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Melodies in His Heart... Don Howren shares his love of music with anyone in the Texarkana area. After 30 years as Minister of Music at First Baptist Church, he will retire on February 27, 2011, to begin a new part of his life... retirement! Read his amazing story and be inspired by this wonderful, giving man.

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Sing a Joyful Noise... I sing like I feel. ~Ella Fitzgerald

I have always loved music, beginning piano lessons at the age of 6 and taking them for 9 years. Music has been such a huge part of my life. However, I never sang a lot -- never really thought I was good enough to sing in front of anyone. Then the choir director for a small church I was attending asked me if I would be interested in singing in the choir. I didn’t have to be great, he told me, just wiling to sing a joyful noise! What a wonderful gift that choir director gave me! I not only learned a lot about singing, but became so interested, that I decided to take voice lessons. The improvement was amazing! From that point forward, I have been an avid singer -- and some would say an avid dancer! HAHA! I can’t seem to sing without moving with the music. For many of us who sing in church choirs, the music becomes a large part of our worship. Tears become a familiar sight. Smiles become an even more familiar sight. It is no wonder that we are all drawn to others who share our enthusiam for worshiping the Lord through song. Don Howren is a perfect example of how the Lord uses people to bring others to Christ. He is a wonderful leader for the choir at First Baptist Church and has been for the past 30 years. From his weird times to show up for whatever rehearsal we are having, to his many “Don-isms,” he is an inspiration. Those of us who have had the pleasure of working with him, worshipping God through music, prayer, or just fellowship, know exactly what I am talking about. And we will miss him when he retires on February 27, 2011. Sometimes it is difficult for us to accept that God has a plan and we can’t tell him how we want the plan to work! (At least I have a problem with that!) However, I know God has a plan for Don. He has done such a great work in his life so far. The future is something only He knows. However, I know He has something special in store. I can’t wait to see what it is!

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DON HOWREN

HALLELUJAH! How many ways can the power of this word be sung? If anyone has the answer

to that question, it will be Don Howren. This Minister of Music at First Baptist Church, Moores Lane in Texarkana, Texas, has sung, discovered, cajoled, explored---lived this idea for most of his life. Perhaps he began as a 14 or 15 year old Eldon, Missouri, farm boy. Don, a talented teenage trumpet and piano player, was consistently told by Betty Moor, the Minister of Music at his boyhood church, “You know, God needs young men in music.” This influential lady, an accomplished trumpet player herself, shared her love and joy for music with not only the First Baptist Church congregation she served but also with Don Howren, her young protégé. Add to that equation Geraldine Halderman, the band director at his junior high and high school, and his mother’s insistence on piano lessons plus his God-given gifts and the map of Don Howren’s life was drawn.

After his 1965 high school graduation from Eldon High School, Don enrolled at Southwest Baptist University, Bolivar, Missouri. The best part of this education was Sue Porterfield who on August 26, 1967, became Mrs. Don Howren. Since money was scarce, the couple was compelled to leave Bolivar— just no jobs—and move to Southern Illinois University in Edwardsville, just across the river from St. Louis. Here both Howrens found work in churches, J. C. Penney— whatever in order to make ends meet. Four years after his arrival, Don graduated from Southern Illinois in 1970 with a BA in Music and lots of experience in “making joyful

sounds” with choirs as well as instruments. A variety of churches in Missouri and Illinois preceded the growing Howren Family’s eventual arrival in Texas. Friend and choir member Sharon Gibson writes, “In the late 70s, Don packed up his old car and family (Sue and Todd, Kevin and Kim)” and headed to Fort Worth Southwestern Baptist Theological Seminary where Don would pursue his Masters of Church Music Degree. When Don, the student, walked across the street he became Minister of Music for the Gambrell Street Baptist Church, his laboratory for learning. Meanwhile, First Baptist www.alt-mag.com

raised their voices in praise: 8, 9:15, and 11 Church, Texarkana, had lost its pastor. The a.m downtown and 9 a.m. at the gym, then committee appointed to find a new pastor back downtown for a night service. Thorough included Southwestern students in their rehearsals and careful attention to detail on search. Dr. William Shields, Committee Howren’s part made all these celebrations Chair, discovered Don was about to possible with few glitches. Choir members graduate. “We’re looking for a Minister and congregations also made of Music, too,” he some important discoveries acknowledged, so he about their new musical returned to Texarkana leader—discoveries which without a pastor but with have been both endearing a prospect for Minister of and exciting. The Shillings, Music. Don graduated in Larue and Clarence, admit, December 1980, visited “We have never known First Baptist Church, anyone with a better sense worked with the choir of humor and ability to make one time and moved to people smile…or a more Texarkana as Minister hardy laugh.” While the of Music in February words about Don that come 1981. “I was told to Sharon Gibson’s mind ‘Never go to a church are “passion and energy.” without a pastor,’” No doubt so many others Don reflects, “but Sue who have apportioned a part and I just felt we were of their time to share with being led.” For the first Don—wherever music can be month, the Howrens’ found—will agree. Texarkana home was Don Howren, regardless with Raymond and Lois Don and Sue Howren of the year or the place, is Anderson who welcomed all about music. Although his the new family until education follows traditional construction of their lines, he delights in exploring various home was complete. musical styles. For example, traditional From his first day on the job, Don music includes the use of a piano and organ Howren was hopping. The church had two with the choir’s singing an anthem. Today, locations at the time—the original downtown the music Howren shares is blended. “The location and the gym, the only building church’s congregation includes members completed on their new Moores Lane from 8 or younger to 81 or older, so there campus. Each Sunday, Don’s several choirs

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must be something in the music that meets the needs of everyone.” For starters, he has established a 25+ piece orchestra which joins the piano and organ in creating the music. Old hymns have new arrangements, like those of his favorite contemporary composer/arranger Tom Fettke. Theatrical effects like stage lighting, microphones, and large screens have been added to enhance the worship experience, but for Don Howren—music and all the technology are still about worship. Any Sunday service will include both horizontal and vertical music. “Music directed horizontally is about God; music directed vertically is to God. We’re really singing to an audience of One,” he advises. So why is music so significant? Don emphasizes that God thought music was so important, he wrote a whole book of songs, The Book of Psalms. In fact, the Old Testament talks about the trumpeters and singers who, in war, went into battle before the troops. Chopin even wrote many of his Polonaises to encourage the troops. Music affects behaviors and attitudes. Therefore, the music Don Howren shares is guided by technical expertise but filled with a spirit of worship—a spirit nourished by rehearsals. “Isn’t it great when rehearsals stop being rehearsals and become worship?” he has been known to ask. To get to that point, though, a choir rehearsal may include admonitions like “This is not a sad song,” or “Great harmony, but it is supposed to be in unison”, even “Stagger your breathing or breathe staggering.” Throughout a rehearsal, Don’s hands—either or both—are constantly and decisively slicing the air. At times, his eyes are so glued to the sheet music in his hand, he seems oblivious of the group following his directions; at other times, he may implore, “Hold your music up. I’m not on the floor yet.” BUT he always listens—to the melody and rhythm; to the dynamics of the instrument voices—how loud or soft, “Some people think you have two volumes,” he explains, ‘loud and louder.’ You have to work much harder to sing softly.” Tempo and interpretation are also important dimensions of the music on which Don’s choirs work. Tempo, Don clarifies, refers to the emotion of the music while interpretation is the poetry of the piece. “Interpretation gives the music its life, for example, if rushing is the word, then the voices need to make the words sound as though they are rushing—poetic onomatopoeia. “ The continuous choral battle, however, regardless of the age group remains…pronunciation (correctness) and enunciation (clarity). “Don’t get your tangs tongled!,” is a frequent Howren plea. “Vowels make music; consonants make words. Consonants are your friends. OVER ENUNCIATE . Sit up straight, put your feet on the floor, if they’ll reach.” A southern drawl is a problem in this area, Don admits. “I try to help members use vowels correctly. I say it the way we [the choir] said it, then ask how the vowel should have been said. Too many two syllable words are sung with four syllables.” He only shakes his head … and…laughs. “If I can get people to laugh at

themselves and listen…” With that he raises both hands in a gesture of approval, and a broad smile and sparkling eyes prevail. Like most choir directors, Don Howren is willing to resort to bizarre tricks to get from his choir what he wants. He seldom admits what they are, but he is well aware of how to use them. He may entice members with a Mystery Trip, or, as Shirley Pinnix remembers, suddenly begin to “just whisper” to get the attention of his talking adults. Mary Ted Mayo recalls, “In one of our choir performances at the Perot, the production was to begin with a crowd scene where everyone was laughing, smiling and greeting each other as we walked about Christmas shopping. The night of the first performance everyone was tense and nervous, and it didn’t help when someone peeked around the curtain and told us that the room was packed. As the curtain rose and we gazed at the orchestra pit for direction, there stood Don Howren in a tuxedo, wearing a pair of Mickey Mouse ears. Needless to say, everyone relaxed and once again Don got “just what he wanted” from his choir.” “Choir members must be in the choir room on Sunday morning by 10:03,” according to Debbie Brower. “Don says people are more likely to remember an odd time, so rehearsal is set to begin at 7:10 on Wednesday evenings.” Members may even be told, “I need you in place at 5:33 or any odd time.” Choirs are not the only recipients of Don’s directions, however. Vicki Carr, one of his accomplished pianists, reviews the

