DATING
Lifestyle welcomes new columnist, international matchmaker Lara Besbrode
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his winter, there’s no reason to be single. With lockdowns out of the way, there’s plenty of opportunity for you to get out there and meet someone. If it’s been a while since you headed out on your first date, or if you simply need a quick refresher, The Matchmaker UK has lined up the best tips on preparing for a first autumn or winter date. Whether you choose to go for an outdoor walk or bundle up by a fire, here are our best winter dating tips:
If you want to make a strong first impression, give some thought to the impression you want to leave your date with, whether it’s a stylish outfit or fresh-from-thesalon hair. Whatever you choose, make sure you feel confident and comfortable in your own skin! Impressions are more than just about looks, however. In the name of good dating etiquette, make sure you show up on time, be courteous and respectful.
1.Keep it simple: The first date is your opportunity to learn something about each other. To have an engaging conversation, be curious and ask questions, but make sure you take the time to listen, too. Get to know your date by keeping the conversation on them. What are their passions? Who inspires them most? You’ll never know unless you ask.
3. Be honest and patient with yourself (and your date!): If you had a stimulating conversation and can’t wait for the next date, share your feelings while you’re still there. But if the sparks didn’t fly the first time around, take some time to think about what you liked and didn’t like. Whatever you do, don’t leave your date hanging. Remember, it takes time to get to know someone and sometimes, it takes a little longer than the first date to feel the chemistry.
2. Make a strong first impression: It’s hard to look bad in a comfortable, black jumper or cardigan. 10
It’s time to get out there and start dating! Don’t have a date? Don’t despair. Tap into the matchmaking magic of Lara Besbrode and her professional team of dating experts at The Matchmaker UK. With the help of an accredited matchmaker and internationally-certified professional, Lara is passionate about creating unique introductions. Using a 30-point matching system, The Matchmaker UK’s discreet, premium and confidential approach makes the stars align - so you can meet your match sooner! Visit our website www.thematchmaker.uk and contact us for more information.
