Area Woman Magazine Apr/May '13

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Tanya Martineau

Unseen’s Fight for Justice:

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fe At uring fA rgO: Meredith’s Pl Ay rOOM

Successful benefit for the Rape & Abuse Crisis Center.

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fe At uring fA rgO: riding On A ngels W ings

3rd Annual Mixed Stag Fundraiser is a success.

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Animals waiting to be adopted by a loving family.

Photographers to help you update your family album.

dining guide: JOhnny cA rinO’ s

Johnny Carino’s Heats Up!

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Where t O shOP

Shop this year’s Spring trends.

Carino’s restaurant

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Area Woman is a proud 29 year member of the Fargo/Moorhead Chamber of Commerce. Area Woman Magazine is published six times a year by Area Woman Publishing, LLC. Print quantity 23,000 per issue. Printed in the U.S.A. ©2013 Area Woman Publishing, LLC. All rights reserved. No part of this publication may be reproduced without written permission from the publisher. Area Woman is a trademark registered at U.S. Patent and Trademark Office. Area Woman Magazine assumes no responsibility for unsolicited manuscripts or photographs. Area Woman Magazine does not necessarily endorse or agree with content of articles or advertising presented.

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an art lover from an early age, Kim spent the early years of her career as a graphic artist and editorial liaison. Her work led her to the publishing world where she became Editor-inChief of award winning From House to Home national magazine. in addition, Kim served as Editor for wedding Vow and PB&J—a family publication, as well as Director of Operations for Publication Services of america. today, Kim continues to write and edit and is passionate about her work with Friends of Chimbote, traveling to Chimbote, Peru as often as she can, to work at Father Jack’s Mission.

Joyce Eisenbraun enjoys the opportunities that writing has given—to explore new ideas, meet new people and gain a better understanding of the community and the world. a native of north Dakota, Joyce is a graduate of nDSu, and has worked in advertising and owned her own marketing company. these days, she is the “chief storyteller” for Elim rehab & Care Center as their director of marketing and development. She and her husband, Dennis, live in Fargo with their son, David.

BErly nElSOn

Berly is a Fargo native. He studied political science at university of north Dakota, where he was active in student government. nelson attended the university of north Dakota School of law and worked as a law clerk at the Cass County State’s attorney’s office in Fargo. He joined Serkland law Firm in 2004 where he practices civil litigation with an emphasis in the areas of commercial, banking and family law. He is licensed to practice in state and federal courts in north Dakota and Minnesota. He is a member of the Fargo rotary Club and lives in Fargo with his family.

Having produced shows for illustrious networks like ESPn radio and History Channel, and having lived in exotic locales such as Sydney, australia, and Dijon, France, Patricia Carlson never imagined she’d call Fargo home. But when she settled here after earning a master of science degree in journalism from the Medill School of Journalism at northwestern university, she quickly realized she could take her career to the next level. an award-winning journalist, Patricia writes for publications and web sites in the red river Valley and across the country, authors her own blog, and works full-time as a new mom.

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ashley is enjoying writing again after a taking a hiatus to start a company with her husband. She’s been a reporter, producer or contributor for television, radio, newspaper, magazine and online outlets. She’s worked mostly in the FM area, but started her journalism work abroad, studying and writing about French coverage of the conflict in iraq.  when she’s not working at Prairie Public or freelancing, ashley enjoys experimenting with food, traveling, listening to her daughter play piano and violin and pretending to be good at sewing.

Brittany Dunnigan

Brittany Dunnigan is a student at Minnesota State university Moorhead pursuing a degree in mass communications, public relations and marketing. She is an honors apprentice in the university’s Marketing and Communications Department, treasurer of the Society of Professional Journalists chapter, and active member of the Public relations Student Society of america chapter. She will be participating in the Fall 2013 Disney College Program in Orlando, Fla.

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Area Life

If you feel like you’ve been hibernating for the past 6 months, you’re not alone! Check out the area events calendar to find some ways you can reintroduce yourself to society. Then take a look at some of the people that made their way out and about for a good causes, the Rape and Abuse Crisis Center, and plan ahead for a great event with Hopsice of the Red River Valley. A bit of legal advice and some information about keeping your pets safe round out this section of Area Life.

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spRiNg EvENts

APRIL 4

An eVenInG oF stoRY & sonG

An intimate evening with award-winning Canadian singer/songwriter, Steve Bell.

Tickets: $12 For Sale at Valley Christian Church, Melberg Christian Book & Gift or www.stevebell.com

7:00 pm

Valley Christian Church

611 37th Ave S, Moorhead 218-233-7856

APRIL 6 - June 3

FMVA BIG ARt sHoW

A wide variety of art (2D and 3D) from both emerging and established artists. Each artwork is accompanied by a statement from the artist involving their individual inspiration in creating the work and the technique involved in making it.

Public Reception: April 16 from 5:00 - 7:00 pm. The reception is free and open to the public.

Hjemkomst Center

202 First Avenue North, Moorhead 218-299-5511 or hcscconline.org

APRIL 8

PuRse & QuILt AuctIon

A wine and appetizer live and silent auction benefitting the Pregnancy, Parenting and Adoption programs of Catholic Charities North Dakota.

6:30 pm

Tickets: $20 each or two for $30 Hilton Garden Inn, Fargo 701-235-4457 or catholiccharitiesnd.org

APRIL 11

AnDY WARHoL sALon DIscussIon

APRIL 6

KID Quest: GRooVY GARDen ARt

Bring your children in for a free creative art experience that takes them for a hunt through our galleries and allows them to create their own artwork to bring home!

1:00 – 4:00 pm

Plains Art Museum – Center for Creativity 701-232-3821 or plainsart.org

APRIL 6

sPRInGtIMe stYLes

Soroptimist International of Moorhead presents: Springtime Styles

The annual style show and purse auction.

1:00 pm

Ticket price: $10, includes beverage and dessert.

Tickets available at Bell State Bank & Trust, Moorhead.

Dilworth Lutheran Church

406 3rd Street NE, Dilworth

Reality and Truthiness: from Andy Warhol to Stephen Colbert, Curator Elizabeth Armstrong will explore our experience and understanding of reality through the brilliant artifice of Andy Warhol and the lens of international artists working today.

7 – 9:00 pm

Minnesota State University Moorhead King Hall, Room 110 701-232-3821 / plainsart.org

April 13

ADuLt cLAss: DRAWInG stuDIo

In a relaxed atmosphere, come and learn to draw from still life, models, plen air, and other techniques. This open drawing studio will be hosted by several noted artists from the Fargo-Moorhead area.

$10 per session + materials

1-3:00 pm

Plains Art Museum - Center for Creativity 701-232-3821 or plainsart.org

Steve Bell

APRIL 19

sWeet MIRAcLes

(Event supports Children’s Miracle Network and Sanford Children’s Hospital) Live entertainment. Beer and wine-tasting provided by Cash Wise Liquor. Silent Auction featuring items donated by local businesses. Signature cocktails, light hors d’oeuvres, and sweet desserts served throughout the evening. Each guest will receive a commemorative wine glass.

7:00 -10:00 pm

Tickets are $40 - For sale at the Courtyard by Marriott 1080 28th Avenue South, Moorhead

APRIL 20

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The Red River Zoo’s Earth Day Celebration! Includes earthfriendly conservation activity stations throughout the zoo and a tree planting ceremony.

Regular Zoo admission, members get in free.

11:00 am - 4:00 pm

Red River Zoo

4255 23rd Avenue South, Fargo 701-277-9240 or redriverzoo.org

APRIL 27- MAY 5

sPRInG PARADe

oF HoMes

Sponsored by Marvin Windows & Doors, the Spring Parade of Homes covers two weekends for consumer convenience. Admission is free, and homes will cover all price ranges, including options for those age 55 and better, first-time buyers, people needing more space, and those wanting to downsize.

12:00 - 5:00 pm Weekends & 6:30 - 8:30 pm Weekdays

Scattered-site tour of homes throughout Fargo-Moorhead. 701-232-5846 or hbafm.com

MAY 16

BABY RHYMe tIMe

Babies (ages birth to 18 months) and their caregivers invited to a special lapsit storytime with songs, books, rhythms and rhymes. All materials will be provided; treats will be served.

6:30 pm

No registration required. Free. Main Library

102 3rd St. N. Fargo

Children’s Services at 701-241-1495

MAY 17

sYettenDe MAI PøLseFest

Hot dogs in lefse sale. Hot dogs $1.00 and pop $0.50. All proceeds benefit the Historical and Cultural Society of Clay County.

