With approximately seven weeks to go until the big day, we feel it’s quite acceptable to mention that word –Christmas and fill this issue with all that glitters and more.
We love this time of year, it’s lovely to reflect on Christmas past and the traditions you had as a child that you have now brought into adulthood and your own family. I for one get terribly nostalgic with my childhood memories - I swear to this day I heard Santa’s bells on Christmas Eve.
The countdown’s well and truly on when you open day 1 of your advent calendar, gone are the days of just a picture or a bit of chocolate, now calendars are full of beauty products, alcohol and food – You literally are spoilt for choice, turn to page 10 and 22 for a roundup of our favourites, what one will you choose?
I think there’s something just as magical about giving a gift as there is receiving one. The look on the person’s face as they unwrap it is a joy to watch, but I hear you ask “I don’t know what to buy? “Look no further than our Christmas Gift Guide, (page 23) this year it’s back bigger and better than before and has gifts everyone will love.
Need a little escapism from all the Christmas prep? Why not indulge in a little hunt for the Northern Lights with The Aurora Zone, whol provide travellers with the very best chance of experiencing the captivating Northern Lights in Finland, Norway, Iceland and Sweden, page 58 tells you more, you won’t be disappointed!
Remember, it’s the season of goodwill, a little kindness goes a long way!
Until Next Month
1. Fossil Raquel Leather Watch, £139, www.fossilgroup.com
2. Fossil Huggie Hoop Earrings, £39, www.fossilgroup.com
3. Embellished Clutch Bag, £175, Dune London
4. Luxury Scented Candle, £38, Ashleigh Burwood
5. Gemma Owen GXO Tennis Bracelet, £95, www.abbottlyon.com
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They both bring more health, inner peace, and awareness, and they are complementary, but certainly not the same. What is the difference between breathwork and meditation? Breathing plays an important role in most types of meditation. And you can think of breathwork as a form of meditation. Yet they are not the same. In fact, for many, meditation — sitting still and focusing your attention on one single thing — is one of the hardest things to do. While doing breathing exercises is often a lot easier.
Meditation is about (mental) silence. You close off from the outside world and concentrate completely on one specific reference point. That can be external or internal, something in your environment such as a sound, or something that is going on in your body or mind. Breathing is often taken as a reference point because you always have it with you and the rhythmic movement (breathing in and out) makes it easier to stay focused. While for meditation, it is not the intention to adjust your breathing rhythm, you should merely observe your natural breathing.
By focusing on your breath, sounds, images, sensations in your body, feelings, or thoughts, you learn to become fully aware of the present moment. Meditation is not about controlling or directing your thoughts. It is often thought that that is what it is all about, and motivation is lost if that does not work. This is also why many people find meditation difficult. Meditation is all about observing what presents itself, about accepting it and staying aware of it - and not getting caught up in the story. Thoughts, sensations, and emotions come and go, the art of meditation is to be 'only' aware of them and not to judge them. The recently deceased Buddhist monk Thich Nhat Hanh described it beautifully: “To meditate does not mean to fight with a problem. To meditate means to observe.”
What is breathwork?
Breathwork can be described as consciously directing your breathing in a certain way, in order to influence certain processes in your body and mind. Unlike meditation, which is purely a cognitive process, breathwork requires you consciously change your breathing, with a specific goal or result. Depending on the technique or method, this may involve making your breathing deeper or more shallow, slower or faster, towards your stomach or your chest, through your nose or through your mouth or perhaps omitting the pauses between the inhalation and exhalation. There are many variables that you can play with in
order to achieve a certain result. The term breathwork is widely used. In fact, any conscious effort to direct your breathing is breathwork, from calming breathing exercises to more intense techniques like the Wim Hof breathing or Transformational Breathwork, where you breathe 'connected' for extended periods, i.e. leaving out the pauses between the inhalation and exhalation. With all types of breathwork, people are often amazed to experience the strong and instant effects, from breathing yourself into sleep to working through deep-seated emotional blocks and trauma.
Why are meditation and breathwork so different from each other?
They are both 'consciousness techniques' and therefore appear very much alike. Yet, breathwork and meditation are very different. Firstly, meditation is more cognitively or mentally focused. For example, you are observing your thoughts, your body, or your breathing. What are you experiencing in this present moment? Breathwork, on the other hand, is more physical, you are consciously adjusting your breathing rhythm. With this, you also immediately change your state of being, in the moment. In addition, for many people meditation is very complex. It is not easy to be quiet with your thoughts, it can even be very confronting. Moreover, meditation is something that you have to maintain permanently to deepen your practice and become more proficient at it. It takes a while to experience results (a calmer mind). Conscious breathing, on the other hand, can be done by anyone. And you immediately experience what it does to you, think of calming down or falling asleep. The effects can sometimes be triggered in seconds.
Meditation and breathwork are both very beneficial, in fact, they are complementary. Meditation can be seen as a kind of philosophy or attitude to life. It’s a way to approach life with a more open mind and a more flexible mindset. It teaches you how to deal with the storm of thoughts in your head and take more conscious actions instead of living on autopilot. You can see your breathing as a tool or a technique that makes you aware of how you are doing (Is my breathing faster or shallower than normal? Maybe I am under stress?) and can also immediately offer an effective solution to calm yourself down (breathing more slowly triggers your relaxation response). It's simple, it works instantly, and you always have it with you: your breathing.
It's never too early to start the Christmas countdown, and what better way than with one of these Beauty Advents, what one will you choose?
Sephora Premium Advent Calendar, £69.99, www.sephora.co.uk
ESPA Wellness Calendar, £160, www.espaskincare.com
Baylis and Harding Advent Calendar, £45, Boots
Elemis Skin Wellness Advent Calendar, £180, www.elemis.com
Molton Brown Advent Calendar, £195, www.moltonbrown.co.uk
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As I look back over my life I have had phases where I have dreamed a lot, and phases where I have hardly dreamed at all. Times when I’ve had regular nightmares waking up soaked in sweat and times when nights have been periods of long unbroken deep refreshing slumber. All of these phases seem to beyond my control.
Like everything in life there are seasons I guess and dreaming is no different. My husband can rarely remember his dreams but will often laugh and sometimes sing so I can only assume they are relatively happy dreams.
I remember after losing my parents I had vivid dreams about them, always positive, so positive in fact then when I woke I almost had to adjust once again to the loss - I understand I’m not alone in this.