routine of the orchestra as they prepare for Sunday morning’s service. [The sheet music has been mailed to orchestra members earlier in the week, but this is the first time they have played this music together.] : “Sunday morning- -a scramble to get to 8 a.m. rehearsal. He starts on time. We tune, and he takes us through the first segment, verbally. He’s obviously thought through every note, planned the flow, the meaning of the lyrics, the balance of fast and slow, the right mix of keys. This is a job not just anyone can do—certainly not a non-musician. He knows the range of each instrument, where our strengths are, and how to cover our weaknesses. Our first run-through is a little rough, but he perseveres, correcting only the worst patches. He trusts that we’ll catch our mistakes and improve on the next go-‘round. Sure enough, when the praise team arrives we’re in pretty good shape. He sees to our needs—offers water, extra copies for forgotten packets, enthusiasm for sleepy players, gratitude for our service. A slight break, and we meet with the choir in last-minute rehearsal. Then God shows up, and the music seems anointed. There is nothing like Don’s face when he

is caught up in the anthem—positively beatific….Don always prays us into worship, into service, into song. He is a man of God.” His organization, knowledge and attention to detail are hallmarks of whatever Don Howren does whether it is introducing children’s choir members to music, organizing a trip for the youth choir to sing at the capital or professional baseball games, planning special music for the adult or handbell choirs, or sharing the music of his HALOS Seniors (H-happy, A-active, L-loving, O-obedient, S-singers). This group has sung in every senior citizen living environment –not one too small—in Texarkana. He even finds time for praise teams and ensembles and men’s quartet. Occasionally, guests like Larry Gatlin or Sandi Patty may join his Adult Choir for concerts or maybe a Southern Gospel group or a TBN camera will find their way to his sanctuary. “I think if you stay with one style, it makes Jack a dull boy,” he acknowledges. As always, his days are filled with people and projects, but he never forgets the individuals for whom he cares and who really make the music of his life. “He still makes time,” Sharon Gibson observes admiringly, “to sit by a stream with a couple

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of sticks and pretend he’s fishing with his 3-year-old grandson.” Choir members absent from rehearsal can expect their phone to ring shortly after practice ends at 9 p.m. each Wednesday evening. They know it’s Don just calling to be sure everything is okay with them and to let them know they were missed. To visit his office is to walk through a series of open doors, and conversations may be interrupted by a wave and a “Hi.” His computer screen is handy so that e-mails— often funny—can be found in the mailboxes of his friends. He ministers to many via his hearty laugh and consuming smile. Don enjoys a good joke even when he is laughing at himself. Jim Crain, currently of Nederland, Texas, tells this Don Howren story: “The second wedding that Don Howren ever performed was for Jane and me (May 23, 1992). He was excited because he had a 100% success rate at the time! Since we were both very active in the music

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ministry at FBC, we asked Don to officiate our ceremony. “He didn’t own a black Bible at the time so he borrowed a black book from Larry Sims’ office to put his wedding notes in. Of course, Don didn’t grab just ANY black book….Just before the service, he showed it to the men in the wedding party, and we all cracked up laughing! You can see on the wedding video Jane start to laugh as Don shows her the title of the book. “What was the title? Very appropriate for a wedding---The Complete Christian’s Funeral Guide. “Don Howren---you gotta’ love him!! We sure do!” Whether through smiles, laughter or tears, Don Howren is a compassionate, caring human being who loves to worship through his music—his passion. He is physically, intellectually, emotionally and spiritually consumed by the mystery and magic of the little black and blank circles inhabiting the lines and spaces on the sheets

of music. His appreciation of the instruments with which he is working is expansive as he coaxes from human voices—the Lord’s greatest instrument—unbelievably beautiful sounds—sounds which even bring tears to his eyes. He is constantly moving—his arms, decisively punching and slicing the space in front of him pausing only briefly to clap a count or pop for emphasis. “Soft is not slow,” he may say. As the crescendo of the music builds, his fist punches the air, his hands slap together, then with open palms facing the choir and begging for force, leading to finality. “Good now…Amen!” his strong, clear voice praises but does not stop. “A phrase ‘We believe in Jesus,’” he begins to explain, “deserves full attention. ‘We believe’ is a little sluggish. We need to hear the J, and sacrifice is not sac-re-fice.” His words do not scold but inform. “Sometimes we get stuck on one note -- that’s when we just set up our tabernacle and forget to keep moving on a passage of music and when we turn that page, the bottom falls out. Our audience has

to be drawn in.” As the rehearsal proceeds, the atmosphere is charged. “Although your concentration is real high, intensity has to be higher. Attack those vowels—when / an.” No detail escapes his attentive ear or eye. Banter among Don and choir members briefly provides a break and changes the pace, but it’s quickly back to business. For two hours, Don Howren orchestrates his musical workout, and participants leave exhilarated, exhausted and enthusiastic. But all of this is about to change. August 2010 marked the moment of Don and Sue Howren’s life-changing decision. In a meeting with Pastor Jeff Schreve, Howren indicated he was ready to retire, but he wanted to tell his family before he made a public announcement in October. “You can only be a lame duck for so long,” he laughs. As usual, his plans were carefully constructed, but even “the best laid plans” can be unexpectedly altered. One week after Howren’s stunning announcement, the results of six biopsies signaled malignancy. Don Howren had prostate cancer. His urologist and friend, Dr. Todd Payne, recommended Don go to Little Rock for surgery. Coincidentally, his Little Rock surgeon was married in the First Baptist Church to a Texarkana girl. On December 7, Howren had the requisite surgery. Because of early detection and action, he has been declared cancer free. Now, Don and Sue are preparing to begin a new chapter in their lives. “What

will retirement be like?” he queries. “I don’t know. I’ve never been retired before.” For starters, the Howrens have some catching up to do, as their travel and visits have been limited for the last 30 years by his church duties. Howren squirms a bit in his chair, “I love my job,” he notes, “I love

what I do; I love the people, but it’s pretty confining. I’m off only three weekends a year.” Understandably, catching up with friends too long neglected interspersed with grandchildren visits in Austin and Houston appears to be the first item on their retired agenda. Cheering from the stands at the College World Series is an absolute must. A trip to Europe—Germany, Italy, Austria, Switzerland—may be in the offing. The people, the scenery, the history, the cathedrals, especially those where composers worked provide unlimited opportunities. Music will always be a part of the Howrens’ lives and travels. The excitement builds in his voice as Don Howren talks about how he and Sue have really gotten into playing bridge. “I have some hours on my doctorate,” he speculates. “I sometimes think about going back to school, but I usually lie down until the feeling goes away. I do want to help out other churches with their music, and I can substitute from time to time. I intend to stay involved.” No doubt staying involved with churches, community, family and friends will not be difficult for Don Howren who prefers to live his philosophy of life rather than write about it. “I love life, love people, and know that every day is a gift from God,” he contemplates. “I treasure every moment. Sue and I are very blessed people.” As for his music, this musician is ready to explore more. “Music is a reflection of our culture and defines generations,” he observes, as he recalls the delight of his Beach Boys world when he was growing up. “When we can’t find words, music says it for us; it is of the heart.” Perhaps that explains why Don Howren’s heart is so inclusive and generous and his laughter so lively. Although no one is indispensable, some are more difficult to replace than others. As his choir and congregation will confess, there can be no replacement for Don Howren—only a successor. Many will agree with choir member Cathy Burgess: “It has been an honor and privilege to serve with such a great man of God. Don is one of the kindest and most humble people I know. He has taught me so much about music and leading in praise and worship. He has such great talent and has always used that talent to serve and honor the Lord. Don and Sue have both been faithful servants and will be missed by all of us! HALLELUJAH… for the Howrens!

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REFLECTIONS During his 30+ years as Minister of Music at First Baptist Church, Texarkana, TX, Don Howren has influenced many from adolescents through seniors. These are some of their remembrances of Don and his wife, Sue.