11:00 am – 2:00 pm (or while supplies last)

Hjemkomst Center

202 First Avenue North, Moorhead 218-299-5511 or hcscconline.org

MAY 27

MeMoRIAL DAY

Babies (ages birth to 18 months) and their caregivers invited to a special lapsit storytime with songs, books, rhythms and rhymes. All materials will be provided; treats will be served.

6:30 pm

No registration required. Free. Main Library

102 3rd St. N. Fargo

Children’s Services at 701-241-1495

QUOTABLE

“For I know the plans I have for you, plans to prosper you and not to harm you, plans to give you hope and a future. Then you will call upon me and come and pray to me, and I will listen to you. Then you will seek me and find me: when you seek me with all your heart, I will be found by you, declares the Lord.”

— JEREMIAH 29: 11-14

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MEREDitH’s pLaYROOM

First-time Event Supports Victimized Children

Asold out crowd of over 240 people filled the Fargo Country Club for a spectacular evening fashion show presented by My Best Friend’s Closet on January 22.

Fabulous Fashions & Friends benefitting the Meredith Haugen Play Therapy Room at Rape and Abuse Crisis Center was a huge success. “The evening was beyond our expectations,” claimed development director Kara Odegaard, “we even had a waiting list.”

A special toast by Katrina TurmanLang explained the metamorphosis of the event. Special friend Meredith Haugen was an avid volunteer for the Rape and Abuse Crisis Center with particular concern for children experiencing domestic violence or being victims of sexual abuse.

When Meredith passed away, friends and family provided funds to establish a play therapy room equipped to help traumatized children.

Board member and speaker Amanda McKinnon spoke of how children are able to work through feelings of being victimized through activities like dress up, art and sand play.

Each January for the past five years Meredith’s family and friends have gathered to remember her and to support the playroom. This year the gathering extended to the community.

When asked if this would be a repeat event Kara was quick to respond, “we’re already planning for next year.” [AWM]

Writer: Kim malaKoWsKy

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3RD aNNuaL RiDiNg ON aNgELs wiNgs MixED stag FuNDRaisER

On Friday, March 1st, the Hartl Ag Building at the Red River Fairgrounds welcomed 300 supporters of Riding on Angels Wings (ROAW) for their 3rd Annual Mixed Stag Fundraiser. The event consists of dinner, live auctions, raffles and raffle boards. The evening was sponsored by Jordhal Custom Homes. $30,000 was raised, with all proceeds going to Riding on Angels Wings, a 501(c)3 organization that provides Equine Assisted Therapy for children who have special needs.

Over 150 local businesses and individuals contributed time, cash and items for the raffles and auctions. 12 members of the Gateway Lions helped man

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the raffle boards and presented, Founder & Executive Director, Bette Shipley, with a $1,000 check from Wal-Mart. Five Hair Success Stylists and ROAW friends and staff were kept busy selling raffle tickets. “I feel deeply blessed by the tremendous community support for our organization” said Shipley.

Long time Riding on Angels Wings supporter Jim McKay was honored for his commitment and endless enthusiasm for ROAW with the “Riding On Angels Wings Enrichment Award”. Shipley also recognized staff members for their tremendous work and dedication.

ROAW was founded in 2002 with seven participants and a handful of volunteers, today the program serves over 200 children.

JOuRNEYiNg HOME witH HOspiCE OF tHE RED

June Events address grief and Healing

There is never an ideal time to experience loss and move through grief. Hospice of the Red River Valley (HRRV) aims to make the process a bit easier by offering a conference in June for those who’ve lost a loved one.

“Journeying Home is comprised of two events, and is designed for two audiences,” says Wendy Tabor-Buth, a certified grief counselor for HRRV.

On the evening of June 11, Dr. Alan

Wolfelt, renowned grief counselor, will present “Understanding Your Grief: Touchstones for Hope and Healing.” This event is free and open to the public, and is for anyone who has had someone they love die at any time. Dr. Wolfelt will help attendees understand their grief and describe the ten touchstones that are essential for healing, along with physical, emotional, cognitive, social and spiritual actions one can take.

“The day-long event on June 12 is clinically focused for health care

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professionals, and will be helpful to anyone who wants to learn more about ‘companioning’ children and teens in grief,” says Tabor-Buth.

The June 12 event is beneficial for social workers, school counselors, school personnel, child life specialists, teachers, nurses, clergy, chaplains, daycare providers and parish nurses.

The fee for the daytime conference is $89 and participants may register at http:// www.hrrv.org/journeyinghome/. [AWM]

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Whether through intestate succession (when there is no will) or when nominated by a will, many people will have an opportunity to serve as a personal representative (also called an executor) at some point in their lives, after a friend or family member has passed away. If you are a personal representative, a general overview of a personal representative’s powers and duties will be helpful.

A personal representative of a decedent’s (the person who passed away) estate is a fiduciary. This means a personal representative is entrusted with settling and distributing the estate’s assets as expeditiously and efficiently as possible, and must act in the best interests of all heirs.

A probate is the process by which a decedent’s property is passed by a will or by state law if there is no will.

There are important deadlines which a personal representative must be aware of. For instance, within thirty days after appointment, the personal representative must give notice and information to the heirs and devisees (someone named as a beneficiary in the will) of the estate. Within six months after appointment or nine months after the death of the

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decedent, whichever is later, a personal representative must prepare an inventory of all of the decedent’s property. A personal representative may employ appraisers to assist in ascertaining the fair market value of the estate’s assets. A personal representative must either file the inventory with the district court or mail copies of the inventory to the heirs and devisees. While not required (in North Dakota), it is beneficial to give notice to creditors. To give proper notice, a personal representative should mail a copy of the notice to those creditors whose identities are known or are reasonably ascertainable. For those creditors who are not reasonably ascertainable, a personal representative should publish a notice once a week for three successive weeks in a newspaper in the county in which the estate is being probated. It is beneficial to give notice to creditors because notice requires creditors to file any claims they might have against the estate within three months of notice. If no notice is given, creditors have three years to file any claims. Serving as a personal representative can sometimes entail a lot of work.

That work, however, does not need to be uncompensated. A personal representative is entitled to reasonable compensation for his or her services, and that should be reported as income. There are, however, certain risks associated with serving as a personal representative. A personal representative is liable for damage or loss resulting from breach of the personal representative’s fiduciary duty. While there are forms for handling a probate that can be obtained from the courts, many people find this to be a daunting task to face without help from a legal professional. For this reason, among others, it is suggested that personal representatives consult with an attorney regarding any questions they might have concerning their powers and duties as personal representatives. This article was prepared by Berly Nelson, an attorney with the Serkland Law Firm in Fargo, North Dakota. Attorneys Tim Richard and Ian McLean contributed to this article. For more information, call 232-8957, email at bnelson@serklandlaw. com or visit www.serklandlaw.com.

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5 REasONs tO takE YOuR pEt tO tHE vEt

1. Sudden, unexplained weight loss

If your dog or cat seems to have lost a substantial amount of weight over a short period of time, there could be an underlying medical reason for this. Some of the more common conditions that can be associated with weight loss include diabetes, kidney disease, hyperthyroidism (overactive thyroid), infections, liver disease, intestinal disease, or cancer. Of course, if you have put your pet on a diet and exercise plan to lose weight purposefully, then you probably don’t need to worry.

2. Increased water consumption and urination

Does it seem like you have been filling your pet’s water bowl much more often lately? Is he/she asking to be let outside more than usual or having accidents in the house? Is your cat’s litter box sopping wet? What goes in must come out, so if you are noticing one, but not the other, it is still a problem. It might just be that you haven’t noticed the other half yet. Drinking a lot of water can be a sign of MANY different diseases. The most common are diabetes, kidney or liver disease, infections, and metabolic (endocrine) diseases. If detected early, there is a lot your veterinarian can do to help your best friend.

3. Frequent vomiting or diarrhea

If your pet can’t stop vomiting, then there is a problem. As a general rule, an animal should be seen if they vomit more than three times/hour for three hours in a row, or if intermittent vomiting continues for more than two days. It is also a significant concern if a dogs drinks water but throws it up immediately. If you see anything unusual in the vomit – dark substance that looks like coffee grounds, blood, or foreign material, then a visit to your vet is a good idea. If they are vomiting, but not passing stool that is also a red flag.

Diarrhea that continues for three days with no signs of abating is another reason to visit with your vet. Typical “run-of-the-mill” diarrhea that stems from a diet change or minor dietary indiscretion usually resolves itself within this time frame. If not, then it is likely your pet may need some medical assistance to fix the problem. Again, as with vomiting, if you notice anything unusual in the diarrhea (yes, we want you to look at it!) such as strange color (black is especially troublesome), blood clots, or foreign material it is worth a call to the vet. Animals can

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become dehydrated quickly with severe, intractable diarrhea, so if left untreated for too long – simple diarrhea could turn into hospitalization on IV fluids.