But lately my dreams have taken on a more vivid quality and the emotions they have caused have been almost overwhelming. Maybe it is related to the drugs (all legal I must emphasise – the idea of taking something that would make you trip without the guarantee of that trip being good is foolish at best and abhorrent at worst).
One night I dreamt very vividly that hubby was having an affair!!! It was in glorious detail and I was utterly heartbroken. Poor old hubby had a tough morning and as my frostiness moved from a chill to ice cold -he kept reminding me that it was ‘just a dream’. I find it quite fascinating that you can wake up full of emotions from a dream.
I had another dream where I had been very irresponsible in leaving my grandchild alone while I ‘popped’ to London (clearly something I wouldn’t do)
and was in a blind panic trying to get back but losing bank card, trains being cancelled etc. No kidding I woke with my heart racing wanting to protest to everyone that I am a doting granny and simply wouldn’t do that!! Thankfully no-one thought I would anyway.
But in addition to the dreams I remember there are clearly some I don’t - though there are tell-tale signs!!
I spent days being puzzled by toothpaste in various unlikely places in the bedroom – on the bedding the wardrobe door the dressing table and numerous other places. I have no memory of dreaming about a toothpaste fight but it seems sleep action may also be happening now which opens up all sorts of new worries.
One morning I got up and assumed hubby or son had had a bit of a midnight feast and not cleared up very well. My detective work led me to believe it had been scrambled egg on toast. So I first made a jibe at hubby for not inviting me to the midnight nosh – but he swore it wasn’t him. Tackled son in a jovial way but he too denied the noshing! They both declared that it must have been me – but I have no memory of it whatsoever. Were they lying to make me feel like I am in fact madder than I think?
I hope not, in lots of ways but in other ways maybe that would be better than having become a sleep walker, I mean who knows what I might do next. If I put it all together I could have a terrible dream where I get really upset about something that hasn’t actually happened and then sleep walk and do something to exact some revenge for that which didn’t happen. It feels like a fairly scary prospect but I don’t know how to NOT dream. I’m not sure that’s an excuse that will stand up in court!
Blush Gold Hat, £25, Oliver Bonas
ESPA Silk Pyjamas, £180, www.espaskincare.com
Vintage Alhambra Pendant, £7,050, www.vancleefarpels.com
Roller Skates, £112.99, www.impalaskate.eu
Black Textured Leather Bag, £280, www.florequo.com
Sequin Sleeve Jumper, £34, M&Co
This month’s must have gifts and accessories
Satin Forest Scarf, £30, John Lewis
Candle Holder, £14, Selfridges
White Silk Cami & Shorts, £60, www.leocecouture.com
Dolce Table Lamp, £138, www.darlighting.co.uk
Swarovski Constella Bangle, £145, John Lewis
Christmas Bird Poster, £10.95, Desenio
Frida Kahlo Necklace, £78, www.tattydevine.com
Venchi Chocolates, £23, Harrods
We need only look at our own government over recent months to see the uncertainty that exists in our society today and we know that uncertainty is something many of us find hard to cope with.
But like many other situations that can be challenging there are things we can do to make the experience easier.
Hopefully you have some kind of self-care routine, going to the gym, or for walks, allowing yourself times to do the things you love. Taking time to seek out contact with friends and all the other things we do to take care of our mental and physical health. At times of increased stress, such as worrying about uncertainty it is important not to let stress de rail your self-care routines. In times of stress we need them more than ever and at times such as these you may find yoga or meditation particularly effective in managing stress.
We all have a network of people around us and most of us will go out of our way to support and help them in either practical or emotional ways. Yet often we may find it hard to ask for support from them when we need to. Perhaps we feel we should be strong on our own but being human we are made to live in community rather than isolation and in communities people help each other out.
Experiencing uncertainty can make you feel out of control. Often that is the case, depending on the type of uncertainty. At times such as these it is worth concentrating on the things you can control. These might be really simple practical things, what you will eat, activities you might arrange etc but it might also include your attitude and responses to what is happening – response to the uncertainty you find yourself facing.
This is something that is used in some forms of
therapy – ask you self what would you say to a friend if they came to you with what you are thinking and feeling. It’s a great way of crystallising and identifying what the specific issues you have about the situation are AND it allows you to think about solutions yourself. Is there something about the situation makes you feel afraid, frustrated, sad, upset or angry and what advice would you give to a friend in that situation?
At times of uncertainty often rumours abound. You may hear all sorts of things that make you worry more or spark anxiety. If that is the case take steps to limit what you hear. If it is national situations that alarm you it may be worth not listening to the news. If it is other issues make sure that you only turn to reliable sources for information. The world and the media can be full of negative information, or things that make us dwell on the negative. Limit what you feed your mind – at times of uncertainty you often need positivity to feed your soul not negativity to drag you down.
Whatever the uncertainty may make you feel – it is okay. The feelings might not be nice but they aren’t wrong. We all react differently to different situations and however they make us feel that is okay. The feelings may not be nice but the best way to handle them is to accept them. We don’t have to dwell in the feelings but accepting them, noticing them and ‘sitting’ with them can be helpful but then it is time to move on. Distract yourself so something nice contact a mate, go for a walk, read a book anything that can help change your feelings a bit. But don’t beat yourself up about it.
Which leads us nicely to the idea that we need to be kind to ourselves. Whatever you are going through you deserve to be treated with kindness – not only by others but very importantly by ourselves.
