As a kid, I loved speaking in accents, putting on shows for my family, and being the center of attention. I remember fondly the time I spent on stage in the early grade-school years. But somewhere along the way, I became an introvert and caught stage fright (I fear public speaking to this day!). While I am long retired from any kind of performance pursuits, I love recalling trips to Shea’s—every theater outing with my mom or grandmother felt special.
This month, as local theaters raise curtains to begin the 2024-25 season, award-winning playwright and Forever Young managing editor Donna Hoke shares Curtain Up! recommendations and catches up with local veteran actors. (And in
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Buffalo HEADWAY SUPPORT GROUPS For individuals who have sustained brain injuries, their families, and caregivers; exchange information and resources, and find mutual support and encouragement. Info: 408-3100 or headwayofwny.org
Buffalo PARKINSON’S CAREGIVER SUPPORT GROUP meets on the first Thursday of each month at Elma Town Hall (1600 Bowen Road). Call or text Marcia 5533030 for more information.
Buffalo ZERO/US TOO! PROSTATE CANCER SUPPORT GROUP meets on the first Tuesday of each month at the Buffalo VA Hospital (3495 Bailey Avenue, Room 301) 7-9 p.m. and at Sisters Hospital, St. Joe’s Campus (2605 Harlem Road in the First Floor Community Room) 7-9 p.m., on the third Tuesday of each month. Free and open to all.
Buffalo LGBTQ MEMORY LOSS CAREGIVERS PROGRAM: The Pride Center of WNY offers support and education for people providing care for a person with Alzheimer’s Disease and other dementias. For information: 852-7743 or pridecenterwny.org.
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Depew BREAST CANCER NETWORK OF WNY Call 7060060 or visit bcnwny.org for more information.
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Erie County FOSTER GRANDPARENT PROGRAM
Erie County residents ages 55+: stay active and reap social-emotional health benefits by developing one-on-one relationships with children in a school setting. Stipend included. For info: 896-6388 or ccwny.org/older-adults.
Erie County RECEIVE OR MAKE A FRIENDLY CALL! Participants and caring volunteers are sought for the free Catholic Charities’ Telephone Assurance Program (TAP) geared to adults 60+ and adults with disabilities who experience loneliness due to isolation. Volunteers must be at least 21 years old; all training is provided. To learn more about receiving calls volunteering, contact Catholic Charities at 262-6164 or TAP@ccwny.org.
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Hamburg ALZHEIMER’S CAREGIVER SUPPORT GROUP for males; call 626-0600 or visit alz. org/wny for info.
Niagara Falls SENIOR COMPANION/FOSTER GRANDPARENT PROGRAM
Looking for seniors who enjoy working with their peers or children. Volunteers receive a tax-free stipend, transportation assistance, and supplemental insurance coverage while volunteering. If you are 55+ and want to make a difference, call 285-8224 Jennifer Britton (ext. 217) for Senior Companions and Kelly Carr (ext. 228) for Foster Grandparents.
Niagara Falls SINGLES SOCIAL CLUB: This active 50+ crowd holds Meet & Greets second Fridays at Tim Hortons (8500 Niagara Falls Boulevard) and dances third Friday at Buff Social Club (2565 Young St.). For more info, see Facebook: SINGLES SOCIAL CLUB or call 550-1232.
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WNY Widowed people meet for conversation, meals, and support. Ongoing meetings take place at Hillview Restaurant (6135 Transit Road) and Family Tree Restaurant (4336 North Bailey Avenue). Learn more at soaringspirits.org and on Facebook. For information, contact Toni (admucilli@gmail.com) or Debbie (howndeb@hotmail.com).
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Come as you are, just bring your laughter! Tuesdays at 11 a.m. FREE. Visit facebook.com/Buffalo-Laughers for information.
Southtowns NEW HORIZONS
MUSIC Calling all musicians 50+. For info, email Janet Stout at 354janet@gmail.com and visit newhorizonsmusic.org.
West Seneca AMANA GARDEN
CLUB OF WEST SENECA is welcoming new members interested in gardening, floral arrangement, and more. For more information, contact Marie: 884-8543.
