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ON THE COVER 25 Unconventional Callings: Songstress Divine Brown, knight Sean Delaney, herbalist Evelyn Dorfman, advocates Jared and Dana Florence and Olympic gold medalist Rosie MacLennan answer out-of-the-ordinary calls to bring wonderful to this world

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64 Opening Doors: Toronto city councillor Kristyn Wong-Tam tells us why Bill Buss didn’t have to die HEALTH 20 Let’s Get Physical: Movember CEO Adam Garone continues to raise awareness on men’s health 56 Free Spirit: Peace of mind from meditation doesn’t come at a price 62 The Butterfly on the Frame: A mother’s journey after losing her son TECHNOLOGY 65 Appademia: Get ready for class with kid-friendly apps REAL ESTATE 59 On the Home Front: From the quaint village of Kleinburg to the Bridle Path of Thornhill, feather your next nest in supreme comfort AUTOMOTIVE 50 Ford Focus Electric: The American automotive manufacturer takes an eco-conscious stride with its first fully electric car IN EVERY ISSUE 12 Publisher’s Note 14 Editor’s Note 16 People & Places 55 Readers’ Survey: Lucky readers can take home these great prizes

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PUBLISHER’S NOTE

“YOU HAVE SO MANY CHAIRS …

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ccording to my husband, our house is full of chairs yet I never sit down. I will say that if there is one piece of furniture I adore, it’s a chair. I think the interpretation behind my attraction is that they symbolize a place to rest, a place to immerse in simple pleasures such as reading a good book, or just reflect about life. Sometimes, with our busy and hectic lifestyles, to be able to do just that is what one should be grateful for.

This October 10th is World Mental Health Day, with a focus on the global crisis of depression. I hope this day reminds us that we all need to raise awareness on mental health issues so that families never have to experience a tragedy such as the one endured by the Cavaliere family (see story on p. 62). Vaughan resident Francesca Cavaliere is a brave and inspirational woman. The first-time author has lived through the reality of losing a son to suicide due to depression. We hope that you will be inspired to do more for mental health — even a small gesture like purchasing a copy of Cavaliere’s book, Wish You Were Here, will help. A portion of proceeds from book sales will be donated to the Suicide Studies Research Unit, the Mental Health Service, at St. Michael’s Hospital in Toronto.

Life is too precious and beautiful. A celebration of how vibrant and exciting it can be is reflected throughout this entire issue, from colour-filled Mercedes-Benz Fashion Week (p. 46) to the electric personality of Daily Planet’s co-host Ziya Tong (p. 52) and Love It or List It Vancouver host Jillian Harris’s zest for love and décor (p. 60). Just remember to find yourself a comfortable chair to curl up in!

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EDITOR’S NOTE

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rying to figure out who you are and what your place is in the world is a process that can weigh heavily upon your shoulders. The added pressures found at school and work or moving into a new community only add a challenging spin to what may seem an already overwhelming existence.

Considering all of this, what if we took a moment to drink the words of George Bernard Shaw, who once said: “Life isn’t about finding yourself. Life is about creating yourself.” So exactly how do we go about doing that?

INTRODUCING THIS ISSUE’S

GUEST EDITORS Bringing you heartfelt stories on philanthropy, community and health, these compassionate contributing editors have human interest at the core ADAM GARONE HEALTH The man behind the Movember movement gets real with City Life readers. As co-founder and CEO of the raging moustache campaign that’s been raising awareness for prostate cancer and other men’s health initiatives, contributing health editor Adam Garone gives us good reason to befriend our doctors. See “Let’s Get Physical” (p. 20) to get motivated.

Start by flipping to p. 25, where “Unconventional Callings,” our cover story, features a collection of eclectic individuals with nothing in common except one thing: they designed who they were to be. They leapt when hurled a challenge; they wept when celebrating a milestone. And above all else, they answered the call without waiting for the phone to ring. Of course there are moments when a person such as Olympic gold medallist Rosie MacLennan (p. 32) may encounter challenges, but she, like many others, has that gift of turning the baffling into something beautiful. This is something that defines the life of Vaughan resident Francesca Cavaliere. While the profundity of losing her son to suicide (see story on p. 62) made the day-to-day unbearable, she turned loss into lesson by writing a book that she hopes will raise awareness and prevention.

W. BRETT WILSON PHILANTHROPY

Maybe we aren’t just the unequal pieces of the grand scheme of life’s puzzle. Maybe we are the puzzle. And maybe it’s not about fitting in, but of shaping ourselves.

Not many people recognize the name Bill Buss. Not many would have recognized his face, either. Toronto councillor Kristyn Wong-Tam has a problem with that, and she’s doing everything she can to fight for affordable housing so that no more lives are lost on the street. “Opening Doors” (p. 64) introduces us to a late, great neighbour, and why his legacy is so significant.

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We all know W. Brett Wilson means business, but what’s even more meaningful to the Calgary tycoon is the beating heart that drives his work. In “Measure of Success” (p. 22), Wilson goes deep to deliver an insightful message about material goals versus family, friendship and health.

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1. PARALYMPICS Inspiring people around the world, athletes with disabilities made a splash at the London 2012 Paralympic Games from August 29 until September 9, 2012. Seven gold, 15 silver and 9 bronze medals were awarded to the Canadian athletes, for a total of 31 medals.

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2. MAPLE AUTO MALL GRAND OPENING On Aug. 18, 2012, Zanchin Automotive Group officially unveiled Maple Auto Mall − the latest addition to its group of 27 premier dealerships. Festivities kicked off with a ribbon-cutting ceremony hosted by Mary Garofalo, correspondent for CTV. Guests enjoyed finger-licking barbecue, courtesy of the Knights of Columbus, and delicious Italian food from Rome’n Chariot. www.zanchinauto.com

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4. PREMIER ANTIQUE SHOW In its third year, the Premier Antique Show at the Metro Toronto Convention Centre continues to blow vintage lovers away. Antique dealers from across Ontario and Quebec are coming together on October 26, 27 and 28 to feature decorative arts, furniture, porcelains, clocks, pottery, fine jewelry and more. www.heritageantiqueshows.com www.citylifemagazine.ca

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7. GRAND PALACE On Sept. 24, 2012, a groundbreaking ceremony marked the beginning of construction for a brand new Guizzetti development. The much-anticipated Grand Palace Condominiums is underway, bringing excitement to future residents in the heart of Richmond Hill. The three 15-storey buildings will include over 500 units and many luxury amenities, welcoming tenants in the summer of 2014. www.grandpalace.ca

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8. ROCK ’N BOOBS On Thursday, Aug. 23, 2012, WEGZ Stadium Bar in Vaughan rocked out in the colour pink during Rock ’N Boobs, a Plan B Promotions event. Guests enjoyed live rock music delicious food and pink cocktails while showing their support and raising funds for the Breast Cancer Society of Canada. www.bcsc.ca

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6a. Actress America Ferrera, actor Michael Peña, director David Ayer, actor Jake Gyllenhaal and actress Anna Kendrick attend the Grey Goose Vodka party for the End of Watch at Soho House Toronto

6b. Director David O. Russell and actor Bradley Cooper attend The Weinstein Company film premiere party hosted by Grey Goose for Silver Linings Playbook at Soho House Toronto 7. The beautiful rendering of Grand Palace Condominiums attracts future residents

8b. Girls Night Out supports a great cause for breast cancer awareness

9a. Enthusiastic parents and children enjoy a cider-making demonstration

6. TIFF Toronto welcomed A-list celebrities and a paparazzi buzz this past September for the Toronto International Film Festival (TIFF).