For more advice on mindset and living your best life check out my book Make it Magnificent available on Amazon.
cotton Traders
The leather skirt will always be an essential piece to style your outfits around. Whether you're looking for a playful leather mini or a sophisticated leather midi skirt, we've found some of the best
Berry Skirt, £228, Reiss
Birch Green Skirt, £109, Hobbs
Burgundy A-Line Skirt, £170, Whistles
Burgundy Skirt, Net-A-Porter
Dark Green Skirt, £399, L K Bennett
Green Pocket Skirt, £199, Whistles
Pleated Leather Skirt, £259, Karen Millen
Stone Skirt, £154, Jigsaw
Tan Skirt, £120, Hope Fashion
Karen Millen
Block Heel Boots, £34.99, New Look
Boohoo
Chiffon Dress, £45.99, New Look Earrings, £45, John Lewis
Embroidered Lingerie, £30.50, Marks & Spencer
High Neck Dress, £29.99, New Look
Lace Dress, £65, Joe Browns
Nevada Sweatshirt, £16, F&F
Satin Shirt, £18, Matalan
Right now, it’s all about doing Santa proud by dousing your wardrobe in shades of red, whether it’s a statement piece of an accessory, we’ve chosen our favourites
£16, George
£35, Fig & Basil
Diamante Jumper, £35, M&Co
Diamante Neck Blouse, £26.99, New Look
Lace Top, £65, Monsoon
Mesh Sleeve Top, £26, Very
Organza Sleeve Top, £15.99, New Look
Satin Top, £49, Alice Temperley
Sequin Top, £21.99, New Look
Very
Keep things classy with a black top, ensuring you nail the look of effortless chic every time
Carluccio's
Sleep Well Gift Set, £47.99, www.shudaliving.com
Black Mist Diffuser, £65, www.arighibianchi.co.uk
Champagne Truffles, £35, www.meltchocolates.com
Embellished Ankle Boots, £160, Dune London
Evelyn Floral Lingerie Set, £196, Katherine Hamilton
Fitbit, £49.99, John Lewis
Bellissima Steam Elixir,
Any lady in your
love to find one of
Dukeshill Three Kings Hamper, £350 www.dukeshillham.co.uk
Hotel Chocolat Wreath Box, £43.50, www.hotelchocolat.com
Hamper, £54.99, www.meltchocolate.com
Eteo Premium Olive Oil, $150 (100ml), www.eteogoods.com
Barbour Leather Briefcase, www,barbour.com
Card
Sliders,
1st Christmas Sleepsuit, £12, M&Co
Aquabeads Carry Case,
Santa’s been busy choosing
that
Benefit Pretty Pink Lip & Cheek Tint Gift Set, £19.50, Benefit Cosmetics
Circular Drop Earrings, £18, Oliver Bonas
Eleanor Bowen Mini Prosecco Set, £20, John Lewis
Guylain Temptations Snowman, £5, Lidl
ICONIC Good Time Glow Set, £20.80,
Patisserie Valerie
LEAP’s Wild Alaska Sockeye salmon is just perfect for your Christmas dining. Renowned for its vibrant crimson colour and its intense flavour it’s smoked over a unique blend of five woods and hand-cured for a rich and balanced flavour. A brilliant source of vitamin D, protein and omega-3 it will make the ideal starter for any Christmas hosting this year. Available to purchase from selected retailers including Ocado, Planet Organic, Tesco, Waitrose and Whole Foods.
Whether you like to keep things traditional at Christmas with turkey, or fancy a change with duck, then Gressingham has all your bases covered.
Producing turkeys and ducks to high welfare standards, Gressingham can ensure that you find the perfect and most succulent bird for your festive table.
All of Gressingham's turkeys come from Red Tractor assured British farms across Suffolk, Norfolk and Essex.
If you fancy having duck for Christmas lunch, then Gressingham is the expert and offers delicious whole ducks or crowns that serve 3 to 4 people. Perfect for a smaller crowd, but still special and something a bit different, Gressingham breeds, hatches, rears and then prepares the ducks by hand.
Gressingham turkeys are available from Costco and butchers/farm shops. Prices vary.
Gressingham ducks are available from Sainsbury's, Tesco, Asda, Morrisons, Waitrose and Ocado all year round. Prices vary.
It’s time for some exceptional bubbles this festive season with Graham Beck’s Blanc de Blancs sparkling wine (£24, Majestic). Created with 100% Chardonnay, hand selected from the limestone rich vineyards on Graham Beck’s Robertson estate, this Cap Classique sparkler is rich, creamy and effortlessly elegant –truly a stalwart favourite.
The new ‘At Home’ collection from Mary Berry features a range of innovative bakeware products all of which have been designed to give the best results, allowing customers to bake like Mary from the comfort of their own home. The range includes Cast Aluminium Casserole Dishes (from £49.96), 6 Piece Double Sided Cookie Cutter (£15.95), Acacia Wood Board (£49.96), Colander (£19.96), Digital Scale (£24.96) and are all available from www.hartsofstur.com
Christmas Tipple
Delicious Birds for Your Festive Feast
Preheat oven to 375F. Lightly butter a 9x13-inch casserole dish. In a small saucepan, melt 4 tbsp butter over medium-high heat. Add the flour and cook, stirring constantly, for 2 minutes. Whisk in the chicken broth and cream and bring to a simmer.
Reduce heat to medium-low and cook for about 5 minutes or until the sauce is thick and silky, whisking constantly as you go. Season with salt and pepper and set aside.
Bring a large pot of salted water to a boil and cook the spaghetti as per package directions until al dente. Drain and set aside.
While the spaghetti is cooking, melt the remaining 1 tbsp butter in a large heavy-bottomed saucepan set over medium-high heat. Add the mushrooms and sauté for 5 minutes, or until the mushrooms are soft and have released most of their liquid. Add the wine and continue cooking for 5 minutes longer, or until most of the liquid in the pan has cooked off. Stir in the cream sauce, cooked turkey, peas, cooked spaghetti, and ½ cup Parmesan cheese. Test the seasoning, adding more salt and pepper as desired.
Transfer the mixture to the prepared casserole dish. Sprinkle evenly with the panko crumbs and remaining ¼ cup parmesan. Bake in preheated oven for 20-25 minutes, or until top is golden-brown and filling is bubbling and hot. Serve immediately with a sprinkling of fresh parsley.
Method“This rich, creamy casserole made with spaghetti, mushrooms, turkey and peas smothered in Parmesan sauce is quite possibly the best thing that could ever happen to leftover roast turkey.”
Preheat the oven to 180°C/350°F/gas 4. Grease a 24cm loosebottomed tart tin with a little olive oil. Peel, deseed and chop the squash into 1cm chunks, then toss onto a baking tray with a drizzle of oil and sea salt and black pepper, and roast for 20 to 25 minutes. Peel and roughly chop the onion and garlic, and roughly chop the apricots and cranberries. Bash the cumin and coriander seeds, and zest the lemon. Pick and roughly chop the coriander, then roughly chop the chestnuts.