Williamsville MCGUIRE GROUP MEMORY CARE SUPPORT: Coordinated with the Alzheimer’s Association, with caregiving tips and coping mechanisms. Info: 632-3700 or mcguiregroup.com.
West Seneca PARKINSON’S SOCIAL GROUP Make new friends every third Wednesday of the month at 6 p.m. at St. John’s Evangelical Lutheran Church (3512 Clinton Street). Info: 674-3287 or recmab@aol.com.
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Readers’ gardening problems
I love to help!
One of my greatest joys is helping my readers with garden-related issues. (Their emails also reassure me; someone reads what I write!) Today, I chose to respond to questions about insect identification, disease, and plant rejuvenation.
Helen sent a picture of a very large bee- or wasp-type insect she saw flying around late in the day. It seemed aggressive, and she was concerned it might be an Asian giant hornet, also known as the “murder hornet.” It was not; it was a European hornet, the only true hornet that lives in North America. European hornets have lived here for almost 200 years! Its eyes look like the letter C, it has orange yellow wings, and its abdomen is yellow and brown. They eat other insects. The females, about one and three-quarter inches long, make paper nests from
chewed up bark. They are not usually aggressive unless you get too close.
Asian giant hornets are not only larger, they’re also the largest hornets in the world! They tend to live in forests and mountains. They have orange faces, black “teeth” they use for digging, and abdomens that are nearly all black. Females can be about two inches long. Whew! Helen was relieved to learn that her insect was an “old timer.”
This year and last, Anne’s tomato plants had fruit developing on the vines, but they were dying from the bottom up. This is likely early blight
or septoria leaf spot, both caused by fungi. Early blight tomato plants have round brown spots on the leaves and stems; in time, the leaves fall off. Early blight also attacks the fruits; spots form near the stem. Septoria leaf spot also causes spots on the leaves. Look for bumps that develop into fruiting bodies, which spread the disease, but don’t affect tomato fruit.
Because Anne has grown tomatoes in the same area for several years, I suggested she clean up all diseased material and place it in the garbage. Do not plant tomatoes in the same
areas in the garden from year to year. When purchasing tomato plants, look for labels indicating resistance to diseases. Anne and I also discussed her watering practices; she said she watered daily, but I told her “weekly, deeply” for better root development. I also emphasized the need for sanitation in the garden; if you touch one tomato plant, clean your hands with sanitizer or alcohol wipes before moving to another plant.
Brad inherited an overgrown Christmas cactus; it seemed healthy but was misshapen and the roots totally filled the container. I suggested cutting back overgrown branches at the segments. If the base is woody, cut back to the woody section to stimulate new growth; he’ll enjoy watching it sprout new green leaves! If Brad wants to allow the plant to grow larger, he needs a pot about one to two inches in diameter larger; I suggested a terra cotta pot, as it breathes. He asked if he could keep the plant the same size; I said yes, but he needs to prune back the existing roots because they are gnarled together. Purchase soil designed for succulents. Water lightly. I hope Brad sends me a picture of his plant some day! Are you reading this Brad?
I love hearing from you: caharlos@ verizon.net FY
Carol Ann Harlos is an awardwinning retired math and science teacher, Master Gardener, beekeeper, writer, and speaker. She tends extensive gardens, including herbs, and loves learning from others and sharing her knowledge. Send gardening questions and comments to caharlos@verizon.net.
CAROL ANN HARLOS
Orphaned photos Putting names to faces
Ithinkit’s safe to say we have all amassed at least one box of old family photos. I admit to having multiple bins that I am slowly scanning and tagging with names and dates. Then there’s the other box that holds photos without names scribbled on the back. Or maybe there’s a partial name—let’s say Anne—that you just know is one of the four Annes in your family tree, but which? Old family photographs can hold clues for a genealogy researcher like nothing else. They’re a visual telling of the people in our tree rather than just names and dates. Photos can even help us feel more connected to our ancestors. Here are a couple tips to help date your orphaned photos.
Clothing and hairstyles can date a photo within five to ten years, so look at fashion to help narrow the period the photos subjects lived in and also provide indications of their status. In general, old family photos were taken by professional photographers. Even when people began to use their own cameras, subjects were often posed for the best shot. Given that, people dressed their best for these portraits in new, fashionable garments.