The casts of End of Watch, Looper and Silver Linings Playbook were spotted celebrating the premieres of their films at Soho House Toronto.

Bruce Willis, Emily Blunt, Joseph Gordon-Levitt, Bradley Cooper and Jennifer Lawrence were among the famous faces seen at this prominent private members’ club. www.tiff.net

VAUGHAN PARKING PERMITS We all know how hard it is to find affordable, overnight parking in a bustling city.

As Vaughan continues to blossom, such downtown issues are beginning to move north. However, Vaughan has once again proved to be a city dedicated to its community. Since this past August, free overnight parking passes have been available by simply applying online. “This new service is all about ease and accessibility,” says Mayor Maurizio Bevilacqua. “As a growing city, we’re committed to providing residents with innovative solutions.”

For more information or to submit an application for a free overnight parking permit, visit www.vaughan.ca

9b. Children pick fresh apples from Spadina’s rich apple orchard

9. CITY CIDER On Sept. 16, 2012, families came together for an annual event at the Spadina Museum. In support of the local food movement, the City Cider event with Not Far From The Tree featured fresh food, live arts, crafts, and more.

Participants also learned how to properly pick apples and make delicious cider at Spadina’s orchard. www.notfarfromthetree.org www.citylifemagazine.ca

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SKIN CANCER: I’m from Australia and live in California. Spending a lot of time in the sun makes it important for me to be aware of any changes on my skin. My doctor takes pictures of moles we need to monitor so we can see any changes over time. And I can still spend time in the sun when I get the chance.

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PROSTATE CANCER SCREENING: I had my first Prostate-Specific Antigen (PSA) test a year ago. To me, it’s important to have that baseline so that year over year we can monitor and make sure it’s in check. It’s a simple blood test. Contrary to what you might have heard, this is a pants-on screening.

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The dreaded annual checkup. It’s something a lot of guys think about but often don’t make the time to do it. Getting an annual check and preventative screening tests are among the most important things you can do to stay healthy.

Think of it as a car tune-up. Would you let your dream car go longer than a year without maintenance? Probably not. You shouldn’t let your body go that long without one, either.

To help debunk any mysteries about the annual checkup and make it a little less scary, I thought I’d share my own experience with you. And just to add an extra element of dread, mine was filmed to share with Movember fans across the world. And posted to YouTube. You might think I’m joking, but I’m not.

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Well, it’s that time of year again when Movember is upon us and, in addition to growing a moustache, it’s when we focus on men’s health, a time for public and private conversations on the health risks men face. It’s also a reminder to schedule your annual physical.

TESTICULAR CANCER SCREENING: This is where you drop your pants and cough.

Insert many funny jokes here. It’s a little cold, and perhaps slightly awkward, but in the grand scheme of things, not all that bad.

To make it easy to remember, I schedule my checkup every Movember (a portmanteau word of November and moustache). It’s a good idea to pick a time that works for you and make a habit of it. I’ve just entered my 40s, so for me, my yearly exam includes: A PHYSICAL EXAM: Height, weight, blood pressure. Thankfully, I’m always the same height and my weight is usually in the same vicinity. For me, blood pressure has never been an issue, but it’s really important to check as it is impacted by diet and lifestyle.

ROUTINE BLOOD WORK, INCLUDING A CHOLESTEROL TEST: A few years ago, my cholesterol levels were slightly elevated, so we now check it annually. My doctor advised to adjust my diet and increase my physical activity in order to keep it in check. Now I watch my fat intake as much as I can and try to cycle or run three to four times a week.

EYE HEALTH: A vision test to check for eye conditions and glaucoma. Just like when you get your driver’s license. I passed.

• EDUCATE YOURSELF: Each decade of your life brings new health concerns.

Knowledge is power and equipping yourself with the facts to know what to ask your physician is important.

• KNOW YOUR FAMILY HISTORY: Make sure your physician is up-to-date on any hereditary family conditions that you should be monitored for.

• GET THE RESULTS: Make sure you get the results of any tests and work with your physician on an action plan to maintain your fine-tuned status.

• BOOK ANNUALLY: Make your checkup a yearly event each Movember. Stay on top of your game — don’t wait until you get sick to visit your doc.

What are you waiting for? Man up.

Go ahead and book it. Mo on!

ADAM GARONE GUEST MEN’S HEALTH EDITOR It’s because of Adam Garone that every November the world gets growing for a movement driven to improve men’s health. As CEO and co-founder of Movember, Garone has encouraged moustache-sporting advocates to raise more than $178 million to change the face of men’s health. In 2008, he was named Ernst & Young’s Entrepreneur of the Year in Australia. @adamgarone ca.movember.com

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MEASURE OF SUCCESS Photo By Heather Fritz Photography

W. Brett Wilson turns over a new leaf in Redefining Success Written By W. Brett Wilson

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Th e idea of GNH captured my imagination while I was travelling through Bhutan last summer as it’s in such sharp contrast to our traditional Western thinking. We tend to measure success against material goals rather than focusing on what we really value.

My own story is a familiar one: I spent years working around the clock in pursuit of “success.” My singleminded pursuit of wealth and power got me what I thought I wanted, but I eventually lost what really mattered to me. I was facing cancer, a failing marriage and barely-there relationships with my kids. That’s why I actively encourage people to think hard about how they truly define success.

I’ve come to realize that if you measure success based on pursuit of that big bank account, nice house and corner office, you might find the end result somewhat hollow. But if you measure success based on real wealth — family time, friendships and your own health — you might suddenly

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ecades ago, the Bhutanese government developed the concept of Gross National Happiness (GNH), which measures the vitality and well-being of its population and encourages economic growth balanced by other priorities, such as the country’s spiritual values.

begin to feel much richer than you thought possible.

Material wealth still left me with the vague feeling that I had the capacity for something more — and “more” didn’t mean more deals. One of the best ways I know to find real and lasting significance in life is to enrich the lives of others. Ironically, I now spend almost as much time giving money away as I did earning it.

Over the years I have helped with numerous events that have raised tens of millions of dollars for worthy causes. I have invited groups of friends and their children with me to build houses in northern Mexico through a program organized by Youth With A Mission. I’ve already made the trip nine times — the last trip was in September

2011 — with a group of 63 people.