4. Your cat is refusing to eat

In cats, this can be a serious problem. If a cat is completely anorexic for three days or more a visit to the vet is highly recommended. It is especially concerning when the cat is overweight. Cats are picky eaters, but at times, under stress, they will refuse to eat anything at all. When this occurs, a cat’s body will start to use stored fat for nutrients. The digesting fat can overwhelm the liver which quickly becomes diseased, resulting in hepatic lipidosis, or fatty liver disease. This can be a deadly situation if the cat does not start consuming real calories rather quickly. Often there is a need for feeding tubes and force feeding to save a cat’s life!

5. Eye problems

If your cat or dog is suddenly holding his/her eye closed, acting irritated when you try to look at the eye, rubbing the eye with a paw, has discharge from the eye, or a white/blue hue to the surface of the cornea (the clear part), then see your vet ASAP! Eye problems such as scratches, infections, or foreign material that gets stuck in the eye can get worse very quickly. Don’t wait and see if it will get better tomorrow … go in today! Things could be much worse tomorrow.

This is a short list of the more common reasons that a veterinary visit should be scheduled. With pets, the sooner a problem is addressed, the higher the probability that your veterinarian will be able to intervene and make your friend well again. Waiting too long can result in a very undesirable outcome. In addition, being prepared to allow your vet to perform diagnostic testing when these problems occur is advised. Our pets cannot tell us exactly how they are feeling, and sometimes running tests is the only way to figure things out. Ask any vet and they will tell you that normal diagnostic tests on a sick dog can be frustrating, but at least we know what is NOT wrong … and that can be extremely helpful too!

West Fargo Animal Hospital is located at 730 13th Avenue E in West Fargo. You can find out more about us on our website at www. westfargoanimalhospital.vetsuite.com or find us on Facebook! We encourage questions, so give us a call at 701-282-2898. [AWM]

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The Humane Society Fargo-Moorhead is primarily a pound rescue organization dedicated to rescuing dogs and cats at risk of being euthanized at local impounds. Each year, we adopt out hundreds of wonderful pets that just need a second chance at finding a “forever” home. We have a variety of pets available for adoption, from puppies and kittens to senior pets and everything in between, and almost any breed, including purebreds. Next time you’re considering adopting a pet, please check out our shelter and consider giving a pet in need a home. Check us out at www.humanesocietyfargomoorhead.org or on Facebook at www.facebook.com/ fmhumanesociety, or give us a call at 701-239-0077.

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Area Style

A look behind the scenes at one of Fargo/Moorhead’s go-to restaurants opens this edition of Area Style. Tips for hair styles and fashion that will help you look your best as well as suggestions for where to shop for unique clothes and gifts can also be found here. If you’re looking for a photographer, check out the photos featured to see the one that’s right for you.

ohnny Carino’s in Fargo is on fire – literally. And General Manager Heather Berg wouldn’t have it any other way.

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“It’s called a fire show,” explained Berg, as she gestured towards the open kitchen where kitchen leader Keith Goldsmith’s hands were a blur in a rolling wall of flame.

“They line up all the sauté pans on the range, heat them up really hot with oil and then just keep them moving. It’s like a constant fireball. You can hear it and see it in the whole restaurant — and if you’re close enough you can feel it. We do it when we’re busy, especially on Friday or Saturday nights, but all you have to do is ask! It’s so much fun.”

This flair for the dramatic, combined with friendly service, fresh ingredients and a focus on the needs of their customers have helped Johnny Carino’s build a passionate customer base since 2005.

Johnny Carino’s may have restaurants nationwide, but the Fargo location aims to “go beyond the chain experience,” said Berg. “It’s great food, great service and just a lot of passion for what we do.”

The cozy restaurant, with its exposed beams, rustic wood and the tempting aromas of rosemary, garlic and fresh bread, attracts a variety of customers.

Monday nights bring in families and large groups for half price family style platters, while Wine Down Wednesdays are popular with professionals and groups of women who gather to enjoy half price bottles of wine.

At night, the restaurant — especially the semi-private tables draped with heavy tapestries – takes a more seductive turn. “It’s very romantic in the evenings,” said Berg. “It’s a good place for couples. We get a lot of couples and a lot of engagements here — and we’ve actually had people get married here!”

Berg said that customers are often attracted by the atmosphere, but the quality of the service and the food keeps them coming back.

“We spend a lot of time making food that’s fresh,” she said. “Until I started working

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here, I never realized the difference between actually making something fresh versus warming something up in the microwave,” said Berg. “Every dish here is made to order.”

Johnny Carino’s recently unveiled a new menu to complement local favorites like Spicy Shrimp and Chicken, Chicken Penne Gorgonzola and Lemon Rosemary Chicken.

But the new menu isn’t all the restaurant has planned for spring and summer. The warmer weather means that things kick into high gear for the Johnny Carino’s catering department.

“Catering is huge for us,” said Berg. “We do weddings, graduations, groom’s dinners – everything. We’ve catered just about every kind of function you can possibly have. And we can do it with pretty short notice!”

And when the weather heats up, Johnny Carino’s will debut the new patio on the south side of the restaurant. “As soon as it’s nice enough, we’ll have it open,” Berg said. “It’s such a short season here, you have to just get out and enjoy it while you can!” [AWM]

iMpREss witH LEss!

Writer: patriCia Carlson | models styled by hair suCCess, Fargo

Long hair allows you to be the ultimate chameleon. You can leave it loose and wavy when you’re feeling luxurious. Tuck it under a cap when you need to go incognito. Pull it high into a ponytail for a night of dancing. Or bun it on an off-wash day.

But what happens when you give your locks the big chop?

Everyone can see the REAL you.

Although they all have different face shapes, these short, chunky cuts look great on all four of these gals. Like some of them, you can opt for face-framing bangs that you can wear straight or parted. Or you can keep it simple with a side-part.

Guys get the best of both worlds with a little bit of length on top (nice volume!) and keeping it clean and short everywhere else. Add a dash of sophistication with some eyewear.

Besides showing off your best assets, short hair feels quite breezy when our weather (finally?!) gets warm. Happy Spring! [AWM]

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Seriously saturated hues are injecting color into spring fashions. Mini skirts to maxi dresses in color choices the likes of electric-blue, shocking-pink, not-so-mellow yellow or off-the-charts green are turning heads.

On the other end of the spectrum black and white pair nicely with bold brights or stand equally well on their own.

It’s no secret shorts are the best way to beat the heat and anything goes this season. From short shorts, sailor shorts, biker shorts, to Bermudas you’ll be rocking spring fashion like a star.

Topping off super-short jean shorts or lace minis are cropped tops and soft sheer blouses. For cool breezes, sport a colorful cotton sweater or sporty jacket in a mood-elevating hue.

Retro prints zanier than ever with splashy graphics reappear for another season setting the world abuzz. Zigzags, stripes, diagonals, and diamonds all make for an enticing geometry lesson. Call up your confidence, place practicality aside, and greet spring with boldness. [AWM]

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wHERE tO sHOp

Ekelund of Sweden: Beautiful table cloths, runners, handtowels and dishcloths all made in Sweden. Colorful patterns and designs. Priced from $10.95 to $52.95.

stABo scAnDInAVIAn IMPoRts

West Acres Mall, Fargo 701-282-0421 | stabo-imports.com

yOUNGBLOOD cosmetics are free of petroleum dyes, perfume, alcohol or talc and they do no animal testing. Clean and lightweight, it allows your skin to breathe.

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Center for Hair and Wellness

Moorhead Center Mall 218-236-6000 | centerforhairandwellness.com

Cheryl Lee Creations®

“Outrageously Unique Jewelry” Handmade in Fargo, ND

VAVA BoutIQue®

701 729-6652 | shopvava.com

Find us on Facebook for more info on open dates, events and sales!

Beat the winter blues with our Spring Favorites Bouquet! Vivid blooms such as tulips and roses accented with a terra-cotta pot. Starting at $49.99, it is the perfect gift.

DALBoL FLoWeRs 25th Street Market

1450 25th Street South, Fargo 701-235-5864 | dalbolflowersfargo.com

Effortless style, wearability and comfort. XCVI is fashion you can live in. Shop the spring collection featuring a mix of jackets, tops, pants and dresses.

FusIon BoutIQue

Inside Scheels Home & Hardware 3202 13th Avenue South, Fargo (701) 232-8903 | scheelshomeandhardware.com

From sleek and modern to cool and classic, come find your perfect style with brands like Comme Toi, Tea N Rose, BluPepper and Adrianna Papel.

