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Celebrating Super Moms

One day to recognize the super power of moms certainly isn’t nearly enough. Moms need to be hugged and appreciated every day. And then there are the moms who go out of their way to help others, like Ms. Emily Pinkney. She and her late husband opened their home and hearts to kids who need support and comfort. Her family has grown exponentially and she has set an extraordinary example for others with the will and means to help more kids. If you can find it in your heart to consider becoming a foster parent you can find more information here: https://dhs.maryland.gov/foster-care/ qualification/

And then, more often than not, it’s moms who are confronted with talking to their kids about grief, death and dying. It isn’t an easy conversation but when I called hospice for help, they told me that kids will imagine terrible, frightening things. It is much better to explain to your kids what is happening, and what will

happen, than letting their imaginations run wild. Jillian Amodio has done a great job in her article this month providing resources and advice to dealing with those hard discussions.

Abby Grifno checked in with mental health providers to learn how they are coming together to help teens as the pandemic subsides. Mental health resources are still limited, but professionals as well as parents and teachers are paying more attention now to get kids the help they need.

And because it’s May, it’s time for fairies. There are Fairy Festivals this month plus instructions for an easy way that parents and kids can make their own fairies.

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Kinetic Sculpture Race Returns

Saturday, May 6, 2023

The American Visionary Art Museum’s fun and frenzied Kinetic Sculpture Race returns for its 23rd year on Saturday, May 6, 2023. The festivities will commence, rain or shine!

AVAM Executive Director Jenenne Whitfield says, “Our annual Kinetic Sculpture Race demonstrates the museum's ongoing mission to support and promote intuitive, selftaught artists and visionaries of all sorts! I stand in awe of the ingenuity that goes into designing and constructing these original human-powered machines. I challenge Baltimoreans and visitors alike to take a break from the daily grind and join us as we witness the creative spirit on full display in these unique mobile sculptures traversing the streets of Baltimore. A sight to behold, indeed!”

Participants range from teenagers to septuagenarians, echoing the race theme of “Everyday People” in their design and theme songs as they prepare to travel through 15 miles of downtown Baltimore streets, mud and sand pits at Patterson Park, and the Inner Harbor, vying for honors such as ACE, Best Pit Crew, People’s Choice, Worst Honorable Mention, and Spirit of the Glorious Founder. The highest honor in the Kinetic Sculpture Race is the Grand Mediocre Champion, awarded to the team that finishes exactly in the middle of the pack.

Among the six Baltimore-area school teams confirmed for this year's race is Jemicy School. Several years ago, the Kinetic Sculpture Race became the basis for an original

program for students at Jemicy, called Kinetic Sculpture Race Industrial Design. Course instructor August DiMucci reflects: “Our students are intuitive, mechanically inclined, visual-spatial thinkers who problem-solve and collaborate to design, build, and race vehicles that meet the challenges of the race. In the class, they learn project planning, design, fabrication, material science, physics, welding, bike maintenance, communication, teamwork, and many other real-world skills. My favorite part of this class is to see the students’ joyful expressions on race day!”

Additional participating schools include: Howard County Public School System Applications & Research Lab, Park School, St. Paul’s School for Girls, St. Paul’s School for Boys, and University of Maryland Baltimore County.

• Kinetic Sculpture Race

Approximate Schedule:

• 8:00 AM - Safety Check & Brake Test at AVAM, 800 Key Highway

• 9:30 AM - Opening

Ceremonies at AVAM

• 10:00 AM - LeMans Start of Race on Key Highway, up Battery Avenue to Federal Hill Park

• 11:15 AM - 1:00 PM - Water Entry at Canton Waterfront

• 1:15 - 3:30 PM - Sand & Mud Obstacles in Patterson Park

• 3:30 - 6:00 PM - Finish Line/ Post Race Recovery at AVAM

• 6:00 - 7:00 PM - Awards

Ceremony at AVAM

10th Annual Burritos For Beds Breakfast Fundraising for Barn Raising

Breakfast benefit to transform barn into client wellness & meeting space.

The community is invited to breakfast on Wednesday, May 3, 7-10 am, at Chevy's Fresh Mex, Annapolis, to support the mission of addiction recovery. Our goal this year is to raise funds to create a wellness center for residents.

Where some see an old red barn, leaders at a local addiction recovery facility see potential. “We purchased property adjacent to our campus two years ago,” said Tom O’Leary, president, Samaritan House board of directors. “There is a perfect old red barn on the land that will make a great wellness center, meeting space and office accommodations but first it needs extensive work.”

Giving the old barn new life as a wellness center for residents of the Samaritan House is the goal of the 10th Annual Burritos for Beds breakfast benefit on Wednesday, May 3, 7-10am, at Chevy’s Fresh Mex. The public is invited to enjoy a delicious breakfast and donate to this “barn raising” project.

Contractors estimate it will cost $75,000 for the space transformation. Samaritan House Board members have pledged to donate half of that amount and are asking supporters to match them in giving. Monetary donations can be made at the event or online at SamaritanHouseAnnapolis.org/giving.

Samaritan House is a state-certified addiction recovery facility founded in 1971 by a group of men who saw the need for residential addiction recovery care. With the addition of this property, Samaritan House has four houses accommodating 48 residential and transitional clients on 16 wooded acres just off Forest Drive in Annapolis.

If you cannot attend breakfast but would like to support Samaritan House, you can do so on our "Donate" page at SamaritanHouseAnnapolis.org.

Terrapin Nature Park Destination Spotlight

Located near Route 50, in Stevensville, Maryland, Terrapin Nature Park is a hidden gem that offers visitors a peaceful and tranquil environment to escape the hustle and bustle of everyday life. The park is situated on the eastern side of the Chesapeake Bay and has a lot to offer visitors, including wellmarked trails that take visitors down shady paths, past meadows perfect for watching birds and butterflies, and around marshes and tidal pools.

The park's natural beauty is breathtaking, and visitors are often rewarded with stunning views of the Chesapeake Bay Bridge from the gazebo located on the sandy beach. This feature is undoubtedly the park's crowning jewel, as visitors can soak in the serene beauty of the bay while enjoying the salty breeze.

The park's trails are relatively flat and easy to walk, making it an ideal destination for families with young children or anyone seeking a leisurely hike. Jogging strollers can easily navigate the oyster chaff trails. Visitors can choose to do one big loop from the parking lot to the beach and back or

explore smaller sections. The park has three sections of trails; blue, red, and yellow, which together total 3.25 miles. Along the way, visitors can enjoy two observation blinds where they can sit and watch for birds near the ponds.

One of the park's best features is its connection to the County’s Cross Island Trail system, which is a 6.5-mile paved trail that traverses Kent Island. This connection allows visitors to enjoy a longer hike and explore more of the area's natural beauty. Parking for the Cross Island Trail system is available at Old Love Point Park.

Designated fishing and picnic areas are available in the park, and visitors are welcome to bring their grills and have a cookout in the picnic areas. Fires are allowed only in the designated picnic areas to ensure the safety of the park's natural environment.

Overall, Terrapin Nature Park is a fantastic destination for nature lovers, hikers, bird watchers, and anyone seeking a peaceful respite from the busy life. The park's wellmarked trails, stunning views, and peaceful environment make it a must-visit destination for anyone visiting the Stevensville area.

QUICK LOOK AT TERRAPIN NATURE PARK

191 Log Canoe Circle, Stevensville, MD // 410-758-0835

qac.org/Facilities/Facility/Details/Terrapin-Nature-Area-97

ADMISSION Free

HOURS Open daily from sunrise to sunset.

PARKING free

PETS Dogs are welcome on a leash.

PHOTO COURTESY OF JOANIE ROGERS

PHOTO COURTESY OF SUE CUNNINGHAM

PHOTO COURTESY OF DEAN MARKOS

Want Healthy, Radiant, Youthful Skin?

Choose the Right Products & Follow This Regimen

by Kimberly Blaker

Regardless of your age, taking good care of your skin is essential to keeping it healthy and reducing the effects of aging. Our skin isn't affected only by how we care for it, but also by the products we choose and their ingredients. So, knowing your skin type, following a skincare regimen, and selecting the best products for your particular skin type is the key to maintaining or restoring your natural beauty.