Together, we built three homes over a weekend. In addition to the impact we have on the Mexican families we support, it’s a powerful time of team bonding and personal growth for all participants.

It really is impossible to give without receiving much more in return. Making this journey multiple times has been an incredible opportunity in my life, and the lives of my friends, partners and children. I would urge everyone to take the time to experience the impact of this kind of work. At some point in your life, get together with friends committed to making a difference, and go to any corner of your world that needs help.

Build a home. Bring some supplies.

Teach a skill. Do anything. You may not be able to help everyone, but often the smallest thing you can do will still make a big difference in the life of someone.

And that is one of the best ways I know to measure your success.

W. BRETT WILSON GUEST PHILANTHROPY EDITOR W. Brett Wilson is one of Canada’s most successful businessmen and innovative philanthropists. His book, Redefining Success, is available this November from Penguin Books. @WBrettWilson www.WBrettWilson.ca

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Canadian R&B singer Divine Brown returns after a three-year hiatus with her third album, Something Fresh.

From a coroner’s uncommon career path, to a family’s relentless crusade for a cure, and a trampolinist’s trek to the top, these inspiring individuals give us good reason to listen carefully to our callings, despite how unconventional they may be

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After a three-year hiatus, Canadian R&B singer Divine Brown returns to the spotlight with her hip-swaying blast from the past, “Gone.” Its infectious hook — “I’m Gone!”

— accented by the ba-dant-dun-da-dant of bellowing horns, set to the steady rhythm of underlying keys and choir-like harmonies, transports you back to the vinyl-spinning, radio-rocking days of 1960-something.

This first single comes on the cusp of her third album, Something Fresh, slated for release in early November. She describes the album — produced by Woodbridge-natives the Rezza Brothers — as a more sophisticated amalgamation of her first two, Divine Brown, which mixed soul and R&B with a touch of jazz, and The Love Chronicles, which won her a Juno in 2009.

After experimenting and recording for the last few years, the timing felt right to make her return. “I want to just find a comfortable medium between R&B, soul and pop,” she says of her new record’s sound. Because, “That’s who I am.”

While “Gone” belts out a tune of parting from a love gone wrong, Brown’s soulful vocals are back, and it feels so right.

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UNCONVENTIONAL CALLINGS remember when you’re playing your role is to always be aware and to be performing in the moment, because of the inherent danger in what we do.” Training at Medieval Times six to seven days a week, Delaney also stays active outside of his role and perfects his fighting skills with karate, tai chi, aikido and jujitsu.

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ONE OF THE THINGS THAT I LOVE ABOUT PERFORMING IS THAT EVERY DAY I’M GIVEN THE CHANCE TO TAKE PEOPLE OUT OF THE HUMDRUM OF THEIR DAILY LIVES

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Ever since Grade 10 drama class, Delaney knew he was passionate about performing. “I liked working on plays and just entertaining others.” With

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this same motivation, Delaney went on to study theatre in university and is now head knight at Medieval Times.

“One of the things that I love about performing is that every day I’m given the chance to take people out of the humdrum of their daily lives,” says the 35-year-old actor.

When Delaney steps into his costume he embodies a fearless character and is ready to take risks within his role. The falling, fighting and horse riding that occurs every day inside the Medieval Times castle encompasses a career that is anything but lacklustre. “I think one of the most important things to

A strong exterior continues to land Delaney the role of antagonist. “I’m more believable as the bad guy,” he says without hesitation. Throughout his eight and a half years as a knight, he has perfected this alter ego. But behind the intimidating Medieval Times persona is an experienced actor who isn’t afraid of his real side — his “good guy” side.

Delaney describes his parents as his role models and his wedding day as the best time in his life. He holds family close to his heart, and defines the phrase “a knight in shining armour.” www.medievaltimes.com www.citylifemagazine.ca

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hen we were children, we looked at the world with enchantment in our eyes. We wore gowns, crowns and capes and imagined ourselves as pretty princesses and noble knights. Now, years later, we have traded those imaginations for steady jobs and serious-looking suits.

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UNCONVENTIONAL CALLINGS

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1. Evelyn Dorfman of Thuna Herbals stands behind her expansive herb collection.

3 Among her favourites are yarrow flower and Siberian ginseng. 2. A picture of Dorfman’s grandfather, founder Max Harriman Thuna, is mounted high at the helm of the store. 3. Dorfman and herbalist Roger Lewis are the driving force of this vintage shop on 298 Danforth Avenue, Toronto. 4. Thuna founded the family’s herbal brand on Queen West in the late 1800s. 5. Sticking to the tried-and-true, Dorfman weighs her herbs on an old, familiar scale

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I WAS LOOKING FOR SOMETHING THAT SATISFIED ME Surviving a depression, recessions and the backlash of an evolving medical body were feats Dorfman’s grandfather and late parents, Sal Pasen and Gertrude Agusta Thuna, accomplished while carrying the family’s niche business through changing economic and ideological landscapes. “The people who ran the store were dynamic and

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enthusiastic about what they were doing, and that was because they saw good results, good things were happening with the people who came in looking for help. So that was the main reason why it survived,” says Dorfman.

“It wasn’t permitted not to survive.” Her voice has a rich, listen-to-me quality and her spirit is effervescent. Of all the lessons she’s learned from her parents about business and life, there’s one that’s especially memorable. “Love,” she says, taking a long pause. “I think that was what I got from them. I can’t think of any verbiage in particular, but I was very much loved.”

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Thuna planted the first seeds of his nearly 125-year-old legacy at a small shop on Queen Street West in 1888.

The former storefront was, at the time, swathed in block-lettered promises of herbal remedies — something Dorfman says wouldn’t be acceptable today. “My first memory of Dr. Thuna was when I was about two or three years old and I visited him in his store. He was sitting at a desk and he smiled at me,” says

Dorfman, who went on to pursue a successful singing career before studying herbalism and taking over the Danforth store. “I was looking for something that satisfied me at that time and I always loved this place.”

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I still feel his presence here all the time,” says Evelyn Dorfman. The petite, moxie brunette is staring at an oval-shaped frame featuring her late grandfather Max Harriman Thuna, founder of the famed family business she’s been running for the last 24 years. “He listens to the various conversations here, there’s a vitality to him,” she adds of the patriarch she barely knew. The intimate Danforth Avenue store, that’s redolent of the past and lined with more than 1,500 vintage apothecary jars, is perhaps better known for its history than its herbs.

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UNCONVENTIONAL CALLINGS

Theand Florences the Machine INSPIRED BY THEIR TRIPLETS’ CONDITIONS, DANA AND JARED FLORENCE ARE TAKING ACTION AGAINST NEUROLOGICAL DISORDERS IN CHILDREN Written By Amanda Storey

But for Dana and Jared Florence, the parents of darling four-year-old triplets Taylor, Brody and Cole, the heartbreaking reality of CP in their family opened the door to an opportunity that has impacted countless families struggling with the same circumstance.