In a frying pan over a medium heat, cook the onion in a little oil for 10 minutes or until soft and sweet. Add the garlic and cook for another minute or so, until beginning to soften, then add all the spices and a little more oil. Cook for a couple more minutes, until it’s all smelling great. Remove from the heat and set aside.
Blitz the pistachios and almonds until they’re ground to a coarse powder with a little texture. Tip into a bowl with the quinoa or rice and dried fruit, then add the lemon zest, coriander and chestnuts. Beat and stir in the eggs and the onion. Take the squash out of the oven and mash half of it with the back of a fork, leaving the other half in chunks, then stir this into the mixture too. Pile the lot into the prepared tin and press down to flatten. Cook in the oven for 45 to 50 minutes, or until set.
Take the nut roast out of the oven, then carefully remove it from the tin and place it on a serving platter.
Scatter the loaf with the feta (if using), and the pomegranate seeds.
Method
“Flavours of Persian cooking are the perfect to compliment to veggie-based dishes at Christmas”
Preheat oven to 150C and line a large flat baking tray with non stick baking paper and draw a 30cm circle in the centre of the paper. Use an electric whisk or stand mixer to beat the egg whites to soft peaks. Add the sugar, a spoonful at a time and whisk on maximum speed until the egg whites are glossy and hold stiff peaks when the whisk is removed. Spoon the meringue onto the baking paper in large spoonfuls, using the circle you drew as a guide to create a wreath shape. Use the back of the spoon to create some swirls and merge the spoonfuls together. Run the spoon through the middle of the
meringue to create a shallow indentation for the cream and fruit to sit in.
Turn the oven down to 140C and bake for 1.5 hours. Once cooked, turn the oven off and leave the meringue inside until it has cooled completely. When ready to decorate, carefully peel off the baking paper and transfer the meringue to a serving plate.
Softly whip the cream and spoon over the meringue. Top with your chosen fruit and chopped chocolate covered clementines. For an extra flourish, drizzle with Seggiano Super Dense Fig Balsamic Glaze.
6 medium egg whites
330g caster sugar
500ml double cream
Selection of fresh fruit - figs, raspberries, clementines and pomegranate seeds
Seggiano Chocolate clementines
Seggiano Super Dense Fig Balsamic Glaze
“A perfect alternative to Christmas Pudding”
This white Crémant de Bordeaux is fresh and lively with aromas of green apple and pear and hints of nuts and pineapple. This fizz is fantastically versatile, making for a delightful apéritif at seasonal parties, through to a brilliant bubbly pairing with dessert on Christmas Day.
£17.00, Hourlier Wines
Château Bellini, Coteaux Varois en Provence, 2021
This aromatic, fruity rosé has intense red fruit aromas of wild strawberries, raspberries and slight acidity from redcurrants. Well balanced and fresh, this elegant rosé stands up well with your festive centrepieces where it’s a salmon wellington or a traditional turkey.
£16.96, Private Cellar
Sauvignon Blanc grapes carefully grown in Marlborough see the perfect combination of sunny days and cool nights. This gives concentrated flavours of gooseberry and passion fruit with a herbal note and long finish. Sip chilled or pair with lighter dishes such as shellfish, poultry and salads.
£8.50, Tesco
Inspired by postman driving an old cop car, David Phinney set up a photo shoot using Calistoga’s moon-like landscape as a backdrop. Out of over 10,000 shots, the final twelve are found on bottles of this flavourful, yet smooth wine that appears almost black in the glass.
The opening aromas of wet stone, black plum and crushed gravel lead to bold flavours of mixed berry crepe, black liquorice and a touch of char.
£62.00, Harrods
An elegant wine with a lingering finish, full of Citrus and pear flavours with peach blossom aromas. Serve chilled as an aperitif or with a salmon starter. Serve chilled as an aperitif or with a salmon starter.
£8.50, Tesco
Orin Swift Machete 2018
“Impress your guests this Christmas with a winning range of bubbles and wines this Festive season”
There have been some surprising results within the Premier League this season and there are one or two teams who have enjoyed a really strong opening few months to the campaign, none more so than Newcastle United and manager Eddie Howe.
When Newcastle were taken over they became one of the richest clubs in the world, but with that wealth doesn’t necessarily guarantee success. There have been countless examples of that. They have a plan, they want to build and improve year on year. Their business in the first couple of transfer windows have been savvy, they have brought in players with Premier League experience and a sprinkling of something different from South America.
What you have to remember is that Newcastle already had talented players on their books, they just needed strengthening in certain areas. What they do have now though is a very talented manager. Eddie Howe did wonders at AFC Bournemouth, bringing them through the leagues and competing in the Premier League. He was touted for the England job during that period of time. He has rightly been rewarded for what he has achieved at Newcastle so far with a long-term contract.
However, the expectations are now rising. The fans, who I have to say are some of the best in the world, will be looking upwards and not downwards. I think it is too soon for them to muscle into the top four, but they could
challenge for a top six spot and Europa League football and that would be an outstanding achievement and a great step forward.
It is hard to attract players to the club when you are not in Europe. That is where you make that next step. Once you are competing on the highest stage of club football, then you can attract some of the worlds best talent and they can certainly afford to do that.
I have to give credit to Frank Lampard at Everton too. Unlike Newcastle, they don’t have an open chequebook, they have to spend within their means, but they have enjoyed some good results and Lampard is getting them back to what you expect to see when Everton are on the television. Long may that continue because they are a big club.
Finally, a word for my former club Birmingham City. John Eustace is doing a wonderful job at St. Andrews. Yes, there are still problems off the pitch, but the fans believe in what he is doing and attendances on the rise. Hopefully it can continue because the Blues are still a huge club at that level.
Whether it's traditional or elegant we've got Christmas Decor for everyone
Egg, £6.99, Dobbies
Gold Feather Bauble, £6, John Lewis
Glitter Embellished Bauble, £10, Selfridges
Embellished Bauble, £25, Selfridges
Silver Bauble, £4.99, TK Maxx
Sequin Bauble, £8, Selfridges
Showcase the grandeur of the season with a collection of Christmas decorations in lustrous silver and gold.