I was told early on that if you miss choir and do not report in Don will call you after choir practice (which is about 9:00) to see if you are o.k. On this particular Wednesday night, I just decided not to go, but I had forgotten to call the church to “check in.” Sure enough, Don called around 9:00 to check on me. I said, “Don I will be honest with you, the Devil made me do it.” There was a pause, and he burst out laughing saying, “I’ve had lots of excuses, but never this one.” Music is a true means of worship for me, and Don’s music ministry is a real blessing. Diane Wingfield In my opinion, Don Howren is one of the best when it comes to making you feel welcome and glad about being at Wednesday night choir practice. I can also say that I have learned more about reading music and ways to sing better since I have been in choir. He is so talented at everything he does with the music, and the way he orchestrates all of the things involved in the programs and specials we do each year. I love Don and Sue very much and am real glad that I have been 18 a part of the choir. Scott Powell When Danny and I were looking for a church home in 2001, we felt at home at FBC. Don and Sue made us feel like family, and we have loved being a part of the choir….Not just being a part, but to be such an integral part of leading in worship. Thank you, Don, for allowing us to serve, sing, and worship through the FBC Choir. Wilma Gibbons What stands out in my memories of Don Howren are the 10 years of youth choir tours that I was so fortunate to take with him. His love for music and kids was shown on all his tours—through 20 states and 2 different parts of Canada. They sang the national anthem at many professional baseball games and enjoyed amusement parks from California to Florida. I honestly do not know anyone that loves roller coasters more than Don, the faster, the better. I will remember him for his love of life, music, friends, and his ministry to everyone he met, his contagious laughter and his 110% of effort. When I hear him praying, he is connected to his Father. Susan Defore Don Howren is my “minister” –the one I call on for my spiritual needs. He has never told me he was too busy! He has an open door policy to anyone that is in need. I will be forever grateful for him and his willingness to

serve Jesus Christ! Jan Smythe

caring and compassion he has for his choir members. I truly consider myself to have been a blessed man singing under Don’s leadership. Keith McCloud

I started singing in the choir at FBC when Don and Sue came to Texarkana. I can truthfully say that Don has brought a positive spirit and innovative ways, through music, Don’s love for God, his church, his family to bring the gospel of Christ to our area. and people in general is so evident in all he We have all learned much from serving in says and does. His gift, passion and desire the music ministry of FBC. It has been such to worship our Lord through music, and to fun to be a part of the choir under Don’s lead others to worship with all that is in us, leadership. brings us always to the very throne of God. Jill Treadway Don is as humble a man as I have ever known and is always an encourager. He is How about…”That sounds really pretty… truly an awesome man, spiritual leader and But it’s wrong”! I appreciate Don’s passion servant of our Lord. We feel so incredibly for us to sing the music as correctly as blessed to have been a part of the choir possible. While it’s not all about the music, under Don’s leadership. he encourages us to be the best we can be. Larue and Clarence Shilling Don is the epitome of what a worship leader is and for that I am proud to call him leader Don without a doubt is the perfect example and friend. of a mature Christian Leader. He is loved Les Smith and respected by our Choir and Orchestra and all church members. We are very proud Don has MANY talents. God has also given him the gift to see others’ talents and use them for God’s Kingdom, and each one in our family has had the privilege of serving with Don in various capacities of his music ministry. As a family we feel so very blessed to have been able to use our talents to further God’s story and want to THANK Don for having the sensitivity to see our desire to give to God the gifts He has given us. Telka Clem Two examples of Don Howren’s leadership really stand out. One is how he has built the complete “program” through the years at our church—choirs, orchestra, hand bells, praise teams and ensembles and men’s quartet. The other is the www.alt-mag.com

of his teaching skills, and we have improved under his leadership. We work hard but the joy that comes as we worship together with Don and Sue is such a blessing. He will be missed! Shirley Pinnix Don truly knows how to lead us into the presence of the Lord. His dedication and his hard work reveal that. When I see him smile—so full of life and happiness—as he directs us. I see a man that is truly praising the Lord and that encourages me to sing praises. Don has been a great director—the best! Mary Lou Dundee There is no one who has influenced my life like Don. I can see Jesus in him every day. Wednesday night choir is never a dull moment—in fact, time flies by because we practice, practice, practice! Don always has prayer time with the choir, and he never leaves anyone’s prayer request out—even without writing them down. He is loved by so many people, especially me! Marsha Burris Don Howren is one of the most dedicated, patient, and caring Christians that I have ever known. He has truly been an inspiration to me. I pray that he will truly enjoy his retirement and will always carry with him the knowledge that he has been a tremendous positive influence on many lives. Kirby Shaddix Don’s joy is contagious! Looking at Don’s face as he directs the choir—it’s so obvious that

he loves the Lord as he leads us into His presence with singing! (Psalm 98) What a glorious privilege to be in his choir. Judy S. Gibson Don’s laugh will never fade away. What a joy to see him enjoy leading us in singing praises to our Lord. I remember when we dedicated our youngest son, Jacob, and asked Don if he would be our church representative. That Sunday Don and Keith showed up in the exact same suit. There came that laugh. Don has truly been a blessing to me and to our family over the years and will have a special place in my heart always. Loretta McCloud Don is one of the kindest and warmest people anyone could know. I like looking down at that corner of the stage after we’ve sung to see Don with his two- thumbs up, a wink and an ear-to-ear grin, cheering us on and yelling, “Excellent job, Choir!” Gina Sonson One of the most important reasons to attend FBC is the wonderful music that the choir and orchestra under Don’s leadership provide every week. They open your heart to receive the word of God. I am 61 years old, and in all my years I have never been to a church that had a better Minister of Music. John and Sylvia Ulmer Every year in preparation for our Youth Choir Tour, Don would make a dry-run of our course and usually take two or three students along for the ride. Any time you traveled with Don, it was an incredible experience of fun, of worship and of forming new relationships. It has been well over a decade since I last traveled on a tour with Don, but not a year goes by when I don’t relive an adventure with another traveler from our journeys with the FBC Youth Choir. I am so blessed to have known Don, and now as a minister I am so thankful to have such a wonderful model for my own life—someone who daily exemplifies the qualities of a pastor, believer and friend. Todd Bunch, Children’s Minister, Second Baptist Church, Conway, AR Some of my sweetest memories of Don will be times we were singing for the church. Sometimes the words, the music, the intangible essence in the air combined into a moment of pure worship. Don, as he was directing, would look at you, and you knew you were sharing the moment with him. The look only intensified your own worship and your ability to lead the entire congregation in their worship of our Mighty God. Those moments will definitely linger in my heart. Shannon Tuckett When I think of JOY, I think Don Howren! Don is a living testament of letting the JOY of the Lord shine! He has been such a continuous encouragement to me throughout the past several years. Being able to call him a friend is truly an honor! He will always be the “Music King”! Laurie Dunlap For a creative person, Don is extremely well organized. I did ten youth choir tours with Don and never observed one detail he had left unprepared. He planned into the “fun” plenty of opportunities for spiritual growth and fellowship with other Christians. His example of “fun within faith” was an excellent message for our young people. I wouldn’t take anything for those trips with our youth choirs under Don’s leadership. Vicki Carr

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and new brushed nickel cabinet hardware was added after the painting was completed.

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Jean Snyder has lived in her home in Texarkana, AR since 1978, and this past fall, she became ready for a major change! Jean was inspired by the colors in a birthday card she received, and she wanted to also incorporate some ceramic tiles she handpainted. The card and the tiles are what we used to chose our color scheme. Sherwin Williams’ “Halcyon Green” paint went on the cabinets and “Window Pane” went on the kitchen walls.

The new countertop is Wilson Art Mystique Gemstone, and it worked perfectly with the fresh paint colors. Jean had a stainless steel refrigerator so she purchased more appliances in stainless and bought a new sink and faucet. We took down a cabinet over the bar to open up the space, and removed the popcorn

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texture from the ceilings in the kitchen and entry. This really helped to update the space. Jean loved the soft, gray greens from the greeting card so we carried those colors, along with off-whites, throughout the home. We updated her bathrooms and entry hall by hanging new wallpaper. Some people think wallpaper is out of style, but we designers think differently on that subject! After rewallpapering the hall bath, we decided it needed a new marble countertop. Boze Tile came out and did a new, man-made marble top in an off white. New laminate wood flooring was installed in the laundry room, kitchen, breakfast area, living room and down the hall, giving a warmth to the space. New light fixtures were installed in the kitchen/breakfast area,

The “crowning jewel” was when the ceramic tile backsplash was installed using Jean’s hand painted tiles. We chose a 3 X 6 subway tile to mix with her 6 X 6 tiles. The finished product is just fabulous. We finished this project in 4 weeks.

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1) Kitchen BEFORE Remodel. 2) Kitchen AFTER Remodel. 3) Color-Inspiring Birthday Card. 4) New Brushed Nickel Hardware. 5) Hand-Painted Tiles. 6) New Art Mystique Gemstone Countertop. 7) New Wallpaper in Entry. 8) New Wallpaper and Marble Countertop in Hall Bathroom.

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Fish Tales

Fish hooked in the mouth were the easiest to unhook (Duh!) and deep hooked fish were the hardest (Duh, Duh!). To make a long story short, all fish were out of the water from 5 seconds to 1 minute. (This is an important thing.)

