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INSIDE THIS ISSUE President’s Message.................................. 2 Hineynu ....................................................... 3 Cantor’s Notes.......................................... 4 Israel Trip .................................................... 5 50th Anniversary ....................................... 6 Passover 5778 ............................................ 7 Q&A/CBS Staff........................................... 8 Social Action .............................................. 9 Youth/Young Family Programming….10 B’nai Mitzvah ............................................ 11 School ........................................................ 12 Library........................................................ 13 CBS U/Adult Education/HAZAK ........ 14 CBS High ................................................... 15 Sisterhood........................................... 16-17 Men’s Club .......................................... 18-19 Birthdays/Anniversaries ......................... 20 Milestones ................................................. 21 Yahrzeits ............................................. 22-23 Donations ........................................... 24-25 Ads ........................................................ 26-27 Service Times ........................................... 28

Rabbi ................................................... Aaron Melman Cantor ..................................................Steven Stoehr Assistant Rabbi ..................................... Ari Averbach Executive Director ............................ Michael Garlin Director of Jewish Life & Learning ................................................. Leann Blue Director of Education .......................... Stacy Ybarra Ritual Director ............. Cantor Raquel P. Gershon Director of Youth Activities................ Matt Rissien Controller ......................................... Susan Karlinsky President ......................................... Debbie Solomon Sisterhood President..........................Leatte Gelfeld Men’s Club President ................................. Dan Sher USY President ................................ David Zelkowitz

Rabbi Emeritus .......................................Carl Wolkin Executive Director Emeritus .................................... Harvey Gold, FSA z’l Director of Education Emeritus ................... Rabbi Sander J. Mussman, RJE

SHALOM INFO Shalom is published monthly by Congregation Beth Shalom, 3433 Walters, Northbrook, Illinois 60062-3298 for the exclusive use of its members and staff. All material contained herein is the property of Congregation Beth Shalom.

MARCH 2018 • VOLUME 59 ISSUE 59

MARCH 2018 • VOLUME 59 ISSUE 29

RABBI MELMAN’S MINUTES I have a confession to make. I didn’t always like to read. Especially in Junior High and High School, unless it was really interesting, I generally relied on the Coles Notes (the Canadian version of CliffsNotes – Coles was a bookstore in Canada). I definitely had trouble with Shakespeare but seemed to really enjoy the “American Classics” we read. However, it wasn’t really until my college years and the beginning of Rabbinical School that I developed a greater appreciation for the things I was reading. All of this serves as somewhat of a preamble to some thoughts I have been having while looking at the bookshelf in my office lately. People often ask me if I have read every book on the shelves. The simple answer is no. At least not in their entirety. I have probably used about ninety percent of the books I have. The other ten percent belonged to my late grandfather and an associate rabbi at my parents’ synagogue – who, sadly, had a stroke many years ago and could no longer function in his role. Over the last few weeks I have pulled from my shelves, Ramah at 60, a book written ten years ago to celebrate the sixtieth anniversary of Camp Ramah. I was rereading some of the history of the various Ramahs in North America. Just last week, I pulled out the late Stephen Covey’s The 7 Habits of Highly Effective People. I reminded myself of his first two habits, Be Proactive and Begin with the End in Mind. As we continue to celebrate Congregation Beth Shalom’s 50th Anniversary and continue to look toward the future, I continue to think about the vision I have for our future and the principles behind it. We also need to envision the various goals we have for our synagogue and then figure out the most effective way to achieve those goals. Along similar lines, Sid Schwarz’s Finding a Spiritual Home is another book I was looking at earlier this week. What does it mean for Beth Shalom to be peoples’ spiritual

home? How best can we help nourish the spiritual souls of our community? We know that synagogue affiliation in America today is down and despite that, our membership is strong. We cannot rest on our laurels, although it is not about revolution either. We don’t need to turn things upside down and “reinvent the wheel.” We simply need to continue to evolve as Jews who live in modern America while holding onto the values of Conservative Judaism that we cherish. We will continue to be creative and offer new ways for all of us to explore our Judaism and take pride in the spiritual home that we have built. Finally, although I didn’t look at my shelves for this book, it has been sitting on my desk for months and I keep reading it in small bits (although I hope to finish it before Pesach). Ron Lieber is the personal finance columnist for the New York Times. His bestseller, The Opposite of Spoiled is subtitled, Raising Kids Who Are Grounded, Generous, and Smart About Money. It has been a fascinating read especially as I raise two children of my own. And while some of you might say, “my children are adults, why should I read this?”, I think it has a message for everyone. The book talks about how to have an open and honest conversation about money with our children so that we can raise modest, patient, grounded young adults who, in his words, “are financially wise beyond their years.” It has been an inspiring road map and given me a lot to think about. As adults, we have the opportunity and, I would suggest, responsibility to model proper behavior for our own children and for young people around us – we have the ability to imprint lessons about what we value. What have you found inspirational? What books do you want people to know about? I encourage all of us to talk with those we come into contact with regularly and share thoughts about the books in which we find meaning.


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