Mirror Decoration, £14,
Diamante Embellished Bauble, £10, Selfridges
Star Bauble, £3, Dunelm
Glass Bauble, £3.99, Dobbies
Glitter Bauble, £5, John Lewis
John Lewis
Silver Egg Bauble, £8.99, Dobbies
Star Bauble, £6, Selfridges
Dobbies
Large Nutcracker, £15, Marks & Spencer
Mercury Glass Bauble, £3.99, Dobbies
Star Swirl Bauble, £20, John Lewis
Velvet Stocking, £10, Marks & Spencer
Doughnut, £12, John Lewis
Peacock, £15, John Lewis
Floral Beaded Bauble, £16, Ella James
Glass Bauble, £90, Harrods Jewelled Crown, £22, Amara
Set of Six Glass Baubles, £50, Soho Home
Sprinkle Bauble, £10, John Lewis
Vintage Bauble, £8, John Lewis
Tinged with elegance and luxe this look delivers the special romance we so want at Christmas
Cox & Cox
Ridge Bauble, £1.79, The Range
Sequin Bauble, £9, John Lewis
Sugar Plum Fairy, £12, John Lewis
Embellished
White Bauble, £8, Selfridges
White Bauble, £3, Dunelm
Glitter Bauble, £8, The White Company
White Bauble, £6, John Lewis
White Glass Bauble, £8, Selfridges
Classic white is a pure and simple yuletide look, that always creates a luxury look everyone will love.
White Glass Bauble, £6.99, Dobbies
White Bauble, £72, Amara
White Swirl Bauble, £6, John Lewis
Paper Starburst Decoration, £10, John Lewis
Pearl Bauble, £14, Selfridges
The White Company
Winter Bauble, £6, John Lewis
Avocado Bauble, £7.99, Dobbies
Beaded Elephant, £3.50, Dunelm
Flamingo Bauble, £4.99, Dobbies
Mixtape Buble, £7, John Lewis
Cat Napping, £8.50, White Stuff
Make your house a grotto of gorgeousness with a rainbow of colours and novelties hanging on your tree
Cocktail Bauble, £7, John Lewis
Cactus, £3.99, TK MaxxCandy Floss Bauble, £22, Selfridges
Christmas Pudding Bauble, £8.50, Dobbies
Christmas Cocktail, £20, Selfridges
John Lewis
Lobster Bauble, £8, Marks & Spencer
Reindeer, £141, Amara
Yellow Santa, £16, Selfridges
Bedford Park Concerts will be back in 2023 with some incredible live shows, with the first announced as multiplatinum selling artist George Ezra.
With three UK No.1 albums Wanted On Voyage (2014), Staying At Tamara’s (2018) and Gold Rush Kid (2022) under his belt, George Ezra has toured the world, toured it some more, then met himself coming back the other way. He’s felt the green, green grass under his feet and the blue, blue sky on his back. A traveller, an entertainer, he’s a man in pursuit of happiness, and of sharing that happiness.
George’s latest album secured his position as one of the UK’s most successful artists of the past decade. Expect a spellbinding, energetic set from Brit award winning artist George Ezra as he headlines at Bedford Park next Summer, packed with a set list of smash hit singles! From his UK number 1 single ‘Shotgun to ‘Budapest’, ‘Dance All Over Me, Green Green Grass, Hold My Girl and many more.
Tickets for George Ezra are on general sale via www.bedfordparkconcerts.co.uk
The Northern Lights are beautiful ripples of bright greens, turquoise blues, with slight tinges of violet and even sometimes pink and red lights that have captivated people for centuries. They are one of the seven Natural Wonders of the World and appear at the top of most people's bucket lists, year after year.
The Aurora Zone offer more than 60 activity holidays, providing travellers with the very best chance of experiencing the captivating Northern Lights. All of their holiday packages take place at 66°North and above, in Finland, Norway, Iceland and Sweden, where the Kp levels are three or less and it's more likely to be visible regularly. The Aurora Zone also works with expert-local guides and scientists in each destination that know how to give guests the best possible chance of seeing a spectacular Northern Light display.
Included in their experiences are:
Gastronomy and Northern Lights Trip to Tromsø, Norway
A brand-new sustainable food-focused trip to Tromsø, in Norway. Over the four days (three nights), enjoy fresh fish – caught minutes from the restaurant – delicately pan fried in butter with locally-picked chanterelles; try the award-winning famous Norwegian brown cheese expertly paired with smooth regional wine by the in-house sommelier; join the Sámi reindeer herders for a traditional feast served under the stars; and learn how to catch fish with the local fishermen on a fjord cruise, before preparing and cooking the catch with the onboard chef. Throughout this trip, hunt for the spectacular Northern Lights on two bespoke evening cruises
(maximum 12 people) on the fjord and dine under the mesmerising night skies.
A three-night Gastronomy and Northern Lights tour to Tromsø, departing between 1 December 2022 and 29 March 2023, costs from £1,245 pp (two sharing) and includes return airport transfers, accommodation at Clarion Hotel – The Edge, three breakfasts, two lunches, and three dinners (including dinner at Fiskekompaniet) plus a Polar Fjord Cruise, visit to the Reindeer Camp with dinner and Northern Lights Watch, Arctic Fishing Tour, and Northern Lights Dinner Cruise.
Cold weather clothing will also be provided – except for on the dinner cruise – and guests will also benefit from fully-qualified guides and instructors during the activities.
Saariselkä - Glass Igloo Aurora Escape
Saariselkä is located in the far north of Finland, high above the Arctic Circle. It is at the heart of the Aurora Zone and the winter nights ensure excellent conditions for seeking out the Northern Lights. To maximise your chances, you will spend the duration of your stay in a north-facing, glass-roofed Aurora Cabin, which is protected from the artificial light of the town. Rather than fight off sleep in order to keep an eye on the sky, make use of your free Aurora alert system inside your cabin!
The Aurora Cabins lie on the doorstep of a natural winter playground and includes evening activities, which not only focus on seeking out the Northern Lights but also provide some unforgettable Arctic experiences. You’ll hunt the lights on foot using snowshoes and enjoy the silence of the wilderness. On another night, you'll take to the trails for an Aurora snowmobile safari.
The Northern Lights Village is less than 1km from the ski town of Saariselka. There are shops, restaurants and cafés to enjoy here as well as a good selection of ski slopes and cross-country skiing trails. So, during one day, you have some free time to enjoy the sights and sounds of Saariselkä or perhaps take to the downhill ski slopes for some alpine action.
