000 we have something for every collector! Excellent home cooked food served all day. £1 entry

Sat 31st December New Years Eve Party – Mowsbury Golf Course, Bedford A three course meal, coffee and glass of bubbly at midnight all enjoyed whilst you dance the night away! £37.50 per person 01234 771493 mowsburygolfclub@ymail.com Sat 31st December ‘Whamtastic’ The Fox, Carlton Come and join in the fun with ‘Whamtastic’ a tribute night to Wham 01234 720235

Mon 9th January Plough Monday Celebrations The Cross Keys, Pulloxhill Bedfordshire MK45 5HB A traditional annual celebration of Plough Monday (the first day back to work after Christmas for the ploughboys of old). Redbornstoke Morris and Bedfordshire Lace Morris will dance outside the pub followed by The Brafront Guzers’ performance of their plough play inside.

Free event. Collection for charity. Get there early to ensure a place in the pub. Dancing starts 8 - 8:30pm-ish!

Contact Barry Goodman for any more details: 01462 456811. www.redbornstoke.com

Sun 1st January Afternoon Tea Dance, The Keep, Kempston, MK42 8SX 2pm – 4pm Come and Celebrate the New Year with a New Year's Day Afternoon Tea Dance. DJ's David and Viv play all the well known Sequence and Ballroom dances. Tickets on the Door. Tea and Coffee Provided. Enjoy your refreshments in the elegant Stuart Lounge, and dance in the lovely and historic Main Function Room. £3 per person 01234 300 179, www.MelodyMagic.co.uk

Sat 14th January Sporting Targets, Riseley – Taster Session 10am – 12pm The opportunity for the under 18’s to experience a two hour event, under the supervision of fully qualified instructors, to experience, Archery, Air Rifles and Clay Pigeon Shooting. This can be done by joining a session with up to six other young people, or making a booking for six, at a time to suit you. This is a perfect Birthday Party Event, and there are loads of opportunities to take photos to keep the memory of the day. Pre booking is essential.

01234 708893 www.sportingtargets.co.uk

Thurs 5th – Sun 8th January Caravan Show – The centremk For all outdoor types, this is a great show to visit.

Examine the luxuries of the latest touring caravans with all mod cons, such as fixed beds, showers with, yes, hot water, heaters, cookers, fridges, and in-van entertainment. It’s all there to marvel at!

Sat 7th January Classics by Candlelight St Andrew's Church, Biggleswade The Gabrieli Consort and Players A group of performers specialising in early music are coming to Biggleswade to present "Classics by Candlelight". The musicians play

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Tues 17th Jan uary Wrest Park Silsoe Bedfordshire MK45 4HR Meet the Author: So you want to be a historical writer? with Mike Arnold Ever thought about being an historical writer? Find out more at a fascinating historical writing event with published author and Historical Writers Association member, Mike Arnold. Spaces are limited so prebooking is essential - call 0870 333 1181 to book.

11am-2pm £60 per person (£50 per person for English Heritage members) pre-booking essential Tel: 0870 333 1181 Fri 20th – Sun 22nd January Lord of the Dance – Milton Keynes Theatre Michael Flatley, creator and director of this awardwinning international dance phenomenon, proved his vision that hearts and minds, united through music and dance, cross all traditional boundaries. His Lord of the Dance continues to shatter box office records all over the world, leaving audiences breathless and clamoring for more. www.atgtickets.com 0844 871 7652 Sun 22nd January Winter Wedding Fair at The Mansion House, Shuttleworth Park, Old Warden, Beds – 11am – 4pm A must for anyone planning to get married, the Winter Wedding Fair at The Mansion House will provide you with everything that you need to have the perfect wedding day. In addition to John Lewis, there will be more than 30 exhibitors offering a range of services from cars to cakes, hairdressing to honeymoons and flowers to favours. The Hinxworth Bridal fashion shows will model the latest bridal gowns, bridesmaid dresses and mens suits.

Fashion Shows at 12.30pm & 2.30pm.