“I don’t want to sit here and pretend it wasn’t difficult,” Dana recalls of the dizzying day when their triplets were diagnosed. “There were a lot of tears and a lot of anger and a lot of really difficult emotions. But we quickly decided that we were going to do everything we can for our kids.”

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earning that your child suffers from cerebral palsy (CP) is a powerful blow, weighty enough that most families barely have the strength to weather it. Now imagine being told that all three of your children will struggle with this condition for the rest of their lives; the very thought causes any parent strain.

Emerging from the experience with this positive perspective, the Florences decided to take action. With this vision in mind, Three to Be, a charity focused on amplifying research, care and treatment options for kids with neurological disorders, was born.

Fast-forward two years: Three to Be is now a smash success, having raised over $1.5 million for organizations such as The Hospital for Sick Children,

At Three to Be’s third annual Stems of Hope Gala, titled Heroes Among Us, guests were treated to performances by hip-hop heroes Naughty By Nature, Young MC, Rob Base, and Master Gee and Wonder Mike from the original Sugarhill Gang. Funds raised will benefit stem cell research at SickKids Hospital, Bloorview School’s communication lab, as well as the Academy of Conductive Education for Children with motor impairment at the March of Dimes.

At the end of the day, Dana and Jared return to a home full of smiling faces, which, for them, is the ultimate purpose for Three to Be: sharing their optimism and hope with other families faced with the same obstacle. “They’re going through this together,” Dana says of her kids — the siblings who inspired it all.

“I hope one day … they’ll understand [that] with everything that they’ve been through, they’ve inspired something that’s really powerful.” www.threetobe.org www.citylifemagazine.ca

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The Florence family is head over heels in smiles. From left to right: Cole, Brody and Taylor with parents Jared and Dana.

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Rosie MacLennan shows off her moves at Skyriders Trampoline Place in Richmond Hill.

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the Limit EVEN AFTER EARNING CANADA’S ONLY GOLD MEDAL, ROSIE MacLENNAN STILL MANAGES TO KEEP HER FEET ON THE GROUND Written By Michael Hill

cutthroat Americans no doubt roused patriotism and newfound admiration for the beautiful game, but you’re the gold medalist. No other Canuck stood atop the podium; that must be a great feeling?

“It’s obviously something I’m really proud of,” says the King City native, “but at the same time there’s a lot more to celebrate than gold medals.”

IT’S OBVIOUSLY SOMETHING I’M REALLY PROUD OF, BUT AT THE SAME TIME THERE’S A LOT MORE TO CELEBRATE THAN GOLD MEDALS

“Yeah, but I think as a kid, even watching the athletes that don’t get a medal you can learn a lot.”

Well, sure, inspirational efforts were abound at the 30th Games. Our women’s soccer team, for one, bouncing back and capturing bronze after a controversial heartbreaker to the

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Of course, such as how your victory could spark grassroots enthusiasm, encouraging a new wave of fledgling trampolinists to enrol in this relatively unsung sport, boosting local economies and laying the foundation for future Olympians?

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Yes, it’s exciting, she says, but the stories behind other athletes are as, if not more, stirring. One memory in particular leaps to mind. MacLennan reminisces about youthful days on the water learning to row in a small boat Mom and Dad gave her. They told the story of Canadian rower Silken Laumann who overcame a gruesome leg injury to win bronze at

the Barcelona Games. The lesson stuck.

It isn’t the obstacles you face that define you, she says, but how you approach and overcome them.

Training alongside fellow Skyriders member and three-time Olympic medallist Karen Cockburn also fuels this champion’s flame. “You see the amount of work, dedication and effort that goes behind it,” MacLennan says of working with her friend and mentor.

“It puts it in perspective, but also shows you that it’s still possible.”

While her dizzying display proved too unbalancing for a normally pictureperfect Chinese team, the modest and somewhat shy champion stays focused on her next move. She returns to the University of Toronto this fall to commence her master’s degree in exercise sciences and is preparing for the 2015 Pan American Games. “In terms of actual trampoline goals, I really want to break the difficulty record for women,” she says. And with her ego firmly in check, it looks like the sky’s the limit for this golden girl. www.rosiemaclennan.ca www.citylifemagazine.ca

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Ontario’s chief coroner, Dr. Andrew McCallum.

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“It may be hard for people to understand, but it’s rewarding work,” says McCallum. More than 20,000 forensic death investigations take place at the Office of the Chief Coroner annually, but it’s the devastating story of Sabrina Shannon that stands out the most and inspires him to continue fulfilling his office’s mantra to “speak for the dead to protect the living.” The 13-year-old, who was highly allergic to peanuts, milk and soya, died from anaphylactic shock on September 30, 2003, after eating french fries from her school cafeteria that were believed to be crosscontaminated with cheese. Shannon was a well-informed child, she knew what questions to ask, but her EpiPen was across the hall and no one around her was thoroughly prepared to respond to such an event. “My daughter’s death was so preventable,” says Shannon’s tearful mother, Sara, over the phone.

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What he means by “circuitous” is that after finishing medical school, he worked in the Canadian Forces as a medical officer and flight surgeon, studied emergency medicine, then worked for 20 years as an emergency physician and trauma team leader. “I remember having to study [aviation] accidents which, to me, was maybe one of the geneses of my interest in forensics,” says McCallum, who was also involved in leadership positions at various hospitals. When

a full-time opportunity arose in 2003 to become a supervising coroner, he fulfilled it, and in 2008 he transitioned from death scene investigations to the senior executive role of chief coroner for Ontario. He also flies planes in his “spare” time, which adds context to his close colleague Dirk Huyer’s comment that “he has a very high-level view on things.”

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What led me to where I am right now is kind of a circuitous journey,” says Dr. Andrew McCallum.

The chief coroner for Ontario is sitting in a large, antiquated boardroom that’s covertly connected to his personal office in downtown Toronto. Behind him is a bookshelf brimming with encyclopediasized texts that advise on cerebral subjects such as expert evidence, fractures, forensic medicine and poisonings. From the strict security check-in to the closedmouthed hallways, it’s the makings of a CSI: Crime Scene Investigation episode — but as McCallum contests, he’s no Al Robbins. “The big difference is that we focus on stuff that wouldn’t make great television but what really matters.

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“When Sabrina was dying, I held her hand and I made a promise to her that I’d do everything possible to prevent a similar tragedy from happening to another child’s family.” She immediately sent a letter requesting an investigation and McCallum, who was a regional supervising coroner at the time, agreed to take on the case. It was up to the coroner’s office to determine how, when, where and by what means the death occurred to gain insight and offset similar occurrences. Throughout the process, Sara was able to get the answers needed to start questioning a system riddled with holes.