KNOW YOUR SKIN TYPE & THE BEST PRODUCTS FOR IT

Different skin types require different products and ingredients for the most benefit and to prevent exacerbating any problems. So, before you plan your regimen and buy skincare products, know your skin type and how to care for it.

Also, when buying skincare products, keep in mind, price usually has little to do with quality and effectiveness.

Normal Skin is neither too oily nor too dry. It's the optimal type we all wish we had and aim to achieve. If you have normal skin, your pores are barely visible and your skin lacks sensitivity. It's probably naturally radiant and flawless.

Despite being the most optimal skin type, it's still vulnerable. Even normal skin can experience occasional dryness or clogged pores. Add to that, aging happens to all of us, whether we like it or not.

Look for products that are labeled for normal skin, or at least not labeled for a different type of skin. This will help your skin maintain its balance. Also, look for a moisturizer or other skin care product that contains AHA or BHA. This helps exfoliate the skin. Retinol is another excellent anti-aging choice.

Dry Skin is characterized by less visible pores and less elasticity. It's prone to dry patches and a rough, dull complexion. You might get red patches, and the dryness makes lines more apparent. Certain conditions can intensify dryness such as sun, wind,

and cold, as well as ultraviolet tanning lights. Indoor heating, hot showers, skin products, and medications can also wreak havoc.

Dy skin tends to age faster. So, maintaining moisture in your skin is crucial to warding off fine lines and wrinkles. You'll also want to be extra cautious about sun exposure.

Look for products specially formulated and labeled for dry skin or that contain ingredients particularly effective at hydrating and protecting elasticity. Some ingredients to look for, especially in moisturizers, include dimethicone, hyaluronic acid, ceramides, glycerin, urea, aquaporins, and salicylic acid. AHA also improves skin moisture, while sloughing off dead skin cells. Just don't overdo it with the acids. Also, look for products with antioxidants.

Oily Skin is prone to breakouts of pimples or blackheads. It's marked by large pores and leaves your complexion either shiny or dull. Often, oily skin is aggravated by hormonal

imbalance, puberty, stress, heat, and humidity.

Despite the frustration with breakouts, those with oily skin retain their youthful complexion longer. Still, you'll need to take good care of it to prevent acne scarring. Maintaining oil balance is also crucial to radiant-looking skin.

You'll need moisturizers that are lightweight and oil-free to avoid clogged pores. So look for those containing dimethicone. You can also skip the moisturizer and just use a serum. Cleansers, toners, and creams containing glycolic acid are particularly helpful if you're prone to breakouts. Retinol helps with acne-prone skin as well. For exfoliating, BHA is an excellent choice for acne-prone skin because it also helps unclog pores.

Combination Skin is signified by a mix of oily areas and dry to normal areas. Typically, the T-zone, which is your forehead, nose, and chin, is where you're skin will be oily. You'll likely have large pores and be prone to blackheads and shiny skin in that area. Other areas of your face will be normal or have characteristics of dry skin.

The best solution to caring for combination skin is to buy a set of products for dry skin and another for oily skin. Then, use the appropriate products in the different areas of your face accordingly.

Sensitive skin is reactive and can lead to extreme dryness, pustules, erosion or bumps, redness, stinging, burning, or tightness. It also tends to flush or blush. Some triggers are weather-related, such as heat, sun, wind, and cold. Those with eczema and dermatitis need to be particularly mindful of products that contain allergens.

If you have sensitive skin, one of the best solutions is to avoid products and ingredients known to be irritants or allergens. Stay away from skincare or makeup products that contain fragrance, preservatives, essential oils, botanical extracts, and harsh exfoliants. Methylisothiazolinone, a doozy of a word, is also a common cause of allergy

breakouts and is commonly found in makeup and skincare products. You might also need to avoid toners, exfoliating, and serums, which may cause irritation. Also, look for products specially formulated for sensitive skin.

YOUR DAILY SKINCARE ROUTINE Daytime

1. Begin by washing your face with a gentle cleanser. This helps remove excess built-up oil and environmental debris. Wash your skin gently with your fingertips. Then rinse thoroughly with warm water and pat your face dry with a towel.

2. Toners used to always be recommended because cleansers used to leave skin soapy. But today, toning may not be necessary. Toners can, however, offer added benefits for particular skin types. For oily skin, astringents help remove additional oil build-up and contain ingredients to help reduce oil build-up and acne. Dry skin formulations can act as a humectant. Some toners offer other benefits as well.

3. Exfoliating your skin is an integral part of keeping your skin youthful. Mona Gohara, MD, quoted in "Ask a Dermatologist: How Often Should I Exfoliate My Face?" says we shed 50 million skin cells a day. "If they remain on the skin," she explains, "it can look dull and dry." Gohara recommends exfoliating two to three times per week. Use a mask or peel once a week. Then use an acid serum a couple times a week.

4. Next, feed your skin nutrients and antioxidants with a serum. These are highly recommended by dermatologists for both skin health and to slow the progression of aging. Serums have unique formulations and are lightweight, so they penetrate deeper into the skin.

5. Moisturizing your skin is one of the most beneficial steps when it comes to slowing down aging. But serums moisturize the skin as well. If you have dry skin, you'll definitely need to use a moisturizer in addition to serum, since they both offer unique

benefits to dry and aging skin. If you don't have dry or combination skin, you can skip this step if you use a serum.

6. Eye cream is also a vital component for moisturizing. These are formulated specially for the delicate skin around the eyes. They're richer and contain more oil because this area is more prone to dryness and shows earlier signs of aging. Eye creams also contain active ingredients to reduce puffiness, improve elasticity, and boost collagen production.

7. The last step is protecting your skin from the sun's damaging rays. This is especially crucial during warmer weather. But even in colder months, the sun still causes damage to your skin, particularly over time. So, look for a facial sunblock that's right for your skin type. Another option is a moisturizer or foundation that contains 30 SPF.

Nighttime

1. At night, follow a similar regimen, but with slight differences. Cleansing is particularly important at night to remove makeup and debris. Toning will help remove any makeup residue that cleansing didn't.

2. The next step depends on whether you choose to mask in the morning or at night. If you do your masking at night, apply it before serum and moisturizer. If it's an overnight mask, you'll need to apply the serum first, then mask.

3. Finally, apply moisturizer, unless you're doing an overnight mask. A nighttime moisturizer or night cream is best, particularly for dry skin, because it's richer, thicker, and offers added benefits.

Whatever your skin type and the regimen and products you choose, keep in mind everyone's skin is different. So, if something isn't working well for you, do some research. Look for studies, rather than just anecdotal evidence. Then make adjustments. Sometimes it's all about trial and error.

We asked our readers about their Super moms

SUPER MOM

By Claire Darcy

As a tribute to the special women in our lives, we asked our readers who they thought deserved to be recognized as an “Super Mom.” The responses were wonderful and we are happy to introduce you to five amazing women who go above and beyond to care for their families and the people in their lives. Please join us in congratulating them and let’s celebrate all the awesome mother-figures we have in our lives as well!

A Mother's Love

We heard from Kristi, a mother who wanted to recognize her daughter Sarah. Kristi wrote that her daughter is a loving and busy mom to two children, a son and a daughter. Her daughter has special needs: unable to walk or talk and needs assistance with eating and other everyday functions. Sarah assists her with all of her physical and emotional needs by spending quality time with her and helping her through all of her limitations. In addition,

she is still able to spend quality time with her older child and take him to activities like piano and violin lessons, after school sport programs, and to church.

And throughout their busy lives, Kristi says her daughter has a strong faith and feels extremely blessed to have her children and her loving husband. Kristi says that the whole family would agree that Sarah is the “Best Mom in the World!”

Unconditional Love

Hillary is a mom to two toddlers and a full time successful attorney and has been nominated as an Awesome Mom by her husband Benjamin. He praises her attentiveness toward their four-year-old and patience with their one-year-old. Hillary encourages her children daily to be independent and always takes the time to answer their questions thoughtfully and enthusiastically.

Her career as an attorney serves as an example to her children to work hard and accomplish goals. Benjamin states that no matter how busy she is with work, she is constantly communicating with her children how important they are to her and how much they are loved.

Supportive and Helpful

Juliette nominated her mom Jillian as an Awesome Mom because her mom is supportive, fun, loves to play music, and loves horses. Juliette looks up to her mom in ways she says that “words can’t describe” and appreciates her mom for all that she does for her.