The daytime highlight, however, has to be the husky safari that’s included. This is an unforgettable ride, as you take control of a team of huskies with your partner for a thrilling dog sled trip into the Arctic wilds.
A three-night Saariselkä - Glass Igloo Aurora Escape costs from £1,545 pp (two sharing) departing between 2 December 2022 and 17 March 2023, and includes return airport transfers, accommodation in an Aurora Cabin, three breakfasts, two lunches, and three dinners, plus Northern Lights snowshoeing, 5 km husky safari, Northern Lights snowmobiling.
Cold weather clothing will also be provided –– and guests will also benefit from fully-qualified guides and instructors during the activities.
For more information or to book, visit The Aurora Zone, www.theaurorazone.com.
At Four Seasons Hotel London at Park Lane, staff adore creating lifelong memories for guests through big, small or unexpected acts of love. This festive season, they will bring to life a winter wonderland experience in the lobby and throughout the Hotel, to immerse guests in the exciting and twinkling time of the year. The Hotel will also create magical experiences on the doorstep of its iconic London location so that guests can enjoy everything the city has to offer at Christmas time in special, Four Seasons style.
Guests will step into the Hotel’s lobby and find themselves in a winter wonderland with a giant snow-globe installation that transports them to the snowy trees of the mountains. They can create their own snow-globe story by capturing a special snap with their loved ones that will be framed by the Four Seasons team to take home.
Handmade by talented resident florist Rosalind Ackerley, the Hotel’s limited-edition Four Seasons Christmas wreaths will be available to purchase and take home from mid-November.
Discover Four Seasons pop-up hot chocolate cart, which will run every Friday throughout November and December 2022. With special recipes from Four Seasons winter resorts around the world including Four Seasons Whistler, Vail and Megeve, the cart will transport guests to the mountains by serving hot chocolate with an international twist, alongside the Hotel’s own British classic.
Guests staying at the Hotel over the festive period will have the option of a Christmas tree in their room on arrival. If guests would like it decorated, the Hotel can arrange this in advance, or guests can opt for a beautiful Four Seasons decoration kit to dress it themselves. With baubles and twinkling lights, their suite will feel like a home from home.
Christmas elves will stock guest rooms with Christmas cards, wish list stationary for children and stockings to make their visit extra special. The Hotel will also have a surprise appearance from Santa on Christmas Day.
Four Seasons Hotel London at Park Lane has partnered with Harvey Nichols, Knightsbridge, to bring guests a luxury dining and personal shopping experience so they can Christmas shop without the stress. Enjoy a glass of champagne and lunch at the Hotel before being transported by a prearranged London taxi to Harvey Nichols and met by the store’s expert shopping team.
’Tis the season to eat and be merry, and festive dining menus offer the perfect options to embrace the season’s cheer. On the big day itself, guests will enjoy a Christmas Day à la carte menu featuring an array of dishes, including traditional favourites complete with all the trimmings. On New Year’s Eve, feast on decadent dishes along with live entertainment; and on New Year’s Day, enjoy a delicious brunch with freeflowing Champagne.
Four Seasons Hotel London at Park Lane is the official hotel partner of No.9 Cork Street gallery by Frieze in Mayfair and can arrange private gallery tours and special invites to their events and exhibitions throughout the Christmas period. Guests can sip on a special Cork St Cocktail at the Hotel and then wander over to the gallery to explore world-leading modern and contemporary art.
Four Seasons Winter Wellness journey is a three-hour treatment beginning with a soothing heat experience, followed by a full-body salt scrub, cocoon clay wrap and fullbody massage with warming festive oils to nourish winter skin. Guests will then be gifted an aromatic Four Seasons winter-edition candle to fill their home with a beautiful scent.
Over the Christmas period, prices at Four Seasons Hotel London at Park Lane start from £1,100 based on double occupancy on a bed and breakfast basis.
For reservations, visit the website, www.fourseasons.com/london
Orascom Hotels Management, the hotels management arm of Orascom Development, has announced that its newest hotel, The Chedi El Gouna, will open its doors at its flagship Egyptian Red Sea resort on 1 December 2022.
Taking bookings from 15 October 2022, the five-star beachfront hotel offers guests 82 elegant rooms and suites. Once inside, guests will discover a choice of gourmet restaurants, tropical-style pools and private beaches, fitness and activity areas, and its crowning jewel, a tranquil spa.
The Chedi El Gouna represents the pinnacle of El Gouna’s luxury hotel offering, with its tagline ‘lean into the hush’ chosen to reflect the hotel’s serenity. With charming character and a stunning beachfront location, complemented by The Chedi’s signature Asian aesthetics of intuitive luxury, timeless design, and contemporary cool experience, The Chedi El Gouna will be a sumptuous, ecofriendly getaway.
All suites and rooms take a sleek modern, yet understated design, creating a tranquil atmosphere that promotes relaxation, while the earthy colour palette and natural materials add a touch of warmth.
While a spa-focused hotel, The Chedi El Gouna welcomes families with children who can enjoy their stay in the family suites available.
The hotel features three pools: the main pool, a shallow social pool, and a children’s splash pool with sunshade. The hotel is situated on an exclusive 250m natural cove beach with umbrellas and sunbeds for guests.
Guests will be able to experience the ultimate in serenity at the full-service spa. The spa’s design draws upon traditional Asian influences and features two hammams, four private treatment rooms, two couples’ retreat rooms, and a separate relaxation space, with treatments including massages, skin treatments, detoxifying regimens, and beauty therapies.
The property features four exquisite food and beverage outlets for guests to enjoy. Choose between:
• The Restaurant with a breakfast buffet and a la carte offering
• The Beach Bar: Featuring El Gouna’s most popular draws: the soft red sea sand and sea. Guests will enjoy chic loungers, daybeds, and cabanas, as well as a full menu of refreshing beverages and light bites. Hours: 9.00pm –midnight
• The Japanese Restaurant: Ascend to the rooftop to enjoy an elegant culinary experience at The Japanese Restaurant. Savour authentic dishes created with age-old techniques and the highest quality ingredients. Hours: 12.30pm –midnight
• The Cigar Bar: a comfortable, inviting space that offers an impressive menu of exotic cigars sourced from around the world. The knowledgeable staff will help you pair your selections with premium spirits and wines. Hours: 2pm –midnight
Varied excursions will be offered by the hotel’s recreation team, including boat trips (snorkelling, diving, fishing, catamaran sailing), watersports (kitesurfing, parasailing, jet skiing), off-road desert safaris, and horseback riding.