Pictures of younger women typically show contemporary style trends. Older women often stick to older or outdated styles. Look at the length
and shape of skirts in particular. From a woman’s silhouette you may be able to determine whether she is wearing a bustle, what shape it is, and whether her gown has a train. Look also at sleeves; is there a puff at the shoulder? And for hairstyles, consider the parting, fringe, and accessories.
An ancestor in uniform can make the process of dating the photograph easier, particularly for photographs taken in the twentieth century, when uniforms become more standardized. Online resources can help identify uniforms from similar photographs. If the photograph is clear enough, see if
the individual is wearing any medals; if you can identify any, you’ll narrow the time frame even more.
Several sites can help you put aunts, uncles, cousins, and grandparents on the right branches of your family tree.
Vintage Victorian (vintagevictorian. com) sketches and photos offer clues on clothing styles from the 1850s through the 1910s. This site also includes bathing costumes and evening attire.
Eyeglasses Warehouse (eyeglasseswarehouse.com) is a retail site. Although not where you would typically research your family, this site has provided many clues. By clicking on the vintage or retro frames
tabs, you can choose an era to view examples of spectacles worn at the time. 1860-1960 (1860-1960.com) is another retail gem if the photo you’re trying to date includes a woman’s hat. Carrying a hundred years of fashion and accessories, the hat section includes wonderful details on each, including dates and often the hairstyle that would accompany the hat.
Harper’s Bazaar, founded in 1867, is still in production but back issues can be found on Google (google.com/books). Skim the pages to find hairstyles, fashions, and more through the years.
Remember to look at the photo background for clues, too. Kitchen appliances and Christmas trees have all helped in my own research. Old cars can also help you strike gold. I’m lucky in that I can show my husband a photo of a vintage car and before I form the question, he’s already offered a year and model. He’s handy to have around! To identify a car, look online for car clubs, such as Ford & Mercury Restorers Club of America (fmrcoa.org).
To get a clear idea of when a photograph was taken, you’ll likely need to consider many factors in addition to those I’ve covered. While you may never reach a definitive date, piecing together enough clues may enable you to find an estimated date range that allows you to put Anne’s photo in the family tree. Happy hunting! FY
Carol DiPirro-Stipkovits is a member of both the National Genealogical Society and Association of Professional Genealogists. She is also Vice-President and Board Chairman of the Niagara County Genealogical Society.
Vintage magazines are useful to help date orphaned photos.
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STORY AND PHOTOS BY CHRISTINE A. SMYCZYNSKI
My husband, Jim, enjoys antique and classic cars, so we have visited a number of car museums over the years, including the four highlighted below. All four are accessible, have convenient free parking, and are close to lodging, restaurants, and other attractions.
Opened in 2001, Buffalo Transportation Pierce Arrow Museum focuses on the Pierce Arrow automobile manufactured in Buffalo between 1901 and 1938. The company, started by George Pierce, originally manufactured bicycles before turning to automobiles. In addition to Pierce
Arrow vehicles, classic cars displayed here include a 1908 Thomas Flyer, vehicles from the private collection of museum founder James Sandoro, and others on loan from collectors across the country. New to the permanent collection is the recently refurbished Thomas Rocket Car built in Batavia
between 1935-38 by Charles Thomas and Norm Richardson. The centerpiece of the museum is the Frank Lloyd Wright gas station constructed from Wright’s original plans. (263 Michigan Avenue, Buffalo, 853-0084, piercearrow.com. Open Thursday-Sunday 11 a.m-4 p.m.)
Northeast Classic Car Museum in Norwich, New York, is about three and a half hours from Buffalo, perfect for a long day trip or overnight getaway. At 89,000 square feet, it’s the largest car museum in the northeast and features a fine collection of antique cars, including more than 200 vintage cars, trucks, motorcycles, and the largest collection of Franklin automobiles in the world. The Franklin, manufactured in Syracuse between 1902 and 1934, is unique for its air-cooled engine instead of a radiator. Other makes on display including Studebaker, Cadillac, Packard, and more, including a Buffalomade 1936 Pierce Arrow Country Club Roadster. Period clothing from the 1900s to the 1950s are displayed alongside automobiles from those eras. While the cars in the museum are behind ropes and strictly hands-off, you can touch and even climb behind the wheel of the 1926 Model T Roadster in the lobby and the Franklin Olympic in the Franklin display building. Each year, the museum raffles off a new or vintage car; see the museum website for details. (24 Rexford Street, Route 23, Norwich, NY, 607-334-2886, classiccarmuseum.org. Open daily 9 a.m.-4:30 p.m.).