Juliette sees that her mom has overcome a physical disability and doesn’t let it stand in her way to try something new. She also loves to dye her hair different colors and encourages Juliette to do the same and have fun while doing it. Juliette struggles with mental health issues but says the support and help that Jillian shows her through her struggles is a sign of her love and dedication.

True Friendship

True friendship is a thing to treasure and Betsey not only values her friendship with Sandy, she also values their relationship as Moms. Betsey herself is a mom of 4 and has nominated Sandy as an Awesome Mom because, as she puts it, she is “literally the Best Mom I know!”

Betsey and Sandy became friends when their children were in preschool together. Sandy is a mom to three beautiful teenaged girls and to a little boy who unfortunately passed away when he was only a few days old. Her daughters have all experienced individual struggles and health issues but that hasn’t slowed Sandy down in any way as she advocates for their health and find the necessary support and resources that they need. Betsey describes Sandy as “one of the most positive and upbeat” moms she has ever met. Sandy is an incredible mom and friend and always there for her family and friends.

Hillary

Sandy

Jillian

Great Mom Guidance

Our next Awesome Mom is a tribute from Christina to her own mother Susan. Christina is a mom to three young daughters and credits Susan with giving her the love and support that Christina has needed to know how to be a good mom.

Susan is a loving mother, grandmother, and mother-in-law. She considers her son-in-law as one of her own and loves her granddaughters unconditionally. Susan is present at the girls dance recitals and sports games and is always happy to receive a FaceTime call so her granddaughters can “show off” their skills by reading a book to her. Susan’s career was in nursing, specifically baby care, and while she used that wealth of information to help Christina when her daughters were babies, she also supported Christina's parenting decisions with no judgement or questions, just sound advice and thoughtful suggestions.

Susan makes her family feel important and loved every day. And Christina’s loving words in this tribute shine through that Susan is also important and loved by them every single day.

From the Schools to the Taphouse How Professionals Come Together for Mental Health

By Abby Grifno

Teenage mental health remains a persistent issue among today’s youth, but thankfully organizations and professionals are working hard to end the stigma surrounding mental health and ensure that adolescents have access to the resources they need. According to the World Health Organization, it’s estimated that 14% of adolescents from ages 10-19 experience

health problems. This age range tends to be particularly vulnerable for youth because of the physical and social changes they face, which can make them prone to anxiety and depression.

The World Health Organization reports that for young adults and adolescents aged 15-29, suicide is the 4th leading cause of death. Organizations in the Chesapeake area, like Burgers and Bands, are working hard to prevent suicide, encourage candid discussions, and raise funds for initiatives that can save lives.

Burgers and Bands isn’t the only group working to help adolescents fight mental illness. Professionals everywhere have begun recognizing signs of mental health problems and creating new solutions.

Lisa Luse is a Licensed Clinical Social Worker (LCSW) in Maryland with a Master’s in Social Work. She focuses on adolescents and families in various ways, and has specialized knowledge regarding eating disorders.

Since the pandemic, Luse says clinicians everywhere believe mental health has gotten “So much worse...We were talking so much as therapists about the lack of connections due to the pandemic and the lack of structure.” Luse explains that for adolescents, structure in their daily lives is extremely important, and even though schools have gone back to in-person learning, there have been significant residual effects.

It hasn’t been all bad though. Luse says that since the pandemic, “There’s been a great push to change the culture in our society…A lot of schools look at how they can make sure there’s no bullying or racism, and that there are LGBTQ resources. Where there are those resources available, kids have rebounded much better.”

In schools without those resources, Luse says she sees kids and teenagers “Operating the same as they were during the pandemic because they are feeling really isolated.” Schools that are thriving tend to provide resources and promote awareness surrounding drug and alcohol use. Many schools operate differently, and what resources are available can depend a lot on the specific administration and staff that are working there.

Maria Prete, a certified teacher, is grateful that her elementary school has made strides in helping students, “in our school, we have a Social-Emotional Learning Coach, and in the past couple of years, we’ve given students lessons in social-emotional learning” that are designed to help students with social interactions.

When it comes to helping kids with mental health problems, Prete feels like there is more emphasis on making sure students’ mental health is being considered. If a teacher feels concerned, there’s

a variety of steps they may take. Depending on what the teachers notice, Prete explains, “a teacher may talk to the child” or with the school’s social worker and psychologist to “develop a strategy to help the student.”

Often, teachers will connect with other staff and the parents to see if a behavior is occurring outside of the classroom, which can help staff better understand the situation. Prete wants to make it clear, “We aren’t clinicians; we can’t diagnose. But we can let parents know what we are observing.” Teachers will frequently suggest parents take their child to a pediatrician for an accurate diagnosis and to ensure that the student is getting any additional help they need.

On the procedural side, Luse says most patients come to her from parents or pediatric referrals. Kids and teenagers will often feel uncomfortable talking to their parents but may open up more to a pediatrician. A lot of pediatricians “know what questions to ask and know what to look for” which makes them a great resource for any concerned parent.

Luse recommends parents can reach out to their pediatrician or a mental health professional if they have any concerns, as well as the school to see what resources may be available there.

Luse’s advice to parents is to “Regularly talk to your kids about mental health and show that you, as a parent, have emotions too.” Luse also stressed that it’s important for parents to step back and listen: “Teenagers love being heard, but they don’t like getting advice from their parents.” Luse suggests parents keep an eye on behavioral changes and be curious with their kids, all while validating their adolescent’s experience and interests.

A great way to start the conversation?

Check out Bands and Burger’s upcoming event at Severna Park Taphouse for suicide prevention. The event will feature more than 20 bands and aims to show adolescents that they aren’t alone on their mental health journey.

Rebecca Kieran

Fostering Love

Family, home, love: pillars of society to most

Sadly, there are many children in America who do not have this foundation and find themselves in foster care. Those who enter America’s foster system jump from house to house and host family to host family. Only a small percentage of these children can say that through foster care, they found a true, loving home.

As difficult as this system is on the children, it is also a great struggle to the foster parents who undertake the challenge of caring for foster kids. It is far from easy and takes a great deal of patience and strength to care for America’s lonely and often troubled youth. It takes a truly special kind of tolerance to be able to open one’s home to foster children and raise them as one of their own.

Ms. Emily Pinkney, along with her late husband Edward, are some of the special few who have not only taken on this challenge but put heart and soul into it for 30 years. Now retiring from her extensive career as a foster parent, Ms. Pinkney looks back at the journey with pride and sacred memories.

Born and raised in Prince George’s County, Emily endured a strict Catholic upbringing. She was one of nine children and was raised to be kind, polite and presentable when in public. After graduating from high school, Emily attended Fleets Business School in Annapolis. The students there were much wealthier, and she was the only one that had to work while still attending classes. She worked a number of different jobs including

waitressing and babysitting. After her graduation, she became a high school secretary. She married her high school sweetheart at 19 years old and bore two daughters from the marriage. Ms. Pinkney suffered a great deal of loss in her early adult years. Her oldest daughter passed away of Sarcoidosis and at age 34, Emily was diagnosed with bone cancer. To save her life, her arm was amputated up to the elbow. She was a dedicated worker and never let her disability or loss hold her back. She knew that she still wanted to be of service somehow to her community, so she decided to become a foster parent.

“My siblings told me I was crazy and that I shouldn’t do it, but my heart just told me to,” Emily said. “I needed to share my life and that was my calling.”

Over the last 30 years, Emily raised about fifty foster kids and hosted around one hundred in total. Sometimes she would have as many as six foster kids in her home at once. There were very few children that Emily could not manage, and social services would often send her the toughest cases because of her strong and determined mentality.

Emily’s husband was a carpenter and built more bedrooms onto their house to accommodate more children. “We took children that the system thought would never be able to grow up in a home. These are the kinds of kids we raised,” Emily said.

Emily and Edward Pinkney went above and beyond the call of duty as foster parents. They were not the kind of hosts that gave children the bare minimum. They reached into their hearts and wallets to raise every child like their own and exposed them to as many opportunities as they could.

“We never used the word ‘Foster,’” Emily said. “We would always introduce the kids as our grandkids or our kids. The community often never knew they were foster children and would always just refer to them as ‘The Pinkney Kids.’”

