S e l f -L o v e : T h e Key t o U n s h a k e a ble C o n f i den ce
I saw a
quote on Instagram the other day that h i t m e l i ke a gut punch. I By Self Love & Confidence stared at the Coach Kayla Marie screen and let it sink in a little bit before I reposted it. The black and white quote on my friend’s story read:
body were my first choices, followed by Tinder, which was the least auspicious of them all.
I think everyone has a slightly different idea of what is going to make them confident.
Judging by the engagements on that post, I’d say it hit a lot of people in a similar way.
Often we think it is our external circumstances that will determine how confident we are “allowed” to be. We assume that we will be confident when we have that perfectly toned and fit body, a successful business or career, the dream relationship, marriage or family, the big, beautiful home, etc.
It made me think back to 4 years ago, after my identity shattering divorce, I ended up searching for self-love and confidence in many places. Selfdevelopment books, classes, retreats, over achievement and having a smaller
It is true that these things will bring you some level of confidence because they absolutely have their place in confidence building. The problem starts when you rely on them too heavily because they can be taken away from
“ONCE YOU START TO LOVE YOURSELF, IT DOESN'T MATTER WHO DOESN'T LOVE YOU”
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Unshakeable Confidence