3 cHIcKs BoutIQue

Inside Baker Garden and Gift 2733 South University Drive, Fargo 701.237.6255 | bakernursery.com

The ultimate in glamorous seating, the Luxe, by American Leather, makes a sophisticated statement that brings back Deco, the divine Dorothy Draper and 1930’s classic fashion. Designed to encompass all of the above, this sofa exudes style.

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Area Health

With the Fargo Marathon just around the corner, hear the stories of women that are getting ready to run. Read the story of a woman whose life has been forever changed with a simple implant. And meet the Erickson family and their miracle twins in this edition of Area Health.

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arEa wOMEn train FOr tHE FargO MaratHOn in DiFFErEnt, inSPiring wayS

The longer days of spring mean one thing for those preparing for the Fargo Marathon: It’s crunch time. The mild temperatures and melting snow leave no excuses to get outside and put miles behind you. We caught up with three area women training for the May 18th Fargo Marathon to find out how they train and stay motivated.

Michelle Keil

Q: What race are you running in this year’s Fargo Marathon?

I will be running the half marathon. I have done the Fargo Marathon three times and this will be my fourth time in 2013.

Q: Tell me about your training plan at this point*?

This year I decided to do something a little different than in years past. I am doing more strength training on the cross days. I use Hal Higdon’s training schedule with some slight modifications to it. Bryon,

my husband, joined Cross Fit this last fall. He gives me a workout to incorporate into those days on to help with strength and endurance. I am hoping that by doing more strength training I can get faster.

Currently I am running about 12 miles per week and will build up to 20-22 miles by the half. Saturdays are my long run days so I can recuperate on the weekend.

*Print deadline was March 1, 2013

Q: Do you have anything special or different planned for this year’s Marathon weekend? Running for a cause? Running with a group?

Every year we have a party after the race. I get a “Tamra” cake (my friend makes the best cakes in the world!) and since you just ran thirteen miles you are negative about 1500 calories for the day so you can have more than one slice or a very large one that day! We have been doing this since 2010. Every year the party has gotten a little bigger.

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If I can do it – you can do it!  I never ran and just started to run when I turned 39. Set your mind to finishing the race and do not focus on how long it takes you to finish – all that matters is that you did it.”

– Michelle Donarksi

Q: What race are you running in this year’s Fargo Marathon? Half marathon.

Q: Tell me about your training plan at this point?*

I joined the FSR Fargo Marathon Training group. FSR stands for Faster Stronger Runner. We are up to seven miles for our long runs. The group long runs are on Saturday mornings at 6:30 am. A great way to start the day! But I have had to change my Friday night plans to get to bed early, drink lots of water the day before and limit Friday night cocktails.

Q: Do you have any loved ones that are particularly encouraging or influential in your training?

My running girlfriends – could not and would not run without them because I do not have the will power to run by myself. I need to know someone is waiting for me to meet them to run.

Q: What advice would you give to first time runners preparing for a Fargo Marathon race?

If I can do it – you can do it! I never ran and just started to run when I turned 39. Set your mind to finishing the race and do not focus on how long it takes you to finish – all that matters is that you did it. Get a friend to join you and set a schedule to run together or join a training group. Running with a group or with a friend makes the training runs so much more enjoyable. As busy moms, we never have time to catch up with our friends – this is your opportunity to catch up with your friend while doing training runs together.

Michelle Donarksi

Sue Knutson

Q: What race are you running in this year’s Fargo Marathon?

I’m running the half marathon.

Q: Tell me about your training plan at this point?*

I’m doing four runs per week - with the long runs on Saturdays. I average somewhere between 25 and 35 miles per week at this point - with my longest ‘long run’ to date being 15 miles. I’m going to Minneapolis this weekend to run a half marathon. As a norm, I like to maintain enough endurance that I could go run a half marathon on any given weekend. The runs during the week consist

of speedwork & tempo runs - with some “easy runs.” Cross-training is very important to me, so I swim at least two times/wk, spin, do the Precor elliptical & lift weights on my cross training/rest days.

Q: What advice would you give to first time runners preparing for a Fargo Marathon race for the first time?

I would tell them to start slow - give themselves time to get used to running (run/walk) - and listen to your body. It took me at least one month before I could run one mile straight when I started ... and it was a very slow jog. However, it was the most gratifying moment to know that

I could do it! Celebrate your successesevery step accomplished is important!

Q: Are you running the Fargo Marathon for a cause?

I’m running for Newt Running - an organization that I set up for my late sister - Dr. Renee Schwandt. I would like to raise funds to donate in her name to things that were dear to her - Essentia (her job), mission trips, and those in need. (For more information visit www. newtmission.com.)

For more information about the 2013 Fargo Marathon, or to register online, go to www.fargomarathon.com.

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Essentia Health OB/gyn uses implantable device to help women dealing with urinary incontinence

For three decades, Marcia Carlson planned her life around a bothersome nuisance – her urinary incontinence. She remembers getting caught in some unpleasant situations.

“I would do one errand and then come home,” said the 71-year-old retired Fargo schoolteacher. “I wore a pad for 30 years.”

Like many women, Carlson sought solutions for her urgency issues. Kegel exercises, biofeedback treatment and medication didn’t help much. Then she drove a friend to a doctor’s appointment. Her friend was considering an implantable device called “Interstim” that helps patients with an overactive bladder.

Carlson had always been wary of surgery, but decided she needed to explore this option. “I thought, ‘Oh, just go for it. You can’t live this way anymore,’” she said.

Dr. Stefanie Gefroh Ellison, an obstetrician and gynecologist at Essentia Health-Fargo, implanted Carlson’s Interstim device last spring. “It was in April on Friday the 13th,” Carlson joked. “It turned out to be my lucky day.”

Often called a “pacemaker for the bladder,” the small device improves the communication in the nerves between the bladder and the brain. Women with urge incontinence feel a strong need to go to the bathroom before the bladder is full. The Interstim device helps the bladder to fill up more appropriately, allowing the patient to urinate less frequently. It also helps to eliminate the sudden urges to go.

Dr. Gefroh Ellison has implanted the device in women in their 30s all the way to their 80s, with positive results.

“Interstim is not the first line of treatment for incontinence or urgency issues,” Dr. Gefroh Ellison explained. “It’s good for people who have tried behavioral changes, biofeedback and medications. If they are still not where they would like to be with their lifestyle and staying dry, Interstim is a good option.”

Interstim is also not intended for women with stress incontinence – the leaking that can occur when someone coughs or sneezes.

Before receiving the permanent implant, patients undergo a quick office procedure to test whether the device would make a difference.

The electrodes are placed temporarily, and patients wear an external monitor.

“I tell them they have nothing to lose to try it out for a couple of days,” Dr. Gefroh Ellison said. If patients experience at least a 50 percent improvement in their symptoms, they’re candidates for the implant.

The surgery is performed at Essentia Health-Fargo on an outpatient basis, allowing patients to go home the same day. The implant goes into the fatty tissue of the buttock and doesn’t cause any discomfort when sitting or lying down. Dr. Gefroh Ellison uses X-ray imaging to pinpoint the electrode placement during the procedure, which typically takes an hour or less.

Dr. Gefroh Ellison can never guarantee that a patient will be completely dry as a result of the implant, but she said it can make a big impact on a patient’s life. “Women can sleep better and can go to social activities without always having to know where the bathroom is,” she said. “We hope we can eliminate part of the fear they have with social situations.”

Carlson has been very pleased with her

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results. “I have the freedom to be able to go places and do things and not be so worried about it,” she said. Carlson plans to fly to visit a friend in Palm Springs, Calif., something she couldn’t imagine doing before getting the Interstim implant.

Carlson’s also spreading the word about the procedure to her friends. She asked Dr. Gefroh Ellison to speak to a group of retired Fargo schoolteachers last fall. “I thought this was really important for other women to hear,” Carlson said. “It’s amazing – there are a lot of people who haven’t heard about it.”

Dr. Gefroh Ellison welcomes the chance to discuss this sensitive topic with women.

“All of us know women who have really struggled with incontinence. We’ve seen how it can really isolate someone. They don’t want to talk about it, and they’re afraid to go out,” she said. “I work hard to make my office a safe place to come and talk about it, and hopefully, get some relief.”

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adie and Jon Erickson’s home in a quiet, wooded area of north Fargo is the perfect place for hiking and biking.

But nothing compares to canoe season for this outdoorsy couple. They’re ready for some northern Minnesota camping.

“Anything outside and we’re there,” Sadie said, 32.

This year, the loving couple won’t be swatting mosquitoes by the campfire alone. They welcomed fraternal twins Liv and Hadley four months ago.

“We knew we wanted to be parents from the minute we became a couple,” Jon said, 33. “And deep down I always wanted twins. But when it came time to start trying, it wasn’t so easy for us.”