The Pinkneys took them on vacations with the family to places like Jamaica, Canada, Las Vegas and Disney World. They took the kids to medical appointments and therapy to get them help when they needed it. They helped each one through school no matter how great the challenge. They taught every child to be kind and respectful, even when they were too angry or scared to want to try.

Ms. Pinkney did all of this and more with her sheer will power, tough mental attitude and only one arm for an extra challenge! She had the determination to take care of kids of all ages, from 10 months to 18 years. With one arm, she would change diapers, cook meals, run the home and mentor dozens of children that came through her door.

Her husband was a magnificent help and was wonderful with the children. He would cook and play with them every day. Their marriage was blessed and never dull for a moment. Emily said that nothing was the same anymore when he passed away three years ago. He is greatly missed and was a huge source of strength for Emily along their parenting journey.

The road was not always easy. The toughness of Emily’s upbringing helped prepare her for the many challenges she faced as a foster parent.

“I prayed and cried more for these children than my own most of the time,” she said. “I wanted them all to finish high school. That was our rule,” Emily said. “Boy, we had to drag them through, but in the end, all but one graduated.”

Over time, the Pinkneys learned how to best deal with the uphill battles. They tried not to dwell on the negative or reinforce the children’s want for negative attention. Ms. Pinkney spent nine years as a trainer with social services, teaching new foster parents through her knowledge and experience. She advises other foster parents to praise good behavior and lead with love. A tough mentality and a great deal of patience are necessary for foster parent success.

“Sometimes you love them, but you don’t like them. I just wouldn’t give up

on them,” said Emily. “I always found something nice to say and stayed positive. Also, you can’t do this for money. They can’t pay you enough. Do it because you love children.”

Part of what makes fostering so difficult is the children’s mentality. They often come from broken homes and are very angry with the world. They often do not have any self-worth and do not value the things they are given. These kids do not just need a place to stay, they need a home and they need love.

“By loving them, they start to learn that they are worth something, “Emily said. “They need to know that somebody values them. That’s hard to do, but I hope to inspire others to do the same. It is so very needed.”

The challenges of fostering are great, but the reward is by far greater. For Emily, there were so many victories. “When they stop damaging things or when they come give you a hug. When they say I love you - that’s joy. When they tell their friends about something we did for them because they’re proud. When they show affection. When you see them graduate and find jobs,” Emily recalls. “Looking back, the good outweighs the bad. It was all worth it. I’m glad that we did it and I would do it all again.”

She has stayed connected with many of her foster kids who are now grown and on their own. They now have so much love and respect for her and call her ‘Grandma or Ma.’ One of her most challenging teens has since shared online that he “wishes he was still living with Mrs. Pinkney.” The kids that used to fight with the Pinkney’s own daughter are now her best friends. They will all reunite and talk about the things they have done together.

“When I die, I want to be remembered for the things I’ve done,” said Emily. When told how lucky her foster kids were to have her in their lives, Emily replied, “We were lucky to have them. They taught us unconditional love.”

By Donna Jefferson

Make Your Own Fairies

It’s hard not to love fairies. Here’s a quick and easy way to make your own fairies and not break the bank. Dollar Tree is our favorite craft supply store.

The following steps are for a fairy that kids will actually play with and include provisions to make the fairy more durable.

Step One. You’ll need to decide how you want your fairy to stand. If you are hanging her from a pot or some other object, turn the clothespin with the slit facing to the side and drill a small hole about ½ inch from her neck.

Step Two - Make Arms. Push the pipe cleaner through the hole. Trim the pipe cleaner to the desired length of her arms. Leave a little extra pipe cleaner so that you can fold it over making it look like she has hands plus it will keep the wire from poking anyone.

Step Three - Draw a Face. With the markers add two dots for her eyes and draw on a smile. We added some lines on the top of her head to help fill in her hair. Use a pencil to test mark the spots you want to make permanent.

Step Four - Add Hair. Make continuous loops of yarn for her hair. Make ten continuous loops about 1 ½ inches long each loop. Tightly tie the loops together in the middle. We even used a little of the wire to wrap around the loops to keep her bun from falling apart. With the glue gun, put a few drops of glue on the top of her head and then separate the strands apart so that you can firmly press the yarn down to the knot you created in the middle of the yarn. After the glue is dry you can decide if you want to keep the loops of hair, or cut the bottom loops so that they are individual strands of hair. Draw on a few more strands of hair with a marker if you like.

Step Five - Make Her Wings. Using a quarter of a sheet of foam paper, fold the paper in half, draw the shape of wings you want and then cut them out. Add a few drops of glue on the back of the fairy and press the wings onto the body. We threaded the fine wire through the wings and around her neck three times, so that it looks like she has a necklace. This helps hold the wings in place.

Step Six - Add Her Dress. Pick your favorite silk flower and take it apart by stripping the flower off of the stem. Keep the opening around the center of the flower as small as possible. You want a tight fit. Draw on the top of her dress. We like using a sweetheart neckline. Using two layers of petals, slide the petals from the bottom of the clothespin up to just underneath her arms. Add drops of glue around the top of the petals.

Step Seven - Bedazzling. Add glitter, or stick on jewels to some of the petals of her dress, and/or her wings. And then your fairy is ready to join the party.

FESTIVALS FAIRY U

nleash Your Imagination at Three Enchanting Fairy Festivals in Maryland

Experience a day full of magic and wonder for the whole family at fairy festivals in Maryland. These events are sure to delight all ages and take you on an unforgettable journey through enchanting worlds.

THE FAIRY & GNOME HOME FESTIVAL

Located at the Annmarie Sculpture Garden & Arts Center in Solomons, MD, invites you to dress up in your finest fairy attire and embark on a magical adventure. As you explore the park, you will discover over 150 fairy houses scattered throughout six unique worlds. You will also have the chance to collect gemstones for your magical wands, meet mystical characters, enjoy enchanting arts and crafts, and engage in imaginative play. Take a unicorn ride, encounter animals, and enjoy food and drink while you create unforgettable memories.

FAIRY HOUSE FESTIVAL

At Quiet Waters Park in Annapolis, MD, the Fairy House Festival invites you to discover original fairy houses created by local families. Take a stroll along the Holly Trail and discover the magic until the end of May. The festival kicks off with the Fairy Tea Party on May 6th, where master storyteller Katherine Haas will present a story in the Holly Pavilion. Costumes are welcome at this event. From May 6th-7th, the May Day Faerie Festival at the picturesque and tranquil Rocky Point Park will provide an opportunity for Spoutwood Farm and

Baltimore County to partner and share their appreciation for nature. The festival celebrates the wonder of the season and brings together a community of friends and fae.

Admission prices vary between the two events. The Fairy & Gnome Home Festival requires advance timed entry tickets for admission, priced at $8/ person ($10 at the gate if not sold out). Kids 2 and under have free admission, while members are also free. The event also requires advance timed-tickets for unicorn rides, priced at $10 ($12 at the event if not sold out). The Fairy House Festival at Quiet Waters Park requires a $6 fee to enter the park, with free entry to the Fairy Tea Party.

MAY DAY FAIRIE FESTIVAL

May 6 & 7, 10am-5pm.

Spoutwood Farm and Baltimore County are delighted to partner together again to present the 2023 May Day Faerie Festival at the picturesque and tranquil Rocky Point Park this year. While the Chesapeake Bay may be far from the rolling hills and fields of Spoutwood, the same water that flows through Spoutwood’s Pierceville Run eventually meets the Chesapeake Bay and touches Rocky Point. Connected by water, spirit, and mission, both Spoutwood Farm and Rocky Point exist to further an appreciation for the natural world and demonstrate our shared connection to the environment.

Rain or shine, these three fairy festivals offer a one-of-a-kind opportunity to unleash your imagination and step into a world of enchantment. Don't miss out on the magic and make unforgettable memories with your loved ones.

By Jillian Amodio

Talking To Children About Grief And Loss

Grief and loss can be heavy topics of discussion for any age. While these may not be pleasant topics of discussion, there are ways to navigate these conversations and support children to make these aspects of life more manageable.

Be Honest

Children are perceptive. They look to adults in their lives to support them and help them understand and navigate the world around them. It is only natural for parents and caregivers to want to shelter children from things that will cause them hurt or harm, but when it comes to the realities of death and dying, honesty is crucial.