Their were two techniques used with the deep hooked by Mike Brower fish, which is the point of this whole thing. Deep hooked fish in which the hook was removed without tearing out its throat survived just fine in both the short and long term study. Fish that were hooked deep and the hook was left in and the line cut a short distance above the hook very cool study was recently published concerning also did fine in both parts of largemouth bass hook removal technique and effects. The the study and had no long study took a scientific look at several common hook removal term effects. As a matter of fact, giving the fish the hook was actually methods and their after effects. better for the fish in the short term (started feeding sooner) and the fish shed the hook in a reasonable time. A control set of fish were hooked in the oral cavity -- geek talk for the mouth. Some were hooked deep and some not. So the moral of this is: don’t keep the fish out of water for more than one minute and if it’s hooked deep, cut the line and give the hook to Two of the four methods are of interest to us -- a regular hook in the the fish. mouth and a regular hook deep in the throat. After testing, the fish were held for six days to assess short tern effects then moved to “Pass the Word.” ponds to observe long term effects.The results were fairly surprising.

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byhold Jeff Schreve Not that I have already obtained it, or have already become perfect, but I press on in order that I may lay of that for which also I was laid hold of by Christ Jesus. Philippians 3:12

n January 31, 1993, I joined the rest of America and watched the Dallas Cowboys play the Buffalo Bills in Super Bowl XXVII. The game was a blowout with Dallas winning 5217. The only thing I really remember about that game was a play involving Cowboys defensive tackle, Leon Lett, and Bills wide receiver, Don Beebe. Lett, the 6’ 6”, 300 pound behemoth, scooped up a fumble late in the fourth quarter. He had a wide open 55 yards to the end zone. Lett had a chance to score a touchdown in the Super Bowl, something very few linemen ever get the opportunity to do. He sprinted his way toward the end zone. Everyone thought it was a sure score, especially Leon. At the 10 yard line, he began to slow down, celebrate the moment and coast into the end zone. That proved to be the formula for disaster. What did Kenny Rogers say? Oh, that’s right, “You never count your money when you’re sitting at the table.” If Leon Lett had remembered that bit of “gambler” wisdom, he would have been a much happier man. The Bills Don Beebe had a “never say die” attitude. When he saw Lett pick up the fumble, he got on his pony and raced after him, hoping against hope that he could somehow prevent a sure-fire touchdown. Because he pressed on and Lett began to coast, Beebe was able to strip the outstretched ball from the showboating lineman right before he crossed the goal line. The result? Lett lost his touchdown, and Beebe made the play of the game. PRESSING ON OR COASTING IN? In your life, are you more like Don Beebe or Leon Lett? Are you coasting to the finish line or are you pressing on? Are you still giving it your all, going full speed, dreaming big dreams and attempting great things … or have you quite pedaling? Are you doing the minimum just to get by? Have you stopped reading and growing and challenging yourself to get better? Years ago I heard this straightforward statement: You are

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either growing or dying. Which one is it for you? The Apostle Paul had accomplished so much in his life for Jesus Christ. A big reason he made such an impact for the Kingdom of God was that he never let up. He kept pressing on with Jesus. He kept learning and growing and praying and seeking the Lord. He never coasted. He never celebrated his victories before they were actually won. HOWARD HENDRICKS Some years ago, I attended a conference in Houston in which I was taught how to effectively study the Bible. Our teacher was the distinguished professor from Dallas Theological Seminary, Dr. Howard Hendricks. Dr. Hendricks, in his mid-seventies at the time, said, “Do you guys remember the little verse packets that you used to get with the Scripture on one said and the reference on the other? You would take them with you whenever you went so you could memorize God’s Word. Do you remember doing that?” I whispered to myself, “Yes, I remember that. I did it in college.” Then, after a pregnant pause, Dr. Hendricks asked, “Why did you stop?” He went on to say that he and his wife still worked on memory verses each week. They never quit. I was greatly convicted that I had stopped pedaling and started coasting in this important area of my life. How easy it is to slack off at the ten yard line of life, thinking you have earned the right to just saunter in. PRESSING ON Perhaps you have been guilty of coasting to the finish line. Perhaps you feel too old to make a difference. Nothing could be further from the truth. Caleb was 85 years old when he fought the giants at Hebron … and God gave him success (see Joshua 14). If you are still breathing, you are still able to use your life to make a difference in the lives of others. Press on and keep pedaling, all the way to glory. You’ll be so glad you did.

Jeff Schreve Pastor www.fromhisheart.org jeff@fromhisheart.org Jeff Schreve is Senior Pastor of FBC Texarkana (www.fbctexarkana.org) and Founder of From His Heart Ministries (www.fromhisheart.org).

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How Will New Tax Laws Affect You?

ow that the Tax Relief, Unemployment Insurance Reauthorization, and Job Creation Act of 2010 is law, you’ll want to familiarize yourself with how this new legislation affects you — both as a wage earner and an investor. Consider these key parts of the new tax laws: • Income tax rates remain the same. Under previous legislation, tax rates were scheduled to rise in 2011, but the new laws will keep all tax brackets the same. • Payroll taxes reduced by two percent. Your share of the Social Security payroll tax will drop from 6.2 percent to 4.2 percent for 2011. Consequently, you should see more take-home pay. . You may want to consider investing at least part of this savings in another retirement account, such as an IRA. • Top capital gains and dividend tax rates stay at 15 percent. The question of what would happen to capital gains and dividend taxes has been of great interest to most investors. For the past several years, the highest capital gains and dividend tax rate has been 15 percent. However, this 15 percent rate was scheduled to expire at the end of 2010; after that, dividends were to be taxed at one’s standard income tax rate, while long-term capital gains would be taxed at 20 percent for anyone above the 15 percent income tax bracket. But due to the new legislation, the highest tax rate for both capital gains and dividends will stay at 15 percent for at least 2011 and 2012. • The capital gains and dividend tax provisions can have significant effects on your investment decisions over the next two years. You now still have a strong incentive to follow a “buy-and-hold” investment strategy, under which you’d earn the favorable 15 percent rate on capital gains from selling an appreciated asset, such as a stock, that you’ve held at least one year. And the 15 percent rate on dividend taxes will continue to provide you with good reason to seek out those stocks that regularly pay dividends; besides offering an advantageous tax rate, dividends, when reinvested can help build

your ownership stake in the dividend-paying investments. (Keep in mind, though, that companies are not obligated to pay dividends and can reduce or discontinue them at any time.) • Estate tax exemption set at $5 million per person. Under previous tax laws, the estate tax was scheduled to be repealed entirely for 2010 only, and then return in 2011, with an exclusion amount of $1 million and a top tax rate of 55 percent. Under the new legislation, the exclusion amount for 2011 and 2012 is $5 million per person ($10 million for married couples), with a top tax rate of 35 percent. The new law also includes a “portability” provision which can provide increased flexibility in estate planning between married couples to attain full use of the $10 million exemption. You’ll need to see your tax and legal advisors to determine what, if any, changes you’ll want to make to your estate plans for the next couple of years as these laws will sunset at the end of 2012. • Gift tax exemption set at $5 million per person. Under previous tax laws, the gift tax exemption for lifetime gifts was $1 million. The new legislation increases the lifetime gift tax exemption to $5 million per person. You should work with your tax and legal professionals

to determine whether the new exemption amount provides opportunities for you to consider during the next two years. As always, changes in tax laws can have a big impact on your financial future — so stay informed and take the steps you need to keep progressing toward your goals. Edward Jones, its employees and Financial Advisors are not estate planners and cannot provide tax or legal advice.

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Luck or Jinx?

Here are a few traditions that according to some may bring one or the other!

It’s your lucky day!

luck because its shape echoes that of a tear.

Tuck a sugar cube into your glove -according to Greek culture, the sugar will sweeten your union.

One of history’s earliest engagement rings was given to Princess Mary, daughter of Henry VIII. She was two years old at the time.

The English believe a spider found in a wedding dress means good luck. Yikes! In English tradition, Wednesday is considered the “best day” to marry, although Monday is for wealth and Tuesday is for health.

Seventeen tons of gold are made into wedding rings each year in the United States! Fashion is Here!

The groom carries the bride across the threshold to bravely protect her from evil spirits lurking below.

Queen Victoria started the Western world’s white wedding dress trend in 1840 -- before then, brides simply wore their best dress.

Saturday is the unluckiest wedding day, according to English folklore. Funny -- it’s the most popular day of the week to marry!

In Asia, wearing robes with embroidered cranes symbolizes fidelity for the length of a marriage.

Rain on your wedding day is actually considered good luck, according to Hindu tradition!

Ancient Greeks and Romans thought the veil protected the bride from evil spirits. Brides have worn veils ever since.

Peas are thrown at Czech newlyweds instead of rice.

On her wedding day, Grace Kelly wore a dress with a bodice made from beautiful 125-year-old lace.

A Finnish bride traditionally went doorto-door collecting gifts in a pillowcase, accompanied by an older married man who represented long marriage. Ring in the New!

In Japan, white was always the color of choice for bridal ensembles -- long before Queen Victoria popularized it in the Western world. In Korea, brides don bright hues of red and yellow to take their vows.