About four and a half hours from Buffalo, Saratoga Automobile Museum opened in 2002 in Saratoga Spa State Park in a 1935 Neoclassical building that once housed the New York State Bottling Plant. The museum’s perennial display of vintage automobiles is often augmented with special exhibits, including Enzo Ferrari: An Obsession with Speed, which runs through October and showcases the
Sit in a 1926 Model T Roadster at the Northeast Classic Car Museum.
iconic Ferrari automobile and its eponymous creator. (110 Avenue of the Pines, Saratoga Springs, NY 518-587-1935, saratogaautomuseum. org May-October daily 10:00 a.m.-5:00 p.m.; November-April Wednesday-Sunday 10 a.m.-5 p.m.).
If you have time for an extended stay in Saratoga, visit the National Museum of Racing and Hall of Fame, Saratoga Race Course (mid-July through Labor Day), over a dozen mineral springs to sample water from, and downtown’s shops and restaurants. The Holiday Inn is centrally located within walking distance of downtown, the race course, and racing museum; the automobile museum is just a short drive away. (discoversaratoga.org)
A little farther afield, Antique Auto Club of America’s Museum in Hershey, Pennsylvania, is about a five-and-a-half-hour drive. Three levels of exhibits represent cars, motorcycles, buses, and more from the 1890s to 1980s. The museum also houses the largest collection of Tucker
automobiles, which were briefly produced in 1948; only fifty-one of the cars were manufactured. One current exhibit is Professional Vehicles: 100 Years of Service, which includes limousines, emergency vehicles, and even vintage funeral vehicles. (161 Museum Drive, Hershey, PA, 717-566-7100, aacamuseum.org Open daily 9 a.m.-5 p.m.).
Hershey Hampton Inn and Suites is located right next door to the museum. Other area attractions include Hershey Gardens, a twenty-three-acre garden park with flowers and rare trees, and Hershey Park Amusement Park. (hersheypa.com) FY
Christine A. Smyczynski is the author of several travel guides about Western New York and New York State. In addition, she has written hundreds of articles on a variety of topics for local, regional, and national publications.
One of the many displays at the Saratoga Automobile Museum.
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What to see for Curtain Up!
BY DONNA HOKE
The start of the Western New York theater season is so exciting; we finally get to start sampling shows from lineups that were announced months and months ago! But what to choose for Curtain Up!? That all depends… who are you going with? Do you like comedy or drama? Musicals or straight plays? One thing we can promise, there’s something for everyone.
For the teenaged grandkids:
Musical choice:
The Prom
To revive their struggling careers, four eccentric Broadway stars descend on small-town Indiana, where local girl Emma Nolan wants to take her girlfriend to prom, but the homophobic PTA is on a mission to keep the high school dance on the straight and narrow. Determined to transform lives and put themselves back in the limelight, the celebrities muscle in to change the town and give Emma the prom she deserves. musicalfare.com; 839-8540
Play choice:
Monsters of the American Cinema
buffalobua.org; 886-9239
Girls Night Out:
Wipeout
It’s Beaches meets Laverne & Shirley when best friends Claudia, Wynn, and Gary celebrate their golden years with the ultimate challenge: learning to surf. But the sun-soaked breakers are no match for these three as they master the waves, confront the complexity of aging, friendship, and embrace the courage to hang ten on new beginnings. alleyway.com; 852-2600
If you’ve seen it all before: Tea Party
Frank, a heterosexual crossdresser, discovers Miss Olivia’s Finishing School for Girls, a club for those who share his recreational predilection.
When his husband passes away, Remy Washington, a Black man, unexpectedly becomes the owner of a drive-in movie theater and the guardian of his late husband’s straight, white teenage son, Pup. Bound by their shared love for classic American monster movies, they bond. Their relationship unravels when Remy learns that Pup and his friends have been bullying a gay classmate. Through intertwining monologues and sharp dialogue, Monsters explores fathers and sons, the ghosts of our pasts, and the monsters within ourselves.
