Riding Instructor magazine - Fall, 2020

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Sport psychology

Success: Restructuring the Fear of Scarcity to a Balance to Maintain by Laura King, CHt, NLP & Life Coach

D  Decide There is a Way to Succeed Deciding to believe that you can succeed is your first step toward creating a brain restructure. Grab a notebook to jot down thoughts about your current situation. Are your thoughts negative? Create positive scenarios to replace these negative thoughts. Use words that help you brave, prepare, rebalance, breakthrough, move, release, reshuffle and inspire positive visions of success.

It’s an understatement to say that 2020 is a challenge. Our world is being rocked with social change, health concerns and financial uncertainty. As a trainer, you may be juggling the

Begin with some form of affirmation like:

desire to provide optimal horse and client care with the worry of a decrease in resources

I recognize and embrace this dramatic shift as

because of reduced lessons, clinics and horse sales. Although I can’t provide a cure for

an opportunity to regroup and redefine. I can

COVID-19, I can help you deal with anxiety associated with this change. Read on to learn

survive and thrive by creating a different balance

some tips, techniques and exercises to realign your focus from a fear of scarcity to a balance

in my life and finding success all around me.

to maintain using the DISCOVER Process to help you achieve a mindset reset.

I  Identify Your Fears

The DISCOVER Process

rations for a best case scenario. Can we

What fears keep you from believing that you

First, you must examine your thoughts.

take this world “pause” and move forward

can have success during changing times?

with a positive plan for whatever occurs?

List your fears and any thoughts you have

The media is slamming you with worst

Let’s create some options that prepare

about them. Where do these fears come

case scenarios and gloom and doom sto-

positively for the future. We must use our

from? Are they coming from outside voices

ries. This information is bombarding you

magic to survive, and then thrive through

(family, friends, media)? Are they real or

without providing suggestions or prepa-

this upheaval.

imagined? Take your worst case scenario

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