The tradition of a wedding cake comes from ancient Rome, where revelers broke a loaf of bread over a bride’s head for fertility’s sake. The custom of tiered cakes emerged from a game where the bride and groom attempted to kiss over an ever-higher cake without knocking it over. Legend says single women will dream of their future husbands if they sleep with a slice of groom’s cake under their pillows. An old wives’ tale: If the younger of two sisters marries first, the older sister must dance barefoot at the wedding or risk never landing a husband. Party the Night Away In many cultures around the world -including Celtic, Hindu and Egyptian weddings -- the hands of a bride and groom are literally tied together to demonstrate the couple’s commitment to each other and their new bond as a married couple (giving us the popular phrase “tying the knot”). The Roman goddess Juno rules over marriage, the hearth, and childbirth, hence the popularity of June weddings. Princess Victoria established the tradition of playing Wagner’s “Bridal Chorus” during her wedding processional in 1858.

Brides carry or wear “something old” on their wedding day to symbolize continuity with the past.

The bride stands to the groom’s left during a Christian ceremony, because in bygone days the groom needed his right hand free to fight off other suitors.

Priscilla Presley’s engagement ring was a whopping 3 1/2-carat rock surrounded by a detachable row of smaller diamonds.

The “something blue” in a bridal ensemble symbolizes purity, fidelity, and love.

On average, 7,000 couples marry each day in the United States.

Diamonds set in gold or silver became popular as betrothal rings among wealthy Venetians toward the end of the fifteenth century.

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In Egypt, the bride’s family traditionally does all the cooking for a week after the wedding, so the couple can…relax. In South Africa, the parents of both bride and groom traditionally carried fire from their hearths to light a new fire in the newlyweds’ hearth.

The Catholic tradition of “posting the banns” to announce a marriage originated as a way to ensure the bride and groom were not related. Stag parties were first held by ancient Spartan soldiers, who kissed their bachelor days goodbye with a raucous party.

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WE D DING PLANNER Use this checklist to help you keep everything organized and ready for your big day! All the details make the difference! Nine to Twelve Months Before • Announce your engagement. • Set an initial budget. • Select a wedding date and time. • Select and book your ceremony and reception locations. • Book photographer and videographer. • Book caterer. • Book florist. • Determine who will officiate at the ceremony. • Set aside blocks of hotel/motel rooms for out-of-town guests. • Book band or DJ. • Sign up for your church’s premarriage counseling, if required. -------------------------------------------------------------------------------Six to Nine Months Before • Start compiling the guest list. • Select the attendants for your wedding party. • Purchase the bride’s gown. • Purchase the groom’s tuxedo. • Purchase bridesmaids’ dresses. • Arrange for transportation for the wedding. Limousines, Horse & Carriage, vans, etc. -------------------------------------------------------------------------------Four to Six Months Before • Check requirements for blood test and marriage license in your state. • Select and order the invitations and stationery. • Make sure all the men’s attire has been ordered. • Complete the guest lists. • Send your engagement announcement to the newspaper. • Finalize honeymoon details. -------------------------------------------------------------------------------Two to Four Months Before • Confirm the menu and catering details with the caterer. • Prepare all maps and directions for the ceremony and reception. • Select your wedding rings. • Buy a wedding guest book. • Set the dates and times with the officiant for the rehearsal. • Plan the bridesmaids’ luncheon and any other parties. • Determine your resources for designing and printing the program for the ceremony. • Arrange the necessary accommodations for out-of-town guests. • Plan a rehearsal dinner, time and place. • Confirm the wedding cake details with the baker. --------------------------------------------------------------------------------

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Six to Eight Weeks Before • Mail invitations and announcements. • Set appointment with photographer for your formal bridal portrait. • Select gifts for all your attendants. • Set appointments with any hairdressers and/or makeup artists. -------------------------------------------------------------------------------Four to Six Weeks Before • Decide what your menu is going to be for the reception. • Buy a gift for the groom. • Purchase (borrow) all wedding accessories such as the ring pillow, goblets, garter belt, candles, etc. • Choose the music for your ceremony, first dance, parent dances, and party and give information to band, dj, or other musicians. -------------------------------------------------------------------------------Two Weeks Before • Make arrangements to have your wedding gifts moved to your new home. • Handle business and legal details such as name changes, address changes, etc. • Get your marriage license and any blood tests which are needed. -------------------------------------------------------------------------------One Week Before • Start packing for your honeymoon. • Give a final head count to the caterer. • Delegate responsibilities to reliable individuals on your wedding day. -------------------------------------------------------------------------------One Day Before • Get a manicure or massage to relax yourself. • Review and rehearse all the details of your participants. -------------------------------------------------------------------------------The Big Day • Allow yourself plenty of time to get dressed. • Be sure to eat properly. • Rest and relax with a good bath. • Prepare for your hairdresser and makeup appointments. • Enjoy your wonderful wedding and cherish each and every moment!

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ey, brides! Have you heard about one of the latest trends in wedding photography? Hint: It involves the bride wearing a lot less than her gown. Boudoir photography is definitely gaining popularity among to-be brides, but what’s it really all about? Are these these risque pics right for you? So, what is boudoir photography exactly? Boudoir photography is a sexy new trend that’s especially popular as a wedding day gift from a bride to her groom. Boudoir photos are usually taken wearing just lingerie. They’re hardly X-rated, but rather PG-13 -- as in classic pinup-inspired pics, or what the pros call ‘implied nudes.’ That means you’re not wearing much of anything, but you’re also not showing off anything either (think shot from the back, or lying on your stomach). When should I schedule the session? If you’re spending time and money on an exercise and beauty routine, you may want to wait until a few weeks before the wedding to show off the results. Plus, a fun

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and pampering photo shoot is a good way to indulge and take some time out from wedding planning. How long does it take? Though it depends on the package you choose, your boudoir photo session will probably last about two hours. Why so long? It takes time for hair and makeup, if you choose this option. It may also take you a little while to relax. Most brides aren’t used to lounging around wearing little, if any, clothing in front of the camera, so your first few shots will likely look a bit stiff. Where should I have it done? Talk with your photographer to come up with the best location. Many photographers may be able to do a photo session in a studio. Another popular site is a posh hotel room. Your own home or a borrowed home is another option. The main key is to get an okay from your photographer on the locale -a number of different backgrounds for poses are important, and they’ll also need lots of natural light.

What should I wear? The most important thing -- choose outfits that make you feel sexy. A good rule of thumb: Bring something white, something black, and something in a bright color so you can mix and match. A corset will create sexy curves. In addition to lingerie, don’t forget shoes, jewelry, and that engagement ring. Should I bring anyone along? Though you don’t want to turn your shoot into a three-ring circus, it can sometimes be a good idea to bring a friend. Why? You’ll feel more at ease if you can make a few jokes with a pal. Make sure you are comfortable with your photographer. Many women prefer women photographers -- so make sure that if you book a studio with multiple photographers, you know who will be taking your photographs. You’ll be posing like a pro in no time -- but of course, this is a one-time-only exclusive for a very special audience (your very lucky groom).

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Wingstop 2700 Richmond Road, Suite 14A1 Texarkana, TX 903.255.0090 4501 N. State Line, No. 106 Texarkana, TX 903.792.9464 www.wingstop.com Clothing Abby Gayle’s 4012 Summerhill Square Texarkana, TX 903.792.0088 Gayle’s 4059 Summerhill Square Texarkana, TX 903.792.0056 Lil’ Pink Hippo 3402 Richmond Road Texarkana, TX 903.255.7864 Cosmetic Surgery Carmony Oral, Facial and Dental Center 5305 Cowhorn Creek Texarkana, TX 903.791.8405 DJ Services Fabienne Thrash Deejay Service 903-585-9993 Dry Cleaning Holiday Cleaners Locations throughout Texarkana Area 870.773.4072 Event Locations Garrison Gardens Texarkana, AR 71854 870.773.0275 www.garrisongardens.net Northridge Country Club 120 Bill Rodgers Dr. Texarkana, TX 75503 903.794.6196 www.northridgecountryclub.net The Pavillion at Elk Meadow 8 Miles West of New Boston on I-30 382 PR 42042 DeKalb, TX 75559 903.319.5130

Prissy Chrissy Ranch 915 FM 2148 South Texarkana, TX 75501 903.838.6121 www.prissychrissy.com Raindrop Hill Farm 4300 N. Kings Highway Texarkana, TX 903.832.7913 Regional Arts Center Cabe Hall 321 W. 4th Street Texarkana, TX 75501 903.792.8681 www.trahc.org Fitness Centers Anytime Fitness Richmond Road 3415 Richmond Road. Texarkana, TX 75503 903.794.5348 Florists H&N Floral 7801 N. State Line 5708 Richmond Rd. Texarkana, TX 903.794.1417 903.832.2000 Queen City Floral Highway 59 North Queen City, TX 903.796.2891 Ruth’s Flowers 3501 Texas Bllvd. Texarkana, TX 903.793.6711 www.ruthsflowers.net Scooter Raney at J. Brown for the Home 121 College Drive Texarkana, TX 903.793.4114 Twisted Vines 406 N. Stateline Avenue Texarkana, AR 870-772-2700 Furniture Oak Creek Furniture 8024 West 7th St. Texarkana, TX 903.832.0793 Gifts Dot’s Ace Hardware 3411 Richmond Rd. Texarkana, TX 903.838.0059