For more information or to book, visit www.chedielgouna.com
The festive period is a truly magical time in AustriaRomantic lights, seasonal treats, festive carols, and snowcovered roofs and treetops as far as the eye can see: Millions of visitors from around the world travel to Austria's cities and small towns from mid-November every year to join in the celebrations leading up to Christmas Eve. But what is it that makes the festive season so special in Austria - and what are the must-dos and must-sees?
The Advent wreath and the Advent calendar are both used to count down the days to Christmas Eve. Every Sunday, a new candle on the wreath (there are four in total) is lit while the doors on the calendar are opened daily from 1 December, just like in the UK. Self-made calendars are especially popular. During the festive period, Austrians love to bake Christmas cookies and gingerbread and prepare punch and mulled wine - or buy them at the Christmas markets.
If you are in Austria on 5 or 6 December, friendly Saint Nicholas and his sinister companion Krampus might knock on your door. According to tradition, well-behaved children are rewarded with sweets, peanuts and tangerines, while the naughty ones might get a little word of warning. St. Nicholas is officially celebrated on 6 December and Krampus the day before. However, the two often show up as a pair. In traditional villages, people dress up in scary costumes made of sheepskin and wear carved masks with goat horns to mark Krampus Day.
Unlike in other countries, in Austria it's not Santa Clause or Father Christmas who brings the Christmas presents but the Christkind ("Christ Child", "Baby Jesus"), an angel-like figure with white feathery wings, a halo above its head, and blond curls. Children toss their Christmas letters into the
fireplace or put them on the window sill to make sure the Christkind gets it right. The presents are traditionally opened on Christmas Eve rather than Christmas Day. "Silent Night", written and performed for the first time on 24 December 1818 by Josef Mohr and Franz Gruber in Oberndorf, SalzburgerLand, is still the most popular carol to sing under and around the Christmas tree.
A stroll through one of the traditional Christmas markets is the highlight for many travelling to Austria during the festive period. Let us introduce you to some classics – and some lesser-known markets that are just as charming.
Every major town has at least one Christmas market and it goes without saying that Vienna has the most. In fact, Austria's capital has more than 20, the most popular ones being in front of the town hall, at Schönbrunn Palace, and in the Spittelberg district. However, it's well worth looking into other cities, too!
Tirol's Innsbruck has markets right under the famous Golden Roof, on the main square and the shopping street Maria Theresien Straße, as well as at Hungerburg Castle, where you will sip your punch while enjoying spectacular views over the town. Bonus: You can hop on a ski lift right in the heart of town before or after the markets! An annual highlight is Innsbruck's Christkind Parade (18 December 2022), featuring the Christkind riding down MariaTheresien-Straße and the historic lanes in a splendid carriage, accompanied by a marching band, shepherds, angels, sheep, and some 600 local children.
Then there's Salzburg. Its Christmas Market at Residenzplatz was first mentioned in the 15th century, and
is perfect to sample all the local festive delights. Just outside the city, the romantic Advent Magic at Hellbrunn Palace awaits. Its over 700 conifers in the inner courtyard are decorated with 10,000 red Christmas balls and strands of lights every year, while the palace's windows are turned into an XXL advent calendar.
Christmas Markets at the Lake Romantics and lovebirds will surely enjoy Austria's Christmas markets at the water. Salzkammergut's Lake Wolfgangsee and its villages St. Wolfgang, Strobl and St. Gilgen turn into a Christmas wonderland every year, with markets, open fires, and musical events. The 16 m high, floating “Peace Lantern” on the lake, just off St. Wolfgang's shore, is the official symbol of the region. The best way to enjoy all the festive decorations and markets is an advent-themed boat tour.
Another great region for markets at the lake is Austria's southernmost province Carinthia. Head to Klagenfurt, then further on to Lake Wörthersee and check out all the stalls and festive lights in Pörtschach and the famous floating Advent wreath in Velden.
Christmas Markets in the Mountains
It almost goes without saying that Austria's ski and Alpine regions, too, top up their game to get their guests into the festive spirit.
Besides Innsbruck, Tyrolean resorts such as Kitzbühel, Seefeld, St. Johann, and Kufstein all have their own Christmas markets. Zell am See – Kaprun in SalzburgerLand has several of them, with a handful right in the heart of the skiing towns and one at Kaprun castle, featuring more than 30 stalls, processions, and lots of regional delights. Obertauern and Bad Hofgastein are also well worth considering for a mix of skiing and Christmas magic.
In Austria's westernmost province Vorarlberg, Kleinwalsertal and Schwarzenberg in Bregenzer Forest are the go-to places for festive celebrations and markets amidst the Alps, while Montafon holds several Christmas-themed concerts throughout the Advent period.
For more information, visit www.austria.info/en
This sparkling tribute to the universal power of friendship, sisterhood and music tells the hilarious story of the disco diva whose life takes a surprising turn when she witnesses a murder.
Deloris Van Cartier is an aspiring singer in Philadelphia, where she is auditioning to perform at her gangster boyfriends nightclub. Deloris believes that Curtis is going to introduce her to a big producer, but is upset when he tells her she is not ready. Hurt and rejected, Deloris decides to break up with him, but when she goes to find him she accidentally sees him kill one of his cronies. Deloris runs to the police, who place her in hiding at a convent until Curtis is brought to trial.
At first, Deloris feels as though it will be the worst thing in the world, chafing against the constraints of convent life and an immovable Reverend Mother, but once
she is introduced to the struggling choir at the convent, everything changes. She finds that many of the nuns at the convent are not that different from her, and that they are quite fun to be around.
They help give her a bigger purpose in her life, showing her a genuine love and affection that was missing prior to her arrival at the convent. Sister Act is a joyous show that uses music to bring different communities, and lifestyles, together.
With songs inspired by Motown, soul and disco, this joyous and hilarious musical is one nostalgia-filled trip back to the 70s that you will never forget.