Sadie has a history of ovarian cancer which contributed to fertility issues. “We trusted our instincts and decided to get help,” Sadie said. Their journey to parenthood first took them to Sanford’s Reproductive Medicine Clinic

where the team of board-certified physicians, including Dr. Stephanie Dahl, helped them get pregnant.

When they received the good news from Dr. Dahl, Sadie explained that Dr. Dahl was almost more excited than she was. “It just goes to show the personal relationships we made. From the nurses, the lab techs, everyone, they were just amazing,” Sadie said.

Although Jon and Sadie got what they wished, they were indeed expecting twins, Sadie and the babies would need close monitoring throughout the pregnancy, during the delivery and after birth.

Dr. Peter Van Eerden, North Dakota’s only board-certified maternal-fetal medicine physician, along with the couple’s OB/GYN Dr. Rebekah Tomkins, teamed up to provide Sadie and the babies with the most intensive, comprehensive care available to women with high-risk pregnancies.

Dr. Van Eerden and his team monitored Sadie and the babies through ultrasounds looking at the babies’ anatomies, a fetal

echocardiogram to look at the babies’ hearts and anti-partum fetal testing in Sadie’s third trimester twice a week to make sure there were no signs of complications.

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“What we did was counsel them about the basic risks that may occur during the course of the pregnancy and then prepared a plan of care for them,” Dr. Van Eerden said.

“It was a village taking care of us.”

For Jon and Sadie, their “little pumpkins” were monitored and everything turned out better than expected. They wouldn’t need the NICU after delivery, but there was comfort knowing it was there just in case.

On November 8 at 6:45 a.m., they arrived at the Sanford Family Birth Center. But the hours went by and no babies.

“It was a long day!” Sadie said. “But just to think how great the staff was … one of our nurses even stayed over her shift because she wanted to be there for the birth.”

Jon agreed: “It was a village taking care of us and they were all cheering us on.”

The final push

The OR was ready. The NICU was just down the hall. Twenty skilled medical professionals coaching Jon and Sadie. Everything was prepared for Sadie and those two babies.

“You knew it was being done right,” Jon said. “They’re a well-oiled machine.”

Just after 11 pm that evening, Liv entered the world, followed by Hadley. Two healthy babies. Two joyous parents.

What a trip

For the Ericksons, everything worked out in the end, thanks to the skilled, coordinated care provided by their team at Sanford.

“We just could not have done it without them,” the couple said.

Today, the Ericksons are in the preliminary planning stage of outdoor adventures with Liv and Hadley. While the couple debates over Lake Superior or somewhere in Wisconsin, the two babies sit in their laps, cooing and content. Happy and healthy. [AWM]

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It’s the detaIls In the home that make It truly unIque

Life is filled with connections, whether it’s with your family, friends, or co-workers. You also have a connection with the environment you live in. This may be one of the most important connections because your home provides the foundation for living. As families grow and expand, so do their needs and lifestyles. Join us as we take you through this couple’s house, built to suit by Jordahl Custom Homes to accommodate their growing family and individual personalities.

I t’s the details in the home that make it truly unique as each homeowner adds their own personal touch to their individual

design. For the homeowners of this fabulous custom built home, it started with a modified floor plan. “We were looking for a layout that was conducive to entertaining, yet still keeping in mind our growing family. With the help of the interior designer and drafter at Jordahl Custom Homes, we were able to create just that!” said homeowners David & Nicole Rygh. This featured home has numerous custom additions which include modifying the kitchen island, creating a message center in the kitchen, and adding rustic elements to the interior, just to name a few. These details, and many more, helped this family design a home that would work for them for years to come. Looking closely at these details, the square kitchen island is a spacious

work area surfaced with a beautiful 5’ x 5’ granite slab. Adjacent to the island is a built-in message center with slots for mail, cubbies for keys and a corkboard for leaving notes. The couple leads very busy lives, especially with the recent birth of their little girl, so staying organized is a vital part of their routine. The message center offers the perfect solution for staying organized and keeping the kitchen counters clutter free. They also chose to incorporate rustic elements into their home such as a refurbished 100 year old wood beam used as a mantel above their fireplace. This particular piece was supplied by the homeowner, and with the help of the complimentary interior designer, was incorporated into the overall design of their space. Other

rustic elements include the weathered wood laminate flooring, knotty alder kitchen cabinets, and painted/distressed cabinet units. The half bath on the main level has a custom built painted vanity with distressed edges. In the kitchen, the center island is painted as well, enhancing the rustic charm of the open kitchen, dining and living areas. Other great features on the main level include a large mudroom, walk-in kitchen pantry, upper cabinets extended to the ceiling, custom lighting and oversized windows showcased throughout.

P ositioned at the top of the stairs on the second level is a unique design for a Jack-and-Jill bath. The cross vanities, with pull out stools, are a fresh and innovative approach to a traditional bathroom design. Wall sconces flank the sides of the mirrors adding a warm, soft glow to the space. Entering the shower area you see the stunning tile work continued throughout. As you move to the back of the house into the owner’s suite, spacious is the word that comes to mind, especially the bathroom and walkin closet. Featuring dual vanities, makeup counter, two countertop linen closets, and large custom tiled walk-in shower, this bathroom personifies beauty, comfort, and functionality. Just beyond the bathroom is a wide open walk-in closet equipped with custom shelving

including shoe organizers, drawers and ample hanging space. In addition to the owner’s suite, the second level has 3 bedrooms, 1 bathroom, laundry room, and linen storage.

With custom pieces and finishes, homeowner style and ideas, and the help of the Jordahl Custom Homes team, this couple built a home to match their growing family and expanding lifestyle.

If you are reaching the point in your life where change is needed and establishing yourself and your family in a new home and environment is your next step, we would welcome the opportunity to help you. Our complimentary sales and design teams, in-house drafting department and on site project managers, are here to guide you along the way and answer questions that arise as we build your custom home!

The Jordahl Custom Homes team is dedicated to helping build your ideal home while keeping a keen eye on your budget. Whether you are working with a Realtor or you prefer to work directly with our in-house sales team, we make sure you are informed and guided throughout the process. Stop by one of our homes during the Spring 2013 Parade of Homes April 27May 5. Visit www.jordahlcustomhomes.com or call 234-0404 or your favorite realtor to learn more about what Jordahl Custom Homes can do for you. [AWM]

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tips to Keep your Home Safe and Comfortable

When spring finally arrives, we are always eager to make plans that don’t require snow boots, mittens and shovels. It’s easy to get caught up in “cabin fever recovery” and forget our homes need some maintenance when the seasons change.

Kevin Wolf, president of Laney’s Plumbing, Heating, Cooling & Electrical in Fargo, recommends a few helpful tips for homeowners, including what you can do yourself and when to call a professional:

Make sure you know where the main shut off valves and switches are for the plumbing, electrical and gas systems. “When there are problems, it’s the first thing people say, ‘there’s a leak and water is running everywhere.’ If they knew where the valves were and how to turn them off, it would save a lot of damage and stress,” Wolf said.

Check the filters on your heating/cooling unit once a month and change or clean them according to the manufacturer’s recommended schedule. “A clean filter allows your furnace to breathe and operate more efficiently,” Wolf explained. “It also improves the indoor air quality, which is especially important for allergy sufferers.”

Have your heating / cooling unit serviced annually. They will run more efficiently, which will save money and reduce the need for repairs – and eliminate any safety concerns.

Have your air duct system checked for cleanliness and have it cleaned as needed. “Your air duct system is the source

of air moving throughout your home. Clean air ducts allow the air to flow without indoor contaminants, which is very beneficial for people with allergies,” Wolf said.

Install a programmable thermostat that will allow you to set back the temperature in your home while you are away or asleep. According to the national Energy Star program, a programmable thermostat can save you about $180 every year in energy costs, through proper use of pre-programmed settings.

Change the batteries in your smoke alarms and carbon monoxide detectors twice a year. Or if it’s a plug-in style, check the manufacturer’s guidelines as to when it needs to be replaced.

Have your sump pump system checked annually to make sure it’s operating properly. Hook up your outside sump pump hose and make sure it’s long enough to drain the water away from your house. If you have a sewer backflow valve, have it checked to make sure it’s operating properly.

“Laney’s Plumbing Stay Dry Program is an inspection of the sump pump and drainage systems in your home. We check your sump pump, both inside and out, proper flow of fixture drains, floor drains, and main sewer. We also check any backflow prevention valves, ensuring they work properly,” Wolf said.

Do not put materials such as hair, grease, lint, garbage, heavy tissue, disposable diapers or sanitary products into the sewer system, because they may clog the sewer line. “We get a lot of calls about sewer lines that are clogged with these items, and it’s an easy problem to avoid by following these guidelines,” Wolf said. “We use a sewer camera on each and every call to visually

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inspect the sewer line out to 200 feet. We can better inform the home owner if there are tree roots that will grow back, or whatever the problems might be.”