If a loved one is sick or dying or if the loss of someone or something (such as a pet) has occurred or is imminent, children need to hear the truth in order

to process what is happening and begin to move through the natural grieving process. Hiding the truth, minimizing the situation, or using vague language or language that can be misinterpreted can cause more harm and confusion in the long run.

Children often fear what they do not know or what they do not understand. Being open and honest with children about the difficult aspects of life helps them to feel informed, seen, heard, and included in the events that are happening around them. Honesty builds trust as well and keeps the lines of communication open should they need to talk further or have any questions or concerns.

Marna Brickman, LCSW-C, is the owner of Guiding Therapy in Annapolis (www.guidingtherapy.com). When it comes to talking to children about the realities of death and dying, she says

“If there is a sick loved one or pet, you want to discuss their condition with them [children] before they die and let the children know what is happening. That they are likely going to die and what that means. Not that they’re “going away” or “resting.” But that they are going to die and that means that their body has stopped working.”

The same goes for using confusing language like “putting them to sleep” when it comes to explaining the euthanasia of a pet. Sleep does not mean death, so this can create issues such as confusion; a child thinking the pet might wake back up. Or it can create fear; a child thinks that if they fall asleep, they might never wake up.

Take Ages and Stages Into Consideration

As with any conversation, parents and caregivers should tailor their language and responses to the age and stage of

development to suit the needs of each child. Infants and toddlers might have very little understanding of what has occurred other than their surroundings have changed. Younger children might have trouble grasping the permanence of loss. And teenagers may grasp the reality and depth of the situation, but will still likely need extra emotional support.

Marna expands on this by saying “3-4-year-olds don’t understand that death is permanent. They have magical thinking and think the lost loved one is coming back.” She says that parents and caregivers can expect children of this age to cry more. Be clingy, and possibly experience some behavior regression.” She recommends keeping up with routines and talking openly about feelings. She says that for school-aged children who understand that death is permanent, it is natural for them to question what happens after death. She also says that these children might express fear that other people they love will die. “They will need a lot of reassurance. They will need to keep to a routine. And they will need their feelings acknowledged.” When it comes to teenagers, Marna says that they often want to be independent and come across as mature, but this does not change the fact that they are still grieving. “They may not want to share their feelings.” She says. “They will lean on their friends more, maybe play more video games, or become easily distracted. They may use humor or jokes to cover up their feelings.” She says that for this age it is important to maintain a balance, include them in what is happening, but also give them time and space to grieve in their own way.”

A common question that comes up when discussing the aftermath of death is what to do about funerals. Parents often question whether or not it is appropriate for a child to attend a funeral. This will largely depend on each child, their age, their thoughts on the matter, and the family’s beliefs as a whole. It is important to take into

account the child’s wishes. Do they want to attend? Are they unsure? Are they completely against going? Explore these questions as a family to decide what is best for everyone involved. If children do attend, it can be helpful to let them know what to expect ahead of time. Funerals and the processes surrounding death and dying do not have to be scary. Knowledge and understanding can be incredibly helpful in removing fear, anxiety, and uncertainty.

Regardless of age, children will need ongoing support. “Grief doesn’t go away. It will rear its ugly head as children experience life’s milestones and important events.” Marna says. When dealing with difficult life circumstances, it is important for parents and caregivers to remain aware of their own emotions and needs as well. Marna reminds anyone experiencing grief that “grief is the price we pay for the love we had/have for the person or pet we lost.”

When To Call A Professional

Grief and loss is not a linear process. There will be days when you feel like you are finally getting back on your feet and days where the loss feels so heavy that you can hardly move. Special days such as birthdays, anniversaries, milestones, etc. can trigger a flood of emotions year after year. For many people, the best healer will be time. Sometimes though, people need additional support from professionals to process grief. “If there are extreme reactions or low/depressed mood that doesn’t seem to be improving with time, or if kids start to self-harm or talk about not wanting to live, these are signs that their grief may be turning to depression.” Says Marna.

Other helpful resources to process grief and loss include:

• The Healing Library: Death Of A Loved One is available through the Anne Arundel County Public Library system. These kits include books, activities, and local resources to

process grief and loss.

• Hospice Of The Chesapeake: Offers support groups and workshops on topics such as sudden loss, pet loss, loss of a spouse, and support groups and art workshops for children who are grieving.

• Maryland Therapeutic Riding Workshop: Family Edition – Families are welcome to explore their grief in collaboration with Maryland Therapeutic Riding and their equine friends. Minimum age for children is 8. All activities will take place with feet on the ground, as there will be no riding of horses. No experience with horses necessary.

• A Phoenix Rising Workshop for children ages 6 to 18 is headed to the Calvert Marine Museum for a unique experience touring the museum and learning about the story of the Chesapeake Bay. Following the programming provided at the museum. It will take place from 11 a.m. to 1 p.m. June 10 at the museum at 14200 Solomons Island Road in Solomons, Maryland. The cost is $10. hospicechesapeake. org/events

• Camp Nabi Overnight Camp This camp experience will bring together children ages 6 to 18 from across our service area to participate in activities focused on memorializing loved ones who have passed away, learning coping skills in small groups, and utilizing integrative arts for expression. Traditional camp activities like swimming and ropes course will be included. It will be held from Aug. 4 to 6 at Arlington Echo Outdoor Education Center, 975 Indian Landing Road, Millersville, Maryland. The cost is $100, with scholarships available. A consult with a counselor is required before final approval can be given for attendance, so interested families should call Chesapeake Life Center to begin the process. hospicechesapeake.org

Explore Family-Friendly York, PA York Travel!

by Nancy Parode

When I first moved to Maryland, my entire experience of York, Pennsylvania (“York City” to locals) was driving by the York Barbell Company on I-83. Later, my cousin moved to York. My curiosity was piqued after I visited her and learned more about the places and activities she enjoys. From museums to shopping to parks and trails, York has something to offer every visitor.

York’s historic downtown, its importance as a center for industry and agriculture, and Yorkers’ determination to preserve their heritage make this southern Pennsylvania city an enjoyable destination for Marylanders. Even better, it’s 1.5 hours from Annapolis by car — perfect for a daytrip. Explore some of York City’s family-friendly spots on your next trip north.

York Central Market House

If you’re in York on a Tuesday, Thursday, or Saturday morning or early afternoon, stop by Central Market to find out what York’s local farmers, artisans, and entrepreneurs are up to. Grab a snack, buy farm specialty foods, and browse at vendor stands, all in a historic market space in the heart of York. The Explore York Visitor Center is located in Central Market. Pick

up some information about area attractions during your visit. (Tip: Central Market is also open on First Friday evenings.)

Colonial Complex

The York County History Center’s Colonial Complex in the heart of downtown includes three buildings that date back to the colonial and Revolutionary eras as well as a reproduction Court House. From April through October, visitors can take a guided tour of all four buildings. Continental Army General Horatio Gates rented the General Horatio Gates House during the Second Continental Congress’ 1777-1778 session in York. The adjacent Golden Plough Tavern is considered to be a rare and important York County building. The Barnett Bobb Log Cabin, built in 1811, originally stood a few blocks away. While the first York Court House no longer stands, the 1976 replica is faithful to the original building, which served as the country’s temporary capital during the Second Continental Congress.

Agricultural & Industrial Museum

Driving past York gives the impression that York County is a farming area. It is, but York County was an industrial hub for many years and is still home to some of the businesses that put the city on the manufacturing map. At the Agricultural

& Industrial Museum, you can learn about York’s many manufacturers. Even better, you can touch some of the artifacts, climb aboard a streetcar and try out an array of rotary dial telephones that actually call each other. (Don’t worry, instructions are provided.) Learn about the engines, safes, pottery, and animal crackers made by York’s entrepreneurs and get a glimpse of the manufacturing process at this familyfriendly museum. (Tip: Use the museum’s physical address, 217 W. Princess Street, not the museum’s name, to get driving directions.)

York County Heritage Rail Trail Park

This 21-mile rail trail connects to Maryland’s Torrey C. Brown Trail at the state line, giving you over 40 miles of trail to enjoy. The York County Heritage Rail Trail passes the Colonial Complex, so you can walk or bike from there if you wish. There are also several parking lots along the trail. Pets and horses are welcome. (Tip: The railroad tracks along the trail are active. Trains use them. Do not walk on the tracks.)