Sister Act is appearing at Milton Keynes Theatre from Monday 21st – Saturday 26th November 2022. Tickets are available from www.atgtickets.com/MiltonKeynes
Manish Kumar Arora
(K.P. Astrologer, Numerologist, Tarot Card Reader & Vastu Consultant) reveals what’s in store for you this month
Scorpio (23 October – 21 November)
This is a good time to go for a raise as a stronger focus on professional goals will develop. Your comfort zone matters, and now is the time to take care of your own needs without eclipsing the needs of others. Flashes of insight from your dreams can assist you in innovative ways. You will see some shift in your attitude towards pleasing a significant other, more sociability, and the desire to bring balance to your life.
Favourable Dates: November 2, 3, 11, 12, 20, 21
Favourable Colours: White & Green
This is a strong time for de-stressing through creative expression or immersing yourself in a hobby, the arts, or other forms of dramatic entertainment, Your personal appeal jumps up a few notches. Ideally, you would adopt a more mature attitude towards adventure and facing the unknown. You would enjoy the breeze of happiness it brings to your love life and try to make the most of the best opportunities to improve your love life.
Favourable Dates: November 2, 4, 11, 13, 20, 22
Favourable Colours: Yellow & Green
It’s a fine time for thinking of ways to make small changes in your life so that you feel more engaged and connected. There can be a nice feeling of joy and comfort in thinking about the bigger picture, long-term goals, and far-off plans. There can be an opportunity to enjoy yourself, and a very pleasant, playful mood now and inhibitions and defensiveness tend to drop.
Favourable Dates: November 2, 6, 11, 15, 20, 24
Favourable Colours: Yellow & Red
You may receive a cosmic push towards expressing yourself more creatively and experience an increased drive to take charge of your life. This can be a fine time for getting your point across, as well as for networking activities or socialising. You can be especially witty or insightful, and others appreciate you for your ideas and gestures. You might see a friend or romantic partner in an entirely different light, which can be exciting.
Favourable Dates: November 7, 9, 16, 18, 25, 27
Favourable Colours: Yellow & Blue
This can be a good time for progress or idea-generating when it comes to creative matters or a romance. You are more able to express yourself in subtle ways, to feel in touch with what’s inside, and to convey your inner world or message easily. Words may not be quite as effective as body language and actions now.It should be a relaxing month and you can expect to spend much of your leisure time with friends and family.
Favourable Dates: November 1, 3, 10, 12, 19, 21
Favourable Colours: Yellow & Red
The month begins with a real burst of energy, confidence and power. There would be trend towards greater flow of personal income but be aware that the flow can just as easily come in and go out if you’re not careful. Your mind often will run along money making ideas. You would get more attracted to unusual plans, fields and concepts. Exposure to new ideas open up new world to you.
Favourable Dates: November 3, 7, 12, 16, 21, 25
Favourable Colours: Yellow & Grey
You are due to gain recognition in your professional life and sexual and romantic satisfaction will follow close behind. Your public image and professional affairs will demand extra time and responsibilities but the rewards that follow will be worth it. You would be emotional, sensual and very alluring to members of the both opposite and same sex in general at this time. People who like to play with fire will be instantly attracted to you.
Favourable Dates: November 3, 5, 12, 14, 21, 23
Favourable Colours: Blue & Black
This is a time when you are working hard, taking on your fair share of duties and responsibilities and either reaping some of the rewards of your hard work or facing the consequences of poor choices. You are now treated to a realistic look at what you have built and achieved. Take a new class, upgrade your skills and keep moving. These little things will make huge differences in both your personal and professional life.
Favourable Dates: November 1, 4, 10, 13, 19, 22
Favourable Colours: Red & Yellow
A spunky period for your love life occurs this month, when your charm is super and romance fairly sizzles. It is a fabulous opportunity period for scheduling a romantic getaway. You are destined to meet someone who will jump at the chance to take you out of a lonely situation. There will be an excess of romantic energy. You are likely to make changes in your life that break you out of your usual routines.
Favourable Dates: November 3, 5, 10, 13, 21, 23
Favourable Colours: Blue & White
You will be one step closer to knowing where you are headed and you will have re-built faith in yourself. Ideally, you may adopt a more mature attitude towards adventure and facing the unknown. You let go of self-defeating attitudes that have been holding you back. You could visit a foreign country, experience new culture, learn a new language or suddenly want to relocate. There can be surprising developments in love where people from other places are involved.
Favourable Dates: November 1, 6, 10, 15, 19, 24
Favourable Colours: Yellow & White
You are likely to feel more confident and enthusiastic about your ability to earn a living and you may choose to develop your talents in order to boost your earning power. This month has the potential to bring truly exciting insights into how you can better manage your domestic life and work, When it comes to life path and career goals these days, you’re more strategic and concerned with what’s best for you in the long term.
Favourable Dates: November 1, 5, 10, 14, 19, 23
Favourable Colours: Yellow & Brown
Your income is likely to increase and there may be an opportunity to improve your future financial situation. It may be time to settle some of your debts, financial or otherwise. Synchronicity is thick when you embrace your adventurous side. Trust your inner voice when tackling a difficult project. You will have the mental stamina to realize a long range goal. Putting one foot in front of the other is often the best way to start.
Favourable Dates: November 2, 5, 11, 14, 20, 23
Favourable Colours: White & Blue
manishastroconsultant manish@manishastrologer.com
When Chloe turns the key to Small Angels, the church nestled at the edge of Mockbeggar Woods where she is to be married, she is braced for cobwebs and dust. What she doesn't expect are the villagers' concerned faces, her fiancé's remoteness, or the nagging voice in her head that whispers to her of fears she didn't even know she had.
Something in the woods is beginning to stir, to creep closer to the sleeping houses. Something that should have been banished long ago.
Whatever it is, it's getting stronger, and pretending it's not there won't keep the wedding, or the village - or Chloe ¬- safe.
A struggling actor desperate for a movie role does the unseemingly to get the part. He spends the weekend with a woman who knows all about the devil and dark forces to help him prepare Things get all too real when the actor is manipulated into performing rituals and a goat sacrifice to confront his past . Will these preparations help him or are they just a ploy to steal his soul?
RELEASE DATE: 8 November
A Christmas Carol: A Ghost Story
Mark Gatiss (Sherlock, Dracula, Doctor Who) stars as Jacob Marley in his own ‘Irresistibly theatrical’ retelling of Dickens’ classic winter ghost story, A Christmas Carol, alongside Nicholas Farrell(Chariots of Fire, The Crown, The Iron Lady) as Scrooge.
RELEASE DATE: 27 November