I nstall the appropriate humidification, dehumidification, or ventilation equipment to control the proper level of moisture in your home. This can help prevent problems like damp basements, condensation on windows, dried out wood, or static in the air. “It’s a common comfort issue,” Wolf said.“Too much or too little moisture in the air of their home.”

There are some things that must be done by a professional, and any electrical work falls in that category. If you have fuses blowing or breakers tripping, Wolf recommends having someone come out and check the safety of your electric panel. The same thing is true if you have an older home with exposed wiring. Home owners need to be aware of the condition of their electrical system.

Laney’s can be reached 24 hours a day at 701-237-0543 or at www. laneysinc.com. They are located at 55 South 27th St. in Fargo.

Riv E R s i D E R E t R E at

years of dreams and Ideas, concepts and constructIon, detaIls and desIgn have created a beautIful retreat on the rIver; a home for theIr famIly.

The custom-built rambler-plus in south Fargo by Plecity Kowalski Construction reflects the owners’ particular family needs and dreams. From the elevated roofline to the bonus room over the garages to the children’s secret playroom in the lower level, each element of the living space has been carefully designed and crafted to create a family space that is both practical and esthetically delightful.

Soaring wood-beamed vaulted ceilings and subtle gray walls greet visitors when entering this spectacular home. Handscraped wood flooring in engineered hickory creates an earthy-elegant foundation for the light, contemporary color scheme. Built-in cabinetry, painted white, line the wall separating the children’s suite from the great room and match the

white 4 ½” casings and three-panel doors. A gas fireplace in the center is topped by a trim wood mantle and a large flat panel television. All the sound and media in the home is controlled through a handy touch pad. The couches are covered in shimmering rain-gray fabric, with blue-gray contemporary side chairs. The youngest family member gleefully practices her crawling skills on the plush white area rug.

Facing the back yard, a light-filled sunroom is accessed through sliding glass doors. Four long windows overlook the fenced private back yard, and patio doors open to a maintenance-free deck. A gray leather sectional couch, accented with white and gray throw pillows, is an inviting place to relax.

From the great room, you have a wonderful view of the open kitchen and formal dining areas. White quartz embedded with silver flecks top the two-tier 5 x 12-foot

island, providing great prep space for meals and cabinet space below. Above, three large crackle-glass and nickel pendants create a well-lighted working area. “I wanted a big refrigerator and freezer,” admitted the owner, and she got both with oversize stainless steel wall refrigerator and freezer. A six-burner gas cook top has a custom wood-cased hood, blending into the rank of cabinets. Natural stone in shades of white create the backsplash.

Just before entering the dining area, there’s a large butler’s pantry with automatic on/off lights. Extra storage and prep space make entertaining both easy and tidy.

Built-in painted white cabinets line the wall of the formal dining area that overlooks the front yard. An accent wall has patterned wallpaper in cream and gray scrolls, while the chandelier above the table has a silver mesh shade, complementing the silver hammered decorative bowl on the sideboard.

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The Children’s Suite

“We wanted the kids on the same floor, but on the side of the house away from the garage,” explained the homeowner. PK Construction developed a charming suite area for the family’s youngest members, just to the left of the great room.

The first bedroom on the left is baby’s room, accented in cheery pink and white. Built-in cupboards line the wall under the window, and even include a window seat. All the bedrooms have walk-in closets. This one now holds tiny outfits, but is sized to accommodate the needs of a growing girl.

Connected to the bedroom is a Jackand-Jill bathroom with private sinks on either side. The girl’s side has a white scalloped-edge mirror above the cream and

brown granite countertop, complementing the ceramic flooring. A pullout step tucked into the cabinet base allows little people to reach the faucets. Separating the bath and toilet area on either side are pocket doors.

Next door, the boy’s room has chocolate-colored walls. It’s furnished with an antique cream dresser and sleigh bed, accented with a brown, blue and cream plaid quilt. Artwork in the room includes a large painting of a firetruck, which he helped his aunt paint.

Across the hall is the older girl’s room, overlooking the back yard. Bright aqua walls have crisp white accents in the bed linens and built in cabinets, again with a window seat. Alice in Wonderland artwork, from the Cheshire cat to Alice on a toadstool

to the Mad Hatter’s tea party, showcases the family’s artistic talents. To reduce morning chaos, this bedroom also has a separate bath, with white and aqua accents.

Master Suite

Down a short hallway from the kitchen area is the master bedroom. The king-size bed has a white duvet with gray throw. Soft gray walls and a gray zebrastripe carpet create a restful, quiet retreat for this busy couple. A little nook to the side holds a computer station where the owner can get up at night and respond to work messages without waking his spouse. Three undraped windows overlook the back yard.

A connecting door reveals the bathing

and dressing area, finished in gray ceramic tile, gray walls and white cabinets. A large freestanding tub with chrome Roman faucet is across from the toilet enclosure. Along the outside wall is the vanity area, with his-and-her sinks between the counter cabinets. Mirrors above each sink reflect the silver and crystal mini-chandeliers on either side. The countertop is white quartz with silver flecks, while the walk-in shower is lined with gray ceramic and glass accents. Pocket doors conceal a large walk-in closet and dressing room with shelves for shoes and accessories, plus double hanging racks for clothes.

Drop Zone and Bonus

An open doorway off the kitchen leads to another family-friendly feature: a drop zone for coats, laundry area, garage access and the stairs to the bonus room. The drop zone off the three-stall insulated garage has large easy-care slate tiles in rust and gray. Built-in coat cabinets have bench seating below, with storage underneath. To the side, a cabinet doubles as the mail drop and media center, complete with shredder.

Behind another pocket door is the laundry area. Cabinets above the appliances and laundry basket shelves under the counter on the side create a great space for daily chores.

The owners’ request for a bonus room for guests led PK Construction to design a suite over the garage that is separate from the rest of the home, but easily accessible. “My parents love it!” the owner enthused. The suite has a small sitting area, private bath and bedroom.

Downstairs

The 3,000-square-foot lower level is the family’s play space. Just to the left of the staircase is a bookcase that doubles as the “secret” door to the kids’ playroom. Little ones have their own entrance through a tunnel under the stair. Inside, all types of toys and play areas promise lots of fun times.

Tan frieze carpet is used throughout the lower level for warmth and comfort. On the south side is a smaller kitchen, with hickory-stained cabinets and brushed nickel hardware. The island has a blue and brown corian top. A flat-panel television in the kitchen ensures no one will miss the game.

Built-in cabinets line the media wall, with an oversize flat screen that captures all the action. Below, another gas fireplace adds a cozy touch. A linen-finish contemporary sectional plus two leather recliners ensure everyone has a seat for their favorite show.

On the right is the game room, geared now for young children, with space for a

future billiard or foosball table. Two French doors on the side of the family room close off a music room, where practice books line the piano top.

Down the hall, there’s a full bath on the left, next to the home gym, complete with treadmill and another flat screen television. Around the corner is a guest bedroom, with a cozy sleigh bed. Escape windows in the bedroom, gym and family room allow natural light throughout the lower level.

A quick peek into the mechanical room highlights the exceptional energy efficiency of the home with its geothermal heating system and high-efficiency appliances.

A Family Dream

The owners found the treed river lot in 2010, and started the design process with PK Construction. She credits the exceptional efforts of PK owners Jason Plecity and Tim Kowalski, both in creating a custom design for their family, and expertise throughout the building process. “We want to build the

dream for a family,” Plecity admitted. “We don’t just tweak an existing design, we build exactly what owners want. And because it’s our employees who are involved with every step of the process, we ensure the quality as well.”

Function and efficiency captured in a beautiful, spacious, hand-crafted design. Not just a custom house, but a wonderful riverside retreat for this growing family. Having lived in the home for just a few months, the owner is convinced, “There’s nothing I would do differently.” For PK Construction, it means they’ve succeeded in creating another family’s dream. [AWM]

For more information, please contact:

PK Construction

5919 53rd Avenue South Fargo, ND 58104

701-356-4001

Area Profiles

This edition of Area Profiles offers a glimpse at a variety of people in the F/M area. Start by getting to know the team at VISIONBank, read the story of MSUM marketing professor Ruth Lumb and her passion for China, discover a new way to get in shape at Red River Golden Gloves, and get an in-depth look at the people, the story and the vision behind Unseen Ministries.