While Sara began educating parents and teachers, McCallum used the findings to advocate for increased allergy awareness and demand safety measures in schools.

Their full-scale efforts preceded the implementation of unprecedented legislation. Sabrina’s Law is an act that was introduced in 2006 to protect anaphylactic students by training staff on the administration of medication and ensuring that all Ontario school boards have a list of policies and procedures designed to deal with anaphylaxis. “Her mother is a wonderful person who has advocated in the most positive way in the most tragic circumstances,” says McCallum. “That’s the kind of case that really gives me hope for the future.” His comprehensive recommendations have gone beyond Sabrina’s Law and continue to be reviewed and implemented across borders. “Dr. McCallum gave me hope when there was no hope,” says Sara.

Though she believes she’ll never receive closure until there is a cure, she finds

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comfort in knowing that it’s through her daughter’s death that many other lives will be saved.

Prevention is the crux of a coroner’s calling. The highly publicized cycling death review released last spring highlighted the consequences of not wearing a helmet and proposed amendments of the Highway Traffic Act to make them mandatory for all ages. The study found that every single one of Ontario’s 129 cycling fatalities between 2006 and 2010 could have been prevented. “Challenging cases are the ones where you say, ‘Gee, this definitely didn’t have to happen,’ and those are the cases that are frustrating when you see them reoccur,” says McCallum, an educator and father of two. The secret, in his eyes, lies in making technology modern and mandatory. He acknowledges he may be criticized for advocating a nanny state but when research shows that safety measures save lives, egos are irrelevant.

“We’ve got evidence, for example, that wearing helmets or life jackets does save lives.” If you look solely at the statistics, his reasoning is clear. The drowning

death review of 2010 confirmed that 22 of 23 people who died in boat-related incidents were not wearing personal floatation devices. “That’s pretty telling, I think.”

While the job is highly rewarding, being chief coroner means both acclaim and criticism come your way. The demands for public inquests aren’t always met and answers aren’t always delivered to families desperate for the closest thing to closure. McCallum, however, has learned how to handle it. “He’s very methodical. He steps back, thinks about what’s going on and analyzes. He’s very good at that,” says Huyer. “We try to be honest with people and let them know exactly that, while in the vast majority of cases we can provide answers, there are cases where, frustratingly, we just cannot,” says McCallum, underscoring the value of empathy in his vocation.

“We’re dealing with a human being who has been lost to people who survived and they are hurting as a consequence of that grieving. I can’t overstate how important that is.”

Behind-the-times boardrooms will be a thing of the past for McCallum and his team, as they anticipate moving into their new futuristic Forensic Services and Coroner’s Complex in early 2013.

Located at Wilson Avenue and Keele Street, the six-acre facility will feature a new expanded morgue centre, hotzone autopsy suite and technologically advanced coroner’s court facilities that will enhance video networking, communication and security. “We’ve actually had it presented in several leading journals for forensics,” says McCallum, who believes the move will support the cultural and social evolution of death investigations. “It’s the envy of other systems.”

Whether it’s hopping on a bike without a helmet, sitting in a car without a seatbelt or lounging on a boat without a life jacket, there’s one message McCallum wants to publicize most: “I would just like people to take a moment to pause and reflect on when they’re about to do something: ‘is this a safe thing to do?’” www.mcscs.jus.gov.on.ca www.citylifemagazine.ca

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“This show has definitely gotten recognition for being a show that recognizes the beauty and the strength of women and all that we contribute to life,” says Amy McClendon, who plays the Peacock Goddess in Amaluna.

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6. SHARIN’ AND KARAN Donna Karan of DKNY shares a smile backstage at her fresh, youthful fashion show.

7. SWEET AS HONEY Designer Carlos Miele poses with singer-songwriter, dancer and TV personality Paula Abdul, who attended his fashion show.

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9. EYE CANDY The mascara tubes, lipsticks and other makeup tools used on the models were almost as vibrant as the clothing at Fashion Week.

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14. RETRO-SPECS A Mara Hoffman model sports a pair of ’70s-inspired shades, showing off the line’s classic, cool vibe.

15. ALL DOLLED UP The glossy, geometric makeup palates used on Betsey Johnson’s models contrasted beautifully with the frilly, fun designs they wore.

16. ZOE COOL Rachel Zoe shows off one of the key elements of her latest line: the ever-trendy panama hat.

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Here is, for all intents and purposes, a solid electric vehicle: it’s attractive, drives well, and of course — its raison d’être — emits zero carbon emissions.

But who’s going to drive it?

Commuters? Unlikely. Regular travellers?

Nope. Single-car households? You’d run into problems. I could rhyme off the figures — like its 23-kilowatt-hour lithium-ion battery, which produces 143 horsepower and 184 pound-feet of torque — but that doesn’t really matter. This car is for the established eco-minded urbanite, plain and simple.

Those drivers are already aware of the perks — like kissing gas stations goodbye — but also of the sizable commitments. Specifically, that pesky phrase: “range anxiety.” The thoughts that are constantly at the forefront of any electric driver’s mind are similar to the uncertainties you may experience when your cellphone drops into the red. How far do I need to go? Can I get there and back on the remaining

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charge? When will I be able to charge up again?

While its advertised 160-kilometre range may seem substantial, those numbers take a hit based on weather, driving style and feature use, such as heating and air conditioning. Ford tries to mitigate these concerns via several elements. The charming “butterfly effect” driving coach, for one, helps optimize mileage, acting like a game; butterflies increasingly appear the more economically you drive, challenging drivers to improve efficiency. As well, the car features regenerative breaking to extend battery life. But the trump card is an optional 240-volt home charging station. The standard 120-V charger takes the Focus Electric from empty to fully charged in roughly 20 hours. The 240-V station, on the other hand, will

do it in three to four hours — far less than its rival, the ultramodern Nissan Leaf. It’s certainly convenient, but Ford notes that this aggressive charging will decrease battery capacity over time — a further sacrifice that drivers must contend with.

But, again, for eco-minded drivers, this may not be a concern. It may not matter that the Ford Focus doesn’t actually save you money (they aren’t cheap, starting at over $37,000), that battery life will linger on your mind or that forgetting to plug it in may leave you stranded. The Focus Electric is for established green lifestyles and its drivers are willing to pay the price. If you understand the cost and are willing to adjust to its parameters, this electric car is a stylish option. www.ford.ca www.citylifemagazine.ca

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iya Tong and I have been forced to seek refuge in the last bastion of safety at CTV’s studios: the set of Canada AM. Dan Riskin, the mad scientist sophomore that he is, is concocting some volatile experiment, and the results point to explosive. We can only pray for the well-being of the Daily Planet set and take cover where Beverly Thomson serves up the day’s headlines over coffee.

OK, so that’s a bit of a stretch. But there’s enough pyrotechnic business brewing that we’ve been instructed to steer clear. That, and they’re filming.