H&N Floral 7801 N. State Line 5708 Richmond Rd. Texarkana, TX 903.794.1417 903.832.2000 Lane’s Gifts & Collectibles 720 Realtor Ave. Texarkana, AR 870.773.2123 Mixing Bowl 4014 Summerhill Square Texarkana, TX 903.794.4014 Queen City Floral Highway 59 North Queen City, TX 903.796.2891 Scooter Raney at J. Brown for the Home 121 College Drive Texarkana, TX 903.793.4114

Wadley Hospital 1000 Pine St. Texarkana, TX 903.798.8000 Hotels Best Western Texarkana Inn & Suites 5219 Crossroads Parkway Texarkana, AR 870.774.1534 Clarion Lacross Hotel 5100 N. Stateline Ave. Texarkana, AR 870.774.3521 www.lacrosse-hotel.com Courtyard by Marriott 5001 North Cowhorn Creek Texarkana, TX 903.334.7400 Fairfield Inn and Suites by Marriott 4209 Mall Dr. Texarkana, TX 903.838.1000

Table Manners 3205 Kennedy Lane Texarkana, TX 903.838.3538

Hampton Inn & Suites 4601 Cowhorn Creek Road Texarkana, TX 903.832.3499

Twisted Vines 406 N. Stateline Avenue Texarkana, AR 870-772-2700

Holiday Inn Express & Suites 4545 Cowhorn Creek Road Texarkana, TX 903.223.0008

Hair Care Headmasters Hair Salon 3703 Mall Drive Texarkana, TX 903.832.6261

TownePlace Suites by Marriott 5020 North Cowhorn Creek Texarkana, TX 903.334.8800

Style Studio Lisa Harris 3201 Kennedy Lane Texarkana, TX 903.223.1719

Insurance Brian Purtle Allstate Insurance 3301 Richmond Rd. Texarkana, TX 903.832.5881 Elite Insurance Tammy McDowell 1705 N. Kings Highway Nash, TX 903.794.0000 Farm Bureau Insurance 4140 McKnight Rd. Texarkana, TX 903.838.8707 Greg Cockerell State Farm Insurance 4807 Texas Blvd. Texarkana, TX 75503 903.793.7502 Kelli Ashbrook State Farm Insurance 3410 Moores Lane Texarkana, TX 75503 903.223.8100 www.kelliashbrook.com Ron Morrow State Farm Insurance 3306 Richmond Rd. Texarkana, TX 75503 903.832.5505 www.ronmorrowagency.com Jewelers Alexander’s Jewelers 3701 Mall Drive Texarkana, TX 903.832.3557 Blue Isle Expressions 3402 Richmond Road Texarkana, TX 903.791.9992

Hospice Dierksen Hospice 6500 N. Summerhill Road, Suite 2B Texarkana, TX 903.793.6350 Hospitals Christus St. Michael Health System 2600 St. Michael Dr. Texarkana, TX 903.614.1000 Health South Rehabilitation 515 West 12th St. Texarkana, TX 903.793.0088

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Crocker’s Jewelers 3117 Kennedy Lane Texarkana, TX 75501 903.832.8686 Micah’s Jewelers 2812 Richmond Road Texarkana, TX 903.735.2336 Make-up Gayle’s 4059 Summerhill Square Texarkana, TX 903.792.0056 Salon Visage Esthetique Mary Ann Robbins 4506 Summerhill Rd. Texarkana, TX 903.794.4007 Sanctuary Kimberly Parham, M.D. 3502 Richmond Road Texarkana, TX 75503 903.334.8661 Medical Equipment Respiratory Solutions 3101 Kennedy Lane, Suite 1000 Texarkana, TX 75503 903.793.2110 Pet Groomer Bows & Tows 254 E. New Boston Rd. Nash, TX 75570 903.223.3647

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Photographer Image Forward Photography 200 Heather Dr. Texarkana, TX 75501 903.334.9605 www.imageforwardtxk.com Physicians Express Care 5483 Summerhill Road Texarkana, TX 75503 903.223.5931 Ly Gaylor, M.D. Dermatologist Collom & Carney Clinic 5002 Cowhorn Creek Road Texarkana, TX 75503 903.614.3006 Philip Hahn, M.D. Advanced Foot Care 5606 Summerhill Road Texarkana, TX 75503 903.791.1222

Vision Source 4401 Morris Lane Texarkana, TX 903.838.9063 Plumbing Central Air/Roto Rooter 450 S. Kings Highway Texarkana, TX 75501 903.832.1212

Refreshments BJ’s Refreshment Center 3260 N. Stateline Ave. Texarkana, AR 870.774.5931 Bolls Distributing 700 E. Broad St. Texarkana, AR 870.774.9283

Real Estate Annette Kilker Remax 5120 Summerhill Rd. Texarkana, TX 75503 903.277.3744

The Villa Liquor Store 5108 N. Stateline Texarkana, AR 870.772.2100 903.277.1239 razorbackbilly@cableone.net

Impact Realty Bill and Tracy Spradlin 1200 N. Kings Hwy., Suite 104 Nash, TX 903.748.3186 903.748.2477

Rentals Big Event / Atlas Game Room 2837 New Boston Rd. Texarkana, TX 903.334.7444

Jon Northam, M.D. 6 Woodmont Crossing Texarkana, TX 903.791.1044

Jason Thomson Remax 5120 Summerhill Rd. Texarkana, TX 75503 903.794.5250

Mark Wren, M.D. Physiatrist 3510 Richmond Road, Suite 400 Texarkana, TX 75503 903.831.6275

Teresa Liepman Remax 5120 Summerhill Rd. Texarkana, TX 75503 903.276.9464

Dot’s Rentals 814 N. Robison Road Texarkana, TX 75501 903.792.7011 3413 Richmond Rd. Texarkana, TX 903.838.0551 Freeze Frame Photo Booth Rental 1005 Brown Dr. Wake Village, TX 903.224.2391 903.691.9046

Twisted Vines 406 N. Stateline Avenue Texarkana, AR 870-772-2700

Julie’s Deli 4055 Summerhill Sq. Texarkana, TX 903.792.3354

Restaurants Amigo Juan 2004 Hampton Road Texarkana, TX 903.794.2300

La Fogata 3401 Genoa Road Texarkana, AR 71854 870.773.1879

Amigo Juan 4301 Morris Lane Texarkana, TX 903.334.6971 Chappo’s Italian Restaurant 1617 New Boston Road Texarkana, TX 75501 903.791.1726 Daddy Dougaloo’s 905 New Boston Road Texarkana, TX 75503 903.791.0172 Dairy Queen Locations through Ark-La-Tex Fuzzy’s Tacos 4809 Texas Blvd. Texarkana, TX 903.791.8226 Golden Corral 3809 Sowell Lane Texarkana, TX 75503 903.334.8399

Shorty’s Donuts 2729 New Boston Road Texarkana, TX 75501 903.832.6686 Silver Spoon 5530 Scottsdale Drive Texarkana, TX 75503 903.838.4648 Smokey Joe’s BBQ 300 W. New Boston Road Nash, TX 903.223.8227 Tasty Donuts 1443 N. Kings Highway Nash, TX 903.838.0422 Timothy’s 4115 N. Kings Highway Texarkana, TX 903.831.5999

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Wendy’s 4201 Stateline Avenue Texarkana, TX 2902 Richmond Road Texarkana, TX 3737 New Boston Road Texarkana, TX 1615 N. Hervey Hope, AR 124 N. Loop Highway 59 Atlanta, TX Wingstop 2700 Richmond Road, Suite 14A1 Texarkana, TX 903.255.0090 4501 N. State Line, No. 106 Texarkana, TX 903.792.9464 Retirement/Assisted Living Home Cornerstone Retirement Community 4100 Moores Lane Texarkana, TX 903.832.5515 Edgewood Manor 4925 Elizabeth Texarkana, TX 903.793.4645 Sitters Sitters Kathryn Norwood/Karen Schmidt Texarkana, TX 903.277.2191

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Spas/Salons All About You Diana Gregory/Lori Campbell 4100 Summerhill Sq. Texarkana, TX 903.792.7775 Salon Visage Esthetique Mary Ann Robbins 4506 Summerhill Rd. Texarkana, TX 903.794.4007 Sanctuary Kimberly Parham, M.D. 3502 Richmond Road Texarkana, TX 75503 903.334.8661 Travel Vickie’s Tours PO Box 682 Hooks, TX 903.547.3030 Videographers Over The Edge Studios 5002 Woodgate Texarkana, TX 75503 903.831.6837 www.otestudios.com Wedding Attire Bridal Castle 3209 Kennedy Lane Texarkana, TX 903.838.3886