Finally able to share his secret, Frank’s newfound freedom threatens his marriage and his relationship with his best friend.
firstlookbuffalo.com at the Allendale Theatre; 771-6358
Shipwrecked! An Entertainment, the Amazing Adventures of Louis de Rougemont (as Told by Himself)
The grand and fantastic tale of Louis De Rougemont, famous adventurer who gets lost on the high seas, is told by Louis himself, aided by
two talented actors, who play all of the people and animals Louis meets, all while providing sound effects and scenery changes, seamlessly. All might not be as it seems, however, as the truth of Louis’ great tale is called into question by multiple experts. Shipwrecked! brings the joy of storytelling alive, and questions whether a story needs to be true to be treasured.
roadlesstraveledproductions.org; 629-3069
Monsters of the American Cinema image courtesy of Buffalo United Artists; Shipwrecked! image courtesy of Road Less Traveled Productions.
For history lovers:
Musical choice: Newsies
New York City, 1899. Jack Kelly and his ragtag team of newsboys make a meager living selling newspapers on the city streets. But when the prices of “papes” are hiked and the newsies are hung out to dry, charismatic Jack and independent reporter Katherine Plummer form a union and organize a strike against the greedy publisher of the New York World. Can a group of idealistic newsboys win against a foe as powerful as acclaimed publisher Joseph Pulitzer? Inspired by the true story of the 1899 Newsboys Strike.
Presented by D’Youville’s Kavinoky Theatre at Shea’s 710; sheas.org; 847-1410
Play choice:
The African Company Presents Richard III
New York City, 1821. Forty years before the Civil War, William Henry
Brown, a free black American, organizes a production of Shakespeare’s Richard III for a predominantly black audience. But in doing so, Brown challenges the leading producer of New York City, Stephen Price, who has secured the famous English actor Junius Brutus Booth to play Richard III at his Park Theatre. Based on the true events. ujimacoinc.org; 322-5178
To totally escape:
Dracula: A Comedy of Terrors
Fresh from its smash-hit offBroadway reign at New World Stages, this wickedly offbeat comedy is ready to ignite the Irish Classical stage with its irreverent charm. This ninetyminute romp of gender-bending, lightning-paced hilarity breathes new life into the timeless gothic tale by one of Ireland’s most famous exports- Bram Stoker. Packed with razor-sharp wit and a riotous parade of pop culture nods, this reimagining promises to leave audiences of all blood types howling. irishclassicaltheatre.com; 853-4282
Don’t Drink the Water
Woody Allen’s first produced play takes place behind the Iron Curtain.
The Hollander family’s European vacation is interrupted when their plane is forced to land in Vulgaria, but when they leave the plane to take pictures, they’re accused of spying. Chased by Vulgarian soldiers, they take refuge in the American Embassy under the protection of the absent Ambassador’s diplomatically incompetent son, Axel.
Playwright Donna Hoke is Managing Editor of Buffalo Spree and Forever Young.
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Image courtesy of Ujima Theatre Company
Image courtesy of Irish Classical Theatre Company
STEAM ENGINE COMING SOON!
Veteran actors talk the long game
BY DONNA HOKE
Stay on the acting scene long enough and you not only play a range of roles, you also learn a lot. Here, Buffalo actors
Verneice Turner, artistic director at Paul Robeson Theatre; Peter Palmisano, currently directing Arsenic and Old Lace at Lancaster Opera House; Pamela Rose Mangus, currently rehearsing/acting in Arsenic and Old Lace; and Ellen Horst, 2024 Artie nominee for Kindertransport chat about the journey.
When did you realize you were starting to be cast for “older” roles?
Verneice Turner (VT): When I was fortunate to portray Calpurnia in Road Less Traveled’s production of To Kill A Mockingbird, the [final production at] Studio Arena.
