Unshakeable Confidence

By Self Love & Confidence Coach Kayla Marie

Self-Love: The Key to Unshakeable Confidence

I saw a quote on Instagram the other day that hit me like a gut punch. I stared at the screen and let it sink in a little bit before I reposted it. The black and white quote on my friend’s story read: “ONCE YOU START TO LOVE YOURSELF, IT DOESN'T MATTER WHO DOESN'T LOVE YOU” Judging by the engagements on that post, I’d say it hit a lot of people in a similar way. It made me think back to 4 years ago, after my identity shattering divorce, I ended up searching for self-love and confidence in many places. Selfdevelopment books, classes, retreats, over achievement and having a smaller body were my first choices, followed by Tinder, which was the least auspicious of them all.

I think everyone has a slightly different idea of what is going to make them confident.

Often we think it is our external circumstances that will determine how confident we are “allowed” to be. We assume that we will be confident when we have that perfectly toned and fit body, a successful business or career, the dream relationship, marriage or family, the big, beautiful home, etc. It is true that these things will bring you some level of confidence because they absolutely have their place in confidence building.

The problem starts when you rely on them too heavily because they can be taken away from you at any moment. You could get into a car accident and lose a limb, you could have circumstances beyond your control make the economy crash and your business fail (hello 2020), your spouse could leave or cheat, you could lose your job or your home. All of these external sources can be gone in the blink of an eye and at the end of the day, what are you left with?

YOU! What if you are the source?

Learning to love yourself on a deep level can bring you confidence you never imagined possible because when you can look in the mirror and you actually like the person staring back at you, you become unstoppable! What other people think no longer matters because YOU LOVE YOU!

Now, I am not talking about you becoming a narcissist, (a word that is thrown around like a hot potato these days). What I am talking about is truly believing that you are an amazing human being! That you are capable of so much more than you think, you came here to add value to the world and...

you are irrevocably, unconditionally, Always Enough!

That is honestly why I created my 6 week program “The Secrets to Self Confidence” so that you can discover what it takes to truly be confident. It is designed to help you work through self-doubt and judgment and create the confidence you crave. In the program you’ll create your very own confidence compass, which is the ultimate reference point to build the confidence and the life you truly desire every single day. The course is being delivered live starting on Feb 24th, 2021, so you will have time to ask me questions personally. Don’t worry if you’re reading this a little later, you can get on the waiting list for the next one! I want you to quit playing small and letting your insecurities stop you from making the impact you’re meant to make in the world. It’s time to quit caring what other people think and finally just feel free to BE YOU! You will Find links in the main magazine to learn more about The Secrets to Self Confidence Program

Just For You Have you ever looked in the mirror and not liked the reflection staring back at you? Do you want to finally feel more comfortable in your own skin? The Body Love Meditation is designed to quickly improve your body image by dissolving any judgments about your body. You will Find links in the main magazine for your Free Body Love Meditation

Kayla Marie is a Certified Access Bars Practitioner, Professional Photographer, and Self-Love & Confidence Coach for women. She’s passionate about empowering women to get out of judgment so they can show up & shine in their lives with purpose and passion. Her story of triumph over bullying, death, divorce, and poor body image has inspired many people around the world to experience the peace, joy & freedom that comes with true self-love and confidence.