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Dan Carey’s “VISION” and career-long dream was to start a new bank from scratch, to build it one account at a time and create an organization that was truly unique. To accomplish this dream, Carey knew he had to assemble a talented and dedicated team of professionals to carry out this mission. Ten short years later, VISIONBank is a thriving $140,000,000 community bank that has received an award from the Small Business Administration for three straight years for being one of the top lending institutions in North Dakota supporting small business. “We can identify with small business owners because we

started our bank like other small businesses ten years ago – we are just regular people trying to provide exceptional service and advice to our clients,” said Carey. “Our combined management team has over 100 years of banking experience.”

“We did not want to be a library bank,” said Brenda Jacobson, Vice President/RealEstate. “Our goal is for people to feel comfortable coming into our bank.” Jacobson is one of the 35 female employees at VISIONBank, and one of six in management, leaving the seven men — three of them managers — in the minority. The atmosphere of the bank reflects a homey, living room style featuring an inviting fireplace by the main entrance,

a grand piano, a fresh pot of coffee and a refrigerator stocked with refreshments for the clients. And there are frequent barbeques on Fridays throughout the year. “We want the bank to cater to our clients, to make them feel at home.”

Although atmosphere and refreshments are notable, what really makes VISIONBank stand out is the way they treat their clients. “It’s pretty rare that people walk in and I don’t know their name,” said Jennifer Arends, Client Service Representative. Arends is the first smiling face visitors will encounter at the bank located at 3000 25th Street South, Fargo and her goal is to make sure they want to come back. Arends is also the “Voice

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of VISION” when clients call the bank. In addition to the 25th Street branch, there is another branch located at 1321 21st Avenue North in Fargo.

“Although we aren’t a large, regional bank, it does not mean we lack the products, services and experience that clients are looking for,” said Kelli Simonson, Senior Vice President/CFO. “We are full service and compete well with all the big banks with similar products and services. We have a wide range of clients, large and small, and they are pleasantly impressed with the handson service.”

The best testament that this friendly, locally-owned bank can get the job done

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comes from their clients. Even in an age when privacy is closely guarded, clients like Carol Widman Kennedy, owner of Carol Widman’s Candy Co., was eager to offer her experience and long time relationship with VISIONBank.

“ The service is outstanding and the team at VISIONBank prides themselves at doing the best job they can for each and every customer – I have been with them since their inception and I wouldn’t think of leaving.” Widman Kennedy continues, “The care and respect they show their customers is refreshing and reminiscent of small town banking the way it used to be.” “There isn’t a better compliment than having another client refer someone to us,” said Amy Otterson, Vice President/

Commercial Lending/ Human Resources. “We’ve built so much of our business based on referrals.”

The strong level of client service at VISIONBank appears to be a direct result of a positive work environment and a culture that puts client satisfaction at the top with employee satisfaction a close second. “There is a strong commitment from the Board and senior management to take care of employees as well as their families,” said Otterson.

“We’re all working parents trying to juggle it all just like everyone else does,” says Tammy Askew, Vice President/North Bank Manager.

They may be the only bank in town that has a resident dog as well. Scout, a two

year old black lab, actually belongs to Carey, President of VISIONBank. Scout has been coming to work at the bank since she was a puppy and she can be tracked on Facebook and has her own tab on VISIONBank’s website. Scout is just one of the staff and has regular visitors who stop in to see her. She was even photographed for an upcoming issue of American Banker Magazine. “She’s up-staged us all,” Simonson said.

V ISIONBank will be celebrating its 10th Anniversary on April 21st, and the staff is busy planning events that will mark the occasion. Go to www.visionbanks.com for more information on their products, services and upcoming events. [AWM]

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WWhen most children are asked if they are “digging their way to China,” they simply laugh. When Ruth Lumb was asked this question, she answered yes. Although she never dug deep enough to get there, she visited China for the first time three decades ago and has traveled between continents regularly ever since.

L umb is a marketing professor at Minnesota State University Moorhead. Her major research interest is globalization and its effects on consumer values and attitudes. This research piqued her interest in world travel, and eventually her passion for China.

“ My interest in China began when I was at a conference in India and I was made aware of the differences in political ideology of China and Taiwan,” Lumb said. “I was curious why, and that’s when I became interested in the Chinese market.”

S ince then Lumb has returned to China at least once or twice each year, totaling more than 40 trips overseas. Although this adds up to quite a few frequent flier miles, she said the journey is well worth the trip to visit her “second home.”

“ It has been interesting to watch the Chinese market change so quickly throughout the past three decades. The attitudes of the people about markets and industry have completely changed now that the government has accepted a less socialistic approach to business,” Lumb said. “It’s exciting to be a part of that transformation.”

Writer: brittany dunnigan | photos: ande sailer

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L umb’s experiences in China were so inspiring that she wanted MSUM students to have the same opportunity. She has taken business students to China nearly every spring for the eight years she has taught at MSUM.

“ When I take students to China, it is by no means a drive-by tour. I give them what I call ‘hoofit’ time so they can be a part of the culture rather than a spectator of it. This is when they have an opportunity to walk the streets and talk with the locals. Then we meet up and tell our stories,” Lumb said. “It is so rewarding and I learn something new from my students every trip I take with them.”

L umb is also a bicontinental professor. She holds the rank of professor in the School of Management at Xi’an University of Science and Technology in Xi’an, China, where she teaches and conducts research with a research grant she received from the Chinese government. Last fall, Lumb taught classes in China for one month and arranged for MSUM students and students in China to work together on virtual teams. She continues that connection this spring, while MSUM’s School of Business looks at other virtual teaming opportunities.

L umb was also instrumental in developing the new Doing Business in China certificate program that will be available for both students and community members fall 2013. This program will consist of four classroom courses and an educational trip to China. It will focus on China’s worldview while exploring the country’s rich history, economy and culture, helping business professionals become familiar with the nation’s unique international business practices.

“ The world is getting smaller every day, which is why it’s important to learn about the world beyond our borders,” Lumb said. “Since China’s market is continuing to grow, it is important to understand its business objectives. That is why this program is going to be so beneficial.”

L umb has helped many MSUM students “dig their way to China,” and she looks forward to continuing this through the new certificate program. The sea is no barrier for Lumb; it is simply the street she must cross between her two homes. [AWM]

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Giving

thAt’s One Of the best PArts Of WhAt We dO; We get tO highlight the greAtest WOrk in the WOrld thrOugh sOMe truly WOnderful tAlent.

Previously, i was eager to care for those in need thousands of miles away. But was i ready to sacrifice to serve those closest to me?

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Writer: amy peterson | photos by: sKyloFt photography

I’ve learned it’s not my job to save the world, but to steward the gift God has given me.”

You could say it’s taken a lifetime for Tanya Martineau to learn this vital lesson. But that isn’t a bad thing. For Martineau, cofounder and associate director of Fargo-based Unseen Ministries, it is the people, places and experiences at all stages of her life that have brought her to this moment advocating for individuals that are being light in dark places.

Every story has a beginning.

For Martineau, that beginning was marked by the “molding and encouragement” of her family. “My parents raised me to believe that nothing is impossible with the Lord and we have the opportunity to make lasting change in this world,” Martineau said. The fourth of five children, Martineau spent the first 13 years of her life in Elbow Lake, Minnesota before her family moved to Fergus Falls. After graduating from high school, Martineau followed her growing passion for serving people to Peru where she lived for almost four months, traveling “from city to city with a team of 10, working with the locals to bring training, education, and encouragement to the local communities.” Though she had been on several mission trips in the past, Martineau credits her time in Peru with giving her a clear picture of what her future would hold. She was committed to serving those in need.

After leaving Peru, she enrolled at Minnesota State University Moorhead to pursue an art education degree. It was during her junior year at MSUM that her commitment to serving others became real in a way that she never expected. Her mother was diagnosed with stage 4 cancer. The initial outlook was so grim, doctors gave her three days to live and told her she wouldn’t leave the hospital.

Martineau shared, “After praying and putting our faith in God, we knew He had another plan for our mom. The next morning we were told our mom would not die in the hospital, could return home and was able to receive treatment. I knew my mom’s road ahead would be a battle that was bigger than she could bear alone. So, I took off college, moved home and fought the next ten months of cancer with her. At this point, I had dreams of traveling and ‘changing the world,’ but I knew the Lord was asking me to fight this battle with her.”

Martineau’s time in Peru had led her to a pursuit of serving those in need; her time at the bedside of her mother opened her eyes to what “bringing justice” really looked like. “Little did I know God was imparting values and lessons during those ten months that would be preparing me for what I would be doing in the future. Previously, I was eager to care for those in need thousands of miles away. But was I ready to sacrifice to serve those closest to me?” After a courageous ten-

month fight, Martineau’s mother passed away. “During that time, we had numerous people touched by my mom’s faith, strength and perseverance. They’d question how our family could be so immovable and strong during such a devastating time. We know our source of strength and joy only came from our faith.”