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THE Educator... MARK BUTLER

e has mastered plants, planes and pistols, tackled pedagogy and continues to learn about parenting. His first introduction to plants came on the farm he and his family operated in Lamar County near Paris, Texas. When the role was called in Paris High School, he answered for Mark Butler, the middle son of the Butler Family. In 1978, Mark graduated from high school and immediately headed to Texas A&M, College Station from which he earned his BS in Mechanized Agriculture, Class of 1983. Along the way, he met and married Alison, a teacher then and now a First Grade teacher in Redlick ISD. When Alison and Mark were first married, they had no money for a honeymoon, so they saved. By the arrival of their second year, they had enough money to fly (something Mark had never done

before) to Cancun. This was a life-changing moment for him, as he fell in love—again— this time with flying. While working for the USDA, he also took lessons, earned his private pilot’s license and bought the airplane in which he had learned to fly. At the same time, he lived on and managed the airport in Gilmer, Texas. “We just opened the hangar door and flew when we got ready to go to dinner. It was great.” Alison had just finished her practice teaching at UT Tyler and was in need of a real teaching job. Her list of choices included Fort Worth, Killeen or Houston, all of which had flight schools. Alison chose Killeen, and they moved. The choice was also a good one for Mark, who enrolled in the flight school at nearby Central Texas College. Since he already had private pilot flying time, Mark combined his flying hours

with instruction and earned his instrument license, commercial pilot’s license and worked as a flight instructor for Central Texas College. Everything just worked together to hasten his certifications. Once again opportunity knocked. This time Mark answered the door. He was hired to fly freight in small twin engine planes on the graveyard shift. Now the shift had come not only in their location, Houston, but also in their time. Alison taught first grade during the day while Mark slept. She came home from her workday just as he was heading out to his job. The two would meet for breakfast the next morning, then off she went to school and Mark to bed. When he awakened in time, Mark would prepare dinner for them to share before his departure. A year or two of this was enough, so Mark moved up in the size of his aircraft www.alt-mag.com

and company, and their family headed to Charlottesville, Virginia. His new company was committed to aviation, so Mark spent lots of time in the air between his Virginia base and corporate offices in Chicago. Now he was flying the Beechcraft King Air 200 and the Cessna Citation 650—small jet aircraft. “The first year I was gone for 200 nights. The corporation’s philosophy was if you could justify the trip, you could fly the aircraft. The pilots were treated like ‘little gods.’ It was the perfect job. I loved it, and the family environment was wonderful.” As is too often the case in the “boom or bust” world of aviation, Mark’s “perfect job” company merged with a larger, less progressive company that was not aviation oriented. The airplanes were grounded, and Mark was looking for a job. “I took the first job west of the Mississippi I could find,” he explains. “It was in Texarkana.” After flying for a local company for about a year and half “I got tired of being away from home and going on everybody’s vacation—more work than pleasure, so I left aviation.” Utilizing his mechanized agriculture knowledge, Mark started manufacturing his own livestock food with a small food mill and feed store, and he did that for about eight years. Then came….the ice storm of 2000 followed all- too- quickly by 9/11, 2001. “It was tough,” he shakes his head as he remembers the challenges not only to the nation and region but also personal. “God is great! December 2001, three people walked through the door of my feed store and just asked to buy the business, so I decided to sell.” Friends of Mark’s encouraged him to apply for the horticulture teacher position at Texas High School. William Little, the current teacher, was getting ready to retire. His were big shoes to fill, and Mark took advantage of the rare opportunity. The change was perfect for Mark and his family.

His daughter Andrea enrolled in Texas High as a freshman the following year. Now Andrea has graduated from high school and moved on to Henderson State University to major in theater. Son Jake is a Texas High junior and wants to work in the mission field as a pilot. “My wife’s a schoolteacher, so all our schedules are pretty much the same. We get to have dinner as a family every night.” A sly smile that requires some coaxing sneaks across Mark’s face. “Perfect, perfect life!” Mark’s chief work responsibility these days is his Texas High classroom. “Teaching is a wonderful profession. It’s hard—the hardest thing I’ve ever done. Many days I’ve wanted to go home and kick the dog; many days are wonderful. I don’t know why teachers are not treated like the pilots on my job were treated—like gods. Parents want to know that your kids are safe, protected, and you’re gonna’ be there to help turn out students who honor fathers and mothers. We’re here to do it.” Aside from the classroom instruction, Mark and his students manage two large greenhouses and an outdoor nursery which accommodates trees, shrubbery and ground covers—hardy plants. One greenhouse is used as a workshop where plants are propagated, repotted, generally using a pearlite potting mix and peat moss, and allowed to grow. Their inventory includes sturdy plants, like a rare aloe vera and some one-of-akind plants. Here a large tank filled with circulating water currently houses about 300 catfish, 10-12” long and about 1/2 pound or less. This aquaponics project siphons the effluent water from the tank to use for watering the greenhouse plants. Additionally, a large circular shield can be placed over the tank. Small circles which can absorb light and moisture have been created within the shield’s boundaries, and seeds placed inside. Lettuce, basil, leafy green

vegetables with short growing seasons can be cultivated in this environment, i.e. grown hydroponically. The commercial greenhouse houses spring bedding plants or other plants in season, and a wealth of healthy ferns. “Ferns,“ Mark advises, “should be bought in mid-March when temperatures no lower than 45 degrees are a certainty.” Profits from the greenhouse sales are plowed back into the horticulture program. “I was fortunate to follow William Little. His foresight provided a nice base of operations for us.” The steady rhythmical pace of Mark Butler’s gait and his speech seldom change as he moves from one career or subject to another, yet he is an amazing man. There appears to be no job from which he shrinks if he decides he wants to do it, and his mind constantly uses the experiences of his past as a bridge to new learning— new experiences—in the present. Is that statement confusing enough? Translated it means: Appearances are deceiving, and Mark Butler lives several different lives— husband of Alison, parent of Andrea and Jake; dedicated teacher of horticulture and Pistol NRA Pistol Instructor Texas Certified Concealed Handgun Instructor Shotgun NRA Sports-Shotgun Coach USA Shooting-Shotgun Coach ATA- Shotgun Coach Growing up, Mark drove to high school every day with his gun rack attached to his pickup’s back window, and a Winchester 30-30 and Remington 870 shotgun, comfortably and safely placed there. He used the long guns when he hunted deer or duck with his brothers and

Below: Marks teaches his student how to properly grip a handgun.

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Above: Using the appropriate equipment for training purposes is essential. dad on their farm. He never purchased a pistol until he was in college. When he married and kids began to arrive, the guns were put away. In 2007, Mark’s friends Raymond Calhoun and Jessie Walker invited him to go shoot pistols with them. “It’s kinda’ one of those things men gravitate toward,” Mark chuckles. Eventually, they encouraged Mark to get his concealed handgun license. To qualify for a concealed handgun license in Texas, a person must: 1.

Be 21 years old. (Members and former members of the armed forces must be 18.)

Have a clean criminal history, including military service and recent juvenile records.

Not be under a protective order.

Not be chemically dependent.

Not be of unsound mind.

Not be delinquent in paying fines, fees, child support, etc.

Be eligible to purchase a handgun by completing the NICS check.

Complete required training.

and confident in handling their guns, thus increasing their pleasure. To achieve that goal, he tailors his classes to the needs of his clients—1 on 1 private classes; pairs or groups—clients determine. He seldom completes his classes in one day, but can. His schedules are constructed to facilitate his clients’ needs. All of his classes follow state mandated guidelines, although plastic models are used in the classrooms. No guns appear until the clients are on the shooting range, since safety is a major concern within the classroom and the curriculum. When students come to class with no idea about the handgun suitable for them, Coach Butler provides them examples. Although there are many models from which to choose (much like cars), the

two basic types are the revolver and semiautomatic. The basic difference between the guns is the way the ammunition is loaded: revolvers depend on cylinders which hold the bullets. When the trigger is pulled, the projectile is fired, and the cylinder rotates to position another round. When all the rounds have been fired, the gun must be manually reloaded. Semi-automatics utilize a magazine which is loaded with bullets and then the magazine is inserted into the pistol. After the trigger is pulled and the round is fired, the recoil operation of the handgun automatically extracts and ejects the shell casing and reloads the chamber with a new round. The semi-automatic pistol is somewhat more complex than the revolver. Students’ choices depend, in large part, on personnel preference. Their size