So a dimly lit corner and two comfy armchairs beside a faux fireplace will just have to do.

While certainly not ideal, these circumstances are actually unsurprising.

This “intelligent insanity,” as Tong describes it, is just business as usual on, Daily Planet, Discovery Channel Canada’s flagship series. One day they’re learning to fight forest fires with fans, the next they’re meeting an artist who created “bulletproof skin” out of spider silk and goat milk. Today, it just so happens they’re blowing up a studio.

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What are you gonna do?

“I just feel like people are so hungry for thoughtful, intelligent programming,” says Tong, co-host of Daily Planet. In a medium where spoiled socialites, love-struck vampires and sensationalized talent shows reign supreme, this may seem like wishful thinking. But Tong feels audiences crave more than the mindless monotony of primetime TV’s safe standards. At least that’s what she hopes, anyway. “I mean, that’s why I watched the show before I was on it,” she adds with a chuckle.

She may not be too far off, either.

Especially considering its special, Mars Landing 2012: The New Search for Life, attracted more than 1.3 million viewers across the U.S. this past August. “I really think the Mars landing was a truly euphoric science moment,” she eloquently says of NASA’s latest and most ambitious mission to Mars.

However, Tong just can’t contain her enthusiasm: “There was a sky crane!” she bursts out, slapping knuckles to palm.

“It was crazy.”

Her passion is palpable, broadcasting a contagious energy throughout the dark, dormant stage — which, she adds, she

actually kind of digs. It’s certainly not hard to see why, after what was supposed to be a temporary six-week stint in 2008 — and a few prior interim hosts — Tong was offered a permanent home on Daily Planet.

With the show’s 18th season underway, Tong details the informative, yet outthere, adventures on deck this fall. From shark tagging off the Miami coast to swimming with 57,000 migrating beluga whales north of Churchill, Manitoba, to trekking to the Northwest Territories to meet a pack of parachuting paramedics, Daily Planet’s content remains as entertaining as it is educating.

“I’m endlessly curious,” she says of her passion for knowledge, noting the question mark tattoo on the back of her neck as a manifestation of that inquisitiveness. “I’m just constantly fascinated by people’s discoveries, and I love talking to smart people. I mean there’s really nothing better.” If only my Grade 9 science teacher taught with such fervour. But that’s another story.

Ironically, this bubbly, charismatic on-air personality wasn’t always comfortable in the limelight. While working for Orientatin.com, a news www.citylifemagazine.ca

Her tenacity paid off. Tong eventually landed a field producer position with Wired Science, hosted CBC’s ZeD, which earned her a Gemini nomination, and worked as host, writer and director for The Leading Edge before finding herself on Daily Planet.

Life is a perpetual learning process for this British-born television star.

She’s travelled to over 50 countries, periodically in the pursuit of great scuba diving, and is a developing linguist. She fluently speaks English and Cantonese, and dabbles in Mandarin, French and Arabic, which she finds particularly beautiful. “I just feel like if I could see and understand the way that language works, I would have an entirely different perspective on life,” she says. Chinese, www.citylifemagazine.ca

Tong stands on the set of Daily Planet, Discovery Canada’s flagship science series.

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site for developing nations that is now defunct, Tong felt the content it was producing was ideal for video.

However, “I was very, very, very camerashy,” she says of her fledgling days in the industry. But Tong had a dream. A David Attenborough inspired dream.

She details her fascination with his ability to reveal the secret world of animal behaviour — how “you can’t help but be enamoured” of his refined expositions — and how she wished to do the same. Stirred by the British naturalist and broadcaster, Tong thrust herself in front of the lens. “I’d force myself to do it,” she says of the process for overcoming her fears. She was cast in a few Apple ads before sending over 2,000 emails to various TV executives.

“I probably emailed every single television executive that, well, certainly had email at the time,” she adds. It may seem excessive, but persistence is Tong’s middle name. Literally, in Chinese, it’s her middle name.

for example, is far more literal than English, allowing her to approach ideas from novel angles. Take the word “computer,” she says. In Chinese it translates to “electric brain”  an intriguing interpretation. As if on cue, a cellphone rings from an undetermined location to confirm her point. “Oh, and there’s one right now.” We can’t help but laugh.

While we were forced to hunker down in Canada AM’s dormant, but rather cosy, setting, the lively conversation proved pleasantly engrossing. Tong currently has a book in the works and sits on the board of directors of the World Wildlife Fund, but she just can’t picture a better role than her now five-year tenure co-hosting Daily Planet.

“I think I tried at one point and I got this job. It’s a dream job,” she concludes.

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Meditation instructor Vassili Grigorev practises Sahaja Yoga in a serene meadow.

her hands. A part of me admittedly finds the experience humorous, but I’m reminded that the goal is to remain in the present. She tells me not to think, which seems impractical, but suddenly I find myself thoughtless. It’s the most relaxed I’ve felt in years.

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he telltale ting of the sitar provides the soundtrack to my first meditation class. A wooden flute weaves its way through the track and already I feel like my preconceived notions about meditating are being met. The sounds are coming from a stereo in a simple meeting room at the North York Public Library. I make my way to the back to avoid standing out in a crowd of about 20 presumed masters that seem far more attuned.

Despite my cavalier best efforts to camouflage myself, I am quickly discovered.

Someone hands me an informative diagram for beginners on how to raise the Kundalini (a dormant, corporeal energy at the base of the spine viewed as a motherly spirit) and a biography on the founder of THERE’S A TIME AND Sahaja Yoga meditation. A gentle-looking PLACE TO MEDITATE Russian man stands at the helm of the 1. Vaughan – Maple Community Centre, room, anxious to begin. He introduces Rm. 3, 10190 Keele St., Thursdays at 7:30 p.m. himself as Vassili Grigorev, and this is is 2. Brampton – Bramalea Civic Centre, where preconceived notions end.

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Grigorev explains that in Sahaja Yoga our bodies have seven symbolic chakras that are interconnected: innocence, creativity, peace, love and compassion, collectivity, forgiveness, and integration. The goal of meditation is to balance the body’s energies.

We begin by stating positive affirmations and attempt to attain self-awareness through a series of subtle motions.

The class comes to a close around 8 p.m. Before I have a chance to move, a woman in front of me whips her head around and asks, “Your first time?” When I sheepishly say “yes,” she offers to “work on me.” I’m not sure what she means, but I embrace it.

“Close your eyes,”she says. For the next five minutes she paces around my chair, waving

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A study published by Yale University researchers last year in the Proceedings of the National Academy of Sciences handed the act of meditating an olive branch.

It found that mind-wandering, which is “present in roughly 50 per cent of our awake life,” is “also associated with lower levels of happiness.” Through selfawareness, meditators become more involved in what’s happening now, which may lessen the unhappiness associated with daydreaming. “Meditators practice noticing when they are identifying with an object, and when this occurs, to ‘let go’ and bring their attention back to the present moment.”