Weightlifting Hall of Fame and Museum

If you are into weightlifting or want to learn more about the history of this Olympic sport, this museum is a must. The entrance is inside of the York Barbell Company’s retail store. You’ll find exhibits on the history of weightlifting, an exhibit chronicling the life of Bob Hoffman, the “Father of World Weightlifting,” a colorful overview of Olympic weightlifting championships, and a collection of trophies and photographs. Kids can pose for photos next to Warren Lincoln Travis’ sevenfoot barbell, which he filled with sand and lifted during his strongman shows.

Perrydell Farm and Dairy

Calves to pet, dairy cows to see (and hear), a store filled with local treats, and ice cream — what better way to celebrate your visit to York than stopping at a farm and dairy? Children of all

ages (and their adults) enjoy petting the calves at this familyowned farm. You’ll see plenty of folks hanging out by the calf enclosures any day of the week. Order your ice cream cones at the store’s outside window or step inside to buy candy, whoopie pies, and ice cream to take home.

Richard M. Nixon County Park and Nature Center

Nixon Park, located eight miles south of York, offers six miles of trails that take you past meadow, forest, and wetlands habitats. The 14,000 square foot Nixon Park Nature Center is the centerpiece of this attractive park. Visitors can view live reptiles, dioramas, and insect collections. You’ll also find a children’s touch area with a puppet theater, a kid-friendly library with birdfeeder observation windows, and an observation deck. Spend some time in the Exploration Forest outdoor nature play area. Nature Center staff members offer special activities, such as nature walks, on most Sundays, April through October. (Tip: The Nature Center is a very popular field trip destination on April and May weekdays. Plan accordingly.)

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TONS OF FUN THINGS TO DO THIS MONTH

1 Monday

MAY DAY 2023

Annapolis, MD, Monday, May 1, 2023

Join in the fun! Free. 10 a.m. Downtown Annapolis, Annapolis. maydayinannapolis.com.

2 Tuesday

FOR THE LOVE OF BEES: POLLINATORS IN A CONNECTED WORLD WEBCASTS & ONLINE

Bees are nature's pollinating superheroes responsible for pollinating at least one third of the fruits and vegetables we eat. 12:30-1:30 p.m. National Museum of Natural History, Washington. naturalhistory.si.edu.

MR. PACA'S GARDEN STORYTIME: MAX CELEBRATES CINCO DE MAYO

In Max Celebrates Cinco de Mayo, Max is invited to a fiesta at his friend José's house. This holiday is a festive celebration of the heritage of Mexican American families. $5.00 - $10.00. 10 a.m. William Paca House and Garden, Annapolis. annapolis.org.

PLAY DATE AT NMNH: SPOTS & STRIPES

KIDS & FAMILIES

Join us on Tuesdays for special family play dates with museum educators! Tuesday, May 2 is about different patterns found in nature! Free. 10:30 a.m.-12 p.m. National Museum of Natural History, Washington. naturalhistory.si.edu.

STORYTIME SQUAD - HONORING ASIAN AMERICAN HERITAGE

https://www.calvertcountymd.gov/calendar. aspx?EID=13487 Harriet E. Brown Community Center, Prince Frederick. co.cal.md.us.

3 Wednesday

SHAKESPEARE IN THE PARK

May 3-4. Please join the Junior Acting Ensemble at the playground of Grace & St. Peter's Church, as they present scenes from Shakespeare. 6 p.m. Baltimore School for the Arts, Baltimore. bsfa.org.

4 Thursday

CREEK CRITTERS

MAY 5 - MAY 6, 2023 | 11:00 AM– 8:00 PM

The event features a wide range of flowers and plants for sale, including roses, azaleas, lilies, and more. In addition to the flower vendors, there are also food vendors, live music, and other family-friendly activities. Each year, a local high school student is selected as the Flower Queen and is crowned at the event. The coronation ceremony typically takes place on the Friday of the Flower Mart. Throughout the event, there are usually several demonstrations on flower arranging techniques, including how to create beautiful floral centerpieces and bouquets. There is typically a stage set up at the Flower Mart where local musicians perform a variety of genres, including jazz, classical, and pop. The Flower Mart features a variety of food vendors offering a range of snacks and meals, including sandwiches, hot dogs, funnel cakes, and more.

May 4, 11, 18, 25. Year-round observations of the wildlife in the creek and surrounding woodlands outside of Chesapeake Children's Museum. All ages are welcome. Ideal for preschoolers. $5.00. 10:30-11 a.m. The Chesapeake Children's Museum, Annapolis. theccm.org.

SPRING FESTIVAL @ ST. MARY'S FAIRGROUNDS

May 4-7. The whole family will be able to enjoy a carnival-like atmosphere at this event,

The Flower Mart at Mount Vernon

5 Friday

MOTHER’S DAY TEA CUP FLORAL ARRANGING CLASS

Join the Friends of the Rising Sun Inn for a MakeYour-Own Mother’s Day Tea Cup Floral Arrangement program on Friday, May 5, 2023, at 6:00 p.m. 7-9 p.m. Rising Sun Inn, Crownsville. chesapeakecrossroads.org.

10 Wednesday

MOM’S DAY FUN

https://www.calvertcountymd. gov/calendar.aspx?EID=13575

10:30-11:15 a.m. Southern Community Center, Lusby. co.cal.md.us.

SIP AND PAINT: MOTHER’S DAY

Celebrate a special person in your life as we relax and create artwork step-by-step while enjoying light refreshments. Art supplies provided. 5-6:30 p.m. Upper Marlboro. pgcmls.info.

12 Friday

MOM’S NIGHT OUT

We’re taking it up NEXT LEVEL with our next Mom’s Night Out and making it a full-on Mother’s Day Celebration Event! $10.00. 6:30-8:30 p.m. Libations, Millersville. eventbrite.com.

MOTHERHOOD (INSTRUCTIONS NOT INCLUDED)

Treat your mom to a night out! Laugh, cry, and commiserate along with soprano Rachel Sitomer and pianist Diane Kinsley as they share incrediblypersonal experiences of motherhood through story and song $25.00 - $120.00. 7:30-9:30 p.m. The Live Arts Studio, Annapolis. liveartsmd. ticketspice.com.

13 Saturday

MEMORIES 4 MOMMOTHER’S DAY DIY

9 a.m.-12 p.m. Harriet E. Brown Community Center, Prince Frederick. co.cal.md.us.

MOM’S DAY OUT FLOWE

Floral Designer Clare Stanton will be here teaching how to make flower arrangements you can take home with you. $25.00 per arrangement. 10:30 a.m.-1 p.m. Town Market, Leonardtown. tockify.com.

MOTHER’S DAY GIFTS/ CRAFT WORKSHOP

Ages 13-17 https://arts. pgparks.com/calendar. aspx?EID=22064 7-10 p.m. Kentland Community Center, Landover. pgparks.com.

MOTHER’S DAY MARKET

9 a.m.-2 p.m. Annmarie Sculpture Garden & Art Center, Dowell. annmariegarden.org.

MOTHER’S DAY PICNIC PHOTOSHOOT

Celebrate Mother’s Day by capturing memories. Meet Community 247 at Centennial Park Pavilion F for a picnic and complimentary 30-minute photoshoot session. Free. 12-7 p.m. Centennial Park, Pavilion F, Ellicott City.

MOTHER’S DAY TEA

Join us as we celebrate the 2nd Annual ‘Many Hats We Wear Luncheon’ Tea. Wear your favorite hat and a beautiful dress for a tea party you’ll never forget! Free. 1-4 p.m. Maryland Hall for the Creative Arts, Annapolis. marylandhall.org.

14 Sunday

MOTHER’S DAY CRUISE IN ANNAPOLIS

Treat the moms in your life to a lovely brunch cruise this Mother’s Day. Our luxury yacht, Catherine Marie, will take you out on the water for a 2-hour cruise with live music by Guava Jelly. $96.00. 10 a.m.-12 p.m. Annapolis City Dock, Annapolis. watermarkjourney.com.

ORION YOUTH ORCHESTRA

SPRING CONCERT

Special Mother’s Day concert by the Orion Youth Orchestra. 3pm. Maryland Hall.

complete with the typical carnival attractions, drinks, and refreshments. Leonardtown. visitstmarysmd.com.