Required training means a 10-15 hour course which includes both classroom instruction (6-7 hours) and a score of 70% on a written examination and a shooting range (3-4 hours) score of 70%. “The state is very generous on shooting,” Mark affirms. (Consult the website of the Texas Concealed Handgun Association (TCHA) for thorough information.) As is his custom, Mark wanted to learn, but he did not think sitting through a “quickie” one day class would be sufficient. His only alternative was to earn his Instructor’s license and organize his own course, so that’s what he did. He went to Austin, completed the DPS instructor’s school and passed the tests. He returned to Texarkana a State Certified Handgun Instructor and started his own Texarkana Pistol School. His aim is to equip his clients with the knowledge to feel safe www.alt-mag.com

and the size and recoil of the pistol are also considerations. The purpose of the shooting range is to refine a student’s marksmanship and build confidence. Their goal is to learn to aim for the center mass, since it is the largest part of the body; and there are fewer chances to miss.” This is the quickest way to stop an aggression against us,” Mark affirms. There are other lessons to be learned at the range as well. Some may not be in the plans, like a Corpus Christi friend who was not paying attention but had her finger on the trigger of her gun. She almost shot her foot off. “That incident and scare in itself made me a believer in safety,” she declares. Coach Butler’s students probably would not have made such a mistake. Although he moves and speaks at a steady, unhurried pace, he is acutely aware of everything that is happening around him. Safety is uppermost in his mind and his teaching, and he understands the importance of attention to every detail of the gun and the gun user’s behavior. The emphasis of his total program is on responsibility. Earning a Concealed Handgun License imposes a new responsibility on the licensee—a new document of identification to accompany a driver’s license. If a licensed handgun user is stopped by a law enforcement officer, both the driver’s license and the CHL should be displayed to the officer—even if the gun is not in the vehicle. “By law,” Butler explains, “if a handgun user is in an automobile, the CHL does not have to be displayed. I feel like we have less to explain when we show it. For his own protection, the officer is likely to direct the driver to put his/her hands on the steering wheel and instruct: ‘Without using your hands, tell me where it [the gun] is.’ “I have had nothing but good experiences with local police and DPS officers,” a quick addition from Mark.” I have always been treated with courtesy. Most officers treat a driver with more respect and probably less suspicion.” Butler, who considers himself more coach than instructor, gets involved with his students so that they understand not only the tool they have chosen to use but their legal responsibilities as well. “I am concerned that my students leave with the confidence that they can defend themselves

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and their property. In Texas, they can legally defend a third person and the third person’s property, if that’s what the third person wants. There needs to be an understanding between the two.” Obviously, those who earn their CHL from the Texarkana Pistol School and Mark Butler are well prepared. Currently, however, Butler and his son, Jake are embarked on yet another adventure—the sport of shotgunning, i.e. skeet and trapshooting (first mentioned in 1793). Both sports, born out of hunters’ desires to improve their shooting, use competitive style shotguns called “over and under” and require sharp eyes and quick reflexes. Skeet shooting involves a uniform series of shots at clay targets, while targets are thrown in more random trajectories in trap shooting. “Skeet shooting,” according to Butler, “is a more gentlemanly, nurturing environment while trap is more competitive, more intense and individual.” When Jake became interested in trapshooting competitively, Butler— “dad, coach, supporter, money-man, driver”—and his son spent lots of time together and almost wore out the family pick-up going to competitions. “Distance is an issue,” Butler explains. “and coaches are scarce.” When Jake was ready to move beyond his 4H and AIM guidance, Butler conducted an internet search for nearby coaches to work with his son. The name of Bret Erickson from Lovelady, Texas, appeared. Erickson, a National Shotgun Coach, was all apologies, as his new job meant he was unavailable for working with Jake. Erickson’s new job? He had just been hired to coach the USA’s Olympic Trapshooting Team. After too many futile searches, Mark Butler realized there was only one thing to do—he needed to become certified as an instructor in trap and skeet shooting, and he is well on his way to achieving that goal. In the Fall of 2010, he discovered he could become certified as an instructor through USA Shooting, the governing body for USA Olympic Shooting and also ATA (Amateur Trapshooting Association). Potential coaches usually study with one trainer in both the classroom and on the range. Coach Butler has completed the Level 1 certification (can work up to 4— Olympic coach) which enables him to coach American Trap and Skeet Shooting and USA shooting style (Olympic, International).

Coach Butler’s ultimate goal is to establish a place for Bowie County youth to be able to shoot ATA and Olympic style. “FFA is making a big push toward clay shooting, “Mark reports. “Texas is behind the curve here.” Boys and girls can participate in skeet and trap shooting, and equipment exists for youngsters as early as fourth or fifth grades. In junior high, participants become more competitive, and in high school students are able to compete against better adults. “It’s very humbling,” Coach Butler confesses, “to be beaten by a junior high student.” College scholarships are available, and Olympic competition is a potential for trap and skeet shooters. Jerry Pardue, a Trap and Skeet shooting coach at Tennessee Tech University has written, “Skeet shooting is a way of life—exercise for the body, mind, and soul….Through winter and summer [competitors] shoot at millions of targets—breaking most of them—meet new people, and travel across the United States.” Probably the major drawback to sport shooting is the expense. Ammunition, equipment and facilities are costly. That is why Butler is in search of an organization or patron that can underwrite his program. He is also encouraging school officials on the Texas side to consider sport shooting teams as a part of their competitive sports program. Although Mark Butler’s primary job is “teaching,” he will be certified for “coaching” when his plans and dreams become reality. A pervasive pause while Mark Butler squares himself in his chair. A slight, almost subtle smile creeps into his seriousness. “The only thing I’m trying to get across is I’ve had the opportunity to stand on the shoulders of some very, very good people. Why did it take 50 years for me to realize so many people have helped me get where I am—helped shape my life for the good? I’ve had some bad influences in my life, but I’ve been shaped by all the good that’s come.” Mark Butler’s shoulders are broad and welcoming, as he leads, persuades, informs, directs his students in planting seeds, firing guns, setting goals, assuming responsibility, showing respect and thinking of others. He, too, is “very, very good people” for those whose lives he touches.

EVENT

Realtor’s Ball

WHERE

Northridge Country Club

WHEN

1/14/11

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1. Brenda Rochelle and Trish Reed 2. Tami Parker and Greg Eakin 3. Travis Ransom and Margaret Ransom 4. Cyndy Laird and Steve Thompson 5. Sheree and James Manning 6. Gary and Karen Lucas 7. Tami Parker, Greg Eakin and Brenda Rochelle 8. Carla and Steve Ward, with Sarah Lee 9. Brenda Murray and Travistene Turner 10. Tiffany Horton, Kelli Ashbrook-Cummings and Heather Thompson 11. Pete Crai and Kaki Lybbert 12. Out going President Teresa Cheatham, Master of Cermonies Herman Barnett and Incoming President Elect Tracy Spradlin 13. Quentin and Daphne Malone 14. Natalie Romaniuk and Mark Wurtele 15. Kyle Cummings and Kelli Ashbrook-Cummings 16. Debbie Rose and Steve Raffaelli 17. Tracy and Bill Spradlin 18. Donnie and Sarah Sealey 19. Kevin and Teresa Cheatham 20. Kathy and Mike Donovan 21. Christina and Richard Oakes 22. Frankie and Christi Shedlock 23. Kaki Lybbert and Tracy Spradlin 24. Tracy Spradlin gives her husband Bill the honor pining her President’s pin on. 25. Karen Mote, Bennie Estelle and Sheree Manning 26. - 27. misc. table top decor’

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African American Committee Meeting

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TRAHC Building

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1/6/11

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American Cancer Societyâ&#x20AC;&#x2122;s Relay University

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Lufkin, Texas

WHEN

1/15/11

1. Front row: Shirley Crawford, Janelle Williamson, Michelle Miller, Heather Keith and Brooke Bender; Back Row: Alena Potts, Kelli Lovell, Mary Finkerbinder, Barbara Walker and Sharee Williams 2. Heather Keith, Barbara Walker and Michelle Miller 3. Michelle Miller, Barbara Walker, Heather Keith and Kelli Lovell 4. Brooke Bender 5. Heather Keith receiving National 5 Star Award 6. Alena Potts, Mary Finkerbinder, Shirley Crawford and Janelle Williamson 7. Shirley Crawford and Mary Finkerbinder 8. Kellie Lovell and Shree Williams 9. Mary Finkerbinder receives pendent for one of many Heroes of Hope The Texarkana Relay for Life won 3 awards: National 5 Star Award, East TX Regional Excellence Award and the Umbrella Award.

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Texarkana Cotillion Debutante Ball EVENT

WHERE

Texarkana Country Club

WHEN

12/28/10

1. Sponsors: Cara Cook, Kristie Keller and Amanda Horton 2. Kim Fowler, Janis DeMuth and Diane Morgan 3. Steve and Lacy McMillen 4. Gregg Qualls and LyAnne Draper 5. 2010 Texarkana Cotillion Debutante Back row from left: Shelby DeMuth, Haley Herrington, Hillary Fowler and Kelsey Cody. Front row from left: Kelsey Wren, Krystal Qualls, Lauren Camp, Katie Day, Julia Day and Brittany Burton 6. Sarah Vammen and Melinda Vammen 7. Greg Maldonado and Margret Wommack 8. Diane and Curt Green 9. Brinttany Burton and Duff Burton 10. Lauren Camp and Donnie Camp 11. Kelsey Cody and Jay Cody 12. Steve Day and Julia Day 13. Katie Day and Jim Day (14. Roger DeMuth and Shelby DeMuth) 15. Hillary Fowler and Wade Fowler 16. James Herrington and Haley Herrington 17. Krystal Qualls and Barry Qualls 18. Dr. Mark Wren and Kelsey Wren

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