The Other Side of the World

Following her mother’s death, Martineau completed her degree in art education with an emphasis in photography and embarked on a journey that proved to be the catalyst for the work she is doing today. “I always had a desire to visit the country where my mom was from, but after she passed in 2009, my desire to experience her culture deepened. I moved to Korea in January of 2010. I lived in Asia for a year teaching and doing photography. While there I volunteered at a shelter that rescued women trafficked as prostitutes to Korea from other countries. I initially began counseling and befriending many of the girls. Hearing the stories of the pain, abuse and innocence striped from these girls broke my heart.”

While in Asia, Martineau experienced success as a photographer, at one point having the opportunity to work with one of Asia’s top wedding/fashion photographers. “There was a point in my life,” she said, “where this was probably one of my greatest dreams.”

At the same time, however, Martineau was also working with the director at the shelter to “bring awareness to the hidden issue of trafficking that Korea was experiencing. At the time, the shelter was only ten months old, so many people were unaware of the issue and the opportunity to help.”

“I went into the brothels and clubs and documented much of the hardships the girls faced,” Martineau recalled. “That month, the government wrote a book describing the signs and process of trafficking from the Philippines to Korea. Some of the images I took that night were published within that book which was distributed to all the embassies, police stations and non-governmental organizations in Korea. I saw the impact that an image can have. It has the power not only to bring awareness, but can change an organization, change policies and change thousands of lives.”

Her dreams of being a high-profile photographer seemed insignificant compared to the importance of telling the stories of those that go unnoticed. Having focused much of her photography up to that point on weddings, portraits and commercial work, Martineau now felt she couldn’t photograph things in the same way. “I became frustrated,” she said. “Through my travels I saw amazing people doing incredible work, but generating little to no awareness. How is it that the corporate

world has such quality media yet some of the greatest missions are left with nothing?”

Realizing a Dream

It was two years ago, while she was home from Korea for a few months for her sister’s wedding, that Martineau met Than Baardson after church one Sunday evening. “He asked what I was doing in Seoul and I told him about some of my photo projects with the trafficking shelter and orphanages. He said we had to talk since he had the same dream. Than, traveling as a broadcast journalist for the Air National Guard, had seen many of the same things I had encountered in Asia. With a background in journalism and film, Than knew the power of a well-told story.” And, as if that wasn’t enough to get the gears turning, Baardson shared that, “he’d also been praying and seeking the Lord for the past five years” with a dream to do something about what he had seen.

Baardson, a journalism/film major, said, “I grew up with a solid view of ‘others’ and the great work that is being done as people follow Jesus’ example and life. This was instilled in my growing up years as I traveled the country with my mission-focused parents and went on short-term trips with service groups and churches. This early exposure to mission work gave me a different way of viewing a career.

mission

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in today’s mediasaturated world, groups seeking to reach the lost and hurting need to be able to tell their story.

People, relationships and service have always taken priority.”

Following graduation from high school, Baardson joined the North Dakota Air National Guard, and has served with them for nine years. Though he originally joined as a firefighter, he is currently a photojournalist. He is part of the Air National Guard’s Public Affairs department, a role that Baardson said “gives me great freedom to explore my talents as a producer, director, editor, journalist, designer, narrator and more. The team at the 119th Air Guard in Fargo has been beyond supportive and continues to be a blessing to my wife and me.”

Having traveled to seven countries with the Air Guard, Baardson had seen that “the work we followers of Jesus have been called to do is being done; orphans are being cared for, the hungry are being fed and slaves of all sorts are being set free.”

Baardson went on to say, “This was a learning journey for me as my traditional view of what it meant to be a ‘missionary’ or work for a justice organization was being challenged. I saw that normal people were doing extraordinary things as a reaction to the radical calling placed on all of us.”

The beat of Martineau’s heart was to impact the world with the gifts she had been given. Meeting Baardson validated these desires. It was clear they needed to swap stories and see what God might be doing.

“So like many poor post-graduate students, we started off meeting at 7am at McDonald’s for their one-dollar coffee and free Wi-Fi because we couldn’t afford the price of the other coffee shops,” Martineau said. “The first couple months we prayed and asked the Lord, ‘What is our mission? How is this going to look?’”

Those early McDonald’s meetings added fuel to the fire that was already burning in each of their hearts the eagerness to use their gifts to tell the stories that so desperately needed to be told. But how? Their answer was to create “a media and marketing nonprofit whose main mission is to equip groups fighting human trafficking, ending hunger and supporting orphans with the tools and education they need to effectively communicate their message and continue their work.”

The mission statement on the Unseen Ministries website reads, “In today’s mediasaturated world, groups seeking to reach the lost and hurting need to be able to tell their story with the videos, writing, graphic design, photography and web content people respond to. Unfortunately, many cannot. Unseen Ministries is a global team of artists and visionaries who – by providing these tools – seek to bridge the gap between these ‘unseen’ missions groups and those who would support them.”

As the ministry has grown and developed, Baardson, who serves at executive director,

has gone from a strictly artistic/journalistic role to a communication and managerial position. While he still gets to be involved in the video and writing process, he is quick to give kudos to the exceptional artists that give their time and talents to further the work of the ministry. “That’s one of the best parts of what we do; we get to highlight the greatest work in the world through some truly wonderful talent.”

In addition to doing photography, Martineau said she spends time “working with our missionaries, screening new applicants, project management, working with current artists, volunteers and interns, speaking engagements, meeting supporters, and managing and coordinating trips overseas.”

Though the vision for Unseen Ministries started with them, Martineau and Baardson are just two of many people that are the hands and feet of the ministry. In the two years since their first meeting, the Unseen Ministries team has grown to include ten onsite interns and volunteers along with “artists from Philadephia, Texas, LA, Asia and right here in Fargo coming together to use our gifts to fight for justice,” Martineau said.

Vern Baardson, pastor at Triumph Lutheran Brethren and Than’s father, shared “God has given Than eyes to see some of the darkness and brokenness in our world and

the response has not been just to feel bad about that but rather to step into the fray and see how God would use Unseen to make a difference that lasts. In Micah 6:8 we read ‘And what does the Lord require of you but to do justice, to love kindness, and to walk humbly with your God?’ God’s call to us in not to just think about justice but ‘to do justice’ ... and that is what we see happening at Unseen Ministries.”

Looking Back and Dreaming Forward

Reflecting on the past year, Martineau shared one story about partnering with Help Save the Kids (HSTK), a ministry on the border of Thailand and Burma that exists to bring education, training, and inner development for those living in their area. “Without the team of HSTK, many of these children would otherwise be child soldiers or prostitutes. They are taking them from a life of despair and giving them freedom and hope,” Martineau said. When the team from Unseen first met the missionaries at HSTK it was clear they needed someone to help them raise awareness about the ministry they were doing among the children in that area.

“They were stuck financially,” Martineau remarked. “They had 34 more children coming in the fall and had no place to put

them. We came and documented what God was doing and put together a promo video and slideshow of images for them. They had the opportunity to come to the states and share what God was doing through their ministry with the media we produced for them. They printed off some of the images I took and one lady saw the images and on the spot sponsored 85 children. They went from a budget of $800 a month to $8,000! It’s exciting for us to see the work we are doing is having a direct influence on bringing God’s love and justice to these groups and these nations.”

With numerous groups around the world contacting them for help, Martineau and Baardson will have many opportunities to travel and meet with the individuals that are battling injustice on the front lines. Baardson said it this way, “God is doing surprising, humbling and great things through Unseen. As we move into the future, we’re seeing artists from around the world connect to this mission. We’re being approached by groups doing the world’s best work and have the chance to serve them in what we do best. We get to tell their story and set them up for success.” In this line of work, success isn’t determined by the amount of money in the bank, but in the joy and the sense of peace that can be seen on the faces of the men, women, and

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children that have been brought out of darkness through the work of the team at Unseen.

A verse of Scripture that has provided an anchor point for Martineau as she has sought to be faithful with the gifts she has been given is Isaiah 61:1-3.

“Arise, shine, for your light has come, and the glory of the Lord rises upon you. See, darkness covers the earth and thick darkness is over the peoples, but the Lord rises upon you and his glory appears over you. Nations will come to your light, and kings to the brightness of your dawn.”

“As I’ve traveled,” Martineau said, “I’ve seen that there is a lot of darkness. Yet as Than and the Unseen team has encountered, there is a lot of light. It’s exciting for us to see that God is doing such amazing work in individuals around the world. And it’s an honor for us to be a part of that.” [AWM]

Please visit Unseen Ministries website at www.unseenmin.org.

Farewell Adieu

You

musn’t be afraid to dream a little bigger, darling.