Riding Instructor magazine Summer 2021

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Sport psychology

Ten Steps for Instilling Confidence in Riders While Saving Your Sanity Laura King CHt, NLP, Life & Performance Coach The life of a horse (and rider) trainer is your

frustration, you lash out with harsh words

It’s time to remember why you do what

dream come true. It’s what you’ve always

during a lesson. But, with your words, you

you do. It’s time to have compassion and

wanted. But some days, the reality of the

hurt the people who have put their trust

to be adaptable to every student. It’s time

life you’ve chosen is tough. A horse doesn’t

in you to help them realize their dreams.

to be aware that your words can undermine

want to change leads, another one kicked

Scars from cruel words spoken or even

every lesson you have taught your student.

out the boards in her stall, you’re running

kind words withheld hide in the unseen

It’s time to manage each student’s learning

low on hay (again!) and teaching your

places of the heart. Your client also faces

methods and create a solution for each

students is a lesson for YOU in patience.

frustration and hides unseen scars from

horse and rider combination.

life, loss, divorce, broken promises or an Why don’t they do what you have told them

aging body. They harbor scars from being

In my book, “The Power to Win,” I include

to do over and over again? It’s so simple. In

loved only for what they can do.

a chapter titled “Your Expectations: From

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Summer 2021  |  Riding Instructor


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