Sahaja Yoga meditation is practised in more than 90 countries and, in a world where everything seems to come at a price, all public programs are free.

“When we start thinking about material gain,” Grigorev explains, “the sincerity and purity ends, the love is finished, the Kundalini does not rise.” www.freemeditation.com www.citylifemagazine.ca

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Interior designer and former Bachelorette star Jillian Harris lives life by love and design What led you to pursue a career in interior design?

My family has always been very crafty and into design — well, my mom, mostly. She owned a few home décor and design stores when I was a kid and I always remember being so fascinated with moving my furniture around, decorating my room and thinking of fun colour schemes. Growing up in a small town in northern Alberta, a career as an interior designer wasn’t really an option.

It wasn’t until I moved to Calgary and was juggling a waitressing job at Cactus

Club and a retail job at Caban that I fell in love with the idea of being a designer. Shortly after, I applied to be the executive assistant to the creative director of Cactus Club and it was then that my career in design was born.

What are some interior design trends we should look out for in fall 2012?

The best trends are those that come from within your own soul: memories, keepsakes and things that make your heart go pitter-patter. I love eclectic style because it allows you to incorporate all different kinds of personality into your home without being pigeonholed into one look or time period.

Describe the interior design of your home.

I have three places: one in Maui, one in Vancouver and one in Kelowna, British Columbia. My favourite, believe it or not, is my place in Kelowna. It’s just a little two-bedroom spec condo but we (my cousin Sam and I — she lives with me) decorated it simply with eclectic pops of personality. It’s a bit traditional, crisp and airy, but very cosy and inviting.

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What are your main objectives when designing a room for a man versus a woman?

I like to go man-glam for males — you can inject that femininity secretly by layering a lot and staying away from florals and organic patterns.

But generally, it’s all the same if you just bring out a personality. The perfect example is the bachelor pad I created for Brookfield Homes. The general approach and concept is the same as for the bachelorette pad — except the colour scheme is different and the textures are a bit more rough and rugged.

What are three simple changes homeowners can do themselves that can make a strong visual impact on a space?

Painting is huge, and I have always loved rearranging furniture. Not only does it freshen up the space, but it forces you to toss or recycle items that you’re not fond of anymore.

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Do you think our society places too much emphasis on finding “the one”?

Before meeting Justin, I was so over people telling me that ‘I will find happiness when I least expect it.’ I was like, ‘Jesus, I am already happy!’ I really was so happy when I met Justin and that is how I attracted him. It’s not like I wanted to be single forever, but I knew I would be OK if I was. Finding someone to me wasn’t about being in a rush and taking the pressure off, it was about finding that person I couldn’t live without and wanted around me all the time.

What is your life motto?

To be 99 per cent inspired. You miss 100 per cent of the shots you don’t take.

Where do you see yourself five years from now?

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Harris created a stunning, stone-clad space at Sun Peaks Ski Resort in B.C. for the 2012 PNE Prize Home.

Photo By Jillian Harris

Photo By Jillian Harris

Harris gives this Brookfield Homes’ living room a bachelor pad makeover by adding a brick wall, industrial carpet, down-filled sofa and masculine elements that make it feel more like a New York loft.

Can you share with us a sneak peek of your latest project?

My latest project is PNE 2013 Prize Home, which I am so excited about. We plan on going crisp, white and fresh — different from this last year. That, along with Love It or List It Vancouver and my website, keeps me pretty busy. www.jillianharris.com

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THE BUTTERFLY

ON THE FRAME

A VAUGHAN MOTHER SHARES T THE HE POIGNANT STORY OF LOSING H HER ER SON TO SUICIDE WITH HOPES TO ST O RAISE AWARENESS AND INCREASE ASE ACCEPTANCE OF MENTAL TAL HEALTH ISSUES UES Written By Simonaa Panetta Panett Pa anett ettaa Author Francesca Cavaliere delves into the painful world of losing a child to suicide in Wish You Were Here (Dolce Book Publishing Inc.), available in bookstores November 2012.

Antonio (Tony) Cavaliere was the embodiment of cool at school, a big-brother protector, dutiful but

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AFTER THAT DAY, THERE WAS A PAINFUL, EMPTY AIR IN THE HOUSE, AS THOUGH IT KNEW THAT SOMETHING WAS MISSING. TONY WASN’T THERE, AND HE WAS NEVER COMING BACK

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a winter afternoon in 1998, she slowly climbed the staircase of her Vaughan home and wandered into her son’s bedroom.

Save for a bed and dresser drawers, the space that surrounded her was bare, the floor once strewn with belongings and the air once ripe with the familiar musk of men’s cologne now thick with emptiness. The vacuity of it all and the reality of its perpetuity weighed heavily on her chest, dragging her to the floor in a thunderstorm of tears. Cocooned in despair, all she could do to not fall backwards was to look upwards. And that’s when she saw it: a butterfly, on a winter afternoon in 1998, resting its wings on a picture frame fastened to the wall. An inconceivable sight, perhaps, until you learn of the tragic narrative of loss and courage by first-time author Francesca Cavaliere. Wish You Were Here, which will be released in fall 2012, reveals the true story of an ordinary Vaughan family bereaved by suicide, and how hope got them through the days. The photograph inside the frame on the wall was of her son.

— Francesca Cavaliere occasionally rebellious. For someone so young he had big dreams: to marry his long-time girlfriend, to invest in real estate, to expand his education and secure a stable job. He’d been a hockey player, his aptitude and sportsmanship awarded with trophies and ribbons. He had been a patient coach to a children’s hockey team.

He laughed often. At school and at work, he formed deep friendships, and his charm and good looks didn’t go unnoticed with the opposite sex. The

bond b ond he had with his young younger nger er si ssister iste iis terr L Lisa isa was apparent, t strengthened t th d by b their th i shared interests of music and family values. Every December, they looked forward to their annual tradition of selecting a tree to decorate. But Tony wouldn’t make it to Christmas in 1997. Despite the love and support of friends and family, and the resources of help available, he suffered in silence.

Overcome by major depression, Tony died by suicide in October of that year.

He was 24.

According to the Centre for Addiction and Mental Health (CAMH) in Toronto, some form of mental illness will affect one in five Canadians each year, with anxiety or mood disorders, including depression, affecting 12 per cent of the population. Hopeless and helpless, those that turn to suicide see no other way to escape their pain. The Canadian Mental Health Association (CMHA) states suicide as the second leading cause of death in the 15–24 age group.

“After that day, there was a painful, empty air in the house, as though it knew that something was missing.

Tony wasn’t there, and he was never coming back,” writes Cavaliere in her book. The months that ensued brought www.citylifemagazine.ca

Figures compiled by the coroner’s office reveal that the number of deaths due to suicide across Ontario was 1,143 in 2011. Nine of those deaths occurred in Vaughan.