5 Friday

FIRST FOSSIL FRIDAY!

Fossil hunters, bring your fossil finds from the Calvert Cliffs or other local areas from 1:00 p.m. - 4:30 p.m. to be identified! 1-4:30 p.m. Solomons. calvertmarinemuseum.com.

HALF-PRICE FRIDAY NIGHT

May 5, 12, 19, 26. Overview Friday is your night! $15.00 - $20.00. 5 p.m. National Aquarium, Baltimore. aqua.org.

6 Saturday

2023 MARYLAND SHEEP & WOOL FESTIVAL

May 6-7. Discover the beauty of sheep, the warmth of wool, and the delicious taste of lamb during a fun-filled weekend celebrating all things wool—from hoof to handwoven—at our 50th annual Festival! $10.00. 8:30 a.m.-6 p.m.

Howard County Fairgrounds, West Friendship. sheepandwool.org.

3RD ANNUAL WINE FESTIVAL

Sip some of the best wines from near and far at No Thyme to Cook’s Third Annual Wine Festival! $25.00 - $30.00. 11 a.m.-7 p.m. No Thyme to Cook, Solomons. simpletix.com.

BRIDAL FAIR

We are having our First Bridal Fair on Saturday, May 6th from 9am-6pm. Come and see what all our vendors have to offer for Engagements, Bridal Showers, Ceremony's, Receptions and Honeymoons!! 9 a.m.-6 p.m. California.

FAIRY HOUSE FESTIVAL

Original fairy houses created by local families will be displayed on the Holly Trail until the end of May. A Fairy Tea Party will kick off the festival. Free. 2-6 p.m. Quiet Waters Park, Annapolis. fqwp.org.

SHORELINE CLEANUP

Have fun along the water and make a difference by cleaning up our shoreline. Cleanup supplies will be provided. Bring a reusable water bottle, sunscreen, and close-toed shoes. Free. 9-11 a.m. Fort Smallwood Park, Pasadena. aacounty.org.

SOLOMONS MARITIME FESTIVAL

Celebrate Southern Maryland traditions! Antique boats and motors, cooking demonstrations, traditional music, toy boat building, and boat rides offer something for all members of the family! 10 a.m.-5 p.m. Calvert Marine Museum, Solomons. calvertmarinemuseum.com.

WEEKEND WORKSHOPS

May 6, 13, 20, 27. Calling all artists! Get creative during our drop-in workshops for all ages. Learn about artists and changemakers and create art inspired by their stories. Add to Calendar Free. 11:30 a.m.-3 p.m. National Portrait Gallery, Washington. npg.si.edu.

May Events

Every Thursday: 10:30 am

Creek Critters Nature Walk

Fridays, Art & Story Time

May 13, Outdoor Artists

Make art inspired by nature!

Pineapple Surprise Weekend:

May 20, Meki's Tamure Polynesian Arts

May 21, Prakriti Dance

Parenting Workshops on Zoom:

May 8: Dinosaurs Divorce

May 22: The Skin You Live In

Spring Membership

$40 unlimited visits for the whole family through June 30

theccm.org | 410.990.1993

25 Silopanna Road | Annapolis, MD 21403 info@theccm.org

THE WORLD AND ME FAMILY PROGRAM: AMPHIBIAN WEEK CELEBRATION WITH THE USDA FOREST SERVICE

Learn more about your place in the world through explorations of nature and culture. Come celebrate Amphibian Week with The World & Me! 10 a.m.-12:30 p.m. National Museum of Natural History, Washington. naturalhistory.si.edu.

7 Sunday

FIRST SUNDAY FARMER'S MARKET

At Honey’s Harvest Farm, we focus on growing food and medicine using the principles of permaculture and regenerative agriculture. We start by building healthy, living soil that is packed with a 10 a.m.-4 p.m. Honey's Harvest Farm, Lothian. honeysharvest.com.

8 Monday

SPRING BRASS CONCERT

Join us in person at The Clarice or watch the livestream from the comfort of your home. The UMD Brass Ensemble performs its semesterly brass concert. 8 p.m. The Clarice Smith Performing Arts Center, College Park. theclarice. umd.edu.

9 Tuesday

PLAY DATE AT NMNH: COLORFUL CORALS KIDS & FAMILIES

Join us on Tuesdays for special family play dates with museum educators! Tuesday, May 9th is all about exploring coral reefs! Free. 10:30 a.m.-12 p.m. National Museum of Natural History, Washington. naturalhistory.si.edu.

GET FIT MOBILE: KID'S DAY IN THE PARK Ages 2 & up https://pgparks.com/calendar. aspx?EID=21159 5-7 p.m. Kentland Community Center, Landover. pgparks.com.

HALF-PRICE FRIDAY NIGHT

May 12, 19, 26. Overview Friday is your night! $15.00 - $20.00. 5 p.m. National Aquarium,

MR. PACA'S GARDEN STORYTIME: MAMA

Mama Seeton's whistle to her family is heard throughout the neighborhood. Her children run home for dinner, chocolate cake, and kisses.

$5.00 - $10.00. 10 a.m. William Paca House and Garden, Annapolis. annapolis.org.

NIGHT AT THE MUSEUM FOR FRIENDS

https://www.calvertcountymd.gov/calendar.

aspx?EID=13584 5-7 p.m. Calvert Marine Museum, Solomons. co.cal.md.us.

PARENTS NIGHT OUT

Bring a swimsuit and towel. Activities include games, swimming, and movies. Drop-off begins at 4:45pm and children must be picked up by 7:45pm. $15.00 - $21.00. 4:45-7:45 p.m. Arundel Olympic Swim Center, Annapolis. bit.ly.

PRESCHOOLERS FITNESS FRIDAYS

https://www.calvertcountymd.gov/calendar. aspx?EID=13471 10-10:45 a.m. Northeast Community Center, Chesapeake Beach. co.cal. md.us.

TALES & TAILS AT IRVINE NATURE CENTER

Tales & Tails at Irvine Nature Center IS BACK! Free. 11 a.m.-12 p.m. Irvine Nature Center, Owings Mills. explorenature.org.

WINE VILLAGE IN BALTIMORE

The first annual Wine Village in Baltimore will transform the Inner Harbor into an authentic German Wine Village with a local and curated international wine selection. Free. 1-10 p.m. West Shore Park Inner Harbor, Baltimore. baltimore-wine.com.

WONDERPLACE

This learning space designed especially for children ages six and under combines age appropriate activities with museum collections and touchable objects to 10 a.m.-4 p.m. American History Museum, Washington. si.edu.

13 Saturday

ANNAPOLIS SYMPHONY ORCHESTRA: FAMILY CONCERT

Join the Annapolis Symphony Orchestra for a late morning of brilliant and engaging musical fun with guest artists Really Inventive Stuff and Jake Fewx on the tuba! 8 p.m. Maryland Hall for the Creative Arts, Annapolis. marylandhall.org.

BOOKS IN BLOOM

Books in Bloom, the region’s largest progressive book and literary festival, returns to Downtown Columbia for its seventh year on May 13. Free. 11 a.m.-5 p.m. Color Burst Park, Columbia. booksinbloommd.com.

CALVERT ARTS FESTIVAL

Sample the best wines and craft beers from Southern Maryland makers at 17th Calvert Arts Festival Saturday, 13 May, 10 AM – 5 PM at All Saints' Episcopal Church. Free. 10 a.m.-5 p.m. All Saints' Episcopal Church, Sunderland. allsaints1692.org.

CHESAPEAKE GARDEN CLUB PLANT

SALE AND Q&A

Beautiful plants and arrangements just in time for spring and Mother's Day! As you buy your selections you can also have your garden questions answered by a Master Gardener (Q&A starts at 11am). 9:30 a.m.-2:30 p.m. Fairview Branch - Large Room, Prince Frederick. calvertlibrary.libnet.info.

FRIENDS & FAMILY FUN DAY

This fantastic friends and family fun day features: Catering by Pit Boys of Annapolis *Menu: Pit Beef, Pit Ham, Pit Turkey, Rolls and Sauces, Creamy Cole Slaw, Potato Salad, Corn on the Cob, $0.00 - $25.00. 12-4 p.m. Mayo Beach Park, Edgewater. providencecenter.com.