Peter Palmisano (PP): It happens
so subtly, you don’t realize that it’s happening. Then suddenly… wow. When I did Amadeus at Irish Classical Theatre Company, literally twenty years ago, director Fortunato Pezzimenti changed a line referring to Salieri’s age because I could not believably pass for it. I remember saying “What, you don’t think I
could pass?” And he said, “If you can, I can.” I looked at him and thought, “Hmmmm…so that’s where I am now” Of course, many roles require a more mature gentleman, so for a while, you start to look forward to those, but they are becoming less and less available. I’ve been lucky because I am still playing younger than I am.
PRM: Mama Rose in Gypsy or Martha in Who’s Afraid of Virginia Woolf?
EH: I always wanted to do Anna in the King and I and the mother in Light in the Piazza. The opportunities never presented themselves.
What would your dream role be right now?
VT: After portraying the Stage Manager in American Repertory Theater of Western New York’s Our Town, I am so content. With all the roles I have been blessed to portray, I have no particular dream roles.
PP: I guess I would like to take a shot at Willy Loman; I had a chance when I was too young and passed. Now, it’s such a demanding role that I might be too old. But I just did Howard Beale for the Kavinoky’s Network, and that was very demanding, so…who knows?
PRM: Queen Elizabeth the first. What about the industry do you know now you wish you knew then?
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Pamela Rose Mangus (PRM): When I was offered the role of a 100-year-old woman thirty-five years too soon! Up until then I was still being cast as a woman in her fifties.
Ellen Horst (EH): I think I’ve always done roles that were older than my actual age, but I think what you’re referring to started about ten years ago. The roles started getting fewer and fewer.
What’s the role have you aged out of that you regret never getting to play?
VT: In the 1970s, Mayor Summer Youth Program Theatre production of West Side Story. I was to play Anita directed by Fortunato Pezzimenti.
PP: Easy: Guido Contini from Nine. I saw that play in the eighties with Raul Julia and said “That’s me. I will play that role someday.” Then Second Generation did it but, alas, too late.
VT: Relishing getting your scripts way ahead of opening. Learn the whole script. Then closing night is a joy because you laid it all out on the stage from opening night. Like a good gumbo, it’s great opening night/first bite and so rich at closing/ last lick of the fork.
PP: That opinions are just that: opinions. Get over it. (I’m still working on it.) Some people I most admire in this world have totally disagreed with me on matters theatrical, so I guess my opinion is not the only “truth.”
But it is mine.
PRM: How to audition effectively.
EH: It’s not always about your talent. Casting is about so many things: it can be your look, who you know, how you pair up with someone you will play opposite, and so many other things. You just always have to do your best. It’s about the realization that if you can walk out of an audition knowing you nailed it, that’s all you can really do. Never beat yourself up if it doesn’t work out. FY
Playwright Donna Hoke is Managing Editor of Buffalo Spree and Forever Young.
Clockwise from top left: Verneice Turner, Pamela Rose Mangus, Ellen Horst, and Peter Palmisano. All photos are courtesy of the artists.
Who was there?
Presenters:
Amherst Center for Senior Services
Bristol Village
Brompton Heights
Elderwood Village of Bassett Park
FeedMore WNY in partnership with Hearty Helpings, Inc.
Glenwell Assisted Living and Memory Care
Heathwood Assisted Living and Memory Care
Peregrine Senior Living at Orchard Park
Solstice Senior Living at East Amherst
Wheatfield Commons
Winners:
Best Entrée: Chicken française, by Glenwell
Best Vegetarian: Poached salmon on a potato cake with capers, red onion, egg, and dill cucumber sauce, by FeedMore of WNY with Hearty Helpings, Inc.
Best Ethnic:
General Tso’s chicken and rice cups, by Peregrine Senior Living at Orchard Park
Best Dessert: French macarons, by Glenwell
People’s Choice Award: Beef osso buco, by Wheatfield Commons
Best Table Presentation: Solstice Senior Living
Taste of the Network Nothing brings people together like food
STORY AND PHOTOS BY AMY LYNN HARDY
Ten senior living facilities came together at Amherst Center for Senior Services on July 23 for Taste of the Network, presented by the Network in Aging of WNY, Inc. The event benefited the Jerry Flaschner Humanitarian Award Scholarship Fund and gave the community a taste of what these facilities serve in-house. Each team brought two dishes and guests brought their appetites—because there was so much to sample.