Free Admission Organised by Lumsden Wells Design Studio. Tel: 0845 833 0610 From late January – Mid February Snowdrop Walk The woodland trail is open all week during daylight hours with good parking facilities, hot drinks & lunch menu served in the newly restored Garden Room at the end of the walk. enquiries@moggerhangerpark.com 01767 641007

Wed 25th January Saffron Indian Restaurant, 64 Tavistock Street, Bedford, MK40 2RG The Ultimate Elvis Tribute 7.30 - 11pm Alvin Printwhistle is one of the most respected Elvis Tribute Artists on the circuit today, he has been an avid Elvis fan since his early childhood and has always included a tribute to Elvis in his shows since 1980. He has appeared in the title role as Elvis in London’s West End, as well as countless performances on radio and on national television. He was also amongst the finalists of GMTV’s search for ‘Britain’s best Elvis’.

01234 325655 www.alvinprintwhistle.com Fri 27th January Sandy Helping Hands are holding a New Years Dance at Biggleswade Conservative Club.

Local Band "Almost Abba" and Supporting Disco Tony Young from Biggles FM. Doors open 7.30pm £5 Sun 29th January Fireman Sam Pontypandy Rocks Milton Keynes Theatre The Hero next door is back due to popular demand with his live stage show Pontypandy Rocks! Join Fireman Sam, and all his friends, as Pontypandy hosts its first ever music festival! www.atgtickets.com 0844 871 7652 Mon 30th January Over the Rainbow (The Eva Cassidy story) – Milton Keynes Theatre Over the Rainbow, is a compelling award-winning musical which tells the life story of this legendary artist, following Eva's life through dramatic scenes and stunning live renditions of her music including a haunting interpretation of ‘Somewhere over the Rainbow!’ www.atgtickets.com 0844 871 7652 Last month’s competition winners: Driving Experience - James Elliott from Lavendon Jamie’s Great Britain - Susie Clarke from Willington, Petra Oliver from Bedford Sue’s Course - Sarah from Haynes West End

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Quiet night in with..... t is a mere year and a half after September 11th, and America has settled into an uneasy routine, still keeping an eye on the alert levels spawned from the attacks of 2001. A date that nearly claimed the lives of John Corey and FBI agent Kate Mayfield (now Kate Mayfield Corey).

Back then, despite their best efforts, they failed to capture Asad Khalil – aka ‘The Lion’ and the Libyan managed a clever escape. But before he left, he made a promise to return, and a promise to kill Corey and Mayfield, along with a growing list of others.

breakneck-paced race against time between two utterly driven men, between good and breathtaking evil. Acclaimed as the finest of Nelson DeMille's John Corey thrillers, it is the perfect introduction or reintroduction to one of the most compelling heroes in fiction.

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The pace of this book is literally that of a Rollercoaster as you hang on for dear life wondering what will happen next. Add to this cracking prose and a tale that doesn’t let up from the moment it starts which leaves you grasping for a suitable break area so you can get some sleep. This is a Phenomenal book that takes you on a rollercoaster ride of emotions and will keep you up all night

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NEW YEAR’S EVE PARTY MENU INCLUDES: A DISCO & A GLASS OF BUBBLY AT MIDNIGHT STARTERS A choice of: Coquille St Jacques Scallops in a creamy white wine sauce, topped with potato, gruyere cheese, Breadcrumbs served in a scallop shell

Duck & fig terrine With pistachio nuts, wrapped in Parma ham

Grilled antipasto (v) Grilled eggplants, peppers, artichokes served on a bed of rocket with a toasted caramelized onion bread

MAIN COURSE A choice of: Poulet a L’estragon Chicken cooked in a red wine jus with silverskin onions & bacon served with seasonal Vegetables

Fillet of hake in lemon butter with capers Served with roasted cherry tomatoes on the vine and sauté potatoes

Caramelized onion & camembert cheese soufflé (v) Feuilles de brick pastry filled with a creamy camembert cheese soufflé topped with caramelized onion & white wine compote

DESSERTS A choice of: White chocolate, almond & apricot delice White chocolate & almond mousse, layered with apricot puree & sponge finished with white chocolate

Triple chocolate bavarois Shortbread biscuit base topped with chocolate mousse & dark chocolate sauce

Toffee & apple meringue roulades Toffee flavoured meringue, rolled with toffee sauce, dairy cream & diced apple

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