SPRING FEST!

What better way to celebrate spring than joining us on May 13th. Enjoy your Saturday in the great outdoors on our beautiful Hard Bargain Farm environmental campus. $5.00 - $10.00. 11 a.m.-4 p.m. Alice Ferguson Foundation, Accokeek. eventbrite.com.

SPRING SHINE FESTIVAL AT SOUTHERN

TRAIL DISTILLERY

On the premises of the original Southern Trail Distillery, explore a unique market while sipping specialty cocktails, shopping, eating regional cuisine, and listen to live music in the red music Free. 11 a.m.-5 p.m. 27227 Morganza Turner Road, Mechanicsville. visitstmarysmd.com.

14 Sunday

HANDS-ON HISTORY DAY

Visit the Museum of Historic Annapolis on the second Sunday of every month for Hands-On History Days. $0.00 - $5.00. 10 a.m.-2 p.m. Museum of Historic Annapolis, Annapolis. annapolis.org.

SENSORY FRIENDLY MORNING

Port Discovery’s Sensory Friendly Mornings provide Museum access to families who would benefit from a sensory friendly experience and quieter setting at Port Discovery two hours before opening to the $21.95. 9-11 a.m. Port Discovery Children's Museum, Baltimore. cli.re.

15 Monday

HICKORY RIDGE BUTTERFLY STORY TIME

Free to attend and everyone is welcome! Enjoy crafts, stories and tasty treats!! Please rsvp to events@hickoryridgevillage.org 10-11 a.m. The Hawthorn Center, Columbia.

OUTDOOR STORYTIME AT POINT

LOOKOUT STATE PARK

Stories, songs, and activities for children with their adult caregivers, outdoors at Point Lookout State Park. Siblings welcome; please register once per family group. Where: Point Lookout State Park, Leonardtown. stmalib.org.

16 Tuesday

BUTTERFLY, THE STORY OF A LIFE CYCLE

A wondrous view into the insect world seen on the big stage! $9.00. 10:15 a.m. Bowie

Center for the Performing Arts, Bowie. experienceprincegeorges.com.

PLAY DATE AT NMNH: LIGHTS OUT! KIDS & FAMILIES

Join us on Tuesdays for special family play dates with museum educators! Tuesday, May 16th is all about our newest exhibit, Lights Out! Free. 10:30 a.m.-12 p.m. National Museum of Natural History, Washington. naturalhistory. si.edu.

17 Wednesday

$5 COMMUNITY DAY

Enjoy play, learning and family fun for just $5 per person during Port Discovery's $5 Community Day on May 17th. $5.00. 10 a.m.5 p.m. Port Discovery Children's Museum, Baltimore. cli.re.

18 Thursday

CREEK CRITTERS

Year-round observations of the wildlife in the creek and surrounding woodlands outside of Chesapeake Children's Museum. All ages are welcome. Ideal for preschoolers. $5.00. 10:3011 a.m. The Chesapeake Children's Museum, Annapolis. theccm.org.

20 Saturday

ANNAPOLIS FOOD TRUCK FESTIVAL

Details coming! Annapolis. bandsintown.com.

FAMILY FUN DAY

Explore the museum and participate in an activity and demonstrations at 11:30am and 1pm with paid admission. $3.00 - $6.00. 11 a.m.-3 p.m. Glenn L Martin Maryland Aviation

Museum, Middle River. mdairmuseum.org.

21 Sunday

2023 WALK FOR THE ANIMALS

THIS YEAR MARKS THE SPCA OF ANNE ARUNDEL COUNTY’S 103RD YEAR of serving homeless animals in our community, an achievement we could not attain without you. Free. 9 a.m.-12 p.m. Quiet Waters Park, Annapolis. aacspcawalkfortheanimals.com.

FAIRY & GNOME HOME FESTIVAL

Free. 11 a.m.-4 p.m. Annmarie Sculpture Garden & Art Center, Dowell. annmariegarden.org.

22 Monday

TR TOTS SWIM TIME

https://www.calvertcountymd.gov/calendar. aspx?EID=13599 9-9:45 a.m. Edward T. Hall Aquatic Center 130 Auto Drive, Prince Frederick. co.cal.md.us.

23 Tuesday

PLAY DATE AT NMNH: MARVELOUS METEORITES KIDS & FAMILIES

Join us on Tuesdays for special family play dates with museum educators! Tuesday, May

23rd, is all about exploring the colors, shapes, and textures of objects out in space! Free. 10:30 a.m.-12 p.m. National Museum of Natural History, Washington. naturalhistory.si.edu.

WORLD TURTLE DAY

There’s something fascinating about these shelled creatures. Find out more about the 19 species native to Maryland. Annapolis. annapolisgreen.com.

24 Wednesday

VIRTUAL YOUNG PORTRAIT EXPLORERS

Join our interactive virtual workshop for children ages 3-6 and their adult companions to explore portraiture, history, and culture. Free. 11-11:30 a.m. National Portrait Gallery, Washington. npg. si.edu.

26 Friday

MEMORIAL DAY…ORIGINALLY CALLED DECORATION DAY

Ages 13-17 https://arts.pgparks.com/calendar. aspx?EID=22070 7-10 p.m. South Bowie Community Center, Bowie. pgparks.com.

OUTDOOR MOVIES IN THE PARK

Bring the family and have a picnic while you watch the movie Yogi Bear on the big screen outdoors. Free popcorn. Free. 7-9 p.m. Quiet Waters Park, Annapolis. aacounty.org.

SNEAK PEEK-THE JIM HENSON EXHIBITION: IMAGINATION UNLIMITED WITH MARYLAND PUBLIC TELEVISION

The Maryland Center of History and Culture and Maryland Public Television are teaming up to bring our members a private sneak peek of our newest exhibition opening today, The Jim Henson Exhibition: 5-8 p.m. Maryland Historical Society, Baltimore. mdhistory.org.

27 Saturday

OUTDOOR STORYTIME AT HISTORIC ST. MARY'S CITY

This activity will take place on the State House lawn, which is a grassy area. Participants should park at the State House parking area and follow the signs to storytime. Where: Historic St. Mary's City, Leonardtown. stmalib.org.

28 Sunday

JILLIAN MATUNDAN

Excited to be back at the Maryland Zoo for a

wonderful event! Join me on Sunday, May 28 from 1-2:30 in the VIP area in the Maryland Wilderness. It's going to be a ton of fun! 1 p.m. The Maryland Zoo in Baltimore, Baltimore. bandsintown.com.

MEMORIAL DAY WEEKEND PADDLE

Start off the summer season with a splash! Explore the marshes of Otter Point Creek as we look for migratory birds, marsh wildflowers and other marsh critters that call Otter Point Creek home. $13.50 - $15.00. 1-3:30 p.m. Anita C. Leight Estuary Center, Abingdon. otterpointcreek.org.

NATIONAL MEMORIAL DAY CHORAL FESTIVAL

Music Celebrations International partners with The United States Air Force and the American Veteran's Center to present the 12th Annual Memorial Day Choral Festival. 3 p.m. Kennedy Center, Washington. kennedy-center.org.

29 Monday

CHESAPEAKE CHILDREN'S MUSEUM IS OPEN!

Indoor and outdoor exhibits about animals, Latin America, radio, the 1918 pandemic, and

more. Explore the East Trail to see wetlands and creek wildlife. Explore the West Trail to find the Truck Pit! $1.00 - $8.00. 10 a.m.-4 p.m. The Chesapeake Children's Museum, Annapolis. theccm.org.

MEMORIAL DAY WREATH-LAYING CEREMONY

Please join the Navy Memorial for a Memorial Day Wreath-Laying Ceremony in honor and memory of those who made the ultimate sacrifice in service to our country. This event will feature the U.S. 1-2 p.m. Navy Memorial, Washington. navymemorial.org.

30 Tuesday

PLAY DATE AT NMNH: BEGUILING BIRDS KIDS & FAMILIES

Join us on Tuesdays for special family play dates with museum educators! Tuesday, May 30th is all about birds! Free. 10:30 a.m.-12 p.m. National Museum of Natural History, Washington. naturalhistory.si.edu.

For even more events and up-to-date information visit us online at ChesapeakeFamily.com.