Food portions were generous and the diversity impressive, everything from colorful tea sandwiches and juicy sliders to aromatic Peruvian ceviche and savory French crêpes. The mood was convivial as presenters dished out servings and struck up conversations with visitors. Teams were judged in five categories, but an additional people’s choice award meant guest opinions counted, too!
“We love doing this event because it’s a showcase for us to show everybody what we do for our residents: our special parties, the different kind of events we put on for them,” says Glenwell Assisted Living and Memory Care’s Marketing Director, Stacey Jazinski. “This gives the community a little taste of what we do for our own residents.”
Glenwell’s table was beautifully decorated in black and pink French décor with their staff donning pink berets and scarves, but other facilities also sported incredible decorations. Winner of Best Presentation, Solstice Senior Living at Amherst celebrated
the 2024 Olympics in Paris with red berets and Olympic t-shirts, a background of Parisian lanterns, an Eiffel Tower, and a blow-up Mona Lisa painting. The Wheatfield Commons displayed Italian flair; its chef was decked out in an Italian flag and chef hat. He also created a flavorful entrée of osso buco and truffle potatoes, winner of the People’s Choice Award.
“I’m very thankful to have found our chef Paul,” says Christine O’Connor of Wheatfield Commons. “He has made a world of difference in our community and in the lives of our seniors. He brings something fun and new every single day and puts smiles on everybody’s faces. He and his team have been a real treasure.”
Many of these facilities cater to livein residents, but others do home visits and bring Western New Yorkers fresh meals daily. For example, “FeedMore WNY provides nutritious meals and a daily wellness check to our homebound elderly neighbors. Each meal meets one third of the daily recommended
allowances,” explains Jennifer Klein, RD, CDN, and FeedMore WNY Senior Director of Client Services. “Not only do we offer nutritious food, but also dignity, hope, and a brighter future to our WNY neighbors in need. We are proud to represent our organization at the Taste of the Network.” FeedMore took home the prize for Best Vegetarian.
The scholarship recipient honored at Taste of the Network was Haley Spiess, a personal care aid at Bristol Village who recently transitioned to the role of medication assistant. She plans to use the scholarship funds to complete her RN program this fall at ECC and Daemen University this fall, and as well as toward future education costs as she pursues her goal to become a nurse practitioner specializing in geriatrics. Food can always bring people together, put smiles on faces, and lift spirits. Taste of the Network did just that. FY
Amy Lynn Hardy is a former teacher and freelance writer.
The FIT formula
Maximize the benefits of walking
BY PATRICK ROWARD
With the weather cooling and the leaves changing, it’s the best time in Western New York to get outside and walk. A simple and inexpensive way to increase physical activity and improve health, walking is a weight-bearing, joint-friendly exercise that not only helps maintain bone density but, in some studies, has proven to increase it. Other benefits of regular walking include significantly reduced of risk cardiovascular disease, Type 2 diabetes, and obesity.
The only real expense walking requires is a good pair of sneakers. Look for a pair with flexible soles, good arch support, and proper cushioning for your heel. To follow the advice below, you’ll also need a heart rate monitor, though this function exists in FitBits and Apple watches, so you may already have one.
FREE WELLNESS WORKSHOP
To get the most benefit from each walk, apply FIT, a mnemonic that stands for Frequency, Intensity, and Time. According to the American College of Sports Medicine (ACSM): Frequency is how often you should walk. Five walks a week is recommended for apparently healthy individuals.
Intensity is how hard the walk should be, as determined by reaching and maintaining a target heart rate (THR). To establish THR, determine your age estimated maximum heart rate in beats per minute (BPM) by subtracting your age from 220, e.g. if you are sixty, your maximum BPM is roughly 160 (220-60), but can vary depending on your cardio fitness. The American Heart Association
recommends exercising at a range between fifty and eighty percent of that estimated maximum; in the example, this would be eighty to 128 BPM. While walking, check your heart rate periodically to ensure your beats per minute are within your target range. Time is duration of the walk. To get maximum cardiovascular benefit, ACSM says each aerobic workout session should last thirty to forty-five minutes. If you are new to walking, start with shorter walks and build your stamina; you can even take several short walks with breaks in between.