The release of Cavaliere’s book this November comes at a time when families coping with suicide loss are more forthcoming with their experience than they were 15 years ago, and a time when the stigma of asking for support and comfort — which can present a major roadblock to diagnosis and treatment of mental illness — has fallen by the wayside. “We are often afraid to talk about mental health, we are often afraid to talk about suicide. And the reality is that we all have mental health,” says Alisa Simon, vice-president of counselling services and programs at Kids Help Phone. While the national, free and confidential 24-hour telephone and online counselling service offers support to youths struggling with their emotional and mental health, it also encourages young people to talk to their loved ones. “We need to know that it is OK, and it is in fact appropriate to have conversations with the people that you love in your life.” A recent evaluation measuring the nature of calls to Kids Help Phone received between the years of 2010 to 2012 points to a slight increase of contact surrounding the issue of suicide, adds Simon.

Kids Help Phone recognizes that family, school and societal pressures that increase during adolescence create a stressful environment for a young person with little life experience. When faced with dramatic change and mental health struggles, young people are put at risk for suicide. “If it happened to us, it could really happen to anybody,” says Toronto resident Eric Windeler,

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YOU REALLY NEED TO TAKE IT UPON YOURSELF TO ENSURE THAT THOSE CONVERSATIONS ARE HAPPENING TO THE BEST OF YOUR ABILITY

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forth profound stages of grief, causing her to barely attend social functions for close to two years. On the night of Tony’s funeral, while sitting on her front porch surrounded by her son’s friends, she vowed to take action once she was healed. She turned to the faces of the young men around her and promised to write a book that would raise awareness and acceptance of mental health issues, and offer hope to families coping with what the World Health Organization (WHO) recognizes as a public health problem and a major source of preventable deaths worldwide.

— Eric Windeler who lost his bright, well-adjusted 18-year-old son Jack to suicide in 2010 while he was enrolled in his first year of university. “Jack was able to hide it very well when he was at home. I believe that was because he was happy and felt safe at home and he was away from what was giving him that pain, but in talking to some of the people at school shortly after Jack passed, there were signs.” The CMHA website includes apathy and withdrawal, depression and hopelessness, a preoccupation with death and a previous attempt at suicide as warning signs to look out for. While women have a higher rate of suicidal behaviour, males die by suicide four times more often.

As the volunteer lead at The Jack Project at the Kids Help Phone, a school outreach pilot program promoting mental health in young adults, Windeler says that parents must

delve deep when establishing lines of communication with their children. “If you see a change in behaviour, you need to follow your instincts, and if you can’t look into it yourself and get a little more reaction, you need to see what you can do to have someone who is close to that young person have a conversation, and maybe that’s a roommate at college or a university [residence] don or maybe it’s a favourite uncle or aunt. You really need to take it upon yourself to ensure that those conversations are happening to the best of your ability, so that you can get at what’s really happening and allow that young person to share their feelings.”

Families that have lost someone to suicide undergo a profoundly different grieving experience due to the intentional and preventable nature of the loss. Seeking professional help or attending a bereavement group proves critical in the healing process, while also providing a safe place to air psychological and emotional issues.

The butterfly resting on her son’s picture frame reminded Cavaliere that while Tony was gone, the memory of him would continue to be a part of her life.

Windeler describes his life today as one where Jack is always with him. “The presence — if you can call it that — the awareness, is literally always there until the minute you’re able to get to sleep.

I’ve often described it as something just out in front of you, just maybe off to the left. That’s where it is for me.”

“After all these years, I wake up every morning with a heavy sense of sadness … [but] I’ve learned that we are in control of our days,” writes Cavaliere, who hopes the release of Wish You Were Here will encourage readers to open up about a once-taboo topic. “You’re the only one who can make it a good day or a bad one, and if you put your mind to it, you’ll shape every day into something spectacular.” www.cmha.ca / www.camh.ca

A portion of Wish You Were Here’s proceeds will be donated to the Suicide Studies Research Unit, the Mental Health Service, at St. Michael’s Hospital in Toronto.

For young adults seeking help and support, or to donate to the community-based national charity, go to www.kidshelpphone.ca For family education groups offering community resources, mutual support and guest speakers provided by the Canadian Mental Health Association serving York Region, call Central Intake at 905-853-8477 / www.cmha-yr.on.ca www.citylifemagazine.ca

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OPENING

DOORS

Why a Toronto city councillor won’t feel at home until there’s affordable housing for all

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This man was forgotten by a world fast moving. This nameless, faceless man remained unknown until his death on June 12, 2012. His decomposing body was found under a stairwell three weeks after his death of “natural causes.” He was found only because the rotting stench of human decay alerted us to his presence.

William (Bill) Buss was born on April 2, 1941, in the tiny hamlet of Minitonas in Manitoba. Even those who knew Bill knew very little about him. For over 17 years, Bill was a member of The Good Neighbours’ Club. The Club is located in the downtown east side of Toronto, where I serve as a newly elected city councillor. The Good Neighbours’ Club provides hot meals, clothing, library services, haircuts and friendship to homeless men in their 50s.

Despite his daily attendance for breakfast, lunch and warm snacks, little is known about Bill. Workers and volunteers remember him as someone who kept to

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himself. They say Bill was a gentle man, deeply engrossed in encyclopedias and mechanical magazines.

The Club administrators pored over thousands of photos to find an image of Bill for the police once they learned of his passing. To their surprise, none could be found of Bill, a testament to his shy, loner status. Bill left our world the way he chose to live it: independent and alone.

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Ontario has the worst record of affordable housing across Canada. There are 156,358 Ontario households on wait lists as of December 31, 2011. The number of seniors waiting for housing has grown steadily since 2004, reaching 39,463 households today. Ontarians without affordable housing travel to Toronto where the lion’s share of social services is located. Regardless of where the poor, sick and old have come from, they are now residents in our city and we are on this journey of life together.

ONTARIO HAS THE WORST RECORD OF AFFORDABLE HOUSING ACROSS CANADA

Bill was one of these seniors waiting for a home. He did not feel safe in the shelters and chose to live on the street.

The City of Toronto must triple its resolve to build affordable housing. The other levels of government must own up to their responsibilities as well. No more excuses. No more tears. We have to do better. Let’s start now.

Our culture is often fixated on the youthful and material things of life.

Older men like Bill often find they are unable to fit into this culture and thus hide away from it. They are often homeless. Homeless seniors are vulnerable and may not feel safe in Toronto’s shelters where stronger, younger men aggressively run the roost.

COUN. KRISTYN WONG-TAM GUEST COMMUNITY EDITOR Kristyn Wong-Tam is a Toronto city councillor working on building new affordable homes and improving the social housing in her ward, albeit not fast enough. She needs your help. @kristynwongtam ward27news.ca

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I’d

like to introduce you to a man that I never met.

In fact, few have ever met him. Yet sadly, we all know who he was.

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