How can you make and keep walking fun? Create different routes in your neighborhood, choose a destination, or try walking trails and parks to mix in a hill or two. Try interval walking, where you increase your pace for a set time and follow it up with a recovery pace for a set time; vary the interval times on different days. Multitask social time and exercise by walking with a friend. Keep track of time and distance walked each day. Seeing your recorded progress over time will help you stay motivated.
Walking is a great form of exercise but if you have high blood pressure, an underlying cardiac condition, or take prescription medications (some can lower your maximum heart rate), it’s best to discuss your exercise plan and THR with your physician before starting a new routine. FY
Patrick Roward is a freelance writer and exercise physiologist with more than thirty-five years of experience.
Each year, Forever Young asks readers to vote for some of their favorite things in Western New York. We tally the votes, determine the winners, and announce them in our December issue. Ballots must be received by October 31.
Favorite Weekend Activity
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Favorite Nature Trail
Favorite Place to Bring Kids
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Favorite Senior Community Center
Favorite Senior Living Swimming Pool
Favorite Senior Living Food Service/Dining
Favorite Senior Living Entertainment
Favorite Senior Living Exercise Program
Favorite Senior Living Outdoor Space
Favorite Volunteer Opportunity
Favorite Farmers Market
Favorite Veterans Program
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Favorite Liquor Store
Favorite Pet Store
Favorite Local Brewery
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From the desk of WECK Radio owner and local business advocate Buddy Shula
A GUY NAMED NIELSEN
Hard to believe the summer is over (in Buffalo terms) and that election season is here. Radio stations have elections as well! They’re done by sending a ballot to your mailbox or calling you on the phone and asking, “what’s your favorite radio station?” The guy who usually calls or sends the ballot is a guy named Nielsen.
BIG WECK is the number one radio station in Buffalo because of people like you who love timeless oldies music along with local, trusted long-time DJs like Roger Christian, Joe Chille, Ronnie D, Maria Genero, Steve Goddard, Dan Rinelli, and more.
You can listen to the BIG WECK everywhere: on your radio, on your phone, or you can even tell your voice-activated devices to play BIG WECK.
So when you get a piece of mail or a phone call from a guy named Nielsen, please remember to vote, and remind them that the BIG WECK is your #1 station!
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September 7 Hangar Dance
From 5–9 p.m., Niagara Aerospace Museum hosts its second annual hangar dance and dinner—a fundraiser for the museum and its programs—featuring a full barbecue dinner, open bar, live music from the Alex Rene Big Band, raffle baskets, and more. “This event was so popular last year,” said Board President Don Erwin. “It is a unique experience, and we love being able to host it surrounded by our historic aircraft.”
Individual tickets are $125; couples tickets are $200. (9990 Porter Road, Niagara Falls; niagaraaerospacemuseum.org, 297-1323)
September 21
Peter Frampton: The Positively Thankful Tour
The Grammy-winning English rocker celebrates his Rock & Roll Hall of Fame induction with The Positively Thankful Tour as he returns to Niagara Falls to rock the Seneca Niagara outdoor stage for one magical night. Tickets begin at $41 and proceeds from each ticket benefit the Peter Frampton Myositis Research Fund.
Plan a fun day out with the grandkids! In celebration of National Teddy Bear Day (which is September 9), the Theodore Roosevelt Inaugural Site is offering free admission September 7-13 to any child under 18 who brings their favorite teddy bear to the museum. Note that there is an accessible entrance (no stairs) available to the rear (Franklin Street) side of the museum.
Open 9 a.m.–5 p.m. on weekdays; 11 a.m.–5 p.m. on weekends (641 Delaware Avenue, Buffalo; trsite.org)
Through October 27 The Unseen: Works from the Collection
According to the American Alliance of Museums, most museums only display about three percent of their collections at a time. The Burchfield Penney Art Center holds more than 12,000 objects, with new acquisitions every year. The Unseen features works recently acquired by the museum and works that have not been seen on the museum walls for many years.
See website for hours of operation; senior admission is $8 (1300 Elmwood Avenue; burchfieldpenney.org, 878-6011)
Image courtesy of Seneca Niagara Casino Image courtesy of Burchfield Penney Art Center
